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- Tonight,
the "Married At First Sight"
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Denver reunion continues.
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- There are liars,
and there are truth tellers.
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- This is my first experience
with being gaslit like this.
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- Oh, my God.
- No.
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- Last time,
the entire Denver cast
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returned to reveal
what happened
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on and off camera during
their unforgettable season.
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- Us four girls have been
lied to so many times.
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Cameron was, like,
the initiator.
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- Oh, man, I love the lies.
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- That's why there's tension.
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- You guys could have said no
at any point.
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- I wanted marriage.
- With me?
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- I realized very early
that my marriage
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wasn't gonna work out.
- I wonder why.
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- You were [bleep]
someone else.
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[tense music]
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- But that was
just the beginning.
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- What's the accusation?
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- That he was [bleep]
other people.
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- I hope you never treat
a girl the way
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you treated me ever again.
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- You told me
that if I left you,
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you would make
my life a living hell.
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- Bleh.
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- Tonight, we'll dig deeper,
as the Denver cast
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comes clean about
their confusing stories.
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The women are just like,
"You're lying, you're lying."
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- Everything we say
can't be a lie.
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It's just not possible.
- Becca mentioned receipts.
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I figured
I'd bring some receipts.
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- It turns everything
into a mind [bleep].
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- I don't want cameras on.
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- Tensions are still high,
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and complicated issues
remain unresolved.
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Do you care whether
you two have a friendship?
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- God, no.
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- The horse is dead, so it's
time to stop beating it.
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- It's just constant
toxic negativity at all times.
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- That you create.
- I'm ashamed.
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- It's not enough.
This [bleep] sucks.
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- I never [bleep] anyone.
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I never said I wanted
to [bleep] anyone.
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- I'm completely conflicted.
- I was shocked, truly shocked.
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- I'm not dealing
with this [bleep].
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This is [bleep] up.
I'm done. I'm done.
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I'm just disgusted
with everything today.
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- Stop playing with me,
Cameron,
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because you don't scare me.
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- [laughs]
OK.
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- Keep poking the bear,
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and I'll bite [bleep] back.
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♪
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- All this and so much more,
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as the "Married At First Sight"
Denver reunion
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comes to
its dramatic conclusion.
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- We were in a great place,
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and the only thing that changed
was a malicious rumor
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that made absolutely no sense.
- Rumors plural.
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- Sorry?
- Rumors plural.
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- There was more than one?
- Yes.
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- You say that rumor,
but you say those rumors.
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- Correct.
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- What other rumors were there?
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♪
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This is the
"Married At First Sight"
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Denver reunion.
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- Do you know how
you did me dirty?
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Like, you manipulated me.
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- The fact that you want
to go down this road of,
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like, saying
I was a bad person,
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it's like,
we were in a great place,
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and the only thing that changed
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was a malicious rumor
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that completely tore us apart.
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- Rumors plural, plural.
- Sorry?
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- Rumors plural.
- There was more than one?
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- Yes.
- Oh.
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- You say that rumor,
but you say those rumors.
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- Correct.
- What other rumors were there?
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- So there were
a few instances.
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These are just
the ones that I know.
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I, like, mistakenly
read some texts on your iPad
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when I went to watch TV.
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You told both Cam and Austin
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you wanted
to have sex with Lily.
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You DM'd Clare's friend
the night in the hot tub
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when you said the same night
you wanted to move in with me,
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and then you called Cam
to go on a double date,
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which then wasn't
only just affecting me.
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It was affecting our friends.
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- I also want to clarify,
who is Lily?
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- Uh, my ex-best friend.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- Those are all
unsubstantiated rumors.
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You actually tried to make out
with my best friend,
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but then got caught lying
about making out
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with someone at the bar.
And--
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- I told you the truth
about the Australian.
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- How many times did I ask,
though, before you came clean?
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- I was scared to tell you
because I didn't want that
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to be your easy out.
- Ah, ah.
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- But I also know
Lily told you that,
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and that was the second time
you were protecting her.
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- It was not Lily.
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- I mean, I'm not gonna fight--
I admitted to you, right?
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When you said Australian,
I was like, "Yes."
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- No.
- And he kissed...
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- You did not.
- He kissed me.
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- What happened?
What happened?
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Can you explain?
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- I just want to say it,
and then I'm done.
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Australian at a bar kissed me.
That was it.
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- Were you talking to Lily?
- No.
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- Lily literally told me this.
- What?
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- She's like,
"Austin said Brennan wanted
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to have sex with you
in the hot tub."
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Cam told Clare the same thing.
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So I'm just saying those are
the facts that I have.
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That's it.
- Rumors.
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Did you bring them to me?
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- Why would I bring that
to you?
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- That's how
relationships work.
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- If you believe
that he is making advances
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on your best friend--
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- Well, I don't want
to believe that,
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and Lily was still my friend
at that point.
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- Did you ever
ask him about it?
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- No, because I was like,
"That can't be true.
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That's sick."
- Thank you.
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- Were you guys still building
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your relationship
at that point?
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- To be honest, I don't know
when we were a friend reset,
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what that friend reset meant.
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There was a lot of reframing
for him because
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he had to hear things
in a certain way
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in order to, like, proceed.
- OK.
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- So, like, I wouldn't have
stayed if I didn't think
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that we were still trying,
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and I asked him the night
of the hot tub,
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"Do you know what you want
to do on Decision Day?"
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And you said,
"I still don't know."
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Like, you still
gave me false hope.
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Otherwise,
I wouldn't have stayed.
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- I do regret saying that
because what I meant
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when I said that was
we thought we were gonna
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say yes to the friendship.
That's how we aligned on that.
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- You were gonna say yes
to stay married?
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- We were gonna say no
to staying married
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and yes to being friends.
- OK.
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- I-- I didn't know this.
- Let me ask you this.
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At any point, did Brennan say,
"We are not in a relationship.
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We're just in a friendship?"
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- Not in those
direct words, no.
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- [laughs]
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- Also, Brennan,
you're a grown-ass man.
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If you wanted to divorce me
and leave me,
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you could have [bleep] done it.
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- You told me
that if I left you,
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you would make
my life a living hell.
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- That's a lie, but OK.
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- You said, "I want to stay
in this process with you
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"because I believe in us,
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"and if you take that away
from me,
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I will make your life
a living hell."
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- I don't believe
I ever said that to anyone.
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- OK. OK.
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- If that's what
you want to say.
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- OK.
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- OK, let's talk
about something else.
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Let me ask you.
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You tried to explain
what you considered
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the negative comments.
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- The negativity for me
is, like, a huge thing.
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That's one I'm like--
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one of my deal breakers was
a positive, positive person.
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- I'm the most positive
[bleep] person there is.
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- Saying I hate this,
I hate that, I hate this.
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♪
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- Why did Emily saying
she hated something
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affect you so much?
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- It just always brought
my energy down, man.
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Like, it's like sitting,
enjoying yourself,
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watching the game,
having a beer.
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- I'm, like, the most
unpositive person ever.
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Like, the most laughable thing.
Everyone calls me smiley.
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I'm the most positive person.
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And I made my accident,
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which was pretty tragic
and negative,
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a positive situation,
and then to say, like,
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now we didn't work
because I'm negative,
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which is just incorrect,
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and I heard nothing about it
until you're spiraling
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at our dinner, that hurts.
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- See, this is the negativity
in full force.
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- And the way you react
to negativity right now
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is the problem.
You didn't respect me.
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You didn't care about me.
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You did not take my feelings
into account at all.
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It was always about you.
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And you can believe me or not,
but that is what happened.
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- I hope you understand, like,
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because I wasn't
attracted to you and--
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- Which I honestly
don't believe that,
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either, but whatever.
- OK.
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And because I didn't want
a romantic relationship
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with you, that's why
I behaved the way I did.
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I was trying to find
any possible way
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that I could savor anything
out of this experience.
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But then it was just challenge
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after challenge
after challenge.
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- I mean,
I just will never believe
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you weren't attracted to me.
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We made out every day of the
honeymoon after the wedding.
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- That's a lie, a blatant lie.
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- It's just not.
Why would I make that up?
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- Where? Where?
We made out one time.
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- I mean, if you--
if that makes you sleep
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at night, sure.
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Who wouldn't want
to make out with me?
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I'm sorry.
- This is the delusion.
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So did I tell you straight up
to your face off camera,
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you are an attractive person,
I'm just not attracted to you?
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- Yeah.
- And that was it?
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- Yeah.
- And you didn't believe it?
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- No, I don't, but it's fine.
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- [sighs]
See?
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- And then when I said
I wanted to say
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I'm not attracted to you
and I don't like you,
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you're like,
"You can't do that. God forbid.
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"I'm not attractive?
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I'm the hottest guy
in the world."
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I had to sit you down
and be like, "Brennan,
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"I don't think you get this.
I'm an 8.5, and you're a 6.
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If you were at a bar,
you would never approach me."
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- See, this is
what's hilarious.
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You, like,
justify all these things
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of what you want to believe,
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and it makes it impossible
to tell you something
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that you don't want to hear.
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- I hope you never
treat a girl the way
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you treated me ever again.
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- It's just constant
toxic negativity at all times.
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- That you create, and I really
hope you reflect on that.
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- That you created because
you could not let me go.
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It was like--
- You are a grown-ass man, bro.
248
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- I tried to leave...
- You could have left.
249
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- So many times.
- You could have left.
250
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You could've left.
251
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- I tried to leave
so many times.
252
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- You wanted me to do it.
253
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- You could have.
Should've could've, would've.
254
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- I should have done what
I thought was best for me
255
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and not what
I thought you wanted to,
256
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and that was
my biggest mistake.
257
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- Yep, I agree.
258
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- Listen, everybody had
a hand in this.
259
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It didn't work,
and now we move forward.
260
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- Sure do.
- Yes.
261
00:08:33,167 --> 00:08:34,917
- I'm moving.
I'm growing.
262
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Therapy twice a week.
I recommend you do the same.
263
00:08:36,875 --> 00:08:39,375
- Are you dating?
- [bleep] no. I'm crippled.
264
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I just got my cast off.
- [chuckles]
265
00:08:41,375 --> 00:08:43,042
- I hate the apps.
I hate dating.
266
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I'll find my person later
or whatever.
267
00:08:46,583 --> 00:08:47,708
- Brennan, are you dating?
- Yeah.
268
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I'm in
a very happy relationship.
269
00:08:49,542 --> 00:08:51,667
- I knew it.
I knew that was gonna be it.
270
00:08:51,750 --> 00:08:53,833
- How is your relationship now,
and how is it
271
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different from your marriage?
- It's great.
272
00:08:55,583 --> 00:08:57,625
- What did you do different
in this relationship?
273
00:08:57,708 --> 00:08:59,625
- Oh,
our communication's great.
274
00:08:59,708 --> 00:09:01,625
We're always open
and honest with each other
275
00:09:01,708 --> 00:09:02,667
about how we're feeling,
you know,
276
00:09:02,750 --> 00:09:04,042
what we want to do better.
277
00:09:04,125 --> 00:09:05,833
- Are you open to feedback
with this person?
278
00:09:05,917 --> 00:09:06,958
- Absolutely.
279
00:09:07,042 --> 00:09:08,167
- I swear to God,
I hope I find her
280
00:09:08,250 --> 00:09:10,292
'cause I want to make sure
I warn her to run
281
00:09:10,375 --> 00:09:13,708
when you repeat the patterns
that you have repeated with me.
282
00:09:13,792 --> 00:09:15,042
- I should have ended
the relationship
283
00:09:15,125 --> 00:09:16,208
with you week two.
284
00:09:16,292 --> 00:09:17,750
I'm-- I don't know what else
you want from me.
285
00:09:17,833 --> 00:09:19,042
Like, I seriously don't.
286
00:09:19,125 --> 00:09:20,542
- I'm not--
I don't need anything from you.
287
00:09:20,667 --> 00:09:22,500
I'm just--
I'm worried for this girl.
288
00:09:22,542 --> 00:09:25,167
- About what? Like--
- Don't be worried about it.
289
00:09:25,292 --> 00:09:28,333
- We were in such a,
like, hostile environment--
290
00:09:28,417 --> 00:09:29,583
- That you created.
291
00:09:29,667 --> 00:09:30,750
- No, I didn't want
to be with you,
292
00:09:30,875 --> 00:09:32,833
and you kept
holding me hostage.
293
00:09:32,833 --> 00:09:34,333
- Yo.
294
00:09:34,417 --> 00:09:35,958
- And you're wondering why I...
- Yo, I held you hostage.
295
00:09:36,042 --> 00:09:37,333
- Reacted this way I did.
- I'm so scary. Whatever.
296
00:09:37,417 --> 00:09:39,458
- I mean, yeah, like,
literally, when you tell me--
297
00:09:39,542 --> 00:09:40,708
- Grown-ass man.
You have two feet.
298
00:09:40,792 --> 00:09:42,417
- When you tell me
you're gonna ruin my life
299
00:09:42,500 --> 00:09:44,250
if I break up with you,
then yeah--
300
00:09:44,333 --> 00:09:45,583
- Because that's what I say.
301
00:09:45,667 --> 00:09:46,667
I think America is gonna
believe me, no offense.
302
00:09:46,708 --> 00:09:47,917
So if you want to say that
303
00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:49,125
and that makes you sleep
at night, great.
304
00:09:49,208 --> 00:09:51,208
♪
305
00:09:51,208 --> 00:09:52,500
- Let's just move on, and
thank you guys for chatting.
306
00:09:52,625 --> 00:09:54,333
- She thinks this is,
like, a reality TV show.
307
00:09:54,375 --> 00:09:56,167
Like, it's actually--
this is not,
308
00:09:56,208 --> 00:09:58,375
for me, a reality TV show.
- It's not?
309
00:09:58,458 --> 00:09:59,583
- We are not actors.
310
00:09:59,708 --> 00:10:00,875
Like, I am a real person,
311
00:10:00,875 --> 00:10:02,167
and I'm a human.
- So am I.
312
00:10:02,292 --> 00:10:03,875
- And the way you're
treating me right now,
313
00:10:03,958 --> 00:10:05,625
like, you're just trying to
belittle me and make me feel
314
00:10:05,708 --> 00:10:07,917
like a piece of dirt
because I didn't succumb
315
00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:09,625
to what you wanted me to be.
316
00:10:09,708 --> 00:10:11,833
- You're making yourself feel
like a piece of dirt
317
00:10:11,917 --> 00:10:12,833
because that's how
you treated me.
318
00:10:12,958 --> 00:10:14,625
I'm only expressing the facts.
319
00:10:14,708 --> 00:10:16,167
- No, you're not
expressing any facts.
320
00:10:16,292 --> 00:10:17,417
- If you want to believe that--
321
00:10:17,500 --> 00:10:18,375
- You believe
you weren't perfect.
322
00:10:18,458 --> 00:10:19,500
I believe I wasn't perfect.
323
00:10:19,542 --> 00:10:20,625
We weren't right
for each other.
324
00:10:20,708 --> 00:10:22,125
- If you want
to believe whatever--
325
00:10:22,208 --> 00:10:23,792
- Please just drop it, like--
- I'm not dropping it.
326
00:10:23,875 --> 00:10:25,583
You want me to drop it because
it's negative feedback to you.
327
00:10:25,667 --> 00:10:26,958
- Like, you got to grow up.
328
00:10:27,042 --> 00:10:28,208
You're 30 years old,
and you have to, like--
329
00:10:28,333 --> 00:10:30,000
you're like, OK, like,
we just didn't work out.
330
00:10:30,042 --> 00:10:31,375
- Bleh.
Yeah.
331
00:10:31,500 --> 00:10:33,167
- Look how-- you look--
you're literally
332
00:10:33,208 --> 00:10:34,542
a college girl,
the way you're reacting.
333
00:10:34,625 --> 00:10:36,000
It's like--
- Oh, I'm a college girl.
334
00:10:36,083 --> 00:10:37,625
- You literally
can't take any criticism...
335
00:10:37,708 --> 00:10:39,042
- I'm a party girl.
- Or any feedback.
336
00:10:39,125 --> 00:10:40,000
- Because, Brennan,
get to the point because,
337
00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:41,042
like, I'm laughing because I--
338
00:10:41,167 --> 00:10:43,083
like, you--
living in your own world.
339
00:10:43,208 --> 00:10:44,875
- You literally just want
to, like, come on here,
340
00:10:44,958 --> 00:10:46,500
yell, scream,
do all these things,
341
00:10:46,583 --> 00:10:48,000
make people feel like garbage.
342
00:10:48,083 --> 00:10:49,500
I mean, it's like, why?
- Can I just say something?
343
00:10:49,542 --> 00:10:50,875
Everybody messed up.
Everybody messed up.
344
00:10:50,958 --> 00:10:52,333
- Yeah, but why
do you take it to this level?
345
00:10:52,417 --> 00:10:53,333
- Just let him go.
Just let him go.
346
00:10:53,375 --> 00:10:54,833
- Can I say something?
347
00:10:54,875 --> 00:10:58,750
Because the deception led to
mistrust and dishonesty,
348
00:10:58,875 --> 00:11:02,208
and then everything went south,
349
00:11:02,292 --> 00:11:03,375
everybody's to blame.
350
00:11:03,458 --> 00:11:04,792
That's why we just
got to move on.
351
00:11:04,875 --> 00:11:06,042
- I told you a million times.
352
00:11:06,250 --> 00:11:07,500
- We're gonna be back
with more in just a moment.
353
00:11:07,583 --> 00:11:09,042
- World War Five.
I wasn't perfect.
354
00:11:09,125 --> 00:11:09,833
- But we'll be back
with more in a moment.
355
00:11:09,917 --> 00:11:11,125
- So just stop blaming me.
356
00:11:11,458 --> 00:11:13,000
- You weren't perfect, I wasn't
perfect, let's move on.
357
00:11:13,125 --> 00:11:14,750
- Sure, if you want to make it
that simple, sure.
358
00:11:15,833 --> 00:11:17,792
- All right, guys,
let me get you guys off.
359
00:11:17,875 --> 00:11:19,500
- It's absolute-- like,
you're not a reality star.
360
00:11:19,583 --> 00:11:21,000
- I know.
I'm just like--
361
00:11:21,042 --> 00:11:23,000
- You're not a reality star.
- I'm not a reality star.
362
00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:27,000
I'm a person.
- Like, golly.
363
00:11:27,083 --> 00:11:28,333
♪
364
00:11:28,375 --> 00:11:30,375
- Thanks.
- Thank you.
365
00:11:30,500 --> 00:11:31,875
- I'm crazy.
I'm delusional.
366
00:11:31,958 --> 00:11:34,500
I'm delusional, baby.
367
00:11:34,583 --> 00:11:40,542
♪
368
00:11:40,667 --> 00:11:42,250
- We are strong.
We are brave.
369
00:11:42,375 --> 00:11:43,833
We are powerful.
370
00:11:43,917 --> 00:11:45,667
We are--
[laughs]
371
00:11:45,708 --> 00:11:48,958
No, we are the best.
We are.
372
00:11:49,083 --> 00:11:50,500
- [bleep] weird.
373
00:11:50,583 --> 00:11:52,042
I wasn't feeling bad
this morning.
374
00:11:52,125 --> 00:11:53,333
It must have
been something I ate
375
00:11:53,375 --> 00:11:55,000
or, like, coffee hit
the wrong way or something.
376
00:11:55,083 --> 00:11:57,542
I don't know.
- Girls, girls, girls.
377
00:11:57,667 --> 00:11:59,667
Well, that's over.
- One, two, three.
378
00:11:59,792 --> 00:12:00,958
- How do you feel?
- Fine.
379
00:12:01,042 --> 00:12:03,333
- OK.
- He is a psychopath.
380
00:12:03,417 --> 00:12:04,333
- Where's Austin?
Is he dead?
381
00:12:04,417 --> 00:12:06,375
- I think he's [bleep].
- Still?
382
00:12:06,458 --> 00:12:08,833
- Still?
- Holy [bleep].
383
00:12:08,875 --> 00:12:10,583
- Sounds like he might have
picked something up.
384
00:12:10,667 --> 00:12:13,625
[upbeat music]
385
00:12:13,708 --> 00:12:15,375
♪
386
00:12:15,458 --> 00:12:16,750
- All right.
387
00:12:20,542 --> 00:12:22,458
- No, my stomach
feels like crap,
388
00:12:22,542 --> 00:12:23,917
and I don't want cameras on me.
389
00:12:27,792 --> 00:12:29,542
[upbeat music]
390
00:12:29,625 --> 00:12:31,292
- Yeah, I just feel like
no matter what,
391
00:12:31,375 --> 00:12:33,125
we're gonna be fine
because we have each other,
392
00:12:33,208 --> 00:12:35,458
and we've gone through some
[bleep] times than this, girls.
393
00:12:35,542 --> 00:12:38,000
- This is the best of the best.
- This is the easiest part.
394
00:12:38,083 --> 00:12:39,333
- Yeah, this is the easy part.
395
00:12:39,375 --> 00:12:40,708
We did the hard part.
396
00:12:40,833 --> 00:12:43,167
We lived through
the manipulation,
397
00:12:43,292 --> 00:12:45,375
the emotional exhaustion.
- Gaslighting.
398
00:12:45,458 --> 00:12:46,917
- The gaslighting.
399
00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:48,292
And now we get to speak...
- The unappreciation.
400
00:12:48,375 --> 00:12:50,333
- Our truth.
401
00:12:50,375 --> 00:12:52,667
- So Austin got the [bleep].
402
00:12:52,750 --> 00:12:54,833
- He went back to rest up.
403
00:12:54,917 --> 00:12:57,417
- Must be nice.
- [laughs]
404
00:12:57,500 --> 00:13:01,000
- What can you do about
a stomach bug, you know?
405
00:13:01,083 --> 00:13:03,500
- Get a seat.
Get a seat. Get a seat.
406
00:13:03,583 --> 00:13:05,417
♪
407
00:13:05,500 --> 00:13:06,875
- [sighs]
- [sighs]
408
00:13:06,958 --> 00:13:09,333
- Ready? Ready?
- All right, guys.
409
00:13:09,375 --> 00:13:10,500
- OK, here we go.
