1 00:00:05,370 --> 00:00:09,550 Previously on the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Hi, how are you? 2 00:00:09,930 --> 00:00:13,930 That is so funny. That's really good. We all got the memo. 3 00:00:14,230 --> 00:00:18,550 I'm best known for my best -selling book, Riches, which has given me the 4 00:00:18,550 --> 00:00:20,010 nickname, The Money Queen. 5 00:00:20,330 --> 00:00:23,110 My marriage has been eradicated from the Catholic Church. 6 00:00:23,470 --> 00:00:25,650 The letter came to Sutton Brown. 7 00:00:26,090 --> 00:00:27,930 Have you gone on any dates? 8 00:00:29,170 --> 00:00:30,270 Are you dating now? 9 00:00:30,510 --> 00:00:33,450 I'm not. I just haven't been leaving my house. Girl! 10 00:00:34,350 --> 00:00:39,230 The truth about if Kyle is seeing somebody, it's like, I'm sorry, are we 11 00:00:39,230 --> 00:00:40,009 or not? 12 00:00:40,010 --> 00:00:43,870 I don't feel like being asked all the time about my private life. I was seeing 13 00:00:43,870 --> 00:00:44,870 someone, unfortunately. 14 00:00:45,010 --> 00:00:46,010 I'm single now. 15 00:00:46,070 --> 00:00:52,390 Since separating from Mo, I was at a very vulnerable place in my life, and I 16 00:00:52,390 --> 00:00:54,230 felt hard for this person. 17 00:00:54,670 --> 00:00:58,970 If it was only me, I would give all the answers I want. Yeah, it's not just 18 00:00:58,970 --> 00:00:59,970 about you. 19 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:06,760 In this town, stars come and go, but diamonds last forever. 20 00:01:07,940 --> 00:01:12,020 I'd die for fashion, but now I'm living for me. 21 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:16,980 I turn ambition into an art form, and I am the masterpiece. 22 00:01:17,740 --> 00:01:22,020 I might live on a main road, but I'd definitely bring main character energy. 23 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:23,960 I didn't marry into money. 24 00:01:24,260 --> 00:01:26,040 I manifested it. 25 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:29,380 Survival isn't my story. 26 00:01:29,860 --> 00:01:31,180 It's my superpower. 27 00:01:33,030 --> 00:01:37,230 I'm unfiltered, unbothered, and finally, unburdened. 28 00:01:49,250 --> 00:01:51,270 Nico! Are we ready? 29 00:01:51,530 --> 00:01:52,530 Thank you! 30 00:01:52,970 --> 00:01:55,050 I'm ready. I'm in my matchmaking bag. 31 00:01:55,290 --> 00:01:59,670 I know you got the roses. I feel like I'm like the hostess of The 32 00:01:59,770 --> 00:02:01,690 And what are the men called? The bachelors? 33 00:02:03,140 --> 00:02:05,580 Yes. That's what single men are called. I've never seen The Bachelorette. 34 00:02:06,620 --> 00:02:08,240 I've come to a striking realization. 35 00:02:08,820 --> 00:02:13,720 Almost everybody is single in this friend group. These girls are going 36 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:17,180 it. We've got our questions. I think Dorita's going to be the most 37 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:21,340 Erica, too. No, Erica might scare them. And secretly, I think Kyle is going to 38 00:02:21,340 --> 00:02:22,119 be very nervous. 39 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:26,200 I want all the girls to come out and enjoy themselves. But I think this might 40 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,700 an opportunity for Kyle to really let her hair down. 41 00:02:28,900 --> 00:02:30,720 Blurt a little. I want to see that side of her. 42 00:02:31,180 --> 00:02:33,820 I think the guys are already, like, comparing their resumes. 43 00:02:34,180 --> 00:02:35,660 Look at them. Cheers. 44 00:02:36,220 --> 00:02:37,079 Cheers, fellas. 45 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:38,580 Great to be here with you. 46 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,400 You don't have your cocktails yet? Sorry, bad timing. 47 00:02:41,780 --> 00:02:46,540 I went through my contact list and found eligible bachelors that match the 48 00:02:46,540 --> 00:02:51,500 interests of my friends. We are going to describe, like, keywords, okay? 49 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,040 Protector. Chivalrous. Safe. 50 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:56,800 Sexy. Sexy? What does that mean? 51 00:02:57,020 --> 00:03:00,060 Someone who likes sex, and you can tell by looking at them. Oh, yes! 52 00:03:00,300 --> 00:03:02,000 I have done my research. 53 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:03,540 I mean, this is a pretty good group. 54 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:04,800 They look good, too. 55 00:03:05,420 --> 00:03:07,660 Oh, I'm so glad everybody's here. Hi, 56 00:03:08,700 --> 00:03:10,920 so nice to see you. Thank you for coming. 57 00:03:11,140 --> 00:03:12,380 Hi, how are you? 58 00:03:12,640 --> 00:03:15,220 Hello. Oh, good to see you. 59 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:16,880 Now, I'll tell you a secret. 60 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:21,600 These ladies are very nervous. I can't tell you the group chat with the, like, 61 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:22,499 what should I wear? 62 00:03:22,500 --> 00:03:23,500 What should I say? 63 00:03:23,660 --> 00:03:24,660 What am I going to do? 64 00:03:27,340 --> 00:03:31,380 It would be really great if one or all of them found true love tonight. And 65 00:03:31,380 --> 00:03:35,400 if it doesn't happen, I'm still excited for them to flirt a little bit. 66 00:03:35,700 --> 00:03:40,460 Because maybe it'll loosen up the old wires that aren't necessarily clicking 67 00:03:40,460 --> 00:03:41,039 the way. 68 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:42,520 They should be nervous. We are intent. 69 00:03:42,740 --> 00:03:45,020 Yeah. Look, you better cut it out, OK? 70 00:03:45,660 --> 00:03:46,660 Give them a break. 71 00:03:51,100 --> 00:03:55,260 I want to look like a normal human being. Mm -hmm. Right? Because, you 72 00:03:55,260 --> 00:03:56,260 get scared. 73 00:03:56,440 --> 00:04:01,020 Yeah. See? I agree. For the face, I think that we keep it young. 74 00:04:01,260 --> 00:04:05,400 Baby doll. Approachable, but not. Could give you a blowjob in the alley. 75 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:07,840 But probably won't. 76 00:04:14,380 --> 00:04:16,540 Okay, we have to make me look very pretty. 77 00:04:16,959 --> 00:04:18,820 We're going to make you look extra snack. 78 00:04:27,860 --> 00:04:29,700 I think I need a Coca -Cola. 79 00:04:30,500 --> 00:04:36,920 I am going to struggle tonight. 80 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,940 I need a beverage now. Where are these ladies? 81 00:04:57,640 --> 00:04:58,599 You giggling already? 82 00:04:58,600 --> 00:04:59,820 I know. I feel really weird. 83 00:05:00,060 --> 00:05:01,060 That might feel weird. I feel weird. 84 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:02,720 I don't know. 85 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,240 How about have a seat right there? Because they are over there. 86 00:05:05,460 --> 00:05:06,399 Oh, no. 87 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:07,400 I know. 88 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:14,820 If you make me take my shoes off. No, no, no. You don't have to. This is the 89 00:05:14,820 --> 00:05:19,540 first time. I don't know what to make of Kyle's single state. Is she single 90 00:05:19,540 --> 00:05:23,660 because she has accepted her separation from Moe? For somebody who's nervous, 91 00:05:23,780 --> 00:05:24,880 you certainly don't look it. 92 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:29,860 Is she single because she isn't dating anyone at all? Why did you bring the 93 00:05:29,860 --> 00:05:33,200 expensive bag? See, this is clearly signaling your high maintenance. 94 00:05:33,420 --> 00:05:34,620 Oh, my. 95 00:05:34,860 --> 00:05:36,300 Don't mess with me. Don't. 96 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,340 Widow. You are a goddess. 97 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:45,539 Come on in. 98 00:05:45,540 --> 00:05:47,660 We all look like we're going to a funeral, you guys. 99 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:55,480 No, she is not. Oh, my God. 100 00:05:55,980 --> 00:05:56,980 Everybody's wearing black. 101 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:58,280 Everybody's wearing black. 102 00:05:58,480 --> 00:05:59,620 Hello, beautiful. 103 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:01,480 Oh, my gosh. 104 00:06:02,740 --> 00:06:04,460 Everybody's wearing black. Let's see what Sutton has on. 105 00:06:04,980 --> 00:06:07,080 I love this idea. My God. 106 00:06:08,380 --> 00:06:11,660 The key is you can't look like you tried too hard because that reads desperate 107 00:06:11,660 --> 00:06:12,259 and thirsty. 