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This programme contains strong
language, nudity and scenes of a
sexual nature

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The word virgin -

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people see it as a joke.

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it's quite upsetting.

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In a world where sex is
everywhere...

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My God.

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..the truth is surprising.

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There are more adult virgins
than ever.

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Being a young adult in this day
and age, it's difficult.

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Social media.
Dating apps.

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TV shows.
Porn.

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Porn. Porn. Porn.

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Porn is everywhere.

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Are you self-conscious about our
genitals touching each other?

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Now...

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Yeah.

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..at this radical retreat,

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intimacy experts are offering
a very hands-on solution...

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Ahhh, yeah.

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She's a miracle worker.

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Woohoo.

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Like that? I like that.

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..to help Britain's virgins...

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Hmm...

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..lose the one thing...

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Do I make you feel nervous?

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..they feel is holding them back.

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I want to lose my virginity.

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It's now or never.

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But when the moment arrives...

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Would you like to move to the bed?

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..who will be ready...

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I just don't want anyone
to touch me.

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..to go all the way?

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You're so sexy.

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Yeah, so good.

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The last few days on Virgin Island

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have brought firsts for many.

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I think I managed
to achieve my first orgasm ever.

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While Charlotte bared all...

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How does it feel?

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It's refreshing.

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..Ben has been held back by his fear
of nudity.

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I'm basically like probably dressed
more than

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all of you put together.

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I like clothes.

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Clothes are a mark of civilisation.

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Zac's impatience led to a rift.

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I'm just not feeling that desire
from you.

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OK. That's enough for today.

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But reconciliation led to him to

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opening up like never before.

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I want to be more vulnerable.
I want to share that with you.

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Dave continued to progress.

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I had a little orgasm.

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And his aim is clear.

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I would like to lose my virginity.
Yay.

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As the final phase begins...

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Worship me.

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Time is running out for

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the group to get the most out of
the course.

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We invited 12 virgins onto
this island

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to help them explore
the concept of virginity.

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They found out who they are,
what they want.

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Don't be intimidated even though
there's a bed.

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Err...

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Now, it's an opportunity
to self-reflect

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about what they want to do sexually
at the retreat.

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Good morning!

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Another beautiful day at
Virgin Camp.

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It's the penultimate day on
Virgin Island.

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You gonna miss me? You gonna sob?

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"Jason, I miss you."

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I will miss...
I will miss your jokes.

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Aw!

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Obviously this is
the last two days.

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So, we're going to be

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getting into the really big stuff,
aren't we?

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I can't even guess what we're
gonna do.

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Oh, God.

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This final phase,
it's a way for them

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to kind of celebrate their
sexual power

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and all the learning they've done
so far.

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For each member of the group

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to achieve their individual goals,

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Celeste and Danielle
want to keep up the intensity.

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Escalation. What does that mean?

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It means taking it to
the next level.

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Scary. OK, yeah.

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Yeah.

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Let's go.

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Come on, let's escalate things.

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The final group workshop...

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Welcome.

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Hi, everybody.

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..will test exactly how far
the virgins have come

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and how far they're willing to go.

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This is it. Our final workshop.

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And this phase is all
about escalation,

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and you're just like, "What? Didn't
we escalate enough?"

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So, on the first day that we
came in,

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Andre demonstrated on Danielle

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an exercise called "up against
the wall."

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In the first workshop they
were terrified.

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We were actually worried that we
overwhelmed them

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so much they wouldn't be able
to continue.

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Now, Celeste and Danielle want them
to finally conquer their fears.

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It's your turn to bring all
of these tools together.

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Who wants to try it?

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Ooh, I saw that.

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APPLAUSE

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I'm quite scared around sex
and what it really is.

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I want to be more comfortable in
my skin,

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so that I can live my life to
the fullest, you know?

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Ah. Just when you are ready,
nod and I'll come to you.

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He arrived as one of
the quietest in the group.

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But now it's time for Dave
to show how far he's come.

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Ready?

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Yeah.

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Yeah, oh, yes.

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Ohh... Put your leg between my legs.

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Ohh...

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Oh...

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Hmm-mmm, that's so good.

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Inspired by Dave...

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Yeah, we're doing it together.

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..some of the others show off their
sexy skills.

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Mmm.

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Oh, yeah.

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Oh, yeah.

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But Ben needs a little warm-up.

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Sorry, yeah.

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Yeah, nice and hard.

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Yeah.

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Good, harder.

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Mmm, great.

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Last up...

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Are you pushing or being pushed?

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I'll push.

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Sweet.

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..23-year-old dog groomer Holly.

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A lot of different experiences in my
life

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have knocked me down a little bit.

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Yeah, good, right.

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I pretty much got bullied
for most of high school,

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because I was the quiet kid,
so I became quite withdrawn.

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I wish I could just leave the house

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and not care what other people
think and just be the real me.

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Mmmm, feels good?

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Yes.

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Can you take a moment,
can you believe yourselves?

