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[narrator] Tonight,
onCrimefeed,
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a special report,
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the Natalee Holloway
mystery solved.
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The search for Natalee
Holloway's killer
is finally over.
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Juran van der Sloot,
main suspect all along,
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admits he did it,
after two decades of deceit.
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How? The way many speculate.
Cold blooded and brutal,
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on a beach in Aruba.
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As far as I'm concerned,
it's over.
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It's over.
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[narrator] All the details
on thisCrimefeed,
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special report
with Nancy Grace.
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Private investigator,
Derrick Levasseur,
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and investigative reporter,
Mara S. Campo.
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Good evening.
I'm Nancy Grace.
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This is Crimefeed.
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I wanna thank you
for being with us.
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She goes missing
on her high-school
senior trip to Aruba.
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And tonight, neither she
nor her body
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have ever been found.
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But in a stunning twist,
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a judge's son admits,
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"I killed Natalee."
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Mara, what's the latest?
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Nancy, Joran van der Sloot
was not on trial
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for Natalee Holloway's murder.
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A judge in Alabama
sentenced him to 20 years
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for trying to swindle money
from Natalee's mother, Beth,
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for what turned out
to be bogus information
on her daughter's whereabouts.
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A condition of that plea deal
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was that he finally
tell the truth
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on this nearly
20-year-old case.
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In May 2005,
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high-school senior,
Natalee Holloway
was in Aruba,
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with more than 100
of her fellow classmates,
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celebrating their graduation.
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In the early hours
of May 30th,
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Natalee left a bar
with Dutch national,
Joran van der Sloot
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and two Surinamese brothers,
named Deepak
and Satish Kalpoe.
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The 18 year old was supposed
to be flying back to Alabama
later that day.
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But she was never seen
or heard from again.
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The three men were arrested
in her disappearance
two weeks later.
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Van der Sloot's father, Paul,
and a fifth man
were also detained.
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But they were all released
due to a lack of evidence.
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It is now that I ask
the world to help me.
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[Mara] For years,
Natalee's parents
searched for leads.
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And their daughter's
story went viral
all over the world.
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Five years to the very day
after Natalee vanished,
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Van der Sloot killed
21 year old
Stephany Flores
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in a hotel in Lima, Peru.
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She allegedly saw
a message,
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tying him to Natalee's murder.
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And he beat her
and smothered her to death.
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In 2012, Van der Sloot
pleaded guilty
to that murder.
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And was sentenced
to 28 years in prison.
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Those weren't his
only legal troubles.
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A federal grand jury
in Alabama indicted
Van der Sloot
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for trying to extort
Natalee's mother, Beth.
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She paid an initial $25,000
of a quarter million dollars
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for information
on her daughter's death.
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Joran told her attorney
that Natalee's remains
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were buried under
the foundation of a house.
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But that was a lie.
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That brings us to this summer.
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When Peru extradited
Van der Sloot to the U.S.
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He had initially pleaded
not guilty in the case.
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But just last week, a deal.
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Van der Sloot would
receive a 20 year sentence
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on the condition he revealed
what actually happened
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to Natalee,
all those years ago.
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This is part
of his confession.
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[Joran] We start
kissing each other.
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And I start feeling
her up again.
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And she tells me, no.
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I insist. I keep feeling
her up either way.
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She ends up kneeing
me in the crotch.
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I get up on the beach
and I kick her extremely
hard in the face.
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She's laying down unconscious,
possibly even dead.
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I see right next to her,
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there's a huge cinder block.
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I take this and I smash her
head in with it completely.
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I've gotta tell you something.
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In that courtroom,
as I watched
Beth Holloway,
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and she looked over
at Joran van der Sloot.
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And she turned around
and said to him,
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"You look like hell.
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I don't think
you're gonna make it."
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And he did, Mara.
He did, Derrick.
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He looked like a bum
that had been sleeping
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out on a park bench
for the last ten years.
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He was dissipated.
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All that liquor,
and drugs, and women
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behind bars in Peru, Mara.
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You can only imagine
what this moment means
for Beth Holloway.
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Because keep this in mind,
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this investigation has lasted
as long as Natalee's
entire life.
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This is been 18 years,
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that she has been waiting
for this moment,
to get some answers.
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So finally to be able
to be face to face with him
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and to feel that she
got some answers.
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Now a lot of people
are still questioning
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how much
of that confession is true.
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Now he did pass
a polygraph test.
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So, we have to assume
that some of it is true.
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But this man
is a pathological liar.
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His story has changed
countless times,
over the last 18 years.
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Yeah, it's bittersweet.
I'm happy for Beth
and David and Matt.
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But also as an investigator,
it's disappointing.
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Because, we had
this guy in 2005.
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And Aruban authorities
didn't allow the FBI
to come in and help.
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So we have a future death
of Stephany Flores in 2010.
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That could have
been prevented.
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And it also makes me wonder,
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how many other
victims are there.
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How many other times
could we have prevented this,
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if they took him
off the streets in 2005?
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[Nancy]
You're absolutely right.
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It's really important
that we hear
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Joran van der Sloot's
confession,
in his own words.
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But I wanna warn you,
it's very disturbing.
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[Joran]
I smashed her head in,
with it completely.
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Even though it's dark, I can
see her face is collapsed in.
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I'm scared.
I don't know what to do.
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And I, um...[clears throat]
I decide to...
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to take her and...
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put her into the ocean.
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So...
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I grab her and I...
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I half... I half-pull
and half-walk with her
into the ocean.
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Into the sea.
After that I walk home.
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'Kay. Right there,
that's a lie.
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Uh, we have looked and looked
and examined in person,
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where he says he
murdered Natalee.
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There at the fishermen's huts.
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And there is now way,
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that he walked out
into the ocean,
with her body.
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What did he say?
Oh, I guess
this is deep enough.
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I'll just leave her here.
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There's no way she would
not have washed ashore, Mara.
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Yeah, I mean there
are questions about that.
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How did the body
not wash ashore?
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How was the crime
scene not found?
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And, Derrick, I know
this is something, that you've
made excellent points on, is,
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how much blood may
have been left behind?
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And for me as a layperson,
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I'm asking you
as an investigator.
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-We're talking about a crime
scene that is a public beach.
-[Derrick] Mmm-hmm.
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How much would that have
complicated the investigation?
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And, how much obvious evidence
would have been left behind,
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on a public beach,
if what he's saying is true?
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[Derrick]
That's exactly right.
We had talked about this.
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First off, contamination.
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As a crime scene
investigator,
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you wanna try
to prevent people
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from entering the crime scene.
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And this being a public area,
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that could have
posed some issues.
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But, back to what
you said.
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When he describes
what he did to Natalee,
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and you think about
it from that perspective,
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there would have been
a lot of blood.
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And this happened at night.
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And at no point did he say
that he cleaned up
the crime scene...
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-[Nancy] Right.
-...after the fact.
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So you think about
it from that perspective.
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He dragged her body
to the water.
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How much blood would
have been left behind?
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And one more thing.
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This is still
an open investigation,
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according
to Aruban authorities.
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Did anybody make
any report of this?
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Was there blood found
on the beach the next
morning that they have--
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-[Nancy] I can
answer that for you.
-Oh, please.
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No.
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No one made a report.
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And no one followed up
on any of the evidence.
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As a matter of fact,
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Beth Holloway,
Ginger Stricklin,
Sheryl McCollum, and I
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went to Aruba
a few months ago,
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trying to dig up
new leads.
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And actually,
there are some new leads.
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But we went
to the fishermen's hut area,
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there on the beach
together,
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with Natalee's mother.
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And looked out at the water.
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Um, I recall there were
cinder blocks there.
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But I find his story
to be very farfetched.
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That is one of the shots,
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when we were in Aruba.
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Which I'll tell you
about later.
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But the theory that there
was gonna be blood
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on a beach in Aruba, no.
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As a matter of fact,
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Natalee's mother
flew down immediately
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when she was reported missing.
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And started searching,
including there.
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She actually spoke
to Joran van der Sloot.
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And cannot tell you
that he described
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Natalee's underwear to her.
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Well, Nancy, but that--
You're speaking to the part
of the confession
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that I actually do believe.
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Is that he sexually
assaulted her
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and that she fought off
his advances.
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And that's what
triggered his anger.
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And what that makes
me think of is,
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how terrified she
must have been
in her final moments
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on a beach,
in a foreign country,
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alone with this man,
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who is not respecting
her wishes.
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That she felt she had
to physically fight back
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to protect herself.
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And what I also
find very chilling is,
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keep in mind,
he was 17 years old,
when this happened.
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Think of how depraved
this man had to be
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to commit this act
when he was still
a teenager.
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The only thing about
Natalee's body,
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I agree with you,
I find it hard to believe
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that he would carry her out.
I think he said knee deep.
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-It's a lie.
-And she would come back.
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And the only thing
I will say is,
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you do have a lot
of sharks in that water.
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And you could have
a situation where
she's bleeding a lot.
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They could have
been attracted to that.
