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[Lisa] Previously on "Before the 90 Days."

[Stig] This one is for you, Aviva.

[singing] The sex good, and I feel good.

Yeah.

[Aviva speaking]

[Stig speaking]

You really are like a one-woman type of guy.

Yeah.

[Aviva] I'm not convinced he's telling me the truth.

I haven't been using protection, and I don't wanna

start a family with a liar.

[Lisa] Baby.

[Daniel speaking]

Daniel and I literally just got engaged, and I'm worried.

He's second guessing everything,

and he doesn't want me. And I feel rejected.

[Trisha speaking]

And how did you respond?

[Trisha] I didn't even respond, Rick.

Look.

I've been insecure about Trisha's ex boyfriend,

'cause I know he has a lot of money,

and I'm not in a position to be supporting her like that.

Do you believe me now?

I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.

I'm not, Rick. I'm not.

Sheena just told me I need her parents' approval

to marry her,

so now I have to go and get their approval

while I have to tell them that their days are basically

numbered with getting money away from their daughter.

[Sheena speaking]

[dramatic, tense music builds]

[Birkan speaking]

-Did you say, "your debts"? -[Birkan] Yeah.

How much is it?

[Laura] That's a lot of [bleep] money.

[dramatic, tense music continues]

[woman singing in foreign language]

[Daniel] Mm.

[Lisa] No.

Mm -- mm...

You have

the...

nicest ass I have ever seen.

And you know, I always thought your dimples

were my favorite thing,

but you know what my favorite thing is now?

You're not gonna...

Your belly button.

It really is.

And it's an outie. It's not an innie.

-It's so cute. -[Daniel laughs]

I feel like I'm on a roller coaster already with Daniel,

and it's not even 24 hours yet. I'm engaged.

Day one, I'm freaking engaged. I didn't sleep last night.

All I could do was stare at his face.

He's everything I could have dreamed about,

except he doesn't have boobs.

It was awful.

-I was upset with you. -Why?

Because I expected more than what happened.

♪♪

Last night was uncomfortable, and it was strange.

He didn't finish.

And I don't think he was full on

[bleep].

And I had so much anticipation.

So it was almost like we didn't have sex.

Even though we had sex, it was almost like it wasn't there.

So it just deflated me.

I felt like, well, maybe I am too old.

Maybe I am, you know, not the shape

he wants me to be.

I was really questioning myself.

But it was really awkward for me,

because it's been so long

since I've been...

intimate like that. And then you didn't...

finish. And then...

I don't know how to talk to you about this.

-I'm embarrassed. -[Daniel laughs]

-[Lisa] It was a trial run. -Test.

It was a test run. It was a test run, wasn't it?

Yeah.

-You did. -[Daniel] Yeah.

[Lisa giggles]

But you want me to be honest? You're a little...

bigger than I expected. -Really?

So it was a little painful at first.

At first, it was uncomfortable and painful.

OK.

And then it was really sweet and gentle and enjoyable,

and I seem to have stretched to fit you just perfectly.

And I feel like you're made for me.

[Daniel] I'm happy.

I'm so glad I'm here. And I love you so much.

[Lisa] Now that Daniel and I have been physical

and I'm engaged to him,

I'm even more concerned how he's gonna handle what

I have to tell him about being still married and it's a woman

and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.

I'm already 100% into this relationship,

physically and emotionally.

And it's definitely gonna be harder for me to handle

if he can't accept my past.

You keep saying things like that, we're never gonna get

out of this bed and get showered.

[Daniel hums softly]

[soft, tender piano playing]

[happy, playful music playing]

[bell dinging]

[Sheena speaking]

[Forrest] Oh, my goodness. Oh, my God.

-Oh, Lord. -Oh, my God.

[Forrest] Give me strength. This is worse than the bus.

[Sheena laughs]

Sheen and I getting into this tricycle is like

what a sardine feels like, being inside of a can.

I would never do this with anybody else but you, Sheen.

That's pretty great.

I get to, you know, get up nice and close, but she's also

crushing me to death.

I love this. Whoo-hoo!

-Oh! -Whoa!

I wish they'd give us a nice, you know, extra-wide

for my American physique.

[romantic music playing]

I'm afraid I'm gonna fall off,

and I don't want two broken legs.

Today, I'm going to meet Sheena's family

for the first time

in a province called Cavite.

We'll just have to give a lot.

Ever since I met Sheena seven years ago,

her family has been like these ominous figures.

She's told me that they manipulate

and exploit her financially.

[speaks Filipino]

[Forrest grunts]

I've always pictured this meeting

as me putting my foot down

and letting them know that Sheena is going to completely

cut them off financially.

But now it's turned into something completely

and totally different than what I envisioned.

You didn't tell me that there was gonna be a mountain,

treacherous hill to climb. -[Sheena] Yeah.

[Forrest] Oh, man.

First, she told me that I need her parents' approval

to marry her.

And then she said that they're going to ask me about my career

and how I make money.

But the truth is, I don't have a job.

I don't have a lot of money.

I'm just this loser who's on disability.

Baby, we can do this.

[Sheena] Just be careful, baby.

[Forrest] So at this point, I'm concerned that I won't be

able to get the blessing for Sheena's family

that I apparently need.

-Oh my gosh, is that them? -[Sheena] Yes, my love.

[Forrest] Oh my goodness.

[soft, tense music playing]

-[Steve] You must be Forrest. -Yeah, Forrest.

[Steve] Wow.

Hello, sir.

