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Previously on the Real Housewives of
Beverly Hills. Hi, how are you?
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That is so funny. That's really good. We
all got the memo.
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I'm best known for my best -selling
book, Riches, which has given me the
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nickname, The Money Queen.
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My marriage has been eradicated from the
Catholic Church.
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The letter came to Sutton Brown.
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Have you gone on any dates?
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Are you dating now?
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I'm not. I just haven't been leaving my
house. Girl!
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The truth about if Kyle is seeing
somebody, it's like, I'm sorry, are we
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or not?
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I don't feel like being asked all the
time about my private life. I was seeing
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someone, unfortunately.
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I'm single now.
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Since separating from Mo, I was at a
very vulnerable place in my life, and I
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felt hard for this person.
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If it was only me, I would give all the
answers I want. Yeah, it's not just
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about you.
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In this town, stars come and go, but
diamonds last forever.
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I'd die for fashion, but now I'm living
for me.
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I turn ambition into an art form, and I
am the masterpiece.
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I might live on a main road, but I'd
definitely bring main character energy.
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I didn't marry into money.
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I manifested it.
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Survival isn't my story.
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It's my superpower.
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I'm unfiltered, unbothered, and finally,
unburdened.
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Nico! Are we ready?
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Thank you!
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I'm ready. I'm in my matchmaking bag.
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I know you got the roses. I feel like
I'm like the hostess of The
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And what are the men called? The
bachelors?
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Yes. That's what single men are called.
I've never seen The Bachelorette.
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I've come to a striking realization.
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Almost everybody is single in this
friend group. These girls are going
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it. We've got our questions. I think
Dorita's going to be the most
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Erica, too. No, Erica might scare them.
And secretly, I think Kyle is going to
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be very nervous.
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I want all the girls to come out and
enjoy themselves. But I think this might
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an opportunity for Kyle to really let
her hair down.
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Blurt a little. I want to see that side
of her.
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I think the guys are already, like,
comparing their resumes.
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Look at them. Cheers.
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Cheers, fellas.
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Great to be here with you.
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You don't have your cocktails yet?
Sorry, bad timing.
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I went through my contact list and found
eligible bachelors that match the
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interests of my friends. We are going to
describe, like, keywords, okay?
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Protector. Chivalrous. Safe.
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Sexy. Sexy? What does that mean?
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Someone who likes sex, and you can tell
by looking at them. Oh, yes!
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I have done my research.
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I mean, this is a pretty good group.
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They look good, too.
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Oh, I'm so glad everybody's here. Hi,
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so nice to see you. Thank you for
coming.
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Hi, how are you?
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Hello. Oh, good to see you.
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Now, I'll tell you a secret.
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These ladies are very nervous. I can't
tell you the group chat with the, like,
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what should I wear?
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What should I say?
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What am I going to do?
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It would be really great if one or all
of them found true love tonight. And
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if it doesn't happen, I'm still excited
for them to flirt a little bit.
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Because maybe it'll loosen up the old
wires that aren't necessarily clicking
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the way.
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They should be nervous. We are intent.
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Yeah. Look, you better cut it out, OK?
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Give them a break.
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I want to look like a normal human
being. Mm -hmm. Right? Because, you
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get scared.
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Yeah. See? I agree. For the face, I
think that we keep it young.
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Baby doll. Approachable, but not. Could
give you a blowjob in the alley.
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But probably won't.
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Okay, we have to make me look very
pretty.
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We're going to make you look extra
snack.
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I think I need a Coca -Cola.
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I am going to struggle tonight.
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I need a beverage now. Where are these
ladies?
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You giggling already?
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I know. I feel really weird.
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That might feel weird. I feel weird.
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I don't know.
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How about have a seat right there?
Because they are over there.
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Oh, no.
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I know.
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If you make me take my shoes off. No,
no, no. You don't have to. This is the
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first time. I don't know what to make of
Kyle's single state. Is she single
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because she has accepted her separation
from Moe? For somebody who's nervous,
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you certainly don't look it.
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Is she single because she isn't dating
anyone at all? Why did you bring the
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expensive bag? See, this is clearly
signaling your high maintenance.
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Oh, my.
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Don't mess with me. Don't.
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Widow. You are a goddess.
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Come on in.
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We all look like we're going to a
funeral, you guys.
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No, she is not. Oh, my God.
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Everybody's wearing black.
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Everybody's wearing black.
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Hello, beautiful.
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Oh, my gosh.
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Everybody's wearing black. Let's see
what Sutton has on.
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I love this idea. My God.
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The key is you can't look like you tried
too hard because that reads desperate
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and thirsty.
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Don't look like you spent three hours
getting dressed.
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Like, oh, I just threw this on. I look
like the maid that's going to.
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Bend over and get it. Do you think if
you wear a little black dress on a first
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date, you're saying, I want to have sex
with you?
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Oh, my God. She's wearing black.
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Everybody is in black. I cannot even
believe you. Do we look like we're going
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a funeral? That's what I just said.
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Our subconscious is talking right now.
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We do not look like a group of women
that are looking to find a date. We're
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dressed in black like we just came from
some sort of witch convention.
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I think it just says where we all are in
our lives is black.
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It's a black cloud over all of us.
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We have to get out of our heads. She
happens to know that they're all good
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They're all successful.
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They're all very nice. Don't ask for any
dick pics.
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What? Those. That is horrible.
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How dare you?
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I've gotten enough of those dick pics in
my DM.
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I mean, do they really think you're
going to be like, oh, my God, that's so
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great. Hi.
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Can we go say hi to them?
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Let's go.
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Let's go, girls.
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Let's go.
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I'm rallying the troops.
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Are you taking your bag? I'm wearing my
sunglasses.
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Rachel, is that rude?
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No, yes, it's rude, but they're Rachel's
old glasses. Hello, everyone.
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Hi. Okay, good job, Dorit. Hi, guys. I'm
so proud of her. I'm Dorit. Hi, Ben.
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Pleasure. Hey, Dorit, I'm Chase.
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Nice to meet you.
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What happened?
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Let's go to the back of the box. I
didn't realize how many of these
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are so socially awkward. Come on. Oh, I
hate this. Just kidding. Yes.
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Kyle. Erica.
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Cheers. Weird Tuesday.
