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♪ Don't care what you think about it ♪

♪ Ain't here to please nobody

♪ On the run and undercover

♪ Here comes trouble now

♪ Mend my wicked ways

♪ I'll get you into trouble now ♪

♪ It's just so hard to behave

♪ Got you seeing double now

♪ I'm the one your mama told you ♪

♪ Oh, boy, the woman's torture ♪

♪ A risk you can't afford

♪ And here comes trouble now

♪ Turning it up all night

♪ Got you feeling all right

♪ Turning it up all night

♪ Got you feeling all right

♪ Get you into trouble now

I've had several threesomes.

I've only done the girl-girl-boy threesome.

I think two guys and me,

that's just too much.

Unless they're fucking each other,

and, yeah, me fucking them

would be amazing.

I had a threesome one time,

and it was probably one of the most awkward

sexual experiences of my life.

Some people prefer to know the person

they have a threesome with.

Some people prefer it to be a stranger.

I don't know what the emotional fallout

would be for me in a relationship

to have a threesome.

But if I were single,

I would love to be a unicorn.

No consequences, all fun.

I have been a unicorn before,

and that's been a total blast,

because, you know, as the unicorn,

you're the center of attention.

I really enjoy having threesomes

just 'cause I think it's a really interesting way

to spice things up.

I've been with two girls before.

I was with one,

and then went to the other one,

and then I finished.

And then I was like, "I'm gonna go make a sandwich.

I'll be right back."

- My name is Bee. - I'm Ryan.

- And I'm Meryn. - I'm Ken.

I'm Jodie, and this is Gerald.

- I'm Ken, and this is... - And this...

And this is my sex life.

And I love sex.

With your orgasmic energy being the most powerful energy,

it's the piranha energy in our body.

So when we get to the state of that pleasure...

that comes with the process

and the ritual of sex magik,

that is when you actually are putting that

into divine order,

straight and direct to what you want.

My artwork, I guess, can't help

but express who I am as a human being

because it comes from me.

There are different themes per different painting,

but pretty much all of them focus

on the connection in nature,

spirituality, and sensuality as well.

One of our first dates,

we had dinner

and played the piano,

and she was sitting next to me,

and she felt the zing.

- What are we doing? - Remember to lean back.

Lean back.

I was hitting on her friend Kim

at some party.

Uh, Nicolette was body painting

at that event.

Then he gave me his number,

and in spite of all my better judgment,

I decided to hang out with him the next day

because I really liked him.

I thought that she has the kindest,

sweetest heart. I think that she's a very good person.

- Thanks, babe. - And I still think that way

eight and a half years later.

Love being your sous chef, babe.

I love it when you're my sous chef, baby.

Apparently, I'm really terrible at crushing garlic, though.

We considered ourselves to be monogamous

- for quite some time--or... - Monogamish.

...Monogamish.

For quite some time, we were monogamish.

Sort of like open, playful, but not poly.

We have some boundaries and understanding

on what's cool and what's not for now,

and--which is different from where we were in the past,

and it's probably different from where we're going to be,

like, in-- in five years from now.

We have a very strong connection,

bound, love,

and commitment.

Everything else is kind of a cherry on top

to explore and make things interesting.

The universe sometimes knows better than you do,

and I think that allowing that room

for things to appear that are unexpected

is exciting and interesting.

We are taking this tantra workshop.

It is a magical manifestation

through tantra workshop.

I have heard that you can manifest

through your sexual orgasms.

I think that that, like, creative energy

is probably so powerful

that it could be channeled to create other things

than just a new life.

That's my theory.

So what do you think about tomorrow?

Yeah, I'm really looking forward

to connecting with you

and seeing what kind of tantric energy

we can produce.

I'm not exactly sure what's going to be done.

That's all right. It's kind of exciting, right?

Uh-huh.

You know, I'm coming from a different mindset.

You know, I used to be in the military service for many years

and stuff, so I'm more of an agnostic.

This is it. We die and that's it.

More of a realist. More into systems

and getting from here to there.

I do believe that, you know, "quantum theory"

when--thing that you'll focus on

and you'll put your intention can happen.

- So manifestation? - Some of my hippie friends

- will call it manifestation. -

I call it "Just take your finger out of your ass

- and do it". So... -

I help Sagiv cook sometimes,

but I'm not great at making

the chopping really, really the perfectly sized.

- - And everything being measured

and calculated.

But on the other side of that,

I had Sagiv make a painting with me one time,

and he couldn't even put down the first stroke

because he was too afraid

of the lack of planning.

So...

Part of my relationship to Sagiv

is helping him to get out of his head,

be more creative, be in touch

with the part of him that's in flow,

and to allow surprises to happen.

We could put that up there,

if you want to put, like, a crystal on top of it.

- Okay. - I don't know where else...

That would be cool.

My intention when I work with people

is to help them to deepen their spiritual practice.

Spiritual practice,

for me, is a practice

of deepening one's level of consciousness.

Me and Tara have this amazing relationship.

She is such a powerful woman,

and we've known for a long time

that we're supposed to teach together.

