1 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:12,074 Support us and become VIP member to remove all ads from www.OpenSubtitles.org 2 00:00:29,985 --> 00:00:31,963 Oh? 3 00:00:31,987 --> 00:00:33,989 OK. 4 00:00:36,042 --> 00:00:37,343 Well, why aren't you upset? 5 00:00:37,993 --> 00:00:40,256 I mean, I am. 6 00:00:40,356 --> 00:00:44,696 But it's fine. You obviously have your reasons. 7 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:48,220 Do you want to know what they are? 8 00:00:48,244 --> 00:00:50,122 I mean, if you don't think we should keep seeing each other, 9 00:00:50,146 --> 00:00:51,984 I'm certainly not going to force you. 10 00:00:52,008 --> 00:00:53,586 We've been seeing each other for three months 11 00:00:53,610 --> 00:00:57,428 and you have never once opened up to me. 12 00:00:57,452 --> 00:00:58,311 I do have a little girl to consider. 13 00:00:58,335 --> 00:01:01,738 A little girl? She's 11. 14 00:01:02,338 --> 00:01:05,157 It was a big step for me to start dating again. 15 00:01:05,181 --> 00:01:07,079 You're a grown man, aren't you? Maybe it's time for you 16 00:01:07,103 --> 00:01:09,486 to put on your big-boy pants and be emotionally available. 17 00:01:09,986 --> 00:01:13,645 There's a lot for me to navigate, with regard to Emma. 18 00:01:13,669 --> 00:01:17,018 Oh. Thank you so much for reminding me. 19 00:01:17,042 --> 00:01:18,290 Please don't be sarcastic. 20 00:01:18,314 --> 00:01:20,219 Can you please not be a piece of shit? 21 00:01:20,243 --> 00:01:21,974 OK... um... 22 00:01:21,998 --> 00:01:25,457 Emma's in a really fragile state right now. 23 00:01:25,481 --> 00:01:28,060 She keeps having these full-on panic attacks. 24 00:01:28,084 --> 00:01:30,222 I'm not even sure if I know how to stop them. 25 00:01:30,246 --> 00:01:34,265 Then I should talk to her. I'm an empath. 26 00:01:34,289 --> 00:01:36,019 OK, are we ready to order? 27 00:01:36,043 --> 00:01:38,045 Does it look like we're ready? Fuck off! 28 00:01:42,578 --> 00:01:44,580 You don't think I'd make a good mother, do you? 29 00:01:49,545 --> 00:01:51,243 I'm the one breaking up with you. 30 00:01:51,267 --> 00:01:52,604 Please don't take this away from me. 31 00:01:52,628 --> 00:01:54,890 I'm sorry? 32 00:01:54,990 --> 00:01:56,328 - You're antiquated. - I'm antiquated? 33 00:01:56,352 --> 00:01:58,614 You're old-fashioned, outdated. 34 00:01:58,713 --> 00:02:00,351 No, I know what the term 'antiquated' means. 35 00:02:00,375 --> 00:02:02,814 You're a dinosaur. 36 00:02:02,838 --> 00:02:04,860 And do you know what happened to the dinosaurs? 37 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:08,103 - Mm-hm. - A flaming meteor crashed into them 38 00:02:08,203 --> 00:02:11,146 and they died because they weren't ready. 39 00:02:11,246 --> 00:02:13,168 Can anyone really be ready for a meteor? 40 00:02:13,268 --> 00:02:15,569 Well, you're certainly not. 41 00:02:16,030 --> 00:02:17,252 And you're a three. 42 00:02:17,352 --> 00:02:18,813 - I'm a three? - Mm-hm. 43 00:02:18,913 --> 00:02:20,595 Usually, I'm a seven. 44 00:02:20,695 --> 00:02:22,697 But when I'm with you, I'm a nine. 45 00:02:25,359 --> 00:02:29,184 Emma would be sooo lucky to have a mum who's a nine. 46 00:02:29,283 --> 00:02:30,921 Can you please stop making a scene? 47 00:02:30,945 --> 00:02:33,089 Oh, my God! Stop trying to control everything! 48 00:02:33,487 --> 00:02:35,489 You can't control everything! 49 00:02:40,876 --> 00:02:43,256 And traffic is starting to back up on the A20. 50 00:02:43,357 --> 00:02:44,978 Now here's Tony with the weather. 51 00:02:45,077 --> 00:02:48,262 Thanks, Karen. After a chilly night of 7.5 degrees, 52 00:02:48,363 --> 00:02:50,383 Adelaide is in for a sunny one today, 53 00:02:50,482 --> 00:02:53,027 with a high of 25 degrees in the city, 54 00:02:53,126 --> 00:02:55,349 while the lower southeast Mt Lofty region... 