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♪

I need a time check
on the next dancer.

Make sure y'all tip
that motherfucking bartender.

Shout out to my New Jerseyans.

[crowd cheers]

Play the goddamn music.

♪

Somebody make some
motherfucking noise, right now

Hell, yeah.

Look at your neighbor, say
neighbor

I'm ready to see some dick.

That's a sexy motherfucker.

They told me to come lick it
this way, that's what they said.

Oh. Oh deep lick it, deep
lick it, deep lick it.

Lick it. Lick it.

Lick it. Lick it.

Somebody make some motherfucking
noise for Adonis!

Oh, there's turkey
in that bag, too.

- This is beautiful. [inaudible]
- Yeah.

- Let's rock and roll.

- Did you see Esey's post?

- No. my boo?
He posted something?

- Yeah. - Oh, let me
see it. Let me see it.

- No, we're working right now.
We working. - Darn.

I'll be rocking, I'll
be rocking! Aw! -
Don't cut your hand.

- This is ridiculous.

She didn't get one
sandwich ready yet.

- Oooh.

I took her to the--
to the strip club.

But she--she--she knew about
the strip club

Because she used to go
back in the day.

- I used to go back in the day.
- Yeah.

Then when I had my son
I stopped.

My first son.
- Yeah.

- I stopped. And then, um,
they was going to a show.

Then she asked did I want to go

and I said, "Sure!"
And from then on,

- We've been going
since then. - We've been
going ever since then.

My first dance event

was like seven years ago.

A friend of mine's
bachelorette party.

And it was a very traumatic
experience for me.

And I did not want anything
to do with male dancers

again in my life.

Then 2012,

my goddaughter's mother

wanted to go on
Punisher's Fantasy Cruise

for her birthday in July.

So we went.
July 12, 2012.

And that was it.
Pun hooked me.

I met wonderful Michele
last year

at her birthday party
that she held.

It was a male strip club
birthday party.

It was very, very
entertaining.

A lot was going on.

Our family,

they went before us.

Like, mothers, aunts,
blah blah blah.

And they used to come home
with DVDs.

So when they left
and we were home...

We snuck the DVDs in
the DVD player. - [laughter]

And we used to be like, ooh!
We can't wait 'til we turn 18.

But yeah, my first experience
was a house party.

It was fun.

- Yeah. - I never knew they
did all that, pulling their--

- dingalings out on
stage. - Their sausages.
No, sausages, yeah.

- I've never seen that.
- Sausages.

I almost lost my mind.
I was scared.

I was like, "Oh!"

- You were scared? - I was
scared when I was younger.

Yeah. I was running.

- You was running from
the sausage? - Yeah.
I don't want no more.

- No, you don't.
- Aw, I don't run no more.

- No, you welcome the sausage.
- No, I was running.

- Don't run.
- I welcome it now.

- Yes, you do.

- Stanking hoe.

♪

- Shout to the freaky girls
over here.

Shout out to them.

If you're freaky, make some
motherfucking noise.

[crowd cheers]

Oh, shit now.

You got some good pussy, make
some motherfucking noise.

Oh, shit. Wait a minute.

If you got
that comeback pussy,

let me hear you holla!

[cheers]

Oh, shit.

Hold up. We gotta go to Neicy's
section.

This is the super freak section.

You got that type of pussy, when
that nigga gonna pay your bills,

make some motherfucking noise.

[cheers]

♪

I think a lot of people
come to the club

to get away from some of the
things they do every day.

Leave them kids at home.

Leave the men at home

and just have a good time.

♪

- Aww look at her - How cute
- Take a picture, [inaudible]!

I feel like my baby's going
to the prom. - Take a picture!

It's just grown people
having a good time.

Good music. Drinking.
Eating.

Just to step out of your
reality for a few hours.

- When women talk together,

you couldn't imagine the
things we talk about.

Sexual.
Women get horny.

They get hot.

Even though they won't
admit to it.

[laughter]

- It's like trying to get
with a celebrity.

A--or a music artist.
Or an actor.

You know. You--you
chasing 'em because

they--they seem
almost famous to you.

- And we tell 'em all the time,
they entertain.

And at the same time,

they show females what they're
working with, sex-wise.

- Smoove.

Smoove.

Smoove.

Hey, yo, this is deep.

That's Smoove, bending you
the fuck over.

- It's not about having
sex with them.

It's making the illusion
of having sex with them.

If you can create
the illusion,

and make them horny,

you know they're supposed to
take it home to their husbands

and stuff like that.
I tell most men,

you shouldn't be mad at
them going to these clubs,

to see, because it's just
helping you along.

- My best friend.

We went to a show
last year.

And this was the very first
show that I went to.

♪

The way how she kept
describing to me,

you know, a male show,

I'm thinking she went.

But it was her very
first time too.

So she was like, "Oh no,
Jess, I'm not nervous,

I'm not nervous."
So I was like, "Okay."

Soon as we get there,

the girl is literally running.

I'm like, "Why are you running?
It's just penis."

And I'm looking at ladies
and they're like--

- -like they've never
seen dick.

I'm like, "How could you be
scared of penis?

It's not gonna harm you.

It's not gonna bite you.

It's--they're just dancing."

♪

- Oh! Here they come.
Yes.

You got nasty boy number one?

You got nasty boy number two?

The one and only Raw and

Tyyyyygaaaa!

I need some dollar bills
in this motherfucker oh!

Yes!

♪

So.

Let me get right down
to the point.

I'm Omar.
This is Obar.

Better known as
Raw Dawg & Tygar.

I am the first Nasty Boy.

Co-founding member.

- I'm Nasty Boy number two.

New Jersey Nasty Boyz.

Now, this idea
to start the group,

at the time it was me--

it was me, Bandit,
SunFire, and Tygar.

It started with us four.

And Fantasy was number five.

Then we went and got
Young Rider.

After Young Rider, we went
and got 'Duc. Seduction.

And those--and that started off.
- What about OG?

No, no, no, that started off
the core.

That--oh, yeah.
That started off the core.

The core. And then we pulled
in OG.

And then, um, you know,
we got Brick.

And then we got Black Dragon.

- Then Phyness.
- Yeah, Phyness.

You know, Fever's
in there somewhere.

- Ten.

- So, you know.

- Stallion, twelve.

- And in a lotta ways
we was all alike

even though we had grew up
in different neighborhoods,

we pretty much was all alike.

In the sense that

we all shared the same
family background.

We went to a house party.

And we was dancing.

And they said, "Hey,
y'all should-- y'all
should be dancing."

You took--no, you took
your shirt off.

- Okay. - And the--and
the girl looked at you

and said, "You should be--
y'all should be dancers."

And you started inquiring
about where to go,
dah dah dah dah dah.

I wasn't paying
them no attention.

Me and my brother
Abdul [?] said, "Hell,
we're gonna go try it."

Only when I went to do audition,
Abdul stood me up.