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Maybe why she would
never have washed ashore.
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-[Nancy]
Question for Derrick.
-Hit me with it.
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He, idiot,
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tells the mother
of Natalee.
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He describes in detail
the flowers
on her underwear.
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That's not what he says.
He says, "I was
feeling her up."
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His words, not mine.
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"And she kicked me."
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Have you noticed,
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the defendants--
I have.
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They always leave out
the worst parts
of what happened.
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They don't wanna say
what they really did.
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What's this all about?
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He's a psychopath.
What's it all about?
Control.
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In the moment when
the crime happens
and afterwards,
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he's trying to control
the narrative.
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He's given you a piece of it,
but not the full story.
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I completely agree with you.
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I think the initial assault,
the fighting back,
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was because of a sexual
assault that was taking place.
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That was taking place,
"Allegedly."
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-Allegedly.
-"Allegedly."
Let's just tack that on.
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Guys, can a judge's son
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and double killer
Joran van der Sloot
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ever be believed?
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Many say, no.
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One of Beth Holloway's
closest confidants,
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who is in the courtroom, next.
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Over the decades,
many theories
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about what could have
happened to Natalee Holloway
have emerged.
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Was Natalee kidnapped?
Was she sex trafficked?
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But it always came
back to one person,
and one person only.
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Judge's son,
Joran van der Sloot.
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Now with us,
joining us,
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straight out
of that courtroom confession,
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forensics expert,
Sheryl McCollum.
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Sheryl traveled with
Beth Holloway and myself
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to Aruba, to search
for evidence
in Natalee's death.
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We sat side by side
in court, Sheryl.
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I don't believe him,
except for one thing,
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"I killed Natalee."
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That's the only thing
he's telling the truth about,
Sheryl McCollum.
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I agree with you.
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But, there's more
to it than that for me.
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If you look at the murder
of Stephany Flores,
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and the murder
of Natalee Holloway,
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you and Derrick can attest to,
there's some similar
transactions here.
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He met them both
on the exact same day.
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He played poker with them,
the night before.
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He gets them separated
from a group of people.
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He takes them both
to a secluded area.
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He tries to have sex
with both of them.
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When they refuse,
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he hit them with
a part of his body.
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Stephany Flores
with his elbow.
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And he claims he kicked
Natalee in the head.
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Then he grabbed objects
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to complete
this bludgeoning,
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until they were murdered.
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After that,
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he either goes
into the ocean
and cleans up.
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With Stephany, he goes
into the shower
to clean up.
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With Natalee, he grabs
a cinder block.
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With Stephany, he takes
a tennis racket.
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He beats Stephany
Flores so bad,
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he cracked her skull
and broke her neck.
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[Nancy] I'm glad
you mentioned that.
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Because I want
you to hear
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Joran van der Sloot's
own words regarding Natalee.
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We're talking about
a so-called confession,
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Joran van der Sloot gave.
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Take a listen to this.
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[Joran] We lay down
together in the sand.
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And...
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we start kissing each other.
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I get her to kiss me again.
300
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And I start feeling
her up again.
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And she tells me, no.
302
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She tells me, she doesn't
want me to feel her up.
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Uh, I insist. I keep feeling
her up either way.
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Um, she ends up
kneeing me in the crotch.
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I get up on the beach.
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And I kick her extremely
hard in the face.
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Um...
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Yeah, she's laying
down unconscious.
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Possibly even...
even dead
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But definitely unconscious.
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And according to him,
he picks up a cinder block,
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and crack--
and beats her skull in.
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And he describes her
face being mashed in.
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Another thing, they arrest.
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When you and I
and Beth and Ginger
go to Aruba,
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we had not been
on the ground an hour.
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And we get detained.
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Beth and I actually
get detained,
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by, it looks like SWAT,
for Pete's sake.
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Remember? And let's see
that photo one, Charles.
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[Sheryl] So I am between
our cars and the Holiday Inn.
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Y'all go to the Holiday Inn
and here they come.
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-[Nancy] And try to get in.
-[Sheryl] And try to get in.
324
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But the police come,
they fall out of this car.
325
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They surround you and Beth.
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They start telling you
how you can be arrested.
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So I think it's important
to document it.
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So, first I take a selfie,
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with them in the background.
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And then they tell me,
I can be arrested
for taking a photograph.
331
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And then I slide behind
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to get the photograph
that you just showed.
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You and Beth were so tiny.
334
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And they're just telling you,
how they're fixed
to take you to jail.
335
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And you said
something so,
just unbelievably accurate.
336
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When you said to them,
"Let me get this straight.
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You are here
to arrest us in 17 minutes.
338
00:14:09,620 --> 00:14:14,931
But you haven't found a way
to arrest Joran van der Sloot
in 17 years."
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[Derrick] Sheryl,
I want to dive
in on what you said.
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'Cause I agree with you.
341
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As far as the comparisons
between Stephany and Natalee.
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And we also know, there were
some more bones found
on the island as well.
343
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And they're belonging
to a European female,
I believe.
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[Sheryl] Correct.
345
00:14:27,275 --> 00:14:29,965
So we think about
Joran's MO, right?
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He would go to these casinos.
He would allegedly
look for women
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who were getting ready
to leave the island.
348
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Even some allegations
that he used
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GHB during
these interactions with them.
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Do you think,
maybe even
before Natalee,
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definitely after Natalee,
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that there's more victims
out there that we
don't know of yet?
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-A hundred percent.
We have bones.
-[Derrick] Right.
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00:14:48,931 --> 00:14:51,000
-You think that could be tied
to Van der Sloot?
-That his people knew about...
355
00:14:51,034 --> 00:14:53,965
Oh, there's no question.
'Cause his friends
let us to the bones.
356
00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:57,206
When we were there,
we had bartender
after bartender,
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00:14:57,241 --> 00:14:59,275
after person
from these hotels,
telling us,
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this was his MO.
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00:15:00,827 --> 00:15:01,931
[Derrick] They knew him?
Taxi drivers,
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00:15:01,965 --> 00:15:03,758
-bartenders? Absolutely.
-Absolutely.
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And his father was there too.
362
00:15:06,137 --> 00:15:08,172
But the other thing
about Stephany Flores,
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there was GHB found
in her car.
364
00:15:10,620 --> 00:15:13,275
But not the $10,000
that she had won.
365
00:15:13,310 --> 00:15:15,517
So again,
if you watch his MO,
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and you watch what he does,
it's very clear.
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00:15:17,896 --> 00:15:21,551
So, Sheryl, in terms
of the investigation
in the crime scene,
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if the confession is true,
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how do you think he managed
to clean up that crime scene?
370
00:15:26,448 --> 00:15:29,517
Or was it just that Aruban
officials completely
botched the investigation?
371
00:15:29,551 --> 00:15:32,379
[Sheryl] Listen,
Aruba is known
for scuba diving.
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And they're known
for something
called drift diving.
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Where you just get
in the current
and it takes you out.
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He would know
those currents.
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00:15:39,482 --> 00:15:41,965
[Mara] But to Derrick's point
from earlier about the sand.
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I'm getting there.
I promise you.
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00:15:43,724 --> 00:15:46,310
But I want you to understand
he understood currents.
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00:15:46,344 --> 00:15:49,103
Because even when he was
captured with Stephany Flores,
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he had charts, detailing
currents in Peru.
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00:15:53,172 --> 00:15:54,482
Why would he know that?
381
00:15:54,517 --> 00:15:56,413
Why would he
be studying currents?
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00:15:56,448 --> 00:15:57,931
-[Mara] I did not know that.
-Okay.
383
00:15:57,965 --> 00:15:59,862
[Nancy] Hey, guys,
the other thing in the crime
scene, for Pete's sake.
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-It's a beach.
-It's a beach.
385
00:16:01,379 --> 00:16:03,931
Wind, surf,
high tide, low tide.
386
00:16:03,965 --> 00:16:06,310
-That's right.
-We keep talking about
the crime scene. It's a beach.
387
00:16:06,344 --> 00:16:08,413
There is no crime scene.
388
00:16:08,448 --> 00:16:09,448
[Sheryl] Exactly right.
389
00:16:09,482 --> 00:16:13,172
Sheryl, I want you to tell
Derrick and Mara
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about when we were there.
391
00:16:15,172 --> 00:16:17,551
And we were driving up
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00:16:17,586 --> 00:16:19,413
-to the top of Alto Vista.
-Sure.
393
00:16:19,448 --> 00:16:22,551
The little hill where
Beth went when
she was there,
394
00:16:22,586 --> 00:16:24,000
searching for Natalee.
395
00:16:24,034 --> 00:16:27,413
Getting no answers.
Getting thwarted by police,
left and right.
396
00:16:27,448 --> 00:16:29,413
And the cab driver
was driving her.
397
00:16:29,448 --> 00:16:31,586
She saw a cross
on the side of the road.
398
00:16:31,620 --> 00:16:33,344
She said, "Let me out."
