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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:33,264 --> 00:00:35,755 To Dean of Admissions, Princeton University. 2 00:00:35,833 --> 00:00:37,858 The most influential person in my life... 3 00:00:37,935 --> 00:00:41,336 ... is Mother Teresa, whose example helped me overcome the arrogance... 4 00:00:41,405 --> 00:00:45,432 which threatened after my 1,600 SAT score and National Merit Scholarship. 5 00:00:45,508 --> 00:00:48,737 My influential person taught me the most important word I've learned. 6 00:00:48,810 --> 00:00:50,642 Aloha, which I... 7 00:00:54,046 --> 00:00:57,948 To the Dean of Admissions, Princeton University... 8 00:00:58,284 --> 00:01:00,479 from Cristina Moreno. 9 00:01:01,454 --> 00:01:06,153 Most influential person: My mother. No contest. 10 00:01:08,326 --> 00:01:11,384 I think I have been pointing toward this essay... 11 00:01:11,462 --> 00:01:16,126 ever since the day, 12 years ago in Mexico, when my father left. 12 00:01:21,505 --> 00:01:24,337 Such was my mother's need to protect me... 13 00:01:24,874 --> 00:01:27,536 that she would not let me see her cry. 14 00:01:31,046 --> 00:01:32,205 The trick was... 15 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:35,875 get over it as quickly and privately as possible. 16 00:01:51,262 --> 00:01:53,788 Such was my need to protect her... 17 00:01:53,866 --> 00:01:56,857 that I never let on that I could hear her. 18 00:02:07,243 --> 00:02:10,267 My mother kept us in Mexico as long as possible... 19 00:02:10,344 --> 00:02:13,335 to root me in all things Latin. 20 00:02:13,847 --> 00:02:17,908 Finally, she sensed our last opportunity for change. 21 00:02:19,219 --> 00:02:21,243 We would leave for America. 22 00:02:24,424 --> 00:02:25,652 "One tear." 23 00:02:26,591 --> 00:02:27,921 "Just one." 24 00:02:28,593 --> 00:02:31,653 "So make it a good one," she said. 25 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:45,671 She would be my Mexico. 26 00:02:52,045 --> 00:02:55,036 Because this admissions essay is open record... 27 00:02:55,781 --> 00:03:00,480 let me just say that our transportation into the United States was... 28 00:03:00,986 --> 00:03:02,510 economy class. 29 00:03:06,325 --> 00:03:08,486 In order to raise me properly... 30 00:03:08,594 --> 00:03:13,258 my mother needed as much of the security of her own culture as possible. 31 00:03:13,766 --> 00:03:15,290 So we rolled through Texas... 32 00:03:16,468 --> 00:03:18,094 just 34% Hispanic... 33 00:03:20,637 --> 00:03:22,536 to Los Angeles... 34 00:03:22,940 --> 00:03:25,303 48% Hispanic. 35 00:03:25,373 --> 00:03:28,069 ...look at the Detroit Pistons. 36 00:03:28,142 --> 00:03:31,043 And your mother's saying, "Get up!" But, no, what of it? 37 00:03:31,113 --> 00:03:33,637 You can't see them. Why? 'Cause you're being killed... 38 00:03:33,714 --> 00:03:36,239 you're being strangled by the psychotic Raider fans. 39 00:03:36,317 --> 00:03:39,844 What do you have in Oakland? You got a bunch of psychotic... 40 00:03:39,919 --> 00:03:42,977 A few minutes adrift in an alien environment... 41 00:03:44,123 --> 00:03:48,059 then we turned a corner, and we were right back home. 42 00:03:59,270 --> 00:04:02,636 My mother's favorite cousin, Monica, gave us shelter. 43 00:04:04,573 --> 00:04:06,541 For the next six years... 44 00:04:06,609 --> 00:04:09,940 neither of us ventured outside our new community. 45 00:04:11,378 --> 00:04:15,781 Mom worked two jobs, paying a total of $450 a week... 46 00:04:18,619 --> 00:04:22,452 each of us doing everything we could to make things work. 47 00:04:26,392 --> 00:04:29,156 We were safe and happy. 48 00:04:36,667 --> 00:04:38,895 If only I could have stayed six. 49 00:04:41,003 --> 00:04:43,164 But I was blossoming. 50 00:04:43,405 --> 00:04:45,498 And during my very first dance... 51 00:04:45,574 --> 00:04:47,598 in the time it took a boy's hand... 52 00:04:47,676 --> 00:04:50,406 to go from my back to my bottom... 53 00:04:50,813 --> 00:04:54,146 it was evident that she would have to leave her night job... 54 00:04:54,216 --> 00:04:56,343 to keep a watchful eye on me. 55 00:04:57,385 --> 00:05:01,115 Within days, she was on her way to a job interview. 56 00:05:01,854 --> 00:05:05,585 She needed $450 from one job. 57 00:05:06,258 --> 00:05:09,921 And that meant, after all her time in America... 58 00:05:11,263 --> 00:05:14,323 finally entering a foreign land. 59 00:05:20,337 --> 00:05:21,463 Hello? 60 00:05:21,838 --> 00:05:26,364 Yeah, hi. We're here for the interview with Mrs. Clasky? 61 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,773 Oh, great. You made it. 62 00:05:29,477 --> 00:05:33,107 Come on in. The front door's open and we're out back. Okay? 63 00:05:33,181 --> 00:05:34,944 And call me Deborah. 64 00:05:41,889 --> 00:05:43,823 Holding out had helped though. 65 00:05:47,594 --> 00:05:49,992 She was no longer intimidated. 66 00:05:52,598 --> 00:05:55,759 Working for Anglos now posed no problems. 67 00:05:56,332 --> 00:05:58,061 It would just be a job. 68 00:05:59,202 --> 00:06:01,101 White America beckoned. 69 00:06:02,104 --> 00:06:04,903 She stepped across the cultural divide. 70 00:06:13,615 --> 00:06:15,445 Gee whiz in heaven, are you okay? 71 00:06:15,516 --> 00:06:17,484 No. Don't worry, I'm not mad. 72 00:06:17,551 --> 00:06:22,045 I've been looking for decoration to put up on the glass so people wouldn't walk into it. 73 00:06:22,122 --> 00:06:25,614 Instead of taking what was in stock, which was awful, I special ordered... 74 00:06:25,692 --> 00:06:28,660 but I'll design something myself, which I should've done... 75 00:06:28,729 --> 00:06:31,027 What does that matter when your nose is bleeding? 76 00:06:31,098 --> 00:06:33,461 - Shut up, Deborah. - Now you got it, Mom. 77 00:06:33,697 --> 00:06:36,860 - There's no ice pack, Bern! - So get anything frozen. 78 00:06:46,707 --> 00:06:49,233 Pressure! Just pressure! 79 00:06:50,412 --> 00:06:51,470 Take this. 80 00:06:55,817 --> 00:06:59,479 Is it strange that I just gave you money? I just felt really badly. 81 00:07:00,422 --> 00:07:01,752 It's okay. 82 00:07:07,726 --> 00:07:09,487 Chum, knock it off! 83 00:07:09,726 --> 00:07:12,320 I'm sorry about the way the place looks. 84 00:07:12,396 --> 00:07:15,229 I'm hosting a fundraiser for the school tonight. 85 00:07:15,300 --> 00:07:17,790 It's just a mess. Come sit right here. 86 00:07:18,601 --> 00:07:20,263 Here you go. 87 00:07:20,971 --> 00:07:22,734 Yeah, just... That's great. 88 00:07:22,806 --> 00:07:24,864 Just toss it. 89 00:07:29,644 --> 00:07:32,272 She's my cousin. 90 00:07:32,347 --> 00:07:36,113 She's been here for a while and she understands some, but doesn't really... 91 00:07:36,184 --> 00:07:39,050 speak English, but, anyway... 92 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,383 She lives in the apartment I manage and... 93 00:07:41,455 --> 00:07:43,889 - So who am I interviewing? - Her. 94 00:07:45,793 --> 00:07:47,349 You're gorgeous. 95 00:07:52,430 --> 00:07:56,364 She didn't mean it as a compliment. It's more of an accusation. 96 00:07:57,434 --> 00:07:59,333 - Mother! - Go ahead. 97 00:08:01,136 --> 00:08:04,334 I'm sorry. This is my daughter, Bernie... 98 00:08:04,407 --> 00:08:07,603 - and my mother, Evelyn Wright. - Evelyn. 99 00:08:11,481 --> 00:08:14,472 - Do you want to come in out of the sun? - No, we're fine. 100 00:08:14,550 --> 00:08:17,018 You need some sunscreen? I got a 70 here. 101 00:08:19,086 --> 00:08:20,246 She loves the sun. 102 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:23,255 Look, we're wearing the same sweater. That's good booga-booga. 103 00:08:23,322 --> 00:08:25,482 You want some lemonade, maybe? 104 00:08:26,991 --> 00:08:30,257 Lemonade, please? Would you like to take some? Both of you? 105 00:08:33,164 --> 00:08:35,256 Okay, let's just talk. 106 00:08:36,935 --> 00:08:41,428 I have two children. My husband is a top chef. Like that makes me something. 107 00:08:41,505 --> 00:08:45,200 - Anyway, he works nights, so... - Do you work? 108 00:08:45,273 --> 00:08:48,037 Yes. No. Not right now. Why? How do you know to ask that? 109 00:08:48,110 --> 00:08:50,135 It's okay. I can talk about it. I just... 110 00:08:50,212 --> 00:08:52,806 I ran a commercial design company until four months ago... 111 00:08:52,881 --> 00:08:54,040 when it was downsized to zip. 112 00:08:54,115 --> 00:08:57,050 - Now I'm a full-time mom. Gulp! - Double gulp. 113 00:08:58,086 --> 00:09:01,180 I have two children. My son Georgie is nine, Bernie you know... 114 00:09:01,255 --> 00:09:03,881 and I like the house to be like me, you know... 115 00:09:03,957 --> 00:09:07,448 I'm very loose and meticulous at the same time. 116 00:09:07,526 --> 00:09:09,857 It's all about first names and closeness here. 117 00:09:09,926 --> 00:09:12,759 Let her know, absolutely. But I do care about the place. 118 00:09:12,829 --> 00:09:15,731 I'm so sorry, I'm not leaving you time to translate. 119 00:09:24,441 --> 00:09:25,703 What's your name? 120 00:09:25,776 --> 00:09:28,505 Llamo. It's one of my five Spanish words. 121 00:09:28,779 --> 00:09:30,268 Flor Moreno. 122 00:09:30,947 --> 00:09:32,141 Floor? 123 00:09:33,216 --> 00:09:34,340 Flor. 124 00:09:34,416 --> 00:09:36,940 - Floor? - No, Flor. 125 00:09:38,686 --> 00:09:40,415 Floor. 126 00:09:40,585 --> 00:09:41,951 Flor. 127 00:09:42,354 --> 00:09:45,118 - It means "flower," right? - Flower, yes. 128 00:09:45,590 --> 00:09:49,321 - Floor! What I walk on, right? - Flor. 129 00:09:49,462 --> 00:09:51,895 - Flor. - Flor! 130 00:09:52,364 --> 00:09:55,821 Is there some school of the ear I'm flunking out off right now? 131 00:10:11,181 --> 00:10:12,579 What'd she say? 132 00:10:12,649 --> 00:10:16,550 She says if you curl your tongue, then let it be loose, you'll get it... 133 00:10:16,618 --> 00:10:18,812 and that it's really hard for Americans... 134 00:10:18,885 --> 00:10:22,548 and that it's great you try so hard. Because most people wouldn't bother. 135 00:10:25,389 --> 00:10:26,721 She gets me. 136 00:10:31,062 --> 00:10:32,154 Flor. 137 00:10:38,570 --> 00:10:40,469 Dense, but stubborn, right? 138 00:10:40,872 --> 00:10:45,468 Now, see what you just did for me? That is just what the kids need. 139 00:10:46,110 --> 00:10:48,773 Patience and encouragement. 140 00:10:49,745 --> 00:10:51,212 All right, money. 141 00:10:51,279 --> 00:10:54,407 - Goodbye. Look forward to seeing you. - Love you. 142 00:10:54,483 --> 00:10:58,417 The job is six days a week. Seven, eight, 12 hours, it depends. 143 00:10:58,484 --> 00:11:00,510 All the housekeeping, driving the kids. 144 00:11:00,586 --> 00:11:02,418 How much a week do you want? 145 00:11:06,091 --> 00:11:07,388 - Whatever you say. - No! 146 00:11:07,460 --> 00:11:09,620 No. This is a very important question... 147 00:11:09,695 --> 00:11:13,222 because if you ask for too little, it means you don't value yourself. 148 00:11:13,299 --> 00:11:16,663 You ask for too much, it means you're taking advantage. So? 149 00:11:21,972 --> 00:11:23,564 $1,000. 150 00:11:28,845 --> 00:11:30,209 She's kidding! 151 00:11:37,651 --> 00:11:39,141 $650! 152 00:11:43,221 --> 00:11:44,813 Welcome to the family. 153 00:11:51,963 --> 00:11:54,124 Come on. I want to show you around. 154 00:11:54,633 --> 00:11:55,793 Come on! 155 00:11:58,236 --> 00:12:02,366 I had never known that my mother had been chronically worried about money... 156 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:07,137 until the first glimpse of her as financially unburdened. 157 00:12:08,510 --> 00:12:10,706 Can we have a table for two, please? 158 00:12:12,246 --> 00:12:14,941 - We're celebrating. - Okay, right this way. 159 00:12:22,989 --> 00:12:24,217 Is this good? 160 00:12:25,692 --> 00:12:27,523 - Gracias. - You're welcome. 161 00:12:31,996 --> 00:12:33,156 Here you go. 162 00:12:34,566 --> 00:12:35,624 Enjoy. 