We've had just beautiful experiences

being able to bring different areas of tantra

to the community.

We just work really well together and have this

beautiful synergistic energy.

Something for me that I really love

and honor about working with couples

is finding a way to deepen their connection,

deepen their love for themselves,

first and foremost,

and then learning how can they meet each other

as they're growing, as we all in relationship

we're kind of--it's like an ebb and flow, you know?

Someone starts to grow in this way,

and maybe this person's going in this direction,

and then we come together.

So, for them, I am just hoping

and wishing that this brings them

into, like, a whole 'nother level

of their sexuality because I know

they're already active in certain ways

and so why not learn how to go deeper?

I really have no idea what's gonna happen at all.

With the mentality of surrender and being present

and just really putting everything that I have

into the experience

so I can get the full result from it.

Surrendering to the magic,

being open to the possibilities

is something that I personally struggle with.

However, I'm open and I'm excited

and looking forward to learning new tricks.

Ancient tantra,

the very short and dirty version,

is that it's making everything you do

a path towards enlightenment.

How you eat, how you live your life,

and how you have sex,

how you engage in sexual energy.

Thinking positive is a-- is a great way

to help manifest things in your life,

or thinking about what you want to create.

But when you add the power of sex magik,

it will greatly intensify

what you're trying to bring into your life.

Let's talk about, more or less, what you guys

are wanting to bring in and your manifestation today

as we go into the rituals.

Surrender to the magic, Sagiv.

Surrender to the magic.

Surrender to the magic.

Maybe we'll start ladies first.

So I have a calling.

I'm a painter,

and making beautiful art

is what I would like to do with my life.

So I am trying

to manifest or am manifesting

financial independence through my art.

That's what I would like to manifest.

Orgasmic energy creates life.

Orgasmic energy makes you feel something

that you cannot feel in any other way.

There's gotta be a way to utilize this energy

and project it outward.

That's sex magik.

Whatever it is that you're thinking about,

whatever it is that you're feeling,

in these moments of orgasm, that's what you're creating.

I think that I would like to harness

the power of magic

actually to bring into our relationship,

our connection--

I'll share something with you.

I think that sometimes I'm jealous

of Nicolette's orgasms, you know?

It's like Nicolette's orgasm

is so magical and elaborate. -

But I don't know. It's like, maybe as a--as a guy,

it's like, "Ah. You know, that's an orgasm. I just came."

So maybe to explore beyond that.

I think that maybe harnessing

the energy that your orgasm create

into manifesting something

in the physical world

might be a little bit of a stretch for me,

but I'm open to the idea.

That's a beautiful thing to learn

is to control your orgasm

and to bring your orgasm

up and through the chakras and blast it out,

and to create that,

like, full-body orgasm

that you hear about when--

you know, when they talk about tantra.

Mm-hmm.

- We're gonna touch on that. - Yeah. That. That.

As women, to get to that arousal state,

it takes us, like, twice as long.

We got a lot going on down here that is, like, so powerful,

and so many different places

to activate and to wake up.

The witness dance is so important

because a lot of us women

are very scared

to fully be seen in our vulnerability

and our sensuality by our partner.

So let him or her witness you

fully drop into that sexual, sensual,

loving energy for yourself,

which then brings us into a more open state.

So this part of the workshop

is for us to drop into that

sensual place here,

first, before we share it,

before we connect.

And then when you feel that you're in that space,

when you start to wake that sensuality

up inside, the warmth,

that juiciness.

Aim towards your partner

and just bind his eyes.

Feeling the gaze on my skin

was almost tangible.

Like, a physical sensation.

And then there's a really wonderful moment

of connection when you make eye contact with your partner,

and I think that's really comforting.

When Sagiv and I first met each other,

when we would hug or touch, our--

it's almost like our molecules would mesh.

But we've been together for eight years,

so it's been kind of a while,

so it was nice to have that restimulated.

Feeling your own body,

feeling your own texture

of your skin.

Find something new that you haven't felt yet before

through your own touch.

Temple body adornment is a ritual

to bring you into your subtle body

to feel held, to feel loved,

to feel that king or queen

inside of you just completely surrendered

to be held by your partner.

And we are adorning the sacred goddess

in front of us

with magical touch,

sensation, arousal.

You're gonna vary your touch,

vary your speed, vary your pressure.

The point here is to listen to the goddess's energy.

And play with the lesser-known erogenous zones

behind the ears.

It's almost like as if we are pulsing together,

we are breathing together.

There's another level of emotion

that it creates

when you have that exchange.

So what we're doing now,

moving into empowering

the chakras.

To start with the Base Chakra,

you're gonna lift her leg

closest to you.

Place your hand at her buttocks

and your other hand, ask permission,

"May I please place my hand over your yoni?"

Yes.

Um, I'm--I'm sitting with it.

You never know.

Try everything twice.

I'm keeping an open mind.

I'm trying to surrender to the idea

that my orgasm energy

will allow me to be more creative

and create something new.

Feel the energy from your lover's heart

going into your yoni.

And the yoni is the womb,

is the pussy, is the vagina.

And a lingam is your cock.