399
00:16:33,379 --> 00:16:36,896
-And she described how she
threw herself on the dirt.
-Correct.
400
00:16:36,931 --> 00:16:38,241
And was beating the dirt.
401
00:16:38,275 --> 00:16:41,482
And praying,
"Where is my daughter?
Where is my daughter?"
402
00:16:41,517 --> 00:16:43,413
That photo, Sheryl,
403
00:16:43,448 --> 00:16:45,206
was when you and I
and Beth were there.
404
00:16:45,241 --> 00:16:47,482
And she got out
at that cross.
405
00:16:47,517 --> 00:16:50,586
In the end, at the time
she looked up,
she saw another cross.
406
00:16:50,620 --> 00:16:53,413
She went all the way
to the top of the hill.
407
00:16:53,448 --> 00:16:54,758
-Right.
-To the little chapel.
408
00:16:54,793 --> 00:16:56,862
-It's about as big
as your kitchen.
-Mmm-hmm.
409
00:16:56,896 --> 00:16:58,724
And she said
for the first time,
410
00:16:58,758 --> 00:17:00,137
I'll never forget it.
411
00:17:00,172 --> 00:17:02,137
She said at that moment,
412
00:17:02,172 --> 00:17:05,964
"I knew for the first time
that Natalee was dead."
413
00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:08,103
You know, it was such
a powerful moment.
414
00:17:08,137 --> 00:17:11,931
Because she said
when she fell to the ground,
at that first cross,
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00:17:11,964 --> 00:17:14,172
she just screamed to God,
416
00:17:14,205 --> 00:17:16,000
"Give her back to me."
417
00:17:16,034 --> 00:17:19,758
And she didn't understand
why would you
give her to me,
418
00:17:19,792 --> 00:17:21,517
to take her from me.
419
00:17:21,550 --> 00:17:24,000
And she said,
as she got to each cross,
420
00:17:24,034 --> 00:17:26,068
she said, you know,
she felt a little more peace
421
00:17:26,103 --> 00:17:27,964
and a little more
empowered.
422
00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:30,172
But when she got to the top,
423
00:17:30,206 --> 00:17:32,241
she didn't go
inside the chapel.
424
00:17:32,275 --> 00:17:34,655
She just laid down
on the ground
in front of it.
425
00:17:34,689 --> 00:17:36,931
And that was the first
time she knew
426
00:17:36,965 --> 00:17:39,689
-and accepted Natalee's gone.
-[Nancy] Hmm.
427
00:17:39,724 --> 00:17:41,379
-[Derrick] Yeah,
let's get into--
-Derrick, look at this photo
428
00:17:41,413 --> 00:17:47,517
of Beth, Sheryl, and me
in front of that tiny,
tiny, little chapel
429
00:17:47,551 --> 00:17:51,310
that Sheryl is describing.
It's our photo three,
430
00:17:51,344 --> 00:17:53,689
-and...
-But I gotta tell you
something else she said.
431
00:17:53,724 --> 00:17:55,827
So here,
we're crying with her.
432
00:17:55,862 --> 00:17:59,827
I mean,
she's telling us this story
that any momma, anybody,
433
00:17:59,862 --> 00:18:02,172
would just be gutted to hear.
434
00:18:02,206 --> 00:18:04,758
And as we're sitting there,
we're sitting right there,
435
00:18:04,793 --> 00:18:08,034
and she looks at Nancy and I,
and she says,
436
00:18:08,068 --> 00:18:10,379
"I know y'all think I'm crazy,
437
00:18:10,413 --> 00:18:14,689
but I brought
Natalee's passport,
just in case."
438
00:18:14,724 --> 00:18:17,413
-[Derrick softly] Ah.
-So, for 10 years or more,
439
00:18:17,448 --> 00:18:20,448
she said
she never left home, guys,
440
00:18:20,482 --> 00:18:22,482
-without Natalee's passport...
-[Sheryl] Mmm.
441
00:18:22,517 --> 00:18:25,758
...in case she got the call,
no matter where she was,
442
00:18:25,793 --> 00:18:27,551
that Natalee
had been found alive,
443
00:18:27,586 --> 00:18:30,310
and she could travel there
and bring Natalee home.
444
00:18:30,344 --> 00:18:31,827
That just speaks
to a mother's hope
445
00:18:31,862 --> 00:18:34,241
that you never give up hope
of finding your baby.
446
00:18:34,275 --> 00:18:36,689
And while she has
expressed relief
447
00:18:36,724 --> 00:18:38,689
at finally
having some answers,
448
00:18:38,724 --> 00:18:41,310
um, you can only imagine
how bittersweet this is
right now
449
00:18:41,344 --> 00:18:43,793
because the answer
also means finality.
450
00:18:43,827 --> 00:18:45,793
[Derrick] I definitely still--
I don't wanna put
a damper on it,
451
00:18:45,827 --> 00:18:48,068
but I'm still just struggling
with the idea
452
00:18:48,103 --> 00:18:49,620
of sense of urgency, right?
453
00:18:49,655 --> 00:18:51,310
Law enforcement
not acting right away.
454
00:18:51,344 --> 00:18:54,793
I know,
you're the expert in this,
but for me being on a beach,
455
00:18:54,827 --> 00:18:56,551
I think if they had
acted right away
456
00:18:56,586 --> 00:18:58,034
and went there
the next morning,
457
00:18:58,068 --> 00:18:59,931
maybe there would have been
something, forensically,
458
00:18:59,965 --> 00:19:01,965
that would've put us
in a different position
459
00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:05,655
where Beth wasn't traveling
days later to find
her daughter.
460
00:19:05,689 --> 00:19:07,620
They could've solved it
right away and known
what happened to her.
461
00:19:07,655 --> 00:19:10,517
Derrick, not only was there
not a sense of urgency,
462
00:19:10,551 --> 00:19:12,586
they told this momma,
463
00:19:12,620 --> 00:19:15,724
"Hey,
when they're done with her,
they'll turn her loose.
464
00:19:15,758 --> 00:19:17,655
-You'll see her just
walking down the street."
-[Nancy] That's exactly
465
00:19:17,689 --> 00:19:20,068
-what they said.
-Look, all the authorities
were talking about...
466
00:19:20,103 --> 00:19:21,896
-[Sheryl] Yes.
-..."Well, murder's not good
for tourist business."
467
00:19:21,931 --> 00:19:24,344
Right?
That's obviously part of it.
So, it's a lot deeper.
468
00:19:24,379 --> 00:19:26,827
I know we have
a short amount of time,
but it's deep.
469
00:19:26,862 --> 00:19:29,379
Sheryl McCollum, as always,
forensics expert,
470
00:19:29,413 --> 00:19:31,413
thank you
for being with us.
When we come back,
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00:19:31,448 --> 00:19:33,965
it always came back
to one person,
Joran van der Sloot.
472
00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,000
Is his punishment enough?
473
00:19:45,724 --> 00:19:48,827
Natalee would be
thirty-six years old today.
474
00:19:48,862 --> 00:19:50,827
I still miss her every day.
475
00:19:51,965 --> 00:19:54,551
It's been a very long
and painful journey,
476
00:19:54,586 --> 00:19:56,620
but we finally got the answers
477
00:19:56,655 --> 00:19:59,103
we've been searching for
for all these years.
478
00:19:59,137 --> 00:20:03,931
We finally, today,
we get justice for Natalee.
479
00:20:05,172 --> 00:20:08,448
Two long decades
of blood, sweat, and tears
480
00:20:08,482 --> 00:20:11,068
to solve the disappearance
and death of teen girl,
481
00:20:11,103 --> 00:20:13,793
American beauty
Natalee Holloway,
482
00:20:13,827 --> 00:20:18,000
including her mother,
Beth Holloway's
trips to Aruba.
483
00:20:18,034 --> 00:20:20,482
Joining me right now, uh,
484
00:20:20,517 --> 00:20:23,862
a beautiful friend
and confidant
485
00:20:23,896 --> 00:20:27,965
of Beth Holloway's,
Ginger Stricklin.
486
00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,793
Ginger traveled with Beth,
me, and Sheryl to Aruba
487
00:20:31,827 --> 00:20:34,172
to search for evidence
in Natalee's death.
488
00:20:34,206 --> 00:20:38,172
Ginger, this woman,
Beth Holloway,
489
00:20:38,206 --> 00:20:40,965
she was so poised.
490
00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,965
Remember, in court,
in the Hugo Black
Federal Courthouse
491
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,448
this past week,
not even a week ago,
492
00:20:46,482 --> 00:20:49,517
she, everyone was
sitting there, quietly,
493
00:20:49,551 --> 00:20:52,344
and of course,
there were armed bailiffs,
494
00:20:52,379 --> 00:20:54,655
sheriffs, guards,
at every door,
495
00:20:54,689 --> 00:20:56,724
which is common
when there is a sentencing
496
00:20:56,758 --> 00:20:59,344
in case the defendant
tries to make a run for it.
497
00:20:59,379 --> 00:21:04,068
Heavily guarded,
everyone was seated
and quiet.
