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Oh?
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OK.
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Well, why aren't you upset?
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I mean, I am.
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But it's fine. You obviously
have your reasons.
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Do you want to
know what they are?
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I mean, if you don't think we
should keep seeing each other,
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I'm certainly not
going to force you.
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We've been seeing each
other for three months
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and you have never
once opened up to me.
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I do have a little
girl to consider.
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A little girl? She's 11.
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It was a big step for
me to start dating again.
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You're a grown man, aren't
you? Maybe it's time for you
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to put on your big-boy pants
and be emotionally available.
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There's a lot for me to
navigate, with regard to Emma.
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Oh. Thank you so
much for reminding me.
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Please don't be sarcastic.
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Can you please not
be a piece of shit?
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OK... um...
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Emma's in a really
fragile state right now.
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She keeps having these
full-on panic attacks.
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I'm not even sure if I
know how to stop them.
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Then I should talk
to her. I'm an empath.
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OK, are we ready to order?
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Does it look like
we're ready? Fuck off!
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You don't think I'd make
a good mother, do you?
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I'm the one
breaking up with you.
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Please don't take
this away from me.
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I'm sorry?
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- You're antiquated.
- I'm antiquated?
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You're old-fashioned, outdated.
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No, I know what the
term 'antiquated' means.
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You're a dinosaur.
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And do you know what
happened to the dinosaurs?
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- Mm-hm.
- A flaming meteor crashed into them
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and they died because
they weren't ready.
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Can anyone really
be ready for a meteor?
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Well, you're certainly not.
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And you're a three.
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- I'm a three?
- Mm-hm.
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Usually, I'm a seven.
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But when I'm with
you, I'm a nine.
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Emma would be sooo lucky
to have a mum who's a nine.
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Can you please
stop making a scene?
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Oh, my God! Stop trying
to control everything!
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You can't control everything!
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And traffic is starting
to back up on the A20.
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Now here's Tony
with the weather.
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Thanks, Karen. After a
chilly night of 7.5 degrees,
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Adelaide is in for
a sunny one today,
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with a high of 25
degrees in the city,
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while the lower
southeast Mt Lofty region...
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Hey, bubs.
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Gotta go.
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Em?
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Look, I know how tricky
today must be for you.
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- It is for me too...
- Dad!
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Right.
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Uh, I'll meet you
outside, then, OK?
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I don't need your help.
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We're not going
to make it in time.
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I was trying to get you out
of your room this morning-
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I had to finish Earth.
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Go that way.
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Bubs, we're better off staying
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- on the usual route, I'm telling you.
- It's not moving!
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Hey, over here!
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Emma, no.
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- Dad!
- No, no.
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- Stop.
- I said no.
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Dad!
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You gotta be kidding
me. It's too damn early.
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Hey, how are you?
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- We gotta go.
- Hope these sandwiches are OK. - Thank you.
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- Bye-bye.
- Thank you.
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You cannot do things like that.
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- He's homeless.
- I don't care.
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He could be dangerous.
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It is my job to keep you safe.
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- Hey! Are you calling?
- Somebody call an ambulance!
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No airbags. No airbags.
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Em?
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Em, it's me it's daddy.
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I'm here. You're OK.
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Hi. Are you OK?
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- She gets panic attacks.
- Yeah. OK. I get it.
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Look at me. Look at me. OK.
I just need you to look at me.
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There's something in her bag.
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Coming, Em! Coming, baby!
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Em! Em!
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Em! You're... OK.
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What did you say to her?
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What did you do?
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She hit your car.
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Oh, God.
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It's to stop me from
turning my head.
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- Does it hurt?
- Who is it, bubs?
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Um, hi.
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You gave me your
address, through insurance.
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I wanted to say sorry for...
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for wrecking your universe.
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I read it when I was
your age, and I loved it.
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You don't know my age.
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- 11?
- I'm 12 in two months.
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That's a thoughtful gesture.