Raw Dawg told me from the rip,
"It's gay,

and I don't want to have
nothing to do with it."

A--a good night, at that time,
was a hundred dollars.

I mean, you're talking about--
- '96.

- You're talking about a person,

you know, I always had
a okay body.

But I had this young face.

So it was like,
women at the time

would say to me, like,
"You look like my son."

So I'd be going around getting
a whole bunch of son dollars.

I didn't really know
what I was doing.

I was just young
and rambunctious.

And while he was at work,

I'm at Great Adventures,
[chuckle]

I'm doing my thing.

It--what was that, the, uh,
what'd they used to call that?

A freak meet!

- Oh, man. I remember
when I first went to
my first freak meet.

- How was it?
- Anyhoo.

- So then--
- Freak meet.

It didn't take long for him
to come back to me and say

"Hey, yo, Twin.
Um, yo.

I'm gonna go into the club
with you."

- My name is Tarayyah
and Raw Dawg is my father,

and it's okay by me.

I've seen my father in action
one time

for my 18th birthday,
which was last year.

- Walk 'em. Walk 'em. Put your
motherfucking hands in the air.

You got two for the price
of one. Let's go! Yeah!

- Not bad, actually. His
moves was pretty sharp,

for a--you know.
- For an old man?

- For the old man,
he's sharp.

Some of those spin moves,
pretty fast.

It was looking good.

- Round it. Round it. Oh!

Somebody bring them a
dollar bill right now. Yes!

Ow! Shit.

Lick it. Lick it. Lick it.

Lick that shit!
Oh!

Ain't nothing like that
brother love.

- You gotta use your tongue
in your performance, son.

[laughter]
- Use your tongue right there.

- You know, use your tongue.
The ladies like that, son.

- Uh-huh.
- Say what, Mom?

Yeah. Flash that out a little
bit, okay?

- Well, see, because
I'm a woman. And I
know what women like.

I am Momma Joe.

And I am Ty and Raw's
mother.

I'm so proud of them.
I really am.

And they coulda went
any way.

Either way, they coulda went
to the left or to the right.

And they chose the right.

And, you know, I don't like
to take credit

for who they are, because

even though I had a lot to do
with who they are,

they actually molded
the men that they are.

♪

- I mean, mostly every dancer
that's out right now

try to talk to us.

They call us Double Trouble.
- Double Trouble.

- Double Trouble in the club.
- Yeah, like the first--

- We come,
- Every time they see us,

- everything's shut down.
Whoo!

Who the light-skinned,
brown-skinned girl, dah dah--

everybody, "Oh. You're talking
about Double Trouble.'"

- You know, the strippers
are fun.

We can go have fun
with them.

- And then just leave 'em.
- Leave 'em. - Yeah!

- Come back! - They don't
have to follow us home.

- Or - don't have to deal with
them on the regular? Nothing.

- See 'em, touch 'em, have that
adrenaline rush,

of being pulled on the floor,
dancing.

Having fun,
and you go home.

- No strings attached.

- God damm him.

He just sexed us up.

- Things that annoy me

are guys slapping
their dick on a girl's face.

You're not my man.

I don't know where your dick
has been.

I don't know where the person
has been

that your dick
has been in.

So don't put it
on my face.

Um, don't stand in front of me

and tell me I need to tip you

because this is hard work.

I tip who entertains me.

I tip who I enjoy
seeing perform.

Don't make it like I have
to tip you because I'm there.

I don't have to tip anybody.
It's my money,

it's my paycheck.

And I will tip who
I feel like tipping.

Those are my two biggest
pet peeves.

Oh. Body odor.
That--that's another one.

That--that's a big
turn-off right there.

Body odor. Yeah.

♪

- I like the women, too. Like,
Lust, Blaze, they gonna come.

Lust, Blaze--oh, Blaze
is my favorite.

Oh my God. Uh.
Clutching my pearls.

We be gay for a little
while. It's called the
"Change your life" crew.

But whenever I'm in Baltimore,

Philly, and where else?
- Yes!

- And sometimes in New York,
I'm gay. Yes.

- Ooh. Shout out to all the
Blaze lovers in this bitch.

Turning it slow and sexy
for ya.

- My parents were thinking--
well, they--they said

that it was a phase. And

my mother, she's a
Christian woman.

[laughter]
So.

Uh, she was just going
by the Bible.

But she said she loved me
no matter what, so.

- Where them girls
that like them girls at? Yes!

Wow. Wow!

- My Mom's kind of like, uh,
at one point she was like,

"Yeah, you gonna
get married.

And to--to a dude, and you
gonna have me some babies."

[record scratch]
Whoa! Errr!

Wait, hold on. Hold on.
Time out.

Okay. So.
[giggles]

You might have a puppy,

or the child might be
adopted.

It's not popping outta here.

I don't know, you want to pop
the baby out?

Not me.
[laughter]

- Shout out to the fucking
girls! Yes.

- Somebody bring some
motherfucking dollar bills.

Drop it. Drop it.

- I--I think at the end
of the day, it's

- -it's--it's fine. Because

it's your life, and you
have to live it. So.

I'm fine with it. I'm com--
I'm comfortable

with who I am. You know,
I'm cool. Shoot. What.

No--[laughter]
So.

I was always making cupcakes,
and

Poundcakes, and what else
I was making, um?

Everything. I was just
doing everything.

And one day, Raw
was like

"Poundcake." I said,

[chuckling]

You talkin' to me? "Yeah. I'm
gonna call you Poundcake."

And it just stuck.

I've been Poundcake
ever since.

- Who calls--who
calls you Poundcake?

- Raw.
- Raw Dawg. Right.

Yeah. Raw Dawg. That's the--

- -that's fiancé. That's
fiancé of the club.

That's Little Daddy.
Big Daddy, Little Daddy.

- Yeah. To those who don't
know, I'm Big Daddy.

How you all doing?
- Big Daddy.

- That's Big Daddy. That's--

- That's Big Daddy. - That's
what they call me anyway.

What she want?

Yep--I got some, Momma.

Yes, let me call her.

I snuck out the house,

with my cousin.

I was "chuch girl." You know,
church girl. You know,

go to church.

And we would go
see the dancers.

I was like, "Oh my goodness.
I like this.

Then after a while, we
fall off, stopped going.

And for my birthday
last year,

I was like, "I want
to do something different.

Let's--let's go see
the dancers."

So I went around
looking on Facebook

trying to find,
where's the dancers,

and I ran across
Yolanda.

She's the promoter
and everything.

She was like, "Oh,
you should come to the club."

And that's how I met
Niecy.

And me and Niecy
just clicked.

And I became part
of her staff.

And becoming part of
her staff,

we got our own name.

So now we're our own
entity

inside of an entity.
So.

Classy Nasty Ladies.

All depends on the event,
what kind of lady you'll get.

If you want classy,
we got classy.

You want a little nasty,
we got that too.

But we always ladies.
So.

