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[Lisa] Previously on
"Before the 90 Days."
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[Stig]
This one is for you, Aviva.
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[singing] The sex good,
and I feel good.
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Yeah.
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[Aviva speaking]
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[Stig speaking]
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You really are like
a one-woman type of guy.
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Yeah.
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[Aviva] I'm not convinced
he's telling me the truth.
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I haven't been using protection,
and I don't wanna
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start a family with a liar.
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[Lisa]
Baby.
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[Daniel speaking]
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Daniel and I literally just
got engaged, and I'm worried.
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He's second guessing
everything,
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and he doesn't want me.
And I feel rejected.
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[Trisha speaking]
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And how did you respond?
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[Trisha]
I didn't even respond, Rick.
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Look.
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I've been insecure
about Trisha's ex boyfriend,
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'cause I know
he has a lot of money,
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and I'm not in a position to be
supporting her like that.
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Do you believe me now?
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I do believe that you're not
talking to him anymore.
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I'm not, Rick.
I'm not.
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Sheena just told me
I need her parents' approval
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to marry
her,
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so now I have to go
and get their approval
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while I have to tell them
that their days are basically
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numbered with getting money
away from their daughter.
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[Sheena speaking]
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[dramatic, tense music builds]
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[Birkan speaking]
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-Did you say, "your debts"?
-[Birkan] Yeah.
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How much is it?
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[Laura]
That's a lot of [bleep] money.
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[dramatic, tense
music continues]
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[woman singing
in foreign language]
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[Daniel] Mm.
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[Lisa]
No.
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Mm -- mm...
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You have
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the...
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nicest ass I have ever seen.
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And you know,
I always thought your dimples
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were my favorite thing,
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but you know what
my favorite thing is now?
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You're not gonna...
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Your belly button.
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It really is.
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And it's an outie.
It's not an innie.
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-It's so cute.
-[Daniel laughs]
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I feel like I'm on a roller
coaster already with Daniel,
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and it's not even 24 hours yet.
I'm engaged.
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Day one, I'm freaking engaged.
I didn't sleep last night.
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All I could do was stare
at his face.
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He's everything
I could have dreamed about,
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except he doesn't have boobs.
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It was awful.
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-I was upset with you.
-Why?
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Because I expected
more than what happened.
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♪♪
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Last night was uncomfortable,
and it was strange.
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He didn't finish.
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And I don't think
he was full on
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[bleep].
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And I had so much anticipation.
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So it was almost
like we didn't have sex.
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Even though we had sex, it was
almost like it wasn't there.
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So it just deflated me.
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I felt like, well,
maybe I am too old.
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Maybe I am, you know,
not the shape
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he wants me to be.
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I was really
questioning myself.
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But it was really awkward
for me,
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because it's been so long
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since I've been...
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intimate like that.
And then you didn't...
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finish.
And then...
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I don't know how to talk
to you about this.
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-I'm embarrassed.
-[Daniel laughs]
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-[Lisa] It was a trial run.
-Test.
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It was a test run.
It was a test run, wasn't it?
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Yeah.
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-You did.
-[Daniel] Yeah.
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[Lisa giggles]
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But you want me to be honest?
You're a little...
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bigger than I expected.
-Really?
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So it was a little painful
at first.
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At first, it was
uncomfortable and painful.
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OK.
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And then it was really sweet
and gentle and enjoyable,
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and I seem to have stretched
to fit you just perfectly.
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And I feel like you're made
for me.
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[Daniel]
I'm happy.
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I'm so glad I'm here.
And I love you so much.
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[Lisa] Now that Daniel
and I have been physical
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and I'm engaged to him,
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I'm even more concerned how
he's gonna handle what
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I have to tell him about being
still married and it's a woman
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and that I've been with women
for the past 21 years.
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I'm already 100%
into this relationship,
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physically and emotionally.
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And it's definitely gonna be
harder for me to handle
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if he can't accept my past.
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You keep saying things like
that, we're never gonna get
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out of this bed
and get showered.
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[Daniel hums softly]
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[soft, tender piano playing]
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[happy, playful music playing]
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[bell dinging]
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[Sheena speaking]
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[Forrest] Oh, my goodness.
Oh, my God.
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-Oh, Lord.
-Oh, my God.
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[Forrest] Give me strength.
This is worse than the bus.
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[Sheena laughs]
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Sheen and I getting
into this tricycle is like
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what a sardine feels like,
being inside of a can.
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I would never do this with
anybody else but you, Sheen.
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That's pretty great.
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I get to, you know, get up
nice and close, but she's also
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crushing me to death.
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I love this.
Whoo-hoo!
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-Oh!
-Whoa!
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I wish they'd give us a nice,
you know, extra-wide
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for my American physique.
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[romantic music playing]
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I'm afraid I'm gonna fall off,
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and I don't want two
broken legs.
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Today, I'm going to meet
Sheena's family
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for the first time
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in a province
called Cavite.
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We'll just have to give a lot.
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Ever since I met Sheena
seven years ago,
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her family has been
like these ominous figures.
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She's told me
that they manipulate
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and exploit her financially.
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[speaks Filipino]
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[Forrest grunts]
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I've always pictured
this meeting
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as me putting my foot down
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and letting them know that
Sheena is going to completely
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cut them off financially.
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But now it's turned
into something completely
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and totally different
than what I envisioned.
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You didn't tell me that
there was gonna be a mountain,
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treacherous hill to climb.
-[Sheena] Yeah.
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[Forrest]
Oh, man.
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First, she told me that I need
her parents' approval
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to marry her.
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And then she said that they're
going to ask me about my career
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and how I make money.
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But the truth is,
I don't have a job.
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I don't have a lot of money.
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I'm just this loser
who's on disability.
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Baby, we can do this.
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[Sheena]
Just be careful, baby.
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[Forrest] So at this point,
I'm concerned that I won't be
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able to get the blessing
for Sheena's family
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that I apparently need.
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-Oh my gosh, is that them?
-[Sheena] Yes, my love.
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[Forrest]
Oh my goodness.
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[soft, tense music playing]
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-[Steve] You must be Forrest.
-Yeah, Forrest.
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[Steve]
Wow.
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Hello, sir.
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It's finally nice to meet
you after so long.
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-Nice to meet you too.
-Hello.
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-Hello.
-[Katrina laughs]
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It's OK.
I'm a little shy myself here.
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Yes.
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You know, I'm so happy that
you're allowing me to stay here
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and I'm finally getting
to meet you.
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[laughing nervously]
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Oh, man.
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Sheena told me that her mom
is sick,
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so I won't be meeting her.
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But her dad and sister seem
nice enough.
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A bit quiet, which I guess is
kind of normal,
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but it's not what I was
expecting.
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You wanna take a break
from traveling?
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[both] Yeah.
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Yeah.
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-Yeah.
-Yeah.
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-[Sheena] So this is the place.
-[Forrest] Yeah.
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[soft, dreamy music playing]
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[Sheena speaking]
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-[Forrest] Wow.
-[Sheena] Yeah.
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[Katrina speaking]
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[Forrest] Boy.
OK, cool.
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Sheena told me that her family
runs a bed and breakfast
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out of their family home.
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And I've heard over and over
again that they need the money
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to fix this roof.
"Oh, they need money to do this.
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"Oh, they need money to do this.
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That's why they're stealing
all this money from me."
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But it turns out that this is
a nice, fancy place.
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[Katrina]
OK, welcome to our house.
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[Forrest]
Oh, wow.
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[Sheena speaking]
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[Forrest] This place is huge --
wow.
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So, here I was under
the impression that her family
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might be destitute or they are
gonna starve without her.
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It doesn't add up.
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-Thank you very much.
-[Steve speaking]
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-[Sheena] Yeah, all right.
-[Katrina] Enjoy and relax.
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Yeah, all right.
Thank you.
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Thank you, guys.
Thank you.
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[Forrest groans]
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My mind's just confused.
I don't understand.
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-[Sheena speaking]
-[Forrest] Yeah.
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It was way worth the getting
crushed in the bus.
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Your dad seems like
a really awesome guy.
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[Sheena speaking]
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[Forrest]
OK.
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Well, I think I wanna clean up
my face real quick.
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OK, I'm gonna head in
the bathroom real quick.
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Mm-hmm, yes.
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Test for the water
if it's good.
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Wash your face around.
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Wash your hands -- Yeah.
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[Sheena speaking Filipino]
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[tense music builds]
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Do you think I'm gonna marry you
for your money?
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That's what everybody
else thought.
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I thought he was the man
who's going to honor
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the "provide and protect"
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that he sold me on
in the beginning.
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And now I don't know.
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The debt is a big deal.
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[Stig] You excited
about my show tonight?
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[Aviva]
Yeah, I am.
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What songs are you singing
at your show?
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So, who is Vicky?
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♪ Daydream about you ♪
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♪ Daydream about you ♪
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♪ Something about you ♪
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[Stig speaking]
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[Aviva] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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[Stig] I'm so grateful
that I live here.
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[Aviva speaking]
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-[Stig] Do you wanna jump in?
-[Aviva] OK.
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[Stig speaking]
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[Aviva laughs]
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♪ Something about you ♪
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♪ I like something about you ♪
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♪ Daydreaming about you ♪
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♪ Daydreaming about you ♪
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[Aviva] Mm.
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That sounds good.
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[Stig speaking]
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This is Aviva's
second full day in Belize,
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and we're here
in beautiful San Pedro
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'cause I'm gonna
perform tonight.
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Yesterday, Aviva was accusing
me of not being over my ex
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from Texas.
But in the hotel last night,
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I do believe that I was able
to calm her down.
259
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[Stig speaking Spanish]
260
00:15:25,758 --> 00:15:26,862
Huh?
261
00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:29,103
[Aviva speaking]
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00:15:33,758 --> 00:15:35,172
Thank you.
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We had sex three times.
No protection again.
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We're risking it all.
We're just going with the flow.
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-How is it?
-[Aviva] It's good.
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-Mm-hmm, refreshing.
-[Stig speaking]
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00:15:49,275 --> 00:15:51,793
-No, not like this.
-Oh.
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00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:58,103
You excited
about my show tonight?
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[Aviva]
Yeah, I am.
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00:16:01,275 --> 00:16:03,000
What songs are you
singing at your show?
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I am trying to have
this romantic beach moment
272
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with Stig, but
he mentions the song "Vicky."
273
00:16:20,551 --> 00:16:23,068
And I can't help
but think of
274
00:16:23,241 --> 00:16:25,586
when my Aunt Spring brought up
that rumor to me.
275
00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:28,586
They actually just did
a big concert,
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like for Valentine's Day.
277
00:16:33,896 --> 00:16:38,551
...and she was at the concert,
and they left together.
278
00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:43,724
So who is -- who is Vicky?
279
00:16:46,172 --> 00:16:50,310
The concept of Vicky
is a girl -- huh...
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is a girl I was messing with
who had a man,
281
00:16:53,137 --> 00:16:54,379
and the man wasn't
treating her good.
282
00:16:54,551 --> 00:16:58,000
She was married,
and I was the little bartender,
283
00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,379
showing her love, you know
what I mean, on the side.
284
00:17:01,758 --> 00:17:04,896
So is it someone
you still talk to?
285
00:17:05,034 --> 00:17:07,103
-Is it someone that you...?
-No, no, no, no, no.
286
00:17:07,275 --> 00:17:10,103
-...have a past with?
-I had a past with her.
287
00:17:12,586 --> 00:17:16,378
So my aunt Spring,
she knows a lot of people here.
288
00:17:16,378 --> 00:17:20,896
I've heard a lot of rumors that
Vicky went to your last show
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00:17:21,034 --> 00:17:24,378
with you, and you left
the show with her.
290
00:17:24,378 --> 00:17:27,172
And I just, I'm confused,
and I'm just hoping that
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00:17:27,344 --> 00:17:28,965
you can clear some things up
with me.
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00:17:35,758 --> 00:17:38,103
Aviva's aunt Spring,
I never met her.
293
00:17:38,103 --> 00:17:40,103
I only heard about aunt Spring,
294
00:17:40,103 --> 00:17:43,482
but apparently she knows me
better than I know myself.
295
00:17:43,482 --> 00:17:44,758
Is she the secret service?
296
00:17:52,965 --> 00:17:54,000
You know?
297
00:17:56,172 --> 00:17:57,793
But did you go home with her?
298
00:18:03,103 --> 00:18:04,206
You don't believe me?
299
00:18:04,379 --> 00:18:06,379
Apparently,
there was some article,
300
00:18:06,551 --> 00:18:07,793
or you were tagged in something,
301
00:18:07,965 --> 00:18:10,482
or she was tagged in something
302
00:18:10,655 --> 00:18:11,827
of you guys going home together.
