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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:24,023 --> 00:00:26,312 The Supreme Court today ruled that abortion 2 00:00:26,337 --> 00:00:28,672 is completely a private matter to be decided 3 00:00:28,697 --> 00:00:30,343 by mother and doctor 4 00:00:30,368 --> 00:00:32,789 in the first three months of pregnancy. 5 00:00:32,814 --> 00:00:35,734 The 7-2 ruling to that effect will probably result 6 00:00:35,759 --> 00:00:38,662 in a drastic overhaul of state laws on abortion. 7 00:00:39,014 --> 00:00:41,023 Specifically the court today overturned 8 00:00:41,048 --> 00:00:43,804 laws in Texas and Georgia and ruled the government 9 00:00:43,829 --> 00:00:45,383 - has no right to enter... - I couldn't get any work done. 10 00:00:45,407 --> 00:00:46,727 a decision which should be made 11 00:00:46,751 --> 00:00:48,929 - by the mother and her doctor. - They're winning. 12 00:00:48,954 --> 00:00:51,015 During the second three months of pregnancy... 13 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:54,501 _ 14 00:00:54,526 --> 00:00:58,251 It's a great decision because it puts right on the line 15 00:00:58,276 --> 00:01:01,485 that a woman has the right to remain pregnant or not. 16 00:01:01,510 --> 00:01:02,743 It gives freedom of choice. 17 00:01:02,768 --> 00:01:05,985 I respect the conscience of those who oppose abortion 18 00:01:06,010 --> 00:01:07,485 on moral grounds. 19 00:01:07,510 --> 00:01:09,678 I do not believe that they have the right 20 00:01:09,703 --> 00:01:11,594 to deprive other women of abortion. 21 00:01:11,619 --> 00:01:13,922 Abortion may be legally permissible. 22 00:01:13,947 --> 00:01:16,126 It is still morally wrong. 23 00:01:33,611 --> 00:01:35,688 I cannot believe it. 24 00:01:35,713 --> 00:01:37,493 - You heard the news? - I know. 25 00:01:37,518 --> 00:01:39,454 Roe v. Wade. It's the law of the land. 26 00:01:39,479 --> 00:01:41,805 I was in the Supreme Court during oral arguments. 27 00:01:41,830 --> 00:01:44,086 My God. You're Betty Friedan. 28 00:01:44,111 --> 00:01:45,321 I am. 29 00:01:45,346 --> 00:01:48,821 Your book... it changed my life. 30 00:01:49,524 --> 00:01:51,147 Can I hug you? 31 00:01:51,765 --> 00:01:53,813 Well... please. 32 00:01:55,408 --> 00:01:58,454 - Aw. - Thank you, Gloria Steinem! 33 00:02:57,586 --> 00:03:01,852 Synced & corrected by QueenMaddie www.addic7ed.com 34 00:03:08,490 --> 00:03:09,775 Tomorrow you'll meet 35 00:03:09,799 --> 00:03:12,168 a crowned head of Europe and marry. 36 00:03:12,193 --> 00:03:13,907 I will have a fat attack. 37 00:03:17,072 --> 00:03:18,899 Eat 300 peanut butter cups and die. 38 00:03:18,924 --> 00:03:20,170 You know, now that you're my upstairs neighbor, 39 00:03:20,194 --> 00:03:23,258 I feel like I'm Mary coming up to visit Rhoda. 40 00:03:23,283 --> 00:03:26,680 - Mary never visits Rhoda. - Never? Why? 41 00:03:26,705 --> 00:03:27,805 Why? 42 00:03:28,603 --> 00:03:29,985 Rhoda, I'm running... 43 00:03:30,010 --> 00:03:32,501 You're going out in that blouse? 44 00:03:32,526 --> 00:03:33,946 Mom, it's just a blouse. 45 00:03:33,971 --> 00:03:37,446 That you can wear when you turn 18. No, 20. 46 00:03:37,471 --> 00:03:38,633 Where did you get that? 47 00:03:38,658 --> 00:03:39,689 Noreen doesn't wear it anymore, 48 00:03:39,713 --> 00:03:41,141 so she gave it to me. 49 00:03:41,714 --> 00:03:43,694 Change now, please. 50 00:03:46,582 --> 00:03:48,484 They share clothes now. 51 00:03:48,509 --> 00:03:49,508 Looked expensive. 52 00:03:49,533 --> 00:03:51,649 Carl loves spending money on his new wife... 53 00:03:51,674 --> 00:03:53,860 Money I made from my book. 54 00:03:53,885 --> 00:03:55,547 You know, it makes him feel superior. 55 00:03:55,572 --> 00:03:57,117 You know, I may have someone for you... 56 00:03:57,141 --> 00:04:00,360 Friend of Leon's, divorced, two children, grown. 57 00:04:00,385 --> 00:04:01,915 Maybe. When I get back 58 00:04:01,940 --> 00:04:04,235 from the Women's Caucus Convention. 59 00:04:04,477 --> 00:04:07,040 You seen any of them since Miami? 60 00:04:07,938 --> 00:04:10,985 I shouldn't have slammed Gloria and Bella in the press. 61 00:04:11,010 --> 00:04:13,993 They slammed you right back. Didn't they convince Nora Ephron 62 00:04:14,018 --> 00:04:15,791 to write that bitchy account of you for "Esquire"? 63 00:04:15,815 --> 00:04:18,419 Nora doesn't need convincing to write something bitchy. 64 00:04:18,444 --> 00:04:20,060 Well... 65 00:04:20,085 --> 00:04:22,122 And is that what everybody thinks? 66 00:04:22,147 --> 00:04:23,841 That I'm the Wicked Witch of the West, 67 00:04:23,866 --> 00:04:25,755 and Gloria is Glinda? 68 00:04:25,780 --> 00:04:26,989 No one thinks that. 69 00:04:27,014 --> 00:04:28,763 You know, somebody should tell Nora 70 00:04:28,788 --> 00:04:30,739 that the real Wicked Witch of the movement 71 00:04:30,764 --> 00:04:32,810 is that Phyllis "Schafly" woman. 72 00:04:32,835 --> 00:04:34,114 She the one that looks like Dolly Parton? 73 00:04:34,138 --> 00:04:35,139 - What's the name of her group? - No. 74 00:04:35,163 --> 00:04:36,685 She's the other one from Illinois. 75 00:04:36,710 --> 00:04:39,341 The one with the "STOP" signs and the blonde beehive? 76 00:04:39,366 --> 00:04:41,028 - She is terrifying. - And I do not buy 77 00:04:41,053 --> 00:04:42,943 for one second that she's a real blonde. 78 00:04:43,383 --> 00:04:45,216 The ERA is in danger, 79 00:04:45,241 --> 00:04:48,638 and everyone is too busy fawning over Gloria to listen to me. 80 00:04:48,663 --> 00:04:50,247 It's absurd! 81 00:04:50,272 --> 00:04:53,366 Are they so blinded by all the hair? 82 00:04:54,060 --> 00:04:55,790 So make them listen. 83 00:04:57,135 --> 00:04:59,905 You're Betty Friedan, for chrissake. 84 00:05:05,830 --> 00:05:08,110 _ 85 00:05:20,136 --> 00:05:21,189 Thanks. 86 00:05:28,623 --> 00:05:29,869 - Thank you. - Well, you know who is 87 00:05:29,893 --> 00:05:31,587 a rising star in the Republican Party? 88 00:05:31,612 --> 00:05:32,845 Audrey here, 89 00:05:32,870 --> 00:05:34,853 and I have recruited her to run for Vice President 90 00:05:34,878 --> 00:05:35,878 of the national caucus. 91 00:05:35,903 --> 00:05:37,736 I do not know if I'm a rising star, 92 00:05:37,761 --> 00:05:39,298 but I definitely stand out. 93 00:05:39,323 --> 00:05:41,267 - You were raised Republican? - No. 94 00:05:41,292 --> 00:05:43,426 And my folks were not too happy about it. 95 00:05:44,244 --> 00:05:47,181 You know, I told you, you did not need to bring a fur coat. 96 00:05:47,206 --> 00:05:48,651 Well, I hauled it all the way down here. 97 00:05:48,675 --> 00:05:49,829 I'm not taking it off. 98 00:05:49,854 --> 00:05:51,463 But now you're schvitzing all over the place. 99 00:05:51,487 --> 00:05:53,923 - Schvitzing? - What? I'm trying. 100 00:05:53,948 --> 00:05:55,783 Schvitzing? 101 00:05:56,409 --> 00:05:58,978 We should bring Betty over. 102 00:05:59,003 --> 00:06:00,501 You think? 103 00:06:00,526 --> 00:06:02,743 So she wants to be Mother Superior. 