410
00:13:10,583 --> 00:13:14,125
♪
411
00:13:14,208 --> 00:13:16,375
- Welcome back to "Married
at First Sight" reunion.
412
00:13:16,500 --> 00:13:19,708
Joining me now are the men
from Denver for this reunion
413
00:13:19,833 --> 00:13:21,833
that is like no other.
414
00:13:21,917 --> 00:13:24,833
We have Brennan, Orion,
Michael, and Cameron here.
415
00:13:24,875 --> 00:13:27,875
Austin, well,
we're gonna start without him.
416
00:13:27,958 --> 00:13:29,000
He's not feeling well
right now.
417
00:13:29,042 --> 00:13:30,833
If he can, he'll join us.
418
00:13:30,875 --> 00:13:32,875
All right, first of all,
we know this season
419
00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:35,042
has been different
and that we are learning things
420
00:13:35,125 --> 00:13:36,667
about how it went down
421
00:13:36,708 --> 00:13:39,000
and how you guys
might have tried
422
00:13:39,083 --> 00:13:41,292
to play the game a little bit,
423
00:13:41,375 --> 00:13:43,708
and I also hear
that you are unhappy.
424
00:13:43,792 --> 00:13:45,333
You feel like the ladies
are getting their say,
425
00:13:45,375 --> 00:13:47,958
that the ladies are getting
to kind of
426
00:13:48,042 --> 00:13:51,000
rule the roost so far.
Let me say this.
427
00:13:51,042 --> 00:13:53,542
It is very hard for us
to decipher
428
00:13:53,625 --> 00:13:54,917
what is real and what is not,
429
00:13:55,042 --> 00:13:58,333
but this is your moment
to speak your mind.
430
00:13:58,417 --> 00:14:00,458
Just like the ladies got out
what they wanted to say,
431
00:14:00,542 --> 00:14:02,833
you have the opportunity now
to say what you want to say.
432
00:14:02,917 --> 00:14:05,958
- Yeah, I think
the biggest thing is
433
00:14:06,042 --> 00:14:09,083
you can want to be
in a successful marriage
434
00:14:09,167 --> 00:14:10,583
and not want to be with someone
435
00:14:10,708 --> 00:14:12,125
in a marriage.
- Mm-hmm.
436
00:14:12,125 --> 00:14:14,000
And I think it's really easy
to go back and say,
437
00:14:14,083 --> 00:14:15,208
"Why did the marriage fail?"
438
00:14:15,292 --> 00:14:17,167
"Oh, well, clearly,
his intentions
439
00:14:17,250 --> 00:14:19,958
weren't there," when you
don't go through this process
440
00:14:20,042 --> 00:14:21,417
with ill intentions.
441
00:14:21,500 --> 00:14:23,875
It is way too difficult
because there are plenty
442
00:14:23,958 --> 00:14:26,125
of other shows out there
that you can get away
443
00:14:26,208 --> 00:14:27,333
with having
ill intentions, right?
444
00:14:27,417 --> 00:14:29,708
But this show is different,
and that's why
445
00:14:29,792 --> 00:14:31,792
I felt comfortable
going through this
446
00:14:31,875 --> 00:14:34,917
because I felt like this
was free matchmaking.
447
00:14:35,042 --> 00:14:37,250
I did not think
that this was
448
00:14:37,333 --> 00:14:39,375
a reality show where
my entire life
449
00:14:39,458 --> 00:14:40,708
would be disclosed.
450
00:14:40,792 --> 00:14:43,125
- Well, I mean,
when you get married,
451
00:14:43,208 --> 00:14:47,167
marriage is your life, and you
build a family with someone
452
00:14:47,208 --> 00:14:49,125
who is your partner
for life, and everything
453
00:14:49,208 --> 00:14:51,000
goes forward from there.
454
00:14:51,125 --> 00:14:53,833
You were not happy
with your partner.
455
00:14:53,917 --> 00:14:55,708
You were not happy
with your match.
456
00:14:55,792 --> 00:14:57,250
Do you think
you should have been
457
00:14:57,333 --> 00:14:58,958
more transparent and honest
about that from the beginning?
458
00:14:59,042 --> 00:15:00,708
- Absolutely.
459
00:15:00,792 --> 00:15:03,792
I think I did myself
a disservice.
460
00:15:03,792 --> 00:15:09,708
I think the marriage wouldn't
have lasted as long as it did
461
00:15:09,792 --> 00:15:11,750
had I been fully transparent.
462
00:15:11,833 --> 00:15:16,167
I was silent to try to protect
the feelings of my partner
463
00:15:16,250 --> 00:15:19,167
rather than express my truth,
464
00:15:19,208 --> 00:15:22,458
and I think
that ultimately hurt me
465
00:15:22,542 --> 00:15:24,500
very much in the process,
466
00:15:24,542 --> 00:15:26,583
and I think it hurt her
in the process as well.
467
00:15:26,667 --> 00:15:29,875
- Yeah, no, she's hurt,
and that's what you're seeing,
468
00:15:29,958 --> 00:15:32,208
the manifestation
of that moment.
469
00:15:32,208 --> 00:15:34,625
By the way, I do want
to give you a second to address
470
00:15:34,708 --> 00:15:38,375
that every time you speak,
the women are just like,
471
00:15:38,542 --> 00:15:40,583
"You're lying, you're lying,
you're lying."
472
00:15:40,667 --> 00:15:42,833
How do you respond to that?
473
00:15:42,917 --> 00:15:44,625
- Challenge them
on their story.
474
00:15:44,708 --> 00:15:47,667
Every time you challenge them
on their story, it cracks.
475
00:15:47,708 --> 00:15:51,333
I mean, you ask Emily,
he was so attracted to you,
476
00:15:51,417 --> 00:15:53,167
how did he all of a sudden
just stop?
477
00:15:53,208 --> 00:15:55,208
Oh, I don't know.
It must be a him thing.
478
00:15:55,292 --> 00:15:57,667
Well, the reality is
we kissed one time
479
00:15:57,708 --> 00:15:59,250
on the entire honeymoon.
480
00:15:59,375 --> 00:16:00,833
So there was
no misleading there.
481
00:16:00,917 --> 00:16:03,292
It was very difficult
for me in those moments
482
00:16:03,292 --> 00:16:04,792
because I was forcing myself
483
00:16:04,875 --> 00:16:06,167
to do something
I didn't want to do,
484
00:16:06,250 --> 00:16:08,667
so I would remember that
extremely clearly.
485
00:16:08,750 --> 00:16:14,167
So there's just this sense
of being told things
486
00:16:14,250 --> 00:16:17,042
that didn't happen
and then their stories
487
00:16:17,042 --> 00:16:18,917
just mismatching,
and it's like,
488
00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:20,500
how can we
be lying about that?
489
00:16:20,625 --> 00:16:22,500
Like, I know what I did.
490
00:16:22,542 --> 00:16:24,500
- You know, Lauren and Orion,
their marriage ended early,
491
00:16:24,542 --> 00:16:26,250
but at least they lived their--
you know,
492
00:16:26,375 --> 00:16:28,042
that was their truth,
and he was like,
493
00:16:28,125 --> 00:16:30,000
this isn't gonna work for me.
I'm gonna get out.
494
00:16:30,083 --> 00:16:32,125
I'm moving on.
- Mm-hmm.
495
00:16:32,208 --> 00:16:36,167
- Orion, what about
your relationship with Lauren
496
00:16:36,208 --> 00:16:39,125
and how it kind of
has now turned into
497
00:16:39,208 --> 00:16:41,625
a contentious situation?
498
00:16:41,708 --> 00:16:43,458
- It has,
which is, you know,
499
00:16:43,542 --> 00:16:46,542
really unfortunate
because once, you know,
500
00:16:46,625 --> 00:16:48,375
things had ended,
I was really hoping that,
501
00:16:48,458 --> 00:16:50,250
you know, we could find our way
502
00:16:50,333 --> 00:16:52,417
to being civil
towards each other,
503
00:16:52,500 --> 00:16:56,167
you know, just to make
the end of the process
504
00:16:56,250 --> 00:16:58,625
manageable for both of us.
505
00:16:58,708 --> 00:17:03,875
And so, you know, it was a lot
of push and pull, you know,
506
00:17:03,958 --> 00:17:06,000
for a long time,
and I think we just kept
507
00:17:06,042 --> 00:17:09,000
missing the mark, you know,
for the communication,
508
00:17:09,083 --> 00:17:11,583
the topic of conversation,
things like that.
509
00:17:11,667 --> 00:17:13,625
And so it just--
510
00:17:13,708 --> 00:17:16,000
it-- it was always a miss.
511
00:17:16,042 --> 00:17:18,583
And so, you know,
right now I just--
512
00:17:18,667 --> 00:17:22,250
I really hope the best
for her and that, you know,
513
00:17:22,375 --> 00:17:24,417
we can still walk away
from this as civilly
514
00:17:24,542 --> 00:17:28,000
as possible with each other.
- Mm-hmm.
515
00:17:28,083 --> 00:17:30,458
Cameron, there were accusations
that you tapped out.
516
00:17:30,542 --> 00:17:31,667
You were just like,
"I'm getting out of this,
517
00:17:31,708 --> 00:17:33,125
no matter what."
518
00:17:33,208 --> 00:17:34,792
And we understand
you had a medical situation,
519
00:17:34,875 --> 00:17:38,333
but the ladies were saying,
"Oh, no, he-- he wanted out,
520
00:17:38,375 --> 00:17:40,542
"and he got out.
He found a way out."
521
00:17:40,625 --> 00:17:43,833
- Yeah, I found a way, right?
[sighs]
522
00:17:43,917 --> 00:17:45,500
All I can tell you, right,
523
00:17:45,542 --> 00:17:48,458
is what the doctors told me...
- Mm-hmm.
524
00:17:48,542 --> 00:17:51,042
- Which is that
what I experienced,
525
00:17:51,167 --> 00:17:53,125
it's not hereditary.
- Mm-hmm.
526
00:17:53,208 --> 00:17:56,000
- It's a purely stress-induced
trauma to the heart,
527
00:17:56,042 --> 00:17:58,167
literally a broken heart.
528
00:17:58,292 --> 00:18:01,667
Me announcing
my divorce to the group,
529
00:18:01,792 --> 00:18:05,292
it was that night
that I went into flutter.
530
00:18:05,375 --> 00:18:06,625
- Mm.
531
00:18:06,708 --> 00:18:08,833
- And, you know, since Becca
mentioned receipts,
532
00:18:08,917 --> 00:18:11,833
I figured
I'd bring some receipts.
533
00:18:11,958 --> 00:18:14,833
And that's where
I was shocked back.
534
00:18:14,917 --> 00:18:15,875
- Oh, yeah, that's your EKG.
535
00:18:15,958 --> 00:18:17,667
- Yeah, and-- and here's--
536
00:18:17,792 --> 00:18:20,000
here's the shock right here.
- Where your heart stopped?
537
00:18:20,083 --> 00:18:22,333
- Yep, three times.
538
00:18:22,417 --> 00:18:27,125
So I guess
I found a way out, right?
539
00:18:27,208 --> 00:18:28,917
- I sense that having,
you know,
540
00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,583
a moment like that
brings you clarity
541
00:18:31,667 --> 00:18:33,083
on what you see in life.
542
00:18:33,167 --> 00:18:34,958
- I learned a lot of lessons.
543
00:18:35,042 --> 00:18:36,333
- Mm-hmm.
544
00:18:36,458 --> 00:18:38,333
- And something I learned
545
00:18:38,375 --> 00:18:42,500
is to advocate for myself.
546
00:18:42,542 --> 00:18:45,708
Sometimes people are not
how they present themselves,
547
00:18:45,833 --> 00:18:50,500
and I've always lived my life,
give full trust.
548
00:18:50,583 --> 00:18:54,250
And I realize maybe it's easier
to give no one any trust
549
00:18:54,333 --> 00:18:55,833
and make them earn it.
- Mm-hmm.
550
00:18:55,875 --> 00:18:59,000
- And it makes me sad.
551
00:18:59,083 --> 00:19:01,542
But my lesson learned
is to use my head
552
00:19:01,667 --> 00:19:05,000
a little more than my heart.
- Mm.
553
00:19:05,083 --> 00:19:08,333
Michael,
I thought that Chloe came in
554
00:19:08,375 --> 00:19:10,875
as a breath of fresh air.
How did that make you feel?
555
00:19:10,958 --> 00:19:12,375
- Chloe was
a breath of fresh air.
556
00:19:12,458 --> 00:19:14,375
I mean, obviously,
I knew I wanted
557
00:19:14,458 --> 00:19:16,167
to go into this
second opportunity
558
00:19:16,250 --> 00:19:18,375
without having
any residue from the first,
559
00:19:18,500 --> 00:19:22,000
but I also knew that it
would be extremely helpful
560
00:19:22,042 --> 00:19:26,125
if my partner echoed
qualities that would
561
00:19:26,208 --> 00:19:28,208
ease me and make that easier.
562
00:19:28,333 --> 00:19:32,458
And just her whole demeanor
made that easy for me.
563
00:19:32,542 --> 00:19:35,542
It validated for me
and instilled confidence
564
00:19:35,625 --> 00:19:37,250
that there isn't
gonna be any residue
565
00:19:37,333 --> 00:19:39,250
from this first experience.
566
00:19:39,375 --> 00:19:41,125
I'm already committed to that,
but now I have someone that
567
00:19:41,208 --> 00:19:43,208
will help me go through that.
- Mm-hmm.
568
00:19:43,208 --> 00:19:44,875
And by the way, there are
lots of people saying,
569
00:19:44,958 --> 00:19:46,333
"Oh, they staged this.
570
00:19:46,375 --> 00:19:47,375
"Why would they let him
walk out there
571
00:19:47,458 --> 00:19:49,667
and then the lady
turn around and say no?"
572
00:19:49,750 --> 00:19:51,292
Was this staged?
- No.
573
00:19:51,375 --> 00:19:53,833
[laughs]
By no means was it staged.
574
00:19:53,917 --> 00:19:56,667
And the audience probably
doesn't mean any malice.
575
00:19:56,750 --> 00:19:59,167
That's just how they feel
in terms of how
576
00:19:59,333 --> 00:20:00,917
everything was presented,
but it can be tough
577
00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:02,125
at times because
it's like, well,
578
00:20:02,208 --> 00:20:03,917
those were real emotions
from me.
579
00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:05,333
- That's what I was gonna say.
580
00:20:05,417 --> 00:20:07,750
It didn't look to me
like you were acting
581
00:20:07,875 --> 00:20:09,375
when you went in there
582
00:20:09,458 --> 00:20:10,542
and when you were with
your closest friends,
583
00:20:10,625 --> 00:20:12,333
and you broke down.
- I did.
584
00:20:12,417 --> 00:20:14,292
I mean, I was doing my best
up to that point
585
00:20:14,375 --> 00:20:17,750
to not break down because
I wanted to maintain a level
586
00:20:17,833 --> 00:20:19,250
of strength in that moment.
587
00:20:19,375 --> 00:20:20,917
You know,
there's a bit of pride
588
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,417
that comes in, right,
and especially
589
00:20:22,500 --> 00:20:24,042
among my friends and family.
590
00:20:24,125 --> 00:20:25,583
I didn't want them
to worry any more
591
00:20:25,667 --> 00:20:27,625
than they already were worried.
- Mm-hmm.
592
00:20:27,708 --> 00:20:29,333
- But it did become
a little bit overwhelming
593
00:20:29,417 --> 00:20:32,167
just because as I'm
recapping everything,
594
00:20:32,292 --> 00:20:34,292
as I'm seeing their reaction,
that kind of just
595
00:20:34,375 --> 00:20:36,500
created that rush of emotion.
- Mm-hmm.
596
00:20:36,542 --> 00:20:38,625
It was a tough--
it was a tough thing to watch.
597
00:20:38,708 --> 00:20:41,958
I mean, what good
will you take out of this?
598
00:20:42,042 --> 00:20:43,708
What will you walk away--
599
00:20:43,708 --> 00:20:45,708
Brennan, how will you walk away
from this with a positive?
600
00:20:45,792 --> 00:20:47,083
- Yeah, I think
there's a way to be
601
00:20:47,208 --> 00:20:50,458
honest and respectful
at the same time
602
00:20:50,542 --> 00:20:52,750
while also
still telling your truth.
603
00:20:52,875 --> 00:20:55,792
And I think, for me,
I will never sell myself
604
00:20:55,875 --> 00:20:59,042
short of that again
because it never does
605
00:20:59,125 --> 00:21:00,792
anyone good in the long run.
606
00:21:00,875 --> 00:21:03,125
- And by the way,
everybody needs to understand,
607
00:21:03,208 --> 00:21:05,875
sometimes it just
doesn't work, and it's OK.
608
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,625
It is OK to say
it doesn't work.
609
00:21:08,708 --> 00:21:11,333
And it's happened in seasons
before where people have gone
610
00:21:11,375 --> 00:21:13,000
along, and they said,
"I'm just gonna go along
611
00:21:13,042 --> 00:21:15,208
and try and make her happy,"
and it just builds up
612
00:21:15,292 --> 00:21:18,250
animosity and builds it up.
613
00:21:18,333 --> 00:21:19,625
You guys, thanks for coming
out here,
614
00:21:19,708 --> 00:21:21,375
sitting down,
and telling your truth.
615
00:21:21,458 --> 00:21:23,167
And I'll see you back
out here in a minute
616
00:21:23,292 --> 00:21:24,833
when everybody gets together.
617
00:21:24,917 --> 00:21:26,542
- Definitely.
618
00:21:26,625 --> 00:21:27,750
- And hopefully we can
lower the temperature.
619
00:21:27,833 --> 00:21:28,958
All right?
620
00:21:29,042 --> 00:21:30,125
We're gonna take a quick break.
621
00:21:30,208 --> 00:21:31,292
We'll be right back
with more
622
00:21:31,375 --> 00:21:32,833
"Married at First Sight"
in just a moment.
623
00:21:32,875 --> 00:21:35,500
[upbeat music]
624
00:21:37,208 --> 00:21:38,833
Cam, are you feeling all right?
- Yeah.
625
00:21:38,917 --> 00:21:42,083
- OK, get a little color
back in your face.
626
00:21:42,167 --> 00:21:43,750
- All right, man.
627
00:21:45,417 --> 00:21:47,667
- You did good out there, man.
628
00:21:47,750 --> 00:21:49,417
- None of these men
are men we would have
629
00:21:49,500 --> 00:21:51,542
ever given a second glance at.
630
00:21:51,625 --> 00:21:52,750
- You have ugly souls.
631
00:21:52,875 --> 00:21:54,875
- They're hideous
inside and out.
632
00:21:54,875 --> 00:21:58,833
- And we're letting these
low-budget Temu Shein men
633
00:21:58,875 --> 00:22:01,583
drive us crazy.
- I need you for this.
634
00:22:01,667 --> 00:22:02,708
- Cameron?
635
00:22:02,833 --> 00:22:04,750
- I almost had
to leave out there.
636
00:22:04,875 --> 00:22:07,208
- It's starting to hit you?
- Oh, bad.
637
00:22:07,333 --> 00:22:09,208
It's just that
central nervous system shock.
638
00:22:09,292 --> 00:22:11,208
I can't take any more
medication for at least,
639
00:22:11,292 --> 00:22:13,000
like, another hour or two.
I am maxed out.
640
00:22:13,083 --> 00:22:15,667
- Dude, do not go out there
if you are on the verge.
641
00:22:17,333 --> 00:22:19,167
- I absolutely am.
- Oh, man.
642
00:22:19,250 --> 00:22:20,375
- I would really love
to go and lie down.
643
00:22:20,458 --> 00:22:22,333
Like, I should just leave.
644
00:22:22,333 --> 00:22:23,708
I don't want to go out there.
645
00:22:23,792 --> 00:22:24,875
If I could barely survive that,
646
00:22:24,958 --> 00:22:26,208
how the [bleep]
am I supposed to survive
647
00:22:26,208 --> 00:22:27,292
what's about to happen?
648
00:22:31,583 --> 00:22:33,083
- Dude, you can go.
649
00:22:33,167 --> 00:22:34,458
If Austin can leave
from the [bleep],
650
00:22:34,542 --> 00:22:36,583
you can leave
for a [bleep] heart attack.
651
00:22:36,667 --> 00:22:38,500
This [bleep] is
not worth it, bro.
652
00:22:38,542 --> 00:22:40,333
- Yeah, I mean,
honestly, Cameron,
653
00:22:40,375 --> 00:22:42,792
if it's scaring you now,
it's not worth it.
654
00:22:42,875 --> 00:22:44,917
- Go rest and then see
how you feel with the experts.
655
00:22:45,042 --> 00:22:46,500
- Yeah.
- OK.
656
00:22:46,583 --> 00:22:47,542
Thanks, guys.
- Yeah, man.
657
00:22:47,625 --> 00:22:48,833
- Yeah.
658
00:22:48,917 --> 00:22:49,875
- We need to start moving
you guys to set now.
659
00:22:49,958 --> 00:22:51,583
- Oh, God.
660
00:22:51,708 --> 00:22:52,750
- OK, good luck, guys.
- Feel better, man.
661
00:22:52,833 --> 00:22:54,125
Get some rest.
- Feel better, man.
662
00:22:54,208 --> 00:22:55,792
- Rest, dude.
663
00:22:55,875 --> 00:22:58,792
[upbeat music]
664
00:22:58,875 --> 00:23:04,625
♪
665
00:23:04,708 --> 00:23:07,000
- Same seats as last time.
- Great.
666
00:23:07,083 --> 00:23:10,042
- My Spanx are on backwards.
- I'm so done with this day.
667
00:23:10,125 --> 00:23:11,333
Clare...
- It's crazy.
668
00:23:11,417 --> 00:23:12,125
- I need you to stop
being negative.
669
00:23:12,208 --> 00:23:13,500
- I know.
670
00:23:13,542 --> 00:23:15,125
- I need your bad bitch
energy channeled.
671
00:23:15,208 --> 00:23:17,125
I need Cam to suck a [bleep].
- Right?
672
00:23:17,125 --> 00:23:18,250
- Brennan can suck a [bleep].
673
00:23:18,375 --> 00:23:21,000
And we are hot,
out-of-their-league,
674
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:22,333
bad bitch [bleep].
