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[theme music playing]
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[woman] Tyler, we're live.
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Okay. [sighs]
There's a lot coming through.
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Got, like, reference to a bend
of a river and walking it and a grandpa.
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It's a lot hitting me,
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but I'm excited to see who's
on the other side of that door. [inhales]
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Phew! [chuckles]
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[Tyler] My name is Tyler Henry,
and I have a rather unusual ability.
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I don't exactly see dead people,
but I definitely communicate with them.
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I receive messages from those
who've passed for those still here,
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proving our loved ones
never truly leave us.
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I don't know who I'm going to read
or what messages may come through,
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but powerful revelations await
from the other side.
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Welcome to
Live from the Other Side with Tyler Henry.
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A celebrity and their closest friends
are sitting right behind me
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and they're here to get a reading
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from the world's most
renowned medium, Tyler Henry.
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I'm Amanda Kloots.
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Tyler never knows who he is going to read
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and will meet these guys
for the first time live on this stage.
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So let's bring out Tyler.
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Nice!
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-Hello, everybody. How's it going?
-[Amanda] Hello!
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[chuckles] How are you?
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-The lights come on.
-Hi!
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-I'm Tyler.
-I'm Brittany.
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-It's lovely to meet you.
-Nice to meet you.
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-I love your outfit.
-Thank you!
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-I'm Bradley.
-[Tyler] Bradley. Wonderful to meet you.
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I'm Elaine. I'm, like, your biggest fan.
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[Tyler] Oh, Elaine!
So wonderful to meet you.
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-Jared, nice to meet you.
-Jared, lovely to meet you.
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-Anais. Nice to meet you.
-Oh, Anais, it's wonderful to meet you.
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Thank you all for coming.
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-[Amanda] Hi, Tyler.
-How are you?
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-Looking fabulous.
-I'm wonderful, thank you.
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[Tyler] All right, my friends.
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And we have Tyler's mom,
Theresa, here with us.
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-Hi, everyone.
-[guest] Hi, Theresa!
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[Tyler] That's right,
we got mama in the hizzouse.
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I love it!
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-[Amanda] So, Tyler, today we've Brittany.
-[Tyler] Yes.
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And she is here with her friends.
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Brittany, why don't you introduce
who they are and what they mean to you?
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Okay, awesome.
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This is Bradley.
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He has been my hairstylist
for eight years,
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but also became a very,
very close friend of mine.
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He's been through my wedding,
through all these different things
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that he was there for me for.
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And obviously, your glam team
knows everything about you. [laughs]
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This is Elaine.
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I've been very close friends with her
for… what, like four or five years now?
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-Yeah. A couple years now.
-I met her through my friend Scheana.
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She's in the mommy club with me.
Our kids are close in age.
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So I've been loving her
every single second since I've met her.
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This is Jared.
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He also has been around me
for at least eight years.
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This is, like, my LA family
'cause I'm from Kentucky.
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-So…
-[Tyler] Amazing.
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This is definitely my LA family.
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Jared became one
of my very closest friends.
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Um, he started off as my makeup artist
and became my bestie.
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And now we have Anais,
who is also my glam team!
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She… [laughs]
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She, um, has been my makeup artist
for five years now,
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and I just love all of these people
on this couch so much.
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Well, I love it. Evidently, it helps
to be friends with your glam team.
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-[guests laughing]
-No doubt about it.
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And, Tyler, Brittany is,
of course, on a very popular show,
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-Vanderpump Rules and The Valley.
-[Tyler] Yes! Amazing.
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Well, I'm excited to delve in today
and I'll basically just kind of scribble.
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-I'll relay everything that comes through.
-Okay.
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And as I communicate,
I'm big on specifics and details.
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I like to get inside information,
sometimes references
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to recent conversations will come through,
even if they're kind of odd conversations.
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Um… Oftentimes inside jokes,
family dynamics, people's last words.
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That's kind of the information
that substantiates a connection.
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And that's really what I try
to get in every reading.
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So as we go through this today,
we have a number of options,
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obviously, as far as places to go.
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Um, objects do sometimes help me
make a more direct connection
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or at least focus on perhaps
who might be there, if anybody. [inhales]
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And then we'll kind
of just go across the board.
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So, Brittany,
do you have any objects with us today?
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-[Brittany] Yes!
-I would love--
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So, this might be kind
of strange at first.
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-[guests laughing]
-I like strange. Don't worry.
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-Do I tell you what it is? Okay!
-Don't tell me anything.
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-[Brittany] Okay.
-I love it. Okay.
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One sec.
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This is very special.
I love that. All right.
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And then the other object for me.
Thank you so much.
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I love this.
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[softly] Okay.
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All right. I've got that.
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-[Brittany] Okay.
-Amazing.
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And then we've got objects over here.
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I love that.
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-Thank you… Oh! distinguished.
-[Bradley chuckling]
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Amazing. Okay. That's sweet. Precious.
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All right, we'll talk in a minute.
And then for you…?
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-My turn.
-No worries.
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No, I have to show you,
this is kind of funny, my friend.
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I immediately, right when you sat down,
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wanted to connect with you
and we're gonna talk in a minute.
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-But what's so interesting…
-[Amanda chuckles]
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[Tyler] …I got to show you what I…
what I wrote down.
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[Elaine] Oh my God, stop it.
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So this is 10:22 today
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and we got, you know,
an object with a cross on it.
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-[Amanda] Oh my Gosh!
-[Tyler] And it was really interesting.
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-See, we dated it, so… Yeah.
-[Amanda] Wow!
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And it was so interesting
'cause it hit me right on the way here,
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and I just need you to know that…
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-I told you I was gonna do the ugly cry.
-[Amanda] Oh my God.
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-That's okay, we love ugly cry.
-You are meant to be here today.
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And the person that this is connected to,
regardless of how much we get into it,
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was meant to be referred to,
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and I need you to know
they're showing up today.
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So we'll talk more,
but I actually want to give you this.
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This would be kind
of a sweet thing to have.
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-I'm framing this.
-Amazing, sweetheart. Thank you so much.
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All right, so we'll talk there,
and then I'll hold on to your object.
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[Jared chuckles]
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I got another crazy one like Britt.
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Amazing.
We like crazy objects, my friends.
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-Is this like an abacus or like a…?
-[Jared] Yes, it was!
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-Oh, my God.
-Yeah, look, that was a 50-cent word.
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[guests laughing]
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-[Tyler] Aw, precious.
-[Amanda] Aw.
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I can see, obviously,
we have a pawprint here,
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so unless it's a very, uh,
you know, four-padded grandma,
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it's probably a pet, and that's okay.
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So, let me do that.
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Just seeing if I'm getting a sense there.
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And then we'll cross that over.
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And then, last but not least… [laughs]
Thank you so much.
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I appreciate it.
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All right, so let's just
get a sense here real fast. [inhales]
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[sighs] Okay, we have a lot
of people entering the building.
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-I'm excited.
-Yay!
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Okay, cool. All right.
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-That's the last of the logistics.
-[Brittany] Amazing.
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[chuckles] I appreciate it.
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-Now we'll get started.
-[Brittany] Okay.
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So, I'll relay everything that comes in,
um, and we'll kind of go from there.
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-I wanna hold on to this really quickly.
-Okay.
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'Cause I'm drawn here.
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Now, objects we often associate
with certain people,
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but anybody can come through.
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It just sometimes helps me kind
of meditate or focus.
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One of the areas I do want to talk about,
this is kind of interesting,
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is when we refer
to your mom's side of family.
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That side is hitting me
like a force of nature.
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Now, I have to talk about
when we refer to father figure for Mom,
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I wanna go there in that department.
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And I have to highlight,
in the way this comes across,
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the acknowledgement of the three girls,
the three female siblings,
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the three girls.
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And I have to highlight
two as being similar
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and one being different.
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And they're kind of bifurcating
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like the two over here
and the one over here.
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So my question would be,
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do you on your mom's side of family
have a grandfather that's passed?
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-Yes, my papaw.
-[Tyler] Okay. Gotcha.
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Uh, if we talk about the three girls,
you know who those are?
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And I would assume
that includes your mom in some way?
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-My mom and my two aunts.
-[Tyler] Gotcha.
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Um, would you understand
why two would be similar,
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one would be different,
or why I'd be bifurcating them?
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My mom
is like the forgiving soul, like me,
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and my other aunts
are a little bit more like…
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-[Tyler] Feisty? Feisty, feisty.
-Yeah. Feisty, yeah.
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-Nothing wrong with feisty.
-[all laugh]
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-Yeah. [laughs]
-It takes-- Takes all kinds…
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I wanna highlight,
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in the way this comes across,
a number of different things.
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For one, it wouldn't surprise me
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if you didn't get the chance
to either meet your great-grandparents
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or know one of the sides
of the great-grandparents.
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Do you understand that?
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I don't know any of my great-grandparents
on my mom's side.
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Got it. Okay.
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So that aspect would come in there
and it's just kind of acknowledgement
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of who they are, who they're with.
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Um, I need to bring up,
when we talk about our guy here,
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he's showing me
and wanting me to single out your mom.
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And there's a sweetness here
when we talk about religion, forgiveness,
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understanding, open-mindedness.
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A lot of that comes in and it's almost
a way to say like, "This is okay."
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-[Brittany] Mm-hmm.
-[Tyler] This is good to keep in mind.
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Like, if any family was a little hesitant
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around, like, this happening
and mediumship in general,
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there's just this sense
of like, "I'm with God."
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-Yeah. Oh, thank you.
-[Tyler] "I'm with God."
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And they need to know that
so they can let go of any apprehension.
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-Yeah.
-[Tyler] And that comes in.
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-So you understand that?
-Yeah.
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-[Tyler chuckles] Okay.
-Thank you.
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And that aspect pops in there.
I wanna highlight the symbol.
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He's shown me a bunch of things.
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Very, like, interesting in that
he could communicate just with a look.
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He gives me, um,
this very interesting emphasis on…
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Check and see… Two things.
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One, I want you to look and see
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if there are any nature areas
where there would be,
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like, an area where one would walk
and find like arrowheads
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or like old Native American things.
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Yeah.
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Do you know
about that memory specifically?
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Mm-hmm.
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If I say that somebody remembers
walking around the bend of a river
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or like, a bend of a river specifically,
and I'm wanting to do this,
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and it's sweet, and also, I think
that a guy taught a girl how to fish
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'cause there's a funniness
in this of like…
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"If I had a son, or if my son
was interested in this, I would teach him,
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but I taught a daughter,"
in like some aspect there.
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Does any of that make sense? [laughs]
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I mean, it's just amazing,
'cause our farm ends at a river.
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-[Tyler] Got it.
-The Kentucky River, to be exact.
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And like, we have all those things.
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We have arrowheads,
we have everything on our farm.
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And, of course, our papaw
taught us everything, so…
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I love that! It comes across as patriarch.
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It's a sense of, like,
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if you teach someone to fish
versus giving them a fish,
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-there's analogies that come through.
-[Brittany] Yeah.
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It's just very much like teaching people
how to have the tools to help themselves.
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Yeah.
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And that aspect
comes in very, very strongly.
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There is an acknowledgment.
Whoo, gotta go there.
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I gotta talk about your mom.
