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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:01:08,277 --> 00:01:10,029 Grandma's hands 2 00:01:10,112 --> 00:01:13,207 Clapped in church on Sunday morning 3 00:01:13,407 --> 00:01:15,330 Grandma's hands 4 00:01:15,492 --> 00:01:18,587 Played the tambourine so well 5 00:01:18,787 --> 00:01:21,131 Grandma's hands 6 00:01:21,415 --> 00:01:23,463 Used to issue out a warning 7 00:01:23,542 --> 00:01:26,967 She'd say, "Baby, don't you run so fast 8 00:01:27,296 --> 00:01:30,095 "Might fall on a piece of glass 9 00:01:30,299 --> 00:01:32,597 "Could be snakes there in the grass" 10 00:01:32,676 --> 00:01:34,895 Grandma's hands 11 00:01:34,970 --> 00:01:36,813 Grandma's hands 12 00:01:36,888 --> 00:01:40,062 Soothed the local unwed mother 13 00:01:40,142 --> 00:01:42,144 Grandma's hands 14 00:01:42,227 --> 00:01:45,151 Used to ache sometimes and swell 15 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,448 Grandma's hands 16 00:01:47,524 --> 00:01:50,653 Used to lift her head and tell her 17 00:01:51,486 --> 00:01:53,989 "Baby, Grandma understands 18 00:01:54,323 --> 00:01:56,951 "That you really love that man 19 00:01:57,034 --> 00:01:59,002 "Put your trust in Jesus' hands" 20 00:01:59,077 --> 00:02:01,000 Grandma's hands 21 00:02:01,121 --> 00:02:04,341 Prayed for me when I was in trouble 22 00:02:04,416 --> 00:02:06,259 Grandma's hands 23 00:02:06,335 --> 00:02:09,555 Asked the Lord to help me through my struggle 24 00:02:09,630 --> 00:02:11,348 Grandma's hands 25 00:02:11,590 --> 00:02:14,719 Lifted me up when I was down 26 00:02:15,427 --> 00:02:17,475 Told me it would be all right 27 00:02:18,180 --> 00:02:20,603 Led me to that saving light 28 00:02:20,849 --> 00:02:23,102 Now, I'm on the winning side 29 00:02:23,185 --> 00:02:24,687 Grandma's hands 30 00:02:24,811 --> 00:02:27,860 Clapped in church on Sunday morning 31 00:02:27,939 --> 00:02:29,862 Grandma's hands 32 00:02:29,941 --> 00:02:33,036 Played the tambourine so well 33 00:02:33,236 --> 00:02:35,238 Grandma's hands 34 00:02:35,322 --> 00:02:37,791 Used to issue out a warning 35 00:02:37,866 --> 00:02:41,166 They said, "Son, don't you run so fast 36 00:02:41,745 --> 00:02:44,089 "Might step on a piece of glass 37 00:02:44,164 --> 00:02:46,337 "Might be snakes there in that grass" 38 00:02:46,416 --> 00:02:48,635 Grandma's hands 39 00:02:48,710 --> 00:02:51,463 Where is Grandma? 40 00:02:51,546 --> 00:02:53,093 Grandma's hands 41 00:02:53,548 --> 00:02:56,802 Where is Grandpa? 42 00:02:56,885 --> 00:02:58,307 Grandma's hands 43 00:02:58,428 --> 00:03:01,602 Where is the wisdom? 44 00:03:01,682 --> 00:03:02,854 Grandma's hands 45 00:03:02,933 --> 00:03:06,813 Or the knowledge? 46 00:03:08,271 --> 00:03:10,148 Good morning, Carson. 47 00:03:10,232 --> 00:03:12,826 James, please make sure this bedpan has been cleaned, 48 00:03:12,901 --> 00:03:15,871 and wait. I don't like the fact that these sheets haven't been changed. 49 00:03:15,946 --> 00:03:17,382 Now, I know the laundry's been done. 50 00:03:17,406 --> 00:03:19,704 Please make sure and change these sheets, okay? 51 00:03:19,783 --> 00:03:23,253 Come on, people, we gotta do better, we gotta do better than this! 52 00:03:23,328 --> 00:03:27,674 Oh, my God, is that another dirty bedpan? And look at these sheets! 53 00:03:27,749 --> 00:03:30,593 Kathy, listen, I don't want these residents to get bed sores, okay? 54 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:32,546 Kathy and James, get on it! 55 00:03:32,796 --> 00:03:34,594 - How are you doing, Ms. Carla? - Hey, Allen. 56 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:36,638 "For everything, there is a season. 57 00:03:36,717 --> 00:03:39,391 "There's a time to be born and a time to die. 58 00:03:39,469 --> 00:03:42,143 "A time to laugh and a time to cry. 59 00:03:42,222 --> 00:03:45,101 "A time to tear down and a time to build up." 60 00:03:45,183 --> 00:03:48,278 You like that, Mrs. Watson? Mrs. Watson? 61 00:03:52,441 --> 00:03:55,035 Easy Rest Retirement Home, where better living... 62 00:03:55,110 --> 00:03:57,363 Are you crazy? Have you lost your mind? 63 00:03:57,446 --> 00:04:00,416 I don't care. Do not call my job looking for Malik! 64 00:04:00,490 --> 00:04:03,334 Do not call my job! 65 00:04:03,410 --> 00:04:07,131 Easy Rest Retirement Home, where better living is an option. May I help you? 66 00:04:07,205 --> 00:04:09,685 Yes, yes, I'll make sure they're ready for that shuttle pickup. 67 00:04:09,875 --> 00:04:11,422 No problem, thank you. 68 00:04:11,626 --> 00:04:13,146 Are they ready to take me to dialysis? 69 00:04:13,253 --> 00:04:14,800 Your appointment is tomorrow, Carson. 70 00:04:14,963 --> 00:04:18,888 - Tomorrow? I could be dead by tomorrow! - Carson, you will not, okay? 71 00:04:18,967 --> 00:04:21,320 The shuttle will be here in the morning. You feeling all right? 72 00:04:21,344 --> 00:04:24,184 Yeah, I'm feeling all right. I can just use a cup of coffee, that's all. 73 00:04:24,347 --> 00:04:26,520 Carson, you cannot have coffee. 74 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:28,819 That's the main reason why you're going to dialysis, 75 00:04:28,894 --> 00:04:30,737 so they can flush all those fluids out of you. 76 00:04:30,854 --> 00:04:32,623 Well, then I should be able to have some coffee 77 00:04:32,647 --> 00:04:34,567 if they're gonna flush all them fluids out of me. 78 00:04:34,649 --> 00:04:36,902 Carson, I'm not gonna argue with you, okay? 79 00:04:37,152 --> 00:04:39,200 I can't have this, I can't have that! This is crazy. 80 00:04:39,404 --> 00:04:42,658 Well, I'm sorry. That's the life of a man with diabetes and kidney failure. 81 00:04:43,909 --> 00:04:45,303 Dalia, would you make sure and watch them? 82 00:04:45,327 --> 00:04:47,079 Make sure they change those sheets upstairs? 83 00:04:47,162 --> 00:04:48,522 Yes, I'll make sure they're on it. 84 00:04:48,622 --> 00:04:51,842 - And why hasn't Carson left yet? - The shuttle will be here tomorrow. 85 00:04:52,459 --> 00:04:55,633 And it'll probably be late. With these state-run shuttle programs, 86 00:04:55,712 --> 00:04:57,806 I don't know how they expect us to run this place. 87 00:04:57,881 --> 00:05:00,930 We have four people helping 30 patients, the back rooms are full, 88 00:05:01,009 --> 00:05:02,862 I'm at my wits' end, I don't know what else to do! 89 00:05:02,886 --> 00:05:04,263 Carla, calm down, okay? 90 00:05:04,346 --> 00:05:08,442 I've actually been thinking about that and I found a way for us to get some help. 91 00:05:08,517 --> 00:05:09,860 Oh, okay, how? 92 00:05:09,935 --> 00:05:12,905 You know the courts are giving community service to people, right? 93 00:05:13,188 --> 00:05:14,832 Well, I called to have them send someone over. 94 00:05:14,856 --> 00:05:17,200 Now, I don't know about having a criminal in here. 95 00:05:17,275 --> 00:05:20,905 Carla, these are minor offenses, and they'll come here and work for us for free. 96 00:05:21,029 --> 00:05:22,952 No, I don't know about this, Dalia. 97 00:05:23,031 --> 00:05:27,411 Carla, come on! I really think we should try it and I already called. 98 00:05:27,869 --> 00:05:30,497 - Dalia! - Carla, come on. Free... 99 00:05:30,580 --> 00:05:32,878 You know what? All right, fine, we will try it. 100 00:05:33,041 --> 00:05:35,965 - Thank you. - But if it doesn't work, I am blaming you. 101 00:05:36,044 --> 00:05:38,356 And why isn't Mrs. Watson sitting in front of the TV? Come on... 102 00:05:38,380 --> 00:05:39,723 I was reading to her. 103 00:05:40,340 --> 00:05:43,264 This woman hasn't said a word in over a year since she's been here. 104 00:05:43,635 --> 00:05:46,605 Her daughter asked me to and I promised her that I would. 105 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,825 Then you should probably have her daughter read to her. 106 00:05:48,849 --> 00:05:51,853 Carla, she would if she were here! She just got married. 107 00:05:51,935 --> 00:05:54,779 She went on her honeymoon before her husband went back to Afghanistan. 108 00:05:55,146 --> 00:05:57,444 - She got married? - Yes, Carla. 109 00:05:57,524 --> 00:05:59,822 It was the most beautiful wedding ever. 110 00:06:00,068 --> 00:06:04,289 Malik and I had a great... Wait, she invited you. Why didn't you come? 111 00:06:04,364 --> 00:06:06,662 - I had things to do. - Like what? 112 00:06:06,741 --> 00:06:08,368 Like minding my business. 113 00:06:08,451 --> 00:06:11,125 Listen, you have to stop wasting your time reading to this woman. 114 00:06:11,204 --> 00:06:14,174 There are several patients who need your attention. 115 00:06:14,249 --> 00:06:15,977 You have to learn how to choose your battles. 116 00:06:16,001 --> 00:06:18,299 The universe is speaking! 117 00:06:18,378 --> 00:06:20,301 The universe? Carla, wait. 118 00:06:20,922 --> 00:06:23,141 I haven't seen you at church lately. What's going on'? 119 00:06:23,425 --> 00:06:26,474 - I'm not going to that church anymore. - Why? What happened? 120 00:06:26,636 --> 00:06:30,391 I am now studying with a guru on the powers of the universe. 121 00:06:30,473 --> 00:06:32,441 All that noise in that place, I'm past that. 122 00:06:32,601 --> 00:06:35,121 But Carla, you've been going to that church since I was a little girl. 123 00:06:35,145 --> 00:06:37,614 - Yeah, I know, but this is better for me. - Carla? 124 00:06:37,939 --> 00:06:39,941 Look, Dalia, at some point, you have to grow up. 125 00:06:40,025 --> 00:06:42,211 You'll see that you're wasting your time at that place, too. 126 00:06:42,235 --> 00:06:43,754 Look, girl, I know that you're still hurt by this... 127 00:06:43,778 --> 00:06:45,715 - Hey, hey, hey! - ...but you gotta find a way to... 128 00:06:45,739 --> 00:06:47,616 We are not talking about that. 129 00:06:48,325 --> 00:06:49,577 Hello, ladies. 130 00:06:49,659 --> 00:06:51,419 - How are you doing, Ms. Carla? - Hey, Allen. 131 00:06:51,661 --> 00:06:54,835 - Hey, hey, Dalia, you talked to her for me? - No, I didn't say anything to her. 132 00:06:54,915 --> 00:06:57,595 You were in there, you could have said a little bit more than "Hey!" 133 00:06:58,043 --> 00:07:01,343 Easy Rest Retirement Home, where better living... 134 00:07:01,421 --> 00:07:04,174 No, no, I'll get her, I'll get her, thank you. 135 00:07:04,466 --> 00:07:07,515 Hattie! Hattie! 136 00:07:07,594 --> 00:07:10,188 Hattie, get inside, please! 137 00:07:10,263 --> 00:07:13,984 That's the fourth call I've gotten this week. You do not want to get sick! 138 00:07:18,980 --> 00:07:21,108 I was trying to make a run for it. 139 00:07:23,526 --> 00:07:25,073 And Hattie, where were you going? 140 00:07:25,195 --> 00:07:27,573 Just as far away from here as I can possibly get. 141 00:07:27,656 --> 00:07:30,125 All right, well, it's time for you to take your medicine. 142 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:33,545 - I've already taken my medicine. - No, you did not. 143 00:07:33,828 --> 00:07:35,431 - Already taken my medicine! - You did not! 144 00:07:35,455 --> 00:07:37,082 - Did, too! - Did not, Hattie! 145 00:07:37,165 --> 00:07:38,165 - Did, too! - Did not! 146 00:07:38,208 --> 00:07:40,381 Did, too! Did, too! Did, too! Did, too! 147 00:07:41,211 --> 00:07:43,509 Hattie, you did not. They're right here. 148 00:07:43,797 --> 00:07:46,801 I've already taken it, but if you want me to take it again and overdose, 149 00:07:46,883 --> 00:07:48,977 it ain't gonna nobody's fault but your own! 150 00:07:49,344 --> 00:07:50,436 Well, wait, wait... 151 00:07:50,512 --> 00:07:53,561 No, don't back down now. Go on, give it to me! 152 00:07:55,976 --> 00:07:59,321 When I die and when I get to glory, I'm gonna tell God, 153 00:07:59,396 --> 00:08:01,444 "Don't charge me, charge her! 154 00:08:02,941 --> 00:08:06,616 "'Cause I wasn't ready to be here, she fast-forwarded me here! 155 00:08:06,861 --> 00:08:09,740 "She fast-forwarded me here!" 156 00:08:09,823 --> 00:08:12,997 Hattie, why do you do this to me? 157 00:08:13,076 --> 00:08:15,204 You know I'm married and I have bills to pay. 158 00:08:15,370 --> 00:08:16,838 You wait one doggone minute! 159 00:08:16,913 --> 00:08:20,713 Don't you go whining to me. You wouldn't be able to maintain my schedule! 160 00:08:20,875 --> 00:08:23,799 I had to manage seven children, two husbands, 161 00:08:23,878 --> 00:08:26,472 and three boyfriends all at the same time! 162 00:08:27,924 --> 00:08:32,225 You don't even know what medication to give me and what time to give it to me! 163 00:08:32,303 --> 00:08:33,520 You're talkin' about tired? 164 00:08:33,596 --> 00:08:36,816 Baby, it ain't easy cheating when you're married. 165 00:08:38,727 --> 00:08:42,573 Hattie, that's awful! You know that's not of God. 166 00:08:42,939 --> 00:08:46,034 I wasn't much thinking about God then. 167 00:08:46,109 --> 00:08:50,205 I was just trying to get my groove on. 168 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:53,159 I was dropping it like it were hot back then, baby. 169 00:08:55,035 --> 00:08:56,287 Hattie? 170 00:08:58,079 --> 00:09:00,377 - Whoo, boo, ring my bell... - Hattie? 171 00:09:02,292 --> 00:09:06,092 Hattie, did you or did you not take the pills? 172 00:09:06,254 --> 00:09:08,723 That's for me to know and you to find out! 173 00:09:08,798 --> 00:09:11,096 Fine, I'm not gonna play these games with you, okay? 174 00:09:11,176 --> 00:09:12,519 Come on, open up, take the pills. 175 00:09:12,719 --> 00:09:13,946 I've already taken my medicine! 176 00:09:13,970 --> 00:09:16,849 Hattie, please open your mouth and take the pills. 177 00:09:16,931 --> 00:09:18,899 Now, don't you spit those out. 178 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:24,943 All right. Now, ma'am, you're going to be just fine here. 179 00:09:25,023 --> 00:09:26,149 No, I'm not. 180 00:09:26,983 --> 00:09:28,860 Baby, who is this? 181 00:09:28,943 --> 00:09:33,323 New patient. She got put out of her house and we were told to bring her here. 182 00:09:33,406 --> 00:09:35,784 - Baby. - Yeah, I know, it's sad. 183 00:09:35,867 --> 00:09:37,460 Hold on, not another one? 184 00:09:38,286 --> 00:09:39,646 I just spoke to them at the State, 185 00:09:39,704 --> 00:09:42,099 I told them we didn't have any more room for another resident! 186 00:09:42,123 --> 00:09:43,215 This is ridiculous. 187 00:09:43,291 --> 00:09:45,269 I need to call the County, that's what I need to do. 188 00:09:45,293 --> 00:09:46,545 Carla, she can hear you. 189 00:09:46,753 --> 00:09:49,632 Dalia, let me do my job. 190 00:09:50,423 --> 00:09:52,801 She ain't in a good mood today. 191 00:09:53,009 --> 00:09:56,309 - Hi, I'm Dalia. And you are? - Not staying here. 192 00:09:58,098 --> 00:09:59,600 Her name is Barbara. 193 00:09:59,891 --> 00:10:02,394 Well, Ms. Barbara, you'll be very happy here. 194 00:10:02,477 --> 00:10:04,955 We have some really kind people that will take good care of you... 195 00:10:04,979 --> 00:10:08,483 Some really kind people here that will bust you upside your head. 196 00:10:08,817 --> 00:10:11,570 Now, let me go and lay the rules down for you, sugar. 197 00:10:11,653 --> 00:10:14,623 So long as you don't touch my man or my Fruity Pops, 198 00:10:14,697 --> 00:10:16,791 me and you gonna be just fine. 199 00:10:17,075 --> 00:10:20,545 Me and you gonna run on to see what the end gonna be! 200 00:10:23,873 --> 00:10:26,626 Please forgive her, she hasn't taken her meds yet. 201 00:10:26,709 --> 00:10:30,464 She's a little high-strung, but, Ms. Barbara, you'll be fine here, okay? 202 00:10:30,547 --> 00:10:35,018 - She's the only one that way. - I'm not gonna make it here. I'm gonna die. 203 00:10:35,260 --> 00:10:37,228 I can't believe they just left me here. 204 00:10:37,595 --> 00:10:40,940 Yeah, that's what they do. They just drop you off and leave you. 205 00:10:41,307 --> 00:10:45,062 Don't talk about my children. Please, shut up! 206 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:50,279 - Who do you think you're talkin' to? - I'm talkin' to you! 207 00:10:50,358 --> 00:10:53,908 You feel froggy, then? Jump on over here and do something! 208 00:10:55,530 --> 00:10:57,624 Who is this pathetic little person? 209 00:10:57,907 --> 00:11:00,456 This here is whoop-ass in a can! 210 00:11:02,162 --> 00:11:05,757 You sure you don't want to pop it open? Pop it open! Pop it open, then! 211 00:11:06,332 --> 00:11:08,209 - Hattie... - Cross over the line, then! 212 00:11:08,293 --> 00:11:10,716 Cross over the line, Caroline! 213 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,884 Please believe, baby, I ain't never scared! 214 00:11:17,468 --> 00:11:22,850 I can assure you, precious, this right here, this ain't what you want right here, baby! 215 00:11:22,932 --> 00:11:27,233 No, I'm gonna drop that Dusty Rhodes on you, baby, this ain't what you want! 216 00:11:27,312 --> 00:11:28,313 Hattie... 217 00:11:28,479 --> 00:11:32,780 You run into this brick wall if you want to and commit suicide! 218 00:11:32,859 --> 00:11:36,079 - All right, come on, Ms. Hattie... - Don't be touchin' all over me! 219 00:11:36,321 --> 00:11:39,291 Don't you see my man here looking at you? 220 00:11:41,826 --> 00:11:43,544 See me after he go to dialysis. 221 00:11:46,915 --> 00:11:49,418 Dalia? Dalia, go ahead and check her in. 222 00:11:49,792 --> 00:11:52,021 And Allen, once she's done, would you check her vitals, please? 223 00:11:52,045 --> 00:11:54,565 Yes, anything you need, Ms. Carla. Will you be needing anything else? 224 00:11:54,589 --> 00:11:58,219 No, I need you to check her vitals. 225 00:11:58,301 --> 00:12:00,099 All right. Yes, ma'am. 226 00:12:02,388 --> 00:12:05,483 Denied! Man, why don't you leave her alone? 227 00:12:05,558 --> 00:12:06,730 You just keep after her. 228 00:12:07,268 --> 00:12:09,987 - She doesn't want you, man. - Yeah, but I want her. 229 00:12:10,230 --> 00:12:13,279 Man, you don't make enough money. She dates doctors and lawyers. 230 00:12:13,358 --> 00:12:14,678 You can't pull a woman like that. 231 00:12:14,817 --> 00:12:16,444 Everything ain't about money, son. 232 00:12:16,694 --> 00:12:19,618 Why would you want to date her anyway? She's mean as a snake, man. 233 00:12:19,697 --> 00:12:21,717 - There's something about her. - Something about her? 234 00:12:21,741 --> 00:12:22,788 Something about her. 235 00:12:22,867 --> 00:12:26,041 You know what, I keep trying to tell you for your own good. 236 00:12:26,287 --> 00:12:28,682 But you go right ahead, keep getting your feelings hurt, okay? 237 00:12:28,706 --> 00:12:29,767 See, that's the problem right there. 238 00:12:29,791 --> 00:12:33,341 You young thunder cats are always trying to tell old school what to do. 239 00:12:33,419 --> 00:12:35,797 We was here first, boy. We got this game on lockdown. 240 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:39,100 Yeah, old school just got the door slammed in his face, man. 241 00:12:39,300 --> 00:12:42,600 Ms. Barbara, let me go on and get you checked in. My name is Allen. 242 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:45,353 If you come with me and just turn right here at the desk, 243 00:12:45,431 --> 00:12:48,310 we'll get you checked in, is that all right? Yes, ma'am. 244 00:12:49,894 --> 00:12:52,317 - Hey, I'm Carson. - Don't talk to me. 245 00:12:53,398 --> 00:12:56,117 - What's wrong with her? - Don't worry about what's wrong with her! 246 00:12:56,192 --> 00:12:58,820 You better not let me catch you talking to her again! 247 00:12:59,237 --> 00:13:01,205 I'm gonna bust you upside your head! 248 00:13:01,489 --> 00:13:03,116 Woman, you don't own me. 249 00:13:03,199 --> 00:13:06,874 I do own you 'cause I puts it on you, Carson! 250 00:13:09,664 --> 00:13:11,041 What you say? 251 00:13:11,124 --> 00:13:12,797 You say what you want 252 00:13:24,846 --> 00:13:30,194 And stop sneaking in my room at night and slipping them blue pills under my tongue! 253 00:13:30,268 --> 00:13:31,485 I didn't do that. 254 00:13:31,686 --> 00:13:33,313 Yes, you did and I can prove it! 255 00:13:33,438 --> 00:13:35,941 Prove it, then, Carson! Prove it, then! 256 00:13:36,065 --> 00:13:37,157 Woman, I don't want you. 257 00:13:37,358 --> 00:13:41,113 Yes, you do! You just don't know it yet, Carson! 258 00:13:41,195 --> 00:13:44,290 Prove it, Carson! Prove it! Prove it, Carson! Prove it! 259 00:13:44,365 --> 00:13:45,366 Dalia! 260 00:13:46,534 --> 00:13:47,660 Hattie! 261 00:13:49,620 --> 00:13:50,917 - Dalia. - Hattie! 262 00:13:52,165 --> 00:13:53,212 She's crazy. 263 00:13:53,291 --> 00:13:57,717 Hattie, please get down off of Carson, okay? 264 00:13:58,296 --> 00:13:59,297 Dalia! 265 00:13:59,422 --> 00:14:02,596 Hattie, now, now! 266 00:14:02,717 --> 00:14:05,345 Off of Carson, he is not a horse. 267 00:14:05,428 --> 00:14:09,558 Yes, he is. He's my black stallion and I like to ride! 268 00:14:09,724 --> 00:14:11,772 Down. 269 00:14:13,978 --> 00:14:15,651 Woman, I ain't dating you! 270 00:14:16,189 --> 00:14:19,989 So, you think you're just gonna take my virginity and leave me? 271 00:14:20,318 --> 00:14:22,537 Woman, you're crazy! You ain't been a virgin since... 272 00:14:22,820 --> 00:14:25,539 - Since I slept with you! - I don't want you! 273 00:14:26,074 --> 00:14:27,371 - Yes, you do! - No, I don't! 274 00:14:27,492 --> 00:14:28,709 Yes, you do! 275 00:14:28,785 --> 00:14:32,961 See, back then, you didn't want me, but now I'm hot, you're all over me! 276 00:14:36,459 --> 00:14:37,836 It's hot in here 277 00:14:37,919 --> 00:14:38,919 Hattie? 278 00:14:38,961 --> 00:14:43,262 There must be a party in the atmosphere 'Cause I miss him 279 00:14:43,383 --> 00:14:44,383 Hattie! 280 00:14:44,425 --> 00:14:46,769 Yes, I miss him I miss him 281 00:14:48,346 --> 00:14:52,772 Hattie, I am so stressed out this morning, 282 00:14:52,850 --> 00:14:54,852 I have a headache and I asked you really nicely 283 00:14:55,103 --> 00:14:57,105 to please take your medication and... 284 00:14:58,815 --> 00:14:59,816 Hattie! 285 00:15:00,775 --> 00:15:02,618 Hattie, what's wrong with you? 286 00:15:03,111 --> 00:15:05,955 You didn't have to hit me like that! 287 00:15:07,281 --> 00:15:09,033 You didn't have to hit me like that! 288 00:15:09,117 --> 00:15:11,745 - Hattie, but you... - I'm-a call the po-po on you! 289 00:15:11,911 --> 00:15:13,222 What are you talking about, Hattie? 290 00:15:13,246 --> 00:15:15,123 You're going to jail now! 291 00:15:15,331 --> 00:15:16,799 No, I'm... Hattie. 292 00:15:16,958 --> 00:15:18,756 Till you do right by me. 293 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:20,132 Hattie. 294 00:15:23,089 --> 00:15:24,466 Oh, somebody tryin' to get... 295 00:15:24,549 --> 00:15:26,472 Hattie, please stop crying! 296 00:15:26,634 --> 00:15:26,725 Hattie, please! 297 00:15:26,726 --> 00:15:27,934 Hattie, please! 298 00:15:36,561 --> 00:15:37,904 How you doing, honey? 299 00:15:38,354 --> 00:15:40,982 How you doing? How you doing? 300 00:15:45,820 --> 00:15:47,618 What the hell's wrong with you? 301 00:15:50,032 --> 00:15:52,261 She looks like one of the things you hit, used to box back in the day. 302 00:15:52,285 --> 00:15:53,595 Remember them thing? How you doing? 303 00:15:53,619 --> 00:15:56,839 No, no, please don't do that to one of our residents here. 304 00:15:57,081 --> 00:16:00,836 I know who that is, that's Edith Bunker. How you doin', Edith? Where's Archie? 305 00:16:01,544 --> 00:16:04,263 No, ma'am. Ma'am, please stop doing that, okay? 306 00:16:04,338 --> 00:16:06,181 Please. Ma'am, what are you doing? 307 00:16:06,466 --> 00:16:09,595 Please, this is one of our residents here, Mrs. Watson, 308 00:16:09,677 --> 00:16:12,521 and she has Alzheimer's. 309 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:16,685 Orderly, can you please come and get Mrs. Watson and take her upstairs? 310 00:16:17,268 --> 00:16:19,079 I'm sorry, I didn't know she had an all-the-time. 311 00:16:19,103 --> 00:16:21,401 I'm sorry, I didn't know that. I didn't know that. 312 00:16:21,522 --> 00:16:25,243 I'm here looking for somebody named delectable, delightful, delusional, delicious. 