104 00:06:02,768 --> 00:06:05,728 She's earned it. We were in the wilderness for 40 years. 105 00:06:05,753 --> 00:06:07,087 She lit a match. 106 00:06:16,649 --> 00:06:20,626 Shirley! I wasn't sure if you were coming. 107 00:06:20,651 --> 00:06:22,189 Hello, everybody. 108 00:06:22,214 --> 00:06:23,291 - Shirley. - Shirley, Betty. 109 00:06:23,315 --> 00:06:24,915 This is Audrey. 110 00:06:25,401 --> 00:06:27,400 Are you okay? You don't look yourself. 111 00:06:27,425 --> 00:06:30,929 - Is it the investigation? - It's been a long year. 112 00:06:30,954 --> 00:06:33,025 You need a lawyer, I can get you some names. 113 00:06:33,050 --> 00:06:36,017 It's just outrageous. It's a witch hunt, you know. 114 00:06:36,042 --> 00:06:38,501 Investigating you for misuse of campaign funds 115 00:06:38,526 --> 00:06:40,189 instead of Nixon. 116 00:06:40,214 --> 00:06:42,884 I bet you're having a great time at the White House right now. 117 00:06:42,909 --> 00:06:44,962 - It isn't dull. - So can you tell us which 118 00:06:44,987 --> 00:06:47,829 of his advisors they'll be calling to testify? 119 00:06:47,862 --> 00:06:49,263 Who do you think? 120 00:06:49,288 --> 00:06:52,220 Well, my money is on Haldeman and Erlichman. 121 00:06:52,245 --> 00:06:53,564 Of course. German. 122 00:06:53,589 --> 00:06:55,564 Yes. 123 00:06:55,589 --> 00:06:57,393 You know who the government should be looking into... 124 00:06:57,417 --> 00:06:58,978 - Phyllis "Schafly." - Schlafly. 125 00:06:59,003 --> 00:07:01,447 I was inspired by Woodward and Bernstein 126 00:07:01,472 --> 00:07:03,587 to do some digging into the funding 127 00:07:03,612 --> 00:07:06,095 of her STOP ERA operations, 128 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,548 and you'll never guess what I discovered. 129 00:07:09,918 --> 00:07:13,111 She's a member of the John Birch Society. 130 00:07:13,387 --> 00:07:15,048 Do you think someone like her 131 00:07:15,073 --> 00:07:16,775 will care if she gets called a Bircher? 132 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:18,190 You'll have to do better than that. 133 00:07:18,214 --> 00:07:20,525 Well, no, but if she's a Bircher, there's a good chance 134 00:07:20,550 --> 00:07:22,947 that she's got some white sheets in her closet. 135 00:07:22,972 --> 00:07:24,368 But we don't have proof. 136 00:07:24,393 --> 00:07:26,595 And they don't exactly share their membership rolls. 137 00:07:26,620 --> 00:07:29,837 Well, we should use our resources to find evidence. 138 00:07:29,862 --> 00:07:31,814 Take her down. 139 00:07:34,422 --> 00:07:38,165 That is exactly what the men with money want us to do. 140 00:07:38,562 --> 00:07:40,915 They use women as a cover to orchestrate a catfight 141 00:07:40,940 --> 00:07:42,342 to distract everyone 142 00:07:42,367 --> 00:07:44,145 so they can sit in dark rooms and smoke cigars 143 00:07:44,169 --> 00:07:45,658 and count their money. 144 00:07:45,683 --> 00:07:50,033 The smartest thing for us to do is not engage with her at all. 145 00:07:50,058 --> 00:07:51,837 It'll only create more headlines. 146 00:07:51,862 --> 00:07:53,463 I agree. Gloria's right. 147 00:07:53,488 --> 00:07:56,798 We should stick to the program, as they say in Weight Watchers. 148 00:07:56,823 --> 00:07:59,259 Like you would know what they say at Weight Watchers. 149 00:07:59,784 --> 00:08:01,275 Can we all make a pact 150 00:08:01,300 --> 00:08:05,353 right here and now not to give her the time of day? 151 00:08:09,196 --> 00:08:10,889 Betty. 152 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:13,936 Fine. I agree. 153 00:08:14,586 --> 00:08:17,499 I only show up when my help is needed. 154 00:08:18,473 --> 00:08:19,818 Phyllis "Schafly" 155 00:08:19,842 --> 00:08:23,202 did not get this money from her housekeeping money. 156 00:08:23,227 --> 00:08:29,171 I have found evidence that she and her STOP ERA organization 157 00:08:29,196 --> 00:08:33,866 received funding from the John Birch Society, 158 00:08:33,891 --> 00:08:37,443 and I believe she has ties to... 159 00:08:37,468 --> 00:08:39,678 the Ku Klux Klan. 160 00:08:41,421 --> 00:08:43,123 Yes, this is she. 161 00:08:43,499 --> 00:08:44,967 Yes. 162 00:08:45,271 --> 00:08:46,850 Who? 163 00:08:46,875 --> 00:08:48,477 Good morning. 164 00:08:48,502 --> 00:08:51,732 Funded by the Birch Society? I'm sorry, what? 165 00:08:51,757 --> 00:08:53,936 The Klan? No. 166 00:08:53,961 --> 00:08:56,264 This charge is ridiculous. 167 00:08:56,289 --> 00:08:59,693 I have not, received a dime from any organization, 168 00:08:59,718 --> 00:09:01,753 unlike... well, that's all... 169 00:09:01,778 --> 00:09:03,809 No, wait. Here's a quote. 170 00:09:04,105 --> 00:09:06,521 I hope Ms. Friedan keeps investigating, 171 00:09:06,546 --> 00:09:08,475 because it keeps her out of trouble. 172 00:09:08,500 --> 00:09:10,779 Sorry, when... when's this article coming out? 173 00:09:10,804 --> 00:09:12,850 All right. Thank you for calling. 174 00:09:17,783 --> 00:09:19,639 This is terrific news. 175 00:09:20,025 --> 00:09:22,131 Betty Friedan, the most famous of the libbers, 176 00:09:22,156 --> 00:09:24,115 is attacking me in the press. 177 00:09:24,140 --> 00:09:27,115 I thought Gloria Steinem was the most famous libber. 178 00:09:27,140 --> 00:09:29,990 Well, the point is that they are acknowledging 179 00:09:30,015 --> 00:09:31,771 that we are a force to be reckoned with. 180 00:09:31,796 --> 00:09:33,357 But isn't it kind of awful? 181 00:09:33,382 --> 00:09:35,873 I don't wanna be associated with the John Birch society 182 00:09:35,898 --> 00:09:38,279 or the Klan or any racist groups. 183 00:09:38,304 --> 00:09:42,373 No, the John Birch Society is... is not a-a racist group. 184 00:09:42,398 --> 00:09:43,537 It's anti-communist. 185 00:09:43,562 --> 00:09:45,584 - Exactly. - Anyway, doesn't matter, 186 00:09:45,609 --> 00:09:48,975 because we're... we're not affiliated with anybody. 187 00:09:55,901 --> 00:09:58,639 You're not suggesting that I'm prejudiced. 188 00:09:58,764 --> 00:10:01,818 - I... - No, no, of course not. 189 00:10:01,843 --> 00:10:04,482 No one thinks that. The libbers lie all the time. 190 00:10:04,507 --> 00:10:06,342 And they're getting even more desperate 191 00:10:06,367 --> 00:10:08,029 - now that we're winning. - That's right. 192 00:10:08,054 --> 00:10:10,654 If people only knew how close you are with Willie... 193 00:10:10,837 --> 00:10:13,209 You taught her daughter how to read. 194 00:10:14,046 --> 00:10:16,701 But is it possible some of the state chapters 195 00:10:16,726 --> 00:10:19,287 are taking money from these groups? 196 00:10:19,312 --> 00:10:20,436 Maybe Mary Frances? 197 00:10:20,461 --> 00:10:23,170 Alice, now you know I run a tight ship. 198 00:10:23,195 --> 00:10:24,732 Of course you do. 199 00:10:25,030 --> 00:10:28,279 All right. Well, I will, I will talk to her just in case. 200 00:10:28,304 --> 00:10:30,965 - Good. - Now the fact is that 201 00:10:30,990 --> 00:10:33,389 the libbers are running scared. 