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The kind of, wanting to single her out
and have her kind of take it easier.
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Mm-hmm.
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[Tyler] Um, the way
that I would word this for Mom,
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is if she runs
into any health-related concerns,
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things that just won't heal…
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Remember that I'm saying this,
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it's one thing to have an issue
and then it get dealt with,
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but if it won't heal
and kind of keeps coming back,
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I keep seeing putting a band--
Like, "Do I bandage this, do I not?"
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"I don't wanna put…"
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You know when you want
something to breathe but you can't?
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It's so hard to explain.
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-But remember this with Mom.
-Yeah.
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Make sure to nip this in the bud.
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-Yeah. Mom!
-[Tyler] I see, basically it--
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and then like…
But continuing to kind of chug along.
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-So do you know what that is?
-I know exactly.
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She had a very bad health scare
a couple years ago
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where we almost lost her.
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-Gosh! Oh my goodness.
-Yeah.
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-It was-- It was bad.
-Um, I'm so sorry.
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Uh, I feel good, though,
as far as health goes.
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I'm not wildly concerned.
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I just need to bring up, kind of,
acknowledgements between travel,
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geography.
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Um, give me one sec.
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We're gonna cross this bridge
when we get there.
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[laughs]
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Let me look there.
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Okay. Grandpa, Grandpa, Grandpa.
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Kind of interesting, with his situation,
he highlights two separate--
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He's separating his situation
into two things,
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so it's usually indicative
of like, uh, kind of,
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like previous little whole thing,
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and then,
whatever the cause of passing was,
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it's viewed as, like, a secondary thing.
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That kind of takes me out
or causes my passing to be expedited.
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There's a feeling of daughters wanting
to be around me as I'm dying,
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and a feeling of a rush there
to, kind of, either get there or be there.
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Do you understand that at all?
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Yeah, everybody wanted
to be with him when he passed.
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Everybody was.
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I got to see him,
like, two weeks before he passed.
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[Tyler] Gotcha.
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Check and see
if there's any funny stories.
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This is just one of those weird things
to look into about, um,
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you know, like tobacco, chewing tobacco?
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-[chuckles]
-[Amanda] Oh my God.
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[Tyler] You know
when someone goes and drinks…?
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This is so gross, but… Oh my God.
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Check and see, when we look into this,
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if there's any funny memories,
anything gross,
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like a spit… [imitates spitting]
…thing that I'm wanting to do.
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Can I tell you?
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I don't want to drink it.
So gross. Tell me, yeah.
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-[Amanda] Please tell us.
-What is it?
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-Um, my papaw was a tobacco farmer.
-[Tyler] Oh!
292
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So these are tobacco sticks
that my mom made into a lantern
293
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that are from our family farm.
294
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-And my whole family--
-[Amanda] Oh my God!
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We're freaking out.
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My whole family lives on the farm.
297
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We're all, like,
next-door neighbors and stuff.
298
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So like, these are actually tobacco sticks
from my papaw's farm.
299
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-[Amanda] Oh my gosh.
-How funny!
300
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[Brittany] Yeah, it's not a birdhouse.
301
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-Yes.
-[all laughing]
302
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Now I know.
303
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[Brittany] And my mom makes them
into lanterns and does different things
304
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because the main barn on our farm
blew down last year in a bad storm.
305
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So there was, like,
thousands of used tobacco sticks
306
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that my papaw did.
307
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-[Tyler] Wow.
-So that's what this was.
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And it was like the only thing
I really had in LA…
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[Tyler] Yeah.
310
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…compared to Kentucky, to, like,
bring, you know, my papaw here.
311
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But that's crazy that you started talk--
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He never smoked
or drank a day in his life.
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[Amanda] What is a tobacco stick?
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So whenever they hang them
in the barns, they dry on,
315
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like, tobacco sticks and, you know?
316
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[Tyler] What?
317
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[Brittany]
So they're normally not this color.
318
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My mom painted this for, like, a…
319
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A certain type of lantern.
320
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-But… Yeah.
-[Tyler] That is so cute.
321
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But that's, like, amazing
that you even brought up, like, tobacco.
322
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'Cause I'm from Kentucky
and he was a tobacco farmer.
323
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It's not-- It used to be
a full working tobacco farm,
324
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and now, you know,
it's not anymore…
325
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-[Tyler] Sure. Wow.
-…since he's passed. But…
326
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Brittany, were you really close
with your grandpa?
327
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Like, did he teach you a lot of things
around the farm when you were a kid?
328
00:12:25,695 --> 00:12:27,981
Oh, I grew up
setting tobacco all the time.
329
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Like, I sat on the back of the tractor,
put the plants in.
330
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I'm from… I swear, my family's got a lot
of beautiful country women in it.
331
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And we would just like wear our bikinis
and we're just all setting tobacco.
332
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-Like riding on the back of the tractor.
-[Amanda] Aw.
333
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Um, my papaw was literally the best man
I've ever met in my entire life.
334
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And I've always wondered
if he was, like, proud of me, you know.
335
00:12:51,254 --> 00:12:54,040
You know, it's so interesting
when we talk about timing of passing.
336
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What-- What is interesting is when we talk
337
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about when he went
versus where we are now,
338
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there's just this kind of sense
of seeing how much has happened.
339
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And I don't really know how else
to explain it but there's a little feeling
340
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of, like, things were getting
a little bit of a roll.
341
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But then since they've taken off
in a big, big way.
342
00:13:08,821 --> 00:13:11,224
And there's an awareness of that,
and acknowledgements
343
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of just future generations' grandchildren
get referred to,
344
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but I think for him
this would be great-grandchildren.
345
00:13:16,262 --> 00:13:19,415
Does he have any great-grandchildren
here that are born?
346
00:13:19,449 --> 00:13:20,466
Uh, do we have--
347
00:13:20,500 --> 00:13:22,352
-Yeah, we have some great-grandchildren.
-[Jared] Crazy. No, your baby.
348
00:13:22,435 --> 00:13:24,837
Oh, you're talking about mine?
Oh, yeah. I have a son.
349
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-[guests laughing]
-[Tyler] All good. No worries!
350
00:13:27,256 --> 00:13:28,524
Yeah. I have a son.
351
00:13:28,591 --> 00:13:30,460
I have three-year-old son
that he never got to meet.
352
00:13:30,493 --> 00:13:32,996
There you go. Okay, 'cause he's having me
highlight like the timing,
353
00:13:33,029 --> 00:13:36,265
and everything since and I feel like
I need to bring-- Bring that aspect up.
354
00:13:36,299 --> 00:13:38,034
It just comes in.
He's like a force of nature.
355
00:13:38,201 --> 00:13:41,120
And I need to let you know,
just generally, when we talk about things,
356
00:13:41,154 --> 00:13:43,072
and I'm getting kind of already
pulled over here, which is exciting.
357
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I'll get there in one minute.
358
00:13:44,190 --> 00:13:47,310
Um, just keep in mind, when we talk
about Mom, taking it easy, making sure
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that initial health scare isn't something
that kind of continues to be a thing.
360
00:13:50,847 --> 00:13:51,731
Yeah.
361
00:13:51,764 --> 00:13:54,951
But for yourself, just considering
when we talk about,
362
00:13:54,984 --> 00:13:57,854
um… Two things.
So one-- One thing comes through
363
00:13:57,887 --> 00:14:00,139
as like hormonal-related stuff
and just keeping in mind
364
00:14:00,173 --> 00:14:02,775
susceptibilities,
like postpartum related stuff.
365
00:14:02,809 --> 00:14:05,044
And that's just good to keep in mind
in the event that we ever decide
366
00:14:05,078 --> 00:14:07,847
to, you know, have children in the future.
367
00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:09,766
I just kind of want
to go to the hormonal aspect.
368
00:14:09,799 --> 00:14:12,085
And then I want to talk about,
also just keeping in mind,
369
00:14:12,118 --> 00:14:15,455
when we talk about how body responds
to alcohol or rejecting something…
370
00:14:15,488 --> 00:14:17,774
This is going to sound so weird,
but if someone, like, normally can drink
371
00:14:17,807 --> 00:14:20,076
and it be fine, but then they get a
little older and they start feeling like,
372
00:14:20,176 --> 00:14:22,729
"Oh no, this is affecting me differently."
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00:14:22,762 --> 00:14:26,949
Um, there's a degree of kind of a risk
of like, inflammation that comes up
374
00:14:26,983 --> 00:14:31,838
akin to gallbladder, pancreas, that area.
Just keeping that area in mind generally.
375
00:14:31,871 --> 00:14:33,873
-Yeah.
-Not worried about it, but all good.
376
00:14:33,906 --> 00:14:36,309
Like, Tyler, that's for Brittany
to keep in mind for herself?
377
00:14:36,342 --> 00:14:38,327
[Tyler] That'd be for Brittany
to keep in mind. Yeah, so that…
378
00:14:38,361 --> 00:14:40,096
Do you still have your gallbladder?
Like, do you have…?
379
00:14:40,129 --> 00:14:41,681
I had my gallbladder removed already.
380
00:14:41,714 --> 00:14:44,867
-[Amanda] Woah.
-Yeah. And it was, like, hereditary.
381
00:14:44,901 --> 00:14:49,405
Like, I think my grandparent, like,
my mamaw did, maybe, and one of my aunts.
382
00:14:49,439 --> 00:14:51,374
So, yeah, it's been,
like, a thing in my family.
383
00:14:51,407 --> 00:14:54,177
Yeah, but good to keep in mind, and,
you know, prevention is knowledge,
384
00:14:54,210 --> 00:14:55,461
and it's all good. I feel really positive.
385
00:14:55,528 --> 00:14:56,929
He's being like, "Brittany!"
386
00:14:57,513 --> 00:14:59,282
"Stop with the Casamigos!"
387
00:14:59,399 --> 00:15:01,818
-[all laughing]
-[Amanda] "Stop drinking!"
388
00:15:04,087 --> 00:15:05,171
Aw.
389
00:15:05,271 --> 00:15:08,925
Oh, my goodness.
Let me see where I'm going.
390
00:15:08,958 --> 00:15:10,910
Oh, I'm getting pulled
different directions now.
391
00:15:10,943 --> 00:15:13,179
-Let's look. And we will revisit you.
-Oh, that's amazing. Thank you.
392
00:15:13,212 --> 00:15:14,363
I just want to see--
393
00:15:14,397 --> 00:15:15,465
That tobacco thing
394
00:15:15,581 --> 00:15:17,517
just like blew me away.
That was amazing.
395
00:15:17,550 --> 00:15:19,135
Okay. Let's see if we can…
396
00:15:23,639 --> 00:15:27,443
Okay. All right, where am I going?
Let me look here.
397
00:15:27,477 --> 00:15:30,012
If I go… [mumbles] …I'm drawn to you,
398
00:15:30,046 --> 00:15:31,831
but then I'm also drawn to you,
and I'm also drawn to you,
399
00:15:31,864 --> 00:15:33,583
but then I'm not forgetting
about you either.
400
00:15:33,616 --> 00:15:37,019
-[laughter]
-Um, okay.
401
00:15:37,637 --> 00:15:39,956
[exhales deeply] He's right…
402
00:15:39,989 --> 00:15:44,977
I have this guy coming in who's hitting me
as a unique case, which I like.