Those are the Sanskrit words

for the sexual organs

that we have as a female and a male.

Keeping that manifestation

that we're bringing in to this ritual

in mind, sound is very activating.

They have these--we used to call them energygasms.

It's just beautiful energy.

And feel free to let out some sounds.

And then breathing it up into the third eye.

See your manifestation.

And let it go with some sound.

I think there was a different type of exchange

that we don't always practice in our daily day.

Sometimes, you know, we just took the dog on a walk,

we have to wake up early tomorrow morning.

But today we have kind of learned

how to really take our time

and pleasure each other.

That was a pleasant surprise.

And then asking permission

to put your hand over the lingam.

May I put my hand over your lingam?

And exhale.

And this is here,

our sexual chakra.

This is where our sexual energy builds.

This will--is what will bring you

into these states of orgasm.

And what we said and what we've set

at the beginning of class,

see that in your mind's eye.

The first thing you wanna do as the man is invite

your woman to sit astride your legs

in what we call yab-yum.

With the different Tantric positions,

the very first one we started with is yab-yum,

which is, I believe, such an important one

to really bring you into connection

with your partner.

The woman straddles the man.

The feet are touching.

The palms and the feet are connection

behind each other which is creating

a circuit of energy that's swirling

like a figure eight,

moving through the sexual organs of each other

and back through the legs,

and then the chakra system is aligned.

You're connected.

This is a position where the woman can--

when she's starting to feel ready,

can start to move a little bit.

Your lingam is not inside the yoni at this point.

You're just combining the arousal

of the physical and the energetic.

And then I'm going to take the lead

and let myself come back,

bringing myself all the way down.

So you'll separate your legs as the man here.

And this is such a beautiful place.

This will be my lingam for the-- for this demonstration.

We are opening ourselves up to them,

and we're finding the comfort zone for ourselves

of when we're ready to receive him.

And so by him painting the yoni,

he's starting to arouse us,

explore her entire outer part of her yoni.

And here is where whenever your partner

as the masculine sees you start to get aroused,

that's when he decides to ask if I'm ready.

So, at this point you are entered, right?

So he's already inside of me.

Keeping your hands behind you,

you'll kind of lift your pelvis up a little bit.

And so you're gonna start by just circulating up and down,

different sides,

and really just letting his lingam paint

inside of your yoni.

You know, I have this motto in life that--

don't have expectations

and you'll be pleasantly surprised.

And I'm very surprised.

Like, it was way beyond any expectations

that I didn't really have.

The different positions,

the movement, the flow.

Now, one thing that's great in this position

is to help to activate the clit

which has 8,000 nerve endings

while you're also activating the navel center.

So part of the idea is to be sort of activating

as many centers throughout these different positions

as you can.

To feel the mirroring of our bodies

is quite pleasant.

I really enjoy arching back

and feeling supported in the small of my back.

And I really enjoy

the exposed nature of my...

clitoris to the front of him

because I feel that he could probably

stimulate that pretty easily while we are together.

If he wants to come inside of you,

that's obviously in your own choice

and where you're at in your relationship

and what you're manifesting

or have him come on top of you, on your body.

And when that happens, for me,

I like to bring his beautiful juices

all the way up my chakra system

onto my third eye,

and to just visualize this manifestation

as that orgasm is happening.

That is where that energy is blasting to, the momentum

is beyond this world.

Why not find ways to connect more

and have these more expansive experiences with each other

so that you can go into these different realms

and go into these different, like, levels of orgasm

and find ways to manifest bigger, better,

beautiful things in your life when you think that

it's just, "Oh, this is great. We have great sex."

There's always more. Always.

There's always gonna be more and there's always gonna be

something for you to explore and to feel and to try,

and why not?

So put your feet out.

Connect your legs together.

My feet are connected.

- They're behind you. - Okay.

- Can I put my hands back? - Mm-hmm.

The energy and the space

seems a bit vivid or heightened.

It sort of allowed for me to feel things

a little bit more thoroughly.

So instead of feeling something right away

that's maybe overstimulating,

it allowed me to, you know, move the energy up

and feel things,

feel each small thing on its own,

and that was pretty exciting for me.

So I felt more in sync with my partner in that way.

It like allowed me to catch up with him.

I would like your lingam inside me.

Mm-hmm.

Oh, that's hot.

Ooh, that feels really good.

Oh, that's hot.

I think that our hearts are always connected,

- and then... - Extra connected.

...and today they are extra connected, even extra.

I'm going to recommend this to all my guy friends.

I think that the male, especially,

should know about that.

No one ever really teach you anything about the sex,

like in all the sex health or sex ed and stuff,

no one really talks to you about the sex and the buildup

and the--I didn't know many of the aspects

that Tara and Mike shared with us.

I think that it's very important,

- and especially for men. - Yeah.

Sex magik is the extra sauce on the ice cream sundae.

It's like sex is already great, but if you add sex magik,

I think it's extra special,

and I can't wait to take it home with me.

I think I might need to see what happens

as far as the manifestation becoming a reality,

but it does feel like strong energy,

so we'll see what happens.

