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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:05,600 This programme contains strong language, nudity and scenes of a sexual nature 2 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:06,920 The word virgin - 3 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:08,880 people see it as a joke. 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:10,480 it's quite upsetting. 5 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:15,680 In a world where sex is everywhere... 6 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:16,800 My God. 7 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:18,600 ..the truth is surprising. 8 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:21,280 There are more adult virgins than ever. 9 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:24,720 Being a young adult in this day and age, it's difficult. 10 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:26,280 Social media. Dating apps. 11 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:27,600 TV shows. Porn. 12 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:28,760 Porn. Porn. Porn. 13 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:30,120 Porn is everywhere. 14 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,200 Are you self-conscious about our genitals touching each other? 15 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:34,240 Now... 16 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:35,280 Yeah. 17 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:37,200 ..at this radical retreat, 18 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:41,080 intimacy experts are offering a very hands-on solution... 19 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:42,200 Ahhh, yeah. 20 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:43,520 She's a miracle worker. 21 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:44,960 Woohoo. 22 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:46,600 Like that? I like that. 23 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:48,000 ..to help Britain's virgins... 24 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:49,720 Hmm... 25 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:51,400 ..lose the one thing... 26 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:52,920 Do I make you feel nervous? 27 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:54,680 ..they feel is holding them back. 28 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:56,760 I want to lose my virginity. 29 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:59,040 It's now or never. 30 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:01,640 But when the moment arrives... 31 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:03,880 Would you like to move to the bed? 32 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:06,400 ..who will be ready... 33 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,680 I just don't want anyone to touch me. 34 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:12,040 ..to go all the way? 35 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:14,080 You're so sexy. 36 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:15,160 Yeah, so good. 37 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,840 The last few days on Virgin Island 38 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:28,000 have brought firsts for many. 39 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:32,640 I think I managed to achieve my first orgasm ever. 40 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:34,480 While Charlotte bared all... 41 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:35,520 How does it feel? 42 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:36,560 It's refreshing. 43 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,600 ..Ben has been held back by his fear of nudity. 44 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,000 I'm basically like probably dressed more than 45 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:42,840 all of you put together. 46 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:43,880 I like clothes. 47 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,120 Clothes are a mark of civilisation. 48 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,720 Zac's impatience led to a rift. 49 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,120 I'm just not feeling that desire from you. 50 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:53,680 OK. That's enough for today. 51 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:55,720 But reconciliation led to him to 52 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,080 opening up like never before. 53 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:03,720 I want to be more vulnerable. I want to share that with you. 54 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,360 Dave continued to progress. 55 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:09,480 I had a little orgasm. 56 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,560 And his aim is clear. 57 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:15,600 I would like to lose my virginity. Yay. 58 00:02:15,640 --> 00:02:17,600 As the final phase begins... 59 00:02:17,640 --> 00:02:18,640 Worship me. 60 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:19,720 Time is running out for 61 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,480 the group to get the most out of the course. 62 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:24,960 We invited 12 virgins onto this island 63 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,120 to help them explore the concept of virginity. 64 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:30,400 They found out who they are, what they want. 65 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:32,800 Don't be intimidated even though there's a bed. 66 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:34,680 Err... 67 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,160 Now, it's an opportunity to self-reflect 68 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,920 about what they want to do sexually at the retreat. 69 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:51,760 Good morning! 70 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,680 Another beautiful day at Virgin Camp. 71 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,320 It's the penultimate day on Virgin Island. 72 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:00,280 You gonna miss me? You gonna sob? 73 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,000 "Jason, I miss you." 74 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,400 I will miss... I will miss your jokes. 75 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:05,600 Aw! 76 00:03:05,640 --> 00:03:06,800 Obviously this is the last two days. 77 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:07,840 So, we're going to be 78 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,600 getting into the really big stuff, aren't we? 79 00:03:10,640 --> 00:03:12,320 I can't even guess what we're gonna do. 80 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:13,920 Oh, God. 81 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,760 This final phase, it's a way for them 82 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:20,040 to kind of celebrate their sexual power 83 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:24,000 and all the learning they've done so far. 84 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:25,160 For each member of the group 85 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,920 to achieve their individual goals, 86 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:31,120 Celeste and Danielle want to keep up the intensity. 87 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,160 Escalation. What does that mean? 88 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,800 It means taking it to the next level. 89 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,440 Scary. OK, yeah. 90 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:39,760 Yeah. 91 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:41,280 Let's go. 92 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:43,640 Come on, let's escalate things. 93 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,520 The final group workshop... 94 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:46,680 Welcome. 95 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:48,680 Hi, everybody. 96 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:52,920 ..will test exactly how far the virgins have come 97 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:54,760 and how far they're willing to go. 98 00:03:57,760 --> 00:04:01,200 This is it. Our final workshop. 99 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,840 And this phase is all about escalation, 100 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:09,440 and you're just like, "What? Didn't we escalate enough?" 101 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,640 So, on the first day that we came in, 102 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:15,000 Andre demonstrated on Danielle 103 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,040 an exercise called "up against the wall." 104 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:25,160 In the first workshop they were terrified. 105 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,360 We were actually worried that we overwhelmed them 106 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:31,440 so much they wouldn't be able to continue. 