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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:39,935 --> 00:00:43,844 There's been a huge emphasis on trust today. 2 00:00:43,844 --> 00:00:47,626 How much trust do you have in yourself? 3 00:00:47,626 --> 00:00:49,636 I have two great quotes here. 4 00:00:49,636 --> 00:00:51,695 The first one leans more towards trust 5 00:00:51,695 --> 00:00:55,306 and trusting in yourself and in others. 6 00:00:55,306 --> 00:00:58,223 The first one is Proverbs 3:5 to 6. 7 00:01:02,324 --> 00:01:05,491 Trust in the Lord with all your heart, 8 00:01:07,186 --> 00:01:11,306 and do not lean towards your own understanding. 9 00:01:11,306 --> 00:01:15,375 In all your acknowledgements, trust in Him. 10 00:01:15,375 --> 00:01:19,458 The next quote, which I wanted to pass on to you, 11 00:01:21,874 --> 00:01:24,404 which I feel like you should definitely acknowledge, 12 00:01:24,404 --> 00:01:29,404 is one from our beloved Richard and his dog, Richard II. 13 00:01:29,615 --> 00:01:32,334 He was a magnificent person. 14 00:01:32,334 --> 00:01:33,495 He was a pillar of our community. 15 00:01:33,495 --> 00:01:34,724 He was a member of our congregation. 16 00:01:34,724 --> 00:01:39,141 Also, he was a wonderful soul and being, we lost him. 17 00:01:41,586 --> 00:01:44,117 This quote reminded me of him. 18 00:01:46,666 --> 00:01:48,999 It's from Mark 10, verse 52. 19 00:01:51,218 --> 00:01:54,718 Go, said Jesus, your faith has healed you. 20 00:01:57,795 --> 00:02:00,545 Immediately he received his sight 21 00:02:04,917 --> 00:02:07,750 and followed Jesus along the road. 22 00:02:12,978 --> 00:02:17,978 So I'm gonna say, I'm gonna put an end to today's service. 23 00:02:36,058 --> 00:02:38,058 So what's troubling you? 24 00:02:40,957 --> 00:02:42,995 I'm sorry that neither of us 25 00:02:42,995 --> 00:02:46,538 have officially told you in person, 26 00:02:46,538 --> 00:02:48,996 but I'm assuming that you've heard about 27 00:02:48,996 --> 00:02:51,446 Jamal's condition by now. 28 00:02:51,446 --> 00:02:54,863 Yes, I am truly sorry to hear the news. 29 00:02:57,195 --> 00:02:58,144 I wasn't too sure if you were comfortable 30 00:02:58,144 --> 00:03:01,774 sharing the information with me, so I, 31 00:03:01,774 --> 00:03:05,646 but look, I want you to know that we're here for you. 32 00:03:05,646 --> 00:03:09,875 The church is here for you, for the both of you. 33 00:03:09,875 --> 00:03:14,875 These days have been officially numbered for a while now. 34 00:03:15,614 --> 00:03:19,614 And I never knew that I'd get to this situation. 35 00:03:20,864 --> 00:03:25,031 I just, I don't, I'm finding it hard to understand 36 00:03:27,583 --> 00:03:30,726 why this is happening to us. 37 00:03:30,726 --> 00:03:34,726 You know, I strive to follow God's commandments. 38 00:03:39,434 --> 00:03:42,234 I really try to put people before myself. 39 00:03:42,234 --> 00:03:44,634 I work so hard in this church. 40 00:03:44,634 --> 00:03:49,551 Destiny, look, I and everyone knows how selfless you are, 41 00:03:51,274 --> 00:03:54,133 and I'm really sorry to hear 42 00:03:54,133 --> 00:03:55,783 this is happening to both you and Jamal. 43 00:03:55,783 --> 00:03:57,525 It's really unfair, really unfair, 44 00:03:57,525 --> 00:03:59,942 but, like, I need you to know 45 00:04:01,742 --> 00:04:02,893 that whatever the circumstance, 46 00:04:02,893 --> 00:04:04,510 we're gonna be here for you. 47 00:04:04,510 --> 00:04:06,340 We're gonna be here for the both of you. 48 00:04:06,340 --> 00:04:08,321 Look, God loves you. 49 00:04:08,321 --> 00:04:10,020 How can you say that? 50 00:04:10,020 --> 00:04:12,401 How can you say that, Darius? 51 00:04:12,401 --> 00:04:13,481 If God loved us both, 52 00:04:13,481 --> 00:04:17,511 he would not let Jamal suffer like this. 53 00:04:17,511 --> 00:04:20,369 I mean, is He punishing us, is He? 54 00:04:20,369 --> 00:04:21,841 No, no, he's not. 55 00:04:21,841 --> 00:04:24,809 That's not the case I promise you. 56 00:04:24,809 --> 00:04:28,271 Look, I know it's hard and you're in pain, 57 00:04:28,271 --> 00:04:32,532 and there's gonna be elements and times of sorrow. 58 00:04:32,532 --> 00:04:35,372 They tend to go hand in hand in times like this. 59 00:04:35,372 --> 00:04:37,841 Look, God has a plan for each and every one of us, 60 00:04:37,841 --> 00:04:42,508 but sometimes that plan is hard to understand, you know? 61 00:04:45,602 --> 00:04:49,685 He's not punishing you, like, I promise you that. 62 00:04:53,092 --> 00:04:53,925 I feel. 63 00:04:56,593 --> 00:04:58,532 It just feels so hard, 64 00:04:58,532 --> 00:05:00,949 so hard to keep a brave face, 65 00:05:02,743 --> 00:05:04,913 to say hello, good morning to everyone 66 00:05:04,913 --> 00:05:09,663 like nothing is happening in my life that's just so hard. 67 00:05:10,942 --> 00:05:15,564 I wasn't gonna say anything, but, you know, I, 68 00:05:15,564 --> 00:05:19,397 you know, I lost my daughter a few years back, 69 00:05:22,055 --> 00:05:23,055 bone cancer. 70 00:05:24,284 --> 00:05:28,455 I didn't know how I'd be able to get through it. 71 00:05:28,455 --> 00:05:29,705 I'm so sorry. 72 00:05:31,604 --> 00:05:32,771 We lost her, 73 00:05:33,714 --> 00:05:35,297 but I feel that we, 74 00:05:37,583 --> 00:05:40,644 really we didn't really lose her, did we? 75 00:05:40,644 --> 00:05:43,394 I mean, she's still here with us. 76 00:05:44,932 --> 00:05:48,103 She's still looking down on us, isn't she? 77 00:05:48,103 --> 00:05:48,953 Is she? 78 00:05:48,953 --> 00:05:50,453 She is. 79 00:05:53,892 --> 00:05:55,142 I don't know. 80 00:05:58,723 --> 00:06:03,140 I want my husband to be here with me in the physical, 81 00:06:04,312 --> 00:06:05,479 not in heaven, 82 00:06:06,662 --> 00:06:10,131 or in some other place where I can't touch him. 83 00:06:10,131 --> 00:06:12,150 We've had such a wonderful life together. 84 00:06:12,150 --> 00:06:15,003 And this is just, it's just finishing too soon. 85 00:06:15,003 --> 00:06:19,232 I just, I really can't understand what's happening. 86 00:06:19,232 --> 00:06:21,911 I really feel like I need some answers now. 87 00:06:21,911 --> 00:06:24,232 You'll never have all the answers. 88 00:06:24,232 --> 00:06:25,065 Why not? 89 00:06:27,791 --> 00:06:28,624 Why? 90 00:06:28,624 --> 00:06:32,272 You'll never have all the answers. 91 00:06:32,272 --> 00:06:33,105 I know it's hard, 92 00:06:33,105 --> 00:06:37,551 but even in our most difficult and darkest moments, 93 00:06:37,551 --> 00:06:39,409 you can still find strength and hope, 94 00:06:39,409 --> 00:06:43,699 even from the most challenging circumstances. 95 00:06:43,699 --> 00:06:46,979 Where, where can I find strength and hope? 96 00:06:46,979 --> 00:06:49,152 Like I said, we're here for you and you're not alone. 97 00:06:49,152 --> 00:06:51,173 You have the church. 98 00:06:51,173 --> 00:06:54,032 The church has got your back, and you have Jesus. 99 00:06:54,032 --> 00:06:58,615 And look, the Bible is just a page turn away, you know? 100 00:06:59,792 --> 00:07:03,792 And alongside that, regardless of what might happen, 101 00:07:03,792 --> 00:07:05,221 or might come your way, 102 00:07:05,221 --> 00:07:08,888 that at least we know that Jamal he's gonna, 103 00:07:11,512 --> 00:07:14,443 Jamal will be at peace soon. 104 00:07:14,443 --> 00:07:16,610 I don't wanna hear that. 105 00:07:17,842 --> 00:07:20,582 And no matter what happens, 106 00:07:20,582 --> 00:07:25,165 whatever comes your way, Jamal will always be with you. 107 00:07:27,682 --> 00:07:29,274 I'm sorry, Darius. 108 00:07:29,274 --> 00:07:32,941 Maybe I'm just losing my faith a little bit. 109 00:07:34,154 --> 00:07:35,263 These are just words. 110 00:07:35,263 --> 00:07:36,663 They're not actually helping me. 111 00:07:36,663 --> 00:07:40,514 I thought if I came here, you could help me. 112 00:07:40,514 --> 00:07:43,672 You could save him, you could, you could. 113 00:07:43,672 --> 00:07:47,282 It's hard to see right now. 114 00:07:47,282 --> 00:07:49,032 I understand, I do. 115 00:07:49,962 --> 00:07:52,131 I understand, I think. 116 00:07:52,131 --> 00:07:54,322 Try and keep the faith. 117 00:07:54,322 --> 00:07:55,253 It's not gonna be easy. 118 00:07:55,253 --> 00:07:58,420 It's gonna be, it's not gonna be easy. 119 00:08:00,022 --> 00:08:00,855 Look, 120 00:08:03,614 --> 00:08:07,697 how about you go back and make sure Jamal's okay? 121 00:08:08,963 --> 00:08:11,763 We can have more of a chat when I see you later on. 122 00:08:11,763 --> 00:08:12,822 Okay. 123 00:08:12,822 --> 00:08:13,655 Yeah? 124 00:08:13,655 --> 00:08:16,905 And remember, God will never leave you. 125 00:09:09,191 --> 00:09:10,024 Hi. 126 00:09:10,024 --> 00:09:10,857 Hi. 127 00:09:17,811 --> 00:09:18,728 You okay? 128 00:09:19,731 --> 00:09:21,917 Did you enjoy the service? 129 00:09:21,917 --> 00:09:23,750 Yeah, it was lovely. 130 00:09:28,998 --> 00:09:30,831 How are you feeling? 131 00:09:32,609 --> 00:09:34,276 I'm okay, darling. 132 00:09:36,730 --> 00:09:39,101 While you were in church with Darius, 133 00:09:39,101 --> 00:09:41,850 I was just reading up more on what to expect 134 00:09:41,850 --> 00:09:43,267 with lung cancer. 135 00:09:51,039 --> 00:09:53,872 Just trying to process everything. 136 00:09:59,629 --> 00:10:02,879 By the way, how was the heart to heart? 137 00:10:09,261 --> 00:10:11,094 You know, the usual. 138 00:10:15,650 --> 00:10:18,483 Is there anything more I could do? 139 00:10:19,610 --> 00:10:20,443 No. 140 00:10:21,461 --> 00:10:24,461 You're perfect just the way you are. 141 00:10:33,869 --> 00:10:36,589 We're gonna fight this, 142 00:10:36,589 --> 00:10:40,006 and we're with you every step of the way. 143 00:10:47,370 --> 00:10:49,528 I need to speak with you about something 144 00:10:49,528 --> 00:10:51,445 really important to me. 145 00:10:52,301 --> 00:10:53,884 What do you mean? 146 00:10:55,050 --> 00:10:59,341 You know how I'm always speaking about the plan, 147 00:10:59,341 --> 00:11:01,758 the plan that God has for me. 148 00:11:04,128 --> 00:11:07,961 Well, now that that plan is coming to a close, 149 00:11:11,199 --> 00:11:16,032 I've been thinking about what it means for you afterwards. 