It's finally nice to meet you after so long.

-Nice to meet you too. -Hello.

-Hello. -[Katrina laughs]

It's OK. I'm a little shy myself here.

Yes.

You know, I'm so happy that you're allowing me to stay here

and I'm finally getting to meet you.

[laughing nervously]

Oh, man.

Sheena told me that her mom is sick,

so I won't be meeting her.

But her dad and sister seem nice enough.

A bit quiet, which I guess is kind of normal,

but it's not what I was expecting.

You wanna take a break from traveling?

[both] Yeah.

Yeah.

-Yeah. -Yeah.

-[Sheena] So this is the place. -[Forrest] Yeah.

[soft, dreamy music playing]

[Sheena speaking]

-[Forrest] Wow. -[Sheena] Yeah.

[Katrina speaking]

[Forrest] Boy. OK, cool.

Sheena told me that her family runs a bed and breakfast

out of their family home.

And I've heard over and over again that they need the money

to fix this roof. "Oh, they need money to do this.

"Oh, they need money to do this.

That's why they're stealing all this money from me."

But it turns out that this is a nice, fancy place.

[Katrina] OK, welcome to our house.

[Forrest] Oh, wow.

[Sheena speaking]

[Forrest] This place is huge -- wow.

So, here I was under the impression that her family

might be destitute or they are gonna starve without her.

It doesn't add up.

-Thank you very much. -[Steve speaking]

-[Sheena] Yeah, all right. -[Katrina] Enjoy and relax.

Yeah, all right. Thank you.

Thank you, guys. Thank you.

[Forrest groans]

My mind's just confused. I don't understand.

-[Sheena speaking] -[Forrest] Yeah.

It was way worth the getting crushed in the bus.

Your dad seems like a really awesome guy.

[Sheena speaking]

[Forrest] OK.

Well, I think I wanna clean up my face real quick.

OK, I'm gonna head in the bathroom real quick.

Mm-hmm, yes.

Test for the water if it's good.

Wash your face around.

Wash your hands -- Yeah.

[Sheena speaking Filipino]

[tense music builds]

Do you think I'm gonna marry you for your money?

That's what everybody else thought.

I thought he was the man who's going to honor

the "provide and protect"

that he sold me on in the beginning.

And now I don't know.

The debt is a big deal.

[Stig] You excited about my show tonight?

[Aviva] Yeah, I am.

What songs are you singing at your show?

So, who is Vicky?

♪ Daydream about you ♪

♪ Daydream about you ♪

♪ Something about you ♪

[Stig speaking]

[Aviva] Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Stig] I'm so grateful that I live here.

[Aviva speaking]

-[Stig] Do you wanna jump in? -[Aviva] OK.

[Stig speaking]

[Aviva laughs]

♪ Something about you ♪

♪ I like something about you ♪

♪ Daydreaming about you ♪

♪ Daydreaming about you ♪

[Aviva] Mm.

That sounds good.

[Stig speaking]

This is Aviva's second full day in Belize,

and we're here in beautiful San Pedro

'cause I'm gonna perform tonight.

Yesterday, Aviva was accusing me of not being over my ex

from Texas. But in the hotel last night,

I do believe that I was able to calm her down.

[Stig speaking Spanish]

Huh?

[Aviva speaking]

Thank you.

We had sex three times. No protection again.

We're risking it all. We're just going with the flow.

-How is it? -[Aviva] It's good.

-Mm-hmm, refreshing. -[Stig speaking]

-No, not like this. -Oh.

You excited about my show tonight?

[Aviva] Yeah, I am.

What songs are you singing at your show?

I am trying to have this romantic beach moment

with Stig, but he mentions the song "Vicky."

And I can't help but think of

when my Aunt Spring brought up that rumor to me.

They actually just did a big concert,

like for Valentine's Day.

...and she was at the concert, and they left together.

So who is -- who is Vicky?

The concept of Vicky is a girl -- huh...

is a girl I was messing with who had a man,

and the man wasn't treating her good.

She was married, and I was the little bartender,

showing her love, you know what I mean, on the side.

So is it someone you still talk to?

-Is it someone that you...? -No, no, no, no, no.

-...have a past with? -I had a past with her.

So my aunt Spring, she knows a lot of people here.

I've heard a lot of rumors that Vicky went to your last show

with you, and you left the show with her.

And I just, I'm confused, and I'm just hoping that

you can clear some things up with me.

Aviva's aunt Spring, I never met her.

I only heard about aunt Spring,

but apparently she knows me better than I know myself.

Is she the secret service?

You know?

But did you go home with her?

You don't believe me?

Apparently, there was some article,

or you were tagged in something,

or she was tagged in something

of you guys going home together.

So I'm not really sure how I'm supposed to believe you.

Don't let [bleep] get to your head.

I am definitely gonna do my best to not be in my head

about it, but you're apparently gonna sing it tonight.

How do I know if she's not gonna be there?

[Stig] That's one of my biggest songs in Belize.

-I can't not sing that. -Yeah.

You don't want me to sing the song?

My biggest -- One of my biggest songs?

Yeah.

Come on. Don't do that.

All of my exes, they start off saying,

"I'm not gonna be jealous. I got you."

But [bleep].

I thought Aviva was gonna be different.

And now I am worried how she's gonna react

when I perform "Vicky," when I do perform it.

Tonight could...

[bleep] the whole thing out.

I don't want that.

If tonight is a problem, that's gonna throw me off.

I don't know if I could deal with that.

That's not what I signed up for.