What do you say, Em?
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No?
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You don't want to say anything?
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Well, at least she took it.
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Um... Do you want to...
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This is a complete
invasion of...
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I should not have... I
shouldn't have come here.
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What? No, no.
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Hey. Um...
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Hey! Hey!
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Uh... Hey!
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Wait up!
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What was your name, again?
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Mary.
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Would you, uh,
like a cup of Gary?
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Fuck.
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Tea.
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Would you like a
cup of tea, Mary?
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My name is Gary.
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Sure.
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How long have you
been in Australia?
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Uh, 12 years.
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That's Emma's mom.
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My ex-wife.
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She live far away?
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Uh, yes...
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I'm sorry. I don't know
why I said ex-wife.
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Um.
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She died.
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Oh.
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Cancer.
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Um, I'm sorry.
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Oh. Well, thank you.
We're used to it by now.
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As used to it as
you can be, I guess.
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- Uh, milk?
- Yeah.
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What was her name?
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Lisa.
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- Oh, shit.
- What?
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The book I gave her -
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the mom is dead and she
lives alone with her dad.
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Oh, God. Well, I wouldn't
worry about that too much.
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Well, then her dad dies
and leaves her all by herself.
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Mmm. She may
actually like that bit.
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Agh!
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- Are you OK?
- Uh, yeah.
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I just dropped the, uh... Damn!
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- Oh, that's a lot of blood.
- That is a lot of blood.
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I would put that under the tap.
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- I'm gonna go get a bandaid.
- I'll get you a bandaid.
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- OK. Sure.
- Tell me where to go.
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- It's, uh, just
down the hallway,
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and it's gonna be the
bathroom, last door on the right.
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OK.
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You said you knew where I was.
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After the accident.
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When I was scared.
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You said that you'd
been there too.
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Oh, I have. A bunch of times.
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Well, there's a lot of blood
coming out of your dad.
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I'm gonna stick some of
this... This is eucalyptus oil...
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It's gonna sting.
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- I'm sorry.
- Brave. Brave.
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Yeah. I'm gonna do
two. I'm gonna do two.
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- Mm-hm.
- I'll make it quick.
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- Mm-hm. Mm-hm. Mm-hm.
- Oh, gosh. Sorry.
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- It hurts a lot.
- Does it really?
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Yeah. I want to
pretend like it doesn't.
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What, uh, brought you here?
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Truthfully?
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Um...
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There was something
about your daughter.
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At the accident, I... I know this sounds
like a complete weirdo thing to s...
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I'm so sorry.
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I meant what brought
you to Australia?
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Oh.
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Idiot. Um...
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Uh... I... I wanted a change.
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Whereabouts in America?
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Chicago.
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Can't get more of a change
than Chicago to Adelaide.
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Mm-hm. You bet.
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Why did you choose Adelaide?
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Uh, I can work from anywhere.
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What do you do?
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I volunteer places. I
do stuff for charities.
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So I go to a nursing
home every day,
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I make and donate stuff.
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Oh. Did you mean
what do I do for a living?
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Oh, right, um...
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Uh, I give relationship
advice in a column.
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Wow! What kind of qualifications
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do you need for
something like that?
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Oh, I have an undergraduate
degree in psychology, um,
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but I don't really use it, um,
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well, I stopped pursuing
that when I got here,
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'cause it was really hard for
me to do the one-on-one stuff.
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How come?
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Um... Why did you come here?
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Lisa was Australian.
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Um, so we moved
when she was pregnant.
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And then, uh,
after she died, um...
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I just felt like I couldn't take
Emma away from Lisa's family.
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Felt like it would hurt her too
much to leave them behind.
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Emma? You OK?
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- Oh!
- Oh! God! W...
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- It's all over you!
- Oh, my gosh. I'm so sorry.
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I... I... You're
sorry? I'm sorry!
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- Have you got a tea towel?
- Yes.
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We are not good with mugs.
