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Every year I blow out my
candles and I make the same wish.
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I wish I was a boy.
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I was raised in New York by my mom,
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my mom's mom,
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and my mom's mom's girlfriend.
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My friends thought it was so cool.
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All I ever wanted was normal.
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It's been a long
time and here we are.
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There is absolutely
nothing to worry about.
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So...
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There will be weight gain.
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Fat is fluid, it'll move from the
hip area to the front of the belly.
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Facial hair and hair growth
on the chest and on your arms...
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that'll happen pretty fast.
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Your breasts will not go away,
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that requires surgery.
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And the great news is... you will
see a drop in your menstrual cycle.
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Thank God.
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Periods have never
been easy on young men.
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It's been hard on her...him!
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"Us"! It's been really hard on us.
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Of course, the "T"...
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- It's the testosterone element to the hormone therapy...
- Testosterone.
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That'll put a stop to them... pretty much.
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And since Ray is 16...
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Here is the parental consent
form which will need to be signed.
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Okay.
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What if I tried something alternative?
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What, like acupuncture?
We'll see you at home, Mom.
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What did I say?
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- Hi, John.
- Hey, Ramona.
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- How are you?
- Ray, you remember?
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- Where are you going?
- I was supposed to be at Taylor's.
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Be back in an hour...
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Fifty minutes... please.
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Mag?
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Hot flashes'll get you every time.
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I am so glad
I'm over those.
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I am not having a hot flash, Mom,
I'm having an anxiety attack.
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- I thought you quit.
- I have.
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Oh, good, here,
will you hold this a minute?
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What is this?
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It's a dead mouse,
found it in the hallway.
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Oh, my God.
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Trying to find something to bury it in,
it seems so harsh to just, ya know,
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throw it into the trash.
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- This'll do.
Don't you have tea in your own house?
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This is all my home.
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- Good, I like it, I just wanted...
- I wasn't saying that you can't cook, I'm just saying that...
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- You can pack it with salt...
- What are you talking about?
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Just concern yourself with whether it's
organic or not and not with the salt.
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Do you think I was undermining him?
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Franny doesn't think I was undermining him...
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- I've an announcement.
- Go for it, Babe.
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I don't like vegetables anymore.
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I feel like I have to eat them.
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You do have to eat them.
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Ya know,
she got tired of vegetables, too.
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Dodo, when you married George
Russell, did Bill Evans play here, too?
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They all played here except for Monk,
because he was allergic to our dogs.
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- I miss Mr. Pepper.
- I do, too, I loved that dog.
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I couldn't stand that dog.
You two are so alike.
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You should have been her mother.
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What does it say that you
married your daughter?
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The expression is that you get
married your father, not your...
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Okay, in this case,
I guess I married my mother.
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Except you didn't marry me.
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Because we're old-school,
we didn't feel the need.
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But you know what else they say...
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They say you turn into your mother.
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- Have another drink, Mom.
- Well, thank you.
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Will you take your plate, please!
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Ray, can you ask to be excused?
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- Can I be excused?
- Yes!
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Well, did you take...?
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- What?
- He should take his plate.
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Ray, come get your plate!
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- I got this.
- What?
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Why can't she just be a lesbian?
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Because she's not a
lesbian, Mom, she's a boy.
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But she's a person who likes girls.
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That could be a boy or a lesbian,
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and she's still getting her
period, so... I vote: lesbian.
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- "He"! "He's" still getting a period.
- Napkin.
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All right, I...
I'm staying out of this.
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I just... I don't understand why
we're in such a hurry.
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- Franny agrees with me on this.
- No, but I am staying out of it.
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I'm sorry, it just feels like mutilation to me.
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I thought you said you
were going to stay out of it.
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Franny has been fighting
against female genital mutilation,
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so, you'll... you'll back me up
on this, won't you, Hon?
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This is not helpful, you can't
take things out of context.
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He needs to be at least 6 months into
the hormones before he changes schools, okay?
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Why does he want to change schools?
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Because he wants a
conventional experience.
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Well, then be a normal lesbian!
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- I can hear you.
- Good! Join the conversation.
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I just want to be normal in a
regular school... I just want to try it.
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If you want to try being gay.
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Fucker!
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Well, why is "normal" the goal all of
a sudden, what about being authentic?
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"Authentic" is what he wants to be.
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Okay, Ray.
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Okay.
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Okay, thanks.
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Did you sign the papers?
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You mean since we got
home this afternoon? No.
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Because that's the whole point
of switching schools and stuff.
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I know, but it's only February, Honey.
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It takes three
months to kick-in.
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We agreed to take it slow ... right?
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I'm proud of you, and...
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I'm proud of you, too.
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That's so gay.
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- ...use that word.
- I'm re-appropriating it.
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You can't re-appropriate a
word that doesn't apply to you.
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I'm a boy with tits,
I can re-appropriate whatever I want.
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I can't make it to
basketball tryouts tonight.
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Have you got a date?
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No, I don't.
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- Who is he?
- Just some guy.
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- Are you going to try-out, Ray?
- I'm too small.
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- No you're not.
- Does he go here?
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I'm too small,
that's what they say, at least.
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I can't wait to leave this school.
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I'll miss you.
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We live in the same city,
we'll always be tight.
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Can you tell Mrs. Insley,
I'm gonna be late for math?
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Next!
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Excuse me, excuse me, sorry,
sorry, excuse me, just a second.
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I've been here a really long
time and I have a quick question.
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You have to wait your turn.
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I'm not filing a complaint
or anything, I just...
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I just wanted to get in touch
personally with the man...
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who used to pay child
support for my kid.
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Call this number and the
appropriate department can assist you.
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Oh, but I came all the way down here, so...
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You have to call the number, Ma'am.
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Okay, so,
what department is that, exactly?
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- The complaint department.
- But I don't have a complaint.
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You're complaining a lot for
someone without a complaint.
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Okay, listen, I just need the
information for Craig Walker.
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That's all I need.
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Maggie!
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- How are you?
- Oh, hey! Hey, Jake.
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Now's not a good time, and I...
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- You look great.
- Likewise.
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Sorry, okay.
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- Bye.
- Yeah, see ya.
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Yellow... schmutz...
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Where were you?
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You were supposed
to see me at group.
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I can't relate to anyone
there.They're all freaks.
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Well, I can't do this on my own.
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What?
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You got some shit
all over your face.
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Yeah, okay, so, what about in the circumstances
in which there's only one active parent involved?
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So you're saying that
I need 2 signatures?
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He's pretty much non-existent. Yeh.
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But there aren't two parents.
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Mom?
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Yeah, just a second, Honey,
I'll be right there.
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So, would you need proof if he's dead?
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Can you just have one?
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Mom, who's dead?
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'Cause, who knows, if he is..
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Dead.
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His name is Craig Walker.
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I tried, I went to the DSS.
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I have an old address and number.
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We haven't spoken in years.
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And... ya know...
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he's just not part of our lives,
or this decision.
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I really don't understand why people
have secret conversations in the bathroom.
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It's the most echoey
room in the house.
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No, I'm gonna get back to you, you've
been so helpful, thank you very much.
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Are you waiting for the bathroom?
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- Who were you talking to? Who's dead?
- Nobody.
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But a girl can dream.
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Mag? You up there?
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Mags? You up there?
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Can you knock... occasionally.
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Hiding under my roof is not
going to solve anything.
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You still live with your mother.
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Please, Mom, I have a deadline.
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- Something's gotta change.
- Things are changing.
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A lot of shit is changing.
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- Did you sign the forms?
- No.
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- Having second thoughts?
- No.
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Yes.
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I don't know.
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She's 16... God!
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And I don't know anything
about boys or men.
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- It's not like I had any role models.
- You had me.
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- What ever happened...?
- I don't want a boyfriend.
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Okay, well, you're too old
to use that word anyway.
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You know what, Mags, it's time... live a little.
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What's it like having a penis?
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What?
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Is it great, or... well, not great?
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It's... yeah, it's... it's great.
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You don't wish...
it was... it was...
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it was more organized
or contained?
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I don't mean I wish
you had a vagina,
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I just mean the penis itself,
do you wish it was more...
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I mean... neat...
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or... in there?
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- In there?
- Yeah, like "put away"?
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Nope.
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Oh, okay.
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Do you?
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No, but I also don't really want one.
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Yours... yours is fine.
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It's good, it's... yours is good.
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But not for me... to keep.
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Ya know, I really should go,
thanks for having me.
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Are... are... are you okay, or...?
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Do you think I can fake the signature?
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Will they even check?
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This doesn't taste like coconut.
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It's vanilla-almond.
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Then why are there coconuts
all over the container?
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"Cause it's made with coconut
milk, it's better for you.
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I don't want "better for me",
I'm miserable.
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Look, I think you're
afraid of finding Craig.
