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[theme music playing]
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-…where you're both there, just to, like…
-Yeah.
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All right, well, Tyler, we are live here
in a couple seconds.
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-Are you ready to go?
-I sure am.
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-I have a lot coming through today.
-All right.
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-Yeah.
-All right, we'll see you out there.
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-Okay. [exclaims]
-Bye.
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My left arm's hurting, so we'll see.
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[Tyler] My name is Tyler Henry,
and I have a rather unusual ability.
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I don't exactly see dead people,
but I definitely communicate with them.
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I receive messages from those
who've passed for those still here,
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proving our loved ones
never truly leave us.
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I don't know who I'm going to read
or what messages may come through,
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but powerful revelations await
from the other side.
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This is
Live from the Other Side with Tyler Henry.
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On the sofa behind me
is a celebrity couple
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and their friends and family.
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They're here to get a live reading
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from the world's
most renowned medium, Tyler Henry.
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Hi, I'm Amanda Kloots.
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As you may or may not know,
Tyler never knows who he is going to read
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and is about
to meet them all for the first time.
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So, let's have Tyler come on out here.
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-All right.
-[Amanda] Hi, Tyler.
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-Hello, everybody.
-[woman] Hi, Tyler.
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[chuckles]
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-[Tyler] Oh, hello, hello.
-What's up, man?
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-How you doing, Doc?
-[Tyler] Oh, good to meet you.
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How you doing, star?
Great to meet you, man.
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-[Tyler] Familiar face.
-Good to see you.
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It's so good to see you, Camille.
How are you?
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-Hi, nice to meet you.
-Wonderful to meet you.
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-Hi, I'm Brittany.
-Oh, wonderful to meet you.
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-I'm Dan.
-Hi, Dan.
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-I'm Rob's brother. Yeah.
-Thank you so much for coming.
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-Hi, Tyler.
-And good to see you.
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-Good to see you again.
-Hi, Mama.
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-[chuckles]
-[Theresa] Hi, Tyler.
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Hi, Mom. Of course, we have Tyler's
beautiful mother with us today, Theresa.
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All right, Tyler, as you may know,
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we have four-time Super Bowl Champion,
Rob Gronkowski here today on the couch.
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Yes. Yes.
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I didn't know who he was,
but I could tell just by looking at him.
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-[Amanda chuckling]
-[Tyler] Absolutely.
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And his girlfriend,
Camille Kostek, is here.
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TV, model, actress.
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You guys tell us who you brought
with you today and how you know them.
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Yeah, so I brought my brother,
Dan Gronkowski here,
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he's four years older than me,
so I've known him my whole life.
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[guests chuckling]
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And then I got my sister-in-law
here as well, who is married
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to my brother, Dan.
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And I've known her
since I was in high school.
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-[overlapping chatter]
-And it's been how long?
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-You know, about, you know, 20 years.
-Twenty.
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-Yeah.
-Yeah.
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Twenty-one years. Well, how long
have you guys been together?
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-2003.
-Yeah.
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So, about 20, 21 years
I've known Brittany, uh, for now.
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We're all from Buffalo.
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-[Tyler] Nice. Incredible.
-Yes. And…
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Yeah, and then, obviously, my girlfriend,
Camille, who you know.
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-[Tyler] Yes.
-Yes.
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You don't know who I am,
which is kind of cool.
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And you know who Camille is,
which is awesome.
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Camille and I actually
both did a photoshoot
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for a magazine years and years ago
over in the Hamptons.
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And so she was a guest and I was a guest.
We were both invited.
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I wasn't sure if you were going
to remember. I'm so happy.
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I never forget a face.
And I was so starstruck back then.
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But this is my best friend, Zoe Bucuvalas.
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And we've known each other
for 11, 12 years now.
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And she's like a sister to me.
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So, it was a no-brainer
that she was who I was bringing.
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Well, you want to know a little fun fact?
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Both of them cheered for me
when I was playing on the football field.
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-[Zoe] Oh, my God!
-[overlapping chatter]
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They're still cheering for me to this day.
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-Oh, yeah. [chuckles]
-Yeah. [chuckles]
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It all works together,
there's meaningful coincidences.
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[Amanda] That's right.
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And, Camille, isn't it true
that you have been on Tyler's wait list
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-since 2016?
-Yes.
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[Amanda] Can you tell us how you signed up
and why you signed up
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back in 2016,
and what being here today right now
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with Tyler about to get a reading
means to you?
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And don't tell me
who you want to connect with.
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-[laughs]
-[Camille] I'm not, I'm not, I'm not.
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-Just to jump in.
-No, I know the rules.
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I've been watching all the episodes.
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But I-- It was 2016.
That's when I first moved to Los Angeles.
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So, this is like truly
a full circle moment
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of like coming out to L.A.
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and chasing dreams.
And now, I get to be here.
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And out of everything I do in life,
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like this is-- These are
the moments that are so purposeful
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and so meaningful.
So, we're really excited.
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But I watched an episode
of you when you would go
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into the celebrity homes.
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And I just remember
feeling, like, really lost
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in my life at that time
and I just remember you
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giving so many answers
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to this guest about relationship
and health and career
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and I was like, "Oh, sign me up."
Like, I want all the answers.
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'Cause I was just looking
for any sort of direction
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and guidance and so this feels
very divinely guided that we're here
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-with you today. We feel really lucky.
-Yes.
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-Aw.
-Oh, I feel so lucky.
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It's so wonderful we get to reconnect
and we'll see what comes in today.
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And I'll basically just
kind of relay everything
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that comes through.
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So, basically the way that this
will work is I have my notepad here
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and I've just been
scribbling, scribbling, scribbling.
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It'll end up looking
like a bit of an abstract painting
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-by the end of this.
-[Camille chuckles]
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But as I kind of scribble,
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I start opening myself
up to impressions.
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And these impressions
come through mentally.
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So, I generally will kind of sometimes
see things, get feelings,
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get memories that aren't my own,
but apply to somebody else.
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And I have to concisely be able
to identify those messages
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and communicate them
in a way that makes sense.
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You know, I'm a big believer,
anybody could tell you,
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"Oh, your loved one loves you
or they're proud of you." Right?
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But it's the facts and the details
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and the specifics
that are really only known between you
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and the person that passed
that makes that reading meaningful.
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And so very often, we find that
will revolve around inside jokes,
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family dynamics
will sometimes come through,
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like how people interact with each other.
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Sometimes, even recent conversations
that we were having earlier today
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or last week often will kind of come in.
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So, for me, you can imagine
it's very weird and kind of random,
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but as we communicate it,
it becomes not so random.
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So, with that said,
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sometimes objects help me make
a little bit more of a connection.
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And I see that we have
a number of objects here.
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And before we start, I just want
to laugh at this because, you know,
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sometimes I'll get impressions before.
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And I have to show you what…
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[Camille] Oh, this is so cool already.
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Okay, so I wrote this
right before we got here. [chuckles]
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-[guests exclaim, laugh]
-And it says Red Sox object.
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-Oh, my God.
-Wow.
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[Tyler] I do see that's a Boston hat
over there. I'm not that great at sports.
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-[chuckles]
-That's a Boston Red Sox hat right there.
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So, there we go.
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-[Zoe] Wow.
-Already hitting it right on the money.
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-[Tyler] I have the chills.
-[Camille] So do I. [chuckles]
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It's good to keep in mind
that this symbolizes very much
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whoever that hat's connected to,
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whatever that is that
that individual already was trying
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to kind of come through
before he even got here today.
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So please know that
if we don't get anything more
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than that, this person was here
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and needed to be one
of the first people to show up.
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-So…
-He's usually late, so that's good.
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[Tyler] Yeah, exactly, right?
There you go.
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They're making up for it. I actually have…
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You know what?
I'll sign this because it's kind of sweet.
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And I'll give it to you, and you know,
we'll see if we can connect more.
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[Amanda] Tyler, what did you see
when you wrote that down?
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Did you see something Red Sox?
Did you see baseball?
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Literally? Well, okay,
so I have a baseball photo of
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when I was in Red Sox little league team.
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-I just got done telling them that, Tyler.
-[Tyler] And, yes. Oh, no way.
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-[Amanda] Oh, my gosh.
-[Tyler] Yes.
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Stop, all the synchronicities going on.
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Of course, you hit the ball
you ran to third base.
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I did! I'm a natural athlete.
I thought I'd gotten to homerun.
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I went to the third, to second,
to first and back to the base.
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-Mum's like, yay!
-[Amanda] Yay!
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-Everyone was like…
-[overlapping chatter, laughing]
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-Your mother sold you out. I'm sorry.
-[Tyler] She did.
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Yes, not my strongest talent,
but as we go through this today,
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I'll basically relay
everything that comes in.
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Um, we'll make our way
down the kind of, list,
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um, but what I'll do is
I'll start holding onto some objects
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and just kind of scribble,
and we'll go from there.
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So we'll start with the one
closest to me, if you don't mind.
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-Will you help grab…
-[Rob] Mm-hmm.
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I have such little arms, I swear.
Like a little man, all right.
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Let me just hold onto this for one sec.
Just kinda take a minute.
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Get a sense.
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Okay, cool, all right,
we can put that one back.
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And then I'm trying
to see where they're guiding me,
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because I have, I definitely,
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it's interesting,
I'm bifurcating everybody kind of,
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slightly in my mind.
So give me one minute.
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And then Camille,
did you bring anything today?
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Actually, I just had Rob reach
for me because he's a monster.
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-So that was for a couple of us.
-[Tyler] Cool.
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All right. Give me one sec.
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Because I have-- What's interesting
is a number of older people.
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We'll talk about grandparents
and people that we kind of expect.
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But there is one person I'm gonna try
to figure out who's a little bit more
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on the younger side that passed as well.
That would be a male.
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And we'll talk about that at length.
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But he's kind of like my one off,
the one that I would talk about.
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There's basically a guy who passed away.
He's like a real fun time,
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he comes across. And he would have
passed kind of closer to middle age.
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-[Camille] Yep.
-And when he comes in, he's very bro-ish.
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-[chuckles] In the way he's coming in.
-Okay.
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Like I kind of want to be
like, "Hey, you meatball,"
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like that kind of,
like, situation the way this comes across.
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-[Rob] Life of the party?
-[Tyler] Yes, for sure.
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-Yeah.
-He wants to talk a lot?
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Yeah, very much it's kind
of coming in that way,
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but this guy when he comes across,
there's something funny
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when I would interact with him,
he gives me this kinda drawn-out, like…
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-"Hey!" Like I'm-- "Hey!" [chuckles]
-Oh, my…
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-Very Italian. And an Aristocrat
-Yeah, yeah, like I'm drawn-out, like…
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[all laughing]
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-You said "meatball,"…
-Sounds like you know this guy.
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-[Dan] Yep.
-[laughs]
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Without giving too much away,
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'cause I'm just gonna
relay random stuff here,
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how does the "meatball' thing connect
or the "hey" thing?
