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Austin, why did your teacher
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just call me?
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Huh? Stepmom, haven't you heard
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of knocking?
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This is serious, young man.
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[Sighs]
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He told me you'd been skipping
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school. Is that true?
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Maybe? Why does it matter?
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[Sighs]
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Give me an answer, mister.
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Hmm.
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I'm talking to you.
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Well, maybe I just don't feel
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like I need to go to school.
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There's really no reason for me
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to do it in the first place. I'm
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not even getting good grades.
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You know how important it is to
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get into a good college.
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This is your future we're
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talking about.
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Honestly, like, I don't really
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care about my future.
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Well, you should care.
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Why? I mean, I already have a
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good job.
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This is important. Your job is
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a dead-end job.
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You need to be focused on going
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to a good school, getting a
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good career.
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This is important stuff, and I'm
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sick of getting these phone
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calls from your teacher.
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You've got to start putting
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more emphasis on school and
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your future.
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I mean, I'll think about it,
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okay?
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Just stop hounding me all the
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time to go to school and get
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good grades and get into
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college.
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I mean, dad never went.
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I care about your future, and
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you should too.
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[Sighs]
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I don't know how many times I
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have to keep having this
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conversation with you.
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Um, well, I mean, I'm trying my
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best, I swear.
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Well, you need to be trying a
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little harder.
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And this room too is filthy.
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Well, I was busy on my phone. I'm
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trying to play some games and,
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you know, watch YouTube videos.
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I've taught you better than
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this. You need to use your time
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more productively.
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I feel like I could do whatever
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I want with my time, mom.
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You're always getting on my
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case, and it's just not fair.
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Like, I feel like I'm old
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enough to do whatever I want
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now.
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No, no, you're not acting like
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an adult.
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You need to start getting your
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act together.
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What would your dad think?
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I honestly don't care what my
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dad thinks.
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He doesn't get an opinion. He
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left us, and I really don't
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care about him.
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Well, you should. This really
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upsets me.
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You know, Jonathan, the kid
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that lives down the street, I
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went to school with him,
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and he was acting just like you
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are.
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Like you don't, he didn't care
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about school, just like you.
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And then he got a dead-end job,
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and then he moved back in with
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his parents, and that's his
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future.
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Well, if I could choose my
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future, it would be one without
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you, honestly.
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Like, you're always bickering.
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I'm just trying to raise you to
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be a responsible man.
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You've got to get it together.
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This is important stuff.
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Look, you're crazy. Like,
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honestly, school isn't really
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that important.
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At least not nowadays. You see
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all those people online?
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They never went to college, and
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I feel like I can do just as
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good without going to school.
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I'm scared you're going to end
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up in prison.
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I went to several guys in
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school that ended up in prison
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because they didn't care about
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their future,
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and they just hung out with the
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wrong kids, and then they
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started stealing things.
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I want more for you than that.
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Prison? Seriously? You think I'm
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going to go to prison by
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skipping school?
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I don't even have any friends
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that are a bad influence on me,
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so how could they be a bad
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example or have me getting in
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trouble?
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All I do is stay home and play
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video games.
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I just really want you to be
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successful, and sitting around
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playing video games is not
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going to get you there.
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I don't want to support you
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forever.
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Well, maybe I'll get sponsored
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by playing video games. You
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ever think of that?
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There's so many other things I
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could do with my life than just
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be going to school and wasting
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my life.
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That's ridiculous. I'm so sick
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of having this conversation
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with you. I've raised you
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better than this.
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Honestly, you're never even
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home. You barely even raise me,
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so I don't know what you're
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talking about.
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That is not true, and you need
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to start respecting me, young
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man.
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Well, what are you going to do
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about it if I don't?
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You're going to start getting
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grounded a lot more.
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You know, I'm really sick of
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this. You're mean to your
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grandmother, you're
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disrespectful to me.
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You almost burnt the kitchen
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down the other day making a
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grilled cheese. You've got to
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get it together.
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It wasn't my fault. No one
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taught me how to cook. I was
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trying to learn online. What do
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you expect?
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You know how hard I've been
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working lately, and I've showed
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you a million times how to make
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a grilled cheese.
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Okay, well, if you're going to
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keep grounding me, I'll just
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run away. And then what?
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No, and you're not going to do
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that either.
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And if I do?
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Well, I think you would miss
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this.
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Well, are you going to get a
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therapist or something?
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Actually, that's an excellent
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idea.
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What? I was just kidding.
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That's an excellent idea. You
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know what? I'm going to get a
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therapist to cure you.
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That's exactly what we need. In
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fact, I'm going to do that
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today. I'm going to do that
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right now.
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Wait, before you go, can I at
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least finish?
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Yeah, fine, fine. But as soon
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as you do, I'm calling a
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therapist.
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Cheers.
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Well, thanks for letting me
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finish, mom.
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I'm going to call the therapist.
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Come on, I thought you were
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joking about that. There's no
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reason to do that.
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No, there absolutely is.
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We're setting this appointment
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up now.
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Whatever.
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Excuse me, who are you?
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Hi, Austin. I'm Dr. Sweets.
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I'm a family therapist. I was
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here to have a little chat with
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you.
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Do we have to do this right now?
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You don't have to do anything.
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You don't want to.
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But I'd love to have a little
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talk with you and see how
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things are going.
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Okay, well, all right, fine.
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What do you want to talk about?
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Well, what do you think your,
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why do you think your mom
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wanted me to come by to talk to
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you?
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Honestly, she's kind of crazy
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and I don't really know why she
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asked you to be here.
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I have no issues.
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Well, I wanted to go over what
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your interests have been lately.
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I really don't want to talk
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about that right now.
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Well, telling you a little bit
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about myself, I like painting,
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hiking, spending time with my
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family.
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Is that anything you're
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interested in?
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I mean, the few things I like
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to do, I guess, are like video
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games, sports, normal team boy
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stuff, you know,
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just that stuff really, nothing
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really else.
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Well, I mean, that's good. You
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do have interest.
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Yeah, I have many interests.