202 00:10:33,414 --> 00:10:36,317 They have not a single good argument to make for the ERA, 203 00:10:36,342 --> 00:10:39,131 so they're launching this, smear campaign. 204 00:10:39,156 --> 00:10:41,458 My husband and I are John Birch Society members. 205 00:10:42,053 --> 00:10:45,014 Well, I... Well, that... that's your right, 206 00:10:45,039 --> 00:10:48,006 and I think maybe you should just keep that to yourself. 207 00:10:48,031 --> 00:10:50,225 Now this article is coming out tomorrow, 208 00:10:50,250 --> 00:10:51,865 so we need to make a few hundred copies 209 00:10:51,890 --> 00:10:53,272 and send them out to all our chapters 210 00:10:53,296 --> 00:10:55,436 and every radio news program, 211 00:10:55,461 --> 00:10:57,530 'cause we need to let them know that the, 212 00:10:57,555 --> 00:10:58,585 women's lib leaders are making 213 00:10:58,609 --> 00:11:01,012 these ludicrous attacks against me. 214 00:11:01,059 --> 00:11:03,170 I'll just go and fill this up. 215 00:11:03,572 --> 00:11:06,795 All right. Let's get to it? 216 00:11:24,973 --> 00:11:26,803 No, I can... I can wait. 217 00:11:26,828 --> 00:11:29,436 Please. Go ahead. 218 00:11:33,539 --> 00:11:35,641 The article will call attention to the fact 219 00:11:35,666 --> 00:11:38,469 that even though thousands of lives will be saved, 220 00:11:38,494 --> 00:11:40,866 abortion isn't affordable for poor women. 221 00:11:40,891 --> 00:11:42,581 My pitch is also about abortion. 222 00:11:42,606 --> 00:11:45,530 I know we're all eager to write about Roe, 223 00:11:45,555 --> 00:11:47,639 but we should at least have a couple of articles 224 00:11:47,664 --> 00:11:49,098 about other areas of the movement. 225 00:11:49,123 --> 00:11:51,335 But it's all I can think about. 226 00:11:51,861 --> 00:11:54,139 Margaret, you have something? 227 00:11:54,823 --> 00:11:57,592 I would like to explore the idea 228 00:11:57,617 --> 00:11:59,803 of tokenism in the workplace. 229 00:12:02,874 --> 00:12:06,952 This phenomenon that happens where one minority 230 00:12:06,977 --> 00:12:08,479 is propped up to cover the experience 231 00:12:08,504 --> 00:12:10,973 of an entire population. 232 00:12:11,136 --> 00:12:14,608 Like the white population, we are diverse within ourselves. 233 00:12:15,295 --> 00:12:19,311 What does that mean, diverse within ourselves? 234 00:12:19,922 --> 00:12:23,647 There is not a monolithic black experience. 235 00:12:23,672 --> 00:12:27,100 Wait. Sorry, you're not saying you feel that way here. 236 00:12:27,615 --> 00:12:30,250 Look at our latest issue. 237 00:12:31,191 --> 00:12:33,288 No. No, not at all. 238 00:12:33,313 --> 00:12:36,116 If you ever feel that way, you should say something. 239 00:12:36,141 --> 00:12:38,967 - There's no hierarchy here. - Right. 240 00:12:39,912 --> 00:12:42,522 I've been doing a lot of research about a new organization 241 00:12:42,547 --> 00:12:45,553 that just sprang up... STOP ERA. 242 00:12:45,578 --> 00:12:47,580 Phyllis Schlafly and a bunch of housewives 243 00:12:47,605 --> 00:12:49,475 take bread to legislators. 244 00:12:49,500 --> 00:12:51,507 God, yes, we know about the bread. 245 00:12:52,727 --> 00:12:54,858 My feelings exactly. 246 00:12:54,883 --> 00:12:56,163 I know, but now... 247 00:12:56,188 --> 00:12:58,671 I don't think we should give her any airtime at all. 248 00:12:58,696 --> 00:13:01,733 I know, but now that Betty's been invited to debate her... 249 00:13:01,758 --> 00:13:03,397 What? 250 00:13:03,422 --> 00:13:05,530 At Illinois State University. 251 00:13:05,555 --> 00:13:07,319 - Excuse me? - How can I help you? 252 00:13:08,589 --> 00:13:10,965 "Ms." Magazine. How can I help you? 253 00:13:11,696 --> 00:13:13,678 What's going on with the phones? 254 00:13:17,610 --> 00:13:19,522 "Ms." Magazine. 255 00:13:20,021 --> 00:13:21,600 What? 256 00:13:22,701 --> 00:13:24,741 Where did you get this number? 257 00:13:25,439 --> 00:13:27,335 Which magazine? 258 00:13:28,216 --> 00:13:31,587 No, you're not gonna find anyone to lick your balls. 259 00:13:34,546 --> 00:13:36,481 I'm wearing a... 260 00:13:36,506 --> 00:13:39,491 I guess you could say it's a coral sweater. 261 00:13:40,487 --> 00:13:42,507 Excuse me? 262 00:13:45,985 --> 00:13:48,811 Can we get a copy of "Screw" Magazine? 263 00:13:48,836 --> 00:13:50,203 Yeah... 264 00:14:07,133 --> 00:14:09,163 I was leading the same kind of life 265 00:14:09,188 --> 00:14:11,405 that all of us were supposed to be leading at that time. 266 00:14:11,430 --> 00:14:13,303 You know, I had my three children. 267 00:14:13,328 --> 00:14:15,061 And I'd had a newspaper job 268 00:14:15,086 --> 00:14:17,741 and been fired because I was pregnant, 269 00:14:17,766 --> 00:14:20,491 and I wasn't even aware or conscious 270 00:14:20,516 --> 00:14:22,999 of the women's problem. 271 00:14:23,024 --> 00:14:25,342 I thought there was something wrong with me because 272 00:14:25,367 --> 00:14:28,616 I-I didn't have an orgasm waxing the kitchen floor. 273 00:14:28,641 --> 00:14:30,233 I'm... 274 00:14:30,258 --> 00:14:32,835 How did you come to write "The Feminine Mystique"? 275 00:14:32,860 --> 00:14:35,272 I was feeling that my education at Smith 276 00:14:35,297 --> 00:14:38,530 hadn't prepared me for being just a housewife. 277 00:14:38,555 --> 00:14:42,296 So I decided to send out a questionnaire 278 00:14:42,321 --> 00:14:44,960 to my fellow Smith alumni to find out if anyone else 279 00:14:44,985 --> 00:14:47,647 - felt like freaks in the suburbs. - Did you have any idea 280 00:14:47,672 --> 00:14:49,641 that your book would have the effect it did? 281 00:14:49,666 --> 00:14:51,858 You know, it was like everybody was waiting 282 00:14:51,883 --> 00:14:55,569 to have it put into words... The problem that has no name. 283 00:14:55,594 --> 00:14:57,463 - And so what... - Well, seems like you got 284 00:14:57,488 --> 00:14:59,022 a runaway best-seller on your hands. 285 00:14:59,047 --> 00:15:01,132 And it seems like you have a habit of interrupting. 286 00:15:02,555 --> 00:15:04,874 Do you know what I do if my husband interrupts me? 287 00:15:04,899 --> 00:15:09,069 I say the word "orgasm" 10 times in a row, and it gets... 288 00:15:09,094 --> 00:15:10,967 So it shuts him right up. 289 00:15:10,992 --> 00:15:12,721 - Well, I think it... - Orgasm. 290 00:15:13,605 --> 00:15:15,726 Orgasm. 291 00:15:15,751 --> 00:15:21,359 Orgasm. Orgasm. Orgasm. Orgasm. 292 00:15:21,384 --> 00:15:26,117 Orgasm. Orgasm. Orgasm. Orgasm. 293 00:15:34,626 --> 00:15:36,687 And I'm growing even more impassioned, 294 00:15:36,712 --> 00:15:41,023 completely unaware that the strap of my dress had broken 295 00:15:41,048 --> 00:15:43,906 and my boob was hanging out. 296 00:15:43,931 --> 00:15:47,578 And... Well, you can imagine the pictures 297 00:15:47,603 --> 00:15:48,993 that ran in the press the next day. 298 00:15:49,017 --> 00:15:50,251 - I can. - You know? 299 00:15:50,276 --> 00:15:52,197 And I am. 300 00:15:52,446 --> 00:15:55,132 So I will say that that kind of press 301 00:15:55,157 --> 00:15:57,206 was invaluable in getting out the word. 302 00:15:57,231 --> 00:16:00,947 I will never forget watching that march 303 00:16:00,972 --> 00:16:04,650 down 5th Avenue, women, arms linked. 