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Hi everyone and welcome to Paradigm Shift Weekend. We are so excited to have you joining us.
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We have over a hundred countries from around the world streaming into this event this weekend and it's going to be incredible.
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Behind the scenes, our team has been working to make sure you have the very best experience.
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Of course, we've already sent out the live stream link, which is why you're seeing this.
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You have a download of your workbook. Go ahead and download that. Print it off if you haven't already.
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You're going to want to have it in front of you all weekend with a pen and paper to take lots of notes as we get into some really great stuff through Paradigm Shift.
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Right now, we're opening the room for our VIPs. In a couple of minutes, our general attendees will be making their way into the room.
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And then Bob Proctor is going to take the stage this morning for an amazing session that you don't want to miss.
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Alright, we'll be back soon.
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The Proctor Gallagher Institute is a phenomenal organization.
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We have attracted some of the most beautiful people in the world. We really have.
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We help people get in touch with themselves, help them understand who they are and what they are, how to live the life they really want to live.
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You see, I think the educational system has fallen short on this.
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People never really find out what they're capable of doing. They don't really get in touch with themselves.
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That's what the Proctor Gallagher Institute is.
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You know, a really special part of our company are our Proctor Gallagher Institute consultants.
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We have consultants all over the world that are out there facilitating our programs.
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And you know, this is a special industry. If it's something that you're thinking about getting into, you are on the verge of the best decision of your life.
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Because when you think about having the tools that enable you to really help someone get what they want deep in their heart for their life, for their loved one, and then you see that happen, I can't even explain how rewarding it is.
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I have a purpose personally to live and work in a prosperous environment that encourages productivity and pleasure so that we can improve the service we render to our family, our company, our community, our nation, and ultimately the world.
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We want people to really live the way they want to live.
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You see, I personally believe you and I are spiritual beings. We're God's highest form of creation.
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I have come to the conclusion that our spiritual DNA is perfect. There's perfection within us.
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And it requires no modification, no improvement.
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So what we have to do is get into an environment, get into the proper material to bring that dynamic, that genius that's locked up within every one of us, bring it to the surface.
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But that's really what the Proctor Gallagher Institute is.
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We create programs, recorded, video, audio, printed matter, and we do live seminars all over the world, helping people really get a grip on life so that they begin earning the amount of money they need to provide the things they want to live the way they choose to live, to work with like-minded people, to be in an environment that's conducive to the unfoldment of the soul.
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We have done an excellent job of that up to this point.
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Now we know there's no right way to do anything. It can be a good way, it can be a valid way, but there's always a better way.
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And we're looking for the better way.
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You might want to come and join us.
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Good morning.
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How are you?
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Yeah.
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Welcome to LA.
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How do you like our new digs?
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Good stuff.
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Well, welcome to Paradigm Shift.
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We are excited to have you here.
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You know, I was walking through the audience, just kind of mixing and mingling with some people, and the change that has taken place in some people's lives is absolutely amazing.
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I spoke with Victoria and she said, I have been coming here for two years.
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And she says, my life isn't even recognizable.
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She said, who knew?
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I was talking to Anders.
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He said, two years ago, he said, I came here.
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He says, everything has just turned around.
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I was talking to Wendy, better health.
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I was talking to someone else.
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Oh, Mick.
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I said, how are you doing, Mick?
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Got another meeting with Disney, with Disney.
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Like, how does that happen?
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You are going to meet some great people here this weekend.
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But you have to make a decision right here, right now, that you are going to do things differently.
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This is your life.
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This is it.
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Streamers, same thing.
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You need to make a decision sitting in your living room or having a coffee in your kitchen or watching it in bed, whatever you're doing.
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This is your life.
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This is now.
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Don't leave here.
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Don't take away this experience and put it on the shelf, because then it's just shelf help.
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Are you going to make a decision?
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All right.
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Tommy, let's roll our video.
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How do you escape a prison if you don't know you're in one paradigm?
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It starts from the moment you're born.
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You pick it up from your parents, your teachers, your friends.
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It's the way you tie your shoes, how you answer the phone, the sound of your laugh, the stride of your walk.
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It's how you react to the world around you.
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It's always been there, silently directing your every move.
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Paradigm, a mental program that has almost exclusive control over your habitual behavior.
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But something deep down inside of you wants to break out.
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It yearns for more, seeking fuller expression and greater expansion.
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Bigger, better, faster.
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You're in the right place at the right time.
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Two master thinkers, three days of mind expansion, teaching you about you.
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Bob Proctor and Sandy Gallagher hold the key.
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Calm down, speed up, unleash you.
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Bob Proctor has been in the personal development industry for a very, very long time.
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Everywhere he goes, people love him.
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They just absolutely resonate with him.
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Joining us now is Bob Proctor, New York Times bestselling author, lecturer, and counselor.
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He's been described as preaching the gospel of positive thinking and maximizing human potential.
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The minute he started talking is like someone took my head off, shook it around, and put it back on.
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And everything I thought was true was just like upside down.
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He was saying things that I had always believed but were so contrary to what the masses thought.
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Bob Proctor is one of the greatest teachers and speakers in the field of success and personal development in history.
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He has worked all over the world and worked with some of the largest companies in the world
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and changed their bottom line tremendously.
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The number one prosperity teacher in America, number one.
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You look at all the list of great speakers in the world and Bob's always at the very top.
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He's just an incredible person.
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Bob has appeared as one of the stars in the hit movie, The Secret,
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and has helped to bring the tools and tactics of truly living a great life to the masses.
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He is the material. He lives it every single day. It's just who he is.
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I don't know anybody that understands paradigms and how to change them like Bob does.
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He just lays it on the line and he tells you how it is. He tells you the truth.
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His total focus is you, what your goals and aspirations are, what your dreams are.
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Bob Proctor is the kindest, most wonderful human being I've ever met.
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He truly has a genuine want for people to improve their lives, period.
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He's so giving and humble. He will literally help anyone he comes in contact with.
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All he cares about is helping you, helping you get what you want.
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And he truly gives to everybody, whether it's one person in the room or hundreds or even thousands.
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I don't know anyone better than Bob Proctor to get you to see what's right within you.
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And his whole intent is to create awareness so that each one of us have an opportunity to be at our best
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and to create the way we were designed to create.
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Truly, there are few who have done it better and made a greater impact than Bob has.
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Bob has been doing this for 57 years. He's 84 and nobody can keep up with him.
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As hard as we try, he is probably going to do more in the next 25 years than he's done in 57.
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Millions of people worldwide have been positively affected by Bob's message
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and he's here today with us to give you the insights you need to live your best life ever.
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Ladies and gentlemen, at 84 years young, give it up for Bob Proctor!
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Good morning!
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Good morning!
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Good morning! Thank you.
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Thank you, thank you, thank you.
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If you look in the bag that they've given you, I hope you have it, there's a coin in there.
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You can actually get it to coin it.
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There's double Rs on both sides.
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It's not very big, but you'll find it. It's in a little plastic sleeve.
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Now, on one side of that coin, if you put it in your hand, just rub your thumb across one side of it
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and then flip the other side and rub your thumb across it.
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You'll find one side is smooth and one side is rough.
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That's sort of like life, isn't it?
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One side of it can be very rough, the other side can be absolutely beautiful, just runs really smooth.
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Okay?
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Now, most of us have been raised with an idea in our mind that's part of our paradigm
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when someone says something nasty to us, bang, we get up right back.
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If somebody does something, we're going to get even.
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We're going to react.
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You'll notice that two Rs, it says react and you lose control.
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When you react, you lose control.
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You've given control of your life to the person or the situation that you're reacting to.
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Now, think of this for a moment.
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I remember Sandy had me talk to her niece one time when she was around 15.
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And she and her mother were sparring frequently, which isn't unusual for a 15-year-old.
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And I got on the phone with her and I taught her this idea.
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She went home, her mother wondered what the hell happened to her.
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She quit reacting to mom.
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When we quit reacting, we're a lot happier.
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Now, look at the other side.
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It's smooth.
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It says respond and you're in control.
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Now, the situation doesn't change.
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Person has done or the situation is exactly the same.
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It's just that you're not reacting to it.
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You stop and you think, I wonder why they're doing that.
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I wonder why that happened.
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And you think and you respond to it.
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Victor Frankl wrote a marvelous book, Man's Search for Meaning.
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He spent the war years in a concentration camp.
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Here's a Jewish psychiatrist in a concentration camp during the war.
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Now, I don't suppose maybe anybody has been treated worse intellectually and physically
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than someone in a concentration camp during a war.
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And he said, in every situation, between the situation and your response, there is a space.
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In that space, you decide what your response will be.
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Now, the space may only be a millisecond, but you've got to know you're dealing with your mind.
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It's the most complex, the most phenomenal instrument in the world.
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And we've all got one.
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Now, how do we use it?
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Do we go through really reacting or do we respond?
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Now, I'm going to ask you to carry this around with you.
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Get in use of taking it out of your purse or out of your pocket and just rub your hand on it.
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And you'll see one side's smooth and one side's rough.
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And there's all kinds of situations every day that you can react to.
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But instead of reacting, you stop and you start to respond.
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Now, I remember when Sandy was telling me about her young niece.
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She said it was absolutely amazing.
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Now, I've been working at this for a long, long time, since 1961.
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Some of you, your grandparents weren't even born then.
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And I have tested these ideas in just about every way you can think of.
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I've worked with people that have worked with them in just about every field that you can think of.
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And I've never found anywhere where it doesn't work.
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It works everywhere.
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Phil Goldfine's forever sending me a text.
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This works everywhere, doesn't it?
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He's obviously just experienced a win over some situation.
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And I said, yeah, it works everywhere, doesn't it?
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And it really does.
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These ideas are so powerful.
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But we've got to get them right into our psyche.
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You've got to get them deep into your subconscious mind.
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You've got to make them a part of your paradigm where nothing really changes.
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Now, you don't change a paradigm overnight.
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I think if you've got a, in your bag, if you've got a great big thick ring binder.
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No, that's not it.
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I don't think that's it.
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No, that's your workbook.
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That's what you're going to use now.
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Is there another one in the bag?
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Where's Gina?
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Gina, where are you?
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Behind the curtain.
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All right.
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Have you, have we handed out the, they're in the bag, a big thick book.
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Open it up.
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No, I'm talking about the, I'm talking about where the, not that.
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I'm talking about the one where the left-handed writing is in it, Gina.
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That's the one where they write it.
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Which one, the one?
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The white one.
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The little one?
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The big one.
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Let me see the inside of that.
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No, this one.
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Yeah.
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Let me see that.
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No, this isn't it.
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Huh?
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Oh, we don't have the thick one?
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You know the one I'm working with?
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Ah, you're going to get it tomorrow.
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Is this yours?
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We're looking for something you don't even have.
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Well, at any rate, you're going to get it tomorrow.
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You're going to get it tomorrow.
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You're going to get it tomorrow.
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You're going to get it tomorrow.
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You're going to get it tomorrow.
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You're going to get it tomorrow.
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You're going to get it tomorrow.
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And there's an exercise in it.
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It's thick.
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I think there may be enough pages in there for the whole year.
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And on that, on every page, at the top of the page, you write out ten things you're grateful for.
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Then there is a statement.
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A statement.
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And you're going to wish that Gina had made it shorter.
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There's three lines, and you've got to write them with your non-dominant hand.
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Now, I'm right-handed, so I've got to write with my left hand.
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You have to rewrite this statement every day.
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I'm on my 44th day right today.
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I've done it already.
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It's the first thing I do.
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I do this exercise.
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Now, I've worked with paradigms for many, many years.
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This is teaching me something new about paradigms.
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When I'm writing with my right hand, that's part of my paradigm.
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It's just a free flow.
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And I can be a very good writer.
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I don't have to think.
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It's just all automatic.
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When I go to write with my left hand, I've got to think of every move that that is going to make.
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That pen makes.
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If I try and hurry, it looks like Chinese art.
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If my mind comes off the pen, it looks like it's just a mess.
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So in 44 days, it's still pretty much of a mess.
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I am holding to the image that by the time I finish the book,
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I will be as proficient with this hand as I am with this hand.
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But I'm doing it every day.
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Now, we handed those out at the last meeting.
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And somebody gave me one, but I didn't take it home.
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And then I got thinking about, I should get one of those damn things and do that.
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So I had Gina go to the printers and have them make up another one for me.
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And I started to use it.
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And I'm going to tell you, it makes you very acutely aware of just how powerful a paradigm is.
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You see, writing with my left hand is forming a new paradigm.
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My mind doesn't want me to go there.
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It trying cons me.
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I think, well, you don't have to do it today. You could do it tomorrow.
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You're talking to yourself all the time.
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Now, about three weeks ago, that'd be halfway of what I've done now, about 21 days ago.
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My mind started to work.
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My mind started to work.
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Are you really going to take this on the road with you?
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It's pretty damn thick, you know.
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It's going to be heavy.
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And, you know, you could skip the time you're on the road.
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Oh, it is insidious how this paradigm works.
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It'll con you.
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It will con you every time.
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Yet puts up a very logical argument.
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And you know something?
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It's often you lose.
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You've got to be really locked in to change it.
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Now, think of this.
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Why is it that only around three or four percent of the population really make it in life?
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There's more than three or four percent that are very, very bright.
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Probably at least 60 or 70 percent of the population are pretty brilliant.
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Now, there may be a 20 or 30 that are a little slow.
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But we've all got the same potential.
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Every one of us has the same potential.
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Why is it only three or four percent really make it happen?
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It's paradigms.
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Yes, it's got nothing to do with how smart you are.
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I remember when I was a kid.
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I was a bad kid.
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Not real bad, but bad.
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You know, everything's relative.
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Relative to my brother and sister, I was terrible.
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But at any rate, my mother would say, why'd you do that?
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I don't know.
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But it means you don't know.
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You know better.
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I know.
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Well, why'd you do it?
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I don't know.
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Just a few hours later.
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Why'd you do that?
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I don't know.
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But you know better.
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I know.
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Why'd you do it?
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I don't know.
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My teachers would say, why'd you do that?
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I don't know.
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Well, you know better than that.
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I know.
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Why'd you do it?
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I don't know.
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I got married.
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Why'd you do that?
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I said, drop it right there.
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And you know why you're laughing?
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Because you can relate to what I just said.
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Your mother asked you why you do that.
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You said, I don't know.
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And you don't know.
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And you did know better.
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So why'd you do it? You don't know.
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Well, you know now.
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It's your paradigm that's in control of you.
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And the paradigm isn't the part that knows.
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The conscious mind knows.
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The intellect knows what you should do.
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That doesn't mean you're doing it.
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Every one of us know, we all know, how to do better than we're doing.
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We've got to do it.
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Now, hopefully by Sunday afternoon, you're going to be acutely aware of how much your paradigm is controlling you.
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It's costing you money.
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It's costing you success in every aspect of life.
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I don't care what it is.
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And I don't care what you're earning.
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It's still costing you money.
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Because you can do better.
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None of us know what we're capable of doing.
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No one, the wisest among us, do not know what we are capable of doing.
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Our purpose in life is to find out what we're capable of doing.
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We're spiritual beings.
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Spirit's always for expansion and fuller expression, never for disintegration.
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So if we're not continually growing and expanding, we're not doing what we're designed to do.
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We're powerful beings.
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Now, I'm going to digress for a moment.
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Some of you see a little diamond pin here in my lapel.
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I'm frequently asked, what's a diamond pin?
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Well, for a long time I said, it's just a pin.
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I was in Amsterdam in the 60s.
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And they cut diamonds in Amsterdam.
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And I heard about it and I found it on place.
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And I went in and they had all these diamonds and diamond cutters.
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And they had a showcase, of course, with rings and necklaces and God knows what.
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And they had this little diamond pin.
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It's an exclamation mark.
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It's like that with a chip.
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I said, you selling that?
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The guy said, everything there's for sale, sir.
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I said, I want to buy that.
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So I bought it and I wore it in my lapel for the longest time, probably two or three years.
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Every time I changed the suit, I put the pin on.
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And I lost it.
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I don't know how I lost it, but I'd worn it for a long time.
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And there was no purpose for it.
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I just liked it.
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And I wore it in my lapel.
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Well, when we were, we had a party celebrating my 50 years in this business a while ago, a few years ago.
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And Sandy said to me just before that, she's, do you ever wear any jewelry?
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And I said, no.
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I said, cufflinks, that's about it.
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I don't like a watch.
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I've never worn a watch.
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I was figuring, I'm here because now.
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I mean, that's it.
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Well, it's, you know, you can be very accurate knowing what time it is.
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It's amazing how accurate we can be without wearing a watch.
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But anyway, I said, I used to wear a little diamond pin.
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It was an exclamation mark, a little baguette and a chip.
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Well, she said, how big was it?
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So I just scribed it to her.
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And she said, well, where is it?
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I said, I lost it.
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But I wore it for a long time.
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Well, on this 50th anniversary, she had one of these made and give to me.
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I only had it for about a week and I lost it.
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I said, oh, God, this isn't something I can say I left at home every time.
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So I get on the phone and I said, you know that pin you gave me?
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I really loved it.
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And I appreciate it.
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I lost it.
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She said, how did you lose it?
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I don't know.
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That was the deal.
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I didn't know.
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And she bought me another one.
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I haven't lost it.
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Then I got thinking, we should use this for something since we got it.
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And I thought, let's say it's the mark of a million.
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So one of our people earned a million bucks.
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We give them a diamond pin.
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Now, somebody in the consulting division, they got very creative and they come up with a silver pin and a gold pin and and God knows what kind of a pin.
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And the ultimate is the diamond pin.
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Now, we've got a couple of people that have got the diamond pins.
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And I remember one day, Sandy said to me, you know, that's almost a sexist thing.
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I said, why?
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Well, she said, women don't have lapels usually.
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They have dresses.
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They have frilly blouses.
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I said, I don't know.
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I don't know.
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That's almost a sexist thing.
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I said, why?
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Well, she said, women don't have lapels usually.
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They have dresses.
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They have frilly blouses, you know, you know, sheer blouses and everything.
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And you try and put one of these pins on a sheer blouse.
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In fact, you try and put one on the blouse at all.
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You'd be in trouble.
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And she said, we should have something for women.
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I said, probably a good idea.
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Well, she said, do you really think of this?
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And I said, leave it with me.
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I'll take care of it.
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She's really going to do it.
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Let's just leave it with me.
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Now, I would like to, we give them for somebody that's one in a million or an exceptional employee.
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Somebody that works in a company that really does something special.
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We have two very special, we've got a lot of special people.
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In fact, I think we've got some of the best people in our company you're going to find anywhere.
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They're phenomenal.
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But these two, Gina will have, she will be with me.
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She's my personal assistant.
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And she's worked with me 33 years this Wednesday.
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33 years.
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And she makes all kinds of magic happen.
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One day Sandy said to me, how the hell does she do everything she does?
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And I said, I don't know.
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I don't even want to know.
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Gina's the director of events.
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Everything that's done in here, she originates it all and gets it done.
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I just show up.
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That's all I do.
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I don't have any work to do until I get on here.
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She does a phenomenal job.
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Planes, everything's done for me.
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She gives me sheets of paper where everything's written on it.
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And she does a phenomenal job.
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There's a lot more than just director of events.
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She books the hotels, she makes sure everything's like doctor.
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Planes, everything.
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She does a phenomenal job.
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Now, as I say, she came to us 33 years ago.
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I remember walking in the office and we had a reception desk as you walk in the door right here.
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It was one of those high things, looks like they were barricaded or something.
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And Gina was sitting there and she says, hi Bob.
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I said, hi.
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I thought, who the hell is she?
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So I went in the office and you go through a door here and you go in there.
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I said, who's the girl out there?
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They said, Gina.
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Mike just hired her.
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And they said, you've met her before.
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She was at the gymnastic event you want to spoke at or something.
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I said, oh, okay.
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Well, that was the first she was there.
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And I didn't have an assistant.
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We had a number of people in the office that could type.
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I don't have to type.
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And if I wanted something done, I'd give it to one of the people in the office.
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Well, I found that I kept going to her because she was the fastest and the best.
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And so that's when I said, why don't you just do work for me?
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And that's what she's done.
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She does a lot of other things now too.
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There's another woman.
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She was a nanny when she came to work with us.
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She had no business experience at all.
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Just knew how to look after little kids.
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And she started to work with us.
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She's a phenomenal student, great researcher.
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And she has become a very valuable person.
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Frequently over the past few months, anytime I'm talking to Sandy, she said,
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she tells me, well, what a phenomenal person.
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She tells me, well, what a phenomenal job Mikey's doing.
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She says, she is really good.
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You know, she does the research.
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00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:23,000
Now, she'd been there for, I think, 10 years, maybe more.
486
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:28,000
And she became our marketing director.
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00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:33,000
And then Sandy said, you know, we should make her this chief operating officer.
488
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:34,000
She's very good.
489
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:38,000
She's extremely detail oriented and something like Gina.
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She gets it done.
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You don't know how she does it, but she does it.
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And here's the nanny that's become a very effective businesswoman.
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Our company's pretty well run by women.
494
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I learned to do what I was told a long time ago.
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00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,000
So I'm in good shape here.
496
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,000
Some of the guys aren't, but I am.
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00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,000
You know, women literally run our company.
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So I'm going to ask Gina and Mikey to come on up here.
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Where are they?
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00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,000
Well, there's Gina.
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Where's Mikey?
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Where is Mikey?
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Oh, she's coming.
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Yes, that's all right.
505
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:03,000
I've been kidding Mikey all week telling her, I got a present for you.
506
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:04,000
Where did you see it?
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00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:14,000
And he really got Sandy to thank for this.
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00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:16,000
Give back.
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00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:31,000
There you go.
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I think you should put it on.
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00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,000
And look, this is special.
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This thing will move inside.
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00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,000
And when you leave it hanging, it'll go down right.
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00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,000
I think we want to thank Sandy for that.
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00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,000
I've had Scott make a video of this.
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00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:09,000
And I told Sandy, she said, make sure you send me a video.
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00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:15,000
So this is her idea that we make one for women.
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00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,000
And I told her, I said, I'll figure out how to get it done.
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00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:23,000
You got to take off all that other jazz you got on there.
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00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:30,000
No, you're going to do it now.
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00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:32,000
You're doing okay.
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00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:01,000
You like that?
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00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:07,000
Here you go, Sandy.
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00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:11,000
You like that?
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00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:13,000
They're cool.
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00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:15,000
I told you it was nice.
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00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:18,000
Give him a big hand.
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00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:33,000
Both of those women do a phenomenal job.
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00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:39,000
And I'm glad to see them get one of those.
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00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:41,000
They got the first ones.
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00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:45,000
Now, let's look in our book.
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00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:49,000
We're on page eight.
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00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:51,000
Move back.
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00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:54,000
Paradigm Shift.
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This is designed as a resourceful environment
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where people from around the world collaborate, mastermind,
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00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:07,000
and explore opportunities while developing financial independence
538
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,000
by establishing multiple sources of income.
539
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:16,000
I stumbled on an idea way back in the early 60s
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that wealth is developed by having multiple sources of income,
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00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:24,000
not one having many.
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00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:27,000
It took me a number of years before I realized
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what I had discovered or figured out.
544
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:36,000
I was earning over a million dollars a year,
545
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:39,000
and I had absolutely no idea what I was doing.
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00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:44,000
I was living in London, England.
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00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,000
I always wanted to live and go to England,
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00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:49,000
so I thought I'll move there for a little while
549
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,000
and start a company, and I did that,
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00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,000
and I stayed there for about a year or so,
551
00:37:54,000 --> 00:38:01,000
and I was very irresponsible.
552
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,000
The only thing I was, I was very irresponsible.
553
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:10,000
The only thing I did, I disciplined myself to work at one thing
554
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:15,000
and got very good at it, but my irresponsibility never left me.
555
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:19,000
And so I figured, you know, what the hell, I know where the money is.
556
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:21,000
What difference does it make what I do with it?
557
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:24,000
So I'd go down to the Playboy Club on Park Lane,
558
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:26,000
it was right beside the London Hilton,
559
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,000
and they had gambling there.
560
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,000
They had roulette tables, crap tables and everything,
561
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:34,000
and the one rule was don't touch the bunnies.
562
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:38,000
But you could go in there and play, and I would go in and play roulette,
563
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,000
and I almost always won, and I figured out later on
564
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:43,000
it's because I didn't care if I lost.
565
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:45,000
I really didn't care if I lost.
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00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:47,000
I just went, I was putting in time, it was fun,
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00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:49,000
and I almost always won.
568
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:53,000
And that was probably because I didn't care if I lost.
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00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,000
Because I knew where the money was.
570
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:58,000
I could just go and get some more.
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00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:05,000
And one day, yes, like a little voice in my head said,
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00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,000
you're not being very bright, Proctor.
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00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,000
And I think I knew this all along.
574
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:13,000
I knew I was bearing out.
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00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:15,000
If you're irresponsible, you know you are.
576
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,000
There's something in you that tells you what you are.
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00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,000
Now, whether you change it or not is another deal.
578
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:28,000
And I thought, this is not very bright.
579
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:32,000
So then I started to think, well, how the heck did this all happen to me?
580
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:34,000
I had never gone to school.
581
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:36,000
I went to high school for two months.
582
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:40,000
I had no formal education, but I had a company operating in
583
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,000
Toronto, Montreal, Boston, Cleveland, and London, England.
584
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:46,000
And I had money coming in from people I'd never even met in my life.
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00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:48,000
I didn't even know their names.
586
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:50,000
I knew them every day.
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00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:54,000
And one day I thought, how did this happen?
588
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,000
Now, I knew I wasn't lucky.
589
00:39:58,000 --> 00:39:59,000
I knew I wasn't lucky.
590
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,000
I don't know how I knew it, but I knew it.
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00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,000
I think probably it was in some of the material I was studying.
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00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,000
I'd been raised to believe if you're going to earn all that money,
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00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:15,000
you've got to be really smart.
594
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,000
Well, I knew I wasn't very smart, but I was earning a lot of money.
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00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:23,000
I was raised to believe if you don't go to school, you'll never get a good job.
596
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:25,000
Well, I didn't have a good job.
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00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:29,000
I owned the whole company, and I hadn't gone to school.
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00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,000
So I started to wonder, how did this happen?
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00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:34,000
I couldn't even find anybody who could tell me.
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00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:40,000
Now, I was cleaning offices, lots of offices, all over the place.
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And if you'd ask me what I was doing, I would say, well, I clean offices.
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Cleaning offices was almost incidental to what I was doing.
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If I had been selling siding for houses, I would have been successful.
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00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:55,000
If I had been selling cars or windows, I would have been successful.
605
00:40:56,000 --> 00:41:00,000
Yet, it wasn't what I was doing, it was how I was doing it.
606
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:03,000
I got very good at it.
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00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,000
I never talked to the cleaners about cleaning.
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00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:11,000
I would talk to them about what they wanted, where were they going,
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00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:13,000
what were they going to do with their life.
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00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,000
I'd get them excited about doing something.
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00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:19,000
I knew where a cleaner would be at a particular time during the night,
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and I'd stop by, and I'd have some coffee, some cigarettes, some donuts,
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00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:27,000
and I'd go in and sit down and play around with them, trying to, you know.
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00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,000
And I was always dressed up, always dressed up.
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00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:35,000
Because I had worked, I cleaned offices, and you get really tired, it's hard work.
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00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,000
So I knew if I was there in working clothes, I knew that they were tired,
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and they'd want to finish and go home, and they'd think I was a very nice guy
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00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:45,000
if I didn't help them so they could finish the job and leave.
619
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,000
But if I'm all dressed up, they weren't expecting me to help them.
620
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:50,000
So you see?
621
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And that's why I got dressed.
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00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,000
And so I would just talk to them and have a cup of coffee,
623
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,000
and then I'd say, you know, there's another place on your way home,
624
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:00,000
just down the street.
625
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:02,000
You could pick it up, it'd be an extra $100 a month,
626
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:05,000
probably after your mortgage, you know, in the 60s.
627
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:09,000
And they'd say, well, I'm pretty tired.
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00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,000
I said, you can go and have a good sleep, that's okay.
629
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,000
But if you want, I'll run down there with you, I'll show it to you,
630
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,000
and you can pick it up and earn yourself some money.
631
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:22,000
I was always building bigger ideas in their mind,
632
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:24,000
helping them build bigger ideas.
633
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:26,000
And this thing was really rocking.
634
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:28,000
But I didn't know what I was doing.
635
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:30,000
I would have just sit on clean offices
636
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:32,000
because I wasn't paying attention to what I was doing.
637
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:36,000
I was doing for them what Think and Grow Rich
638
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,000
and Earl Nightingale's recordings was doing for me.
639
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:40,000
I was just transferring the information.
640
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:42,000
That's all I was doing.
641
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,000
Yet this company just kept growing, growing, growing.
642
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I was helping them change paradigms.
643
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:50,000
I didn't know that.
644
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:52,000
I was changing my own, but I didn't know that either.
645
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:54,000
I was just doing what I was doing.
646
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:59,000
There's all kinds of very successful people
647
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:02,000
that can't tell you why they are.
648
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:06,000
Yet if they can't tell you why they're successful,
649
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,000
they cannot even pass that along to their kids.
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Their unconscious competence, and that's what I was.
651
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But you see, I was deciding
652
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I'm going to become a little more responsible.
653
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:26,000
I'm going to figure out why I've become successful to this point.
654
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:29,000
And so I had to start studying.
655
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Do you know, it took me nine and a half years.
656
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Over that nine and a half years,
657
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:35,000
I became a super serious student.
658
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,000
I would travel anywhere and I would pay any amount.
659
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:40,000
I didn't care what they charged.
660
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,000
I'll pay it just to study.
661
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:46,000
I paid Bill Gove a lot of money.
662
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,000
I'd give him $5,000 to sit down with him for maybe 15 minutes.
663
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,000
He was the one that taught me how to be comfortable
664
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:55,000
in front of an audience.
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00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:57,000
I'm just comfortable here right now
666
00:43:58,000 --> 00:43:59,000
as if I was home petting my dog.
667
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:00,000
There's no nervousness at all.
668
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,000
I speak nothing like Bill Gove.
669
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:08,000
Bill Gove was, in my mind,
670
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:10,000
one of the greatest speakers in the world.
671
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I don't even see myself as a speaker.
672
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:14,000
Look, companies will pay me a lot of money
673
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:16,000
to go and do a speech.
674
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That's not what I see myself.
675
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I see myself more as a teacher.
676
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I want to teach this information.
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I want everybody.
678
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:26,000
I want you to get it like I've got it.
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And it took me nine and a half years,
680
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:35,000
and I finally figured it out.
681
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,000
And when I got it figured out,
682
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:40,000
all I wanted to do was teach it.
683
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And I wasn't satisfied teaching it
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00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:45,000
the way I was teaching it.
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00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,000
I thought, I've got to work with some real good people.
686
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,000
So I thought, I want to work with Earl Nightgill.
687
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:55,000
And I had to get out of my own business
688
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,000
and move my family to Chicago.
689
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,000
And I went to work with Earl Nightgill.
690
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:04,000
And I was there for five years.
691
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,000
It was the most phenomenal education I ever got.
692
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:11,000
I got an education that most people would never be able to get today.
693
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:15,000
This was in a company that started this industry
694
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:17,000
that we're a part of now.
695
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:25,000
They really started the motivation education
696
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:32,000
through recorded learnings back in that, around 1959.
697
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,000
Earl recorded the strangest secret record,
698
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:37,000
and that was really where it all started.
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And then it started to expand.
700
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And they took on distributors, consultants.
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I remember I phoned, I told them I wanted to go to work there,
702
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and they said, well, there's a man putting a meeting on in Montreal this weekend.
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You can go down and find out how you can work here.
704
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:55,000
So I went down, and it was $5,000.
705
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:59,000
In today's dollars, that would be around $40,000.
706
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:05,000
And I went down, and I gave them the money, and I said, I'm going to do this.
707
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:08,000
I had no idea how to do it.
708
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,000
Did you want to know something? Neither did they.
709
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:13,000
They didn't know.
710
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:15,000
It was a new industry.
711
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:17,000
It was a new business.
712
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Nobody knew how to sell this.
713
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And this has to be sold.
714
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:24,000
Although you've got something that will take and change a person's life,
715
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:29,000
literally change their life, yet will multiply their income,
716
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:34,000
yet will improve their health, yet will build their business,
717
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:37,000
but you've really got to sell it.
718
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,000
And most people don't know how to sell it.
719
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:42,000
Certainly didn't know then.
720
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,000
And man, did I ever go to work in a hurry.
721
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:47,000
Go to work in a hurry.
722
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:53,000
I educated myself through more recordings, and it was all on record.
723
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:56,000
I had a little portable record player
724
00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:00,000
that I could hold in one hand, and I could drive my car while I played the record.
725
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:05,000
Now, it's not a very great way to live because the needle keptโฆ
726
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,000
You know, you're trying toโฆ
727
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,000
It's a wonder I didn't kill myself.