150 00:11:20,181 --> 00:11:23,359 Don't talk like that, Jamal. 151 00:11:23,359 --> 00:11:25,279 You know I have faith 152 00:11:25,279 --> 00:11:29,696 and it's gonna carry me through this situation, okay? 153 00:11:33,919 --> 00:11:36,239 Why do I get the sense that, 154 00:11:39,690 --> 00:11:40,523 that. 155 00:11:49,330 --> 00:11:51,663 Look, I'm not losing hope. 156 00:11:56,159 --> 00:11:58,576 And you're not alone in this. 157 00:12:00,098 --> 00:12:02,650 Look, we can continue to pray together, 158 00:12:02,650 --> 00:12:05,150 and just ask God for guidance. 159 00:12:09,477 --> 00:12:13,060 I've been speaking to people and, you know, 160 00:12:15,157 --> 00:12:16,740 leading up on earth 161 00:12:20,157 --> 00:12:23,490 what happens in the worst case scenario? 162 00:12:52,414 --> 00:12:55,164 - Are you okay? - Yeah, thank you. 163 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:55,480 Jamal, sweetie, let me put some pillows under you. 164 00:13:55,591 --> 00:13:57,320 Make you more comfortable. 165 00:13:57,320 --> 00:13:58,320 Thank you. 166 00:13:59,990 --> 00:14:02,532 See how that is. 167 00:14:02,532 --> 00:14:03,471 Is that better? 168 00:14:03,471 --> 00:14:04,304 Much better. 169 00:14:04,304 --> 00:14:05,830 Good. 170 00:14:05,830 --> 00:14:07,842 Thank you. 171 00:14:12,071 --> 00:14:14,932 Okay, I'm gonna go get your meds. 172 00:14:14,932 --> 00:14:17,432 I'll bring you some water too. 173 00:14:19,509 --> 00:14:20,342 Destiny. 174 00:14:22,188 --> 00:14:25,021 Would you hand me my Bible please? 175 00:14:30,782 --> 00:14:32,615 Of course. 176 00:14:36,022 --> 00:14:37,022 Thank you. 177 00:14:41,902 --> 00:14:46,235 And if you've got any rum, would you bring that too? 178 00:15:01,963 --> 00:15:05,974 Even though I walk through the darkest of valleys, 179 00:15:05,974 --> 00:15:09,307 I will fear no evil for you are with me. 180 00:15:12,473 --> 00:15:16,662 Your rod and your staff, they comfort me. 181 00:15:16,662 --> 00:15:18,412 Psalm 23, verse four. 182 00:15:19,991 --> 00:15:21,658 Beautiful. 183 00:15:23,721 --> 00:15:26,971 Come on, it's time to take your meds. 184 00:15:40,801 --> 00:15:44,634 You weren't able to find that rum, were you? 185 00:15:50,111 --> 00:15:53,278 Are you feeling all right? 186 00:15:54,833 --> 00:15:58,372 About as well as could be expected. 187 00:15:58,372 --> 00:16:01,911 Although I wish I were in the Jamaican sun right now. 188 00:16:01,911 --> 00:16:02,744 Me too. 189 00:16:08,041 --> 00:16:11,874 All right, honey, you got some rest now, okay? 190 00:16:14,180 --> 00:16:17,111 Oh, do you know who I saw the other day, I saw Sally. 191 00:16:17,111 --> 00:16:17,944 Do you remember Sally? 192 00:16:17,944 --> 00:16:20,282 We used to go to school together. 193 00:16:20,282 --> 00:16:21,115 She was that girl 194 00:16:21,115 --> 00:16:23,972 that we used to have so many arguments at school. 195 00:16:23,972 --> 00:16:25,010 Do you remember her? 196 00:16:25,010 --> 00:16:26,343 I'm sure you do. 197 00:16:27,761 --> 00:16:28,761 Beautiful. 198 00:16:46,619 --> 00:16:49,579 I was wearing those square shoes 199 00:16:49,579 --> 00:16:54,246 and she was just, like, insulting my shoes all the time. 200 00:16:55,459 --> 00:16:56,689 I'm sure I told you the story before, 201 00:16:56,689 --> 00:17:01,689 but I'm gonna tell you again 'cause she just reminded me. 202 00:17:01,950 --> 00:17:03,640 So anyway, she used to wear 203 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:05,870 these really skinny stiletto shoes. 204 00:17:05,870 --> 00:17:09,099 And I like my big square heels. 205 00:17:09,099 --> 00:17:11,430 And we were going out one night 206 00:17:11,430 --> 00:17:15,847 and she got her stiletto heel stuck in the escalator, 207 00:17:18,979 --> 00:17:21,729 and it closed the escalator down. 208 00:17:22,649 --> 00:17:25,709 I mean, I was kind of happy because I was off the escalator, 209 00:17:25,709 --> 00:17:27,709 but she was stuck in it. 210 00:17:31,030 --> 00:17:32,280 Are you hungry? 211 00:17:35,219 --> 00:17:36,052 Jamal? 212 00:17:39,830 --> 00:17:40,663 Jamal? 213 00:17:43,779 --> 00:17:44,612 Jamal? 214 00:17:52,718 --> 00:17:53,635 So, anyway, 215 00:17:56,838 --> 00:17:59,338 her shoe got absolutely stuck, 216 00:18:02,089 --> 00:18:04,589 but the escalator didn't stop. 217 00:18:06,990 --> 00:18:09,422 Her heel just got ripped. 218 00:18:09,422 --> 00:18:13,255 And I was, I was already out of the escalator. 219 00:18:16,630 --> 00:18:21,121 My shoes were fine and I was laughing at her. 220 00:19:08,209 --> 00:19:09,499 Hey sis. 221 00:19:09,499 --> 00:19:13,668 Good morning, how's it going down there? 222 00:19:13,668 --> 00:19:16,418 It's about as busy as the shop. 223 00:19:19,727 --> 00:19:22,236 Hi. How are you? 224 00:19:22,236 --> 00:19:23,636 I'm okay, how are you? 225 00:19:23,636 --> 00:19:24,469 Not too good. 226 00:19:24,469 --> 00:19:25,302 Hey mom. 227 00:19:25,302 --> 00:19:26,590 Good morning 228 00:19:26,590 --> 00:19:29,366 Uncle, I've got something to show you. 229 00:19:29,366 --> 00:19:32,449 What you got there big man? 230 00:19:36,657 --> 00:19:38,457 Good morning. 231 00:19:38,457 --> 00:19:39,290 How are you? 232 00:19:39,290 --> 00:19:42,065 I'm good, thanks, I'm Carly Rae. 233 00:19:42,065 --> 00:19:44,657 Could I get you something? 234 00:19:44,657 --> 00:19:47,756 I'm Angel, can we get you something? 235 00:19:47,756 --> 00:19:49,936 Do you mind if I leave these here? 236 00:19:49,936 --> 00:19:51,106 Oh, what are they? 237 00:19:51,106 --> 00:19:53,256 They're flyers for the church I follow. 238 00:19:53,256 --> 00:19:56,756 No, sorry, no religious literature here. 239 00:19:57,917 --> 00:19:59,656 Do you mind if I ask why not? 240 00:19:59,656 --> 00:20:00,755 It's none of your business. 241 00:20:00,755 --> 00:20:01,588 Destiny. 242 00:20:03,496 --> 00:20:04,387 All our church is doing, 243 00:20:04,387 --> 00:20:06,826 it's offering flyers for people going through hard times. 244 00:20:06,826 --> 00:20:08,637 We just wanna help. 245 00:20:08,637 --> 00:20:10,376 And these flyers may give people contacts 246 00:20:10,376 --> 00:20:12,555 for a place that can help them. 247 00:20:12,555 --> 00:20:14,125 Nothing provocative. 248 00:20:14,125 --> 00:20:15,955 I appreciate your reasons, 249 00:20:15,955 --> 00:20:19,788 but I don't want to associate with any church. 250 00:20:21,675 --> 00:20:23,597 I don't want my customers to feel pressurized 251 00:20:23,597 --> 00:20:25,680 or uncomfortable, so no. 252 00:20:26,946 --> 00:20:28,706 I understand. 253 00:20:28,706 --> 00:20:30,997 We just wanna help people in need. 254 00:20:30,997 --> 00:20:33,157 I'm sorry, um? 255 00:20:33,157 --> 00:20:34,525 Carly Rae. 256 00:20:34,525 --> 00:20:39,277 I'm sorry, Carly Rae, but my answer is still a no. 257 00:20:39,277 --> 00:20:43,836 This is a secular coffee shop and I wanna keep it that way. 258 00:20:43,836 --> 00:20:47,146 I understand, thank you for your time. 259 00:20:47,146 --> 00:20:47,979 Thank you. 260 00:20:47,979 --> 00:20:49,729 Thanks. 261 00:20:52,615 --> 00:20:55,305 Wasn't very friendly, was it? 262 00:20:55,305 --> 00:20:56,138 Uh-hum. 263 00:20:56,138 --> 00:20:58,265 That's great sales strategy you've hit on there. 264 00:20:58,265 --> 00:21:00,476 Let's be rude to everyone who comes in. 265 00:21:00,476 --> 00:21:04,044 You're bound to sell tons of coffee that way, hmm? 266 00:21:04,044 --> 00:21:07,004 I just wanna let everyone know where we stand, Angel. 267 00:21:07,004 --> 00:21:10,087 I don't wanna be dishonest to anyone. 268 00:21:11,865 --> 00:21:13,313 Okay. 269 00:21:13,313 --> 00:21:16,534 It's time, I've got to go pick her up. 270 00:21:16,534 --> 00:21:18,617 Always a royal welcome. 271 00:21:23,801 --> 00:21:24,634 Oh. 272 00:21:31,770 --> 00:21:34,328 Sis, if you can spare a minute, 273 00:21:34,328 --> 00:21:37,301 can we get some coffee over here please? 274 00:21:37,301 --> 00:21:40,889 I should start charging you guys for your coffees. 275 00:21:40,889 --> 00:21:43,639 Hey, I don't even drink coffee. 276 00:21:47,559 --> 00:21:51,559 So, how was that party you went to last night? 277 00:21:53,490 --> 00:21:55,290 It was okay, I thought it was gonna be fancy dress, 278 00:21:55,290 --> 00:21:59,129 but it turned out to be a smart casual kind of thing. 279 00:21:59,129 --> 00:22:02,151 What monstrosity did you show up in this time? 280 00:22:02,151 --> 00:22:06,484 You looked like the Black Abraham Lincoln last time. 281 00:22:07,541 --> 00:22:09,570 You're just jealous. 282 00:22:09,570 --> 00:22:11,369 I don't think I went too overboard this time around. 283 00:22:11,369 --> 00:22:15,367 I borrowed Terry's football Premier League outfit. 284 00:22:15,367 --> 00:22:17,367 Oh, that's not embarrassing at all. 285 00:22:17,367 --> 00:22:18,284 It's not? 286 00:22:19,967 --> 00:22:22,626 Although, I wonder where the shorts went off to 287 00:22:22,626 --> 00:22:24,015 'cause I think one of the guests stole it, 288 00:22:24,015 --> 00:22:25,932 and I have no idea who. 289 00:22:26,864 --> 00:22:30,975 I know Terry's gonna flip when he finds out. 290 00:22:30,975 --> 00:22:32,946 How on earth did they get your shorts off you? 291 00:22:32,946 --> 00:22:35,946 I don't know, I let my guard down. 292 00:22:35,946 --> 00:22:38,934 I forgot Eric and Graham would be there. 293 00:22:38,934 --> 00:22:43,276 Graham has had it out for me ever since I sat on his gerbil. 294 00:22:43,276 --> 00:22:44,525 What is it I'm hearing? 