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[Manon] Previously on "90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way."

I unpacked an entire bag, not this one.

[Johny] So proud of you.

It feels good to be back in Aruba.

No, I don't like the noise.

Johny, I'm afraid.

Please help me.

If you start it once, I'll restart it.

She's always had everything done for her,

but now we're living together,

and I can't have her have this vacation mode all the time.

Oh!

[Johny] Good.

[Greta speaking]

[Hazel meows]

[Greta] Saying goodbye to Hazel

feels like my heart is being ripped from my chest.

Bye, Hazel.

But I can't wait to see Matthew again

and feel that spark with the person that I love.

[Jenny] This is our cafe.

[speaking French]

I'm feeling super grateful to be moving in

with Manon's parents.

[Manon] Oh, my God.

[speaking French]

There's no intimacy, there's no privacy.

And honestly, staying at their house

is just surreal, yeah, it's surreal.

Oh, my god.

[Madelein speaking]

Well, how much is?

[speaking Spanish]

I sent over $4 million.

[speaking Spanish]

No.

[speaking Spanish]

-You can look at the bank account transactions. -Yeah, we can.

[Luke] Sure, I already have.

[speaking Spanish]

[upbeat music playing]

♪ We lit the lightning ♪

♪ Oh, it's reviving ♪

[Matthew] Today's the day.

Greta is arriving in the UK.

Hey, Apple, your mommy's coming home.

Do you know that?

Yes, she is.

I feel like I have a butterfly sanctuary

in my tummy right now.

It's been six months since we've seen each other.

That is the longest we've been apart,

and it hasn't been easy.

It's definitely a bit of a scramble

to get things ready,

but I want everything to be perfect for her.

I better make some room for her here.

Greta is sacrificing everything she has to be here.

Her friends, her career, her cat,

to be with me.

It's a lot of pressure.

I just arrived in England.

I'm really excited to see Matthew.

I haven't seen him in six months.

I'm on the train,

and the next step is to reunite with my love, Matthew.

I've been to England five times,

but this time feels really different,

because I'm starting a whole new life.

I'm an American woman on the way to my English fiancé

who lives in the countryside.

I feel like I'm living out of a romance novel right now.

It makes me very excited.

[optimistic music playing]

♪♪

[Matthew] I'm a little bit nervous.

I have no idea what to do with my hands,

no idea what to do with my feet.

[chuckles]

[sighs]

There's a lot riding on this for me.

Just wanna make sure I get it right.

♪ Soaring like a mighty wind, I ignore it ♪

♪ The shivers on my skin, 'cause you stole my heart ♪

♪ Now everything makes sense ♪

♪ But every night I'm kneeling, praying that it never ends ♪

[Greta] This has been two years in the making,

and it's an incredible feeling to finally start my life

with the person who I love.

But I am also sweating more than I would like to be

in this moment.

♪♪

[Matthew] Hi, darling!

-[Greta] Hi! -Hey!

[Greta speaking]

[both giggle]

[Greta speaking]

-How are you doing? -[Matthew speaking]

It's been a long time.

[Greta] I didn't realize you would be right here, so yeah.

-Yeah, right there. -Hey, sweetie.

Aw.

-Did you get a haircut? -Yeah.

You look very different, it's very short.

I know, it'll grow back out.

-Alright. -Now we did it.

-We're here. -Yeah, yeah.

I can tell it was a long journey for you

because you stink. -Yeah.

Yeah.

I -- I -- I had to carry some very...

-Yeah. -...heavy suitcases, so I got very sweaty,

and, um, I smell really bad right now.

Your -- your antiperspirant is fighting on for his dear life

right now. -Yeah.

You're welcome.

-Let's take you home. -OK, let's go.

Alright.

Can I help you with that?

Um, I mean,

I've almost forgotten what it's like to have Greta

with me, to have you with me.

And so, yeah, it's -- I --

I feel very disjointed right now.

So I'm just waiting for those sort of jigsaw pieces

to come back together over the next few days.

There is no return flight booked this time.

That's the first time we've done that.

And now it feels like this is where everything else begins.

This is the crossroad of everything in the future.

Yeah, it -- it's -- it feels very special.

-Let's go home. -Yeah, let's go.

[Greta] I know.

[Matthew] Oh, wow.

[music playing]

Color's not good, I'm not Indian!

What do they think?

Progress is good at the cafe, and things are moving along.

