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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,000 Hi everyone and welcome to Paradigm Shift Weekend. We are so excited to have you joining us. 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:12,000 We have over a hundred countries from around the world streaming into this event this weekend and it's going to be incredible. 3 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:16,000 Behind the scenes, our team has been working to make sure you have the very best experience. 4 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:20,000 Of course, we've already sent out the live stream link, which is why you're seeing this. 5 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:25,000 You have a download of your workbook. Go ahead and download that. Print it off if you haven't already. 6 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:32,000 You're going to want to have it in front of you all weekend with a pen and paper to take lots of notes as we get into some really great stuff through Paradigm Shift. 7 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:38,000 Right now, we're opening the room for our VIPs. In a couple of minutes, our general attendees will be making their way into the room. 8 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:43,000 And then Bob Proctor is going to take the stage this morning for an amazing session that you don't want to miss. 9 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,000 Alright, we'll be back soon. 10 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:50,000 The Proctor Gallagher Institute is a phenomenal organization. 11 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:55,000 We have attracted some of the most beautiful people in the world. We really have. 12 00:00:55,000 --> 00:01:05,000 We help people get in touch with themselves, help them understand who they are and what they are, how to live the life they really want to live. 13 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:11,000 You see, I think the educational system has fallen short on this. 14 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:17,000 People never really find out what they're capable of doing. They don't really get in touch with themselves. 15 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:20,000 That's what the Proctor Gallagher Institute is. 16 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:26,000 You know, a really special part of our company are our Proctor Gallagher Institute consultants. 17 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:32,000 We have consultants all over the world that are out there facilitating our programs. 18 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:40,000 And you know, this is a special industry. If it's something that you're thinking about getting into, you are on the verge of the best decision of your life. 19 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:57,000 Because when you think about having the tools that enable you to really help someone get what they want deep in their heart for their life, for their loved one, and then you see that happen, I can't even explain how rewarding it is. 20 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:19,000 I have a purpose personally to live and work in a prosperous environment that encourages productivity and pleasure so that we can improve the service we render to our family, our company, our community, our nation, and ultimately the world. 21 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:24,000 We want people to really live the way they want to live. 22 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:32,000 You see, I personally believe you and I are spiritual beings. We're God's highest form of creation. 23 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:39,000 I have come to the conclusion that our spiritual DNA is perfect. There's perfection within us. 24 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:43,000 And it requires no modification, no improvement. 25 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:56,000 So what we have to do is get into an environment, get into the proper material to bring that dynamic, that genius that's locked up within every one of us, bring it to the surface. 26 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:59,000 But that's really what the Proctor Gallagher Institute is. 27 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:26,000 We create programs, recorded, video, audio, printed matter, and we do live seminars all over the world, helping people really get a grip on life so that they begin earning the amount of money they need to provide the things they want to live the way they choose to live, to work with like-minded people, to be in an environment that's conducive to the unfoldment of the soul. 28 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:30,000 We have done an excellent job of that up to this point. 29 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:36,000 Now we know there's no right way to do anything. It can be a good way, it can be a valid way, but there's always a better way. 30 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:40,000 And we're looking for the better way. 31 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:47,000 You might want to come and join us. 32 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:50,000 Good morning. 33 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,000 How are you? 34 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:55,000 Yeah. 35 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,000 Welcome to LA. 36 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:02,000 How do you like our new digs? 37 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:03,000 Good stuff. 38 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:04,000 Well, welcome to Paradigm Shift. 39 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:07,000 We are excited to have you here. 40 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:19,000 You know, I was walking through the audience, just kind of mixing and mingling with some people, and the change that has taken place in some people's lives is absolutely amazing. 41 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:23,000 I spoke with Victoria and she said, I have been coming here for two years. 42 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:26,000 And she says, my life isn't even recognizable. 43 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:29,000 She said, who knew? 44 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:30,000 I was talking to Anders. 45 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,000 He said, two years ago, he said, I came here. 46 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:35,000 He says, everything has just turned around. 47 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:38,000 I was talking to Wendy, better health. 48 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:41,000 I was talking to someone else. 49 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,000 Oh, Mick. 50 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,000 I said, how are you doing, Mick? 51 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:49,000 Got another meeting with Disney, with Disney. 52 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:54,000 Like, how does that happen? 53 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:59,000 You are going to meet some great people here this weekend. 54 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:09,000 But you have to make a decision right here, right now, that you are going to do things differently. 55 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:12,000 This is your life. 56 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,000 This is it. 57 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:18,000 Streamers, same thing. 58 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:24,000 You need to make a decision sitting in your living room or having a coffee in your kitchen or watching it in bed, whatever you're doing. 59 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:25,000 This is your life. 60 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:27,000 This is now. 61 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:28,000 Don't leave here. 62 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:35,000 Don't take away this experience and put it on the shelf, because then it's just shelf help. 63 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,000 Are you going to make a decision? 64 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:38,000 All right. 65 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:43,000 Tommy, let's roll our video. 66 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:52,000 How do you escape a prison if you don't know you're in one paradigm? 67 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:55,000 It starts from the moment you're born. 68 00:05:55,000 --> 00:06:02,000 You pick it up from your parents, your teachers, your friends. 69 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:14,000 It's the way you tie your shoes, how you answer the phone, the sound of your laugh, the stride of your walk. 70 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:18,000 It's how you react to the world around you. 71 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:26,000 It's always been there, silently directing your every move. 72 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:39,000 Paradigm, a mental program that has almost exclusive control over your habitual behavior. 73 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:52,000 But something deep down inside of you wants to break out. 74 00:06:52,000 --> 00:07:02,000 It yearns for more, seeking fuller expression and greater expansion. 75 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:09,000 Bigger, better, faster. 76 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:13,000 You're in the right place at the right time. 77 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:21,000 Two master thinkers, three days of mind expansion, teaching you about you. 78 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:26,000 Bob Proctor and Sandy Gallagher hold the key. 79 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:32,000 Calm down, speed up, unleash you. 80 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:37,000 Bob Proctor has been in the personal development industry for a very, very long time. 81 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,000 Everywhere he goes, people love him. 82 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,000 They just absolutely resonate with him. 83 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:45,000 Joining us now is Bob Proctor, New York Times bestselling author, lecturer, and counselor. 84 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:50,000 He's been described as preaching the gospel of positive thinking and maximizing human potential. 85 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:56,000 The minute he started talking is like someone took my head off, shook it around, and put it back on. 86 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:59,000 And everything I thought was true was just like upside down. 87 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:06,000 He was saying things that I had always believed but were so contrary to what the masses thought. 88 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:13,000 Bob Proctor is one of the greatest teachers and speakers in the field of success and personal development in history. 89 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:17,000 He has worked all over the world and worked with some of the largest companies in the world 90 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:20,000 and changed their bottom line tremendously. 91 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,000 The number one prosperity teacher in America, number one. 92 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:28,000 You look at all the list of great speakers in the world and Bob's always at the very top. 93 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:32,000 He's just an incredible person. 94 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,000 Bob has appeared as one of the stars in the hit movie, The Secret, 95 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:40,000 and has helped to bring the tools and tactics of truly living a great life to the masses. 96 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:45,000 He is the material. He lives it every single day. It's just who he is. 97 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:51,000 I don't know anybody that understands paradigms and how to change them like Bob does. 98 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:56,000 He just lays it on the line and he tells you how it is. He tells you the truth. 99 00:08:56,000 --> 00:09:02,000 His total focus is you, what your goals and aspirations are, what your dreams are. 100 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:07,000 Bob Proctor is the kindest, most wonderful human being I've ever met. 101 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:13,000 He truly has a genuine want for people to improve their lives, period. 102 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:22,000 He's so giving and humble. He will literally help anyone he comes in contact with. 103 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:27,000 All he cares about is helping you, helping you get what you want. 104 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:32,000 And he truly gives to everybody, whether it's one person in the room or hundreds or even thousands. 105 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:37,000 I don't know anyone better than Bob Proctor to get you to see what's right within you. 106 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:42,000 And his whole intent is to create awareness so that each one of us have an opportunity to be at our best 107 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:45,000 and to create the way we were designed to create. 108 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:49,000 Truly, there are few who have done it better and made a greater impact than Bob has. 109 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:54,000 Bob has been doing this for 57 years. He's 84 and nobody can keep up with him. 110 00:09:54,000 --> 00:10:01,000 As hard as we try, he is probably going to do more in the next 25 years than he's done in 57. 111 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:05,000 Millions of people worldwide have been positively affected by Bob's message 112 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:10,000 and he's here today with us to give you the insights you need to live your best life ever. 113 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:18,000 Ladies and gentlemen, at 84 years young, give it up for Bob Proctor! 114 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:27,000 Good morning! 115 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:30,000 Good morning! 116 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:36,000 Good morning! Thank you. 117 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,000 Thank you, thank you, thank you. 118 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:47,000 If you look in the bag that they've given you, I hope you have it, there's a coin in there. 119 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:50,000 You can actually get it to coin it. 120 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:55,000 There's double Rs on both sides. 121 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:05,000 It's not very big, but you'll find it. It's in a little plastic sleeve. 122 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:21,000 Now, on one side of that coin, if you put it in your hand, just rub your thumb across one side of it 123 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:24,000 and then flip the other side and rub your thumb across it. 124 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:29,000 You'll find one side is smooth and one side is rough. 125 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,000 That's sort of like life, isn't it? 126 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:38,000 One side of it can be very rough, the other side can be absolutely beautiful, just runs really smooth. 127 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:40,000 Okay? 128 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:50,000 Now, most of us have been raised with an idea in our mind that's part of our paradigm 129 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:55,000 when someone says something nasty to us, bang, we get up right back. 130 00:11:56,000 --> 00:12:00,000 If somebody does something, we're going to get even. 131 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,000 We're going to react. 132 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:11,000 You'll notice that two Rs, it says react and you lose control. 133 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:15,000 When you react, you lose control. 134 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:21,000 You've given control of your life to the person or the situation that you're reacting to. 135 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,000 Now, think of this for a moment. 136 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:32,000 I remember Sandy had me talk to her niece one time when she was around 15. 137 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:38,000 And she and her mother were sparring frequently, which isn't unusual for a 15-year-old. 138 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:43,000 And I got on the phone with her and I taught her this idea. 139 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:47,000 She went home, her mother wondered what the hell happened to her. 140 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:51,000 She quit reacting to mom. 141 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:55,000 When we quit reacting, we're a lot happier. 142 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,000 Now, look at the other side. 143 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,000 It's smooth. 144 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:05,000 It says respond and you're in control. 145 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:10,000 Now, the situation doesn't change. 146 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:14,000 Person has done or the situation is exactly the same. 147 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,000 It's just that you're not reacting to it. 148 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:19,000 You stop and you think, I wonder why they're doing that. 149 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:21,000 I wonder why that happened. 150 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:24,000 And you think and you respond to it. 151 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:29,000 Victor Frankl wrote a marvelous book, Man's Search for Meaning. 152 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:32,000 He spent the war years in a concentration camp. 153 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:37,000 Here's a Jewish psychiatrist in a concentration camp during the war. 154 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:42,000 Now, I don't suppose maybe anybody has been treated worse intellectually and physically 155 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:46,000 than someone in a concentration camp during a war. 156 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:59,000 And he said, in every situation, between the situation and your response, there is a space. 157 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:06,000 In that space, you decide what your response will be. 158 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:11,000 Now, the space may only be a millisecond, but you've got to know you're dealing with your mind. 159 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:17,000 It's the most complex, the most phenomenal instrument in the world. 160 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:19,000 And we've all got one. 161 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:21,000 Now, how do we use it? 162 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:25,000 Do we go through really reacting or do we respond? 163 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:29,000 Now, I'm going to ask you to carry this around with you. 164 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:35,000 Get in use of taking it out of your purse or out of your pocket and just rub your hand on it. 165 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:39,000 And you'll see one side's smooth and one side's rough. 166 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:45,000 And there's all kinds of situations every day that you can react to. 167 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:51,000 But instead of reacting, you stop and you start to respond. 168 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:57,000 Now, I remember when Sandy was telling me about her young niece. 169 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:02,000 She said it was absolutely amazing. 170 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:09,000 Now, I've been working at this for a long, long time, since 1961. 171 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:13,000 Some of you, your grandparents weren't even born then. 172 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:21,000 And I have tested these ideas in just about every way you can think of. 173 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:27,000 I've worked with people that have worked with them in just about every field that you can think of. 174 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:31,000 And I've never found anywhere where it doesn't work. 175 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,000 It works everywhere. 176 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:38,000 Phil Goldfine's forever sending me a text. 177 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,000 This works everywhere, doesn't it? 178 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:48,000 He's obviously just experienced a win over some situation. 179 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:52,000 And I said, yeah, it works everywhere, doesn't it? 180 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:54,000 And it really does. 181 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:00,000 These ideas are so powerful. 182 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:03,000 But we've got to get them right into our psyche. 183 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:06,000 You've got to get them deep into your subconscious mind. 184 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:10,000 You've got to make them a part of your paradigm where nothing really changes. 185 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:14,000 Now, you don't change a paradigm overnight. 186 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:22,000 I think if you've got a, in your bag, if you've got a great big thick ring binder. 187 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:24,000 No, that's not it. 188 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:26,000 I don't think that's it. 189 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:28,000 No, that's your workbook. 190 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:29,000 That's what you're going to use now. 191 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:30,000 Is there another one in the bag? 192 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:31,000 Where's Gina? 193 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:34,000 Gina, where are you? 194 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:36,000 Behind the curtain. 195 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:40,000 All right. 196 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:46,000 Have you, have we handed out the, they're in the bag, a big thick book. 197 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:55,000 Open it up. 198 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:03,000 No, I'm talking about the, I'm talking about where the, not that. 199 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:08,000 I'm talking about the one where the left-handed writing is in it, Gina. 200 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:10,000 That's the one where they write it. 201 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:12,000 Which one, the one? 202 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:13,000 The white one. 203 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:15,000 The little one? 204 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:17,000 The big one. 205 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:18,000 Let me see the inside of that. 206 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:19,000 No, this one. 207 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:20,000 Yeah. 208 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:21,000 Let me see that. 209 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:22,000 No, this isn't it. 210 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:24,000 Huh? 211 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:28,000 Oh, we don't have the thick one? 212 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:30,000 You know the one I'm working with? 213 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:33,000 Ah, you're going to get it tomorrow. 214 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:34,000 Is this yours? 215 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:39,000 We're looking for something you don't even have. 216 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:42,000 Well, at any rate, you're going to get it tomorrow. 217 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:44,000 You're going to get it tomorrow. 218 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:46,000 You're going to get it tomorrow. 219 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:48,000 You're going to get it tomorrow. 220 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:49,000 You're going to get it tomorrow. 221 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:51,000 You're going to get it tomorrow. 222 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,000 You're going to get it tomorrow. 223 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:55,000 And there's an exercise in it. 224 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:57,000 It's thick. 225 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:02,000 I think there may be enough pages in there for the whole year. 226 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:10,000 And on that, on every page, at the top of the page, you write out ten things you're grateful for. 227 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:14,000 Then there is a statement. 228 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:15,000 A statement. 229 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:17,000 And you're going to wish that Gina had made it shorter. 230 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:24,000 There's three lines, and you've got to write them with your non-dominant hand. 231 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:27,000 Now, I'm right-handed, so I've got to write with my left hand. 232 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:31,000 You have to rewrite this statement every day. 233 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,000 I'm on my 44th day right today. 234 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:36,000 I've done it already. 235 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:37,000 It's the first thing I do. 236 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:40,000 I do this exercise. 237 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:45,000 Now, I've worked with paradigms for many, many years. 238 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:48,000 This is teaching me something new about paradigms. 239 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:53,000 When I'm writing with my right hand, that's part of my paradigm. 240 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:55,000 It's just a free flow. 241 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:57,000 And I can be a very good writer. 242 00:18:58,000 --> 00:18:59,000 I don't have to think. 243 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:02,000 It's just all automatic. 244 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:09,000 When I go to write with my left hand, I've got to think of every move that that is going to make. 245 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:11,000 That pen makes. 246 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:16,000 If I try and hurry, it looks like Chinese art. 247 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:25,000 If my mind comes off the pen, it looks like it's just a mess. 248 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:30,000 So in 44 days, it's still pretty much of a mess. 249 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:36,000 I am holding to the image that by the time I finish the book, 250 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:39,000 I will be as proficient with this hand as I am with this hand. 251 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:41,000 But I'm doing it every day. 252 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,000 Now, we handed those out at the last meeting. 253 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:49,000 And somebody gave me one, but I didn't take it home. 254 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:54,000 And then I got thinking about, I should get one of those damn things and do that. 255 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:59,000 So I had Gina go to the printers and have them make up another one for me. 256 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,000 And I started to use it. 257 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:09,000 And I'm going to tell you, it makes you very acutely aware of just how powerful a paradigm is. 258 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:15,000 You see, writing with my left hand is forming a new paradigm. 259 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,000 My mind doesn't want me to go there. 260 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:20,000 It trying cons me. 261 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:24,000 I think, well, you don't have to do it today. You could do it tomorrow. 262 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:26,000 You're talking to yourself all the time. 263 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:34,000 Now, about three weeks ago, that'd be halfway of what I've done now, about 21 days ago. 264 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:36,000 My mind started to work. 265 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:37,000 My mind started to work. 266 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:39,000 Are you really going to take this on the road with you? 267 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:41,000 It's pretty damn thick, you know. 268 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:43,000 It's going to be heavy. 269 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:48,000 And, you know, you could skip the time you're on the road. 270 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:53,000 Oh, it is insidious how this paradigm works. 271 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:55,000 It'll con you. 272 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:57,000 It will con you every time. 273 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:01,000 Yet puts up a very logical argument. 274 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:03,000 And you know something? 275 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:04,000 It's often you lose. 276 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:12,000 You've got to be really locked in to change it. 277 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:14,000 Now, think of this. 278 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:22,000 Why is it that only around three or four percent of the population really make it in life? 279 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:27,000 There's more than three or four percent that are very, very bright. 280 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:33,000 Probably at least 60 or 70 percent of the population are pretty brilliant. 281 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,000 Now, there may be a 20 or 30 that are a little slow. 282 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,000 But we've all got the same potential. 283 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,000 Every one of us has the same potential. 284 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:46,000 Why is it only three or four percent really make it happen? 285 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:48,000 It's paradigms. 286 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,000 Yes, it's got nothing to do with how smart you are. 287 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,000 I remember when I was a kid. 288 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,000 I was a bad kid. 289 00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,000 Not real bad, but bad. 290 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:01,000 You know, everything's relative. 291 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:03,000 Relative to my brother and sister, I was terrible. 292 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:08,000 But at any rate, my mother would say, why'd you do that? 293 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:10,000 I don't know. 294 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:12,000 But it means you don't know. 295 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:14,000 You know better. 296 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:16,000 I know. 297 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:18,000 Well, why'd you do it? 298 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:20,000 I don't know. 299 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,000 Just a few hours later. 300 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:24,000 Why'd you do that? 301 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:26,000 I don't know. 302 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:28,000 But you know better. 303 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:30,000 I know. 304 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:32,000 Why'd you do it? 305 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:34,000 I don't know. 306 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:36,000 My teachers would say, why'd you do that? 307 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:38,000 I don't know. 308 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:40,000 Well, you know better than that. 309 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:42,000 I know. 310 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:44,000 Why'd you do it? 311 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:46,000 I don't know. 312 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:48,000 I got married. 313 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:49,000 Why'd you do that? 314 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:51,000 I said, drop it right there. 315 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:55,000 And you know why you're laughing? 316 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:57,000 Because you can relate to what I just said. 317 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,000 Your mother asked you why you do that. 318 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:02,000 You said, I don't know. 319 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:04,000 And you don't know. 320 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,000 And you did know better. 321 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:08,000 So why'd you do it? You don't know. 322 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:10,000 Well, you know now. 323 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:12,000 It's your paradigm that's in control of you. 324 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:14,000 And the paradigm isn't the part that knows. 325 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:16,000 The conscious mind knows. 326 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:19,000 The intellect knows what you should do. 327 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:21,000 That doesn't mean you're doing it. 328 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:27,000 Every one of us know, we all know, how to do better than we're doing. 329 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:31,000 We've got to do it. 330 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:40,000 Now, hopefully by Sunday afternoon, you're going to be acutely aware of how much your paradigm is controlling you. 331 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:42,000 It's costing you money. 332 00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:46,000 It's costing you success in every aspect of life. 333 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,000 I don't care what it is. 334 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:50,000 And I don't care what you're earning. 335 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:52,000 It's still costing you money. 336 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:54,000 Because you can do better. 337 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,000 None of us know what we're capable of doing. 338 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:03,000 No one, the wisest among us, do not know what we are capable of doing. 339 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:08,000 Our purpose in life is to find out what we're capable of doing. 340 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:10,000 We're spiritual beings. 341 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:14,000 Spirit's always for expansion and fuller expression, never for disintegration. 342 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:21,000 So if we're not continually growing and expanding, we're not doing what we're designed to do. 343 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:24,000 We're powerful beings. 344 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,000 Now, I'm going to digress for a moment. 345 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:31,000 Some of you see a little diamond pin here in my lapel. 346 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,000 I'm frequently asked, what's a diamond pin? 347 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,000 Well, for a long time I said, it's just a pin. 348 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,000 I was in Amsterdam in the 60s. 349 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:44,000 And they cut diamonds in Amsterdam. 350 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,000 And I heard about it and I found it on place. 351 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,000 And I went in and they had all these diamonds and diamond cutters. 352 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:56,000 And they had a showcase, of course, with rings and necklaces and God knows what. 353 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,000 And they had this little diamond pin. 354 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:01,000 It's an exclamation mark. 355 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:03,000 It's like that with a chip. 356 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:04,000 I said, you selling that? 357 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,000 The guy said, everything there's for sale, sir. 358 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,000 I said, I want to buy that. 359 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:16,000 So I bought it and I wore it in my lapel for the longest time, probably two or three years. 