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Shit.
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It's supposed to be three seconds...
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Okay.
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Mom, we have to go now.
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Just...
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give me like, three more minutes.
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Go eat something.
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That was bad.
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God damn it. Can you... Can you...
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Penny, seriously.
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- I want you to get behind me, guys.
- All right.
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- I have asked you five times.
- Fine.
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- What do you think? You like it?
- Mm-hm.
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- It's really good.
- Yeah?
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You like Indian food, Penny?
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Yeah.
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What's your favorite?
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This. What is it?
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That's naan.
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It's, like, Indian bread.
It's sorta like pita.
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- You've had pita before. You like it.
- Yeah.
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You can kind of scoop up
the curry with the naan.
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You can kind of use it like a little...
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- a little mitt.
- What's... What's this stuff?
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That's a potato. That's...
That's, like, a green pea curry.
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You know, I probably didn't have
Indian food until I was in college.
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- Really?
- Yeah. I was probably 19-20,
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- until I had that.
- Wow.
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- So you're ahead of your time.
- Mm.
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Your mom introduced me
to all these things.
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She had, you know, much
better taste than I did.
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Andi, it's Ryan.
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I'm sorry that I'm just
now getting back to you.
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It's been sort of a crazy... 24 hours.
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Uh...
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Sadie... surprised me last
night by coming into town.
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And she just...
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showed up at my show and, uh...
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Yeah, but I'm...
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thinking about you, and I
can't wait to see you again.
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Should we go youngest to oldest?
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- Yeah.
- All right.
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- Once Mom gets back from the bathroom.
- Oh, yes, yes, yes, yes.
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Hi.
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You guys ready to lose?
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Oh, my God.
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Not possible.
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Nice.
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♪ It was only yesterday ♪
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♪ When you stole my heart away ♪
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Hi.
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- Hey.
- Hi.
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- Can I bring you something to drink?
- Um...
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Yeah, can I get a, uh...
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Uh, just a vodka soda.
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- Sure. Lemon?
- Yeah. Great, thank you.
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Hey.
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♪ I know that this love ♪
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♪ Has come to an end ♪
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♪ Why did I have to mess up ♪
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♪ Till the end? ♪
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Okay...
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I gotta stop.
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Oh, God.
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I gotta stop.
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- Hi.
- Hi.
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I missed you.
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- Oh, yeah?
- Mm-hm.
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That's nice.
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I had a super hot night. I
wanna tell you about it.
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Tell me about it.
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- My pussy's on fire right now.
- Oh, boy.
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Do you wanna hear about my night?
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Um... I don't know, do I?
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I think you do.
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- Yeah?
- Mm-hm.
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I was in Ryan's car...
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and I was sitting on his lap...
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I was straddling him...
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and I was grinding on his big
fat hard cock for an hour
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begging him to fuck me with it.
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He wouldn't do it.
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And I need you to fix it.
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I need you to hit all my little spots.
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Hurt me a little.
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Let me get this straight. You didn't
get what you wanted with Ryan...
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What?
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You didn't get what you wanted
with Ryan, so I'm like...
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- second best?
- No, you're not second best.
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- You're number one.
- Your "what's in front of you"?
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No, you're just gonna
make sure it happens.
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- I'm not.
- You're gonna hit all my little spots.
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- I'm not.
- Yeah.
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- Nope.
- Mm-hm.
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- No, I'm tired.
- You're gonna flip me over and do it.
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No. Okay.
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I don't feel like doing
that with you right now.
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I mean, to be honest,
it just felt like, uh,
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it wasn't about me.
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Um...
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I mean, I hear your point about...
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Yeah, we talked a lot about,
when we opened the marriage,
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that it was als... about
also stimulating...
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our sex life,
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and I think there have been times
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when we've told each other about
experiences that we've had,
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that it is hot, but like...
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in that moment, it just
felt like you were all...
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jazzed up...
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to have sex with someone else and
it didn't happen that night,
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so then I was like his stand-in.
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Which...
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Maybe we can...
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I think what we really need
to talk about is Ryan.
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Um... How are things
going with... with him?
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I...
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So good.
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It's just relaxed, you know,
and it's a finite situation.
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So I think because I know
he's leaving in, like,
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six and a half, seven weeks...
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- Mm-hm.
- Like, I've allowed myself the intimacy...
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an intimacy with him that I probably
wouldn't have allowed myself.
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- Mm-hm.
- And it feels...
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It feels really different...
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than the bullshit that
I was doing before
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with the... with the randos.
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Right. And how are you
feeling about that?
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I mean, I think it's, uh...
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I think it's complicated.
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I'm... I'm happy that you're...
you're happy, truly, but I think...
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it's reckless that...
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he is...
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married, and his wife doesn't
know anything about this.
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He's not in an open marriage.
He's in a monogamous marriage.
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So he's, you know, ostensibly
cheating on his wife, and, uh...
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Well, you seem... you seem
to have a problem with it.
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Well, yeah.
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- I just... Why are you so...
- I get it.
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I just think if I started
sleeping with someone
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who you were very good friends
with at some point...
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I'm not sleeping with him.
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Okay. You're right. I'm sorry. Um...
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I think if I was engaging in...
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a physical and emotional relationship
with someone that you...
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had... were friends with that...
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You don't care about Ryan.
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- A, that's not true.
- You don't.
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- I care about Ryan.
- You don't, really.
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- We're not as close as we used to be.
- Yeah.
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But he's not a stranger.
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- Oh...
- And I'm not saying there was a rule...
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So now there's a rule
it has to be strangers?
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Can I finish talking for one second
without you interrupting me?
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Yes.
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I'm not even talking about a rule.
I'm talking about I thought
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that there was a level of communication
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that was happening, that if you...
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I felt a little surprised, like,
a little hoodwinked that,
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when you told me that...
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uh, you had told Ryan that we
were in an open relationship,
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I asked if there was something there,
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and you were like, "I don't
know. I don't think so."
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And then, all of a sudden,
this thing was happening,
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and I'm just saying I would have
liked a... a little more...
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just a little more care
around our mutual friendship
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with him and his wife
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and the interconnectedness of our lives.
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I'm so enraged right now.
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Why?
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Because it's... it's like, which is it?
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That he's married?
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- That he's your friend?
- Can both not be true things?
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Why are you using your theater voice?
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Okay.
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You're not interested in us
having a real conversation.
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No, I didn't cause the
crack in their marriage.
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If that marriage was, like, killin' it,
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he wouldn't be, you know, texting
me a thousand times a day.
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Cool. Be careful. That's all I'm saying.
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That's the most fucking
irritating thing I've ever heard.
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We really had that thing,
that sort of, like...
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hokey thing, where, like, I
feel like we knew right away
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that we were...
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we have this, like, very deep,
multi-dimensional connection.
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And we, like, met in college
and we... we fell in love hard,
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and... and I'm...
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so glad that my wife is in my life,
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and that we're parents,
that we're partners,
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but I just feel like we both
cut ourselves off from...
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a whole universe of experience.
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- Mm.