295 00:22:44,525 --> 00:22:48,192 Look who I found, ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh. 296 00:22:50,245 --> 00:22:52,805 It's good to see you. 297 00:22:52,805 --> 00:22:54,921 Nala. 298 00:22:54,921 --> 00:22:55,754 Thank you. 299 00:22:55,754 --> 00:22:58,150 Awe, it's so good to see you. 300 00:22:58,150 --> 00:23:00,625 Oh, God, just hug your sister. 301 00:23:00,625 --> 00:23:01,458 Um. 302 00:23:01,458 --> 00:23:02,321 Um. 303 00:23:02,321 --> 00:23:03,248 Come on, come and sit down. 304 00:23:03,248 --> 00:23:05,879 Come sit down, sit down, sit down. 305 00:23:05,879 --> 00:23:07,978 I guess your lectures are secondary 306 00:23:07,978 --> 00:23:10,258 in the background right now. 307 00:23:10,258 --> 00:23:13,425 I know they were when I was a student. 308 00:23:14,450 --> 00:23:17,381 Hey, I've actually been going to all of my lectures. 309 00:23:17,381 --> 00:23:18,214 Um. 310 00:23:18,214 --> 00:23:20,229 Well, as many as I can. 311 00:23:20,229 --> 00:23:21,661 We are paying for them after all. 312 00:23:21,661 --> 00:23:24,141 That's our girl getting our money's worth. 313 00:23:24,141 --> 00:23:25,432 Isn't she? 314 00:23:25,432 --> 00:23:26,573 I'm currently getting my head around 315 00:23:26,573 --> 00:23:29,152 the McLibel 1997 case. 316 00:23:29,152 --> 00:23:32,232 The judgment alone was a thousand pages. 317 00:23:32,232 --> 00:23:35,140 Ooh, university sounds so exciting. 318 00:23:35,140 --> 00:23:36,561 That's funny. 319 00:23:36,561 --> 00:23:37,649 You'd probably be, like, 320 00:23:37,649 --> 00:23:40,430 very disappointed when you get there, Gabe. 321 00:23:40,430 --> 00:23:42,169 You'd find it's not all just partying 322 00:23:42,169 --> 00:23:44,862 and dancing and drinking. 323 00:23:44,862 --> 00:23:48,310 Besides, based on your most recent party, 324 00:23:48,310 --> 00:23:49,490 you should probably spend more time 325 00:23:49,490 --> 00:23:52,700 with your head in your books. 326 00:23:52,700 --> 00:23:54,681 What, how, how does she know? 327 00:23:54,681 --> 00:23:55,931 I legit just told you. 328 00:23:55,931 --> 00:23:58,910 What happened at Gabe's last party? 329 00:23:58,910 --> 00:24:01,030 Nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing. 330 00:24:01,030 --> 00:24:03,262 You must be hungry. 331 00:24:03,262 --> 00:24:05,012 Have you been eating? 332 00:24:05,931 --> 00:24:06,883 Let me get you home. 333 00:24:06,883 --> 00:24:10,222 I've got a nice jerk roast ready for dinner tonight. 334 00:24:10,222 --> 00:24:13,761 And we might even go and watch a movie later. 335 00:24:13,761 --> 00:24:17,083 Well, first of all, I have been eating, why? 336 00:24:17,083 --> 00:24:19,672 Does it look like I've been on a hunger strike or something? 337 00:24:19,672 --> 00:24:21,940 It's a shame the cooks at uni aren't as good as you. 338 00:24:21,940 --> 00:24:23,341 Of course. 339 00:24:23,341 --> 00:24:25,861 Uh-hmm, resorting to flattery to connect 340 00:24:25,861 --> 00:24:27,912 just less in the kitchen. 341 00:24:27,912 --> 00:24:29,632 My uncle knows me. 342 00:24:29,632 --> 00:24:32,240 Well, we're all susceptible to a little bit of flattery, 343 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:33,073 hmm? 344 00:24:35,869 --> 00:24:37,509 So how's the shop doing mom? 345 00:24:37,509 --> 00:24:40,342 As you can see, we are thriving. 346 00:24:43,509 --> 00:24:45,584 Well, I'll have a mocha if one's going. 347 00:24:45,584 --> 00:24:46,988 What size? 348 00:24:46,988 --> 00:24:48,312 The biggest one you have. 349 00:24:48,312 --> 00:24:49,312 Coming up. 350 00:24:55,902 --> 00:24:57,763 Now that I'm gone, 351 00:24:57,763 --> 00:24:59,780 I suspect that you will be the rock 352 00:24:59,780 --> 00:25:03,123 that your mother leans on when times are difficult. 353 00:25:03,123 --> 00:25:04,330 It will be a tough assignment, 354 00:25:04,330 --> 00:25:08,413 but even if you could, you shouldn't do it alone. 355 00:25:14,582 --> 00:25:16,883 So how's she been doing? 356 00:25:16,883 --> 00:25:19,843 Not great, to be perfectly honest. 357 00:25:19,843 --> 00:25:23,510 In my opinion, she's actually getting worse. 358 00:25:25,395 --> 00:25:27,736 We'll talk properly later. 359 00:25:27,736 --> 00:25:29,264 Okay, all right. 360 00:25:29,264 --> 00:25:32,845 Little man, come on, I'll drive you home. 361 00:25:32,845 --> 00:25:35,095 What happened to big man? 362 00:25:36,493 --> 00:25:39,743 That was before you lost your shorts. 363 00:25:42,005 --> 00:25:46,338 You know I'm younger and stronger than you, right? 364 00:25:47,702 --> 00:25:48,952 Younger, yes. 365 00:25:50,132 --> 00:25:52,173 Stronger, hell no. 366 00:25:52,173 --> 00:25:55,142 Don't blast him. 367 00:25:55,142 --> 00:25:56,142 Mea culpa. 368 00:25:57,171 --> 00:25:59,171 Come on Abraham Lincoln. 369 00:26:00,211 --> 00:26:01,294 I'll see you. 370 00:26:02,251 --> 00:26:03,291 Love you. 371 00:26:03,291 --> 00:26:06,291 Love you, see you later. 372 00:26:11,062 --> 00:26:13,980 So how's mom really been doing? 373 00:26:13,980 --> 00:26:18,151 I mean, I see she's putting on a brave face, 374 00:26:18,151 --> 00:26:20,898 but I can sense the pain underneath. 375 00:26:20,898 --> 00:26:22,666 All I can say is, Nala, 376 00:26:22,666 --> 00:26:25,717 your mom's going through a rollercoaster of emotions. 377 00:26:25,717 --> 00:26:27,797 Some days she's managing okay. 378 00:26:27,797 --> 00:26:32,197 Finding the strength to go on for you, Gabriel, and herself, 379 00:26:32,197 --> 00:26:34,614 but then there are other days 380 00:26:35,957 --> 00:26:38,207 when the grief just overwhelms her 381 00:26:38,207 --> 00:26:40,997 and she finds it difficult to function. 382 00:26:40,997 --> 00:26:44,497 She just feels so alone a lot of the time. 383 00:26:47,274 --> 00:26:49,567 I've just got so many commitments going on right now 384 00:26:49,567 --> 00:26:54,067 and I don't fully understand what she's going through. 385 00:26:56,117 --> 00:26:59,418 Nala, when was the last time you were here 386 00:26:59,418 --> 00:27:01,298 for longer than a day, if that even? 387 00:27:01,298 --> 00:27:02,131 But. 388 00:27:02,131 --> 00:27:04,464 Nala, Nala, let me finish. 389 00:27:06,098 --> 00:27:07,015 I miss you, 390 00:27:09,476 --> 00:27:11,309 your mom, Gabe misses. 391 00:27:16,727 --> 00:27:17,810 Don't, don't. 392 00:27:22,717 --> 00:27:25,134 I'm sorry, you must be tired. 393 00:27:28,818 --> 00:27:33,165 Do you think mom will find happiness again? 394 00:27:33,165 --> 00:27:34,915 Dad was her soulmate. 395 00:27:40,005 --> 00:27:43,586 Your mom's journey to healing will take some time, Nala, 396 00:27:43,586 --> 00:27:47,976 but I believe that someday she will find happiness soon. 397 00:27:47,976 --> 00:27:52,935 It's not easy to lose someone that you love deeply. 398 00:27:52,935 --> 00:27:55,018 She will find love again. 399 00:27:56,122 --> 00:27:57,914 It won't be the same, 400 00:27:57,914 --> 00:27:59,725 but she will learn to cherish the memories 401 00:27:59,725 --> 00:28:04,558 and create a new future for you, herself, and for Gabriel. 402 00:28:08,685 --> 00:28:10,285 I hope so. 403 00:28:10,285 --> 00:28:12,434 I just want her to be okay. 404 00:28:12,434 --> 00:28:14,754 Then you should come home more often. 405 00:28:14,754 --> 00:28:17,914 There is Easter, there is Christmas. 406 00:28:17,914 --> 00:28:20,583 There is the summer holidays. 407 00:28:20,583 --> 00:28:25,250 You left me here by myself, Nala, to hold down the fort. 408 00:28:29,114 --> 00:28:33,191 The boys are trying, but it's not the same. 409 00:28:33,191 --> 00:28:36,191 I miss you, you're the missing link. 410 00:28:49,631 --> 00:28:50,881 What about you? 411 00:28:52,151 --> 00:28:53,484 What about me? 412 00:28:55,514 --> 00:28:59,347 Are you allowing yourself to grieve? 413 00:29:00,935 --> 00:29:04,194 Has mom been going to church at all? 414 00:29:04,194 --> 00:29:05,564 We'll get there, 415 00:29:05,564 --> 00:29:07,263 but I know I said I was going to update you 416 00:29:07,263 --> 00:29:08,895 if anything happened. 417 00:29:08,895 --> 00:29:10,975 Unfortunately, she's just been the same 418 00:29:10,975 --> 00:29:13,124 as the last time you saw her. 419 00:29:13,124 --> 00:29:14,004 What? 420 00:29:14,004 --> 00:29:16,302 So Darius hasn't kept in contact when he said he would. 421 00:29:16,302 --> 00:29:18,164 There is only so much Darius can do 422 00:29:18,164 --> 00:29:20,791 if your mom doesn't want to be helped. 423 00:29:20,791 --> 00:29:21,874 I guess so. 424 00:29:23,895 --> 00:29:25,524 Oh, also, there's a bit of news 425 00:29:25,524 --> 00:29:27,514 that we need to update you on. 426 00:29:27,514 --> 00:29:29,135 Darius is leaving the parish. 427 00:29:29,135 --> 00:29:29,968 What? 428 00:29:29,968 --> 00:29:30,801 I know. 429 00:29:30,801 --> 00:29:31,994 He got a call from Southern diocese 430 00:29:31,994 --> 00:29:33,735 to be in London for now. 431 00:29:33,735 --> 00:29:37,234 We had to apply for a new vicar. 432 00:29:37,234 --> 00:29:39,954 Well, we've been attendees of his church for years now. 433 00:29:39,954 --> 00:29:41,724 He didn't even bother to say goodbye. 434 00:29:41,724 --> 00:29:42,834 He was sorry to go, 435 00:29:42,834 --> 00:29:47,084 but he's been chasing that promotion for years now. 436 00:29:48,074 --> 00:29:50,961 Hmm, so who's our new vicar out of interest? 437 00:29:50,961 --> 00:29:52,461 Geraldine Granger. 438 00:29:53,562 --> 00:29:55,229 Ha-ha, very funny. 439 00:29:56,133 --> 00:29:58,373 No, we haven't actually met him yet. 440 00:29:58,373 --> 00:29:59,402 Or her. 441 00:29:59,402 --> 00:30:01,133 No, it's definitely a him. 442 00:30:01,133 --> 00:30:03,424 His name is Michael Johnson. 443 00:30:03,424 --> 00:30:04,924 Michael Johnson. 444 00:30:06,231 --> 00:30:08,064 Does he have a family? 