303
00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:14,379
So I'm not really sure
how I'm supposed to believe you.
304
00:18:16,172 --> 00:18:18,275
Don't let [bleep] get
to your head.
305
00:18:22,482 --> 00:18:25,620
I am definitely gonna do
my best to not be in my head
306
00:18:25,793 --> 00:18:29,310
about it, but you're apparently
gonna sing it tonight.
307
00:18:29,482 --> 00:18:31,000
How do I know if she's not
gonna be there?
308
00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:32,689
[Stig] That's one of my biggest
songs in Belize.
309
00:18:32,689 --> 00:18:34,620
-I can't not sing that.
-Yeah.
310
00:18:35,689 --> 00:18:37,275
You don't want me
to sing the song?
311
00:18:37,275 --> 00:18:39,379
My biggest --
One of my biggest songs?
312
00:18:39,551 --> 00:18:40,517
Yeah.
313
00:18:41,689 --> 00:18:42,896
Come on.
Don't do that.
314
00:18:46,689 --> 00:18:48,896
All of my exes,
they start off saying,
315
00:18:48,896 --> 00:18:51,896
"I'm not gonna be jealous.
I got you."
316
00:18:52,034 --> 00:18:53,620
But [bleep].
317
00:18:53,793 --> 00:18:55,862
I thought Aviva was gonna
be different.
318
00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:58,517
And now I am worried
how she's gonna react
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00:18:58,689 --> 00:19:00,689
when I perform "Vicky,"
when I do perform it.
320
00:19:02,586 --> 00:19:03,689
Tonight could...
321
00:19:05,103 --> 00:19:06,896
[bleep] the whole thing out.
322
00:19:07,034 --> 00:19:08,586
I don't want that.
323
00:19:08,758 --> 00:19:11,586
If tonight is a problem,
that's gonna throw me off.
324
00:19:11,586 --> 00:19:13,379
I don't know if I could deal
with that.
325
00:19:14,758 --> 00:19:16,068
That's not what I signed
up for.
326
00:19:18,482 --> 00:19:21,413
I mean, I'll do my best,
but I just wouldn't feel more
327
00:19:21,586 --> 00:19:23,862
comfortable if you didn't
perform "Vicky."
328
00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:24,896
That's all I can say.
329
00:19:25,034 --> 00:19:27,000
[tense music ends]
330
00:19:36,068 --> 00:19:38,379
I had a lot of people,
331
00:19:38,551 --> 00:19:42,068
before I came here,
say that you would
332
00:19:42,241 --> 00:19:44,689
only wanna be with me
because you would want
333
00:19:44,689 --> 00:19:46,965
a green card and money.
334
00:19:48,620 --> 00:19:50,000
And hearing that
335
00:19:51,793 --> 00:19:53,793
kind of makes it seem like
that's true.
336
00:19:57,103 --> 00:19:59,206
[daring music playing]
337
00:20:02,862 --> 00:20:07,793
You think, like, I'm gonna marry
you for your money.
338
00:20:09,689 --> 00:20:12,482
That's what everybody
else thought.
339
00:20:12,482 --> 00:20:14,000
Did you think that?
340
00:20:14,137 --> 00:20:15,310
Well, I don't know right now.
341
00:20:15,482 --> 00:20:17,482
I'm literally just hearing
about most of this
342
00:20:17,655 --> 00:20:18,862
for the first time.
343
00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:23,275
Birkan just told me
that he's 50K in debt
344
00:20:23,448 --> 00:20:25,793
and that he'd flee the country
and flee his debt
345
00:20:25,793 --> 00:20:27,793
and just ignore it.
346
00:20:27,965 --> 00:20:32,482
I'm frustrated and incredibly
concerned because it's making
347
00:20:32,482 --> 00:20:35,517
me feel, I feel like he's just
straight up using me
348
00:20:35,689 --> 00:20:37,000
to get out of his debt.
349
00:20:40,275 --> 00:20:42,000
You know,
350
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,310
that's not who I am, actually.
351
00:20:44,482 --> 00:20:49,206
If I was someone like that,
I would have lied.
352
00:20:49,379 --> 00:20:52,379
I would have never told
you about my debt.
353
00:20:52,379 --> 00:20:53,655
You know?
354
00:20:56,103 --> 00:20:57,517
[Laura]
I know that.
355
00:20:57,689 --> 00:21:01,689
But I wanna make sure that
I'm making a smart decision,
356
00:21:01,689 --> 00:21:05,482
when it comes to future plans,
like getting engaged.
357
00:21:06,517 --> 00:21:09,000
[Birkan speaking]
358
00:21:13,275 --> 00:21:15,586
You know what?
I'm ready to go.
359
00:21:15,586 --> 00:21:17,310
-OK, let's go.
-[Laura] Let's go.
360
00:21:20,689 --> 00:21:23,586
[soft, dark pensive
music playing]
361
00:21:38,413 --> 00:21:40,517
I'm pretty frustrated.
362
00:21:40,689 --> 00:21:44,275
He told me a lot of things
at dinner that were concerning.
363
00:21:44,448 --> 00:21:47,793
The debt is a big deal to me
because he's talked about
364
00:21:47,793 --> 00:21:50,689
nothing but, like,
honesty and pride and respect,
365
00:21:50,689 --> 00:21:54,103
and it's really hard to respect
someone that's not outright
366
00:21:54,103 --> 00:21:55,517
and straightforward
with the truth.
367
00:21:56,896 --> 00:22:00,620
I thought he was the man
who's going to honor
368
00:22:00,793 --> 00:22:04,482
the "provide and protect" that
he sold me on in the beginning,
369
00:22:05,482 --> 00:22:06,586
and now I don't know.
370
00:22:10,379 --> 00:22:11,482
What are you doing?
371
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:14,482
[Birkan]
Washing the dishes.
372
00:22:21,172 --> 00:22:22,379
I told you why.
373
00:22:22,379 --> 00:22:25,482
I'm frustrated that you let
things go the way they did.
374
00:22:27,586 --> 00:22:29,586
[laughs sarcastically]
Don't be cute.
375
00:22:29,758 --> 00:22:31,206
That doesn't fix this.
376
00:22:33,413 --> 00:22:35,896
-I'm not gonna answer that
right now.
-You've gotta answer.
377
00:22:35,896 --> 00:22:37,689
-No.
-You've gotta answer.
378
00:22:37,862 --> 00:22:39,379
-I do not have to answer.
-You've gotta answer.
379
00:22:39,379 --> 00:22:41,517
-You think that you can --stop.
-Why are you mad?
380
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,379
You think a couple of kisses
will win me over?
381
00:22:53,896 --> 00:22:56,413
-[Birkan speaking]
-[Laura] Oh.
382
00:22:57,517 --> 00:23:01,517
I'm still feeling nervous
about what his intentions are.
383
00:23:01,689 --> 00:23:05,379
But this is probably
all of the fantasies I had kind
384
00:23:05,551 --> 00:23:08,172
of rolled into one
in that moment.
385
00:23:08,344 --> 00:23:09,896
Having a hot Turkish guy push
386
00:23:10,034 --> 00:23:12,689
you up against the wall
and make out with you,
387
00:23:12,862 --> 00:23:16,379
I don't know what it is.
I just can't resist him.
388
00:23:16,551 --> 00:23:18,172
-[Laura speaking]
-[Birkan] I know.
389
00:23:18,172 --> 00:23:19,793
That's why you love me.
390
00:23:19,965 --> 00:23:21,896
[Laura laughs softly]
391
00:23:27,172 --> 00:23:28,379
[Trisha]
Look, look.
392
00:23:37,793 --> 00:23:40,517
[Trisha] I don't know why
he act this way.
393
00:23:40,689 --> 00:23:43,172
It's like he assumes the worst.
394
00:23:43,172 --> 00:23:45,896
I'm already doing things
for you.
395
00:23:46,034 --> 00:23:49,586
So why are you asking for more?
Is that what you want me for?
396
00:23:55,586 --> 00:23:57,965
[foreign music playing]
397
00:24:05,586 --> 00:24:06,793
[Rick speaking]
398
00:24:15,586 --> 00:24:17,310
-Uh-uh -- watch out.
-But, baby, don't go...
399
00:24:19,793 --> 00:24:20,896
OK.
400
00:24:22,586 --> 00:24:24,482
-[Rick] You ready?
-[Trisha] Yeah, I'm ready.
401
00:24:24,655 --> 00:24:25,896
[Rick] OK, let's go.
402
00:24:26,034 --> 00:24:28,068
[foreign music
continues playing]
403
00:24:32,448 --> 00:24:34,068
I'm so tired.
404
00:24:36,551 --> 00:24:38,482
'Cause we were packing
all night, that's why.
405
00:25:00,275 --> 00:25:01,482
Oh, yeah.
406
00:25:04,482 --> 00:25:05,793
Whoo!
407
00:25:21,482 --> 00:25:23,862
First flight together, baby.
408
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:25,965
[Trisha speaking]
409
00:25:48,586 --> 00:25:49,689
[Rick speaking]
410
00:25:49,862 --> 00:25:51,862
[singing in foreign language]
411
00:26:15,793 --> 00:26:17,068
Whoo!
412
00:26:20,689 --> 00:26:22,241
Ooh, it's nice and cool.
413
00:26:23,482 --> 00:26:24,655
[Trisha speaking]
414
00:26:29,379 --> 00:26:31,551
[Rick] Oh, my God.
Baby, are you serious?
415
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,068
OK, I'm gonna do --
you like that.
416
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:42,965
Ya-hoo!
417
00:26:43,103 --> 00:26:44,172
Jee, look, look.
418
00:26:48,655 --> 00:26:49,758
Mmm.
419
00:26:53,241 --> 00:26:55,137
Here we go.
420
00:26:55,310 --> 00:26:56,379
We'll see.
421
00:27:08,275 --> 00:27:09,379
[Trisha] Huh?
422
00:27:14,137 --> 00:27:15,896
Yeah, I'm serious.
423
00:27:24,172 --> 00:27:27,103
[tense music plays]
424
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,758
[Trisha] I don't know why
he called me like that.
425
00:27:38,034 --> 00:27:40,896
I'm not looking
for a sugar daddy.
426
00:27:40,896 --> 00:27:43,379
And I'm not a sugar baby.
427
00:27:43,379 --> 00:27:45,068
I got my own money.
428
00:27:45,241 --> 00:27:48,344
I don't know why he act
this way.
429
00:27:48,517 --> 00:27:51,000
I'm just asking for one thing.
430
00:27:51,137 --> 00:27:53,689
And it's like,
he assumes the worst.
431
00:27:58,862 --> 00:28:00,793
I will never ask you
for anything.
432
00:28:03,896 --> 00:28:06,413
[tense music playing]
433
00:28:08,896 --> 00:28:10,275
[Rick]
Oh, it's a nice room.
434
00:28:11,172 --> 00:28:12,758
-[Trisha] Mm.
-[Rick] Yeah.
435
00:28:14,344 --> 00:28:16,655
See what I set up for you?
436
00:28:18,034 --> 00:28:19,241
[Trisha]
I don't care.
437
00:28:19,413 --> 00:28:22,137
[Rick groans]
You don't care, of course.
438
00:28:22,310 --> 00:28:24,241
Cause the roses aren't made
of gold, huh?
439
00:28:30,896 --> 00:28:34,896
So what are we here to do?
Huh?
440
00:28:35,034 --> 00:28:37,379
I thought we were here to,
you know, have a good time.
441
00:28:37,551 --> 00:28:40,241
Yeah, but your answer
in the car seems like,
442
00:28:40,413 --> 00:28:42,000
I don't know...
443
00:28:42,137 --> 00:28:44,344
[Rick] Well,
what are you talking about?
444
00:28:44,517 --> 00:28:47,241
You were the one that brought
up buying you things.
445
00:28:47,413 --> 00:28:49,793
Yeah, but I'm just asking
for a little things.
446
00:28:49,965 --> 00:28:52,586
You just say,
"Oh, you act like a bougie."
447
00:28:52,586 --> 00:28:54,241
"Oh, you act like I'm...
448
00:28:54,413 --> 00:28:58,379
I'm not somebody's sugar daddy."
Did I say that?
449
00:28:58,379 --> 00:28:59,965
You didn't say it,
450
00:29:00,172 --> 00:29:02,689
but you were acting like
a sugar baby.
451
00:29:02,689 --> 00:29:04,896
♪♪
452
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,551
I'm already doing things
for you.
