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- [Narrator] 91 million of us worldwide
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search for love online.
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- She was looking for love.
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- She wanted someone that
would give her the freedom
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to be herself.
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- He looked like a normal nice guy.
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- [Narrator] But internet
dating can be a dangerous game.
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- [Reporter] The mother of two small boys
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reported missing early Sunday morning.
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- [Narrator] In the UK alone, crime linked
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to online dating has risen
450% over five years.
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- This is a predator's paradise.
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- It's a dark side of the web
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that people don't realize exist.
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- [Narrator] These are
the real life love stories
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that ended in tragedy.
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- Each day she was living in fear.
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- I knew that he was no angel
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but he really had me tricked.
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- [Narrator] So how well do
you really know the person
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you're dating?
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- She didn't stand a
chance against that monster
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of a man.
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- Cardiff is a pretty small city.
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Even though we're the capital of Wales
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we're still pretty small
compared to everywhere else.
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- Cardiff is constantly changing,
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a really dynamic place,
very friendly place,
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very much a multi-cultural society.
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- Cardiff isn't a huge city
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and it does tend have that
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everybody knows everyone sense to it.
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So if there is a murder or
certainly a violent crime
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or attack than people are
incredibly focused on it.
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- [Michelle] Hello Michelle speaking.
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- [Caller] Michelle, there's
a woman dead in the room 203.
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- [Michelle] There's a body in the room?
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Okay can you tell me anything about that?
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- [Caller] Well, the girl 28 years,
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a Muslim girl, we was
together there in hotel
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and she kill herself.
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- I've known Nadine since I was 17, 18.
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She was a good human being,
she had a good soul as well.
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She was kind, warm, loving.
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If you were around her
she'll make you feel so good
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about yourself.
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- Nadine was very popular,
very popular with everyone.
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She had this immense love for life, huge,
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it was beyond the average person,
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she was so happy, so content.
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- Nadine was 12 years older than me
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but we still had a really
great relationship.
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She was just always
there when I needed her.
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- She knew what she wanted in life
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and she knew what she had
to do in order to get it.
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She's very intelligent, an educated woman.
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- [Narrator] At 28,
Nadine Aburas had lived
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in Cardiff most of her life
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and hoped to pursue a career
in architecture and design.
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- Nadine had a various
interest in arts, architecture
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and she loved to draw.
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- Even though she only used charcoal
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you can still sort of
distinguish all of the leaves
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and the shadows and everything.
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- It's just right.
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- I love it, I do.
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She attracted a lot of attention,
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I mean, she was really beautiful
and confident and funny
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so of course who wouldn't
be attracted to that.
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I don't think Nadine wanted
to stay in Cardiff forever,
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I think that she did want to
be and live somewhere else,
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somewhere that she could
really make a living
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with her artwork and
achieve what she wanted to,
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not confined by a small city.
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Nadine did have her independence
so she did live alone.
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- Nadine, I think had many disappointments
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in finding the right one for her,
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the one that shared her love of life
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and obviously she wanted someone
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that would give her the
freedom to be herself,
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to be able to pursue a
career or an interest
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and compliment her in this way.
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- She was 21 when she first got married
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but he wasn't the right person for her
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and it wasn't a healthy
relationship so she ended it.
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I think Nadine had been
single for quite awhile,
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she made it very clear that
she could make it on her own
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but she did want that companionship
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and she did want someone to rely on,
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so for her, yeah, she did definitely
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want to explore new things.
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- I really didn't want
Nadine to feel so limited
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to a choice in the area we lived in.
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I said don't worry there's
someone out there for everyone.
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There's the internet, technology
has gone on since my day.
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Basically, Nadine said,
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oh I don't to see really
going on dating sites, mama,
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you don't know what's gonna happen.
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I said, oh well I'll
do it and I sat her up.
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And I said let's just see.
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- Nadine wasn't overly optimistic
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but she was willing to anything.
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- To be honest when we
sat down, Nadine and I
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I felt like I was a chaperone (laughs)
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and I took over, I was getting excited,
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he looks nice, what about
connecting with this one
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and she kinda said, Mom,
you're scaring me. (laughs)
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- Nadine was really open
about who she met online.
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She'd even show us her
profile and the messages
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that she would get.
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She received a lot of attention.
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- And this is how it developed,
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and this is where she met Almhari.
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- Online dating opens up a
huge range of opportunities
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for dating people in different countries
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on the other side of the world.
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So for somebody like Nadine
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who lived in a relatively small city,
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this may have been quite
a glamorous opportunity
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or at the least something to take away
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from the day to day life
that she was living.
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- [Narrator] In 2012, Nadine
met 45 year old New Yorker,
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Sammy Almhari on a Muslim dating website.
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- When I first came across
Almhari's profile page,
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he did seem quite a lot of like Nadine,
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he seems like somebody
who was quite assertive
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but also his messages
were really charismatic
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and very witty and funny.
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I just said well, this guy
seems really interesting
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because he lives in America
and he has a stable job,
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he seems very responsible
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and that's exactly how he came across.
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She wanted someone who
wasn't exactly like her
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who lived in the same
city and the same town
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and the same culture and for
her he was something different.
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- When I seen his profile
he seemed to be a fine guy
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who projected himself
forward as a professional.
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He gave himself confidence.
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Nadine thought that
there is a possible here.
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- [Narrator] The pair hit it off
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and their trans-Atlantic
relationship developed quickly.
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They began to talk for hours
throughout the day and night.
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- I did think that it was quite unusual,
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the intensity of it
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but at the same time I thought
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well it is a blind dating service
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and it is difficult to talk
to somebody so far away.
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- [Narrator] Sammy Almhari said
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he was a successful businessman.
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Soon he was showering Nadine
with gifts of laptops, phones
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and offers of financial support.
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- I think to him, I think he
mentioned that he had family
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that were quite wealthy
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and that money was of no object to him.
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He'd Skype her from his home
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and he'd show her around this house,
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everything was just so perfect.
