All language subtitles for ENG Bert Hellinger - Pokret duha, deo 1 od 4

I'm never alone

well I want to show something of the new

developments of family

constellations and uh I call this moving

with a spirit

mind and that is a a new development in

every

respect and what it is I will

demonstrate mainly here without giving

many explanation

so we can witness

actually what it is like to be to allow

ourselves to be moved by the spirit

mind but

one few remarks after

all there is the

observation

that everything that exists is in a mod

motion everything that exists is in a

motion and in a motion that is connected

with everything

else therefore behind this

motion we

must think that there is another

Power a knowing

power directing everything as it

is and Aristotle

talked about the first

mover behind

everything but there was nothing before

that could be

moved now how does something come into

existence because it is

thought by this Spirit

mind now if we take that seriously what

does that mean

everything as it is is moved in the same

way by

this Spirit mind therefore for this

Spirit mind there are no distinctions

between good or bad or right or

wrong or good people or bad

people they all are thought

as they are by this Spirit

mind therefore in

conclusion we

ourselves must move into a realm where

we leave these

distinctions behind

us so that we agree to

everybody and to

everything as it is except exactly as it

is and this opens New Dimensions for our

work and these Dimensions we can

witness

now now the procedure is as

follows I will ask who want to work with

me and they raise their

hands and then I choose somebody

and with this person I

work now do I choose the person because

I like them or no I choose them in

accordance with the movement of the

spirit

mind and that would mean if I choose

them in this way what I will do will be

of benefit to all of you at the same

time therefore I have all of you in mind

when I choose such a

person now who would like to work with

me to raise your hands

please and never have a

look so I work with you yes

now how you feeling now here close to be

I'm very happy and I'm very glad and

thankful with a long way to come where

do you come from I'm come from Germany a

long way in

years yes

okay but what is not the procedure see

I go into resonance with

him and with his

family and with his

Destiny and then I I

feel what I will do first

and I

rely on the movements of

Representatives they

show what is

important therefore I will

choose a representative of him

first who would like

to to do

this so you stand here

you represent

him now we don't talk you see you just

get

centered and then you wait until you are

moved in one way or the other exactly as

you are

moved and from this we get all the

important information you are in his

service see but you don't have to look

at him don't have to look at me you're

just all on your

okay good

may I take you

would you lie on the floor on your back

in front of him there he

looks just on the

floor that's it yes

do you have children

no

for

for for

so you could see the right hand of the

woman is shaking you

see

for

for for

he always wants to turn but I prevent

him from

turning for

tell

her for you I do

everything for you I do

everything I even die

I'll even die

and you tell him you for

me you for

me you for me

too you for me too

now what we can observe is you

see because she looks at him she does

not have to look at this de

person but that's how children are

you they sacrifice everything for their

mother happily of course

have thank

you

for for

see I took him out

out of something that has nothing to do

with

him there is the

issue

for

for

for for

her right hand is shaking

very very

much for

now she's clasping his

hand but he does not look at her he

looks

away

for

for

for

for

for

for

for

for

for for

you you ask a

secret

for

for

for

for

for

for

for

for for

how are you feeling

now big relief big quick

relief and

expansion and

expansion see what we observe here are

movements of the spirit

mind and they bring

together what has been separated

before so they overcome the

separation now what could we

observe there's a secret

and the secret is obviously a

former relationship of your

father you know that and there has been

a

child

yes it was in his youth so this person

must be a young person yes but it's not

a young person I don't guess that this a

child of him

but he was young when this

happened what

happened in a fight when he was young

the the other person

died the other person

died and which connection they fight

when they were young so my father became

a Murder By oh he killed him yes

so in

a in a

family very often another person takes

over the guilt and the consequences of a

guilt for another person

and

here the woman took over

first she took over

first then you took

over but there is a secret

still the fight might have been about a

woman there is something like this

there's a connection

the question is now you see for

you you stand up

now and you look at all of them is

at that

Destiny and you look beyond their

Destiny to greater

force and nobody can

escape this greater

force all are involved you

see your father

your

mother

you this

person and this person as

well and a look

Beyond and you leave them

there without any

regret without any desire to make up for

something everything is all

right as it is for

everybody

wait look

Beyond look

Beyond that's

it you can leave

this these are dynamics of Soul you

see

Penance atonement you see feeling guilty

see taking over for somebody else all

movements of the

soul and they're all

limited and they don't bring

together now you look beyond the realm

of the spirit

mind that's wide and open for

everybody including you

and now you have a

future and you look at that future

too

free at

last look Beyond look Beyond leave

things as they rare

this is this is anchoring you

see that's from NLP anchoring I did

anchoring for

him okay good thank you all thank

you if I would have asked him about his