453
00:29:08,724 --> 00:29:11,896
OK -- yeah, you did pay my rent.
454
00:29:11,896 --> 00:29:14,172
So why are you asking
for more?
455
00:29:14,344 --> 00:29:15,965
Is that what you want me for?
456
00:29:17,586 --> 00:29:20,655
It's not what I want you for,
but I'm just asking
457
00:29:20,827 --> 00:29:22,965
for a little things,
it's not that much.
458
00:29:25,379 --> 00:29:27,896
Imma get you what
you need, but I'm not always
459
00:29:28,034 --> 00:29:29,172
gonna get you what you want.
460
00:29:35,275 --> 00:29:38,896
So make it easy.
Keep your money.
461
00:29:39,034 --> 00:29:40,655
See, this type of attitude,
462
00:29:40,827 --> 00:29:43,103
I could've found this
in the States.
463
00:29:43,275 --> 00:29:45,034
I didn't have to come all
the way to Madagascar
464
00:29:45,206 --> 00:29:46,586
to get this.
-So why did you come?
465
00:29:46,758 --> 00:29:48,344
Because I thought
you were different.
466
00:29:48,517 --> 00:29:50,137
[Trisha]
Mm.
467
00:29:50,310 --> 00:29:52,379
So I thought also
you were different.
468
00:29:54,758 --> 00:29:55,965
Hm.
469
00:29:56,103 --> 00:29:58,172
What did you think I was,
like your ex boyfriend?
470
00:29:58,344 --> 00:29:59,758
'Cause that I'm not.
471
00:30:04,034 --> 00:30:07,137
[Trisha] I didn't expect
something like this.
472
00:30:07,310 --> 00:30:10,344
I'm not with him
because of money.
473
00:30:10,517 --> 00:30:12,965
I'm just with him for love,
but I don't know why
474
00:30:13,103 --> 00:30:15,586
he think the opposite.
475
00:30:18,034 --> 00:30:19,482
It's crazy.
I don't even...
476
00:30:24,241 --> 00:30:27,482
What were you expecting
from me?
477
00:30:27,482 --> 00:30:29,413
You know what I do.
478
00:30:31,896 --> 00:30:33,482
So what were you expecting?
479
00:30:33,482 --> 00:30:36,172
I know you were not
rich, Rick.
480
00:30:36,172 --> 00:30:38,448
I know that well.
481
00:30:49,896 --> 00:30:53,275
I mean, what happened
to just loving me for me?
482
00:30:53,448 --> 00:30:56,000
That's what you were saying
in the beginning.
483
00:30:56,137 --> 00:30:57,103
What happened to that?
484
00:31:03,379 --> 00:31:04,379
[seller speaking]
485
00:31:04,551 --> 00:31:05,896
Oh, I don't know
if I'm buying.
486
00:31:06,034 --> 00:31:09,034
I just wanna look at them.
Hello.
487
00:31:09,206 --> 00:31:11,172
Hi, chick, chick,
chick, chick, chick, chick.
488
00:31:11,344 --> 00:31:12,655
I'm not gonna kill a chicken.
489
00:31:12,827 --> 00:31:14,896
-You don't kill a chicken?
-I had chickens.
490
00:31:14,896 --> 00:31:16,275
They were my pets.
491
00:31:16,275 --> 00:31:18,896
They had a little VCR
and a TV to watch.
492
00:31:20,275 --> 00:31:21,448
Yes.
493
00:31:25,379 --> 00:31:28,896
Sheena's family,
they seem pretty laid-back,
494
00:31:29,034 --> 00:31:31,551
normal, caring people.
495
00:31:31,724 --> 00:31:34,172
What were you expecting
when you go here?
496
00:31:34,172 --> 00:31:35,793
Oh.
497
00:31:35,793 --> 00:31:38,551
This is going to be
mind-shattering here.
498
00:31:38,724 --> 00:31:41,793
Well, I was expecting
that, um...
499
00:31:41,793 --> 00:31:43,793
I might be walking into a scam.
500
00:31:43,793 --> 00:31:46,000
[tense music playing]
501
00:31:52,793 --> 00:31:54,896
[foreign music playing]
502
00:31:58,896 --> 00:32:00,793
[Daniel and Lisa speaking]
503
00:32:05,758 --> 00:32:06,862
Oh.
504
00:32:07,862 --> 00:32:09,482
[Lisa] I'm getting used
to you opening my door.
505
00:32:10,655 --> 00:32:13,793
You're such a gentleman.
You treat me like a queen.
506
00:32:15,241 --> 00:32:17,344
[singing in foreign language]
507
00:32:23,586 --> 00:32:26,758
-So that is a taxi.
-Yeah, [speaks foreign language]
508
00:32:26,931 --> 00:32:27,896
[Lisa speaking foreign language]
509
00:32:30,275 --> 00:32:31,379
Yeah.
510
00:32:32,379 --> 00:32:33,586
And that means what?
511
00:32:35,241 --> 00:32:36,551
Oh.
512
00:32:40,862 --> 00:32:43,482
-Is this where we're going?
-[Daniel speaking]
513
00:32:44,586 --> 00:32:46,137
I have always wanted to go
to a market.
514
00:32:46,310 --> 00:32:47,965
I can't wait to get out
and see everything.
515
00:32:52,586 --> 00:32:55,655
This is my first time out
of the country.
516
00:32:55,827 --> 00:32:59,241
This is nothing like
the farmer's markets
517
00:32:59,413 --> 00:33:00,586
that I have been to.
518
00:33:06,896 --> 00:33:08,793
-[Daniel speaking]
-[Lisa] OK.
519
00:33:10,172 --> 00:33:12,172
It kind of reminds me
of a flea market,
520
00:33:12,344 --> 00:33:14,344
but a flea market with food.
521
00:33:14,517 --> 00:33:18,793
And it's little tiny stalls
right on top of each other.
522
00:33:18,965 --> 00:33:21,586
You can buy
anything and everything.
523
00:33:21,586 --> 00:33:23,586
There are live poultry.
524
00:33:23,586 --> 00:33:26,172
There is dried fish,
smoked fish.
525
00:33:26,344 --> 00:33:27,586
Hello.
526
00:33:27,758 --> 00:33:30,103
There are women doing hair
right there in the middle
527
00:33:30,275 --> 00:33:32,586
of the market.
It looks so beautiful.
528
00:33:34,586 --> 00:33:35,862
[seller speaking]
529
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:39,137
Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
I just wanna look at them.
530
00:33:39,310 --> 00:33:40,482
Oh, my goodness.
531
00:33:40,482 --> 00:33:42,793
Ooh!
532
00:33:42,793 --> 00:33:44,862
-[Daniel] Be careful.
-[seller] Like this.
533
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:46,586
-Hello.
-Hi.
534
00:33:46,758 --> 00:33:48,896
Hi, chick, chick,
chick, chick, chick, chick.
535
00:33:49,034 --> 00:33:51,655
She handed me the chicken as
if I was gonna eat the chicken.
536
00:33:51,827 --> 00:33:52,793
I eat chicken.
537
00:33:52,965 --> 00:33:54,689
No, no, I'm not gonna
kill a chicken.
538
00:33:54,862 --> 00:33:55,689
You don't kill a chicken?
539
00:33:55,862 --> 00:33:58,551
I had chickens.
They were my pets.
540
00:33:58,724 --> 00:34:00,344
My chickens were spoiled.
541
00:34:00,517 --> 00:34:03,241
They had a little VCR
and a TV to watch.
542
00:34:04,655 --> 00:34:05,965
Yes.
543
00:34:06,103 --> 00:34:07,172
Really?
544
00:34:12,688 --> 00:34:14,551
-[Lisa] Bye, chickens.
-[Daniel] Thank you.
545
00:34:14,724 --> 00:34:15,688
OK.
546
00:34:16,655 --> 00:34:17,793
[Lisa] OK.
547
00:34:21,482 --> 00:34:22,585
I love fabric.
548
00:34:23,793 --> 00:34:25,344
Hello.
549
00:34:25,516 --> 00:34:27,034
Good afternoon.
They're beautiful.
550
00:34:27,206 --> 00:34:28,793
[woman #2 speaking]
551
00:34:38,103 --> 00:34:39,241
[Lisa laughing]
Hi.
552
00:34:46,034 --> 00:34:47,172
Why?
553
00:34:47,172 --> 00:34:48,482
Yeah, because, you know...
554
00:34:56,585 --> 00:34:58,000
[Lisa]
I'm confused.
555
00:34:58,172 --> 00:35:00,379
What has he not given us
approval for?
556
00:35:00,551 --> 00:35:02,862
He was very happy
at the engagement.
557
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:04,551
[Daniel speaking]
558
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:21,896
But I thought everything was
said and done.
559
00:35:21,896 --> 00:35:24,068
I thought we were ready
to start planning a wedding.
560
00:35:24,241 --> 00:35:26,344
I didn't realize there was
gonna be more to it.
561
00:35:27,793 --> 00:35:30,000
In America, you have to get
blessings before
562
00:35:30,172 --> 00:35:31,172
you give the ring.
563
00:35:32,793 --> 00:35:34,000
I know, so...
564
00:35:36,482 --> 00:35:38,103
But you didn't warn me
about that.
565
00:35:48,344 --> 00:35:49,689
[seller]
This?
566
00:35:49,689 --> 00:35:51,000
Yeah, this one.
567
00:35:51,172 --> 00:35:52,379
[Lisa]
No --
568
00:35:56,448 --> 00:35:58,689
[seller] It's nice.
Yes.
569
00:36:02,896 --> 00:36:04,551
-OK.
-[seller speaking]
570
00:36:06,482 --> 00:36:07,965
[Lisa] I-- I -- I'm confused.
571
00:36:13,344 --> 00:36:15,379
[Lisa]
OK, so it gets wrapped around?
572
00:36:15,379 --> 00:36:16,896
[seller]
Yeah.
573
00:36:18,172 --> 00:36:20,000
-[Lisa] And then it gets tied?
-Yeah.
574
00:36:24,586 --> 00:36:26,896
[Lisa] I can't hear you.
It's very loud.
575
00:36:30,482 --> 00:36:33,000
Oh, my gosh!
How am I gonna do this?
576
00:36:33,137 --> 00:36:35,172
I have no clue how
this wrapping thing works.
577
00:36:36,034 --> 00:36:38,965
I have to do this myself
when I meet his uncle.
578
00:36:39,103 --> 00:36:42,172
And there's no way I'm gonna
remember how to do everything.
579
00:36:43,689 --> 00:36:45,172
I don't wanna look
like a fool.
580
00:36:45,344 --> 00:36:47,793
I don't wanna look stupid
in front of his uncle.
581
00:36:56,896 --> 00:37:02,068
What should I expect?
Like, how will this be wrapped?
582
00:37:02,241 --> 00:37:03,586
-[seller speaking]
-OK.
583
00:37:03,586 --> 00:37:04,758
Yeah.
584
00:37:18,482 --> 00:37:19,655
Because I'm too fat.
585
00:37:21,793 --> 00:37:23,965
All right, thank you.
586
00:37:24,103 --> 00:37:25,241
I'm too fat.
587
00:37:28,551 --> 00:37:30,275
No, yeah, yeah.
588
00:37:32,379 --> 00:37:35,896
I'm feeling awful,
and I'm kind of taken aback.
589
00:37:36,034 --> 00:37:39,068
I have to meet his uncle,
and I have to wrap myself up in
590
00:37:39,241 --> 00:37:43,586
two layers of this wrap,
this big headdress,
591
00:37:43,586 --> 00:37:44,896
and I'm gonna look fat.
592
00:37:52,137 --> 00:37:54,103
[Lisa] I have to try
to impress his uncle.
593
00:37:54,275 --> 00:37:58,034
But what exactly happens to get
his uncle's blessing?
594
00:37:58,206 --> 00:37:59,793
What kind of questions are
gonna be asked?
595
00:38:01,965 --> 00:38:03,275
I'm worried that I may have
596
00:38:03,448 --> 00:38:05,482
to reveal things
that I'm not ready to reveal.
597
00:38:07,137 --> 00:38:09,793
This whole thing could be
a disaster for me.
598
00:38:10,896 --> 00:38:13,586
So I'm scared.
599
00:38:13,758 --> 00:38:15,689
-Thank you.
-[seller speaking]
600
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,344
What is that?
601
00:38:21,482 --> 00:38:24,068
[singing]
You got a bottom like Nicki.
602
00:38:24,241 --> 00:38:25,896
A Dolly Parton kind of [bleep]
603
00:38:26,862 --> 00:38:30,379
I'm trying to be supportive,
but he's dancing and flirting
604
00:38:30,551 --> 00:38:33,344
with some random girl on stage
right in front of me.