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Oh, so how has school been for
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you lately?
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I mean, I haven't really been
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going to be honest with you. I
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kind of just been skipping.
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Why is that?
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[Laughs]
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I know apparently you've been
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struggling a lot more than
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usual.
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Have you been stressed?
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No, I haven't been struggling.
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I just haven't been really
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going to school because I just
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don't want to.
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There's no reason.
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Or things with your friends.
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Honestly, I don't have too many
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friends.
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I don't really try to make
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friends. I just want to come
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home and play my video games.
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Well, my mom won't leave me
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alone.
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Well, I'm sure she's concerned
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about you. It sounds like you've
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been trying to stay to yourself
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a lot more lately.
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Well, yeah, I just want some
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privacy. I'm getting older. The
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last thing I need is my mom
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down my throat.
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So, you don't have any classes
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that you're interested in
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lately?
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Not really.
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Your teacher is not a teacher
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you have in mind? That you
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enjoy spending your day?
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Or crushes? Do you have any
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girls you have crushes on?
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Crushes? Not really. I mean,
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there's a few girls in class,
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but I never go, so it's almost
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impossible for me to speak to
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them.
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Let me see.
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Okay, so you don't see any kind
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of value in school, not as fun.
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Not really. I mean, I see it as
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a waste of time, honestly.
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Nobody really cares about
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college these days anyways.
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Do you feel lonely, Austin?
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Lonely? Like, in what way?
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I don't know. Well, I mean, it
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sounds like you're not spending
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time with friends, family. You
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like spending a lot of time by
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yourself.
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Do you do anything with, you
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know, people to be able to be
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social?
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I mean, I have friends that I
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play video games with. Isn't
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that social enough?
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Is that in person or are you
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just doing that more online?
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Just online, but I still talk
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to people, so it's still
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technically me being social,
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isn't it?
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What else do you want from me?
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That's true, but I mean, I
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think it's kind of interesting.
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Your mother feels lonely too,
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and you guys both live in the
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same house.
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Well, it's not my job to make
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sure she's not lonely. She can
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find her own friends, can't she?
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But you guys should be able to
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spend time together.
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I mean, what does she want from
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me? It's not like I want to sit
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at home and watch a movie with
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her or anything.
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Well, she's concerned about how
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you've been lashing out a lot
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lately.
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Oh, of course I'm lashing out.
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She's always bothering me. She
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won't just leave me alone.
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She doesn't want to leave you
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alone. She wants to, you know,
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figure out what's going on.
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It sounds like since the loss
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of your father, things have
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been a little different for you
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lately.
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Well, I mean, maybe I've been a
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little more stressed with him
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not being around, but there's
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nothing I can do about it.
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He didn't want to stay around,
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so who cares?
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Is that the reason you're so
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negative towards life?
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I'm not negative towards life.
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I'm just trying to do my own
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thing. Is that too much to ask
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for?
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Well, you should enjoy life a
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whole lot more.
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What else do you find enjoyable
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in life?
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Well, I mean, I mentioned
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sports and video games already,
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so, I mean, other than that,
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not much.
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I haven't really tried
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exploring any other hobbies, so
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I guess maybe if you have any
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recommendations.
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I mean, what's your plan for
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the future?
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Hopefully get sponsored playing
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video games and make a ton of
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money that way. I see kids
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doing it all the time.
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So do you think that's
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something you're great at?
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I mean, I would say I'm pretty
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good at it, but my mom doesn't
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think so.
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Well, maybe it would be great
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to find another hobby to, you
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know, have more, more goals in
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life.
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Is there a hobby you recommend?
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I mean, why not keep doing art
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or some other career path?
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Like, are you thinking of
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creating games?
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I never really thought about
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doing that, but that's a pretty
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good idea. I'd say I'm pretty
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creative.
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See, that would be perfect. You
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know, it sounds like something
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you're interested in and it's
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definitely a great occupation
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that you could grow with.
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Yeah, maybe I'll look into
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doing that. I mean, that might
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actually get me interested in
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going to school.
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I think that'd be great. Here,
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let me see.
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You know, there's some other
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concerns your mother had.
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So tell me what part of you and
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your mother's relationship do
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you have an interest in?
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What part of my mother's
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relationship do I have an
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interest in?
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Well, with her, what ways do
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you think you guys actually
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communicate well together?
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Do you guys have any hobbies
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you do together?
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Honestly, I haven't really done
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much with her in years, but I'm
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open to suggestions if you have
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some, but I kind of just like
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spending time alone, you know.
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Yeah, I mean, I got that you
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are getting older, but what did
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you guys like to do together?
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I mean, we used to do mini golf
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and go to the movies and well,
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I don't know. We'd go hiking
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every now and then.
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I really liked the camping
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trips too.
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That would be amazing for you
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guys to do together.
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Get out into nature, spend some
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time together, get away from
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the same old for once.
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Even though you like video
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games, I'm sure it'd be great
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to do something new.
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Yeah, I guess you're right.
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Well, I appreciate all the
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suggestions. Maybe we could
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talk more about this another
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time.
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Yeah, of course. I'd love to.
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Okay. Well, I'm going to go
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play some video games.
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Alright, thanks for the session.
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Seriously, it's been amazing.
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What is she doing here? I
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thought it was just going to be
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us.
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Hello, Austin. Your mom has
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called me over.
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You know, just to give me a
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little update how everything's
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been going.
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I've been telling her how you
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have no focus or direction.
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Something has to change around
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here. I'm so worried about his
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future.
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He's going to be living with me
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forever.
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I understand you're very
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concerned about Austin.
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Your mom's just concerned about
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you. She loves you so much.
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She's just concerned about you
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having a better future.
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What do you think about that?
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I mean, maybe she's right a
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little bit, but I'm doing just
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fine.
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I think she just needs to stop
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worrying about me all the time.
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You're not doing just fine. You're
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a mess.
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I'm not a mess, mom. Will you
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just leave me alone? Seriously.
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00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:57,600
So how have things improved?
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No, they've gotten worse. All
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he does is play video games all
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the time.