108 00:06:12,260 --> 00:06:14,040 Don't look like you spent three hours getting dressed. 109 00:06:14,420 --> 00:06:18,780 Like, oh, I just threw this on. I look like the maid that's going to. 110 00:06:19,260 --> 00:06:22,540 Bend over and get it. Do you think if you wear a little black dress on a first 111 00:06:22,540 --> 00:06:24,200 date, you're saying, I want to have sex with you? 112 00:06:25,380 --> 00:06:27,220 Oh, my God. She's wearing black. 113 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:31,760 Everybody is in black. I cannot even believe you. Do we look like we're going 114 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:33,140 a funeral? That's what I just said. 115 00:06:33,420 --> 00:06:36,360 Our subconscious is talking right now. 116 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:41,180 We do not look like a group of women that are looking to find a date. We're 117 00:06:41,180 --> 00:06:44,580 dressed in black like we just came from some sort of witch convention. 118 00:06:45,100 --> 00:06:47,800 I think it just says where we all are in our lives is black. 119 00:06:48,330 --> 00:06:50,510 It's a black cloud over all of us. 120 00:06:51,070 --> 00:06:56,050 We have to get out of our heads. She happens to know that they're all good 121 00:06:56,170 --> 00:06:57,170 They're all successful. 122 00:06:57,410 --> 00:07:00,230 They're all very nice. Don't ask for any dick pics. 123 00:07:00,890 --> 00:07:03,270 What? Those. That is horrible. 124 00:07:03,610 --> 00:07:04,610 How dare you? 125 00:07:04,950 --> 00:07:07,490 I've gotten enough of those dick pics in my DM. 126 00:07:07,790 --> 00:07:10,690 I mean, do they really think you're going to be like, oh, my God, that's so 127 00:07:10,690 --> 00:07:11,690 great. Hi. 128 00:07:12,850 --> 00:07:14,170 Can we go say hi to them? 129 00:07:15,350 --> 00:07:16,350 Let's go. 130 00:07:16,690 --> 00:07:17,690 Let's go, girls. 131 00:07:17,950 --> 00:07:18,950 Let's go. 132 00:07:20,050 --> 00:07:21,210 I'm rallying the troops. 133 00:07:21,430 --> 00:07:23,490 Are you taking your bag? I'm wearing my sunglasses. 134 00:07:23,910 --> 00:07:25,410 Rachel, is that rude? 135 00:07:25,770 --> 00:07:29,850 No, yes, it's rude, but they're Rachel's old glasses. Hello, everyone. 136 00:07:30,910 --> 00:07:36,130 Hi. Okay, good job, Dorit. Hi, guys. I'm so proud of her. I'm Dorit. Hi, Ben. 137 00:07:36,310 --> 00:07:37,530 Pleasure. Hey, Dorit, I'm Chase. 138 00:07:37,750 --> 00:07:38,750 Nice to meet you. 139 00:07:39,450 --> 00:07:40,450 What happened? 140 00:07:40,470 --> 00:07:45,430 Let's go to the back of the box. I didn't realize how many of these 141 00:07:45,770 --> 00:07:50,810 are so socially awkward. Come on. Oh, I hate this. Just kidding. Yes. 142 00:07:51,230 --> 00:07:52,630 Kyle. Erica. 143 00:07:53,050 --> 00:07:54,750 Cheers. Weird Tuesday. 144 00:07:55,290 --> 00:07:59,290 Sutton. Okay, well, I knew Sutton was. It's itching because I have neuropathy. 145 00:07:59,870 --> 00:08:01,070 It's going to bother me. 146 00:08:01,310 --> 00:08:02,730 Yeah. Hey. Rick. 147 00:08:02,990 --> 00:08:04,450 Greg. Nice to meet you. Rick. 148 00:08:05,130 --> 00:08:07,350 Nice to meet you. Hi. Rachel. 149 00:08:07,750 --> 00:08:09,110 Hi. Hi. 150 00:08:09,730 --> 00:08:11,570 How are you? Nice to meet you. How are you doing? 151 00:08:11,930 --> 00:08:12,930 Hi. 152 00:08:13,090 --> 00:08:15,550 What was your name? Rachel. Hi, Rachel. Nice to meet you. 153 00:08:15,950 --> 00:08:19,890 Rachel. Rachel. Nice to meet you. Wait, does this feel like a receiving line, 154 00:08:19,890 --> 00:08:20,669 you guys? 155 00:08:20,670 --> 00:08:24,890 Fun fact. I actually won the biggest flirt award when I was six years old in 156 00:08:24,890 --> 00:08:26,130 camp. A ribbon and everything. 157 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:27,839 Where is your accent? 158 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:32,260 Australian. Yeah, accent is two girls already. I get it. Always, always works, 159 00:08:32,299 --> 00:08:32,899 doesn't it? 160 00:08:32,900 --> 00:08:37,700 They asked us to choose a husband to marry on our camp bus. 161 00:08:37,940 --> 00:08:40,539 And you know who I picked? My 18 -year -old counselor. 162 00:08:41,059 --> 00:08:42,059 Do you have a drink? 163 00:08:42,140 --> 00:08:45,000 No, but I think I need one. Oh, my God, I feel so awkward. Hold on one second. 164 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:46,560 Okay. I got to go to the bar. 165 00:08:46,780 --> 00:08:50,170 What? I've never seen this side of Erica before. Where's the woman who was 166 00:08:50,170 --> 00:08:54,390 twirling around on stage, making people nervous when she walked in the room? 167 00:08:54,650 --> 00:08:56,370 Probably got a whips and chains somewhere. 168 00:08:56,710 --> 00:08:57,710 Where is she? 169 00:08:57,810 --> 00:08:58,810 Can I have a cocktail? 170 00:08:59,050 --> 00:09:00,050 Yes. I don't know. 171 00:09:00,110 --> 00:09:02,250 Do you want to take a shot? Do you want to take a shot? 172 00:09:02,470 --> 00:09:03,510 No, I don't need a shot. 173 00:09:03,890 --> 00:09:05,130 Erica Jane can do anything. 174 00:09:05,350 --> 00:09:09,370 She can talk to anybody, blitz on stage, run around in a costume. But Erica? 175 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:11,920 is very awkward. 176 00:09:12,260 --> 00:09:16,520 I thought you had, like, some icebreaker activity. I do, but we lost one. Or we 177 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:19,200 could just do it the old -fashioned way. Yes. 178 00:09:20,180 --> 00:09:22,680 How long have you been single? Like a week. No kidding. 179 00:09:22,940 --> 00:09:28,000 A year. About four hours. Okay, that's long enough for me. No. Well, I guess a 180 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:34,760 year. I'm not going to suggest that I'm emotionally in the best place to date 181 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:35,439 right now. 182 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:39,460 I've never heard a lemon referred to as the carcass when it's done. 183 00:09:39,870 --> 00:09:42,930 Listen, it's just a drink that I like. It's clean. 184 00:09:43,230 --> 00:09:45,130 It's easy. Is that how you would describe yourself? 185 00:09:46,850 --> 00:09:47,850 Not easy. 186 00:09:47,910 --> 00:09:48,910 I'm really not easy. 187 00:09:49,350 --> 00:09:51,330 I mean, but she is. 188 00:09:51,670 --> 00:09:53,510 Make sure you tell her I told you. I will. 189 00:09:53,970 --> 00:09:58,450 I'm a little out of practice, but that doesn't mean it's gone. I know I'm a 190 00:09:58,450 --> 00:09:59,450 flirt. 191 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:03,380 Yeah, it's working, right? Oh, good. I got everybody's attention. 192 00:10:03,700 --> 00:10:04,639 Well, welcome. 193 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:07,720 I'm so glad everybody was able to come over. So welcome. 194 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:09,640 Cheers to you. Cheers. Yes. 195 00:10:10,140 --> 00:10:13,680 So we have some stations where the ladies will sit. 196 00:10:13,980 --> 00:10:17,480 Some questions that I've written, but you are free to ask your own questions. 197 00:10:17,860 --> 00:10:20,420 And then we'll keep going around and around until everybody's met everybody. 198 00:10:20,820 --> 00:10:25,900 I'm game. Yes. Okay, very good. Kyle, you can sit here. Okay. Erica, you're 199 00:10:25,900 --> 00:10:26,900 going to go inside. 200 00:10:27,500 --> 00:10:28,900 Sutton, you're going inside too. 201 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:33,200 I've never done anything like this. I'd be more comfortable, like, standing on 202 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:37,820 stage with no clothes. I would like to gouge out my own eyeballs, but I'm going 203 00:10:37,820 --> 00:10:39,160 to go with a smile on my face. 204 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:43,020 Let me start my clock. 205 00:10:43,340 --> 00:10:44,340 Okay, here we go. 206 00:10:46,340 --> 00:10:47,440 Um, hey? 207 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:49,000 Oh. 208 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:56,360 Let me start my clock. 209 00:10:56,700 --> 00:10:57,700 Okay, here we go. 210 00:10:57,840 --> 00:10:58,840 Have you been married? 