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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:03,320 LUCINDA: Look at this gorgeous creature. 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:05,360 NARRATOR: Five weeks ago... 3 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:07,960 SARA: I'm in awe. He is perfect. 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,280 ..singles from across the country 5 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:13,400 took the ultimate romantic leap of faith. 6 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:14,840 ANDREA: Experts have rocked it. 7 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:17,400 ELLIE: I feel like this could be it. 8 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,640 Like, I don't know how that could be. 9 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:25,080 And following the last commitment ceremony... 10 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:26,920 ELLIE: I don't even know where he is. 11 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:29,440 ..Ben disappeared for 24 hours... (RINGING TONE) 12 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:36,160 ..only to return with a list of things he didn't like about his wife. 13 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,560 He didn't like that I applied make-up, 14 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:40,920 he didn't like that I was sensitive or emotional. 15 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:42,400 TRISTAN: Moddy! 16 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:43,720 Whoa! 17 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,440 A catch-up with family and friends 18 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:49,880 led to major breakthroughs for some of our couples. 19 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:51,280 Focus on the good things. 20 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,360 (IMITATES COMPLAINING) You know, it's boring. 21 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:57,320 You need to not get your tits in a tangle and pull your finger out. 22 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:58,480 I do like your advice. 23 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,400 It could be a one-night stand, but just try it. 24 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,200 (LAUGHS) 25 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:04,560 Well, he should! 26 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:07,000 But for Jack... 27 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,600 "Put a muzzle on it..." I mean, it's not the 1950s. 28 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:14,320 ..he was left feeling the pressure from Tori's best friend Leah. 29 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:18,360 He apologised. Hope it was genuine but I highly doubt that. 30 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:20,440 And a fiery dinner party... 31 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:22,800 You've always been a grandstander... (BANGS TABLE) since day one! 32 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:24,120 OTHERS: Oooh! 33 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:27,040 ..led to a brutal public break-up. 34 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:28,880 I do believe we're better off friends. 35 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:31,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 36 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:35,120 What? He's just broken up with her in front of the whole table. 37 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:41,120 Tonight at the commitment ceremony... 38 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:42,960 Sorry. (CRIES) 39 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:44,360 ..it's a side to Sara... 40 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:47,200 Sometimes it is a lot for some people, so... 41 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:49,640 ..we've never seen before. 42 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:53,200 On a scale of one to ten, ten being you are absolutely in love... 43 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:56,160 9.5. (OTHERS EXCLAIM) 44 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,080 ..as romantic connections deepen for some... 45 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,080 All I have to do is give it my best 46 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:02,800 and she's 100% worth trying and changing for. 47 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:04,880 RIDGE: She does it for me in every single way 48 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,560 and I can see a future with her outside of this. 49 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:10,400 ..for others, the spark is fading. 50 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:12,600 Are you physically attracted to Michael? 51 00:02:12,640 --> 00:02:15,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 52 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:18,160 And... 53 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,320 In what world when I say to you 54 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:22,160 "Do everything you can to win her back" 55 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:25,040 would you think it's a good idea to give her a list of the things 56 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:26,080 you hate about her? 57 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,360 ..Ben faces intense pressure from the experts. 58 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:33,960 I've sat here hearing this same old script come out of your mouth. 59 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:35,240 Possibly it's an unconscious thing what... 60 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:36,400 Stop it! 61 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:40,280 But it's Jack's confession... 62 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,720 JOHN: Is this a case where Tori is into you 63 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:46,160 a lot more than you're into Tori? 64 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:47,840 Um... 65 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:52,160 ..that will leave everyone speechless. 66 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:54,760 JOHN: We've never heard you talk like this on the couch. 67 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:57,040 If you want to go, like, go now. 68 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:09,440 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) 69 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:13,360 TIM: Oh... 70 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:19,560 (TIM AND SARA LAUGH) 71 00:03:19,640 --> 00:03:22,400 It's the morning of the fourth commitment ceremony. 72 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,640 RIDGE: How was the gym, darling? JADE: Good. 73 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,240 Good sesh? Yeah. 74 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:30,080 Good sesh after a big night? Yeah, I know. 75 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:31,440 I needed it this morning. 76 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:35,280 JAYDEN: Eden's bowl of tuna and rice 77 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,920 is stuck together like rock because it hasn't been rinsed out. 78 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,200 EDEN: Your pan still has egg on it from yesterday... 79 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:41,960 It's fine. ..so don't you be coming at me. 80 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:48,280 Michael and Stephen are just beginning to get into the groove 81 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,000 of domestic duties. 82 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,680 MICHAEL: You know, I used to be a barista back in the day. 83 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,440 Wonder if I still got it. 84 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:59,360 What a week that we have actually had. 85 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:03,120 So we've moved in, we've had confessions, which... 86 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:04,240 Wow. 87 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:06,520 STEPHEN: "I've experienced a man 88 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:09,640 "who was supposed to love his family unconditionally up and leave." 89 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:13,120 (SAD MUSIC PLAYS) 90 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,240 (CRIES) 91 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:18,200 "For so many years, I have watched my family 92 00:04:18,280 --> 00:04:20,520 "put themselves in vulnerable positions 93 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,480 "only to be disappointed and let down, 94 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:26,520 "so, slowly, over time, it became heaps easier..." 95 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:29,280 (CRIES) "to just shut off." 96 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:31,400 My dad cheated on my mum when we were kids. 97 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,280 I didn't realise that you really had that much weight on you. 98 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:35,440 Mmm. 99 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,520 My part, as a partner... to carry that with you. 100 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:40,640 I just want to give you a big hug right now. 101 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:41,840 Yeah. Bring it in. 102 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:43,040 Mmm. 103 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:44,960 MICHAEL: We really got a lot out of Stephen there 104 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:47,800 and to see that wall come down was actually really rewarding. 105 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:51,000 We kind of match today. (LAUGHS) 106 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:53,400 It feels great to be into our apartment 107 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:56,280 and you just feel at home and at ease. 108 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:59,840 I'm really enjoying his company, so it's promising. 109 00:04:59,880 --> 00:05:02,440 What do you reckon this is for? 110 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:04,280 I don't know, decorations. 111 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:05,880 That was in the latrine... Decorations. 112 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:07,680 (LAUGHS) Gonna lock you down. 113 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:08,920 We're in our new house. 114 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,440 I feel like I've been getting to know him 115 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:13,880 for us to become comfortable with each other. 116 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:15,960 Look, we've got little pencils and a notepad. 117 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:18,040 I can write down every time you annoy me. 118 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:20,880 STEPHEN: All I've been doing this week 119 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:22,400 is every day check in with myself 120 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:24,320 and just trying to figure out my feelings. 121 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,360 Which bird do you want to be? 122 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:27,720 I have no idea. 123 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:32,800 But so far, living with Michael, I'm struggling. 124 00:05:32,840 --> 00:05:34,440 How are you visualising? 125 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:38,000 At the moment, I'm not feeling comfortable at all. 126 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,880 More plants, then I think we'll be good. 127 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,160 Yep. Definitely. 128 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:45,360 STEPHEN: I think Michael's a lot more feminine 129 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:48,360 than what I'm typically attracted to. 130 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:51,720 A vase. We can get more flowers to put in there. 131 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:56,800 So that's, I think, really, really growing that seed of doubt. 132 00:05:56,840 --> 00:05:59,040 Now, go make me some food. 133 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:01,640 (LAUGHS) I'm just kidding. 134 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:04,800 That's a joke, sorry. That's light humour, see? 135 00:06:04,840 --> 00:06:06,040 (LAUGHS AWKWARDLY) 136 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:12,000 Even playing along with those jokes feels unorganic and forced. 137 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,600 Yeah. Yeah. 138 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,160 Shall we fist-bump? 139 00:06:21,280 --> 00:06:24,000 I mean, I might knock you over. 140 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,320 I'm, like, 15 kilos heavier than you. 141 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:27,600 STEPHEN: It's awkward as shit. 142 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:36,480 After last night's intense dinner party... 143 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:38,400 JAYDEN: We're talking about last night, anyway. 144 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:42,880 ..Jayden is still reeling from the fight between him and Timothy. 145 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:45,520 Deep down in your heart, Tim, you don't see a future with Lucinda 146 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,120 but you keep saying stay, you're giving her hope 147 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:49,520 and we don't know why. 148 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,920 This relationship is the same as it was on the first day. 149 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:53,840 We're six weeks in. You know what, that's your opinion! 150 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:55,880 You're 27! You've got nothing to say to me! 151 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:57,840 At 27, my relationship is near-perfect, so maybe... 152 00:06:57,920 --> 00:06:59,800 WOMAN: No! Call me in three years! 153 00:06:59,840 --> 00:07:01,880 Call me in three years! 154 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:06,120 EDEN: I just feel like Timothy was just big deflecting. 155 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:07,960 He was clutching at straws. 156 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,160 All he could bring up was digs at your personality. 157 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,280 Every time he did, everyone else shut him down. 158 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:15,040 He doesn't like the fact that maybe my relationship is going very well 159 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:16,080 and his isn't. 160 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:17,640 He doesn't want to take advice from me. 161 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:20,560 That's understandable, but at the end of the day, 162 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:22,280 all I wanted from him was an answer 163 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:24,600 as to whether or not he sees a romantic future with Lucinda. 