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year of online dating,
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their relationship became very serious.
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There was even talk of marriage.
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In 2013, Sammy came to
the UK to visit Nadine.
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Although he made two to three short visits
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over the next year,
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their relationship remained mainly online.
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- He had said, Nadine we
are going to be man and wife
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and I am going to support you
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and I am going to sponsor
you while you're in college.
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- He would say I really want
to help fund your education.
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You really do have a lot of talent
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and you need to nurture that.
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And for Nadine no guy had ever helped her
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accomplish her ambitions
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so for her this was
something that was heading
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in a good direction.
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She did say Aneese, I don't think
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that I should take money off him
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or I don't feel like I
should take anything off him
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because that's his but I'd say well
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if he's going to be your husband
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then just get used to it, you deserve that
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why shouldn't he be able
to give that to you?
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- And with this, Nadine was so
sure they were going to have
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such a fantastic life
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because the promises just kept stacking up
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and they were immense.
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- The gifts that Nadine
received from Sammy
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could have been a way of
him trying to control her.
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He may have been trying to
make her feel indebted to him
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in some way such that she felt
like she had to have contact
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with him and had to be
friendly towards him
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even when there may have been
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some warning signs of risk there.
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- And then it intensified more,
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she was getting up almost every single day
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at like crazy hours of the night
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to pick up his phone calls.
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We started to think that maybe something
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was going on with this guy
that wasn't entirely right.
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- [Answering Machine]
You have 45 old messages.
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- [Sammy] Pick up, pick up, I love you.
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(beeping)
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Hello, are you there?
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Hello, hello?
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(beeping)
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Pick up the phone.
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You want money, you want
a car, I will do anything.
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Hello, I love you, hello?
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- Some of these constant
phone calls to Nadine
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during the night could have
been a sign of affection,
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he may have been showing
how much he cared about her
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and liked her, however, it could also
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be a bit of a warning sign
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that he'd become obsessed with her
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and his frequent contact with her
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was an attempt to control her.
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- [Narrator] In July 2014,
Sammy paid for tickets
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for Nadine to visit him
in the United States.
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It would be her first trip to New York.
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- She was happy, she was like anyone would
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when they go on holiday,
I just said to her
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I hope you have fun.
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- Nadine really wanted to visit New York.
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- The excitement of traveling to New York
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kind of give her that well,
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what's the worst that could happen?
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She went there, she didn't
like him, she came home end of.
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- [Narrator] But New York was to have
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horrifying consequences for Nadine.
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She would to see a totally different side
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to Sammy Almhari.
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- After arriving in New York
and she had promptly said that,
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oh I'm coming back home.
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She'd been in an altercation with him
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and I think he punched her
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and she'd sent over a few pictures
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and in one of the pictures
she'd had a bruised lip.
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- Black eyes, battered and bruised torso
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that shocked all of us too
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and she still tried,
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she still tried to keep herself together.
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- When she came back from New York
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she didn't want anything to do with him,
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she said no, you know what that's it,
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this is as far as I go.
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- [Narrator] It wasn't just physical abuse
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that Almhari had inflicted
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he was also in possession
of some very compromising
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and embarrassing photos of Nadine.
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- He had filmed her and photographed her
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and he was now blackmailing her.
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You leave me and I will post
everything that I have on you
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on the internet.
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- I'll post these all over Facebook,
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I'll send them to your brother,
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I'll send them to your friends
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and everyone will see what you are
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and Nadine was scared.
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- [Narrator] One of Nadine's brothers
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saw the pictures that Almhari
had been threatening her with.
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- She said to me Mom, I'm
gonna have to leave Cardiff,
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I'm gonna have to leave my life,
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I'm gonna have to change my name.
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What can we do, where are we gonna go?
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- Sammuel Almhari turns to
blackmail, online blackmail,
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revenge pornography, he's got these images
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while he's losing her,
the only way he now knows
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he can control her from now on
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is by blackmailing her with the images
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that he's got of Nadine's
and say you are mine.
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I possess you.
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(dramatic music)
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- [Narrator] Nadine was
desperate to find a way
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to stop the blackmail.
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- She said I know now, he's a liar,
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he's an abusive psychopath, he's crazy
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and I'll never be free of him
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if I don't take back control of my life
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and everything he wants
to blackmail me with.
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And this was the plan
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and I remember the
conversation quite well,
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the plan is invite him over here,
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show him I'm not afraid of him,
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that he's now on my soil, in my family
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and that what he did was unacceptable
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and I need him to acknowledge
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that he destroyed everything
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that could have been between us.
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And I thought that's a
good plan, it's great.
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- [Narrator] It had
been nearly three years
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since Nadine and Almhari first met online.
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(dramatic music)
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- Nadine had arranged that
she would go to London
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to pick him up.
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She wanted basically the pictures back
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and she wanted to regain
that control in her life.
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No, no, it's fine I'll be
back don't worry Aneesa
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I'll be back and she sort of sped off.
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(dramatic music)
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- On New Year's Eve 2014,
it was a very busy time
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for South Wales police as a force.
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- [Narrator] Detective
Chief Inspector Morgan
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was the senior investigating
officer on the case.
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- At 20 past 12 that day the
call came from the Future Inn
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that the manager there had
found a deceased female
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within room 203 of the hotel.
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It was reported there
may have been a suicide.
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It was laid out as a typical hotel room,
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the bathroom to the left, a bed, a sofa
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and laying on the bare
mattress on that bed,
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and dressed and almost
with her hands laid out
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was Nadine Aburas.
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There was a pretty crude hand-written note
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to the side of the bed
reported to have been written
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by Nadine and the last
words were along the lines
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of my love Sammy, I'm
sorry we've come to an end.
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- [Narrator] Almost
immediately the suicide note
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seemed suspicious.
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- I think the initial observations
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there was marks around the neck,
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clothing didn't quite sit right.
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It was then about 3:15 p.m.
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the Major Crime Investigation
team were called
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because there were real suspicions
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that this was homicide.