The name suits us.

- We good, now!

- Where're all my nasty girls at
make some noise!

♪

- In the dance game, a dancer
that comes from out of town

can typically be a $300
to a $500 booking.

And a dancer that's right here,

in your home town, could
be as low as $50.

Based on their performance
and who they are,

their tips can add up to
anywhere between

$300 and $400.

And if you add that
to your booking fee,

they easily can have made
$400

to $1000 a night.

From New Jersey
to California,

you'd have no problem finding a
dance show. Anywhere in America.

♪

- Y'all better go up there and
put a dollar bill in that body.

Get the fuck out of those seats

and put a dollar
bill in that body.

Oh. Is he looking good?

Somebody--
scream!

What do I like about
Mr. Capable?

I don't know. I mean,
I think it's his personality.

His eyes, his smile.
I mean, he's

a genuine person.
He has a good heart.

You know. He has
a real job.

He's a fireman in real life.
So.

He makes everyone
feel like they're the most--

the most important person
in the world.

Here he is, in his blue.

- This is a great life.

It's provided for me,
my family.

I've been able to do so much
in this game.

Because of this business.
- Right.

When I was introduced
to this business,

I probably didn't touch
a dance floor,

a year after.
I carried bags.

I made music.

I made my own costumes.

I had to practice
more than enough.

You know, you show the
respect for this business.

These guys don't
do that.

- Rider's in the house.

Rider's in the house.

Rider's in the house. Rider--
Rider's in the house.

Where's the charisma at?
- Tell 'em!

That's today's lesson.

- Teach 'em!

After tonight, I need
all you fucking strippers

to come see me.

- Talk that shit!
- On your birthday,

and Christmas.

I'm handing out
stage presents.

- Oh! Rider, Rider, hold it,
hold it, yes!

- Everything you see everybody
out there doing.

The beats.

The slow walks.

The collaboration,
the music.

It was all Young Rider. Young
Rider started all of that.

♪

My uncle,

he did a lotta entertainment,
um,

if you wanna say,
uh,

well, in a Ru Paul form,
if you wanna say that.

That's how I got turned onto
Patti Labelle.

Luther Vandross.

Those were the greats that
he performed at his shows.

And, you know, he used to
throw balls.

It was the gay ball that
they had in Paterson.

And, um,

he was number one at it.

You know, that's how I got
into flamboyant outfits, and

just the whole mindset
of entertainment,

because I used to watch
my uncle, that was my--

one of my favorite uncles.

- Look at the body work.
Look at that body work!

Let's go! Where are the
dollar bills at?

Where the dollar bills at?

You know, he was born as Alan.

And then he was transformed
into Nicole.

♪

- Somebody make some
motherfuckin' noise right now!

Alright ladies, it is
showtime, showtime, showtime.

I tell people I have
two sides to me.

You have Tamisha,
and you have Sweet Tee.

Sweet Tee is only
for the club.

Tamisha is boring and shy. Yeah.
- Yeah.

Y'all want to see what Steve's
worknig with tonight?

Somebody say, "Hell, yeah."
[crowd response]

Y'all want to see some dick?
Somebody say, "Hell, yeah."

"Hell yeah."

Y'all want to see some
sexy motherfuckers

somebody say, "God damn!"

We was at Irvington Manor. [?]

And at the time, I was part of
a group, No Limit.

So I picked up the mic,

and was talking,

and I could see, in

you know, my vision in the back

where the guys, and
everybody kept saying,
"Keep going. Keep going."

The next day, there's
a flyer out.

At the bottom of the flyer,

and it had Emcee Black Magic

and Emcee Sweet Tee.

So I asked the guy Lord West

I said, "Well, who is
Sweet Tee?"

He said, "That's you.

That's your name.

You are gonna be our
new emcee."

None of the other dance groups
had a female emcee.

So, that's where I came
to play at.

- Ooh, just lick it
from the side.

Side lick it. Side lick it.
Side lick it.

Put your neck into it.
Put your neck into it!

Put your neck into it!

Somebody say, "Goddammit."
[crowd responds]

At the time, Drill Sergeant
was the emcee.

He pulled me to the side
and said,

"Whatever come to your mind,
just say it."

And then--well, y'all know
Young Rider.

He used to write down stuff

for me to say.

And he used to
give me the paper,

and go, "Study this.

This is what you say,

'cause I can't say it.

A man can't say this,
but a woman can."

So, I took that

and ran with it.

So, did you cum yet?

I just want to know!

He done fucked you good
and you had

came and fell to the ground!

That's some good dick
right there, girl.

I'm glad she got good dick.

Good dick'll do that to you.

Y'all make some noise for her
for getting that good-ass dick.

And she's still
throwin' dollars.

Y'all make some motherfucking
noise for her.

♪

I got on the same shirt.

I can't wait. I'll see you guys
in a few.

Did she point?

Y'all, the party's 'bout
to get started.

Somebody say, "Go Fever!"

I love Fever, we--all of Fever--
- he put on the best show!

Everybody'd be sitting there
like this.

When Fever come out--
[cheers]

Somebody bring some motherfucker
dollar bills.

Uh, my first trophy was the
Rookie of the Year trophy.

It was a trophy that's still,
like, this big.

That's me.

And that's my sister and
my cousin and my brother.

And that trophy,
you see how tall--

it's just as tall as my sister.

It was a big tie between me and
two of the other dancers,

and they left it up to the crowd
to choose

who would win. And

after they asked, they're like,

"Who do you guys think
should be the winner?"

The crowd. Like, everybody
in the audience

was just screaming,
"Fever! Fever! Fever!"

I was so taken aback, I think

my eyes watered up
a little bit.

I'm the first male
in my family

of our generation and the
generation before me,

to graduate from high school.

I'm the first male
in my generation

to go to college.

I really started doing
different things

so that my brothers
and sisters

wouldn't turn to being

car thieves and
drug dealers.

And that's not the life I
wanted for myself.

And that's not what
I wanted

my brothers and sisters
to become.

We've all grown up to have
our own,

and I'm grateful to God.

To say that I--I believe
that it was me

that helped them to
go forward.

I'm a big brother.

It brings my life joy,
and it gives me purpose

as I go forward in my life.
So.

You know, it was tough,

but I wouldn't take nothing
for that journey.

You know, it is what it is.

♪

- Oh, shit.

Oh, they blocked all
this down, but--

You--we might have to
come back around

and go to the other side.

'Cause we used to live in
the other court.

But anyhow, if you wanna--

this is now what they're
now doing.

This shit at some point
become the OK Corral.

I'm gonna take you to
my court.

VIP the Rainbow King,
Dom,

the Dom, used to live
right there,

second floor.
The basketball court,

Grandma wouldn't let VIP
come back

past this basketball court.
- this basketball court.

So we--all we did
was play basketball

with VIP.

My cousin LB,
LB used to live right there,

first floor.
- Yeah.