164 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:27,280 I like Lucinda. She's a great girl, you know. 165 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:29,080 I don't think she deserves to be led on. 166 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:31,280 Tim's comment about how he thinks 167 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:32,920 that we're not gonna last outside the experiment, 168 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:34,360 he's, like, "Give it three years," 169 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:35,720 like, "(BLEEP), I'd love three years, man. 170 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:37,160 "It's three years longer than you..." 171 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:38,320 (LAUGHS) ..you know what I mean? 172 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:42,400 While the dinner party has created rifts, 173 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:46,400 Lucinda's show of support for her husband Timothy 174 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:48,360 has united the couple. 175 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:50,240 Do you want a cuppa? Yeah, I do, actually. 176 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:51,360 OK. Great. 177 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:54,440 Wow. What a... What a night. 178 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,760 I do feel we've shifted energy somewhat. 179 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:03,320 Less combative and more, you know, a team, in unity. (LAUGHS) 180 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:07,880 I will give you props. I really appreciated last night. 181 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:10,200 You actually were really awesome. 182 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:11,360 Aw. 183 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:13,080 You were rock-solid. 184 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:14,960 Yeah, you were really, really good. 185 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:18,600 I would just like to say and I mean this with all my heart... 186 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:20,320 WOMAN: Yeah. ..Tim is an awesome person. 187 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:22,200 Yeah, we've heard it. We've heard it. 188 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:23,680 One minute. I haven't finished. 189 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:25,360 It's a bit of a rally up 190 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:29,400 and I was feeling quite defensive of Tim, to be honest. 191 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:34,440 I want us to be, you know, having each other's back 192 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:36,080 and on the same team. 193 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:37,920 Of course we are. 194 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:41,600 This is my focus, to make it work, 195 00:08:41,680 --> 00:08:45,400 to explore a possibility with this gorgeous man 196 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,440 that I've been matched with. 197 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,360 I've got nothing but praise for you. 198 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:54,400 I felt very defensive of you, actually. 199 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:55,600 Yep. 200 00:08:55,680 --> 00:08:58,920 But I say this from a place just 'cause I care about you - 201 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:03,720 I just think you could leave the personal comments out. 202 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:07,240 I very much appreciate Lucinda at the moment. 203 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:10,560 You know, my biggest thing has been loyalty and trust. 204 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,200 And, look, I'm not exactly easy. 205 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:16,280 I could see that I'd hurt her by my comments 206 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:19,960 and I need to just hit the reset button. 207 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:24,560 I am here to change some of those things, because she's a solid girl. 208 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:26,400 I'm willing to give it a go. 209 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:27,920 Yeah. 210 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,720 It's just everyone loves me, that's the problem. 211 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:33,240 Everyone just wants to talk to me. (LAUGHS) 212 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:40,640 The countdown is on to tonight's fourth commitment ceremony... 213 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:46,640 where couples will decide if they stay or leave. 214 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:52,600 The couples are busy getting ready. 215 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:53,840 You look gorgeous, by the way. 216 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:55,640 You look good too. I know. 217 00:09:55,680 --> 00:09:58,280 Some are feeling positive. 218 00:09:58,320 --> 00:09:59,720 Some are not. 219 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:08,400 And for Jack, he's been anxious going into the commitment ceremony 220 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:11,000 after meeting Tori's friend Leah, 221 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:14,240 who made it clear how committed Tori has become 222 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:16,600 to her relationship with Jack. 223 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:19,360 I don't know, you definitely seem... 224 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:21,440 I don't even know what the right adjective is. 225 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,080 Like, softer. 226 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:25,280 I don't know how to explain that 227 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:30,240 but, like, you just seem so, like, relaxed. 228 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:35,960 We're just, like, in a really... It's like a sweet spot, for sure. 229 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:38,560 I feel like I'm the only person that, like, knows the real Tori... 230 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:39,600 Yeah. 231 00:10:39,680 --> 00:10:41,560 ..and I feel like you're getting a glimpse of it, 232 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:42,920 which obviously means she trusts you. 233 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:46,240 Mmm. 234 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:50,120 I think meeting Leah opened my eyes a little bit, 235 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:54,440 realising that Tori's well invested in the relationship emotionally. 236 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:56,640 That put a bit of pressure on me. 237 00:10:56,680 --> 00:10:58,840 It could be a long night. 238 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:02,160 Yeah. It could be. Or it could be really short. 239 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:03,560 We're over halfway now. 240 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,280 I have been thinking hard and deep 241 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:09,160 about where we're gonna go each week leading forward. 242 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:12,320 I don't know, eh? Just, like, expect the unexpected. 243 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:14,600 You never know how these things are gonna turn out. 244 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:17,880 I'm starting to feel a sense of responsibility 245 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:20,840 for, you know, making sure the relationship works. 246 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:23,520 I definitely feel like the seat will get hot 247 00:11:23,560 --> 00:11:25,480 when we're chatting with the experts 248 00:11:25,560 --> 00:11:27,520 but I don't feel like there'll be too many people... 249 00:11:27,560 --> 00:11:28,960 About what? 250 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:32,080 I don't know, but I'm ready for a hot seat. 251 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:35,800 JACK: I'll admit, I'm getting nervous in our relationship. 252 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:38,800 I'm confident I know what you're gonna say... 253 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,040 You're confident you know what I'm gonna stay... 254 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:44,200 Yep. "What I'm gonna stay..." 255 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:45,880 (BOTH LAUGH) See? 256 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,160 She's showed me pictures of her future, 257 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:51,960 her house and what she wants, 258 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:56,840 so if I turned around and wasn't that guy for her, 259 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:59,080 oh, she'd be pissed 260 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:02,600 and, yeah, probably wish she didn't come on the experiment, 261 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:04,520 to be honest. 262 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:08,160 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 263 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:21,760 JOHN: Greetings, gentlemen. Come and grab a seat. 264 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 265 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:36,360 Hello, ladies. 266 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:38,400 ALESSANDRA: Hi. MEL: Hi, ladies. 267 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:39,600 Welcome. Welcome. 268 00:12:42,560 --> 00:12:45,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 269 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,800 MEL: Well, welcome, everyone, to your fourth commitment ceremony. 270 00:12:57,600 --> 00:12:59,160 Now, it's been a big week. 271 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:04,600 Those original couples, you've met the family and friends 272 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:05,920 and for our new couples, 273 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:10,080 you've had a crash course in everything about this experiment 274 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:12,080 so you have so much to share with us tonight 275 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:15,440 and we cannot wait to catch up with each and every one of you. 276 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:20,040 Let's get our first couple on the couch tonight. 277 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:24,880 Ellie and Ben. 278 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:26,760 JACK: Hey! Good luck, guys. 279 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:29,040 (APPLAUSE) (TENSE MUSIC) 280 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:35,920 MEL: Hi, guys. ELLIE: Hello. 281 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:40,640 MEL: Well, as you know, 282 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,240 we watch the dinner parties very closely 283 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:48,640 and it's very clear that things have fallen apart with you guys. 284 00:13:48,680 --> 00:13:52,400 Ellie, what's happened? 285 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:55,840 Well, last week on the couch, I wrote 'leave'... 286 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:56,920 Mmm. 287 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:00,960 ..and effectively John said Ben has seven days 288 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:03,080 to try and turn it around, 'cause Ben wrote 'stay'. 289 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:04,120 Yeah. He did. 290 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:08,880 The day after, Ben actually ran away from Skye Suites. 291 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:12,320 We couldn't find him. 292 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:16,920 A few days after that, we decided to have a chat about our relationship, 293 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:18,360 which lasted two and a half hours 294 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:23,360 and what I got out of that was a list of stuff 295 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:25,280 that he didn't like about me. 296 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:29,640 He didn't like the fact that I was wearing make-up, 297 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:32,000 he said that I was too emotional and too sensitive. 298 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:35,760 He doesn't like that I'm from the Gold Coast. 299 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:39,320 There was poor communication and bad conversation. 300 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:41,640 Wow. 301 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:47,400 I'm just getting confused, mixed messages, you know, 302 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:49,880 the gift-giving and writing songs. 303 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:55,000 I've been trying to explain to the group how I'm feeling 304 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:56,800 but they probably don't get it 305 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:59,680 because what Ben's telling them is all kindness and positivity... 306 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:00,720 Mmm. 307 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:02,320 ..but you're not seeing what I've been experiencing. 308 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:05,520 SARA: We see it. Thank you. 309 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:07,520 I'm not trying to run him into the ground... 310 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:08,560 No. 311 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:10,640 ..but I am speaking my truth 312 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:12,640 and I absolutely need to call this out. 313 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:16,320 EDEN: Yeah, you go, girlfriend. 314 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:17,920 I feel like I've been going crazy. 315 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:23,240 That feeling that you're describing of "Am I going crazy?" 316 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:26,560 is the very definition of being gaslit. 317 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:36,320 That's what's going on here. Oh. 318 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:40,000 You're not going crazy and what you're feeling is completely valid... 319 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:48,120 particularly the confusion... Yep. 320 00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:50,200 ..and the questioning yourself. 321 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:56,400 JOHN: Ben, what I really want to know 322 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:59,360 is how do you feel towards Ellie? 323 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:02,920 JONATHAN: Here we go. 324 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:07,720 I think she's terrific. 325 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:09,600 I've never stopped thinking that. 326 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:15,000 Every time. I just... 327 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:16,880 I don't know what to believe anymore. 328 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,240 I know. And that's what I mean. 329 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,320 Well, then, Ben, you've got to explain that to us. 330 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:23,200 OK. Um... 331 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:26,240 (TENSE MUSIC) 332 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:31,640 The connection, I guess, hasn't been as strong as I hoped. 