There is a special bond and connection between us.

I think that it's called love.

What do you know about tantra?

Tantra? Now, tantra, I've heard about tantra.

I'm curious about.

I really would love to find somebody

that's into tantric sex.

However, I'm a big guy, not as flexible as other people,

so I might have to lose weight first.

What do I know about tantra?

I didn't know there was tantra outside the bedroom,

first of all.

There's a lot of guys out there who go,

"Oh, I practice tantra,"

and you're supposed to be turned on by that.

It's denial of climax, and I'm like,

"Why? Why would you do that?"

If I had a nickel for every time,

"Sorry that happened so quickly. We'll go again in a while."

It takes us longer. Tantric for women

is just the end all be all.

The only thing I know about tantra is that it's--

that Sting is really into it,

so as a result that seems incredibly nonsexual to me.

Being a blonde with these big titties

and tanned skin means I stick out a little bit more,

and I like that.

I get paid to do sex work.

The money that I make comes from posting pictures

or videos on private platforms.

I sell my body online, virtually,

and I love that I get paid to be slutty.

Whoop!

Okay. When-- and when you tickle me,

make sure, like if I'm going away from you,

you grab my hair back

- or something. - Okay. Okay. Okay.

Like, keep tickling me. Like, make it be torturous.

Okay. Make it torturous.

Yeah. This is such torture.

Ooh.

- Oh, hi. -

I never expected in a million years

that I would be here today.

Six months ago, I thought that working as a nurse in California

was the end of my story, and then here I am,

a totally different life than I expected

but I'm having a blast.

Okay. Shit.

Before I moved here,

I was a hairdresser for seven years.

I managed a salon, had a full book clientele.

I wanted to pursue modeling and get into it more.

My ex-boyfriend didn't like it.

He didn't want me to ever do it.

So then when I broke up with him,

I was like, "All right. I finally, like,

I can focus on me. I can do what I want to do."

And then when the opportunity, like, took me here to Vegas,

I was like, "I have to take it.

This is something I've always wanted to do."

So I had to come out here.

If you asked me if I would ever do this,

I'd be like, "No."

But before all this, I was living in Houston, Texas.

I was in a bad situation

with an ex-boyfriend who lingered.

And so, I--I came to Vegas

and I got the opportunity to develop true friendship,

and get paid to do the best job ever.

Yeah, no, you're torturing me.

So, what brought me to Vegas was

I was doing social media on the side,

going to some photo shoots.

I was mostly doing brand deals at the time.

Um, like energy drinks, or CBD companies,

and things like that.

And I went to a group shoot.

At the group shoot, there was a manager there who

said he was gonna start a reality TV show

about girls doing social media full-time.

It's gonna be all blondes,

it's gonna be a big collaborative house.

So when we get together, all of our followers,

or all of our fans will see each other,

and we'll cross-promote, and it would be just kind of

a big cross-promotion.

At the time, it was really neat because I was just kind of

doing social media on the side, but I was like,

this seems like a great opportunity.

And he told me once this collaboration comes together,

he's like, "You're not gonna need to go back

to your regular jobs." So it seemed like

a really awesome opportunity,

and all of us quit our regular jobs,

uprooted our lives, moved into a house together,

and unfortunately, the show didn't make it.

- Single. Single, hey.

A lot of us realized that it wasn't going well,

and it wasn't exactly what we wanted.

The reality show thing didn't work out.

But these group of women,

I finally felt like I had true friendship.

And so, I decided to stay out here

and get a house.

And now we all live together, and it's really amazing.

- No. -

No way.

We had developed a sisterhood so well

that I was like, "Well, if they're staying, I'm staying."

And so, even before everything started to fall apart,

we all knew we were there for each other at that point.

We're like, "Okay. We're in this together."

I want to actually grow and have other businesses,

and, like, grow my brand.

That's just a way for me to be able to fund

what else I wanna do.

That's the ultimate goal.

- Okay. This is inside out. Oh, my God.

I told myself, by the time I'm thirty,

like, I wanna make six figures.

Here I am at 27, and I just conquered that.

And now, I'm looking at buying a house,

and I can be anywhere I want.

So, my goal is to kind of travel the world,

see as much as I can see,

and then go back to doing what I love,

hopefully working as a nurse somewhere,

and then, doing this on the side,

and expanding on it always.

But the freedom to move around, and, of course,

the income has definitely changed my life.

You got it.

Actually, this is an entire outfit.

When I finish my business degree,

I'm interested in e-commerce.

I'd like to do something online.

I'm very comfortable working from home.

On my page, they're gonna want a lot more.

So if you guys can think of something that we could do...

- Yeah. - ...because we'd--I don't think

- we have whipped cream. - We can play the games.

I have those-- the candy games that I got

- with the truth or dare... We need another one.

...show a nipple, I don't know, like, random things.

It's cool to work with girls

that are doing the exact same thing

because we can relate to each other,

we can help each other.

We always have each other's backs

to keep each other growing.

You know that if you fall down, there's still people there

that are gonna pick you back up because we would do that

for each other any day.

If it wasn't for that,

I definitely would have gone back to my regular job.