304 00:16:04,675 --> 00:16:08,939 Yes. When I got up to speak to the crowd at Bryant Park, 305 00:16:08,964 --> 00:16:11,674 it suddenly hit me that down through the generations 306 00:16:11,699 --> 00:16:14,814 through history, our ancestors prayed, 307 00:16:14,839 --> 00:16:18,174 "I thank thee, Lord, I was not created a woman," 308 00:16:18,199 --> 00:16:20,760 and I said, from this day forward, 309 00:16:20,785 --> 00:16:23,064 women all over the world will be able to say, 310 00:16:23,089 --> 00:16:27,057 "I thank thee, Lord, I was created a woman." 311 00:16:27,082 --> 00:16:30,619 You know, there's a saying in Pirkei Avot... 312 00:16:31,070 --> 00:16:34,650 "Every assembly that is for a hallowed purpose 313 00:16:34,675 --> 00:16:37,611 shall in the end be established." 314 00:16:39,100 --> 00:16:42,213 I feel that mission strongly, yeah. 315 00:16:44,736 --> 00:16:48,963 Well, I'm gonna have another. You want another? 316 00:16:54,833 --> 00:16:58,002 Next week, I'm going all the way to Bloomington 317 00:16:58,027 --> 00:16:59,603 to debate Phyllis "Schafly." 318 00:16:59,628 --> 00:17:01,627 - You've heard of her, yeah? - No. 319 00:17:01,652 --> 00:17:04,878 Well, you will soon. She's very media-savvy. 320 00:17:04,902 --> 00:17:06,634 Everyone else underestimates her 321 00:17:06,659 --> 00:17:08,306 because she looks like a Barbie doll, 322 00:17:08,331 --> 00:17:11,447 but she opens her mouth and sounds like George Wallace. 323 00:17:11,472 --> 00:17:13,374 So it's up to me 324 00:17:13,399 --> 00:17:16,783 to go save the ERA from her specious arguments. 325 00:17:16,808 --> 00:17:19,553 And I'm sure Gloria thinks it's a mistake. 326 00:17:19,578 --> 00:17:21,416 Gloria Steinem... I have heard of her. 327 00:17:21,441 --> 00:17:24,110 - Yeah. - What's she like in real life? 328 00:17:27,092 --> 00:17:30,325 Why is everyone so infatuated with her? 329 00:17:30,350 --> 00:17:33,966 I think it is because she's very pretty. 330 00:17:40,229 --> 00:17:42,005 So have you ever been to Bloomington? 331 00:17:42,030 --> 00:17:43,177 It's a shithole. 332 00:17:43,202 --> 00:17:45,458 I can say that because I'm from Peoria. 333 00:17:45,483 --> 00:17:49,419 Peoria. Peoria is very goyish. 334 00:17:49,444 --> 00:17:51,434 I bet you grew up drinking lime soda. 335 00:17:51,459 --> 00:17:52,966 Yeah, yeah. 336 00:17:53,522 --> 00:17:57,388 All... All my friends got into the sorority in high school, 337 00:17:57,413 --> 00:18:00,692 and I didn't, of course, being Jewish. 338 00:18:01,563 --> 00:18:03,198 So they dropped me. 339 00:18:21,060 --> 00:18:23,707 You might wanna look at it in your office. 340 00:18:28,821 --> 00:18:30,496 It's okay. 341 00:18:37,110 --> 00:18:40,879 _ 342 00:19:28,717 --> 00:19:29,949 Thanks, Dad. 343 00:19:29,974 --> 00:19:31,340 I won't be home for dinner. 344 00:19:31,365 --> 00:19:33,700 You've been out every night this week. 345 00:19:33,725 --> 00:19:35,199 Where are you going? 346 00:19:35,224 --> 00:19:37,496 Sweetheart, the man has got plans. 347 00:19:37,521 --> 00:19:39,152 - Thanks. - Have fun. 348 00:19:39,652 --> 00:19:43,090 If you are seeing someone that you have to sneak around with, 349 00:19:43,115 --> 00:19:45,005 the chances are you shouldn't be seeing her in the first place. 350 00:19:45,029 --> 00:19:46,630 I'm not. 351 00:19:46,655 --> 00:19:48,285 Well, then where are you going? 352 00:19:48,310 --> 00:19:49,863 Church, okay? 353 00:19:49,888 --> 00:19:51,949 Tommy asked me to play at his wedding. 354 00:19:51,974 --> 00:19:54,076 I've been practicing on the church's organ at night 355 00:19:54,101 --> 00:19:55,840 when no one's there. 356 00:19:57,759 --> 00:19:59,285 Ready? 357 00:20:02,584 --> 00:20:05,818 You think they'll have us facing each other. 358 00:20:05,843 --> 00:20:07,904 Well, that's how we did it at Harvard. 359 00:20:09,217 --> 00:20:12,498 All right, what... what do I do if, 360 00:20:12,523 --> 00:20:15,600 Ms. Friedan brings up the John Birch Society? 361 00:20:15,625 --> 00:20:18,857 Deny and deflect, just like you did in '67. 362 00:20:19,007 --> 00:20:21,037 Even better, go on the attack and accuse her 363 00:20:21,062 --> 00:20:23,842 of being a... a member of the, Radicalesbians... 364 00:20:23,867 --> 00:20:25,163 Or whatever they're calling themselves 365 00:20:25,187 --> 00:20:27,748 these days, and using the ERA 366 00:20:27,773 --> 00:20:29,732 to make it legal for homosexuals to marry. 367 00:20:29,757 --> 00:20:31,193 Well, that's good, 368 00:20:31,452 --> 00:20:33,647 but she's actually the only one of them 369 00:20:33,672 --> 00:20:36,256 who has disavowed the homosexuals. 370 00:20:36,281 --> 00:20:38,084 And she called them the, 371 00:20:38,109 --> 00:20:39,295 "Lavender Menace." 372 00:20:39,734 --> 00:20:40,873 That's clever. 373 00:20:40,898 --> 00:20:43,732 But I could accuse her of pushing the ERA 374 00:20:43,757 --> 00:20:47,068 to enshrine abortion on demand in the Constitution. 375 00:20:47,093 --> 00:20:48,912 Not the right crowd. 376 00:20:48,937 --> 00:20:51,514 - It's important. - Not the right crowd. 377 00:20:52,043 --> 00:20:54,662 So I'll be Betty. 378 00:20:54,955 --> 00:20:58,436 Betty, you're... You're quite handsome. 379 00:21:01,414 --> 00:21:03,863 First, you'll each get an opening statement. 380 00:21:03,888 --> 00:21:08,332 Well, I have a-a good, joke, to start. 381 00:21:08,357 --> 00:21:10,387 It's, comparing the ERA 382 00:21:10,412 --> 00:21:12,855 to trying to kill a fly with a sledgehammer. 383 00:21:13,395 --> 00:21:14,934 So you're probably not 384 00:21:14,959 --> 00:21:17,762 going to kill a fly, but you almost surely will 385 00:21:17,787 --> 00:21:19,988 break up some of the furniture. 386 00:21:22,354 --> 00:21:24,371 - You don't think that's funny? - I do, 387 00:21:24,396 --> 00:21:25,691 but Betty doesn't. 388 00:21:27,052 --> 00:21:28,654 So let's start with the draft. 389 00:21:29,117 --> 00:21:33,144 Right, well, Congress, currently has the power 390 00:21:33,169 --> 00:21:37,527 to exempt women from the draft, but the ERA would unfairly 391 00:21:37,552 --> 00:21:40,168 take away that power, and, send our daughters 392 00:21:40,193 --> 00:21:42,793 into the front lines, into combat duty... 393 00:21:42,818 --> 00:21:45,684 But, earlier this year, the Secretary of Defense 394 00:21:45,709 --> 00:21:47,207 announced the end of the draft. 395 00:21:47,232 --> 00:21:49,676 Yes, but there are already bills in Congress 396 00:21:49,701 --> 00:21:51,480 to reinstate the draft. 397 00:21:51,505 --> 00:21:55,113 Now, I don't know anybody who has the solution 398 00:21:55,138 --> 00:21:57,121 to any wars for all time. 399 00:21:57,146 --> 00:21:59,301 So the question is, 400 00:21:59,326 --> 00:22:02,621 do we want women to be treated just like men? 401 00:22:02,646 --> 00:22:04,415 Vietnam, 402 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:07,527 did you see any women running to the draft board, saying, 403 00:22:07,552 --> 00:22:10,082 "I want my equal rights to be drafted just like the men"? 