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Talk about before and after.

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What is happening here?

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Do you think, like,
doing the pushing was fun?

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Yeah, shall we do that at
the hang-out?

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Can I push you, Ben?
All right, then.

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After the final workshop,
some of the students...

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Ben's gonna walk to you,

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you put your hand on him,
push him up.

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Yeah. That's it,
yeah, pull him pull him close,

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with that hand. There we go.

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..have become the teachers.

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Do you wanna do
an advanced wall push?

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Go on.

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Whoa!

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Hey, Dave.

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Hello. How was yours?

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I think it was good, yeah.

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The neck bit, that was great.

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But it's Dave who's probably

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transformed the most within
the group.

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I'm more confident.

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Like, I'm not going to start
approaching random people

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and start pushing them up
against walls,

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but I'm going to try
and speak to them a little bit.

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Dave, when I think about how
he arrived,

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just totally inside of himself,
you know.

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For him to just come out to
the level he has is just, like...

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Meteoric, yeah.

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We've been escalating quite a bit,

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and so we're going to do oral
today,

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but also practising,
like, staying connected,

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because I think that's something he
still struggles with a little bit.

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Hi.

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How are you? I'm good.

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Right this way.

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To test Dave's ability to connect

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Kat is escalating to the bedroom
for the first time.

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Don't be intimidated even though
there's a bed.

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Err...

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It's OK.

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I'm...

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Losing my virginity,

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I want to be ready for it,
you know?

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But I've just got to go in
and just see what happens.

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I just want to return
to all my friends and family

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and just be a completely
different person.

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Throughout the course,

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Dave has shown an interest in
oral sex.

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You know, I'd pick her up,

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take her down on the bed
and I'd probably,

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do something with oral sex,
I don't know what I'm doing.

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OK.

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I wanna work on staying in
connection through transitions,

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and then practising oral.

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How are you feeling about that?

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I feel... I feel excited about it,
but I'm overthinking it.

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Yeah. Yeah.

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Just trust yourself.

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Surrogate partner therapy is
working really well for Dave.

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Maybe practise moving
when you want to,

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if you wanna come closer,

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and practise staying in connection.

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Yeah, that's nice.

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But he still worries too much about
getting it wrong

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and can get really in his head.

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One of the biggest things to do

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is normalising
the experience of sex.

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When you feel your body being loved

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and then you feel pleasure
from that,

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it makes all of

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the external things just not matter
as much.

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Is it OK for you to give
and receive oral?

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Yep.

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OK, so you can just lie down.

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Be gentle at first.

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Yeah, that's good.

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Mmm.

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Mmm.

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Are you able to go faster?

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It feels so good.

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How are you feeling?

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I feel good.

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Thank you for all of this.

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You're welcome.

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Yeah, it's the first time I've ever
been involved in like

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a proper sexual act. It feels good.

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It's like a weight off
my shoulders.

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See you tomorrow.

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But I feel like there's still
further for me to go.

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I... I do think I'm ready now
to lose my virginity.

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Less squeeze.

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Act like it's my cock.

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What's the worst possible option?

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Continuing the theme of
escalation...

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I think lick bum is pretty good.

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Big bum's pretty good.

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..the group are playing
a game of sexy dice.

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Kiss arm.

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Who's your victim?

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Beautiful.

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As the virgins get touchy-feely with
each other...

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Lick mouth. Yes, yes!

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..even Holly, one of the quieter
members of the group,

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is throwing herself in.

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We've been working two weeks
for this, come on.

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OK, go.

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ALL: One, two, three, four, five.

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Yay, well done.

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There's something about Holly

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that has lots of potential
but she's still kind of,

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yeah, hiding.

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We need to really understand what's
holding her back in order

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to help her, like, move forward.

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I'm so happy I'm going to spend some
time with you.

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It can feel lonely just when
you see,

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like, all your friends are getting
into relationships and, like,

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00:13:35,680 --> 00:13:39,480
a big worry of mine is that
I'm always going to be alone,

269
00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:40,920
like, I'll never have a family

270
00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:43,800
and have that perfect life that I
guess I'm, like, dreaming of.

271
00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:48,600
Let's shake it.

272
00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:51,080
Before Holly leaves the island...

273
00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:54,760
Soak it in just enjoy the sun.

274
00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:57,840
Danielle wants to encourage her
to feel more confident

275
00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:01,200
and finally come to terms
with her true self.

276
00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,520
How are you doing?
Do you like the activities?

277
00:14:06,560 --> 00:14:07,680
I think they've been tough.

278
00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:10,200
It's bringing up a lot of feelings I
didn't know I had.

279
00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:11,240
Hm-hm.

280
00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:13,800
So it's, kind of, tough learning
that side of myself.

281
00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:16,520
Do you do you wanna share
with me a little bit more, like?

282
00:14:16,560 --> 00:14:19,640
I'm not sure I fully understand it
myself yet. Yeah.

283
00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:21,400
It's just lots of big emotions.