333 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:37,960 SARA: Ben, you gave her a gift two days ago 334 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,120 trying to ask to be, like, in the relationship again 335 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:43,240 and then at the dinner table, you told all of us 336 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:45,600 that you see her as a friend. 337 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:48,800 Come on, mate. Make up your mind. Do you like her or do you not? 338 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:50,720 Yeah, so you see how confused I've been. 339 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:53,120 Not (BLEEP) confusing. Yeah. 340 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:55,200 Like, it was an amazing first few weeks. 341 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:59,400 I was so happy. I remember saying that. 342 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:00,440 Like, I was feeling happy... 343 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:02,120 JOHN: Ben, are you listening to yourself? 344 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:04,760 (SIGHS) Come on. 345 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:07,240 I'm doing my best, John. 346 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:13,880 We looked high and low for an ideal match for you. 347 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:17,600 We got you one and you dropped the ball. 348 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:23,120 I guess so. Um... 349 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:26,040 Possibly it's an unconscious thing 350 00:17:26,120 --> 00:17:28,600 or if it's not, it wouldn't be deliberate... 351 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:35,440 Ben, I don't want to hear "I guess I might have done this," 352 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:39,360 "Subconsciously maybe it was that." 353 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:40,680 Stop it! 354 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:50,160 You need to start owning your behaviour. 355 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:53,200 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 356 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:57,120 Let me ask you this. 357 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:59,360 In what world, when I say to you 358 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:02,760 "Do everything you can to win her back and increase her trust" 359 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:04,120 would you think it's a good idea 360 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:06,520 to give her a list of the things you hate about her? 361 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:09,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 362 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:21,600 Ben, let me ask you this. 363 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:24,760 In what world, when I say to you 364 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:28,400 "Do everything you can to win her back and increase her trust" 365 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:29,840 would you think it's a good idea 366 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:32,480 to give her a list of the things you hate about her? 367 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:36,720 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 368 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:43,120 That was a journal of thoughts I had compiled for a while and it was... 369 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:45,000 Why did you even show that to her? 370 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:46,720 (SIGHS) 371 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:50,160 "I like you, but here's the things that I really hate." 372 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:53,040 I know that you are an incredible woman. 373 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:54,720 I still believe that. Always have. 374 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:56,600 I've never lost sight of that 375 00:18:56,680 --> 00:19:00,200 but it seems no matter which...what we do... 376 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:01,400 it's just... 377 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,440 I don't know what to do. No. No. No. 378 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,320 Ben, I'm not letting you get away with that. 379 00:19:09,360 --> 00:19:11,840 No, you've got to own it. 380 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,520 What do you think your behaviour's done to Ellie 381 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:16,160 over the last five weeks? 382 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:19,800 How you think it makes her feel on the inside? 383 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:22,760 Oh... Uh... 384 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:26,560 I'll answer. 385 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:29,440 It destroys my self-esteem. 386 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:31,920 I slept with you, you know what I mean, 387 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:34,920 and you told me you felt so... like, so good about me, 388 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:39,920 so it makes me feel so shit about myself. 389 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:45,280 Ben, you're sitting there deadpan... MEL: Mmm. 390 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:47,160 ..with no emotion. 391 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:54,720 I don't know if you're happy, sad, embarrassed, 392 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:59,000 excited to get out of here, want to stay. 393 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:03,600 It's like there's this flat facade that you put up. 394 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:09,720 Your partner has just told you 395 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:14,880 how belittled she feels about all of this. 396 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:20,320 Is this generally the way in which you receive information like this? 397 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:24,520 I'm lost for words. 398 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,040 I don't know what to say. 399 00:20:28,120 --> 00:20:30,760 What about showing some emotion towards Ellie 400 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:33,040 and how bad you feel, mate? 401 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,240 That wouldn't be a bad thing. 402 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:44,600 You've ruined the experience for me 403 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,360 because I came here genuinely, like... 404 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:49,640 Everyone knows that I just... I want to start a family 405 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,400 and I want a husband to do that with 406 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:54,120 and, you know, I've been robbed of that experience. 407 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:57,600 I can understand. 408 00:20:57,640 --> 00:20:59,040 No, I don't think you do. 409 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:01,800 You say a lot of words, Ben, 410 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:04,200 but you don't actually know the meaning of them. 411 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:06,680 I don't think you understand. 412 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:11,160 I've sat here for weeks on end hearing this same old script 413 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:13,360 come out of your mouth. 414 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:18,360 You have not been committed to this experiment. 415 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:23,320 You have not tried to give yourself over to the process. 416 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:28,280 What you've done is sidestepped hard questions, 417 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:33,160 had conversations behind closed doors 418 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,000 and tried to present a fake self. 419 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:41,680 What we do know for a fact is the way you've treated her 420 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:45,960 has absolutely picked apart her self-esteem. 421 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:52,280 And I don't like seeing that toxic pattern go on 422 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,600 week after week. 423 00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:57,680 How can I... Frankly, I'm done. 424 00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:00,520 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 425 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:02,440 Let's get to the decision. 426 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:04,480 Ellie, what have you got? Stay or leave? 427 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,200 I'm going to take my new voice 428 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:11,320 and walk out of here with confidence and I'm leaving. 429 00:22:11,360 --> 00:22:14,760 (APPLAUSE) 430 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,240 Alright, Ben, what have you got? 431 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,080 Leave. 432 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:29,040 Now, Ben... 433 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:37,840 what you've done during your time here is played a game with us 434 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:43,240 and particularly you've played with Ellie's feelings. 435 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:49,800 I hope what you can say 436 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:53,760 is "I've been given some home truths 437 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:57,160 "and I'm going to do something different now." 438 00:22:57,200 --> 00:23:01,600 And I hope that you do 439 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:05,360 'cause this is a one-off opportunity for you and you need to learn. 440 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:13,160 And finally, we, as the experts, want to thank you, Ellie, 441 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,640 because you came in with an open heart... 442 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:16,680 Mm-hn. 443 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:18,320 ..you were looking for love... Yeah. 444 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,480 ..and you've got a great deal going for you. 445 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,160 Thank you very much. I appreciate it. 446 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:27,680 Yep. Alright. Well done. 447 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:30,760 Thank you. Thanks for that. You won't be single for long. 448 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:32,240 (LAUGHS) Thanks. 449 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:34,120 Off you go, guys. 450 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:41,240 I don't have any regrets about coming onto the experiment. 451 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:45,680 I've walked away with this newfound confidence, I've got my voice back. 452 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,720 I didn't get the husband that I came for, but that's OK. 453 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:52,600 Apparently my DMs will be blowing up, according to a few people. 454 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,040 (LAUGHS) 455 00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:56,560 NARRATOR: Coming up... 456 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:01,120 I want a future with someone. I hope it's gonna be with Jade. 457 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,680 ..love is in the air. TRISTAN: There we go. 458 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:07,080 On a scale of one to ten and ten being you are absolutely in love... 459 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,440 9.5. (OTHERS EXCLAIM) 460 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:11,480 ..before... 461 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,880 "Where's the intimacy, man? Like, you're not trying." 462 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:15,080 And I said that to Andy. 463 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,840 ..Richard drops an almighty bombshell. 464 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,760 I've been in a relationship for five weeks 465 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,800 with somebody who has no feelings for me... 466 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,640 And... 467 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:28,360 Is Tori into you a lot more than you are into Tori? 468 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:29,600 Um... 469 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,040 ..Jack feels the pressure. 470 00:24:32,120 --> 00:24:34,240 I do have concerns that I'm gonna let you down. 471 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,520 Next up on the couch... 472 00:24:49,120 --> 00:24:51,040 Jayden and Eden. 473 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:54,080 (APPLAUSE) 474 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:58,720 (MICHAEL LAUGHS) Yeah. 475 00:24:59,960 --> 00:25:02,560 Eden, tell us about this week for you guys. 476 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:03,640 It's been nice. 477 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:06,160 But we are having a little bit of a debate 478 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:07,920 about the family meet-up, though. 479 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:09,480 OK. 480 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,600 So, Mitch was there as well, who's Jayden's brother... 481 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:12,960 Yes. I'm sure you all know Mitch. 482 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,320 JOHN: I remember Mitch. (LAUGHTER) 483 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,640 And Mitch said to me, on a scale of one to ten, 484 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,920 one being you can't stand him 485 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,160 and ten being you are absolutely in love, 486 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:24,920 whereabouts are you on the scale? 487 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,360 And I said "I'm a seven." 488 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:29,720 What did you say? 489 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:34,400 Well, I said 9.5. 490 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,480 (OTHERS EXCLAIM) 491 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:43,840 Eden, do you think that you will be able to get to a 9.5? 