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- [Narrator] In the hours after
Nadine's body was discovered
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her mother and sister were
becoming increasingly worried.
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(beeping)
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- [Aneesa] Hey Nads,
it's Aneesa wake up, bye!
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(beeping)
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- [Andrea] Please call
home, I'm really worried,
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I hope you're okay.
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- So from two in the afternoon
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till I think it was 10 at night
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we hadn't had any communication.
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And then all of a sudden
the detectives walked in
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with one of my eldest brothers
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and they said we think
that you should sit down
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we have something to tell you
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and just immediately we knew
that something had happened.
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- I shut down and I
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and then they said you
have to sit down because
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and I said oh my God
just take me to Nadine
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let me just see Nadine and
everything will be fine,
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I just want to see
Nadine, I don't want to,
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please take me.
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I remember trying to beg
them take me to see Nad,
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I don't care.
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- I just sort of dropped to the floor
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because I just couldn't believe it.
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And my mom immediately it
was him, it was Almhari
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and I said Mom we don't know that
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and she said yeah we do.
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(dramatic music)
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- Andrea Aburas's worst fears
were about to be confirmed
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by the hotel's CCTV.
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- There was no one else involved.
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They were the only two people
who had gone into that room.
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And Sammy Almhari was the
only person to come out.
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(dramatic music)
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- [Narrator] Detectives
had a prime suspect.
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They started digging deeper
into Almhari's background
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in the U.S.
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- Well you're always looking for motive
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and the reason, what was the trigger,
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what set Sammy Almhari off that night.
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By that time we'd had
information his address
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from New York City Police Department.
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It was apparent he wasn't a
multimillionaire businessman.
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He actually drove limousines,
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worked in the grocers, he didn't
live an affluent lifestyle.
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- With Samuel Almhari
for want of a better word
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he came across as a Walter Mitty.
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He was leading a
different life in his head
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with from what was reality.
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He was living not in the
most salubrious of places
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in New York but his online
profile was well, well
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he was really rich, he
was very engaging person,
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well actually he was a
manipulator and he was a bully.
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- Sammy Almhari created an
online persona to impress.
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He's lied about certain
aspects of his life,
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about the wealthy house
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but he's done enough to be
able to match with someone
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who's 28 years of age like Nadine
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and from then he can
automatically take control.
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(dramatic music)
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- [Narrator] Further proof
of Almhari's instability
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came to light in the hours
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after Nadine's body was discovered.
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Almhari called the hotel
a total of four times.
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The conversations were
recorded by a police officer.
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- [Samuel] Did you find her body?
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Nadine she's a nice woman who's dead,
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she's a very nice woman, she
give me pleasure in my life.
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- [Police Officer] Obviously
we want to sort out
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what's happened to her, don't we?
406
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- [Samuel] She's already dead.
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Listen to me, you check
the body in the room,
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I love her so much you know?
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(beeping)
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- Almhari's behavior after the murder
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where by he makes several phone calls
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can only really be described
as erotic behavior.
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He may have been panicking,
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he may have not known what was happening
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or he could have got some
entertainment from that
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but it could also suggest
someone who is so unstable
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that they don't really
know what to do next.
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- [Narrator] Detectives had to
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piece together Nadine's
last known movements.
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Detective Constable Darren Millard
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was the key role investigator on the case.
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- In every inquiry, one of
the main witnesses is CCTV.
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It's not a human witness but
it gives the officers in charge
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of the case a timeline.
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It allows us to follow
suspects or witnesses
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on workouts what happens
and what order what happened
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and what time.
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- [Narrator] CCTV showed
Nadine and Almhari
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arriving at her home on
the 28th of December 2014.
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(dramatic music)
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Two days later on the 30th of December
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one of Nadine's brothers is
seen arriving at her flat.
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- My brother was the same brother who had
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opened her phone and seen
the picture of Nadine
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that Almhari had sent
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so he'd obviously walked into her flat
437
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,520
and found that Almhari was there
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and then there must have
been some altercation.
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- [Narrator] A fight allegedly broke out
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between Almhari and Nadine's brother.
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00:22:55,658 --> 00:22:58,408
(dramatic music)
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00:22:59,247 --> 00:23:02,397
Just over 30 minutes later Almhari
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was escorted from Nadine's
flat by her elder brother
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00:23:06,230 --> 00:23:08,230
who had arrived after the alleged fight.
445
00:23:11,412 --> 00:23:13,920
- And then he said to him leave Cardiff,
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00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,754
don't come back because
should you come back
447
00:23:16,754 --> 00:23:18,960
I fear for what's gonna happen to you
448
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because I'm Nadine's brother
and I will not have her harmed
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by any man while I'm alive.
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- [Narrator] CCTV footage
showed him being driven
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to the Cardiff Central Rail Station.
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00:23:32,532 --> 00:23:35,282
(dramatic music)
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Nadine's brother left him there.
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- My eldest brother had
said that he'd taken Almhari
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to the train station,
told him to get on a train
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and leave and so we'd all assumed
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that Almhari was
hopefully back in New York
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by the next morning.
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- [Narrator] But that wasn't the case.
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Almhari entered a convenient store
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at the front of the station.
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It was here he discovered
that during the altercation
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with Nadine's brother he had left
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some crucial belongings behind.
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- [Darren] He was minus his
passport he was minus his phone,
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he made a decision to
purchase a bottle of gin.
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- [Narrator] Almhari
left the train station.
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- Almhari being escorted
to the train station
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by Nadine's family could
have represented to him
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a great rejection or humiliation.
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His anger may have
grown at Nadine for this
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pushing responsibility away
from him for his own actions
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onto other people.
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- [Darren] He then made
a decision to get a taxi
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back down to the Cardiff area.
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- [Narrator] He booked into a local hotel
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at around 8:30 just a few hundred meters
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from Nadine's flat.
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After checking in, he headed to the bar
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and downed nine tequila
shots, one after another.