360 00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,000 Every time I changed the suit, I put the pin on. 361 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:21,000 And I lost it. 362 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:26,000 I don't know how I lost it, but I'd worn it for a long time. 363 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,000 And there was no purpose for it. 364 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,000 I just liked it. 365 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:32,000 And I wore it in my lapel. 366 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:44,000 Well, when we were, we had a party celebrating my 50 years in this business a while ago, a few years ago. 367 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:51,000 And Sandy said to me just before that, she's, do you ever wear any jewelry? 368 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,000 And I said, no. 369 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:55,000 I said, cufflinks, that's about it. 370 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:57,000 I don't like a watch. 371 00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:59,000 I've never worn a watch. 372 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,000 I was figuring, I'm here because now. 373 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:03,000 I mean, that's it. 374 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,000 Well, it's, you know, you can be very accurate knowing what time it is. 375 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,000 It's amazing how accurate we can be without wearing a watch. 376 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:15,000 But anyway, I said, I used to wear a little diamond pin. 377 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:20,000 It was an exclamation mark, a little baguette and a chip. 378 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:22,000 Well, she said, how big was it? 379 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:24,000 So I just scribed it to her. 380 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,000 And she said, well, where is it? 381 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:27,000 I said, I lost it. 382 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,000 But I wore it for a long time. 383 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:34,000 Well, on this 50th anniversary, she had one of these made and give to me. 384 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,000 I only had it for about a week and I lost it. 385 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:45,000 I said, oh, God, this isn't something I can say I left at home every time. 386 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,000 So I get on the phone and I said, you know that pin you gave me? 387 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:50,000 I really loved it. 388 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,000 And I appreciate it. 389 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:53,000 I lost it. 390 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:55,000 She said, how did you lose it? 391 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:57,000 I don't know. 392 00:26:58,000 --> 00:26:59,000 That was the deal. 393 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:01,000 I didn't know. 394 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,000 And she bought me another one. 395 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:07,000 I haven't lost it. 396 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:14,000 Then I got thinking, we should use this for something since we got it. 397 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:19,000 And I thought, let's say it's the mark of a million. 398 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,000 So one of our people earned a million bucks. 399 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:24,000 We give them a diamond pin. 400 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:34,000 Now, somebody in the consulting division, they got very creative and they come up with a silver pin and a gold pin and and God knows what kind of a pin. 401 00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:36,000 And the ultimate is the diamond pin. 402 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:37,000 Now, we've got a couple of people that have got the diamond pins. 403 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:47,000 And I remember one day, Sandy said to me, you know, that's almost a sexist thing. 404 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:49,000 I said, why? 405 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:51,000 Well, she said, women don't have lapels usually. 406 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:53,000 They have dresses. 407 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,000 They have frilly blouses. 408 00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:57,000 I said, I don't know. 409 00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,000 I don't know. 410 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:00,000 That's almost a sexist thing. 411 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:02,000 I said, why? 412 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,000 Well, she said, women don't have lapels usually. 413 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:06,000 They have dresses. 414 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:08,000 They have frilly blouses, you know, you know, sheer blouses and everything. 415 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,000 And you try and put one of these pins on a sheer blouse. 416 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,000 In fact, you try and put one on the blouse at all. 417 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:17,000 You'd be in trouble. 418 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:22,000 And she said, we should have something for women. 419 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:28,000 I said, probably a good idea. 420 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,000 Well, she said, do you really think of this? 421 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:34,000 And I said, leave it with me. 422 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:36,000 I'll take care of it. 423 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,000 She's really going to do it. 424 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,000 Let's just leave it with me. 425 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:50,000 Now, I would like to, we give them for somebody that's one in a million or an exceptional employee. 426 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:54,000 Somebody that works in a company that really does something special. 427 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:58,000 We have two very special, we've got a lot of special people. 428 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:03,000 In fact, I think we've got some of the best people in our company you're going to find anywhere. 429 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:05,000 They're phenomenal. 430 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:11,000 But these two, Gina will have, she will be with me. 431 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,000 She's my personal assistant. 432 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,000 And she's worked with me 33 years this Wednesday. 433 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:18,000 33 years. 434 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:26,000 And she makes all kinds of magic happen. 435 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:32,000 One day Sandy said to me, how the hell does she do everything she does? 436 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,000 And I said, I don't know. 437 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:36,000 I don't even want to know. 438 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:40,000 Gina's the director of events. 439 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:47,000 Everything that's done in here, she originates it all and gets it done. 440 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:49,000 I just show up. 441 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:51,000 That's all I do. 442 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:55,000 I don't have any work to do until I get on here. 443 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,000 She does a phenomenal job. 444 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,000 Planes, everything's done for me. 445 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,000 She gives me sheets of paper where everything's written on it. 446 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,000 And she does a phenomenal job. 447 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:11,000 There's a lot more than just director of events. 448 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,000 She books the hotels, she makes sure everything's like doctor. 449 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:16,000 Planes, everything. 450 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,000 She does a phenomenal job. 451 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:24,000 Now, as I say, she came to us 33 years ago. 452 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:31,000 I remember walking in the office and we had a reception desk as you walk in the door right here. 453 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:36,000 It was one of those high things, looks like they were barricaded or something. 454 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,000 And Gina was sitting there and she says, hi Bob. 455 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:41,000 I said, hi. 456 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,000 I thought, who the hell is she? 457 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:47,000 So I went in the office and you go through a door here and you go in there. 458 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:49,000 I said, who's the girl out there? 459 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:51,000 They said, Gina. 460 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,000 Mike just hired her. 461 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,000 And they said, you've met her before. 462 00:30:57,000 --> 00:31:00,000 She was at the gymnastic event you want to spoke at or something. 463 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:02,000 I said, oh, okay. 464 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:04,000 Well, that was the first she was there. 465 00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,000 And I didn't have an assistant. 466 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,000 We had a number of people in the office that could type. 467 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:12,000 I don't have to type. 468 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:16,000 And if I wanted something done, I'd give it to one of the people in the office. 469 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:21,000 Well, I found that I kept going to her because she was the fastest and the best. 470 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:25,000 And so that's when I said, why don't you just do work for me? 471 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:27,000 And that's what she's done. 472 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:29,000 She does a lot of other things now too. 473 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,000 There's another woman. 474 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:35,000 She was a nanny when she came to work with us. 475 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,000 She had no business experience at all. 476 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,000 Just knew how to look after little kids. 477 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,000 And she started to work with us. 478 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,000 She's a phenomenal student, great researcher. 479 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:52,000 And she has become a very valuable person. 480 00:31:55,000 --> 00:32:00,000 Frequently over the past few months, anytime I'm talking to Sandy, she said, 481 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:05,000 she tells me, well, what a phenomenal person. 482 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:11,000 She tells me, well, what a phenomenal job Mikey's doing. 483 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,000 She says, she is really good. 484 00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,000 You know, she does the research. 485 00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:23,000 Now, she'd been there for, I think, 10 years, maybe more. 486 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:28,000 And she became our marketing director. 487 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:33,000 And then Sandy said, you know, we should make her this chief operating officer. 488 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:34,000 She's very good. 489 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:38,000 She's extremely detail oriented and something like Gina. 490 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:40,000 She gets it done. 491 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:42,000 You don't know how she does it, but she does it. 492 00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:50,000 And here's the nanny that's become a very effective businesswoman. 493 00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,000 Our company's pretty well run by women. 494 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:59,000 I learned to do what I was told a long time ago. 495 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,000 So I'm in good shape here. 496 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,000 Some of the guys aren't, but I am. 497 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,000 You know, women literally run our company. 498 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,000 So I'm going to ask Gina and Mikey to come on up here. 499 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:27,000 Where are they? 500 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,000 Well, there's Gina. 501 00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:30,000 Where's Mikey? 502 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:32,000 Where is Mikey? 503 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:36,000 Oh, she's coming. 504 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,000 Yes, that's all right. 505 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:03,000 I've been kidding Mikey all week telling her, I got a present for you. 506 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:04,000 Where did you see it? 507 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:14,000 And he really got Sandy to thank for this. 508 00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:16,000 Give back. 509 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:31,000 There you go. 510 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:42,000 I think you should put it on. 511 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,000 And look, this is special. 512 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:47,000 This thing will move inside. 513 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,000 And when you leave it hanging, it'll go down right. 514 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,000 I think we want to thank Sandy for that. 515 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,000 I've had Scott make a video of this. 516 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:09,000 And I told Sandy, she said, make sure you send me a video. 517 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:15,000 So this is her idea that we make one for women. 518 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,000 And I told her, I said, I'll figure out how to get it done. 519 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:23,000 You got to take off all that other jazz you got on there. 520 00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:30,000 No, you're going to do it now. 521 00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:32,000 You're doing okay. 522 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:01,000 You like that? 523 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:07,000 Here you go, Sandy. 524 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:11,000 You like that? 525 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:13,000 They're cool. 526 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:15,000 I told you it was nice. 527 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:18,000 Give him a big hand. 528 00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:33,000 Both of those women do a phenomenal job. 529 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:39,000 And I'm glad to see them get one of those. 530 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:41,000 They got the first ones. 531 00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:45,000 Now, let's look in our book. 532 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:49,000 We're on page eight. 533 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:51,000 Move back. 534 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:54,000 Paradigm Shift. 535 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:58,000 This is designed as a resourceful environment 536 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:02,000 where people from around the world collaborate, mastermind, 537 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:07,000 and explore opportunities while developing financial independence 538 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,000 by establishing multiple sources of income. 539 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:16,000 I stumbled on an idea way back in the early 60s 540 00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:22,000 that wealth is developed by having multiple sources of income, 541 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:24,000 not one having many. 542 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:27,000 It took me a number of years before I realized 543 00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:31,000 what I had discovered or figured out. 544 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:36,000 I was earning over a million dollars a year, 545 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:39,000 and I had absolutely no idea what I was doing. 546 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:44,000 I was living in London, England. 547 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,000 I always wanted to live and go to England, 548 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:49,000 so I thought I'll move there for a little while 549 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,000 and start a company, and I did that, 550 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,000 and I stayed there for about a year or so, 551 00:37:54,000 --> 00:38:01,000 and I was very irresponsible. 552 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,000 The only thing I was, I was very irresponsible. 553 00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:10,000 The only thing I did, I disciplined myself to work at one thing 554 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:15,000 and got very good at it, but my irresponsibility never left me. 555 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:19,000 And so I figured, you know, what the hell, I know where the money is. 556 00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:21,000 What difference does it make what I do with it? 557 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:24,000 So I'd go down to the Playboy Club on Park Lane, 558 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:26,000 it was right beside the London Hilton, 559 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,000 and they had gambling there. 560 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,000 They had roulette tables, crap tables and everything, 561 00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:34,000 and the one rule was don't touch the bunnies. 562 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:38,000 But you could go in there and play, and I would go in and play roulette, 563 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,000 and I almost always won, and I figured out later on 564 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:43,000 it's because I didn't care if I lost. 565 00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:45,000 I really didn't care if I lost. 566 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:47,000 I just went, I was putting in time, it was fun, 567 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:49,000 and I almost always won. 568 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:53,000 And that was probably because I didn't care if I lost. 569 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,000 Because I knew where the money was. 570 00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:58,000 I could just go and get some more. 571 00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:05,000 And one day, yes, like a little voice in my head said, 572 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,000 you're not being very bright, Proctor. 573 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,000 And I think I knew this all along. 574 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:13,000 I knew I was bearing out. 575 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:15,000 If you're irresponsible, you know you are. 576 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,000 There's something in you that tells you what you are. 577 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,000 Now, whether you change it or not is another deal. 578 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:28,000 And I thought, this is not very bright. 579 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:32,000 So then I started to think, well, how the heck did this all happen to me? 580 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:34,000 I had never gone to school. 581 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:36,000 I went to high school for two months. 582 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:40,000 I had no formal education, but I had a company operating in 583 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,000 Toronto, Montreal, Boston, Cleveland, and London, England. 584 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:46,000 And I had money coming in from people I'd never even met in my life. 585 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:48,000 I didn't even know their names. 586 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:50,000 I knew them every day. 587 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:54,000 And one day I thought, how did this happen? 588 00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,000 Now, I knew I wasn't lucky. 589 00:39:58,000 --> 00:39:59,000 I knew I wasn't lucky. 590 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,000 I don't know how I knew it, but I knew it. 591 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,000 I think probably it was in some of the material I was studying. 592 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,000 I'd been raised to believe if you're going to earn all that money, 593 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:15,000 you've got to be really smart. 594 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,000 Well, I knew I wasn't very smart, but I was earning a lot of money. 595 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:23,000 I was raised to believe if you don't go to school, you'll never get a good job. 596 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:25,000 Well, I didn't have a good job. 597 00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:29,000 I owned the whole company, and I hadn't gone to school. 598 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,000 So I started to wonder, how did this happen? 599 00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:34,000 I couldn't even find anybody who could tell me. 600 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:40,000 Now, I was cleaning offices, lots of offices, all over the place. 601 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,000 And if you'd ask me what I was doing, I would say, well, I clean offices. 602 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:48,000 Cleaning offices was almost incidental to what I was doing. 603 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,000 If I had been selling siding for houses, I would have been successful. 604 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:55,000 If I had been selling cars or windows, I would have been successful. 605 00:40:56,000 --> 00:41:00,000 Yet, it wasn't what I was doing, it was how I was doing it. 606 00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:03,000 I got very good at it. 607 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,000 I never talked to the cleaners about cleaning. 608 00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:11,000 I would talk to them about what they wanted, where were they going, 609 00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:13,000 what were they going to do with their life. 610 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,000 I'd get them excited about doing something. 611 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:19,000 I knew where a cleaner would be at a particular time during the night, 612 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,000 and I'd stop by, and I'd have some coffee, some cigarettes, some donuts, 613 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:27,000 and I'd go in and sit down and play around with them, trying to, you know. 614 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,000 And I was always dressed up, always dressed up. 615 00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:35,000 Because I had worked, I cleaned offices, and you get really tired, it's hard work. 616 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,000 So I knew if I was there in working clothes, I knew that they were tired, 617 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:42,000 and they'd want to finish and go home, and they'd think I was a very nice guy 618 00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:45,000 if I didn't help them so they could finish the job and leave. 619 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,000 But if I'm all dressed up, they weren't expecting me to help them. 620 00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:50,000 So you see? 621 00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:52,000 And that's why I got dressed. 622 00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,000 And so I would just talk to them and have a cup of coffee, 623 00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,000 and then I'd say, you know, there's another place on your way home, 624 00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:00,000 just down the street. 625 00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:02,000 You could pick it up, it'd be an extra $100 a month, 626 00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:05,000 probably after your mortgage, you know, in the 60s. 627 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:09,000 And they'd say, well, I'm pretty tired. 628 00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,000 I said, you can go and have a good sleep, that's okay. 629 00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,000 But if you want, I'll run down there with you, I'll show it to you, 630 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,000 and you can pick it up and earn yourself some money. 631 00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:22,000 I was always building bigger ideas in their mind, 632 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:24,000 helping them build bigger ideas. 633 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:26,000 And this thing was really rocking. 634 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:28,000 But I didn't know what I was doing. 635 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:30,000 I would have just sit on clean offices 636 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:32,000 because I wasn't paying attention to what I was doing. 637 00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:36,000 I was doing for them what Think and Grow Rich 638 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,000 and Earl Nightingale's recordings was doing for me. 639 00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:40,000 I was just transferring the information. 640 00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:42,000 That's all I was doing. 641 00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,000 Yet this company just kept growing, growing, growing. 642 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:48,000 I was helping them change paradigms. 643 00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:50,000 I didn't know that. 644 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:52,000 I was changing my own, but I didn't know that either. 645 00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:54,000 I was just doing what I was doing. 646 00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:59,000 There's all kinds of very successful people 647 00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:02,000 that can't tell you why they are. 648 00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:06,000 Yet if they can't tell you why they're successful, 649 00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,000 they cannot even pass that along to their kids. 650 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:13,000 Their unconscious competence, and that's what I was. 651 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,000 But you see, I was deciding 652 00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:20,000 I'm going to become a little more responsible. 653 00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:26,000 I'm going to figure out why I've become successful to this point. 654 00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:29,000 And so I had to start studying. 655 00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,000 Do you know, it took me nine and a half years. 656 00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:33,000 Over that nine and a half years, 657 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:35,000 I became a super serious student. 658 00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,000 I would travel anywhere and I would pay any amount. 659 00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:40,000 I didn't care what they charged. 660 00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,000 I'll pay it just to study. 661 00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:46,000 I paid Bill Gove a lot of money. 662 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,000 I'd give him $5,000 to sit down with him for maybe 15 minutes. 663 00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,000 He was the one that taught me how to be comfortable 664 00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:55,000 in front of an audience. 665 00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:57,000 I'm just comfortable here right now 666 00:43:58,000 --> 00:43:59,000 as if I was home petting my dog. 667 00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:00,000 There's no nervousness at all. 668 00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,000 I speak nothing like Bill Gove. 669 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:08,000 Bill Gove was, in my mind, 670 00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:10,000 one of the greatest speakers in the world. 671 00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:12,000 I don't even see myself as a speaker. 672 00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:14,000 Look, companies will pay me a lot of money 673 00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:16,000 to go and do a speech. 674 00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:18,000 That's not what I see myself. 675 00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:20,000 I see myself more as a teacher. 676 00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:22,000 I want to teach this information. 677 00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:24,000 I want everybody. 678 00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:26,000 I want you to get it like I've got it. 679 00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:33,000 And it took me nine and a half years, 680 00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:35,000 and I finally figured it out. 681 00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,000 And when I got it figured out, 682 00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:40,000 all I wanted to do was teach it. 683 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,000 And I wasn't satisfied teaching it 684 00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:45,000 the way I was teaching it. 685 00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,000 I thought, I've got to work with some real good people. 686 00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,000 So I thought, I want to work with Earl Nightgill. 687 00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:55,000 And I had to get out of my own business 688 00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,000 and move my family to Chicago. 689 00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,000 And I went to work with Earl Nightgill. 690 00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:04,000 And I was there for five years. 691 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,000 It was the most phenomenal education I ever got. 692 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:11,000 I got an education that most people would never be able to get today. 693 00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:15,000 This was in a company that started this industry 694 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:17,000 that we're a part of now. 695 00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:25,000 They really started the motivation education 696 00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:32,000 through recorded learnings back in that, around 1959. 697 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,000 Earl recorded the strangest secret record, 698 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:37,000 and that was really where it all started. 699 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:40,000 And then it started to expand. 700 00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:43,000 And they took on distributors, consultants. 701 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,000 I remember I phoned, I told them I wanted to go to work there, 702 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:49,000 and they said, well, there's a man putting a meeting on in Montreal this weekend. 703 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:51,000 You can go down and find out how you can work here. 704 00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:55,000 So I went down, and it was $5,000. 705 00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:59,000 In today's dollars, that would be around $40,000. 706 00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:05,000 And I went down, and I gave them the money, and I said, I'm going to do this. 707 00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:08,000 I had no idea how to do it. 708 00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,000 Did you want to know something? Neither did they. 709 00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:13,000 They didn't know. 710 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:15,000 It was a new industry. 711 00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:17,000 It was a new business. 712 00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:19,000 Nobody knew how to sell this. 713 00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:21,000 And this has to be sold. 714 00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:24,000 Although you've got something that will take and change a person's life, 715 00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:29,000 literally change their life, yet will multiply their income, 716 00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:34,000 yet will improve their health, yet will build their business, 717 00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:37,000 but you've really got to sell it. 718 00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,000 And most people don't know how to sell it. 719 00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:42,000 Certainly didn't know then. 720 00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,000 And man, did I ever go to work in a hurry. 721 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:47,000 Go to work in a hurry. 722 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:53,000 I educated myself through more recordings, and it was all on record. 723 00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:56,000 I had a little portable record player 724 00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:00,000 that I could hold in one hand, and I could drive my car while I played the record. 725 00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:05,000 Now, it's not a very great way to live because the needle keptโ€ฆ 726 00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,000 You know, you're trying toโ€ฆ 727 00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,000 It's a wonder I didn't kill myself. 728 00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:16,000 And that's when I started to understand how I started to earn so much money. 729 00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:20,000 You see, one day, I woke up. 730 00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,000 I came to, and I was laying on the street, 731 00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:26,000 and there was a big cop standing over me, looking at me. 732 00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,000 I would maybe be 27, 28. 733 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:33,000 And I was regaining consciousness. 734 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:35,000 I had passed out. 735 00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:36,000 I was exhausted. 736 00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:39,000 I thought the answer was clean more offices. 737 00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,000 And so I just kept getting more offices to clean. 738 00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:46,000 I had a hard time even getting home to go to bed sometimes 739 00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,000 because I had more offices to clean. 740 00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:50,000 And to the point where I passed out. 741 00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:52,000 I thought the idea was work a little harder. 742 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,000 Try a little harder. Do a little more. 743 00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,000 And it was a scary situation because there was a crowd. 