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- Didn't think the ER could ever feel so festive.
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- Well, just because we're in the ER on Christmas
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doesn't mean it can't be festive, right?
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Oh, and I have a gift for you.
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- For me?
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- Here you go.
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I heard you like ice skating,
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so let's hope that knee heals up soon
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so we can get you back on the ice in no time.
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- Thank you so much, Asha.
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- Do you wanna put it on the tree?
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Yeah? - Yeah.
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- Okay.
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All right.
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Oh, I'm getting a call, so I'll see you soon, okay?
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Put it on the tree. Merry Christmas.
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- Merry Christmas. - Hello.
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- Merry Christmas, Asha. - Merry Christmas. Asha.
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- Merry Christmas mom.
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Merry Christmas, dad.
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Oh, dad, I heard that congratulations are in order
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for winning the Ashford decorating contest again this year?
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- Well, I think at this point,
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they should spare everyone the effort,
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and just to declare me the winner from the start.
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- That's like winning a gold medal
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without running the race.
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What's the fun in that?
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Well, I am really sad
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I won't be home this year to witness the epic display.
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- Oh, Maglu. It's just not going to be the same without you.
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You've never missed a single Christmas.
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- Yeah. But we understand work is important.
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- Yeah, well, seven years of successfully
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dodging the Christmas shift.
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I guess my luck finally ran out.
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- Well, don't work too hard. It's Christmas.
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- She works in a hospital, Nirmila.
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She can't just slack off because it's Christmas.
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- You know what I mean, Samuel.
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- Yeah. Well, speaking of work, I do need to get back to it.
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So please say hi to everybody
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and have an extra helping of Biryani
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for me at Ravi's Christmas party tonight, okay?
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- We will. Bye-Bye.
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- Bye-Bye. Asha.
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Love you, Maglu. Love you.
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- Love you.
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Mr. Johnson.
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Caught the ball.
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He's bringing it up to court.
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He's going for the layup.
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- Wow, I have never seen so much excitement in an ER before.
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Everyone feeling better all of a sudden?
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Are you ready to come with me now?
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- Tyler.
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Hey, Tyler. Can I grab a quote for the Outlook?
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- It's okay. He's one of the good ones.
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What do you need, Jake?
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- That last shot was insane.
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You gotta tell me, what was going through your mind?
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- I was thinking about our fans spending Christmas,
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watching the game with their loved ones,
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and how I can't let them down.
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So I asked Santa for a Christmas miracle,
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and the big man came through.
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Merry Christmas, Chicago.
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- Alright man. You're a legend.
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And Merry Christmas. Okay?
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Hey Dad. Merry Christmas.
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- What a game.
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- Oh, you watched it? - Of course.
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It's the only way I get to spend Christmas with my son.
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- Yeah. Sorry I couldn't make it home this year.
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- Oh, you're not missing much. - How are you celebrating?
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- I got my kung pao chicken, my favorite lager,
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and a win for your Titans.
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It makes for a pretty merry Christmas.
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- Mom's on the other line.
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- Go ahead. Take her call.
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Merry Christmas, son.
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- Merry Christmas, dad.
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Merry Christmas, mom.
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- Merry Christmas, Jakey.
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I'm just finishing up here with the meal service.
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How's your day going?
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- Well, Titans won, I snagged an exclusive quote
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for the Outlook,
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and despite not being home for Christmas,
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it's been a pretty good day.
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- Oh, that's wonderful. - How's the
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gingerbread house competition?
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- Oh, please. They should just name the trophy after me.
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- Nice work. Oh, hold on a sec.
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Hey. Hey, let me help you with that.
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I got it.
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Whoa, these are heavy.
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How did you carry these?
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- Jakey. Are you okay?
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- Hello.
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Okay. Jake?
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- Here.
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- Jake O'Brien? - Wait, Asha Singh?
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- Yeah. - Wow. I mean, hi.
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- Hi.
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You should follow me.
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- Okay. - Okay. All right.
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Yeah. Okay.
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The old man versus ice showdown.
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- Mm-hmm. - Spoiler alert,
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the ice always wins.
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- Well, the ice remains undefeated.
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- I still can't believe it.
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All the ERs in all the towns
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in all the world, Jake O'Brien walks into mine.
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- I still can't believe you remember me.
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- Are you kidding me?
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You're like impossible to forget.
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- I am? - Huh?
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- Huh? - No-
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- I'm not- - I didn't,
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I just meant you were all things Ashford High.
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Captain of the baseball team,
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but you're not really living up
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to your most athletic title right now.
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- Ouch. That hurt both places.
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Tough, tough critic. Okay.
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Well, for what it's worth, I do actually remember you.
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- You do. - I do.
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You're the only chemistry tutor
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who could have gotten me through senior year.
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- If I remember correctly,
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you were always more into Thoreau than covalent bonds.
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- Wow. Yes, that's exactly right.
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Huh. Well, thank you.
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In case I didn't thank you then. Thank you now.
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- You're welcome.
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So what have you been up to for the last 18 years?
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- Gosh, has it been that long?
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I got a baseball scholarship to Northwestern.
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I double majored in journalism and and literature.
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- That's amazing. - Yeah.
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- So I take it you're working out here now?
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- Yes. I'm a sports writer for the Chicago Outlook.
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- Ah, you got both your great loves in one.
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- Yeah. Yeah, I guess I did.
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So, what about you?
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What are you up to these days?
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- I'm a nurse practitioner.
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- Oh, yes, of course. Wow.
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You know, maybe we should check to see if I hit my head
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too, because I just...
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- I'll add that to your chart.
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- Great. - Okay. Let's see.
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We're gonna have to amputate this.
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- What? Oh gosh. - It's not that bad.
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Look, your mobility is great.
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I'm guessing it's just a sprain.
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But we can order an X-ray just to be sure.
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- Thank you.
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Oh...
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- Well, it was so great to see you again.
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- Yes. - And the doctor
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will be in shortly.
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- Great. Can't wait. - Okay.
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- Oh, wait. - Yeah?
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- Do you wanna get a drink with me?
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We can catch up properly.
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There's a bar across- - I'm off at 8:00.
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- Okay.
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Tell me, what is it about nursing
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that made you want to make a career out of it?
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- I get to actually connect with the patients, you know,
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on a deeper level, being there for them emotionally,
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physically, whatever it takes
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to make their day a little brighter.
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It's really nice.
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- Not everyone gets to say they can make a difference
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in the world doing what they love.
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- Well, thank you. But nursing wasn't always the plan.
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- Oh, yeah? - Yeah.
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I was on the pre-med track, but then I realized
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and chasing my dad's dream, not my dream, you know?
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- But he must have come around eventually, right?
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- Oh, no. Not at first.
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He still made me take the MCATs
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and apply to med school anyway.
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- Well, then how did you become a nurse practitioner?
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- The official story is that my MCAT scores weren't
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good enough to get into med school.
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- Oh, no way. Nope, I don't believe that for a second.
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Not the Asha Singh I remember.
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- The truth is I aced the MCATs, obviously.
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- Yeah. - But I told my dad
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I bombed it.
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- What? Asha, why wouldn't you just tell him the truth?
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- It was the only way to get him to accept my choice.
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My parents sacrificed so much coming to this country
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to give my brother and I better life, but I don't know.
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With that came this need to protect us
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and steer our lives for us.
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- And my family's the exact opposite.
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My parents threw me in the deep end
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of the pool when I was five and told me to swim.
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I'm not joking.
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- Wow. - Mm-hmm.
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- So they took sink or swim pretty literally.
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- Sure did. Yep.
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But it turns out fear is actually a pretty good swim coach.
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- My dad was so protective,
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he wouldn't let fear pass the front door of our house.
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- Yeah, well, every family has its quirks.
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But hey, look at us.
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We turned out pretty good, huh?
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- I'm still making up my mind about you.
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- Oh, you are?
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Looks like I got some work to do.
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- How's the wrist feeling?
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- Ah, better.
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After a few of those, were they candy cane martinis?
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- Yes. And they were delicious.
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- Oh, they were. They did the trick.
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- Isn't Christmas just the most magical time of the year?
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- Does your family celebrate Christmas?
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- Are you kidding?
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If Christmas was an Olympic sport,
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my family would take home all the gold.
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- Yeah. Really? - Yeah.
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Well, we're Christians.
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So Christmas is really a big deal in my family.
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- Huh? - You seem surprised.
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- No, it's just, I thought most Indians were Hindu.
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- No, you're right.
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But my dad's family has been Christian
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for gosh, generations, and my mom's side is Hindu,
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but she converted after they got married
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and fell in love with the faith.
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Even my Aji, my grandma,
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and my mom's side, she fully embraced Christmas.
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It became one of her favorite holidays before she passed.
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- That's really beautiful. - What about you?
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Is your family? I dunno, big on Christmas.
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- Yeah.
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Growing up, Christmas was huge in our house.
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My mom went all out,
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but yeah, my parents got a divorce,
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so... - I'm sorry.
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When did that happen?
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- Right after I went away to college. Yeah.
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He told me the first Christmas I came home.
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After that, Christmas just kind of, I don't know,
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lost its magic.
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- Jake. The magic of Christmas is always present.
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Sometimes you just, I don't know, need the right spark
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to bring it back to life.
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- Oh, yeah. The right spark, huh?
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Well, you know, it kind of feels like being here
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with you right now, maybe,
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is that spark?
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- This is me.
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- Let me guess,
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that one is yours.
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- What gave it away?
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- Yes.
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Well, who would've thought
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being stuck working on Christmas would turn into one of the
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best holidays I've had in years?
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- I know.
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I didn't even bother to make a Christmas wish this year.
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- Well, you know,
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the best wishes are ones you don't even realize you made.
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- I should, I should go in. - Yeah. It's late.
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- Thank you for tonight.
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- Thank you. Good night.
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- Good night.
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- Asha? - Yeah.
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- I've been wanting to do that all night.
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- Me too.
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- Hey, what are you doing tomorrow
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and the next day
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and every day for the whole year?
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- Oh, thank you.
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- The peppermint candy cane tart
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from the night we reconnected.
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- Mm-hmm. The very one.
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I remember how much you loved it.
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- It was definitely the best part of that night.
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- Mm-hmm. The best part?
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- Don't worry. You were a close second.
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- All good.
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- So, if you had to pick,
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what would be your favorite moment from this last year?
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- Wow. Okay.
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This one might surprise you,
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but remember that road trip we took up North?
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It was spontaneous.
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We didn't have a destination planned.
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We just drove and drove and drove until we lost
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GPS ran out. - And we ended up
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at that tiny little bed and breakfast
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with the world's worst coffee.
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- The worst. - But the most amazing view.
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- That's what I love about you.
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You can find the joy in anything.
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Happy almost one year anniversary.
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- I cannot wait to see what the future holds for us.
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Happy almost anniversary.
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- Asha Singh,
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you are the single most magical thing that has ever happened
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to me on Christmas or any other day.
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Your laugh is contagious.
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Your heart sees the good in everything.
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Your kindness knows no bounds.
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When I am with you, I feel like I am the luckiest man
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in the world, but more than anything, Asha,
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you make me feel at home.
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Asha, will you marry me?
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- Yes. - Yes?
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- Yes. - Yes!
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Love you. - Love you too.
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- Now that we're engaged, I can't wait
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to finally meet your family over Christmas,
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especially your dad.
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Seems like quite the character.
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- Oh, be careful what you wish for.
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- Are you kidding? I'm great with parents.
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I even got a few dad jokes up my sleeve.
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- Well, as impressive as your pun game is,
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it's gonna take a lot more than that
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to win my dad over, trust me.
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Speaking of which, I can't believe we managed
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to keep it a secret for so long.
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I'm surprised my parents didn't spoil it.
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- Your parents? - Yeah.
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I mean, you asked my dad for permission first. Right?
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- You're joking. - You didn't?
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- No, I didn't,
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I didn't realize that was still a thing.
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Was I supposed to?
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- Oh, well... - Well.
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- Christmas with the Singhs just got
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a whole lot more interesting.
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- I am so sorry, there just doesn't seem
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to be a reservation under that name.
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- No, no.
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Look, it's Jake O'Brien. Okay.
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I have the reservation right here. SUV, sedan, or similar.
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- Sir, I'm sorry, but perhaps you didn't
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confirm it all the way through.
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- I don't even know what that means.
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- Ah, bingo. - Yes.
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- Oh, no, I didn't find your reservation,
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but I did find you a super fun alternative.
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- Great. Wonderful.
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Thank you.
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And Merry Christmas. - Merry Christmas.
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- Okay. Alright.
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Alright.
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- I love you. - I love you.
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Okay. - Yep.
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- Oh, great. Thanks.
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- Okay, we need to have a super organized game plan.
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If we are going to make it to December 26th in one piece.
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This week is jam packed.
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- All right. I'll drop the will just in case
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we don't make it.
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- All right. Ready?
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Today we have lunch with my parents,
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dinner with your dad, and helping out
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at your mom's toy drive.
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Tomorrow, lunch with both sets of parents
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and the Christmas carnival
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and the candlelight service at the church on Christmas Eve.
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And of course, our annual Christmas
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party at Ravi's Restaurant.
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Hey, are you positive your parents are okay with the fact
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that you're spending Christmas with my family this year?
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- Yeah. Yes.
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It's not like I have a childhood home to go back to.
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I didn't hear my mom's Christmas
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pageant on the itinerary.
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- Oh, no. When is that again? - Christmas Eve.
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- We're double booked on Christmas Eve.
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You better start drafting that will now.
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- I'll pull over.
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- Wow. Dad really out did himself this year.
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Isn't this stunning?
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- Stunning is definitely the word.
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- All right, well, this is gonna be great.
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We have nothing to worry about.
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- Yeah, wait, worry? - Nothing.
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Come on. Let's go.
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- Wait, what?
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- Hello!
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- Hello. - Hello, mom.
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You look so beautiful.
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- Oh, thank you.
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I had to dress up to celebrate my dear daughter's arrival
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with her fiance.
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- Mom, this is Jake.
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- Jake, I'm Nirmila.
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Welcome to our home.
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- Mrs. Singh. It's a pleasure to finally meet you.
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- Please come in. Come in.
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- Hi.
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- Hello. - Hi.
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00:20:23,690 --> 00:20:26,459
- It's nice to meet you. Oh, thank you.
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00:20:27,093 --> 00:20:29,062
Oh, oh, okay. Oh, the jacket.
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Nice to meet you. Thank you.
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Nice of you.
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Okay, great. Thank you so much.
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- Mom. What's going on?
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- Well, when I told the rest of the family that my one
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and only daughter is coming home for Christmas
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with her new fiance, they all just had to be here too.
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00:20:50,083 --> 00:20:51,451
Rekha.
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00:20:54,754 --> 00:20:55,955
- What's happening?
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00:20:55,989 --> 00:20:57,724
- It's to keep the evil eye away.
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00:20:57,757 --> 00:20:58,992
- Who's got the evil eye?