284
00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,400
Yeah, in your chest?

285
00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:24,440
Yeah. In your belly?

286
00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:25,760
Kind of both.

287
00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:33,640
After her talk with Danielle...

288
00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:34,880
I'm gonna be sad going home,

289
00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:37,800
opening my curtains
and just seeing the local pub.

290
00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:40,720
Is that what it is when you open
your curtains?

291
00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:42,320
Holly seems ready to share

292
00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:45,160
her inner-most feelings with Viraj.

293
00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:48,880
I don't know. It's just
been intense.

294
00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:49,920
Are you not grateful for it?

295
00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:53,680
Yeah. It's just I've

296
00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:55,560
a lot of things going on in
my head.

297
00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:00,240
What do you feel like you've learned
from this?

298
00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:05,320
That I might like girls.
I don't know.

299
00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:07,880
Yeah? That's a really big
thing though,

300
00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:12,160
that that's a big change,
like, is that how you feel?

301
00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:13,720
Sometimes I don't know if it's
like,

302
00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:15,040
I connect with people just as,
like,

303
00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:17,800
on a friendship thing or if it's
anything more.

304
00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:20,400
Hmm, yeah, I get that.

305
00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:24,280
I feel like I find it hard
to distinguish between the two.

306
00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:25,600
Yeah.

307
00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:26,640
I'm unsure.

308
00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:29,680
Why is it so difficult?

309
00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:35,640
Why can't it just be simple? Hmm.

310
00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:36,960
I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed.

311
00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:40,280
All these feelings are emerging,

312
00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:42,360
that I'm unfamiliar with,

313
00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:45,800
so I think it's just trying
to deal with them and it's...

314
00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,040
Yeah, a lot to process.

315
00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:49,680
Do you want to do some yoga?

316
00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,360
Yeah, but what kind of yoga?

317
00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:53,200
Strip yoga.

318
00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:54,480
I'm already wearing a bikini,

319
00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:56,000
I don't know how much more
I can strip.

320
00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:02,600
While Holly ponders...

321
00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:05,720
I want you to practise
reading my body.

322
00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:06,760
Hm-mm.

323
00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:08,760
..across the island...

324
00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:10,360
You can touch my ass.

325
00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:13,400
It'd feel really good
to me if you touch my ass.

326
00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:16,520
..Zac is learning how
to stay attuned to Kat.

327
00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:20,440
Maybe I think you might like more...

328
00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:21,560
Kissing?

329
00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:23,080
Yeah.

330
00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:25,760
And he's finally getting
the results he craves.

331
00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:43,560
Zac has learned a lot about how

332
00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:47,320
to show up in a relationship,
how to attune to people.

333
00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:49,800
I feel like that's really important
for him.

334
00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:53,600
So, I feel really confident

335
00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:55,360
for Zac going out into
the real world.

336
00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:58,920
You're starting to enjoy this.

337
00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:01,920
That feel really good,
could you tell in my body?

338
00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:04,520
Yeah? Definitely. Yeah, yeah.

339
00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:06,840
It's been the time of my life,
being here.

340
00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:10,120
Kat - she has helped me a lot,
and, you know,

341
00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:11,600
I'll forever be grateful for that.

342
00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:14,600
That was nice. I feel close.

343
00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:16,840
I just feel far more prepared
for it,

344
00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:21,800
and I feel ready to hopefully be

345
00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:24,800
the confident player when
I get back, with any luck.

346
00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,880
Hardly anyone's around,
I don't know where everyone is.

347
00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:34,800
Where's Tom, is he out the water?

348
00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:36,280
Is he still there?

349
00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:38,200
He's still there, look.

350
00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:39,240
He's like a fish.

351
00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:42,480
Whilst at the retreat,

352
00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:44,680
Ben has learned
to let his guard down,

353
00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,240
but there is one fundamental
obstacle standing in

354
00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:50,000
the way of losing his virginity.

355
00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:51,560
Oh, God, the thought of being naked
in front

356
00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:54,280
of somebody absolutely terrifies
me.

357
00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:56,840
I've never been in, like, showers
where everyone's naked,

358
00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:58,920
that would just... Absolutely not.

359
00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:00,080
Even when it's just me in the house

360
00:18:00,120 --> 00:18:02,840
I would not be naked at
all, I'm just that kind of person.

361
00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,480
The experts believe that
Ben must overcome

362
00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:06,640
his fear of nudity

363
00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:09,000
for relationships
to flourish back home.

364
00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:11,480
Hello. Hey. Do you
want to take your shoes off?

365
00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:12,520
Yeah, sure.

366
00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:15,440
Ben needs to relax into his body,

367
00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:19,720
into the moment and,
yeah, come out of his head.

368
00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:22,160
Society makes it very difficult.

369
00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:25,760
He has some ideas about how he
should look,

370
00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:28,320
and I think that scares him.

371
00:18:28,360 --> 00:18:29,360
Let's first start.