And today, we're having a Hindu ceremony called a "puja."

It's for blessings for our new house.

[speaking Hindi]

Good, beautiful.

-Thank you. -You're Indian lady.

-[Jenny] Mm-hmm. -[chuckles]

Indian lady.

[Sumit speaking]

[Vimal speaking Hindi]

Hope it doesn't break the floor.

[Sumit] No, don't worry.

My God.

[Vimal speaking Hindi]

[Sumit] Be careful with it, and walk right --

[conch shell bellows]

Right leg, lift, inside, go on.

Come, now straight, come over.

It's gonna be...

Carrying the thing on my head, it's supposed to be

like I'm carrying in everything in the house with me,

like I'm gonna take control of everything.

It's a balance thing.

[Sumit speaking]

[Jenny] Yeah.

[Vimal] Like this.

[Jenny] OK.

It's not easy

if you're not used to carrying something on your head,

[Sumit] Yeah, come.

[all speaking Hindi]

[Jenny] I find these ceremonies to be very beautiful.

The prayer that they're saying, a mantra?

Yeah.

[all speaking Hindi]

[Jenny] I'm so fascinated by it.

How do they remember all these prayers and what to say,

and everybody all says it together?

[all praying in Hindi]

[praying continues]

[Sumit speaking English]

This is amazing, this is a -- a very good day.

And now, all my extended family members are showing up,

and this is a really happy moment.

[Sadhana speaking Hindi]

[Jenny] How are you?

I don't spend a lot of time around his extended family.

[Sumit speaking]

You met Jenny? My sister-in-law.

Hi.

Is like Shree to you, she's the sister-in-law.

-This is too. -Uh...

[Anil] This is my sister.

-Touch her feet? -[all] No, no, no, no, no!

-[Sumit] This one, this one. -No, no, no, no, no.

Good job, how about you?

[Sumit] Since my extended family members choose to come here

for the puja, it's a really good sign that they have

started accepting our relationship.

I think that they need to get to know me and be happy for us

and get over it.

[Shree] Make small flowers

and small, small flowers.

I'm making the middle dots.

-[Jenny] You're making the middle dot? -[Shree] Yes.

[Jenny] Shree is teaching me how to draw rangoli on the floor,

which is usually a flower, some sort of design,

and it's used to welcome the guests

and keep negative energy out of the house.

-How's my flower coming along? -[Sadhana] Wow.

You like it?

[speaking Hindi]

Sumit, Jenny.

[Santosh speaking Hindi]

-Flower, I made flower here. -[Sumit] This one?

-I make the flower. -very pretty.

-Thank you. -Very nice.

[Santosh speaking Hindi]

[Sumit speaking]

[Santosh and Sumit speaking Hindi]

[Sumit] They saying Jenny didn't make it good.

Why you having a problem?

[speaking Hindi]

Someone doesn't like my artwork,

so I'm just gonna watch.

[Shree] It's OK, shall I complete this, yours?

Very good, very nice.

[speaking Hindi]

Why are you bothering?

We're enjoying, and you're bothering.

[speaking Hindi]

[Jenny] Why are you taking Mom away?

[Santosh speaking Hindi]

[Jenny] What did she do?

[Santosh and Sadhana speaking Hindi]

[all] Oh!

[speaking French]

[speaking Spanish]

[Madelein speaking]

[singing in French]

[Manon speaking French]

So we've been in Marseille for a few days.

[speaking French]

[speaking English] It's a very tiny house,

especially with a little 19-month-old baby boy.

[Ben cries]

[speaking French]

So we planned a little fun getaway to start fresh

with my parents, just get out of the house,

and we are going to go play some petanque.

[speaking French]

The first time playing la petanque.

-Yeah. -Let's see how you do.

[speaking French]

Two people in the same team.

[person speaking French]

With three balls.

[speaking French]

Three guys, two balls.

OK.

[Manon] La petanque is actually a game

that involve like a little

[speaking French], like we call it a little small ball

and big ones -- [laughs] -- very funny.

And you got to actually throw the balls

really close to the smallest one.

[speaking French]

You want to actually knock down the balls that are close

so yours can stay closer.

And you steal the points kind of.

[speaking French]

-[Laurent] Not bad. -[Sabrina speaking French]

[Manon speaking French] OK.

[Laurent] Anthony, you?

[speaking French]

[laughing]

Thank you!