744 00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:01,000 There was a crowd. 745 00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:06,000 And it was a scary situation because there was a crowd of people around me. 746 00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:09,000 Then I saw a stretcher and a couple of guys in uniforms, 747 00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:10,000 and the lights were flashing. 748 00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:15,000 I think probably the first people who found me thought maybe I had dropped out 749 00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:16,000 because I was just laying there. 750 00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:18,000 I passed out. 751 00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:22,000 And finally I talked them out of taking me to the hospital. 752 00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:24,000 They were all for taking me to the hospital. 753 00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:29,000 And I was trying to get oriented because it was a scary situation 754 00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:34,000 as much as it was mentally, you know. 755 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,000 And I finally got away from them. 756 00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:42,000 And I sat down and I thought I'm doing something wrong. 757 00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:49,000 Now I was earning a fair amount of money relative to what I had when I started. 758 00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:52,000 I thought this is not right. 759 00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:54,000 I'm a young guy. 760 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:57,000 I thought I was only 27, maybe 28. 761 00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,000 And here I'm passing out in the street. 762 00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,000 There's like a little voice in my head said, 763 00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:05,000 if you can't clean all of them, don't clean any of them. 764 00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:11,000 I quit cleaning offices and I started to get other people cleaning offices. 765 00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:16,000 And that's when we went into Montreal, Atlanta, Boston, Cleveland, London, England. 766 00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:18,000 Just kept growing. 767 00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:22,000 Didn't really understand what I was doing, but that's what I was doing. 768 00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,000 I had set up multiple sources of income. 769 00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:26,000 Didn't know what I had done. 770 00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:35,000 Now, in this book that really started the change in my life, 771 00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:41,000 he said, if you are one of those people who believe that hard work and honesty alone 772 00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:45,000 will bring riches, perish the thought, it is not true. 773 00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:51,000 Riches, when they come in huge quantities, are never the result of hard work. 774 00:49:51,000 --> 00:49:55,000 Riches come if they come at all in response to definite demands 775 00:49:55,000 --> 00:50:00,000 based upon the application of definite principles and not by chance or luck. 776 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:06,000 Now, the key there is riches, if they come at all, come in response to definite demands. 777 00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:16,000 I tell people I don't know how you could earn more money than you can in this business. 778 00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:19,000 Do you know why? 779 00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:23,000 There's a definite demand for somebody that knows how to do what I'm doing. 780 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:25,000 Everywhere in the world. 781 00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:32,000 I've worked in Shanghai, in Kosovo, in Buenos Aires, in Singapore, Cote-de-Canabalu, 782 00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:37,000 all over Europe, in Israel, in the Middle East, all over North America. 783 00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:43,000 Everywhere I've gone, there's a screaming need for this information. 784 00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:51,000 People are struggling, smart people, brilliant people, and they're in debt. 785 00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,000 They can't pay their own way. 786 00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:00,000 A definite demand. 787 00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:10,000 And he said based upon the application of definite principles, that's what this book is. 788 00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:13,000 Definite principles. 789 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:23,000 Some people approached me, I don't know, maybe it's two years ago now. 790 00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:28,000 They wanted me to record those principles. 791 00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:31,000 I knew who they were. 792 00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:32,000 They were very good. 793 00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:34,000 They were a director here in LA. 794 00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:35,000 It was very good. 795 00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:36,000 Did good work. 796 00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:40,000 And I said I would be very happy to do that. 797 00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:41,000 I know it inside out. 798 00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:44,000 I've studied it for years. 799 00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:47,000 It's called the Legacy Series. 800 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:50,000 And you'll hear about it. 801 00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:53,000 I want to get it and study it. 802 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:56,000 Because it's the principles. 803 00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:58,000 The principles. 804 00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:01,000 Find a need and so on. 805 00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:05,000 But base it on principles. 806 00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,000 Doesn't matter what anybody else is doing. 807 00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:11,000 It's what are you doing? 808 00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:16,000 Well, you see, I was doing that, but I didn't understand I was doing it. 809 00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:21,000 So I was what you'd call an unconscious competent. 810 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:26,000 And over this nine and a half years, I started to understand what I was doing. 811 00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:30,000 And man, when I figured it out, all I wanted to do was teach it. 812 00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:32,000 Because I know. 813 00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:33,000 I don't wonder. 814 00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:37,000 I mean, I've got just a ton of experience in this. 815 00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:45,000 I've seen people that were that close to death's door like that get better. 816 00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:51,000 Ever since the doctor of the future will use no medicine. 817 00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:54,000 Use energy healing. 818 00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:58,000 Use energy healing. 819 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:01,000 Mind is perfect. 820 00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:04,000 There is no such thing as mental retardation. 821 00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:05,000 That is a misnomer. 822 00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:06,000 There is no such thing. 823 00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:07,000 The mind is perfect. 824 00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:09,000 You cannot damage it. 825 00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:13,000 So if there's a problem in a child, it's not the mind. 826 00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,000 There's brain damage. 827 00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:19,000 But we've got such an abundance of brain cells that healthy cells can be designed 828 00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:23,000 and educated to do what the damaged cells can no longer do. 829 00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:24,000 So all things can be cured. 830 00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:28,000 There's no such thing as an incurable disease. 831 00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:32,000 When you start to understand these principles and then start to understand paradigms, 832 00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:33,000 you'll see how you can change them. 833 00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:34,000 Doesn't matter what it is. 834 00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:37,000 Your relationships could be in a mess. 835 00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:40,000 Like that, you can change them. 836 00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:41,000 You can be struggling. 837 00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:43,000 I mean, really struggling. 838 00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:46,000 And you can change it. 839 00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:51,000 I was getting on the elevator here in this building 840 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:55,000 with Tommy Collier, creative director. 841 00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:59,000 And the guy got off the elevator and it was like he was in shock. 842 00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,000 He goes, here, pop out. 843 00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:05,000 And I said, yeah, that's who I am. 844 00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:06,000 Boss, I've got to talk to you. 845 00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:09,000 He said, just stop and talk to me for a minute. 846 00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:13,000 He said, you've literally changed my life. 847 00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:17,000 Now, Tommy has his phone number and that, so I want you to save that 848 00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:20,000 because I want to talk to him. 849 00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:24,000 This guy, you'd be interested in talking to him, Robert. 850 00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:28,000 This guy manages something like $9 billion worth of money. 851 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:34,000 His company is just moving from, where the hell did they say they were? 852 00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:37,000 Somewhere in Europe, moving back to Seattle. 853 00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:40,000 But he does what you do. 854 00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:47,000 Works for wealthy families and, you know. 855 00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:50,000 I made a series years ago. 856 00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:55,000 It was on an infomercial, Power to Have It All. 857 00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:58,000 This guy told me, he said, I listened to that. 858 00:54:58,000 --> 00:54:59,000 I listened to it. 859 00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:02,000 I listened to it every day, every day, every day for months. 860 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:05,000 I could relate to what he was doing because that's what I did with the rules material. 861 00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:06,000 I couldn't stop listening. 862 00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:09,000 And I think he got the same effect from it as I got. 863 00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:12,000 I was so fascinated with what Earl was saying 864 00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:19,000 because I had never heard anybody talk like that ever in my life. 865 00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:26,000 And the fact that anyone could win, finally I got the message, that means me too. 866 00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:29,000 You know, it took a while for that to sink in. 867 00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:33,000 But I was so fascinated with what I was listening to, I couldn't stop. 868 00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:38,000 What I was doing was changing my paradigm, and I didn't know that. 869 00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:42,000 I didn't even know it after I had accomplished that. 870 00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:49,000 I went from earning $4,000 a year to earning $14,500 a month. 871 00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:52,000 If you annualize that, it's $175,000 a year. 872 00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:55,000 So any year I went from earning $4,000 to $175,000 a year. 873 00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:59,000 I hadn't earned $175,000 that year, but I was at $14,500 a month. 874 00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:02,000 And if you annualize it, that's what I had done. 875 00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:08,000 That was multiplying my income by over 40. I think it's 40.3%, something like that. 876 00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:13,000 If you say, how'd you do that? I'd say, hell, I don't know. 877 00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:18,000 And I didn't know. But I do now. 878 00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:21,000 If I can do it, you can do it. 879 00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:24,000 I went into Kingston Penitentiary. 880 00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:27,000 That was maximum security. It's such a terrible place. 881 00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,000 They've closed it now, something like Alcatraz. 882 00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:32,000 It's a museum or some damn thing now. 883 00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:35,000 They had a guy in there that had been in solitary confinement. 884 00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:40,000 That means he had one hour a day out of a cell that he was living in by himself, 885 00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:44,000 one hour a day outside by himself. 886 00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:49,000 He had been in that cell for seven and a half years. 887 00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:52,000 And he still had 20 years to go. 888 00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:57,000 He had shot a guy in a holdup over in Detroit, in Windsor, the opposite side, 889 00:56:57,000 --> 00:57:01,000 the Canadian side of Detroit. 890 00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:04,000 He's lucky the guy didn't die because they would have hung him then. 891 00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:11,000 There were hanging people then. The guy didn't die. 892 00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:16,000 Do you know, they paroled him to me. 893 00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:20,000 I got the National Parole Board to tear up his parole and give him his passport 894 00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:22,000 and I had him move to England with me. 895 00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:23,000 I had no idea what the hell I was doing. 896 00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,000 I'm going to say there's a lot to be said for ignorance. 897 00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:27,000 I'm down hammering on the desk saying, 898 00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:30,000 I know right, keeping this guy on this parole. 899 00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:33,000 He had to report to the city police in Toronto every week. 900 00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:37,000 He had to report to the Mounties, the horsemen, the Mount, you know, 901 00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:42,000 the federal police every month, and he couldn't leave the city. 902 00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:44,000 He had been in there for seven and a half years. 903 00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:48,000 His wife had a little girl while he was in there. 904 00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:51,000 They had two boys themselves. 905 00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:56,000 He was befriended by a priest in there, Bobby Gaudette. 906 00:57:56,000 --> 00:57:58,000 Bobby got he and his wife back together, 907 00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:05,000 and he treated that little girl like it was his own, right up until he died. 908 00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:09,000 He was one of the most valuable employees I ever had. 909 00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:12,000 He would have done anything for me, anything. 910 00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:16,000 I think I was the first person that really believed in him, 911 00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:19,000 and it's because I believed in him that he performed. 912 00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:22,000 I know that. 913 00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:24,000 I can tell you a lot of stories like that. 914 00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:26,000 That was way out there. 915 00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,000 This works everywhere. 916 00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:31,000 There's a phenomenal demand. 917 00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:35,000 The accumulation of great wealth calls for power, 918 00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:38,000 and power is acquired through highly organized 919 00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:41,000 and intelligently directed specialized knowledge. 920 00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:44,000 That's what the legacy series is. 921 00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:45,000 People look at the price. 922 00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:47,000 I don't know if I can buy that. 923 00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:49,000 They don't know. They don't know. 924 00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:51,000 Listen. 925 00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:54,000 The accumulation of great wealth calls for power. 926 00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,000 Power is acquired through highly organized 927 00:58:56,000 --> 00:59:04,000 and intelligently directed specialized knowledge. 928 00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:08,000 But that knowledge does not have to be in the possession of the person 929 00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:11,000 who accumulates the fortune. 930 00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:13,000 I didn't have that knowledge. 931 00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:14,000 I just did what he said. 932 00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:16,000 I accumulated the fortune. 933 00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:18,000 You don't have to know it. 934 00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:20,000 You don't have to understand this like I did. 935 00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:21,000 You just have to do what I'm telling you. 936 00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:23,000 If I'm coaching a person, I tell them, 937 00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:26,000 if you don't do exactly what I tell you, I'll fire you. 938 00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:31,000 I will not coach you anymore. 939 00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:37,000 I have a woman who's paid me $250,000 a year. 940 00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:40,000 I talk to her once a week for 30 minutes, 941 00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:46,000 and I see her once every quarter for a day. 942 00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:53,000 I think last month she earned 700,000 euros. 943 00:59:53,000 --> 01:00:00,000 She's learning how to earn money. 944 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:03,000 I don't know what you're doing, but I do know this. 945 01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:06,000 You know how to do it better than you're doing it. 946 01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:08,000 And I don't care what you're doing. 947 01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:10,000 I don't care how well you're doing. 948 01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:11,000 You could be saying, well, 949 01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:12,000 he doesn't know what he's talking about. 950 01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:14,000 I mean, yes, I do know what I'm talking about. 951 01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:15,000 I really do. 952 01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:17,000 In fact, I don't even know anyone 953 01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:19,000 that knows this subject as well as I do. 954 01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:21,000 No, I don't know anything else. 955 01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:22,000 I don't do anything else. 956 01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:23,000 This is all I do. 957 01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:25,000 I'm useless around the house. 958 01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:27,000 I am. 959 01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:28,000 I had an electrician come one time, 960 01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:31,000 and all it was was a fuse had gone. 961 01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:33,000 But I didn't know that. 962 01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:34,000 I don't have to know that. 963 01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:38,000 He knows that. 964 01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,000 I don't do anything else other than what I'm doing. 965 01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:41,000 I just stick to my knitting. 966 01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:44,000 I found out that's the way to do it. 967 01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:45,000 That's what Schwab said. 968 01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:46,000 Put all your eggs in one basket 969 01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:48,000 and then watch that basket. 970 01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:50,000 I don't want to learn how to do some of these things. 971 01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:51,000 They say, Bob, 972 01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:54,000 you wouldn't have to hire people to do it. 973 01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:58,000 I don't want to do it. 974 01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:00,000 I get an award, or I have an award, 975 01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:01,000 for the last two or three years 976 01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:04,000 for our gardens around our house. 977 01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:06,000 They're beautiful. 978 01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:12,000 I have never, ever planted a flower or cut a lawn. 979 01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:14,000 I've lived in that house for 35 years. 980 01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:15,000 The guy that's cutting the lawn 981 01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:18,000 was cutting it when I went there, 982 01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:20,000 when I bought it. 983 01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:22,000 The guy that was cleaning the pool 984 01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:23,000 just died a couple of years ago. 985 01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:24,000 He cleaned the pool for us. 986 01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:25,000 He was cleaning the pool for the people 987 01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:28,000 that we bought the house out. 988 01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:30,000 I don't want to do any of those things. 989 01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:33,000 I don't do any of them. 990 01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:34,000 Do you know what I had to learn 991 01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:38,000 to sit and read while they were working? 992 01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:41,000 You have to learn to be served. 993 01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:44,000 You have to learn it. 994 01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:47,000 I was mentoring a man 995 01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:52,000 who has more money than God. 996 01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:55,000 He had a 120-foot yacht 997 01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:58,000 that he would ship from the Caribbean 998 01:01:58,000 --> 01:01:59,000 to the Mediterranean 999 01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:02,000 on a thing called Dock Express. 1000 01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:04,000 I said, you're going to put this on another ship? 1001 01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:06,000 And he got a video out and showed it to me. 1002 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:08,000 They lower the side of the ship. 1003 01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:10,000 They float his yacht on. 1004 01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:12,000 Then they bring the side up, 1005 01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:16,000 and divers go down and weld things underneath it, 1006 01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,000 chocks underneath it. 1007 01:02:18,000 --> 01:02:20,000 And it would take three or four of these. 1008 01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:23,000 I said, my God. 1009 01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:25,000 He'd ship his yacht from, 1010 01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:30,000 and he'd fly the captain and the crew over. 1011 01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:33,000 He had a beautiful place in Gistat. 1012 01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:37,000 He had a beautiful home in Cap-en-Tib in France. 1013 01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:39,000 I used to go there frequently 1014 01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:41,000 and mentor him there. 1015 01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:44,000 He had an apartment in Eaton Square in London. 1016 01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:45,000 If I'd have told you it was Prince Charles, 1017 01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:47,000 you'd have believed me. 1018 01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:51,000 I mean, this guy lived big. 1019 01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:53,000 And he had a problem. 1020 01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:55,000 He wouldn't work. 1021 01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:57,000 So he was unhappy. 1022 01:02:57,000 --> 01:03:00,000 My job was to get him to work. 1023 01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:01,000 And I did. 1024 01:03:01,000 --> 01:03:03,000 It took me about seven or eight months. 1025 01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:06,000 Paid me a lot of money just to sit and talk to him. 1026 01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:08,000 But I was showing him what was wrong with him. 1027 01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:11,000 I showed him, and it was his paradigm. 1028 01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:12,000 See? 1029 01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:14,000 He had a lot of money. 1030 01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:17,000 And he thought, I guess, that you go to work for money. 1031 01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:19,000 And he didn't. 1032 01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:22,000 I said, you don't work for money. 1033 01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:24,000 I was doing a seminar in Phoenix. 1034 01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:26,000 And a doctor came up to me one time, 1035 01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:28,000 and he told me that he was thinking 1036 01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:29,000 of leaving the medical profession. 1037 01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:31,000 I said, why? 1038 01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:33,000 Well, he said, you just can't earn enough money. 1039 01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,000 And he said, the medical profession's all screwed up. 1040 01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:37,000 He said, you've got to put in more time to earn less money 1041 01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:40,000 in this business today. 1042 01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:41,000 I said, wait a minute. 1043 01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:44,000 Why'd you become a doctor? 1044 01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:47,000 Well, he said, I became a doctor. 1045 01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:49,000 I love it. 1046 01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:51,000 I said, it shouldn't matter if you're earning anything 1047 01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:55,000 if you're doing what you love. 1048 01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:57,000 I said, you know what's the problem with most people? 1049 01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:58,000 They don't do what they love. 1050 01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:00,000 I said, that's the secret to life. 1051 01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:01,000 Love what you're doing. 1052 01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,000 I said, you don't go to work for money. 1053 01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:05,000 You go to work for satisfaction. 1054 01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:09,000 You provide service to earn money. 1055 01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:12,000 I was earning money last night while I was sleeping. 1056 01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:15,000 You can actually earn more money when you're sleeping 1057 01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:18,000 than you can spend when you're awake. 1058 01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:19,000 Most people don't know that. 1059 01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:20,000 School doesn't teach us that. 1060 01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:22,000 They never teach us how to earn money. 1061 01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:23,000 How could they? 1062 01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:27,000 They don't know. 1063 01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:30,000 They can't teach you what they don't know. 1064 01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:36,000 And most of them don't even know they don't know. 1065 01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:40,000 And I said, you want to thank God every day 1066 01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:42,000 that you're doing what you love to do. 1067 01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:46,000 Now, if you can earn anything, it's a plus. 1068 01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:48,000 I said, I'll show you how to earn money. 1069 01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:51,000 You set up situations where you're providing a service. 1070 01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:52,000 You don't have to be there. 1071 01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:55,000 You don't work. 1072 01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:57,000 I'm providing service on the other side of the world 1073 01:04:57,000 --> 01:04:59,000 and I go to bed. 1074 01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:01,000 I'm not on the other side of the world, 1075 01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:03,000 but I've got a service going on the other side of the world 1076 01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:04,000 that I could pay for. 1077 01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:05,000 Can you do that? 1078 01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:06,000 If I can do it, you can do it. 1079 01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:07,000 If I can do it, you can do it. 1080 01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:09,000 Anything you see somebody else do, 1081 01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:12,000 you know you have the positive proof you can do it. 1082 01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:19,000 Now, you may have to learn. 1083 01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:21,000 This is a resourceful environment 1084 01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:24,000 where people from around the world collaborate. 1085 01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,000 You've got to mix with other people. 1086 01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,000 You've got to talk to other people. 1087 01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:31,000 Don't just talk to your spouse or your buddy 1088 01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:33,000 or the person you came with. 1089 01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:37,000 When you're out there, talk to everybody. 1090 01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:40,000 Get to know them. 1091 01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:43,000 Hi, my name's Bob. 1092 01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:46,000 Why'd you come? 1093 01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:47,000 Right? 1094 01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:49,000 Why'd you come here? 1095 01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:50,000 To learn. 1096 01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:51,000 To learn, you know? 1097 01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:53,000 What did you want to learn? 1098 01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:55,000 I want to learn how to grow bigger. 1099 01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:58,000 You want to learn how to grow bigger? 1100 01:05:58,000 --> 01:05:59,000 Now, that's a good answer, 1101 01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:02,000 and I know this guy and his wife have really rocked 1102 01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:05,000 from this information. 1103 01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:08,000 They own Puffy Academy, isn't it? 1104 01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:09,000 I love the name. 1105 01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:12,000 God, I love the name. 1106 01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:13,000 Puffy Academy. 1107 01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:16,000 It's a tremendous success. 1108 01:06:16,000 --> 01:06:18,000 And it was your idea, 1109 01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:20,000 and you just kept thinking it and thinking it, 1110 01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:23,000 and I said, God, that's a phenomenal idea. 1111 01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:25,000 So they started it. 1112 01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:26,000 Puffy Academy. 1113 01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:28,000 If you touch, just stand up for a second 1114 01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:30,000 so they see what I'm talking about, okay? 1115 01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:34,000 Now, you want to ask these people about their business 1116 01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:37,000 when you see them at a break. 1117 01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:39,000 They have a fascinating business, 1118 01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:44,000 and they are earning lots of money. 1119 01:06:44,000 --> 01:06:49,000 Now, Marco here, he, 1120 01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:52,000 you're still working on the online thing, right? 1121 01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:54,000 Yeah, I'm shifting it to the Puffy Academy. 1122 01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:56,000 You're shifting it. 1123 01:06:56,000 --> 01:07:00,000 Must be more profitable when you shift it. 1124 01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:02,000 That's the way I've got it. 1125 01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:04,000 Give them a hand, all right? 1126 01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:07,000 They came to a number of verse seminars, 1127 01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:09,000 and I would talk to them about it, 1128 01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:10,000 and it was obvious to me 1129 01:07:10,000 --> 01:07:12,000 the only thing that was stopping them 1130 01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:14,000 was their paradigm. 1131 01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:17,000 They blamed it on everything under the sun. 1132 01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:18,000 That's what paradigms do. 1133 01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:19,000 Paradigms say, 1134 01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:21,000 you couldn't do it because of this, 1135 01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:22,000 and you know something, 1136 01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:23,000 they're telling you the truth. 