372
00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,040
I just want you
to put your hands on my hips.

373
00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:32,080
Mm-hm.

374
00:18:32,120 --> 00:18:34,280
And I'm gonna just move your body
a little bit.

375
00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:35,760
Mm-hm.

376
00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:38,880
Joy gets him in the mood
to loosen up...

377
00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:40,120
That's really good,

378
00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:43,920
do you feel how connected we are
in that?

379
00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:46,080
Quite fluid and less stiff.

380
00:18:46,120 --> 00:18:47,560
..before escalating.

381
00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:50,000
Why don't you take your shirt off?

382
00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:52,440
This shirt? Or the T-shirt as well?

383
00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:53,760
What do you feel comfortable with?

384
00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:00,960
I would love to feel more confident
myself in how I look.

385
00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:02,520
I don't smile in pictures a lot of
the time

386
00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:04,720
and I think that's actually
a left over from school

387
00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:06,040
because I got, you know,
teased about

388
00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:07,880
having chubby cheeks or something.

389
00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:09,520
But, ultimately, yeah,
it'd be nice just to,

390
00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:11,640
just to be more confident in myself
and how I look,

391
00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:13,440
but unfortunately, that's...that's
hard to change.

392
00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:16,920
What I'm gonna be doing is
touching in

393
00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:19,360
a way that feels connecting.

394
00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:34,880
Do you wanna try it with me?

395
00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:35,920
Yeah, sure.

396
00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:41,720
Where would you like to be touched?

397
00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:44,200
I kind of want you to just explore.
Hmm.

398
00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:50,160
But exploring is leading
to overthinking.

399
00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,520
Never know what position to go in.

400
00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:55,600
Yeah, it's hard, right?

401
00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:57,440
I don't want to crush you.

402
00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,680
It's OK, you won't crush me.

403
00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:01,680
Ben's becomingly
increasingly awkward.

404
00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:06,920
Can I move you?

405
00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:07,960
Yeah, yeah.

406
00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:13,000
I want to switch over again, sorry.

407
00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:14,800
And it's stalling his progress.

408
00:20:20,360 --> 00:20:21,440
How do you feel?

409
00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:22,880
Um... I don't know.

410
00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:24,680
I wish I had eight arms,
it would be easier.

411
00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:30,840
But Joy wants to challenge Ben,
before time on the island runs out.

412
00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:34,680
So, next time think about whether
you feel comfortable

413
00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:36,040
being naked together.

414
00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:43,120
I think, you know, nakedness is...to
me it's a private thing.

415
00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:44,680
Yeah.

416
00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:51,960
I mean, obviously I know the
experts,

417
00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:53,440
that they're not sort
of judging you

418
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:54,480
in that same sort of way anyway,

419
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:55,880
but really makes me uncomfortable.

420
00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:01,240
I don't think I'll ever be able
to go through with it

421
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:02,560
and not be so afraid.

422
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,320
How do you feel about it being
the last day?

423
00:21:22,360 --> 00:21:24,000
I'm quite emotional, to be honest.
Are you?

424
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:25,480
Yeah, I actually am, yeah.

425
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:29,200
I'm gonna miss everyone. Yeah.

426
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:31,920
It may be the final morning on
Virgin Island,

427
00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:35,520
but for some, there's unfinished
business.

428
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:39,840
I think I would like
to maybe get naked in front of Joy

429
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:41,720
because if I can break that barrier
then it'll probably be easier

430
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:43,000
when I'm with somebody,

431
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:44,240
I just want to see where it goes.

432
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,440
I feel like if I do lose my
virginity today,

433
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,880
it will be a huge step forward.

434
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,080
But I think everyone's nervous
about it the first time.

435
00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,960
Morning. You all right? Yeah, I'm
grand. How are you?

436
00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:04,280
I'm all right. All good things come
to an end.

437
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,800
Yeah, it's been, like,
a big process.

438
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:08,240
It's hard to, kind of,

439
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:13,520
share like your deepest secrets
and struggles with people.

440
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,560
Oh, this might be the last time.

441
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:21,600
Our last day.

442
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,560
Let's take the alcohol. They can't
kick us off.

443
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:28,120
Overnight, Holly has been doing some
thinking.

444
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:30,240
Hi.

445
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,000
Before coming here I'd always just
said

446
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:34,800
"Oh, I'm straight,"

447
00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:39,200
but coming here I feel like
it's been more clear

448
00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,080
that I am bisexual,

449
00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:44,640
and, yeah, I'm proud.

450
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:45,760
And she's asked Celeste

451
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,720
to help her open up to
the rest of the group.

452
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:53,600
Holly has something that she wants
to share with all of you.

453
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,400
Something I've struggled with
a lot and coming here I've,

454
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:57,880
kind of, had the time to think
about it,

455
00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,400
and have the confidence
to speak out,

456
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:04,720
is about my sexuality

457
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:09,160
and I'm bisexual,
I've now discovered.