I mean, I'll do my best, but I just wouldn't feel more

comfortable if you didn't perform "Vicky."

That's all I can say.

[tense music ends]

I had a lot of people,

before I came here, say that you would

only wanna be with me because you would want

a green card and money.

And hearing that

kind of makes it seem like that's true.

[daring music playing]

You think, like, I'm gonna marry you for your money.

That's what everybody else thought.

Did you think that?

Well, I don't know right now.

I'm literally just hearing about most of this

for the first time.

Birkan just told me that he's 50K in debt

and that he'd flee the country and flee his debt

and just ignore it.

I'm frustrated and incredibly concerned because it's making

me feel, I feel like he's just straight up using me

to get out of his debt.

You know,

that's not who I am, actually.

If I was someone like that, I would have lied.

I would have never told you about my debt.

You know?

[Laura] I know that.

But I wanna make sure that I'm making a smart decision,

when it comes to future plans, like getting engaged.

[Birkan speaking]

You know what? I'm ready to go.

-OK, let's go. -[Laura] Let's go.

[soft, dark pensive music playing]

I'm pretty frustrated.

He told me a lot of things at dinner that were concerning.

The debt is a big deal to me because he's talked about

nothing but, like, honesty and pride and respect,

and it's really hard to respect someone that's not outright

and straightforward with the truth.

I thought he was the man who's going to honor

the "provide and protect" that he sold me on in the beginning,

and now I don't know.

What are you doing?

[Birkan] Washing the dishes.

I told you why.

I'm frustrated that you let things go the way they did.

[laughs sarcastically] Don't be cute.

That doesn't fix this.

-I'm not gonna answer that right now. -You've gotta answer.

-No. -You've gotta answer.

-I do not have to answer. -You've gotta answer.

-You think that you can --stop. -Why are you mad?

You think a couple of kisses will win me over?

-[Birkan speaking] -[Laura] Oh.

I'm still feeling nervous about what his intentions are.

But this is probably all of the fantasies I had kind

of rolled into one in that moment.

Having a hot Turkish guy push

you up against the wall and make out with you,

I don't know what it is. I just can't resist him.

-[Laura speaking] -[Birkan] I know.

That's why you love me.

[Laura laughs softly]

[Trisha] Look, look.

[Trisha] I don't know why he act this way.

It's like he assumes the worst.

I'm already doing things for you.

So why are you asking for more? Is that what you want me for?

[foreign music playing]

[Rick speaking]

-Uh-uh -- watch out. -But, baby, don't go...

OK.

-[Rick] You ready? -[Trisha] Yeah, I'm ready.

[Rick] OK, let's go.

[foreign music continues playing]

I'm so tired.

'Cause we were packing all night, that's why.

Oh, yeah.

Whoo!

First flight together, baby.

[Trisha speaking]

[Rick speaking]

[singing in foreign language]

Whoo!

Ooh, it's nice and cool.

[Trisha speaking]

[Rick] Oh, my God. Baby, are you serious?

OK, I'm gonna do -- you like that.

Ya-hoo!

Jee, look, look.

Mmm.

Here we go.

We'll see.

[Trisha] Huh?

Yeah, I'm serious.

[tense music plays]

[Trisha] I don't know why he called me like that.

I'm not looking for a sugar daddy.

And I'm not a sugar baby.

I got my own money.

I don't know why he act this way.

I'm just asking for one thing.

And it's like, he assumes the worst.

I will never ask you for anything.

[tense music playing]

[Rick] Oh, it's a nice room.

-[Trisha] Mm. -[Rick] Yeah.

See what I set up for you?

[Trisha] I don't care.

[Rick groans] You don't care, of course.

Cause the roses aren't made of gold, huh?

So what are we here to do? Huh?

I thought we were here to, you know, have a good time.

Yeah, but your answer in the car seems like,

I don't know...

[Rick] Well, what are you talking about?

You were the one that brought up buying you things.

Yeah, but I'm just asking for a little things.

You just say, "Oh, you act like a bougie."

"Oh, you act like I'm...

I'm not somebody's sugar daddy." Did I say that?

You didn't say it,

but you were acting like a sugar baby.

♪♪

I'm already doing things for you.

OK -- yeah, you did pay my rent.

So why are you asking for more?

Is that what you want me for?

It's not what I want you for, but I'm just asking

for a little things, it's not that much.

Imma get you what you need, but I'm not always

gonna get you what you want.

So make it easy. Keep your money.

See, this type of attitude,

I could've found this in the States.

I didn't have to come all the way to Madagascar

to get this. -So why did you come?

Because I thought you were different.

[Trisha] Mm.

So I thought also you were different.

Hm.

What did you think I was, like your ex boyfriend?

'Cause that I'm not.

[Trisha] I didn't expect something like this.

I'm not with him because of money.

I'm just with him for love, but I don't know why

he think the opposite.

It's crazy. I don't even...

What were you expecting from me?

You know what I do.

So what were you expecting?

I know you were not rich, Rick.

I know that well.

I mean, what happened to just loving me for me?

That's what you were saying in the beginning.

What happened to that?

[seller speaking]

Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.

I just wanna look at them. Hello.

Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.

I'm not gonna kill a chicken.

-You don't kill a chicken? -I had chickens.

They were my pets.

They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.

Yes.

Sheena's family, they seem pretty laid-back,

normal, caring people.

What were you expecting when you go here?

Oh.

This is going to be mind-shattering here.

Well, I was expecting that, um...

I might be walking into a scam.