55 00:03:09,220 --> 00:03:11,744 Hey, bubs. 56 00:03:11,845 --> 00:03:13,695 Gotta go. 57 00:03:13,794 --> 00:03:15,218 Em? 58 00:03:15,316 --> 00:03:17,420 Look, I know how tricky today must be for you. 59 00:03:17,519 --> 00:03:20,202 - It is for me too... - Dad! 60 00:03:20,299 --> 00:03:22,745 Right. 61 00:03:22,844 --> 00:03:24,644 Uh, I'll meet you outside, then, OK? 62 00:03:37,178 --> 00:03:39,178 I don't need your help. 63 00:04:00,143 --> 00:04:02,604 We're not going to make it in time. 64 00:04:02,705 --> 00:04:04,442 I was trying to get you out of your room this morning- 65 00:04:04,466 --> 00:04:06,466 I had to finish Earth. 66 00:04:10,991 --> 00:04:12,655 Go that way. 67 00:04:12,756 --> 00:04:13,768 Bubs, we're better off staying 68 00:04:13,792 --> 00:04:16,032 - on the usual route, I'm telling you. - It's not moving! 69 00:04:45,695 --> 00:04:47,696 Hey, over here! 70 00:04:49,940 --> 00:04:51,084 Emma, no. 71 00:04:51,176 --> 00:04:52,350 - Dad! - No, no. 72 00:04:52,451 --> 00:04:53,028 - Stop. - I said no. 73 00:04:53,129 --> 00:04:54,372 Dad! 74 00:04:54,473 --> 00:04:57,673 You gotta be kidding me. It's too damn early. 75 00:04:57,718 --> 00:04:59,732 Hey, how are you? 76 00:04:59,756 --> 00:05:02,197 - We gotta go. - Hope these sandwiches are OK. - Thank you. 77 00:05:02,221 --> 00:05:04,364 - Bye-bye. - Thank you. 78 00:05:05,165 --> 00:05:06,425 You cannot do things like that. 79 00:05:06,521 --> 00:05:07,824 - He's homeless. - I don't care. 80 00:05:07,925 --> 00:05:09,305 He could be dangerous. 81 00:05:09,406 --> 00:05:11,406 It is my job to keep you safe. 82 00:05:44,038 --> 00:05:46,118 - Hey! Are you calling? - Somebody call an ambulance! 83 00:05:48,047 --> 00:05:49,826 No airbags. No airbags. 84 00:05:51,127 --> 00:05:52,550 Em? 85 00:05:52,646 --> 00:05:55,117 Em, it's me it's daddy. 86 00:05:55,213 --> 00:05:56,954 I'm here. You're OK. 87 00:05:57,059 --> 00:05:59,115 Hi. Are you OK? 88 00:05:59,139 --> 00:06:01,241 - She gets panic attacks. - Yeah. OK. I get it. 89 00:06:02,242 --> 00:06:04,276 Look at me. Look at me. OK. I just need you to look at me. 90 00:06:04,300 --> 00:06:06,300 There's something in her bag. 91 00:06:14,795 --> 00:06:16,795 Coming, Em! Coming, baby! 92 00:06:19,156 --> 00:06:21,242 Em! Em! 93 00:06:24,886 --> 00:06:27,002 Em! You're... OK. 94 00:06:33,934 --> 00:06:35,934 What did you say to her? 95 00:06:36,853 --> 00:06:39,353 What did you do? 96 00:06:39,454 --> 00:06:41,463 She hit your car. 97 00:07:30,026 --> 00:07:32,492 Oh, God. 98 00:07:32,593 --> 00:07:34,771 It's to stop me from turning my head. 99 00:07:34,872 --> 00:07:36,872 - Does it hurt? - Who is it, bubs? 100 00:07:38,117 --> 00:07:41,021 Um, hi. 101 00:07:41,122 --> 00:07:43,098 You gave me your address, through insurance. 102 00:07:43,199 --> 00:07:45,901 I wanted to say sorry for... 103 00:07:46,002 --> 00:07:47,685 for wrecking your universe. 104 00:07:47,709 --> 00:07:49,509 I read it when I was your age, and I loved it. 105 00:07:50,002 --> 00:07:51,702 You don't know my age. 106 00:07:51,726 --> 00:07:54,515 - 11? - I'm 12 in two months. 107 00:07:55,011 --> 00:07:57,237 That's a thoughtful gesture. What do you say, Em? 108 00:07:57,338 --> 00:07:59,160 No? 109 00:07:59,252 --> 00:08:01,396 You don't want to say anything? 110 00:08:01,498 --> 00:08:03,564 Well, at least she took it. 111 00:08:03,656 --> 00:08:05,401 Um... Do you want to... 112 00:08:05,502 --> 00:08:07,646 This is a complete invasion of... 113 00:08:07,747 --> 00:08:09,627 I should not have... I shouldn't have come here. 114 00:08:09,670 --> 00:08:10,925 What? No, no. 115 00:08:11,026 --> 00:08:13,127 Hey. Um... 116 00:08:13,228 --> 00:08:15,228 Hey! Hey! 117 00:08:18,439 --> 00:08:20,699 Uh... Hey! 118 00:08:20,796 --> 00:08:22,776 Wait up! 119 00:08:22,877 --> 00:08:24,877 What was your name, again? 