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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:39,930 --> 00:00:43,838 There's been a huge emphasis on trust today. 2 00:00:43,839 --> 00:00:47,620 How much trust do you have in yourself? 3 00:00:47,621 --> 00:00:49,630 I have two great quotes here. 4 00:00:49,631 --> 00:00:51,689 The first one leans more towards trust 5 00:00:51,690 --> 00:00:55,300 and trusting in yourself and in others. 6 00:00:55,301 --> 00:00:58,218 The first one is Proverbs 3:5 to 6. 7 00:01:02,319 --> 00:01:05,486 Trust in the Lord with all your heart, 8 00:01:07,181 --> 00:01:11,300 and do not lean towards your own understanding. 9 00:01:11,301 --> 00:01:15,369 In all your acknowledgements, trust in Him. 10 00:01:15,370 --> 00:01:19,453 The next quote, which I wanted to pass on to you, 11 00:01:21,869 --> 00:01:24,398 which I feel like you should definitely acknowledge, 12 00:01:24,399 --> 00:01:29,399 is one from our beloved Richard and his dog, Richard II. 13 00:01:29,610 --> 00:01:32,328 He was a magnificent person. 14 00:01:32,329 --> 00:01:33,489 He was a pillar of our community. 15 00:01:33,490 --> 00:01:34,718 He was a member of our congregation. 16 00:01:34,719 --> 00:01:39,136 Also, he was a wonderful soul and being, we lost him. 17 00:01:41,581 --> 00:01:44,112 This quote reminded me of him. 18 00:01:46,661 --> 00:01:48,994 It's from Mark 10, verse 52. 19 00:01:51,213 --> 00:01:54,713 Go, said Jesus, your faith has healed you. 20 00:01:57,790 --> 00:02:00,540 Immediately he received his sight 21 00:02:04,912 --> 00:02:07,745 and followed Jesus along the road. 22 00:02:12,973 --> 00:02:17,973 So I'm gonna say, I'm gonna put an end to today's service. 23 00:02:36,053 --> 00:02:38,053 So what's troubling you? 24 00:02:40,952 --> 00:02:42,989 I'm sorry that neither of us 25 00:02:42,990 --> 00:02:46,532 have officially told you in person, 26 00:02:46,533 --> 00:02:48,990 but I'm assuming that you've heard about 27 00:02:48,991 --> 00:02:51,440 Jamal's condition by now. 28 00:02:51,441 --> 00:02:54,858 Yes, I am truly sorry to hear the news. 29 00:02:57,190 --> 00:02:58,139 I wasn't too sure if you were comfortable 30 00:02:58,140 --> 00:03:01,768 sharing the information with me, so I, 31 00:03:01,769 --> 00:03:05,640 but look, I want you to know that we're here for you. 32 00:03:05,641 --> 00:03:09,869 The church is here for you, for the both of you. 33 00:03:09,870 --> 00:03:14,870 These days have been officially numbered for a while now. 34 00:03:15,609 --> 00:03:19,609 And I never knew that I'd get to this situation. 35 00:03:20,859 --> 00:03:25,026 I just, I don't, I'm finding it hard to understand 36 00:03:27,578 --> 00:03:30,720 why this is happening to us. 37 00:03:30,721 --> 00:03:34,721 You know, I strive to follow God's commandments. 38 00:03:39,429 --> 00:03:42,228 I really try to put people before myself. 39 00:03:42,229 --> 00:03:44,628 I work so hard in this church. 40 00:03:44,629 --> 00:03:49,546 Destiny, look, I and everyone knows how selfless you are, 41 00:03:51,269 --> 00:03:54,127 and I'm really sorry to hear 42 00:03:54,128 --> 00:03:55,777 this is happening to both you and Jamal. 43 00:03:55,778 --> 00:03:57,519 It's really unfair, really unfair, 44 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:59,937 but, like, I need you to know 45 00:04:01,737 --> 00:04:02,887 that whatever the circumstance, 46 00:04:02,888 --> 00:04:04,504 we're gonna be here for you. 47 00:04:04,505 --> 00:04:06,334 We're gonna be here for the both of you. 48 00:04:06,335 --> 00:04:08,315 Look, God loves you. 49 00:04:08,316 --> 00:04:10,014 How can you say that? 50 00:04:10,015 --> 00:04:12,395 How can you say that, Darius? 51 00:04:12,396 --> 00:04:13,475 If God loved us both, 52 00:04:13,476 --> 00:04:17,505 he would not let Jamal suffer like this. 53 00:04:17,506 --> 00:04:20,363 I mean, is He punishing us, is He? 54 00:04:20,364 --> 00:04:21,835 No, no, he's not. 55 00:04:21,836 --> 00:04:24,803 That's not the case I promise you. 56 00:04:24,804 --> 00:04:28,265 Look, I know it's hard and you're in pain, 57 00:04:28,266 --> 00:04:32,526 and there's gonna be elements and times of sorrow. 58 00:04:32,527 --> 00:04:35,366 They tend to go hand in hand in times like this. 59 00:04:35,367 --> 00:04:37,835 Look, God has a plan for each and every one of us, 60 00:04:37,836 --> 00:04:42,503 but sometimes that plan is hard to understand, you know? 61 00:04:45,597 --> 00:04:49,680 He's not punishing you, like, I promise you that. 62 00:04:53,087 --> 00:04:54,087 I feel. 63 00:04:56,588 --> 00:04:58,526 It just feels so hard, 64 00:04:58,527 --> 00:05:00,944 so hard to keep a brave face, 65 00:05:02,738 --> 00:05:04,907 to say hello, good morning to everyone 66 00:05:04,908 --> 00:05:09,658 like nothing is happening in my life that's just so hard. 67 00:05:10,937 --> 00:05:15,558 I wasn't gonna say anything, but, you know, I, 68 00:05:15,559 --> 00:05:19,392 you know, I lost my daughter a few years back, 69 00:05:22,050 --> 00:05:23,050 bone cancer. 70 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:28,449 I didn't know how I'd be able to get through it. 71 00:05:28,450 --> 00:05:29,700 I'm so sorry. 72 00:05:31,599 --> 00:05:32,766 We lost her, 73 00:05:33,709 --> 00:05:35,292 but I feel that we, 74 00:05:37,578 --> 00:05:40,638 really we didn't really lose her, did we? 75 00:05:40,639 --> 00:05:43,389 I mean, she's still here with us. 76 00:05:44,927 --> 00:05:48,097 She's still looking down on us, isn't she? 77 00:05:48,098 --> 00:05:48,948 Is she? 78 00:05:48,949 --> 00:05:50,448 She is. 79 00:05:53,887 --> 00:05:55,137 I don't know. 80 00:05:58,718 --> 00:06:03,135 I want my husband to be here with me in the physical, 81 00:06:04,307 --> 00:06:05,474 not in heaven, 82 00:06:06,657 --> 00:06:10,125 or in some other place where I can't touch him. 83 00:06:10,126 --> 00:06:12,144 We've had such a wonderful life together. 84 00:06:12,145 --> 00:06:14,997 And this is just, it's just finishing too soon. 85 00:06:14,998 --> 00:06:19,226 I just, I really can't understand what's happening. 86 00:06:19,227 --> 00:06:21,905 I really feel like I need some answers now. 87 00:06:21,906 --> 00:06:24,226 You'll never have all the answers. 88 00:06:24,227 --> 00:06:25,227 Why not? 89 00:06:27,786 --> 00:06:28,619 Why? 90 00:06:28,620 --> 00:06:32,266 You'll never have all the answers. 91 00:06:32,267 --> 00:06:33,100 I know it's hard, 92 00:06:33,101 --> 00:06:37,545 but even in our most difficult and darkest moments, 93 00:06:37,546 --> 00:06:39,403 you can still find strength and hope, 94 00:06:39,404 --> 00:06:43,693 even from the most challenging circumstances. 95 00:06:43,694 --> 00:06:46,973 Where, where can I find strength and hope? 96 00:06:46,974 --> 00:06:49,146 Like I said, we're here for you and you're not alone. 97 00:06:49,147 --> 00:06:51,167 You have the church. 98 00:06:51,168 --> 00:06:54,026 The church has got your back, and you have Jesus. 99 00:06:54,027 --> 00:06:58,610 And look, the Bible is just a page turn away, you know? 100 00:06:59,787 --> 00:07:03,786 And alongside that, regardless of what might happen, 101 00:07:03,787 --> 00:07:05,215 or might come your way, 102 00:07:05,216 --> 00:07:08,883 that at least we know that Jamal he's gonna, 103 00:07:11,507 --> 00:07:14,437 Jamal will be at peace soon. 104 00:07:14,438 --> 00:07:16,605 I don't wanna hear that. 105 00:07:17,837 --> 00:07:20,576 And no matter what happens, 106 00:07:20,577 --> 00:07:25,160 whatever comes your way, Jamal will always be with you. 107 00:07:27,677 --> 00:07:29,268 I'm sorry, Darius. 108 00:07:29,269 --> 00:07:32,936 Maybe I'm just losing my faith a little bit. 109 00:07:34,149 --> 00:07:35,257 These are just words. 110 00:07:35,258 --> 00:07:36,657 They're not actually helping me. 111 00:07:36,658 --> 00:07:40,508 I thought if I came here, you could help me. 112 00:07:40,509 --> 00:07:43,666 You could save him, you could, you could. 113 00:07:43,667 --> 00:07:47,276 It's hard to see right now. 114 00:07:47,277 --> 00:07:49,027 I understand, I do. 115 00:07:49,957 --> 00:07:52,125 I understand, I think. 116 00:07:52,126 --> 00:07:54,316 Try and keep the faith. 117 00:07:54,317 --> 00:07:55,248 It's not gonna be easy. 118 00:07:55,249 --> 00:07:58,415 It's gonna be, it's not gonna be easy. 119 00:08:00,017 --> 00:08:01,017 Look, 120 00:08:03,609 --> 00:08:07,692 how about you go back and make sure Jamal's okay? 121 00:08:08,958 --> 00:08:11,757 We can have more of a chat when I see you later on. 122 00:08:11,758 --> 00:08:12,816 Okay. 123 00:08:12,817 --> 00:08:13,650 Yeah? 124 00:08:13,651 --> 00:08:16,900 And remember, God will never leave you. 125 00:09:09,186 --> 00:09:10,019 Hi. 126 00:09:10,019 --> 00:09:11,019 Hi. 127 00:09:17,806 --> 00:09:18,806 You okay? 128 00:09:19,726 --> 00:09:21,911 Did you enjoy the service? 129 00:09:21,912 --> 00:09:23,745 Yeah, it was lovely. 130 00:09:28,993 --> 00:09:30,826 How are you feeling? 131 00:09:32,604 --> 00:09:34,271 I'm okay, darling. 132 00:09:36,725 --> 00:09:39,095 While you were in church with Darius, 133 00:09:39,096 --> 00:09:41,844 I was just reading up more on what to expect 134 00:09:41,845 --> 00:09:43,262 with lung cancer. 135 00:09:51,034 --> 00:09:53,867 Just trying to process everything. 136 00:09:59,624 --> 00:10:02,874 By the way, how was the heart to heart? 137 00:10:09,256 --> 00:10:11,089 You know, the usual. 138 00:10:15,645 --> 00:10:18,478 Is there anything more I could do? 139 00:10:19,605 --> 00:10:20,605 No. 140 00:10:21,456 --> 00:10:24,456 You're perfect just the way you are. 141 00:10:33,864 --> 00:10:36,583 We're gonna fight this, 142 00:10:36,584 --> 00:10:40,001 and we're with you every step of the way. 143 00:10:47,365 --> 00:10:49,522 I need to speak with you about something 144 00:10:49,523 --> 00:10:51,440 really important to me. 145 00:10:52,296 --> 00:10:53,879 What do you mean? 146 00:10:55,045 --> 00:10:59,335 You know how I'm always speaking about the plan, 147 00:10:59,336 --> 00:11:01,753 the plan that God has for me. 148 00:11:04,123 --> 00:11:07,956 Well, now that that plan is coming to a close, 149 00:11:11,194 --> 00:11:16,027 I've been thinking about what it means for you afterwards. 