211 00:10:59,930 --> 00:11:00,930 Well, yeah. 212 00:11:01,350 --> 00:11:04,590 That was a little... So you were a lawyer, too? 213 00:11:04,910 --> 00:11:08,410 I was, but I'm still active with the bar, but I'm not practicing. Thank God. 214 00:11:08,590 --> 00:11:11,650 What do you do for fun? No, I don't think I've had that in a very long time, 215 00:11:11,650 --> 00:11:12,549 I've almost forgot. 216 00:11:12,550 --> 00:11:14,290 You're such a sexy dress. How could you not have fun? 217 00:11:14,510 --> 00:11:17,170 Well, thank you. Are you more of a dominant or a submissive? 218 00:11:17,490 --> 00:11:19,850 I've learned to be a bit more dominant in life. 219 00:11:21,310 --> 00:11:22,790 I think the question means sexually. 220 00:11:23,190 --> 00:11:24,190 Oh. 221 00:11:25,030 --> 00:11:26,330 I've been on a lot of bad dates. 222 00:11:26,560 --> 00:11:30,060 And, you know, I did go on that one date. It was just all about the mother. 223 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:34,680 My mom still is in the house, but I've been working from home, so I can still 224 00:11:34,680 --> 00:11:39,960 mom. I'm the only guy whose mother tried to pull the what happens in Vegas stays 225 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:40,960 in Vegas rule. 226 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:42,120 Oh. 227 00:11:42,220 --> 00:11:45,140 I kind of have this fearless factor when it comes to dating. 228 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:47,640 So show me what you got. Let's do this. 229 00:11:48,110 --> 00:11:51,850 I started Comic -Con, so if you're ever into superheroes... No. Oh. 230 00:11:52,290 --> 00:11:54,970 I can't. I did a lot not in Los Angeles. 231 00:11:55,210 --> 00:11:55,969 Why is that? 232 00:11:55,970 --> 00:11:56,970 Girls here are pretty bad. 233 00:11:58,190 --> 00:11:59,009 Oh, God. 234 00:11:59,010 --> 00:12:00,610 Where do you live? Do you live on this side? 235 00:12:01,010 --> 00:12:04,770 I think we're on the west side, right? I think we're on the east side now. 236 00:12:05,090 --> 00:12:08,450 Okay, so I don't know what side I live on. 237 00:12:08,970 --> 00:12:10,910 Oh. I live in the valley. 238 00:12:11,190 --> 00:12:12,970 Okay. Do you know where that is? That way. 239 00:12:14,610 --> 00:12:16,180 Okay, who do you think is... Amazing. 240 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:19,120 Maybe like Led Zeppelin on the Rolling Stones and that's like it. I don't know. 241 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:19,859 Chris Martin. 242 00:12:19,860 --> 00:12:20,860 What's up? 243 00:12:21,460 --> 00:12:22,460 Coldplay sucks. 244 00:12:22,620 --> 00:12:25,460 What? Coldplay sucks, dude. White women love Coldplay. 245 00:12:25,700 --> 00:12:30,000 What? When I was younger, I was always in love with a guy that I shouldn't be 246 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:31,940 love with. What I've realized is I'm still her. 247 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:39,620 I am still her. I'm still the girl that is attracted to a very certain kind of 248 00:12:39,620 --> 00:12:44,580 person that is not the guy that probably everybody like wants to set me up with. 249 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:45,599 Oh my God. 250 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:49,020 This is so much harder than I thought. It is? Is it a little stressful for you? 251 00:12:49,020 --> 00:12:50,020 It's so stressful. 252 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:53,860 I'm a real estate agent, by the way. My husband would die right now while I'm 253 00:12:53,860 --> 00:12:54,860 separated. 254 00:12:55,060 --> 00:12:59,880 We made a deal. I'm sure you did. I honestly cannot get away from Mel. 255 00:13:00,140 --> 00:13:03,560 I mean, I wouldn't be surprised if he was here tonight as one of the 256 00:13:03,900 --> 00:13:04,900 I mean, he does good deals. 257 00:13:05,300 --> 00:13:09,260 Have you been married? I married a stranger in Las Vegas for a day. It was 258 00:13:09,260 --> 00:13:09,839 bucket list. 259 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:12,940 I was just going to say it was a bucket list. It was a bucket list. Because it's 260 00:13:12,940 --> 00:13:14,140 completely legal in your country. 261 00:13:15,530 --> 00:13:16,469 You get married. 262 00:13:16,470 --> 00:13:21,830 When I turn the charm on, I'm not the girl that's like, oh, wow. 263 00:13:22,150 --> 00:13:24,210 Oh, you look good. Have you been working out? 264 00:13:24,470 --> 00:13:26,630 I'm more of the, it's in the eyes. 265 00:13:27,650 --> 00:13:29,670 Maybe a little hair flip. 266 00:13:30,310 --> 00:13:33,530 Anyway, so seductive. 267 00:13:34,650 --> 00:13:35,810 I've been asking the guys. 268 00:13:36,190 --> 00:13:40,090 Everybody loves Dorit. Yeah, look at them right now. I have to tell you all 269 00:13:40,090 --> 00:13:41,830 this. Yeah. Thank you, my darling. 270 00:13:42,070 --> 00:13:43,550 But I think everybody likes Sebastian. 271 00:13:44,410 --> 00:13:45,450 Yeah, I like Sebastian. 272 00:13:45,750 --> 00:13:49,490 Yes, everybody likes Sebastian. Go back. But look at them. This is a match made. 273 00:13:49,830 --> 00:13:52,250 They both have accents. That's how I knew it was going to work. 274 00:13:52,490 --> 00:13:53,730 People will say I'm loquacious. 275 00:13:54,370 --> 00:13:57,450 What a word. Were you like a big comic fan as a child? Yeah, I grew up 276 00:13:57,450 --> 00:14:00,590 collecting sports cards and comic books as a kid. I love sports cards. What kind 277 00:14:00,590 --> 00:14:02,410 of sports cards are we talking about? Baseball, basketball. 278 00:14:02,770 --> 00:14:04,230 Oh, cars. Oh, yeah. 279 00:14:04,570 --> 00:14:08,030 D -A -R -D -F. I have zero game. 280 00:14:08,610 --> 00:14:11,470 I can't small talk. I don't know how to do it. 281 00:14:11,990 --> 00:14:13,210 Wait, you're in the law, right? 282 00:14:13,550 --> 00:14:15,930 Yeah, but I do other things too. You're a slimy weasel. 283 00:14:16,690 --> 00:14:18,750 Sutton has a lot more game than I do. 284 00:14:19,110 --> 00:14:22,370 Soft and feminine and southern and, you know, ha. 285 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:27,200 Your accent's great. Just a hint of Georgia. But it's more if I go home or 286 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:30,500 talk to my mother too long. Listen, when I'm on the phone with my family back 287 00:14:30,500 --> 00:14:33,940 home, New York comes right out. It'll just come right back. I've been 288 00:14:33,940 --> 00:14:37,640 to work in baseball. I've represented a bunch of players. My apologies if you 289 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:38,900 are halfway through your conversation. 290 00:14:39,220 --> 00:14:43,100 Okay, ma 'am. Time is flying by. I know, when you're having fun. 291 00:14:43,380 --> 00:14:47,600 I like Rick. He is easy to talk to. He seems interested in me. 292 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:49,480 He has potential, this Rick. 293 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:53,120 Our time is up. Okay. Now, we're all going to get back together. 294 00:14:53,340 --> 00:14:55,060 Sure. Okay. So we can go back in here. 295 00:14:55,340 --> 00:14:59,640 Okay, what's happening, you guys? Well, everybody, I would like to say goodnight 296 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:01,000 to our gentlemen. 297 00:15:01,460 --> 00:15:02,460 Goodnight, guys. 298 00:15:04,180 --> 00:15:05,660 It was nice meeting all y 'all. 299 00:15:05,980 --> 00:15:06,980 Wait, wait, this is me. 300 00:15:07,220 --> 00:15:11,620 All right, done. Let me know. All right, I'll let you know. It's in your court. 301 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:13,760 Still got it. 302 00:15:14,060 --> 00:15:15,060 Obviously. 303 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:19,360 I love both, and there's nothing I won't do for her or with her. I need fire 304 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:24,780 pit. But, like, I knew full well there was 0 % chance I was meeting a guy at a 305 00:15:24,780 --> 00:15:25,780 speed dating event. 306 00:15:25,900 --> 00:15:29,620 Dory, was that your first, like, meet new guys moment? And? 307 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:31,120 I feel like you did great. 308 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:33,600 Oh, I feel like you were, like... I'm very good in this situation. By the way, 309 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:35,880 feel like you were fully rolling with each guy, right? 310 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:38,000 Tonight was a boost of confidence. 