403
00:15:45,011 --> 00:15:50,066
[chuckles] I have a situation involving
a man who would have passed away
404
00:15:51,717 --> 00:15:56,239
like before 70 which is kind of unusual.
Um, give me one minute here.
405
00:15:56,272 --> 00:15:58,975
Can I hold on to this? Do you mind if I…?
406
00:15:59,008 --> 00:16:00,009
Thank you so much.
407
00:16:02,161 --> 00:16:04,380
This is kind of hard to explain.
So separate from this object,
408
00:16:04,413 --> 00:16:07,166
even if it's not necessarily referring
to this individual, do you know of anyone
409
00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:11,020
connected within family who would
have passed away like before 70 at all?
410
00:16:11,621 --> 00:16:13,189
-[clicks tongue] My uncle.
-[Tyler] Okay.
411
00:16:13,222 --> 00:16:14,474
'Cause I have to highlight,
412
00:16:14,507 --> 00:16:17,543
like, male, feeling of hitting it
kind of close, I'm not gonna lie,
413
00:16:17,577 --> 00:16:21,797
but I feel like I don't get to see a full
life in the way this kind of comes across.
414
00:16:21,831 --> 00:16:23,132
What was your first name again?
415
00:16:23,232 --> 00:16:24,767
-Mine? Bradley.
-[Tyler] Bradley. Okay.
416
00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:26,802
Um, this is good to keep in mind.
417
00:16:27,970 --> 00:16:29,021
[clicks tongue]
418
00:16:30,256 --> 00:16:32,492
I want to talk
about where the four siblings would be.
419
00:16:32,525 --> 00:16:34,794
So within family, if we think about,
like, Mom's side, Dad's side,
420
00:16:34,827 --> 00:16:36,829
do you know where the four
would be at all?
421
00:16:36,863 --> 00:16:41,300
Four. My dad's one of seven,
and my mom is one of…
422
00:16:42,385 --> 00:16:44,787
-Oh, yes, yeah, my mom's one of four.
-[Tyler] Cool. Awesome.
423
00:16:44,871 --> 00:16:47,039
-Yeah. All good.
-[group laughing]
424
00:16:47,089 --> 00:16:49,375
-[Amanda] I told you this would happen.
-[guests laughing]
425
00:16:49,408 --> 00:16:50,409
Like, "Wait, what?"
426
00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:52,428
I'm so bad
with my own family lineage, too.
427
00:16:52,461 --> 00:16:55,131
I'm like, "Oh, God, yeah,
there's four somewhere. Yeah."
428
00:16:55,164 --> 00:16:58,117
I told him, I was like, "Help each other
out because you forget what you know."
429
00:16:58,150 --> 00:16:59,335
[Tyler] Yes, it is true.
430
00:16:59,368 --> 00:17:03,456
So if I go there and I kind of highlight
the four in the way this pops in there,
431
00:17:03,489 --> 00:17:06,008
do you know of any
J-O names in family at all?
432
00:17:06,042 --> 00:17:08,728
Anyone who has a name
that would start with J-O?
433
00:17:08,761 --> 00:17:11,013
J-- Well, my mom, her name's Janet.
434
00:17:11,047 --> 00:17:13,933
-[Tyler] Okay. Okay, got it.
-Her sister is named Jane.
435
00:17:13,966 --> 00:17:15,985
A lot of J-As. No Joes or Johns?
436
00:17:16,569 --> 00:17:19,372
-My grandpa's John. I don't know if…
-John. Okay. Gotcha.
437
00:17:19,405 --> 00:17:20,640
-And he's passed?
-He has, yeah.
438
00:17:20,673 --> 00:17:22,758
Okay, gotcha. [hesitates]
439
00:17:22,792 --> 00:17:24,894
We'll take a note on it
in the way this comes across.
440
00:17:24,927 --> 00:17:27,880
[inhales] Do you know if anybody
has any Christian names in the family?
441
00:17:27,914 --> 00:17:32,418
Like any Pauls, Michaels, like Christian…?
I'm wanting to talk about Christian names.
442
00:17:33,269 --> 00:17:35,321
Hmm. [clicks tongue]
443
00:17:35,354 --> 00:17:40,960
I'm not super… No.
We have very standard names in our family.
444
00:17:40,993 --> 00:17:42,979
Nothing that's super exciting.
445
00:17:43,012 --> 00:17:45,748
My grandpa was named Donald.
My grandmother's named Martha.
446
00:17:45,781 --> 00:17:47,149
-No one exciting. So…
-[Tyler] Gotcha. Okay.
447
00:17:47,183 --> 00:17:50,603
Let me look and see if we can figure out
where this religious aspect comes in.
448
00:17:50,686 --> 00:17:53,222
They were very religious, though.
They went to church every Sunday.
449
00:17:53,256 --> 00:17:54,724
The way I'd word it
is I feel I have to talk
450
00:17:54,757 --> 00:17:56,208
about the given name, religious name.
451
00:17:56,242 --> 00:17:58,794
It keeps coming in,
but it's hitting me as a thing.
452
00:17:58,828 --> 00:18:00,546
Let me take this a step further.
453
00:18:00,580 --> 00:18:04,100
Do you know, on your mom's side of family,
if there were kind of anything--
454
00:18:04,133 --> 00:18:07,336
anything revealed after somebody died
that we didn't know before?
455
00:18:08,404 --> 00:18:11,958
So, I'm going on Mom's side of family.
I have to talk about there.
456
00:18:11,991 --> 00:18:13,943
And then, like, grand reveal.
457
00:18:13,976 --> 00:18:15,828
Which side of family
was Uncle on that passed?
458
00:18:15,861 --> 00:18:17,113
-Was that…?
-The unc--
459
00:18:17,146 --> 00:18:19,398
-My paternal side, actually.
-[Tyler] Dad's side. Okay.
460
00:18:19,432 --> 00:18:20,600
Let me look there.
461
00:18:20,633 --> 00:18:22,518
I do have a great-grandfather,
though, that actually,
462
00:18:22,551 --> 00:18:24,337
now that I'm thinking
about it, has a J name.
463
00:18:24,370 --> 00:18:26,689
His name was J,
and my middle name is J,
464
00:18:26,722 --> 00:18:28,357
which-- named after him, so…
465
00:18:28,391 --> 00:18:31,060
I see. I wonder if J was short
for anything or what that is.
466
00:18:31,093 --> 00:18:32,979
But I do go there. I'm inclined. [inhales]
467
00:18:33,012 --> 00:18:36,882
Do you know, if I talk about
bi-coastal or East Coast, West Coast,
468
00:18:36,916 --> 00:18:38,584
I keep having to go there
and this keeps coming in.
469
00:18:38,618 --> 00:18:40,403
This is just good to keep in mind.
I keep seeing my symbol
470
00:18:40,436 --> 00:18:43,272
for airplane travel, flight,
and like going back and forth…
471
00:18:43,306 --> 00:18:44,473
Yes.
472
00:18:44,507 --> 00:18:47,009
I'm from the Midwest
and I travel a lot to--
473
00:18:47,043 --> 00:18:49,412
I traveled a lot
when I started my career out here in LA.
474
00:18:49,545 --> 00:18:50,680
Amazing. Amazing. Amazing.
475
00:18:50,713 --> 00:18:53,633
Have you ever considered
like launching anything…
476
00:18:54,483 --> 00:18:56,118
This is going to sound kind of left field.
477
00:18:56,152 --> 00:18:57,353
Regardless of what you do,
478
00:18:57,386 --> 00:19:02,008
there's a sense of launching something
that you in essence are the center of.
479
00:19:02,041 --> 00:19:03,125
And the way that I would describe this
480
00:19:03,175 --> 00:19:05,311
-is like, I'm friends with Chaz Dean…
-[guests laughing]
481
00:19:05,344 --> 00:19:08,214
…of all people, and this is random,
obviously that's in the hair department.
482
00:19:08,247 --> 00:19:10,950
But if you think of like somebody
who takes who they are and then creates
483
00:19:10,983 --> 00:19:13,936
an entire kind of like empire around them.
484
00:19:13,969 --> 00:19:15,521
-I know that's a weird thing to say…
-[overlapping chatter]
485
00:19:15,571 --> 00:19:18,140
[Tyler] …but it's almost like,
"Do the branding thing. Step into this,"
486
00:19:18,174 --> 00:19:19,425
like, "Make the leap."
487
00:19:19,458 --> 00:19:22,128
And I see this like being--
revolving around you.
488
00:19:22,161 --> 00:19:24,563
It's kind of interesting.
So what do you do? [chuckles]
489
00:19:24,597 --> 00:19:28,934
I am Brittany's hairstylist as well
as many other people here in Los Angeles.
490
00:19:28,968 --> 00:19:30,886
Amazing.
So with the Chaz Dean symbology,
491
00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,723
it kind of is indicative of
like branding, doing our own thing.
492
00:19:33,756 --> 00:19:35,624
If you have any products
to create or patent…
493
00:19:35,691 --> 00:19:37,293
-Yeah.
-[Tyler] …any ideas, keep that in mind.
494
00:19:37,326 --> 00:19:39,378
I recently just opened
a salon in Santa Monica
495
00:19:39,412 --> 00:19:42,832
and I do have a small
little hair accessory brand.
496
00:19:42,865 --> 00:19:44,834
-So that makes sense. So thank you.
-[Tyler] Amazing. Yeah, yeah.
497
00:19:44,867 --> 00:19:46,686
-I feel really positive about that.
-[Bradley and Jared laughing]
498
00:19:46,719 --> 00:19:47,970
Um, what I would say,
499
00:19:48,003 --> 00:19:50,206
the only thing that's throwing me
is the Christian names thing.
500
00:19:50,239 --> 00:19:52,141
[sniffs] I would just go back and look
501
00:19:52,174 --> 00:19:56,095
'cause Mom's side and Dad's side
throws me a little-- Let me look there.
502
00:19:56,128 --> 00:19:57,646
Who did this belong to? I'm curious.
503
00:19:57,730 --> 00:20:00,216
-My grandfather on my mom's side.
-[Tyler] Mom's side of the family.
504
00:20:00,249 --> 00:20:03,736
Cool. I'm always curious
which sides come in more strongly.
505
00:20:03,769 --> 00:20:04,954
What was his name?
506
00:20:04,987 --> 00:20:06,322
-Donald.
-[Tyler] Donald.
507
00:20:06,355 --> 00:20:08,457
-[pen scribbling]
-[Tyler] Let me go there.
508
00:20:10,059 --> 00:20:12,661
And I'm just gonna--
I'm gonna hand that back…
509
00:20:12,695 --> 00:20:14,046
-Thank you.
-…quickly.
510
00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:15,765
And I'm just going
to see something really fast
511
00:20:15,798 --> 00:20:16,999
'cause there might be something there.
512
00:20:17,032 --> 00:20:19,285
[Brittany] He said, "Keep going"
on yours. [laughs]
513
00:20:19,318 --> 00:20:20,820
He's already started,
now you have to keep it going.
514
00:20:20,853 --> 00:20:22,605
-[laughs]
-[Brittany chuckling] Yeah.