605
00:38:37,068 --> 00:38:38,965
What the [bleep] is Aviva doing?
606
00:38:44,689 --> 00:38:46,793
[foreign upbeat music playing]
607
00:38:50,172 --> 00:38:51,344
[man speaking]
608
00:38:57,241 --> 00:38:58,344
[Aviva chuckles]
609
00:39:12,275 --> 00:39:14,000
[Stig speaking]
610
00:39:14,172 --> 00:39:17,000
-[Aviva speaking]
-Don't be overthinking.
611
00:39:17,172 --> 00:39:20,172
Enjoy the show.
Enjoy the entertainment.
612
00:39:20,344 --> 00:39:22,172
-OK.
-I'm an entertainer, all right?
613
00:39:22,172 --> 00:39:23,896
-All right.
-All good?
614
00:39:24,034 --> 00:39:25,172
-Yes.
-All right.
615
00:39:27,275 --> 00:39:29,655
I'm a little frustrated
with Aviva still
616
00:39:29,827 --> 00:39:31,241
for not wanting me
to perform my hit song.
617
00:39:31,413 --> 00:39:34,379
But listen, I'm still gonna
go and be Stig, the Artist,
618
00:39:34,551 --> 00:39:35,620
and hype this place up.
619
00:39:35,620 --> 00:39:37,482
I don't want anything to throw
me off my game.
620
00:39:39,586 --> 00:39:41,482
-Ready?
-[Aviva] Semi ready.
621
00:39:41,482 --> 00:39:42,758
[Stig] Ready.
You have to say it like me.
622
00:39:42,931 --> 00:39:44,551
No, you can't say "Ready."
You got to say "Ready!"
623
00:39:44,724 --> 00:39:46,793
[Aviva] Ready! [laughs]
624
00:39:50,551 --> 00:39:51,655
[Stig] Come on.
625
00:39:53,586 --> 00:39:55,862
[audience member]
Stig!
626
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:57,379
[Stig]
What's good, brother?
627
00:40:02,137 --> 00:40:03,241
[Richie speaking]
628
00:40:08,586 --> 00:40:10,793
[man speaking]
629
00:40:13,172 --> 00:40:15,275
[audience cheering]
630
00:40:16,689 --> 00:40:20,172
[Aviva] I'm super, super excited
to see Stig performing
631
00:40:20,172 --> 00:40:21,655
for the first time.
632
00:40:22,586 --> 00:40:25,896
But I feel super nervous.
633
00:40:27,551 --> 00:40:31,241
I still have my suspicions
to what Stig's manager
634
00:40:31,413 --> 00:40:34,103
and Aunt Spring had to say
about Stig and other women.
635
00:40:35,172 --> 00:40:39,000
I know there's a lot of girls
that throw themselves at him,
636
00:40:39,137 --> 00:40:40,896
at his shows.
637
00:40:40,896 --> 00:40:42,000
I don't know what to expect.
638
00:40:43,586 --> 00:40:45,689
[MC speaking]
639
00:40:57,241 --> 00:40:59,896
[singing] Lessons on long life.
640
00:41:02,379 --> 00:41:04,482
[sings in Belizean Kriol]
641
00:41:05,862 --> 00:41:08,000
Girl, today I'm gonna meet
your father.
642
00:41:08,137 --> 00:41:11,379
This is what I'm gonna say,
"I'm gonna marry your daughter."
643
00:41:11,379 --> 00:41:16,000
And can I have your blessings?
That could be amazing.
644
00:41:16,172 --> 00:41:20,275
I know you thing I'm a bad guy
and I'm gonna break her heart.
645
00:41:20,448 --> 00:41:22,275
[audience cheering]
646
00:41:27,137 --> 00:41:28,586
[singing] Yeah, we smoking.
We smoking.
647
00:41:28,758 --> 00:41:29,758
We smoking.
We smoking.
648
00:41:29,931 --> 00:41:31,689
And we [bleep].
649
00:41:31,689 --> 00:41:34,448
Got some rum in my Coke.
650
00:41:34,620 --> 00:41:36,586
[sings in Belizean Kriol]
651
00:41:42,758 --> 00:41:43,862
And she so pretty.
652
00:41:48,275 --> 00:41:51,000
[Aviva] I'm trying to enjoy
myself and I'm trying to be
653
00:41:51,137 --> 00:41:53,172
supportive, but he started
654
00:41:53,172 --> 00:41:55,448
playing "Vicky"
after I asked him not to.
655
00:41:55,620 --> 00:41:58,034
[singing]
You've got a bottom like Nicki.
656
00:41:58,206 --> 00:41:59,862
And Dolly Parton
kind of [bleep].
657
00:42:00,068 --> 00:42:02,586
But she know how to rap
like Nicki.
658
00:42:02,758 --> 00:42:07,551
Not only that, but he's dancing
with some other random girl
659
00:42:07,724 --> 00:42:10,965
and flirting with her on stage
right in front of me.
660
00:42:11,103 --> 00:42:13,379
[singing] Babe,
you're too pretty for that.
661
00:42:13,551 --> 00:42:15,103
You're too pretty.
662
00:42:15,275 --> 00:42:18,896
[Aviva] It's just really hard
to watch, and it's making me
663
00:42:19,034 --> 00:42:20,793
feel pretty insecure.
664
00:42:20,793 --> 00:42:22,482
[Stig singing]
Met a girl named Vicky.
665
00:42:22,482 --> 00:42:24,793
Girl, you're making me toxic.
666
00:42:24,965 --> 00:42:27,034
Too pretty for that.
667
00:42:27,206 --> 00:42:28,793
And she's too pretty.
668
00:42:28,793 --> 00:42:30,689
I mean, I think
you're too pretty for that.
669
00:42:31,758 --> 00:42:33,793
You're too pretty.
670
00:42:33,965 --> 00:42:35,482
Really too pretty for that.
671
00:42:36,482 --> 00:42:37,586
You're too pretty.
672
00:42:39,379 --> 00:42:41,896
One Stigy who [indistinct]
who has no pity.
673
00:42:41,896 --> 00:42:43,000
Watch out!
674
00:42:43,137 --> 00:42:44,379
You know that you're too pretty.
675
00:42:44,379 --> 00:42:47,137
You're brown skin
but your hair not kinky.
676
00:42:49,655 --> 00:42:51,482
What the [bleep] is Aviva doing?
677
00:42:53,862 --> 00:42:57,689
I'm seeing a sea of people
partying.
678
00:42:57,862 --> 00:42:59,068
Having the time of their lives,
679
00:43:00,862 --> 00:43:04,482
and Aviva head down in
her phone while I'm singing.
680
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,586
This is not the behavior
I want in my future wife,
681
00:43:08,586 --> 00:43:10,172
much less my girlfriend
right now.
682
00:43:10,344 --> 00:43:12,793
Like, come on.
683
00:43:12,965 --> 00:43:15,000
[audience cheering]
684
00:43:16,068 --> 00:43:17,448
[Stig] Anyway,
685
00:43:21,034 --> 00:43:25,689
[singing] You alone, you alone,
you alone, you alone, yeah.
686
00:43:25,862 --> 00:43:28,068
Me, wanna give you love,
in your phone.
687
00:43:28,241 --> 00:43:30,275
Baby,
it's you I love, yeah.
688
00:43:31,241 --> 00:43:33,379
Ooh, it feels so right.
689
00:43:33,551 --> 00:43:35,379
Let's do the things, yeah.
690
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:39,137
Aviva is still not
paying attention.
691
00:43:40,482 --> 00:43:43,000
[indistinct] yeah, yeah.
692
00:43:43,137 --> 00:43:45,103
One, two, three, four, five.
693
00:43:46,034 --> 00:43:47,137
[Stig speaking]
694
00:43:51,241 --> 00:43:52,689
You're distracting me.
695
00:43:53,896 --> 00:43:55,275
I am so pissed.
696
00:43:56,551 --> 00:43:58,103
I can't even think straight
right now.
697
00:44:04,103 --> 00:44:06,482
[Daniel]
Ah.
698
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:10,034
How am I supposed to dip it up
if it's round?
699
00:44:11,689 --> 00:44:14,275
This is a control thing
with Daniel right now.
700
00:44:15,448 --> 00:44:16,862
-[speaks foreign language]
-[Lisa] No, no.
701
00:44:17,793 --> 00:44:19,586
Stop raising your voice at me.
702
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:23,965
He's pushing me really hard
and I'm getting angry.
703
00:44:24,103 --> 00:44:26,103
What the hell does Daniel
want right now?
704
00:44:28,241 --> 00:44:29,482
[Lisa]
You wanna see me walk?
705
00:44:31,758 --> 00:44:33,000
Watch me walk.
706
00:44:39,137 --> 00:44:41,034
[vocalizing]
707
00:44:58,827 --> 00:45:00,103
[Daniel speaking]
708
00:45:00,103 --> 00:45:02,724
I'm still frustrated and angry
'cause she called me fat.
709
00:45:04,551 --> 00:45:07,655
♪ Don't you know I got nothing
to lose? ♪
710
00:45:07,827 --> 00:45:09,413
♪ I got something to prove ♪
711
00:45:09,586 --> 00:45:11,379
♪ Ah ♪
712
00:45:13,862 --> 00:45:15,517
[Daniel speaking]
713
00:45:17,689 --> 00:45:18,931
And I'm stressed.
714
00:45:21,379 --> 00:45:22,965
That's how stressed I am
right now.
715
00:45:26,758 --> 00:45:29,068
[Daniel speaking]
716
00:45:29,241 --> 00:45:31,103
[Lisa]
I said, "I wouldn't smoke."
717
00:45:31,275 --> 00:45:33,413
I tried to quit,
and I couldn't.
718
00:45:33,586 --> 00:45:34,551
And I [groans frustrated].
719
00:45:35,620 --> 00:45:38,241
I am so frustrated with you.
720
00:45:38,413 --> 00:45:39,551
It's not funny.
721
00:45:41,482 --> 00:45:44,448
There are a few things Daniel
expects of me.
722
00:45:44,620 --> 00:45:46,379
He wants my hair a certain way.
723
00:45:46,551 --> 00:45:48,965
He wants me to ask permission
for things.
724
00:45:49,103 --> 00:45:52,275
I have to ask to have
a drink of alcohol.
725
00:45:52,448 --> 00:45:54,793
He doesn't want me to vape.
726
00:45:54,965 --> 00:45:57,862
And I did tell Daniel I would
slow down vaping,
727
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:01,689
but I just found out I have
to try to impress his uncle
728
00:46:01,862 --> 00:46:02,827
for the blessing.
729
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:04,896
And I am feeling
so much pressure
730
00:46:05,034 --> 00:46:07,655
of who I need to be for Daniel.
731
00:46:07,827 --> 00:46:11,068
So I'm stressing out,
and I want my vape.
732
00:46:16,206 --> 00:46:18,137
You surprised me
with the uncle thing.
733
00:46:19,517 --> 00:46:23,689
How am I gonna learn how
to tie a traditional attire?
734
00:46:23,862 --> 00:46:26,206
-I'm gonna look ridiculous.
-[Daniel speaking]
735
00:46:39,620 --> 00:46:41,103
[Lisa]
Am I dressed OK for this?
736
00:46:50,034 --> 00:46:51,655
[Daniel sighs]
737
00:46:51,827 --> 00:46:52,896
Thank you.
738
00:46:56,551 --> 00:46:58,103
-OK?
-[Lisa] OK.
739
00:47:08,275 --> 00:47:09,482
Mm-hmm.
740
00:47:14,551 --> 00:47:15,896
[Lisa]
Can I drink it?
741
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:20,000
It's very strong.
742
00:47:20,137 --> 00:47:21,517
OK, so don't put too much
in my glass.
743
00:47:23,965 --> 00:47:24,965
Oh!
744
00:47:25,103 --> 00:47:27,172
[gentle acoustic guitar playing]
745
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,551
[Daniel speaking
foreign language]
746
00:47:31,724 --> 00:47:33,172
[woman speaking]
747
00:47:41,103 --> 00:47:42,586
-You will eat.
-OK.
748
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:46,344
You do know that I studied
the fufu online?
749
00:47:47,896 --> 00:47:50,862
I've done so much research
about fufu.
750
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:54,517
It is fermented cassava.
I learned how to roll it.
751
00:47:54,689 --> 00:47:57,137
I learned you flatten it.
I learned you dip it.
752
00:47:57,310 --> 00:47:59,206
So I'm prepared,
and I'm excited
753
00:47:59,379 --> 00:48:00,862
to show him I can do this.