- And, um...
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Um, I don't even... I'm not
even talking about sex and...
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dating, necessarily.
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I feel like a kind of self...
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development?
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- Yeah.
- I mean, if I can get a little hokey,
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- like a kind of...
- Yeah.
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... evolving that I wasn't doing,
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- like, that I had just stopped...
- Yeah.
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... caring in so many areas of my life,
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because I was taking her for granted,
because it was this sort of...
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It's like you got used to it.
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- Yes. Yeah, I got used to it.
- Yeah.
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And I... And it felt, like, arranged.
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Like, it felt like, because
of the legality of it,
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and just shit like health insurance,
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uh, that we were...
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Like we owned each other, on some level.
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- Yeah.
- You know? And, like...
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I don't know. I'm...
I'm clearly, like...
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processing all this
right now, but like...
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No, I love it.
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- Yeah. Fuck. Do you have a condom?
- Yeah.
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Hey.
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Hey.
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Did you have fun?
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Yeah. It was fun.
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These yellow ones are all
different little emoji faces.
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This is a little slice
of pizza, on this one.
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- Oh, yeah.
- There's a pizza one?
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- Yeah. Do you want it?
- I didn't know there was a pizza emoji.
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Sure.
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Thanks.
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Ooh, multicolor.
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- Yeah.
- I like it.
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- You guys are... doing so good.
- We're looking good.
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Um...
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I'm going out tonight.
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- Oh, okay.
- I have to go out tonight.
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We just...
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You'll need to book a sitter, 'cause
remember, I have plans as well.
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- You do?
- Yeah.
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- No. Did you tell me?
- Yeah.
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Oh. When did you tell me?
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A couple of days ago.
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When?
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Uh... I don't remember the exact
day, but it's in our text history.
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- I don't think you did, actually.
- I did.
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It's cool. Just, uh, see if
Alex or anyone is available.
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I don't really... Um...
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I don't really have
time to get into that.
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Is there any way you could help me?
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- You don't have time to text Alex?
- I don't have time to text Alex.
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Okay, well, I don't either.
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- I have a full day.
- I... Well, I have to go to work.
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I'm working too.
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- I actually have to go to work.
- I actually have to go as well.
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- What are you working on?
- Writing a play.
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Okay. Okay.
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You're literally on
your phone right now.
254
00:15:39,500 --> 00:15:40,580
Yeah, I'm literally...
255
00:15:40,660 --> 00:15:42,670
Woke up to 77 emails
256
00:15:42,750 --> 00:15:44,710
that have to be answered
before I get into work
257
00:15:44,790 --> 00:15:46,800
where I then walk into three
back-to-back meetings.
258
00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:49,090
Why not make sure your children
are being watched tonight,
259
00:15:49,170 --> 00:15:50,840
then you can answer all of your emails?
260
00:15:51,630 --> 00:15:53,010
Because I have a real job.
261
00:15:54,390 --> 00:15:56,300
- Where it actually matters...
- That's not helpful.
262
00:15:56,390 --> 00:15:59,560
- ... if I respond to an email in time.
- I have a very real job.
263
00:15:59,890 --> 00:16:01,810
I'm not saying you
don't have a real job.
264
00:16:01,890 --> 00:16:03,190
I respect what you are doing,
265
00:16:03,270 --> 00:16:06,190
- but you don't have a deadline.
- When someone says, "I have a real job,"
266
00:16:06,270 --> 00:16:08,419
- it usually means...
- You don't have a deadline, sweetheart.
267
00:16:08,420 --> 00:16:09,440
I have a deadline.
268
00:16:09,530 --> 00:16:12,200
- I do have a deadline.
- Every single day, there's a deadline.
269
00:16:12,450 --> 00:16:13,950
No, you don't have a deadline.
270
00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:17,870
I do. The theater gave me a deadline.
271
00:16:17,950 --> 00:16:19,660
I need to have a draft
done by the end of...
272
00:16:19,740 --> 00:16:21,290
Is it today? Is it today?
273
00:16:21,580 --> 00:16:24,210
- In the amount of time you've taken...
- In the amount of time...
274
00:16:24,290 --> 00:16:26,460
- ... to belittle me...
- I'm not belittling you.
275
00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:29,130
... and throw your weight
around, you could...
276
00:16:29,210 --> 00:16:30,630
- I'll text Alex.
- I'm not.
277
00:16:30,710 --> 00:16:32,630
- Texting right now.
- I'm working 80 hours a week.
278
00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,140
- Look how easy this is.
- If that's throwing my weight around...
279
00:16:35,220 --> 00:16:38,100
- Thank you so much.
- Oh, wow. She's... I see the bubble.
280
00:16:38,180 --> 00:16:40,470
- She's responding already.
- Thank you. I appreciate it.
281
00:16:40,700 --> 00:16:41,770
She can do it.
282
00:16:41,850 --> 00:16:44,100
- Great. I really appreciate it.
- That was so tough. You...
283
00:16:44,190 --> 00:16:47,020
You just couldn't have done
that because of those emails.
284
00:16:48,190 --> 00:16:50,440
I saw how the emails got
in the way of that.
285
00:16:55,860 --> 00:16:58,490
- What?
- What is going on with you?
286
00:17:02,910 --> 00:17:04,210
I don't appreciate you...
287
00:17:05,420 --> 00:17:06,640
being rude.
288
00:17:06,830 --> 00:17:10,750
I'm just sitting here, and you...
you came in super activated.
289
00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:13,840
You're making a big deal out of nothing.
290
00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:15,630
No, you're making a big
deal out of nothing.
291
00:17:15,650 --> 00:17:17,439
All I did was ask you
to help me get a sitter
292
00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:19,510
because I have to go to work.
293
00:17:21,140 --> 00:17:22,460
Okay.
294
00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:25,730
You're gonna, like, just roll
your eyes at me at breakfast.
295
00:17:26,140 --> 00:17:28,150
There's clearly something
goin' on, so...
296
00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:31,650
- Oh, you're all-knowing now?
- I will figure out the sitter for you.
297
00:17:32,860 --> 00:17:34,740
You're a real hero. I appreciate it.
298
00:17:39,120 --> 00:17:41,950
That's a long one, the
one you're workin' on.
299
00:17:42,370 --> 00:17:45,080
Yeah, I'm makin' a necklace
with different letters...
300
00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:47,790
Oh, I was gonna say, that's three
times bigger than your wrist.
301
00:17:47,870 --> 00:17:49,330
Yeah.
302
00:17:55,220 --> 00:17:56,630
Kyle, you need more coffee?
303
00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:58,260
- I'm good, man. Thanks.
- All right.
304
00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:14,640
_
305
00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:21,700
_
306
00:18:21,750 --> 00:18:26,380
_
307
00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:42,970
I'm sorry for getting
you involved in this...
308
00:18:43,510 --> 00:18:44,510
stupid...
309
00:18:45,310 --> 00:18:47,560
situation with my damn life...
310
00:18:48,230 --> 00:18:49,230
and...
311
00:19:11,170 --> 00:19:12,170
Fuck.