And of course, we lived
right here on the second floor.

This center court.
111 Center Terrace.

Apartment 2B.

The late '80s, early '90s,

the only thing you're
gonna get killed for

at that time was crack.

Most of our friends, and most
of the people that we knew

they wouldn't have allowed
us to--

to mess around with
no drugs like that.

They wouldn't give us
drugs to sell. - No.

Twins go to school. Like--

- They--they would--
they would do that.

Some of my other friends,
they would give drugs to sell.

- But us? No.
- Like, no.

We had our own company
at the time,

called Two of a Kind
Cleaning.

So we started that
in high school, like,

maybe when we were
15, 16.

We would go to people's
houses and clean.

We didn't feel like we was--
we was missing something.

- We didn't feel like we was
in the projects.

- Or poor.

You understand what
I'm saying?

It--you know, my Mom--
- It was times--

It was times we was hungry,
though. - You know.

- Had to make sure,
if we--

if we didn't make it to school--
- hey--

- my mother said--
- we wasn't eating breakfast.

My mother spent 15 years
on crack.

Okay, so I'm not gonna
act like that

it was hunky-dory.

No.

But I wouldn't change
my mother, my life,

for nothing in the world.
See, because

when everybody else's
mother lied to them,

my mother didn't
lie to me.

And told us what life was.
what we--

- we was prepared.
- My mother didn't tell us,

- you wanna smoke weed?

Fine.

You know what?
We didn't smoke weed.

- Y'all wanna know
how to hustle, get
out there and hustle.

You--you want these--

I'm gonna show you how
to hustle.

- Y'all want these hundred
dollar sneakers.

I got 30--I got more kids.
I got $30

for your sneakers.
$30 for his sneakers.

- You want those?
- You gotta get out there

and make $70 dollars.
- Then you gotta go out there

and go make that money,
if you want those.

- So being a drug addict--
- I'll get you halfway.

- she taught us--
- shit.

- how to be able to
survive.

- Thirteen years old--
- taught us how to cook.

- we was taking the food stamps
going grocery shopping.

- Told us how to cook.
- At 13.

Just in case you might
meet a girl

- that don't know
how to cook.

And sure enough, most
of the girls that we love

- don't know how to cook.
- Don't know how to cook!

We have to teach them
how to cook.

♪

Wow. Should--should--
all right.

Should I say who's my favorite?
- [inaudible] .

Oh, my favorite is
Satan. Oh.

[laughter]

Oh!
- Rockin'.

Yes. I'm clutchin'
my pearls,

rockin' back and forth.

Nasty thoughts going through
my head right now,

wait.
Ooh, wait.

I gotta go.
I gotta go.

Woo!

Hoo!

Hoo ho hoo!
[giggling]

♪

I was at Marlowe's nightclub.

They had a Tuesday night spot.

Drill Sergeant was the emcee.

He was about to call me out.
He stopped the music.

He said, "DJ, turn that
off for a minute."

"Ladies, the next man
who's coming out to you"--

and he just bust
out laughing.

He said, "Y'all gonna laugh
when you hear this, too.

And--y'all gonna know
why I'm laughing.

And he was like,
he said my name

and all you heard
was, "What?"

"Who call they damn self
Satan?"

"Satan? Oh my God."

"No. Uh-uh. Uh-uh."

"Uh-uh."

I came out there,

I didn't let it shake me.
I came out there,

did my thing.

When I left the stage,

one lady jumped up
and said,

"If that's Satan,
I'm going to hell."

That was it.

That right there started
a domino effect.

And then they started
just saying, like,

"I'm going to hell,
take me to hell,

take me to hell,
I wanna go to hell,

I wanna go to hell."

And I was like,
I got 'em.

I was like, I got 'em.

I did my job,
and I got 'em.

♪

- Let me tell you my
first experience

when I--when I
seen him.

I had just started going
back to the Cricket Club.

And it was this
little short man--

he had a table up
on the stage.

And I said--that's when I
would still

call her her real name.

But, "Poundcake,
who is that?"

And she said, "That's Satan."

Well, Satan came out
at that Cricket Club!

He was gyrating
them hips.

He got on top of that deejay
booth and did some things.

Oooh.

He snaked across that floor.
Hooo.

He did--he did that
crawl he do.

Then he got up on the stage
and he took his piece out

and I was just in love
with him ever since.

Oooh!
Wait.

That's memories.
[laughter]

Wait. I gotta go.
I gotta go, I gotta go.

♪

- The reputation of
being a stripper

has never been great.

Taking off your clothes
for money

has always been
like a taboo.

- They feel like because we're
in the entertainment world,

we all gotta be
prostitutes.

This, that, and a third.

I think it's just a matter
of people not knowing.

And them assuming that

it's nasty, it's immoral,

it's--you know, dirty.

It's the same thing as a man
going to a strip club.

And, you know, we are beasts
when it comes to the booty.

You understand what I'm saying?

We beasts. You know what
I'm saying?

You know, you see that girl
get that

in your face, man, your money

starts falling out your pocket.

You know what I'm saying.
[laughing]

We're no different from
everybody else.

We're people, just like
everybody else.

Women enjoy looking at men.
- Yes.

- And men enjoy
looking at women.

It's the same old thing
since Adam and Eve.

- Some women like to look
at women.

- Yeah, well, that too.
- Oh, yeah.

- And there's men like
to look at men.

- Well, my thing is,

if the Lord didn't
make this profession,

then we wouldn't be
enjoying it.

Yeah. I just have fun.
I like to have fun.

African men used to dance
for their women

before we became slaves.

Women will go out there
and do dances

for their men as well.

So this has been something
that's been going on

with our--our
people for years.

- Women want to be
entertained.

They want a show.
They want to party with you,

They want to laugh.
They want to feel pretty.

After you got 'em all
hyped up,

now you gotta make them
fall in love with you.

They want to feel seduced
when you're on stage.

And maybe be made
to blush a little bit.

- Fuck it.
Make her squirt.

Make her squirt!
Make her squirt!

Make her motherfucking squirt!

And of course, they want
to see the naked body.

Whatcha doin' Satan? Take
your time with 'em boy.

I know he's sexy to ya!

Somebody get your
dollar bills ready.

There go the Devil.
There he goes!

You all ready, ladies?
You all ready, ladies?

Get your dollar bills ready.

Here we go.
Satan!

- Whooo!

Where's the grip and tip?
Grip and tip?

Can I get a dollar
bill for that man

and that body right there?

- The first time that I
ever flashed,

and I remember looking up,

and seeing the lights
get black.

The whole crowd
was rushing me,

and it was at that moment
when I realized that,

'I'm onto something here."
[laughing]

- Butt. Butt and butt.

Butt. Butt.
Butt. Butt.

It's a little walking out.
You know, you rock with it.

So, you got, okay,
this is the one hip roll

here, like that.

And then bring it up.

Mine's is like, I'm like,
go here with it.

And then, right,
go like that.