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Um, there is a guy
who passed middle age that we,
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um, when Rob and I
talked before doing this,
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like, if there was someone
we wanted to connect with,
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-it's this person I think is already…
-[Tyler] Yeah.
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-…here.
-[Tyler] Wow.
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And passed middle age,
very unexpected, and in his sleep.
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And he is that, like,
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he's actually the reason Rob
and I are still together, actually.
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Aw. That's so beautiful.
All right, let's see if we can go further.
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Now, as far as the description of,
like, how he would enter a room
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or be like, "Hey," do you understand
that aspect?
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-[Camille] Yes.
-Just kind of drawing stuff out.
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I'm one of the, like…
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-You knew when he entered the room.
-Really, really cute
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in the way this comes across
and he probably wouldn't want me
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to call it cute.
But it's funny the way he comes in.
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As this comes across, he's having me
acknowledge this feeling of,
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like, watching and never feeling
like he could ever truly grow up
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on some level,
but it's kind of interesting
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'cause that feels like
that was one of his greatest qualities
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and then also kind of
something he struggled with.
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And I know that's a hard thing to say,
but he's kind of like that… [exhales]
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When I connect with him,
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I get the sense that I understand
that my life ended prematurely,
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but the life I lived
in the time that I had was so fun.
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-It's really the only way to describe it.
-He never missed a beat.
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And it just kind of feels like, you know,
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sometimes people live to be 90
and they don't live at all.
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This guy, while passing middle age,
he got a lot of life in there.
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In the time that comes across.
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What I can say is
that he has me acknowledged kind of,
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the series of events
that led to his passing.
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For some reason, he's having me talk
about kind of a transference
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between being discovered
and being taken somewhere.
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So I have to kind of figure
this aspect out in a certain sense.
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-[Camille] Okay.
-There's a feeling of just kind of
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lapsing into unconsciousness
that comes in.
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But I feel like I have
a very low heartbeat.
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So, the way that I would describe this
is if, in his case,
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it wouldn't surprise me
if his heart kind of,
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like, stopped and then
kind of started beating again
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just for a little while,
and then he passed.
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And I kind of see that procession
in the way this comes in.
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Do we know if this guy had any problems
with his chest or heart,
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or do we know what he even passed of?
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-Well, he did pass away from-- Wow, this…
-[Tyler] It's okay.
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-Yeah.
-Wow.
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-[Camille] I can help you.
-A, uh, a heart attack.
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-[Tyler] Got it.
-So you're hitting it right on the money.
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Yeah. And hey-- I gotta--
I have to let you know
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when he comes across,
he comes real casual and real cool.
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But this guy comes in and he didn't
want there to be a rush around
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trying to get him help to get,
you know, to kind of, like, revive him.
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He's like, it just was already happening.
I feel like my heart is not beating…
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at a level that would allow me
to continue living,
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but at a very slow level.
This guy comes in, just like,
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gives me the sense of living vicariously
through your actions,
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through what you guys do.
I have other people popping in.
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There's like a lot here. I'm like… Whoo!
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-Wow. Tyler, that was spot on.
-[Rob] Wow, this is incredible.
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-You're like literally so spot on, like…
-[Brittany] Yes.
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-[Amanda] Can you guys share…
-Like to the highest power.
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…how you connect to this person,
who this person is,
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because you both are getting so emotional.
We would love to know.
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[Camille] Yeah.
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He was kind of one of the first, you know,
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you know, people that, you know,
a person that I met when I
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got to New England
when I was drafted to the Patriots.
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I met him at a car dealership, actually.
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I was getting an oil change and I,
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you know, I was kind of in a hurry
and, you know, oil change takes like
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30 minutes and he had me
in the office for four hours.
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-[guests laugh]
-Yeah, because he was that entertaining.
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And he just, you know, loved to talk
and loved to be the center of attention,
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and I loved to just
sit there and watch him go.
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It was true entertainment,
and he was so fun to be around,
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and he loved being a kid.
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He did not wanna grow up, like you said,
and he just passed out of nowhere.
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It was just…
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One night, I just got woken up at,
at 3:00 a.m.
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-I was living with his brother…
-Wow.
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…who woke me up and, uh,
he told me that he passed away,
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you know, from a heart attack.
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So it was, it was a tough night,
you know, tough morning.
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Rob was there in the hospital with…
his name is Dana
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and in Rob's phone he's "Dana Oil Change."
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-[Amanda] Aw.
-[all laughing]
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To this day.
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But what's so interesting
about that night is
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Rob and I were actually broken up.
It was the first time we'd broken up
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and it was like my… my…
it was like my deepest heartbreak
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and I was sad. I never thought,
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like, I kind of thought
that was the end of it. Us.
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And Dana was really like the glue
to our relationship a lot. So…
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I hadn't heard from Rob
for a couple months.
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And I woke up to a text
that Dana had passed.
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I don't know if Rob and I
would be together to this day
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because that brought us together
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and it was Rob's first funeral,
we went there together
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and I just remember him being
like, "Do I to go to football practice?"
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Like, "I don't know what to do."
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Um, and I was like,
"Coach Belichick will understand."
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-[Tyler] Yes.
-"And I think you should go and do that."
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And it just, like, it--
Nothing else mattered,
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and it didn't matter why we separated.
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It was like, we came together
for this unconditional love
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that we had for Dana and for each other.
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And that's how I got back into being
with the Gronkowski family and everything.
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So, Dana's a huge part
of our relationship,
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and a huge part of his life
and a lot of our lives.
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-[chuckles]
-[Tyler] And what a gift
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to be able to take that experience
and be able to have it act as a reminder
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-of what really matters…
-[Camille] Yes.
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…you know,
and the love and that connection.
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And when he comes across,
he's very much about the babes.
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-[laughs]
-[guests laughing]
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[indistinct chatter, laughing]
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Yeah. You keep hitting it spot on.
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-[Tyler] Yeah. We…
-[continues laughing]
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There's a kind of silliness
around marriage.
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He's good friends with, like, our dad
and our whole family.
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-Yep.
-[Tyler] Yeah, that would make sense.
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He was kind of in the age
between my dad and Rob,
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-so he was everyone's friend.
-[Tyler] Got it.
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[Rob] He actually hosted
the tailgate parties
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-that you always attended, Dan.
-Yup.
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-[laughs]
-Right, well.
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-[overlapping chatter]
-[Rob] Well, without him hosting,
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you would never go to the tailgate party.
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-There would be no party without our man.
-[Amanda] Wow.
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Rob, did you make it
to football practice that day?
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No, I actually just went in
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and explained to Coach Belichick
what happened,
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and I'd been up since 2:00 a.m.,
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and it was the first time
he ever let me off of practice. [chuckles]
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-[Tyler] Wow, wow, wow.
-Oh, wow.
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-[Rob] So…
-[Tyler smacking lips] Let me
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take this a step further,
and we're gonna kind of continue
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in the way this comes through,
'cause we have our guy here,
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and we'll kind of go back and forth,
but more than anything,
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I have to let you know
he totally lives vicariously…
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-Oh, he sure did.
-…through both of you in a big way.
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He did not miss a beat
of what I was doing. [laughs]
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I believe. And he-- When--
In the way this comes across,
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there's a couple things to keep in mind.
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I have one other slightly younger person
coming in over there,
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so we'll talk in a minute, but…
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[laughs] …I have to kind of figure out
where we're going.
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I wanna bring up
an acknowledgement around, like…
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-[pen scribbles]
-…grandparent stuff for a moment.
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And we'll go there.
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But I have to figure out what this is.
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Because we are in 2024.
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[smacks lips] If we go back
about ten years…
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kind of like to 2014-ish.
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Around that timeframe,
maybe a little earlier,
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they're having me acknowledge
a couple passings.
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And I'm trying to kind of determine
where we're going with that.
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I have to highlight
an acknowledgement around a sister
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who has a grandmother's middle,
wait, I'm so sorry,
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a sister whose middle name
would be grandma's name. [smacks lips]
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-Yup.
-[Tyler] Does that apply to…
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Yeah. My brother just had a baby
and named her after my grandmother
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-as well as my cousin.
-[Tyler] Got it. Okay.
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So, that-- We will go there.
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Give me one minute there.
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-Camille, in your family…
-Yeah. I s…
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…do you know if there's any situations
where a female pre-deceased a man,
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like a grandmother figure died
before a grandfather
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or a great-grandmother died
before a great-grandfather?
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There's a female who went
kind of earlier than the guy.
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There's an acknowledgement
of an M-A-R sounding.
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I was gonna say
my sister's middle name is Mary.
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-[Tyler] Okay.
-My grandmother's name is Mary.
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She's still living, but I don't know
if Mary was named after a Mary.
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-Oh, gotcha, gotcha.
-Right.
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My mom is the queen
of knowing our family tree. And…
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-[Amanda chuckling]
-Very well could be a Mary.
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Got it. I would look into,
separate from this,
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if there were any females that died
before their male partners,
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and that's coming back
kind of generationally a ways.
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-[Camille] Okay.
-If we talk about houses,
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do you know of any properties that have,
like, if you're talking about, like…
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the front door area.
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You know how some houses have, like,
steps right before you go to a front door?
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Yep.
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It's gonna be a weird thing to say,
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but do you know of any situations
where there's like four steps?
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-To my house.
-[Tyler] Four steps.
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00:16:53,613 --> 00:16:55,431
-Yep.
-Like, one, two, three, four.
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-To my home that I grew up in.
-[Tyler] Okay. Okay.
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'Cause this is gonna sound strange,
but there's-- They're having me talk about
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a caution around, like,
someone tripping and falling on the steps.
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-Right.
-And then, they're having me acknowledge,
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just keeping in mind
when we talk about, like,
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people well-being and just, like,
I don't wanna go flying…
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-Yep.
-[laughs] …in the way it comes in.
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So, it's a weird visual,
but it does kind of pop in,
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-in some larger capacity.
-Okay.
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00:17:15,418 --> 00:17:17,670
I do wanna bring up
your dad really quickly.
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Your dad, your guys's dad. [laughs]
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Give me one minute there.
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Jumping back and forth,
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it's kind of a group effort,
I love it.
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-[pen scribbles]
-[smacks lips]
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When we talk about Dad,
and we talk about living,
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so this is coming through
across as living.
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-Dad's living, correct?
-[Rob] My dad's living.
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Yes. So, I do have to go there
in the way this comes across.
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00:17:36,055 --> 00:17:38,474
And they're having me talk about having…
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to process my physical health.
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And, like, the only way
I can kind of word this is, like,
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you know when someone is really strong,
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and physically, like,
used to being healthy?
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And then, they kind of start realizing
they're slowing down,
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and their body feels like
it's kind of turning on them a little bit.
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There's kind of this sense of him having
to kind of take it easier.
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There's a sense of like,
"Don't stress out your body too much."
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00:17:59,362 --> 00:18:02,164
It's almost like, "Don't do
more than… You think you can do it,
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but be careful,
'cause I want him to be cautious."