312
00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:29,600
Do you...
313
00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:31,980
Do you want me to just...
314
00:19:34,940 --> 00:19:37,070
- I'm sorry, I mean, um, I'm...
- It's just...
315
00:19:37,150 --> 00:19:38,230
Do you want me to go?
316
00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:39,320
No.
317
00:19:43,620 --> 00:19:45,580
- Can I sit next to you?
- Yeah.
318
00:19:45,660 --> 00:19:47,080
Yes, please.
319
00:19:48,870 --> 00:19:51,870
- I don't wanna stand on your hand.
- It's all right.
320
00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:56,750
I just feel trapped.
321
00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:02,380
Did you feel trapped
before you got here?
322
00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:05,140
Yeah, I think so.
323
00:20:06,050 --> 00:20:11,310
I mean, coming here was like a way
out of something for a little bit.
324
00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:12,890
- Mm.
- Uh...
325
00:20:12,980 --> 00:20:15,270
Being back here, being
around you, being...
326
00:20:15,980 --> 00:20:17,150
like, on stage again.
327
00:20:17,230 --> 00:20:19,530
Like, it was like, "Oh, my
God, this is what I... "
328
00:20:19,610 --> 00:20:20,650
Mm-hm.
329
00:20:21,110 --> 00:20:23,400
"... don't have out
there," you know, like...
330
00:20:24,490 --> 00:20:27,580
And... like, "Why don't
I have this anymore?"
331
00:20:29,740 --> 00:20:33,540
And not like it's anybody's fa...
fault, but it fucking sucks.
332
00:20:34,210 --> 00:20:35,460
Uh...
333
00:20:35,540 --> 00:20:38,290
- But we're also, like, not in real life.
- I...
334
00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:40,920
This isn't your real life.
335
00:20:41,010 --> 00:20:42,010
Yeah.
336
00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:45,720
- I'm just saying... I don't wanna say...
- I know.
337
00:20:45,740 --> 00:20:48,430
I don't wanna, like, say
that this isn't real, but...
338
00:20:48,510 --> 00:20:49,760
this is not your...
339
00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:51,680
life.
340
00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:53,850
Yeah, I can't...
341
00:20:53,940 --> 00:20:56,700
- I guess my question...
- You don't live here. You don't...
342
00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:59,150
You live in LA.
343
00:20:59,650 --> 00:21:01,440
You are married to someone.
344
00:21:02,030 --> 00:21:03,900
What if it was my real life, though?
345
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:10,990
That you move back to
Chicago and do plays?
346
00:21:11,740 --> 00:21:12,740
Yeah.
347
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:17,080
And, like, not do TV anymore?
348
00:21:17,170 --> 00:21:18,170
Yeah.
349
00:21:20,250 --> 00:21:22,840
And just figure out a
way to be with you.
350
00:21:44,780 --> 00:21:45,990
Um...
351
00:21:46,570 --> 00:21:47,660
I'm very...
352
00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:54,410
I like you a lot. I care about you.
353
00:21:55,660 --> 00:21:57,500
I'm into you, obviously.
354
00:21:59,330 --> 00:22:01,340
I just wanna remind you that I am...
355
00:22:02,370 --> 00:22:03,420
married.
356
00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:05,630
- Mm-hm.
- And I have a family, and...
357
00:22:06,550 --> 00:22:08,300
I love... him.
358
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:09,720
- Mm-hm.
- And...
359
00:22:10,050 --> 00:22:11,050
Yeah.
360
00:22:11,930 --> 00:22:12,930
It's just...
361
00:22:14,970 --> 00:22:16,930
not so straightforward.
362
00:22:17,060 --> 00:22:18,060
Yeah.
363
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:23,230
Yeah, I know all those things.
364
00:22:24,230 --> 00:22:25,400
Um...
365
00:22:28,070 --> 00:22:31,120
All right, like, I... I... I hear...
366
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:32,530
and I'd still...
367
00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:34,540
am willing to...
368
00:22:36,460 --> 00:22:37,780
be...
369
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:39,080
uh...
370
00:22:41,500 --> 00:22:45,000
in... uh, in a completely,
like, crazy situation
371
00:22:45,090 --> 00:22:46,670
if it means that I can just...
372
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:50,010
spend more time with you, 'cause...
373
00:22:51,180 --> 00:22:53,260
that's something I've
wanted for a long time,
374
00:22:53,350 --> 00:22:55,560
and to actually be able to have it...
375
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:57,930
and to be able to...
376
00:22:58,890 --> 00:22:59,890
say it...
377
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:02,400
You know?
378
00:23:03,060 --> 00:23:04,940
And tell you, and, like, have you...
379
00:23:05,940 --> 00:23:08,360
just hear it, um...
380
00:23:09,950 --> 00:23:11,530
is, uh...
381
00:23:13,910 --> 00:23:14,910
... is great.
382
00:23:15,740 --> 00:23:18,700
Oh, and I can certainly figure
out a way to explain, like,
383
00:23:19,210 --> 00:23:21,080
that it wasn't just, like...
384
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,420
a whim, you know, to her...
385
00:23:25,500 --> 00:23:27,260
Fuck.
386
00:23:27,590 --> 00:23:28,760
- Is that her?
- Yep.
387
00:23:29,590 --> 00:23:30,680
You should...
388
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:34,300
Uh, I'm gonna take this, okay?
389
00:23:34,390 --> 00:23:35,430
- Yeah.
- Okay.
390
00:23:39,730 --> 00:23:40,730
Hey.
391
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:43,560
Where are you?
392
00:23:54,070 --> 00:23:56,160
- Hey.
- Hey, what's up?
393
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:57,450
Nothin'. How are you?
394
00:23:57,790 --> 00:23:59,370
I'm good. Good to see you.
395
00:23:59,910 --> 00:24:01,500
It's really good to see you.
396
00:24:02,550 --> 00:24:03,620
Yeah.
397
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:04,920
So...
398
00:24:07,550 --> 00:24:08,550
what's up?
399
00:24:09,170 --> 00:24:10,170
Well...
400
00:24:11,630 --> 00:24:13,400
What do you mean? I mean, nothing's up.
401
00:24:13,420 --> 00:24:16,280
I just missed you. I wanted to hang out.
402
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:26,190
Sure, um, and I was really
excited to... hear from you.
403
00:24:26,270 --> 00:24:27,940
I've missed you, too. I, uh...
404
00:24:28,220 --> 00:24:32,269
It's just sort of super complicated
to get that text from you
405
00:24:32,270 --> 00:24:34,300
when I'm like...
406
00:24:34,610 --> 00:24:36,540
trying to give you...
407
00:24:36,620 --> 00:24:39,960
- space, and, like, maintain, like...
- Right.
408
00:24:40,370 --> 00:24:41,620
strictly friend...
409
00:24:42,460 --> 00:24:44,920
- behavior and, uh... you know...
- Right.
410
00:24:45,370 --> 00:24:46,370
I definitely wanted...
411
00:24:47,340 --> 00:24:48,340
to...