163 00:12:35,700 --> 00:12:37,429 - Gracias. - You're welcome. 164 00:12:39,370 --> 00:12:41,201 Whoa, expensive. 165 00:12:49,144 --> 00:12:50,236 Excuse me. 166 00:12:50,779 --> 00:12:53,977 Those men would like to buy you a drink. 167 00:13:05,725 --> 00:13:07,056 Thank you. 168 00:13:07,594 --> 00:13:09,892 - No, gracias. - Okay. 169 00:13:15,668 --> 00:13:16,827 Sorry. 170 00:13:32,680 --> 00:13:34,841 This is so embarrassing. 171 00:13:35,717 --> 00:13:38,948 My mother said to tell them, "Who do you think you are? 172 00:13:39,020 --> 00:13:41,989 "Can't you see I'm with my daughter, for God's sake?" 173 00:13:43,490 --> 00:13:44,549 Good. 174 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:50,489 She said, "Who do you think you are?" 175 00:13:50,562 --> 00:13:53,998 She's with her daughter, for God's sake. Her young daughter. 176 00:14:07,810 --> 00:14:09,471 Passing on the left! 177 00:14:11,244 --> 00:14:12,337 Left! 178 00:14:16,383 --> 00:14:19,114 Morning, Flor. See you up there. 179 00:14:39,704 --> 00:14:42,137 Hey! Will you try this? 180 00:14:51,379 --> 00:14:52,971 Isn't that good? 181 00:14:59,087 --> 00:15:01,349 Okay, think seriously about getting up. 182 00:15:01,421 --> 00:15:04,652 You don't have to get up yet, but are you thinking seriously about it? 183 00:15:04,724 --> 00:15:06,054 - Yes. - Okay. 184 00:15:10,063 --> 00:15:13,031 My God. This is amazing! 185 00:15:13,098 --> 00:15:14,999 A simple "it's good" will do. 186 00:15:17,303 --> 00:15:18,826 I'm glad you like it. 187 00:15:20,037 --> 00:15:21,936 But you could do without this. 188 00:15:27,875 --> 00:15:29,035 No! 189 00:15:30,912 --> 00:15:34,905 Flor, never do fetch to Chum! Never! 190 00:15:36,617 --> 00:15:40,347 I'm not mad. I'm thinking of you. 191 00:15:40,687 --> 00:15:42,679 This is me being nice. 192 00:15:44,358 --> 00:15:45,917 Okay. It's just... 193 00:15:45,994 --> 00:15:49,724 no taking the ball from the dog. Just don't. No fetch. 194 00:15:49,831 --> 00:15:54,322 No. Never do fetch with this dog. Okay? Never. 195 00:15:55,334 --> 00:15:59,324 Here, can you make us some coffee, maybe? Yeah? 196 00:15:59,402 --> 00:16:01,893 Okay. Right. Thank you. 197 00:16:12,248 --> 00:16:15,183 - Now? - Yes, actual up. 198 00:16:17,885 --> 00:16:18,977 Hey, Dad! 199 00:16:20,521 --> 00:16:23,717 Are you as mad at me as Mom 'cause of what happened? 200 00:16:30,697 --> 00:16:32,528 No, Georgie, I'm not. 201 00:16:33,133 --> 00:16:34,794 Are you mad at me? 202 00:16:36,867 --> 00:16:38,495 - No. - Good. 203 00:16:38,903 --> 00:16:40,336 Let's hope. 204 00:16:41,371 --> 00:16:45,965 When it comes to the kids, John, we got to stay on the same page! 205 00:16:46,942 --> 00:16:51,242 United. Doing consistent parenting. 206 00:16:51,313 --> 00:16:54,941 Do you know how many books on parenting I've read? 207 00:16:55,016 --> 00:16:59,248 Deb, since high school we've been able to read each other. Take advantage of it. 208 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:02,983 Word for word, what did you say to Georgie exactly? 209 00:17:05,260 --> 00:17:06,953 "No, I'm not mad." 210 00:17:12,632 --> 00:17:13,961 Good guy... 211 00:17:14,698 --> 00:17:15,995 bad guy. 212 00:17:16,067 --> 00:17:18,126 Come on. 213 00:17:18,234 --> 00:17:21,762 What the hell are you doing? Everything's okay. 214 00:17:30,313 --> 00:17:32,609 - John. - Yes. 215 00:17:34,482 --> 00:17:37,883 Do you really think that cupping my breast... 216 00:17:38,386 --> 00:17:41,981 - is going to solve the issue here? - It's worked before. 217 00:17:43,124 --> 00:17:45,718 Now it's infuriating me. 218 00:17:46,027 --> 00:17:47,823 - Wrong breast. - Oh, my God! 219 00:17:47,895 --> 00:17:50,522 No, I know what you mean. 220 00:17:51,330 --> 00:17:55,561 Oh, my God. Don't do the calm thing. Just don't go there. Don't do that thing. 221 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:59,058 This is very important to you. Us. 222 00:17:59,135 --> 00:18:03,663 I just like to level with Georgie. That's why I answered him this way. 223 00:18:04,073 --> 00:18:06,098 This is not an argument, honey. 224 00:18:06,175 --> 00:18:08,166 Yes, it is! 225 00:18:08,244 --> 00:18:12,340 We're having a fight, John. A big fight, at last. 226 00:18:12,949 --> 00:18:15,884 So could you stop being so stark raving calm? 227 00:18:24,892 --> 00:18:27,122 Great God in heaven, save me. 228 00:18:30,161 --> 00:18:31,219 Hi. 229 00:18:34,866 --> 00:18:38,700 I didn't know Deb found somebody. You work here? 230 00:18:38,769 --> 00:18:41,397 You're gonna help out with the house and kids? 231 00:18:42,706 --> 00:18:45,835 You work here and you don't speak any English at all? 232 00:18:46,476 --> 00:18:50,741 All she has to do is dial 911 and press two for Spanish. 233 00:18:50,813 --> 00:18:51,904 This is... 234 00:18:52,881 --> 00:18:57,409 Flor, this is Georgie and this is John. John, this is Flor. 235 00:18:58,621 --> 00:18:59,780 Flor. 236 00:19:02,323 --> 00:19:04,291 Great. I'll take Georgie to school. 237 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:08,088 No, I'm doing it. I'm gonna show Flor the ropes. 238 00:19:09,962 --> 00:19:12,590 Flor, will you come with me, please? 239 00:19:18,536 --> 00:19:20,663 Come. Thank you. 240 00:19:22,473 --> 00:19:25,930 - She's mad. - You're fine. Deb? 241 00:19:26,310 --> 00:19:28,106 - What? - You love me. 242 00:19:48,494 --> 00:19:52,657 - Not the best place to stand, fella. - No, it's me. I'm bugged. 243 00:19:52,730 --> 00:19:54,392 I'm sorry. 244 00:19:54,466 --> 00:19:56,797 Not a problem. You're the new helper, Alex, right? 245 00:19:56,868 --> 00:19:59,064 Okay, welcome. First day. 246 00:19:59,138 --> 00:20:02,266 John, I have something very important to tell you. 247 00:20:10,047 --> 00:20:12,344 - Damn. - What? 248 00:20:12,415 --> 00:20:16,852 Victor recognized a food critic over the phone. 249 00:20:17,286 --> 00:20:19,685 - From? - The Times. 250 00:20:19,755 --> 00:20:23,154 I'll bet they sent her across the country just for us. 251 00:20:24,858 --> 00:20:28,347 - Lf you're nervous, take a walk. - I don't need a walk. 252 00:20:28,427 --> 00:20:30,986 I'll walk with you. I know a breathing thing. 253 00:20:31,062 --> 00:20:33,758 What do you think I'm worried about? How I'm gonna cook? 254 00:20:33,831 --> 00:20:36,493 That's not the thing. That's not the problem. 255 00:20:37,735 --> 00:20:41,603 I worked at a restaurant in New York that had four stars. 256 00:20:42,306 --> 00:20:45,400 It was like a line formed to become an asshole. 257 00:20:46,210 --> 00:20:48,576 People's accents changed. 258 00:20:50,147 --> 00:20:52,979 The heart went out of the place. You understand? 259 00:20:53,949 --> 00:20:56,815 - No. - I agree with everything you just said. 260 00:20:56,885 --> 00:21:01,342 I admire you for your feelings. I hope to adopt them as my own. 261 00:21:10,329 --> 00:21:11,762 Here we are, ladies. 262 00:21:13,232 --> 00:21:15,131 I don't know what to root for. 263 00:21:15,767 --> 00:21:18,430 The thought of one star gets me nauseous... 264 00:21:18,504 --> 00:21:22,996 but with four, there's no place to go but, "My God, they took away one of my stars!" 265 00:21:23,274 --> 00:21:26,539 - The Times liked the first course. - You know what you want? 266 00:21:28,012 --> 00:21:32,176 Three and a quarter stars. Yes, that would be perfect. 267 00:21:32,249 --> 00:21:35,445 It'd mean you're good, but not good enough to feel disappointed... 268 00:21:35,518 --> 00:21:37,485 you just missed out on excellence. 269 00:21:37,551 --> 00:21:40,520 You still get enough respect. Good people wanna work with you. 270 00:21:40,589 --> 00:21:42,249 Business is good, not crazy. 271 00:21:42,323 --> 00:21:46,087 You're right below the radar, where you get to mind your own business. 272 00:21:47,693 --> 00:21:49,752 That's a good, solid life. 273 00:21:51,397 --> 00:21:52,694 Big wipe. 274 00:22:04,043 --> 00:22:08,910 I'm in the vitamin section and this little hip-hop girl, what's her name? 275 00:22:10,079 --> 00:22:13,049 Nice surprise, thank you. You want some? 276 00:22:15,716 --> 00:22:19,117 This little hip-hop girl, what's her name? Grammys. 277 00:22:20,287 --> 00:22:23,813 She's famous. You kids know her. Oh, darn. 278 00:22:25,959 --> 00:22:30,259 God bless the language barrier. It keeps you from being bored with me. 279 00:22:31,799 --> 00:22:33,858 Anyway, she said: 280 00:22:34,699 --> 00:22:38,727 - "Aren't you Evelyn Wright?" - Oh, my God! 281 00:22:38,803 --> 00:22:42,000 First of all, that she remembered me from the old covers. 282 00:22:42,073 --> 00:22:44,599 - Yeah. - And then she... 283 00:22:45,910 --> 00:22:49,277 - Oh, please. Her name. - Stop it. 284 00:22:50,281 --> 00:22:53,737 - It makes the story so much better. - It's still a good story. 285 00:22:55,651 --> 00:22:56,948 She said: 286 00:22:58,921 --> 00:23:01,478 "Whenever I think everything's"... 287 00:23:02,255 --> 00:23:06,714 Pardon my French, pardon her French. "A mother-hm-hm... 288 00:23:08,395 --> 00:23:10,658 "I put on one of your records." 289 00:23:12,432 --> 00:23:13,955 Oh, my God. 290 00:23:14,033 --> 00:23:16,194 That is so sweet. 291 00:23:16,602 --> 00:23:20,538 Well, you think your life is embarrassing, and then... 292 00:23:21,107 --> 00:23:24,506 somebody finds encouragement in it. 293 00:23:25,309 --> 00:23:27,799 - You understand? - I think I do. 294 00:23:32,179 --> 00:23:34,647 Mom, it's not even noon. 295 00:23:39,887 --> 00:23:42,913 - This is going to work. - I don't know anything. 296 00:23:42,990 --> 00:23:44,753 Free your mind. 297 00:23:44,825 --> 00:23:47,623 "The president whose policies... 298 00:23:47,695 --> 00:23:51,129 "many consider responsible for the Great Depression." 299 00:23:51,196 --> 00:23:52,527 I don't know. 300 00:23:52,598 --> 00:23:54,828 - Name a vacuum cleaner. - What? 301 00:23:57,436 --> 00:23:59,461 - Okay, I got it. - Hoover. 302 00:23:59,538 --> 00:24:02,062 - I said I had it. You don't trust me? - Okay. 303 00:24:02,140 --> 00:24:04,006 I no longer know nothing. 304 00:24:04,075 --> 00:24:07,341 And Hoover was followed in office by... 305 00:24:08,247 --> 00:24:12,340 I'm just drawing blanks. I'm embarrassed. It's my own fault. 306 00:24:12,415 --> 00:24:16,008 I spent all my time on math, which I'm lucky if I don't flunk, anyway. 307 00:24:16,083 --> 00:24:17,414 Stop it. 308 00:24:18,652 --> 00:24:21,177 The man you're looking for is not a ruse. 309 00:24:21,255 --> 00:24:23,416 - What does "ruse" mean? - Phony. 310 00:24:26,692 --> 00:24:28,558 Roosevelt! 311 00:24:29,196 --> 00:24:32,562 If I'd ever heard of that word before, that would lock it in. 312 00:24:34,835 --> 00:24:37,326 - Surprise! New clothes. - What? 313 00:24:39,871 --> 00:24:42,999 - What did I do right? - It was a warehouse sale. 314 00:24:47,110 --> 00:24:49,873 I went nuts. I got so much stuff. 315 00:24:49,945 --> 00:24:52,345 Great! She needed a boost. 316 00:24:59,954 --> 00:25:03,651 That came together. I wouldn't wear it together, it's a little much. 317 00:25:13,933 --> 00:25:15,195 Eight? 318 00:25:17,102 --> 00:25:18,262 What? 319 00:25:22,041 --> 00:25:25,236 - Eight. - What? 320 00:25:28,045 --> 00:25:30,637 - Bernie, come on. Listen. - What's going on? 321 00:25:30,712 --> 00:25:33,908 You're gonna do it, and you're gonna look beautiful. 322 00:25:34,749 --> 00:25:38,775 Honey, I just... You are going to lose that weight, and... 323 00:26:02,172 --> 00:26:03,570 You know... 324 00:26:04,508 --> 00:26:07,408 I'm glad you didn't get here earlier, because... 