313 00:16:25,318 --> 00:16:26,503 What the hell kind of name is that? 314 00:16:26,527 --> 00:16:28,529 What does that say, "D-e-l"? 315 00:16:28,613 --> 00:16:30,490 No, that says "Dalia" and that's me. 316 00:16:30,656 --> 00:16:33,500 - "Dalia." Dalia, wow. Dalia. - Yes. 317 00:16:33,576 --> 00:16:34,678 That's a nice name. What does that mean? 318 00:16:34,702 --> 00:16:37,706 - It means "gentle" in Swahili, actually. - Wow. 319 00:16:37,788 --> 00:16:39,040 - What's your name? - Mabel. 320 00:16:39,207 --> 00:16:41,050 Hi, Mabel, and your name means? 321 00:16:41,167 --> 00:16:43,044 Tough as hell in College Park. How you doin'? 322 00:16:47,048 --> 00:16:49,016 - I'm here from the court. - Yes! 323 00:16:49,091 --> 00:16:52,140 Yeah, they told me to come over here and do 20 hours of community service. 324 00:16:52,220 --> 00:16:53,220 Glad to have you... 325 00:16:53,262 --> 00:16:56,158 But I'm not gonna do that 'cause I got things to do, so go on, sign this paper. 326 00:16:56,182 --> 00:16:57,826 I'm gonna take it down to the County to the judge 327 00:16:57,850 --> 00:16:58,911 and I'm gonna get the hell on out of here. 328 00:16:58,935 --> 00:17:02,015 Sign your name, baby, that's all you gotta do. Gonna buy me some scratch-offs. 329 00:17:04,398 --> 00:17:07,242 I'm sorry, I can't sign this. Only Ms. Carla can and she's... 330 00:17:07,485 --> 00:17:09,254 Put her name down there, ain't nobody lookin'. 331 00:17:09,278 --> 00:17:10,797 Go ahead, go ahead. Ain't nobody lookin'. 332 00:17:10,821 --> 00:17:13,665 But that's forgery and that's very untrustworthy of me to do that. 333 00:17:13,908 --> 00:17:15,508 "Untrustworthy," wow. Are you Christian? 334 00:17:15,660 --> 00:17:16,752 How did you know? 335 00:17:16,827 --> 00:17:20,252 Y'all work on my nerves, child, doing the right thing all the time! 336 00:17:21,457 --> 00:17:25,007 Well, Ms. Mabel, I take it you're here to be a good employee. 337 00:17:25,086 --> 00:17:26,963 Hell, no, I'm not here to do that at all. 338 00:17:27,088 --> 00:17:29,369 I'm gonna do the 20 hours and get the hell up out of here. 339 00:17:29,757 --> 00:17:32,557 Okay, well, the job is simple. All you have to do is a little cleaning. 340 00:17:32,718 --> 00:17:34,095 I'm allergic. 341 00:17:35,513 --> 00:17:38,113 - To cleaning products? - To cleaning. Can't do that, sorry. Next. 342 00:17:38,140 --> 00:17:40,518 Okay, well, what about cooking? Can you be our chef? 343 00:17:40,685 --> 00:17:42,204 No, you can reach up to the top shelf, 344 00:17:42,228 --> 00:17:44,697 get me a double shot of Hennessy and Patrén on the rocks. 345 00:17:44,772 --> 00:17:47,150 I'll be straight up peaceful in here. 346 00:17:48,067 --> 00:17:51,742 - Okay, well, what about secretarial? - The horse? 347 00:17:53,114 --> 00:17:56,118 No, ain't nobody's gonna be ridin' me up in here, honey. No. 348 00:17:56,242 --> 00:17:59,462 I used to be a stallion, but I'm on my way to a mule right about now, 349 00:17:59,579 --> 00:18:03,425 - so, I can't do that. - Okay, Ms. Mabel, what can you do? 350 00:18:03,541 --> 00:18:05,352 I could sit right here waitin' for these 20 hours to be up, 351 00:18:05,376 --> 00:18:06,798 that's what the hell I could do. 352 00:18:07,128 --> 00:18:10,223 Okay, we need you to do some work in order to get that signature. 353 00:18:10,339 --> 00:18:11,340 Fine. 354 00:18:11,465 --> 00:18:13,559 Okay, can you answer the telephone, maybe? 355 00:18:13,634 --> 00:18:16,558 Yeah, I could do that. I used to work for a pimp back in the day. 356 00:18:16,637 --> 00:18:19,757 Yeah, I used to answer the phone and say, "Pimps up, hos down, can I help you?" 357 00:18:19,807 --> 00:18:21,309 Yeah, I can do that. 358 00:18:21,392 --> 00:18:26,023 Okay, this is Easy Rest Retirement Home where better living is an option. 359 00:18:26,314 --> 00:18:29,251 You want me to say all that when I answer the phone? "Easy Rest Retirement Home"? 360 00:18:29,275 --> 00:18:30,961 - Where better living is an option. - Where... 361 00:18:30,985 --> 00:18:33,579 - Option. Okay, great, I could say that. - Okay. 362 00:18:33,654 --> 00:18:36,658 Now, there's a few things that I need you to know that's... 363 00:18:36,741 --> 00:18:39,540 Are you okay? You got so excited when the phone rang. 364 00:18:42,121 --> 00:18:44,308 "Easy Rest Retirement Home, where better living is an option." 365 00:18:44,332 --> 00:18:45,754 You heard that? 366 00:18:47,710 --> 00:18:49,508 How the hell can I help you? 367 00:18:51,005 --> 00:18:52,348 Looking for somebody named Malik. 368 00:18:52,506 --> 00:18:54,804 Malik, that's my husband. Is that Katanya calling here? 369 00:18:54,967 --> 00:18:57,220 Is this Katanya calling here? 370 00:18:57,303 --> 00:19:01,183 Yes, Malik, yes. She said... You're the baby mama? It's the baby mama. 371 00:19:01,515 --> 00:19:03,243 Yes, I know that. Please tell her, "Don't call here." 372 00:19:03,267 --> 00:19:05,986 She said she knows you're the baby... Don't call... 373 00:19:06,062 --> 00:19:09,066 Girl, I can't tell her that, I just met her. You go on cussing like that. 374 00:19:10,775 --> 00:19:13,324 She said you won't let him come see his son. 375 00:19:13,402 --> 00:19:15,780 Yeah, and he's not coming back over there. 376 00:19:19,075 --> 00:19:22,375 Girl, I got to go, I'm a sinner. You're makin' me blush. 377 00:19:23,454 --> 00:19:25,349 That's pretty good, though. She just cussed you the hell out. 378 00:19:25,373 --> 00:19:27,876 - She is cussing me out? - Yeah, she cussed you out. 379 00:19:28,209 --> 00:19:29,961 If words could kill, you'd be sliced up. 380 00:19:31,045 --> 00:19:34,970 - Wow, I'm sorry you had to hear that. - No worries. Wonderful. 381 00:19:35,049 --> 00:19:37,552 Now, here's the files for all the living patients. 382 00:19:37,635 --> 00:19:39,433 These are all the living. Okay, wonderful. 383 00:19:39,637 --> 00:19:41,365 And here are the files for all the deceased patients. 384 00:19:41,389 --> 00:19:42,561 Hold the hell on. 385 00:19:50,398 --> 00:19:52,776 - This is the living? - Yes, ma'am. 386 00:19:52,900 --> 00:19:55,278 - And this is the dead? - Yes. 387 00:19:55,361 --> 00:19:58,456 - I gotta get the hell out of here. - No, no! 388 00:19:58,614 --> 00:20:01,037 No, y'all killing people up in here, honey. No. 389 00:20:01,575 --> 00:20:03,703 Ms. Mabel, these all need to be filed. 390 00:20:03,786 --> 00:20:07,290 You have nothing to worry about, okay? Nothing. 391 00:20:07,373 --> 00:20:09,671 Now, when someone calls for Ms. Carla, 392 00:20:09,750 --> 00:20:11,844 you're gonna transfer them to this extension. 393 00:20:11,919 --> 00:20:16,641 This extension, okay. When they call... I understand. 394 00:20:17,174 --> 00:20:19,643 And then when someone calls, you need to place them on hold, 395 00:20:19,719 --> 00:20:21,196 - just press the hold button. - I know what that is. 396 00:20:21,220 --> 00:20:22,460 Watch this. I'm pressing pound. 397 00:20:32,606 --> 00:20:36,656 Ms. Mabel, first of all, someone has to be on that phone for you to press that button... 398 00:20:36,944 --> 00:20:39,538 - No, I'm pressing the ho button. - The what button? 399 00:20:39,613 --> 00:20:41,115 The ho button. 400 00:20:41,490 --> 00:20:44,118 But what is this? 401 00:20:45,494 --> 00:20:47,622 This is presenting. 402 00:20:48,038 --> 00:20:50,006 - Who are you presenting? - The hos. 403 00:20:51,876 --> 00:20:54,174 - Well... - Yeah, when I used to work for the pimp, 404 00:20:54,253 --> 00:20:57,107 you pressed this button and all the girls come from the back and they line up. 405 00:20:57,131 --> 00:20:59,151 So, you press the ho button, they all come, and you say, 406 00:20:59,175 --> 00:21:00,552 "Hello, can I help you?" 407 00:21:02,303 --> 00:21:06,900 Okay, well, now, when someone calls for a deceased patient, it would be... 408 00:21:07,266 --> 00:21:10,328 This is a lot of instructions, honey. This is a lot for me to do on the first day. 409 00:21:10,352 --> 00:21:13,231 - But you're gonna get it, I know you will. - Okay, what I gotta do now? 410 00:21:13,314 --> 00:21:15,442 Now, when someone calls for a deceased patient... 411 00:21:15,524 --> 00:21:17,294 - Does that mean somebody's dead? - Dead, yes. 412 00:21:17,318 --> 00:21:20,697 Okay, say "dead," don't say "deceased." That's too proper. 413 00:21:20,780 --> 00:21:22,748 Somebody say "dead." Say "dead." 414 00:21:22,823 --> 00:21:24,917 "Deceased," you know what deceased means? 415 00:21:24,992 --> 00:21:26,665 That sounds harsh. 416 00:21:26,786 --> 00:21:27,888 - What, that they're dead? - "They're dead." 417 00:21:27,912 --> 00:21:30,210 But they're dead, they can't hear you. 418 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:36,925 "We are sorry to inform you that 'blank' is deceased." Let me change it. 419 00:21:37,004 --> 00:21:39,598 "We are sorry to inform you that 'blank' is dead." 420 00:21:39,673 --> 00:21:41,721 Well, Ms. Mabel... Okay... 421 00:21:42,176 --> 00:21:45,271 We're not gonna say a "blank," we're gonna put a name in that blank. 422 00:21:45,554 --> 00:21:47,898 Girl, when I see a blank, I know to fill it. 423 00:21:49,683 --> 00:21:52,857 "We are sorry to inform you that Dalia is dead 424 00:21:54,855 --> 00:21:56,823 "'cause she was working on my blank nerves 425 00:21:56,899 --> 00:21:59,448 "as I sit here trying to do this blank job." 426 00:22:00,402 --> 00:22:01,654 Well, you got it. 427 00:22:01,737 --> 00:22:03,897 - Good, you catch on quick, right? - Yeah, you do, too. 428 00:22:04,073 --> 00:22:06,371 "Because my gun is not full of blanks." 429 00:22:09,578 --> 00:22:11,251 I got it, wonderful. What else? 430 00:22:12,706 --> 00:22:14,226 When someone comes to visit a patient, 431 00:22:14,291 --> 00:22:16,089 it would be great if you could get their name 432 00:22:16,168 --> 00:22:19,297 - and who they're here to see. Yes. - Yes, name here. I see that. Wonderful. 433 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:27,892 Easy Rest Retirement... 434 00:22:28,430 --> 00:22:31,650 You ain't gonna sit here and stand over me like I don't know what the hell to say 435 00:22:31,725 --> 00:22:35,650 when you told me five times what to say on this phone. 436 00:22:35,896 --> 00:22:37,541 - Please, Ms. Mabel... - You ain't gonna do that to me. 437 00:22:37,565 --> 00:22:40,239 - You ain't gonna do that to me! - Ms. Mabel? 438 00:22:41,151 --> 00:22:42,903 Someone's on the phone. 439 00:22:43,362 --> 00:22:46,081 Who are you lookin' for? Barbara Nichols? 440 00:22:46,156 --> 00:22:47,829 She's in the upper room. 441 00:22:47,908 --> 00:22:49,785 - Okay, she is dead. - No. 442 00:22:50,828 --> 00:22:51,829 Yes. 443 00:22:52,329 --> 00:22:53,889 - No, no... - I'm sorry to inform you... 444 00:22:53,914 --> 00:22:55,131 No! 445 00:22:57,334 --> 00:22:58,711 What the hell's wrong with you? 446 00:22:59,420 --> 00:23:04,927 Ms. Mabel, she's not dead, she's alive. She's here and she's upstairs. 447 00:23:06,093 --> 00:23:07,766 Why did you say she's in the upper room? 448 00:23:08,929 --> 00:23:11,366 - That's the proper way to say it. - That's not the proper way to say it. 449 00:23:11,390 --> 00:23:14,189 Everybody who was in the upper room is dead. 450 00:23:14,268 --> 00:23:16,316 The upper room was back in the Bible times 451 00:23:16,395 --> 00:23:19,990 when the 12 disciplines was up there waiting for the Holy Ghost to come. 452 00:23:20,566 --> 00:23:22,534 Everybody who was in that room is dead. 453 00:23:22,610 --> 00:23:25,659 They have been sancted and mortalized into church, okay? 454 00:23:25,738 --> 00:23:27,757 Learn the Bible or something. Honey, pick up the Bible. 455 00:23:27,781 --> 00:23:30,501 You would know that that was the Holy Ghost called Hurricane Katrina, 456 00:23:30,701 --> 00:23:33,501 that came through, took the roof off the place, and shook up everybody. 457 00:23:33,579 --> 00:23:35,515 And then they were speaking all these different tongues, 458 00:23:35,539 --> 00:23:38,268 ain't nobody could understand nothing 'cause they started talking Japanese. 459 00:23:38,292 --> 00:23:41,387 Read your Bible sometime. 460 00:23:41,462 --> 00:23:44,932 Now you got me upset this girl talking about all that stuff, she's in the upper room. 461 00:23:45,007 --> 00:23:47,101 Just tell me she's in the upper room. 462 00:23:47,885 --> 00:23:50,479 Ma'am, are you there? Stop crying, please. 463 00:23:50,679 --> 00:23:53,023 Yes, funeral arrangements will be held... 464 00:23:56,644 --> 00:23:58,772 - Funeral arrangements? - What is wrong with you'? 465 00:23:58,854 --> 00:24:00,481 She's not dead! 466 00:24:00,606 --> 00:24:03,280 Honey, when you tell a lie this bad, you just gotta go with it. 467 00:24:10,157 --> 00:24:11,500 You can send flowers, thank you. 468 00:24:13,243 --> 00:24:15,003 - My goodness... - But this is gonna be fine. 469 00:24:15,037 --> 00:24:16,681 I believe I can do this job. This is gonna be all right. 470 00:24:16,705 --> 00:24:19,754 - My goodness, she thinks that... - I got it. 471 00:24:22,211 --> 00:24:24,930 Eat the Bread Retirement Home, this is the facility. 472 00:24:25,005 --> 00:24:27,007 May I help you? 473 00:24:27,091 --> 00:24:31,016 What did you say? You're trying to reach Barbara Nichols? 474 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,267 Yes, she is upstairs resting. 475 00:24:33,347 --> 00:24:36,897 She's takin' a nap 'cause everybody's tired 'cause we eat Jell-O and go to bed. 476 00:24:39,895 --> 00:24:41,135 Somebody told you she was dead? 477 00:24:41,188 --> 00:24:44,158 Now, who would play an awful joke on you like that'? That is terrible. 478 00:24:45,234 --> 00:24:46,907 The devil is alive. 479 00:24:48,153 --> 00:24:51,874 I rebuke that in the name of Jesus. 480 00:24:51,949 --> 00:24:54,919 No, honey, she is alive and well and doing very good. 481 00:24:54,994 --> 00:24:58,874 You can come visit her at any time. Thank you. Goodbye. 482 00:25:00,207 --> 00:25:01,880 I bit my tongue. 483 00:25:10,759 --> 00:25:12,887 Okay, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. 484 00:25:14,221 --> 00:25:16,098 - That's good... - Why do you say "dead"... 485 00:25:16,181 --> 00:25:17,933 - Hey, Dalia! - Come back here, honey. 486 00:25:18,017 --> 00:25:20,036 What the hell, you comin' up here like Mary Tyler Moore, 487 00:25:20,060 --> 00:25:22,188 throwing your hat up in the air! 488 00:25:25,065 --> 00:25:26,942 What the hell wrong with you? 489 00:25:27,026 --> 00:25:30,280 You ain't got no uniform on or nothing, you ain't got no name tag, 490 00:25:30,362 --> 00:25:32,160 so, you're obviously a visitor, right? 491 00:25:32,239 --> 00:25:33,240 Yes. 492 00:25:33,907 --> 00:25:37,707 Okay, and I need your credit card number and the last four digits of your social? 493 00:25:37,786 --> 00:25:38,787 Excuse me? 494 00:25:39,872 --> 00:25:41,670 Ms. Mabel, that's not on there. 495 00:25:41,749 --> 00:25:43,922 Girl, I was getting ready to hit living small on you, 496 00:25:44,001 --> 00:25:46,550 I ain't lyin'. I was gonna set you up real good. 497 00:25:46,628 --> 00:25:48,348 - Can I go? - You can go on up. Here you go. 498 00:25:48,422 --> 00:25:49,719 Thank you. 499 00:25:51,133 --> 00:25:52,180 Who was that? 500 00:25:52,259 --> 00:25:54,779 That's Mrs. Watson's daughter, the lady that was sitting right there. 501 00:25:54,803 --> 00:25:56,225 Okay. 502 00:25:56,305 --> 00:25:59,354 She comes and reads to her every single day. 503 00:25:59,433 --> 00:26:00,650 - Every day! - All the time? 504 00:26:00,726 --> 00:26:04,151 And she just got married and she's back here again. 505 00:26:04,229 --> 00:26:05,909 How long does she stay when she comes here? 506 00:26:05,939 --> 00:26:08,283 Five, six hours. One day, eight, nine hours... 507 00:26:08,358 --> 00:26:10,907 That's a lot, honey. That's a lot to be sitting around. 508 00:26:12,863 --> 00:26:14,035 Madam.! 509 00:26:14,615 --> 00:26:16,743 Lord Jesus! 510 00:26:16,909 --> 00:26:18,786 We got them things We shut 'em down 511 00:26:18,869 --> 00:26:21,622 We got them things They know it's around 512 00:26:23,832 --> 00:26:25,834 Hattie, look at you. 513 00:26:28,337 --> 00:26:29,964 Hattie, look at you, looking like... 514 00:26:31,465 --> 00:26:34,059 Madea, what are you doing here, you came to see me? 515 00:26:34,134 --> 00:26:35,932 I ain't know you was up in this home. 516 00:26:36,178 --> 00:26:40,809 Yeah, my sister got mad at me and put me in here about two years ago 517 00:26:40,891 --> 00:26:42,939 'cause I did one little old bitty thing. 518 00:26:43,102 --> 00:26:45,651 - What did you do, honey? - I slept with her man. 519 00:26:47,189 --> 00:26:49,908 Hattie, at some point, you gotta let it go, honey. 520 00:26:49,983 --> 00:26:52,327 At some point, you just gotta give it up. 521 00:26:52,528 --> 00:26:56,283 Well, that's what I did. I gave it up and I let it go. 522 00:26:58,117 --> 00:27:00,461 Lord, that's nice, you got on! 523 00:27:00,536 --> 00:27:02,664 - You like my dress? - That's nice. 524 00:27:02,830 --> 00:27:04,832 This is my Coco Chanel. 525 00:27:04,957 --> 00:27:05,958 That's nice. 526 00:27:17,052 --> 00:27:19,020 You can afford to wear that now? 527 00:27:19,096 --> 00:27:20,281 No, no, my next door neighbor, 528 00:27:20,305 --> 00:27:21,825 her name's Coco and her daughter's name is Chanel. 529 00:27:21,849 --> 00:27:23,226 They sew and they make these. 530 00:27:24,101 --> 00:27:26,854 Yeah, they sell 'em over there in the West End at Lee Street, 531 00:27:26,937 --> 00:27:28,289 right there at the corner of the MARTA station, 532 00:27:28,313 --> 00:27:31,633 you can go over there and pick one up right across the street from the Krispy Kreme. 533 00:27:35,737 --> 00:27:37,705 But don't go over there after night. 534 00:27:39,032 --> 00:27:42,036 Look at you, looking like you looking. 535 00:27:42,995 --> 00:27:46,750 You go away from here, you always say the nicest things. 536 00:27:47,374 --> 00:27:49,376 I'm so glad you think so. 537 00:27:50,586 --> 00:27:54,432 'Cause sometime I look at your head, I don't know if you have a mirror or a friend. 538 00:27:55,883 --> 00:27:58,181 'Cause one of them would have told you the truth. 539 00:27:59,386 --> 00:28:02,560 Lord, you know, Madea, sometimes I look at you, 540 00:28:02,639 --> 00:28:05,734 I don't know if you have a razor or shaving cream. 541 00:28:18,906 --> 00:28:21,409 You cut that out, you know I got hormone problems. 542 00:28:27,581 --> 00:28:30,334 I'm-a get you for that one. 543 00:28:33,086 --> 00:28:37,592 Dalia, I'm looking over this woman's arrest record and I don't know about this. 544 00:28:37,674 --> 00:28:39,927 Carla, you have nothing to worry about. 545 00:28:40,052 --> 00:28:41,804 - She's already here... - She's here? 546 00:28:42,179 --> 00:28:44,352 Yes, she's doing good. She's training really well. 547 00:28:44,431 --> 00:28:46,271 Answering the telephones, don't worry about it. 548 00:28:46,308 --> 00:28:47,525 - Hi, Ms. Mabel? - Yeah? 549 00:28:47,601 --> 00:28:48,912 Just wanted you to meet Ms. Carla. 550 00:28:48,936 --> 00:28:52,281 Carla, you the one that sign the paper. Go on, sign this paper for me, please. 551 00:28:52,773 --> 00:28:56,243 Just go on and sign your name down there. Don't worry about what it is, just sign it. 552 00:28:56,652 --> 00:28:59,371 I'm afraid you have to actually do the community service. 553 00:28:59,529 --> 00:29:02,032 You like that, huh? You a Christian, too? 554 00:29:02,491 --> 00:29:06,041 Well, no. But I don't want the universe to send that bad energy back to me. 555 00:29:06,119 --> 00:29:07,120 The universe. 556 00:29:10,707 --> 00:29:13,005 I've been looking over your arrest record here. 557 00:29:13,085 --> 00:29:14,382 Pretty impressive, right? 558 00:29:15,420 --> 00:29:17,593 First felony, nine years old. 559 00:29:19,841 --> 00:29:22,014 Well, I was doing the damn thing. 560 00:29:22,219 --> 00:29:25,723 Okay, well, I'm sure Dalia has already instructed you. 561 00:29:25,806 --> 00:29:27,274 You can go ahead and get started. 562 00:29:27,516 --> 00:29:29,439 Thank you so much. I would like to get started. 563 00:29:29,518 --> 00:29:30,815 Thank you so much. 564 00:29:30,936 --> 00:29:32,813 She's so nice. And bougie as hell. 565 00:29:32,980 --> 00:29:35,233 Yeah, she bougie, now. She bougie. 566 00:29:35,315 --> 00:29:37,235 I can't believe I have a prisoner working for me. 567 00:29:37,359 --> 00:29:38,839 What you say about a prisoner, honey? 568 00:29:39,069 --> 00:29:41,214 Go on, speak up. Speak your mind. What you say about a prisoner? 569 00:29:41,238 --> 00:29:46,826 I was just saying that I was surprised to have a prisoner working here. 570 00:29:46,827 --> 00:29:49,472 See, that's what's wrong with people. Y'all don't give folks the chance to 571 00:29:49,496 --> 00:29:51,975 give back to society after they've done something wrong and went to jail. 572 00:29:51,999 --> 00:29:54,919 You need to give them a chance to get a job and get back up on their feet. 573 00:29:55,836 --> 00:29:57,981 If you're sitting next to somebody that's clapping right now, 574 00:29:58,005 --> 00:30:00,258 they've been to jail, so watch your purse, please. 575 00:30:00,340 --> 00:30:01,341 Thank you. 576 00:30:01,425 --> 00:30:03,177 It's a public service announcement. 577 00:30:11,018 --> 00:30:12,565 Public service announcement. 578 00:30:19,318 --> 00:30:21,036 Dalia, I meant to tell you. 579 00:30:21,361 --> 00:30:24,490 I came by here last night and this counter was a mess. 580 00:30:24,573 --> 00:30:27,076 Well, no, I know that counter was clean last night. 581 00:30:27,159 --> 00:30:29,412 I think someone was up late eating. 582 00:30:30,871 --> 00:30:33,499 - Don't look at me. - Hattie, you're still eating. 583 00:30:34,583 --> 00:30:37,553 Madea, you know I smoke that weed, I get the munchies at night. 584 00:30:39,212 --> 00:30:41,306 Hattie, don't let it happen again, okay? 585 00:30:41,381 --> 00:30:43,943 Slow your roll, precious. Ain't none of your little boyfriends in here. 586 00:30:43,967 --> 00:30:44,968 Hattie. 587 00:30:45,177 --> 00:30:47,905 Look, Hattie, just don't go back to the counter after lights out, you got me? 588 00:30:47,929 --> 00:30:51,308 Look, Carla, I didn't go back to the counter after lights out, you got me? 589 00:30:51,558 --> 00:30:52,901 Hattie, stop playing with me. 590 00:30:53,101 --> 00:30:56,021 You stop playing with me. And don't be taking your frustrations out on me, 591 00:30:56,063 --> 00:30:58,737 'cause you've been messing around with a married man for six years, 592 00:30:58,982 --> 00:31:01,906 he divorced his wife, went and married somebody else, 593 00:31:01,985 --> 00:31:04,829 and still didn't even come back and marry your stinky tail. 594 00:31:07,407 --> 00:31:09,751 Dalia, in my office, right now! 595 00:31:09,826 --> 00:31:12,722 Hattie, you wrong for that. You don't sit there telling that girl's business 596 00:31:12,746 --> 00:31:14,599 and talking all loud like that in front of everybody. 597 00:31:14,623 --> 00:31:18,253 You gotta wait until they close the door. Now what happened, girl? Tell me! 598 00:31:19,252 --> 00:31:21,254 Are you telling my business? 599 00:31:21,630 --> 00:31:23,900 - No, no, I didn't say a word. - Well, how did Hattie know that? 600 00:31:23,924 --> 00:31:25,267 Carla, I don't know. 601 00:31:25,467 --> 00:31:28,437 I don't like her. I don't like her, I don't like this, I just... 602 00:31:28,637 --> 00:31:30,856 Carla, calm down now. You know me. 603 00:31:31,765 --> 00:31:33,767 You're right. Yes, I do know you. I'm sorry. 604 00:31:33,934 --> 00:31:37,984 I have a date to get ready for. I'm not even gonna think about what she just said. 605 00:31:39,606 --> 00:31:41,574 Easy Rest Retirement... 606 00:31:42,150 --> 00:31:44,699 Where all hell's breaking loose, can I help you? 607 00:31:45,445 --> 00:31:46,742 Who you calling for? 608 00:31:47,697 --> 00:31:51,042 Jones, let's see. Last name Jones. 