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how to manipulate people for good
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so this is a series I'm doing as a psychologist
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and again we're saying for good
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and one of the ways that we can help people change
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is to actually focus on ourselves
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so what I mean by this
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is that people don't change for people that they don't respect
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uh people are more likely to change for somebody that they respect
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they value and they admire
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we tend to take the opinions of people we respect
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a lot more seriously than the opinions of people we don't respect
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so one of the ways that you can ensure others follow you
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is to make sure that you focus on yourself
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on building up your own interests successes
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meeting your own goals having your own life
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and not over relying on the admiration or um
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approval of other people because this is not something we tend to respect
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so we tend to respect people that have an inner confidence
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and don't need to seek external approval from others
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and so if you wanna influence others
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it's actually a lot more effective to change yourself
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because changing other people is really hard
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and if it wasn't I wouldn't have a job1860
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