325 00:26:08,244 --> 00:26:10,735 then I wouldn't be able to tell you that... 326 00:26:11,814 --> 00:26:14,181 your gift to me... 327 00:26:14,950 --> 00:26:16,281 is a ruse. 328 00:26:18,221 --> 00:26:21,949 - Honey, I... - Please, just excuse me. 329 00:26:22,756 --> 00:26:24,690 - Hey, Bernie... - I just... 330 00:26:25,526 --> 00:26:29,292 I just need to be alone right now, okay? I'm sorry. It's okay. 331 00:26:33,834 --> 00:26:37,167 We have to be able to endure this, John, if we're gonna help her. 332 00:26:37,237 --> 00:26:39,964 I'll just gonna hang out here and wait for you, okay? 333 00:26:40,037 --> 00:26:43,872 Her pediatrician intervened on his own daughter's weight, and she is an 8. 334 00:26:43,942 --> 00:26:46,636 Dad, don't. Didn't you ever just need a minute? 335 00:26:47,443 --> 00:26:48,602 Yes. 336 00:26:48,677 --> 00:26:51,043 This is the same page that I'm talking about, John. 337 00:26:51,114 --> 00:26:54,310 We gotta be on the same page. That's the most important thing. 338 00:26:54,383 --> 00:26:56,544 I don't know why it has to be so hard. 339 00:26:56,618 --> 00:26:58,142 I need a minute. 340 00:27:05,726 --> 00:27:09,389 She's right between the two sizes. I thought about it. 341 00:27:09,463 --> 00:27:13,090 What am I supposed to do? Encourage her denial... 342 00:27:13,165 --> 00:27:16,828 or motivate her to get herself in shape? Flor? 343 00:27:18,902 --> 00:27:20,062 Me go. 344 00:27:21,505 --> 00:27:24,167 - Okay. - I'll take you to the bus stop. 345 00:27:32,249 --> 00:27:34,409 Sorry, I didn't even help you with the door. 346 00:27:34,483 --> 00:27:36,540 No, what I meant was... 347 00:27:37,118 --> 00:27:39,915 My mother did not understand her male boss. 348 00:27:40,121 --> 00:27:44,182 He seemed as upset as she was over what had been done to Bernice... 349 00:27:44,259 --> 00:27:46,283 Shit! 350 00:27:46,361 --> 00:27:48,191 ... and yet had done nothing. 351 00:27:54,168 --> 00:27:57,602 I am running out of excuses for the lady of the house! 352 00:28:00,172 --> 00:28:04,072 But, man, Bernice's final is tomorrow. She didn't need this one. 353 00:28:04,140 --> 00:28:07,108 And just the look on her face when she got the gifts! 354 00:28:07,177 --> 00:28:08,973 Like for one second she thought... 355 00:28:09,044 --> 00:28:11,878 all her problems with her mother had been solved! 356 00:28:12,881 --> 00:28:15,509 He appeared to be a good man... 357 00:28:15,584 --> 00:28:19,179 but to someone with first-hand knowledge of Latin macho... 358 00:28:20,089 --> 00:28:23,752 he seemed to have the emotions of a Mexican woman. 359 00:28:29,997 --> 00:28:34,329 She had no idea of how to react, except to flee. 360 00:28:40,705 --> 00:28:42,935 What're you doing? We're still moving. 361 00:28:43,008 --> 00:28:45,670 I'll take you all the way to the bus stop. 362 00:28:48,178 --> 00:28:50,976 You got to let me take you all the way. 363 00:28:51,747 --> 00:28:53,612 I'll take you. 364 00:29:03,225 --> 00:29:04,692 All the way. 365 00:29:06,862 --> 00:29:08,830 How weird was this ride? 366 00:29:10,563 --> 00:29:12,497 Sorry. I'm sorry. 367 00:29:15,234 --> 00:29:17,723 Yes, you are released. Yes. 368 00:29:20,038 --> 00:29:21,505 Bye-bye. 369 00:29:46,460 --> 00:29:49,393 A simple request from my mother startled me. 370 00:29:49,895 --> 00:29:51,658 Her rules were bending. 371 00:29:51,730 --> 00:29:55,928 She was losing her battle to remain uninvolved with the Claskys. 372 00:30:04,476 --> 00:30:05,909 "Try it on." 373 00:30:12,982 --> 00:30:14,108 Try... 374 00:30:29,062 --> 00:30:32,029 Just. "Just try it on." 375 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,192 Just try on. 376 00:30:38,203 --> 00:30:39,533 Just. 377 00:30:42,707 --> 00:30:44,037 Just. 378 00:30:57,386 --> 00:30:59,786 There is one particular cultural difference... 379 00:30:59,855 --> 00:31:03,086 which I wish to explore academically at Princeton. 380 00:31:04,456 --> 00:31:06,652 American women, I believe... 381 00:31:06,726 --> 00:31:10,423 actually feel the same as Hispanic women about weight. 382 00:31:10,696 --> 00:31:13,257 A desire for the comfort of fullness. 383 00:31:13,999 --> 00:31:17,594 And when that desire is suppressed for style... 384 00:31:17,669 --> 00:31:20,400 and deprivation allowed to rule... 385 00:31:20,473 --> 00:31:22,802 dieting, exercising American women... 386 00:31:22,874 --> 00:31:23,772 Left! 387 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:27,503 ... become afraid of everything associated with being curvaceous... 388 00:31:28,111 --> 00:31:31,080 such as wantonness, lustfulness... 389 00:31:31,148 --> 00:31:32,137 Left! 390 00:31:32,215 --> 00:31:35,810 ... sex, food... 391 00:31:36,219 --> 00:31:37,618 motherhood. 392 00:31:38,455 --> 00:31:40,446 All that is best in life. 393 00:32:04,709 --> 00:32:05,698 Wow! 394 00:32:09,948 --> 00:32:11,813 Taste, she has. 395 00:32:12,916 --> 00:32:14,474 Just try it on. 396 00:32:17,519 --> 00:32:20,042 When did you learn to speak English? 397 00:32:22,690 --> 00:32:24,316 Just try it on. 398 00:32:25,726 --> 00:32:27,989 It's too tight. It doesn't fit. 399 00:32:30,630 --> 00:32:33,861 Bernice, just try it on. 400 00:32:34,501 --> 00:32:37,095 It's too small. I'm too big. 401 00:32:37,170 --> 00:32:39,830 - Just try it on! - Okay. 402 00:32:40,505 --> 00:32:41,995 I'll show you. 403 00:32:46,344 --> 00:32:47,538 Thanks. 404 00:32:51,448 --> 00:32:53,542 Lovely way to start the day. 405 00:32:53,617 --> 00:32:57,517 The world's most trim Mexican learns her first sentence... 406 00:32:58,153 --> 00:33:01,612 and uses it to watch me grunt my way... 407 00:33:02,691 --> 00:33:03,951 into a... 408 00:33:17,002 --> 00:33:20,233 - It fits! - Okay. 409 00:33:36,885 --> 00:33:37,874 No. 410 00:33:56,534 --> 00:33:57,728 Thanks. 411 00:34:33,833 --> 00:34:37,270 Whatever happened to Fr�re Jacques or Itsy-Bitsy Spider? 412 00:34:37,337 --> 00:34:39,033 - Make room. - I know. 413 00:34:39,106 --> 00:34:42,802 But every time he has a nightmare, I teach him one of my old songs. 414 00:34:42,876 --> 00:34:45,707 That way, his nightmares have a purpose. 415 00:34:46,543 --> 00:34:49,069 But I don't have to sing it for anyone. 416 00:34:49,147 --> 00:34:51,272 Right, you're clear on that. 417 00:34:52,815 --> 00:34:55,409 How many did you sell of this song, Grandma? 418 00:34:55,484 --> 00:34:57,576 He likes to know that stuff. 419 00:34:57,652 --> 00:34:59,119 She was huge. 420 00:35:00,588 --> 00:35:01,920 Here goes. 421 00:35:04,726 --> 00:35:08,253 76,000, which is great for a jazz album. 422 00:35:50,732 --> 00:35:51,892 Jesus. 423 00:36:04,209 --> 00:36:05,469 Fuck you. 424 00:36:10,346 --> 00:36:11,472 Dad! 425 00:36:11,547 --> 00:36:13,777 For Christ's sake, why are you screaming? 426 00:36:13,850 --> 00:36:17,047 Why, crazy father, why aren't you screaming? 427 00:36:19,355 --> 00:36:22,756 I'm working on it. The stunned thing has to get dealt with. 428 00:36:25,226 --> 00:36:26,523 "John Clasky..." 429 00:36:26,594 --> 00:36:28,152 - No. - Yes. 430 00:36:30,164 --> 00:36:33,155 "John Clasky, who, at 25... 431 00:36:33,233 --> 00:36:35,724 "made his mark on the New York restaurant scene... 432 00:36:35,802 --> 00:36:40,102 "has re-emerged as a young and confident veteran... 433 00:36:40,707 --> 00:36:42,607 "taking chances with his combinations..." 434 00:36:42,675 --> 00:36:44,538 - Dad. - Your sister's talking. 435 00:36:47,511 --> 00:36:50,206 "...beginning with a succession of appetizers... 436 00:36:50,279 --> 00:36:53,009 "is constantly yet casually daring." 437 00:36:54,250 --> 00:36:57,014 Dad, this is so great. 438 00:36:57,786 --> 00:36:59,378 Oh, my God. 439 00:37:00,489 --> 00:37:01,853 I think, here it is. 440 00:37:04,994 --> 00:37:09,589 "Eating at this perfect, smaller, passionate restaurant... 441 00:37:10,298 --> 00:37:13,199 "inspires one's own abandonment of caution. 442 00:37:14,467 --> 00:37:15,695 "To wit... 443 00:37:19,072 --> 00:37:22,335 "John Clasky is the best chef in the United States." 444 00:37:25,142 --> 00:37:28,270 - Look how great you read it. - Perfect, Dad. 445 00:37:31,682 --> 00:37:34,741 John, four stars. Oh, my God. 446 00:37:35,619 --> 00:37:37,518 You even look different to me. 447 00:37:38,488 --> 00:37:40,387 I wonder what Mom will do? 448 00:37:40,955 --> 00:37:42,855 I read it! 449 00:37:54,434 --> 00:37:58,166 All right. What is this? 450 00:37:58,537 --> 00:38:00,095 I don't know. 451 00:38:00,172 --> 00:38:03,504 I'm just so happy for you and all your hard work. 452 00:38:06,809 --> 00:38:08,401 Oh, my goodness. 453 00:38:14,350 --> 00:38:15,874 All right. 454 00:38:17,054 --> 00:38:19,452 Don't worry. I'll wait for you. 455 00:38:24,493 --> 00:38:25,825 Nice move. 456 00:38:27,130 --> 00:38:30,290 We are so smooth. Right on. 457 00:38:31,065 --> 00:38:34,831 Ladies and gentlemen, the mother of two children! Look at that. 458 00:38:38,603 --> 00:38:40,195 You look good. 459 00:38:41,105 --> 00:38:43,699 You're too beautiful. It's ridiculous. 460 00:38:44,442 --> 00:38:48,310 - I like you. - Okay, I love you. 461 00:38:48,779 --> 00:38:50,440 Go. 462 00:38:54,886 --> 00:38:56,784 You don't even need me, do you? 463 00:38:59,388 --> 00:39:02,289 Just go. Now she's on. 464 00:39:02,591 --> 00:39:04,058 It's all you! 465 00:39:33,983 --> 00:39:35,508 No. 466 00:39:37,888 --> 00:39:40,583 Don't get sad. You had fun, I swear. 467 00:39:41,458 --> 00:39:43,516 Deb, cheer up! 468 00:39:45,961 --> 00:39:48,155 What am I going to do about me? 469 00:39:51,566 --> 00:39:53,657 No, not yet! 470 00:39:57,269 --> 00:39:58,600 Great sex. 471 00:40:24,794 --> 00:40:26,227 It's John Clasky. 472 00:40:31,031 --> 00:40:32,794 "I read your good review." 473 00:40:34,902 --> 00:40:36,800 I read your good review. 474 00:40:38,236 --> 00:40:40,466 They read me your good review. 475 00:40:43,474 --> 00:40:45,942 - Nice. - Not so far. 476 00:40:49,981 --> 00:40:52,040 I'm sorry. How are you doing? 477 00:40:57,955 --> 00:40:59,650 I do fine. 478 00:41:06,962 --> 00:41:08,290 Be happy. 479 00:41:09,562 --> 00:41:10,825 Be happy. 480 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:14,899 Yeah. Absolutely. 481 00:41:25,745 --> 00:41:28,074 Congratulations. Good job. 482 00:41:28,145 --> 00:41:30,773 - I need to talk to you. - Oh, man. Okay. 483 00:41:31,815 --> 00:41:34,909 - You deserved it. - You were terrific. 484 00:41:35,386 --> 00:41:39,287 Congratulations. You guys worked hard. Way to go. 485 00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:47,189 - Pietro, what's wrong? - I got a fantastic offer for my own place. 486 00:41:48,362 --> 00:41:51,352 Everyone wants to back me since the paper came out. 487 00:41:54,533 --> 00:41:57,502 I can't lose you and keep the hours I'm keeping. 488 00:41:58,036 --> 00:42:02,268 I can't do my life unless I hold onto you. 489 00:42:06,078 --> 00:42:09,535 I think I just gave you an incredible bargaining position. 490 00:42:09,714 --> 00:42:12,809 So you gave away 20% of the restaurant... 491 00:42:14,485 --> 00:42:16,542 without even talking to me about it? 492 00:42:16,620 --> 00:42:19,611 I had to, right then, or I would have lost him. 493 00:42:19,689 --> 00:42:22,656 Then I wouldn't have enough time with the family. 494 00:42:31,332 --> 00:42:34,357 - I don't exist. - Sure you do. 495 00:42:37,771 --> 00:42:41,569 I was all worried, just trying to figure out the timing to talk to you... 496 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,369 about renting a place for the summer. 497 00:42:44,442 --> 00:42:46,307 I think you have your timing. 498 00:42:48,746 --> 00:42:51,681 - Mom, the realtor's here. You coming? - Go on. 499 00:42:51,749 --> 00:42:53,649 All right, I'll be back later. 500 00:43:02,057 --> 00:43:03,752 - Hi. - Hi there. 501 00:43:07,059 --> 00:43:08,857 - I'm Mike. - Deborah. Hi. 502 00:43:08,929 --> 00:43:13,093 There's a great rental that just came on the market, so we're starting at the top. 503 00:43:13,166 --> 00:43:14,325 - Okay. - Good. 504 00:43:27,613 --> 00:43:31,208 I'm never gonna be one of those girls whose hair... 505 00:43:32,916 --> 00:43:35,714 flows perfectly in a convertible. 506 00:43:36,620 --> 00:43:38,517 Move your seat forward. 