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He just might be on-board with this.
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If you're not going to comfort people with
words, you should keep real ice cream in the house.
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All I'm saying is maybe you
really don't want him to sign it
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because if he signs it then you're
gonna have to sign the papers.
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Stop trying to turn
your views into my views.
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I'm not, I'm just saying
they're not that... different.
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They might be similar,
they're not that different.
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They're very different.
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About this, about Ray, and about
what is and what is not ice cream.
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But you still ate it.
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I'm actually pretty excited, 'cause...
I gained 5 pounds in the past 2 weeks.
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And... and, yeah, I mean, I'm awfully excited about how
my chest is... building up, I think it looks pretty good.
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No more Ace bandages... got it.
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I'm counting down the
weeks until I start "T".
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Each day is a good day.
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Ten weeks, then nine...
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- New dress.
- It's obvious.
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Lola Johnson is
definitely a virgin.
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She gives good head,
I know that for sure.
246
00:21:01,828 --> 00:21:04,396
You'd never go down on her,
I know that for sure.
247
00:21:04,612 --> 00:21:08,134
You don't even have a chance,
I know she only likes guys with big dicks.
248
00:21:33,749 --> 00:21:35,622
♪ Always ♪
249
00:21:37,011 --> 00:21:41,666
♪ Be by your side ♪
250
00:21:41,839 --> 00:21:44,973
Ray?
How was your day?
251
00:21:48,885 --> 00:21:50,713
- Hello?
- What?
252
00:21:51,539 --> 00:21:53,366
I said, "How was your day"?
253
00:21:54,887 --> 00:21:57,453
It kinda depends on whether
or not you signed the papers.
254
00:21:58,582 --> 00:22:00,150
Can we talk about it later?
255
00:22:01,626 --> 00:22:05,281
Just because you're the parent doesn't mean
that you get to decide when we can talk about things.
256
00:22:05,497 --> 00:22:10,371
Well, actually, it does, because I'm the only
parent and I'm dealing with this shit for two.
257
00:22:11,194 --> 00:22:12,371
So, I'm shit now?
258
00:22:12,542 --> 00:22:15,024
Oh, please, Ray, c'mon,
you know that's not what I meant.
259
00:22:15,499 --> 00:22:21,374
No, it's fine, because that's how I
feel, I feel like shit, or worse than shit..
260
00:22:22,024 --> 00:22:24,418
I get to swear if I'm
having a shitty day,
261
00:22:25,503 --> 00:22:29,060
you're the kid, you get to take it out on
the parent if you're having a shitty day.
262
00:22:29,110 --> 00:22:32,559
- And you're doing a pretty great job without...
- I'm not having a shitty day, Mom.
263
00:22:33,722 --> 00:22:35,725
I'm having a shitty existence.
264
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:38,998
Come on, Ray.
265
00:22:44,769 --> 00:22:46,468
Are you having second thoughts?
266
00:22:54,771 --> 00:22:56,904
We agreed to take this slow.
267
00:22:59,076 --> 00:23:01,559
What can I do to make it better?
268
00:23:01,773 --> 00:23:04,036
- I'm so proud of you.
- I don't want you to be proud of me.
269
00:23:06,558 --> 00:23:07,893
Where are you going?
270
00:23:08,419 --> 00:23:09,643
Ray.
271
00:23:14,776 --> 00:23:15,910
Ray!
272
00:23:40,349 --> 00:23:43,177
Ah, my baby, what a sweetheart.
273
00:23:47,178 --> 00:23:48,963
But to think that I
I spent my whole life
274
00:23:49,677 --> 00:23:51,932
working for women
'cause I have control over their bodies...
275
00:23:51,962 --> 00:23:55,859
and now I've to call my granddaughter: "he".
276
00:24:19,665 --> 00:24:20,665
Ray!
277
00:24:25,059 --> 00:24:26,530
Let me talk to you for a second.
278
00:24:27,581 --> 00:24:28,758
Hey, just leave him alone.
279
00:24:31,016 --> 00:24:32,191
Come on, girl.
280
00:24:36,799 --> 00:24:38,629
So, you have to have
different albums for everything.
281
00:24:38,844 --> 00:24:41,889
Yeah, it helps to distinguished the
"Ray" days from the "Ramona" days.
282
00:24:42,192 --> 00:24:44,630
How about pink for
before she defected?
283
00:24:44,846 --> 00:24:46,886
He didn't defect,
I'm ignoring you.
284
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,849
- Let's just do public albums...
- Blue.
285
00:24:51,064 --> 00:24:55,329
- And... private albums...
- Oh, private albums, blue.
286
00:24:55,544 --> 00:24:58,917
No, private albums, pink,
public albums, blue.
287
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:00,590
Whatever, okay.
288
00:25:01,937 --> 00:25:04,493
Oh, this is very private, look at that.
289
00:25:04,634 --> 00:25:07,592
You used to have a lot of
boyfriends, sometimes all at the same time.
290
00:25:08,069 --> 00:25:09,616
You can't make jokes out of my mistakes.
291
00:25:09,666 --> 00:25:11,986
That's exactly what you're
supposed to do with mistakes.
292
00:25:12,201 --> 00:25:14,595
Your own mistakes, you make
jokes out of your own mistakes.
293
00:25:14,811 --> 00:25:19,030
Like, remember the time you thought you were
straight and you married my father? Hilarious.
294
00:25:19,202 --> 00:25:22,423
I never thought it was straight,
I was just pretending.
295
00:25:27,900 --> 00:25:32,991
I don't think you should jeopardize Ray's circumstances...
just because you're afraid to face your own demons.
296
00:25:33,250 --> 00:25:36,775
- I went to the D.S.S.
- It's not the same as going to see Craig.
297
00:26:15,043 --> 00:26:16,785
- Do you have any ice?
- Is that a black eye?
298
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:18,613
- Oh, my God!
- Here, Sweetie, sit down.
299
00:26:18,740 --> 00:26:20,412
- Are you okay?
- You all right? What happened?
300
00:26:20,442 --> 00:26:24,266
Here, you can have my ice,
Oh, I swallowed it, I'm sorry.
301
00:26:24,316 --> 00:26:26,788
- Aren't you supposed to use steak?
- We don't even eat red meat.
302
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,118
- Ice cream, get the ice cream.
- I ate it all.
303
00:26:29,168 --> 00:26:30,136
I thought you hated that...
304
00:26:30,310 --> 00:26:31,964
Peas, I think you can use frozen peas.
305
00:26:32,135 --> 00:26:34,051
Who eats frozen peas?
Are you kidding?
306
00:26:34,267 --> 00:26:35,442
Wow! Good shiner!
307
00:26:35,701 --> 00:26:38,549
- I haven’t' been this close to a black eye in years.
- Got it!
308
00:26:39,356 --> 00:26:40,966
- Oh, well.
- Chicken's just like a steak.
309
00:26:41,181 --> 00:26:43,316
- But it isn't.
- And that's not chicken, it's Cornish hen.
310
00:26:43,530 --> 00:26:45,359
Exactly, this little wing is in her eye.
311
00:26:45,835 --> 00:26:48,013
- Are you in pain, can you see?
- I'm fine, okay?
312
00:26:48,402 --> 00:26:50,448
It was just some kids,
they wanted my phone.
313
00:26:50,706 --> 00:26:52,012
Oh, my God, you were mugged?
314
00:26:52,229 --> 00:26:54,361
No, Mom,
it was some school kids.
315
00:26:54,621 --> 00:26:57,581
- Your school?
- No... school... but kids...
316
00:26:57,796 --> 00:27:01,027
Can you guys keep it together, c'mon!
317
00:27:01,057 --> 00:27:02,497
- There's a hen on him.
- Hold this.
318
00:27:02,709 --> 00:27:05,669
Careful not to get the
Rosemary in the eye.
319
00:27:05,884 --> 00:27:08,844
- Why, is it bad for you?
- No, but it's just pointy.
320
00:27:09,494 --> 00:27:10,582
Did they get it?
321
00:27:11,495 --> 00:27:13,485
All right! That's my girl!
322
00:27:13,625 --> 00:27:15,062
But I lost my shoe.
323
00:27:15,496 --> 00:27:17,323
- Was that dinner?
- That was dinner.
324
00:27:19,193 --> 00:27:21,281
It really makes me not
want to be seen with you.
325
00:27:21,540 --> 00:27:23,847
Well, that only makes me
wanna be sure you're safe.
326
00:27:24,063 --> 00:27:28,065
Can we just go home?
Cities don't get dark.
327
00:27:28,891 --> 00:27:32,285
Yeah, well, this isn't for seeing, it's for
hitting, in case those kids come back.
328
00:27:32,500 --> 00:27:34,580
Well, those are the kids
you're sending her to school with.
329
00:27:34,610 --> 00:27:37,781
Yeah, well, you sent me to public school.