[tense music playing]

[foreign music playing]

[Daniel and Lisa speaking]

Oh.

[Lisa] I'm getting used to you opening my door.

You're such a gentleman. You treat me like a queen.

[singing in foreign language]

-So that is a taxi. -Yeah, [speaks foreign language]

[Lisa speaking foreign language]

Yeah.

And that means what?

Oh.

-Is this where we're going? -[Daniel speaking]

I have always wanted to go to a market.

I can't wait to get out and see everything.

This is my first time out of the country.

This is nothing like the farmer's markets

that I have been to.

-[Daniel speaking] -[Lisa] OK.

It kind of reminds me of a flea market,

but a flea market with food.

And it's little tiny stalls right on top of each other.

You can buy anything and everything.

There are live poultry.

There is dried fish, smoked fish.

Hello.

There are women doing hair right there in the middle

of the market. It looks so beautiful.

[seller speaking]

Oh, I don't know if I'm buying. I just wanna look at them.

Oh, my goodness.

Ooh!

-[Daniel] Be careful. -[seller] Like this.

-Hello. -Hi.

Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.

She handed me the chicken as if I was gonna eat the chicken.

I eat chicken.

No, no, I'm not gonna kill a chicken.

You don't kill a chicken?

I had chickens. They were my pets.

My chickens were spoiled.

They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.

Yes.

Really?

-[Lisa] Bye, chickens. -[Daniel] Thank you.

OK.

[Lisa] OK.

I love fabric.

Hello.

Good afternoon. They're beautiful.

[woman #2 speaking]

[Lisa laughing] Hi.

Why?

Yeah, because, you know...

[Lisa] I'm confused.

What has he not given us approval for?

He was very happy at the engagement.

[Daniel speaking]

But I thought everything was said and done.

I thought we were ready to start planning a wedding.

I didn't realize there was gonna be more to it.

In America, you have to get blessings before

you give the ring.

I know, so...

But you didn't warn me about that.

[seller] This?

Yeah, this one.

[Lisa] No --

[seller] It's nice. Yes.

-OK. -[seller speaking]

[Lisa] I-- I -- I'm confused.

[Lisa] OK, so it gets wrapped around?

[seller] Yeah.

-[Lisa] And then it gets tied? -Yeah.

[Lisa] I can't hear you. It's very loud.

Oh, my gosh! How am I gonna do this?

I have no clue how this wrapping thing works.

I have to do this myself when I meet his uncle.

And there's no way I'm gonna remember how to do everything.

I don't wanna look like a fool.

I don't wanna look stupid in front of his uncle.

What should I expect? Like, how will this be wrapped?

-[seller speaking] -OK.

Yeah.

Because I'm too fat.

All right, thank you.

I'm too fat.

No, yeah, yeah.

I'm feeling awful, and I'm kind of taken aback.

I have to meet his uncle, and I have to wrap myself up in

two layers of this wrap, this big headdress,

and I'm gonna look fat.

[Lisa] I have to try to impress his uncle.

But what exactly happens to get his uncle's blessing?

What kind of questions are gonna be asked?

I'm worried that I may have

to reveal things that I'm not ready to reveal.

This whole thing could be a disaster for me.

So I'm scared.

-Thank you. -[seller speaking]

What is that?

[singing] You got a bottom like Nicki.

A Dolly Parton kind of [bleep]

I'm trying to be supportive, but he's dancing and flirting

with some random girl on stage right in front of me.

What the [bleep] is Aviva doing?

[foreign upbeat music playing]

[man speaking]

[Aviva chuckles]

[Stig speaking]

-[Aviva speaking] -Don't be overthinking.

Enjoy the show. Enjoy the entertainment.

-OK. -I'm an entertainer, all right?

-All right. -All good?

-Yes. -All right.

I'm a little frustrated with Aviva still

for not wanting me to perform my hit song.

But listen, I'm still gonna go and be Stig, the Artist,

and hype this place up.

I don't want anything to throw me off my game.

-Ready? -[Aviva] Semi ready.

[Stig] Ready. You have to say it like me.

No, you can't say "Ready." You got to say "Ready!"

[Aviva] Ready! [laughs]

[Stig] Come on.

[audience member] Stig!

[Stig] What's good, brother?

[Richie speaking]

[man speaking]

[audience cheering]

[Aviva] I'm super, super excited to see Stig performing

for the first time.

But I feel super nervous.

I still have my suspicions to what Stig's manager

and Aunt Spring had to say about Stig and other women.

I know there's a lot of girls that throw themselves at him,

at his shows.

I don't know what to expect.

[MC speaking]

[singing] Lessons on long life.

[sings in Belizean Kriol]

Girl, today I'm gonna meet your father.

This is what I'm gonna say, "I'm gonna marry your daughter."

And can I have your blessings? That could be amazing.

I know you thing I'm a bad guy and I'm gonna break her heart.

[audience cheering]

[singing] Yeah, we smoking. We smoking.

We smoking. We smoking.

And we [bleep].

Got some rum in my Coke.

[sings in Belizean Kriol]

And she so pretty.

[Aviva] I'm trying to enjoy myself and I'm trying to be

supportive, but he started

playing "Vicky" after I asked him not to.

[singing] You've got a bottom like Nicki.

And Dolly Parton kind of [bleep].

But she know how to rap like Nicki.

Not only that, but he's dancing with some other random girl

and flirting with her on stage right in front of me.

[singing] Babe, you're too pretty for that.

You're too pretty.