404 00:22:10,107 --> 00:22:11,349 Well, that's a distracting argument. 405 00:22:11,373 --> 00:22:12,951 No, I think it's a crucial argument, because... 406 00:22:12,975 --> 00:22:16,035 If the ERA passes, and they do reinstate the draft... 407 00:22:16,060 --> 00:22:17,801 Women would not be forced 408 00:22:17,826 --> 00:22:19,652 to go to war because the military 409 00:22:19,677 --> 00:22:22,160 has the right to determine who goes into combat. 410 00:22:22,185 --> 00:22:24,036 Yes, but they wouldn't be able to make those determinations 411 00:22:24,060 --> 00:22:26,644 on the basis of sex. It would be unconstitutional. 412 00:22:26,669 --> 00:22:28,184 Fine. 413 00:22:28,937 --> 00:22:30,426 Let's... 414 00:22:30,707 --> 00:22:33,457 you say that the ERA will take away 415 00:22:33,482 --> 00:22:35,871 the rights of, full-time homemakers. 416 00:22:35,896 --> 00:22:36,896 - That's right. - But... 417 00:22:36,921 --> 00:22:38,824 Since it is the woman who has the baby. 418 00:22:38,849 --> 00:22:40,793 So our current law recognizes this fact, 419 00:22:40,818 --> 00:22:43,667 and it allows the woman her right to stay in her home 420 00:22:43,692 --> 00:22:45,824 with her baby and be supported by the husband. 421 00:22:45,849 --> 00:22:47,699 That is not the law. That is the norm. 422 00:22:47,724 --> 00:22:51,441 Yes, but the law clearly places the financial burden 423 00:22:51,466 --> 00:22:53,154 - on the husband. - When your father lost his job, 424 00:22:53,178 --> 00:22:55,278 did the law protect your mother? 425 00:22:56,509 --> 00:22:58,302 Fred... 426 00:22:59,361 --> 00:23:01,403 Betty Friedan doesn't know about that... 427 00:23:01,428 --> 00:23:02,857 Didn't she have to go out and get two jobs 428 00:23:02,881 --> 00:23:04,630 just to keep food on the table? 429 00:23:04,802 --> 00:23:05,802 You're not being fair. 430 00:23:05,827 --> 00:23:08,442 It's... I'm making a point. It's a debate. Fight back. 431 00:23:08,467 --> 00:23:10,239 - Stop... - Did the law protect your mother? 432 00:23:10,264 --> 00:23:11,857 - Stop it. - Who took her privileges away? 433 00:23:11,881 --> 00:23:14,294 I said stop it. You're just trying to make me emotional. 434 00:23:15,060 --> 00:23:17,052 See, that's how you win a debate. 435 00:23:37,316 --> 00:23:38,970 Why aren't you at your lesson? 436 00:23:39,695 --> 00:23:42,360 Aunt Eleanor said I didn't have to go in. 437 00:23:42,385 --> 00:23:44,720 Well, it's not up to Aunt Eleanor. 438 00:23:44,745 --> 00:23:46,033 Come on. Your swim teacher's waiting. 439 00:23:46,057 --> 00:23:48,103 Well, Anne wasn't up for it today. 440 00:23:48,191 --> 00:23:52,142 When you were in Philadelphia, she had a scare in the pool. 441 00:23:52,167 --> 00:23:55,345 Well, the longer she waits, the harder it will be. 442 00:24:00,890 --> 00:24:04,743 - I don't want to. - Let her take her time. 443 00:24:04,768 --> 00:24:07,738 Fear will not be something that stops my child. 444 00:24:07,968 --> 00:24:10,485 Now fear is not gonna stop you. 445 00:24:16,128 --> 00:24:17,860 All right. 446 00:24:18,414 --> 00:24:19,982 Aah! 447 00:24:38,703 --> 00:24:41,733 See? Now it's done. 448 00:24:42,888 --> 00:24:45,327 You did great, sweetheart. 449 00:24:47,125 --> 00:24:50,350 Yeah. You really did. 450 00:24:58,344 --> 00:24:59,944 It's not even you. 451 00:24:59,969 --> 00:25:03,952 That is me. She has my hair. She has my face, my aviators. 452 00:25:03,977 --> 00:25:05,569 And my labia. 453 00:25:08,633 --> 00:25:10,444 Well, I had a few blissful months 454 00:25:10,469 --> 00:25:12,655 of feeling I had control over my body. 455 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,069 Hi. It's the copy of the cease and desist letter 456 00:25:15,094 --> 00:25:17,069 I sent to Al Goldstein's office. 457 00:25:17,094 --> 00:25:18,366 That should shut him up. 458 00:25:18,391 --> 00:25:20,959 The damage is done. He can't take back that I saw it. 459 00:25:20,984 --> 00:25:22,944 Could you also send a cease and desist letter 460 00:25:22,969 --> 00:25:24,170 to Betty's apartment? 461 00:25:24,195 --> 00:25:26,639 I don't understand how a respected university 462 00:25:26,664 --> 00:25:29,498 invites Betty Friedan to share the stage with a woman 463 00:25:29,523 --> 00:25:31,382 who gets her funding from the Birchers and the Klan. 464 00:25:31,406 --> 00:25:33,441 She couldn't prove it, and no one cares. 465 00:25:33,509 --> 00:25:36,679 It could go well. Betty's a force of nature. 466 00:25:36,704 --> 00:25:38,819 She will terrorize her. 467 00:25:38,844 --> 00:25:41,436 The problem is the press follows Betty wherever she is. 468 00:25:41,461 --> 00:25:43,296 Phyllis will get media attention, 469 00:25:43,321 --> 00:25:45,506 which is what she's after. It's a mistake. 470 00:25:45,531 --> 00:25:48,592 - So stop her. - Me? You stop her. 471 00:25:48,617 --> 00:25:50,358 It's not my attention she's after. 472 00:25:50,383 --> 00:25:53,506 We're a political movement, not a sorority. 473 00:25:55,408 --> 00:25:57,405 Every time I reach a hand out to her, 474 00:25:57,430 --> 00:25:58,655 I pull back a bloody stump. 475 00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:00,737 Well, get used to it. Men are gonna try and tear you down, 476 00:26:00,761 --> 00:26:02,218 and women are gonna compete with you, 477 00:26:02,242 --> 00:26:04,866 and you have to deal with both. 478 00:26:04,891 --> 00:26:07,303 What I would give to write a book that women 479 00:26:07,328 --> 00:26:10,303 talk about like they talk about "The Feminine Mystique." 480 00:26:10,703 --> 00:26:13,061 I would retire to the Hamptons 481 00:26:13,086 --> 00:26:14,647 and listen to the waves crashing. 482 00:26:15,156 --> 00:26:17,147 You're gonna be late for your lunch. 483 00:26:17,282 --> 00:26:19,662 Can you try and get Betty Friedan on the phone 484 00:26:19,687 --> 00:26:21,741 - when I get back? - Sure. 485 00:26:22,464 --> 00:26:24,436 Don't try too hard. 486 00:26:37,769 --> 00:26:38,971 Mom? 487 00:26:38,996 --> 00:26:40,748 Please don't make a scene. 488 00:26:40,773 --> 00:26:42,178 If she didn't want a scene, 489 00:26:42,203 --> 00:26:43,671 then she shouldn't have given you a blouse 490 00:26:43,695 --> 00:26:44,889 that's only appropriate 491 00:26:44,914 --> 00:26:47,483 for a certain type of grown-up woman. 492 00:26:57,001 --> 00:26:59,920 Betty, it's so nice to see you. 493 00:26:59,945 --> 00:27:02,155 Loved your last column. 494 00:27:02,247 --> 00:27:05,498 Who is this mystery man you went on a blind date with? 495 00:27:06,065 --> 00:27:07,811 It was just a one-time thing. 496 00:27:07,836 --> 00:27:09,461 You know, he hasn't called. 497 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:11,081 Anyway, he wasn't my type. 498 00:27:11,106 --> 00:27:14,952 Men. I'm so happy you came to the door this time. 499 00:27:14,977 --> 00:27:18,413 I've been meaning to tell you, you hear these horror stories. 