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- Of course the CCTV there
shows him going to the bar
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drinking the nine tequilas,
it shows him on the telephone
483
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and we know the telephone call
he made was to Nadine Aburas
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asking for her to bring
his passport and phone
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to the hotel.
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- [Narrator] Nadine arrived
at the hotel at 10 past nine.
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00:25:28,956 --> 00:25:31,706
(dramatic music)
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- Ultimately Nadine was
trying to return the passport
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could in my view had
been a way of her trying
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to solve the problem.
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She was taking responsibility
for what was going on
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in her life.
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- [Narrator] Around 40 minutes later
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the pair left room 203.
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(dramatic music)
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They drove to nearby City Road
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and went to a local
restaurant called Lilo's.
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- They managed to get a table in Lilo's
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and she'd went there and
I thought smart girl,
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she went to Lilo's because
she'd waitressed there
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she was familiar with everyone in there.
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00:26:29,380 --> 00:26:33,310
- [Garreth] They ordered food,
Sammy became very aggressive,
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he was appeared to be intoxicated, drunk
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from witness testimony.
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And he stayed about 20 no longer,
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long enough to finish their meal
507
00:26:42,490 --> 00:26:43,440
and then they left.
508
00:26:45,355 --> 00:26:46,760
(dramatic music)
509
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,340
- [Narrator] At around
11, Nadine and Almhari
510
00:26:49,340 --> 00:26:51,708
arrived back at the hotel.
511
00:26:51,708 --> 00:26:54,458
(dramatic music)
512
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,920
- [Garrett] I believe
they went to Sammy's room
513
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,730
and unfortunately that's
the last time Nadine
514
00:27:09,730 --> 00:27:10,703
is seen alive.
515
00:27:16,530 --> 00:27:19,660
- [Narrator] Between
11:15 and midnight Nadine
516
00:27:19,660 --> 00:27:21,023
was strangled to death.
517
00:27:26,032 --> 00:27:28,782
(dramatic music)
518
00:27:32,510 --> 00:27:35,200
- Just after midnight, Sammy comes down
519
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:39,403
and we got CCTV going to
a casino near the hotel.
520
00:27:42,340 --> 00:27:44,420
- [Narrator] At the casino
Almhari withdrew money
521
00:27:44,420 --> 00:27:45,463
from the cash point.
522
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:48,447
- [Garrett] And again the CCTV even there
523
00:27:48,447 --> 00:27:50,890
it shows injuries on his face,
524
00:27:50,890 --> 00:27:52,160
it shows him going to the bar,
525
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,053
it shows him drinking more tequilas.
526
00:27:54,930 --> 00:27:56,894
- Looking at the CCTV you could see
527
00:27:56,894 --> 00:27:59,383
that he was constantly drinking.
528
00:28:05,790 --> 00:28:07,920
- Clearly he had a problem with alcohol
529
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,440
in this instance he's murdered Nadine
530
00:28:11,612 --> 00:28:13,140
under the influence of alcohol.
531
00:28:14,570 --> 00:28:16,970
- [Narrator] In a few short hours, Almhari
532
00:28:16,970 --> 00:28:21,043
had bought 11 tequila shots,
two beers and a bottle of gin.
533
00:28:25,260 --> 00:28:28,004
Despite being well over
the drink drive limit,
534
00:28:28,004 --> 00:28:31,690
he stole Nadine's car and
headed for the motorway.
535
00:28:31,690 --> 00:28:33,850
- So the timeline was very detailed
536
00:28:33,850 --> 00:28:36,630
and a jigsaw was coming together.
537
00:28:36,630 --> 00:28:38,538
We know that he got in Nadine's vehicle
538
00:28:38,538 --> 00:28:42,793
he headed towards the
M4 and then driven east.
539
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,793
- [Narrator] Sammy Almhari
was now on the run.
540
00:28:53,719 --> 00:28:56,560
- It quite was clear that
someone had been murdered,
541
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,130
the details surrounding
the death weren't clear
542
00:28:59,130 --> 00:29:01,685
in terms of a how Nadine died
543
00:29:01,685 --> 00:29:04,534
but all we knew was that
the killer was at large
544
00:29:04,534 --> 00:29:07,159
but also other information
started to come out as well
545
00:29:07,159 --> 00:29:12,159
from people around the hotel
that there was an individual
546
00:29:12,650 --> 00:29:17,650
with an American accent and
that they weren't there anymore
547
00:29:17,702 --> 00:29:21,053
but they were one of the
last people seen with Nadine.
548
00:29:21,053 --> 00:29:23,803
(dramatic music)
549
00:29:26,908 --> 00:29:28,730
- [Narrator] On New Year's Day, detectives
550
00:29:28,730 --> 00:29:31,230
searched Nadine's flat for clues.
551
00:29:31,230 --> 00:29:33,710
- And there we had a significant find.
552
00:29:33,710 --> 00:29:37,200
Under one of the chairs was
Samuel Almhari's mobile phone,
553
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,300
which obviously fallen
out during the stew event
554
00:29:39,300 --> 00:29:43,053
and that phone had a wealth of evidence
555
00:29:43,053 --> 00:29:45,421
for the investigation.
556
00:29:45,421 --> 00:29:49,250
There were a lot of messages
a boost of messages to Nadine.
557
00:29:49,250 --> 00:29:51,440
We could see how acrimonious he was.
558
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:52,990
We could see that there was a pattern
559
00:29:52,990 --> 00:29:56,220
of coercive, controlling, jealous behavior
560
00:29:56,220 --> 00:29:57,483
by Samuel Almhari.
561
00:29:58,350 --> 00:30:01,890
One screenshot in particular
was don't mistake my kindness
562
00:30:01,890 --> 00:30:03,630
for weakness I will choke you
563
00:30:03,630 --> 00:30:05,330
with the same hand that feeds you.
564
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,300
They met online and unfortunately for her
565
00:30:09,300 --> 00:30:12,763
she's met a dangerous, controlling
manipulative individual.