754
00:48:06,758 --> 00:48:07,862
Ew.
755
00:48:09,310 --> 00:48:10,413
Ew.
756
00:48:13,482 --> 00:48:14,724
Did I do it right?
757
00:48:22,724 --> 00:48:24,344
[Lisa]
All right.
758
00:48:24,517 --> 00:48:25,482
Dip your hand.
759
00:48:26,689 --> 00:48:28,034
Ah!
760
00:48:30,517 --> 00:48:32,551
How am I supposed to dip it up
if it's round?
761
00:48:33,482 --> 00:48:34,620
Yes.
762
00:48:35,965 --> 00:48:37,068
[Daniel]
Ah.
763
00:48:41,551 --> 00:48:42,655
This is really good.
764
00:48:44,379 --> 00:48:46,620
I can just eat that.
I need a spoon.
765
00:48:47,965 --> 00:48:50,103
I am not gonna eat soup
with just...
766
00:48:50,275 --> 00:48:51,827
That is what the fufu is for.
767
00:48:54,068 --> 00:48:55,172
Look, baby.
768
00:49:00,068 --> 00:49:03,413
I think Daniel is just trying
to prove a point to me,
769
00:49:03,586 --> 00:49:06,620
but I didn't think he'd be
so forceful about it.
770
00:49:06,793 --> 00:49:11,689
I am in the nursing field,
and I work in caregiving.
771
00:49:11,862 --> 00:49:15,000
I know what kind of germs get
under your fingernails.
772
00:49:15,172 --> 00:49:17,827
It's one thing to eat
with fufu.
773
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:21,241
It's another thing to dip
your fingers into the soup,
774
00:49:21,413 --> 00:49:24,896
scoop it up, suck your fingers,
and lick them dry.
775
00:49:25,034 --> 00:49:27,448
That's no.
That's just nasty.
776
00:49:28,206 --> 00:49:29,482
I think he's being very rude.
777
00:49:31,206 --> 00:49:32,310
Um...
778
00:49:33,689 --> 00:49:35,068
[Lisa]
No.
779
00:49:35,241 --> 00:49:36,310
-Thank you.
-All right.
780
00:49:48,482 --> 00:49:49,896
[Lisa] I did, I tasted it.
781
00:49:55,448 --> 00:49:56,551
Ah!
782
00:49:57,896 --> 00:49:58,862
No.
783
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:00,000
[Daniel speaks
foreign language]
784
00:50:00,137 --> 00:50:00,965
[tries speaking
foreign language]
785
00:50:01,103 --> 00:50:02,379
-Eh?
-I can't say that.
786
00:50:02,551 --> 00:50:04,379
-What does it mean?
-[Daniel speaks
foreign language]
787
00:50:04,551 --> 00:50:05,517
[tries speaking
foreign language]
788
00:50:05,689 --> 00:50:06,724
[Daniel] Oh.
789
00:50:07,965 --> 00:50:09,344
[Lisa]
No -- No.
790
00:50:10,517 --> 00:50:12,275
You drink it.
You respect it.
791
00:50:12,448 --> 00:50:14,551
-No.
-[speaks foreign language]
792
00:50:14,724 --> 00:50:16,310
Stop raising your voice at me.
793
00:50:18,379 --> 00:50:21,172
Hey -- Hey, don't talk
to me that way.
794
00:50:21,344 --> 00:50:23,000
Eh?
795
00:50:25,448 --> 00:50:27,551
I'm done talking to you.
'Cause I...
796
00:50:30,620 --> 00:50:31,896
What is that?
797
00:50:32,862 --> 00:50:34,586
I took one sip.
798
00:50:37,034 --> 00:50:39,862
[Lisa] No, I'm not.
You're the one who's changing.
799
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,448
Look at you.
Put it down and talk nicely.
800
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:47,000
This is a control thing
with Daniel right now.
801
00:50:47,172 --> 00:50:50,689
I understand that he's pushing
me really hard to do things
802
00:50:50,862 --> 00:50:54,827
a proper etiquette way,
but he's being rude to me.
803
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,000
What the hell does Daniel
want right now?
804
00:50:59,275 --> 00:51:01,620
-Let me see.
-You wanna see me walk?
805
00:51:03,241 --> 00:51:04,413
[Lisa] Watch me walk.
806
00:51:07,793 --> 00:51:08,965
Watch me walk.
807
00:51:09,862 --> 00:51:11,172
Oh!
808
00:51:12,413 --> 00:51:14,517
[tense music playing]
809
00:51:22,517 --> 00:51:24,586
[Forrest speaking]
810
00:51:26,655 --> 00:51:30,793
But all I know is I need to get
their blessing to marry Sheena.
811
00:51:49,724 --> 00:51:51,827
[gentle foreign music playing]
812
00:52:04,724 --> 00:52:06,689
-Hey babe, you ready to go?
-[Trisha] Yeah.
813
00:52:06,862 --> 00:52:08,137
It's already late.
814
00:52:08,310 --> 00:52:10,620
I think the boat is waiting
for us.
815
00:52:10,793 --> 00:52:12,724
[gentle foreign music continues]
816
00:52:19,724 --> 00:52:21,655
I think that's the boat
right there.
817
00:52:21,827 --> 00:52:23,275
We better hurry up
before they leave us.
818
00:52:23,448 --> 00:52:25,068
[Trisha chuckles]
819
00:52:25,241 --> 00:52:30,103
Last night was really rough.
We got in this big argument.
820
00:52:31,379 --> 00:52:34,586
I just thought it was kind
of bold of her to just tell me
821
00:52:34,758 --> 00:52:37,482
that, you know, she wants me
to buy her stuff.
822
00:52:37,655 --> 00:52:38,827
I'm not here for that.
823
00:52:40,448 --> 00:52:44,137
We couldn't really come
to an agreement, so eventually
824
00:52:44,310 --> 00:52:48,724
we decided to put a pin in it
and enjoy our evening together.
825
00:52:48,896 --> 00:52:51,689
Oh, my God!
826
00:52:51,862 --> 00:52:55,482
But I still feel concerned
about whether or not I can
827
00:52:55,655 --> 00:52:58,551
fulfill her needs.
828
00:52:58,724 --> 00:53:00,517
[man speaking]
829
00:53:00,689 --> 00:53:03,000
-Ooh, thank you.
-[man speaks indistinctly]
830
00:53:03,137 --> 00:53:04,275
Wow, baby!
831
00:53:04,448 --> 00:53:06,413
[calm music playing]
832
00:53:12,344 --> 00:53:14,172
[Rick]
So beautiful.
833
00:53:14,344 --> 00:53:18,448
Today, we took a boat
to an island called Nosy Iranja.
834
00:53:18,620 --> 00:53:21,448
This place,
it looks like paradise.
835
00:53:21,620 --> 00:53:26,103
I see crystal blue waters,
a sandbar that separates
836
00:53:26,275 --> 00:53:29,655
two islands that you can
actually walk across.
837
00:53:29,827 --> 00:53:34,000
It's the perfect place for us
to have a really romantic time,
838
00:53:34,137 --> 00:53:37,517
and reset, you know, take
some strolls along the beach.
839
00:53:43,793 --> 00:53:45,655
[both laugh softly]
840
00:53:45,827 --> 00:53:46,965
[Rick]
Thank you so much.
841
00:53:48,862 --> 00:53:51,034
[Trisha speaking]
842
00:53:52,137 --> 00:53:55,517
-Oh, I know [laughs].
-Seriously?
843
00:53:55,689 --> 00:53:59,241
No, I wouldn't have learned
a skill like that.
844
00:53:59,413 --> 00:54:01,689
We put it there,
like this way.
845
00:54:01,862 --> 00:54:03,241
-All right, that's cool.
-And then we can walk.
846
00:54:03,413 --> 00:54:05,551
-Oh, what?
-[both laugh]
847
00:54:05,724 --> 00:54:08,000
-It's not going to fall?
-No.
848
00:54:08,137 --> 00:54:09,448
That's 'cause you got all
that hair up there.
849
00:54:09,620 --> 00:54:11,931
-You got like a nest up there.
-No.
850
00:54:13,655 --> 00:54:15,413
All right, here we go.
Here we go, baby.
851
00:54:15,586 --> 00:54:16,862
[Trisha giggles]
852
00:54:19,310 --> 00:54:22,103
[Rick] I'm here to find
my future wife.
853
00:54:22,275 --> 00:54:26,344
And I'm serious about Trish
being that one.
854
00:54:26,517 --> 00:54:27,724
[Trisha] Let's go.
855
00:54:27,724 --> 00:54:31,448
[Rick] She just has a presence
that's so captivating.
856
00:54:31,620 --> 00:54:34,068
It just makes me wanna
be close to her.
857
00:54:34,241 --> 00:54:37,896
-Yeah, I'm doing it.
-[Trisha] Let me see [laughs].
858
00:54:38,034 --> 00:54:41,206
[Rick] But at the same time,
we need to work through issues
859
00:54:41,379 --> 00:54:45,448
that we have in order
for us to have a future.
860
00:54:45,620 --> 00:54:48,103
[Trisha] Oh, my God, it's hot.
I wanna sit down.
861
00:54:50,068 --> 00:54:53,344
-[Rick sighs] Man, baby.
-What?
862
00:54:53,517 --> 00:54:55,137
-This is beautiful.
-Mm-hmm.
863
00:54:56,482 --> 00:54:58,000
[Rick] So glad that we're here.
864
00:54:58,172 --> 00:55:00,413
That was a rough night
last night.
865
00:55:00,586 --> 00:55:01,655
[Trisha]
Yeah.
866
00:55:03,137 --> 00:55:07,068
I wanna apologize
for what happened yesterday.
867
00:55:07,241 --> 00:55:08,344
Um...
868
00:55:12,965 --> 00:55:14,758
[Trisha speaking]
869
00:55:28,724 --> 00:55:31,655
[Rick] I think when you were
asking me for things,
870
00:55:32,586 --> 00:55:34,793
then that, you know,
kinda triggered
871
00:55:34,965 --> 00:55:37,379
some things that I've gone
through in the past.
872
00:55:40,344 --> 00:55:42,000
Just past relationships
873
00:55:42,965 --> 00:55:45,275
that I felt like,
you know, once...
874
00:55:46,551 --> 00:55:49,896
I wasn't giving enough,
you know, they didn't wanna
875
00:55:50,034 --> 00:55:52,310
be with me anymore.
876
00:55:52,482 --> 00:55:54,103
I just need to make sure that,
you know,
877
00:55:54,275 --> 00:55:55,275
that won't happen again.
878
00:55:59,206 --> 00:56:03,620
Money has been an issue
in previous relationships.
879
00:56:04,931 --> 00:56:07,206
I was married to Samson
and Frederick's mom,
880
00:56:07,379 --> 00:56:09,000
Chiny, for seven years.
881
00:56:09,137 --> 00:56:11,551
Chiny is from Nigeria,
882
00:56:11,724 --> 00:56:14,620
and I brought her over
on a K-1 visa.
883
00:56:14,793 --> 00:56:18,206
I think Chiny had higher
expectations than what I could
884
00:56:18,379 --> 00:56:20,724
realistically provide.
885
00:56:20,896 --> 00:56:23,862
And it caused a lot of issues
between us.
886
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:26,413
That's why I've tried to be
really straightforward
887
00:56:26,586 --> 00:56:29,137
with Trish
about my financial situation.
888
00:56:30,965 --> 00:56:32,689
[Trisha speaking]
889
00:56:43,068 --> 00:56:45,172
That's it.
That's what I'm asking.
890
00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:58,310
Yes, I know that.
891
00:57:04,172 --> 00:57:05,137
Yes, yes.
892
00:57:05,310 --> 00:57:07,413
That's the promise
that I'm making to you.
893
00:57:07,586 --> 00:57:10,000
I promise that I'm gonna
take care of all your needs.
894
00:57:10,172 --> 00:57:12,758
I may not be able to give
you everything you want,
895
00:57:12,931 --> 00:57:16,724
like your ex,
but everything you need,
896
00:57:16,896 --> 00:57:18,655
you don't have to worry about.
897
00:57:27,689 --> 00:57:29,586
It's different.
898
00:57:29,758 --> 00:57:32,655
The way you talk,
the way you give me affection,
899
00:57:34,034 --> 00:57:35,137
I love that.
900
00:57:38,620 --> 00:57:40,931
You think that I'm enough
for you?
901
00:57:46,103 --> 00:57:49,655
That means a lot to me.
It means a lot, you saying that.
902
00:57:53,551 --> 00:57:55,344
That's what I want too, baby.