When we first went into the house,

we each had our roles.

Linny's was coaching us,

and helping us on how the platform worked.

She's the mom of the house.

That's honestly how I think of her

because I take a lot of advice from her.

And she's taught me a lot just with social media.

We all thought we had an idea of what we knew

what we were doing, but when she saw--

sat us down, and we realized there's so many features

that we weren't using, and she gave us the confidence

to use these features, too.

There was a lot of stuff I thought like,

I could never do, and she would sit us down,

and say, "No, like, this is how it's done.

Don't be too hard on yourself."

She really has that motherly vibe, very encouraging.

I actually know how to make money and market.

Like, Linny's definitely showed me, like, what to do,

how to talk, and, like, be more comfortable.

Oh, wow, baby, that's an 8.5.

Oh, my pussy is just dripping.

On OnlyFans, like, I started just, like, topless.

Like, now, I'm comfortable showing a little bit more.

I love that hard cock.

Okay.

I'm getting, like, a little bit more, like, open.

I am older than these girls,

and I've been in the game a lot longer.

When I first started seeing my numbers

double, triple, quadruple,

I gained, like, a passion to wanna help other women.

I'm going live today... Ooh.

at, like, 4:00, which is 7:00...

That'll be good. - East Coast time,

which is perfect.

And I've already done Topless Tuesday tip game.

You know, these tip games, you have to be available for.

- Yeah. Once I put the tip game

- on my page, I-- You send it out.

I send it out as a mass message, but I copy the link.

- Mm-hmm. - And I say, "Tip this post."

Yeah. Oh, okay.

So that they can go directly to it and tip it.

Mm-hmm.

I see myself as an OnlyFans expert.

I have studied so hard on this platform.

I mean, I have an entire schedule.

I do tip games.

I do, like, spin the wheel games.

It's marketing. It's a business.

And they're gonna be like, you know?

- Yeah, yeah, yeah. -

- And it'll, like, squirt. - Mm-hmm.

I'm a business student. I'm actually in my last semester

of my business degree.

Okay, so, topless pic, and then, we'll do 15 topless video.

Twenty dollars will be topless video,

plus watch me-- watch me write your name

while I talk to you.

Okay. That's Tuesday.

- It's a lot of work. - Yeah.

If you're doing it right, and you're making money,

you're working.

I think it's fun. It's like playing a role.

Like, you look at, like, Marilyn Monroe,

and all these, like, you know, sex icons,

and people don't always expect you to have brains, too.

But it's like, yeah, I can be blonde and be smart.

And people expect us to be so, you know,

free-spirited sexually, which a lot of people are.

But, uh, you wouldn't be able to tell from somebody's platform

what their actual preferences

or personality is, I don't think.

- Exactly, yeah. -

Even though OnlyFans is geared

towards the porn industry,

the type of content that I make is very different.

I don't talk dirty to the camera,

but I still do kind of a more of a sexy dance.

You know, I've experimented a little bit,

and I've taken notes from the girls,

and they'll even tell me, like,

"Google all the sexy words for this."

And, you know, they've tried to help

and coach me in it a lot,

and I've--I've--I've used a lot of what they taught me.

But when I do go after it a little bit more,

my fans can tell when I'm not being real with them,

and they'll call me out on it in a second.

And what's really cool is the more that I embraced it,

I got more of a positive response from them

because I wasn't trying to be something different,

or someone that I'm not,

and it--it's definitely what works best for me,

and I have so much fun doing it.

Bryan got the $20... Mm-hmm.

where it's the topless video plus watch me write your name

while I talk to you and touch myself.

Hi, Bryan.

Hmm, I've been waiting to write your name on my chest.

Wouldn't you like it if I had your name

written on my chest, and I fuck myself to you?

All right.

Bryan, and I'll put a little heart for you at the end.

So if you tip me 65 right now,

I'll come to you.

Sometimes, I can make a thousand.

Usually, I will hit a thousand,

typically, like in an hour and a half,

I'll hit a thousand.

The more and more fans that come to me with more--

and I wouldn't even say they're weird fetishes,

they're just sexual preferences that people have.

I think that it's really important

to be sexually open.

And because they're anonymous, it kind of makes me,

uh, more open to that, too.

My daily life is crazy. I wake up.

I work on my phone for two to three hours.

I have to go to the gym for at least two hours.

You have to, like, keep up your appearance--

nails, lashes. It's not just one picture.

I take hundreds of pictures a day.

I'm filming. I'm taking at least 10 videos a day,

then I have to splice that up, and cut it and edit it.

Editing takes hours, so I'll be working,

like, all day.

Since you're gonna be closer to this side.

Okay.

I can get a picture.

Between waking up, the messages, shooting them,

editing them, sending them out, making sure

they have the right price,

making sure that people are getting

- what they paid for. -

It is a 24 hour a day job.

I work so hard, I still spend about 10

to 12 hours a day because it's ever-changing.

Like, what might work today might not work tomorrow.

Hot.

- She comes in the room, "Hot." -

How are you? Thank you for joining.

There we--$35 already. How's my goddess doing?