311 00:15:38,420 --> 00:15:43,700 It felt like the feminine, flirty, fun Dory was here. 312 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:45,480 And it felt good. 313 00:15:45,980 --> 00:15:51,540 Who was our favorite guy? The Aussie guy was great. It was really fun. I liked 314 00:15:51,540 --> 00:15:54,740 Rick. Did he give you his car? Because he gave me his car. Okay. 315 00:15:56,600 --> 00:16:00,660 Okay. I'm just saying, your attorney husband didn't work out so well. 316 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:09,280 Coming up. In order to be friends, I want to know the information so that I 317 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:10,340 also be helpful. 318 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:12,220 Why don't you ask what you really want to ask? 319 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:21,499 Okay, okay. 320 00:16:21,500 --> 00:16:23,500 Who's our favorite guy? I like Rick. 321 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:27,480 Did he give you his car? Because he gave me his car. Okay. Your attorney husband 322 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:28,640 didn't work out so well. 323 00:16:32,140 --> 00:16:35,460 I'm about to do something really important. She's going to throw it in 324 00:16:35,580 --> 00:16:40,560 No. In the spirit of kindness and being like a good friend, truthfully, this is 325 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:41,179 for you. 326 00:16:41,180 --> 00:16:42,180 Whoa. 327 00:16:42,980 --> 00:16:46,880 It's taken a long time for Sutton and I to get to a good place. And Rick seems 328 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:47,880 like a really nice guy. 329 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:51,200 Yeah, Sutton, enjoy him. I'm going to give the lawyer thing a rest. 330 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:52,720 Case is smooth. 331 00:16:53,820 --> 00:16:59,880 Kyle, do you feel that you are actively looking to meet someone? 332 00:17:00,220 --> 00:17:01,980 Of course not. 333 00:17:02,580 --> 00:17:03,580 I mean, I'm not. 334 00:17:03,780 --> 00:17:05,020 What do you mean, of course not? 335 00:17:05,460 --> 00:17:08,359 No, I'm not. I mean, you're not actively looking for anybody. 336 00:17:09,339 --> 00:17:10,540 I'm not three years in. 337 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:13,020 I mean, like, is that what you want? 338 00:17:13,900 --> 00:17:16,300 I would be looking for a life partner. 339 00:17:16,540 --> 00:17:21,119 Like, I would want to get married again. You want to be married again? I think I 340 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:22,180 would want to get married again. Really? 341 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:26,260 Gurit, do you want to come talk with me for like five minutes? 342 00:17:27,020 --> 00:17:28,020 Pardon? 343 00:17:28,180 --> 00:17:30,440 Come here. Come talk with me for a minute. I want to talk to you. 344 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:32,320 Oh, okay. Go ahead. 345 00:17:32,820 --> 00:17:36,520 I just want to catch up with you and how you're doing and PK and all of that. 346 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:41,530 Sutton? Do you want to sit here? Yeah. Is that okay? Have a seat. I was asking 347 00:17:41,530 --> 00:17:44,770 Dorit what's going on. I said I was just trying to check in on her and see how 348 00:17:44,770 --> 00:17:45,770 the kids are. 349 00:17:45,890 --> 00:17:46,950 Did they go to Florida? 350 00:17:47,330 --> 00:17:49,850 My kids are supposed to go to Florida with their grandparents. 351 00:17:50,350 --> 00:17:55,210 And PK is now, I got a letter today from the lawyer saying that he's going to 352 00:17:55,210 --> 00:17:56,210 block it. 353 00:17:56,950 --> 00:17:58,110 They did go to Florida. 354 00:17:58,510 --> 00:17:59,930 So the kids are having a good time? 355 00:18:00,210 --> 00:18:01,210 They are having. 356 00:18:01,519 --> 00:18:04,500 The greatest time ever. What are you doing now that they're not? Are you 357 00:18:04,500 --> 00:18:07,340 resting? The best thing that you can do is take care of yourself. 358 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:11,960 Yes. You have to. I know. I have to. And you don't want to use it against you. 359 00:18:12,140 --> 00:18:13,400 You know what I mean? Exactly. 360 00:18:14,100 --> 00:18:16,100 That's, by the way, that's by design. 361 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:20,600 Here's the thing. When you're going through a divorce, your state of mind is 362 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:21,600 like a big deal. 363 00:18:21,820 --> 00:18:27,420 Anything and everything will be used against you to make you look not the 364 00:18:27,830 --> 00:18:31,730 So you have to be careful what you say, how you say it, who you say it to, where 365 00:18:31,730 --> 00:18:34,510 you're hanging out, who you're hanging out with, where you're spending money. 366 00:18:34,830 --> 00:18:37,490 And it's a long road. Yes. 367 00:18:38,110 --> 00:18:40,810 Dudes can get away with a hell of a lot more than mothers. 368 00:18:41,590 --> 00:18:46,230 The great news is this. You will come ashore, and you will survive this. Yes. 369 00:18:46,230 --> 00:18:47,890 Yeah, you will. And your children will, too. 370 00:18:48,390 --> 00:18:52,510 And all for the better, you know? You just have to get through it, and it 371 00:18:52,790 --> 00:18:53,850 and I'm really sorry. 372 00:18:54,530 --> 00:18:55,930 Yeah, it does suck. 373 00:18:56,410 --> 00:19:01,210 This is really nice to see a different side of Sutton. She's talking to me from 374 00:19:01,210 --> 00:19:02,210 her heart. 375 00:19:02,310 --> 00:19:05,530 I know she has the experience, and it feels genuine. 376 00:19:05,790 --> 00:19:12,590 I completely sympathize with Dorit. I see a little bit of myself in this 377 00:19:12,590 --> 00:19:17,590 broken wing that she's walking around with. It's so sad. 378 00:19:18,050 --> 00:19:20,190 It's the hardest thing to watch. 379 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:24,400 I want to be a good friend to everybody. 380 00:19:24,660 --> 00:19:25,419 Of course. 381 00:19:25,420 --> 00:19:28,460 You know? I think Kyle is somebody that I'm like, OK. 382 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:30,480 I'm like peeling back the onion. 383 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:31,720 Do you like anybody? 384 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:35,540 Was there anything that sparked? If not, I'm like, OK, tell me, girl, what you 385 00:19:35,540 --> 00:19:37,400 want. I mean, gosh, my gosh. 386 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:39,300 You know, I'm not the only single one here. 387 00:19:39,860 --> 00:19:41,300 You don't want to, like, just be? 388 00:19:41,980 --> 00:19:42,980 No, no. 389 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:46,460 You are not a one night only girl. No. So we've got to find somebody with 390 00:19:46,460 --> 00:19:47,460 substance. 391 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:48,880 How many times have you been in love? 392 00:19:49,340 --> 00:19:51,360 Have I been in love? How many times have you been in love? 393 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:52,760 Oh, in love. 394 00:19:53,020 --> 00:19:53,839 Three times? 395 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:55,580 Three. Yeah, in my life. 396 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:58,340 How many have you been in love? Four. How many times? 397 00:19:59,100 --> 00:20:00,260 Three. Yeah. 398 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:01,900 Have you found love again? 399 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:04,520 Yeah. Okay, yeah. 400 00:20:04,740 --> 00:20:05,740 Well, that's a good feeling. 401 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:11,480 Yeah, I have love for me, but... Okay, but now you don't. 402 00:20:11,860 --> 00:20:16,940 No, now I'm just figuring it out. No, now I'm just, I mean, I did, but now 403 00:20:16,940 --> 00:20:20,490 I'm... Now I'm on my own again, so. Okay. Okay. 404 00:20:20,750 --> 00:20:24,910 Yeah. Boze is acting like she's never heard anything or seen anything, and 405 00:20:24,910 --> 00:20:26,230 asking me all these questions. 406 00:20:26,830 --> 00:20:28,590 And I'm like, okay, Boze. 407 00:20:28,970 --> 00:20:31,270 Was it by choice not to be in love now? 408 00:20:31,790 --> 00:20:32,790 By your choice? 409 00:20:33,070 --> 00:20:34,150 No, it's not. 410 00:20:37,830 --> 00:20:38,830 It's just complicated. 411 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,440 I think it's been really challenging for Kyle to be vulnerable. 