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- Hey, Ravi. - The man of the hour.
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00:21:01,528 --> 00:21:02,829
- It's so nice to meet you.
422
00:21:02,862 --> 00:21:03,697
I've heard so much about you.
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00:21:03,730 --> 00:21:05,432
- Ah, same here.
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00:21:05,465 --> 00:21:07,367
Hey, you're about to marry a super special lady.
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00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:08,835
- Don't I know it.
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00:21:08,868 --> 00:21:10,403
- Michael, don't be shy.
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Come say hi. - Hi.
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00:21:11,638 --> 00:21:13,340
- Hi. I'm Sarah. - Hi, Jake.
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00:21:13,373 --> 00:21:15,442
- Nice to meet you.
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00:21:15,475 --> 00:21:18,712
You have no idea how happy I am that you're back.
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00:21:18,745 --> 00:21:21,748
Last year, I had to fend off Aunty Rekha's blessings
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all by myself.
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00:21:23,516 --> 00:21:24,451
- Isn't that one of the perks of becoming a Singh?
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- Merry Christmas, Asha.
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00:21:27,020 --> 00:21:28,655
Oh, I mean, sis.
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00:21:28,688 --> 00:21:30,423
- Oh, is it too early to say Merry Christmas?
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00:21:30,457 --> 00:21:31,825
- No. - Yeah, I don't care.
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00:21:31,858 --> 00:21:33,860
Merry, Merry Christmas. - Merry Christmas.
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00:21:33,893 --> 00:21:34,994
- I'm a fellow in-law here.
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So consider me your guide
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to surviving your first Christmas with the Singhs.
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00:21:39,833 --> 00:21:40,867
- Surviving?
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00:21:42,102 --> 00:21:42,936
Is there something I should be worried about?
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00:21:42,969 --> 00:21:43,937
- Welcome home.
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00:21:45,505 --> 00:21:46,539
- Oh.
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00:21:48,641 --> 00:21:49,943
- Hi, dad.
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00:21:51,177 --> 00:21:52,879
- Did you see the decorations I put outside?
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I did all by myself. Your brother helped a little.
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00:21:56,583 --> 00:21:58,618
- I did. They are stunning.
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00:21:58,651 --> 00:21:59,586
- Stunning.
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Oh, hello, sir. Mr. Singh.
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Or should I say dad?
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- Sir will be just fine.
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- Sir. Mr. Singh, Sir.
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Asha told me
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that you won the community Christmas decorating competition.
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That's great.
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00:22:19,506 --> 00:22:20,874
- The Singhs win every year.
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00:22:20,907 --> 00:22:22,609
- Oh, do they?
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00:22:22,642 --> 00:22:24,511
Well, congratulations on keeping the streak alive.
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- Dad, Jake was really
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excited to meet you finally.
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And Mom.
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- Yes, sir. Very excited.
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If you were so excited, you could have come
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and asked me for my blessing before
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so brazenly proposing to my only daughter.
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00:22:42,529 --> 00:22:44,764
- Oh. - Or,
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were you not that excited? - Dad.
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- No, I was very excited.
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- Is that the car you chose
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to drive my daughter in on these treacherous winter roads?
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- That car?
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No. I mean, yes.
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Yes, but no. I didn't choose.
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00:22:58,778 --> 00:23:01,748
- Oh, so you just took whatever was offered to you?
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00:23:01,781 --> 00:23:03,583
- Huh? - Samuel,
478
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why don't you go check the oven?
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- It's a pleasure meeting you, sir.
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Nice.
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00:23:10,857 --> 00:23:15,095
- Well, that went really well. - Did it?
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- It did. - Oh, okay. It did.
483
00:23:17,897 --> 00:23:20,767
- It did. - Yes.
484
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:22,502
Why don't I show you to your rooms,
485
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and then we can sit and eat.
486
00:23:24,270 --> 00:23:26,473
- Great. Okay.
487
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Let's see here.
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00:23:31,011 --> 00:23:32,512
- Guess what, Maglu,
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we're throwing you both a Nischitartham
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during the Christmas party at Ravi's Restaurant.
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We thought it would be nice to honor Aji and Tata.
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- Thank you so much, mom. That means so much to me.
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- I have a question. What's a nitshi?
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- Nischitartham. - Ah, okay. Nischitartham.
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- It's a Hindu engagement ceremony where both
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of our families come together
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to formally bless our marriage.
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- Huh. That's cool. - Jake,
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I can't wait to meet your parents tomorrow.
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00:24:00,707 --> 00:24:03,143
- They're very excited. - Do they like spicy food?
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00:24:03,176 --> 00:24:05,712
- Ah, well... - Nevermind.
502
00:24:05,745 --> 00:24:08,615
I'll make sure there's less spice.
503
00:24:08,648 --> 00:24:12,719
Oh, it's so nice to have you both for Christmas.
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00:24:16,956 --> 00:24:18,525
Here you go, sweetheart.
505
00:24:23,897 --> 00:24:27,634
- Wow, most parents convert their kids' bedrooms
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into a gym when they leave home.
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Yours made you a shrine.
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00:24:31,805 --> 00:24:35,575
- I wanted a home gym, but Samuel wouldn't hear of it.
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00:24:35,608 --> 00:24:37,644
You know dad. - Yeah.
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- Come on. Let me take you to your room.
511
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- I'm not staying here?
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00:24:43,049 --> 00:24:48,154
- No.
513
00:24:49,122 --> 00:24:51,624
You're not yet married. - Oh.
514
00:24:53,993 --> 00:24:55,261
- Come on. - Yeah. Okay.
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00:24:55,295 --> 00:24:56,629
- Now that's fine. - Yeah. Yeah.
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- Go this way? - Uh huh.
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- See you down- - Bye.
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00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:01,968
- Change fast. - Yeah.
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00:25:04,738 --> 00:25:06,706
- You sure you don't need help?
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00:25:06,740 --> 00:25:09,042
- No, no. I, yeah, I got it.
521
00:25:09,075 --> 00:25:10,143
- Oh, you've got a lot of stuff.
522
00:25:10,176 --> 00:25:13,279
- Mm, yes. Asha's shoes.
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00:25:13,313 --> 00:25:14,714
- Yeah. Oh.
524
00:25:15,248 --> 00:25:18,084
See? Nice and private.
525
00:25:19,786 --> 00:25:22,622
Change fast. Food's ready.
526
00:25:22,655 --> 00:25:23,857
- Oh, okay.
527
00:25:28,061 --> 00:25:29,095
- Hey.
528
00:25:33,366 --> 00:25:35,101
- What's...
529
00:25:35,135 --> 00:25:38,238
- Oh, my mom's side is particularly superstitious,
530
00:25:38,271 --> 00:25:40,607
and upside down shoes are bad luck.
531
00:25:41,274 --> 00:25:42,342
So just don't flip them next time.
532
00:25:42,375 --> 00:25:44,344
- Okay. Got it. - Yeah.
533
00:25:44,377 --> 00:25:46,980
- Hope everyone is hungry.
534
00:25:47,013 --> 00:25:48,782
- That looks amazing.
535
00:25:49,883 --> 00:25:53,953
Mr. Singh, sir, I heard a little rumor that
536
00:25:53,987 --> 00:25:58,358
you tell the Christmas story at church on Christmas Eve.
537
00:25:58,391 --> 00:26:00,026
You've been doing that long?
538
00:26:00,994 --> 00:26:02,028
- Yes.
539
00:26:03,897 --> 00:26:05,732
- My father's been telling the story
540
00:26:05,765 --> 00:26:08,902
to the children of Ashford for 20 years now.
541
00:26:08,935 --> 00:26:11,271
It's a tradition carried on from his father
542
00:26:11,304 --> 00:26:13,139
and his father's father before that.
543
00:26:13,173 --> 00:26:16,242
- Back in India, Sam's family were the only Christian family
544
00:26:16,276 --> 00:26:19,946
on the block, and the only ones who celebrated Christmas.
545
00:26:19,979 --> 00:26:23,316
His father would invite all the neighborhood children over,
546
00:26:23,350 --> 00:26:24,751
hand them candy canes
547
00:26:24,784 --> 00:26:26,753
and read them the Christmas story,
548
00:26:26,786 --> 00:26:29,689
no matter their background or faith.
549
00:26:29,723 --> 00:26:31,858
He believed that the magic
550
00:26:31,891 --> 00:26:34,861
of Christmas belonged to everyone.
551
00:26:34,894 --> 00:26:38,298
When we immigrated in the eighties, Sam wanted
552
00:26:38,331 --> 00:26:40,133
to carry on the tradition here.
553
00:26:40,166 --> 00:26:43,970
- So every year, Asha will spend the entire week-
554
00:26:44,004 --> 00:26:45,438
- Oh gosh. - Stuffing invitations
555
00:26:45,472 --> 00:26:47,707
into every mailbox she could find.
556
00:26:47,741 --> 00:26:49,876
Snow or shine, she was out there,
557
00:26:49,909 --> 00:26:52,212
and it became an Ashford tradition.
558
00:26:52,245 --> 00:26:54,047
- You know, come to think of it.
559
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:57,717
I think we might have gotten one of those invites.
560
00:26:57,751 --> 00:26:59,853
- Yet you never cared enough to come?
561
00:27:00,420 --> 00:27:01,988
- No. No.
562
00:27:02,022 --> 00:27:07,694
It, well, actually, in our family,
563
00:27:08,361 --> 00:27:09,896
on Christmas Eve, we bake cookies.
564
00:27:11,097 --> 00:27:12,966
- Oh, so you're saying cookies are more important.
565
00:27:12,999 --> 00:27:15,435
- Dad, that's not what he's saying.
566
00:27:15,468 --> 00:27:17,203
- No. - Jake,
567
00:27:17,237 --> 00:27:19,439
you haven't even had a bite yet.
568
00:27:19,472 --> 00:27:20,807
How are you with spice?
569
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,810
- Oh, well, not to brag,
570
00:27:23,843 --> 00:27:26,913
but I'm basically immune to spice.
571
00:27:26,946 --> 00:27:29,749
After spending a year with Asha's cooking,
572
00:27:29,783 --> 00:27:31,818
she makes the spicy Tandoori.
573
00:27:31,851 --> 00:27:33,353
And at first I couldn't handle it,
574
00:27:33,386 --> 00:27:35,822
but now it basically tastes like ketchup.
575
00:27:36,923 --> 00:27:38,024
- Ketchup. - Just watch.
576
00:27:38,058 --> 00:27:38,792
I'll show you.
577
00:27:41,161 --> 00:27:43,463
Mm, mm. See, it's delicious.
578
00:27:43,496 --> 00:27:45,198
Not even a tingle.
579
00:27:45,231 --> 00:27:47,367
- That is child's play.
580
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,135
Want to try some real heat?
581
00:27:49,769 --> 00:27:51,338
- Hmm? - Yeah.
582
00:27:51,371 --> 00:27:52,405
- Dad? No.
583
00:27:52,439 --> 00:27:53,406
- Yeah. Come on.
584
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:54,808
Try your chicken, come.
585
00:27:55,775 --> 00:27:56,843
- Oh. - Jake, no.
586
00:27:56,876 --> 00:27:57,844
- No no no. It's okay.
587
00:27:57,877 --> 00:27:58,945
I've had your Tandoori.
588
00:27:59,879 --> 00:28:01,748
I'm just gonna have one of these.
589
00:28:01,781 --> 00:28:03,850
Okay. - Good. Good.
590
00:28:03,883 --> 00:28:07,287
- All right.
591
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:12,092
Mm, mm-hmm!
592
00:28:12,125 --> 00:28:13,259
- Are you okay?
593
00:28:13,293 --> 00:28:15,895
- Yes, um... - Are you sure?
594
00:28:18,098 --> 00:28:19,766
- I'm fine.
595
00:28:22,068 --> 00:28:23,536
It's warm in here?
596
00:28:23,570 --> 00:28:28,775
It feels a little toasty. It's delicious, though.
597
00:28:29,943 --> 00:28:31,945
Now that heat's starting to kick in, kick in a bit,
598
00:28:31,978 --> 00:28:33,880
but it's thing I can...
599
00:28:35,448 --> 00:28:36,416
You know what, I'm just gonna have some-
600
00:28:36,449 --> 00:28:37,917
- No no no no no!
601
00:28:40,387 --> 00:28:42,455
- How did that make it spicier?
602
00:28:42,489 --> 00:28:46,993
Oh, oh, oh...
603
00:28:56,169 --> 00:28:58,038
- Ma. - What?
604
00:28:58,071 --> 00:29:02,008
- Is it just me, or is dad being particularly hard on Jake?
605
00:29:03,043 --> 00:29:05,211
- Oh, don't worry about it, sweetie.
606
00:29:05,979 --> 00:29:07,914
He just needs to feel that-
607
00:29:07,947 --> 00:29:09,516
- He's good enough for my Asha.
608
00:29:09,549 --> 00:29:15,021
- Ah, he is, he's amazing. And I promise you'll see it too.
609
00:29:16,022 --> 00:29:17,957
Just please try to give him a chance.
610
00:29:17,991 --> 00:29:22,128
- Well, Christmas is the season for miracles, I suppose.
611
00:29:34,541 --> 00:29:37,077
- Dad.
612
00:29:37,110 --> 00:29:42,282
- Oh, come in. Come in.
613
00:29:45,618 --> 00:29:48,855
- Dad. This is Asha.
614
00:29:48,888 --> 00:29:50,357
- So nice to meet you, Asha.
615
00:29:50,390 --> 00:29:52,892
- It's so great to finally meet you. Mr. O'Brien.
616
00:29:52,926 --> 00:29:55,929
- Call me Jake. Mr. O'Brien was my dad.
617
00:29:56,996 --> 00:29:59,366
- If it's okay with you, sir, I would love
618
00:29:59,399 --> 00:30:00,867
to stick to Mr. O'Brien.
619
00:30:00,900 --> 00:30:05,171
Jake might just get a little confusing
620
00:30:05,205 --> 00:30:06,906
and awkward.
621
00:30:06,940 --> 00:30:09,009
- Yeah. - Let me just take my-
622
00:30:09,042 --> 00:30:11,478
- Oh, no, no, no. Leave 'em on.
623
00:30:11,511 --> 00:30:13,279
- Oh, no, no. It's okay.
624
00:30:13,313 --> 00:30:15,515
I don't, I really don't mind. I'm used to it.
625
00:30:15,548 --> 00:30:18,284
- Leave 'em on. - Leave 'em on.
626
00:30:18,318 --> 00:30:19,652
- Yes.
627
00:30:19,686 --> 00:30:22,322
- Are you sure- - It's fine.
628
00:30:24,190 --> 00:30:26,292
- Shoes in the house. Okay, shoes in.
629
00:30:31,097 --> 00:30:34,000
- Thank you. Sorry I didn't whip up anything homemade.
630
00:30:34,034 --> 00:30:35,268
- Oh, don't worry about it.
631
00:30:35,301 --> 00:30:37,270
This Kung Pao chicken is fantastic.
