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Oh, yeah. Chicken is done.
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Alright, what's goin' on
with the waffle count?
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Mm, uh, nearly 40.
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- Oh, nice, nice.
- We're movin'.
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Oh, that looks so good, Edwin.
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- Nadine...
- Hm?
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- ...does it look professional?
- Yes.
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I really need this
to work, mama.
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Mm, mm!
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- Yeah?
- Dad! What smells so amazing?
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- Oh! Oh, hey, Paige.
- Hi.
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Your dad made these
shrimp and grits balls.
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They're divine.
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I know you prefer
bland Swedish food,
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- but come try.
- Okay, okay.
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Good morning. Good
morning, baby girl.
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You got the "morning" part
right. What's the occasion?
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Why are you in my favorite apron
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and you guys using every
single bowl in my house?
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I'm catering your sister's open
house. Did you forget that?
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- No, no, no. I remember.
- Few more gigs like that,
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I'll have a down payment
on the food truck.
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Yeah, and then you're just
gonna need a license to drive it
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and a business permit,
an employer ID number,
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- and a food...
- And a food service license. I know.
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The shit ain't set
up for me to succeed.
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I understand, but I got
my birth certificate.
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- One step at a time, okay?
- Yeah, you are correct.
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- You hungry?
- Yes.
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Hey, Nadine put together
these little waffle bites
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in case she's feelin'
more sweet than savory.
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I'd say Paige feels more salty.
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I'll just have a coffee.
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Okay.
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- Stop.
- What?
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- Dad?
- Yeah, baby.
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I thought we said no overnights.
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She just got here, and
she saved the day, Paige.
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How?
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Did you know you're missing
lemon pepper and garlic salt?
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Oh, well, yeah, that
makes her a hero.
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Can you maybe warn me when
you're gonna have company
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so that I don't come down
in my private clothes?
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You wore those pants to
Target last week, girl.
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I raised you better than that.
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Oh, let's please not
unpack how you "raised" me.
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- A-Also, these are Ivy Park.
- Paired with Birkenstocks.
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I'm gonna go fold some laundry
'cause there's something about
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being around the two of you
that makes me wanna put some
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sharp creases in my jeans.
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Hey! Comin' to it right
now. Comin' to it!
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- What is this?
- It's not what you think.
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Okay, it's an album
recorded by my kid's father,
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and it's in my dad's room,
so what should I think?
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Paige, rock-and-roll went south
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after Chuck Berry and
Little Richard and them,
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so there must be another reason
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- why it's in my room...
- What the fu...
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- Grandpa.
- Finn.
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- You said you wouldn't tell.
- Y-Your mama came...
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Wouldn't tell what?
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- It doesn't matter.
- Jesus Christ.
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- It doesn't matter.
- Aw, Dad, Dad, Dad.
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We talked about this.
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You and I are supposed to tell
each other the whole truth.
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The boy is allowed to be curious
about his own father, Paige.
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No. No, no, no. This
is a terrible idea.
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You are opening up a
whole can of worms.
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Can been open, Paige.
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Been open since the
day the boy was born.
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Paige, I gotta get ready.
I got food in the car.
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It would really mean a lot to
me if you would just stop by
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the open house
later to support me.
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Y-Yeah. That... Yes, that's fine. Sure. I
already told Esti that I would be there.
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- Oh, okay. Yeah, Esti. Okay.
- I just... I need you to promise me
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that you are not going
to quit your day job
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over whatever this food thing may
or may not pan out to be, okay?
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I will be keeping that bird
very firmly in my hand, Paige.
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- Okay.
- Anyway, I'm glad you're comin'.
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I know how much you like to snoop
around other folks' floor plans.
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What does that mean, Dad?
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It means you're a sn...
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- You're a snoop, girl.
- I'm not a snoop. It was right there.
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Okay, yeah. Whose
room is this?
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- Who pays the mortgage?
- Oh!
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I wanna talk about triggers.