150 00:11:20,176 --> 00:11:23,353 Don't talk like that, Jamal. 151 00:11:23,354 --> 00:11:25,273 You know I have faith 152 00:11:25,274 --> 00:11:29,691 and it's gonna carry me through this situation, okay? 153 00:11:33,914 --> 00:11:36,234 Why do I get the sense that, 154 00:11:39,685 --> 00:11:40,685 that. 155 00:11:49,325 --> 00:11:51,658 Look, I'm not losing hope. 156 00:11:56,154 --> 00:11:58,571 And you're not alone in this. 157 00:12:00,093 --> 00:12:02,644 Look, we can continue to pray together, 158 00:12:02,645 --> 00:12:05,145 and just ask God for guidance. 159 00:12:09,472 --> 00:12:13,055 I've been speaking to people and, you know, 160 00:12:15,152 --> 00:12:16,735 leading up on earth 161 00:12:20,152 --> 00:12:23,485 what happens in the worst case scenario? 162 00:12:52,409 --> 00:12:55,159 - Are you okay? - Yeah, thank you. 163 00:13:50,475 --> 00:13:55,475 Jamal, sweetie, let me put some pillows under you. 164 00:13:55,586 --> 00:13:57,314 Make you more comfortable. 165 00:13:57,315 --> 00:13:58,315 Thank you. 166 00:13:59,985 --> 00:14:02,526 See how that is. 167 00:14:02,527 --> 00:14:03,466 Is that better? 168 00:14:03,466 --> 00:14:04,299 Much better. 169 00:14:04,300 --> 00:14:05,824 Good. 170 00:14:05,825 --> 00:14:07,837 Thank you. 171 00:14:12,066 --> 00:14:14,926 Okay, I'm gonna go get your meds. 172 00:14:14,927 --> 00:14:17,427 I'll bring you some water too. 173 00:14:19,504 --> 00:14:20,504 Destiny. 174 00:14:22,183 --> 00:14:25,016 Would you hand me my Bible please? 175 00:14:30,777 --> 00:14:32,610 Of course. 176 00:14:36,017 --> 00:14:37,017 Thank you. 177 00:14:41,897 --> 00:14:46,230 And if you've got any rum, would you bring that too? 178 00:15:01,958 --> 00:15:05,968 Even though I walk through the darkest of valleys, 179 00:15:05,969 --> 00:15:09,302 I will fear no evil for you are with me. 180 00:15:12,468 --> 00:15:16,656 Your rod and your staff, they comfort me. 181 00:15:16,657 --> 00:15:18,407 Psalm 23, verse four. 182 00:15:19,986 --> 00:15:21,653 Beautiful. 183 00:15:23,716 --> 00:15:26,966 Come on, it's time to take your meds. 184 00:15:40,796 --> 00:15:44,629 You weren't able to find that rum, were you? 185 00:15:50,106 --> 00:15:53,273 Are you feeling all right? 186 00:15:54,828 --> 00:15:58,366 About as well as could be expected. 187 00:15:58,367 --> 00:16:01,905 Although I wish I were in the Jamaican sun right now. 188 00:16:01,906 --> 00:16:02,906 Me too. 189 00:16:08,036 --> 00:16:11,869 All right, honey, you got some rest now, okay? 190 00:16:14,175 --> 00:16:17,105 Oh, do you know who I saw the other day, I saw Sally. 191 00:16:17,106 --> 00:16:17,939 Do you remember Sally? 192 00:16:17,940 --> 00:16:20,276 We used to go to school together. 193 00:16:20,277 --> 00:16:21,110 She was that girl 194 00:16:21,111 --> 00:16:23,966 that we used to have so many arguments at school. 195 00:16:23,967 --> 00:16:25,004 Do you remember her? 196 00:16:25,005 --> 00:16:26,338 I'm sure you do. 197 00:16:27,756 --> 00:16:28,756 Beautiful. 198 00:16:46,614 --> 00:16:49,573 I was wearing those square shoes 199 00:16:49,574 --> 00:16:54,241 and she was just, like, insulting my shoes all the time. 200 00:16:55,454 --> 00:16:56,683 I'm sure I told you the story before, 201 00:16:56,684 --> 00:17:01,684 but I'm gonna tell you again 'cause she just reminded me. 202 00:17:01,945 --> 00:17:03,634 So anyway, she used to wear 203 00:17:03,635 --> 00:17:05,864 these really skinny stiletto shoes. 204 00:17:05,865 --> 00:17:09,093 And I like my big square heels. 205 00:17:09,094 --> 00:17:11,424 And we were going out one night 206 00:17:11,425 --> 00:17:15,842 and she got her stiletto heel stuck in the escalator, 207 00:17:18,974 --> 00:17:21,724 and it closed the escalator down. 208 00:17:22,644 --> 00:17:25,703 I mean, I was kind of happy because I was off the escalator, 209 00:17:25,704 --> 00:17:27,704 but she was stuck in it. 210 00:17:31,025 --> 00:17:32,275 Are you hungry? 211 00:17:35,214 --> 00:17:36,214 Jamal? 212 00:17:39,825 --> 00:17:40,825 Jamal? 213 00:17:43,774 --> 00:17:44,774 Jamal? 214 00:17:52,713 --> 00:17:53,713 So, anyway, 215 00:17:56,833 --> 00:17:59,333 her shoe got absolutely stuck, 216 00:18:02,084 --> 00:18:04,584 but the escalator didn't stop. 217 00:18:06,985 --> 00:18:09,416 Her heel just got ripped. 218 00:18:09,417 --> 00:18:13,250 And I was, I was already out of the escalator. 219 00:18:16,625 --> 00:18:21,116 My shoes were fine and I was laughing at her. 220 00:19:08,204 --> 00:19:09,493 Hey sis. 221 00:19:09,494 --> 00:19:13,662 Good morning, how's it going down there? 222 00:19:13,663 --> 00:19:16,413 It's about as busy as the shop. 223 00:19:19,722 --> 00:19:22,230 Hi. How are you? 224 00:19:22,231 --> 00:19:23,630 I'm okay, how are you? 225 00:19:23,631 --> 00:19:24,464 Not too good. 226 00:19:24,464 --> 00:19:25,297 Hey mom. 227 00:19:25,298 --> 00:19:26,584 Good morning 228 00:19:26,585 --> 00:19:29,360 Uncle, I've got something to show you. 229 00:19:29,361 --> 00:19:32,444 What you got there big man? 230 00:19:36,652 --> 00:19:38,451 Good morning. 231 00:19:38,452 --> 00:19:39,285 How are you? 232 00:19:39,286 --> 00:19:42,059 I'm good, thanks, I'm Carly Rae. 233 00:19:42,060 --> 00:19:44,651 Could I get you something? 234 00:19:44,652 --> 00:19:47,750 I'm Angel, can we get you something? 235 00:19:47,751 --> 00:19:49,930 Do you mind if I leave these here? 236 00:19:49,931 --> 00:19:51,100 Oh, what are they? 237 00:19:51,101 --> 00:19:53,250 They're flyers for the church I follow. 238 00:19:53,251 --> 00:19:56,751 No, sorry, no religious literature here. 239 00:19:57,912 --> 00:19:59,650 Do you mind if I ask why not? 240 00:19:59,651 --> 00:20:00,749 It's none of your business. 241 00:20:00,750 --> 00:20:01,750 Destiny. 242 00:20:03,491 --> 00:20:04,382 All our church is doing, 243 00:20:04,383 --> 00:20:06,820 it's offering flyers for people going through hard times. 244 00:20:06,821 --> 00:20:08,631 We just wanna help. 245 00:20:08,632 --> 00:20:10,370 And these flyers may give people contacts 246 00:20:10,371 --> 00:20:12,549 for a place that can help them. 247 00:20:12,550 --> 00:20:14,119 Nothing provocative. 248 00:20:14,120 --> 00:20:15,949 I appreciate your reasons, 249 00:20:15,950 --> 00:20:19,783 but I don't want to associate with any church. 250 00:20:21,670 --> 00:20:23,591 I don't want my customers to feel pressurized 251 00:20:23,592 --> 00:20:25,675 or uncomfortable, so no. 252 00:20:26,941 --> 00:20:28,700 I understand. 253 00:20:28,701 --> 00:20:30,991 We just wanna help people in need. 254 00:20:30,992 --> 00:20:33,151 I'm sorry, um? 255 00:20:33,152 --> 00:20:34,519 Carly Rae. 256 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:39,271 I'm sorry, Carly Rae, but my answer is still a no. 257 00:20:39,272 --> 00:20:43,830 This is a secular coffee shop and I wanna keep it that way. 258 00:20:43,831 --> 00:20:47,140 I understand, thank you for your time. 259 00:20:47,141 --> 00:20:47,974 Thank you. 260 00:20:47,975 --> 00:20:49,724 Thanks. 261 00:20:52,610 --> 00:20:55,299 Wasn't very friendly, was it? 262 00:20:55,300 --> 00:20:56,133 Uh-hum. 263 00:20:56,134 --> 00:20:58,259 That's great sales strategy you've hit on there. 264 00:20:58,260 --> 00:21:00,470 Let's be rude to everyone who comes in. 265 00:21:00,471 --> 00:21:04,038 You're bound to sell tons of coffee that way, hmm? 266 00:21:04,039 --> 00:21:06,998 I just wanna let everyone know where we stand, Angel. 267 00:21:06,999 --> 00:21:10,082 I don't wanna be dishonest to anyone. 268 00:21:11,860 --> 00:21:13,307 Okay. 269 00:21:13,308 --> 00:21:16,528 It's time, I've got to go pick her up. 270 00:21:16,529 --> 00:21:18,612 Always a royal welcome. 271 00:21:23,796 --> 00:21:24,796 Oh. 272 00:21:31,765 --> 00:21:34,322 Sis, if you can spare a minute, 273 00:21:34,323 --> 00:21:37,295 can we get some coffee over here please? 274 00:21:37,296 --> 00:21:40,883 I should start charging you guys for your coffees. 275 00:21:40,884 --> 00:21:43,634 Hey, I don't even drink coffee. 276 00:21:47,554 --> 00:21:51,554 So, how was that party you went to last night? 277 00:21:53,485 --> 00:21:55,284 It was okay, I thought it was gonna be fancy dress, 278 00:21:55,285 --> 00:21:59,123 but it turned out to be a smart casual kind of thing. 279 00:21:59,124 --> 00:22:02,145 What monstrosity did you show up in this time? 280 00:22:02,146 --> 00:22:06,479 You looked like the Black Abraham Lincoln last time. 281 00:22:07,536 --> 00:22:09,564 You're just jealous. 282 00:22:09,565 --> 00:22:11,363 I don't think I went too overboard this time around. 283 00:22:11,364 --> 00:22:15,361 I borrowed Terry's football Premier League outfit. 284 00:22:15,362 --> 00:22:17,361 Oh, that's not embarrassing at all. 285 00:22:17,362 --> 00:22:18,362 It's not? 286 00:22:19,962 --> 00:22:22,620 Although, I wonder where the shorts went off to 287 00:22:22,621 --> 00:22:24,009 'cause I think one of the guests stole it, 288 00:22:24,010 --> 00:22:25,927 and I have no idea who. 289 00:22:26,859 --> 00:22:30,969 I know Terry's gonna flip when he finds out. 290 00:22:30,970 --> 00:22:32,940 How on earth did they get your shorts off you? 291 00:22:32,941 --> 00:22:35,940 I don't know, I let my guard down. 292 00:22:35,941 --> 00:22:38,928 I forgot Eric and Graham would be there. 293 00:22:38,929 --> 00:22:43,270 Graham has had it out for me ever since I sat on his gerbil. 294 00:22:43,271 --> 00:22:44,519 What is it I'm hearing? 