507 00:43:39,187 --> 00:43:40,175 I just... 508 00:43:40,788 --> 00:43:43,155 A little more. Good. 509 00:43:56,737 --> 00:43:58,430 You must be trouble. 510 00:44:06,478 --> 00:44:07,945 Look at this. 511 00:44:10,848 --> 00:44:12,510 Isn't it gorgeous? 512 00:44:16,586 --> 00:44:20,351 It's beautiful. It's fabulous. Perfect. 513 00:44:21,023 --> 00:44:23,513 What word is the same in Spanish? 514 00:44:25,325 --> 00:44:26,656 Thank you. 515 00:44:28,028 --> 00:44:30,326 So, this will be your room, okay? 516 00:44:31,064 --> 00:44:34,363 Don't worry. I'm gonna put lots of nice stuff in here, too. 517 00:44:36,403 --> 00:44:38,701 Did you ask her if she could live in? 518 00:44:39,673 --> 00:44:42,801 Come on. There are no buses from her to here. 519 00:44:42,876 --> 00:44:45,401 There's no question. Double come on. 520 00:44:45,778 --> 00:44:47,768 The barrio, Carbon Beach. 521 00:44:49,847 --> 00:44:51,815 What to do? 522 00:44:52,016 --> 00:44:54,847 Come on, it's going to be so great. 523 00:44:54,918 --> 00:44:58,216 I'm gonna get someone to explain everything to you. Come on. 524 00:45:01,523 --> 00:45:04,458 You must learn English. Why won't she learn English? 525 00:45:04,526 --> 00:45:05,823 Be careful. 526 00:45:07,196 --> 00:45:10,859 I'm gonna have to learn "you must learn English" in Spanish. 527 00:45:11,467 --> 00:45:12,796 Excuse me. 528 00:45:16,269 --> 00:45:19,829 - Excuse me, do you speak English? - Yes, I do. 529 00:45:19,905 --> 00:45:23,341 Would you please help me? Will you translate for me with her? 530 00:45:25,044 --> 00:45:26,136 Sure. 531 00:45:26,979 --> 00:45:28,640 Sure. Forever. 532 00:45:29,215 --> 00:45:30,648 He's gonna... 533 00:45:31,381 --> 00:45:32,939 Give me a minute. 534 00:45:34,384 --> 00:45:36,284 Okay. Hi. 535 00:45:36,452 --> 00:45:38,476 I've rented a house for the summer... 536 00:45:38,552 --> 00:45:42,182 and she needs to sleep at the house because of the bus schedule. 537 00:45:50,265 --> 00:45:51,562 No, sorry. 538 00:45:51,633 --> 00:45:53,156 What? Why? 539 00:45:56,403 --> 00:45:58,871 She can't, because her daughter. 540 00:46:00,574 --> 00:46:02,371 You have a daughter? 541 00:46:03,075 --> 00:46:05,805 A whole daughter you've never mentioned? 542 00:46:06,245 --> 00:46:09,008 This is a little crazy that I don't know this. 543 00:46:09,746 --> 00:46:11,680 No, don't translate asides. 544 00:46:19,756 --> 00:46:21,747 She said she can't live here. 545 00:46:22,391 --> 00:46:24,621 - Because her daughter... - I got that. 546 00:46:31,799 --> 00:46:35,290 Her daughter can also live here for the summer. Go, tell her that. 547 00:46:35,369 --> 00:46:37,963 Deborah, if she didn't tell us about her child... 548 00:46:38,037 --> 00:46:40,472 she has to have a deep sense of privacy. 549 00:46:42,542 --> 00:46:45,010 We can figure out how she can still live at home. 550 00:46:45,078 --> 00:46:47,168 Hell, I don't mind driving her at night. 551 00:46:47,245 --> 00:46:50,179 Let's spare the world you on the roads, okay? 552 00:46:50,549 --> 00:46:52,345 What am I gonna do? 553 00:46:59,289 --> 00:47:02,655 I'm sorry, my friend, but this is what I need. 554 00:47:03,992 --> 00:47:05,960 It's just for the summer. 555 00:47:06,695 --> 00:47:09,129 I don't want to lose you, but... 556 00:47:48,096 --> 00:47:50,360 She said she live here with you. 557 00:47:52,499 --> 00:47:52,801 Hey, Cristina! 558 00:47:52,801 --> 00:47:54,291 Hey, Cristina! 559 00:47:54,868 --> 00:47:57,429 Malibu. Malibu. 560 00:48:02,709 --> 00:48:07,111 The first time one sees natural beauty which is privately owned... 561 00:48:07,613 --> 00:48:11,604 oceans as people's backyards confounds the senses. 562 00:48:11,681 --> 00:48:13,080 Oh, my gosh. 563 00:48:13,149 --> 00:48:15,982 I didn't know God had a toy store for the rich. 564 00:48:16,052 --> 00:48:19,317 The beaches are so clean. It's beautiful. 565 00:48:26,695 --> 00:48:28,162 Three months? 566 00:48:29,231 --> 00:48:32,223 We're gonna be staying here for three months. 567 00:48:33,900 --> 00:48:38,394 We're gonna be staying at this beach for three months! This is amazing! 568 00:48:41,405 --> 00:48:43,339 You want to go swimming? 569 00:48:52,249 --> 00:48:54,411 Look at this child. 570 00:48:55,819 --> 00:48:59,480 Oh, God, you could make a fortune at surrogate pregnancy. 571 00:49:01,523 --> 00:49:03,184 How you doing? I'm John. 572 00:49:03,258 --> 00:49:04,725 - Hello. - Great. 573 00:49:04,893 --> 00:49:06,952 Come on out and meet everybody. 574 00:49:08,030 --> 00:49:11,397 I'm Deborah and this is my daughter, Bernice. 575 00:49:13,435 --> 00:49:15,061 Here's Georgie... 576 00:49:16,104 --> 00:49:17,831 and my mother, Evelyn Wright. 577 00:49:17,903 --> 00:49:19,268 So glad to meet you. 578 00:49:19,339 --> 00:49:22,274 No comparisons, please. 579 00:49:22,941 --> 00:49:25,738 I'm not even gonna respond to that. Come here. 580 00:49:28,846 --> 00:49:33,214 My mom says it's best if we go, get out of your way, and put our things away. 581 00:49:33,316 --> 00:49:35,341 Yes, go get settled. 582 00:49:41,191 --> 00:49:43,785 Thank you so much. I'm thrilled to be here. 583 00:49:49,864 --> 00:49:51,126 Okay, here's the idea. 584 00:49:51,199 --> 00:49:55,634 I need to make a serving platter for serving fish out of sea glass like this. 585 00:49:56,668 --> 00:50:00,126 Just bits of broken glass that the ocean sand... 586 00:50:00,206 --> 00:50:02,070 blasts over the years. 587 00:50:02,574 --> 00:50:05,634 So here's the deal. You guys go hunting for it. 588 00:50:06,144 --> 00:50:09,204 I'll give you 50 cents for any piece you find. 589 00:50:10,515 --> 00:50:14,540 A dollar for any piece that's bigger than that sucker right there. 590 00:50:15,218 --> 00:50:19,712 All right, $5 for any piece that isn't brown, clear, or green. 591 00:50:20,457 --> 00:50:22,482 - Do we really have to do this? - What? 592 00:50:22,559 --> 00:50:26,119 - Come on. - Let's go. Let's do this. Have fun. 593 00:50:26,895 --> 00:50:28,988 - Come on, Chum. - Go get them, kid. 594 00:50:30,132 --> 00:50:32,657 - Me, too? - Yes, of course. 595 00:50:33,333 --> 00:50:34,664 Thank you. 596 00:50:42,006 --> 00:50:44,531 Oh, my God, Georgie. 597 00:51:21,608 --> 00:51:25,065 Cristina! Up here. Over here. 598 00:51:54,967 --> 00:51:56,457 What's wrong? 599 00:51:58,370 --> 00:52:00,396 She's wild-eyed over this. 600 00:52:01,873 --> 00:52:03,842 Flor. 601 00:52:10,982 --> 00:52:12,313 I'm sorry. 602 00:52:13,285 --> 00:52:14,718 Very sorry. 603 00:52:16,621 --> 00:52:19,111 Listen, she'll be back shortly. 604 00:52:22,325 --> 00:52:25,521 No, you don't have to work. Give me that. 605 00:52:34,301 --> 00:52:35,394 Here. 606 00:52:37,604 --> 00:52:38,799 Thanks. 607 00:52:41,842 --> 00:52:43,571 Deb made a mistake. 608 00:52:45,543 --> 00:52:47,568 I understand how you feel. 609 00:52:48,346 --> 00:52:51,247 Do you understand what I'm saying right now, at all? 610 00:52:52,449 --> 00:52:56,409 - No. - Good. Is simp�tico the word? 611 00:53:07,329 --> 00:53:09,662 Uno momento. That's Italian. 612 00:53:11,765 --> 00:53:14,528 I really am sorry that this is happening. 613 00:53:15,069 --> 00:53:17,036 I wanted you to know that. 614 00:53:17,437 --> 00:53:20,463 I really. So sorry. Truly. 615 00:53:23,342 --> 00:53:25,140 I didn't mean like... 616 00:53:28,580 --> 00:53:30,411 I meant just a normal sorry. 617 00:53:33,019 --> 00:53:34,986 So, I'm going to go to work. 618 00:53:44,926 --> 00:53:46,723 Thank you so much. 619 00:53:47,429 --> 00:53:51,057 - Thank you so much for taking me there. - Stop thanking me. 620 00:53:51,332 --> 00:53:53,823 I really enjoyed having the company. 621 00:53:54,401 --> 00:53:56,199 The flea market was just... 622 00:53:56,371 --> 00:53:59,238 I don't know what to say. It was just... 623 00:53:59,307 --> 00:54:00,829 so many things. 624 00:54:01,173 --> 00:54:04,403 And you. You knew so much about all of them. 625 00:54:05,143 --> 00:54:08,203 The way you made those people lower the prices, though. 626 00:54:08,747 --> 00:54:10,772 I just think that you're... 627 00:54:12,217 --> 00:54:16,244 - Never mind. - No, go ahead. I can take it. 628 00:54:17,055 --> 00:54:19,046 I just think that you're... 629 00:54:20,256 --> 00:54:23,453 the most amazing white woman that I've ever met. 630 00:54:29,263 --> 00:54:33,198 That is so nice to hear. 631 00:54:34,634 --> 00:54:38,765 Absurd, but deeply appreciated, Cristina. 632 00:54:46,313 --> 00:54:49,146 Oh, my gosh. Thank you so much. That was so fun. 633 00:54:51,115 --> 00:54:53,549 - This was the best day ever. - What? 634 00:54:54,285 --> 00:54:56,276 Did something bad happen? 635 00:54:58,587 --> 00:55:01,885 Cristina, tell your mother those wash right out. It's no big deal. 636 00:55:01,957 --> 00:55:03,447 Not right now. 637 00:55:07,697 --> 00:55:08,994 What? 638 00:55:09,965 --> 00:55:13,560 You can't just take someone else's kid and then make them over. 639 00:55:13,635 --> 00:55:17,296 Don't go there. Or I'll go there, and you know where "there" is. 640 00:55:22,809 --> 00:55:26,506 Can you believe what a big deal Flor is making this into? 641 00:55:28,214 --> 00:55:31,377 Please, shoot me if I ever become that hard to deal with. 642 00:55:49,430 --> 00:55:51,330 - What's this? - For you. 643 00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:53,360 From? 644 00:55:54,335 --> 00:55:56,462 Look, you are not yourself. 645 00:55:56,537 --> 00:55:59,972 This was written in anger. Will you hold on? 646 00:56:00,041 --> 00:56:02,635 Sleep on it. You still want me to have it, that's fine. 647 00:56:02,710 --> 00:56:03,870 Take the letter. 648 00:56:03,945 --> 00:56:07,343 I don't think that you will, once calm and rational thought returns. 649 00:56:07,412 --> 00:56:09,973 - Take the letter, Deborah. - Just sleep on it. 650 00:56:12,783 --> 00:56:15,512 She didn't even want us to know she had a daughter... 651 00:56:15,585 --> 00:56:19,317 and on the first day you take her kid away without even asking? 652 00:56:19,889 --> 00:56:22,221 - I think that's a little... - What? 653 00:56:22,625 --> 00:56:25,059 Insensitive? Elitist? 654 00:56:25,128 --> 00:56:29,087 Narcissistic? Irresponsible? Perverse? Dizzy? What? 655 00:56:29,332 --> 00:56:30,526 Stupid. 656 00:56:33,066 --> 00:56:35,592 When is anyone in this damn house... 657 00:56:35,669 --> 00:56:38,604 in this damn life gonna consider my feelings? 658 00:56:38,906 --> 00:56:41,397 I tried to make a lovely kid feel welcome. 659 00:56:41,475 --> 00:56:43,704 There is no reason to rake this over. 660 00:56:43,777 --> 00:56:48,009 I let it go and gave Flor the room to let it go, which I'm sure she has. 661 00:56:48,716 --> 00:56:52,342 It's over, so just get on board, pal. 662 00:56:55,019 --> 00:56:56,247 I slept. 663 00:57:13,668 --> 00:57:15,431 Well, I'm broke. 664 00:57:17,505 --> 00:57:20,872 No, please. Don't worry about it. You really don't have to pay me. 665 00:57:20,942 --> 00:57:23,738 - Please, don't worry about it. - I'm just kidding. 666 00:57:26,646 --> 00:57:30,080 - When you count it up, give me a holler. - I did count. 667 00:57:30,414 --> 00:57:34,077 Many times. I didn't sleep. I counted. 668 00:57:34,151 --> 00:57:37,086 All right, what do I owe you? Give it to me. 669 00:57:38,588 --> 00:57:40,022 $640. 670 00:57:41,558 --> 00:57:43,389 - Really? - Yes. 671 00:57:44,061 --> 00:57:46,324 - I'm really sorry. - No. 672 00:57:48,931 --> 00:57:51,058 All right. I don't know. 673 00:57:51,133 --> 00:57:54,534 How about we figure this out tomorrow, okay? 674 00:57:54,602 --> 00:57:57,594 You even told me, you said that $5... 675 00:57:57,905 --> 00:58:00,100 I know, I promised. 676 00:58:01,909 --> 00:58:05,845 It's all coming back to me now. Let me just go deal with this. 677 00:59:02,274 --> 00:59:04,173 Cristina? 