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So, maybe there's no such
thing as a trigger warning
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because, apparently,
a trigger can show up
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in your kitchen uninvited
and unannounced,
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and that is not
the right attitude.
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Ah!
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Triggers.
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Triggers are almost never about
what's happening right now.
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They are connected
to something old,
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something that is
carried in the mind
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but really held in the body,
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and that is why they
can be so overwhelming,
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like a riptide is
sucking you under and...
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Triggers are like
metal detectors,
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and when they go off, it means
that you have found a spot
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where something deeply
personal is buried way down.
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And so, the question you
need to ask yourself is:
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am I willing to start digging?
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No, I am not.
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I'm so triggered.
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- Mom?
- Hey.
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Um... about my dad...
I've been thinking...
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And you have questions, right?
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Of course, you do, because
these are critical years
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of individuating,
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and so it's totally natural for you
to wanna know more about your dad.
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It's primal, really.
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So, I mean, whatever you wanna
ask me, you should ask me,
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- like on Reddit but in real life.
- Mom. Can we talk a little slower?
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Uh, yes, we can.
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I'm sorry, sweetie.
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What's he really like?
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I mean, I kinda don't know
what he's like, but I also do.
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Wow.
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Uh, well, your dad,
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he is charming and charismatic
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and also, like,
fun and carefree.
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- So you're saying I took after you?
- Tragically, yes.
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But, honey, there's
still hope for you
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because you might get some of your
granddad's swag passed onto you
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'cause it's somewhere
in my genetics.
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Is there a reason he
doesn't come see me?
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You know, his band tours,
like, 300 days a year.
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Yeah, and he doesn't
visit the other 65.
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- I mean.
- Yeah, I c... I can't explain that, Finn.
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- 'Kay, maybe I'll just ask him.
- Oh, wow. Okay, that's interesting.
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Um, so, it is one approach,
and we can talk about it,
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but let's just talk about it maybe when
I'm not on my way out the door, okay?
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- Okay.
- Okay! Okay, okay!
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Welcome. There is a sign-in
sheet on the table right there.
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- Thank you.
- Oh, and I have a neo-soul small bite
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for your enjoyment, take that.
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- Thank you.
- There you go.
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It's like the Erykah
Badu of light bites.
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So, what are we thinking? Is
the bedroom suite not dreamy?
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It's the heated floors
in the bathroom for me.
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There's nothin' like stepping down
onto warm tile in the middle of winter.
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I was just talking about that.
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Now if I'm you all, I'm
moving very quickly.
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This place is goin' in
multiples, you best believe.
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- I'm calling our agent.
- Okay.
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Oh, please, uh, take a
Sammie before you go.
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- Thank you.
- And for all your catering needs,
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please take a card.
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It has my, uh, QR code, which
my grandson made for me.
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- Oh, sweet. Thank you.
- Thank you.
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- You guys enjoy.
- Thank you so much.
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- Bye.
- Bye-bye now.
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That was good.
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- Dude, promise me I'll never have to do...
- Huh? What?
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...another open house without you
and your awesome waffle sammies.
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Okay, gimme
somethin'. Come on.
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Uhh!
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You said you're gonna
take better care of me.
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- Mm-hm.
- So, you know Nadine's a walking,
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talking trigger machine,
but what are you gonna do?
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- I don't need trouble.
- I don't know. Ignore her?
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Wait, does that work?
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- No. Fight her.
- Uh, try again.
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Listen to everything you
say that we need the most?
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- Bingo!
- Oh!
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Oh, God. Incoming.
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Paige, hi!
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- Hi! Wow!
- Hi!
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Oh, you're checking out my
dad's new business venture.
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Yeah. You know, I like to
show up for my clients.
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Right. Or check up on them?
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Just a little. I love how he's
literally cooking up bigger plans.
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Ah, I see what you did there.
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Your dad's showin' out.
The man's food slaps.
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- Mm-hm.
- Yep. Except now, thanks to him,
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I gotta talk Ava
outta this house.
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Mm, it's literally
perfect. Ooh, I'm moist.