445 00:30:09,151 --> 00:30:11,151 I don't know yet, why? 446 00:30:12,464 --> 00:30:15,047 I'm just curious, that's all. 447 00:30:17,512 --> 00:30:18,345 Hmm. 448 00:30:18,345 --> 00:30:19,480 Well, I'm sure he'd be perfectly nice 449 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,013 when we get to know him. 450 00:30:21,013 --> 00:30:22,031 He may not be Darius, 451 00:30:22,031 --> 00:30:26,698 but as Darius always says, God works in mysterious ways. 452 00:30:27,893 --> 00:30:30,431 I'm sure he's exactly what God wants for us. 453 00:30:30,431 --> 00:30:31,722 Well, if he's a vicar who could help me memorize 454 00:30:31,722 --> 00:30:34,362 hundreds of pages of law gibberish, 455 00:30:34,362 --> 00:30:38,250 then he'll be just what we needed for sure. 456 00:30:38,250 --> 00:30:40,000 Miracles do happen. 457 00:30:42,002 --> 00:30:44,140 Anyway, let's get out of here. 458 00:30:44,140 --> 00:30:46,180 Mom's probably dying to stuff me full of jerk roast 459 00:30:46,180 --> 00:30:48,018 until I burst. 460 00:30:48,018 --> 00:30:50,185 Not the worst way to go. 461 00:31:00,429 --> 00:31:01,929 Come on, let's go. 462 00:31:11,749 --> 00:31:12,582 Whatever you're selling 463 00:31:12,582 --> 00:31:14,869 we have an ample supply already. 464 00:31:14,869 --> 00:31:15,952 Very funny. 465 00:31:17,387 --> 00:31:19,137 Are you nearly ready? 466 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:24,487 Nearly, I just need to convince mom to come too. 467 00:31:37,058 --> 00:31:41,475 I'm sorry, Nala, I don't think that's gonna happen. 468 00:31:42,570 --> 00:31:45,970 Please, just let me have one more go to convince her. 469 00:31:45,970 --> 00:31:47,303 I won't be long. 470 00:31:52,629 --> 00:31:55,546 What do you think the chances are 471 00:31:56,627 --> 00:31:59,907 of her persuading your mom to come? 472 00:31:59,907 --> 00:32:04,170 Hmm, well, she listens to Nala more than most people. 473 00:32:04,170 --> 00:32:06,337 Uh-uh, not gonna happen. 474 00:32:07,437 --> 00:32:08,354 I would put 475 00:32:12,461 --> 00:32:14,044 10 pound on it now. 476 00:32:16,637 --> 00:32:17,470 Well. 477 00:32:23,877 --> 00:32:27,797 That's just not going to happen, honey. 478 00:32:27,797 --> 00:32:29,879 Not even to see some old friends? 479 00:32:29,879 --> 00:32:32,181 Not even to see some old friends. 480 00:32:32,181 --> 00:32:33,519 I'm sorry, Nala. 481 00:32:33,519 --> 00:32:34,999 But mom, why? 482 00:32:34,999 --> 00:32:37,370 Look, you know exactly why. 483 00:32:37,370 --> 00:32:42,037 And that's the last word I wanna hear about this matter. 484 00:32:48,661 --> 00:32:49,994 Okay mom, bye. 485 00:32:51,899 --> 00:32:52,816 Bye Nala. 486 00:32:58,159 --> 00:33:00,090 Shall we just go? 487 00:33:00,090 --> 00:33:03,741 Bowie said he can't mind the shop. 488 00:33:03,741 --> 00:33:05,574 I have to go, I can't. 489 00:33:07,559 --> 00:33:09,976 I have to go with my uncle. 490 00:33:21,839 --> 00:33:26,839 ♪ Amazing grace how sweet the sound ♪ 491 00:33:28,999 --> 00:33:33,999 ♪ That saved a wretch like me ♪ 492 00:33:36,818 --> 00:33:40,367 ♪ I once was lost ♪ 493 00:33:40,367 --> 00:33:42,828 What do you think of the new guy? 494 00:33:42,828 --> 00:33:46,356 Better looking than Darius I think so. 495 00:33:46,356 --> 00:33:51,356 ♪ But now I see ♪ 496 00:33:51,356 --> 00:33:56,093 ♪ My chains are gone I've been set free ♪ 497 00:33:57,508 --> 00:33:59,159 Shh. 498 00:33:59,159 --> 00:34:03,826 ♪ Because God my Savior has ransomed me ♪ 499 00:34:06,839 --> 00:34:08,370 I haven't been home for ages. 500 00:34:08,370 --> 00:34:11,071 I can't believe they didn't come with us. 501 00:34:11,071 --> 00:34:14,112 I can tell you now, Malik's not any different. 502 00:34:14,112 --> 00:34:15,029 Hey Agatha. 503 00:34:16,032 --> 00:34:18,503 How was Sunday school? 504 00:34:18,503 --> 00:34:20,304 The kids were a bit rowdy. 505 00:34:20,304 --> 00:34:21,474 Oh. 506 00:34:21,474 --> 00:34:24,256 One of them decided to reenact a particular movie scene 507 00:34:24,256 --> 00:34:26,432 and I had to put him in a corner. 508 00:34:26,432 --> 00:34:28,736 Which movie, "Ratatouille," "Toy Story," "Cars?" 509 00:34:28,736 --> 00:34:30,896 It was a '70's movie. 510 00:34:30,896 --> 00:34:33,637 May the power of Christ compel him. 511 00:34:33,637 --> 00:34:34,768 "The Exorcist?" 512 00:34:34,768 --> 00:34:35,601 Oh. 513 00:34:40,317 --> 00:34:44,776 Sunday School was never this fun when I was there. 514 00:34:44,776 --> 00:34:46,808 Have you met the new vicar at all? 515 00:34:46,808 --> 00:34:49,048 Only very briefly. 516 00:34:49,048 --> 00:34:51,157 He seemed perfectly charming for the whole two minutes 517 00:34:51,157 --> 00:34:53,240 I had to get to know him. 518 00:34:54,589 --> 00:34:55,880 Well, two minutes is more than enough time 519 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:57,370 to get to know someone. 520 00:34:57,370 --> 00:34:58,370 - Hmm. - Hmm. 521 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:00,348 He's good looking. 522 00:35:00,348 --> 00:35:01,181 Uh-hmm. 523 00:35:01,181 --> 00:35:02,909 I've heard he works out. 524 00:35:02,909 --> 00:35:04,439 Oh. 525 00:35:04,439 --> 00:35:07,919 He reads and he also plays in a band. 526 00:35:07,919 --> 00:35:09,039 Which band? 527 00:35:09,039 --> 00:35:11,519 What does he play? 528 00:35:11,519 --> 00:35:13,221 Bass guitar. 529 00:35:13,221 --> 00:35:15,804 I've also heard he has tattoos. 530 00:35:18,669 --> 00:35:19,502 Stop. 531 00:35:21,159 --> 00:35:23,076 Oh, may God forgive me. 532 00:35:24,958 --> 00:35:29,958 And between us, I've also heard on the communion grapevine 533 00:35:31,461 --> 00:35:33,128 that he's a widower. 534 00:35:33,999 --> 00:35:35,416 Oh, is that so. 535 00:35:37,159 --> 00:35:38,742 Reverend Johnson. 536 00:35:44,477 --> 00:35:48,677 So are there a lot of clubs in Canterbury? 537 00:35:48,677 --> 00:35:51,158 Hmm, I don't really go clubbing. 538 00:35:51,158 --> 00:35:51,991 Once you've been once 539 00:35:51,991 --> 00:35:55,658 you've pretty much had the whole experience. 540 00:35:56,596 --> 00:35:58,428 Anything's better than Caswell, right? 541 00:35:58,428 --> 00:35:59,261 Sure. 542 00:36:00,956 --> 00:36:04,956 Have you had a chance to step into the cathedral yet? 543 00:36:04,956 --> 00:36:08,235 Students go in free, so I went on my second week. 544 00:36:08,235 --> 00:36:09,956 Who wanted the black coffee again? 545 00:36:09,956 --> 00:36:10,955 Yep, me. 546 00:36:10,955 --> 00:36:11,788 Ah-ha. 547 00:36:15,346 --> 00:36:16,429 There you go. 548 00:36:20,067 --> 00:36:21,246 Here you go. 549 00:36:21,246 --> 00:36:22,115 Thanks, auntie. 550 00:36:22,115 --> 00:36:22,948 How was the service? 551 00:36:22,948 --> 00:36:24,326 I loved it. 552 00:36:24,326 --> 00:36:25,159 Well, who can blame her 553 00:36:25,159 --> 00:36:27,457 when she had such good eye candy to look at? 554 00:36:27,457 --> 00:36:28,290 Nala. 555 00:36:29,317 --> 00:36:31,595 I just thought he was a good speaker, that's all. 556 00:36:31,595 --> 00:36:32,428 Is is married? 557 00:36:32,428 --> 00:36:35,898 Um, Agatha said that he had been widowed. 558 00:36:35,898 --> 00:36:37,869 I really do hope he's okay, though. 559 00:36:37,869 --> 00:36:39,636 He did say that he was a bit nervous 560 00:36:39,636 --> 00:36:42,978 about moving into a new place all by himself. 561 00:36:42,978 --> 00:36:45,607 Oh geez, the poor guy. 562 00:36:45,607 --> 00:36:48,178 I reckon he'll be fine once he settles in. 563 00:36:48,178 --> 00:36:52,095 Plus, he's going to get to meet all the locals. 564 00:36:53,487 --> 00:36:55,320 My thoughts exactly. 565 00:37:04,967 --> 00:37:06,447 Nala, I know you've been wanting to set mom up 566 00:37:06,447 --> 00:37:07,965 for the longest time. 567 00:37:07,965 --> 00:37:10,846 Now I do appreciate that it's coming from a place of love, 568 00:37:10,846 --> 00:37:13,428 but don't you think you should wait until mom's ready? 569 00:37:13,428 --> 00:37:16,261 Hmm, you make a good point Gabe, 570 00:37:17,818 --> 00:37:19,639 but how do you think that's gonna happen? 571 00:37:19,639 --> 00:37:23,399 She never goes out so she never encounters anyone new. 572 00:37:23,399 --> 00:37:24,898 Well. 573 00:37:24,898 --> 00:37:26,519 With all due respect to my sister, 574 00:37:26,519 --> 00:37:29,485 she's never been good at deducing what's good for her. 575 00:37:29,485 --> 00:37:30,607 Do you remember when we were kids 576 00:37:30,607 --> 00:37:34,327 and we had to pester her repeatedly and annoy her 577 00:37:34,327 --> 00:37:37,028 for her to come on a camping trip with us. 578 00:37:37,028 --> 00:37:38,028 And guess what? 579 00:37:38,028 --> 00:37:41,046 She loved it just as we knew she would. 580 00:37:41,046 --> 00:37:43,847 So yeah, I agree with Nala. 581 00:37:43,847 --> 00:37:46,948 Meeting someone might just do wonders her. 582 00:37:46,948 --> 00:37:48,927 Thanks, auntie. 583 00:37:48,927 --> 00:37:50,298 So wait, you're serious about this. 584 00:37:50,298 --> 00:37:53,988 You think that this guy we just met this week 585 00:37:53,988 --> 00:37:57,508 could potentially be an ideal match for our mother? 586 00:37:57,508 --> 00:38:00,679 Maybe not a match, but once she sees him, 587 00:38:00,679 --> 00:38:03,668 goes on a couple dates, you never know. 588 00:38:03,668 --> 00:38:05,746 It can get the ball rolling again. 589 00:38:05,746 --> 00:38:09,026 All I can say is good luck trying to set her up 590 00:38:09,026 --> 00:38:11,628 with someone who's a member of the church. 591 00:38:11,628 --> 00:38:14,207 I mean, I can't even see her dating someone 592 00:38:14,207 --> 00:38:16,399 who attends church at this point. 593 00:38:16,399 --> 00:38:19,479 Well, not with that pessimistic attitude you can't. 594 00:38:19,479 --> 00:38:20,312 She doesn't even allow 595 00:38:20,312 --> 00:38:23,218 religious flyers into the shop, Nala. 596 00:38:23,218 --> 00:38:25,330 I get you haven't seen her in a while. 