Babe, I've missed you.

All right. Here we go.

"Finger pussy for one minute."

Oh, my God. My pussy is so tight.

Ah, fuck, I'm gonna fucking come.

Oh, Walgreens is calling me.

That was perfect timing.

Oh my God, I'm crying.

I'm very proud of where I've come from,

and I'm very proud of my success in this industry.

You know, last year, I was struggling

to make 900 a month,

and I've already cleared six figures this year.

Yeah, I cried.

I'm getting chills right now, thinking about it,

because it's just--it's such a big milestone for me.

This job is empowering, and I think I love to see

people win, especially women,

because girl power.

And I love these girls.

The last person I was having sex with

was very well-endowed, which was very exciting for me.

I feel like I hit the holy grail of dicks.

I know a lot of girls say they like a really big wiener,

but I like an average wiener.

Definitely circumcised.

Definitely, like, no weird, like, colors.

Some of the dicks are speckled dicks,

like robin egg dicks, you know what I'm talking about?

Like, I didn't know-- oh, yeah.

If it's too big, it's uncomfortable.

If it's too small, you can't feel shit.

It ain't gonna work out.

Penises are funny, and like,

especially in ways that they can go in and out,

and there's like a horse thing that happens.

There's funny things that can happen.

You know, sex is funny.

Just like a good-looking dick.

Someone's watching this with their weird dick out.

Oh, hey. Oh, uh, come on in.

You guys are a little early.

Daddy, do you have your pants on?

No.

Well, uh, come on in here.

- - Hello.

Welcome to "Sex Life After Dark" with Amp.

- And Mr. Kristofer. - Though, Daddy,

why don't you tell everyone about who we are?

I am Mr. Kristofer. I am Amp's Daddy.

Thank you.

We've been in a relationship

for several years.

We are not boyfriends, but we do have

a very loving relationship, and are able to date

other people.

I'm more of the older, wiser viewpoint.

Sure. Anyway, I'm Amp,

and I kind of keep him on track.

I'm more of the straight man,

even if I am very gay.

We have a YouTube channel called "Watts The Safeword."

This is why you can't play with Daddy's toys.

- I'm the one that bought it. -

We talk about sex, dating, masturbating,

all sorts of kinky fun that happens in our sex lives.

Come on, papi. Ride Daddy.

Giddyup.

And now, we've got the show "Sex Life After Dark."

We talk about sex in a positive way

because the Lord knows your health class didn't.

- No. - And we make sure that people

feel not only engaged, but well-equipped,

whether it's below the belt or above,

when it comes to sex.

Blindfold, blindfold, blindfold is like the coolest thing.

And today, we're gonna talk to you guys about sex,

kink, masturbating, everything that happens

not only between the sheets, but between your ears.

We're kicking it up a notch.

Oh ho!

- Hello. - Hello.

Welcome to "Sex Life After Dark."

And today, we got a little dressed up, a little fancy.

- Cool. - Yeah.

So good to see you in clothes.

You kind of look like the preacher's kid.

Whether you're prim and proper,

dressed in leather and lace, or maybe you're a full dom top

in your full leathers,

you can't always judge a book by its cover.

We all have different backgrounds

and diverse sexual lives.

Even if we don't like sex.

I see you, asexual people.

All that to say, today we are gonna get kinky,

but we are gonna talk about some vanilla topics

as well. But before we get there,

we are gonna start with some of our favorite tops,

and I'm not just talking about us.

- Ooh, our top 10 inches? - Our top 10 list.

- Oh. -

Today's list is top 10 reasons why vanilla people

are afraid to get into kinks.

Reason number one--they think they'll be ruined

for normal sex.

Ooh. I can see that.

Because once you do it, it's hard to go back.

It's like ice cream. Once you have rocky road,

you don't want vanilla.

Daddy, these are-- these are fallacies.

So you're not supposed to agree with them.

Reason number two-- it's too much work.

Well, sometimes.

All you need is a tie. Tie your partner to the bed.

Like, that's really not that much more work.

One, two, three, tie you down. Easy.

Don't be lazy, people.

Reason number three-- being kinky means

you're psychologically unhealthy.

Actually, there are studies to prove that kinksters

are more psychologically healthy.

They know how to talk about their kinks, their wants,

their needs, and they're actually happier

in the bedroom, too.

Reason number four-- there's a fear of pain

- from kink. - Yeah.

But not all kinks are painful.

Some kinks are actually very gentle, and something

like puppy play, where you're getting into

a really good, like, animal headspace

- is very playful and fun. - Good boy.

Reason number five-- kinksters are more prone

to get STIs?

Oh, that's not true.

If anything, I think they're safer.

Reason number six-- they're afraid of failure.

- Who isn't? - We fail all the time,

whether it's normal sex, kinky sex.

Doing a show.

Reason number seven-- fear that your kinks

are too "out there."

Out there. Out there.

I mean, I don't even know what that means.

"Out there?" Kinks are right here.

They're in the bedroom. They're in our living room.

I think people are afraid that society is gonna judge them

because of the way we've been brought up.