675
00:23:22,375 --> 00:23:25,500
[dramatic music]
676
00:23:25,583 --> 00:23:27,167
- When Cameron is upset,
he runs.
677
00:23:27,250 --> 00:23:28,458
What's new?
678
00:23:32,375 --> 00:23:34,208
- Welcome back.
679
00:23:34,292 --> 00:23:35,500
I'm Kevin Frazier,
and you are watching
680
00:23:35,583 --> 00:23:37,208
the "Married at First Sight"
Denver reunion.
681
00:23:37,333 --> 00:23:39,833
In a season full of deception,
682
00:23:39,958 --> 00:23:41,750
we're gonna try
and end with some truth.
683
00:23:41,833 --> 00:23:44,208
Now I feel like
we tried to outcoach
684
00:23:44,333 --> 00:23:46,375
the coach this season,
and the team lost.
685
00:23:46,458 --> 00:23:48,125
So now let's go back
to practice.
686
00:23:48,208 --> 00:23:50,458
I do want to mention that
Austin isn't feeling well
687
00:23:50,542 --> 00:23:52,958
and Cameron
is resting right now.
688
00:23:53,042 --> 00:23:54,333
Becca?
- Yes?
689
00:23:54,417 --> 00:23:55,917
- Why don't we start with you?
690
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,167
Austin isn't here,
but is there anything
691
00:23:58,208 --> 00:24:02,333
you would like to say to
address how this season went?
692
00:24:02,375 --> 00:24:04,750
- I feel like I said
what I needed to say,
693
00:24:04,833 --> 00:24:07,583
and at this point,
I just want to move forward
694
00:24:07,667 --> 00:24:09,667
and continue on with
the next chapter of my life.
695
00:24:09,750 --> 00:24:12,500
- And leave this behind you?
- Yeah.
696
00:24:12,583 --> 00:24:14,500
- Michael, how about you?
697
00:24:14,583 --> 00:24:16,667
- No, I think for me,
I really thank you
698
00:24:16,667 --> 00:24:20,125
and appreciate you for sharing
the hindsight that you've had.
699
00:24:20,208 --> 00:24:22,500
Obviously, it wasn't
the easiest thing to hear,
700
00:24:22,583 --> 00:24:25,792
but understanding that even
some actions that I may
701
00:24:25,917 --> 00:24:28,167
have thought were innocuous
and how they impacted you,
702
00:24:28,208 --> 00:24:29,750
it was important for me.
703
00:24:29,875 --> 00:24:31,375
So I want to thank you
for that.
704
00:24:31,458 --> 00:24:34,417
I want to reiterate
my apology to you.
705
00:24:34,500 --> 00:24:39,958
I never gave us the platform
to find a solution.
706
00:24:40,042 --> 00:24:42,917
That's accountability that
I want to take wholeheartedly.
707
00:24:43,042 --> 00:24:46,292
And you deserved that.
708
00:24:46,375 --> 00:24:47,750
[soft dramatic music]
709
00:24:47,833 --> 00:24:49,875
And so I want to take
this moment to say that.
710
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:51,417
- That's what
reflection sounds like.
711
00:24:51,542 --> 00:24:53,333
- Yeah.
712
00:24:53,375 --> 00:24:56,708
- Brennan, is there something
that you would like to say?
713
00:24:56,792 --> 00:25:01,500
- Yeah, I feel like we had good
intentions going into this,
714
00:25:01,583 --> 00:25:05,500
and ultimately,
our relationships did not work,
715
00:25:05,500 --> 00:25:07,500
and I think
to beat ourselves up
716
00:25:07,625 --> 00:25:10,000
over every little situation
of who was right,
717
00:25:10,083 --> 00:25:12,083
who was wrong, it's like,
718
00:25:12,167 --> 00:25:15,583
we are adults, and we have
to take responsibility
719
00:25:15,708 --> 00:25:18,917
for what we've done
and move on from it.
720
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,208
- What do you want
to take responsibility for?
721
00:25:21,292 --> 00:25:24,083
- I want to take responsibility
for not expressing
722
00:25:24,167 --> 00:25:26,583
my full truth to you,
723
00:25:26,667 --> 00:25:28,458
and I'm sorry.
724
00:25:28,542 --> 00:25:30,792
I should have been
much more transparent
725
00:25:30,875 --> 00:25:32,500
and expressive in my thoughts.
726
00:25:32,583 --> 00:25:33,958
- I appreciate that.
727
00:25:34,042 --> 00:25:35,833
I don't really believe you,
and I don't really think
728
00:25:35,958 --> 00:25:38,792
that's genuine, because
if you really were sorry,
729
00:25:38,875 --> 00:25:40,250
you had a lot
of opportunities to tell me
730
00:25:40,333 --> 00:25:42,375
that before this circle.
731
00:25:42,458 --> 00:25:44,917
I just feel like when
it's benefiting you
732
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,375
is when you decide
to fake apologize.
733
00:25:48,375 --> 00:25:50,292
- See, this is the energy,
right?
734
00:25:50,375 --> 00:25:52,667
This is the toxic energy
that you bring,
735
00:25:52,708 --> 00:25:54,750
always, and this is genuine.
736
00:25:54,833 --> 00:25:56,167
- If that makes you
sleep at night,
737
00:25:56,208 --> 00:25:57,750
that's great.
738
00:25:57,833 --> 00:26:01,208
I wouldn't say this is toxic,
but I do appreciate
739
00:26:01,292 --> 00:26:04,292
you acknowledging
and taking accountability
740
00:26:04,375 --> 00:26:06,792
for whatever you think you're
taking accountability for.
741
00:26:06,875 --> 00:26:08,500
- Amen.
742
00:26:08,583 --> 00:26:10,333
- Clare, Cameron left,
and you don't have
743
00:26:10,458 --> 00:26:11,667
a chance to talk to him,
744
00:26:11,708 --> 00:26:15,292
but do you have
a message to him?
745
00:26:15,375 --> 00:26:18,917
- We had a true friendship,
true teammate mentality.
746
00:26:19,042 --> 00:26:21,708
I realize that
that whole teammate mentality
747
00:26:21,833 --> 00:26:24,542
was created on
a rocky foundation,
748
00:26:24,542 --> 00:26:26,542
which was constructed of lies,
749
00:26:26,625 --> 00:26:29,042
deceit, hatred, resentment.
750
00:26:29,125 --> 00:26:30,583
That was not real.
751
00:26:30,667 --> 00:26:32,708
- I will say that this
is no shade to anybody
752
00:26:32,792 --> 00:26:34,417
on the stage at all,
but sometimes you just
753
00:26:34,500 --> 00:26:36,083
got to let that [bleep] go.
- Yeah.
754
00:26:36,208 --> 00:26:38,417
- Sometimes you don't get
the apology you deserve,
755
00:26:38,500 --> 00:26:39,833
and sometimes
you just have to say,
756
00:26:39,917 --> 00:26:43,417
you know what, this is
too heavy for me to hold on to.
757
00:26:43,500 --> 00:26:44,917
- Bottom line,
he knows the truth.
758
00:26:45,042 --> 00:26:46,167
I know the truth.
Y'all know the truth.
759
00:26:46,250 --> 00:26:47,708
- Yeah.
760
00:26:47,792 --> 00:26:48,875
- I can't act and be
what you want me to do
761
00:26:48,958 --> 00:26:50,833
and play this dance
and do the song
762
00:26:50,917 --> 00:26:52,833
because that's not me.
He could.
763
00:26:52,917 --> 00:26:54,542
That's the difference.
It's not on footage.
764
00:26:54,625 --> 00:26:55,667
It is what it is.
765
00:26:55,750 --> 00:26:57,750
Believe me,
don't, I don't care.
766
00:26:57,833 --> 00:26:59,458
- I also
just need to point out,
767
00:26:59,542 --> 00:27:00,708
like, why don't we
believe Clare?
768
00:27:00,792 --> 00:27:01,833
This happens in the afterparty.
It happens--
769
00:27:01,917 --> 00:27:03,625
- How are we
not believing Clare?
770
00:27:03,708 --> 00:27:05,042
- I just feel like she--
while there is stuff
771
00:27:05,167 --> 00:27:08,208
off camera, like,
people want to keep digging
772
00:27:08,292 --> 00:27:09,583
and digging and digging.
773
00:27:09,667 --> 00:27:11,500
- Like who?
- Like you.
774
00:27:11,542 --> 00:27:12,917
- What do you think
I'm digging for?
775
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:17,000
- I just feel like there's
no grace shown to her,
776
00:27:17,083 --> 00:27:19,167
and I feel like she's
disrespected and dismissed.
777
00:27:19,208 --> 00:27:20,333
- Emily, hold on, stop.
778
00:27:20,417 --> 00:27:21,542
- Does that, like,
translate to you?
779
00:27:21,667 --> 00:27:22,250
[tense music]
780
00:27:26,167 --> 00:27:27,500
- Emily, hold on, stop.
Stop for a second.
781
00:27:27,625 --> 00:27:28,667
Stop for a second.
- I'm sorry. It just like--
782
00:27:28,875 --> 00:27:30,458
- You yelling at me
doesn't change anything, OK?
783
00:27:30,542 --> 00:27:31,750
I'm not gonna get rattled
because you're yelling at me.
784
00:27:31,833 --> 00:27:33,667
- I mean, I'm not--
785
00:27:33,792 --> 00:27:35,000
- I'm gonna talk to you
and tell you the truth.
786
00:27:35,083 --> 00:27:36,208
- OK.
- OK?
787
00:27:36,333 --> 00:27:37,625
You disrespected this show.
788
00:27:37,708 --> 00:27:38,958
You-- you understand that,
right?
789
00:27:39,042 --> 00:27:41,167
- Oh, no, no, no.
- You did disrespect the show.
790
00:27:41,250 --> 00:27:42,500
You disrespected the show.
791
00:27:42,625 --> 00:27:44,125
You disrespected
the people who watch it.
792
00:27:44,208 --> 00:27:45,833
You disrespected the people
who work for this show.
793
00:27:45,875 --> 00:27:48,000
And the truth is
is that everybody
794
00:27:48,042 --> 00:27:49,542
was a part of the deception.
795
00:27:49,542 --> 00:27:50,833
Everybody was a part of it.
796
00:27:50,875 --> 00:27:52,958
I believe you were deceived
by your husband,
797
00:27:53,042 --> 00:27:55,917
and it led you down a road
that ended up hurting you, OK?
798
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,625
But I also believe
that everybody went along
799
00:27:58,708 --> 00:28:00,333
with this scripting thing,
800
00:28:00,417 --> 00:28:02,792
and that hurt the process, too.
801
00:28:02,875 --> 00:28:04,792
And it's unfortunate
that we couldn't have paused
802
00:28:04,875 --> 00:28:06,125
and said...
- Yeah.
803
00:28:06,208 --> 00:28:07,708
- Whoa.
- Yeah.
804
00:28:07,792 --> 00:28:10,000
- This is crazy and wrong.
805
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,167
- We did that eventually,
and to even do that,
806
00:28:12,250 --> 00:28:14,917
for us to be speaking
the way that we're speaking,
807
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:16,875
took so much strength
and courage.
808
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,458
- I feel like a lot
of this frustration
809
00:28:18,542 --> 00:28:20,333
is coming up
because they felt like
810
00:28:20,417 --> 00:28:23,083
they couldn't talk about this
when it was happening.
811
00:28:23,208 --> 00:28:25,875
So now they're like,
"I need to get it out."
812
00:28:25,958 --> 00:28:30,042
- Look, we're all about
get it out and say your piece.
813
00:28:30,125 --> 00:28:32,667
All right,
it's time to move on.
814
00:28:32,750 --> 00:28:36,125
Brennan, why didn't
your relationship work?
815
00:28:36,208 --> 00:28:38,667
- I felt there was
a massive mismatch
816
00:28:38,792 --> 00:28:40,333
from the very beginning.
817
00:28:40,417 --> 00:28:42,833
And the hurdles that we
encountered very early on,
818
00:28:42,875 --> 00:28:45,292
I personally
could not get over.
819
00:28:45,375 --> 00:28:46,750
- What were the hurdles?
820
00:28:46,833 --> 00:28:48,208
- When I first saw you,
I was like, pretty girl,
821
00:28:48,292 --> 00:28:50,875
you know, cool, fun,
making me feel comfortable.
822
00:28:50,958 --> 00:28:52,625
An hour later,
I'm talking with your friends,
823
00:28:52,708 --> 00:28:54,875
and they're telling me that
you get ghosted all the time.
824
00:28:54,875 --> 00:28:57,167
You love one-night stands.
You're selfish.
825
00:28:57,250 --> 00:28:58,875
- I don't think they said
I had one-night stands
826
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,750
or I'm selfish.
- Someone was telling me that.
827
00:29:01,875 --> 00:29:03,625
So I'm already feeling
turned off at this point.
828
00:29:03,708 --> 00:29:05,708
So the next day, we talk.
829
00:29:05,792 --> 00:29:06,625
You have no idea
where your money goes.
830
00:29:06,708 --> 00:29:08,500
Alarm.
831
00:29:08,542 --> 00:29:09,792
- I make more money
than you, OK?
832
00:29:09,875 --> 00:29:11,167
- No, you don't.
- Yes, I do.
833
00:29:11,208 --> 00:29:13,375
- You lied about that.
So that was cool.
834
00:29:13,458 --> 00:29:14,583
That, for me, is not what I was
looking for in my future wife.
835
00:29:14,667 --> 00:29:16,250
- That's fair.
That's fair.
836
00:29:16,333 --> 00:29:18,958
- So when I heard that,
I was turned off.
837
00:29:19,042 --> 00:29:20,375
And then you're like, "Well,
why didn't you talk about it,
838
00:29:20,375 --> 00:29:21,667
all these heavy conversations?"
839
00:29:21,750 --> 00:29:23,208
This was week one
into our marriage.
840
00:29:23,333 --> 00:29:25,750
I held my negative feelings
towards you.
841
00:29:25,833 --> 00:29:27,500
I admit that.
842
00:29:27,542 --> 00:29:29,333
But those were
internal feelings
843
00:29:29,458 --> 00:29:30,875
that I needed to overcome.
844
00:29:30,958 --> 00:29:33,125
- Do you see how that could
drive someone crazy?
845
00:29:33,208 --> 00:29:35,167
- And--
and would you say, Becca,
846
00:29:35,250 --> 00:29:36,750
that that's something
you suffered from
847
00:29:36,833 --> 00:29:37,958
in your relationship, too?
- Absolutely.
848
00:29:38,042 --> 00:29:39,625
You start to question
your own reality
849
00:29:39,708 --> 00:29:41,333
and who you are
and what is real
850
00:29:41,417 --> 00:29:42,750
and where you're going wrong
851
00:29:42,833 --> 00:29:44,083
and where somebody else
is going wrong.
852
00:29:44,208 --> 00:29:47,167
It turns everything
into a mind [bleep].
853
00:29:47,208 --> 00:29:49,917
I think honesty
is always the best policy
854
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,000
because things will fall
the way that dominoes
855
00:29:52,042 --> 00:29:53,500
are supposed to fall.
856
00:29:53,583 --> 00:29:55,000
Like, the dominoes
will fall however
857
00:29:55,125 --> 00:29:56,708
they're supposed to fall
if people are being honest.
858
00:29:56,792 --> 00:29:58,000
And like...
- That's true.
859
00:29:58,083 --> 00:30:00,000
- You didn't let
those dominoes fall.
860
00:30:00,042 --> 00:30:02,083
You were trying to control
how the dominoes were placed
861
00:30:02,167 --> 00:30:04,000
and where they were gonna fall.
- That's 100% fair.
862
00:30:04,042 --> 00:30:07,833
I was afraid to say my piece
because I thought
863
00:30:07,917 --> 00:30:10,208
we would be two days
after you guys.
864
00:30:10,333 --> 00:30:11,625
- But if you wanted out,
why wouldn't that
865
00:30:11,708 --> 00:30:13,042
be a bad thing?
866
00:30:13,042 --> 00:30:14,333
- Because I cared
about what she thought.
867
00:30:14,417 --> 00:30:15,708
- And is it fair to say
that you came in here saying
868
00:30:15,792 --> 00:30:17,833
divorce is not an option?
869
00:30:17,875 --> 00:30:20,000
So I feel like maybe you were
being silent because
870
00:30:20,042 --> 00:30:22,000
you really didn't want
to face the music that
871
00:30:22,083 --> 00:30:24,542
you're about to get a divorce.
872
00:30:24,625 --> 00:30:28,042
- All I'm gonna say to that
is that I gave you everything.
873
00:30:28,167 --> 00:30:29,667
I was honest, and I just wish
874
00:30:29,750 --> 00:30:31,917
you would have
told me these things.
875
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:33,708
And you know--
you know the truth,
876
00:30:33,792 --> 00:30:35,125
and I know you know that,
and it's OK.
877
00:30:35,208 --> 00:30:38,500
but I just wish you told me
these things.
878
00:30:38,542 --> 00:30:41,125
And honestly, I'm not gonna
apologize for being me.
879
00:30:41,208 --> 00:30:42,375
That's who I am.
880
00:30:42,458 --> 00:30:43,542
- And that's 100% fair.
881
00:30:43,667 --> 00:30:46,542
[soft dramatic music]
882
00:30:46,667 --> 00:30:48,542
- This is hard to hear.
883
00:30:48,625 --> 00:30:50,750
You know, Brennan, you know,
884
00:30:50,833 --> 00:30:52,375
I think it's great
that you were honest.
885
00:30:52,458 --> 00:30:56,000
Emily, I'm sorry
that it has cut deep.
886
00:30:56,083 --> 00:31:00,167
You know, it's never great
seeing people cry.
887
00:31:00,208 --> 00:31:02,208
Yeah, it's just--
it's-- it's feeling heavy
888
00:31:02,333 --> 00:31:04,458
for me right now.
- I can't even--
889
00:31:04,542 --> 00:31:06,583
like, to say it's hard
to hear is not enough.
890
00:31:06,708 --> 00:31:08,917
This [bleep] sucks.
- Yeah.
891
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,792
- I have, never in my life,
found myself
892
00:31:10,875 --> 00:31:14,000
in a position where I had
to feel so much pain
893
00:31:14,125 --> 00:31:15,708
and sadness and hatred
and resentment
894
00:31:15,792 --> 00:31:19,125
and bitterness and anger
all at once.
895
00:31:19,208 --> 00:31:22,500
And if this is not a testament
to the importance of just
896
00:31:22,583 --> 00:31:26,167
being authentic and just
saying what is on your mind,
897
00:31:26,250 --> 00:31:28,250
and if you're not
speaking your truth,
898
00:31:28,333 --> 00:31:30,333
you are doing yourself
a massive disservice,
899
00:31:30,375 --> 00:31:35,042
all because we were trying
so hard to paint
900
00:31:35,042 --> 00:31:37,042
a picture that didn't exist.
901
00:31:37,125 --> 00:31:39,167
So I think if there is anything
that we can do walking out
902
00:31:39,250 --> 00:31:42,750
of here, it is just to say,
"For the rest of my life,
903
00:31:42,833 --> 00:31:44,750
"I will speak my truth,
904
00:31:44,833 --> 00:31:46,000
"I will live in authenticity,
905
00:31:46,083 --> 00:31:48,125
"And I am never, ever
going to put
906
00:31:48,208 --> 00:31:51,333
anybody ahead of
the prioritization of myself."
907
00:31:51,417 --> 00:31:52,958
- 100%.
908
00:31:53,042 --> 00:31:55,542
- That's it,
because this is awful.
909
00:31:55,625 --> 00:31:56,792
- Agreed.
Agreed.
910
00:31:56,875 --> 00:31:57,792
- Yeah.
911
00:31:57,875 --> 00:32:01,000
♪
912
00:32:01,083 --> 00:32:03,083
- I do want to say there were
moments this season.
913
00:32:03,167 --> 00:32:05,208
There was laughter and fun.
914
00:32:05,208 --> 00:32:07,208
So I have something
really fun
915
00:32:07,208 --> 00:32:08,542
that I want to play
for you guys.
916
00:32:08,625 --> 00:32:10,042
- Uh-oh.
- Here it is.
917
00:32:10,125 --> 00:32:12,375
- Oh, this is amazing.
918
00:32:12,458 --> 00:32:14,000
- Buckle up.
919
00:32:14,125 --> 00:32:17,000
We are about to have
a really, really wild ride.
920
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,833
- Ah!
[laughter]
921
00:32:19,917 --> 00:32:21,583
- Oh, I forgot
about the ninja stuff.
922
00:32:21,667 --> 00:32:22,917
- Good.
There you go.
923
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,000
- [laughs]
924
00:32:25,042 --> 00:32:28,875
- Ah!
[laughs]
925
00:32:28,958 --> 00:32:30,958
- The bond that we all have
is really unique.
926
00:32:31,042 --> 00:32:32,583
- [laughs]
927
00:32:32,667 --> 00:32:35,375
- That is always, I think,
our favorite time,
928
00:32:35,500 --> 00:32:40,417
just to be unfiltered and
just our crazy, kooky selves.
929
00:32:40,417 --> 00:32:41,667
- Ah!
930
00:32:41,750 --> 00:32:42,958
[upbeat music]
931
00:32:43,042 --> 00:32:46,333
[laughter]
932
00:32:46,417 --> 00:32:48,042
- This feels--
this feels right.
933
00:32:48,167 --> 00:32:51,083
- Oh, oh!
[laughs]
934
00:32:51,167 --> 00:32:52,583
- I told you
don't [bleep] with me.
935
00:32:52,708 --> 00:32:54,167
♪
936
00:32:54,250 --> 00:32:56,750
- I think it's important
that you see how insane
937
00:32:56,833 --> 00:32:58,417
this looks from my perspective.
938
00:32:59,750 --> 00:33:01,667
[horse neighs]
- Excuse me.
939
00:33:01,708 --> 00:33:03,917
- On a scale of 9 to 10,
how sexy is this right now?
940
00:33:04,042 --> 00:33:05,500
- 12.
941
00:33:05,583 --> 00:33:07,667
♪
942
00:33:07,750 --> 00:33:09,042
- ♪ Ready to go
- [screams]
943
00:33:09,125 --> 00:33:10,125
I'm scared!