500 00:27:18,438 --> 00:27:20,061 The kids always hate the new wife, 501 00:27:20,086 --> 00:27:25,100 but Emily has been wonderful, and I know that comes from you. 502 00:27:25,660 --> 00:27:28,092 I hope it's okay I said that. 503 00:27:39,136 --> 00:27:40,671 Mom? 504 00:27:43,926 --> 00:27:45,394 I love you. 505 00:27:46,631 --> 00:27:48,811 I love you more. 506 00:28:20,585 --> 00:28:21,968 Natalie. 507 00:28:21,993 --> 00:28:23,961 Hi. 508 00:28:24,204 --> 00:28:27,882 I sneak up here sometimes to water the plants. 509 00:28:27,907 --> 00:28:30,328 Betty has a black thumb. 510 00:28:30,942 --> 00:28:34,054 I live in the apartment below. We're... We're good friends. 511 00:28:34,079 --> 00:28:35,461 Are you still at "Harper's"? 512 00:28:35,486 --> 00:28:38,223 Yes, but if you ever start a style section, 513 00:28:38,248 --> 00:28:40,121 I would be happy to consult. 514 00:28:40,146 --> 00:28:42,606 Just know that I am a very expensive hire. 515 00:28:43,426 --> 00:28:46,074 I... I really need to speak to Betty. 516 00:28:46,107 --> 00:28:47,816 I've been calling and calling. 517 00:28:47,841 --> 00:28:50,926 She's traveling to the debate. 518 00:28:50,951 --> 00:28:53,981 - Do you know which hotel she... - Well, she didn't mention. 519 00:28:54,460 --> 00:28:58,106 Okay, well... thanks. 520 00:28:58,696 --> 00:29:01,498 Betty knows what she's doing. 521 00:29:07,033 --> 00:29:09,254 It's just we all agreed on a... 522 00:29:09,279 --> 00:29:12,973 Who agreed? You and... and Bella? 523 00:29:14,296 --> 00:29:17,309 We try and work with her, but she can be... 524 00:29:17,798 --> 00:29:19,504 She has a difficult personality. 525 00:29:19,529 --> 00:29:21,739 Maybe you don't see that side of her because you're friends. 526 00:29:21,763 --> 00:29:23,934 No. No, Betty is impossible. 527 00:29:24,328 --> 00:29:27,137 But without her, there's no NOW, 528 00:29:27,162 --> 00:29:29,770 no Women's Political Caucus, no NARAL. 529 00:29:30,329 --> 00:29:35,113 We get to do what we do because she risked everything. 530 00:29:35,853 --> 00:29:40,027 So before you tell her what she can and cannot do, 531 00:29:40,052 --> 00:29:44,090 consider just saying... thank you. 532 00:29:47,180 --> 00:29:49,801 I'd better get back to the office. 533 00:29:51,522 --> 00:29:53,613 It was good to run into you. 534 00:29:53,638 --> 00:29:55,270 Yeah. 535 00:30:13,704 --> 00:30:15,629 It's 15 of y'all. Tell me I'm wrong. 536 00:30:15,654 --> 00:30:17,755 I don't want nobody crying that they didn't get a slice. 537 00:30:17,779 --> 00:30:20,715 Can I have mine with vanilla frosting? 538 00:30:21,731 --> 00:30:23,957 What are you teaching this little girl? 539 00:30:23,982 --> 00:30:25,691 You know what, honey? 540 00:30:25,716 --> 00:30:28,223 You go with your mom to "Ms." and have all 541 00:30:28,248 --> 00:30:29,856 the vanilla frosting you want, okay? 542 00:30:29,881 --> 00:30:31,777 Then we'll listen to a record by The Beatles. 543 00:30:31,802 --> 00:30:34,426 - Why? - Well, hey there, Carol Brady. 544 00:30:36,287 --> 00:30:38,082 So how are things at the magazine? 545 00:30:38,107 --> 00:30:41,294 Gloria says they're struggling. 546 00:30:41,319 --> 00:30:44,262 They have an East Side office with outdoor carpeting 547 00:30:44,287 --> 00:30:46,574 so your feet can feel good before going inside. 548 00:30:46,599 --> 00:30:49,268 I wanna struggle like that. 549 00:30:49,854 --> 00:30:51,559 You want some milk, honey? 550 00:30:51,584 --> 00:30:52,852 Yes, ma'am. 551 00:30:53,752 --> 00:30:55,285 Now look, she's so precious. 552 00:30:55,310 --> 00:30:57,191 - She is. - Isn't she good? 553 00:30:57,216 --> 00:30:59,043 Thanks, girl. 554 00:30:59,068 --> 00:31:02,104 Hey, girl. We got cake out there. 555 00:31:02,783 --> 00:31:04,113 - Hey, y'all. - Hi. 556 00:31:04,138 --> 00:31:06,504 - I just cut the cake. - All right. 557 00:31:06,529 --> 00:31:08,918 'Cause we don't want white women to align with us. 558 00:31:08,943 --> 00:31:10,918 - Here she goes again. - Don't start. 559 00:31:10,943 --> 00:31:12,348 Would you like a slice? 560 00:31:12,373 --> 00:31:14,926 - Thanks, girl. - No, thank you. 561 00:31:16,091 --> 00:31:19,856 Don't get duped into working with an alien political project. 562 00:31:20,881 --> 00:31:25,379 You know, I never confuse a lawn mower with a shoe. 563 00:31:25,545 --> 00:31:28,426 Both are useful 564 00:31:28,451 --> 00:31:32,074 as long as you don't mistake one for the other. 565 00:31:33,124 --> 00:31:36,113 We can get along with white feminists. 566 00:31:38,794 --> 00:31:40,356 You know, I don't have a problem with Margaret 567 00:31:40,380 --> 00:31:42,277 and her kind, but their kind of talk 568 00:31:42,302 --> 00:31:43,535 puts gender before race. 569 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:46,121 Wait a minute. Margaret's kind? 570 00:31:46,146 --> 00:31:48,226 If we include lesbians, we're not gonna get support 571 00:31:48,251 --> 00:31:49,973 from the Black Power movement. 572 00:31:50,485 --> 00:31:52,582 You've got to be kidding me. 573 00:32:00,611 --> 00:32:03,248 You wanna talk about it? Let's talk about it. 574 00:32:03,356 --> 00:32:07,360 There will be no "Lavender Menace" bullshit here. 575 00:32:07,385 --> 00:32:09,220 Lesbians are welcome. 576 00:32:09,383 --> 00:32:12,856 Horizontal hostility is not. 577 00:32:18,936 --> 00:32:21,402 Where's my milk? 578 00:32:21,427 --> 00:32:23,840 Shit, I'm sorry, baby. 579 00:32:23,865 --> 00:32:25,661 Tell everybody what you say whenever the kids at school 580 00:32:25,685 --> 00:32:27,309 ask you why your mama is gay. 581 00:32:27,334 --> 00:32:29,971 I say, "Why is your mom straight?" 582 00:32:32,270 --> 00:32:33,604 Gimme five. 583 00:32:33,629 --> 00:32:36,082 Doris can start her own damn organization 584 00:32:36,107 --> 00:32:38,856 because we embrace everyone in this one. 585 00:32:38,881 --> 00:32:41,449 - That's right. - You call this an organization? 586 00:32:41,474 --> 00:32:43,699 It's just this... Sundays at Flo's. 587 00:32:43,724 --> 00:32:45,848 Well, you think you can do better? 588 00:32:45,873 --> 00:32:48,348 I am sick and tired of y'all bitches 589 00:32:48,373 --> 00:32:50,775 always talking 'bout y'all need to form somethin'. 590 00:32:51,094 --> 00:32:55,531 You wanna form somethin'? Go on then. Form it. 591 00:33:10,985 --> 00:33:13,106 You must be Betty Friedan. 592 00:33:13,629 --> 00:33:15,457 Phyllis Schlafly. 593 00:33:17,536 --> 00:33:20,139 How do the Birches feel about you powdering your nose 594 00:33:20,164 --> 00:33:22,324 in an integrated bathroom? 595 00:33:22,668 --> 00:33:25,848 Well, I imagine the same way that the militant lesbians 596 00:33:25,873 --> 00:33:29,035 feel about you even powdering yours. 597 00:33:29,701 --> 00:33:31,661 Just think if we had the ERA. 598 00:33:31,686 --> 00:33:35,254 All the pedophiles and perverts lurking in those stalls 599 00:33:35,279 --> 00:33:38,457 would get to witness this special moment. 