295 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:48,187 Look who I found, ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh. 296 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,799 It's good to see you. 297 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:54,915 Nala. 298 00:22:54,916 --> 00:22:55,749 Thank you. 299 00:22:55,750 --> 00:22:58,144 Awe, it's so good to see you. 300 00:22:58,145 --> 00:23:00,619 Oh, God, just hug your sister. 301 00:23:00,620 --> 00:23:01,453 Um. 302 00:23:01,453 --> 00:23:02,316 Um. 303 00:23:02,316 --> 00:23:03,243 Come on, come and sit down. 304 00:23:03,244 --> 00:23:05,873 Come sit down, sit down, sit down. 305 00:23:05,874 --> 00:23:07,972 I guess your lectures are secondary 306 00:23:07,973 --> 00:23:10,252 in the background right now. 307 00:23:10,253 --> 00:23:13,420 I know they were when I was a student. 308 00:23:14,445 --> 00:23:17,375 Hey, I've actually been going to all of my lectures. 309 00:23:17,376 --> 00:23:18,209 Um. 310 00:23:18,210 --> 00:23:20,223 Well, as many as I can. 311 00:23:20,224 --> 00:23:21,655 We are paying for them after all. 312 00:23:21,656 --> 00:23:24,135 That's our girl getting our money's worth. 313 00:23:24,136 --> 00:23:25,426 Isn't she? 314 00:23:25,427 --> 00:23:26,567 I'm currently getting my head around 315 00:23:26,568 --> 00:23:29,146 the McLibel 1997 case. 316 00:23:29,147 --> 00:23:32,226 The judgment alone was a thousand pages. 317 00:23:32,227 --> 00:23:35,134 Ooh, university sounds so exciting. 318 00:23:35,135 --> 00:23:36,555 That's funny. 319 00:23:36,556 --> 00:23:37,643 You'd probably be, like, 320 00:23:37,644 --> 00:23:40,424 very disappointed when you get there, Gabe. 321 00:23:40,425 --> 00:23:42,163 You'd find it's not all just partying 322 00:23:42,164 --> 00:23:44,856 and dancing and drinking. 323 00:23:44,857 --> 00:23:48,304 Besides, based on your most recent party, 324 00:23:48,305 --> 00:23:49,484 you should probably spend more time 325 00:23:49,485 --> 00:23:52,694 with your head in your books. 326 00:23:52,695 --> 00:23:54,675 What, how, how does she know? 327 00:23:54,676 --> 00:23:55,925 I legit just told you. 328 00:23:55,926 --> 00:23:58,904 What happened at Gabe's last party? 329 00:23:58,905 --> 00:24:01,024 Nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing. 330 00:24:01,025 --> 00:24:03,256 You must be hungry. 331 00:24:03,257 --> 00:24:05,007 Have you been eating? 332 00:24:05,926 --> 00:24:06,878 Let me get you home. 333 00:24:06,879 --> 00:24:10,216 I've got a nice jerk roast ready for dinner tonight. 334 00:24:10,217 --> 00:24:13,755 And we might even go and watch a movie later. 335 00:24:13,756 --> 00:24:17,077 Well, first of all, I have been eating, why? 336 00:24:17,078 --> 00:24:19,666 Does it look like I've been on a hunger strike or something? 337 00:24:19,667 --> 00:24:21,934 It's a shame the cooks at uni aren't as good as you. 338 00:24:21,935 --> 00:24:23,335 Of course. 339 00:24:23,336 --> 00:24:25,855 Uh-hmm, resorting to flattery to connect 340 00:24:25,856 --> 00:24:27,906 just less in the kitchen. 341 00:24:27,907 --> 00:24:29,626 My uncle knows me. 342 00:24:29,627 --> 00:24:32,234 Well, we're all susceptible to a little bit of flattery, 343 00:24:32,235 --> 00:24:33,235 hmm? 344 00:24:35,864 --> 00:24:37,503 So how's the shop doing mom? 345 00:24:37,504 --> 00:24:40,337 As you can see, we are thriving. 346 00:24:43,504 --> 00:24:45,578 Well, I'll have a mocha if one's going. 347 00:24:45,579 --> 00:24:46,982 What size? 348 00:24:46,983 --> 00:24:48,306 The biggest one you have. 349 00:24:48,307 --> 00:24:49,307 Coming up. 350 00:24:55,897 --> 00:24:57,757 Now that I'm gone, 351 00:24:57,758 --> 00:24:59,774 I suspect that you will be the rock 352 00:24:59,775 --> 00:25:03,117 that your mother leans on when times are difficult. 353 00:25:03,118 --> 00:25:04,324 It will be a tough assignment, 354 00:25:04,325 --> 00:25:08,408 but even if you could, you shouldn't do it alone. 355 00:25:14,577 --> 00:25:16,877 So how's she been doing? 356 00:25:16,878 --> 00:25:19,837 Not great, to be perfectly honest. 357 00:25:19,838 --> 00:25:23,505 In my opinion, she's actually getting worse. 358 00:25:25,390 --> 00:25:27,730 We'll talk properly later. 359 00:25:27,731 --> 00:25:29,258 Okay, all right. 360 00:25:29,259 --> 00:25:32,839 Little man, come on, I'll drive you home. 361 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,090 What happened to big man? 362 00:25:36,488 --> 00:25:39,738 That was before you lost your shorts. 363 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:46,333 You know I'm younger and stronger than you, right? 364 00:25:47,697 --> 00:25:48,947 Younger, yes. 365 00:25:50,127 --> 00:25:52,167 Stronger, hell no. 366 00:25:52,168 --> 00:25:55,136 Don't blast him. 367 00:25:55,137 --> 00:25:56,137 Mea culpa. 368 00:25:57,166 --> 00:25:59,166 Come on Abraham Lincoln. 369 00:26:00,206 --> 00:26:01,289 I'll see you. 370 00:26:02,246 --> 00:26:03,285 Love you. 371 00:26:03,286 --> 00:26:06,286 Love you, see you later. 372 00:26:11,057 --> 00:26:13,974 So how's mom really been doing? 373 00:26:13,975 --> 00:26:18,145 I mean, I see she's putting on a brave face, 374 00:26:18,146 --> 00:26:20,892 but I can sense the pain underneath. 375 00:26:20,893 --> 00:26:22,660 All I can say is, Nala, 376 00:26:22,661 --> 00:26:25,711 your mom's going through a rollercoaster of emotions. 377 00:26:25,712 --> 00:26:27,791 Some days she's managing okay. 378 00:26:27,792 --> 00:26:32,191 Finding the strength to go on for you, Gabriel, and herself, 379 00:26:32,192 --> 00:26:34,609 but then there are other days 380 00:26:35,952 --> 00:26:38,201 when the grief just overwhelms her 381 00:26:38,202 --> 00:26:40,991 and she finds it difficult to function. 382 00:26:40,992 --> 00:26:44,492 She just feels so alone a lot of the time. 383 00:26:47,269 --> 00:26:49,561 I've just got so many commitments going on right now 384 00:26:49,562 --> 00:26:54,062 and I don't fully understand what she's going through. 385 00:26:56,112 --> 00:26:59,412 Nala, when was the last time you were here 386 00:26:59,413 --> 00:27:01,292 for longer than a day, if that even? 387 00:27:01,293 --> 00:27:02,126 But. 388 00:27:02,127 --> 00:27:04,459 Nala, Nala, let me finish. 389 00:27:06,093 --> 00:27:07,093 I miss you, 390 00:27:09,471 --> 00:27:11,304 your mom, Gabe misses. 391 00:27:16,722 --> 00:27:17,805 Don't, don't. 392 00:27:22,712 --> 00:27:25,129 I'm sorry, you must be tired. 393 00:27:28,813 --> 00:27:33,159 Do you think mom will find happiness again? 394 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:34,910 Dad was her soulmate. 395 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:43,580 Your mom's journey to healing will take some time, Nala, 396 00:27:43,581 --> 00:27:47,970 but I believe that someday she will find happiness soon. 397 00:27:47,971 --> 00:27:52,929 It's not easy to lose someone that you love deeply. 398 00:27:52,930 --> 00:27:55,013 She will find love again. 399 00:27:56,117 --> 00:27:57,908 It won't be the same, 400 00:27:57,909 --> 00:27:59,719 but she will learn to cherish the memories 401 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:04,553 and create a new future for you, herself, and for Gabriel. 402 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,279 I hope so. 403 00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:12,428 I just want her to be okay. 404 00:28:12,429 --> 00:28:14,748 Then you should come home more often. 405 00:28:14,749 --> 00:28:17,908 There is Easter, there is Christmas. 406 00:28:17,909 --> 00:28:20,577 There is the summer holidays. 407 00:28:20,578 --> 00:28:25,245 You left me here by myself, Nala, to hold down the fort. 408 00:28:29,109 --> 00:28:33,185 The boys are trying, but it's not the same. 409 00:28:33,186 --> 00:28:36,186 I miss you, you're the missing link. 410 00:28:49,626 --> 00:28:50,876 What about you? 411 00:28:52,146 --> 00:28:53,479 What about me? 412 00:28:55,509 --> 00:28:59,342 Are you allowing yourself to grieve? 413 00:29:00,930 --> 00:29:04,188 Has mom been going to church at all? 414 00:29:04,189 --> 00:29:05,558 We'll get there, 415 00:29:05,559 --> 00:29:07,257 but I know I said I was going to update you 416 00:29:07,258 --> 00:29:08,889 if anything happened. 417 00:29:08,890 --> 00:29:10,969 Unfortunately, she's just been the same 418 00:29:10,970 --> 00:29:13,118 as the last time you saw her. 419 00:29:13,119 --> 00:29:13,999 What? 420 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,296 So Darius hasn't kept in contact when he said he would. 421 00:29:16,297 --> 00:29:18,158 There is only so much Darius can do 422 00:29:18,159 --> 00:29:20,785 if your mom doesn't want to be helped. 423 00:29:20,786 --> 00:29:21,869 I guess so. 424 00:29:23,890 --> 00:29:25,518 Oh, also, there's a bit of news 425 00:29:25,519 --> 00:29:27,508 that we need to update you on. 426 00:29:27,509 --> 00:29:29,129 Darius is leaving the parish. 427 00:29:29,130 --> 00:29:29,963 What? 428 00:29:29,963 --> 00:29:30,796 I know. 429 00:29:30,797 --> 00:29:31,988 He got a call from Southern diocese 430 00:29:31,989 --> 00:29:33,729 to be in London for now. 431 00:29:33,730 --> 00:29:37,228 We had to apply for a new vicar. 432 00:29:37,229 --> 00:29:39,948 Well, we've been attendees of his church for years now. 433 00:29:39,949 --> 00:29:41,718 He didn't even bother to say goodbye. 434 00:29:41,719 --> 00:29:42,828 He was sorry to go, 435 00:29:42,829 --> 00:29:47,079 but he's been chasing that promotion for years now. 436 00:29:48,069 --> 00:29:50,955 Hmm, so who's our new vicar out of interest? 437 00:29:50,956 --> 00:29:52,456 Geraldine Granger. 438 00:29:53,557 --> 00:29:55,224 Ha-ha, very funny. 439 00:29:56,128 --> 00:29:58,367 No, we haven't actually met him yet. 440 00:29:58,368 --> 00:29:59,396 Or her. 441 00:29:59,397 --> 00:30:01,127 No, it's definitely a him. 442 00:30:01,128 --> 00:30:03,418 His name is Michael Johnson. 443 00:30:03,419 --> 00:30:04,919 Michael Johnson. 