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00:18:05,718 --> 00:18:08,054
[smacks lips] It just basically it comes
with aging, but it is what it is.
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And then, they're having me highlight,
this is just so random.
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But before I came out, my, like--
I was trying to move my left arm
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in the way this came in,
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00:18:15,611 --> 00:18:19,081
and it was feeling so tight and painful.
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And I don't know why,
445
00:18:20,533 --> 00:18:24,787
but I would take that as a message
to keep in mind for somebody here around,
446
00:18:24,854 --> 00:18:29,091
like, if you end up having an issue
where from a long-term perspective,
447
00:18:29,125 --> 00:18:31,811
kind of comes up, goes down,
comes up, goes down, comes up, goes down,
448
00:18:31,961 --> 00:18:34,730
but it's hitting me in arm.
Like, my shoulder, neck, and arm
449
00:18:34,764 --> 00:18:37,266
all end up being affected
in, kind of, the long run.
450
00:18:37,300 --> 00:18:39,452
Do we know of any situations
of any living people
451
00:18:39,485 --> 00:18:41,771
where this applies, or any arm issues?
452
00:18:42,722 --> 00:18:44,790
Yeah, I mean,
he's probably listening right now,
453
00:18:44,824 --> 00:18:47,977
so it's probably good to tell him
to calm down in a way. But, uh…
454
00:18:48,010 --> 00:18:49,278
-[Tyler] Yeah.
-[Rob laughing]
455
00:18:49,345 --> 00:18:50,713
-Hurt his arm?
-Yeah, he's right.
456
00:18:50,746 --> 00:18:52,832
He's had a lot of issues come up
457
00:18:52,865 --> 00:18:54,700
from when he played
college football and stuff…
458
00:18:54,734 --> 00:18:56,736
-[Tyler] Okay.
-…and had neck surgery,
459
00:18:56,769 --> 00:18:57,820
-and…
-[Tyler] Got it.
460
00:18:57,853 --> 00:19:00,773
Yeah, a lot of his shoulder--
He's had a lot of issues with lately.
461
00:19:00,806 --> 00:19:03,309
And so, the way, I would say, this is,
it's just kind of acknowledgement.
462
00:19:03,342 --> 00:19:05,678
It's, like, taking it easy,
you know, know your limits,
463
00:19:05,711 --> 00:19:07,446
but it would affect
neck, shoulder and back.
464
00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:10,016
And all of those need to be
kind of just be kept in mind for him…
465
00:19:10,049 --> 00:19:11,500
-[Camille] Wow.
-…and that that's gonna be good
466
00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:12,918
-to consider.
-[pen scribbling]
467
00:19:12,985 --> 00:19:14,020
[Tyler] I have to bring up,
468
00:19:14,053 --> 00:19:18,274
and the way this comes in there,
got this other guy popping in…
469
00:19:19,542 --> 00:19:22,211
and then I've got-- [sighs, chuckles]
Can you give me one sec?
470
00:19:22,244 --> 00:19:24,697
So, is there a "Patty" at all?
471
00:19:24,730 --> 00:19:27,917
Do-- That we know of,
if I say "Patricia" or "Patty Ann"?
472
00:19:27,950 --> 00:19:29,118
[laughs]
473
00:19:29,969 --> 00:19:31,721
Let me look and see where this is.
474
00:19:31,754 --> 00:19:33,272
-[Camille] Patricia…
-[smacks lips]
475
00:19:33,305 --> 00:19:34,590
…that's someone
on my mom's side of the family.
476
00:19:34,740 --> 00:19:38,260
Okay, if we talk about
that side of family,
477
00:19:38,294 --> 00:19:42,915
and then we put a celebratory feeling
around sisters living.
478
00:19:42,948 --> 00:19:46,001
-[Camille] Mm-hmm.
-I have to highlight recent conversations,
479
00:19:46,035 --> 00:19:47,703
-involving a sister…
-Okay.
480
00:19:47,737 --> 00:19:49,655
…one of your sisters, I think,
if you have a sister.
481
00:19:49,689 --> 00:19:51,907
-Yep, I have two. Yes.
-[Tyler laughs] Just makin' sure.
482
00:19:51,941 --> 00:19:53,409
-'Cause I'm just literally going off…
-[Amanda] Two.
483
00:19:53,442 --> 00:19:54,744
-…of what I'm seeing.
-[Amanda] Two sisters.
484
00:19:54,777 --> 00:19:55,961
One of those sisters,
485
00:19:55,995 --> 00:19:57,830
they're putting
a celebratory feeling around,
486
00:19:57,863 --> 00:20:01,967
and they're wanting me to talk about
recent conversations of fertility, health,
487
00:20:02,001 --> 00:20:05,855
and, like, what do we wanna do
with the kid situation in the long run.
488
00:20:05,888 --> 00:20:08,090
-[Camille] Okay.
-Conversations being had around that,
489
00:20:08,124 --> 00:20:09,975
and two people
kind of getting on the same page
490
00:20:10,009 --> 00:20:11,410
about how we work that out.
491
00:20:11,444 --> 00:20:12,511
-[laughs]
-Okay.
492
00:20:12,545 --> 00:20:17,566
But it would relate to, like, sisters,
celebratory expansion of family,
493
00:20:17,633 --> 00:20:19,635
-conversations around expansion of family.
-Okay.
494
00:20:19,668 --> 00:20:22,455
"Do we or do we not?"
And that kind of comes in.
495
00:20:23,572 --> 00:20:25,658
[smacks lips] Do you know
if anybody turned 30 recently,
496
00:20:25,691 --> 00:20:26,759
or if there was any big, like…
497
00:20:26,792 --> 00:20:27,710
-My sister.
-[Tyler] Okay, cool.
498
00:20:27,743 --> 00:20:28,677
-[Amanda] Wow.
-[chuckles]
499
00:20:28,711 --> 00:20:30,796
-I don't know if it's that sister…
-[Camille] Okay.
500
00:20:30,830 --> 00:20:32,698
…but just remember that I'm saying this.
501
00:20:32,732 --> 00:20:34,734
Conversations in, like,
the past year around
502
00:20:34,767 --> 00:20:36,452
what do I want my family to look like…
503
00:20:36,485 --> 00:20:37,420
-Okay.
-[Tyler] …in the future.
504
00:20:37,453 --> 00:20:38,671
That very much sounds like her.
505
00:20:38,738 --> 00:20:41,173
She just got married,
and she is, like… [smacks lips]
506
00:20:41,207 --> 00:20:42,992
…such a planner,
I'm so "Go with the flow."
507
00:20:43,025 --> 00:20:44,160
-[Tyler] Yes.
-[chuckles]
508
00:20:44,193 --> 00:20:45,895
-Got it.
-Do you want me to…
509
00:20:45,928 --> 00:20:48,114
I wasn't sure if you were
about to say something about Patricia.
510
00:20:48,147 --> 00:20:49,582
No, I was thinking of your sister, though.
511
00:20:49,615 --> 00:20:51,333
-Alina, right?
-Alina. Yeah. [laughs]
512
00:20:51,417 --> 00:20:52,518
Who I was thinking of. Yeah.
513
00:20:52,551 --> 00:20:54,703
But I don't know what the--
If she's had those conversations,
514
00:20:54,737 --> 00:20:56,055
-but I wouldn't be surprised.
-[Tyler] Yeah!
515
00:20:56,088 --> 00:20:57,540
-Yeah.
-[Rob] She's a big planner as well. So…
516
00:20:57,623 --> 00:20:58,891
-[overlapping chatter]
-So…
517
00:20:58,958 --> 00:21:00,743
And being on the same page
is very much the same thing.
518
00:21:00,776 --> 00:21:02,762
So, it would basically be
an acknowledgement between two partners,
519
00:21:02,795 --> 00:21:03,913
-making sure both are kind…
-Yes.
520
00:21:03,946 --> 00:21:05,331
-…of clear on what they want…
-Yes. Yes.
521
00:21:05,364 --> 00:21:07,600
-…and working on that.
-[Camille] Okay.
522
00:21:07,633 --> 00:21:10,336
And then, I wanna highlight,
and the way this comes in…
523
00:21:11,370 --> 00:21:12,721
[in hushed voice] Okay.
524
00:21:12,755 --> 00:21:14,924
Actually, those sisters just celebrated
their birthdays together.
525
00:21:14,957 --> 00:21:17,693
So, they were together,
and I actually was out of town.
526
00:21:17,726 --> 00:21:19,462
So, they could have--
I'm so curious. [chuckles softly]
527
00:21:19,495 --> 00:21:20,596
I have a sister in the back room.
528
00:21:20,629 --> 00:21:21,580
-I'm like…
-[Tyler] Yeah.
529
00:21:21,614 --> 00:21:22,832
…she's probably like,
"We had that conversation."
530
00:21:22,865 --> 00:21:23,766
[Tyler] That's very interesting.
531
00:21:23,916 --> 00:21:26,135
Well, we can always bring her out
if the need to be.
532
00:21:26,168 --> 00:21:27,837
-[laughs]
-[Tyler] Absolutely.
533
00:21:28,554 --> 00:21:29,638
Give me one sec.
534
00:21:30,856 --> 00:21:32,107
What is this, my friends?
535
00:21:32,958 --> 00:21:34,577
This is coming in.
536
00:21:34,610 --> 00:21:37,646
Um, okay. So a couple things
that are kind of a little off the wall,
537
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:38,848
but all good to keep in mind.
538
00:21:38,881 --> 00:21:41,467
One… [chuckles]
It might end up being--
539
00:21:41,500 --> 00:21:43,936
As far as your childhood home,
are you familiar with it still?
540
00:21:43,969 --> 00:21:44,954
-[Camille] Yes.
-[Tyler] Okay.
541
00:21:44,987 --> 00:21:48,440
Keep in mind, there's going to end up
being a conversation around roof damage,
542
00:21:48,474 --> 00:21:50,843
damage on the roof,
and it might be due to water.
543
00:21:50,876 --> 00:21:51,894
But that's good to keep in mind.
544
00:21:51,927 --> 00:21:53,579
Do you know of any issues that
have ever been discussed in…
545
00:21:53,729 --> 00:21:56,182
No, but it's coming up on 32 years,
546
00:21:56,215 --> 00:21:59,201
as old as I am, and my dad keeps talking
about how it needs a new roof.
547
00:21:59,235 --> 00:22:00,336
-Okay. Got it.
-[Zoe] Wow.
548
00:22:00,369 --> 00:22:02,071
[overlapping chatter, laughing]
549
00:22:02,104 --> 00:22:05,441
There's an acknowledgement around,
for some reason, a connection to Florida,
550
00:22:05,474 --> 00:22:09,094
the state of Florida and somebody
who passed connected to that state.