498
00:21:04,103 --> 00:21:08,448
Sheriffs were trolling
the aisles, remember, Ginger?
499
00:21:08,482 --> 00:21:11,068
And then in walks Beth.
500
00:21:11,103 --> 00:21:14,689
-And there was a hush
that went over that courtroom.
-Yes.
501
00:21:14,724 --> 00:21:17,655
And of course,
she was beautiful, as always,
502
00:21:17,689 --> 00:21:22,758
but the pain was clearly
etched on her face,
Ginger Stricklin.
503
00:21:22,793 --> 00:21:24,482
Absolutely.
504
00:21:24,517 --> 00:21:27,827
Absolutely. I was so proud
505
00:21:27,862 --> 00:21:30,793
that she held herself
and she was so strong.
506
00:21:30,827 --> 00:21:32,827
And we saw that,
Nancy, in the courtroom.
507
00:21:32,862 --> 00:21:35,482
She did an amazing job,
508
00:21:35,517 --> 00:21:38,103
um, holding up through that.
509
00:21:38,137 --> 00:21:40,793
And then when she got to
speak with him,
510
00:21:40,827 --> 00:21:43,310
or get to, you know,
when she got to
511
00:21:43,344 --> 00:21:45,758
say to him
what she wanted to say,
512
00:21:45,793 --> 00:21:48,068
it was
a sense of accomplishment
513
00:21:48,103 --> 00:21:52,241
of a goal that
she had set out to
514
00:21:52,275 --> 00:21:54,655
finish what she started.
515
00:21:54,689 --> 00:21:58,310
Eighteen long years
of having this goal
516
00:21:58,344 --> 00:22:02,206
of having her daughter's
murder confessed.
517
00:22:02,241 --> 00:22:05,758
And knowing that
he had lied for so long,
518
00:22:05,793 --> 00:22:08,862
but just to have him
confess to these murders,
519
00:22:08,896 --> 00:22:11,551
or this murder and then,
of course, Stephany Flores.
520
00:22:11,586 --> 00:22:13,793
It just was a,
I think it was a,
521
00:22:13,827 --> 00:22:16,965
a satisfactory feeling
that she had,
522
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,000
you know,
a sense of accomplishment
523
00:22:19,034 --> 00:22:21,344
of something that she had
set out to make happen.
524
00:22:21,379 --> 00:22:23,758
You mentioned
Stephany Tatiana Flores,
525
00:22:23,793 --> 00:22:27,413
who was another murder victim
of Joran van der Sloot,
526
00:22:27,448 --> 00:22:32,344
to the day, five years later
that he murdered Natalee,
527
00:22:32,379 --> 00:22:35,551
same MO, modus operandi,
method of operation, Ginger,
528
00:22:35,586 --> 00:22:37,172
we've talked about this
in Aruba.
529
00:22:37,206 --> 00:22:39,827
He meet Stephany in a casino,
530
00:22:39,862 --> 00:22:42,413
befriends her,
tries to get her alone,
531
00:22:42,448 --> 00:22:46,241
and ends up smothering
and bludgeoning her dead.
532
00:22:46,275 --> 00:22:51,103
So, if Aruba had acted
when he murdered Natalee,
533
00:22:51,137 --> 00:22:53,586
Stephany Tatiana Flores
would be alive.
534
00:22:53,620 --> 00:22:57,000
But I want you,
Ginger, to tell everyone
535
00:22:57,034 --> 00:23:03,241
what Beth Holloway said
to Joran van der Sloot
in court.
536
00:23:04,793 --> 00:23:07,758
She stood up there,
so brave and so strong,
537
00:23:07,793 --> 00:23:12,241
and she turned around
with her feisty little self
and said,
538
00:23:12,275 --> 00:23:14,862
"You look like hell, Joran,
539
00:23:14,896 --> 00:23:17,275
and you will not survive."
540
00:23:17,310 --> 00:23:20,793
And it was almost like
everybody in that courtroom,
541
00:23:20,827 --> 00:23:23,275
and...[indistinct]
...both discussed this,
it was a good thing
542
00:23:23,310 --> 00:23:24,965
we were not sitting
side-by-side
543
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:26,413
because we would've
had a fight.
544
00:23:26,448 --> 00:23:29,586
It was like
Beth gave a gut punch
545
00:23:29,620 --> 00:23:33,896
to him right there
for everybody there.
546
00:23:33,931 --> 00:23:36,275
That's why I feel like,
you know, it was--
547
00:23:36,310 --> 00:23:40,172
She's waited so long
to have these words to him,
548
00:23:40,206 --> 00:23:42,655
to get to him,
and give him a punch.
549
00:23:42,689 --> 00:23:46,172
-And we all felt that,
and we were so proud of her...
-[Mara] Mmm.
550
00:23:46,206 --> 00:23:48,827
...for being able to
say this to him.
551
00:23:48,862 --> 00:23:51,482
Ginger, you know,
there have been questions
552
00:23:51,517 --> 00:23:54,275
about how much
of this confession is true.
553
00:23:54,310 --> 00:23:57,000
And clearly,
it was very important,
understandably,
554
00:23:57,034 --> 00:23:59,310
to Beth that
he took responsibility
555
00:23:59,344 --> 00:24:01,172
for murdering Natalee.
556
00:24:01,206 --> 00:24:03,758
But in terms of the specifics
of the confession,
557
00:24:03,793 --> 00:24:05,517
does she believe
the entire thing,
558
00:24:05,551 --> 00:24:07,206
or are there still questions
about whether or not
559
00:24:07,241 --> 00:24:08,862
he's lying in parts of this?
560
00:24:09,586 --> 00:24:11,827
She believes the most of it.
561
00:24:11,862 --> 00:24:13,793
And I think
there's parts, yes,
562
00:24:13,827 --> 00:24:18,413
that I think she feels like
he probably still is
lying about,
563
00:24:18,448 --> 00:24:20,034
because he's lied so much.
564
00:24:20,068 --> 00:24:21,689
He's just told lie after lie.
565
00:24:21,724 --> 00:24:23,379
-But, I--
-[Nancy] Ginger,
we've counted up 10
566
00:24:23,413 --> 00:24:25,310
different stories he's told,
567
00:24:25,344 --> 00:24:29,448
and speaking of
Joran van der Sloot's
so-called confession,
568
00:24:29,482 --> 00:24:32,344
take a listen to this.
569
00:24:32,379 --> 00:24:35,793
[Joran in recording]
Yeah, Deepak drops me off
at a place, uh,
570
00:24:35,827 --> 00:24:40,620
a little right
of the Marriott hotel,
known as the Fisherman's Huts.
571
00:24:40,655 --> 00:24:47,103
-We walk along the beach, uh--
-[man 1] Um, do Deepak
and Satish
572
00:24:47,137 --> 00:24:49,000
get out, come with, uh...
573
00:24:49,034 --> 00:24:51,724
-What happens to them?
-[Joran] Uh, Deepak
and Satish leave.
574
00:24:51,758 --> 00:24:55,655
Uh, they leave, uh,
575
00:24:55,689 --> 00:24:58,137
they go back to their home.
576
00:24:58,172 --> 00:25:00,275
I assume
they go back to their home.
577
00:25:00,310 --> 00:25:03,172
Um, they get in their car
and they leave.
578
00:25:03,206 --> 00:25:06,620
Ginger Stricklin,
I don't believe that.
579
00:25:06,655 --> 00:25:09,068
I believe
Deepak and Satish Kalpoe
580
00:25:09,103 --> 00:25:11,172
know exactly what happened,
581
00:25:11,206 --> 00:25:14,000
and that
he's lying about that too,
582
00:25:14,034 --> 00:25:16,448
because they could
rat him out,
583
00:25:16,482 --> 00:25:20,206
and this could be prosecuted
as a murder.
584
00:25:20,241 --> 00:25:22,172
I do too, Nancy. I really do.
585
00:25:22,206 --> 00:25:24,758
I think they know
more than what, um,
586
00:25:24,793 --> 00:25:28,344
than what they're,
he's telling,
587
00:25:28,379 --> 00:25:30,103
and I think
that's another lie.
588
00:25:30,137 --> 00:25:32,517
Um, it was just
a heinous murder,
589
00:25:32,551 --> 00:25:35,275
and we know that
he's capable of that.
590
00:25:35,310 --> 00:25:36,827
No doubt in my mind,
591
00:25:36,862 --> 00:25:40,517
Natalee kneed him
when she did not want
592
00:25:40,551 --> 00:25:44,413
the sexual advances,
and it made him mad.
593
00:25:44,448 --> 00:25:46,379
But if Aruban authorities
wanna pursue this,
594
00:25:46,413 --> 00:25:47,793
they've already asked
for the case files.
595
00:25:47,827 --> 00:25:49,655
They wanna know more
about this confession.
596
00:25:49,689 --> 00:25:52,275
Would Beth still be
willing to cooperate
with them?