632
00:30:37,303 --> 00:30:39,005
- That's our favorite dish. - From our favorite place.
633
00:30:39,039 --> 00:30:42,108
- The Golden Dragon.
634
00:30:42,142 --> 00:30:45,145
- Yeah, I guess getting takeout from here
635
00:30:45,178 --> 00:30:47,080
is kind of becoming a little Christmas tradition, hasn't it?
636
00:30:47,113 --> 00:30:48,048
- Yeah.
637
00:30:49,082 --> 00:30:51,051
- I like what you've done with the place. Yeah.
638
00:30:51,084 --> 00:30:53,920
It's looking a little more festive than usual.
639
00:30:53,953 --> 00:30:55,455
- Nothing can compete
640
00:30:55,488 --> 00:30:58,124
with your mother's holiday spirit, that's for sure.
641
00:30:59,459 --> 00:31:03,029
So Asha, Jake tells me you're an ER nurse practitioner.
642
00:31:03,063 --> 00:31:05,699
I hear the hours are pretty brutal.
643
00:31:05,732 --> 00:31:08,468
- Yeah, definitely. Shifts are 12 hours minimum.
644
00:31:08,501 --> 00:31:10,937
And overtime is common.
645
00:31:10,970 --> 00:31:12,072
- Yeah, well, it was a good thing
646
00:31:12,105 --> 00:31:13,440
you're working last Christmas,
647
00:31:13,473 --> 00:31:15,275
otherwise we might never have reconnected.
648
00:31:15,308 --> 00:31:17,477
- Yeah. So what's the plan when you two have kids?
649
00:31:19,245 --> 00:31:21,181
- I'm sorry, kids? - Mr. O'Brien,
650
00:31:21,214 --> 00:31:24,184
I still think that's a ways away.
651
00:31:24,217 --> 00:31:27,420
- Sure, but with all of Jake's travel for work
652
00:31:27,454 --> 00:31:29,723
and you're demanding schedule, who's gonna stay home
653
00:31:29,756 --> 00:31:31,391
and take care of the kids?
654
00:31:31,424 --> 00:31:32,492
- Oh, I don't think either one of us needs
655
00:31:32,525 --> 00:31:34,027
to sacrifice our-
656
00:31:34,060 --> 00:31:36,129
- But you do want to have kids, right?
657
00:31:36,162 --> 00:31:38,365
- Yes. Yes, of course.
658
00:31:38,398 --> 00:31:39,532
Lots of kids.
659
00:31:39,566 --> 00:31:41,468
- Lots? - Yeah.
660
00:31:41,501 --> 00:31:44,304
Lots of lots of kids.
661
00:31:45,405 --> 00:31:47,707
Growing up, I was an only child at home.
662
00:31:47,741 --> 00:31:49,476
Sometimes it got a little lonely.
663
00:31:49,509 --> 00:31:52,045
- Lonely, you weren't up all night with aunts and kids.
664
00:31:52,078 --> 00:31:53,213
- I can take time.
665
00:31:53,246 --> 00:31:55,048
- I'm at the hospital every day.
666
00:31:55,081 --> 00:31:56,316
- Think about when they're older.
667
00:31:56,349 --> 00:31:57,550
They'll have someone to play with.
668
00:31:58,418 --> 00:32:00,687
- My mom's calling me.
669
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:01,988
- Yeah. Okay.
670
00:32:02,022 --> 00:32:03,390
You know what?
671
00:32:03,423 --> 00:32:05,592
How about we just put a pin in all this
672
00:32:05,625 --> 00:32:07,193
and we'll circle back?
673
00:32:07,227 --> 00:32:09,329
- Yeah. Okay. - Yes. Okay.
674
00:32:11,664 --> 00:32:12,832
- Hi mom.
675
00:32:20,140 --> 00:32:22,475
- Dad. What was that about?
676
00:32:22,509 --> 00:32:27,547
- Asha's a wonderful girl. Smart, warm, lighthearted.
677
00:32:27,580 --> 00:32:29,115
She's the whole package.
678
00:32:29,149 --> 00:32:31,217
- Yeah. Well, good.
679
00:32:32,285 --> 00:32:34,154
Thank you. That means, that means a lot.
680
00:32:34,187 --> 00:32:37,023
But hey, can we lay off the life choice
681
00:32:37,057 --> 00:32:38,792
interrogation for a minute?
682
00:32:38,825 --> 00:32:43,096
Alright? And yes, she is.
683
00:32:43,129 --> 00:32:44,431
She is amazing.
684
00:32:44,464 --> 00:32:47,267
- So you are sure about getting married.
685
00:32:47,300 --> 00:32:49,569
- You just told me you liked her.
686
00:32:49,602 --> 00:32:51,204
- I do like her, Jake.
687
00:32:52,072 --> 00:32:53,373
I just wanna make sure you both
688
00:32:53,406 --> 00:32:55,408
have really thought this through.
689
00:32:55,442 --> 00:32:58,311
I mean, you haven't even settled on
690
00:32:58,345 --> 00:32:59,579
how many kids you're gonna have.
691
00:32:59,612 --> 00:33:01,314
Right? - Okay. Okay.
692
00:33:01,348 --> 00:33:03,116
So there are a few things we need
693
00:33:03,149 --> 00:33:05,285
to sort out, but dad, we just got engaged.
694
00:33:05,318 --> 00:33:07,520
- I just don't want you to repeat the mistakes
695
00:33:07,554 --> 00:33:09,289
that your mother and I made.
696
00:33:10,390 --> 00:33:13,827
We loved each other, but balancing our careers
697
00:33:13,860 --> 00:33:17,397
and raising a family, it wasn't easy.
698
00:33:18,798 --> 00:33:21,468
And I just don't want that for you and Asha.
699
00:33:22,769 --> 00:33:25,305
- I'm sorry things didn't work out between you and mom,
700
00:33:25,338 --> 00:33:30,210
but you need to understand that is not going to be us, okay?
701
00:33:30,243 --> 00:33:32,312
I appreciate your concern, but Dad,
702
00:33:33,380 --> 00:33:35,115
can you just be happy for us?
703
00:33:41,755 --> 00:33:43,256
- Ta-dah!
704
00:33:45,191 --> 00:33:46,760
Oh, you guys give it a try.
705
00:33:46,793 --> 00:33:51,264
I've got some very important visitors I wanna attend to.
706
00:33:52,132 --> 00:33:54,234
- Merry Christmas, Mom.
707
00:33:54,267 --> 00:33:55,468
Oh, so good to see you.
708
00:33:55,502 --> 00:33:57,504
Good to see you. - Mom. This is Asha.
709
00:33:57,537 --> 00:34:01,107
- Oh, such a pleasure to meet my soon to be Daughter-in-Law.
710
00:34:01,141 --> 00:34:02,642
- It's wonderful to meet you as well, Mrs. O'Brien.
711
00:34:02,676 --> 00:34:04,344
- Oh, please call me Mom.
712
00:34:05,278 --> 00:34:07,247
Well, we're gonna be family soon.
713
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:10,350
- Oh, yeah. Okay, mom.
714
00:34:10,383 --> 00:34:12,786
- Oh, you know, I've seen "Eat, Pray, Love,"
715
00:34:12,819 --> 00:34:14,888
I don't know, 30 times now.
716
00:34:14,921 --> 00:34:16,322
It's my favorite movie.
717
00:34:16,356 --> 00:34:18,558
I just know I'd love India.
718
00:34:18,591 --> 00:34:22,562
- Mom. The Christmas festival looks incredible this year.
719
00:34:22,595 --> 00:34:24,531
- Wait till you see the Christmas pageant.
720
00:34:24,564 --> 00:34:26,533
- Mom's the organizer of the whole Christmas festival.
721
00:34:26,566 --> 00:34:29,803
So the Christmas pageant, all of this. That's all her.
722
00:34:29,836 --> 00:34:31,237
- Oh, well...
723
00:34:32,439 --> 00:34:33,540
- I mean, I thought my family was into Christmas,
724
00:34:33,573 --> 00:34:35,141
but seeing all this,
725
00:34:35,175 --> 00:34:36,509
you could give them a run for their money.
726
00:34:36,543 --> 00:34:38,578
- Well, once Jake went off to college,
727
00:34:38,611 --> 00:34:41,281
I had all this extra holiday spirit to share.
728
00:34:41,314 --> 00:34:44,584
So I poured it all into the Winter Festival,
729
00:34:44,617 --> 00:34:47,587
and now I get to share that holiday energy
730
00:34:47,620 --> 00:34:49,222
with the whole community.
731
00:34:49,255 --> 00:34:50,423
- That's really beautiful.
732
00:34:50,457 --> 00:34:51,891
- Oh, everyone.
733
00:34:51,925 --> 00:34:54,828
This is Asha, my future daughter-in-Law.
734
00:34:54,861 --> 00:34:56,529
- Hi.
735
00:34:56,563 --> 00:34:58,732
- So are you two ready to wrap some presents?
736
00:34:58,765 --> 00:35:01,568
- Yes. Consider us your honorary elves for the day.
737
00:35:01,601 --> 00:35:03,937
- Well then let's get started. - Okay.
738
00:35:10,443 --> 00:35:12,278
- Thank you both for helping out today.
739
00:35:12,312 --> 00:35:13,613
- Well, we loved being a part of it.
740
00:35:13,646 --> 00:35:15,615
Thank you for inviting us.
741
00:35:15,648 --> 00:35:16,750
- Oh, you are welcome.
742
00:35:16,783 --> 00:35:18,852
Listen, Asha, I'm so excited
743
00:35:18,885 --> 00:35:20,387
to meet your family tomorrow.
744
00:35:20,420 --> 00:35:21,888
Is there anything I can bring?
745
00:35:21,921 --> 00:35:23,957
- Oh, no, nothing. Just your appetite.
746
00:35:23,990 --> 00:35:25,492
I hope you like Indian food.
747
00:35:25,525 --> 00:35:27,761
- Oh, I love it. It's my favorite food.
748
00:35:29,262 --> 00:35:31,331
- Great. We will see you tomorrow.
749
00:35:31,364 --> 00:35:32,532
- See you tomorrow. - Bye guys.
750
00:35:32,565 --> 00:35:34,501
- Come on. Let's get out of here.
751
00:35:40,573 --> 00:35:41,675
- Hey, Jake.
752
00:35:42,976 --> 00:35:44,844
- Ah, Ethan, Laura, what are you guys doing here?
753
00:35:44,878 --> 00:35:46,379
- Just came to check out
754
00:35:46,413 --> 00:35:47,647
what your mom had cooking this year.
755
00:35:47,681 --> 00:35:49,249
Merry Christmas, man.
756
00:35:49,282 --> 00:35:50,717
We're bummed that you couldn't make it out
757
00:35:50,750 --> 00:35:52,318
for drinks the other night,
758
00:35:52,352 --> 00:35:53,353
but I'm glad we could run into you here.
759
00:35:53,386 --> 00:35:54,354
- Yeah, merry Christmas.
760
00:35:54,387 --> 00:35:55,655
Wow. You're pregnant!
761
00:35:55,689 --> 00:35:57,390
Congratulations!
762
00:35:57,424 --> 00:35:59,793
Asha, this is Ethan and Laura.
763
00:35:59,826 --> 00:36:01,394
You remember from high school?
764
00:36:01,428 --> 00:36:02,829
- You mean the homecoming king and queen?
765
00:36:02,862 --> 00:36:04,497
How could I forget?
766
00:36:04,531 --> 00:36:06,433
- Asha, it's so nice to finally meet you.
767
00:36:08,268 --> 00:36:10,704
- We had AP English together.
768
00:36:12,038 --> 00:36:13,506
- Did we?
769
00:36:13,540 --> 00:36:14,808
- Oh, no.
770
00:36:14,841 --> 00:36:16,409
It's okay. It's okay.
771
00:36:16,443 --> 00:36:18,611
I wasn't as memorable as you in high school.
772
00:36:18,645 --> 00:36:19,679
- Oh, no, no, no.
773
00:36:19,713 --> 00:36:20,880
It's my pregnancy brain.
774
00:36:20,914 --> 00:36:22,549
I can barely even remember
775
00:36:22,582 --> 00:36:24,584
what I had for breakfast this morning.
776
00:36:24,617 --> 00:36:26,252
- I still can't get over the fact
777
00:36:26,286 --> 00:36:27,787
that you two ended up together.
778
00:36:27,821 --> 00:36:29,656
- Why? - Well,
779
00:36:29,689 --> 00:36:32,559
because you guys were just so different in high school.
780
00:36:32,592 --> 00:36:34,394
Asha, weren't you the Mathletes captain?
781
00:36:34,427 --> 00:36:39,332
- Yes, I was. I won the state title too.
782
00:36:39,866 --> 00:36:41,301
- Wow. - Well,
783
00:36:41,334 --> 00:36:42,769
you have that in common with Jake.
784
00:36:42,802 --> 00:36:45,438
- That's right. Just two state champs over here.
785
00:36:47,340 --> 00:36:49,609
- Well, it was lovely to bump into the both of you.
786
00:36:49,642 --> 00:36:51,544
Jake, give me a call if you want to do a proper catch up.
787
00:36:51,578 --> 00:36:52,746
- Yeah, absolutely. All right.
788
00:36:52,779 --> 00:36:54,614
You guys have a good one.
789
00:36:54,647 --> 00:36:56,316
- See ya.
790
00:36:56,349 --> 00:37:00,020
- Day one of Holiday madness in the books.
791
00:37:00,053 --> 00:37:02,756
How do you think it went, babe?
792
00:37:05,025 --> 00:37:07,460
- Fine. - I mean,
793
00:37:07,494 --> 00:37:09,029
I almost died by spice,
794
00:37:09,062 --> 00:37:12,599
but other than that, I think it went all right.
795
00:37:12,632 --> 00:37:14,401
- I heard your dad ask you if you're sure
796
00:37:14,434 --> 00:37:15,935
about us getting married.
797
00:37:15,969 --> 00:37:20,006
- Okay, but before he said that,
798
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:23,009
he said how wonderful you are
799
00:37:23,043 --> 00:37:25,478
and how lucky I am to have met you.
800
00:37:25,512 --> 00:37:27,614
- But he still expressed concerns to you, right?
801
00:37:27,647 --> 00:37:30,650
- Yeah. Yeah, but not about you, okay?
802
00:37:31,785 --> 00:37:33,520
He's just skeptical about marriage in general.
803
00:37:33,553 --> 00:37:36,723
- Okay. 'cause I really want him to like me.
804
00:37:36,756 --> 00:37:38,391
- He does like you.
805
00:37:38,892 --> 00:37:40,060
All right?
806
00:37:40,093 --> 00:37:41,995
Now your dad, on the other hand.
807
00:37:43,463 --> 00:37:46,433
- Yeah, I know. I am sorry.
808
00:37:46,466 --> 00:37:49,936
My dad can be a bit much.