492 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,640 I do. I have a lot of hope and a lot of... 493 00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:48,880 Sweet. Yeah. 494 00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:55,000 There are things that I think that we still need to grow and build 495 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:58,440 in order for me to get to where Jayden says he already is. 496 00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,200 There's quantity of time. 497 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:02,200 Like, we're together a lot of the time 498 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,360 but not often is it just quality time. 499 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,800 When we are there with each other and talking, 500 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:09,280 that's when it grows for me. 501 00:26:09,360 --> 00:26:11,880 JOHN: Jayden, what she's saying to you 502 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:13,720 is that she misses you and needs you more. 503 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,120 Aw. So sweet. Aw. 504 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:16,240 (LAUGHS) Mmm. 505 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,200 I do actually say that, every time he walks out. 506 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,400 Yeah. I say "I miss you." 507 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:20,600 (LAUGHS) Yeah, that's true. 508 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:22,880 Alright, so let's go to the decision, you guys. 509 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:24,880 I wrote obviously 'stay'. 510 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:26,400 It's pretty... (APPLAUSE) 511 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:27,920 Big heart. Yeah. 512 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:29,200 Eden? 513 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,560 So, I wrote 'stay' as well with four hearts. 514 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,200 With four hearts. Oh, yeah. (APPLAUSE) 515 00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,040 Have a great week, you guys. 516 00:26:36,120 --> 00:26:38,320 Thank you so much. MEL: Well done, guys. 517 00:26:38,360 --> 00:26:40,680 JOHN: Let's get our next couple up. 518 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:41,920 Tristan and Cass. 519 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,960 (APPLAUSE) 520 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:51,320 Last week, at the end of your couch session, Cass, 521 00:26:51,360 --> 00:26:52,520 you wrote 'stay' 522 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,120 and Tristan, you wrote 'leave'. 523 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:56,280 I did. 524 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,040 You guys had to really think about 525 00:26:59,120 --> 00:27:01,160 what you were gonna do and then change it up. 526 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:06,040 Tristan's last words on this couch was, like, "I'll make it up to you" 527 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,480 and he certainly did. 528 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:13,520 Had a really lovely meet-the-parents with Tristan's mother and my father. 529 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,080 And I said it was a green flag. Like, he really impressed me. 530 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,560 He was confident, he was honest, he was kind. 531 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:24,120 My dad and Tristan were laughing non-stop. 532 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,280 I was, like, "Dad, who did you come to see here? 533 00:27:26,360 --> 00:27:29,400 "Like, me or Tristan?" (LAUGHTER) 534 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:34,320 He tried so hard to make it up to me and he did. 535 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,160 All I can do is give it my best 536 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:39,880 and she's 100% worth trying and changing for. 537 00:27:41,360 --> 00:27:43,400 Alright. Let's go to the decision. 538 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,520 We're gonna go with you first, Tristan. 539 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,880 I thought there was gonna be a bit more of a build-up 540 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:49,240 but I'm terrible at hiding secrets, 541 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:52,520 so at the end of the day, I did write 'stay'. 542 00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:54,360 MEL: Oh, and a big smile. 543 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:55,960 Lovely. LUCINDA: Whoo-ooh! 544 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,000 Cass, what are you gonna do - stay or leave? 545 00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:00,200 Leave? No... 546 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:04,080 Let's build this connection further, so I wrote 'stay'. 547 00:28:04,120 --> 00:28:05,800 TRISTAN AND MEL: Aw! 548 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:09,200 OK. We'll start it with another kiss. 549 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:10,360 Come on. 550 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:11,440 There we go. 551 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:13,400 MEL: Well done, both of you. 552 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:15,320 (APPLAUSE) 553 00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:19,360 Let's get our next couple up, Jade and Ridge. 554 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,640 (APPLAUSE) 555 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:25,920 RIDGE: G'day, g'day. 556 00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,680 Now, you did the crash course this week 557 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,160 to catch up with the rest of the group here. 558 00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,280 How did that go? 559 00:28:35,360 --> 00:28:39,480 The confessions letter, like, caught me off guard. 560 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:41,880 Why did the letter catch you off guard? 561 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:46,000 I don't know, I guess, like, it's just hard for me to open up 562 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,200 and, like, I know I'm just, like, in my own head 563 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,880 'cause I feel like I have opened up before and I've just been let down 564 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:54,840 and, yeah. 565 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:58,800 Is that where this all comes from, 566 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,960 the fact that guys have betrayed you in the past 567 00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:03,560 and you can't be sure of yourself now? 568 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,400 In the past, I've always competed with other girls 569 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:11,440 and I've always lost, so then, like, it makes me, like, doubt myself. 570 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:16,240 Ridge, what do you make of this? 571 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:19,800 You know, when you hear her, you know, let the walls down, 572 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:21,400 let you in, what do you think? 573 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:25,440 Obviously I appreciate that she's letting her walls down with me. 574 00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:27,320 Obviously it's not easy for her to do that 575 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,120 given what she's been through. 576 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:31,400 I know she's had a really, really rough time 577 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,280 in terms of her previous partners. 578 00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:38,560 But I want a future with someone. Hopefully it's gonna be with Jade. 579 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,920 She does it for me in every single way. 580 00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,840 I admire how grounded and strong she is. 581 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,400 She's such a good mum, she's such a good friend. 582 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,600 She's actually a good person 583 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,800 and I can see a future with her outside of this. 584 00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,400 Jade, what do you think about it? 585 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:02,600 It makes me happy. (LAUGHS) 586 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:04,520 Ridge's response to my letter 587 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,800 is honestly what made me think, like, he's actually being genuine. 588 00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:11,640 He got really heartfelt, which was, like, really nice to see. 589 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:17,400 LUCINDA: Chemistry's felt, you two. It's palpable, your energy together. 590 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:18,600 Thanks. 591 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:24,040 Alright. With that being said, let's go to the decision. 592 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,240 Easy. Stay. 593 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,760 Easy. Stay. Good. (APPLAUSE) 594 00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,240 And what about you, Jade? Stay. 595 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:35,600 Great stuff. MEL: Yeah. 596 00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:38,760 (APPLAUSE) Great stuff. 597 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,840 And with that, you can go back to the group. 598 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,560 (APPLAUSE) 599 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:53,160 ALESSANDRA: The next couple up on the couch, Andrea and Richard. 600 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,440 (APPLAUSE) 601 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,560 RICHARD: Here we go. 602 00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,000 WOMAN: She's bowing. (LAUGHTER) 603 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,040 MEL: Hello. 604 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:02,360 Hello, hello. 605 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:03,800 RICHARD: Hi. 606 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,600 Last week, the two of you seemed quite different 607 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,880 from what we had experienced earlier in the experiment. 608 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,200 How are you doing this week? 609 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,440 We had the worst week. 610 00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:21,320 We ended up having a fight - our first fight. 611 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:26,080 What precipitated the fight? 612 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:31,000 After the last commitment ceremony, after dinner, 613 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:35,400 I went into the other room and was on the phone to my family 614 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,520 and I shut the door. 615 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,920 I was probably about an hour in that room. 616 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:44,720 The next morning, Rich was not happy with me. 617 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,600 He explained that he was offended 618 00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:51,600 that I went into the room and shut the door, 619 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,000 so we butted heads. 620 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,600 The fight was that I felt Andy wasn't trying. 621 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,160 Because she closed the door? 622 00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:02,840 No, no, no, because there was... 623 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,720 There was no shift since the last time we sat on the couch. 624 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:09,920 We started off very physical 625 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,200 and then there was a pull-back on it. 626 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,360 Intimacy fell off. "When is it gonna come back?" 627 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:18,120 And this has been going on for weeks. 628 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,720 I mean, this is not just something that I felt like that. 629 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:22,720 You know, I'm, like, "Where's the intimacy, man. 630 00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,960 "Like, you're not trying." And I said that to Andy. 631 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,320 That really upset her because she said, "Damn, I AM trying." 632 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,520 But it's telling the story of our relationship. 633 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 634 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,960 There seems to be a need that you have 635 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:43,520 for Andrea to actively be validating your love language 636 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:48,040 so that then you can understand that she is into you. 637 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:51,080 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 638 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,320 The insecurity comes from 639 00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,480 that I've been in a relationship for five weeks 640 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:04,720 with somebody who has no feelings for me and I have feelings for her. 641 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:09,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 642 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:22,840 Richard, there seems to be a need that you have 643 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:26,480 for Andrea to actively be validating your love language 644 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:30,840 so that then you can understand that she is into you. 645 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:37,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 646 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,360 The insecurity comes from 647 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,520 that I've been in a relationship for five weeks 648 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:46,000 with somebody who has no feelings for me and I have feelings for her. 649 00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:49,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 650 00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:52,880 You know, and of course there's an insecurity about that. 651 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,600 There's a whole lot of insecurities that come with that. 652 00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,000 I'm processing the part 653 00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:07,760 where you're stating that Andrea has NO feelings for you. 654 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:11,360 That... I'm actually quite shocked. No. No... 655 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:12,840 That hasn't been my impression. 656 00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,240 I don't think that's been what Andrea has expressed. 657 00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:16,320 No. 658 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,120 So, is that how you feel? Is that your interpretation? 659 00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:23,680 No, no, that was something that WAS actually expressed by Andy 660 00:34:23,720 --> 00:34:25,920 to me last week. 661 00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:28,280 "I don't have the feelings for you." 662 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,400 That's what she said. 663 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,400 I meant I'm not feeling the intimacy. 