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Sutton. Okay, well, I knew Sutton was.
It's itching because I have neuropathy.
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It's going to bother me.
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Yeah. Hey. Rick.
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Greg. Nice to meet you. Rick.
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Nice to meet you. Hi. Rachel.
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Hi. Hi.
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How are you? Nice to meet you. How are
you doing?
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Hi.
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What was your name? Rachel. Hi, Rachel.
Nice to meet you.
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Rachel. Rachel. Nice to meet you. Wait,
does this feel like a receiving line,
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you guys?
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Fun fact. I actually won the biggest
flirt award when I was six years old in
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camp. A ribbon and everything.
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Where is your accent?
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Australian. Yeah, accent is two girls
already. I get it. Always, always works,
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doesn't it?
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They asked us to choose a husband to
marry on our camp bus.
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And you know who I picked? My 18 -year
-old counselor.
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Do you have a drink?
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No, but I think I need one. Oh, my God,
I feel so awkward. Hold on one second.
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Okay. I got to go to the bar.
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What? I've never seen this side of Erica
before. Where's the woman who was
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twirling around on stage, making people
nervous when she walked in the room?
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Probably got a whips and chains
somewhere.
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Where is she?
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Can I have a cocktail?
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Yes. I don't know.
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Do you want to take a shot? Do you want
to take a shot?
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No, I don't need a shot.
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Erica Jane can do anything.
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She can talk to anybody, blitz on stage,
run around in a costume. But Erica?
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is very awkward.
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I thought you had, like, some icebreaker
activity. I do, but we lost one. Or we
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could just do it the old -fashioned way.
Yes.
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How long have you been single? Like a
week. No kidding.
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A year. About four hours. Okay, that's
long enough for me. No. Well, I guess a
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year. I'm not going to suggest that I'm
emotionally in the best place to date
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right now.
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I've never heard a lemon referred to as
the carcass when it's done.
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Listen, it's just a drink that I like.
It's clean.
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It's easy. Is that how you would
describe yourself?
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Not easy.
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I'm really not easy.
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I mean, but she is.
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Make sure you tell her I told you. I
will.
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I'm a little out of practice, but that
doesn't mean it's gone. I know I'm a
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flirt.
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Yeah, it's working, right? Oh, good. I
got everybody's attention.
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Well, welcome.
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I'm so glad everybody was able to come
over. So welcome.
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Cheers to you. Cheers. Yes.
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So we have some stations where the
ladies will sit.
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Some questions that I've written, but
you are free to ask your own questions.
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And then we'll keep going around and
around until everybody's met everybody.
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I'm game. Yes. Okay, very good. Kyle,
you can sit here. Okay. Erica, you're
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going to go inside.
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Sutton, you're going inside too.
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I've never done anything like this. I'd
be more comfortable, like, standing on
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stage with no clothes. I would like to
gouge out my own eyeballs, but I'm going
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to go with a smile on my face.
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Let me start my clock.
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Okay, here we go.
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Um, hey?
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Oh.
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Let me start my clock.
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Okay, here we go.
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Have you been married?
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Well, yeah.
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That was a little... So you were a
lawyer, too?
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I was, but I'm still active with the
bar, but I'm not practicing. Thank God.
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What do you do for fun? No, I don't
think I've had that in a very long time,
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I've almost forgot.
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You're such a sexy dress. How could you
not have fun?
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Well, thank you. Are you more of a
dominant or a submissive?
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I've learned to be a bit more dominant
in life.
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I think the question means sexually.
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Oh.
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I've been on a lot of bad dates.
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And, you know, I did go on that one
date. It was just all about the mother.
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My mom still is in the house, but I've
been working from home, so I can still
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mom. I'm the only guy whose mother tried
to pull the what happens in Vegas stays
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in Vegas rule.
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Oh.
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I kind of have this fearless factor when
it comes to dating.
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So show me what you got. Let's do this.
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I started Comic -Con, so if you're ever
into superheroes... No. Oh.
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I can't. I did a lot not in Los Angeles.
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Why is that?
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Girls here are pretty bad.
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Oh, God.
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Where do you live? Do you live on this
side?
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I think we're on the west side, right? I
think we're on the east side now.
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Okay, so I don't know what side I live
on.
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Oh. I live in the valley.
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Okay. Do you know where that is? That
way.
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Okay, who do you think is... Amazing.
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Maybe like Led Zeppelin on the Rolling
Stones and that's like it. I don't know.
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Chris Martin.
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What's up?
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Coldplay sucks.
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What? Coldplay sucks, dude. White women
love Coldplay.
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What? When I was younger, I was always
in love with a guy that I shouldn't be
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love with. What I've realized is I'm
still her.
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I am still her. I'm still the girl that
is attracted to a very certain kind of
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person that is not the guy that probably
everybody like wants to set me up with.
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Oh my God.
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This is so much harder than I thought.
It is? Is it a little stressful for you?
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It's so stressful.
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I'm a real estate agent, by the way. My
husband would die right now while I'm
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separated.
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We made a deal. I'm sure you did. I
honestly cannot get away from Mel.
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I mean, I wouldn't be surprised if he
was here tonight as one of the
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I mean, he does good deals.
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Have you been married? I married a
stranger in Las Vegas for a day. It was
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bucket list.
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I was just going to say it was a bucket
list. It was a bucket list. Because it's
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completely legal in your country.
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You get married.
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When I turn the charm on, I'm not the
girl that's like, oh, wow.
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Oh, you look good. Have you been working
out?
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I'm more of the, it's in the eyes.
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Maybe a little hair flip.
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Anyway, so seductive.
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I've been asking the guys.
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Everybody loves Dorit. Yeah, look at
them right now. I have to tell you all
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this. Yeah. Thank you, my darling.
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But I think everybody likes Sebastian.
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Yeah, I like Sebastian.
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Yes, everybody likes Sebastian. Go back.
But look at them. This is a match made.
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They both have accents. That's how I
knew it was going to work.
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People will say I'm loquacious.
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What a word. Were you like a big comic
fan as a child? Yeah, I grew up
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collecting sports cards and comic books
as a kid. I love sports cards. What kind
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of sports cards are we talking about?
Baseball, basketball.
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Oh, cars. Oh, yeah.
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D -A -R -D -F. I have zero game.