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Last time you're gonna
see mugs over here.
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Do you need anything
else? Like ice?
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Ice or anything?
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Mary!
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Mary.
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Are we really doing
this again? Are you OK?
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I just... I felt like...
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You know, I gave your daughter
an inappropriate book, and...
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Like I said, it's
seriously not a big deal.
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- But then I smashed one of your mugs.
- It's just a mug.
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- I just feel like I should go.
- It's just a mug.
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You'd already smashed a mug.
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Look, you, um,
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coming in to check on Emma
was a very thoughtful gesture.
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I did hit you both with my car.
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You did. And I am
planning on suing you.
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I've been struggling
a lot lately.
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Emma's got all sorts of issues.
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I don't, frankly, know
how to handle them.
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You speaking to her
after the accident, I...
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I don't know what
you said, but, um...
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I'm having a really hard time
articulating myself right now.
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Uh...
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Can I maybe take you
out to dinner tomorrow,
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to talk about her?
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Oh, I can't do that.
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Oh. I'm so sorry.
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I did not mean to
overstep my boundaries.
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No! No. I mean
I can't do dinner.
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Um...
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I could do lunch.
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Tomorrow?
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Sure. I could do lunch tomorrow.
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- Great.
- OK.
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Promise you won't
run away again?
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Uh, yeah, yeah. No, I
mean, I can't promise that.
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I don't know, between
work and Emma,
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I don't really feel like I
have much time for myself.
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- I get that.
- What about you?
255
00:15:50,138 --> 00:15:52,797
- Oh, I have lots of hobbies.
- Like?
256
00:15:52,898 --> 00:15:56,305
Well, I speak four
languages. I do topiary.
257
00:15:56,401 --> 00:15:58,223
Um, quilting and knitting.
258
00:15:58,324 --> 00:16:00,627
Pickling and pottery.
259
00:16:00,728 --> 00:16:02,910
I spent a full year
doing close-up magic
260
00:16:03,006 --> 00:16:04,730
to entertain at
the nursing home.
261
00:16:04,835 --> 00:16:06,691
Muay Thai.
262
00:16:06,792 --> 00:16:08,460
And I make cheese.
263
00:16:08,556 --> 00:16:10,295
You make topiaries?
264
00:16:10,396 --> 00:16:13,901
- Like, building things out of trees?
- Shrubs.
265
00:16:14,002 --> 00:16:16,057
Where do you even begin
to learn something like that?
266
00:16:16,081 --> 00:16:17,466
Online.
267
00:16:17,562 --> 00:16:19,562
Oh. This is it.
268
00:16:21,670 --> 00:16:22,963
It's amazing - it's been
run by the same family
269
00:16:22,987 --> 00:16:24,930
for the past 60 years.
270
00:16:25,035 --> 00:16:26,415
- Gianni, how are you?
- Hey, Gary!
271
00:16:26,516 --> 00:16:27,891
- How you doing?
- Good to see you.
272
00:16:27,992 --> 00:16:30,295
- Alfie, how are you?
- Table for two?
273
00:16:30,396 --> 00:16:31,540
I can't eat there.
274
00:16:31,641 --> 00:16:33,737
Uh, hang on a sec.
275
00:16:34,338 --> 00:16:36,798
Hey!
276
00:16:36,822 --> 00:16:38,819
- You don't like Italian food?
- Uh, I've got allergies.
277
00:16:38,843 --> 00:16:39,843
- I'm vegan.
- What to?
278
00:16:40,291 --> 00:16:42,146
Italian food.
279
00:16:42,170 --> 00:16:43,425
OK. I'm so sorry. I
wish I had checked...
280
00:16:43,449 --> 00:16:46,271
It's not your fault!
281
00:16:46,372 --> 00:16:47,256
Is it a gluten thing? They
have great gluten-free pizza.
282
00:16:47,338 --> 00:16:49,338
What about here?