My signature, my signature,

is the Matrix, though.

Hold on. I gotta stretch.
Uh! Okay.

I'm like, go here.
Oh, God. Uh!

- Oh, the Matrix. I gotcha.
I gotcha.

And do this, and then do this.
What.

- That motherfucker will
not miss a beat!

♪

Male shows are basically,
you have

mostly guys. Sometimes
it's a mixture,

where you have, like,
maybe one or two doms.

Maybe three
on the show.

You're performing for
a straight crowd.

And then you have
some bi women in the crowd.

The curious ones.

And then you have the ones

that just want to be
entertained.

Then you have the LGBT shows,
where it's just like

you have the doms
and the femmes.

I mostly dance
for the male crowd.

That's where I make
my money at.

It's like, a lotta women
understand where

we're coming from, as
far as, like,

if we do a theme, or

costumes and stuff.

You know, they--they
appreciate the talent.

I am cool with a lotta
male dancers. Um--

but too, you have some
male dancers

that are like, "We
don't like the doms."

Blah blah, like, they're scared
of the doms, or

you know, you have some
old school guys that

don't believe that we should

be dancing on their circuit,

and, um,

you know, it's a lot
of that going on.

And that I've dealt
with a lot.

You know, like, sometimes
I can't even get on

shows because I'm a girl.

- Ladies, put your motherfucking
hands together

for Blaze!

♪

- Hey, look, hold up for
a motherfucking second.

I need to see every
motherfucking female

up in this bitch
take a dollar bill

and put it up on her.

On some real shit.

We support our
motherfucking own.

If we can put money
on these dicks,

we can put money on a female.

She is out here
doing her motherfucking

thing. Let's go!

That's one of us
up there, ladies.

Let's support her like
we're supposed to.

That's one of us up there!

[singing] Ah--
- Ah---Ah--

- All right. Ready?
Okay.

Let's go through our next one
so we can move on it.

[tones, singing]

Haleih, you singing
with the choir? Come on.

Ez'jaan, you're just still
gonna usher, right?

- Yeah.
- Okay. All right.

Come on, Haleih.

[singing] Oh, Lord,

[singing] how excellent.

[singing] How excellent.

[singing] How excellent.

[singing] How excellent

[singing] is Thy name.

- Bless His soul. There is none.

[singing] There is none
like you.

- This weekend we have
our youth explosion weekend.

And it started last night
with a lock in,

when we had the kids
spend the night with us,

and we played games, and
we did different things,

and now today is Saturday

and we're starting the community
outreach with the youth.

[singing] Jesus, excellent.

- Excellent. Excellent.

[singing] Excellent.

[singing] Excellent.

[singing] is Thy name.

- All right, very good.
- Thank you.

- Somebody forgot their
bag upstairs.

- Who forgot their bag?

♪

- This is our first community
outreach project

where we're feeding
the homeless for lunch.

We're having lunch with
the homeless today.

- Don't touch it.
Don't touch it!

- We want our children
to learn that, um,

people are out there that
have a disadvantage,

that don't have the privileges
that they have.

So we want them to start
seeing the other side

of what life is like.

- I tell my kids all the time,

them today might
be us tomorrow.

You never know. So

I want them to
learn to appreciate

the things they have.

Be grateful for a cheese
sandwich or a turkey sandwich

because there's somebody
that don't have anything.

The same people that been
on the street 15 years ago

are still out there on
that street. - Yeah.

The same exact people

is out there. I see them.

I see them.

I got somebody right now

that knocks on my door
when they're hungry.

And--and I don't care.

I don't care? What you want?

You hungry? They'll smell

either a chicken or whatever
I'm cooking.

"I'm hungry."

They'll--they'll be like,
they'll be like, "I'm hungry,"

but, you know, they--
they try to do it

discreet because they don't
want people--

you know what I'm saying,
to know that.

So they'll come. I'll be
like, "Hey."

And I just play just like
I invited them.

Ain't nobody gotta know your Mom
ain't got no money right now.

"Hey, baby, you want some?
I'm cookin'."

"What you want? You want
a ham sandwich right quick?

'Cause the chicken ain't done."

"No, I'm gonna wait for
the chicken."

You know they smells
that chicken.

- I have three sons.

- There's three of 'em?

- I got four sons.

I have one that's out there
on drugs

and I pray for him
every day. - Yeah.

You know? Sometimes
I go look for him.

To see if he hungry.

You--you know what
I'm saying?

And that's the sad part
about it.

That's why I feel such
a big advocate

of feeding people, because

where my son at
in the community

dealing with his situation,

I'm quite sure somebody
feeding him.

Sometime I can't
always find him,

to give him something to eat.

So I go find somebody
else that's homeless

on the street and give them
something to eat,

because I'm quite sure

somebody's feeding my child.

- All righty. These are your
salad dressings.

Spoons and forks over there,
sweetie.

- That's not nice.

You're welcome.
Salad dressing.

Missed you yesterday!

♪

- I was coming down, really
for my sons.

Because just listening to
some of the mothers

on the news, and just seeing
what's going on on the news,

I feel their pain.

'Cause I'm a Mom.
And I know

could be at work,
you could be at home,

and just to get a call
to say your child is

gunned down, or beat down
by a cop,

that's the worst feeling
in the world.

When I got here, it just brought
back a lotta memories

from when my brother
was killed.

I always have my brother
in my heart, but it's like

I haven't thought about that
until

I got here today.

My brother! He was just a free--
he was a free spirit. So.

He's just--and, um--

and we don't--we--
they never really gave us

a full story on it.

They just say he fell.

He fell from the building.

Which we know that's
not true.

'Cause my brother, he was
very athletic.

So we know he didn't fall
from the building.

We know they, you know,
beat him and stuff like that.

And--we could just never,
you know, really

knew how to fight it.

That was over--almost
20-something years ago.

Yeah.

It was just--cops say
it was an accident.

And then people didn't want
to step in

and, you know,
help my Mom

try to find answers. So.

[sob]

[sniff]

[sob]

It's so hard. It's gonna--
and I know

it's gonna be hard
for my babies.

It's gonna be hard
for both of them.

What do you keep saying?

You gotta keep pushing.
You gotta keep pushing.

You gotta--you gotta strive,
you gotta want to succeed.

But how can you, when
there's nothing

offered to them, and
every time they

take one step forward,
they're getting pushed back?

Because of their skin color.

How does that work?
I don't--this--

this world, I don't know
what kind of world

this is turning into.
I really don't.

[crowd] Fight back!
Fight back! Fight back!

[leader] If we don't get it--

[crowd] Shut it down!

[leader] No justice
[crowd] No peace!

[leader] No justice
[crowd] No peace!

[leader] No justice
[crowd] No peace!

[sniff]

[sigh]

[inaudible]

- Wanna see--I don't know what--
- Me too.

- -I'm going to do.

- If I do, I'm gonna need--
- Hey little boy--

- those sound dead,
right there little boy.