903
00:57:59,068 --> 00:58:00,793
You ready to go have some fun?
904
00:58:03,275 --> 00:58:04,724
Yeah, let's go.
905
00:58:05,931 --> 00:58:10,620
I'm starting to feel better
that Trish is reassuring me
906
00:58:10,793 --> 00:58:12,241
that I'm enough for her.
907
00:58:12,413 --> 00:58:14,793
That's -- That's --
That's what I need to feel.
908
00:58:15,793 --> 00:58:19,827
Because I think that being
insecure has caused me to make
909
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:21,724
mistakes in my relationship.
910
00:58:23,413 --> 00:58:26,896
I really do care about Trish
and want this to work.
911
00:58:28,862 --> 00:58:31,827
But it's hard because I still
haven't told her what happened
912
00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:34,241
between me and my ex
in Colombia.
913
00:58:36,724 --> 00:58:40,000
We're finally getting
into a good place,
914
00:58:40,172 --> 00:58:43,275
but everything always feels
so fragile between us.
915
00:58:44,413 --> 00:58:46,241
I really don't know
how to tell her,
916
00:58:46,413 --> 00:58:49,551
but eventually,
it needs to come out.
917
00:58:54,275 --> 00:58:56,379
[Trisha and Rick speaking]
918
00:59:01,379 --> 00:59:03,482
[intriguing music playing]
919
00:59:16,034 --> 00:59:18,896
Ah, just in time, just in time
for dinner.
920
00:59:19,034 --> 00:59:20,206
-[Sheena] Just in time.
-[Forrest] Perfect.
921
00:59:20,379 --> 00:59:22,000
Yeah, thanks.
Good stuff.
922
00:59:22,137 --> 00:59:23,965
[Katrina]
We hope you enjoy this.
923
00:59:24,103 --> 00:59:25,586
This is our native food.
924
00:59:25,758 --> 00:59:28,758
[Katrina] Grilled chicken,
grilled squid and pork,
925
00:59:28,931 --> 00:59:32,241
and our natural tropical fruits.
-[Forrest] That sounds awesome.
926
00:59:33,172 --> 00:59:35,413
-Oh.
-[Katrina] Dinner is served.
927
00:59:35,586 --> 00:59:36,586
[chuckles]
928
00:59:45,448 --> 00:59:48,517
See how it works in America
or in my culture,
929
00:59:48,689 --> 00:59:50,931
we normally start
with the oldest and we go
930
00:59:51,068 --> 00:59:53,172
-[Steve] Oh, OK.
-[Katrina] We do guests first.
931
00:59:53,344 --> 00:59:54,724
Since you're the biggest,
you start.
932
00:59:54,896 --> 00:59:57,931
Oh, I am the biggest.
We go by size here.
933
00:59:58,068 --> 00:59:59,827
-[Steve] Yeah, we go.
-OK.
934
01:00:01,137 --> 01:00:04,793
I just met Sheena's family,
and so far, they're definitely
935
01:00:04,965 --> 01:00:07,827
not the evil dragons
I was expecting.
936
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:09,655
For the last seven years,
I've been hearing that they're
937
01:00:09,827 --> 01:00:13,206
manipulating her and just
treating her awfully.
938
01:00:13,379 --> 01:00:17,620
And now I'm hearing
they're decent people.
939
01:00:17,793 --> 01:00:20,620
I feel confused,
940
01:00:20,793 --> 01:00:24,310
but all I know
is I need to get their blessing
941
01:00:24,482 --> 01:00:27,000
to marry Sheena and then go
from there.
942
01:00:30,655 --> 01:00:34,241
So, how's your travel here
from America?
943
01:00:34,413 --> 01:00:39,724
It was long and it was hard,
but I got to see
944
01:00:39,896 --> 01:00:42,172
my Sheen for the first time.
-[Katrina] Mm-hmm.
945
01:00:42,344 --> 01:00:45,000
-[Steve speaking]
-[Forrest] Finally.
946
01:00:45,172 --> 01:00:48,482
I'm curious, though, what were
you expecting when you go here?
947
01:00:48,655 --> 01:00:49,758
-[Katrina chuckles]
-Oh.
948
01:00:51,551 --> 01:00:53,448
I was expecting, um...
949
01:00:57,517 --> 01:00:58,724
Well, I was expecting...
950
01:01:00,827 --> 01:01:04,344
It's kind of hard to say.
951
01:01:04,517 --> 01:01:06,103
You know, my mom's,
952
01:01:06,275 --> 01:01:09,620
uh, under the impression that...
Um...
953
01:01:09,793 --> 01:01:12,689
I might be walking into a scam.
954
01:01:16,620 --> 01:01:18,517
Every, you know, there's...
955
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:24,103
-There's a lot of scammers.
-[Steve] Uh...
956
01:01:26,586 --> 01:01:28,758
[Sheena] Prove her wrong.
That's the best thing.
957
01:01:28,931 --> 01:01:29,896
[Forrest]
That's it.
958
01:01:32,103 --> 01:01:34,586
How'd you guys feel
when you guys heard
959
01:01:34,758 --> 01:01:36,000
I was actually here?
960
01:01:38,482 --> 01:01:40,379
[clears throat]
961
01:01:40,551 --> 01:01:44,482
Yeah, I thought, "Finally,"
because it's so long.
962
01:01:44,655 --> 01:01:45,793
Um...
963
01:01:45,965 --> 01:01:47,206
We're not really...
964
01:01:47,206 --> 01:01:50,103
We're not really sure if we're
gonna meet you in person.
965
01:01:50,275 --> 01:01:51,448
Yeah.
966
01:01:51,448 --> 01:01:55,655
I have to say, a lot
of it had to do with finances.
967
01:01:55,827 --> 01:01:58,310
I don't make
that much money, unfortunately.
968
01:02:03,275 --> 01:02:04,965
Mm-hmm.
969
01:02:05,103 --> 01:02:06,068
Um...
970
01:02:07,482 --> 01:02:09,517
[Katrina]
But the question is, uh...
971
01:02:10,758 --> 01:02:12,068
I don't recall it.
What's your job?
972
01:02:15,344 --> 01:02:17,172
[Forrest]
Yeah.
973
01:02:17,344 --> 01:02:18,689
So...
974
01:02:18,862 --> 01:02:22,241
This is kind of going
to be mind shattering here.
975
01:02:23,758 --> 01:02:25,275
I'm unemployed right now.
976
01:02:25,448 --> 01:02:27,620
[tense chord plays]
977
01:02:30,068 --> 01:02:33,103
I'm actually
receiving disability.
978
01:02:33,275 --> 01:02:37,275
-Disability for what?
-[Forrest] So I have autism.
979
01:02:37,448 --> 01:02:39,586
I have problems talking
with others.
980
01:02:39,758 --> 01:02:40,862
Like, right now,
981
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:43,586
I'm having a terrible,
awful time.
982
01:02:43,758 --> 01:02:45,724
[soft, tense music playing]
983
01:02:47,931 --> 01:02:51,034
So that's enough for you
for your daily life?
984
01:02:51,206 --> 01:02:54,206
It covers everything
in my life right now.
985
01:02:54,379 --> 01:02:56,482
But I realize I'm not making
enough to support
986
01:02:56,655 --> 01:02:57,862
a family right now.
987
01:03:01,620 --> 01:03:05,000
But I believe I'll be able
to get a full-time job.
988
01:03:07,103 --> 01:03:09,068
I just want the world
for your daughter.
989
01:03:09,241 --> 01:03:13,551
And I was hoping I could get
your blessing.
990
01:03:13,724 --> 01:03:15,689
[tense music builds]
991
01:03:20,310 --> 01:03:21,413
[Steve]
Well, Forrest...
992
01:03:27,413 --> 01:03:28,655
[sighs]
993
01:03:30,172 --> 01:03:33,655
So, without any fundings,
how will you survive, you know?
994
01:03:36,034 --> 01:03:38,931
The only way to survive is
to get job.
995
01:03:39,068 --> 01:03:40,413
[Forrest]
Yeah.
996
01:03:40,586 --> 01:03:42,655
I have the energy.
I have the drive.
997
01:03:42,827 --> 01:03:45,551
I just want to make sure you
guys know I'm completely
998
01:03:45,724 --> 01:03:48,275
and totally serious
I'm gonna be working full-time.
999
01:03:48,448 --> 01:03:50,896
And, yeah, be support for her.
1000
01:04:10,448 --> 01:04:12,551
[Steve speaking Filipino]
1001
01:04:20,965 --> 01:04:23,758
OK -- you have my blessing.
1002
01:04:23,931 --> 01:04:25,896
[soft music playing]
1003
01:04:32,448 --> 01:04:33,551
Well...
1004
01:04:34,586 --> 01:04:37,034
How has she been doing that?
1005
01:04:37,206 --> 01:04:39,137
[Steve speaking]
1006
01:04:43,586 --> 01:04:45,310
[Forrest]
Oh.
1007
01:04:45,482 --> 01:04:46,448
I understand.
1008
01:04:47,862 --> 01:04:48,965
[Katrina]
Yeah.
1009
01:04:49,103 --> 01:04:51,344
Yeah, I'm really looking
forward to meeting
1010
01:04:51,517 --> 01:04:52,862
your parents tomorrow.
1011
01:04:54,931 --> 01:04:56,137
[Forrest]
My mom and dad...
1012
01:04:56,310 --> 01:04:57,551
[sighs, stammers],
1013
01:04:57,724 --> 01:04:58,793
they definitely have a lot
1014
01:04:58,793 --> 01:05:02,724
to kind of talk about tomorrow
with you guys.
1015
01:05:02,896 --> 01:05:04,758
We're looking forward to it.
1016
01:05:04,931 --> 01:05:05,965
[Forrest]
It's going to be a blast.
1017
01:05:07,344 --> 01:05:09,517
I should be happy that I got
their blessing,
1018
01:05:09,689 --> 01:05:13,655
but I feel like Sheena hasn't
been 100% honest with me.
1019
01:05:13,827 --> 01:05:17,724
What I've seen,
it's not the same
1020
01:05:17,896 --> 01:05:19,620
as what I've been hearing
for the last seven years.
1021
01:05:20,896 --> 01:05:23,965
The way she described
her family, the way they live,
1022
01:05:24,103 --> 01:05:28,482
the whole money situation.
The stories are not adding up.
1023
01:05:28,655 --> 01:05:32,034
And I'm really worried
that tomorrow my mother is going
1024
01:05:32,206 --> 01:05:37,068
to come in and going to think
everything has been a lie
1025
01:05:37,241 --> 01:05:40,034
this entire time.
She's going to...
1026
01:05:41,137 --> 01:05:42,310
basically flip out.
1027
01:05:43,310 --> 01:05:46,827
[dramatic, tense music playing]
1028
01:05:53,862 --> 01:05:57,206
I want you to cut him
out of your life.
1029
01:05:58,620 --> 01:06:03,965
So you're basically giving me
the ultimatum of you or him?
1030
01:06:04,103 --> 01:06:06,379
Yes, you heard me right.
1031
01:06:06,551 --> 01:06:09,068
This kind of changes
my thinking a little bit,
1032
01:06:09,241 --> 01:06:10,344
and I'm in a...
1033
01:06:11,586 --> 01:06:12,689
No.
1034
01:06:18,758 --> 01:06:20,931
♪♪
1035
01:06:22,275 --> 01:06:23,379
[indistinct chatter]
1036
01:06:25,034 --> 01:06:27,448
Bye -- take care.
Take care.
1037
01:06:31,448 --> 01:06:33,551
[Stig and Aviva speaking]
1038
01:06:47,586 --> 01:06:49,000
[Aviva]
Don't be so hard on yourself.
1039
01:06:49,172 --> 01:06:51,206
[Stig] I will always be hard
on myself.
1040
01:06:51,379 --> 01:06:52,379
[Aviva speaking]
1041
01:06:54,586 --> 01:06:57,000
I'm so tired.
It's been such a long night.
1042
01:06:57,137 --> 01:06:58,103
Yeah.
1043
01:06:59,172 --> 01:07:00,689
We're just getting back
to the hotel
1044
01:07:00,862 --> 01:07:02,068
from Stig's performance.
1045
01:07:02,241 --> 01:07:06,275
And I felt
a little uncomfortable.
1046
01:07:06,448 --> 01:07:07,586
But...
1047
01:07:07,758 --> 01:07:09,310
I think I did well.
1048
01:07:09,482 --> 01:07:11,862
I knew I had to hold it
together and just push
1049
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:13,172
my feelings to the side.
1050
01:07:16,275 --> 01:07:18,620
My feet are killing me.