566
00:30:14,260 --> 00:30:16,364
- [Narrator] On Nadine's
answer phone machine,
567
00:30:16,364 --> 00:30:20,429
police found more threatening
messages from Almhari.
568
00:30:20,429 --> 00:30:22,908
(beeping)
569
00:30:22,908 --> 00:30:25,325
- [Samuel] Pick up the phone.
570
00:30:26,829 --> 00:30:29,996
You will be very very very very sorry.
571
00:30:34,715 --> 00:30:36,882
You'll be very very sorry.
572
00:30:38,140 --> 00:30:40,890
(dramatic music)
573
00:30:43,910 --> 00:30:45,710
- [Narrator] The man hunt continued.
574
00:30:46,750 --> 00:30:50,470
Using automatic number plate
recognition technology,
575
00:30:50,470 --> 00:30:53,070
police tracked Almhari
heading towards London
576
00:30:53,070 --> 00:30:57,073
in the early hours of the
first of December 2014.
577
00:31:00,180 --> 00:31:03,473
CCTV showed him arriving
at a major airport.
578
00:31:04,450 --> 00:31:07,380
- He left got to Heathrow fairly quickly,
579
00:31:07,380 --> 00:31:10,540
dumped Nadine's car, bought a ticket
580
00:31:10,540 --> 00:31:12,590
and then he was flying out straight away.
581
00:31:14,100 --> 00:31:14,933
- [Narrator] Almhari was about
582
00:31:14,933 --> 00:31:17,930
to flee the UK kickstarting one
583
00:31:17,930 --> 00:31:20,550
of the biggest investigations
South Wales Police
584
00:31:20,550 --> 00:31:21,393
had ever seen.
585
00:31:22,500 --> 00:31:24,202
- It was totally different
586
00:31:24,202 --> 00:31:26,590
from anything I've dealt with
before, totally different.
587
00:31:26,590 --> 00:31:27,553
It was a manhunt.
588
00:31:28,460 --> 00:31:30,266
- All we knew was that there was
589
00:31:30,266 --> 00:31:33,440
an international arrest warrant
issued for this individual
590
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,340
and that the person the
police were looking for
591
00:31:35,340 --> 00:31:36,590
was Sammy Almhari.
592
00:31:37,450 --> 00:31:39,610
- [Narrator] Detective
Chief Inspector Tudor Thomas
593
00:31:39,610 --> 00:31:42,720
was part of the team
tracking Almhari down.
594
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,150
- It was clearly understood by me
595
00:31:44,150 --> 00:31:46,376
that our main suspect had fled the UK
596
00:31:46,376 --> 00:31:49,050
and we were making all
efforts that we could
597
00:31:49,050 --> 00:31:51,110
to actually pinpoint where he'd gone.
598
00:31:51,110 --> 00:31:53,610
We had no clear understanding
of where he was going
599
00:31:53,610 --> 00:31:54,810
to head to in the world.
600
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,190
- We had no idea where
he was at this point.
601
00:31:58,190 --> 00:31:59,160
He could have been anywhere,
602
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,823
he could have still been
in Cardiff for all we knew.
603
00:32:03,370 --> 00:32:04,320
(dramatic music)
604
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:05,450
- [Narrator] For Nadine's family,
605
00:32:05,450 --> 00:32:07,433
there was more horror to come.
606
00:32:08,550 --> 00:32:11,120
Nadine hadn't returned
Almhari's phone to him
607
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:15,410
on the night of her murder
and so he'd stolen hers.
608
00:32:15,410 --> 00:32:17,575
As the huge manhunt gathered force
609
00:32:17,575 --> 00:32:20,443
he used that phone to
cruelly torment them.
610
00:32:21,470 --> 00:32:26,470
- We were once again
thrown into this despair
611
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:31,800
of unbelievably, unimaginable horror
612
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:36,087
of having Nad's phone text us
613
00:32:36,087 --> 00:32:40,290
and insult and assault us.
614
00:32:40,290 --> 00:32:43,144
- My mom got a text from Nadine's phone
615
00:32:43,144 --> 00:32:46,152
and it said something along the lines of
616
00:32:46,152 --> 00:32:50,900
it's your fault, you're next.
617
00:32:50,900 --> 00:32:53,910
And he would send messages saying,
618
00:32:53,910 --> 00:32:57,060
no your brother killed her, it wasn't me.
619
00:32:57,060 --> 00:33:02,060
He had the confidence to parade the fact
620
00:33:03,450 --> 00:33:06,922
that there was a dead body in that room
621
00:33:06,922 --> 00:33:11,396
and he would quip as though
it was an entertainment.
622
00:33:11,396 --> 00:33:16,396
- And you've got this animal,
really who is not only intent
623
00:33:16,530 --> 00:33:21,020
on committing that crime
he's then contacting nearest
624
00:33:21,020 --> 00:33:24,933
and dearest people to Nadine
Aburas and taunting them.
625
00:33:25,950 --> 00:33:28,140
- I didn't feel safe anymore.
626
00:33:28,140 --> 00:33:30,438
I was walking to the school bus,
627
00:33:30,438 --> 00:33:33,410
that was impossible for
me, I needed my brother
628
00:33:33,410 --> 00:33:37,043
to escort me 'cause I just
felt like he was everywhere
629
00:33:37,043 --> 00:33:42,043
and being in my house it was impossible.
630
00:33:46,293 --> 00:33:49,230
- Almhari's taunting of Nadine's family
631
00:33:49,230 --> 00:33:51,930
by making phone calls from Nadine's phone
632
00:33:51,930 --> 00:33:54,260
seems a particularly callous act.
633
00:33:54,260 --> 00:33:56,200
I think that it's possible
that he was getting
634
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:57,900
some gratification from that
635
00:33:57,900 --> 00:34:00,420
but it seems like a
very erratic thing to do
636
00:34:00,420 --> 00:34:02,870
and this erratic behavior
hints at a lifestyle
637
00:34:02,870 --> 00:34:04,520
that's very, very unstable
638
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,763
and someone actually who's very dangerous.