944
00:33:10,208 --> 00:33:12,500
- I'm excited.
[laughs]
945
00:33:12,583 --> 00:33:14,000
[blows raspberry]
946
00:33:14,125 --> 00:33:17,000
- The hodgepodge experience.
Yes!
947
00:33:17,042 --> 00:33:18,667
- We are in full effect,
as they say.
948
00:33:18,667 --> 00:33:19,875
♪
949
00:33:20,042 --> 00:33:21,208
- Sorry.
[chuckles]
950
00:33:21,292 --> 00:33:23,958
- [growls]
- Oh, you're patient.
951
00:33:24,042 --> 00:33:25,458
You are not patient.
952
00:33:25,542 --> 00:33:27,208
[quirky music]
953
00:33:27,292 --> 00:33:28,833
- Excuse me.
- Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
954
00:33:28,875 --> 00:33:30,667
- [belches]
- Oh, no.
955
00:33:30,750 --> 00:33:32,375
- [laughs]
- I just need to burp.
956
00:33:32,500 --> 00:33:35,167
- [laughs]
- Sorry.
957
00:33:35,250 --> 00:33:37,083
- Being married at first sight
is really crazy,
958
00:33:37,167 --> 00:33:39,292
and I'm not disputing that.
- Oh, he's so handsome.
959
00:33:39,375 --> 00:33:41,500
- Yeah,
he screams handsomeness.
960
00:33:41,583 --> 00:33:44,458
So let's just enjoy
each other's company.
961
00:33:44,542 --> 00:33:46,083
That's all I want.
I just want us to have fun.
962
00:33:46,208 --> 00:33:48,833
- Oh!
- Oh, wow!
963
00:33:48,875 --> 00:33:50,792
[all cheering]
964
00:33:50,875 --> 00:33:53,833
- It's happening!
It's happening!
965
00:33:53,917 --> 00:33:55,250
- ♪ Dance to the groove
966
00:33:55,333 --> 00:33:57,750
♪ Rock it
until your heart stops ♪
967
00:33:57,875 --> 00:33:59,667
♪ Take all your clothes off
968
00:33:59,667 --> 00:34:00,792
♪ We got the party
969
00:34:00,875 --> 00:34:02,208
[upbeat music]
970
00:34:02,292 --> 00:34:04,333
- It's just been
a crazy process.
971
00:34:04,375 --> 00:34:05,792
- Delicious.
972
00:34:05,875 --> 00:34:08,208
Bon appétit
973
00:34:08,333 --> 00:34:11,042
- It's like our relationship,
up in flames.
974
00:34:11,125 --> 00:34:13,458
[laughter]
975
00:34:13,542 --> 00:34:16,208
- Bloopers, season 17.
976
00:34:16,292 --> 00:34:17,583
♪
977
00:34:17,708 --> 00:34:20,000
- Oh, man.
- [sighs]
978
00:34:20,042 --> 00:34:21,000
- What was that?
979
00:34:21,125 --> 00:34:23,000
- Pizza.
- That was pizza?
980
00:34:23,042 --> 00:34:25,000
- It never got made.
- I don't know what it was.
981
00:34:25,083 --> 00:34:26,333
- Who's responsible?
982
00:34:26,417 --> 00:34:27,875
[laughter]
983
00:34:27,958 --> 00:34:29,167
- Did you just
leave it in the oven?
984
00:34:29,208 --> 00:34:30,500
- I didn't read
the instructions.
985
00:34:30,583 --> 00:34:33,292
- You put it on broil.
- Oh, wow.
986
00:34:33,375 --> 00:34:34,667
- What'd you think, Becca?
987
00:34:34,750 --> 00:34:37,083
- Well, I think it's good
because I think, like,
988
00:34:37,167 --> 00:34:41,917
as angry and resentful
as we all may be,
989
00:34:42,042 --> 00:34:43,917
especially us,
like, I think it's like,
990
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,417
at the end of the day,
991
00:34:45,417 --> 00:34:47,208
we just want the best
for each other,
992
00:34:47,292 --> 00:34:49,667
and we are all humans.
We all make mistakes.
993
00:34:49,750 --> 00:34:53,625
And we still all deserve
more of those laughs
994
00:34:53,708 --> 00:34:55,292
in the future.
- Mm-hmm.
995
00:34:55,375 --> 00:34:57,833
- And I think we'll get that,
just with a wiser mentality.
996
00:34:57,875 --> 00:34:59,708
- Yeah.
997
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,208
- Next up,
we have Lauren and Orion.
998
00:35:07,208 --> 00:35:09,250
Now, people doubted
this match at the beginning.
999
00:35:09,333 --> 00:35:10,667
I'm not gonna lie,
I was one of them.
1000
00:35:10,792 --> 00:35:14,208
But these two had
a very special connection
1001
00:35:14,292 --> 00:35:16,292
right from the start
that made us think
1002
00:35:16,375 --> 00:35:18,167
that they could
go the distance,
1003
00:35:18,208 --> 00:35:21,833
and then they shocked us all
by being the first couple
1004
00:35:21,875 --> 00:35:23,458
to get divorced.
1005
00:35:23,542 --> 00:35:24,833
All right,
let's bring them out and see
1006
00:35:24,875 --> 00:35:26,792
how they're doing today.
- Hi.
1007
00:35:26,875 --> 00:35:28,375
- Hello, hello, hello.
1008
00:35:28,458 --> 00:35:30,375
- Good to see you again.
- Good to see you again.
1009
00:35:30,375 --> 00:35:31,792
Good to see you.
- How you doing?
1010
00:35:31,875 --> 00:35:33,458
- I'm good. I'm good. I'm good.
1011
00:35:33,542 --> 00:35:35,542
[upbeat music]
1012
00:35:35,667 --> 00:35:37,542
All right,
so right off the bat, guys,
1013
00:35:37,667 --> 00:35:39,250
how are you doing?
1014
00:35:39,250 --> 00:35:42,792
How have you been
since you split?
1015
00:35:42,875 --> 00:35:44,083
- So good.
- Yeah?
1016
00:35:44,208 --> 00:35:45,250
- Very well, yeah.
- Yeah?
1017
00:35:45,333 --> 00:35:47,167
- Yeah.
- What are you up to?
1018
00:35:47,208 --> 00:35:49,167
- Right now,
I've been doing a lot
1019
00:35:49,250 --> 00:35:52,167
of international traveling,
seeing my family a lot,
1020
00:35:52,250 --> 00:35:53,875
and just getting back to me.
- Oh, OK.
1021
00:35:53,958 --> 00:35:56,208
Orion, what about you?
1022
00:35:56,292 --> 00:35:57,500
- Since the split, you know,
1023
00:35:57,583 --> 00:35:59,500
I've been very good,
very happy.
1024
00:35:59,542 --> 00:36:00,833
Just kind of getting back
into the swing
1025
00:36:00,875 --> 00:36:02,000
of things and normal life.
1026
00:36:02,083 --> 00:36:03,292
You know, work,
family, friends,
1027
00:36:03,375 --> 00:36:05,333
staying on top of it all.
1028
00:36:05,417 --> 00:36:07,292
- You guys started off strong.
1029
00:36:07,375 --> 00:36:09,792
What attracted you
to Lauren in the beginning?
1030
00:36:09,875 --> 00:36:11,500
- Her smile.
1031
00:36:11,583 --> 00:36:13,333
That was the first thing
I noticed when she walked in.
1032
00:36:13,417 --> 00:36:16,083
And with that, you know,
it was bright.
1033
00:36:16,208 --> 00:36:17,667
You know,
it was beautiful teeth.
1034
00:36:17,750 --> 00:36:19,875
And it was just, you know,
1035
00:36:19,958 --> 00:36:21,167
I saw my wife
walking towards me,
1036
00:36:21,208 --> 00:36:23,375
and so I was excited.
1037
00:36:23,500 --> 00:36:26,875
- Lauren, what were you
looking forward to
1038
00:36:26,958 --> 00:36:28,958
when you got married?
1039
00:36:29,042 --> 00:36:31,667
- Oh, man,
I was looking forward
1040
00:36:31,708 --> 00:36:34,083
to just all the things you hear
about from married couples--
1041
00:36:34,167 --> 00:36:38,167
the-- the sharing the--
the fun times together,
1042
00:36:38,250 --> 00:36:40,667
the watching
the relationship grow together,
1043
00:36:40,750 --> 00:36:43,542
the getting through the trials
and tribulations together.
1044
00:36:43,667 --> 00:36:45,625
I was looking forward
to all the things
1045
00:36:45,708 --> 00:36:48,542
that a long-term
partnership entailed.
1046
00:36:48,667 --> 00:36:50,542
- Mm-hmm.
1047
00:36:50,625 --> 00:36:52,958
All right, I want to bring it
back to a tough conversation
1048
00:36:53,042 --> 00:36:57,125
you guys had when Orion decided
to take sex off the table.
1049
00:36:57,208 --> 00:36:58,583
- Mm-hmm.
- Let's watch that.
1050
00:36:58,667 --> 00:37:00,625
- When was the last time
you had sex?
1051
00:37:00,750 --> 00:37:02,083
- A little more
than a year and a half...
1052
00:37:02,208 --> 00:37:03,542
- Oh, wow.
1053
00:37:03,667 --> 00:37:04,625
- That I was intimate
with somebody.
1054
00:37:04,708 --> 00:37:06,167
- OK.
1055
00:37:06,250 --> 00:37:07,458
- It's definitely something
more than just
1056
00:37:07,583 --> 00:37:10,250
the physical act for me.
- Same.
1057
00:37:10,333 --> 00:37:12,083
It's definitely been
less time for me.
1058
00:37:12,083 --> 00:37:15,167
So it was
a couple of months ago,
1059
00:37:15,250 --> 00:37:18,917
two months probably
to the day, honestly.
1060
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:22,542
How do you feel that
I had sex two months ago?
1061
00:37:22,625 --> 00:37:27,833
- Being honest, it kind of
took sex off the table for me.
1062
00:37:27,917 --> 00:37:30,833
[dramatic music]
1063
00:37:30,917 --> 00:37:32,792
♪
1064
00:37:32,875 --> 00:37:35,292
- Why did you have
such a big reaction to that?
1065
00:37:40,875 --> 00:37:43,333
- You know, I can't recall
my thoughts in the moment.
1066
00:37:43,417 --> 00:37:46,167
But hindsight,
looking back, I guess
1067
00:37:46,250 --> 00:37:49,500
I had an expectation of,
you know,
1068
00:37:49,625 --> 00:37:51,208
once this process starts
and things start
1069
00:37:51,292 --> 00:37:53,042
really taking off,
I mean, there was
1070
00:37:53,125 --> 00:37:54,500
no one else but my wife,
1071
00:37:54,542 --> 00:37:57,458
and so for me personally,
1072
00:37:57,542 --> 00:38:01,167
I just wanted to come to her
just fully just as myself
1073
00:38:01,333 --> 00:38:02,625
with nothing in-between,
1074
00:38:02,708 --> 00:38:04,542
and that's just--
that was just me.
1075
00:38:04,667 --> 00:38:07,917
- There wasn't anything
that happened
1076
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,375
once she was matched, though.
1077
00:38:09,458 --> 00:38:11,000
Once she was matched,
she didn't--
1078
00:38:11,083 --> 00:38:12,625
- Yes, and I understand that.
1079
00:38:12,708 --> 00:38:14,875
- So she did come to you
fully as who she was...
1080
00:38:14,958 --> 00:38:16,208
- Yes.
1081
00:38:16,292 --> 00:38:17,542
- Once she knew...
- Yes.
1082
00:38:17,667 --> 00:38:18,958
- Because if she
hadn't gotten matched,
1083
00:38:19,042 --> 00:38:20,458
it wouldn't have mattered.
1084
00:38:20,542 --> 00:38:23,125
So I think that
how does that stop her
1085
00:38:23,208 --> 00:38:25,208
from being fully herself?
1086
00:38:25,208 --> 00:38:26,333
- It doesn't.
1087
00:38:26,375 --> 00:38:28,208
You know, it was--
1088
00:38:28,208 --> 00:38:29,708
- And by the way,
I'm not trying
1089
00:38:29,792 --> 00:38:31,000
to question your morals.
- No, I know, I know.
1090
00:38:31,083 --> 00:38:32,958
- I'm just saying.
What-- I want--
1091
00:38:33,042 --> 00:38:36,125
- The timing of it and the way
I said it and every--
1092
00:38:36,208 --> 00:38:38,250
I just--
I-- and I'm so sorry,
1093
00:38:38,333 --> 00:38:40,542
but I [bleep] up
in that conversation.
1094
00:38:40,625 --> 00:38:42,875
You know, I should not
have judged you, Lauren.
1095
00:38:42,875 --> 00:38:44,708
I am very sorry for that.
1096
00:38:44,708 --> 00:38:47,667
You know, and I know you felt
like your character
1097
00:38:47,667 --> 00:38:49,542
was in question
in that conversation,
1098
00:38:49,542 --> 00:38:51,167
and I am sorry about that,
1099
00:38:51,292 --> 00:38:53,542
and I know
that you were also feeling
1100
00:38:53,667 --> 00:38:55,500
very ganged up on that evening,
1101
00:38:55,583 --> 00:38:57,292
and I'm very sorry about that.
1102
00:38:59,375 --> 00:39:00,583
- Hearing that,
what does that mean to you?
1103
00:39:05,667 --> 00:39:09,042
- I-- I think
his apology is genuine.
1104
00:39:09,125 --> 00:39:11,333
I don't question that at all.
1105
00:39:11,375 --> 00:39:13,458
It doesn't take away the--
the confusion
1106
00:39:13,583 --> 00:39:16,208
and hurt
that I felt that night.
1107
00:39:16,292 --> 00:39:19,000
- Ultimately,
we did talk about it later on.
1108
00:39:19,083 --> 00:39:20,667
It doesn't matter.
1109
00:39:20,750 --> 00:39:23,208
There's really no timeframe
on what, you know,
1110
00:39:23,292 --> 00:39:25,500
someone can do
with their own life
1111
00:39:25,583 --> 00:39:27,333
before they meet somebody else,
1112
00:39:27,417 --> 00:39:29,500
and that's just
kind of the period for it.
1113
00:39:29,625 --> 00:39:31,500
- Listen,
it doesn't matter
1114
00:39:31,625 --> 00:39:33,208
what she was doing
before the day
1115
00:39:33,333 --> 00:39:34,667
that she got matched with you.
- Yes.
1116
00:39:34,750 --> 00:39:37,125
- She could be out there doing
whatever she wants to do,
1117
00:39:37,208 --> 00:39:38,208
and it had nothing to do
with you.
1118
00:39:38,292 --> 00:39:40,000
That was before Orion.
1119
00:39:40,083 --> 00:39:41,417
And once Orion came along,
1120
00:39:41,417 --> 00:39:43,875
then you can say,
"This is my wife.
1121
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:46,000
And then you can--
- Yes.
1122
00:39:46,083 --> 00:39:47,458
And, Lauren, again, I am--
1123
00:39:47,542 --> 00:39:49,083
I'm sorry that happened,
and I'm sorry
1124
00:39:49,167 --> 00:39:51,417
that I made you feel that way.
1125
00:39:51,542 --> 00:39:53,375
- Orion, did you give up
too easily
1126
00:39:53,458 --> 00:39:54,958
on this relationship?
1127
00:39:55,042 --> 00:39:57,708
- I think I gave up too easily
on the process.
1128
00:39:57,792 --> 00:39:59,500
- Which would be
your relationship.
1129
00:39:59,583 --> 00:40:02,042
- It's very separate for him.
1130
00:40:02,042 --> 00:40:03,292
It's very separate for him.
1131
00:40:03,375 --> 00:40:05,500
- So, well,
the way I view the process
1132
00:40:05,625 --> 00:40:07,667
is what the experts can do,
1133
00:40:07,750 --> 00:40:09,333
the kind of tools
they can give us
1134
00:40:09,417 --> 00:40:11,792
when we are in times
of turmoil.
1135
00:40:11,875 --> 00:40:14,125
I just never gave it
that chance,
1136
00:40:14,250 --> 00:40:15,875
the process or the marriage.
1137
00:40:15,958 --> 00:40:20,833
- So you feel like you bailed
on the marriage too quickly?
1138
00:40:20,917 --> 00:40:24,000
♪
1139
00:40:24,083 --> 00:40:25,833
- Unsure.
1140
00:40:25,917 --> 00:40:28,042
- But if you left the process,
you left the marriage.
1141
00:40:28,167 --> 00:40:31,000
So did you bail on the marriage
too quickly, like the process?
1142
00:40:31,125 --> 00:40:33,292
You were married, like,
for real, for real.
1143
00:40:33,375 --> 00:40:35,458
- Yeah. Yes, yes.
1144
00:40:35,542 --> 00:40:37,250
- Lauren, I want to know,
1145
00:40:37,333 --> 00:40:39,167
is there still a part of you
1146
00:40:39,208 --> 00:40:43,000
that is sad
about the way this went?
1147
00:40:43,042 --> 00:40:47,208
- I'm sad about...
1148
00:40:47,375 --> 00:40:50,000
the partner I was matched with.
1149
00:40:50,125 --> 00:40:51,417
I don't think there is
a right or a wrong way
1150
00:40:51,542 --> 00:40:52,542
to go about marriage.
1151
00:40:52,667 --> 00:40:54,250
I think that all it requires
1152
00:40:54,333 --> 00:40:56,000
is two willing participants.
1153
00:40:56,042 --> 00:40:57,625
I think he just wasn't ready
for marriage,
1154
00:40:57,708 --> 00:40:59,792
and I know we have
different opinions on that,
1155
00:40:59,875 --> 00:41:02,458
but at the end of the day,
I think that.
1156
00:41:02,542 --> 00:41:04,667
And this is not a jab
at him at all
1157
00:41:04,750 --> 00:41:05,833
because no one knows
what they're ready for
1158
00:41:05,917 --> 00:41:07,458
until they try, right?
- Mm-hmm.
1159
00:41:07,542 --> 00:41:09,750
- I kind of knew
what I signed up for.
1160
00:41:09,833 --> 00:41:12,125
I knew that this was gonna
be difficult on many levels,
1161
00:41:12,125 --> 00:41:14,458
and I just don't think
he was up to the challenge.
1162
00:41:14,542 --> 00:41:16,417
- You are younger than Lauren.
1163
00:41:16,500 --> 00:41:18,208
And do you chalk this up to
1164
00:41:18,333 --> 00:41:20,458
a growing up
and a learning experience?
1165
00:41:20,542 --> 00:41:21,917
- I mean, absolutely.
1166
00:41:22,042 --> 00:41:23,958
Every situation
is a learning experience.
1167
00:41:24,042 --> 00:41:26,417
You know, there's lessons
in every day.
1168
00:41:26,542 --> 00:41:27,583
You just got to look for them.
1169
00:41:27,708 --> 00:41:29,125
- Do you think
you were too stubborn?
1170
00:41:29,208 --> 00:41:31,000
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1171
00:41:31,125 --> 00:41:33,708
- Yeah.
- OK.
1172
00:41:33,708 --> 00:41:35,792
Have you now found peace...
- Oh, yes.
1173
00:41:35,875 --> 00:41:38,375
- And moved on past this?
- I'm very past this.
1174
00:41:38,458 --> 00:41:39,333
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1175
00:41:39,417 --> 00:41:40,833
- Yeah, yeah.
1176
00:41:40,917 --> 00:41:42,125
Do you care whether
you two have a friendship?
1177
00:41:42,208 --> 00:41:44,500
- God, no.
Absolutely not.
1178
00:41:44,625 --> 00:41:46,667
- So you two do not talk
at all anymore?
1179
00:41:46,750 --> 00:41:47,958
- No.
1180
00:41:48,042 --> 00:41:49,000
- And that's the way
you want it?
1181
00:41:49,083 --> 00:41:50,500
- Very much so.
1182
00:41:50,542 --> 00:41:53,000
I wish him nothing more
than what he deserves.
1183
00:41:53,042 --> 00:41:54,583
♪
1184
00:41:54,667 --> 00:41:56,167
- What does that mean?
1185
00:41:56,250 --> 00:41:58,958
♪
1186
00:41:59,042 --> 00:42:00,583
What does that mean, Lauren?
What does that mean?
1187
00:42:00,667 --> 00:42:01,750
- I'll do an Orion move.
1188
00:42:04,542 --> 00:42:07,333
- Look, I understand
there's animosity there,
1189
00:42:07,417 --> 00:42:10,333
but was this
a good match initially?
1190
00:42:10,375 --> 00:42:11,833
- Initially, yes.
1191
00:42:11,917 --> 00:42:14,000
- Do you think the experts
did the right thing?
1192
00:42:14,042 --> 00:42:15,333
- I do.
1193
00:42:15,375 --> 00:42:17,292
- Do you think
it could have worked out?
1194
00:42:17,375 --> 00:42:18,875
- Yes.
1195
00:42:18,958 --> 00:42:21,000
- If you had just
stayed with the process?
1196
00:42:21,042 --> 00:42:22,500
- Yes.
1197
00:42:22,583 --> 00:42:24,292
- Hearing that,
does that bother you?
1198
00:42:24,375 --> 00:42:26,583
- No.
1199
00:42:26,667 --> 00:42:28,208
- I think that you can
only meet someone
1200
00:42:28,292 --> 00:42:29,875
as far as they've met themself.
1201
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:31,875
- Mm-hmm.
1202
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:35,333
- And I can't overexert myself
to try to bring someone
1203
00:42:35,458 --> 00:42:37,208
up to being ready.
1204
00:42:37,292 --> 00:42:39,792
So that's why I say that
I don't think that this was
1205
00:42:39,875 --> 00:42:43,292
an equally yoked match at all.
- Mm.
1206
00:42:43,375 --> 00:42:44,542
- We've both moved on.
1207
00:42:44,625 --> 00:42:46,083
We both acknowledged
that we don't
1208
00:42:46,167 --> 00:42:49,000
really want to talk to
each other unless we have to.
1209
00:42:49,042 --> 00:42:51,875
The horse is dead, so
it's time to stop beating it.