600 00:33:48,450 --> 00:33:50,996 Are you here to escort me to the stage? 601 00:33:51,021 --> 00:33:54,629 - I'm here with my wife. - My good luck charm. 602 00:33:58,812 --> 00:34:00,480 You'll need it. 603 00:34:04,729 --> 00:34:06,770 Ms. Friedan is, as you know, 604 00:34:06,795 --> 00:34:08,449 the author of "The Feminine Mystique" 605 00:34:08,474 --> 00:34:11,145 and the mother of the women's movement. 606 00:34:12,685 --> 00:34:14,824 Thank you. Thank you very much. 607 00:34:14,849 --> 00:34:17,746 And is, as I recently found out, a Peorian. 608 00:34:17,771 --> 00:34:19,738 - Yes. - Welcome back to Illinois. 609 00:34:19,763 --> 00:34:21,137 Thank you. 610 00:34:22,287 --> 00:34:24,340 Mrs. Schlafly, who is going to speak 611 00:34:24,365 --> 00:34:27,449 from the STOP ERA position, is a Republican, 612 00:34:27,474 --> 00:34:30,988 active in politics, and lives here in Illinois. 613 00:34:31,864 --> 00:34:34,059 She is going to speak first. 614 00:34:37,155 --> 00:34:39,934 Well, before I start, girls, 615 00:34:39,959 --> 00:34:43,395 I'd like to thank my husband Fred 616 00:34:43,420 --> 00:34:46,215 for letting me come here today. 617 00:34:46,240 --> 00:34:49,176 He never interferes with my, civil liberties. 618 00:34:49,201 --> 00:34:52,262 Whenever we have an argument, he always reminds me 619 00:34:52,287 --> 00:34:55,104 of my constitutional right to remain silent. 620 00:34:59,183 --> 00:35:03,395 Now let me see a show of hands of how many girls here... 621 00:35:03,420 --> 00:35:04,848 - Women! - ... want to be drafted. 622 00:35:04,873 --> 00:35:06,918 - We're women! - Into combat duty. How many? 623 00:35:06,943 --> 00:35:08,285 - We're women! - I want to say 624 00:35:08,310 --> 00:35:09,872 - to the women... - And I think that to speak 625 00:35:09,896 --> 00:35:11,755 - to a certain degree... - they are too old to be called girls. 626 00:35:11,779 --> 00:35:13,449 - Of hypocrisy... - Men are called men. 627 00:35:13,474 --> 00:35:16,379 Then in a few months, we will have an all-volunteer army, 628 00:35:16,404 --> 00:35:19,176 and I do believe that if we want the same rights as men, 629 00:35:19,201 --> 00:35:22,905 we have to be able to accept the same responsibilities. 630 00:35:25,857 --> 00:35:29,731 Well, you see, this is a fundamental difference 631 00:35:29,756 --> 00:35:32,191 between the proponents and the opponents, 632 00:35:32,216 --> 00:35:34,965 is I don't want my daughters killed in combat. 633 00:35:34,990 --> 00:35:36,946 - But your sons you're okay with? - And the ERA... 634 00:35:36,970 --> 00:35:38,388 - will positively... - Because I have two sons, 635 00:35:38,412 --> 00:35:39,785 and I don't want them killed in war 636 00:35:39,809 --> 00:35:41,536 - any more than my daughters. - Ms. Friedan, 637 00:35:41,561 --> 00:35:42,973 it is still Mrs. Schlafly's time. 638 00:35:42,998 --> 00:35:44,505 - Thank you. - How about we don't send 639 00:35:44,530 --> 00:35:46,552 any of our children into combat? 640 00:35:48,913 --> 00:35:51,270 No, no, no, no, no. 641 00:35:51,295 --> 00:35:53,388 No, you see... 642 00:35:53,413 --> 00:35:57,185 a lot of, naive people said that after Korea. 643 00:35:57,210 --> 00:35:58,554 You know, we'll never get involved 644 00:35:58,578 --> 00:36:00,414 in another war in, Asia. 645 00:36:00,439 --> 00:36:03,309 But, unfortunately, I don't know anybody 646 00:36:03,334 --> 00:36:06,403 who has a solution for ending wars for all time. 647 00:36:06,428 --> 00:36:08,864 You know, I don't have a crystal ball. Do you? 648 00:36:10,491 --> 00:36:14,255 You keep insisting that a woman's place is in the home, 649 00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:17,106 but you waltz around the country decrying us 650 00:36:17,131 --> 00:36:20,528 for trying to open career opportunities to women, 651 00:36:20,553 --> 00:36:23,911 and this is what I can't stand... The hypocrisy. 652 00:36:29,428 --> 00:36:32,653 I have always maintained that women today 653 00:36:32,678 --> 00:36:35,147 have true freedom of choice. 654 00:36:35,172 --> 00:36:38,622 Now we can choose to be a full-time wife and a mother, 655 00:36:38,647 --> 00:36:40,489 or you can choose to go into the workforce 656 00:36:40,514 --> 00:36:43,013 on the basis of equal pay for equal work, 657 00:36:43,038 --> 00:36:45,240 or you can do both at the same time, 658 00:36:45,265 --> 00:36:48,145 because your life is what you make it. 659 00:36:48,170 --> 00:36:50,773 - Is that what you say... - Now on the American women... 660 00:36:50,798 --> 00:36:53,388 ... to the woman who chooses to be a full-time wife and mother? 661 00:36:53,413 --> 00:36:54,889 The housewife that you claim 662 00:36:54,913 --> 00:36:55,989 to care so much about? 663 00:36:56,014 --> 00:36:58,692 Because they are the ones that are really discriminated against. 664 00:36:58,717 --> 00:37:02,778 American women today are the luckiest class of people 665 00:37:02,803 --> 00:37:04,232 on the face of the Earth. 666 00:37:04,257 --> 00:37:05,960 - The law does not enforce - We can do anything 667 00:37:05,984 --> 00:37:08,185 - we want to do. - a woman's right to be provided 668 00:37:08,210 --> 00:37:09,521 for so long as she's married. 669 00:37:09,546 --> 00:37:11,998 - That is a fairy tale. - I'm sorry, Chairman, 670 00:37:12,023 --> 00:37:14,077 I thought we were having a debate, not a free-for-all. 671 00:37:14,101 --> 00:37:17,076 A woman cannot be insured in her own right 672 00:37:17,101 --> 00:37:20,053 for Social Security, and if her marriage ends in divorce, 673 00:37:20,078 --> 00:37:22,480 all the work she did in the home for all those years 674 00:37:22,505 --> 00:37:24,967 is not taken into account in the settlement. 675 00:37:24,992 --> 00:37:27,829 There is no provision in existing law 676 00:37:27,854 --> 00:37:30,974 to enforce alimony and child support. 677 00:37:30,999 --> 00:37:34,734 But, hey, your life is what you make of it, right? 678 00:37:41,438 --> 00:37:46,273 Now we have heard a lot of, emotional oratory 679 00:37:46,298 --> 00:37:50,187 from my, opponent, but not one single fact 680 00:37:50,212 --> 00:37:52,280 about what the Equal Rights Amendment 681 00:37:52,305 --> 00:37:54,656 - will do to benefit women. - My opponent 682 00:37:54,681 --> 00:37:55,782 - accuses me of... - You see, it won't give them 683 00:37:55,806 --> 00:37:57,446 - emotional oratory when she... - any rights or privileges 684 00:37:57,470 --> 00:37:58,883 - that they don't already have. - scares women that they should 685 00:37:58,907 --> 00:38:00,195 stop the likes of us 686 00:38:00,220 --> 00:38:03,124 as if we're a communist for asking that the government 687 00:38:03,149 --> 00:38:04,695 fund childcare centers. 688 00:38:05,290 --> 00:38:06,484 I don't believe 689 00:38:06,509 --> 00:38:08,187 that we should look to the government 690 00:38:08,212 --> 00:38:12,383 and our... our Constitution to solve our personal problems. 691 00:38:15,626 --> 00:38:18,913 You see, this is the false lure 692 00:38:18,938 --> 00:38:21,398 of the women's liberation movement... 