- All right, Twin.

What we dance to
is on him.

What we dance in,
what we look like,

when we go in,
is on me.

When I'm designing
outfits for us,

I'm tryin' to put us
in something bright.

Because the two of us,
it's just,

some things that we can do,
that nobody can do.

See, we can go
fucking neon yellow.

And pull it, because it's us.

- Oh, shit. Y'all need
some motherfucking noise.

- I need some dollar bills!

I need some dollar bills
right now.

- If--if--if we have dancers
like it,

that took a style like
69 and Lord West,

and Intrigue,
and Obsession,

and Fu Flex and Flash
and Drill Sergeant,

12 Gauge, Blaq Magic,

I mean, the list goes on
and on. And Lose It.

X-Rated, the list goes
on and on about dancers

that we looked up to,
and we went to them

to find out what
was going on.

Hell, Intrigue and
Shogun used to tell me

all kind of crazy shit.

- Fu Flex, we spent our--

- Intrigue and Shogun
had me turn myself

into a fruit cocktail.

You had to see it.

My dumb ass went to
the grocery store.

I'm cutting up kiwis

and strawberries and shit.

Good fruit!
Oranges and shit!

I had that shit in a bowl,
man,

cherries and shit, man.

In this dingy-ass club
in Englewood.

Pouring fucking fruit on myself.

All because 'Trigue told me
about the time--

Intrigue, told me about
the time

he turned himself into
a sundae.

I said, "I'm gonna do
myself better.

I'm gonna turn myself
into a fruit cocktail.

Hey, who doesn't like fruit?

♪

Can you have a relationship
with a stripper?

- I mean, honestly?

- You doin' whatever you
wanna do, because them niggas

not faithful for shit.
[laughing]

- No matter what,
they're never gonna

be faithful.
- Yes.

I mean, I guess you
could catch 'em

on retirement or something.

If you think you're
gonna be with

a man that's surrounded by

a bunch of bitches
- thirsty females, too!

It ain't like they're coming in
there fully hydrated.

Them bitches dehydrated.

You something to drink. I
promise you, yes. - Desert dry.

Yes. It's that, ooh,
give me a straw.

That's how they are when

you come in the club.

It's never gonna happen.

[laughing]

What the fuck? I guess I'm
drinking the wrong shit.
That your shoe over there?

♪

- You're not guaranteed

a dollar bill.

You're not guaranteed

the applause.

But

in this business,

you're guaranteed a--

a shot of ass.

And that's crazy.

You know what I'm sayin'?

So a lot of the dancers
is cool with that.

Like, shit, long as I get
a shot of ass, I'm good.

Like I've said plenty
of times,

I'm not intimidated by--

by strippers.
Lots of guys are,

because they--well,
you know,

how--how my woman gonna
be around other guys, who--

you know they're gonna
be getting naked,

and you know what I'm saying,
stuff like that.

But that don't--that
doesn't bother me.

Um,

primarily, how-- there's no
other way I can say it.

But listen. When it comes--

when it comes to that bedroom,

I know I do
what I do.

[laughing]

I make it happen.

Okay, I know I--I ain't
got no sixpack

body, and none of that
kind of stuff.

But

- I like your stomach.

- You like my stomach, baby?
- Yeah.

- I think it depends
on the trust factor

in the relationship.

'Cause I always---say, "Daddy,
you think I'm

messing with somebody
in there?"

And he was like, "No,
'cause you

being who you are."
I was like,

"No, it's strictly
entertainment."

I say, "I have
my favorites."

I tell him, I say,
"I have my favorites

You know.

All depends on the show,

I'll be gay in a minute."

And he laughs,
he laughs.

"All right."
He'll say, "Well,

"Y'all CNL or change your
life crew tonight?"

"Babe, we got change your
life crew tonight."

He'll be like, "All right.
See you when you

come home. Bye."

♪

- I'll be honest with you.

Raw had

four or five bitches when I
came into play.

And I was what you call
a bottom bitch.

I would say

a couple years in,

I would say it turned
more serious.

It turned more serious
for me

before it turned more
serious for him, obviously.

But I'm the type of person,

you know, like, I
looked at him,

I wanted to be with him,

so I went after him.

You know. And doing that,
that means

I gotta get everybody else
out the picture.

- This can mess up a lotta
things in your life.

When the person with you
is not strong,

and they don't have
that understanding

of what it is. Because

at the same time,
it is a alter ego.

You have Young Rider.

Then you have Tony,

the father
and the husband.

♪

When they forget about
the person that you are

to the ladies,

like, well damn,
that's Young Rider

over there talking.

You have to go home
to Tony.

See he just lets me
rub him up.

[laughing]

Right now, I'm chilling.

I'm not looking for
a mate right now.

- You don't have
an ideal guy?

- No.
- I understand.

- I used to,

and that just fell apart.

The--the one I thought was--

that everything was ideal,
wasn't ideal.

So. Ain't no I--actually,

there's no ideal--no
ideal mates anymore.

My one ideal mate just--

he just--
- Fuck that.

- Yeah. He fucked that up.
- Uh-huh.

I've had relationships,
and

I still--I'm still
in communication

with a lot of 'em. But

it's like, they tell me
I'm too demanding, so.

[laughing]

So it never really
works out, so.

I just said, "I'll
stay to myself."

You know what it is?

I didn't--I thought I was
until Steve Harvey came out,

and told me I just
have standards

and they can't abide
by my standards,

then I guess I'm
too demanding.

I have standards.
You ain't gonna

tell me no lies, and

you're not gonna
cheat on me

and think I'm not gonna,
you know, retaliate,

like punch you
in the neck.

♪

Jessica, did I show you
the shirts

when they came in?
- No.

- Look.
- That's nice.

Did not Rider do a really
good job with our lionhead?

Because autism stops speaking
now, it's roaring.

So, autism roars.

We sold 39 shirts.

For this event
tomorrow night,

it's a fundraiser
for Autism Speaks.

We're doing it in conjunction

with The New Jersey
Nasty Boyz,

at their weekly spot.

Jello shots,

we're doing two
for a dollar.

The vodka gummy bears

are two for a dollar.

I think my father's given up

that I'll bring a
white guy home.

He's learned to accept
the fact that

a lot of the black men
I've dated up here

are not--

they're reputable people.

They have jobs.
You know, they're not--

you know, they're looking
out for me.

They actually care
about me.

I mean something to them.

So, you know, so
that's a good thing.

But, yeah. He's--
he's kind of given up hope

that I'll bring a white
guy home.

♪

Jess, just get the door.

To me,

a white girl show

would be like, Hunkamania,
Chippendales,

the Magic Mike
type of thing.

And even if there are
black guys

dancing with that group,

you can't touch 'em.

They're not gonna whip
their dick out,

they're not gonna put
their dick on your face.

You know. They're not gonna

flip you upside down, and

hold you up above their head

and act like they're
eatin' you out.