412
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:50,670
have some space, and...
413
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,380
- Mm-hm.
- Um...
414
00:24:54,260 --> 00:24:55,760
try that out.
415
00:24:56,390 --> 00:24:57,430
And I'm...
416
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:02,600
I'm really glad that we did,
but, uh... I don't think...
417
00:25:04,190 --> 00:25:05,440
I don't think that...
418
00:25:06,730 --> 00:25:07,770
Hm.
419
00:25:09,650 --> 00:25:12,219
I just want... I... I would love to...
420
00:25:12,220 --> 00:25:13,720
When we were in the park that day,
421
00:25:13,740 --> 00:25:17,280
you sort of said, like, if I
wanted to hang out in the future,
422
00:25:17,300 --> 00:25:19,950
that we could, right?
423
00:25:21,410 --> 00:25:23,700
Oh, shit. Yeah. I mean, I actually...
424
00:25:23,790 --> 00:25:26,000
This is what I'm confused
about. I... So...
425
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,540
I came over here assuming that, uh...
426
00:25:29,630 --> 00:25:31,090
you still wanna keep it...
427
00:25:32,340 --> 00:25:33,800
strictly in the friend zone.
428
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:34,900
So, like...
429
00:25:35,130 --> 00:25:36,130
Well...
430
00:25:37,020 --> 00:25:40,839
I guess I was curious to
see how you felt about...
431
00:25:41,850 --> 00:25:45,940
Um... revisiting a
different version of...
432
00:25:46,020 --> 00:25:48,850
Oh, this... this meeting has
shifted. See, I didn't see that...
433
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,020
that negotiating tactic. Uh...
434
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,860
- Now I see why you're behaving that way.
- Yeah, I'm totally, uh...
435
00:25:56,490 --> 00:25:59,120
Yeah, I'm totally open to
that. I mean, I think I've...
436
00:25:59,700 --> 00:26:01,280
always been open to that.
437
00:26:01,370 --> 00:26:02,410
I'm also, like...
438
00:26:03,870 --> 00:26:07,160
intellectually aware that,
like, it's an unfair...
439
00:26:07,620 --> 00:26:09,779
scenario for you if you're
looking to find, like,
440
00:26:09,780 --> 00:26:11,630
a long-term relationship.
441
00:26:11,710 --> 00:26:13,170
So, like, I don't know if you're...
442
00:26:13,250 --> 00:26:15,930
dating anyone right now, I don't
know what happened with that guy...
443
00:26:16,630 --> 00:26:18,510
- Malcolm from the bar the other night...
- I mean...
444
00:26:18,590 --> 00:26:21,430
I'm still dating some
people a little bit,
445
00:26:21,510 --> 00:26:24,140
but that guy, it didn't work
out with that guy, but...
446
00:26:24,220 --> 00:26:25,220
Really?
447
00:26:27,270 --> 00:26:28,299
He's very nice,
448
00:26:28,300 --> 00:26:29,980
- but it didn't work out.
- He's very nice?
449
00:26:30,610 --> 00:26:32,940
Did he have a lot of homework
for his high school classes?
450
00:26:33,020 --> 00:26:34,020
Shut up.
451
00:26:35,150 --> 00:26:36,530
You're one to talk.
452
00:26:38,070 --> 00:26:39,070
Uh...
453
00:26:39,700 --> 00:26:41,280
But...
454
00:26:42,660 --> 00:26:45,660
I mean, even that night before
he showed up, it was like...
455
00:26:46,870 --> 00:26:49,710
I had such a good time with you and...
456
00:26:50,630 --> 00:26:52,340
even just sitting there
with you that night,
457
00:26:52,420 --> 00:26:55,210
I just wanted to, like, kiss you.
458
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:59,760
And it was sort of fun, in a
way, to experiment with...
459
00:27:00,220 --> 00:27:02,090
- not doing that.
- Sure, yeah.
460
00:27:02,470 --> 00:27:04,310
- I agree.
- Um...
461
00:27:05,350 --> 00:27:08,430
But as time has worn on a
little bit, I think I just...
462
00:27:09,100 --> 00:27:10,600
I don't think that, um...
463
00:27:11,190 --> 00:27:14,690
I don't think it... it's
what I wanted, you know?
464
00:27:15,070 --> 00:27:16,150
Okay.
465
00:27:16,230 --> 00:27:18,400
- I'm in a very different position.
- Yeah.
466
00:27:18,490 --> 00:27:19,490
Like, I'm...
467
00:27:21,490 --> 00:27:22,990
uh, married, and I have kids.
468
00:27:23,070 --> 00:27:24,099
You are?
469
00:27:25,700 --> 00:27:27,450
- Can I interrupt you?
- Yeah, please.
470
00:27:27,540 --> 00:27:28,680
Would you...
471
00:27:28,830 --> 00:27:31,620
Can we go sit on the couch?
I feel like we're...
472
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:33,960
Like I should have
paperwork in front of me.
473
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,130
Sure, yeah.
474
00:27:36,210 --> 00:27:37,800
- Okay.
- Let's move to the couch.
475
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:42,840
Hey, just to reiterate, I...
476
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,160
I really don't wanna ever get in the way
477
00:27:47,170 --> 00:27:49,640
of you meeting someone, though, and...
478
00:27:49,850 --> 00:27:52,560
and having, like, a... a real...
479
00:27:55,270 --> 00:27:57,690
big kind of relationship
that you wanna have.
480
00:27:58,230 --> 00:27:59,230
Yeah.
481
00:28:00,070 --> 00:28:01,650
I'm not that worried about that.
482
00:28:01,820 --> 00:28:03,450
Okay.
483
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,580
- Is that okay?
- Yeah, of course.
484
00:28:12,670 --> 00:28:13,670
I really missed you.
485
00:28:13,750 --> 00:28:15,250
- I love you.
- I love you, too.
486
00:28:19,420 --> 00:28:21,340
I was going on all these
dates and things.
487
00:28:21,420 --> 00:28:23,220
Mm-hm.
488
00:28:24,140 --> 00:28:25,300
Yeah, me too.
489
00:28:27,100 --> 00:28:28,350
I just missed you.
490
00:28:48,950 --> 00:28:50,120
Hey, I've changed my mind.
491
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,500
Can you pull up here on
the right? I wanna get out.
492
00:29:17,310 --> 00:29:18,360
What the fuck?
493
00:29:26,860 --> 00:29:27,990
I mean...
494
00:29:29,700 --> 00:29:30,700
what?
495
00:29:34,250 --> 00:29:35,580
Can I buy you a drink?
496
00:29:36,620 --> 00:29:37,620
Yeah.
497
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:41,090
This is crazy.
498
00:29:43,460 --> 00:29:44,630
How surreal.
499
00:29:48,180 --> 00:29:50,050
- Hey, how are you doing?
- Hi, good.
500
00:29:50,140 --> 00:29:52,180
Um, can I get a vodka soda, please?
501
00:29:52,260 --> 00:29:53,560
- I gotcha.
- Thank you.