664 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:41,720 Yeah, no, I know that. Not like I'm not feeling us... 665 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,440 Oh, yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. No, no, I get that. Yeah. I get that. 666 00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:47,080 So, your interpretation of her saying "I'm not feeling it" 667 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:48,760 is "I have got no feelings for you"? 668 00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:49,800 In that moment... 669 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,680 I just want to clarify the words because those were very strong, 670 00:34:52,720 --> 00:34:54,600 important, potent words 671 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:56,720 and you've just expressed them out loud to all of us. 672 00:34:59,240 --> 00:35:01,400 Of course, Andrea is hearing that 673 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,720 and that is something that she takes with her 674 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,440 and is also going to play in her whole process. 675 00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,400 Yeah. 676 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:13,800 Andrea, how are you feeling towards Richard? 677 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,440 Now? Yes. 678 00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,120 I'm... 679 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:23,800 Because I'm seeing a completely different person, 680 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:25,960 completely different version of you 681 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:28,480 than we saw at the beginning of the experiment in terms of... 682 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,800 Mmm. ..the way you relate to Richard. 683 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,040 You were giddy, you were excited. 684 00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:38,080 There was a sense of hope and just 'illusionment'... 685 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,840 Yeah. I'm not that anymore. 686 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:49,200 I feel different now because my bubble has been burst a few times 687 00:35:49,240 --> 00:35:51,240 and I just feel a bit flatter. 688 00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:56,200 The photo challenge, not being the one he liked the most 689 00:35:56,280 --> 00:36:01,000 and the recent one with me trying, trying 690 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:04,760 and not being seen and still fighting and not resolving it 691 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,240 and going, "How can you not see?" 692 00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:12,600 But I'm still here and I still like him, so... 693 00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:16,760 What do you need from Richard? 694 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:20,880 Validation. 695 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:23,360 And acknowledgement. 696 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:24,560 Mmm. 697 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:27,520 What do you say to that, Richard? 698 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,360 100%. 699 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,320 I've always been confident 700 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,000 that this relationship has the potential to go long-term. 701 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,480 I'm in or I'm not in. 702 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:45,360 I'm not a half kind of on the fence guy, yeah? I'm in. 703 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:49,360 Let's go to the decision, you guys. 704 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:52,560 Let's start with Richard. 705 00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:58,200 So, my decision is... is 'stay', of course. 706 00:36:58,240 --> 00:37:00,640 I'm still loving it. Yeah, yeah. 707 00:37:00,720 --> 00:37:02,600 Very big, bold statement. Big, bold statement. 708 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:04,160 We like it. Smiley face and a kiss. 709 00:37:04,240 --> 00:37:07,680 My frame of possibility for us is still there... 710 00:37:07,720 --> 00:37:08,720 Mm-hm. 711 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,000 ..and I wanted to... (BLOWS, COUGHS) 712 00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,760 (LAUGHTER) Don't choke on that flame. 713 00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,440 (COUGHS) ..burn brighter... 714 00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:17,680 So sexy, my husband. 715 00:37:17,720 --> 00:37:20,480 (LAUGHTER) 716 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,120 I'm an old guy, man. You know, shit. 717 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,920 CASS: You take his breath away, Andy. (LAUGHS) 718 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:28,880 Andrea, let's go to your decision. 719 00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,480 As Rihanna said... (SINGS) # Want you to stay... # 720 00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,520 (LAUGHTER AND APPLAUSE) 721 00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:35,640 MEL: Oh, fabulous. 722 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,680 I'll say this to you guys. 723 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,960 Focus on the progression, focus on your intent 724 00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,000 and that confidence that you both have 725 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:46,040 that this relation... can go for the long haul 726 00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:47,400 and really be what you're looking for. 727 00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:49,840 Have a great week. Thank you very much. 728 00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:52,040 MEL: Well done, guys. (APPLAUSE) 729 00:37:53,240 --> 00:37:56,840 ANDREA: When my bubbles get burst, it's devastating 730 00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:00,040 but I think we're both in a really good place 731 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:01,880 of, yeah, some realisations 732 00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:04,600 and understand each other's communication style 733 00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:09,320 and that helps, moving forward. 734 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,840 Let's get our next couple up on the couch. 735 00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:13,680 Lucinda and Timothy. 736 00:38:13,720 --> 00:38:16,200 (APPLAUSE) 737 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:21,120 Hello! How are we? 738 00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:25,360 Well, this is a very different couple to the one we're quite used to. 739 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,520 Isn't it? COUPLE: Yeah. 740 00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:31,480 And you were a real team last night. We were. 741 00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:33,720 Mmm. 742 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:36,000 Tim, I've gotta be honest with you. Yeah. 743 00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:38,320 It's quite clear for us... Yeah. 744 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,880 ..observing you within this group dynamic, 745 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:42,360 particularly at the dinner parties, 746 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,960 that there's a number of people here who have an issue with you... 747 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:46,000 (LAUGHS) 748 00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:49,760 ..and the relationship that the two of you have. 749 00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:50,880 Mmm. 750 00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:54,240 Why do you think that is? 751 00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:57,560 I don't know, you know. 752 00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:58,880 It's an opinion. 753 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:02,000 They tell it like it is, I tell it like it is 754 00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:04,080 and it doesn't line up sometimes. 755 00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:07,000 And in regards to a relationship, 756 00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:10,560 it does take me a little bit to warm up... 757 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:12,480 Mm-hm. ..to genuine relationship. 758 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:16,240 So, the slow-burn thing. 759 00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:20,200 But, you know, the whole slow-burning thing is getting old. 760 00:39:20,240 --> 00:39:22,240 (SIGHS) 761 00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:23,880 Like, when does the progress start? 762 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:28,000 Because for us, it doesn't seem like anything has started since day one. 763 00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,960 I know, because you're 27, so you don't know the progress. 764 00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:34,320 That's what I'm saying. 765 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:36,480 We're supposed to know the progress. That's why we're all here. 766 00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:38,960 Stop with the personal digs. You don't know what's going on. 767 00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,280 We don't, 'cause you don't tell us anything. We need to know. 768 00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:47,600 You know, Jayden, we've actually let go of some really big armour 769 00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:49,720 in the last couple of days, genuinely. 770 00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,000 We are actually willing 771 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,400 and we've got a lot of respect and regard for each other. 772 00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:01,440 We're doing it at a pace that Tim's comfortable with 773 00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:02,880 and I'm up for the journey. 774 00:40:04,720 --> 00:40:06,360 I'm really happy. 775 00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:07,960 Yeah. I'm feeling good. 776 00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:09,800 SARA: We're happy if you're happy. 777 00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:11,760 Cool. 778 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:16,400 But we've clearly had a shift from friends and family 779 00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,160 and it did go well. 780 00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:22,560 Tell us, what's changed? 781 00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:26,120 There was a huge shift with family and friends visit... 782 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:27,360 Mm-hm. 783 00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,800 ..particularly my dad, who came with his magic pouch and... 784 00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:31,040 It sounds like it. 785 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,080 ..sprinkled it all over Tim... (LAUGHS) 786 00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:35,840 ..and gave him a good nudge. 787 00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:40,080 Tim just came back with a whole different energy field. 788 00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:42,760 You have certain people that can really handle you... 789 00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:43,800 Mmm. 790 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,720 ..and I've never actually had a father say, 791 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,560 "Just have a one-night stand with my daughter. 792 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:50,680 "See where it goes." (LAUGHTER) 793 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,160 You just can't be pissed off around that guy. 794 00:40:55,240 --> 00:40:58,040 Even the moment he told you, "If you yell at my daughter again" 795 00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:01,240 he's got people in Melbourne that he knows that can break your leg? 796 00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:03,680 (LAUGHTER) Go, Dad. 797 00:41:03,720 --> 00:41:05,400 He was just a classic. 798 00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,760 He really stuck it to me for the first ten minutes... 799 00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:09,800 OK. 800 00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:11,640 Yeah, he came with a lot of hard-hitting questions. 801 00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:12,680 Mmm. 802 00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:15,200 Definitely respect where he's coming from 803 00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:18,480 and I definitely listened to his advice. 804 00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,760 When you and I met at the start of the experiment 805 00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:24,680 and we had that chat... Yeah. 806 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:28,120 ..one of the key things that came up was about your walls, wasn't it, 807 00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:29,320 and, you know... Totally. 808 00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:31,520 ..knowing that you're coming into this process 809 00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:33,920 and gonna have some battles with some of those walls. 810 00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:34,960 Yeah. 811 00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,680 Do you think some of them are starting to come down now? 812 00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:41,560 (EXHALES) I think that they sort of... 813 00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:45,240 They come and they go. 814 00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,600 Yeah, just little things that she does actually breaks it down. 815 00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:50,840 And, look, Lucinda's an incredible girl. 816 00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:52,400 She's sweet, she's kind. 817 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:55,000 She's never got a bad word to say about anybody 818 00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:57,920 and she's just really thoughtful. 819 00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:02,760 So, you know, there isn't... 820 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,240 There's nothing not to like about Lucinda. 821 00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:10,760 And for yourself, it's worth noting that quite often 822 00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:13,200 the process of bringing down the walls is not linear, you know. 823 00:42:13,240 --> 00:42:14,240 Mmm. 824 00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:16,400 You know, it's not just they're all down in one week... 825 00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:17,600 Right. ..and then you're fixed. Yeah. 826 00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,080 There can be a bit of up and down and up and down 827 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,560 but I think as long as you guys are talking about this stuff, 828 00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,880 you know, it sounds like you really are starting to open up... 829 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:26,000 Yeah. ..to Lucinda. 