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Well…

So this is it.

The adult, single life.

From now on I'm focusing on getting a job and having kids, right?

Or tidying up your house first?

Hi honey xx we're on our way to the Van Gogh museum

and we'll drop by after xxx

see you in a bit sweetheart x mom

Does growing up mean that you are never completely satisfied?

But you also don't really know what it is exactly that you're not satisfied with.

I mean, it is nice to become independent. Graduate, have relationships.

But I still don't really know what I'm doing.

And I also don't really know what would make me happy.

Or… well…

Seriously?

Hello?

-Hey! -Hi.

-You are early. -What were you doing?

Nothing, just a little bit of cleaning.

-Hello. -Hi.

I forgot, but my parents are coming over.

Oh, Jos and Lies, nice!

Wow, Lil, that's so cool.

Yes, it is really nice. I start next month. It's just…

-What you always wanted. -Yes, what I always wanted.

Great job.

-Yes. -And you look good.

Well, thank you.

No, I mean… Well, just good. Happy.

I do feel really good. Yes…

-And Doris. -Yes, and Doris.

We have been together for almost a year now.

She's a pretty girl.

Doris does not necessarily call themself a girl.

Usually, we just say Doris, sometimes he, sometimes she.

There isn't really a neutral term in Dutch.

No, no… Huh?

Can't you think of that? You are the word wizard, aren't you?

Ah, yes sure. That's true.

I'm going to work on it. But you have to pay me, because I'm almost broke.

But, do you have…

-A Doris? -A Doris.

No, no…

I did have a Sara, but that is…

over.

So now nothing.

That's also nice, right?

It is, yeah.

But? Not good?

Yes, it is.

-Hello. -Hi, dad.

Come in.

-Oh, hey! -Hello. Hi, Liesbeth.

What a surprise. Nice to see you again.

-I was just leaving, actually. -Yes.

-Well, that's a pity. -I'll walk you out.

-Say hi to your mom, will you? -Definitely, I will.

-Have a nice day! -Yes.

-Yes, bye. -Bye.

-Have fun with your parents. -Thanks.

Bye.

Okay…

That was…

I don't know.

Nice gadget. With Bluetooth?

Yes…

Oh, it turns!

-Are you alright? -Yes.

-Well, it looks beautiful. -Very nice.

A lot needs to be done, still. I don't even have a toilet brush.

Should we go to Ikea?

Honey, it's Sunday. I'm not going to go there on a Sunday.

I don't mean today.

I can go on Wednesday.

No, I can't. I have meetings on Wednesday.

-But I can go. -Are you going to carry everything?

We are just picking up a toilet brush, I think we'll manage.

Am I going to be the same in 30 years?

Arguing with my wife…

dressed like my father?

What was Lily doing here?

Are you two…

No, we're not. No, we…

She just came to visit and chat.

She's a nice girl.

-She looks good. -Yeah.

Yes, she is.

What do you mean?

I don't know.

Looking for work and stuff. I don't know what I want.

Annie, you graduated with a very good grade, you are talented.

Of course you will find a job.

I graduated in the crisis of the 1980s and I also found a job.

Mom, that's very different. That's years ago, a lot has changed.

What's different? You finish studying, you apply for jobs and find one.

And your generation has so much more opportunities.

That's the point, but never mind, it's not only work stuff.

What is it?

Is it love? Is it Sara? Are you sad?

No, she is not… There is no one.

Is that it? Do you feel lonely?

No! No, it's…

I don't always have to have a girlfriend, you know.

I just want to know what's going on.

Nothing is going on.

Nothing!

Well, I'm just in a strange mood, I think.

But Anne, listen. We all feel like that sometimes.

You don't need an answer for everything.

Life is all about searching, making mistakes and learning from them.

-Exactly. -Like marrying your father.

Well.

What?

Nothing.

Just, the usual parent talk that everything is going to be alright.

Is that a thing?

Apparently.

Well, I'm proud of you, sweetheart.

Thanks, dad.

See you Wednesday. Then we'll go to Ikea.

I'll pick you up and we'll get some breakfast first, okay?

-Bye, baby! -Bye!

Yeah, they are probably right.

What did you guys forget now?

You know, I don't always feel like overthinking things.

I will always keep making mistakes.

Oh, hey.

Hey, I've…

left my sunglasses here.

Okay.

Okay.

I mean, I'm not perfect.