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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 3 00:00:31,417 --> 00:00:38,875 [Music] 4 00:00:52,333 --> 00:00:54,125 How far would you go to find love? 5 00:00:56,041 --> 00:00:58,625 Oh! I don't know, it depends on the love. 6 00:00:58,709 --> 00:01:01,750 Magical, beyond your wildest dreams? 7 00:01:01,834 --> 00:01:02,959 I would kill for that. 8 00:01:03,041 --> 00:01:04,166 [Laughing] 9 00:01:04,250 --> 00:01:06,166 What if I told you, you didn't have to? 10 00:01:06,250 --> 00:01:08,291 Consider this, 11 00:01:08,375 --> 00:01:10,000 you are the source of the love 12 00:01:10,083 --> 00:01:12,750 that you want for your life? 13 00:01:12,834 --> 00:01:14,625 It sounds too good to be true. 14 00:01:14,709 --> 00:01:16,834 It's not. 15 00:01:16,917 --> 00:01:19,000 Believe me when I tell you this. 16 00:01:19,083 --> 00:01:20,917 That's what your book is about, isn't it? 17 00:01:22,834 --> 00:01:25,333 It's about getting over your past, 18 00:01:25,417 --> 00:01:27,875 creating the love that you want, 19 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:29,959 putting that love in your future 20 00:01:30,041 --> 00:01:32,041 and then living into that future. 21 00:01:33,250 --> 00:01:36,583 So what's in Matthew Taylor's future? 22 00:01:39,083 --> 00:01:41,667 I am putting dinner and dancing 23 00:01:41,750 --> 00:01:44,000 with the love with you in my future. 24 00:01:45,834 --> 00:01:47,750 I don't date guys from work. 25 00:01:47,834 --> 00:01:48,834 Come on, it's not a date. 26 00:01:48,917 --> 00:01:50,000 Oh really? 27 00:01:50,083 --> 00:01:51,709 Then what is it? 28 00:01:54,417 --> 00:01:56,250 Let's find out. 29 00:02:02,333 --> 00:02:05,000 [Hiccup] Sorry! 30 00:02:05,083 --> 00:02:06,166 It's okay. 31 00:02:06,250 --> 00:02:07,375 [Hiccup] 32 00:02:07,458 --> 00:02:09,000 It usually goes away. 33 00:02:09,083 --> 00:02:10,875 Matthew, can I talk to you? 34 00:02:10,959 --> 00:02:12,625 You are done. 35 00:02:13,959 --> 00:02:15,125 Hey bro! 36 00:02:15,208 --> 00:02:16,709 We are ready for you, Mr. Taylor. 37 00:02:16,792 --> 00:02:17,834 Okay. 38 00:02:17,917 --> 00:02:19,208 Can you check this out? 39 00:02:19,291 --> 00:02:20,291 What's up? What am I looking at? 40 00:02:20,375 --> 00:02:22,250 Bestsellers list. 41 00:02:24,083 --> 00:02:25,750 I thought we're ranked number 12. 42 00:02:25,834 --> 00:02:27,667 We were, now we are 14. 43 00:02:28,417 --> 00:02:29,083 I am sorry, Mr. Taylor, 44 00:02:29,417 --> 00:02:30,875 but we really need you right now. 45 00:02:30,959 --> 00:02:32,250 -Of course! -Okay, just chill out! 46 00:02:32,333 --> 00:02:34,709 Listen man, we went from 11 to 14, 47 00:02:34,792 --> 00:02:37,375 that's not the direction we need to go get to number one. 48 00:02:37,458 --> 00:02:40,208 These local talk show crazies ain't cutting it for us. 49 00:02:40,291 --> 00:02:41,834 Then why are we doing a local circuit? 50 00:02:41,917 --> 00:02:42,959 Because that's all we've got! 51 00:02:43,375 --> 00:02:45,667 I am terribly sorry, but if we don't get going they are 52 00:02:45,750 --> 00:02:46,792 they are going to... 53 00:02:46,917 --> 00:02:49,083 Okay, they are going to just chill out. 54 00:02:49,166 --> 00:02:50,291 We have to get your face 55 00:02:50,375 --> 00:02:53,291 and our message on a national show, period. 56 00:02:53,375 --> 00:02:54,083 Is there a reason you are telling me this 57 00:02:54,375 --> 00:02:55,750 right before I do an interview? 58 00:02:55,834 --> 00:02:57,667 Yes, because I need you to consider this 59 00:02:57,750 --> 00:02:59,166 For the love of ... please! 60 00:02:59,250 --> 00:03:01,083 Will you just... will you just come with me please, 61 00:03:01,166 --> 00:03:02,375 just do me this solid. 62 00:03:02,458 --> 00:03:03,959 You have to go, she is losing it! 63 00:03:04,041 --> 00:03:06,333 Listen man, do your thing, man, go get them, champ. 64 00:03:08,291 --> 00:03:09,917 -Okay. -You need a Percocet. 65 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,333 Something in your life to calm down, 66 00:03:12,417 --> 00:03:14,291 be careful with her, be careful, 67 00:03:14,375 --> 00:03:15,375 get right to the stage. 68 00:03:15,458 --> 00:03:16,917 [Music] 69 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,375 [Applause] 70 00:03:20,458 --> 00:03:23,000 Please welcome my next guest, Matthew Taylor! 71 00:03:23,083 --> 00:03:27,792 [Applause] 72 00:03:27,875 --> 00:03:29,417 Looking good! 73 00:03:32,792 --> 00:03:33,959 You look beautiful as always. 