107 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:39,280 Now, Celeste and Danielle want them to finally conquer their fears. 108 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:44,120 It's your turn to bring all of these tools together. 109 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:45,400 Who wants to try it? 110 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:51,360 Ooh, I saw that. 111 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:53,400 APPLAUSE 112 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:59,560 I'm quite scared around sex and what it really is. 113 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:02,680 I want to be more comfortable in my skin, 114 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:04,520 so that I can live my life to the fullest, you know? 115 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:08,960 Ah. Just when you are ready, nod and I'll come to you. 116 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,600 He arrived as one of the quietest in the group. 117 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,240 But now it's time for Dave to show how far he's come. 118 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:16,760 Ready? 119 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:17,800 Yeah. 120 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:27,840 Yeah, oh, yes. 121 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:30,120 Ohh... Put your leg between my legs. 122 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,080 Ohh... 123 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:36,880 Oh... 124 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:43,400 Hmm-mmm, that's so good. 125 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,000 Inspired by Dave... 126 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:52,560 Yeah, we're doing it together. 127 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:55,280 ..some of the others show off their sexy skills. 128 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:57,520 Mmm. 129 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:01,680 Oh, yeah. 130 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:03,120 Oh, yeah. 131 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,160 But Ben needs a little warm-up. 132 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:10,880 Sorry, yeah. 133 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:12,600 Yeah, nice and hard. 134 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:14,080 Yeah. 135 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:15,480 Good, harder. 136 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:18,080 Mmm, great. 137 00:06:24,840 --> 00:06:25,880 Last up... 138 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:27,680 Are you pushing or being pushed? 139 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:28,720 I'll push. 140 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:29,760 Sweet. 141 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,560 ..23-year-old dog groomer Holly. 142 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:38,960 A lot of different experiences in my life 143 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,240 have knocked me down a little bit. 144 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:43,800 Yeah, good, right. 145 00:06:43,840 --> 00:06:48,040 I pretty much got bullied for most of high school, 146 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:52,320 because I was the quiet kid, so I became quite withdrawn. 147 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:54,120 I wish I could just leave the house 148 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:57,600 and not care what other people think and just be the real me. 149 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,960 Mmmm, feels good? 150 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:03,160 Yes. 151 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:12,680 Can you take a moment, can you believe yourselves? 152 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,960 Talk about before and after. 153 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:18,760 What is happening here? 154 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,240 Do you think, like, doing the pushing was fun? 155 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,520 Yeah, shall we do that at the hang-out? 156 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:29,640 Can I push you, Ben? All right, then. 157 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,920 After the final workshop, some of the students... 158 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:33,960 Ben's gonna walk to you, 159 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:35,760 you put your hand on him, push him up. 160 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,400 Yeah. That's it, yeah, pull him pull him close, 161 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,160 with that hand. There we go. 162 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:41,640 ..have become the teachers. 163 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:43,280 Do you wanna do an advanced wall push? 164 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:45,080 Go on. 165 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,160 Whoa! 166 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:51,240 Hey, Dave. 167 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:52,720 Hello. How was yours? 168 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:54,080 I think it was good, yeah. 169 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,360 The neck bit, that was great. 170 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:57,640 But it's Dave who's probably 171 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,440 transformed the most within the group. 172 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:01,720 I'm more confident. 173 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:03,320 Like, I'm not going to start approaching random people 174 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:04,520 and start pushing them up against walls, 175 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,280 but I'm going to try and speak to them a little bit. 176 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:11,240 Dave, when I think about how he arrived, 177 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:14,200 just totally inside of himself, you know. 178 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:17,760 For him to just come out to the level he has is just, like... 179 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:19,320 Meteoric, yeah. 180 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:21,000 We've been escalating quite a bit, 181 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:22,560 and so we're going to do oral today, 182 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:26,120 but also practising, like, staying connected, 183 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:29,120 because I think that's something he still struggles with a little bit. 184 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:39,280 Hi. 185 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:40,760 How are you? I'm good. 186 00:08:43,680 --> 00:08:46,040 Right this way. 187 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:49,480 To test Dave's ability to connect 188 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,600 Kat is escalating to the bedroom for the first time. 189 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,680 Don't be intimidated even though there's a bed. 190 00:08:58,720 --> 00:08:59,920 Err... 191 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:02,640 It's OK. 192 00:09:02,680 --> 00:09:03,680 I'm... 193 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:07,760 Losing my virginity, 194 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:10,120 I want to be ready for it, you know? 195 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:15,640 But I've just got to go in and just see what happens. 196 00:09:15,680 --> 00:09:18,360 I just want to return to all my friends and family 197 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:20,320 and just be a completely different person. 198 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:24,120 Throughout the course, 199 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:26,840 Dave has shown an interest in oral sex. 200 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,200 You know, I'd pick her up, 201 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:33,720 take her down on the bed and I'd probably, 202 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:35,760 do something with oral sex, I don't know what I'm doing. 203 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:39,320 OK. 204 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:44,440 I wanna work on staying in connection through transitions, 205 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,760 and then practising oral. 206 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:49,640 How are you feeling about that? 207 00:09:49,680 --> 00:09:55,320 I feel... I feel excited about it, but I'm overthinking it. 208 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:56,360 Yeah. Yeah. 209 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:59,200 Just trust yourself. 210 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,960 Surrogate partner therapy is working really well for Dave. 211 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:06,520 Maybe practise moving when you want to, 212 00:10:06,560 --> 00:10:08,520 if you wanna come closer, 213 00:10:08,560 --> 00:10:11,680 and practise staying in connection. 