[speaking French]

-Eh! -Ooh, OK.

[Laurent and Manon speaking French]

-[Manon] Whoa! -[clapping]

[Laurent speaking French]

[Manon] Petanque, it used to be a tradition

as a family when I was young.

During summer times, my parents didn't have

a lot of money for fancy, expensive vacations,

So they used to rent a townhouse

in a very, very, small asshole of France type of city,

where every day it's just, aperitif, lunch,

petanque, and nap,

and you start again in the morning.

Better!

[speaking French]

Voila.

[Anthony] I'm kind of just, like, lost.

I don't know if she's resolving stuff with the family.

Is it just bringing more [bleep] up from the past?

It is hard for Manon to, like, move forward,

but I definitely worry that Manon dwelling on the past

is gonna make her family less interested in helping us.

[Laurent speaking French]

[all speaking French and cheering]

[Madelein speaking]

and, ugh, you don't get it.

I'm sorry for how this is turning out.

[Luke] OK.

[speaking Spanish]

Let's just maybe get back -- back to it.

[speaking Spanish]

[Madelein] OK.

You're getting rid of that one?

[Madelein] Yeah, and mariachis?

[speaking Spanish]

[Madelein speaking]

[Madelein & Lizona speaking Spanish]

[Lizona speaking Spanish]

I am so sick and tired

about always I need to forgive him and he...

My question is, "For how long he think I gonna

to forgive him?"

Who tell you you gonna to sleeping with me?

If you don't want me sleeping here,

I can go sleep elsewhere.

Whatever you want, Madelein. I've had a real --

I don't -- I don't know what you want, Madelein.

I've had a really long day, and I'm exhausted.

So I apologize for being rude,

I apologize for making you look bad.

I am very sorry, that is not my intention.

I don't wanna fight, but I've given up my life

in the United States and all of my financial security.

She doesn't understand the gravity of the situation.

It's very troubling.

Can we go to bed together on my first night here,

moving here, or would you like me to go to the other room?

You have to understand, I work in a hospitality, Chloe.

I have to be nice to people.

Well, you can climb the rope,

just don't put people on your back.

I can't promise you that.

His literally sole purpose on his job

is to entertain young, drunk girls.

It's, like, if I worked at, like, a strip club.

[Johny] It's gonna be a beautiful sunset today.

[Chloe] I know.

It's gonna be gorgeous, just like you.

Don't start.

[Johny chuckles]

[Johny] Hello, good evening.

[Chloe] Thank you.

Now that I'm living in Aruba and I'm finally back

with Jonathan, it is a relief to put everything

from long distance behind us.

Thank you.

I really want to become a less jealous partner,

but his job makes that much more challenging,

considering his job is like a strip club

located on the ocean.

Oh, electronic mode.

Jonathan has a lot of big dreams,

and he told me that he wanted to go into business together.

I'm hoping part of him truly is considering it because I just --

mmm, I don't think I could see the trust coming back

truly at his job, I really don't.

It's actually so pretty.

-[Johny] Mm-hmm. -That's, like, picture perfect.

-[Johny] Literally is. -[Chloe] Thank you.

-[server] Enjoy, OK? -[Johny] Thank you.

[server] You're welcome.

[Chloe] Anyway, you mentioned that

you wanna open, like,

a business-type situation. -Yeah.

So does that mean you're going to lean towards leaving?

[Johny] Yeah, of course.

I don't wanna work for somebody, Chloe.

-I mean... -I mean, like, what kind of business are you thinking?

Basically, I'm thinking of starting a business

where I can be in the water.

And that's something I -- I --

I can't explain that feeling, you know?

I would always wanna work on the water.

-You understand? -[Chloe] Yeah.

I mean, but it's up in the air, but.

Yeah, I know it's up in the air, but I mean, I'm just saying --

-[Chloe] No, I think that -- -We're gonna -- we are gonna have to help each other in this.

Help you how, though?

[Johny] Help me create the business.

We can come up with a business plan now,

and then maybe, hopefully, lucky enough,

we can find an investor who's willing to put money into it.

Once I finally manage to get through that,

then I will leave Jolly Pirates. But that's the whole idea.

I think I wanna believe him,

that he wants to open a business together,

but I do feel like part of him telling me all these things

is because he just wants

to take my focus off of him quitting his job.

So you think within the year?

Within the year, I will start making bigger moves.

I have work really hard for like a year, maybe two.