120 00:08:29,088 --> 00:08:31,348 Mary. 121 00:08:31,449 --> 00:08:33,772 Would you, uh, like a cup of Gary? 122 00:08:33,796 --> 00:08:35,019 Fuck. 123 00:08:35,043 --> 00:08:35,701 Tea. 124 00:08:35,869 --> 00:08:37,929 Would you like a cup of tea, Mary? 125 00:08:38,531 --> 00:08:40,531 My name is Gary. 126 00:08:42,179 --> 00:08:44,179 Sure. 127 00:08:48,043 --> 00:08:49,466 How long have you been in Australia? 128 00:08:50,064 --> 00:08:52,064 Uh, 12 years. 129 00:08:57,429 --> 00:08:59,054 That's Emma's mom. 130 00:08:59,154 --> 00:09:01,651 My ex-wife. 131 00:09:01,754 --> 00:09:03,612 She live far away? 132 00:09:03,715 --> 00:09:06,434 Uh, yes... 133 00:09:06,458 --> 00:09:08,321 I'm sorry. I don't know why I said ex-wife. 134 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:10,542 Um. 135 00:09:10,641 --> 00:09:12,064 She died. 136 00:09:12,167 --> 00:09:13,785 Oh. 137 00:09:14,388 --> 00:09:15,982 Cancer. 138 00:09:16,006 --> 00:09:18,305 Um, I'm sorry. 139 00:09:18,329 --> 00:09:20,555 Oh. Well, thank you. We're used to it by now. 140 00:09:20,579 --> 00:09:22,019 As used to it as you can be, I guess. 141 00:09:23,179 --> 00:09:25,179 - Uh, milk? - Yeah. 142 00:09:26,619 --> 00:09:27,881 What was her name? 143 00:09:27,975 --> 00:09:29,881 Lisa. 144 00:09:29,984 --> 00:09:31,920 - Oh, shit. - What? 145 00:09:32,029 --> 00:09:33,583 The book I gave her - 146 00:09:33,607 --> 00:09:36,587 the mom is dead and she lives alone with her dad. 147 00:09:36,611 --> 00:09:39,019 Oh, God. Well, I wouldn't worry about that too much. 148 00:09:39,043 --> 00:09:41,163 Well, then her dad dies and leaves her all by herself. 149 00:09:42,043 --> 00:09:44,050 Mmm. She may actually like that bit. 150 00:09:47,237 --> 00:09:48,781 Agh! 151 00:09:48,881 --> 00:09:50,504 - Are you OK? - Uh, yeah. 152 00:09:50,602 --> 00:09:52,559 I just dropped the, uh... Damn! 153 00:09:52,583 --> 00:09:54,703 - Oh, that's a lot of blood. - That is a lot of blood. 154 00:09:54,727 --> 00:09:56,244 I would put that under the tap. 155 00:09:56,268 --> 00:09:57,519 - I'm gonna go get a bandaid. - I'll get you a bandaid. 156 00:09:57,543 --> 00:09:59,026 - OK. Sure. - Tell me where to go. 157 00:09:59,050 --> 00:10:01,249 - It's, uh, just down the hallway, 158 00:10:01,273 --> 00:10:03,153 and it's gonna be the bathroom, last door on the right. 159 00:10:03,177 --> 00:10:05,177 OK. 160 00:10:21,231 --> 00:10:23,231 You said you knew where I was. 161 00:10:24,554 --> 00:10:26,458 After the accident. 162 00:10:26,554 --> 00:10:27,843 When I was scared. 163 00:10:27,875 --> 00:10:30,500 You said that you'd been there too. 164 00:10:31,204 --> 00:10:33,204 Oh, I have. A bunch of times. 165 00:10:39,043 --> 00:10:41,083 Well, there's a lot of blood coming out of your dad. 166 00:10:52,086 --> 00:10:54,326 I'm gonna stick some of this... This is eucalyptus oil... 167 00:10:57,910 --> 00:10:59,372 It's gonna sting. 168 00:10:59,468 --> 00:11:00,946 - I'm sorry. - Brave. Brave. 169 00:11:00,970 --> 00:11:02,570 Yeah. I'm gonna do two. I'm gonna do two. 170 00:11:03,151 --> 00:11:05,009 - Mm-hm. - I'll make it quick. 171 00:11:05,033 --> 00:11:07,019 - Mm-hm. Mm-hm. Mm-hm. - Oh, gosh. Sorry. 172 00:11:07,043 --> 00:11:08,504 - It hurts a lot. - Does it really? 173 00:11:08,539 --> 00:11:10,539 Yeah. I want to pretend like it doesn't. 174 00:11:14,888 --> 00:11:16,888 What, uh, brought you here? 175 00:11:19,929 --> 00:11:21,670 Truthfully? 176 00:11:21,773 --> 00:11:23,779 Um... 177 00:11:26,417 --> 00:11:28,339 There was something about your daughter. 178 00:11:28,363 --> 00:11:31,757 At the accident, I... I know this sounds like a complete weirdo thing to s... 179 00:11:31,781 --> 00:11:33,161 I'm so sorry. 180 00:11:33,185 --> 00:11:35,738 I meant what brought you to Australia? 