515
00:20:22,688 --> 00:20:25,124
Hmm. Let me go to you, if that's okay,
516
00:20:25,157 --> 00:20:27,109
if you don't mind handing me your object.
517
00:20:27,143 --> 00:20:29,061
'Cause we have
the John grandpa thing, right?
518
00:20:29,095 --> 00:20:30,746
-Yes.
-This is for you.
519
00:20:30,780 --> 00:20:32,198
And regardless,
I don't know if this connects,
520
00:20:32,231 --> 00:20:33,766
it's just kind of where I want to go.
521
00:20:33,799 --> 00:20:35,851
So let's look-- See.
522
00:20:35,885 --> 00:20:37,403
I want to focus on that.
523
00:20:39,221 --> 00:20:40,990
Okay.
524
00:20:41,023 --> 00:20:42,908
Ah, because…
Okay, I'm going to hand it back.
525
00:20:42,942 --> 00:20:44,393
I know it's like a game of musical chairs.
526
00:20:44,427 --> 00:20:47,663
-[guests laughing]
-I've got the situation.
527
00:20:47,696 --> 00:20:49,665
I'm trying to tune into all three of you.
528
00:20:49,698 --> 00:20:50,766
I have…
529
00:20:51,617 --> 00:20:53,919
a bunch of strange things coming through.
530
00:20:54,453 --> 00:20:56,338
This is going
to sound a little left field.
531
00:20:56,372 --> 00:20:59,024
So if I talk about really,
really young passings,
532
00:20:59,058 --> 00:21:02,428
this is… [chuckles] …very different
than what we've just been talking about.
533
00:21:02,461 --> 00:21:05,414
So like your guy older,
your guy come through older.
534
00:21:05,448 --> 00:21:07,399
I have to highlight this feeling
535
00:21:07,433 --> 00:21:11,153
of a tragic younger passing
and it keeps hitting me.
536
00:21:11,187 --> 00:21:13,939
And I have to highlight,
this is going to sound strange,
537
00:21:13,973 --> 00:21:16,308
but this individual
was basically celebrated
538
00:21:16,342 --> 00:21:17,843
on two different dates.
539
00:21:17,877 --> 00:21:19,145
And this is just good to keep in mind.
540
00:21:19,178 --> 00:21:22,364
So there's, like, the initial way
that we're kind of remembered,
541
00:21:22,398 --> 00:21:25,301
celebrated thing,
and then a secondary thing.
542
00:21:25,334 --> 00:21:27,269
But then there's also
an emphasis on, like, starting over
543
00:21:27,303 --> 00:21:29,538
on a new year, turning over a new leaf.
544
00:21:29,672 --> 00:21:30,623
So it's kind of confusing.
545
00:21:30,656 --> 00:21:32,792
I would want to know
when this person passed.
546
00:21:32,825 --> 00:21:35,795
If I talk to you, do you know--
Relate to any tragic-related passings…
547
00:21:35,828 --> 00:21:37,563
-Yeah.
-[Tyler] …of anyone who, like, died early?
548
00:21:37,596 --> 00:21:40,416
My friend Johnny Bash was murdered.
549
00:21:40,449 --> 00:21:41,851
-[Tyler] I'm so sorry.
-Yeah.
550
00:21:42,384 --> 00:21:44,003
-[Tyler exhales deeply]
-Very recently.
551
00:21:44,036 --> 00:21:46,655
[Tyler] And so-- And it's kind of strange
'cause this John thing
552
00:21:46,689 --> 00:21:48,491
has been, like, hitting me,
553
00:21:48,524 --> 00:21:51,994
and I wonder if it's kind of like a link
in trying to communicate.
554
00:21:52,027 --> 00:21:54,480
Um… [clicks tongue]
What month did this happen in?
555
00:21:55,798 --> 00:21:56,949
Gosh, I blacked out.
556
00:21:56,982 --> 00:21:58,584
-[Tyler] It's okay.
-Maybe, like, a month ago?
557
00:21:58,617 --> 00:22:00,219
-[Tyler] Okay, so--
-It's crazy because I didn't even
558
00:22:00,252 --> 00:22:03,606
bring anything that I had of him
so it's crazy that you picked that up
559
00:22:03,639 --> 00:22:06,842
because that has also been
weighing so heavily on my heart.
560
00:22:06,876 --> 00:22:07,927
I'm so sorry.
561
00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,913
I'll tune into this and see
if we can get more information about it,
562
00:22:10,946 --> 00:22:12,147
but I have to highlight…
563
00:22:12,698 --> 00:22:15,117
I also had a cousin
who passed away in May.
564
00:22:15,150 --> 00:22:16,118
-Gotcha.
-Five months ago.
565
00:22:16,151 --> 00:22:18,454
-Okay.
-And it was his birthday month.
566
00:22:18,487 --> 00:22:19,471
[Tyler] Aw.
567
00:22:19,505 --> 00:22:23,509
-And we celebrated him after the passing.
-[Tyler] Oh. Okay.
568
00:22:23,542 --> 00:22:26,078
I think I might be with you a little bit.
569
00:22:26,111 --> 00:22:31,267
-He was, um… I want to say 54, 55.
-[Tyler] Okay, gotcha.
570
00:22:31,300 --> 00:22:32,484
-[Jared] How'd he die?
-[Tyler] If I go--
571
00:22:32,518 --> 00:22:35,421
-I'm going to kind of jump back and forth.
-[Anais] In his sleep.
572
00:22:35,454 --> 00:22:36,555
Aw.
573
00:22:36,589 --> 00:22:39,642
If we talk about your situation
with the person that passed,
574
00:22:39,675 --> 00:22:42,862
there's a sense, I don't know
if you just mentioned how he died,
575
00:22:42,895 --> 00:22:44,980
but I have to talk
about accountability, responsibility,
576
00:22:45,014 --> 00:22:48,617
people talking about like… [inhales]
…I don't want to say who's to blame,
577
00:22:48,651 --> 00:22:49,919
but there's a feeling of when we talk
578
00:22:49,952 --> 00:22:52,888
about family-related matters,
this kind of sense
579
00:22:52,922 --> 00:22:57,226
of what do we pin this on
in kind of a larger capacity.
580
00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:58,827
The only thing I would describe--
581
00:22:58,861 --> 00:23:01,564
Check and see if anybody
was out of town when he died.
582
00:23:01,597 --> 00:23:02,498
Yeah.
583
00:23:02,531 --> 00:23:04,817
There's a feeling of being
out of town upon receiving the news.
584
00:23:04,850 --> 00:23:06,352
Do you understand that at all?
585
00:23:06,385 --> 00:23:07,770
Um…
586
00:23:07,803 --> 00:23:09,471
-Not at this moment.
-[Tyler] Yeah.
587
00:23:09,505 --> 00:23:10,406
Um…
588
00:23:11,307 --> 00:23:12,575
But I don't…
589
00:23:14,660 --> 00:23:16,312
[Tyler] How did he pass?
590
00:23:16,345 --> 00:23:18,647
-Um, he had an accident…
-[Tyler] Okay.
591
00:23:18,681 --> 00:23:20,583
…so he jumped off a boat,
592
00:23:21,116 --> 00:23:25,020
landed on his neck, I think,
and got handicapped and paralyzed.
593
00:23:25,054 --> 00:23:26,005
[Tyler] I see.
594
00:23:26,038 --> 00:23:30,009
And he had a caregiver,
and he pretty much went crazy.
595
00:23:30,042 --> 00:23:31,961
-I don't know exactly what happened.
-Sure.
596
00:23:31,994 --> 00:23:34,079
Murdered him when he was at home.
597
00:23:34,113 --> 00:23:36,682
-Oh my God. Okay, got it.
-[Elaine chuckles]
598
00:23:36,715 --> 00:23:38,734
-I know. It's very morbid.
-[Tyler] Wow.
599
00:23:38,834 --> 00:23:40,452
I wasn't sure if she had mentioned
if it was a murder.
600
00:23:40,486 --> 00:23:42,304
It, like, slipped past the aspect
601
00:23:42,338 --> 00:23:46,158
that comes in as, like, accountability,
feelings of trying to get a clarity.
602
00:23:46,191 --> 00:23:48,644
There's an acknowledgement
of being celebrated in…
603
00:23:49,161 --> 00:23:50,329
I'm gonna go here though.
604
00:23:51,013 --> 00:23:52,348
Go to you. We'll talk about--
605
00:23:52,381 --> 00:23:54,166
-You said cousin had passed.
-[Anais] My cousin.
606
00:23:54,283 --> 00:23:55,551
[Tyler]
Do you know if there were questions--
607
00:23:55,584 --> 00:23:57,853
There's this feeling
of trying to maintain sanctity
608
00:23:57,886 --> 00:24:00,756
of the body in questions
of whether to do an autopsy or not,
609
00:24:00,789 --> 00:24:02,891
and a feeling of, like,
one person being game for that…
610
00:24:02,925 --> 00:24:04,410
-Yes. [sniffles]
-[Tyler] …and another person not.
611
00:24:04,443 --> 00:24:07,179
-Do you understand that kind of discord?
-Yes.
612
00:24:07,212 --> 00:24:10,783
[Tyler] That keeps popping in
and that would relate to him for sure.
613
00:24:10,816 --> 00:24:13,569
-Who's his "mini-me" or is he a "mini-me"?
-Oh my God.
614
00:24:13,602 --> 00:24:15,137
[Tyler chuckles] Because I want
to talk about that for you.
615
00:24:15,170 --> 00:24:17,072
Oh, she was just talking
about that with us earlier.
616
00:24:17,106 --> 00:24:18,440
[Anais] That's what he calls his daughter.
617
00:24:18,474 --> 00:24:20,376
[Tyler] Oh, great.
Okay, so there we got the mini-me,
618
00:24:20,409 --> 00:24:21,944
and I definitely need you
to know this feeling
619
00:24:21,977 --> 00:24:24,096
of wanting to connect with this little one
620
00:24:24,179 --> 00:24:25,798
and an acknowledgment of that bond.
621
00:24:25,881 --> 00:24:27,599
-Um…
-[Amanda] Do you call her mini-me?
622
00:24:27,633 --> 00:24:29,018
[voice breaking]
He would call her mini-me.
623
00:24:29,051 --> 00:24:30,886
-Gosh, Tyler.
-[Tyler] Aw!
624
00:24:30,919 --> 00:24:33,105
That's precious. I love it.
See, we're knocking it out.
625
00:24:33,138 --> 00:24:35,641
-On live television. All right.
-[guests] Wow.
626
00:24:35,741 --> 00:24:36,976
[overlapping chatter]
627
00:24:37,009 --> 00:24:37,993
-And I-- I just--
-That's so amazing.
628
00:24:38,027 --> 00:24:40,929
I need you to know there's a sense
of levity, of relief, of peace.
629
00:24:40,963 --> 00:24:43,932
I-- Of course,
their passings do not define their life,
630
00:24:43,966 --> 00:24:47,519
but there's this sense of,
"Ah, I just should have had more time,
631
00:24:47,553 --> 00:24:49,405
decades… [chuckles] …and I didn't."
632
00:24:49,438 --> 00:24:54,243
Um… There is a very clear kind
of sense of needing it to be known.