597 00:38:25,330 --> 00:38:26,387 You've been at uni and all, 598 00:38:26,387 --> 00:38:28,804 but my sister's not the same. 599 00:38:31,756 --> 00:38:35,268 I love my mom and I'll do whatever it takes 600 00:38:35,268 --> 00:38:37,185 to see her smile again. 601 00:38:38,365 --> 00:38:41,297 That's a lovely thought. 602 00:38:41,297 --> 00:38:42,630 Thanks, uncle. 603 00:38:45,726 --> 00:38:47,377 You don't have to help me in this endeavor 604 00:38:47,377 --> 00:38:49,518 if you don't want to. 605 00:38:49,518 --> 00:38:52,068 You can sit back and watch it all fall apart 606 00:38:52,068 --> 00:38:54,657 and have your whole I told you so moment. 607 00:38:54,657 --> 00:38:55,948 If you think this guy would be great for your mom, 608 00:38:55,948 --> 00:39:00,118 of course, I will support you in any way I can. 609 00:39:00,118 --> 00:39:01,577 Thanks, uncle. 610 00:39:01,577 --> 00:39:03,006 What's that? 611 00:39:03,006 --> 00:39:05,926 Did my brother just agree that an idea to set his sister up 612 00:39:05,926 --> 00:39:07,259 just might work? 613 00:39:08,318 --> 00:39:12,057 Who are you and what have you done with my uncle? 614 00:39:12,057 --> 00:39:15,557 Look, come on, I'm not that pessimistic. 615 00:39:17,646 --> 00:39:21,705 So, you think we should try and introduce them? 616 00:39:21,705 --> 00:39:25,326 I'm sure he'd be interested to meet her at the very least. 617 00:39:25,326 --> 00:39:26,726 You mentioned we've had a family member 618 00:39:26,726 --> 00:39:30,697 who's had issues with her faith recently. 619 00:39:30,697 --> 00:39:32,158 And because they both lost someone they love 620 00:39:32,158 --> 00:39:34,658 they might find common ground. 621 00:39:36,465 --> 00:39:40,105 Even if she refuses to take her faith into account. 622 00:39:40,105 --> 00:39:44,164 Now that's more of the spirit that we like to see. 623 00:39:44,164 --> 00:39:49,164 The real challenge is getting Destiny to accept him. 624 00:39:49,324 --> 00:39:51,233 You should find a time 625 00:39:51,233 --> 00:39:54,400 when she's more receptive to the idea. 626 00:39:55,281 --> 00:39:57,823 Maybe when she's doing something more relaxing 627 00:39:57,823 --> 00:40:01,393 like after a big meal or something. 628 00:40:01,393 --> 00:40:04,352 Like last night after the big meal, 629 00:40:04,352 --> 00:40:09,002 she looked really happy with Nala and relaxed. 630 00:40:09,002 --> 00:40:11,610 Do you guys want any refills? 631 00:40:11,610 --> 00:40:12,443 No. 632 00:40:13,333 --> 00:40:16,410 No thanks, mom, we're okay, thank you. 633 00:40:16,410 --> 00:40:19,773 Okay honey, I was just wondering. 634 00:40:19,773 --> 00:40:21,645 What are you guys talking about? 635 00:40:21,645 --> 00:40:24,552 Nala was just telling us about her uni experiences 636 00:40:24,552 --> 00:40:26,052 who she's meeting. 637 00:40:27,885 --> 00:40:30,504 She's thinking of setting two people up that she knows. 638 00:40:30,504 --> 00:40:31,337 Oh. 639 00:40:33,715 --> 00:40:36,465 Really, you know, that's my girl. 640 00:40:37,422 --> 00:40:40,622 I always knew that you were really good at setting people up 641 00:40:40,622 --> 00:40:42,372 together, didn't you? 642 00:40:44,704 --> 00:40:47,843 Let's hope she's still got that magic touch, eh. 643 00:40:47,843 --> 00:40:49,683 Mom, I'm gonna help you behind the counter. 644 00:40:49,683 --> 00:40:51,260 Seems like you've been worked off your feet a bit. 645 00:40:51,260 --> 00:40:53,343 Thanks honey. 646 00:40:56,110 --> 00:40:59,610 So, what's on your itinerary today, mom? 647 00:41:01,462 --> 00:41:05,352 Well, Barry says that he'll look after the shop for me 648 00:41:05,352 --> 00:41:09,811 'til one o'clock so I've got the morning off. 649 00:41:09,811 --> 00:41:11,978 You could go for a walk. 650 00:41:14,392 --> 00:41:16,272 I guess I could, 651 00:41:16,272 --> 00:41:18,182 but it's not like I haven't seen everything 652 00:41:18,182 --> 00:41:21,182 that Werrington has to offer by now. 653 00:41:22,334 --> 00:41:26,134 I just think getting some fresh air would do you good. 654 00:41:26,134 --> 00:41:28,465 There's no point in being cooped in the house. 655 00:41:28,465 --> 00:41:30,962 Besides, you never know who you might meet 656 00:41:30,962 --> 00:41:33,282 when you're out and about. 657 00:41:33,282 --> 00:41:34,842 Like who? 658 00:41:34,842 --> 00:41:37,543 I just mean in general. 659 00:41:37,543 --> 00:41:40,710 Well, I know everyone in Werrington. 660 00:41:41,931 --> 00:41:46,848 Well, there is this new person whose recently moved here. 661 00:41:48,219 --> 00:41:49,739 - Oh yeah? - Yeah. 662 00:41:49,739 --> 00:41:51,239 What's his name? 663 00:41:52,371 --> 00:41:54,600 I know he's quite nervous 664 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:57,131 about having moved to a new place, 665 00:41:57,131 --> 00:41:58,912 and it will probably do him some good 666 00:41:58,912 --> 00:42:02,462 to meet some new people here too. 667 00:42:02,462 --> 00:42:05,403 Well, that's a great idea, Nala. 668 00:42:05,403 --> 00:42:07,070 Um, what's his name? 669 00:42:08,100 --> 00:42:10,350 Michael, Michael Johnson. 670 00:42:11,803 --> 00:42:14,054 Michael Johnson. 671 00:42:14,054 --> 00:42:16,734 Why does that name sound familiar? 672 00:42:16,734 --> 00:42:20,043 We sort of met him yesterday at- 673 00:42:20,043 --> 00:42:21,243 Oh no, no, no. 674 00:42:21,243 --> 00:42:22,083 Mom. 675 00:42:22,083 --> 00:42:24,262 No, Nala, I'm sorry. 676 00:42:24,262 --> 00:42:26,062 Just to say hello. 677 00:42:26,062 --> 00:42:29,171 You know I'm not into religion, right? 678 00:42:29,171 --> 00:42:30,043 And all he's gonna wanna do 679 00:42:30,043 --> 00:42:32,763 is to force his opinions on me. 680 00:42:32,763 --> 00:42:34,424 Honestly, mom, he's not someone 681 00:42:34,424 --> 00:42:37,150 to just ram his thoughts down your throat, 682 00:42:37,150 --> 00:42:40,782 and I just know he would love to hear what you have to say, 683 00:42:40,782 --> 00:42:41,615 and also- 684 00:42:41,615 --> 00:42:42,532 No, Nala. 685 00:42:43,763 --> 00:42:47,596 And that's my final word on the subject, okay? 686 00:43:00,643 --> 00:43:01,552 Have you finished? 687 00:43:01,552 --> 00:43:02,385 Yeah. 688 00:43:06,942 --> 00:43:11,203 I know you mean the best, but stop doing it. 689 00:43:11,203 --> 00:43:12,870 I just wanna help. 690 00:43:30,460 --> 00:43:33,689 I thought you packed it all in. 691 00:43:33,689 --> 00:43:36,738 I'm stressed out, what can I say? 692 00:43:36,738 --> 00:43:41,405 You could say you've given it up and actually mean it. 693 00:43:45,377 --> 00:43:49,177 Then you could say you could get out some more. 694 00:43:49,177 --> 00:43:50,927 Meet some new people. 695 00:43:52,249 --> 00:43:53,348 What? 696 00:43:53,348 --> 00:43:55,038 It's just that Nala said something 697 00:43:55,038 --> 00:43:57,455 very similar to me yesterday. 698 00:44:00,287 --> 00:44:01,954 It's common sense. 699 00:44:02,849 --> 00:44:05,766 Your daughter is a very smart girl. 700 00:44:07,318 --> 00:44:11,151 Come on, she just wants to reconnect with you. 701 00:44:12,068 --> 00:44:13,318 Open up to you. 702 00:44:25,217 --> 00:44:27,527 That's more like it. 703 00:44:27,527 --> 00:44:30,236 Nala is a really smart girl. 704 00:44:30,236 --> 00:44:31,836 She's so bright. 705 00:44:31,836 --> 00:44:34,086 She's just like her father. 706 00:44:39,395 --> 00:44:42,228 Do you think there is any chance 707 00:44:43,146 --> 00:44:46,396 that you could give Nala's idea a shot? 708 00:44:49,335 --> 00:44:50,168 Huh? 709 00:44:51,836 --> 00:44:53,919 I want her back, Malik. 710 00:44:55,306 --> 00:44:58,806 I want things to be like they were before. 711 00:44:59,996 --> 00:45:01,663 Okay, I'll meet him. 712 00:45:15,847 --> 00:45:17,706 Thanks so much for the call. 713 00:45:17,706 --> 00:45:19,175 No worries. 714 00:45:19,175 --> 00:45:20,887 How'd you think it's going? 715 00:45:20,887 --> 00:45:22,506 Not too sure just yet. 716 00:45:22,506 --> 00:45:25,546 You know how awkward mom can be for interruptions. 717 00:45:25,546 --> 00:45:28,247 Yep, I know that much. 718 00:45:28,247 --> 00:45:30,397 Shall we go find out how it's going ourselves? 719 00:45:30,397 --> 00:45:32,295 I thought you'd never ask. 720 00:45:32,295 --> 00:45:33,946 I'm definitely my auntie's niece. 721 00:45:33,946 --> 00:45:36,863 I wouldn't have it any other way. 722 00:45:40,386 --> 00:45:42,426 Can you see them? 723 00:45:42,426 --> 00:45:43,926 Negative. 724 00:45:47,853 --> 00:45:50,813 So where did you used to live before coming here? 725 00:45:50,813 --> 00:45:54,230 I was based in Battersea, South London. 726 00:45:55,074 --> 00:45:58,613 It's a very different place from this lovely little village. 727 00:45:58,613 --> 00:46:01,504 Yeah, completely different. 728 00:46:01,504 --> 00:46:03,772 Me and my husband so loved the look of this place 729 00:46:03,772 --> 00:46:07,690 that we decided that when I became pregnant 730 00:46:07,690 --> 00:46:09,914 we would bring our children up here. 731 00:46:09,914 --> 00:46:11,703 Well, that's really sweet. 732 00:46:11,703 --> 00:46:14,973 So, what does your husband do? 733 00:46:14,973 --> 00:46:16,354 He was a journalist. 734 00:46:16,354 --> 00:46:17,354 Amazing man. 735 00:46:19,533 --> 00:46:21,366 And he was so fabulous 736 00:46:23,770 --> 00:46:27,930 that he was even able to run the local church newspaper. 737 00:46:27,930 --> 00:46:31,413 Oh, I didn't realize there's a church paper. 738 00:46:31,413 --> 00:46:33,080 So what's it called? 739 00:46:36,139 --> 00:46:37,500 He died. 740 00:46:37,500 --> 00:46:40,500 Oh, I'm so, so sorry to hear that. 741 00:46:42,180 --> 00:46:44,430 It was such a tough time. 742 00:46:45,431 --> 00:46:47,260 What am I talking about? 