412 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:47,060 You said that you had never before questioned your sexuality, but when 413 00:20:47,060 --> 00:20:50,980 speculation went into overdrive, you would even talk to your daughters about 414 00:20:51,220 --> 00:20:54,720 It was a really proud moment for me as a mom, how my daughters reacted. 415 00:20:55,060 --> 00:20:56,060 They supported you. 416 00:20:56,140 --> 00:21:01,600 Oh, my gosh. Like, beyond. And it was a really uncomfortable, hard conversation 417 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:02,439 to have. 418 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:07,240 But I'm really glad that she's at least sharing a little bit with me now, 419 00:21:07,360 --> 00:21:09,180 because I want to be there for her. 420 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:12,960 I want to be able to support in every way that I can as a friend. 421 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:17,120 I told you, I'm a girl's girl. I want to, like, be in everybody's business. 422 00:21:17,260 --> 00:21:19,920 You're a lady's lady. Not because I want to be in the business, but because I'm 423 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:24,280 like... But in order to be friends... Why don't you ask what you really want 424 00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:25,280 ask? What's that? 425 00:21:26,060 --> 00:21:28,820 What do you think I want to ask? I don't know. I could go Brad. I could go 426 00:21:28,820 --> 00:21:29,820 Angelina. 427 00:21:30,420 --> 00:21:31,620 That's what you want me to say, right? 428 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:34,160 I mean... Is that serious? 429 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:36,140 That we go Brad or Angelina? 430 00:21:36,360 --> 00:21:37,540 No, I mean, I'm like... 431 00:21:37,770 --> 00:21:40,430 Half joking, but not fully joking. 432 00:21:40,650 --> 00:21:44,810 Oakman. I don't know. Listen, I've learned a lot about myself. I think 433 00:21:44,810 --> 00:21:50,590 doesn't matter. I think it is a connection with a, you know, a soul 434 00:21:50,950 --> 00:21:56,590 I think my biggest worry after Mo and I separated was really that I was going to 435 00:21:56,590 --> 00:21:58,510 maybe be alone one day. 436 00:21:59,890 --> 00:22:00,890 And then... 437 00:22:01,210 --> 00:22:06,150 To find someone that you have a lot in common with and you can laugh with and 438 00:22:06,150 --> 00:22:12,770 have fun is exciting for me because I proved to myself, oh, you know, I 439 00:22:12,770 --> 00:22:16,410 can meet someone after a marriage of this many years. 440 00:22:16,810 --> 00:22:20,990 I've always been attracted to men, you know, like tall, dark, and handsome. 441 00:22:21,090 --> 00:22:22,810 Could that apply to women? 442 00:22:23,630 --> 00:22:27,410 I also felt nervous about, do I go out with somebody? 443 00:22:27,690 --> 00:22:29,990 Like, what is Mo going to think about that? 444 00:22:30,490 --> 00:22:31,970 What are the girls going to think about that? 445 00:22:32,490 --> 00:22:34,950 What is the public going to think about that? 446 00:22:35,790 --> 00:22:39,430 I don't really know. Kyle, to be honest with you, I actually don't think you 447 00:22:39,430 --> 00:22:41,790 have to know. You have been with Moe forever. 448 00:22:42,830 --> 00:22:47,550 She said 30 years. And I think it's okay to now be like I'm freely being me and 449 00:22:47,550 --> 00:22:50,010 whatever that feels like and whoever I connect with the most. 450 00:22:50,450 --> 00:22:55,530 I've gone through so much in these past few years, and it really has changed my 451 00:22:55,530 --> 00:22:59,470 perspective on life and how I want to live. 452 00:23:00,140 --> 00:23:05,440 While I am sad about the relationship, I'm also really grateful. 453 00:23:05,660 --> 00:23:10,780 You get lost in being a wife and a mother, and you can kind of forget about 454 00:23:10,780 --> 00:23:11,780 you are. 455 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:16,400 And I learned a lot about myself in that time. 456 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,040 I'm going to go back in my contact list. No. 457 00:23:20,380 --> 00:23:24,220 No. You know what? Bye. I'm a fake kind of person. 458 00:23:26,380 --> 00:23:27,840 Coming up. 459 00:23:28,190 --> 00:23:32,210 Maybe I'll change my name back to Brown. I dropped my married name the day I 460 00:23:32,210 --> 00:23:37,750 left. Like my last little... It is, but you're not married to me anymore. 461 00:24:11,110 --> 00:24:12,490 You guys can absolutely. 462 00:24:13,110 --> 00:24:16,210 Oh, Shoshi, do you want to paint a dragon with KK? She's right behind you. 463 00:24:17,390 --> 00:24:18,570 She's literally right next to you. 464 00:24:19,930 --> 00:24:21,670 Oh, hi. You want to paint a dragon? 465 00:24:22,790 --> 00:24:23,790 KK wants to help. 466 00:24:24,190 --> 00:24:25,109 Let's go over here. 467 00:24:25,110 --> 00:24:26,110 Here, Mama, help. 468 00:24:26,190 --> 00:24:30,250 You want me to help you get the stuff? I'll show you. I've never done that 469 00:24:30,250 --> 00:24:31,169 activity before. 470 00:24:31,170 --> 00:24:32,630 Hey, KK, look at my side. 471 00:24:32,890 --> 00:24:37,050 What if we both paint on both sides and we work together collaboratively? 472 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:41,220 How did where you grew up in Oklahoma get there from where your children are 473 00:24:41,220 --> 00:24:42,220 right now? 474 00:24:44,820 --> 00:24:48,940 Okay, so I come from a pretty humble beginning. 475 00:24:49,140 --> 00:24:52,680 We didn't really have a lot. On Friday nights, I used to hang out at Walmart. 476 00:24:53,100 --> 00:24:54,300 We would, like, go walk. 477 00:24:54,660 --> 00:24:55,800 I would walk around Walmart. 478 00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:57,960 Do you want to go jet skiing with Dada tomorrow? 479 00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,280 We're going jet skiing in the morning. Of course, of course. 480 00:25:00,860 --> 00:25:04,220 They will never grasp that the reason I have them in a stroller... 481 00:25:04,510 --> 00:25:07,270 walking around Beverly Hills, like, getting ice cream and going to lunch or 482 00:25:07,270 --> 00:25:11,930 whatever, is because I dreamed this for them. Like, we walk the street that I 483 00:25:11,930 --> 00:25:14,450 watched on Clueless. Like, that, you know? 484 00:25:15,050 --> 00:25:19,390 It looks like I'm going to Disney on Monday. Daddy has a new project at 485 00:25:19,390 --> 00:25:21,970 World. Sunday, you have water polo, correct? 486 00:25:22,470 --> 00:25:25,750 At 11, yeah, I'm going to take Liam. And I'm going to try to go to Pilates that 487 00:25:25,750 --> 00:25:26,750 day during nap time. 488 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:33,860 Eddie is my partner and fiancé and lover. We met in 2019, and so we've been 489 00:25:33,860 --> 00:25:34,860 together five years. 490 00:25:35,180 --> 00:25:36,420 Eddie is in construction. 491 00:25:36,980 --> 00:25:38,060 Isn't he so cute, though? 492 00:25:39,120 --> 00:25:40,240 He's, like, so cute. 493 00:25:40,500 --> 00:25:44,620 Okay, before Daddy proposed, like, I kept having the dream that he got me a 494 00:25:44,620 --> 00:25:46,460 with the Smart and Final logo on it. 495 00:25:48,740 --> 00:25:50,380 Get your Oklahoma ass out of here. 496 00:25:50,620 --> 00:25:54,120 So once Eddie and I were living together, he asked me what I wanted, 497 00:25:54,120 --> 00:25:55,760 priorities were. I was... 498 00:25:56,010 --> 00:26:00,470 About to turn 36, and I remember telling him that there was an expiration date 499 00:26:00,470 --> 00:26:03,990 on my ovaries more than there was an expiration date on my ring finger, and I 500 00:26:03,990 --> 00:26:05,710 thought we should get to making babies. 501 00:26:08,090 --> 00:26:12,450 It did take a while for us to get engaged, but then Daddy crushed it. He 502 00:26:12,450 --> 00:26:15,550 the exact ring that had been on my vision board, literally. 503 00:26:15,810 --> 00:26:20,230 Okay. As a financial empowerment teacher and coach, I'm the embodiment of 504 00:26:20,230 --> 00:26:23,450 everything I teach. I'm my biggest testimonial. 505 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:28,000 I remember someone who was in one of my courses and they're like, of course, 506 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:31,080 Amanda wouldn't come through just manifesting a man. Amanda comes through 507 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:32,380 manifesting a whole ass family. 