[Aviva] It's just really hard to watch, and it's making me

feel pretty insecure.

[Stig singing] Met a girl named Vicky.

Girl, you're making me toxic.

Too pretty for that.

And she's too pretty.

I mean, I think you're too pretty for that.

You're too pretty.

Really too pretty for that.

You're too pretty.

One Stigy who [indistinct] who has no pity.

Watch out!

You know that you're too pretty.

You're brown skin but your hair not kinky.

What the [bleep] is Aviva doing?

I'm seeing a sea of people partying.

Having the time of their lives,

and Aviva head down in her phone while I'm singing.

This is not the behavior I want in my future wife,

much less my girlfriend right now.

Like, come on.

[audience cheering]

[Stig] Anyway,

[singing] You alone, you alone, you alone, you alone, yeah.

Me, wanna give you love, in your phone.

Baby, it's you I love, yeah.

Ooh, it feels so right.

Let's do the things, yeah.

Aviva is still not paying attention.

[indistinct] yeah, yeah.

One, two, three, four, five.

[Stig speaking]

You're distracting me.

I am so pissed.

I can't even think straight right now.

[Daniel] Ah.

How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?

This is a control thing with Daniel right now.

-[speaks foreign language] -[Lisa] No, no.

Stop raising your voice at me.

He's pushing me really hard and I'm getting angry.

What the hell does Daniel want right now?

[Lisa] You wanna see me walk?

Watch me walk.

[vocalizing]

[Daniel speaking]

I'm still frustrated and angry 'cause she called me fat.

♪ Don't you know I got nothing to lose? ♪

♪ I got something to prove ♪

♪ Ah ♪

[Daniel speaking]

And I'm stressed.

That's how stressed I am right now.

[Daniel speaking]

[Lisa] I said, "I wouldn't smoke."

I tried to quit, and I couldn't.

And I [groans frustrated].

I am so frustrated with you.

It's not funny.

There are a few things Daniel expects of me.

He wants my hair a certain way.

He wants me to ask permission for things.

I have to ask to have a drink of alcohol.

He doesn't want me to vape.

And I did tell Daniel I would slow down vaping,

but I just found out I have to try to impress his uncle

for the blessing.

And I am feeling so much pressure

of who I need to be for Daniel.

So I'm stressing out, and I want my vape.

You surprised me with the uncle thing.

How am I gonna learn how to tie a traditional attire?

-I'm gonna look ridiculous. -[Daniel speaking]

[Lisa] Am I dressed OK for this?

[Daniel sighs]

Thank you.

-OK? -[Lisa] OK.

Mm-hmm.

[Lisa] Can I drink it?

It's very strong.

OK, so don't put too much in my glass.

Oh!

[gentle acoustic guitar playing]

[Daniel speaking foreign language]

[woman speaking]

-You will eat. -OK.

You do know that I studied the fufu online?

I've done so much research about fufu.

It is fermented cassava. I learned how to roll it.

I learned you flatten it. I learned you dip it.

So I'm prepared, and I'm excited

to show him I can do this.

Ew.

Ew.

Did I do it right?

[Lisa] All right.

Dip your hand.

Ah!

How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?

Yes.

[Daniel] Ah.

This is really good.

I can just eat that. I need a spoon.

I am not gonna eat soup with just...

That is what the fufu is for.

Look, baby.

I think Daniel is just trying to prove a point to me,

but I didn't think he'd be so forceful about it.

I am in the nursing field, and I work in caregiving.

I know what kind of germs get under your fingernails.

It's one thing to eat with fufu.

It's another thing to dip your fingers into the soup,

scoop it up, suck your fingers, and lick them dry.

That's no. That's just nasty.

I think he's being very rude.

Um...

[Lisa] No.

-Thank you. -All right.

[Lisa] I did, I tasted it.

Ah!

No.

[Daniel speaks foreign language]

[tries speaking foreign language]

-Eh? -I can't say that.

-What does it mean? -[Daniel speaks foreign language]

[tries speaking foreign language]

[Daniel] Oh.

[Lisa] No -- No.

You drink it. You respect it.

-No. -[speaks foreign language]

Stop raising your voice at me.

Hey -- Hey, don't talk to me that way.

Eh?

I'm done talking to you. 'Cause I...

What is that?

I took one sip.

[Lisa] No, I'm not. You're the one who's changing.

Look at you. Put it down and talk nicely.

This is a control thing with Daniel right now.

I understand that he's pushing me really hard to do things

a proper etiquette way, but he's being rude to me.

What the hell does Daniel want right now?

-Let me see. -You wanna see me walk?

[Lisa] Watch me walk.

Watch me walk.

Oh!

[tense music playing]

[Forrest speaking]

But all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena.

[gentle foreign music playing]

-Hey babe, you ready to go? -[Trisha] Yeah.

It's already late.

I think the boat is waiting for us.

[gentle foreign music continues]

I think that's the boat right there.

We better hurry up before they leave us.

[Trisha chuckles]

Last night was really rough. We got in this big argument.

I just thought it was kind of bold of her to just tell me

that, you know, she wants me to buy her stuff.

I'm not here for that.

We couldn't really come to an agreement, so eventually

we decided to put a pin in it and enjoy our evening together.

Oh, my God!

But I still feel concerned about whether or not I can

fulfill her needs.

[man speaking]

-Ooh, thank you. -[man speaks indistinctly]

Wow, baby!

[calm music playing]

[Rick] So beautiful.

Today, we took a boat to an island called Nosy Iranja.

This place, it looks like paradise.