728
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:16,000
And that's when I started to understand how I started to earn so much money.
729
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:20,000
You see, one day, I woke up.
730
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,000
I came to, and I was laying on the street,
731
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:26,000
and there was a big cop standing over me, looking at me.
732
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,000
I would maybe be 27, 28.
733
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:33,000
And I was regaining consciousness.
734
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:35,000
I had passed out.
735
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:36,000
I was exhausted.
736
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:39,000
I thought the answer was clean more offices.
737
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,000
And so I just kept getting more offices to clean.
738
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:46,000
I had a hard time even getting home to go to bed sometimes
739
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,000
because I had more offices to clean.
740
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:50,000
And to the point where I passed out.
741
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:52,000
I thought the idea was work a little harder.
742
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,000
Try a little harder. Do a little more.
743
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,000
And it was a scary situation because there was a crowd.
744
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:01,000
There was a crowd.
745
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:06,000
And it was a scary situation because there was a crowd of people around me.
746
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:09,000
Then I saw a stretcher and a couple of guys in uniforms,
747
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:10,000
and the lights were flashing.
748
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:15,000
I think probably the first people who found me thought maybe I had dropped out
749
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:16,000
because I was just laying there.
750
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:18,000
I passed out.
751
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:22,000
And finally I talked them out of taking me to the hospital.
752
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:24,000
They were all for taking me to the hospital.
753
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:29,000
And I was trying to get oriented because it was a scary situation
754
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:34,000
as much as it was mentally, you know.
755
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,000
And I finally got away from them.
756
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:42,000
And I sat down and I thought I'm doing something wrong.
757
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:49,000
Now I was earning a fair amount of money relative to what I had when I started.
758
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:52,000
I thought this is not right.
759
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:54,000
I'm a young guy.
760
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:57,000
I thought I was only 27, maybe 28.
761
00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,000
And here I'm passing out in the street.
762
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,000
There's like a little voice in my head said,
763
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:05,000
if you can't clean all of them, don't clean any of them.
764
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:11,000
I quit cleaning offices and I started to get other people cleaning offices.
765
00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:16,000
And that's when we went into Montreal, Atlanta, Boston, Cleveland, London, England.
766
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:18,000
Just kept growing.
767
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:22,000
Didn't really understand what I was doing, but that's what I was doing.
768
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,000
I had set up multiple sources of income.
769
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:26,000
Didn't know what I had done.
770
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:35,000
Now, in this book that really started the change in my life,
771
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:41,000
he said, if you are one of those people who believe that hard work and honesty alone
772
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:45,000
will bring riches, perish the thought, it is not true.
773
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:51,000
Riches, when they come in huge quantities, are never the result of hard work.
774
00:49:51,000 --> 00:49:55,000
Riches come if they come at all in response to definite demands
775
00:49:55,000 --> 00:50:00,000
based upon the application of definite principles and not by chance or luck.
776
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:06,000
Now, the key there is riches, if they come at all, come in response to definite demands.
777
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:16,000
I tell people I don't know how you could earn more money than you can in this business.
778
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:19,000
Do you know why?
779
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:23,000
There's a definite demand for somebody that knows how to do what I'm doing.
780
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:25,000
Everywhere in the world.
781
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:32,000
I've worked in Shanghai, in Kosovo, in Buenos Aires, in Singapore, Cote-de-Canabalu,
782
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:37,000
all over Europe, in Israel, in the Middle East, all over North America.
783
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:43,000
Everywhere I've gone, there's a screaming need for this information.
784
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:51,000
People are struggling, smart people, brilliant people, and they're in debt.
785
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,000
They can't pay their own way.
786
00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:00,000
A definite demand.
787
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:10,000
And he said based upon the application of definite principles, that's what this book is.
788
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:13,000
Definite principles.
789
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:23,000
Some people approached me, I don't know, maybe it's two years ago now.
790
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:28,000
They wanted me to record those principles.
791
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:31,000
I knew who they were.
792
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:32,000
They were very good.
793
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:34,000
They were a director here in LA.
794
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:35,000
It was very good.
795
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:36,000
Did good work.
796
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:40,000
And I said I would be very happy to do that.
797
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:41,000
I know it inside out.
798
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:44,000
I've studied it for years.
799
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:47,000
It's called the Legacy Series.
800
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:50,000
And you'll hear about it.
801
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:53,000
I want to get it and study it.
802
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:56,000
Because it's the principles.
803
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:58,000
The principles.
804
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:01,000
Find a need and so on.
805
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:05,000
But base it on principles.
806
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,000
Doesn't matter what anybody else is doing.
807
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:11,000
It's what are you doing?
808
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:16,000
Well, you see, I was doing that, but I didn't understand I was doing it.
809
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:21,000
So I was what you'd call an unconscious competent.
810
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:26,000
And over this nine and a half years, I started to understand what I was doing.
811
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:30,000
And man, when I figured it out, all I wanted to do was teach it.
812
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:32,000
Because I know.
813
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:33,000
I don't wonder.
814
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:37,000
I mean, I've got just a ton of experience in this.
815
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:45,000
I've seen people that were that close to death's door like that get better.
816
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:51,000
Ever since the doctor of the future will use no medicine.
817
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:54,000
Use energy healing.
818
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:58,000
Use energy healing.
819
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:01,000
Mind is perfect.
820
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:04,000
There is no such thing as mental retardation.
821
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:05,000
That is a misnomer.
822
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:06,000
There is no such thing.
823
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:07,000
The mind is perfect.
824
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:09,000
You cannot damage it.
825
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:13,000
So if there's a problem in a child, it's not the mind.
826
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,000
There's brain damage.
827
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:19,000
But we've got such an abundance of brain cells that healthy cells can be designed
828
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:23,000
and educated to do what the damaged cells can no longer do.
829
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:24,000
So all things can be cured.
830
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:28,000
There's no such thing as an incurable disease.
831
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:32,000
When you start to understand these principles and then start to understand paradigms,
832
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:33,000
you'll see how you can change them.
833
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:34,000
Doesn't matter what it is.
834
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:37,000
Your relationships could be in a mess.
835
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:40,000
Like that, you can change them.
836
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:41,000
You can be struggling.
837
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:43,000
I mean, really struggling.
838
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:46,000
And you can change it.
839
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:51,000
I was getting on the elevator here in this building
840
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:55,000
with Tommy Collier, creative director.
841
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:59,000
And the guy got off the elevator and it was like he was in shock.
842
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,000
He goes, here, pop out.
843
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:05,000
And I said, yeah, that's who I am.
844
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:06,000
Boss, I've got to talk to you.
845
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:09,000
He said, just stop and talk to me for a minute.
846
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:13,000
He said, you've literally changed my life.
847
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:17,000
Now, Tommy has his phone number and that, so I want you to save that
848
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:20,000
because I want to talk to him.
849
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:24,000
This guy, you'd be interested in talking to him, Robert.
850
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:28,000
This guy manages something like $9 billion worth of money.
851
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:34,000
His company is just moving from, where the hell did they say they were?
852
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:37,000
Somewhere in Europe, moving back to Seattle.
853
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:40,000
But he does what you do.
854
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:47,000
Works for wealthy families and, you know.
855
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:50,000
I made a series years ago.
856
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:55,000
It was on an infomercial, Power to Have It All.
857
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:58,000
This guy told me, he said, I listened to that.
858
00:54:58,000 --> 00:54:59,000
I listened to it.
859
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:02,000
I listened to it every day, every day, every day for months.
860
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:05,000
I could relate to what he was doing because that's what I did with the rules material.
861
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:06,000
I couldn't stop listening.
862
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:09,000
And I think he got the same effect from it as I got.
863
00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:12,000
I was so fascinated with what Earl was saying
864
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:19,000
because I had never heard anybody talk like that ever in my life.
865
00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:26,000
And the fact that anyone could win, finally I got the message, that means me too.
866
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:29,000
You know, it took a while for that to sink in.
867
00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:33,000
But I was so fascinated with what I was listening to, I couldn't stop.
868
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:38,000
What I was doing was changing my paradigm, and I didn't know that.
869
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:42,000
I didn't even know it after I had accomplished that.
870
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:49,000
I went from earning $4,000 a year to earning $14,500 a month.
871
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:52,000
If you annualize that, it's $175,000 a year.
872
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:55,000
So any year I went from earning $4,000 to $175,000 a year.
873
00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:59,000
I hadn't earned $175,000 that year, but I was at $14,500 a month.
874
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:02,000
And if you annualize it, that's what I had done.
875
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:08,000
That was multiplying my income by over 40. I think it's 40.3%, something like that.
876
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:13,000
If you say, how'd you do that? I'd say, hell, I don't know.
877
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:18,000
And I didn't know. But I do now.
878
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:21,000
If I can do it, you can do it.
879
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:24,000
I went into Kingston Penitentiary.
880
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:27,000
That was maximum security. It's such a terrible place.
881
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,000
They've closed it now, something like Alcatraz.
882
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:32,000
It's a museum or some damn thing now.
883
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:35,000
They had a guy in there that had been in solitary confinement.
884
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:40,000
That means he had one hour a day out of a cell that he was living in by himself,
885
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:44,000
one hour a day outside by himself.
886
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:49,000
He had been in that cell for seven and a half years.
887
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:52,000
And he still had 20 years to go.
888
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:57,000
He had shot a guy in a holdup over in Detroit, in Windsor, the opposite side,
889
00:56:57,000 --> 00:57:01,000
the Canadian side of Detroit.
890
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:04,000
He's lucky the guy didn't die because they would have hung him then.
891
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:11,000
There were hanging people then. The guy didn't die.
892
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:16,000
Do you know, they paroled him to me.
893
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:20,000
I got the National Parole Board to tear up his parole and give him his passport
894
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:22,000
and I had him move to England with me.
895
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:23,000
I had no idea what the hell I was doing.
896
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,000
I'm going to say there's a lot to be said for ignorance.
897
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:27,000
I'm down hammering on the desk saying,
898
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:30,000
I know right, keeping this guy on this parole.
899
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:33,000
He had to report to the city police in Toronto every week.
900
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:37,000
He had to report to the Mounties, the horsemen, the Mount, you know,
901
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:42,000
the federal police every month, and he couldn't leave the city.
902
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:44,000
He had been in there for seven and a half years.
903
00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:48,000
His wife had a little girl while he was in there.
904
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:51,000
They had two boys themselves.
905
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:56,000
He was befriended by a priest in there, Bobby Gaudette.
906
00:57:56,000 --> 00:57:58,000
Bobby got he and his wife back together,
907
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:05,000
and he treated that little girl like it was his own, right up until he died.
908
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:09,000
He was one of the most valuable employees I ever had.
909
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:12,000
He would have done anything for me, anything.
910
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:16,000
I think I was the first person that really believed in him,
911
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:19,000
and it's because I believed in him that he performed.
912
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:22,000
I know that.
913
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:24,000
I can tell you a lot of stories like that.
914
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:26,000
That was way out there.
915
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,000
This works everywhere.
916
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:31,000
There's a phenomenal demand.
917
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:35,000
The accumulation of great wealth calls for power,
918
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:38,000
and power is acquired through highly organized
919
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:41,000
and intelligently directed specialized knowledge.
920
00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:44,000
That's what the legacy series is.
921
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:45,000
People look at the price.
922
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:47,000
I don't know if I can buy that.
923
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:49,000
They don't know. They don't know.
924
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:51,000
Listen.
925
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:54,000
The accumulation of great wealth calls for power.
926
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,000
Power is acquired through highly organized
927
00:58:56,000 --> 00:59:04,000
and intelligently directed specialized knowledge.
928
00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:08,000
But that knowledge does not have to be in the possession of the person
929
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:11,000
who accumulates the fortune.
930
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:13,000
I didn't have that knowledge.
931
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:14,000
I just did what he said.
932
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:16,000
I accumulated the fortune.
933
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:18,000
You don't have to know it.
934
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:20,000
You don't have to understand this like I did.
935
00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:21,000
You just have to do what I'm telling you.
936
00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:23,000
If I'm coaching a person, I tell them,
937
00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:26,000
if you don't do exactly what I tell you, I'll fire you.
938
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:31,000
I will not coach you anymore.
939
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:37,000
I have a woman who's paid me $250,000 a year.
940
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:40,000
I talk to her once a week for 30 minutes,
941
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:46,000
and I see her once every quarter for a day.
942
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:53,000
I think last month she earned 700,000 euros.
943
00:59:53,000 --> 01:00:00,000
She's learning how to earn money.
944
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:03,000
I don't know what you're doing, but I do know this.
945
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:06,000
You know how to do it better than you're doing it.
946
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:08,000
And I don't care what you're doing.
947
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:10,000
I don't care how well you're doing.
948
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:11,000
You could be saying, well,
949
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:12,000
he doesn't know what he's talking about.
950
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:14,000
I mean, yes, I do know what I'm talking about.
951
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:15,000
I really do.
952
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:17,000
In fact, I don't even know anyone
953
01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:19,000
that knows this subject as well as I do.
954
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:21,000
No, I don't know anything else.
955
01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:22,000
I don't do anything else.
956
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:23,000
This is all I do.
957
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:25,000
I'm useless around the house.
958
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:27,000
I am.
959
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:28,000
I had an electrician come one time,
960
01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:31,000
and all it was was a fuse had gone.
961
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:33,000
But I didn't know that.
962
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:34,000
I don't have to know that.
963
01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:38,000
He knows that.
964
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,000
I don't do anything else other than what I'm doing.
965
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:41,000
I just stick to my knitting.
966
01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:44,000
I found out that's the way to do it.
967
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:45,000
That's what Schwab said.
968
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:46,000
Put all your eggs in one basket
969
01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:48,000
and then watch that basket.
970
01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:50,000
I don't want to learn how to do some of these things.
971
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:51,000
They say, Bob,
972
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:54,000
you wouldn't have to hire people to do it.
973
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:58,000
I don't want to do it.
974
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:00,000
I get an award, or I have an award,
975
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:01,000
for the last two or three years
976
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:04,000
for our gardens around our house.
977
01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:06,000
They're beautiful.
978
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:12,000
I have never, ever planted a flower or cut a lawn.
979
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:14,000
I've lived in that house for 35 years.
980
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:15,000
The guy that's cutting the lawn
981
01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:18,000
was cutting it when I went there,
982
01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:20,000
when I bought it.
983
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:22,000
The guy that was cleaning the pool
984
01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:23,000
just died a couple of years ago.
985
01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:24,000
He cleaned the pool for us.
986
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:25,000
He was cleaning the pool for the people
987
01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:28,000
that we bought the house out.
988
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:30,000
I don't want to do any of those things.
989
01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:33,000
I don't do any of them.
990
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:34,000
Do you know what I had to learn
991
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:38,000
to sit and read while they were working?
992
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:41,000
You have to learn to be served.
993
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:44,000
You have to learn it.
994
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:47,000
I was mentoring a man
995
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:52,000
who has more money than God.
996
01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:55,000
He had a 120-foot yacht
997
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:58,000
that he would ship from the Caribbean
998
01:01:58,000 --> 01:01:59,000
to the Mediterranean
999
01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:02,000
on a thing called Dock Express.
1000
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:04,000
I said, you're going to put this on another ship?
1001
01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:06,000
And he got a video out and showed it to me.
1002
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:08,000
They lower the side of the ship.
1003
01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:10,000
They float his yacht on.
1004
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:12,000
Then they bring the side up,
1005
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:16,000
and divers go down and weld things underneath it,
1006
01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,000
chocks underneath it.
1007
01:02:18,000 --> 01:02:20,000
And it would take three or four of these.
1008
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:23,000
I said, my God.
1009
01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:25,000
He'd ship his yacht from,
1010
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:30,000
and he'd fly the captain and the crew over.
1011
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:33,000
He had a beautiful place in Gistat.
1012
01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:37,000
He had a beautiful home in Cap-en-Tib in France.
1013
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:39,000
I used to go there frequently
1014
01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:41,000
and mentor him there.
1015
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:44,000
He had an apartment in Eaton Square in London.
1016
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:45,000
If I'd have told you it was Prince Charles,
1017
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:47,000
you'd have believed me.
1018
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:51,000
I mean, this guy lived big.
1019
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:53,000
And he had a problem.
1020
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:55,000
He wouldn't work.
1021
01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:57,000
So he was unhappy.
1022
01:02:57,000 --> 01:03:00,000
My job was to get him to work.
1023
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:01,000
And I did.
1024
01:03:01,000 --> 01:03:03,000
It took me about seven or eight months.
1025
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:06,000
Paid me a lot of money just to sit and talk to him.
1026
01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:08,000
But I was showing him what was wrong with him.
1027
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:11,000
I showed him, and it was his paradigm.
1028
01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:12,000
See?
1029
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:14,000
He had a lot of money.
1030
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:17,000
And he thought, I guess, that you go to work for money.
1031
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:19,000
And he didn't.
1032
01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:22,000
I said, you don't work for money.
1033
01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:24,000
I was doing a seminar in Phoenix.
1034
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:26,000
And a doctor came up to me one time,
1035
01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:28,000
and he told me that he was thinking
1036
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:29,000
of leaving the medical profession.
1037
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:31,000
I said, why?
1038
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:33,000
Well, he said, you just can't earn enough money.
1039
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,000
And he said, the medical profession's all screwed up.
1040
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:37,000
He said, you've got to put in more time to earn less money
1041
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:40,000
in this business today.
1042
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:41,000
I said, wait a minute.
1043
01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:44,000
Why'd you become a doctor?
1044
01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:47,000
Well, he said, I became a doctor.
1045
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:49,000
I love it.
1046
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:51,000
I said, it shouldn't matter if you're earning anything
1047
01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:55,000
if you're doing what you love.
1048
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:57,000
I said, you know what's the problem with most people?
1049
01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:58,000
They don't do what they love.
1050
01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:00,000
I said, that's the secret to life.
1051
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:01,000
Love what you're doing.
1052
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,000
I said, you don't go to work for money.
1053
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:05,000
You go to work for satisfaction.
1054
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:09,000
You provide service to earn money.
1055
01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:12,000
I was earning money last night while I was sleeping.
1056
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:15,000
You can actually earn more money when you're sleeping
1057
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:18,000
than you can spend when you're awake.
1058
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:19,000
Most people don't know that.
1059
01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:20,000
School doesn't teach us that.
1060
01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:22,000
They never teach us how to earn money.
1061
01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:23,000
How could they?
1062
01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:27,000
They don't know.
1063
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:30,000
They can't teach you what they don't know.
1064
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:36,000
And most of them don't even know they don't know.
1065
01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:40,000
And I said, you want to thank God every day
1066
01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:42,000
that you're doing what you love to do.
1067
01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:46,000
Now, if you can earn anything, it's a plus.
1068
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:48,000
I said, I'll show you how to earn money.
1069
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:51,000
You set up situations where you're providing a service.
1070
01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:52,000
You don't have to be there.
1071
01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:55,000
You don't work.
1072
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:57,000
I'm providing service on the other side of the world
1073
01:04:57,000 --> 01:04:59,000
and I go to bed.
1074
01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:01,000
I'm not on the other side of the world,
1075
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:03,000
but I've got a service going on the other side of the world
1076
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:04,000
that I could pay for.
1077
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:05,000
Can you do that?
1078
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:06,000
If I can do it, you can do it.
1079
01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:07,000
If I can do it, you can do it.
1080
01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:09,000
Anything you see somebody else do,
1081
01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:12,000
you know you have the positive proof you can do it.
1082
01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:19,000
Now, you may have to learn.
1083
01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:21,000
This is a resourceful environment
1084
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:24,000
where people from around the world collaborate.
1085
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,000
You've got to mix with other people.
1086
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,000
You've got to talk to other people.
1087
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:31,000
Don't just talk to your spouse or your buddy
1088
01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:33,000
or the person you came with.
1089
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:37,000
When you're out there, talk to everybody.
1090
01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:40,000
Get to know them.
1091
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:43,000
Hi, my name's Bob.
1092
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:46,000
Why'd you come?
1093
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:47,000
Right?
1094
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:49,000
Why'd you come here?
1095
01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:50,000
To learn.
1096
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:51,000
To learn, you know?
1097
01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:53,000
What did you want to learn?
1098
01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:55,000
I want to learn how to grow bigger.
1099
01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:58,000
You want to learn how to grow bigger?
1100
01:05:58,000 --> 01:05:59,000
Now, that's a good answer,
1101
01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:02,000
and I know this guy and his wife have really rocked
1102
01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:05,000
from this information.
1103
01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:08,000
They own Puffy Academy, isn't it?
1104
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:09,000
I love the name.
1105
01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:12,000
God, I love the name.
1106
01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:13,000
Puffy Academy.
1107
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:16,000
It's a tremendous success.
1108
01:06:16,000 --> 01:06:18,000
And it was your idea,
1109
01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:20,000
and you just kept thinking it and thinking it,
1110
01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:23,000
and I said, God, that's a phenomenal idea.
1111
01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:25,000
So they started it.
1112
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:26,000
Puffy Academy.
1113
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:28,000
If you touch, just stand up for a second
1114
01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:30,000
so they see what I'm talking about, okay?
1115
01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:34,000
Now, you want to ask these people about their business
1116
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:37,000
when you see them at a break.
1117
01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:39,000
They have a fascinating business,
1118
01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:44,000
and they are earning lots of money.
1119
01:06:44,000 --> 01:06:49,000
Now, Marco here, he,
1120
01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:52,000
you're still working on the online thing, right?
1121
01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:54,000
Yeah, I'm shifting it to the Puffy Academy.
1122
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:56,000
You're shifting it.
1123
01:06:56,000 --> 01:07:00,000
Must be more profitable when you shift it.
1124
01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:02,000
That's the way I've got it.
1125
01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:04,000
Give them a hand, all right?
1126
01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:07,000
They came to a number of verse seminars,
1127
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:09,000
and I would talk to them about it,
1128
01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:10,000
and it was obvious to me
1129
01:07:10,000 --> 01:07:12,000
the only thing that was stopping them
1130
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:14,000
was their paradigm.
1131
01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:17,000
They blamed it on everything under the sun.
1132
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:18,000
That's what paradigms do.
1133
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:19,000
Paradigms say,
1134
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:21,000
you couldn't do it because of this,
1135
01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:22,000
and you know something,
1136
01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:23,000
they're telling you the truth.
1137
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:24,000
You don't know how to do it
1138
01:07:24,000 --> 01:07:26,000
whatever this is,
1139
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:28,000
but you can learn it.
1140
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:29,000
You see?
1141
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:31,000
Paradigms are,
1142
01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:34,000
logical, practical.
1143
01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:37,000
They tell you the truth.
1144
01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:38,000
You don't know how to do it.
1145
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:39,000
That's true.
1146
01:07:39,000 --> 01:07:40,000
So it says you'll never do it.
1147
01:07:40,000 --> 01:07:42,000
You're going to lose everything you've got.
1148
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:44,000
And you really get scared.
1149
01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:47,000
It took you a long time before you did it.
1150
01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:49,000
And when you did it,
1151
01:07:49,000 --> 01:07:53,000
it went like a rocket.
1152
01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:55,000
Well, collaborate with some of these people.
1153
01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:57,000
Get talking to the people.
1154
01:07:57,000 --> 01:07:59,000
There's people here
1155
01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:00,000
that can help you.
1156
01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:03,000
You just don't know who they are.
1157
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:04,000
They don't know who you are.
1158
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:07,000
They don't know what you're doing.
1159
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:11,000
Explore opportunities
1160
01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:12,000
while you're developing
1161
01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:14,000
multiple sources of income.
1162
01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:17,000
You see, I learned a long time ago
1163
01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:19,000
when I passed out in the street.
1164
01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:20,000
I didn't learn it at the time,
1165
01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:22,000
but that's when it really started.
1166
01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:25,000
The secret of earning a lot of money
1167
01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:27,000
is multiple sources of income.
1168
01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:28,000
You can go right back
1169
01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:30,000
to the ancient Babylonians.
1170
01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:32,000
Very wealthy sect of people
1171
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:34,000
earned a lot of money.
1172
01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:37,000
Every one of us can.
1173
01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:42,000
Every one of us.
1174
01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:43,000
Now let's take a look
1175
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:47,000
at what a paradigm is.
1176
01:08:47,000 --> 01:08:50,000
It's a mental program
1177
01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:55,000
that has almost exclusive control
1178
01:08:56,000 --> 01:09:00,000
over our habitual behavior.
1179
01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:01,000
I saw that in a movie
1180
01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:03,000
or on a film strip.
1181
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:05,000
It was shown at the introduction,
1182
01:09:05,000 --> 01:09:06,000
and this is where it stopped,
1183
01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:10,000
but that's not where it stops.
1184
01:09:10,000 --> 01:09:11,000
Yet, it's a mental program
1185
01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:13,000
that has almost exclusive control
1186
01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:15,000
over our habitual behavior,
1187
01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:18,000
and almost all of our behavior
1188
01:09:18,000 --> 01:09:20,000
is habitual.
1189
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:23,000
That was missing on that film.
1190
01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:24,000
Almost all of our behavior
1191
01:09:24,000 --> 01:09:26,000
is habitual.
1192
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:27,000
In other words,
1193
01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:28,000
most of what you're doing,
1194
01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:30,000
you don't have to think at all.
1195
01:09:30,000 --> 01:09:32,000
You just automatically do it.
1196
01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:34,000
You just automatically do it.
1197
01:09:34,000 --> 01:09:35,000
Do you know what you can do?
1198
01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:39,000
You can consciously and deliberately
1199
01:09:39,000 --> 01:09:42,000
feed stuff into your paradigm
1200
01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:44,000
that will have you automatically winning.
1201
01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:49,000
Automatically.
1202
01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:50,000
I'm starting something
1203
01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:53,000
that you're going to love.
1204
01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:57,000
I thought about it on a plane.
1205
01:09:57,000 --> 01:10:02,000
Sandy Gallagher gave me a suggestion
1206
01:10:02,000 --> 01:10:04,000
how she wanted me to do
1207
01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:06,000
this much more business.
1208
01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:07,000
I said, okay.
1209
01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:08,000
She said, how are you going to do it?
1210
01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:11,000
And I said, well, I don't know.
1211
01:10:11,000 --> 01:10:13,000
I figured it.
1212
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:14,000
I get on a plane.
1213
01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:16,000
We'll be telling you about it.
1214
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:20,000
It's PGI's Studio 333.
1215
01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:22,000
Studio 333.
1216
01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:23,000
I'll show you the logo.
1217
01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:25,000
Don't give me the idea.
1218
01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:31,000
Studio 333 is where we teach people
1219
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:35,000
how to do things they think they can't do.
1220
01:10:35,000 --> 01:10:36,000
That's where we're going to teach people
1221
01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:38,000
how to do things they think they can't do.
1222
01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:41,000
It will be run on a regular basis.
1223
01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:42,000
It will probably be streamed
1224
01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:44,000
all over the world.
1225
01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:45,000
If we charge anything,
1226
01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:49,000
it might be $5 a month.
1227
01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:50,000
But we might not charge that.
1228
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:52,000
We haven't decided on that yet.
1229
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:53,000
I'll be starting fairly soon
1230
01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:56,000
because I worked it all out on the plane.
1231
01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:57,000
Where was I flying?
1232
01:10:57,000 --> 01:11:00,000
Where the hell were we going?
1233
01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:01,000
I forgot where I was going.
1234
01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:03,000
Maybe it was coming here, I guess.
1235
01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:05,000
It was coming here.
1236
01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:08,000
I got Mikey on the phone.
1237
01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:11,000
She got her creative department going.
1238
01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:12,000
And before I landed,
1239
01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:14,000
we had the local tape all made up,
1240
01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:17,000
had the idea all in my head.
1241
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:19,000
And we're going to introduce it.
1242
01:11:19,000 --> 01:11:21,000
I asked Mikey, I said,
1243
01:11:21,000 --> 01:11:23,000
do a mailing to everybody.
1244
01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:25,000
Tell them about this.
1245
01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:27,000
And she's a little smarter than me in the marketing.
1246
01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:30,000
That's why she's the marketing director.
1247
01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:31,000
And she said, I think it would be better
1248
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:33,000
if we introduced it in the seminar this weekend
1249
01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:35,000
and then mailed it.
1250
01:11:35,000 --> 01:11:36,000
Good idea.
1251
01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:39,000
So this is the start of the introduction.
1252
01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:40,000
This is not the introduction.
1253
01:11:40,000 --> 01:11:41,000
This is the start of it.
1254
01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:43,000
Now, what do we want to do?
1255
01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:47,000
We want to change our paradigm.
1256
01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:52,000
So there's things we're doing that are automatically,
1257
01:11:52,000 --> 01:11:54,000
we're automatically doing it,
1258
01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:59,000
that are not serving us, causing us problems.
1259
01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:02,000
And I don't care how old you are.
1260
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:04,000
I don't care how young you are.
1261
01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:05,000
I don't care if you're male or female.
1262
01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:07,000
None of that makes any difference.
1263
01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:11,000
You are doing things that are not serving you,
1264
01:12:11,000 --> 01:12:12,000
and you automatically do them,
1265
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:15,000
and you do them every day.
1266
01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:19,000
So what you have to do is pick one or two of those things out
1267
01:12:19,000 --> 01:12:22,000
and replace it with something that is serving you.
1268
01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:24,000
Don't try and change too many things at once.
1269
01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:28,000
You'll change nothing.
1270
01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:30,000
And you do that,
1271
01:12:30,000 --> 01:12:34,000
and you're going to find success becomes automatic.
1272
01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:36,000
The paradigm is for a sake.
1273
01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:40,000
My paradigm now causes me to do all kinds of things
1274
01:12:40,000 --> 01:12:42,000
that really serve me.
1275
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:44,000
But I still have some things that I'm doing
1276
01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:46,000
that do not serve me.
1277
01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:48,000
So I don't care how long you live,
1278
01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:52,000
your odds are you're not going to hit perfection,
1279
01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:54,000
but you can get better,
1280
01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:56,000
and that's really what we want to do.
1281
01:12:56,000 --> 01:13:00,000
Now, Sandy Gallagher joined our company.
1282
01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:03,000
Unfortunately, she cannot be here this weekend,
1283
01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:06,000
and that's too bad, but she is,
1284
01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:10,000
she's financial genius, really is.
1285
01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:13,000
She came to a seminar,
1286
01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:16,000
and she had never heard anybody talk like me before.
1287
01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:18,000
I guess she was as fascinated with what I was doing
1288
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:20,000
as I was with what Earl was doing.
1289
01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:28,000
And she started to spend more time with us,
1290
01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:30,000
more time with us.
1291
01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:34,000
She started to do some voluntary work around the company,
1292
01:13:34,000 --> 01:13:40,000
and she's a securities attorney.
1293
01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:43,000
She's dealing mostly in community banks.
1294
01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:49,000
She'd buy banks, sell banks, turn them public, merge them.
1295
01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:54,000
High-dollar stuff, and very, very good.
1296
01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:56,000
Has a great reputation.
1297
01:13:56,000 --> 01:14:01,000
And she ended up becoming my partner.
1298
01:14:01,000 --> 01:14:03,000
And I'm going to tell you, when she started,
1299
01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:05,000
I'd been in the business a long time,
1300
01:14:05,000 --> 01:14:09,000
but the business is doing more since she started
1301
01:14:09,000 --> 01:14:11,000
than we ever dreamed of.
1302
01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:16,000
And it's just going ahead and ahead and ahead.
1303
01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:20,000
And it's because of her
1304
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:22,000
and some of the other people in the company,
1305
01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:24,000
like Gina and Mikey, and different people in the company.
1306
01:14:24,000 --> 01:14:29,000
We've got some phenomenal people.
1307
01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:33,000
I love this quote by Steve Jobs.
1308
01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:37,000
For the past 33 years, I've looked in the mirror every morning
1309
01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:42,000
and asked myself, yet today were the last day of my life
1310
01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:47,000
would I want to do what I'm about to do today?
1311
01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:49,000
Such a good question.
1312
01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:55,000
Yet whenever the answer has been no
1313
01:14:55,000 --> 01:14:57,000
for too many days in a row,
1314
01:14:57,000 --> 01:15:04,000
I know I need to change something.
1315
01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:06,000
When we started to use that quote,
1316
01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:09,000
I started to read it often,
1317
01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:11,000
and I do it frequently.
1318
01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:15,000
I'll change something.
1319
01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:17,000
I work a lot with Arash.
1320
01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:19,000
Arash is a great salesman.
1321
01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:22,000
He's a great sales manager.
1322
01:15:22,000 --> 01:15:27,000
He and I brainstorm frequently on the phone,
1323
01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:31,000
and we're looking at what we don't do
1324
01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:35,000
and what we should start doing.
1325
01:15:35,000 --> 01:15:37,000
And growth is the name of the game,
1326
01:15:37,000 --> 01:15:40,000
but if you want to grow, you've got to change.