problem in the beginning here see would

you have told me something relevant

it would have been a long way to come to

this of course I didn't know see he

couldn't have told me you see here in

this way of working we get the important

information from the

representatives and of course I myself

was staying in tune with these movements

that why I knew whom to select after a

while and

uh Al the sentences are I let them say

we're part of that movement to see but

it turned out at the end something quite

different was important you see but if

you trust these movements it comes to

light and the main thing here is that

something is set in motion towards love

for everybody then everybody can find

his or her peace and that was important

thing that why we don't have to inquire

anymore you don't have to bother anymore

you better look forward okay

good okay then

now if you look at

um what I said before about the

movements of the spirit

mind this movements of spirit mind we

may say these are movements

of something Divine but we don't know

anything about this but we can observe

the movements of the spirit mind we

could observe them here that there are

movements of love for everything as it

is

see now all

religions all the

images that we have in various religions

about

God are movements of EX

exclusion in every

religion in

Christianity or in

Islam or even in

Buddhism there are some who

are elected

chosen under certain conditions they

have to fulfill

and others are

excluded now this image is

contrary to all we can imagine about God

completely

contrary so

many I I heard on 70s the St Patrick's

day you told me

now all these uh ancient Saints and

Patrick included you see they were

tormenting themselves all the

time whom they where they

tormenting an

image God had of

them all these

Endeavors are against the Creative

Images God has of everybody as he or she

is and I had

um a strange Insight

recently I was thinking about

Paradise should I tell you something

about

Paradise

so yes of course I have studied Theology

and the Bible for long long time but it

never occurred to me how strange that

story is about

Paradise

because Adam and Eve were driven out of

paradise and were

expelled

why because they had been

eating from the Tree of

knowledge that was forbidden to them to

eat

from the Tree of

knowledge but that snake see tempted

them to eat from the Tree of knowledge

now what kind of knowledge was

this that knowledge about good and

bad now was that an

Insight was that a

knowledge or was it

an

attempt to put themselves above

God for whom that can be no

distinction between good and

bad

therefore because of this false

knowledge we they expelled from

Paradise and of course because they had

now the knowledge of good and bad

it resulted very soon in the first

murder now

K killed his brother Abel

why because he thought God

preferred his brother Abel to him

because of the distinction he made of

good and bad and he applied that to

God this you

see the consequence is is the first

murder and all the murders in the world

and all the wars of the in the

world

originate from this

distinction of good and

bad

now I I have found back to the real

knowledge of

God that for him there is no distinction

between good and

bad and this new way of constellations I

demonstrate here show that there's no

distinction that are brought together by

movement of the spirit mind

whatever might have

happened what I'm doing

now I knock at the door of

paradise and the tree

opens can you follow me still

there now the only thing we have to do

we have to practice it so

and then in Paradise of course there's

another

tree that is a tree of

life and that is accessible to us now as

soon as we leave these

distinctions behind

now who wants to work with me who has an

illness now you raise your hand to

yourself okay good now you come

what is the illness chronic fatigue

syndrome good chronic fatigue syndrome

chronic fatigue fatigue

syndrome

okay now how long do you sleep usually

at night how long do you sleep usually 8

hours sufficient 8 hours yes is such a

disease

no sometimes I make fun of that of

course you

see I never take things seriously you

see why should I you

see but I work seriously with that

problem

okay so

uh I have you in my

mind and I have your mother in my

mind so I'm in good

company

okay

good how long do you have that

since I was

born since I was

born since you were

born 35

years tell me something about the

circumstances of your

birth um I'm am the second child um it

was Hospital birth in the

Netherlands um I don't know of any

strange

circumstances I think it was normal I

think it was

normal

normal

okay now the main thing is to find out

how to begin you see for me now that's a

important

question so the first if I miss the

first step then I'm lost the first step

is most

important so I

um I need a woman as a representative

who is volunteering

you're volunteering okay come

here you can get through here that's

easier stand

here and I need another woman

so take you

okay stand

here now you represent

her and you represent her

mother

for for

take you

lie in front of her on your back

you know what it

chose fear

death there was a

twin jeed

twin or a murdered

twin

for for

and need a

man I need a man you

okay stand here you are the father

he was involved

so the mother was moving away from

him and they look at

him does it make

sense um

yeah this

does she's afraid of

him and she's afraid of her

you know what the best solution is for

you should I tell you chronic fatigue

can I then you escape all this

say to him

please

please say it with laugh

please look at

him

please

please please

so please

bre laugh

please

please please

with

laugh with love

please love no it's just a word you say

the word with love but to always say

please please

Dad

please

that

please

please see how Superior she

feels has a high price

now you lie on your

belly lie on your belly in front of him

just lie on your

belly stretch out your hands forward