809
00:37:49,969 --> 00:37:51,805
- That's one way to put it.
810
00:37:53,139 --> 00:37:56,009
Surprised he hasn't challenged me to a duel yet.
811
00:37:57,410 --> 00:37:59,412
- He'll warm up to you eventually.
812
00:38:00,613 --> 00:38:04,651
My dad is like a car defrosting on a winter morning,
813
00:38:04,684 --> 00:38:06,986
and the ice, it will melt.
814
00:38:07,020 --> 00:38:08,922
Just needs some time.
815
00:38:08,955 --> 00:38:11,491
- Wow. That's poetic.
816
00:38:12,559 --> 00:38:15,528
Hey, once our parents meet,
817
00:38:15,562 --> 00:38:18,531
see how happy we are with each other,
818
00:38:18,565 --> 00:38:21,468
it's just gonna be a love fest all around, okay?
819
00:38:21,968 --> 00:38:23,103
That, or we elope.
820
00:38:23,136 --> 00:38:24,571
- Elope? - Mm-hmm.
821
00:38:25,572 --> 00:38:27,407
- My dad will actually challenge you
822
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:28,942
to a duel if we do that.
823
00:38:28,975 --> 00:38:33,646
- Oh, really? Well, en garde, Mr. Singh, en garde.
824
00:38:57,437 --> 00:38:58,972
- Have you seen Jake?
825
00:38:59,005 --> 00:39:01,741
- Yes. He's beautiful. - No, seriously. Where is he?
826
00:39:02,609 --> 00:39:05,111
- He's fine. - Ravi, where is he?
827
00:39:05,145 --> 00:39:08,615
- You know the lights on the roof that are flickering?
828
00:39:08,648 --> 00:39:10,550
Dad asked for help with those.
829
00:39:12,552 --> 00:39:13,687
- All the way up there, huh?
830
00:39:13,720 --> 00:39:15,588
- Yeah, up the ladder. - Okay.
831
00:39:15,622 --> 00:39:17,090
- We have to check each one to see which one is out.
832
00:39:17,123 --> 00:39:19,592
- Yeah, it's a good thing I'm not afraid of heights.
833
00:39:19,626 --> 00:39:21,628
- Are you afraid of heights, Jake?
834
00:39:21,661 --> 00:39:22,696
- No.
835
00:39:23,630 --> 00:39:28,034
Listen, sir, I just wanted to apologize.
836
00:39:28,068 --> 00:39:29,536
Oh, I'm still alive.
837
00:39:29,569 --> 00:39:30,870
For not thinking
838
00:39:30,904 --> 00:39:32,038
to ask your permission for Asha's hand.
839
00:39:32,072 --> 00:39:33,440
It was an oversight,
840
00:39:33,473 --> 00:39:34,607
And it will not happen again.
841
00:39:34,641 --> 00:39:36,643
- What's done is done.
842
00:39:36,676 --> 00:39:38,478
I mean, I know you kids think it's a antiquated tradition,
843
00:39:38,511 --> 00:39:40,547
but it's a matter of respect.
844
00:39:40,580 --> 00:39:42,082
Yeah, green one, twist it.
845
00:39:42,115 --> 00:39:43,516
- Ah, I got it.
846
00:39:43,550 --> 00:39:44,918
- You know, Asha's last boyfriend
847
00:39:44,951 --> 00:39:46,486
at least had the courtesy to ask me first.
848
00:39:46,519 --> 00:39:48,655
- Wait, what?
849
00:39:51,024 --> 00:39:52,659
- Jake? Jake!
850
00:39:52,692 --> 00:39:54,828
Dad, what happened? Jake, are you okay?
851
00:39:54,861 --> 00:39:57,163
- Jake, you have to be more careful.
852
00:39:57,197 --> 00:39:59,899
We need you in one piece for Christmas.
853
00:39:59,933 --> 00:40:01,201
- Dad.
854
00:40:01,234 --> 00:40:02,769
What were you doing on that ladder?
855
00:40:02,802 --> 00:40:04,070
- What was I doing? What were you doing?
856
00:40:04,104 --> 00:40:05,538
Not telling me you were engaged.
857
00:40:05,572 --> 00:40:07,073
- I was not engaged.
858
00:40:09,042 --> 00:40:12,012
Look, he asked my dad for permission, and my dad said yes,
859
00:40:12,045 --> 00:40:13,613
but I said no.
860
00:40:14,547 --> 00:40:18,551
- Oh, wow. That's better.
861
00:40:20,020 --> 00:40:21,654
- He's a family friend.
862
00:40:21,688 --> 00:40:24,691
And my dad really liked the idea of us together,
863
00:40:24,724 --> 00:40:26,926
but he never really felt like the one.
864
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:30,930
And when we reconnected, I knew I made the right decision.
865
00:40:34,100 --> 00:40:35,101
- I love that.
866
00:40:37,103 --> 00:40:38,638
How'd it make your dad feel?
867
00:40:38,672 --> 00:40:40,106
- He wasn't thrilled.
868
00:40:40,974 --> 00:40:42,609
- Oh, surprise, surprise.
869
00:40:43,243 --> 00:40:44,711
- But at the end of the day,
870
00:40:44,744 --> 00:40:46,246
it's my permission that matters, right?
871
00:40:46,279 --> 00:40:47,947
- Yeah, it is.
872
00:40:47,981 --> 00:40:51,151
So why didn't you tell me this before?
873
00:40:53,119 --> 00:40:55,155
- I'm sorry. I should have.
874
00:40:57,724 --> 00:40:59,826
I was just afraid of upsetting you.
875
00:40:59,859 --> 00:41:01,194
- Asha, come on.
876
00:41:02,762 --> 00:41:04,597
I want you feeling comfortable telling me anything,
877
00:41:04,631 --> 00:41:07,534
even the hard truths, okay?
878
00:41:07,567 --> 00:41:11,071
So from now on, promise, no more secrets.
879
00:41:12,739 --> 00:41:14,140
I don't think my body can take another fall off a ladder.
880
00:41:15,141 --> 00:41:16,776
- Oh, gosh.
881
00:41:16,810 --> 00:41:19,546
Okay, I promise. No more secrets.
882
00:41:19,579 --> 00:41:20,880
- No more secrets.
883
00:41:22,849 --> 00:41:24,117
Wait, what?
884
00:41:24,150 --> 00:41:25,685
- Hmm? - Hmm?
885
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:27,721
What? What was that?
886
00:41:27,754 --> 00:41:31,925
- Okay, fine. In the interest of being honest.
887
00:41:31,958 --> 00:41:33,593
- Yes. - You know
888
00:41:33,626 --> 00:41:34,327
that spicy tandoori I've been making for you?
889
00:41:34,361 --> 00:41:35,895
- Delicious.
890
00:41:35,929 --> 00:41:37,564
- It's actually totally mild.
891
00:41:37,597 --> 00:41:39,165
- What?
892
00:41:39,199 --> 00:41:40,600
- I've been adding ketchup to cut down on the spice.
893
00:41:40,633 --> 00:41:42,802
- Asha Singh, you little sneak.
894
00:41:43,870 --> 00:41:45,038
That's why we keep running out of ketchup.
895
00:41:45,071 --> 00:41:46,706
- Sorry.
896
00:41:46,740 --> 00:41:49,209
- You're in so much trouble.
897
00:41:57,183 --> 00:41:59,853
- I love you. - I love you too.
898
00:42:12,065 --> 00:42:13,800
- Oh. - Molly.
899
00:42:13,833 --> 00:42:16,102
Here. - Oh, thank you.
900
00:42:17,270 --> 00:42:18,838
Thanks.
901
00:42:18,872 --> 00:42:20,674
Hold on. I've got a- - You need a hand?
902
00:42:20,707 --> 00:42:22,909
- No, I got fruit cake. It's okay.
903
00:42:25,645 --> 00:42:26,980
Getting heavier.
904
00:42:28,048 --> 00:42:30,717
It must be more nuts or something. Whoa.
905
00:42:31,718 --> 00:42:33,253
- Looks like you finally found your match
906
00:42:33,286 --> 00:42:35,355
in Christmas spirit.
907
00:42:35,388 --> 00:42:37,123
- Yeah. Looks like I have.
908
00:42:40,727 --> 00:42:41,828
- They're here early.
909
00:42:41,861 --> 00:42:42,962
- Mom. They're right on time.
910
00:42:42,996 --> 00:42:44,664
Not everyone operates on IST.
911
00:42:44,698 --> 00:42:45,799
- What's IST?
912
00:42:45,832 --> 00:42:47,033
- It's Indian Standard Time.
913
00:42:47,067 --> 00:42:49,302
Everyone's always 30 minutes late.
914
00:42:49,336 --> 00:42:50,737
Okay.
915
00:42:52,305 --> 00:42:53,873
- Hello. - Hello.
916
00:42:53,907 --> 00:42:55,308
Welcome to our home.
917
00:42:55,342 --> 00:42:57,344
- Thank you. - Thanks for having us.
918
00:42:57,377 --> 00:42:58,878
- Hi. - Mom.
919
00:42:58,912 --> 00:43:00,413
What are you wearing?
920
00:43:00,447 --> 00:43:02,916
- Oh, well, I wanted to show Asha's family
921
00:43:02,949 --> 00:43:04,884
that I appreciate their culture.
922
00:43:06,052 --> 00:43:08,254
- Oh, that's, that's nice. - You look so beautiful.
923
00:43:08,288 --> 00:43:09,923
- Well, thank you.
924
00:43:09,956 --> 00:43:12,692
- Please, come on in.
925
00:43:12,726 --> 00:43:13,860
- Oh...
926
00:43:15,328 --> 00:43:16,963
- It's for good luck.
927
00:43:16,996 --> 00:43:19,099
- Well, you can never have too much of that.
928
00:43:21,201 --> 00:43:23,403
Please. I'm Molly.
929
00:43:23,436 --> 00:43:25,772
I brought you fruit cake.
930
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,174
- Oh, thank you.
931
00:43:28,208 --> 00:43:30,076
I'm Nirmila.
932
00:43:30,977 --> 00:43:32,345
- Namala.
933
00:43:32,379 --> 00:43:33,346
- Hmm...
934
00:43:34,147 --> 00:43:35,348
Nirmila.
935
00:43:35,382 --> 00:43:36,983
- Yeah, Narmala!
936
00:43:37,017 --> 00:43:39,352
- That's close enough.
937
00:43:39,386 --> 00:43:41,121
Please.
938
00:43:41,154 --> 00:43:43,757
Oh, would you be more comfortable with your shoes off?
939
00:43:43,790 --> 00:43:45,458
- No. - We're good. Thanks.
940
00:43:45,492 --> 00:43:47,027
- We have slippers. - No, I'm good.
941
00:43:47,060 --> 00:43:48,695
- I am so sorry.
942
00:43:48,728 --> 00:43:50,830
I didn't realize we were going to start on time.
943
00:43:52,732 --> 00:43:57,337
- Mr. Singh. Sir, this is my mom.
944
00:43:57,370 --> 00:43:59,939
- Hi, I'm Molly. - Molly, Samuel.
945
00:43:59,973 --> 00:44:02,308
- And this is my dad.
946
00:44:02,342 --> 00:44:04,444
- Jake. - Jake, Samuel.
947
00:44:04,477 --> 00:44:05,779
Nice to meet you.
948
00:44:05,812 --> 00:44:08,214
Well, please come, come in.
949
00:44:08,248 --> 00:44:09,215
- Okay.
950
00:44:10,483 --> 00:44:11,885
- Hello.
951
00:44:14,154 --> 00:44:15,121
- Sorry.
952
00:44:19,893 --> 00:44:22,128
- I just love Indian food.
953
00:44:22,162 --> 00:44:24,197
- I'm so glad you're enjoying it.
954
00:44:25,031 --> 00:44:25,832
- Yes. Hope it's not too spicy.
955
00:44:25,865 --> 00:44:27,133
Hey, Jake.
956
00:44:27,167 --> 00:44:28,902
- I'm sticking to the rice. Yeah.
957
00:44:28,935 --> 00:44:30,770
- Please help yourself to seconds.
958
00:44:30,804 --> 00:44:32,305
- Don't have to twist my arm.
959
00:44:32,339 --> 00:44:36,242
- Samuel, your Christmas decorations are just incredible.
960
00:44:36,276 --> 00:44:39,145
- Ah, it's just a little holiday amusement for the children.
961
00:44:39,179 --> 00:44:42,282
- Now, now, mom, Mr. Singh is being modest.
962
00:44:42,315 --> 00:44:45,352
He's won the Ashford Community Christmas competition for,
963
00:44:45,385 --> 00:44:46,953
how many years now?
964
00:44:46,986 --> 00:44:49,856
- Oh, I don't keep track of these things.
965
00:44:49,889 --> 00:44:51,524
15 years.
966
00:44:51,558 --> 00:44:53,960
- Molly, didn't you win a few of those back in the day?
967
00:44:53,993 --> 00:44:56,329
- Oh God. Who can remember, Jake?
968
00:44:56,363 --> 00:45:01,067
But well, yes, I did sweep the early 2000s.
969
00:45:01,101 --> 00:45:06,339
- Wait a minute, are you Margaret O'Brien?
970
00:45:06,973 --> 00:45:07,974
- Oh yeah, mm-hmm.
971
00:45:08,008 --> 00:45:09,776
I prefer Molly now,
972
00:45:09,809 --> 00:45:13,279
but I haven't been Margaret O'Brien in years.
973
00:45:13,313 --> 00:45:15,148
- Am I missing something?
974
00:45:15,181 --> 00:45:18,184
- For years, dad would come in second to a Margaret O'Brien.
975
00:45:18,218 --> 00:45:21,388
I can't believe we're only connecting the dots now.
976
00:45:21,421 --> 00:45:24,991
- Well, I'm happy to see you carried on the torch, Samuel.
977
00:45:25,025 --> 00:45:26,793
These days, I channel all
978
00:45:26,826 --> 00:45:29,863
of my holiday spirit into the Winter festival.
979
00:45:29,896 --> 00:45:33,099
It's amazing what you can do with a bigger canvas.
980
00:45:33,133 --> 00:45:35,301
- Well, dad, you can see some
981
00:45:35,335 --> 00:45:38,038
of Molly's work tonight at the Christmas carnival.
982
00:45:38,071 --> 00:45:39,939
- Oh, I can't wait.
983
00:45:40,907 --> 00:45:43,243
- Jake, Molly, we were thinking,
984
00:45:43,276 --> 00:45:47,881
and we'd love to throw the kids an engagement party.
985
00:45:47,914 --> 00:45:50,250
- Oh, you read my mind, Normal.
986
00:45:50,283 --> 00:45:53,953
In fact, I put a hold on the community center for
987
00:45:53,987 --> 00:45:55,455
that exact purpose.
988
00:45:55,488 --> 00:45:56,956
- That will not be necessary.
989
00:45:56,990 --> 00:45:58,591
We've already booked Ravi's restaurant.