743 00:46:47,260 --> 00:46:48,260 It still is. 744 00:46:50,151 --> 00:46:53,568 People from the community even talk about 745 00:46:54,528 --> 00:46:56,278 what a gap he's left. 746 00:47:00,819 --> 00:47:04,236 Do you want to talk about it? 747 00:47:06,528 --> 00:47:08,379 They're too far. 748 00:47:08,379 --> 00:47:11,129 Your mom looks serious. 749 00:47:12,459 --> 00:47:14,997 Well, I know it must have been hard for you. 750 00:47:14,997 --> 00:47:16,580 How can you know? 751 00:47:18,509 --> 00:47:20,092 Believe me, I do. 752 00:47:21,928 --> 00:47:25,761 Eight years ago I lost my wife in a car crash. 753 00:47:28,597 --> 00:47:30,419 I'm so sorry. 754 00:47:30,419 --> 00:47:31,888 It's all right. 755 00:47:31,888 --> 00:47:33,055 It was tragic. 756 00:47:36,459 --> 00:47:41,042 She was one of the guiding lights of my life just gone, 757 00:47:42,448 --> 00:47:43,781 blink of an eye. 758 00:47:46,569 --> 00:47:49,069 Then I found myself on my own. 759 00:47:54,647 --> 00:47:55,480 You know, 760 00:47:57,926 --> 00:48:02,926 what really helped me through the most darkest moments. 761 00:48:02,926 --> 00:48:06,276 A real strong sense of community. 762 00:48:06,276 --> 00:48:09,258 I mean, that's why I so strongly resonate with the church. 763 00:48:09,258 --> 00:48:11,927 I mean, it really does act like a rock. 764 00:48:11,927 --> 00:48:15,578 I mean, when there's no other foundations near. 765 00:48:15,578 --> 00:48:19,076 Well, you know, I can struggle along on my own, 766 00:48:19,076 --> 00:48:20,538 but thank you very much. 767 00:48:20,538 --> 00:48:22,527 Well, look, Destiny, we all can do that, 768 00:48:22,527 --> 00:48:26,057 but it doesn't mean that we have to. 769 00:48:26,057 --> 00:48:29,974 Galatians 6 says, "Bear one another's burdens." 770 00:48:39,176 --> 00:48:40,677 Look, if you ever did wanna speak to somebody 771 00:48:40,677 --> 00:48:44,094 about what it's like to lose a loved one, 772 00:48:45,575 --> 00:48:46,908 I'm always here. 773 00:48:48,467 --> 00:48:52,884 Every Sunday, in fact, I mean, you're always welcome. 774 00:48:53,885 --> 00:48:56,575 How did I know this would turn into a missionary attempt? 775 00:48:56,575 --> 00:48:59,513 No, no, no, no, look, I just wanted you to know 776 00:48:59,513 --> 00:49:02,364 that the door is always open. 777 00:49:02,364 --> 00:49:03,783 Yeah, well, you know, 778 00:49:03,783 --> 00:49:06,642 it's very nice of you to say so, Michael, 779 00:49:06,642 --> 00:49:09,602 because there's not a lot of people that would. 780 00:49:09,602 --> 00:49:13,061 You know, people are there in the beginning. 781 00:49:13,061 --> 00:49:15,911 They make an effort, of course, they do, 782 00:49:15,911 --> 00:49:18,328 but they come around for tea. 783 00:49:20,511 --> 00:49:23,151 They come around to give their condolences. 784 00:49:23,151 --> 00:49:26,541 And then at some point your friends, 785 00:49:26,541 --> 00:49:29,831 they have to get on with their own life. 786 00:49:29,831 --> 00:49:31,991 And, you know, after a while 787 00:49:31,991 --> 00:49:35,324 I just found I was completely on my own, 788 00:49:37,271 --> 00:49:39,521 again, in darkness just me. 789 00:49:41,050 --> 00:49:42,717 It happened to me. 790 00:49:46,500 --> 00:49:50,917 There's probably more of us than you perhaps realize. 791 00:49:54,690 --> 00:49:57,107 It was nice talking to you. 792 00:50:03,682 --> 00:50:05,849 Destiny darling. 793 00:50:08,071 --> 00:50:12,450 By the time you read this, I will no longer be with you, 794 00:50:12,450 --> 00:50:15,283 but in a safe and wonderful place. 795 00:50:18,271 --> 00:50:22,031 I'm not writing to tell you not to cry. 796 00:50:22,031 --> 00:50:24,198 Every life has some tears. 797 00:50:26,048 --> 00:50:31,048 I'm writing this letter because as one of the most kindest, 798 00:50:31,170 --> 00:50:35,029 thoughtful, and selfless people I know, 799 00:50:35,029 --> 00:50:39,112 you have a habit of ignoring what's best for you. 800 00:50:46,839 --> 00:50:48,006 Oh, Michael. 801 00:50:49,198 --> 00:50:52,657 Hey, Destiny, your daughter said that you worked here, 802 00:50:52,657 --> 00:50:55,249 so I thought I'd come and say hi. 803 00:50:55,249 --> 00:50:58,249 Hi, I'm really sorry, I'm closing. 804 00:50:59,426 --> 00:51:00,926 Oh, okay, sorry. 805 00:51:03,198 --> 00:51:07,781 Yeah, I just wanted to say we enjoyed our conversation. 806 00:51:09,249 --> 00:51:12,516 Thank you, yeah, sorry, I just really have to go. 807 00:51:12,516 --> 00:51:13,398 I've got to close. 808 00:51:13,398 --> 00:51:14,627 Okay, no worries. 809 00:51:14,627 --> 00:51:17,467 Okay, sorry, sorry, yeah, bye. 810 00:51:17,467 --> 00:51:20,816 Going through mourning is a tough time, 811 00:51:20,816 --> 00:51:23,284 but for everything there is a season 812 00:51:23,284 --> 00:51:26,856 and a time for every purpose under heaven. 813 00:51:26,856 --> 00:51:31,654 I don't want you to trudge about the house after I'm gone. 814 00:51:31,654 --> 00:51:35,686 The Destiny that I married wouldn't and shouldn't get stuck 815 00:51:35,686 --> 00:51:39,269 in a perpetual state of mourning and grief. 816 00:51:41,336 --> 00:51:44,836 Hey mom, I think it's for you. 817 00:51:47,667 --> 00:51:50,158 Michael, hi. 818 00:51:50,158 --> 00:51:51,825 Yeah, hi, Destiny. 819 00:51:54,095 --> 00:51:55,656 Is this a bad time? 820 00:51:55,656 --> 00:51:57,739 I wasn't expecting you. 821 00:51:58,598 --> 00:52:00,566 I guess you should come in. 822 00:52:00,566 --> 00:52:03,438 We were just about to have dinner. 823 00:52:03,438 --> 00:52:06,558 Gabriel, one of my friends invited Gabriel and I out. 824 00:52:06,558 --> 00:52:08,398 Wait, what? 825 00:52:08,398 --> 00:52:11,376 We should probably go meet them. 826 00:52:11,376 --> 00:52:15,587 Oh, oh, right, yeah, I forgot we had been invited out. 827 00:52:15,587 --> 00:52:16,420 What? 828 00:52:16,420 --> 00:52:17,253 We should get going. 829 00:52:17,253 --> 00:52:18,231 I don't think so. 830 00:52:18,231 --> 00:52:21,260 We were just sitting down we're just about to have dinner. 831 00:52:21,260 --> 00:52:22,892 Oh no, we ate a bit earlier. 832 00:52:22,892 --> 00:52:23,725 Yeah. 833 00:52:23,725 --> 00:52:24,558 We'll be fine. 834 00:52:24,558 --> 00:52:27,267 What's the name of this friend? 835 00:52:27,267 --> 00:52:28,434 - Mary. - Jane. 836 00:52:29,718 --> 00:52:31,097 - Mary Jane. - Yeah. 837 00:52:31,097 --> 00:52:35,347 She's a fairly new friend, you don't know her. 838 00:52:35,347 --> 00:52:36,180 Okay. 839 00:52:39,998 --> 00:52:42,107 Michael, there's plenty of food left for you. 840 00:52:42,107 --> 00:52:46,278 Help yourself and please don't tell mom I asked you over. 841 00:52:46,278 --> 00:52:47,646 What do you mean, she doesn't know I was coming? 842 00:52:47,646 --> 00:52:48,855 Gotta go, have fun. 843 00:52:48,855 --> 00:52:50,438 See ya. 844 00:52:56,577 --> 00:52:59,566 So I suppose you wanna say grace. 845 00:52:59,566 --> 00:53:01,983 Well, it is your house, so, 846 00:53:03,177 --> 00:53:06,308 but I can do if you would like me to. 847 00:53:06,308 --> 00:53:10,868 Well, I must admit it's very kind of you to offer 848 00:53:10,868 --> 00:53:13,598 and I'm glad that something as simple as praying 849 00:53:13,598 --> 00:53:16,098 can bring such comfort to you. 850 00:53:18,857 --> 00:53:22,107 I think praying doesn't help me at all. 851 00:53:23,468 --> 00:53:24,849 Really? 852 00:53:24,849 --> 00:53:26,748 Why do you say that? 853 00:53:26,748 --> 00:53:28,518 Well, just think about it. 854 00:53:28,518 --> 00:53:31,910 God doesn't answer prayers, does he? 855 00:53:31,910 --> 00:53:34,189 And if He did, it wouldn't be called a prayer. 856 00:53:34,189 --> 00:53:36,259 It would be called a correspondence. 857 00:53:36,259 --> 00:53:40,176 Well, look, I don't pray to get my needs met. 858 00:53:41,909 --> 00:53:44,659 I try and fix my problems myself. 859 00:53:45,628 --> 00:53:48,788 I pray when I'm at my lowest moments. 860 00:53:48,788 --> 00:53:51,477 That way I know that God's there. 861 00:53:51,477 --> 00:53:55,778 It's more for my benefit rather than God's benefit. 862 00:53:55,778 --> 00:53:59,611 Hmm, that's fair enough I suppose. 863 00:54:03,477 --> 00:54:05,189 Can I ask you a question? 864 00:54:05,189 --> 00:54:06,606 Yeah. 865 00:54:07,948 --> 00:54:12,148 Why did you shut Christ out of your life? 866 00:54:12,148 --> 00:54:15,208 Well, I didn't shut Him out. 867 00:54:15,208 --> 00:54:18,708 I believe that He shut me out of His life. 868 00:54:22,597 --> 00:54:24,347 Does that make sense? 869 00:54:27,898 --> 00:54:31,148 Why did you give your life to Christ? 870 00:54:31,148 --> 00:54:34,818 It's not that I decided to give my life to Christ. 871 00:54:34,818 --> 00:54:39,728 It's more that I decided to share my life with Christ. 872 00:54:39,728 --> 00:54:42,914 It was when my wife died, actually. 873 00:54:42,914 --> 00:54:47,093 I'd always believed, but just in losing her, 874 00:54:47,093 --> 00:54:50,426 I found in God more than any other thing 875 00:54:52,064 --> 00:54:53,944 is what really kept me going. 876 00:54:53,944 --> 00:54:58,194 And I realized the comfort that I received from Him 877 00:54:59,914 --> 00:55:01,642 I was able to give to other people. 878 00:55:01,642 --> 00:55:04,693 And I couldn't think of a more honorable way 879 00:55:04,693 --> 00:55:06,893 to live my life than that. 880 00:55:06,893 --> 00:55:08,034 Oh, that sounds like 881 00:55:08,034 --> 00:55:11,534 a really honorable way to join the church. 882 00:55:16,344 --> 00:55:19,033 Well, yeah, I had some real positive responses to it 883 00:55:19,033 --> 00:55:22,450 and, you know, met so many lovely people, 884 00:55:23,653 --> 00:55:27,562 people have given me strength, given me encouragement, 885 00:55:27,562 --> 00:55:29,479 and me to them as well. 886 00:55:30,584 --> 00:55:34,173 So did that help you to move on with your grief 887 00:55:34,173 --> 00:55:35,904 to get over things? 