1327
01:15:40,000 --> 01:15:41,000
There's no question about it.
1328
01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:44,000
If you want to grow, you've got to change.
1329
01:15:44,000 --> 01:15:47,000
And I think something we all want to remember,
1330
01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:51,000
this is so important and it's so misunderstood
1331
01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:54,000
that you and I have phenomenal potential,
1332
01:15:54,000 --> 01:16:00,000
and you and I can actually create our own economy.
1333
01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:03,000
Yet it has nothing to do with the market.
1334
01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:05,000
It has nothing to do with the government.
1335
01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:08,000
Yet it has to do with your own thinking.
1336
01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:14,000
You can actually create your own economy.
1337
01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:17,000
I was listening where they're talking
1338
01:16:17,000 --> 01:16:19,000
the potential they're going to take
1339
01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:21,000
the highest-income earners
1340
01:16:21,000 --> 01:16:23,000
and charge them 70% taxes.
1341
01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:25,000
I don't care if they charge me 70%.
1342
01:16:25,000 --> 01:16:26,000
I really don't.
1343
01:16:26,000 --> 01:16:27,000
I'll just earn more.
1344
01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:29,000
They can keep raising it if they want.
1345
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:31,000
I'll just keep earning more.
1346
01:16:31,000 --> 01:16:32,000
I'm not going to let that bother me.
1347
01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:34,000
I won't let that sway me at all.
1348
01:16:34,000 --> 01:16:35,000
Now, a lot of people say,
1349
01:16:35,000 --> 01:16:37,000
well, I wouldn't want to do that.
1350
01:16:37,000 --> 01:16:38,000
Well, there was somebody.
1351
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:40,000
If you know where it is, you know,
1352
01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:41,000
I don't care what they do.
1353
01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:43,000
They're not in charge of me.
1354
01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:44,000
I'm in charge of me.
1355
01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:47,000
Now, look, we set goals.
1356
01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:49,000
We go for an A-type goal.
1357
01:16:49,000 --> 01:16:52,000
That's doing what you already know how to do.
1358
01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:54,000
It's a dumb habit, but we do it.
1359
01:16:54,000 --> 01:16:55,000
It's part of the paradigm.
1360
01:16:55,000 --> 01:16:58,000
If we come and we get some information,
1361
01:16:58,000 --> 01:17:01,000
then we say, I'll do a B-type goal,
1362
01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:04,000
and that's where, if I think I can do it.
1363
01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:06,000
Now, I want you to stop and play with this
1364
01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:07,000
for a moment.
1365
01:17:07,000 --> 01:17:08,000
You're going from doing something
1366
01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:09,000
you already know how to do
1367
01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:12,000
because you've done it before.
1368
01:17:12,000 --> 01:17:14,000
If you graduate, and this is where
1369
01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:16,000
a number of people go that come to the seminar,
1370
01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:18,000
they go to a B-type goal.
1371
01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:21,000
They say, if this happened,
1372
01:17:21,000 --> 01:17:23,000
if that happened,
1373
01:17:23,000 --> 01:17:24,000
if this worked this way,
1374
01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:25,000
and that worked that way,
1375
01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:27,000
and we were to do this,
1376
01:17:27,000 --> 01:17:31,000
then I could do this.
1377
01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:33,000
We're thinking.
1378
01:17:33,000 --> 01:17:36,000
You're doing what you think you can do.
1379
01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:38,000
There's no inspiration in that.
1380
01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:44,000
Absolutely none.
1381
01:17:44,000 --> 01:17:45,000
There's only inspiration
1382
01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:47,000
in what you want to do.
1383
01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:48,000
We've got to get out of there.
1384
01:17:48,000 --> 01:17:49,000
We've got to get up here.
1385
01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:51,000
Whatever your heart's desire is up here
1386
01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:52,000
waiting for you,
1387
01:17:52,000 --> 01:17:54,000
you just name it and claim it.
1388
01:17:54,000 --> 01:17:56,000
Now, that's really what we have to do.
1389
01:17:56,000 --> 01:17:57,000
That's where we have to go,
1390
01:17:57,000 --> 01:17:59,000
and most people don't go there.
1391
01:17:59,000 --> 01:18:05,000
You see, you don't want to go there or there.
1392
01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:06,000
You've got to get up here.
1393
01:18:06,000 --> 01:18:09,000
You've got to stretch.
1394
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:10,000
And I'm going to tell you,
1395
01:18:10,000 --> 01:18:13,000
if you're not stretching,
1396
01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:16,000
there's something you're not doing.
1397
01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:21,000
You have not selected the proper target.
1398
01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:22,000
If you're doing something
1399
01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:23,000
that you're very familiar with
1400
01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:25,000
and it's comfortable,
1401
01:18:25,000 --> 01:18:26,000
you're not on the right track.
1402
01:18:26,000 --> 01:18:31,000
You're not going to be really jazzed.
1403
01:18:31,000 --> 01:18:35,000
I get up around 5 o'clock in the morning,
1404
01:18:35,000 --> 01:18:37,000
and I'm doing my exercise this morning
1405
01:18:37,000 --> 01:18:41,000
around 5.15, something like that,
1406
01:18:41,000 --> 01:18:44,000
and I'm starting to get really turned on
1407
01:18:44,000 --> 01:18:45,000
about what I was going to do.
1408
01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:47,000
I was looking forward to teaching this,
1409
01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:49,000
but aside from teaching this,
1410
01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:53,000
I'm looking forward to this Studio 333.
1411
01:18:53,000 --> 01:18:54,000
We called it 333.
1412
01:18:54,000 --> 01:18:56,000
There's a story in your Born Rich book
1413
01:18:56,000 --> 01:18:59,000
about me teaching an idea in a seminar,
1414
01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:01,000
and there was a couple of guys there.
1415
01:19:01,000 --> 01:19:02,000
They raised $3 million in three hours
1416
01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:06,000
three days later.
1417
01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:08,000
Yeah, they raised $3 million in three hours
1418
01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:10,000
three days later.
1419
01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:11,000
They followed an idea
1420
01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:14,000
that I was teaching in the seminar,
1421
01:19:14,000 --> 01:19:15,000
and there was a tornado
1422
01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:16,000
that had gone through a town
1423
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:17,000
just north of Toronto,
1424
01:19:17,000 --> 01:19:19,000
and they needed $3 million to do something.
1425
01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:20,000
They said,
1426
01:19:20,000 --> 01:19:22,000
listen, we can raise $3 million in three hours
1427
01:19:22,000 --> 01:19:23,000
three days from now.
1428
01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:24,000
Everybody thought they were crazy.
1429
01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:26,000
Well, the idea is all written up in the book.
1430
01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:28,000
So here we're teaching people,
1431
01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:29,000
and I thought,
1432
01:19:29,000 --> 01:19:30,000
we'll call Studio 333.
1433
01:19:30,000 --> 01:19:33,000
We'll use that idea as a foundation,
1434
01:19:33,000 --> 01:19:35,000
and we'll teach people how to do things
1435
01:19:35,000 --> 01:19:38,000
they think they can't do.
1436
01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:41,000
We'll have people phone in from all over the world.
1437
01:19:41,000 --> 01:19:42,000
We'll talk to them,
1438
01:19:42,000 --> 01:19:44,000
and we may have a couple of PowerPoints
1439
01:19:44,000 --> 01:19:45,000
that we just use to spin off
1440
01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:47,000
and get people thinking,
1441
01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:50,000
but it's not going to be an organized thing.
1442
01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:55,000
It's going to be different.
1443
01:19:55,000 --> 01:20:00,000
Now, Robert Heinlein said something
1444
01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:02,000
that was so true.
1445
01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:05,000
A child that's growing up in a home
1446
01:20:05,000 --> 01:20:08,000
where there's no clearly defined goals,
1447
01:20:08,000 --> 01:20:10,000
that child's going to become strangely loyal
1448
01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:12,000
to performing daily trivia
1449
01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:15,000
until ultimately he becomes slaved by it.
1450
01:20:15,000 --> 01:20:20,000
Why? Because their parents are.
1451
01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:22,000
Now, he wrote Strangers in a Strange Land
1452
01:20:22,000 --> 01:20:23,000
back in the 60s.
1453
01:20:23,000 --> 01:20:26,000
He was a science fiction writer.
1454
01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:27,000
But he says,
1455
01:20:27,000 --> 01:20:31,000
an absence of clearly defined goals.
1456
01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:35,000
Have you any idea how many homes
1457
01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:44,000
right here within 50 miles of this hotel,
1458
01:20:44,000 --> 01:20:46,000
the majority of homes,
1459
01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:49,000
they don't have any goals.
1460
01:20:49,000 --> 01:20:50,000
Back where you live,
1461
01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:53,000
the majority of the people living in your neighborhood,
1462
01:20:53,000 --> 01:20:54,000
they do not have goals.
1463
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:58,000
They do not have clearly defined goals,
1464
01:20:58,000 --> 01:20:59,000
properly established.
1465
01:20:59,000 --> 01:21:02,000
They don't have them.
1466
01:21:02,000 --> 01:21:03,000
They need help,
1467
01:21:03,000 --> 01:21:07,000
and they don't think that they're on the wrong track
1468
01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:10,000
because they work hard.
1469
01:21:10,000 --> 01:21:12,000
They pay their bills,
1470
01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:15,000
but they're not accumulating any wealth.
1471
01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:16,000
They're good people.
1472
01:21:16,000 --> 01:21:19,000
They go to temple or go to church or go to the mosque,
1473
01:21:19,000 --> 01:21:22,000
you know, on a regular basis.
1474
01:21:22,000 --> 01:21:24,000
They're good living people,
1475
01:21:24,000 --> 01:21:28,000
but they're not going anywhere.
1476
01:21:29,000 --> 01:21:30,000
Why?
1477
01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:32,000
Their paradigm has them locked into where they are.
1478
01:21:32,000 --> 01:21:33,000
How did they get the paradigm?
1479
01:21:33,000 --> 01:21:37,000
Well, it started out when they were conceived
1480
01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:39,000
at the moment of conception.
1481
01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:45,000
All of mom's DNA and all of dad's DNA become your DNA.
1482
01:21:45,000 --> 01:21:47,000
It's rather wild, you see.
1483
01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:51,000
If you're able to shape your paradigm
1484
01:21:51,000 --> 01:21:53,000
or shape your future,
1485
01:21:53,000 --> 01:21:56,000
you have to be willing and able to change your paradigm.
1486
01:21:56,000 --> 01:22:03,000
Now, you can be willing but not able
1487
01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:05,000
because you don't know how.
1488
01:22:05,000 --> 01:22:06,000
I was changing mine.
1489
01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:09,000
I didn't know what I had done.
1490
01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:11,000
Most people that are very successful
1491
01:22:11,000 --> 01:22:16,000
cannot articulate on why they are.
1492
01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:18,000
There's any number of sales managers,
1493
01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:20,000
any number of managers in company
1494
01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:23,000
has no idea about what we're talking about,
1495
01:22:23,000 --> 01:22:28,000
and they're trying to get the people to do a better job.
1496
01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:29,000
The people aren't going to do a better job
1497
01:22:29,000 --> 01:22:32,000
until they start to understand this.
1498
01:22:32,000 --> 01:22:37,000
The manager will sit and tell them what they want done.
1499
01:22:37,000 --> 01:22:39,000
The person will agree, they'll do it,
1500
01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:41,000
and they do it that day.
1501
01:22:41,000 --> 01:22:44,000
The next day, they're back onto the old track again.
1502
01:22:44,000 --> 01:22:45,000
The manager will say,
1503
01:22:45,000 --> 01:22:46,000
I thought you agreed to do that.
1504
01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:47,000
I know.
1505
01:22:47,000 --> 01:22:48,000
Why aren't you doing it?
1506
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:50,000
I don't know.
1507
01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:56,000
No foundation, no one understands paradigms.
1508
01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:05,000
Career counselors in school trying to help a kid
1509
01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:07,000
that's maybe going down the wrong road,
1510
01:23:07,000 --> 01:23:08,000
they don't know how to help them.
1511
01:23:08,000 --> 01:23:11,000
That kid's paradigm is taking them down the wrong road.
1512
01:23:11,000 --> 01:23:14,000
Could they sit down and show the person how the paradigm,
1513
01:23:14,000 --> 01:23:19,000
what it is and everything, in very few minutes probably,
1514
01:23:19,000 --> 01:23:23,000
but they can't do it because they don't understand it.
1515
01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:28,000
You have to be willing and able to change the paradigm.
1516
01:23:28,000 --> 01:23:30,000
Now, I love this.
1517
01:23:30,000 --> 01:23:34,000
You never change things by fighting existing reality.
1518
01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:36,000
To change things, you build a new model
1519
01:23:36,000 --> 01:23:39,000
that makes the existing model obsolete.
1520
01:23:39,000 --> 01:23:42,000
When Sandy became my partner,
1521
01:23:42,000 --> 01:23:48,000
she was not a particularly popular person in the company
1522
01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:51,000
because she had been studying the material
1523
01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:54,000
and she locked into this and she said,
1524
01:23:54,000 --> 01:23:55,000
you know what we have to do?
1525
01:23:55,000 --> 01:23:58,000
We've got to create a new model here
1526
01:23:58,000 --> 01:24:01,000
that makes the existing model obsolete.
1527
01:24:01,000 --> 01:24:04,000
I had agreed when she joined us
1528
01:24:04,000 --> 01:24:08,000
that I would support whatever move she wanted to make,
1529
01:24:08,000 --> 01:24:11,000
and it was not popular, some of the things she wanted to do,
1530
01:24:11,000 --> 01:24:14,000
but she did them.
1531
01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:21,000
And it was rough going for a little while,
1532
01:24:21,000 --> 01:24:22,000
then it started to get better
1533
01:24:22,000 --> 01:24:28,000
and it just keeps getting better and better and better.
1534
01:24:28,000 --> 01:24:33,000
You may be fighting existing reality.
1535
01:24:33,000 --> 01:24:37,000
It could be a waste of time and money.
1536
01:24:37,000 --> 01:24:39,000
You've been trying this for years
1537
01:24:39,000 --> 01:24:41,000
and it's not producing what you want.
1538
01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:44,000
Why don't you create a new model
1539
01:24:44,000 --> 01:24:48,000
that makes the existing model obsolete?
1540
01:24:48,000 --> 01:24:52,000
You do that and some great things can happen.
1541
01:24:52,000 --> 01:24:55,000
Now, I love this.
1542
01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:57,000
It's not who you are that's holding you back.
1543
01:24:57,000 --> 01:25:02,000
It's who you think you're not.
1544
01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:06,000
Every one of us has so much going for us
1545
01:25:06,000 --> 01:25:12,000
that we can't even properly discuss it.
1546
01:25:12,000 --> 01:25:15,000
I think maybe you can here in this room
1547
01:25:15,000 --> 01:25:17,000
because that's what we're here for.
1548
01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:22,000
But you go outside of this room,
1549
01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:26,000
it's a strange thing.
1550
01:25:26,000 --> 01:25:28,000
I was talking to my wife at home.
1551
01:25:28,000 --> 01:25:30,000
I was talking about the number of relatives,
1552
01:25:30,000 --> 01:25:32,000
fairly close relatives.
1553
01:25:32,000 --> 01:25:35,000
They never come to a seminar.
1554
01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:36,000
Wow.
1555
01:25:36,000 --> 01:25:39,000
I heard somebody say, wow.
1556
01:25:39,000 --> 01:25:43,000
No, they don't.
1557
01:25:43,000 --> 01:25:46,000
I remember, in fact, I tell this story
1558
01:25:46,000 --> 01:25:49,000
in the last chapter in You're Born Rich.
1559
01:25:49,000 --> 01:25:51,000
There's an aunt and uncle.
1560
01:25:51,000 --> 01:25:53,000
My aunt was my dad's sister,
1561
01:25:53,000 --> 01:25:56,000
but she was about the same age as me.
1562
01:25:56,000 --> 01:25:58,000
She was his young sister.
1563
01:25:58,000 --> 01:26:03,000
And I would drop by and see them periodically.
1564
01:26:03,000 --> 01:26:04,000
Exactly.
1565
01:26:04,000 --> 01:26:06,000
They lived not too far from me.
1566
01:26:06,000 --> 01:26:09,000
They had a whole house full of kids.
1567
01:26:09,000 --> 01:26:12,000
And he worked as a millwright in a company
1568
01:26:12,000 --> 01:26:14,000
away in the other side of the city,
1569
01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:16,000
and he didn't have a license to drive a car.
1570
01:26:16,000 --> 01:26:17,000
He didn't have a car.
1571
01:26:17,000 --> 01:26:19,000
So he had to take public transportation
1572
01:26:19,000 --> 01:26:21,000
all the way up to the west end of the city,
1573
01:26:21,000 --> 01:26:23,000
which takes a long time.
1574
01:26:23,000 --> 01:26:26,000
It's a grueling ride, and then back.
1575
01:26:26,000 --> 01:26:28,000
And he had to work overtime every night
1576
01:26:28,000 --> 01:26:33,000
to make enough money to make things happen.
1577
01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:36,000
I dropped by one time.
1578
01:26:36,000 --> 01:26:38,000
It was around Christmas.
1579
01:26:38,000 --> 01:26:39,000
And they were running around,
1580
01:26:39,000 --> 01:26:40,000
and they were talking about this,
1581
01:26:40,000 --> 01:26:42,000
trying to get a place that would give them
1582
01:26:42,000 --> 01:26:44,000
a credit card, a big store,
1583
01:26:44,000 --> 01:26:48,000
where they could buy presents for the kids.
1584
01:26:48,000 --> 01:26:50,000
And I listened to this for a while,
1585
01:26:50,000 --> 01:26:51,000
and I said, you know, he said,
1586
01:26:51,000 --> 01:26:53,000
never mind, next year's going to be different.
1587
01:26:53,000 --> 01:26:54,000
I said, you want to know something, Don?
1588
01:26:54,000 --> 01:26:57,000
Next year's going to be exactly the same.
1589
01:26:57,000 --> 01:26:59,000
I said, you're a real stupid guy.
1590
01:26:59,000 --> 01:27:03,000
I said, you do exactly the same thing
1591
01:27:03,000 --> 01:27:05,000
and expect to get different results.
1592
01:27:05,000 --> 01:27:08,000
That's a form of insanity.
1593
01:27:08,000 --> 01:27:10,000
I said, why didn't you learn what you're doing
1594
01:27:10,000 --> 01:27:12,000
and learn how to improve?
1595
01:27:12,000 --> 01:27:14,000
Would he ever get mad at me?
1596
01:27:14,000 --> 01:27:16,000
Finally, I left.
1597
01:27:16,000 --> 01:27:22,000
Now, they got paid every two weeks.
1598
01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:24,000
So three or four times a year,
1599
01:27:24,000 --> 01:27:27,000
they got three pays in a month.
1600
01:27:27,000 --> 01:27:31,000
They budgeted for two pays,
1601
01:27:31,000 --> 01:27:33,000
because most months they just got two.
1602
01:27:33,000 --> 01:27:38,000
But every now and then, they would get three pays.
1603
01:27:38,000 --> 01:27:39,000
They came to a seminar,
1604
01:27:39,000 --> 01:27:42,000
and I charged them for coming.
1605
01:27:42,000 --> 01:27:44,000
We were doing a seminar at that time
1606
01:27:44,000 --> 01:27:50,000
every Tuesday night from 7 to 10 for eight weeks.
1607
01:27:50,000 --> 01:27:58,000
And I made them pay.
1608
01:27:58,000 --> 01:28:04,000
I bought into the idea, if you pay, you pay attention.
1609
01:28:04,000 --> 01:28:05,000
And you get for nothing,
1610
01:28:05,000 --> 01:28:08,000
you place little or no value on.
1611
01:28:08,000 --> 01:28:12,000
Now, do I follow that rule 100%? No.
1612
01:28:12,000 --> 01:28:14,000
But every time I try and help a person
1613
01:28:14,000 --> 01:28:18,000
where they don't pay, it doesn't usually work.
1614
01:28:18,000 --> 01:28:22,000
Anyway, I made them pay.
1615
01:28:22,000 --> 01:28:25,000
They're both gone now.
1616
01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:29,000
But do you know, Marge, it was about the third week,
1617
01:28:29,000 --> 01:28:32,000
she told me, if we hadn't have paid,
1618
01:28:32,000 --> 01:28:34,000
I'd have never come back.
1619
01:28:34,000 --> 01:28:37,000
I had no idea what the hell you were talking about.
1620
01:28:37,000 --> 01:28:39,000
Start talking about conscious mind
1621
01:28:39,000 --> 01:28:44,000
and universal intelligence.
1622
01:28:44,000 --> 01:28:46,000
She said, I just sat there,
1623
01:28:46,000 --> 01:28:48,000
I didn't even know what you were talking about.
1624
01:28:48,000 --> 01:28:50,000
About the third week, you said,
1625
01:28:50,000 --> 01:28:52,000
what do you want?
1626
01:28:52,000 --> 01:28:54,000
Not what do your kids want you to want.
1627
01:28:54,000 --> 01:28:56,000
Not what does your spouse want you to want.
1628
01:28:56,000 --> 01:28:58,000
What do you want?
1629
01:28:58,000 --> 01:29:01,000
Well, she said she hadn't thought of what she wanted
1630
01:29:01,000 --> 01:29:06,000
since she was a teenager before she was married.
1631
01:29:06,000 --> 01:29:10,000
She was thinking of getting it for the kids
1632
01:29:10,000 --> 01:29:14,000
and her husband.
1633
01:29:14,000 --> 01:29:17,000
She said, I didn't know what I wanted.
1634
01:29:17,000 --> 01:29:20,000
It's been so long since I thought of what I wanted.
1635
01:29:20,000 --> 01:29:23,000
I didn't know what I wanted.
1636
01:29:23,000 --> 01:29:25,000
And she said, when I started to write,
1637
01:29:25,000 --> 01:29:27,000
then it couldn't stop.
1638
01:29:27,000 --> 01:29:29,000
Everything she wanted.
1639
01:29:29,000 --> 01:29:32,000
Do you know, when they died, they were millionaires.
1640
01:29:32,000 --> 01:29:35,000
Their company is still operating.
1641
01:29:35,000 --> 01:29:37,000
They own a beautiful place down in Florida,
1642
01:29:37,000 --> 01:29:39,000
another beautiful place in Toronto.
1643
01:29:39,000 --> 01:29:43,000
Their family worked in the company.
1644
01:29:43,000 --> 01:29:48,000
They're in millions of dollars.
1645
01:29:48,000 --> 01:29:52,000
Because they started to understand this.
1646
01:29:52,000 --> 01:29:57,000
Do you know there's a lot of people like Mark and Don.
1647
01:29:57,000 --> 01:29:59,000
It's strange, I have a lot of relatives,
1648
01:29:59,000 --> 01:30:02,000
they don't come here.
1649
01:30:02,000 --> 01:30:05,000
I've told them, you're welcome, you know.
1650
01:30:05,000 --> 01:30:07,000
They're busy.
1651
01:30:07,000 --> 01:30:09,000
We've got other things we've got to do.
1652
01:30:09,000 --> 01:30:11,000
They'll phone me and say, you know,
1653
01:30:11,000 --> 01:30:13,000
really, we were planning to come up,
1654
01:30:13,000 --> 01:30:16,000
but this has come up, and I know.
1655
01:30:16,000 --> 01:30:18,000
You've got to figure out how to do more of the same.
1656
01:30:18,000 --> 01:30:24,000
Go ahead.
1657
01:30:24,000 --> 01:30:28,000
You cannot force this on people.
1658
01:30:28,000 --> 01:30:31,000
But if you really want it,
1659
01:30:31,000 --> 01:30:36,000
I guarantee you some great things can happen.
1660
01:30:36,000 --> 01:30:40,000
Self-confidence is the first requisite
1661
01:30:40,000 --> 01:30:43,000
to great understanding.
1662
01:30:43,000 --> 01:30:47,000
Solomon said, all you're getting, get understanding.
1663
01:30:47,000 --> 01:30:50,000
There's a quote somewhere in here.
1664
01:30:50,000 --> 01:30:53,000
I'm not quite sure where it is, but it's in here.
1665
01:30:53,000 --> 01:30:55,000
It's by Eric Hoffer.
1666
01:30:55,000 --> 01:30:57,000
I had the good fortune of working with Eric Hoffer.
1667
01:30:57,000 --> 01:30:59,000
He's been dead for many, many years,
1668
01:30:59,000 --> 01:31:01,000
but I worked with him at the Human Resource Congress
1669
01:31:01,000 --> 01:31:03,000
in 1970 in Chicago.
1670
01:31:03,000 --> 01:31:07,000
And grand old man, he said,
1671
01:31:07,000 --> 01:31:12,000
to learn, you need a certain degree of confidence.
1672
01:31:12,000 --> 01:31:15,000
Not too much and not too little.
1673
01:31:15,000 --> 01:31:17,000
If you have too little confidence,
1674
01:31:17,000 --> 01:31:19,000
you'll think you can't learn.
1675
01:31:19,000 --> 01:31:25,000
If you have too much, you'll think you don't have to learn.
1676
01:31:25,000 --> 01:31:28,000
You know, it's rather sad to be thinking about that.
1677
01:31:28,000 --> 01:31:33,000
Most of us fall into both those categories too often.
1678
01:31:33,000 --> 01:31:35,000
It would be a very prudent move on our part
1679
01:31:35,000 --> 01:31:38,000
if we attempted to keep ourselves
1680
01:31:38,000 --> 01:31:42,000
at that certain degree of confidence.
1681
01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:46,000
You're going to know you don't know it all.
1682
01:31:46,000 --> 01:31:48,000
You don't know it all.
1683
01:31:48,000 --> 01:31:52,000
And every time you raise your level of understanding,
1684
01:31:52,000 --> 01:31:54,000
it's reflected in your results.
1685
01:31:54,000 --> 01:31:57,000
What's going on outside of you is a reflection
1686
01:31:57,000 --> 01:32:01,000
of what's going on inside of your own understanding.
1687
01:32:01,000 --> 01:32:03,000
I don't care what you're doing.
1688
01:32:03,000 --> 01:32:06,000
I don't care how old you are.
1689
01:32:06,000 --> 01:32:08,000
I can tell you this.
1690
01:32:08,000 --> 01:32:11,000
And I don't think it, I know it.
1691
01:32:11,000 --> 01:32:17,000
Keep in mind, I got this 58 years ago.
1692
01:32:17,000 --> 01:32:19,000
I have never stopped reading it.
1693
01:32:19,000 --> 01:32:21,000
I read it every day.
1694
01:32:21,000 --> 01:32:24,000
I became so fascinated with this information,
1695
01:32:24,000 --> 01:32:26,000
I got addicted to it.
1696
01:32:26,000 --> 01:32:28,000
I love studying it.
1697
01:32:28,000 --> 01:32:30,000
I absolutely love it.
1698
01:32:30,000 --> 01:32:35,000
However, I keep testing myself.
1699
01:32:35,000 --> 01:32:38,000
I said, I'm not doing as well as I can do.
1700
01:32:38,000 --> 01:32:40,000
I want to do better.
1701
01:32:40,000 --> 01:32:43,000
I want to do better.
1702
01:32:43,000 --> 01:32:48,000
Now, some of us have a good friend here, Phil Goldfein.
1703
01:32:48,000 --> 01:32:50,000
Saturday morning, he's going to share a story with you
1704
01:32:50,000 --> 01:32:52,000
that's a damn good story.
1705
01:32:52,000 --> 01:32:56,000
In fact, there's a number of stories.
1706
01:32:56,000 --> 01:33:03,000
I started to coach Phil about 17 years ago.
1707
01:33:03,000 --> 01:33:08,000
And I was telling him when I started,
1708
01:33:08,000 --> 01:33:12,000
the man that gave me that book, Ray Stanford,
1709
01:33:12,000 --> 01:33:17,000
he said, if you will do exactly what I tell you.
1710
01:33:17,000 --> 01:33:19,000
I said, I'm not going to tell you what time to go to bed
1711
01:33:19,000 --> 01:33:21,000
or what to eat or something like that.
1712
01:33:21,000 --> 01:33:24,000
But if you will do exactly what I tell you,
1713
01:33:24,000 --> 01:33:26,000
you can have anything you want.
1714
01:33:26,000 --> 01:33:29,000
Now, I was earning $4,000 a year.
1715
01:33:29,000 --> 01:33:31,000
I owed $6,000.
1716
01:33:31,000 --> 01:33:33,000
It was in 1961.
1717
01:33:33,000 --> 01:33:37,000
If I had paid every cent I earned out in a year,
1718
01:33:37,000 --> 01:33:41,000
I would have still owed a couple of thousand dollars
1719
01:33:41,000 --> 01:33:43,000
because I earned four, I owed six.
1720
01:33:43,000 --> 01:33:49,000
I owed more money than I earned all year.
1721
01:33:49,000 --> 01:33:52,000
I couldn't even get anywhere near getting even.
1722
01:33:52,000 --> 01:33:54,000
In fact, I'd get to a point where I wouldn't even try
1723
01:33:54,000 --> 01:33:57,000
and pay some of them because what's the sense?
1724
01:33:57,000 --> 01:34:00,000
You know, you get discouraged.
1725
01:34:00,000 --> 01:34:04,000
And for me to accept the idea I could have anything I want
1726
01:34:04,000 --> 01:34:09,000
living under those conditions, I couldn't buy that.
1727
01:34:09,000 --> 01:34:11,000
I couldn't believe that.
1728
01:34:11,000 --> 01:34:13,000
But you know something?
1729
01:34:13,000 --> 01:34:15,000
It was the way he was talking to me.
1730
01:34:15,000 --> 01:34:18,000
I believed, he believed it.
1731
01:34:18,000 --> 01:34:21,000
That was the difference.
1732
01:34:21,000 --> 01:34:24,000
That was the difference with Phil.
1733
01:34:24,000 --> 01:34:26,000
I was talking to Phil last night.
1734
01:34:26,000 --> 01:34:28,000
He was telling me.
1735
01:34:28,000 --> 01:34:36,000
Now, he was really struggling when I met him.
1736
01:34:36,000 --> 01:34:41,000
He's very successful today, earns millions of dollars.
1737
01:34:41,000 --> 01:34:46,000
He's done things that very few people alive have done.
1738
01:34:46,000 --> 01:34:49,000
And he didn't believe what I was saying,
1739
01:34:49,000 --> 01:34:53,000
but he said, you said in that story about rain,
1740
01:34:53,000 --> 01:34:59,000
he said, I believed, you believed it.
1741
01:34:59,000 --> 01:35:01,000
And that's what convinced me.
1742
01:35:01,000 --> 01:35:02,000
I believed, Ray believed it.
1743
01:35:02,000 --> 01:35:05,000
So I was prepared to do what he told me.
1744
01:35:05,000 --> 01:35:08,000
Now, keep in mind, I was 26.
1745
01:35:08,000 --> 01:35:10,000
I had never done what I was told.
1746
01:35:10,000 --> 01:35:13,000
I was in the Canadian Navy and I got in a lot of trouble
1747
01:35:13,000 --> 01:35:24,000
because I wouldn't do what I was told.
1748
01:35:24,000 --> 01:35:26,000
I was not a good employee.
1749
01:35:26,000 --> 01:35:29,000
There's a couple of places where I lasted for one hour.
1750
01:35:29,000 --> 01:35:30,000
I got fired.
1751
01:35:30,000 --> 01:35:33,000
That's not an easy thing to do.
1752
01:35:33,000 --> 01:35:35,000
To expose yourself in an hour.
1753
01:35:35,000 --> 01:35:38,000
They found out in an hour how useless I was.
1754
01:35:38,000 --> 01:35:40,000
You see?
1755
01:35:40,000 --> 01:35:43,000
And they fired me.
1756
01:35:43,000 --> 01:35:56,000
Now, the objective of this program is to help you understand you better.
1757
01:35:56,000 --> 01:36:00,000
Help you understand how there's something inside of you.
1758
01:36:00,000 --> 01:36:02,000
It's like a little program.
1759
01:36:02,000 --> 01:36:07,000
You know, we have programs in our phones.
1760
01:36:07,000 --> 01:36:17,000
These programs control the phone.
1761
01:36:17,000 --> 01:36:22,000
Well, you've got a program in you and it controls you.
1762
01:36:22,000 --> 01:36:27,000
You don't have to learn how to write code to change the program.
1763
01:36:27,000 --> 01:36:31,000
To change the program is a very simple thing to do.
1764
01:36:31,000 --> 01:36:35,000
But when you do it, it will reflect in your results.
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01:36:35,000 --> 01:36:38,000
You'll start earning more money.
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You'll start to have more fun.
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You'll start to mix with people that you enjoy mixing with.
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I read something the other day.
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I haven't got it right, I don't think, but I got the idea.
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If you're mixing with the wrong people, you're not going to end up in the right place.
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I was mixing with the wrong people.
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And I never ended up in the right place.