639
00:34:08,787 --> 00:34:11,537
(dramatic music)
640
00:34:15,450 --> 00:34:17,973
- [Narrator] Six days after
her daughter's murder,
641
00:34:17,973 --> 00:34:20,460
Nadine's mother made an emotional appeal
642
00:34:20,460 --> 00:34:22,553
for Almhari to give himself up.
643
00:34:24,339 --> 00:34:28,422
- Sammy, please I'm asking
you as Nadine's mother
644
00:34:32,245 --> 00:34:35,328
please turn yourself into authorities
645
00:34:36,580 --> 00:34:40,470
and please help us find
the answers that we need
646
00:34:40,470 --> 00:34:44,663
so we can let Nadine rest in peace.
647
00:34:48,818 --> 00:34:52,280
- [Narrator] But Almhari was
already 3,000 miles away.
648
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:55,400
Records show that on the 31st of December,
649
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:58,780
he had boarded a flight
from Heathrow to Qatar.
650
00:34:58,780 --> 00:35:00,700
- His ultimate destination we didn't know,
651
00:35:00,700 --> 00:35:02,810
we knew that he was somebody
from the United States
652
00:35:02,810 --> 00:35:05,317
but he also had connections
in other parts of the world.
653
00:35:05,317 --> 00:35:07,667
- I want to hear from anyone
that has any information
654
00:35:07,667 --> 00:35:10,650
on the origins of his
whereabouts any knowledge of him,
655
00:35:10,650 --> 00:35:13,581
any sightings of him and those
to be reported to the police
656
00:35:13,581 --> 00:35:16,850
or law enforcement agencies.
657
00:35:16,850 --> 00:35:18,690
But I must stress the importance
658
00:35:18,690 --> 00:35:20,240
that he's not to be approached.
659
00:35:22,497 --> 00:35:23,939
- I think he enjoyed the game,
660
00:35:23,939 --> 00:35:25,440
Sammy Almhari certainly enjoyed the game,
661
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:30,230
he enjoyed the fact that he
was able to flee the country.
662
00:35:30,230 --> 00:35:32,970
I mean, if you look at his thought process
663
00:35:32,970 --> 00:35:36,197
after killing Nadine,
he's away booking a flight
664
00:35:36,197 --> 00:35:40,030
to a part of the world
where he'd clearly thought
665
00:35:40,030 --> 00:35:42,115
we'd never be able to find him.
666
00:35:42,115 --> 00:35:44,018
- He was leaving himself so open,
667
00:35:44,018 --> 00:35:47,280
using my sister's phone, he
was in a volatile position
668
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:51,328
where hopefully he
should be easily tracked.
669
00:35:51,328 --> 00:35:54,460
(dramatic music)
670
00:35:54,460 --> 00:35:56,370
- [Narrator] The manhunt
for Nadine's murderer
671
00:35:56,370 --> 00:35:57,933
had now gone global.
672
00:35:58,930 --> 00:36:01,820
- We knew that there was an
international search for him.
673
00:36:01,820 --> 00:36:04,656
In terms of where Sammy
Almhari could have been,
674
00:36:04,656 --> 00:36:06,600
it was anyone's guess.
675
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:09,160
- Sammy Almhari stole the victim's phone
676
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:12,350
and that gave us a very
strong line of inquiry
677
00:36:12,350 --> 00:36:15,700
in terms of working out
where he potentially
678
00:36:15,700 --> 00:36:16,533
was going to be.
679
00:36:17,490 --> 00:36:19,610
- [Narrator] It also
gave police a direct line
680
00:36:19,610 --> 00:36:20,733
to their fugitive.
681
00:36:22,030 --> 00:36:23,395
- [Garrett] Hello Sammy is that you?
682
00:36:23,395 --> 00:36:25,645
- [Sammy] Hey I missed you.
683
00:36:26,860 --> 00:36:28,370
- [Garrett] You missed me?
684
00:36:28,370 --> 00:36:29,633
Where are you now Sammy?
685
00:36:31,136 --> 00:36:33,219
(laughs)
686
00:36:36,940 --> 00:36:38,460
What's funny Sammy?
687
00:36:38,460 --> 00:36:40,259
Why are you laughing?
688
00:36:40,259 --> 00:36:42,034
- [Sammy] I'm so far you
cannot get me, I'm in Cuba,
689
00:36:42,034 --> 00:36:43,683
Cuba, Havanna.
690
00:36:44,997 --> 00:36:47,253
- [Detective] Is that the
truth that you're in Havana?
691
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:50,240
- [Sammy] I'm in Havana.
692
00:36:51,170 --> 00:36:53,210
- Sammy Almhari consistently told me
693
00:36:54,082 --> 00:36:58,050
he was in Cuba, in Havana and
that we wouldn't find him.
694
00:36:58,050 --> 00:37:02,200
Of course, we knew full well
that he was in Tanzania.
695
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:03,500
(dramatic music)
696
00:37:03,500 --> 00:37:05,680
- [Narrator] By tracking Nadine's phone,
697
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:09,220
police had been able to
geo-locate their suspect.
698
00:37:09,220 --> 00:37:12,923
He was no longer in Qatar,
he was now in Africa.
699
00:37:14,710 --> 00:37:16,220
- There was use on that phone
700
00:37:16,220 --> 00:37:18,540
which anchored in within Tanzania
701
00:37:18,540 --> 00:37:21,363
and in particular with
Dar es Salaam in Tanzania.
702
00:37:23,260 --> 00:37:24,740
- [Narrator] The manhunt for Almhari
703
00:37:24,740 --> 00:37:27,210
now spanned three continents
704
00:37:27,210 --> 00:37:28,743
and he was still at large.
705
00:37:30,810 --> 00:37:33,000
- For me as the senior arresting officer,
706
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:34,640
I have to keep the moral of the team up,
707
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:36,376
I have to keep up hope for the family
708
00:37:36,376 --> 00:37:41,350
but was I deep down thinking
we could lose him here,
709
00:37:41,350 --> 00:37:44,423
absolutely, there was always that concern.
