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[upbeat music playing]

[Amanda]
Tyler and Theresa are just outside

the studio door where the celebrity

who Tyler's about to read
is waiting on the other side.

This is all live, next.

[Tyler] My name is Tyler Henry,
and I have a rather unusual ability.

I don't exactly see dead people,
but I definitely communicate with them.

I receive messages from those
who've passed for those still here,

proving our loved ones
never truly leave us.

I don't know who I'm going to read
or what messages may come through,

but powerful revelations await
from the other side.

This is Live from the Other Side
with Tyler Henry.

The celebrities
sitting right here on this sofa

and their hand-picked friends and family
are about to get a live reading

from the world's
most renowned medium, Tyler Henry.

I am Amanda Kloots.

Tyler never knows who he's going
to read before he meets them,

and he's been completely apart
from our guests until right now.

So, let's meet Tyler.

All right, hello, everybody!

-[guests cheering]
-Hello!

Hi! Hello!

-Oh, my God! I recognize you!
-[laughs]

[laughs] You do?

-How are you?
-Nice to meet you.

-Tyler, nice to meet you.
-So good to meet you.

-It's a pleasure.
-Pleasure meeting you.

-So nice to meet you.
-Thank you so much for coming.

-And, Amanda, you look beautiful!
-Hello! Hi. Thank you.

Oh, my goodness! I love--
You look like a piece of Dutch pottery.

-[laughs]
-I love it.

-Hey, Mama!
-And Mama is here today,

we have Tyler's mom,
Theresa, with us today.

-[Nikki] Hi!
-All right. So, Tyler, we have

Nikki Glaser with us today.

Nikki, please tell us
who you brought with you today.

[sighs] I brought my dad
who I've known my whole life.

[laughs]

And my mom, who is also a part
of that conception.

-[Amanda chuckles]
-And then my best friend, Lizzy,

who I've known since forever,
almost 20 years now.

-Oh, my gosh!
-Since I started comedy, probably.

And then my friend, Andrew,
who has been my best friend

for about almost ten years,
going on right now.

-Yeah.
-Oh, we got a good group together.

-[Nikki] So good.
-I really appreciate it.

It's fun to be able to connect with family
and then also connect to friends.

Yeah.

[Tyler] You just never know
what's gonna come through.

-We got a lot for you. [chuckles]
-[Tyler] I'm excited. I think so.

I'm going to be scribbling.

-We'll see what comes through.
-Okay.

While you scribble, do you mind if I post
that this is live on my Instagram?

Sure. Why not?

-Because I feel like people need to know.
-We can let them know.

-[Amanda] Let's let them know.
-Yeah, that's okay?

-[Amanda] Let's do it.
-It's been tricky to promote

because we never know
who the celebrities are going to be.

-So, I'll just do a--
-[Tyler] Yes. I love it.

-Oh, wait, that's not--
-[Amanda laughing] We don't love that.

There we go.

-Yay!
-Oh!

-That's good.
-Amazing.

Well, I'll explain the process
and then we can jump right in.

-[Nikki] Okay, great.
-So, as I go through this today,

I'll basically relay everything

that comes through,
and I'm big on delivering it

exactly as I get it.

So, as I go through this,
I kind of have to connect

with the clearest connection

and that sometimes
is who we're expecting,

other times, not at all. [chuckles]

So, we'll just kind of
let whatever comes in come in.

But my goal is to be specific.

Anybody could tell you
your loved one loves you

or they're proud of you,
but it's really the facts and the details

and the specifics that are only known
between you and them

that substantiate that connection.

And so, we find
and have found, as we've filmed

over the past few weeks,
inside jokes, family dynamics,

recent conversations.
Sometimes even references

to living people by name
will come through.

So, that's all good to just kind of
keep in mind as we navigate this today.

-[Nikki] Awesome.
-And then as I go through this,

I'll scribble, which is kind of
my way of turning on,

and I'll hold on to objects.

Now, objects are just kind of reminders
of who we hope to hear from,

who we intend to connect with.

And so, what I will do is, I think,

just because we have family here,
immediately, I'll kind of separate family

and you two, and then we'll kind
of give it a shot on both ends.

So, with family items, we can start there
and I'll start holding on to them,

and we'll just kind of get a sense
of what we feel the strongest.

So, any pictures,
face down are always good.

-And then anything over the--
-[Nikki] It's not a picture.

-Okay, good.
-But yeah.

-Fabulous, yes.
-[EJ] This could fall apart,

-so hold it there.
-[Tyler] Oh, no worries, absolutely.

-Very, very, very careful. Absolutely.
-[EJ chuckling]

Okay, thank you so much.

-Yes, that's good.
-I love that.

Fabulous! Okay.

-Amazing. Oh, my goodness.
-[EJ chuckles]

-Leave it to me to drop something, right?
-[chuckles]

Oh, my goodness.
At least it wasn't the watch. All right.

-[chuckles]
-Give me one sec.

I'm just going to kind of get a sense
of how strong my connection is.

That, that, that.

Yeah, hey, we're going somewhere.

This is a good sign for me,
especially being on live TV.

-You know how that can be.
-[Nikki] I mean…

I sit here,
"I'm not getting much, sorry."

-[laughs]
-"Goodnight!"

[Nikki] I don't know
how you do this. It's--

-It's crazy.
-It's quite an undertaking.

Okay, so what I'm gonna do,
because this is good,

I have three people popping in.

-I'm going to hand this back to you.
-[Nikki] Okay.

And we might have people
connect to those objects,

people not connected,
but I immediately have to highlight

three individuals
that are going to be significant.

-Okay, wow.
-Now, without giving much away,

those objects that you have,

are they connected
to more than one person?

-Yes. Yes.
-[Tyler] Okay. Cool. That always helps

when we start going plural,
because I want to kind of go there.

Now, there's at least three individuals
that I need to highlight,

and immediately this is going
to sound kind of strange,

but I have to kind of go to,
like, an aunt figure in the way

this pops in.

I keep seeing, you know that, Mama,
what was that restaurant in Cambria

-that we got pie at back in the day?
-Oh, Linn's.

-[Tyler] Linn's.
-Yes.

Yes. So, there's a funniness
in the way this comes through

'cause I'm seeing this place,

this restaurant that I had
sentimental value around,

and that keeps kind of
coming up in my mind.