508 00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:34,220 I'm really thankful you cook. 509 00:26:35,820 --> 00:26:37,020 Or else nobody would eat. 510 00:26:37,500 --> 00:26:38,500 No. 511 00:27:04,790 --> 00:27:08,810 Hello. You are so sweet. Hi, you look so gorgeous. 512 00:27:09,070 --> 00:27:10,490 Hi. I'm so casual. 513 00:27:10,730 --> 00:27:13,370 I'm so sorry. You look gorgeous. Why are you? I'm in jeans. 514 00:27:13,690 --> 00:27:16,910 Okay, we're both in jeans. Yeah, I love your house. Thank you. I have a penchant 515 00:27:16,910 --> 00:27:21,110 for White Houses. I love White Houses. Me too. You drink white wine. Yes. I 516 00:27:21,110 --> 00:27:24,910 brought you some white wine. And I love this. I love Poulet Foussé. Yes. I do. 517 00:27:24,910 --> 00:27:28,510 Thank you so much. No, you're welcome. I know Sutton because we have... 518 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:34,020 like, some mutual friends. So I end up seeing her at different, like, events 519 00:27:34,020 --> 00:27:38,080 lunches and parties when I do that sort of circuit, you know, around the 520 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:39,080 holidays especially. 521 00:27:39,100 --> 00:27:40,100 I always see her at cafes. 522 00:27:40,740 --> 00:27:45,620 But she was always someone who was very, like, friendly and outgoing, invited me 523 00:27:45,620 --> 00:27:48,440 to all these parties and things like that. I just had never gotten close with 524 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,960 her. Wait, I feel like we have so much to discuss. 525 00:27:52,060 --> 00:27:53,039 How's it going? 526 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,940 I mean, can we talk about Bo's house? 527 00:27:56,570 --> 00:27:59,970 I can't believe we just did, like, a speed dating night. Like, I didn't know 528 00:27:59,970 --> 00:28:01,050 that there was a name for this. 529 00:28:01,270 --> 00:28:02,830 Did you think any of the guys were cute? 530 00:28:03,510 --> 00:28:04,510 Eh. 531 00:28:04,690 --> 00:28:08,510 Did you think the guy with the hair, I feel like he was, like, good -looking 532 00:28:08,510 --> 00:28:09,890 cute. Yeah. Right? 533 00:28:10,150 --> 00:28:11,630 Yeah. Felt like not. 534 00:28:14,870 --> 00:28:15,870 It's all relative. 535 00:28:16,770 --> 00:28:21,410 You know, I think I'm still so fresh out of marriage, so I think I'm really 536 00:28:21,410 --> 00:28:23,130 enjoying not being married. Right. 537 00:28:23,550 --> 00:28:24,590 Would you get married? 538 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:30,400 So, you know, for me it's complicated because I found out a little over a year 539 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:34,980 ago. My ex -husband, he asked for an annulment with the Catholic Church. 540 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,800 Like within the church, our marriage never existed. 541 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:45,940 But when I got the letter from the Catholic Church, it came 542 00:28:45,940 --> 00:28:48,520 to Strack Brown. 543 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:53,260 And Brown is my maiden name. I'm like, okay. I kept looking at it. 544 00:28:53,660 --> 00:28:54,660 Strack Brown. 545 00:28:55,020 --> 00:29:00,020 And so I thought, well, maybe I'll change my name back to Brown. 546 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,400 I dropped my married name the day I left. 547 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:03,720 Really? Yeah. 548 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,580 Well, the truth is, I'm not a Strack. 549 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,440 So, I'm Strack. You know who I'm not. 550 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:15,060 You should be Strack. I know, but it's like my last little... It is, but you 551 00:29:15,060 --> 00:29:16,060 know what? 552 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:17,640 You're not married to him anymore. 553 00:29:18,580 --> 00:29:21,140 I always felt that... 554 00:29:21,580 --> 00:29:23,900 I could get Christian back whenever I wanted to. 555 00:29:24,620 --> 00:29:29,440 Sometimes when we talk, I'm like, in this little moment, like, did I just win 556 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:30,600 him back for a second? 557 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:38,880 I think I realized with this annulment, he is not going to take 558 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:39,880 me back. 559 00:29:41,300 --> 00:29:42,300 It's over. 560 00:29:44,570 --> 00:29:49,450 Oh, Rachel, why do you want to make me cry? I don't want to make you cry, but I 561 00:29:49,450 --> 00:29:52,590 also want you to... It's like when I think about grandchildren, I'm like... 562 00:29:52,590 --> 00:29:56,770 what? Grandma and Grandpa Strack over there are the good ones with all the 563 00:29:56,770 --> 00:29:57,930 houses all over the world. 564 00:29:58,750 --> 00:30:04,270 I'm just Grandmommy Brown over here with my four dogs and probably 18 cats. 565 00:30:04,530 --> 00:30:08,130 Look, 18 cats is a problem in and of itself, but that's a whole different 566 00:30:10,540 --> 00:30:14,160 I know a lot of women who want to keep their married name, and sometimes it's 567 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,960 status. Sometimes it's because they're not over the marriage and they want to 568 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:21,480 hold on to it. And I'm not one of them. 569 00:30:21,820 --> 00:30:22,820 That round's not bad. 570 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:24,080 What's your middle name? 571 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:26,280 Oh, no. 572 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:28,100 What's your middle name? It's Thurman. 573 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:30,760 Okay. 574 00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:32,240 Harder. 575 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:36,200 Coming up. 576 00:30:36,580 --> 00:30:39,320 Do you know about your retirement account? No retirement account. 577 00:30:39,740 --> 00:30:40,980 exist as far as I'm concerned. 578 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:43,720 Money's not invested? 579 00:30:43,980 --> 00:30:46,060 I'm in the unknown. 580 00:30:57,380 --> 00:30:58,380 How did it take flowers? 581 00:30:58,880 --> 00:30:59,779 No, me too. 582 00:30:59,780 --> 00:31:02,940 Another thing we're checking off the list, we need to get with the program. 583 00:31:08,430 --> 00:31:09,550 Hi, welcome to Orchid Republic. 584 00:31:09,990 --> 00:31:12,290 We have an appointment here for her. Of course. 585 00:31:12,710 --> 00:31:15,710 Hi, Margarita. Hi, Margarita. Nice to meet you. 586 00:31:16,050 --> 00:31:20,030 Trying to get some info and ideas for her wedding flowers. 587 00:31:20,250 --> 00:31:25,270 What is your color scheme and what are the flowers maybe that you're thinking 588 00:31:25,270 --> 00:31:26,270 about? 589 00:31:26,350 --> 00:31:28,090 I don't have a color scheme. 590 00:31:29,550 --> 00:31:35,850 I do want colorful, bohemian. I like the wild, unique -looking flowers, you 591 00:31:35,850 --> 00:31:37,490 know, ones like artichokes. 592 00:31:40,210 --> 00:31:45,130 Alexia's ideas get me a little stressed sometimes because my wedding was more 593 00:31:45,130 --> 00:31:51,070 traditional. Black tie, at a country club, I had 12 bridesmaids, and very 594 00:31:51,070 --> 00:31:53,530 traditional flowers like pink and white roses. 595 00:31:53,930 --> 00:31:57,290 Let's just look in here for a second and see if we can find something. Ooh, look 596 00:31:57,290 --> 00:31:58,290 at that one right there. 597 00:31:58,370 --> 00:32:00,930 That's too many purples. Too many purples, of course. 598 00:32:01,550 --> 00:32:08,230 Alexia's my birth child, free spirit, so I expect this to be very eclectic. 599 00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:12,040 I actually like more of, like, this vibe than that vibe. Bringing some of these 600 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:13,040 guys in. 601 00:32:13,620 --> 00:32:15,580 Look at these tiny bombs. 602 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:16,840 I love them. 603 00:32:16,860 --> 00:32:18,380 Do you guys have any, like, drippies? 604 00:32:18,700 --> 00:32:20,200 This is getting artichoke. This is perfect. 605 00:32:20,500 --> 00:32:21,459 Ooh! 606 00:32:21,460 --> 00:32:22,880 Would those look pretty in here? 607 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:24,560 Do you like the more organic -y vibe? 608 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:26,160 We're getting somewhere, guys. Woo -hoo! 609 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,540 I love that she has her own unique style. 