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I can't small talk. I don't know how to
do it.
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Wait, you're in the law, right?
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Yeah, but I do other things too. You're
a slimy weasel.
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Sutton has a lot more game than I do.
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Soft and feminine and southern and, you
know, ha.
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Your accent's great. Just a hint of
Georgia. But it's more if I go home or
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talk to my mother too long. Listen, when
I'm on the phone with my family back
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home, New York comes right out. It'll
just come right back. I've been
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to work in baseball. I've represented a
bunch of players. My apologies if you
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are halfway through your conversation.
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Okay, ma 'am. Time is flying by. I know,
when you're having fun.
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I like Rick. He is easy to talk to. He
seems interested in me.
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He has potential, this Rick.
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Our time is up. Okay. Now, we're all
going to get back together.
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Sure. Okay. So we can go back in here.
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Okay, what's happening, you guys? Well,
everybody, I would like to say goodnight
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to our gentlemen.
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Goodnight, guys.
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It was nice meeting all y 'all.
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Wait, wait, this is me.
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All right, done. Let me know. All right,
I'll let you know. It's in your court.
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Still got it.
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Obviously.
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I love both, and there's nothing I won't
do for her or with her. I need fire
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pit. But, like, I knew full well there
was 0 % chance I was meeting a guy at a
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speed dating event.
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Dory, was that your first, like, meet
new guys moment? And?
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I feel like you did great.
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Oh, I feel like you were, like... I'm
very good in this situation. By the way,
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feel like you were fully rolling with
each guy, right?
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Tonight was a boost of confidence.
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It felt like the feminine, flirty, fun
Dory was here.
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And it felt good.
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Who was our favorite guy? The Aussie guy
was great. It was really fun. I liked
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Rick. Did he give you his car? Because
he gave me his car. Okay.
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Okay. I'm just saying, your attorney
husband didn't work out so well.
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Coming up. In order to be friends, I
want to know the information so that I
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also be helpful.
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Why don't you ask what you really want
to ask?
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Okay, okay.
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Who's our favorite guy? I like Rick.
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Did he give you his car? Because he gave
me his car. Okay. Your attorney husband
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didn't work out so well.
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I'm about to do something really
important. She's going to throw it in
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No. In the spirit of kindness and being
like a good friend, truthfully, this is
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for you.
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Whoa.
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It's taken a long time for Sutton and I
to get to a good place. And Rick seems
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like a really nice guy.
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Yeah, Sutton, enjoy him. I'm going to
give the lawyer thing a rest.
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Case is smooth.
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Kyle, do you feel that you are actively
looking to meet someone?
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Of course not.
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I mean, I'm not.
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What do you mean, of course not?
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No, I'm not. I mean, you're not actively
looking for anybody.
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I'm not three years in.
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I mean, like, is that what you want?
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I would be looking for a life partner.
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Like, I would want to get married again.
You want to be married again? I think I
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would want to get married again. Really?
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Gurit, do you want to come talk with me
for like five minutes?
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Pardon?
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Come here. Come talk with me for a
minute. I want to talk to you.
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Oh, okay. Go ahead.
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I just want to catch up with you and how
you're doing and PK and all of that.
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Sutton? Do you want to sit here? Yeah.
Is that okay? Have a seat. I was asking
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Dorit what's going on. I said I was just
trying to check in on her and see how
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the kids are.
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Did they go to Florida?
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My kids are supposed to go to Florida
with their grandparents.
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And PK is now, I got a letter today from
the lawyer saying that he's going to
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block it.
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They did go to Florida.
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So the kids are having a good time?
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They are having.
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The greatest time ever. What are you
doing now that they're not? Are you
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resting? The best thing that you can do
is take care of yourself.
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Yes. You have to. I know. I have to. And
you don't want to use it against you.
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You know what I mean? Exactly.
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That's, by the way, that's by design.
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Here's the thing. When you're going
through a divorce, your state of mind is
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like a big deal.
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Anything and everything will be used
against you to make you look not the
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So you have to be careful what you say,
how you say it, who you say it to, where
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you're hanging out, who you're hanging
out with, where you're spending money.
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And it's a long road. Yes.
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Dudes can get away with a hell of a lot
more than mothers.
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The great news is this. You will come
ashore, and you will survive this. Yes.
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Yeah, you will. And your children will,
too.
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And all for the better, you know? You
just have to get through it, and it
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and I'm really sorry.
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Yeah, it does suck.
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This is really nice to see a different
side of Sutton. She's talking to me from
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her heart.
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I know she has the experience, and it
feels genuine.
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I completely sympathize with Dorit. I
see a little bit of myself in this
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broken wing that she's walking around
with. It's so sad.
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It's the hardest thing to watch.
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I want to be a good friend to everybody.
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Of course.
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You know? I think Kyle is somebody that
I'm like, OK.
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I'm like peeling back the onion.
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Do you like anybody?
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Was there anything that sparked? If not,
I'm like, OK, tell me, girl, what you
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want. I mean, gosh, my gosh.
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You know, I'm not the only single one
here.
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You don't want to, like, just be?
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No, no.
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You are not a one night only girl. No.
So we've got to find somebody with
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substance.
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How many times have you been in love?
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Have I been in love? How many times have
you been in love?
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Oh, in love.
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Three times?
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Three. Yeah, in my life.
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How many have you been in love? Four.
How many times?
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Three. Yeah.
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Have you found love again?
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Yeah. Okay, yeah.
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00:20:04,740 --> 00:20:05,740
Well, that's a good feeling.
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00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:11,480
Yeah, I have love for me, but... Okay,
but now you don't.
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00:20:11,860 --> 00:20:16,940
No, now I'm just figuring it out. No,
now I'm just, I mean, I did, but now
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I'm... Now I'm on my own again, so.
Okay. Okay.
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00:20:20,750 --> 00:20:24,910
Yeah. Boze is acting like she's never
heard anything or seen anything, and
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asking me all these questions.
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And I'm like, okay, Boze.
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Was it by choice not to be in love now?
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By your choice?
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No, it's not.
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It's just complicated.
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I think it's been really challenging for
Kyle to be vulnerable.
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You said that you had never before
questioned your sexuality, but when
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speculation went into overdrive, you
would even talk to your daughters about
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It was a really proud moment for me as a
mom, how my daughters reacted.