633
00:24:54,276 --> 00:24:56,428
There's this feeling
of wanting to squash misinformation
634
00:24:56,462 --> 00:24:57,713
-around his passing…
-[gasps]
635
00:24:57,746 --> 00:25:01,200
[Tyler] …and the rumors of how he died
versus how he actually did.
636
00:25:01,233 --> 00:25:03,635
He's like, "Don't let that
make the grief process harder."
637
00:25:03,752 --> 00:25:04,620
[Brittany] Oh!
638
00:25:04,653 --> 00:25:07,206
[Tyler] I don't want you to feel
like this is gonna make this harder
639
00:25:07,239 --> 00:25:10,376
because he's giving me, as weird as it is,
I know this is kind of a unique situation,
640
00:25:10,409 --> 00:25:12,011
but he's like, "Okay, it happened."
641
00:25:12,044 --> 00:25:13,362
-Like, open and shut.
-That's what he was.
642
00:25:13,395 --> 00:25:14,496
-That was his personality.
-[Tyler] Yeah.
643
00:25:14,530 --> 00:25:16,782
[Brittany] Oh, my God. Anais!
644
00:25:16,815 --> 00:25:19,768
[Tyler] And so you understand that message
of kind of differing, perhaps,
645
00:25:19,802 --> 00:25:22,054
discussions around
how someone passes and causes death.
646
00:25:22,087 --> 00:25:23,472
And he's just like, "It's all good."
647
00:25:23,505 --> 00:25:28,127
Like, I'm taking very much a sense of not
as dramatic as we might think.
648
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:29,561
Like, that's the only way to describe it.
649
00:25:29,595 --> 00:25:31,947
-[Jared] We were talking about this.
-Yeah, he fell asleep. Yeah.
650
00:25:31,980 --> 00:25:34,733
Anais, can you share
how that relates to you?
651
00:25:34,767 --> 00:25:38,353
So, he is a cousin.
Um… we grew up as, like, a sibling.
652
00:25:38,387 --> 00:25:41,056
He was like a brother to me.
And… [inhales deeply]
653
00:25:41,090 --> 00:25:42,558
There was a time where we didn't speak.
654
00:25:42,591 --> 00:25:47,346
We had to set boundaries, my whole family,
and we got word of his passing.
655
00:25:47,379 --> 00:25:50,215
It was very tragic.
He was young. [sniffles]
656
00:25:50,249 --> 00:25:55,287
Um… He died in his sleep.
We don't know for sure what the cause was.
657
00:25:56,021 --> 00:25:59,007
Was there a question
about the autopsy like Tyler mentioned?
658
00:25:59,041 --> 00:26:00,225
-Yeah. Yeah.
-[Tyler] So sorry.
659
00:26:00,259 --> 00:26:03,462
She was literally telling us about this
while we were getting ready today.
660
00:26:03,495 --> 00:26:04,480
-[Amanda] Wow.
-Yeah.
661
00:26:04,513 --> 00:26:07,199
That's amazing. And so often
I find when conversations get referred to,
662
00:26:07,232 --> 00:26:09,118
sometimes it's really indicative
that they're with us,
663
00:26:09,151 --> 00:26:11,603
that consciousness
is clearly kind of complicated…
664
00:26:11,637 --> 00:26:14,389
[laughs] …and they're around in some way.
665
00:26:14,423 --> 00:26:17,409
We'll continue to kind of see
if we can get a little more there.
666
00:26:17,443 --> 00:26:19,445
-[Brittany] That's amazing.
-[Elaine] You got exactly what you wanted.
667
00:26:19,545 --> 00:26:20,579
-[Tyler] I love that.
-That's amazing.
668
00:26:20,612 --> 00:26:22,881
That was exactly
what she wanted to come for, so it's…
669
00:26:22,981 --> 00:26:24,666
It's just, yeah, it's incredible.
670
00:26:24,700 --> 00:26:27,402
Kind of like…
[grunts, speaks indistinctly]
671
00:26:27,436 --> 00:26:29,638
-[guests laughing]
-We're gonna figure it out.
672
00:26:29,671 --> 00:26:33,192
What-- Give it one sec. Uh, how…? Ooh.
673
00:26:33,225 --> 00:26:35,544
I love when I get pulled
in two different directions. [laughs]
674
00:26:35,627 --> 00:26:38,180
Either way, I'm gonna end up talking
to you two separately
675
00:26:38,213 --> 00:26:40,099
at a later time and-- you too,
you can come along.
676
00:26:40,132 --> 00:26:41,233
[guests laughing]
677
00:26:41,266 --> 00:26:45,137
But I wanna take a step further.
So, for you, I wanna hold onto your stuff,
678
00:26:45,287 --> 00:26:48,123
'cause the cross thing
really struck me right off the bat.
679
00:26:48,157 --> 00:26:50,793
-Um, who is that connected to for you?
-My mom.
680
00:26:50,826 --> 00:26:52,544
[Tyler] Okay, I'd love
to hold onto that object again,
681
00:26:52,578 --> 00:26:55,747
and let's see if we can get anything
along those lines,
682
00:26:55,781 --> 00:26:57,332
'cause it was just hitting me.
683
00:26:58,150 --> 00:27:00,219
I was like,
"Don't you forget, don't forget."
684
00:27:00,252 --> 00:27:03,205
-[Elaine chuckles]
-But it was symbolized through an object.
685
00:27:04,473 --> 00:27:06,592
Okay, let me look here.
686
00:27:06,625 --> 00:27:09,878
We're gonna talk about since 2020
and then before 2020.
687
00:27:09,912 --> 00:27:13,398
And that'll kind of help us bifurcate
when we talk about passings
688
00:27:13,432 --> 00:27:14,633
and things along those lines.
689
00:27:14,666 --> 00:27:17,035
So, do you know of any significant deaths?
690
00:27:18,153 --> 00:27:22,491
If I talk about before 2020,
like on Mom's side of family…
691
00:27:22,608 --> 00:27:23,876
[clicks fingers]
…what comes to mind right away?
692
00:27:23,909 --> 00:27:25,027
My grandpa.
693
00:27:25,060 --> 00:27:27,362
Okay. If I go to Grandpa,
and we talk about Grandpa,
694
00:27:27,396 --> 00:27:30,098
and then I talk about a link
with him with a female
695
00:27:30,132 --> 00:27:32,501
that would have passed away post-2020,
696
00:27:32,534 --> 00:27:33,502
-who would that be?
-Grandma.
697
00:27:33,552 --> 00:27:34,436
[Tyler] Okay, gotcha.
698
00:27:34,469 --> 00:27:38,290
'Cause I'm wanting to link up, in the way
this comes in, these two individuals.
699
00:27:38,340 --> 00:27:39,608
-Now, it's on the same side of family?
-Yeah.
700
00:27:39,641 --> 00:27:45,080
Okay. Um, when we talk about family
in a larger scale, do you know if…
701
00:27:45,113 --> 00:27:48,483
This is gonna sound strange.
I'm going to my throat. How weird.
702
00:27:48,517 --> 00:27:50,102
Throat voice speaking.
703
00:27:50,669 --> 00:27:54,756
Um… That's usually indicative of some kind
of problem verbalizing or vocalizing.
704
00:27:54,790 --> 00:27:55,908
This is gonna sound kind of odd.
705
00:27:55,941 --> 00:27:59,144
Uh, do you know if any
were not conscious at the time of passing?
706
00:27:59,778 --> 00:28:01,597
-My grandma. I think she had…
-[Tyler] Okay.
707
00:28:01,630 --> 00:28:03,815
I feel like
there's a respiration of fluids.
708
00:28:03,849 --> 00:28:05,517
-I have to talk about trying to…
-[Elaine] Yes.
709
00:28:05,551 --> 00:28:08,487
Basically, my vocal cords
feel, like, hurt, like, useless.
710
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,490
But I feel like I'm having
to talk about inflammation.
711
00:28:11,523 --> 00:28:14,877
And for her, I would have been concerned
around like lungs, breathing,
712
00:28:14,910 --> 00:28:15,878
that kind of thing.
713
00:28:15,911 --> 00:28:18,013
-And that comes in for her.
-Yeah, she was…
714
00:28:19,314 --> 00:28:21,683
I don't know the right terminology,
but throwing up.
715
00:28:21,717 --> 00:28:22,834
[Tyler] Got it. I'm so sorry.
716
00:28:22,868 --> 00:28:25,470
Um, a lot of fluids
were coming out when she was passing.
717
00:28:25,504 --> 00:28:27,573
Gotcha. Yeah.
It comes across as like when you kind
718
00:28:27,606 --> 00:28:29,825
of clear your throat too much
and you kind of get a sore throat.
719
00:28:29,858 --> 00:28:31,810
It's very much this feeling,
but I have to go there.
720
00:28:31,843 --> 00:28:33,345
I have acknowledged levity.
721
00:28:33,378 --> 00:28:36,698
There's a reference of… Phew. Oh, phew.
722
00:28:36,732 --> 00:28:38,300
Um… [laughs]
723
00:28:38,333 --> 00:28:42,688
Do you know of any situations
in family where a family member
724
00:28:42,721 --> 00:28:45,507
raised somebody who was not
their biological child?
725
00:28:47,292 --> 00:28:49,528
-That's kind of an interesting thing.
-Um…
726
00:28:49,561 --> 00:28:52,297
Like any situations where any aunts
or uncles step in
727
00:28:52,331 --> 00:28:54,917
and like help raise anybody
or like, I don't know,
728
00:28:54,950 --> 00:28:56,585
I'm going a generation above.
729
00:28:56,618 --> 00:28:58,470
-And I have to talk.
-Not that I can think of right now.
730
00:28:58,503 --> 00:29:00,355
Where's the three on your mom's side?
731
00:29:01,623 --> 00:29:02,624
-The three?
-[Tyler] Yeah.
732
00:29:02,658 --> 00:29:04,142
So, how many siblings
does Mom have, basically?
733
00:29:04,176 --> 00:29:05,160
Six.
734
00:29:05,193 --> 00:29:07,429
Okay, so when-- how many are girls,
how many are boys?
735
00:29:07,462 --> 00:29:09,248
-Three girls.
-[Tyler] Three girls. Okay.
736
00:29:09,298 --> 00:29:11,733
So, we'll go there and we'll talk
about those three girls.
737
00:29:11,767 --> 00:29:14,820
I'm for some reason having
to highlight someone helping out
738
00:29:14,853 --> 00:29:18,357
with care, childcare,
somebody helping someone else.
739
00:29:18,390 --> 00:29:20,292
When we also talk
about that side of family,
740
00:29:20,325 --> 00:29:22,577
this is gonna sound a little tricky.
[chuckles]
741
00:29:22,611 --> 00:29:24,062
You know when someone passes
742
00:29:24,096 --> 00:29:26,281
and they're kind
of the glue that hold things together
743
00:29:26,315 --> 00:29:30,352
and then when someone dies
everyone kind of scatters,
744
00:29:30,385 --> 00:29:32,955
different dynamics happen,
but it wouldn't surprise me
745
00:29:32,988 --> 00:29:34,723
if within family, we see like a passing
746
00:29:34,773 --> 00:29:36,992
and then just like that side
of family just kind of goes their own way.