678 00:59:34,211 --> 00:59:35,542 Oh, baby. 679 00:59:39,585 --> 00:59:42,521 My mother wishes for me to represent exactly what she says... 680 00:59:42,590 --> 00:59:44,717 - nothing else. - What? 681 00:59:46,094 --> 00:59:48,892 - May I talk to you? - You mean your mother? 682 00:59:53,735 --> 00:59:56,069 Yeah. Sure. 683 00:59:59,275 --> 01:00:01,004 You can talk to me. 684 01:00:03,347 --> 01:00:05,441 I don't have to sleep first? 685 01:00:11,090 --> 01:00:13,424 What's wrong? Come on, sit down. 686 01:00:16,164 --> 01:00:17,495 I'm sorry. 687 01:00:18,466 --> 01:00:20,900 Did you give this money to my daughter? 688 01:00:20,969 --> 01:00:24,633 I made a deal with the kids. All the kids. 689 01:00:25,875 --> 01:00:27,207 Oh, no! Please. 690 01:00:29,514 --> 01:00:33,383 You don't tell or ask the mother when you give a child a fortune... 691 01:00:33,719 --> 01:00:37,120 for looking on the beach for stones? 692 01:00:38,923 --> 01:00:41,553 - What is the word for this? - Sea glass. 693 01:00:45,898 --> 01:00:47,833 No, not a name for the stones. 694 01:00:50,506 --> 01:00:53,066 A name for the action, what you did. 695 01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:59,442 Oh, boy, engre�do is gonna be rough. 696 01:01:02,387 --> 01:01:03,480 Smug. 697 01:01:05,292 --> 01:01:08,487 I had no idea it was going to amount to that much money. 698 01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:10,961 I thought, sort of tops, $50. 699 01:01:20,308 --> 01:01:22,402 But $50 is a lot of money. 700 01:01:24,314 --> 01:01:26,578 I know. 701 01:01:28,086 --> 01:01:29,485 Oh, shit! 702 01:01:31,023 --> 01:01:33,116 I'm sorry. Come on. 703 01:01:34,860 --> 01:01:37,090 I get what you're upset about. 704 01:01:38,998 --> 01:01:40,329 Excuse me. 705 01:01:42,670 --> 01:01:45,834 It might not look it, but I am good at getting things. 706 01:01:50,581 --> 01:01:54,607 I know what it's like when you feel your kid's being messed with. 707 01:02:00,691 --> 01:02:02,556 It won't happen again. 708 01:02:08,434 --> 01:02:09,732 It won't. 709 01:02:14,943 --> 01:02:16,535 - All right. - Okay. 710 01:02:16,612 --> 01:02:19,139 It's late. You guys get some sleep. 711 01:02:21,585 --> 01:02:22,746 Sleep? 712 01:02:23,920 --> 01:02:24,945 No. 713 01:02:29,361 --> 01:02:32,852 If this was small enough to be helped by some little apology... 714 01:02:32,930 --> 01:02:34,990 I would be a fool to bring it up. 715 01:02:35,700 --> 01:02:38,568 But I need to say, no matter what the result... 716 01:02:39,839 --> 01:02:41,706 I need to be impolite. 717 01:02:43,945 --> 01:02:46,574 You leave someone else's child alone. 718 01:02:47,150 --> 01:02:48,742 It is simple, no? 719 01:02:48,819 --> 01:02:52,755 It is too easy for children to feel contradictions... 720 01:02:52,823 --> 01:02:55,691 and it encourages questioning their parents. 721 01:02:56,627 --> 01:02:58,994 And that makes them feel less safe. 722 01:03:00,566 --> 01:03:01,659 Look. 723 01:03:03,938 --> 01:03:06,304 Your wife takes her for little tours. 724 01:03:08,007 --> 01:03:10,067 And she changes her hair. 725 01:03:11,879 --> 01:03:13,609 And you give her money. 726 01:03:14,215 --> 01:03:16,479 Here, take back the money. 727 01:03:42,951 --> 01:03:47,012 I didn't really mean to be angry to you. Only emotional, for me. 728 01:03:53,330 --> 01:03:55,355 What about hypocritical? 729 01:03:58,771 --> 01:04:02,332 Yes, you heard me! It's not like you didn't do the same thing. 730 01:04:02,408 --> 01:04:03,876 Yes, you did. 731 01:04:03,944 --> 01:04:08,779 So why don't you go lecture yourself? You won't need a translator for that one. 732 01:04:09,082 --> 01:04:11,483 What am I lately, a recycling bin? 733 01:04:11,552 --> 01:04:15,490 Anybody dump in your garbage and hope I make something useful out of it? 734 01:04:16,393 --> 01:04:18,624 Yes, you did the same thing. 735 01:04:19,363 --> 01:04:23,300 You think I don't know about you altering those outfits for Bernie? 736 01:04:23,367 --> 01:04:25,358 She tells me her stuff. 737 01:04:25,603 --> 01:04:27,231 So am I missing something? 738 01:04:27,306 --> 01:04:31,538 Is there really a difference between that and what you're complaining about? 739 01:04:31,610 --> 01:04:33,009 Excuse me. 740 01:04:44,860 --> 01:04:47,329 There's no difference. I interfered. 741 01:04:51,103 --> 01:04:52,695 You're kidding me? 742 01:04:55,005 --> 01:04:57,942 It's just pretty wild to say something to somebody... 743 01:04:58,010 --> 01:05:00,946 and have the other person just concede the point. 744 01:05:04,216 --> 01:05:05,809 I'm dazed here. 745 01:05:18,737 --> 01:05:20,828 I feel really embarrassed. 746 01:05:24,342 --> 01:05:27,210 And you were very right. Hypocrisy, yes. 747 01:05:27,279 --> 01:05:30,875 Okay, that doesn't happen very often. 748 01:05:37,360 --> 01:05:39,792 She said we'll leave whenever it is good for you. 749 01:05:39,861 --> 01:05:42,922 No! Come on, man. 750 01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:48,229 But how can I keep working for you after we talked like this? 751 01:05:48,303 --> 01:05:50,295 You can't quit the job. 752 01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:53,808 Even if you wanted to. And you know why. 753 01:05:59,619 --> 01:06:00,746 No. 754 01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:02,611 Yes, you do. 755 01:06:04,025 --> 01:06:05,322 You know. 756 01:06:08,364 --> 01:06:09,491 Why? 757 01:06:09,933 --> 01:06:11,263 Because if you do... 758 01:06:11,332 --> 01:06:14,734 Cristina will blame herself for costing you the job. 759 01:06:19,810 --> 01:06:21,471 And that guilt... 760 01:06:23,381 --> 01:06:26,111 I don't know if you know about guilt. 761 01:06:29,522 --> 01:06:32,459 Guilt, we know. We're Catholics. 762 01:06:34,029 --> 01:06:35,257 We know. 763 01:06:36,997 --> 01:06:38,931 You can't do that to her. 764 01:06:45,375 --> 01:06:46,842 Welcome back. 765 01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:54,917 Good night. 766 01:06:56,655 --> 01:06:58,054 Good night. 767 01:07:00,859 --> 01:07:04,957 You can't be translating for me all the time. I need to learn English now. 768 01:07:07,801 --> 01:07:10,566 I really wasn't supposed to translate that. 769 01:07:10,806 --> 01:07:14,004 Listen to your mother. She knows it all. 770 01:07:23,891 --> 01:07:27,986 Learning English would cost $599 down... 771 01:07:28,161 --> 01:07:31,154 and 12 monthly payments of $86... 772 01:07:31,665 --> 01:07:34,724 which represents 22% interest. 773 01:07:36,838 --> 01:07:39,137 Assimilation gets expensive. 774 01:07:39,875 --> 01:07:42,174 But not a penny was wasted. 775 01:07:43,612 --> 01:07:44,773 Food. 776 01:07:45,183 --> 01:07:46,343 Food. 777 01:07:48,053 --> 01:07:50,851 - I am just learning English. - I am just learning English. 778 01:07:50,954 --> 01:07:53,150 - Please repeat. - Please repeat. 779 01:07:53,224 --> 01:07:54,692 - Neck. - Neck. 780 01:07:55,761 --> 01:07:57,457 - Nose. - Nose. 781 01:08:06,909 --> 01:08:08,036 Go! 782 01:08:15,052 --> 01:08:16,575 It is summer... 783 01:08:16,652 --> 01:08:18,517 ...winter... ...winter... 784 01:08:18,622 --> 01:08:20,522 ...spring. ...spring. 785 01:08:21,992 --> 01:08:23,085 Sun. 786 01:08:23,161 --> 01:08:24,685 - Sunny. - Sunny. 787 01:08:24,763 --> 01:08:26,321 - No. - Several. 788 01:08:28,201 --> 01:08:29,793 - Several. - Several. 789 01:08:29,869 --> 01:08:31,633 - Again. - Several. 790 01:08:31,706 --> 01:08:32,969 Good. Several. 791 01:08:33,976 --> 01:08:35,808 - Too many. - Too many. 792 01:08:35,878 --> 01:08:37,038 Right. Too many. 793 01:08:37,113 --> 01:08:39,241 How about a movie tonight? 794 01:08:39,483 --> 01:08:42,815 Have you any particular one in mind? 795 01:08:43,086 --> 01:08:46,147 I really enjoyed the Star Wars trilogy... 796 01:08:46,490 --> 01:08:48,354 by Mr. George Lucas. 797 01:08:49,726 --> 01:08:51,285 Congratulations, John. 798 01:08:51,362 --> 01:08:53,593 Chef, it just keeps building. 799 01:08:55,901 --> 01:08:57,199 Sorry. 800 01:08:57,336 --> 01:09:00,796 Should we stop answering the phone? We're booked for four months solid. 801 01:09:00,875 --> 01:09:02,035 No. 802 01:09:02,344 --> 01:09:06,111 I want to keep some walk-in business. I want this to stay neighborhood. 803 01:09:06,182 --> 01:09:10,208 - The trick is stay the same. - Impossible, John. There'd be riots. 804 01:09:10,286 --> 01:09:12,653 You should hear the desperation in their voices. 805 01:09:12,722 --> 01:09:15,284 This is the best time of your life. 806 01:09:15,860 --> 01:09:18,830 Yes, that includes our 5:30 seating as well. 807 01:09:18,897 --> 01:09:20,957 I know. Could you hold for one minute? 808 01:09:22,936 --> 01:09:24,631 We'll serve the full menu at the bar. 809 01:09:24,705 --> 01:09:28,436 Where will I put people waiting for a table? It won't work, John. 810 01:09:28,509 --> 01:09:30,306 - Do this for me. - There's no way. 811 01:09:30,377 --> 01:09:35,314 Do this for me or I'll set my hair on fire and start punching myself in the face! 812 01:09:37,619 --> 01:09:39,349 Yeah, you're right. 813 01:09:39,422 --> 01:09:42,255 That was an unusual way for me to make myself understood. 814 01:10:13,298 --> 01:10:14,526 Phone! 815 01:10:15,199 --> 01:10:16,896 - It's Mike. - Great. 816 01:10:18,738 --> 01:10:22,731 Yeah, I'm just walking out the door. Okey-dokey. Okay, thanks. 817 01:10:24,710 --> 01:10:26,439 Great. Thank you. 818 01:10:30,551 --> 01:10:32,611 Thank you for the ride home... 819 01:10:32,688 --> 01:10:35,283 but it was not necessary. 820 01:10:48,572 --> 01:10:50,564 All right, yes. 821 01:10:51,543 --> 01:10:54,981 Four stars and I've never been more unhappy. 822 01:10:55,982 --> 01:10:58,349 Up. Yes. 823 01:11:01,924 --> 01:11:05,326 He's got this. Incredible obstacle. 824 01:11:29,290 --> 01:11:31,954 I don't know what to wear to the party. 825 01:11:32,028 --> 01:11:33,427 I'm wearing jeans. 826 01:11:38,100 --> 01:11:40,194 Do you want to wear jeans? 827 01:12:01,865 --> 01:12:04,355 What are you wearing to the party? 828 01:12:19,252 --> 01:12:22,553 Who's always there for you at 2:30 in the morning? 829 01:12:36,605 --> 01:12:41,134 You'd better do something about Chum. You're gonna throw your arm out. 830 01:12:42,446 --> 01:12:44,438 Don't you sleep anymore? 831 01:12:45,684 --> 01:12:50,089 The more you do it, the more you learn. 832 01:12:51,693 --> 01:12:53,716 Flor, you're doing fantastic. 833 01:12:53,793 --> 01:12:54,886 - No. - Yes. 834 01:12:54,962 --> 01:12:57,260 Now I am like a 2-year-old. 835 01:13:00,436 --> 01:13:01,460 I finish. 836 01:13:01,537 --> 01:13:06,032 No, keep going. No, not until you finish it. 837 01:13:09,014 --> 01:13:10,709 Your wife go out. 838 01:13:14,887 --> 01:13:17,048 - Did she say where? - No. 839 01:13:21,527 --> 01:13:22,756 Sorry. 840 01:13:25,433 --> 01:13:27,163 Listen, she's... 841 01:13:29,938 --> 01:13:33,204 I forgot she was going out. Don't be a smart-ass. 842 01:13:34,912 --> 01:13:36,311 I'm sorry. 843 01:13:39,485 --> 01:13:41,009 You and I... 844 01:13:41,688 --> 01:13:45,122 we communicate in apologies anyway... 845 01:13:45,191 --> 01:13:49,185 so I'm sorry. I should be whipped. 846 01:13:49,262 --> 01:13:52,287 I should be stoned. It's been a while. 847 01:13:54,768 --> 01:13:57,670 I meant to say don't be smart... 848 01:13:58,039 --> 01:13:59,735 not a smart-ass. 849 01:14:04,781 --> 01:14:06,375 Don't be kind. 850 01:14:06,952 --> 01:14:09,317 Don't be sensitive. 851 01:14:10,221 --> 01:14:13,089 Don't be wonderful. 852 01:14:16,029 --> 01:14:19,056 I'm way too close. I'm sorry again. 853 01:14:20,467 --> 01:14:22,595 I meant to say, "Hi, Flor." 854 01:14:23,205 --> 01:14:24,968 Good night, Flor. 855 01:14:25,041 --> 01:14:28,009 That show you're watching is gonna be a hit. 856 01:14:39,923 --> 01:14:42,018 Hey, pal, you want to... 857 01:14:46,032 --> 01:14:47,864 Go, Chum. No! 858 01:14:49,837 --> 01:14:52,398 Go to him. Go! 859 01:14:57,414 --> 01:15:00,541 Man, you do love me. I was wondering. 