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His room's a wreck. I'm
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constantly picking up after him.
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Oh, did I tell you we almost
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burned the kitchen down the
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other day?
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And how did this happen?
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I've taught him how to make a
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grilled cheese so many times.
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He doesn't listen. He doesn't
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want to follow instructions.
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He just wants to play video
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games and be rude.
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You should hear how he talks to
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his grandmother.
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I mean, honestly, I'm not that
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00:20:29,770 --> 00:20:31,600
mean to my grandmother.
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I try my best to be a good boy
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for you, but you're always
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bitching.
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And I honestly can't take it
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all the time.
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Well, I hate having to bitch.
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I mean, honestly, it just...
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Well, have you thought of
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another way of communicating
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with your family?
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Oh, let me...
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I mean, I hear you used to have
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a really good relationship with
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your cousins.
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What happened to that?
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Well, I mean, they're a lot
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older than me, and I think they
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just have different hobbies.
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I want to play video games, and
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they want to go out and ride
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bikes and go to the park,
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and it's not really something
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that I really want to do
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anymore.
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But isn't that something you
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used to be interested in doing
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with them?
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I mean, maybe for a little
533
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while, but then I got into
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video games,
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and I don't want to lose my
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stats online. So my focus has
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to be on that.
538
00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:38,430
Well, your family misses you,
539
00:21:38,430 --> 00:21:40,630
and they want to spend a lot
540
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more time with you.
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You do realize everyone is just...
542
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Wanting him to succeed.
543
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,220
Exactly, yeah. They are all
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rooting for you.
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They know how much potential
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you have in life.
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You don't feel like they're
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trying to abandon you or
549
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,600
anything, do you?
550
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:05,170
No, I mean, they're definitely
551
00:22:05,170 --> 00:22:06,600
there for me, but...
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00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:09,350
I mean, I just wish they'd cut
553
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me a little bit of a break
554
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and let me do my own thing for
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maybe a year or two.
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00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,390
Like, well, I always have to do
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what my mom wants.
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00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,820
Well, how long have you had a
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break from, you know, the
560
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regular hobbies you used to
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have?
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It sounds like you've been just
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gaming a lot for the last
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couple years.
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Is that right?
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00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,430
Yeah, I mean, I told you I'm
567
00:22:35,430 --> 00:22:37,600
trying to chase it for a career.
568
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So, of course, the more I play,
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the better I'm gonna get, and...
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00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:43,600
What kind of career is that?
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I just want him to go to
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college, get a degree,
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something with a future to it.
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Have you put any kind of
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00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:54,600
thought in that lately?
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Well, I know last time during
577
00:22:56,470 --> 00:22:58,390
our session you mentioned kind
578
00:22:58,390 --> 00:22:59,600
of getting into,
579
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:01,600
I don't know, designing games.
580
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:02,600
Right.
581
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:04,600
So, I mean, I haven't really
582
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,600
done any research on that.
583
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:08,600
But I'm still...
584
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,360
Maybe I just need to find the
585
00:23:10,360 --> 00:23:11,600
time, I guess.
586
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,420
I mean, that would definitely
587
00:23:13,420 --> 00:23:15,310
be great, at least looking into
588
00:23:15,310 --> 00:23:15,600
it,
589
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:19,170
just so you have some more
590
00:23:19,170 --> 00:23:23,600
things that you enjoy doing.
591
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:27,370
Maybe the background of things
592
00:23:27,370 --> 00:23:30,680
is really what you enjoy most
593
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:32,600
about games.
594
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:36,600
Yeah. I guess you're right.
595
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,250
Is there any other hobbies that
596
00:23:39,250 --> 00:23:41,600
Austin enjoyed a lot lately
597
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,450
when everything was going
598
00:23:44,450 --> 00:23:46,600
better for you guys?
599
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,600
What would you say, Mom?
600
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:54,490
Oh, Austin and his hobbies, trashing
601
00:23:54,490 --> 00:23:58,600
his room, backtalking...
602
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:02,600
Yeah, it's just...
603
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,600
It's very concerning.
604
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:08,270
You know, maybe he really does
605
00:24:08,270 --> 00:24:10,600
need some more hobbies.
606
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:13,040
Are there anything that you
607
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,890
aren't interested in doing with
608
00:24:15,890 --> 00:24:16,600
him?
609
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:20,600
Well...
610
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:25,730
We do like to spend time
611
00:24:25,730 --> 00:24:33,600
together, that's a great idea.
612
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,660
I should give that some more
613
00:24:35,660 --> 00:24:36,600
thought.
614
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:38,140
Have you thought about doing
615
00:24:38,140 --> 00:24:39,600
one of those camping trips?
616
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:41,970
Austin was saying he does enjoy
617
00:24:41,970 --> 00:24:43,600
camping with you.
618
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:45,470
Yeah, I definitely miss going
619
00:24:45,470 --> 00:24:46,890
on hikes with you mom and
620
00:24:46,890 --> 00:24:47,600
camping,
621
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:49,990
but we haven't done a road trip
622
00:24:49,990 --> 00:24:52,010
in, I mean, I don't know how
623
00:24:52,010 --> 00:24:52,600
long,
624
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,600
so maybe we could do that.
625
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:57,600
Well that's an idea.
626
00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:00,140
Yeah, maybe some good quality
627
00:25:00,140 --> 00:25:01,600
time together.
628
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,720
You would be able to see my
629
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:05,600
point of view more.
630
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,420
See, I think that sounds like
631
00:25:07,420 --> 00:25:08,950
you guys are off to a great
632
00:25:08,950 --> 00:25:09,600
start.
633
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:11,640
You both agree that that's
634
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,710
something you guys could
635
00:25:13,710 --> 00:25:16,600
definitely enjoy doing together.
636
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:20,600
Or maybe...
637
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,700
Art, that was another thing you're
638
00:25:22,700 --> 00:25:24,600
saying you're interested in.
639
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,000
No, you don't think you're the
640
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,070
best at it, but everything
641
00:25:28,070 --> 00:25:30,600
takes a little bit of practice.