609 00:31:51,576 --> 00:31:55,171 I gotta do the remix on that. She's not in that file, son, hold on. 610 00:31:55,789 --> 00:31:56,961 Who is this to you? 611 00:31:58,250 --> 00:32:00,673 It's your mother? Okay. I found her. 612 00:32:02,254 --> 00:32:05,804 Lord, hold on, I got to get some papers telling me she's dead. Hold on. 613 00:32:09,803 --> 00:32:13,808 We are sorry to inform you that Mrs. Jones died. 614 00:32:14,850 --> 00:32:16,568 It was a lovely day when she died. 615 00:32:16,643 --> 00:32:18,395 How do they know it was a lovely day... 616 00:32:19,354 --> 00:32:20,651 What the hell wrong with you? 617 00:32:20,730 --> 00:32:24,155 We reading the eulogy. I was just weeping with her. 618 00:32:31,908 --> 00:32:34,331 - You doing what? - I was weeping with her. 619 00:32:42,878 --> 00:32:45,347 Don't do that. Don't do that. 620 00:32:54,097 --> 00:32:56,020 Okay, are you there? 621 00:32:56,725 --> 00:32:58,648 Yes, yes. 622 00:32:59,019 --> 00:33:02,068 We are sorry to inform you that Ms. Lee died. 623 00:33:03,148 --> 00:33:05,992 It was a lovely day, now I don't know how the hell they know that, 624 00:33:06,067 --> 00:33:07,694 they say that to everybody. 625 00:33:08,862 --> 00:33:11,456 I'm supposed to say a prayer... 626 00:33:12,073 --> 00:33:14,246 What, how do they start? 627 00:33:15,994 --> 00:33:18,543 Our Father... That's it. Which art in heaven, 628 00:33:18,788 --> 00:33:21,507 Hollywood be thy name. 629 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,378 And then at the bottom, I'm supposed to get deep and say... 630 00:33:25,170 --> 00:33:26,547 ...come in a Hyundai, E. coli... 631 00:33:28,798 --> 00:33:31,426 What you say? How long ago she died? 632 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:36,064 Son, this paper says she died three years ago. 633 00:33:37,015 --> 00:33:40,360 You ain't called or checked on this woman or been by here in three years? 634 00:33:40,435 --> 00:33:42,608 Please hold while I transfer you to hell. 635 00:33:46,775 --> 00:33:48,448 We had a breakthrough. 636 00:33:53,532 --> 00:33:54,829 So, what's going on, baby? 637 00:33:54,908 --> 00:33:56,706 Your baby mama keep calling here, Malik. 638 00:33:56,785 --> 00:33:59,038 - Calling here? - Yes, calling here. 639 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,418 Harassing me and driving me crazy. 640 00:34:01,915 --> 00:34:04,009 - What is she saying? - She's cussing me out. 641 00:34:04,084 --> 00:34:07,509 Telling me how I'm not letting you be a good father to your son. 642 00:34:08,588 --> 00:34:09,714 What did you say? 643 00:34:09,798 --> 00:34:11,596 What do you mean, "What did I say," Malik? 644 00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:16,021 Every single time you go over there, it is nothing but drama with her. 645 00:34:16,096 --> 00:34:17,939 Baby, that is my son. 646 00:34:18,098 --> 00:34:19,691 This has nothing to do with your son. 647 00:34:19,766 --> 00:34:23,020 This has everything to do with her interference in our relationship. 648 00:34:23,103 --> 00:34:25,572 And I am sick of this. Lam sick of this, Malik. 649 00:34:25,647 --> 00:34:27,945 Listen, we can't let her come between us. 650 00:34:28,108 --> 00:34:30,031 If we do that, she's winning, baby. 651 00:34:30,110 --> 00:34:33,910 Malik, we need to figure out something. And we need to figure out something now. 652 00:34:34,114 --> 00:34:36,287 Baby, I have to go see my son. 653 00:34:37,492 --> 00:34:38,664 When I married you, Malik, 654 00:34:38,743 --> 00:34:42,919 I didn't marry into all of this chaos and all of this confusion. 655 00:34:43,164 --> 00:34:45,792 Look, I know, okay? Do you love me? 656 00:34:47,794 --> 00:34:53,517 Do you know how happy How happy you make me? 657 00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:59,022 And do you know how much How much I love you truly? 658 00:34:59,180 --> 00:35:05,529 I can't live a day A day without you 659 00:35:05,770 --> 00:35:10,901 I can't think about it I just don't want to 660 00:35:10,984 --> 00:35:17,208 'Cause it's unbelievable love from on high 661 00:35:17,282 --> 00:35:23,631 And it's indescribable joy Just me and mine 662 00:35:23,705 --> 00:35:29,508 See, what we have It works for us 663 00:35:29,586 --> 00:35:32,590 And we thank God 664 00:35:32,672 --> 00:35:37,849 That we have true love 665 00:35:40,805 --> 00:35:43,775 Oh, baby 666 00:35:47,604 --> 00:35:53,111 You're my man, my best friend 667 00:35:53,193 --> 00:35:58,370 I'm always here Through thick and thin 668 00:35:58,448 --> 00:36:05,127 On your side night or day 669 00:36:05,205 --> 00:36:10,837 And I'm your girl, come what may 670 00:36:10,919 --> 00:36:16,722 'Cause it's unbelievable love From on high 671 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:22,898 And it's indescribable joy Just me and mine 672 00:36:23,264 --> 00:36:28,942 What we have It works for us 673 00:36:29,020 --> 00:36:31,990 And we thank God 674 00:36:32,065 --> 00:36:35,239 That we have true 675 00:36:35,318 --> 00:36:40,666 Unbelievable love From on high 676 00:36:40,740 --> 00:36:46,838 And it's indescribable joy Just me and mine 677 00:36:46,913 --> 00:36:52,545 What we have It works for us 678 00:36:52,627 --> 00:36:55,881 And we thank God 679 00:36:55,964 --> 00:36:59,013 That we have true 680 00:36:59,092 --> 00:37:01,470 Unbelievable love 681 00:37:05,765 --> 00:37:10,362 I love you so much, baby. Just be patient, okay? 682 00:37:20,363 --> 00:37:24,209 That's all I'm gonna tell you, son, if you like the girl, you need to go and tell her that. 683 00:37:24,284 --> 00:37:26,878 You know, I tried to tell her, but... 684 00:37:26,995 --> 00:37:28,622 Good God Almighty. 685 00:37:29,205 --> 00:37:31,767 She doesn't give me an opportunity. She just tells me to leave her alone. 686 00:37:31,791 --> 00:37:33,227 Son, pick that up for me. I just dropped that. 687 00:37:33,251 --> 00:37:35,549 All right, sure. Let me get that for you, ma'am. 688 00:37:35,628 --> 00:37:36,800 Jesus! 689 00:37:39,090 --> 00:37:40,091 All right. 690 00:37:40,175 --> 00:37:41,927 You know what's missing from your hair? 691 00:37:42,010 --> 00:37:43,808 Hey, hey! What's that? 692 00:37:44,137 --> 00:37:45,684 A strap, to go around your chin. 693 00:37:45,764 --> 00:37:48,084 Look like you have a helmet on, son. What the hell is that? 694 00:37:48,308 --> 00:37:50,035 - A helmet? - You need to cut your hair, son. 695 00:37:50,059 --> 00:37:51,151 Cut my hair? 696 00:37:51,227 --> 00:37:53,038 Yes. That's why that woman can't pay attention to you, 697 00:37:53,062 --> 00:37:54,902 'cause you got a hole in the top of your afro. 698 00:37:55,690 --> 00:37:58,819 It look like you've got a black Christmas wreath around your head, son. 699 00:38:00,236 --> 00:38:04,332 Or a bereavement wreath. All you need is "Rest in peace" carved across the front of it. 700 00:38:05,408 --> 00:38:07,661 Son, you're losing your hair. You've got to let it go. 701 00:38:08,036 --> 00:38:11,256 I get it. That's your beard. 702 00:38:11,706 --> 00:38:15,301 You're letting it grow, combed it all up to the top, that's the deal? 703 00:38:16,336 --> 00:38:19,966 No, ma'am, it's actually right in this area, right here. 704 00:38:20,048 --> 00:38:22,767 Son, that's your sideburns that you let grow all the way up there. 705 00:38:22,842 --> 00:38:24,264 You bald at the top, son. 706 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,347 You got to let it go. You got to let it go, you understand? 707 00:38:27,430 --> 00:38:28,602 Let it go? 708 00:38:28,681 --> 00:38:30,493 It's coming back, if you look at it real close. 709 00:38:30,517 --> 00:38:32,485 The devil is a liar, it ain't coming back. 710 00:38:33,645 --> 00:38:37,775 Son, that woman won't look at you 'cause you coming at her the wrong way. 711 00:38:37,857 --> 00:38:41,003 You need to go get you a nice suit, cut your hair. You ain't got no kids, do you? 712 00:38:41,027 --> 00:38:44,247 - No, ma'am, no children. - I know. Them glasses are birth control. 713 00:38:46,407 --> 00:38:48,761 Every time a woman see them glasses, they go the other direction. 714 00:38:48,785 --> 00:38:50,332 Do you understand what I'm saying? 715 00:38:50,870 --> 00:38:52,515 Son, if you want that woman, then do what I say. 716 00:38:52,539 --> 00:38:55,042 That ain't the kind of woman you come walking up to 717 00:38:55,124 --> 00:38:58,004 looking like the way you look. You need a nice suit on, not your uniform. 718 00:38:58,086 --> 00:39:00,214 Get a nice suit on, cut your hair. Let it go. 719 00:39:01,214 --> 00:39:02,511 Let it go? 720 00:39:02,590 --> 00:39:04,012 Cut your hair, son. It's all right. 721 00:39:04,092 --> 00:39:07,092 You look like you stuck in the '70s. I don't know if I wanna say Soul Train. 722 00:39:07,136 --> 00:39:09,016 I don't know what the hell I'm gonna say to you. 723 00:39:13,309 --> 00:39:14,606 - How you doing? - Hi. 724 00:39:15,562 --> 00:39:17,564 You don't see him standing there? 725 00:39:18,481 --> 00:39:20,358 See, she didn't even look at you. 726 00:39:20,650 --> 00:39:23,745 That's why I'm telling you. Cut your hair, son. It's all right. 727 00:39:24,612 --> 00:39:26,332 I just want a woman that accepts me for me. 728 00:39:26,406 --> 00:39:29,343 You ain't accepting you for you. The Lord has already told you, you are bald, 729 00:39:29,367 --> 00:39:31,687 and you're trying to hold on to something that ain't there. 730 00:39:33,079 --> 00:39:35,891 I'm telling you, cut your hair, put on some nice clothes, you'll be all right. 731 00:39:35,915 --> 00:39:38,759 But you're gonna hear me all day saying, "Cut your hair." 732 00:39:39,252 --> 00:39:40,253 Cut your hair. 733 00:39:41,754 --> 00:39:43,472 Cut my hair? 734 00:39:43,548 --> 00:39:45,425 Took me a long time to grow this. 735 00:39:47,385 --> 00:39:48,728 How you doing, Ms. Carla? 736 00:39:49,470 --> 00:39:51,063 Hey, what you doing here so late? 737 00:39:51,347 --> 00:39:53,190 I had a date cancel on me. 738 00:39:53,766 --> 00:39:54,767 You had a date. 739 00:39:56,311 --> 00:39:58,154 Just gonna let another man take you out? 740 00:39:58,313 --> 00:39:59,860 Yeah, you men. 741 00:40:00,273 --> 00:40:01,750 "You men," what's that supposed to mean? 742 00:40:01,774 --> 00:40:03,697 It means you're always just about yourselves. 743 00:40:04,068 --> 00:40:06,912 That's not true, Ms. Carla. All men are not the same. 744 00:40:07,113 --> 00:40:08,865 The ones I run into are. 745 00:40:08,990 --> 00:40:12,303 Well, that sounds like a personal problem. Maybe you're just choosing the wrong man. 746 00:40:12,327 --> 00:40:15,376 All right, that's your cue. Get out of my office, Allen. 747 00:40:17,373 --> 00:40:19,467 Wait, wait, why are you here so late? 748 00:40:20,251 --> 00:40:22,128 Well, I just came by to check on everybody. 749 00:40:22,754 --> 00:40:23,971 No, no. 750 00:40:24,631 --> 00:40:27,976 No man your age is trying to be here volunteering unless he wants something. 751 00:40:28,134 --> 00:40:29,135 Now, Ms. Carla... 752 00:40:29,218 --> 00:40:31,721 Now, I mean, you being here during the day, I get that. 753 00:40:31,804 --> 00:40:33,449 I figure you're trying to get close to me. 754 00:40:33,473 --> 00:40:35,020 Amen... 755 00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:39,150 But you being here late at night like this is just creepy and I don't like it. 756 00:40:39,228 --> 00:40:41,481 Now, why are you here? 757 00:40:42,649 --> 00:40:43,696 All right, look... 758 00:40:44,692 --> 00:40:46,786 Couple years ago, my mother passed away. 759 00:40:47,612 --> 00:40:48,829 And I miss her. 760 00:40:49,489 --> 00:40:52,743 So I come here and I sit with these folks and I listen to them. 761 00:40:52,825 --> 00:40:55,669 And I learn and it just reminds me of her. 762 00:40:55,995 --> 00:40:56,995 I'm really sorry, Allen. 763 00:40:57,038 --> 00:40:59,308 - I didn't know that. Forgive me. - No, no. No apology needed. 764 00:40:59,332 --> 00:41:02,061 I've answered the question for you, will you please answer a question for me? 765 00:41:02,085 --> 00:41:03,132 Yeah, fine. 766 00:41:03,211 --> 00:41:05,179 Why you keep going out with these no-account men 767 00:41:05,254 --> 00:41:06,440 and all they do is break your heart? 768 00:41:06,464 --> 00:41:07,566 That's none of your business. 769 00:41:07,590 --> 00:41:09,718 M mama wasn't none of our business. Y Y 770 00:41:14,847 --> 00:41:17,851 This is not quite where I thought I would be at this time of my life. 771 00:41:18,184 --> 00:41:20,584 Yeah? Where did you think you'd be at this time of your life? 772 00:41:21,020 --> 00:41:23,694 Married. Kids. 773 00:41:25,108 --> 00:41:28,362 Except the man I thought would marry me, didn't. 774 00:41:29,404 --> 00:41:31,702 You talking about the doctor that was married. 775 00:41:31,864 --> 00:41:32,944 How do you know about that? 776 00:41:32,991 --> 00:41:35,244 Small facility. Small facility. 777 00:41:35,326 --> 00:41:36,953 Ms. Carla, I didn't mean no harm. 778 00:41:37,036 --> 00:41:39,004 I didn't mean no harm. I just want to talk to you. 779 00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:40,923 Just talk a bit. Just talk. 780 00:41:41,916 --> 00:41:43,714 All right, yes, he was married. 781 00:41:44,252 --> 00:41:47,176 He said he was gonna leave his wife and he did, except... 782 00:41:47,714 --> 00:41:48,966 Well, when he did, 783 00:41:50,633 --> 00:41:52,055 he went to another woman. 784 00:41:53,011 --> 00:41:54,012 Wow. 785 00:41:54,137 --> 00:41:56,515 Now, you know, Ms. Carla, you deserve much better than that. 786 00:41:57,015 --> 00:41:58,688 Well, that's what I keep getting. 787 00:41:59,392 --> 00:42:02,111 I don't know, somehow I always seem to run into the wrong men. 788 00:42:02,186 --> 00:42:04,655 Well, that's because you won't run to me. 789 00:42:05,356 --> 00:42:06,733 I don't know you, Allen. 790 00:42:06,816 --> 00:42:09,837 It ain't like I haven't been trying to get to know you for the past year and a half. 791 00:42:09,861 --> 00:42:11,613 Yeah, right. Why? 792 00:42:11,738 --> 00:42:13,206 'Cause I see your heart. 793 00:42:13,781 --> 00:42:16,330 I like the way you carry yourself, the way you dress, 794 00:42:16,409 --> 00:42:18,929 - the way you wear your hair. - All right, that's enough. That is enough. 795 00:42:18,953 --> 00:42:21,126 I can't do another line from another lying man. 796 00:42:21,205 --> 00:42:23,642 No, no, I'm speaking from the heart, Ms. Carla. It's not a line. 797 00:42:23,666 --> 00:42:25,088 Allen, just... 798 00:42:27,837 --> 00:42:30,590 Just please, leave me alone, okay? Please! 799 00:42:32,592 --> 00:42:33,593 Yes, ma'am. 800 00:42:36,846 --> 00:42:37,847 Ms. Carla... 801 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:41,267 All men are not the same. 802 00:42:42,310 --> 00:42:43,732 We're not all the same. 803 00:42:43,811 --> 00:42:44,812 Right. 804 00:42:45,605 --> 00:42:47,107 All men are not the same. 805 00:42:48,775 --> 00:42:50,243 All men are not the same. 806 00:42:52,236 --> 00:42:53,909 Then what's wrong with me? 807 00:42:55,198 --> 00:42:58,293 'Cause it has to be me, right? That's what... 808 00:42:59,827 --> 00:43:01,670 That's what you're saying, right? 809 00:43:06,292 --> 00:43:07,464 I don't know. 810 00:43:09,796 --> 00:43:14,393 All I want is love 811 00:43:14,967 --> 00:43:19,564 Is that too much to ask? 812 00:43:19,889 --> 00:43:24,315 All I want is to be held 813 00:43:24,393 --> 00:43:28,990 And not have to beg Not have to ask 814 00:43:29,315 --> 00:43:31,864 All I want is love 815 00:43:31,943 --> 00:43:36,494 No matter which way it comes to me 816 00:43:37,532 --> 00:43:41,127 I just want to be held 817 00:43:41,202 --> 00:43:45,002 Through life's stormy seas 818 00:43:45,081 --> 00:43:49,803 All I want is love 819 00:43:50,795 --> 00:43:54,720 Loneliness, please go away 820 00:43:54,799 --> 00:43:59,600 Al! I need is love 821 00:43:59,679 --> 00:44:03,980 Is that too much to ask for? 822 00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:08,313 Every day 823 00:44:15,820 --> 00:44:19,996 Why is it so hard 824 00:44:21,242 --> 00:44:25,497 For a woman to find love? 825 00:44:25,580 --> 00:44:30,006 I just want someone to be mine 826 00:44:30,084 --> 00:44:34,430 Sent from God above 827 00:44:34,505 --> 00:44:38,430 I don't want to be judged 828 00:44:38,509 --> 00:44:42,810 No, that's not me 829 00:44:42,889 --> 00:44:47,235 I just don't want to be lonely 830 00:44:47,310 --> 00:44:50,610 Don't want this agony 831 00:44:50,688 --> 00:44:56,536 All I want is love 832 00:44:56,611 --> 00:45:00,616 Loneliness, please go away 833 00:45:00,698 --> 00:45:05,249 Al! I need is love 834 00:45:05,328 --> 00:45:11,085 Is that too much to ask? 835 00:45:11,209 --> 00:45:15,635 Lonely, lonely 836 00:45:15,713 --> 00:45:18,933 Yes, that is me 837 00:45:19,008 --> 00:45:22,638 Looking at all these people 838 00:45:22,720 --> 00:45:26,725 I don't want that to be me 839 00:45:26,807 --> 00:45:31,859 Old and alone 840 00:45:31,938 --> 00:45:36,660 All by myself 841 00:45:36,734 --> 00:45:40,079 Living in this agony 842 00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:44,709 Loving no one else 843 00:45:44,784 --> 00:45:50,962 Al! I want 844 00:45:52,959 --> 00:45:58,591 Loneliness, please go away 845 00:45:59,215 --> 00:46:01,718 Is that too much to ask? 846 00:46:01,801 --> 00:46:05,726 All I want is love 847 00:46:05,805 --> 00:46:08,274 Somebody for me 848 00:46:09,809 --> 00:46:12,562 Love, to know what I need 849 00:46:12,645 --> 00:46:14,147 Love 850 00:46:14,230 --> 00:46:17,530 I want it, I need it I want 851 00:46:17,608 --> 00:46:20,077 I deserve it 852 00:46:20,152 --> 00:46:22,280 Love 853 00:46:22,405 --> 00:46:26,660 Love 854 00:46:30,538 --> 00:46:35,669 All I want is 855 00:46:36,002 --> 00:46:41,725 Love 856 00:46:49,849 --> 00:46:51,897 I got married, Mama. 857 00:46:52,476 --> 00:46:56,322 Look, I brought pictures. I brought pictures and everything. 858 00:46:58,316 --> 00:47:02,037 Mama, please talk to me. Please say something. 859 00:47:03,279 --> 00:47:04,576 Sam. 860 00:47:04,864 --> 00:47:07,538 Why do you keep sending all these letters to the hospital? 861 00:47:07,616 --> 00:47:09,216 Look, I got a job and I want to keep it. 862 00:47:11,078 --> 00:47:12,876 Sorry, I just wanted to see you. 863 00:47:13,205 --> 00:47:16,049 Why? You never wanted to see me when I was a kid. 864 00:47:16,125 --> 00:47:17,445 So, why you trying to see me now? 865 00:47:17,543 --> 00:47:20,012 Look, son, I was young, I was foolish. 866 00:47:20,087 --> 00:47:22,840 Man, stop sending letters to the hospital. You got me? 867 00:47:23,716 --> 00:47:25,059 Yeah, okay. 868 00:47:25,134 --> 00:47:27,603 Look, son, wait. Why don't you stay for a little while? 869 00:47:27,678 --> 00:47:28,770 Why? 870 00:47:28,846 --> 00:47:30,564 - Well, how you been? - Fine. 871 00:47:30,890 --> 00:47:32,576 I read on the Internet that you got married. 872 00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:33,897 Yeah. 873 00:47:34,060 --> 00:47:35,312 You have any kids yet? 874 00:47:36,562 --> 00:47:37,859 I have a son. 875 00:47:39,065 --> 00:47:40,362 Look, I gotta go. 876 00:47:40,441 --> 00:47:41,567 Look, son, 877 00:47:41,650 --> 00:47:44,770 I know I haven't been that good of a father to you, but I just wanted you to... 878 00:47:45,112 --> 00:47:46,705 What? What? 879 00:47:47,740 --> 00:47:49,287 That you're sorry? 880 00:47:49,367 --> 00:47:51,461 I already know how sorry you are. 881 00:47:52,203 --> 00:47:54,797 Look, my mother died in my arms. 882 00:47:54,872 --> 00:47:58,092 And you didn't even have the decency to come to the hospital to see her. 883 00:47:58,292 --> 00:48:00,590 You were too busy with your wife and kids. 884 00:48:00,795 --> 00:48:04,015 And now they all drug addicts and in prison, 885 00:48:04,090 --> 00:48:06,513 so you wanna reach out to the one that made it. 886 00:48:07,343 --> 00:48:09,596 Well, I don't have a thing to say to you. 887 00:48:10,096 --> 00:48:11,473 At all. Nothing. 888 00:48:11,847 --> 00:48:13,849 Sam, I just wanted you to know that I love you. 889 00:48:14,225 --> 00:48:15,317 That I'm sorry. 890 00:48:15,393 --> 00:48:18,772 Look, don't write or call me again, you got me? 891 00:48:19,605 --> 00:48:21,733 Sam, I'm sorry. 892 00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:23,743 Sand! 893 00:48:28,197 --> 00:48:31,292 Mama. Mama. Hey, Mama. 894 00:48:31,367 --> 00:48:32,744 Rebecca. 895 00:48:34,370 --> 00:48:35,917 How are you, Rebecca? 896 00:48:36,789 --> 00:48:39,588 I'm good. I'm good. Now come on, I'm getting you out of here. 897 00:48:39,667 --> 00:48:41,135 No, I'm gonna stay here. 898 00:48:41,794 --> 00:48:43,046 It's for the best. 899 00:48:44,755 --> 00:48:46,223 So, Jennifer is still your favorite. 900 00:48:46,298 --> 00:48:48,058 It ain't got nothing to do with my favorite. 901 00:48:48,592 --> 00:48:49,935 Where will we live? 902 00:48:50,386 --> 00:48:52,138 Mama, I have an apartment now. 903 00:48:52,388 --> 00:48:53,731 You still with that boy? 904 00:48:54,306 --> 00:48:56,058 Look, I got my life together. 905 00:48:56,350 --> 00:48:57,977 You still with that boy. 906 00:48:58,144 --> 00:49:00,317 Baby, I can't live with you. That man is a drug dealer. 907 00:49:00,563 --> 00:49:01,564 Mama, not anymore. 908 00:49:01,647 --> 00:49:03,945 He had you out there selling your body for dope! 909 00:49:04,024 --> 00:49:07,369 What I'd look like, moving in with the two of you? A fool! 910 00:49:07,862 --> 00:49:10,581 Mama, look, we are both clean now, okay? 911 00:49:10,906 --> 00:49:13,910 We both went through rehab and everything is better. 912 00:49:14,410 --> 00:49:16,663 You would know that if you took my phone calls. 913 00:49:16,829 --> 00:49:18,189 Baby, I did all I could for you... 914 00:49:18,539 --> 00:49:20,058 And now, I'm trying to do something for you. 915 00:49:20,082 --> 00:49:23,177 I'm sorry! You mortgaged my house! 916 00:49:23,461 --> 00:49:25,461 That your father and I worked all of our lives for. 917 00:49:25,838 --> 00:49:27,590 And now I don't have nothing. 918 00:49:27,673 --> 00:49:29,596 Your sister had to come in and pay it off. 919 00:49:29,717 --> 00:49:32,095 And because that evil husband of hers don't like me, 920 00:49:32,261 --> 00:49:34,559 he had to move me in here. Get out! 921 00:49:35,639 --> 00:49:37,391 Mama, I didn't mortgage your house. 922 00:49:37,516 --> 00:49:39,314 Baby, you still a liar. 923 00:49:39,810 --> 00:49:42,313 You wanna convince me you're clean? Then, tell the truth. 924 00:49:42,605 --> 00:49:44,073 Tell me that you mortgaged my house. 925 00:49:44,148 --> 00:49:46,492 - Mama, I didn't. - Tell me you spent my money on dope. 926 00:49:46,817 --> 00:49:48,364 - Mama, I didn't. - Get out! 927 00:49:49,195 --> 00:49:51,948 And don't come back, until you can tell the truth. 928 00:49:55,701 --> 00:49:57,123 Fine, Mama. 929 00:49:58,245 --> 00:50:00,373 Fine. I did not. 930 00:50:02,833 --> 00:50:04,426 Oh, God. 931 00:50:08,380 --> 00:50:12,476 I raised my kids 932 00:50:13,427 --> 00:50:19,275 The best that I could 933 00:50:22,645 --> 00:50:26,115 Tried to do right 934 00:50:27,233 --> 00:50:33,707 Didn't always do good 935 00:50:34,907 --> 00:50:41,791 But is that a reason 936 00:50:42,873 --> 00:50:49,597 To leave me here? 937 00:50:51,298 --> 00:50:57,772 Just walk away 938 00:50:58,847 --> 00:51:05,571 Leaving me in tears? 939 00:51:06,397 --> 00:51:11,574 I know 940 00:51:11,652 --> 00:51:15,532 I wasn't 941 00:51:15,614 --> 00:51:19,460 The best father to him 942 00:51:22,621 --> 00:51:29,300 Even though I could have tried 943 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:36,556 But is that a reason 944 00:51:36,635 --> 00:51:40,685 To leave me here? 945 00:51:42,308 --> 00:51:46,859 Just walk away 946 00:51:46,937 --> 00:51:52,159 Leaving me here in tears? 