551
00:22:09,128 --> 00:22:13,148
Um, in some kind of larger way,
but I-- Remember that I'm saying this,
552
00:22:13,182 --> 00:22:16,819
check and see if anybody
had a skin cancer scare
553
00:22:16,852 --> 00:22:18,387
where they needed
to get something removed,
554
00:22:18,420 --> 00:22:21,073
and this would be
from the front of their body.
555
00:22:21,106 --> 00:22:23,559
And this is just good to look into.
It's not like a back mole or whatever.
556
00:22:23,592 --> 00:22:25,794
This would be like if someone had
to get something removed on their face.
557
00:22:25,828 --> 00:22:27,746
Something along those lines.
Just good to look into.
558
00:22:27,780 --> 00:22:29,181
-In the way this comes through.
-[Camille] Okay.
559
00:22:29,215 --> 00:22:32,835
My one question I would ask is do you know
of any connections to Florida or Texas?
560
00:22:32,868 --> 00:22:34,153
-Like either of those?
-Yeah. Both.
561
00:22:34,186 --> 00:22:35,638
[Tyler] Oh, got it. Okay, cool.
562
00:22:35,671 --> 00:22:37,339
-[chuckles]
-Rob…
563
00:22:37,373 --> 00:22:39,558
The brothers have two brothers
that live in Texas.
564
00:22:39,592 --> 00:22:41,076
I have a grandmother that lives in Texas.
565
00:22:41,110 --> 00:22:42,811
-[Tyler] Got it, okay.
-Florida…
566
00:22:42,845 --> 00:22:44,630
Where… We also have a home in Florida.
567
00:22:44,663 --> 00:22:47,049
[Tyler] Oh, no way. Amazing.
Congratulations.
568
00:22:47,082 --> 00:22:49,552
All right. So when we talk about Texas,
and I want to go to that grandma.
569
00:22:49,585 --> 00:22:51,053
-And she would still be living.
-[Camille] Yes.
570
00:22:51,086 --> 00:22:55,558
Um, I want to highlight a very strong
emphasis on cognitive health, well-being,
571
00:22:55,591 --> 00:22:58,127
and just looking after. You know?
572
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:01,430
There's times in life where we need help
more than others, and there might be
573
00:23:01,463 --> 00:23:05,301
just a conversation around easing
some responsibilities for her.
574
00:23:05,334 --> 00:23:06,669
-Yes.
-[Tyler] So it's all good.
575
00:23:06,702 --> 00:23:08,520
-[Tyler chuckles]
-Yes. That makes sense.
576
00:23:08,587 --> 00:23:11,640
[Tyler] In the way this comes in here,
there's going to be a coincidence
577
00:23:11,674 --> 00:23:14,910
around when we look at family ancestry.
578
00:23:14,944 --> 00:23:16,078
Remember that I'm saying this,
579
00:23:16,111 --> 00:23:20,082
this is so funny and kind of a bit
of a joke, but also partially serious.
580
00:23:20,115 --> 00:23:23,519
You two might end up finding
if you go back in your family ancestry,
581
00:23:23,552 --> 00:23:26,171
that you had family members that were from
582
00:23:26,205 --> 00:23:31,076
like, the same specific small area
of a much kind of larger place.
583
00:23:31,110 --> 00:23:33,712
So I'm not saying that your family
lineages have interacted before
584
00:23:33,896 --> 00:23:35,664
in the past, but I'm also not--
585
00:23:35,748 --> 00:23:37,917
I'm saying there might be
a funny coincidence that you end up
586
00:23:37,950 --> 00:23:40,636
discovering of, like,
not that our families are related,
587
00:23:40,669 --> 00:23:43,005
but that when it comes to places,
588
00:23:43,038 --> 00:23:45,107
-there's like a crossover between the two.
-Okay. Got it.
589
00:23:45,157 --> 00:23:47,526
And it's just good to keep in mind,
it comes across as silly.
590
00:23:47,559 --> 00:23:50,996
Well, actually, I was going
to say, we're both Polish.
591
00:23:51,030 --> 00:23:53,065
-Rob just went back to Poland.
-This is getting freaky now.
592
00:23:53,098 --> 00:23:55,117
-[guests laughing]
-We both have, like…
593
00:23:55,184 --> 00:23:56,452
some connections to Poland.
594
00:23:56,485 --> 00:23:58,187
-[Tyler] Got it. Very cool.
-[Zoe] Oh, wow.
595
00:23:58,220 --> 00:24:00,456
Do you know within Poland
if there's any similarities
596
00:24:00,639 --> 00:24:02,508
to the same kind of area of Poland?
597
00:24:02,541 --> 00:24:03,726
-I don't know that.
-[Tyler] Okay.
598
00:24:03,759 --> 00:24:05,311
That's going to be
the distinguishing fact.
599
00:24:05,344 --> 00:24:06,745
[Camille] I have homework to do.
600
00:24:06,779 --> 00:24:09,014
It's good to look into
because it keeps kind of popping in.
601
00:24:09,048 --> 00:24:13,302
-We both like Polish sausage.
-[Tyler] There you go. Absolutely.
602
00:24:13,335 --> 00:24:16,271
-[guests laughing]
-[mumbles indistinctly] Look there, there…
603
00:24:16,305 --> 00:24:19,208
My guy. What in the world?
604
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:22,478
-[Rob] What's the other Polish food, too?
-Kielbasa.
605
00:24:22,511 --> 00:24:23,629
-[Tyler] Got pierogi.
-Kielbasa.
606
00:24:23,696 --> 00:24:26,131
Pierogi. That's it. Pierogis, love them.
607
00:24:26,165 --> 00:24:27,800
-Absolutely.
-[chuckles]
608
00:24:29,435 --> 00:24:33,405
All right, give me one sec. They're
kind of switching gears a little bit.
609
00:24:35,691 --> 00:24:37,626
Okay, well, now here.
610
00:24:37,660 --> 00:24:39,895
[laughs] That's so funny.
611
00:24:39,928 --> 00:24:41,563
Okay, so obviously
you're a football player,
612
00:24:41,597 --> 00:24:43,782
and so I'm seeing trophies,
and I'm like, "Okay, well, come on,
613
00:24:43,849 --> 00:24:45,300
we gotta get a bit
more specific than that."
614
00:24:45,334 --> 00:24:48,404
But the weird thing with this,
this is just good to keep in mind,
615
00:24:48,437 --> 00:24:51,957
there might end up being,
if we talk about your family ancestry,
616
00:24:51,991 --> 00:24:54,860
if we talk about accolades
from older family members,
617
00:24:54,893 --> 00:24:57,613
like things that people achieved,
remember that I'm saying this.
618
00:24:57,646 --> 00:25:01,266
There might be like the misplacing
of kind of like an award.
619
00:25:01,300 --> 00:25:04,036
So if there were anything that Grandpa,
Great-Grandpa, Great-Great-Grandpa,
620
00:25:04,069 --> 00:25:06,572
was given as like,
"Hey, yeah, you did a good job."
621
00:25:07,172 --> 00:25:08,657
[whispers] I see it kind of going missing.
622
00:25:08,691 --> 00:25:11,777
[chuckles] Or kind of like,
I don't know where it's at.
623
00:25:11,810 --> 00:25:13,545
-[Camille] Oh, my gosh.
-[Tyler] Ask about this.
624
00:25:13,579 --> 00:25:16,548
It's not a big deal. They don't care on
the other side, but it's just kind of like
625
00:25:16,582 --> 00:25:18,851
if someone feels like,
"Oh, I lost that family thing."
626
00:25:18,884 --> 00:25:21,887
But the thing that's popping up
is a great-grandfather.
627
00:25:22,688 --> 00:25:26,542
Mine and Dan's great-grandfather,
he was in the Olympics for cycling
628
00:25:27,192 --> 00:25:30,779
about 100 years ago
in 1924 in the Paris Olympics.
629
00:25:30,813 --> 00:25:33,399
So maybe his medal got misplaced.
630
00:25:33,899 --> 00:25:35,818
-We were looking for it.
-[Brittany] Really?
631
00:25:35,851 --> 00:25:39,638
When Maxine passed away.
We were looking for his medals and stuff.
632
00:25:39,671 --> 00:25:41,790
[Tyler] Got it.
And were not able to find it or…
633
00:25:41,824 --> 00:25:43,976
Yeah, we weren't able
to find those things.
634
00:25:44,009 --> 00:25:45,577
[Amanda] Was this recently
that you did this?
635
00:25:45,761 --> 00:25:50,299
Yeah, so Maxine
is a great-grandfather's sister.
636
00:25:50,949 --> 00:25:54,503
She just passed away
and Dan was looking for that medal…
637
00:25:54,536 --> 00:25:57,706
-[Tyler] I see.
-…in Buffalo when they were cleaning
638
00:25:57,740 --> 00:26:00,359
-the things out. So…
-We were helping them clean the house…
639
00:26:00,392 --> 00:26:02,778
He just got inducted
into the Buffalo Hall of Fame.
640
00:26:02,811 --> 00:26:06,865
Oh, wow. How weird.
[chuckles] That's pretty cool.
641
00:26:06,899 --> 00:26:09,101
-That is crazy.
-Very, very interesting.
642
00:26:09,134 --> 00:26:12,337
I'm going to take this a step further
and we're going to navigate all of this
643
00:26:12,371 --> 00:26:13,472
as this comes through.
644
00:26:14,990 --> 00:26:17,059
Our friend here is showing me
a bunch of funny other things
645
00:26:17,092 --> 00:26:18,627
and he's not taking anything too serious.
646
00:26:18,660 --> 00:26:23,182
He's very like, "Whoo!" [chuckles]
There's a feeling of taking alcohol…
647
00:26:23,215 --> 00:26:26,401
[laughs] Okay, I'll have
to be careful how I word this.
648
00:26:26,435 --> 00:26:28,537
There's a joke in the way
this comes through with this guy.
649
00:26:28,570 --> 00:26:30,823
He's like, you know how
people can drink alcohol normally
650
00:26:30,856 --> 00:26:33,842
if someone took alcohol
in an abnormal way?
651
00:26:34,393 --> 00:26:35,811
So I'm trying to think how to word this.
652
00:26:35,844 --> 00:26:38,514
I don't drink, so it's kind of tricky,
but more than I would drink,
653
00:26:38,547 --> 00:26:42,167
if there's like a funnel
or if there's like a… If I'm…
654
00:26:42,201 --> 00:26:43,202
It would be…
655
00:26:43,702 --> 00:26:46,688
-This is so silly, but there's a story.
-[Amanda] Like a keg stand or something?
656
00:26:46,772 --> 00:26:49,158
[Tyler] There's something funny
with this. Of a…
657
00:26:49,191 --> 00:26:51,226
Basically, su-- [chuckles]
658
00:26:52,561 --> 00:26:57,666
Surpassing my liver to be able
to get just straight alcohol.
659
00:26:58,567 --> 00:27:00,786
-[laughs] And a joke about this.
-And just get hammered?
660
00:27:00,819 --> 00:27:02,855
-[Tyler] Just get hammered.
-Like, just, like, right away.