[Nikki] I have goosebumps.

Without giving much away, can we relate
to a Lynn that has passed?

-Oh, yeah.
-Yeah. An Aunt Lynn.

-[Tyler] Got you. [exclaims]
-[Nikki] Whoa!

-[Tyler] Okay, cool.
-[Nikki] Okay.

We're on the right track.

Taking that a step further,
you know, again,

I'm going to highlight
several individuals.

That one strikes me as basically a feeling
of passing before my time.

I feel like I should have had more time.

I don't know. There's just a sense
in the way that I would describe this

of kind of living vicariously through

how my family then goes on
to live and honor me.

How old was she when she passed?

-Sixty-nine.
-[Tyler] That is too young.

That's like one of those things
where it's like we should have

been able to

at least have a decade or two more.

I want to take this a step further.

On her side of family, do you know
of any individuals who dealt

with a cancer diagnosis,
but would have dealt with this

in kind of two iterations, so…

-[EJ] Yeah.
-[Tyler] Okay. Got you.

And that would connect
to Lynn's side of family.

-Right.
-[Tyler] Okay, because I got

to kind of go there
and I want to bring that up.

They're having me joke about travels

and it's going to sound
kind of off the wall,

but if there ends up,
I keep seeing like an M state,

like, Missouri or there's a discussion
on going to, like, a place.

And then I'm like,
"I want to get out of here."

-[laughs]
-[Tyler] Sorry, there's…

There's a funniness to the way
this comes across,

but I'm having to go like M states.
So, does that bring anything?

Well, yeah. Well, there's an--
We're from an M state,

but we often spend a lot of time
with these people.

I'm thinking in another M state, Michigan.

-[Tyler] Gotcha. Michigan.
-Yes.

Yeah, because it's coming across
and then there's this feeling kind of,

going back to a home base
or like leaving that.

Um… But in the way this comes across,
we kind of got to go all across the board.

I do have people popping in
for you too, which is exciting.

-Right.
-[Tyler] Um…

But I just kind of
have to navigate it accordingly.

So, as we go through this,

I'm kind of drawn to
that coin-looking thing there.

-If you don't mind handing me that.
-Coin.

I'm always bad at identifying
what these objects are.

But I love it. That's really cool.

-Look at that.
-[Nikki] Mm. Yeah, it's really cool.

Very neat.
So, I wanna see if I can get a connection.

Now, what's so interesting is,
you know, we have this aunt feeling

of passing way before our time,
and I have some older relatives

that I need to talk about as well.
And that's gonna be, kind of,

one of the areas
that I need to not forget.

[chuckles] So, when we talk about people
who were 70 plus, but under 85,

that's kind of, one of the directions
I wanna go as far as passing.

So, when we think of generations above,
do you know of anybody

who would have passed away
between 70 and 85

that would be on, like,
older generation level?

-Yes. Yes.
-Yeah.

[Tyler] Okay,
which side of family would that be?

-Oh, that would be my mom's side. Mm-hmm.
-[Tyler] Mom's side, okay.

Um… Let me look and see--
Mom, what was your name again?

-Julie.
-[Tyler] Julie, I love it.

I'm so, so bad with names,
ironically, but I appreciate it.

Do you know
of any other Js in the family?

Or are you the only Julie?

-No, you mean in my family?
-[Tyler] In your biological family.

-Sure.
-[Tyler] Gotcha.

-So there's other Js.
-Yes.

-And any that are still living?
-[Julie] Yes.

Okay. 'Cause I wanna highlight,

anytime I see like
J times two in a living context,

it's taking like your name
and I need to bring up the other one.

-Okay.
-[Tyler chuckles]

And kind of highlight them,
acknowledge them.

There is, uh, a very strong,
oh, left field here.

Sorry, I got someone else popping in.

Um, when we talk about family history,

are you familiar
with how everybody passed?

-Yes.
-[Tyler] For the most part?

Do you know of any females
that would have dealt with

any pretty radical reductions

in cognitive health
towards the end of life?

So, a situation where I no longer
am able to verbalize or speak

is kind of the big area
of emphasis with this.

So, someone who's coming in
who would have been kind of,

more like the chattier of the Cathies,
the way it comes across.

And it's cute.

But I feel like
towards the end of my life,

I lose my ability to express,
be verbal outwardly.

-And it kind of comes in.
-I don't know about that. Not on my side.

On your side of family,
do you know of any situations?

-Cognitively, no. Not really.
-Let me look and see.

I'm going back. I've got this lady.

I feel like
I lose consciousness before I pass.

Yeah, and I feel like I can't verbalize.
So, let's look.

Who is this object connected to?
I'm just curious.

-Me.
-Gotcha. I love that.

-It's a very, very cool object.
-[EJ chuckles]

Let me see what this is.
[smacks lips, exhales]

No, this lady's not going away.

If I go over here for you two,

just 'cause I never wanna
make something fit that doesn't fit,

but I've got this lady coming in,
I have to highlight this feeling.

And again, a very clearly cognitive,

and then I feel like this would
affect my ability to communicate.

I feel like I've lived
relatively good amount of life,

but I feel like I would be known
for somebody who was very expressive,

-very verbalizing.
-[Lizzy] Yes. [chuckles]

And so, to lose that faculty is kind of
this feeling of I have no quality of life.

I'm ready to go.

-And that kind of aspect does come in.
-[Lizzy] Yes.

Um… Who would that be for you?

Um, sh… That would be my mom.

Okay. Do you know within your family,

if we talk about
multiple M sounding names,

do you know of any Ms?

I do ha-- There is an M in my family.

[Tyler] Okay.
Is that on Mom's side of family?

-[Lizzy] I have a sister.
-[Tyler] Okay.

-Yeah.
-[Tyler] Gotcha.

Um, I feel like I have
to highlight your mom's side.

They have me reference
to the M feeling, feminine,

and the way this comes across.

Um… What's kind of interesting
around this when we talk about Mom,

um, there's some aspect of a feeling
of one sibling getting closure

-and another sibling not.
-Right. Yes.

And that's something that
there's no way I could know, right,

-or guess.
-Yes. This is, yeah.

But that keeps coming in.