181 00:11:35,762 --> 00:11:36,928 Oh. 182 00:11:36,952 --> 00:11:39,128 Idiot. Um... 183 00:11:39,152 --> 00:11:42,412 Uh... I... I wanted a change. 184 00:11:42,910 --> 00:11:45,379 Whereabouts in America? 185 00:11:45,477 --> 00:11:47,619 Chicago. 186 00:11:47,718 --> 00:11:49,758 Can't get more of a change than Chicago to Adelaide. 187 00:11:50,139 --> 00:11:52,841 Mm-hm. You bet. 188 00:11:53,244 --> 00:11:56,028 Why did you choose Adelaide? 189 00:11:56,052 --> 00:11:58,984 Uh, I can work from anywhere. 190 00:11:59,008 --> 00:11:59,906 What do you do? 191 00:11:59,930 --> 00:12:02,569 I volunteer places. I do stuff for charities. 192 00:12:02,593 --> 00:12:04,696 So I go to a nursing home every day, 193 00:12:05,295 --> 00:12:07,255 I make and donate stuff. 194 00:12:07,279 --> 00:12:09,300 Oh. Did you mean what do I do for a living? 195 00:12:10,100 --> 00:12:11,820 Oh, right, um... 196 00:12:11,844 --> 00:12:13,546 Uh, I give relationship advice in a column. 197 00:12:14,545 --> 00:12:16,804 Wow! What kind of qualifications 198 00:12:16,906 --> 00:12:18,019 do you need for something like that? 199 00:12:18,043 --> 00:12:22,085 Oh, I have an undergraduate degree in psychology, um, 200 00:12:22,112 --> 00:12:23,971 but I don't really use it, um, 201 00:12:23,995 --> 00:12:25,819 well, I stopped pursuing that when I got here, 202 00:12:25,843 --> 00:12:28,203 'cause it was really hard for me to do the one-on-one stuff. 203 00:12:28,997 --> 00:12:30,404 How come? 204 00:12:31,442 --> 00:12:33,444 Um... Why did you come here? 205 00:12:36,727 --> 00:12:38,566 Lisa was Australian. 206 00:12:38,590 --> 00:12:42,215 Um, so we moved when she was pregnant. 207 00:12:42,314 --> 00:12:48,555 And then, uh, after she died, um... 208 00:12:48,579 --> 00:12:51,563 I just felt like I couldn't take Emma away from Lisa's family. 209 00:12:52,563 --> 00:12:55,246 Felt like it would hurt her too much to leave them behind. 210 00:12:59,311 --> 00:13:01,311 Emma? You OK? 211 00:13:02,468 --> 00:13:04,715 - Oh! - Oh! God! W... 212 00:13:04,813 --> 00:13:06,733 - It's all over you! - Oh, my gosh. I'm so sorry. 213 00:13:06,813 --> 00:13:08,359 I... I... You're sorry? I'm sorry! 214 00:13:08,457 --> 00:13:09,840 - Have you got a tea towel? - Yes. 215 00:13:09,938 --> 00:13:12,082 We are not good with mugs. 216 00:13:12,179 --> 00:13:14,186 Last time you're gonna see mugs over here. 217 00:13:18,544 --> 00:13:20,653 Do you need anything else? Like ice? 218 00:13:20,754 --> 00:13:22,754 Ice or anything? 219 00:13:38,967 --> 00:13:40,968 Mary! 220 00:13:41,689 --> 00:13:43,043 Mary. 221 00:13:43,140 --> 00:13:45,143 Are we really doing this again? Are you OK? 222 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:47,912 I just... I felt like... 223 00:13:48,008 --> 00:13:49,964 You know, I gave your daughter an inappropriate book, and... 224 00:13:49,988 --> 00:13:51,546 Like I said, it's seriously not a big deal. 225 00:13:51,570 --> 00:13:53,346 - But then I smashed one of your mugs. - It's just a mug. 226 00:13:53,370 --> 00:13:55,314 - I just feel like I should go. - It's just a mug. 227 00:13:55,338 --> 00:13:57,638 You'd already smashed a mug. 228 00:13:58,835 --> 00:14:00,639 Look, you, um, 229 00:14:00,735 --> 00:14:03,021 coming in to check on Emma was a very thoughtful gesture. 230 00:14:03,101 --> 00:14:04,720 I did hit you both with my car. 231 00:14:04,823 --> 00:14:07,005 You did. And I am planning on suing you. 232 00:14:13,152 --> 00:14:15,152 I've been struggling a lot lately. 233 00:14:17,214 --> 00:14:20,097 Emma's got all sorts of issues. 