330
00:27:37,935 --> 00:27:40,330
That was before the
sexualization of everything.
331
00:27:40,981 --> 00:27:42,939
For a lesbian you're
pretty judgmental.
332
00:27:43,416 --> 00:27:47,464
Having sex with women doesn't mean you're
open-minded, it just means you're happy.
333
00:27:47,678 --> 00:27:49,325
I don't know why
you had to come.
334
00:27:49,593 --> 00:27:52,029
This is worse than the
night I got punched.
335
00:27:52,723 --> 00:27:54,945
- Is that it?
- Where?
336
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:56,292
Right there!
337
00:27:56,898 --> 00:27:59,292
Yep, that's it.
338
00:28:03,378 --> 00:28:05,425
- How do we do this?
- There.
339
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:06,643
Okay.
340
00:28:12,033 --> 00:28:13,384
Can we just go home.
341
00:28:24,515 --> 00:28:26,562
Okay, move, move, Mom, I got this.
342
00:28:31,603 --> 00:28:32,607
Ray, hold this.
343
00:28:32,822 --> 00:28:35,650
- I got it.
- What... what are you doing, Mom?
344
00:28:35,867 --> 00:28:36,998
I'm getting the shoe.
345
00:28:38,258 --> 00:28:41,958
- It's really don't think it's...
- ...fire escape.
346
00:28:42,216 --> 00:28:45,088
Well, I don't think it's legal
to steal someone's shoe.
347
00:28:45,260 --> 00:28:47,183
- Are you okay, Mom?
- Yeah.
348
00:28:47,233 --> 00:28:48,799
- Do you see?
- Yeah.
349
00:28:49,391 --> 00:28:50,643
We got this.
350
00:28:50,957 --> 00:28:52,090
He's a retard
351
00:28:53,436 --> 00:28:56,438
No, no, no, my granddaughter,
she got mugged...
352
00:28:56,611 --> 00:28:57,917
And they took her shoe.
353
00:28:58,089 --> 00:29:00,852
Watch television or something...
it's fine.
354
00:29:09,526 --> 00:29:13,922
When I was little, my Mom always
wanted me to be... a princess.
355
00:29:15,745 --> 00:29:16,641
Yo, Ray!
356
00:29:17,866 --> 00:29:20,052
Hey, you a girl or a boy, huh?
357
00:29:23,487 --> 00:29:25,132
Show me your dick, girl!
358
00:29:36,273 --> 00:29:37,897
Where you runnin' to, fagot?
359
00:29:41,275 --> 00:29:42,755
When I was little,
360
00:29:44,058 --> 00:29:46,624
my Mom always wanted me to be...
361
00:29:46,884 --> 00:29:49,365
a Princess, or Cinderella.
362
00:29:49,537 --> 00:29:52,473
But I wanted to be...
a race car driver,
363
00:29:53,060 --> 00:29:55,373
or an astronaut,
364
00:29:55,540 --> 00:29:57,019
or a cowboy.
365
00:31:22,041 --> 00:31:23,565
I thought you've given up.
366
00:31:25,347 --> 00:31:27,393
I won 10 bucks,
it's my lucky day.
367
00:31:27,607 --> 00:31:29,142
Well, dinner's on you then.
368
00:31:29,192 --> 00:31:30,536
Did you have "The Talk"?
369
00:31:33,957 --> 00:31:35,003
Not yet.
370
00:31:38,568 --> 00:31:40,395
You want me to,
I will.
371
00:31:40,567 --> 00:31:42,310
You just open your mouth
and words come out,
372
00:31:42,439 --> 00:31:43,964
and things are
said and it's over.
373
00:31:44,178 --> 00:31:45,397
I will, I... I will.
374
00:31:45,917 --> 00:31:48,703
I... I just... she was in mood,
I didn't want to do it to her.
375
00:31:49,092 --> 00:31:51,405
She's always in a mood,
we all are.
376
00:31:51,455 --> 00:31:53,009
I'm never in a mood.
377
00:31:53,747 --> 00:31:56,217
No, you're just difficult.
378
00:31:57,313 --> 00:32:02,010
His, he, him.
379
00:32:03,489 --> 00:32:05,751
Me. Boy.
380
00:32:07,750 --> 00:32:09,014
I want to be your boyfriend.
381
00:32:17,363 --> 00:32:20,058
Pray for love, for enough
time, for energy and stamina.
382
00:32:30,494 --> 00:32:33,324
Hey, Ray, I heard you got into a fight.
383
00:32:33,495 --> 00:32:36,655
- It wasn't a big deal.
- Was it a guy who hit you?
384
00:32:37,497 --> 00:32:38,792
A coupla guys.
385
00:32:40,236 --> 00:32:42,030
I think you're really brave.
386
00:32:45,065 --> 00:32:47,111
Lame beating up on a girl, right?
387
00:32:49,196 --> 00:32:52,808
I got class, see ya later.
388
00:33:24,293 --> 00:33:26,382
I think I have the wrong house.
389
00:33:26,554 --> 00:33:27,599
Can I help you?
390
00:33:30,904 --> 00:33:33,559
Well, actually, I was looking for someone.
391
00:33:33,729 --> 00:33:36,689
Does he live here?
Does Craig Walker live here?
392
00:33:37,556 --> 00:33:39,082
Are you, like, a lawyer or something?
393
00:33:39,296 --> 00:33:42,561
No, no, who are you?
394
00:33:43,820 --> 00:33:45,518
I'm Sinda Walker.
395
00:33:52,431 --> 00:33:55,129
- A boy?
- Yes, a boy.
396
00:33:55,780 --> 00:33:59,261
- For how long?
- Years... five, six years.
397
00:33:59,476 --> 00:34:05,000
It's gotten more intense as he's grown into
himself, into a person, an articulate person.
398
00:34:08,782 --> 00:34:10,046
Well, what if he gets better?
399
00:34:10,305 --> 00:34:14,265
Well, it's not a thing that gets
better, because it's not "bad", it just "is".
400
00:34:15,262 --> 00:34:19,135
Yeah, we've been through therapy
together on this, years of therapy,
401
00:34:19,307 --> 00:34:21,833
I've talked to a million people.
402
00:34:22,091 --> 00:34:24,398
- Doctors?
- Yes, of course, doctors.
403
00:34:26,658 --> 00:34:31,835
Well, she never wore dresses.
You said it didn't matter.
404
00:34:32,094 --> 00:34:35,822
This isn't about wearing dresses,
it's not a choice, it's not a whim,
405
00:34:35,869 --> 00:34:37,707
Ray sees himself...
406
00:34:39,488 --> 00:34:41,620
his vagina is just
not a part of him,
407
00:34:42,575 --> 00:34:44,230
it's like a mean trick.
408
00:34:48,620 --> 00:34:52,057
- There're risks, there're serious risks.
- I know.
409
00:34:53,187 --> 00:34:55,319
She may not be able
to get pregnant.
410
00:34:56,795 --> 00:34:59,407
- What if she changes her mind?
- What if she commits suicide?
411
00:35:03,972 --> 00:35:08,280
This is...
this is a lot, I mean, ya know...
412
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:16,209
Look, you want me to sign it... look, is there a
pamphlet or something, for Christ’s sake?
413
00:35:16,271 --> 00:35:17,846
Yes, there is a pamphlet.
414
00:35:18,237 --> 00:35:21,805
Hundreds of pamphlets and websites and
support groups and message boards...
415
00:35:22,019 --> 00:35:24,806
- I want to be informed.
- Well, it's too late to be informed.
416
00:35:25,021 --> 00:35:28,547
I didn't come here to just catch you
up on the last 10 years of his life.
417
00:35:28,761 --> 00:35:31,504
I don't know anything,
I'm supposed to know what to do here?
418
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:32,815
You don't have to know,
419
00:35:32,865 --> 00:35:36,723
this is just a bullshit formality, because
you're named on the birth certificate.
420
00:35:36,895 --> 00:35:40,463
My being named on the birth certificate
means I have certain rights.
421
00:35:40,678 --> 00:35:42,986
And I have the right to
make an informed choice.
422
00:35:43,244 --> 00:35:44,768
No, I'm making the informed choice,
423
00:35:44,940 --> 00:35:47,898
you don't ever get to make an
important decision because you weren't there.
424
00:35:48,113 --> 00:35:51,784
you weren't there for the school
meetings, for the tantrums, for the birthdays,
425
00:35:51,834 --> 00:35:54,422
the gym meets, the discovery
of sarcasm, or anything else.
426
00:35:54,639 --> 00:35:58,201
- I'm taking Zoe to the yard.
- Okay.
427
00:36:01,732 --> 00:36:06,862
Look, there is no more Ramona
anymore, it's just "Ray".