860 01:15:04,589 --> 01:15:07,921 What about the point I'm making? It's good, right? 861 01:15:08,192 --> 01:15:10,559 Cristina has already read, on her own... 862 01:15:10,628 --> 01:15:13,223 every book on Bernice's summer reading list. 863 01:15:13,299 --> 01:15:14,961 And she's two grades behind her. 864 01:15:15,035 --> 01:15:18,199 Can you imagine if she went to Bernice's school? 865 01:15:19,874 --> 01:15:23,641 I think I could probably get her a scholarship. God knows they owe me. 866 01:15:23,710 --> 01:15:25,406 Talk to Flor. 867 01:15:25,480 --> 01:15:27,881 Yeah. She's so open to new things. 868 01:15:33,657 --> 01:15:35,420 Where're you going? 869 01:15:35,827 --> 01:15:38,160 I'm going out. 870 01:15:38,498 --> 01:15:41,991 It's this whole... Anyway, I'm probably actually gonna be... 871 01:15:42,336 --> 01:15:45,668 The cell will be bad, so I'll just check in with you later. 872 01:15:53,248 --> 01:15:55,239 I just can't find my keys. 873 01:15:56,985 --> 01:15:58,386 Good morning, Ms. Folsom. 874 01:16:00,022 --> 01:16:03,016 - Deborah. - Arlene, what a surprise. 875 01:16:04,328 --> 01:16:07,355 This is Cristina, the girl I am always raving to you about. 876 01:16:07,432 --> 01:16:10,631 This is Arlene Folsom, she's the School Director. 877 01:16:10,704 --> 01:16:12,832 - Hi. - Hello, a pleasure to meet you, Ms. Folsom. 878 01:16:12,908 --> 01:16:15,375 - Would you like a little tour? - Really? 879 01:16:15,441 --> 01:16:16,602 Great. 880 01:16:19,847 --> 01:16:22,008 She's gorgeous, isn't she? 881 01:16:22,349 --> 01:16:23,680 Hispanic. 882 01:16:27,556 --> 01:16:31,084 We ran into the head of the school and Cristina knocked her out. 883 01:16:31,161 --> 01:16:32,959 I had nothing to do with it. 884 01:16:33,031 --> 01:16:34,828 Incidentally, the scholarship... 885 01:16:34,899 --> 01:16:38,131 is worth $20,000 and early registration is tomorrow. 886 01:16:39,671 --> 01:16:41,799 It's too far from my home. 887 01:16:41,874 --> 01:16:44,605 You could move in to town with us. 888 01:16:45,011 --> 01:16:46,536 Never, thank you. 889 01:16:46,914 --> 01:16:48,575 Fine, then don't. 890 01:16:49,784 --> 01:16:52,687 By the way, the phrase is "no, thank you." 891 01:16:54,424 --> 01:16:57,292 Mom was caught in a vise of manipulation. 892 01:16:57,362 --> 01:16:58,952 Please, dear God... 893 01:16:59,028 --> 01:17:02,089 this is the most important prayer of my life. 894 01:17:02,166 --> 01:17:05,396 It's about my education. The health of my brain. 895 01:17:05,468 --> 01:17:08,667 Please, dear God, enter my mother's heart. 896 01:17:08,740 --> 01:17:11,403 Make her understand what this school means. 897 01:17:53,864 --> 01:17:55,796 - Hi, Flor. - Hi. 898 01:17:56,032 --> 01:17:58,263 Want some port? 899 01:17:58,535 --> 01:18:00,127 No, thank you, Evelyn. 900 01:18:00,671 --> 01:18:02,503 - How you doing? - Hi. 901 01:18:03,275 --> 01:18:05,004 I was just leaving. 902 01:18:10,418 --> 01:18:12,353 What? Okay. 903 01:18:12,420 --> 01:18:15,446 - Poor guy. - What? 904 01:18:19,361 --> 01:18:20,986 Nobody noticed. 905 01:18:23,164 --> 01:18:24,291 Flor? 906 01:18:26,568 --> 01:18:28,400 Thanks for never judging me. 907 01:18:30,642 --> 01:18:34,942 I love you. I love everybody. That's what's killing me. 908 01:18:50,300 --> 01:18:52,129 May I talk with you? 909 01:18:52,201 --> 01:18:53,259 Me? 910 01:18:55,104 --> 01:18:56,595 I just spoke to Deborah. 911 01:18:56,672 --> 01:18:59,905 She'll be back soon if you need to go over something. 912 01:18:59,977 --> 01:19:02,606 I need to really talk. Is okay? 913 01:19:04,583 --> 01:19:07,815 - No. - No! Sure. 914 01:19:08,923 --> 01:19:10,980 Sure. I'm sorry. 915 01:19:15,229 --> 01:19:18,029 - Outside? - Okay. 916 01:19:35,686 --> 01:19:38,087 You have me a little nervous here. 917 01:19:40,060 --> 01:19:43,656 Are we ever gonna stop? Just asking. 918 01:19:51,341 --> 01:19:54,936 You know about Cristina and your private school? 919 01:19:57,082 --> 01:19:58,744 Oh, that. 920 01:20:00,387 --> 01:20:03,412 - They did it. - I don't know what to do. 921 01:20:03,956 --> 01:20:06,982 Don't ask me. I'm worried about my own kid going there. 922 01:20:07,058 --> 01:20:11,588 They keep sending her home anxiety-ridden, mostly over geometry. 923 01:20:12,366 --> 01:20:14,732 I mean, you get Bernice. In a decent world... 924 01:20:14,802 --> 01:20:17,898 her school should let her know how great she is, right? 925 01:20:18,841 --> 01:20:21,333 You don't have to worry about Bernice. 926 01:20:21,878 --> 01:20:24,542 Nothing is going to change that heart. 927 01:20:30,655 --> 01:20:32,248 Yeah, thanks. 928 01:20:38,699 --> 01:20:40,167 It's just... 929 01:20:42,605 --> 01:20:45,539 great to hear someone else say that out loud. 930 01:20:49,112 --> 01:20:50,670 Hard to explain. 931 01:20:56,286 --> 01:20:59,518 I'm sorry. I take you here and... 932 01:21:01,160 --> 01:21:03,424 - I make too much of this, right? - No! 933 01:21:03,495 --> 01:21:07,491 You have a right to worry about this. This is the job. These are the decisions. 934 01:21:07,568 --> 01:21:10,470 Worrying about your children is sanity. 935 01:21:10,539 --> 01:21:15,240 And being that sane, the way you are, can drive you nuts. 936 01:21:17,513 --> 01:21:19,778 Someone like you, I'm sorry. 937 01:21:19,849 --> 01:21:22,909 If you think you're at some crossroads, you are. 938 01:21:25,189 --> 01:21:26,554 You are. 939 01:21:30,929 --> 01:21:33,866 Hey, I wish I could help you more. 940 01:21:43,611 --> 01:21:47,776 I never know a man who can put himself in my place like you do. 941 01:21:50,955 --> 01:21:53,049 How did you become that man? 942 01:21:56,662 --> 01:21:58,220 I don't know. 943 01:22:11,011 --> 01:22:13,810 Would you get out of the damn wind? Sit down! 944 01:22:18,755 --> 01:22:22,624 I didn't mean to... I want to be helpful. 945 01:22:25,764 --> 01:22:29,065 It must be hard being a widow, doing it on your own. 946 01:22:32,272 --> 01:22:35,174 Why do you think I am a widow? 947 01:22:40,147 --> 01:22:41,877 I guess I thought... 948 01:22:45,354 --> 01:22:48,222 that would be the only way a guy would leave you. 949 01:22:52,330 --> 01:22:53,855 So, okay... 950 01:22:55,735 --> 01:22:57,633 are you gonna send her? 951 01:22:59,438 --> 01:23:00,905 I don't know. 952 01:23:02,542 --> 01:23:05,706 I think if I do, one of two things happens. 953 01:23:08,250 --> 01:23:11,015 Either she will be odd? 954 01:23:11,754 --> 01:23:13,347 Odd, yes. 955 01:23:13,657 --> 01:23:16,591 Or she will make herself the same as them. 956 01:23:19,897 --> 01:23:22,888 I felt the same way about my kid going there. 957 01:23:23,966 --> 01:23:27,631 So between odd and the same, you gotta be rooting for odd, don't you? 958 01:23:28,673 --> 01:23:30,369 Yes, you gotta. 959 01:23:41,291 --> 01:23:44,021 Thank you. Good night. I go to sleep. 960 01:23:48,899 --> 01:23:50,992 You speaking English, it's... 961 01:23:53,671 --> 01:23:55,571 - What? - Nothing. 962 01:24:01,147 --> 01:24:02,638 It's nice meeting you. 963 01:24:23,877 --> 01:24:25,537 Here they are. 964 01:24:28,149 --> 01:24:30,981 Hey, you guys just made it. I was getting worried. 965 01:24:34,523 --> 01:24:37,251 I picked up your books yesterday. 966 01:24:37,323 --> 01:24:40,988 I put them in one of Bernie's old, ancient backpacks. 967 01:24:42,431 --> 01:24:45,128 Thank you. This is gonna be a great school. 968 01:24:45,201 --> 01:24:47,193 I can tell by the weight. 969 01:24:48,071 --> 01:24:51,907 I got her just a little first-day-at-a-new-school present. 970 01:24:51,977 --> 01:24:54,172 Just a little something from me and Bernie. 971 01:24:54,246 --> 01:24:56,647 It's okay, right? Come on, it's a big day. 972 01:24:57,284 --> 01:24:59,014 What did we get her? 973 01:25:04,392 --> 01:25:05,758 Wait. 974 01:25:10,932 --> 01:25:13,094 - Here it comes. - Hold on. 975 01:25:18,442 --> 01:25:21,003 It's from all of us. Your mom, too. 976 01:25:22,648 --> 01:25:24,445 It's not from me. 977 01:25:27,987 --> 01:25:30,785 Let's get going. Don't be late. Come on. 978 01:25:36,966 --> 01:25:39,730 Thank you so much for this opportunity. 979 01:25:41,372 --> 01:25:42,964 And everything. 980 01:25:46,843 --> 01:25:48,835 Have a great year, girls. 981 01:25:50,081 --> 01:25:51,743 This is so great. 982 01:26:14,178 --> 01:26:15,270 Left. 983 01:26:19,918 --> 01:26:21,250 No left. 984 01:26:41,745 --> 01:26:45,340 You're fast. Better pace yourself. 985 01:26:54,494 --> 01:26:57,760 You know, I ran college track. Watch out. 986 01:27:12,282 --> 01:27:14,910 Look, they're delivering my table. 987 01:27:18,256 --> 01:27:19,655 See you. 988 01:27:23,730 --> 01:27:25,723 I love you for trying! 989 01:27:29,672 --> 01:27:33,903 When people exist under one roof, a tiny society forms... 990 01:27:34,476 --> 01:27:36,911 the stuff of novellas... 991 01:27:37,080 --> 01:27:42,039 masters and servants unconsciously dancing in lock step... 992 01:27:42,586 --> 01:27:44,918 so that when things go wrong... 993 01:27:45,623 --> 01:27:47,591 traumas converge. 994 01:27:49,228 --> 01:27:53,666 At Mrs. Clasky's urging, I had invited two of my friends to her house... 995 01:27:54,368 --> 01:27:56,564 though I was expected at home. 996 01:27:57,839 --> 01:28:01,934 Monica had finally managed to get her mother here from Mexico... 997 01:28:02,009 --> 01:28:04,410 and my mother was making a party. 998 01:28:14,393 --> 01:28:15,917 Flor? Deb. 999 01:28:15,995 --> 01:28:18,428 Sorry to call you so late. 1000 01:28:18,497 --> 01:28:21,193 But the girls are still studying and I gotta go out. 1001 01:28:21,267 --> 01:28:22,996 I know I promised to get her back... 1002 01:28:23,069 --> 01:28:25,299 so if you want me to cut off the schoolwork... 1003 01:28:25,371 --> 01:28:27,363 that's fine, whatever you want. 1004 01:28:29,810 --> 01:28:31,142 Let me think. 1005 01:28:31,779 --> 01:28:34,112 Okay, you think about it. 1006 01:28:34,383 --> 01:28:38,013 Hey, listen, Flor, if you're tired... 1007 01:28:38,088 --> 01:28:39,989 or you want to play, just... 1008 01:28:40,057 --> 01:28:43,994 let her sleep here tonight. I'll get her back to you in the morning. 1009 01:28:44,697 --> 01:28:47,428 You think about it. Call me back. Bye. 1010 01:29:26,281 --> 01:29:30,082 Wait. I need to talk to you privately, honey. 1011 01:29:30,153 --> 01:29:32,419 "Honey"? No, Mother. I can't right now. 1012 01:29:32,489 --> 01:29:34,922 I'm really late. I've been looking all over for you. 1013 01:29:34,991 --> 01:29:37,893 Will you keep an eye on the kids? You've my secret cell number. 1014 01:29:37,961 --> 01:29:39,427 Just give me a moment to talk here. 1015 01:29:39,495 --> 01:29:43,660 - What is it, are you buzzed? - No. I gave up drinking weeks ago. 1016 01:29:44,568 --> 01:29:46,594 Yes. Nobody noticed. 1017 01:29:46,971 --> 01:29:50,636 Which shows I probably conducted myself pretty well as a drunk. 1018 01:29:50,710 --> 01:29:53,703 But duty called, and I'm sober... 1019 01:29:53,780 --> 01:29:56,751 so, may I say just one thing? 1020 01:29:56,818 --> 01:29:59,812 - Yes, Mother, one thing. Go ahead. - Thank you. 1021 01:30:03,093 --> 01:30:06,550 Deborah, you are going to lose your husband... 1022 01:30:06,629 --> 01:30:09,326 if you don't stop what you are doing. 1023 01:30:09,400 --> 01:30:12,494 And you will never find someone as good. 1024 01:30:14,438 --> 01:30:18,205 There'll only be men who you know are cheap and shallow... 1025 01:30:18,677 --> 01:30:21,477 and have no real warmth in their souls. 1026 01:30:21,915 --> 01:30:25,318 You may have gotten by on those surfaces once but now... 1027 01:30:25,387 --> 01:30:27,982 you have been spoiled by a good man. 1028 01:30:28,058 --> 01:30:30,183 If you do not act quickly... 1029 01:30:30,825 --> 01:30:33,386 you will soon cement an awful fate for yourself... 1030 01:30:33,462 --> 01:30:36,261 a life with no hope of repair... 