234 00:14:20,199 --> 00:14:22,199 I don't, frankly, know how to handle them. 235 00:14:24,843 --> 00:14:28,385 You speaking to her after the accident, I... 236 00:14:28,487 --> 00:14:31,866 I don't know what you said, but, um... 237 00:14:31,968 --> 00:14:34,414 I'm having a really hard time articulating myself right now. 238 00:14:34,491 --> 00:14:36,053 Uh... 239 00:14:36,149 --> 00:14:37,734 Can I maybe take you out to dinner tomorrow, 240 00:14:37,758 --> 00:14:38,561 to talk about her? 241 00:14:38,662 --> 00:14:40,861 Oh, I can't do that. 242 00:14:40,962 --> 00:14:43,020 Oh. I'm so sorry. 243 00:14:43,116 --> 00:14:45,299 I did not mean to overstep my boundaries. 244 00:14:45,404 --> 00:14:47,020 No! No. I mean I can't do dinner. 245 00:14:47,121 --> 00:14:48,866 Um... 246 00:14:48,962 --> 00:14:50,587 I could do lunch. 247 00:14:50,688 --> 00:14:52,688 Tomorrow? 248 00:14:53,688 --> 00:14:55,313 Sure. I could do lunch tomorrow. 249 00:14:55,414 --> 00:14:56,670 - Great. - OK. 250 00:14:56,771 --> 00:14:58,051 Promise you won't run away again? 251 00:14:58,144 --> 00:15:00,968 Uh, yeah, yeah. No, I mean, I can't promise that. 252 00:15:43,670 --> 00:15:45,032 I don't know, between work and Emma, 253 00:15:45,056 --> 00:15:48,015 I don't really feel like I have much time for myself. 254 00:15:48,039 --> 00:15:50,114 - I get that. - What about you? 255 00:15:50,138 --> 00:15:52,797 - Oh, I have lots of hobbies. - Like? 256 00:15:52,898 --> 00:15:56,305 Well, I speak four languages. I do topiary. 257 00:15:56,401 --> 00:15:58,223 Um, quilting and knitting. 258 00:15:58,324 --> 00:16:00,627 Pickling and pottery. 259 00:16:00,728 --> 00:16:02,910 I spent a full year doing close-up magic 260 00:16:03,006 --> 00:16:04,730 to entertain at the nursing home. 261 00:16:04,835 --> 00:16:06,691 Muay Thai. 262 00:16:06,792 --> 00:16:08,460 And I make cheese. 263 00:16:08,556 --> 00:16:10,295 You make topiaries? 264 00:16:10,396 --> 00:16:13,901 - Like, building things out of trees? - Shrubs. 265 00:16:14,002 --> 00:16:16,057 Where do you even begin to learn something like that? 266 00:16:16,081 --> 00:16:17,466 Online. 267 00:16:17,562 --> 00:16:19,562 Oh. This is it. 268 00:16:21,670 --> 00:16:22,963 It's amazing - it's been run by the same family 269 00:16:22,987 --> 00:16:24,930 for the past 60 years. 270 00:16:25,035 --> 00:16:26,415 - Gianni, how are you? - Hey, Gary! 271 00:16:26,516 --> 00:16:27,891 - How you doing? - Good to see you. 272 00:16:27,992 --> 00:16:30,295 - Alfie, how are you? - Table for two? 273 00:16:30,396 --> 00:16:31,540 I can't eat there. 274 00:16:31,641 --> 00:16:33,737 Uh, hang on a sec. 275 00:16:34,338 --> 00:16:36,798 Hey! 276 00:16:36,822 --> 00:16:38,819 - You don't like Italian food? - Uh, I've got allergies. 277 00:16:38,843 --> 00:16:39,843 - I'm vegan. - What to? 278 00:16:40,291 --> 00:16:42,146 Italian food. 279 00:16:42,170 --> 00:16:43,425 OK. I'm so sorry. I wish I had checked... 280 00:16:43,449 --> 00:16:46,271 It's not your fault! 281 00:16:46,372 --> 00:16:47,256 Is it a gluten thing? They have great gluten-free pizza. 282 00:16:47,338 --> 00:16:49,338 What about here? 283 00:17:21,370 --> 00:17:23,591 I haven't heard music in a bar for 12 years. 284 00:17:23,694 --> 00:17:26,274 What are you talking about? 285 00:17:26,377 --> 00:17:28,759 I haven't been out in a really, really, really long time. 286 00:17:28,855 --> 00:17:31,201 How's that even possible? 287 00:17:31,294 --> 00:17:32,060 I get why someone like me hasn't been to... 288 00:17:32,143 --> 00:17:33,759 Do you dance? 289 00:17:33,865 --> 00:17:35,763 Uh, probably going to need to 290 00:17:35,865 --> 00:17:38,127 drink a lot more before that can happen. 291 00:17:38,225 --> 00:17:40,230 - That was really expensive. - Mmm. 292 00:17:41,194 --> 00:17:42,928 What music are you into? 293 00:17:43,031 --> 00:17:44,571 I don't listen to music. 294 00:17:44,672 --> 00:17:47,495 Why? No. Really? 295 00:17:47,598 --> 00:17:50,138 Do you know this is Melody Gardot? 296 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:52,740 Melody Gardot? 