I see crystal blue waters, a sandbar that separates

two islands that you can actually walk across.

It's the perfect place for us to have a really romantic time,

and reset, you know, take some strolls along the beach.

[both laugh softly]

[Rick] Thank you so much.

[Trisha speaking]

-Oh, I know [laughs]. -Seriously?

No, I wouldn't have learned a skill like that.

We put it there, like this way.

-All right, that's cool. -And then we can walk.

-Oh, what? -[both laugh]

-It's not going to fall? -No.

That's 'cause you got all that hair up there.

-You got like a nest up there. -No.

All right, here we go. Here we go, baby.

[Trisha giggles]

[Rick] I'm here to find my future wife.

And I'm serious about Trish being that one.

[Trisha] Let's go.

[Rick] She just has a presence that's so captivating.

It just makes me wanna be close to her.

-Yeah, I'm doing it. -[Trisha] Let me see [laughs].

[Rick] But at the same time, we need to work through issues

that we have in order for us to have a future.

[Trisha] Oh, my God, it's hot. I wanna sit down.

-[Rick sighs] Man, baby. -What?

-This is beautiful. -Mm-hmm.

[Rick] So glad that we're here.

That was a rough night last night.

[Trisha] Yeah.

I wanna apologize for what happened yesterday.

Um...

[Trisha speaking]

[Rick] I think when you were asking me for things,

then that, you know, kinda triggered

some things that I've gone through in the past.

Just past relationships

that I felt like, you know, once...

I wasn't giving enough, you know, they didn't wanna

be with me anymore.

I just need to make sure that, you know,

that won't happen again.

Money has been an issue in previous relationships.

I was married to Samson and Frederick's mom,

Chiny, for seven years.

Chiny is from Nigeria,

and I brought her over on a K-1 visa.

I think Chiny had higher expectations than what I could

realistically provide.

And it caused a lot of issues between us.

That's why I've tried to be really straightforward

with Trish about my financial situation.

[Trisha speaking]

That's it. That's what I'm asking.

Yes, I know that.

Yes, yes.

That's the promise that I'm making to you.

I promise that I'm gonna take care of all your needs.

I may not be able to give you everything you want,

like your ex, but everything you need,

you don't have to worry about.

It's different.

The way you talk, the way you give me affection,

I love that.

You think that I'm enough for you?

That means a lot to me. It means a lot, you saying that.

That's what I want too, baby.

You ready to go have some fun?

Yeah, let's go.

I'm starting to feel better that Trish is reassuring me

that I'm enough for her.

That's -- That's -- That's what I need to feel.

Because I think that being insecure has caused me to make

mistakes in my relationship.

I really do care about Trish and want this to work.

But it's hard because I still haven't told her what happened

between me and my ex in Colombia.

We're finally getting into a good place,

but everything always feels so fragile between us.

I really don't know how to tell her,

but eventually, it needs to come out.

[Trisha and Rick speaking]

[intriguing music playing]

Ah, just in time, just in time for dinner.

-[Sheena] Just in time. -[Forrest] Perfect.

Yeah, thanks. Good stuff.

[Katrina] We hope you enjoy this.

This is our native food.

[Katrina] Grilled chicken, grilled squid and pork,

and our natural tropical fruits. -[Forrest] That sounds awesome.

-Oh. -[Katrina] Dinner is served.

[chuckles]

See how it works in America or in my culture,

we normally start with the oldest and we go

-[Steve] Oh, OK. -[Katrina] We do guests first.

Since you're the biggest, you start.

Oh, I am the biggest. We go by size here.

-[Steve] Yeah, we go. -OK.

I just met Sheena's family, and so far, they're definitely

not the evil dragons I was expecting.

For the last seven years, I've been hearing that they're

manipulating her and just treating her awfully.

And now I'm hearing they're decent people.

I feel confused,

but all I know is I need to get their blessing

to marry Sheena and then go from there.

So, how's your travel here from America?

It was long and it was hard, but I got to see

my Sheen for the first time. -[Katrina] Mm-hmm.

-[Steve speaking] -[Forrest] Finally.

I'm curious, though, what were you expecting when you go here?

-[Katrina chuckles] -Oh.

I was expecting, um...

Well, I was expecting...

It's kind of hard to say.

You know, my mom's,

uh, under the impression that... Um...

I might be walking into a scam.

Every, you know, there's...

-There's a lot of scammers. -[Steve] Uh...

[Sheena] Prove her wrong. That's the best thing.

[Forrest] That's it.

How'd you guys feel when you guys heard

I was actually here?

[clears throat]

Yeah, I thought, "Finally," because it's so long.

Um...

We're not really...

We're not really sure if we're gonna meet you in person.

Yeah.

I have to say, a lot of it had to do with finances.

I don't make that much money, unfortunately.

Mm-hmm.

Um...

[Katrina] But the question is, uh...

I don't recall it. What's your job?

[Forrest] Yeah.

So...

This is kind of going to be mind shattering here.

I'm unemployed right now.

[tense chord plays]

I'm actually receiving disability.

-Disability for what? -[Forrest] So I have autism.

I have problems talking with others.

Like, right now,

I'm having a terrible, awful time.

[soft, tense music playing]

So that's enough for you for your daily life?

It covers everything in my life right now.

But I realize I'm not making enough to support

a family right now.

But I believe I'll be able to get a full-time job.

I just want the world for your daughter.

And I was hoping I could get your blessing.

[tense music builds]

[Steve] Well, Forrest...