502
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:04,490
I mean...
503
00:30:06,740 --> 00:30:07,820
this is crazy.
504
00:30:12,870 --> 00:30:13,870
Thanks.
505
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:18,120
Cheers.
506
00:30:26,050 --> 00:30:27,050
So, how are you?
507
00:30:31,550 --> 00:30:33,140
I'm so...
508
00:30:35,430 --> 00:30:36,430
bewildered.
509
00:30:38,350 --> 00:30:39,400
Um...
510
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,110
I just kind of, like, I
just feel like something...
511
00:30:44,780 --> 00:30:45,780
lifted.
512
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,700
I had a whole thing where
I basically ruined...
513
00:30:50,530 --> 00:30:51,910
Ryan's marriage...
514
00:30:52,620 --> 00:30:53,660
uh...
515
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:56,950
for no good reason.
516
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:58,200
Uh...
517
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:00,160
His...
518
00:31:00,370 --> 00:31:02,540
Sadie found a picture.
519
00:31:02,630 --> 00:31:04,300
- Oh, shit.
- And...
520
00:31:05,460 --> 00:31:07,260
But what was...
521
00:31:07,630 --> 00:31:09,430
For me, what was most sort of...
522
00:31:11,550 --> 00:31:13,430
Do you... Do you care?
Do you wanna know this?
523
00:31:13,510 --> 00:31:14,560
Are you kidding me?
524
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:15,639
I just... uh...
525
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,890
- Nothing I'd rather hear about.
- I'm so freaked out.
526
00:31:17,980 --> 00:31:21,520
What really... I... I was
really... I was very into him.
527
00:31:21,900 --> 00:31:24,610
- I... Yeah, I know.
- And, uh...
528
00:31:25,190 --> 00:31:27,860
And... and then I... It,
uh... it, like, lifted.
529
00:31:29,300 --> 00:31:30,520
Why?
530
00:31:30,700 --> 00:31:32,570
I... I just... I saw him.
531
00:31:32,660 --> 00:31:34,700
You know? I had... I had created this...
532
00:31:35,740 --> 00:31:38,160
- character in my mind...
- Mm.
533
00:31:38,540 --> 00:31:42,120
and it was like some version of
him that I had decided he was
534
00:31:42,210 --> 00:31:44,250
when he was gone in LA, and...
535
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,460
I sort of combined him with my...
536
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,590
the person that I knew
when I was 20, and...
537
00:31:51,550 --> 00:31:56,640
decided he was... super
fascinating, and, um...
538
00:31:57,430 --> 00:32:00,730
you know, cared about me, and...
and I think he really does,
539
00:32:00,810 --> 00:32:03,350
- and in fact, really, really does.
- Sure he does. Yeah.
540
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,770
And then something... it just sort of...
541
00:32:07,110 --> 00:32:09,820
In... in dismantling of his...
542
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:13,780
his marriage, his whole sort of...
543
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:16,700
personhood fell apart.
544
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,500
- Mm.
- And I... It... it sort of, like...
545
00:32:21,660 --> 00:32:22,790
Like, the... the...
546
00:32:23,580 --> 00:32:26,290
whatever... whatever fog of...
547
00:32:28,460 --> 00:32:30,670
Just... It's so embarrassing.
548
00:32:30,970 --> 00:32:35,590
It just lifted and I'm... Now I'm,
like, mortified, and I am not...
549
00:32:36,050 --> 00:32:39,720
There's a reason why I didn't
end up with Ryan, you know?
550
00:32:41,890 --> 00:32:43,230
God, I'm...
551
00:32:44,230 --> 00:32:45,810
so sorry, that's a lot.
552
00:32:46,730 --> 00:32:47,940
- Yeah.
- That must...
553
00:32:49,270 --> 00:32:50,690
That must be really painful.
554
00:32:52,780 --> 00:32:55,570
I mean, it's painful in
that it's disappointing,
555
00:32:55,660 --> 00:32:57,410
but it's not that painful...
556
00:32:58,830 --> 00:32:59,830
for me.
557
00:33:01,370 --> 00:33:02,370
I mean, it's...
558
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:07,000
It's depressing.
559
00:33:09,900 --> 00:33:10,960
Yeah.
560
00:33:11,050 --> 00:33:12,300
It just felt shitty.
561
00:33:15,090 --> 00:33:17,140
I had no idea. I'm sorry.
562
00:33:19,470 --> 00:33:20,850
I don't like that you had no idea.
563
00:33:20,930 --> 00:33:23,520
I don't like that you're saying
sorry like you're my friend.
564
00:33:24,270 --> 00:33:26,480
- I am your friend.
- I appreciate you saying you're sorry,
565
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,230
- but, like, that makes me feel sad.
- Why?
566
00:33:29,310 --> 00:33:31,320
Because it feels like
I'm talking to a friend
567
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:32,900
who's, like, "Oh, I'm sorry."
568
00:33:36,030 --> 00:33:37,610
Um... I...
569
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,040
I mean, I don't know
how else to respond.
570
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:42,979
I'm here for you, and I love you,
571
00:33:42,980 --> 00:33:46,580
and that sounds terrible
and complicated,
572
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,460
and... painful for you.
573
00:33:48,540 --> 00:33:51,000
So, I'm sorry that
you're experiencing...
574
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:52,960
- distress.
- I know.
575
00:33:53,050 --> 00:33:54,880
Thank you. I just...
576
00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:58,760
And I'm...
577
00:33:59,180 --> 00:34:00,180
Thank you.
578
00:34:00,260 --> 00:34:03,520
And as your friend and... and as
someone who loves you, thank you,
579
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,020
but I don't feel you.
580
00:34:07,770 --> 00:34:09,770
I don't like this.
581
00:34:12,940 --> 00:34:14,610
- What is this...
- I don't feel you!
582
00:34:15,860 --> 00:34:17,910
- What do you mean?
- I don't... I don't know.
583
00:34:17,990 --> 00:34:20,030
I just... I don't like this.
584
00:34:21,700 --> 00:34:23,290
Being in an open relationship?
585
00:34:23,910 --> 00:34:25,330
- Yeah.
- Um...
586
00:34:26,830 --> 00:34:28,040
Okay. I...
587
00:34:32,380 --> 00:34:34,880
I sort of don't know how
to respond. I mean, uh...
588
00:34:37,170 --> 00:34:41,010
That's a... That's... That's
a big thing to take in.
589
00:34:41,100 --> 00:34:43,390
I mean, I, uh... I think
I'm gonna need...
590
00:34:44,470 --> 00:34:46,140
a minute to sort of process that.
591
00:34:46,230 --> 00:34:47,310
I...
592
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:50,520
I do like it.
593
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:52,560
Or...
594
00:34:54,230 --> 00:34:56,279
Uh... I don't know if
"like" is the right word,
595
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,720
but I'm... I'm invested in it.
596
00:34:59,150 --> 00:35:01,380
And I'm interested in it, and I feel...
597
00:35:01,570 --> 00:35:04,700
challenged by it in a
good, interesting way.