597
00:25:52,310 --> 00:25:54,172
Because maybe
through corroboration,
598
00:25:54,206 --> 00:25:56,310
other individuals
like the Kalpoe brothers
599
00:25:56,344 --> 00:25:59,206
potentially could still
be charged. We don't know yet.
600
00:25:59,241 --> 00:26:01,241
Absolutely. Absolutely.
601
00:26:01,275 --> 00:26:04,896
I think she is definitely,
she's relieved here,
602
00:26:04,931 --> 00:26:08,482
you know,
in the United States here,
um, with this whole battle.
603
00:26:08,517 --> 00:26:10,137
But, yes, absolutely.
604
00:26:10,172 --> 00:26:13,103
And I think they should
have to
605
00:26:13,137 --> 00:26:15,068
be responsible for this,
606
00:26:15,103 --> 00:26:17,275
especially after this
confession has come out.
607
00:26:17,310 --> 00:26:21,482
And it, the United States
should boycott Aruba
608
00:26:21,517 --> 00:26:23,275
if nothing's done,
in my opinion,
609
00:26:23,310 --> 00:26:26,310
there should be no flights
from the U.S. to there.
610
00:26:26,344 --> 00:26:27,827
Just a boycott.
And I know that's
611
00:26:27,862 --> 00:26:30,275
probably not gonna happen,
won't happen.
612
00:26:30,310 --> 00:26:33,172
But, somebody needs to
take a stand in Aruba
613
00:26:33,206 --> 00:26:35,551
since that
confession happened here.
614
00:26:35,586 --> 00:26:39,000
Ginger Stricklin,
truer words were never spoken.
615
00:26:39,034 --> 00:26:41,724
We are taking a stand.
But, can I tell you this?
616
00:26:41,758 --> 00:26:43,275
I almost hate to tell you.
617
00:26:43,310 --> 00:26:46,000
After Natalee Holloway
first went missing,
618
00:26:46,034 --> 00:26:49,862
do you know tourism in Aruba
from America actually went up?
619
00:26:49,896 --> 00:26:52,103
But you know what?
We can keep trying.
620
00:26:52,137 --> 00:26:54,344
Ginger Stricklin,
you're awesome.
621
00:26:54,379 --> 00:26:55,896
Thank you for being with us.
622
00:26:55,931 --> 00:26:57,793
What is the truth?
623
00:26:57,827 --> 00:26:59,758
Will Joran van der Sloot
624
00:26:59,793 --> 00:27:02,275
find another way
to escape justice?
625
00:27:02,310 --> 00:27:05,275
Now, Aruban cops demand
van der Sloot's confession.
626
00:27:05,310 --> 00:27:09,000
Why? Will they somehow
mount a murder prosecution?
627
00:27:21,586 --> 00:27:23,965
In exchange
for a detailed confession
628
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,482
on what really happened
to Natalee Holloway,
629
00:27:26,517 --> 00:27:29,413
judge is saying
Joran van der Sloot
gets 20 years
630
00:27:29,448 --> 00:27:32,724
for extorting
a grieving mother,
Beth Holloway.
631
00:27:32,758 --> 00:27:36,931
The 20 years runs concurrently
or same time,
632
00:27:36,965 --> 00:27:39,000
with 28 years he gets
for the murder
633
00:27:39,034 --> 00:27:42,517
of another young woman,
Stephany Tatiana Flores.
634
00:27:42,551 --> 00:27:45,724
He murdered Stephany
five years, to the day,
635
00:27:45,758 --> 00:27:47,551
from when he murdered Natalee.
636
00:27:47,586 --> 00:27:51,862
But will he really
stay behind bars?
637
00:27:51,896 --> 00:27:55,551
The one thing
I heard the judge say
over and over
638
00:27:55,586 --> 00:27:59,275
in the federal courtroom
at the Hugo Black Building
in Birmingham
639
00:27:59,310 --> 00:28:01,379
this past week was,
640
00:28:01,413 --> 00:28:04,206
"If, for any reason,
you get out early,
641
00:28:04,241 --> 00:28:05,827
whether there's
a change in the law..."
642
00:28:05,862 --> 00:28:08,413
For instance, think about
Charles Manson. Right?
643
00:28:08,448 --> 00:28:11,034
He got the death penalty,
but the law changed.
644
00:28:11,068 --> 00:28:14,206
So, he grew to a ripe old age
behind bars.
645
00:28:14,241 --> 00:28:17,896
She's saying,
"If the law changes
and you get out early,
646
00:28:17,931 --> 00:28:19,655
you gotta come back
to the U.S.
647
00:28:19,689 --> 00:28:22,241
-If, for whatever reason,
you get out early..."
-[Mara] Yeah.
648
00:28:22,275 --> 00:28:23,862
"...you must come back
to the U.S.
649
00:28:23,896 --> 00:28:25,448
to finish serving
this sentence."
650
00:28:25,482 --> 00:28:26,965
Will it ever happen?
651
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,413
I mean, can he be apprehended?
Derrick?
652
00:28:29,448 --> 00:28:31,172
Yeah. I mean,
I definitely don't think
he's gonna get out
653
00:28:31,206 --> 00:28:33,137
any time soon
'cause you have to
remember in 2021,
654
00:28:33,172 --> 00:28:36,000
he was also, uh,
convicted of cocaine.
655
00:28:36,034 --> 00:28:38,137
He was trafficking cocaine
in the prisons in Peru.
656
00:28:38,172 --> 00:28:39,862
So, we got
another 18 years for that.
657
00:28:39,896 --> 00:28:41,413
[Nancy] Is that concurrent
or consecutive?
658
00:28:41,448 --> 00:28:43,275
So, it's gonna be consecutive,
but the thing is,
659
00:28:43,310 --> 00:28:46,379
he can't do more than 35 years
in total based on Peru law.
660
00:28:46,413 --> 00:28:48,724
So, he can't--
Unless you get
a life sentence,
661
00:28:48,758 --> 00:28:50,758
you have to be let out
after 35 years.
662
00:28:50,793 --> 00:28:52,586
So, if he does that time,
663
00:28:52,620 --> 00:28:54,965
that would run concurrently
with the 20-year sentence
664
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:58,137
here in the United States,
so he would be out by 2045.
665
00:28:58,172 --> 00:29:00,448
Which, to me,
is still crazy to think that
666
00:29:00,482 --> 00:29:02,551
this entire show we've been
talking about this guy
667
00:29:02,586 --> 00:29:03,896
and what he's capable of,
668
00:29:03,931 --> 00:29:05,551
-that he could be
walking the streets again.
-Right.
669
00:29:05,586 --> 00:29:07,724
So, he's gonna get out
when he's in his 50s.
670
00:29:07,758 --> 00:29:10,379
And so the question...
And then that is
taking into account
671
00:29:10,413 --> 00:29:12,413
this 20-year sentence
that is running concurrently.
672
00:29:12,448 --> 00:29:15,034
So, assuming he serves
his entire sentence in Peru,
673
00:29:15,068 --> 00:29:16,689
he gets out in 2045.
674
00:29:16,724 --> 00:29:18,586
He will be in his 50s,
and he will be facing
675
00:29:18,620 --> 00:29:20,137
no more prison time
for any of the crimes
676
00:29:20,172 --> 00:29:21,689
that we know of at this time.
677
00:29:21,724 --> 00:29:23,344
And so, I think
the legitimate question
678
00:29:23,379 --> 00:29:25,034
that a lot of people
are asking is,
679
00:29:25,068 --> 00:29:27,724
"Is this really justice
for someone that we know
680
00:29:27,758 --> 00:29:29,344
has killed two women?
681
00:29:29,379 --> 00:29:32,655
For someone that clearly
seems to be a psychopath?"
682
00:29:32,689 --> 00:29:35,965
You know, his motivation
for extorting Beth Holloway
was revenge
683
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,551
because she had been
making his life difficult
684
00:29:38,586 --> 00:29:40,482
in searching for her daughter.
685
00:29:40,517 --> 00:29:42,517
This is a depraved human being
686
00:29:42,551 --> 00:29:44,448
that will be out
back on the streets in,
687
00:29:44,482 --> 00:29:46,689
you know,
when he's still
relatively young.
688
00:29:46,724 --> 00:29:50,517
I heard the judge
keep mentioning the year 2043.
689
00:29:50,551 --> 00:29:52,689
Um, what it boils down to is,
690
00:29:52,724 --> 00:29:55,413
if he is released early
in Peru,
691
00:29:55,448 --> 00:29:57,206
which is entirely possible,
692
00:29:57,241 --> 00:29:59,758
and as of right now,
with us sitting on this set,
693
00:29:59,793 --> 00:30:01,206
he is still in the U.S.
694
00:30:01,241 --> 00:30:02,758
Now, a lot of people
have said,
695
00:30:02,793 --> 00:30:05,241
"He doesn't wanna
get back to Peru."
696
00:30:05,275 --> 00:30:08,068
No, he wants to
go back to Peru,
and I'll tell you why.