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Slow down, babe.
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I think you've had one too
many bourbon-glazed shrimp.
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- Okay? Let's get you home.
- Bye, Paige.
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- See you, Paige.
- See you, Ava. Bye, Mal.
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Bye, guys.
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Beep, beep, beep, beep.
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Beeeeep!
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I don't understand why Paige keeps
doubting this part of who I am.
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Yeah, Paige is just an "I'll
believe it when I see it" type.
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Oh yeah. Give her time. It's
only been three or four decades.
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Let her cook.
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Ooh, that looks good.
And I will take one of...
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- No, you will not.
- Hey, hey, hey! Leave some for the guests!
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- Come on!
- You know what?
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You guys ate all the food.
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- Uh-uh.
- Forget it! Forget it!
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- I'll be standing by.
- Forget it. Nuh-uh.
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Paige! Oh, my God!
So glad you made it!
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- Baby girl.
- Uh, your dad's grits balls
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have sold this house
five times already.
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- Grits balls?
- Oh, they're very persuasive.
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- Well, you like the balls.
- Seriously though,
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your dad is the best
hype man of all time.
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Okay, okay. Come on
now, come on now.
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Okay, well, Lil Jon is the best
hype man of actual all time,
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but I don't know Lil Jon.
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I couldn't afford
him even if I did.
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You might not be able to
afford me after a while.
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Ah!
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Esti, can I talk to
you for a minute?
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Okay, and then, I come
around the corner,
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and there she is in my
favorite vintage apron.
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- The one you got at Ragstock?
- Yes!
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And now she's trying to be all
buddy-buddy with my sister?
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- Me?
- Yes, you.
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I can't even get my feet underneath
me 'cause everywhere I turn,
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there's Nadine and her
stupid fucking long legs.
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She does have outstanding legs.
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- Stop liking her!
- Ow! O-Okay, okay!
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- What do you want me to do?
- I don't know.
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Be mean to her, at
least when I'm around.
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I'm kidding. You know I'm
totally kidding, right?
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Who are you kidding? You
are totally not kidding.
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I also saw Mal and his
gorgeous girlfriend.
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I should sue her for
breaking my face, right?
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- Isn't she a lawyer?
- Oh, yeah. So that plan's a bust.
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Oh, also, Finn, all of a sudden, has
all these questions about his dad.
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I'm triggered as fuck. Somehow,
he got his hands on the album.
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Oh, that, that was me.
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- How could you?
- No, oh, yeah, yeah, I probably should've
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- told you. I...
- Yes! How could you?
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You know how I
feel about Johnny.
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I guess. It... But it-it... Vaguely,
okay? It's not like we ever talk about it.
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Yes, because there's
nothing to talk about.
233
00:10:09,151 --> 00:10:12,442
- He's totally not present.
- Which is why I got the record, okay?
234
00:10:12,446 --> 00:10:15,069
If I had a dad I never see
who dedicated something to me,
235
00:10:15,073 --> 00:10:16,905
I'd be all over that,
like a little piece of me.
236
00:10:16,909 --> 00:10:20,617
But this isn't you! This is
Finn, my kid, who is anxious!
237
00:10:20,621 --> 00:10:23,536
Okay, this is, uh, too much
Selling Sunset drama for me,
238
00:10:23,540 --> 00:10:25,622
and unlike those girls, I
actually have to sell this house.
239
00:10:25,626 --> 00:10:26,710
Okay.
240
00:10:27,085 --> 00:10:29,167
Beep, beep, beep...
241
00:10:29,171 --> 00:10:31,711
No, no, no, no. Okay, okay, can
you... Y... J... Turn that off.
242
00:10:31,715 --> 00:10:36,424
Trick, you need to phone a
friend, a friend named Murphy.
243
00:10:36,428 --> 00:10:38,176
- No.
- Mm.
244
00:10:38,180 --> 00:10:40,140
Oh, really?
245
00:10:40,849 --> 00:10:42,059
Go on.