458
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:14,640
Woo!

459
00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:17,680
Welcome to the club.

460
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,480
Well done, Queen, smashed it.

461
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:20,880
Proud of you.

462
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:24,560
Thank you, guys, that was
terrifying.

463
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:29,360
I definitely would've suppressed it
for longer if I hadn't come here.

464
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,080
So proud of you.

465
00:23:31,120 --> 00:23:32,880
Thank you.

466
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,000
Having all the support from
the group

467
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:38,560
it gave me that confidence
to tell it to the world,

468
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:40,120
and I couldn't have done it
without them.

469
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,400
I always thought I'd be
a great dominatrix.

470
00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:49,840
I feel that for you. Thank you.

471
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:51,360
Yeah. Is that the whipping one?

472
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:52,800
Yeah. You want to whip people,
and stuff? OK.

473
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:53,840
I'd like to whip people.

474
00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:02,160
As she's progressed through
the course...

475
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,880
Hi, hi. Hi, hi.

476
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,080
..Charlotte has overcome her
body issues.

477
00:24:07,120 --> 00:24:08,840
What would feel comfortable
for you?

478
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,440
Maybe some body caress?

479
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,560
And now she knows exactly what
she wants.

480
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,000
I have an idea.

481
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,920
I wanna take my top off
and I wanna straddle you.

482
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:20,320
OK, you want me laying down?

483
00:24:20,360 --> 00:24:21,360
Yes.

484
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,440
Knees down.

485
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:27,760
Yes, ma'am. Arms further.

486
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,000
OK, grip my hips.

487
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,320
Oh, that's nice. Worship me.

488
00:24:38,360 --> 00:24:42,120
You are so beautiful.

489
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:43,440
Having you straddle me

490
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:45,400
is almost overwhelming for my body.

491
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,520
You are a fucking goddess.

492
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,040
I wanna grab your chest.

493
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:07,880
You have full permission.

494
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:09,000
Yay.

495
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,000
You are firm.

496
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,120
That feeling your body on mine.

497
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,840
Feeling your touch feels really good
on me, goddess.

498
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:37,320
Thank you for this gift.

499
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:44,560
I wanna say how proud I am.

500
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:48,600
That was a big leap,
to ask for what you needed.

501
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,480
I adore Andre, I adore him
completely.

502
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,000
It was through him that
I was really able to be like,

503
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,160
"OK, this is what I want."

504
00:26:02,120 --> 00:26:04,960
I went into this with
the mindset of,

505
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,800
"He is a tool, a very enjoyable
tool

506
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:11,200
"for me to kind of get what
I want out of it."

507
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,920
Ohh, I just had so much fun.

508
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,880
I feel so ready for everything now.

509
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:24,960
While many are finding their
body confidence...

510
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,320
I like being naked by myself.
I don't.

511
00:26:27,360 --> 00:26:29,280
..Ben still has work to do.

512
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,000
Me and my ex, even though we
were together,

513
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:32,240
and, you know, I was staying over,

514
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:33,480
I got changed in the bathroom.

515
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:34,880
It's like, it's weird.

516
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,200
It's just a big step for me.

517
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,080
In a final bid to overcome his fear
of nudity...

518
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:46,320
Hey.

519
00:26:46,360 --> 00:26:47,600
Hello.

520
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,360
..Joy has a new plan.

521
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:51,760
I know it's a stretch,

522
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,840
but I'd love to practise
the animal game with you...

523
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:55,920
Mm.

524
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:57,200
..in our, maybe our underwear?

525
00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:01,760
In an early group workshop,

526
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:05,800
Ben couldn't bear to even watch
the animal game.

527
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:08,360
So can we stay connected while
we undress?

528
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:09,400
Mm.

529
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,800
With most clothes removed...

530
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:19,640
Even as we get down,
we can keep that connection.

531
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:26,400
..Ben tries to let animal instinct
take over.

532
00:27:34,360 --> 00:27:36,560
How does that feel to you?

533
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,880
Yeah, I sort of feel
the connection.

534
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,000
Is kissing on your...? Yeah.

535
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:51,600
Losing himself in the moment,

536
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,720
Ben seems to have let go
of his inhibitions.

537
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:58,120
Would you like to move to the bed?

538
00:27:58,160 --> 00:27:59,400
Yeah.

539
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:03,440
But will it be enough
to finally bare all?

540
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:08,800
That was fun. It was.

541
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,920
Do you think we should disrobe?

542
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,040
Yeah, let's do it.

543
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,000
I have to break this barrier.

544
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,040
Let me put up this.

545
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:23,480
Joy puts up a screen,
so Ben's body is for her eyes only.

546
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,120
Are you ready? Yeah, let's go. OK.

547
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:35,760
Is my body normal?
Your body is beautiful, yes.

548
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,920
All normal down there?

549
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:42,600
I think better than with clothes on.
Really? Yes.

550
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,120
I've broken another barrier.

551
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,560
I'm proud of you. Thank you.