297 00:17:52,841 --> 00:17:54,502 - Wow. - Oh, oh! Melody Gardot? 298 00:17:54,605 --> 00:17:57,185 - No, I don't. - OK. 299 00:17:57,290 --> 00:18:00,707 Well, before Melody Gardot was THIS Melody Gardot, 300 00:18:00,803 --> 00:18:03,031 she was actually... More. ..hit by a car. 301 00:18:03,129 --> 00:18:05,669 She was in hospital for a year, with memory loss. 302 00:18:05,772 --> 00:18:07,518 But there was this physician who believed 303 00:18:07,611 --> 00:18:10,437 that he could heal her brain through music. 304 00:18:10,538 --> 00:18:12,444 So he taught her to hum and then to sing. 305 00:18:12,538 --> 00:18:14,361 And now here she is! 306 00:18:14,457 --> 00:18:17,288 And if she hadn't been hit by that car, 307 00:18:17,384 --> 00:18:19,044 we wouldn't be listening to that voice. 308 00:18:19,147 --> 00:18:23,129 That voice melts spines. 309 00:18:29,437 --> 00:18:32,223 Why don't you like music, Gary? 310 00:18:32,321 --> 00:18:34,743 Well, Mary, I like it. 311 00:18:34,841 --> 00:18:36,263 I just don't listen to it anymore. 312 00:18:36,365 --> 00:18:39,868 Why? 313 00:18:39,966 --> 00:18:43,591 We had trouble settling Emma when she was a baby. 314 00:18:43,694 --> 00:18:45,915 'Cause she would cry all the time. We tried everything. 315 00:18:46,013 --> 00:18:48,196 And then one day we worked out 316 00:18:48,297 --> 00:18:50,040 the only thing that would make her sleep... 317 00:18:50,134 --> 00:18:52,138 Was what? 318 00:18:54,502 --> 00:18:55,422 The only thing that would make her sleep 319 00:18:55,502 --> 00:18:57,004 is when I would sing to her. 320 00:18:57,105 --> 00:18:58,685 Aw. What would you sing? 321 00:18:58,790 --> 00:19:00,009 Just a song. 322 00:19:00,105 --> 00:19:02,569 - Can I hear it? - No. 323 00:19:02,669 --> 00:19:04,669 No, I haven't sung that since she was little. 324 00:19:05,551 --> 00:19:07,377 - Come on, Gary. - No. 325 00:19:07,475 --> 00:19:09,455 - Gary! - No. No. 326 00:19:09,553 --> 00:19:11,223 - No, no, no. - OK. 327 00:19:11,319 --> 00:19:13,819 What if the reason we ended up here 328 00:19:13,919 --> 00:19:17,745 is so that you could sing again? 329 00:19:17,848 --> 00:19:20,466 The music stopped! You're laughing, but it's meant to be! 330 00:19:20,569 --> 00:19:22,509 - Come on. - It's not gonna happen. 331 00:19:22,609 --> 00:19:24,105 I'll cover my eyes. I'm not even gonna look at you. 332 00:19:24,129 --> 00:19:25,428 Look, I'm looking at my hands. 333 00:19:25,533 --> 00:19:27,951 You can cover your entire body. 334 00:19:28,053 --> 00:19:30,236 - I don't want to sing right now. - Come on, Gary. 335 00:19:30,332 --> 00:19:32,114 - My God. - Do you want me to go under the table? 336 00:19:32,138 --> 00:19:33,778 No! Just... Stop bringing attention to us. 337 00:19:33,859 --> 00:19:35,678 OK. Just do it. Really quietly. 338 00:19:35,783 --> 00:19:37,283 I'm not gonna judge you. 339 00:19:37,384 --> 00:19:39,384 Thanks, I appreciate that. 340 00:20:53,223 --> 00:20:55,223 That was beautiful. 341 00:20:57,826 --> 00:21:01,408 Clearly, it didn't work. You're still awake. 342 00:21:01,509 --> 00:21:03,486 I think you should sing it for her again. 343 00:21:03,589 --> 00:21:05,207 Fuck, no. She would hate that. 344 00:21:05,310 --> 00:21:07,332 No, I bet she wouldn't. 345 00:21:07,428 --> 00:21:09,435 You don't know my daughter. 346 00:21:13,437 --> 00:21:16,143 - You said... - Hey, no, no, no. 347 00:21:16,236 --> 00:21:19,466 The secret to the answer is in the questions. 348 00:21:19,569 --> 00:21:22,348 You find out what it is that THEY want to do, 349 00:21:22,446 --> 00:21:25,393 then you advise them to do it. 350 00:21:25,486 --> 00:21:26,507 But, then, sometimes, I honestly have to make up the question, 351 00:21:26,531 --> 00:21:27,993 because it's so boring. 