888 00:55:35,904 --> 00:55:37,237 All of it did. 889 00:55:38,923 --> 00:55:43,112 He shall wipe away every tear from their eye 890 00:55:43,112 --> 00:55:45,362 and death shall be no more. 891 00:55:46,213 --> 00:55:50,630 Neither shall there be mourning, crying, pain anymore 892 00:55:51,763 --> 00:55:54,623 for the former things have passed away. 893 00:55:54,623 --> 00:55:55,790 Revelations? 894 00:55:57,464 --> 00:55:58,782 You still read your Bible? 895 00:55:58,782 --> 00:56:02,865 No, but I still remember bits and pieces of it. 896 00:56:03,752 --> 00:56:06,344 I remember how much comfort it used to give me. 897 00:56:06,344 --> 00:56:09,677 Yeah, I remember after losing Susanna, 898 00:56:10,832 --> 00:56:13,165 I didn't know where to turn. 899 00:56:14,813 --> 00:56:19,063 Probably about a month or so after I finally heeded 900 00:56:20,604 --> 00:56:24,954 to one of the most repeated messages in the Bible. 901 00:56:24,954 --> 00:56:26,983 What was that? 902 00:56:26,983 --> 00:56:30,650 Fear not, in other words, don't be afraid. 903 00:56:34,643 --> 00:56:38,143 Eight years, it's a long time to be alone, 904 00:56:40,554 --> 00:56:44,971 but with Christ there it just doesn't seem that long. 905 00:56:48,154 --> 00:56:51,053 And He did say to me that He's a friend 906 00:56:51,053 --> 00:56:53,886 that sticks closer than a brother. 907 00:56:58,874 --> 00:57:01,525 So do you have any children? 908 00:57:01,525 --> 00:57:03,525 No, I don't. 909 00:57:05,074 --> 00:57:06,933 I don't have any siblings. 910 00:57:06,933 --> 00:57:09,013 And both of my parents have passed. 911 00:57:09,013 --> 00:57:10,013 I'm sorry. 912 00:57:11,493 --> 00:57:16,365 You know, I've never really felt alone. 913 00:57:16,365 --> 00:57:20,224 They're all still with us really, aren't they? 914 00:57:20,224 --> 00:57:23,391 Yeah, I guess I just, I forgot that. 915 00:57:26,885 --> 00:57:31,304 I closed my ears to it when I was looking after Jamal 916 00:57:31,304 --> 00:57:32,887 in his final weeks. 917 00:57:35,483 --> 00:57:36,514 I can't imagine the stress 918 00:57:36,514 --> 00:57:39,933 that you were under during that time. 919 00:57:39,933 --> 00:57:43,973 It makes sense why you were so worn out by it. 920 00:57:43,973 --> 00:57:46,890 But I don't feel so worn out now. 921 00:57:48,245 --> 00:57:50,828 Not like I was three years ago. 922 00:57:52,264 --> 00:57:56,144 And I'm realizing there was such a lot of people 923 00:57:56,144 --> 00:58:00,164 who were so loving and supportive to me throughout, 924 00:58:00,164 --> 00:58:02,664 and you've helped me. 925 00:58:02,664 --> 00:58:04,997 And it's just that I thought 926 00:58:07,285 --> 00:58:11,043 Jesus wasn't loving and supporting to me. 927 00:58:11,043 --> 00:58:15,126 Destiny, Jesus' spirit works through all of us, 928 00:58:17,554 --> 00:58:20,184 but just through other people. 929 00:58:20,184 --> 00:58:23,594 I mean, I like to call Him the Great Includer. 930 00:58:23,594 --> 00:58:27,333 I mean, you can see Him at work throughout the whole world 931 00:58:27,333 --> 00:58:30,250 with every hand that's reached out, 932 00:58:32,685 --> 00:58:37,268 every comforting shoulder and every welcoming neighbor. 933 00:58:44,384 --> 00:58:49,134 Anyway, talking about welcoming neighbor, shall we eat? 934 00:58:50,504 --> 00:58:53,274 Everything looks delicious. 935 00:58:53,274 --> 00:58:54,107 Grace? 936 00:59:00,633 --> 00:59:02,242 Heavenly Father, 937 00:59:02,242 --> 00:59:07,073 we thank you for this food that we are about to partake of. 938 00:59:07,073 --> 00:59:09,293 We pray that it would do us good. 939 00:59:09,293 --> 00:59:11,473 We also pray a special blessing to the hands 940 00:59:11,473 --> 00:59:13,413 that prepared it. 941 00:59:13,413 --> 00:59:15,163 In Jesus' name, Amen. 942 00:59:21,074 --> 00:59:23,562 If you want to honor my memory best, 943 00:59:23,562 --> 00:59:26,312 please go and start living again. 944 00:59:29,074 --> 00:59:34,074 God has given you a wonderful life on this wonderful earth. 945 00:59:34,074 --> 00:59:38,573 And you should experience His creation to the fullest. 946 00:59:38,573 --> 00:59:41,406 It would be improper not to do so. 947 00:59:42,922 --> 00:59:43,839 I love you. 948 00:59:45,751 --> 00:59:47,834 And don't stop believing. 949 00:59:48,741 --> 00:59:50,991 We'll see each other again. 950 00:59:53,128 --> 00:59:58,128 ♪ I will enter His gates with thanksgiving in my heart ♪ 951 00:59:58,451 --> 01:00:03,451 ♪ I will enter His courts with praise ♪ 952 01:00:04,443 --> 01:00:09,443 ♪ I will say this is the day that the Lord has made ♪ 953 01:00:10,611 --> 01:00:15,611 ♪ I will rejoice for He has made me glad ♪ 954 01:00:17,083 --> 01:00:22,243 ♪ He has made me glad ♪ 955 01:00:22,243 --> 01:00:24,283 This was one of your father's favorite songs. 956 01:00:24,283 --> 01:00:27,533 Yeah, I remember him liking this one. 957 01:00:28,952 --> 01:00:34,622 ♪ He has made me glad ♪ 958 01:00:34,622 --> 01:00:39,622 ♪ I will rejoice for He has made me glad ♪ 959 01:00:40,702 --> 01:00:45,702 ♪ I will rejoice for He has made me glad ♪ 960 01:00:47,763 --> 01:00:49,680 ♪ Amen ♪ 961 01:00:53,062 --> 01:00:55,645 This is amazing, look at you. 962 01:00:58,033 --> 01:00:59,450 Thank you, mom. 963 01:01:01,121 --> 01:01:02,553 Thank you. 964 01:01:02,553 --> 01:01:05,593 Have a good day. 965 01:01:05,593 --> 01:01:07,774 Oh wow, thank you. 966 01:01:07,774 --> 01:01:08,942 Where's your sister? 967 01:01:08,942 --> 01:01:10,214 I don't know. 968 01:01:10,214 --> 01:01:12,334 I can't find her. 969 01:01:12,334 --> 01:01:15,334 Hello, thank you, thank you so much. 970 01:01:34,004 --> 01:01:36,764 Hey, we've been looking all over for you. 971 01:01:36,764 --> 01:01:38,854 Sorry, I just needed some time. 972 01:01:38,854 --> 01:01:39,884 What's wrong? 973 01:01:39,884 --> 01:01:40,822 It's nothing. 974 01:01:40,822 --> 01:01:42,134 Yeah, it never is. 975 01:01:42,134 --> 01:01:43,054 What's that supposed to mean? 976 01:01:43,054 --> 01:01:45,222 That means I know you as a stranger, 977 01:01:45,222 --> 01:01:48,433 that we don't live in the same place. 978 01:01:48,433 --> 01:01:49,921 You know why me. 979 01:01:49,921 --> 01:01:52,052 Everyone's supposed to move out at some point. 980 01:01:52,052 --> 01:01:55,302 Oh, so we all have to abandon family at some point. 981 01:01:55,302 --> 01:01:56,252 I didn't abandon you. 982 01:01:56,252 --> 01:01:58,169 Yes you did, you did. 983 01:02:00,192 --> 01:02:03,359 Dad dies, you run away, mom's a wreck. 984 01:02:05,302 --> 01:02:06,719 So what about me? 985 01:02:07,833 --> 01:02:11,500 I would've loved to have gone to university. 986 01:02:12,473 --> 01:02:14,223 I just needed time. 987 01:02:15,342 --> 01:02:17,259 Time for me to find me. 988 01:02:19,713 --> 01:02:21,630 You and mom are a team. 989 01:02:22,673 --> 01:02:25,173 And me and dad we were a team. 990 01:02:29,761 --> 01:02:31,261 And now he's gone. 991 01:02:35,348 --> 01:02:36,265 Dad's gone. 992 01:02:54,478 --> 01:02:57,061 We will see him again, right? 993 01:03:03,118 --> 01:03:04,451 Yeah, we will. 994 01:03:07,070 --> 01:03:07,987 I miss him. 995 01:03:09,180 --> 01:03:10,097 I miss you. 996 01:03:14,078 --> 01:03:16,038 I don't miss you. 997 01:03:16,038 --> 01:03:17,705 Yes you do. 998 01:03:21,198 --> 01:03:22,281 I love you. 999 01:03:24,718 --> 01:03:27,470 I'll tell you what, when I go back to uni, 1000 01:03:27,470 --> 01:03:29,078 you and mom both come and stay with me. 1001 01:03:29,078 --> 01:03:30,100 I'll show you around. 1002 01:03:30,100 --> 01:03:31,433 I'd like that. 1003 01:03:35,218 --> 01:03:38,576 ♪ As I went down in the river to pray ♪ 1004 01:03:38,576 --> 01:03:39,409 Sis. 1005 01:03:39,409 --> 01:03:40,959 What's going on? 1006 01:03:40,959 --> 01:03:43,498 You said you'd open for me. 1007 01:03:43,498 --> 01:03:47,708 We've got a different idea for you this morning, come on. 1008 01:03:47,708 --> 01:03:49,588 It's a surprise. 1009 01:03:49,588 --> 01:03:50,428 What about the shop? 1010 01:03:50,428 --> 01:03:51,867 Don't worry. 1011 01:03:51,867 --> 01:03:54,556 ♪ Let's go down come on down ♪ 1012 01:03:54,556 --> 01:03:57,586 ♪ O brothers let's go down ♪ 1013 01:03:57,586 --> 01:04:01,188 ♪ Down in the river to pray ♪ 1014 01:04:01,188 --> 01:04:04,746 ♪ As I went down in the river to pray ♪ 1015 01:04:04,746 --> 01:04:06,106 ♪ Studying about that good old way ♪ 1016 01:04:06,106 --> 01:04:09,675 I had an idea this was gonna happen soon. 1017 01:04:09,675 --> 01:04:11,508 She saw that coming. 1018 01:04:12,397 --> 01:04:14,255 ♪ Show me the way ♪ 1019 01:04:14,255 --> 01:04:15,756 We knew this was what you wanted. 1020 01:04:15,756 --> 01:04:17,517 ♪ O brothers let's go down ♪ 1021 01:04:17,517 --> 01:04:20,735 ♪ Let's go down, come on down ♪ 1022 01:04:20,735 --> 01:04:23,895 ♪ O brothers let's go down ♪ 1023 01:04:23,895 --> 01:04:27,922 ♪ Down in the river to pray ♪ 1024 01:04:27,922 --> 01:04:31,165 ♪ As I went down in the river to pray ♪ 1025 01:04:31,165 --> 01:04:34,156 ♪ Studying about that good old way ♪ 1026 01:04:34,156 --> 01:04:37,346 ♪ And who shall wear the robe and crown ♪ 1027 01:04:37,346 --> 01:04:39,997 We thought this would be a good idea for you, mom. 1028 01:04:39,997 --> 01:04:43,664 The final step for finding your faith again. 1029 01:04:44,578 --> 01:04:47,288 And you were all in on this? 1030 01:04:47,288 --> 01:04:50,187 ♪ O mothers let's go down ♪ 1031 01:04:50,187 --> 01:04:51,949 ♪ Down in the river to pray ♪ 1032 01:04:51,949 --> 01:04:54,349 Okay, let's do this. 1033 01:04:54,349 --> 01:04:55,629 ♪ As I went down in the river to pray ♪ 1034 01:04:55,629 --> 01:04:59,462 Destiny, do you accept the Lord Jesus Christ 1035 01:05:00,810 --> 01:05:03,290 as your Lord and Savior 1036 01:05:03,290 --> 01:05:07,109 acknowledging His sacrifices for your sin? 1037 01:05:07,109 --> 01:05:09,141 ♪ O fathers let's go down ♪ 1038 01:05:09,141 --> 01:05:11,224 I do, with all my heart 1039 01:05:15,250 --> 01:05:16,850 and all my soul. 1040 01:05:16,850 --> 01:05:18,869 ♪ Down in the river to pray ♪ 1041 01:05:18,869 --> 01:05:23,536 By the authority vested in me I now reaffirm 1042 01:05:25,221 --> 01:05:26,560 your commitment to Him. 1043 01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:30,149 In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. 