710
00:37:45,272 --> 00:37:48,680
- [Narrator] South Wales Police
faced a race against time
711
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,770
to capture their suspect.
712
00:37:50,770 --> 00:37:53,973
They decided to help track
down Almhari in Africa.
713
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:00,763
- We then sent officers out to Tanzania.
714
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:04,663
It was a bold move.
715
00:38:06,414 --> 00:38:07,247
This is in a part of the world
716
00:38:07,247 --> 00:38:09,523
which we had absolutely no jurisdiction.
717
00:38:10,900 --> 00:38:11,920
But we thought it was really worthwhile
718
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:15,060
to locate him and arrest Sammy Almhari.
719
00:38:15,060 --> 00:38:17,284
- [Narrator] DCI Thomas was
part of the team of officers
720
00:38:17,284 --> 00:38:20,979
working closely with the Tanzanian police.
721
00:38:20,979 --> 00:38:22,323
- It was a real shock to the senses.
722
00:38:22,323 --> 00:38:25,170
We were flying into a
city of one and a half,
723
00:38:25,170 --> 00:38:26,400
two million people,
724
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:29,919
just a hugely densely
populated part of Africa.
725
00:38:29,919 --> 00:38:34,160
- The Tanzanian police
with the supportitude
726
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:37,353
of a very closely capturing
him in Dar es Salaam.
727
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,490
- [Narrator] But they were too late.
728
00:38:40,490 --> 00:38:43,120
Almhari had vanished once again.
729
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,590
- If I'm honest, he's starting
to think he's getting away
730
00:38:45,590 --> 00:38:47,450
and time is going on.
731
00:38:47,450 --> 00:38:49,310
- We got further information
to say he's moved on
732
00:38:49,310 --> 00:38:52,010
and then he made telephone
calls on a border crossing.
733
00:38:53,270 --> 00:38:55,570
And my fear at that
stage was that he's gone
734
00:38:55,570 --> 00:38:56,703
into another country.
735
00:38:57,720 --> 00:38:59,500
There's the real sinking
feeling that we've missed
736
00:38:59,500 --> 00:39:01,320
our opportunity, he
slipped through our fingers
737
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:02,153
within Tanzania.
738
00:39:03,490 --> 00:39:05,817
- [Narrator] Nearly three
weeks after Nadine's murder
739
00:39:05,817 --> 00:39:08,670
and with all leads seemingly exhausted,
740
00:39:08,670 --> 00:39:11,283
detectives returned to
Cardiff empty handed.
741
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,180
But Tanzanian police were about
742
00:39:14,180 --> 00:39:15,883
to have a dramatic breakthrough.
743
00:39:18,930 --> 00:39:20,540
- [Narrator] Within 24 hours
of getting back to the UK
744
00:39:20,540 --> 00:39:22,290
I got an early morning telephone call
745
00:39:22,290 --> 00:39:25,310
to give me the good news that
they'd arrested Sammy Almhari
746
00:39:25,310 --> 00:39:27,260
and he was in custody in Dar es Salaam.
747
00:39:29,129 --> 00:39:31,750
- He was arrested, I think
he was hiding in a bush
748
00:39:31,750 --> 00:39:33,853
out near the border.
749
00:39:36,240 --> 00:39:39,276
- [Narrator] On the 22nd of March, 2015,
750
00:39:39,276 --> 00:39:43,000
DCI Morgan and DC Millard
flew out once again
751
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,010
to Dar es Salaam to extradite Almhari
752
00:39:46,010 --> 00:39:48,023
to face justice in the UK.
753
00:39:49,850 --> 00:39:50,833
- What struck me more than anything
754
00:39:50,833 --> 00:39:54,199
is that he was so arrogant really just
755
00:39:54,199 --> 00:39:56,800
it was like he owned the office.
756
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:58,871
His demeanor totally changed
when he got to Heathrow
757
00:39:58,871 --> 00:40:02,133
because he didn't go through
customs along the way,
758
00:40:02,133 --> 00:40:05,226
he got taken straight to
the Heathrow Police Station
759
00:40:05,226 --> 00:40:08,303
Glad to see the smile taken off his face.
760
00:40:09,850 --> 00:40:11,306
- He was finally charged with murder
761
00:40:11,306 --> 00:40:13,913
again a fantastic moment really.
762
00:40:13,913 --> 00:40:16,760
I just think he had this plural belief
763
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:18,074
that he was gonna get away with murder,
764
00:40:18,074 --> 00:40:20,790
that he was in Africa
765
00:40:20,790 --> 00:40:22,150
and that we wouldn't have the capacity
766
00:40:22,150 --> 00:40:25,040
or capability to locate him out there.
767
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:27,403
- The confidence was a
facade like his whole life,
768
00:40:27,403 --> 00:40:29,000
I think has been a facade.
769
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,220
His online profile said
everything about him
770
00:40:31,220 --> 00:40:34,003
but when you chip away it wasn't correct.
771
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:38,330
- [Narrator] After a number
of clinical assessments,
772
00:40:38,330 --> 00:40:40,823
Almhari was declared fit to stand trial.
773
00:40:41,690 --> 00:40:44,193
He refused to plead
guilty to Nadine's murder.
774
00:40:46,247 --> 00:40:47,950
- The most frustrating part really
775
00:40:47,950 --> 00:40:50,750
after he was charged, I fully expected him
776
00:40:50,750 --> 00:40:53,830
to take responsibility for what he'd done
777
00:40:53,830 --> 00:40:56,140
but that certainly wasn't the case.
778
00:40:56,140 --> 00:41:00,143
We then had 18 months of legal wranglings.
779
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:05,780
- Waiting for the trial
was exhausting emotionally
780
00:41:05,780 --> 00:41:07,657
and physically.