[sighs]

So, without any fundings, how will you survive, you know?

The only way to survive is to get job.

[Forrest] Yeah.

I have the energy. I have the drive.

I just want to make sure you guys know I'm completely

and totally serious I'm gonna be working full-time.

And, yeah, be support for her.

[Steve speaking Filipino]

OK -- you have my blessing.

[soft music playing]

Well...

How has she been doing that?

[Steve speaking]

[Forrest] Oh.

I understand.

[Katrina] Yeah.

Yeah, I'm really looking forward to meeting

your parents tomorrow.

[Forrest] My mom and dad...

[sighs, stammers],

they definitely have a lot

to kind of talk about tomorrow with you guys.

We're looking forward to it.

[Forrest] It's going to be a blast.

I should be happy that I got their blessing,

but I feel like Sheena hasn't been 100% honest with me.

What I've seen, it's not the same

as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.

The way she described her family, the way they live,

the whole money situation. The stories are not adding up.

And I'm really worried that tomorrow my mother is going

to come in and going to think everything has been a lie

this entire time. She's going to...

basically flip out.

[dramatic, tense music playing]

I want you to cut him out of your life.

So you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him?

Yes, you heard me right.

This kind of changes my thinking a little bit,

and I'm in a...

No.

♪♪

[indistinct chatter]

Bye -- take care. Take care.

[Stig and Aviva speaking]

[Aviva] Don't be so hard on yourself.

[Stig] I will always be hard on myself.

[Aviva speaking]

I'm so tired. It's been such a long night.

Yeah.

We're just getting back to the hotel

from Stig's performance.

And I felt a little uncomfortable.

But...

I think I did well.

I knew I had to hold it together and just push

my feelings to the side.

My feet are killing me.

You wanna give me a foot massage?

Maybe.

-Maybe? -Mm-hmm.

I had a good time. I thought you did really well.

-Thank you. -So, did I handle it OK?

Like...

I guess.

-You guess? -[Stig] Yeah.

[Aviva] What'd I do?

How does this girl think that she handled this well?

Like, how?

You're mad at me?

Aviva made me feel like she wasn't interested

in my performance.

She's on her phone texting while I'm performing.

I'm boiling inside.

And she thinks everything is fine and dandy.

[Aviva] What did -- please tell me what I did wrong.

When you're on your phone

texting.

Mm.

Mm.

No. It wasn't like that.

-Like... -Actually hurt my feelings.

-Being on my phone? -Yes, [bleep].

-Not the right time for that. -You weren't even watching.

-You were... -Yes, I, bro -- bro.

I'm literally performing,

singing to you.

[Aviva] I wasn't trying to be disrespectful.

It wasn't intentional.

But he was dancing with another woman in front of me,

and he played "Vicky," even though I asked him not to,

so it's a little annoying that he couldn't have just

skipped the song. It wasn't even a big event.

I just feel like it's not fair.

-Sorry. -All right.

[Aviva] I don't have anybody out here.

Like, you have to understand that.

There is all these girls on the stage with you,

so I'm gonna talk to my people. I'm gonna text my friends.

-I can do that. -[Stig] Do what you want.

Cool.

To me, that's [bleep] up.

You're supposed to be on my team, a part of my team.

That you did not hype me up

kind of killed my vibe, actually.

That's why I felt like I forgot my lyrics.

I was just distracted.

Mm.

You keep talking about these other girls,

these other girls having fun

hyping me up, and my girl is there just

on her phone.

It's my first time in a situation like this.

There's lots of beautiful girls around.

I just... I felt awkward.

I didn't feel confident, and I just wanted...

You really think that's the best way to handle it?

I didn't mean to make you feel a certain way, but OK.

[Stig] BRB.

I'm kind of at a loss, because I am trying my best to

not get super jealous, not overreact, but apparently

I didn't do a very good job.

I am worried that if he thinks I'm too jealous and crazy,

he might just break up with me.

I don't wanna scare him off,

but part of me is terrified that I already have.

[tense music playing]

[foreign music playing]

[Birkan speaking]

Why? 'Cause you got bit?

Bark at you. Bark at me.

OK.

-No, you're fine. -My English is terrible.

-Your English is perfect. -Reboot.

Reboot.

[Laura] Last night, I found out

that Birkan has an immense amount of debt.

And I was worried that he really just does want

a green card.

But I have put a lot into this relationship, so maybe

I just need to give it a little bit more time to see how red

the red flags actually are.

Maybe they're just a little pink.

I don't know.

-[Laura speaking] -[Birkan] Yeah.

[Birkan speaking]

I wanted to show her different areas

and different villages.

[speaking Turkish]

Thank you.

[Birkan speaking]

[man speaking Turkish]

-Oh, I did it. -[Birkan laughs]

-I got one. -Ah, yeah.

[man speaking Turkish]

[Laura gasps]

Oh, that's cool.

It's not perfectly round, but that looks good.

No, you don't.

Yeah, I am. Check at this.

-I have no talent. -[Laura] No, it's good.

No, it's good.

-Now you just roll it. -It has a tail.

[cackles]

-Yeah, he does. -It just makes me angry.

I can't even get it out.

[man speaking Turkish]

-All of the evil eye stuff. -[Birkan] Yeah.

Is this something, like, that's common in Turkey?

Like, you're taught as a kid?

Is that something that your family taught you,

your parents taught you?

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, they taught me.

[Laura] OK.

We hardly ever talk about your family.

[Birkan] Yeah.