830 00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:28,360 For sure. Keep doing that. 831 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:31,840 Well, why don't we go to the decision? 832 00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:33,520 Gosh, we all know mine. 833 00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:34,680 Alright. Good, Lucinda. 834 00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:39,880 It is a humbled 'stay' because, you know, it's one week at a time. 835 00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:41,880 (APPLAUSE) 836 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,240 And Timothy? 837 00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,640 I've seen a different side of Lucinda in the last two days, 838 00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:50,600 you know. 839 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:52,880 She's definitely got my respect, 100%. 840 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,120 So... 841 00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:58,800 Yeah, I put an exclamation. 842 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:00,800 Brilliant. (APPLAUSE) 843 00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:02,000 Yay. 844 00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,560 Well, respect is a very good start. 845 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:05,720 Yep. 846 00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:07,240 JOHN: Alright. Back to the group. 847 00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,360 You can do this. You can do this, guys. 848 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,280 (APPLAUSE) 849 00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,920 (EXHALES, LAUGHS) 850 00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:15,920 NARRATOR: Still to come... 851 00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,880 No, no, no, no, no. Hang on. Hang on. 852 00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:20,080 Don't come with that. 853 00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:25,520 ..emotions run high when Tori and Jack get on the couch. 854 00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:28,360 I didn't realise how it would make you feel. 855 00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:30,160 I'm just trying to be open and honest. 856 00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:32,120 If you want to go, like, go now. 857 00:43:33,720 --> 00:43:36,840 Before Lauren makes a brutal confession. 858 00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:39,000 I've gotta be completely honest. 859 00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,320 Next up, we have... 860 00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:53,360 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 861 00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:56,600 Michael and Stephen. 862 00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:59,640 (APPLAUSE) 863 00:44:01,240 --> 00:44:02,800 MICHAEL: Hello, hello. MEL: Hello, boys. 864 00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:04,680 STEPHEN: How are you? Welcome. 865 00:44:04,720 --> 00:44:06,000 Thank you. 866 00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:08,040 You've had a crash course this week. COUPLE: Yeah. 867 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,200 It was a great step for us in the right direction. 868 00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:15,200 How are your feelings developing? 869 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,320 Like, I can see them getting stronger, for sure. 870 00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:19,880 We're enjoying each other's company. 871 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:21,480 I think we're great. 872 00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:24,280 I'm madly attracted to him. 873 00:44:25,720 --> 00:44:27,400 What about you, Stephen? 874 00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:33,800 On paper, it is perfect. 875 00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,480 One of the challenges we did was the qualities 876 00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:40,400 and I think it was pretty much word for word. 877 00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,160 But are you attracted to him? 878 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:44,920 Um... 879 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:49,560 I'm... 880 00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:54,880 Definitely can see that he's a great-looking guy. 881 00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:55,960 Thank you. I'm... 882 00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:58,120 But are you physically attracted to Michael? 883 00:44:58,160 --> 00:44:59,200 Um... 884 00:44:59,240 --> 00:45:02,160 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 885 00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:07,320 Not yet. 886 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:10,840 No. 887 00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:16,840 Are you noticing it building? 888 00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:20,560 The physical side of things, probably not so much still. 889 00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:26,280 I think that typically Michael's a little bit more feminine 890 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:27,600 than what I am drawn to. 891 00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:30,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 892 00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:37,080 How does this sit for you, Michael, 893 00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:40,120 hearing that the physical attraction is not there yet? 894 00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:42,000 I mean... 895 00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:45,920 I mean, it feels shit. 896 00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:53,280 It is hard to hear that I'm not desirable right away. 897 00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:58,120 I definitely want it to be there, for sure. 898 00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:02,200 But I thought we were making progress. 899 00:46:02,240 --> 00:46:05,040 Like, I've given it my all 900 00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,280 but I feel like I've been kind of actually misled now. 901 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:13,440 Stephen, are you confident that the attraction will build with Michael? 902 00:46:14,720 --> 00:46:15,840 Uh... 903 00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,240 I can't confidently say. 904 00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:22,960 I've never been in this position and I can't... 905 00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:24,840 I can't confidently answer that. 906 00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,920 Mmm. OK. 907 00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:33,160 I'm just gonna kind of reassess it and not give it that deadline. 908 00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:37,000 Michael, are you willing to wait? 909 00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:41,400 For this guy, yes. I am. 910 00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:45,880 Are you hopeful that that physical attraction is going to get there? 911 00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,760 I do have hope, yeah. I am definitely hopeful for it. 912 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:55,400 Alright. Let's go to the decision. We'll start with Michael. 913 00:46:55,480 --> 00:47:01,200 Yeah, we're definitely still growing, so I wrote 'stay'. 914 00:47:01,240 --> 00:47:03,360 (APPLAUSE) 915 00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:05,720 Stephen? 916 00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:11,720 I'm just gonna see if it does progress naturally. 917 00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,880 I am hopeful. 918 00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:18,320 So I wrote 'stay'. 919 00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:20,520 (APPLAUSE) Yay. 920 00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:22,920 Good stuff. 921 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:26,120 I think it's important for you to acknowledge, Stephen, 922 00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:29,920 that Michael really is giving you what you need at this point. 923 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,440 Yeah, I feel like I hold all of the chips at the moment. 924 00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,000 Right, so there's real compromise here. 925 00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:37,240 You know, it really is important, Stephen, 926 00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:39,360 that you don't get too comfortable and sit back and go, 927 00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,480 "Well, I'm getting everything I need right now, so I'm just gonna cruise." 928 00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:45,160 Yep. Otherwise you'll just be mates. 929 00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:48,800 Yeah, 100%. 930 00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:50,600 Thank you. Thank you. 931 00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:51,640 Thanks, guys. Yeah. 932 00:47:51,720 --> 00:47:52,680 Thank you, guys. Thanks, guys. 933 00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:54,240 Have a great week. Thank you so much. 934 00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,600 JOHN: Good luck, guys. 935 00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:58,160 Just kind of upsetting 936 00:47:58,240 --> 00:48:01,160 when he was asked if he had any sexual attraction towards me 937 00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:03,400 and he just blankly said no. 938 00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:05,840 It did hit at my heart a little bit. 939 00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:09,480 Like, it makes me question and self-doubt myself. 940 00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,720 You're stuck with me for one more week. 941 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:14,280 Mmm. (LAUGHS) 942 00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:17,360 We can get that spark going. 943 00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:19,120 If he doesn't want to be forward with me, 944 00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:20,920 then it's gonna leave me a little bit heartbroken 945 00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:23,560 because I did come here for love and I stick to that. 946 00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:30,640 Our next couple up on the couch, Lauren and Jonathan. 947 00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:33,680 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 948 00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,240 LAUREN: Hello. Hi! 949 00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:44,720 Well, last time we saw you on the couch, 950 00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,240 things were a bit tricky between you. 951 00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,320 That's a nice way of saying it, yep. 952 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:52,520 Last week was horrible. 953 00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:58,200 Johnno and I continued to argue about the 'muzzle' comment 954 00:48:58,240 --> 00:49:02,960 but Johnno continued to apologise 955 00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:06,240 and we decided that we're going to put it in the past. 956 00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:08,760 I'm going to accept the apology at face value and leave it there. 957 00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:11,960 So, you accepted the apology, 958 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:14,000 essentially drew that line in the sand... 959 00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:15,440 Mm-hm. ..said "We're moving on from here." 960 00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:16,920 Yes. 961 00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:18,920 Where are you at now? 962 00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,960 (TENSE MUSIC) 963 00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:23,360 Um... 964 00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:28,440 Yeah, so, now, I've gotta be completely honest... 965 00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,760 because it's what we expect from everyone else. 966 00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:37,240 I have, um... 967 00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:42,080 like, pretty much... 968 00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:49,640 zero romantic feelings at this point. 969 00:49:49,720 --> 00:49:52,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) Um... 970 00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:58,120 OK. 971 00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:08,760 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 972 00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:10,640 Where are you at now? 973 00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:13,120 LAUREN: Um... 974 00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:18,280 Yeah, so, now, I've gotta be completely honest... 975 00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:22,600 I have, um... 976 00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:26,160 like, pretty much... 977 00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:33,760 zero romantic feelings at this point. 978 00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:37,240 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 979 00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:38,560 OK. 980 00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:49,000 This is a very hard thing to say 981 00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,800 but, like, obviously, on paper, Johnno is perfect. 982 00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:55,200 Everything I've asked for, you've given to me. 983 00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:58,760 But I think I am struggling with, like, 984 00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:01,400 that spark with our personalities. 985 00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:05,240 I feel like we are missing a bit of that, like, banter, 986 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:06,400 a bit of that back-and-forth. 987 00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:15,200 Yeah. I have kind of felt like it's just your wall up, though. 988 00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:19,960 Like, and I know you're saying all the romance is gone 989 00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:25,080 but, yeah, I do think you're amazing. 990 00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:28,320 I see you with everyone else and you literally light up the room. 991 00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:30,520 Like, you're the funniest person I've ever met. 992 00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:33,960 But I just don't get to see much of that one on one. 993 00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:41,560 You know, it's just astonishing that it's come this far 994 00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:44,200 and you two are telling me you don't really talk. 995 00:51:46,240 --> 00:51:50,080 And it's just... It's not good enough. 996 00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:53,080 I know. I know. 997 00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:57,760 This is making me curious about... 