283
00:17:21,370 --> 00:17:23,591
I haven't heard music
in a bar for 12 years.
284
00:17:23,694 --> 00:17:26,274
What are you talking about?
285
00:17:26,377 --> 00:17:28,759
I haven't been out in a
really, really, really long time.
286
00:17:28,855 --> 00:17:31,201
How's that even possible?
287
00:17:31,294 --> 00:17:32,060
I get why someone
like me hasn't been to...
288
00:17:32,143 --> 00:17:33,759
Do you dance?
289
00:17:33,865 --> 00:17:35,763
Uh, probably going to need to
290
00:17:35,865 --> 00:17:38,127
drink a lot more
before that can happen.
291
00:17:38,225 --> 00:17:40,230
- That was really expensive.
- Mmm.
292
00:17:41,194 --> 00:17:42,928
What music are you into?
293
00:17:43,031 --> 00:17:44,571
I don't listen to music.
294
00:17:44,672 --> 00:17:47,495
Why? No. Really?
295
00:17:47,598 --> 00:17:50,138
Do you know this
is Melody Gardot?
296
00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:52,740
Melody Gardot?
297
00:17:52,841 --> 00:17:54,502
- Wow.
- Oh, oh! Melody Gardot?
298
00:17:54,605 --> 00:17:57,185
- No, I don't.
- OK.
299
00:17:57,290 --> 00:18:00,707
Well, before Melody Gardot
was THIS Melody Gardot,
300
00:18:00,803 --> 00:18:03,031
she was actually...
More. ..hit by a car.
301
00:18:03,129 --> 00:18:05,669
She was in hospital for
a year, with memory loss.
302
00:18:05,772 --> 00:18:07,518
But there was this
physician who believed
303
00:18:07,611 --> 00:18:10,437
that he could heal her
brain through music.
304
00:18:10,538 --> 00:18:12,444
So he taught her to
hum and then to sing.
305
00:18:12,538 --> 00:18:14,361
And now here she is!
306
00:18:14,457 --> 00:18:17,288
And if she hadn't
been hit by that car,
307
00:18:17,384 --> 00:18:19,044
we wouldn't be
listening to that voice.
308
00:18:19,147 --> 00:18:23,129
That voice melts spines.
309
00:18:29,437 --> 00:18:32,223
Why don't you like music, Gary?
310
00:18:32,321 --> 00:18:34,743
Well, Mary, I like it.
311
00:18:34,841 --> 00:18:36,263
I just don't listen
to it anymore.
312
00:18:36,365 --> 00:18:39,868
Why?
313
00:18:39,966 --> 00:18:43,591
We had trouble settling
Emma when she was a baby.
314
00:18:43,694 --> 00:18:45,915
'Cause she would cry all
the time. We tried everything.
315
00:18:46,013 --> 00:18:48,196
And then one day we worked out
316
00:18:48,297 --> 00:18:50,040
the only thing that
would make her sleep...
317
00:18:50,134 --> 00:18:52,138
Was what?
318
00:18:54,502 --> 00:18:55,422
The only thing that
would make her sleep
319
00:18:55,502 --> 00:18:57,004
is when I would sing to her.
320
00:18:57,105 --> 00:18:58,685
Aw. What would you sing?
321
00:18:58,790 --> 00:19:00,009
Just a song.
322
00:19:00,105 --> 00:19:02,569
- Can I hear it?
- No.
323
00:19:02,669 --> 00:19:04,669
No, I haven't sung
that since she was little.
324
00:19:05,551 --> 00:19:07,377
- Come on, Gary.
- No.
325
00:19:07,475 --> 00:19:09,455
- Gary!
- No. No.
326
00:19:09,553 --> 00:19:11,223
- No, no, no.
- OK.
327
00:19:11,319 --> 00:19:13,819
What if the reason
we ended up here
328
00:19:13,919 --> 00:19:17,745
is so that you could sing again?