74 00:03:34,041 --> 00:03:36,458 And you look hotter every time I see you. 75 00:03:36,542 --> 00:03:39,000 [Non-English] 76 00:03:39,083 --> 00:03:41,166 I am just saying. 77 00:03:41,250 --> 00:03:43,375 I think I'll take that as a compliment. 78 00:03:43,458 --> 00:03:45,709 You better because I don't say that to just everybody, 79 00:03:45,792 --> 00:03:46,959 just so you know me. 80 00:03:47,041 --> 00:03:48,709 It's okay, now I know. 81 00:03:50,500 --> 00:03:52,166 Get the face! 82 00:04:01,417 --> 00:04:03,417 Hi! 83 00:04:03,500 --> 00:04:06,000 Sorry, I was on a very long phone call. 84 00:04:10,417 --> 00:04:11,792 He is cute! 85 00:04:11,875 --> 00:04:13,750 No, he is gorgeous! 86 00:04:18,917 --> 00:04:20,166 It's been a pretty good week. 87 00:04:20,250 --> 00:04:23,417 I mean, I have just been feeling good. 88 00:04:23,500 --> 00:04:25,333 Nothing has happened or anything. 89 00:04:25,417 --> 00:04:30,875 I just... I feel okay first time in a long time. 90 00:04:30,959 --> 00:04:33,875 You know sometimes we can get locked into 91 00:04:33,959 --> 00:04:35,250 a certain mode of feeling 92 00:04:35,333 --> 00:04:38,083 and even if that mode isn't comfortable 93 00:04:38,166 --> 00:04:40,166 like sadness or depression 94 00:04:40,250 --> 00:04:41,834 it can become ingrained to the point 95 00:04:41,917 --> 00:04:44,125 where it becomes our new baseline. 96 00:04:44,208 --> 00:04:47,166 That's a very normal part of the process. 97 00:04:47,250 --> 00:04:49,083 Do you think there is a little of that 98 00:04:49,166 --> 00:04:51,041 going on with you may be? 99 00:04:51,125 --> 00:04:53,458 No. 100 00:04:53,542 --> 00:04:57,000 Honestly, I am just thinking over it. 101 00:04:57,083 --> 00:04:58,542 What does that mean to you? 102 00:04:58,625 --> 00:05:02,375 It means that I am ready to put my divorce behind me 103 00:05:02,458 --> 00:05:04,875 and get on with my life. 104 00:05:04,959 --> 00:05:06,291 I am ready to end therapy. 105 00:05:06,375 --> 00:05:08,375 That's good, that's good. 106 00:05:08,458 --> 00:05:10,500 That means we are starting to make real progress. 107 00:05:10,583 --> 00:05:11,500 Starting? 108 00:05:11,834 --> 00:05:13,208 As I said to you in the beginning therapy 109 00:05:13,291 --> 00:05:15,125 is marathon not a sprint. 110 00:05:15,208 --> 00:05:17,208 Well my insurance only pays for sprints, 111 00:05:17,291 --> 00:05:19,458 so you know, I am going to wrap it up. 112 00:05:22,250 --> 00:05:26,166 Okay, just open my calendar. 113 00:05:26,250 --> 00:05:32,417 [Music] 114 00:05:51,750 --> 00:05:53,959 Did you at least taken a breakfast? 115 00:05:54,041 --> 00:05:55,834 T, I didn't even get that far? 116 00:05:55,917 --> 00:05:57,125 You are a dog! 117 00:05:57,208 --> 00:05:58,500 Oh come on, cut it out. 118 00:05:58,583 --> 00:06:00,166 She ripped up out of here. 119 00:06:00,250 --> 00:06:01,125 I wanted her to stay. 120 00:06:01,208 --> 00:06:02,667 No, you didn't! 121 00:06:02,750 --> 00:06:04,500 Look, I am never going to get in a way brother 122 00:06:04,583 --> 00:06:07,125 doing his thing, but a relationship guru 123 00:06:07,208 --> 00:06:09,542 should be in a relationship longer than a minute. 124 00:06:09,625 --> 00:06:11,500 How about you just stick to doing your thing 125 00:06:11,583 --> 00:06:13,417 and I will stick with doing mine? 126 00:06:13,500 --> 00:06:17,208 Can you prep for national TV tour, is my thing. 127 00:06:17,291 --> 00:06:19,667 People love controversy Matthew 128 00:06:19,750 --> 00:06:21,667 and they are going to start digging it up. 129 00:06:21,750 --> 00:06:22,709 What do you want me to do? 130 00:06:22,792 --> 00:06:23,834 You want me to be in a relationship 131 00:06:24,208 --> 00:06:25,667 because you think it will be better for my image? 132 00:06:25,750 --> 00:06:28,083 Image is everything, don't forget that. 133 00:06:28,166 --> 00:06:31,917 [Music] 134 00:06:34,542 --> 00:06:37,041 -Stop! -Stop what! 135 00:06:37,125 --> 00:06:39,792 Stop looking at me like that! 136 00:06:39,875 --> 00:06:42,000 What do you mean, that's what dads are supposed to do. 137 00:06:42,083 --> 00:06:43,834 Yeah, you are totally right in everything, 138 00:06:43,917 --> 00:06:46,917 but like we are in public. 139 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:48,125 Oh my bad! My bad! 140 00:06:48,542 --> 00:06:51,542 I wouldn't want to mess up your little cool points, sorry! 