246
00:10:49,233 --> 00:10:50,855
- Nadine...
- Hm?
247
00:10:50,859 --> 00:10:54,817
...I would like to invite you
to family therapy with us.
248
00:10:54,821 --> 00:10:56,945
I'm-I'm sorry, what?
249
00:10:56,949 --> 00:10:58,530
Yeah, I'm sure my
dad has told you
250
00:10:58,534 --> 00:11:00,907
that we're seeing someone
and we're learning a lot.
251
00:11:00,911 --> 00:11:03,076
- Whether we want to or not.
- This week, our therapist
252
00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:05,036
recommended that we include you,
253
00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,248
so for whatever reason,
I'm going along with it.
254
00:11:08,252 --> 00:11:11,251
But it's family therapy, so.
255
00:11:11,255 --> 00:11:14,462
Okay. She's inviting
you, take the win.
256
00:11:14,466 --> 00:11:18,428
'Cause I am ready to start
digging, even if it's my own grave.
257
00:11:18,846 --> 00:11:21,052
- Oh!
- Excuse me.
258
00:11:21,056 --> 00:11:22,140
Wh...
259
00:11:22,516 --> 00:11:25,143
No... No.
260
00:11:36,572 --> 00:11:37,902
- So, Mom?
- Mm-hm.
261
00:11:37,906 --> 00:11:39,737
- I've been texting my dad...
- What?
262
00:11:39,741 --> 00:11:44,075
...and, um... he's not going
on the road until January.
263
00:11:44,079 --> 00:11:45,994
I wanna go see him.
264
00:11:45,998 --> 00:11:47,912
He said I can visit
him, like, next week...
265
00:11:47,916 --> 00:11:50,790
Visit? Bu... No. Uh, Finn, your
dad should not be making promises
266
00:11:50,794 --> 00:11:52,417
about trips without
talking to me.
267
00:11:52,421 --> 00:11:54,627
But you don't have
to do anything.
268
00:11:54,631 --> 00:11:55,879
I'm old enough to go by myself.
269
00:11:55,883 --> 00:11:58,882
Honey, you haven't even gotten behind
the wheel of a car since the accident.
270
00:11:58,886 --> 00:12:00,717
Now you wanna get on
a plane by yourself?
271
00:12:00,721 --> 00:12:01,801
Mom, this is different.
272
00:12:01,805 --> 00:12:05,225
Finn, I... I'm sorry, it's a no.
273
00:12:06,518 --> 00:12:09,058
I smell tension. Anyone
else smell tension?
274
00:12:09,062 --> 00:12:11,231
Tension.
275
00:12:12,065 --> 00:12:13,313
Hello!
276
00:12:13,317 --> 00:12:15,315
Enchanté.
277
00:12:15,319 --> 00:12:17,609
You must be Nadine, the,
uh, non-legal stepmother
278
00:12:17,613 --> 00:12:19,319
who triggers the fuck
outta Paige, huh?
279
00:12:19,323 --> 00:12:21,112
Hm, is that what she told you?
280
00:12:21,116 --> 00:12:22,947
- Eh.
- Interesting.
281
00:12:22,951 --> 00:12:24,991
Right this way, please.
282
00:12:24,995 --> 00:12:26,784
You ready for this?
283
00:12:26,788 --> 00:12:29,082
Question is, are you?
284
00:12:33,295 --> 00:12:35,214
Paige, you okay?
285
00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,255
Um, my heart is
beating really fast,
286
00:12:39,259 --> 00:12:42,300
and, um, I just... I-I-I
d... I don't feel safe.
287
00:12:42,304 --> 00:12:46,808
Okay, well, at the risk
of sounding shrinky...
288
00:12:48,185 --> 00:12:50,934
Nadine, why, why do you
think Paige feels unsafe?
289
00:12:50,938 --> 00:12:52,018
I don't know.
290
00:12:52,022 --> 00:12:54,646
You'd think she owns
stock in childhood trauma.
291
00:12:54,650 --> 00:12:57,106
Oh, well, thanks to you,
I do own some shares.