And basically, I would interpret
that as a way of saying

if two siblings have
very different experiences

in being able to feel
a sense of closure around a passing

one gets it one doesn't.

-Yes.
-[Tyler] It's okay.

-So, how does that apply?
-Um, I think, um…

Well, at the end
my mom was on a lot of drugs…

-[Tyler] Gotcha.
-…and she said something very unkind to me

before she passed and, uh,
I didn't know it would be my last,

-my final exchange with her.
-[Tyler] Sure.

And I felt like-- and so I flew back
to Los Angeles.

-[Tyler] Yeah.
-Um, and then she died that morning.

My allergies are horrible today.
[chuckles]

-[all chuckle]
-That's okay, yes.

-What… what about your--
-[Lizzy] It's the pollen count.

What about the other M?

Well, I'm thinking
that might be where I'm from.

[Tyler] I see.

-But I don't know, but I just--
-This definitely goes back generationally.

When we talk about Mom, um,

and we talk about kind of like
multiple family members,

are you familiar
with your mom's side of family?

-Uh, yes.
-[Tyler] Okay.

Um, do you--

Let me give this a gander,
because I have to talk about…

Sigma is a symbol for Gemini,
which is usually indicative of twins.

Um, do you know of any twins
within family?

-Any twin connections?
-Yes.

-[Tyler] Okay.
-Um, my grandma's brothers were twins.

-[Tyler] Were twins? Okay.
-Yes.

Do you know of
any E names in the family? Like--

-That would be me.
-[Tyler] Oh.

Well, my-- I go by Lizzy,
but my name is Elizabeth.

-[Tyler] Got it. Okay.
-Yeah.

Were you named after anybody
or is it just Elizabeth?

I was named after my mom's father.

So weirdly, that's where I'm going
as far as a connection goes. [chuckles]

Wow.

So it's like a way, and it's kind
of like an interesting language,

and it brings me to bring up that--

-What about my chalice?
-[all chuckle]

[Tyler] Yes. We'll get there.

But it comes across very succinct.

And I just want
to acknowledge those people.

Now, I'm always sticking
with the information that comes through.

The feeling with this is,
for one, with this lady,

my end does not reflect my life.

And that's a very important message
for everybody to take away.

But when people are
in altered states of consciousness,

um, you know, when things are kind of,
starting to decline,

people say things they often don't mean.

And then we don't get the chance to speak.

And then sometimes
that's all we have left

to really remember, and in many ways,

they don't want that
to define the entirety of that,

and that comes across very, very clearly.

Around her situation,
um, just really quick there,

because there's a few things,
and then I want to jump back over here,

'cause we're kind of like
navigating different waters.

Um… [whispers] Give me one sec there.

Around Mom's thing, um,

do you know if there was
like a fight with insurance?

-I don't know.
-[Tyler] Okay.

Yeah, I don't know
any of those details, unfortunately.

The look into this, just
'cause there's a feeling of something

that should have been straightforward
from a care perspective,

getting a lot more convoluted
than it needed to be

-from a technical angle. Okay.
-Yes. That tracks. Yeah.

[Tyler] So, that would come in there.

When we talk about Mom,
um, do you know if after she passed,

if there were any alterations made
to her physical appearance

in any capacity?

I don't know because, um, I did not--
I'm Jewish

and we don't do
an open casket as far as I know.

-We didn't. We-- Yeah.
-[Tyler] Generally, not the case.

The reason I ask with this is

'cause the symbol that comes through
is I feel like

I'm taking-- I don't know
how else to describe this,

but it's a symbol of almost like
when you would

either cut a piece of a person's hair
or take a piece of fabric

is the only way to describe this.

And then I'm kind of symbolically
bringing that on.

For some reason,
in the way this comes across,

they're having me highlight
how we alter things after passing,

and introduce that.

[Julie] I might have done that
to my mother.

Do you know if there was
a situation of, like,

-cutting a piece of hair?
-I cut a piece of her hair.

-[Tyler] Okay.
-[Lizzy] Wow.

-Um… Gotcha.
-After she passed. [chuckles]

So random. And again, I never wanna
make something that doesn't fit.

-I wanted it. [laughs]
-It is… And I don't blame you.

-Grave robber.
-[all laugh]

It definitely, like,
is a very clear symbol.

So, it could,
if that pertains to you, relate there.

Um, as we can see, we kinda got a lot
of different people coming through,

but that's the beauty of being able
to have family and friends,

and we can support each other.
And that's really, really neat.

So, I'm gonna take this a step further.

I wanna separate from the aunt thing,

just 'cause that comes through
so strongly.

Did you bring anything
for her today or no?

-Yes.
-[Tyler] Yeah? Okay, cool.

-So, that's always a good sign.
-[Nikki] Yeah. [chuckles]

I'd say from a skeptical angle,
there's no way I can know

what the person is gonna bring.

It's so interesting when
that person comes through

and makes a connection. It's like--

-Amazing.
-[Tyler] Weird!

-Julie, was that the bracelet?
-[Julie] Yes.

-Oh, wow.
-[Julie] This was her bracelet.

-Amazing.
-Yeah, it was.

-Did you grave rob that as well?
-[all laugh]

Okay, busted. [laughs]

-It's a beautiful memento.
-[laughs]

It really, really speaks
to those little things.

She would've wanted me
to have it, honestly.

-[Tyler] Oh, yeah. I believe it.
-[EJ] Yeah. [laughs]

So cute. Um, I need to take it one step…

So, do we have any other objects
not connected to her

-that I could hold on to?
-Yeah.

Okay. I notice this coin keeps…

-[overlapping chatter]
-Okay. Yeah.

-Probably this. Or the coin.
-Thank you. Yeah, no problem.

We'll give it a shot.

-[overlapping chatter]
-[Tyler] Okay.

Okay, there's that. That.

Huh, okay, so wherever this is,

whoever this is,
must connect you in some way.

I want us to take a moment,
think of who we're hoping to hear from

and maybe perhaps put it to the side,
but remember that I'm saying this.

Connected to this individual,
they're having me talk about

somebody living,
like, really old. [chuckles]

So, when we talked earlier
about people passing

before their time and that kind of thing,

very different kind of feeling
with this of,

I keep going and going, and going,

and you know when it's, like,
when a cat has nine lives,

and they just keep pulling through,
and pulling through, and pulling through,

-and it's like, "I'm not gonna die."
-[Nikki] Mm-hmm.