661
00:27:02,888 --> 00:27:04,756
Yes, and doing something
along these lines to try to,
662
00:27:04,790 --> 00:27:06,642
like, just get as drunk
as possible as quickly as possible.
663
00:27:06,675 --> 00:27:09,795
And it comes across as funny
and, like, good time, but I'm like,
664
00:27:09,828 --> 00:27:13,065
I would think of this
as more of, like, a frat boy behavior.
665
00:27:13,098 --> 00:27:15,267
-Who's coming through?
-This guy, the friend.
666
00:27:15,367 --> 00:27:16,768
-My friend? From the beginning?
-Yes, Dana.
667
00:27:16,802 --> 00:27:18,837
So there's, like, a thing…
I don't know if this was--
668
00:27:18,887 --> 00:27:20,172
-There was like…
-He's a big jokester.
669
00:27:20,222 --> 00:27:21,857
[Tyler] …a funnel, or if I'm, like…
670
00:27:21,890 --> 00:27:23,142
I-- I don't know how to explain…
671
00:27:23,175 --> 00:27:25,561
Do you have a story
or a memory with a funnel with him?
672
00:27:25,594 --> 00:27:26,495
No, I don't…
673
00:27:26,528 --> 00:27:29,348
I mean, he liked to drink,
but he liked to drink socially.
674
00:27:29,381 --> 00:27:32,334
So it wasn't like he was getting hammered.
He wasn't forcing it.
675
00:27:32,501 --> 00:27:35,020
He was probably
holding it up for you, Rob. [chuckles]
676
00:27:35,087 --> 00:27:38,657
But I mean, back in the day,
I can see him, you know, holding up.
677
00:27:38,690 --> 00:27:40,909
We used to do
the beer bongs back in the day.
678
00:27:40,959 --> 00:27:42,761
Oh! Okay. Got it.
679
00:27:42,794 --> 00:27:43,979
-…up in the air.
-Yeah.
680
00:27:44,012 --> 00:27:47,266
I mean, we're talking ten, 12 years ago,
681
00:27:47,332 --> 00:27:49,434
when we were in our,
you know, prime.
682
00:27:49,535 --> 00:27:52,704
-Tell him to relax for now…
-Yeah. Yeah.
683
00:27:52,754 --> 00:27:56,425
-Yes, there's a couple of things-- Yeah.
-[Rob] Relax, buddy. [laughs]
684
00:27:56,508 --> 00:27:58,994
But he is all good.
It's just a lot of memories.
685
00:27:59,027 --> 00:28:01,513
I feel like his twenties
were his glory days in some ways.
686
00:28:01,613 --> 00:28:03,348
There's a sense of, really,
that's my, my fun time. [laughs]
687
00:28:03,465 --> 00:28:05,784
Yeah, he didn't want
to grow up, like you said.
688
00:28:05,851 --> 00:28:08,237
That's really beautiful, but this guy
comes across…
689
00:28:08,270 --> 00:28:09,688
[laughs] …very, very strongly.
690
00:28:09,721 --> 00:28:11,440
I'm going to keep going
and the way this comes across,
691
00:28:11,473 --> 00:28:13,141
we're gonna expand over here.
692
00:28:13,175 --> 00:28:18,463
I want to look and see
if I can get this, this, this, and that.
693
00:28:18,497 --> 00:28:20,148
Do you want any other objects there?
694
00:28:20,182 --> 00:28:22,184
I think what I'll do, I'm drawn to that…
695
00:28:23,252 --> 00:28:25,988
the Sox thing over there,
so I will hold on to that.
696
00:28:27,072 --> 00:28:28,056
Hand it over.
697
00:28:28,674 --> 00:28:30,692
And let's look and see what we can get.
698
00:28:31,743 --> 00:28:33,061
Brittany, this is your object?
699
00:28:33,095 --> 00:28:34,646
-[Brittany] Yes.
-[Tyler] Yeah.
700
00:28:36,748 --> 00:28:39,801
This one's really interesting,
because everyone's came through today.
701
00:28:39,835 --> 00:28:43,171
This person, I could tell,
was a very distinctly different energy.
702
00:28:43,205 --> 00:28:45,240
And it very much felt like,
"Don't forget me."
703
00:28:45,274 --> 00:28:47,626
Like, "I gotta be the first one
you mention,
704
00:28:47,659 --> 00:28:50,229
because I know you're gonna be focusing
on all these other things."
705
00:28:50,262 --> 00:28:52,164
And that very much was kind of the sense.
706
00:28:52,197 --> 00:28:56,218
What I would say is, it is good
to look into around this passing.
707
00:28:56,251 --> 00:28:58,086
If there were any situations
708
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,290
where a family kind of
got a double grief situation?
709
00:29:01,323 --> 00:29:04,276
Where there's one death,
and we have to process this.
710
00:29:04,309 --> 00:29:06,545
And it's like, "We're not ready
to deal with another death,"
711
00:29:06,578 --> 00:29:08,096
but then another death happens.
712
00:29:08,130 --> 00:29:10,282
And it's, like,
adding insult to injury, almost,
713
00:29:10,315 --> 00:29:11,917
-in the way that it comes across.
-Yeah.
714
00:29:11,950 --> 00:29:14,653
And there's this sense of,
between these two passings,
715
00:29:14,686 --> 00:29:17,472
this feeling
of people's personal lives, kind of,
716
00:29:17,506 --> 00:29:18,857
I don't want to say falling apart,
717
00:29:18,890 --> 00:29:22,561
but it's like when it rains, it pours,
is very much the feeling with us.
718
00:29:22,594 --> 00:29:24,930
But within a certain timeframe.
I'm so sorry.
719
00:29:24,963 --> 00:29:26,665
[crying] It's okay. Just spot on.
720
00:29:27,332 --> 00:29:31,586
It's okay. And then I have to highlight,
in the way this comes across, um…
721
00:29:33,605 --> 00:29:35,757
Let me go there. All right.
722
00:29:35,791 --> 00:29:37,559
There's a sensitivity here with this one,
723
00:29:37,592 --> 00:29:40,245
which I really appreciate,
because it's sweet.
724
00:29:43,282 --> 00:29:44,316
This is kind of strange.
725
00:29:44,349 --> 00:29:48,720
If I talk about you and refer to siblings,
I'm not seeing a big thing here.
726
00:29:48,754 --> 00:29:52,057
If I just were to talk about two,
um, where would just two be?
727
00:29:52,774 --> 00:29:55,827
So like, my question,
I guess, first would be,
728
00:29:55,861 --> 00:29:57,262
how many siblings do you have?
729
00:29:57,296 --> 00:29:58,313
I'm the oldest of five.
730
00:29:58,347 --> 00:30:00,215
[Tyler] Okay,
so there's a lot, five people.
731
00:30:00,248 --> 00:30:02,067
What's the gender breakdown for that?
732
00:30:02,100 --> 00:30:04,202
Um, three girls and two boys.
733
00:30:04,236 --> 00:30:06,388
Two boys. Okay,
so that would bring me to the two boys.
734
00:30:06,421 --> 00:30:07,923
I call it psychic math when this happens.
735
00:30:07,956 --> 00:30:10,309
And they're having me highlight these two.
736
00:30:10,342 --> 00:30:13,595
And what's kind of interesting
in the way this comes across
737
00:30:13,628 --> 00:30:18,100
is there's very much an emphasis
on the, kind of, brotherly relationship.
738
00:30:18,133 --> 00:30:21,470
And there's this feeling
of a brother figure
739
00:30:21,503 --> 00:30:25,540
kind of going away or doing his own thing,
is the only way to describe that.
740
00:30:25,574 --> 00:30:27,125
And it's okay, but it's almost like…
741
00:30:27,159 --> 00:30:28,510
Just let him do his own thing.
742
00:30:28,543 --> 00:30:30,012
And that kind of keeps coming in.
743
00:30:30,045 --> 00:30:32,431
I have to highlight
in the way this comes through…
744
00:30:32,464 --> 00:30:34,599
This is obviously Boston.
745
00:30:34,633 --> 00:30:38,220
Um, they're having me joke
about East Coast, West Coast. [laughs]
746
00:30:38,253 --> 00:30:41,239
And, like, duking it out
in the way this pops in.
747
00:30:41,273 --> 00:30:45,961
Do you know when this person passed,
or the person we're hoping to hear from,
748
00:30:46,011 --> 00:30:47,479
do you know if anybody was…
749
00:30:48,697 --> 00:30:52,300
I'm seeing my symbol for
when you close up your house
750
00:30:52,334 --> 00:30:54,770
'cause you're gonna leave and go away,
751
00:30:54,803 --> 00:30:57,639
and then we get the news
when we're somewhere else.
752
00:30:57,672 --> 00:30:59,458
There's an acknowledgment of…
753
00:31:01,009 --> 00:31:01,927
This is weird.
754
00:31:02,544 --> 00:31:04,646
Who was-- Oh, in a different state.
755
00:31:04,679 --> 00:31:05,630
Oh.
756
00:31:05,664 --> 00:31:07,799
Do you know about,
if somebody was in a different state?
757
00:31:07,833 --> 00:31:09,735
My brother was away for hockey.
758
00:31:09,768 --> 00:31:10,685
[Tyler] Okay.
759
00:31:10,719 --> 00:31:12,637
Your brother's stuff
keeps coming in a lot,
760
00:31:12,671 --> 00:31:16,041
and they seem to be
wanting to single that individual out.
761
00:31:16,108 --> 00:31:17,492
[chuckles] It's really interesting.
762
00:31:17,526 --> 00:31:19,711
There is an acknowledgement
on your dad's side of family.
763
00:31:19,745 --> 00:31:21,129
-Can we go there? Yeah.
-[Brittany] Yeah.
764
00:31:21,163 --> 00:31:24,049
I gotta highlight a number
of different kind of male energies
765
00:31:24,082 --> 00:31:26,068
that all come through,
on your dad's side of family,
766
00:31:26,101 --> 00:31:28,487
It wouldn't surprise me
if there's a guy who passed away.
767
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,807
What I would describe as prematurely,
should have lived longer.
768
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:33,942
He very much
gives me this feeling of like…
769
00:31:34,493 --> 00:31:36,561
He presents kind of closer
to the middle, in age…
770
00:31:36,595 --> 00:31:37,779
Yeah, my uncle.
771
00:31:37,813 --> 00:31:41,333
…than, like, old,
in the way this comes across.
772
00:31:41,366 --> 00:31:43,668
And this guy comes in,
very matter of fact, um…
773
00:31:44,503 --> 00:31:46,955
There's a reference to… [exhales]
774
00:31:47,456 --> 00:31:49,257
There's a bunch here.
Let me figure out who this is.
775
00:31:49,291 --> 00:31:51,226
Who's this object connected to?
I'm curious.
776
00:31:51,259 --> 00:31:52,561
That's my dad's hat.
777
00:31:52,594 --> 00:31:54,796
-So my dad, Stan.