329
00:19:17,848 --> 00:19:20,466
The music stopped! You're
laughing, but it's meant to be!
330
00:19:20,569 --> 00:19:22,509
- Come on.
- It's not gonna happen.
331
00:19:22,609 --> 00:19:24,105
I'll cover my eyes. I'm not
even gonna look at you.
332
00:19:24,129 --> 00:19:25,428
Look, I'm looking at my hands.
333
00:19:25,533 --> 00:19:27,951
You can cover your entire body.
334
00:19:28,053 --> 00:19:30,236
- I don't want to sing right now.
- Come on, Gary.
335
00:19:30,332 --> 00:19:32,114
- My God.
- Do you want me to go under the table?
336
00:19:32,138 --> 00:19:33,778
No! Just... Stop
bringing attention to us.
337
00:19:33,859 --> 00:19:35,678
OK. Just do it. Really quietly.
338
00:19:35,783 --> 00:19:37,283
I'm not gonna judge you.
339
00:19:37,384 --> 00:19:39,384
Thanks, I appreciate that.
340
00:20:53,223 --> 00:20:55,223
That was beautiful.
341
00:20:57,826 --> 00:21:01,408
Clearly, it didn't work.
You're still awake.
342
00:21:01,509 --> 00:21:03,486
I think you should
sing it for her again.
343
00:21:03,589 --> 00:21:05,207
Fuck, no. She would hate that.
344
00:21:05,310 --> 00:21:07,332
No, I bet she wouldn't.
345
00:21:07,428 --> 00:21:09,435
You don't know my daughter.
346
00:21:13,437 --> 00:21:16,143
- You said...
- Hey, no, no, no.
347
00:21:16,236 --> 00:21:19,466
The secret to the
answer is in the questions.
348
00:21:19,569 --> 00:21:22,348
You find out what it is
that THEY want to do,
349
00:21:22,446 --> 00:21:25,393
then you advise them to do it.
350
00:21:25,486 --> 00:21:26,507
But, then, sometimes, I honestly
have to make up the question,
351
00:21:26,531 --> 00:21:27,993
because it's so boring.
352
00:21:28,098 --> 00:21:29,955
- You make them up?
- Mmm.
353
00:21:30,053 --> 00:21:32,053
- Isn't that against the law?
- No.
354
00:21:33,980 --> 00:21:37,042
OK.
355
00:21:37,143 --> 00:21:40,406
I just kind of draw on my,
um, life experience, I guess.
356
00:21:40,504 --> 00:21:42,081
Give me an example. You've
got to give me an example.
357
00:21:42,105 --> 00:21:44,326
OK. Dear Adelaide...
358
00:21:44,428 --> 00:21:45,893
- Adelaide?
- Adelaide.
359
00:21:45,990 --> 00:21:48,897
Dear Adelaide, I, um,
360
00:21:48,995 --> 00:21:52,216
I feel like I'm doing
a bad job as a dad,
361
00:21:52,319 --> 00:21:55,060
and my little girl has trouble
telling me what she needs.
362
00:21:55,165 --> 00:21:57,899
So I try to make everything
perfect around her,
363
00:21:58,002 --> 00:22:00,069
but it doesn't seem
to make her happy.
364
00:22:00,163 --> 00:22:01,582
And I don't know what to do.
365
00:22:01,687 --> 00:22:03,105
Sincerely, G.
366
00:22:05,531 --> 00:22:06,428
I can relate. Go on.
367
00:22:06,531 --> 00:22:09,076
Dear G,
368
00:22:09,169 --> 00:22:10,869
you say you're trying to
make everything perfect,
369
00:22:10,893 --> 00:22:13,723
but perfect doesn't exist.
370
00:22:13,819 --> 00:22:17,801
Perfect's the armour we wear to
stop ourselves from being seen.
371
00:22:17,899 --> 00:22:19,875
And maybe it's the thing
that's stopping your little girl
372
00:22:19,899 --> 00:22:22,926
from seeing you and
feeling close to you.