You can't get rid of me that easily.
It's like coming across in a funny sense,

but there's an acknowledgement
of basically this feeling

of my body goes through a ton.

Um, and I feel like I live to be older
and I'm for sure with family here.

So, I'm not… I wanna be clear,
I'm not over here.

I just have to figure out
who this lady is,

'cause there's a sense of, like,
Terminator.

[laughs] I'm going, and going, and going.

What I would interpret this as,
just to be clear,

is that she had to have lived past,
like, 72, 73.

Is she still living?
Are you getting that sense?

[clears throat] I'm seeing lady Terminator
and, like, nothing's taken her out.

I'm seeing susceptibilities to pneumonia
in the way this comes through,

-lung-related stuff.
-[Julie] Mm.

[Tyler]
And this feeling of I'm pulling in,

-I'm pulling in, I'm pulling in.
-It could be.

[Tyler] And does that pertain
to a living person?

-Yes.
-[Tyler] Okay.

Specifically, the pneumonia thing
or the lung issue,

-are you familiar with that?
-She has pneumonia.

-[Tyler] Oh.
-And she's--

-And she is a tank.
-She's a…

-[Tyler] Gotcha. Okay, but…
-Yeah.

But it's not related to that watch.

[Tyler] That's okay.
I want to take a minute and look,

how old is she currently?

-She's 73.
-[Tyler clears throat]

But she's been ill all her life
and she wasn't expected to live this long.

Gotcha, yeah. Weird that I say this,
but in the way this comes across,

they're having me talk about
the last three weeks,

that situation, shifts and changes,

going on as far as any reference
to how we kind of provide long-term care,

-residential stuff keeps coming in.
-[Julie] Mm-hmm.

[Tyler] And I feel like there's been
pertinent conversations

literally in the past three weeks
around this.

-Possibly, yes.
-Good to look into that.

Um, do you know
if there's any connection…

Uh… Mm-mm. Mm-mm. [smacks lips] Um…

-Is Sally a relative?
-She's my sister.

[Tyler] Oh, Sally, got it.
Yeah. Let me look and see.

And she's like,
"I am going to outlive all of you."

-[Tyler] I believe it. [laughs]
-[all laugh]

That's it. And we're all like going,
"It's amazing, she's alive."

-[Tyler] She's still going.
-But she's not--

-She's still going.
-[Tyler] Yes.

She's amazing.

You ignored a call from her earlier today.

-[Julie] Yeah.
-[Tyler] That's all right.

We got references to her today,
which is great.

So… She's in our hearts,
we're talking about--

-[Nikki] She's with us.
-Let me try to switch over sides,

'cause this seems to be my tricky thing
in the way this comes in.

Um, do you guys know
of any memories associated with an…

This is so strange,

I'm probably gonna be dead wrong
with this.

Remember that I'm saying this,
I'm seeing an ice skating,

-or skating on ice in some capacity.
-[Nikki] Mm.

And there's a funniness around this
of somebody who, like, I see…

This is gonna be bizarre
and probably won't land.

But you know when you push somebody,
and they just go, "Whee,"

and then slam into a wall.
There's, like, a funniness with this

that I'm wanting to give someone
a joke about…

-Oh?
-…but it's an acknowledgement of, like,

-when that happened.
-[Nikki] Yeah.

Yeah, for me, it's reminiscent
of the person connected

to this object, my cousin, who, as kids,

we used to push him in this, like,
car down a hill, and we called…

His last name was Hiller,
and we called him Crash Hiller,

and he would wear a helmet,
but he would just, I mean,

it was very dangerous,
but it was the '90s.

They weren't looking after us.
It's totally different.

And it was like a routine thing
we did every time he came

to visit us down our long driveways,
play Crash Hiller.

-[Tyler] How cute.
-That's not how we lost him, by the way.

-[overlapping chatter]
-[all laugh]

-But it comes in, got it.
-Yeah, yeah.

Okay, let's take a look
on Dad's side of family.

Do you know of any situations of anyone
in your family who lost a brother?

-Yeah.
-[Tyler] Okay,

'cause the way that I would word this
is anytime I get

acknowledgement between a brother passing
and then being around a sibling,

it's just very much the sense
of living, watching,

kind of, again, vicariously.
But that aspect comes in.

What's interesting about this is
when we think of this brother figure,

whoever that is within family.
That is kind of interesting.

So there's a dichotomy
for some reason between names.

And this is good
to remember that I'm saying this.

We might have had the passing
of one individual

and then they're having me acknowledge
in some way

this name repeating or doubling up

in some capacity in an honorary sense,
like, how we honor someone.

So the way that I would interpret this
is just good to keep in mind is

if somebody ends up
in the family naming someone after,

brother who passed
or there's, like, a continuation.

I'm not talking about new generations,
young people, it feels very positive,

but it's just good to keep in mind

in the way that that comes across.

Sometimes there's links
to literal first names,

sometimes there's middle names,
but it just kind of keeps going

about younger people, younger people,
younger people.

Um, do you… Let me… Mm, mm, mm.

EJ, can I ask who lost
a brother in your family?

My dad's brother passed away,
his name was Robert

-and he named his daughter Roberta.
-[Amanda] Oh.

-[Tyler] Got it. Okay.
-[Nikki] And then your dad's name is…

-My dad's name is my name.
-Is your name.

And my father… I'm the third.

Oh, I love that. Very cool.
Continuing the legacy.

Um,
'cause there is an acknowledgement there.

Did somebody…
I'm trying to just see what this one…

Then I have this older lady coming through
and again connected to family

and I have to highlight her
and she's coming in like a force of nature

and she…

So, give me one sec with this.

This lady is like…
completely ruling the show now, suddenly.

-[chuckles]
-So, let me figure out what this means.

[Julie chuckles]

[Tyler] I love her,
I wanna give her a big hug.

Very like… [exclaims]
Warm, I feel like, loving.

Let me figure out
who this is really quickly. [laughs]

My lady. Check and see
if there's any memories.

Do you know, everybody knows
what hand cream is, right?

You know hand cream
that you like put in your hands

and you keep them nice and moisturized.