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Today, I mix with the right people.
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I don't spend a lot of time with anyone.
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I have a few associates that I respect.
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I like, I enjoy their company, so I spend time with them.
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But a person that's really busy, doesn't have time, spends a lot of time just sitting and chitty-chatting.
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They've got too much to do, places to go.
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Now, Gina?
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I do?
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She does.
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You see, you talk about anticipate.
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I didn't even finish.
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I said, do you have?
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She said, I do.
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Were you going to ask me something else?
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Come on down.
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Give this lady a hand.
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She's really good.
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Isn't he good?
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Gina, come here.
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I appreciate you.
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Okay.
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We're going to play a quick video, but before we do that, if you have an empty seat at your table,
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can you just kind of set the chair against the table?
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You know how you flip them up if you're saving a chair?
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Does that make sense?
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Okay.
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We just need to know where there are empty seats in the room.
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I would like to say thank you and goodbye to our YouTube and Facebook people.
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We've enjoyed having you with us.
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The rest of you, we are going to take a break for 20 minutes,
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and then we're going to come back here.
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Can we play our video, please?
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All right, live streamers.
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Here in the room, they're watching a housekeeping video that just pertains to the room,
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and you don't need to see that.
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So I'm here with one of my best friends and coworkers, Arash Basooghi.
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Hi, Arash.
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Hey, Mike, how are you?
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Good.
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How are you enjoying the event so far?
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Really?
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I'm loving it.
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You?
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I'm loving it, too.
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I think this is the biggest case that we've had between paradigm shifts so far.
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I think this is our eighth paradigm shift,
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but we've never done one 60 days from the previous one,
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so we just did one in April,
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and I want to know what you implemented from the April paradigm shift to now.
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You know, I was telling Bob this last week, last Friday, actually.
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I think I had one of my biggest aha's for a long time,
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where I just focused on one thing,
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and I have had so many huge results personally for me,
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and Bob and I were talking,
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and he sent me an Instagram clip the next day from Chris Powell,
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who had actually the percentage of some study from Harvard that says,
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when you focus on one thing, your chance of success was like 82%,
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but then when you focus on two things at a time, not just that one thing,
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it drops to 26%.
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That is such great advice, especially in an environment like this,
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where Bob is going to go over so much information,
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he's going to give everyone so many tools.
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How do they decide on that one thing to focus on?
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I think you'll know, what is that one thing you really want?
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What is that one decision that you've been wanting to make that you haven't made yet?
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Not a hundred decisions, and you'll know what it is your heart really wants.
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Like, do you want to get fit?
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Do you really want to create your own business?
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Like, how long have you been saying, I want to create my own business?
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Even if you don't know how, do that one act that will get you going.
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I love it.
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So for those of you that haven't joined us for a livestream before,
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this is what we call Coaches Corner.
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And at every break, one of our coaches is going to join me on set.
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This time it's Arash, who is one of Bob's personally trained coaches.
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So we're going to do a panel later tonight where Arash and I are going to really get into some tools
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that can help you take your life to the next level.
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I just wanted to give you a quick introduction.
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Arash is Bob's personally trained coach, and he's going to help all of you get better results
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and really take what Bob's teaching on stage and dig into it and help you implement it.
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So from today, Bob kind of touched on a lot of different topics,
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and I feel like he got the morning rolling.
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What was your biggest takeaway just from this morning?
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I think just everything is about our paradise,
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and where he said almost everything that we do is habitual.
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If we realize that, and he said you could plant the good to make that habitual,
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I think we can always get better.
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So I look at myself, I look at you and think,
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what are we doing habitually right now?
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That one thing again, piggybacking on what I said earlier,
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that I don't like, turn it into the opposite of what I do like.
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That is so good, and that makes it so much more simple.
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You only pick one thing, focus on it, stay true to it, make the main thing the main thing, and keep going.
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All right, well before we sign off, we're going to play a quick video,
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but do you have any last words before we go?
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My last word is enjoy these next three days.
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Get really emotionally involved with what Bob's doing,
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because it takes one idea to fall in love with that will really get anybody watching this to take off.
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I love it. Thanks, Raj. Thanks, everyone.
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We're going to play a quick video for you, and we'll be back in 20 minutes.
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Many years ago, I read where Napoleon Hill pointed out that the imagination is the most marvelous,
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miraculous, inconceivably powerful force that the world has ever known.
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And you know, the average individual uses the imagination, if they use it at all, against themselves.
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They imagine what they don't want. They imagine problems coming.
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Let's begin to use our imagination the way God meant it to be used.
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It's the greatest creative faculty that we possess, and we can build anything we want with it.
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I want you to wander around your home, or possibly your office,
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and take a look at all of the conveniences that you have there that you didn't have, let's say,
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two years, five years, ten years ago, 25 years ago.
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Do you know that every one of them, without exception, was first created in the mind of one individual with their imagination?
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Do you know you can use your imagination to go into the future and bring it into the present?
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That's what all highly successful people do.
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They see where they want to go, and then they act like the person they want to become.
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It was William James from Harvard, so twice.
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He says it's the actor's technique. Act like the person you want to become.
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How do you do that? Well, you use your imagination, of course.
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You see, it's a strange phenomenon, but the greatest gift we've got is used very well,
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up to the ages of four or possibly five.
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The little child, we always wonder what's going on in their mind.
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They're using their imagination, they're building wonderful pictures in their mind,
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but then they get to school, and wham, like that, it comes to an abrupt halt.
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It's called not paying attention. Daydreaming.
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Well, what they were really doing was exercising a phenomenal mental faculty.
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You see, we can see here smell, taste, touch. They're for our physical benefit.
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As long as we're living in a physical body and corresponding with the material world,
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we will use our sensory factors.
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But you know, I have a couple of little dogs at home that can hear, see, smell, taste, and touch.
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We've got higher faculties. You have perception, the will, memory, intuition, reason, and imagination.
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These marvelous tools.
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We can take our imagination and build an image in our mind of how we want to live.
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Block out what's going now. Don't let your present results have anything to do with this.
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Just what you want. And it's with your imagination that you will build it.
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Everything that we have, the camera that I'm speaking to right now, was first created in the mind of one individual.
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Think of how our worlds changed.
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You see, we were gifted with these higher faculties.
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We're God's highest form of creation. We were created in God's image.
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We were given creative faculties to use.
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And you know, they're only used by two or three percent of the population.
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It's almost inconceivable that people would wander around with so much power and potential and squander it.
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See, the average person literally tiptoes through life, hoping they make it safely to death.
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It's such a shame, and it doesn't have to be that way.
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Think we have giant corporations and little-wee creative departments.
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The primary reason for that is the average individual really does not believe that they're creative.
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Think. Everyone's creative, and no one is more creative than another.
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It's just that some have chosen to use their creative faculties to a greater degree than others.
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Imagination. Your imagination.
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What do you want? How do you really want to live?
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Build the picture in your mind. There's a power that is flowing to and through you.
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A creative, unadulterated power.
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It can be photographed leaving your body.
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Way back in the 30s, Semyon Kurly, the Russian photographer, perfected a form of photography
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where you can actually photograph a person's body, and you will see the energy glowing from them.
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Well, that energy flows into your mind.
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And it's the images you build in your mind that's going to dictate the vibration that this instrument you're living in is in.
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And the vibration on a conscious level is called feeling.
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Make certain that you exercise your imagination daily.
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Build beautiful images in your mind of how you want to live, and then hold those pictures there and live that way.
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The imagination. The greatest nation in the world. The imagination.
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You've got one. It's a marvelous creative tool.
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It deals with the invisible side of your personality.
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You see, no one will ever really see you.
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They'll only see your body, and they'll see you the great work that you do.
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Make certain that your work is great work.
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And if you keep your imagination alive, keep it active, you're going to have a phenomenal life.
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Life can get better every day, and it will get better every day through the proper use of your imagination.
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What a wonderful idea.
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It's Bob Proctor. Thank you.
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You make me feel so young. You make me feel that spring has sprung.
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And every time I see you grin, I'm such happy.
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The end of the door, the moment that you speak.
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Are we all ready?
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Here is a simple lesson that's totally misunderstood.
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Two things you must know to create wealth.
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Now, I think I'd be fairly safe in saying at least 90% of everyone in this room wants to create wealth.
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And if you've already got it, you want to create more.
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Because it involves growth.
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Going somewhere, doing something.
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What do you have to know? Just two things.
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Number one, you have to know where you are.
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You have to know where you're going, and you've got to get moving.
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Now, that is so simple, and it's so obvious you have to ask yourself, why are so many people stuck?
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And they are.
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People are actually stuck.
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All they have to know is where they are and where they're going.
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Now, you could say the problem is here, but they don't have a goal.
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And that could be the problem, but I don't think it's the real one.
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They might have the goal and still not even be moving toward it.
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Why? The problem is down here.
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It's down here. It's where you are.
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They're being controlled by a paradigm that they don't know.
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They don't understand, and yet it's keeping them right where they are.
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Now, these are intelligent people.
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These people could have passed some very, very difficult exams in school.
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But they're stuck.
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And they don't understand this.
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They do not understand paradigm, although it's a word you're starting to hear more of nowadays.
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But if you ask every person what a paradigm is, most of them are at a loss to tell you.
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In fact, if you go start to look up paradigm,
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you're going to find answers coming from very intelligent people,
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behavioral scientists and psychologists,
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that the way it's written is so complicated you do not understand it.
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And yet we just talked about what it is.
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It's nothing but a program.
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It's a group of habits and the subconscious mind that's controlling our behavior.
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So the behavior is being controlled.
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You know how to do better, but you're not doing it, and you don't know why.
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It started out with your kid, and your mother said, why did you do that?
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I don't know. What do you mean you don't know?
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You know better. I know. I don't know.
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You see, why would your parent keep asking you that question
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when they see that you're not doing it?
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I mean, you'd think just their observation would say,
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there's got to be something going on inside this kid's head.
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And there is, and they put it there.
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I remember we were doing a seminar, Science of Getting Rich, in Phoenix.
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Years ago, there was a woman, her name was Wendy, in London, England.
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She was going to the seminars in England.
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And she came to the seminar in Phoenix, to the Science of Getting Rich,
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and she brought her 24-year-old son.
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And she said he didn't want to come.
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And she asked him to come as a favor to her.
1994
01:53:44,000 --> 01:53:48,000
She said, you need what they're teaching.
1995
01:53:48,000 --> 01:53:54,000
I know you need it, because I built the program.
1996
01:53:54,000 --> 01:54:05,000
She knew that she had programmed the wrong way.
1997
01:54:05,000 --> 01:54:10,000
Now, think of this.
1998
01:54:10,000 --> 01:54:14,000
It doesn't matter how hard you work, how many hours you put in,
1999
01:54:14,000 --> 01:54:16,000
if the paradigm does not change,
2000
01:54:16,000 --> 01:54:21,000
ultimately the results will remain much the same from one year to the next.
2001
01:54:21,000 --> 01:54:25,000
Now, that is very discouraging for an intelligent individual.
2002
01:54:25,000 --> 01:54:28,000
It really is.
2003
01:54:28,000 --> 01:54:32,000
If a person is obviously not very bright, that's what they expect.
2004
01:54:32,000 --> 01:54:34,000
They don't expect anything better than they're getting.
2005
01:54:34,000 --> 01:54:36,000
But there's people that do expect better,
2006
01:54:36,000 --> 01:54:41,000
and they're giving it everything they've got, and they're not getting it.
2007
01:54:41,000 --> 01:54:56,000
What's the problem? It's their paradigm.
2008
01:54:56,000 --> 01:55:01,000
This is not in your book, but I added it in here because I think it's really important.
2009
01:55:01,000 --> 01:55:20,000
That book right here and this record, The Strangest Secret, literally changed my life.
2010
01:55:20,000 --> 01:55:23,000
I wouldn't even want to guess it the number of times you listen to that secret.
2011
01:55:23,000 --> 01:55:26,000
I think it's about 40 minutes of the best philosophy you're ever going to listen to.
2012
01:55:26,000 --> 01:55:28,000
Absolutely incredible.
2013
01:55:28,000 --> 01:55:33,000
I've got an original framed in my office.
2014
01:55:33,000 --> 01:55:37,000
I've got another one sitting on a shelf that I listen to.
2015
01:55:37,000 --> 01:55:40,000
And I take down my record player and listen to it on the record player,
2016
01:55:40,000 --> 01:55:43,000
because that takes me back to when I first learned it.
2017
01:55:43,000 --> 01:55:45,000
Same record.
2018
01:55:45,000 --> 01:55:51,000
Absolutely incredible information on there.
2019
01:55:51,000 --> 01:55:54,000
We've got to learn how to make decisions,
2020
01:55:54,000 --> 01:55:57,000
and most people don't know how to make decisions.
2021
01:55:57,000 --> 01:56:00,000
They really don't. That's too bad.
2022
01:56:00,000 --> 01:56:05,000
On the first chapter here, or chapter 8, on the first page,
2023
01:56:05,000 --> 01:56:06,000
he said,
2024
01:56:18,000 --> 01:56:21,000
Now he points out in here, there's 30 major causes of failure.
2025
01:56:21,000 --> 01:56:26,000
There's only 13 principles of success.
2026
01:56:26,000 --> 01:56:27,000
He said,
2027
01:56:35,000 --> 01:56:38,000
I have people coaching different times in Q&As,
2028
01:56:38,000 --> 01:56:40,000
where they ask me how to overcome procrastination.
2029
01:56:40,000 --> 01:56:45,000
I tell them to read this chapter every day for maybe 60 days.
2030
01:56:45,000 --> 01:56:47,000
It's a long chapter, but it's a good chapter.
2031
01:56:47,000 --> 01:56:52,000
My God, he's got some good information in here.
2032
01:56:52,000 --> 01:56:53,000
Now he says,
2033
01:57:15,000 --> 01:57:17,000
Why did they do that? It's a lack of understanding.
2034
01:57:17,000 --> 01:57:19,000
It's a lack of confidence.
2035
01:57:19,000 --> 01:57:22,000
Confidence comes through understanding.
2036
01:57:22,000 --> 01:57:26,000
Now, for years, I wondered,
2037
01:57:26,000 --> 01:57:30,000
how the hell do they make their decisions so fast?
2038
01:57:30,000 --> 01:57:32,000
I couldn't figure that out.
2039
01:57:32,000 --> 01:57:34,000
Every one of them.
2040
01:57:34,000 --> 01:57:36,000
There are few in number relative to the masses,
2041
01:57:36,000 --> 01:57:38,000
and I never stopped studying it,
2042
01:57:38,000 --> 01:57:41,000
and because that's what I was looking for, that's what I found.
2043
01:57:41,000 --> 01:57:44,000
Seek, and you will find, is good advice.
2044
01:57:44,000 --> 01:57:48,000
Let those lines represent levels of vibration.
2045
01:57:48,000 --> 01:57:52,000
They're levels of vibration.
2046
01:57:52,000 --> 01:57:57,000
Every frequency is connected to the one above and the one below.
2047
01:57:57,000 --> 01:57:58,000
They're all connected.
2048
01:57:58,000 --> 01:58:00,000
There's no line of demarcation
2049
01:58:00,000 --> 01:58:02,000
where one frequency stops and another starts.
2050
01:58:02,000 --> 01:58:07,000
They're all connected, and they're all linked together.
2051
01:58:07,000 --> 01:58:10,000
Now, think of this.
2052
01:58:10,000 --> 01:58:12,000
That's my phone.
2053
01:58:12,000 --> 01:58:14,000
That represents my phone.
2054
01:58:14,000 --> 01:58:18,000
This represents your phone.
2055
01:58:18,000 --> 01:58:21,000
If I want to talk to you on your phone,
2056
01:58:21,000 --> 01:58:24,000
I've got to get on your frequency.
2057
01:58:24,000 --> 01:58:28,000
The second I'm on your frequency, you and I are connected.
2058
01:58:28,000 --> 01:58:29,000
Now, think of this.
2059
01:58:29,000 --> 01:58:31,000
It doesn't matter where you are in the world.
2060
01:58:31,000 --> 01:58:34,000
You could be in Cote-de-Kinabalu.
2061
01:58:34,000 --> 01:58:39,000
You could be in Yokohama, Buenos Aires, anywhere in the world.
2062
01:58:39,000 --> 01:58:41,000
If I dial your number,
2063
01:58:41,000 --> 01:58:45,000
like that, I'm connected to you.
2064
01:58:45,000 --> 01:58:47,000
It makes no difference where you are.
2065
01:58:47,000 --> 01:58:49,000
I could take a picture here.
2066
01:58:49,000 --> 01:58:53,000
I could hit send, and simultaneous with me hitting it, you've got it.
2067
01:58:53,000 --> 01:58:57,000
There's a great lesson here for us.
2068
01:58:57,000 --> 01:58:59,000
There's no such thing as time and space.
2069
01:58:59,000 --> 01:59:00,000
That's a myth.
2070
01:59:00,000 --> 01:59:03,000
Here we are.
2071
01:59:03,000 --> 01:59:05,000
We can take a picture right here
2072
01:59:05,000 --> 01:59:08,000
and send it, hit send, and whoo, like that.
2073
01:59:08,000 --> 01:59:11,000
On the other side of the world, the person's got it.
2074
01:59:11,000 --> 01:59:14,000
Simultaneous with you hitting it.
2075
01:59:14,000 --> 01:59:20,000
I'm working with one of the artsy people in the company all the time.
2076
01:59:20,000 --> 01:59:22,000
I'll say, okay, I just sent it to you.
2077
01:59:22,000 --> 01:59:23,000
Yeah, I got it.
2078
01:59:23,000 --> 01:59:24,000
Okay.
2079
01:59:24,000 --> 01:59:25,000
Now, do you see what I'm talking about?
2080
01:59:25,000 --> 01:59:26,000
I'll send a picture and send it back.
2081
01:59:26,000 --> 01:59:27,000
They'll send it back.
2082
01:59:27,000 --> 01:59:28,000
You got it?
2083
01:59:28,000 --> 01:59:29,000
Yeah, I got it.
2084
01:59:29,000 --> 01:59:31,000
It didn't matter where we are.
2085
01:59:31,000 --> 01:59:36,000
I could be on the plane and back and forth.
2086
01:59:36,000 --> 01:59:39,000
Now, we seem to have a basic understanding of this.
2087
01:59:39,000 --> 01:59:40,000
I think what I'm saying here,
2088
01:59:40,000 --> 01:59:43,000
everyone in the room understands this when we're using our phones.
2089
01:59:43,000 --> 01:59:46,000
However, when it comes to life, we get lost.
2090
01:59:46,000 --> 01:59:49,000
We don't seem to understand it.
2091
01:59:49,000 --> 01:59:55,000
Well, let's try and understand it with respect to decisions.
2092
01:59:55,000 --> 01:59:58,000
Let these lines represent levels of vibration
2093
01:59:58,000 --> 02:00:01,000
because that's all this is, level vibration.
2094
02:00:01,000 --> 02:00:08,000
I get on the same frequency as you.
2095
02:00:08,000 --> 02:00:11,000
So we let these lines represent levels of vibration.
2096
02:00:11,000 --> 02:00:15,000
Every vibration is referred to as a frequency.
2097
02:00:15,000 --> 02:00:24,000
My voice is being amplified on a particular frequency.
2098
02:00:24,000 --> 02:00:27,000
You and I think on frequencies.
2099
02:00:27,000 --> 02:00:28,000
Thought is energy.
2100
02:00:28,000 --> 02:00:33,000
Do you know your thoughts are the most potent form of energy there is?
2101
02:00:33,000 --> 02:00:37,000
Your thought would make the laser beam look like a toy.
2102
02:00:37,000 --> 02:00:41,000
Thought waves are cosmic waves that penetrate all time and space.
2103
02:00:41,000 --> 02:00:44,000
I had the good fortune of working with Captain Edgar Mitchell.
2104
02:00:44,000 --> 02:00:48,000
He was the captain of the lunar landing module on one of the Apollo flights.
2105
02:00:48,000 --> 02:00:55,000
He was doing thought transference exercises from the other side of the moon
2106
02:00:55,000 --> 02:00:59,000
with Ford and Sherman here in the southern United States.
2107
02:00:59,000 --> 02:01:01,000
They were doing thought transference exercises.
2108
02:01:01,000 --> 02:01:04,000
They had all set up at the time they were going to do this.
2109
02:01:04,000 --> 02:01:07,000
He was on the other side of the moon and they were communicating.
2110
02:01:07,000 --> 02:01:10,000
It was all written up in a magazine.
2111
02:01:10,000 --> 02:01:14,000
Can you do that? You not only can, you do.
2112
02:01:14,000 --> 02:01:17,000
You'll have a friend a long ways away from you
2113
02:01:17,000 --> 02:01:19,000
and you're thinking about them a lot.
2114
02:01:19,000 --> 02:01:22,000
And damn, if the phone doesn't ring, it's them.
2115
02:01:22,000 --> 02:01:26,000
You're thinking. Your thoughts activated cells in their brain.
2116
02:01:26,000 --> 02:01:30,000
That got them thinking of you and they phoned you.
2117
02:01:30,000 --> 02:01:33,000
We do this all the time.
2118
02:01:33,000 --> 02:01:38,000
Now, let's suppose this is the frequency that you're thinking on.
2119
02:01:38,000 --> 02:01:40,000
If that's the frequency you're thinking on,
2120
02:01:40,000 --> 02:01:44,000
that's going to dictate the results that you get.
2121
02:01:44,000 --> 02:01:47,000
The results you get are nothing but the manifestation of your own thinking.
2122
02:01:47,000 --> 02:01:49,000
We become what we think about.
2123
02:01:49,000 --> 02:01:51,000
That is the one point that every great leader is agreed on.
2124
02:01:51,000 --> 02:01:54,000
They've disagreed in virtually every other idea,
2125
02:01:54,000 --> 02:01:58,000
but that one, we become what we think about.
2126
02:01:58,000 --> 02:02:02,000
Now, let's clearly understand nothing is created or destroyed.
2127
02:02:02,000 --> 02:02:04,000
All science and all theology teach that.
2128
02:02:04,000 --> 02:02:06,000
Nothing is created or destroyed.
2129
02:02:06,000 --> 02:02:09,000
All the power there ever was or ever will be is omnipresent.
2130
02:02:09,000 --> 02:02:12,000
All the ideas, all the knowledge there ever was or ever will be is omnipresent.
2131
02:02:12,000 --> 02:02:15,000
It's all here.
2132
02:02:15,000 --> 02:02:17,000
We didn't have to get it. We've already got it.
2133
02:02:17,000 --> 02:02:19,000
What we've got to do is tune into it.
2134
02:02:19,000 --> 02:02:21,000
So let's say that's where we want to go.
2135
02:02:21,000 --> 02:02:25,000
This is where I am. That's where I want to go.
2136
02:02:25,000 --> 02:02:28,000
How do I get there?
2137
02:02:28,000 --> 02:02:31,000
Well, I'll say I'm going to do that.
2138
02:02:31,000 --> 02:02:33,000
This is where the average person is thinking.
2139
02:02:33,000 --> 02:02:39,000
I'm going to do that as soon as I get the money.
2140
02:02:39,000 --> 02:02:41,000
You can relate to that.
2141
02:02:41,000 --> 02:02:45,000
I'm going to do that as soon as the kids are out of school.
2142
02:02:45,000 --> 02:02:50,000
That's how I'm going to do it.
2143
02:02:50,000 --> 02:02:57,000
I'm going to start my own business as soon as I get the money.
2144
02:02:57,000 --> 02:03:06,000
And you know you do that, and pretty soon the decision fades, and then the goal fades.
2145
02:03:06,000 --> 02:03:09,000
Why?
2146
02:03:09,000 --> 02:03:14,000
Well, you didn't get the money.
2147
02:03:14,000 --> 02:03:16,000
So you couldn't do it.
2148
02:03:16,000 --> 02:03:18,000
The problem was you didn't have the money.
2149
02:03:18,000 --> 02:03:23,000
You talk to anybody that's high in finance, and they'll tell you the money is never the problem.
2150
02:03:23,000 --> 02:03:25,000
Ideas are the problem.
2151
02:03:25,000 --> 02:03:28,000
If you've got the right idea, you'll always find the money.
2152
02:03:28,000 --> 02:03:33,000
But you see, we're thinking down here on this frequency.
2153
02:03:33,000 --> 02:03:37,000
Your mind and your thoughts are down here on this frequency.
2154
02:03:37,000 --> 02:03:42,000
What you want is up here on a higher frequency.
2155
02:03:42,000 --> 02:03:46,000
You cannot get what you want up there where your thoughts are down here.
2156
02:03:46,000 --> 02:03:52,000
Your mind and thoughts must focus on the same frequency as what you want.
2157
02:03:52,000 --> 02:03:59,000
If you want it, it's already here.
2158
02:03:59,000 --> 02:04:01,000
And you make a decision.
2159
02:04:01,000 --> 02:04:03,000
It's got to be a committed decision.
2160
02:04:03,000 --> 02:04:04,000
You say, I'm doing that.
2161
02:04:04,000 --> 02:04:08,000
Now, the second you make a committed decision, everything starts to change.
2162
02:04:08,000 --> 02:04:11,000
You begin to think and act like the person you want to become.
2163
02:04:11,000 --> 02:04:13,000
You stop thinking down there.
2164
02:04:13,000 --> 02:04:14,000
You're thinking up here now.
2165
02:04:14,000 --> 02:04:16,000
You're thinking on a higher frequency.
2166
02:04:16,000 --> 02:04:20,000
Want is the only prerequisite for making a decision.
2167
02:04:20,000 --> 02:04:23,000
It doesn't matter whether you have the money, but do you really want it?
2168
02:04:23,000 --> 02:04:26,000
If you really want it, you will get it.
2169
02:04:26,000 --> 02:04:31,000
But you've got to really want it.
2170
02:04:31,000 --> 02:04:38,000
Yet you also have to understand that everything you need is here.
2171
02:04:38,000 --> 02:04:41,000
But you've got to be specific.
2172
02:04:41,000 --> 02:04:43,000
It's not good enough to say, I want more money.
2173
02:04:43,000 --> 02:04:48,000
You see ten cents laying on the street and you pick it up, you've got more money.
2174
02:04:48,000 --> 02:04:49,000
That's the truth.
2175
02:04:49,000 --> 02:04:51,000
Sounds silly, but it's the truth.
2176
02:04:51,000 --> 02:04:57,000
You've got more money.
2177
02:04:57,000 --> 02:04:58,000
You could be a waiter.
2178
02:04:58,000 --> 02:04:59,000
Somebody leaves you a nice tip.
2179
02:04:59,000 --> 02:05:01,000
You've got more money.
2180
02:05:01,000 --> 02:05:02,000
That's not it.
2181
02:05:02,000 --> 02:05:05,000
You've got to be specific how much more money.
2182
02:05:05,000 --> 02:05:09,000
You don't know exactly what you want.
2183
02:05:09,000 --> 02:05:13,000
Yet you don't have to know where it's going to come from.
2184
02:05:13,000 --> 02:05:21,000
You do not have to understand all the basic principles between sending the picture to the person on the other side of the world for it to get there.
2185
02:05:21,000 --> 02:05:23,000
All you have to do is know how to do it.
2186
02:05:23,000 --> 02:05:26,000
Just get the picture, fix it, hit send.
2187
02:05:26,000 --> 02:05:31,000
They got it.
2188
02:05:31,000 --> 02:05:36,000
Want is the only prerequisite for making a decision.
2189
02:05:36,000 --> 02:05:41,000
Now, do you know, that is so important you should write it down.
2190
02:05:41,000 --> 02:05:45,000
Write it somewhere that you're going to see it often.
2191
02:05:45,000 --> 02:05:48,000
Maybe get a sign and put it up in your house.
2192
02:05:48,000 --> 02:05:56,000
Want is the only prerequisite to get what you want.
2193
02:05:56,000 --> 02:06:03,000
I remember when I sat down with Phil Goldfine, what was it, 17 years ago?
2194
02:06:03,000 --> 02:06:05,000
Almost 20 years ago.
2195
02:06:05,000 --> 02:06:15,000
That time goes so fast, doesn't it?
2196
02:06:15,000 --> 02:06:18,000
He didn't have any money.
2197
02:06:18,000 --> 02:06:22,000
He wasn't earning very much money.
2198
02:06:22,000 --> 02:06:27,000
He was working for someone that he didn't like working for.
2199
02:06:27,000 --> 02:06:30,000
Didn't enjoy it at all.
2200
02:06:30,000 --> 02:06:34,000
And he didn't know that he could change it.
2201
02:06:34,000 --> 02:06:36,000
And he didn't understand all this.
2202
02:06:36,000 --> 02:06:38,000
I'd been studying this for years.
2203
02:06:38,000 --> 02:06:44,000
Well, if it was 20 years ago, I'd been studying it for 38 years.
2204
02:06:44,000 --> 02:06:46,000
Then.
2205
02:06:46,000 --> 02:06:49,000
So I said, just do exactly what I tell you.
2206
02:06:49,000 --> 02:06:53,000
Do exactly what I tell you.
2207
02:06:53,000 --> 02:06:54,000
He didn't really know me.
2208
02:06:54,000 --> 02:06:58,000
He was reading You Were Born Rich.
2209
02:06:58,000 --> 02:07:03,000
And he was talking to a guy that did know me.
2210
02:07:03,000 --> 02:07:05,000
Ed Morrissey.
2211
02:07:05,000 --> 02:07:07,000
And he was saying, Ed, you've got to read this book.
2212
02:07:07,000 --> 02:07:09,000
You've got to read this book.
2213
02:07:09,000 --> 02:07:10,000
And Ed says, what book?
2214
02:07:10,000 --> 02:07:11,000
And he told him.
2215
02:07:11,000 --> 02:07:12,000
He said, I know him.
2216
02:07:12,000 --> 02:07:13,000
He said, you don't know him?
2217
02:07:13,000 --> 02:07:14,000
He said, no, I don't know him.
2218
02:07:14,000 --> 02:07:17,000
He said, you know him, phone him.
2219
02:07:17,000 --> 02:07:18,000
So Ed phoned me.
2220
02:07:18,000 --> 02:07:21,000
He got on the phone.
2221
02:07:21,000 --> 02:07:23,000
He said, could I come and talk to you?
2222
02:07:23,000 --> 02:07:26,000
And I said, sure.
2223
02:07:26,000 --> 02:07:27,000
He said, where are you?
2224
02:07:27,000 --> 02:07:28,000
And I said, I'm in Vegas.
2225
02:07:28,000 --> 02:07:29,000
So he said, I'll come over.
2226
02:07:29,000 --> 02:07:30,000
He said, I'm in Los Angeles.
2227
02:07:30,000 --> 02:07:31,000
It won't take me long.
2228
02:07:31,000 --> 02:07:33,000
I said, OK.
2229
02:07:33,000 --> 02:07:36,000
And you see, he didn't study this.
2230
02:07:36,000 --> 02:07:37,000
He was reading that book.
2231
02:07:37,000 --> 02:07:40,000
And that was about the size of it.
2232
02:07:40,000 --> 02:07:42,000
He wasn't winning.
2233
02:07:42,000 --> 02:07:46,000
He wasn't even happy with the circumstance that he was working with.
2234
02:07:46,000 --> 02:07:51,000
And I said, I got him to tell me what he wanted.
2235
02:07:51,000 --> 02:07:59,000
And I said, I know how you can get that if you do exactly what I tell you.
2236
02:07:59,000 --> 02:08:07,000
I gave him one of the most complicated, heavy books that I had ever read.
2237
02:08:07,000 --> 02:08:11,000
He didn't understand what the hell they were talking about.
2238
02:08:11,000 --> 02:08:12,000
You know why I started to read it?
2239
02:08:12,000 --> 02:08:15,000
Because Earl Nightingale was reading it.
2240
02:08:15,000 --> 02:08:18,000
It's called The Edinburgh Lectures on Mental Science by Thomas Troward.
2241
02:08:18,000 --> 02:08:20,000
It's a heavy book.
2242
02:08:20,000 --> 02:08:25,000
I've been reading it since 1968.
2243
02:08:25,000 --> 02:08:30,000
So anyway, he and I were mentoring him through this book.
2244
02:08:30,000 --> 02:08:32,000
But you'll hear tomorrow just how his life has changed.
2245
02:08:32,000 --> 02:08:34,000
It changed so dramatically.
2246
02:08:34,000 --> 02:08:37,000
Now, Phil's a very kind individual.
2247
02:08:37,000 --> 02:08:39,000
He comes out to these seminars.
2248
02:08:39,000 --> 02:08:44,000
Every time he brings the goods, he shows you what he's done.
2249
02:08:44,000 --> 02:08:49,000
And even if you've seen it before, it's impressive.
2250
02:08:49,000 --> 02:08:52,000
It impresses me.
2251
02:08:52,000 --> 02:08:56,000
Because if he's done it, you can do it.
2252
02:08:56,000 --> 02:08:59,000
If I do it, you can do it.