781
00:41:07,657 --> 00:41:10,690
We really wanted to know
the truth of what happened,
782
00:41:10,690 --> 00:41:15,580
we had no details really as
to what exactly had transpired
783
00:41:15,580 --> 00:41:17,810
between Almhari and Nadine.
784
00:41:17,810 --> 00:41:19,980
It was just a really difficult 18 months.
785
00:41:19,980 --> 00:41:22,570
It was stop and start, first he would say
786
00:41:22,570 --> 00:41:25,480
yeah, let's have hearing and
then he would change his mind
787
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:26,843
and change his plea.
788
00:41:26,843 --> 00:41:29,593
(dramatic music)
789
00:41:32,310 --> 00:41:34,590
- [Narrator] Almhari's trial
for the murder of Nadine
790
00:41:34,590 --> 00:41:38,983
finally began on the 18th of October 2016.
791
00:41:39,910 --> 00:41:43,460
- After one day of a
trial he finally stood up
792
00:41:43,460 --> 00:41:46,143
and pleaded guilty to
murdering Nadine Aburas.
793
00:41:47,890 --> 00:41:50,440
- I became aware that he
pleaded guilty on the second day
794
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:53,511
and I ran down to the court and I met mom
795
00:41:53,511 --> 00:41:55,180
and we had a big,
796
00:41:55,180 --> 00:41:56,490
the Welsh word is (speaks
in foreign language),
797
00:41:56,490 --> 00:41:58,170
it's an embrace, it's a hug
798
00:41:58,170 --> 00:42:00,396
and it was one of the best feelings I had,
799
00:42:00,396 --> 00:42:04,060
I was so glad that she had some closure,
800
00:42:04,060 --> 00:42:05,450
her and the family.
801
00:42:05,450 --> 00:42:09,237
I personally think he couldn't
face the family in court.
802
00:42:09,237 --> 00:42:11,550
He knew what he'd done and I think
803
00:42:11,550 --> 00:42:13,863
that's why he pleaded guilty.
804
00:42:13,863 --> 00:42:14,924
- He was sentenced to life imprisonment
805
00:42:14,924 --> 00:42:18,538
and must serve a minimum term of 17 years.
806
00:42:18,538 --> 00:42:21,288
(dramatic music)
807
00:42:22,230 --> 00:42:24,720
- [Narrator] During the
trial, police found evidence
808
00:42:24,720 --> 00:42:26,790
that Almhari installed spyware
809
00:42:26,790 --> 00:42:29,130
on Nadine's phone and laptop.
810
00:42:29,130 --> 00:42:31,383
It meant he could track her every move.
811
00:42:33,750 --> 00:42:36,710
- In the case of Sammy Almhari,
Nadine obviously thought
812
00:42:36,710 --> 00:42:39,782
this is a nice person,
actually he was a manipulator,
813
00:42:39,782 --> 00:42:42,555
he was a bully but she never knew that
814
00:42:42,555 --> 00:42:44,400
until it was too late.
815
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:46,617
- Online dating may give
the impression of control,
816
00:42:46,617 --> 00:42:49,820
it may make people feel a little bit safer
817
00:42:49,820 --> 00:42:52,603
because there's obviously not
that face to face contact,
818
00:42:52,603 --> 00:42:55,713
but I think the reality is
you're still very vulnerable.
819
00:42:56,861 --> 00:42:58,540
- I mean, this is the
first particular incident
820
00:42:58,540 --> 00:43:01,770
of this gravity that I've
dealt with following somebody
821
00:43:01,770 --> 00:43:03,990
meeting online but more
and more we're seeing
822
00:43:03,990 --> 00:43:05,850
various offenses being committed
823
00:43:05,850 --> 00:43:07,940
through that online environment.
824
00:43:07,940 --> 00:43:10,260
In this case it was the worse
possible set of circumstances,
825
00:43:10,260 --> 00:43:12,993
where it sadly resulted
in somebody's murder.
826
00:43:13,990 --> 00:43:16,270
- It sounds to me like
Nadine wanted to see the best
827
00:43:16,270 --> 00:43:18,750
in people and she paid a price for that
828
00:43:18,750 --> 00:43:20,500
but what we can learn from this case
829
00:43:20,500 --> 00:43:21,963
are the dangers of online dating
830
00:43:21,963 --> 00:43:24,317
and it's actually somebody
could be in essence
831
00:43:24,317 --> 00:43:27,017
spinning us a yarn meaning
that what they're telling us
832
00:43:27,017 --> 00:43:28,610
isn't the truth.
833
00:43:28,610 --> 00:43:30,820
It's very, very difficult
to find out the truth
834
00:43:30,820 --> 00:43:32,910
especially where there's
a trans-Atlantic issue
835
00:43:32,910 --> 00:43:34,168
to deal with.
836
00:43:34,168 --> 00:43:36,918
(dramatic music)
837
00:43:38,510 --> 00:43:40,110
- He doesn't mean anything to me
838
00:43:42,194 --> 00:43:44,110
and I don't want my sister's memory
839
00:43:44,110 --> 00:43:46,230
to be tainted by his presence.
840
00:43:46,230 --> 00:43:48,810
His action doesn't define my sister's life
841
00:43:48,810 --> 00:43:53,810
and I can't allow it to and
I have no anger, no hatred,
842
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:56,823
nothing, I'm numb when it comes Almhari.
843
00:43:58,403 --> 00:44:02,283
I don't give him the time of day.
844
00:44:04,782 --> 00:44:07,470
- You know with all that's transpired
845
00:44:07,470 --> 00:44:09,813
to whatever he tried to take from us,
846
00:44:14,225 --> 00:44:17,183
he will never take the memory of Nadine.
847
00:44:20,620 --> 00:44:22,990
The unbelievable privilege
848
00:44:22,990 --> 00:44:26,050
of having a daughter so beautiful,
849
00:44:26,050 --> 00:44:29,983
so kind, so considerate of others,
850
00:44:32,030 --> 00:44:33,480
he will never take that away.
851
00:44:38,202 --> 00:44:40,952
(dramatic music)
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