There's something
about a memory around like an orange,

orange-scented hand cream.

So, if someone has hand cream,
older lady, in the way this comes across,

I'm just saying this so you remember this.

I feel like I have
to talk about a hand cream memory

and it just keeps coming and I can't,

it's like when I see it or smell it,
I'm like, I think of her

and it just keeps coming through.
Do you know of anything along those lines?

-Uh…
-Not really, no.

-[Tyler] Okay.
-Um…

-Me neither.
-[speaks indistinctly]

But there's an older woman there,
my stepmother, who… She passed away.

I wasn't that close to her,
but I found out after the pandemic,

I lost touch with her and found out
she passed away about two years ago.

-She lived to be like 95 years old.
-Really, really on the older side,

like a sense of kind of
the opposite feeling of going too young.

She gave that watch
after someone passed away.

-[Tyler] Oh.
-So, she handed it to…

But did she like orange…

-[Lizzy] Wow.
-Right.

-[laughs]
-We have to look at…

[overlapping chatter]

-Weird memory, but…
-[Tyler] It's interesting,

but it good to look into
'cause actually we can sometimes

learn new things about our family,

and sometimes that weird validation
will actually make extreme sense

to one person and they're like, "Wow."

So, we'll look into it,
but it basically kind of comes in,

when we talk about your family,

do you know of a situation
where there would be four children,

like the lineup of four?

-Um… No.
-Okay, so how many siblings do you have?

-Oh, yeah.
-I have two others.

Okay, when we talk about your dad,
do you know how many siblings he had?

He had two other…

-Okay, and then we go mom's side.
-Mom side, just two.

-Just two. So then you…
-[Lizzy] I have four.

-I'm the youngest of four.
-[Tyler] Okay.

-Not to upstage you, EJ.
-[Nikki laughs]

-I'm like, "I have four!"
-[guests laughing]

-You were chomping at the bit over there.
-[Tyler] Interesting.

-Let me look. So, you have four siblings?
-I do. I have three older sisters.

Three and then you, the one of four?
Okay. Let me look. I just kind of like to…

I never want to make
something that doesn't fit,

but I just kind of want
to see where I'm guided.

So, if we talk about the four,
we kind of go in that direction.

Let me talk about siblings.

You know, I supposedly
have a half-brother I've never met, but…

-[Tyler] Really?
-[laughs] Yeah.

-[Lizza] So, that would make four.
-[Tyler] It's okay.

I mean, look, and sometimes it fits,
sometimes it doesn't, but if you do,

-that could be… I don't know.
-[Julie] EJ, we're in direct competition.

-That's right.
-[guests laugh]

So, just cause I'm bad at math,
if there really was a half-brother,

-would that make four siblings?
-Yeah. Well, yeah.

-[Tyler] Okay. Yeah, all good, yeah.
-So…

He came up in a lawsuit,
so I never remember…

-[Nikki] Okay.
-[Tyler] Got it. And again--

[laughs]

-A family secret.
-Is he alive or has he passed?

-[EJ] I have no idea.
-Oh, wow!

-[clears throat]
-Yeah, 'cause I'm definitely with you.

-What kind of hand cream does he use?
-[guests laugh]

[Tyler] We're gonna have
to look into this.

-He's very moist.
-[Amanda] Does he like oranges?

-[laughs]
-Yeah, definitely this…

Give me one minute there.

At this point, what we'll do,
'cause for you, my guy, I would love…

Let me look and see if I can go over here.

And as we're talking,
does anybody have any questions?

We'll focus on your object.

But as we're kind of talking, I mean with
the Lynn thing comes in pretty strongly.

That acknowledgement gives me
a lot of energy.

Are these people duking it out
for your attention right now?

-Yeah, it's literally battling it out.
-Like you're being heckled.

It's like, "Over here,"
you're like, "I'll get to you."

Is it kind of like, you need
to calm down, let me just focus on…

It's a lot of currents
is the way that I would describe it.

So, some people are like
a white water rapid when they come through

and I'm easily can just kind
of let go and ride that lazy river.

And then some people come through kind
of like a drip, drip, drip. [laughs]

And I'm like, "Oh, no, I need more
to be able to kind of get one thing

-into another, into another.
-[Nikki] Uh-huh.

So, the Lynn thing strikes me right off
the bat as really strong.

[Lizzy] Amazing.

And then, you know, we have some
of these kind of other references.

But what can sometimes happen is
if we have questions,

anything that's unresolved
or anything that you can articulate

in kind of a general way,

that sometimes helps us kind
of get more answers.

-Can you feel anything else from Lynn?
-Gotcha. All right, let's look and see.

And the Crash Hillar guy.

Like, some really unanswered questions
around that too.

Yeah, Nikki, your mind
looked blown when he said Lynn.

-I mean… It's insane.
-[guests chuckle]

-[Julie] It's incredible.
-Because, yeah.

-[pencil scrapping on paper]
-[sighs]

Okay, so…

So, this is interesting.

When I focus on Lynn,
I'm struck by joy and happiness,

but there's kind
of a dichotomy between that

and what I kind of want to get into,
which is all good.

She's usually referring
to living people, living dynamics.

They're having me talk
about her end of life.

This is good to keep in mind.

There's some sense, she's showing me
my symbol for being glue

that kept things together
in a big respect.

And then there's a symbol of after I pass,
not wanting things to come unglued

or people to kind of separate
or go different directions.

So, the message with this in kind
of a large capacity is communication,

staying in touch.

If I put two people below her,
let me figure out how this is.

So, do you know when we talk
about kids, nieces, nephews,

if I were to put two,

do you know where the two would be
beneath her generationally?

-Um… Not really.
-So, you and Lauren.

What do you mean? It would be…

-Beneath Lynn, gen… generationally.
-[Tyler] Generationally.

So basically living in just
two people that would be below her.

And then there's this sense
of living vicariously.

We talk about parenthood,
this sense of like,

I have Heather as my assistant

and she loves her nieces and nephews.
And so as odd as this kind of comes in,

there's a sense of living vicariously
through kind of sibling,

-not necessarily my own family--
-Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Tyler] So, did she not have any children

-or what was-- Okay.
-She did. She did.