1210
00:42:53,542 --> 00:42:55,708
- Did I ask you,
have you moved on?
1211
00:42:55,708 --> 00:42:57,458
Have you-- are you dating?
1212
00:42:57,542 --> 00:42:58,542
- Why you in my business,
Kevin?
1213
00:42:58,667 --> 00:43:00,000
- I'm just-- I'm just-- hey.
1214
00:43:00,042 --> 00:43:02,375
Uh-oh, that's the answer
that means yes.
1215
00:43:02,458 --> 00:43:04,375
Let me tell you
what that means, yes.
1216
00:43:04,500 --> 00:43:10,167
- I am in a very happy,
healthy, loving...
1217
00:43:10,208 --> 00:43:12,333
[bright music]
1218
00:43:12,417 --> 00:43:14,125
Place in my life right now.
1219
00:43:14,208 --> 00:43:16,125
And I don't think that that
will change, regardless
1220
00:43:16,208 --> 00:43:18,375
of who enters or exits.
1221
00:43:18,458 --> 00:43:19,958
- OK, that's good to hear.
1222
00:43:20,042 --> 00:43:22,333
Has somebody entered, though?
1223
00:43:22,375 --> 00:43:23,875
- That's not this show.
1224
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:26,000
This show is called
"Married at First Sight."
1225
00:43:26,042 --> 00:43:27,750
- I know, and we're trying
to establish it
1226
00:43:27,833 --> 00:43:29,917
that now that you're divorced
at first sight.
1227
00:43:30,042 --> 00:43:31,250
- Divorced at first fight.
- Right.
1228
00:43:31,333 --> 00:43:32,833
Are you dating now?
1229
00:43:32,917 --> 00:43:35,750
- I'm just minding my business.
1230
00:43:35,833 --> 00:43:37,083
- Orion,
are you dating someone?
1231
00:43:37,167 --> 00:43:38,625
Are you seeing anybody?
1232
00:43:38,708 --> 00:43:41,208
- I am seeing somebody.
1233
00:43:41,292 --> 00:43:42,708
- You are?
1234
00:43:42,792 --> 00:43:45,917
- I am,
for a couple of months now.
1235
00:43:46,042 --> 00:43:47,542
I won't disclose anything,
but...
1236
00:43:47,625 --> 00:43:48,958
- You don't have to.
1237
00:43:49,042 --> 00:43:51,208
- It's going really well.
- Really?
1238
00:43:51,292 --> 00:43:53,042
- Yeah, it's going really well.
1239
00:43:53,125 --> 00:43:55,333
- OK, then what did you learn,
and how are you applying
1240
00:43:55,417 --> 00:43:57,292
that to this new relationship?
1241
00:43:57,375 --> 00:43:59,042
- Ah.
1242
00:43:59,125 --> 00:44:01,542
To not generalize the things
that I say
1243
00:44:01,625 --> 00:44:03,000
so that it comes off
as gaslighting.
1244
00:44:03,042 --> 00:44:04,542
- Mm.
1245
00:44:04,667 --> 00:44:06,667
- There were a lot of times
where I misled Lauren.
1246
00:44:06,708 --> 00:44:09,000
In my mind,
I thought I was making sense.
1247
00:44:09,083 --> 00:44:13,708
In the reality of things,
it was not making any sense.
1248
00:44:13,792 --> 00:44:17,500
- It sucks that the lesson
was learned at your expense,
1249
00:44:17,542 --> 00:44:19,500
but still,
that's growth, right?
1250
00:44:19,542 --> 00:44:21,583
- I think if he like it,
I love it.
1251
00:44:21,708 --> 00:44:23,875
- [laughs]
Well, I want to thank you guys
1252
00:44:23,958 --> 00:44:25,625
for coming out and chatting.
1253
00:44:25,708 --> 00:44:27,125
I mean, look,
the best thing we can do
1254
00:44:27,208 --> 00:44:29,625
is get to the bottom
of this crazy season
1255
00:44:29,708 --> 00:44:31,417
and all the crazy things
that happened,
1256
00:44:31,542 --> 00:44:33,208
and I think
it was unfortunate because
1257
00:44:33,292 --> 00:44:34,750
I thought a lot of people
were rooting
1258
00:44:34,833 --> 00:44:36,333
for you once it got started.
1259
00:44:36,417 --> 00:44:38,167
Look, in the beginning,
I said, it's not gonna work.
1260
00:44:38,250 --> 00:44:40,667
I thought it was gonna work
once it started and--
1261
00:44:40,750 --> 00:44:43,167
- You jinxed us.
- No, I didn't jinx you.
1262
00:44:43,208 --> 00:44:45,542
Y'all jinxed y'all.
Y'all jinxed y'all.
1263
00:44:45,625 --> 00:44:47,292
I mean,
that's on you two, not me.
1264
00:44:55,458 --> 00:44:58,375
- You look nice and composed,
all things considered.
1265
00:44:58,500 --> 00:44:59,833
- You all right, though?
1266
00:44:59,917 --> 00:45:02,875
- Yeah.
It's just the [bleep] comments.
1267
00:45:02,958 --> 00:45:06,250
- These men do not deserve
any of us, seriously.
1268
00:45:06,333 --> 00:45:08,625
- He's not ready to be married.
- He ain't ready to be married.
1269
00:45:08,625 --> 00:45:10,292
- I'm not in the--
1270
00:45:10,375 --> 00:45:11,833
I'm not in the
Build-A-Bear business, OK?
1271
00:45:11,875 --> 00:45:13,542
I'm not building men.
1272
00:45:13,667 --> 00:45:15,542
This was above my pay grade.
1273
00:45:15,542 --> 00:45:17,458
- Yeah, it was
pretty eye-opening,
1274
00:45:17,542 --> 00:45:20,833
just, I don't know,
the things that are being said.
1275
00:45:20,917 --> 00:45:23,667
I was really hoping
for a better outcome.
1276
00:45:27,708 --> 00:45:29,083
- Falling apart.
1277
00:45:31,042 --> 00:45:32,042
Help.
1278
00:45:36,375 --> 00:45:38,458
- All right, here we go.
1279
00:45:38,542 --> 00:45:41,208
[dramatic music]
1280
00:45:41,292 --> 00:45:42,875
Hello, and welcome back
1281
00:45:42,958 --> 00:45:44,833
to the "Married
at First Sight" reunion.
1282
00:45:44,875 --> 00:45:48,167
I'm Kevin Frazier, and I'm
excited because the experts
1283
00:45:48,208 --> 00:45:51,625
are here and joining me now on
the stage to answer questions.
1284
00:45:51,625 --> 00:45:53,458
And I just want
to point this out.
1285
00:45:53,542 --> 00:45:55,667
Dr. Pia,
this is your third season.
1286
00:45:55,708 --> 00:45:57,333
- First full-time season.
- Yes.
1287
00:45:57,458 --> 00:45:59,625
Pastor Cal, you've been here
since season four, correct?
1288
00:45:59,708 --> 00:46:01,167
- Exactly.
1289
00:46:01,250 --> 00:46:03,833
- Dr. Pepper, you've been here
all 17 seasons
1290
00:46:03,875 --> 00:46:05,875
of "Married at First Sight."
1291
00:46:05,958 --> 00:46:10,042
You all have put your time
and energy into this show.
1292
00:46:10,125 --> 00:46:12,125
I've never seen anything
like I've seen
1293
00:46:12,125 --> 00:46:15,000
this season with Denver
and the deception
1294
00:46:15,042 --> 00:46:17,583
to try and rig the system.
1295
00:46:17,667 --> 00:46:20,958
What are your thoughts about
this deception in many ways?
1296
00:46:21,042 --> 00:46:24,583
- I had no idea they had made
a plan to feed us
1297
00:46:24,667 --> 00:46:26,833
what they wanted us to hear.
1298
00:46:26,875 --> 00:46:30,000
I felt bad.
1299
00:46:30,042 --> 00:46:32,708
- When you hear something
like this, it's disheartening.
1300
00:46:32,708 --> 00:46:34,375
All we're trying to do
is make marriages work.
1301
00:46:34,458 --> 00:46:35,708
- Yeah.
1302
00:46:35,792 --> 00:46:37,042
- That's all
we're trying to do,
1303
00:46:37,125 --> 00:46:38,500
match people to find
the love of their life.
1304
00:46:38,542 --> 00:46:40,125
That's it, period, you know?
1305
00:46:40,208 --> 00:46:41,417
And so if you're not honest,
you're not vulnerable
1306
00:46:41,583 --> 00:46:44,958
with us, I mean, it makes
our jobs almost impossible.
1307
00:46:45,042 --> 00:46:46,500
- The word for me
is just disappointment.
1308
00:46:46,583 --> 00:46:49,292
I'm a clinical psychologist.
I'm not playing one on TV.
1309
00:46:49,375 --> 00:46:51,500
So how can I help someone if
I don't have all of the facts
1310
00:46:51,583 --> 00:46:53,375
and all of the information?
1311
00:46:53,500 --> 00:46:55,167
- Let's do this.
1312
00:46:55,208 --> 00:46:57,833
Let's welcome the women
back in so we can talk to them
1313
00:46:57,917 --> 00:46:59,375
and ask them questions
directly.
1314
00:46:59,458 --> 00:47:00,500
Ladies, come on out.
1315
00:47:00,583 --> 00:47:02,708
[upbeat music]
1316
00:47:02,792 --> 00:47:04,833
- Hello.
- Hi.
1317
00:47:04,917 --> 00:47:07,500
- Hi.
- Hi, ladies.
1318
00:47:07,542 --> 00:47:09,667
- You look so pretty.
1319
00:47:09,708 --> 00:47:11,125
- Dr. Pepper,
I want to start with you.
1320
00:47:11,250 --> 00:47:13,000
What would you like to say
to the ladies,
1321
00:47:13,125 --> 00:47:14,917
and what are
your hopes for them?
1322
00:47:15,042 --> 00:47:18,250
- Well, it's been distressing
to hear how unhappy
1323
00:47:18,375 --> 00:47:20,000
and angry everybody is.
1324
00:47:20,125 --> 00:47:23,292
I'm not here to parcel out
who did what to whom.
1325
00:47:23,375 --> 00:47:25,667
I'm learning that I have very--
[chuckles]
1326
00:47:25,708 --> 00:47:27,375
I have very little
real information
1327
00:47:27,458 --> 00:47:29,042
about what was going on.
1328
00:47:29,125 --> 00:47:32,292
But I'm hoping that you all
can move forward.
1329
00:47:32,375 --> 00:47:35,583
Nobody wants to see you
unhappy and angry.
1330
00:47:35,667 --> 00:47:38,417
- Becca, what would you say,
and what do you take from what
1331
00:47:38,500 --> 00:47:40,000
Dr. Pepper just said?
1332
00:47:40,083 --> 00:47:42,667
- I think I'm sorry that
I didn't get to know you guys
1333
00:47:42,750 --> 00:47:44,292
in an authentic way.
1334
00:47:44,417 --> 00:47:49,125
And I'm sad that
I didn't feel safe enough
1335
00:47:49,208 --> 00:47:51,833
in a space
to be my authentic self.
1336
00:47:51,875 --> 00:47:53,750
It was
a very confusing situation
1337
00:47:53,833 --> 00:47:55,917
to be in when
you're trying to protect
1338
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,583
the person that you like,
and you don't know that
1339
00:47:58,667 --> 00:48:01,167
until it's hindsight.
1340
00:48:01,208 --> 00:48:03,083
- The feelings that we felt
in the moment
1341
00:48:03,167 --> 00:48:04,333
where we were fight or flight
1342
00:48:04,333 --> 00:48:06,000
and didn't feel like
we could advocate
1343
00:48:06,042 --> 00:48:07,833
for ourselves,
we are now finally
1344
00:48:07,958 --> 00:48:09,542
at a place where we can say
1345
00:48:09,625 --> 00:48:13,000
here is where we felt
silenced or dismissed.
1346
00:48:13,042 --> 00:48:15,000
And now we are speaking
on behalf of that
1347
00:48:15,042 --> 00:48:16,792
because the entire filming,
1348
00:48:16,875 --> 00:48:18,208
I didn't feel like
in an environment where
1349
00:48:18,292 --> 00:48:21,125
I could advocate for myself
in the ways that I wanted.
1350
00:48:21,208 --> 00:48:24,042
So now is my time to do that.
1351
00:48:24,125 --> 00:48:26,333
- When I hear you all say,
like, "We didn't speak out
1352
00:48:26,417 --> 00:48:28,458
because we wanted to protect,"
or when I'm hearing
1353
00:48:28,542 --> 00:48:30,333
you now say, like,
"I didn't feel safe,"
1354
00:48:30,417 --> 00:48:32,833
or, "I felt silenced," by whom?
Like, what was going on?
1355
00:48:32,917 --> 00:48:35,667
Can you help fill me in?
- The men.
1356
00:48:35,750 --> 00:48:37,333
They wanted to look good.
1357
00:48:37,375 --> 00:48:39,208
They wanted to look
a certain way on camera,
1358
00:48:39,292 --> 00:48:41,958
and then
their heightened anxiety
1359
00:48:42,083 --> 00:48:46,167
was making us wonder
if we also should be anxious.
1360
00:48:46,250 --> 00:48:47,917
- I think on that point,
while there was a similarity
1361
00:48:48,042 --> 00:48:51,917
of how we felt the men
were paranoid,
1362
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:53,292
all of us handled that
differently...
1363
00:48:53,375 --> 00:48:56,083
- Yeah.
- In our marriages.
1364
00:48:56,208 --> 00:48:59,625
- What might we have been able
to do differently
1365
00:48:59,708 --> 00:49:01,208
so that y'all could have
come to us,
1366
00:49:01,292 --> 00:49:04,000
pulled us aside, and said,
"Hey, this is what's going on"?
1367
00:49:04,083 --> 00:49:06,083
Because we all said,
"We are here for you all."
1368
00:49:06,167 --> 00:49:07,917
- Yeah.
- "You can call us."
1369
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:09,917
And so I think
I'm curious of what got
1370
00:49:09,917 --> 00:49:11,667
in the way of that happening.
1371
00:49:11,792 --> 00:49:14,167
- Hindsight,
expecting us to know
1372
00:49:14,292 --> 00:49:16,333
that that would have been
the right move
1373
00:49:16,375 --> 00:49:19,333
is asking a lot in a really
high-pressure situation
1374
00:49:19,375 --> 00:49:20,625
when you've just married
a stranger.
1375
00:49:20,708 --> 00:49:22,500
You want it to work.
You're giving it your all.
1376
00:49:22,583 --> 00:49:24,875
And so if they want
to go a certain path
1377
00:49:25,042 --> 00:49:27,333
or take us down a certain road,
1378
00:49:27,375 --> 00:49:30,292
then how do you speak up
about that?
1379
00:49:30,375 --> 00:49:33,167
- I would challenge
that we wanted
1380
00:49:33,292 --> 00:49:36,000
the marriage to work so bad,
that's why we didn't reach out.
1381
00:49:36,083 --> 00:49:38,208
And we thought
by trusting them,
1382
00:49:38,292 --> 00:49:40,042
going along with it,
that was going
1383
00:49:40,125 --> 00:49:42,625
to make our marriage survive.
1384
00:49:42,708 --> 00:49:43,917
- Are you using
an absolute here
1385
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,000
and saying that all the men
1386
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,667
were controlling
and manipulating--
1387
00:49:48,708 --> 00:49:50,708
- Yes.
- From day one.
1388
00:49:50,833 --> 00:49:51,917
You can't ask
that broad question
1389
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:53,208
across all of us.
1390
00:49:53,333 --> 00:49:54,875
- But that's
what's being presented.
1391
00:49:54,875 --> 00:49:58,000
So of these men,
who was the ringleader?
1392
00:49:58,083 --> 00:50:01,292
- Cameron.
- Cameron?
1393
00:50:01,375 --> 00:50:04,333
- Yep.
- But here's my problem.
1394
00:50:04,417 --> 00:50:08,542
If somebody is treating you
in a way
1395
00:50:08,625 --> 00:50:14,083
that is unbefitting of how
a husband should treat a wife,
1396
00:50:14,167 --> 00:50:15,875
I would want to know,
1397
00:50:15,958 --> 00:50:19,375
and I would want to talk to him
personally to handle that.
1398
00:50:19,458 --> 00:50:20,958
Am I right or wrong?
- You're right, Pastor.
1399
00:50:21,042 --> 00:50:22,625
- We're gonna handle it.
1400
00:50:22,708 --> 00:50:26,417
- I think, on our side,
we felt that you did have
1401
00:50:26,500 --> 00:50:30,542
the equipment to tell us
how you felt and to come to us,
1402
00:50:30,625 --> 00:50:32,208
you know?
1403
00:50:32,333 --> 00:50:34,042
I mean, we don't think of you
as, you know,
1404
00:50:34,125 --> 00:50:35,333
like, wilted flowers.
1405
00:50:35,417 --> 00:50:37,667
We think of you as strong women
1406
00:50:37,667 --> 00:50:39,833
who have a lot of presence
in the world,
1407
00:50:39,833 --> 00:50:41,375
who have accomplished
a great deal,
1408
00:50:41,458 --> 00:50:43,458
and, you know,
whether, of course,
1409
00:50:43,542 --> 00:50:45,458
now you think,
what were you thinking
1410
00:50:45,542 --> 00:50:46,833
with the men we picked?
1411
00:50:46,917 --> 00:50:49,250
But we felt the same way
about them.
1412
00:50:49,333 --> 00:50:50,333
- Chloe,
I want to hear from you
1413
00:50:50,458 --> 00:50:53,750
and what was the process like
for you.
1414
00:50:53,833 --> 00:50:55,500
- [sighs]
Um...
1415
00:50:55,583 --> 00:50:57,583
the massive
differentiating factor here
1416
00:50:57,667 --> 00:51:02,458
is that Michael
1417
00:51:02,542 --> 00:51:05,750
was not grouped
into any kind of scheme,
1418
00:51:05,875 --> 00:51:08,333
to my knowledge,
1419
00:51:08,417 --> 00:51:10,917
and so we were really just
coming from a place
1420
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:13,250
of trying to navigate
a marriage.
1421
00:51:13,333 --> 00:51:17,833
And I definitely did not have
1422
00:51:17,917 --> 00:51:19,542
the same experience,
1423
00:51:19,667 --> 00:51:22,542
and it's hard to listen to
because I can't even imagine
1424
00:51:22,625 --> 00:51:24,917
having had that experience.
I would have short circuited.
1425
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:26,958
But, you know,
we didn't have that.
1426
00:51:27,042 --> 00:51:29,833
We were pretty sheltered
from all of it.
1427
00:51:29,917 --> 00:51:31,833
- Dr. Pepper,
what are the next steps?
1428
00:51:31,917 --> 00:51:34,292
- I always feel that
when I feel heat,
1429
00:51:34,375 --> 00:51:35,917
as opposed to knowledge,
1430
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:38,250
I have to trace it down
and figure out
1431
00:51:38,250 --> 00:51:40,125
how to get rid of the heat
1432
00:51:40,208 --> 00:51:42,250
because I can't be
my best self,
1433
00:51:42,333 --> 00:51:45,000
I can't think well enough
about the problem,
1434
00:51:45,083 --> 00:51:46,833
and I can't move forward.
1435
00:51:46,917 --> 00:51:49,000
I'm a big believer in therapy.
1436
00:51:49,042 --> 00:51:51,125
You know, maybe
if it's individual therapy,
1437
00:51:51,208 --> 00:51:54,333
you can work through this stuff
just to get to a point
1438
00:51:54,375 --> 00:51:56,125
where you understand it,
1439
00:51:56,208 --> 00:51:59,167
but the heat, the anger,
those emotions leave you.
1440
00:51:59,208 --> 00:52:01,583
And if it were me,
that's what I would do.
1441
00:52:01,667 --> 00:52:03,167
- When we're
sitting down matching,
1442
00:52:03,208 --> 00:52:06,208
I always have the absolute
best intentions.
1443
00:52:06,292 --> 00:52:08,542
Nobody wants to see failure.
1444
00:52:08,667 --> 00:52:09,958
This is not our desire.
1445
00:52:10,042 --> 00:52:12,250
I hope that
the lessons learned
1446
00:52:12,333 --> 00:52:16,500
are so valuable
that you will avoid,
1447
00:52:16,542 --> 00:52:19,500
you know, any of this drama
going forward.
1448
00:52:19,583 --> 00:52:21,542
- You don't have to tell us.
We know.
1449
00:52:21,625 --> 00:52:23,958
We all have been putting
the work in and reflecting
1450
00:52:24,042 --> 00:52:25,083
and using this
as an opportunity
1451
00:52:25,167 --> 00:52:26,625
to get better, stronger,
and grow.
1452
00:52:26,708 --> 00:52:29,208
I truly believe
that we have put in the work.
1453
00:52:29,208 --> 00:52:31,375
We pause the TV
when we watch the episodes.
1454
00:52:31,458 --> 00:52:33,250
We take accountability,
we reflect,
1455
00:52:33,375 --> 00:52:35,000
and we validate, and it's
a good mix of everything.
1456
00:52:35,083 --> 00:52:37,042
- Yeah.
1457
00:52:37,125 --> 00:52:39,167
- I was telling the girls
right before this
1458
00:52:39,208 --> 00:52:42,000
that, like, every moment
in our lives
1459
00:52:42,042 --> 00:52:44,083
is an opportunity
to learn and to grow,
1460
00:52:44,208 --> 00:52:47,000
and I think that the growth
that we've had
1461
00:52:47,083 --> 00:52:50,000
is something
I would never take back.
1462
00:52:50,083 --> 00:52:52,000
- While I think
that it is healthy
1463
00:52:52,042 --> 00:52:54,375
to do reflection--
I really, really do--
1464
00:52:54,458 --> 00:52:57,167
there's also a balance between
healthy compartmentalization
1465
00:52:57,250 --> 00:52:58,500
and unhealthy
compartmentalization.
1466
00:52:58,500 --> 00:52:59,792
- Yeah.
1467
00:52:59,875 --> 00:53:02,333
- So while I can respect
the desire to, like,
1468
00:53:02,375 --> 00:53:05,292
be coming together as a unit
to support one another,
1469
00:53:05,375 --> 00:53:07,917
I worry about how much
that's adding more
1470
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:09,667
and more and more fuel.