697
00:30:08,103 --> 00:30:09,758
In his Peruvian jail,
698
00:30:09,793 --> 00:30:12,482
he gets alcohol,
he gets drugs.
699
00:30:12,517 --> 00:30:14,551
He has unlimited
conjugal visits.
700
00:30:14,586 --> 00:30:16,862
He's already had one child,
one wife,
701
00:30:16,896 --> 00:30:18,310
and now he's got a girlfriend.
702
00:30:18,344 --> 00:30:21,241
So, yeah. He wants to
go back to Peru.
703
00:30:21,275 --> 00:30:23,758
The only hope
many of us held out
704
00:30:23,793 --> 00:30:26,758
is that Aruba,
since there's a confession,
705
00:30:26,793 --> 00:30:29,379
will now prosecute him
for murder.
706
00:30:29,413 --> 00:30:31,793
I mean, we've given 'em
the case on a silver platter.
707
00:30:31,827 --> 00:30:36,758
But, Aruba has a homicide
statute of limitations
of 12 years.
708
00:30:36,793 --> 00:30:38,344
-[Derrick] Ridiculous.
-So, uh...
709
00:30:38,379 --> 00:30:41,275
[Mara] But there are,
potentially,
710
00:30:41,310 --> 00:30:44,310
some ways to extend
that statute of limitations.
711
00:30:44,344 --> 00:30:46,793
And one of those ways
is if they can demonstrate
712
00:30:46,827 --> 00:30:48,586
some kind of fraudulent
concealment.
713
00:30:48,620 --> 00:30:51,034
That can reset things.
And I think in this case,
714
00:30:51,068 --> 00:30:53,413
you can make a case that
there were several instances
715
00:30:53,448 --> 00:30:54,655
of fraudulent concealment.
716
00:30:54,689 --> 00:30:56,310
So, the real question is,
717
00:30:56,344 --> 00:30:59,517
do Aruban authorities
want to prosecute this case?
718
00:30:59,551 --> 00:31:00,793
And every indication
that we've gotten
719
00:31:00,827 --> 00:31:02,896
over the last 18 years
says they really don't.
720
00:31:02,931 --> 00:31:04,758
[Derrick] Well,
they have asked
for the case files,
721
00:31:04,793 --> 00:31:06,793
so my hope is twofold.
I know, I know.
722
00:31:06,827 --> 00:31:08,275
-[Nancy chuckles]
-It's twofold here.
723
00:31:08,310 --> 00:31:10,275
-First and foremost,
there's another--
-I don't know whether to laugh
724
00:31:10,310 --> 00:31:12,827
or cry, so I chose
kind of a...
725
00:31:12,862 --> 00:31:14,689
With law enforcement,
there's an...
726
00:31:14,724 --> 00:31:16,034
[Nancy] Aruba has
done nothing.
727
00:31:16,068 --> 00:31:17,758
You know what Beth told me?
728
00:31:17,793 --> 00:31:20,206
When her daughter
goes missing,
729
00:31:20,241 --> 00:31:22,137
she flies down, she's running,
730
00:31:22,172 --> 00:31:26,620
literally running around Aruba
trying to retrace Natalee's
steps.
731
00:31:26,655 --> 00:31:27,689
She goes to the police office.
732
00:31:27,724 --> 00:31:29,827
She sits outside
the chief of police office.
733
00:31:29,862 --> 00:31:32,827
For five hours,
she sits there.
734
00:31:32,862 --> 00:31:34,965
They keep saying,
"He's gone. He's..."
735
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:36,793
Finally, he comes
out of his office,
736
00:31:36,827 --> 00:31:39,413
and he's been
back there eating,
737
00:31:39,448 --> 00:31:41,137
and having his hair cut.
738
00:31:41,172 --> 00:31:44,482
-[Derrick] Mmm.
-While the mother of this,
now we know murdered girl,
739
00:31:44,517 --> 00:31:47,310
is out there crying,
trying to speak to
the chief of police.
740
00:31:47,344 --> 00:31:48,655
They're not gonna help.
741
00:31:48,689 --> 00:31:51,275
Think how bad this looks
for Aruban authorities,
though, right?
742
00:31:51,310 --> 00:31:53,586
So, you have a situation
where the FBI
743
00:31:53,620 --> 00:31:54,827
initially wanted
to get involved.
744
00:31:54,862 --> 00:31:56,379
-Aruba didn't
want 'em involved.
-[Nancy] Mmm.
745
00:31:56,413 --> 00:31:59,172
Now, Joran gets transferred
to United States,
746
00:31:59,206 --> 00:32:01,448
FBI get in there,
they get a confession.
747
00:32:01,482 --> 00:32:03,310
This makes Aruban authorities
look bad.
748
00:32:03,344 --> 00:32:05,551
This makes their whole
government look terrible.
749
00:32:05,586 --> 00:32:08,103
They have to
try to correct this
because there's no trust
750
00:32:08,137 --> 00:32:10,793
in that community now
with that law enforcement
agency.
751
00:32:10,827 --> 00:32:12,379
So, there's two things
that could happen here.
752
00:32:12,413 --> 00:32:14,586
Yes, they could try to find
a loophole for Joran,
753
00:32:14,620 --> 00:32:16,413
but also, like I said earlier
with Sheryl,
754
00:32:16,448 --> 00:32:18,793
there may be other cases
that haven't been closed yet
755
00:32:18,827 --> 00:32:20,172
that they're still
trying to connect to.
756
00:32:20,206 --> 00:32:21,931
Now we have
a profile on Joran.
757
00:32:21,965 --> 00:32:23,724
Could he be connected
to other cases?
758
00:32:23,758 --> 00:32:26,344
There may be other charges
brought for completely
different victims.
759
00:32:26,379 --> 00:32:28,137
-That's my hope.
-[Nancy] FYI,
we've had a profile
760
00:32:28,172 --> 00:32:30,413
since he murdered
Stephany Tatiana Flores.
761
00:32:30,448 --> 00:32:32,000
-[Derrick] It's true.
That is true.
-Many years ago.
762
00:32:32,034 --> 00:32:33,689
-We know he murdered Natalee.
-[Derrick] Now we have
a pattern.
763
00:32:33,724 --> 00:32:35,241
-Now we have a pattern to it.
-Yes.
764
00:32:35,275 --> 00:32:37,620
-Mara?
-Well, I think that
sadly Ginger was right.
765
00:32:37,655 --> 00:32:38,827
Ginger said
earlier in the show
766
00:32:38,862 --> 00:32:40,379
that the only thing
that's really gonna move this
767
00:32:40,413 --> 00:32:42,517
is some kind of boycott.
And in their case,
768
00:32:42,551 --> 00:32:43,827
it would have to be
a tourism boycott.
769
00:32:43,862 --> 00:32:45,413
-[Derrick] Mmm.
-No one's gonna
ban flights to Aruba,
770
00:32:45,448 --> 00:32:47,000
but if Americans say,
"You know what?
771
00:32:47,034 --> 00:32:49,586
We're gonna go somewhere else.
There are a lot of other
beautiful places to go."
772
00:32:49,620 --> 00:32:51,551
-Then, maybe that will
motivate some action.
-I wouldn't let my daughter
773
00:32:51,586 --> 00:32:52,724
go over there,
that's for sure.
774
00:32:52,758 --> 00:32:54,379
I swore I would never
go to Aruba
775
00:32:54,413 --> 00:32:56,068
after Natalee went missing.
776
00:32:56,103 --> 00:32:58,896
I went back
one time with Beth.
777
00:32:59,965 --> 00:33:01,241
Coming up.
778
00:33:01,275 --> 00:33:03,482
Why is it that
so many victims,
779
00:33:03,517 --> 00:33:07,034
victims of domestic abuse
are afraid to speak out?
780
00:33:07,068 --> 00:33:10,137
How can we help victims
of domestic violence?
781
00:33:10,172 --> 00:33:11,275
Next.
782
00:33:16,172 --> 00:33:19,551
One in four women,
one in 10 men,
783
00:33:19,586 --> 00:33:22,758
experience sex violence
or physical violence,
784
00:33:22,793 --> 00:33:26,620
and or stalking
by an intimate partner
here in the U.S.
785
00:33:26,655 --> 00:33:30,344
Twenty-four people victimized
every minute that passes.
786
00:33:30,379 --> 00:33:34,068
Sixty-five percent of victims
who come forward say,
787
00:33:34,103 --> 00:33:36,103
"No one helped."
788
00:33:36,137 --> 00:33:38,586
October, domestic violence
awareness month.
789
00:33:38,620 --> 00:33:41,620
In its annual
No Excuse For Abuse campaign,
790
00:33:41,655 --> 00:33:43,689
ID partners with No More
791
00:33:43,724 --> 00:33:47,103
to end domestic abuse
and sex violence.
792
00:33:47,137 --> 00:33:49,275
With us now, Jane Randel.
793
00:33:49,310 --> 00:33:54,344
Co-founder of No More,
to end domestic violence
and sex assault.