So you think you'll be there for two more years?

[Johny] Maybe two.

But what if you find a job

that I like sooner than

two years or one? -I mean.

'Cause there's plenty of other jobs.

I've asked Jonathan to quit multiple times.

His literally sole purpose on his job is to entertain

young, drunk girls in literal dental floss bikinis,

and then put these drunk dental floss girls on his back

as they, like, cling on to him for dear life,

and then flip with them in the air.

Even one more year is pushing it.

Like, you're gonna be 33 working on a pirate ship.

I think he would probably stay until the boat sinks.

I don't know.

[Johny] It's an easy and fun job.

I get good tips on that boat 'cause of the things I can do,

you know? I snorkel with the people.

I show them all sorts of stuff.

I feel like you don't have to be so much, like,

the center of it anymore.

Like, I feel like you can slowly, kind of

step out of the limelight, if you will.

[Johny] I mean, if I -- if I start getting, like,

colleagues that start doing what I do, like,

nobody climbs the rope. -[Chloe] Climbing...

OK, you can climb the rope,

just don't put people on your back.

-I'm trying to do that, lady. -[Chloe] Deal.

I'm trying, but I can't promise you that.

You have to understand that, like,

I did leave working on the boat to go work in a hotel

because my ex didn't like me working on the boat.

And I did it, thinking that it would make things better,

but it didn't, and I -- -I know, but I'm not your ex.

-[Johny] I understand that. -So you can't -- you cant --

-[Johny] I can't compare. -Compare.

I understand, but it's gonna put me in a situation

I've been before, and I really don't wanna do that again.

I was just, like, mad that I had to go to work,

mad that I was doing what I was doing.

But the work's not always fun.

I mean, I think you can have a good balance.

Yeah, I know, but that's why I'm trying to find a way

to respect you as much as I can at work so I can stay at my job,

because it's something I really, really love.

I'm not asking you in this moment

to go put in your two weeks.

That's not what I'm asking you to do.

I'm asking on the boat.

Somebody asks, be like, "Listen," like,

"I have a girlfriend," whatever.

I know you wanna put on a show,

but, you know, leave young girls and dental floss

out of it, leave 'em out of it.

You gotta understand, you met me on Jolly Pirates.

You know, like,

you can't expect me to just change for you.

Just I met you a year ago, and like, oh, I have to change

my job and my lifestyle and everything.

[Chloe] If you're gonna sit here and tell me, "No, I'm not

gonna stop flipping young, beautiful girls,"

then you can easily tell them "no" as well.

At least have more respect for me.

And if you're gonna say no to someone, say it to them,

not to me.

The only way that I will leave Jolly Pirates

is if I did something for myself.

It's like if I worked at, like, a strip club.

-No, I don't work at a -- -[Chloe] Similarly.

I do not, not even close.

But it's like if I worked at a strip club.

It's not even close.

Because I'm saying most of your clients are girls.

No, not -- [splutters] -- what do you mean?

There's kids, there's families that come on the boat.

In the morning trip. You know what I mean.

No, in all trips, Chloe.

Like, Chloe, what is wrong with you?

Anyway.

OK.

[Greta speaking]

[Matthew] Yeah.

I'm seeing my fiancé

for the first time in six months,

and I'm sleeping down the hall from his parents.

It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.

[speaking Hindi]

♪ Canary Wharf to Kensington Gardens ♪

♪ We're coming up, we're coming up now ♪

♪ Canary Wharf to Kensington Gardens ♪

♪ We're coming up, you're not gonna stop us now ♪

[Greta] Wow, you're driving, uh,

more smoothly than what I'm used to.

Not doing any of your speeding antics.

No, been practicing just for you.

[Greta] I just arrived in England.

It's been a long day of travel, and things were pretty awkward

when we first saw each other.

I think once we settle in together,

we will feel more connected to each other.

The town still looks the same.

Still very cute, quaint.

I know, uh-huh, yeah.

Matthew's hometown is like

the quintessential English countryside.

There's lots of sheep, a lot of cute little cottages,

and just long country roads leading to nowhere.

Definitely not a place I would choose to live in my 20s.

It maybe would be a place I would live in my 60s.

I mean, I like a lot of the same things

old people do,

but I prefer city energy, not retirement home energy.

[Matthew] Here we are.

[Greta speaking]

[Matthew] Yeah.

[Greta] Hi, Nelly! Hi, my baby!