1471
00:53:09,750 --> 00:53:11,708
And so I want
to encourage you all
1472
00:53:11,792 --> 00:53:14,250
to lean into that place
of I'm healing,
1473
00:53:14,375 --> 00:53:16,500
and I'm on my healing journey.
1474
00:53:16,625 --> 00:53:19,500
- And going forward,
you have no obligation
1475
00:53:19,542 --> 00:53:22,417
to protect anyone who has
no desire to protect you.
1476
00:53:22,542 --> 00:53:24,875
- You have to protect yourself.
- Yeah, right.
1477
00:53:24,958 --> 00:53:27,708
- A big lesson and takeaway--
and we see from the ladies,
1478
00:53:27,708 --> 00:53:29,958
and they have said
that they all have learned
1479
00:53:30,042 --> 00:53:31,833
a lesson that they will
carry with them
1480
00:53:31,917 --> 00:53:33,542
for the rest of their lives.
1481
00:53:33,625 --> 00:53:35,375
They will never have to worry
about being in a position
1482
00:53:35,458 --> 00:53:38,083
like this again because the
next time somebody acts out,
1483
00:53:38,083 --> 00:53:38,708
they will call them out.
1484
00:53:42,708 --> 00:53:44,708
[upbeat music]
1485
00:53:47,292 --> 00:53:50,167
- How you feeling, buddy?
- Not 100%, but--
1486
00:53:50,208 --> 00:53:51,667
- You're coming back, man.
1487
00:53:51,750 --> 00:53:53,750
♪
1488
00:53:53,875 --> 00:53:55,417
- I'm upset.
1489
00:53:55,542 --> 00:53:57,292
I've heard that Cameron's
not gonna be here.
1490
00:53:59,167 --> 00:54:00,000
- Oh, is he here?
- Hey.
1491
00:54:00,083 --> 00:54:01,458
- Oh, good.
Oh, good.
1492
00:54:01,542 --> 00:54:02,667
- Hi, everybody.
- Hi.
1493
00:54:02,750 --> 00:54:03,875
Good to see you.
1494
00:54:03,958 --> 00:54:05,167
- How you feeling?
- Better.
1495
00:54:05,250 --> 00:54:07,208
- We have to talk.
1496
00:54:07,333 --> 00:54:09,792
- Austin, what's up, buddy?
1497
00:54:09,875 --> 00:54:11,125
- OK, so OK, I'm gonna go.
1498
00:54:11,208 --> 00:54:12,667
OK, here we go.
1499
00:54:12,750 --> 00:54:15,500
♪
1500
00:54:15,542 --> 00:54:17,250
- Welcome back.
I'm Kevin Frazier,
1501
00:54:17,333 --> 00:54:19,542
and this is the "Married
At First Sight" reunion.
1502
00:54:19,625 --> 00:54:22,292
I'm here with the "Married
At First Sight" experts,
1503
00:54:22,375 --> 00:54:25,542
Dr. Pepper, Pastor Cal,
and Dr. Pia,
1504
00:54:25,625 --> 00:54:29,000
and, of course,
the men from Denver.
1505
00:54:29,083 --> 00:54:30,833
There's so much to talk about,
1506
00:54:30,917 --> 00:54:32,500
and we're gonna get into that.
1507
00:54:32,542 --> 00:54:34,917
But first, Cameron, Austin,
glad to have you back.
1508
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:36,250
- Thank you.
1509
00:54:36,333 --> 00:54:38,167
- And, Austin,
what's going on, man?
1510
00:54:38,250 --> 00:54:42,458
- Just needed
a rest, relax, refresh.
1511
00:54:42,542 --> 00:54:43,958
- When you woke up,
did you say,
1512
00:54:43,958 --> 00:54:45,375
"Forget the beard.
I'm done"?
1513
00:54:45,458 --> 00:54:46,958
- I was like, "All right,
it's got to go."
1514
00:54:47,042 --> 00:54:48,208
- Mm.
- All right.
1515
00:54:48,292 --> 00:54:49,542
- Cameron,
you're feeling better?
1516
00:54:49,667 --> 00:54:50,792
- Yes, thank you.
- You look better.
1517
00:54:50,875 --> 00:54:52,417
- Thank you.
- Yes.
1518
00:54:52,500 --> 00:54:54,167
OK, we're glad you're OK
and want you to be OK.
1519
00:54:54,250 --> 00:54:55,833
Let's get into the season
and what happened.
1520
00:54:55,875 --> 00:54:58,708
And one of the things
that we talked about
1521
00:54:58,792 --> 00:55:03,292
is this fraud that was
perpetrated in this season.
1522
00:55:03,375 --> 00:55:05,417
Dr. Pepper,
I'll ask you your thoughts
1523
00:55:05,500 --> 00:55:06,833
and what you want
to say to these men
1524
00:55:06,875 --> 00:55:08,500
about what you've learned.
1525
00:55:08,625 --> 00:55:11,875
- I was shocked, truly shocked,
because, you know,
1526
00:55:11,958 --> 00:55:13,667
here we're sort of going with,
1527
00:55:13,750 --> 00:55:15,833
I hope, what you believe
were good intentions
1528
00:55:15,958 --> 00:55:17,625
about creating real marriages,
1529
00:55:17,708 --> 00:55:20,917
and I find
that there's been a plan
1530
00:55:20,917 --> 00:55:23,458
about what will be said
and what won't be said.
1531
00:55:23,542 --> 00:55:25,625
So if there's anything
we could do to really help,
1532
00:55:25,708 --> 00:55:27,542
we've been cut out
of the process.
1533
00:55:27,625 --> 00:55:29,833
So I really want to talk
to you, Cameron,
1534
00:55:29,917 --> 00:55:33,500
because I want to know
how you thought of this,
1535
00:55:33,583 --> 00:55:36,500
why you thought of this,
how you convinced them,
1536
00:55:36,542 --> 00:55:39,500
and why that was a good thing
or a bad thing.
1537
00:55:39,583 --> 00:55:42,375
- Well, the first point
that you just--
1538
00:55:42,500 --> 00:55:45,417
you made that I want to address
is you said convince them.
1539
00:55:45,500 --> 00:55:47,667
Who did I convince exactly?
1540
00:55:47,708 --> 00:55:51,833
- What I've heard is the idea
began with men,
1541
00:55:51,917 --> 00:55:54,417
not the women,
and that you were the person
1542
00:55:54,500 --> 00:55:57,792
who thought of this idea of
scripting what would follow.
1543
00:55:57,875 --> 00:55:59,875
So if it wasn't
their idea first,
1544
00:55:59,958 --> 00:56:01,625
then someone had
to give them the idea
1545
00:56:01,708 --> 00:56:03,625
and say,
"This is the way to go," right?
1546
00:56:03,708 --> 00:56:05,500
- Sure, yeah,
these are all provable lies.
1547
00:56:05,625 --> 00:56:08,875
I did not talk about
any plan or--
1548
00:56:08,875 --> 00:56:11,667
or what these gentlemen
should do with their marriages
1549
00:56:11,750 --> 00:56:13,417
at any moment.
1550
00:56:13,500 --> 00:56:17,500
I'm happy to take
accountability for my part.
1551
00:56:17,542 --> 00:56:21,667
The role I played
was because of my desire
1552
00:56:21,792 --> 00:56:24,542
to play to what I thought
was the optics
1553
00:56:24,667 --> 00:56:27,542
that were needed with you,
a deception.
1554
00:56:27,625 --> 00:56:29,125
So I just wanted
to address that.
1555
00:56:29,208 --> 00:56:30,792
And it's funny,
the side that is
1556
00:56:30,875 --> 00:56:34,000
throwing all these coordination
and collusion,
1557
00:56:34,125 --> 00:56:36,542
they're the ones showing up,
color-matching outfits.
1558
00:56:36,625 --> 00:56:40,333
It's just-- it's just--
it's awfully convenient
1559
00:56:40,417 --> 00:56:43,417
that exactly what they're doing
1560
00:56:43,500 --> 00:56:45,833
is exactly what they're
saying that-- that we did.
1561
00:56:45,917 --> 00:56:49,958
And I want to say,
I understand your grievance,
1562
00:56:50,042 --> 00:56:52,375
Dr. Pepper, and I am ashamed.
- Thank you.
1563
00:56:54,708 --> 00:56:57,042
- Tell us what
you're feeling right now.
1564
00:56:59,542 --> 00:57:01,958
- It just makes me feel
1565
00:57:02,042 --> 00:57:05,125
like I've learned nothing
in my life.
1566
00:57:05,208 --> 00:57:08,458
[soft dramatic music]
1567
00:57:08,542 --> 00:57:10,667
- And we just keep
learning things the whole time.
1568
00:57:10,792 --> 00:57:12,250
It's not like
a straight trajectory
1569
00:57:12,333 --> 00:57:15,333
for anybody.
- Yeah.
1570
00:57:15,333 --> 00:57:16,750
Sorry, I kind of
blacked out there.
1571
00:57:16,833 --> 00:57:18,458
I don't know if I apologize--
I was trying to apologize.
1572
00:57:18,542 --> 00:57:20,000
- I received it.
1573
00:57:20,083 --> 00:57:23,375
- But I know I lied
to your face, Dr. Pepper,
1574
00:57:23,542 --> 00:57:25,000
and if I did it
to you guys as well,
1575
00:57:25,083 --> 00:57:27,125
I'm sorry if I don't have
as clear of a memory of it,
1576
00:57:27,208 --> 00:57:29,167
but I definitely remember that.
1577
00:57:29,208 --> 00:57:30,125
- Thank you for the apology.
1578
00:57:30,208 --> 00:57:32,167
I-- I really appreciate that,
1579
00:57:32,208 --> 00:57:34,542
and it's a hard thing to do.
1580
00:57:34,625 --> 00:57:36,250
- Pastor Cal,
as you're listening
1581
00:57:36,333 --> 00:57:37,917
to this, your thoughts?
1582
00:57:39,917 --> 00:57:43,625
- I'm completely conflicted
because the story
1583
00:57:43,708 --> 00:57:46,333
that we got from the women
was that
1584
00:57:46,417 --> 00:57:49,167
there was this secret pact.
1585
00:57:49,292 --> 00:57:52,833
Now I'm hearing
the exact flip side.
1586
00:57:52,875 --> 00:57:54,417
So I want you guys
to understand
1587
00:57:54,542 --> 00:57:57,833
how confusing this is.
1588
00:57:57,875 --> 00:57:59,292
- I can't get into
a "that's true
1589
00:57:59,375 --> 00:58:00,750
and that's false" thing.
1590
00:58:00,833 --> 00:58:04,167
It's gone on too deep,
too confusingly for me
1591
00:58:04,208 --> 00:58:05,542
to try to take that role.
1592
00:58:05,625 --> 00:58:07,167
I am sorry for the suffering
1593
00:58:07,208 --> 00:58:08,708
that you have endured,
1594
00:58:08,792 --> 00:58:11,625
just as I'm feeling sad
for the women.
1595
00:58:11,708 --> 00:58:13,542
I would take it on myself
to say
1596
00:58:13,625 --> 00:58:15,750
there's enormous lessons here,
1597
00:58:15,833 --> 00:58:18,167
and we still want
the best for you.
1598
00:58:18,208 --> 00:58:23,000
So to go on and not let
these things undermine you,
1599
00:58:23,083 --> 00:58:26,125
but rather be
a new floor, a new door,
1600
00:58:26,208 --> 00:58:29,417
you know, ways to find yourself
and take it and say,
1601
00:58:29,542 --> 00:58:31,208
"I'm a stronger,
better person."
1602
00:58:31,333 --> 00:58:33,292
- Focus on healing yourself.
1603
00:58:33,375 --> 00:58:35,500
Focus on taking care
of yourself.
1604
00:58:35,583 --> 00:58:37,958
Focus on learning
how did I get here?
1605
00:58:38,042 --> 00:58:40,167
If there was some reason where
it's like I need to protect
1606
00:58:40,250 --> 00:58:42,875
so and so or I'm afraid
that this is going to happen,
1607
00:58:42,958 --> 00:58:46,500
ask yourself why.
What was going on?
1608
00:58:46,583 --> 00:58:49,667
So that that doesn't repeat
itself in the future.
1609
00:58:49,708 --> 00:58:53,500
I think that you all need
some individual support
1610
00:58:53,583 --> 00:58:55,167
to help navigate
that because this is
1611
00:58:55,250 --> 00:58:57,750
a completely unique situation.
1612
00:58:57,833 --> 00:59:01,500
- You have to take time, reset,
reevaluate where you are.
1613
00:59:01,625 --> 00:59:03,500
Who do I want?
Who am I?
1614
00:59:03,542 --> 00:59:07,042
It's a lot to process.
It's a lot to swallow, OK?
1615
00:59:07,125 --> 00:59:09,042
- May I add a comment?
- Yes, you can, please.
1616
00:59:09,125 --> 00:59:12,417
- My hope-- and feel free if
you guys disagree with this--
1617
00:59:12,542 --> 00:59:15,583
for me just being here
at the reunion and having
1618
00:59:15,667 --> 00:59:18,167
this opportunity, my hope
for you guys is that there was
1619
00:59:18,250 --> 00:59:21,542
a healing element to be--
being able to have a platform
1620
00:59:21,708 --> 00:59:24,250
to state what your truth was.
1621
00:59:24,375 --> 00:59:26,833
Me specifically,
I think the element that
1622
00:59:26,875 --> 00:59:29,500
I've focused on here
is the growth element.
1623
00:59:29,625 --> 00:59:32,083
My one-on-one with Chloe
was very illuminating
1624
00:59:32,167 --> 00:59:33,917
for me personally,
1625
00:59:33,917 --> 00:59:35,833
and I think there was
a healing component there,
1626
00:59:35,958 --> 00:59:38,417
but more so,
a growth component.
1627
00:59:38,500 --> 00:59:42,500
So as [bleep] as things
may have seemed,
1628
00:59:42,583 --> 00:59:44,500
I do think there is
a slight silver lining
1629
00:59:44,583 --> 00:59:47,250
that this moment here
may be a catalyst
1630
00:59:47,375 --> 00:59:49,667
for the healing and the growth.
1631
00:59:49,750 --> 00:59:52,000
- I think that's what we hope.
- I hope so.
1632
00:59:52,083 --> 00:59:53,833
- Brennan, you wanted
to say something real quick.
1633
00:59:53,917 --> 00:59:55,083
Go ahead.
1634
00:59:55,167 --> 00:59:57,333
- Dr. Pia,
I wanted to apologize to you.
1635
00:59:57,375 --> 01:00:01,833
I think you saw two sides
of Brennan in this experience.
1636
01:00:01,917 --> 01:00:04,500
You saw the fun-loving,
excited, energetic Brennan
1637
01:00:04,667 --> 01:00:06,500
in the beginning, right?
1638
01:00:06,583 --> 01:00:07,708
And then you saw, you know,
1639
01:00:07,792 --> 01:00:09,000
the "backed in
the corner" Brennan.
1640
01:00:09,083 --> 01:00:11,458
In that moment, I was trying
to be protective,
1641
01:00:11,542 --> 01:00:13,542
and I was controlling,
1642
01:00:13,625 --> 01:00:16,708
and I take full responsibility
for that.
1643
01:00:16,792 --> 01:00:18,750
I don't think I gave you
a fair chance
1644
01:00:18,750 --> 01:00:20,583
at letting you help us,
1645
01:00:20,667 --> 01:00:23,000
and I do sincerely apologize
for that.
1646
01:00:23,042 --> 01:00:26,833
- Brennan, I am very proud
of you for saying that.
1647
01:00:26,875 --> 01:00:29,542
To hear the words, "I did this,
I was controlling,"
1648
01:00:29,667 --> 01:00:31,083
I think that's huge.
1649
01:00:31,208 --> 01:00:32,500
I think that's huge,
and I-- and I thank you
1650
01:00:32,625 --> 01:00:34,875
for that apology,
and I thank you
1651
01:00:34,958 --> 01:00:36,750
for taking ownership
and recognizing that,
1652
01:00:36,875 --> 01:00:38,500
and I hope that
that's something
1653
01:00:38,542 --> 01:00:41,792
that you can continue
to lean into
1654
01:00:41,875 --> 01:00:43,625
and to grow into
because I think that that
1655
01:00:43,708 --> 01:00:46,292
takes a lot to own that.
1656
01:00:46,375 --> 01:00:48,792
And thank you for that apology.
- That was awesome.
1657
01:00:48,875 --> 01:00:51,625
That's a great way to end
this segment right now
1658
01:00:51,708 --> 01:00:54,167
with people
growing and moving forward.
1659
01:00:54,208 --> 01:00:55,958
Gentlemen, thank you
for being out here.
1660
01:00:56,042 --> 01:00:58,125
Experts, thank you for
what you do because I mean,
1661
01:00:58,208 --> 01:01:01,875
it is very hard,
but you do put your heart
1662
01:01:01,958 --> 01:01:04,833
and soul into this,
and we appreciate that.
1663
01:01:04,917 --> 01:01:06,667
All right, thanks, everybody.
1664
01:01:06,750 --> 01:01:07,875
There is still more of "Married
at First Sight" reunion
1665
01:01:07,958 --> 01:01:10,000
on the way in just a moment.
1666
01:01:10,042 --> 01:01:11,833
- Thank you, guys.
- Thank you.
1667
01:01:11,875 --> 01:01:13,250
- Sorry we're causing you
so much heat.
1668
01:01:13,333 --> 01:01:14,542
- My man.
1669
01:01:14,542 --> 01:01:16,500
- Take care of yourself,
Cameron.
1670
01:01:16,583 --> 01:01:17,458
Your health is
of utmost importance.
1671
01:01:17,542 --> 01:01:18,667
- I learned.
1672
01:01:18,750 --> 01:01:20,250
I learned late, but I learned.
1673
01:01:20,375 --> 01:01:22,500
- I'm sorry I didn't put
my faith in you, you know,
1674
01:01:22,542 --> 01:01:24,542
and I should have.
1675
01:01:24,625 --> 01:01:26,000
I should have.
- Much respect.
1676
01:01:26,042 --> 01:01:27,500
- I am-- I'm sorry.
- Much respect. Much respect.
1677
01:01:27,583 --> 01:01:28,292
Much respect.
1678
01:01:32,292 --> 01:01:36,417
- Last one, boys. Come on.
Let's go. Come on.
1679
01:01:36,500 --> 01:01:37,958
- Almost there.
It's all good.
1680
01:01:38,042 --> 01:01:39,958
We just have to keep fighting.
- Yeah.
1681
01:01:40,042 --> 01:01:42,042
- It was hard to see you
get emotional.
1682
01:01:42,125 --> 01:01:44,667
I'm glad you were able
to open up.
1683
01:01:44,708 --> 01:01:47,333
- I'm sorry.
We got this.
1684
01:01:47,375 --> 01:01:48,958
- No, we don't.
We sit there.
1685
01:01:49,042 --> 01:01:51,292
We do nothing
because we are not liars.
1686
01:01:51,375 --> 01:01:53,292
Come on, let's go.
1687
01:01:53,375 --> 01:01:55,667
[tense music]
1688
01:01:55,750 --> 01:01:57,167
- Round two.
Here we go.
1689
01:01:57,292 --> 01:01:59,708
All right, keep it going.
- We have to finish this.
1690
01:01:59,792 --> 01:02:01,458
Believe it or not,
it doesn't matter.
1691
01:02:01,542 --> 01:02:03,000
It does not matter.
1692
01:02:03,083 --> 01:02:04,250
- The girls
weren't even friends.
1693
01:02:04,375 --> 01:02:05,583
Like, through filming,
1694
01:02:05,667 --> 01:02:06,458
the girls
weren't even friends.
1695
01:02:06,542 --> 01:02:07,500
- Yeah, I know.
- Like--
1696
01:02:07,583 --> 01:02:09,458
- Emily hated Clare.
1697
01:02:09,542 --> 01:02:12,708
One of my biggest regrets was
getting Emily to like Clare.
1698
01:02:12,792 --> 01:02:14,042
- But, guys,
this is the last stretch.
1699
01:02:14,167 --> 01:02:15,375
- Grand finale.
1700
01:02:15,500 --> 01:02:16,500
Please no one say
they're tired.
1701
01:02:16,625 --> 01:02:17,958
Please everyone give their all.
1702
01:02:18,042 --> 01:02:19,833
- Oh, we are tired,
and we can say that.
1703
01:02:19,875 --> 01:02:22,167
- I know, but now is not time
to give up, seriously.
1704
01:02:22,250 --> 01:02:24,708
♪
1705
01:02:37,042 --> 01:02:38,333
- Please don't look
at me like that.
1706
01:02:38,417 --> 01:02:40,042
- That's unreal.
- Me?
1707
01:02:40,125 --> 01:02:42,333
- You guys should just--
heads down after that.
1708
01:02:42,417 --> 01:02:46,333
♪
1709
01:02:46,417 --> 01:02:48,333
- Such a liar.
1710
01:02:48,417 --> 01:02:49,958
♪
1711
01:02:50,042 --> 01:02:51,833
- You're really good at lying,
I'm not gonna lie.
1712
01:02:51,875 --> 01:02:53,500
- Can you guys just like--
1713
01:02:53,625 --> 01:02:55,000
it's over.
1714
01:02:55,083 --> 01:02:56,250
- Can you just not?
It's not over.
1715
01:02:56,375 --> 01:02:58,542
- Emily, hold on.
Hold on. Hold on. Hold on.
1716
01:02:58,667 --> 01:02:59,917
- But it's not over.
1717
01:02:59,917 --> 01:03:01,500
- Here's my hope
and my dream is that
1718
01:03:01,583 --> 01:03:03,917
we can have a civil, elevated,
1719
01:03:03,917 --> 01:03:05,875
and intelligent conversation.
1720
01:03:05,958 --> 01:03:08,333
You know what I'm saying?
- This is a lot.
1721
01:03:08,458 --> 01:03:09,792
- No, it's a lot.
1722
01:03:09,875 --> 01:03:11,250
But I'm saying,
we can disagree.
1723
01:03:11,333 --> 01:03:12,917
It just doesn't
have to be antagonistic.