1051
01:07:18,793 --> 01:07:20,034
You wanna give me
a foot massage?
1052
01:07:21,068 --> 01:07:22,172
Maybe.
1053
01:07:24,275 --> 01:07:26,068
-Maybe?
-Mm-hmm.
1054
01:07:28,068 --> 01:07:32,379
I had a good time.
I thought you did really well.
1055
01:07:32,551 --> 01:07:37,275
-Thank you.
-So, did I handle it OK?
1056
01:07:37,448 --> 01:07:38,517
Like...
1057
01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:42,758
I guess.
1058
01:07:42,931 --> 01:07:45,172
-You guess?
-[Stig] Yeah.
1059
01:07:45,344 --> 01:07:46,517
[Aviva]
What'd I do?
1060
01:07:48,482 --> 01:07:51,793
How does this girl think
that she handled this well?
1061
01:07:51,965 --> 01:07:52,931
Like, how?
1062
01:07:54,448 --> 01:07:55,551
You're mad at me?
1063
01:07:57,310 --> 01:08:00,000
Aviva made me feel
like she wasn't interested
1064
01:08:00,206 --> 01:08:01,551
in my performance.
1065
01:08:01,724 --> 01:08:04,344
She's on her phone texting
while I'm performing.
1066
01:08:04,517 --> 01:08:07,689
I'm boiling inside.
1067
01:08:07,862 --> 01:08:11,586
And she thinks everything is
fine and dandy.
1068
01:08:13,413 --> 01:08:15,344
[Aviva] What did -- please tell
me what I did wrong.
1069
01:08:16,586 --> 01:08:17,689
When you're on your phone
1070
01:08:18,862 --> 01:08:20,689
texting.
1071
01:08:20,862 --> 01:08:21,827
Mm.
1072
01:08:22,895 --> 01:08:24,206
Mm.
1073
01:08:26,689 --> 01:08:29,379
No.
It wasn't like that.
1074
01:08:29,551 --> 01:08:32,310
-Like...
-Actually hurt my feelings.
1075
01:08:32,482 --> 01:08:34,412
-Being on my phone?
-Yes, [bleep].
1076
01:08:34,586 --> 01:08:36,827
-Not the right time for that.
-You weren't even watching.
1077
01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:39,379
-You were...
-Yes, I, bro -- bro.
1078
01:08:39,551 --> 01:08:40,586
I'm literally performing,
1079
01:08:41,482 --> 01:08:42,586
singing to you.
1080
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:48,482
[Aviva] I wasn't trying
to be disrespectful.
1081
01:08:48,654 --> 01:08:50,206
It wasn't intentional.
1082
01:08:50,379 --> 01:08:54,068
But he was dancing with
another woman in front of me,
1083
01:08:54,241 --> 01:08:57,033
and he played "Vicky,"
even though I asked him not to,
1084
01:08:57,206 --> 01:09:00,206
so it's a little annoying
that he couldn't have just
1085
01:09:00,379 --> 01:09:02,965
skipped the song.
It wasn't even a big event.
1086
01:09:03,103 --> 01:09:05,000
I just feel like it's not fair.
1087
01:09:11,379 --> 01:09:13,310
-Sorry.
-All right.
1088
01:09:13,482 --> 01:09:14,792
[Aviva]
I don't have anybody out here.
1089
01:09:14,965 --> 01:09:16,310
Like, you have
to understand that.
1090
01:09:16,482 --> 01:09:18,379
There is all these girls
on the stage with you,
1091
01:09:18,551 --> 01:09:21,000
so I'm gonna talk to my people.
I'm gonna text my friends.
1092
01:09:22,068 --> 01:09:24,482
-I can do that.
-[Stig] Do what you want.
1093
01:09:24,654 --> 01:09:26,000
Cool.
1094
01:09:26,171 --> 01:09:27,274
To me, that's [bleep] up.
1095
01:09:29,758 --> 01:09:33,274
You're supposed to be on
my team, a part of my team.
1096
01:09:33,448 --> 01:09:34,620
That you did not hype me up
1097
01:09:35,586 --> 01:09:36,862
kind of killed
my vibe, actually.
1098
01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:39,620
That's why I felt like I forgot
my lyrics.
1099
01:09:39,792 --> 01:09:41,136
I was just distracted.
1100
01:09:41,310 --> 01:09:42,724
Mm.
1101
01:09:42,895 --> 01:09:44,310
You keep talking
about these other girls,
1102
01:09:44,482 --> 01:09:45,827
these other girls having fun
1103
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:48,965
hyping me up,
and my girl is there just
1104
01:09:49,103 --> 01:09:51,033
on her phone.
1105
01:09:51,206 --> 01:09:54,344
It's my first time
in a situation like this.
1106
01:09:54,517 --> 01:09:55,965
There's lots
of beautiful girls around.
1107
01:09:56,103 --> 01:09:58,034
I just...
I felt awkward.
1108
01:09:58,206 --> 01:10:00,241
I didn't feel confident,
and I just wanted...
1109
01:10:00,413 --> 01:10:02,206
You really think that's
the best way to handle it?
1110
01:10:12,620 --> 01:10:15,275
I didn't mean to make you feel
a certain way, but OK.
1111
01:10:20,965 --> 01:10:22,068
[Stig]
BRB.
1112
01:10:25,931 --> 01:10:32,206
I'm kind of at a loss,
because I am trying my best to
1113
01:10:32,379 --> 01:10:36,655
not get super jealous,
not overreact, but apparently
1114
01:10:36,827 --> 01:10:39,862
I didn't do a very good job.
1115
01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:45,034
I am worried that if he thinks
I'm too jealous and crazy,
1116
01:10:45,206 --> 01:10:46,448
he might just break up with me.
1117
01:10:48,310 --> 01:10:50,379
I don't wanna scare him off,
1118
01:10:50,551 --> 01:10:53,689
but part of me is terrified
that I already have.
1119
01:10:55,172 --> 01:10:57,275
[tense music playing]
1120
01:10:59,068 --> 01:11:01,172
[foreign music playing]
1121
01:11:06,931 --> 01:11:09,931
[Birkan speaking]
1122
01:11:14,413 --> 01:11:15,896
Why?
'Cause you got bit?
1123
01:11:19,448 --> 01:11:21,862
Bark at you.
Bark at me.
1124
01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:23,689
OK.
1125
01:11:23,862 --> 01:11:25,724
-No, you're fine.
-My English is terrible.
1126
01:11:25,896 --> 01:11:27,620
-Your English is perfect.
-Reboot.
1127
01:11:27,793 --> 01:11:28,758
Reboot.
1128
01:11:38,551 --> 01:11:40,448
[Laura]
Last night, I found out
1129
01:11:40,620 --> 01:11:43,655
that Birkan has an immense
amount of debt.
1130
01:11:45,206 --> 01:11:48,034
And I was worried
that he really just does want
1131
01:11:48,206 --> 01:11:49,344
a green card.
1132
01:11:50,068 --> 01:11:54,137
But I have put a lot
into this relationship, so maybe
1133
01:11:54,310 --> 01:11:57,965
I just need to give it a little
bit more time to see how red
1134
01:11:58,103 --> 01:11:59,620
the red flags actually are.
1135
01:12:02,137 --> 01:12:04,068
Maybe they're just
a little pink.
1136
01:12:04,241 --> 01:12:05,206
I don't know.
1137
01:12:10,827 --> 01:12:12,965
-[Laura speaking]
-[Birkan] Yeah.
1138
01:12:16,275 --> 01:12:18,620
[Birkan speaking]
1139
01:12:21,068 --> 01:12:23,413
I wanted
to show her different areas
1140
01:12:23,586 --> 01:12:25,000
and different villages.
1141
01:12:31,793 --> 01:12:33,448
[speaking Turkish]
1142
01:12:37,275 --> 01:12:38,379
Thank you.
1143
01:12:54,482 --> 01:12:56,586
[Birkan speaking]
1144
01:13:04,034 --> 01:13:06,137
[man speaking Turkish]
1145
01:13:09,655 --> 01:13:11,517
-Oh, I did it.
-[Birkan laughs]
1146
01:13:11,689 --> 01:13:13,310
-I got one.
-Ah, yeah.
1147
01:13:13,482 --> 01:13:15,448
[man speaking Turkish]
1148
01:13:35,137 --> 01:13:36,241
[Laura gasps]
1149
01:13:37,310 --> 01:13:38,448
Oh, that's cool.
1150
01:13:38,620 --> 01:13:40,793
It's not perfectly round,
but that looks good.
1151
01:13:44,689 --> 01:13:45,724
No, you don't.
1152
01:13:45,896 --> 01:13:47,068
Yeah, I am.
Check at this.
1153
01:13:47,241 --> 01:13:48,275
-I have no talent.
-[Laura] No, it's good.
1154
01:13:48,448 --> 01:13:49,379
No, it's good.
1155
01:13:49,379 --> 01:13:51,724
-Now you just roll it.
-It has a tail.
1156
01:13:51,896 --> 01:13:53,896
[cackles]
1157
01:14:02,241 --> 01:14:04,931
-Yeah, he does.
-It just makes me angry.
1158
01:14:05,068 --> 01:14:06,551
I can't even get it out.
1159
01:14:16,655 --> 01:14:18,758
[man speaking Turkish]
1160
01:14:20,068 --> 01:14:22,482
-All of the evil eye stuff.
-[Birkan] Yeah.
1161
01:14:22,655 --> 01:14:24,862
Is this something,
like, that's common in Turkey?
1162
01:14:25,000 --> 01:14:26,275
Like, you're taught as a kid?
1163
01:14:26,448 --> 01:14:28,000
Is that something
that your family taught you,
1164
01:14:28,172 --> 01:14:29,172
your parents taught you?
1165
01:14:29,172 --> 01:14:30,689
Yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah, they taught me.
1166
01:14:30,862 --> 01:14:31,827
[Laura] OK.
1167
01:14:34,000 --> 01:14:35,758
We hardly ever talk
about your family.
1168
01:14:35,931 --> 01:14:37,172
[Birkan]
Yeah.
1169
01:14:37,172 --> 01:14:39,896
Usually, we kind of dance
around that topic, and I'd like
1170
01:14:40,034 --> 01:14:41,034
to know...
-Yeah, that's, um --
1171
01:14:41,206 --> 01:14:42,275
...more about them?
1172
01:14:47,413 --> 01:14:49,275
[Laura]
Do you see them very often?
1173
01:14:50,551 --> 01:14:54,655
No, actually.
My parents are...
1174
01:14:54,827 --> 01:14:58,586
not so happy
because I'm with you.
1175
01:15:02,758 --> 01:15:06,758
Birkan has been a little
evasive about the relationship
1176
01:15:06,931 --> 01:15:08,000
with his parents.
1177
01:15:08,172 --> 01:15:11,551
We haven't talked about it
in a lot of detail,
1178
01:15:11,724 --> 01:15:14,655
so hearing
that Birkan's parents don't...
1179
01:15:14,827 --> 01:15:17,793
approve of me
is really upsetting.
1180
01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:21,620
My family already
doesn't approve of this,
1181
01:15:21,793 --> 01:15:23,379
and it's just
1182
01:15:23,551 --> 01:15:26,620
kind of frustrating to have
a relationship where I feel
1183
01:15:26,793 --> 01:15:29,103
like everything is against us.
1184
01:15:31,586 --> 01:15:33,931
Do you think that there's
a point where I would ever
1185
01:15:34,068 --> 01:15:35,344
meet your parents?
1186
01:15:36,275 --> 01:15:38,000
I don't know.
1187
01:15:38,172 --> 01:15:40,172
But I do feel like...
1188
01:15:40,344 --> 01:15:44,965
meeting someone's family is
a good way to get to know...
1189
01:15:45,103 --> 01:15:46,000
Yeah.
1190
01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:48,379
...more information
about a person.
1191
01:15:48,551 --> 01:15:51,448
My family is my friends.
1192
01:15:52,551 --> 01:15:54,862
[Laura]
I understand that.
1193
01:15:55,000 --> 01:15:58,448
For me, that's how I feel about
my friend Michael, you know?
1194
01:16:07,241 --> 01:16:10,172
I don't want you to be too
close with him
1195
01:16:10,344 --> 01:16:11,931
because I don't trust him.
1196
01:16:13,931 --> 01:16:15,413
Also, I don't like him.
1197
01:16:16,793 --> 01:16:20,724
Well, he is very important
in my life.
1198
01:16:21,551 --> 01:16:24,068
We literally do everything
together all the time.
1199
01:16:24,241 --> 01:16:25,275
OK.