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They supported you.
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Oh, my gosh. Like, beyond. And it was a
really uncomfortable, hard conversation
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to have.
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But I'm really glad that she's at least
sharing a little bit with me now,
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because I want to be there for her.
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I want to be able to support in every
way that I can as a friend.
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I told you, I'm a girl's girl. I want
to, like, be in everybody's business.
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00:21:17,260 --> 00:21:19,920
You're a lady's lady. Not because I want
to be in the business, but because I'm
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like... But in order to be friends...
Why don't you ask what you really want
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ask? What's that?
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What do you think I want to ask? I don't
know. I could go Brad. I could go
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Angelina.
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That's what you want me to say, right?
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I mean... Is that serious?
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That we go Brad or Angelina?
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No, I mean, I'm like...
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Half joking, but not fully joking.
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Oakman. I don't know. Listen, I've
learned a lot about myself. I think
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doesn't matter. I think it is a
connection with a, you know, a soul
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00:21:50,950 --> 00:21:56,590
I think my biggest worry after Mo and I
separated was really that I was going to
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maybe be alone one day.
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And then...
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To find someone that you have a lot in
common with and you can laugh with and
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have fun is exciting for me because I
proved to myself, oh, you know, I
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can meet someone after a marriage of
this many years.
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00:22:16,810 --> 00:22:20,990
I've always been attracted to men, you
know, like tall, dark, and handsome.
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Could that apply to women?
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00:22:23,630 --> 00:22:27,410
I also felt nervous about, do I go out
with somebody?
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Like, what is Mo going to think about
that?
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00:22:30,490 --> 00:22:31,970
What are the girls going to think about
that?
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00:22:32,490 --> 00:22:34,950
What is the public going to think about
that?
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I don't really know. Kyle, to be honest
with you, I actually don't think you
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have to know. You have been with Moe
forever.
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00:22:42,830 --> 00:22:47,550
She said 30 years. And I think it's okay
to now be like I'm freely being me and
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whatever that feels like and whoever I
connect with the most.
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I've gone through so much in these past
few years, and it really has changed my
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perspective on life and how I want to
live.
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00:23:00,140 --> 00:23:05,440
While I am sad about the relationship,
I'm also really grateful.
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You get lost in being a wife and a
mother, and you can kind of forget about
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you are.
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And I learned a lot about myself in that
time.
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I'm going to go back in my contact list.
No.
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00:23:20,380 --> 00:23:24,220
No. You know what? Bye. I'm a fake kind
of person.
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Coming up.
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Maybe I'll change my name back to Brown.
I dropped my married name the day I
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left. Like my last little... It is, but
you're not married to me anymore.
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00:24:11,110 --> 00:24:12,490
You guys can absolutely.
462
00:24:13,110 --> 00:24:16,210
Oh, Shoshi, do you want to paint a
dragon with KK? She's right behind you.
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00:24:17,390 --> 00:24:18,570
She's literally right next to you.
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00:24:19,930 --> 00:24:21,670
Oh, hi. You want to paint a dragon?
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KK wants to help.
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Let's go over here.
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Here, Mama, help.
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00:24:26,190 --> 00:24:30,250
You want me to help you get the stuff?
I'll show you. I've never done that
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activity before.
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Hey, KK, look at my side.
471
00:24:32,890 --> 00:24:37,050
What if we both paint on both sides and
we work together collaboratively?
472
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:41,220
How did where you grew up in Oklahoma
get there from where your children are
473
00:24:41,220 --> 00:24:42,220
right now?
474
00:24:44,820 --> 00:24:48,940
Okay, so I come from a pretty humble
beginning.
475
00:24:49,140 --> 00:24:52,680
We didn't really have a lot. On Friday
nights, I used to hang out at Walmart.
476
00:24:53,100 --> 00:24:54,300
We would, like, go walk.
477
00:24:54,660 --> 00:24:55,800
I would walk around Walmart.
478
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:57,960
Do you want to go jet skiing with Dada
tomorrow?
479
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,280
We're going jet skiing in the morning.
Of course, of course.
480
00:25:00,860 --> 00:25:04,220
They will never grasp that the reason I
have them in a stroller...
481
00:25:04,510 --> 00:25:07,270
walking around Beverly Hills, like,
getting ice cream and going to lunch or
482
00:25:07,270 --> 00:25:11,930
whatever, is because I dreamed this for
them. Like, we walk the street that I
483
00:25:11,930 --> 00:25:14,450
watched on Clueless. Like, that, you
know?
484
00:25:15,050 --> 00:25:19,390
It looks like I'm going to Disney on
Monday. Daddy has a new project at
485
00:25:19,390 --> 00:25:21,970
World. Sunday, you have water polo,
correct?
486
00:25:22,470 --> 00:25:25,750
At 11, yeah, I'm going to take Liam. And
I'm going to try to go to Pilates that
487
00:25:25,750 --> 00:25:26,750
day during nap time.
488
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:33,860
Eddie is my partner and fiancé and
lover. We met in 2019, and so we've been
489
00:25:33,860 --> 00:25:34,860
together five years.
490
00:25:35,180 --> 00:25:36,420
Eddie is in construction.
491
00:25:36,980 --> 00:25:38,060
Isn't he so cute, though?
492
00:25:39,120 --> 00:25:40,240
He's, like, so cute.
493
00:25:40,500 --> 00:25:44,620
Okay, before Daddy proposed, like, I
kept having the dream that he got me a
494
00:25:44,620 --> 00:25:46,460
with the Smart and Final logo on it.
495
00:25:48,740 --> 00:25:50,380
Get your Oklahoma ass out of here.
496
00:25:50,620 --> 00:25:54,120
So once Eddie and I were living
together, he asked me what I wanted,
497
00:25:54,120 --> 00:25:55,760
priorities were. I was...
498
00:25:56,010 --> 00:26:00,470
About to turn 36, and I remember telling
him that there was an expiration date
499
00:26:00,470 --> 00:26:03,990
on my ovaries more than there was an
expiration date on my ring finger, and I
500
00:26:03,990 --> 00:26:05,710
thought we should get to making babies.