990
00:45:58,625 --> 00:46:00,427
It's where we hold our annual Christmas party.
991
00:46:00,460 --> 00:46:04,030
- You went ahead and booked a venue without consulting us?
992
00:46:04,064 --> 00:46:06,166
- Isn't that what you just did as well?
993
00:46:06,199 --> 00:46:08,568
- Molly, we appreciate your initiative,
994
00:46:08,601 --> 00:46:10,370
but we were hoping
995
00:46:10,403 --> 00:46:13,573
to have an engagement ceremony called Nischitartham,
996
00:46:13,606 --> 00:46:16,176
that's deeply meaningful to our family.
997
00:46:16,209 --> 00:46:20,146
- Oh, that's very nice. But this is too sudden.
998
00:46:21,514 --> 00:46:25,185
- Christmas is so soon and we, we have no time to prepare.
999
00:46:25,218 --> 00:46:26,920
- We've got everything under control.
1000
00:46:26,953 --> 00:46:28,922
All all you have to do is show up.
1001
00:46:28,955 --> 00:46:30,523
- Then what's the rush?
1002
00:46:30,557 --> 00:46:32,325
- Well, had your son taken the proper steps to discuss
1003
00:46:32,359 --> 00:46:34,227
with us his intention to propose,
1004
00:46:34,260 --> 00:46:36,596
rather than just impulsively popping the question,
1005
00:46:36,629 --> 00:46:39,466
we would not be scrambling now to prepare for an event
1006
00:46:39,499 --> 00:46:41,201
befitting of this milestone.
1007
00:46:41,234 --> 00:46:42,602
- Dad.
1008
00:46:42,635 --> 00:46:44,170
- So, how about them Coyotes, huh?
1009
00:46:44,204 --> 00:46:45,905
Who else here loves basketball?
1010
00:46:45,939 --> 00:46:48,475
- Yeah, basketball. - Oh, I love basketball.
1011
00:46:48,508 --> 00:46:51,945
But nothing beats the beauty of a baseball game.
1012
00:46:51,978 --> 00:46:54,014
- Yes, baseball. - Baseball is but
1013
00:46:54,047 --> 00:46:56,549
a cheap imitation of the true sport Cricket.
1014
00:46:56,583 --> 00:46:58,284
- You're kidding, right?
1015
00:46:58,318 --> 00:46:59,486
- Cricket's been around since the end
1016
00:46:59,519 --> 00:47:01,087
of the 16th century.
1017
00:47:01,121 --> 00:47:03,156
- And it should have stayed there.
1018
00:47:06,192 --> 00:47:08,094
- Who's ready for some carols?
1019
00:47:08,128 --> 00:47:10,497
- Yeah. Let's, yeah- - Let's go sing.
1020
00:47:10,530 --> 00:47:11,531
- Sure.
1021
00:47:24,244 --> 00:47:27,313
- Oh, that was amazing. What was that?
1022
00:47:27,347 --> 00:47:28,548
- That's a Tabla.
1023
00:47:28,581 --> 00:47:30,650
My uncle's a genius with it.
1024
00:47:30,684 --> 00:47:32,218
- You guys do this every year?
1025
00:47:32,252 --> 00:47:33,486
- Yeah, it's one of my favorite traditions
1026
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:35,155
since I was a little girl.
1027
00:47:35,188 --> 00:47:37,290
Lots of singing through the holidays.
1028
00:47:38,291 --> 00:47:41,461
- Come on, dad. - Nope. Not this year.
1029
00:47:41,494 --> 00:47:43,329
- What's happening?
1030
00:47:43,363 --> 00:47:45,165
What's wrong? Does he not like to play in front of people?
1031
00:47:45,198 --> 00:47:47,100
- He rarely plays anymore,
1032
00:47:47,133 --> 00:47:51,037
but Dad, at Christmas, please?
1033
00:47:51,071 --> 00:47:53,406
- For you one song.
1034
00:47:55,041 --> 00:47:57,243
- Alright, let's see it.
1035
00:48:54,701 --> 00:48:57,003
- Welcome. Welcome.
1036
00:48:57,037 --> 00:49:01,107
- Wow, Molly, I must say I am very impressed.
1037
00:49:01,141 --> 00:49:02,242
- Oh, well, thank you, Samuel.
1038
00:49:02,275 --> 00:49:04,010
But I can't take all the credit.
1039
00:49:04,044 --> 00:49:05,645
I've got a great crew
1040
00:49:05,679 --> 00:49:09,015
and they really knocked it out of the park this year.
1041
00:49:09,049 --> 00:49:11,184
- Mommy, daddy, can we go play some games now?
1042
00:49:11,217 --> 00:49:13,420
- Of course, buddy. - Yeah, let's go.
1043
00:49:16,322 --> 00:49:18,124
- Well, shall we join the fun? - Yeah, let's do it.
1044
00:49:18,158 --> 00:49:20,360
- Get into teams, everybody.
1045
00:49:24,130 --> 00:49:25,265
- Time.
1046
00:49:35,108 --> 00:49:39,245
- Ah, come on.
1047
00:49:42,182 --> 00:49:45,685
- Mr. Singh wins.
1048
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:55,395
- Time! - Oh!
1049
00:49:55,428 --> 00:49:58,565
- The winner is Molly O'Brien!
1050
00:49:58,598 --> 00:50:02,369
- Who, me? Oh my goodness.
1051
00:50:02,402 --> 00:50:06,706
Thank you.
1052
00:50:06,740 --> 00:50:08,341
- Molly. That was amazing.
1053
00:50:08,375 --> 00:50:09,642
You sure know how to decorate a house.
1054
00:50:09,676 --> 00:50:11,678
- Oh.
1055
00:50:11,711 --> 00:50:13,279
No hard feelings, right?
1056
00:50:13,313 --> 00:50:15,582
It's all in good fun, Samuel.
1057
00:50:15,615 --> 00:50:18,184
- Of course not, Molly. And congratulations on the win.
1058
00:50:18,218 --> 00:50:19,719
Well deserved.
1059
00:50:19,753 --> 00:50:22,455
- It was a lovely evening. Thank you for having us.
1060
00:50:22,489 --> 00:50:23,757
- We would love it if you could join us
1061
00:50:23,790 --> 00:50:25,425
for our Christmas story reading
1062
00:50:25,458 --> 00:50:27,193
at our church on Christmas Eve.
1063
00:50:27,227 --> 00:50:28,695
It's a holiday Ian that's been in our family
1064
00:50:28,728 --> 00:50:29,863
for generations.
1065
00:50:29,896 --> 00:50:31,865
- Oh, that sounds wonderful.
1066
00:50:31,898 --> 00:50:35,635
But I may still be tied up here with the Christmas pageant,
1067
00:50:35,669 --> 00:50:38,805
but we'll definitely try and make it, right?
1068
00:50:40,507 --> 00:50:42,442
- I was not aware that you were going to be here instead of
1069
00:50:42,475 --> 00:50:44,711
with us on Christmas Eve, Asha.
1070
00:50:44,744 --> 00:50:46,246
- Oh no, dad.
1071
00:50:46,279 --> 00:50:49,249
The Christmas pageant ends at 4:00.
1072
00:50:49,282 --> 00:50:50,650
That gives us plenty of time to make it
1073
00:50:50,684 --> 00:50:52,385
to the church for the candlelight service.
1074
00:50:52,419 --> 00:50:54,821
I mean, we were always gonna attend both,
1075
00:50:54,854 --> 00:50:56,389
so we didn't think it was worth
1076
00:50:56,423 --> 00:50:58,558
bringing up and worrying you.
1077
00:50:58,591 --> 00:51:00,160
- I see.
1078
00:51:00,193 --> 00:51:01,661
Well, as long as you can make it, we know
1079
00:51:01,695 --> 00:51:04,597
how important this tradition is to our family.
1080
00:51:04,631 --> 00:51:05,899
- Yes, dad. We will.
1081
00:51:05,932 --> 00:51:07,300
We will be there.
1082
00:51:08,702 --> 00:51:09,669
- Good night.
1083
00:51:21,681 --> 00:51:22,582
What's wrong?
1084
00:51:24,384 --> 00:51:27,153
Still sour over losing that silly competition?
1085
00:51:27,187 --> 00:51:29,856
- Let's just say my talents are more suited to building
1086
00:51:29,889 --> 00:51:32,659
real houses, not gingerbread ones.
1087
00:51:36,963 --> 00:51:40,266
I just, I just can't shake this feeling.
1088
00:51:40,300 --> 00:51:42,469
Are our families too different?
1089
00:51:42,502 --> 00:51:44,604
How can we blend our traditions?
1090
00:51:45,638 --> 00:51:47,607
When the foundations are so far apart.
1091
00:51:48,975 --> 00:51:54,447
- Samuel, remember how everyone doubted us?
1092
00:51:56,683 --> 00:51:58,852
A Christian and a Hindu?
1093
00:51:59,853 --> 00:52:01,421
No one thought it would work,
1094
00:52:02,455 --> 00:52:05,258
but when I fell in love with your faith
1095
00:52:05,291 --> 00:52:07,394
and made it my own,
1096
00:52:07,427 --> 00:52:12,399
my whole family embraced you, us.
1097
00:52:13,266 --> 00:52:14,734
And we found a way
1098
00:52:14,768 --> 00:52:17,737
to make all our traditions work together.
1099
00:52:19,472 --> 00:52:22,642
Jake and Asha will make their own way.
1100
00:52:23,710 --> 00:52:24,978
- You're right.
1101
00:52:25,011 --> 00:52:28,548
As always.
1102
00:52:30,383 --> 00:52:31,685
- Thanks for the ride.
1103
00:52:31,718 --> 00:52:35,789
- Oh, no trouble. - What a day, huh?
1104
00:52:35,822 --> 00:52:37,824
- Yeah. - Asha's got
1105
00:52:37,857 --> 00:52:39,325
a really nice family,
1106
00:52:39,359 --> 00:52:42,629
but that's Samuel's a real handful.
1107
00:52:42,662 --> 00:52:45,465
- Well, you're gonna have to tolerate him
1108
00:52:45,498 --> 00:52:47,767
for the sake of our son, you know?
1109
00:52:47,801 --> 00:52:49,469
- Fine. I'll tolerate him.
1110
00:52:49,502 --> 00:52:53,873
But if he thinks he's converting me the Cricket,
1111
00:52:53,907 --> 00:52:55,642
he's got another thing coming.
1112
00:52:56,976 --> 00:52:58,478
- Jake, - What?
1113
00:52:58,511 --> 00:53:00,513
- Where are your Christmas decorations?
1114
00:53:00,547 --> 00:53:02,449
- Who's got the energy?
1115
00:53:02,482 --> 00:53:05,618
- Well, I'm coming by tomorrow. Just a few things.
1116
00:53:05,652 --> 00:53:07,754
- No, no. That's not necessary.
1117
00:53:07,787 --> 00:53:10,457
Christmas season's almost over. Why bother?
1118
00:53:10,490 --> 00:53:12,592
- Because Christmas is a time
1119
00:53:12,625 --> 00:53:15,495
of bringing a little magic into our lives.
1120
00:53:15,528 --> 00:53:18,898
And it's never too late for a little magic.
1121
00:53:18,932 --> 00:53:20,467
- A little magic, huh?
1122
00:53:25,705 --> 00:53:26,773
Good night, Molly.
1123
00:53:32,012 --> 00:53:33,513
- That's my favorite Bollywood movie.
1124
00:53:33,546 --> 00:53:36,916
- Oh yeah? There's a lot of dancing.
1125
00:53:38,752 --> 00:53:40,820
- I'm surprised the VCR still works.
1126
00:53:40,854 --> 00:53:44,424
- I haven't seen one of these since I had an AOL account.
1127
00:53:45,525 --> 00:53:48,461
- Yeah. My dad never throws anything away.
1128
00:53:48,495 --> 00:53:50,063
There's probably a rotary phone around here somewhere.
1129
00:53:50,096 --> 00:53:51,731
- Yep. Back corner.
1130
00:53:55,869 --> 00:53:58,638
What's wrong?
1131
00:53:59,706 --> 00:54:01,741
- Is this what our future's gonna be like?
1132
00:54:03,576 --> 00:54:06,479
Family gatherings where they either argue about Cricket
1133
00:54:06,513 --> 00:54:09,549
or compete over who has more Christmas spirit?
1134
00:54:10,917 --> 00:54:12,686
- I just wish I could figure out a way to win over your dad.
1135
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:15,455
- Just keep being the Jake I fell in love with.
1136
00:54:15,488 --> 00:54:18,758
Soon he'll love you exactly like I do.
1137
00:54:20,927 --> 00:54:23,863
- I miss this. Just me and you.
1138
00:54:24,731 --> 00:54:27,033
Let's say we do it tomorrow. Hm?
1139
00:54:27,067 --> 00:54:29,469
Just the two of us. No family.
1140
00:54:32,005 --> 00:54:33,807
- It's another packed day.
1141
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:36,042
- Come on. It's even more reason why we need a break.
1142
00:54:37,777 --> 00:54:39,012
Come on, please.
1143
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:43,616
- You're right. I'll make time.
1144
00:54:44,884 --> 00:54:48,755
- Good. You wanna finish the rest of the movie with me?
1145
00:54:48,788 --> 00:54:50,757
- Sure, but we need to remember
1146
00:54:50,790 --> 00:54:52,492
to rewind the tape at the end,
1147
00:54:52,525 --> 00:54:54,961
or we won't hear the end of it from my dad, okay?
1148
00:54:54,994 --> 00:54:57,864
- Got it. Be kind, rewind.
1149
00:55:10,510 --> 00:55:13,513
- Sorry, Jake. I just have to put a few things away.
1150
00:55:18,018 --> 00:55:19,652
What is going on here?
1151
00:55:24,491 --> 00:55:26,026
- I lost my contact. My contact.
1152
00:55:27,994 --> 00:55:28,995
- Nothing to see here.
1153
00:55:29,863 --> 00:55:34,567
- Oh...
1154
00:55:42,709 --> 00:55:45,979
- Sir. About last night.
1155
00:55:47,213 --> 00:55:49,082
I don't want you to- - How do you like
1156
00:55:49,115 --> 00:55:50,884
your eggs, Jake?
1157
00:55:50,917 --> 00:55:53,119
- Scrambled. - Like your judgment
1158
00:55:53,153 --> 00:55:54,387
last night.
1159
00:55:55,689 --> 00:55:57,624
- Exactly. Because I wasn't actually-
1160
00:55:57,657 --> 00:55:59,459
- Jake, ready to go? - Yes, very ready to go.
1161
00:55:59,492 --> 00:56:00,727
- Okay. - Where are you two going?
1162
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:01,895
- Out.
1163
00:56:01,928 --> 00:56:03,830
Just the two of us. No chaperones.
1164
00:56:03,863 --> 00:56:05,832
- Wear your coat, it's cold. - Dad, what, am I five?
1165
00:56:05,865 --> 00:56:07,434
- And don't do anything dangerous.