352 00:21:28,098 --> 00:21:29,955 - You make them up? - Mmm. 353 00:21:30,053 --> 00:21:32,053 - Isn't that against the law? - No. 354 00:21:33,980 --> 00:21:37,042 OK. 355 00:21:37,143 --> 00:21:40,406 I just kind of draw on my, um, life experience, I guess. 356 00:21:40,504 --> 00:21:42,081 Give me an example. You've got to give me an example. 357 00:21:42,105 --> 00:21:44,326 OK. Dear Adelaide... 358 00:21:44,428 --> 00:21:45,893 - Adelaide? - Adelaide. 359 00:21:45,990 --> 00:21:48,897 Dear Adelaide, I, um, 360 00:21:48,995 --> 00:21:52,216 I feel like I'm doing a bad job as a dad, 361 00:21:52,319 --> 00:21:55,060 and my little girl has trouble telling me what she needs. 362 00:21:55,165 --> 00:21:57,899 So I try to make everything perfect around her, 363 00:21:58,002 --> 00:22:00,069 but it doesn't seem to make her happy. 364 00:22:00,163 --> 00:22:01,582 And I don't know what to do. 365 00:22:01,687 --> 00:22:03,105 Sincerely, G. 366 00:22:05,531 --> 00:22:06,428 I can relate. Go on. 367 00:22:06,531 --> 00:22:09,076 Dear G, 368 00:22:09,169 --> 00:22:10,869 you say you're trying to make everything perfect, 369 00:22:10,893 --> 00:22:13,723 but perfect doesn't exist. 370 00:22:13,819 --> 00:22:17,801 Perfect's the armour we wear to stop ourselves from being seen. 371 00:22:17,899 --> 00:22:19,875 And maybe it's the thing that's stopping your little girl 372 00:22:19,899 --> 00:22:22,926 from seeing you and feeling close to you. 373 00:22:23,024 --> 00:22:25,129 Maybe you should run towards imperfections, 374 00:22:25,230 --> 00:22:31,538 and laugh and cry and dance, sing. 375 00:22:31,634 --> 00:22:33,297 Get messy. 376 00:22:33,397 --> 00:22:36,060 Messy's good. 377 00:22:36,165 --> 00:22:38,165 Break yourself open - it's how the light gets in. 378 00:22:39,399 --> 00:22:41,406 Always, Adelaide. 379 00:22:45,129 --> 00:22:46,509 When did you come up with that one? 380 00:22:46,615 --> 00:22:49,428 Right now. 381 00:22:49,533 --> 00:22:51,148 I'm trying to get you to sing to your kid. 382 00:22:51,172 --> 00:22:53,598 Right... 383 00:22:53,701 --> 00:22:56,759 Can I ask, um... 384 00:22:56,865 --> 00:23:00,725 what you did in the car for Emma? 385 00:23:00,826 --> 00:23:02,826 I could see she was scared in there. 386 00:23:03,986 --> 00:23:06,413 She's done that before. 387 00:23:06,509 --> 00:23:09,576 It's like she's built this fortress around herself, 388 00:23:09,669 --> 00:23:11,669 so that nothing can hurt her. 389 00:23:12,759 --> 00:23:14,759 I'm doing everything I can. 390 00:23:19,399 --> 00:23:21,504 I get scared sometimes. 391 00:23:21,605 --> 00:23:23,605 Scared of what? 392 00:23:25,973 --> 00:23:28,509 Somehow I caused all of this. 393 00:23:28,611 --> 00:23:31,794 After Lisa died, I spiralled. 394 00:23:31,893 --> 00:23:33,397 Emma was four. 395 00:23:33,502 --> 00:23:36,560 And, um... 396 00:23:36,665 --> 00:23:40,042 Took me years before I felt like I could be her dad again. 397 00:23:40,143 --> 00:23:42,205 I know it probably doesn't feel this way, 398 00:23:42,303 --> 00:23:44,081 but you're already doing the best thing for her. 399 00:23:44,105 --> 00:23:46,649 You're present. 400 00:23:46,752 --> 00:23:50,214 And she may be pushing you away, but you're there. 401 00:23:50,312 --> 00:23:52,415 I mean, that kind of stability is so rare, Gary. 402 00:23:52,518 --> 00:23:55,379 It's... It's fucking priceless. 403 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,502 I can't believe I just unloaded all that on you. 404 00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,826 - I'm sorry. I am so sorry. - No! No. No, it's OK. 405 00:23:59,922 --> 00:24:01,139 - I'm an advice columnist. - Oh, God. 406 00:24:01,163 --> 00:24:03,707 - That's fine. - You know what? 407 00:24:03,803 --> 00:24:05,303 I help everybody with their problems. 408 00:24:05,408 --> 00:24:08,312 - You know what, Mary? - What? 409 00:24:08,413 --> 00:24:10,634 I'm not gonna sue you anymore. 