598
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,870
And I don't know that I can
walk it back at this point.
599
00:35:09,250 --> 00:35:11,290
Do you... Do you want me?
600
00:35:11,380 --> 00:35:12,380
Yes.
601
00:35:14,170 --> 00:35:15,880
- Do you?
- Absolutely.
602
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,460
What does that mean to you?
603
00:35:17,550 --> 00:35:18,840
- What do you mean?
- What's the point?
604
00:35:18,850 --> 00:35:19,879
What does it mean to you?
605
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:23,440
I mean, I... The point is that
we have committed to each other
606
00:35:23,460 --> 00:35:24,819
and we have children, and we have a life
607
00:35:24,820 --> 00:35:27,520
that we have built together,
and I'm... I don't...
608
00:35:27,850 --> 00:35:29,350
You don't have to do that, though.
609
00:35:29,430 --> 00:35:30,699
You don't have to be committed.
610
00:35:30,700 --> 00:35:32,310
You don't... You don't have to do that.
611
00:35:32,330 --> 00:35:35,080
Oh, I actually know, for the first time,
612
00:35:35,100 --> 00:35:36,800
that I don't have to do that.
613
00:35:36,860 --> 00:35:40,280
And this past year and change is
the first time that I think...
614
00:35:41,240 --> 00:35:44,280
in a long time that I am consciously
choosing to be with you.
615
00:35:44,660 --> 00:35:48,410
Like, I'm more awake now to
the idea that I don't...
616
00:35:48,500 --> 00:35:52,370
That I'm not stuck with you or
bound to you or shackled to you.
617
00:35:52,460 --> 00:35:54,590
Like, I'm now knowing that, like...
618
00:35:55,170 --> 00:35:57,300
every day, I'm choosing to...
619
00:35:58,260 --> 00:35:59,260
partner with you,
620
00:36:00,220 --> 00:36:03,050
- and... and live a life together.
- But why?
621
00:36:03,500 --> 00:36:04,550
For what?
622
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,810
You... It's great, like, it's great?
623
00:36:07,470 --> 00:36:09,020
I don't feel close to you.
624
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,579
- I'm sorry. I don't.
- Yeah, I haven't felt close to you either.
625
00:36:13,580 --> 00:36:16,020
So why, then? What... what
are you getting out of this?
626
00:36:16,110 --> 00:36:18,690
I mean, it's great, 'cause
you have, like, a mom
627
00:36:18,780 --> 00:36:22,400
and someone who, like... who gives
a shit and takes care of you,
628
00:36:22,490 --> 00:36:24,910
but, like, you get to go and
do all these fun things
629
00:36:24,990 --> 00:36:27,530
and go to your whatever things,
630
00:36:27,620 --> 00:36:30,580
- and see your girlfriends and whatever...
- It hasn't been that fun for me.
631
00:36:30,660 --> 00:36:32,830
- ... your Tinder dates.
- But it's... I think you're not...
632
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,250
It's... This isn't fun.
633
00:36:34,540 --> 00:36:37,460
It's been incredibly
messy and challenging,
634
00:36:37,540 --> 00:36:39,760
and destabilizing and upsetting.
635
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,090
I mean, I... I had my
heart broken recently.
636
00:36:45,180 --> 00:36:48,220
It's been so long since
I've felt that...
637
00:36:49,260 --> 00:36:50,260
and it...
638
00:36:50,770 --> 00:36:51,770
shook me up.
639
00:36:53,310 --> 00:36:54,310
I feel...
640
00:36:54,730 --> 00:36:57,190
insecure and judged and...
641
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:01,190
ugly and fat and old and...
642
00:37:01,650 --> 00:37:04,240
unattractive and completely...
643
00:37:05,240 --> 00:37:07,740
uncool and ill-equipped to be, like...
644
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,950
throwing myself out there,
but I keep doing it
645
00:37:11,450 --> 00:37:13,210
because I was dead.
646
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:18,710
I mean, we were... we were stuck.
647
00:37:21,260 --> 00:37:23,220
And now I feel like we're not stuck.
648
00:37:24,630 --> 00:37:26,760
And I don't know what I'm doing,
649
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:30,510
but I feel like I'm actually
engaging with the world again.
650
00:37:34,730 --> 00:37:37,900
But you're not engaging
with me. You don't want me.
651
00:37:40,190 --> 00:37:41,980
I do want you, and I hear that,
652
00:37:42,070 --> 00:37:44,070
but I think we're not
engaging with each other.
653
00:37:44,150 --> 00:37:45,490
I don't think this is about...
654
00:37:46,610 --> 00:37:48,530
No, we're not. We're not
engaging with each other.
655
00:37:48,620 --> 00:37:51,790
But I just don't... I don't feel
like... You don't want me.
656
00:37:52,620 --> 00:37:53,950
You don't want me.
657
00:37:54,660 --> 00:37:56,250
- Andi, you need to trust...
- It feels...
658
00:37:56,330 --> 00:37:58,830
- It feels like you don't want me.
- Don't tell me what I want.
659
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:00,380
If this is gonna work, we gotta...
660
00:38:00,460 --> 00:38:03,760
Like, if I'm saying I want
you, you have to trust that.
661
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,260
Do I always want you
in the same way? No.
662
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,340
Like, I think spending a life
with someone is about...
663
00:38:10,050 --> 00:38:13,720
riding the wave of ups and downs
and, like, I'm aware that...
664
00:38:13,810 --> 00:38:16,770
Yeah, but you're not talking about
the thing that I'm talking about.
665
00:38:16,850 --> 00:38:19,560
- What are you talking about?
- That you're... That you're...
666
00:38:19,650 --> 00:38:23,190
Like, I don't wanna actually go
do this shit with other guys.
667
00:38:23,780 --> 00:38:26,530
- I don't want to. I don't... I don't...
- Okay. Okay!
668
00:38:29,820 --> 00:38:31,410
I wanted to have sex...
669
00:38:32,450 --> 00:38:35,410
and we weren't having sex, and
I wanted... I wanted that.
670
00:38:38,750 --> 00:38:39,790
Yeah, me too.
671
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:42,590
And now that's happening.
672
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:44,760
Yeah, and now I just feel like...
673
00:38:46,420 --> 00:38:47,420
Why?
674
00:38:48,630 --> 00:38:49,630
For what?
675
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:58,810
- I... I mean...
- Is that really what it is?
676
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:01,690
- I...
- You need, you have to fuck other people?
677
00:39:01,770 --> 00:39:03,230
You know that that's not...
678
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:05,280
I'm... I'm genuinely asking.
679
00:39:05,650 --> 00:39:06,650
What is it, then?
680
00:39:07,650 --> 00:39:09,400
No, I mean it's not about...
681
00:39:09,540 --> 00:39:10,740
I think...
682
00:39:10,910 --> 00:39:11,910
you're the one...
683
00:39:12,370 --> 00:39:13,450
who...
684
00:39:13,530 --> 00:39:15,120
this has been more about, like,
685
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:17,250
when you say, like, "I
just wanted to have sex."