1137 01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:24,000 You don't know how to do it 1138 01:07:24,000 --> 01:07:26,000 whatever this is, 1139 01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:28,000 but you can learn it. 1140 01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:29,000 You see? 1141 01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:31,000 Paradigms are, 1142 01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:34,000 logical, practical. 1143 01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:37,000 They tell you the truth. 1144 01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:38,000 You don't know how to do it. 1145 01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:39,000 That's true. 1146 01:07:39,000 --> 01:07:40,000 So it says you'll never do it. 1147 01:07:40,000 --> 01:07:42,000 You're going to lose everything you've got. 1148 01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:44,000 And you really get scared. 1149 01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:47,000 It took you a long time before you did it. 1150 01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:49,000 And when you did it, 1151 01:07:49,000 --> 01:07:53,000 it went like a rocket. 1152 01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:55,000 Well, collaborate with some of these people. 1153 01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:57,000 Get talking to the people. 1154 01:07:57,000 --> 01:07:59,000 There's people here 1155 01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:00,000 that can help you. 1156 01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:03,000 You just don't know who they are. 1157 01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:04,000 They don't know who you are. 1158 01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:07,000 They don't know what you're doing. 1159 01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:11,000 Explore opportunities 1160 01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:12,000 while you're developing 1161 01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:14,000 multiple sources of income. 1162 01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:17,000 You see, I learned a long time ago 1163 01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:19,000 when I passed out in the street. 1164 01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:20,000 I didn't learn it at the time, 1165 01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:22,000 but that's when it really started. 1166 01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:25,000 The secret of earning a lot of money 1167 01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:27,000 is multiple sources of income. 1168 01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:28,000 You can go right back 1169 01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:30,000 to the ancient Babylonians. 1170 01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:32,000 Very wealthy sect of people 1171 01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:34,000 earned a lot of money. 1172 01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:37,000 Every one of us can. 1173 01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:42,000 Every one of us. 1174 01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:43,000 Now let's take a look 1175 01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:47,000 at what a paradigm is. 1176 01:08:47,000 --> 01:08:50,000 It's a mental program 1177 01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:55,000 that has almost exclusive control 1178 01:08:56,000 --> 01:09:00,000 over our habitual behavior. 1179 01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:01,000 I saw that in a movie 1180 01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:03,000 or on a film strip. 1181 01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:05,000 It was shown at the introduction, 1182 01:09:05,000 --> 01:09:06,000 and this is where it stopped, 1183 01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:10,000 but that's not where it stops. 1184 01:09:10,000 --> 01:09:11,000 Yet, it's a mental program 1185 01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:13,000 that has almost exclusive control 1186 01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:15,000 over our habitual behavior, 1187 01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:18,000 and almost all of our behavior 1188 01:09:18,000 --> 01:09:20,000 is habitual. 1189 01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:23,000 That was missing on that film. 1190 01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:24,000 Almost all of our behavior 1191 01:09:24,000 --> 01:09:26,000 is habitual. 1192 01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:27,000 In other words, 1193 01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:28,000 most of what you're doing, 1194 01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:30,000 you don't have to think at all. 1195 01:09:30,000 --> 01:09:32,000 You just automatically do it. 1196 01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:34,000 You just automatically do it. 1197 01:09:34,000 --> 01:09:35,000 Do you know what you can do? 1198 01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:39,000 You can consciously and deliberately 1199 01:09:39,000 --> 01:09:42,000 feed stuff into your paradigm 1200 01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:44,000 that will have you automatically winning. 1201 01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:49,000 Automatically. 1202 01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:50,000 I'm starting something 1203 01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:53,000 that you're going to love. 1204 01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:57,000 I thought about it on a plane. 1205 01:09:57,000 --> 01:10:02,000 Sandy Gallagher gave me a suggestion 1206 01:10:02,000 --> 01:10:04,000 how she wanted me to do 1207 01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:06,000 this much more business. 1208 01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:07,000 I said, okay. 1209 01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:08,000 She said, how are you going to do it? 1210 01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:11,000 And I said, well, I don't know. 1211 01:10:11,000 --> 01:10:13,000 I figured it. 1212 01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:14,000 I get on a plane. 1213 01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:16,000 We'll be telling you about it. 1214 01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:20,000 It's PGI's Studio 333. 1215 01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:22,000 Studio 333. 1216 01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:23,000 I'll show you the logo. 1217 01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:25,000 Don't give me the idea. 1218 01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:31,000 Studio 333 is where we teach people 1219 01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:35,000 how to do things they think they can't do. 1220 01:10:35,000 --> 01:10:36,000 That's where we're going to teach people 1221 01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:38,000 how to do things they think they can't do. 1222 01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:41,000 It will be run on a regular basis. 1223 01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:42,000 It will probably be streamed 1224 01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:44,000 all over the world. 1225 01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:45,000 If we charge anything, 1226 01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:49,000 it might be $5 a month. 1227 01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:50,000 But we might not charge that. 1228 01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:52,000 We haven't decided on that yet. 1229 01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:53,000 I'll be starting fairly soon 1230 01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:56,000 because I worked it all out on the plane. 1231 01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:57,000 Where was I flying? 1232 01:10:57,000 --> 01:11:00,000 Where the hell were we going? 1233 01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:01,000 I forgot where I was going. 1234 01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:03,000 Maybe it was coming here, I guess. 1235 01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:05,000 It was coming here. 1236 01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:08,000 I got Mikey on the phone. 1237 01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:11,000 She got her creative department going. 1238 01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:12,000 And before I landed, 1239 01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:14,000 we had the local tape all made up, 1240 01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:17,000 had the idea all in my head. 1241 01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:19,000 And we're going to introduce it. 1242 01:11:19,000 --> 01:11:21,000 I asked Mikey, I said, 1243 01:11:21,000 --> 01:11:23,000 do a mailing to everybody. 1244 01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:25,000 Tell them about this. 1245 01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:27,000 And she's a little smarter than me in the marketing. 1246 01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:30,000 That's why she's the marketing director. 1247 01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:31,000 And she said, I think it would be better 1248 01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:33,000 if we introduced it in the seminar this weekend 1249 01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:35,000 and then mailed it. 1250 01:11:35,000 --> 01:11:36,000 Good idea. 1251 01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:39,000 So this is the start of the introduction. 1252 01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:40,000 This is not the introduction. 1253 01:11:40,000 --> 01:11:41,000 This is the start of it. 1254 01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:43,000 Now, what do we want to do? 1255 01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:47,000 We want to change our paradigm. 1256 01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:52,000 So there's things we're doing that are automatically, 1257 01:11:52,000 --> 01:11:54,000 we're automatically doing it, 1258 01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:59,000 that are not serving us, causing us problems. 1259 01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:02,000 And I don't care how old you are. 1260 01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:04,000 I don't care how young you are. 1261 01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:05,000 I don't care if you're male or female. 1262 01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:07,000 None of that makes any difference. 1263 01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:11,000 You are doing things that are not serving you, 1264 01:12:11,000 --> 01:12:12,000 and you automatically do them, 1265 01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:15,000 and you do them every day. 1266 01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:19,000 So what you have to do is pick one or two of those things out 1267 01:12:19,000 --> 01:12:22,000 and replace it with something that is serving you. 1268 01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:24,000 Don't try and change too many things at once. 1269 01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:28,000 You'll change nothing. 1270 01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:30,000 And you do that, 1271 01:12:30,000 --> 01:12:34,000 and you're going to find success becomes automatic. 1272 01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:36,000 The paradigm is for a sake. 1273 01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:40,000 My paradigm now causes me to do all kinds of things 1274 01:12:40,000 --> 01:12:42,000 that really serve me. 1275 01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:44,000 But I still have some things that I'm doing 1276 01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:46,000 that do not serve me. 1277 01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:48,000 So I don't care how long you live, 1278 01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:52,000 your odds are you're not going to hit perfection, 1279 01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:54,000 but you can get better, 1280 01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:56,000 and that's really what we want to do. 1281 01:12:56,000 --> 01:13:00,000 Now, Sandy Gallagher joined our company. 1282 01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:03,000 Unfortunately, she cannot be here this weekend, 1283 01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:06,000 and that's too bad, but she is, 1284 01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:10,000 she's financial genius, really is. 1285 01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:13,000 She came to a seminar, 1286 01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:16,000 and she had never heard anybody talk like me before. 1287 01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:18,000 I guess she was as fascinated with what I was doing 1288 01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:20,000 as I was with what Earl was doing. 1289 01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:28,000 And she started to spend more time with us, 1290 01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:30,000 more time with us. 1291 01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:34,000 She started to do some voluntary work around the company, 1292 01:13:34,000 --> 01:13:40,000 and she's a securities attorney. 1293 01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:43,000 She's dealing mostly in community banks. 1294 01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:49,000 She'd buy banks, sell banks, turn them public, merge them. 1295 01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:54,000 High-dollar stuff, and very, very good. 1296 01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:56,000 Has a great reputation. 1297 01:13:56,000 --> 01:14:01,000 And she ended up becoming my partner. 1298 01:14:01,000 --> 01:14:03,000 And I'm going to tell you, when she started, 1299 01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:05,000 I'd been in the business a long time, 1300 01:14:05,000 --> 01:14:09,000 but the business is doing more since she started 1301 01:14:09,000 --> 01:14:11,000 than we ever dreamed of. 1302 01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:16,000 And it's just going ahead and ahead and ahead. 1303 01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:20,000 And it's because of her 1304 01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:22,000 and some of the other people in the company, 1305 01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:24,000 like Gina and Mikey, and different people in the company. 1306 01:14:24,000 --> 01:14:29,000 We've got some phenomenal people. 1307 01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:33,000 I love this quote by Steve Jobs. 1308 01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:37,000 For the past 33 years, I've looked in the mirror every morning 1309 01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:42,000 and asked myself, yet today were the last day of my life 1310 01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:47,000 would I want to do what I'm about to do today? 1311 01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:49,000 Such a good question. 1312 01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:55,000 Yet whenever the answer has been no 1313 01:14:55,000 --> 01:14:57,000 for too many days in a row, 1314 01:14:57,000 --> 01:15:04,000 I know I need to change something. 1315 01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:06,000 When we started to use that quote, 1316 01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:09,000 I started to read it often, 1317 01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:11,000 and I do it frequently. 1318 01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:15,000 I'll change something. 1319 01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:17,000 I work a lot with Arash. 1320 01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:19,000 Arash is a great salesman. 1321 01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:22,000 He's a great sales manager. 1322 01:15:22,000 --> 01:15:27,000 He and I brainstorm frequently on the phone, 1323 01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:31,000 and we're looking at what we don't do 1324 01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:35,000 and what we should start doing. 1325 01:15:35,000 --> 01:15:37,000 And growth is the name of the game, 1326 01:15:37,000 --> 01:15:40,000 but if you want to grow, you've got to change. 1327 01:15:40,000 --> 01:15:41,000 There's no question about it. 1328 01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:44,000 If you want to grow, you've got to change. 1329 01:15:44,000 --> 01:15:47,000 And I think something we all want to remember, 1330 01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:51,000 this is so important and it's so misunderstood 1331 01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:54,000 that you and I have phenomenal potential, 1332 01:15:54,000 --> 01:16:00,000 and you and I can actually create our own economy. 1333 01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:03,000 Yet it has nothing to do with the market. 1334 01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:05,000 It has nothing to do with the government. 1335 01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:08,000 Yet it has to do with your own thinking. 1336 01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:14,000 You can actually create your own economy. 1337 01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:17,000 I was listening where they're talking 1338 01:16:17,000 --> 01:16:19,000 the potential they're going to take 1339 01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:21,000 the highest-income earners 1340 01:16:21,000 --> 01:16:23,000 and charge them 70% taxes. 1341 01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:25,000 I don't care if they charge me 70%. 1342 01:16:25,000 --> 01:16:26,000 I really don't. 1343 01:16:26,000 --> 01:16:27,000 I'll just earn more. 1344 01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:29,000 They can keep raising it if they want. 1345 01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:31,000 I'll just keep earning more. 1346 01:16:31,000 --> 01:16:32,000 I'm not going to let that bother me. 1347 01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:34,000 I won't let that sway me at all. 1348 01:16:34,000 --> 01:16:35,000 Now, a lot of people say, 1349 01:16:35,000 --> 01:16:37,000 well, I wouldn't want to do that. 1350 01:16:37,000 --> 01:16:38,000 Well, there was somebody. 1351 01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:40,000 If you know where it is, you know, 1352 01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:41,000 I don't care what they do. 1353 01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:43,000 They're not in charge of me. 1354 01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:44,000 I'm in charge of me. 1355 01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:47,000 Now, look, we set goals. 1356 01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:49,000 We go for an A-type goal. 1357 01:16:49,000 --> 01:16:52,000 That's doing what you already know how to do. 1358 01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:54,000 It's a dumb habit, but we do it. 1359 01:16:54,000 --> 01:16:55,000 It's part of the paradigm. 1360 01:16:55,000 --> 01:16:58,000 If we come and we get some information, 1361 01:16:58,000 --> 01:17:01,000 then we say, I'll do a B-type goal, 1362 01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:04,000 and that's where, if I think I can do it. 1363 01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:06,000 Now, I want you to stop and play with this 1364 01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:07,000 for a moment. 1365 01:17:07,000 --> 01:17:08,000 You're going from doing something 1366 01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:09,000 you already know how to do 1367 01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:12,000 because you've done it before. 1368 01:17:12,000 --> 01:17:14,000 If you graduate, and this is where 1369 01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:16,000 a number of people go that come to the seminar, 1370 01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:18,000 they go to a B-type goal. 1371 01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:21,000 They say, if this happened, 1372 01:17:21,000 --> 01:17:23,000 if that happened, 1373 01:17:23,000 --> 01:17:24,000 if this worked this way, 1374 01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:25,000 and that worked that way, 1375 01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:27,000 and we were to do this, 1376 01:17:27,000 --> 01:17:31,000 then I could do this. 1377 01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:33,000 We're thinking. 1378 01:17:33,000 --> 01:17:36,000 You're doing what you think you can do. 1379 01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:38,000 There's no inspiration in that. 1380 01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:44,000 Absolutely none. 1381 01:17:44,000 --> 01:17:45,000 There's only inspiration 1382 01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:47,000 in what you want to do. 1383 01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:48,000 We've got to get out of there. 1384 01:17:48,000 --> 01:17:49,000 We've got to get up here. 1385 01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:51,000 Whatever your heart's desire is up here 1386 01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:52,000 waiting for you, 1387 01:17:52,000 --> 01:17:54,000 you just name it and claim it. 1388 01:17:54,000 --> 01:17:56,000 Now, that's really what we have to do. 1389 01:17:56,000 --> 01:17:57,000 That's where we have to go, 1390 01:17:57,000 --> 01:17:59,000 and most people don't go there. 1391 01:17:59,000 --> 01:18:05,000 You see, you don't want to go there or there. 1392 01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:06,000 You've got to get up here. 1393 01:18:06,000 --> 01:18:09,000 You've got to stretch. 1394 01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:10,000 And I'm going to tell you, 1395 01:18:10,000 --> 01:18:13,000 if you're not stretching, 1396 01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:16,000 there's something you're not doing. 1397 01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:21,000 You have not selected the proper target. 1398 01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:22,000 If you're doing something 1399 01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:23,000 that you're very familiar with 1400 01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:25,000 and it's comfortable, 1401 01:18:25,000 --> 01:18:26,000 you're not on the right track. 1402 01:18:26,000 --> 01:18:31,000 You're not going to be really jazzed. 1403 01:18:31,000 --> 01:18:35,000 I get up around 5 o'clock in the morning, 1404 01:18:35,000 --> 01:18:37,000 and I'm doing my exercise this morning 1405 01:18:37,000 --> 01:18:41,000 around 5.15, something like that, 1406 01:18:41,000 --> 01:18:44,000 and I'm starting to get really turned on 1407 01:18:44,000 --> 01:18:45,000 about what I was going to do. 1408 01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:47,000 I was looking forward to teaching this, 1409 01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:49,000 but aside from teaching this, 1410 01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:53,000 I'm looking forward to this Studio 333. 1411 01:18:53,000 --> 01:18:54,000 We called it 333. 1412 01:18:54,000 --> 01:18:56,000 There's a story in your Born Rich book 1413 01:18:56,000 --> 01:18:59,000 about me teaching an idea in a seminar, 1414 01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:01,000 and there was a couple of guys there. 1415 01:19:01,000 --> 01:19:02,000 They raised $3 million in three hours 1416 01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:06,000 three days later. 1417 01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:08,000 Yeah, they raised $3 million in three hours 1418 01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:10,000 three days later. 1419 01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:11,000 They followed an idea 1420 01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:14,000 that I was teaching in the seminar, 1421 01:19:14,000 --> 01:19:15,000 and there was a tornado 1422 01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:16,000 that had gone through a town 1423 01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:17,000 just north of Toronto, 1424 01:19:17,000 --> 01:19:19,000 and they needed $3 million to do something. 1425 01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:20,000 They said, 1426 01:19:20,000 --> 01:19:22,000 listen, we can raise $3 million in three hours 1427 01:19:22,000 --> 01:19:23,000 three days from now. 1428 01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:24,000 Everybody thought they were crazy. 1429 01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:26,000 Well, the idea is all written up in the book. 1430 01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:28,000 So here we're teaching people, 1431 01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:29,000 and I thought, 1432 01:19:29,000 --> 01:19:30,000 we'll call Studio 333. 1433 01:19:30,000 --> 01:19:33,000 We'll use that idea as a foundation, 1434 01:19:33,000 --> 01:19:35,000 and we'll teach people how to do things 1435 01:19:35,000 --> 01:19:38,000 they think they can't do. 1436 01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:41,000 We'll have people phone in from all over the world. 1437 01:19:41,000 --> 01:19:42,000 We'll talk to them, 1438 01:19:42,000 --> 01:19:44,000 and we may have a couple of PowerPoints 1439 01:19:44,000 --> 01:19:45,000 that we just use to spin off 1440 01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:47,000 and get people thinking, 1441 01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:50,000 but it's not going to be an organized thing. 1442 01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:55,000 It's going to be different. 1443 01:19:55,000 --> 01:20:00,000 Now, Robert Heinlein said something 1444 01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:02,000 that was so true. 1445 01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:05,000 A child that's growing up in a home 1446 01:20:05,000 --> 01:20:08,000 where there's no clearly defined goals, 1447 01:20:08,000 --> 01:20:10,000 that child's going to become strangely loyal 1448 01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:12,000 to performing daily trivia 1449 01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:15,000 until ultimately he becomes slaved by it. 1450 01:20:15,000 --> 01:20:20,000 Why? Because their parents are. 1451 01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:22,000 Now, he wrote Strangers in a Strange Land 1452 01:20:22,000 --> 01:20:23,000 back in the 60s. 1453 01:20:23,000 --> 01:20:26,000 He was a science fiction writer. 1454 01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:27,000 But he says, 1455 01:20:27,000 --> 01:20:31,000 an absence of clearly defined goals. 1456 01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:35,000 Have you any idea how many homes 1457 01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:44,000 right here within 50 miles of this hotel, 1458 01:20:44,000 --> 01:20:46,000 the majority of homes, 1459 01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:49,000 they don't have any goals. 1460 01:20:49,000 --> 01:20:50,000 Back where you live, 1461 01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:53,000 the majority of the people living in your neighborhood, 1462 01:20:53,000 --> 01:20:54,000 they do not have goals. 1463 01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:58,000 They do not have clearly defined goals, 1464 01:20:58,000 --> 01:20:59,000 properly established. 1465 01:20:59,000 --> 01:21:02,000 They don't have them. 1466 01:21:02,000 --> 01:21:03,000 They need help, 1467 01:21:03,000 --> 01:21:07,000 and they don't think that they're on the wrong track 1468 01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:10,000 because they work hard. 1469 01:21:10,000 --> 01:21:12,000 They pay their bills, 1470 01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:15,000 but they're not accumulating any wealth. 1471 01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:16,000 They're good people. 1472 01:21:16,000 --> 01:21:19,000 They go to temple or go to church or go to the mosque, 1473 01:21:19,000 --> 01:21:22,000 you know, on a regular basis. 1474 01:21:22,000 --> 01:21:24,000 They're good living people, 1475 01:21:24,000 --> 01:21:28,000 but they're not going anywhere. 1476 01:21:29,000 --> 01:21:30,000 Why? 1477 01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:32,000 Their paradigm has them locked into where they are. 1478 01:21:32,000 --> 01:21:33,000 How did they get the paradigm? 1479 01:21:33,000 --> 01:21:37,000 Well, it started out when they were conceived 1480 01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:39,000 at the moment of conception. 1481 01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:45,000 All of mom's DNA and all of dad's DNA become your DNA. 1482 01:21:45,000 --> 01:21:47,000 It's rather wild, you see. 1483 01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:51,000 If you're able to shape your paradigm 1484 01:21:51,000 --> 01:21:53,000 or shape your future, 1485 01:21:53,000 --> 01:21:56,000 you have to be willing and able to change your paradigm. 1486 01:21:56,000 --> 01:22:03,000 Now, you can be willing but not able 1487 01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:05,000 because you don't know how. 1488 01:22:05,000 --> 01:22:06,000 I was changing mine. 1489 01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:09,000 I didn't know what I had done. 1490 01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:11,000 Most people that are very successful 1491 01:22:11,000 --> 01:22:16,000 cannot articulate on why they are. 1492 01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:18,000 There's any number of sales managers, 1493 01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:20,000 any number of managers in company 1494 01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:23,000 has no idea about what we're talking about, 1495 01:22:23,000 --> 01:22:28,000 and they're trying to get the people to do a better job. 1496 01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:29,000 The people aren't going to do a better job 1497 01:22:29,000 --> 01:22:32,000 until they start to understand this. 1498 01:22:32,000 --> 01:22:37,000 The manager will sit and tell them what they want done. 1499 01:22:37,000 --> 01:22:39,000 The person will agree, they'll do it, 1500 01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:41,000 and they do it that day. 1501 01:22:41,000 --> 01:22:44,000 The next day, they're back onto the old track again. 1502 01:22:44,000 --> 01:22:45,000 The manager will say, 1503 01:22:45,000 --> 01:22:46,000 I thought you agreed to do that. 1504 01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:47,000 I know. 1505 01:22:47,000 --> 01:22:48,000 Why aren't you doing it? 1506 01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:50,000 I don't know. 1507 01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:56,000 No foundation, no one understands paradigms. 1508 01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:05,000 Career counselors in school trying to help a kid 1509 01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:07,000 that's maybe going down the wrong road, 1510 01:23:07,000 --> 01:23:08,000 they don't know how to help them. 1511 01:23:08,000 --> 01:23:11,000 That kid's paradigm is taking them down the wrong road. 1512 01:23:11,000 --> 01:23:14,000 Could they sit down and show the person how the paradigm, 1513 01:23:14,000 --> 01:23:19,000 what it is and everything, in very few minutes probably, 1514 01:23:19,000 --> 01:23:23,000 but they can't do it because they don't understand it. 1515 01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:28,000 You have to be willing and able to change the paradigm. 1516 01:23:28,000 --> 01:23:30,000 Now, I love this. 1517 01:23:30,000 --> 01:23:34,000 You never change things by fighting existing reality. 1518 01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:36,000 To change things, you build a new model 1519 01:23:36,000 --> 01:23:39,000 that makes the existing model obsolete. 1520 01:23:39,000 --> 01:23:42,000 When Sandy became my partner, 1521 01:23:42,000 --> 01:23:48,000 she was not a particularly popular person in the company 1522 01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:51,000 because she had been studying the material 1523 01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:54,000 and she locked into this and she said, 1524 01:23:54,000 --> 01:23:55,000 you know what we have to do? 1525 01:23:55,000 --> 01:23:58,000 We've got to create a new model here 1526 01:23:58,000 --> 01:24:01,000 that makes the existing model obsolete. 1527 01:24:01,000 --> 01:24:04,000 I had agreed when she joined us 1528 01:24:04,000 --> 01:24:08,000 that I would support whatever move she wanted to make, 1529 01:24:08,000 --> 01:24:11,000 and it was not popular, some of the things she wanted to do, 1530 01:24:11,000 --> 01:24:14,000 but she did them. 1531 01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:21,000 And it was rough going for a little while, 1532 01:24:21,000 --> 01:24:22,000 then it started to get better 1533 01:24:22,000 --> 01:24:28,000 and it just keeps getting better and better and better. 1534 01:24:28,000 --> 01:24:33,000 You may be fighting existing reality. 1535 01:24:33,000 --> 01:24:37,000 It could be a waste of time and money. 1536 01:24:37,000 --> 01:24:39,000 You've been trying this for years 1537 01:24:39,000 --> 01:24:41,000 and it's not producing what you want. 1538 01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:44,000 Why don't you create a new model 1539 01:24:44,000 --> 01:24:48,000 that makes the existing model obsolete? 1540 01:24:48,000 --> 01:24:52,000 You do that and some great things can happen. 1541 01:24:52,000 --> 01:24:55,000 Now, I love this. 1542 01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:57,000 It's not who you are that's holding you back. 1543 01:24:57,000 --> 01:25:02,000 It's who you think you're not. 1544 01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:06,000 Every one of us has so much going for us 1545 01:25:06,000 --> 01:25:12,000 that we can't even properly discuss it. 1546 01:25:12,000 --> 01:25:15,000 I think maybe you can here in this room 1547 01:25:15,000 --> 01:25:17,000 because that's what we're here for. 1548 01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:22,000 But you go outside of this room, 1549 01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:26,000 it's a strange thing. 1550 01:25:26,000 --> 01:25:28,000 I was talking to my wife at home. 1551 01:25:28,000 --> 01:25:30,000 I was talking about the number of relatives, 1552 01:25:30,000 --> 01:25:32,000 fairly close relatives. 1553 01:25:32,000 --> 01:25:35,000 They never come to a seminar. 1554 01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:36,000 Wow. 1555 01:25:36,000 --> 01:25:39,000 I heard somebody say, wow. 1556 01:25:39,000 --> 01:25:43,000 No, they don't. 1557 01:25:43,000 --> 01:25:46,000 I remember, in fact, I tell this story 1558 01:25:46,000 --> 01:25:49,000 in the last chapter in You're Born Rich. 1559 01:25:49,000 --> 01:25:51,000 There's an aunt and uncle. 1560 01:25:51,000 --> 01:25:53,000 My aunt was my dad's sister, 1561 01:25:53,000 --> 01:25:56,000 but she was about the same age as me. 1562 01:25:56,000 --> 01:25:58,000 She was his young sister. 1563 01:25:58,000 --> 01:26:03,000 And I would drop by and see them periodically. 1564 01:26:03,000 --> 01:26:04,000 Exactly. 1565 01:26:04,000 --> 01:26:06,000 They lived not too far from me. 1566 01:26:06,000 --> 01:26:09,000 They had a whole house full of kids. 1567 01:26:09,000 --> 01:26:12,000 And he worked as a millwright in a company 1568 01:26:12,000 --> 01:26:14,000 away in the other side of the city, 1569 01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:16,000 and he didn't have a license to drive a car. 1570 01:26:16,000 --> 01:26:17,000 He didn't have a car. 1571 01:26:17,000 --> 01:26:19,000 So he had to take public transportation 1572 01:26:19,000 --> 01:26:21,000 all the way up to the west end of the city, 1573 01:26:21,000 --> 01:26:23,000 which takes a long time. 1574 01:26:23,000 --> 01:26:26,000 It's a grueling ride, and then back. 1575 01:26:26,000 --> 01:26:28,000 And he had to work overtime every night 1576 01:26:28,000 --> 01:26:33,000 to make enough money to make things happen. 1577 01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:36,000 I dropped by one time. 1578 01:26:36,000 --> 01:26:38,000 It was around Christmas. 1579 01:26:38,000 --> 01:26:39,000 And they were running around, 1580 01:26:39,000 --> 01:26:40,000 and they were talking about this, 1581 01:26:40,000 --> 01:26:42,000 trying to get a place that would give them 1582 01:26:42,000 --> 01:26:44,000 a credit card, a big store, 1583 01:26:44,000 --> 01:26:48,000 where they could buy presents for the kids. 1584 01:26:48,000 --> 01:26:50,000 And I listened to this for a while, 1585 01:26:50,000 --> 01:26:51,000 and I said, you know, he said, 1586 01:26:51,000 --> 01:26:53,000 never mind, next year's going to be different. 1587 01:26:53,000 --> 01:26:54,000 I said, you want to know something, Don? 1588 01:26:54,000 --> 01:26:57,000 Next year's going to be exactly the same. 1589 01:26:57,000 --> 01:26:59,000 I said, you're a real stupid guy. 1590 01:26:59,000 --> 01:27:03,000 I said, you do exactly the same thing 1591 01:27:03,000 --> 01:27:05,000 and expect to get different results. 1592 01:27:05,000 --> 01:27:08,000 That's a form of insanity. 1593 01:27:08,000 --> 01:27:10,000 I said, why didn't you learn what you're doing 1594 01:27:10,000 --> 01:27:12,000 and learn how to improve? 1595 01:27:12,000 --> 01:27:14,000 Would he ever get mad at me? 1596 01:27:14,000 --> 01:27:16,000 Finally, I left. 1597 01:27:16,000 --> 01:27:22,000 Now, they got paid every two weeks. 1598 01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:24,000 So three or four times a year, 1599 01:27:24,000 --> 01:27:27,000 they got three pays in a month. 1600 01:27:27,000 --> 01:27:31,000 They budgeted for two pays, 1601 01:27:31,000 --> 01:27:33,000 because most months they just got two. 1602 01:27:33,000 --> 01:27:38,000 But every now and then, they would get three pays. 1603 01:27:38,000 --> 01:27:39,000 They came to a seminar, 1604 01:27:39,000 --> 01:27:42,000 and I charged them for coming. 1605 01:27:42,000 --> 01:27:44,000 We were doing a seminar at that time 1606 01:27:44,000 --> 01:27:50,000 every Tuesday night from 7 to 10 for eight weeks. 1607 01:27:50,000 --> 01:27:58,000 And I made them pay. 1608 01:27:58,000 --> 01:28:04,000 I bought into the idea, if you pay, you pay attention. 1609 01:28:04,000 --> 01:28:05,000 And you get for nothing, 1610 01:28:05,000 --> 01:28:08,000 you place little or no value on. 1611 01:28:08,000 --> 01:28:12,000 Now, do I follow that rule 100%? No. 1612 01:28:12,000 --> 01:28:14,000 But every time I try and help a person 1613 01:28:14,000 --> 01:28:18,000 where they don't pay, it doesn't usually work. 1614 01:28:18,000 --> 01:28:22,000 Anyway, I made them pay. 1615 01:28:22,000 --> 01:28:25,000 They're both gone now. 1616 01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:29,000 But do you know, Marge, it was about the third week, 1617 01:28:29,000 --> 01:28:32,000 she told me, if we hadn't have paid, 1618 01:28:32,000 --> 01:28:34,000 I'd have never come back. 1619 01:28:34,000 --> 01:28:37,000 I had no idea what the hell you were talking about. 