1724
01:03:13,042 --> 01:03:14,167
We can have a--
- That is very true.
1725
01:03:14,333 --> 01:03:15,625
- It can be civil.
1726
01:03:15,833 --> 01:03:17,833
It doesn't have to be
antagonistic.
- I liked my statements.
1727
01:03:17,917 --> 01:03:20,500
- OK, here we go.
1728
01:03:20,583 --> 01:03:27,000
♪
1729
01:03:27,042 --> 01:03:28,750
All right, here we go.
1730
01:03:28,875 --> 01:03:31,500
♪
1731
01:03:31,542 --> 01:03:33,208
Welcome back.
I'm Kevin Frazier,
1732
01:03:33,208 --> 01:03:34,833
and you're watching
the "Married At First Sight"
1733
01:03:34,917 --> 01:03:36,167
Denver reunion.
1734
01:03:36,208 --> 01:03:39,292
We've been getting
inside all the issues
1735
01:03:39,375 --> 01:03:42,208
and getting the inside scoop
also from the couples.
1736
01:03:42,292 --> 01:03:43,708
It's clear that there are
still issues
1737
01:03:43,792 --> 01:03:45,208
that need to be resolved.
1738
01:03:45,292 --> 01:03:47,167
As you know,
this season has been full
1739
01:03:47,250 --> 01:03:50,208
of accusations of lies,
miscommunications,
1740
01:03:50,292 --> 01:03:52,042
and hurt feelings.
1741
01:03:52,125 --> 01:03:55,000
I want to talk real quick about
the double-date situation.
1742
01:03:55,042 --> 01:03:56,833
I want you all to take
a look at this video,
1743
01:03:56,917 --> 01:03:58,000
and then we'll talk about it.
1744
01:03:58,083 --> 01:03:59,708
♪
1745
01:03:59,792 --> 01:04:02,583
- There are things
that are worth telling you
1746
01:04:02,583 --> 01:04:06,167
that you need to know.
1747
01:04:06,250 --> 01:04:07,958
I've heard
through the grapevine
1748
01:04:08,042 --> 01:04:10,042
that he wanted to go on
a double date with Cameron
1749
01:04:10,125 --> 01:04:13,000
and that he is going on dates.
1750
01:04:13,083 --> 01:04:14,875
Like, he's not a good guy.
1751
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:18,250
- [sobs]
[bleep].
1752
01:04:18,375 --> 01:04:21,833
I found out that you tried to
go on a double date with Cam.
1753
01:04:21,917 --> 01:04:23,125
- I don't know
what you're talking about.
1754
01:04:23,208 --> 01:04:24,750
- I don't--
1755
01:04:24,833 --> 01:04:26,250
- Me and Cam joke about [bleep]
all the time.
1756
01:04:26,333 --> 01:04:27,958
- Why can't you
just take ownership
1757
01:04:28,042 --> 01:04:29,042
to anything you [bleep] do
or even,
1758
01:04:29,125 --> 01:04:30,667
I don't know, say sorry?
1759
01:04:30,708 --> 01:04:33,833
- Yes, it does.
1760
01:04:33,917 --> 01:04:38,083
- To clear the air,
I was the instigator,
1761
01:04:38,208 --> 01:04:39,542
not Brennan.
1762
01:04:39,625 --> 01:04:42,792
I was the one that said,
"After all this, let's go out.
1763
01:04:42,875 --> 01:04:44,292
"Let's have a good time.
1764
01:04:44,375 --> 01:04:45,792
Let's go--
let's go on a double date."
1765
01:04:45,875 --> 01:04:47,917
- You know that you are
lying right now.
1766
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:49,750
Our whole experience does not--
1767
01:04:49,875 --> 01:04:51,292
does not--
- [laughs]
1768
01:04:51,292 --> 01:04:53,458
- Is not the indicator
of that conversation.
1769
01:04:53,542 --> 01:04:54,750
- I can never win this.
1770
01:04:54,875 --> 01:04:56,000
I'm always the--
I'm always the bad guy.
1771
01:04:56,083 --> 01:04:56,917
- That's the same response
he has.
1772
01:04:57,000 --> 01:04:58,125
He can never win.
1773
01:05:01,125 --> 01:05:02,292
- OK, so, Cameron, you said
1774
01:05:02,375 --> 01:05:04,042
that you suggested
the double date.
1775
01:05:04,167 --> 01:05:06,125
Can you tell us
exactly what happened?
1776
01:05:06,208 --> 01:05:07,417
- Yeah.
1777
01:05:07,500 --> 01:05:09,125
Brennan and I went over
to Union Station.
1778
01:05:11,500 --> 01:05:13,083
I don't know,
maybe a week or two back...
1779
01:05:13,208 --> 01:05:15,875
- This is
so [bleep] embarrassing.
1780
01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:18,458
- Approximately.
1781
01:05:18,542 --> 01:05:21,500
[soft dramatic music]
1782
01:05:21,625 --> 01:05:23,708
Should I continue?
- Go.
1783
01:05:23,833 --> 01:05:25,500
Go ahead and continue to lie.
1784
01:05:25,583 --> 01:05:27,417
- Please, please.
1785
01:05:27,500 --> 01:05:29,500
- What are we--
what is he lying about?
1786
01:05:29,583 --> 01:05:31,208
- Everything.
1787
01:05:31,292 --> 01:05:33,333
You asked to go-- you wanted
to [bleep] my best friend.
1788
01:05:33,458 --> 01:05:35,375
You told Cameron,
and Cameron lied about it.
1789
01:05:35,500 --> 01:05:37,458
Tell me that-- we were
in the hot tub together.
1790
01:05:37,542 --> 01:05:39,333
Cameron, is that true,
or is it not?
1791
01:05:39,417 --> 01:05:40,625
- That-- I'm sorry--
1792
01:05:40,708 --> 01:05:42,250
I don't expect you to tell
the truth at this point.
1793
01:05:42,333 --> 01:05:43,750
I don't.
- Sorry, what's the accusation?
1794
01:05:43,833 --> 01:05:46,042
- That he was
[bleep] other people.
1795
01:05:46,042 --> 01:05:47,083
- What?
- What?
1796
01:05:47,208 --> 01:05:48,292
So first,
you just said I wanted
1797
01:05:48,375 --> 01:05:49,458
to [bleep] someone else,
then you just said
1798
01:05:49,542 --> 01:05:50,750
now I actually
did [bleep] someone else.
1799
01:05:50,833 --> 01:05:51,917
Which one was it?
- Well, either way,
1800
01:05:52,042 --> 01:05:53,375
you're in a marriage, Brennan.
- Ah.
1801
01:05:53,458 --> 01:05:55,208
It doesn't matter.
- I never [bleep] anyone.
1802
01:05:55,333 --> 01:05:56,792
I never said
I wanted to [bleep] anyone.
1803
01:05:56,875 --> 01:05:58,000
I don't know what
you're talking about.
1804
01:05:58,208 --> 01:05:59,500
- Cameron said you wanted
to [bleep] my best friend
1805
01:05:59,583 --> 01:06:00,917
to both Austin and Cam.
- You just admitted before
1806
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:02,083
that that rumor
was clearly not true.
1807
01:06:02,208 --> 01:06:04,042
- It doesn't matter.
- Oh, here we go.
1808
01:06:04,167 --> 01:06:05,833
- It doesn't matter.
Doesn't matter.
1809
01:06:05,917 --> 01:06:06,875
Doesn't matter.
- Remember-- remember when--
1810
01:06:06,958 --> 01:06:08,375
- Facts don't matter.
1811
01:06:08,458 --> 01:06:09,417
- You both can continue
scheming the way you have
1812
01:06:09,542 --> 01:06:10,958
this entire time.
I'm not gonna--
1813
01:06:11,042 --> 01:06:11,667
- You guys are
the ones coordinated.
1814
01:06:11,750 --> 01:06:13,208
- Done.
1815
01:06:13,292 --> 01:06:14,333
- Talking about plans
every single day...
1816
01:06:14,417 --> 01:06:15,417
- No, we're done.
1817
01:06:15,542 --> 01:06:16,792
- 24/7 about
this whole process.
1818
01:06:16,875 --> 01:06:17,542
Like, we're not
coordinating anything.
1819
01:06:17,625 --> 01:06:19,667
- OK.
1820
01:06:19,708 --> 01:06:21,167
- I take offense to that.
1821
01:06:21,167 --> 01:06:23,333
The pink dresses,
you act like we were
1822
01:06:23,417 --> 01:06:26,167
scheming through the filming.
Look, this is separate.
1823
01:06:26,208 --> 01:06:28,542
Cameron, you can look
bewildered all you want.
1824
01:06:28,667 --> 01:06:31,167
That [bleep] won't fly with me.
1825
01:06:31,208 --> 01:06:35,667
You're trying to equate
the pact that you all made
1826
01:06:35,750 --> 01:06:38,208
to us deciding
our husbands suck,
1827
01:06:38,333 --> 01:06:39,958
our husbands were manipulative,
1828
01:06:40,042 --> 01:06:41,833
let's wear pink
in protest of them.
1829
01:06:41,875 --> 01:06:44,125
It's not the same.
Cut the [bleep].
1830
01:06:44,208 --> 01:06:45,042
Now continue on
with whatever
1831
01:06:45,125 --> 01:06:47,333
the [bleep] this is.
1832
01:06:47,375 --> 01:06:49,333
- You can't take a little jab
when everything
1833
01:06:49,375 --> 01:06:51,208
you say is a jab.
- Everything I say is a jab?
1834
01:06:51,333 --> 01:06:52,833
Baby, I ain't jabbed you yet.
1835
01:06:52,958 --> 01:06:54,375
- [laughs]
OK.
1836
01:06:54,375 --> 01:06:56,375
- Now, keep poking the bear,
and I'll bite
1837
01:06:56,458 --> 01:06:58,208
the [bleep] back.
1838
01:06:58,292 --> 01:07:01,500
Stop playing with me, Cameron,
because you don't scare me. OK?
1839
01:07:01,583 --> 01:07:02,667
- We all [bleep] know
who you are.
1840
01:07:02,750 --> 01:07:04,000
I'm sorry.
1841
01:07:04,083 --> 01:07:05,833
We read your [bleep]
crazy text messages.
1842
01:07:05,917 --> 01:07:06,917
- I promise you.
1843
01:07:07,042 --> 01:07:08,875
Try me if you want.
1844
01:07:08,958 --> 01:07:12,125
I'm not the one or the two.
Now continue.
1845
01:07:12,208 --> 01:07:15,125
Continue.
- We went to a bar.
1846
01:07:15,208 --> 01:07:16,708
It was after
that one-month mark
1847
01:07:16,792 --> 01:07:19,125
where we had that dinner
where you guys were separated,
1848
01:07:19,208 --> 01:07:21,000
and her and I were moving out.
1849
01:07:21,083 --> 01:07:23,000
- We were still working
on our marriage, but OK.
1850
01:07:23,083 --> 01:07:24,375
- Hold on, hold on.
I want to pause.
1851
01:07:24,542 --> 01:07:25,583
- Should we air the clip?
You say you're separated.
1852
01:07:25,667 --> 01:07:27,208
- Guys, hold on.
Hold on for a second.
1853
01:07:27,333 --> 01:07:29,333
I want to pause for a second.
Can we pause for a second?
1854
01:07:29,375 --> 01:07:30,708
- Why?
- Can we take a break?
1855
01:07:30,792 --> 01:07:32,875
- Brennan,
hold on for a second.
1856
01:07:32,958 --> 01:07:34,542
- [bleep], I'm not dealing
with his [bleep].
1857
01:07:34,667 --> 01:07:36,083
This is [bleep] up.
1858
01:07:36,167 --> 01:07:38,083
I'm done.
I'm done.
1859
01:07:38,167 --> 01:07:40,042
Oh, my God.
1860
01:07:40,125 --> 01:07:42,833
Like, what the [bleep]?
1861
01:07:42,917 --> 01:07:44,667
Oh.
1862
01:07:44,708 --> 01:07:46,333
- Why are you doing that?
- Because you are lying.
1863
01:07:46,458 --> 01:07:48,333
- I am lying
that you said on camera
1864
01:07:48,375 --> 01:07:50,042
on the one-month anniversary
that you were separated?
1865
01:07:50,042 --> 01:07:51,333
- You did it
two different times,
1866
01:07:51,458 --> 01:07:52,583
Brennan,
two different times,
1867
01:07:52,667 --> 01:07:53,958
when we were working
on our marriage
1868
01:07:53,958 --> 01:07:55,167
and when we were
already divorced.
1869
01:07:55,208 --> 01:07:56,208
- Did you announce
a separation?
1870
01:07:56,292 --> 01:07:57,750
- It doesn't matter.
I'm done.
1871
01:07:57,833 --> 01:07:59,500
I'm not talking to you anymore.
- It doesn't matter.
1872
01:07:59,583 --> 01:08:00,542
- Done.
Stop.
1873
01:08:02,792 --> 01:08:03,792
- It is like--
1874
01:08:03,875 --> 01:08:05,833
just it's unreal
how no one has
1875
01:08:05,833 --> 01:08:06,833
any accountability
for these men.
1876
01:08:06,958 --> 01:08:08,333
- What?
1877
01:08:08,417 --> 01:08:09,708
- And no one
is calling it out.
1878
01:08:09,792 --> 01:08:11,208
And we have to keep
explaining ourselves.
1879
01:08:11,292 --> 01:08:12,750
Like, it's
actually ridiculous.
1880
01:08:12,833 --> 01:08:14,583
[dramatic music]
1881
01:08:14,667 --> 01:08:15,750
- Everything we say
can't be a lie.
1882
01:08:15,833 --> 01:08:17,333
It's just not possible.
1883
01:08:17,417 --> 01:08:20,375
- I'm just disgusted
with everything today.
1884
01:08:20,375 --> 01:08:30,208
♪
1885
01:08:36,042 --> 01:08:36,958
- Everything we say
can't be a lie.
1886
01:08:36,958 --> 01:08:38,042
It's just not possible.
1887
01:08:38,042 --> 01:08:39,917
- But for all three of you
1888
01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:42,042
specifically to deny
1889
01:08:42,125 --> 01:08:44,000
any type of lying happening.
1890
01:08:44,042 --> 01:08:45,875
- What?
1891
01:08:45,875 --> 01:08:47,042
- Brennan can't
even acknowledge,
1892
01:08:47,125 --> 01:08:48,500
like, me sobbing on the clip.
1893
01:08:48,583 --> 01:08:52,458
Like, there's literally
no remorse whatsoever.
1894
01:08:52,542 --> 01:08:54,167
It's disgusting.
1895
01:08:54,250 --> 01:08:55,917
- I will say--
- I'll let them talk.
1896
01:08:56,042 --> 01:08:57,250
- Let them say the--
1897
01:08:57,375 --> 01:08:59,958
like, let them
get ten words out, OK?
1898
01:09:00,042 --> 01:09:01,000
Like, can we get
the [bleep] story?
1899
01:09:01,042 --> 01:09:02,333
- OK, go ahead.
1900
01:09:02,417 --> 01:09:03,333
- And then you can
call him a liar.
1901
01:09:03,375 --> 01:09:04,333
- We'll make it
short and sweet.
1902
01:09:04,375 --> 01:09:06,333
That's it.
- Go ahead.
1903
01:09:06,375 --> 01:09:09,125
- Brennan and I went out
to Union Station.
1904
01:09:09,208 --> 01:09:10,792
There were
two girls at the bar.
1905
01:09:10,875 --> 01:09:15,083
And from my perspective,
my marriage was plainly over.
1906
01:09:15,208 --> 01:09:17,500
Brennan, you were on the rocks.
1907
01:09:17,583 --> 01:09:19,417
- My marriage was plainly over.
1908
01:09:19,500 --> 01:09:21,167
- And so I thought
it would be funny to say,
1909
01:09:21,208 --> 01:09:22,750
"Hey, you know,
in a couple of months,
1910
01:09:22,833 --> 01:09:25,250
we can approach those two."
- And that was it.
1911
01:09:25,375 --> 01:09:27,167
There was no actionable--
- There was no action.
1912
01:09:27,333 --> 01:09:29,542
Did you approach the ladies?
- No.
1913
01:09:29,542 --> 01:09:31,167
- This is just
a malicious rumor.
1914
01:09:31,292 --> 01:09:32,708
- And that's just
my sense of humor.
1915
01:09:32,792 --> 01:09:34,208
That's like, we're just--
we're hanging out.
1916
01:09:34,292 --> 01:09:35,833
- OK, it's fine, whatever.
1917
01:09:35,958 --> 01:09:37,333
- Clare, I'm sorry, but if
you were genuinely concerned
1918
01:09:37,458 --> 01:09:38,708
about your friend,
you would have came
1919
01:09:38,833 --> 01:09:40,625
to me directly and said,
"Is there any truth to this?"
1920
01:09:40,708 --> 01:09:42,667
And you didn't do that.
1921
01:09:42,750 --> 01:09:44,333
- You also would have--
you should have come to me.
1922
01:09:44,375 --> 01:09:46,250
You didn't even check with me
if there was any truth to it.
1923
01:09:46,333 --> 01:09:48,292
[tense music]
1924
01:09:50,250 --> 01:09:51,833
- But I don't want him
to not have me out there
1925
01:09:51,917 --> 01:09:53,708
so he can just keep lying.
1926
01:09:53,833 --> 01:09:54,875
- Go ahead, Clare.
1927
01:09:54,958 --> 01:09:56,208
You wanted to say something.
1928
01:09:56,292 --> 01:09:59,000
- Nope.
- No?
1929
01:09:59,042 --> 01:10:02,000
- No, I'm not doing this
with you.
1930
01:10:02,125 --> 01:10:03,833
I'm not playing into it.
1931
01:10:03,917 --> 01:10:05,792
I will call my friend,
and she will tell the truth.
1932
01:10:05,875 --> 01:10:12,583
♪
1933
01:10:12,583 --> 01:10:14,542
- Saying you're cute
to a friend.
1934
01:10:14,542 --> 01:10:16,292
- What?
Do you have proof of that?
1935
01:10:16,375 --> 01:10:18,208
- 100%.
- Go ahead and show me.
1936
01:10:18,292 --> 01:10:21,708
- I will.
- Emily?
1937
01:10:21,833 --> 01:10:24,292
- Everything is disgusting
from today, everything.
1938
01:10:24,292 --> 01:10:25,792
I'm done.
1939
01:10:25,875 --> 01:10:28,917
I will sit here
so I can listen, but I'm done.
1940
01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:30,667
- I do not--
1941
01:10:30,708 --> 01:10:32,625
and this is me talking to you.
They can get mad at me.
1942
01:10:32,708 --> 01:10:35,042
Emily, if you
don't want to be here,
1943
01:10:35,125 --> 01:10:37,083
don't be, you know?
- I'm here.
1944
01:10:37,167 --> 01:10:38,167
And if I want to be here,
I'll be here.
1945
01:10:38,292 --> 01:10:39,625
So I'm here.
- OK, all right.
1946
01:10:39,708 --> 01:10:41,125
Well, I'm just making sure
you're OK.
1947
01:10:41,208 --> 01:10:44,000
- I'm not OK, but I'm--
I'm here.
1948
01:10:44,042 --> 01:10:46,208
- All right.
1949
01:10:46,292 --> 01:10:49,083
Guys, we've cleared that up.
You feel one way.
1950
01:10:49,167 --> 01:10:51,000
You feel another way.
1951
01:10:51,083 --> 01:10:52,667
I don't think there's
a single person sitting up here
1952
01:10:52,792 --> 01:10:54,583
who doesn't wish
this entire situation
1953
01:10:54,667 --> 01:10:56,125
was handled differently...
- I agree.
1954
01:10:56,208 --> 01:10:57,917
- Because of the way
it has turned out,
1955
01:10:58,000 --> 01:10:59,500
the amount of hurt.
1956
01:10:59,542 --> 01:11:02,667
I hate seeing her
so hurt and so angry.
1957
01:11:02,750 --> 01:11:04,375
We're supposed
to come back here together
1958
01:11:04,375 --> 01:11:06,917
and laugh
and talk about weddings
1959
01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:08,250
and the future and all that,
1960
01:11:08,333 --> 01:11:10,458
and we're not.
1961
01:11:10,542 --> 01:11:13,000
So let's just--
let's leave it where it is
1962
01:11:13,083 --> 01:11:14,583
and let's talk about
something else.
1963
01:11:14,708 --> 01:11:17,625
I know that there were a lot
of moments that didn't get
1964
01:11:17,708 --> 01:11:20,042
into the show, and there
are some that were captured
1965
01:11:20,125 --> 01:11:22,083
that you didn't get to see.
1966
01:11:22,167 --> 01:11:23,667
I want you to watch
this fun moment
1967
01:11:23,750 --> 01:11:26,958
between Chloe and Michael
that didn't make the cut.
1968
01:11:27,042 --> 01:11:28,500
[upbeat music]
1969
01:11:28,583 --> 01:11:33,375
- If you ever see me
in this coat in public,
1970
01:11:33,458 --> 01:11:35,792
that means I am subjugating
the city of Denver.
1971
01:11:35,792 --> 01:11:37,250
This is my supervillain.
1972
01:11:37,333 --> 01:11:39,167
- Is that a--
so that's a warning?
1973
01:11:39,250 --> 01:11:41,667
I'm gonna say no.
1974
01:11:41,792 --> 01:11:44,333
♪
1975
01:11:44,417 --> 01:11:46,000
- I actually tried that on
in there,
1976
01:11:46,083 --> 01:11:47,667
and it was a bit tight,
and it looks better on you.
1977
01:11:47,750 --> 01:11:49,500
- Do you budget
for what you spend,
1978
01:11:49,583 --> 01:11:51,125
or do you just
ride the lightning?
1979
01:11:51,208 --> 01:11:52,333
- This is discretionary.
1980
01:11:52,375 --> 01:11:54,167
- I'm just curious.
- This is just--
1981
01:11:54,250 --> 01:11:56,042
- I thought we'd talk about it.
1982
01:11:56,125 --> 01:11:57,750
- I mean, this would be
really rough.
1983
01:11:57,875 --> 01:12:00,042
I would probably say
like $4,000.