1031 01:30:36,333 --> 01:30:41,102 which has already begun to turn desperate and dumb. 1032 01:30:42,876 --> 01:30:45,106 That's it. Drive carefully. 1033 01:30:46,847 --> 01:30:49,440 Out of coffee. It's over for me. 1034 01:30:49,515 --> 01:30:53,509 You've done it again, Mother. Made me hate myself. 1035 01:30:54,121 --> 01:30:56,521 One of the things that I can count on. 1036 01:31:00,495 --> 01:31:04,956 Honey, lately your low self-esteem is just good common sense. 1037 01:31:54,329 --> 01:31:56,128 Better wait a minute. 1038 01:31:57,500 --> 01:31:59,901 - What the hell is wrong? - Nothing. 1039 01:31:59,971 --> 01:32:04,203 Can I urge you, in all hopelessness, not to go in there? 1040 01:32:10,915 --> 01:32:13,578 - Where are you? - Over here. 1041 01:32:17,190 --> 01:32:20,182 Baby, what? 1042 01:32:20,260 --> 01:32:22,195 Just stay there, John. 1043 01:32:22,262 --> 01:32:23,628 What? 1044 01:32:28,672 --> 01:32:32,541 I suddenly get what I gotta do, but I just gotta get up the guts. 1045 01:32:32,610 --> 01:32:36,979 Is it absolutely necessary to make it this scary? 1046 01:32:38,616 --> 01:32:40,483 Can you just say it? 1047 01:32:42,420 --> 01:32:44,047 It's not so easy. 1048 01:32:44,423 --> 01:32:46,914 Yeah. Come on, it's me. We can talk. 1049 01:32:48,628 --> 01:32:51,757 - Do I ever hope so. - All right. Don't cry. 1050 01:32:52,266 --> 01:32:54,361 Or cry. I'm sorry. 1051 01:32:56,739 --> 01:32:58,934 Come on. What is it? 1052 01:33:03,579 --> 01:33:06,778 I've been seeing another man for the last 11 weeks. 1053 01:33:06,851 --> 01:33:09,252 It was nothing and I ended it tonight. 1054 01:33:09,321 --> 01:33:14,123 At first it was just keeping an eye on the real estate market, and then it was... 1055 01:33:15,563 --> 01:33:19,396 me being insecure and searching for some ridiculous validation. 1056 01:33:19,466 --> 01:33:21,128 Hold on. 1057 01:33:24,873 --> 01:33:27,170 I'm missing what you're saying. 1058 01:33:30,279 --> 01:33:32,908 You can't keep talking... 1059 01:33:34,752 --> 01:33:38,211 and expect me to follow it when you start the way you did. 1060 01:33:38,290 --> 01:33:39,952 Just what did you hear? 1061 01:33:42,729 --> 01:33:45,220 There was a crack in the planet. 1062 01:33:46,568 --> 01:33:48,093 That was noisy. 1063 01:33:52,974 --> 01:33:56,502 There's an actual noise in my head. No kidding. 1064 01:33:57,078 --> 01:33:58,444 I met him... 1065 01:34:00,249 --> 01:34:03,378 If you talk that fast, I'm not gonna hear you. 1066 01:34:03,453 --> 01:34:06,082 There's a lot going through my mind right now. 1067 01:34:10,296 --> 01:34:14,563 Have you said, yet, whether you slept with him? 1068 01:34:17,303 --> 01:34:20,831 No, so far I've just been talking about a flirtation. It's really... 1069 01:34:20,908 --> 01:34:24,606 Have you said whether you had sex with another person? 1070 01:34:24,679 --> 01:34:29,051 Because I really am missing your words, so help me out here. 1071 01:34:29,520 --> 01:34:32,582 I've been trying to explain that for the first ten weeks... 1072 01:34:32,657 --> 01:34:34,921 You still haven't said yet, right? 1073 01:34:35,760 --> 01:34:38,696 - Is this your way... - Yes. This is my way! 1074 01:34:38,764 --> 01:34:41,823 This is my way of asking you whether or not you... 1075 01:34:48,241 --> 01:34:49,766 Once I ask it... 1076 01:34:51,479 --> 01:34:53,380 Just give me a second. 1077 01:34:55,218 --> 01:34:58,951 I'm trying to figure out if there's a way to avoid knowing. 1078 01:35:03,296 --> 01:35:05,993 No. Damn it. 1079 01:35:07,767 --> 01:35:09,166 There's not. 1080 01:35:11,772 --> 01:35:13,762 Okay, you're on. 1081 01:35:15,241 --> 01:35:18,473 - Real short answer. Have you had... - Yes. 1082 01:35:24,820 --> 01:35:26,015 Really? 1083 01:35:31,896 --> 01:35:35,526 I made up my mind that I was gonna answer every question you had. 1084 01:35:35,601 --> 01:35:39,834 I'll answer everything, and anything, and more. 1085 01:35:40,206 --> 01:35:42,732 What other questions could there be? 1086 01:35:44,446 --> 01:35:47,142 Are you really that much nicer than me? 1087 01:35:50,351 --> 01:35:52,685 You don't set the bar real high. 1088 01:35:53,723 --> 01:35:55,817 John, just wait, please. 1089 01:35:56,625 --> 01:36:00,084 I think that if you listen to exactly what happened... 1090 01:36:00,162 --> 01:36:02,393 and then you could do whatever you need to. 1091 01:36:02,466 --> 01:36:04,868 Just please let me tell you everything. 1092 01:36:13,615 --> 01:36:15,139 It's just Flor. 1093 01:36:18,388 --> 01:36:20,789 Flor, what are you doing here? 1094 01:36:20,858 --> 01:36:22,916 I want my daughter. 1095 01:36:24,193 --> 01:36:26,424 I want to talk to Mrs. Clasky. 1096 01:36:28,531 --> 01:36:30,056 I want to quit. 1097 01:36:31,635 --> 01:36:34,696 I don't think you can do any of that right now. 1098 01:36:35,573 --> 01:36:36,939 I gotta. 1099 01:36:38,011 --> 01:36:42,506 The reason I took this chance in telling is that I want us to be good. 1100 01:36:42,583 --> 01:36:44,517 I want us to be close. 1101 01:36:44,586 --> 01:36:48,749 I want to feel like you're not nuts to be in love with me. 1102 01:36:49,525 --> 01:36:53,256 So what I think we should do is that I think we should just talk. 1103 01:36:53,530 --> 01:36:55,259 Talk until we pass out. 1104 01:36:55,332 --> 01:36:59,464 Talk until we are so sick of each other that there's nothing left to do... 1105 01:36:59,538 --> 01:37:02,303 but take that first step out of hell. 1106 01:37:03,010 --> 01:37:07,035 So let's not leave this room until you've heard... 1107 01:37:07,112 --> 01:37:11,414 and said everything, okay? Please say okay. 1108 01:37:16,657 --> 01:37:18,249 I'm sorry. What? 1109 01:37:19,729 --> 01:37:21,755 John? You didn't hear me? 1110 01:37:22,933 --> 01:37:26,461 I gotta get out of here and you keep talking. Stay put. 1111 01:37:32,479 --> 01:37:35,176 I don't think you want to wake her up... 1112 01:37:36,016 --> 01:37:39,782 when you're feeling this upset and the others are right there, too. 1113 01:37:54,104 --> 01:37:56,800 What're you doing? Where're you going? 1114 01:37:57,041 --> 01:37:59,738 I am leaving. I have finally... 1115 01:38:00,246 --> 01:38:02,111 Me, too. I'll drive you. 1116 01:38:02,547 --> 01:38:05,847 - No. - It's okay. I don't mind. 1117 01:38:06,886 --> 01:38:09,880 If you truly don't know why I say no... 1118 01:38:09,957 --> 01:38:13,121 - let me at last say the reason. - Don't worry about it. 1119 01:38:19,437 --> 01:38:22,735 Have you no idea that I... 1120 01:38:27,610 --> 01:38:30,273 I've really gotta get out of here. Right now. 1121 01:38:30,347 --> 01:38:31,473 Go. 1122 01:38:43,098 --> 01:38:44,622 Goodbye, Chum. 1123 01:38:55,713 --> 01:38:58,376 - Goodbye. - Wait. I'm taking you. 1124 01:38:58,748 --> 01:39:00,410 No. Why? 1125 01:39:00,485 --> 01:39:04,547 Because, if I don't, I'll worry about you all night long. I can't handle that now. 1126 01:39:04,623 --> 01:39:06,889 Come on. Get in the car. 1127 01:39:21,645 --> 01:39:22,634 John! 1128 01:39:30,991 --> 01:39:34,484 - I quit this job. - I quit this job! 1129 01:39:37,265 --> 01:39:40,428 I think I meant that for someone else. I'm sorry. 1130 01:39:42,471 --> 01:39:45,530 - Sorry. Very sorry. - There is the bus stop. 1131 01:39:50,880 --> 01:39:52,677 - Bye. - Wait, don't go! 1132 01:39:55,954 --> 01:39:59,083 Would you be willing to hang out with me for a while? 1133 01:40:01,295 --> 01:40:03,958 - You want to hang out with me? - Yes. 1134 01:40:09,270 --> 01:40:12,297 - Then I have to ask you... - What? 1135 01:40:14,475 --> 01:40:16,501 What does "hang out" mean? 1136 01:40:17,413 --> 01:40:19,005 It means... 1137 01:40:21,418 --> 01:40:22,579 visit. 1138 01:40:25,791 --> 01:40:26,883 Okay. 1139 01:41:22,029 --> 01:41:24,120 I've never seen your place. 1140 01:41:28,001 --> 01:41:29,467 Very perfect. 1141 01:41:36,410 --> 01:41:38,436 I'm gonna cook for you. 1142 01:41:40,349 --> 01:41:41,509 Please. 1143 01:41:47,792 --> 01:41:50,954 I am glad to visit with you. 1144 01:41:57,136 --> 01:41:59,036 If I just left the job... 1145 01:42:00,841 --> 01:42:02,867 and never spoke with you... 1146 01:42:05,047 --> 01:42:06,810 it would have been... 1147 01:42:10,286 --> 01:42:11,378 sin. 1148 01:42:13,822 --> 01:42:15,347 You understand? 1149 01:42:24,736 --> 01:42:25,829 Yeah. 1150 01:42:45,927 --> 01:42:50,889 My hand is the only sane part of my body. Every other part wants to jump off a cliff. 1151 01:42:53,506 --> 01:42:57,034 That's it for now. I already broke my record for smooth. 1152 01:42:57,310 --> 01:43:00,940 - I don't understand. - It's me. I'm not making any sense. 1153 01:43:01,016 --> 01:43:02,881 But I can get you fed. 1154 01:43:15,866 --> 01:43:17,926 - You want a drink? - No. 1155 01:43:22,876 --> 01:43:25,571 Wait. I don't think you should, either. 1156 01:43:25,945 --> 01:43:27,742 Then, excuse me, because... 1157 01:43:27,814 --> 01:43:30,374 if I had the equipment, I think I'd inject the vodka. 1158 01:43:30,449 --> 01:43:33,885 I just think it is important we are each clear-headed. 1159 01:43:48,273 --> 01:43:49,797 It's very good. 1160 01:43:50,710 --> 01:43:52,905 You didn't ask why. 1161 01:43:54,081 --> 01:43:56,048 Keep things real, right? 1162 01:43:57,318 --> 01:43:59,617 I wouldn't have put it so well. 1163 01:44:05,293 --> 01:44:07,557 Let's get this going here. 1164 01:44:35,865 --> 01:44:37,197 Beautiful. 1165 01:44:39,902 --> 01:44:43,533 So, tell me again why I can't call him on his cell again? 1166 01:44:43,607 --> 01:44:45,836 Besides that he turned it off? 1167 01:44:47,278 --> 01:44:51,147 - Yeah. - Forty messages start to look needy. 1168 01:45:09,141 --> 01:45:13,042 - Mother, you're enjoying this. - No. 1169 01:45:15,180 --> 01:45:17,169 Not in the way you think. 1170 01:45:17,982 --> 01:45:21,646 You are enjoying it? Jesus, Mother. 1171 01:45:22,087 --> 01:45:25,888 I am enjoying actually being of use to my daughter. 1172 01:45:25,960 --> 01:45:30,227 I'm enjoying the fact that I really know how to advise you... 1173 01:45:30,432 --> 01:45:34,700 and the miracle that you are so deeply disoriented... 1174 01:45:34,771 --> 01:45:37,397 that you are gobbling up everything I say. 1175 01:45:45,317 --> 01:45:46,409 What? 1176 01:45:48,687 --> 01:45:51,920 There's something I want to say to you about you and me. 1177 01:45:52,828 --> 01:45:55,386 - You don't have to. - No, I want to. 1178 01:45:56,663 --> 01:45:58,256 - Okay? - Thank you. 1179 01:46:00,400 --> 01:46:03,838 You were an alcoholic and wildly promiscuous woman... 1180 01:46:03,939 --> 01:46:07,535 during my formative years, so I'm in this fix because of you. 1181 01:46:07,944 --> 01:46:09,572 It is your fault. 1182 01:46:10,681 --> 01:46:13,617 I just needed that moment for us to build on. 1183 01:46:19,493 --> 01:46:21,553 You have a solid point, dear. 1184 01:46:21,628 --> 01:46:25,689 But right now, the lessons of my life are coming in handy for you. 1185 01:46:43,320 --> 01:46:45,881 That's it. That's it for you. 1186 01:46:50,662 --> 01:46:54,100 I keep thinking I should tell you what happened to me tonight. 1187 01:46:58,406 --> 01:47:00,705 But I don't want to spoil this. 1188 01:47:07,753 --> 01:47:11,085 I will remember every taste forever. 1189 01:47:13,224 --> 01:47:15,319 I'm very glad you liked it. 1190 01:47:16,093 --> 01:47:18,289 It's something, watching you. 1191 01:47:20,599 --> 01:47:23,694 If it's anything at your end, imagine over here. 1192 01:47:24,505 --> 01:47:28,442 Scratch that. The last thing you want to hear is somebody going off on your looks. 1193 01:47:28,510 --> 01:47:31,139 Don't be crazy. Tell me every detail. 1194 01:47:34,718 --> 01:47:36,186 Okay, I will. 1195 01:47:39,191 --> 01:47:43,423 They should name a gender after you. Looking at you doesn't do it. 1196 01:47:43,863 --> 01:47:46,799 Staring is the only way that makes any sense. 