292
00:12:57,110 --> 00:12:59,692
Do Finn and I really
need to be here for this?
293
00:12:59,696 --> 00:13:01,861
'Cause I can take him down
the street for a burger,
294
00:13:01,865 --> 00:13:03,071
- you know?
- We can bring you back some food.
295
00:13:03,075 --> 00:13:06,574
- No eating in my office.
- Paige, I want to help you
296
00:13:06,578 --> 00:13:08,159
work through your shit.
297
00:13:08,163 --> 00:13:09,244
- Oh, thank you.
- Okay?
298
00:13:09,248 --> 00:13:13,164
But it takes a special kind of love
to raise a child who's not your own.
299
00:13:13,168 --> 00:13:18,086
- A special kind of love?
- Good, Paige. Don't hold back now.
300
00:13:18,090 --> 00:13:20,672
Your body's telling you something.
What are you feeling right now?
301
00:13:20,676 --> 00:13:22,507
Take a deep breath,
identify the feeling...
302
00:13:22,511 --> 00:13:24,968
and then unleash, alright?
303
00:13:24,972 --> 00:13:28,600
We're gonna really have to wrestle
through some emotions today.
304
00:13:29,476 --> 00:13:30,811
Let's do it, Murph!
305
00:13:35,691 --> 00:13:38,147
Live from my office
in St. Louis Park,
306
00:13:38,151 --> 00:13:40,821
it's the Alexander
Family Therapy Smackdown!
307
00:13:42,531 --> 00:13:44,904
Let's get ready to valid a a ate
308
00:13:44,908 --> 00:13:46,243
our feelings.
309
00:13:46,785 --> 00:13:48,700
Round one! Ladies,
take your corners.
310
00:13:48,704 --> 00:13:53,454
Nadine, the Bi-polar
Babe versus Ragey Paigey.
311
00:13:53,458 --> 00:13:55,790
Okay, so first, start
with the flying dropkick.
312
00:13:55,794 --> 00:13:57,292
- What?
- And then go for her knees.
313
00:13:57,296 --> 00:13:58,585
- Okay.
- 'Cause she's got great legs,
314
00:13:58,589 --> 00:13:59,669
- but bad knees.
- I know.
315
00:13:59,673 --> 00:14:00,962
- Bad knees! Woo!
- Woo! Let's go!
316
00:14:00,966 --> 00:14:04,052
- Okay! Yeah! Woo!
- Yeah!
317
00:14:14,146 --> 00:14:16,477
A special kind of love?!
318
00:14:16,481 --> 00:14:19,105
You left me at a
truck stop in Arizona!
319
00:14:19,109 --> 00:14:22,317
I thought you were
sleeping in the back seat,
320
00:14:22,321 --> 00:14:24,360
and I came right back!
321
00:14:24,364 --> 00:14:26,992
Ooh!
322
00:14:28,243 --> 00:14:31,079
Two hours is not "right back"!
323
00:14:32,497 --> 00:14:33,870
In your face, Nadine!
324
00:14:33,874 --> 00:14:38,750
Because of you, I had to work
shitty office jobs for 10 years!
325
00:14:38,754 --> 00:14:42,299
I'm sorry! You could've
been turning tricks instead!
326
00:14:43,592 --> 00:14:46,591
- You know what?
- I'm so sorry, Nadine...
327
00:14:46,595 --> 00:14:49,427
- You gonna jump in or what?
- Trust the process. This is good.
328
00:14:49,431 --> 00:14:51,596
- Tell me something that you did for me...
- What?
329
00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,389
...other than put a
roof over my head.
330
00:14:53,393 --> 00:14:55,266
Oh, how 'bout put
you through college?
331
00:14:55,270 --> 00:14:56,768
Oh, no, no. I had work-study.
332
00:14:56,772 --> 00:14:58,732
Oh, work-study. That
didn't pay for shit.
333
00:15:02,819 --> 00:15:05,109
I took you to get
your ears pierced.