428
00:36:07,076 --> 00:36:09,775
Yeah, I went through losing
my daughter all by myself,
429
00:36:09,991 --> 00:36:13,819
and I will be raising my son
exactly the same, by myself.
430
00:36:14,078 --> 00:36:15,349
So, if you could just please...
431
00:36:15,435 --> 00:36:19,124
Why weren't we together,
just ask yourself, "why".
432
00:36:19,340 --> 00:36:21,910
I didn't come here to talk about
us, nobody cares about "us".
433
00:36:22,168 --> 00:36:25,030
You've certainly moved on,
and I definitely think Simba doesn't care.
434
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:25,562
Sinda.
435
00:36:25,734 --> 00:36:28,258
She's definitely moved on and
so has your adorable baby.
436
00:36:28,474 --> 00:36:31,430
You can't just show up at my
house, infringe on my family
437
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,752
and expect me to do something
I don't even know I agree with.
438
00:36:34,802 --> 00:36:38,087
I shouldn't have come here, I should
have just faked your death certificate.
439
00:36:41,565 --> 00:36:43,045
...signed it myself.
440
00:37:36,447 --> 00:37:37,581
Ray?
441
00:37:42,623 --> 00:37:43,623
Ray!
442
00:37:46,973 --> 00:37:48,106
Oh, God.
443
00:38:08,371 --> 00:38:10,373
Has someone turned
the water off?
444
00:38:17,071 --> 00:38:21,419
Oh, it's you, all right, stay there,
don't... don't... don't...
445
00:38:21,591 --> 00:38:24,595
Let me unhook this.
446
00:38:24,853 --> 00:38:26,725
What, have you been exercising?
447
00:38:27,418 --> 00:38:28,725
How did it go?
448
00:38:29,768 --> 00:38:32,379
Really, you're asking me
that when I'm on the floor?
449
00:38:33,220 --> 00:38:35,076
Well, so it went as expected.
450
00:38:35,379 --> 00:38:37,685
No, it's not what I expected, actually.
451
00:38:37,901 --> 00:38:39,243
Well, it's what I expected.
452
00:38:40,119 --> 00:38:41,903
I love this conversation.
453
00:38:42,684 --> 00:38:45,384
You didn't really think it would
go smoothly, did you?
454
00:38:45,643 --> 00:38:50,660
He didn't sign the papers,
he has a perfect baby girl,
455
00:38:51,034 --> 00:38:54,908
and a pretty young wife who's
named after an elephant...
456
00:38:55,558 --> 00:38:56,807
or something.
457
00:38:57,471 --> 00:38:59,474
Well, you had a perfect baby girl.
458
00:39:00,341 --> 00:39:01,386
Ugh!
459
00:39:02,951 --> 00:39:04,041
Dodo?
460
00:39:06,734 --> 00:39:07,911
There you are.
461
00:39:11,475 --> 00:39:13,826
I've been at the U.N. all day,
462
00:39:14,475 --> 00:39:16,477
arguing with a lot of men,
463
00:39:16,737 --> 00:39:18,391
about female circumcision.
464
00:39:19,998 --> 00:39:23,372
I couldn't right it,
and look what they gave me.
465
00:39:25,261 --> 00:39:28,786
What am I going to do with this,
I can't even re-gift it?
466
00:39:30,739 --> 00:39:33,207
Oh, sorry.
467
00:39:33,915 --> 00:39:37,050
I'd ask how it went but
you're lying on the floor.
468
00:39:37,481 --> 00:39:39,136
Thanks for asking, Better Mom.
469
00:39:39,352 --> 00:39:41,522
Are you very upset,
we still love you?
470
00:39:41,572 --> 00:39:44,009
She said that, right,
that... that we still love you.
471
00:39:44,180 --> 00:39:45,275
Well, I hope so.
472
00:39:45,746 --> 00:39:48,443
Of course, we want you here,
we want you to...
473
00:39:48,921 --> 00:39:51,401
We want you to come
over all the time.
474
00:39:51,704 --> 00:39:53,445
Where else would I be?
475
00:39:57,184 --> 00:40:01,840
Oh, I don't know, wherever
you go when you're not here.
476
00:40:03,706 --> 00:40:07,535
I didn't have the conversation
because she's on the floor.
477
00:40:07,707 --> 00:40:10,189
How am I to know she wasn't on
the floor because of "The Talk"?
478
00:40:10,447 --> 00:40:12,842
- What talk?
- We have to talk.
479
00:40:14,622 --> 00:40:17,103
Okay... well... ah...
480
00:40:20,581 --> 00:40:23,279
We were thinking, since Ray's
going to public school next year,
481
00:40:23,496 --> 00:40:25,369
which is definitely happening, right?
482
00:40:25,799 --> 00:40:28,019
And you won't be paying
all that artsy-fartsy tuition
483
00:40:28,191 --> 00:40:31,195
- We don't mean "artsy-fartsy" in a bad way.
- All right, I'm gonna handle this, okay?
484
00:40:32,061 --> 00:40:37,848
...that maybe you could redirect some of
those funds to your own apartment,
485
00:40:40,012 --> 00:40:42,458
not attached to your
mother's apartment.
486
00:40:47,676 --> 00:40:50,462
You're breaking up with me...
now?
487
00:40:50,808 --> 00:40:52,071
- No!
- No, no, no!
488
00:40:52,287 --> 00:40:55,461
We're breaking out, out,
out, out, into the world.
489
00:40:56,372 --> 00:40:57,811
You're breaking up with me.
490
00:40:59,375 --> 00:41:00,985
Sweetie, it's time.
491
00:41:03,070 --> 00:41:05,638
So, who's gonna take care
of you when you're old?
492
00:41:06,245 --> 00:41:07,689
We're gonna pay someone.
493
00:41:09,637 --> 00:41:11,423
That's really selfish.
494
00:41:18,509 --> 00:41:20,990
Ya know, I've been going to
the same deli since I was 10.
495
00:41:22,380 --> 00:41:24,513
There is one that's closer,
but I like this one
496
00:41:26,165 --> 00:41:29,232
The guy there always says,
"Thank you, Little Man".
497
00:41:36,603 --> 00:41:37,603
Mom?
498
00:41:40,038 --> 00:41:41,374
Mom.
499
00:41:42,604 --> 00:41:44,842
Are you watching Chaz
Bono videos again?
500
00:41:44,952 --> 00:41:46,379
No.
501
00:41:47,952 --> 00:41:50,091
- Ray...
- Not now, Mom.
502
00:42:53,449 --> 00:42:54,973
Okay, ah...
503
00:43:00,624 --> 00:43:04,623
Dodo and Honey have
asked us to move out.
504
00:43:06,410 --> 00:43:07,629
Really?
505
00:43:09,104 --> 00:43:12,326
But it has nothing to do
with anything, they love you.
506
00:43:12,499 --> 00:43:15,986
I want to live somewhere else,
don't you?
507
00:43:17,535 --> 00:43:20,470
I mean, I want to be with
different neighbors and stuff,
508
00:43:21,501 --> 00:43:25,258
neighbors, like, wouldn't've met me
when I was 7, wearing a dress.
509
00:43:26,371 --> 00:43:27,925
I want to start over.
510
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:31,640
I get to start "T".
511
00:43:32,199 --> 00:43:34,593
I get to stop feeling
like someone in between.
512
00:43:36,242 --> 00:43:40,204
We're doing it, Mom,
we're really doing it.
513
00:44:53,873 --> 00:44:57,312
Go, go, go, go, go, go, go,
go, go, go, go, go, go.
514
00:44:58,745 --> 00:45:00,262
Oh, God.
515
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:07,400
Shit!
516
00:45:08,375 --> 00:45:09,350
Whoa, whoa, whoa!
517
00:45:09,617 --> 00:45:11,446
Holy shit!
Are you serious?
518
00:45:12,478 --> 00:45:13,878
Hey!...Hey!
519
00:45:15,302 --> 00:45:16,418
Hey!
520
00:45:17,488 --> 00:45:21,230
Right when it's all coming together,
Bam! There he is.
521
00:45:21,621 --> 00:45:27,319
Just as I'm about to get the whole thing signed,
or not signed, but nearly signed and there he is.
522
00:45:27,448 --> 00:45:29,276
Why? Why was Matthew there?
523
00:45:29,492 --> 00:45:32,313
- Maybe 'cause he was visiting his brother.
- Yeah, well, obviously.
524
00:45:32,363 --> 00:45:35,786
But... oh, God, the whole
thing is so complicated.
525
00:45:36,380 --> 00:45:40,889
Maybe it's happening for a reason,
but why does it have to take so long.
526
00:45:41,148 --> 00:45:44,194
I'm sorry, I'm trying to show you
around as efficiently as possible.
527
00:45:44,410 --> 00:45:46,412
You've seen the kitchen appliances, yes?