-[Tyler] Oh. Yeah.
778
00:31:54,863 --> 00:31:57,499
And you're bringing up his brother, John.
779
00:31:57,532 --> 00:31:58,683
[Tyler clicks tongue] Aw.
780
00:31:58,717 --> 00:32:00,569
And did John die at a younger age?
781
00:32:00,602 --> 00:32:02,954
Yeah, and they both died
within, like, four years.
782
00:32:02,988 --> 00:32:04,706
-[Amanda] Oh, wow.
-[Tyler] I'm so sorry.
783
00:32:04,773 --> 00:32:06,892
Got it. Yeah, it's like,
one and then another,
784
00:32:06,925 --> 00:32:09,294
and it's like, as a family
isn't done grieving with one,
785
00:32:09,327 --> 00:32:11,980
we have to kind of process
this big secondary loss.
786
00:32:12,013 --> 00:32:13,882
Um, there is this presentation,
787
00:32:13,915 --> 00:32:16,301
it's more the middle-aged feeling,
in the way this comes in.
788
00:32:16,334 --> 00:32:20,705
I have to highlight
a couple different things.
789
00:32:20,739 --> 00:32:22,574
The East Coast, West Coast thing
strikes me as that,
790
00:32:22,607 --> 00:32:25,894
remember if I'm saying this--
It's kind of strange.
791
00:32:25,927 --> 00:32:29,364
There's some memory around someone
catching a foul ball. [laughs]
792
00:32:29,397 --> 00:32:33,385
And, you know, like, when balls get hit
and they land in the audience
793
00:32:33,418 --> 00:32:35,170
and then someone
gets it for somebody else?
794
00:32:35,220 --> 00:32:36,972
There's something around
that that keeps coming through.
795
00:32:37,005 --> 00:32:38,757
Is it the Red Sox game we just went to?
796
00:32:38,790 --> 00:32:39,941
Jayce caught a foul ball.
797
00:32:39,975 --> 00:32:42,494
And then Grayson
tried catching a foul ball.
798
00:32:42,527 --> 00:32:44,446
Right.
And then it gets given to someone.
799
00:32:44,479 --> 00:32:46,581
Yeah, and then Nico got it.
His friend.
800
00:32:46,615 --> 00:32:47,966
-[Tyler] Yeah.
-[Amanda] Oh, my gosh.
801
00:32:47,999 --> 00:32:50,418
He was at the Red Sox game.
I feel like I felt him there.
802
00:32:50,452 --> 00:32:52,654
-Wait, this just happened?
-[Brittany] This summer.
803
00:32:52,687 --> 00:32:56,124
We, like, stayed with Rob and Camille,
and we went to the Red Sox game.
804
00:32:56,241 --> 00:32:57,959
He was a Red Sox fan,
so I was, like, honoring him.
805
00:32:57,993 --> 00:33:00,378
-[Amanda] Yeah.
-And our last trip with him,
806
00:33:00,412 --> 00:33:03,965
um, before his diagnosis,
we went to a Red Sox game with him.
807
00:33:03,999 --> 00:33:05,550
-[Tyler] Wow.
-So we just did it.
808
00:33:05,584 --> 00:33:08,186
You guys, you're gonna make me cry.
I'm like, "Oh, that's so precious."
809
00:33:08,220 --> 00:33:11,072
And were these the grandkids
that caught the ball?
810
00:33:11,106 --> 00:33:12,240
[Brittany] Yeah, our children.
811
00:33:12,340 --> 00:33:14,526
[Amanda] Your children.
Okay. Oh, my gosh.
812
00:33:14,559 --> 00:33:16,294
And you felt your dad's presence there.
813
00:33:16,328 --> 00:33:18,547
Yeah, just felt so happy,
just the entire…
814
00:33:19,498 --> 00:33:23,685
How crazy that he's, like, here,
and he's bringing up that exact moment.
815
00:33:23,718 --> 00:33:26,104
-I know.
-[Zoe] That's amazing.
816
00:33:26,137 --> 00:33:29,090
I was thinking of the foul balls
the boys, Jayce and Grayson,
817
00:33:29,124 --> 00:33:31,376
you know, played-- Caught.
818
00:33:31,409 --> 00:33:33,011
[Tyler] That's so precious. I love that.
819
00:33:33,044 --> 00:33:34,546
And, you know,
this work has shown me, too,
820
00:33:34,579 --> 00:33:37,249
that these memories that we have,
they represent so much more
821
00:33:37,282 --> 00:33:40,185
than just their, kind of, initial value.
822
00:33:40,218 --> 00:33:42,254
You know, they live vicariously
through our actions.
823
00:33:42,287 --> 00:33:46,308
And very much, I believe,
we don't live this world alone.
824
00:33:46,341 --> 00:33:48,727
I get the chills as I'm saying this,
that there are many,
825
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:53,014
and we really kind of walk as many,
not just one, throughout this life.
826
00:33:53,048 --> 00:33:55,867
So, it's really, really beautiful
when that gets reflected.
827
00:33:56,001 --> 00:33:58,270
[inhales] Um, when we talk
about our guy here,
828
00:33:58,303 --> 00:34:00,739
he is having me bring up
the last six months of his life
829
00:34:00,772 --> 00:34:02,190
and puts a pretty strong emphasis.
830
00:34:02,224 --> 00:34:04,326
Uh, what's kind of interesting
is he's having me acknowledge
831
00:34:04,359 --> 00:34:08,230
that two things kind of ganged up on him
and expedited his passing.
832
00:34:08,263 --> 00:34:10,632
So there was kind of this initial thing
is what I would describe.
833
00:34:10,665 --> 00:34:13,168
And then he's bringing me up
to like dealing, dealing, dealing
834
00:34:13,201 --> 00:34:16,555
and then secondary issue
expedites, cut in my passing
835
00:34:16,588 --> 00:34:17,622
or something kind of comes in.
836
00:34:17,656 --> 00:34:19,107
What's interesting about this,
837
00:34:19,140 --> 00:34:21,760
and this is just good to look
into on your dad's side of family.
838
00:34:21,793 --> 00:34:25,180
One thing that pops in
is an acknowledgement around people's,
839
00:34:25,213 --> 00:34:30,185
basically body's ability to filter fluids
and filter toxins ends up going south.
840
00:34:30,218 --> 00:34:32,671
So we think of kidney, liver, blood,
841
00:34:32,704 --> 00:34:36,141
like basically our body's ability
to like regulate and get
842
00:34:37,092 --> 00:34:38,693
waste out of our body.
843
00:34:38,727 --> 00:34:40,412
Uh, there's an acknowledgement
around that.
844
00:34:40,445 --> 00:34:42,547
Anytime I see a risk
around someone's "blood"
845
00:34:42,581 --> 00:34:44,015
-becoming more acidic…
-[Brittany] Yeah.
846
00:34:44,049 --> 00:34:47,852
…it's usually a symbol for like
the filtering systems
847
00:34:47,886 --> 00:34:50,705
in my body just go south
before I pass in some way.
848
00:34:50,739 --> 00:34:52,857
-Yeah.
-[Tyler] Do you know about that at all?
849
00:34:52,891 --> 00:34:57,746
Um, so he had ALS and it was hard
for him to… like we would,
850
00:34:57,896 --> 00:35:00,682
we do the suction
and suction his mucus and stuff
851
00:35:00,715 --> 00:35:03,551
and then it'd get in his lungs
and his lungs got weaker
852
00:35:03,585 --> 00:35:04,719
so he couldn't breathe good.
853
00:35:04,753 --> 00:35:06,087
Gotcha. I'm so sorry.
854
00:35:06,121 --> 00:35:09,958
This is coming in as a feeling of…
like progressive,
855
00:35:09,991 --> 00:35:11,926
uh, last six months.
856
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:15,146
Secondary emphasis,
what I kind of suspect in this context
857
00:35:15,180 --> 00:35:18,667
is if we have like ALS and then pneumonia
starts being a susceptibility,
858
00:35:18,700 --> 00:35:21,853
it's like I'm dealing with my initial
and then the secondary kind of comes in
859
00:35:21,886 --> 00:35:26,658
and expedites this but I can feel
my body in essence kind of shutting down.
860
00:35:26,691 --> 00:35:29,160
He's having me joke about a bell
and this is kind of strange.
861
00:35:29,194 --> 00:35:30,745
-[laughs] Using a bell?
-Yeah!
862
00:35:30,845 --> 00:35:32,013
[Tyler] Does that mean anything?
863
00:35:32,047 --> 00:35:34,099
When he was first sick, um,
864
00:35:34,132 --> 00:35:38,453
I would go over and I would have,
at the time, my first three,
865
00:35:38,486 --> 00:35:40,605
so my youngest daughter Aubrey
was a baby and I'd go upstairs
866
00:35:40,639 --> 00:35:42,374
and change her diaper
and he'd have a bell.
867
00:35:42,407 --> 00:35:44,609
So, if I was ever upstairs
playing with the kids, or--
868
00:35:44,643 --> 00:35:46,661
he'd ring it so I would know to come down.
869
00:35:46,695 --> 00:35:47,746
[Tyler] Aw.
870
00:35:47,779 --> 00:35:49,180
-So he was all about the bell.
-Yes!
871
00:35:49,214 --> 00:35:50,231
Oh my gosh!
872
00:35:50,265 --> 00:35:52,250
And I think that's an acknowledgment
of other family members too.
873
00:35:52,283 --> 00:35:54,719
-It's kind of a symbol for… Yeah!
-Yeah, we'd all use it.
874
00:35:54,753 --> 00:35:56,421
-We all took care of it.
-I actually have chills.
875
00:35:56,454 --> 00:35:59,724
[Tyler] It comes across so sweet.
[chuckles] I want to bring up…
876
00:36:00,909 --> 00:36:02,711
[mumbles softly]
877
00:36:02,777 --> 00:36:04,245
There's more there.
878
00:36:04,279 --> 00:36:06,431
Which is always an indication
that you and I, I think,
879
00:36:06,464 --> 00:36:07,682
are gonna talk more in the future.
880
00:36:07,716 --> 00:36:09,718
-And I would love to stay in touch.
-Okay.
881
00:36:09,751 --> 00:36:12,270
And absolutely, uh, bring through more.
882
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:13,972
But what I can say with this, um…
883
00:36:16,458 --> 00:36:18,877
This one thing comes in
when we talk about the siblings,
884
00:36:18,910 --> 00:36:20,462
there is an acknowledgement of…
885
00:36:20,495 --> 00:36:22,764
for some reason I feel good
with all of them except one
886
00:36:22,797 --> 00:36:25,934
when it comes to getting
to where I'm at in some capacity.
887
00:36:25,967 --> 00:36:28,503
So the way that I would describe
this is if people
888
00:36:28,536 --> 00:36:30,288
feel like they had some degree
of a send-off
889
00:36:30,321 --> 00:36:31,656
or were able to make contact,
890
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:35,360
it would basically be like
if there's, say, five people, four,
891
00:36:35,393 --> 00:36:39,114
make it one either barely does
or doesn't feel the same
892
00:36:39,147 --> 00:36:41,700
as the other four is kind
of the way I would describe that.