334
00:15:05,113 --> 00:15:09,785
Yes, after you made me watch you
get your belly button pierced!
335
00:15:12,663 --> 00:15:14,915
I should've spanked you then!
336
00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:21,167
You only ever do anything for me when
there is something in it for you!
337
00:15:21,171 --> 00:15:25,592
What kinda kid wants a mom who
just always puts herself first?
338
00:15:26,468 --> 00:15:28,303
That's a great question.
339
00:15:28,804 --> 00:15:29,805
- Bingo.
- Oh.
340
00:15:39,606 --> 00:15:42,359
- That's exactly what you do to me.
- Come on.
341
00:15:43,026 --> 00:15:46,317
- I said I wanna see my dad.
- Well, it's better this way!
342
00:15:46,321 --> 00:15:48,699
- Better for who?
- For you!
343
00:15:50,242 --> 00:15:53,867
- Did you stop him from visiting?
- No! No, of course not,
344
00:15:53,871 --> 00:15:57,124
but I, I couldn't
force him to step up.
345
00:15:58,208 --> 00:16:00,627
So you let my dad drift away?
346
00:16:02,045 --> 00:16:03,547
Because what?
347
00:16:05,382 --> 00:16:07,384
Ya didn't wanna deal with him?
348
00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:10,679
Hit him with the chair!
349
00:16:11,305 --> 00:16:12,931
Are you crazy?
350
00:16:14,183 --> 00:16:19,517
Is that what you need to hear from me?
That I, I fought for you to have a dad?
351
00:16:19,521 --> 00:16:21,895
Mom, I was too little
to fight for myself.
352
00:16:21,899 --> 00:16:25,815
Finn, it is so
hard to have a dad
353
00:16:25,819 --> 00:16:30,820
who, one minute, he's
there and it is great,
354
00:16:30,824 --> 00:16:36,747
but then, he's gone,
and it is terrible!
355
00:16:42,628 --> 00:16:44,959
And now, the moment we've
all been waiting for,
356
00:16:44,963 --> 00:16:50,219
the main event, Daddy
Destruction versus Ragey Paigey!
357
00:16:52,179 --> 00:16:55,720
I tell you that woman triggers me.
Everywhere you go, there she is!
358
00:16:55,724 --> 00:16:58,223
Nadine has been there for me.
359
00:16:58,227 --> 00:17:00,308
When you will not or
you cannot support me!
360
00:17:00,312 --> 00:17:03,144
Dad, you live in my house!
361
00:17:03,148 --> 00:17:06,026
I literally support you!
362
00:17:08,278 --> 00:17:13,196
Only after you remind me about
all the times I failed you.
363
00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:14,531
You think that helps me?
364
00:17:14,535 --> 00:17:18,580
I don't do that... all the time.
365
00:17:20,624 --> 00:17:23,377
Often enough, baby.
366
00:17:27,339 --> 00:17:29,587
Oh, yeah, oh, yeah.
367
00:17:29,591 --> 00:17:32,173
Paige, you can't keep
livin' in the past.
368
00:17:32,177 --> 00:17:36,469
All the time I done lost, I've
got to live in the right now!
369
00:17:36,473 --> 00:17:38,096
- Okay.
- We all do!
370
00:17:38,100 --> 00:17:39,180
Okay!
371
00:17:39,184 --> 00:17:43,772
But does the "right now" have
to include so much Nadine?
372
00:17:45,065 --> 00:17:48,606
Can I just cut in here
for a second? Wow.
373
00:17:48,610 --> 00:17:51,192
I am proud of you, Edwin.
You're really doin' the work.
374
00:17:51,196 --> 00:17:53,152
- Thank you, doc.
- You're welcome.
375
00:17:53,156 --> 00:17:54,445
- Now, Paige?
- Yes.
376
00:17:54,449 --> 00:17:57,323
Look, Nadine may be wildly
dysfunctional. She may be mis-attuned.
377
00:17:57,327 --> 00:17:59,868
She may have had a
bi-polar episode or two.