just lie down on your belly on your

belly on your

belly on your belly and has

said is the

resistance stretch out your hands

forward lie down fully down like

this now you say please

please

please and you also say to him

please for

you're Li on your

belly you remain small

now this one is

forgotten through this

accuration she is forgotten

you know what she says to him in her

heart I will kill

you you see

that it's the aggression with your

foot that's a murderous

impulse so you are no better than

anybody

else

for

for for

go back to your place

again go back to your place

again see all fast

movements are not movements of the

spirit mind they come from the mind

therefore we can forget from all quick

movements we can forget

I can interrupt it ch

we see the basic

movement and we see that we're not

permitted to do go further you

see there is a perpetrator here who is

excluded by

all all the energy goes to the exclusion

of the

perpetrator and that has a certain price

it's

exclusion a high

price and that's

it that's all what I could show you

see okay thanks the

representatives now you get out of your

representation be yourself

again now you close your eyes

and you look at your

illness and you tell your

illness better

you than

me better you than me

okay okay all the best

now this is another characteristic

of this new kind of

work we don't need a

solution very

often important is that we see the B

basic

movement and the basic movement of the

spirit mind is very

slow

and after what we could see here happen

she cannot be the same anymore of

course so things will change see at

their time not here in such a short time

therefore it's quite right to leave it

here

so as you see I have no pity you

see I have no pity why should I have

pity I had a little pity for the father

I must admit

to because he was excluded to but

otherwise

so so I keep out of this kind of

feelings of pity and of seal and

eagerness so see to achieve something we

let things move and suddenly we know

this is how far we are permitted to go

and then we

stop and these things to take their own

cause

somebody else here with an illness who

wants to look at it so

yes of course if you deal with illnesses

the temptation of pity you see and

eagerness to help is is greatest of

course and it needs special courage to

resist this you

see because everybody is

in his or her special Destiny moved by

the spirit mind I don't have to

interfere this in this way I only assist

these movements as as far as I am

permitted and called upon but not

further now what is your illness I have

um fibbr in my womb it's like a tumors

but they are not

cancer okay

again the question how how shall I start

to

S well sometimes I have strange thoughts

so I need a

woman you okay

stand

here you are her

room okay

now you see

already from her movement she's looking

at dead people you

see the question is how many are

there my image is there are three yours

twoo you also had three how many did you

have yeah

you knew there were more than one okay

so I take you three live there in front

of

her if you see very clearly from from

her movement they all connected with her

womb they are all

children

for

for

for

for

for

for for

now now you close your

eyes and now you take all of

them into your

body with

love

for for

how is that for

you it's strange

because it coincides with the fact that

I have three two brothers and a sister

but I don't I've never had children or

anything like that and I'm the Elder so

I'm wondering if because I've been

mothering them since very early if that

may have anything to do with it or

something I don't interpret it

there are many connections possible you

see the exclusion of

children shows in many

ways for instance if uh women take the

pill

after then you have Dynamics like that

you see or if they take a

spiral we have that or if they had

artificial insemination

see all

those uh EG

cells who were fertilized and shown away

belong to the

system nobody can be

excluded and therefore I don't interpret

that I don't interpret that

but uh from the movement of the womb we

could

see the very

clear movement of expulsion see or

closing

up that you could

see and then the solution is to take

back what was denied

recognition that is would be the

solution and therefore an illness like

this very often shows a way to a

solution and the solution is always one

of taking in instead of taking away and

if you would have that operated would be

another way of exclusion of

course that couldn't help

incursion

house can I leave it there yes okay

thank you

all now in this kind of work we leave

things

open so if you would fix it would say

for instance these are aborted children

or so then we uh we close up ourselves

to all the other possibilities there

that may show and from experience we see

that what I just mentioned you see has a

far-reaching effect and it's very often

denied that effect

and um well I make a little meditation

with you so close your

eyes and now we move into our body

and we

feel where in our

body seems something to be

missing as if there was a

hole that wants to be filled

and you don't have to interpret anything

you feel that something is missing there

perhaps and then you make yourself open

to receive

back what seems to be

missing

there whatever it is whoever it is

whoever it is in your own

life and whoever it is in your family

and you welcome

back what has been

missing what had no place in you or in

your

family for

e for

and you feel the difference in your

body

for e

okay

I want to say something about

health shall I are you ready for

health so the we have the idea somebody

is

ill and in the

future they get healthy

again so first they are

ill and health is lying in the

future and some wait a long time for

their health because they look at it in

the

future so

uh I was thinking the other day about

where

is where are the important things you

see what is decisive in life is it in

the

future does it come after we walk from a

beginning to a

completion and at the completion we