1620 01:28:37,000 --> 01:28:39,000 Start talking about conscious mind 1621 01:28:39,000 --> 01:28:44,000 and universal intelligence. 1622 01:28:44,000 --> 01:28:46,000 She said, I just sat there, 1623 01:28:46,000 --> 01:28:48,000 I didn't even know what you were talking about. 1624 01:28:48,000 --> 01:28:50,000 About the third week, you said, 1625 01:28:50,000 --> 01:28:52,000 what do you want? 1626 01:28:52,000 --> 01:28:54,000 Not what do your kids want you to want. 1627 01:28:54,000 --> 01:28:56,000 Not what does your spouse want you to want. 1628 01:28:56,000 --> 01:28:58,000 What do you want? 1629 01:28:58,000 --> 01:29:01,000 Well, she said she hadn't thought of what she wanted 1630 01:29:01,000 --> 01:29:06,000 since she was a teenager before she was married. 1631 01:29:06,000 --> 01:29:10,000 She was thinking of getting it for the kids 1632 01:29:10,000 --> 01:29:14,000 and her husband. 1633 01:29:14,000 --> 01:29:17,000 She said, I didn't know what I wanted. 1634 01:29:17,000 --> 01:29:20,000 It's been so long since I thought of what I wanted. 1635 01:29:20,000 --> 01:29:23,000 I didn't know what I wanted. 1636 01:29:23,000 --> 01:29:25,000 And she said, when I started to write, 1637 01:29:25,000 --> 01:29:27,000 then it couldn't stop. 1638 01:29:27,000 --> 01:29:29,000 Everything she wanted. 1639 01:29:29,000 --> 01:29:32,000 Do you know, when they died, they were millionaires. 1640 01:29:32,000 --> 01:29:35,000 Their company is still operating. 1641 01:29:35,000 --> 01:29:37,000 They own a beautiful place down in Florida, 1642 01:29:37,000 --> 01:29:39,000 another beautiful place in Toronto. 1643 01:29:39,000 --> 01:29:43,000 Their family worked in the company. 1644 01:29:43,000 --> 01:29:48,000 They're in millions of dollars. 1645 01:29:48,000 --> 01:29:52,000 Because they started to understand this. 1646 01:29:52,000 --> 01:29:57,000 Do you know there's a lot of people like Mark and Don. 1647 01:29:57,000 --> 01:29:59,000 It's strange, I have a lot of relatives, 1648 01:29:59,000 --> 01:30:02,000 they don't come here. 1649 01:30:02,000 --> 01:30:05,000 I've told them, you're welcome, you know. 1650 01:30:05,000 --> 01:30:07,000 They're busy. 1651 01:30:07,000 --> 01:30:09,000 We've got other things we've got to do. 1652 01:30:09,000 --> 01:30:11,000 They'll phone me and say, you know, 1653 01:30:11,000 --> 01:30:13,000 really, we were planning to come up, 1654 01:30:13,000 --> 01:30:16,000 but this has come up, and I know. 1655 01:30:16,000 --> 01:30:18,000 You've got to figure out how to do more of the same. 1656 01:30:18,000 --> 01:30:24,000 Go ahead. 1657 01:30:24,000 --> 01:30:28,000 You cannot force this on people. 1658 01:30:28,000 --> 01:30:31,000 But if you really want it, 1659 01:30:31,000 --> 01:30:36,000 I guarantee you some great things can happen. 1660 01:30:36,000 --> 01:30:40,000 Self-confidence is the first requisite 1661 01:30:40,000 --> 01:30:43,000 to great understanding. 1662 01:30:43,000 --> 01:30:47,000 Solomon said, all you're getting, get understanding. 1663 01:30:47,000 --> 01:30:50,000 There's a quote somewhere in here. 1664 01:30:50,000 --> 01:30:53,000 I'm not quite sure where it is, but it's in here. 1665 01:30:53,000 --> 01:30:55,000 It's by Eric Hoffer. 1666 01:30:55,000 --> 01:30:57,000 I had the good fortune of working with Eric Hoffer. 1667 01:30:57,000 --> 01:30:59,000 He's been dead for many, many years, 1668 01:30:59,000 --> 01:31:01,000 but I worked with him at the Human Resource Congress 1669 01:31:01,000 --> 01:31:03,000 in 1970 in Chicago. 1670 01:31:03,000 --> 01:31:07,000 And grand old man, he said, 1671 01:31:07,000 --> 01:31:12,000 to learn, you need a certain degree of confidence. 1672 01:31:12,000 --> 01:31:15,000 Not too much and not too little. 1673 01:31:15,000 --> 01:31:17,000 If you have too little confidence, 1674 01:31:17,000 --> 01:31:19,000 you'll think you can't learn. 1675 01:31:19,000 --> 01:31:25,000 If you have too much, you'll think you don't have to learn. 1676 01:31:25,000 --> 01:31:28,000 You know, it's rather sad to be thinking about that. 1677 01:31:28,000 --> 01:31:33,000 Most of us fall into both those categories too often. 1678 01:31:33,000 --> 01:31:35,000 It would be a very prudent move on our part 1679 01:31:35,000 --> 01:31:38,000 if we attempted to keep ourselves 1680 01:31:38,000 --> 01:31:42,000 at that certain degree of confidence. 1681 01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:46,000 You're going to know you don't know it all. 1682 01:31:46,000 --> 01:31:48,000 You don't know it all. 1683 01:31:48,000 --> 01:31:52,000 And every time you raise your level of understanding, 1684 01:31:52,000 --> 01:31:54,000 it's reflected in your results. 1685 01:31:54,000 --> 01:31:57,000 What's going on outside of you is a reflection 1686 01:31:57,000 --> 01:32:01,000 of what's going on inside of your own understanding. 1687 01:32:01,000 --> 01:32:03,000 I don't care what you're doing. 1688 01:32:03,000 --> 01:32:06,000 I don't care how old you are. 1689 01:32:06,000 --> 01:32:08,000 I can tell you this. 1690 01:32:08,000 --> 01:32:11,000 And I don't think it, I know it. 1691 01:32:11,000 --> 01:32:17,000 Keep in mind, I got this 58 years ago. 1692 01:32:17,000 --> 01:32:19,000 I have never stopped reading it. 1693 01:32:19,000 --> 01:32:21,000 I read it every day. 1694 01:32:21,000 --> 01:32:24,000 I became so fascinated with this information, 1695 01:32:24,000 --> 01:32:26,000 I got addicted to it. 1696 01:32:26,000 --> 01:32:28,000 I love studying it. 1697 01:32:28,000 --> 01:32:30,000 I absolutely love it. 1698 01:32:30,000 --> 01:32:35,000 However, I keep testing myself. 1699 01:32:35,000 --> 01:32:38,000 I said, I'm not doing as well as I can do. 1700 01:32:38,000 --> 01:32:40,000 I want to do better. 1701 01:32:40,000 --> 01:32:43,000 I want to do better. 1702 01:32:43,000 --> 01:32:48,000 Now, some of us have a good friend here, Phil Goldfein. 1703 01:32:48,000 --> 01:32:50,000 Saturday morning, he's going to share a story with you 1704 01:32:50,000 --> 01:32:52,000 that's a damn good story. 1705 01:32:52,000 --> 01:32:56,000 In fact, there's a number of stories. 1706 01:32:56,000 --> 01:33:03,000 I started to coach Phil about 17 years ago. 1707 01:33:03,000 --> 01:33:08,000 And I was telling him when I started, 1708 01:33:08,000 --> 01:33:12,000 the man that gave me that book, Ray Stanford, 1709 01:33:12,000 --> 01:33:17,000 he said, if you will do exactly what I tell you. 1710 01:33:17,000 --> 01:33:19,000 I said, I'm not going to tell you what time to go to bed 1711 01:33:19,000 --> 01:33:21,000 or what to eat or something like that. 1712 01:33:21,000 --> 01:33:24,000 But if you will do exactly what I tell you, 1713 01:33:24,000 --> 01:33:26,000 you can have anything you want. 1714 01:33:26,000 --> 01:33:29,000 Now, I was earning $4,000 a year. 1715 01:33:29,000 --> 01:33:31,000 I owed $6,000. 1716 01:33:31,000 --> 01:33:33,000 It was in 1961. 1717 01:33:33,000 --> 01:33:37,000 If I had paid every cent I earned out in a year, 1718 01:33:37,000 --> 01:33:41,000 I would have still owed a couple of thousand dollars 1719 01:33:41,000 --> 01:33:43,000 because I earned four, I owed six. 1720 01:33:43,000 --> 01:33:49,000 I owed more money than I earned all year. 1721 01:33:49,000 --> 01:33:52,000 I couldn't even get anywhere near getting even. 1722 01:33:52,000 --> 01:33:54,000 In fact, I'd get to a point where I wouldn't even try 1723 01:33:54,000 --> 01:33:57,000 and pay some of them because what's the sense? 1724 01:33:57,000 --> 01:34:00,000 You know, you get discouraged. 1725 01:34:00,000 --> 01:34:04,000 And for me to accept the idea I could have anything I want 1726 01:34:04,000 --> 01:34:09,000 living under those conditions, I couldn't buy that. 1727 01:34:09,000 --> 01:34:11,000 I couldn't believe that. 1728 01:34:11,000 --> 01:34:13,000 But you know something? 1729 01:34:13,000 --> 01:34:15,000 It was the way he was talking to me. 1730 01:34:15,000 --> 01:34:18,000 I believed, he believed it. 1731 01:34:18,000 --> 01:34:21,000 That was the difference. 1732 01:34:21,000 --> 01:34:24,000 That was the difference with Phil. 1733 01:34:24,000 --> 01:34:26,000 I was talking to Phil last night. 1734 01:34:26,000 --> 01:34:28,000 He was telling me. 1735 01:34:28,000 --> 01:34:36,000 Now, he was really struggling when I met him. 1736 01:34:36,000 --> 01:34:41,000 He's very successful today, earns millions of dollars. 1737 01:34:41,000 --> 01:34:46,000 He's done things that very few people alive have done. 1738 01:34:46,000 --> 01:34:49,000 And he didn't believe what I was saying, 1739 01:34:49,000 --> 01:34:53,000 but he said, you said in that story about rain, 1740 01:34:53,000 --> 01:34:59,000 he said, I believed, you believed it. 1741 01:34:59,000 --> 01:35:01,000 And that's what convinced me. 1742 01:35:01,000 --> 01:35:02,000 I believed, Ray believed it. 1743 01:35:02,000 --> 01:35:05,000 So I was prepared to do what he told me. 1744 01:35:05,000 --> 01:35:08,000 Now, keep in mind, I was 26. 1745 01:35:08,000 --> 01:35:10,000 I had never done what I was told. 1746 01:35:10,000 --> 01:35:13,000 I was in the Canadian Navy and I got in a lot of trouble 1747 01:35:13,000 --> 01:35:24,000 because I wouldn't do what I was told. 1748 01:35:24,000 --> 01:35:26,000 I was not a good employee. 1749 01:35:26,000 --> 01:35:29,000 There's a couple of places where I lasted for one hour. 1750 01:35:29,000 --> 01:35:30,000 I got fired. 1751 01:35:30,000 --> 01:35:33,000 That's not an easy thing to do. 1752 01:35:33,000 --> 01:35:35,000 To expose yourself in an hour. 1753 01:35:35,000 --> 01:35:38,000 They found out in an hour how useless I was. 1754 01:35:38,000 --> 01:35:40,000 You see? 1755 01:35:40,000 --> 01:35:43,000 And they fired me. 1756 01:35:43,000 --> 01:35:56,000 Now, the objective of this program is to help you understand you better. 1757 01:35:56,000 --> 01:36:00,000 Help you understand how there's something inside of you. 1758 01:36:00,000 --> 01:36:02,000 It's like a little program. 1759 01:36:02,000 --> 01:36:07,000 You know, we have programs in our phones. 1760 01:36:07,000 --> 01:36:17,000 These programs control the phone. 1761 01:36:17,000 --> 01:36:22,000 Well, you've got a program in you and it controls you. 1762 01:36:22,000 --> 01:36:27,000 You don't have to learn how to write code to change the program. 1763 01:36:27,000 --> 01:36:31,000 To change the program is a very simple thing to do. 1764 01:36:31,000 --> 01:36:35,000 But when you do it, it will reflect in your results. 1765 01:36:35,000 --> 01:36:38,000 You'll start earning more money. 1766 01:36:38,000 --> 01:36:40,000 You'll start to have more fun. 1767 01:36:40,000 --> 01:36:50,000 You'll start to mix with people that you enjoy mixing with. 1768 01:36:50,000 --> 01:36:51,000 I read something the other day. 1769 01:36:51,000 --> 01:36:57,000 I haven't got it right, I don't think, but I got the idea. 1770 01:36:57,000 --> 01:37:03,000 If you're mixing with the wrong people, you're not going to end up in the right place. 1771 01:37:03,000 --> 01:37:06,000 I was mixing with the wrong people. 1772 01:37:06,000 --> 01:37:09,000 And I never ended up in the right place. 1773 01:37:09,000 --> 01:37:12,000 Today, I mix with the right people. 1774 01:37:12,000 --> 01:37:15,000 I don't spend a lot of time with anyone. 1775 01:37:15,000 --> 01:37:18,000 I have a few associates that I respect. 1776 01:37:18,000 --> 01:37:23,000 I like, I enjoy their company, so I spend time with them. 1777 01:37:23,000 --> 01:37:33,000 But a person that's really busy, doesn't have time, spends a lot of time just sitting and chitty-chatting. 1778 01:37:33,000 --> 01:37:36,000 They've got too much to do, places to go. 1779 01:37:36,000 --> 01:37:40,000 Now, Gina? 1780 01:37:40,000 --> 01:37:42,000 I do? 1781 01:37:42,000 --> 01:37:43,000 She does. 1782 01:37:43,000 --> 01:37:45,000 You see, you talk about anticipate. 1783 01:37:45,000 --> 01:37:46,000 I didn't even finish. 1784 01:37:46,000 --> 01:37:47,000 I said, do you have? 1785 01:37:47,000 --> 01:37:49,000 She said, I do. 1786 01:37:49,000 --> 01:37:51,000 Were you going to ask me something else? 1787 01:37:51,000 --> 01:37:53,000 Come on down. 1788 01:37:53,000 --> 01:37:55,000 Give this lady a hand. 1789 01:37:55,000 --> 01:38:03,000 She's really good. 1790 01:38:03,000 --> 01:38:04,000 Isn't he good? 1791 01:38:04,000 --> 01:38:07,000 Gina, come here. 1792 01:38:07,000 --> 01:38:14,000 I appreciate you. 1793 01:38:14,000 --> 01:38:15,000 Okay. 1794 01:38:15,000 --> 01:38:22,000 We're going to play a quick video, but before we do that, if you have an empty seat at your table, 1795 01:38:22,000 --> 01:38:26,000 can you just kind of set the chair against the table? 1796 01:38:26,000 --> 01:38:30,000 You know how you flip them up if you're saving a chair? 1797 01:38:30,000 --> 01:38:32,000 Does that make sense? 1798 01:38:32,000 --> 01:38:33,000 Okay. 1799 01:38:33,000 --> 01:38:35,000 We just need to know where there are empty seats in the room. 1800 01:38:35,000 --> 01:38:41,000 I would like to say thank you and goodbye to our YouTube and Facebook people. 1801 01:38:41,000 --> 01:38:44,000 We've enjoyed having you with us. 1802 01:38:44,000 --> 01:38:49,000 The rest of you, we are going to take a break for 20 minutes, 1803 01:38:49,000 --> 01:38:51,000 and then we're going to come back here. 1804 01:38:51,000 --> 01:38:55,000 Can we play our video, please? 1805 01:38:55,000 --> 01:38:56,000 All right, live streamers. 1806 01:38:56,000 --> 01:39:00,000 Here in the room, they're watching a housekeeping video that just pertains to the room, 1807 01:39:00,000 --> 01:39:01,000 and you don't need to see that. 1808 01:39:01,000 --> 01:39:04,000 So I'm here with one of my best friends and coworkers, Arash Basooghi. 1809 01:39:04,000 --> 01:39:05,000 Hi, Arash. 1810 01:39:05,000 --> 01:39:06,000 Hey, Mike, how are you? 1811 01:39:06,000 --> 01:39:07,000 Good. 1812 01:39:07,000 --> 01:39:08,000 How are you enjoying the event so far? 1813 01:39:08,000 --> 01:39:09,000 Really? 1814 01:39:09,000 --> 01:39:10,000 I'm loving it. 1815 01:39:10,000 --> 01:39:11,000 You? 1816 01:39:11,000 --> 01:39:12,000 I'm loving it, too. 1817 01:39:12,000 --> 01:39:15,000 I think this is the biggest case that we've had between paradigm shifts so far. 1818 01:39:15,000 --> 01:39:18,000 I think this is our eighth paradigm shift, 1819 01:39:18,000 --> 01:39:20,000 but we've never done one 60 days from the previous one, 1820 01:39:20,000 --> 01:39:21,000 so we just did one in April, 1821 01:39:21,000 --> 01:39:25,000 and I want to know what you implemented from the April paradigm shift to now. 1822 01:39:25,000 --> 01:39:28,000 You know, I was telling Bob this last week, last Friday, actually. 1823 01:39:28,000 --> 01:39:32,000 I think I had one of my biggest aha's for a long time, 1824 01:39:32,000 --> 01:39:35,000 where I just focused on one thing, 1825 01:39:35,000 --> 01:39:39,000 and I have had so many huge results personally for me, 1826 01:39:39,000 --> 01:39:40,000 and Bob and I were talking, 1827 01:39:40,000 --> 01:39:46,000 and he sent me an Instagram clip the next day from Chris Powell, 1828 01:39:46,000 --> 01:39:52,000 who had actually the percentage of some study from Harvard that says, 1829 01:39:52,000 --> 01:39:57,000 when you focus on one thing, your chance of success was like 82%, 1830 01:39:57,000 --> 01:40:00,000 but then when you focus on two things at a time, not just that one thing, 1831 01:40:00,000 --> 01:40:03,000 it drops to 26%. 1832 01:40:03,000 --> 01:40:06,000 That is such great advice, especially in an environment like this, 1833 01:40:06,000 --> 01:40:08,000 where Bob is going to go over so much information, 1834 01:40:08,000 --> 01:40:10,000 he's going to give everyone so many tools. 1835 01:40:10,000 --> 01:40:13,000 How do they decide on that one thing to focus on? 1836 01:40:13,000 --> 01:40:16,000 I think you'll know, what is that one thing you really want? 1837 01:40:16,000 --> 01:40:20,000 What is that one decision that you've been wanting to make that you haven't made yet? 1838 01:40:20,000 --> 01:40:24,000 Not a hundred decisions, and you'll know what it is your heart really wants. 1839 01:40:24,000 --> 01:40:26,000 Like, do you want to get fit? 1840 01:40:26,000 --> 01:40:28,000 Do you really want to create your own business? 1841 01:40:28,000 --> 01:40:31,000 Like, how long have you been saying, I want to create my own business? 1842 01:40:31,000 --> 01:40:35,000 Even if you don't know how, do that one act that will get you going. 1843 01:40:35,000 --> 01:40:36,000 I love it. 1844 01:40:36,000 --> 01:40:39,000 So for those of you that haven't joined us for a livestream before, 1845 01:40:39,000 --> 01:40:41,000 this is what we call Coaches Corner. 1846 01:40:41,000 --> 01:40:45,000 And at every break, one of our coaches is going to join me on set. 1847 01:40:45,000 --> 01:40:49,000 This time it's Arash, who is one of Bob's personally trained coaches. 1848 01:40:49,000 --> 01:40:54,000 So we're going to do a panel later tonight where Arash and I are going to really get into some tools 1849 01:40:54,000 --> 01:40:56,000 that can help you take your life to the next level. 1850 01:40:56,000 --> 01:40:58,000 I just wanted to give you a quick introduction. 1851 01:40:58,000 --> 01:41:02,000 Arash is Bob's personally trained coach, and he's going to help all of you get better results 1852 01:41:02,000 --> 01:41:07,000 and really take what Bob's teaching on stage and dig into it and help you implement it. 1853 01:41:07,000 --> 01:41:11,000 So from today, Bob kind of touched on a lot of different topics, 1854 01:41:11,000 --> 01:41:13,000 and I feel like he got the morning rolling. 1855 01:41:13,000 --> 01:41:16,000 What was your biggest takeaway just from this morning? 1856 01:41:16,000 --> 01:41:19,000 I think just everything is about our paradise, 1857 01:41:19,000 --> 01:41:23,000 and where he said almost everything that we do is habitual. 1858 01:41:23,000 --> 01:41:28,000 If we realize that, and he said you could plant the good to make that habitual, 1859 01:41:28,000 --> 01:41:32,000 I think we can always get better. 1860 01:41:32,000 --> 01:41:35,000 So I look at myself, I look at you and think, 1861 01:41:35,000 --> 01:41:38,000 what are we doing habitually right now? 1862 01:41:38,000 --> 01:41:41,000 That one thing again, piggybacking on what I said earlier, 1863 01:41:41,000 --> 01:41:46,000 that I don't like, turn it into the opposite of what I do like. 1864 01:41:46,000 --> 01:41:48,000 That is so good, and that makes it so much more simple. 1865 01:41:48,000 --> 01:41:55,000 You only pick one thing, focus on it, stay true to it, make the main thing the main thing, and keep going. 1866 01:41:55,000 --> 01:41:57,000 All right, well before we sign off, we're going to play a quick video, 1867 01:41:57,000 --> 01:42:00,000 but do you have any last words before we go? 1868 01:42:00,000 --> 01:42:03,000 My last word is enjoy these next three days. 1869 01:42:03,000 --> 01:42:06,000 Get really emotionally involved with what Bob's doing, 1870 01:42:06,000 --> 01:42:12,000 because it takes one idea to fall in love with that will really get anybody watching this to take off. 1871 01:42:12,000 --> 01:42:14,000 I love it. Thanks, Raj. Thanks, everyone. 1872 01:42:14,000 --> 01:42:17,000 We're going to play a quick video for you, and we'll be back in 20 minutes. 1873 01:42:18,000 --> 01:42:28,000 Many years ago, I read where Napoleon Hill pointed out that the imagination is the most marvelous, 1874 01:42:28,000 --> 01:42:35,000 miraculous, inconceivably powerful force that the world has ever known. 1875 01:42:35,000 --> 01:42:44,000 And you know, the average individual uses the imagination, if they use it at all, against themselves. 1876 01:42:44,000 --> 01:42:49,000 They imagine what they don't want. They imagine problems coming. 1877 01:42:49,000 --> 01:42:53,000 Let's begin to use our imagination the way God meant it to be used. 1878 01:42:53,000 --> 01:43:01,000 It's the greatest creative faculty that we possess, and we can build anything we want with it. 1879 01:43:01,000 --> 01:43:05,000 I want you to wander around your home, or possibly your office, 1880 01:43:05,000 --> 01:43:13,000 and take a look at all of the conveniences that you have there that you didn't have, let's say, 1881 01:43:13,000 --> 01:43:18,000 two years, five years, ten years ago, 25 years ago. 1882 01:43:18,000 --> 01:43:28,000 Do you know that every one of them, without exception, was first created in the mind of one individual with their imagination? 1883 01:43:28,000 --> 01:43:34,000 Do you know you can use your imagination to go into the future and bring it into the present? 1884 01:43:34,000 --> 01:43:38,000 That's what all highly successful people do. 1885 01:43:38,000 --> 01:43:44,000 They see where they want to go, and then they act like the person they want to become. 1886 01:43:44,000 --> 01:43:48,000 It was William James from Harvard, so twice. 1887 01:43:48,000 --> 01:43:52,000 He says it's the actor's technique. Act like the person you want to become. 1888 01:43:52,000 --> 01:43:57,000 How do you do that? Well, you use your imagination, of course. 1889 01:43:57,000 --> 01:44:07,000 You see, it's a strange phenomenon, but the greatest gift we've got is used very well, 1890 01:44:07,000 --> 01:44:11,000 up to the ages of four or possibly five. 1891 01:44:11,000 --> 01:44:16,000 The little child, we always wonder what's going on in their mind. 1892 01:44:16,000 --> 01:44:20,000 They're using their imagination, they're building wonderful pictures in their mind, 1893 01:44:20,000 --> 01:44:26,000 but then they get to school, and wham, like that, it comes to an abrupt halt. 1894 01:44:26,000 --> 01:44:31,000 It's called not paying attention. Daydreaming. 1895 01:44:31,000 --> 01:44:39,000 Well, what they were really doing was exercising a phenomenal mental faculty. 1896 01:44:39,000 --> 01:44:46,000 You see, we can see here smell, taste, touch. They're for our physical benefit. 1897 01:44:46,000 --> 01:44:51,000 As long as we're living in a physical body and corresponding with the material world, 1898 01:44:51,000 --> 01:44:54,000 we will use our sensory factors. 1899 01:44:54,000 --> 01:45:01,000 But you know, I have a couple of little dogs at home that can hear, see, smell, taste, and touch. 1900 01:45:01,000 --> 01:45:13,000 We've got higher faculties. You have perception, the will, memory, intuition, reason, and imagination. 1901 01:45:13,000 --> 01:45:17,000 These marvelous tools. 1902 01:45:18,000 --> 01:45:25,000 We can take our imagination and build an image in our mind of how we want to live. 1903 01:45:25,000 --> 01:45:33,000 Block out what's going now. Don't let your present results have anything to do with this. 1904 01:45:33,000 --> 01:45:39,000 Just what you want. And it's with your imagination that you will build it. 1905 01:45:39,000 --> 01:45:48,000 Everything that we have, the camera that I'm speaking to right now, was first created in the mind of one individual. 1906 01:45:48,000 --> 01:45:52,000 Think of how our worlds changed. 1907 01:45:52,000 --> 01:45:58,000 You see, we were gifted with these higher faculties. 1908 01:45:58,000 --> 01:46:03,000 We're God's highest form of creation. We were created in God's image. 1909 01:46:03,000 --> 01:46:08,000 We were given creative faculties to use. 1910 01:46:08,000 --> 01:46:14,000 And you know, they're only used by two or three percent of the population. 1911 01:46:14,000 --> 01:46:23,000 It's almost inconceivable that people would wander around with so much power and potential and squander it. 1912 01:46:23,000 --> 01:46:30,000 See, the average person literally tiptoes through life, hoping they make it safely to death. 1913 01:46:30,000 --> 01:46:35,000 It's such a shame, and it doesn't have to be that way. 1914 01:46:35,000 --> 01:46:41,000 Think we have giant corporations and little-wee creative departments. 1915 01:46:41,000 --> 01:46:49,000 The primary reason for that is the average individual really does not believe that they're creative. 1916 01:46:49,000 --> 01:46:55,000 Think. Everyone's creative, and no one is more creative than another. 1917 01:46:55,000 --> 01:47:04,000 It's just that some have chosen to use their creative faculties to a greater degree than others. 1918 01:47:04,000 --> 01:47:08,000 Imagination. Your imagination. 1919 01:47:08,000 --> 01:47:14,000 What do you want? How do you really want to live? 1920 01:47:14,000 --> 01:47:22,000 Build the picture in your mind. There's a power that is flowing to and through you. 1921 01:47:22,000 --> 01:47:27,000 A creative, unadulterated power. 1922 01:47:27,000 --> 01:47:31,000 It can be photographed leaving your body. 1923 01:47:31,000 --> 01:47:37,000 Way back in the 30s, Semyon Kurly, the Russian photographer, perfected a form of photography 1924 01:47:37,000 --> 01:47:44,000 where you can actually photograph a person's body, and you will see the energy glowing from them. 1925 01:47:44,000 --> 01:47:47,000 Well, that energy flows into your mind. 1926 01:47:47,000 --> 01:47:55,000 And it's the images you build in your mind that's going to dictate the vibration that this instrument you're living in is in. 1927 01:47:55,000 --> 01:47:59,000 And the vibration on a conscious level is called feeling. 1928 01:47:59,000 --> 01:48:04,000 Make certain that you exercise your imagination daily. 1929 01:48:04,000 --> 01:48:12,000 Build beautiful images in your mind of how you want to live, and then hold those pictures there and live that way. 1930 01:48:12,000 --> 01:48:20,000 The imagination. The greatest nation in the world. The imagination. 1931 01:48:20,000 --> 01:48:25,000 You've got one. It's a marvelous creative tool. 1932 01:48:25,000 --> 01:48:30,000 It deals with the invisible side of your personality. 1933 01:48:30,000 --> 01:48:33,000 You see, no one will ever really see you. 1934 01:48:33,000 --> 01:48:38,000 They'll only see your body, and they'll see you the great work that you do. 1935 01:48:38,000 --> 01:48:42,000 Make certain that your work is great work. 1936 01:48:42,000 --> 01:48:49,000 And if you keep your imagination alive, keep it active, you're going to have a phenomenal life. 1937 01:48:49,000 --> 01:49:02,000 Life can get better every day, and it will get better every day through the proper use of your imagination. 1938 01:49:02,000 --> 01:49:05,000 What a wonderful idea. 1939 01:49:05,000 --> 01:49:08,000 It's Bob Proctor. Thank you. 1940 01:49:08,000 --> 01:49:24,000 You make me feel so young. You make me feel that spring has sprung. 1941 01:49:24,000 --> 01:49:30,000 And every time I see you grin, I'm such happy. 1942 01:49:30,000 --> 01:49:35,000 The end of the door, the moment that you speak. 1943 01:50:00,000 --> 01:50:27,000 Are we all ready? 1944 01:50:27,000 --> 01:50:34,000 Here is a simple lesson that's totally misunderstood. 1945 01:50:34,000 --> 01:50:38,000 Two things you must know to create wealth. 1946 01:50:38,000 --> 01:50:46,000 Now, I think I'd be fairly safe in saying at least 90% of everyone in this room wants to create wealth. 1947 01:50:46,000 --> 01:50:49,000 And if you've already got it, you want to create more. 1948 01:50:49,000 --> 01:50:52,000 Because it involves growth. 1949 01:50:52,000 --> 01:50:55,000 Going somewhere, doing something. 1950 01:50:55,000 --> 01:50:57,000 What do you have to know? Just two things. 1951 01:50:57,000 --> 01:51:01,000 Number one, you have to know where you are. 1952 01:51:01,000 --> 01:51:05,000 You have to know where you're going, and you've got to get moving. 1953 01:51:05,000 --> 01:51:15,000 Now, that is so simple, and it's so obvious you have to ask yourself, why are so many people stuck? 1954 01:51:15,000 --> 01:51:17,000 And they are. 1955 01:51:17,000 --> 01:51:21,000 People are actually stuck. 1956 01:51:21,000 --> 01:51:25,000 All they have to know is where they are and where they're going. 1957 01:51:25,000 --> 01:51:29,000 Now, you could say the problem is here, but they don't have a goal. 1958 01:51:29,000 --> 01:51:34,000 And that could be the problem, but I don't think it's the real one. 1959 01:51:34,000 --> 01:51:39,000 They might have the goal and still not even be moving toward it. 1960 01:51:39,000 --> 01:51:43,000 Why? The problem is down here. 1961 01:51:43,000 --> 01:51:46,000 It's down here. It's where you are. 1962 01:51:46,000 --> 01:51:50,000 They're being controlled by a paradigm that they don't know. 1963 01:51:50,000 --> 01:51:53,000 They don't understand, and yet it's keeping them right where they are. 1964 01:51:53,000 --> 01:51:56,000 Now, these are intelligent people. 1965 01:51:56,000 --> 01:52:05,000 These people could have passed some very, very difficult exams in school. 1966 01:52:05,000 --> 01:52:08,000 But they're stuck. 1967 01:52:08,000 --> 01:52:10,000 And they don't understand this. 1968 01:52:10,000 --> 01:52:16,000 They do not understand paradigm, although it's a word you're starting to hear more of nowadays. 1969 01:52:16,000 --> 01:52:21,000 But if you ask every person what a paradigm is, most of them are at a loss to tell you. 1970 01:52:21,000 --> 01:52:25,000 In fact, if you go start to look up paradigm, 1971 01:52:25,000 --> 01:52:29,000 you're going to find answers coming from very intelligent people, 1972 01:52:29,000 --> 01:52:32,000 behavioral scientists and psychologists, 1973 01:52:32,000 --> 01:52:39,000 that the way it's written is so complicated you do not understand it. 1974 01:52:39,000 --> 01:52:41,000 And yet we just talked about what it is. 1975 01:52:41,000 --> 01:52:43,000 It's nothing but a program. 1976 01:52:43,000 --> 01:52:47,000 It's a group of habits and the subconscious mind that's controlling our behavior. 1977 01:52:47,000 --> 01:52:50,000 So the behavior is being controlled. 1978 01:52:50,000 --> 01:52:54,000 You know how to do better, but you're not doing it, and you don't know why. 1979 01:52:54,000 --> 01:52:56,000 It started out with your kid, and your mother said, why did you do that? 1980 01:52:56,000 --> 01:52:58,000 I don't know. What do you mean you don't know? 1981 01:52:58,000 --> 01:53:01,000 You know better. I know. I don't know. 1982 01:53:01,000 --> 01:53:07,000 You see, why would your parent keep asking you that question 1983 01:53:07,000 --> 01:53:11,000 when they see that you're not doing it? 1984 01:53:11,000 --> 01:53:14,000 I mean, you'd think just their observation would say, 1985 01:53:14,000 --> 01:53:17,000 there's got to be something going on inside this kid's head. 1986 01:53:17,000 --> 01:53:20,000 And there is, and they put it there. 1987 01:53:20,000 --> 01:53:25,000 I remember we were doing a seminar, Science of Getting Rich, in Phoenix. 1988 01:53:25,000 --> 01:53:29,000 Years ago, there was a woman, her name was Wendy, in London, England. 1989 01:53:29,000 --> 01:53:31,000 She was going to the seminars in England. 1990 01:53:31,000 --> 01:53:35,000 And she came to the seminar in Phoenix, to the Science of Getting Rich, 1991 01:53:35,000 --> 01:53:38,000 and she brought her 24-year-old son. 1992 01:53:38,000 --> 01:53:40,000 And she said he didn't want to come. 1993 01:53:40,000 --> 01:53:44,000 And she asked him to come as a favor to her. 1994 01:53:44,000 --> 01:53:48,000 She said, you need what they're teaching. 1995 01:53:48,000 --> 01:53:54,000 I know you need it, because I built the program. 1996 01:53:54,000 --> 01:54:05,000 She knew that she had programmed the wrong way. 1997 01:54:05,000 --> 01:54:10,000 Now, think of this. 1998 01:54:10,000 --> 01:54:14,000 It doesn't matter how hard you work, how many hours you put in, 1999 01:54:14,000 --> 01:54:16,000 if the paradigm does not change, 2000 01:54:16,000 --> 01:54:21,000 ultimately the results will remain much the same from one year to the next. 2001 01:54:21,000 --> 01:54:25,000 Now, that is very discouraging for an intelligent individual. 2002 01:54:25,000 --> 01:54:28,000 It really is. 2003 01:54:28,000 --> 01:54:32,000 If a person is obviously not very bright, that's what they expect. 2004 01:54:32,000 --> 01:54:34,000 They don't expect anything better than they're getting. 2005 01:54:34,000 --> 01:54:36,000 But there's people that do expect better, 2006 01:54:36,000 --> 01:54:41,000 and they're giving it everything they've got, and they're not getting it. 2007 01:54:41,000 --> 01:54:56,000 What's the problem? It's their paradigm. 2008 01:54:56,000 --> 01:55:01,000 This is not in your book, but I added it in here because I think it's really important. 2009 01:55:01,000 --> 01:55:20,000 That book right here and this record, The Strangest Secret, literally changed my life. 2010 01:55:20,000 --> 01:55:23,000 I wouldn't even want to guess it the number of times you listen to that secret. 2011 01:55:23,000 --> 01:55:26,000 I think it's about 40 minutes of the best philosophy you're ever going to listen to. 2012 01:55:26,000 --> 01:55:28,000 Absolutely incredible. 2013 01:55:28,000 --> 01:55:33,000 I've got an original framed in my office. 2014 01:55:33,000 --> 01:55:37,000 I've got another one sitting on a shelf that I listen to. 2015 01:55:37,000 --> 01:55:40,000 And I take down my record player and listen to it on the record player, 2016 01:55:40,000 --> 01:55:43,000 because that takes me back to when I first learned it. 2017 01:55:43,000 --> 01:55:45,000 Same record. 2018 01:55:45,000 --> 01:55:51,000 Absolutely incredible information on there. 2019 01:55:51,000 --> 01:55:54,000 We've got to learn how to make decisions, 2020 01:55:54,000 --> 01:55:57,000 and most people don't know how to make decisions. 2021 01:55:57,000 --> 01:56:00,000 They really don't. That's too bad. 2022 01:56:00,000 --> 01:56:05,000 On the first chapter here, or chapter 8, on the first page, 2023 01:56:05,000 --> 01:56:06,000 he said, 2024 01:56:18,000 --> 01:56:21,000 Now he points out in here, there's 30 major causes of failure. 2025 01:56:21,000 --> 01:56:26,000 There's only 13 principles of success. 2026 01:56:26,000 --> 01:56:27,000 He said, 2027 01:56:35,000 --> 01:56:38,000 I have people coaching different times in Q&As, 2028 01:56:38,000 --> 01:56:40,000 where they ask me how to overcome procrastination. 2029 01:56:40,000 --> 01:56:45,000 I tell them to read this chapter every day for maybe 60 days. 2030 01:56:45,000 --> 01:56:47,000 It's a long chapter, but it's a good chapter. 2031 01:56:47,000 --> 01:56:52,000 My God, he's got some good information in here. 2032 01:56:52,000 --> 01:56:53,000 Now he says, 2033 01:57:15,000 --> 01:57:17,000 Why did they do that? It's a lack of understanding. 2034 01:57:17,000 --> 01:57:19,000 It's a lack of confidence. 2035 01:57:19,000 --> 01:57:22,000 Confidence comes through understanding. 2036 01:57:22,000 --> 01:57:26,000 Now, for years, I wondered, 2037 01:57:26,000 --> 01:57:30,000 how the hell do they make their decisions so fast? 2038 01:57:30,000 --> 01:57:32,000 I couldn't figure that out. 2039 01:57:32,000 --> 01:57:34,000 Every one of them. 2040 01:57:34,000 --> 01:57:36,000 There are few in number relative to the masses, 2041 01:57:36,000 --> 01:57:38,000 and I never stopped studying it, 2042 01:57:38,000 --> 01:57:41,000 and because that's what I was looking for, that's what I found. 2043 01:57:41,000 --> 01:57:44,000 Seek, and you will find, is good advice. 2044 01:57:44,000 --> 01:57:48,000 Let those lines represent levels of vibration. 2045 01:57:48,000 --> 01:57:52,000 They're levels of vibration. 2046 01:57:52,000 --> 01:57:57,000 Every frequency is connected to the one above and the one below. 2047 01:57:57,000 --> 01:57:58,000 They're all connected. 2048 01:57:58,000 --> 01:58:00,000 There's no line of demarcation 2049 01:58:00,000 --> 01:58:02,000 where one frequency stops and another starts. 2050 01:58:02,000 --> 01:58:07,000 They're all connected, and they're all linked together. 2051 01:58:07,000 --> 01:58:10,000 Now, think of this. 2052 01:58:10,000 --> 01:58:12,000 That's my phone. 2053 01:58:12,000 --> 01:58:14,000 That represents my phone. 2054 01:58:14,000 --> 01:58:18,000 This represents your phone. 2055 01:58:18,000 --> 01:58:21,000 If I want to talk to you on your phone, 2056 01:58:21,000 --> 01:58:24,000 I've got to get on your frequency. 2057 01:58:24,000 --> 01:58:28,000 The second I'm on your frequency, you and I are connected. 2058 01:58:28,000 --> 01:58:29,000 Now, think of this. 2059 01:58:29,000 --> 01:58:31,000 It doesn't matter where you are in the world. 2060 01:58:31,000 --> 01:58:34,000 You could be in Cote-de-Kinabalu. 2061 01:58:34,000 --> 01:58:39,000 You could be in Yokohama, Buenos Aires, anywhere in the world. 2062 01:58:39,000 --> 01:58:41,000 If I dial your number, 2063 01:58:41,000 --> 01:58:45,000 like that, I'm connected to you. 2064 01:58:45,000 --> 01:58:47,000 It makes no difference where you are. 2065 01:58:47,000 --> 01:58:49,000 I could take a picture here. 2066 01:58:49,000 --> 01:58:53,000 I could hit send, and simultaneous with me hitting it, you've got it. 2067 01:58:53,000 --> 01:58:57,000 There's a great lesson here for us. 2068 01:58:57,000 --> 01:58:59,000 There's no such thing as time and space. 2069 01:58:59,000 --> 01:59:00,000 That's a myth. 2070 01:59:00,000 --> 01:59:03,000 Here we are. 2071 01:59:03,000 --> 01:59:05,000 We can take a picture right here 2072 01:59:05,000 --> 01:59:08,000 and send it, hit send, and whoo, like that. 2073 01:59:08,000 --> 01:59:11,000 On the other side of the world, the person's got it. 2074 01:59:11,000 --> 01:59:14,000 Simultaneous with you hitting it. 2075 01:59:14,000 --> 01:59:20,000 I'm working with one of the artsy people in the company all the time. 2076 01:59:20,000 --> 01:59:22,000 I'll say, okay, I just sent it to you. 2077 01:59:22,000 --> 01:59:23,000 Yeah, I got it. 2078 01:59:23,000 --> 01:59:24,000 Okay. 2079 01:59:24,000 --> 01:59:25,000 Now, do you see what I'm talking about? 2080 01:59:25,000 --> 01:59:26,000 I'll send a picture and send it back. 2081 01:59:26,000 --> 01:59:27,000 They'll send it back. 2082 01:59:27,000 --> 01:59:28,000 You got it? 2083 01:59:28,000 --> 01:59:29,000 Yeah, I got it. 2084 01:59:29,000 --> 01:59:31,000 It didn't matter where we are. 2085 01:59:31,000 --> 01:59:36,000 I could be on the plane and back and forth. 2086 01:59:36,000 --> 01:59:39,000 Now, we seem to have a basic understanding of this. 2087 01:59:39,000 --> 01:59:40,000 I think what I'm saying here, 2088 01:59:40,000 --> 01:59:43,000 everyone in the room understands this when we're using our phones. 2089 01:59:43,000 --> 01:59:46,000 However, when it comes to life, we get lost. 2090 01:59:46,000 --> 01:59:49,000 We don't seem to understand it. 2091 01:59:49,000 --> 01:59:55,000 Well, let's try and understand it with respect to decisions. 2092 01:59:55,000 --> 01:59:58,000 Let these lines represent levels of vibration 2093 01:59:58,000 --> 02:00:01,000 because that's all this is, level vibration. 2094 02:00:01,000 --> 02:00:08,000 I get on the same frequency as you. 2095 02:00:08,000 --> 02:00:11,000 So we let these lines represent levels of vibration. 2096 02:00:11,000 --> 02:00:15,000 Every vibration is referred to as a frequency. 2097 02:00:15,000 --> 02:00:24,000 My voice is being amplified on a particular frequency. 2098 02:00:24,000 --> 02:00:27,000 You and I think on frequencies. 2099 02:00:27,000 --> 02:00:28,000 Thought is energy. 2100 02:00:28,000 --> 02:00:33,000 Do you know your thoughts are the most potent form of energy there is? 2101 02:00:33,000 --> 02:00:37,000 Your thought would make the laser beam look like a toy. 2102 02:00:37,000 --> 02:00:41,000 Thought waves are cosmic waves that penetrate all time and space. 2103 02:00:41,000 --> 02:00:44,000 I had the good fortune of working with Captain Edgar Mitchell. 2104 02:00:44,000 --> 02:00:48,000 He was the captain of the lunar landing module on one of the Apollo flights. 2105 02:00:48,000 --> 02:00:55,000 He was doing thought transference exercises from the other side of the moon 2106 02:00:55,000 --> 02:00:59,000 with Ford and Sherman here in the southern United States. 2107 02:00:59,000 --> 02:01:01,000 They were doing thought transference exercises. 2108 02:01:01,000 --> 02:01:04,000 They had all set up at the time they were going to do this. 2109 02:01:04,000 --> 02:01:07,000 He was on the other side of the moon and they were communicating. 2110 02:01:07,000 --> 02:01:10,000 It was all written up in a magazine. 2111 02:01:10,000 --> 02:01:14,000 Can you do that? You not only can, you do. 2112 02:01:14,000 --> 02:01:17,000 You'll have a friend a long ways away from you 2113 02:01:17,000 --> 02:01:19,000 and you're thinking about them a lot. 2114 02:01:19,000 --> 02:01:22,000 And damn, if the phone doesn't ring, it's them. 2115 02:01:22,000 --> 02:01:26,000 You're thinking. Your thoughts activated cells in their brain. 