Usually, we kind of dance around that topic, and I'd like

to know... -Yeah, that's, um --

...more about them?

[Laura] Do you see them very often?

No, actually. My parents are...

not so happy because I'm with you.

Birkan has been a little evasive about the relationship

with his parents.

We haven't talked about it in a lot of detail,

so hearing that Birkan's parents don't...

approve of me is really upsetting.

My family already doesn't approve of this,

and it's just

kind of frustrating to have a relationship where I feel

like everything is against us.

Do you think that there's a point where I would ever

meet your parents?

I don't know.

But I do feel like...

meeting someone's family is a good way to get to know...

Yeah.

...more information about a person.

My family is my friends.

[Laura] I understand that.

For me, that's how I feel about my friend Michael, you know?

I don't want you to be too close with him

because I don't trust him.

Also, I don't like him.

Well, he is very important in my life.

We literally do everything together all the time.

OK.

I want you to cut him out of your life.

So you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him?

No, actually is not an ultimatum, you know?

-[Laura] What is it then? -You're gonna choose me.

This is the point, we are thinking about marriage.

When we get married,

he's not gonna be a part of our lives.

[Laura] I don't like that.

He's just my friend,

and he's not trying to make me cut you out.

He can't.

This is relationship.

This is the one who you get married

not some activity buddies.

I've always known that Birkan doesn't love the fact

that Michael and I are friends.

But when Birkan tells me that I'm gonna have to cut Michael

out of my life, it absolutely feels like some weird

controlling side of him that I haven't seen yet

and I really don't like.

This kind of changes my thinking a little bit, and I'm in a...

About him?

No.

He's not trying to force me to make a decision

that I don't wanna make. -[Birkan] Hmm.

I am shocked, that Birkan

decides to walk out on me as a way

of ending our conversation.

It's super disrespectful to me,

especially when I've tried to be very understanding

with the massive amount of debt that he revealed to me.

This doesn't really feel like the man that I thought

I knew online.

[Lisa] I'm mad at the way he talked to me.

The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and [bleep].

No -- no, he's not gonna do that.

And if he doesn't come and apologize,

I'm getting in the car.

[tense music playing]

[Daniel speaking]

[somber music playing]

[Lisa] I'm mad.

And he better come and apologize.

And if he doesn't come and apologize,

I'm getting in the car.

I'm mad the way he talked to me.

The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and [bleep].

No -- no, he's not gonna do that.

He's not gonna shake his hand in front of my face.

[Daniel speaking]

[somber, dramatic music playing]

[Daniel speaking]

[blows through mouth]

Why are you talking to me like that?

You raised your voice. You put your hand in my face.

I took two sips. I don't wanna --

I'm not even gonna drink it anymore.

Then why are you drinking it? Why did you order it?

[tries speaking foreign language]

And don't get mad at me

'cause I can't pronounce everything.

I am an American.

Daniel, you can't pronounce everything properly.

So what?

Don't raise your voice.

You are raising your voice on me.

No.

Are you gonna be nice?

[Daniel speaks foreign language]

No.

Don't put your arm around me.

No.

No.

I am so upset with Daniel right now.

This is our first full day together, and

I'm seeing this whole other side to him.

The way he's behaving has given off warning signs.

I don't like it.

I am a Christian.

So you're not allowed to smoke as a Christian?

I'm trying to quit.

[Lisa] No, you shouldn't --

you don't talk about it at all.

-In my family... -[Laura] Mm-hmm.

-[Laura] Let me ask you this. -OK.

If your uncle does not give you the blessing,

does that mean that we are not getting married?

[sad music playing]

You told me you are a man who can make his own decisions.

I came to Nigeria for a reason, and now you're telling me

without a blessing that you can't marry me.

And that's -- and the vaping is

the only thing that you're very concerned about?

That's your biggest concern?

Hmm?

[Lisa] I'm thinking.

Daniel is so worried about the vape,

but that seems really small compared to all the other things

that Daniel doesn't know about me.

I'm terrified to tell him my truth.

I have no idea if he'll be able to forgive me.

And even if he accepted my past,

once I reveal my secrets to him,

is he gonna have to tell all of his family

that I've only been with women for the past 21 years

and that I'm still married?

If we tell his uncle about that,

I'm scared I'm not gonna get the blessing.

I don't wanna lose Daniel.

[tense chord plays]

[Rick speaking]

[Annalyn] Next time on "Before the 90 Days."

[Trisha] So cute. [speaks foreign language]

[Rick] Yeah, the kids will love this.

-[Trisha] Yeah. -[Rick speaking]

If he decided he does not wanna have kids,

I don't know if I could be with him.

[Jovon] I was gonna stop talking to that person.

[Annalyn speaking]

Tell me something interesting about Birkan.

[speaking Turkish]

[Birkan speaking]

[speaking Turkish]

[Laura] Wait. What is she saying?

[Molly] Oh, yes. Moment of truth.

Man, this is so beautiful here.

Holy [bleep].

Well, would you look at that?

Sheena's expecting me to believe that if her parents

don't take her money, that they're gonna starve.

Tonight, we'll get the truth from Sheena.

She told us if she didn't give the money,

that you would mistreat her.

[Steve speaking]

[tense music builds]

[Daniel speaking]

[Daniel's uncle speaking]

I'm sitting next to the man I love,

and he doesn't know [bleep] about me.

I don't wanna lie to his uncle, but I want us

to have this blessing, more than anything in the world.

I have not always been, but Daniel makes me

into a better woman.

[tense music playing]