141 00:06:51,625 --> 00:06:53,208 Dad, you are so corny! 142 00:06:53,291 --> 00:06:54,709 Oh come on, that was funny. 143 00:06:54,792 --> 00:06:56,500 Corny! 144 00:06:56,583 --> 00:06:57,959 I thought it was funny. 145 00:07:01,166 --> 00:07:03,583 Hey, hey! 146 00:07:03,667 --> 00:07:05,667 Did you just stare that boy? 147 00:07:05,750 --> 00:07:10,792 Seriously, I am 13, like 30% or whatever, 148 00:07:10,875 --> 00:07:12,166 13 girls are having ... 149 00:07:12,250 --> 00:07:13,917 Wo! Wo! Wait a minute! 150 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:17,041 You better be on the right side of that 30% young lady. 151 00:07:17,125 --> 00:07:20,125 I was just kidding; it's more like 10%. 152 00:07:20,208 --> 00:07:22,625 And yes, I am an angel. 153 00:07:22,709 --> 00:07:23,583 Hurry up already! 154 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,625 10%! Oh no! no! 155 00:07:39,959 --> 00:07:41,834 Aleya! 156 00:07:41,917 --> 00:07:44,041 -Aleya! -That's crazy! 157 00:07:45,709 --> 00:07:48,625 Yeah, you can thank your uncle too for this silly thing. 158 00:07:48,709 --> 00:07:50,250 It's kind of cool. 159 00:07:50,333 --> 00:07:51,667 Wait, what are we doing in here? 160 00:07:51,750 --> 00:07:53,625 You know what I look like already? 161 00:07:53,709 --> 00:07:55,125 I want to get it for mom. 162 00:07:57,667 --> 00:07:58,667 Sweetheart, 163 00:08:00,083 --> 00:08:01,959 I don't know if that's such a good idea. 164 00:08:02,041 --> 00:08:04,709 What if I told you, mom and George are on the rocks 165 00:08:04,792 --> 00:08:07,542 and she might need to bounce back? 166 00:08:07,625 --> 00:08:08,959 Did they? 167 00:08:09,041 --> 00:08:10,625 -I mean are they? -No, 168 00:08:10,709 --> 00:08:13,208 but I know she and George are dying to read it. 169 00:08:13,291 --> 00:08:15,250 Look here, sweetheart, 170 00:08:15,333 --> 00:08:18,125 if your mom wanted to read the book so bad, 171 00:08:18,208 --> 00:08:19,875 why didn't she just ask me for a copy? 172 00:08:19,959 --> 00:08:20,959 I don't know. 173 00:08:21,333 --> 00:08:23,875 She wants you to have your privacy or whatever. 174 00:08:23,959 --> 00:08:25,709 You should ask her yourself. 175 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:39,041 [tv playing] 176 00:08:43,375 --> 00:08:44,667 Hello! 177 00:08:44,750 --> 00:08:45,834 Whatever you're doing, drop it, 178 00:08:45,917 --> 00:08:47,208 and get over to Nine stat. 179 00:08:47,291 --> 00:08:48,208 I can't. 180 00:08:48,583 --> 00:08:50,667 Look, I know exactly what you're doing, okay? 181 00:08:50,750 --> 00:08:52,333 And your journey of self-discovery 182 00:08:52,417 --> 00:08:54,583 is going to be there when you get home. 183 00:08:54,667 --> 00:08:55,792 Well, you go ahead and mock, 184 00:08:55,875 --> 00:08:57,333 but as the great George Gurdjieff says, 185 00:08:57,417 --> 00:08:58,583 "Without understanding the workings 186 00:08:58,667 --> 00:08:59,834 and functions of his machine, 187 00:08:59,917 --> 00:09:00,875 man cannot be free." 188 00:09:01,041 --> 00:09:02,000 Get over here! 189 00:09:02,083 --> 00:09:04,333 I am not taking no for an answer. 190 00:09:04,417 --> 00:09:06,542 Just hung up! 191 00:09:06,625 --> 00:09:11,291 [tv playing] 192 00:09:14,083 --> 00:09:15,583 Don't get me wrong, I just never got anything 193 00:09:15,667 --> 00:09:18,458 out of this life by sitting around introspecting myself. 194 00:09:18,542 --> 00:09:22,250 The mind is an ugly place to dwell. 195 00:09:22,333 --> 00:09:24,417 We all hear those voices in our heads. 196 00:09:24,500 --> 00:09:26,166 What is this guy talking about? 197 00:09:26,250 --> 00:09:29,000 It's that same voice that's asking you right now, 198 00:09:29,083 --> 00:09:31,083 what the hell is this guy talking about? 199 00:09:31,166 --> 00:09:33,208 Well, see, the key is to get out of your head 200 00:09:33,291 --> 00:09:35,125 and get into action. 201 00:09:35,208 --> 00:09:38,583 And my book 'The Bounce Back' will help you do just that. 202 00:09:38,667 --> 00:09:41,583 [applause] 203 00:09:41,667 --> 00:09:43,500 Oh brother! 204 00:09:43,583 --> 00:09:45,291 How about this for action? 205 00:09:47,333 --> 00:09:51,125 Here is to Kristin and a rare night out among the single 206 00:09:55,834 --> 00:09:56,792 Cheers! 207 00:09:56,875 --> 00:09:58,291 -Good! -Ew! 208 00:09:58,375 --> 00:09:59,959 -Go! -Ew! 209 00:10:00,041 --> 00:10:01,333 -One more! -Ah! 210 00:10:01,417 --> 00:10:03,875 -I like that! -Eh! 211 00:10:03,959 --> 00:10:06,125 -Two more! -Ah! 212 00:10:06,208 --> 00:10:08,125 -You're nothing today! -Ah! 213 00:10:08,208 --> 00:10:09,166 Nobody! 