528
00:45:46,583 --> 00:45:51,544
- It's such a monumental decision.
Oh, God... honestly?
529
00:45:52,324 --> 00:45:55,501
I think Ray is the only good
decision I've ever made.
530
00:45:56,108 --> 00:46:00,763
If we go through with this, does that make
me the best mother on the planet, or the worst?
531
00:46:02,674 --> 00:46:06,025
Do you remember we were gonna
name him Cole if he was a boy?
532
00:46:07,415 --> 00:46:12,157
And now she is a boy and his name is
Ray, like a truck driver or something.
533
00:46:12,328 --> 00:46:14,507
I know a lot of Ray's
who are not truck drivers.
534
00:46:14,894 --> 00:46:19,334
What if he turns around one day with a full
beard, and she says, "Mom, I made a mistake"?
535
00:46:22,984 --> 00:46:24,858
Ray, do we really have
to do it this now, Ray?
536
00:46:25,769 --> 00:46:31,510
Am I scared? You were always fidgety, and
everything was always sticky or stuffy or itchy.
537
00:46:32,814 --> 00:46:35,614
I said you're not coming out with
us until you put the dress on.
538
00:46:35,771 --> 00:46:39,419
I thought you were a boy.
Dad wanted a boy, of course.
539
00:46:39,946 --> 00:46:41,558
And then they said
you were a girl.
540
00:46:44,034 --> 00:46:46,819
I was surprised.
You were all boy.
541
00:46:52,081 --> 00:46:56,169
I said to stay in your room
until you put the dress on.
542
00:46:56,384 --> 00:46:59,996
You took out your scissors
and you just cut it up.
543
00:47:01,083 --> 00:47:04,041
You'd cut the stupid dress to pieces.
544
00:47:05,039 --> 00:47:08,390
Regrets?
Yeah, I have regrets.
545
00:47:19,477 --> 00:47:21,874
There's been a problem
with the papers.
546
00:47:27,524 --> 00:47:29,949
Your father has to sign them.
547
00:47:32,656 --> 00:47:33,702
Okay.
548
00:47:35,091 --> 00:47:36,872
But he won't.
549
00:47:36,962 --> 00:47:40,051
Why does he care, he hasn't seen
me since I was basically a baby.
550
00:47:42,572 --> 00:47:43,783
Make him sign it!
551
00:47:44,007 --> 00:47:47,227
- It's complicated.
- Un-complicate it.
552
00:47:48,573 --> 00:47:52,533
Okay, so, Honey suggested that
you emancipate yourself from us.
553
00:47:53,401 --> 00:47:55,056
Me and your father, I mean.
554
00:47:55,270 --> 00:47:58,273
And that would mean that you get
to make all your own decisions.
555
00:47:59,445 --> 00:48:01,018
And I'm not sure
I'm ready for that.
556
00:48:01,707 --> 00:48:04,666
Can you stop making my
problems into your problems?
557
00:48:05,273 --> 00:48:08,523
I'm not starting a new school
in this body, I'm just not.
558
00:48:08,573 --> 00:48:11,886
Maybe they'd make an exception,
maybe... maybe you could switch mid-year.
559
00:48:12,103 --> 00:48:14,148
I'm done with being an exception...
I'm...
560
00:50:19,572 --> 00:50:20,573
Hi.
561
00:50:24,051 --> 00:50:25,530
I'm looking for Craig Walker.
562
00:50:25,703 --> 00:50:27,490
Mom, it's for Craig Walker.
563
00:50:27,921 --> 00:50:29,488
That's Daddy, Bug, who is it?
564
00:50:29,704 --> 00:50:30,793
Who is it?
565
00:50:32,488 --> 00:50:33,578
Can I help you?
566
00:50:41,882 --> 00:50:44,015
It... it's Ramona.
567
00:50:48,014 --> 00:50:51,887
- Ramona.
- Ray, actually.
568
00:50:54,234 --> 00:50:55,713
Ah, come on in, come on in.
569
00:51:07,106 --> 00:51:10,187
Sinda, this is Ramona.
570
00:51:10,325 --> 00:51:12,372
- Ray.
- Ray, right.
571
00:51:14,368 --> 00:51:18,677
Hi, it's nice to meet you,
I heard a lot about you.
572
00:51:18,849 --> 00:51:21,401
I doubt it, but that's nice of your to say.
573
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:27,721
Here.
574
00:51:48,466 --> 00:51:49,599
So, I have siblings.
575
00:51:50,945 --> 00:51:51,990
Sorta.
576
00:51:52,207 --> 00:51:53,910
Half siblings... whatever.
577
00:51:55,642 --> 00:51:57,079
Yeah, they're great kids.
578
00:52:04,773 --> 00:52:06,439
It would have
been nice to know.
579
00:52:07,515 --> 00:52:12,089
So, just in case you do that again, like,
leave your family and start a new one,
580
00:52:12,341 --> 00:52:14,909
you should tell this
family about the old one.
581
00:52:15,647 --> 00:52:17,563
I didn't leave my family.
582
00:52:18,648 --> 00:52:20,476
I felt pretty "left".
583
00:52:22,388 --> 00:52:26,478
I didn't leave you guys,
it sort of just...
584
00:52:29,694 --> 00:52:30,783
dissolved.
585
00:52:33,434 --> 00:52:38,482
Fine, so if this family dissolves, and
another one solidifies, you should...
586
00:52:39,348 --> 00:52:43,537
I didn't come here
to talk about this.
587
00:52:43,567 --> 00:52:45,789
I don't know what
your mom told you...
588
00:52:46,004 --> 00:52:48,049
I really don't want to
talk about Mom with you.
589
00:52:49,918 --> 00:52:51,118
Well, does she know that you're here?
590
00:52:51,222 --> 00:52:56,312
Yeah, I was, like, "Hey, Mom, I'm gonna
skip school to confront my deadbeat dad".
591
00:52:56,484 --> 00:52:59,008
I think you should call
her and tell her you're here.
592
00:52:59,267 --> 00:53:00,645
I'll think about it.
593
00:53:02,833 --> 00:53:06,924
Well, look, I gotta get back to the
office, I only come here for lunch.
594
00:53:07,662 --> 00:53:11,577
Well, you should tell them you're
going to be late, or stuck, or whatever.
595
00:53:23,102 --> 00:53:24,190
Okay.
596
00:53:32,625 --> 00:53:34,029
Hey, it's me,
597
00:53:34,079 --> 00:53:38,361
one of my kids is sick, so, so I'm not going
to be able to make it to the office today.
598
00:53:40,452 --> 00:53:43,326
Yeah, okay, thank you.
599
00:53:45,108 --> 00:53:46,413
I'm not sick.
600
00:53:47,933 --> 00:53:49,674
Hey, Mom, is Ray down there?
601
00:53:52,195 --> 00:53:55,154
Oh, well, okay, he must be
at Taylor's or something.
602
00:53:56,457 --> 00:53:58,764
Yeah, he probably did,
but my phone was dead.
603
00:54:04,676 --> 00:54:06,620
Are you going to stay for dinner?
604
00:54:08,809 --> 00:54:10,636
I don't know who
to ask that to.
605
00:54:20,987 --> 00:54:23,777
Hi, Miss Bennett, this is
Sandy at the Freeman school.
606
00:54:23,900 --> 00:54:25,980
Just checking in because
Ray's not in today,
607
00:54:26,010 --> 00:54:28,484
and we wanted to make sure
it was an excused absence.
608
00:54:28,857 --> 00:54:31,217
I got a call that Ray
wasn't in school today
609
00:54:32,338 --> 00:54:36,122
Well, it was dead.
Why didn't you call my land line.
610
00:54:37,903 --> 00:54:40,471
Yes, I have a land line.
611
00:54:55,909 --> 00:54:58,608
I'm sorry if you're
this way because of me.
612
00:55:02,084 --> 00:55:03,433
Are you this way
because of me?
613
00:55:07,955 --> 00:55:11,828
I'm a lot of because of you,
this isn't one of them.
614
00:55:14,044 --> 00:55:15,132
Sorry.
615
00:55:15,391 --> 00:55:19,004
If he finds him, he needs to
tell me or everyone is grounded.
616
00:55:19,263 --> 00:55:22,969
You don't believe in grounding.
Do you believe in missing children?
617
00:55:24,003 --> 00:55:26,092
She's not missing,
she's just not here.
618
00:55:26,874 --> 00:55:27,964
Hello?
619
00:55:31,136 --> 00:55:32,674
Oh, my God.
620
00:55:34,744 --> 00:55:35,877
Ah, thank God.
621
00:55:36,615 --> 00:55:40,984
- Tell him I'll be right there and I will...
- Is that Craig?
622
00:55:42,138 --> 00:55:44,010
Okay, great, I'll be right there.