That's not gonna happen
at a white girls show.

It is like a big family.

Even if I don't watch
'em perform,

I go hang out
with the people, and--

you know, it's like

game night at your
friend's house,

kinda, to me. You know,
[laughing] like--

♪

- Fuck's my grown women
at? Somebody make some
noise in this motherfucker.

How many licks you gonna
take to get to the center
of that tootsie roll?

Is your pussy still fresh?
- [crowd] Yeah!

Is your pussy still fresh?
[crowd] Yeah!

E Ya, E Ya! -Woo!

You know, I got a lot
of fucking brothers

that have kids with autism.

And this shit 'Chele is
doing tonight,

there's no way I was
not coming, you know?

She ain't part of the family.
'Chele family.

You know?

We don't go nowhere.
She know I got her back

and she always has mine.

We cuss, fight, everything.
You know?

And then we come back
full circle.

Thats just what
family does.

♪

TY became, like, the father
of the family.

Father figure, because

I wasn't able to,

with this crack cocaine,

judge, shop, pay rent.
None of that.

None of that. That had
took over my whole life.

I locked myself up
in this room

and that's where I stayed.

- Yo, yo, yo, come on now.

Y'all make some more noise
for that motherfucker.

Y'all did know niggas was
gonna be dancing tonight,

y'all knew that, right?

♪

- I actually lost myself.

Almost lost my children.

I lost a lot.

So I learned that

the decisions that I make

affects every
part of my life.

I learned that, uh,

I learned to be a
better person, actually.

Make better decisions.

I learned that I'm not
a bad person.

I just made bad decisions.

Now when I'd seen her,

she looked like she was
dead, walking around.

Because she was on drugs.

And I told her,

"Here, take this money.

This is the last time that
we're gonna see you

lookin' like this. You--
you my mother,

I love you.
I respect you.

You gotta live your life--
- Get yourself together.

- the way you wanna
live your life. I can't

tell you how to live your life,
because it's your life.

- But get yourself together.
- But you can't expect us

to watch you slowly
kill yourself.

But if you get
yourself together,

- We'll buy you a house.
- We'll buy you a house."

With the money I gave her,

instead of you spending it
on drugs,

she went, checked herself
into a rehab.

Then she checked into a program
that was a year.

She mighta stayed with us
two days

while we finalized the house.

Boom. - Boom.
We bought her a house.

Can you move?
You aggravating me.

Having two fathers is
not a joke.

Well, I really have, like,
three. But.

It was more like six

people on me, like,
no.

'Cause you--my uncle,
and his girlfriend, my aunt,

and then my father and
his girlfriend,

my stepmom. And
my mother and

her boyfriend, my stepfather.

It was like, tch.

Can you please get up?

For what?

I want to sit down.

Okay, sit on my lap.
- Uh-uh.

That's fresh and
that's nasty.

No, it's not. That's loving.
That's romantic .

That's how we got all
them kids. Excuse me.

[laughing]

You right.

I look up to a lotta people.

But mainly--but mainly
my mother.

- Listen to the rest of
chicken dinner?

Yeah, go ahead.

My mother was--oh, my mother
was an all-around person.

She was a very--oh.

You just can't--mmm.

There's no words for
that lady right there.

She was the nicest.
She was good to everybody.

If you needed something
and she had it,

she would give it to you.
That's how I am.

I remember when one
of my cousins

was in the closet, and

he really wanted to
come out,

like, it was killing him
that he was in the closet.

I don't know why. I mean,

we still love you. Like,

I don't care what your
sexual preference is.

You still my cousin. But,

everybody not like me.

And the first person he came
to was my mother.

He was like, "Oh, Auntie,
you gotta help me.

I don't know what to do."

And my mother was like,
"Baby,

it's your life. You live it."

And that just helped him
tell everybody else.

And everybody was like,
"We already knew,

we just waiting on you
to tell us."

You know. So.

You ever seen The
Proud Family?

You ever seen that show?

The grandmother used to
walk around with

two big Afro puffs

and a nightgown. Like, a--a--

what was that called, bae.
Like a overcoat or something?

- Yeah. Housecoat.
- A housecoat.

That was my mother
when she was lounging.

As she got, like, older,
and she started getting sick,

that--uh-huh.

That was my Momma.
Sugar Momma.

That's what her grands called
her 'til the day she died.

Sugar Momma.

'Cause she was the sweetest.

Some women think that

I don't know. If you
touch them, you're gay.

[laughing]

I feel like it's just so

stupid and ignorant,

how people, like,

act about that. Like,

"Oh, well, you're black,"
or "You're white,

and blah blah blah." Or,

"You're--you're female,
you're male."

And it's like, we're all human.

You know, and it's like,

none of us chooses
our gender,

or our color, or whatever,
you know

what I'm saying. And it's like,

there's bigger things out here
to be worried about

than the color of somebody's
skin, or--

Let's just get it straight.

The government was built
on inequality.

This country was built
not equal.

If you look at schools,

you got a school in the
inner city,

and you got a school in
an affluent area,

how could you have a
institution of learning,

that's public--not private,
public,

meaning it's government
funding,

and your school
don't have books.

But if you go into
a white area,

they got books.

Everybody's complaining about,
they don't have.

"We don't have no jobs.
We don't have this."

But then again, I read
one time,

with--what'd they send, about
$2 1/2 trillion dollars

over there in Iraq

to build up some more--
2 1/2 trillion?

I can't even spell
the word trillion.

- For hundreds and thousands
of years,

this has been going on.

Those that are haves,
and the have-nots.

The haves have privileges.

You know, let's face it.

Money talks. Everybody else
get convicted.

[chuckling]

Think of all the people
that's in jail,

that didn't do
absolutely nothing.

And then, but the--only--
their only crime

was not having money.

- When you're hiring somebody
at minimum wage,

which is, I think,
$8.35 an hour,

if I just round it down to $8,

you know, you're making 80
hours every two weeks.

That's $640.

And you multiply that by two,
that's $1280.

$1280 a month, without tax,

and your rent's $1500.

You're already in
the negative.

So you expect our black men

not to go out here
and rob,

or sell drugs,

or strip?

or do whatever it is
they need to do

to feed their families,

when they're already
under the gun?

And they're working 80 hours

and they can't even bring home

enough money to pay the rent?

- If you have any involvement
with the law,

you know how hard it is
to even get out of that?

So you get locked up,

then you come back out,

you can't get a job,
can't get welfare,

can't get anything.

What's left for you to do?

- Only what--what put you in
that position.

- What put you in the
fucked up position

in the first place.

- A lot of my friends'
family members

do get caught up in,
like, jail,

incarceration, or death.

Mainly a lotta death.

Like, brothers and
cousins and stuff.

It seems like for a lotta
kids here that

that's supposed to happen.
That it's normal.

Like, I'm gonna lose at least
two cousins and a brother.