947 00:51:52,526 --> 00:51:58,078 They just left me 948 00:51:58,157 --> 00:52:04,085 Left me alone here to cry 949 00:52:04,163 --> 00:52:09,465 My heart broken, broken 950 00:52:09,710 --> 00:52:13,465 My soul is so tired 951 00:52:13,547 --> 00:52:19,395 They just left me, left me 952 00:52:19,470 --> 00:52:22,599 Alone here to cry 953 00:52:22,723 --> 00:52:28,401 My heart broken, broken 954 00:52:28,479 --> 00:52:32,484 My soul is so tired 955 00:52:32,566 --> 00:52:36,491 - They just left me - They left me 956 00:52:38,197 --> 00:52:41,792 Alone here to cry 957 00:52:41,867 --> 00:52:43,995 They just left me 958 00:52:44,078 --> 00:52:47,958 My heart so broken, so broken 959 00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:51,214 And my soul is so tired 960 00:52:51,293 --> 00:52:54,012 They just left me 961 00:52:54,129 --> 00:52:57,178 They left me to die alone 962 00:52:57,257 --> 00:53:00,807 I need to be loved 963 00:53:00,886 --> 00:53:03,639 They left me, yes 964 00:53:04,181 --> 00:53:07,776 They left me They left me 965 00:53:09,019 --> 00:53:10,521 They left me 966 00:53:10,604 --> 00:53:14,825 They left me They left me 967 00:53:14,900 --> 00:53:17,153 They left me They left me 968 00:53:19,154 --> 00:53:24,911 They just left me 969 00:53:39,466 --> 00:53:42,811 I thought I heard somebody down here. What's your name? 970 00:53:43,095 --> 00:53:44,142 - Lee. - Lee! 971 00:53:44,221 --> 00:53:45,689 Leave me alone. 972 00:53:46,974 --> 00:53:48,521 Well, I'm just trying to be nice. 973 00:53:48,767 --> 00:53:49,984 Well, don't be. 974 00:53:50,352 --> 00:53:54,698 Well, this is a small facility. Lots of people have died here. 975 00:53:54,773 --> 00:53:57,071 Dead, dead, dead, dead. 976 00:53:57,317 --> 00:53:58,990 Is that supposed to make me feel good? 977 00:53:59,278 --> 00:54:01,246 Well, I'm just trying to make small talk with you. 978 00:54:02,114 --> 00:54:05,163 Let me try to figure out how to tell you this. 979 00:54:06,785 --> 00:54:08,913 I don't want to talk to you at all. 980 00:54:09,621 --> 00:54:10,918 Fine. 981 00:54:11,540 --> 00:54:13,042 You been crying? 982 00:54:13,125 --> 00:54:14,547 What's it to you? 983 00:54:15,127 --> 00:54:17,721 Well, I know what it feels like to be left here to die. 984 00:54:18,297 --> 00:54:20,024 Your children don't come and visit you anymore 985 00:54:20,048 --> 00:54:21,928 and you feel like you're at the end of the road. 986 00:54:21,967 --> 00:54:25,141 There you go, trying to make me feel good again. 987 00:54:26,305 --> 00:54:29,149 Look, I'm sorry. Here. 988 00:54:29,558 --> 00:54:30,730 What's this? 989 00:54:31,935 --> 00:54:33,312 Dry your eyes. 990 00:54:33,395 --> 00:54:34,988 - Thank you. - You're welcome. 991 00:54:35,647 --> 00:54:37,649 It's best sometimes to just accept it. 992 00:54:37,733 --> 00:54:38,950 I don't want to accept it. 993 00:54:39,610 --> 00:54:42,159 This is not how my life was supposed to turn out. 994 00:54:42,905 --> 00:54:46,375 I wanted to die in a house my husband and I lived in for 57 years. 995 00:54:47,743 --> 00:54:50,667 This is not where I was supposed to end up. 996 00:54:51,622 --> 00:54:53,920 I used to think the same things. 997 00:54:54,583 --> 00:54:56,176 It's so unfair. 998 00:54:57,085 --> 00:54:58,803 You work hard all your life 999 00:54:59,797 --> 00:55:02,346 and your children come in and leave you here. 1000 00:55:03,509 --> 00:55:06,353 I don't even make enough in social security to live on my own. 1001 00:55:07,221 --> 00:55:09,064 It's just wrong. 1002 00:55:11,099 --> 00:55:12,316 It's going to be all right. 1003 00:55:12,518 --> 00:55:14,771 I don't feel like I am. 1004 00:55:16,230 --> 00:55:20,280 God, you got to get me through this. 1005 00:55:20,818 --> 00:55:22,741 It's going to be all right. 1006 00:55:22,820 --> 00:55:25,039 - Don't worry about it. It'll be fine. - I don't know. 1007 00:55:25,113 --> 00:55:26,160 I'm trying. 1008 00:55:27,282 --> 00:55:28,579 I'm trying. 1009 00:55:41,046 --> 00:55:42,468 Carson! 1010 00:55:42,923 --> 00:55:44,220 What you doing with this woman? 1011 00:55:44,424 --> 00:55:47,018 You gonna make me kill you yet. I'm gonna drop you right here! 1012 00:55:47,219 --> 00:55:50,439 I was just trying to calm her down. Now, you calm down. She was upset. 1013 00:55:50,764 --> 00:55:53,062 Well, she won't be upset if I kill her, now, will she? 1014 00:55:53,141 --> 00:55:55,394 Touch my man again. Touch him again... 1015 00:55:55,477 --> 00:55:56,899 Woman, I ain't dating you! 1016 00:55:57,145 --> 00:55:59,364 Now sit your behind down somewhere. 1017 00:56:00,941 --> 00:56:04,571 All you gotta do is tell me one time, you know I do what you say. 1018 00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:09,708 Not on me, Hattie. Over there. 1019 00:56:12,411 --> 00:56:15,164 Why you acting all funny and everything, Carson? 1020 00:56:15,247 --> 00:56:18,046 Nobody acting funny. Sit your behind down. 1021 00:56:20,002 --> 00:56:21,879 What wrong with her, anyhow? 1022 00:56:21,962 --> 00:56:26,308 The same thing that was wrong with you when your sister dropped you off up in here. 1023 00:56:26,425 --> 00:56:28,268 You remember how you felt? 1024 00:56:28,969 --> 00:56:30,642 Now, say something nice to her. 1025 00:56:33,473 --> 00:56:34,645 Something nice. 1026 00:56:36,852 --> 00:56:37,853 Hattie? 1027 00:56:38,937 --> 00:56:43,238 I'm sorry, I just get all discombobulated when I see you with other women. 1028 00:56:43,567 --> 00:56:46,116 Hattie, I ain't your man. 1029 00:56:46,445 --> 00:56:48,413 You is my man! 1030 00:56:49,615 --> 00:56:50,867 I don't want him. 1031 00:56:53,035 --> 00:56:55,709 Well, good then, we can have a conversation then. 1032 00:56:57,497 --> 00:56:58,919 You don't know the story? 1033 00:57:00,542 --> 00:57:02,544 It was a cold and rainy night, 1034 00:57:04,630 --> 00:57:07,179 the winds was blowing with a vengeance. 1035 00:57:07,966 --> 00:57:11,470 - The owls was howling as if to let the... - Hattie! 1036 00:57:12,512 --> 00:57:14,310 Owls don't howl, 1037 00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:17,189 they hoot. Now get to the point. 1038 00:57:18,310 --> 00:57:19,482 Yeah. He right. 1039 00:57:20,812 --> 00:57:22,439 I'm gonna have to remember that. 1040 00:57:23,565 --> 00:57:25,613 Owls don't howl, they hoot. 1041 00:57:34,326 --> 00:57:38,126 It was two years ago, last week. 1042 00:57:42,250 --> 00:57:45,254 My sister brought me here, she just dropped me off. 1043 00:57:48,423 --> 00:57:51,176 She dropped me off like I was nobody. 1044 00:57:53,011 --> 00:57:54,684 At first I thought it was a joke, 1045 00:57:54,846 --> 00:57:58,521 so I sat at that door and I waited and I waited. 1046 00:58:02,187 --> 00:58:04,360 And I've been waiting ever since. 1047 00:58:06,024 --> 00:58:09,699 It ain't something you get used to, you just learn to deal with it. 1048 00:58:12,614 --> 00:58:14,992 I had to ask God to help me. 1049 00:58:15,909 --> 00:58:20,756 And he doing it every day, teaching me how to pray. 1050 00:58:24,501 --> 00:58:26,879 It seemed like yesterday 1051 00:58:28,630 --> 00:58:32,100 I was in my prime 1052 00:58:32,968 --> 00:58:36,222 Before I knew it, I was old 1053 00:58:36,805 --> 00:58:39,934 I'm staring at the end of my time 1054 00:58:40,851 --> 00:58:43,900 Where did the time go? 1055 00:58:44,604 --> 00:58:47,733 Where did my youth go, too? 1056 00:58:48,358 --> 00:58:50,781 How did I get here? 1057 00:58:51,403 --> 00:58:53,906 Looking at it, I'm almost through 1058 00:58:53,989 --> 00:58:58,540 Oh, life is but a moment 1059 00:58:58,618 --> 00:59:01,337 You come and go, come and go You come and 1060 00:59:01,413 --> 00:59:03,086 Go like the wind 1061 00:59:03,498 --> 00:59:06,172 We all have an appointed time 1062 00:59:07,127 --> 00:59:10,757 Till we meet the end 1063 00:59:10,839 --> 00:59:13,638 You better make the most of it 1064 00:59:14,259 --> 00:59:17,729 Live your best life every day 1065 00:59:18,055 --> 00:59:21,559 Got to live for God, got to share your heart 1066 00:59:21,767 --> 00:59:25,146 Say what you need to say 1067 00:59:25,771 --> 00:59:28,775 Now yesterday I was young 1068 00:59:29,441 --> 00:59:32,991 But now I'm old so fast 1069 00:59:33,570 --> 00:59:36,540 Raised my children the best I could 1070 00:59:36,823 --> 00:59:40,373 Now, now, now, I've realized 1071 00:59:40,786 --> 00:59:45,633 This is not how I thought my life would be 1072 00:59:47,042 --> 00:59:48,544 Now I'm in a home 1073 00:59:48,835 --> 00:59:52,135 Alone with no one 1074 00:59:52,964 --> 00:59:57,811 - No one, yeah - Life is but a moment 1075 00:59:57,886 --> 01:00:00,685 We come and go like the wind 1076 01:00:01,556 --> 01:00:03,854 We all have an appointed time 1077 01:00:03,934 --> 01:00:09,407 - We all, we all have an appointed time - Till we meet our end 1078 01:00:09,481 --> 01:00:12,280 - You better make the most of it - You better make the most of it 1079 01:00:12,359 --> 01:00:15,989 - Live your best life every day - Best life every day 1080 01:00:16,071 --> 01:00:17,994 Got to live for God 1081 01:00:18,073 --> 01:00:19,916 - Got to share your heart - Share it 1082 01:00:19,991 --> 01:00:21,427 - Share your heart - Say what you need to say 1083 01:00:21,451 --> 01:00:23,499 Say it 1084 01:00:23,954 --> 01:00:27,049 Say it, say it, say it, say it 1085 01:00:27,541 --> 01:00:30,920 Say it, say it, say it, say it, say it 1086 01:00:32,003 --> 01:00:37,476 Say what you need to say 1087 01:00:37,551 --> 01:00:41,431 Say 1088 01:00:50,689 --> 01:00:53,238 I appreciate you trying to make me feel better. 1089 01:00:56,153 --> 01:00:58,781 I guess it don't hurt to be nice every now and then. 1090 01:00:59,573 --> 01:01:00,574 Yes. 1091 01:01:00,866 --> 01:01:02,709 I know it's gonna be all right. 1092 01:01:03,577 --> 01:01:04,794 You're a nice lady. 1093 01:01:07,664 --> 01:01:10,543 You need somebody to talk to? I'll talk to you sometime. 1094 01:01:10,625 --> 01:01:13,253 - Why, thank you. - Look at you trying to be nice to somebody. 1095 01:01:13,336 --> 01:01:14,963 Hattie, that's good, that's good. 1096 01:01:15,046 --> 01:01:16,357 - Good morning, good morning. - Hattie. 1097 01:01:16,381 --> 01:01:17,849 You know I'm proud of you. 1098 01:01:17,924 --> 01:01:20,393 - Thank you, honey. - Go on, now. Go on, Hattie. 1099 01:01:21,219 --> 01:01:23,531 Don't be man-handling her like that, what the hell is wrong with you? 1100 01:01:23,555 --> 01:01:26,399 No, let him push me again. I got something for him. 1101 01:01:27,726 --> 01:01:31,071 I love you, but I'll kill him right here and send him on to glory. 1102 01:01:32,606 --> 01:01:34,279 I know you. 1103 01:01:34,733 --> 01:01:37,361 But she, she a really nice lady. 1104 01:01:37,527 --> 01:01:38,546 I told you that yesterday. 1105 01:01:38,570 --> 01:01:40,590 That's why you have to get to know people before you cut them. 1106 01:01:40,614 --> 01:01:41,991 Yeah. 1107 01:01:42,449 --> 01:01:44,719 After you cut them, they don't want to talk to you no more. 1108 01:01:44,743 --> 01:01:46,554 But before you cut them, you need to get to know them. 1109 01:01:46,578 --> 01:01:47,579 Yeah. 1110 01:01:48,121 --> 01:01:52,467 If she acts right, I might let her share a box of my Fruity Pops. 1111 01:01:53,251 --> 01:01:56,230 No, don't share that with her, 'cause you get people addicted to that stuff. 1112 01:01:56,254 --> 01:01:58,494 That's just like crack to you, don't share that with her. 1113 01:01:58,632 --> 01:02:00,475 Well, it don't treat everybody the same way. 1114 01:02:00,842 --> 01:02:03,812 That's just like crack, it don't treat everybody the same way. 1115 01:02:05,722 --> 01:02:08,976 You got to act right, though. You want a bowl, you got to act right. 1116 01:02:13,188 --> 01:02:16,362 There's really some nice people in the world today. 1117 01:02:21,279 --> 01:02:23,156 Hattie, what's wrong with you? 1118 01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:27,416 Last time I checked, I had 5,300 Fruity Pops in this box! 1119 01:02:27,494 --> 01:02:29,963 I ain't messing with you with that darn cereal. 1120 01:02:31,289 --> 01:02:33,212 God, somebody got to die. 1121 01:02:36,753 --> 01:02:40,053 - What you going to do about it? - Girl, you trying to get killed? 1122 01:02:43,051 --> 01:02:45,725 I'm just going to walk it out! I'm just going to walk it out! 1123 01:02:46,137 --> 01:02:47,889 I'm just going to walk it out! 1124 01:02:49,683 --> 01:02:53,278 Now I lay me down to sleep, pray the Lord my soul to keep, 1125 01:02:53,395 --> 01:02:54,622 and should she die before she wake, 1126 01:02:54,646 --> 01:02:57,149 I'm going to wake the heifer up and kill her again. 1127 01:03:01,152 --> 01:03:02,574 Easy Rest Retirement, 1128 01:03:02,654 --> 01:03:05,703 where people are dying to get the hell out of here, can I help you? 1129 01:03:06,658 --> 01:03:09,628 Boy, listen to me, let me ask you a question. Did you get your hair cut? 1130 01:03:09,869 --> 01:03:12,088 You put on a nice suit? Well, come on. 1131 01:03:12,247 --> 01:03:14,090 Yeah, she's here. I see her in there. 1132 01:03:14,165 --> 01:03:16,185 There's supposed to be a wall there, but I can see her. 1133 01:03:16,209 --> 01:03:17,210 Yeah. 1134 01:03:18,503 --> 01:03:22,007 Yeah. So, come on, come on. Bye. 1135 01:03:25,844 --> 01:03:27,596 That boy's crazy about that girl. 1136 01:03:27,679 --> 01:03:28,990 What you doing standing at that door? 1137 01:03:29,014 --> 01:03:30,766 My daughter said she was coming by. 1138 01:03:30,849 --> 01:03:33,249 Your daughter? The one that was by here yesterday that I saw? 1139 01:03:33,351 --> 01:03:34,352 No. 1140 01:03:34,686 --> 01:03:36,734 I'm talking about my other daughter, Jennifer. 1141 01:03:37,355 --> 01:03:38,857 My favorite daughter. 1142 01:03:39,357 --> 01:03:40,358 Your favorite? 1143 01:03:40,942 --> 01:03:43,286 Honey, you can't have no favorites with your children. 1144 01:03:43,486 --> 01:03:45,989 'Cause the very one you put all your faith and hope in 1145 01:03:46,072 --> 01:03:48,871 will be the one to hurt you and let you down the most. 1146 01:03:50,201 --> 01:03:51,453 I'm telling you now. 1147 01:03:51,703 --> 01:03:53,705 Well, I love all my children equally, 1148 01:03:53,872 --> 01:03:55,215 but that Rebecca, 1149 01:03:55,415 --> 01:03:58,134 she's been out there in the streets doing some of everything. 1150 01:03:58,418 --> 01:04:00,011 And she fell out of favor with you? 1151 01:04:00,170 --> 01:04:01,638 Glad you ain't God. 1152 01:04:04,799 --> 01:04:06,597 Honey, children are individuals. 1153 01:04:06,676 --> 01:04:08,279 See, that's where parents make their mistake. 1154 01:04:08,303 --> 01:04:09,739 They think, just 'cause they give their child 1155 01:04:09,763 --> 01:04:11,891 the exact same thing, the exact same amount of love, 1156 01:04:12,015 --> 01:04:14,985 the exact same everything, they're gonna turn out the exact same way. 1157 01:04:15,310 --> 01:04:18,905 Children are individuals, they have their own individual experiences, 1158 01:04:18,980 --> 01:04:21,824 you are not their only influences on this earth, do you understand? 1159 01:04:22,108 --> 01:04:24,657 That's why you have to find out which is the best way 1160 01:04:24,736 --> 01:04:26,704 to get the best results out of your child. 1161 01:04:26,863 --> 01:04:29,241 Per child, it's a different result, do you understand? 1162 01:04:29,407 --> 01:04:32,251 Each child needs their own different result, do you understand? 1163 01:04:32,369 --> 01:04:33,416 Yeah. 1164 01:04:33,787 --> 01:04:36,006 Let me break it down for you, if you don't understand. 1165 01:04:36,081 --> 01:04:39,352 One of your children, you may have to say, "You know what, just sit there, don't move." 1166 01:04:39,376 --> 01:04:41,925 And that child will just sit there all day long and not move. 1167 01:04:42,045 --> 01:04:43,230 The other child you got to say, 1168 01:04:43,254 --> 01:04:44,482 "if you move, I'm gonna break your neck, 1169 01:04:44,506 --> 01:04:47,510 "your knuckles, your fingers, your throat, and choke you half to death." 1170 01:04:47,592 --> 01:04:48,593 Yup. 1171 01:04:48,968 --> 01:04:51,096 - But the child don't move. - That's right. 1172 01:04:51,221 --> 01:04:53,064 So both children didn't move. 1173 01:04:53,139 --> 01:04:55,141 You got the results you wanted from both of them. 1174 01:04:55,266 --> 01:04:58,110 But you had to go about it in different directions, you understand? 1175 01:04:59,687 --> 01:05:00,779 That's all I'm saying. 1176 01:05:00,980 --> 01:05:04,100 Children are individuals, that's why you have to be careful who you sleep with. 1177 01:05:06,820 --> 01:05:09,699 Been and had a baby with somebody, you ain't met their whole family 1178 01:05:09,781 --> 01:05:12,593 and your child is crazy as hell like that cousin they've been trying to hide. 1179 01:05:12,617 --> 01:05:13,618 Yup. 1180 01:05:15,286 --> 01:05:18,460 A lot of parents love their children, but they don't like them. 1181 01:05:19,624 --> 01:05:21,744 That's all right, I didn't even know that was possible 1182 01:05:21,793 --> 01:05:23,993 that you could love your child and not like them at all. 1183 01:05:24,963 --> 01:05:27,466 Somebody back there clapping right now. Stop all that clapping. 1184 01:05:27,590 --> 01:05:28,933 Stop all that clapping. 1185 01:05:29,509 --> 01:05:31,261 If you sitting with that child right now, 1186 01:05:31,344 --> 01:05:34,268 you better look straight ahead, close your eyes, just look straight ahead. 1187 01:05:36,641 --> 01:05:38,119 - You hear what I'm telling you? - You're right. 1188 01:05:38,143 --> 01:05:40,066 I know I'm right. You can't blanket-parent 1189 01:05:40,145 --> 01:05:43,225 and think that both children are gonna turn out the same. They're individuals. 1190 01:05:43,731 --> 01:05:45,531 It's like bringing strangers into your house. 1191 01:05:45,567 --> 01:05:47,410 Honey, what you doing in here? 1192 01:05:48,236 --> 01:05:51,365 Well, my daughter Jennifer got married and her husband didn't like me. 1193 01:05:51,614 --> 01:05:53,174 That didn't answer my question, though. 1194 01:05:54,117 --> 01:05:55,494 They kept my house. 1195 01:05:55,994 --> 01:05:57,371 Who kept your house? 1196 01:05:57,704 --> 01:05:59,206 Jennifer and her husband. 1197 01:06:00,748 --> 01:06:03,727 Honey, you got to explain this to me, 'cause I'm getting more and more confused. 1198 01:06:03,751 --> 01:06:04,752 I know. 1199 01:06:04,836 --> 01:06:06,713 See, my other daughter, 1200 01:06:06,796 --> 01:06:10,517 that's on drugs, mortgaged my house. And Jennifer the good daughter paid it off. 1201 01:06:10,592 --> 01:06:11,593 Okay. 1202 01:06:11,759 --> 01:06:13,853 And then they didn't have no room for me. 1203 01:06:14,429 --> 01:06:15,681 And they moved me here. 1204 01:06:21,853 --> 01:06:24,823 Okay, let me see if I understand this. 1205 01:06:25,356 --> 01:06:27,168 - So, you got a daughter that's on crack. - Yes. 1206 01:06:27,192 --> 01:06:29,536 That mortgaged your house and you didn't know it. 1207 01:06:29,694 --> 01:06:31,380 And then you tell your other daughter Jennifer 1208 01:06:31,404 --> 01:06:32,844 and she come up and she pays it off. 1209 01:06:33,573 --> 01:06:36,452 But then she don't have no room for you in your house. 1210 01:06:38,244 --> 01:06:40,212 And she moved you out of your house. 1211 01:06:41,289 --> 01:06:42,666 And that's the good one? 1212 01:06:46,586 --> 01:06:48,509 Child, I'd take my chances with the crackhead. 1213 01:06:48,671 --> 01:06:50,344 I don't know what the hell... No, child. 1214 01:06:53,885 --> 01:06:56,113 What's the address? We need to go do a drive-by. Let's go. 1215 01:06:56,137 --> 01:06:59,516 Hold on. No, no. See, I understand. 1216 01:07:00,099 --> 01:07:02,727 They had to sell their house to pay my mortgage. 1217 01:07:02,810 --> 01:07:04,121 Honey, sit down. Let me explain something to you. 1218 01:07:04,145 --> 01:07:06,318 Somebody ran the game on you. 1219 01:07:06,648 --> 01:07:09,071 Ain't nobody going to give up their nice, comfortable house 1220 01:07:09,234 --> 01:07:11,737 to come live in your house, unless you have the nicer house. 1221 01:07:12,237 --> 01:07:14,285 Your daughter has run a game on you, honey. 1222 01:07:15,031 --> 01:07:16,908 - Is your house nicer than hers? - Yes. 1223 01:07:16,991 --> 01:07:20,012 That's why the hell she was in your house. Don't think she did you no favors. 1224 01:07:20,036 --> 01:07:22,084 Don't sit here making excuses for this child. 1225 01:07:23,039 --> 01:07:24,211 Well, it ain't her. 1226 01:07:25,416 --> 01:07:26,668 That's an excuse. Who is it? 1227 01:07:26,751 --> 01:07:28,471 - It's her husband. - How is it her husband? 1228 01:07:28,586 --> 01:07:29,587 He pays all the bills. 1229 01:07:29,796 --> 01:07:32,424 I don't give a damn how many bills you pay, 1230 01:07:32,549 --> 01:07:35,894 you ain't gonna put my mama out of her house. 1231 01:07:40,431 --> 01:07:43,810 That don't make no sense to me at all. You got to explain that to me. 1232 01:07:43,977 --> 01:07:46,337 - No, see, you don't understand. - What do I not understand? 1233 01:07:47,272 --> 01:07:50,446 Well, when she was little, a lot of things happened to her, 1234 01:07:50,525 --> 01:07:51,947 I just need to be there for her. 1235 01:07:52,026 --> 01:07:53,295 Please don't tell me you're one of them parents 1236 01:07:53,319 --> 01:07:56,549 that believes anything your child says. Any time they say it, however they say it. 1237 01:07:56,573 --> 01:07:58,075 I can't stand parents like that. 1238 01:07:58,157 --> 01:08:01,957 They don't go and verify nothing, they just believe what their child says. 1239 01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:05,841 I believe in trust, but verify, do you hear me'? 1240 01:08:07,875 --> 01:08:10,604 'Cause, just 'cause it's your child, they are capable of making mistakes. 1241 01:08:10,628 --> 01:08:12,314 That's why you have to get all the information 1242 01:08:12,338 --> 01:08:13,898 before you go running to their defense. 1243 01:08:13,965 --> 01:08:17,085 I know somebody like this who had the principal call and said the child did it. 1244 01:08:17,635 --> 01:08:19,488 The school teacher called and said the child did it. 1245 01:08:19,512 --> 01:08:21,480 The janitor called and said the child did it. 1246 01:08:22,140 --> 01:08:24,142 The bus driver called and said the child did it. 1247 01:08:24,434 --> 01:08:28,314 Homeless man on the street found a phone and called and said the child did it. 1248 01:08:29,314 --> 01:08:32,909 A Chihuahua was walking past saying, "He did it. He did it. He did it." 1249 01:08:33,610 --> 01:08:35,533 And she didn't believe nothing. 1250 01:08:36,279 --> 01:08:38,841 And when you do that to a child, you are setting yourself up for failure. 1251 01:08:38,865 --> 01:08:42,136 'Cause you're going to find yourself, when that child grows up, on the witness stand. 1252 01:08:42,160 --> 01:08:44,221 Sitting there, trying to convince 12 members of his peers 1253 01:08:44,245 --> 01:08:47,590 that he did not commit the crime that you believe he did not do it. 1254 01:08:47,707 --> 01:08:49,602 - Do you hear what I'm telling you? - You're right. 1255 01:08:49,626 --> 01:08:52,049 I know it. This is what you got to understand about children, 1256 01:08:52,128 --> 01:08:53,505 hear me clearly when I say this. 1257 01:08:53,630 --> 01:08:55,007 You cannot do that to a child. 1258 01:08:55,131 --> 01:08:58,510 You cannot empower a child that way. Find out the truth first. 1259 01:08:58,593 --> 01:08:59,820 Do you hear what I'm telling you? 1260 01:08:59,844 --> 01:09:03,348 That's why... Look at all these parents. You can't do that to a child, that's crippling. 1261 01:09:03,431 --> 01:09:06,192 Like all these parents, they give their child everything they ask for. 1262 01:09:06,351 --> 01:09:09,651 That is the worst thing you can do for a child, 1263 01:09:09,812 --> 01:09:12,941 is to give them everything they ask for. 1264 01:09:13,650 --> 01:09:15,210 And I know what it is, you feel guilty. 1265 01:09:15,401 --> 01:09:17,838 A lot of parents feel guilty 'cause the child went through something, 1266 01:09:17,862 --> 01:09:19,214 you weren't there, you were supposed to be there, 1267 01:09:19,238 --> 01:09:21,536 you were working, you had to do this... To hell with that. 1268 01:09:21,824 --> 01:09:24,327 The Bible gave you one commandment. "Be fruitful and multiply." 