501
00:26:08,090 --> 00:26:12,450
It did take a while for us to get
engaged, but then Daddy crushed it. He
502
00:26:12,450 --> 00:26:15,550
the exact ring that had been on my
vision board, literally.
503
00:26:15,810 --> 00:26:20,230
Okay. As a financial empowerment teacher
and coach, I'm the embodiment of
504
00:26:20,230 --> 00:26:23,450
everything I teach. I'm my biggest
testimonial.
505
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:28,000
I remember someone who was in one of my
courses and they're like, of course,
506
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:31,080
Amanda wouldn't come through just
manifesting a man. Amanda comes through
507
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:32,380
manifesting a whole ass family.
508
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:34,220
I'm really thankful you cook.
509
00:26:35,820 --> 00:26:37,020
Or else nobody would eat.
510
00:26:37,500 --> 00:26:38,500
No.
511
00:27:04,790 --> 00:27:08,810
Hello. You are so sweet. Hi, you look so
gorgeous.
512
00:27:09,070 --> 00:27:10,490
Hi. I'm so casual.
513
00:27:10,730 --> 00:27:13,370
I'm so sorry. You look gorgeous. Why are
you? I'm in jeans.
514
00:27:13,690 --> 00:27:16,910
Okay, we're both in jeans. Yeah, I love
your house. Thank you. I have a penchant
515
00:27:16,910 --> 00:27:21,110
for White Houses. I love White Houses.
Me too. You drink white wine. Yes. I
516
00:27:21,110 --> 00:27:24,910
brought you some white wine. And I love
this. I love Poulet Foussé. Yes. I do.
517
00:27:24,910 --> 00:27:28,510
Thank you so much. No, you're welcome. I
know Sutton because we have...
518
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:34,020
like, some mutual friends. So I end up
seeing her at different, like, events
519
00:27:34,020 --> 00:27:38,080
lunches and parties when I do that sort
of circuit, you know, around the
520
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:39,080
holidays especially.
521
00:27:39,100 --> 00:27:40,100
I always see her at cafes.
522
00:27:40,740 --> 00:27:45,620
But she was always someone who was very,
like, friendly and outgoing, invited me
523
00:27:45,620 --> 00:27:48,440
to all these parties and things like
that. I just had never gotten close with
524
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,960
her. Wait, I feel like we have so much
to discuss.
525
00:27:52,060 --> 00:27:53,039
How's it going?
526
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,940
I mean, can we talk about Bo's house?
527
00:27:56,570 --> 00:27:59,970
I can't believe we just did, like, a
speed dating night. Like, I didn't know
528
00:27:59,970 --> 00:28:01,050
that there was a name for this.
529
00:28:01,270 --> 00:28:02,830
Did you think any of the guys were cute?
530
00:28:03,510 --> 00:28:04,510
Eh.
531
00:28:04,690 --> 00:28:08,510
Did you think the guy with the hair, I
feel like he was, like, good -looking
532
00:28:08,510 --> 00:28:09,890
cute. Yeah. Right?
533
00:28:10,150 --> 00:28:11,630
Yeah. Felt like not.
534
00:28:14,870 --> 00:28:15,870
It's all relative.
535
00:28:16,770 --> 00:28:21,410
You know, I think I'm still so fresh out
of marriage, so I think I'm really
536
00:28:21,410 --> 00:28:23,130
enjoying not being married. Right.
537
00:28:23,550 --> 00:28:24,590
Would you get married?
538
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:30,400
So, you know, for me it's complicated
because I found out a little over a year
539
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:34,980
ago. My ex -husband, he asked for an
annulment with the Catholic Church.
540
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,800
Like within the church, our marriage
never existed.
541
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:45,940
But when I got the letter from the
Catholic Church, it came
542
00:28:45,940 --> 00:28:48,520
to Strack Brown.
543
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:53,260
And Brown is my maiden name. I'm like,
okay. I kept looking at it.
544
00:28:53,660 --> 00:28:54,660
Strack Brown.
545
00:28:55,020 --> 00:29:00,020
And so I thought, well, maybe I'll
change my name back to Brown.
546
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,400
I dropped my married name the day I
left.
547
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:03,720
Really? Yeah.
548
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,580
Well, the truth is, I'm not a Strack.
549
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,440
So, I'm Strack. You know who I'm not.
550
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:15,060
You should be Strack. I know, but it's
like my last little... It is, but you
551
00:29:15,060 --> 00:29:16,060
know what?
552
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:17,640
You're not married to him anymore.
553
00:29:18,580 --> 00:29:21,140
I always felt that...
554
00:29:21,580 --> 00:29:23,900
I could get Christian back whenever I
wanted to.
555
00:29:24,620 --> 00:29:29,440
Sometimes when we talk, I'm like, in
this little moment, like, did I just win
556
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:30,600
him back for a second?
557
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:38,880
I think I realized with this annulment,
he is not going to take
558
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:39,880
me back.
559
00:29:41,300 --> 00:29:42,300
It's over.
560
00:29:44,570 --> 00:29:49,450
Oh, Rachel, why do you want to make me
cry? I don't want to make you cry, but I
561
00:29:49,450 --> 00:29:52,590
also want you to... It's like when I
think about grandchildren, I'm like...
562
00:29:52,590 --> 00:29:56,770
what? Grandma and Grandpa Strack over
there are the good ones with all the
563
00:29:56,770 --> 00:29:57,930
houses all over the world.
564
00:29:58,750 --> 00:30:04,270
I'm just Grandmommy Brown over here with
my four dogs and probably 18 cats.
565
00:30:04,530 --> 00:30:08,130
Look, 18 cats is a problem in and of
itself, but that's a whole different
566
00:30:10,540 --> 00:30:14,160
I know a lot of women who want to keep
their married name, and sometimes it's
567
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,960
status. Sometimes it's because they're
not over the marriage and they want to
568
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:21,480
hold on to it. And I'm not one of them.
569
00:30:21,820 --> 00:30:22,820
That round's not bad.
570
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:24,080
What's your middle name?
571
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:26,280
Oh, no.
572
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:28,100
What's your middle name? It's Thurman.
573
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:30,760
Okay.
574
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:32,240
Harder.
575
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:36,200
Coming up.
576
00:30:36,580 --> 00:30:39,320
Do you know about your retirement
account? No retirement account.