1984
01:12:00,167 --> 01:12:02,000
- Way lower
than I was expecting.
1985
01:12:02,125 --> 01:12:03,333
I'm a little surprised.
1986
01:12:03,375 --> 01:12:05,250
I don't know
how it could be possible
1987
01:12:05,375 --> 01:12:09,958
that my bougie husband,
in all of his drip,
1988
01:12:10,042 --> 01:12:14,292
could possibly spend less money
than I do on clothes.
1989
01:12:14,375 --> 01:12:16,292
- That was cute.
1990
01:12:16,375 --> 01:12:17,958
- First of all, we loved
that Chloe is dropping drip,
1991
01:12:18,042 --> 01:12:19,625
but also--
1992
01:12:19,625 --> 01:12:20,875
- Drip on the plate, baby.
Drip on the plate.
1993
01:12:21,000 --> 01:12:22,208
- There you go.
1994
01:12:22,292 --> 01:12:23,500
But was that a realistic
figure, Michael?
1995
01:12:23,583 --> 01:12:25,458
Seriously, was that-- 4,000?
1996
01:12:25,542 --> 01:12:27,250
You're spending more than that.
1997
01:12:27,375 --> 01:12:28,958
I mean, I'm looking at
what you got on right now.
1998
01:12:29,042 --> 01:12:30,500
It's more than that.
1999
01:12:30,583 --> 01:12:32,417
- It can fluctuate.
2000
01:12:32,500 --> 01:12:34,750
There's fluctuation.
I didn't want to scare her.
2001
01:12:34,875 --> 01:12:36,542
- He lied to me.
2002
01:12:36,667 --> 01:12:39,417
Why is this the season of lies?
2003
01:12:39,500 --> 01:12:41,500
- Did you enjoy having
a chance to shop together?
2004
01:12:41,542 --> 01:12:42,875
- That was super fun.
2005
01:12:42,958 --> 01:12:44,625
I love that he
appreciates thrifting,
2006
01:12:44,708 --> 01:12:48,000
and we had a really fun time.
I'd go back.
2007
01:12:48,083 --> 01:12:49,500
- I want to ask you guys.
2008
01:12:49,583 --> 01:12:51,167
You've already been seen out,
2009
01:12:51,250 --> 01:12:53,250
and someone has recognized you.
2010
01:12:53,375 --> 01:12:55,125
What is that like,
being out now
2011
01:12:55,208 --> 01:12:56,667
and people recognizing you?
2012
01:12:56,750 --> 01:12:58,500
- I forget
that I'm on a TV show,
2013
01:12:58,583 --> 01:13:01,167
and I'm just always wondering,
why do you know my name?
2014
01:13:01,250 --> 01:13:04,542
But so many people
watch this show.
2015
01:13:04,542 --> 01:13:05,917
And this is
a selfish thing to say,
2016
01:13:06,042 --> 01:13:09,167
but it just makes me
feel good that I'm always
2017
01:13:09,250 --> 01:13:11,875
so kind in public
and so loving and just,
2018
01:13:11,958 --> 01:13:13,542
like, a really nice person
to people
2019
01:13:13,667 --> 01:13:15,292
because I would hate to,
like, curse someone out
2020
01:13:15,375 --> 01:13:18,208
and, they're like,
"Yeah, I know who you are."
2021
01:13:18,292 --> 01:13:20,417
- I know you.
- So it's been OK.
2022
01:13:20,542 --> 01:13:22,167
It doesn't feel like
an invasion of my privacy.
2023
01:13:22,250 --> 01:13:23,833
It just feels weird.
2024
01:13:23,917 --> 01:13:25,958
- Mm-hmm.
Orion, how about for you?
2025
01:13:26,042 --> 01:13:28,542
- On the flight to here,
the lead attendant,
2026
01:13:28,625 --> 01:13:30,167
she recognized me.
2027
01:13:30,250 --> 01:13:31,542
- Did you get any extra,
like, goodies?
2028
01:13:31,625 --> 01:13:34,000
- I got a whiskey,
but that's about it.
2029
01:13:34,042 --> 01:13:35,708
- There you go.
2030
01:13:35,708 --> 01:13:37,458
How about anybody,
have your-- social media,
2031
01:13:37,542 --> 01:13:39,833
have people started sneaking
into your social media?
2032
01:13:39,917 --> 01:13:42,208
Because I have noticed
something that
2033
01:13:42,333 --> 01:13:45,583
they find y'all online quick.
2034
01:13:45,708 --> 01:13:46,458
You're shaking
your head, Chloe.
2035
01:13:46,542 --> 01:13:48,458
Go ahead.
2036
01:13:48,542 --> 01:13:50,417
- Well, for a very long time,
everybody thought
2037
01:13:50,417 --> 01:13:51,958
I was the runaway bride.
2038
01:13:52,042 --> 01:13:54,792
- That's not my fault,
just for the record.
2039
01:13:54,875 --> 01:13:57,333
- So they were creeping
into social media.
2040
01:13:57,333 --> 01:14:00,417
But I don't know
that I'm at a place where
2041
01:14:00,500 --> 01:14:03,500
I'm gonna want
to let everybody in.
2042
01:14:03,542 --> 01:14:06,583
My social media has been
a private piece of my life,
2043
01:14:06,667 --> 01:14:09,292
and I don't know.
I might keep it that way.
2044
01:14:09,375 --> 01:14:13,167
- I've actually had relatively
a positive experience so far.
2045
01:14:13,250 --> 01:14:15,750
After the runaway bride
thing aired,
2046
01:14:15,750 --> 01:14:17,750
I did get not a ton,
just a couple
2047
01:14:17,833 --> 01:14:20,000
of messages of like, "You know,
we hope everything is OK"
2048
01:14:20,083 --> 01:14:22,042
and like that.
2049
01:14:22,125 --> 01:14:24,333
It was, you know, humbling that
there were a handful of people
2050
01:14:24,417 --> 01:14:25,833
that took the time
to reach out to me
2051
01:14:25,917 --> 01:14:28,500
just as a show of support.
- Yeah.
2052
01:14:28,542 --> 01:14:31,417
- I got an article written
about me about how
2053
01:14:31,500 --> 01:14:33,500
I like to have
one-night stands,
2054
01:14:33,542 --> 01:14:37,042
when very clearly,
in the show and in real life,
2055
01:14:37,125 --> 01:14:40,458
I said I don't like
to have one-night stands.
2056
01:14:40,542 --> 01:14:43,250
And, like, a whole article
just on that?
2057
01:14:43,333 --> 01:14:45,208
- One-night stand guy, huh?
2058
01:14:45,292 --> 01:14:46,792
- I had nothing
until Brennan said
2059
01:14:46,875 --> 01:14:48,958
he wasn't attracted to me,
and then my DMs blew up.
2060
01:14:49,042 --> 01:14:51,000
Like, it just took
going all the way down,
2061
01:14:51,083 --> 01:14:53,500
getting beat all the way down,
for everyone to tell me
2062
01:14:53,542 --> 01:14:56,000
how they feel.
So that was nice.
2063
01:15:00,042 --> 01:15:02,667
Clare, what was your biggest
takeaway from this experience?
2064
01:15:02,708 --> 01:15:05,625
- Ooh, that's
a loaded question, Mr. Kevin.
2065
01:15:05,708 --> 01:15:06,833
- There's a lot of things
that you can say, so--
2066
01:15:06,875 --> 01:15:08,500
- Um...
2067
01:15:08,542 --> 01:15:09,875
[hums melody]
2068
01:15:10,042 --> 01:15:14,250
I think the main thing is
authenticity is key.
2069
01:15:14,333 --> 01:15:15,667
[soft dramatic music]
2070
01:15:15,750 --> 01:15:17,583
Speaking your truth is key.
2071
01:15:17,667 --> 01:15:19,250
Healing and community is key.
2072
01:15:19,333 --> 01:15:21,208
- Mm-hmm.
2073
01:15:21,208 --> 01:15:24,375
Cameron, what is the way you've
grown through this experience?
2074
01:15:24,458 --> 01:15:26,833
- The older and older I get,
the more and more
2075
01:15:26,917 --> 01:15:28,250
I learn about accountability.
2076
01:15:28,333 --> 01:15:31,125
We all make mistakes.
2077
01:15:31,208 --> 01:15:33,708
None of us are perfect.
2078
01:15:33,792 --> 01:15:36,583
But learning
and taking accountability
2079
01:15:36,667 --> 01:15:38,333
is the most important.
2080
01:15:38,417 --> 01:15:41,292
♪
2081
01:15:41,375 --> 01:15:44,083
- I grew in ways I didn't even
know I needed to grow.
2082
01:15:44,208 --> 01:15:46,833
I thought I had come so far
in my just overall
2083
01:15:46,875 --> 01:15:50,500
healing journey, and then don't
ask for opportunities to grow
2084
01:15:50,583 --> 01:15:52,625
if you're not ready for them.
2085
01:15:52,708 --> 01:15:54,500
And I asked for those
opportunities to grow,
2086
01:15:54,583 --> 01:15:56,042
and I was given
every single one,
2087
01:15:56,125 --> 01:16:01,542
and it was transformational
for me, yeah.
2088
01:16:01,625 --> 01:16:04,292
- My biggest strength
and weakness is always trying
2089
01:16:04,375 --> 01:16:06,125
to see the best in people.
2090
01:16:06,208 --> 01:16:09,958
And I will never try
to fall for the potential
2091
01:16:10,042 --> 01:16:11,875
and always remember
what you see is what you get.
2092
01:16:11,958 --> 01:16:13,292
♪
2093
01:16:13,375 --> 01:16:15,000
- Mm-hmm.
2094
01:16:16,125 --> 01:16:18,667
Becca, in what way have you
grown from this experience?
2095
01:16:21,375 --> 01:16:23,042
- I learned a lot.
2096
01:16:23,125 --> 01:16:25,000
- Mm-hmm.
2097
01:16:25,125 --> 01:16:28,917
- I think I learned
to not chase something
2098
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:32,500
that doesn't chase me.
- Mm-hmm.
2099
01:16:32,583 --> 01:16:34,625
- And I already knew that,
but it's just
2100
01:16:34,708 --> 01:16:37,333
to remember what I deserve
and remember
2101
01:16:37,375 --> 01:16:40,042
who I am and just
hold true to that.
2102
01:16:40,125 --> 01:16:41,875
♪
2103
01:16:41,958 --> 01:16:44,125
- I think the biggest takeaway
for me,
2104
01:16:44,208 --> 01:16:46,917
it's being more mindful of
what I might have considered
2105
01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:50,250
the small and innocuous things
and that just because I may
2106
01:16:50,375 --> 01:16:53,083
have thought that, oh, it was
just something done in passing
2107
01:16:53,167 --> 01:16:56,167
doesn't mean that it doesn't
have a reverberating effect
2108
01:16:56,208 --> 01:16:57,708
on someone.
2109
01:16:57,792 --> 01:16:59,375
- I think I could use
that lesson as well.
2110
01:16:59,500 --> 01:17:01,875
- It's yours to take.
2111
01:17:01,875 --> 01:17:04,833
- I mean,
something that obviously
2112
01:17:04,917 --> 01:17:07,833
was an issue
between us was intimacy
2113
01:17:07,917 --> 01:17:11,833
and recognizing
the other's love language
2114
01:17:11,917 --> 01:17:14,167
and trying to adapt to that.
2115
01:17:14,208 --> 01:17:17,708
I wish I could have
better adapted to that
2116
01:17:17,792 --> 01:17:20,875
so I could have
shown her and separated
2117
01:17:20,958 --> 01:17:24,292
what was real and what wasn't.
- Mm-hmm.
2118
01:17:24,375 --> 01:17:26,000
Well said.
2119
01:17:26,083 --> 01:17:28,917
Orion, what lessons
did you learn?
2120
01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:31,042
- How to be more clear
in the things I'm saying
2121
01:17:31,125 --> 01:17:35,125
and to be even more clear
about the intention
2122
01:17:35,208 --> 01:17:36,875
of what I'm saying.
2123
01:17:37,000 --> 01:17:41,000
- I've learned to trust myself,
2124
01:17:41,042 --> 01:17:43,000
to trust my first instinct.
2125
01:17:43,083 --> 01:17:46,625
And I will never miss out
on love
2126
01:17:46,708 --> 01:17:50,875
by giving love freely.
2127
01:17:50,958 --> 01:17:52,500
I'm grateful.
I sit here.
2128
01:17:52,583 --> 01:17:53,833
I'm not angry.
2129
01:17:53,917 --> 01:17:56,292
I'm not sad.
I'm not resentful.
2130
01:17:56,375 --> 01:17:57,958
I'm not remorseful.
2131
01:17:58,042 --> 01:18:02,500
I'm just overwhelmingly happy
with my life right now.
2132
01:18:02,583 --> 01:18:03,708
♪
2133
01:18:03,792 --> 01:18:05,750
- That's fantastic.
2134
01:18:05,833 --> 01:18:09,375
You know, after 17 seasons,
we have seen 69 couples
2135
01:18:09,458 --> 01:18:11,833
get married
as complete strangers.
2136
01:18:11,917 --> 01:18:13,958
Now the most successful,
whether they stayed married
2137
01:18:14,042 --> 01:18:16,958
or got divorced,
have used this experience
2138
01:18:16,958 --> 01:18:19,208
to practice
working through conflict
2139
01:18:19,292 --> 01:18:20,917
and into reconciliation.
2140
01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:23,083
Now that we have
talked things out
2141
01:18:23,167 --> 01:18:25,667
and I'm not gonna say
we've 100% cleared the air,
2142
01:18:25,750 --> 01:18:28,167
but we've kind of cleared
the air around some of
2143
01:18:28,208 --> 01:18:29,792
the most heated arguments,
I just want to thank you all
2144
01:18:29,875 --> 01:18:31,833
for being here
because this was hard as hell.
2145
01:18:31,875 --> 01:18:33,208
- Thank you.
- Thank God.
2146
01:18:33,292 --> 01:18:34,875
- This was tough.
2147
01:18:34,958 --> 01:18:36,333
- We went through laughs,
cries, everything in-between,
2148
01:18:36,417 --> 01:18:37,625
and you're great.
2149
01:18:37,708 --> 01:18:39,458
- Whether you all
agreed or not,
2150
01:18:39,458 --> 01:18:41,833
I wanted everybody to have
a chance to say their piece,
2151
01:18:41,958 --> 01:18:43,417
and then you can move on.
2152
01:18:43,500 --> 01:18:45,667
And I want you all to move on.
2153
01:18:45,750 --> 01:18:47,250
Thank you for being
a part of this journey.
2154
01:18:47,333 --> 01:18:50,042
We wouldn't be here
if it weren't for your courage
2155
01:18:50,125 --> 01:18:52,083
in marrying
a complete stranger
2156
01:18:52,167 --> 01:18:54,625
and living it out
for all of us to see.
2157
01:18:54,708 --> 01:18:57,000
We have had a chance
to cover everything
2158
01:18:57,083 --> 01:18:59,000
that we could talk about
with the Denver season
2159
01:18:59,083 --> 01:19:00,625
of "Married at First Sight."
2160
01:19:00,708 --> 01:19:03,000
But before we go,
I'm excited to share
2161
01:19:03,083 --> 01:19:05,583
an exclusive sneak peek of
the upcoming season
2162
01:19:05,708 --> 01:19:07,833
of "Married at First Sight"
Chicago.
2163
01:19:07,958 --> 01:19:11,500
- Oh, Lord.
- Take a look.
2164
01:19:11,542 --> 01:19:13,333
[upbeat music]
2165
01:19:13,375 --> 01:19:16,250
- ♪ Can we make this
last forever? ♪
2166
01:19:16,333 --> 01:19:17,958
♪ You and me together
2167
01:19:18,042 --> 01:19:20,667
- Welcome to my beautiful city
of Chicago.
2168
01:19:20,750 --> 01:19:22,708
I am so excited.
2169
01:19:22,792 --> 01:19:24,333
Chicago is a great place
to find love.
2170
01:19:24,375 --> 01:19:26,833
- There's some really
great people here,
2171
01:19:26,917 --> 01:19:28,917
and they're ready for this.
2172
01:19:29,000 --> 01:19:31,000
- What drew you to
"Married at First Sight"?
2173
01:19:31,042 --> 01:19:32,083
- I'm ready for love.
2174
01:19:32,167 --> 01:19:34,042
I'm ready for the next step.
2175
01:19:34,125 --> 01:19:36,792
- I've been looking for
somebody for my entire life,
2176
01:19:36,875 --> 01:19:38,333
and I just haven't found it.
2177
01:19:38,375 --> 01:19:39,833
- I've been going on a lot
of bad dates in Chicago.
2178
01:19:39,917 --> 01:19:42,292
- Really?
- I feel like I deserve love.
2179
01:19:42,375 --> 01:19:44,000
- I think you do, too.
2180
01:19:44,125 --> 01:19:46,167
- You are getting married.
2181
01:19:46,250 --> 01:19:48,333
- Sorry, guys,
missed your chance.
2182
01:19:48,458 --> 01:19:51,083
- In two weeks,
you are going to be a husband.
2183
01:19:51,208 --> 01:19:52,833
- All right, let's go.
- Whoo!
2184
01:19:52,917 --> 01:19:54,458
- It's happy tears.
2185
01:19:54,542 --> 01:19:58,333
- I'm a wife!
- Yes! Yes!
2186
01:19:58,375 --> 01:20:00,792
- It's my wedding day.
I'm getting married.
2187
01:20:00,875 --> 01:20:03,375
- Whoo!
- I want to be happy.
2188
01:20:03,500 --> 01:20:06,000
I want to love somebody.
I want to be loved.
2189
01:20:06,083 --> 01:20:07,625
- I am ready
for the next chapter.
2190
01:20:07,708 --> 01:20:09,500
- It's a lifelong commitment.
2191
01:20:09,583 --> 01:20:11,250
It's the beginning
of a family.
2192
01:20:11,333 --> 01:20:13,083
So it's now or never.
2193
01:20:13,208 --> 01:20:14,625
- I want to be married.
2194
01:20:14,708 --> 01:20:16,375
I want to start my life.
2195
01:20:16,458 --> 01:20:20,208
♪
2196
01:20:20,292 --> 01:20:21,833
- I'm about
to marry a stranger.
2197
01:20:21,875 --> 01:20:23,000
Like, I'd be crazy
if I wasn't nervous.
2198
01:20:23,083 --> 01:20:25,042
- The unknown scares me.
2199
01:20:25,167 --> 01:20:26,917
I mean, everything is unknown
in this situation.
2200
01:20:27,042 --> 01:20:29,958
- Biggest fear would be
that he doesn't like me.
2201
01:20:30,042 --> 01:20:31,208
Would it be the end
of the world
2202
01:20:31,333 --> 01:20:32,792
if I just literally
didn't do this?
2203
01:20:32,875 --> 01:20:35,625
- Please stand.
- Ah! Panic.
2204
01:20:35,708 --> 01:20:38,917
- I'm excited
to see who my wife is.
2205
01:20:39,042 --> 01:20:41,000
- I really don't know
if I can do this.
2206
01:20:41,083 --> 01:20:42,250
♪
2207
01:20:42,375 --> 01:20:44,167
- Is she running away?
2208
01:20:44,250 --> 01:20:46,000
- Chicago looks like
it'll be fun.
2209
01:20:46,083 --> 01:20:48,542
I don't think
it'll be like this,
2210
01:20:48,625 --> 01:20:50,833
but it looks like it'll be fun.
2211
01:20:50,958 --> 01:20:53,333
Thanks, you guys, again.
- Thank you.
2212
01:20:53,375 --> 01:20:54,958
- I am Kevin Frazier,
and for everybody
2213
01:20:55,042 --> 01:20:56,667
from the Denver season,
good night
2214
01:20:56,750 --> 01:20:58,333
and thanks for joining us,
y'all.
2215
01:20:58,417 --> 01:21:00,125
- Cheers.
2216
01:21:00,208 --> 01:21:01,750
- Next week on
"Married at First Sight..."
2217
01:21:01,833 --> 01:21:03,292
- Oh, oh, oh, wow.
2218
01:21:03,375 --> 01:21:05,917
- We are happy, healing,
and looking hot.
2219
01:21:05,917 --> 01:21:07,417
[laughter]
2220
01:21:07,500 --> 01:21:09,500
- One more button lower,
and I would think
2221
01:21:09,583 --> 01:21:11,083
you were coming on to me.
2222
01:21:11,208 --> 01:21:12,833
- Did you miss him when
he was gone from the house?
2223
01:21:12,917 --> 01:21:15,167
- She did.
- Aw.
2224
01:21:15,250 --> 01:21:16,583
- Who knows?
Before you know it,
2225
01:21:16,667 --> 01:21:18,292
you're in love
with your roommate.
2226
01:21:18,375 --> 01:21:19,875
- You know the internet
has been willing this.
2227
01:21:19,958 --> 01:21:21,208
- The internet
has been waiting for--
2228
01:21:21,292 --> 01:21:23,125
- They have been willing
this interaction.
2229
01:21:23,250 --> 01:21:24,458
- Here we are.
2230
01:21:24,542 --> 01:21:25,792
[dramatic music]
2231
01:21:25,875 --> 01:21:29,042
Chloe and I
are no longer friends.
2232
01:21:29,125 --> 01:21:33,000
She became very irate
when I followed Michael
2233
01:21:33,083 --> 01:21:35,375
on social media.
2234
01:21:35,458 --> 01:21:37,167
- One of them
with a burner account
2235
01:21:37,208 --> 01:21:39,000
has written
the most horrifying things
2236
01:21:39,083 --> 01:21:41,125
that you could possibly imagine
about me.
2237
01:21:41,125 --> 01:21:43,625
- I have no ill will.
- Oh, I do.
2238
01:21:43,708 --> 01:21:44,958
- I know you do.
2239
01:21:45,042 --> 01:21:46,750
- These women
do not want to heal.
2240
01:21:46,833 --> 01:21:49,750
- I feel like it's healthy
to have a little bit of hate.
2241
01:21:49,875 --> 01:21:51,333
- I wish them everything
they may need
2242
01:21:51,458 --> 01:21:52,792
to be different people.
2243
01:21:52,875 --> 01:21:56,875
♪
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