747
00:29:37,025 --> 00:29:38,093
Yeah.
748
00:29:38,126 --> 00:29:39,544
And there's a sense of not wanting
to be hurt by this,
749
00:29:39,578 --> 00:29:42,297
but just kind of, it is what it is
in a larger capacity.
750
00:29:42,331 --> 00:29:48,003
And that kind of comes in there.
Um, do you know, if we talk about…
751
00:29:49,771 --> 00:29:52,240
[clicks tongue] Mm…
752
00:29:52,274 --> 00:29:56,828
Oh, who's the-- above your mom
generationally still alive currently?
753
00:29:57,980 --> 00:30:01,333
So, like, if you think of who,
like, Dad's parents or Mom's parents,
754
00:30:01,366 --> 00:30:04,219
do you have anybody
on that generation that's still with us?
755
00:30:04,836 --> 00:30:05,871
Not that I can think of.
756
00:30:05,904 --> 00:30:08,273
[Tyler] Like, no siblings of grandparents
at all that are still alive?
757
00:30:08,307 --> 00:30:10,108
-No.
-[Tyler] For sure?
758
00:30:10,142 --> 00:30:11,443
-Not for sure.
-Not for sure.
759
00:30:11,476 --> 00:30:12,344
-[laughs]
-Okay, no worries.
760
00:30:12,377 --> 00:30:14,830
I don't think I know
my grand-grandparents, so…
761
00:30:14,863 --> 00:30:17,599
Okay, gotcha. They're basically
having me highlight health stuff,
762
00:30:17,632 --> 00:30:19,718
Dad's side of family.
Give me one sec there.
763
00:30:19,751 --> 00:30:21,787
Wait. Yeah, no.
764
00:30:21,820 --> 00:30:24,006
-[chuckles]
-[Tyler] Going to Dad's side. How weird.
765
00:30:24,039 --> 00:30:25,657
Um… Give me one sec there.
766
00:30:26,858 --> 00:30:28,260
And then I want to bring up…
767
00:30:29,378 --> 00:30:30,329
Hmm.
768
00:30:31,713 --> 00:30:35,117
Do you know if anybody would have dealt
with any brain-related issues
769
00:30:35,150 --> 00:30:36,385
at the top of your head,
770
00:30:36,418 --> 00:30:40,205
like anything that would have affected
cognizance, cognition, clarity of mind?
771
00:30:40,238 --> 00:30:42,290
Keep having me talk about being struck,
772
00:30:42,324 --> 00:30:45,844
struck by this and then kind of like
don't feel the same afterwards.
773
00:30:45,877 --> 00:30:48,080
-My husband's dad.
-[Tyler] Okay.
774
00:30:48,697 --> 00:30:52,701
He was very healthy and then mentally
he just declined really quickly.
775
00:30:52,734 --> 00:30:55,854
Gotcha. Um, within that family,
776
00:30:55,887 --> 00:30:58,974
is there a two males
named after each other
777
00:30:59,007 --> 00:31:02,661
or a name that would be passed down
within that family that would be male?
778
00:31:03,845 --> 00:31:05,430
Um…
779
00:31:05,464 --> 00:31:07,899
Like Dad's first name
into someone's middle name
780
00:31:07,933 --> 00:31:10,402
or like, for example,
his grandfather and then his…
781
00:31:10,435 --> 00:31:11,686
-Yes, Lawrence.
-[Tyler] Yeah.
782
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:13,855
-So, like, if I take that name, is that…?
-Yeah.
783
00:31:13,889 --> 00:31:15,757
-I think so. Yes.
-Okay. Double-check.
784
00:31:15,791 --> 00:31:18,360
But that's kind of one aspect
that I'm going to there.
785
00:31:18,393 --> 00:31:21,129
Do you know of any situations
where two sisters don't speak
786
00:31:21,163 --> 00:31:22,130
or were estranged?
787
00:31:23,965 --> 00:31:28,837
I think my… my husband's mom
and her siblings don't talk.
788
00:31:28,870 --> 00:31:31,606
All good.
And sometimes it happens, it's all good.
789
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:34,059
It's just kind of an acknowledgement
or a reference there.
790
00:31:34,092 --> 00:31:35,026
[Elaine] Yeah.
791
00:31:35,060 --> 00:31:37,229
One thing to just keep in mind
is there is an acknowledgement
792
00:31:37,262 --> 00:31:39,848
for some reason around,
we talk about this,
793
00:31:39,881 --> 00:31:42,467
lighting a candle and I just see
a candle being lit. [chuckles]
794
00:31:42,501 --> 00:31:44,269
And it just comes through symbolically.
795
00:31:44,302 --> 00:31:45,904
Remember that I'm saying this,
if there's any places
796
00:31:45,937 --> 00:31:48,540
that you can create
like an altar or a space,
797
00:31:48,573 --> 00:31:51,827
I see carving out a space
in, like, where I live,
798
00:31:52,744 --> 00:31:54,563
-to put this and it's kind of interesting…
-Okay.
799
00:31:54,596 --> 00:31:56,415
…and I'm lighting a candle
in the way this comes in.
800
00:31:56,448 --> 00:32:00,018
So, it's just something to consider.
Check and see.
801
00:32:00,051 --> 00:32:01,536
Just remember one thing
when I'm saying this.
802
00:32:01,570 --> 00:32:03,939
There is some reference
to, like, Mark, Marcus,
803
00:32:03,972 --> 00:32:06,558
or something along those lines,
and I don't know who that would be,
804
00:32:06,591 --> 00:32:08,877
but it does pop in.
Do you know of any Marks?
805
00:32:08,994 --> 00:32:10,078
No, I don't.
806
00:32:10,112 --> 00:32:12,414
[Tyler] Okay, Mark, Marcus.
Marcus, Marcus, Marcus, Marcus, Marcus,
807
00:32:12,447 --> 00:32:13,432
Mark, Mark, Mark, Mark.
808
00:32:13,465 --> 00:32:15,584
Would this be
on my husband's side of the family?
809
00:32:15,617 --> 00:32:17,369
I have no clue. It literally just hit me.
810
00:32:17,402 --> 00:32:19,454
Do you know any Marks
off the top of your head?
811
00:32:19,488 --> 00:32:22,991
-Um, my driver that drove me here.
-[guests laughing]
812
00:32:23,024 --> 00:32:25,844
Well, that's weird.
Is he actually named Mark?
813
00:32:25,877 --> 00:32:27,145
-[Elaine] Yes.
-[Brittany] Oh, my God.
814
00:32:27,229 --> 00:32:30,432
So, I know that's weird,
but, uh, strangely…
815
00:32:30,465 --> 00:32:32,317
I'm kind of just blacking out
at this point.
816
00:32:32,350 --> 00:32:34,052
[Tyler] No, it's okay.
There's a lot to process.
817
00:32:34,136 --> 00:32:35,103
I'm so sorry.
818
00:32:35,137 --> 00:32:38,323
But weirdly, that name just hits me
as a kind of secondary thing.
819
00:32:38,356 --> 00:32:40,475
So, perhaps something to look into,
but literally sometimes
820
00:32:40,509 --> 00:32:43,428
names will come through people
we were just interacting with. [chuckles]
821
00:32:43,462 --> 00:32:47,833
It's all kind of coming in there,
and then what I'm gonna do…
822
00:32:47,866 --> 00:32:49,651
-I'm gonna give this back to you.
-[Elaine] Thank you.
823
00:32:49,718 --> 00:32:52,454
'Cause there's more there,
but I want to kind of take a sec
824
00:32:52,504 --> 00:32:55,040
to reacclimate.
825
00:32:56,808 --> 00:32:59,194
I want to kind of see where we can go,
so it sounds like--
826
00:32:59,227 --> 00:33:01,563
Mom passed. I'm so sorry.
Were there any questions
827
00:33:01,596 --> 00:33:03,582
related to that circumstance
or that situation,
828
00:33:03,615 --> 00:33:05,767
anything that went unresolved?
829
00:33:07,552 --> 00:33:09,538
-I mean, I found her…
-[Tyler] Oh.
830
00:33:09,571 --> 00:33:12,157
…and she passed a week
before my daughter was born.
831
00:33:12,190 --> 00:33:13,041
Oh, my God.
832
00:33:13,074 --> 00:33:14,576
And she was supposed to show me
how to be a mom.
833
00:33:14,609 --> 00:33:15,460
[Tyler] Gotcha.
834
00:33:15,494 --> 00:33:17,312
So it was very hard being one without her.
835
00:33:17,345 --> 00:33:18,313
[Tyler] Yes, of course.
836
00:33:18,346 --> 00:33:20,999
-And finding her that way was very hard.
-[Tyler] Oh, I'm so sorry.
837
00:33:21,032 --> 00:33:22,384
I just want to know if…
838
00:33:23,635 --> 00:33:25,620
it was a bad passing or…
839
00:33:25,654 --> 00:33:26,972
[Tyler] Gotcha. I'm so sorry.
840
00:33:27,005 --> 00:33:28,340
-[Elaine] Yeah.
-You know, it's interesting.
841
00:33:28,373 --> 00:33:30,792
Every reading is a little different,
and some might connect very clearly,
842
00:33:30,825 --> 00:33:33,595
and others, I can feel
a little bit of a distance.
843
00:33:33,678 --> 00:33:36,798
And it's sometimes almost as a means
of just trying to kind of protect…
844
00:33:36,831 --> 00:33:38,867
[chuckles] …in the way that comes in.
845
00:33:39,401 --> 00:33:40,735
There is a sense of levity and lightness,
846
00:33:40,819 --> 00:33:42,704
and I would love to be able
to talk to you privately.
847
00:33:42,737 --> 00:33:43,655
[Elaine] I'd love that.
848
00:33:43,688 --> 00:33:46,725
But I gotta let you know, when this
comes in, there's a sense of children,
849
00:33:46,758 --> 00:33:48,126
and happiness and joy.
850
00:33:48,243 --> 00:33:51,813
But it's so much more
than that one cause of passing.
851
00:33:51,846 --> 00:33:54,449
-Thank you so much.
-Of course, absolutely.
852
00:33:54,482 --> 00:33:56,484
I want to look there.
853
00:33:57,502 --> 00:34:00,405
[clicks tongue] Let me go…
Let me, let me, let me look.
854
00:34:00,438 --> 00:34:03,842
Let me see here.
My friend here with the abacus situation.
855
00:34:03,875 --> 00:34:05,927
-[guests laughing]
-Let me hold onto that abacus.
856
00:34:05,961 --> 00:34:08,563
[Amanda] Yeah, he's like,
"Pick me, pick me, please!"
857
00:34:09,314 --> 00:34:11,283
[Tyler] Let me-- Let me look here.
858
00:34:11,316 --> 00:34:13,318
All right, let's see
if we can give this a shot.
859
00:34:13,351 --> 00:34:15,320
Who is this connected to? I'm curious.
860
00:34:15,353 --> 00:34:17,372
-My paternal grandfather.
-[Tyler] I love it.
861
00:34:17,405 --> 00:34:19,257
All right, let's give it a shot
and see if we can…
862
00:34:19,291 --> 00:34:20,909
[Amanda] And that's a game?