444 00:30:06,226 --> 00:30:08,059 Does he have a family? 445 00:30:09,146 --> 00:30:11,146 I don't know yet, why? 446 00:30:12,459 --> 00:30:15,042 I'm just curious, that's all. 447 00:30:17,507 --> 00:30:18,340 Hmm. 448 00:30:18,341 --> 00:30:19,474 Well, I'm sure he'd be perfectly nice 449 00:30:19,475 --> 00:30:21,007 when we get to know him. 450 00:30:21,008 --> 00:30:22,025 He may not be Darius, 451 00:30:22,026 --> 00:30:26,693 but as Darius always says, God works in mysterious ways. 452 00:30:27,888 --> 00:30:30,425 I'm sure he's exactly what God wants for us. 453 00:30:30,426 --> 00:30:31,716 Well, if he's a vicar who could help me memorize 454 00:30:31,717 --> 00:30:34,356 hundreds of pages of law gibberish, 455 00:30:34,357 --> 00:30:38,244 then he'll be just what we needed for sure. 456 00:30:38,245 --> 00:30:39,995 Miracles do happen. 457 00:30:41,997 --> 00:30:44,134 Anyway, let's get out of here. 458 00:30:44,135 --> 00:30:46,174 Mom's probably dying to stuff me full of jerk roast 459 00:30:46,175 --> 00:30:48,012 until I burst. 460 00:30:48,013 --> 00:30:50,180 Not the worst way to go. 461 00:31:00,424 --> 00:31:01,924 Come on, let's go. 462 00:31:11,744 --> 00:31:12,577 Whatever you're selling 463 00:31:12,578 --> 00:31:14,863 we have an ample supply already. 464 00:31:14,864 --> 00:31:15,947 Very funny. 465 00:31:17,382 --> 00:31:19,132 Are you nearly ready? 466 00:31:20,315 --> 00:31:24,482 Nearly, I just need to convince mom to come too. 467 00:31:37,053 --> 00:31:41,470 I'm sorry, Nala, I don't think that's gonna happen. 468 00:31:42,565 --> 00:31:45,964 Please, just let me have one more go to convince her. 469 00:31:45,965 --> 00:31:47,298 I won't be long. 470 00:31:52,624 --> 00:31:55,541 What do you think the chances are 471 00:31:56,622 --> 00:31:59,901 of her persuading your mom to come? 472 00:31:59,902 --> 00:32:04,164 Hmm, well, she listens to Nala more than most people. 473 00:32:04,165 --> 00:32:06,332 Uh-uh, not gonna happen. 474 00:32:07,432 --> 00:32:08,432 I would put 475 00:32:12,456 --> 00:32:14,039 10 pound on it now. 476 00:32:16,632 --> 00:32:17,632 Well. 477 00:32:23,872 --> 00:32:27,791 That's just not going to happen, honey. 478 00:32:27,792 --> 00:32:29,873 Not even to see some old friends? 479 00:32:29,874 --> 00:32:32,175 Not even to see some old friends. 480 00:32:32,176 --> 00:32:33,513 I'm sorry, Nala. 481 00:32:33,514 --> 00:32:34,993 But mom, why? 482 00:32:34,994 --> 00:32:37,364 Look, you know exactly why. 483 00:32:37,365 --> 00:32:42,032 And that's the last word I wanna hear about this matter. 484 00:32:48,656 --> 00:32:49,989 Okay mom, bye. 485 00:32:51,894 --> 00:32:52,894 Bye Nala. 486 00:32:58,154 --> 00:33:00,084 Shall we just go? 487 00:33:00,085 --> 00:33:03,735 Bowie said he can't mind the shop. 488 00:33:03,736 --> 00:33:05,569 I have to go, I can't. 489 00:33:07,554 --> 00:33:09,971 I have to go with my uncle. 490 00:33:21,834 --> 00:33:26,834 ♪ Amazing grace how sweet the sound ♪ 491 00:33:28,994 --> 00:33:33,994 ♪ That saved a wretch like me ♪ 492 00:33:36,813 --> 00:33:40,361 ♪ I once was lost ♪ 493 00:33:40,362 --> 00:33:42,822 What do you think of the new guy? 494 00:33:42,823 --> 00:33:46,350 Better looking than Darius I think so. 495 00:33:46,351 --> 00:33:51,350 ♪ But now I see ♪ 496 00:33:51,351 --> 00:33:56,088 ♪ My chains are gone I've been set free ♪ 497 00:33:57,503 --> 00:33:59,153 Shh. 498 00:33:59,154 --> 00:34:03,821 ♪ Because God my Savior has ransomed me ♪ 499 00:34:06,834 --> 00:34:08,364 I haven't been home for ages. 500 00:34:08,365 --> 00:34:11,065 I can't believe they didn't come with us. 501 00:34:11,066 --> 00:34:14,106 I can tell you now, Malik's not any different. 502 00:34:14,107 --> 00:34:15,107 Hey Agatha. 503 00:34:16,027 --> 00:34:18,497 How was Sunday school? 504 00:34:18,498 --> 00:34:20,298 The kids were a bit rowdy. 505 00:34:20,299 --> 00:34:21,468 Oh. 506 00:34:21,469 --> 00:34:24,250 One of them decided to reenact a particular movie scene 507 00:34:24,251 --> 00:34:26,426 and I had to put him in a corner. 508 00:34:26,427 --> 00:34:28,730 Which movie, "Ratatouille," "Toy Story," "Cars?" 509 00:34:28,731 --> 00:34:30,890 It was a '70's movie. 510 00:34:30,891 --> 00:34:33,631 May the power of Christ compel him. 511 00:34:33,632 --> 00:34:34,762 "The Exorcist?" 512 00:34:34,763 --> 00:34:35,763 Oh. 513 00:34:40,312 --> 00:34:44,770 Sunday School was never this fun when I was there. 514 00:34:44,771 --> 00:34:46,802 Have you met the new vicar at all? 515 00:34:46,803 --> 00:34:49,042 Only very briefly. 516 00:34:49,043 --> 00:34:51,151 He seemed perfectly charming for the whole two minutes 517 00:34:51,152 --> 00:34:53,235 I had to get to know him. 518 00:34:54,584 --> 00:34:55,874 Well, two minutes is more than enough time 519 00:34:55,875 --> 00:34:57,364 to get to know someone. 520 00:34:57,365 --> 00:34:58,365 - Hmm. - Hmm. 521 00:34:59,315 --> 00:35:00,342 He's good looking. 522 00:35:00,343 --> 00:35:01,176 Uh-hmm. 523 00:35:01,177 --> 00:35:02,903 I've heard he works out. 524 00:35:02,904 --> 00:35:04,433 Oh. 525 00:35:04,434 --> 00:35:07,913 He reads and he also plays in a band. 526 00:35:07,914 --> 00:35:09,033 Which band? 527 00:35:09,034 --> 00:35:11,513 What does he play? 528 00:35:11,514 --> 00:35:13,215 Bass guitar. 529 00:35:13,216 --> 00:35:15,799 I've also heard he has tattoos. 530 00:35:18,664 --> 00:35:19,664 Stop. 531 00:35:21,154 --> 00:35:23,071 Oh, may God forgive me. 532 00:35:24,953 --> 00:35:29,953 And between us, I've also heard on the communion grapevine 533 00:35:31,456 --> 00:35:33,123 that he's a widower. 534 00:35:33,994 --> 00:35:35,411 Oh, is that so. 535 00:35:37,154 --> 00:35:38,737 Reverend Johnson. 536 00:35:44,472 --> 00:35:48,671 So are there a lot of clubs in Canterbury? 537 00:35:48,672 --> 00:35:51,152 Hmm, I don't really go clubbing. 538 00:35:51,153 --> 00:35:51,986 Once you've been once 539 00:35:51,987 --> 00:35:55,653 you've pretty much had the whole experience. 540 00:35:56,591 --> 00:35:58,422 Anything's better than Caswell, right? 541 00:35:58,423 --> 00:35:59,423 Sure. 542 00:36:00,951 --> 00:36:04,950 Have you had a chance to step into the cathedral yet? 543 00:36:04,951 --> 00:36:08,229 Students go in free, so I went on my second week. 544 00:36:08,230 --> 00:36:09,950 Who wanted the black coffee again? 545 00:36:09,951 --> 00:36:10,950 Yep, me. 546 00:36:10,950 --> 00:36:11,950 Ah-ha. 547 00:36:15,341 --> 00:36:16,424 There you go. 548 00:36:20,062 --> 00:36:21,240 Here you go. 549 00:36:21,241 --> 00:36:22,110 Thanks, auntie. 550 00:36:22,110 --> 00:36:22,943 How was the service? 551 00:36:22,944 --> 00:36:24,320 I loved it. 552 00:36:24,321 --> 00:36:25,154 Well, who can blame her 553 00:36:25,155 --> 00:36:27,451 when she had such good eye candy to look at? 554 00:36:27,452 --> 00:36:28,452 Nala. 555 00:36:29,312 --> 00:36:31,589 I just thought he was a good speaker, that's all. 556 00:36:31,590 --> 00:36:32,423 Is is married? 557 00:36:32,424 --> 00:36:35,892 Um, Agatha said that he had been widowed. 558 00:36:35,893 --> 00:36:37,863 I really do hope he's okay, though. 559 00:36:37,864 --> 00:36:39,630 He did say that he was a bit nervous 560 00:36:39,631 --> 00:36:42,972 about moving into a new place all by himself. 561 00:36:42,973 --> 00:36:45,601 Oh geez, the poor guy. 562 00:36:45,602 --> 00:36:48,172 I reckon he'll be fine once he settles in. 563 00:36:48,173 --> 00:36:52,090 Plus, he's going to get to meet all the locals. 564 00:36:53,482 --> 00:36:55,315 My thoughts exactly. 565 00:37:04,962 --> 00:37:06,441 Nala, I know you've been wanting to set mom up 566 00:37:06,442 --> 00:37:07,959 for the longest time. 567 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,840 Now I do appreciate that it's coming from a place of love, 568 00:37:10,841 --> 00:37:13,422 but don't you think you should wait until mom's ready? 569 00:37:13,423 --> 00:37:16,256 Hmm, you make a good point Gabe, 570 00:37:17,813 --> 00:37:19,633 but how do you think that's gonna happen? 571 00:37:19,634 --> 00:37:23,393 She never goes out so she never encounters anyone new. 572 00:37:23,394 --> 00:37:24,892 Well. 573 00:37:24,893 --> 00:37:26,513 With all due respect to my sister, 574 00:37:26,514 --> 00:37:29,479 she's never been good at deducing what's good for her. 575 00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:30,601 Do you remember when we were kids 576 00:37:30,602 --> 00:37:34,321 and we had to pester her repeatedly and annoy her 577 00:37:34,322 --> 00:37:37,022 for her to come on a camping trip with us. 578 00:37:37,023 --> 00:37:38,023 And guess what? 579 00:37:38,024 --> 00:37:41,040 She loved it just as we knew she would. 580 00:37:41,041 --> 00:37:43,841 So yeah, I agree with Nala. 581 00:37:43,842 --> 00:37:46,942 Meeting someone might just do wonders her. 582 00:37:46,943 --> 00:37:48,921 Thanks, auntie. 583 00:37:48,922 --> 00:37:50,292 So wait, you're serious about this. 584 00:37:50,293 --> 00:37:53,982 You think that this guy we just met this week 585 00:37:53,983 --> 00:37:57,502 could potentially be an ideal match for our mother? 586 00:37:57,503 --> 00:38:00,673 Maybe not a match, but once she sees him, 587 00:38:00,674 --> 00:38:03,662 goes on a couple dates, you never know. 588 00:38:03,663 --> 00:38:05,740 It can get the ball rolling again. 589 00:38:05,741 --> 00:38:09,020 All I can say is good luck trying to set her up 590 00:38:09,021 --> 00:38:11,622 with someone who's a member of the church. 591 00:38:11,623 --> 00:38:14,201 I mean, I can't even see her dating someone 592 00:38:14,202 --> 00:38:16,393 who attends church at this point. 593 00:38:16,394 --> 00:38:19,473 Well, not with that pessimistic attitude you can't. 594 00:38:19,474 --> 00:38:20,307 She doesn't even allow 595 00:38:20,308 --> 00:38:23,212 religious flyers into the shop, Nala. 596 00:38:23,213 --> 00:38:25,324 I get you haven't seen her in a while. 