623
00:55:45,529 --> 00:55:46,882
He's in Pleasantville.
624
00:55:47,446 --> 00:55:49,846
I don't want to be the one that
said "I told you so," but...
625
00:55:49,876 --> 00:55:52,665
- You didn't tell me "so".
- Well, I meant to.
626
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:56,362
- Let's take the Rambler.
- I'm surprised he even recognized Ray.
627
00:55:56,926 --> 00:55:58,166
Why have I been renting cars?
628
00:55:58,230 --> 00:56:01,013
- Oh, we're definitely going.
- No, you're not.
629
00:56:06,841 --> 00:56:10,018
- I don't think this is a radio time.
- Why not?
630
00:56:10,843 --> 00:56:14,204
Because it's not a road trip, it's
a mission and I'm freaking out.
631
00:56:14,253 --> 00:56:15,977
- Well, I'm not.
- Please, Mom, stop!
632
00:56:16,148 --> 00:56:19,543
Have you ever been in the back seat of
this car before, you have 6 ashtrays?
633
00:56:19,759 --> 00:56:22,109
- Do you have your seatbelt on?
- There aren't any back here.
634
00:56:22,715 --> 00:56:24,717
How do we used to put
Ray's car seat back there?
635
00:56:24,934 --> 00:56:26,498
We rig it with a rope.
636
00:56:34,502 --> 00:56:36,200
Sit back, please.
637
00:56:36,588 --> 00:56:38,112
Tie yourself down with a rope.
638
00:56:38,328 --> 00:56:39,539
We should get the suspension...
639
00:56:39,584 --> 00:56:41,449
Oh, you know, there might
be a helmet back there, too,
640
00:56:41,499 --> 00:56:43,723
that we used to put on Maggie
when we would take long drives.
641
00:56:44,027 --> 00:56:45,376
That's ridiculous.
642
00:56:46,026 --> 00:56:48,246
- You know, the helmet was my idea?
- Really.
643
00:56:48,505 --> 00:56:50,585
Most parents, they'd just
throw their kids in the back,
644
00:56:50,615 --> 00:56:53,727
they'd bounce around
like laundry, but not me.
645
00:56:53,899 --> 00:56:56,160
I got the helmet...
safety first.
646
00:56:58,768 --> 00:57:00,119
I think I have to find a bathroom.
647
00:57:15,208 --> 00:57:16,962
Are you friends with our dad?
648
00:57:19,034 --> 00:57:20,124
Not really.
649
00:57:20,773 --> 00:57:23,255
- Our you friends with our mom?
- No.
650
00:57:31,647 --> 00:57:35,693
A long time ago...
I had a...
651
00:57:38,648 --> 00:57:40,197
I had a different family.
652
00:57:43,128 --> 00:57:44,603
I wasn't married...
653
00:57:47,261 --> 00:57:51,106
but... I had a kid.
654
00:57:54,697 --> 00:57:55,874
That kid...
655
00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:01,260
is Ray.
656
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:11,068
So, you're like our brother.
657
00:58:15,832 --> 00:58:16,832
Yeah.
658
00:58:18,094 --> 00:58:19,709
Sort of.
659
00:58:21,574 --> 00:58:22,736
Yeah.
660
00:58:24,313 --> 00:58:25,663
Why sort of?
661
00:58:26,575 --> 00:58:28,664
Because I was born in a girl's body.
662
00:58:31,750 --> 00:58:33,579
But you're a boy.
663
00:58:36,187 --> 00:58:38,905
- Can they fix it?
- Mostly.
664
00:58:40,187 --> 00:58:44,146
I'm a girl in a girl's body...
I think.
665
00:58:45,014 --> 00:58:47,708
- That's good, you're lucky.
- Thanks.
666
00:58:48,079 --> 00:58:50,931
- Go, eat.
- You're both lucky.
667
00:58:54,886 --> 00:58:58,408
- I think she's rushing into it.
- Mom, not now.
668
00:59:04,454 --> 00:59:07,154
Don't you... a little bit?
Feel like it's rushed?
669
00:59:07,456 --> 00:59:08,980
Oh, God.
670
00:59:11,151 --> 00:59:14,503
- Dare I use the bathroom here?
- What's the alternative?
671
00:59:15,500 --> 00:59:17,896
You always ask the
difficult questions.
672
00:59:23,503 --> 00:59:29,856
Hey, will you come stand guard, just in case there's
any truck stop nonsense it might not have a lock.
673
00:59:30,158 --> 00:59:31,986
We don't have time for this, Mom.
674
00:59:32,419 --> 00:59:34,683
Okay, I'll pee standing up.
675
00:59:37,638 --> 00:59:40,984
I may not be married to her,
but I'm married to her neuroses.
676
00:59:43,334 --> 00:59:44,685
It's a lose-lose.
677
01:00:07,777 --> 01:00:11,933
I'm sorry, moms,
I'm breaking out with you.
678
01:00:15,866 --> 01:00:17,956
Mags?
679
01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:21,521
Mags!
680
01:00:22,650 --> 01:00:25,219
- Hey!
- Come back!
681
01:00:29,827 --> 01:00:31,438
It's not funny,
she's not funny.
682
01:00:31,610 --> 01:00:34,265
Did I say something, again, is
that the problem, what are we...?
683
01:00:47,980 --> 01:00:49,920
There'll be another friend over?
684
01:00:50,744 --> 01:00:52,834
I promise you, it's not a friend.
685
01:00:56,747 --> 01:00:58,667
- Maggie, happy to see you...
- Thanks for calling.
686
01:00:58,790 --> 01:01:00,183
- Ray?
- again.
687
01:01:02,054 --> 01:01:04,359
- Is he okay?
- Come in... again.
688
01:01:05,496 --> 01:01:06,666
Thanks.
689
01:01:07,272 --> 01:01:10,056
Oh, I didn't realize you had company.
690
01:01:10,227 --> 01:01:15,226
No, these are our older kids, this is
Mia, and Cole, and you remember Zoey.
691
01:01:15,361 --> 01:01:18,188
You have 3 kids named Cole?
692
01:01:18,405 --> 01:01:19,712
No, they're not all named Cole.
693
01:01:20,144 --> 01:01:22,279
- Four.
- If you're asking me, it's 3.
694
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:26,181
We have 3 kids.
695
01:01:26,755 --> 01:01:27,879
Four.
696
01:01:30,801 --> 01:01:32,021
Oh, my God.
697
01:01:33,018 --> 01:01:34,818
I cut it.
698
01:01:37,758 --> 01:01:39,326
Do you wanna get that to-go, Honey?
699
01:01:39,540 --> 01:01:41,847
I'm not leaving until he
agrees to sign the papers.
700
01:01:43,543 --> 01:01:46,719
Well, the thing is... your
mother hasn't signed them either.
701
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:52,037
Where are they?
Give me the papers.
702
01:01:52,762 --> 01:01:54,253
What's happening?
703
01:01:54,633 --> 01:01:56,720
- All right, everybody, come.
- All right, coming.
704
01:01:59,982 --> 01:02:01,158
Can I have a pen?
705
01:02:20,291 --> 01:02:21,603
What's the date?
706
01:02:23,813 --> 01:02:25,555
This is fucking insane.
707
01:02:32,164 --> 01:02:33,427
Jesus!
708
01:02:40,993 --> 01:02:42,777
I didn't do anything,
she just showed up.
709
01:02:43,863 --> 01:02:46,923
"He", "he".
710
01:02:47,604 --> 01:02:50,737
Sorry... "he".
711
01:03:03,477 --> 01:03:05,783
She promised that she'd never do that.
712
01:03:07,523 --> 01:03:10,569
She promised me she'd never...
shave her head.
713
01:03:15,176 --> 01:03:21,591
All I did was tell you that Ramona...
that Ray... was here, okay? You're welcome.
714
01:03:23,570 --> 01:03:25,530
No, don't "you're welcome" me.
715
01:03:25,657 --> 01:03:30,965
You can't suddenly decide you have rights after a
hundred years of radio silence and then "you're welcome."...
716
01:03:31,180 --> 01:03:32,557
Maggie, Whose fault was that?
717
01:03:32,745 --> 01:03:33,879
- Yours.
- Mine?
718
01:03:34,094 --> 01:03:37,184
- Yeah, yours.
- You slept with...
719
01:03:38,313 --> 01:03:42,012
So, the kind of girlfriend I was should
no bearing on what kind of parent...
720
01:03:42,140 --> 01:03:45,533
Don't use the word "girlfriend"
like it takes some weight off your ass.
721
01:03:46,315 --> 01:03:47,796
You slept with my brother!
722
01:03:48,142 --> 01:03:49,230
Oh, my...
723
01:03:51,838 --> 01:03:53,885
You slept with the Uncle What's His Name?
724
01:03:55,275 --> 01:03:57,930
- Matthew, Uncle Matthew.