642
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:33,600
Oh, he is a great artist!
643
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:35,710
He is like being creative, I
644
00:25:35,710 --> 00:25:37,880
mean, it's definitely always
645
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:39,600
been an outlet for me, but
646
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,270
I guess I haven't really looked
647
00:25:41,270 --> 00:25:43,050
at pursuing it, especially as a
648
00:25:43,050 --> 00:25:44,870
career, or focusing on it in
649
00:25:44,870 --> 00:25:45,600
school.
650
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,510
It's more or less just been a
651
00:25:48,510 --> 00:25:49,600
hobby.
652
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,280
Maybe we could take lessons
653
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:53,600
together.
654
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:55,880
That actually is an amazing
655
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:56,600
idea.
656
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:59,490
Maybe you guys could look into
657
00:25:59,490 --> 00:26:02,260
finding classes you guys are
658
00:26:02,260 --> 00:26:03,600
both into.
659
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,600
What do you think about that?
660
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,730
I mean it sounds pretty good. I
661
00:26:07,730 --> 00:26:09,600
think there was a
662
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,030
parent-son painting class that
663
00:26:12,030 --> 00:26:14,350
I saw online not too long ago,
664
00:26:14,350 --> 00:26:14,600
but
665
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,760
I think it's coming up next
666
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,600
week, so we would have to plan.
667
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,600
See, that's great.
668
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,600
Making a lot of progress.
669
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,990
See, you're already finding
670
00:26:25,990 --> 00:26:28,480
things that you still bond over
671
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:29,600
together.
672
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:33,110
So, you should definitely look
673
00:26:33,110 --> 00:26:35,600
into those classes.
674
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:38,190
It sounds like Austin knows
675
00:26:38,190 --> 00:26:40,600
exactly where to look.
676
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,940
That's a great activity for you
677
00:26:42,940 --> 00:26:43,600
guys.
678
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:48,600
Just putting it together.
679
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:52,500
Yeah, I think you got the right
680
00:26:52,500 --> 00:26:53,600
idea.
681
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:57,540
Well, I mean, is there any
682
00:26:57,540 --> 00:27:01,660
other ideas that you have for
683
00:27:01,660 --> 00:27:02,600
us?
684
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,320
Well, one thing that I was
685
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,600
thinking about with you guys,
686
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:12,600
maybe a road trip.
687
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:16,240
Something you guys both get to
688
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,600
explore together.
689
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,600
Some new places.
690
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:22,620
Oh, yeah. I've been wanting to
691
00:27:22,620 --> 00:27:24,600
take him to the Grand Canyon.
692
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,390
Oh, I've never been there
693
00:27:27,390 --> 00:27:28,600
before.
694
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,280
Yeah, well I think that would
695
00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:32,600
be awesome.
696
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,350
Is the Grand Canyon a place you
697
00:27:35,350 --> 00:27:38,600
would like to explore together?
698
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:40,730
I'm down to go anywhere with my
699
00:27:40,730 --> 00:27:42,600
mom if it's a road trip.
700
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:45,600
See, that's amazing.
701
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,730
It shows that he really does
702
00:27:47,730 --> 00:27:49,960
want to continue to bond with
703
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:50,600
you.
704
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:52,140
I think that's exactly what we
705
00:27:52,140 --> 00:27:52,600
need.
706
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,600
Some fresh air, open space.
707
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:56,960
Something new to explore
708
00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:00,000
together. Some new memories
709
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,600
that you guys could--
710
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,190
And maybe that will give him
711
00:28:05,190 --> 00:28:07,550
time to think about what he
712
00:28:07,550 --> 00:28:09,600
sees in his future.
713
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,830
Absolutely. There's definitely
714
00:28:12,830 --> 00:28:14,600
some more ideas out there.
715
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:17,820
Meeting some new people and
716
00:28:17,820 --> 00:28:21,460
some different career paths,
717
00:28:21,460 --> 00:28:22,600
right?
718
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:23,600
Absolutely.
719
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,470
Are there any old friends that
720
00:28:26,470 --> 00:28:28,600
he has out of state?
721
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:32,090
Maybe even try doing something
722
00:28:32,090 --> 00:28:33,600
like that.
723
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,760
I was thinking it may be really
724
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:37,680
beneficial for you to come
725
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:39,600
along on the road trip.
726
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,920
Oh. You know, I don't normally
727
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,900
do trips with my clients, but
728
00:28:45,900 --> 00:28:48,600
that would be an amazing idea.
729
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:52,340
A great way for me to actually
730
00:28:52,340 --> 00:28:56,600
watch you guys bond together.
731
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,110
I definitely think that would
732
00:28:58,110 --> 00:28:59,600
help with you being there.
733
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:00,930
We've had some really good
734
00:29:00,930 --> 00:29:02,480
success with the last couple of
735
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:03,600
sessions with you.
736
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,390
That's amazing. So is there a
737
00:29:05,390 --> 00:29:07,560
bit more communication that's
738
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:08,600
been going on?
739
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:10,770
A little bit. I mean, she hasn't
740
00:29:10,770 --> 00:29:12,600
been yelling at me as much.
741
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:14,600
This is true.
742
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:18,210
All right. Well, that's amazing
743
00:29:18,210 --> 00:29:21,100
because the fact that you are
744
00:29:21,100 --> 00:29:24,370
showing you're trying to change
745
00:29:24,370 --> 00:29:27,500
as well, I'm sure shows Austin
746
00:29:27,500 --> 00:29:30,640
that you are really interested
747
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,600
in fixing this together.
748
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,530
We should definitely plan
749
00:29:35,530 --> 00:29:37,600
something out together.
750
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,160
Do we have to stay in the same
751
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:41,600
tent though?
752
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,040
I think that's part of the
753
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:45,600
experience.
754
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:47,600
Yeah.
755
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,590
Definitely part of the
756
00:29:49,590 --> 00:29:52,310
experience for you guys to stay
757
00:29:52,310 --> 00:29:54,920
as close as possible, but I do
758
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,640
understand you might want some
759
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:58,600
space.