214 00:10:13,041 --> 00:10:14,333 Where's your head? Eh! 215 00:10:17,834 --> 00:10:19,333 One minute! Get your mind right. 216 00:10:19,417 --> 00:10:20,458 Yeah. 217 00:10:22,041 --> 00:10:23,333 Get back over! 218 00:10:24,875 --> 00:10:26,959 Why do you let him talk to you like that? 219 00:10:27,041 --> 00:10:29,000 I pay him a lot of money to talk to me like that. 220 00:10:29,083 --> 00:10:30,750 He is creepy! 221 00:10:30,834 --> 00:10:31,917 You're going to stand up to him? 222 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:33,208 I ain't afraid of him. 223 00:10:33,291 --> 00:10:34,375 Oh please! 224 00:10:40,083 --> 00:10:42,000 Unbelievable! 225 00:10:42,083 --> 00:10:43,458 Oh, come on T, 226 00:10:43,542 --> 00:10:45,959 don't sweat that national spotlight thing. 227 00:10:46,041 --> 00:10:47,166 We'll get there. 228 00:10:47,583 --> 00:10:49,917 The news cycle lasts minutes these days, either your going 229 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:52,250 viral or you play it out, simple as that. 230 00:10:54,834 --> 00:10:56,166 What? 231 00:10:56,250 --> 00:10:57,500 I see you've got yourself an idea. 232 00:10:57,583 --> 00:10:59,166 What? Spit it out! 233 00:10:59,250 --> 00:11:00,834 The The George Addison Show. 234 00:11:00,917 --> 00:11:01,917 Don't even go there T! 235 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:03,208 -I am serious. -Hey, what did I say? 236 00:11:03,291 --> 00:11:04,834 Hear me out, 237 00:11:04,917 --> 00:11:06,917 we've got to crack the bestseller and top 10. 238 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,291 He has a nationally syndicated talk show. 239 00:11:09,375 --> 00:11:10,458 I mean, we keep slipping points 240 00:11:10,542 --> 00:11:12,959 we can kiss getting to number one goodbye. 241 00:11:13,041 --> 00:11:16,166 Plus, there's a relationship between you two. 242 00:11:16,250 --> 00:11:18,792 T, thanks to you, the irony is not lost on me. 243 00:11:18,875 --> 00:11:22,041 I don't know what you mean by that, but we need this. 244 00:11:22,125 --> 00:11:24,125 That's my family you're messing with. 245 00:11:25,583 --> 00:11:26,583 What are you talking about? 246 00:11:26,959 --> 00:11:30,917 Listen man, Julie and Aleya look happier than ever. 247 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:32,250 They're not going to mind you, 248 00:11:32,333 --> 00:11:35,083 you know, working on George for a break. 249 00:11:37,208 --> 00:11:39,542 What is wrong with you? 250 00:11:39,625 --> 00:11:42,083 Oh man! 251 00:11:43,375 --> 00:11:45,000 You're not afraid of me, huh? 252 00:11:45,083 --> 00:11:46,083 You owe me some shit! 253 00:11:46,166 --> 00:11:47,291 Get in there! 254 00:11:47,375 --> 00:11:48,417 That's it! That's good! 255 00:11:50,417 --> 00:11:52,166 You must be an only child, huh? 256 00:11:55,291 --> 00:11:56,417 Let's go faster! 257 00:11:56,500 --> 00:11:57,792 -Let's go! -Okay! 258 00:12:00,959 --> 00:12:02,542 Matthew! 259 00:12:02,625 --> 00:12:03,792 Matthew! Come on! 260 00:12:04,166 --> 00:12:05,959 Why would you leave me in that gym with that crazy man? 261 00:12:06,041 --> 00:12:06,875 Terry, I've got to go, man. 262 00:12:06,959 --> 00:12:07,875 Look! Hey! 263 00:12:07,959 --> 00:12:08,875 I am sorry. 264 00:12:08,959 --> 00:12:10,166 I was out of line. 265 00:12:10,250 --> 00:12:11,959 I was out of line, man. 266 00:12:13,625 --> 00:12:16,208 Look, I know this Bacardi Bar has a pool party. 267 00:12:16,291 --> 00:12:17,917 Boy, we could slide through that, 268 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:19,458 get you a little hot girlfriend. 269 00:12:19,542 --> 00:12:21,500 You know I am about to go do my seminar. 270 00:12:21,583 --> 00:12:22,834 You really should come. 271 00:12:22,917 --> 00:12:24,000 No, no, I am cool, cool! 272 00:12:24,083 --> 00:12:25,500 No, I have a perfectly healthy love life. 273 00:12:25,583 --> 00:12:26,917 -Please! -No, you don't! 274 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:27,917 How would you know? 275 00:12:28,291 --> 00:12:29,917 You're a grown man who has never been in love, 276 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:31,083 that's how I know. 277 00:12:31,166 --> 00:12:33,041 Look, man, bag yourself a girlfriend, 278 00:12:33,125 --> 00:12:36,333 a famous one would be nice, think about it. 279 00:12:36,417 --> 00:12:39,875 Up and coming, relationship guru comes into a love thing 280 00:12:39,959 --> 00:12:42,083 with a famous Hollywood actress. 