1044 01:05:30,149 --> 01:05:33,617 ♪ Good Lord show me the way ♪ 1045 01:05:34,450 --> 01:05:36,537 ♪ O brothers let's go down ♪ 1046 01:05:36,537 --> 01:05:39,906 ♪ Let's go down come on down ♪ 1047 01:05:39,906 --> 01:05:42,986 ♪ O brothers let's go down ♪ 1048 01:05:42,986 --> 01:05:46,653 ♪ Down in the river to pray ♪ 1049 01:06:02,617 --> 01:06:03,450 Hi. 1050 01:06:03,450 --> 01:06:04,426 Hey, how you doing? 1051 01:06:04,426 --> 01:06:05,498 I'm good, how are you? 1052 01:06:05,498 --> 01:06:06,915 Good. 1053 01:06:08,037 --> 01:06:11,157 So how are you feeling after your rededication? 1054 01:06:11,157 --> 01:06:12,324 I feel good. 1055 01:06:14,485 --> 01:06:17,018 I think it was the right thing to do. 1056 01:06:17,018 --> 01:06:19,268 I keep thinking about Jamal 1057 01:06:20,418 --> 01:06:24,349 and when he was baptized and he gave his life. 1058 01:06:24,349 --> 01:06:26,370 So you're following in his footsteps. 1059 01:06:26,370 --> 01:06:27,203 Yeah. 1060 01:06:27,203 --> 01:06:28,469 So to speak. 1061 01:06:28,469 --> 01:06:33,221 It really brought the family together. 1062 01:06:33,221 --> 01:06:35,261 Well, that's kind of 1063 01:06:35,261 --> 01:06:37,930 what I wanted to speak to you about. 1064 01:06:37,930 --> 01:06:39,958 What do you mean? 1065 01:06:39,958 --> 01:06:42,789 Well, you know how you've said you've felt like 1066 01:06:42,789 --> 01:06:45,730 you've had a hole in your life since he's been gone. 1067 01:06:45,730 --> 01:06:46,701 Uh-hmm. 1068 01:06:46,701 --> 01:06:49,610 And me too, I mean, I've had a piece missing in my life 1069 01:06:49,610 --> 01:06:51,360 since losing Susanna. 1070 01:06:53,509 --> 01:06:55,238 Meeting you, Destiny, 1071 01:06:55,238 --> 01:06:58,821 it's the first time in the last eight years 1072 01:06:59,800 --> 01:07:02,217 that I felt this void filled. 1073 01:07:07,050 --> 01:07:09,981 Do you wanna come outside? 1074 01:07:09,981 --> 01:07:12,064 Let me just finish off. 1075 01:07:16,432 --> 01:07:19,512 You know, I feel exactly the same way. 1076 01:07:19,512 --> 01:07:24,512 Like, I wish that things could be like this forever. 1077 01:07:24,512 --> 01:07:29,103 Well, with your permission, I'm hoping that they can. 1078 01:07:31,169 --> 01:07:32,336 Look, Destiny, 1079 01:07:33,278 --> 01:07:37,361 I loved seeing your journey to your rededication. 1080 01:07:39,329 --> 01:07:42,408 It's filled me with so much strength, 1081 01:07:42,408 --> 01:07:46,075 and just renewed confidence in God's ability 1082 01:07:47,169 --> 01:07:50,969 to make positive changes not just for our lives, 1083 01:07:50,969 --> 01:07:53,367 but for our future. 1084 01:07:53,367 --> 01:07:55,870 Are you serious, Michael? 1085 01:07:55,870 --> 01:07:59,780 I'm more than serious, I'm genuine. 1086 01:07:59,780 --> 01:08:03,279 I fell for you the moment you walked through our church yard 1087 01:08:03,279 --> 01:08:07,362 and I would devote every waking moment of my life 1088 01:08:09,957 --> 01:08:11,124 to loving you, 1089 01:08:13,058 --> 01:08:14,558 to protecting you, 1090 01:08:15,898 --> 01:08:20,898 and just making sure that you would never suffer again ever. 1091 01:08:25,546 --> 01:08:27,586 Michael, I thought the exact same way, 1092 01:08:27,586 --> 01:08:31,797 but I just don't think I can give you an answer 1093 01:08:31,797 --> 01:08:32,964 not right now. 1094 01:08:35,717 --> 01:08:38,800 Look, I love and I have faith in you, 1095 01:08:40,626 --> 01:08:42,055 and I love and I have faith in God, 1096 01:08:42,055 --> 01:08:44,888 but this is happening just so fast 1097 01:08:45,935 --> 01:08:48,602 and I feel like I need a moment. 1098 01:09:42,337 --> 01:09:43,170 Oh Jamal. 1099 01:09:54,168 --> 01:09:57,668 Dear Lord, sorry, you took me by surprise. 1100 01:09:58,688 --> 01:10:01,916 I've been told that before. 1101 01:10:01,916 --> 01:10:02,749 Sorry. 1102 01:10:07,528 --> 01:10:10,111 Such a nice place for a rest. 1103 01:10:11,968 --> 01:10:14,301 This is our favorite spot. 1104 01:10:23,149 --> 01:10:24,066 No, wait. 1105 01:10:27,480 --> 01:10:29,063 Is everything okay? 1106 01:10:34,857 --> 01:10:37,440 Everything's fine, thank you. 1107 01:10:42,629 --> 01:10:47,379 I've just had a proposal from someone I'm so crazy about. 1108 01:10:48,389 --> 01:10:52,029 Wow, that doesn't sound too bad, does it? 1109 01:10:52,029 --> 01:10:55,000 I've had my fair share of husband problems. 1110 01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:57,109 Really? 1111 01:10:57,109 --> 01:11:01,880 And what does your husband think of this situation then? 1112 01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:03,297 He passed away. 1113 01:11:06,779 --> 01:11:08,362 I see. 1114 01:11:10,419 --> 01:11:12,586 I never thought I would, 1115 01:11:15,377 --> 01:11:17,794 or could open my heart again. 1116 01:11:20,968 --> 01:11:23,801 It was just so painful losing him. 1117 01:11:27,297 --> 01:11:30,797 I know exactly what you mean. 1118 01:11:34,257 --> 01:11:38,007 I myself lost someone I cared for very deeply 1119 01:11:40,179 --> 01:11:41,512 a few years ago. 1120 01:11:45,510 --> 01:11:47,343 It takes time to heal. 1121 01:11:49,977 --> 01:11:53,644 And I have a feeling I might see them again. 1122 01:12:00,148 --> 01:12:03,065 I think it made me lose my faith, 1123 01:12:05,089 --> 01:12:08,839 but I feel like I'm more on solid ground now, 1124 01:12:11,038 --> 01:12:12,955 but it's still so hard. 1125 01:12:20,666 --> 01:12:23,416 Faith is like a glass of water. 1126 01:12:27,268 --> 01:12:31,388 When you're younger the glass is little, 1127 01:12:31,388 --> 01:12:34,305 so it's more empty, easier to fill, 1128 01:12:39,676 --> 01:12:43,343 but as you get older, the glass gets bigger. 1129 01:12:46,466 --> 01:12:51,133 The same amount of liquid will no longer fill the glass. 1130 01:12:52,169 --> 01:12:54,586 The glass has to be refilled. 1131 01:12:58,209 --> 01:13:01,809 Why does that sound so familiar? 1132 01:13:01,809 --> 01:13:03,457 You watch too many movies. 1133 01:13:03,457 --> 01:13:05,715 That's not me, that's my son and my brother. 1134 01:13:05,715 --> 01:13:06,548 Uh-hmm. 1135 01:13:06,548 --> 01:13:08,556 Thank you very much. 1136 01:13:08,556 --> 01:13:10,806 The message still stands. 1137 01:13:19,396 --> 01:13:23,367 I know how much you suffered, Destiny. 1138 01:13:23,367 --> 01:13:26,737 Faith can be a trying thing, can't it? 1139 01:13:26,737 --> 01:13:27,570 I know. 1140 01:13:29,737 --> 01:13:32,237 You can feel so alone at times 1141 01:13:34,817 --> 01:13:37,650 like there's no one there for you. 1142 01:13:41,046 --> 01:13:43,546 Your family are there for you. 1143 01:13:47,205 --> 01:13:49,476 Do you remember that? 1144 01:13:49,476 --> 01:13:51,309 When things get tough, 1145 01:13:52,686 --> 01:13:57,519 they'll never leave you just like you'll never leave them. 1146 01:14:12,605 --> 01:14:15,577 Wait, how did you know my name? 1147 01:14:48,554 --> 01:14:52,721 Hi, I think I may have forgot my keys. 1148 01:14:57,114 --> 01:14:59,803 Michael, I'm so sorry. 1149 01:14:59,803 --> 01:15:02,605 There's nothing to apologize for. 1150 01:15:02,605 --> 01:15:03,586 Running off like that 1151 01:15:03,586 --> 01:15:08,503 when you were expecting a response from me, it wasn't fair. 1152 01:15:11,083 --> 01:15:12,474 I would never wish myself on you 1153 01:15:12,474 --> 01:15:15,535 if you felt marrying me wasn't right for you. 1154 01:15:15,535 --> 01:15:19,123 I could never turn down someone who has helped me 1155 01:15:19,123 --> 01:15:23,873 to completely turn my life around in the last few months. 1156 01:15:26,125 --> 01:15:28,074 You mean that? 1157 01:15:28,074 --> 01:15:28,907 Yes. 1158 01:15:31,525 --> 01:15:36,455 Whenever you're near me, you take away my unhappiness. 1159 01:15:36,455 --> 01:15:39,788 You've helped me to find my faith again. 1160 01:15:41,626 --> 01:15:44,815 I didn't realize I was so lost. 1161 01:15:44,815 --> 01:15:46,354 It's the grace of God. 1162 01:15:46,354 --> 01:15:48,594 I feel like I'm standing on firmer ground, 1163 01:15:48,594 --> 01:15:51,927 and you've helped me to understand that. 1164 01:15:53,775 --> 01:15:55,723 Through the power of Christ, 1165 01:15:55,723 --> 01:16:00,056 I can take that firmer ground with me wherever I go. 1166 01:16:02,506 --> 01:16:04,423 I'm not afraid anymore. 1167 01:16:07,306 --> 01:16:11,973 If you let me trust God with you every step of the way 1168 01:16:14,655 --> 01:16:17,735 I would consider it the honor of my life 1169 01:16:17,735 --> 01:16:19,723 to make you my wife and I would love you. 1170 01:16:19,723 --> 01:16:22,674 Yes, Michael, I will be your wife. 1171 01:17:29,499 --> 01:17:32,950 I guess I won't knock your ideas in the future. 1172 01:17:32,950 --> 01:17:36,450 I do love it when a plan comes together. 1173 01:17:41,641 --> 01:17:44,260 Do you, Michael Johnson, 1174 01:17:44,260 --> 01:17:47,871 take this woman to be your lawfully wedded wife? 1175 01:17:47,871 --> 01:17:49,371 I definitely do. 1176 01:17:50,711 --> 01:17:54,047 And do you Destiny Jackson Brown, 1177 01:17:54,047 --> 01:17:57,266 take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband? 1178 01:17:57,266 --> 01:17:58,099 I do. 1179 01:18:20,943 --> 01:18:23,983 I now pronounce you man and wife. 1180 01:18:23,983 --> 01:18:26,233 You may now kiss the bride. 85001

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