794
00:33:54,379 --> 00:33:59,000
Jane, honor and privilege
to have you with us here
on Crimefeed.
795
00:33:59,034 --> 00:34:02,379
-[Jane] Thank you.
-If you are in
a violent relationship,
796
00:34:02,413 --> 00:34:04,172
what can you do?
797
00:34:04,206 --> 00:34:06,827
The first thing I want
anybody in a violent
relationship
798
00:34:06,862 --> 00:34:08,757
right now to know is that
that you are not alone,
799
00:34:08,793 --> 00:34:10,551
and there are people
that can help.
800
00:34:10,585 --> 00:34:12,896
We are very fortunate,
in our country.
801
00:34:12,931 --> 00:34:14,620
We have a lot of resources.
802
00:34:14,655 --> 00:34:16,896
The National Domestic
Violence Hotline for one.
803
00:34:16,931 --> 00:34:19,137
You can chat, you can text,
you can speak.
804
00:34:19,172 --> 00:34:22,379
Um, an app called Bright Sky,
which is relatively new
805
00:34:22,413 --> 00:34:24,206
that you can download.
It looks like a weather app.
806
00:34:24,241 --> 00:34:26,241
But if you put
your zip code in,
807
00:34:26,275 --> 00:34:28,379
it tells you
all your local resources.
808
00:34:28,413 --> 00:34:31,034
You know, the statistic
that you just showed,
809
00:34:31,068 --> 00:34:33,896
about 65% of people came...
810
00:34:33,931 --> 00:34:36,206
said no one helped them
when they came forward,
811
00:34:36,241 --> 00:34:38,068
it's because the public,
812
00:34:38,103 --> 00:34:40,793
A, still doesn't wanna
talk about domestic violence.
813
00:34:40,827 --> 00:34:43,482
And B, doesn't really know
what to do
814
00:34:43,516 --> 00:34:45,862
if someone they care about,
815
00:34:45,896 --> 00:34:49,275
or know, or work with,
um, comes forward.
816
00:34:49,310 --> 00:34:51,585
And that's something
that we need to try and work
817
00:34:51,620 --> 00:34:53,931
to normalize the conversation,
right?
818
00:34:53,965 --> 00:34:55,862
People feel so much
shame and stigma.
819
00:34:55,896 --> 00:34:58,068
But if we can bring it out
into the open,
820
00:34:58,103 --> 00:35:00,103
that will help dissipate that.
821
00:35:00,137 --> 00:35:02,793
There's shame and stigma,
and also the perception
from some that,
822
00:35:02,827 --> 00:35:04,793
"Well, these are
family matters.
I don't wanna pry."
823
00:35:04,827 --> 00:35:07,689
-[Jane] Mmm-hmm.
-If you suspect that
someone is suffering,
824
00:35:07,724 --> 00:35:09,241
or is a victim
of domestic abuse,
825
00:35:09,275 --> 00:35:11,862
what can you do to help them?
826
00:35:11,896 --> 00:35:15,551
[Jane] You can...
These are people often
who are very isolated.
827
00:35:15,586 --> 00:35:18,275
Their abuser has told them,
"No one cares about you.
828
00:35:18,310 --> 00:35:19,862
Only I care about you."
829
00:35:19,896 --> 00:35:22,344
They often separated them
from friends, from family.
830
00:35:22,379 --> 00:35:24,344
They can-- It's all about
power and control.
831
00:35:24,379 --> 00:35:26,551
And that's really what
domestic violence is about.
832
00:35:26,586 --> 00:35:29,793
So, even just saying,
"How are you?
833
00:35:29,827 --> 00:35:31,448
Are you okay?"
834
00:35:31,482 --> 00:35:33,689
Just indicating that
you're there for them...
835
00:35:33,724 --> 00:35:35,551
"Something seems off,"
836
00:35:35,586 --> 00:35:37,448
they may not bite right away,
837
00:35:38,413 --> 00:35:41,137
but I have heard
stories after story,
838
00:35:41,172 --> 00:35:42,689
of people who say,
839
00:35:42,724 --> 00:35:45,517
that just knowing
someone cared,
840
00:35:45,551 --> 00:35:48,275
that they really may not be
as alone as they thought,
841
00:35:48,896 --> 00:35:50,137
made a huge difference.
842
00:35:50,172 --> 00:35:52,965
Often the ones who know,
are the children.
843
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:54,344
-[Jane] Correct.
-Because they're in the home.
844
00:35:54,379 --> 00:35:56,517
And of course,
this is not a young
child's responsibility,
845
00:35:56,551 --> 00:35:58,206
but if you are an adult child,
846
00:35:58,241 --> 00:35:59,758
that knows what's
happening in your home,
847
00:35:59,793 --> 00:36:01,931
is there a way to handle,
848
00:36:01,965 --> 00:36:04,103
and to help your parent?
849
00:36:04,137 --> 00:36:05,689
You can talk to your parent,
850
00:36:05,724 --> 00:36:07,344
you know, it's,
here's the sad thing.
851
00:36:07,379 --> 00:36:10,482
We can do everything
as a bystander that we want,
852
00:36:10,517 --> 00:36:11,827
and know how to do,
853
00:36:11,862 --> 00:36:15,931
but we can't make someone
take the next step, right?
854
00:36:15,965 --> 00:36:18,413
And often, the next
step is finding help,
855
00:36:18,448 --> 00:36:20,310
so that they can
create a safety plan,
856
00:36:20,344 --> 00:36:22,482
because you don't,
just leaving,
857
00:36:22,517 --> 00:36:23,758
is not necessarily the best
858
00:36:23,793 --> 00:36:25,379
-or the safest thing.
-Well, often when they leave,
859
00:36:25,413 --> 00:36:27,068
-they have nowhere to go.
-[Jane] Yes.
860
00:36:27,103 --> 00:36:28,724
You know, it's easy
for us to sit back
861
00:36:28,758 --> 00:36:30,620
and go, "Why don't
you just leave?"
862
00:36:30,655 --> 00:36:32,310
It's not like that.
863
00:36:32,344 --> 00:36:34,241
-[Jane] No.
-When I worked in
the battered women's center,
864
00:36:34,275 --> 00:36:36,482
in Atlanta as a volunteer,
865
00:36:36,517 --> 00:36:37,965
women would have, one,
866
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:39,758
-some of them
would have no job.
-[Jane] Correct.
867
00:36:39,793 --> 00:36:41,172
-Three or four children.
-[Jane] Mm-hmm.
868
00:36:41,206 --> 00:36:43,586
That's their only
financial support.
869
00:36:43,620 --> 00:36:44,862
And what are they gonna do?
870
00:36:44,896 --> 00:36:47,068
Leave and go where?
871
00:36:47,103 --> 00:36:49,000
When all
the shelters are full?
872
00:36:49,034 --> 00:36:50,827
[Mara] I was gonna say that,
I hate when people ask
that question,
873
00:36:50,862 --> 00:36:52,896
-like, why don't
you just leave?
-[Nancy] It's not that easy.
874
00:36:52,931 --> 00:36:55,379
Well, turn it around.
Why are you abusing
this person?
875
00:36:55,413 --> 00:36:57,413
-[chuckles] I mean,
that's really the question.
-[Nancy] Exactly.
876
00:36:57,448 --> 00:36:58,517
So, yes.
877
00:36:58,551 --> 00:37:01,206
And there's lot of reasons
that people don't leave.
878
00:37:01,241 --> 00:37:03,206
People forget that
they started
879
00:37:03,241 --> 00:37:04,827
a relationship for a reason.
880
00:37:04,862 --> 00:37:07,206
There's often love
somewhere in there.
881
00:37:07,724 --> 00:37:08,862
There's fear.
882
00:37:08,896 --> 00:37:10,620
They don't have
the financial wherewithal
883
00:37:10,655 --> 00:37:11,758
to go somewhere else.
884
00:37:11,793 --> 00:37:13,137
They don't have
anywhere to go,
885
00:37:13,172 --> 00:37:15,034
maybe they don't
wanna live in a shelter.
886
00:37:15,068 --> 00:37:16,379
There's stigma about that.
887
00:37:16,413 --> 00:37:18,758
-There's so many--
-How it's gonna affect
their children.
888
00:37:18,793 --> 00:37:20,724
Correct, and the children,
to your point,
889
00:37:20,758 --> 00:37:22,517
the children always know.
890
00:37:22,551 --> 00:37:24,344
People think that
a lot of times,
891
00:37:24,379 --> 00:37:26,172
parents, and they're
trying so hard,
892
00:37:26,206 --> 00:37:27,241
but they stay together,
893
00:37:27,275 --> 00:37:29,137
or they try and hide it
from the kids.
894
00:37:29,172 --> 00:37:30,206
But the kids always know,
895
00:37:30,241 --> 00:37:32,068
and that is a population of,
896
00:37:32,103 --> 00:37:34,413
sort of, overlooked victims,
897
00:37:34,448 --> 00:37:36,931
who can be really impacted,
of course,
898
00:37:36,965 --> 00:37:38,172
later in their lives
as adults.