1200
01:16:29,241 --> 01:16:33,310
I want you to cut him out
of your life.
1201
01:16:35,379 --> 01:16:41,379
So you're basically giving me
the ultimatum of you or him?
1202
01:16:41,551 --> 01:16:44,758
No, actually is not
an ultimatum, you know?
1203
01:16:44,931 --> 01:16:47,275
-[Laura] What is it then?
-You're gonna choose me.
1204
01:16:49,758 --> 01:16:53,206
This is the point,
we are thinking about marriage.
1205
01:16:53,379 --> 01:16:54,758
When we get married,
1206
01:16:54,931 --> 01:16:58,000
he's not gonna be
a part of our lives.
1207
01:17:04,275 --> 01:17:06,034
[Laura]
I don't like that.
1208
01:17:06,206 --> 01:17:07,586
He's just my friend,
1209
01:17:07,758 --> 01:17:10,724
and he's not trying
to make me cut you out.
1210
01:17:10,896 --> 01:17:12,000
He can't.
1211
01:17:12,172 --> 01:17:13,689
This is relationship.
1212
01:17:15,103 --> 01:17:17,620
This is the one
who you get married
1213
01:17:17,793 --> 01:17:21,344
not some activity buddies.
1214
01:17:23,448 --> 01:17:26,034
I've always known that Birkan
doesn't love the fact
1215
01:17:26,206 --> 01:17:28,000
that Michael and I are friends.
1216
01:17:28,137 --> 01:17:31,655
But when Birkan tells me that
I'm gonna have to cut Michael
1217
01:17:31,827 --> 01:17:35,172
out of my life, it absolutely
feels like some weird
1218
01:17:35,344 --> 01:17:38,000
controlling side of him
that I haven't seen yet
1219
01:17:38,137 --> 01:17:40,310
and I really don't like.
1220
01:17:40,482 --> 01:17:43,655
This kind of changes my thinking
a little bit, and I'm in a...
1221
01:17:43,827 --> 01:17:44,793
About him?
1222
01:17:45,724 --> 01:17:46,827
No.
1223
01:17:48,413 --> 01:17:50,482
He's not trying to force me
to make a decision
1224
01:17:50,655 --> 01:17:52,344
that I don't wanna make.
-[Birkan] Hmm.
1225
01:18:07,793 --> 01:18:10,965
I am shocked, that Birkan
1226
01:18:11,103 --> 01:18:13,172
decides to walk out on me
as a way
1227
01:18:13,344 --> 01:18:15,620
of ending our conversation.
1228
01:18:16,413 --> 01:18:19,344
It's super disrespectful to me,
1229
01:18:19,517 --> 01:18:24,586
especially when I've tried
to be very understanding
1230
01:18:24,758 --> 01:18:28,689
with the massive amount of debt
that he revealed to me.
1231
01:18:30,000 --> 01:18:33,931
This doesn't really feel
like the man that I thought
1232
01:18:34,068 --> 01:18:35,241
I knew online.
1233
01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:41,034
[Lisa] I'm mad at the way
he talked to me.
1234
01:18:41,206 --> 01:18:43,000
The way he's shaking his hand
in front of my face and [bleep].
1235
01:18:43,172 --> 01:18:45,724
No -- no,
he's not gonna do that.
1236
01:18:45,896 --> 01:18:46,793
And if he doesn't come
and apologize,
1237
01:18:46,965 --> 01:18:48,620
I'm getting in the car.
1238
01:18:48,793 --> 01:18:51,448
[tense music playing]
1239
01:18:51,620 --> 01:18:52,551
[Daniel speaking]
1240
01:19:00,689 --> 01:19:02,793
[somber music playing]
1241
01:19:08,344 --> 01:19:09,448
[Lisa]
I'm mad.
1242
01:19:10,379 --> 01:19:11,689
And he better
come and apologize.
1243
01:19:11,862 --> 01:19:13,068
And if he doesn't come
and apologize,
1244
01:19:13,241 --> 01:19:14,482
I'm getting in the car.
1245
01:19:14,655 --> 01:19:16,793
I'm mad the way he talked
to me.
1246
01:19:16,965 --> 01:19:18,793
The way he's shaking his hand
in front of my face and [bleep].
1247
01:19:18,965 --> 01:19:21,655
No -- no,
he's not gonna do that.
1248
01:19:21,827 --> 01:19:23,931
He's not gonna shake
his hand in front of my face.
1249
01:19:25,000 --> 01:19:26,103
[Daniel speaking]
1250
01:19:32,655 --> 01:19:34,758
[somber, dramatic music playing]
1251
01:19:45,448 --> 01:19:46,655
[Daniel speaking]
1252
01:19:47,517 --> 01:19:48,724
[blows through mouth]
1253
01:19:55,551 --> 01:19:57,862
Why are you talking to me
like that?
1254
01:19:58,000 --> 01:20:00,413
You raised your voice.
You put your hand in my face.
1255
01:20:07,448 --> 01:20:09,000
I took two sips.
I don't wanna --
1256
01:20:09,172 --> 01:20:10,379
I'm not even gonna
drink it anymore.
1257
01:20:12,655 --> 01:20:14,724
Then why are you drinking it?
Why did you order it?
1258
01:20:19,137 --> 01:20:21,068
[tries speaking
foreign language]
1259
01:20:21,241 --> 01:20:22,172
And don't get mad at me
1260
01:20:22,172 --> 01:20:24,034
'cause I can't
pronounce everything.
1261
01:20:24,206 --> 01:20:25,344
I am an American.
1262
01:20:25,344 --> 01:20:27,413
Daniel, you can't pronounce
everything properly.
1263
01:20:29,137 --> 01:20:30,724
So what?
1264
01:20:30,896 --> 01:20:32,862
Don't raise your voice.
1265
01:20:35,310 --> 01:20:36,931
You are raising your voice
on me.
1266
01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:39,068
No.
1267
01:20:41,413 --> 01:20:42,655
Are you gonna be nice?
1268
01:20:51,827 --> 01:20:52,793
[Daniel speaks
foreign language]
1269
01:20:52,965 --> 01:20:54,137
No.
1270
01:20:54,310 --> 01:20:55,827
Don't put your arm around me.
1271
01:20:56,000 --> 01:20:57,482
No.
1272
01:20:57,655 --> 01:20:59,310
No.
1273
01:21:01,862 --> 01:21:03,896
I am so upset with Daniel
right now.
1274
01:21:04,965 --> 01:21:06,689
This is our first full day
together, and
1275
01:21:06,862 --> 01:21:09,379
I'm seeing
this whole other side to him.
1276
01:21:09,551 --> 01:21:12,586
The way he's behaving has given
off warning signs.
1277
01:21:12,758 --> 01:21:13,689
I don't like it.
1278
01:21:23,034 --> 01:21:24,724
I am a Christian.
1279
01:21:27,103 --> 01:21:29,172
So you're not allowed to smoke
as a Christian?
1280
01:21:30,896 --> 01:21:32,172
I'm trying to quit.
1281
01:21:34,517 --> 01:21:36,034
[Lisa]
No, you shouldn't --
1282
01:21:36,206 --> 01:21:38,379
you don't talk about it at all.
1283
01:21:42,172 --> 01:21:44,103
-In my family...
-[Laura] Mm-hmm.
1284
01:21:50,103 --> 01:21:52,206
-[Laura] Let me ask you this.
-OK.
1285
01:21:52,379 --> 01:21:54,103
If your uncle does not give
you the blessing,
1286
01:21:54,275 --> 01:21:56,689
does that mean
that we are not getting married?
1287
01:22:02,655 --> 01:22:06,000
[sad music playing]
1288
01:22:08,448 --> 01:22:11,103
You told me you are a man
who can make his own decisions.
1289
01:22:11,275 --> 01:22:14,379
I came to Nigeria for a reason,
and now you're telling me
1290
01:22:14,551 --> 01:22:16,758
without a blessing
that you can't marry me.
1291
01:22:32,034 --> 01:22:33,655
And that's -- and the vaping is
1292
01:22:33,827 --> 01:22:35,551
the only thing that
you're very concerned about?
1293
01:22:35,724 --> 01:22:36,965
That's your biggest concern?
1294
01:22:40,689 --> 01:22:41,793
Hmm?
1295
01:22:44,137 --> 01:22:46,034
[Lisa]
I'm thinking.
1296
01:22:48,517 --> 01:22:50,551
Daniel is so worried about
the vape,
1297
01:22:50,724 --> 01:22:55,275
but that seems really small
compared to all the other things
1298
01:22:55,448 --> 01:22:58,241
that Daniel doesn't know
about me.
1299
01:22:58,413 --> 01:23:00,655
I'm terrified to tell him
my truth.
1300
01:23:00,827 --> 01:23:03,310
I have no idea if he'll be able
to forgive me.
1301
01:23:03,482 --> 01:23:05,517
And even
if he accepted my past,
1302
01:23:05,689 --> 01:23:07,448
once I reveal
my secrets to him,
1303
01:23:07,620 --> 01:23:09,310
is he gonna
have to tell all of his family
1304
01:23:09,482 --> 01:23:12,344
that I've only been with women
for the past 21 years
1305
01:23:12,517 --> 01:23:14,344
and that I'm still married?
1306
01:23:14,517 --> 01:23:16,896
If we tell his uncle about that,
1307
01:23:17,034 --> 01:23:20,000
I'm scared I'm not
gonna get the blessing.
1308
01:23:20,137 --> 01:23:21,551
I don't wanna lose Daniel.
1309
01:23:21,724 --> 01:23:23,689
[tense chord plays]
1310
01:23:26,586 --> 01:23:28,413
[Rick speaking]
1311
01:23:28,586 --> 01:23:31,586
[Annalyn] Next time
on "Before the 90 Days."
1312
01:23:31,758 --> 01:23:34,000
[Trisha] So cute.
[speaks foreign language]
1313
01:23:34,172 --> 01:23:36,103
[Rick]
Yeah, the kids will love this.
1314
01:23:36,275 --> 01:23:38,241
-[Trisha] Yeah.
-[Rick speaking]
1315
01:23:43,034 --> 01:23:45,758
If he decided
he does not wanna have kids,
1316
01:23:45,931 --> 01:23:48,655
I don't know
if I could be with him.
1317
01:24:02,896 --> 01:24:06,068
[Jovon] I was gonna stop talking
to that person.
1318
01:24:06,241 --> 01:24:08,689
[Annalyn speaking]
1319
01:24:14,379 --> 01:24:17,241
Tell me something interesting
about Birkan.
1320
01:24:17,413 --> 01:24:19,413
[speaking Turkish]
1321
01:24:23,758 --> 01:24:25,862
[Birkan speaking]
1322
01:24:30,000 --> 01:24:32,068
[speaking Turkish]
1323
01:24:34,310 --> 01:24:36,034
[Laura] Wait.
What is she saying?
1324
01:24:38,137 --> 01:24:40,344
[Molly] Oh, yes.
Moment of truth.
1325
01:24:42,689 --> 01:24:46,103
Man, this is so beautiful here.
1326
01:24:46,275 --> 01:24:48,000
Holy [bleep].
1327
01:24:48,137 --> 01:24:49,931
Well, would you look at that?
1328
01:24:50,068 --> 01:24:53,724
Sheena's expecting me
to believe that if her parents
1329
01:24:53,896 --> 01:24:56,827
don't take her money,
that they're gonna starve.
1330
01:24:57,000 --> 01:24:58,448
Tonight, we'll get the truth
from Sheena.
1331
01:24:59,862 --> 01:25:03,793
She told us
if she didn't give the money,
1332
01:25:03,965 --> 01:25:05,448
that you would mistreat her.
1333
01:25:06,620 --> 01:25:07,620
[Steve speaking]
1334
01:25:07,793 --> 01:25:09,793
[tense music builds]
1335
01:25:12,241 --> 01:25:14,586
[Daniel speaking]
1336
01:25:14,758 --> 01:25:17,103
[Daniel's uncle speaking]
1337
01:25:19,586 --> 01:25:21,551
I'm sitting
next to the man I love,
1338
01:25:21,724 --> 01:25:23,482
and he doesn't know
[bleep] about me.
1339
01:25:23,655 --> 01:25:26,379
I don't wanna lie to his uncle,
but I want us
1340
01:25:26,551 --> 01:25:28,758
to have this blessing,
more than anything in the world.
1341
01:25:30,793 --> 01:25:33,310
I have not always been,
but Daniel makes me
1342
01:25:33,482 --> 01:25:34,551
into a better woman.
1343
01:25:38,206 --> 01:25:40,310
[tense music playing]
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