893
00:36:41,733 --> 00:36:44,135
So if there was any rush…
were people able to say goodbye
894
00:36:44,185 --> 00:36:46,187
-kind of by and large to him?
-Uh, um…
895
00:36:46,771 --> 00:36:49,974
So, we rushed him
in the ambulance to hospice
896
00:36:50,008 --> 00:36:55,013
and then my brother rushed
to hospice to see him and…
897
00:36:56,664 --> 00:36:59,367
Maybe he passed in the ambulance
and then they just had him
898
00:36:59,401 --> 00:37:02,153
on the breathing machine
so we could say our last goodbye.
899
00:37:02,187 --> 00:37:04,355
-But, um, he might have.
-[Tyler] Yeah.
900
00:37:04,389 --> 00:37:06,091
And the way this
comes across is this feeling
901
00:37:06,124 --> 00:37:08,276
of not wanting people
to rush and an understanding
902
00:37:08,309 --> 00:37:10,562
in the way this comes through
that this is just happening.
903
00:37:10,595 --> 00:37:11,896
This is a natural progression.
904
00:37:12,030 --> 00:37:16,301
And there's this feeling of in essence,
I feel all this love… [chuckles]
905
00:37:16,334 --> 00:37:18,386
…but established before.
906
00:37:18,420 --> 00:37:22,006
There isn't a need, really, for your kind
of traditional send-off in this situation.
907
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,926
This guy gives me the sense of,
like, we worked it out beforehand.
908
00:37:25,009 --> 00:37:25,910
-[Brittany] Yeah.
-Um…
909
00:37:25,944 --> 00:37:28,696
So he didn't need that
in the way this comes in,
910
00:37:28,813 --> 00:37:31,416
but he puts a lot of emphasis
on brother, brother, brother.
911
00:37:31,449 --> 00:37:35,703
Yeah, they do a good job,
and they're taking the role of the…
912
00:37:35,737 --> 00:37:38,139
-man of the family, taking care of it.
-[Tyler] That's in here.
913
00:37:38,173 --> 00:37:42,210
There may end up being an opportunity
here involving the selling of property
914
00:37:42,243 --> 00:37:43,611
-and this is just good to keep in mind.
-Okay.
915
00:37:43,645 --> 00:37:45,480
There's going to be
conversations around that,
916
00:37:45,513 --> 00:37:47,832
offloading a piece
of property or land in some way.
917
00:37:47,866 --> 00:37:48,800
[Brittany] Yeah.
918
00:37:48,833 --> 00:37:51,236
Brothers might end up having
that conversation in some capacity.
919
00:37:51,269 --> 00:37:52,370
Oh, okay.
920
00:37:52,403 --> 00:37:53,605
Yeah, do you know of any property?
921
00:37:53,638 --> 00:37:55,990
Uh, my mom is taking care
of our family's home
922
00:37:56,024 --> 00:37:59,244
-and you know, it's like…
-Austin is always trying to help her.
923
00:37:59,277 --> 00:38:02,297
Yeah, so I could see my brother
helping her with that
924
00:38:02,330 --> 00:38:04,816
and just, you know,
raking the leaves is a lot and stuff.
925
00:38:04,849 --> 00:38:06,851
-So maybe in the long run.
-[Tyler] Yeah, I see…
926
00:38:06,885 --> 00:38:10,171
I see Brother stepping in and helping Mom
with the real estate situation.
927
00:38:10,271 --> 00:38:12,791
So there's going
to be probably some changes
928
00:38:12,824 --> 00:38:14,476
as far as what we can manage,
what we can deal with.
929
00:38:14,509 --> 00:38:19,080
[chuckles] There's going to come a time
where it might be little hard to sustain.
930
00:38:19,113 --> 00:38:21,232
But all good in the way
this comes across there.
931
00:38:21,266 --> 00:38:22,217
[Brittany] Okay.
932
00:38:22,250 --> 00:38:24,719
Brittany, what did your dad do?
Were you guys really close?
933
00:38:24,752 --> 00:38:27,055
-Oh, yeah, my family's super close.
-[Amanda] Yes.
934
00:38:27,088 --> 00:38:28,223
He was a salesman.
935
00:38:28,256 --> 00:38:31,960
He was… uh, just always involved
in all of our sports
936
00:38:31,993 --> 00:38:36,064
and, um… just like a really good man.
937
00:38:36,147 --> 00:38:37,398
Loved the Red Sox?
938
00:38:37,432 --> 00:38:39,184
-[Brittany] Yeah, he loved the Red Sox.
-Yeah?
939
00:38:39,217 --> 00:38:40,835
[Tyler] Aw. That's evident.
940
00:38:40,869 --> 00:38:43,938
-I knew it, before I even got here, I was…
-Red Sox and hockey.
941
00:38:43,972 --> 00:38:47,242
I just love that you took your family
to that game to honor him.
942
00:38:47,275 --> 00:38:50,278
And then that's like the first thing
that he brought up today.
943
00:38:50,311 --> 00:38:52,547
-That's really so special.
-It is.
944
00:38:53,398 --> 00:38:54,582
I'm so, so thankful.
945
00:38:54,616 --> 00:38:58,036
And what an amazing human being,
his soul, to be able to…
946
00:38:58,069 --> 00:38:59,354
-come in.
-He was a good soul.
947
00:38:59,387 --> 00:39:01,656
I want you to know he's so
much more than how he passed.
948
00:39:01,689 --> 00:39:03,458
He shows me that
ring-a-ding-ding. [laughs]
949
00:39:03,491 --> 00:39:05,159
-[laughs]
-[Tyler] The way he comes in is very cute.
950
00:39:05,193 --> 00:39:07,412
And, um,
this is just good to keep in mind.
951
00:39:07,445 --> 00:39:08,913
I think his name will be honored.
952
00:39:08,947 --> 00:39:11,332
His name will be honored in a larger way.
953
00:39:11,366 --> 00:39:14,602
There will be a continuation
of this in some large capacity.
954
00:39:14,636 --> 00:39:16,804
So… It'll be good. [chuckles]
955
00:39:16,838 --> 00:39:20,475
I want to… [speaks softly] just go there.
956
00:39:21,092 --> 00:39:24,245
It's truly an example of,
like, it is a group effort.
957
00:39:24,279 --> 00:39:26,698
And you're the only one
that I haven't been
958
00:39:26,731 --> 00:39:28,933
able to, like, immediately tune into.
959
00:39:28,967 --> 00:39:31,519
So what I would love
to do is see if we can.
960
00:39:31,553 --> 00:39:33,805
-Okay, I'd love that.
-[overlapping chatter]
961
00:39:33,838 --> 00:39:34,756
Let's do it.
962
00:39:35,423 --> 00:39:37,242
And we'll go from there.
Thank you so much.
963
00:39:37,275 --> 00:39:38,760
-I appreciate it.
-Amazing. [chuckles] Like…
964
00:39:38,793 --> 00:39:40,028
That was amazing.
965
00:39:40,128 --> 00:39:42,463
Oh, you guys, thank you
so much for your openness.
966
00:39:42,497 --> 00:39:45,617
And we will see where we go.
967
00:39:45,683 --> 00:39:47,452
[pen scribbling]
968
00:39:47,485 --> 00:39:49,504
[Tyler] Now, I have a bad memory.
What's your first name?
969
00:39:49,537 --> 00:39:51,839
-Zoe.
-Zoe, that's right. All right, very cool.
970
00:39:51,873 --> 00:39:53,408
Zoe, Zoe, Zoe. [sniffs]
971
00:39:53,458 --> 00:39:55,126
It's a beautiful ring, Zoe.
972
00:39:55,159 --> 00:39:56,895
-It is a beautiful ring, my goodness.
-Thank you.
973
00:39:56,928 --> 00:39:58,913
All right, give me one sec there.
974
00:40:00,932 --> 00:40:02,383
One sec there.
975
00:40:03,334 --> 00:40:05,536
This is the only object we brought?
976
00:40:05,570 --> 00:40:06,638
-For that person.
-[Tyler] Oh, okay.
977
00:40:06,671 --> 00:40:09,040
-I have other objects for other people.
-I think I want to hold other objects.
978
00:40:09,073 --> 00:40:12,026
-Yeah, let's go for it.
-Let's see if we've got some others.
979
00:40:12,543 --> 00:40:14,712
-Absolutely thank you so much.
-[Zoe] You're welcome.
980
00:40:14,746 --> 00:40:16,881
[Tyler] Oh, fabulous! There we go
981
00:40:16,915 --> 00:40:18,683
Because I have kind
of an interesting amalgamation
982
00:40:18,716 --> 00:40:20,919
of older and then
a little bit younger.
983
00:40:20,952 --> 00:40:22,086
-So, I want to talk about that.
-Okay..
984
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,021
[Tyler] The way this comes through.
985
00:40:23,054 --> 00:40:25,623
And basically, the older energy
and the younger energy
986
00:40:25,657 --> 00:40:26,524
come through together
987
00:40:26,557 --> 00:40:27,609
-in the way this comes across.
-Okay.
988
00:40:27,642 --> 00:40:28,893
[Tyler] So, I have to kind of go there.
989
00:40:28,927 --> 00:40:30,845
Um, in the way
that this pops in…
990
00:40:30,878 --> 00:40:32,780
This is going to sound strange
but do you know if anybody
991
00:40:32,814 --> 00:40:34,849
in family is involved
in real estate,
992
00:40:34,882 --> 00:40:37,669
interested in property or anything…
Any changes going on
993
00:40:37,702 --> 00:40:38,703
in that department?
994
00:40:38,736 --> 00:40:40,722
-Yeah, possibly, yeah.
-[Tyler] Okay.
995
00:40:40,755 --> 00:40:42,557
Where does your mind go when I say that?
996
00:40:42,590 --> 00:40:44,559
-Like..
-Living or deceased?
997
00:40:44,592 --> 00:40:46,511
Uh, could be either, which is
kind of where I'm getting started.
998
00:40:46,544 --> 00:40:48,496
-To my cousin. Living.
-Okay. And…
999
00:40:48,529 --> 00:40:49,881
they're involved
in real estate stuff?
1000
00:40:49,914 --> 00:40:51,916
-Yeah.
-[Tyler] Okay. Um… Ah.
1001
00:40:51,950 --> 00:40:53,851
Let me look, let me look, let me look.
1002
00:40:56,971 --> 00:40:59,107
-Which side of family is that?
-My mother's.
1003
00:40:59,140 --> 00:41:01,159
Your mom's side's coming in
stronger than your dad's side.
1004
00:41:01,192 --> 00:41:02,143
Makes sense, yeah. [laughs]
1005
00:41:02,176 --> 00:41:03,494
[Tyler] So that aspect does come in.