760
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,940
But I mean, even like a clamping
761
00:30:01,940 --> 00:30:05,770
trip, you know, that's great.
762
00:30:05,770 --> 00:30:07,960
It's plenty of space, but we're
763
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:09,600
still all together.
764
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,690
Definitely. Yeah, I feel like
765
00:30:11,690 --> 00:30:13,600
she always needs to do that.
766
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,180
She never really likes the
767
00:30:15,180 --> 00:30:16,920
camping with the tent because
768
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,700
of the bugs and the insects are
769
00:30:18,700 --> 00:30:20,600
always getting in the tent.
770
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:24,390
That would be amazing. Then you're
771
00:30:24,390 --> 00:30:26,740
all in one area. We're not in
772
00:30:26,740 --> 00:30:28,600
separate rooms.
773
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,470
And yeah, I've been wanting to
774
00:30:31,470 --> 00:30:34,580
bring that little travel propane
775
00:30:34,580 --> 00:30:37,450
grill out of your dad's shed.
776
00:30:37,450 --> 00:30:39,930
This is wonderful. I thought he
777
00:30:39,930 --> 00:30:40,600
took that with them.
778
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,690
Oh, no, there's a few things
779
00:30:43,690 --> 00:30:46,490
that I kind of set aside and
780
00:30:46,490 --> 00:30:49,820
hid from him to use myself. He
781
00:30:49,820 --> 00:30:51,600
didn't get that.
782
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,030
That's good. At least we still
783
00:30:54,030 --> 00:30:56,600
have all our camping supplies.
784
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,060
That's amazing. Like, just
785
00:30:59,060 --> 00:31:01,500
listening to you guys, I hear
786
00:31:01,500 --> 00:31:03,340
it already. You guys are
787
00:31:03,340 --> 00:31:05,350
already finding ways to connect
788
00:31:05,350 --> 00:31:07,600
in such a positive, loving way.
789
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:09,240
You know, this is the best
790
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:10,880
conversation we've had in
791
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:11,600
months.
792
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,690
Seriously, I love how this
793
00:31:13,690 --> 00:31:16,030
sounds. You guys both sound
794
00:31:16,030 --> 00:31:17,600
very optimistic.
795
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:19,390
Well, you are a pretty good
796
00:31:19,390 --> 00:31:21,600
therapist. I'll give you that.
797
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,140
Absolutely. I'm giving you five
798
00:31:23,140 --> 00:31:23,600
stars.
799
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:26,600
I really appreciate that, guys.
800
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,710
I definitely want to keep
801
00:31:28,710 --> 00:31:31,540
watching this progress continue
802
00:31:31,540 --> 00:31:32,600
to bloom.
803
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:36,370
You guys have no idea how long
804
00:31:36,370 --> 00:31:39,970
a lot of these sessions take
805
00:31:39,970 --> 00:31:44,600
for families to get close again.
806
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:49,190
It seems like you guys probably
807
00:31:49,190 --> 00:31:53,090
just had a bit of a rough, you
808
00:31:53,090 --> 00:31:57,840
know, with your husband leaving
809
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:00,600
and everything.
810
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:04,220
So now that we have the trip
811
00:32:04,220 --> 00:32:08,720
put together, let's talk about
812
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:10,600
home life.
813
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:14,360
I know you don't have too many
814
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,810
people you spend time with
815
00:32:17,810 --> 00:32:19,600
right now.
816
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:23,610
I think it would definitely be
817
00:32:23,610 --> 00:32:27,450
great for you to have more of a
818
00:32:27,450 --> 00:32:30,600
social life as well.
819
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,850
And so, since you're into
820
00:32:32,850 --> 00:32:35,360
gaming, maybe try to spend some
821
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,190
time with some gaming friends.
822
00:32:38,190 --> 00:32:40,540
Maybe you guys could find some
823
00:32:40,540 --> 00:32:43,090
interest together outside of
824
00:32:43,090 --> 00:32:45,600
the typical gaming world.
825
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:46,630
Yeah, I mean, I could
826
00:32:46,630 --> 00:32:47,940
definitely hit up a few of my
827
00:32:47,940 --> 00:32:49,400
online friends and see if they're
828
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:50,860
willing to get together and I
829
00:32:50,860 --> 00:32:52,150
guess go on a hike or do
830
00:32:52,150 --> 00:32:53,830
something outside rather than
831
00:32:53,830 --> 00:32:55,600
being online all the time.
832
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,200
See? I love that you're
833
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:01,170
thinking of things like that
834
00:33:01,170 --> 00:33:04,590
yourself or maybe even, I don't
835
00:33:04,590 --> 00:33:07,600
know, what's some other fun
836
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:10,840
activities your friends like to
837
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:12,970
do? Do they ever talk about it
838
00:33:12,970 --> 00:33:13,600
online?
839
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,290
Honestly, not really. I don't
840
00:33:16,290 --> 00:33:18,620
think any of us really get out
841
00:33:18,620 --> 00:33:20,600
that much these days.
842
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:22,510
You know, maybe I should host a
843
00:33:22,510 --> 00:33:23,600
gaming night.
844
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,580
Oh, that would be sweet, Mom.
845
00:33:25,580 --> 00:33:27,600
You really think so?
846
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,740
Yeah, I could cook a nice
847
00:33:29,740 --> 00:33:32,080
dinner for his friends and
848
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,490
maybe I need to get closer with
849
00:33:34,490 --> 00:33:35,600
them too.
850
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,910
It would definitely be great
851
00:33:37,910 --> 00:33:39,640
for you to see who he's
852
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,160
spending time with and I'm sure
853
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,680
he does make great choices in
854
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,930
who he is bonding with. So,
855
00:33:46,930 --> 00:33:49,110
maybe that would be another
856
00:33:49,110 --> 00:33:51,620
thing that would bring you guys
857
00:33:51,620 --> 00:33:53,600
a whole lot closer.
858
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:55,040
Yeah. I mean, is there any
859
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:56,830
other cool ideas you have, Mom?