597 00:38:25,325 --> 00:38:26,381 You've been at uni and all, 598 00:38:26,382 --> 00:38:28,799 but my sister's not the same. 599 00:38:31,751 --> 00:38:35,262 I love my mom and I'll do whatever it takes 600 00:38:35,263 --> 00:38:37,180 to see her smile again. 601 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,291 That's a lovely thought. 602 00:38:41,292 --> 00:38:42,625 Thanks, uncle. 603 00:38:45,721 --> 00:38:47,371 You don't have to help me in this endeavor 604 00:38:47,372 --> 00:38:49,512 if you don't want to. 605 00:38:49,513 --> 00:38:52,062 You can sit back and watch it all fall apart 606 00:38:52,063 --> 00:38:54,651 and have your whole I told you so moment. 607 00:38:54,652 --> 00:38:55,942 If you think this guy would be great for your mom, 608 00:38:55,943 --> 00:39:00,112 of course, I will support you in any way I can. 609 00:39:00,113 --> 00:39:01,571 Thanks, uncle. 610 00:39:01,572 --> 00:39:03,000 What's that? 611 00:39:03,001 --> 00:39:05,920 Did my brother just agree that an idea to set his sister up 612 00:39:05,921 --> 00:39:07,254 just might work? 613 00:39:08,313 --> 00:39:12,051 Who are you and what have you done with my uncle? 614 00:39:12,052 --> 00:39:15,552 Look, come on, I'm not that pessimistic. 615 00:39:17,641 --> 00:39:21,699 So, you think we should try and introduce them? 616 00:39:21,700 --> 00:39:25,320 I'm sure he'd be interested to meet her at the very least. 617 00:39:25,321 --> 00:39:26,720 You mentioned we've had a family member 618 00:39:26,721 --> 00:39:30,691 who's had issues with her faith recently. 619 00:39:30,692 --> 00:39:32,152 And because they both lost someone they love 620 00:39:32,153 --> 00:39:34,653 they might find common ground. 621 00:39:36,460 --> 00:39:40,099 Even if she refuses to take her faith into account. 622 00:39:40,100 --> 00:39:44,158 Now that's more of the spirit that we like to see. 623 00:39:44,159 --> 00:39:49,159 The real challenge is getting Destiny to accept him. 624 00:39:49,319 --> 00:39:51,227 You should find a time 625 00:39:51,228 --> 00:39:54,395 when she's more receptive to the idea. 626 00:39:55,276 --> 00:39:57,817 Maybe when she's doing something more relaxing 627 00:39:57,818 --> 00:40:01,387 like after a big meal or something. 628 00:40:01,388 --> 00:40:04,346 Like last night after the big meal, 629 00:40:04,347 --> 00:40:08,996 she looked really happy with Nala and relaxed. 630 00:40:08,997 --> 00:40:11,604 Do you guys want any refills? 631 00:40:11,605 --> 00:40:12,605 No. 632 00:40:13,328 --> 00:40:16,404 No thanks, mom, we're okay, thank you. 633 00:40:16,405 --> 00:40:19,767 Okay honey, I was just wondering. 634 00:40:19,768 --> 00:40:21,639 What are you guys talking about? 635 00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:24,546 Nala was just telling us about her uni experiences 636 00:40:24,547 --> 00:40:26,047 who she's meeting. 637 00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:30,498 She's thinking of setting two people up that she knows. 638 00:40:30,499 --> 00:40:31,499 Oh. 639 00:40:33,710 --> 00:40:36,460 Really, you know, that's my girl. 640 00:40:37,417 --> 00:40:40,616 I always knew that you were really good at setting people up 641 00:40:40,617 --> 00:40:42,367 together, didn't you? 642 00:40:44,699 --> 00:40:47,837 Let's hope she's still got that magic touch, eh. 643 00:40:47,838 --> 00:40:49,677 Mom, I'm gonna help you behind the counter. 644 00:40:49,678 --> 00:40:51,254 Seems like you've been worked off your feet a bit. 645 00:40:51,255 --> 00:40:53,338 Thanks honey. 646 00:40:56,105 --> 00:40:59,605 So, what's on your itinerary today, mom? 647 00:41:01,457 --> 00:41:05,346 Well, Barry says that he'll look after the shop for me 648 00:41:05,347 --> 00:41:09,805 'til one o'clock so I've got the morning off. 649 00:41:09,806 --> 00:41:11,973 You could go for a walk. 650 00:41:14,387 --> 00:41:16,266 I guess I could, 651 00:41:16,267 --> 00:41:18,176 but it's not like I haven't seen everything 652 00:41:18,177 --> 00:41:21,177 that Werrington has to offer by now. 653 00:41:22,329 --> 00:41:26,128 I just think getting some fresh air would do you good. 654 00:41:26,129 --> 00:41:28,459 There's no point in being cooped in the house. 655 00:41:28,460 --> 00:41:30,956 Besides, you never know who you might meet 656 00:41:30,957 --> 00:41:33,276 when you're out and about. 657 00:41:33,277 --> 00:41:34,836 Like who? 658 00:41:34,837 --> 00:41:37,537 I just mean in general. 659 00:41:37,538 --> 00:41:40,705 Well, I know everyone in Werrington. 660 00:41:41,926 --> 00:41:46,843 Well, there is this new person whose recently moved here. 661 00:41:48,214 --> 00:41:49,733 - Oh yeah? - Yeah. 662 00:41:49,734 --> 00:41:51,234 What's his name? 663 00:41:52,366 --> 00:41:54,594 I know he's quite nervous 664 00:41:54,595 --> 00:41:57,125 about having moved to a new place, 665 00:41:57,126 --> 00:41:58,906 and it will probably do him some good 666 00:41:58,907 --> 00:42:02,456 to meet some new people here too. 667 00:42:02,457 --> 00:42:05,397 Well, that's a great idea, Nala. 668 00:42:05,398 --> 00:42:07,065 Um, what's his name? 669 00:42:08,095 --> 00:42:10,345 Michael, Michael Johnson. 670 00:42:11,798 --> 00:42:14,048 Michael Johnson. 671 00:42:14,049 --> 00:42:16,728 Why does that name sound familiar? 672 00:42:16,729 --> 00:42:20,037 We sort of met him yesterday at- 673 00:42:20,038 --> 00:42:21,237 Oh no, no, no. 674 00:42:21,238 --> 00:42:22,078 Mom. 675 00:42:22,079 --> 00:42:24,256 No, Nala, I'm sorry. 676 00:42:24,257 --> 00:42:26,056 Just to say hello. 677 00:42:26,057 --> 00:42:29,165 You know I'm not into religion, right? 678 00:42:29,166 --> 00:42:30,038 And all he's gonna wanna do 679 00:42:30,039 --> 00:42:32,757 is to force his opinions on me. 680 00:42:32,758 --> 00:42:34,418 Honestly, mom, he's not someone 681 00:42:34,419 --> 00:42:37,144 to just ram his thoughts down your throat, 682 00:42:37,145 --> 00:42:40,776 and I just know he would love to hear what you have to say, 683 00:42:40,777 --> 00:42:41,610 and also- 684 00:42:41,610 --> 00:42:42,610 No, Nala. 685 00:42:43,758 --> 00:42:47,591 And that's my final word on the subject, okay? 686 00:43:00,638 --> 00:43:01,547 Have you finished? 687 00:43:01,547 --> 00:43:02,547 Yeah. 688 00:43:06,937 --> 00:43:11,197 I know you mean the best, but stop doing it. 689 00:43:11,198 --> 00:43:12,865 I just wanna help. 690 00:43:30,455 --> 00:43:33,683 I thought you packed it all in. 691 00:43:33,684 --> 00:43:36,732 I'm stressed out, what can I say? 692 00:43:36,733 --> 00:43:41,400 You could say you've given it up and actually mean it. 693 00:43:45,372 --> 00:43:49,171 Then you could say you could get out some more. 694 00:43:49,172 --> 00:43:50,922 Meet some new people. 695 00:43:52,244 --> 00:43:53,342 What? 696 00:43:53,343 --> 00:43:55,032 It's just that Nala said something 697 00:43:55,033 --> 00:43:57,450 very similar to me yesterday. 698 00:44:00,282 --> 00:44:01,949 It's common sense. 699 00:44:02,844 --> 00:44:05,761 Your daughter is a very smart girl. 700 00:44:07,313 --> 00:44:11,146 Come on, she just wants to reconnect with you. 701 00:44:12,063 --> 00:44:13,313 Open up to you. 702 00:44:25,212 --> 00:44:27,521 That's more like it. 703 00:44:27,522 --> 00:44:30,230 Nala is a really smart girl. 704 00:44:30,231 --> 00:44:31,830 She's so bright. 705 00:44:31,831 --> 00:44:34,081 She's just like her father. 706 00:44:39,390 --> 00:44:42,223 Do you think there is any chance 707 00:44:43,141 --> 00:44:46,391 that you could give Nala's idea a shot? 708 00:44:49,330 --> 00:44:50,330 Huh? 709 00:44:51,831 --> 00:44:53,914 I want her back, Malik. 710 00:44:55,301 --> 00:44:58,801 I want things to be like they were before. 711 00:44:59,991 --> 00:45:01,658 Okay, I'll meet him. 712 00:45:15,842 --> 00:45:17,700 Thanks so much for the call. 713 00:45:17,701 --> 00:45:19,169 No worries. 714 00:45:19,170 --> 00:45:20,881 How'd you think it's going? 715 00:45:20,882 --> 00:45:22,500 Not too sure just yet. 716 00:45:22,501 --> 00:45:25,540 You know how awkward mom can be for interruptions. 717 00:45:25,541 --> 00:45:28,241 Yep, I know that much. 718 00:45:28,242 --> 00:45:30,391 Shall we go find out how it's going ourselves? 719 00:45:30,392 --> 00:45:32,289 I thought you'd never ask. 720 00:45:32,290 --> 00:45:33,940 I'm definitely my auntie's niece. 721 00:45:33,941 --> 00:45:36,858 I wouldn't have it any other way. 722 00:45:40,381 --> 00:45:42,420 Can you see them? 723 00:45:42,421 --> 00:45:43,921 Negative. 724 00:45:47,848 --> 00:45:50,807 So where did you used to live before coming here? 725 00:45:50,808 --> 00:45:54,225 I was based in Battersea, South London. 726 00:45:55,069 --> 00:45:58,607 It's a very different place from this lovely little village. 727 00:45:58,608 --> 00:46:01,498 Yeah, completely different. 728 00:46:01,499 --> 00:46:03,766 Me and my husband so loved the look of this place 729 00:46:03,767 --> 00:46:07,684 that we decided that when I became pregnant 730 00:46:07,685 --> 00:46:09,908 we would bring our children up here. 731 00:46:09,909 --> 00:46:11,697 Well, that's really sweet. 732 00:46:11,698 --> 00:46:14,967 So, what does your husband do? 733 00:46:14,968 --> 00:46:16,348 He was a journalist. 734 00:46:16,349 --> 00:46:17,349 Amazing man. 735 00:46:19,528 --> 00:46:21,361 And he was so fabulous 736 00:46:23,765 --> 00:46:27,924 that he was even able to run the local church newspaper. 737 00:46:27,925 --> 00:46:31,407 Oh, I didn't realize there's a church paper. 738 00:46:31,408 --> 00:46:33,075 So what's it called? 739 00:46:36,134 --> 00:46:37,494 He died. 740 00:46:37,495 --> 00:46:40,495 Oh, I'm so, so sorry to hear that. 741 00:46:42,175 --> 00:46:44,425 It was such a tough time. 742 00:46:45,426 --> 00:46:47,254 What am I talking about? 