1269 01:09:24,410 --> 01:09:27,914 The rest of it's on the damn child to figure out what the hell's going on. 1270 01:09:29,207 --> 01:09:31,505 But what I'm saying is, when you do that to a child 1271 01:09:31,626 --> 01:09:34,188 you cripple them, you handicap them by giving them everything they want. 1272 01:09:34,212 --> 01:09:35,981 They don't know what it's like in the real world. 1273 01:09:36,005 --> 01:09:38,508 I remember Cora came home one day, talking about she wanted $5 1274 01:09:38,591 --> 01:09:41,515 'cause the neighbor had given her daughter $5. 1275 01:09:41,594 --> 01:09:43,437 Well, she was a single mama, she gave her $5, 1276 01:09:43,554 --> 01:09:44,865 I said, "I don't care, you my child. 1277 01:09:44,889 --> 01:09:47,743 "I don't care what's happening next door, this is what goes on in this house. 1278 01:09:47,767 --> 01:09:49,953 "If you want anything in this house, you got to work for it." 1279 01:09:49,977 --> 01:09:50,978 That's right. 1280 01:09:51,062 --> 01:09:52,539 She said, "That's fine, I'll just do what I got to do. 1281 01:09:52,563 --> 01:09:55,203 "I just need $5, 'cause I want to go buy me some toys." Okay, fine. 1282 01:09:55,233 --> 01:09:57,452 "What do I need to do?" "Go wash the dishes." 1283 01:09:57,527 --> 01:09:59,463 She washes the dishes, come back in with her hand out for the $5. 1284 01:09:59,487 --> 01:10:00,881 I said, "Baby, it don't work that way. 1285 01:10:00,905 --> 01:10:04,051 "You don't get it just 'cause you asked for it. Now you got to go clean the closet." 1286 01:10:04,075 --> 01:10:05,998 So she cleaned that closet up all night long. 1287 01:10:06,577 --> 01:10:08,329 Next morning she said, "I get my $5?" 1288 01:10:08,413 --> 01:10:11,100 "No, you don't get it yet. When you get home you still got more chores. 1289 01:10:11,124 --> 01:10:14,164 "I need you to wash them clothes and when you come up here, clean that oven." 1290 01:10:14,210 --> 01:10:17,009 So she came back and she washed the clothes clean, "Can I have my $5?" 1291 01:10:17,088 --> 01:10:18,357 "No, baby, you can't have it yet." 1292 01:10:18,381 --> 01:10:20,930 This went on Monday, this went on Tuesday, 1293 01:10:21,092 --> 01:10:24,266 by Wednesday she had cut the grass, mowed the lawn, changed the lawn-mower. 1294 01:10:24,846 --> 01:10:27,269 By Thursday, she had washed the car and changed my oil. 1295 01:10:27,348 --> 01:10:28,895 You understand? 1296 01:10:29,100 --> 01:10:30,818 And by Friday she was so tired she said, 1297 01:10:30,935 --> 01:10:32,653 "I don't even want the money now." 1298 01:10:33,771 --> 01:10:35,958 I said, "No, baby, this is how it works in the real world. 1299 01:10:35,982 --> 01:10:38,076 "You work like a dog and by Friday, it's pay-day. 1300 01:10:38,151 --> 01:10:39,152 "So here it is. 1301 01:10:40,611 --> 01:10:42,784 "So, I'm gonna make you work like a dog. 1302 01:10:43,781 --> 01:10:46,301 "And then I'm gonna dangle a little carrot in front of you on Friday 1303 01:10:46,325 --> 01:10:47,469 "so you'll come back on Monday. 1304 01:10:47,493 --> 01:10:48,995 "So, here's your money on Friday." 1305 01:10:49,245 --> 01:10:52,795 And she said thank you, and then she went to count it and it was $3.18. 1306 01:10:53,875 --> 01:10:55,001 She said, "I asked for $5." 1307 01:10:55,084 --> 01:10:56,770 I said, "Well, hell, I took taxes out of it. 1308 01:10:56,794 --> 01:10:58,274 "That's how it is in the real world." 1309 01:11:01,507 --> 01:11:03,788 That's what I'm saying. That's what children need to know. 1310 01:11:03,885 --> 01:11:05,057 That's what children need. 1311 01:11:05,470 --> 01:11:07,097 That's what children need to understand. 1312 01:11:07,180 --> 01:11:10,284 They need to know the value of a dollar. Just 'cause you have it to give it to them, 1313 01:11:10,308 --> 01:11:12,077 don't mean that they should have it, do you understand? 1314 01:11:12,101 --> 01:11:13,871 - You're right. - 'Cause you do that to them as children, 1315 01:11:13,895 --> 01:11:15,989 when they grow up, they have no sense of nothing. 1316 01:11:16,230 --> 01:11:18,083 They leave your house and go get married to somebody, 1317 01:11:18,107 --> 01:11:20,461 they think that man or that woman is supposed to give them everything 1318 01:11:20,485 --> 01:11:21,532 that Mama or Daddy did. 1319 01:11:21,611 --> 01:11:24,423 That ain't the real world. You want something, you got to go your ass to work. 1320 01:11:24,447 --> 01:11:25,727 That's how it works around here. 1321 01:11:25,990 --> 01:11:27,050 - You hear me? - That's right. 1322 01:11:27,074 --> 01:11:28,635 'Cause it's crazy, I just look at these people, 1323 01:11:28,659 --> 01:11:30,627 grown folks, grown 40-year-olds, sitting there, 1324 01:11:30,703 --> 01:11:33,331 counting on Mama and Daddy, that is crazy. 1325 01:11:33,623 --> 01:11:36,172 You cannot empower a child that much. 1326 01:11:36,584 --> 01:11:37,710 Everybody on this earth... 1327 01:11:37,794 --> 01:11:38,896 Let me tell you something about guilt. 1328 01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:40,718 Guilt will mess you up and your child. 1329 01:11:41,756 --> 01:11:43,554 You can't let guilt rule how you raise. 1330 01:11:44,175 --> 01:11:46,678 'Cause you'll find yourself doing things you ain't supposed to. 1331 01:11:46,886 --> 01:11:50,015 God has designed the midnight for everybody on this earth to go through. 1332 01:11:50,556 --> 01:11:53,355 He has designed it, he didn't allow... He did not make it happen, 1333 01:11:53,434 --> 01:11:55,607 but he allows it to happen, all right? 1334 01:11:55,686 --> 01:11:58,860 And the reason for that midnight for you to go through, is not to destroy you. 1335 01:11:59,023 --> 01:12:00,366 It is to make you stronger. 1336 01:12:00,441 --> 01:12:02,193 And make you better, you understand? 1337 01:12:02,276 --> 01:12:04,963 You're not supposed to despise it, you're supposed to walk on through it. 1338 01:12:04,987 --> 01:12:07,661 If God has designed a midnight for your child, 1339 01:12:07,740 --> 01:12:09,913 as much as you love your child, 1340 01:12:09,992 --> 01:12:12,596 and you come running there, rescuing them every time they go through... 1341 01:12:12,620 --> 01:12:15,182 Every time they go through something, you thereto see them through it. 1342 01:12:15,206 --> 01:12:17,208 Then you are not helping them at all. 1343 01:12:17,875 --> 01:12:21,550 You are blocking the thing that God has set up for them to make them strong. 1344 01:12:21,712 --> 01:12:23,055 I don't think you following me. 1345 01:12:23,548 --> 01:12:24,549 I'm following. 1346 01:12:24,882 --> 01:12:26,276 Let me break it down to you this way. 1347 01:12:26,300 --> 01:12:28,380 If God has designed something for them to go through, 1348 01:12:28,427 --> 01:12:29,530 that's going to make them stronger. 1349 01:12:29,554 --> 01:12:32,228 And every time they go through it, they can come to you and get it. 1350 01:12:32,306 --> 01:12:33,899 Then what do they need God for? 1351 01:12:34,559 --> 01:12:35,560 Yeah. 1352 01:12:35,643 --> 01:12:37,691 You become their god, do you understand? 1353 01:12:37,770 --> 01:12:39,818 What you need to know about him, he's a jealous God. 1354 01:12:39,897 --> 01:12:42,571 He will have no other gods before him. Do you hear me? 1355 01:12:46,153 --> 01:12:48,906 I know it hurts to have your child go through something. 1356 01:12:48,990 --> 01:12:51,009 I know it's tough, I know it's hard, to watch them go through, 1357 01:12:51,033 --> 01:12:53,786 but, honey, you have to let them bump their head every now and then 1358 01:12:54,036 --> 01:12:56,334 so that they can become full-grown adults 1359 01:12:56,414 --> 01:12:59,133 who know how to handle anything, who can stand up on their feet. 1360 01:12:59,208 --> 01:13:02,508 Your job is not to keep them from the cradle to the grave. 1361 01:13:02,587 --> 01:13:04,022 Your job is to keep them from the cradle, 1362 01:13:04,046 --> 01:13:07,234 let them grow up and figure out how the hell they gonna get to the grave themselves. 1363 01:13:07,258 --> 01:13:08,305 Do you understand? 1364 01:13:09,385 --> 01:13:10,529 I never thought about it like that. 1365 01:13:10,553 --> 01:13:13,978 You ain't been thinking about much is all I'm gonna tell you. 1366 01:13:14,390 --> 01:13:15,701 Do you understand what I'm saying? 1367 01:13:15,725 --> 01:13:17,819 - I understand. - Let your children grow up. 1368 01:13:18,102 --> 01:13:19,413 And as long as I'm on this subject, 1369 01:13:19,437 --> 01:13:22,407 I'm gonna go on and say this, 'cause I think it just needs to be said. 1370 01:13:22,565 --> 01:13:26,035 All of y'all who've got these grown children living in your house, 1371 01:13:26,819 --> 01:13:28,492 I got four words for you. 1372 01:13:28,571 --> 01:13:30,118 Put that ass out. 1373 01:13:37,413 --> 01:13:39,766 I don't understand that. And I'm not talking about all of them. 1374 01:13:39,790 --> 01:13:40,791 That's what... 1375 01:13:40,917 --> 01:13:43,353 if you're going through something, having a little financial trouble 1376 01:13:43,377 --> 01:13:45,314 or you're going through divorce or things are tough right now. 1377 01:13:45,338 --> 01:13:47,441 You need to go home for a while, that's what family is for. 1378 01:13:47,465 --> 01:13:48,512 To be there for you. 1379 01:13:48,758 --> 01:13:49,759 For a little while. 1380 01:13:50,635 --> 01:13:51,978 For a little while. 1381 01:13:52,637 --> 01:13:54,114 'Cause when you come back to my house, 1382 01:13:54,138 --> 01:13:55,185 I'm like a landlord. 1383 01:13:55,556 --> 01:13:58,036 I want a move-in date and I want a move-the-hell-out-date, too. 1384 01:13:58,643 --> 01:14:00,495 And don't come up in there, talking about you need a week 1385 01:14:00,519 --> 01:14:02,599 when you know you need six months, trying to fool me. 1386 01:14:03,064 --> 01:14:05,944 'Cause if you tell me you need a week, on the seventh day I'm gonna rest. 1387 01:14:08,486 --> 01:14:11,581 And on the eighth day I'm gonna pack you the hell up out of there. 1388 01:14:13,449 --> 01:14:15,135 - Do you understand what I'm saying? - I understand. 1389 01:14:15,159 --> 01:14:17,262 'Cause think about this, I'm not talking about them children, 1390 01:14:17,286 --> 01:14:19,598 I'm talking about them 40-year-olds that are living in your basement. 1391 01:14:19,622 --> 01:14:20,623 Yes. 1392 01:14:20,831 --> 01:14:23,129 Talking about, "Mama, can I borrow your car?" 1393 01:14:23,209 --> 01:14:26,133 "Hell, no, you can't borrow my car. You 40 years old." 1394 01:14:26,212 --> 01:14:27,259 That's right. 1395 01:14:27,338 --> 01:14:29,024 But for a lot of parents that empowered them, 1396 01:14:29,048 --> 01:14:31,471 then they wonder why all the other grown children are mad, 1397 01:14:31,550 --> 01:14:33,820 'cause you got this same child, keeps coming back to the house 1398 01:14:33,844 --> 01:14:34,845 over and over again. 1399 01:14:34,929 --> 01:14:36,990 You keep... These are supposed to be the best years of your life 1400 01:14:37,014 --> 01:14:39,694 and you are letting this child come in and ruin that moment for you. 1401 01:14:39,725 --> 01:14:41,727 That's crazy as hell. I don't understand. 1402 01:14:42,144 --> 01:14:43,771 Put 'em out, put 'em out. 1403 01:14:43,854 --> 01:14:44,901 It's like a eagle. 1404 01:14:46,357 --> 01:14:50,112 You know what a eagle do? I love nature. God teaches us through nature. 1405 01:14:50,611 --> 01:14:51,703 This is what an eagle do. 1406 01:14:51,862 --> 01:14:53,702 Before an eagle have the little chick-chickies, 1407 01:14:54,615 --> 01:14:56,583 eagle make a nest out of thorns. 1408 01:14:57,368 --> 01:14:58,494 - Why they do that? - Yes. 1409 01:14:58,703 --> 01:15:00,296 So, when the babies come, 1410 01:15:00,371 --> 01:15:03,771 they take the feathers and they put it down on top of the thorns, so they comfortable. 1411 01:15:04,041 --> 01:15:05,921 So when the babies come, they're so comfortable. 1412 01:15:06,043 --> 01:15:10,173 But when the babies stay too long, the eagle fans the feathers. 1413 01:15:12,216 --> 01:15:14,469 So all that's left in the nest is thorns. 1414 01:15:14,885 --> 01:15:17,263 So no matter which way the little eagle in there goes, 1415 01:15:17,346 --> 01:15:18,689 they can't get comfortable. 1416 01:15:19,098 --> 01:15:20,367 And if they still won't leave, she'd take them 1417 01:15:20,391 --> 01:15:22,393 - and she'd throw them out of the nest. - What? 1418 01:15:23,227 --> 01:15:25,821 Yes, she do. And watch them, they'd be flapping and flapping 1419 01:15:25,896 --> 01:15:28,041 then right before they hit the ground, she'd go in and swoop down, 1420 01:15:28,065 --> 01:15:29,501 pick them up and bring them back up. 1421 01:15:29,525 --> 01:15:30,526 You understand? 1422 01:15:30,860 --> 01:15:32,828 Do she go in there and put some more feathers? 1423 01:15:32,903 --> 01:15:35,103 Hell, no. You know what she do? She kick them out again. 1424 01:15:35,448 --> 01:15:36,925 And they go down flapping and flapping and flapping. 1425 01:15:36,949 --> 01:15:38,468 She'd run down and catch them, and by the third time 1426 01:15:38,492 --> 01:15:40,053 she do that, they're flying on their own. 1427 01:15:40,077 --> 01:15:41,078 Do you understand? 1428 01:15:41,203 --> 01:15:44,207 Sometime, honey, you just got to make it uncomfortable for your child 1429 01:15:44,290 --> 01:15:45,770 to get the hell up out of your house. 1430 01:15:46,250 --> 01:15:47,602 Take the feathers out of the nest. 1431 01:15:47,626 --> 01:15:50,721 Start with the television and work your way to the PlayStation. 1432 01:15:53,424 --> 01:15:55,504 - You hear what I'm telling you? - That's a good one. 1433 01:15:55,760 --> 01:15:58,183 That's all I'm saying, that's all I'm saying. 1434 01:15:58,262 --> 01:16:01,357 Let me tell you something about this daughter of yours. You got two of them. 1435 01:16:01,432 --> 01:16:02,729 The one that's on them drugs. 1436 01:16:03,142 --> 01:16:06,271 I've never met one child in this whole life that said, "I wanna be..." 1437 01:16:06,353 --> 01:16:07,622 You ask a child what they want to be, 1438 01:16:07,646 --> 01:16:11,196 they say, a doctor, a lawyer, they never say, "I want to be a drug addict." 1439 01:16:12,151 --> 01:16:14,279 Something happens to people in their life. 1440 01:16:14,779 --> 01:16:16,577 That's why you can never judge nobody. 1441 01:16:16,822 --> 01:16:19,666 'Cause something happens that makes people go in certain directions 1442 01:16:19,992 --> 01:16:21,460 and wherever it happens, 1443 01:16:21,619 --> 01:16:24,873 if you can take them back to that point, you can take them to the healing. 1444 01:16:25,122 --> 01:16:28,060 But you got to figure out how to get them back to where they went off track. 1445 01:16:28,084 --> 01:16:29,144 - Do you understand? - Yeah. 1446 01:16:29,168 --> 01:16:30,728 Every time there is a train derailment, 1447 01:16:30,795 --> 01:16:32,638 they want to know where the incident happened. 1448 01:16:32,755 --> 01:16:35,224 You got to take them back to the incident to make them heal. 1449 01:16:35,299 --> 01:16:37,643 Talk to your daughter, child, don't judge her. 1450 01:16:38,135 --> 01:16:39,978 - She's gonna lie. - I know. 1451 01:16:40,137 --> 01:16:42,640 Yeah, a crackhead will lie when the truth will do. 1452 01:16:44,391 --> 01:16:45,643 But you talk to her. 1453 01:16:45,726 --> 01:16:46,870 And then that other daughter of yours, 1454 01:16:46,894 --> 01:16:48,988 the one I want to see all the papers that you signed 1455 01:16:49,146 --> 01:16:51,541 for her to have your house, tell her we're gonna come pay her a visit. 1456 01:16:51,565 --> 01:16:52,862 Me, you and my lawyer. 1457 01:16:53,692 --> 01:16:55,572 - You and your lawyer? - Yeah, he in this purse. 1458 01:16:58,155 --> 01:17:00,829 He's with the firm of Smith & Wesson Esquire. 1459 01:17:03,410 --> 01:17:04,638 - Do you understand? - I understand. 1460 01:17:04,662 --> 01:17:06,306 Now go on and call. You ain't supposed to be on the phone. 1461 01:17:06,330 --> 01:17:09,142 I'm gonna talk to this girl 'cause I know that boy on his way over here. 1462 01:17:09,166 --> 01:17:11,009 Go on and talk, I'm gonna keep her busy. 1463 01:17:15,131 --> 01:17:16,131 What you doing? 1464 01:17:16,173 --> 01:17:17,641 I was talking to the universe. 1465 01:17:18,467 --> 01:17:20,310 Child, the universe. 1466 01:17:21,470 --> 01:17:25,441 And then I was going to partake of the fruit of the Ignatius tree. 1467 01:17:25,641 --> 01:17:27,860 - The who tree? - The Ignatius tree. 1468 01:17:28,227 --> 01:17:29,979 - The... - Ignatius. 1469 01:17:30,146 --> 01:17:31,443 Oh, wow. What that do? 1470 01:17:31,689 --> 01:17:33,316 It brings me calm and balance. 1471 01:17:33,440 --> 01:17:35,192 Another kind of tree do that for me. 1472 01:17:42,908 --> 01:17:45,286 How long you've been on this spiritual journey? 1473 01:17:45,452 --> 01:17:46,704 About two months. 1474 01:17:47,037 --> 01:17:48,431 You been on this journey two months? 1475 01:17:48,455 --> 01:17:50,173 - Yes, ma'am. - Wow. That's good. 1476 01:17:50,249 --> 01:17:52,001 What got you on this spiritual journey? 1477 01:17:52,376 --> 01:17:54,549 - What do you mean? - Something had to get you on it. 1478 01:17:54,628 --> 01:17:57,222 You ain't just start on it all alone. 1479 01:17:57,548 --> 01:17:59,428 'Cause Dalia tells me, you used to go to church. 1480 01:17:59,550 --> 01:18:00,767 - Yeah. - Then you left. 1481 01:18:01,051 --> 01:18:02,553 - Yeah. - And went on a journey. 1482 01:18:03,053 --> 01:18:04,350 Into the universe. 1483 01:18:05,139 --> 01:18:07,312 Going where no man has gone before. 1484 01:18:14,899 --> 01:18:16,492 Yeah, I guess so. 1485 01:18:16,567 --> 01:18:17,864 Yeah'? Wow. 1486 01:18:18,319 --> 01:18:19,679 What happened to make you do that? 1487 01:18:19,778 --> 01:18:21,381 You know, usually when a woman goes through a break-up, 1488 01:18:21,405 --> 01:18:23,885 she'll cut all her hair off, change... You know how y'all do... 1489 01:18:24,241 --> 01:18:25,321 I mean, you know how we do. 1490 01:18:25,367 --> 01:18:26,584 We all change... 1491 01:18:35,586 --> 01:18:38,089 I'm sorry, you know how we do, we change up something. 1492 01:18:38,339 --> 01:18:39,966 I think it was just time. 1493 01:18:40,132 --> 01:18:41,600 Thought it was time? 1494 01:18:41,842 --> 01:18:42,968 Ain't nothing happened? 1495 01:18:43,052 --> 01:18:45,363 Ain't have nothing to do with that man you were messing around with, 1496 01:18:45,387 --> 01:18:48,015 the married man? The one Hattie was talking about? 1497 01:18:48,390 --> 01:18:51,690 Who left his wife and then didn't come marry you, 1498 01:18:51,769 --> 01:18:53,009 went and married another woman? 1499 01:18:54,271 --> 01:18:57,241 Yeah, there was a third spoke in the wheel and you didn't know about it. 1500 01:18:58,734 --> 01:18:59,826 Was he in the church? 1501 01:19:00,236 --> 01:19:01,704 Yes, ma'am, he was a member. 1502 01:19:02,071 --> 01:19:03,551 A member of the church, there you go. 1503 01:19:04,448 --> 01:19:06,121 Now it all makes sense. 1504 01:19:06,700 --> 01:19:08,543 Man breaks your heart, you get mad at God. 1505 01:19:09,119 --> 01:19:11,167 Honey, you can't compare God to man. 1506 01:19:11,789 --> 01:19:13,883 Any man, any woman, any human being on this earth 1507 01:19:13,958 --> 01:19:16,228 is capable of breaking your heart, no matter how much they love you. 1508 01:19:16,252 --> 01:19:18,812 Because we're all human, we all make mistakes, do you understand? 1509 01:19:19,296 --> 01:19:20,843 So you can't blame God on that. 1510 01:19:20,923 --> 01:19:23,176 You can't go running out of church 'cause a man hurt you. 1511 01:19:23,300 --> 01:19:25,445 If you do that you will never find peace. Do you hear me? 1512 01:19:25,469 --> 01:19:27,437 You got to know God for God and man for man. 1513 01:19:27,513 --> 01:19:29,732 He's not a man that he should lie. Do you understand? 1514 01:19:30,099 --> 01:19:31,851 I hear you. But I... 1515 01:19:31,976 --> 01:19:33,523 I couldn't go back into that church. 1516 01:19:33,602 --> 01:19:36,776 I know I was wrong, I take responsibility for that. 1517 01:19:36,855 --> 01:19:38,778 But those people in that church judged me. 1518 01:19:38,857 --> 01:19:39,960 I couldn't go back in there. 1519 01:19:39,984 --> 01:19:41,086 Yeah, that bothers me about a lot of churches. 1520 01:19:41,110 --> 01:19:44,159 A lot of folks in church, they're quick to forget. 1521 01:19:44,488 --> 01:19:46,331 So quick to forget where they come from. 1522 01:19:46,615 --> 01:19:48,162 Like they always had it together. 1523 01:19:48,242 --> 01:19:50,415 Like they can't remember four or five years ago 1524 01:19:50,494 --> 01:19:52,305 when they were struggling, trying to get through something. 1525 01:19:52,329 --> 01:19:53,807 That's what bothers me, people coming to church 1526 01:19:53,831 --> 01:19:55,475 and they're hurt and they're broken, then they leave 1527 01:19:55,499 --> 01:19:58,061 they're even more hurt 'cause they came to church looking for help. 1528 01:19:58,085 --> 01:20:00,463 And somebody up in there made them so upset 1529 01:20:00,546 --> 01:20:01,690 and worse than what they were. 1530 01:20:01,714 --> 01:20:03,817 But this is what you need to understand about the church, honey. 1531 01:20:03,841 --> 01:20:05,468 The church is just like a hospital. 1532 01:20:06,093 --> 01:20:07,595 When people go to the hospital... 1533 01:20:07,678 --> 01:20:09,281 This is where people have their misconception. 1534 01:20:09,305 --> 01:20:10,323 This is where you mess up, 'cause you think 1535 01:20:10,347 --> 01:20:12,467 church is supposed to be this perfect place. It's not. 1536 01:20:13,183 --> 01:20:15,436 The church is a place for people who need something. 1537 01:20:15,853 --> 01:20:18,039 Like the hospital. If you have a cold, you go to the hospital. 1538 01:20:18,063 --> 01:20:19,374 You need surgery, you go to the hospital. 1539 01:20:19,398 --> 01:20:20,878 There are departments for everything. 1540 01:20:20,941 --> 01:20:22,711 If you have an emergency, you go to the emergency room. 1541 01:20:22,735 --> 01:20:24,337 If you're in intensive care, you go to the ICU. 1542 01:20:24,361 --> 01:20:26,659 All of that is in a hospital. The church is the same way. 1543 01:20:26,864 --> 01:20:28,967 When you go to church, you go up in there looking for healing. 1544 01:20:28,991 --> 01:20:31,414 Whatever you need, whatever surgeries you need in your life 1545 01:20:31,702 --> 01:20:33,582 you asking God to help you with, you understand? 1546 01:20:33,662 --> 01:20:35,765 When you go up in there, just like when you go to the hospital, 1547 01:20:35,789 --> 01:20:36,850 you looking to see the doctor. 1548 01:20:36,874 --> 01:20:38,893 Don't go up in there looking for nobody but the doctor. 1549 01:20:38,917 --> 01:20:40,043 You hear me? 1550 01:20:41,378 --> 01:20:43,927 So when you go to... You ain't understanding what I'm saying. 1551 01:20:45,382 --> 01:20:47,694 When you go to the hospital, you go in there looking for a doctor. 1552 01:20:47,718 --> 01:20:48,844 So all I'm telling you is, 1553 01:20:48,927 --> 01:20:51,114 when you go to church, you better go in there looking for God. 1554 01:20:51,138 --> 01:20:53,732 'Cause anything else is up in there. Do you understand? 1555 01:20:54,016 --> 01:20:55,142 Okay. 1556 01:20:55,559 --> 01:20:56,870 Let me make it a little clearer for you. 1557 01:20:56,894 --> 01:20:58,538 Just like people go to the ICU and the emergency room, 1558 01:20:58,562 --> 01:21:01,207 there are all these little cliques and these little things in the hospital. 1559 01:21:01,231 --> 01:21:02,876 And there are all of them little cliques in the church. 1560 01:21:02,900 --> 01:21:04,294 That's where the liars can find the liars, 1561 01:21:04,318 --> 01:21:06,078 the whore-mongers can find the whore-mongers. 1562 01:21:06,111 --> 01:21:07,871 It's already up in there, do you understand? 1563 01:21:07,988 --> 01:21:08,989 Yes, I do. 1564 01:21:09,073 --> 01:21:10,467 That's why when you go up in there, 1565 01:21:10,491 --> 01:21:12,427 you better have your eyes on God and nothing else. 1566 01:21:12,451 --> 01:21:13,720 - Do you understand? - I do understand. 