214 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:13,040 Yeah, that's nice. 215 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,280 But he still worries too much about getting it wrong 216 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:23,760 and can get really in his head. 217 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:28,920 One of the biggest things to do 218 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:33,560 is normalising the experience of sex. 219 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:35,640 When you feel your body being loved 220 00:10:35,680 --> 00:10:37,520 and then you feel pleasure from that, 221 00:10:37,560 --> 00:10:39,080 it makes all of 222 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:42,120 the external things just not matter as much. 223 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:55,040 Is it OK for you to give and receive oral? 224 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:56,080 Yep. 225 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:57,440 OK, so you can just lie down. 226 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:02,760 Be gentle at first. 227 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:07,760 Yeah, that's good. 228 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:11,320 Mmm. 229 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:17,040 Mmm. 230 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:27,040 Are you able to go faster? 231 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:40,480 It feels so good. 232 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:48,200 How are you feeling? 233 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,200 I feel good. 234 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:51,880 Thank you for all of this. 235 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:53,200 You're welcome. 236 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:56,960 Yeah, it's the first time I've ever been involved in like 237 00:11:57,000 --> 00:12:00,360 a proper sexual act. It feels good. 238 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,920 It's like a weight off my shoulders. 239 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:04,280 See you tomorrow. 240 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,760 But I feel like there's still further for me to go. 241 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:10,800 I... I do think I'm ready now to lose my virginity. 242 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:22,320 Less squeeze. 243 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:24,000 Act like it's my cock. 244 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:29,880 What's the worst possible option? 245 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:32,520 Continuing the theme of escalation... 246 00:12:32,560 --> 00:12:33,840 I think lick bum is pretty good. 247 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,280 Big bum's pretty good. 248 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:39,680 ..the group are playing a game of sexy dice. 249 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:41,000 Kiss arm. 250 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:42,040 Who's your victim? 251 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:46,960 Beautiful. 252 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:52,200 As the virgins get touchy-feely with each other... 253 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:54,960 Lick mouth. Yes, yes! 254 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:58,000 ..even Holly, one of the quieter members of the group, 255 00:12:58,040 --> 00:12:59,320 is throwing herself in. 256 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,640 We've been working two weeks for this, come on. 257 00:13:02,680 --> 00:13:03,920 OK, go. 258 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:07,960 ALL: One, two, three, four, five. 259 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:11,120 Yay, well done. 260 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,680 There's something about Holly 261 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:17,280 that has lots of potential but she's still kind of, 262 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:18,800 yeah, hiding. 263 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:21,400 We need to really understand what's holding her back in order 264 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:23,320 to help her, like, move forward. 265 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:30,200 I'm so happy I'm going to spend some time with you. 266 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:32,960 It can feel lonely just when you see, 267 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:35,640 like, all your friends are getting into relationships and, like, 268 00:13:35,680 --> 00:13:39,480 a big worry of mine is that I'm always going to be alone, 269 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:40,920 like, I'll never have a family 270 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:43,800 and have that perfect life that I guess I'm, like, dreaming of. 271 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:48,600 Let's shake it. 272 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:51,080 Before Holly leaves the island... 273 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:54,760 Soak it in just enjoy the sun. 274 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:57,840 Danielle wants to encourage her to feel more confident 275 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:01,200 and finally come to terms with her true self. 276 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,520 How are you doing? Do you like the activities? 277 00:14:06,560 --> 00:14:07,680 I think they've been tough. 278 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:10,200 It's bringing up a lot of feelings I didn't know I had. 279 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:11,240 Hm-hm. 280 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:13,800 So it's, kind of, tough learning that side of myself. 281 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:16,520 Do you do you wanna share with me a little bit more, like? 282 00:14:16,560 --> 00:14:19,640 I'm not sure I fully understand it myself yet. Yeah. 283 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:21,400 It's just lots of big emotions. 284 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,400 Yeah, in your chest? 285 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:24,440 Yeah. In your belly? 286 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:25,760 Kind of both. 287 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:33,640 After her talk with Danielle... 288 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:34,880 I'm gonna be sad going home, 289 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:37,800 opening my curtains and just seeing the local pub. 290 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:40,720 Is that what it is when you open your curtains? 291 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:42,320 Holly seems ready to share 292 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:45,160 her inner-most feelings with Viraj. 293 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:48,880 I don't know. It's just been intense. 294 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:49,920 Are you not grateful for it? 295 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:53,680 Yeah. It's just I've 296 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:55,560 a lot of things going on in my head. 297 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:00,240 What do you feel like you've learned from this? 298 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:05,320 That I might like girls. I don't know. 299 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:07,880 Yeah? That's a really big thing though, 300 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:12,160 that that's a big change, like, is that how you feel? 301 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:13,720 Sometimes I don't know if it's like, 302 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:15,040 I connect with people just as, like, 303 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:17,800 on a friendship thing or if it's anything more. 304 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:20,400 Hmm, yeah, I get that. 305 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:24,280 I feel like I find it hard to distinguish between the two. 306 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:25,600 Yeah. 307 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:26,640 I'm unsure. 308 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:29,680 Why is it so difficult? 309 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:35,640 Why can't it just be simple? Hmm. 310 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:36,960 I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed. 311 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:40,280 All these feelings are emerging, 312 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:42,360 that I'm unfamiliar with, 313 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:45,800 so I think it's just trying to deal with them and it's... 314 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,040 Yeah, a lot to process. 315 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:49,680 Do you want to do some yoga? 316 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,360 Yeah, but what kind of yoga? 317 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:53,200 Strip yoga. 318 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:54,480 I'm already wearing a bikini, 319 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:56,000 I don't know how much more I can strip. 