2253
02:08:59,000 --> 02:09:02,000
If you guys have done it, anybody can do it.
2254
02:09:02,000 --> 02:09:05,000
I was talking about you two.
2255
02:09:05,000 --> 02:09:07,000
Peter has worked with us.
2256
02:09:07,000 --> 02:09:09,000
He said, and they work with puppies.
2257
02:09:09,000 --> 02:09:12,000
He said, what could be better than that?
2258
02:09:12,000 --> 02:09:13,000
I don't know.
2259
02:09:13,000 --> 02:09:17,000
You have to ask them.
2260
02:09:17,000 --> 02:09:19,000
I mean, everybody loves a puppy.
2261
02:09:19,000 --> 02:09:25,000
Even nasty people love puppies.
2262
02:09:25,000 --> 02:09:26,000
Everybody's doing what they want.
2263
02:09:26,000 --> 02:09:27,000
What do they want to do?
2264
02:09:27,000 --> 02:09:32,000
They just want to spend their days with puppies.
2265
02:09:32,000 --> 02:09:33,000
Well, you can't do that.
2266
02:09:33,000 --> 02:09:36,000
Well, they did it and earned a lot of money doing it.
2267
02:09:36,000 --> 02:09:41,000
You see, you've got to start with what you want.
2268
02:09:41,000 --> 02:09:43,000
And that's all you need.
2269
02:09:43,000 --> 02:09:45,000
But you've got to make an irrevocable decision.
2270
02:09:45,000 --> 02:09:46,000
You're going to get it.
2271
02:09:46,000 --> 02:09:49,000
So he wants the prerequisite.
2272
02:09:49,000 --> 02:09:54,000
That's why successful people make decisions so fast.
2273
02:09:54,000 --> 02:09:58,000
They know what they want.
2274
02:09:58,000 --> 02:10:00,000
If I'm working with someone, that's one of the first things they'll ask.
2275
02:10:00,000 --> 02:10:02,000
What do you really want?
2276
02:10:02,000 --> 02:10:12,000
What do you really want?
2277
02:10:12,000 --> 02:10:16,000
This is such powerful information.
2278
02:10:16,000 --> 02:10:19,000
You'd think it would be taught in all schools.
2279
02:10:19,000 --> 02:10:22,000
The truth is it's not.
2280
02:10:22,000 --> 02:10:30,000
That's rather sad because it can be, but it's not.
2281
02:10:30,000 --> 02:10:34,000
Now, this is one of the most important lessons that you're going to hear from me
2282
02:10:34,000 --> 02:10:37,000
between now and Sunday afternoon.
2283
02:10:37,000 --> 02:10:39,000
You only have to know what you want.
2284
02:10:39,000 --> 02:10:43,000
It doesn't matter whether you've got the money.
2285
02:10:43,000 --> 02:10:44,000
That makes no difference.
2286
02:10:44,000 --> 02:10:46,000
It doesn't matter whether you've got the resources.
2287
02:10:46,000 --> 02:10:49,000
That doesn't make any difference.
2288
02:10:49,000 --> 02:10:51,000
It doesn't matter if you know the right people.
2289
02:10:51,000 --> 02:10:52,000
That doesn't make any difference.
2290
02:10:52,000 --> 02:10:57,000
Now, this sounds so preposterous to a person that's never studied this.
2291
02:10:57,000 --> 02:10:59,000
You've got to know where the money is.
2292
02:10:59,000 --> 02:11:00,000
No, you don't.
2293
02:11:00,000 --> 02:11:02,000
Listen, the money is here.
2294
02:11:02,000 --> 02:11:05,000
You know that song, Love is in the Air?
2295
02:11:05,000 --> 02:11:07,000
You know the song?
2296
02:11:07,000 --> 02:11:09,000
Well, change the lyrics.
2297
02:11:09,000 --> 02:11:12,000
Love, money's in the air.
2298
02:11:12,000 --> 02:11:14,000
It is.
2299
02:11:14,000 --> 02:11:17,000
When you're in harmony with it, you will never stop it flowing to you.
2300
02:11:17,000 --> 02:11:21,000
Money goes where it's invited, and it stays where it's welcome.
2301
02:11:21,000 --> 02:11:22,000
Listen to most people.
2302
02:11:22,000 --> 02:11:26,000
The way they talk about money, you think it was the worst stuff in the world.
2303
02:11:26,000 --> 02:11:29,000
I get so sick of it, I just never have enough money.
2304
02:11:29,000 --> 02:11:32,000
Well, they're getting very angry.
2305
02:11:32,000 --> 02:11:35,000
Why don't you change your attitude?
2306
02:11:35,000 --> 02:11:38,000
Now, you see, that really sounds stupid.
2307
02:11:38,000 --> 02:11:39,000
Here they are.
2308
02:11:39,000 --> 02:11:41,000
They're in need of money, and somebody says, change your attitude.
2309
02:11:41,000 --> 02:11:44,000
They don't even know what attitude is.
2310
02:11:44,000 --> 02:11:48,000
Yet, it sounds like we need so much more than attitude change,
2311
02:11:48,000 --> 02:11:51,000
but really, that's all I've changed.
2312
02:11:51,000 --> 02:11:53,000
So you've got to understand what attitude is.
2313
02:11:53,000 --> 02:11:56,000
See, there's a power flowing to and through you, Daisy.
2314
02:11:56,000 --> 02:11:58,000
It's flowing right into your consciousness.
2315
02:11:58,000 --> 02:12:00,000
It has no form.
2316
02:12:00,000 --> 02:12:04,000
It's a clear, unadulterated power, and it flows into your conscious mind.
2317
02:12:04,000 --> 02:12:09,000
You have the ability to make out of it anything you want.
2318
02:12:09,000 --> 02:12:11,000
Wow, yeah, wow.
2319
02:12:11,000 --> 02:12:17,000
No, anything you want.
2320
02:12:17,000 --> 02:12:19,000
And you know something?
2321
02:12:19,000 --> 02:12:22,000
I don't know if you know what you want, but if you decide on it,
2322
02:12:22,000 --> 02:12:25,000
you get a stubborn streak in you as, why does this roam?
2323
02:12:25,000 --> 02:12:28,000
You know that, and so do all your friends know that.
2324
02:12:28,000 --> 02:12:31,000
You are a persistent individual.
2325
02:12:31,000 --> 02:12:33,000
You know, Hill says in Think and Grow Rich,
2326
02:12:33,000 --> 02:12:35,000
there may be no heroic connotation to the word,
2327
02:12:35,000 --> 02:12:37,000
but the quality is to the character of the human,
2328
02:12:37,000 --> 02:12:39,000
like what carbon is to steel.
2329
02:12:39,000 --> 02:12:41,000
You are naturally persistent.
2330
02:12:41,000 --> 02:12:43,000
You're genetically designed that way.
2331
02:12:43,000 --> 02:12:45,000
I could read your energy like a book.
2332
02:12:45,000 --> 02:12:49,000
I would never try and get you to do something you don't want to do.
2333
02:12:49,000 --> 02:12:51,000
And you're going to get it done your way.
2334
02:12:51,000 --> 02:12:52,000
You're bossy as hell.
2335
02:12:52,000 --> 02:12:55,000
You get everybody to do what you want done.
2336
02:12:55,000 --> 02:12:57,000
Do you know her?
2337
02:12:57,000 --> 02:12:59,000
How accurate is that?
2338
02:12:59,000 --> 02:13:01,000
She's a natural manager.
2339
02:13:01,000 --> 02:13:02,000
She just is.
2340
02:13:02,000 --> 02:13:04,000
She's just going to take control.
2341
02:13:04,000 --> 02:13:07,000
Others will bitch, but they'll do it.
2342
02:13:07,000 --> 02:13:08,000
You see?
2343
02:13:08,000 --> 02:13:11,000
She's saying that as her eyes.
2344
02:13:11,000 --> 02:13:12,000
You know?
2345
02:13:12,000 --> 02:13:13,000
How would I know that?
2346
02:13:13,000 --> 02:13:15,000
Well, this thing that she's living in, her body,
2347
02:13:15,000 --> 02:13:18,000
it's a mass of energy, and it's in a high speed of vibration,
2348
02:13:18,000 --> 02:13:20,000
and it's casting off a ray of energy.
2349
02:13:20,000 --> 02:13:23,000
And I've got a mental faculty that can pick it up and read it.
2350
02:13:23,000 --> 02:13:25,000
And so have you.
2351
02:13:25,000 --> 02:13:26,000
It's called intuition.
2352
02:13:26,000 --> 02:13:28,000
Intuition is a higher faculty.
2353
02:13:28,000 --> 02:13:30,000
That's why you're created in God's image.
2354
02:13:30,000 --> 02:13:33,000
We've got to understand what's that mean we're created in God's image.
2355
02:13:33,000 --> 02:13:34,000
We can do anything.
2356
02:13:34,000 --> 02:13:37,000
We've got the faculties to do the job.
2357
02:13:37,000 --> 02:13:40,000
Most of us are going by what we hear, see, smell, taste, touch.
2358
02:13:40,000 --> 02:13:43,000
I've got dogs at home that can hear, see, smell, taste, touch.
2359
02:13:43,000 --> 02:13:46,000
That just puts you in touch with your outside world.
2360
02:13:46,000 --> 02:13:50,000
But your lessons come from your inside world, not outside, inside.
2361
02:13:50,000 --> 02:13:53,000
And you have to use your higher faculties, perception, the will,
2362
02:13:53,000 --> 02:13:55,000
reason, imagination, memory, intuition.
2363
02:13:55,000 --> 02:13:57,000
Well, intuition picks up the energy and read it.
2364
02:13:57,000 --> 02:13:59,000
I don't have to wonder what you're like.
2365
02:13:59,000 --> 02:14:01,000
I don't even have to look for any confirmation.
2366
02:14:01,000 --> 02:14:02,000
I know what you're like.
2367
02:14:02,000 --> 02:14:05,000
You are a very strong, mentally strong woman.
2368
02:14:05,000 --> 02:14:07,000
I'd never want to get you to try and do something.
2369
02:14:07,000 --> 02:14:08,000
You're not going to do it.
2370
02:14:08,000 --> 02:14:10,000
You'll do it your way.
2371
02:14:10,000 --> 02:14:13,000
In fact, you even do it to your own detriment at times.
2372
02:14:13,000 --> 02:14:15,000
Even when you know it isn't going to work,
2373
02:14:15,000 --> 02:14:17,000
it's going to make it work anyway.
2374
02:14:17,000 --> 02:14:19,000
And force, force negates.
2375
02:14:19,000 --> 02:14:22,000
Well, you do that, and then wisdom cuts in,
2376
02:14:22,000 --> 02:14:24,000
and you say, come on, leave it alone, Daisy.
2377
02:14:24,000 --> 02:14:26,000
I see you walk away for a minute.
2378
02:14:26,000 --> 02:14:27,000
Does this make sense?
2379
02:14:27,000 --> 02:14:29,000
It does make sense.
2380
02:14:29,000 --> 02:14:30,000
You know people like that.
2381
02:14:30,000 --> 02:14:32,000
I know people like that.
2382
02:14:32,000 --> 02:14:33,000
You know people like that.
2383
02:14:33,000 --> 02:14:34,000
You're like that.
2384
02:14:34,000 --> 02:14:35,000
You're sitting there saying,
2385
02:14:35,000 --> 02:14:37,000
Jesus, you couldn't be talking about me.
2386
02:14:37,000 --> 02:14:41,000
You see?
2387
02:14:41,000 --> 02:14:45,000
This is powerful stuff.
2388
02:14:45,000 --> 02:14:48,000
This is why successful people make decisions so fast.
2389
02:14:48,000 --> 02:14:51,000
Back it up.
2390
02:14:51,000 --> 02:14:54,000
Want is the only prerequisite for making a decision.
2391
02:14:54,000 --> 02:14:56,000
You've got to get this burntness into your mind.
2392
02:14:56,000 --> 02:14:58,000
You don't even have to understand this in any depth.
2393
02:14:58,000 --> 02:15:00,000
Just accept it.
2394
02:15:00,000 --> 02:15:01,000
Want is the only thing.
2395
02:15:01,000 --> 02:15:05,000
Just you want it, but you've got to really want it.
2396
02:15:05,000 --> 02:15:07,000
It's not just some passing fancy.
2397
02:15:07,000 --> 02:15:08,000
I saw this suit.
2398
02:15:08,000 --> 02:15:09,000
I think it's kind of nice.
2399
02:15:09,000 --> 02:15:10,000
I saw this car.
2400
02:15:10,000 --> 02:15:11,000
Yeah, I liked that car.
2401
02:15:11,000 --> 02:15:14,000
Do you really want it?
2402
02:15:14,000 --> 02:15:17,000
If you really want it, that's all you need.
2403
02:15:17,000 --> 02:15:18,000
You don't need the money.
2404
02:15:18,000 --> 02:15:20,000
You don't need to know how you're going to get it.
2405
02:15:20,000 --> 02:15:21,000
You don't need any of that stuff,
2406
02:15:21,000 --> 02:15:23,000
but you've got to really want it.
2407
02:15:23,000 --> 02:15:26,000
You see, when you really want it and you make a decision,
2408
02:15:26,000 --> 02:15:29,000
you flip your brain onto the frequency that you have to be on,
2409
02:15:29,000 --> 02:15:32,000
the way to get it is already here.
2410
02:15:32,000 --> 02:15:33,000
But you've got to get it in harmony
2411
02:15:33,000 --> 02:15:36,000
or you're never going to figure it out.
2412
02:15:36,000 --> 02:15:38,000
That's why when you get on that frequency,
2413
02:15:38,000 --> 02:15:41,000
that's the only information that can come to you.
2414
02:15:41,000 --> 02:15:43,000
That's the information you need to get there.
2415
02:15:43,000 --> 02:15:44,000
You've done this.
2416
02:15:44,000 --> 02:15:46,000
You've done this in different times,
2417
02:15:46,000 --> 02:15:50,000
not really understanding what you've done.
2418
02:15:50,000 --> 02:15:52,000
I was doing this when I was cleaning floors.
2419
02:15:52,000 --> 02:15:53,000
No education.
2420
02:15:53,000 --> 02:15:54,000
I didn't know how to run a business.
2421
02:15:54,000 --> 02:15:57,000
I just think, I'm going to go to Atlanta and open a company.
2422
02:15:57,000 --> 02:15:58,000
I like that.
2423
02:15:58,000 --> 02:16:00,000
Nice place.
2424
02:16:00,000 --> 02:16:01,000
I think you can go over to Cleveland.
2425
02:16:01,000 --> 02:16:03,000
It's not too far away from us.
2426
02:16:03,000 --> 02:16:04,000
I always wanted to go over to England.
2427
02:16:04,000 --> 02:16:08,000
I think we'll go to London.
2428
02:16:08,000 --> 02:16:12,000
I just go and do it.
2429
02:16:12,000 --> 02:16:16,000
Pretty soon money was coming from those places.
2430
02:16:16,000 --> 02:16:19,000
Now, you understand, if I can do it, you can do it.
2431
02:16:19,000 --> 02:16:20,000
I didn't know hardly anything.
2432
02:16:20,000 --> 02:16:22,000
I really didn't.
2433
02:16:22,000 --> 02:16:23,000
I just kept doing the books.
2434
02:16:23,000 --> 02:16:26,000
I just do it as it is.
2435
02:16:26,000 --> 02:16:28,000
Wanted is the only prerequisite.
2436
02:16:28,000 --> 02:16:32,000
That's why successful people make decisions so fast.
2437
02:16:32,000 --> 02:16:38,000
They know what they want.
2438
02:16:38,000 --> 02:16:43,000
This is pretty basic, but it's very misunderstood.
2439
02:16:43,000 --> 02:16:47,000
Now, look at this.
2440
02:16:47,000 --> 02:16:49,000
Paradigms and Cybernetics.
2441
02:16:49,000 --> 02:16:50,000
Anybody that's read Psycho-Cybernetics,
2442
02:16:50,000 --> 02:16:52,000
we get a lot of people around the company reading it now,
2443
02:16:52,000 --> 02:16:56,000
Psycho-Cybernetics was written by Napoleon Hill.
2444
02:16:56,000 --> 02:16:57,000
It is so good.
2445
02:16:57,000 --> 02:17:00,000
Cybernetics is the science of control and communication
2446
02:17:00,000 --> 02:17:02,000
between the animal and some machines.
2447
02:17:02,000 --> 02:17:05,000
Cybernetics controls your thermostat,
2448
02:17:05,000 --> 02:17:07,000
or the thermostat controls the house.
2449
02:17:07,000 --> 02:17:09,000
The Cybernetics system is in the thermostat.
2450
02:17:09,000 --> 02:17:11,000
It'll change the temperature of the house.
2451
02:17:11,000 --> 02:17:12,000
It'll turn the heat on, turn it off.
2452
02:17:12,000 --> 02:17:13,000
Turn the air on, turn it off.
2453
02:17:13,000 --> 02:17:16,000
Automatically, when you deviate from the set goal,
2454
02:17:16,000 --> 02:17:19,000
goals may be to have the house at 69 or 70.
2455
02:17:19,000 --> 02:17:20,000
It'll hold it at that.
2456
02:17:20,000 --> 02:17:21,000
If somebody leaves the door open,
2457
02:17:21,000 --> 02:17:22,000
it gets too hot or too cold,
2458
02:17:22,000 --> 02:17:24,000
the thermostat will shift it.
2459
02:17:24,000 --> 02:17:27,000
It'll change the air conditioning or the furnace.
2460
02:17:27,000 --> 02:17:28,000
It's all done automatically.
2461
02:17:28,000 --> 02:17:31,000
Well, your paradigm is like a thermostat.
2462
02:17:31,000 --> 02:17:33,000
It's like a Cybernetics system.
2463
02:17:33,000 --> 02:17:36,000
Paradigms and Cybernetics are both control systems.
2464
02:17:36,000 --> 02:17:39,000
They operate essentially on the same principle.
2465
02:17:39,000 --> 02:17:41,000
Both maintain a definite course of action
2466
02:17:41,000 --> 02:17:43,000
and will not deviate from the course
2467
02:17:43,000 --> 02:17:45,000
that has been established.
2468
02:17:45,000 --> 02:17:49,000
Well, most people's paradigm has them working toward a bad end.
2469
02:17:49,000 --> 02:17:53,000
Most people's paradigm has them working toward debt.
2470
02:17:53,000 --> 02:17:58,000
Most people's paradigm has them working toward dumb jobs.
2471
02:17:58,000 --> 02:18:01,000
You must alter the paradigm
2472
02:18:01,000 --> 02:18:04,000
if you desire to achieve improved results.
2473
02:18:04,000 --> 02:18:08,000
Both companies and individuals have operating paradigms.
2474
02:18:08,000 --> 02:18:10,000
I've gone into companies,
2475
02:18:10,000 --> 02:18:12,000
I went into the Prudential of America,
2476
02:18:12,000 --> 02:18:14,000
largest insurance company in the world.
2477
02:18:14,000 --> 02:18:16,000
At the same time, I was working in Metropolitan Life,
2478
02:18:16,000 --> 02:18:18,000
the other second largest.
2479
02:18:18,000 --> 02:18:20,000
It was a ton of stuff, which one was the largest?
2480
02:18:20,000 --> 02:18:22,000
One would be met for a little while,
2481
02:18:22,000 --> 02:18:25,000
then it would be proved, then it would be proved, then it would be met.
2482
02:18:25,000 --> 02:18:28,000
I changed the paradigms in both those companies.
2483
02:18:28,000 --> 02:18:30,000
A company operates on a paradigm.
2484
02:18:30,000 --> 02:18:32,000
A country operates on a paradigm.
2485
02:18:32,000 --> 02:18:34,000
It's called culture.
2486
02:18:34,000 --> 02:18:36,000
There is a group culture.
2487
02:18:36,000 --> 02:18:38,000
There is a corporate culture.
2488
02:18:38,000 --> 02:18:41,000
There's a culture to your family.
2489
02:18:41,000 --> 02:18:43,000
You have a culture in your family.
2490
02:18:43,000 --> 02:18:46,000
The family has a paradigm.
2491
02:18:46,000 --> 02:18:49,000
Family operates a certain way.
2492
02:18:49,000 --> 02:18:51,000
Well, there's something the family always does,
2493
02:18:51,000 --> 02:18:53,000
and if one of the kids wants to go off,
2494
02:18:53,000 --> 02:18:55,000
what the hell are you doing?
2495
02:18:55,000 --> 02:18:56,000
We've always done this.
2496
02:18:56,000 --> 02:18:58,000
It's a family.
2497
02:18:58,000 --> 02:19:02,000
Well, let me let you in on a secret, Dad.
2498
02:19:02,000 --> 02:19:04,000
I'm changing the paradigm.
2499
02:19:04,000 --> 02:19:13,000
You see, you've got to be strong,
2500
02:19:13,000 --> 02:19:15,000
but if you're going to be strong, you've got to be aware.
2501
02:19:15,000 --> 02:19:17,000
Awareness is power.
2502
02:19:17,000 --> 02:19:19,000
We're going to become aware.
2503
02:19:19,000 --> 02:19:27,000
School focuses on the intellect, the degree.
2504
02:19:27,000 --> 02:19:28,000
Be able to shape your future
2505
02:19:28,000 --> 02:19:30,000
if you're only able to change your paradigm,
2506
02:19:30,000 --> 02:19:31,000
as we're talking about.
2507
02:19:31,000 --> 02:19:35,000
See, your results should always be under construction, always.
2508
02:19:35,000 --> 02:19:40,000
You should never be satisfied with where you are.
2509
02:19:40,000 --> 02:19:42,000
When I was a little kid, Grandma always told me I should be satisfied.
2510
02:19:42,000 --> 02:19:43,000
Grandma was wrong.
2511
02:19:43,000 --> 02:19:46,000
She was like an angel of God, a dear little old woman,
2512
02:19:46,000 --> 02:19:49,000
but she was wrong.
2513
02:19:49,000 --> 02:19:51,000
Your results should always be under construction.
2514
02:19:51,000 --> 02:19:56,000
You always want to be improving them.
2515
02:19:56,000 --> 02:19:59,000
Now you've got to ask, are you ready to change?
2516
02:19:59,000 --> 02:20:04,000
Now listen, if we went around and hooked everybody up to a polygraph
2517
02:20:04,000 --> 02:20:07,000
and sucked the truth out of you,
2518
02:20:07,000 --> 02:20:11,000
everybody would say, yeah, I'm ready to change.
2519
02:20:11,000 --> 02:20:15,000
But you know, the truth is, you're probably not.
2520
02:20:16,000 --> 02:20:20,000
You've got to be ready to really handle some big ones.
2521
02:20:20,000 --> 02:20:22,000
You know, the people that you love, that you respect,
2522
02:20:22,000 --> 02:20:25,000
they'll say, what the hell are you doing?
2523
02:20:25,000 --> 02:20:26,000
You're what?
2524
02:20:26,000 --> 02:20:28,000
You're quitting your job?
2525
02:20:28,000 --> 02:20:30,000
Are you crazy?
2526
02:20:30,000 --> 02:20:33,000
A lot of people out of work now, you know.
2527
02:20:33,000 --> 02:20:35,000
Getting a job is not the easiest thing in the world,
2528
02:20:35,000 --> 02:20:38,000
and you've got a good one.
2529
02:20:38,000 --> 02:20:43,000
I'm of the opinion that there's no good job.
2530
02:20:47,000 --> 02:20:50,000
You go to change your paradigm,
2531
02:20:50,000 --> 02:20:54,000
and you could have some real serious trouble
2532
02:20:54,000 --> 02:20:56,000
with people that are closest to you.
2533
02:20:56,000 --> 02:20:59,000
They don't want you to change.
2534
02:20:59,000 --> 02:21:01,000
Now think of this.
2535
02:21:01,000 --> 02:21:03,000
People do not resist change.
2536
02:21:03,000 --> 02:21:04,000
That's a misnomer.
2537
02:21:04,000 --> 02:21:05,000
A lot of people say people resist change.
2538
02:21:05,000 --> 02:21:06,000
That's not true.
2539
02:21:06,000 --> 02:21:10,000
People resist being changed.
2540
02:21:10,000 --> 02:21:11,000
When you go to change,
2541
02:21:11,000 --> 02:21:13,000
the people that you're closest to,
2542
02:21:13,000 --> 02:21:15,000
you're causing them to change.
2543
02:21:15,000 --> 02:21:17,000
They've got to adapt to your absence.
2544
02:21:17,000 --> 02:21:18,000
They've got to adapt to the new you,
2545
02:21:18,000 --> 02:21:21,000
and they don't want to do that.
2546
02:21:21,000 --> 02:21:22,000
They want you to stay the same.
2547
02:21:22,000 --> 02:21:25,000
Then they don't have change.
2548
02:21:25,000 --> 02:21:29,000
When you change, they've got to adapt to that.
2549
02:21:29,000 --> 02:21:33,000
They may not be too keen on doing that.
2550
02:21:33,000 --> 02:21:37,000
Most people are extras in their own movie.
2551
02:21:37,000 --> 02:21:39,000
They really are.
2552
02:21:39,000 --> 02:21:41,000
They don't see themselves as the star at all.
2553
02:21:41,000 --> 02:21:42,000
It's their movie.
2554
02:21:42,000 --> 02:21:45,000
It's their life.
2555
02:21:45,000 --> 02:21:50,000
You should be the star of your movie.
2556
02:21:50,000 --> 02:21:56,000
You should get an Academy Award for your performance.
2557
02:21:56,000 --> 02:21:58,000
You're the director.
2558
02:21:58,000 --> 02:21:59,000
You're also the producer.
2559
02:21:59,000 --> 02:22:01,000
You're the whole deal.
2560
02:22:01,000 --> 02:22:02,000
You're the creative director.
2561
02:22:02,000 --> 02:22:05,000
You make all the decisions about yourself.
2562
02:22:05,000 --> 02:22:09,000
Why would we make ourselves extra in our own movie?
2563
02:22:09,000 --> 02:22:11,000
Watch a movie.
2564
02:22:11,000 --> 02:22:12,000
Just see crowds of people,
2565
02:22:12,000 --> 02:22:15,000
sometimes thousands of people in a field maybe,
2566
02:22:15,000 --> 02:22:19,000
running with bows and arrows or something.
2567
02:22:19,000 --> 02:22:27,000
But there's one handsome dude with a good-looking gal
2568
02:22:27,000 --> 02:22:31,000
in some kind of a nice outfit.
2569
02:22:31,000 --> 02:22:32,000
They're the stars, everybody else.
2570
02:22:32,000 --> 02:22:35,000
All those thousands of people, they're extras.
2571
02:22:35,000 --> 02:22:39,000
They're getting very little money, sometimes nothing,
2572
02:22:39,000 --> 02:22:42,000
but they're in a movie.
2573
02:22:42,000 --> 02:22:47,000
Well, you could be an extra in your own movie.
2574
02:22:47,000 --> 02:22:49,000
You see, you really got to ask yourself,
2575
02:22:49,000 --> 02:22:53,000
what do you really want?
2576
02:22:53,000 --> 02:22:55,000
What do you really want?
2577
02:22:55,000 --> 02:23:00,000
Now, you're the director.
2578
02:23:00,000 --> 02:23:04,000
I want you, where is Peggy McCall?
2579
02:23:04,000 --> 02:23:07,000
Peggy's over there.
2580
02:23:07,000 --> 02:23:10,000
Peggy's going to take over here for the next 20,
2581
02:23:10,000 --> 02:23:12,000
maybe 30 minutes,
2582
02:23:12,000 --> 02:23:16,000
and get some of you talking about what it is you want.
2583
02:23:16,000 --> 02:23:20,000
And what I want to suggest is that you loosen up.
2584
02:23:20,000 --> 02:23:24,000
Start to open up.
2585
02:23:24,000 --> 02:23:27,000
What somebody else thinks of what you're saying doesn't matter.
2586
02:23:27,000 --> 02:23:31,000
Quit worrying about what other people think.
2587
02:23:31,000 --> 02:23:35,000
Frequently, they're not thinking anyway, so.
2588
02:23:35,000 --> 02:23:37,000
Mangle said if most people said that they were thinking,
2589
02:23:37,000 --> 02:23:39,000
they would probably be speechless.
2590
02:23:39,000 --> 02:23:42,000
Now, I want you to really stop thinking.
2591
02:23:42,000 --> 02:23:44,000
What do you really want?
2592
02:23:44,000 --> 02:23:45,000
Do you know what you want?
2593
02:23:45,000 --> 02:23:47,000
Do you know exactly what you want?
2594
02:23:47,000 --> 02:23:54,000
It's very clear, okay?
2595
02:23:54,000 --> 02:24:01,000
I remember you talking about what you wanted, Ricky.
2596
02:24:01,000 --> 02:24:03,000
And it was so obvious to me,
2597
02:24:03,000 --> 02:24:06,000
this woman was very emotionally involved.
2598
02:24:06,000 --> 02:24:08,000
You could feel her energy change.
2599
02:24:08,000 --> 02:24:10,000
And I said, what are you doing?
2600
02:24:10,000 --> 02:24:12,000
She was a bartender.
2601
02:24:12,000 --> 02:24:14,000
And probably a pretty damn good one,
2602
02:24:14,000 --> 02:24:15,000
because you did it for a long time.
2603
02:24:15,000 --> 02:24:17,000
How long did you do it?
2604
02:24:17,000 --> 02:24:18,000
Too long.
2605
02:24:18,000 --> 02:24:19,000
Like 15 years.
2606
02:24:19,000 --> 02:24:21,000
15 years.
2607
02:24:21,000 --> 02:24:26,000
So I would imagine that you earned very good tips.
2608
02:24:26,000 --> 02:24:28,000
You did pretty good.
2609
02:24:28,000 --> 02:24:30,000
That's what made it hard to leave, isn't it?
2610
02:24:30,000 --> 02:24:33,000
Because you had to give up all the tips.
2611
02:24:33,000 --> 02:24:36,000
I was a waiter at one time.
2612
02:24:36,000 --> 02:24:38,000
With alcohol.
2613
02:24:38,000 --> 02:24:40,000
And I was very good.
2614
02:24:40,000 --> 02:24:41,000
So I got a lot of tips.
2615
02:24:41,000 --> 02:24:43,000
I'm a good tipper.
2616
02:24:43,000 --> 02:24:47,000
Anybody who's lived on tips is usually a good tipper.
2617
02:24:47,000 --> 02:24:53,000
Well, it's very difficult to leave that, isn't it?
2618
02:24:53,000 --> 02:24:55,000
She was telling me what she really wanted.
2619
02:24:55,000 --> 02:24:56,000
It was obvious.
2620
02:24:56,000 --> 02:24:58,000
I mean, I spent a lot of time talking to you about this.
2621
02:24:58,000 --> 02:25:00,000
At different times.
2622
02:25:00,000 --> 02:25:03,000
Sometimes months apart.
2623
02:25:03,000 --> 02:25:05,000
She had this idea of a puppy academy.
2624
02:25:05,000 --> 02:25:10,000
It was the most phenomenal concept.
2625
02:25:10,000 --> 02:25:13,000
But she had to quit the bar.
2626
02:25:13,000 --> 02:25:15,000
She had to leave all those tips behind,
2627
02:25:15,000 --> 02:25:16,000
and she had never run a puppy academy.
2628
02:25:16,000 --> 02:25:21,000
She didn't know if they were going to earn any money.
2629
02:25:21,000 --> 02:25:27,000
The one thing you had, Marco was supportive of it, wasn't he?
2630
02:25:27,000 --> 02:25:28,000
You know?
2631
02:25:28,000 --> 02:25:30,000
I thought maybe that's why she's not doing it.
2632
02:25:30,000 --> 02:25:31,000
But I talked to him.
2633
02:25:31,000 --> 02:25:33,000
That wasn't the problem.
2634
02:25:33,000 --> 02:25:37,000
The problem was you couldn't see how it was going to happen,
2635
02:25:37,000 --> 02:25:40,000
and you had to give up the money.
2636
02:25:40,000 --> 02:25:41,000
That's a bitch, isn't it?
2637
02:25:41,000 --> 02:25:43,000
Yes, it is.
2638
02:25:43,000 --> 02:25:45,000
Yeah.
2639
02:25:45,000 --> 02:25:46,000
Here's the point.
2640
02:25:46,000 --> 02:25:50,000
You don't have to know how it's going to happen.
2641
02:25:50,000 --> 02:25:54,000
Peggy McCall is about as good at this as anybody I've known.
2642
02:25:54,000 --> 02:26:01,000
I met her when she was just a girl.
2643
02:26:01,000 --> 02:26:03,000
That was a while ago.
2644
02:26:03,000 --> 02:26:05,000
How long ago was it?
2645
02:26:05,000 --> 02:26:06,000
Forty years.
2646
02:26:06,000 --> 02:26:08,000
Forty years ago is when I met her.