693 00:38:21,555 --> 00:38:23,007 happiness. 694 00:38:23,032 --> 00:38:25,117 Because the fact is, girls, 695 00:38:25,142 --> 00:38:29,749 the ERA will not solve your personal problems. 696 00:38:29,774 --> 00:38:32,742 It will not hand you a happy home life. 697 00:38:32,767 --> 00:38:36,093 It won't give you a Sunday kind of love, 698 00:38:36,118 --> 00:38:40,570 as the, popular song goes, and it certainly will not, 699 00:38:40,603 --> 00:38:43,882 keep your husband from being jealous or petty 700 00:38:43,907 --> 00:38:45,601 or dumping you in your middle age 701 00:38:45,626 --> 00:38:48,320 for a new, younger model after you have, 702 00:38:48,345 --> 00:38:52,726 devoted yourself to keeping his home for 20 or 30 years, 703 00:38:52,751 --> 00:38:55,960 because you simply cannot legislate 704 00:38:55,985 --> 00:38:59,570 universal sympathy for the middle-aged woman. 705 00:38:59,595 --> 00:39:03,632 Now remember this, before you throw away your youth 706 00:39:03,657 --> 00:39:07,023 and your beauty and your virtue 707 00:39:07,048 --> 00:39:09,906 to join in this new sisterhood of misery... 708 00:39:09,931 --> 00:39:13,046 You are a traitor to your sex. You're an Aunt Tom. 709 00:39:13,071 --> 00:39:15,585 Now, you are correct on one count. 710 00:39:15,610 --> 00:39:17,242 I do leave my home on occasion, 711 00:39:17,267 --> 00:39:18,851 and I travel all over the country, 712 00:39:18,876 --> 00:39:20,648 and I meet women from all walks of life, 713 00:39:20,673 --> 00:39:22,041 and you, Ms. Friedan, 714 00:39:22,066 --> 00:39:24,445 are the unhappiest woman I have ever met. 715 00:39:24,469 --> 00:39:25,953 And you are a witch! 716 00:39:25,978 --> 00:39:28,351 God, I'd like to burn you at the stake! 717 00:39:40,012 --> 00:39:41,570 No. Well, on the contrary, 718 00:39:41,595 --> 00:39:44,296 I'm pleased that, Ms. Friedan made that comment 719 00:39:44,321 --> 00:39:46,335 because maybe now people will realize 720 00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,828 just how intolerant and intemperate 721 00:39:48,853 --> 00:39:51,484 the proponents of the ERA really are. 722 00:39:51,509 --> 00:39:52,851 Thanks so much for your time. 723 00:39:52,876 --> 00:39:54,124 Really appreciate it. 724 00:39:54,149 --> 00:39:56,992 - Betty. - Yes. 725 00:39:57,595 --> 00:40:00,181 - Ms. Friedan... - I... I... I can't. 726 00:40:50,913 --> 00:40:53,093 There she is. 727 00:40:57,366 --> 00:40:59,035 You're in it? 728 00:41:01,142 --> 00:41:03,344 But you and Conrad are good. 729 00:41:03,527 --> 00:41:06,531 The investigation's taking a toll on us both. 730 00:41:07,593 --> 00:41:10,663 If you wanna be happy, if you wanna be sad, 731 00:41:10,688 --> 00:41:12,234 I'm right here... 732 00:41:13,394 --> 00:41:15,117 and I got cake. 733 00:41:20,508 --> 00:41:22,210 We missed you. 734 00:41:26,532 --> 00:41:28,500 We're doing it. 735 00:41:28,851 --> 00:41:33,546 We're calling it the National Black Feminist Organization. 736 00:41:33,571 --> 00:41:35,554 And we put "National" 737 00:41:35,579 --> 00:41:37,908 in the title just to get folks hooked, 738 00:41:37,933 --> 00:41:40,843 and then they'll break off and do their own thing. 739 00:41:41,145 --> 00:41:43,812 Two years, they'll be done with all of it. 740 00:41:43,837 --> 00:41:46,524 - Two years? - That's all the time folks got 741 00:41:46,549 --> 00:41:48,156 to be into this shit. 742 00:41:48,446 --> 00:41:51,449 Not me, though. I'm a lifer. 743 00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:56,685 The one thing that everybody could agree on 744 00:41:56,710 --> 00:42:01,182 is that you should be our first keynote speaker. 745 00:42:04,826 --> 00:42:06,394 Maybe. 746 00:42:06,796 --> 00:42:08,179 Yeah. 747 00:42:13,047 --> 00:42:16,163 I can't accept you boys are old enough to drive, 748 00:42:16,188 --> 00:42:17,710 much less get married. 749 00:42:17,735 --> 00:42:20,960 Don't worry. I'm perfectly happy living at home, 750 00:42:20,985 --> 00:42:22,828 running around with commies and floozies. 751 00:42:24,978 --> 00:42:26,612 Phyllis! 752 00:42:29,038 --> 00:42:31,343 I just wanna say thank you for the work you're doing. 753 00:42:31,368 --> 00:42:34,071 You put Betty Friedan in her place. 754 00:42:34,096 --> 00:42:35,727 Finally, we have our own champion. 755 00:42:35,752 --> 00:42:37,539 Well, thank you so much. 756 00:42:42,150 --> 00:42:45,047 I know. I should shut my mouth and wear beige, 757 00:42:45,072 --> 00:42:47,128 but my personal color analysis says 758 00:42:47,153 --> 00:42:48,878 I'm a winter person. 759 00:42:48,903 --> 00:42:50,519 Go. Come on. 760 00:42:55,745 --> 00:42:58,730 - You look absolutely stunning. - Thank you. 761 00:42:58,755 --> 00:43:01,290 - I'd marry her again right now. - Aw. 762 00:43:01,595 --> 00:43:04,347 - What a special day. - My son may be getting married, 763 00:43:04,372 --> 00:43:05,473 but all anyone wants to know 764 00:43:05,497 --> 00:43:07,386 is when the Phyllis Schlafly is arriving. 765 00:43:07,411 --> 00:43:09,909 You must be on top of the world. 766 00:43:09,934 --> 00:43:12,128 - Congratulations. - Thank you. 767 00:44:13,235 --> 00:44:17,180 _ 768 00:44:26,237 --> 00:44:29,813 _ 769 00:45:02,397 --> 00:45:06,274 _ 770 00:45:13,475 --> 00:45:16,282 _ 771 00:45:22,705 --> 00:45:24,711 I didn't mean to scare you. 772 00:45:27,912 --> 00:45:30,048 We got to talking at Flo's. 773 00:45:33,921 --> 00:45:37,079 If you ever need a place for meetings or anything, 774 00:45:37,104 --> 00:45:40,368 you're welcome to use our offices here. 775 00:45:41,747 --> 00:45:43,610 Thanks. 776 00:45:44,908 --> 00:45:46,844 We'll find something. 777 00:46:14,618 --> 00:46:16,679 Natalie, I'll come down to watch "Maude," 778 00:46:16,704 --> 00:46:19,257 but I'm not hungry, and I don't wanna talk about the... 779 00:46:19,282 --> 00:46:20,851 It's Gloria. 780 00:46:24,650 --> 00:46:27,007 Hello, Gloria. 781 00:46:28,955 --> 00:46:31,695 If I had to be on the same stage as that woman... 782 00:46:33,411 --> 00:46:36,593 I would've called her something worse than "witch." 783 00:46:37,796 --> 00:46:40,617 Yeah, that was restrained for me. 784 00:46:43,540 --> 00:46:45,109 You were right. 785 00:46:46,847 --> 00:46:51,113 We don't get to decide how the battle lines are drawn 786 00:46:51,138 --> 00:46:54,015 or how the male press portrays us. 787 00:46:54,776 --> 00:46:56,336 I've been thinking about the first time 788 00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:58,562 I read "The Feminine Mystique." 789 00:46:58,953 --> 00:47:02,765 "Why should women accept this picture of a half-life, 790 00:47:02,790 --> 00:47:06,703 instead of a share in the whole of human destiny?" 791 00:47:09,039 --> 00:47:11,211 I don't know if I ever told you. 792 00:47:12,539 --> 00:47:15,142 Your book changed my life. 793 00:47:18,166 --> 00:47:19,668 Thank you. 794 00:48:22,743 --> 00:48:29,633 _ 795 00:48:32,742 --> 00:48:35,785 Synced & corrected by QueenMaddie 60532

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