610 00:32:30,620 --> 00:32:35,460 Frozen. But it's just trying to get her to nail down the actual look she wants. 611 00:32:35,620 --> 00:32:37,060 So we can just put this to rest. 612 00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:39,620 This looks so pretty. Look at that. You like that? 613 00:32:39,820 --> 00:32:40,379 I do. 614 00:32:40,380 --> 00:32:43,320 This matches, like, the bridesmaids' dresses color scheme. 615 00:32:43,700 --> 00:32:44,860 You said there was no bridesmaids. 616 00:32:45,460 --> 00:32:49,820 Mother. I'm still having, like, bridesmaids and just not doing the walk. 617 00:32:50,020 --> 00:32:51,060 And not matching dresses. 618 00:32:51,500 --> 00:32:52,500 I want matching dresses. 619 00:32:52,860 --> 00:32:55,140 You didn't say that. You said colors, not matching dresses. Yeah. 620 00:32:55,380 --> 00:32:56,380 That's still matching. 621 00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:58,300 Dad and I are both walking in with you? 622 00:32:58,500 --> 00:32:59,880 Yeah. Okay. Of course. 623 00:33:00,340 --> 00:33:01,680 Yeah, you're going to walk me down. 624 00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:02,960 That's so crazy. 625 00:33:03,500 --> 00:33:07,040 It does feel strange now to think that my daughter... 626 00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:11,060 Our daughter is getting married, and we're not together. 627 00:33:11,940 --> 00:33:16,120 I would like to take the flowers home so that Jake can give the green light. 628 00:33:16,340 --> 00:33:18,220 I always like him to have the final yes. 629 00:33:18,620 --> 00:33:22,260 When I look at Alexia and Jake getting married, I just hope that they have a 630 00:33:22,260 --> 00:33:26,680 long, happy marriage. I hope that they can always trust each other. 631 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:32,360 I hope that neither one of them ever hurt each other. 632 00:33:38,670 --> 00:33:41,650 I hope that Jake always looks at Alexia the way he looks at her today. 633 00:33:45,530 --> 00:33:50,870 But when you look back one day at your wedding photos, as long as you look back 634 00:33:50,870 --> 00:33:56,310 and you're like, oh, that's exactly what I wanted, and that's what I wanted at 635 00:33:56,310 --> 00:34:00,490 the time, Mo and me, we were also really happy. 636 00:34:03,330 --> 00:34:06,630 So do I get scared thinking I hope one day they don't... 637 00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,340 go through what we're going through, of course I think like that. 638 00:34:10,380 --> 00:34:16,699 I'm hoping that they have both learned from Mo and me through all of this and 639 00:34:16,699 --> 00:34:23,639 love and respect each other as much, you know, 30, 40 years from now as they 640 00:34:23,639 --> 00:34:24,639 do today. 641 00:34:24,780 --> 00:34:27,840 I'm telling you, I'm going to have a very different wedding with each of your 642 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:28,840 sisters. Yeah. 643 00:34:28,860 --> 00:34:30,060 God help me with Sophia. 644 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,360 Welcome to Gemma. Feed me. 645 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:46,340 Feed me pasta and tell me I'm pretty. Oh, yeah. We love that. Thank you. 646 00:34:46,699 --> 00:34:47,699 Fabulous. 647 00:34:47,820 --> 00:34:51,340 Can I get you started with some still or sparkling water? Still would be great. 648 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:52,400 Sounds good. 649 00:34:53,620 --> 00:34:54,659 Hi, how are you? 650 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,900 Oh, hey, honey. How are you? I am good. Good, good. 651 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,480 Can I get us started with something to drink over here? 652 00:35:00,720 --> 00:35:02,200 Can I have a nice tea? Yeah, absolutely. 653 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,760 I'll have the Arnold Palmer, actually. You got it. Thank you. I met Amanda at 654 00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:09,820 Jennifer Tilly's party. Whose jacket is that, by the way? This is my mom. This 655 00:35:09,820 --> 00:35:14,080 is my mom. I would knock you down, put you in that pool out there, and take the 656 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,940 jacket and go. Thank you. I'm taking both those things as a compliment. She 657 00:35:16,940 --> 00:35:17,678 seems interesting. 658 00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:18,700 She's a businesswoman. 659 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:22,020 She's getting married. So I want to get to know her better. 660 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,740 Did you ever start in, like, the corporate space? 661 00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:29,580 No. I have no formal business experience. Really? You've always been 662 00:35:29,580 --> 00:35:30,900 entrepreneur. I have a master's in counseling. 663 00:35:31,500 --> 00:35:33,880 I don't know that I had this language at the time, but I was like, let's make 664 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:35,260 this a personal development brand. 665 00:35:35,700 --> 00:35:37,280 Like, what do I want to be about? 666 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,220 So I started putting out really good content online every day. 667 00:35:40,460 --> 00:35:44,600 I started out as a therapist and life coach and later a business coach. As my 668 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:49,340 audience grew and I wanted to help more people, I began to create online courses 669 00:35:49,340 --> 00:35:53,520 to help people create both the professional and personal life of their 670 00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:57,580 Oh, interesting. So then I created a digital course called Become a Life 671 00:35:57,820 --> 00:36:00,220 Oh. And then I found that I had a... 672 00:36:00,570 --> 00:36:06,830 a gift, a niche around money, but not around, like I'm not a financial 673 00:36:06,970 --> 00:36:10,610 you know, around like the energetic part of money, the mindset part, the 674 00:36:10,610 --> 00:36:11,950 psychology around it. 675 00:36:12,690 --> 00:36:17,490 Most people who teach on money focus on the practical aspects of money 676 00:36:17,490 --> 00:36:18,490 exclusively. 677 00:36:19,010 --> 00:36:22,670 I think the practical aspects are really important, but I think the foundation 678 00:36:22,670 --> 00:36:27,050 is our relationship with money, which involves the psychological, the 679 00:36:27,230 --> 00:36:28,230 and the energetic. 680 00:36:28,850 --> 00:36:31,910 That's really what I became known for. That's what I wrote my book on. I have a 681 00:36:31,910 --> 00:36:33,030 best -selling book called Riches. 682 00:36:33,350 --> 00:36:34,109 Oh, yeah. 683 00:36:34,110 --> 00:36:36,290 So then I became known as the money queen. 684 00:36:36,510 --> 00:36:38,790 Yes. But I create courses on all kinds of things. 685 00:36:39,150 --> 00:36:40,230 Well, hello. Hi. 686 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:46,740 Hi, baby. I love you. You look just so gorgeous. Hi, so good to see you. 687 00:36:46,940 --> 00:36:49,680 Good to see you, too. Here, I'll take your bag. Thank you, thank you, thank 688 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:51,080 I'll take her bag. 689 00:36:51,740 --> 00:36:53,760 That's not what I meant, Dory. I'll take her bag. 690 00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,400 I've been thinking about you a lot since the party. I really have. Sending you 691 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,080 love and good vibes every day. I'm praying you're getting some sleep. Oh, 692 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,380 Amanda. I really have. I have every day. You've been on my mind. 693 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:05,340 Yeah. That's really very sweet. No, I mean it. 694 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:09,160 My first impression of Amanda, to be honest, I didn't know what to make of 695 00:37:09,340 --> 00:37:10,660 What a lovely meeting you. 696 00:37:13,710 --> 00:37:18,070 But now, hearing her say how she was thinking about me all weekend and prayed 697 00:37:18,070 --> 00:37:23,050 for me, it's incredibly kind and sweet and caring. 698 00:37:23,490 --> 00:37:27,370 The french fries, because that's the most important thing. Yes, it is. Let's 699 00:37:27,370 --> 00:37:28,269 the kale salad. 