2647
02:26:08,000 --> 02:26:13,000
I was three.
2648
02:26:13,000 --> 02:26:18,000
She lied then, and she's still lying.
2649
02:26:18,000 --> 02:26:19,000
All right.
2650
02:26:19,000 --> 02:26:20,000
Go ahead.
2651
02:26:20,000 --> 02:26:23,000
Go to work.
2652
02:26:23,000 --> 02:26:29,000
Thank you.
2653
02:26:29,000 --> 02:26:34,000
Thanks for warming up the audience for me, Bob.
2654
02:26:34,000 --> 02:26:36,000
Don't screw it up.
2655
02:26:36,000 --> 02:26:38,000
You know what's funny?
2656
02:26:38,000 --> 02:26:40,000
Bob has this most incredible sense of humor,
2657
02:26:40,000 --> 02:26:43,000
as you're all getting to know.
2658
02:26:43,000 --> 02:26:45,000
Quite often when he's bringing me on stage,
2659
02:26:45,000 --> 02:26:47,000
he'll give me a hug, and he'll whisper in my ear,
2660
02:26:47,000 --> 02:26:49,000
don't screw it up.
2661
02:26:49,000 --> 02:26:50,000
It's so sweet.
2662
02:26:50,000 --> 02:26:54,000
It's just part of his wonderful spirit and his sense of humor.
2663
02:26:54,000 --> 02:26:56,000
How many of you are here for the first time?
2664
02:26:56,000 --> 02:26:58,000
Raise your hand.
2665
02:26:58,000 --> 02:27:00,000
Wow.
2666
02:27:00,000 --> 02:27:03,000
How many of you that are here for the first time
2667
02:27:03,000 --> 02:27:07,000
watched this on the livestream last time,
2668
02:27:07,000 --> 02:27:09,000
and you decided to be here?
2669
02:27:09,000 --> 02:27:12,000
Do you know we have 104 countries
2670
02:27:12,000 --> 02:27:15,000
that's on the streaming club watching us right now?
2671
02:27:15,000 --> 02:27:21,000
Thousands of people.
2672
02:27:21,000 --> 02:27:22,000
Thousands of people.
2673
02:27:22,000 --> 02:27:24,000
I met Bob 40 years ago.
2674
02:27:24,000 --> 02:27:27,000
I was 20 years old at the time,
2675
02:27:27,000 --> 02:27:30,000
and I was living in Toronto, Ontario, Canada,
2676
02:27:30,000 --> 02:27:34,000
and I worked for a company by the name of AES Data,
2677
02:27:34,000 --> 02:27:37,000
and this was a very fast upcoming company.
2678
02:27:37,000 --> 02:27:40,000
We were selling word processing equipment at the time,
2679
02:27:40,000 --> 02:27:43,000
very big leader in the industry,
2680
02:27:43,000 --> 02:27:47,000
and as an employee, we were mandated to go to this seminar,
2681
02:27:47,000 --> 02:27:50,000
and the seminar was with Bob Proctor.
2682
02:27:50,000 --> 02:27:52,000
I'd never heard of Bob Proctor before.
2683
02:27:52,000 --> 02:27:56,000
I had no idea who he was, but I had a BA.
2684
02:27:56,000 --> 02:27:59,000
We're not talking about a Bachelor of Arts degree.
2685
02:27:59,000 --> 02:28:03,000
I had a bad attitude, a very bad attitude,
2686
02:28:03,000 --> 02:28:06,000
and I was a miserable human being.
2687
02:28:06,000 --> 02:28:09,000
And I was not getting good results in my life,
2688
02:28:09,000 --> 02:28:12,000
and I thought it was everyone else's fault.
2689
02:28:12,000 --> 02:28:13,000
It certainly wasn't mine.
2690
02:28:13,000 --> 02:28:15,000
That's what I believed,
2691
02:28:15,000 --> 02:28:18,000
and so when we were told we had to go to this seminar,
2692
02:28:18,000 --> 02:28:21,000
I remember thinking, I'm not going,
2693
02:28:21,000 --> 02:28:24,000
and we were told it's mandatory.
2694
02:28:24,000 --> 02:28:26,000
You must go, and I thought,
2695
02:28:26,000 --> 02:28:29,000
well, what I'll do is I'll show up a little bit late.
2696
02:28:29,000 --> 02:28:32,000
I'll look for a seat in the back of the room,
2697
02:28:32,000 --> 02:28:36,000
and at my first opportunity, I am exiting stage left,
2698
02:28:36,000 --> 02:28:38,000
and so I arrive at the room,
2699
02:28:38,000 --> 02:28:40,000
and they're just getting ready to start,
2700
02:28:40,000 --> 02:28:41,000
and it was filled.
2701
02:28:41,000 --> 02:28:44,000
It was a ballroom full of people just like this,
2702
02:28:44,000 --> 02:28:45,000
and I looked around.
2703
02:28:45,000 --> 02:28:47,000
I looked for a seat in the back of the room.
2704
02:28:47,000 --> 02:28:48,000
There weren't any.
2705
02:28:48,000 --> 02:28:51,000
The only seat in the room was a seat right here
2706
02:28:51,000 --> 02:28:53,000
in the front of the room,
2707
02:28:53,000 --> 02:28:54,000
and somebody waved me,
2708
02:28:54,000 --> 02:28:56,000
because they could see I was looking for a seat,
2709
02:28:56,000 --> 02:28:59,000
waved me to come and sit right there,
2710
02:29:00,000 --> 02:29:02,000
and Bob Proctor started talking,
2711
02:29:02,000 --> 02:29:07,000
and he woke me up from a nightmare
2712
02:29:07,000 --> 02:29:10,000
which was called my life,
2713
02:29:10,000 --> 02:29:12,000
and Bob Proctor quoted Vernon Howard,
2714
02:29:12,000 --> 02:29:14,000
and he said the following.
2715
02:29:14,000 --> 02:29:17,000
He said, you cannot escape from a prison
2716
02:29:17,000 --> 02:29:20,000
unless you know you are in one.
2717
02:29:20,000 --> 02:29:22,000
I was in a prison.
2718
02:29:22,000 --> 02:29:24,000
It was a prison of my own making,
2719
02:29:24,000 --> 02:29:27,000
and I had no idea that I was locked away.
2720
02:29:27,000 --> 02:29:30,000
I had no idea that the door wasn't even locked,
2721
02:29:30,000 --> 02:29:32,000
and that I could escape.
2722
02:29:32,000 --> 02:29:35,000
You know, when Bob Proctor started speaking this morning,
2723
02:29:35,000 --> 02:29:37,000
he was talking about your paradigms.
2724
02:29:37,000 --> 02:29:39,000
You have to want to change them.
2725
02:29:39,000 --> 02:29:42,000
You have to make a decision you're going to change them.
2726
02:29:42,000 --> 02:29:44,000
You're here in the room, yes.
2727
02:29:44,000 --> 02:29:46,000
You're getting the understanding, yes,
2728
02:29:46,000 --> 02:29:49,000
but you've got to do something with it.
2729
02:29:49,000 --> 02:29:53,000
It has no value unless you do something with it.
2730
02:29:53,000 --> 02:29:55,000
You've got to stay in the study.
2731
02:29:55,000 --> 02:29:56,000
When I look around the room
2732
02:29:56,000 --> 02:29:58,000
and I see people like Phil Goldfein,
2733
02:29:58,000 --> 02:30:00,000
who's sitting here, and I see Fuzz,
2734
02:30:00,000 --> 02:30:02,000
Wendy and Keith Ditta,
2735
02:30:02,000 --> 02:30:04,000
Kristen Rachel Bassey,
2736
02:30:04,000 --> 02:30:06,000
Anders Hansen, who's here,
2737
02:30:06,000 --> 02:30:09,000
many, many people in this room who are already successful,
2738
02:30:09,000 --> 02:30:12,000
that continue to create phenomenal success,
2739
02:30:12,000 --> 02:30:14,000
Robert and Kelly Fuscusi.
2740
02:30:14,000 --> 02:30:16,000
But why are they here?
2741
02:30:16,000 --> 02:30:18,000
Because they want more.
2742
02:30:18,000 --> 02:30:22,000
They understand that we are for fuller expression
2743
02:30:22,000 --> 02:30:24,000
and greater expansion,
2744
02:30:24,000 --> 02:30:27,000
and that's what staying in the study does.
2745
02:30:27,000 --> 02:30:29,000
Forty years of studying these materials.
2746
02:30:29,000 --> 02:30:34,000
My life just gets better and better and better.
2747
02:30:34,000 --> 02:30:36,000
Last evening we were having a meeting in my suite
2748
02:30:36,000 --> 02:30:38,000
with Louise Tremblay,
2749
02:30:38,000 --> 02:30:41,000
who's a friend of mine who's a wonderful human being
2750
02:30:41,000 --> 02:30:44,000
and an incredible writer and author with Phil Goldfein,
2751
02:30:44,000 --> 02:30:48,000
because Phil is going to be representing Louise and her book.
2752
02:30:48,000 --> 02:30:50,000
And Louise was saying to me, she says,
2753
02:30:50,000 --> 02:30:53,000
you know, I feel like I won the lottery.
2754
02:30:53,000 --> 02:30:55,000
And it feels like, you feel like you won the lottery
2755
02:30:55,000 --> 02:30:57,000
because you're sitting here with me?
2756
02:30:57,000 --> 02:31:02,000
And she said, just everything that's happening is so surreal.
2757
02:31:02,000 --> 02:31:03,000
And that's what happens.
2758
02:31:03,000 --> 02:31:06,000
It becomes so surreal.
2759
02:31:06,000 --> 02:31:09,000
And you're wondering, wow.
2760
02:31:09,000 --> 02:31:11,000
But you've got to apply it.
2761
02:31:11,000 --> 02:31:13,000
That's what's most important.
2762
02:31:13,000 --> 02:31:15,000
And you want to be taking notes while you're here as well.
2763
02:31:15,000 --> 02:31:17,000
How many of you have been taking notes
2764
02:31:17,000 --> 02:31:20,000
while Bob's been up here talking this morning?
2765
02:31:20,000 --> 02:31:22,000
You know, I was chatting with my cousin.
2766
02:31:22,000 --> 02:31:24,000
Susan is here sitting at the front room
2767
02:31:24,000 --> 02:31:26,000
and she brought her daughter Chloe.
2768
02:31:26,000 --> 02:31:28,000
Chloe's 17.
2769
02:31:28,000 --> 02:31:30,000
And I asked them at the break, how are you enjoying it?
2770
02:31:30,000 --> 02:31:33,000
They've never been to a Bob Proctor seminar before.
2771
02:31:33,000 --> 02:31:34,000
And they're loving it.
2772
02:31:34,000 --> 02:31:36,000
And they were so excited to be here.
2773
02:31:36,000 --> 02:31:38,000
And I said, are you taking notes?
2774
02:31:38,000 --> 02:31:39,000
And Susan said, I am.
2775
02:31:39,000 --> 02:31:40,000
I said, Chloe?
2776
02:31:40,000 --> 02:31:42,000
She said, no, my mom's taking notes.
2777
02:31:42,000 --> 02:31:44,000
It doesn't count.
2778
02:31:44,000 --> 02:31:46,000
You've got to take your own notes.
2779
02:31:46,000 --> 02:31:49,000
But what I also suggest as you're going through this
2780
02:31:49,000 --> 02:31:52,000
is to really highlight the things
2781
02:31:52,000 --> 02:31:54,000
that are really resonating with you.
2782
02:31:54,000 --> 02:31:56,000
What are the messages that you're hearing today
2783
02:31:56,000 --> 02:31:58,000
that are really resonating with you?
2784
02:31:58,000 --> 02:32:00,000
I want you to think about that.
2785
02:32:00,000 --> 02:32:04,000
And then, more importantly, what will you do with it?
2786
02:32:04,000 --> 02:32:06,000
What will you do with it?
2787
02:32:06,000 --> 02:32:08,000
One of the things that I do,
2788
02:32:08,000 --> 02:32:10,000
whenever I'm at one of Bob Proctor's seminars,
2789
02:32:10,000 --> 02:32:12,000
is I create a separate page.
2790
02:32:12,000 --> 02:32:14,000
Sometimes I'll go to the back of the workbook
2791
02:32:15,000 --> 02:32:18,000
and I'll write down the things that I will do
2792
02:32:18,000 --> 02:32:21,000
because I get inspired with new ideas.
2793
02:32:21,000 --> 02:32:23,000
Or I'll be thinking about an idea
2794
02:32:23,000 --> 02:32:25,000
that I've already been working on,
2795
02:32:25,000 --> 02:32:29,000
and then I'll get inspired with what to do with that idea
2796
02:32:29,000 --> 02:32:31,000
from being in the room.
2797
02:32:31,000 --> 02:32:33,000
So you create this list of what you will do.
2798
02:32:33,000 --> 02:32:37,000
Another thing that I do is I will highlight certain points
2799
02:32:37,000 --> 02:32:39,000
so that I can share them with others.
2800
02:32:39,000 --> 02:32:42,000
So I have this thing that I deliver three times a week
2801
02:32:42,000 --> 02:32:44,000
called the morning money class.
2802
02:32:44,000 --> 02:32:45,000
It's free.
2803
02:32:45,000 --> 02:32:48,000
It's a subscription thing that I started a number of years ago
2804
02:32:48,000 --> 02:32:51,000
when I was listening to some Earl Nightingale audios
2805
02:32:51,000 --> 02:32:53,000
and Napoleon Hill audios.
2806
02:32:53,000 --> 02:32:55,000
And so these morning money classes are all about
2807
02:32:55,000 --> 02:32:59,000
helping my subscribers to attract more abundance in their life.
2808
02:32:59,000 --> 02:33:02,000
So this morning I made a page of all the things
2809
02:33:02,000 --> 02:33:06,000
that I'm going to teach in the next several morning money classes.
2810
02:33:06,000 --> 02:33:09,000
But the more you help another understand these materials
2811
02:33:09,000 --> 02:33:11,000
and, Anders, you can relate to this very well.
2812
02:33:11,000 --> 02:33:14,000
The more you help another understand these materials,
2813
02:33:14,000 --> 02:33:16,000
the more it helps you.
2814
02:33:16,000 --> 02:33:18,000
The more you share them.
2815
02:33:18,000 --> 02:33:20,000
We have a number of TIR consultants in the room,
2816
02:33:20,000 --> 02:33:22,000
and you'll hear about that opportunity,
2817
02:33:22,000 --> 02:33:24,000
thinking and a results consultant.
2818
02:33:24,000 --> 02:33:26,000
How many thinking and a results consultants
2819
02:33:26,000 --> 02:33:27,000
are there in the room?
2820
02:33:27,000 --> 02:33:28,000
Raise your hand.
2821
02:33:28,000 --> 02:33:30,000
Right, we've got a number of you here.
2822
02:33:30,000 --> 02:33:32,000
And I'm certain you find that,
2823
02:33:32,000 --> 02:33:35,000
that the more you're helping people with your TIR business,
2824
02:33:35,000 --> 02:33:37,000
the more it helps you as well.
2825
02:33:38,000 --> 02:33:41,000
I remember one time Bob and I were in Dallas, Texas,
2826
02:33:41,000 --> 02:33:43,000
and it was a weekend event called
2827
02:33:43,000 --> 02:33:44,000
The Science of Getting Rich
2828
02:33:44,000 --> 02:33:47,000
based on Wallace D. Waddle's book by the same title,
2829
02:33:47,000 --> 02:33:49,000
Science of Getting Rich.
2830
02:33:49,000 --> 02:33:51,000
And Bob and I were heading down to the ballroom
2831
02:33:51,000 --> 02:33:53,000
to get miked up.
2832
02:33:53,000 --> 02:33:54,000
And we're heading down the ballroom,
2833
02:33:54,000 --> 02:33:57,000
and the ballroom was quite a distance from where the hotel was
2834
02:33:57,000 --> 02:33:59,000
to where the ballroom was.
2835
02:33:59,000 --> 02:34:01,000
And if you've ever walked with Bob Proctor,
2836
02:34:01,000 --> 02:34:06,000
I mean, this man is going to be 85 years of age next Friday.
2837
02:34:06,000 --> 02:34:08,000
It's his birthday next Friday.
2838
02:34:11,000 --> 02:34:14,000
And Bob and I are heading down to the ballroom,
2839
02:34:14,000 --> 02:34:16,000
and he walks fast.
2840
02:34:16,000 --> 02:34:17,000
If you've ever walked beside him,
2841
02:34:17,000 --> 02:34:19,000
he's like, he's a man on a mission.
2842
02:34:19,000 --> 02:34:21,000
He knows exactly where he's going,
2843
02:34:21,000 --> 02:34:23,000
and he is determined to get there.
2844
02:34:23,000 --> 02:34:25,000
It's the same thing when he's heading to the ballroom
2845
02:34:25,000 --> 02:34:27,000
to deliver a seminar.
2846
02:34:27,000 --> 02:34:29,000
And so Bob's heading down to the ballroom,
2847
02:34:29,000 --> 02:34:30,000
I'm walking beside him,
2848
02:34:30,000 --> 02:34:32,000
and he's walking at his usual pace,
2849
02:34:32,000 --> 02:34:35,000
and I'm not in my running shoes and high heels or whatever,
2850
02:34:35,000 --> 02:34:39,000
and I'm like, just trying to keep up to him.
2851
02:34:39,000 --> 02:34:41,000
I said, Bob, what's the hurry?
2852
02:34:41,000 --> 02:34:43,000
And he said, oh, he says, I'm sorry.
2853
02:34:43,000 --> 02:34:45,000
He said, I'm just so excited.
2854
02:34:45,000 --> 02:34:47,000
And I said, what are you excited about?
2855
02:34:47,000 --> 02:34:49,000
He said, the seminar.
2856
02:34:49,000 --> 02:34:51,000
I say, well, you're delivering it.
2857
02:34:51,000 --> 02:34:55,000
He goes, yeah, I know, but as I speak it, I hear it.
2858
02:34:55,000 --> 02:35:01,000
So it's resonating with me again and again and again.
2859
02:35:01,000 --> 02:35:03,000
It's resonating more and more and more.
2860
02:35:03,000 --> 02:35:05,000
The more you get exposed to it.
2861
02:35:05,000 --> 02:35:07,000
You see, you're a different person today
2862
02:35:07,000 --> 02:35:09,000
than you were yesterday.
2863
02:35:09,000 --> 02:35:14,000
I'm a different person to who I was a year ago, 10 years ago.
2864
02:35:14,000 --> 02:35:18,000
But it's only when we seek to have that level of understanding
2865
02:35:18,000 --> 02:35:21,000
and we apply it, we've got to apply it.
2866
02:35:21,000 --> 02:35:23,000
So this morning there were certain points
2867
02:35:23,000 --> 02:35:25,000
that really resonated with me,
2868
02:35:25,000 --> 02:35:28,000
and I've heard this before many, many times.
2869
02:35:28,000 --> 02:35:32,000
What I'd love to hear from you is what was it this morning?
2870
02:35:32,000 --> 02:35:33,000
We're going to go around the room.
2871
02:35:33,000 --> 02:35:35,000
I want to have some sharing going on.
2872
02:35:35,000 --> 02:35:39,000
What was it this morning that really either woke you up,
2873
02:35:39,000 --> 02:35:41,000
resonated with you,
2874
02:35:41,000 --> 02:35:44,000
there was something that just really clicked within you,
2875
02:35:44,000 --> 02:35:48,000
perhaps you even made a decision?
2876
02:35:48,000 --> 02:35:50,000
While Bob was speaking this morning,
2877
02:35:50,000 --> 02:35:52,000
I'd love to have some of you share.
2878
02:35:52,000 --> 02:35:54,000
By the way, we've got a lot of young people in the room.
2879
02:35:54,000 --> 02:35:59,000
If you are younger than 21, would you please stand up?
2880
02:35:59,000 --> 02:36:01,000
Nice one, Rachel.
2881
02:36:01,000 --> 02:36:02,000
I like that.
2882
02:36:02,000 --> 02:36:03,000
Younger than 21, stand up.
2883
02:36:03,000 --> 02:36:05,000
Don't be shy.
2884
02:36:05,000 --> 02:36:07,000
Nice Cathy Lee.
2885
02:36:09,000 --> 02:36:11,000
Beautiful.
2886
02:36:11,000 --> 02:36:13,000
That's amazing.
2887
02:36:13,000 --> 02:36:15,000
I really commend you for being here.
2888
02:36:15,000 --> 02:36:16,000
I really commend you.
2889
02:36:16,000 --> 02:36:19,000
It's amazing that you're here.
2890
02:36:19,000 --> 02:36:22,000
All right, so who would like to share first?
2891
02:36:22,000 --> 02:36:24,000
Perfect. I'm going to head down to you.
2892
02:36:24,000 --> 02:36:31,000
Jeff Levine from Scottsdale, Arizona.
2893
02:36:31,000 --> 02:36:37,000
What we really have to understand is what Bob says,
2894
02:36:37,000 --> 02:36:39,000
and he keeps saying it.
2895
02:36:39,000 --> 02:36:45,000
What do you really, and I mean really, really, really want?
2896
02:36:45,000 --> 02:36:49,000
And most people don't take the time to do that,
2897
02:36:49,000 --> 02:36:51,000
but they also don't understand
2898
02:36:51,000 --> 02:36:57,000
that once you do, the universe gives you all the direction you need.
2899
02:36:57,000 --> 02:36:59,000
It opens doors.
2900
02:36:59,000 --> 02:37:01,000
You don't need to know how.
2901
02:37:01,000 --> 02:37:04,000
But how have we been programmed?
2902
02:37:04,000 --> 02:37:06,000
We need to know now.
2903
02:37:06,000 --> 02:37:08,000
Thank you, Jeff.
2904
02:37:08,000 --> 02:37:09,000
That's awesome.
2905
02:37:09,000 --> 02:37:10,000
Very good.
2906
02:37:10,000 --> 02:37:11,000
Thank you, Jeff.
2907
02:37:11,000 --> 02:37:12,000
Who else?
2908
02:37:12,000 --> 02:37:14,000
Right over here.
2909
02:37:15,000 --> 02:37:16,000
Who else?
2910
02:37:16,000 --> 02:37:18,000
Right over here.
2911
02:37:22,000 --> 02:37:25,000
Right in front of everybody.
2912
02:37:25,000 --> 02:37:27,000
I want to show it to you.
2913
02:37:27,000 --> 02:37:29,000
See right there?
2914
02:37:29,000 --> 02:37:31,000
It's my signature.
2915
02:37:31,000 --> 02:37:36,000
And it says, I will do anything Bob Proctor tells me to do.
2916
02:37:36,000 --> 02:37:38,000
Excellent, Steve.
2917
02:37:38,000 --> 02:37:40,000
Congratulations.
2918
02:37:41,000 --> 02:37:44,000
Hi, my name is Seema,
2919
02:37:44,000 --> 02:37:50,000
and I'm studying Bob Proctor teaching for two and a half years.
2920
02:37:50,000 --> 02:37:55,000
And the most important thing is I think I learned to go out of my comfort zone.
2921
02:37:55,000 --> 02:37:59,000
It was a huge terror barrier, so I'm very glad I do.
2922
02:37:59,000 --> 02:38:02,000
And that's never-ending process.
2923
02:38:02,000 --> 02:38:04,000
Thank you, Seema.
2924
02:38:04,000 --> 02:38:05,000
That was great.
2925
02:38:05,000 --> 02:38:06,000
Great lesson.
2926
02:38:06,000 --> 02:38:08,000
Yes, please.
2927
02:38:10,000 --> 02:38:11,000
Hey, guys.
2928
02:38:11,000 --> 02:38:12,000
So I have her in here.
2929
02:38:12,000 --> 02:38:14,000
If you hesitate, the decision fades.
2930
02:38:14,000 --> 02:38:15,000
Then the goal fades.
2931
02:38:15,000 --> 02:38:16,000
I added this.
2932
02:38:16,000 --> 02:38:18,000
And then the dream dies.
2933
02:38:18,000 --> 02:38:20,000
I wrote that because it's all about opportunity.
2934
02:38:20,000 --> 02:38:23,000
You only have a few moments, and you have to act.
2935
02:38:23,000 --> 02:38:24,000
Love that.
2936
02:38:24,000 --> 02:38:26,000
Thank you so much.
2937
02:38:29,000 --> 02:38:32,000
So I actually heard Peggy talk about this this morning,
2938
02:38:32,000 --> 02:38:37,000
but one of the greatest gifts I think that I've received from listening to Bob
2939
02:38:37,000 --> 02:38:42,000
is not only a license to study, but repetition is key.
2940
02:38:42,000 --> 02:38:44,000
And it's something I knew inherently,
2941
02:38:44,000 --> 02:38:47,000
but hearing it from somebody else, it's really sunk in
2942
02:38:47,000 --> 02:38:49,000
and it's made a huge difference in my life.
2943
02:38:49,000 --> 02:38:50,000
Thank you.
2944
02:38:50,000 --> 02:38:52,000
Thank you so much.
2945
02:38:56,000 --> 02:38:58,000
Love your enthusiasm.
2946
02:38:58,000 --> 02:39:00,000
Hi, my name is Takesha Wilson.
2947
02:39:00,000 --> 02:39:04,000
And what stood out to me was it's not who you are that holds you back.
2948
02:39:04,000 --> 02:39:06,000
It's who you think you are not.
2949
02:39:06,000 --> 02:39:07,000
And that is powerful.
2950
02:39:07,000 --> 02:39:08,000
That resonated with me.
2951
02:39:08,000 --> 02:39:09,000
Thank you.
2952
02:39:09,000 --> 02:39:10,000
Thank you.
2953
02:39:10,000 --> 02:39:11,000
I love that.
2954
02:39:11,000 --> 02:39:12,000
Thank you.
2955
02:39:17,000 --> 02:39:19,000
Hi, I'm AJ Worth from Toronto.
2956
02:39:19,000 --> 02:39:22,000
And the greatest point here,
2957
02:39:22,000 --> 02:39:26,000
I am the writer, producer, director, and star in my life.
2958
02:39:26,000 --> 02:39:28,000
Wow.
2959
02:39:28,000 --> 02:39:29,000
Thank you.
2960
02:39:29,000 --> 02:39:30,000
Thank you.
2961
02:39:33,000 --> 02:39:37,000
Hi, I'm Fiana Brown from Utah by way of Tonga.
2962
02:39:37,000 --> 02:39:40,000
What really stuck out to me, and I'm going to paraphrase this,
2963
02:39:40,000 --> 02:39:44,000
is he says somebody else's success is proof positive
2964
02:39:44,000 --> 02:39:46,000
that I too can have at the same thing.
2965
02:39:46,000 --> 02:39:48,000
So true.
2966
02:39:48,000 --> 02:39:50,000
That was great.
2967
02:39:52,000 --> 02:39:54,000
Hi, my name is Danielle.
2968
02:39:54,000 --> 02:39:58,000
What stood out to me is my paradigm is costing me money,
2969
02:39:58,000 --> 02:40:00,000
and I can always be doing better.
2970
02:40:02,000 --> 02:40:03,000
That's true.
2971
02:40:03,000 --> 02:40:04,000
It's very true.
2972
02:40:04,000 --> 02:40:06,000
It's costing all of us money no matter how much we have.
2973
02:40:12,000 --> 02:40:14,000
Hi, my name is Joan and I'm from Texas.
2974
02:40:14,000 --> 02:40:19,000
And the point that resonated with me was to create your own economy.
2975
02:40:19,000 --> 02:40:21,000
I'm fixing to be a retired school teacher.
2976
02:40:21,000 --> 02:40:24,000
A helicopter has come down on the football field
2977
02:40:24,000 --> 02:40:26,000
to take me up out of the muck and mire,
2978
02:40:26,000 --> 02:40:29,000
and I will change the educational world
2979
02:40:29,000 --> 02:40:32,000
to think as a paradigm shift.
2980
02:40:43,000 --> 02:40:45,000
Hi, I'm Victoria Winters.
2981
02:40:45,000 --> 02:40:47,000
Peggy is my mentor.
2982
02:40:47,000 --> 02:40:51,000
And what resonated with me today that Bob said
2983
02:40:51,000 --> 02:40:55,000
is to know where you are and to know where you want to go.
2984
02:40:55,000 --> 02:40:58,000
But when you know where you are, it's a feeling.
2985
02:40:58,000 --> 02:41:02,000
And I feel where I'm going.
2986
02:41:02,000 --> 02:41:04,000
And that's what I got out of this today.
2987
02:41:04,000 --> 02:41:05,000
Thank you.
2988
02:41:05,000 --> 02:41:06,000
I love that.
2989
02:41:06,000 --> 02:41:07,000
Thanks, Victoria.
2990
02:41:12,000 --> 02:41:14,000
Hey, I'm Jada.
2991
02:41:14,000 --> 02:41:17,000
And what stood out to me is when he said
2992
02:41:17,000 --> 02:41:20,000
he didn't talk to his employees about work.
2993
02:41:20,000 --> 02:41:23,000
He would not talk to them about work.
2994
02:41:23,000 --> 02:41:25,000
He would only talk to them about what they wanted
2995
02:41:25,000 --> 02:41:27,000
to change their paradigm.
2996
02:41:27,000 --> 02:41:30,000
So I'm immediately applying that.
2997
02:41:30,000 --> 02:41:32,000
That's a great message.
2998
02:41:32,000 --> 02:41:35,000
Thank you.
2999
02:41:35,000 --> 02:41:38,000
What really stood out to me the most was the belief level
3000
02:41:38,000 --> 02:41:41,000
that he had for somebody just by the fact somebody believes in you.
3001
02:41:41,000 --> 02:41:43,000
Then it can be possible, so.
3002
02:41:49,000 --> 02:41:51,000
Hi, my name is Jay.
3003
02:41:51,000 --> 02:41:56,000
What immediately stood out to me was about what I really wanted.
3004
02:41:56,000 --> 02:41:59,000
For so long, I had been playing really small in my life.
3005
02:41:59,000 --> 02:42:02,000
My family has told me to play really small and be small.
3006
02:42:02,000 --> 02:42:05,000
And I decided to write here, I want to jump off the deck
3007
02:42:05,000 --> 02:42:08,000
of my own private island property.
3008
02:42:08,000 --> 02:42:13,000
I fly myself and my family there with my own private jet.
3009
02:42:13,000 --> 02:42:15,000
And I'm not settling for less.
3010
02:42:21,000 --> 02:42:23,000
Hey, my name is Jay.
3011
02:42:23,000 --> 02:42:27,000
And what really stood out to me is very similar to what Keisha said.
3012
02:42:27,000 --> 02:42:29,000
I think that was her name.
3013
02:42:29,000 --> 02:42:31,000
It's not who you are, what holds you back.
3014
02:42:31,000 --> 02:42:33,000
It's who you think you're not.
3015
02:42:33,000 --> 02:42:36,000
And to add on to that, I think what else holds us back
3016
02:42:36,000 --> 02:42:39,000
is pretty much that we're constantly comparing ourselves.
3017
02:42:39,000 --> 02:42:42,000
And by constantly comparing ourselves to other people,
3018
02:42:42,000 --> 02:42:46,000
we don't find out our own gifts that we truly have.
3019
02:42:46,000 --> 02:42:50,000
So that's another shackle that holds us back as well, too.
3020
02:42:50,000 --> 02:42:53,000
So that whole little quote made me think about that, too,
3021
02:42:53,000 --> 02:42:57,000
about the times where in my business where I was suffering the most
3022
02:42:57,000 --> 02:43:00,000
or when my business took a tank is because I was comparing myself
3023
02:43:00,000 --> 02:43:03,000
to competition and I was just trying to always do what they were doing.
3024
02:43:03,000 --> 02:43:07,000
And that left the path that which made us grew super, super fast.
3025
02:43:07,000 --> 02:43:09,000
So that was a huge takeaway for me.
3026
02:43:09,000 --> 02:43:12,000
Bob, that was great. Thank you, Jay.
3027
02:43:16,000 --> 02:43:20,000
Hi, my name is Brianna Aria from Sacramento, California.
3028
02:43:20,000 --> 02:43:24,000
And the thing that really inspired me the most
3029
02:43:24,000 --> 02:43:28,000
is when Bob said what's going on outside of you
3030
02:43:28,000 --> 02:43:32,000
is a reflection of what's going on inside of you.
3031
02:43:32,000 --> 02:43:35,000
And I think that's something that we tend to forget
3032
02:43:35,000 --> 02:43:39,000
because we want to blame other people for our problems
3033
02:43:39,000 --> 02:43:42,000
when really we're in control the most.
3034
02:43:42,000 --> 02:43:45,000
Beautiful. Thank you very much.
3035
02:43:53,000 --> 02:43:56,000
So I listen to the same three people every night when I sleep.
3036
02:43:56,000 --> 02:43:59,000
My mentor, David, Bob Proctor, and then myself.