743 00:46:47,255 --> 00:46:48,255 It still is. 744 00:46:50,146 --> 00:46:53,563 People from the community even talk about 745 00:46:54,523 --> 00:46:56,273 what a gap he's left. 746 00:47:00,814 --> 00:47:04,231 Do you want to talk about it? 747 00:47:06,523 --> 00:47:08,373 They're too far. 748 00:47:08,374 --> 00:47:11,124 Your mom looks serious. 749 00:47:12,454 --> 00:47:14,991 Well, I know it must have been hard for you. 750 00:47:14,992 --> 00:47:16,575 How can you know? 751 00:47:18,504 --> 00:47:20,087 Believe me, I do. 752 00:47:21,923 --> 00:47:25,756 Eight years ago I lost my wife in a car crash. 753 00:47:28,592 --> 00:47:30,413 I'm so sorry. 754 00:47:30,414 --> 00:47:31,882 It's all right. 755 00:47:31,883 --> 00:47:33,050 It was tragic. 756 00:47:36,454 --> 00:47:41,037 She was one of the guiding lights of my life just gone, 757 00:47:42,443 --> 00:47:43,776 blink of an eye. 758 00:47:46,564 --> 00:47:49,064 Then I found myself on my own. 759 00:47:54,642 --> 00:47:55,642 You know, 760 00:47:57,921 --> 00:48:02,920 what really helped me through the most darkest moments. 761 00:48:02,921 --> 00:48:06,270 A real strong sense of community. 762 00:48:06,271 --> 00:48:09,252 I mean, that's why I so strongly resonate with the church. 763 00:48:09,253 --> 00:48:11,921 I mean, it really does act like a rock. 764 00:48:11,922 --> 00:48:15,572 I mean, when there's no other foundations near. 765 00:48:15,573 --> 00:48:19,070 Well, you know, I can struggle along on my own, 766 00:48:19,071 --> 00:48:20,532 but thank you very much. 767 00:48:20,533 --> 00:48:22,521 Well, look, Destiny, we all can do that, 768 00:48:22,522 --> 00:48:26,051 but it doesn't mean that we have to. 769 00:48:26,052 --> 00:48:29,969 Galatians 6 says, "Bear one another's burdens." 770 00:48:39,171 --> 00:48:40,671 Look, if you ever did wanna speak to somebody 771 00:48:40,672 --> 00:48:44,089 about what it's like to lose a loved one, 772 00:48:45,570 --> 00:48:46,903 I'm always here. 773 00:48:48,462 --> 00:48:52,879 Every Sunday, in fact, I mean, you're always welcome. 774 00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:56,569 How did I know this would turn into a missionary attempt? 775 00:48:56,570 --> 00:48:59,507 No, no, no, no, look, I just wanted you to know 776 00:48:59,508 --> 00:49:02,358 that the door is always open. 777 00:49:02,359 --> 00:49:03,777 Yeah, well, you know, 778 00:49:03,778 --> 00:49:06,636 it's very nice of you to say so, Michael, 779 00:49:06,637 --> 00:49:09,596 because there's not a lot of people that would. 780 00:49:09,597 --> 00:49:13,055 You know, people are there in the beginning. 781 00:49:13,056 --> 00:49:15,905 They make an effort, of course, they do, 782 00:49:15,906 --> 00:49:18,323 but they come around for tea. 783 00:49:20,506 --> 00:49:23,145 They come around to give their condolences. 784 00:49:23,146 --> 00:49:26,535 And then at some point your friends, 785 00:49:26,536 --> 00:49:29,825 they have to get on with their own life. 786 00:49:29,826 --> 00:49:31,985 And, you know, after a while 787 00:49:31,986 --> 00:49:35,319 I just found I was completely on my own, 788 00:49:37,266 --> 00:49:39,516 again, in darkness just me. 789 00:49:41,045 --> 00:49:42,712 It happened to me. 790 00:49:46,495 --> 00:49:50,912 There's probably more of us than you perhaps realize. 791 00:49:54,685 --> 00:49:57,102 It was nice talking to you. 792 00:50:03,677 --> 00:50:05,844 Destiny darling. 793 00:50:08,066 --> 00:50:12,444 By the time you read this, I will no longer be with you, 794 00:50:12,445 --> 00:50:15,278 but in a safe and wonderful place. 795 00:50:18,266 --> 00:50:22,025 I'm not writing to tell you not to cry. 796 00:50:22,026 --> 00:50:24,193 Every life has some tears. 797 00:50:26,043 --> 00:50:31,043 I'm writing this letter because as one of the most kindest, 798 00:50:31,165 --> 00:50:35,023 thoughtful, and selfless people I know, 799 00:50:35,024 --> 00:50:39,107 you have a habit of ignoring what's best for you. 800 00:50:46,834 --> 00:50:48,001 Oh, Michael. 801 00:50:49,193 --> 00:50:52,651 Hey, Destiny, your daughter said that you worked here, 802 00:50:52,652 --> 00:50:55,243 so I thought I'd come and say hi. 803 00:50:55,244 --> 00:50:58,244 Hi, I'm really sorry, I'm closing. 804 00:50:59,421 --> 00:51:00,921 Oh, okay, sorry. 805 00:51:03,193 --> 00:51:07,776 Yeah, I just wanted to say we enjoyed our conversation. 806 00:51:09,244 --> 00:51:12,510 Thank you, yeah, sorry, I just really have to go. 807 00:51:12,511 --> 00:51:13,393 I've got to close. 808 00:51:13,394 --> 00:51:14,621 Okay, no worries. 809 00:51:14,622 --> 00:51:17,461 Okay, sorry, sorry, yeah, bye. 810 00:51:17,462 --> 00:51:20,810 Going through mourning is a tough time, 811 00:51:20,811 --> 00:51:23,278 but for everything there is a season 812 00:51:23,279 --> 00:51:26,850 and a time for every purpose under heaven. 813 00:51:26,851 --> 00:51:31,648 I don't want you to trudge about the house after I'm gone. 814 00:51:31,649 --> 00:51:35,680 The Destiny that I married wouldn't and shouldn't get stuck 815 00:51:35,681 --> 00:51:39,264 in a perpetual state of mourning and grief. 816 00:51:41,331 --> 00:51:44,831 Hey mom, I think it's for you. 817 00:51:47,662 --> 00:51:50,152 Michael, hi. 818 00:51:50,153 --> 00:51:51,820 Yeah, hi, Destiny. 819 00:51:54,090 --> 00:51:55,650 Is this a bad time? 820 00:51:55,651 --> 00:51:57,734 I wasn't expecting you. 821 00:51:58,593 --> 00:52:00,560 I guess you should come in. 822 00:52:00,561 --> 00:52:03,432 We were just about to have dinner. 823 00:52:03,433 --> 00:52:06,552 Gabriel, one of my friends invited Gabriel and I out. 824 00:52:06,553 --> 00:52:08,392 Wait, what? 825 00:52:08,393 --> 00:52:11,370 We should probably go meet them. 826 00:52:11,371 --> 00:52:15,581 Oh, oh, right, yeah, I forgot we had been invited out. 827 00:52:15,582 --> 00:52:16,415 What? 828 00:52:16,415 --> 00:52:17,248 We should get going. 829 00:52:17,248 --> 00:52:18,226 I don't think so. 830 00:52:18,227 --> 00:52:21,254 We were just sitting down we're just about to have dinner. 831 00:52:21,255 --> 00:52:22,886 Oh no, we ate a bit earlier. 832 00:52:22,887 --> 00:52:23,720 Yeah. 833 00:52:23,720 --> 00:52:24,553 We'll be fine. 834 00:52:24,554 --> 00:52:27,261 What's the name of this friend? 835 00:52:27,262 --> 00:52:28,429 - Mary. - Jane. 836 00:52:29,713 --> 00:52:31,091 - Mary Jane. - Yeah. 837 00:52:31,092 --> 00:52:35,341 She's a fairly new friend, you don't know her. 838 00:52:35,342 --> 00:52:36,342 Okay. 839 00:52:39,993 --> 00:52:42,101 Michael, there's plenty of food left for you. 840 00:52:42,102 --> 00:52:46,272 Help yourself and please don't tell mom I asked you over. 841 00:52:46,273 --> 00:52:47,640 What do you mean, she doesn't know I was coming? 842 00:52:47,641 --> 00:52:48,849 Gotta go, have fun. 843 00:52:48,850 --> 00:52:50,433 See ya. 844 00:52:56,572 --> 00:52:59,560 So I suppose you wanna say grace. 845 00:52:59,561 --> 00:53:01,978 Well, it is your house, so, 846 00:53:03,172 --> 00:53:06,302 but I can do if you would like me to. 847 00:53:06,303 --> 00:53:10,862 Well, I must admit it's very kind of you to offer 848 00:53:10,863 --> 00:53:13,592 and I'm glad that something as simple as praying 849 00:53:13,593 --> 00:53:16,093 can bring such comfort to you. 850 00:53:18,852 --> 00:53:22,102 I think praying doesn't help me at all. 851 00:53:23,463 --> 00:53:24,843 Really? 852 00:53:24,844 --> 00:53:26,742 Why do you say that? 853 00:53:26,743 --> 00:53:28,512 Well, just think about it. 854 00:53:28,513 --> 00:53:31,904 God doesn't answer prayers, does he? 855 00:53:31,905 --> 00:53:34,183 And if He did, it wouldn't be called a prayer. 856 00:53:34,184 --> 00:53:36,253 It would be called a correspondence. 857 00:53:36,254 --> 00:53:40,171 Well, look, I don't pray to get my needs met. 858 00:53:41,904 --> 00:53:44,654 I try and fix my problems myself. 859 00:53:45,623 --> 00:53:48,782 I pray when I'm at my lowest moments. 860 00:53:48,783 --> 00:53:51,471 That way I know that God's there. 861 00:53:51,472 --> 00:53:55,772 It's more for my benefit rather than God's benefit. 862 00:53:55,773 --> 00:53:59,606 Hmm, that's fair enough I suppose. 863 00:54:03,472 --> 00:54:05,183 Can I ask you a question? 864 00:54:05,184 --> 00:54:06,601 Yeah. 865 00:54:07,943 --> 00:54:12,142 Why did you shut Christ out of your life? 866 00:54:12,143 --> 00:54:15,202 Well, I didn't shut Him out. 867 00:54:15,203 --> 00:54:18,703 I believe that He shut me out of His life. 868 00:54:22,592 --> 00:54:24,342 Does that make sense? 869 00:54:27,893 --> 00:54:31,142 Why did you give your life to Christ? 870 00:54:31,143 --> 00:54:34,812 It's not that I decided to give my life to Christ. 871 00:54:34,813 --> 00:54:39,722 It's more that I decided to share my life with Christ. 872 00:54:39,723 --> 00:54:42,908 It was when my wife died, actually. 873 00:54:42,909 --> 00:54:47,087 I'd always believed, but just in losing her, 874 00:54:47,088 --> 00:54:50,421 I found in God more than any other thing 875 00:54:52,059 --> 00:54:53,938 is what really kept me going. 876 00:54:53,939 --> 00:54:58,189 And I realized the comfort that I received from Him 877 00:54:59,909 --> 00:55:01,636 I was able to give to other people. 878 00:55:01,637 --> 00:55:04,687 And I couldn't think of a more honorable way 879 00:55:04,688 --> 00:55:06,887 to live my life than that. 880 00:55:06,888 --> 00:55:08,028 Oh, that sounds like 881 00:55:08,029 --> 00:55:11,529 a really honorable way to join the church. 882 00:55:16,339 --> 00:55:19,027 Well, yeah, I had some real positive responses to it 883 00:55:19,028 --> 00:55:22,445 and, you know, met so many lovely people, 884 00:55:23,648 --> 00:55:27,556 people have given me strength, given me encouragement, 885 00:55:27,557 --> 00:55:29,474 and me to them as well. 886 00:55:30,579 --> 00:55:34,167 So did that help you to move on with your grief 887 00:55:34,168 --> 00:55:35,898 to get over things? 