552
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:52,560
Do you feel complete?

553
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:54,400
Yeah, I think that's a good way
to end it.

554
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:55,760
Yeah, great.

555
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,680
I'm so incredibly proud of him.

556
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,560
He's opened in ways
that I can't even believe,

557
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,120
and I feel honoured

558
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:09,480
he allowed me to be the one
to accompany him on that journey.

559
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,600
Hello! Hello.

560
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,520
You all right?

561
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,600
So, I just saw Joy.

562
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:19,680
Ooh, la-la!

563
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:21,960
My journey is complete.

564
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,680
I didn't lose my virginity, but...
Did you...

565
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,080
HE WHISPERS: ..get your cock out?

566
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,080
Joy is the only person
that's seen me naked.

567
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:31,960
So, did you see her fully naked?

568
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:35,880
It's nice to break that barrier.

569
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,560
Hopefully when I'm in the real world

570
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,520
and I get to that stage again,
it'll be a lot easier.

571
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,080
I won't be in my head all the time.

572
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,360
I have changed
and that's all I needed, really,

573
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:45,680
was just that confidence.

574
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,200
I haven't had her fully naked
in a one to one,

575
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,480
so you did more than me.
Yeah, but you climaxed, I didn't.

576
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:54,960
Ba-ba-ba-ba-ba-ba.

577
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,960
Bi-bi-bi.

578
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:58,960
Bisexual!

579
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,320
I'm not the only gay in the village!

580
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,680
This evening,
there'll be a graduation ceremony

581
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,000
to end the course.

582
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:10,640
What are you wearing tonight?

583
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:13,800
I got, like, a full-on suit. Really?
Yeah.

584
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:15,680
Does anyone want to swap outfits?

585
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:17,480
I'll wear your dress.

586
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:20,000
And the group has been set
a final exercise -

587
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,480
to write a letter
to a future lover.

588
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:26,560
I don't like writing letters.
Can I write a text instead?

589
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:31,120
Would shagging by the Tesco bins
be a bit too graphic? Yeah.

590
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:35,080
I know how to start mine.
"Dear Emma..."

591
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,880
Oh, my God. Bleurgh!

592
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,960
Me and Viraj are very good friends.

593
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:42,760
A friendship with a good connection.

594
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,400
So I think, get back to the UK,

595
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:48,480
and if it works, then it works.

596
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:51,360
I don't think I will close myself
off any more.

597
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,400
For Dave,
a lover could be more imminent.

598
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:02,800
After two weeks of intense
treatment, and years of longing,

599
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,960
he could be on the verge
of achieving what he came here for.

600
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,920
Enjoy. Have fun.

601
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,760
Being a virgin at 24, I hate it.

602
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:19,880
My biggest fear is that I'll find
someone that I genuinely care about,

603
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,800
and I won't be ready to have
a proper relationship with them.

604
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:26,040
You know, it could be the love of my
life,

605
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,480
and I could just be too awkward,
and I could blow it.

606
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:35,240
Hello. Hey.

607
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:36,960
How are you doing?

608
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:45,560
Are you still feeling good
about intercourse?

609
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,720
Yeah, yeah. Yeah, cool.

610
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:50,600
BOTH LAUGH

611
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,960
So lie down.

612
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:58,560
So we'll just start in
the way that we've been starting,

613
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,240
just letting it be organic,
staying in connection, and kissing.

614
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,360
Yeah, that sounds good.

615
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,160
OK.

616
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:52,000
OK, just start slow.

617
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,840
I'll be honest,
I'm struggling a little bit.

618
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,280
Just relax.

619
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,800
I think I'm putting
a bit too much pressure on myself.

620
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,520
Has everyone written their letters?

621
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,160
No. I've got writer's block.

622
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:29,040
Whilst most of the group
are preparing letters

623
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,400
for tonight's graduation ceremony...

624
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:34,040
Just go with the flow,
write what comes to mind.

625
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:35,840
In the Zen den...

626
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:37,880
Just relax.

627
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:42,280
..Dave is trying to get back
on track with Kat.

628
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:15,040
DEEP BREATHING

629
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,520
You're so sexy.

630
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,200
Yeah, feels so good.

631
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:36,160
BREATHY GASPING

632
00:34:44,720 --> 00:34:47,840
Did you come? Yeah. Yeah.

633
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:51,680
How are you feeling? Good.

634
00:34:51,720 --> 00:34:54,680
Yeah, a lot better? Yeah. Yeah.
That's good.

635
00:34:56,720 --> 00:34:58,560
After 12 days...

636
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:04,240
..Dave has completed his course
of therapy on Virgin Island.

637
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:06,480
Thank you for this.

638
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:09,960
And how does it feel
now you're not a virgin?

639
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,040
THEY LAUGH

640
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:17,080
I feel really good,
but how do you feel?

641
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:18,600
Mmmm.