860
00:33:56,830 --> 00:33:58,220
I mean, that's a pretty good
861
00:33:58,220 --> 00:33:58,600
one.
862
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:00,700
Wow. You know, I've been so
863
00:34:00,700 --> 00:34:03,070
negative about all this gaming,
864
00:34:03,070 --> 00:34:05,100
but it's just because I don't
865
00:34:05,100 --> 00:34:07,430
really understand it. Maybe I
866
00:34:07,430 --> 00:34:09,620
just need to play with you.
867
00:34:09,620 --> 00:34:11,280
Maybe play with you and your
868
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,110
friends with like really open
869
00:34:13,110 --> 00:34:14,700
my eyes up to this world and
870
00:34:14,700 --> 00:34:16,600
the possibilities there.
871
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,640
Do you think it's because it's
872
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,520
been taking him away from you
873
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,600
that maybe you're looking down
874
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:23,600
on gaming?
875
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,500
Wow. She's really onto
876
00:34:25,500 --> 00:34:26,600
something.
877
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:28,460
I mean, yeah, I mean, I guess
878
00:34:28,460 --> 00:34:30,100
if you want to play some games
879
00:34:30,100 --> 00:34:31,780
with me and my friends, that
880
00:34:31,780 --> 00:34:33,530
would definitely be a good way
881
00:34:33,530 --> 00:34:35,000
for us to still spend some
882
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:36,600
quality time together.
883
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:41,600
I think that's how you are.
884
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:44,780
I'm so glad you guys are fine,
885
00:34:44,780 --> 00:34:47,480
fighting ways to bond and get
886
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:49,600
closer together.
887
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,400
Well, I mean, you've been a
888
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,600
great help. That's for sure.
889
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,940
I'm glad you guys are
890
00:34:55,940 --> 00:34:58,600
benefiting from it.
891
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:02,400
Wow. This is the best I've felt
892
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,530
in this household in a long
893
00:35:05,530 --> 00:35:06,600
time.
894
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:11,130
Yeah. It's so good when you're
895
00:35:11,130 --> 00:35:13,980
able to build a bond again, but
896
00:35:13,980 --> 00:35:15,600
you've lost.
897
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:19,600
I completely agree.
898
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:23,640
And it's so great to see how
899
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:28,600
much you guys love each other.
900
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,180
Have you guys said you love
901
00:35:31,180 --> 00:35:34,060
each other in a while? Do you
902
00:35:34,060 --> 00:35:34,600
guys?
903
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:37,600
Mostly it's just been yelling.
904
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:39,230
Yeah, I haven't told her that
905
00:35:39,230 --> 00:35:40,600
in a really long time.
906
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:41,600
Me either.
907
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:43,680
Maybe you guys should start,
908
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:45,820
you know, it'd be great for you
909
00:35:45,820 --> 00:35:47,890
guys both to remind each other
910
00:35:47,890 --> 00:35:49,800
how much you care about each
911
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:50,600
other.
912
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,210
Yeah, I just always thought he
913
00:35:53,210 --> 00:35:55,710
knew but I do need to verbalize
914
00:35:55,710 --> 00:35:56,600
again.
915
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:58,400
Yeah, absolutely. It's always
916
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,600
good to hear positive things.
917
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:02,850
I guess if you say it first,
918
00:36:02,850 --> 00:36:04,600
mom, I'll say it.
919
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,600
Oh, son, I love you so much.
920
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,580
I love you too, mom. I'm glad
921
00:36:09,580 --> 00:36:11,670
we've been able to work through
922
00:36:11,670 --> 00:36:12,890
all our problems and
923
00:36:12,890 --> 00:36:15,050
differences with this therapist
924
00:36:15,050 --> 00:36:16,600
that you suggested.
925
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:20,250
I'm so glad you guys are doing
926
00:36:20,250 --> 00:36:21,600
so well.
927
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,640
It's so beautiful to see your
928
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:25,600
bond.
929
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:28,140
We've been doing a lot of
930
00:36:28,140 --> 00:36:31,210
talking about Austin and his
931
00:36:31,210 --> 00:36:32,600
hobbies.
932
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,900
We haven't talked too much
933
00:36:35,900 --> 00:36:37,600
about you.
934
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,080
What exactly have you been
935
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,570
doing since you've been so
936
00:36:42,570 --> 00:36:45,710
alone, not having your husband
937
00:36:45,710 --> 00:36:48,600
and Austin was preoccupied?
938
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:52,150
Well, I've really been focusing
939
00:36:52,150 --> 00:36:54,600
on self care lately.
940
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,600
I'm doing Pilates.
941
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,540
I joined a yoga studio and I've
942
00:36:59,540 --> 00:37:01,600
taken up running.
943
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,900
I'm really into running. It's
944
00:37:03,900 --> 00:37:05,600
such a freeing feeling.
945
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:08,590
Yeah, I'm actually prepping for
946
00:37:08,590 --> 00:37:10,600
my first marathon.
947
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,600
That is great.
948
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,600
I'm so happy to hear it.
949
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,190
Because I know you were
950
00:37:18,190 --> 00:37:21,190
stressed last time I talked to
951
00:37:21,190 --> 00:37:21,600
you.
952
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,250
And you definitely wanted
953
00:37:24,250 --> 00:37:27,660
someone to spend time with and
954
00:37:27,660 --> 00:37:30,600
bond over similar interests.
955
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,510
Such a great stress release to
956
00:37:33,510 --> 00:37:36,600
just get out there on a trail.
957
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:39,880
Not a care in the world. You
958
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,030
get on that natural runners,
959
00:37:42,030 --> 00:37:42,600
huh?
960
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,610
Yeah, I'm definitely in a
961
00:37:44,610 --> 00:37:46,720
better place with my stress
962
00:37:46,720 --> 00:37:47,600
lately.
963
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:49,800
That's amazing. So how often
964
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:52,730
are you going on runs, doing
965
00:37:52,730 --> 00:37:53,600
yoga?