410 00:24:10,734 --> 00:24:11,831 No, I promise. I'm gonna call my lawyer tomorrow. 411 00:24:11,855 --> 00:24:13,917 I just... 412 00:24:14,018 --> 00:24:15,029 I can't believe I'm giving anyone advice. 413 00:24:15,053 --> 00:24:17,801 My life is a mess. 414 00:24:22,906 --> 00:24:24,908 Messy is good. 415 00:24:35,274 --> 00:24:37,281 Who put on that song? 416 00:24:39,243 --> 00:24:42,745 - I don't know. - Did you just put on the song? 417 00:24:42,848 --> 00:24:44,790 I've been sitting here with you. 418 00:24:44,884 --> 00:24:46,707 Um, I need to go. 419 00:24:46,810 --> 00:24:48,350 Did I do something wrong? 420 00:24:48,451 --> 00:24:50,951 No, I just feel like this is, um... 421 00:24:51,053 --> 00:24:53,995 I shouldn't have put myself in this situation. 422 00:24:54,098 --> 00:24:56,738 - What situation? - I haven't day-drunk in a really long time, so... 423 00:24:56,821 --> 00:24:58,841 I don't think it's day anymore. 424 00:24:58,944 --> 00:25:00,279 - Really? What time is it? - After 6. 425 00:25:00,303 --> 00:25:02,303 Oh, fuck! 426 00:25:15,917 --> 00:25:18,419 Dear Adelaide, 427 00:25:18,522 --> 00:25:20,944 I've been alone for a really long time. 428 00:25:21,042 --> 00:25:23,466 A boy has appeared and made himself vulnerable to me. 429 00:25:23,569 --> 00:25:25,384 He has made me question 430 00:25:25,486 --> 00:25:27,913 why I've chosen to live a certain way. 431 00:25:28,009 --> 00:25:29,877 I feel like I'm running from my past, 432 00:25:29,973 --> 00:25:32,716 and I can never reveal who I really am. 433 00:25:32,819 --> 00:25:34,832 I've been badly hurt. 434 00:25:34,937 --> 00:25:38,359 I feel lost, and I don't deserve love. 435 00:25:38,457 --> 00:25:41,201 How do you know when that person is the right one? 436 00:25:41,303 --> 00:25:43,303 Sincerely, M. 437 00:25:45,790 --> 00:25:49,051 Dear M, thank you for writing. 438 00:25:49,149 --> 00:25:51,734 Losing yourself - I'm not going to sugar-coat it - 439 00:25:51,832 --> 00:25:54,819 that's the worst thing you can do. 440 00:25:54,917 --> 00:25:57,658 Don't stop believing in who you are. 441 00:25:57,759 --> 00:25:59,301 It's one thing to know that 442 00:25:59,399 --> 00:26:01,504 kindness and vulnerability matter, 443 00:26:01,605 --> 00:26:05,667 but the first person you need to be kind to is you. 444 00:26:05,768 --> 00:26:09,230 We're all feeling our way through the dark. 445 00:26:09,330 --> 00:26:12,234 Stop running in circles. 446 00:26:12,332 --> 00:26:14,913 Stop running from yourself, 447 00:26:15,018 --> 00:26:16,518 and start running to the light. 448 00:26:16,618 --> 00:26:18,759 Oh, fuck! 449 00:26:18,859 --> 00:26:22,605 Don't lose track of your heart. 450 00:26:22,701 --> 00:26:27,569 It's the only thing that's keeping you going. 451 00:26:27,669 --> 00:26:30,091 And remember, you don't get what you need 452 00:26:30,194 --> 00:26:33,134 until you're brave enough to admit that you need it. 453 00:26:33,234 --> 00:26:35,937 Jump in head-first and fight for it - 454 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:37,375 even if it means fighting for yourself. 455 00:26:37,399 --> 00:26:39,399 Fuck! 456 00:26:40,957 --> 00:26:42,783 How do you know that 457 00:26:42,884 --> 00:26:45,024 this person is the right one for you? 458 00:26:45,127 --> 00:26:47,348 You won't know unless you open the door 459 00:26:47,451 --> 00:26:49,451 to the possibility that you do deserve to be loved. 460 00:26:49,490 --> 00:26:52,312 Agh! 461 00:26:52,415 --> 00:26:55,437 Strip away the layers and break yourself open. 462 00:26:55,540 --> 00:26:58,399 That's how the light gets in. 463 00:26:58,502 --> 00:26:59,942 Don't lock yourself in your basement. 464 00:27:03,419 --> 00:27:05,426 Always, Adelaide. 464 00:27:06,305 --> 00:28:06,404 Watch any video online with Open-SUBTITLES Free Browser extension: osdb.link/ext