642
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,120
I feel good
about being the person

643
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,200
with him in that important moment,

644
00:35:24,240 --> 00:35:27,240
and I think he has changed so much.

645
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,560
He knows a lot more about what
he wants

646
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:34,240
and it's a lot easier
if you've done it once.

647
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,600
So I think that will help. Yeah.

648
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,760
Yeah, I think you've done
a really good job.

649
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:41,800
THEY LAUGH

650
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,360
Thank you.

651
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:48,160
I'm proud that I can finally say
I'm not a virgin any more.

652
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:50,600
I've still got a lot of catching up
to do,

653
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,480
but I feel like I'm on
the board now.

654
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,360
Take care.
Yeah. I'll see you later.

655
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,640
Now I can go and properly progress

656
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,840
with some sort of idea
of what I'm doing.

657
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:10,120
The fact that I'm no longer a virgin
is great, it's just relief.

658
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:20,040
Did you have a session? Yeah. How'd
it go? I think it went well, yeah.

659
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:23,560
You cool?
Yeah, I'm just really tired.

660
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,000
Exhausting day.

661
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:28,280
You know what, it's the last one,
mate.

662
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:32,120
I'm going to miss it.

663
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:33,720
Let's go.

664
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:35,400
End of an era.

665
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,400
The end of a chapter.

666
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:44,000
As the sun starts to set for
the final time on Virgin Island,

667
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:47,160
the group are getting ready
for graduation.

668
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,160
It's really sad. Yeah,

669
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,520
I'm going to miss everyone so much,
so...

670
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:53,840
I am going to miss the island

671
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:58,040
and the routine,
I think I'll miss a lot as well.

672
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,040
Very lovely.

673
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,760
You look gorgeous, darling.

674
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,000
Wouldn't it be funny if we went in
there and they were all naked? Yeah.

675
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:10,920
Do you think we get a certificate?

676
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,040
Look at them all down there.

677
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,480
Wooo!

678
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:27,320
Graduation is a time

679
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:32,080
for you to gather up all of your
new-found confidence and skills

680
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,080
and get ready to take them out
into the world.

681
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,600
So we're going to invite you up
one by one,

682
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:41,400
because we did ask you to write
a letter to a future lover.

683
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:48,720
The retreat was emotional
for Taylor,

684
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:51,680
but she discovered
her true sexuality.

685
00:37:51,720 --> 00:37:53,720
Dear future lover,

686
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:57,680
I have spent so long
being scared of who I was,

687
00:37:57,720 --> 00:38:00,280
what people thought, who I was
supposed to be and what I wanted.

688
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,360
But hear this.
I'm not scared any more,

689
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:03,600
I'm terrified.

690
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:07,240
Being terrified means I've found
something that I don't want to lose.

691
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,720
And if I'm terrified of losing you,

692
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:13,600
then maybe you'll be terrified
of losing me.

693
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,520
But if it all gets too real,
remember,

694
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:18,200
sing loudly, not well,

695
00:38:18,240 --> 00:38:21,360
laugh at everything that you can
and lick bum.

696
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:22,400
LAUGHTER

697
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,320
Taylor wasn't the only one
to find their true identity.

698
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,360
Dear future lover,
we haven't met yet,

699
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,080
but I have been on one hell
of a self-discovery journey.

700
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:39,080
I feel like I am able
to be my true full self

701
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:40,720
and show you all of me.

702
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,880
I used to think hiding my feelings
was my superpower,

703
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,320
but really, it was my
biggest weakness.

704
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:48,080
It took me a long time to be happy
with who I am as a person,

705
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,000
and there's no way I can go back
to hiding.

706
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,840
Look at you. Exactly.

707
00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:00,680
The Tom that you are
is just gorgeous.

708
00:39:00,720 --> 00:39:01,840
Thank you.

709
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:10,200
For Ben, the island has meant
overcoming rejection head-on.

710
00:39:10,240 --> 00:39:14,880
Dear lover, this man you see before
you now is not the man I once was.

711
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,480
For a long time,
I thought I was repulsive,

712
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,240
undesirable and that
I could never be loved.

713
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:21,920
I now know that I was wrong.

714
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:25,360
I went to an intimacy retreat.

715
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:28,720
It was a bold step, but one
that changed my life forever.

716
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:31,520
It was here that I learned
of my sexual self,

717
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:35,200
and it was here that I learned
how to be wanted.

718
00:39:35,240 --> 00:39:36,840
This journey has been tough,

719
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:38,240
but I wouldn't change a thing

720
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:40,640
because it ultimately led me to you.

721
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:44,120
Thank you for loving me and showing
me that I can love myself.

722
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:49,480
Thank you.

723
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:51,360
Amazing.

724
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:57,200
For many, discovering
self-confidence has been key.

725
00:39:57,240 --> 00:40:01,280
Dear future lover, I want to thank
you for taking my hand

726
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,320
and coming with me on
an amazing adventure.

727
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:06,120
Thank you for having all the love
for me

728
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:08,400
that I once struggled
to have for myself.