966
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:55,280
Oh, I've been running four days
967
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:56,600
a week consistently.
968
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,600
That's great.
969
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:00,110
You know, Austin, we should
970
00:38:00,110 --> 00:38:01,600
start running together.
971
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:03,230
I mean, I guess we could do
972
00:38:03,230 --> 00:38:04,950
that, but my cardio kind of
973
00:38:04,950 --> 00:38:05,600
sucks.
974
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:06,950
I'm always running out of
975
00:38:06,950 --> 00:38:07,600
breath.
976
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,950
You got to start somewhere. You
977
00:38:09,950 --> 00:38:12,750
should have seen me the first
978
00:38:12,750 --> 00:38:13,600
week.
979
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,920
Yeah, definitely. I mean, even
980
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,690
if you just start with a jog
981
00:38:19,690 --> 00:38:21,340
and, you know, take as many
982
00:38:21,340 --> 00:38:22,600
breaks as needed,
983
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,810
I'm sure you'll be able to
984
00:38:25,810 --> 00:38:29,440
improve and definitely start
985
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:33,600
enjoying going on runs together.
986
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,510
Yeah, and I guess we could
987
00:38:35,510 --> 00:38:37,600
always start with a walk.
988
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,950
Honestly, that's that's a great
989
00:38:39,950 --> 00:38:42,840
start. Yeah, any kind of cardio
990
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:44,600
is very helpful.
991
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,900
I'll meet you where you are. We'll
992
00:38:47,900 --> 00:38:50,600
grow together in running.
993
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:54,600
Yeah, see, that is perfect.
994
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:56,800
And at least you have someone
995
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,240
to spend time with, you know,
996
00:38:59,240 --> 00:39:01,600
when you're going for a walk,
997
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:05,140
even if it's just 10, 20
998
00:39:05,140 --> 00:39:08,410
minutes a day, it's going to be
999
00:39:08,410 --> 00:39:11,780
a great improvement for both of
1000
00:39:11,780 --> 00:39:12,600
you.
1001
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:16,160
So I definitely agree. Now you
1002
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:19,340
guys have another fun hobby you
1003
00:39:19,340 --> 00:39:22,600
got to do together running.
1004
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:27,600
So what about yoga?
1005
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:31,410
Is that an option or is that a
1006
00:39:31,410 --> 00:39:33,600
little much?
1007
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:34,880
I mean, I guess I'm willing to
1008
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:35,600
give it a try.
1009
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:37,030
I have been feeling pretty
1010
00:39:37,030 --> 00:39:38,410
tight lately from all the
1011
00:39:38,410 --> 00:39:39,600
sitting that I do.
1012
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:41,780
Yeah, it is always great to
1013
00:39:41,780 --> 00:39:43,600
have a nice stretch.
1014
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:45,880
I do like taking my yoga
1015
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:49,000
classes myself and it does help
1016
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,600
mental health as well.
1017
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:55,730
Having meditation, breathing
1018
00:39:55,730 --> 00:39:57,600
exercises.
1019
00:39:57,600 --> 00:39:59,660
Yeah, especially when they have
1020
00:39:59,660 --> 00:40:01,040
like a room of therapy in a
1021
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:01,600
room.
1022
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:03,810
I feel like you got a whole
1023
00:40:03,810 --> 00:40:06,600
weight off of your shoulder.
1024
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:08,590
It's amazing. I love the room
1025
00:40:08,590 --> 00:40:10,820
of therapy. You've been trying
1026
00:40:10,820 --> 00:40:11,600
that too.
1027
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:14,320
Absolutely. It's definitely
1028
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,560
something I recommend for my
1029
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:17,600
clients.
1030
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,920
You know, a small easy stop
1031
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:24,360
that helps relieve a lot of
1032
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:25,600
tension.
1033
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,600
I couldn't agree more.
1034
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,970
Yeah, I'm so happy you guys
1035
00:40:31,970 --> 00:40:35,220
have so many things you got to
1036
00:40:35,220 --> 00:40:38,600
start enjoying together.
1037
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,770
Austin, are you enjoying these
1038
00:40:40,770 --> 00:40:42,600
sessions as much as I am?
1039
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:44,220
Of course, Mom. I'm so happy
1040
00:40:44,220 --> 00:40:45,740
that we've been able to have
1041
00:40:45,740 --> 00:40:47,600
these breakthroughs together.
1042
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:48,860
Like I don't think that we
1043
00:40:48,860 --> 00:40:50,600
could have done it without her.
1044
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,910
Definitely not. I feel so good
1045
00:40:52,910 --> 00:40:55,060
today and so hopeful for me and
1046
00:40:55,060 --> 00:40:56,600
Austin's future.
1047
00:40:56,600 --> 00:41:00,100
I'm so happy you guys have been
1048
00:41:00,100 --> 00:41:03,320
so open to learning some new
1049
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:07,600
ways of getting closer together.
1050
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:09,730
That is honestly one of the
1051
00:41:09,730 --> 00:41:12,220
biggest things a lot of people
1052
00:41:12,220 --> 00:41:14,250
aren't open to bettering
1053
00:41:14,250 --> 00:41:15,600
themselves.
1054
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:18,600
They just want to be right.
1055
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:29,940
So how do you guys think you're
1056
00:41:29,940 --> 00:41:33,600
doing?
1057
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:35,900
Honestly, the sessions have
1058
00:41:35,900 --> 00:41:37,600
been really great.
1059
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:39,600
So much progress.
1060
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:41,940
Your help has been really,
1061
00:41:41,940 --> 00:41:43,600
really awesome.
1062
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:44,600
Yeah?
1063
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:45,600
Yeah.
1064
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,600
That's amazing to hear.
1065
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:52,290
So you guys think you are
1066
00:41:52,290 --> 00:41:54,600
improving so far?
1067
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,600
At least today.
1068
00:41:56,600 --> 00:42:00,600
So, so much progress today.
1069
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,160
I want to make sure you guys do
1070
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:04,600
those trips.
1071
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:08,480
Take the art class, meet his
1072
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:12,600
friends, hike, yoga and running.