577
00:30:39,740 --> 00:30:40,980
exist as far as I'm concerned.
578
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:43,720
Money's not invested?
579
00:30:43,980 --> 00:30:46,060
I'm in the unknown.
580
00:30:57,380 --> 00:30:58,380
How did it take flowers?
581
00:30:58,880 --> 00:30:59,779
No, me too.
582
00:30:59,780 --> 00:31:02,940
Another thing we're checking off the
list, we need to get with the program.
583
00:31:08,430 --> 00:31:09,550
Hi, welcome to Orchid Republic.
584
00:31:09,990 --> 00:31:12,290
We have an appointment here for her. Of
course.
585
00:31:12,710 --> 00:31:15,710
Hi, Margarita. Hi, Margarita. Nice to
meet you.
586
00:31:16,050 --> 00:31:20,030
Trying to get some info and ideas for
her wedding flowers.
587
00:31:20,250 --> 00:31:25,270
What is your color scheme and what are
the flowers maybe that you're thinking
588
00:31:25,270 --> 00:31:26,270
about?
589
00:31:26,350 --> 00:31:28,090
I don't have a color scheme.
590
00:31:29,550 --> 00:31:35,850
I do want colorful, bohemian. I like the
wild, unique -looking flowers, you
591
00:31:35,850 --> 00:31:37,490
know, ones like artichokes.
592
00:31:40,210 --> 00:31:45,130
Alexia's ideas get me a little stressed
sometimes because my wedding was more
593
00:31:45,130 --> 00:31:51,070
traditional. Black tie, at a country
club, I had 12 bridesmaids, and very
594
00:31:51,070 --> 00:31:53,530
traditional flowers like pink and white
roses.
595
00:31:53,930 --> 00:31:57,290
Let's just look in here for a second and
see if we can find something. Ooh, look
596
00:31:57,290 --> 00:31:58,290
at that one right there.
597
00:31:58,370 --> 00:32:00,930
That's too many purples. Too many
purples, of course.
598
00:32:01,550 --> 00:32:08,230
Alexia's my birth child, free spirit, so
I expect this to be very eclectic.
599
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:12,040
I actually like more of, like, this vibe
than that vibe. Bringing some of these
600
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:13,040
guys in.
601
00:32:13,620 --> 00:32:15,580
Look at these tiny bombs.
602
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:16,840
I love them.
603
00:32:16,860 --> 00:32:18,380
Do you guys have any, like, drippies?
604
00:32:18,700 --> 00:32:20,200
This is getting artichoke. This is
perfect.
605
00:32:20,500 --> 00:32:21,459
Ooh!
606
00:32:21,460 --> 00:32:22,880
Would those look pretty in here?
607
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:24,560
Do you like the more organic -y vibe?
608
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:26,160
We're getting somewhere, guys. Woo -hoo!
609
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,540
I love that she has her own unique
style.
610
00:32:30,620 --> 00:32:35,460
Frozen. But it's just trying to get her
to nail down the actual look she wants.
611
00:32:35,620 --> 00:32:37,060
So we can just put this to rest.
612
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:39,620
This looks so pretty. Look at that. You
like that?
613
00:32:39,820 --> 00:32:40,379
I do.
614
00:32:40,380 --> 00:32:43,320
This matches, like, the bridesmaids'
dresses color scheme.
615
00:32:43,700 --> 00:32:44,860
You said there was no bridesmaids.
616
00:32:45,460 --> 00:32:49,820
Mother. I'm still having, like,
bridesmaids and just not doing the walk.
617
00:32:50,020 --> 00:32:51,060
And not matching dresses.
618
00:32:51,500 --> 00:32:52,500
I want matching dresses.
619
00:32:52,860 --> 00:32:55,140
You didn't say that. You said colors,
not matching dresses. Yeah.
620
00:32:55,380 --> 00:32:56,380
That's still matching.
621
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:58,300
Dad and I are both walking in with you?
622
00:32:58,500 --> 00:32:59,880
Yeah. Okay. Of course.
623
00:33:00,340 --> 00:33:01,680
Yeah, you're going to walk me down.
624
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:02,960
That's so crazy.
625
00:33:03,500 --> 00:33:07,040
It does feel strange now to think that
my daughter...
626
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:11,060
Our daughter is getting married, and
we're not together.
627
00:33:11,940 --> 00:33:16,120
I would like to take the flowers home so
that Jake can give the green light.
628
00:33:16,340 --> 00:33:18,220
I always like him to have the final yes.
629
00:33:18,620 --> 00:33:22,260
When I look at Alexia and Jake getting
married, I just hope that they have a
630
00:33:22,260 --> 00:33:26,680
long, happy marriage. I hope that they
can always trust each other.
631
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:32,360
I hope that neither one of them ever
hurt each other.
632
00:33:38,670 --> 00:33:41,650
I hope that Jake always looks at Alexia
the way he looks at her today.
633
00:33:45,530 --> 00:33:50,870
But when you look back one day at your
wedding photos, as long as you look back
634
00:33:50,870 --> 00:33:56,310
and you're like, oh, that's exactly what
I wanted, and that's what I wanted at
635
00:33:56,310 --> 00:34:00,490
the time, Mo and me, we were also really
happy.
636
00:34:03,330 --> 00:34:06,630
So do I get scared thinking I hope one
day they don't...
637
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,340
go through what we're going through, of
course I think like that.
638
00:34:10,380 --> 00:34:16,699
I'm hoping that they have both learned
from Mo and me through all of this and
639
00:34:16,699 --> 00:34:23,639
love and respect each other as much, you
know, 30, 40 years from now as they
640
00:34:23,639 --> 00:34:24,639
do today.
641
00:34:24,780 --> 00:34:27,840
I'm telling you, I'm going to have a
very different wedding with each of your
642
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:28,840
sisters. Yeah.
643
00:34:28,860 --> 00:34:30,060
God help me with Sophia.
644
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,360
Welcome to Gemma. Feed me.
645
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:46,340
Feed me pasta and tell me I'm pretty.
Oh, yeah. We love that. Thank you.
646
00:34:46,699 --> 00:34:47,699
Fabulous.
647
00:34:47,820 --> 00:34:51,340
Can I get you started with some still or
sparkling water? Still would be great.
648
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:52,400
Sounds good.