But that's not--it shouldn't
be normal.

They shouldn't look
forward to that,

or they shouldn't have to
think about that.

- I don't condone a lot
of things.

I don't condone
drug selling,

I don't condone, uh,
robbery

and hurting people.

But my thing is,
what are you--

why are you out there?

What are you choices?

'Cause sometimes we don't
have a choice.

- Every choice you make
is informative.

Because you gotta know

before you get into it,

what circumstances it's
gonna lead up to.

You got to know.
You know what I mean,

I mean, we're all, as--
as adults,

and as teenagers and
as young children,

that have seen enough
to know

when we do a certain thing,

certain things happen.
- Uh-huh.

They see people getting
murdered.

They see people getting shot.

They know that some of that,
some of 'em know

the circumstances that this
child or this man,

or what he has done, or what
he's capable of doing,

you know what I mean?
We all learn from this.

We learn from our environment.

There's no such thing as,
"Oh, I didn't know."

Go to the court and say
that to the judge.

You know what I'm saying?

Judge gonna tell you, there's
no excuse for you not to know.

You're afforded the same
opportunity as everybody else.

You know, so.

It's all on you.

♪

Like I deal with a lotta
emotions.

Different emotions
on my own.

Some of the things
that I saw.

Some of the things that
I was involved in.

I don't know if it's

some type of form
of depression.

But when I'm entertaining,

I feel in control.

I'm in control.

What I say go.

What I want to happen
happens.

That's my outlet.
That's my own

therapy, for myself.

To feel like,
when I'm doing this,

there's no wrong.

- They was laughing at us
when we first became

dancers. They told us
we was go-go boys,

we was homos.
We gay.

But for me and my brother,

it was our way out.

To be somebody.
To be something.

Then, we told--like I told
my kids' mother,

and he told his kids' mother,
what we wanted.

We wanted to buy
a house.

We wanted to be able
to raise our kids, and

- Make--make no--
- In a different area.

- Make no mistakes about it--
- Better than we was.

- To be from here,

we've been everywhere.

And it's because, from--
from--from here.

♪

Say cheese!

Cheese!

You only live once.
I say enjoy it.

A hundred and fifty percent.

Me personally, I don't care
what people say.

I don't care what
people think.

I'm gonna live my life
and enjoy my life.

However I want.

As long as my kids don't
want for anything,

I'm good.

Big Daddy happy, I'm
enjoying life.

I don't have time for what
people say. Think.

I could care less.
[giggling]

If everybody lived
their life like that,

we'd be so much better.

Thursday night's event
for autism

was a success.

We raised, like,
$230

as a donation
to Autism Speaks.

When Mr. Capable was talking

about being part of
the family, and--

that overwhelmed me.

Because I never expected
that from him.

Like, I didn't think
he saw me

past just a girl in the club.

You know, I didn't
expect that. So.

That meant a lot.

I'm not just an outsider.

I love Raw Dawg.

I love the ground
that boy walk on.

I would like to say I went
into it

with my eyes fully open.

You know, acceptin', you know,
some of the things

that went on, you know.

Which is why today,
I don't take no shit.

'Cause I paid my dues.

- This is another one here.

[laughing]

- Just hold on, and--
- That's it!

And--and just--and just
keep it positive.

Because one day, the
opportunity gonna

present itself, and you have
to be ready to walk through--

- -that door. - You have to be
ready to walk through that door.

- You have to see it.
- 'Cause once it's
closed, it's gonna close.

And that's with--that's
with anything.

You got to--once that door open,

you got to be on time.

- Alright, everybody has their
one thing

that's kind of quirky
for them.

For me, it's I'm a Superman fan.
I'm a big one.

So I have all his movies,
including Superman Returns,

some of the cartoons,

and I have Man of Steel
over there

'cause I was watching it.

I had some stickers,

so I got me a red candle
and just applied my sticker

to the candles, that's
my Superman candle
that will never burn.

I got the belt buckle,

the dusty--my little
belt buckle.

My little cheap Superman
watch.

This cookie has got to be

at least a hundred
years old.

[laughing]
Like.

I got my President.

To be honest, this was
the first time

I had ever voted
in my life,

when I voted for Obama.

And I was very proud.

And I haven't missed
an election since.

- Family means everything to me.

'Cause I feel like I wouldn't be
where I'm at today

without my family.

'Cause if I didn't have those
six parents,

like, pushing me and my
brothers and sisters

pushing me, and cousins, like,
"You can do it.

We all can do it,
we all can make it,"

I would probably become
a product of my environment

too. Because I feel like
there would be no one there

to tell me, like, "This is
what you need to do."

"This would be great
for you. And

you can be successful.
You can become the future."

I would just have
the school telling me,

"Well, graduate high school.
And after high school,

you know, you got a certain path
to choose." No.

A family, like, tells you,

"This is where I messed up."

"This is where you can
do better."

Just take full advantages.

So. My family is
everything to me.

♪

- Y'all wanna party, or
y'all want to see dick.

Party dick. Party dick.
Party dick. Party dick.

Party dick. Party dick.
Party dick!

Dick has won!
[crowd reacts]

It's a experience
you'll never forget.

Expect the unexpected.
Because, oh!

It just--oh, it's fun.

You'll have the time
of your life.

You never know who's
gonna show up.

Any out-of-towner
might pop up.

Any Nasty Boy
might pop up.

You never know.

Some older women
are married,

and they come here for fun!

But then you have
the ones

that's like, "Ooh, baby."
- Baby!

- Ooh, yeah. He's showing
me attention.

Ooh, I love you, yes. Whatcha
gonna do to me tonight.

- Take my money, my money.
- Ooh, yeah.

I'm gonna throw my whole
rent at you.

Ooh, I'm about to throw my whole
electric- cable bill at you--

- Bills.
- Ooh, yes.

They feel like they can just
buy the guy. So.

- Somebody make some
motherfuckin' noise!

This is my de-stress
to me. Like,

I go hang out, have fun.

Maybe have a shot.

You know. And just
relax with each other.

- Oh, no, I don't drink.
- She don't drink.

- Oh.
- Drink? No.

People think I drink, because
I just have good time.

They think I drink,
but I don't drink.

You'll see me later on,
especially if one of my

favorite dancers comes,
you'll hear me.

- [giggling] -
Should I give them

the call now?
- Yeah, you go.

- Riiiider! That's one of my
favorites.

- If you're single, make some
motherfucking noise.

[crowd cheers]

Some of y'all lie like a
motherfucker. Okay?

If you a birthday girl,
stand the fuck up.

Stand up, birthday girls!

If you're with the birthday
girls, stand the fuck up!

You with your ride or die bitch,
stand the fuck up!

[crowd cheers]

You with your sisters,
stand the fuck up!

[crowd cheers]

You with your co-workers,
stand the fuck up!

You with your best friend?
Stand the fuck up!

Stand the fuck up!
Stand the fuck up!

DJ, drop that shit!