700 00:37:28,270 --> 00:37:31,630 It looks like this calamari is gluten -free. Calamari is gluten -free. Well, 701 00:37:31,650 --> 00:37:33,310 that never happens. I don't have calamari in here. 702 00:37:33,510 --> 00:37:33,928 I mean. 703 00:37:33,930 --> 00:37:36,270 They have to. I have to do that. Awesome. I'll get that started. 704 00:37:37,950 --> 00:37:40,990 My, what do I say, my husband, my ex -husband, I don't know what to say. I 705 00:37:40,990 --> 00:37:41,990 saying estranged. 706 00:37:42,030 --> 00:37:44,830 Okay, yeah, I know. Estranged husband. Yeah. That's your official face. But in 707 00:37:44,830 --> 00:37:47,310 any case, he's very much an alpha male, a businessman. 708 00:37:47,930 --> 00:37:52,930 He built a very big business in the UK, and when the world tilted on an access 709 00:37:52,930 --> 00:37:57,090 in 2008, he lost his business. 710 00:37:57,410 --> 00:37:59,290 When PK and I married, we did not have a prenup. 711 00:37:59,530 --> 00:38:01,850 PK came into the relationship broke. 712 00:38:02,410 --> 00:38:05,590 He had lost his business, and he was really starting from scratch. 713 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:07,980 There was nothing to protect. 714 00:38:08,260 --> 00:38:14,260 And when we got married, the finances, he really was handling everything. 715 00:38:14,660 --> 00:38:17,800 And you had kind of delegated it out of your mind. Yeah. You weren't thinking 716 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:19,200 about how the finances worked. No. 717 00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:24,180 We had a business manager. I filed for divorce a couple of months ago. There 718 00:38:24,180 --> 00:38:27,540 wasn't like a handoff. There wasn't like an agreement. 719 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:28,880 There was nothing. 720 00:38:29,740 --> 00:38:33,500 I just would find out that he's not going to pay this anymore. 721 00:38:44,970 --> 00:38:49,190 I filed for divorce a couple of months ago. There wasn't, like, a handoff. 722 00:38:49,190 --> 00:38:50,990 wasn't, like, an agreement. 723 00:38:51,370 --> 00:38:52,370 There was nothing. 724 00:38:53,070 --> 00:38:57,010 I just would find out that he's not going to pay this anymore. 725 00:38:58,990 --> 00:39:01,950 Wait, wait, wait. So you're living in the house, the family home. 726 00:39:02,190 --> 00:39:04,590 Yes. And he's trying to not pay the mortgage, like, for example? 727 00:39:04,830 --> 00:39:08,730 He's currently paying the mortgage. He's just randomly deciding you're on your 728 00:39:08,730 --> 00:39:11,970 own. Absolutely. He's thinking she's making X. 729 00:39:12,310 --> 00:39:13,310 No. 730 00:39:14,540 --> 00:39:18,380 For the last 14 years, PK has been paying the lion's share of our family 731 00:39:18,380 --> 00:39:22,120 outgoings. When we separated, he said that the finances would stay the same. 732 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:27,000 She's now having more financial responsibility than in the past. 733 00:39:27,220 --> 00:39:28,220 Right, 734 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:32,080 but it hasn't been mutually decided upon. No. A month later, I got an email 735 00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,100 saying that he decided he's no longer going to do that. 736 00:39:35,460 --> 00:39:39,560 And I was like, how can you change this all of a sudden? And his answer was, I 737 00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:41,000 only agreed to that for one month. 738 00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:46,660 For you to have a fair position in mediation, you have to know what you're 739 00:39:46,660 --> 00:39:48,640 working with. Do you know about your retirement account? 740 00:39:48,860 --> 00:39:51,640 No retirement account exists as far as I'm concerned. 741 00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:54,920 And money's not invested? 742 00:39:55,260 --> 00:40:00,760 I have yet to discover everything, and I can tell you I'm in the unknown. 743 00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:06,760 When Peter died, I was left with the financial responsibility of raising Leo 744 00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:07,738 my own. 745 00:40:07,740 --> 00:40:11,660 Dorit is in a similar position. She needs to understand where the money is. 746 00:40:11,900 --> 00:40:14,760 I'm hoping, I'm praying that there's been money invested. Like, these are 747 00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:16,120 that people live off of. 748 00:40:16,620 --> 00:40:17,940 How do you get here? 749 00:40:18,240 --> 00:40:23,640 Like, you have to turn a blind eye to your bank account for a long time to be 750 00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:26,220 a state where you have no idea if you have retirement. 751 00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:29,920 I mean, this is like basic information every woman should know about their 752 00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:30,920 financial reality. 753 00:40:31,660 --> 00:40:34,040 My husband's a complex person. 754 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:38,760 He's complex. He's not a bad guy, like a terrible bad guy, vicious. 755 00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:41,580 Does he have some bad behavior? 756 00:40:42,020 --> 00:40:47,600 Absolutely. And then you throw drinking into the mix, and that, for someone of 757 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:50,160 his character, it gets even more complicated. 758 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:54,120 Right. Not only that, but my name is on everything. 759 00:40:55,980 --> 00:40:59,580 When I found out our house was in pre -courclosure, I wasn't just worried 760 00:40:59,580 --> 00:41:00,580 losing the house. 761 00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:05,360 The house is in my name. So if PK stops paying for something or doesn't make 762 00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:08,280 payments, it's me that suffers the consequences. 763 00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:13,520 I can't do anything right now. My hands are tied behind my back. So you need the 764 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:17,300 clean break to start building everything back up. Exactly. What can Dorit do, 765 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:21,360 like, proactively, knowing, like, all of these unknowns? 766 00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:25,000 Is there anything that she can proactively do to protect herself? 767 00:41:25,770 --> 00:41:27,110 or to, like, help the situation. 768 00:41:27,550 --> 00:41:30,830 I think you have to decide what you want, what you're creating, and, like, 769 00:41:30,830 --> 00:41:33,530 you're going to be. Like, I know that's, like, a big overarching question, but 770 00:41:33,530 --> 00:41:36,030 who do you want to be as a provider? Who do you want to be as a woman who earns? 771 00:41:36,150 --> 00:41:38,690 Who do you want to be as a woman who has been screwed her and now she has to 772 00:41:38,690 --> 00:41:42,170 fill in the gaps? Like, who are you going to be no matter what he does? 773 00:41:42,250 --> 00:41:44,090 You know what I'm saying? Totally. Because you're going to have to keep 774 00:41:44,090 --> 00:41:46,210 mind right to go through this battle with this man. Oh, yeah. 775 00:41:47,250 --> 00:41:49,750 What is this frou -frou mess we're talking about? 776 00:41:50,370 --> 00:41:52,690 I was looking for one plus one equals two. 777 00:41:53,650 --> 00:41:56,220 Intention. What kind of provider does she want to be? 778 00:41:56,420 --> 00:41:57,420 What does that even mean? 779 00:41:57,760 --> 00:41:59,740 This is not financial advice. 780 00:42:00,380 --> 00:42:05,400 The math ain't math. The road we're going, there are no winners. It is going 781 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,280 get very, very ugly. 782 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,720 Next on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. 783 00:42:16,100 --> 00:42:20,800 Erica said, boring. I got her in that moment. Don't think for two seconds that 784 00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:21,840 you got her in that moment. 785 00:42:24,330 --> 00:42:26,230 Let's go now. Here we come. 786 00:42:26,790 --> 00:42:27,790 Let's go, baby. 787 00:42:28,050 --> 00:42:30,730 This is hot girl summer, Rachel. See? I don't know if I like it. 788 00:42:31,210 --> 00:42:33,930 What? Not the fashionista with no clothes. 789 00:42:34,310 --> 00:42:37,730 Did you see that picture of Eric in the tabloids with that guy? 790 00:42:37,970 --> 00:42:39,610 Did he approach you?