373
00:22:23,024 --> 00:22:25,129
Maybe you should run
towards imperfections,
374
00:22:25,230 --> 00:22:31,538
and laugh and cry
and dance, sing.
375
00:22:31,634 --> 00:22:33,297
Get messy.
376
00:22:33,397 --> 00:22:36,060
Messy's good.
377
00:22:36,165 --> 00:22:38,165
Break yourself open -
it's how the light gets in.
378
00:22:39,399 --> 00:22:41,406
Always, Adelaide.
379
00:22:45,129 --> 00:22:46,509
When did you come
up with that one?
380
00:22:46,615 --> 00:22:49,428
Right now.
381
00:22:49,533 --> 00:22:51,148
I'm trying to get you
to sing to your kid.
382
00:22:51,172 --> 00:22:53,598
Right...
383
00:22:53,701 --> 00:22:56,759
Can I ask, um...
384
00:22:56,865 --> 00:23:00,725
what you did in
the car for Emma?
385
00:23:00,826 --> 00:23:02,826
I could see she
was scared in there.
386
00:23:03,986 --> 00:23:06,413
She's done that before.
387
00:23:06,509 --> 00:23:09,576
It's like she's built this
fortress around herself,
388
00:23:09,669 --> 00:23:11,669
so that nothing can hurt her.
389
00:23:12,759 --> 00:23:14,759
I'm doing everything I can.
390
00:23:19,399 --> 00:23:21,504
I get scared sometimes.
391
00:23:21,605 --> 00:23:23,605
Scared of what?
392
00:23:25,973 --> 00:23:28,509
Somehow I caused all of this.
393
00:23:28,611 --> 00:23:31,794
After Lisa died, I spiralled.
394
00:23:31,893 --> 00:23:33,397
Emma was four.
395
00:23:33,502 --> 00:23:36,560
And, um...
396
00:23:36,665 --> 00:23:40,042
Took me years before I felt
like I could be her dad again.
397
00:23:40,143 --> 00:23:42,205
I know it probably
doesn't feel this way,
398
00:23:42,303 --> 00:23:44,081
but you're already doing
the best thing for her.
399
00:23:44,105 --> 00:23:46,649
You're present.
400
00:23:46,752 --> 00:23:50,214
And she may be pushing
you away, but you're there.
401
00:23:50,312 --> 00:23:52,415
I mean, that kind of
stability is so rare, Gary.
402
00:23:52,518 --> 00:23:55,379
It's... It's fucking priceless.
403
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,502
I can't believe I just
unloaded all that on you.
404
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,826
- I'm sorry. I am so sorry.
- No! No. No, it's OK.
405
00:23:59,922 --> 00:24:01,139
- I'm an advice columnist.
- Oh, God.
406
00:24:01,163 --> 00:24:03,707
- That's fine.
- You know what?
407
00:24:03,803 --> 00:24:05,303
I help everybody
with their problems.
408
00:24:05,408 --> 00:24:08,312
- You know what, Mary?
- What?
409
00:24:08,413 --> 00:24:10,634
I'm not gonna sue you anymore.
410
00:24:10,734 --> 00:24:11,831
No, I promise. I'm gonna
call my lawyer tomorrow.
411
00:24:11,855 --> 00:24:13,917
I just...
412
00:24:14,018 --> 00:24:15,029
I can't believe I'm
giving anyone advice.
413
00:24:15,053 --> 00:24:17,801
My life is a mess.
414
00:24:22,906 --> 00:24:24,908
Messy is good.
415
00:24:35,274 --> 00:24:37,281
Who put on that song?
416
00:24:39,243 --> 00:24:42,745
- I don't know.
- Did you just put on the song?
417
00:24:42,848 --> 00:24:44,790
I've been sitting here with you.
418
00:24:44,884 --> 00:24:46,707
Um, I need to go.
419
00:24:46,810 --> 00:24:48,350
Did I do something wrong?