2116 02:01:26,000 --> 02:01:30,000 That got them thinking of you and they phoned you. 2117 02:01:30,000 --> 02:01:33,000 We do this all the time. 2118 02:01:33,000 --> 02:01:38,000 Now, let's suppose this is the frequency that you're thinking on. 2119 02:01:38,000 --> 02:01:40,000 If that's the frequency you're thinking on, 2120 02:01:40,000 --> 02:01:44,000 that's going to dictate the results that you get. 2121 02:01:44,000 --> 02:01:47,000 The results you get are nothing but the manifestation of your own thinking. 2122 02:01:47,000 --> 02:01:49,000 We become what we think about. 2123 02:01:49,000 --> 02:01:51,000 That is the one point that every great leader is agreed on. 2124 02:01:51,000 --> 02:01:54,000 They've disagreed in virtually every other idea, 2125 02:01:54,000 --> 02:01:58,000 but that one, we become what we think about. 2126 02:01:58,000 --> 02:02:02,000 Now, let's clearly understand nothing is created or destroyed. 2127 02:02:02,000 --> 02:02:04,000 All science and all theology teach that. 2128 02:02:04,000 --> 02:02:06,000 Nothing is created or destroyed. 2129 02:02:06,000 --> 02:02:09,000 All the power there ever was or ever will be is omnipresent. 2130 02:02:09,000 --> 02:02:12,000 All the ideas, all the knowledge there ever was or ever will be is omnipresent. 2131 02:02:12,000 --> 02:02:15,000 It's all here. 2132 02:02:15,000 --> 02:02:17,000 We didn't have to get it. We've already got it. 2133 02:02:17,000 --> 02:02:19,000 What we've got to do is tune into it. 2134 02:02:19,000 --> 02:02:21,000 So let's say that's where we want to go. 2135 02:02:21,000 --> 02:02:25,000 This is where I am. That's where I want to go. 2136 02:02:25,000 --> 02:02:28,000 How do I get there? 2137 02:02:28,000 --> 02:02:31,000 Well, I'll say I'm going to do that. 2138 02:02:31,000 --> 02:02:33,000 This is where the average person is thinking. 2139 02:02:33,000 --> 02:02:39,000 I'm going to do that as soon as I get the money. 2140 02:02:39,000 --> 02:02:41,000 You can relate to that. 2141 02:02:41,000 --> 02:02:45,000 I'm going to do that as soon as the kids are out of school. 2142 02:02:45,000 --> 02:02:50,000 That's how I'm going to do it. 2143 02:02:50,000 --> 02:02:57,000 I'm going to start my own business as soon as I get the money. 2144 02:02:57,000 --> 02:03:06,000 And you know you do that, and pretty soon the decision fades, and then the goal fades. 2145 02:03:06,000 --> 02:03:09,000 Why? 2146 02:03:09,000 --> 02:03:14,000 Well, you didn't get the money. 2147 02:03:14,000 --> 02:03:16,000 So you couldn't do it. 2148 02:03:16,000 --> 02:03:18,000 The problem was you didn't have the money. 2149 02:03:18,000 --> 02:03:23,000 You talk to anybody that's high in finance, and they'll tell you the money is never the problem. 2150 02:03:23,000 --> 02:03:25,000 Ideas are the problem. 2151 02:03:25,000 --> 02:03:28,000 If you've got the right idea, you'll always find the money. 2152 02:03:28,000 --> 02:03:33,000 But you see, we're thinking down here on this frequency. 2153 02:03:33,000 --> 02:03:37,000 Your mind and your thoughts are down here on this frequency. 2154 02:03:37,000 --> 02:03:42,000 What you want is up here on a higher frequency. 2155 02:03:42,000 --> 02:03:46,000 You cannot get what you want up there where your thoughts are down here. 2156 02:03:46,000 --> 02:03:52,000 Your mind and thoughts must focus on the same frequency as what you want. 2157 02:03:52,000 --> 02:03:59,000 If you want it, it's already here. 2158 02:03:59,000 --> 02:04:01,000 And you make a decision. 2159 02:04:01,000 --> 02:04:03,000 It's got to be a committed decision. 2160 02:04:03,000 --> 02:04:04,000 You say, I'm doing that. 2161 02:04:04,000 --> 02:04:08,000 Now, the second you make a committed decision, everything starts to change. 2162 02:04:08,000 --> 02:04:11,000 You begin to think and act like the person you want to become. 2163 02:04:11,000 --> 02:04:13,000 You stop thinking down there. 2164 02:04:13,000 --> 02:04:14,000 You're thinking up here now. 2165 02:04:14,000 --> 02:04:16,000 You're thinking on a higher frequency. 2166 02:04:16,000 --> 02:04:20,000 Want is the only prerequisite for making a decision. 2167 02:04:20,000 --> 02:04:23,000 It doesn't matter whether you have the money, but do you really want it? 2168 02:04:23,000 --> 02:04:26,000 If you really want it, you will get it. 2169 02:04:26,000 --> 02:04:31,000 But you've got to really want it. 2170 02:04:31,000 --> 02:04:38,000 Yet you also have to understand that everything you need is here. 2171 02:04:38,000 --> 02:04:41,000 But you've got to be specific. 2172 02:04:41,000 --> 02:04:43,000 It's not good enough to say, I want more money. 2173 02:04:43,000 --> 02:04:48,000 You see ten cents laying on the street and you pick it up, you've got more money. 2174 02:04:48,000 --> 02:04:49,000 That's the truth. 2175 02:04:49,000 --> 02:04:51,000 Sounds silly, but it's the truth. 2176 02:04:51,000 --> 02:04:57,000 You've got more money. 2177 02:04:57,000 --> 02:04:58,000 You could be a waiter. 2178 02:04:58,000 --> 02:04:59,000 Somebody leaves you a nice tip. 2179 02:04:59,000 --> 02:05:01,000 You've got more money. 2180 02:05:01,000 --> 02:05:02,000 That's not it. 2181 02:05:02,000 --> 02:05:05,000 You've got to be specific how much more money. 2182 02:05:05,000 --> 02:05:09,000 You don't know exactly what you want. 2183 02:05:09,000 --> 02:05:13,000 Yet you don't have to know where it's going to come from. 2184 02:05:13,000 --> 02:05:21,000 You do not have to understand all the basic principles between sending the picture to the person on the other side of the world for it to get there. 2185 02:05:21,000 --> 02:05:23,000 All you have to do is know how to do it. 2186 02:05:23,000 --> 02:05:26,000 Just get the picture, fix it, hit send. 2187 02:05:26,000 --> 02:05:31,000 They got it. 2188 02:05:31,000 --> 02:05:36,000 Want is the only prerequisite for making a decision. 2189 02:05:36,000 --> 02:05:41,000 Now, do you know, that is so important you should write it down. 2190 02:05:41,000 --> 02:05:45,000 Write it somewhere that you're going to see it often. 2191 02:05:45,000 --> 02:05:48,000 Maybe get a sign and put it up in your house. 2192 02:05:48,000 --> 02:05:56,000 Want is the only prerequisite to get what you want. 2193 02:05:56,000 --> 02:06:03,000 I remember when I sat down with Phil Goldfine, what was it, 17 years ago? 2194 02:06:03,000 --> 02:06:05,000 Almost 20 years ago. 2195 02:06:05,000 --> 02:06:15,000 That time goes so fast, doesn't it? 2196 02:06:15,000 --> 02:06:18,000 He didn't have any money. 2197 02:06:18,000 --> 02:06:22,000 He wasn't earning very much money. 2198 02:06:22,000 --> 02:06:27,000 He was working for someone that he didn't like working for. 2199 02:06:27,000 --> 02:06:30,000 Didn't enjoy it at all. 2200 02:06:30,000 --> 02:06:34,000 And he didn't know that he could change it. 2201 02:06:34,000 --> 02:06:36,000 And he didn't understand all this. 2202 02:06:36,000 --> 02:06:38,000 I'd been studying this for years. 2203 02:06:38,000 --> 02:06:44,000 Well, if it was 20 years ago, I'd been studying it for 38 years. 2204 02:06:44,000 --> 02:06:46,000 Then. 2205 02:06:46,000 --> 02:06:49,000 So I said, just do exactly what I tell you. 2206 02:06:49,000 --> 02:06:53,000 Do exactly what I tell you. 2207 02:06:53,000 --> 02:06:54,000 He didn't really know me. 2208 02:06:54,000 --> 02:06:58,000 He was reading You Were Born Rich. 2209 02:06:58,000 --> 02:07:03,000 And he was talking to a guy that did know me. 2210 02:07:03,000 --> 02:07:05,000 Ed Morrissey. 2211 02:07:05,000 --> 02:07:07,000 And he was saying, Ed, you've got to read this book. 2212 02:07:07,000 --> 02:07:09,000 You've got to read this book. 2213 02:07:09,000 --> 02:07:10,000 And Ed says, what book? 2214 02:07:10,000 --> 02:07:11,000 And he told him. 2215 02:07:11,000 --> 02:07:12,000 He said, I know him. 2216 02:07:12,000 --> 02:07:13,000 He said, you don't know him? 2217 02:07:13,000 --> 02:07:14,000 He said, no, I don't know him. 2218 02:07:14,000 --> 02:07:17,000 He said, you know him, phone him. 2219 02:07:17,000 --> 02:07:18,000 So Ed phoned me. 2220 02:07:18,000 --> 02:07:21,000 He got on the phone. 2221 02:07:21,000 --> 02:07:23,000 He said, could I come and talk to you? 2222 02:07:23,000 --> 02:07:26,000 And I said, sure. 2223 02:07:26,000 --> 02:07:27,000 He said, where are you? 2224 02:07:27,000 --> 02:07:28,000 And I said, I'm in Vegas. 2225 02:07:28,000 --> 02:07:29,000 So he said, I'll come over. 2226 02:07:29,000 --> 02:07:30,000 He said, I'm in Los Angeles. 2227 02:07:30,000 --> 02:07:31,000 It won't take me long. 2228 02:07:31,000 --> 02:07:33,000 I said, OK. 2229 02:07:33,000 --> 02:07:36,000 And you see, he didn't study this. 2230 02:07:36,000 --> 02:07:37,000 He was reading that book. 2231 02:07:37,000 --> 02:07:40,000 And that was about the size of it. 2232 02:07:40,000 --> 02:07:42,000 He wasn't winning. 2233 02:07:42,000 --> 02:07:46,000 He wasn't even happy with the circumstance that he was working with. 2234 02:07:46,000 --> 02:07:51,000 And I said, I got him to tell me what he wanted. 2235 02:07:51,000 --> 02:07:59,000 And I said, I know how you can get that if you do exactly what I tell you. 2236 02:07:59,000 --> 02:08:07,000 I gave him one of the most complicated, heavy books that I had ever read. 2237 02:08:07,000 --> 02:08:11,000 He didn't understand what the hell they were talking about. 2238 02:08:11,000 --> 02:08:12,000 You know why I started to read it? 2239 02:08:12,000 --> 02:08:15,000 Because Earl Nightingale was reading it. 2240 02:08:15,000 --> 02:08:18,000 It's called The Edinburgh Lectures on Mental Science by Thomas Troward. 2241 02:08:18,000 --> 02:08:20,000 It's a heavy book. 2242 02:08:20,000 --> 02:08:25,000 I've been reading it since 1968. 2243 02:08:25,000 --> 02:08:30,000 So anyway, he and I were mentoring him through this book. 2244 02:08:30,000 --> 02:08:32,000 But you'll hear tomorrow just how his life has changed. 2245 02:08:32,000 --> 02:08:34,000 It changed so dramatically. 2246 02:08:34,000 --> 02:08:37,000 Now, Phil's a very kind individual. 2247 02:08:37,000 --> 02:08:39,000 He comes out to these seminars. 2248 02:08:39,000 --> 02:08:44,000 Every time he brings the goods, he shows you what he's done. 2249 02:08:44,000 --> 02:08:49,000 And even if you've seen it before, it's impressive. 2250 02:08:49,000 --> 02:08:52,000 It impresses me. 2251 02:08:52,000 --> 02:08:56,000 Because if he's done it, you can do it. 2252 02:08:56,000 --> 02:08:59,000 If I do it, you can do it. 2253 02:08:59,000 --> 02:09:02,000 If you guys have done it, anybody can do it. 2254 02:09:02,000 --> 02:09:05,000 I was talking about you two. 2255 02:09:05,000 --> 02:09:07,000 Peter has worked with us. 2256 02:09:07,000 --> 02:09:09,000 He said, and they work with puppies. 2257 02:09:09,000 --> 02:09:12,000 He said, what could be better than that? 2258 02:09:12,000 --> 02:09:13,000 I don't know. 2259 02:09:13,000 --> 02:09:17,000 You have to ask them. 2260 02:09:17,000 --> 02:09:19,000 I mean, everybody loves a puppy. 2261 02:09:19,000 --> 02:09:25,000 Even nasty people love puppies. 2262 02:09:25,000 --> 02:09:26,000 Everybody's doing what they want. 2263 02:09:26,000 --> 02:09:27,000 What do they want to do? 2264 02:09:27,000 --> 02:09:32,000 They just want to spend their days with puppies. 2265 02:09:32,000 --> 02:09:33,000 Well, you can't do that. 2266 02:09:33,000 --> 02:09:36,000 Well, they did it and earned a lot of money doing it. 2267 02:09:36,000 --> 02:09:41,000 You see, you've got to start with what you want. 2268 02:09:41,000 --> 02:09:43,000 And that's all you need. 2269 02:09:43,000 --> 02:09:45,000 But you've got to make an irrevocable decision. 2270 02:09:45,000 --> 02:09:46,000 You're going to get it. 2271 02:09:46,000 --> 02:09:49,000 So he wants the prerequisite. 2272 02:09:49,000 --> 02:09:54,000 That's why successful people make decisions so fast. 2273 02:09:54,000 --> 02:09:58,000 They know what they want. 2274 02:09:58,000 --> 02:10:00,000 If I'm working with someone, that's one of the first things they'll ask. 2275 02:10:00,000 --> 02:10:02,000 What do you really want? 2276 02:10:02,000 --> 02:10:12,000 What do you really want? 2277 02:10:12,000 --> 02:10:16,000 This is such powerful information. 2278 02:10:16,000 --> 02:10:19,000 You'd think it would be taught in all schools. 2279 02:10:19,000 --> 02:10:22,000 The truth is it's not. 2280 02:10:22,000 --> 02:10:30,000 That's rather sad because it can be, but it's not. 2281 02:10:30,000 --> 02:10:34,000 Now, this is one of the most important lessons that you're going to hear from me 2282 02:10:34,000 --> 02:10:37,000 between now and Sunday afternoon. 2283 02:10:37,000 --> 02:10:39,000 You only have to know what you want. 2284 02:10:39,000 --> 02:10:43,000 It doesn't matter whether you've got the money. 2285 02:10:43,000 --> 02:10:44,000 That makes no difference. 2286 02:10:44,000 --> 02:10:46,000 It doesn't matter whether you've got the resources. 2287 02:10:46,000 --> 02:10:49,000 That doesn't make any difference. 2288 02:10:49,000 --> 02:10:51,000 It doesn't matter if you know the right people. 2289 02:10:51,000 --> 02:10:52,000 That doesn't make any difference. 2290 02:10:52,000 --> 02:10:57,000 Now, this sounds so preposterous to a person that's never studied this. 2291 02:10:57,000 --> 02:10:59,000 You've got to know where the money is. 2292 02:10:59,000 --> 02:11:00,000 No, you don't. 2293 02:11:00,000 --> 02:11:02,000 Listen, the money is here. 2294 02:11:02,000 --> 02:11:05,000 You know that song, Love is in the Air? 2295 02:11:05,000 --> 02:11:07,000 You know the song? 2296 02:11:07,000 --> 02:11:09,000 Well, change the lyrics. 2297 02:11:09,000 --> 02:11:12,000 Love, money's in the air. 2298 02:11:12,000 --> 02:11:14,000 It is. 2299 02:11:14,000 --> 02:11:17,000 When you're in harmony with it, you will never stop it flowing to you. 2300 02:11:17,000 --> 02:11:21,000 Money goes where it's invited, and it stays where it's welcome. 2301 02:11:21,000 --> 02:11:22,000 Listen to most people. 2302 02:11:22,000 --> 02:11:26,000 The way they talk about money, you think it was the worst stuff in the world. 2303 02:11:26,000 --> 02:11:29,000 I get so sick of it, I just never have enough money. 2304 02:11:29,000 --> 02:11:32,000 Well, they're getting very angry. 2305 02:11:32,000 --> 02:11:35,000 Why don't you change your attitude? 2306 02:11:35,000 --> 02:11:38,000 Now, you see, that really sounds stupid. 2307 02:11:38,000 --> 02:11:39,000 Here they are. 2308 02:11:39,000 --> 02:11:41,000 They're in need of money, and somebody says, change your attitude. 2309 02:11:41,000 --> 02:11:44,000 They don't even know what attitude is. 2310 02:11:44,000 --> 02:11:48,000 Yet, it sounds like we need so much more than attitude change, 2311 02:11:48,000 --> 02:11:51,000 but really, that's all I've changed. 2312 02:11:51,000 --> 02:11:53,000 So you've got to understand what attitude is. 2313 02:11:53,000 --> 02:11:56,000 See, there's a power flowing to and through you, Daisy. 2314 02:11:56,000 --> 02:11:58,000 It's flowing right into your consciousness. 2315 02:11:58,000 --> 02:12:00,000 It has no form. 2316 02:12:00,000 --> 02:12:04,000 It's a clear, unadulterated power, and it flows into your conscious mind. 2317 02:12:04,000 --> 02:12:09,000 You have the ability to make out of it anything you want. 2318 02:12:09,000 --> 02:12:11,000 Wow, yeah, wow. 2319 02:12:11,000 --> 02:12:17,000 No, anything you want. 2320 02:12:17,000 --> 02:12:19,000 And you know something? 2321 02:12:19,000 --> 02:12:22,000 I don't know if you know what you want, but if you decide on it, 2322 02:12:22,000 --> 02:12:25,000 you get a stubborn streak in you as, why does this roam? 2323 02:12:25,000 --> 02:12:28,000 You know that, and so do all your friends know that. 2324 02:12:28,000 --> 02:12:31,000 You are a persistent individual. 2325 02:12:31,000 --> 02:12:33,000 You know, Hill says in Think and Grow Rich, 2326 02:12:33,000 --> 02:12:35,000 there may be no heroic connotation to the word, 2327 02:12:35,000 --> 02:12:37,000 but the quality is to the character of the human, 2328 02:12:37,000 --> 02:12:39,000 like what carbon is to steel. 2329 02:12:39,000 --> 02:12:41,000 You are naturally persistent. 2330 02:12:41,000 --> 02:12:43,000 You're genetically designed that way. 2331 02:12:43,000 --> 02:12:45,000 I could read your energy like a book. 2332 02:12:45,000 --> 02:12:49,000 I would never try and get you to do something you don't want to do. 2333 02:12:49,000 --> 02:12:51,000 And you're going to get it done your way. 2334 02:12:51,000 --> 02:12:52,000 You're bossy as hell. 2335 02:12:52,000 --> 02:12:55,000 You get everybody to do what you want done. 2336 02:12:55,000 --> 02:12:57,000 Do you know her? 2337 02:12:57,000 --> 02:12:59,000 How accurate is that? 2338 02:12:59,000 --> 02:13:01,000 She's a natural manager. 2339 02:13:01,000 --> 02:13:02,000 She just is. 2340 02:13:02,000 --> 02:13:04,000 She's just going to take control. 2341 02:13:04,000 --> 02:13:07,000 Others will bitch, but they'll do it. 2342 02:13:07,000 --> 02:13:08,000 You see? 2343 02:13:08,000 --> 02:13:11,000 She's saying that as her eyes. 2344 02:13:11,000 --> 02:13:12,000 You know? 2345 02:13:12,000 --> 02:13:13,000 How would I know that? 2346 02:13:13,000 --> 02:13:15,000 Well, this thing that she's living in, her body, 2347 02:13:15,000 --> 02:13:18,000 it's a mass of energy, and it's in a high speed of vibration, 2348 02:13:18,000 --> 02:13:20,000 and it's casting off a ray of energy. 2349 02:13:20,000 --> 02:13:23,000 And I've got a mental faculty that can pick it up and read it. 2350 02:13:23,000 --> 02:13:25,000 And so have you. 2351 02:13:25,000 --> 02:13:26,000 It's called intuition. 2352 02:13:26,000 --> 02:13:28,000 Intuition is a higher faculty. 2353 02:13:28,000 --> 02:13:30,000 That's why you're created in God's image. 2354 02:13:30,000 --> 02:13:33,000 We've got to understand what's that mean we're created in God's image. 2355 02:13:33,000 --> 02:13:34,000 We can do anything. 2356 02:13:34,000 --> 02:13:37,000 We've got the faculties to do the job. 2357 02:13:37,000 --> 02:13:40,000 Most of us are going by what we hear, see, smell, taste, touch. 2358 02:13:40,000 --> 02:13:43,000 I've got dogs at home that can hear, see, smell, taste, touch. 2359 02:13:43,000 --> 02:13:46,000 That just puts you in touch with your outside world. 2360 02:13:46,000 --> 02:13:50,000 But your lessons come from your inside world, not outside, inside. 2361 02:13:50,000 --> 02:13:53,000 And you have to use your higher faculties, perception, the will, 2362 02:13:53,000 --> 02:13:55,000 reason, imagination, memory, intuition. 2363 02:13:55,000 --> 02:13:57,000 Well, intuition picks up the energy and read it. 2364 02:13:57,000 --> 02:13:59,000 I don't have to wonder what you're like. 2365 02:13:59,000 --> 02:14:01,000 I don't even have to look for any confirmation. 2366 02:14:01,000 --> 02:14:02,000 I know what you're like. 2367 02:14:02,000 --> 02:14:05,000 You are a very strong, mentally strong woman. 2368 02:14:05,000 --> 02:14:07,000 I'd never want to get you to try and do something. 2369 02:14:07,000 --> 02:14:08,000 You're not going to do it. 2370 02:14:08,000 --> 02:14:10,000 You'll do it your way. 2371 02:14:10,000 --> 02:14:13,000 In fact, you even do it to your own detriment at times. 2372 02:14:13,000 --> 02:14:15,000 Even when you know it isn't going to work, 2373 02:14:15,000 --> 02:14:17,000 it's going to make it work anyway. 2374 02:14:17,000 --> 02:14:19,000 And force, force negates. 2375 02:14:19,000 --> 02:14:22,000 Well, you do that, and then wisdom cuts in, 2376 02:14:22,000 --> 02:14:24,000 and you say, come on, leave it alone, Daisy. 2377 02:14:24,000 --> 02:14:26,000 I see you walk away for a minute. 2378 02:14:26,000 --> 02:14:27,000 Does this make sense? 2379 02:14:27,000 --> 02:14:29,000 It does make sense. 2380 02:14:29,000 --> 02:14:30,000 You know people like that. 2381 02:14:30,000 --> 02:14:32,000 I know people like that. 2382 02:14:32,000 --> 02:14:33,000 You know people like that. 2383 02:14:33,000 --> 02:14:34,000 You're like that. 2384 02:14:34,000 --> 02:14:35,000 You're sitting there saying, 2385 02:14:35,000 --> 02:14:37,000 Jesus, you couldn't be talking about me. 2386 02:14:37,000 --> 02:14:41,000 You see? 2387 02:14:41,000 --> 02:14:45,000 This is powerful stuff. 2388 02:14:45,000 --> 02:14:48,000 This is why successful people make decisions so fast. 2389 02:14:48,000 --> 02:14:51,000 Back it up. 2390 02:14:51,000 --> 02:14:54,000 Want is the only prerequisite for making a decision. 2391 02:14:54,000 --> 02:14:56,000 You've got to get this burntness into your mind. 2392 02:14:56,000 --> 02:14:58,000 You don't even have to understand this in any depth. 2393 02:14:58,000 --> 02:15:00,000 Just accept it. 2394 02:15:00,000 --> 02:15:01,000 Want is the only thing. 2395 02:15:01,000 --> 02:15:05,000 Just you want it, but you've got to really want it. 2396 02:15:05,000 --> 02:15:07,000 It's not just some passing fancy. 2397 02:15:07,000 --> 02:15:08,000 I saw this suit. 2398 02:15:08,000 --> 02:15:09,000 I think it's kind of nice. 2399 02:15:09,000 --> 02:15:10,000 I saw this car. 2400 02:15:10,000 --> 02:15:11,000 Yeah, I liked that car. 2401 02:15:11,000 --> 02:15:14,000 Do you really want it? 2402 02:15:14,000 --> 02:15:17,000 If you really want it, that's all you need. 2403 02:15:17,000 --> 02:15:18,000 You don't need the money. 2404 02:15:18,000 --> 02:15:20,000 You don't need to know how you're going to get it. 2405 02:15:20,000 --> 02:15:21,000 You don't need any of that stuff, 2406 02:15:21,000 --> 02:15:23,000 but you've got to really want it. 2407 02:15:23,000 --> 02:15:26,000 You see, when you really want it and you make a decision, 2408 02:15:26,000 --> 02:15:29,000 you flip your brain onto the frequency that you have to be on, 2409 02:15:29,000 --> 02:15:32,000 the way to get it is already here. 2410 02:15:32,000 --> 02:15:33,000 But you've got to get it in harmony 2411 02:15:33,000 --> 02:15:36,000 or you're never going to figure it out. 2412 02:15:36,000 --> 02:15:38,000 That's why when you get on that frequency, 2413 02:15:38,000 --> 02:15:41,000 that's the only information that can come to you. 2414 02:15:41,000 --> 02:15:43,000 That's the information you need to get there. 2415 02:15:43,000 --> 02:15:44,000 You've done this. 2416 02:15:44,000 --> 02:15:46,000 You've done this in different times, 2417 02:15:46,000 --> 02:15:50,000 not really understanding what you've done. 2418 02:15:50,000 --> 02:15:52,000 I was doing this when I was cleaning floors. 2419 02:15:52,000 --> 02:15:53,000 No education. 2420 02:15:53,000 --> 02:15:54,000 I didn't know how to run a business. 2421 02:15:54,000 --> 02:15:57,000 I just think, I'm going to go to Atlanta and open a company. 2422 02:15:57,000 --> 02:15:58,000 I like that. 2423 02:15:58,000 --> 02:16:00,000 Nice place. 2424 02:16:00,000 --> 02:16:01,000 I think you can go over to Cleveland. 2425 02:16:01,000 --> 02:16:03,000 It's not too far away from us. 2426 02:16:03,000 --> 02:16:04,000 I always wanted to go over to England. 2427 02:16:04,000 --> 02:16:08,000 I think we'll go to London. 2428 02:16:08,000 --> 02:16:12,000 I just go and do it. 2429 02:16:12,000 --> 02:16:16,000 Pretty soon money was coming from those places. 2430 02:16:16,000 --> 02:16:19,000 Now, you understand, if I can do it, you can do it. 2431 02:16:19,000 --> 02:16:20,000 I didn't know hardly anything. 2432 02:16:20,000 --> 02:16:22,000 I really didn't. 2433 02:16:22,000 --> 02:16:23,000 I just kept doing the books. 2434 02:16:23,000 --> 02:16:26,000 I just do it as it is. 2435 02:16:26,000 --> 02:16:28,000 Wanted is the only prerequisite. 2436 02:16:28,000 --> 02:16:32,000 That's why successful people make decisions so fast. 2437 02:16:32,000 --> 02:16:38,000 They know what they want. 2438 02:16:38,000 --> 02:16:43,000 This is pretty basic, but it's very misunderstood. 2439 02:16:43,000 --> 02:16:47,000 Now, look at this. 2440 02:16:47,000 --> 02:16:49,000 Paradigms and Cybernetics. 2441 02:16:49,000 --> 02:16:50,000 Anybody that's read Psycho-Cybernetics, 2442 02:16:50,000 --> 02:16:52,000 we get a lot of people around the company reading it now, 2443 02:16:52,000 --> 02:16:56,000 Psycho-Cybernetics was written by Napoleon Hill. 2444 02:16:56,000 --> 02:16:57,000 It is so good. 2445 02:16:57,000 --> 02:17:00,000 Cybernetics is the science of control and communication 2446 02:17:00,000 --> 02:17:02,000 between the animal and some machines. 2447 02:17:02,000 --> 02:17:05,000 Cybernetics controls your thermostat, 2448 02:17:05,000 --> 02:17:07,000 or the thermostat controls the house. 2449 02:17:07,000 --> 02:17:09,000 The Cybernetics system is in the thermostat. 2450 02:17:09,000 --> 02:17:11,000 It'll change the temperature of the house. 2451 02:17:11,000 --> 02:17:12,000 It'll turn the heat on, turn it off. 2452 02:17:12,000 --> 02:17:13,000 Turn the air on, turn it off. 2453 02:17:13,000 --> 02:17:16,000 Automatically, when you deviate from the set goal, 2454 02:17:16,000 --> 02:17:19,000 goals may be to have the house at 69 or 70. 2455 02:17:19,000 --> 02:17:20,000 It'll hold it at that. 2456 02:17:20,000 --> 02:17:21,000 If somebody leaves the door open, 2457 02:17:21,000 --> 02:17:22,000 it gets too hot or too cold, 2458 02:17:22,000 --> 02:17:24,000 the thermostat will shift it. 2459 02:17:24,000 --> 02:17:27,000 It'll change the air conditioning or the furnace. 2460 02:17:27,000 --> 02:17:28,000 It's all done automatically. 2461 02:17:28,000 --> 02:17:31,000 Well, your paradigm is like a thermostat. 2462 02:17:31,000 --> 02:17:33,000 It's like a Cybernetics system. 2463 02:17:33,000 --> 02:17:36,000 Paradigms and Cybernetics are both control systems. 2464 02:17:36,000 --> 02:17:39,000 They operate essentially on the same principle. 2465 02:17:39,000 --> 02:17:41,000 Both maintain a definite course of action 2466 02:17:41,000 --> 02:17:43,000 and will not deviate from the course 2467 02:17:43,000 --> 02:17:45,000 that has been established. 2468 02:17:45,000 --> 02:17:49,000 Well, most people's paradigm has them working toward a bad end. 2469 02:17:49,000 --> 02:17:53,000 Most people's paradigm has them working toward debt. 2470 02:17:53,000 --> 02:17:58,000 Most people's paradigm has them working toward dumb jobs. 2471 02:17:58,000 --> 02:18:01,000 You must alter the paradigm 2472 02:18:01,000 --> 02:18:04,000 if you desire to achieve improved results. 2473 02:18:04,000 --> 02:18:08,000 Both companies and individuals have operating paradigms. 2474 02:18:08,000 --> 02:18:10,000 I've gone into companies, 2475 02:18:10,000 --> 02:18:12,000 I went into the Prudential of America, 2476 02:18:12,000 --> 02:18:14,000 largest insurance company in the world. 2477 02:18:14,000 --> 02:18:16,000 At the same time, I was working in Metropolitan Life, 2478 02:18:16,000 --> 02:18:18,000 the other second largest. 2479 02:18:18,000 --> 02:18:20,000 It was a ton of stuff, which one was the largest? 2480 02:18:20,000 --> 02:18:22,000 One would be met for a little while, 2481 02:18:22,000 --> 02:18:25,000 then it would be proved, then it would be proved, then it would be met. 2482 02:18:25,000 --> 02:18:28,000 I changed the paradigms in both those companies. 2483 02:18:28,000 --> 02:18:30,000 A company operates on a paradigm. 2484 02:18:30,000 --> 02:18:32,000 A country operates on a paradigm. 2485 02:18:32,000 --> 02:18:34,000 It's called culture. 2486 02:18:34,000 --> 02:18:36,000 There is a group culture. 2487 02:18:36,000 --> 02:18:38,000 There is a corporate culture. 2488 02:18:38,000 --> 02:18:41,000 There's a culture to your family. 2489 02:18:41,000 --> 02:18:43,000 You have a culture in your family. 2490 02:18:43,000 --> 02:18:46,000 The family has a paradigm. 2491 02:18:46,000 --> 02:18:49,000 Family operates a certain way. 2492 02:18:49,000 --> 02:18:51,000 Well, there's something the family always does, 2493 02:18:51,000 --> 02:18:53,000 and if one of the kids wants to go off, 2494 02:18:53,000 --> 02:18:55,000 what the hell are you doing? 2495 02:18:55,000 --> 02:18:56,000 We've always done this. 2496 02:18:56,000 --> 02:18:58,000 It's a family. 2497 02:18:58,000 --> 02:19:02,000 Well, let me let you in on a secret, Dad. 2498 02:19:02,000 --> 02:19:04,000 I'm changing the paradigm. 2499 02:19:04,000 --> 02:19:13,000 You see, you've got to be strong, 2500 02:19:13,000 --> 02:19:15,000 but if you're going to be strong, you've got to be aware. 2501 02:19:15,000 --> 02:19:17,000 Awareness is power. 2502 02:19:17,000 --> 02:19:19,000 We're going to become aware. 2503 02:19:19,000 --> 02:19:27,000 School focuses on the intellect, the degree. 2504 02:19:27,000 --> 02:19:28,000 Be able to shape your future 2505 02:19:28,000 --> 02:19:30,000 if you're only able to change your paradigm, 2506 02:19:30,000 --> 02:19:31,000 as we're talking about. 2507 02:19:31,000 --> 02:19:35,000 See, your results should always be under construction, always. 2508 02:19:35,000 --> 02:19:40,000 You should never be satisfied with where you are. 2509 02:19:40,000 --> 02:19:42,000 When I was a little kid, Grandma always told me I should be satisfied. 2510 02:19:42,000 --> 02:19:43,000 Grandma was wrong. 2511 02:19:43,000 --> 02:19:46,000 She was like an angel of God, a dear little old woman, 2512 02:19:46,000 --> 02:19:49,000 but she was wrong. 2513 02:19:49,000 --> 02:19:51,000 Your results should always be under construction. 2514 02:19:51,000 --> 02:19:56,000 You always want to be improving them. 2515 02:19:56,000 --> 02:19:59,000 Now you've got to ask, are you ready to change? 2516 02:19:59,000 --> 02:20:04,000 Now listen, if we went around and hooked everybody up to a polygraph 2517 02:20:04,000 --> 02:20:07,000 and sucked the truth out of you, 2518 02:20:07,000 --> 02:20:11,000 everybody would say, yeah, I'm ready to change. 2519 02:20:11,000 --> 02:20:15,000 But you know, the truth is, you're probably not. 2520 02:20:16,000 --> 02:20:20,000 You've got to be ready to really handle some big ones. 2521 02:20:20,000 --> 02:20:22,000 You know, the people that you love, that you respect, 2522 02:20:22,000 --> 02:20:25,000 they'll say, what the hell are you doing? 2523 02:20:25,000 --> 02:20:26,000 You're what? 2524 02:20:26,000 --> 02:20:28,000 You're quitting your job? 2525 02:20:28,000 --> 02:20:30,000 Are you crazy? 2526 02:20:30,000 --> 02:20:33,000 A lot of people out of work now, you know. 2527 02:20:33,000 --> 02:20:35,000 Getting a job is not the easiest thing in the world, 2528 02:20:35,000 --> 02:20:38,000 and you've got a good one. 2529 02:20:38,000 --> 02:20:43,000 I'm of the opinion that there's no good job. 2530 02:20:47,000 --> 02:20:50,000 You go to change your paradigm, 2531 02:20:50,000 --> 02:20:54,000 and you could have some real serious trouble 2532 02:20:54,000 --> 02:20:56,000 with people that are closest to you. 2533 02:20:56,000 --> 02:20:59,000 They don't want you to change. 2534 02:20:59,000 --> 02:21:01,000 Now think of this. 2535 02:21:01,000 --> 02:21:03,000 People do not resist change. 2536 02:21:03,000 --> 02:21:04,000 That's a misnomer. 2537 02:21:04,000 --> 02:21:05,000 A lot of people say people resist change. 2538 02:21:05,000 --> 02:21:06,000 That's not true. 2539 02:21:06,000 --> 02:21:10,000 People resist being changed. 2540 02:21:10,000 --> 02:21:11,000 When you go to change, 2541 02:21:11,000 --> 02:21:13,000 the people that you're closest to, 2542 02:21:13,000 --> 02:21:15,000 you're causing them to change. 2543 02:21:15,000 --> 02:21:17,000 They've got to adapt to your absence. 2544 02:21:17,000 --> 02:21:18,000 They've got to adapt to the new you, 2545 02:21:18,000 --> 02:21:21,000 and they don't want to do that. 2546 02:21:21,000 --> 02:21:22,000 They want you to stay the same. 2547 02:21:22,000 --> 02:21:25,000 Then they don't have change. 2548 02:21:25,000 --> 02:21:29,000 When you change, they've got to adapt to that. 2549 02:21:29,000 --> 02:21:33,000 They may not be too keen on doing that. 2550 02:21:33,000 --> 02:21:37,000 Most people are extras in their own movie. 2551 02:21:37,000 --> 02:21:39,000 They really are. 2552 02:21:39,000 --> 02:21:41,000 They don't see themselves as the star at all. 2553 02:21:41,000 --> 02:21:42,000 It's their movie. 2554 02:21:42,000 --> 02:21:45,000 It's their life. 2555 02:21:45,000 --> 02:21:50,000 You should be the star of your movie. 2556 02:21:50,000 --> 02:21:56,000 You should get an Academy Award for your performance. 2557 02:21:56,000 --> 02:21:58,000 You're the director. 2558 02:21:58,000 --> 02:21:59,000 You're also the producer. 2559 02:21:59,000 --> 02:22:01,000 You're the whole deal. 2560 02:22:01,000 --> 02:22:02,000 You're the creative director. 2561 02:22:02,000 --> 02:22:05,000 You make all the decisions about yourself. 2562 02:22:05,000 --> 02:22:09,000 Why would we make ourselves extra in our own movie? 2563 02:22:09,000 --> 02:22:11,000 Watch a movie. 2564 02:22:11,000 --> 02:22:12,000 Just see crowds of people, 2565 02:22:12,000 --> 02:22:15,000 sometimes thousands of people in a field maybe, 2566 02:22:15,000 --> 02:22:19,000 running with bows and arrows or something. 2567 02:22:19,000 --> 02:22:27,000 But there's one handsome dude with a good-looking gal 2568 02:22:27,000 --> 02:22:31,000 in some kind of a nice outfit. 2569 02:22:31,000 --> 02:22:32,000 They're the stars, everybody else. 2570 02:22:32,000 --> 02:22:35,000 All those thousands of people, they're extras. 2571 02:22:35,000 --> 02:22:39,000 They're getting very little money, sometimes nothing, 2572 02:22:39,000 --> 02:22:42,000 but they're in a movie. 2573 02:22:42,000 --> 02:22:47,000 Well, you could be an extra in your own movie. 2574 02:22:47,000 --> 02:22:49,000 You see, you really got to ask yourself, 2575 02:22:49,000 --> 02:22:53,000 what do you really want? 2576 02:22:53,000 --> 02:22:55,000 What do you really want? 2577 02:22:55,000 --> 02:23:00,000 Now, you're the director. 2578 02:23:00,000 --> 02:23:04,000 I want you, where is Peggy McCall? 2579 02:23:04,000 --> 02:23:07,000 Peggy's over there. 2580 02:23:07,000 --> 02:23:10,000 Peggy's going to take over here for the next 20, 2581 02:23:10,000 --> 02:23:12,000 maybe 30 minutes, 2582 02:23:12,000 --> 02:23:16,000 and get some of you talking about what it is you want. 2583 02:23:16,000 --> 02:23:20,000 And what I want to suggest is that you loosen up. 2584 02:23:20,000 --> 02:23:24,000 Start to open up. 2585 02:23:24,000 --> 02:23:27,000 What somebody else thinks of what you're saying doesn't matter. 2586 02:23:27,000 --> 02:23:31,000 Quit worrying about what other people think. 2587 02:23:31,000 --> 02:23:35,000 Frequently, they're not thinking anyway, so. 2588 02:23:35,000 --> 02:23:37,000 Mangle said if most people said that they were thinking, 2589 02:23:37,000 --> 02:23:39,000 they would probably be speechless. 2590 02:23:39,000 --> 02:23:42,000 Now, I want you to really stop thinking. 2591 02:23:42,000 --> 02:23:44,000 What do you really want? 2592 02:23:44,000 --> 02:23:45,000 Do you know what you want? 2593 02:23:45,000 --> 02:23:47,000 Do you know exactly what you want? 2594 02:23:47,000 --> 02:23:54,000 It's very clear, okay? 2595 02:23:54,000 --> 02:24:01,000 I remember you talking about what you wanted, Ricky. 2596 02:24:01,000 --> 02:24:03,000 And it was so obvious to me, 2597 02:24:03,000 --> 02:24:06,000 this woman was very emotionally involved. 2598 02:24:06,000 --> 02:24:08,000 You could feel her energy change. 2599 02:24:08,000 --> 02:24:10,000 And I said, what are you doing? 2600 02:24:10,000 --> 02:24:12,000 She was a bartender. 2601 02:24:12,000 --> 02:24:14,000 And probably a pretty damn good one, 2602 02:24:14,000 --> 02:24:15,000 because you did it for a long time. 2603 02:24:15,000 --> 02:24:17,000 How long did you do it? 2604 02:24:17,000 --> 02:24:18,000 Too long. 2605 02:24:18,000 --> 02:24:19,000 Like 15 years. 2606 02:24:19,000 --> 02:24:21,000 15 years. 2607 02:24:21,000 --> 02:24:26,000 So I would imagine that you earned very good tips. 2608 02:24:26,000 --> 02:24:28,000 You did pretty good. 2609 02:24:28,000 --> 02:24:30,000 That's what made it hard to leave, isn't it? 2610 02:24:30,000 --> 02:24:33,000 Because you had to give up all the tips. 2611 02:24:33,000 --> 02:24:36,000 I was a waiter at one time. 2612 02:24:36,000 --> 02:24:38,000 With alcohol. 2613 02:24:38,000 --> 02:24:40,000 And I was very good. 2614 02:24:40,000 --> 02:24:41,000 So I got a lot of tips. 2615 02:24:41,000 --> 02:24:43,000 I'm a good tipper. 2616 02:24:43,000 --> 02:24:47,000 Anybody who's lived on tips is usually a good tipper. 2617 02:24:47,000 --> 02:24:53,000 Well, it's very difficult to leave that, isn't it? 2618 02:24:53,000 --> 02:24:55,000 She was telling me what she really wanted. 2619 02:24:55,000 --> 02:24:56,000 It was obvious. 2620 02:24:56,000 --> 02:24:58,000 I mean, I spent a lot of time talking to you about this. 2621 02:24:58,000 --> 02:25:00,000 At different times. 2622 02:25:00,000 --> 02:25:03,000 Sometimes months apart. 2623 02:25:03,000 --> 02:25:05,000 She had this idea of a puppy academy. 2624 02:25:05,000 --> 02:25:10,000 It was the most phenomenal concept. 2625 02:25:10,000 --> 02:25:13,000 But she had to quit the bar. 2626 02:25:13,000 --> 02:25:15,000 She had to leave all those tips behind, 2627 02:25:15,000 --> 02:25:16,000 and she had never run a puppy academy. 2628 02:25:16,000 --> 02:25:21,000 She didn't know if they were going to earn any money. 2629 02:25:21,000 --> 02:25:27,000 The one thing you had, Marco was supportive of it, wasn't he? 2630 02:25:27,000 --> 02:25:28,000 You know? 2631 02:25:28,000 --> 02:25:30,000 I thought maybe that's why she's not doing it. 2632 02:25:30,000 --> 02:25:31,000 But I talked to him. 2633 02:25:31,000 --> 02:25:33,000 That wasn't the problem. 2634 02:25:33,000 --> 02:25:37,000 The problem was you couldn't see how it was going to happen, 2635 02:25:37,000 --> 02:25:40,000 and you had to give up the money. 2636 02:25:40,000 --> 02:25:41,000 That's a bitch, isn't it? 2637 02:25:41,000 --> 02:25:43,000 Yes, it is. 2638 02:25:43,000 --> 02:25:45,000 Yeah. 2639 02:25:45,000 --> 02:25:46,000 Here's the point. 2640 02:25:46,000 --> 02:25:50,000 You don't have to know how it's going to happen. 2641 02:25:50,000 --> 02:25:54,000 Peggy McCall is about as good at this as anybody I've known. 2642 02:25:54,000 --> 02:26:01,000 I met her when she was just a girl. 2643 02:26:01,000 --> 02:26:03,000 That was a while ago. 2644 02:26:03,000 --> 02:26:05,000 How long ago was it? 2645 02:26:05,000 --> 02:26:06,000 Forty years. 2646 02:26:06,000 --> 02:26:08,000 Forty years ago is when I met her. 2647 02:26:08,000 --> 02:26:13,000 I was three. 2648 02:26:13,000 --> 02:26:18,000 She lied then, and she's still lying. 2649 02:26:18,000 --> 02:26:19,000 All right. 2650 02:26:19,000 --> 02:26:20,000 Go ahead. 2651 02:26:20,000 --> 02:26:23,000 Go to work. 2652 02:26:23,000 --> 02:26:29,000 Thank you. 2653 02:26:29,000 --> 02:26:34,000 Thanks for warming up the audience for me, Bob. 2654 02:26:34,000 --> 02:26:36,000 Don't screw it up. 2655 02:26:36,000 --> 02:26:38,000 You know what's funny? 2656 02:26:38,000 --> 02:26:40,000 Bob has this most incredible sense of humor, 2657 02:26:40,000 --> 02:26:43,000 as you're all getting to know. 2658 02:26:43,000 --> 02:26:45,000 Quite often when he's bringing me on stage, 2659 02:26:45,000 --> 02:26:47,000 he'll give me a hug, and he'll whisper in my ear, 2660 02:26:47,000 --> 02:26:49,000 don't screw it up. 2661 02:26:49,000 --> 02:26:50,000 It's so sweet. 2662 02:26:50,000 --> 02:26:54,000 It's just part of his wonderful spirit and his sense of humor. 2663 02:26:54,000 --> 02:26:56,000 How many of you are here for the first time? 2664 02:26:56,000 --> 02:26:58,000 Raise your hand. 2665 02:26:58,000 --> 02:27:00,000 Wow. 2666 02:27:00,000 --> 02:27:03,000 How many of you that are here for the first time 2667 02:27:03,000 --> 02:27:07,000 watched this on the livestream last time, 2668 02:27:07,000 --> 02:27:09,000 and you decided to be here? 2669 02:27:09,000 --> 02:27:12,000 Do you know we have 104 countries 2670 02:27:12,000 --> 02:27:15,000 that's on the streaming club watching us right now? 2671 02:27:15,000 --> 02:27:21,000 Thousands of people. 2672 02:27:21,000 --> 02:27:22,000 Thousands of people. 2673 02:27:22,000 --> 02:27:24,000 I met Bob 40 years ago. 2674 02:27:24,000 --> 02:27:27,000 I was 20 years old at the time, 2675 02:27:27,000 --> 02:27:30,000 and I was living in Toronto, Ontario, Canada, 2676 02:27:30,000 --> 02:27:34,000 and I worked for a company by the name of AES Data, 2677 02:27:34,000 --> 02:27:37,000 and this was a very fast upcoming company. 2678 02:27:37,000 --> 02:27:40,000 We were selling word processing equipment at the time, 2679 02:27:40,000 --> 02:27:43,000 very big leader in the industry, 2680 02:27:43,000 --> 02:27:47,000 and as an employee, we were mandated to go to this seminar, 2681 02:27:47,000 --> 02:27:50,000 and the seminar was with Bob Proctor. 2682 02:27:50,000 --> 02:27:52,000 I'd never heard of Bob Proctor before. 2683 02:27:52,000 --> 02:27:56,000 I had no idea who he was, but I had a BA. 2684 02:27:56,000 --> 02:27:59,000 We're not talking about a Bachelor of Arts degree. 