But it's-- I'm…
I'm just feeling a vibe of like,

I don't have children but I'm like
living vicariously through my niece

and nephew recently
and they just recently kind of

talked to me in a way that-- My--

Everyone was like, "You don't talk
to your aunt that way" and I was like…

-[Tyler] Yeah.
-…actually, you do. I like that they did,

because they're talking to me just
like you would talk to your parents.

[Tyler] Right. And there's--

I'm-- I've-- I was even thinking,
like, my Aunt Lynn,

I would have never talked
to her that way.

-[Tyler] Yeah.
-But I almost wish I could have.

-How many kids did Lynn have?
-[Nikki] She had one.

One. Okay. And no miscarriages,
no losses of pregnancies?

-No, I don't think so.
-Some… some abortions.

[Tyler] Oh, gotcha. All good. It happens.
It's just… [chuckles]

-It had me-- Yeah.
-Well, it-- it used to happen.

-And the people…
-Exactly.

Let me look there.

Go there.

Hmm.

[smacks lips]
General feeling with that. Hmm.

Do you have any feminine cancers?
Any feminine cancer scares?

-To be honest, not in--
-[Tyler grunting, sighing]

We're talking lower, so this might
be a little m… more sensitive.

We're not talking like breast cancers.

We're talking ovarian,
uterine, cervical, cysts.

Luckily, not in my family.

Do you-- Let me we talk about you now--
Nikki, do you have a sister?

-Yes.
-[Tyler] Okay,

this is just good to keep
in mind when this comes through.

They're just having me talk
about how we talk

about our lower feminine system,
how that works, all good.

-Everyone should keep that in mind.
-[Nikki] Yeah.

But there could be some conversations kind
of in that department.

Let me go.

I want to talk about my guy.
Do you know… [chuckles]

And we talk about any men who would have
passed away kind of more

on the earlier side of things.

Any objects there?

-[EJ] Yeah.
-[Tyler] Okay, cool. This will hold on to.

Because I want to talk
about this funniness.

One thing to keep in mind
is there's a nickname,

of an animal nickname.
This is just good to keep in mind.

Remember that I'm saying this
because this literally may not click

right now when we're like on
and there's so much pressure…

-Yeah, yeah.
-…and we just kind of sometimes go blank.

But check and see if a human being
had an animal nickname.

So like frog, bear…

I don't know what it is,
but it just comes across as funny.

[laughs mockingly] Do you know
of any animal nicknames?

-[EJ] In the family?
-[Tyler] Yeah.

[sighs]

-[Tyler] Or connected to this guy at all.
-Connected to that.

Maybe. Maybe. Maybe.

Honestly, well, we had
inside jokes about animals.

Oh, nope. [speaks indistinctly]

I mean, it would be more
than calling someone a cougar.

-Okay.
-[Nikki chuckling] Okay. All right.

-[Tyler] Not that kind of thing.
-Okay.

But I'm having, because my grandpa had it,
it was a nickname like frog.

Like, there was, like, a reference
in the way this comes in.

Do we know of any animal nicknames,
even if it's not connected to this object,

just, like, within family,
anything come to mind?

-Oh, God.
-[Tyler] Like bear, frog.

-[Julie whispering] Bear.
-[all murmuring indistinctly]

[Tyler] I mean, look.

I feel like I have to talk
about the speed of somebody.

It's like someone being fast.

What is this?
I call my mom a Tasmanian devil sometimes.

-[guests chuckling]
-[Tyler chuckling]

It's weird. I'm going zero to 60.

Zero to 60.
It's the only way to describe it.

Bringing it to younger male,
past, the way that comes across.

Connected to him, do you guys know
of any passings in the late '90s?

-Yeah.
-Yeah, what, of family?

-Yes.
-Yeah, yeah, in that same family.

Because I was born in '96,
so they're bifurcating '96,

and then kind of bringing me to that part.

[Julie] Yeah, it was post-'96.

Like around-- Between '96
and 2001 is the area that…

-[EJ] Ninety-five.
-Well.

[Tyler] So, I'm going--

There's a good friend
that has an animal nickname

-from that time period.
-[Tyler] Okay, has he passed?

Could be related to that. Yeah, he passed.

[Tyler] Okay, gotcha.

-He was called Weasel.
-[Tyler] Weasel.

-Okay. All good. All good.
-[Nikki chuckling] That's an animal.

It is. And they're just bringing me,
for some reason,

like around my birthday time.
So, you said '95 is when our guy passed.

-And '96 would have been when I was born.
-No, '97 was when Weasel passed.

-Oh, gotcha. Okay.
-[EJ chuckling]

-We're figuring it out. Incredibly.
-[guests chuckling]

All right, so we got the Weasel situation.

That sounds so off the wall,
but there's just somebody popping in.

When we talk about our guy,
there's a feeling of… [stutters]

…the only way to describe this
is he keeps seeing question marks,

keeps coming in over
and over and over again.

It's usually indicative
that when someone passes,

there's efforts made
to explain what the death wasn't.

So I know this is gonna sound strange,
but the only way to describe this

is it's like more
than saying what happened to him,

it's more making clear
this isn't how he went.

So, if there were any questions
as far as like rumors,

people thinking that it was one thing
when it was something else.

-[Nikki] Right.
-[Tyler] Very much kind of that feeling

of protecting the integrity of that.

-So, do we understand that at all?
-Yeah, I think

that it was kind of unclear
whether it was a purposeful thing or not.

-[Tyler] Gotcha.
-And I feel like that gives me…

-Yeah.
-There's a sense in the way this comes

through of wanting
to squash rumors. [chuckles]

Of wanting to be remembered
for my life, not my passing,

and there's the sense--
This is kind of interesting.

Do you know if anybody
was enrolling in school

or enrolled in school
at the time of a passing?

So, the reason why I say this

is because I have to talk about
excitement, other people being positive,

travel, all this comes in.
It's kind of tricky in the way this is.

How old was he when he passed?

-I think 32 or something.
-[EJ] Thirty-two.

-Yeah.
-[Tyler] Gotcha.

I don't know what this is.
I'm seeing symbology.

[Julie]
Was he going to like a trade school?

[EJ] I think he talked about
going to culinary.

-[Julie] Culinary school?
-I want to talk about like excitement,

positive, and the reason why
I bring this up

is because it's in stark contrast
to the way he died.