320 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:02,600 While Holly ponders... 321 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:05,720 I want you to practise reading my body. 322 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:06,760 Hm-mm. 323 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:08,760 ..across the island... 324 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:10,360 You can touch my ass. 325 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:13,400 It'd feel really good to me if you touch my ass. 326 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:16,520 ..Zac is learning how to stay attuned to Kat. 327 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:20,440 Maybe I think you might like more... 328 00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:21,560 Kissing? 329 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:23,080 Yeah. 330 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:25,760 And he's finally getting the results he craves. 331 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:43,560 Zac has learned a lot about how 332 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:47,320 to show up in a relationship, how to attune to people. 333 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:49,800 I feel like that's really important for him. 334 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:53,600 So, I feel really confident 335 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:55,360 for Zac going out into the real world. 336 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:58,920 You're starting to enjoy this. 337 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:01,920 That feel really good, could you tell in my body? 338 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:04,520 Yeah? Definitely. Yeah, yeah. 339 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:06,840 It's been the time of my life, being here. 340 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:10,120 Kat - she has helped me a lot, and, you know, 341 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:11,600 I'll forever be grateful for that. 342 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:14,600 That was nice. I feel close. 343 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:16,840 I just feel far more prepared for it, 344 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:21,800 and I feel ready to hopefully be 345 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:24,800 the confident player when I get back, with any luck. 346 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,880 Hardly anyone's around, I don't know where everyone is. 347 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:34,800 Where's Tom, is he out the water? 348 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:36,280 Is he still there? 349 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:38,200 He's still there, look. 350 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:39,240 He's like a fish. 351 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:42,480 Whilst at the retreat, 352 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:44,680 Ben has learned to let his guard down, 353 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,240 but there is one fundamental obstacle standing in 354 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:50,000 the way of losing his virginity. 355 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:51,560 Oh, God, the thought of being naked in front 356 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:54,280 of somebody absolutely terrifies me. 357 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:56,840 I've never been in, like, showers where everyone's naked, 358 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:58,920 that would just... Absolutely not. 359 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:00,080 Even when it's just me in the house 360 00:18:00,120 --> 00:18:02,840 I would not be naked at all, I'm just that kind of person. 361 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,480 The experts believe that Ben must overcome 362 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:06,640 his fear of nudity 363 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:09,000 for relationships to flourish back home. 364 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:11,480 Hello. Hey. Do you want to take your shoes off? 365 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:12,520 Yeah, sure. 366 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:15,440 Ben needs to relax into his body, 367 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:19,720 into the moment and, yeah, come out of his head. 368 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:22,160 Society makes it very difficult. 369 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:25,760 He has some ideas about how he should look, 370 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:28,320 and I think that scares him. 371 00:18:28,360 --> 00:18:29,360 Let's first start. 372 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,040 I just want you to put your hands on my hips. 373 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:32,080 Mm-hm. 374 00:18:32,120 --> 00:18:34,280 And I'm gonna just move your body a little bit. 375 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:35,760 Mm-hm. 376 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:38,880 Joy gets him in the mood to loosen up... 377 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:40,120 That's really good, 378 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:43,920 do you feel how connected we are in that? 379 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:46,080 Quite fluid and less stiff. 380 00:18:46,120 --> 00:18:47,560 ..before escalating. 381 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:50,000 Why don't you take your shirt off? 382 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:52,440 This shirt? Or the T-shirt as well? 383 00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:53,760 What do you feel comfortable with? 384 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:00,960 I would love to feel more confident myself in how I look. 385 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:02,520 I don't smile in pictures a lot of the time 386 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:04,720 and I think that's actually a left over from school 387 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:06,040 because I got, you know, teased about 388 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:07,880 having chubby cheeks or something. 389 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:09,520 But, ultimately, yeah, it'd be nice just to, 390 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:11,640 just to be more confident in myself and how I look, 391 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:13,440 but unfortunately, that's...that's hard to change. 392 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:16,920 What I'm gonna be doing is touching in 393 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:19,360 a way that feels connecting. 394 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:34,880 Do you wanna try it with me? 395 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:35,920 Yeah, sure. 396 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:41,720 Where would you like to be touched? 397 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:44,200 I kind of want you to just explore. Hmm. 398 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:50,160 But exploring is leading to overthinking. 399 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,520 Never know what position to go in. 400 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:55,600 Yeah, it's hard, right? 401 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:57,440 I don't want to crush you. 402 00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,680 It's OK, you won't crush me. 403 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:01,680 Ben's becomingly increasingly awkward. 404 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:06,920 Can I move you? 405 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:07,960 Yeah, yeah. 406 00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:13,000 I want to switch over again, sorry. 407 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:14,800 And it's stalling his progress. 408 00:20:20,360 --> 00:20:21,440 How do you feel? 409 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:22,880 Um... I don't know. 410 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:24,680 I wish I had eight arms, it would be easier. 411 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:30,840 But Joy wants to challenge Ben, before time on the island runs out. 412 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:34,680 So, next time think about whether you feel comfortable 413 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:36,040 being naked together. 414 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:43,120 I think, you know, nakedness is...to me it's a private thing. 415 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:44,680 Yeah. 416 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:51,960 I mean, obviously I know the experts, 417 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:53,440 that they're not sort of judging you 418 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:54,480 in that same sort of way anyway, 419 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:55,880 but really makes me uncomfortable. 