2685 02:27:59,000 --> 02:28:03,000 I had a bad attitude, a very bad attitude, 2686 02:28:03,000 --> 02:28:06,000 and I was a miserable human being. 2687 02:28:06,000 --> 02:28:09,000 And I was not getting good results in my life, 2688 02:28:09,000 --> 02:28:12,000 and I thought it was everyone else's fault. 2689 02:28:12,000 --> 02:28:13,000 It certainly wasn't mine. 2690 02:28:13,000 --> 02:28:15,000 That's what I believed, 2691 02:28:15,000 --> 02:28:18,000 and so when we were told we had to go to this seminar, 2692 02:28:18,000 --> 02:28:21,000 I remember thinking, I'm not going, 2693 02:28:21,000 --> 02:28:24,000 and we were told it's mandatory. 2694 02:28:24,000 --> 02:28:26,000 You must go, and I thought, 2695 02:28:26,000 --> 02:28:29,000 well, what I'll do is I'll show up a little bit late. 2696 02:28:29,000 --> 02:28:32,000 I'll look for a seat in the back of the room, 2697 02:28:32,000 --> 02:28:36,000 and at my first opportunity, I am exiting stage left, 2698 02:28:36,000 --> 02:28:38,000 and so I arrive at the room, 2699 02:28:38,000 --> 02:28:40,000 and they're just getting ready to start, 2700 02:28:40,000 --> 02:28:41,000 and it was filled. 2701 02:28:41,000 --> 02:28:44,000 It was a ballroom full of people just like this, 2702 02:28:44,000 --> 02:28:45,000 and I looked around. 2703 02:28:45,000 --> 02:28:47,000 I looked for a seat in the back of the room. 2704 02:28:47,000 --> 02:28:48,000 There weren't any. 2705 02:28:48,000 --> 02:28:51,000 The only seat in the room was a seat right here 2706 02:28:51,000 --> 02:28:53,000 in the front of the room, 2707 02:28:53,000 --> 02:28:54,000 and somebody waved me, 2708 02:28:54,000 --> 02:28:56,000 because they could see I was looking for a seat, 2709 02:28:56,000 --> 02:28:59,000 waved me to come and sit right there, 2710 02:29:00,000 --> 02:29:02,000 and Bob Proctor started talking, 2711 02:29:02,000 --> 02:29:07,000 and he woke me up from a nightmare 2712 02:29:07,000 --> 02:29:10,000 which was called my life, 2713 02:29:10,000 --> 02:29:12,000 and Bob Proctor quoted Vernon Howard, 2714 02:29:12,000 --> 02:29:14,000 and he said the following. 2715 02:29:14,000 --> 02:29:17,000 He said, you cannot escape from a prison 2716 02:29:17,000 --> 02:29:20,000 unless you know you are in one. 2717 02:29:20,000 --> 02:29:22,000 I was in a prison. 2718 02:29:22,000 --> 02:29:24,000 It was a prison of my own making, 2719 02:29:24,000 --> 02:29:27,000 and I had no idea that I was locked away. 2720 02:29:27,000 --> 02:29:30,000 I had no idea that the door wasn't even locked, 2721 02:29:30,000 --> 02:29:32,000 and that I could escape. 2722 02:29:32,000 --> 02:29:35,000 You know, when Bob Proctor started speaking this morning, 2723 02:29:35,000 --> 02:29:37,000 he was talking about your paradigms. 2724 02:29:37,000 --> 02:29:39,000 You have to want to change them. 2725 02:29:39,000 --> 02:29:42,000 You have to make a decision you're going to change them. 2726 02:29:42,000 --> 02:29:44,000 You're here in the room, yes. 2727 02:29:44,000 --> 02:29:46,000 You're getting the understanding, yes, 2728 02:29:46,000 --> 02:29:49,000 but you've got to do something with it. 2729 02:29:49,000 --> 02:29:53,000 It has no value unless you do something with it. 2730 02:29:53,000 --> 02:29:55,000 You've got to stay in the study. 2731 02:29:55,000 --> 02:29:56,000 When I look around the room 2732 02:29:56,000 --> 02:29:58,000 and I see people like Phil Goldfein, 2733 02:29:58,000 --> 02:30:00,000 who's sitting here, and I see Fuzz, 2734 02:30:00,000 --> 02:30:02,000 Wendy and Keith Ditta, 2735 02:30:02,000 --> 02:30:04,000 Kristen Rachel Bassey, 2736 02:30:04,000 --> 02:30:06,000 Anders Hansen, who's here, 2737 02:30:06,000 --> 02:30:09,000 many, many people in this room who are already successful, 2738 02:30:09,000 --> 02:30:12,000 that continue to create phenomenal success, 2739 02:30:12,000 --> 02:30:14,000 Robert and Kelly Fuscusi. 2740 02:30:14,000 --> 02:30:16,000 But why are they here? 2741 02:30:16,000 --> 02:30:18,000 Because they want more. 2742 02:30:18,000 --> 02:30:22,000 They understand that we are for fuller expression 2743 02:30:22,000 --> 02:30:24,000 and greater expansion, 2744 02:30:24,000 --> 02:30:27,000 and that's what staying in the study does. 2745 02:30:27,000 --> 02:30:29,000 Forty years of studying these materials. 2746 02:30:29,000 --> 02:30:34,000 My life just gets better and better and better. 2747 02:30:34,000 --> 02:30:36,000 Last evening we were having a meeting in my suite 2748 02:30:36,000 --> 02:30:38,000 with Louise Tremblay, 2749 02:30:38,000 --> 02:30:41,000 who's a friend of mine who's a wonderful human being 2750 02:30:41,000 --> 02:30:44,000 and an incredible writer and author with Phil Goldfein, 2751 02:30:44,000 --> 02:30:48,000 because Phil is going to be representing Louise and her book. 2752 02:30:48,000 --> 02:30:50,000 And Louise was saying to me, she says, 2753 02:30:50,000 --> 02:30:53,000 you know, I feel like I won the lottery. 2754 02:30:53,000 --> 02:30:55,000 And it feels like, you feel like you won the lottery 2755 02:30:55,000 --> 02:30:57,000 because you're sitting here with me? 2756 02:30:57,000 --> 02:31:02,000 And she said, just everything that's happening is so surreal. 2757 02:31:02,000 --> 02:31:03,000 And that's what happens. 2758 02:31:03,000 --> 02:31:06,000 It becomes so surreal. 2759 02:31:06,000 --> 02:31:09,000 And you're wondering, wow. 2760 02:31:09,000 --> 02:31:11,000 But you've got to apply it. 2761 02:31:11,000 --> 02:31:13,000 That's what's most important. 2762 02:31:13,000 --> 02:31:15,000 And you want to be taking notes while you're here as well. 2763 02:31:15,000 --> 02:31:17,000 How many of you have been taking notes 2764 02:31:17,000 --> 02:31:20,000 while Bob's been up here talking this morning? 2765 02:31:20,000 --> 02:31:22,000 You know, I was chatting with my cousin. 2766 02:31:22,000 --> 02:31:24,000 Susan is here sitting at the front room 2767 02:31:24,000 --> 02:31:26,000 and she brought her daughter Chloe. 2768 02:31:26,000 --> 02:31:28,000 Chloe's 17. 2769 02:31:28,000 --> 02:31:30,000 And I asked them at the break, how are you enjoying it? 2770 02:31:30,000 --> 02:31:33,000 They've never been to a Bob Proctor seminar before. 2771 02:31:33,000 --> 02:31:34,000 And they're loving it. 2772 02:31:34,000 --> 02:31:36,000 And they were so excited to be here. 2773 02:31:36,000 --> 02:31:38,000 And I said, are you taking notes? 2774 02:31:38,000 --> 02:31:39,000 And Susan said, I am. 2775 02:31:39,000 --> 02:31:40,000 I said, Chloe? 2776 02:31:40,000 --> 02:31:42,000 She said, no, my mom's taking notes. 2777 02:31:42,000 --> 02:31:44,000 It doesn't count. 2778 02:31:44,000 --> 02:31:46,000 You've got to take your own notes. 2779 02:31:46,000 --> 02:31:49,000 But what I also suggest as you're going through this 2780 02:31:49,000 --> 02:31:52,000 is to really highlight the things 2781 02:31:52,000 --> 02:31:54,000 that are really resonating with you. 2782 02:31:54,000 --> 02:31:56,000 What are the messages that you're hearing today 2783 02:31:56,000 --> 02:31:58,000 that are really resonating with you? 2784 02:31:58,000 --> 02:32:00,000 I want you to think about that. 2785 02:32:00,000 --> 02:32:04,000 And then, more importantly, what will you do with it? 2786 02:32:04,000 --> 02:32:06,000 What will you do with it? 2787 02:32:06,000 --> 02:32:08,000 One of the things that I do, 2788 02:32:08,000 --> 02:32:10,000 whenever I'm at one of Bob Proctor's seminars, 2789 02:32:10,000 --> 02:32:12,000 is I create a separate page. 2790 02:32:12,000 --> 02:32:14,000 Sometimes I'll go to the back of the workbook 2791 02:32:15,000 --> 02:32:18,000 and I'll write down the things that I will do 2792 02:32:18,000 --> 02:32:21,000 because I get inspired with new ideas. 2793 02:32:21,000 --> 02:32:23,000 Or I'll be thinking about an idea 2794 02:32:23,000 --> 02:32:25,000 that I've already been working on, 2795 02:32:25,000 --> 02:32:29,000 and then I'll get inspired with what to do with that idea 2796 02:32:29,000 --> 02:32:31,000 from being in the room. 2797 02:32:31,000 --> 02:32:33,000 So you create this list of what you will do. 2798 02:32:33,000 --> 02:32:37,000 Another thing that I do is I will highlight certain points 2799 02:32:37,000 --> 02:32:39,000 so that I can share them with others. 2800 02:32:39,000 --> 02:32:42,000 So I have this thing that I deliver three times a week 2801 02:32:42,000 --> 02:32:44,000 called the morning money class. 2802 02:32:44,000 --> 02:32:45,000 It's free. 2803 02:32:45,000 --> 02:32:48,000 It's a subscription thing that I started a number of years ago 2804 02:32:48,000 --> 02:32:51,000 when I was listening to some Earl Nightingale audios 2805 02:32:51,000 --> 02:32:53,000 and Napoleon Hill audios. 2806 02:32:53,000 --> 02:32:55,000 And so these morning money classes are all about 2807 02:32:55,000 --> 02:32:59,000 helping my subscribers to attract more abundance in their life. 2808 02:32:59,000 --> 02:33:02,000 So this morning I made a page of all the things 2809 02:33:02,000 --> 02:33:06,000 that I'm going to teach in the next several morning money classes. 2810 02:33:06,000 --> 02:33:09,000 But the more you help another understand these materials 2811 02:33:09,000 --> 02:33:11,000 and, Anders, you can relate to this very well. 2812 02:33:11,000 --> 02:33:14,000 The more you help another understand these materials, 2813 02:33:14,000 --> 02:33:16,000 the more it helps you. 2814 02:33:16,000 --> 02:33:18,000 The more you share them. 2815 02:33:18,000 --> 02:33:20,000 We have a number of TIR consultants in the room, 2816 02:33:20,000 --> 02:33:22,000 and you'll hear about that opportunity, 2817 02:33:22,000 --> 02:33:24,000 thinking and a results consultant. 2818 02:33:24,000 --> 02:33:26,000 How many thinking and a results consultants 2819 02:33:26,000 --> 02:33:27,000 are there in the room? 2820 02:33:27,000 --> 02:33:28,000 Raise your hand. 2821 02:33:28,000 --> 02:33:30,000 Right, we've got a number of you here. 2822 02:33:30,000 --> 02:33:32,000 And I'm certain you find that, 2823 02:33:32,000 --> 02:33:35,000 that the more you're helping people with your TIR business, 2824 02:33:35,000 --> 02:33:37,000 the more it helps you as well. 2825 02:33:38,000 --> 02:33:41,000 I remember one time Bob and I were in Dallas, Texas, 2826 02:33:41,000 --> 02:33:43,000 and it was a weekend event called 2827 02:33:43,000 --> 02:33:44,000 The Science of Getting Rich 2828 02:33:44,000 --> 02:33:47,000 based on Wallace D. Waddle's book by the same title, 2829 02:33:47,000 --> 02:33:49,000 Science of Getting Rich. 2830 02:33:49,000 --> 02:33:51,000 And Bob and I were heading down to the ballroom 2831 02:33:51,000 --> 02:33:53,000 to get miked up. 2832 02:33:53,000 --> 02:33:54,000 And we're heading down the ballroom, 2833 02:33:54,000 --> 02:33:57,000 and the ballroom was quite a distance from where the hotel was 2834 02:33:57,000 --> 02:33:59,000 to where the ballroom was. 2835 02:33:59,000 --> 02:34:01,000 And if you've ever walked with Bob Proctor, 2836 02:34:01,000 --> 02:34:06,000 I mean, this man is going to be 85 years of age next Friday. 2837 02:34:06,000 --> 02:34:08,000 It's his birthday next Friday. 2838 02:34:11,000 --> 02:34:14,000 And Bob and I are heading down to the ballroom, 2839 02:34:14,000 --> 02:34:16,000 and he walks fast. 2840 02:34:16,000 --> 02:34:17,000 If you've ever walked beside him, 2841 02:34:17,000 --> 02:34:19,000 he's like, he's a man on a mission. 2842 02:34:19,000 --> 02:34:21,000 He knows exactly where he's going, 2843 02:34:21,000 --> 02:34:23,000 and he is determined to get there. 2844 02:34:23,000 --> 02:34:25,000 It's the same thing when he's heading to the ballroom 2845 02:34:25,000 --> 02:34:27,000 to deliver a seminar. 2846 02:34:27,000 --> 02:34:29,000 And so Bob's heading down to the ballroom, 2847 02:34:29,000 --> 02:34:30,000 I'm walking beside him, 2848 02:34:30,000 --> 02:34:32,000 and he's walking at his usual pace, 2849 02:34:32,000 --> 02:34:35,000 and I'm not in my running shoes and high heels or whatever, 2850 02:34:35,000 --> 02:34:39,000 and I'm like, just trying to keep up to him. 2851 02:34:39,000 --> 02:34:41,000 I said, Bob, what's the hurry? 2852 02:34:41,000 --> 02:34:43,000 And he said, oh, he says, I'm sorry. 2853 02:34:43,000 --> 02:34:45,000 He said, I'm just so excited. 2854 02:34:45,000 --> 02:34:47,000 And I said, what are you excited about? 2855 02:34:47,000 --> 02:34:49,000 He said, the seminar. 2856 02:34:49,000 --> 02:34:51,000 I say, well, you're delivering it. 2857 02:34:51,000 --> 02:34:55,000 He goes, yeah, I know, but as I speak it, I hear it. 2858 02:34:55,000 --> 02:35:01,000 So it's resonating with me again and again and again. 2859 02:35:01,000 --> 02:35:03,000 It's resonating more and more and more. 2860 02:35:03,000 --> 02:35:05,000 The more you get exposed to it. 2861 02:35:05,000 --> 02:35:07,000 You see, you're a different person today 2862 02:35:07,000 --> 02:35:09,000 than you were yesterday. 2863 02:35:09,000 --> 02:35:14,000 I'm a different person to who I was a year ago, 10 years ago. 2864 02:35:14,000 --> 02:35:18,000 But it's only when we seek to have that level of understanding 2865 02:35:18,000 --> 02:35:21,000 and we apply it, we've got to apply it. 2866 02:35:21,000 --> 02:35:23,000 So this morning there were certain points 2867 02:35:23,000 --> 02:35:25,000 that really resonated with me, 2868 02:35:25,000 --> 02:35:28,000 and I've heard this before many, many times. 2869 02:35:28,000 --> 02:35:32,000 What I'd love to hear from you is what was it this morning? 2870 02:35:32,000 --> 02:35:33,000 We're going to go around the room. 2871 02:35:33,000 --> 02:35:35,000 I want to have some sharing going on. 2872 02:35:35,000 --> 02:35:39,000 What was it this morning that really either woke you up, 2873 02:35:39,000 --> 02:35:41,000 resonated with you, 2874 02:35:41,000 --> 02:35:44,000 there was something that just really clicked within you, 2875 02:35:44,000 --> 02:35:48,000 perhaps you even made a decision? 2876 02:35:48,000 --> 02:35:50,000 While Bob was speaking this morning, 2877 02:35:50,000 --> 02:35:52,000 I'd love to have some of you share. 2878 02:35:52,000 --> 02:35:54,000 By the way, we've got a lot of young people in the room. 2879 02:35:54,000 --> 02:35:59,000 If you are younger than 21, would you please stand up? 2880 02:35:59,000 --> 02:36:01,000 Nice one, Rachel. 2881 02:36:01,000 --> 02:36:02,000 I like that. 2882 02:36:02,000 --> 02:36:03,000 Younger than 21, stand up. 2883 02:36:03,000 --> 02:36:05,000 Don't be shy. 2884 02:36:05,000 --> 02:36:07,000 Nice Cathy Lee. 2885 02:36:09,000 --> 02:36:11,000 Beautiful. 2886 02:36:11,000 --> 02:36:13,000 That's amazing. 2887 02:36:13,000 --> 02:36:15,000 I really commend you for being here. 2888 02:36:15,000 --> 02:36:16,000 I really commend you. 2889 02:36:16,000 --> 02:36:19,000 It's amazing that you're here. 2890 02:36:19,000 --> 02:36:22,000 All right, so who would like to share first? 2891 02:36:22,000 --> 02:36:24,000 Perfect. I'm going to head down to you. 2892 02:36:24,000 --> 02:36:31,000 Jeff Levine from Scottsdale, Arizona. 2893 02:36:31,000 --> 02:36:37,000 What we really have to understand is what Bob says, 2894 02:36:37,000 --> 02:36:39,000 and he keeps saying it. 2895 02:36:39,000 --> 02:36:45,000 What do you really, and I mean really, really, really want? 2896 02:36:45,000 --> 02:36:49,000 And most people don't take the time to do that, 2897 02:36:49,000 --> 02:36:51,000 but they also don't understand 2898 02:36:51,000 --> 02:36:57,000 that once you do, the universe gives you all the direction you need. 2899 02:36:57,000 --> 02:36:59,000 It opens doors. 2900 02:36:59,000 --> 02:37:01,000 You don't need to know how. 2901 02:37:01,000 --> 02:37:04,000 But how have we been programmed? 2902 02:37:04,000 --> 02:37:06,000 We need to know now. 2903 02:37:06,000 --> 02:37:08,000 Thank you, Jeff. 2904 02:37:08,000 --> 02:37:09,000 That's awesome. 2905 02:37:09,000 --> 02:37:10,000 Very good. 2906 02:37:10,000 --> 02:37:11,000 Thank you, Jeff. 2907 02:37:11,000 --> 02:37:12,000 Who else? 2908 02:37:12,000 --> 02:37:14,000 Right over here. 2909 02:37:15,000 --> 02:37:16,000 Who else? 2910 02:37:16,000 --> 02:37:18,000 Right over here. 2911 02:37:22,000 --> 02:37:25,000 Right in front of everybody. 2912 02:37:25,000 --> 02:37:27,000 I want to show it to you. 2913 02:37:27,000 --> 02:37:29,000 See right there? 2914 02:37:29,000 --> 02:37:31,000 It's my signature. 2915 02:37:31,000 --> 02:37:36,000 And it says, I will do anything Bob Proctor tells me to do. 2916 02:37:36,000 --> 02:37:38,000 Excellent, Steve. 2917 02:37:38,000 --> 02:37:40,000 Congratulations. 2918 02:37:41,000 --> 02:37:44,000 Hi, my name is Seema, 2919 02:37:44,000 --> 02:37:50,000 and I'm studying Bob Proctor teaching for two and a half years. 2920 02:37:50,000 --> 02:37:55,000 And the most important thing is I think I learned to go out of my comfort zone. 2921 02:37:55,000 --> 02:37:59,000 It was a huge terror barrier, so I'm very glad I do. 2922 02:37:59,000 --> 02:38:02,000 And that's never-ending process. 2923 02:38:02,000 --> 02:38:04,000 Thank you, Seema. 2924 02:38:04,000 --> 02:38:05,000 That was great. 2925 02:38:05,000 --> 02:38:06,000 Great lesson. 2926 02:38:06,000 --> 02:38:08,000 Yes, please. 2927 02:38:10,000 --> 02:38:11,000 Hey, guys. 2928 02:38:11,000 --> 02:38:12,000 So I have her in here. 2929 02:38:12,000 --> 02:38:14,000 If you hesitate, the decision fades. 2930 02:38:14,000 --> 02:38:15,000 Then the goal fades. 2931 02:38:15,000 --> 02:38:16,000 I added this. 2932 02:38:16,000 --> 02:38:18,000 And then the dream dies. 2933 02:38:18,000 --> 02:38:20,000 I wrote that because it's all about opportunity. 2934 02:38:20,000 --> 02:38:23,000 You only have a few moments, and you have to act. 2935 02:38:23,000 --> 02:38:24,000 Love that. 2936 02:38:24,000 --> 02:38:26,000 Thank you so much. 2937 02:38:29,000 --> 02:38:32,000 So I actually heard Peggy talk about this this morning, 2938 02:38:32,000 --> 02:38:37,000 but one of the greatest gifts I think that I've received from listening to Bob 2939 02:38:37,000 --> 02:38:42,000 is not only a license to study, but repetition is key. 2940 02:38:42,000 --> 02:38:44,000 And it's something I knew inherently, 2941 02:38:44,000 --> 02:38:47,000 but hearing it from somebody else, it's really sunk in 2942 02:38:47,000 --> 02:38:49,000 and it's made a huge difference in my life. 2943 02:38:49,000 --> 02:38:50,000 Thank you. 2944 02:38:50,000 --> 02:38:52,000 Thank you so much. 2945 02:38:56,000 --> 02:38:58,000 Love your enthusiasm. 2946 02:38:58,000 --> 02:39:00,000 Hi, my name is Takesha Wilson. 2947 02:39:00,000 --> 02:39:04,000 And what stood out to me was it's not who you are that holds you back. 2948 02:39:04,000 --> 02:39:06,000 It's who you think you are not. 2949 02:39:06,000 --> 02:39:07,000 And that is powerful. 2950 02:39:07,000 --> 02:39:08,000 That resonated with me. 2951 02:39:08,000 --> 02:39:09,000 Thank you. 2952 02:39:09,000 --> 02:39:10,000 Thank you. 2953 02:39:10,000 --> 02:39:11,000 I love that. 2954 02:39:11,000 --> 02:39:12,000 Thank you. 2955 02:39:17,000 --> 02:39:19,000 Hi, I'm AJ Worth from Toronto. 2956 02:39:19,000 --> 02:39:22,000 And the greatest point here, 2957 02:39:22,000 --> 02:39:26,000 I am the writer, producer, director, and star in my life. 2958 02:39:26,000 --> 02:39:28,000 Wow. 2959 02:39:28,000 --> 02:39:29,000 Thank you. 2960 02:39:29,000 --> 02:39:30,000 Thank you. 2961 02:39:33,000 --> 02:39:37,000 Hi, I'm Fiana Brown from Utah by way of Tonga. 2962 02:39:37,000 --> 02:39:40,000 What really stuck out to me, and I'm going to paraphrase this, 2963 02:39:40,000 --> 02:39:44,000 is he says somebody else's success is proof positive 2964 02:39:44,000 --> 02:39:46,000 that I too can have at the same thing. 2965 02:39:46,000 --> 02:39:48,000 So true. 2966 02:39:48,000 --> 02:39:50,000 That was great. 2967 02:39:52,000 --> 02:39:54,000 Hi, my name is Danielle. 2968 02:39:54,000 --> 02:39:58,000 What stood out to me is my paradigm is costing me money, 2969 02:39:58,000 --> 02:40:00,000 and I can always be doing better. 2970 02:40:02,000 --> 02:40:03,000 That's true. 2971 02:40:03,000 --> 02:40:04,000 It's very true. 2972 02:40:04,000 --> 02:40:06,000 It's costing all of us money no matter how much we have. 2973 02:40:12,000 --> 02:40:14,000 Hi, my name is Joan and I'm from Texas. 2974 02:40:14,000 --> 02:40:19,000 And the point that resonated with me was to create your own economy. 2975 02:40:19,000 --> 02:40:21,000 I'm fixing to be a retired school teacher. 2976 02:40:21,000 --> 02:40:24,000 A helicopter has come down on the football field 2977 02:40:24,000 --> 02:40:26,000 to take me up out of the muck and mire, 2978 02:40:26,000 --> 02:40:29,000 and I will change the educational world 2979 02:40:29,000 --> 02:40:32,000 to think as a paradigm shift. 2980 02:40:43,000 --> 02:40:45,000 Hi, I'm Victoria Winters. 2981 02:40:45,000 --> 02:40:47,000 Peggy is my mentor. 2982 02:40:47,000 --> 02:40:51,000 And what resonated with me today that Bob said 2983 02:40:51,000 --> 02:40:55,000 is to know where you are and to know where you want to go. 2984 02:40:55,000 --> 02:40:58,000 But when you know where you are, it's a feeling. 2985 02:40:58,000 --> 02:41:02,000 And I feel where I'm going. 2986 02:41:02,000 --> 02:41:04,000 And that's what I got out of this today. 2987 02:41:04,000 --> 02:41:05,000 Thank you. 2988 02:41:05,000 --> 02:41:06,000 I love that. 2989 02:41:06,000 --> 02:41:07,000 Thanks, Victoria. 2990 02:41:12,000 --> 02:41:14,000 Hey, I'm Jada. 2991 02:41:14,000 --> 02:41:17,000 And what stood out to me is when he said 2992 02:41:17,000 --> 02:41:20,000 he didn't talk to his employees about work. 2993 02:41:20,000 --> 02:41:23,000 He would not talk to them about work. 2994 02:41:23,000 --> 02:41:25,000 He would only talk to them about what they wanted 2995 02:41:25,000 --> 02:41:27,000 to change their paradigm. 2996 02:41:27,000 --> 02:41:30,000 So I'm immediately applying that. 2997 02:41:30,000 --> 02:41:32,000 That's a great message. 2998 02:41:32,000 --> 02:41:35,000 Thank you. 2999 02:41:35,000 --> 02:41:38,000 What really stood out to me the most was the belief level 3000 02:41:38,000 --> 02:41:41,000 that he had for somebody just by the fact somebody believes in you. 3001 02:41:41,000 --> 02:41:43,000 Then it can be possible, so. 3002 02:41:49,000 --> 02:41:51,000 Hi, my name is Jay. 3003 02:41:51,000 --> 02:41:56,000 What immediately stood out to me was about what I really wanted. 3004 02:41:56,000 --> 02:41:59,000 For so long, I had been playing really small in my life. 3005 02:41:59,000 --> 02:42:02,000 My family has told me to play really small and be small. 3006 02:42:02,000 --> 02:42:05,000 And I decided to write here, I want to jump off the deck 3007 02:42:05,000 --> 02:42:08,000 of my own private island property. 3008 02:42:08,000 --> 02:42:13,000 I fly myself and my family there with my own private jet. 3009 02:42:13,000 --> 02:42:15,000 And I'm not settling for less. 3010 02:42:21,000 --> 02:42:23,000 Hey, my name is Jay. 3011 02:42:23,000 --> 02:42:27,000 And what really stood out to me is very similar to what Keisha said. 3012 02:42:27,000 --> 02:42:29,000 I think that was her name. 3013 02:42:29,000 --> 02:42:31,000 It's not who you are, what holds you back. 3014 02:42:31,000 --> 02:42:33,000 It's who you think you're not. 3015 02:42:33,000 --> 02:42:36,000 And to add on to that, I think what else holds us back 3016 02:42:36,000 --> 02:42:39,000 is pretty much that we're constantly comparing ourselves. 3017 02:42:39,000 --> 02:42:42,000 And by constantly comparing ourselves to other people, 3018 02:42:42,000 --> 02:42:46,000 we don't find out our own gifts that we truly have. 3019 02:42:46,000 --> 02:42:50,000 So that's another shackle that holds us back as well, too. 3020 02:42:50,000 --> 02:42:53,000 So that whole little quote made me think about that, too, 3021 02:42:53,000 --> 02:42:57,000 about the times where in my business where I was suffering the most 3022 02:42:57,000 --> 02:43:00,000 or when my business took a tank is because I was comparing myself 3023 02:43:00,000 --> 02:43:03,000 to competition and I was just trying to always do what they were doing. 3024 02:43:03,000 --> 02:43:07,000 And that left the path that which made us grew super, super fast. 3025 02:43:07,000 --> 02:43:09,000 So that was a huge takeaway for me. 3026 02:43:09,000 --> 02:43:12,000 Bob, that was great. Thank you, Jay. 3027 02:43:16,000 --> 02:43:20,000 Hi, my name is Brianna Aria from Sacramento, California. 3028 02:43:20,000 --> 02:43:24,000 And the thing that really inspired me the most 3029 02:43:24,000 --> 02:43:28,000 is when Bob said what's going on outside of you 3030 02:43:28,000 --> 02:43:32,000 is a reflection of what's going on inside of you. 3031 02:43:32,000 --> 02:43:35,000 And I think that's something that we tend to forget 3032 02:43:35,000 --> 02:43:39,000 because we want to blame other people for our problems 3033 02:43:39,000 --> 02:43:42,000 when really we're in control the most. 3034 02:43:42,000 --> 02:43:45,000 Beautiful. Thank you very much. 3035 02:43:53,000 --> 02:43:56,000 So I listen to the same three people every night when I sleep. 3036 02:43:56,000 --> 02:43:59,000 My mentor, David, Bob Proctor, and then myself. 3037 02:43:59,000 --> 02:44:03,000 And I learned last night when I was sleeping, he said, like, praise. 3038 02:44:03,000 --> 02:44:05,000 You can praise plants and the plants will grow. 3039 02:44:05,000 --> 02:44:07,000 You can praise people and the people will grow. 3040 02:44:07,000 --> 02:44:09,000 And then he said today, he was like, 3041 02:44:09,000 --> 02:44:11,000 the mind is perfect and all things can be cured. 3042 02:44:11,000 --> 02:44:15,000 And you won't see him match his words with saying, oh, I'm losing my mind. 3043 02:44:15,000 --> 02:44:17,000 You'll never see Bob say that. 3044 02:44:17,000 --> 02:44:20,000 But I'll hear people all day long, oh, I'm losing my mind. 3045 02:44:20,000 --> 02:44:23,000 But their words don't match really what you are. 3046 02:44:23,000 --> 02:44:27,000 And I see him and he's like, oh, my gosh, the mind is perfect. 3047 02:44:27,000 --> 02:44:29,000 And I think that's amazing. 3048 02:44:29,000 --> 02:44:31,000 That's what I learned today. 3049 02:44:31,000 --> 02:44:33,000 Thank you, Scotty. 3050 02:44:37,000 --> 02:44:40,000 Hi, I'm Jeff from Pasadena, Texas. 3051 02:44:40,000 --> 02:44:43,000 And one more. 3052 02:44:43,000 --> 02:44:47,000 The thing I got out of it was confidence. 3053 02:44:47,000 --> 02:44:49,000 I didn't realize you could have too much. 3054 02:44:49,000 --> 02:44:52,000 And that has happened quite often in my life. 3055 02:44:52,000 --> 02:44:54,000 I'd have way too much confidence and say, I got this. 3056 02:44:54,000 --> 02:44:55,000 I don't need any help. 3057 02:44:55,000 --> 02:44:56,000 I don't need to study. 3058 02:44:56,000 --> 02:44:57,000 I got it under control. 3059 02:44:57,000 --> 02:45:00,000 And usually it was completely out of control. 3060 02:45:00,000 --> 02:45:01,000 Dangerous place to be. 3061 02:45:01,000 --> 02:45:02,000 Thank you, Jeff. 3062 02:45:02,000 --> 02:45:04,000 Appreciate it. 3063 02:45:07,000 --> 02:45:11,000 The thing that is always โ€“ I'm Kirk from Fort Wayne, Indiana. 3064 02:45:11,000 --> 02:45:15,000 When Bob says there's a power flowing to and through you, 3065 02:45:15,000 --> 02:45:20,000 and you can have, do, be, or make anything out of it that you want. 3066 02:45:20,000 --> 02:45:24,000 And when I listen to that, you think, is that really true? 3067 02:45:24,000 --> 02:45:27,000 There's a power flowing to and through us, 3068 02:45:27,000 --> 02:45:31,000 and you can make it anything you want. 3069 02:45:31,000 --> 02:45:33,000 So that has been my favorite thing. 3070 02:45:33,000 --> 02:45:37,000 I've always heard him say that about that. 3071 02:45:37,000 --> 02:45:39,000 That's great. Thank you. 3072 02:45:43,000 --> 02:45:44,000 Hi, Peggy. 3073 02:45:44,000 --> 02:45:46,000 It's Shabril Wilson from Washington, D.C. 3074 02:45:46,000 --> 02:45:48,000 How you doing? 3075 02:45:48,000 --> 02:45:51,000 The key thing that I learned is to shift my thinking 3076 02:45:51,000 --> 02:45:58,000 and to create a new model to make the old model obsolete. 3077 02:45:58,000 --> 02:46:00,000 I'm ready. 3078 02:46:00,000 --> 02:46:02,000 You sound ready. 3079 02:46:02,000 --> 02:46:04,000 Thank you. 3080 02:46:08,000 --> 02:46:11,000 I'm Richard Lovejoy from Sonoma, California. 3081 02:46:11,000 --> 02:46:14,000 What stood out to me isn't so much what Bob said, 3082 02:46:14,000 --> 02:46:17,000 but the energy with which he delivered it, 3083 02:46:17,000 --> 02:46:20,000 the confidence, the caring, the loving, 3084 02:46:20,000 --> 02:46:25,000 and that to me is where I want to be in that energy 3085 02:46:25,000 --> 02:46:30,000 so I can move forward and do whatever I want to do. 3086 02:46:30,000 --> 02:46:32,000 Thank you, Richard. 3087 02:46:32,000 --> 02:46:34,000 You know, what Richard just said reminded me, 3088 02:46:34,000 --> 02:46:36,000 Bob and I were having a meeting with Anders. 3089 02:46:36,000 --> 02:46:38,000 We were sitting in his living room. 3090 02:46:38,000 --> 02:46:41,000 This was a few months ago, and I was saying to Bob, 3091 02:46:41,000 --> 02:46:44,000 I said, Bob, you know, 40 years ago when I saw you speak, 3092 02:46:44,000 --> 02:46:46,000 he was just as good as he is today. 3093 02:46:46,000 --> 02:46:48,000 I mean, so powerful. 3094 02:46:48,000 --> 02:46:52,000 And I said, how was it that you were so powerful in your delivery? 3095 02:46:52,000 --> 02:46:55,000 And he thought about it for a minute, and he said, 3096 02:46:55,000 --> 02:47:00,000 it's because I was in the spirit of the information. 3097 02:47:00,000 --> 02:47:02,000 And that's what happens for Bob. 3098 02:47:02,000 --> 02:47:04,000 He gets on stage and he's the spirit, 3099 02:47:04,000 --> 02:47:06,000 but he knows this information. 3100 02:47:06,000 --> 02:47:08,000 And he said this morning, it's not an ego thing. 3101 02:47:08,000 --> 02:47:10,000 It's not an arrogant thing. 3102 02:47:10,000 --> 02:47:13,000 He knows these materials better than any other living human being, 3103 02:47:13,000 --> 02:47:15,000 and he's the best on the planet. 3104 02:47:15,000 --> 02:47:18,000 And we are all so blessed to be here with him. 3105 02:47:18,000 --> 02:47:19,000 Thank you, Richard. 3106 02:47:19,000 --> 02:47:31,000 I think what resonated the most with me was when Bob was talking about, 3107 02:47:31,000 --> 02:47:37,000 he presented kind of an analogy or story of telling a dad 3108 02:47:37,000 --> 02:47:41,000 that he's changing the paradigm of the family lineage. 3109 02:47:41,000 --> 02:47:43,000 And I know that's something that I'm doing. 3110 02:47:43,000 --> 02:47:52,000 And yeah, I just feel very concrete in that all the pain and suffering 3111 02:47:52,000 --> 02:47:57,000 that my family has gone through will really end with me. 3112 02:47:57,000 --> 02:48:01,000 And as a result, the whole dynamic of my whole family is changing. 3113 02:48:01,000 --> 02:48:06,000 And I just feel very blessed because five years ago, 3114 02:48:06,000 --> 02:48:12,000 coming across a webinar that I saw Bob Proctor host, 3115 02:48:12,000 --> 02:48:15,000 just like on YouTube or something, 3116 02:48:15,000 --> 02:48:19,000 was the beginning point of me starting on this path. 3117 02:48:19,000 --> 02:48:23,000 And July 1st will be the end of that cycle. 3118 02:48:23,000 --> 02:48:26,000 And so it's really important for me to make it here 3119 02:48:26,000 --> 02:48:31,000 and just present my gratitude to him for starting me on this path 3120 02:48:31,000 --> 02:48:34,000 of changing the paradigm of my lineage. 3121 02:48:34,000 --> 02:48:36,000 Thank you. 3122 02:48:48,000 --> 02:48:51,000 Morena Rodriguez from Rialto, California. 3123 02:48:51,000 --> 02:48:55,000 And what Bob has empowered me the most is when he says that 3124 02:48:55,000 --> 02:48:59,000 we are God's highest form of creation. 3125 02:48:59,000 --> 02:49:02,000 We have been born with everything that we need 3126 02:49:02,000 --> 02:49:05,000 and we know that the universe has unlimited resources. 3127 02:49:05,000 --> 02:49:08,000 Therefore, what we have to do is know what we want. 3128 02:49:08,000 --> 02:49:10,000 Don't worry about the how. 3129 02:49:10,000 --> 02:49:14,000 The how will come because we will have this perfect frequency. 3130 02:49:14,000 --> 02:49:18,000 We are going to be vibrating with what we think we want 3131 02:49:18,000 --> 02:49:21,000 because our thoughts become what we are. 3132 02:49:21,000 --> 02:49:25,000 My job, and I'm grateful for this amazing opportunity, 3133 02:49:25,000 --> 02:49:30,000 my job as a teacher is now to stop domesticating my students 3134 02:49:30,000 --> 02:49:32,000 and making them aware. 3135 02:49:32,000 --> 02:49:36,000 If I plant that seed in them, I know it's going to germinate. 3136 02:49:36,000 --> 02:49:39,000 Something is going to be created by it. 3137 02:49:39,000 --> 02:49:43,000 So by doing this and attending and reading and also, of course, 3138 02:49:43,000 --> 02:49:47,000 in his books, he is empowering, he's giving us the strategies, 3139 02:49:47,000 --> 02:49:50,000 the tools, and we need to know that everything is inside us. 3140 02:49:50,000 --> 02:49:54,000 We are the creator highest form. 3141 02:49:54,000 --> 02:49:56,000 So thank you. 3142 02:49:57,000 --> 02:50:00,000 All right, let's do a couple more. 3143 02:50:03,000 --> 02:50:06,000 Hello, Paloma from Mexico. 3144 02:50:06,000 --> 02:50:11,000 Well, I was here last year, 3145 02:50:11,000 --> 02:50:17,000 and just what you said about how we listen to the same information, 3146 02:50:17,000 --> 02:50:22,000 but we change, it's like being again here just reminds me 3147 02:50:22,000 --> 02:50:27,000 how much I need to be learning, like always be so conscious. 3148 02:50:27,000 --> 02:50:31,000 And just like everybody, what they were saying was like, 3149 02:50:31,000 --> 02:50:36,000 wow, that's what I need to go to the next level. 3150 02:50:36,000 --> 02:50:39,000 And something that really stayed in my mind also was 3151 02:50:39,000 --> 02:50:44,000 being with the wrong people is going to take you to the wrong place. 3152 02:50:47,000 --> 02:50:48,000 Yes. 3153 02:50:48,000 --> 02:50:50,000 I was wondering if anyone was going to say that, actually. 3154 02:50:50,000 --> 02:50:52,000 I was going to repeat it if you hadn't, and it's true, 3155 02:50:52,000 --> 02:50:56,000 but we're in the right place with the right people right here. 3156 02:50:57,000 --> 02:50:58,000 Thank you. 3157 02:50:58,000 --> 02:51:00,000 Ebony Austin from Atlanta, Georgia. 3158 02:51:00,000 --> 02:51:07,000 And what really resonated with me is that successful people 3159 02:51:07,000 --> 02:51:11,000 know exactly what they want and they make decisions so fast. 3160 02:51:11,000 --> 02:51:15,000 And the reason why they're so successful is because they don't waste time 3161 02:51:15,000 --> 02:51:19,000 in doing things that don't align with what they want. 3162 02:51:19,000 --> 02:51:21,000 That was big for me. 3163 02:51:21,000 --> 02:51:22,000 That's awesome, Ebony. 3164 02:51:22,000 --> 02:51:24,000 I really love that. 3165 02:51:24,000 --> 02:51:25,000 I appreciate that. 3166 02:51:25,000 --> 02:51:28,000 Okay, we're going to hear from Annie, and then we'll go to our next part. 3167 02:51:33,000 --> 02:51:35,000 Hi, my name is Annie, and I live in New York. 3168 02:51:35,000 --> 02:51:42,000 And the biggest thing I got from this is to be the director in my own movie 3169 02:51:42,000 --> 02:51:45,000 and ask myself what I really want. 3170 02:51:45,000 --> 02:51:49,000 And I was sitting here today, and in the fall of last year, 3171 02:51:49,000 --> 02:51:51,000 I was listening to The Paradigm Shift at home. 3172 02:51:51,000 --> 02:51:53,000 I was new to Bob Proctor. 3173 02:51:53,000 --> 02:51:56,000 And he asked, what do you want? 3174 02:51:56,000 --> 02:52:02,000 And I have a lot of goals, a lot of dreams, and none of that came to mind. 3175 02:52:02,000 --> 02:52:05,000 And it came, I want to go to The Matrix, 3176 02:52:05,000 --> 02:52:10,000 because I wanted somebody to help me take control of my life. 3177 02:52:10,000 --> 02:52:13,000 I just said, do this. 3178 02:52:13,000 --> 02:52:24,000 So it didn't go, and three weeks ago, it came up again, The Matrix, The Matrix. 3179 02:52:24,000 --> 02:52:29,000 I'm sitting in this chair, and I made the decision, 3180 02:52:29,000 --> 02:52:33,000 I am going to be in The Matrix by the end of this year. 3181 02:52:33,000 --> 02:52:41,000 And taking a step like that is just so big for me, but it's my life. 3182 02:52:41,000 --> 02:52:46,000 And if I don't take control of it, nobody's going to do it for me. 3183 02:52:46,000 --> 02:52:50,000 So it was really big. Thank you. 3184 02:52:50,000 --> 02:52:55,000 Awesome. 3185 02:52:55,000 --> 02:52:58,000 You know, Annie mentioned an event called The Matrix. 3186 02:52:58,000 --> 02:53:00,000 It's an event that Proctor Gallagher puts on. 3187 02:53:00,000 --> 02:53:02,000 You're going to hear a little bit more about it. 3188 02:53:02,000 --> 02:53:05,000 And I would absolutely recommend everyone go to The Matrix. 3189 02:53:05,000 --> 02:53:08,000 And if you've been before, go again. 3190 02:53:08,000 --> 02:53:11,000 There's a gentleman that's quite often come to these seminars, 3191 02:53:11,000 --> 02:53:13,000 the weekend events, by the name of Matt. 3192 02:53:13,000 --> 02:53:16,000 He lives in Calgary, Alberta. 3193 02:53:16,000 --> 02:53:20,000 And he has been to several Matrixes, I believe seven in total. 3194 02:53:20,000 --> 02:53:24,000 And Bob asked him one time, Matt, why do you keep coming back? 3195 02:53:24,000 --> 02:53:31,000 And he said, because every time, my results get better and better and better. 3196 02:53:31,000 --> 02:53:35,000 So you want to be in the study and stay in the study 3197 02:53:35,000 --> 02:53:40,000 if you want your results to get better and better and better. 3198 02:53:40,000 --> 02:53:42,000 You know, when Bob was talking this morning about paradigms, 3199 02:53:42,000 --> 02:53:45,000 I was thinking about a story that he told many, many years ago. 3200 02:53:45,000 --> 02:53:48,000 And I know Gina's familiar with it because it's an old story. 3201 02:53:48,000 --> 02:53:49,000 And the story goes like this. 3202 02:53:49,000 --> 02:53:55,000 One time, Linda, his wife, was cooking a dinner, and she had a ham. 3203 02:53:55,000 --> 02:53:58,000 And she took the ham out of the package, and she chopped one end off. 3204 02:53:58,000 --> 02:54:01,000 She turned the ham around, and she chopped the other end off, 3205 02:54:01,000 --> 02:54:04,000 put it in the pan, put it in the oven, and cooked it. 3206 02:54:04,000 --> 02:54:06,000 And this happened on another occasion. 3207 02:54:06,000 --> 02:54:08,000 Months down the road, they're having ham again. 3208 02:54:08,000 --> 02:54:12,000 She buys a big ham from the grocery store, takes it home, takes it out of the package, 3209 02:54:12,000 --> 02:54:15,000 chops one end off, turns it around, chops the other end off, 3210 02:54:15,000 --> 02:54:17,000 puts it in the pan, puts it in the oven. 3211 02:54:17,000 --> 02:54:19,000 And Bob was wondering, why do you do that? 3212 02:54:19,000 --> 02:54:22,000 So he asked her, he said, Linda, why do you do that? 3213 02:54:22,000 --> 02:54:24,000 Why do you take the ham and cut one end off, turn it around, 3214 02:54:24,000 --> 02:54:26,000 cut the other end off, and throw it in the oven? 3215 02:54:26,000 --> 02:54:31,000 She says, honestly, I don't know. That's the way my mother did it. 3216 02:54:32,000 --> 02:54:35,000 So it made her think. I wonder why my mother did it that way. 3217 02:54:35,000 --> 02:54:39,000 So Linda went to her mother and said, Mom, you know, I remember when I was younger 3218 02:54:39,000 --> 02:54:42,000 and you used to cook these hams, you would buy the ham from the grocery store, 3219 02:54:42,000 --> 02:54:44,000 take it home, take it out of the package, chop one end off, 3220 02:54:44,000 --> 02:54:47,000 turn it around, chop the other end off, and put it in the pan. 3221 02:54:47,000 --> 02:54:49,000 Why did you do that? 3222 02:54:49,000 --> 02:54:53,000 She says, I don't know. That's the way my mom did it. 3223 02:54:53,000 --> 02:54:58,000 So she went to Grandma and says, Grandma, I was talking to my mom about this ham. 3224 02:54:58,000 --> 02:55:01,000 You know, I take a ham, I bring it home, I chop off one end, 3225 02:55:01,000 --> 02:55:03,000 turn it around, chop off the other end, put it in the oven, I cook it. 3226 02:55:03,000 --> 02:55:05,000 And my mom does the same thing. 