998 00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:01,640 Have you guys really connected on that deeper level? 999 00:52:01,720 --> 00:52:04,720 No. No. 1000 00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,440 Well, any wonder the banter's not there. 1001 00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:10,080 You know, banter isn't just automatic. 1002 00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:11,120 Yeah. 1003 00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:13,160 That comes when you're in rapport with each other... Yeah. 1004 00:52:13,240 --> 00:52:15,280 ..and you've connected and share stories about your lives, 1005 00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:18,880 ask each other questions, get curious about each other. 1006 00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:20,680 Yeah. Yeah. Definitely. 1007 00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:23,600 This is what you need to do together. Yeah. 1008 00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,000 And it is hard... Yeah. 1009 00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:26,680 ..particularly if this is something new for you. 1010 00:52:26,720 --> 00:52:30,120 It might be uncomfortable 1011 00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:33,200 but I think you can see and certainly you've observed 1012 00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:35,480 with a lot of the other conversations we've had tonight 1013 00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:36,640 that you've gotta get uncomfortable. 1014 00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:37,720 Oh, yeah. Yep. 1015 00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:41,760 You've gotta get beyond that little comfort zone. 1016 00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:42,800 Yeah. 1017 00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,080 Because you guys both have so much to offer. 1018 00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:46,800 Is that something you're able to do? 1019 00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:50,400 I'm willing to do that. 1020 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:51,880 I definitely am. 1021 00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:54,080 What about you, Johnno? 1022 00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:57,040 I'm 100%. I'd love to try that. 1023 00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:59,160 I love spending time with Lauren, so, yeah. 1024 00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:01,600 Mmm. 1025 00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:03,440 Well, I think we should go to the decision. 1026 00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:04,480 OK. 1027 00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:07,640 What have you got for us, Johnno? 1028 00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:14,280 Yeah, the last three days have actually been nicer and I see hope. 1029 00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,360 Like, yeah. So I wrote 'stay'. 1030 00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:18,880 (APPLAUSE) Good stuff. 1031 00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:21,680 And you, Lauren? 1032 00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:29,520 Well, I'm willing to give this a proper shot 1033 00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:30,920 and so I've written stay. 1034 00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:32,160 Good. Good work. (LAUGHS) 1035 00:53:32,240 --> 00:53:33,840 (APPLAUSE) Pleased to hear it. 1036 00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:36,880 Well, it's time for those deep conversations, guys. 1037 00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:38,520 Yep. Yeah. 1038 00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:39,560 OK. 1039 00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:40,600 Thanks, guys. Thanks. 1040 00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:42,600 (APPLAUSE) 1041 00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:52,720 ALESSANDRA: Next up on the couch, Sara and Tim. 1042 00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:55,760 (APPLAUSE) 1043 00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:58,680 Hello, hello. Hello. 1044 00:53:58,720 --> 00:53:59,760 Hey. 1045 00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:04,760 How are you guys doing? 1046 00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:07,360 Do you want to go? Sure. Pretty good. 1047 00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:10,520 Yeah, pretty good. We've had another really good week. 1048 00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:17,080 Um... Yeah. 1049 00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:20,760 (LAUGHTER) 1050 00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:23,680 It would be great if you could go into more detail, Tim. 1051 00:54:23,720 --> 00:54:25,080 Here we go. 1052 00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:28,440 We're in the best place that we've been, I feel like. 1053 00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:31,280 Definitely the best place we've been in the whole experiment. 1054 00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:35,960 What are your main concerns at this moment? 1055 00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:44,040 I think my main concern is that I might be too much for Tim. 1056 00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:46,960 I am a big personality 1057 00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:50,200 and I've always wanted someone that's gonna match my energy 1058 00:54:50,240 --> 00:54:51,400 in that sense 1059 00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:55,040 and, yeah, I think it's hard 1060 00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:58,000 because Tim has shown me a confident side to him 1061 00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:02,080 but he's not necessarily as big as a personality as I am. 1062 00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:06,840 I wonder, Sara, for you, 1063 00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:11,080 is it you feeling that you might be too much for Tim 1064 00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:13,640 or is Tim perhaps not enough for you? 1065 00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:22,400 I think in the past I have always felt like I am too much for people. 1066 00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:31,160 Like, I have had, like, I guess, instances in the past 1067 00:55:31,240 --> 00:55:35,920 where, like, I have been too big of a personality for people, so... 1068 00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:42,000 Complete transformation in your face. It made you emotional. Why is that? 1069 00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:49,640 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 1070 00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:54,160 Sorry. (CRIES) 1071 00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:58,640 Because I know that I have things to work on, for sure I do. 1072 00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:01,960 But, like, I am who I am. 1073 00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:03,520 I'm always gonna be opinionated. 1074 00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:06,640 I might be one of the loudest in the room 1075 00:56:06,720 --> 00:56:11,040 and sometimes that is a lot for some people, so... 1076 00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:19,360 How does that make you feel, Tim, to hear Sara saying this? 1077 00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:22,240 I don't want her to feel like she's too much for me. 1078 00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:26,240 That's my type. (LAUGHS) 1079 00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:28,960 So it's like an opposites-attract situation, you know. 1080 00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:30,600 Like, a Yin-Yang sort of vibe. 1081 00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:35,920 I think Sara's shown me pretty much every day, like, 1082 00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:38,960 that my voice matters and my opinion matters, 1083 00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:42,560 you know, and that she's listening to me, so...yeah. 1084 00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:45,720 JOHN: Let's get to the decision. Stay or leave? 1085 00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:48,920 We're gonna go with you first, Tim. 1086 00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:51,480 Best week. Stay. OK. 1087 00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:54,440 (APPLAUSE) 1088 00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:56,680 And what about you, Sara? 1089 00:56:56,720 --> 00:56:57,920 I... 1090 00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:00,160 Yeah, I've had a really good week with Tim 1091 00:57:00,240 --> 00:57:02,480 and I'm really positive about the way things are going, 1092 00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:03,680 so I wrote 'stay'. 1093 00:57:03,720 --> 00:57:05,000 Good. Stay. 1094 00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:07,560 (APPLAUSE) 1095 00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:10,720 OK, guys. You know what you've gotta do. 1096 00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:12,960 Roll the sleeves up and get it done this week. 1097 00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:14,080 Thank you. Away you go. 1098 00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:17,120 (APPLAUSE) 1099 00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:23,080 Our last couple on the couch tonight, Tori and Jack. 1100 00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:25,600 (APPLAUSE) Alright. 1101 00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:28,000 Wow. MEL: That's eager. 1102 00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:29,080 Sprinted up. 1103 00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:31,200 'Cause he wanted to sit where I usually sit. 1104 00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:33,520 (LAUGHS, EXHALES) It's real childish. 1105 00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:36,400 I don't like this side. 1106 00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:39,080 (LAUGHS) Just try it. 1107 00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:42,800 Big week for you two last week. Mmm. 1108 00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:46,280 Probably the longest week in the experiment, I feel. 1109 00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:49,200 A lot of chat, a lot of discussion. 1110 00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:52,320 I think we came out of it pretty good. 1111 00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:58,280 So, going into last night's dinner party, how did you feel about things? 1112 00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:02,320 I just wanted to really, like, just coast along last night. 1113 00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:06,280 Mmm. Just continue laying low. 1114 00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:11,400 What I saw was the two of you getting fired up. 1115 00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:16,920 And, Tori, I haven't seen you that fired up before. 1116 00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:25,880 Out of this experiment, it takes a lot to get me to a point of anger 1117 00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:27,400 that I was at last night. 1118 00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:32,520 But Timothy obviously does a pretty good job 1119 00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:35,360 at getting me to a certain point 1120 00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:38,960 and I really did blow up. 1121 00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:40,560 Oh, yeah, we saw it. Mm-hm. 1122 00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:45,960 And I think everything is so intense in here 1123 00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:48,680 that it took a minute time 1124 00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:52,840 to get me to a level where I was, like, feral. 1125 00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:55,920 What was that trigger? 1126 00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:57,880 Timothy was sitting at the end of the table 1127 00:58:57,920 --> 00:58:59,320 with this smug look on his face. 1128 00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:01,160 It's the only one I've got. 1129 00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:03,240 And I don't like smug. 1130 00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:05,800 What so difficult about someone being smug? 1131 00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:09,480 Smug is sneaky and sneaky's disingenuous 1132 00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:11,360 and I don't like disingenuous people. 1133 00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:16,640 He'd said a few things to Jayden that I didn't like, 1134 00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:22,200 so I was just in a state of, like, "Nup, you're done, mate." 1135 00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:24,600 Can I just ask you, 1136 00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:27,800 what did he say about Jayden that really got under your skin? 1137 00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:32,440 He said to Jayden that "you are nothing". 1138 00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:35,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1139 00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:38,440 Questioning his character a little bit. 1140 00:59:38,480 --> 00:59:39,720 Yeah. 1141 00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:42,680 For me, the comment was low 1142 00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:46,920 and it hit a nerve with me and I didn't like it. 1143 00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,800 That comment there is just as destructive 1144 00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:53,320 as the comment Jack made last week. 1145 00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:57,080 But when he made that comment... No, no, no, no, no. 1146 00:59:57,160 --> 01:00:00,920 No, no, hang on. Hang on, hang on. Don't come with that. 1147 01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:14,320 JOHN: Can I just ask you, 1148 01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:17,600 what did he say about Jayden that really got under your skin? 1149 01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:22,520 He said to Jayden that "you are nothing". 1150 01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:26,400 That comment there is just as destructive 1151 01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:29,160 as the comment Jack made last week. 1152 01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:31,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1153 01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:33,240 OTHERS: No. 1154 01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:36,080 No, no, no, no, no. No, no, hang on. Hang on. 1155 01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:38,160 Hang on. 1156 01:00:38,200 --> 01:00:39,440 No, no, don't come with that. 1157 01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:42,240 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1158 01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:44,680 LUCINDA: So disappointing. 1159 01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:46,760 I've gotta have you up on that, Tori. 1160 01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:49,920 I've got a problem with that. 1161 01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:56,920 How was the comment about not having anything or being a nothing 1162 01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:59,640 the same as the 'muzzle your woman' comment? 