420 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:01,240 I don't think I'll ever be able to go through with it 421 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:02,560 and not be so afraid. 422 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,320 How do you feel about it being the last day? 423 00:21:22,360 --> 00:21:24,000 I'm quite emotional, to be honest. Are you? 424 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:25,480 Yeah, I actually am, yeah. 425 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:29,200 I'm gonna miss everyone. Yeah. 426 00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:31,920 It may be the final morning on Virgin Island, 427 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:35,520 but for some, there's unfinished business. 428 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:39,840 I think I would like to maybe get naked in front of Joy 429 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:41,720 because if I can break that barrier then it'll probably be easier 430 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:43,000 when I'm with somebody, 431 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:44,240 I just want to see where it goes. 432 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,440 I feel like if I do lose my virginity today, 433 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,880 it will be a huge step forward. 434 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,080 But I think everyone's nervous about it the first time. 435 00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,960 Morning. You all right? Yeah, I'm grand. How are you? 436 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:04,280 I'm all right. All good things come to an end. 437 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,800 Yeah, it's been, like, a big process. 438 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:08,240 It's hard to, kind of, 439 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:13,520 share like your deepest secrets and struggles with people. 440 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,560 Oh, this might be the last time. 441 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:21,600 Our last day. 442 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,560 Let's take the alcohol. They can't kick us off. 443 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:28,120 Overnight, Holly has been doing some thinking. 444 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:30,240 Hi. 445 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,000 Before coming here I'd always just said 446 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:34,800 "Oh, I'm straight," 447 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:39,200 but coming here I feel like it's been more clear 448 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,080 that I am bisexual, 449 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:44,640 and, yeah, I'm proud. 450 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:45,760 And she's asked Celeste 451 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,720 to help her open up to the rest of the group. 452 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:53,600 Holly has something that she wants to share with all of you. 453 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,400 Something I've struggled with a lot and coming here I've, 454 00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:57,880 kind of, had the time to think about it, 455 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,400 and have the confidence to speak out, 456 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:04,720 is about my sexuality 457 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:09,160 and I'm bisexual, I've now discovered. 458 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:14,640 Woo! 459 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:17,680 Welcome to the club. 460 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,480 Well done, Queen, smashed it. 461 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:20,880 Proud of you. 462 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:24,560 Thank you, guys, that was terrifying. 463 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:29,360 I definitely would've suppressed it for longer if I hadn't come here. 464 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,080 So proud of you. 465 00:23:31,120 --> 00:23:32,880 Thank you. 466 00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,000 Having all the support from the group 467 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:38,560 it gave me that confidence to tell it to the world, 468 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:40,120 and I couldn't have done it without them. 469 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,400 I always thought I'd be a great dominatrix. 470 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:49,840 I feel that for you. Thank you. 471 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:51,360 Yeah. Is that the whipping one? 472 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:52,800 Yeah. You want to whip people, and stuff? OK. 473 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:53,840 I'd like to whip people. 474 00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:02,160 As she's progressed through the course... 475 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,880 Hi, hi. Hi, hi. 476 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,080 ..Charlotte has overcome her body issues. 477 00:24:07,120 --> 00:24:08,840 What would feel comfortable for you? 478 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,440 Maybe some body caress? 479 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,560 And now she knows exactly what she wants. 480 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,000 I have an idea. 481 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,920 I wanna take my top off and I wanna straddle you. 482 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:20,320 OK, you want me laying down? 483 00:24:20,360 --> 00:24:21,360 Yes. 484 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,440 Knees down. 485 00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:27,760 Yes, ma'am. Arms further. 486 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,000 OK, grip my hips. 487 00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,320 Oh, that's nice. Worship me. 488 00:24:38,360 --> 00:24:42,120 You are so beautiful. 489 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:43,440 Having you straddle me 490 00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:45,400 is almost overwhelming for my body. 491 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,520 You are a fucking goddess. 492 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,040 I wanna grab your chest. 493 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:07,880 You have full permission. 494 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:09,000 Yay. 495 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,000 You are firm. 496 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,120 That feeling your body on mine. 497 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,840 Feeling your touch feels really good on me, goddess. 498 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:37,320 Thank you for this gift. 499 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:44,560 I wanna say how proud I am. 500 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:48,600 That was a big leap, to ask for what you needed. 501 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,480 I adore Andre, I adore him completely. 502 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,000 It was through him that I was really able to be like, 503 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,160 "OK, this is what I want." 504 00:26:02,120 --> 00:26:04,960 I went into this with the mindset of, 505 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,800 "He is a tool, a very enjoyable tool 506 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:11,200 "for me to kind of get what I want out of it." 507 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,920 Ohh, I just had so much fun. 508 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,880 I feel so ready for everything now. 509 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:24,960 While many are finding their body confidence... 510 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,320 I like being naked by myself. I don't. 511 00:26:27,360 --> 00:26:29,280 ..Ben still has work to do. 512 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,000 Me and my ex, even though we were together, 513 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:32,240 and, you know, I was staying over, 514 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:33,480 I got changed in the bathroom. 515 00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:34,880 It's like, it's weird. 516 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,200 It's just a big step for me. 517 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,080 In a final bid to overcome his fear of nudity... 518 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:46,320 Hey. 519 00:26:46,360 --> 00:26:47,600 Hello. 520 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,360 ..Joy has a new plan. 521 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:51,760 I know it's a stretch, 522 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,840 but I'd love to practise the animal game with you... 523 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:55,920 Mm. 524 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:57,200 ..in our, maybe our underwear? 