1006
00:41:03,528 --> 00:41:06,030
Makes sense
why we'd have more references there.
1007
00:41:06,581 --> 00:41:09,734
When I talk about your mom's side,
where would the four be? [chuckles]
1008
00:41:09,767 --> 00:41:12,286
-So, like, four siblings or four children?
-Four…
1009
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:13,855
Yeah, that… that makes sense.
1010
00:41:13,888 --> 00:41:16,207
Yeah, my mother was…
She was one of six.
1011
00:41:16,240 --> 00:41:20,161
But two passed very early,
so the four were very, very close.
1012
00:41:20,194 --> 00:41:21,980
-Okay, so that would be there.
-Yeah.
1013
00:41:22,013 --> 00:41:23,464
It's showing me the symbol
for Brady Bunch,
1014
00:41:23,498 --> 00:41:25,483
which is usually referencing
the six, and so, it's interesting.
1015
00:41:25,516 --> 00:41:27,685
-Okay, that makes sense, yeah.
-[Tyler] Yeah, so, there's that.
1016
00:41:27,852 --> 00:41:30,705
Um, but I do have
to highlight those individuals.
1017
00:41:30,738 --> 00:41:32,490
And then there's an acknowledgment.
1018
00:41:33,758 --> 00:41:36,678
-I'm going back to about 2012-ish.
-Okay.
1019
00:41:36,711 --> 00:41:37,829
[Tyler] Um… [smacks lips]
1020
00:41:37,862 --> 00:41:39,881
So… Uh…
Remember that I'm saying this.
1021
00:41:39,914 --> 00:41:43,534
I suspect there might have been a passing
between like 2008 and 2012.
1022
00:41:43,568 --> 00:41:45,353
-Would be good to kind of look into.
-Okay. Yeah.
1023
00:41:45,386 --> 00:41:47,622
[Tyler] Do any come to your mind
off the top of your head?
1024
00:41:47,655 --> 00:41:49,590
-Um… My aunt. Yeah.
-[Tyler] Okay.
1025
00:41:49,624 --> 00:41:51,292
Do you know if we talk about…
1026
00:41:51,325 --> 00:41:53,811
When we talk about causes of passing,
without giving too much away.
1027
00:41:53,845 --> 00:41:56,364
-Are you familiar with how people…
-Yes. Yeah.
1028
00:41:56,397 --> 00:41:58,483
I have to highlight a situation
where there ends up
1029
00:41:58,516 --> 00:42:00,635
-being a feminine health scare.
-[Zoe] Okay.
1030
00:42:00,668 --> 00:42:04,155
And this feminine health scare ends up
involving kind of like ovarian, uterine,
1031
00:42:04,188 --> 00:42:05,139
-cervical.
-[Zoe] Okay.
1032
00:42:05,173 --> 00:42:06,524
Actually going lower not higher
1033
00:42:06,557 --> 00:42:08,359
-to, like, breast-related stuff.
-Okay.
1034
00:42:08,393 --> 00:42:11,863
Um, there's some acknowledgement
of a female kind of, like, dealing--
1035
00:42:11,896 --> 00:42:13,381
either if we need to, like,
get a hysterectomy
1036
00:42:13,414 --> 00:42:17,502
or get the removal of a, um, polyp
or that kind of thing.
1037
00:42:17,535 --> 00:42:19,287
-It just keeps coming in.
-Okay. Okay.
1038
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:20,738
That's obviously a very personal thing.
1039
00:42:20,772 --> 00:42:21,906
-We don't need to get into…
-[Zoe] Yeah.
1040
00:42:21,939 --> 00:42:23,608
But do you know of any connections
with that?
1041
00:42:23,641 --> 00:42:24,909
-Um…
-[Tyler] Potentially.
1042
00:42:25,910 --> 00:42:27,211
Would a spleen count?
1043
00:42:27,245 --> 00:42:30,281
-No. It's okay.
-Okay, I'm thinking spleen. But…
1044
00:42:30,314 --> 00:42:33,267
-It's going lower feminine for me.
-Okay. Not spleen.
1045
00:42:33,301 --> 00:42:35,520
So usually on Mom's side of family,
1046
00:42:35,553 --> 00:42:37,839
we would equate that to keeping in mind
for siblings,
1047
00:42:37,872 --> 00:42:38,823
-things like that.
-Okay.
1048
00:42:38,856 --> 00:42:40,591
-[Tyler] If there's any female siblings.
-Okay, yeah.
1049
00:42:40,625 --> 00:42:42,727
Just monitoring, kind of,
well-being there.
1050
00:42:43,678 --> 00:42:47,298
Your mom's side, when we talk
about this. Got that, that, that.
1051
00:42:48,766 --> 00:42:51,853
That's interesting. I thought I had
this younger person coming in.
1052
00:42:51,886 --> 00:42:53,221
So let me see.
1053
00:42:53,254 --> 00:42:55,406
What I'll do, I'll ask you,
kind of, just point blank.
1054
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,291
-[Zoe] Yeah.
-These two objects, who do they belong to?
1055
00:42:57,325 --> 00:42:58,392
Who were you hoping to hear from?
1056
00:42:58,426 --> 00:43:01,979
-Yeah, so, the gold ring was my mother's.
-[Tyler] Yes. Aw!
1057
00:43:02,013 --> 00:43:04,715
Um, the other ring
was my aunt's, her sister.
1058
00:43:04,749 --> 00:43:06,067
And then the sweatshirt was my dad's.
1059
00:43:06,100 --> 00:43:08,319
[Tyler] Oh, I love that so much.
It's a group effort.
1060
00:43:08,352 --> 00:43:09,737
Um…
1061
00:43:09,771 --> 00:43:11,539
One of them feels like they passed
1062
00:43:11,572 --> 00:43:13,758
more age-inappropriately,
is the only way to describe it.
1063
00:43:13,791 --> 00:43:15,476
-Inappropriately? Okay.
-[Tyler] Inappropriately, yeah.
1064
00:43:15,510 --> 00:43:17,078
Like, obviously for this to happen,
1065
00:43:17,111 --> 00:43:20,465
they all had to be kind of on the…
presumably kind of youngish side,
1066
00:43:20,498 --> 00:43:23,217
but there's a sense of one being…
1067
00:43:23,251 --> 00:43:25,553
Like, the more young one
that I would highlight.
1068
00:43:25,586 --> 00:43:27,505
-Who was the youngest that passed?
-Um…
1069
00:43:27,538 --> 00:43:29,791
My mother, but she was
in her early seventies.
1070
00:43:29,824 --> 00:43:31,909
But she was a very,
very, like, young soul.
1071
00:43:31,943 --> 00:43:33,077
-[Camille] Yes.
-She was very hip.
1072
00:43:33,111 --> 00:43:34,729
She was on Instagram. She was hip.
1073
00:43:34,762 --> 00:43:36,130
-[all laugh]
-[Tyler] Looking at her,
1074
00:43:36,164 --> 00:43:37,799
-would I not think she's 70?
-Correct.
1075
00:43:37,882 --> 00:43:39,767
[Zoe] Yeah, no, she looked good,
she looked good.
1076
00:43:39,834 --> 00:43:41,452
[Amanda] She thinks
she died inappropriately.
1077
00:43:41,486 --> 00:43:43,237
-Yes.
-[all laugh]
1078
00:43:43,271 --> 00:43:44,338
[Tyler] It's coming in.
1079
00:43:44,372 --> 00:43:46,174
You know, it's interesting
because generally we view
1080
00:43:46,207 --> 00:43:48,526
the general, like, proximity of life.
1081
00:43:48,559 --> 00:43:50,611
Average life span is usually
around 78.
1082
00:43:50,645 --> 00:43:53,931
So if people don't hit that,
to me, it's kind of, like, premature.
1083
00:43:53,965 --> 00:43:56,284
-Too soon. They had more time.
-Yeah, they went too soon. Yeah. Yeah.
1084
00:43:56,317 --> 00:43:59,670
I'm so curious where this female thing is
'cause it keeps coming in
1085
00:43:59,704 --> 00:44:01,139
and it's probably just good
to keep in mind.
1086
00:44:01,172 --> 00:44:04,876
If there's any living people,
just go to them about this.
1087
00:44:04,909 --> 00:44:06,777
-[Camille] Um, so Zoe's mom…
-What about…
1088
00:44:06,828 --> 00:44:08,179
…was like a second mother to me,
1089
00:44:08,212 --> 00:44:10,798
and I actually have a past
of ovarian stuff.
1090
00:44:10,832 --> 00:44:11,866
[Tyler] Got it. Okay.
1091
00:44:11,899 --> 00:44:13,918
It was a little weird
talking about it on TV,
1092
00:44:13,951 --> 00:44:17,004
but I definitely was just like sat
in the back of my mind, of just being,
1093
00:44:17,038 --> 00:44:19,323
like, that's something
I've been monitoring.
1094
00:44:19,373 --> 00:44:20,591
[Tyler] Got it. All good.
1095
00:44:20,625 --> 00:44:22,476
Just good to consider.
Nothing to worry about, by any means,
1096
00:44:22,510 --> 00:44:24,745
but it just kind of keeps
striking me over and over again.
1097
00:44:24,779 --> 00:44:26,998
Do you have any R names in the family?
1098
00:44:27,031 --> 00:44:28,449
Anything that starts with an R?
1099
00:44:28,482 --> 00:44:31,736
Uh… Not that I can think of
off the top of my head.
1100
00:44:31,769 --> 00:44:33,771
That's totally fine. Do you know
your dad's side of family much?
1101
00:44:33,804 --> 00:44:34,755
-Yes. Yeah.
-[Tyler] Okay.
1102
00:44:34,789 --> 00:44:37,191
-No R's on that side?
-Not that I can think of.
1103
00:44:37,225 --> 00:44:38,559
-[Tyler] What was Dad's name?
-George.
1104
00:44:38,593 --> 00:44:40,328
-[Tyler] George. George.
-[Camille] George.
1105
00:44:40,361 --> 00:44:42,363
R, R, R.
Where am I going with this?
1106
00:44:42,964 --> 00:44:45,550
-All right, Tyler, this is a live show.
-[Tyler] Oh, jeez.
1107
00:44:45,583 --> 00:44:47,268
So, you keep reading.
1108
00:44:47,301 --> 00:44:49,187
-That was so incredible.
-[Tyler] Thank you so much.
1109
00:44:49,220 --> 00:44:50,972
-[theme music playing]
-But we want to say thank you
1110
00:44:51,005 --> 00:44:52,490
to Gronk and Camille,
1111
00:44:52,590 --> 00:44:54,225
and their guests, for being with us today.
1112
00:44:54,258 --> 00:44:55,826
And, you guys, come back next week.
1113
00:44:55,860 --> 00:44:59,897
We will be back here, live,
with a new unexpected celebrity.
1114
00:44:59,931 --> 00:45:01,666
We'll see you on the other side.
1115
00:45:51,332 --> 00:45:53,401
[theme music concludes]
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