1163 01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:02,000 TORI: No, no, it's just as destructive. 1164 01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:06,600 That's hurtful. To me, that's hurtful. 1165 01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:08,960 That would hurt me. That would cut me deep. 1166 01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:16,160 Why did the comment about him being a nothing 1167 01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:19,880 get you more fired up and feral, in your words, 1168 01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:25,160 compared to what was said by Jack regarding the muzzle? 1169 01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:29,400 I was angry at that comment. I was disappointed in Jack. 1170 01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:35,880 And I think anger and disappointment are two very different things. 1171 01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:43,760 When you look at the reaction of the group when they hear that, 1172 01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:47,720 I mean, there are women in this group that are, like, rolling their eyes. 1173 01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:53,240 And they're not doing that just for fun. 1174 01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:57,720 Where are you at with everything right now, Jack? 1175 01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:01,680 Oh, give me a better question. Jesus. 1176 01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:04,720 Do you want another question? 1177 01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:06,320 Just shoot me straighter. 1178 01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:09,680 Alright, well, I'm gonna go there 'cause you've asked me. 1179 01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:14,680 How serious is this relationship for you with Tori? 1180 01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:18,480 Um... 1181 01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:20,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 1182 01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:22,000 I was gonna chat about patterns today 1183 01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:24,640 and if I had any questions or concerns 1184 01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:26,800 about me and Tori moving forward. 1185 01:02:30,720 --> 01:02:33,200 The pattern that I have had is, like, disappointing, 1186 01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:35,760 like, previous partners, you know, and... 1187 01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:38,360 What does that mean? 1188 01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:40,680 I'm getting this soft side from Tori... 1189 01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:41,880 Mmm. 1190 01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:44,640 ..that was relevant to a conversation with her friend, Leah, 1191 01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:46,120 that visited... (CLEARS THROAT) 1192 01:02:46,200 --> 01:02:47,960 and that opened my eyes a little bit. 1193 01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:55,720 Leah had made comment that it is the first time she's seen me be me. 1194 01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:01,920 It's just, like, really kind of highlighted to me 1195 01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:03,560 that I'm so exposed right now. 1196 01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:06,760 No-one gets this side of me 1197 01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:11,160 and I feel like I'm probably only gonna do it once 1198 01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:14,320 and if it gets damaged or questioned 1199 01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:20,880 or...mmm, anything like that, I'll probably close myself off. 1200 01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:24,480 Right. 1201 01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:26,720 What you're saying is the gravity of this 1202 01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:30,360 is that now that you're exposed and out there, 1203 01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:32,880 if he doesn't reciprocate this... 1204 01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:34,600 I'll just close up. 1205 01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:36,160 ..if he doesn't come back to you... Yeah. 1206 01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:37,240 ..you'll close up for good? 1207 01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:42,920 We've never heard you talk like this on the couch before. 1208 01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:44,240 MEL: Mmm. 1209 01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:48,480 So, Jack, how does that sit with you? 1210 01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:49,800 Um... 1211 01:03:49,840 --> 01:03:51,760 I don't know. 1212 01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:56,240 I'm getting, like, nervous in our relationship. 1213 01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:00,560 It's getting, like, really serious 1214 01:04:00,640 --> 01:04:04,880 and I can see Tori's opening up to me... 1215 01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:09,000 letting her guard down a lot. 1216 01:04:09,080 --> 01:04:13,840 I'm feel like we're starting to develop serious feelings. 1217 01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:21,040 And I do have concerns that I'm gonna let you down. 1218 01:04:25,040 --> 01:04:30,640 I'm 34 and single, so, you know, I've let people down before. 1219 01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:35,440 You're married. You're married. 1220 01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:43,840 I feel like her affection is probably surpassing mine. 1221 01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:47,680 Well, let me put you on the spot, then. 1222 01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:52,480 Is this a case where Tori is into you 1223 01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:54,680 a lot more than you're into Tori? 1224 01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:57,720 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1225 01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:03,040 Um... 1226 01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:23,240 Is this a case where Tori is into you a lot more than you're into Tori? 1227 01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:28,200 Um... 1228 01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:32,800 (TENSE MUSIC) 1229 01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:37,560 Maybe... Maybe a little bit. 1230 01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:42,920 (WHISPERS) Tori doesn't like that. 1231 01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:47,360 Now it's started putting this pressure on me. 1232 01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:54,440 So, rather than feel excited and happy... 1233 01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:55,600 Mmm. 1234 01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:59,160 ..and hopeful, you're actually saying you feel very nervous. 1235 01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:04,800 And you've even said to her, "I'm scared I'm gonna let you down." 1236 01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:06,560 Yeah. 1237 01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:09,040 Frankly, that worries me. 1238 01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:16,320 Because when people say things to their partners like that... 1239 01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:24,640 they're almost creating a blueprint - I AM gonna disappoint you. 1240 01:06:27,960 --> 01:06:31,680 'Cause you're pre-empting that this is gonna fail 1241 01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:34,680 and that's what I think we're worried about. 1242 01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:37,720 We've never heard you talk that way before. 1243 01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:40,680 Yeah. Well, what if Tori left me? 1244 01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:42,680 LAUREN: She's not leaving you. 1245 01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:48,600 She's not telling you that. She's telling you the opposite. 1246 01:06:50,560 --> 01:06:53,680 I think you know I'm not going anywhere. 1247 01:06:53,720 --> 01:06:55,560 Do you think I'm going anywhere? 1248 01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:57,800 (LAUGHS) Well, I didn't. 1249 01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:01,560 But now that you've made that comment, 1250 01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:04,680 I'm, like, if you want to go, like, go now. 1251 01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:12,520 You've planted the seed of doubt. LAUREN: Yeah. Totally. 1252 01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:16,960 That's a problem. 1253 01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:21,400 I didn't realise how it would make you feel. 1254 01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:25,800 But, like, I'm just trying to be open and honest. 1255 01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:32,680 This is the first time we've actually really heard the two of you open up. 1256 01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:35,360 And, Jack, you're prepared to admit 1257 01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:39,560 that you think Tori may be more into you than you're into her. 1258 01:07:41,200 --> 01:07:43,320 That's a very big thing to say. 1259 01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:48,320 There's a lot at stake for her. 1260 01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:51,760 Yeah. 1261 01:07:52,960 --> 01:07:58,160 And you need to know I have very serious feelings towards you. 1262 01:07:58,200 --> 01:07:59,320 That's why I'm nervous. 1263 01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:03,280 And I have a lot at stake as well. 1264 01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:04,960 And I wouldn't waste your time... Mmm. 1265 01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:06,840 ..as I don't want you to waste my time. 1266 01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:09,240 Mmm. Yeah, and I'm on the same page. 1267 01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:11,720 Yeah, definitely don't waste my time... 1268 01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:12,760 Yeah. 1269 01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:15,720 ..'cause that would really (BLEEP) me off. 1270 01:08:20,480 --> 01:08:22,280 Keep that in mind. 1271 01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:26,000 We're going to the decision. Stay or leave? 1272 01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:29,560 And we're gonna go with you first, Tori. 1273 01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:36,720 My decision is to stay. 1274 01:08:36,760 --> 01:08:40,560 (APPLAUSE) 1275 01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:43,560 And for you, Jack? What have you got for us? 1276 01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:46,960 (TENSE MUSIC) Stay or leave? 1277 01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:50,080 I will stay. 1278 01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:53,120 (APPLAUSE) 1279 01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:55,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1280 01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:58,400 Well, we've seen the real side to you two. 1281 01:08:58,440 --> 01:09:00,960 And there's a lot more at stake. 1282 01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:06,000 This is serious, so you've gotta take it that way. 1283 01:09:06,080 --> 01:09:08,280 We look forward to seeing you next time. 1284 01:09:08,360 --> 01:09:10,600 But for now, you can go back to the group. 1285 01:09:10,640 --> 01:09:13,240 (APPLAUSE) 1286 01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:19,320 TORI: What? Like, what? 1287 01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:23,640 What the hell? 1288 01:09:23,680 --> 01:09:26,720 I just felt blindsided by Jack. 1289 01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:30,160 I have given up my livelihood to be here 1290 01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:34,120 and so, there is a lot weighing on this 1291 01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:38,240 and whether it was Jack or whether it was someone else, 1292 01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:41,200 I want to make sure that it was worth my time. 1293 01:09:41,240 --> 01:09:44,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1294 01:09:44,480 --> 01:09:46,280 That is the god-honest truth. 1295 01:09:46,320 --> 01:09:47,640 NARRATOR: Tomorrow night... 1296 01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:50,680 There was a sexual spark for me that I've not felt with you. 1297 01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:52,160 I feel so guilty. 1298 01:09:52,240 --> 01:09:56,080 ..an unexpected cheating allegation rocks the experiment. 1299 01:09:56,160 --> 01:10:00,320 MICHAEL: After that, I honestly don't know if I care to salvage it. 1300 01:10:02,920 --> 01:10:05,000 (EDEN LAUGHS) JAYDEN: Couples' retreat! Let's go! 1301 01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:09,800 Our newlyweds head off on a couples' retreat... 1302 01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:11,280 (SINGS THEATRICALLY) 1303 01:10:11,320 --> 01:10:12,520 (WOMAN LAUGHS) 1304 01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:16,600 ..and this year it's a brand-new romantic setting... 1305 01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:18,840 JONATHAN: It's the closest we've been in weeks. 1306 01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:20,560 RIDGE: Gotcha. (JADE LAUGHS) 1307 01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:25,200 TIMOTHY: I actually can't do this. (CRIES) 1308 01:10:25,280 --> 01:10:28,080 ..that will lead to an unforgettable... 1309 01:10:28,120 --> 01:10:29,840 (CRYING) 1310 01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:32,000 ..and extraordinary breakthrough. 1311 01:10:34,080 --> 01:10:36,280 LUCINDA: I've never seen that side of Tim. 1312 01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:39,280 So many walls came down then. 1313 01:10:43,840 --> 01:10:46,440 (GASPS) You're joking. LAUREN: Oh, my god. 1314 01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:48,560 Did he do that? Sara and Lauren... 1315 01:10:48,600 --> 01:10:50,200 It's completely inappropriate. 1316 01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:52,600 SARA: Oh, my god. I'm, like, stressed right now. 1317 01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:55,680 ..learn brand-new information about Jack. 1318 01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:59,040 That is shocking to me. He's crossed the line. 1319 01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:01,040 Will they speak up... 1320 01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:02,440 I'm kind of, like, dying inside 1321 01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:04,240 because obviously Sara and I have some information 1322 01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:05,600 that we want to share with her. 1323 01:11:05,640 --> 01:11:08,080 ..and break the news to Tori? 1324 01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:10,400 What's your limit? Like, what would be your dealbreaker? 1325 01:11:10,440 --> 01:11:12,720 That's a great question. 1326 01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:15,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1327 01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:22,800 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 96531

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