525 00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:01,760 In an early group workshop, 526 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:05,800 Ben couldn't bear to even watch the animal game. 527 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:08,360 So can we stay connected while we undress? 528 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:09,400 Mm. 529 00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,800 With most clothes removed... 530 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:19,640 Even as we get down, we can keep that connection. 531 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:26,400 ..Ben tries to let animal instinct take over. 532 00:27:34,360 --> 00:27:36,560 How does that feel to you? 533 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,880 Yeah, I sort of feel the connection. 534 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,000 Is kissing on your...? Yeah. 535 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:51,600 Losing himself in the moment, 536 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,720 Ben seems to have let go of his inhibitions. 537 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:58,120 Would you like to move to the bed? 538 00:27:58,160 --> 00:27:59,400 Yeah. 539 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:03,440 But will it be enough to finally bare all? 540 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:08,800 That was fun. It was. 541 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,920 Do you think we should disrobe? 542 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,040 Yeah, let's do it. 543 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,000 I have to break this barrier. 544 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,040 Let me put up this. 545 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:23,480 Joy puts up a screen, so Ben's body is for her eyes only. 546 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,120 Are you ready? Yeah, let's go. OK. 547 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:35,760 Is my body normal? Your body is beautiful, yes. 548 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,920 All normal down there? 549 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:42,600 I think better than with clothes on. Really? Yes. 550 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,120 I've broken another barrier. 551 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,560 I'm proud of you. Thank you. 552 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:52,560 Do you feel complete? 553 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:54,400 Yeah, I think that's a good way to end it. 554 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:55,760 Yeah, great. 555 00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,680 I'm so incredibly proud of him. 556 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,560 He's opened in ways that I can't even believe, 557 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,120 and I feel honoured 558 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:09,480 he allowed me to be the one to accompany him on that journey. 559 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,600 Hello! Hello. 560 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,520 You all right? 561 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,600 So, I just saw Joy. 562 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:19,680 Ooh, la-la! 563 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:21,960 My journey is complete. 564 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,680 I didn't lose my virginity, but... Did you... 565 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,080 HE WHISPERS: ..get your cock out? 566 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,080 Joy is the only person that's seen me naked. 567 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:31,960 So, did you see her fully naked? 568 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:35,880 It's nice to break that barrier. 569 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,560 Hopefully when I'm in the real world 570 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,520 and I get to that stage again, it'll be a lot easier. 571 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,080 I won't be in my head all the time. 572 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,360 I have changed and that's all I needed, really, 573 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:45,680 was just that confidence. 574 00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,200 I haven't had her fully naked in a one to one, 575 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,480 so you did more than me. Yeah, but you climaxed, I didn't. 576 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:54,960 Ba-ba-ba-ba-ba-ba. 577 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,960 Bi-bi-bi. 578 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:58,960 Bisexual! 579 00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,320 I'm not the only gay in the village! 580 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,680 This evening, there'll be a graduation ceremony 581 00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,000 to end the course. 582 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:10,640 What are you wearing tonight? 583 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:13,800 I got, like, a full-on suit. Really? Yeah. 584 00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:15,680 Does anyone want to swap outfits? 585 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:17,480 I'll wear your dress. 586 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:20,000 And the group has been set a final exercise - 587 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,480 to write a letter to a future lover. 588 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:26,560 I don't like writing letters. Can I write a text instead? 589 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:31,120 Would shagging by the Tesco bins be a bit too graphic? Yeah. 590 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:35,080 I know how to start mine. "Dear Emma..." 591 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,880 Oh, my God. Bleurgh! 592 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,960 Me and Viraj are very good friends. 593 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:42,760 A friendship with a good connection. 594 00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,400 So I think, get back to the UK, 595 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:48,480 and if it works, then it works. 596 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:51,360 I don't think I will close myself off any more. 597 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,400 For Dave, a lover could be more imminent. 598 00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:02,800 After two weeks of intense treatment, and years of longing, 599 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,960 he could be on the verge of achieving what he came here for. 600 00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,920 Enjoy. Have fun. 601 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,760 Being a virgin at 24, I hate it. 602 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:19,880 My biggest fear is that I'll find someone that I genuinely care about, 603 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,800 and I won't be ready to have a proper relationship with them. 604 00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:26,040 You know, it could be the love of my life, 605 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,480 and I could just be too awkward, and I could blow it. 606 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:35,240 Hello. Hey. 607 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:36,960 How are you doing? 608 00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:45,560 Are you still feeling good about intercourse? 609 00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,720 Yeah, yeah. Yeah, cool. 610 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:50,600 BOTH LAUGH 611 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,960 So lie down. 612 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:58,560 So we'll just start in the way that we've been starting, 613 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,240 just letting it be organic, staying in connection, and kissing. 614 00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,360 Yeah, that sounds good. 615 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,160 OK. 616 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:52,000 OK, just start slow. 617 00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,840 I'll be honest, I'm struggling a little bit. 618 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,280 Just relax. 619 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,800 I think I'm putting a bit too much pressure on myself. 620 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,520 Has everyone written their letters? 621 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,160 No. I've got writer's block. 622 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:29,040 Whilst most of the group are preparing letters 623 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,400 for tonight's graduation ceremony... 