Reason number eight-- kinksters don't crave love.

Who doesn't crave love?

Everybody loves love, regardless if you're sexual or not.

Reason number nine-- having a kink is dehumanizing.

Ugh. Only if I call you pig.

- Yeah. What else? Yeah.

- You like that, don't you? - I--yeah, dehumanize me, daddy.

Reason number 10, last but not least--

you can't have a normal life and a kinky sex life.

- What? - Hello?

Hello. We do both all the time.

We have normal jobs. We also have

some kinky side jobs,

and we seem to be able to juggle those just fine.

And that was our top 10 list.

Coming up next, we're talking to Dr. Laurie Bennett-Cook,

our designated sexpert.

Mmm, and have some sexy talks.

But first, we're gonna get

some Just The Tips from this guy.

Confucius once said, "It does not matter how slowly

you go as long as you do not stop."

Thank you for joining us today, Dr. LBC.

I'm curious, what is an easy way for a vanilla relationship

to try some new kinks?

Well, we have a kitchen full of toys.

Everybody does. We have toys here

but the average married couple doesn't have this type of toy.

A lot of times, they can be afraid to go to the store

to even shop for them, but there's so many things

that you can have just in your home.

Spatula, a wooden spoon, even a fork to use for scraping,

and do things like take showers together, do pull the hair,

try a different position.

It doesn't always have to be the same thing.

Smack your partner on the butt.

See if they like it. Do some tickling.

Blindfolds. Blindfold, blindfold, blindfold

is like the coolest thing,

and one of the easiest things to do.

Yeah. - Also restraining.

Like, just taking away those two sensories, and then,

adding a feather, or the spatula to spank.

Ooh, there's a good one.

So, do you think that kinks

should be more a part of the conversation

when it comes to sexual health?

Yeah. Most of us have something that we like

that we don't reveal to other people,

that we think is a little weird,

that somebody else won't understand.

Yeah. Because there are so many socially acceptable forms

of kinks and fetishes, like, just, stockings on women,

high heels, these are acceptable kinks,

but no one views it as that.

- Right. - What was your gateway kink?

What was the "Aha" moment that you had?

So, I didn't know that it was kink

because when I was a little girl,

I would play with my Barbies,

and I would tie them up naked,

and hang them from the top of the Barbie--

You didn't know that was kinky?

I was a little girl. I didn't know.

- That's normal. - And hang them

from the Barbie house, and then, Ken

would have to come and save her, "No. No."

And then they'd make out.

And so, years later, I'm an adult now and everything,

I had a date with this one guy,

and he was a cop.

And then, he took his gun out of his thing,

and, like, laid it on the table next to us.

- Like... I felt danger. - Hmm.

Right? - Yeah.

And then, he turned me around,

took the tie and blindfolded me

with his tie, and grabbed my hair and pushed me

on the bed.

That was that.

And now she's addicted to blindfolds.

I was gonna say, blindfolds keep coming up for you.

You can put earbuds in.

And then you can, like, totally program on your phone.

- So that's all they hear. - Yeah.

Which is really cool, too, because then they don't hear you

picking up whatever toy you're going for next.

Blindfolds are the top's best friend.

You can blindfold the sub and run around going,

"What am I doing next? What am I gonna do next?

What am I doing next?"

Because while you're going like, "Oh, what's next?"

the sub is sitting there going like, "Oh, I wonder what's next.

I wonder what's next."

And then, you just kind of like, give him a scratch.

They're like

Yeah, the one thing you never wanna hear while you're tied up

and blindfolded is..

"Oops."

And now, we're gonna talk with Erin and Ryan

about getting a little more hands-on to leave a good impact.

Erin and Ryan, welcome to the show.

How are you guys doing?

- Good. Thank you. - Thanks for having us.

Do you mind just telling us a little bit about yourselves?

Sure. We've been together seven and a half years.

I'm a standup comic, she does fetish modeling.

What are you guys into?

- We're really into impact play. - I like it rough.

He's a little concerned about being too rough.

When she's dominant and I'm submissive,

everything is fine.

However, when we go the other way, um,

I'm a little bit too up in my head about it

because I'm worried about actually injuring her.

A lot of people find that role play

is jarring for them because they have to be

this other person that they're not,

and it's really hard to do that with someone you love

'cause they know who you are.

But sometimes, I think we both feel

very silly in the moment.

It takes a little bit of communication,

and knowing why someone wants to do those kinks with you.

She doesn't want you to--to hurt her

to actually hurt her, she gets turned on

by you getting aggressive and getting in the mood.

Ooh, ooh, idea.

Imagine Erin is in the audience

of one of your shows, and she keeps heckling you,

and you take maybe a menu from the bar,

and you just start whacking her with it.

What kind of club is this?

A sex club. That also has stand-up.

You could take in all your heckler aggression on me.

Would that make you feel better?

- It would. - Channel that.

I love it.

She left it on the bed for me to discover.

That's actually a good beginner toy

because it's kind of a little bit wide.

The leather is doubled over,

so it's gonna sound like it's hurting more

than it actually really is.

I see what you're saying.