1567 01:21:13,744 --> 01:21:15,542 Or you gonna get yourself hurt. 1568 01:21:15,621 --> 01:21:17,724 Honey, keep your eye on God and you won't make no mistakes. 1569 01:21:17,748 --> 01:21:19,748 Just like Peter, when he was walking on that water. 1570 01:21:19,833 --> 01:21:21,927 And Jonah and that whale passed right by him 1571 01:21:22,002 --> 01:21:24,175 and messed him up. And he started sinking. 1572 01:21:24,671 --> 01:21:26,264 You got to understand that, honey. 1573 01:21:29,885 --> 01:21:30,886 Okay. 1574 01:21:31,929 --> 01:21:34,182 I'm telling you, it was Free Willy, I saw it. 1575 01:21:38,769 --> 01:21:41,693 Okay, it's been two months since I've been to church, 1576 01:21:41,772 --> 01:21:43,052 but I don't know if it was that. 1577 01:21:43,273 --> 01:21:45,033 Okay, honey, well, you don't read your Bible. 1578 01:21:45,109 --> 01:21:46,110 Okay. 1579 01:21:46,276 --> 01:21:48,546 Do you understand what I'm saying? All I'm telling you, honey, 1580 01:21:48,570 --> 01:21:50,757 is keep your eye on God, that's all I want you to understand. 1581 01:21:50,781 --> 01:21:53,455 I understand that, it's just that I'm so tired of getting hurt. 1582 01:21:53,617 --> 01:21:56,461 I thought he was the one, I was praying he was the one. 1583 01:21:56,620 --> 01:21:59,339 You was praying that the married man was the one for you? 1584 01:22:01,041 --> 01:22:04,321 You really have been eating the fruit of the ignorant-ass tree, right there, honey. 1585 01:22:09,800 --> 01:22:11,598 I never heard it out loud like that. 1586 01:22:11,677 --> 01:22:14,447 Yeah, that's the problem with a lot of people, they don't say stuff out loud 1587 01:22:14,471 --> 01:22:16,616 so they can hear. You need to hear stuff said out loud. 1588 01:22:16,640 --> 01:22:17,951 You can't pray that a married man... 1589 01:22:17,975 --> 01:22:20,478 God does things in decency and in order. 1590 01:22:20,811 --> 01:22:23,405 God don't hook you up with somebody that's already hooked up. 1591 01:22:26,483 --> 01:22:28,461 And let me tell you, you got to be careful with them people, honey, 1592 01:22:28,485 --> 01:22:30,362 that you meet that are already married. 1593 01:22:30,487 --> 01:22:32,298 I don't care if it's a woman, a man, whatever, 1594 01:22:32,322 --> 01:22:34,551 if you meet somebody that's in a relationship, married, altogether, 1595 01:22:34,575 --> 01:22:37,929 you got to be careful with them, 'cause they are thieves and they don't even know it. 1596 01:22:37,953 --> 01:22:39,421 - Thieves? - They are thieves. 1597 01:22:39,496 --> 01:22:43,000 They have come to steal the best thing that God has given you. 1598 01:22:43,542 --> 01:22:44,543 Your youth. 1599 01:22:45,669 --> 01:22:50,015 You'll be hooked up in a relationship with them for 15, 20 years, 1600 01:22:50,257 --> 01:22:52,760 and realize you missed the best days of your life. 1601 01:22:53,302 --> 01:22:56,772 'Cause in your 20s you think that's cute. "Yeah, he married, but it's all right. 1602 01:22:56,847 --> 01:23:00,522 "He on my... I got my list. And he got everything I need on my list. 1603 01:23:00,976 --> 01:23:03,016 "He's tall, he's handsome, he makes this much money. 1604 01:23:03,061 --> 01:23:04,938 "We gonna get us a nice house in the suburbs. 1605 01:23:05,022 --> 01:23:07,000 "We gonna live in Buckhead, then we're going to Alpharetta, 1606 01:23:07,024 --> 01:23:08,150 "we gonna go over here." 1607 01:23:08,233 --> 01:23:10,611 You have your list, your five-page list. 1608 01:23:11,278 --> 01:23:12,450 When you're in your 20s. 1609 01:23:13,489 --> 01:23:16,663 You get in your 30s, you start playing scratch off with that list. 1610 01:23:20,204 --> 01:23:24,425 By the time you get to them 40s and 50s, that five page list has become five words. 1611 01:23:24,583 --> 01:23:25,584 What? 1612 01:23:26,001 --> 01:23:27,469 "Just let him be breathing." 1613 01:23:29,421 --> 01:23:30,690 - That's five. - Do you understand? 1614 01:23:30,714 --> 01:23:31,806 Yes, ma'am. 1615 01:23:31,882 --> 01:23:33,725 Do you hear what I'm telling you? 1616 01:23:34,635 --> 01:23:37,684 You got to understand that, honey. You can't let people... 1617 01:23:37,763 --> 01:23:41,393 Nothing sadder to me than to see a 50-year-old woman in the club. 1618 01:23:43,769 --> 01:23:46,238 Down at the end of the bar, with the same dress on 1619 01:23:46,480 --> 01:23:48,733 that the 20-year-old got on at the other end of the bar. 1620 01:23:49,691 --> 01:23:50,793 Talking about, "I still got it." 1621 01:23:50,817 --> 01:23:53,320 No, you don't. Time to go home, honey. Go home. 1622 01:23:54,404 --> 01:23:55,872 But, look, I don't judge her. 1623 01:23:56,323 --> 01:23:59,418 'Cause somebody stole something from her and she's trying to get it back. 1624 01:23:59,493 --> 01:24:02,733 Somebody stole the best years of her life and she's still trying to hold on to it. 1625 01:24:02,871 --> 01:24:04,168 - Do you understand? - Yes, yes. 1626 01:24:04,248 --> 01:24:06,626 That's why you can't let people steal stuff from you, honey. 1627 01:24:06,708 --> 01:24:08,426 Them people are thieves. 1628 01:24:08,919 --> 01:24:11,468 You got to do better than that in your own life. You hear me? 1629 01:24:11,755 --> 01:24:13,257 I hear you. I just... 1630 01:24:13,382 --> 01:24:16,636 I'm here and I see these people and it makes me nervous. 1631 01:24:16,760 --> 01:24:18,320 I'm scared I'm gonna be just like them. 1632 01:24:18,387 --> 01:24:20,264 I know, 'cause you look at your life sometimes 1633 01:24:20,389 --> 01:24:23,469 and it looks like you got more years behind you than you have in front of you. 1634 01:24:23,517 --> 01:24:24,860 And it's a scary time. 1635 01:24:24,935 --> 01:24:27,247 And a lot of folk go through it, more women go through it than men. 1636 01:24:27,271 --> 01:24:28,873 Where they get to the point where they realize 1637 01:24:28,897 --> 01:24:30,337 they don't have everything they had. 1638 01:24:30,566 --> 01:24:32,126 They don't have the love that they wanted, 1639 01:24:32,150 --> 01:24:33,527 they're not married yet, 1640 01:24:33,610 --> 01:24:36,256 but they got money, got the house, got the career, got all that stuff, 1641 01:24:36,280 --> 01:24:37,497 but they don't have the love. 1642 01:24:37,739 --> 01:24:39,379 And that's a scary place to find yourself 1643 01:24:39,449 --> 01:24:41,261 especially when you're looking at getting older. 1644 01:24:41,285 --> 01:24:42,912 But you have to understand something, 1645 01:24:42,995 --> 01:24:46,215 sometimes being alone does not necessarily mean being lonely. 1646 01:24:46,623 --> 01:24:48,091 You hear me? 1647 01:24:48,542 --> 01:24:50,544 You have to learn how to be by yourself, 1648 01:24:50,627 --> 01:24:53,756 and sometimes God will leave you by yourself 1649 01:24:53,839 --> 01:24:56,718 until you learn how to be by yourself. 1650 01:24:57,801 --> 01:25:00,179 'Cause, see, if you ain't ready to be by yourself, 1651 01:25:00,262 --> 01:25:02,685 then people will really make a fool out of you. 1652 01:25:02,764 --> 01:25:04,404 'Cause if you don't know how to be alone, 1653 01:25:04,474 --> 01:25:06,943 people will be able to run any kind of game on you they want. 1654 01:25:07,019 --> 01:25:08,955 'Cause they can threaten you by walking out the door. 1655 01:25:08,979 --> 01:25:11,379 - Right, right. - "If you don't do this, I'm going to leave." 1656 01:25:11,690 --> 01:25:13,626 "if you don't deal with this, I'm going to leave." 1657 01:25:13,650 --> 01:25:14,711 - You understand? - I understand. 1658 01:25:14,735 --> 01:25:17,088 And there's a lot of people, there's a lot of women who're like, 1659 01:25:17,112 --> 01:25:18,580 "Okay, well, please don't leave." 1660 01:25:18,655 --> 01:25:20,123 To the hell with that. 1661 01:25:21,491 --> 01:25:23,595 You better not tell me you'd leave because I would've packed 1662 01:25:23,619 --> 01:25:25,997 before you get, "I'm lea..." out of your mouth. 1663 01:25:27,414 --> 01:25:30,588 There'll be a cab outside waiting on you, do you hear me? 1664 01:25:30,667 --> 01:25:32,214 I got the gift of goodbye. 1665 01:25:32,294 --> 01:25:35,889 I will pack you the hell up so quick your head will spin. 1666 01:25:36,173 --> 01:25:38,234 - Do you hear what I'm telling you? - I hear what you're saying. 1667 01:25:38,258 --> 01:25:40,236 That's what I'm saying to you. You gotta understand it. 1668 01:25:40,260 --> 01:25:41,261 'Cause you can't... 1669 01:25:41,345 --> 01:25:43,973 All these lists and all this stuff about being lonely, 1670 01:25:44,056 --> 01:25:46,951 "Gotta have this," like my aunt, I'm gonna tell you. This is a true story. 1671 01:25:46,975 --> 01:25:49,228 My aunt was in love with this man. 1672 01:25:49,519 --> 01:25:51,362 In love with the man. He was perfect. 1673 01:25:51,438 --> 01:25:54,783 On her list. Everything. But he wasn't no good for her. 1674 01:25:54,858 --> 01:25:57,281 But there was another man she never paid any attention to. 1675 01:25:57,444 --> 01:25:58,504 'Cause he wasn't on the list. 1676 01:25:58,528 --> 01:26:00,747 Everything about the list was wrong with him. 1677 01:26:01,365 --> 01:26:03,367 The list say "tall," he was short. 1678 01:26:05,369 --> 01:26:07,542 The list say "handsome," he was... 1679 01:26:12,376 --> 01:26:14,549 The list say "fit," he was fat. 1680 01:26:15,379 --> 01:26:18,659 And she didn't pay no attention to him, but the man loved her with the purest love, 1681 01:26:18,715 --> 01:26:20,467 she didn't even know how much he loved her. 1682 01:26:20,550 --> 01:26:21,990 And he would just do things for her. 1683 01:26:22,052 --> 01:26:24,225 She had four boys she was raising by herself, 1684 01:26:24,304 --> 01:26:26,147 going to work day and night. 1685 01:26:26,223 --> 01:26:28,146 And he was a watcher. 1686 01:26:28,225 --> 01:26:30,411 When it was raining, he go pick up, 'cause she didn't have a car. 1687 01:26:30,435 --> 01:26:31,704 He went and bought a car, a little raggedy car, 1688 01:26:31,728 --> 01:26:34,290 and left it at the house one day. She was so happy to have that car. 1689 01:26:34,314 --> 01:26:36,292 She thought it got the best gas mileage in the world. 1690 01:26:36,316 --> 01:26:37,960 She didn't know he would come in the middle of the night, 1691 01:26:37,984 --> 01:26:39,104 and just fill it up for her. 1692 01:26:39,778 --> 01:26:40,779 Little things like that. 1693 01:26:40,862 --> 01:26:42,079 She'd work all day, he'd... 1694 01:26:42,155 --> 01:26:44,249 This man loved her purely. 1695 01:26:44,324 --> 01:26:46,177 The man that she was in love with kept breaking her heart. 1696 01:26:46,201 --> 01:26:48,846 One night she got tired and said, "I ain't gonna deal with that no more." 1697 01:26:48,870 --> 01:26:51,919 And her and that man spent some time, they had a beautiful night. 1698 01:26:52,207 --> 01:26:53,247 She fell in love with him. 1699 01:26:53,917 --> 01:26:55,885 Seven years he chased her. 1700 01:26:56,336 --> 01:26:57,588 And he died the next year. 1701 01:26:59,214 --> 01:27:00,636 Wasted all of that time. 1702 01:27:00,716 --> 01:27:03,036 Do you understand how people come to steal things from you? 1703 01:27:03,093 --> 01:27:05,113 Wasted all of that time being hooked up with some fool 1704 01:27:05,137 --> 01:27:06,447 and missed the best man in her life. 1705 01:27:06,471 --> 01:27:08,908 To this day, she'll tell you, "That was the best man in my life." 1706 01:27:08,932 --> 01:27:11,310 - Do you understand? - Wow. Yes, that's sad. 1707 01:27:11,560 --> 01:27:14,359 Yeah, but it's all right, honey. That's why you got to wait on God. 1708 01:27:14,438 --> 01:27:17,863 See, you gotta give up them lists and all of that stuff. 1709 01:27:17,941 --> 01:27:20,364 I notice in Think Like A Man they say, "Make your list," 1710 01:27:20,444 --> 01:27:22,764 but I don't believe you oughta have a list, you understand? 1711 01:27:23,321 --> 01:27:24,882 You gotta get to a point where you just say, 1712 01:27:24,906 --> 01:27:26,874 you know what? Let me explain something to you. 1713 01:27:26,950 --> 01:27:29,169 Whatever you've got for me, God, I'm gonna take it. 1714 01:27:29,244 --> 01:27:32,248 'Cause sometime love don't come the way you want it to come. 1715 01:27:32,330 --> 01:27:33,433 - You hear me? - Yeah, I hear you. 1716 01:27:33,457 --> 01:27:36,051 Sometime love have a hole in the top of the afro. 1717 01:27:42,591 --> 01:27:45,310 Sometime, love don't have a six-pack, it have a done-lap. 1718 01:27:46,136 --> 01:27:47,353 A done-lap? 1719 01:27:47,512 --> 01:27:49,935 Yeah, the belly done lapped over the belt. 1720 01:27:55,645 --> 01:27:57,522 - Wow. - You gotta get it the way it come. 1721 01:27:57,606 --> 01:27:59,286 - You understand? - I hear you. I hear you. 1722 01:27:59,316 --> 01:28:00,626 Let me talk to you about this universe thing. 1723 01:28:00,650 --> 01:28:03,588 'Cause I just started hearing about this universe stuff about 20 years ago, 1724 01:28:03,612 --> 01:28:05,590 before that I ain't never heard nothing about this universe. 1725 01:28:05,614 --> 01:28:08,242 This thing is scaring me 'cause people take the Bible 1726 01:28:08,325 --> 01:28:10,578 and they mix it up with a little this and a little that, 1727 01:28:10,660 --> 01:28:12,305 and they mix up this and they mix up that. 1728 01:28:12,329 --> 01:28:14,002 Before you know it, you all confused. 1729 01:28:14,164 --> 01:28:15,349 They've got Christians walking around, 1730 01:28:15,373 --> 01:28:17,643 talking about the universe all mixed up with all this stuff. 1731 01:28:17,667 --> 01:28:19,795 Don't even know that they're on a whole other path. 1732 01:28:20,504 --> 01:28:22,523 Don't even know that you're off base with what the Bible say, 1733 01:28:22,547 --> 01:28:25,485 because you're over there talking about the universe and all this other stuff. 1734 01:28:25,509 --> 01:28:27,153 'Cause I don't understand. I ain't reading nowhere 1735 01:28:27,177 --> 01:28:28,817 where the universe was nailed to a cross. 1736 01:28:29,596 --> 01:28:32,200 And I don't know why you would sit around worshipping the universe, 1737 01:28:32,224 --> 01:28:35,694 when you can worship the creator of the universe. Do you hear me? 1738 01:28:38,480 --> 01:28:40,073 That's all I'm saying to you, honey. 1739 01:28:40,357 --> 01:28:41,654 - I understand. - You hear me? 1740 01:28:42,025 --> 01:28:44,337 Go back to what you know. Go back to what worked for your mama, 1741 01:28:44,361 --> 01:28:47,456 and your grandmama, and great-granddad, grandpa. That was Jesus. 1742 01:28:47,531 --> 01:28:49,579 They was up all night calling on the name of Jesus, 1743 01:28:49,658 --> 01:28:51,010 walking the floor, praying for you, 1744 01:28:51,034 --> 01:28:52,957 laying hands on you in the middle of the night. 1745 01:28:53,036 --> 01:28:54,834 When you got sick, they was calling on Jesus. 1746 01:28:54,913 --> 01:28:56,516 They had the prayer meetings in the house. 1747 01:28:56,540 --> 01:28:58,518 There ain't nothing wrong with that name, it still works. 1748 01:28:58,542 --> 01:29:00,561 He ain't gotten away from us, we getting away from him. 1749 01:29:00,585 --> 01:29:02,087 Do you hear what I'm telling you? 1750 01:29:02,170 --> 01:29:03,171 Yes, ma'am. 1751 01:29:03,547 --> 01:29:06,141 You got to get rid of that, honey. You got to go back to church. 1752 01:29:06,216 --> 01:29:08,528 You got to go back to what you know. You got to go back to your roots. 1753 01:29:08,552 --> 01:29:09,553 Go back to church. 1754 01:29:09,636 --> 01:29:12,856 I ain't going, but you go right on up in there and have yourself a good time. 1755 01:29:13,014 --> 01:29:14,061 Now, wait a minute. 1756 01:29:14,140 --> 01:29:16,744 Now, you just said all of that about me going to church and you won't go? 1757 01:29:16,768 --> 01:29:19,942 No, not till they get a smoking section and a bar up in there. I'm not going. 1758 01:29:20,021 --> 01:29:21,113 - In the church? - Yes. 1759 01:29:21,189 --> 01:29:23,533 You all have a communion, I'm having Patron. What's up. 1760 01:29:27,737 --> 01:29:29,205 I don't think that's gonna happen. 1761 01:29:29,406 --> 01:29:30,828 I don't think I'm going. 1762 01:29:32,450 --> 01:29:34,595 - You hear what I'm telling you? - I do hear what you're saying. 1763 01:29:34,619 --> 01:29:37,498 You've given me a lot to think about and I'm gonna pray about it. 1764 01:29:37,706 --> 01:29:39,174 You gonna pray about it to who? 1765 01:29:39,374 --> 01:29:42,423 - To Jesus. - Praise God. Hallelujah. 1766 01:29:42,919 --> 01:29:44,313 - Wow. - You got to do something nice for people, 1767 01:29:44,337 --> 01:29:46,023 that's why I came here up here to talk to you. 1768 01:29:46,047 --> 01:29:47,549 - Thank you so much. - You so welcome. 1769 01:29:47,632 --> 01:29:48,985 You gotta do something nice. Now do something nice. 1770 01:29:49,009 --> 01:29:51,009 Go on, sign the papers so I can get on out of here. 1771 01:29:52,596 --> 01:29:55,896 - Just a little while longer. - You're so by the book. Lord. 1772 01:29:55,974 --> 01:29:58,568 - But thank you, though. - You're very welcome, honey. 1773 01:30:11,323 --> 01:30:13,417 I hurt my head. I walked into the wall. 1774 01:30:25,378 --> 01:30:26,630 Can you feel that? 1775 01:30:28,006 --> 01:30:29,758 There's air on your head. 1776 01:30:30,967 --> 01:30:33,390 See, now go on up in there and shut her down, son. 1777 01:30:33,470 --> 01:30:36,866 Walk up in there. You tell this woman... I've already tilled the soil for you, she ready. 1778 01:30:36,890 --> 01:30:38,159 - All right. - All you gotta do is walk up in there 1779 01:30:38,183 --> 01:30:39,856 and say, "Look here, baby. We going out." 1780 01:30:43,396 --> 01:30:45,490 You can do it. You can do it. 1781 01:31:00,622 --> 01:31:02,044 Ms. Carla. 1782 01:31:07,087 --> 01:31:09,715 I came here this evening 1783 01:31:09,798 --> 01:31:12,551 to ask you if you would allow me 1784 01:31:12,634 --> 01:31:14,807 to take you out for an evening of pleasure. 1785 01:31:15,929 --> 01:31:19,684 So that I might treat you exactly the way that a woman should be treated. 1786 01:31:21,685 --> 01:31:23,062 Now, what do you say? 1787 01:31:25,063 --> 01:31:27,691 I don't know what to say. 1788 01:31:27,774 --> 01:31:29,026 Ms. Carla... 1789 01:31:29,943 --> 01:31:35,791 Why are you settling to be all alone 1790 01:31:35,865 --> 01:31:39,961 When I'm right here waiting for you 1791 01:31:40,036 --> 01:31:47,011 Tell me why you keep pushing me away 1792 01:31:49,254 --> 01:31:52,804 When I'm right here for you 1793 01:31:52,882 --> 01:31:59,857 Lady, just run, run to me 1794 01:32:01,016 --> 01:32:05,817 I'll take care of you 1795 01:32:05,895 --> 01:32:11,902 Lady, run, run to me 1796 01:32:14,112 --> 01:32:21,087 I'm right here for you, girl 1797 01:32:21,703 --> 01:32:27,631 Now I know you probably don't believe in love sometimes 1798 01:32:28,251 --> 01:32:34,429 You've got a right to think that love is blind 1799 01:32:34,632 --> 01:32:40,105 But all I ask is that you open your heart to me 1800 01:32:40,180 --> 01:32:43,184 Take a chance on me 1801 01:32:43,266 --> 01:32:50,275 I'm begging you, begging you Begging you, please 1802 01:32:50,607 --> 01:32:56,705 Run, run to me 1803 01:32:56,780 --> 01:33:02,878 I'll take care of you, baby, baby 1804 01:33:02,952 --> 01:33:06,252 I'm down on my knees Begging you, please 1805 01:33:06,331 --> 01:33:09,460 59991719 you, begging you, begging you 59991719 you, please 1806 01:33:09,542 --> 01:33:15,220 Let me, let me take care of you 1807 01:33:15,298 --> 01:33:17,141 Once 1808 01:33:25,642 --> 01:33:32,571 You ain't gotta worry about nothing baby, baby, baby, baby 1809 01:33:38,988 --> 01:33:40,257 Now, Ms. Carla, will you allow me... 1810 01:33:40,281 --> 01:33:41,533 Yes. 1811 01:33:44,494 --> 01:33:47,498 Yes. I would like that very much. 1812 01:33:47,747 --> 01:33:49,920 All right. Very good. 1813 01:33:49,999 --> 01:33:51,751 God, you work fast. 1814 01:33:53,670 --> 01:33:55,672 The wedding was beautiful, Mom. 1815 01:33:56,714 --> 01:33:58,887 I wish you could've been there. 1816 01:34:00,969 --> 01:34:02,516 I miss you, Mom. 1817 01:34:05,849 --> 01:34:07,726 Did you come to take me home? 1818 01:34:08,852 --> 01:34:10,445 You're talking today. 1819 01:34:10,520 --> 01:34:12,363 Yes, did you come to take me home? 1820 01:34:12,480 --> 01:34:14,778 No, Mama, you gotta stay here. 1821 01:34:14,858 --> 01:34:18,283 I can't take care of you. With my job, and the kids and... 1822 01:34:18,361 --> 01:34:20,739 And Frank is off in Afghanistan. I can't. 1823 01:34:20,905 --> 01:34:22,077 I want to go home. 1824 01:34:22,365 --> 01:34:24,117 I know, but this is your home now. 1825 01:34:24,200 --> 01:34:25,577 I don't like it here. 1826 01:34:26,161 --> 01:34:28,914 I know, but this is the best that I could do. 1827 01:34:29,581 --> 01:34:31,629 Fine. The water is on. 1828 01:34:31,708 --> 01:34:34,257 No, Mama, please don't go. Please stay with me. 1829 01:34:34,335 --> 01:34:35,882 Stay with me. How are you? 1830 01:34:36,337 --> 01:34:39,056 I'm fine. It just gets chilly here at night. 1831 01:34:39,174 --> 01:34:41,893 I'll be sure they bring you more blankets then, okay? 1832 01:34:42,343 --> 01:34:43,845 Thank you, nurse. 1833 01:34:44,596 --> 01:34:46,064 Mom, I'm Sue Ellen. 1834 01:34:46,139 --> 01:34:47,186 Who? 1835 01:34:47,265 --> 01:34:49,108 Mom, I'm Sue Ellen, you know me. 1836 01:34:49,184 --> 01:34:51,061 Please remember me. Look at me. You know me. 1837 01:34:51,561 --> 01:34:52,562 Where are your brothers? 1838 01:34:52,645 --> 01:34:54,192 They're busy, Mama. 1839 01:34:54,522 --> 01:34:57,401 Well, fine then. I won't play with you or your toys anymore, Carol. 1840 01:34:58,067 --> 01:35:00,115 Mom, Carol is your sister. 1841 01:35:00,945 --> 01:35:02,071 That figures. 1842 01:35:02,572 --> 01:35:04,666 I love you. Do you hear me? 1843 01:35:04,824 --> 01:35:06,701 Are we in Hawaii at the beach house? 1844 01:35:07,118 --> 01:35:08,290 No, Mama. 1845 01:35:09,662 --> 01:35:11,209 I hear her talking. 1846 01:35:11,664 --> 01:35:15,168 She talks sometimes, but she doesn't know who I am or that I'm here. 1847 01:35:15,710 --> 01:35:17,712 This is so hard. I need her in my life. 1848 01:35:17,795 --> 01:35:20,298 I just want to talk with her and I want her to talk to me. 1849 01:35:21,674 --> 01:35:23,051 Why? 1850 01:35:25,595 --> 01:35:27,268 Because I love her. 1851 01:35:27,722 --> 01:35:29,565 This old selfish woman? 1852 01:35:29,933 --> 01:35:31,401 She wasn't selfish. 1853 01:35:31,476 --> 01:35:32,773 She had to be selfish. 1854 01:35:32,936 --> 01:35:34,609 No, she wasn't selfish at all. 1855 01:35:35,188 --> 01:35:38,909 You mean, this woman would give of herself to other people? 1856 01:35:38,983 --> 01:35:40,701 Yes, all the time. 1857 01:35:41,110 --> 01:35:43,659 Well, y'all must not have had no good memories at all, not one. 1858 01:35:43,947 --> 01:35:46,450 Yes, we did. We had great memories. 1859 01:35:46,699 --> 01:35:48,542 - And she was a good woman? - Yes. 1860 01:35:48,618 --> 01:35:50,179 When she was in her right mind, she was a good woman, 1861 01:35:50,203 --> 01:35:52,126 she wasn't selfish and all of that stuff? 1862 01:35:52,205 --> 01:35:53,627 Yes. 1863 01:35:54,415 --> 01:35:56,133 I thought she was selfish as hell. 1864 01:35:56,292 --> 01:35:57,384 Why? 1865 01:35:57,460 --> 01:35:58,507 'Cause of you. 1866 01:35:58,586 --> 01:36:00,384 - Me? - Yeah. 1867 01:36:00,463 --> 01:36:02,807 'Cause you sit here 10, 12 hours a day. 1868 01:36:04,425 --> 01:36:08,521 Only a selfish person would want you sitting here all this time like this, honey. 1869 01:36:08,596 --> 01:36:10,690 - You understand what I'm trying to tell you? - Yeah. 1870 01:36:10,974 --> 01:36:13,147 This woman, hear me good when I say this, 1871 01:36:13,226 --> 01:36:15,829 if this were me, I would not want my daughter sitting here all this time. 1872 01:36:15,853 --> 01:36:18,697 You got children to raise. You got a whole life to live. 1873 01:36:18,773 --> 01:36:21,572 And anybody who loved you would not want you doing this to yourself. 