624 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:34,040 Just go with the flow, write what comes to mind. 625 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:35,840 In the Zen den... 626 00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:37,880 Just relax. 627 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:42,280 ..Dave is trying to get back on track with Kat. 628 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:15,040 DEEP BREATHING 629 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,520 You're so sexy. 630 00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,200 Yeah, feels so good. 631 00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:36,160 BREATHY GASPING 632 00:34:44,720 --> 00:34:47,840 Did you come? Yeah. Yeah. 633 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:51,680 How are you feeling? Good. 634 00:34:51,720 --> 00:34:54,680 Yeah, a lot better? Yeah. Yeah. That's good. 635 00:34:56,720 --> 00:34:58,560 After 12 days... 636 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:04,240 ..Dave has completed his course of therapy on Virgin Island. 637 00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:06,480 Thank you for this. 638 00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:09,960 And how does it feel now you're not a virgin? 639 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,040 THEY LAUGH 640 00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:17,080 I feel really good, but how do you feel? 641 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:18,600 Mmmm. 642 00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,120 I feel good about being the person 643 00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,200 with him in that important moment, 644 00:35:24,240 --> 00:35:27,240 and I think he has changed so much. 645 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,560 He knows a lot more about what he wants 646 00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:34,240 and it's a lot easier if you've done it once. 647 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,600 So I think that will help. Yeah. 648 00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,760 Yeah, I think you've done a really good job. 649 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:41,800 THEY LAUGH 650 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,360 Thank you. 651 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:48,160 I'm proud that I can finally say I'm not a virgin any more. 652 00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:50,600 I've still got a lot of catching up to do, 653 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,480 but I feel like I'm on the board now. 654 00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,360 Take care. Yeah. I'll see you later. 655 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,640 Now I can go and properly progress 656 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,840 with some sort of idea of what I'm doing. 657 00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:10,120 The fact that I'm no longer a virgin is great, it's just relief. 658 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:20,040 Did you have a session? Yeah. How'd it go? I think it went well, yeah. 659 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:23,560 You cool? Yeah, I'm just really tired. 660 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,000 Exhausting day. 661 00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:28,280 You know what, it's the last one, mate. 662 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:32,120 I'm going to miss it. 663 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:33,720 Let's go. 664 00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:35,400 End of an era. 665 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,400 The end of a chapter. 666 00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:44,000 As the sun starts to set for the final time on Virgin Island, 667 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:47,160 the group are getting ready for graduation. 668 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,160 It's really sad. Yeah, 669 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,520 I'm going to miss everyone so much, so... 670 00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:53,840 I am going to miss the island 671 00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:58,040 and the routine, I think I'll miss a lot as well. 672 00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,040 Very lovely. 673 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,760 You look gorgeous, darling. 674 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,000 Wouldn't it be funny if we went in there and they were all naked? Yeah. 675 00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:10,920 Do you think we get a certificate? 676 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,040 Look at them all down there. 677 00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,480 Wooo! 678 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:27,320 Graduation is a time 679 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:32,080 for you to gather up all of your new-found confidence and skills 680 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,080 and get ready to take them out into the world. 681 00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,600 So we're going to invite you up one by one, 682 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:41,400 because we did ask you to write a letter to a future lover. 683 00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:48,720 The retreat was emotional for Taylor, 684 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:51,680 but she discovered her true sexuality. 685 00:37:51,720 --> 00:37:53,720 Dear future lover, 686 00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:57,680 I have spent so long being scared of who I was, 687 00:37:57,720 --> 00:38:00,280 what people thought, who I was supposed to be and what I wanted. 688 00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,360 But hear this. I'm not scared any more, 689 00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:03,600 I'm terrified. 690 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:07,240 Being terrified means I've found something that I don't want to lose. 691 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,720 And if I'm terrified of losing you, 692 00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:13,600 then maybe you'll be terrified of losing me. 693 00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,520 But if it all gets too real, remember, 694 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:18,200 sing loudly, not well, 695 00:38:18,240 --> 00:38:21,360 laugh at everything that you can and lick bum. 696 00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:22,400 LAUGHTER 697 00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,320 Taylor wasn't the only one to find their true identity. 698 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,360 Dear future lover, we haven't met yet, 699 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,080 but I have been on one hell of a self-discovery journey. 700 00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:39,080 I feel like I am able to be my true full self 701 00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:40,720 and show you all of me. 702 00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,880 I used to think hiding my feelings was my superpower, 703 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,320 but really, it was my biggest weakness. 704 00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:48,080 It took me a long time to be happy with who I am as a person, 705 00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,000 and there's no way I can go back to hiding. 706 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,840 Look at you. Exactly. 707 00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:00,680 The Tom that you are is just gorgeous. 708 00:39:00,720 --> 00:39:01,840 Thank you. 709 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:10,200 For Ben, the island has meant overcoming rejection head-on. 710 00:39:10,240 --> 00:39:14,880 Dear lover, this man you see before you now is not the man I once was. 711 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,480 For a long time, I thought I was repulsive, 712 00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,240 undesirable and that I could never be loved. 713 00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:21,920 I now know that I was wrong. 714 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:25,360 I went to an intimacy retreat. 715 00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:28,720 It was a bold step, but one that changed my life forever. 716 00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:31,520 It was here that I learned of my sexual self, 717 00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:35,200 and it was here that I learned how to be wanted. 718 00:39:35,240 --> 00:39:36,840 This journey has been tough, 719 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:38,240 but I wouldn't change a thing 720 00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:40,640 because it ultimately led me to you. 721 00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:44,120 Thank you for loving me and showing me that I can love myself. 722 00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:49,480 Thank you. 723 00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:51,360 Amazing. 