So, there's this feeling, it's again,
it was so weird

when we were walking out here,
I was telling my mom,

today I feel like female,
comedy, funny, happy,

but there's this passing
that feels very, very sad.

Yeah.

[Tyler] This younger person
is not wanting to be defined by that.

Um, but that aspect definitely…

Well, it was, like,
our relationship was, like, funny.

Like that was--
We had like a secret language,

like called a "funty" talk.

-[guests laugh]
-Wow.

That was like, you kept saying--

I kept hearing you say,
"It's really funny."

Even the way you were saying "funny"
sounded like you were saying "funty."

-[Tyler] Funty. Yeah.
-Which is like our secret language.

-[laughs]
-Yeah, it was definitely not…

And just to connect the dots,
this is the Crash…

-[Nikki] Hiller.
-The Crash Hiller guy.

This is like my cousin, yeah.

Okay, and you were saying
like zero to 60

and you were talking
about how you put him in the car

-and pushed him down, right?
-[Nikki] Yes. Yes.

-[Amanda] Okay.
-And yeah, yes.

-[Tyler] Weasel?
-[Amanda] Wow.

Oh, funny, the weasel thing,
I wonder if it's how a weasel moves.

[laughing] Like, how a weasel,
like, it's coming across.

It's funny, because we're talking
about how an animal would move.

-This is very funny.
-[EJ chuckles]

Kind of describes, perhaps,

a descriptor of how
someone kind of approaches.

It's cute.

Um, let me take this a step further
really quickly. I want to go there. Um…

After this guy passed,

he tried to come through
to a family member.

One sec. [smacks lips]

My guy. I'm gonna hold on to this
again just really quickly.

See if we can…

My guy.

So, this is… [sighs]

A couple different things
are kind of popping in.

-[pen scraping]
-[Tyler] Ah.

[laughs] So, there's an aspect
of informality that keeps coming through

in the way this pops in.

And informality is being applied
when we talk about

how after someone passes,
how we're remembered,

how we're memorialized.

If there's a very informal element
to how someone is remembered,

despite, you know,
the serious nature of their death,

they're putting levity around this
in kind of a larger capacity.

I want you to look and see if anybody
dressed in brightly, like,

bright clothing or Hawaiian shirts

or something, because I want
to basically kind of take

like the sad black procession
and just kind of go whoosh. [laughs]

-Right.
-So,

my encouragement would be check and see
if anybody got together for him,

but in a like colorful sense,
in a more like…

more vacation feeling
than funeral feeling.

There's an acknowledgement the way
this comes through people not wanting

to forget how someone sounds
or the sound of their voice.

And that kept coming in really strongly.

So, if we're kind of sparse on recordings
of him, um, or if there's not much,

I just feel like I wish I had more
in the way this comes across.

Do you know what everybody wore,
you know, after this passing

as far as memorials, the way we honor him,
anything along those lines?

-There wasn't much…
-It wasn't really like a…

"Let's all dress colorfully,"
but we made sure that his passing

-was a joyful celebration.
-We had a celebration.

-We had a celebration.
-I remember.

-[Tyler] Yeah.
-Even though it was a tragic death.

Of course, it comes in kind
of stark contrast,

there's a sense of
what we would normally associate

with despair, not really wanting
to bring that into how we remember,

so check and see if there are any photos
of him wearing bright color.

Hawaiian shirt, it's weird.

It just keeps coming
in over and over again.

-Okay.
-[Tyler] Um, and good to look into

would be pictures.
There's like, "I'm jovial." Um,

they're also around him
and his friend group.

This is good to keep in mind.
There was a second passing.

And this is really good to consider
because both of these people,

in some ways,
I feel like they've linked up.

But there's kind of this dual sense
of we remember this person.

And then there's another passing
around this person's passing.

And we kind of loop them into it as well
as kind of like a dual honor.

-Okay. They're hanging out.
-And so that is good to consider.

There's a sense of like, um,
dual connection.

Um, do we ever--
When we talk about him, um…

he's showing me crazy things,
doing crazy things,

funny things, spontaneous things,
and I don't know what this is.

-Um… [laughs]
-Yes.

[Tyler] When we talk about, like,
the only way

to describe this is I'm seeing
this whole memory, and again,

this is good to look into.

-[Nikki gasps]
-A feeling of like I'm trying to sneak out

-of a property.
-Wait, hold on.

-[Tyler] Go ahead.
-Animal.

-[Tyler] Did something come to you?
-Goose.

Goose?

Remember when we had a family like--
Can I say?

-[laughs]
-Uh, sure.

But that's a thing, 'cause I was thinking
about it a lot, yesterday.

-[Amanda] Oh, wow.
-Yeah, well, someone…

We were kids, so we didn't understand
the severity of it,

but my aunt was like assaulted,
someone grabbed her

at a store and she came home
and said, "I was goosed,"

and it was a very funny word to us,
we didn't know exactly

what that meant, so we just kept
being like, "I was goosed,"

-and we like drew pictures of gooses.
-[laughs]

Not minimizing it at all
because we were kids.

We literally didn't understand
what it meant at all.

And so that really,
I don't know, I just got chills.

What was the thing, Nintendo?
What was the-- Nintendo?

Don't go into that.

-[all laugh]
-I mean, that just makes it even worse.

[Tyler] To be fair,
I think it's the weasel thing.

-It's the weasel thing? Okay.
-That's like where-- We've moved on.

-[Nikki] I told that story for no reason.
-It's all right.

-I'm so sorry.
-[Amanda] Go on with what you're saying.

[Tyler] But that's what many people try,

you know, and we never want
to make a circle fit a square.

[Nikki] Yes, I appreciate that about you.

But I definitely think
the weasel reference comes in.

Let's not make a weasel fit a goose.

-[Tyler] That's right. Amen to that.
-[all laugh]

-[Julie] But we honor the goose.
-Exactly.

We do.

But he did spontaneous, crazy, fun things.

Yeah, I mean, the spontaneous, like…
Okay, sorry, go on, please.

He kind of keeps having me talk
about the sense of,

like, launching myself. [laughs]

So, I don't know if there's any memories
where there's this sense,

and this is just,
again, good to look into.

It's not a literal catapult.

Like, I don't feel like I'm putting myself
in a catapult and going flying.