1874 01:36:21,693 --> 01:36:22,910 I know, but it's hard. 1875 01:36:22,986 --> 01:36:24,954 I understand that, but you know what's unfair? 1876 01:36:25,029 --> 01:36:27,202 For you to reduce her life to this moment. 1877 01:36:27,740 --> 01:36:30,660 You're looking at the end, honey. You gotta remember the whole total life. 1878 01:36:30,994 --> 01:36:32,763 You gotta remember all the joy and all the peace. 1879 01:36:32,787 --> 01:36:36,132 You gotta give each one of them the same amount of energy, you understand? 1880 01:36:36,207 --> 01:36:38,710 You can't just reduce it to this moment. 1881 01:36:39,669 --> 01:36:41,647 This woman, if she wasn't selfish, she wouldn't want that. 1882 01:36:41,671 --> 01:36:43,594 I know I wouldn't want Cora to sit here. 1883 01:36:43,673 --> 01:36:46,847 First of all, Cora ain't gonna sit here all this time like this. 1884 01:36:47,176 --> 01:36:50,430 Unless there's a snack machine up under that bed, Cora ain't gonna do that. 1885 01:36:52,307 --> 01:36:54,025 It's good to see you smile, honey. 1886 01:36:54,350 --> 01:36:56,648 - Thank you. - But you gotta learn how to start to let go. 1887 01:36:57,020 --> 01:36:58,192 How do I let go? 1888 01:36:58,271 --> 01:36:59,957 Well, you've already started, and I'll tell you how. 1889 01:36:59,981 --> 01:37:02,126 You put her in a nice place where people can take care, 1890 01:37:02,150 --> 01:37:04,837 and they take good care of her here. I've watched them, you understand? 1891 01:37:04,861 --> 01:37:08,048 But you gotta learn how to start to let go. Little by little, that's how you do it. 1892 01:37:08,072 --> 01:37:09,324 Bit by bit. 1893 01:37:09,407 --> 01:37:12,536 Instead of staying 10 hours one day, maybe you'll come and you'll stay nine. 1894 01:37:13,161 --> 01:37:14,959 Then you might relapse and come 12. 1895 01:37:15,038 --> 01:37:17,558 See, you go back and forth when you're going through this kind of stuff. 1896 01:37:17,582 --> 01:37:18,754 You just have to go with it. 1897 01:37:18,833 --> 01:37:20,881 But you got children to raise and a life to live. 1898 01:37:20,960 --> 01:37:23,463 And I'm sure this woman would not want this, honey. 1899 01:37:23,546 --> 01:37:24,923 Let go bit by bit. 1900 01:37:25,048 --> 01:37:26,971 Maybe one day you'll skip a whole day. 1901 01:37:27,050 --> 01:37:28,893 Then you'll find it easier to do. You hear me? 1902 01:37:29,135 --> 01:37:30,307 I hear you. 1903 01:37:30,386 --> 01:37:31,854 Well, it's good she's loved. 1904 01:37:31,929 --> 01:37:34,658 A lot of folk don't have people to love them at this part in their life. 1905 01:37:34,682 --> 01:37:36,452 So it's good that she's loved and good you're here for her. 1906 01:37:36,476 --> 01:37:38,954 That don't mean that you don't love her, 'cause you ain't here. 1907 01:37:38,978 --> 01:37:40,446 - You hear me? - I hear you. 1908 01:37:40,521 --> 01:37:41,522 Forgive yourself, honey. 1909 01:37:41,606 --> 01:37:43,584 You keep talking about, "I want this. I want... I... 1910 01:37:43,608 --> 01:37:45,736 That's about you, that ain't about her. 1911 01:37:46,027 --> 01:37:47,870 - You understand? - I understand. 1912 01:37:47,945 --> 01:37:49,288 Okay. 1913 01:37:49,489 --> 01:37:50,490 All right, hon. 1914 01:37:50,573 --> 01:37:51,916 - Madea? - Yes. 1915 01:37:52,158 --> 01:37:54,126 Will you please say a prayer before you go? 1916 01:37:56,162 --> 01:37:58,540 Girl, you ain't seen none of my DVDs, have you? 1917 01:38:11,427 --> 01:38:13,475 Okay, I got to get out of here. Time for me to go. 1918 01:38:13,554 --> 01:38:14,646 Okay. 1919 01:38:14,722 --> 01:38:15,741 - Y'all going out? - Yes, ma'am. 1920 01:38:15,765 --> 01:38:17,485 - Okay, good. Enjoy yourselves. - Thank you. 1921 01:38:17,558 --> 01:38:18,911 - Thank you so much. - And thank you, 1922 01:38:18,935 --> 01:38:20,562 and feel free to volunteer anytime. 1923 01:38:20,645 --> 01:38:23,694 And feel free to hear me saying, "Hell, no." 1924 01:38:23,940 --> 01:38:25,613 I'll teach you how to get that note. 1925 01:38:25,775 --> 01:38:26,992 Where's he at? 1926 01:38:27,068 --> 01:38:28,240 Hey, son. 1927 01:38:28,361 --> 01:38:29,801 Man, you think I'm playing with you? 1928 01:38:29,862 --> 01:38:31,507 Look, I told you not to call my job again. 1929 01:38:31,531 --> 01:38:33,092 - I didn't call your job. - Yeah, you did. 1930 01:38:33,116 --> 01:38:34,556 Does my job look like a joke to you? 1931 01:38:34,617 --> 01:38:36,290 I got a family to take care of 1932 01:38:36,369 --> 01:38:38,713 that I refuse to neglect, like you did to me and my mama. 1933 01:38:38,788 --> 01:38:40,432 - Son, I didn't call your job. - Yes, you did. 1934 01:38:40,456 --> 01:38:42,424 - No, I didn't. - My boss said that you called 1935 01:38:42,583 --> 01:38:44,881 and asked me to bring you some... 1936 01:38:44,961 --> 01:38:46,804 - Cereal. - What? 1937 01:38:53,386 --> 01:38:54,854 Hattie? 1938 01:38:55,179 --> 01:38:56,271 You ain't asleep. 1939 01:38:57,765 --> 01:38:59,493 You call that boy's job and asked for cereal? 1940 01:38:59,517 --> 01:39:01,645 So what? He got money. 1941 01:39:01,727 --> 01:39:03,038 What did you say when you called him? 1942 01:39:03,062 --> 01:39:04,985 Bring home a box of cereal, please. 1943 01:39:05,940 --> 01:39:07,988 Hey, son. Son! 1944 01:39:08,526 --> 01:39:09,698 Son... 1945 01:39:10,069 --> 01:39:11,070 Let me ask you something, 1946 01:39:11,154 --> 01:39:13,257 did you know what was going on with this man and your mama? 1947 01:39:13,281 --> 01:39:14,675 No, ma'am. I just know he wasn't there. 1948 01:39:14,699 --> 01:39:16,385 Wasn't there for you. Is this what you want? 1949 01:39:16,409 --> 01:39:18,286 - You stand up. This what you want? - No. 1950 01:39:18,369 --> 01:39:19,996 - Is this what you want? - No, ma'am. 1951 01:39:20,079 --> 01:39:22,081 This boy need to be with his baby. 1952 01:39:22,790 --> 01:39:25,018 You having trouble with that woman, that won't even talk to her, 1953 01:39:25,042 --> 01:39:27,090 but you and that baby mama are adults. 1954 01:39:27,170 --> 01:39:28,922 Act like y'all got some damn sense. 1955 01:39:29,005 --> 01:39:30,632 Call each other and have a conversation 1956 01:39:30,715 --> 01:39:32,592 so that this man can spend time with his child. 1957 01:39:32,800 --> 01:39:35,098 Every man need to be with their child. Do you understand? 1958 01:39:35,178 --> 01:39:37,739 That ain't got nothing to do with... You don't want that child growing up 1959 01:39:37,763 --> 01:39:41,643 'cause you can't be adult enough to let him spend some time with his daddy. 1960 01:39:41,726 --> 01:39:43,328 You don't want him growing up with that on his mind, 1961 01:39:43,352 --> 01:39:45,664 thinking his daddy didn't want him 'cause of you. Do you understand? 1962 01:39:45,688 --> 01:39:48,783 It's unfair for him to have to make a choice between you and his child. 1963 01:39:48,858 --> 01:39:51,658 That's all I'm going to say to you. That's all I got to say about that. 1964 01:39:53,404 --> 01:39:54,951 Now, you. 1965 01:39:56,032 --> 01:39:57,955 - This man wasn't there for you? - No. 1966 01:39:58,034 --> 01:39:59,081 - Never? - Never. 1967 01:39:59,160 --> 01:40:00,554 - Your mama raised you? - Yes, she did. 1968 01:40:00,578 --> 01:40:02,014 - How's your life? - My life is great. 1969 01:40:02,038 --> 01:40:03,432 - Got a good job? - I have a great job. 1970 01:40:03,456 --> 01:40:04,799 Got a great job. You married? 1971 01:40:04,874 --> 01:40:06,268 Yes, ma'am, I am, and I have a son. 1972 01:40:06,292 --> 01:40:07,895 - Yeah? You're a good father? - I'm a great father. 1973 01:40:07,919 --> 01:40:09,229 - Good husband? - I'm a great husband. 1974 01:40:09,253 --> 01:40:10,647 - So your mama was good to you? - She was great. 1975 01:40:10,671 --> 01:40:11,732 - Took you to church? - Yes, ma'am. 1976 01:40:11,756 --> 01:40:12,816 - You're saved? - Yes, I am. 1977 01:40:12,840 --> 01:40:13,966 Why are you mad? 1978 01:40:17,637 --> 01:40:18,638 That's what I wanna know. 1979 01:40:18,721 --> 01:40:20,324 You can see there's a little scripture in the Bible say, 1980 01:40:20,348 --> 01:40:22,817 "All things work together for the good of them that love 1981 01:40:22,892 --> 01:40:24,453 "the Lord and are called according to his purpose." 1982 01:40:24,477 --> 01:40:26,371 You know what that mean? Everything that you been through 1983 01:40:26,395 --> 01:40:27,581 will work together for your good. 1984 01:40:27,605 --> 01:40:29,152 Everything, if you let it. 1985 01:40:29,232 --> 01:40:30,992 Everything will work together for your good. 1986 01:40:31,067 --> 01:40:33,616 If you call and love the Lord. Do you hear what I'm telling? 1987 01:40:33,736 --> 01:40:36,034 Do you hear what I'm saying to you, son? Everything. 1988 01:40:36,113 --> 01:40:38,473 You ever thought maybe this man wasn't supposed to be there? 1989 01:40:38,783 --> 01:40:41,428 If he had been in your life, you might have turned out to be somebody else. 1990 01:40:41,452 --> 01:40:43,420 But because he wasn't, look how you turned out. 1991 01:40:43,496 --> 01:40:46,045 God had you covered, son. This is what I want you to understand. 1992 01:40:47,250 --> 01:40:49,290 Ain't no sense in you sitting around here being mad. 1993 01:40:49,335 --> 01:40:51,337 This man taught you everything you needed to know. 1994 01:40:51,420 --> 01:40:53,514 You know how he taught you? In reverse. 1995 01:40:55,424 --> 01:40:58,018 You do the opposite of what he did and you have your answers. 1996 01:40:58,094 --> 01:40:59,574 Do you hear what the hell I'm saying? 1997 01:41:01,806 --> 01:41:03,575 And you should have been there, you should have been there. 1998 01:41:03,599 --> 01:41:04,660 See, a lot of times you go out there. 1999 01:41:04,684 --> 01:41:07,538 You doing all that whoring around and playing around doing this and doing that 2000 01:41:07,562 --> 01:41:08,956 and then you grow up and you get old. 2001 01:41:08,980 --> 01:41:10,903 And you're wondering why you there by yourself. 2002 01:41:10,982 --> 01:41:12,209 'Cause you weren't there for your child. 2003 01:41:12,233 --> 01:41:14,920 Now you got one foot in the grave and you're trying to make some peace. 2004 01:41:14,944 --> 01:41:17,089 And it's up to him whether he want to give you the peace or not, 2005 01:41:17,113 --> 01:41:18,131 but, son, let me tell you something. 2006 01:41:18,155 --> 01:41:20,275 If you want to get even with this man, be nice to him. 2007 01:41:21,284 --> 01:41:24,429 I'm telling you, if you really want to mess somebody up that done did you wrong, 2008 01:41:24,453 --> 01:41:26,501 be nice to them, show them some kindness. 2009 01:41:26,581 --> 01:41:28,128 They don't know how to handle it. 2010 01:41:28,207 --> 01:41:31,962 It's like putting hot coals on their head. They can't sleep at night. Do you hear me? 2011 01:41:32,628 --> 01:41:33,908 It's going to be all right, son. 2012 01:41:34,088 --> 01:41:35,089 Talk to this man. 2013 01:41:35,172 --> 01:41:37,095 'Cause you'll be a fool if you don't. 2014 01:41:37,466 --> 01:41:38,718 You spend some time with him. 2015 01:41:38,801 --> 01:41:40,487 He might have something he can share with you. 2016 01:41:40,511 --> 01:41:43,471 Don't give him no money, but he might have something he can share with you. 2017 01:41:43,848 --> 01:41:47,193 You hear me? Something that he can share with you that will help you in the future. 2018 01:41:47,268 --> 01:41:50,363 Your child might end up getting older and in need of some kind of surgery 2019 01:41:50,438 --> 01:41:51,957 or something and you ain't even talked to this man. 2020 01:41:51,981 --> 01:41:55,002 He got the answer 'cause something going on with his father and father before him. 2021 01:41:55,026 --> 01:41:57,796 And he can tell you about it 'cause it's something he might know. Hear me? 2022 01:41:57,820 --> 01:42:00,581 You owe it to yourself to at least have the conversation with the man. 2023 01:42:01,073 --> 01:42:03,927 Now go on up there and talk to him. It ain't gonna kill you to talk to him. 2024 01:42:03,951 --> 01:42:05,846 When you get up there, you know what I want you to tell him? 2025 01:42:05,870 --> 01:42:07,110 The first thing you say to him, 2026 01:42:07,163 --> 01:42:10,667 you say, "Daddy, you gonna take this toupee off your head right now." 2027 01:42:15,838 --> 01:42:18,442 Well, I'm getting ready to get on up out of here. It's been a pleasure. 2028 01:42:18,466 --> 01:42:19,683 I'll see y'all later on. 2029 01:42:19,759 --> 01:42:21,028 - Thank you. - You're very welcome. 2030 01:42:21,052 --> 01:42:22,099 Thank you so much. 2031 01:42:22,219 --> 01:42:23,947 Hey, Hattie, where you going? Where you going? 2032 01:42:23,971 --> 01:42:25,063 I'm going with you. 2033 01:42:25,139 --> 01:42:28,035 I knew that. I knew you gonna try that, Hattie, but let me tell you something. 2034 01:42:28,059 --> 01:42:31,188 I saw when you put your bag in my car and I took it back out the car. 2035 01:42:31,270 --> 01:42:33,749 And I brought it up there, put it under your chifforobe, behind the pillow 2036 01:42:33,773 --> 01:42:35,500 and put your Froot Loops right back up under the bed 2037 01:42:35,524 --> 01:42:36,724 which you been trying to hide. 2038 01:42:36,776 --> 01:42:37,878 Everything is back in your room. 2039 01:42:37,902 --> 01:42:39,338 All your little socks, all your little underwear, 2040 01:42:39,362 --> 01:42:41,256 it's all back up there. So now you can't go with me. 2041 01:42:41,280 --> 01:42:43,508 Yeah, I saw when you did that, so I brought it back down, 2042 01:42:43,532 --> 01:42:46,081 I got my socks and everything, put it back in the bag, 2043 01:42:46,160 --> 01:42:48,879 took it back outside and put it in the car. Now, let's ride. 2044 01:42:50,373 --> 01:42:52,467 All right. No, no. Go ahead. Go on. 2045 01:42:52,541 --> 01:42:53,884 Start the car for me. I'm coming. 2046 01:42:53,959 --> 01:42:55,937 I'm gonna say goodbye. These people have been so nice. 2047 01:42:55,961 --> 01:42:57,241 - Start the car? - Start the car. 2048 01:42:57,296 --> 01:42:58,718 All right. Deuces. 2049 01:43:01,801 --> 01:43:02,802 Look here. 2050 01:43:02,885 --> 01:43:05,138 I parked in the back. I'll see you all later. 2051 01:43:14,063 --> 01:43:15,280 Madam.! 2052 01:43:16,190 --> 01:43:18,318 Madam.! 2053 01:43:18,651 --> 01:43:20,324 Madea. 2054 01:43:21,862 --> 01:43:22,988 Madea. 2055 01:43:23,072 --> 01:43:24,449 Hattie? 2056 01:43:25,783 --> 01:43:26,955 Madea. 2057 01:43:32,623 --> 01:43:34,216 Madea left me. 2058 01:43:35,751 --> 01:43:37,469 That's all right. She'll be back. 2059 01:43:37,545 --> 01:43:39,889 She's gonna need me for one of her drive-bys. 2060 01:43:39,964 --> 01:43:41,011 She'll be back. 2061 01:43:41,757 --> 01:43:44,226 And I'll be right here waiting on her. That's all right. 2062 01:43:44,301 --> 01:43:46,929 That's all right. She'll be back. I'm right here. Come get me. 2063 01:43:48,389 --> 01:43:50,187 Say something. Say anything... 2064 01:43:50,266 --> 01:43:52,689 - Mama. Mama. ...I'll slap the teeth out your mouth. 2065 01:43:54,145 --> 01:43:56,944 Ric Flair, Dusty Rhodes. 2066 01:44:02,945 --> 01:44:04,242 Don't mind. 2067 01:44:06,240 --> 01:44:07,366 Don't worry. 2068 01:44:09,952 --> 01:44:11,374 Rebecca, I love you. 2069 01:44:12,288 --> 01:44:13,961 And I never stopped loving you. 2070 01:44:15,040 --> 01:44:17,042 Mama, I love you, too. 2071 01:44:17,126 --> 01:44:19,345 I mortgaged your house and I am sorry, Mama. 2072 01:44:20,546 --> 01:44:21,968 Mama... 2073 01:44:22,047 --> 01:44:25,551 I know I messed up 2074 01:44:25,801 --> 01:44:30,523 So many times in my past 2075 01:44:30,890 --> 01:44:33,439 But I got my fife together 2076 01:44:33,517 --> 01:44:38,193 Now I'm free at last 2077 01:44:38,814 --> 01:44:41,988 I know you don't believe me 2078 01:44:42,318 --> 01:44:46,414 But I want you to know 2079 01:44:46,489 --> 01:44:50,744 I'm so sorry, Mama 2080 01:44:50,826 --> 01:44:56,959 So please let's go 2081 01:44:57,041 --> 01:45:00,511 I wanna trust you, child 2082 01:45:01,712 --> 01:45:04,215 Really I do 2083 01:45:05,758 --> 01:45:09,137 But it's so hard 2084 01:45:09,929 --> 01:45:13,684 After what we've been through 2085 01:45:14,016 --> 01:45:17,816 But I must tell you 2086 01:45:18,521 --> 01:45:21,525 I'm very proud of you 2087 01:45:21,649 --> 01:45:24,823 One day at a time 2088 01:45:24,902 --> 01:45:29,533 And I promise to trust you 2089 01:45:31,367 --> 01:45:38,376 You're my father and this I know 2090 01:45:39,375 --> 01:45:46,133 But what I've been through You don't care so 2091 01:45:48,384 --> 01:45:51,354 This will be goodbye 2092 01:45:51,428 --> 01:45:55,729 Don't call me, call me again 2093 01:45:55,808 --> 01:46:00,029 I'm sorry you want me here 2094 01:46:00,104 --> 01:46:03,574 But this is the end 2095 01:46:05,609 --> 01:46:12,117 I want to explain how bad I fee! 2096 01:46:13,909 --> 01:46:17,379 The words, they won't come 2097 01:46:17,454 --> 01:46:20,754 But I wish they will 2098 01:46:22,293 --> 01:46:26,014 All I can say 2099 01:46:26,088 --> 01:46:30,013 Is I'm sorry and I hope we're not done 2100 01:46:30,092 --> 01:46:33,687 Son, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry 2101 01:46:33,762 --> 01:46:38,233 Oh, so sorry, son 2102 01:46:40,519 --> 01:46:43,989 I don't want you to live your life 2103 01:46:44,648 --> 01:46:49,745 Worrying about me 2104 01:46:49,820 --> 01:46:52,744 I've enjoyed my time 2105 01:46:53,407 --> 01:46:56,957 Soon I'll be free 2106 01:46:57,953 --> 01:47:04,928 You're so young with your whole life to live 2107 01:47:06,545 --> 01:47:10,300 Go in peace, my child 2108 01:47:10,382 --> 01:47:15,730 To God my soul I give 2109 01:47:15,971 --> 01:47:18,850 If you only knew 2110 01:47:18,933 --> 01:47:23,780 How much I love you 2111 01:47:24,355 --> 01:47:31,330 You wouldn't go astray With me you'll always stay 2112 01:47:33,572 --> 01:47:40,456 I don't want you to not recognize 2113 01:47:42,164 --> 01:47:48,843 I don't want you out of my life 2114 01:47:50,506 --> 01:47:53,931 God, please help me 2115 01:47:54,009 --> 01:47:58,355 Only you can give me what I need 2116 01:47:59,264 --> 01:48:03,110 I've decided to wait for you 2117 01:48:03,185 --> 01:48:07,486 Down on my knees 2118 01:48:08,190 --> 01:48:14,869 No more being outside of your will 2119 01:48:15,531 --> 01:48:20,162 I'm gonna stay right here and wait for you 2120 01:48:20,244 --> 01:48:25,250 My loneliness you'll heat 2121 01:48:26,125 --> 01:48:29,379 I don't want Jesus 2122 01:48:29,461 --> 01:48:34,763 To pass me by, no 2123 01:48:34,842 --> 01:48:41,646 I don't want the Holy Ghost out of my life 2124 01:48:43,392 --> 01:48:49,445 I don't want Jesus to pass me by 2125 01:48:49,523 --> 01:48:51,992 Don't pass me by 2126 01:48:52,067 --> 01:48:54,991 I don't want the Holy Ghost 2127 01:48:55,070 --> 01:48:58,449 Out of my life 2128 01:48:58,532 --> 01:49:02,503 - I don't want Jesus - I don't want Jesus 2129 01:49:02,578 --> 01:49:06,458 - I don't want him to pass me by - To pass me by 2130 01:49:06,540 --> 01:49:09,339 No, I don't want the Holy Ghost 2131 01:49:09,418 --> 01:49:12,388 I don't want the Holy Ghost 2132 01:49:12,463 --> 01:49:15,683 Out of my life 2133 01:49:15,758 --> 01:49:19,979 - I don't want Jesus - I don't want Jesus 2134 01:49:20,054 --> 01:49:23,775 - To pass me by - To pass me by 2135 01:49:24,433 --> 01:49:29,439 - I don't want the Holy Ghost, no, no - I don't want the Holy Ghost, no, no 2136 01:49:29,563 --> 01:49:32,692 Out of my life 2137 01:49:32,775 --> 01:49:36,154 - I don't want Jesus to leave me - I don't want Jesus 2138 01:49:36,236 --> 01:49:41,163 - No, no - To pass me by 2139 01:49:41,241 --> 01:49:44,085 I don't want the Holy Ghost to go 2140 01:49:44,161 --> 01:49:50,635 I don't want the Holy Ghost out of my life 2141 01:49:51,460 --> 01:49:57,968 I don't want Jesus to pass me by 2142 01:50:00,094 --> 01:50:07,023 I don't want the Holy Ghost out of my life 2143 01:50:08,477 --> 01:50:14,484 I don't want Jesus to pass me by 2144 01:50:16,360 --> 01:50:22,208 I don't want the Holy Ghost out of my life 2145 01:50:24,827 --> 01:50:28,001 Jesus, Jesus, Jesus 2146 01:50:29,206 --> 01:50:32,836 Jesus, Jesus 2147 01:50:33,293 --> 01:50:34,293 Jesus 2148 01:50:34,336 --> 01:50:40,218 You're all I need in my heart Holy, holy, holy 2149 01:50:40,300 --> 01:50:43,099 - Thank you for your mercy - Jesus 2150 01:50:43,178 --> 01:50:47,684 - Thank you for your mercy, your mercy - Jesus, Jesus 2151 01:50:47,808 --> 01:50:50,106 Jesus 2152 01:50:50,185 --> 01:50:53,359 Jesus, Jesus 2153 01:51:04,449 --> 01:51:08,670 Introducing the cast and band of Madea Gets a Job. 2154 01:51:08,745 --> 01:51:12,966 Background vocals, LaTayvia Cherry, Zuri Craig and Greg Kirkland. 2155 01:51:13,041 --> 01:51:14,793 On trumpet, Melvin Jones. 2156 01:51:14,877 --> 01:51:16,629 On sax, Michael Burton. 2157 01:51:16,712 --> 01:51:18,714 On trombone, Saunders Sermons. 2158 01:51:18,797 --> 01:51:20,925 On keyboards and organ, Natalie Ragins. 2159 01:51:21,008 --> 01:51:22,806 On guitar, Derek Scott. 2160 01:51:22,885 --> 01:51:24,887 On keyboards, Justin Gilbert. 2161 01:51:24,970 --> 01:51:27,098 On percussion, Darius Fentress. 2162 01:51:27,181 --> 01:51:28,854 On the drums, Marcus Williams. 2163 01:51:28,932 --> 01:51:32,061 On bass and musical director, Ronnie Garrett. 2164 01:51:32,144 --> 01:51:33,691 And now the cast. 2165 01:51:33,770 --> 01:51:36,239 Melonie Daniels-Walker. 2166 01:51:39,985 --> 01:51:43,205 Stephanie Ferrett. 2167 01:51:44,990 --> 01:51:47,118 Alexis Jones. 2168 01:51:50,579 --> 01:51:52,252 Jeffery Lewis. 2169 01:51:55,209 --> 01:51:57,337 Maurice Lauchner. 2170 01:52:00,756 --> 01:52:02,599 Tony Hightower. 2171 01:52:05,427 --> 01:52:07,350 Tamar Davis. 2172 01:52:10,682 --> 01:52:12,184 Tony Grant. 2173 01:52:15,687 --> 01:52:17,405 Patrice Lovely. 2174 01:52:28,784 --> 01:52:30,832 Chandra Currelley-Young. 2175 01:52:38,293 --> 01:52:40,637 Cheryl "Pepsii" Riley. 2176 01:52:45,842 --> 01:52:50,848 And Mr. Tyler Perry! 2177 01:53:05,112 --> 01:53:06,534 Are you ready to go home? 2178 01:53:07,864 --> 01:53:08,990 Band. 2179 01:53:28,176 --> 01:53:30,679 Atlanta, Georgia! Y'all ready to have a good time tonight? 2180 01:53:30,762 --> 01:53:32,480 Come on! 2181 01:53:36,351 --> 01:53:38,729 You make me happy 2182 01:53:40,814 --> 01:53:44,193 This you can bet 2183 01:53:45,485 --> 01:53:48,204 You stood right beside me 2184 01:53:49,614 --> 01:53:52,868 And I won't forget 2185 01:53:54,494 --> 01:53:56,622 I really love you 2186 01:53:58,999 --> 01:54:02,378 You should know 2187 01:54:03,128 --> 01:54:07,224 I'm gonna make sure I'm right, girl 2188 01:54:07,841 --> 01:54:10,515 Before I let go 2189 01:54:10,594 --> 01:54:11,937 Come on! 2190 01:54:13,096 --> 01:54:17,943 You know I thank God Sun rises and shines 2191 01:54:18,018 --> 01:54:21,443 For you 2192 01:54:21,563 --> 01:54:24,066 You know that there's nothing 2193 01:54:24,358 --> 01:54:25,985 Nothing, nothing 2194 01:54:26,068 --> 01:54:29,572 I would not do 2195 01:54:34,951 --> 01:54:40,299 Before I let you go 2196 01:54:46,880 --> 01:54:49,850 I would never, never, never, never 2197 01:54:49,925 --> 01:54:51,518 Never, never, never 2198 01:54:51,593 --> 01:54:53,766 Never let you go 2199 01:54:54,805 --> 01:54:56,523 Thank you. 2200 01:54:57,599 --> 01:55:00,148 Let's slow it down a little bit. 2201 01:55:16,576 --> 01:55:18,578 Tony Hightower. 2202 01:55:19,663 --> 01:55:22,963 Last night 2203 01:55:23,041 --> 01:55:25,635 Me and my woman 2204 01:55:28,296 --> 01:55:31,049 We cried 2205 01:55:31,133 --> 01:55:34,307 Cried together 2206 01:55:35,512 --> 01:55:39,437 Said we cried 2207 01:55:39,516 --> 01:55:41,518 Cried 2208 01:55:41,601 --> 01:55:44,400 We cried 2209 01:55:44,479 --> 01:55:47,983 We cried together 2210 01:55:50,318 --> 01:55:53,288 Oh, oh, oh, baby 2211 01:55:53,363 --> 01:55:57,994 Let me kiss your eyes 2212 01:55:58,535 --> 01:56:02,256 Let me wipe the tears away 2213 01:56:02,330 --> 01:56:06,426 Oh, let me hold you tight 2214 01:56:06,501 --> 01:56:10,005 We'll feel much better 'Cause tomorrow's another day 2215 01:56:10,088 --> 01:56:12,511 Yeah 2216 01:56:13,800 --> 01:56:16,553 Let's dance, baby 2217 01:56:16,636 --> 01:56:21,107 Me and my woman, woman, woman 2218 01:56:21,933 --> 01:56:24,937 We cried 2219 01:56:25,020 --> 01:56:29,070 Cried together, yes 2220 01:56:29,149 --> 01:56:33,074 Said we cried 2221 01:56:33,153 --> 01:56:35,406 Cried, yes 2222 01:56:35,489 --> 01:56:38,208 Cried 2223 01:56:38,366 --> 01:56:40,789 We cried together 2224 01:56:40,869 --> 01:56:44,624 Yes, girl 2225 01:56:47,334 --> 01:56:49,052 Tamar Davis. 