reach

fulfillment that's a common thought

isn't it

well then I was thinking of a newborn

child the newborn child has

everything as nothing

missing it unfolds and

develops what it has already isn't

it at shall I go

so yeah can you listen still to

me well by going

on so in

developing things are left

out we

develop by leaving things

out therefore while we

develop we get less in a certain way

and

illness is a kind of

getting

less can you still follow me yes not too

difficult well what would be the

procedure

then when we are

ill are we moving

forward or are we moving back to the

beginning

but everything is present

already now how do we get

healthy well I do it as an exercise with

you you see you close your eyes

now you think

of an organ that

is ill doesn't function well anymore the

heart or the lungs

or or there is uh some trouble in your

bones or in your digestion wherever you

see

now you look at

it for inst look at your

heart as it is

now and then you look at your

heart when it began to beat for the

first time

there was a full

strength right in the

beginning and now we move back to that

time of the full strength of our

heart and we

connect our present

heart with the beginning

to get

strength from the

beginning the full strength

available

there and we feel the healing

effect of the

beginning for what happens in our

body

now for

and of course we look at the past at the

beginning with

joy with

gratitude and allow the past

to do its work

now its healing

work

now for

I'll give you some other example

examples to make you familiar with this

procedure for instance if you are

wearing

classes then you imagine the

time where you didn't need any

glasses and you go back to that time

and you ask your body of that

time to take an

effect on the here and

now so that the

eyesight is

changed by

what was possible

before it is

reorganized and set in motion

again to overcome the

present

limitations or if you are hard of

hearing as I still am at

present you go back to the time

when you could listen very

well and you take the strength of that

time to change something in the

present these are exercises who don't

know how Mercy

never never it's a question of sticking

to it for some time like you Sebastian

of course have now to take you took a

resolution now you I saw in your face

already yes I do it with my glasses I

put them away and I see much better

already after 3 weeks you

see and this is with other things as

well like walking difficulties or so on

you go back to the time before

so there was

everything all

right it's the New Perspectives now of

course beautiful perspectives you see

for helping ourselves and for helping

others

so and uh I read a beautiful book

recently you

see by

a by a Russian

it calls in German calls do you have it

here

yeah I L it to uh to

Yuta so I hope I can read today without

CL is

naov eel's

wisdom the donkey's wisdom donkey's

wisdom It's a Wonderful book I recommend

it to see I learned a lot for myself

from

there and uh of course all I say about

uh about illness and health you see it's

uh it's s from yesterday it's it's no

longer applicable because he found

something quite different to see shall I

tell

you I still have a few minutes time

yes see was the man

himself

um was very ill as a young man he had to

to get the blood

purified all the time but very healthy

very old now and he was attending to

many famous Russian politicians all ill

you see and man had Parkinson so

on and one day they met again and that

man was completely healthy completely

healthy and he asked

him what happened to see said well I

went to a

monry where they venerate the fire

and uh that's why is he is healthy so

this man was interested to go there and

he want to document everything so he

took a cameraman with

him and a

journalist and they applied to go there

and they gave them a place where they

should stop and they said Transportation

will be provided there

so they came to the

place and there were two duners there

that was

all and the monastery was 27 kilm

away but they had to walk there and they

put their equipment on the

duners and they marched to see and half

the way they said that's too far and

they wanted to turn back but they it

going back the same distance that's

going forward so they moved forward and

reach that

Monastery and the monks said well we

have simple rule there very simple rule

and you have to stick to this otherwise

they have to pay for this you have

always to

smile and they didn't

smile because their feet were very

sore and said well because you didn't

smile where you get a a j big J and you

have to fish some

water 5 kilm

down they went down

so and because it was very heavy they

had to carry it on their heads and that

they have to stay to walk very

straight so they walked up and when they

arrived they

smiled but the mon said

no we watched

you and we so sorry you did not smile on

the

road so you had to go

back well after 3 days they all

smiled four

weeks going straight full of strength

happy and

smiling no treatment

whatever and after 4 weeks they were all

healthy now of course I shouldn't have

told that otherwise I'm no longer on

demand when I offer

workshops still there will be other

occasions of course

us and he

discovered all chronic diseases can be

healed by this

Method All chronic diseases can be

healed by this

method

and he has healed blind

people 100%

de people

100% by the same

method by the same

method and I've learned already to stand

straight as you see you

see and to smile too you

see so I learned already a lot and

although I read that only started

reading it 3 weeks ago it has a

wonderful effect on me I look very

healthy don't

there you

are okay so

uh this is a new approach and I apply it

already for myself and I started to

applyed in

workshops and the results are wonderful

here in this

place I'm never

alone I

scrutinize this turbulent soul and I

cannot distinguish

what's wrong and what's

right is it too

heavy is it too

light un

there

oh

oh

like oh life