281 00:12:42,166 --> 00:12:43,208 It sounds good, don't it? 282 00:12:43,291 --> 00:12:44,375 Do it! 283 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:49,208 It's been valuable. 284 00:12:49,291 --> 00:12:51,166 I am not saying it hasn't. 285 00:12:52,583 --> 00:12:56,166 I just don't know if this is for me. 286 00:12:56,250 --> 00:12:57,875 I see! 287 00:12:57,959 --> 00:13:00,083 And why is that you think? 288 00:13:02,375 --> 00:13:07,041 No one ever got anything they really wanted in life 289 00:13:07,125 --> 00:13:10,625 sitting around introspecting themselves. 290 00:13:10,709 --> 00:13:14,583 Sometimes you have to get out of your head 291 00:13:14,667 --> 00:13:17,125 and into action. 292 00:13:17,208 --> 00:13:19,458 Matthew Taylor, 293 00:13:19,542 --> 00:13:20,959 the person that you're quoting, 294 00:13:21,041 --> 00:13:23,917 you're quoting Matthew Taylor. 295 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:25,208 No! 296 00:13:26,333 --> 00:13:28,625 One can only introspect oneself, 297 00:13:28,709 --> 00:13:30,500 that's what the word means. 298 00:13:30,583 --> 00:13:33,667 So saying introspect oneself is redundant 299 00:13:33,750 --> 00:13:35,375 and might suggest that Mr. Taylor doesn't know 300 00:13:35,458 --> 00:13:37,417 what he is talking about when he uses that word. 301 00:13:37,500 --> 00:13:38,500 Yeah, but... 302 00:13:38,583 --> 00:13:41,959 Secondly, he is a life coach, i.e., 303 00:13:42,041 --> 00:13:45,083 he has no training of any kind in psychology 304 00:13:45,166 --> 00:13:47,166 or human behavior. 305 00:13:47,250 --> 00:13:50,083 I took his seminar last weekend 306 00:13:50,166 --> 00:13:51,500 and it changed my life. 307 00:13:51,583 --> 00:13:54,083 And it might seem like that right now, 308 00:13:54,208 --> 00:13:56,667 but in time I assure you that you will realize 309 00:13:56,750 --> 00:13:58,667 that you wasted your money. 310 00:13:58,750 --> 00:13:59,542 Really? 311 00:13:59,625 --> 00:14:01,041 Yes! 312 00:14:01,125 --> 00:14:02,000 Yes! 313 00:14:02,083 --> 00:14:03,583 You should try it. 314 00:14:05,458 --> 00:14:08,250 It might help you pull the stick out of your ... 315 00:14:11,291 --> 00:14:13,125 Oh God! I blew that one! 316 00:14:22,291 --> 00:14:23,959 -Yo! -Yo! 317 00:14:25,125 --> 00:14:26,166 Get in! 318 00:14:26,250 --> 00:14:28,166 What is this thing? 319 00:14:28,250 --> 00:14:29,667 Remember that professional wrestler guy 320 00:14:29,750 --> 00:14:31,125 that I kind of dated and then 321 00:14:31,208 --> 00:14:32,125 Oh wait, hey, no, look, 322 00:14:32,500 --> 00:14:34,041 as far as you're concerned, it doesn't matter, 323 00:14:34,125 --> 00:14:36,250 this is your weekend chariot. 324 00:14:36,333 --> 00:14:37,417 Yeah, she is right. 325 00:14:37,834 --> 00:14:38,792 Here is what's going on, we're going to go to your house. 326 00:14:39,041 --> 00:14:41,125 You have exactly 15 minutes to pack a bag 327 00:14:41,208 --> 00:14:42,750 and then we are taking you away for the weekend. 328 00:14:42,834 --> 00:14:45,083 No is not an acceptable answer. 329 00:14:45,166 --> 00:14:47,667 No, we will not answer any questions, so don't even try. 330 00:14:48,750 --> 00:14:50,542 Well, here... 331 00:14:50,625 --> 00:14:51,667 here is for when your ... gets too tight 332 00:14:51,750 --> 00:14:52,709 for its own good. 333 00:14:52,792 --> 00:14:54,250 [Laughing] 334 00:14:54,333 --> 00:14:56,291 Fine, I'll take them, but I won't take them. 335 00:14:57,291 --> 00:14:58,417 -Get in! -Okay. 336 00:14:58,500 --> 00:14:59,375 All right! 337 00:14:59,458 --> 00:15:03,208 [Music] 338 00:15:03,291 --> 00:15:04,542 -Ready? -Yes. 339 00:15:04,625 --> 00:15:06,083 [Music] 340 00:15:06,166 --> 00:15:08,125 ♪ We freak in my jeep. 341 00:15:08,208 --> 00:15:09,000 [Music] 342 00:15:09,333 --> 00:15:11,542 ♪ Snoop Doggy Dogg on the stereo ♪ 343 00:15:11,625 --> 00:15:13,625 [Music] 344 00:15:13,709 --> 00:15:17,000 ♪ You could travel the world 345 00:15:17,083 --> 00:15:18,625 ♪ But nothing comes close 346 00:15:18,709 --> 00:15:21,166 ♪ To the golden coast 347 00:15:21,250 --> 00:15:24,166 ♪ Once you party with us 348 00:15:24,250 --> 00:15:26,250 ♪ You'll be falling in love 349 00:15:26,333 --> 00:15:28,792 ♪ Oooooh Oh Oooooh 350 00:15:28,875 --> 00:15:30,458 ♪ California girls 351 00:15:30,542 --> 00:15:32,166 ♪ We're unforgettable 352 00:15:32,250 --> 00:15:35,667 ♪ Daisy Dukes Bikinis on top 353 00:15:35,750 --> 00:15:37,291 ♪ Sun-kissed skin 354 00:15:37,375 --> 00:15:39,625 ♪ So hot We'll melt your popsicle ♪ 355 00:15:39,709 --> 00:15:41,625 Hey! 356 00:15:41,709 --> 00:15:42,625 Hi! 357 00:15:42,709 --> 00:15:43,542 I am ready to go! 358 00:15:43,625 --> 00:15:44,417 Oh! 359 00:15:44,500 --> 00:15:46,000 Yes, but first, 360 00:15:46,083 --> 00:15:48,417 we're going to do a little personal enrichment. 