420
00:24:48,451 --> 00:24:50,951
No, I just feel
like this is, um...
421
00:24:51,053 --> 00:24:53,995
I shouldn't have put
myself in this situation.
422
00:24:54,098 --> 00:24:56,738
- What situation?
- I haven't day-drunk in a really long time, so...
423
00:24:56,821 --> 00:24:58,841
I don't think it's day anymore.
424
00:24:58,944 --> 00:25:00,279
- Really? What time is it?
- After 6.
425
00:25:00,303 --> 00:25:02,303
Oh, fuck!
426
00:25:15,917 --> 00:25:18,419
Dear Adelaide,
427
00:25:18,522 --> 00:25:20,944
I've been alone for
a really long time.
428
00:25:21,042 --> 00:25:23,466
A boy has appeared and
made himself vulnerable to me.
429
00:25:23,569 --> 00:25:25,384
He has made me question
430
00:25:25,486 --> 00:25:27,913
why I've chosen to
live a certain way.
431
00:25:28,009 --> 00:25:29,877
I feel like I'm
running from my past,
432
00:25:29,973 --> 00:25:32,716
and I can never
reveal who I really am.
433
00:25:32,819 --> 00:25:34,832
I've been badly hurt.
434
00:25:34,937 --> 00:25:38,359
I feel lost, and I
don't deserve love.
435
00:25:38,457 --> 00:25:41,201
How do you know when
that person is the right one?
436
00:25:41,303 --> 00:25:43,303
Sincerely, M.
437
00:25:45,790 --> 00:25:49,051
Dear M, thank you for writing.
438
00:25:49,149 --> 00:25:51,734
Losing yourself - I'm
not going to sugar-coat it -
439
00:25:51,832 --> 00:25:54,819
that's the worst
thing you can do.
440
00:25:54,917 --> 00:25:57,658
Don't stop believing
in who you are.
441
00:25:57,759 --> 00:25:59,301
It's one thing to know that
442
00:25:59,399 --> 00:26:01,504
kindness and
vulnerability matter,
443
00:26:01,605 --> 00:26:05,667
but the first person you
need to be kind to is you.
444
00:26:05,768 --> 00:26:09,230
We're all feeling our
way through the dark.
445
00:26:09,330 --> 00:26:12,234
Stop running in circles.
446
00:26:12,332 --> 00:26:14,913
Stop running from yourself,
447
00:26:15,018 --> 00:26:16,518
and start running to the light.
448
00:26:16,618 --> 00:26:18,759
Oh, fuck!
449
00:26:18,859 --> 00:26:22,605
Don't lose track of your heart.
450
00:26:22,701 --> 00:26:27,569
It's the only thing
that's keeping you going.
451
00:26:27,669 --> 00:26:30,091
And remember, you
don't get what you need
452
00:26:30,194 --> 00:26:33,134
until you're brave enough
to admit that you need it.
453
00:26:33,234 --> 00:26:35,937
Jump in head-first
and fight for it -
454
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:37,375
even if it means
fighting for yourself.
455
00:26:37,399 --> 00:26:39,399
Fuck!
456
00:26:40,957 --> 00:26:42,783
How do you know that
457
00:26:42,884 --> 00:26:45,024
this person is the
right one for you?
458
00:26:45,127 --> 00:26:47,348
You won't know unless
you open the door
459
00:26:47,451 --> 00:26:49,451
to the possibility that you
do deserve to be loved.
460
00:26:49,490 --> 00:26:52,312
Agh!
461
00:26:52,415 --> 00:26:55,437
Strip away the layers
and break yourself open.
462
00:26:55,540 --> 00:26:58,399
That's how the light gets in.
463
00:26:58,502 --> 00:26:59,942
Don't lock yourself
in your basement.
464
00:27:03,419 --> 00:27:05,426
Always, Adelaide.
464
00:27:06,305 --> 00:28:06,404
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