1166
00:56:07,467 --> 00:56:08,835
- Well, don't worry, dad.
1167
00:56:08,868 --> 00:56:10,503
We're just gonna go sledding off a cliff.
1168
00:56:10,537 --> 00:56:11,805
Alright, let's go before he decides
1169
00:56:11,838 --> 00:56:12,906
to follow us in his car, let's go.
1170
00:56:14,007 --> 00:56:16,042
- I guess you can have his eggs, then.
1171
00:56:19,612 --> 00:56:21,648
- This is absolutely divine.
1172
00:56:23,917 --> 00:56:26,086
- You have something. Don't move.
1173
00:56:30,023 --> 00:56:32,992
Got it.
1174
00:56:33,026 --> 00:56:37,897
I miss this. I miss us.
1175
00:56:37,931 --> 00:56:39,599
- I know.
1176
00:56:39,632 --> 00:56:40,834
It just feels like it's been forever since we had
1177
00:56:40,867 --> 00:56:43,103
a moment alone together, hasn't it?
1178
00:56:43,136 --> 00:56:44,904
But today's been nice.
1179
00:56:44,938 --> 00:56:46,639
I mean, I feel like we're finally getting our rhythm back.
1180
00:56:46,673 --> 00:56:49,242
- Yeah, we are. Hey, you want to go ice skating?
1181
00:56:49,275 --> 00:56:50,810
- Oh, no. - No?
1182
00:56:52,812 --> 00:56:54,748
- I never learned how.
1183
00:56:54,781 --> 00:56:57,751
- How on earth does the Princess of Christmas grow up
1184
00:56:57,784 --> 00:56:59,586
without learning how to ice skate?
1185
00:56:59,619 --> 00:57:01,955
- Stop. You saw how worried my dad was just now.
1186
00:57:01,988 --> 00:57:03,723
I mean, if there was a risk of a broken neck,
1187
00:57:03,757 --> 00:57:05,658
it's off the table.
1188
00:57:05,692 --> 00:57:06,760
- You know, it is sort of cute
1189
00:57:06,793 --> 00:57:09,162
how protective he is over you.
1190
00:57:09,195 --> 00:57:11,031
- Cute? - Yeah.
1191
00:57:11,064 --> 00:57:13,233
- It wasn't that cute when he gave me a curfew in college.
1192
00:57:14,801 --> 00:57:16,903
I wish I had the kind of freedom you had growing up.
1193
00:57:16,936 --> 00:57:19,906
- I had a lot of freedom, but my parents also dragged me
1194
00:57:19,939 --> 00:57:22,509
into a lot of their issues.
1195
00:57:22,542 --> 00:57:25,078
I even ended up playing mediator
1196
00:57:25,111 --> 00:57:26,646
to their fights sometimes.
1197
00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:28,248
- I'm sorry.
1198
00:57:28,281 --> 00:57:29,516
- Yeah. - That was probably
1199
00:57:29,549 --> 00:57:31,051
really tough. - Yeah.
1200
00:57:32,085 --> 00:57:35,789
But hey, I know your family can be a bit
1201
00:57:35,822 --> 00:57:39,092
overwhelming at times,
1202
00:57:39,125 --> 00:57:42,195
but they're there for you when it matters.
1203
00:57:42,228 --> 00:57:44,130
And that counts for a lot.
1204
00:57:44,164 --> 00:57:46,099
- Yeah. Yeah, you're right.
1205
00:57:46,132 --> 00:57:48,001
I guess I am pretty lucky.
1206
00:57:48,034 --> 00:57:51,071
But you don't be too hard on your parents either.
1207
00:57:51,104 --> 00:57:54,240
I mean, their way of doing things shaped you into
1208
00:57:54,274 --> 00:57:57,711
the independent and fearless man you are today.
1209
00:58:01,748 --> 00:58:03,783
Speaking of which, my mom is calling.
1210
00:58:03,817 --> 00:58:05,085
- Huh? Mine is too.
1211
00:58:06,019 --> 00:58:07,887
- Hi, mom. - Hi.
1212
00:58:07,921 --> 00:58:10,657
- Oh, oh, the engagement shopping?
1213
00:58:10,690 --> 00:58:12,792
- Yeah, sure, I'll be right-
1214
00:58:12,826 --> 00:58:14,961
- I'm so sorry. I just, I completely lost track of time.
1215
00:58:14,994 --> 00:58:17,130
Okay. I'll be right here. - Okay, great.
1216
00:58:17,964 --> 00:58:18,898
- I forgot.
1217
00:58:18,932 --> 00:58:20,767
I promised my mom and aunts
1218
00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:21,901
I'd go engagement shopping today, I am so sorry.
1219
00:58:21,935 --> 00:58:23,903
- My mom wants me to come over
1220
00:58:23,937 --> 00:58:27,107
and help her bring my dad a Christmas tree for some reason.
1221
00:58:27,140 --> 00:58:29,743
- Well, at least we had a couple hours of freedom today.
1222
00:58:29,776 --> 00:58:31,144
- Yeah. You want to come over after you're done?
1223
00:58:31,177 --> 00:58:32,746
- Yeah. That sounds good.
1224
00:58:32,779 --> 00:58:33,947
- Bye. - Bye.
1225
00:58:45,692 --> 00:58:47,727
- Did someone order a Christmas tree?
1226
00:58:47,761 --> 00:58:48,895
- What in the world?
1227
00:58:48,928 --> 00:58:50,263
- I told you I'd stop by today
1228
00:58:50,296 --> 00:58:51,831
with a little Christmas spirit.
1229
00:58:51,865 --> 00:58:53,266
- Come on in.
1230
00:58:54,300 --> 00:58:55,869
- How about here?
1231
00:58:55,902 --> 00:58:58,705
- No, no, no. Jake, they're too clustered.
1232
00:58:58,738 --> 00:59:01,307
You gotta spread them out more. Hold on.
1233
00:59:01,341 --> 00:59:05,078
- Yes, ma'am. How about this?
1234
00:59:05,111 --> 00:59:06,146
- Perfect.
1235
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:10,183
Now that's what I call Christmas spirit.
1236
00:59:12,185 --> 00:59:13,186
- Thank you.
1237
00:59:14,788 --> 00:59:19,159
I didn't realize how much I needed this.
1238
00:59:19,192 --> 00:59:21,628
- Well, that's what the season's all about, isn't it?
1239
00:59:21,661 --> 00:59:24,097
Bringing a little warmth where it's needed.
1240
00:59:26,099 --> 00:59:27,867
- Didn't even notice that the details.
1241
00:59:30,904 --> 00:59:32,372
- Oh, take a look at this one.
1242
00:59:32,405 --> 00:59:33,606
- Okay.
1243
00:59:34,841 --> 00:59:39,913
- Oh, Maglu. You look absolutely stunning.
1244
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:41,648
- I think this might be the one.
1245
00:59:41,681 --> 00:59:42,982
- No, Asha!
1246
00:59:43,016 --> 00:59:46,052
Picking a Sari is like dating.
1247
00:59:46,086 --> 00:59:48,355
You gotta shop around a little before you commit.
1248
00:59:48,388 --> 00:59:50,390
- Sarah.
1249
00:59:50,423 --> 00:59:52,692
- We've got plenty of options.
1250
00:59:52,726 --> 00:59:54,661
Look at the detailing on this one.
1251
00:59:54,694 --> 00:59:57,931
- This could also work for Christmas. What do you think?
1252
00:59:58,832 --> 01:00:00,934
Don't worry about what we like.
1253
01:00:00,967 --> 01:00:04,104
You choose what makes you happiest.
1254
01:00:04,904 --> 01:00:06,206
- Thanks, mom.
1255
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:09,809
I just wish dad felt that way when it came to Jake.
1256
01:00:09,843 --> 01:00:11,344
- Don't worry about your father.
1257
01:00:11,378 --> 01:00:16,916
He just wants you to be happy. Jake is a sweet boy.
1258
01:00:17,717 --> 01:00:19,252
If you are sure, we are sure.
1259
01:00:19,986 --> 01:00:22,055
- I'm sure. - Good.
1260
01:00:28,161 --> 01:00:31,865
Speaking of Jake, we need to find him a Sherwani.
1261
01:00:31,898 --> 01:00:33,833
- Yes. - Ooh!
1262
01:00:33,867 --> 01:00:38,104
- Okay, come on. I wanna see how you look in this.
1263
01:00:38,138 --> 01:00:39,139
Oh...
1264
01:00:41,241 --> 01:00:42,842
- That's nice.
1265
01:00:42,876 --> 01:00:45,979
- So, what do you think?
1266
01:00:46,012 --> 01:00:48,982
- You've never looked more handsome, honey.
1267
01:00:49,015 --> 01:00:51,851
- That fits you perfectly, son.
1268
01:00:51,885 --> 01:00:53,186
- Right? - Yeah.
1269
01:00:53,219 --> 01:00:55,922
- Oh, that must be Asha.
1270
01:00:57,057 --> 01:00:58,391
My lady.
1271
01:00:58,425 --> 01:01:01,728
- Wow. You look amazing. - I cleaned up nice, huh?
1272
01:01:01,761 --> 01:01:04,964
- Yeah. - Come on in.
1273
01:01:05,865 --> 01:01:08,001
- Oh, Asha.
1274
01:01:08,034 --> 01:01:11,171
- Hi. - Wow. Look at this place.
1275
01:01:11,204 --> 01:01:12,739
- Yeah, mom wanted to bring a little
1276
01:01:12,772 --> 01:01:14,774
Christmas spirit to dad, so-
1277
01:01:14,808 --> 01:01:17,077
- Molly, your talents never cease to amaze me.
1278
01:01:17,110 --> 01:01:20,013
- Oh, thank you, Asha. You're too sweet.
1279
01:01:20,046 --> 01:01:22,215
- So what's the vest for?
1280
01:01:22,248 --> 01:01:25,485
- It's the vest I wore to my engagement party.
1281
01:01:25,518 --> 01:01:29,389
It's a family heirloom handed down from my father.
1282
01:01:29,422 --> 01:01:31,124
- Oh. - We thought it would be
1283
01:01:31,157 --> 01:01:34,761
meaningful if Jake wore it to his engagement party.
1284
01:01:34,794 --> 01:01:39,065
- Oh, but we already got Jake a Sherwani
1285
01:01:39,099 --> 01:01:40,934
for the engagement party.
1286
01:01:41,401 --> 01:01:42,402
- A she what?
1287
01:01:43,370 --> 01:01:45,939
- Oh, that's- - Oh, it's
1288
01:01:48,074 --> 01:01:51,811
a traditional Indian outfit worn by men
1289
01:01:51,845 --> 01:01:54,147
on special occasions.
1290
01:01:54,180 --> 01:01:56,116
- Listen, we really respect your traditions,
1291
01:01:56,149 --> 01:02:00,153
but don't we get to represent ours too?
1292
01:02:00,186 --> 01:02:03,256
- It's our son's engagement party as well.
1293
01:02:03,289 --> 01:02:04,824
- I have an idea.
1294
01:02:04,858 --> 01:02:06,826
How about we find a way to incorporate
1295
01:02:06,860 --> 01:02:10,997
both traditions into the ceremony, hmm?
1296
01:02:11,998 --> 01:02:16,336
- Okay, that should work. - Yes.
1297
01:02:18,071 --> 01:02:20,373
- I feel so bad about the Sherwani.
1298
01:02:20,407 --> 01:02:23,810
- No, don't worry about it. It's just a misunderstanding.
1299
01:02:23,843 --> 01:02:26,846
- Why didn't you say something when they mentioned the suit?
1300
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:29,049
- Honestly, I didn't think it was gonna be
1301
01:02:29,082 --> 01:02:30,350
such a big deal for me
1302
01:02:30,383 --> 01:02:32,352
to wear something that's meaningful,
1303
01:02:32,385 --> 01:02:34,087
especially since your family has been super involved in
1304
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:36,456
planning the whole engagement party.
1305
01:02:36,489 --> 01:02:39,192
- Super involved? What's that supposed to mean?
1306
01:02:39,225 --> 01:02:42,529
- That came out wrong. All right?
1307
01:02:43,897 --> 01:02:47,500
What I meant is my parents, they just,
1308
01:02:49,069 --> 01:02:51,371
they want to feel like they're a part of this too.
1309
01:02:51,404 --> 01:02:54,541
You know, not just guests at an Indian engagement party.
1310
01:02:54,574 --> 01:02:58,011
- Jake, this is supposed to be our engagement party.
1311
01:02:59,346 --> 01:03:01,848
I didn't know you saw my traditions as something
1312
01:03:01,881 --> 01:03:03,850
separate or something foreign.
1313
01:03:03,883 --> 01:03:07,587
- Asha, no. Okay, I'm sorry.
1314
01:03:10,890 --> 01:03:12,225
- That's fine.
1315
01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:15,395
We're both under a lot of pressure right now.
1316
01:03:22,469 --> 01:03:24,571
Oh, it's so pretty.
1317
01:03:24,604 --> 01:03:25,605
- I know.
1318
01:03:27,173 --> 01:03:28,641
- How can I ever thank you. - You've supported me
1319
01:03:28,675 --> 01:03:30,176
through everything, Asha.
1320
01:03:30,210 --> 01:03:32,078
This is the least I could do.
1321
01:03:33,179 --> 01:03:35,181
Jake didn't come with you?
1322
01:03:35,215 --> 01:03:40,086
- No. He went on a jog with a friend.
1323
01:03:42,188 --> 01:03:45,291
- So you gonna tell me what's going on with you and Jake?
1324
01:03:46,026 --> 01:03:48,161
- Hmm. That obvious, huh?
1325
01:03:48,194 --> 01:03:50,163
- Come on, dude. I've known you literally my whole life.
1326
01:03:50,196 --> 01:03:52,132
I know when something's up.
1327
01:03:52,165 --> 01:03:53,400
- Ever since we got home,
1328
01:03:53,433 --> 01:03:55,301
it's been one thing after the other.
1329
01:03:56,169 --> 01:03:57,637
Look, I knew that blending our
1330
01:03:57,671 --> 01:03:59,205
families was gonna be difficult.
1331
01:03:59,239 --> 01:04:01,508
I didn't think it was gonna be this hard.
1332
01:04:03,309 --> 01:04:06,146
Maybe some things aren't meant to go together.
1333
01:04:06,179 --> 01:04:09,516
- Asha, it's not about blending two families from
1334
01:04:09,549 --> 01:04:10,950
opposite worlds.
1335
01:04:10,984 --> 01:04:13,453
It's about complementing each other
1336
01:04:13,486 --> 01:04:16,489
and learning to live alongside the differences.
1337
01:04:16,523 --> 01:04:18,625
- Yes, but what if the differences are just
1338
01:04:18,658 --> 01:04:20,393
too incompatible?
1339
01:04:22,529 --> 01:04:24,164
Like ketchup and Tandoori.
1340
01:04:25,498 --> 01:04:28,201
I mean, good intentions, but just don't belong together.