361 00:15:48,500 --> 00:15:49,083 What are you talking about? 362 00:15:49,375 --> 00:15:50,583 -Yeah. -Where are we going? 363 00:15:50,667 --> 00:15:51,583 You'll see. 364 00:15:51,667 --> 00:15:52,542 It's going to be really exciting. 365 00:15:52,625 --> 00:15:54,291 You're going to love it. 366 00:15:54,375 --> 00:15:56,583 [Applause] 367 00:15:56,667 --> 00:15:57,750 Thank you ladies! 368 00:15:59,834 --> 00:16:02,500 Now, the man you've all been waiting for. 369 00:16:02,583 --> 00:16:05,041 [Applause] 370 00:16:13,834 --> 00:16:15,709 That guy! 371 00:16:17,417 --> 00:16:18,583 He is gorgeous! 372 00:16:24,208 --> 00:16:25,208 Hello ladies! 373 00:16:25,291 --> 00:16:26,250 Hello! 374 00:16:29,166 --> 00:16:31,333 My name is Matthew Taylor and this is The Bounce Back! 375 00:16:31,417 --> 00:16:33,834 [Applause] 376 00:16:35,458 --> 00:16:36,709 What we're going to do this weekend 377 00:16:36,792 --> 00:16:38,500 is delve into the strategies in creating 378 00:16:38,583 --> 00:16:41,875 the kind of love that you want for your life. 379 00:16:41,959 --> 00:16:43,792 Oh no! No way! This is not happening girls! 380 00:16:43,875 --> 00:16:46,458 Hey, wait, you need to be open to this. 381 00:16:46,542 --> 00:16:47,500 How many of you are here 382 00:16:47,875 --> 00:16:49,750 because you've had your heart broken recently? 383 00:16:51,834 --> 00:16:53,375 That's original. 384 00:16:53,458 --> 00:16:54,417 Okay. 385 00:16:54,834 --> 00:16:56,208 Do me a favor, keep your hands up until I ask you 386 00:16:56,291 --> 00:16:57,083 to put them down, okay? 387 00:16:59,291 --> 00:17:01,750 If you've had your heart broken in the last week, 388 00:17:01,834 --> 00:17:03,542 go ahead and put your hands down. 389 00:17:03,625 --> 00:17:05,583 In the last month, 390 00:17:05,667 --> 00:17:07,417 if you've had your heart broken in the last month, 391 00:17:07,500 --> 00:17:09,208 go ahead and put your hands down. 392 00:17:09,291 --> 00:17:11,625 -Six months? -Really? 393 00:17:11,709 --> 00:17:14,125 How about the last two years? 394 00:17:14,959 --> 00:17:16,750 Three years? 395 00:17:16,834 --> 00:17:18,750 Five years? 396 00:17:18,834 --> 00:17:19,792 Keep it up. 397 00:17:19,875 --> 00:17:21,375 I don't want to keep it up! 398 00:17:21,458 --> 00:17:22,917 Six years? 399 00:17:26,500 --> 00:17:28,417 Miss? 400 00:17:28,500 --> 00:17:30,583 Miss? 401 00:17:30,667 --> 00:17:32,917 Miss? 402 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:34,917 Would you mind stepping up to the mike? 403 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:37,583 Oh no, no, I am good. 404 00:17:37,667 --> 00:17:39,542 What's your name? 405 00:17:39,625 --> 00:17:41,583 Kristin Peralta. 406 00:17:41,667 --> 00:17:43,417 Kristin, 407 00:17:43,500 --> 00:17:46,875 so how long has it been, Kristin? 408 00:17:46,959 --> 00:17:48,542 It has been six-and-a-half years. 409 00:17:48,625 --> 00:17:50,417 Oh! Ooh! 410 00:17:50,500 --> 00:17:51,917 Okay, okay, it's all good. 411 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:54,166 It's nothing to be ashamed of. 412 00:17:54,250 --> 00:17:56,542 All of us here know how hard it is to get over a relationship. 413 00:17:56,625 --> 00:17:58,333 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 414 00:17:58,417 --> 00:18:00,375 Kristin, if you would humor me, 415 00:18:00,458 --> 00:18:01,875 step up to the mike so everybody can hear you? 416 00:18:01,959 --> 00:18:02,875 [Applause] 417 00:18:02,959 --> 00:18:03,917 Yeah. 418 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:05,333 I am good. 419 00:18:05,417 --> 00:18:06,500 I am good. 420 00:18:08,583 --> 00:18:09,625 I am good! 421 00:18:09,709 --> 00:18:10,625 I am really good! 422 00:18:10,709 --> 00:18:11,792 [Applause] 423 00:18:11,875 --> 00:18:13,333 I am good, I am good! 424 00:18:13,417 --> 00:18:14,834 [Applause] 425 00:18:21,750 --> 00:18:22,750 How many of you have heard the old saying 426 00:18:23,125 --> 00:18:25,792 about how long it takes to get over a relationship? 