It's also important for the sub

to make pleasurable noises when you like something.

And if you want it to go a little harder, Erin,

just be a little bratty, and that should do the trick.

Do you want to actually try a little bit?

Yeah. Count me in.

And assume the position.

Rub her buttocks, squeeze it a little bit.

That gets the blood flowing, and it also prepares her

for where you're planning on hitting.

The safe word is "tuberculosis."

When you start to go harder, pause.

Erin, on a scale of one to ten, one being like you're asleep,

ten being, "Oh, my God, stop!"

- Where are you at? - Two.

So take it up to a four.

- Was that a good four? - Not really.

I think you could amp it up a little bit.

Ooh. So, there's the back talk.

- Woohoo. - We're kicking it up a notch.

- Oh. - There you go.

All right, Erin, why don't you show Ryan how you like it?

- I'm ready. - Prepare your buns.

- - Ooh.

- - Aah! Are you crazy?

See, look at that.

So, you guys can still joke and have fun.

Well, I hope that helped you guys out,

and that you guys will explore more and hit harder.

Absolutely. It was a lot of fun.

We really appreciate your help, guys.

- Seriously. Bye. - Bye.

So you know porn.

I do know porn.

You've watched plenty of porn.

Do you think you could tell the difference

between something a porn star said

and a politician?

Ooh, that's different.

I'm going to read off a quote, and I want you

to tell me if a porn star said it,

or if it was something a politician said.

Hit me.

The first quote...

Porn star or politician?

So, first of all, what's a tyrannosaurus?

It's a dinosaur, right?

You not honestly know what a tyrannosaurus rex is?

It's--it's the--the ones with the little arms

like this? "Raar, raar."

Politician.

- Actually, yes. - Oh.

Senator Ted Kennedy said that.

- Wow. - Next quote...

That's a porn kind of line, right?

That's kind of like, "Thank God,

you pizza guys arrive."

Yes. It was a porn star.

Apparently, he was delivering an extra-large sausage pizza.

Which, for the record, stop starting porns

as if a delivery guy just shows up and fucks you.

No--nobody is just showing up, and all of a sudden--

anyway, you're right. Yes.

That's happened to me once.

- Wait, for real? - Yeah.

Next quote...

I'm gonna go politician.

Dang it. Yes.

- It was a politician. - Yeah!

Uh, President John Kennedy said that.

Next quote...

Politician.

- Yes. -

Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger.

Yeah, it was.

Hasta la vista, baby.

And it was on getting the cold shoulder

from his wife after backing President George W. Bush.

Wow. She held out.

The next quote says...

Politician.

Wrong.

It was--it was a porn star.

And the final quote...

That sounds like a rich Republican.

I'm gonna go with politician.

That was actually a quote from Barbara Bush.

Barbara Bush? You're kidding me.

- Well done, Daddy. - Oh, thank you.

You definitely know a porn star from a politician.

Let's answer some fan Q&As.

Okay. Daddy, are you ready for some more

fan-submitted questions?

- Yeah. Hit me. - Okay.

This next one asks...

Everybody's a little bit different.

Some people wanna have sex all the time...

Mm-hmm.

and some of us just every once in a while.

So you have to find a common ground.

Or you could try something new,

like bringing in a third.

Did someone say bring in a third?

Whoa.

Dr. LBC, would you like to join us

- on some questions? - Why, sure.

Talk about bedside manner.

The next question asks, "How do you best manage

time and expectations between dates and poly partners?"

Hmm, calendars.

Hmm, yeah. That's important.

So, when you have multiple boys and partners

all over the place, especially with time zones,

- people's-- - We get it.

You're popular, so many boys. Uch.

Well, that's true. Keeping everyone on track,

it's a lot of work.

Again though, communication works great,

and making sure you know where people stand

is super helpful.

And making sure nobody's left out of the equation.

You need to respect all the players.

For instance, if you're gonna join

a threesome, it's probably best

to let us know that you're here

before you just pop up.

The next question asks, "How do you maintain closeness

"with your partner when you are unable

to provide sexual stimulation of any kind?"

Hmm.

Cuddles.

- Cuddles are nice. - Yeah.

Sexual stimulation isn't the only way to be close

- to someone. - Sure.

Letting your partner know how you feel about them,

whether they're physically close or not is really helpful,

and makes them know that you're thinking of them.

Hmm, or more cuddles.

Come on.

Thank you all for watching "Sex Life After Dark."

I've been Amp, and I just wanted to say that,

whether you're a vanilla or kinky,

we all come to the table with wants and needs,

and just looking to have a good time.

Are you wrapping up without me?

Why are you still wearing that?

I told you to change.

Ugh, I just got comfortable. Hmpf.

Um, and if there's one thing we can learn from Mr. Kristofer

is that it's never a bad idea to be the butt of the joke.

Daddy, that is not what I meant when I said to put

on a pair of chaps.

♪ Can you see these feet, they're running free ♪

♪ To a new world of discovery

♪ There's a fire in my heart

♪ There's a light that won't go out ♪

♪ From a knock down, I got up

♪ Now I'm standing on my own