1073
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,990
Art class. I'm so glad you're
1074
00:42:15,990 --> 00:42:16,600
so excited about that.
1075
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:19,710
It's a very healthy thing for
1076
00:42:19,710 --> 00:42:22,600
you guys to do together.
1077
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:26,100
Lots of plans coming up. Austin,
1078
00:42:26,100 --> 00:42:28,140
we're going to be so busy. I
1079
00:42:28,140 --> 00:42:34,600
can't wait.
1080
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:35,600
Yeah.
1081
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:38,340
Absolutely. You guys have a lot
1082
00:42:38,340 --> 00:42:40,910
to do together. You guys should
1083
00:42:40,910 --> 00:42:43,270
find something to do every day
1084
00:42:43,270 --> 00:42:44,600
at this point.
1085
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:48,890
I mean, maybe even to start,
1086
00:42:48,890 --> 00:42:53,100
how about twice a week? You
1087
00:42:53,100 --> 00:42:56,900
know, I think that would be
1088
00:42:56,900 --> 00:42:58,600
amazing.
1089
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:02,670
And this summer definitely make
1090
00:43:02,670 --> 00:43:06,220
sure you do your trip. Grand
1091
00:43:06,220 --> 00:43:08,600
Canyon or Glamping.
1092
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:11,030
And I want you guys to put this
1093
00:43:11,030 --> 00:43:16,600
plan together. Together.
1094
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,690
Does that sound like something
1095
00:43:18,690 --> 00:43:20,600
you guys think you can do?
1096
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:21,810
I can't wait for all this
1097
00:43:21,810 --> 00:43:22,600
family time.
1098
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,820
Yeah, you already look like you're
1099
00:43:24,820 --> 00:43:27,600
glowing. It's amazing.
1100
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:40,600
I can't wait.
1101
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:42,290
All the things I'm going to
1102
00:43:42,290 --> 00:43:44,600
cook on my little propane grill.
1103
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:47,000
You know, I make a really
1104
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,600
amazing New York Strip.
1105
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:51,290
That is great. Is that
1106
00:43:51,290 --> 00:43:53,600
something you like, Austin?
1107
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:55,280
Yeah, I mean, I think that
1108
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:56,860
would be great if we did some
1109
00:43:56,860 --> 00:43:57,600
cooking.
1110
00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:00,310
Well, maybe that's another
1111
00:44:00,310 --> 00:44:02,880
thing on the list you guys got
1112
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:04,600
to do together.
1113
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,790
Cooking, one of your favorite
1114
00:44:06,790 --> 00:44:08,600
foods, I'm assuming.
1115
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:09,600
That sounds delicious.
1116
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:11,690
The more we cook together, the
1117
00:44:11,690 --> 00:44:13,660
less likely he is to burn the
1118
00:44:13,660 --> 00:44:14,600
house down.
1119
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,250
Absolutely. And practice does
1120
00:44:17,250 --> 00:44:19,760
make perfect. So maybe more
1121
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:22,600
cooking or even cooking class.
1122
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:29,600
That would be amazing.
1123
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:32,580
So I did hear there is a great
1124
00:44:32,580 --> 00:44:35,600
cooking class downtown.
1125
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:37,590
It's not too far from here,
1126
00:44:37,590 --> 00:44:38,600
actually.
1127
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,020
So maybe I'll look into that
1128
00:44:41,020 --> 00:44:44,130
for you guys and I'll send the
1129
00:44:44,130 --> 00:44:44,600
number.
1130
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,580
And I think that would be
1131
00:44:48,580 --> 00:44:50,600
amazing.
1132
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:53,370
You know, honestly, that is a
1133
00:44:53,370 --> 00:44:56,140
great thing to learn, since he
1134
00:44:56,140 --> 00:44:58,600
is almost out the house.
1135
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:02,690
You do want to have him know
1136
00:45:02,690 --> 00:45:07,570
some great ways to, you know,
1137
00:45:07,570 --> 00:45:11,600
live on his own safely.
1138
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,920
Oh, good. Yes. We've got to get
1139
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,510
him to a place in life where he
1140
00:45:17,510 --> 00:45:19,600
can survive on his own.
1141
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:21,900
That's my greatest worry is he's
1142
00:45:21,900 --> 00:45:23,690
going to be living with me
1143
00:45:23,690 --> 00:45:24,600
forever.
1144
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:29,900
Yeah. That's so amazing. You're
1145
00:45:29,900 --> 00:45:35,060
such a loving mom that wants a
1146
00:45:35,060 --> 00:45:38,600
bus for your son.
1147
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:42,650
He really is a sweet boy. Yeah.
1148
00:45:42,650 --> 00:45:46,600
He honestly is. He's amazing.
1149
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:49,400
He's done such an amazing job
1150
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,600
with him. Very respectful.
1151
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:55,600
And he does have goals in life.
1152
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,550
His goals might be a little
1153
00:45:58,550 --> 00:46:02,260
different than what we think,
1154
00:46:02,260 --> 00:46:05,600
but this is a different time.
1155
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:08,860
I feel like he's definitely
1156
00:46:08,860 --> 00:46:10,600
motivated.
1157
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:16,700
Maybe he just needed a bit of a
1158
00:46:16,700 --> 00:46:21,600
break from the norm.
1159
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:42,600
[Sounds of mom eating]
1160
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:44,550
Well, I feel pretty good about
1161
00:46:44,550 --> 00:46:46,600
this therapy session, mom.
1162
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:51,290
I feel amazing. Seriously, I'm
1163
00:46:51,290 --> 00:46:54,600
so happy for you guys.
1164
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:57,230
Same time next week. Yeah,
1165
00:46:57,230 --> 00:46:58,600
absolutely.
1166
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:00,720
Anytime you guys, just let me
1167
00:47:00,720 --> 00:47:03,100
know. You know where to contact
1168
00:47:03,100 --> 00:47:03,600
me.
1169
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:07,600
You've been amazing.
1170
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:12,600
[Sound of mom eating]
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