427 00:18:25,875 --> 00:18:28,250 Oh, half as long as you were in it. 428 00:18:28,333 --> 00:18:29,709 There it is, that's the one I was looking for, 429 00:18:29,792 --> 00:18:31,625 half as long as you were in it. 430 00:18:31,709 --> 00:18:33,417 How many of you actually agree with that theory? 431 00:18:35,583 --> 00:18:37,458 Would you like to know how long it really takes? 432 00:18:37,542 --> 00:18:38,667 Yes. 433 00:18:38,750 --> 00:18:41,417 Exactly as long as you want it to be. 434 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:44,709 Yeah. 435 00:18:44,792 --> 00:18:48,000 So Kristin, getting over a relationship takes 436 00:18:48,083 --> 00:18:50,250 exactly as long as you want it to. 437 00:18:52,417 --> 00:18:54,542 Yeah, if it were that easy. 438 00:18:55,583 --> 00:18:56,792 What do you do for a living? 439 00:18:56,875 --> 00:18:58,834 I am a therapist. 440 00:18:58,917 --> 00:19:02,583 So you are trained to dissect the past, 441 00:19:02,667 --> 00:19:03,834 to really dig into it, 442 00:19:03,917 --> 00:19:05,917 sift through it in great detail, am I right? 443 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:09,750 If you insist on grossly oversimplifying it, sure. 444 00:19:09,834 --> 00:19:12,667 How is that working out for you? 445 00:19:12,750 --> 00:19:16,875 I've heard your spiel and it sounds marvelous, 446 00:19:16,959 --> 00:19:19,625 who wouldn't want to get over a painful breakup instantly? 447 00:19:21,458 --> 00:19:23,333 You don't? 448 00:19:23,417 --> 00:19:26,000 People grow real attached to their pain. 449 00:19:26,083 --> 00:19:27,667 It becomes a constant story that they play back 450 00:19:27,750 --> 00:19:29,375 over-and-over again. 451 00:19:29,458 --> 00:19:30,542 They tell their friends, their coworkers, 452 00:19:30,625 --> 00:19:32,375 their relatives, just wonk, wonk, wonk... 453 00:19:32,458 --> 00:19:34,041 [Laughing] 454 00:19:34,125 --> 00:19:36,333 And your friends listen to the story 455 00:19:36,417 --> 00:19:37,625 and then they regurgitate it right back. 456 00:19:37,709 --> 00:19:39,625 Now, why? 457 00:19:39,709 --> 00:19:42,542 Well, it's because this story gives you a payoff. 458 00:19:42,625 --> 00:19:44,375 You don't have to face the things that you know 459 00:19:44,458 --> 00:19:46,959 that you should, like going to the gym, 460 00:19:49,458 --> 00:19:52,542 allowing yourself to feel vulnerable with a man, 461 00:19:52,625 --> 00:19:55,000 or in your case, Kristin, 462 00:19:55,083 --> 00:19:57,625 standing here and listening to me right now. 463 00:19:57,709 --> 00:19:59,750 The problem with therapy is even 464 00:19:59,834 --> 00:20:03,583 once you finally understand your pain, 465 00:20:03,667 --> 00:20:05,834 it doesn't really help you let it go. 466 00:20:05,917 --> 00:20:09,583 You... you can't just will yourself to not feel pain. 467 00:20:09,667 --> 00:20:10,750 Consider that it's possible. 468 00:20:10,834 --> 00:20:13,917 It's not. It's not possible. It's not. 469 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:14,959 Would you at least consider it? 470 00:20:15,041 --> 00:20:16,375 No. 471 00:20:16,458 --> 00:20:17,625 Ooh! Okay. 472 00:20:17,709 --> 00:20:19,375 Have... have any of you tried it? 473 00:20:19,458 --> 00:20:20,291 Yeah. 474 00:20:20,625 --> 00:20:22,083 I am sure you have, a million times. 475 00:20:22,166 --> 00:20:23,625 I know I have. 476 00:20:23,709 --> 00:20:24,750 I wake up in the morning and I think, 477 00:20:25,125 --> 00:20:28,792 hey, I am feeling better and then I go on a bad date. 478 00:20:28,875 --> 00:20:29,875 I go home. 479 00:20:30,250 --> 00:20:31,834 I watch 'Ice Loves Coco' and I burst into tears. 480 00:20:31,917 --> 00:20:32,792 Why? 481 00:20:32,875 --> 00:20:34,625 I have no idea why. 482 00:20:34,709 --> 00:20:37,333 The mind is a complete freaking mystery, 483 00:20:37,417 --> 00:20:39,667 which is why there are highly trained professionals 484 00:20:39,750 --> 00:20:42,041 whose job it is to help. 485 00:20:42,125 --> 00:20:45,500 Quick fixes like yours are always a scam, 486 00:20:45,583 --> 00:20:49,083 whether it's a pill, a book, or a seminar. 487 00:20:51,542 --> 00:20:52,834 Wow! 488 00:20:56,709 --> 00:20:58,500 I am sorry! 