-[Matthew] There you go. -[Greta] Yeah, Apple, hi, sweetie!

I have stayed at this house three times before.

Mommy's home, yeah.

But it's always been, like, a little bit awkward

because it's a small space. We all share one shower.

I don't really have my own place to have

my own alone time.

Oh, wow, you got your new computer monitors.

[Matthew] Yeah.

I'm also seeing my fiancé

for the first time in six months,

and I'm sleeping down the hall from his parents,

and the walls are pretty thin.

It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.

I'm sorry, just cut that out. [bleep]

Is this where I put my stuff in these drawers?

[Matthew] Uh, yeah, everything with a G on it.

-[Greta] But there's stuff in there. -[Matthew] Oh, God, really?

[chuckles]

Oh, yeah, these are my shirts.

[chuckles]

Oh, I'll figure that out.

Um...

I guess you have to figure that out now, right?

That's mine, that's mine.

Maybe we should just get, like, a bag and just, like,

put everything in the bag, and then figure it out later?

-[Matthew] Mm-hmm. -OK.

Put everything in here.

Like, I just don't know why all of this wasn't done beforehand.

[Matthew] There you go.

Free, functional empty drawers.

[Greta] OK, I don't know if that's enough.

Can you make me a fourth one right now?

[Matthew] Yeah, I'll get one sorted.

Well, I thought there was enough space.

I mean, did you expect me to wear like four outfits

over and over again?

[Matthew] No, there's 20 hangers here, enough space for about

five or six pairs of trousers down there,

seven pairs of shoes.

I -- seven pairs of shoes are gonna fit there, and trousers?

[Matthew] Yeah, yeah, lined up, yeah.

So you don't see space as an issue right now?

No, I think this is fine. This is fine.

Should we lay out and start doing the suitcase or?

[Greta] Um, I feel like I just wanna do that, like, alone,

because it's, like, too cramped for me to unpack

while you're sitting there.

[Matthew] OK, sure, I'll let you unpack then.

I don't even know where to put anything.

[sniffles]

I know it's, like, so silly to, like, cry over, like,

not having space to put your stuff, but it just feels,

like, really discombobulating.

It just doesn't really feel like home, and I'm just,

like, coming here and trying to just find the space to put

my things, and there's not enough space, and, uh,

like, I'll just be living out of a suitcase, basically,

and, uh, it's just, like, a really weird situation.

I just thought he would get ready more for me to come.

So it just kinda feels like I'm not really welcome here.

I left home to come here, and then just, like, to feel

like you're just taking up space

that you shouldn't be taking up.

It just makes me really realize, like, I need -- we need to find

a place, like, of our own.

This is just not really gonna work.

I was already a little bit annoyed that Matthew

hadn't seriously started looking at apartments for us,

and then it doesn't even seem like he was expecting me

to arrive here.

It feels pretty inconsiderate, like, I just left Hazel

to move here.

He's just not really making me feel at home right now.

How's it going? Need any help?

You can get me a bigger room.

This one will have to do, I'm afraid.

[all speaking Hindi]

[Santosh speaking Hindi]

[Jenny] What'd she do?

What happened? Why she took your mom away?

[Sumit speaking Hindi]

[speaking Hindi]

And all of a sudden, she's getting mad,

and talking [bleep] about Jenny.

It's really like, make me -- why and what is going on over here?

[speaking Hindi]

Still having a problem with our age gap?

[Sumit] Yeah, age gap thing.

[Jenny] Well, we love each other.

[speaking Hindi]

[Jenny] Well, if you don't like us, you don't have to come over here.

[Sumit speaking]

[speaking Hindi]

[Anthony] Next time on "90 Day Fiancé, the Other Way."

I'm Pattiva, I'm 58, and I'm an exotic dancer.

But now I'm hanging up with my cowgirl hat,

to move across the world to be with my boyfriend, Dylan.

We've been together for 12 years

and have broken up 20 times.

I'm not gonna keep the breakup, the makeup,

the breakup, the makeup going for the rest of my life.

It's either [bleep] or get off the pot.

In Oklahoma, I get weekly massages.

I feel like you don't necessarily appreciate

how much I give.

He's never said anything like this before.

I couldn't afford the life that you want.

I'm engaged to you for the money,

is that what you're saying?

-Aw, you're so cute. -Sometimes.

I didn't do anything, I just --

[Madelein speaking Spanish]