1197 01:47:47,699 --> 01:47:50,635 And trying not to blink, so you don't miss anything. 1198 01:47:55,510 --> 01:47:58,001 And all of that, and you're you. 1199 01:47:59,148 --> 01:48:00,241 I mean... 1200 01:48:01,885 --> 01:48:04,514 Look, forgive me. 1201 01:48:05,189 --> 01:48:08,488 It's just you are drop-dead, crazy gorgeous. 1202 01:48:10,327 --> 01:48:13,456 So much so that I'm actually considering looking at you again... 1203 01:48:13,532 --> 01:48:15,433 before we finish up here. 1204 01:48:18,640 --> 01:48:21,006 Soon, please. 1205 01:48:56,751 --> 01:48:59,049 - I can't. We can't. - I know. 1206 01:48:59,120 --> 01:49:03,352 We can't do anything that brings us any kind of satisfaction or release. 1207 01:49:04,193 --> 01:49:06,627 But I'm still having a great time. 1208 01:49:10,133 --> 01:49:14,094 My mother has often referred to that evening at the restaurant... 1209 01:49:14,173 --> 01:49:16,404 as the conversation of her life. 1210 01:49:17,812 --> 01:49:20,246 Ever since that night at the beach... 1211 01:49:21,414 --> 01:49:24,680 if I knew you were in a room, I just wouldn't go in there. 1212 01:49:26,754 --> 01:49:29,919 When I hear you coming, I leave. 1213 01:49:32,930 --> 01:49:35,992 That's why we haven't seen each other a lot lately. 1214 01:49:37,703 --> 01:49:40,330 Why is everything so damn confusing? 1215 01:49:48,214 --> 01:49:50,581 Is your mind racing, too? 1216 01:49:50,651 --> 01:49:52,642 I'd say my mind has evaporated. 1217 01:49:54,289 --> 01:49:55,950 Feels pretty good. 1218 01:49:57,058 --> 01:49:58,424 Like happy? 1219 01:50:00,330 --> 01:50:01,798 Like happy. 1220 01:50:04,636 --> 01:50:06,627 You think that will last? 1221 01:50:11,710 --> 01:50:15,011 - I was just kidding around. - I understand what you mean. 1222 01:50:15,082 --> 01:50:17,381 I don't understand what I mean. 1223 01:50:21,220 --> 01:50:23,121 That it's getting late. 1224 01:50:27,930 --> 01:50:29,728 The responsibilities... 1225 01:50:31,336 --> 01:50:33,327 have entered your brain. 1226 01:50:35,841 --> 01:50:37,807 Don't hide that from me. 1227 01:50:43,615 --> 01:50:45,811 - Please. - Yeah. 1228 01:50:46,487 --> 01:50:48,455 Thank you. You're right. 1229 01:50:50,225 --> 01:50:52,820 I won't. You're great. 1230 01:50:54,565 --> 01:50:56,224 You're great, too. 1231 01:51:00,938 --> 01:51:02,267 No. 1232 01:51:08,947 --> 01:51:13,180 There are some mistakes you cannot risk when you have children. 1233 01:51:17,992 --> 01:51:19,187 Please. 1234 01:51:20,162 --> 01:51:23,257 - Are you ready to go? - No! I'm not. 1235 01:51:24,167 --> 01:51:26,966 Stay put for a sec. Stay there. 1236 01:51:30,741 --> 01:51:34,301 Once our feet touch that floor, I'm gonna get too many brain cells back. 1237 01:51:34,377 --> 01:51:36,369 Don't be in such a hurry. 1238 01:51:39,919 --> 01:51:43,411 That floor, it's going to eat us alive. 1239 01:52:22,670 --> 01:52:25,139 - I love you. - What? 1240 01:52:26,776 --> 01:52:28,438 'Cause I've been... 1241 01:52:46,567 --> 01:52:50,058 Oh, God, it's him. He's gotta tell me everything. 1242 01:52:51,439 --> 01:52:53,533 - No. - Oh, yes. 1243 01:52:53,609 --> 01:52:54,872 No, wait. 1244 01:52:57,347 --> 01:52:59,612 Do you know that right now... 1245 01:53:00,684 --> 01:53:03,017 you are your own worst enemy? 1246 01:53:03,655 --> 01:53:07,353 That you can't trust one thought in your brain? 1247 01:53:19,808 --> 01:53:21,640 Then trust me... 1248 01:53:22,379 --> 01:53:26,010 and only allow yourself to say one thing to him. 1249 01:53:26,750 --> 01:53:28,081 One thing. 1250 01:53:28,985 --> 01:53:31,080 "I am so glad you're back." 1251 01:53:32,023 --> 01:53:33,455 - What? - Yes. 1252 01:53:34,491 --> 01:53:37,291 But I have to know whether he touched her. 1253 01:53:38,095 --> 01:53:41,362 And where he touched her, and how he touched her... 1254 01:53:41,601 --> 01:53:45,130 and how he felt afterwards, whether they held hands... 1255 01:53:45,206 --> 01:53:46,833 when they left. 1256 01:53:50,246 --> 01:53:54,048 Just those words, if you want to have a prayer of coming out of this. 1257 01:53:58,088 --> 01:54:00,216 - So now I... - Go to him. 1258 01:54:01,225 --> 01:54:04,490 - Jesus, do I need a little makeup? - You need a hose. 1259 01:54:05,597 --> 01:54:09,295 But you don't have the time. It's fine that you look like that. 1260 01:54:09,368 --> 01:54:12,464 It's genuine. You can use genuine. 1261 01:54:14,575 --> 01:54:16,669 - Thank you, Mom. - Oh, honey. 1262 01:54:19,649 --> 01:54:24,210 It's not the worst thing in the world to find out that you love your husband. 1263 01:54:36,236 --> 01:54:37,965 It's late, Deborah. 1264 01:54:41,477 --> 01:54:43,739 I just wanted to say... 1265 01:54:50,718 --> 01:54:54,314 I can't sleep upstairs with you. I just can't for now. 1266 01:54:58,997 --> 01:55:01,192 I'm just so glad you're back. 1267 01:55:02,602 --> 01:55:05,663 - I am. - Yeah, okay. 1268 01:55:11,079 --> 01:55:12,138 Mom? 1269 01:55:40,046 --> 01:55:41,912 I'm done tonight, Deb. 1270 01:55:43,951 --> 01:55:46,750 I don't think we can jam anything else in. 1271 01:55:47,223 --> 01:55:48,691 It's me, Dad. 1272 01:55:52,564 --> 01:55:54,327 What's wrong, honey? 1273 01:55:55,234 --> 01:55:59,135 I just wanted to check that you were back and okay. 1274 01:56:01,207 --> 01:56:02,470 I'm okay. 1275 01:56:07,046 --> 01:56:08,308 Because? 1276 01:56:14,423 --> 01:56:19,327 Mom was crying for six hours straight, and Grandma was in with her... 1277 01:56:19,395 --> 01:56:22,388 all that time, mostly saying, "He'll be back." 1278 01:56:23,267 --> 01:56:26,204 I just hate that you had that kind of night. 1279 01:56:31,778 --> 01:56:35,770 It's good for me to worry about something that really matters... 1280 01:56:37,550 --> 01:56:41,078 instead of the stupid stuff that's usually on my mind. 1281 01:56:41,155 --> 01:56:42,248 Like? 1282 01:56:45,427 --> 01:56:46,951 Surviving? 1283 01:56:50,167 --> 01:56:51,362 What? 1284 01:56:53,272 --> 01:56:55,500 How did you come up with this? 1285 01:56:55,572 --> 01:56:58,600 You are fantastic, Bernie. I love you. 1286 01:56:59,611 --> 01:57:02,410 - I love you. - I know. 1287 01:57:03,449 --> 01:57:06,284 I mean, not about me being fantastic. But just... 1288 01:57:08,790 --> 01:57:12,420 - Sleep well. - Wait. What? 1289 01:57:21,403 --> 01:57:22,769 Sweetheart. 1290 01:57:25,409 --> 01:57:26,637 Me, too. 1291 01:57:40,096 --> 01:57:41,427 Sing it for Grandma. 1292 01:58:05,894 --> 01:58:09,524 Hey, Mom. Is it okay if we don't leave right away, please? 1293 01:58:09,598 --> 01:58:10,621 No. 1294 01:58:12,133 --> 01:58:13,795 Just let me explain, please. 1295 01:58:13,869 --> 01:58:15,769 No. We must say goodbye. 1296 01:58:15,838 --> 01:58:19,172 Bernice is going to let me use her computer. This is for school. 1297 01:58:19,242 --> 01:58:22,941 - For school. Just listen to me. - I don't work here anymore. 1298 01:58:27,454 --> 01:58:29,943 No, that's not fair. 1299 01:58:31,157 --> 01:58:33,524 You can't do this to me. 1300 01:58:45,542 --> 01:58:48,478 - Do I have to get out? - No, Georgie. Stay. 1301 01:58:56,489 --> 01:58:58,958 I think you are a wonderful boy. 1302 01:58:59,627 --> 01:59:01,821 Be good, like you are. 1303 01:59:01,895 --> 01:59:03,795 Thanks. Thanks a lot. 1304 01:59:05,400 --> 01:59:08,299 - I can't believe you didn't get out. - Flor said. 1305 01:59:10,138 --> 01:59:12,265 I don't want to get you wet. 1306 01:59:13,176 --> 01:59:15,644 - Get me wet. - Thanks. 1307 01:59:17,247 --> 01:59:21,241 - You are a trip. You are. - Thank you. 1308 01:59:23,622 --> 01:59:25,248 You are a beauty. 1309 01:59:29,997 --> 01:59:31,328 Come on. 1310 01:59:32,567 --> 01:59:35,559 Last chance to have some of you rub off on me. 1311 01:59:37,172 --> 01:59:41,008 Listen, I'm sorry that you're sad, but this could have been so much worse. 1312 01:59:42,580 --> 01:59:45,343 Why don't you run upstairs and say goodbye to Deborah? 1313 01:59:45,415 --> 01:59:46,780 I'm coming. 1314 01:59:46,850 --> 01:59:48,843 - Thank you. - You're welcome. 1315 01:59:57,329 --> 01:59:59,423 I live my life for myself. 1316 02:00:00,868 --> 02:00:03,463 You live your life for your daughter. 1317 02:00:04,372 --> 02:00:06,000 None of it works. 1318 02:00:09,980 --> 02:00:11,641 Thank you, Evelyn. 1319 02:00:17,755 --> 02:00:20,087 - We're leaving for good. - It's okay. 1320 02:00:20,158 --> 02:00:23,218 - We're not coming back! - It's okay. 1321 02:00:23,293 --> 02:00:26,958 We're still gonna see each other at school. Come on. 1322 02:00:27,032 --> 02:00:29,228 I'm gonna keep my eye on you. 1323 02:00:29,302 --> 02:00:31,533 Come on. No, no. 1324 02:00:31,605 --> 02:00:34,404 I got some great things for you. Want a computer? 1325 02:01:01,475 --> 02:01:03,535 I was waiting out here. 1326 02:01:07,013 --> 02:01:09,209 Can't give you guys a lift, huh? 1327 02:01:21,601 --> 02:01:23,968 God bless the guy who gets you. 1328 02:01:36,252 --> 02:01:39,049 - Let her keep them. Party favors. - No. 1329 02:01:52,438 --> 02:01:54,464 Goodbye, Mr. Clasky. 1330 02:01:54,542 --> 02:01:57,907 I'm very sorry we won't be seeing each other as frequently. 1331 02:02:04,753 --> 02:02:05,743 Yes. 1332 02:02:40,097 --> 02:02:42,965 Can I sleep at the Claskys' when I stay late at school? 1333 02:02:43,034 --> 02:02:44,900 Shortly after we left... 1334 02:02:44,971 --> 02:02:48,407 my mother told me of another decision she had reached. 1335 02:02:49,375 --> 02:02:52,209 I would no longer go to the private school. 1336 02:02:52,777 --> 02:02:54,040 No! 1337 02:02:55,380 --> 02:02:57,475 You can't do that to me! 1338 02:03:02,690 --> 02:03:04,556 You ruined everything. 1339 02:03:08,698 --> 02:03:12,225 This ruins my life! You've ruined everything! 1340 02:03:12,669 --> 02:03:14,934 I will never forgive you. 1341 02:03:16,307 --> 02:03:19,870 No, it'll never be all right. You're wrong. 1342 02:03:19,946 --> 02:03:23,075 This is exactly what I was worried about. 1343 02:03:24,285 --> 02:03:27,085 I will never be able to forgive you! 1344 02:03:31,526 --> 02:03:35,793 I have a scholarship! And nobody gives this up! 1345 02:03:38,000 --> 02:03:42,062 The 1.3 miles from the Clasky house to our bus stop... 1346 02:03:42,139 --> 02:03:44,608 was the longest walk I'll ever know. 1347 02:03:46,611 --> 02:03:49,012 I had publicly scorned my mother. 1348 02:03:51,585 --> 02:03:53,780 And yet she had not reacted. 1349 02:03:59,562 --> 02:04:02,052 What did spark our climactic moment... 1350 02:04:02,130 --> 02:04:04,861 was my use of a common American phrase. 1351 02:04:06,035 --> 02:04:08,434 Not right now. I need some space. 1352 02:04:11,007 --> 02:04:13,101 Not a space between us. 1353 02:04:18,951 --> 02:04:22,115 In the midst of confrontation, she found clarity. 1354 02:04:38,709 --> 02:04:41,475 She expressed regret that she had to ask me... 1355 02:04:41,547 --> 02:04:45,279 to deal with the basic question of my life at such a young age. 1356 02:04:49,655 --> 02:04:51,715 And then she asked it. 1357 02:04:57,064 --> 02:04:59,329 "Is what you want for yourself... 1358 02:05:05,542 --> 02:05:07,909 "to become someone very different... 1359 02:05:11,016 --> 02:05:12,347 "than me?" 1360 02:05:35,279 --> 02:05:36,974 I have been overwhelmed... 1361 02:05:37,047 --> 02:05:40,040 by your encouragement to apply to your university... 1362 02:05:40,252 --> 02:05:43,448 and your list of scholarships available to me. 1363 02:05:43,988 --> 02:05:46,821 Though, as I hope this essay shows... 1364 02:05:47,661 --> 02:05:50,893 your acceptance, while it would thrill me... 1365 02:05:51,833 --> 02:05:53,698 will not define me. 1366 02:05:56,206 --> 02:05:58,868 My identity rests firmly... 1367 02:05:59,510 --> 02:06:01,977 and happily on one fact: 1368 02:06:03,480 --> 02:06:05,676 I am my mother's daughter. 1369 02:06:20,200 --> 02:06:23,569 Thank you. 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