899
00:37:38,206 --> 00:37:40,206
-Would you...you go, Derrick.
-[Derrick] Jane,
900
00:37:40,241 --> 00:37:42,344
I just recently,
and you were there as well,
we had the opportunity
901
00:37:42,379 --> 00:37:44,344
to listen to Gabby Petito's
parents speak,
902
00:37:44,379 --> 00:37:46,896
and they just had new
legislation passed in Utah,
903
00:37:46,931 --> 00:37:49,586
specifically,
how police interact
904
00:37:49,620 --> 00:37:51,344
with potential domestic
violence victims.
905
00:37:51,379 --> 00:37:52,655
I know as a police officer,
906
00:37:52,689 --> 00:37:55,655
you respond there,
you pull 'em aside,
you separate them,
907
00:37:55,689 --> 00:37:57,862
you just provided so much
information succinctly.
908
00:37:57,896 --> 00:37:59,000
Do you think there's
an opportunity
909
00:37:59,034 --> 00:38:00,689
for better training
for police officers,
910
00:38:00,724 --> 00:38:02,620
to provide those
different avenues
911
00:38:02,655 --> 00:38:03,724
that you just laid out,
912
00:38:03,758 --> 00:38:04,758
so that when they
pull 'em aside,
913
00:38:04,793 --> 00:38:06,172
maybe they're not ready yet,
914
00:38:06,206 --> 00:38:08,379
but police officers can
provide that information,
915
00:38:08,413 --> 00:38:09,827
so that if they
wanna act later,
916
00:38:09,862 --> 00:38:11,689
-they have
those opportunities.
-For sure.
917
00:38:11,724 --> 00:38:12,965
[Nancy] Derrick's right,
they actually said
918
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,137
-Gabby was the attacker.
-[Derrick] Yeah.
919
00:38:15,172 --> 00:38:17,344
-[Derrick] Yeah.
-Gabby Petito, now dead?
920
00:38:17,379 --> 00:38:18,862
At the hands of her attacker?
921
00:38:18,896 --> 00:38:20,103
They blamed her.
922
00:38:20,137 --> 00:38:21,896
[Jane] Well, and that often,
by the way,
923
00:38:21,931 --> 00:38:24,103
is a tactic that
perpetrators use,
924
00:38:24,137 --> 00:38:25,931
-I mean, you probably know
that from your policing.
-[Derrick] Oh, yeah.
925
00:38:25,965 --> 00:38:27,896
Is that they'll
call the police first.
926
00:38:27,931 --> 00:38:29,896
And that way,
they say they're the victim.
927
00:38:29,931 --> 00:38:32,517
And it's, I mean, it's,
it's all about power
and control.
928
00:38:32,551 --> 00:38:34,310
Someone once said, you know,
929
00:38:34,344 --> 00:38:36,586
perpetrators are, are,
930
00:38:36,620 --> 00:38:38,965
stymied only by their
imagination, right?
931
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:40,482
Whatever they can come up with
932
00:38:40,517 --> 00:38:42,758
is a way that they can
exert their power
933
00:38:42,793 --> 00:38:43,827
and control over somebody.
934
00:38:43,862 --> 00:38:45,517
But I have to imagine
that the hope
935
00:38:45,551 --> 00:38:48,241
for many of these women
who stay, mostly women,
936
00:38:48,275 --> 00:38:50,206
is that things will change.
937
00:38:50,241 --> 00:38:52,448
-Mm. True.
-So that they can keep
their family together.
938
00:38:52,482 --> 00:38:55,862
Is it possible
for an abuser to change,
if they want help?
939
00:38:55,896 --> 00:38:58,448
Is there any
kind of rehabilitation
that's possible?
940
00:38:58,482 --> 00:38:59,517
There are resources,
941
00:38:59,551 --> 00:39:01,034
though not as many
as we'd like,
942
00:39:01,068 --> 00:39:03,034
there are resources for people
943
00:39:03,068 --> 00:39:04,965
who realize that they
are perpetrating abuse
944
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:06,034
and they want to get help.
945
00:39:06,068 --> 00:39:07,758
But you just said something
really important.
946
00:39:07,793 --> 00:39:09,241
They have to want to.
947
00:39:10,103 --> 00:39:12,206
It's also super
important for men,
948
00:39:12,241 --> 00:39:14,241
'cause we're gonna make
a generalization here,
949
00:39:14,275 --> 00:39:15,517
and say that, by and large,
950
00:39:15,551 --> 00:39:19,241
it's women who are being
perpetrated against by men,
951
00:39:19,275 --> 00:39:22,862
um, that men have to hold each
other accountable as well.
952
00:39:22,896 --> 00:39:24,586
I wanna say something,
because this is,
953
00:39:24,620 --> 00:39:25,896
something really,
954
00:39:25,931 --> 00:39:27,137
that, it means a lot to me,
955
00:39:27,172 --> 00:39:29,551
and I wanna say directly
into the camera on this one.
956
00:39:29,586 --> 00:39:31,103
Victims of domestic
violence out there,
957
00:39:31,137 --> 00:39:32,172
from my experience,
958
00:39:32,758 --> 00:39:34,068
they don't change.
959
00:39:34,103 --> 00:39:35,206
There's only escalation.
960
00:39:35,241 --> 00:39:36,758
It starts off when
I respond there,
961
00:39:36,793 --> 00:39:38,482
to it's just a hit,
it's a smack,
962
00:39:38,517 --> 00:39:40,034
then it's a broken rib.
963
00:39:40,068 --> 00:39:41,758
And before you know it,
it gets really bad.
964
00:39:41,793 --> 00:39:44,620
I've been in a situation
where it started off
as a simple assault.
965
00:39:44,655 --> 00:39:45,931
I responded a year later,
966
00:39:45,965 --> 00:39:47,965
and the individual actually
killed this woman.
967
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:49,241
So what I would tell you is,
968
00:39:49,275 --> 00:39:51,724
if they've done it before,
they'll do it again.
969
00:39:51,758 --> 00:39:53,206
I don't,
I'm not saying it's easy,
970
00:39:53,241 --> 00:39:55,275
but do what you can
to get out of that situation.
971
00:39:55,310 --> 00:39:57,448
Because more than likely,
they will not change.
972
00:39:57,482 --> 00:39:59,413
And Derrick, by the time
I would get ahold
973
00:39:59,448 --> 00:40:01,068
of domestic violence cases,
974
00:40:01,103 --> 00:40:02,310
it was a felony.
975
00:40:02,344 --> 00:40:04,413
-Typically at assault
or murder.
-[Derrick] Yeah.
976
00:40:04,448 --> 00:40:05,689
-[Jane] Right.
-[Derrick] Yeah.
977
00:40:05,724 --> 00:40:07,793
Yeah, there's,
and there's so many
978
00:40:07,827 --> 00:40:09,482
different ways
of abusing somebody.
979
00:40:09,517 --> 00:40:10,793
So there's physical violence,
980
00:40:10,827 --> 00:40:12,448
of course, and that's what
everyone thinks about.
981
00:40:12,482 --> 00:40:13,793
There's financial abuse.
982
00:40:13,827 --> 00:40:15,275
Right? Controlling the money.
983
00:40:15,310 --> 00:40:17,344
Even if you're the one that
makes the money, right?
984
00:40:17,862 --> 00:40:19,172
Uh, verbal abuse.
985
00:40:19,206 --> 00:40:20,586
Telling somebody, you know,
986
00:40:20,620 --> 00:40:22,344
if someone tells you,
for a long time,
987
00:40:22,379 --> 00:40:24,517
that you are worthless,
and stupid,
988
00:40:24,551 --> 00:40:26,137
and no one cares about you,
989
00:40:26,172 --> 00:40:27,965
and only I care about you,
990
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:29,068
you believe that.
991
00:40:29,103 --> 00:40:30,275
I mean, that's where you,
you know,
992
00:40:30,310 --> 00:40:31,413
that's how this
grooming works.
993
00:40:31,448 --> 00:40:34,275
The psychology behind this,
Jane Randel,
994
00:40:34,310 --> 00:40:36,034
thank you, not only
for being here,
995
00:40:36,068 --> 00:40:38,724
but for everything
you do, every day.
996
00:40:38,758 --> 00:40:42,172
-Yep.
-To help victims
of domestic abuse.
997
00:40:42,206 --> 00:40:44,896
To learn more about
how you can find help,
998
00:40:44,931 --> 00:40:47,344
support survivors,
and contribute,
999
00:40:47,379 --> 00:40:50,793
go to NoExcuseForAbuse.com.
1000
00:40:50,827 --> 00:40:54,413
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1001
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1003
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1004
00:41:01,206 --> 00:41:03,551
For Mara, Derrick, and myself,
1005
00:41:03,586 --> 00:41:04,586
we'll see you next week.
1006
00:41:05,206 --> 00:41:06,172
Goodnight, friend.
1007
00:41:07,344 --> 00:41:09,620
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