3037
02:43:59,000 --> 02:44:03,000
And I learned last night when I was sleeping, he said, like, praise.
3038
02:44:03,000 --> 02:44:05,000
You can praise plants and the plants will grow.
3039
02:44:05,000 --> 02:44:07,000
You can praise people and the people will grow.
3040
02:44:07,000 --> 02:44:09,000
And then he said today, he was like,
3041
02:44:09,000 --> 02:44:11,000
the mind is perfect and all things can be cured.
3042
02:44:11,000 --> 02:44:15,000
And you won't see him match his words with saying, oh, I'm losing my mind.
3043
02:44:15,000 --> 02:44:17,000
You'll never see Bob say that.
3044
02:44:17,000 --> 02:44:20,000
But I'll hear people all day long, oh, I'm losing my mind.
3045
02:44:20,000 --> 02:44:23,000
But their words don't match really what you are.
3046
02:44:23,000 --> 02:44:27,000
And I see him and he's like, oh, my gosh, the mind is perfect.
3047
02:44:27,000 --> 02:44:29,000
And I think that's amazing.
3048
02:44:29,000 --> 02:44:31,000
That's what I learned today.
3049
02:44:31,000 --> 02:44:33,000
Thank you, Scotty.
3050
02:44:37,000 --> 02:44:40,000
Hi, I'm Jeff from Pasadena, Texas.
3051
02:44:40,000 --> 02:44:43,000
And one more.
3052
02:44:43,000 --> 02:44:47,000
The thing I got out of it was confidence.
3053
02:44:47,000 --> 02:44:49,000
I didn't realize you could have too much.
3054
02:44:49,000 --> 02:44:52,000
And that has happened quite often in my life.
3055
02:44:52,000 --> 02:44:54,000
I'd have way too much confidence and say, I got this.
3056
02:44:54,000 --> 02:44:55,000
I don't need any help.
3057
02:44:55,000 --> 02:44:56,000
I don't need to study.
3058
02:44:56,000 --> 02:44:57,000
I got it under control.
3059
02:44:57,000 --> 02:45:00,000
And usually it was completely out of control.
3060
02:45:00,000 --> 02:45:01,000
Dangerous place to be.
3061
02:45:01,000 --> 02:45:02,000
Thank you, Jeff.
3062
02:45:02,000 --> 02:45:04,000
Appreciate it.
3063
02:45:07,000 --> 02:45:11,000
The thing that is always โ I'm Kirk from Fort Wayne, Indiana.
3064
02:45:11,000 --> 02:45:15,000
When Bob says there's a power flowing to and through you,
3065
02:45:15,000 --> 02:45:20,000
and you can have, do, be, or make anything out of it that you want.
3066
02:45:20,000 --> 02:45:24,000
And when I listen to that, you think, is that really true?
3067
02:45:24,000 --> 02:45:27,000
There's a power flowing to and through us,
3068
02:45:27,000 --> 02:45:31,000
and you can make it anything you want.
3069
02:45:31,000 --> 02:45:33,000
So that has been my favorite thing.
3070
02:45:33,000 --> 02:45:37,000
I've always heard him say that about that.
3071
02:45:37,000 --> 02:45:39,000
That's great. Thank you.
3072
02:45:43,000 --> 02:45:44,000
Hi, Peggy.
3073
02:45:44,000 --> 02:45:46,000
It's Shabril Wilson from Washington, D.C.
3074
02:45:46,000 --> 02:45:48,000
How you doing?
3075
02:45:48,000 --> 02:45:51,000
The key thing that I learned is to shift my thinking
3076
02:45:51,000 --> 02:45:58,000
and to create a new model to make the old model obsolete.
3077
02:45:58,000 --> 02:46:00,000
I'm ready.
3078
02:46:00,000 --> 02:46:02,000
You sound ready.
3079
02:46:02,000 --> 02:46:04,000
Thank you.
3080
02:46:08,000 --> 02:46:11,000
I'm Richard Lovejoy from Sonoma, California.
3081
02:46:11,000 --> 02:46:14,000
What stood out to me isn't so much what Bob said,
3082
02:46:14,000 --> 02:46:17,000
but the energy with which he delivered it,
3083
02:46:17,000 --> 02:46:20,000
the confidence, the caring, the loving,
3084
02:46:20,000 --> 02:46:25,000
and that to me is where I want to be in that energy
3085
02:46:25,000 --> 02:46:30,000
so I can move forward and do whatever I want to do.
3086
02:46:30,000 --> 02:46:32,000
Thank you, Richard.
3087
02:46:32,000 --> 02:46:34,000
You know, what Richard just said reminded me,
3088
02:46:34,000 --> 02:46:36,000
Bob and I were having a meeting with Anders.
3089
02:46:36,000 --> 02:46:38,000
We were sitting in his living room.
3090
02:46:38,000 --> 02:46:41,000
This was a few months ago, and I was saying to Bob,
3091
02:46:41,000 --> 02:46:44,000
I said, Bob, you know, 40 years ago when I saw you speak,
3092
02:46:44,000 --> 02:46:46,000
he was just as good as he is today.
3093
02:46:46,000 --> 02:46:48,000
I mean, so powerful.
3094
02:46:48,000 --> 02:46:52,000
And I said, how was it that you were so powerful in your delivery?
3095
02:46:52,000 --> 02:46:55,000
And he thought about it for a minute, and he said,
3096
02:46:55,000 --> 02:47:00,000
it's because I was in the spirit of the information.
3097
02:47:00,000 --> 02:47:02,000
And that's what happens for Bob.
3098
02:47:02,000 --> 02:47:04,000
He gets on stage and he's the spirit,
3099
02:47:04,000 --> 02:47:06,000
but he knows this information.
3100
02:47:06,000 --> 02:47:08,000
And he said this morning, it's not an ego thing.
3101
02:47:08,000 --> 02:47:10,000
It's not an arrogant thing.
3102
02:47:10,000 --> 02:47:13,000
He knows these materials better than any other living human being,
3103
02:47:13,000 --> 02:47:15,000
and he's the best on the planet.
3104
02:47:15,000 --> 02:47:18,000
And we are all so blessed to be here with him.
3105
02:47:18,000 --> 02:47:19,000
Thank you, Richard.
3106
02:47:19,000 --> 02:47:31,000
I think what resonated the most with me was when Bob was talking about,
3107
02:47:31,000 --> 02:47:37,000
he presented kind of an analogy or story of telling a dad
3108
02:47:37,000 --> 02:47:41,000
that he's changing the paradigm of the family lineage.
3109
02:47:41,000 --> 02:47:43,000
And I know that's something that I'm doing.
3110
02:47:43,000 --> 02:47:52,000
And yeah, I just feel very concrete in that all the pain and suffering
3111
02:47:52,000 --> 02:47:57,000
that my family has gone through will really end with me.
3112
02:47:57,000 --> 02:48:01,000
And as a result, the whole dynamic of my whole family is changing.
3113
02:48:01,000 --> 02:48:06,000
And I just feel very blessed because five years ago,
3114
02:48:06,000 --> 02:48:12,000
coming across a webinar that I saw Bob Proctor host,
3115
02:48:12,000 --> 02:48:15,000
just like on YouTube or something,
3116
02:48:15,000 --> 02:48:19,000
was the beginning point of me starting on this path.
3117
02:48:19,000 --> 02:48:23,000
And July 1st will be the end of that cycle.
3118
02:48:23,000 --> 02:48:26,000
And so it's really important for me to make it here
3119
02:48:26,000 --> 02:48:31,000
and just present my gratitude to him for starting me on this path
3120
02:48:31,000 --> 02:48:34,000
of changing the paradigm of my lineage.
3121
02:48:34,000 --> 02:48:36,000
Thank you.
3122
02:48:48,000 --> 02:48:51,000
Morena Rodriguez from Rialto, California.
3123
02:48:51,000 --> 02:48:55,000
And what Bob has empowered me the most is when he says that
3124
02:48:55,000 --> 02:48:59,000
we are God's highest form of creation.
3125
02:48:59,000 --> 02:49:02,000
We have been born with everything that we need
3126
02:49:02,000 --> 02:49:05,000
and we know that the universe has unlimited resources.
3127
02:49:05,000 --> 02:49:08,000
Therefore, what we have to do is know what we want.
3128
02:49:08,000 --> 02:49:10,000
Don't worry about the how.
3129
02:49:10,000 --> 02:49:14,000
The how will come because we will have this perfect frequency.
3130
02:49:14,000 --> 02:49:18,000
We are going to be vibrating with what we think we want
3131
02:49:18,000 --> 02:49:21,000
because our thoughts become what we are.
3132
02:49:21,000 --> 02:49:25,000
My job, and I'm grateful for this amazing opportunity,
3133
02:49:25,000 --> 02:49:30,000
my job as a teacher is now to stop domesticating my students
3134
02:49:30,000 --> 02:49:32,000
and making them aware.
3135
02:49:32,000 --> 02:49:36,000
If I plant that seed in them, I know it's going to germinate.
3136
02:49:36,000 --> 02:49:39,000
Something is going to be created by it.
3137
02:49:39,000 --> 02:49:43,000
So by doing this and attending and reading and also, of course,
3138
02:49:43,000 --> 02:49:47,000
in his books, he is empowering, he's giving us the strategies,
3139
02:49:47,000 --> 02:49:50,000
the tools, and we need to know that everything is inside us.
3140
02:49:50,000 --> 02:49:54,000
We are the creator highest form.
3141
02:49:54,000 --> 02:49:56,000
So thank you.
3142
02:49:57,000 --> 02:50:00,000
All right, let's do a couple more.
3143
02:50:03,000 --> 02:50:06,000
Hello, Paloma from Mexico.
3144
02:50:06,000 --> 02:50:11,000
Well, I was here last year,
3145
02:50:11,000 --> 02:50:17,000
and just what you said about how we listen to the same information,
3146
02:50:17,000 --> 02:50:22,000
but we change, it's like being again here just reminds me
3147
02:50:22,000 --> 02:50:27,000
how much I need to be learning, like always be so conscious.
3148
02:50:27,000 --> 02:50:31,000
And just like everybody, what they were saying was like,
3149
02:50:31,000 --> 02:50:36,000
wow, that's what I need to go to the next level.
3150
02:50:36,000 --> 02:50:39,000
And something that really stayed in my mind also was
3151
02:50:39,000 --> 02:50:44,000
being with the wrong people is going to take you to the wrong place.
3152
02:50:47,000 --> 02:50:48,000
Yes.
3153
02:50:48,000 --> 02:50:50,000
I was wondering if anyone was going to say that, actually.
3154
02:50:50,000 --> 02:50:52,000
I was going to repeat it if you hadn't, and it's true,
3155
02:50:52,000 --> 02:50:56,000
but we're in the right place with the right people right here.
3156
02:50:57,000 --> 02:50:58,000
Thank you.
3157
02:50:58,000 --> 02:51:00,000
Ebony Austin from Atlanta, Georgia.
3158
02:51:00,000 --> 02:51:07,000
And what really resonated with me is that successful people
3159
02:51:07,000 --> 02:51:11,000
know exactly what they want and they make decisions so fast.
3160
02:51:11,000 --> 02:51:15,000
And the reason why they're so successful is because they don't waste time
3161
02:51:15,000 --> 02:51:19,000
in doing things that don't align with what they want.
3162
02:51:19,000 --> 02:51:21,000
That was big for me.
3163
02:51:21,000 --> 02:51:22,000
That's awesome, Ebony.
3164
02:51:22,000 --> 02:51:24,000
I really love that.
3165
02:51:24,000 --> 02:51:25,000
I appreciate that.
3166
02:51:25,000 --> 02:51:28,000
Okay, we're going to hear from Annie, and then we'll go to our next part.
3167
02:51:33,000 --> 02:51:35,000
Hi, my name is Annie, and I live in New York.
3168
02:51:35,000 --> 02:51:42,000
And the biggest thing I got from this is to be the director in my own movie
3169
02:51:42,000 --> 02:51:45,000
and ask myself what I really want.
3170
02:51:45,000 --> 02:51:49,000
And I was sitting here today, and in the fall of last year,
3171
02:51:49,000 --> 02:51:51,000
I was listening to The Paradigm Shift at home.
3172
02:51:51,000 --> 02:51:53,000
I was new to Bob Proctor.
3173
02:51:53,000 --> 02:51:56,000
And he asked, what do you want?
3174
02:51:56,000 --> 02:52:02,000
And I have a lot of goals, a lot of dreams, and none of that came to mind.
3175
02:52:02,000 --> 02:52:05,000
And it came, I want to go to The Matrix,
3176
02:52:05,000 --> 02:52:10,000
because I wanted somebody to help me take control of my life.
3177
02:52:10,000 --> 02:52:13,000
I just said, do this.
3178
02:52:13,000 --> 02:52:24,000
So it didn't go, and three weeks ago, it came up again, The Matrix, The Matrix.
3179
02:52:24,000 --> 02:52:29,000
I'm sitting in this chair, and I made the decision,
3180
02:52:29,000 --> 02:52:33,000
I am going to be in The Matrix by the end of this year.
3181
02:52:33,000 --> 02:52:41,000
And taking a step like that is just so big for me, but it's my life.
3182
02:52:41,000 --> 02:52:46,000
And if I don't take control of it, nobody's going to do it for me.
3183
02:52:46,000 --> 02:52:50,000
So it was really big. Thank you.
3184
02:52:50,000 --> 02:52:55,000
Awesome.
3185
02:52:55,000 --> 02:52:58,000
You know, Annie mentioned an event called The Matrix.
3186
02:52:58,000 --> 02:53:00,000
It's an event that Proctor Gallagher puts on.
3187
02:53:00,000 --> 02:53:02,000
You're going to hear a little bit more about it.
3188
02:53:02,000 --> 02:53:05,000
And I would absolutely recommend everyone go to The Matrix.
3189
02:53:05,000 --> 02:53:08,000
And if you've been before, go again.
3190
02:53:08,000 --> 02:53:11,000
There's a gentleman that's quite often come to these seminars,
3191
02:53:11,000 --> 02:53:13,000
the weekend events, by the name of Matt.
3192
02:53:13,000 --> 02:53:16,000
He lives in Calgary, Alberta.
3193
02:53:16,000 --> 02:53:20,000
And he has been to several Matrixes, I believe seven in total.
3194
02:53:20,000 --> 02:53:24,000
And Bob asked him one time, Matt, why do you keep coming back?
3195
02:53:24,000 --> 02:53:31,000
And he said, because every time, my results get better and better and better.
3196
02:53:31,000 --> 02:53:35,000
So you want to be in the study and stay in the study
3197
02:53:35,000 --> 02:53:40,000
if you want your results to get better and better and better.
3198
02:53:40,000 --> 02:53:42,000
You know, when Bob was talking this morning about paradigms,
3199
02:53:42,000 --> 02:53:45,000
I was thinking about a story that he told many, many years ago.
3200
02:53:45,000 --> 02:53:48,000
And I know Gina's familiar with it because it's an old story.
3201
02:53:48,000 --> 02:53:49,000
And the story goes like this.
3202
02:53:49,000 --> 02:53:55,000
One time, Linda, his wife, was cooking a dinner, and she had a ham.
3203
02:53:55,000 --> 02:53:58,000
And she took the ham out of the package, and she chopped one end off.
3204
02:53:58,000 --> 02:54:01,000
She turned the ham around, and she chopped the other end off,
3205
02:54:01,000 --> 02:54:04,000
put it in the pan, put it in the oven, and cooked it.
3206
02:54:04,000 --> 02:54:06,000
And this happened on another occasion.
3207
02:54:06,000 --> 02:54:08,000
Months down the road, they're having ham again.
3208
02:54:08,000 --> 02:54:12,000
She buys a big ham from the grocery store, takes it home, takes it out of the package,
3209
02:54:12,000 --> 02:54:15,000
chops one end off, turns it around, chops the other end off,
3210
02:54:15,000 --> 02:54:17,000
puts it in the pan, puts it in the oven.
3211
02:54:17,000 --> 02:54:19,000
And Bob was wondering, why do you do that?
3212
02:54:19,000 --> 02:54:22,000
So he asked her, he said, Linda, why do you do that?
3213
02:54:22,000 --> 02:54:24,000
Why do you take the ham and cut one end off, turn it around,
3214
02:54:24,000 --> 02:54:26,000
cut the other end off, and throw it in the oven?
3215
02:54:26,000 --> 02:54:31,000
She says, honestly, I don't know. That's the way my mother did it.
3216
02:54:32,000 --> 02:54:35,000
So it made her think. I wonder why my mother did it that way.
3217
02:54:35,000 --> 02:54:39,000
So Linda went to her mother and said, Mom, you know, I remember when I was younger
3218
02:54:39,000 --> 02:54:42,000
and you used to cook these hams, you would buy the ham from the grocery store,
3219
02:54:42,000 --> 02:54:44,000
take it home, take it out of the package, chop one end off,
3220
02:54:44,000 --> 02:54:47,000
turn it around, chop the other end off, and put it in the pan.
3221
02:54:47,000 --> 02:54:49,000
Why did you do that?
3222
02:54:49,000 --> 02:54:53,000
She says, I don't know. That's the way my mom did it.
3223
02:54:53,000 --> 02:54:58,000
So she went to Grandma and says, Grandma, I was talking to my mom about this ham.
3224
02:54:58,000 --> 02:55:01,000
You know, I take a ham, I bring it home, I chop off one end,
3225
02:55:01,000 --> 02:55:03,000
turn it around, chop off the other end, put it in the oven, I cook it.
3226
02:55:03,000 --> 02:55:05,000
And my mom does the same thing.
3227
02:55:05,000 --> 02:55:08,000
Oh, Grandma, I understand that my mom learned that from you. Why?
3228
02:55:08,000 --> 02:55:10,000
And she says, well, that's easy, dear.
3229
02:55:10,000 --> 02:55:15,000
She said the pan wasn't big enough for my ham.
3230
02:55:15,000 --> 02:55:18,000
That's why she did it.
3231
02:55:18,000 --> 02:55:23,000
Now, isn't that true with the things that we do, right, over and over again,
3232
02:55:23,000 --> 02:55:26,000
thinking we're doing it the right way,
3233
02:55:26,000 --> 02:55:29,000
or thinking this is the way it should be done?
3234
02:55:29,000 --> 02:55:33,000
You know, this morning when Bob was talking about, what do you really want?
3235
02:55:33,000 --> 02:55:35,000
And you don't have to know how to get it.
3236
02:55:35,000 --> 02:55:38,000
I was thinking about Annick Lavois, who's a friend of mine who's here.
3237
02:55:38,000 --> 02:55:41,000
Annick, can you just stand up for a moment?
3238
02:55:41,000 --> 02:55:44,000
Annick Lavois is from Ottawa, Ontario as well.
3239
02:55:44,000 --> 02:55:48,000
I met her 26 years ago when she started babysitting my son, Michel,
3240
02:55:48,000 --> 02:55:50,000
when he was a baby, and her son was the same age.
3241
02:55:50,000 --> 02:55:53,000
And they've become best friends, and they've been best friends forever.
3242
02:55:53,000 --> 02:55:56,000
And Annick recently went through a number of changes in her life.
3243
02:55:56,000 --> 02:56:00,000
And she had previously owned her own business,
3244
02:56:00,000 --> 02:56:04,000
and the business sort of dissolved for a number of different reasons.
3245
02:56:04,000 --> 02:56:06,000
And she was in a marriage,
3246
02:56:06,000 --> 02:56:09,000
and the marriage dissolved for a number of different reasons.
3247
02:56:09,000 --> 02:56:11,000
So a lot of change in her life.
3248
02:56:11,000 --> 02:56:13,000
And she'd been thinking about, what do I really want?
3249
02:56:13,000 --> 02:56:15,000
And she ended up getting a job.
3250
02:56:15,000 --> 02:56:20,000
And she got a job that was okay, but not really what she wanted.
3251
02:56:20,000 --> 02:56:24,000
And something clicked in her about two weeks ago,
3252
02:56:24,000 --> 02:56:28,000
where she just decided, I don't want to do that job.
3253
02:56:28,000 --> 02:56:31,000
And she called the person that hired her and said,
3254
02:56:31,000 --> 02:56:35,000
I apologize, and thank you for thinking of me, but I'm not taking that job.
3255
02:56:35,000 --> 02:56:39,000
She quit the job before she even started.
3256
02:56:39,000 --> 02:56:41,000
And she didn't know what she was going to do.
3257
02:56:41,000 --> 02:56:43,000
She didn't know how she was going to make money.
3258
02:56:43,000 --> 02:56:46,000
She had no idea, but she had faith,
3259
02:56:46,000 --> 02:56:49,000
absolute complete faith that the perfect thing would come along.
3260
02:56:49,000 --> 02:56:51,000
Last weekend, Annick was at her home in Ottawa.
3261
02:56:51,000 --> 02:56:53,000
We're sitting around the pool having a chat.
3262
02:56:53,000 --> 02:56:55,000
So I said, what do you really want to do?
3263
02:56:55,000 --> 02:56:56,000
She's like, I don't know.
3264
02:56:56,000 --> 02:56:59,000
I really love working with people, and she loves being of service,
3265
02:56:59,000 --> 02:57:01,000
and that's really what she wants to do.
3266
02:57:01,000 --> 02:57:05,000
And it just dawned on me, I need somebody in my business.
3267
02:57:05,000 --> 02:57:07,000
I'd love to have a director of client services.
3268
02:57:07,000 --> 02:57:10,000
I said, would you be willing to work for me part-time?
3269
02:57:10,000 --> 02:57:12,000
And she's like, absolutely.
3270
02:57:12,000 --> 02:57:15,000
She said she'd been thinking about it, but didn't know how to bring it up.
3271
02:57:15,000 --> 02:57:17,000
Anyways, I said, well, how about full-time?
3272
02:57:17,000 --> 02:57:20,000
And she just come on to work with me full-time.
3273
02:57:20,000 --> 02:57:21,000
Full-time.
3274
02:57:21,000 --> 02:57:28,000
Thank you, Annick.
3275
02:57:28,000 --> 02:57:33,000
But why I wanted to share that story with Annick is she made a bold decision
3276
02:57:33,000 --> 02:57:38,000
to quit a job when she had no idea how she was going to make the money.
3277
02:57:38,000 --> 02:57:44,000
She had faith that the perfect thing, the perfect opportunity would come her way.
3278
02:57:44,000 --> 02:57:46,000
And it did.
3279
02:57:46,000 --> 02:57:47,000
And it works.
3280
02:57:47,000 --> 02:57:50,000
What I want to ask you now to do at your tables,
3281
02:57:50,000 --> 02:57:53,000
it's more important what you do with this information.
3282
02:57:53,000 --> 02:57:57,000
I want you to share at the table, what are you going to do with this information?
3283
02:57:57,000 --> 02:58:02,000
What kind of action steps will you take to move forward, to move your life forward
3284
02:58:02,000 --> 02:58:07,000
so you're the Academy Award-winning actor in your life, as Bob talked about,
3285
02:58:07,000 --> 02:58:10,000
rather than being an extra in your own movie?
3286
02:58:10,000 --> 02:58:14,000
So I'd like to take a few minutes, and let's not have one person dominate
3287
02:58:14,000 --> 02:58:18,000
the conversation, really go around the table and have everyone share.
3288
02:58:18,000 --> 02:58:21,000
What will you do with this information moving forward?
3289
02:58:21,000 --> 02:58:24,000
Let's take a few minutes and do that right now.
3290
02:58:44,000 --> 02:58:47,000
Thank you.
3291
02:59:14,000 --> 02:59:17,000
Thank you.
3292
02:59:44,000 --> 02:59:46,000
Thank you.
3293
03:00:14,000 --> 03:00:16,000
Thank you.
3294
03:00:44,000 --> 03:00:47,000
Thank you.
3295
03:01:14,000 --> 03:01:16,000
Thank you.
3296
03:01:44,000 --> 03:01:47,000
Thank you.
3297
03:02:14,000 --> 03:02:16,000
Thank you.
3298
03:02:44,000 --> 03:02:47,000
Thank you.
3299
03:03:14,000 --> 03:03:16,000
Thank you.
3300
03:03:44,000 --> 03:03:46,000
Thank you.
3301
03:04:14,000 --> 03:04:16,000
Thank you.
3302
03:04:44,000 --> 03:04:46,000
Thank you.
3303
03:05:14,000 --> 03:05:16,000
Thank you.
3304
03:05:44,000 --> 03:05:46,000
Thank you.
3305
03:06:14,000 --> 03:06:16,000
Thank you.
3306
03:06:45,000 --> 03:06:48,000
All right, all right.
3307
03:06:48,000 --> 03:06:51,000
All right, can I have your attention, please?
3308
03:06:53,000 --> 03:06:55,000
Excellent.
3309
03:06:55,000 --> 03:06:57,000
Lots of support going on, lots of clapping.
3310
03:06:57,000 --> 03:07:00,000
Okay, we're just going to have a couple of people share
3311
03:07:00,000 --> 03:07:03,000
what they're going to do with this information before we go to lunch,
3312
03:07:03,000 --> 03:07:09,000
and I have a volunteer, Mr. Pascuzzi, is going to start us off.
3313
03:07:10,000 --> 03:07:15,000
Thank you, Peggy, for picking on me.
3314
03:07:15,000 --> 03:07:17,000
I'm going to help.
3315
03:07:17,000 --> 03:07:19,000
I'm going to start working more with my wife, Kelly,
3316
03:07:19,000 --> 03:07:22,000
on teaching this information because I'm very passionate about it,
3317
03:07:22,000 --> 03:07:25,000
and it's phenomenal stuff, so that's what we're going to do.
3318
03:07:25,000 --> 03:07:27,000
All right, Bob.
3319
03:07:27,000 --> 03:07:29,000
That's great.
3320
03:07:33,000 --> 03:07:35,000
Peggy, how are you doing?
3321
03:07:35,000 --> 03:07:37,000
My name is Guillermo.
3322
03:07:37,000 --> 03:07:42,000
So today I really made a decision to create applications
3323
03:07:42,000 --> 03:07:44,000
that share this information,
3324
03:07:44,000 --> 03:07:49,000
and I would love to share that and pitch that to Bob today.
3325
03:07:49,000 --> 03:07:51,000
Yeah.
3326
03:07:51,000 --> 03:07:53,000
We want...
3327
03:07:53,000 --> 03:07:55,000
Yes, yes.
3328
03:07:55,000 --> 03:08:00,000
So basically, Android, iOS, wearables, you name it,
3329
03:08:00,000 --> 03:08:02,000
I really want to pitch this,
3330
03:08:02,000 --> 03:08:04,000
and I'm very passionate about getting this out to Bob,
3331
03:08:04,000 --> 03:08:06,000
and, well, hopefully he's looking at me.
3332
03:08:06,000 --> 03:08:08,000
There you go.
3333
03:08:08,000 --> 03:08:10,000
Wonderful.
3334
03:08:10,000 --> 03:08:12,000
Thank you.
3335
03:08:16,000 --> 03:08:19,000
What I learned today is what I really want,
3336
03:08:19,000 --> 03:08:23,000
and I've never allowed myself to go deeper,
3337
03:08:23,000 --> 03:08:27,000
and tonight I'm going to go very deep,
3338
03:08:27,000 --> 03:08:31,000
and I'm not going to stop until it gets deeper,
3339
03:08:31,000 --> 03:08:33,000
and then tomorrow, the same thing.
3340
03:08:33,000 --> 03:08:36,000
We can learn every day and make it happen.
3341
03:08:36,000 --> 03:08:39,000
When you are clear,
3342
03:08:39,000 --> 03:08:42,000
the life that you want is right around the corner.
3343
03:08:42,000 --> 03:08:44,000
It's already...
3344
03:08:44,000 --> 03:08:46,000
Thank you, Peggy.
3345
03:08:46,000 --> 03:08:49,000
What you need to know, everything is already here for you.
3346
03:08:49,000 --> 03:08:54,000
So go make a nice commitment to really what you want,
3347
03:08:54,000 --> 03:08:57,000
get clear, and it's already here.
3348
03:08:57,000 --> 03:08:59,000
How much love for that is there.
3349
03:08:59,000 --> 03:09:01,000
Thank you for what you do,
3350
03:09:01,000 --> 03:09:04,000
and I didn't get a chance to share that Bob and you,
3351
03:09:04,000 --> 03:09:06,000
together on the stage,
3352
03:09:06,000 --> 03:09:10,000
you are the best two I've ever heard before in my life,
3353
03:09:10,000 --> 03:09:12,000
and I've heard a lot.
3354
03:09:16,000 --> 03:09:18,000
Thank you.
3355
03:09:18,000 --> 03:09:20,000
I paid him 20 bucks to say that.
3356
03:09:22,000 --> 03:09:24,000
So what I'm going to start applying to my life
3357
03:09:24,000 --> 03:09:30,000
is definitely speak how Bob spoke to the lady over there,
3358
03:09:30,000 --> 03:09:32,000
how he spoke directly,
3359
03:09:32,000 --> 03:09:34,000
that you can get things done.
3360
03:09:34,000 --> 03:09:36,000
I believe in you and you can do it.
3361
03:09:36,000 --> 03:09:38,000
So I'm going to start implementing that
3362
03:09:38,000 --> 03:09:40,000
and start making that decision right now
3363
03:09:40,000 --> 03:09:42,000
and apply it in the long run.
3364
03:09:44,000 --> 03:09:46,000
I love that.
3365
03:09:46,000 --> 03:09:48,000
All right, we're going to have one more.
3366
03:09:50,000 --> 03:09:53,000
So the first thing I'm going to do when I get home
3367
03:09:53,000 --> 03:09:56,000
is all those automatic things that don't serve me,
3368
03:09:56,000 --> 03:09:58,000
they got to go, Peggy.
3369
03:09:58,000 --> 03:10:00,000
Stay out of here, Peggy.
3370
03:10:00,000 --> 03:10:02,000
And I love your energy, by the way.
3371
03:10:02,000 --> 03:10:04,000
Bless you.
3372
03:10:04,000 --> 03:10:06,000
Thank you. That's awesome.
3373
03:10:08,000 --> 03:10:10,000
No more.
3374
03:10:10,000 --> 03:10:12,000
Is anyone else feeling that on my way to the stage?
3375
03:10:12,000 --> 03:10:14,000
I'm going to stop and hear from you.
3376
03:10:18,000 --> 03:10:20,000
Listen, I just want to say, my name is Jewel.
3377
03:10:20,000 --> 03:10:22,000
I'm from New York City.
3378
03:10:22,000 --> 03:10:24,000
You're doing an amazing job.
3379
03:10:24,000 --> 03:10:26,000
Love it, love it.
3380
03:10:26,000 --> 03:10:28,000
I just want to respectfully say
3381
03:10:28,000 --> 03:10:30,000
thank you, Mr. David Imonite.
3382
03:10:30,000 --> 03:10:32,000
You are the man.
3383
03:10:32,000 --> 03:10:34,000
My mentor.
3384
03:10:34,000 --> 03:10:36,000
Thank you, Rudy Bolsty.
3385
03:10:36,000 --> 03:10:38,000
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to be here.
3386
03:10:38,000 --> 03:10:40,000
I'm so super excited.
3387
03:10:40,000 --> 03:10:42,000
I'm like, so wide awake right now.
3388
03:10:42,000 --> 03:10:44,000
Like, yes, let's go.
3389
03:10:44,000 --> 03:10:46,000
I mean, overall, from what we got from the table
3390
03:10:46,000 --> 03:10:48,000
is learning to have people serve us,
3391
03:10:48,000 --> 03:10:50,000
learning to have acts for help,
3392
03:10:50,000 --> 03:10:52,000
stretching myself from my goals
3393
03:10:52,000 --> 03:10:54,000
and just going for it.
3394
03:10:54,000 --> 03:10:56,000
I'm going to stop my limitations
3395
03:10:56,000 --> 03:10:58,000
and stop enslaving myself
3396
03:10:58,000 --> 03:11:00,000
so my children aren't enslaved
3397
03:11:00,000 --> 03:11:02,000
to whatever bad habits I have.
3398
03:11:02,000 --> 03:11:04,000
So, yes, thank you, everybody.
3399
03:11:04,000 --> 03:11:06,000
Thank you, Peggy.
3400
03:11:06,000 --> 03:11:08,000
Thank you so much.
3401
03:11:08,000 --> 03:11:10,000
Beautifully said. I love that.
3402
03:11:10,000 --> 03:11:12,000
All right.
3403
03:11:12,000 --> 03:11:14,000
Okay, and we're only like partially through the weekend.
3404
03:11:14,000 --> 03:11:16,000
Isn't it been an incredible morning?
3405
03:11:16,000 --> 03:11:18,000
Absolutely.
3406
03:11:18,000 --> 03:11:20,000
Already feeling life-changing?
3407
03:11:20,000 --> 03:11:22,000
Definitely.
3408
03:11:22,000 --> 03:11:24,000
Let's hear it from the fabulous Gina Hayden.