686
00:39:17,270 --> 00:39:18,620
Well, I wanted to feel sexy,
687
00:39:18,710 --> 00:39:21,320
- and I wanted to feel paid attention to.
- Right, but I'm actually...
688
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:22,940
I'm like...
689
00:39:23,250 --> 00:39:25,500
in a relationship with someone.
690
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:27,340
- Like...
- You mean...
691
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:28,630
Amy.
692
00:39:29,130 --> 00:39:30,130
Like, we...
693
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,510
We're figuring it out. We... We...
694
00:39:36,770 --> 00:39:38,100
sort of re...
695
00:39:39,270 --> 00:39:40,940
considered being together tonight.
696
00:39:41,020 --> 00:39:43,810
We reconciled. We are...
697
00:39:44,940 --> 00:39:46,400
reengaging with each other.
698
00:39:49,030 --> 00:39:51,490
And I don't know what that'll
be. I mean, I... It...
699
00:39:53,990 --> 00:39:57,950
Yeah, I... I might be playing
with fire. It's, like, it has...
700
00:39:58,540 --> 00:40:01,080
sort of, eventually, an expiration date,
701
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,170
because she wants to be
married and have kids,
702
00:40:04,250 --> 00:40:07,090
and... and I can't give that to her.
703
00:40:07,170 --> 00:40:09,510
So I know that she might
meet someone, but...
704
00:40:10,470 --> 00:40:12,630
I don't wanna shut myself off to...
705
00:40:14,180 --> 00:40:15,470
continuing to know her.
706
00:40:30,240 --> 00:40:31,240
Okay.
707
00:40:32,300 --> 00:40:33,360
Okay.
708
00:40:33,450 --> 00:40:36,200
Look, I hear, I see that
this is really hard for you.
709
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:37,280
Do you love her?
710
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:39,200
Yeah.
711
00:40:44,210 --> 00:40:45,500
What is the point?
712
00:40:45,710 --> 00:40:47,670
Why are you talking... Why are you here?
713
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:51,340
Why are you doing this?
714
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:53,090
Why?
715
00:40:53,550 --> 00:40:54,720
It sucks.
716
00:40:55,300 --> 00:40:56,680
Fucking sucks.
717
00:40:59,180 --> 00:41:00,720
It sucks for me.
718
00:41:00,970 --> 00:41:02,560
For me, it sucks.
719
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:05,770
Do you understand?
720
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:08,400
- Now... Now I do. I...
- It sucks!
721
00:41:15,490 --> 00:41:18,700
- I'm so sorry. I...
- How would you feel?
722
00:41:22,780 --> 00:41:23,879
What do you mean? I mean, like,
723
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:28,100
you've been obsessed
with Ryan for weeks now.
724
00:41:28,250 --> 00:41:29,420
- I feel...
- That's exactly right.
725
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:31,160
I've been obsessed.
726
00:41:31,590 --> 00:41:33,840
- And so stupid.
- Uh... I guess I just don't know
727
00:41:33,860 --> 00:41:35,800
what you thought we were doing.
728
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,720
- I don't know what we're doing.
- I feel a little, like...
729
00:41:40,140 --> 00:41:41,310
uh, tricked right now.
730
00:41:41,390 --> 00:41:43,270
- Like, we've been...
- I'm sorry, I don't mean to...
731
00:41:43,350 --> 00:41:46,190
You've known about Amy from
the beginning. Like, we've...
732
00:41:46,260 --> 00:41:47,360
I...
733
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:49,479
I think what's happening
here is, like, we ha...
734
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:51,610
we lost each other in this.
735
00:41:51,690 --> 00:41:53,360
We have not been...
736
00:41:53,860 --> 00:41:55,260
You haven't told me any of this.
737
00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:56,610
You haven't shared any of this with me.
738
00:41:56,620 --> 00:41:58,020
Obviously I've known
something was going on,
739
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:00,120
because you've been
really sharp with me,
740
00:42:00,140 --> 00:42:02,380
and I'm sure I have been with you.
741
00:42:02,870 --> 00:42:04,200
But... And I get it.
742
00:42:04,290 --> 00:42:06,870
- It's horrible to hear that...
- I'm not even mad at you.
743
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,710
I'm not mad at all. I'm just so sad.
744
00:42:11,210 --> 00:42:12,800
You can't get it back.
745
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:16,010
Can you? How do you get it back?
746
00:42:17,340 --> 00:42:18,970
This is so stupid.
747
00:42:20,180 --> 00:42:21,720
I feel so stupid.
748
00:42:25,980 --> 00:42:28,919
I don't know. I don't wanna do it.
You can be in love with her.
749
00:42:30,230 --> 00:42:32,070
Obviously, I can't stop you.
750
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:36,360
But I don't think
you'll get closer to me
751
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:37,650
- by being in love with her.
- I...
752
00:42:37,740 --> 00:42:39,030
- By being with her.
- I don't think
753
00:42:39,110 --> 00:42:41,490
this is something that
we can decide in a bar.
754
00:42:41,580 --> 00:42:45,750
- You don't have to decide anything.
- Like, I think that I deserve more...
755
00:42:46,370 --> 00:42:48,250
of a continuing...
756
00:42:48,790 --> 00:42:50,670
conversation and process about this.
757
00:42:50,750 --> 00:42:51,840
I think maybe
758
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:54,550
- we can talk about it in couples' therapy.
- What am I getting?
759
00:42:54,630 --> 00:42:56,880
I don't know. You need to
tell me what you're getting.
760
00:42:57,420 --> 00:43:00,220
But I also know you weren't getting
anything out of our marriage
761
00:43:00,550 --> 00:43:02,720
- a year and a half ago.
- Yeah, yeah, you're right.
762
00:43:02,850 --> 00:43:05,470
So I don't know what you
wanna go back to, Andi.
763
00:43:06,060 --> 00:43:07,680
I don't know what was so thrilling
764
00:43:07,770 --> 00:43:09,390
- and compelling for you before.
- Right.
765
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:11,610
I don't know.
766
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:13,480
I think it was...
767
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:17,440
compelling to love someone and be loved.
768
00:43:18,150 --> 00:43:20,410
I think that's pretty
compelling, you know?
769
00:43:21,450 --> 00:43:24,950
I know this is stupid and I'm
sorry, but it's just sad.
770
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:27,200
I'm sorry.
771
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:30,370
I'm not trying to take
anything away from you.
772
00:43:30,460 --> 00:43:32,580
I just feel so sad.
773
00:43:33,540 --> 00:43:35,670
We don't have to do anything. It's fine.
774
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:37,260
You can be with her.
775
00:43:37,340 --> 00:43:39,220
- I just don't wanna do it.
- All right.
776
00:43:40,590 --> 00:43:43,300
And... And I hear that. I
hear what you're saying.
777
00:43:44,140 --> 00:43:47,600
I'm asking you to also hear me
and meet me halfway, in that...
778
00:43:48,020 --> 00:43:49,440
I think right now you're...
779
00:43:49,460 --> 00:43:51,310
you're making this a
little black and white.