1341
01:04:29,302 --> 01:04:31,971
- Okay, first of all, ketchup and Tandoori?
1342
01:04:32,005 --> 01:04:33,673
What kind of blasphemy is that?
1343
01:04:33,707 --> 01:04:35,175
- I know, it's a long story.
1344
01:04:35,208 --> 01:04:36,509
Can we focus on what I'm talking about?
1345
01:04:36,543 --> 01:04:37,644
- How did he not notice?
1346
01:04:37,677 --> 01:04:39,346
- Ravi? - Okay.
1347
01:04:40,613 --> 01:04:44,451
Look, even a pairing as unusual as ketchup and Tandoori
1348
01:04:44,484 --> 01:04:46,720
can work surprisingly well, you just have
1349
01:04:46,753 --> 01:04:48,455
to find the right balance.
1350
01:04:49,589 --> 01:04:51,958
You and Jake have something special, right?
1351
01:04:51,991 --> 01:04:55,528
Don't let the family drama make you forget why you fell in
1352
01:04:55,562 --> 01:04:57,163
love in the first place.
1353
01:04:57,731 --> 01:05:00,367
- How are you my baby brother?
1354
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:05,171
- Well, I had a good role model. Hello, my queen.
1355
01:05:06,573 --> 01:05:10,243
- How did you two do it? Blending the families together.
1356
01:05:11,578 --> 01:05:15,648
- Asha, as someone who was initiated into the Singh family,
1357
01:05:17,050 --> 01:05:19,219
let me tell you, it wasn't always easy,
1358
01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:21,488
but you gotta remember,
1359
01:05:21,521 --> 01:05:24,257
it's not about squeezing Jake into your world.
1360
01:05:24,290 --> 01:05:27,494
It's about building a new one together.
1361
01:05:28,595 --> 01:05:30,230
- Thank you, Sarah.
1362
01:05:30,263 --> 01:05:31,264
She's seriously the sister
1363
01:05:31,297 --> 01:05:32,732
I didn't know I needed.
1364
01:05:32,766 --> 01:05:34,601
- Aw, hear that?
1365
01:05:34,634 --> 01:05:36,169
- Okay. I did literally just give that same advice though.
1366
01:05:36,202 --> 01:05:38,238
- Yeah, but I said it better right?
1367
01:05:44,444 --> 01:05:46,713
- This trip, man, it's been way more
1368
01:05:46,746 --> 01:05:48,515
challenging than I expected.
1369
01:05:48,548 --> 01:05:49,516
- How so?
1370
01:05:52,052 --> 01:05:53,687
- Ever since we got here,
1371
01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:56,289
our families have been pulling us in opposite directions.
1372
01:05:56,322 --> 01:06:00,727
And no matter what we do, someone always ends up upset.
1373
01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:02,195
- You still love her?
1374
01:06:02,228 --> 01:06:04,264
- Yes, of course I still love her.
1375
01:06:04,297 --> 01:06:05,732
- That's all that matters.
1376
01:06:06,599 --> 01:06:08,201
- It's her dad.
1377
01:06:08,234 --> 01:06:11,604
That guy is impossible to please.
1378
01:06:13,073 --> 01:06:14,407
- The only people who need to be okay
1379
01:06:14,441 --> 01:06:17,243
with your relationship are you and Asha.
1380
01:06:17,277 --> 01:06:18,812
Who cares what her father thinks?
1381
01:06:18,845 --> 01:06:21,448
- That's just it, Ethan. She does.
1382
01:06:21,481 --> 01:06:25,652
She cares very, very deeply what he thinks.
1383
01:06:25,685 --> 01:06:28,288
- If her family is that important to her, you need
1384
01:06:28,321 --> 01:06:29,656
to find a way to coexist.
1385
01:06:29,689 --> 01:06:31,358
All right, nothing good ever came from getting
1386
01:06:31,391 --> 01:06:33,526
between your wife and her family.
1387
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:35,729
- How are you so good at this?
1388
01:06:35,762 --> 01:06:37,230
- Years of practice, my friend.
1389
01:06:37,263 --> 01:06:39,799
Laura's parents have taught me a lot about
1390
01:06:39,833 --> 01:06:41,401
the art of patience.
1391
01:06:42,102 --> 01:06:43,336
All right, let's go.
1392
01:06:44,371 --> 01:06:46,339
- Okay. Hey, wait up!
1393
01:06:50,577 --> 01:06:51,678
Hey, Asha.
1394
01:06:53,680 --> 01:06:56,149
- Hi. - How is Ravi's?
1395
01:06:56,182 --> 01:06:58,385
- Oh yeah, it's good.
1396
01:06:58,418 --> 01:07:01,788
Yeah, everything's looking good for tomorrow.
1397
01:07:01,821 --> 01:07:03,690
- Good. I'm glad.
1398
01:07:04,724 --> 01:07:09,829
Hey, listen, about last night, I'm sorry,
1399
01:07:11,297 --> 01:07:12,699
I should have been more understanding about
1400
01:07:12,732 --> 01:07:14,334
how important it's to honor your grandparents.
1401
01:07:14,367 --> 01:07:15,835
- I'm sorry too.
1402
01:07:15,869 --> 01:07:17,637
I should have been more
1403
01:07:17,671 --> 01:07:19,706
considerate of your culture as well.
1404
01:07:20,874 --> 01:07:25,545
- So we good? - Yeah, we're good.
1405
01:07:25,578 --> 01:07:30,784
- Okay.
1406
01:07:32,185 --> 01:07:33,687
- Right. Make sure they're right side up.
1407
01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:35,388
Aunty Rekha's gonna kill you. - Yes. Of course.
1408
01:07:35,422 --> 01:07:37,290
- Hi, dad. Headed to the church already?
1409
01:07:37,323 --> 01:07:39,125
- Yeah, we have to get there early to help set up.
1410
01:07:39,159 --> 01:07:40,627
- Okay, well, we are gonna hit Molly's Christmas pageant
1411
01:07:40,660 --> 01:07:42,162
and then we'll meet you at the church after.
1412
01:07:42,195 --> 01:07:43,797
- Don't be late. - We won't.
1413
01:07:43,830 --> 01:07:45,432
- Promise. - Okay.
1414
01:07:48,301 --> 01:07:49,469
- Good luck.
1415
01:07:51,771 --> 01:07:53,306
- What are you guys still doing here?
1416
01:07:53,340 --> 01:07:55,442
You should be out on stage.
1417
01:07:55,475 --> 01:07:57,344
Oh, come on. Come on, go, oh.
1418
01:07:57,377 --> 01:07:59,846
- We just came to wish you good luck before the show.
1419
01:07:59,879 --> 01:08:01,548
- Oh, thank goodness you're here.
1420
01:08:01,581 --> 01:08:03,650
I've lost my Mary and Joseph.
1421
01:08:03,683 --> 01:08:06,453
Food poisoning from a bad batch of eggnog.
1422
01:08:06,486 --> 01:08:07,887
- Oh, no! - That'll do it.
1423
01:08:07,921 --> 01:08:09,689
- Can you two fill in?
1424
01:08:09,723 --> 01:08:12,425
I know it's last minute, but you're my only hope.
1425
01:08:12,459 --> 01:08:13,693
Please tell me you'll do it.
1426
01:08:13,727 --> 01:08:17,230
- Oh, I don't know. - I guess today
1427
01:08:17,263 --> 01:08:19,833
is the day I make my big stage debut.
1428
01:08:19,866 --> 01:08:21,334
- Oh, you're lifesavers.
1429
01:08:21,368 --> 01:08:22,936
Okay. Here are the costumes.
1430
01:08:22,969 --> 01:08:24,371
- Costumes? - Here are the co-
1431
01:08:24,404 --> 01:08:26,673
Yes. - We're wearing costumes.
1432
01:08:26,706 --> 01:08:28,708
- Oh yes, scripts.
1433
01:08:28,742 --> 01:08:31,845
- Scripts. - You're on in 15 minutes.
1434
01:08:31,878 --> 01:08:33,680
- Okay, alright alright alright.
1435
01:08:34,948 --> 01:08:38,184
- Oh, what did I get myself into?
1436
01:08:41,254 --> 01:08:42,555
- How did the preparations go?
1437
01:08:42,589 --> 01:08:44,257
- Good. Has Asha arrived yet? - Not yet.
1438
01:08:44,290 --> 01:08:46,226
- The service is about to start.
1439
01:08:46,259 --> 01:08:47,660
- She'll come.
1440
01:08:52,899 --> 01:08:56,202
- As we gather tonight on this most blessed of evenings,
1441
01:08:56,236 --> 01:08:59,239
let us reflect on the true spirit of Christmas, the spirit
1442
01:08:59,272 --> 01:09:02,642
of giving, of forgiving, and of hope.
1443
01:09:02,676 --> 01:09:04,711
And now please welcome our dear friend,
1444
01:09:04,744 --> 01:09:07,414
Mr. Samuel Singh, to come up for a reading.
1445
01:09:09,249 --> 01:09:10,450
- Come on.
1446
01:09:15,822 --> 01:09:18,458
Are there any children here who would like
1447
01:09:18,491 --> 01:09:20,493
to hear the Christmas story?
1448
01:09:22,028 --> 01:09:23,496
Well then why don't you come up here and join us.
1449
01:09:28,968 --> 01:09:32,005
Have any of you heard the Christmas story before?
1450
01:09:32,038 --> 01:09:34,941
I think I was about your age when I first heard it.
1451
01:09:34,974 --> 01:09:36,676
Many, many years ago.
1452
01:09:36,710 --> 01:09:40,947
Once upon a time in a town called Bethlehem,
1453
01:09:40,980 --> 01:09:43,616
there was a special night,
1454
01:09:43,650 --> 01:09:46,753
a young couple named Mary and Joseph were traveling
1455
01:09:46,786 --> 01:09:50,390
to Bethlehem for a census ordered by the emperor.
1456
01:09:50,423 --> 01:09:52,292
- Just look. - My dad's gonna kill me.
1457
01:09:52,325 --> 01:09:57,597
- That's okay.
1458
01:09:58,531 --> 01:09:59,833
- I'm sorry. Hi.
1459
01:09:59,866 --> 01:10:00,867
Please continue.
1460
01:10:21,955 --> 01:10:26,559
- Where was I? Mary was going to have a baby.
1461
01:10:26,593 --> 01:10:28,895
- Samuel. That was beautiful.
1462
01:10:30,363 --> 01:10:32,365
- Where were you? - Dad, I am so sorry.
1463
01:10:32,399 --> 01:10:33,733
- And why are you dressed like this?
1464
01:10:33,767 --> 01:10:34,968
You trying to make a mockery out of me?
1465
01:10:35,001 --> 01:10:36,736
- No, no, no. Not at all.
1466
01:10:36,770 --> 01:10:38,371
We were actually just helping with Molly's pageant.
1467
01:10:38,405 --> 01:10:39,806
- It's kind of a funny story.
1468
01:10:39,839 --> 01:10:42,609
You see, the actors playing Mary and Joseph
1469
01:10:42,642 --> 01:10:44,010
came down with food poisoning.
1470
01:10:44,044 --> 01:10:45,645
- And then we stepped in to help with the roles.
1471
01:10:45,679 --> 01:10:47,714
But then- - That's enough.
1472
01:10:47,747 --> 01:10:50,350
You know this is your family's most cherished
1473
01:10:50,383 --> 01:10:51,985
Christmas tradition.
1474
01:10:52,018 --> 01:10:53,753
But because you were too busy helping your new family,
1475
01:10:53,787 --> 01:10:55,722
you completely disregarded your own.
1476
01:10:55,755 --> 01:10:57,524
- Dad, it's not like that at all.
1477
01:10:57,557 --> 01:10:58,925
- Sir, I know how much this means to you
1478
01:10:58,958 --> 01:11:00,060
and I'm sorry we're late.
1479
01:11:00,093 --> 01:11:01,628
But it is not Asha's fault.
1480
01:11:01,661 --> 01:11:03,096
You don't need to talk to her like that.
1481
01:11:03,129 --> 01:11:04,464
- This is a family discussion.
1482
01:11:04,497 --> 01:11:05,865
And the last time I checked you,
1483
01:11:05,899 --> 01:11:07,634
were not yet a member of this family, Jake.
1484
01:11:07,667 --> 01:11:10,070
- Excuse me. That's no way to speak to my son.
1485
01:11:10,103 --> 01:11:12,505
- Yes, we missed one tradition,
1486
01:11:12,539 --> 01:11:15,041
but we've been doing our best to respect
1487
01:11:15,075 --> 01:11:18,011
and honor your customs every step of the way.
1488
01:11:18,044 --> 01:11:19,579
- And we haven't been trying?
1489
01:11:19,612 --> 01:11:20,947
Asha just dropped everything to help out
1490
01:11:20,980 --> 01:11:22,549
with Molly's pageant.
1491
01:11:22,582 --> 01:11:25,085
From day one, I knew our families will never fit.
1492
01:11:25,118 --> 01:11:26,986
And if the families don't fit, the marriage will never work.
1493
01:11:27,020 --> 01:11:29,522
- Sir, you can give me a hard time all you want,
1494
01:11:29,556 --> 01:11:31,024
but please keep my family out of it.
1495
01:11:31,057 --> 01:11:32,859
They have gone out of their way to welcome Asha,
1496
01:11:32,892 --> 01:11:34,127
which is more than I can say about
1497
01:11:34,160 --> 01:11:35,795
the way you've treated me.
1498
01:11:35,829 --> 01:11:37,063
So I think you need to take a hard look at who's
1499
01:11:37,097 --> 01:11:38,064
really causing the divide.
1500
01:11:38,098 --> 01:11:39,065
- Jake, please stop.
1501
01:11:39,099 --> 01:11:40,400
Not like this. Okay?
1502
01:11:40,433 --> 01:11:41,534
- Are you gonna take his side?
1503
01:11:41,568 --> 01:11:42,402
- Why do I have to take a side?
1504
01:11:42,435 --> 01:11:43,603
- Asha. - Jake.
1505
01:11:48,742 --> 01:11:50,844
I don't think this is gonna work.
1506
01:11:51,845 --> 01:11:52,879
- What?
1507
01:11:52,912 --> 01:11:54,547
- If we have to constantly choose
1508
01:11:54,581 --> 01:11:55,882
between our families and each other,
1509
01:11:55,915 --> 01:11:59,452
then look at what happened this week.
1510
01:11:59,486 --> 01:12:02,655
This was supposed to be a time of pure joy
1511
01:12:02,689 --> 01:12:05,792
and it's turned into a complete disaster.
1512
01:12:07,193 --> 01:12:11,765
Jake, I do not want to put you through a lifetime of stress.
1513
01:12:11,798 --> 01:12:13,566
It's not fair to you.
1514
01:12:13,600 --> 01:12:16,903
I know that and I know my family can be a lot,
1515
01:12:18,204 --> 01:12:22,976
but they mean so much to me, just like yours does to you.