- You slept with Uncle Matthew?
725
01:03:58,145 --> 01:03:59,881
- Just say Matthew.
- Mom!
726
01:04:00,536 --> 01:04:01,582
Well...
727
01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:04,453
Unbelievable.
728
01:04:08,667 --> 01:04:10,931
Can you go to your room...
someone's room.
729
01:04:12,451 --> 01:04:14,020
Just go to someone's room.
730
01:04:17,541 --> 01:04:20,152
- Thanks a lot.
- The damage you did to my family!
731
01:04:20,324 --> 01:04:22,072
I didn't speak to my brother for years!
732
01:04:22,154 --> 01:04:23,545
The fucking earthquake you caused!
733
01:04:23,617 --> 01:04:26,327
It doesn't change the fact we both fucked up.
734
01:04:26,377 --> 01:04:29,067
- I did... I've done everything I possibly could.
- I know.
735
01:04:29,284 --> 01:04:32,373
I didn't make a single...
I did my best.
736
01:04:32,894 --> 01:04:35,244
Oh, really? That was your best
being gone for 10 years?
737
01:04:35,459 --> 01:04:36,940
I was not gone for Christ's sake
738
01:04:37,111 --> 01:04:38,940
I took her to lunches...
739
01:04:39,112 --> 01:04:41,985
One museum!
You haven't seen her... him, since...
740
01:04:42,157 --> 01:04:45,151
I have been more present than most
guys would have been in my situation.
741
01:04:45,201 --> 01:04:47,594
And what position is that?
Being busy with your other kids?
742
01:04:47,766 --> 01:04:49,639
The position of not
actually being her father.
743
01:04:50,463 --> 01:04:52,423
HIS father!
HIS father!
744
01:04:55,465 --> 01:04:58,153
Ray, Ray, Ray, listen to me.
745
01:04:58,290 --> 01:05:02,251
- No! No! Just stop!
- Take it easy, I'm sorry.
746
01:05:02,423 --> 01:05:06,425
- Stop! You ruined it! You ruined it!
- I'm sorry.
747
01:05:07,207 --> 01:05:08,730
Stop! Stop it!
748
01:05:11,253 --> 01:05:12,689
Mom! Mom!
749
01:05:13,991 --> 01:05:18,166
You ruined it! You ruined it!
It's never gonna happen!
750
01:06:33,012 --> 01:06:34,016
I'm sorry.
751
01:06:48,452 --> 01:06:51,236
You guys know that Uncle
Matthew's my real dad?
752
01:06:59,325 --> 01:07:00,694
Great.
753
01:07:42,033 --> 01:07:48,632
My whole life I've searched my body for
scars, because I know a part of me is missing.
754
01:07:52,088 --> 01:07:55,603
Everyone assumes that who I am is
connected to who they thought I was...
755
01:07:56,472 --> 01:07:58,299
when I was born.
756
01:07:59,036 --> 01:08:00,652
They're wrong.
757
01:08:04,255 --> 01:08:06,476
When should I know I
was definitely a boy?
758
01:08:07,343 --> 01:08:11,390
When should I know I was definitely a boy?
Since I was four.
759
01:08:11,999 --> 01:08:13,564
Since I was four.
760
01:08:32,264 --> 01:08:36,853
Okay, I'm not gonna interfere anymore.
761
01:08:37,134 --> 01:08:41,356
I don't want to get left
at the gas station again.
762
01:08:44,570 --> 01:08:47,085
- She's apologizing.
- I'm apologizing.
763
01:08:48,267 --> 01:08:50,227
- We both are.
- We shouldn't have come.
764
01:08:53,878 --> 01:08:57,881
Well, I still need the father's consent.
765
01:08:58,574 --> 01:09:02,188
Well, wow, that's amazing,
considering that Ray's got 2 dads now.
766
01:09:02,620 --> 01:09:04,709
Okay, I'm sorry, I mean,
that slipped out.
767
01:09:04,881 --> 01:09:08,188
Well, it didn't, that's 2 more
fathers than you ever had.
768
01:09:08,403 --> 01:09:10,285
True, and 2 more than Mags ever had.
769
01:09:10,391 --> 01:09:12,277
I mean, now it's like dads coming out
of the woodwork everywhere.
770
01:09:33,758 --> 01:09:35,378
Who will love him?
771
01:09:42,892 --> 01:09:44,605
I will.
772
01:09:45,196 --> 01:09:48,683
He's my... grandson.
773
01:09:54,547 --> 01:09:56,027
You're doing a good job.
774
01:10:06,941 --> 01:10:08,509
You don't have to talk to me.
775
01:10:14,552 --> 01:10:18,511
I know you're angry,
and you have a right to be.
776
01:10:25,032 --> 01:10:27,131
I fucked up,
I know that.
777
01:10:29,774 --> 01:10:30,951
I'm so not interested.
778
01:10:34,645 --> 01:10:35,645
Ray?
779
01:10:37,732 --> 01:10:38,866
I love you.
780
01:10:41,472 --> 01:10:42,958
I need to go to bed.
781
01:10:54,347 --> 01:10:56,088
You're the reason
I don't have a dad.
782
01:11:02,087 --> 01:11:06,540
- I'm doing my best.
- Please... Mom.
783
01:11:07,610 --> 01:11:08,742
It's gonna be different.
784
01:11:08,957 --> 01:11:10,957
A lot needs to be different
before I can come here.
785
01:11:10,987 --> 01:11:13,919
I know, but Craig is still your dad.
786
01:11:23,441 --> 01:11:26,190
I want to emancipate myself...
787
01:11:28,486 --> 01:11:30,029
from all of you.
788
01:11:30,079 --> 01:11:32,643
It's not the way to go,
anyway, it's not that easy.
789
01:11:32,747 --> 01:11:35,620
If it was easy, Mom,
most kids would be doing it.
790
01:11:56,972 --> 01:11:59,264
You must really hate whoever
gave give you that present.
791
01:12:00,884 --> 01:12:03,073
It's a...
dead mouse.
792
01:12:10,061 --> 01:12:11,793
Can I come in?
793
01:12:41,983 --> 01:12:43,716
I'm not talking first.
794
01:12:48,246 --> 01:12:50,707
- I hate your brother.
- Okay.
795
01:12:50,757 --> 01:12:53,119
I hate him for everything
he's done or not done.
796
01:12:53,814 --> 01:12:56,318
But I hate him especially
now for talking to you.
797
01:12:56,814 --> 01:12:58,400
Okay.
798
01:12:58,772 --> 01:13:01,643
- And I hate you, too...
- Okay.
799
01:13:01,859 --> 01:13:03,992
- for coming here.
- Okay.
800
01:13:04,642 --> 01:13:07,080
And for saying "okay"
over and over again.
801
01:13:07,686 --> 01:13:09,712
Which is worse than not
saying anything at all.
802
01:13:09,819 --> 01:13:10,951
All right.
803
01:13:11,428 --> 01:13:14,777
And I hate myself,
in case anyone's wondering,
804
01:13:16,776 --> 01:13:19,691
so, don't feel especially
special or anything.
805
01:13:20,300 --> 01:13:22,245
- I don't.
- Good.
806
01:13:29,972 --> 01:13:33,307
You were, though...
807
01:13:33,357 --> 01:13:35,288
...used to be.
808
01:13:43,738 --> 01:13:45,830
I wish you'd chose me.
809
01:13:56,092 --> 01:13:58,151
Would you have chosen us?
810
01:14:02,919 --> 01:14:06,189
- I'd like to think so.
- I'd rather not think so.
811
01:14:07,182 --> 01:14:11,145
Otherwise, I don't know how...
I don’t know.
812
01:14:11,313 --> 01:14:13,094
So, tell me you wouldn't have.
813
01:14:14,314 --> 01:14:17,622
- I would...
- Just tell me... you wouldn't have.
814
01:14:22,186 --> 01:14:23,449
I wouldn't have.
815
01:14:24,143 --> 01:14:25,143
Good.
816
01:14:28,317 --> 01:14:29,317
Can you...?
817
01:14:41,669 --> 01:14:43,715
I don't hear any slamming.
818
01:14:50,759 --> 01:14:53,025
I could have been there for him.
819
01:15:03,633 --> 01:15:05,721
- Do you remember...
- Uncle Matthew.
820
01:15:05,937 --> 01:15:08,205
- Can we just say Matthew?
- Matthew.
821
01:15:11,025 --> 01:15:13,333
Did you see what Jenny
Schwartz was wearing today?
822
01:15:13,549 --> 01:15:15,160
- Shut up.
- What, I thought you loved her.
823
01:15:15,505 --> 01:15:17,812
I don't love her,
I'd hit that, but I don't love her.
824
01:15:18,026 --> 01:15:19,029
Language!