649
00:34:53,620 --> 00:34:54,659
Hi, how are you?
650
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,900
Oh, hey, honey. How are you? I am good.
Good, good.
651
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,480
Can I get us started with something to
drink over here?
652
00:35:00,720 --> 00:35:02,200
Can I have a nice tea? Yeah, absolutely.
653
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,760
I'll have the Arnold Palmer, actually.
You got it. Thank you. I met Amanda at
654
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:09,820
Jennifer Tilly's party. Whose jacket is
that, by the way? This is my mom. This
655
00:35:09,820 --> 00:35:14,080
is my mom. I would knock you down, put
you in that pool out there, and take the
656
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,940
jacket and go. Thank you. I'm taking
both those things as a compliment. She
657
00:35:16,940 --> 00:35:17,678
seems interesting.
658
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:18,700
She's a businesswoman.
659
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:22,020
She's getting married. So I want to get
to know her better.
660
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,740
Did you ever start in, like, the
corporate space?
661
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:29,580
No. I have no formal business
experience. Really? You've always been
662
00:35:29,580 --> 00:35:30,900
entrepreneur. I have a master's in
counseling.
663
00:35:31,500 --> 00:35:33,880
I don't know that I had this language at
the time, but I was like, let's make
664
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:35,260
this a personal development brand.
665
00:35:35,700 --> 00:35:37,280
Like, what do I want to be about?
666
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,220
So I started putting out really good
content online every day.
667
00:35:40,460 --> 00:35:44,600
I started out as a therapist and life
coach and later a business coach. As my
668
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:49,340
audience grew and I wanted to help more
people, I began to create online courses
669
00:35:49,340 --> 00:35:53,520
to help people create both the
professional and personal life of their
670
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:57,580
Oh, interesting. So then I created a
digital course called Become a Life
671
00:35:57,820 --> 00:36:00,220
Oh. And then I found that I had a...
672
00:36:00,570 --> 00:36:06,830
a gift, a niche around money, but not
around, like I'm not a financial
673
00:36:06,970 --> 00:36:10,610
you know, around like the energetic part
of money, the mindset part, the
674
00:36:10,610 --> 00:36:11,950
psychology around it.
675
00:36:12,690 --> 00:36:17,490
Most people who teach on money focus on
the practical aspects of money
676
00:36:17,490 --> 00:36:18,490
exclusively.
677
00:36:19,010 --> 00:36:22,670
I think the practical aspects are really
important, but I think the foundation
678
00:36:22,670 --> 00:36:27,050
is our relationship with money, which
involves the psychological, the
679
00:36:27,230 --> 00:36:28,230
and the energetic.
680
00:36:28,850 --> 00:36:31,910
That's really what I became known for.
That's what I wrote my book on. I have a
681
00:36:31,910 --> 00:36:33,030
best -selling book called Riches.
682
00:36:33,350 --> 00:36:34,109
Oh, yeah.
683
00:36:34,110 --> 00:36:36,290
So then I became known as the money
queen.
684
00:36:36,510 --> 00:36:38,790
Yes. But I create courses on all kinds
of things.
685
00:36:39,150 --> 00:36:40,230
Well, hello. Hi.
686
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:46,740
Hi, baby. I love you. You look just so
gorgeous. Hi, so good to see you.
687
00:36:46,940 --> 00:36:49,680
Good to see you, too. Here, I'll take
your bag. Thank you, thank you, thank
688
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:51,080
I'll take her bag.
689
00:36:51,740 --> 00:36:53,760
That's not what I meant, Dory. I'll take
her bag.
690
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,400
I've been thinking about you a lot since
the party. I really have. Sending you
691
00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,080
love and good vibes every day. I'm
praying you're getting some sleep. Oh,
692
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,380
Amanda. I really have. I have every day.
You've been on my mind.
693
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:05,340
Yeah. That's really very sweet. No, I
mean it.
694
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:09,160
My first impression of Amanda, to be
honest, I didn't know what to make of
695
00:37:09,340 --> 00:37:10,660
What a lovely meeting you.
696
00:37:13,710 --> 00:37:18,070
But now, hearing her say how she was
thinking about me all weekend and prayed
697
00:37:18,070 --> 00:37:23,050
for me, it's incredibly kind and sweet
and caring.
698
00:37:23,490 --> 00:37:27,370
The french fries, because that's the
most important thing. Yes, it is. Let's
699
00:37:27,370 --> 00:37:28,269
the kale salad.
700
00:37:28,270 --> 00:37:31,630
It looks like this calamari is gluten
-free. Calamari is gluten -free. Well,
701
00:37:31,650 --> 00:37:33,310
that never happens. I don't have
calamari in here.
702
00:37:33,510 --> 00:37:33,928
I mean.
703
00:37:33,930 --> 00:37:36,270
They have to. I have to do that.
Awesome. I'll get that started.
704
00:37:37,950 --> 00:37:40,990
My, what do I say, my husband, my ex
-husband, I don't know what to say. I
705
00:37:40,990 --> 00:37:41,990
saying estranged.
706
00:37:42,030 --> 00:37:44,830
Okay, yeah, I know. Estranged husband.
Yeah. That's your official face. But in
707
00:37:44,830 --> 00:37:47,310
any case, he's very much an alpha male,
a businessman.
708
00:37:47,930 --> 00:37:52,930
He built a very big business in the UK,
and when the world tilted on an access
709
00:37:52,930 --> 00:37:57,090
in 2008, he lost his business.
710
00:37:57,410 --> 00:37:59,290
When PK and I married, we did not have a
prenup.
711
00:37:59,530 --> 00:38:01,850
PK came into the relationship broke.
712
00:38:02,410 --> 00:38:05,590
He had lost his business, and he was
really starting from scratch.
713
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:07,980
There was nothing to protect.
714
00:38:08,260 --> 00:38:14,260
And when we got married, the finances,
he really was handling everything.
715
00:38:14,660 --> 00:38:17,800
And you had kind of delegated it out of
your mind. Yeah. You weren't thinking
716
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:19,200
about how the finances worked. No.
717
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:24,180
We had a business manager. I filed for
divorce a couple of months ago. There
718
00:38:24,180 --> 00:38:27,540
wasn't like a handoff. There wasn't like
an agreement.