I don't know what that is.
863
00:34:20,942 --> 00:34:23,395
-It's like an abacus.
-It's like an old-fashioned calculator.
864
00:34:23,428 --> 00:34:25,513
I think, like, where they
used to count things or something.
865
00:34:25,547 --> 00:34:28,066
-[Brittany] But how?
-Before my time. Girl, I don't know!
866
00:34:28,133 --> 00:34:31,102
[Brittany] I'm like,
"It slides both ways." How does it work?
867
00:34:31,136 --> 00:34:34,289
[Tyler] Yeah, as if division
isn't hard enough already, I'm like…
868
00:34:34,372 --> 00:34:36,207
-[groans, sneezes]
-[Amanda and guests laugh]
869
00:34:36,241 --> 00:34:39,227
Excuse me. All right, so I got
to highlight a couple different things.
870
00:34:39,261 --> 00:34:41,096
One thing, we're going
to talk about this person.
871
00:34:41,129 --> 00:34:42,147
There's a number of different things.
872
00:34:42,180 --> 00:34:46,918
So, um, within family, basically,
if I highlight a grouping of boys,
873
00:34:46,952 --> 00:34:48,286
if I talk about the males…
874
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,355
I've got a lot of testosterone
in the way this comes through.
875
00:34:50,388 --> 00:34:52,874
Do you know of multiple male siblings
off the top of your head?
876
00:34:52,907 --> 00:34:53,875
Yeah.
877
00:34:53,908 --> 00:34:55,193
Okay, how many
approximately would there be?
878
00:34:55,226 --> 00:35:00,165
There's me and my brother.
My dad and his brother, um…
879
00:35:01,182 --> 00:35:05,720
My cousins on my-- My aunt's sons
are both brothers, obviously.
880
00:35:05,754 --> 00:35:06,921
-[Tyler] Lots of boys.
-Yeah, lots of boys.
881
00:35:06,955 --> 00:35:10,775
Got it. When we talk about somebody
who had a dog
882
00:35:10,809 --> 00:35:14,412
that would be like a Golden Retriever size
or like a Labrador size dog…
883
00:35:14,446 --> 00:35:16,364
-I want to highlight that.
-[Jared] Okay.
884
00:35:16,431 --> 00:35:19,651
That does kind of come in
as, like, a mid-sized animal.
885
00:35:19,684 --> 00:35:22,103
So, not something super large,
not something necessarily super small,
886
00:35:22,137 --> 00:35:23,405
but that does pop in.
887
00:35:23,438 --> 00:35:25,273
Do you know if anyone ever had
any Labs or Golden Retrievers?
888
00:35:25,307 --> 00:35:27,075
We did, yeah. We're a Lab family.
889
00:35:27,158 --> 00:35:28,343
-[guests laughing]
-[Amanda] Aw.
890
00:35:28,376 --> 00:35:30,578
Check to see if anyone had
any darker Labs specifically.
891
00:35:30,612 --> 00:35:32,163
We had a chocolate Lab, Montana.
892
00:35:32,197 --> 00:35:36,901
Yeah, he passed, but we're dog people,
so I love him so much.
893
00:35:36,935 --> 00:35:38,853
[Tyler]
I got to highlight, within your family,
894
00:35:38,887 --> 00:35:40,822
do you know of a situation
where there would have been two passings
895
00:35:40,855 --> 00:35:42,340
in under four years or so?
896
00:35:43,808 --> 00:35:45,210
-Yeah.
-[Tyler] So, when Grandpa passed,
897
00:35:45,243 --> 00:35:47,996
do you know if anyone else passed
around him or is this someone else?
898
00:35:48,113 --> 00:35:52,567
Definitely, yeah.
I mean, yes, there was some--
899
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:55,970
I think my great aunt passed around,
maybe within four years of that time.
900
00:35:56,004 --> 00:35:56,955
[Tyler] Okay.
901
00:35:56,988 --> 00:35:59,924
On that side of family, are you aware
of medical conditions and stuff?
902
00:35:59,958 --> 00:36:02,544
Do you know of any
Alzheimer's-related stuff or Dementia
903
00:36:02,577 --> 00:36:03,795
on that side of family?
904
00:36:05,597 --> 00:36:09,384
Not-- Not really right now,
but my grandpa I wasn't close to,
905
00:36:09,417 --> 00:36:12,354
and he had certain
mental health conditions
906
00:36:12,387 --> 00:36:15,423
that kind of barred us from being able
to see him a lot or frequently.
907
00:36:15,507 --> 00:36:18,493
-Gotcha.
-So, I don't know if that was from--
908
00:36:18,526 --> 00:36:20,745
-[Tyler] Technically that.
-Yeah, if it was actually that, but--
909
00:36:20,779 --> 00:36:22,931
The reason I ask
is 'cause I basically see who I am
910
00:36:22,964 --> 00:36:25,717
towards the end isn't who I want
to be remembered earlier on.
911
00:36:25,750 --> 00:36:28,103
And anytime I get that feeling,
it's generally indicative
912
00:36:28,136 --> 00:36:30,939
of like who I am,
I kinda lose my cookies towards the end.
913
00:36:30,972 --> 00:36:33,174
[chuckles] I don't want--
I almost want to be remembered
914
00:36:33,341 --> 00:36:37,429
for this earlier incarnation of myself
versus the older incarnation of myself.
915
00:36:37,462 --> 00:36:39,931
Yeah, I mean, the few times
that I saw him growing up,
916
00:36:39,964 --> 00:36:43,268
it was weird,
and awkward and uncomfortable.
917
00:36:43,301 --> 00:36:45,787
It's not-- I mean, this isn't
like the most, you know, like,
918
00:36:45,820 --> 00:36:47,338
"Oh my gosh, this is so positive."
919
00:36:47,372 --> 00:36:51,760
I mean, it is nice to-- But it was
a complicated relationship for sure.
920
00:36:51,793 --> 00:36:56,047
Um, especially with my dad and him.
And yeah, so rarely saw him.
921
00:36:56,081 --> 00:36:58,433
And then when we did see him,
we were like, "Oh my gosh."
922
00:36:58,466 --> 00:36:59,818
-[Tyler] Right, a lot there.
-Yeah.
923
00:36:59,851 --> 00:37:01,886
Got it. This is so random.
924
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:03,154
I'm kind of switching gears here.
925
00:37:03,188 --> 00:37:05,457
I'm just going to hand this back
to you really quick.
926
00:37:08,093 --> 00:37:11,079
Okay, you know those stars
that you stick up in your room?
927
00:37:11,112 --> 00:37:12,814
Okay, I'm just trying to think
of how to articulate this.
928
00:37:12,847 --> 00:37:14,799
-The glow-in-the-dark ones?
-[Tyler] Yes, the glow-in-the-dark stars.
929
00:37:14,833 --> 00:37:15,683
On your ceiling.
930
00:37:15,717 --> 00:37:17,118
You stick up on your room
when you're a kid
931
00:37:17,152 --> 00:37:18,386
and you, like, look up at them.
932
00:37:18,420 --> 00:37:21,322
I'm seeing like a succinct memory
of this, but it's weird.
933
00:37:21,439 --> 00:37:23,174
It's like glow-in-the-dark stickers.
934
00:37:23,208 --> 00:37:24,509
Did you have those at all?
935
00:37:24,542 --> 00:37:26,060
-[Elaine] Yeah, of course.
-I did too. [chuckles]
936
00:37:26,127 --> 00:37:27,896
-[Tyler] I'm going up on my ceiling--
-[Brittany] Yeah.
937
00:37:27,929 --> 00:37:28,830
But I have to talk about--
938
00:37:28,863 --> 00:37:31,633
I'm like just trying to throw me back
to a timeline.
939
00:37:32,283 --> 00:37:33,985
Give me one minute there.
940
00:37:34,903 --> 00:37:37,505
[clicks tongue]
This is kind of interesting for you.
941
00:37:38,289 --> 00:37:40,692
Dad's side of family and Mom's side
of family is very separate
942
00:37:40,725 --> 00:37:42,127
in the way this kind of comes in.
943
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,546
And what's interesting
is when we talk about Mom,
944
00:37:44,579 --> 00:37:46,965
there's this sense of when I embrace you--
945
00:37:46,998 --> 00:37:49,484
I'm trying to think
of how to kind of articulate this.
946
00:37:50,018 --> 00:37:51,803
You make up for your dad's family.
947
00:37:51,836 --> 00:37:53,037
-[Tyler chuckles]
-I do.
948
00:37:53,621 --> 00:37:56,124
Like, when Mom views you,
there's a sense of,
949
00:37:56,157 --> 00:37:58,943
"I have all this love,"
like, "I have this, this…"
950
00:37:58,977 --> 00:38:01,546
-Yeah.
-"…I don't necessarily need that."
951
00:38:01,579 --> 00:38:02,747
-[chuckles]
-Yeah.
952
00:38:02,781 --> 00:38:04,749
And that kind of strikes me
as interesting.
953
00:38:04,783 --> 00:38:07,469
There's a feeling in the way
this comes across of--
954
00:38:07,502 --> 00:38:09,220
Actually, around when she passed,
955
00:38:09,254 --> 00:38:13,675
check and see if there were any birthdays
that were just around the corner
956
00:38:13,708 --> 00:38:16,828
or were just like right there.
'Cause I feel like I'm excited.
957
00:38:16,861 --> 00:38:19,881
I'm seeing like, "Oh, we're gonna--"
I'm seeing marking a calendar.
958
00:38:19,914 --> 00:38:20,932
Yeah, it's weird.
959
00:38:20,999 --> 00:38:22,700
It keeps coming in.
Do you know of any birthdays around then?
960
00:38:22,801 --> 00:38:24,736
-My daughter.
-[Tyler] Oh! Oh, right, right!
961
00:38:24,769 --> 00:38:27,255
-'Cause you were born, right-- Okay.
-Her daughter was born right after.
962
00:38:27,288 --> 00:38:30,642
Do you know of any other birth dates
around or was it just daughter?
963
00:38:32,443 --> 00:38:34,078
-I think just my daughter. Yeah.
-[Tyler] Just Daughter. Okay.
964
00:38:34,112 --> 00:38:37,048
Double check, but it comes in as,
like, celebratory, positive, happy.
965
00:38:37,131 --> 00:38:39,534
But that would strike me
as, like, immediately after.
966
00:38:39,567 --> 00:38:43,221
When we talk about that aspect there,
my brain…
967
00:38:44,355 --> 00:38:45,607
My brain.
968
00:38:47,859 --> 00:38:49,060
Oh, interesting.
969
00:38:50,378 --> 00:38:52,297
Hmm. Couple-- On a side note,
970
00:38:52,330 --> 00:38:53,565
this is good to keep in mind
when we talk about
971
00:38:53,598 --> 00:38:55,200
COVID-related stuff within family.
972
00:38:55,233 --> 00:38:56,851
-Yeah.
-This is kind of strange.
973
00:38:56,885 --> 00:38:59,921
They're not wanting me to worry about…
974
00:39:00,638 --> 00:39:03,608
Huh. Like, vaccines?
And they're not wanting me
975
00:39:03,641 --> 00:39:05,243
-to worry about, like, COVID stuff…
-[Elaine] Oh my gosh.