825
01:15:19,200 --> 01:15:20,855
- Would you hit that?
- I hate that.
826
01:15:21,070 --> 01:15:23,639
- This is Ray's mom.
- Hey, Jesse... Taylor.
827
01:15:24,029 --> 01:15:25,640
Spoon.
828
01:15:27,681 --> 01:15:30,287
- Is that your Dad?
- I don't have a dad.
829
01:15:32,378 --> 01:15:33,772
He's a good kid.
830
01:15:35,423 --> 01:15:41,343
I should..
I'll talk to you.
831
01:15:48,165 --> 01:15:49,299
Come on in.
832
01:16:00,604 --> 01:16:03,245
Matthew, Matthew, Matthew.
833
01:16:06,127 --> 01:16:10,912
- I don't remember, do you drink?
- No, yeah, not... not this early, thanks.
834
01:16:11,171 --> 01:16:13,312
We didn't ask you
over to have a drink.
835
01:16:17,303 --> 01:16:19,369
He's gotten a little
thick around the middle.
836
01:16:19,957 --> 01:16:21,438
Well, so have we.
837
01:16:21,958 --> 01:16:23,613
Well, no, it's a foot brace.
838
01:16:24,393 --> 01:16:26,439
I mean, I probably am a little thicker
around the middle, but there's also...
839
01:16:26,654 --> 01:16:28,209
We don't need to see your bra.
840
01:16:28,259 --> 01:16:32,086
What we want to know is what
you're doing back in the picture, and
841
01:16:32,136 --> 01:16:35,300
if you really know what
you're getting into.
842
01:16:35,396 --> 01:16:37,111
Do you really know what
you're getting into?
843
01:16:39,441 --> 01:16:42,226
No, I... I...
I don't.
844
01:16:46,095 --> 01:16:48,184
- Good answer.
- That is a good answer.
845
01:17:07,362 --> 01:17:09,189
Well, what about my stuff?
846
01:17:09,405 --> 01:17:11,146
Well, take it easy on her.
847
01:17:11,406 --> 01:17:12,406
You never do.
848
01:17:12,537 --> 01:17:14,974
Ray. Ray. Ray.
849
01:17:16,015 --> 01:17:20,975
Look, sometimes I'm wrong,
not often, but sometimes...
850
01:17:21,321 --> 01:17:23,641
and I thought you were too
young to know what you wanted,
851
01:17:23,801 --> 01:17:25,132
But you do know.
852
01:17:25,182 --> 01:17:27,464
And I was just afraid.
853
01:17:27,846 --> 01:17:30,977
And now I... I realize that...
well, who you are, and...
854
01:17:31,498 --> 01:17:34,284
who I love, is staying the same, and...
855
01:17:34,890 --> 01:17:37,873
everything that's changing
is just details.
856
01:17:39,761 --> 01:17:40,816
What are you saying?
857
01:17:40,892 --> 01:17:45,385
I'm saying that's it's about time
that we had a man in this family.
858
01:17:49,460 --> 01:17:52,420
You wanna listen to a new beat
I made from an old jazz sample?
859
01:17:52,450 --> 01:17:53,847
Yes!
860
01:18:18,076 --> 01:18:21,021
- I had a conference in the city.
- And?
861
01:18:22,250 --> 01:18:25,272
I thought I'd stop by and
lay some heavy shit on you.
862
01:18:26,383 --> 01:18:27,733
You ever heard of them?
863
01:18:28,427 --> 01:18:30,134
You need a better opener.
864
01:18:31,081 --> 01:18:32,648
I came to apologize.
865
01:18:35,822 --> 01:18:36,998
Thank you.
866
01:18:46,214 --> 01:18:48,303
I didn't realize I'd be
interrupting anything.
867
01:18:48,648 --> 01:18:50,347
It's... it's not anything.
868
01:18:51,129 --> 01:18:53,263
I mean, it's something.
869
01:18:54,130 --> 01:18:56,001
Well, he certainly wasn't invited.
870
01:18:56,173 --> 01:19:01,613
It's just... you... you called Matthew and you
told him and now he's here, we're all just...
871
01:19:01,828 --> 01:19:04,343
Maggie, he didn't tell me anything.
872
01:19:04,393 --> 01:19:06,093
I did tell him, I told you,
I told you,
873
01:19:06,306 --> 01:19:09,222
- I told you that you... your affair with my wife...
- Girlfriend.
874
01:19:09,437 --> 01:19:12,529
makes you Ramona's father,
but she's still my daughter.
875
01:19:12,744 --> 01:19:14,475
"Son"! Shit.
876
01:19:17,832 --> 01:19:19,703
I... I wanna be involved.
877
01:19:20,485 --> 01:19:21,663
I'm not going away.
878
01:19:22,312 --> 01:19:23,702
I wanna be here
879
01:19:25,444 --> 01:19:26,878
He's not interested.
880
01:19:28,530 --> 01:19:31,672
I didn't come here for you,
I came here for Ray.
881
01:19:32,967 --> 01:19:36,296
Matthew told me that Ray told him
that he doesn't have a father.
882
01:19:38,098 --> 01:19:39,514
He doesn't have a father.
883
01:19:56,147 --> 01:19:57,980
I thought you were at Taylor's.
884
01:19:58,190 --> 01:19:59,729
What was going on out there?
885
01:20:04,279 --> 01:20:05,628
He was being a douche.
886
01:20:07,324 --> 01:20:08,457
Jerk.
887
01:20:54,163 --> 01:20:56,340
The blue ink ran out.
888
01:21:49,699 --> 01:21:51,702
Ray! Ray!
889
01:21:52,500 --> 01:21:54,573
Ray, can you turn it down a little?
890
01:21:56,789 --> 01:21:57,789
Sure.
891
01:21:59,094 --> 01:22:00,271
I didn't know you were home.
892
01:22:00,616 --> 01:22:03,488
Do you always play it this
loud when I'm not home?
893
01:22:05,878 --> 01:22:10,621
Only when I'm really,
really, really happy.
894
01:22:16,969 --> 01:22:19,410
It was really hot in here.
895
01:22:20,185 --> 01:22:21,885
I wear a lot of shit.
896
01:22:41,801 --> 01:22:43,796
I'd like to know
all those people.
897
01:22:46,690 --> 01:22:49,298
Like, Dad and Matthew.
898
01:22:49,717 --> 01:22:51,893
Or Dad Matthew or whatever.
899
01:22:57,936 --> 01:22:59,143
Okay.
900
01:23:00,240 --> 01:23:01,895
And Sinda and those kids.
901
01:23:05,373 --> 01:23:06,461
Okay.
902
01:23:11,374 --> 01:23:12,985
We can take it at your pace.
903
01:23:23,596 --> 01:23:25,254
Let's talk about Ray.
904
01:23:27,552 --> 01:23:31,513
And I'm gonna show you how to use
this, right, it's not very complicated?
905
01:23:40,426 --> 01:23:42,311
- Can I take this?
- What? Oh!
906
01:23:42,361 --> 01:23:44,504
- Do you mind?
- Yeah, all right.
907
01:23:44,949 --> 01:23:46,661
- See you there.
- You're welcome!
908
01:23:46,819 --> 01:23:51,041
There are things you need to know
when administering testosterone...
909
01:23:53,690 --> 01:23:55,793
a couple of dos and don'ts.
910
01:23:56,430 --> 01:23:58,040
Right, Ray?
911
01:24:20,438 --> 01:24:21,950
Thank you.
912
01:24:58,838 --> 01:24:59,928
It's them.
913
01:25:12,060 --> 01:25:14,323
It was cold...
914
01:25:17,541 --> 01:25:19,281
Everybody's there, huh?
915
01:25:19,453 --> 01:25:21,020
- Saké! It's... time!
- Okay.
916
01:25:21,236 --> 01:25:22,456
Okay, I'll be right there.
917
01:25:34,284 --> 01:25:38,831
I'm the grandma, and my
name is Dodo, like the bird.
918
01:25:40,240 --> 01:25:43,298
I'm Frances,
you can call me Honey.
919
01:25:50,809 --> 01:25:51,941
- Hey.
- Hey.
920
01:26:04,162 --> 01:26:06,976
- Are you a fan of Japanese food?
- Yes.
921
01:26:13,730 --> 01:26:17,246
Yeah, I like salmon.
922
01:26:17,381 --> 01:26:19,473
- Yeah, I know I'm regular.
- You're regular.
923
01:26:34,996 --> 01:26:35,996
Don't get up.
924
01:26:42,911 --> 01:26:44,914
...Enough!
925
01:26:46,781 --> 01:26:49,392
- My name is Cole.
- I like the name "Cole".
926
01:26:52,435 --> 01:26:54,307
Sweetheart,
will you please put that down?
927
01:26:54,466 --> 01:26:56,436
I'm proud of you.
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