1516
01:12:23,009 --> 01:12:27,447
And I don't know, somehow I thought we could come together
1517
01:12:27,480 --> 01:12:28,848
and it would work out,
1518
01:12:28,882 --> 01:12:32,919
but right now I just, I don't think it can.
1519
01:12:34,721 --> 01:12:37,657
- Maglu. - I need some space.
1520
01:12:37,691 --> 01:12:39,926
Please, from both of you.
1521
01:12:52,539 --> 01:12:55,742
- May I join you? - Oh, please.
1522
01:13:01,181 --> 01:13:04,684
I'm really sorry, Jake. I was way out of line.
1523
01:13:05,985 --> 01:13:06,953
- I'm sorry too.
1524
01:13:08,655 --> 01:13:09,789
We are both just looking out
1525
01:13:09,823 --> 01:13:12,158
for our families in our own way.
1526
01:13:13,693 --> 01:13:17,764
You know, Samuel, you and I aren't as different
1527
01:13:17,797 --> 01:13:19,065
as you might think.
1528
01:13:19,099 --> 01:13:20,433
- No?
1529
01:13:21,801 --> 01:13:25,005
- My mom passed away when I was just a boy,
1530
01:13:25,038 --> 01:13:29,209
and my dad uprooted us from Ireland to America
1531
01:13:29,242 --> 01:13:31,011
for a better life.
1532
01:13:31,044 --> 01:13:34,981
Just the same as well you did by coming here.
1533
01:13:36,116 --> 01:13:39,853
It may seem like we're from different worlds,
1534
01:13:39,886 --> 01:13:42,655
but there is something we have in common.
1535
01:13:42,689 --> 01:13:45,725
We both want the best for our children.
1536
01:13:46,259 --> 01:13:47,861
We want them to be happy.
1537
01:13:49,562 --> 01:13:51,097
We love our kids, Samuel.
1538
01:13:51,131 --> 01:13:56,036
- Yeah. - And they love each other.
1539
01:13:57,637 --> 01:13:59,539
- Yeah. - How about
1540
01:14:01,007 --> 01:14:06,012
we put our differences aside and support them together?
1541
01:14:07,113 --> 01:14:09,115
- I would love that more than anything else.
1542
01:14:10,650 --> 01:14:13,019
Can you tell me where I can find Jake? I owe him an apology.
1543
01:14:13,053 --> 01:14:15,121
- Yeah, I can take you to him.
1544
01:14:16,656 --> 01:14:19,059
- Hey, how about we watch a baseball game together sometime.
1545
01:14:20,160 --> 01:14:23,630
- Oh, how about we make it a Cricket match?
1546
01:14:23,663 --> 01:14:27,067
- Oh, Christmas really is a time for miracles.
1547
01:14:42,649 --> 01:14:44,250
- Forget about the shoes.
1548
01:14:44,284 --> 01:14:46,152
- Mr. Singh. - Please sit.
1549
01:14:47,120 --> 01:14:49,055
- No, I'll just leave you two to it.
1550
01:14:50,590 --> 01:14:53,193
- Can we talk? - Yeah. Yeah, of course.
1551
01:14:56,863 --> 01:15:00,767
- Look, Asha is my little girl
1552
01:15:00,800 --> 01:15:03,203
and I'm always going to want to protect her,
1553
01:15:03,236 --> 01:15:05,805
but she's all grown up now
1554
01:15:05,839 --> 01:15:08,608
and I don't wanna stand in the way of your happiness,
1555
01:15:08,641 --> 01:15:11,911
especially when I see how much joy you bring her.
1556
01:15:13,146 --> 01:15:18,084
- Sir, all I want to do is make your daughter happy.
1557
01:15:19,185 --> 01:15:21,121
- Can you forgive an overprotective father
1558
01:15:21,154 --> 01:15:24,624
and accept my blessing to marry my daughter?
1559
01:15:24,657 --> 01:15:29,863
- Mr. Singh, are you proposing to me?
1560
01:15:30,630 --> 01:15:31,097
- Don't make me ask again.
1561
01:15:31,965 --> 01:15:33,667
- Then the answer is yes.
1562
01:15:33,700 --> 01:15:34,901
- Thank you, Jake.
1563
01:15:35,969 --> 01:15:37,604
Now come on. - What?
1564
01:15:38,738 --> 01:15:39,973
- There's something you have to do.
1565
01:15:40,006 --> 01:15:41,007
- What?
1566
01:15:51,918 --> 01:15:53,887
- Asha, can I come in?
1567
01:16:00,860 --> 01:16:05,031
Maglu, I'm so sorry about Jake.
1568
01:16:05,065 --> 01:16:06,966
- Well, you got your wish. So.
1569
01:16:09,269 --> 01:16:13,873
- Asha, the only thing we want is our children's happiness.
1570
01:16:14,974 --> 01:16:16,976
I'm sorry if I never always made that clear.
1571
01:16:17,010 --> 01:16:19,713
- You know, I've spent my whole life
1572
01:16:19,746 --> 01:16:22,082
terrified of disappointing you, right?
1573
01:16:24,117 --> 01:16:26,353
You and mom sacrificed so much for us
1574
01:16:28,088 --> 01:16:30,290
and came from another country with no friends and no family.
1575
01:16:30,323 --> 01:16:31,358
And I know that.
1576
01:16:33,026 --> 01:16:34,327
But because of that,
1577
01:16:34,361 --> 01:16:37,864
I felt so much pressure to live the life
1578
01:16:37,897 --> 01:16:39,632
that you envisioned for me.
1579
01:16:43,336 --> 01:16:44,671
- What's this?
1580
01:16:47,307 --> 01:16:48,942
- I aced my MCATs.
1581
01:16:51,011 --> 01:16:52,312
- I don't understand.
1582
01:16:56,883 --> 01:16:58,218
- I told you I failed
1583
01:16:59,252 --> 01:17:00,754
because I knew you wouldn't allow me
1584
01:17:00,787 --> 01:17:02,689
to pursue nursing otherwise.
1585
01:17:06,493 --> 01:17:09,796
- It breaks my heart to realize that you went to these steps
1586
01:17:09,829 --> 01:17:11,398
to hide who you truly are.
1587
01:17:12,732 --> 01:17:15,035
- Well, now you know what it's like
1588
01:17:15,068 --> 01:17:17,971
to live under your impossible expectations
1589
01:17:19,039 --> 01:17:21,241
and I can't do it anymore, Dad.
1590
01:17:24,944 --> 01:17:25,979
I love Jake.
1591
01:17:26,012 --> 01:17:27,480
I love him so much
1592
01:17:27,514 --> 01:17:30,717
and I'm going to marry him,
1593
01:17:30,750 --> 01:17:33,687
assuming he'll still even have me.
1594
01:17:35,088 --> 01:17:37,924
But I'm going to do it with or without your blessing.
1595
01:17:37,957 --> 01:17:42,095
- That is why I am here. You have my full blessing.
1596
01:17:42,128 --> 01:17:46,800
Jake is a wonderful young man. I see it now.
1597
01:17:46,833 --> 01:17:48,835
Especially after I saw how he stood up
1598
01:17:48,868 --> 01:17:50,303
for his family tonight.
1599
01:17:50,337 --> 01:17:52,305
I was wrong
1600
01:17:52,339 --> 01:17:54,174
and I'm so sorry
1601
01:17:54,207 --> 01:17:56,376
for not giving him a fair chance.
1602
01:17:58,778 --> 01:17:59,779
- Really?
1603
01:18:01,047 --> 01:18:03,183
- And for making him eat all that spicy curry.
1604
01:18:06,386 --> 01:18:10,990
- That was so mean. It was kind of funny though.
1605
01:18:13,460 --> 01:18:14,861
- Sorry.
1606
01:18:14,894 --> 01:18:16,763
- What is that?
1607
01:18:16,796 --> 01:18:18,465
- Go outside and see for yourself.
1608
01:18:26,373 --> 01:18:27,407
- Jake?
1609
01:18:29,876 --> 01:18:31,311
- There's that smile.
1610
01:18:33,913 --> 01:18:35,982
- What are you doing?
1611
01:18:36,016 --> 01:18:38,251
- It's from the movie you watch. Remember?
1612
01:18:38,284 --> 01:18:40,520
Your dad thought it might cheer you up a little bit.
1613
01:18:40,553 --> 01:18:41,788
Pretty good, right?
1614
01:18:44,124 --> 01:18:46,526
- This was your idea?
1615
01:18:46,559 --> 01:18:47,761
Thank you.
1616
01:18:51,431 --> 01:18:52,432
- Go.
1617
01:18:58,471 --> 01:18:59,572
- Jake.
1618
01:18:59,606 --> 01:19:01,307
- You are everything to me.
1619
01:19:01,341 --> 01:19:04,411
I know our families meeting have been an adventure,
1620
01:19:04,444 --> 01:19:07,180
but you, your family, your traditions, your culture,
1621
01:19:07,213 --> 01:19:09,916
they're all part of what make you who you are.
1622
01:19:09,949 --> 01:19:12,419
And I love every part of you.
1623
01:19:12,452 --> 01:19:15,188
- Jake. I'm so sorry I ever doubted us.
1624
01:19:15,221 --> 01:19:19,459
And I know, I know the road ahead is gonna be challenging,
1625
01:19:19,492 --> 01:19:21,294
but we can make it work
1626
01:19:21,327 --> 01:19:22,962
because you are the best thing that's ever happened to me
1627
01:19:22,996 --> 01:19:25,031
and I cannot imagine my life without you.
1628
01:19:25,065 --> 01:19:27,567
- I love you so much, Asha. - I love you too.
1629
01:19:53,660 --> 01:19:56,062
- Merry Christmas. Hey.
1630
01:19:56,096 --> 01:19:57,597
Congratulations. - Thank you so much
1631
01:19:57,630 --> 01:19:59,065
for doing all of this.
1632
01:19:59,099 --> 01:20:00,433
- Anything for my favorite sister.
1633
01:20:00,467 --> 01:20:01,968
- I'm so lucky to have you as a brother.
1634
01:20:02,002 --> 01:20:04,037
- Yes you are.
1635
01:20:04,070 --> 01:20:06,006
Hold that thought. Not yet.
1636
01:20:06,039 --> 01:20:07,173
That's for later.
1637
01:20:08,241 --> 01:20:11,478
- Hey, hey. - This party is incredible.
1638
01:20:11,511 --> 01:20:14,080
- Thank you so much for including us, both of you.
1639
01:20:14,114 --> 01:20:15,949
- Are you kidding? Thanks for coming.
1640
01:20:15,982 --> 01:20:17,150
It means a lot to both of us.
1641
01:20:17,183 --> 01:20:18,918
- Please enjoy the party.
1642
01:20:18,952 --> 01:20:21,154
- Merry Christmas. - Merry Christmas.
1643
01:20:22,222 --> 01:20:27,227
- I know you two still haven't eaten. Here.
1644
01:20:27,694 --> 01:20:29,162
Have some spiced eggnog.
1645
01:20:34,601 --> 01:20:35,869
Drink. Drink.
1646
01:20:41,041 --> 01:20:42,208
- Oh, here.
1647
01:20:49,015 --> 01:20:50,450
- Ah, toughen up. O'Brien.
1648
01:20:50,483 --> 01:20:52,952
A blessed marriage is worth a little pain.
1649
01:20:52,986 --> 01:20:56,923
- Wow. Aunty Rekha speaks, and she means business.
1650
01:20:58,124 --> 01:20:59,392
- Thank you.
1651
01:20:59,426 --> 01:21:01,294
- Congratulations to you. Hi.
1652
01:21:02,729 --> 01:21:03,663
- Hey, big guy. Merry Christmas.
1653
01:21:04,698 --> 01:21:06,433
- Merry Christmas.
1654
01:21:11,338 --> 01:21:13,273
- Welcome to the family, son.
1655
01:21:13,306 --> 01:21:17,177
- Does that mean I finally get to call you Dad?
1656
01:21:17,210 --> 01:21:20,113
- Let's not get ahead of ourselves.
1657
01:21:20,146 --> 01:21:22,315
How about we start with Samuel?
1658
01:21:22,349 --> 01:21:23,683
- Sounds good, Samuel.
1659
01:21:26,152 --> 01:21:28,688
Looking extra sharp tonight, pops.
1660
01:21:28,722 --> 01:21:30,256
Any reason?
1661
01:21:30,290 --> 01:21:31,391
- No, it's a big day.
1662
01:21:31,424 --> 01:21:33,059
Of course I'm gonna dress up.
1663
01:21:33,093 --> 01:21:34,427
Two right here.
1664
01:21:34,461 --> 01:21:39,399
- Any other reason? - It's just a date,
1665
01:21:42,669 --> 01:21:45,605
but you never know, huh?
1666
01:21:48,541 --> 01:21:49,509
- Pretty cute.
1667
01:21:51,077 --> 01:21:52,445
- Thank you for joining us today
1668
01:21:52,479 --> 01:21:56,182
to celebrate not only Asha and Jake's engagement,
1669
01:21:56,216 --> 01:21:57,717
but to also celebrate the joy
1670
01:21:57,751 --> 01:22:01,521
and spirit of this wonderful holiday, Christmas.
1671
01:22:01,554 --> 01:22:03,723
- Christmas is a time to bring people together,
1672
01:22:03,757 --> 01:22:08,528
to set aside our differences and embrace the love
1673
01:22:08,561 --> 01:22:10,063
and joy we share.
1674
01:22:10,096 --> 01:22:12,298
And it's fitting that we celebrate their
1675
01:22:12,332 --> 01:22:14,134
engagement on this day.
1676
01:22:14,167 --> 01:22:17,337
Because just like Christmas, Asha and Jake
1677
01:22:17,370 --> 01:22:21,207
brought our two families and traditions together.
1678
01:22:21,241 --> 01:22:24,511
- Now, please exchange your engagement rings.
1679
01:22:26,212 --> 01:22:29,115
In the Hindu tradition of the Nischitartham,
1680
01:22:29,149 --> 01:22:31,084
fathers formally give their permission
1681
01:22:31,117 --> 01:22:32,485
for the Children's Union.
1682
01:22:32,519 --> 01:22:36,222
It is my honor to give my blessing to Asha
1683
01:22:36,256 --> 01:22:37,757
and Jake's engagement.
1684
01:22:37,791 --> 01:22:42,095
- And it is with great joy that I give my blessing
1685
01:22:42,128 --> 01:22:43,663
to Asha and Jake.
1686
01:22:43,697 --> 01:22:46,132
- It is our great pleasure
1687
01:22:46,166 --> 01:22:47,701
to formally announce the engagement
1688
01:22:47,734 --> 01:22:49,769
of our daughter, Asha Singh.
1689
01:22:49,803 --> 01:22:53,073
- And our son, Jake O'Brien.
1690
01:23:19,399 --> 01:23:21,101
- Merry Christmas, Asha.
1691
01:23:21,134 --> 01:23:22,702
- Merry Christmas.
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