378
00:17:59,872 --> 00:18:01,786
- Or five.
- Or five,
379
00:18:01,790 --> 00:18:04,497
but she's not causing
the big reaction.
380
00:18:04,501 --> 00:18:09,419
Yes, there's big feelings
around her, but, him, your dad,
381
00:18:09,423 --> 00:18:13,343
what makes you really mad
about your dad, specifically?
382
00:18:18,140 --> 00:18:19,349
Dad.
383
00:18:20,517 --> 00:18:22,519
Gimme what you got, baby girl.
384
00:18:27,941 --> 00:18:34,360
I was so happy... when you
got out that first time.
385
00:18:34,364 --> 00:18:35,866
Do you remember?
386
00:18:36,575 --> 00:18:41,409
You finally came home, and
you took me out of foster care
387
00:18:41,413 --> 00:18:45,205
because I was gonna come
live with you again...
388
00:18:45,209 --> 00:18:51,298
and we were gonna go
shopping and... get a dog.
389
00:18:58,722 --> 00:19:02,347
But then... there
was this woman,
390
00:19:02,351 --> 00:19:08,394
and it was all Nadine
this and Nadine that,
391
00:19:08,398 --> 00:19:10,647
and then you just
left me with her.
392
00:19:10,651 --> 00:19:13,816
You left me with her.
393
00:19:13,820 --> 00:19:18,196
So, when I see you two together,
394
00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:22,116
I am right back in that moment
where everything was great,
395
00:19:22,120 --> 00:19:24,244
and then, suddenly,
it all fell apart.
396
00:19:24,248 --> 00:19:29,123
I am in that place where I
know that my daddy loves me...
397
00:19:29,127 --> 00:19:32,836
but he just keeps
leaving me anyway.
398
00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:38,800
So I stay mad at Nadine
because I can't get mad at you
399
00:19:38,804 --> 00:19:44,681
because I am so afraid that if
I let you see how angry I am
400
00:19:44,685 --> 00:19:49,273
that you will just
leave me again.
401
00:19:52,067 --> 00:19:55,487
There it is... There it is.
402
00:20:02,077 --> 00:20:03,867
Yes! Woo-hoo!
403
00:20:03,871 --> 00:20:07,249
I won! I won!
404
00:20:08,125 --> 00:20:10,335
Did you though, really?
405
00:20:13,797 --> 00:20:18,510
That was awesome. I'm so
fucking good at this, aren't I?
406
00:20:23,056 --> 00:20:24,679
Are sessions always like that?
407
00:20:24,683 --> 00:20:28,057
Sometimes Murphy reads
from his book, you know?
408
00:20:28,061 --> 00:20:31,394
But... yeah, yeah.
409
00:20:31,398 --> 00:20:34,484
I don't know how you
do this every week.
410
00:20:35,110 --> 00:20:36,737
- Nadine...
- Hm?
411
00:20:37,988 --> 00:20:40,616
...I feel like we need to
take a step back, girl.
412
00:20:44,036 --> 00:20:46,075
At least while I'm
livin' with Paige.
413
00:20:46,079 --> 00:20:50,788
I don't think your grown daughter should
dictate what goes on in your life.
414
00:20:50,792 --> 00:20:54,501
In a lotta ways, she
ain't grown, Nadine.
415
00:20:54,505 --> 00:20:58,463
Paige is stuck at age eight
when I left her with you.
416
00:20:58,467 --> 00:21:01,549
- Oh...
- Now you know her mama walked out
417
00:21:01,553 --> 00:21:02,967
before she could
lace up her shoes.
418
00:21:02,971 --> 00:21:04,594
- I know.
- Okay.
419
00:21:04,598 --> 00:21:07,889
We don't know that
kinda pain, Nadine,
420
00:21:07,893 --> 00:21:12,560
and if ever I'm gonna,
like, heal this family...
421
00:21:12,564 --> 00:21:14,274
I gotta be a father first.