3227 02:55:05,000 --> 02:55:08,000 Oh, Grandma, I understand that my mom learned that from you. Why? 3228 02:55:08,000 --> 02:55:10,000 And she says, well, that's easy, dear. 3229 02:55:10,000 --> 02:55:15,000 She said the pan wasn't big enough for my ham. 3230 02:55:15,000 --> 02:55:18,000 That's why she did it. 3231 02:55:18,000 --> 02:55:23,000 Now, isn't that true with the things that we do, right, over and over again, 3232 02:55:23,000 --> 02:55:26,000 thinking we're doing it the right way, 3233 02:55:26,000 --> 02:55:29,000 or thinking this is the way it should be done? 3234 02:55:29,000 --> 02:55:33,000 You know, this morning when Bob was talking about, what do you really want? 3235 02:55:33,000 --> 02:55:35,000 And you don't have to know how to get it. 3236 02:55:35,000 --> 02:55:38,000 I was thinking about Annick Lavois, who's a friend of mine who's here. 3237 02:55:38,000 --> 02:55:41,000 Annick, can you just stand up for a moment? 3238 02:55:41,000 --> 02:55:44,000 Annick Lavois is from Ottawa, Ontario as well. 3239 02:55:44,000 --> 02:55:48,000 I met her 26 years ago when she started babysitting my son, Michel, 3240 02:55:48,000 --> 02:55:50,000 when he was a baby, and her son was the same age. 3241 02:55:50,000 --> 02:55:53,000 And they've become best friends, and they've been best friends forever. 3242 02:55:53,000 --> 02:55:56,000 And Annick recently went through a number of changes in her life. 3243 02:55:56,000 --> 02:56:00,000 And she had previously owned her own business, 3244 02:56:00,000 --> 02:56:04,000 and the business sort of dissolved for a number of different reasons. 3245 02:56:04,000 --> 02:56:06,000 And she was in a marriage, 3246 02:56:06,000 --> 02:56:09,000 and the marriage dissolved for a number of different reasons. 3247 02:56:09,000 --> 02:56:11,000 So a lot of change in her life. 3248 02:56:11,000 --> 02:56:13,000 And she'd been thinking about, what do I really want? 3249 02:56:13,000 --> 02:56:15,000 And she ended up getting a job. 3250 02:56:15,000 --> 02:56:20,000 And she got a job that was okay, but not really what she wanted. 3251 02:56:20,000 --> 02:56:24,000 And something clicked in her about two weeks ago, 3252 02:56:24,000 --> 02:56:28,000 where she just decided, I don't want to do that job. 3253 02:56:28,000 --> 02:56:31,000 And she called the person that hired her and said, 3254 02:56:31,000 --> 02:56:35,000 I apologize, and thank you for thinking of me, but I'm not taking that job. 3255 02:56:35,000 --> 02:56:39,000 She quit the job before she even started. 3256 02:56:39,000 --> 02:56:41,000 And she didn't know what she was going to do. 3257 02:56:41,000 --> 02:56:43,000 She didn't know how she was going to make money. 3258 02:56:43,000 --> 02:56:46,000 She had no idea, but she had faith, 3259 02:56:46,000 --> 02:56:49,000 absolute complete faith that the perfect thing would come along. 3260 02:56:49,000 --> 02:56:51,000 Last weekend, Annick was at her home in Ottawa. 3261 02:56:51,000 --> 02:56:53,000 We're sitting around the pool having a chat. 3262 02:56:53,000 --> 02:56:55,000 So I said, what do you really want to do? 3263 02:56:55,000 --> 02:56:56,000 She's like, I don't know. 3264 02:56:56,000 --> 02:56:59,000 I really love working with people, and she loves being of service, 3265 02:56:59,000 --> 02:57:01,000 and that's really what she wants to do. 3266 02:57:01,000 --> 02:57:05,000 And it just dawned on me, I need somebody in my business. 3267 02:57:05,000 --> 02:57:07,000 I'd love to have a director of client services. 3268 02:57:07,000 --> 02:57:10,000 I said, would you be willing to work for me part-time? 3269 02:57:10,000 --> 02:57:12,000 And she's like, absolutely. 3270 02:57:12,000 --> 02:57:15,000 She said she'd been thinking about it, but didn't know how to bring it up. 3271 02:57:15,000 --> 02:57:17,000 Anyways, I said, well, how about full-time? 3272 02:57:17,000 --> 02:57:20,000 And she just come on to work with me full-time. 3273 02:57:20,000 --> 02:57:21,000 Full-time. 3274 02:57:21,000 --> 02:57:28,000 Thank you, Annick. 3275 02:57:28,000 --> 02:57:33,000 But why I wanted to share that story with Annick is she made a bold decision 3276 02:57:33,000 --> 02:57:38,000 to quit a job when she had no idea how she was going to make the money. 3277 02:57:38,000 --> 02:57:44,000 She had faith that the perfect thing, the perfect opportunity would come her way. 3278 02:57:44,000 --> 02:57:46,000 And it did. 3279 02:57:46,000 --> 02:57:47,000 And it works. 3280 02:57:47,000 --> 02:57:50,000 What I want to ask you now to do at your tables, 3281 02:57:50,000 --> 02:57:53,000 it's more important what you do with this information. 3282 02:57:53,000 --> 02:57:57,000 I want you to share at the table, what are you going to do with this information? 3283 02:57:57,000 --> 02:58:02,000 What kind of action steps will you take to move forward, to move your life forward 3284 02:58:02,000 --> 02:58:07,000 so you're the Academy Award-winning actor in your life, as Bob talked about, 3285 02:58:07,000 --> 02:58:10,000 rather than being an extra in your own movie? 3286 02:58:10,000 --> 02:58:14,000 So I'd like to take a few minutes, and let's not have one person dominate 3287 02:58:14,000 --> 02:58:18,000 the conversation, really go around the table and have everyone share. 3288 02:58:18,000 --> 02:58:21,000 What will you do with this information moving forward? 3289 02:58:21,000 --> 02:58:24,000 Let's take a few minutes and do that right now. 3290 02:58:44,000 --> 02:58:47,000 Thank you. 3291 02:59:14,000 --> 02:59:17,000 Thank you. 3292 02:59:44,000 --> 02:59:46,000 Thank you. 3293 03:00:14,000 --> 03:00:16,000 Thank you. 3294 03:00:44,000 --> 03:00:47,000 Thank you. 3295 03:01:14,000 --> 03:01:16,000 Thank you. 3296 03:01:44,000 --> 03:01:47,000 Thank you. 3297 03:02:14,000 --> 03:02:16,000 Thank you. 3298 03:02:44,000 --> 03:02:47,000 Thank you. 3299 03:03:14,000 --> 03:03:16,000 Thank you. 3300 03:03:44,000 --> 03:03:46,000 Thank you. 3301 03:04:14,000 --> 03:04:16,000 Thank you. 3302 03:04:44,000 --> 03:04:46,000 Thank you. 3303 03:05:14,000 --> 03:05:16,000 Thank you. 3304 03:05:44,000 --> 03:05:46,000 Thank you. 3305 03:06:14,000 --> 03:06:16,000 Thank you. 3306 03:06:45,000 --> 03:06:48,000 All right, all right. 3307 03:06:48,000 --> 03:06:51,000 All right, can I have your attention, please? 3308 03:06:53,000 --> 03:06:55,000 Excellent. 3309 03:06:55,000 --> 03:06:57,000 Lots of support going on, lots of clapping. 3310 03:06:57,000 --> 03:07:00,000 Okay, we're just going to have a couple of people share 3311 03:07:00,000 --> 03:07:03,000 what they're going to do with this information before we go to lunch, 3312 03:07:03,000 --> 03:07:09,000 and I have a volunteer, Mr. Pascuzzi, is going to start us off. 3313 03:07:10,000 --> 03:07:15,000 Thank you, Peggy, for picking on me. 3314 03:07:15,000 --> 03:07:17,000 I'm going to help. 3315 03:07:17,000 --> 03:07:19,000 I'm going to start working more with my wife, Kelly, 3316 03:07:19,000 --> 03:07:22,000 on teaching this information because I'm very passionate about it, 3317 03:07:22,000 --> 03:07:25,000 and it's phenomenal stuff, so that's what we're going to do. 3318 03:07:25,000 --> 03:07:27,000 All right, Bob. 3319 03:07:27,000 --> 03:07:29,000 That's great. 3320 03:07:33,000 --> 03:07:35,000 Peggy, how are you doing? 3321 03:07:35,000 --> 03:07:37,000 My name is Guillermo. 3322 03:07:37,000 --> 03:07:42,000 So today I really made a decision to create applications 3323 03:07:42,000 --> 03:07:44,000 that share this information, 3324 03:07:44,000 --> 03:07:49,000 and I would love to share that and pitch that to Bob today. 3325 03:07:49,000 --> 03:07:51,000 Yeah. 3326 03:07:51,000 --> 03:07:53,000 We want... 3327 03:07:53,000 --> 03:07:55,000 Yes, yes. 3328 03:07:55,000 --> 03:08:00,000 So basically, Android, iOS, wearables, you name it, 3329 03:08:00,000 --> 03:08:02,000 I really want to pitch this, 3330 03:08:02,000 --> 03:08:04,000 and I'm very passionate about getting this out to Bob, 3331 03:08:04,000 --> 03:08:06,000 and, well, hopefully he's looking at me. 3332 03:08:06,000 --> 03:08:08,000 There you go. 3333 03:08:08,000 --> 03:08:10,000 Wonderful. 3334 03:08:10,000 --> 03:08:12,000 Thank you. 3335 03:08:16,000 --> 03:08:19,000 What I learned today is what I really want, 3336 03:08:19,000 --> 03:08:23,000 and I've never allowed myself to go deeper, 3337 03:08:23,000 --> 03:08:27,000 and tonight I'm going to go very deep, 3338 03:08:27,000 --> 03:08:31,000 and I'm not going to stop until it gets deeper, 3339 03:08:31,000 --> 03:08:33,000 and then tomorrow, the same thing. 3340 03:08:33,000 --> 03:08:36,000 We can learn every day and make it happen. 3341 03:08:36,000 --> 03:08:39,000 When you are clear, 3342 03:08:39,000 --> 03:08:42,000 the life that you want is right around the corner. 3343 03:08:42,000 --> 03:08:44,000 It's already... 3344 03:08:44,000 --> 03:08:46,000 Thank you, Peggy. 3345 03:08:46,000 --> 03:08:49,000 What you need to know, everything is already here for you. 3346 03:08:49,000 --> 03:08:54,000 So go make a nice commitment to really what you want, 3347 03:08:54,000 --> 03:08:57,000 get clear, and it's already here. 3348 03:08:57,000 --> 03:08:59,000 How much love for that is there. 3349 03:08:59,000 --> 03:09:01,000 Thank you for what you do, 3350 03:09:01,000 --> 03:09:04,000 and I didn't get a chance to share that Bob and you, 3351 03:09:04,000 --> 03:09:06,000 together on the stage, 3352 03:09:06,000 --> 03:09:10,000 you are the best two I've ever heard before in my life, 3353 03:09:10,000 --> 03:09:12,000 and I've heard a lot. 3354 03:09:16,000 --> 03:09:18,000 Thank you. 3355 03:09:18,000 --> 03:09:20,000 I paid him 20 bucks to say that. 3356 03:09:22,000 --> 03:09:24,000 So what I'm going to start applying to my life 3357 03:09:24,000 --> 03:09:30,000 is definitely speak how Bob spoke to the lady over there, 3358 03:09:30,000 --> 03:09:32,000 how he spoke directly, 3359 03:09:32,000 --> 03:09:34,000 that you can get things done. 3360 03:09:34,000 --> 03:09:36,000 I believe in you and you can do it. 3361 03:09:36,000 --> 03:09:38,000 So I'm going to start implementing that 3362 03:09:38,000 --> 03:09:40,000 and start making that decision right now 3363 03:09:40,000 --> 03:09:42,000 and apply it in the long run. 3364 03:09:44,000 --> 03:09:46,000 I love that. 3365 03:09:46,000 --> 03:09:48,000 All right, we're going to have one more. 3366 03:09:50,000 --> 03:09:53,000 So the first thing I'm going to do when I get home 3367 03:09:53,000 --> 03:09:56,000 is all those automatic things that don't serve me, 3368 03:09:56,000 --> 03:09:58,000 they got to go, Peggy. 3369 03:09:58,000 --> 03:10:00,000 Stay out of here, Peggy. 3370 03:10:00,000 --> 03:10:02,000 And I love your energy, by the way. 3371 03:10:02,000 --> 03:10:04,000 Bless you. 3372 03:10:04,000 --> 03:10:06,000 Thank you. That's awesome. 3373 03:10:08,000 --> 03:10:10,000 No more. 3374 03:10:10,000 --> 03:10:12,000 Is anyone else feeling that on my way to the stage? 3375 03:10:12,000 --> 03:10:14,000 I'm going to stop and hear from you. 3376 03:10:18,000 --> 03:10:20,000 Listen, I just want to say, my name is Jewel. 3377 03:10:20,000 --> 03:10:22,000 I'm from New York City. 3378 03:10:22,000 --> 03:10:24,000 You're doing an amazing job. 3379 03:10:24,000 --> 03:10:26,000 Love it, love it. 3380 03:10:26,000 --> 03:10:28,000 I just want to respectfully say 3381 03:10:28,000 --> 03:10:30,000 thank you, Mr. David Imonite. 3382 03:10:30,000 --> 03:10:32,000 You are the man. 3383 03:10:32,000 --> 03:10:34,000 My mentor. 3384 03:10:34,000 --> 03:10:36,000 Thank you, Rudy Bolsty. 3385 03:10:36,000 --> 03:10:38,000 Thank you for giving me the opportunity to be here. 3386 03:10:38,000 --> 03:10:40,000 I'm so super excited. 3387 03:10:40,000 --> 03:10:42,000 I'm like, so wide awake right now. 3388 03:10:42,000 --> 03:10:44,000 Like, yes, let's go. 3389 03:10:44,000 --> 03:10:46,000 I mean, overall, from what we got from the table 3390 03:10:46,000 --> 03:10:48,000 is learning to have people serve us, 3391 03:10:48,000 --> 03:10:50,000 learning to have acts for help, 3392 03:10:50,000 --> 03:10:52,000 stretching myself from my goals 3393 03:10:52,000 --> 03:10:54,000 and just going for it. 3394 03:10:54,000 --> 03:10:56,000 I'm going to stop my limitations 3395 03:10:56,000 --> 03:10:58,000 and stop enslaving myself 3396 03:10:58,000 --> 03:11:00,000 so my children aren't enslaved 3397 03:11:00,000 --> 03:11:02,000 to whatever bad habits I have. 3398 03:11:02,000 --> 03:11:04,000 So, yes, thank you, everybody. 3399 03:11:04,000 --> 03:11:06,000 Thank you, Peggy. 3400 03:11:06,000 --> 03:11:08,000 Thank you so much. 3401 03:11:08,000 --> 03:11:10,000 Beautifully said. I love that. 3402 03:11:10,000 --> 03:11:12,000 All right. 3403 03:11:12,000 --> 03:11:14,000 Okay, and we're only like partially through the weekend. 3404 03:11:14,000 --> 03:11:16,000 Isn't it been an incredible morning? 3405 03:11:16,000 --> 03:11:18,000 Absolutely. 3406 03:11:18,000 --> 03:11:20,000 Already feeling life-changing? 3407 03:11:20,000 --> 03:11:22,000 Definitely. 3408 03:11:22,000 --> 03:11:24,000 Let's hear it from the fabulous Gina Hayden. 3409 03:11:30,000 --> 03:11:32,000 Okay, all y'all. 3410 03:11:34,000 --> 03:11:36,000 Can you put your stuff on your chairs? 3411 03:11:36,000 --> 03:11:38,000 Now, VIP are going to go out 3412 03:11:38,000 --> 03:11:40,000 that first exit door 3413 03:11:40,000 --> 03:11:42,000 right across the hall 3414 03:11:42,000 --> 03:11:44,000 into the Redondo. 3415 03:11:44,000 --> 03:11:46,000 There are three ballrooms. 3416 03:11:46,000 --> 03:11:48,000 Not the first one, but the second three. 3417 03:11:48,000 --> 03:11:50,000 And we have lunch planned for you. 3418 03:11:50,000 --> 03:11:52,000 For you who are on your own for lunch, 3419 03:11:52,000 --> 03:11:54,000 the restaurant has prepared 3420 03:11:54,000 --> 03:11:56,000 a buffet at a discounted price. 3421 03:11:56,000 --> 03:11:58,000 It's got some great stuff on there, 3422 03:11:58,000 --> 03:12:00,000 so I'd encourage you to go in there. 3423 03:12:00,000 --> 03:12:02,000 Put your stuff on your seats. 3424 03:12:02,000 --> 03:12:04,000 We'll clean it up. 3425 03:12:04,000 --> 03:12:06,000 We're going to come back at 2 p.m. 3426 03:12:06,000 --> 03:12:08,000 Have a good lunch. 3427 03:12:08,000 --> 03:12:10,000 All right, everyone. 3428 03:12:10,000 --> 03:12:12,000 Welcome back to Coach's Corner. 3429 03:12:12,000 --> 03:12:14,000 And this time I have Bill Banta joining me. 3430 03:12:14,000 --> 03:12:16,000 Hi, Bill. How are you? 3431 03:12:16,000 --> 03:12:18,000 Hello, Mikey. How are you? Thank you. I'm well. 3432 03:12:18,000 --> 03:12:20,000 If you work with Bill, go ahead and comment 3433 03:12:20,000 --> 03:12:22,000 on the chat and let us know. 3434 03:12:22,000 --> 03:12:24,000 Bill is an amazing coach. 3435 03:12:24,000 --> 03:12:26,000 He's one of Bob's personally trained coaches. 3436 03:12:26,000 --> 03:12:28,000 And he's been a student. I always bring this up 3437 03:12:28,000 --> 03:12:30,000 because I just think it's so interesting. 3438 03:12:30,000 --> 03:12:32,000 You were born rich. How many years ago? 3439 03:12:32,000 --> 03:12:34,000 In 95 or 96. 3440 03:12:34,000 --> 03:12:36,000 So, old. 3441 03:12:36,000 --> 03:12:38,000 Yeah, old. 3442 03:12:38,000 --> 03:12:40,000 All right, so this morning, 3443 03:12:40,000 --> 03:12:42,000 what's been your biggest takeaway so far? 3444 03:12:42,000 --> 03:12:44,000 Well, I think that Bob's focus on 3445 03:12:44,000 --> 03:12:46,000 the decision-making 3446 03:12:46,000 --> 03:12:48,000 comes from a want. 3447 03:12:48,000 --> 03:12:50,000 And I really noticed in my own life 3448 03:12:50,000 --> 03:12:52,000 that everything that's ever happened 3449 03:12:52,000 --> 03:12:54,000 that's been amazing is because I've been 3450 03:12:54,000 --> 03:12:56,000 emotionally involved in a want. 3451 03:12:56,000 --> 03:12:58,000 Like, literally become 3452 03:12:58,000 --> 03:13:00,000 consumed with. Or Bob talks about 3453 03:13:00,000 --> 03:13:02,000 obsessing with what you want. 3454 03:13:02,000 --> 03:13:04,000 But I've noticed that people that really succeed 3455 03:13:04,000 --> 03:13:06,000 and I'm talking about people that I've watched 3456 03:13:06,000 --> 03:13:08,000 outside of 3457 03:13:08,000 --> 03:13:10,000 our work here at PGI, 3458 03:13:10,000 --> 03:13:12,000 people that truly succeed have a reason 3459 03:13:12,000 --> 03:13:14,000 why they're driven 3460 03:13:14,000 --> 03:13:16,000 by a purpose. They want something. 3461 03:13:16,000 --> 03:13:18,000 And it's not just by luck that they 3462 03:13:18,000 --> 03:13:20,000 succeed. And successful people 3463 03:13:20,000 --> 03:13:22,000 that I've also noticed, and I don't know if it's just even being 3464 03:13:22,000 --> 03:13:24,000 a mom or a successful 3465 03:13:24,000 --> 03:13:26,000 entrepreneur or really whatever it is 3466 03:13:26,000 --> 03:13:28,000 that they're striving to achieve, 3467 03:13:28,000 --> 03:13:30,000 always are focused 3468 03:13:30,000 --> 03:13:32,000 on a why. Their why is always bigger 3469 03:13:32,000 --> 03:13:34,000 than their why not. So, one of the things I 3470 03:13:34,000 --> 03:13:36,000 picked up from Bob today is he said that successful 3471 03:13:36,000 --> 03:13:38,000 people make decisions quick because 3472 03:13:38,000 --> 03:13:40,000 they know what they want. 3473 03:13:40,000 --> 03:13:42,000 Phil, we were just talking about how 3474 03:13:42,000 --> 03:13:44,000 some people don't know what they want. 3475 03:13:44,000 --> 03:13:46,000 And so I want to talk about that and I have a thought on it 3476 03:13:46,000 --> 03:13:48,000 that people are just drifting through 3477 03:13:48,000 --> 03:13:50,000 life and they're not taking the time to consciously 3478 03:13:50,000 --> 03:13:52,000 stop what they're doing, pause 3479 03:13:52,000 --> 03:13:54,000 and figure out what they want. They're just like 3480 03:13:54,000 --> 03:13:56,000 too busy 3481 03:13:56,000 --> 03:13:58,000 to get going in the right direction. 3482 03:13:58,000 --> 03:14:00,000 So what do you have to say about that? Well, I think that 3483 03:14:00,000 --> 03:14:02,000 I mean, the whole thing of this 3484 03:14:02,000 --> 03:14:04,000 weekend is on paradigms and 3485 03:14:04,000 --> 03:14:06,000 the control of our habits that 3486 03:14:06,000 --> 03:14:08,000 have on us. And it's easy to just 3487 03:14:08,000 --> 03:14:10,000 wake up and get locked into a groove 3488 03:14:10,000 --> 03:14:12,000 where everything is just ritualized 3489 03:14:12,000 --> 03:14:14,000 every single day. 3490 03:14:14,000 --> 03:14:16,000 I think you have to start out, for some people 3491 03:14:16,000 --> 03:14:18,000 you have to start out small. But you have to pick 3492 03:14:18,000 --> 03:14:20,000 something that you can become emotionally involved 3493 03:14:20,000 --> 03:14:22,000 with. It really does come back to that. 3494 03:14:22,000 --> 03:14:24,000 And it's really, desire 3495 03:14:24,000 --> 03:14:26,000 has to come from knowing 3496 03:14:26,000 --> 03:14:28,000 what you want. Well, 3497 03:14:28,000 --> 03:14:30,000 for myself, the biggest challenge was 3498 03:14:30,000 --> 03:14:32,000 deciding what I want because I thought maybe it was a house, 3499 03:14:32,000 --> 03:14:34,000 maybe it was a car. But it really 3500 03:14:34,000 --> 03:14:36,000 wasn't until Bob told me, he said, look, 3501 03:14:36,000 --> 03:14:38,000 decide what your purpose is. 3502 03:14:38,000 --> 03:14:40,000 Decide what you really want to accomplish in your life. 3503 03:14:40,000 --> 03:14:42,000 Then take a bite out of 3504 03:14:42,000 --> 03:14:44,000 purpose and you'll know what your goal is. 3505 03:14:44,000 --> 03:14:46,000 And it just made it much more simple because 3506 03:14:46,000 --> 03:14:48,000 we have to live by purpose. We have 3507 03:14:48,000 --> 03:14:50,000 to have a reason to live. But obviously 3508 03:14:50,000 --> 03:14:52,000 a goal is something 3509 03:14:52,000 --> 03:14:54,000 that comes from our purpose. I love that. 3510 03:14:54,000 --> 03:14:56,000 Now I'm the type of person where 3511 03:14:56,000 --> 03:14:58,000 I set a big goal and it feels like 3512 03:14:58,000 --> 03:15:00,000 you're standing at the bottom of a mountain. You've got all 3513 03:15:00,000 --> 03:15:02,000 this way to go, right? Yep. And it can be 3514 03:15:02,000 --> 03:15:04,000 on days where you're not super motivated. 3515 03:15:04,000 --> 03:15:06,000 It can just like crush you. 3516 03:15:06,000 --> 03:15:08,000 So what is your advice 3517 03:15:08,000 --> 03:15:10,000 on gaining momentum, like getting those 3518 03:15:10,000 --> 03:15:12,000 small wins to build your momentum 3519 03:15:12,000 --> 03:15:14,000 to keep you going? Consistency 3520 03:15:14,000 --> 03:15:16,000 is the key. Going 3521 03:15:16,000 --> 03:15:18,000 back to the paradigm, 3522 03:15:18,000 --> 03:15:20,000 as Bob was talking this morning about how 3523 03:15:20,000 --> 03:15:22,000 he was riding with his left hand in 47 3524 03:15:22,000 --> 03:15:24,000 days, how almost every day 3525 03:15:24,000 --> 03:15:26,000 since, what do you say, 20 days 3526 03:15:26,000 --> 03:15:28,000 ago, the con artist or 3527 03:15:28,000 --> 03:15:30,000 the paradigm is trying to talk him not 3528 03:15:30,000 --> 03:15:32,000 into doing it. And I think that 3529 03:15:32,000 --> 03:15:34,000 if you're standing at the mountain as we're looking 3530 03:15:34,000 --> 03:15:36,000 up to the top, it's the consistency 3531 03:15:36,000 --> 03:15:38,000 because it's the small things 3532 03:15:38,000 --> 03:15:40,000 compounded over time that equal 3533 03:15:40,000 --> 03:15:42,000 great things. And that mountain 3534 03:15:42,000 --> 03:15:44,000 is not nearly as big as we make it 3535 03:15:44,000 --> 03:15:46,000 out into our mind. And it's just 3536 03:15:46,000 --> 03:15:48,000 more simple if we just do the small things 3537 03:15:48,000 --> 03:15:50,000 every day. It's something that I've 3538 03:15:50,000 --> 03:15:52,000 been taught, I know that you as a person have been 3539 03:15:52,000 --> 03:15:54,000 taught, that if it's a 3540 03:15:54,000 --> 03:15:56,000 small goal and it's a little hill, 3541 03:15:56,000 --> 03:15:58,000 you're not going to be motivated to get it anyway. So it's 3542 03:15:58,000 --> 03:16:00,000 a good thing to have big goals. I love that. 3543 03:16:00,000 --> 03:16:02,000 Alright, we're going to play a quick video, but first 3544 03:16:02,000 --> 03:16:04,000 do you have any last thoughts? No, I think that 3545 03:16:04,000 --> 03:16:06,000 for anybody sitting in the audience, please 3546 03:16:06,000 --> 03:16:08,000 be attached to your goal. 3547 03:16:08,000 --> 03:16:10,000 Be emotionally involved with what you want. 3548 03:16:10,000 --> 03:16:12,000 This whole weekend, pick one or two things 3549 03:16:12,000 --> 03:16:14,000 that are really good 3550 03:16:14,000 --> 03:16:16,000 that comes from Bob and just implement them 3551 03:16:16,000 --> 03:16:18,000 this next week. And really watch 3552 03:16:18,000 --> 03:16:20,000 the results over the next two or three weeks 3553 03:16:20,000 --> 03:16:22,000 by implementing one or two things. I love it. 3554 03:16:22,000 --> 03:16:24,000 Thanks, Bill. You're welcome. We're going to play a quick video 3555 03:16:24,000 --> 03:16:26,000 for you on the law of vibration, 3556 03:16:26,000 --> 03:16:28,000 I believe, and we'll be back here at 2 o'clock 3557 03:16:28,000 --> 03:16:30,000 Pacific time. 3558 03:16:31,000 --> 03:16:33,000 In the movie, The Secret, 3559 03:16:33,000 --> 03:16:35,000 I quoted Dr. Warner Von Braun, 3560 03:16:35,000 --> 03:16:37,000 who's considered by many as the 3561 03:16:37,000 --> 03:16:39,000 father of the space program. 3562 03:16:39,000 --> 03:16:41,000 He said, the natural 3563 03:16:41,000 --> 03:16:43,000 laws of this universe are 3564 03:16:43,000 --> 03:16:45,000 so precise 3565 03:16:45,000 --> 03:16:47,000 that we don't have any difficulty 3566 03:16:47,000 --> 03:16:49,000 building a spaceship, 3567 03:16:49,000 --> 03:16:51,000 sending people to the moon, 3568 03:16:51,000 --> 03:16:53,000 and we can time the landing with the 3569 03:16:53,000 --> 03:16:55,000 precision of a fraction of a second. 3570 03:16:57,000 --> 03:16:59,000 He also said these laws must have been set 3571 03:16:59,000 --> 03:17:01,000 by someone. 3572 03:17:01,000 --> 03:17:03,000 I do know it's strange. 3573 03:17:03,000 --> 03:17:05,000 It's not that long ago when 3574 03:17:05,000 --> 03:17:07,000 science and religion were really 3575 03:17:07,000 --> 03:17:09,000 considered antagonistic. 3576 03:17:09,000 --> 03:17:11,000 That's not so today. 3577 03:17:13,000 --> 03:17:15,000 It's looked at it now, one studying the cause 3578 03:17:15,000 --> 03:17:17,000 and the other studying the effect. 3579 03:17:17,000 --> 03:17:19,000 And Von Braun said, 3580 03:17:19,000 --> 03:17:21,000 after studying the spectacular 3581 03:17:21,000 --> 03:17:23,000 mysteries of the cosmos, 3582 03:17:23,000 --> 03:17:25,000 for many years, 3583 03:17:25,000 --> 03:17:27,000 he had arrived 3584 03:17:27,000 --> 03:17:29,000 at the firm conviction 3585 03:17:29,000 --> 03:17:31,000 that there is a God. 3586 03:17:33,000 --> 03:17:35,000 I see the laws as 3587 03:17:35,000 --> 03:17:37,000 God's modus operandi. It's how everything 3588 03:17:37,000 --> 03:17:39,000 happens. 3589 03:17:39,000 --> 03:17:41,000 The Secret was based on the 3590 03:17:41,000 --> 03:17:43,000 concept of the law of attraction. 3591 03:17:43,000 --> 03:17:45,000 And because the movie went viral, 3592 03:17:45,000 --> 03:17:47,000 it was all over the world, everyone 3593 03:17:47,000 --> 03:17:49,000 everywhere was talking about the law of attraction. 3594 03:17:49,000 --> 03:17:51,000 People writing books on it 3595 03:17:51,000 --> 03:17:53,000 that don't really understand it, 3596 03:17:53,000 --> 03:17:55,000 people speaking on it, that 3597 03:17:55,000 --> 03:17:57,000 many of them advertise their 3598 03:17:57,000 --> 03:17:59,000 ignorance when they talk about it, 3599 03:17:59,000 --> 03:18:01,000 I'm of the conclusion that 3600 03:18:01,000 --> 03:18:03,000 attraction is not really 3601 03:18:03,000 --> 03:18:05,000 understood in any depth 3602 03:18:05,000 --> 03:18:07,000 by most people. Now I've studied 3603 03:18:07,000 --> 03:18:09,000 this every day for fifty-some years. 3604 03:18:09,000 --> 03:18:11,000 And I can 3605 03:18:11,000 --> 03:18:13,000 assure you, attraction is a law, 3606 03:18:13,000 --> 03:18:15,000 but it's a secondary law. 3607 03:18:15,000 --> 03:18:17,000 The primary law is the law of vibration. 3608 03:18:17,000 --> 03:18:19,000 The law of vibration 3609 03:18:19,000 --> 03:18:21,000 is one of the basic laws of the universe. 3610 03:18:21,000 --> 03:18:23,000 It decrees that everything moves, nothing 3611 03:18:23,000 --> 03:18:25,000 rests. We literally live 3612 03:18:25,000 --> 03:18:27,000 in an ocean of motion. 3613 03:18:27,000 --> 03:18:29,000 Do you know that 3614 03:18:29,000 --> 03:18:31,000 everything is an expression of the same thing? 3615 03:18:31,000 --> 03:18:33,000 The leaves, the tree, 3616 03:18:35,000 --> 03:18:37,000 the cement, 3617 03:18:37,000 --> 03:18:39,000 the body, 3618 03:18:39,000 --> 03:18:41,000 the clothes, 3619 03:18:41,000 --> 03:18:43,000 it's all energy. 3620 03:18:43,000 --> 03:18:45,000 At a different rate 3621 03:18:45,000 --> 03:18:47,000 of vibration. 3622 03:18:47,000 --> 03:18:49,000 You see, your 3623 03:18:49,000 --> 03:18:51,000 body is a molecular 3624 03:18:51,000 --> 03:18:53,000 structure, in a very high 3625 03:18:53,000 --> 03:18:55,000 speed of vibration. Your brain 3626 03:18:55,000 --> 03:18:57,000 is an electronic switching station. 3627 03:18:57,000 --> 03:18:59,000 Your brain 3628 03:18:59,000 --> 03:19:01,000 does not think, but you think with 3629 03:19:01,000 --> 03:19:03,000 your brain. There's a difference. 3630 03:19:03,000 --> 03:19:05,000 As you activate brain cells 3631 03:19:05,000 --> 03:19:07,000 you set up a vibration in your body. 3632 03:19:07,000 --> 03:19:09,000 For me to just move my 3633 03:19:09,000 --> 03:19:11,000 hand like that, I had to activate 3634 03:19:11,000 --> 03:19:13,000 brain cells or my hand wouldn't have done it. 3635 03:19:13,000 --> 03:19:15,000 If a person's 3636 03:19:15,000 --> 03:19:17,000 had a stroke, 3637 03:19:17,000 --> 03:19:19,000 where the blood just stops going to 3638 03:19:19,000 --> 03:19:21,000 a section of the brain, those brain 3639 03:19:21,000 --> 03:19:23,000 cells become dead. The movement in the body 3640 03:19:23,000 --> 03:19:25,000 in that part of the body that is 3641 03:19:25,000 --> 03:19:27,000 controlled by those cells 3642 03:19:27,000 --> 03:19:29,000 stops. 3643 03:19:31,000 --> 03:19:33,000 Vibration is something that 3644 03:19:33,000 --> 03:19:35,000 must be understood 3645 03:19:35,000 --> 03:19:37,000 if you're going to take control 3646 03:19:37,000 --> 03:19:39,000 of your health. It 3647 03:19:39,000 --> 03:19:41,000 must be understood if you're going to take control of your 3648 03:19:41,000 --> 03:19:43,000 relationships. It must be understood 3649 03:19:43,000 --> 03:19:45,000 if you want to become wealthy. 3650 03:19:45,000 --> 03:19:47,000 And if you want to 3651 03:19:47,000 --> 03:19:49,000 really master the art of selling, 3652 03:19:49,000 --> 03:19:51,000 vibration is an essential. 3653 03:19:51,000 --> 03:19:53,000 You've got to understand it. 3654 03:19:53,000 --> 03:19:55,000 And yet almost all 3655 03:19:55,000 --> 03:19:57,000 the sales training programs that are done 3656 03:19:57,000 --> 03:19:59,000 worldwide have nothing 3657 03:19:59,000 --> 03:20:01,000 about the law of vibration in them. 3658 03:20:03,000 --> 03:20:05,000 As Robert Louis Stevenson said, everybody's 3659 03:20:05,000 --> 03:20:07,000 selling. You're selling an idea, product 3660 03:20:07,000 --> 03:20:09,000 or a service. And it's true. 3661 03:20:09,000 --> 03:20:11,000 The teacher's selling the student. 3662 03:20:11,000 --> 03:20:13,000 The parent's selling 3663 03:20:13,000 --> 03:20:15,000 the child. The child's selling the parent. 3664 03:20:17,000 --> 03:20:19,000 But what do we mean selling? 3665 03:20:19,000 --> 03:20:21,000 Well, the professional salesperson 3666 03:20:21,000 --> 03:20:23,000 understands that selling 3667 03:20:23,000 --> 03:20:25,000 is doing something for 3668 03:20:25,000 --> 03:20:27,000 someone, not to someone. 3669 03:20:27,000 --> 03:20:29,000 And the professional 3670 03:20:29,000 --> 03:20:31,000 will sit down and they will get to know 3671 03:20:31,000 --> 03:20:33,000 the prospect. They will find 3672 03:20:33,000 --> 03:20:35,000 as much about the prospect as they can. 3673 03:20:35,000 --> 03:20:37,000 They'll have permission to ask the prospect questions. 3674 03:20:37,000 --> 03:20:39,000 They'll gather a lot of information. 3675 03:20:39,000 --> 03:20:41,000 And they find out where the prospect wants to 3676 03:20:41,000 --> 03:20:43,000 go, what they want to accomplish. 3677 03:20:43,000 --> 03:20:45,000 They mentally get on the prospect's 3678 03:20:45,000 --> 03:20:47,000 frequency 3679 03:20:47,000 --> 03:20:49,000 and help the prospect go to where 3680 03:20:49,000 --> 03:20:51,000 they want to go. 3681 03:20:51,000 --> 03:20:53,000 My old mentor called that 3682 03:20:53,000 --> 03:20:55,000 empathy-eco-balance. 3683 03:20:55,000 --> 03:20:57,000 Where you're able to get into the other person's 3684 03:20:57,000 --> 03:20:59,000 mind and see the world from where they 3685 03:20:59,000 --> 03:21:01,000 see it. Get on their frequency. 3686 03:21:01,000 --> 03:21:03,000 Get in their vibration. 3687 03:21:03,000 --> 03:21:05,000 The vibration you're in is going to dictate what you 3688 03:21:05,000 --> 03:21:07,000 attract into your life. And if you're 3689 03:21:07,000 --> 03:21:09,000 troubled, you're worried, 3690 03:21:09,000 --> 03:21:11,000 you're going to attract a lot of bad energy. 3691 03:21:11,000 --> 03:21:13,000 That's why 3692 03:21:13,000 --> 03:21:15,000 the great sufferer in the Bible 3693 03:21:15,000 --> 03:21:17,000 said, lo, the thing I fear has come 3694 03:21:17,000 --> 03:21:19,000 to visit upon me. 3695 03:21:19,000 --> 03:21:21,000 Well, fear is a very negative vibration. 3696 03:21:21,000 --> 03:21:23,000 It's a very negative emotion. 3697 03:21:23,000 --> 03:21:25,000 It's caused by doubt and worry. 3698 03:21:25,000 --> 03:21:27,000 And doubt and worry is really caused 3699 03:21:27,000 --> 03:21:29,000 by ignorance. 3700 03:21:29,000 --> 03:21:31,000 That's why Solomon said, in all you're getting, 3701 03:21:31,000 --> 03:21:33,000 get understanding. What do we want to understand? 3702 03:21:33,000 --> 03:21:35,000 I think we want to understand the laws 3703 03:21:35,000 --> 03:21:37,000 that govern our being. 3704 03:21:37,000 --> 03:21:39,000 The laws that govern our universe. 3705 03:21:39,000 --> 03:21:41,000 And then we want to understand how to get in harmony 3706 03:21:41,000 --> 03:21:43,000 with the law. Everything you want 3707 03:21:43,000 --> 03:21:45,000 will come to you when you get in harmony 3708 03:21:45,000 --> 03:21:47,000 with it. 3709 03:21:47,000 --> 03:21:49,000 Vibration 3710 03:21:49,000 --> 03:21:51,000 is essential to understand. 3711 03:21:51,000 --> 03:21:53,000 But only one person, 3712 03:21:53,000 --> 03:21:55,000 maybe ten, 3713 03:21:55,000 --> 03:21:57,000 has any grasp of it at all. 3714 03:21:57,000 --> 03:21:59,000 If you ask 3715 03:21:59,000 --> 03:22:01,000 a person how they feel, 3716 03:22:01,000 --> 03:22:03,000 what they're really telling you 3717 03:22:03,000 --> 03:22:05,000 is their conscious awareness of the vibration 3718 03:22:05,000 --> 03:22:07,000 they're in. If a person says, I just don't 3719 03:22:07,000 --> 03:22:09,000 feel very well, 3720 03:22:09,000 --> 03:22:11,000 that person's probably 3721 03:22:11,000 --> 03:22:13,000 in a very negative vibration. 3722 03:22:13,000 --> 03:22:15,000 The person says, I feel wonderful. 3723 03:22:15,000 --> 03:22:17,000 They're in a very good vibration. 3724 03:22:17,000 --> 03:22:19,000 If you're in a really 3725 03:22:19,000 --> 03:22:21,000 good vibration, 3726 03:22:21,000 --> 03:22:23,000 and you're with a person that's very negative, 3727 03:22:23,000 --> 03:22:25,000 you will not feel comfortable 3728 03:22:25,000 --> 03:22:27,000 in their presence. Feeling, 3729 03:22:27,000 --> 03:22:29,000 conscious, we're in a vibration. You don't 3730 03:22:29,000 --> 03:22:31,000 feel comfortable in their 3731 03:22:31,000 --> 03:22:33,000 energy, and you want to get away from them. 3732 03:22:33,000 --> 03:22:35,000 Now, if you were negative 3733 03:22:35,000 --> 03:22:37,000 and they were negative, you're going to come together. 3734 03:22:37,000 --> 03:22:39,000 Misery loves company. 3735 03:22:39,000 --> 03:22:41,000 See, these old sayings are all based on 3736 03:22:41,000 --> 03:22:43,000 laws. 3737 03:22:43,000 --> 03:22:45,000 It's hard to 3738 03:22:45,000 --> 03:22:47,000 believe that two miserable people would be 3739 03:22:47,000 --> 03:22:49,000 comfortable together. But if you understand 3740 03:22:49,000 --> 03:22:51,000 they're both on the same frequency. 3741 03:22:51,000 --> 03:22:53,000 They're both listening to the same music. 3742 03:22:55,000 --> 03:22:57,000 You'll often hear a person 3743 03:22:57,000 --> 03:22:59,000 that went for a walk in the woods, 3744 03:22:59,000 --> 03:23:01,000 and they said it was so pleasant. 3745 03:23:01,000 --> 03:23:03,000 Why? The vibration of 3746 03:23:03,000 --> 03:23:05,000 nature is perfect. 3747 03:23:07,000 --> 03:23:09,000 That's why a walk in the woods 3748 03:23:09,000 --> 03:23:11,000 leaves you feeling 3749 03:23:11,000 --> 03:23:13,000 so good. 3750 03:23:17,000 --> 03:23:19,000 What do you 3751 03:23:19,000 --> 03:23:21,000 understand about the law of vibration? 3752 03:23:21,000 --> 03:23:23,000 That's a good question 3753 03:23:23,000 --> 03:23:25,000 to ask yourself. 3754 03:23:25,000 --> 03:23:27,000 I'm going to give you a small exercise. 3755 03:23:29,000 --> 03:23:31,000 The next time you're around a person 3756 03:23:31,000 --> 03:23:33,000 that's complaining about anything, 3757 03:23:33,000 --> 03:23:35,000 where obviously 3758 03:23:35,000 --> 03:23:37,000 it doesn't feel very well, 3759 03:23:39,000 --> 03:23:41,000 start changing 3760 03:23:41,000 --> 03:23:43,000 the subject. 3761 03:23:43,000 --> 03:23:45,000 Start talking to them about 3762 03:23:45,000 --> 03:23:47,000 them, about something good about 3763 03:23:47,000 --> 03:23:49,000 them. Compliment 3764 03:23:49,000 --> 03:23:51,000 them, but make it a sincere 3765 03:23:51,000 --> 03:23:53,000 merited compliment, not 3766 03:23:53,000 --> 03:23:55,000 false praise. 3767 03:23:55,000 --> 03:23:57,000 No flattery. 3768 03:23:57,000 --> 03:23:59,000 Pick out something good that they do 3769 03:23:59,000 --> 03:24:01,000 and slowly 3770 03:24:01,000 --> 03:24:03,000 turn the subject around to that. 3771 03:24:03,000 --> 03:24:05,000 Let them know how much you admire 3772 03:24:05,000 --> 03:24:07,000 how well they do it. 3773 03:24:07,000 --> 03:24:09,000 And you know something? 3774 03:24:09,000 --> 03:24:11,000 Like that, their energy 3775 03:24:11,000 --> 03:24:13,000 will change. You have caused 3776 03:24:13,000 --> 03:24:15,000 them to change their vibration. 3777 03:24:15,000 --> 03:24:17,000 Now the beautiful 3778 03:24:17,000 --> 03:24:19,000 truth about this, when you 3779 03:24:19,000 --> 03:24:21,000 do it, you'll learn how to do it 3780 03:24:21,000 --> 03:24:23,000 to yourself when you're not feeling 3781 03:24:23,000 --> 03:24:25,000 very good. 3782 03:24:25,000 --> 03:24:27,000 That's the beautiful truth. 3783 03:24:27,000 --> 03:24:29,000 We are in control 3784 03:24:29,000 --> 03:24:31,000 of how we feel. 3785 03:24:33,000 --> 03:24:35,000 I was reading something by 3786 03:24:35,000 --> 03:24:37,000 Victor Funkl, the author of 3787 03:24:37,000 --> 03:24:39,000 Man's Search for Meaning, 3788 03:24:39,000 --> 03:24:41,000 a Viennese psychiatrist. He spent the war years 3789 03:24:41,000 --> 03:24:43,000 in a concentration camp. 3790 03:24:43,000 --> 03:24:45,000 He said in every situation 3791 03:24:45,000 --> 03:24:47,000 there is a 3792 03:24:47,000 --> 03:24:49,000 space between the situation 3793 03:24:49,000 --> 03:24:51,000 and how you respond to it. 3794 03:24:53,000 --> 03:24:55,000 And in that space 3795 03:24:55,000 --> 03:24:57,000 you can decide how you're going to 3796 03:24:57,000 --> 03:24:59,000 respond. Now that 3797 03:24:59,000 --> 03:25:01,000 space may only be a millisecond. 3798 03:25:03,000 --> 03:25:05,000 But in that space you can decide 3799 03:25:05,000 --> 03:25:07,000 are you going to react 3800 03:25:07,000 --> 03:25:09,000 or are you going to respond? 3801 03:25:11,000 --> 03:25:13,000 Think of it. In every 3802 03:25:13,000 --> 03:25:15,000 situation 3803 03:25:15,000 --> 03:25:17,000 between the situation 3804 03:25:17,000 --> 03:25:19,000 and your response there is a space. 3805 03:25:19,000 --> 03:25:21,000 And in that space 3806 03:25:21,000 --> 03:25:23,000 you can decide how you're going to 3807 03:25:23,000 --> 03:25:25,000 respond. 3808 03:25:25,000 --> 03:25:27,000 Vibration is something 3809 03:25:27,000 --> 03:25:29,000 that I love studying. 3810 03:25:29,000 --> 03:25:31,000 When you're 3811 03:25:31,000 --> 03:25:33,000 in a restaurant 3812 03:25:33,000 --> 03:25:35,000 or in a store or any place where the energy 3813 03:25:35,000 --> 03:25:37,000 is really good 3814 03:25:39,000 --> 03:25:41,000 you feel very comfortable. 3815 03:25:41,000 --> 03:25:43,000 It's the vibration 3816 03:25:43,000 --> 03:25:45,000 in the place. 3817 03:25:45,000 --> 03:25:47,000 You've gone into a restaurant and sat down 3818 03:25:47,000 --> 03:25:49,000 and before you ordered in and all of a sudden 3819 03:25:49,000 --> 03:25:51,000 you don't want to eat there. Why? 3820 03:25:51,000 --> 03:25:53,000 It's the energy. It's the vibration of 3821 03:25:53,000 --> 03:25:55,000 that place. You should get up and leave. 3822 03:25:55,000 --> 03:25:57,000 Go where you feel comfortable. 3823 03:25:57,000 --> 03:25:59,000 Do what makes you 3824 03:25:59,000 --> 03:26:01,000 feel good. 3825 03:26:01,000 --> 03:26:03,000 That's why people 3826 03:26:03,000 --> 03:26:05,000 that are doing what they love 3827 03:26:05,000 --> 03:26:07,000 never have to work 3828 03:26:07,000 --> 03:26:09,000 again. 3829 03:26:09,000 --> 03:26:11,000 They spend their whole life in a wonderful 3830 03:26:11,000 --> 03:26:13,000 vibration. 3831 03:26:13,000 --> 03:26:15,000 The person who truly understands 3832 03:26:15,000 --> 03:26:17,000 how to pray puts themselves 3833 03:26:17,000 --> 03:26:19,000 in a wonderful vibration. 3834 03:26:21,000 --> 03:26:23,000 I want to say that 3835 03:26:23,000 --> 03:26:25,000 I want to suggest 3836 03:26:25,000 --> 03:26:27,000 you study it. 3837 03:26:27,000 --> 03:26:29,000 And understand this. 3838 03:26:29,000 --> 03:26:31,000 You will attract to you 3839 03:26:31,000 --> 03:26:33,000 whatever you're in harmonious 3840 03:26:33,000 --> 03:26:35,000 vibration with. 3841 03:26:35,000 --> 03:26:37,000 You are in 3842 03:26:37,000 --> 03:26:39,000 control of the vibration you're in. 291231

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