719
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:28,880
There was nothing.
720
00:38:29,740 --> 00:38:33,500
I just would find out that he's not
going to pay this anymore.
721
00:38:44,970 --> 00:38:49,190
I filed for divorce a couple of months
ago. There wasn't, like, a handoff.
722
00:38:49,190 --> 00:38:50,990
wasn't, like, an agreement.
723
00:38:51,370 --> 00:38:52,370
There was nothing.
724
00:38:53,070 --> 00:38:57,010
I just would find out that he's not
going to pay this anymore.
725
00:38:58,990 --> 00:39:01,950
Wait, wait, wait. So you're living in
the house, the family home.
726
00:39:02,190 --> 00:39:04,590
Yes. And he's trying to not pay the
mortgage, like, for example?
727
00:39:04,830 --> 00:39:08,730
He's currently paying the mortgage. He's
just randomly deciding you're on your
728
00:39:08,730 --> 00:39:11,970
own. Absolutely. He's thinking she's
making X.
729
00:39:12,310 --> 00:39:13,310
No.
730
00:39:14,540 --> 00:39:18,380
For the last 14 years, PK has been
paying the lion's share of our family
731
00:39:18,380 --> 00:39:22,120
outgoings. When we separated, he said
that the finances would stay the same.
732
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:27,000
She's now having more financial
responsibility than in the past.
733
00:39:27,220 --> 00:39:28,220
Right,
734
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:32,080
but it hasn't been mutually decided
upon. No. A month later, I got an email
735
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,100
saying that he decided he's no longer
going to do that.
736
00:39:35,460 --> 00:39:39,560
And I was like, how can you change this
all of a sudden? And his answer was, I
737
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:41,000
only agreed to that for one month.
738
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:46,660
For you to have a fair position in
mediation, you have to know what you're
739
00:39:46,660 --> 00:39:48,640
working with. Do you know about your
retirement account?
740
00:39:48,860 --> 00:39:51,640
No retirement account exists as far as
I'm concerned.
741
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:54,920
And money's not invested?
742
00:39:55,260 --> 00:40:00,760
I have yet to discover everything, and I
can tell you I'm in the unknown.
743
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:06,760
When Peter died, I was left with the
financial responsibility of raising Leo
744
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:07,738
my own.
745
00:40:07,740 --> 00:40:11,660
Dorit is in a similar position. She
needs to understand where the money is.
746
00:40:11,900 --> 00:40:14,760
I'm hoping, I'm praying that there's
been money invested. Like, these are
747
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:16,120
that people live off of.
748
00:40:16,620 --> 00:40:17,940
How do you get here?
749
00:40:18,240 --> 00:40:23,640
Like, you have to turn a blind eye to
your bank account for a long time to be
750
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:26,220
a state where you have no idea if you
have retirement.
751
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:29,920
I mean, this is like basic information
every woman should know about their
752
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:30,920
financial reality.
753
00:40:31,660 --> 00:40:34,040
My husband's a complex person.
754
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:38,760
He's complex. He's not a bad guy, like a
terrible bad guy, vicious.
755
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:41,580
Does he have some bad behavior?
756
00:40:42,020 --> 00:40:47,600
Absolutely. And then you throw drinking
into the mix, and that, for someone of
757
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:50,160
his character, it gets even more
complicated.
758
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:54,120
Right. Not only that, but my name is on
everything.
759
00:40:55,980 --> 00:40:59,580
When I found out our house was in pre
-courclosure, I wasn't just worried
760
00:40:59,580 --> 00:41:00,580
losing the house.
761
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:05,360
The house is in my name. So if PK stops
paying for something or doesn't make
762
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:08,280
payments, it's me that suffers the
consequences.
763
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:13,520
I can't do anything right now. My hands
are tied behind my back. So you need the
764
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:17,300
clean break to start building everything
back up. Exactly. What can Dorit do,
765
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:21,360
like, proactively, knowing, like, all of
these unknowns?
766
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:25,000
Is there anything that she can
proactively do to protect herself?
767
00:41:25,770 --> 00:41:27,110
or to, like, help the situation.
768
00:41:27,550 --> 00:41:30,830
I think you have to decide what you
want, what you're creating, and, like,
769
00:41:30,830 --> 00:41:33,530
you're going to be. Like, I know that's,
like, a big overarching question, but
770
00:41:33,530 --> 00:41:36,030
who do you want to be as a provider? Who
do you want to be as a woman who earns?
771
00:41:36,150 --> 00:41:38,690
Who do you want to be as a woman who has
been screwed her and now she has to
772
00:41:38,690 --> 00:41:42,170
fill in the gaps? Like, who are you
going to be no matter what he does?
773
00:41:42,250 --> 00:41:44,090
You know what I'm saying? Totally.
Because you're going to have to keep
774
00:41:44,090 --> 00:41:46,210
mind right to go through this battle
with this man. Oh, yeah.
775
00:41:47,250 --> 00:41:49,750
What is this frou -frou mess we're
talking about?
776
00:41:50,370 --> 00:41:52,690
I was looking for one plus one equals
two.
777
00:41:53,650 --> 00:41:56,220
Intention. What kind of provider does
she want to be?
778
00:41:56,420 --> 00:41:57,420
What does that even mean?
779
00:41:57,760 --> 00:41:59,740
This is not financial advice.
780
00:42:00,380 --> 00:42:05,400
The math ain't math. The road we're
going, there are no winners. It is going
781
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,280
get very, very ugly.
782
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,720
Next on The Real Housewives of Beverly
Hills.
783
00:42:16,100 --> 00:42:20,800
Erica said, boring. I got her in that
moment. Don't think for two seconds that
784
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:21,840
you got her in that moment.
785
00:42:24,330 --> 00:42:26,230
Let's go now. Here we come.
786
00:42:26,790 --> 00:42:27,790
Let's go, baby.
787
00:42:28,050 --> 00:42:30,730
This is hot girl summer, Rachel. See? I
don't know if I like it.
788
00:42:31,210 --> 00:42:33,930
What? Not the fashionista with no
clothes.
789
00:42:34,310 --> 00:42:37,730
Did you see that picture of Eric in the
tabloids with that guy?
790
00:42:37,970 --> 00:42:39,610
Did he approach you?
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