976
00:39:05,276 --> 00:39:08,229
[Tyler] …but there's
a vaccine conversation and I'm all for it.
977
00:39:08,263 --> 00:39:10,515
-It's crazy.
-[Tyler] Yeah, it's coming in and, like…
978
00:39:10,582 --> 00:39:11,633
Blowing my mind.
979
00:39:12,667 --> 00:39:15,954
It's normally not an area
I would, like, go, but it just kind of--
980
00:39:15,987 --> 00:39:18,139
It keeps popping up
and they're doing this for me.
981
00:39:18,172 --> 00:39:20,058
That symbol of, like,
wiping the hands clean.
982
00:39:20,091 --> 00:39:24,145
It's usually for me indicative in the past
of, like, letting this go,
983
00:39:24,178 --> 00:39:27,398
not needing this to be, like, an answer,
but, like, there's aspects there.
984
00:39:27,432 --> 00:39:28,583
So how does that apply?
985
00:39:29,384 --> 00:39:33,488
So my mom has a very long history
of strokes.
986
00:39:33,521 --> 00:39:35,390
-[Tyler] Got it.
-She had COVID.
987
00:39:35,423 --> 00:39:39,510
I know this is going to be like a…
you know, this is a debatable topic
988
00:39:39,544 --> 00:39:44,032
and whatnot, but she had COVID,
she survived it.
989
00:39:44,065 --> 00:39:46,751
And then I was just like,
"Don't get the vaccine…"
990
00:39:46,784 --> 00:39:49,420
-Yeah.
-"…because you have a history of strokes."
991
00:39:49,454 --> 00:39:50,889
-[Tyler] Sure.
-And you survived it,
992
00:39:50,922 --> 00:39:52,557
so you're fine, you're not traveling,
you're not going anywhere.
993
00:39:52,590 --> 00:39:53,575
She doesn't even go anywhere.
994
00:39:53,608 --> 00:39:55,226
She's like my mom,
all she does is stay at home.
995
00:39:55,260 --> 00:39:58,046
"So please don't get it."
And she always said she won't.
996
00:39:59,314 --> 00:40:03,651
So, after she passed
and I was cleaning out her stuff,
997
00:40:03,685 --> 00:40:06,454
that was when I found her vaccine card.
998
00:40:06,487 --> 00:40:07,605
I see.
999
00:40:07,639 --> 00:40:08,623
And I've always…
1000
00:40:09,774 --> 00:40:10,775
I-- [sighs]
1001
00:40:10,808 --> 00:40:14,012
Because I always, like,
kind of blamed myself
1002
00:40:14,045 --> 00:40:14,996
because she had all these, like,
1003
00:40:15,029 --> 00:40:18,132
"Oh, my leg's hurting." I was like,
"Why didn't I see those signs?"
1004
00:40:18,166 --> 00:40:20,985
"Why didn't I ask? Why didn't…"
1005
00:40:21,019 --> 00:40:23,137
-You know, why didn't I do more?
-You know--
1006
00:40:23,288 --> 00:40:29,444
So, I've been kicking myself for it.
Why was I so against just her getting it?
1007
00:40:29,527 --> 00:40:31,145
-[Tyler] Yeah, sure.
-Why was I so against that?
1008
00:40:31,179 --> 00:40:33,331
Maybe she would have been
more comfortable telling me.
1009
00:40:33,364 --> 00:40:34,616
-[Tyler] Aw.
-You know?
1010
00:40:34,649 --> 00:40:37,652
And if she told me, I would have taken
these symptoms more seriously.
1011
00:40:37,685 --> 00:40:38,970
-[Tyler] Yes.
-You know?
1012
00:40:39,003 --> 00:40:41,239
I think a lot of people at home can relate
1013
00:40:41,272 --> 00:40:43,391
to being in that kind
of precarious situation.
1014
00:40:43,424 --> 00:40:44,842
And when it comes to this,
1015
00:40:44,876 --> 00:40:47,528
there's just very much
an insistence on COVID,
1016
00:40:47,562 --> 00:40:49,097
vaccine, all good.
1017
00:40:49,130 --> 00:40:50,398
I don't feel like this…
1018
00:40:50,431 --> 00:40:52,800
We're all learning
as we go with the whole thing.
1019
00:40:52,834 --> 00:40:53,968
Nobody knows Yeah.
1020
00:40:54,068 --> 00:40:56,220
[Tyler] And that's one of those things,
is it was unprecedented times.
1021
00:40:56,254 --> 00:40:57,455
Yeah.
1022
00:40:57,488 --> 00:40:59,307
It was very expedited,
and so everyone had different views.
1023
00:40:59,340 --> 00:41:00,842
-I just wish she…
-Mm-hmm.
1024
00:41:00,875 --> 00:41:02,910
I wish I wasn't, you know…
1025
00:41:03,811 --> 00:41:07,015
I wasn't like, "Do not get it," you know?
I was just like, you know,
1026
00:41:07,048 --> 00:41:10,568
"Your health is not the greatest
to receive it," you know?
1027
00:41:10,618 --> 00:41:14,706
And I just wish I was
more of a comfortable space for her
1028
00:41:14,739 --> 00:41:17,358
to share that with, and maybe
I would have taken things seriously.
1029
00:41:17,442 --> 00:41:19,594
Maybe I could have helped it.
I don't know.
1030
00:41:19,711 --> 00:41:21,646
It just blows my mind
that you even brought it up
1031
00:41:21,679 --> 00:41:23,464
because it's been, like, a little…
1032
00:41:23,498 --> 00:41:25,500
-[Tyler] Oh! Of course, it's in there.
-[Elaine] Yeah.
1033
00:41:25,533 --> 00:41:26,818
You know, we always think of the maybes
1034
00:41:26,851 --> 00:41:30,121
and the shoulds, and I can tell you
even under the best of circumstances,
1035
00:41:30,188 --> 00:41:31,639
people have regret.
1036
00:41:31,673 --> 00:41:33,224
We wish we would have called up the phone.
1037
00:41:33,257 --> 00:41:37,996
We wish we would have, you know, not said,
"Oh, I'll catch you later," you know?
1038
00:41:38,062 --> 00:41:40,331
It's so normal even
under the best of circumstances
1039
00:41:40,365 --> 00:41:41,632
when we know they're going to pass…
1040
00:41:41,666 --> 00:41:42,633
[Brittany] Mm-hmm.
1041
00:41:42,667 --> 00:41:45,370
…to have regret, and I can just tell you,
by and large,
1042
00:41:45,403 --> 00:41:47,388
the intensity that comes through
is very strong,
1043
00:41:47,455 --> 00:41:51,409
but with a sense of levity and joy,
and if there was anyone that she wanted
1044
00:41:51,442 --> 00:41:53,745
to have her see out in this life…
1045
00:41:53,778 --> 00:41:56,330
And I'm not saying
that was the reason why she passed either.
1046
00:41:56,364 --> 00:41:57,598
-[Tyler] No, exactly.
-You know?
1047
00:41:57,632 --> 00:41:59,017
But it's just something
that she kept from me
1048
00:41:59,083 --> 00:42:00,985
that I felt like she couldn't share,
also hurts.
1049
00:42:01,019 --> 00:42:02,086
-[Tyler] Yes, exactly.
-You know.
1050
00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:04,605
I'm not pointing fingers at all, but…
1051
00:42:04,639 --> 00:42:06,207
I'm glad we were able to bring
that clarification.
1052
00:42:06,240 --> 00:42:08,359
-I'm glad you did too.
-And hopefully let that aspect go.
1053
00:42:08,393 --> 00:42:11,512
That actually kind of like lifted
a lot of weight for me.
1054
00:42:11,546 --> 00:42:13,448
-Good. That's what it's all about.
-[Elaine] Yeah.
1055
00:42:13,481 --> 00:42:14,866
Tyler, I have a quick question for you.
1056
00:42:14,899 --> 00:42:17,268
In the beginning, you mentioned
that you were seeing a river
1057
00:42:17,301 --> 00:42:18,519
back before you came out here.
1058
00:42:18,553 --> 00:42:19,520
[Tyler] Yeah.
1059
00:42:19,554 --> 00:42:22,056
I mean, did that obviously relate
to Brittany and the river?
1060
00:42:22,090 --> 00:42:25,676
I think so. It was interesting,
of, like, walking the curve of a river.
1061
00:42:25,710 --> 00:42:26,928
[Brittany] Yeah.
1062
00:42:26,961 --> 00:42:29,097
And that, like, property,
and the way this comes across
1063
00:42:29,130 --> 00:42:31,015
of, like, a bend,
and I feel like I want to walk it
1064
00:42:31,049 --> 00:42:32,583
and, like, look in the dirt
and find things.
1065
00:42:32,617 --> 00:42:33,684
-It's really cool.
-Yeah!
1066
00:42:33,718 --> 00:42:35,319
Like, it would be cool
for a kid to go explore it.
1067
00:42:35,353 --> 00:42:38,139
Oh, and, like, my sister is so into that.
1068
00:42:38,172 --> 00:42:40,925
Like, she's always, like,
looking for different things
1069
00:42:40,958 --> 00:42:42,260
that she can find out there.
1070
00:42:42,293 --> 00:42:44,996
I mean, my family has owned that property.
1071
00:42:45,029 --> 00:42:48,783
My papaw was born in the house
that my mom lives in right now.
1072
00:42:48,816 --> 00:42:49,817
[Tyler] Yes.
1073
00:42:49,901 --> 00:42:51,519
And my whole family
is next door neighbors.
1074
00:42:51,552 --> 00:42:54,839
So, like, all three of my aunts,
my uncle, my mamaw,
1075
00:42:54,872 --> 00:42:59,494
my mom, they all live next door
to each other on that big property of land
1076
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:00,878
that ends at the river.
1077
00:43:00,912 --> 00:43:02,296
-[Tyler] I love that.
-Yeah.
1078
00:43:02,330 --> 00:43:03,948
Tyler, that was just mind-blowing, wow!
1079
00:43:03,981 --> 00:43:05,800
-[Brittany] So, that's amazing! Yeah.
-[Amanda] That was amazing.
1080
00:43:05,867 --> 00:43:07,351
-Thank you.
-[Amanda] Amazing job today.
1081
00:43:07,385 --> 00:43:09,520
-Thank you!
-[Brittany] Thank you! That was amazing.
1082
00:43:09,554 --> 00:43:10,955
Thanks for having us.
1083
00:43:10,988 --> 00:43:13,274
No doubt. I'm excited
to connect again in the future.
1084
00:43:13,307 --> 00:43:14,392
We'll be in touch.
1085
00:43:14,425 --> 00:43:17,678
Thank you so much
to Brittany Cartwright and her guests,
1086
00:43:17,745 --> 00:43:20,231
for everyone at home
for watching our show.
1087
00:43:20,264 --> 00:43:23,301
We'll be back next week
with another compelling reading
1088
00:43:23,334 --> 00:43:27,171
for another always surprising celebrity
or celebrities.
1089
00:43:27,205 --> 00:43:28,856
We'll see you on the other side.
1090
00:43:28,890 --> 00:43:31,175
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1091
00:44:14,919 --> 00:44:17,722
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