2226 01:56:50,003 --> 01:56:52,677 You love me 2227 01:56:52,756 --> 01:56:57,978 Especially different 2228 01:56:58,053 --> 01:57:00,852 Every time 2229 01:57:00,931 --> 01:57:03,434 You keep me 2230 01:57:03,517 --> 01:57:06,145 On my feet 2231 01:57:06,228 --> 01:57:08,196 Happily 2232 01:57:08,271 --> 01:57:11,992 Excited about 2233 01:57:12,067 --> 01:57:14,661 Your cologne 2234 01:57:14,736 --> 01:57:17,285 And your hands 2235 01:57:17,364 --> 01:57:18,991 Your smile 2236 01:57:19,074 --> 01:57:22,294 Your intelligence 2237 01:57:22,369 --> 01:57:24,838 You woo me 2238 01:57:24,913 --> 01:57:27,541 You court me 2239 01:57:27,624 --> 01:57:30,093 You tease me 2240 01:57:30,293 --> 01:57:31,920 You please me 2241 01:57:32,003 --> 01:57:35,007 You school me 2242 01:57:35,090 --> 01:57:40,392 Give me some things to think about Ignite me 2243 01:57:40,470 --> 01:57:43,189 You co-write me 2244 01:57:43,265 --> 01:57:45,734 You love me 2245 01:57:45,809 --> 01:57:48,062 You like me 2246 01:57:48,144 --> 01:57:51,193 You excite me 2247 01:57:51,273 --> 01:57:56,871 You ignite me to chorus 2248 01:58:22,470 --> 01:58:25,064 Cheryl "Pepsii" Riley. 2249 01:58:36,067 --> 01:58:39,537 I don't want nobody 2250 01:58:40,739 --> 01:58:42,992 Always 2251 01:58:45,744 --> 01:58:49,624 Sitting around me and my man 2252 01:58:53,251 --> 01:58:56,130 Said I don't want nobody 2253 01:58:57,881 --> 01:59:01,385 Always 2254 01:59:01,468 --> 01:59:03,391 Sitting right there 2255 01:59:03,470 --> 01:59:05,438 Looking at me 2256 01:59:05,513 --> 01:59:07,686 And that man 2257 01:59:10,226 --> 01:59:12,820 Be it my mother, my brother 2258 01:59:13,355 --> 01:59:15,699 Or my sister 2259 01:59:16,024 --> 01:59:17,367 Would you believe 2260 01:59:17,442 --> 01:59:20,241 I get up, put on some clothes 2261 01:59:20,320 --> 01:59:25,542 Go out and help them find Somebody for themselves 2262 01:59:26,368 --> 01:59:29,918 Don't send me no doctor 2263 01:59:30,622 --> 01:59:32,841 Filling me up with all them pills 2264 01:59:34,542 --> 01:59:37,512 I got me a man named Dr. Feelgood 2265 01:59:37,587 --> 01:59:39,760 Yes I do, y'all 2266 01:59:48,014 --> 01:59:52,611 That man takes care of all of my pains and my ills 2267 01:59:52,769 --> 01:59:57,741 Taking care of business Is really this man's game 2268 02:00:01,194 --> 02:00:04,573 And after one visit to Dr. Feelgood 2269 02:00:04,739 --> 02:00:09,916 You'd understand why Feelgood is his name 2270 02:00:16,710 --> 02:00:20,681 Good God Almighty That man sure makes me feel 2271 02:00:22,132 --> 02:00:27,889 Real good 2272 02:00:59,210 --> 02:01:02,134 Many Say 2273 02:01:02,964 --> 02:01:04,557 That I'm too young 2274 02:01:04,632 --> 02:01:08,011 To let you know just where I'm coming from 2275 02:01:08,094 --> 02:01:13,601 To let you know just where I'm coming from 2276 02:01:14,142 --> 02:01:17,521 But you will see 2277 02:01:17,604 --> 02:01:19,777 It's just a matter of time 2278 02:01:19,856 --> 02:01:23,030 My love will surely make you mine 2279 02:01:23,109 --> 02:01:27,910 My love will surely make you mine 2280 02:01:28,490 --> 02:01:32,461 - Living in a world of ghetto life - Living in a world of ghetto life 2281 02:01:32,535 --> 02:01:36,415 Everyone seems so uptight 2282 02:01:37,499 --> 02:01:41,003 Nothing's wrong and it's AH right with my man 2283 02:01:42,003 --> 02:01:46,304 I like the way we have our fun 2284 02:01:46,382 --> 02:01:49,977 His love keeps me moving on 2285 02:01:50,053 --> 02:01:52,351 BYE, bye 2286 02:01:53,348 --> 02:01:55,567 People out there 2287 02:01:55,642 --> 02:01:58,145 Can't you understand 2288 02:01:58,228 --> 02:02:00,981 I'm just giving him something 2289 02:02:01,064 --> 02:02:04,284 He can feel Yeah, yeah, yeah 2290 02:02:04,359 --> 02:02:07,738 - To let him know this love is real - To let him know 2291 02:02:07,821 --> 02:02:10,165 My love 2292 02:02:10,365 --> 02:02:12,743 My love is real 2293 02:02:13,201 --> 02:02:15,704 I'm just giving him something 2294 02:02:15,995 --> 02:02:17,963 He can remember 2295 02:02:18,039 --> 02:02:22,920 - Yeah, yeah, yeah - To let him know this love is real 2296 02:02:23,002 --> 02:02:25,050 My love is real 2297 02:02:25,129 --> 02:02:27,552 This love is real 2298 02:02:29,008 --> 02:02:31,306 Now let me break it down 2299 02:02:32,887 --> 02:02:36,812 For you real, real, real slow 2300 02:02:36,891 --> 02:02:38,939 I'm givin' my man 2301 02:02:39,018 --> 02:02:43,023 Something he'll never forget 2302 02:02:47,360 --> 02:02:51,581 That was Patrice Lovely. Ms. Alexis Jones. 2303 02:02:57,829 --> 02:03:02,926 Could you believe I believed Everything we had would last 2304 02:03:03,001 --> 02:03:08,849 So young and naive of me to think She was from your past 2305 02:03:08,923 --> 02:03:14,145 Foolish of me to dream Of one day having your kids 2306 02:03:14,345 --> 02:03:19,522 Love is so blind it feels right when it's wrong 2307 02:03:19,601 --> 02:03:23,026 Now that it's over Stop calling me 2308 02:03:23,104 --> 02:03:25,152 Come pick up your clothes 2309 02:03:25,231 --> 02:03:30,613 And no need to front like you're still with me All your homies know 2310 02:03:30,820 --> 02:03:35,997 - And even your very best friend - Tried to warn me on the low 2311 02:03:36,326 --> 02:03:41,628 It took me some time but now Pm strong 2312 02:03:42,582 --> 02:03:45,085 Me, myself and I 2313 02:03:46,377 --> 02:03:48,471 It's when I'm down, down low 2314 02:03:48,546 --> 02:03:49,763 Ain't no need to cry 2315 02:03:49,839 --> 02:03:50,931 HEY 2316 02:03:51,424 --> 02:03:55,930 - I'm gonna be my own best friend - Me, myself and I 2317 02:03:57,305 --> 02:03:59,182 It's when I'm down, down low 2318 02:03:59,265 --> 02:04:00,562 Ain't no need to cry 2319 02:04:00,642 --> 02:04:02,144 HEY 2320 02:04:02,226 --> 02:04:05,400 I'm gonna be my own best friend 2321 02:04:05,480 --> 02:04:07,528 Me, myself and I 2322 02:04:07,607 --> 02:04:12,363 You see I cried a thousand times 2323 02:04:12,487 --> 02:04:16,287 All the time I spent with you 2324 02:04:18,409 --> 02:04:22,004 You can hurt me but I learned a lot along the way 2325 02:04:31,923 --> 02:04:34,142 On a perfect day 2326 02:04:35,176 --> 02:04:38,350 I know that I can count on you 2327 02:04:41,474 --> 02:04:43,852 When that's not possible 2328 02:04:44,727 --> 02:04:47,856 Tell me can you weather a storm? 2329 02:04:49,983 --> 02:04:56,207 'Cause I need somebody Who will stand by me 2330 02:04:56,447 --> 02:04:59,621 Through the good times and bad times 2331 02:04:59,701 --> 02:05:02,705 She will always 2332 02:05:03,162 --> 02:05:06,291 Always be right there 2333 02:05:06,374 --> 02:05:09,218 Sunny days 2334 02:05:09,419 --> 02:05:11,842 Everybody knows them 2335 02:05:11,921 --> 02:05:16,802 Tell me, baby, can you stand the rain? 2336 02:05:19,137 --> 02:05:21,936 Storms will come 2337 02:05:22,015 --> 02:05:25,485 - This we know for sure - This we know for sure 2338 02:05:25,560 --> 02:05:29,235 Can you stand the rain? 2339 02:05:32,817 --> 02:05:35,320 Love unconditional 2340 02:05:36,070 --> 02:05:39,165 I'm not asking just of you 2341 02:05:42,410 --> 02:05:45,084 Girl, to make it last 2342 02:05:45,580 --> 02:05:48,800 I'M do whatever needs to be done 2343 02:05:50,793 --> 02:05:56,550 'Cause I need somebody Who will stand by me 2344 02:05:57,008 --> 02:06:00,433 Through the good times and the bad times 2345 02:06:00,511 --> 02:06:03,936 - She will always - She will always 2346 02:06:04,015 --> 02:06:06,564 Be right there for me 2347 02:06:09,979 --> 02:06:12,653 Come on, everybody, sing it with us, y'all! 2348 02:06:21,282 --> 02:06:22,829 Bobby Brown, please sit down. 2349 02:06:22,909 --> 02:06:24,877 Please sit down, Bobby. 2350 02:06:27,371 --> 02:06:31,547 We love Bobby. We love Bobby Brown. I'm just kidding. We love Bobby. 2351 02:06:33,586 --> 02:06:35,714 Melonie Daniels-Walker. 2352 02:06:36,798 --> 02:06:40,348 Used to be a time When you would pamper me 2353 02:06:41,260 --> 02:06:44,264 Used to brag about it all the time 2354 02:06:45,640 --> 02:06:49,270 Your friends seem to think That you're so peachy-keen 2355 02:06:50,019 --> 02:06:52,863 My friends say neglect is on your mind 2356 02:06:52,939 --> 02:06:55,863 Who's right? 2357 02:06:55,942 --> 02:06:58,570 What have you done for me lately? 2358 02:06:58,653 --> 02:07:00,075 Come on, say it with me! 2359 02:07:03,157 --> 02:07:07,412 - What have you done? - What have you done for me lately? 2360 02:07:11,541 --> 02:07:16,263 We used to go to dinner almost every night 2361 02:07:16,337 --> 02:07:20,513 I danced until I thought I'd lose my breath 2362 02:07:21,008 --> 02:07:25,013 Now it seems your dancing feet Are always on my couch 2363 02:07:25,346 --> 02:07:27,474 Good thing I cook or else 2364 02:07:27,557 --> 02:07:31,482 We'd starve to death 2365 02:07:31,561 --> 02:07:33,905 What have you done for me lately? 2366 02:07:38,151 --> 02:07:42,577 What have you done for me lately? 2367 02:08:10,600 --> 02:08:12,318 Stephanie Ferrett. 2368 02:08:14,729 --> 02:08:17,858 All alone 2369 02:08:18,733 --> 02:08:22,283 On my knees I pray for 2370 02:08:23,112 --> 02:08:26,616 For the strength 2371 02:08:28,201 --> 02:08:31,171 To stay away 2372 02:08:31,996 --> 02:08:35,671 In and out 2373 02:08:36,209 --> 02:08:40,055 Out and in you go 2374 02:08:40,129 --> 02:08:43,099 I fee! your fire 2375 02:08:43,174 --> 02:08:47,020 Then I lose my self-control 2376 02:08:47,094 --> 02:08:49,847 How can I 2377 02:08:49,931 --> 02:08:52,730 Ease the pain 2378 02:08:52,808 --> 02:08:55,027 When I know you're coming back? 2379 02:08:55,102 --> 02:08:58,447 How can I 2380 02:08:58,522 --> 02:09:03,369 Ease the pain in my heart 2381 02:09:07,240 --> 02:09:10,369 How can I ease it? 2382 02:09:10,451 --> 02:09:15,628 When if it's not love 2383 02:09:15,706 --> 02:09:19,210 You're coming for 2384 02:09:19,293 --> 02:09:21,387 Tell me, baby 2385 02:09:21,462 --> 02:09:23,840 Why you're here 2386 02:09:23,923 --> 02:09:27,348 Knocking at my door 2387 02:09:27,426 --> 02:09:30,020 I can't take it 2388 02:09:30,096 --> 02:09:34,727 No more, no more, no more 2389 02:09:36,852 --> 02:09:40,356 Give me love or nothing at all 2390 02:09:48,614 --> 02:09:52,619 How can I ease the pain 2391 02:09:53,786 --> 02:09:56,380 When I know you're coming back? 2392 02:09:56,455 --> 02:09:59,049 How can I 2393 02:09:59,166 --> 02:10:03,717 - Ease the pain - In my heart? 2394 02:10:09,885 --> 02:10:11,512 Jeffery Lewis. 2395 02:10:15,474 --> 02:10:18,648 Now I'm craving your body 2396 02:10:18,728 --> 02:10:20,275 Is this real? 2397 02:10:20,354 --> 02:10:23,858 Temperature's rising I don't want to feel 2398 02:10:24,025 --> 02:10:27,529 I'm in the wrong place to be real 2399 02:10:29,447 --> 02:10:33,168 And I'm tonging to love you 2400 02:10:33,284 --> 02:10:35,127 Just for a night 2401 02:10:35,202 --> 02:10:38,752 Kissing and hugging and holding you tight 2402 02:10:38,831 --> 02:10:41,300 Please let me love you 2403 02:10:41,375 --> 02:10:45,005 With all my might 2404 02:10:45,087 --> 02:10:50,309 Reasons, the reasons that we're here 2405 02:10:50,718 --> 02:10:53,141 The reasons that we fear 2406 02:10:53,220 --> 02:10:57,942 Our feelings won't disappear 2407 02:11:01,562 --> 02:11:05,157 And after the love game has been played 2408 02:11:05,316 --> 02:11:08,820 All our illusions were just a parade 2409 02:11:08,903 --> 02:11:12,578 And all our reasons start to fade 2410 02:11:32,843 --> 02:11:37,269 - After all the reasons why - After all the reasons why 2411 02:11:37,390 --> 02:11:41,691 - AH the reasons were a lie - AH the reasons were a lie 2412 02:11:41,769 --> 02:11:45,615 - After all the reasons why - Love is there 2413 02:11:54,240 --> 02:11:55,617 Oh, yeah 2414 02:11:57,618 --> 02:12:01,122 I can't find the reasons 2415 02:12:01,580 --> 02:12:03,457 Why I love you 2416 02:12:04,959 --> 02:12:07,007 Hey, I love you 2417 02:12:09,004 --> 02:12:11,507 Oh, yeah 2418 02:12:14,218 --> 02:12:15,970 Baby 2419 02:12:19,932 --> 02:12:23,436 It's all about love 2420 02:12:27,648 --> 02:12:30,777 It's all about love 2421 02:13:20,868 --> 02:13:23,621 I found that kid on YouTube. 2422 02:13:23,913 --> 02:13:27,634 I really did. He was singing his heart out in Craig Lewis Band. 2423 02:13:27,708 --> 02:13:31,713 Zuri is in the back. They are amazing singers. 2424 02:13:33,255 --> 02:13:35,724 I am beyond blessed. 2425 02:13:35,799 --> 02:13:37,944 I get to share the stage with these people every night. 2426 02:13:37,968 --> 02:13:41,723 These are some of the most amazing singers in the world. 2427 02:13:44,558 --> 02:13:48,233 On July 8th of 2012, 2428 02:13:49,271 --> 02:13:52,366 next month, it'll be 20 years that I've been doing these shows. 2429 02:13:52,441 --> 02:13:53,658 Twenty years. 2430 02:13:57,404 --> 02:14:01,329 Started right down the street at the 14th Street Playhouse. 2431 02:14:01,408 --> 02:14:04,753 Thought I'd see 1,200 people and 30 showed up. 2432 02:14:05,496 --> 02:14:08,591 Lost everything I had, but I had a dream. 2433 02:14:10,084 --> 02:14:14,305 And I had hope and I kept pushing and kept fighting. 2434 02:14:15,923 --> 02:14:18,426 I had a million people tell me, "No." 2435 02:14:18,509 --> 02:14:20,762 But I got one "Yes" from God. 2436 02:14:25,599 --> 02:14:27,852 And I don't care how many dreamers are in this room, 2437 02:14:27,935 --> 02:14:30,404 I don't care how many people have tried to stop you, 2438 02:14:30,479 --> 02:14:33,107 I don't care how many people have told you, "it's not gonna work." 2439 02:14:33,190 --> 02:14:36,694 I'm a living witness that it does work. God is good. 2440 02:14:40,739 --> 02:14:42,491 In my life, all I want to do, 2441 02:14:42,575 --> 02:14:44,469 the end of the song talks about it's all about love. 2442 02:14:44,493 --> 02:14:46,245 It really, truly ls all about love. 2443 02:14:46,328 --> 02:14:50,378 Because all I want to do is lift us up, encourage us, make us laugh, make us think 2444 02:14:50,457 --> 02:14:54,178 and at the same time believe with some joy and some faith and some hope. 2445 02:14:54,253 --> 02:14:57,097 My mother, God rest her soul. 2446 02:14:57,172 --> 02:14:59,891 I had one dream when I started doing these shows 2447 02:14:59,967 --> 02:15:03,471 and that was just to be able to do well enough to take care of her. 2448 02:15:03,554 --> 02:15:05,615 And because of people like you all over this country, 2449 02:15:05,639 --> 02:15:08,483 I was able to do that, and around the world. So, God bless you. 2450 02:15:09,101 --> 02:15:11,149 I will never forget it. 2451 02:15:12,605 --> 02:15:14,403 And my prayer for you, 2452 02:15:14,523 --> 02:15:18,744 is that everything you've done for me, may it come back to you 100 fold. 2453 02:15:18,819 --> 02:15:22,323 I am grateful to my mother every day. 2454 02:15:22,406 --> 02:15:26,502 She didn't have a whole lotto leave me, but she taught me about Jesus. 2455 02:15:26,577 --> 02:15:28,930 And there are a lot of people in Hollywood who believe a lot of things. 2456 02:15:28,954 --> 02:15:30,922 Listen, God bless them. Let them believe... 2457 02:15:30,998 --> 02:15:34,753 Listen, I don't talk about what you believe. I respect everybody, what they believe. 2458 02:15:34,835 --> 02:15:39,807 All I ask is that you respect me in what I believe, and I believe in Jesus Christ. 2459 02:15:44,511 --> 02:15:47,685 I don't make any apologies for it. It doesn't make me perfect, 2460 02:15:47,765 --> 02:15:50,109 it makes me redeemed. 2461 02:15:50,184 --> 02:15:53,063 And what I try to do with everything 2462 02:15:53,145 --> 02:15:56,820 is just give us all a little bit of hope, a little bit of lifting. 2463 02:15:57,691 --> 02:15:59,614 So, whatever you're going through in your life, 2464 02:15:59,693 --> 02:16:02,321 if this show has spoken to you or anything that I've done, 2465 02:16:02,404 --> 02:16:05,123 I want you to know that it's all been by design just for you. 2466 02:16:05,449 --> 02:16:08,511 All the dreamers in this room, go back and dust your dream off if you've stopped. 2467 02:16:08,535 --> 02:16:10,972 Don't let anybody stop you. Pm telling you, if I would have given up, 2468 02:16:10,996 --> 02:16:14,296 I wouldn't be sitting here and you wouldn't be sitting there. 2469 02:16:14,375 --> 02:16:16,218 It's easy to give up. 2470 02:16:16,335 --> 02:16:19,965 It's easy to let go, 'cause it hurts too much to dream. 2471 02:16:20,047 --> 02:16:23,551 Sometimes dreams can be tough to keep going. 2472 02:16:23,634 --> 02:16:28,640 And sometimes all you have is yourself to encourage yourself. 2473 02:16:28,722 --> 02:16:32,067 You have to rely on and remember everything that I did. 2474 02:16:32,142 --> 02:16:34,454 I had to rely and remember everything that my mother taught me, 2475 02:16:34,478 --> 02:16:37,322 everything the Bible taught me about making it and going forth 2476 02:16:37,398 --> 02:16:40,197 and God being with me and having the faith the size of a mustard seed. 2477 02:16:40,275 --> 02:16:43,279 And as I did that, I Watched my whole life change. 2478 02:16:43,362 --> 02:16:46,536 But there was a simple prayer that she taught me that I never forgot. 2479 02:16:46,615 --> 02:16:49,552 It's a simple prayer, a lot of people say it, but they don't really mean it. 2480 02:16:49,576 --> 02:16:53,877 It's a simple prayer, it says, "God, let your will be done." 2481 02:16:53,956 --> 02:16:58,757 If you can say that and really mean it, your entire fife will change. 2482 02:16:59,002 --> 02:17:00,925 Because it means that you give up control. 2483 02:17:01,004 --> 02:17:04,178 It means that you give up trying to make everything go your way. 2484 02:17:04,258 --> 02:17:08,058 You let God be the wind in your sail, 2485 02:17:08,137 --> 02:17:11,437 and take you to the place where He wants you to go. 2486 02:17:11,515 --> 02:17:13,827 So what I would tell you tonight, if you're going through anything, 2487 02:17:13,851 --> 02:17:16,104 worried about your children, family, job, whatever, 2488 02:17:16,186 --> 02:17:18,359 just stressing out, just let it be. 2489 02:17:19,022 --> 02:17:23,823 Let it be. Do all you can, then stand. And let it be. 2490 02:17:23,902 --> 02:17:27,076 God has the answer, so let it be. 2491 02:17:31,118 --> 02:17:34,668 God bless you, Atlanta. I love you so much. I'll see you really soon. 2492 02:18:09,823 --> 02:18:13,123 This is my fourth Tyler Perry play that I'm here to see. 2493 02:18:13,202 --> 02:18:17,753 And this is Madea Gets a Job and it is crazy funny. You got to see it. 2494 02:18:17,831 --> 02:18:20,835 - We're having a blast at this place. - Yes. 2495 02:18:20,918 --> 02:18:24,172 Madea got a job and the job is a hot mess. 2496 02:18:24,880 --> 02:18:27,724 This is my first time ever coming to anything like this, 2497 02:18:27,841 --> 02:18:29,843 and it's been a lot of fun. 2498 02:18:30,135 --> 02:18:33,685 I've never had a chance to see him live like this. 2499 02:18:33,764 --> 02:18:38,361 And I'm really grateful to God for allowing me to have this experience. 2500 02:18:38,644 --> 02:18:44,071 We've been Tyler Perry fans forever, since it all began, way back when. 2501 02:18:44,149 --> 02:18:45,526 Since the beginning. 2502 02:18:45,859 --> 02:18:47,953 We thank you for bringing the show to Atlanta. 2503 02:18:48,028 --> 02:18:49,450 We're just having an awesome time. 2504 02:18:49,655 --> 02:18:52,033 This is my first Tyler Perry play ever. 2505 02:18:52,199 --> 02:18:56,750 This is my first time coming to the Tyler Perry show. 2506 02:18:57,204 --> 02:18:59,298 I had a great time with my mom. 2507 02:18:59,373 --> 02:19:00,875 I'm all the way from London. 2508 02:19:00,958 --> 02:19:05,338 This is the first time I've got to see a Tyler Perry show, production show. 2509 02:19:05,420 --> 02:19:07,548 Totally excited. 2510 02:19:07,631 --> 02:19:11,727 He needs to bring it over to London, I'm sure many people would want to see it. 2511 02:19:11,802 --> 02:19:14,430 I'm the biggest fan. I have every single last DVD. 2512 02:19:14,513 --> 02:19:16,032 And of course, I'm getting this one, too. 2513 02:19:16,056 --> 02:19:18,809 Uncut. Uncensored. So that's great. 2514 02:19:18,892 --> 02:19:20,064 He's hilarious. 2515 02:19:20,435 --> 02:19:23,314 We drove all the way over here from South Haven, Michigan to see him. 2516 02:19:23,397 --> 02:19:25,991 And I think the best part for me was when she told Allen 2517 02:19:26,066 --> 02:19:29,570 it looked like he combed his beard up to cover up the bald spot on his head. 2518 02:19:29,862 --> 02:19:33,036 I've been a Tyler Perry fan for six years now. 2519 02:19:33,115 --> 02:19:34,759 I drove all the way from Knoxville, Tennessee, 2520 02:19:34,783 --> 02:19:36,285 just to come see it here in Atlanta. 2521 02:19:36,785 --> 02:19:40,039 This is my fourth play, actually, and I cannot wait to see more. 2522 02:19:40,122 --> 02:19:42,716 I'm so excited. And it's been funny so far. 2523 02:19:42,791 --> 02:19:44,134 You think that old lady funny? 2524 02:19:44,209 --> 02:19:46,632 - I think she is hilarious. - She's crazy. 2525 02:19:47,421 --> 02:19:51,676 - It was very funny, it was very exciting... Motivational. 2526 02:19:51,758 --> 02:19:53,681 We should really come back. 2527 02:19:53,760 --> 02:19:54,977 - We really should. - Yeah. 2528 02:19:55,053 --> 02:19:56,225 - Tomorrow. - Tomorrow. 2529 02:19:56,305 --> 02:20:00,481 Tyler Perry had me in stitches. I didn't know whether to laugh or to cry. 2530 02:20:00,559 --> 02:20:02,482 His messages are so inspirational. 2531 02:20:02,936 --> 02:20:06,531 I done cried and laughed, all at the same time, already. Love it. 2532 02:20:06,899 --> 02:20:10,073 It's really uplifting, it was inspirational. 2533 02:20:10,319 --> 02:20:11,796 Keep on doing what you're doing, brother. 2534 02:20:11,820 --> 02:20:14,448 Because a lot of people in this world really need a little fix. 2535 02:20:14,573 --> 02:20:17,326 I had to bring her. I've been to every Tyler Perry show. 2536 02:20:17,409 --> 02:20:19,036 This was one of the best ones. 2537 02:20:19,286 --> 02:20:21,789 The concept was awesome, everything was the bomb. 2538 02:20:21,872 --> 02:20:23,249 I love Tyler Perry. He rocks! 2539 02:20:23,457 --> 02:20:25,130 - The singing... - Great. 2540 02:20:25,250 --> 02:20:27,218 I love all the singers. They sound really good. 2541 02:20:27,294 --> 02:20:29,672 Yeah, singers, that was... 2542 02:20:29,755 --> 02:20:31,803 - Yes. - I can hit those notes, too. 2543 02:20:33,634 --> 02:20:35,636 - Tyler can sing. - I know. 2544 02:20:36,929 --> 02:20:39,478 He can not only sing, he can sing. 2545 02:20:39,890 --> 02:20:42,985 I think I saw a little Harlem shaking going on in that singing just now. 2546 02:20:43,185 --> 02:20:45,187 Thank you, Mr. Perry. 2547 02:20:45,312 --> 02:20:48,532 Tyler Perry, once again, you have showed up and showed out all this... 2548 02:20:48,607 --> 02:20:50,484 - Yes, great one. Great job! - Great job! 2549 02:20:50,692 --> 02:20:52,772 Awesome, phenomenal job, man. Keep it going, brother. 2550 02:20:52,819 --> 02:20:55,197 - We love you, Tyler Perry. - Love you. 2551 02:20:55,489 --> 02:20:58,369 - Awesome. Tyler Perry, we love you. - Awesome. Tyler Perry, we love you. 2552 02:20:58,450 --> 02:21:00,623 Thank you, praise God. 2553 02:21:00,702 --> 02:21:02,579 We enjoyed it, it was so much fun. 2554 02:21:02,788 --> 02:21:03,914 Great job, Tyler. 2555 02:21:04,081 --> 02:21:05,628 Hey, Tyler, we love you! 2556 02:21:05,832 --> 02:21:07,379 - I love you, Tyler! - Love you! 210693

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