780
00:43:51,390 --> 00:43:53,720
I don't know what will happen with her.
781
00:43:53,860 --> 00:43:55,900
I don't... I... I love her.
782
00:43:55,980 --> 00:43:57,780
I have love for her.
783
00:43:57,860 --> 00:44:01,280
She is... has become a
very special person to me.
784
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:04,660
It's also very possible that
tomorrow, she will freak out again
785
00:44:04,740 --> 00:44:06,410
and say, "I don't wanna do this."
786
00:44:06,490 --> 00:44:09,700
It's not really about what
she's gonna do, for me.
787
00:44:09,790 --> 00:44:11,920
I don't really care what she's gonna do.
788
00:44:12,420 --> 00:44:13,960
I feel sorry for her.
789
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:15,590
I'm sad for her, too.
790
00:44:15,670 --> 00:44:17,060
I just think there's a real possibility
791
00:44:17,070 --> 00:44:19,210
that you're gonna change your mind...
792
00:44:19,300 --> 00:44:21,380
in a couple of days, and realize that...
793
00:44:31,350 --> 00:44:32,600
I don't know what to say.
794
00:44:32,690 --> 00:44:36,610
I mean, I... I don't see right now
how I can walk this decision back,
795
00:44:36,690 --> 00:44:38,190
I mean, I feel like...
796
00:44:38,650 --> 00:44:40,070
I have opened up a whole...
797
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:43,530
Pandora's Box that, like, I'm not...
798
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,370
I'm committed to this more than
just, like, having sex with people.
799
00:44:48,450 --> 00:44:50,160
Like, it's actually, like, a...
800
00:44:50,540 --> 00:44:52,210
It feels like an intrinsic...
801
00:44:53,210 --> 00:44:56,380
shift inside of, like, who I
am and how I view the world,
802
00:44:56,460 --> 00:44:59,380
and how I feel like... uh...
803
00:45:01,590 --> 00:45:04,340
I like myself better now. I like...
804
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:07,050
our life better now.
805
00:45:07,140 --> 00:45:11,890
I feel better about myself.
I feel more in my...
806
00:45:12,980 --> 00:45:14,810
self than I ever did.
807
00:45:16,020 --> 00:45:18,770
And I don't believe that it's healthy...
808
00:45:19,650 --> 00:45:21,570
for us or anyone to...
809
00:45:21,990 --> 00:45:24,740
lock into this...
810
00:45:26,700 --> 00:45:28,779
you know, "I own you and you own me
811
00:45:28,780 --> 00:45:30,740
and you can't think about anybody else."
812
00:45:30,770 --> 00:45:32,540
And, I mean...
813
00:45:33,870 --> 00:45:37,380
I'm not saying that we have to
always have sex with other people
814
00:45:37,460 --> 00:45:40,040
or relationships with other
people, but, like, I think...
815
00:45:40,130 --> 00:45:41,630
the open, the con... uh...
816
00:45:42,170 --> 00:45:43,760
Having the conversation, to me,
817
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:46,590
makes me feel like it's not
taboo, and it's not...
818
00:45:47,260 --> 00:45:50,600
And that I'm not perverted,
and that, like, I can...
819
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:53,930
That I'm not trapped.
820
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:02,900
I don't wanna trap you.
821
00:46:09,450 --> 00:46:11,410
I'd like to continue figuring out...
822
00:46:12,910 --> 00:46:15,910
being together side-by-side,
raising our children, and...
823
00:46:21,250 --> 00:46:23,510
growing up as people together, and...
824
00:46:23,590 --> 00:46:25,840
But, like, if you're not
interested in that,
825
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:29,550
then we can start talking about what
that looks like, but I'm not...
826
00:46:30,930 --> 00:46:31,930
Um...
827
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:34,930
I'm not interested in
making some snap decision
828
00:46:35,020 --> 00:46:37,100
tonight, or any night soon, about...
829
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,650
- I'm just lonely.
- Yeah.
830
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:42,940
I mean, I'm not just lonely.
831
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:44,400
I'm lonely.
832
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:45,480
I get it.
833
00:46:45,990 --> 00:46:46,990
This isn't...
834
00:46:48,660 --> 00:46:49,700
This isn't good.
835
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,789
I don't have to make any snap decisions.
836
00:46:54,790 --> 00:46:56,620
I'm just saying it isn't good.
837
00:46:57,460 --> 00:46:59,790
And it sounds like it's
really good for you.
838
00:46:59,870 --> 00:47:01,000
No, That's... I mean, like...
839
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:02,619
No, you just... you just said
840
00:47:02,620 --> 00:47:04,250
all the ways in which it's good for you,
841
00:47:04,340 --> 00:47:05,510
and I'm... I'm really happy.
842
00:47:05,590 --> 00:47:08,680
And I know I don't look happy, but
I'm happy for you and I mean that.
843
00:47:09,380 --> 00:47:10,510
I can't deny that.
844
00:47:14,510 --> 00:47:15,560
Yeah.
845
00:47:16,350 --> 00:47:17,350
I think...
846
00:47:17,770 --> 00:47:19,440
you're romanticizing...
847
00:47:19,940 --> 00:47:20,940
this whole...
848
00:47:21,700 --> 00:47:22,820
thing.
849
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:24,120
Uh...
850
00:47:24,150 --> 00:47:26,820
- Okay.
- And I say that as a friend.
851
00:47:27,690 --> 00:47:29,860
I don't... I'm not saying that,
like, you're a dumb fuck.
852
00:47:29,950 --> 00:47:32,320
I'm saying I think
you're romanticizing...
853
00:47:33,870 --> 00:47:37,200
That you're having a romance
with your... your idea of this,
854
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:40,019
and it's 'cause it's feeling really good
855
00:47:40,020 --> 00:47:41,820
and you're in love with someone.
856
00:47:43,130 --> 00:47:44,170
I mean...
857
00:47:44,670 --> 00:47:47,340
I've never been with...
in love with anyone else.
858
00:47:49,670 --> 00:47:52,260
The only person I've ever
been in love with was you.
859
00:48:02,940 --> 00:48:06,270
Can we just go? I don't... I
don't feel like crying anymore.
860
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:07,360
I'm sick of it.
861
00:48:11,650 --> 00:48:12,650
Yeah.
862
00:48:18,870 --> 00:48:20,620
Let me pay for these drinks.
863
00:48:51,570 --> 00:48:52,570
I do love you.
864
00:48:55,030 --> 00:48:56,490
I love you, too.
865
00:49:01,660 --> 00:49:02,660
So much.
866
00:49:14,260 --> 00:49:16,050
Can you just think about me...
867
00:49:17,220 --> 00:49:18,350
for tonight?
868
00:49:21,390 --> 00:49:23,230
And will you not look at your phone?
869
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:26,600
Yeah.
870
00:49:28,980 --> 00:49:30,150
Absolutely.
871
00:49:31,620 --> 00:49:33,440
Let's go relieve the babysitter.
872
00:49:43,550 --> 00:49:48,550
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