422
00:21:14,691 --> 00:21:15,901
Father first?
423
00:21:16,485 --> 00:21:18,695
- Yeah.
- It's kinda hot.
424
00:21:20,489 --> 00:21:23,700
- I'm trying to do the right thing, Nadine.
- I know.
425
00:21:24,493 --> 00:21:26,495
And right now, this feels...
426
00:21:29,331 --> 00:21:30,832
It's for the best.
427
00:21:34,795 --> 00:21:38,423
I gotta show up the way my
family need for me to show up.
428
00:21:53,856 --> 00:21:57,484
Your dad loves card
games, like you...
429
00:21:58,360 --> 00:22:02,281
and when you were four, he
taught you to play Go Fish,
430
00:22:03,156 --> 00:22:05,238
and with your
little, tiny hands,
431
00:22:05,242 --> 00:22:08,908
you could barely hold
onto all the cards.
432
00:22:08,912 --> 00:22:11,703
And then he would
go off on the road,
433
00:22:11,707 --> 00:22:13,621
and you would come and say,
434
00:22:13,625 --> 00:22:18,005
"Mommy, please, I wanna go fishing.
Let's go fishing, let's go fish."
435
00:22:18,630 --> 00:22:22,384
And you just always
seemed so sad.
436
00:22:23,385 --> 00:22:27,431
I just... I don't want
that to keep happening.
437
00:22:28,182 --> 00:22:29,721
You know what Murphy would say?
438
00:22:29,725 --> 00:22:32,519
Oh, what would Murphy say?
439
00:22:35,147 --> 00:22:37,896
Paige, darling Paige...
440
00:22:37,900 --> 00:22:42,317
I wonder, is sad how
Finn has always felt...
441
00:22:42,321 --> 00:22:45,236
or is that how you
have always felt?
442
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:48,531
- Oh!
- Asking for a friend.
443
00:22:48,535 --> 00:22:52,285
Oh, the shade!
444
00:22:52,289 --> 00:22:55,371
Murphy, where are your
weird, dangling suspenders?
445
00:22:55,375 --> 00:22:57,373
I actually like the suspenders.
446
00:22:57,377 --> 00:22:59,671
- No.
- Yeah, they're kinda cool.
447
00:23:03,884 --> 00:23:05,302
Finn...
448
00:23:06,845 --> 00:23:09,473
I cannot keep you from your dad.
449
00:23:11,642 --> 00:23:14,520
So, if you really...
450
00:23:16,104 --> 00:23:19,733
wanna see him, then
I will take you.
451
00:23:24,238 --> 00:23:25,447
Really?
452
00:23:27,115 --> 00:23:28,321
Yes.
453
00:23:28,325 --> 00:23:31,241
♪ Now that we found love ♪
454
00:23:31,245 --> 00:23:35,662
♪ What are we gonna do with it ♪
455
00:23:35,666 --> 00:23:39,415
- ♪ Sweet love... ♪
- ♪ Now that we found love ♪
456
00:23:39,419 --> 00:23:43,715
♪ What are we gonna do with it ♪
457
00:23:45,843 --> 00:23:48,716
♪ Let's give it a chance ♪
458
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:53,225
♪ Let it control our destiny ♪
459
00:23:54,142 --> 00:24:00,649
♪ We owe it to ourselves
to live happy eternally ♪
460
00:24:01,650 --> 00:24:05,775
♪ Oh, love is what
we've been lookin' for ♪
461
00:24:05,779 --> 00:24:10,613
♪ And love is what we've
been searchin' for ♪
462
00:24:10,617 --> 00:24:14,329
♪ Now that I've got it
right here in my hands ♪
463
00:24:14,872 --> 00:24:19,038
♪ Seems like I'm gonna
spread it all over the land ♪
464
00:24:19,042 --> 00:24:21,708
♪ Now that we found love ♪
465
00:24:21,712 --> 00:24:25,211
♪ What are we gonna
do with it... ♪
466
00:24:25,215 --> 00:24:27,092
Woo-hoo!
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