888 00:55:35,899 --> 00:55:37,232 All of it did. 889 00:55:38,918 --> 00:55:43,106 He shall wipe away every tear from their eye 890 00:55:43,107 --> 00:55:45,357 and death shall be no more. 891 00:55:46,208 --> 00:55:50,625 Neither shall there be mourning, crying, pain anymore 892 00:55:51,758 --> 00:55:54,617 for the former things have passed away. 893 00:55:54,618 --> 00:55:55,785 Revelations? 894 00:55:57,459 --> 00:55:58,776 You still read your Bible? 895 00:55:58,777 --> 00:56:02,860 No, but I still remember bits and pieces of it. 896 00:56:03,747 --> 00:56:06,338 I remember how much comfort it used to give me. 897 00:56:06,339 --> 00:56:09,672 Yeah, I remember after losing Susanna, 898 00:56:10,827 --> 00:56:13,160 I didn't know where to turn. 899 00:56:14,808 --> 00:56:19,058 Probably about a month or so after I finally heeded 900 00:56:20,599 --> 00:56:24,948 to one of the most repeated messages in the Bible. 901 00:56:24,949 --> 00:56:26,977 What was that? 902 00:56:26,978 --> 00:56:30,645 Fear not, in other words, don't be afraid. 903 00:56:34,638 --> 00:56:38,138 Eight years, it's a long time to be alone, 904 00:56:40,549 --> 00:56:44,966 but with Christ there it just doesn't seem that long. 905 00:56:48,149 --> 00:56:51,047 And He did say to me that He's a friend 906 00:56:51,048 --> 00:56:53,881 that sticks closer than a brother. 907 00:56:58,869 --> 00:57:01,519 So do you have any children? 908 00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:03,520 No, I don't. 909 00:57:05,069 --> 00:57:06,927 I don't have any siblings. 910 00:57:06,928 --> 00:57:09,007 And both of my parents have passed. 911 00:57:09,008 --> 00:57:10,008 I'm sorry. 912 00:57:11,488 --> 00:57:16,359 You know, I've never really felt alone. 913 00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:20,218 They're all still with us really, aren't they? 914 00:57:20,219 --> 00:57:23,386 Yeah, I guess I just, I forgot that. 915 00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:31,298 I closed my ears to it when I was looking after Jamal 916 00:57:31,299 --> 00:57:32,882 in his final weeks. 917 00:57:35,478 --> 00:57:36,508 I can't imagine the stress 918 00:57:36,509 --> 00:57:39,927 that you were under during that time. 919 00:57:39,928 --> 00:57:43,967 It makes sense why you were so worn out by it. 920 00:57:43,968 --> 00:57:46,885 But I don't feel so worn out now. 921 00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:50,823 Not like I was three years ago. 922 00:57:52,259 --> 00:57:56,138 And I'm realizing there was such a lot of people 923 00:57:56,139 --> 00:58:00,158 who were so loving and supportive to me throughout, 924 00:58:00,159 --> 00:58:02,658 and you've helped me. 925 00:58:02,659 --> 00:58:04,992 And it's just that I thought 926 00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:11,037 Jesus wasn't loving and supporting to me. 927 00:58:11,038 --> 00:58:15,121 Destiny, Jesus' spirit works through all of us, 928 00:58:17,549 --> 00:58:20,178 but just through other people. 929 00:58:20,179 --> 00:58:23,588 I mean, I like to call Him the Great Includer. 930 00:58:23,589 --> 00:58:27,327 I mean, you can see Him at work throughout the whole world 931 00:58:27,328 --> 00:58:30,245 with every hand that's reached out, 932 00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:37,263 every comforting shoulder and every welcoming neighbor. 933 00:58:44,379 --> 00:58:49,129 Anyway, talking about welcoming neighbor, shall we eat? 934 00:58:50,499 --> 00:58:53,268 Everything looks delicious. 935 00:58:53,269 --> 00:58:54,269 Grace? 936 00:59:00,628 --> 00:59:02,236 Heavenly Father, 937 00:59:02,237 --> 00:59:07,067 we thank you for this food that we are about to partake of. 938 00:59:07,068 --> 00:59:09,287 We pray that it would do us good. 939 00:59:09,288 --> 00:59:11,467 We also pray a special blessing to the hands 940 00:59:11,468 --> 00:59:13,407 that prepared it. 941 00:59:13,408 --> 00:59:15,158 In Jesus' name, Amen. 942 00:59:21,069 --> 00:59:23,556 If you want to honor my memory best, 943 00:59:23,557 --> 00:59:26,307 please go and start living again. 944 00:59:29,069 --> 00:59:34,068 God has given you a wonderful life on this wonderful earth. 945 00:59:34,069 --> 00:59:38,567 And you should experience His creation to the fullest. 946 00:59:38,568 --> 00:59:41,401 It would be improper not to do so. 947 00:59:42,917 --> 00:59:43,917 I love you. 948 00:59:45,746 --> 00:59:47,829 And don't stop believing. 949 00:59:48,736 --> 00:59:50,986 We'll see each other again. 950 00:59:53,123 --> 00:59:58,123 ♪ I will enter His gates with thanksgiving in my heart ♪ 951 00:59:58,446 --> 01:00:03,446 ♪ I will enter His courts with praise ♪ 952 01:00:04,438 --> 01:00:09,438 ♪ I will say this is the day that the Lord has made ♪ 953 01:00:10,606 --> 01:00:15,606 ♪ I will rejoice for He has made me glad ♪ 954 01:00:17,078 --> 01:00:22,237 ♪ He has made me glad ♪ 955 01:00:22,238 --> 01:00:24,277 This was one of your father's favorite songs. 956 01:00:24,278 --> 01:00:27,528 Yeah, I remember him liking this one. 957 01:00:28,947 --> 01:00:34,616 ♪ He has made me glad ♪ 958 01:00:34,617 --> 01:00:39,617 ♪ I will rejoice for He has made me glad ♪ 959 01:00:40,697 --> 01:00:45,697 ♪ I will rejoice for He has made me glad ♪ 960 01:00:47,758 --> 01:00:49,675 ♪ Amen ♪ 961 01:00:53,057 --> 01:00:55,640 This is amazing, look at you. 962 01:00:58,028 --> 01:00:59,445 Thank you, mom. 963 01:01:01,116 --> 01:01:02,547 Thank you. 964 01:01:02,548 --> 01:01:05,587 Have a good day. 965 01:01:05,588 --> 01:01:07,768 Oh wow, thank you. 966 01:01:07,769 --> 01:01:08,936 Where's your sister? 967 01:01:08,937 --> 01:01:10,208 I don't know. 968 01:01:10,209 --> 01:01:12,328 I can't find her. 969 01:01:12,329 --> 01:01:15,329 Hello, thank you, thank you so much. 970 01:01:33,999 --> 01:01:36,758 Hey, we've been looking all over for you. 971 01:01:36,759 --> 01:01:38,848 Sorry, I just needed some time. 972 01:01:38,849 --> 01:01:39,878 What's wrong? 973 01:01:39,879 --> 01:01:40,817 It's nothing. 974 01:01:40,818 --> 01:01:42,128 Yeah, it never is. 975 01:01:42,129 --> 01:01:43,049 What's that supposed to mean? 976 01:01:43,050 --> 01:01:45,216 That means I know you as a stranger, 977 01:01:45,217 --> 01:01:48,427 that we don't live in the same place. 978 01:01:48,428 --> 01:01:49,915 You know why me. 979 01:01:49,916 --> 01:01:52,046 Everyone's supposed to move out at some point. 980 01:01:52,047 --> 01:01:55,296 Oh, so we all have to abandon family at some point. 981 01:01:55,297 --> 01:01:56,247 I didn't abandon you. 982 01:01:56,248 --> 01:01:58,164 Yes you did, you did. 983 01:02:00,187 --> 01:02:03,354 Dad dies, you run away, mom's a wreck. 984 01:02:05,297 --> 01:02:06,714 So what about me? 985 01:02:07,828 --> 01:02:11,495 I would've loved to have gone to university. 986 01:02:12,468 --> 01:02:14,218 I just needed time. 987 01:02:15,337 --> 01:02:17,254 Time for me to find me. 988 01:02:19,708 --> 01:02:21,625 You and mom are a team. 989 01:02:22,668 --> 01:02:25,168 And me and dad we were a team. 990 01:02:29,756 --> 01:02:31,256 And now he's gone. 991 01:02:35,343 --> 01:02:36,343 Dad's gone. 992 01:02:54,473 --> 01:02:57,056 We will see him again, right? 993 01:03:03,113 --> 01:03:04,446 Yeah, we will. 994 01:03:07,065 --> 01:03:08,065 I miss him. 995 01:03:09,175 --> 01:03:10,175 I miss you. 996 01:03:14,073 --> 01:03:16,032 I don't miss you. 997 01:03:16,033 --> 01:03:17,700 Yes you do. 998 01:03:21,193 --> 01:03:22,276 I love you. 999 01:03:24,713 --> 01:03:27,464 I'll tell you what, when I go back to uni, 1000 01:03:27,465 --> 01:03:29,072 you and mom both come and stay with me. 1001 01:03:29,073 --> 01:03:30,094 I'll show you around. 1002 01:03:30,095 --> 01:03:31,428 I'd like that. 1003 01:03:35,213 --> 01:03:38,570 ♪ As I went down in the river to pray ♪ 1004 01:03:38,571 --> 01:03:39,404 Sis. 1005 01:03:39,405 --> 01:03:40,953 What's going on? 1006 01:03:40,954 --> 01:03:43,492 You said you'd open for me. 1007 01:03:43,493 --> 01:03:47,702 We've got a different idea for you this morning, come on. 1008 01:03:47,703 --> 01:03:49,582 It's a surprise. 1009 01:03:49,583 --> 01:03:50,423 What about the shop? 1010 01:03:50,424 --> 01:03:51,861 Don't worry. 1011 01:03:51,862 --> 01:03:54,550 ♪ Let's go down come on down ♪ 1012 01:03:54,551 --> 01:03:57,580 ♪ O brothers let's go down ♪ 1013 01:03:57,581 --> 01:04:01,182 ♪ Down in the river to pray ♪ 1014 01:04:01,183 --> 01:04:04,740 ♪ As I went down in the river to pray ♪ 1015 01:04:04,741 --> 01:04:06,100 ♪ Studying about that good old way ♪ 1016 01:04:06,101 --> 01:04:09,669 I had an idea this was gonna happen soon. 1017 01:04:09,670 --> 01:04:11,503 She saw that coming. 1018 01:04:12,392 --> 01:04:14,249 ♪ Show me the way ♪ 1019 01:04:14,250 --> 01:04:15,750 We knew this was what you wanted. 1020 01:04:15,751 --> 01:04:17,511 ♪ O brothers let's go down ♪ 1021 01:04:17,512 --> 01:04:20,729 ♪ Let's go down, come on down ♪ 1022 01:04:20,730 --> 01:04:23,889 ♪ O brothers let's go down ♪ 1023 01:04:23,890 --> 01:04:27,916 ♪ Down in the river to pray ♪ 1024 01:04:27,917 --> 01:04:31,159 ♪ As I went down in the river to pray ♪ 1025 01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:34,150 ♪ Studying about that good old way ♪ 1026 01:04:34,151 --> 01:04:37,340 ♪ And who shall wear the robe and crown ♪ 1027 01:04:37,341 --> 01:04:39,991 We thought this would be a good idea for you, mom. 1028 01:04:39,992 --> 01:04:43,659 The final step for finding your faith again. 