729
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,800
Being my true self
is when I can excel.

730
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,600
You are a woman now.

731
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:17,320
Thank you, thank you so much.
And I'm so frigging proud of you.

732
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:20,360
Thank you!

733
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,120
Dear future lover/lovers,

734
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:26,360
I want you to be patient
with me while I continue to learn,

735
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,760
grow and inevitably make mistakes.

736
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,040
I want us to worship one another,

737
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,280
I want everyone to see our love.

738
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:36,840
I wasn't sure if I would ever get to
a point in my life

739
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:40,640
where I truly believed that I was
worthy of being loved.

740
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:42,760
I don't expect anything from you,

741
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:46,400
except you must ride the elephant
with me on our wedding day.

742
00:40:51,240 --> 00:40:54,040
Sorry for only lasting 20 seconds.

743
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,400
I was overwhelmed by your beauty.

744
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,920
I promise tomorrow will be better,

745
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,840
because I'm going to use the skills
I learned from the intimacy retreat.

746
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:10,240
Dave.

747
00:41:12,240 --> 00:41:16,840
He arrived on the island as one of
the quietest in the group,

748
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,600
but slowly, he's found his voice.

749
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:21,800
Dear my future lover,

750
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:23,600
despite all my continued flaws,

751
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:25,920
like my constant awkwardness,

752
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:27,760
you've always loved me.

753
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:30,360
I can't put into words
how much I appreciate that.

754
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,760
You're everything I've ever wanted,
and you complete me.

755
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:38,880
I know that you're going to go out
there and break many hearts.

756
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,120
Um, sorry.

757
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:51,520
After weeks of being surprised by
the experts,

758
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:54,880
the group now have a surprise
for them.

759
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:57,200
We've all been through so much
with you,

760
00:41:57,240 --> 00:41:59,160
and we all want to give our thanks.

761
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,600
I personally want to thank you
for your patience

762
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:04,000
and understanding.

763
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:06,800
You helped me feel confident
and see who I am

764
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:10,240
and see myself in
a place beyond here

765
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,960
and I really, really appreciate
everything you've done for me,

766
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,320
and thank you all.

767
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:15,680
Thank you.

768
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:22,640
This group are some of
the bravest, wisest,

769
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:27,040
most engaged and loving people
that I have ever worked with,

770
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,640
and seeing their transformation,

771
00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:31,280
yeah, I can't even...

772
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:32,520
I can't even...

773
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:36,000
I want to thank you

774
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:37,840
for the most unforgettable
experience of my entire life.

775
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:39,600
Nothing's going to ever come
close to this,

776
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:40,720
and it's been incredible.

777
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,440
Thank you so much to my lovely Andre

778
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:49,280
for creating that beautiful space
for me

779
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,560
to feel vulnerable

780
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,480
and like if I was
going to fall, you would catch me.

781
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,640
Wrong day to wear make-up.

782
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:01,480
I can say confidently
you've changed my life,

783
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:05,640
changed all these people's lives,
and always remember that.

784
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:10,880
Before I came here, I was at
the lowest point in my life.

785
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:13,840
I had no idea how to love myself,

786
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,320
how to love others,

787
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,800
and each and every one
of you has inspired me.

788
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:22,800
And I don't know how I would ever be
able to repay what you've given us.

789
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:32,560
Woo!

790
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,280
We've graduated!

791
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,280
From the people who came off
of that boat

792
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,800
to the people
who I'm looking at now,

793
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,080
it's unrecognisable,

794
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:44,040
and I have only hope for them

795
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,760
to have the most amazing
sex and relationship lives

796
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:48,520
going out into the world.

797
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:52,960
We want to invite you
to a closing but beginning circle.

798
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,320
Join us.

799
00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:58,440
Even though I didn't lose
my virginity on the island,

800
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,400
I've learned so much more
about myself,

801
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:02,480
and I feel like now
when I go on to the outside world,

802
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:06,000
I'll be so ready
for my new intimate journey.

803
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:10,360
Your courage is going to inspire
so many people out there.

804
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:15,280
You're going to take
the world by storm, I can feel it.

805
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:16,840
It's all about kind of reaching out

806
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:20,000
and being like, "Hey,
maybe I would like some help."

807
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,640
Congratulations!

808
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:24,600
Woo!

809
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:31,160
They're beautiful human beings
that just didn't know it.

810
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,280
Cheers.

811
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:36,320
I'm so honoured and proud to be
a part of this project.

812
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:40,120
This place, I recommend it
to anyone.

813
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,240
My intimacy journey from here -

814
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,200
going to go back to Rochdale,

815
00:44:44,240 --> 00:44:47,000
take it by storm,

816
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,040
and, yeah, lock up your sons.

817
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:52,720
We've graduated from sex camp!

818
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,000
If you've identified with the

819
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,640
issues raised in Virgin Island
and would like to be part of

820
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:36,600
a possible new series,
visit...

821
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:44,680
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