But there's something of I go
from a high point to a low point.

So, like, if someone jumps off of a roof
or tries to get out of a window. [laughs]

Sometimes people sneak out

-and we'll have situations like this…
-[Nikki] Yeah.

…but there's this funniness
if I'm up here and, whee!

[laughs] And it's kind of
a Superman feeling.

By no means a cause of passing… [laughs]
…but this comes through more

as like funny, ridiculous memory.

Well, he would do anything
to make you laugh.

-Yeah, jumping off trees, stuff like that.
-He would do anything.

-Your family is so athletic.
-[Tyler] They really are.

Racing each other over walls.

Anything for a good laugh.

Do you know
if anyone's been talking about,

okay, if we go to our feet here,

we don't need to show our feet
by all means because that'll end up

on the internet,
but there's a conversation

-around cankles that comes through.
-Oh.

Or what's that called?
Bunions, I'm sorry.

-Oh, bunions, yeah.
-[laughter]

-Bunions, the bunion queen over here.
-[laughs]

-[Lizzy] I'm a bunion queen too.
-[Tyler] So, you?

-[Amanda] I am, too.
-[Tyler] No, and it's okay.

But there's a funniness.

I'm so sorry, not cankles, bunions!

We love our bunions.

[Tyler] So, to be clear,
that's right here on the foot, right?

Oh, mine's poking out
and screaming right now.

-Yeah.
-[Tyler] I know this is kind of funny,

but just keep in mind one foot
versus the other

as far as like soreness, pain,
that kind of thing,

like just keeping that in mind.

You'd not think you're going
to talk about that today.

-[Nikki] Okay.
-[Lizzy] We were also

just talking about our feet
right before this.

-Yeah.
-Yeah.

You're saying that our second
to our Morton's toes were growing.

-[Nikki] Yes.
-Oh, yeah, very interesting.

Yeah, bunions are a huge part of my life.

-I'm talking about them all the time.
-[laughs]

-They are well-documented on wikiFeet.
-[Tyler] There you go. Mine too.

I found out, and I was like,
"Oh, I have a low rating."

I thought I had a 9.5 rating,
but it was just my size.

-Oh.
-I have, like, a two.

[Tyler] That's okay.

Nikki, we have the same size foot,
so we can share feet.

-Okay.
-[Amanda laughs]

I'm going to talk about our guy here.
Just give me one sec.

I just feel like there's something
from him that I want to clarify.

It's a lot of happiness

and then just kind of a need
to get into this. One minute.

-When he died, was his mother still alive?
-[Nikki] Yeah.

Okay, because I got to highlight,
for some reason, Mom,

but then we're talking living context
is the way that I would put this.

Do you know if she was geographically
distanced from him

-at the time of his death?
-No.

-[Tyler] Where was she?
-She was right next to him.

Physically right next to him.
Okay. Let me look and see.

Where was Dad?

-Dead.
-[Tyler] Not around, gotcha.

Definitely was geographically
distanced in that case.

Let me look. Mom, Gio. Mom, Gio.

Trying to bring me the last two days
of his life for some reason.

Don't know why. Last two days. Mom.

Gio, Gio, Gio.
Was she there with him the whole time?

-[Lizzy] Oh yeah.
-[EJ] I think so.

[Tyler] Did she have to get there
and then stay?

She-- They lived together.

Okay, so, they were
experiencing this together.

But he had just gotten out
of a hospital and he wasn't home

-for a few days.
-[Tyler] Gotcha.

Why are they bringing up needing Mom?
Needing Mom, needing Mom.

The only way
I would word this is a feeling of,

anytime I see my symbol for distance,

it's usually indicative of there being
a period where someone

is away and I want them back,
but it keeps coming in.

Like, "I want Mom, I want Mom,
I want Mom."

I'm sure that was probably his last words.

She wanted him to go
to the hospital, but he didn't want to.

-He refused.
-[Tyler] Gotcha.

Do you know, when we talk about him
and we talk about digestion,

this is so random
in the way this comes across,

but when we talk
about how someone digests something,

this is weird.
My body feels like it's shutting down.

-What in the world? Hold on.
-[Amanda] Definitely.

Sorry about this.
This is a weird situation

where he basically is having me highlight
the last 48 hours of his life.

I don't know what this is,
but I have to talk about

kind of organ failure
in the way this comes across.

-Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
-Rapidly, does not seem age appropriate.

And literally like my organs
feel I have to talk about liver

and what I would normally attribute
to like, digestion.

-Yeah, absolutely.
-[Tyler] That kind of thing.

And he's just like, bam, bam, bam.

-And, "I need my mom. I need my mom."
-Yeah.

-He was crying out for his mother, yeah.
-[Tyler] Aw, I'm so sorry.

-[Nikki] That's what I thought.
-And he was throwing up blood.

-Oh.
-So, he was, you know,

and she was begging him to go
to the hospital and he wouldn't go.

-[Tyler] Wow, wow.
-And then he just died.

-[Tyler] I need you to know this…
-And it was organ failure.

-Yeah, yeah.
-Absolutely. Liver failure.

And we finally found him.
We got that connection.

-Is he okay?
-Yes.

-And that is the most important question.
-Is he with his mother?

It is so precious, the bond
and the link there that comes up.

Number one priority.
And that strikes me as important.

And what I would say, you know,
we always wonder, are they okay?

Are they at peace?
And I always say, you know,

for them to come through and make jokes
and references, it indicates to me,

while I do not understand what comes
in the great beyond,

that they're in a place of introspection.

Of understanding, of being able to joke
about things and have levity and joy.

And so, that has to be some state
of betterness at the very least.

-Yeah.
-[Julie] Absolutely.

[Amanda] Tyler, that was incredible. Wow.

That was so much information
that came through today.

And my guy over here.
I don't want to abandon you, my friend.

I actually want
to extend my information to you.

And I don't generally do this
when we do these shows.

Sometimes people get right or they don't.
But I got to talk to you personally.

I've never done this before on the show.

So, you and I will do a private reading…

-Thank you.
-…and we'll be in touch

and we'll set it up.

A big thanks to Nikki Glaser
and her family and friends.

Be sure to come back live
next week when we will have a new

unexpected celebrity on the couch
for another powerful reading with Tyler.

We'll see you on the other side.

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