1029 01:04:44,573 --> 01:04:47,282 And you were all in on this? 1030 01:04:47,283 --> 01:04:50,181 ♪ O mothers let's go down ♪ 1031 01:04:50,182 --> 01:04:51,943 ♪ Down in the river to pray ♪ 1032 01:04:51,944 --> 01:04:54,343 Okay, let's do this. 1033 01:04:54,344 --> 01:04:55,623 ♪ As I went down in the river to pray ♪ 1034 01:04:55,624 --> 01:04:59,457 Destiny, do you accept the Lord Jesus Christ 1035 01:05:00,805 --> 01:05:03,284 as your Lord and Savior 1036 01:05:03,285 --> 01:05:07,103 acknowledging His sacrifices for your sin? 1037 01:05:07,104 --> 01:05:09,135 ♪ O fathers let's go down ♪ 1038 01:05:09,136 --> 01:05:11,219 I do, with all my heart 1039 01:05:15,245 --> 01:05:16,844 and all my soul. 1040 01:05:16,845 --> 01:05:18,863 ♪ Down in the river to pray ♪ 1041 01:05:18,864 --> 01:05:23,531 By the authority vested in me I now reaffirm 1042 01:05:25,216 --> 01:05:26,554 your commitment to Him. 1043 01:05:26,555 --> 01:05:30,143 In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. 1044 01:05:30,144 --> 01:05:33,612 ♪ Good Lord show me the way ♪ 1045 01:05:34,445 --> 01:05:36,531 ♪ O brothers let's go down ♪ 1046 01:05:36,532 --> 01:05:39,900 ♪ Let's go down come on down ♪ 1047 01:05:39,901 --> 01:05:42,980 ♪ O brothers let's go down ♪ 1048 01:05:42,981 --> 01:05:46,648 ♪ Down in the river to pray ♪ 1049 01:06:02,612 --> 01:06:03,445 Hi. 1050 01:06:03,445 --> 01:06:04,421 Hey, how you doing? 1051 01:06:04,422 --> 01:06:05,492 I'm good, how are you? 1052 01:06:05,493 --> 01:06:06,910 Good. 1053 01:06:08,032 --> 01:06:11,151 So how are you feeling after your rededication? 1054 01:06:11,152 --> 01:06:12,319 I feel good. 1055 01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:17,012 I think it was the right thing to do. 1056 01:06:17,013 --> 01:06:19,263 I keep thinking about Jamal 1057 01:06:20,413 --> 01:06:24,343 and when he was baptized and he gave his life. 1058 01:06:24,344 --> 01:06:26,364 So you're following in his footsteps. 1059 01:06:26,365 --> 01:06:27,198 Yeah. 1060 01:06:27,199 --> 01:06:28,463 So to speak. 1061 01:06:28,464 --> 01:06:33,215 It really brought the family together. 1062 01:06:33,216 --> 01:06:35,255 Well, that's kind of 1063 01:06:35,256 --> 01:06:37,924 what I wanted to speak to you about. 1064 01:06:37,925 --> 01:06:39,952 What do you mean? 1065 01:06:39,953 --> 01:06:42,783 Well, you know how you've said you've felt like 1066 01:06:42,784 --> 01:06:45,724 you've had a hole in your life since he's been gone. 1067 01:06:45,725 --> 01:06:46,696 Uh-hmm. 1068 01:06:46,697 --> 01:06:49,604 And me too, I mean, I've had a piece missing in my life 1069 01:06:49,605 --> 01:06:51,355 since losing Susanna. 1070 01:06:53,504 --> 01:06:55,232 Meeting you, Destiny, 1071 01:06:55,233 --> 01:06:58,816 it's the first time in the last eight years 1072 01:06:59,795 --> 01:07:02,212 that I felt this void filled. 1073 01:07:07,045 --> 01:07:09,975 Do you wanna come outside? 1074 01:07:09,976 --> 01:07:12,059 Let me just finish off. 1075 01:07:16,427 --> 01:07:19,506 You know, I feel exactly the same way. 1076 01:07:19,507 --> 01:07:24,506 Like, I wish that things could be like this forever. 1077 01:07:24,507 --> 01:07:29,098 Well, with your permission, I'm hoping that they can. 1078 01:07:31,164 --> 01:07:32,331 Look, Destiny, 1079 01:07:33,273 --> 01:07:37,356 I loved seeing your journey to your rededication. 1080 01:07:39,324 --> 01:07:42,402 It's filled me with so much strength, 1081 01:07:42,403 --> 01:07:46,070 and just renewed confidence in God's ability 1082 01:07:47,164 --> 01:07:50,963 to make positive changes not just for our lives, 1083 01:07:50,964 --> 01:07:53,361 but for our future. 1084 01:07:53,362 --> 01:07:55,864 Are you serious, Michael? 1085 01:07:55,865 --> 01:07:59,774 I'm more than serious, I'm genuine. 1086 01:07:59,775 --> 01:08:03,273 I fell for you the moment you walked through our church yard 1087 01:08:03,274 --> 01:08:07,357 and I would devote every waking moment of my life 1088 01:08:09,952 --> 01:08:11,119 to loving you, 1089 01:08:13,053 --> 01:08:14,553 to protecting you, 1090 01:08:15,893 --> 01:08:20,893 and just making sure that you would never suffer again ever. 1091 01:08:25,541 --> 01:08:27,580 Michael, I thought the exact same way, 1092 01:08:27,581 --> 01:08:31,791 but I just don't think I can give you an answer 1093 01:08:31,792 --> 01:08:32,959 not right now. 1094 01:08:35,712 --> 01:08:38,795 Look, I love and I have faith in you, 1095 01:08:40,621 --> 01:08:42,049 and I love and I have faith in God, 1096 01:08:42,050 --> 01:08:44,883 but this is happening just so fast 1097 01:08:45,930 --> 01:08:48,597 and I feel like I need a moment. 1098 01:09:42,332 --> 01:09:43,332 Oh Jamal. 1099 01:09:54,163 --> 01:09:57,663 Dear Lord, sorry, you took me by surprise. 1100 01:09:58,683 --> 01:10:01,910 I've been told that before. 1101 01:10:01,911 --> 01:10:02,911 Sorry. 1102 01:10:07,523 --> 01:10:10,106 Such a nice place for a rest. 1103 01:10:11,963 --> 01:10:14,296 This is our favorite spot. 1104 01:10:23,144 --> 01:10:24,144 No, wait. 1105 01:10:27,475 --> 01:10:29,058 Is everything okay? 1106 01:10:34,852 --> 01:10:37,435 Everything's fine, thank you. 1107 01:10:42,624 --> 01:10:47,374 I've just had a proposal from someone I'm so crazy about. 1108 01:10:48,384 --> 01:10:52,023 Wow, that doesn't sound too bad, does it? 1109 01:10:52,024 --> 01:10:54,994 I've had my fair share of husband problems. 1110 01:10:54,995 --> 01:10:57,103 Really? 1111 01:10:57,104 --> 01:11:01,874 And what does your husband think of this situation then? 1112 01:11:01,875 --> 01:11:03,292 He passed away. 1113 01:11:06,774 --> 01:11:08,357 I see. 1114 01:11:10,414 --> 01:11:12,581 I never thought I would, 1115 01:11:15,372 --> 01:11:17,789 or could open my heart again. 1116 01:11:20,963 --> 01:11:23,796 It was just so painful losing him. 1117 01:11:27,292 --> 01:11:30,792 I know exactly what you mean. 1118 01:11:34,252 --> 01:11:38,002 I myself lost someone I cared for very deeply 1119 01:11:40,174 --> 01:11:41,507 a few years ago. 1120 01:11:45,505 --> 01:11:47,338 It takes time to heal. 1121 01:11:49,972 --> 01:11:53,639 And I have a feeling I might see them again. 1122 01:12:00,143 --> 01:12:03,060 I think it made me lose my faith, 1123 01:12:05,084 --> 01:12:08,834 but I feel like I'm more on solid ground now, 1124 01:12:11,033 --> 01:12:12,950 but it's still so hard. 1125 01:12:20,661 --> 01:12:23,411 Faith is like a glass of water. 1126 01:12:27,263 --> 01:12:31,382 When you're younger the glass is little, 1127 01:12:31,383 --> 01:12:34,300 so it's more empty, easier to fill, 1128 01:12:39,671 --> 01:12:43,338 but as you get older, the glass gets bigger. 1129 01:12:46,461 --> 01:12:51,128 The same amount of liquid will no longer fill the glass. 1130 01:12:52,164 --> 01:12:54,581 The glass has to be refilled. 1131 01:12:58,204 --> 01:13:01,803 Why does that sound so familiar? 1132 01:13:01,804 --> 01:13:03,451 You watch too many movies. 1133 01:13:03,452 --> 01:13:05,709 That's not me, that's my son and my brother. 1134 01:13:05,710 --> 01:13:06,543 Uh-hmm. 1135 01:13:06,544 --> 01:13:08,550 Thank you very much. 1136 01:13:08,551 --> 01:13:10,801 The message still stands. 1137 01:13:19,391 --> 01:13:23,361 I know how much you suffered, Destiny. 1138 01:13:23,362 --> 01:13:26,731 Faith can be a trying thing, can't it? 1139 01:13:26,732 --> 01:13:27,732 I know. 1140 01:13:29,732 --> 01:13:32,232 You can feel so alone at times 1141 01:13:34,812 --> 01:13:37,645 like there's no one there for you. 1142 01:13:41,041 --> 01:13:43,541 Your family are there for you. 1143 01:13:47,200 --> 01:13:49,470 Do you remember that? 1144 01:13:49,471 --> 01:13:51,304 When things get tough, 1145 01:13:52,681 --> 01:13:57,514 they'll never leave you just like you'll never leave them. 1146 01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:15,572 Wait, how did you know my name? 1147 01:14:48,549 --> 01:14:52,716 Hi, I think I may have forgot my keys. 1148 01:14:57,109 --> 01:14:59,797 Michael, I'm so sorry. 1149 01:14:59,798 --> 01:15:02,599 There's nothing to apologize for. 1150 01:15:02,600 --> 01:15:03,581 Running off like that 1151 01:15:03,582 --> 01:15:08,498 when you were expecting a response from me, it wasn't fair. 1152 01:15:11,078 --> 01:15:12,468 I would never wish myself on you 1153 01:15:12,469 --> 01:15:15,529 if you felt marrying me wasn't right for you. 1154 01:15:15,530 --> 01:15:19,117 I could never turn down someone who has helped me 1155 01:15:19,118 --> 01:15:23,868 to completely turn my life around in the last few months. 1156 01:15:26,120 --> 01:15:28,068 You mean that? 1157 01:15:28,069 --> 01:15:29,069 Yes. 1158 01:15:31,520 --> 01:15:36,449 Whenever you're near me, you take away my unhappiness. 1159 01:15:36,450 --> 01:15:39,783 You've helped me to find my faith again. 1160 01:15:41,621 --> 01:15:44,809 I didn't realize I was so lost. 1161 01:15:44,810 --> 01:15:46,348 It's the grace of God. 1162 01:15:46,349 --> 01:15:48,588 I feel like I'm standing on firmer ground, 1163 01:15:48,589 --> 01:15:51,922 and you've helped me to understand that. 1164 01:15:53,770 --> 01:15:55,717 Through the power of Christ, 1165 01:15:55,718 --> 01:16:00,051 I can take that firmer ground with me wherever I go. 1166 01:16:02,501 --> 01:16:04,418 I'm not afraid anymore. 1167 01:16:07,301 --> 01:16:11,968 If you let me trust God with you every step of the way 1168 01:16:14,650 --> 01:16:17,729 I would consider it the honor of my life 1169 01:16:17,730 --> 01:16:19,717 to make you my wife and I would love you. 1170 01:16:19,718 --> 01:16:22,669 Yes, Michael, I will be your wife. 1171 01:17:29,494 --> 01:17:32,944 I guess I won't knock your ideas in the future. 1172 01:17:32,945 --> 01:17:36,445 I do love it when a plan comes together. 1173 01:17:41,636 --> 01:17:44,254 Do you, Michael Johnson, 1174 01:17:44,255 --> 01:17:47,865 take this woman to be your lawfully wedded wife? 1175 01:17:47,866 --> 01:17:49,366 I definitely do. 1176 01:17:50,706 --> 01:17:54,041 And do you Destiny Jackson Brown, 1177 01:17:54,042 --> 01:17:57,260 take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband? 1178 01:17:57,261 --> 01:17:58,261 I do. 1179 01:18:20,938 --> 01:18:23,977 I now pronounce you man and wife. 1180 01:18:23,978 --> 01:18:26,228 You may now kiss the bride. 85251

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