724 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:57,200 For many, discovering self-confidence has been key. 725 00:39:57,240 --> 00:40:01,280 Dear future lover, I want to thank you for taking my hand 726 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,320 and coming with me on an amazing adventure. 727 00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:06,120 Thank you for having all the love for me 728 00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:08,400 that I once struggled to have for myself. 729 00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,800 Being my true self is when I can excel. 730 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,600 You are a woman now. 731 00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:17,320 Thank you, thank you so much. And I'm so frigging proud of you. 732 00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:20,360 Thank you! 733 00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,120 Dear future lover/lovers, 734 00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:26,360 I want you to be patient with me while I continue to learn, 735 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,760 grow and inevitably make mistakes. 736 00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,040 I want us to worship one another, 737 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,280 I want everyone to see our love. 738 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:36,840 I wasn't sure if I would ever get to a point in my life 739 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:40,640 where I truly believed that I was worthy of being loved. 740 00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:42,760 I don't expect anything from you, 741 00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:46,400 except you must ride the elephant with me on our wedding day. 742 00:40:51,240 --> 00:40:54,040 Sorry for only lasting 20 seconds. 743 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,400 I was overwhelmed by your beauty. 744 00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,920 I promise tomorrow will be better, 745 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,840 because I'm going to use the skills I learned from the intimacy retreat. 746 00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:10,240 Dave. 747 00:41:12,240 --> 00:41:16,840 He arrived on the island as one of the quietest in the group, 748 00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,600 but slowly, he's found his voice. 749 00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:21,800 Dear my future lover, 750 00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:23,600 despite all my continued flaws, 751 00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:25,920 like my constant awkwardness, 752 00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:27,760 you've always loved me. 753 00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:30,360 I can't put into words how much I appreciate that. 754 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,760 You're everything I've ever wanted, and you complete me. 755 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:38,880 I know that you're going to go out there and break many hearts. 756 00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,120 Um, sorry. 757 00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:51,520 After weeks of being surprised by the experts, 758 00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:54,880 the group now have a surprise for them. 759 00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:57,200 We've all been through so much with you, 760 00:41:57,240 --> 00:41:59,160 and we all want to give our thanks. 761 00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,600 I personally want to thank you for your patience 762 00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:04,000 and understanding. 763 00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:06,800 You helped me feel confident and see who I am 764 00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:10,240 and see myself in a place beyond here 765 00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,960 and I really, really appreciate everything you've done for me, 766 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,320 and thank you all. 767 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:15,680 Thank you. 768 00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:22,640 This group are some of the bravest, wisest, 769 00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:27,040 most engaged and loving people that I have ever worked with, 770 00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,640 and seeing their transformation, 771 00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:31,280 yeah, I can't even... 772 00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:32,520 I can't even... 773 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:36,000 I want to thank you 774 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:37,840 for the most unforgettable experience of my entire life. 775 00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:39,600 Nothing's going to ever come close to this, 776 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:40,720 and it's been incredible. 777 00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,440 Thank you so much to my lovely Andre 778 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:49,280 for creating that beautiful space for me 779 00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,560 to feel vulnerable 780 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,480 and like if I was going to fall, you would catch me. 781 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,640 Wrong day to wear make-up. 782 00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:01,480 I can say confidently you've changed my life, 783 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:05,640 changed all these people's lives, and always remember that. 784 00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:10,880 Before I came here, I was at the lowest point in my life. 785 00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:13,840 I had no idea how to love myself, 786 00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,320 how to love others, 787 00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,800 and each and every one of you has inspired me. 788 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:22,800 And I don't know how I would ever be able to repay what you've given us. 789 00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:32,560 Woo! 790 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,280 We've graduated! 791 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,280 From the people who came off of that boat 792 00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,800 to the people who I'm looking at now, 793 00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,080 it's unrecognisable, 794 00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:44,040 and I have only hope for them 795 00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,760 to have the most amazing sex and relationship lives 796 00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:48,520 going out into the world. 797 00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:52,960 We want to invite you to a closing but beginning circle. 798 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,320 Join us. 799 00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:58,440 Even though I didn't lose my virginity on the island, 800 00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,400 I've learned so much more about myself, 801 00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:02,480 and I feel like now when I go on to the outside world, 802 00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:06,000 I'll be so ready for my new intimate journey. 803 00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:10,360 Your courage is going to inspire so many people out there. 804 00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:15,280 You're going to take the world by storm, I can feel it. 805 00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:16,840 It's all about kind of reaching out 806 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:20,000 and being like, "Hey, maybe I would like some help." 807 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,640 Congratulations! 808 00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:24,600 Woo! 809 00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:31,160 They're beautiful human beings that just didn't know it. 810 00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,280 Cheers. 811 00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:36,320 I'm so honoured and proud to be a part of this project. 812 00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:40,120 This place, I recommend it to anyone. 813 00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,240 My intimacy journey from here - 814 00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,200 going to go back to Rochdale, 815 00:44:44,240 --> 00:44:47,000 take it by storm, 816 00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,040 and, yeah, lock up your sons. 817 00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:52,720 We've graduated from sex camp! 818 00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,000 If you've identified with the 819 00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,640 issues raised in Virgin Island and would like to be part of 820 00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:36,600 a possible new series, visit... 821 00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:44,680 Subtitles by Red Bee Media60294

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