3409
03:11:30,000 --> 03:11:32,000
Okay, all y'all.
3410
03:11:34,000 --> 03:11:36,000
Can you put your stuff on your chairs?
3411
03:11:36,000 --> 03:11:38,000
Now, VIP are going to go out
3412
03:11:38,000 --> 03:11:40,000
that first exit door
3413
03:11:40,000 --> 03:11:42,000
right across the hall
3414
03:11:42,000 --> 03:11:44,000
into the Redondo.
3415
03:11:44,000 --> 03:11:46,000
There are three ballrooms.
3416
03:11:46,000 --> 03:11:48,000
Not the first one, but the second three.
3417
03:11:48,000 --> 03:11:50,000
And we have lunch planned for you.
3418
03:11:50,000 --> 03:11:52,000
For you who are on your own for lunch,
3419
03:11:52,000 --> 03:11:54,000
the restaurant has prepared
3420
03:11:54,000 --> 03:11:56,000
a buffet at a discounted price.
3421
03:11:56,000 --> 03:11:58,000
It's got some great stuff on there,
3422
03:11:58,000 --> 03:12:00,000
so I'd encourage you to go in there.
3423
03:12:00,000 --> 03:12:02,000
Put your stuff on your seats.
3424
03:12:02,000 --> 03:12:04,000
We'll clean it up.
3425
03:12:04,000 --> 03:12:06,000
We're going to come back at 2 p.m.
3426
03:12:06,000 --> 03:12:08,000
Have a good lunch.
3427
03:12:08,000 --> 03:12:10,000
All right, everyone.
3428
03:12:10,000 --> 03:12:12,000
Welcome back to Coach's Corner.
3429
03:12:12,000 --> 03:12:14,000
And this time I have Bill Banta joining me.
3430
03:12:14,000 --> 03:12:16,000
Hi, Bill. How are you?
3431
03:12:16,000 --> 03:12:18,000
Hello, Mikey. How are you? Thank you. I'm well.
3432
03:12:18,000 --> 03:12:20,000
If you work with Bill, go ahead and comment
3433
03:12:20,000 --> 03:12:22,000
on the chat and let us know.
3434
03:12:22,000 --> 03:12:24,000
Bill is an amazing coach.
3435
03:12:24,000 --> 03:12:26,000
He's one of Bob's personally trained coaches.
3436
03:12:26,000 --> 03:12:28,000
And he's been a student. I always bring this up
3437
03:12:28,000 --> 03:12:30,000
because I just think it's so interesting.
3438
03:12:30,000 --> 03:12:32,000
You were born rich. How many years ago?
3439
03:12:32,000 --> 03:12:34,000
In 95 or 96.
3440
03:12:34,000 --> 03:12:36,000
So, old.
3441
03:12:36,000 --> 03:12:38,000
Yeah, old.
3442
03:12:38,000 --> 03:12:40,000
All right, so this morning,
3443
03:12:40,000 --> 03:12:42,000
what's been your biggest takeaway so far?
3444
03:12:42,000 --> 03:12:44,000
Well, I think that Bob's focus on
3445
03:12:44,000 --> 03:12:46,000
the decision-making
3446
03:12:46,000 --> 03:12:48,000
comes from a want.
3447
03:12:48,000 --> 03:12:50,000
And I really noticed in my own life
3448
03:12:50,000 --> 03:12:52,000
that everything that's ever happened
3449
03:12:52,000 --> 03:12:54,000
that's been amazing is because I've been
3450
03:12:54,000 --> 03:12:56,000
emotionally involved in a want.
3451
03:12:56,000 --> 03:12:58,000
Like, literally become
3452
03:12:58,000 --> 03:13:00,000
consumed with. Or Bob talks about
3453
03:13:00,000 --> 03:13:02,000
obsessing with what you want.
3454
03:13:02,000 --> 03:13:04,000
But I've noticed that people that really succeed
3455
03:13:04,000 --> 03:13:06,000
and I'm talking about people that I've watched
3456
03:13:06,000 --> 03:13:08,000
outside of
3457
03:13:08,000 --> 03:13:10,000
our work here at PGI,
3458
03:13:10,000 --> 03:13:12,000
people that truly succeed have a reason
3459
03:13:12,000 --> 03:13:14,000
why they're driven
3460
03:13:14,000 --> 03:13:16,000
by a purpose. They want something.
3461
03:13:16,000 --> 03:13:18,000
And it's not just by luck that they
3462
03:13:18,000 --> 03:13:20,000
succeed. And successful people
3463
03:13:20,000 --> 03:13:22,000
that I've also noticed, and I don't know if it's just even being
3464
03:13:22,000 --> 03:13:24,000
a mom or a successful
3465
03:13:24,000 --> 03:13:26,000
entrepreneur or really whatever it is
3466
03:13:26,000 --> 03:13:28,000
that they're striving to achieve,
3467
03:13:28,000 --> 03:13:30,000
always are focused
3468
03:13:30,000 --> 03:13:32,000
on a why. Their why is always bigger
3469
03:13:32,000 --> 03:13:34,000
than their why not. So, one of the things I
3470
03:13:34,000 --> 03:13:36,000
picked up from Bob today is he said that successful
3471
03:13:36,000 --> 03:13:38,000
people make decisions quick because
3472
03:13:38,000 --> 03:13:40,000
they know what they want.
3473
03:13:40,000 --> 03:13:42,000
Phil, we were just talking about how
3474
03:13:42,000 --> 03:13:44,000
some people don't know what they want.
3475
03:13:44,000 --> 03:13:46,000
And so I want to talk about that and I have a thought on it
3476
03:13:46,000 --> 03:13:48,000
that people are just drifting through
3477
03:13:48,000 --> 03:13:50,000
life and they're not taking the time to consciously
3478
03:13:50,000 --> 03:13:52,000
stop what they're doing, pause
3479
03:13:52,000 --> 03:13:54,000
and figure out what they want. They're just like
3480
03:13:54,000 --> 03:13:56,000
too busy
3481
03:13:56,000 --> 03:13:58,000
to get going in the right direction.
3482
03:13:58,000 --> 03:14:00,000
So what do you have to say about that? Well, I think that
3483
03:14:00,000 --> 03:14:02,000
I mean, the whole thing of this
3484
03:14:02,000 --> 03:14:04,000
weekend is on paradigms and
3485
03:14:04,000 --> 03:14:06,000
the control of our habits that
3486
03:14:06,000 --> 03:14:08,000
have on us. And it's easy to just
3487
03:14:08,000 --> 03:14:10,000
wake up and get locked into a groove
3488
03:14:10,000 --> 03:14:12,000
where everything is just ritualized
3489
03:14:12,000 --> 03:14:14,000
every single day.
3490
03:14:14,000 --> 03:14:16,000
I think you have to start out, for some people
3491
03:14:16,000 --> 03:14:18,000
you have to start out small. But you have to pick
3492
03:14:18,000 --> 03:14:20,000
something that you can become emotionally involved
3493
03:14:20,000 --> 03:14:22,000
with. It really does come back to that.
3494
03:14:22,000 --> 03:14:24,000
And it's really, desire
3495
03:14:24,000 --> 03:14:26,000
has to come from knowing
3496
03:14:26,000 --> 03:14:28,000
what you want. Well,
3497
03:14:28,000 --> 03:14:30,000
for myself, the biggest challenge was
3498
03:14:30,000 --> 03:14:32,000
deciding what I want because I thought maybe it was a house,
3499
03:14:32,000 --> 03:14:34,000
maybe it was a car. But it really
3500
03:14:34,000 --> 03:14:36,000
wasn't until Bob told me, he said, look,
3501
03:14:36,000 --> 03:14:38,000
decide what your purpose is.
3502
03:14:38,000 --> 03:14:40,000
Decide what you really want to accomplish in your life.
3503
03:14:40,000 --> 03:14:42,000
Then take a bite out of
3504
03:14:42,000 --> 03:14:44,000
purpose and you'll know what your goal is.
3505
03:14:44,000 --> 03:14:46,000
And it just made it much more simple because
3506
03:14:46,000 --> 03:14:48,000
we have to live by purpose. We have
3507
03:14:48,000 --> 03:14:50,000
to have a reason to live. But obviously
3508
03:14:50,000 --> 03:14:52,000
a goal is something
3509
03:14:52,000 --> 03:14:54,000
that comes from our purpose. I love that.
3510
03:14:54,000 --> 03:14:56,000
Now I'm the type of person where
3511
03:14:56,000 --> 03:14:58,000
I set a big goal and it feels like
3512
03:14:58,000 --> 03:15:00,000
you're standing at the bottom of a mountain. You've got all
3513
03:15:00,000 --> 03:15:02,000
this way to go, right? Yep. And it can be
3514
03:15:02,000 --> 03:15:04,000
on days where you're not super motivated.
3515
03:15:04,000 --> 03:15:06,000
It can just like crush you.
3516
03:15:06,000 --> 03:15:08,000
So what is your advice
3517
03:15:08,000 --> 03:15:10,000
on gaining momentum, like getting those
3518
03:15:10,000 --> 03:15:12,000
small wins to build your momentum
3519
03:15:12,000 --> 03:15:14,000
to keep you going? Consistency
3520
03:15:14,000 --> 03:15:16,000
is the key. Going
3521
03:15:16,000 --> 03:15:18,000
back to the paradigm,
3522
03:15:18,000 --> 03:15:20,000
as Bob was talking this morning about how
3523
03:15:20,000 --> 03:15:22,000
he was riding with his left hand in 47
3524
03:15:22,000 --> 03:15:24,000
days, how almost every day
3525
03:15:24,000 --> 03:15:26,000
since, what do you say, 20 days
3526
03:15:26,000 --> 03:15:28,000
ago, the con artist or
3527
03:15:28,000 --> 03:15:30,000
the paradigm is trying to talk him not
3528
03:15:30,000 --> 03:15:32,000
into doing it. And I think that
3529
03:15:32,000 --> 03:15:34,000
if you're standing at the mountain as we're looking
3530
03:15:34,000 --> 03:15:36,000
up to the top, it's the consistency
3531
03:15:36,000 --> 03:15:38,000
because it's the small things
3532
03:15:38,000 --> 03:15:40,000
compounded over time that equal
3533
03:15:40,000 --> 03:15:42,000
great things. And that mountain
3534
03:15:42,000 --> 03:15:44,000
is not nearly as big as we make it
3535
03:15:44,000 --> 03:15:46,000
out into our mind. And it's just
3536
03:15:46,000 --> 03:15:48,000
more simple if we just do the small things
3537
03:15:48,000 --> 03:15:50,000
every day. It's something that I've
3538
03:15:50,000 --> 03:15:52,000
been taught, I know that you as a person have been
3539
03:15:52,000 --> 03:15:54,000
taught, that if it's a
3540
03:15:54,000 --> 03:15:56,000
small goal and it's a little hill,
3541
03:15:56,000 --> 03:15:58,000
you're not going to be motivated to get it anyway. So it's
3542
03:15:58,000 --> 03:16:00,000
a good thing to have big goals. I love that.
3543
03:16:00,000 --> 03:16:02,000
Alright, we're going to play a quick video, but first
3544
03:16:02,000 --> 03:16:04,000
do you have any last thoughts? No, I think that
3545
03:16:04,000 --> 03:16:06,000
for anybody sitting in the audience, please
3546
03:16:06,000 --> 03:16:08,000
be attached to your goal.
3547
03:16:08,000 --> 03:16:10,000
Be emotionally involved with what you want.
3548
03:16:10,000 --> 03:16:12,000
This whole weekend, pick one or two things
3549
03:16:12,000 --> 03:16:14,000
that are really good
3550
03:16:14,000 --> 03:16:16,000
that comes from Bob and just implement them
3551
03:16:16,000 --> 03:16:18,000
this next week. And really watch
3552
03:16:18,000 --> 03:16:20,000
the results over the next two or three weeks
3553
03:16:20,000 --> 03:16:22,000
by implementing one or two things. I love it.
3554
03:16:22,000 --> 03:16:24,000
Thanks, Bill. You're welcome. We're going to play a quick video
3555
03:16:24,000 --> 03:16:26,000
for you on the law of vibration,
3556
03:16:26,000 --> 03:16:28,000
I believe, and we'll be back here at 2 o'clock
3557
03:16:28,000 --> 03:16:30,000
Pacific time.
3558
03:16:31,000 --> 03:16:33,000
In the movie, The Secret,
3559
03:16:33,000 --> 03:16:35,000
I quoted Dr. Warner Von Braun,
3560
03:16:35,000 --> 03:16:37,000
who's considered by many as the
3561
03:16:37,000 --> 03:16:39,000
father of the space program.
3562
03:16:39,000 --> 03:16:41,000
He said, the natural
3563
03:16:41,000 --> 03:16:43,000
laws of this universe are
3564
03:16:43,000 --> 03:16:45,000
so precise
3565
03:16:45,000 --> 03:16:47,000
that we don't have any difficulty
3566
03:16:47,000 --> 03:16:49,000
building a spaceship,
3567
03:16:49,000 --> 03:16:51,000
sending people to the moon,
3568
03:16:51,000 --> 03:16:53,000
and we can time the landing with the
3569
03:16:53,000 --> 03:16:55,000
precision of a fraction of a second.
3570
03:16:57,000 --> 03:16:59,000
He also said these laws must have been set
3571
03:16:59,000 --> 03:17:01,000
by someone.
3572
03:17:01,000 --> 03:17:03,000
I do know it's strange.
3573
03:17:03,000 --> 03:17:05,000
It's not that long ago when
3574
03:17:05,000 --> 03:17:07,000
science and religion were really
3575
03:17:07,000 --> 03:17:09,000
considered antagonistic.
3576
03:17:09,000 --> 03:17:11,000
That's not so today.
3577
03:17:13,000 --> 03:17:15,000
It's looked at it now, one studying the cause
3578
03:17:15,000 --> 03:17:17,000
and the other studying the effect.
3579
03:17:17,000 --> 03:17:19,000
And Von Braun said,
3580
03:17:19,000 --> 03:17:21,000
after studying the spectacular
3581
03:17:21,000 --> 03:17:23,000
mysteries of the cosmos,
3582
03:17:23,000 --> 03:17:25,000
for many years,
3583
03:17:25,000 --> 03:17:27,000
he had arrived
3584
03:17:27,000 --> 03:17:29,000
at the firm conviction
3585
03:17:29,000 --> 03:17:31,000
that there is a God.
3586
03:17:33,000 --> 03:17:35,000
I see the laws as
3587
03:17:35,000 --> 03:17:37,000
God's modus operandi. It's how everything
3588
03:17:37,000 --> 03:17:39,000
happens.
3589
03:17:39,000 --> 03:17:41,000
The Secret was based on the
3590
03:17:41,000 --> 03:17:43,000
concept of the law of attraction.
3591
03:17:43,000 --> 03:17:45,000
And because the movie went viral,
3592
03:17:45,000 --> 03:17:47,000
it was all over the world, everyone
3593
03:17:47,000 --> 03:17:49,000
everywhere was talking about the law of attraction.
3594
03:17:49,000 --> 03:17:51,000
People writing books on it
3595
03:17:51,000 --> 03:17:53,000
that don't really understand it,
3596
03:17:53,000 --> 03:17:55,000
people speaking on it, that
3597
03:17:55,000 --> 03:17:57,000
many of them advertise their
3598
03:17:57,000 --> 03:17:59,000
ignorance when they talk about it,
3599
03:17:59,000 --> 03:18:01,000
I'm of the conclusion that
3600
03:18:01,000 --> 03:18:03,000
attraction is not really
3601
03:18:03,000 --> 03:18:05,000
understood in any depth
3602
03:18:05,000 --> 03:18:07,000
by most people. Now I've studied
3603
03:18:07,000 --> 03:18:09,000
this every day for fifty-some years.
3604
03:18:09,000 --> 03:18:11,000
And I can
3605
03:18:11,000 --> 03:18:13,000
assure you, attraction is a law,
3606
03:18:13,000 --> 03:18:15,000
but it's a secondary law.
3607
03:18:15,000 --> 03:18:17,000
The primary law is the law of vibration.
3608
03:18:17,000 --> 03:18:19,000
The law of vibration
3609
03:18:19,000 --> 03:18:21,000
is one of the basic laws of the universe.
3610
03:18:21,000 --> 03:18:23,000
It decrees that everything moves, nothing
3611
03:18:23,000 --> 03:18:25,000
rests. We literally live
3612
03:18:25,000 --> 03:18:27,000
in an ocean of motion.
3613
03:18:27,000 --> 03:18:29,000
Do you know that
3614
03:18:29,000 --> 03:18:31,000
everything is an expression of the same thing?
3615
03:18:31,000 --> 03:18:33,000
The leaves, the tree,
3616
03:18:35,000 --> 03:18:37,000
the cement,
3617
03:18:37,000 --> 03:18:39,000
the body,
3618
03:18:39,000 --> 03:18:41,000
the clothes,
3619
03:18:41,000 --> 03:18:43,000
it's all energy.
3620
03:18:43,000 --> 03:18:45,000
At a different rate
3621
03:18:45,000 --> 03:18:47,000
of vibration.
3622
03:18:47,000 --> 03:18:49,000
You see, your
3623
03:18:49,000 --> 03:18:51,000
body is a molecular
3624
03:18:51,000 --> 03:18:53,000
structure, in a very high
3625
03:18:53,000 --> 03:18:55,000
speed of vibration. Your brain
3626
03:18:55,000 --> 03:18:57,000
is an electronic switching station.
3627
03:18:57,000 --> 03:18:59,000
Your brain
3628
03:18:59,000 --> 03:19:01,000
does not think, but you think with
3629
03:19:01,000 --> 03:19:03,000
your brain. There's a difference.
3630
03:19:03,000 --> 03:19:05,000
As you activate brain cells
3631
03:19:05,000 --> 03:19:07,000
you set up a vibration in your body.
3632
03:19:07,000 --> 03:19:09,000
For me to just move my
3633
03:19:09,000 --> 03:19:11,000
hand like that, I had to activate
3634
03:19:11,000 --> 03:19:13,000
brain cells or my hand wouldn't have done it.
3635
03:19:13,000 --> 03:19:15,000
If a person's
3636
03:19:15,000 --> 03:19:17,000
had a stroke,
3637
03:19:17,000 --> 03:19:19,000
where the blood just stops going to
3638
03:19:19,000 --> 03:19:21,000
a section of the brain, those brain
3639
03:19:21,000 --> 03:19:23,000
cells become dead. The movement in the body
3640
03:19:23,000 --> 03:19:25,000
in that part of the body that is
3641
03:19:25,000 --> 03:19:27,000
controlled by those cells
3642
03:19:27,000 --> 03:19:29,000
stops.
3643
03:19:31,000 --> 03:19:33,000
Vibration is something that
3644
03:19:33,000 --> 03:19:35,000
must be understood
3645
03:19:35,000 --> 03:19:37,000
if you're going to take control
3646
03:19:37,000 --> 03:19:39,000
of your health. It
3647
03:19:39,000 --> 03:19:41,000
must be understood if you're going to take control of your
3648
03:19:41,000 --> 03:19:43,000
relationships. It must be understood
3649
03:19:43,000 --> 03:19:45,000
if you want to become wealthy.
3650
03:19:45,000 --> 03:19:47,000
And if you want to
3651
03:19:47,000 --> 03:19:49,000
really master the art of selling,
3652
03:19:49,000 --> 03:19:51,000
vibration is an essential.
3653
03:19:51,000 --> 03:19:53,000
You've got to understand it.
3654
03:19:53,000 --> 03:19:55,000
And yet almost all
3655
03:19:55,000 --> 03:19:57,000
the sales training programs that are done
3656
03:19:57,000 --> 03:19:59,000
worldwide have nothing
3657
03:19:59,000 --> 03:20:01,000
about the law of vibration in them.
3658
03:20:03,000 --> 03:20:05,000
As Robert Louis Stevenson said, everybody's
3659
03:20:05,000 --> 03:20:07,000
selling. You're selling an idea, product
3660
03:20:07,000 --> 03:20:09,000
or a service. And it's true.
3661
03:20:09,000 --> 03:20:11,000
The teacher's selling the student.
3662
03:20:11,000 --> 03:20:13,000
The parent's selling
3663
03:20:13,000 --> 03:20:15,000
the child. The child's selling the parent.
3664
03:20:17,000 --> 03:20:19,000
But what do we mean selling?
3665
03:20:19,000 --> 03:20:21,000
Well, the professional salesperson
3666
03:20:21,000 --> 03:20:23,000
understands that selling
3667
03:20:23,000 --> 03:20:25,000
is doing something for
3668
03:20:25,000 --> 03:20:27,000
someone, not to someone.
3669
03:20:27,000 --> 03:20:29,000
And the professional
3670
03:20:29,000 --> 03:20:31,000
will sit down and they will get to know
3671
03:20:31,000 --> 03:20:33,000
the prospect. They will find
3672
03:20:33,000 --> 03:20:35,000
as much about the prospect as they can.
3673
03:20:35,000 --> 03:20:37,000
They'll have permission to ask the prospect questions.
3674
03:20:37,000 --> 03:20:39,000
They'll gather a lot of information.
3675
03:20:39,000 --> 03:20:41,000
And they find out where the prospect wants to
3676
03:20:41,000 --> 03:20:43,000
go, what they want to accomplish.
3677
03:20:43,000 --> 03:20:45,000
They mentally get on the prospect's
3678
03:20:45,000 --> 03:20:47,000
frequency
3679
03:20:47,000 --> 03:20:49,000
and help the prospect go to where
3680
03:20:49,000 --> 03:20:51,000
they want to go.
3681
03:20:51,000 --> 03:20:53,000
My old mentor called that
3682
03:20:53,000 --> 03:20:55,000
empathy-eco-balance.
3683
03:20:55,000 --> 03:20:57,000
Where you're able to get into the other person's
3684
03:20:57,000 --> 03:20:59,000
mind and see the world from where they
3685
03:20:59,000 --> 03:21:01,000
see it. Get on their frequency.
3686
03:21:01,000 --> 03:21:03,000
Get in their vibration.
3687
03:21:03,000 --> 03:21:05,000
The vibration you're in is going to dictate what you
3688
03:21:05,000 --> 03:21:07,000
attract into your life. And if you're
3689
03:21:07,000 --> 03:21:09,000
troubled, you're worried,
3690
03:21:09,000 --> 03:21:11,000
you're going to attract a lot of bad energy.
3691
03:21:11,000 --> 03:21:13,000
That's why
3692
03:21:13,000 --> 03:21:15,000
the great sufferer in the Bible
3693
03:21:15,000 --> 03:21:17,000
said, lo, the thing I fear has come
3694
03:21:17,000 --> 03:21:19,000
to visit upon me.
3695
03:21:19,000 --> 03:21:21,000
Well, fear is a very negative vibration.
3696
03:21:21,000 --> 03:21:23,000
It's a very negative emotion.
3697
03:21:23,000 --> 03:21:25,000
It's caused by doubt and worry.
3698
03:21:25,000 --> 03:21:27,000
And doubt and worry is really caused
3699
03:21:27,000 --> 03:21:29,000
by ignorance.
3700
03:21:29,000 --> 03:21:31,000
That's why Solomon said, in all you're getting,
3701
03:21:31,000 --> 03:21:33,000
get understanding. What do we want to understand?
3702
03:21:33,000 --> 03:21:35,000
I think we want to understand the laws
3703
03:21:35,000 --> 03:21:37,000
that govern our being.
3704
03:21:37,000 --> 03:21:39,000
The laws that govern our universe.
3705
03:21:39,000 --> 03:21:41,000
And then we want to understand how to get in harmony
3706
03:21:41,000 --> 03:21:43,000
with the law. Everything you want
3707
03:21:43,000 --> 03:21:45,000
will come to you when you get in harmony
3708
03:21:45,000 --> 03:21:47,000
with it.
3709
03:21:47,000 --> 03:21:49,000
Vibration
3710
03:21:49,000 --> 03:21:51,000
is essential to understand.
3711
03:21:51,000 --> 03:21:53,000
But only one person,
3712
03:21:53,000 --> 03:21:55,000
maybe ten,
3713
03:21:55,000 --> 03:21:57,000
has any grasp of it at all.
3714
03:21:57,000 --> 03:21:59,000
If you ask
3715
03:21:59,000 --> 03:22:01,000
a person how they feel,
3716
03:22:01,000 --> 03:22:03,000
what they're really telling you
3717
03:22:03,000 --> 03:22:05,000
is their conscious awareness of the vibration
3718
03:22:05,000 --> 03:22:07,000
they're in. If a person says, I just don't
3719
03:22:07,000 --> 03:22:09,000
feel very well,
3720
03:22:09,000 --> 03:22:11,000
that person's probably
3721
03:22:11,000 --> 03:22:13,000
in a very negative vibration.
3722
03:22:13,000 --> 03:22:15,000
The person says, I feel wonderful.
3723
03:22:15,000 --> 03:22:17,000
They're in a very good vibration.
3724
03:22:17,000 --> 03:22:19,000
If you're in a really
3725
03:22:19,000 --> 03:22:21,000
good vibration,
3726
03:22:21,000 --> 03:22:23,000
and you're with a person that's very negative,
3727
03:22:23,000 --> 03:22:25,000
you will not feel comfortable
3728
03:22:25,000 --> 03:22:27,000
in their presence. Feeling,
3729
03:22:27,000 --> 03:22:29,000
conscious, we're in a vibration. You don't
3730
03:22:29,000 --> 03:22:31,000
feel comfortable in their
3731
03:22:31,000 --> 03:22:33,000
energy, and you want to get away from them.
3732
03:22:33,000 --> 03:22:35,000
Now, if you were negative
3733
03:22:35,000 --> 03:22:37,000
and they were negative, you're going to come together.
3734
03:22:37,000 --> 03:22:39,000
Misery loves company.
3735
03:22:39,000 --> 03:22:41,000
See, these old sayings are all based on
3736
03:22:41,000 --> 03:22:43,000
laws.
3737
03:22:43,000 --> 03:22:45,000
It's hard to
3738
03:22:45,000 --> 03:22:47,000
believe that two miserable people would be
3739
03:22:47,000 --> 03:22:49,000
comfortable together. But if you understand
3740
03:22:49,000 --> 03:22:51,000
they're both on the same frequency.
3741
03:22:51,000 --> 03:22:53,000
They're both listening to the same music.
3742
03:22:55,000 --> 03:22:57,000
You'll often hear a person
3743
03:22:57,000 --> 03:22:59,000
that went for a walk in the woods,
3744
03:22:59,000 --> 03:23:01,000
and they said it was so pleasant.
3745
03:23:01,000 --> 03:23:03,000
Why? The vibration of
3746
03:23:03,000 --> 03:23:05,000
nature is perfect.
3747
03:23:07,000 --> 03:23:09,000
That's why a walk in the woods
3748
03:23:09,000 --> 03:23:11,000
leaves you feeling
3749
03:23:11,000 --> 03:23:13,000
so good.
3750
03:23:17,000 --> 03:23:19,000
What do you
3751
03:23:19,000 --> 03:23:21,000
understand about the law of vibration?
3752
03:23:21,000 --> 03:23:23,000
That's a good question
3753
03:23:23,000 --> 03:23:25,000
to ask yourself.
3754
03:23:25,000 --> 03:23:27,000
I'm going to give you a small exercise.
3755
03:23:29,000 --> 03:23:31,000
The next time you're around a person
3756
03:23:31,000 --> 03:23:33,000
that's complaining about anything,
3757
03:23:33,000 --> 03:23:35,000
where obviously
3758
03:23:35,000 --> 03:23:37,000
it doesn't feel very well,
3759
03:23:39,000 --> 03:23:41,000
start changing
3760
03:23:41,000 --> 03:23:43,000
the subject.
3761
03:23:43,000 --> 03:23:45,000
Start talking to them about
3762
03:23:45,000 --> 03:23:47,000
them, about something good about
3763
03:23:47,000 --> 03:23:49,000
them. Compliment
3764
03:23:49,000 --> 03:23:51,000
them, but make it a sincere
3765
03:23:51,000 --> 03:23:53,000
merited compliment, not
3766
03:23:53,000 --> 03:23:55,000
false praise.
3767
03:23:55,000 --> 03:23:57,000
No flattery.
3768
03:23:57,000 --> 03:23:59,000
Pick out something good that they do
3769
03:23:59,000 --> 03:24:01,000
and slowly
3770
03:24:01,000 --> 03:24:03,000
turn the subject around to that.
3771
03:24:03,000 --> 03:24:05,000
Let them know how much you admire
3772
03:24:05,000 --> 03:24:07,000
how well they do it.
3773
03:24:07,000 --> 03:24:09,000
And you know something?
3774
03:24:09,000 --> 03:24:11,000
Like that, their energy
3775
03:24:11,000 --> 03:24:13,000
will change. You have caused
3776
03:24:13,000 --> 03:24:15,000
them to change their vibration.
3777
03:24:15,000 --> 03:24:17,000
Now the beautiful
3778
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truth about this, when you
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do it, you'll learn how to do it
3780
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to yourself when you're not feeling
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very good.
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That's the beautiful truth.
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We are in control
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of how we feel.
3785
03:24:33,000 --> 03:24:35,000
I was reading something by
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03:24:35,000 --> 03:24:37,000
Victor Funkl, the author of
3787
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Man's Search for Meaning,
3788
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a Viennese psychiatrist. He spent the war years
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in a concentration camp.
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He said in every situation
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there is a
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space between the situation
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03:24:49,000 --> 03:24:51,000
and how you respond to it.
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03:24:53,000 --> 03:24:55,000
And in that space
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03:24:55,000 --> 03:24:57,000
you can decide how you're going to
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03:24:57,000 --> 03:24:59,000
respond. Now that
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03:24:59,000 --> 03:25:01,000
space may only be a millisecond.
3798
03:25:03,000 --> 03:25:05,000
But in that space you can decide
3799
03:25:05,000 --> 03:25:07,000
are you going to react
3800
03:25:07,000 --> 03:25:09,000
or are you going to respond?
3801
03:25:11,000 --> 03:25:13,000
Think of it. In every
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03:25:13,000 --> 03:25:15,000
situation
3803
03:25:15,000 --> 03:25:17,000
between the situation
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03:25:17,000 --> 03:25:19,000
and your response there is a space.
3805
03:25:19,000 --> 03:25:21,000
And in that space
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03:25:21,000 --> 03:25:23,000
you can decide how you're going to
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03:25:23,000 --> 03:25:25,000
respond.
3808
03:25:25,000 --> 03:25:27,000
Vibration is something
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that I love studying.
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03:25:29,000 --> 03:25:31,000
When you're
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03:25:31,000 --> 03:25:33,000
in a restaurant
3812
03:25:33,000 --> 03:25:35,000
or in a store or any place where the energy
3813
03:25:35,000 --> 03:25:37,000
is really good
3814
03:25:39,000 --> 03:25:41,000
you feel very comfortable.
3815
03:25:41,000 --> 03:25:43,000
It's the vibration
3816
03:25:43,000 --> 03:25:45,000
in the place.
3817
03:25:45,000 --> 03:25:47,000
You've gone into a restaurant and sat down
3818
03:25:47,000 --> 03:25:49,000
and before you ordered in and all of a sudden
3819
03:25:49,000 --> 03:25:51,000
you don't want to eat there. Why?
3820
03:25:51,000 --> 03:25:53,000
It's the energy. It's the vibration of
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03:25:53,000 --> 03:25:55,000
that place. You should get up and leave.
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03:25:55,000 --> 03:25:57,000
Go where you feel comfortable.
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03:25:57,000 --> 03:25:59,000
Do what makes you
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03:25:59,000 --> 03:26:01,000
feel good.
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03:26:01,000 --> 03:26:03,000
That's why people
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03:26:03,000 --> 03:26:05,000
that are doing what they love
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03:26:05,000 --> 03:26:07,000
never have to work
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03:26:07,000 --> 03:26:09,000
again.
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03:26:09,000 --> 03:26:11,000
They spend their whole life in a wonderful
3830
03:26:11,000 --> 03:26:13,000
vibration.
3831
03:26:13,000 --> 03:26:15,000
The person who truly understands
3832
03:26:15,000 --> 03:26:17,000
how to pray puts themselves
3833
03:26:17,000 --> 03:26:19,000
in a wonderful vibration.
3834
03:26:21,000 --> 03:26:23,000
I want to say that
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03:26:23,000 --> 03:26:25,000
I want to suggest
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03:26:25,000 --> 03:26:27,000
you study it.
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03:26:27,000 --> 03:26:29,000
And understand this.
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03:26:29,000 --> 03:26:31,000
You will attract to you
3839
03:26:31,000 --> 03:26:33,000
whatever you're in harmonious
3840
03:26:33,000 --> 03:26:35,000
vibration with.
3841
03:26:35,000 --> 03:26:37,000
You are in
3842
03:26:37,000 --> 03:26:39,000
control of the vibration you're in.
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