489 00:20:59,959 --> 00:21:02,625 Settle down. Settle down. 490 00:21:02,709 --> 00:21:05,000 I actually agree with Kristin to some extent, 491 00:21:05,083 --> 00:21:08,542 but this seminar is not a quick fix. 492 00:21:08,625 --> 00:21:10,625 What we're going to do over the next two days 493 00:21:10,709 --> 00:21:15,417 is give you the tools to get over it and stay over it. 494 00:21:15,500 --> 00:21:17,875 Oh my God! 495 00:21:20,041 --> 00:21:22,667 What was that? 496 00:21:22,750 --> 00:21:24,959 How embarrassing, I sounded like a bitter old haggard and I 497 00:21:25,041 --> 00:21:26,375 Totally! 498 00:21:26,458 --> 00:21:28,583 But in a Kristin kind of way. 499 00:21:28,667 --> 00:21:30,125 -Right! -Yeah. 500 00:21:30,208 --> 00:21:31,667 It was good. 501 00:21:31,750 --> 00:21:33,625 No, look, I am sorry, you guys were trying to do 502 00:21:33,709 --> 00:21:35,166 something nice and I ruined it. 503 00:21:35,250 --> 00:21:37,166 No, no, no, you just gave us a story 504 00:21:37,250 --> 00:21:40,834 that we are going to be able to tell for years to come, okay? 505 00:21:40,917 --> 00:21:43,000 This is just totally worth the price of admission. 506 00:21:43,083 --> 00:21:44,458 Yeah, because I paid. 507 00:21:44,542 --> 00:21:45,458 Really you guys aren't mad? 508 00:21:45,542 --> 00:21:46,417 Hell no! 509 00:21:46,709 --> 00:21:47,625 Let's get out of here. 510 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:49,375 No, no, no, I don't want you to miss the rest. 511 00:21:49,458 --> 00:21:50,709 Oh come on, I don't want to break this up. 512 00:21:50,792 --> 00:21:52,000 Yeah, 513 00:21:53,083 --> 00:21:55,000 yeah, Gaslamp bitches. 514 00:21:55,083 --> 00:21:56,625 Yeah, Gaslamp bitch. 515 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:00,500 Yeah, I know it's going to be fun. 516 00:22:02,250 --> 00:22:04,291 Oh, oh, sex bomb three o'clock 517 00:22:06,125 --> 00:22:07,333 Would you excuse me for just a moment? 518 00:22:08,417 --> 00:22:09,917 Ladies! 519 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,959 Ladies! 520 00:22:12,041 --> 00:22:13,500 You're not leaving, are you? 521 00:22:15,166 --> 00:22:18,375 I am sorry, but this just isn't our thing. 522 00:22:18,458 --> 00:22:20,083 It's not exactly 'Ice Loves Coco'. 523 00:22:20,166 --> 00:22:21,959 [Laughing] 524 00:22:22,041 --> 00:22:23,500 That's right. 525 00:22:24,625 --> 00:22:26,458 Well, I'd be more than happy to refund your money. 526 00:22:26,542 --> 00:22:27,458 No, keep it. 527 00:22:27,542 --> 00:22:28,542 We're going to go to the gas-lamp 528 00:22:28,917 --> 00:22:30,417 to deal with our problems the old-fashioned way. 529 00:22:30,500 --> 00:22:31,458 That's right. 530 00:22:31,542 --> 00:22:32,625 She means drinking. 531 00:22:32,709 --> 00:22:33,959 Yeah. I think he gets it. 532 00:22:34,041 --> 00:22:36,875 Well, good luck with that! 533 00:22:36,959 --> 00:22:38,375 I am sorry you're not staying. 534 00:22:38,458 --> 00:22:40,208 Thanks! 535 00:22:41,125 --> 00:22:42,583 Bye! 536 00:22:44,959 --> 00:22:48,000 I am really sorry about what happened over there. 537 00:22:51,208 --> 00:22:52,625 Hey! 538 00:22:53,166 --> 00:22:54,500 So who read the book? 539 00:22:54,583 --> 00:22:57,208 -He was staring at you so hard! -Oh please! 540 00:22:57,417 --> 00:22:58,208 No! 541 00:22:58,542 --> 00:23:00,500 No, he looks at every woman like that. 542 00:23:00,583 --> 00:23:01,917 I mean I know that kind of guy. 543 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:05,500 [Music] 544 00:23:07,583 --> 00:23:09,083 Okay. Really, what do you think of Matthew Taylor? 545 00:23:09,166 --> 00:23:10,166 He is hot. 546 00:23:10,542 --> 00:23:13,000 I will get him that, but that's exactly my point. 547 00:23:13,083 --> 00:23:14,792 If you look like Dr. Phil 548 00:23:14,875 --> 00:23:18,417 he wouldn't have a gag on bimbos hanging on his every word. 549 00:23:18,500 --> 00:23:20,583 Yeah, but that's just the way the world works. 550 00:23:20,667 --> 00:23:22,291 But it doesn't make it right. 551 00:23:22,375 --> 00:23:23,875 Well, it doesn't make it wrong either. 552 00:23:23,959 --> 00:23:25,875 I mean you are doing the same thing as these bimbos, 553 00:23:25,959 --> 00:23:27,375 you are judging the book by its cover. 554 00:23:30,458 --> 00:23:31,834 Is this a book about relationships 555 00:23:31,917 --> 00:23:33,959 or a swimsuit calendar? 556 00:23:34,041 --> 00:23:36,291 Does anyone want to care? 557 00:23:36,375 --> 00:23:37,750 You guys are hopeless. 558 00:23:37,834 --> 00:23:38,875 No! 559 00:23:38,959 --> 00:23:39,917 We are celebrating. 560 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:41,041 Hey! 561 00:23:42,125 --> 00:23:43,667 Uh-huh. Hold on! 562 00:23:43,750 --> 00:23:45,041 This could be a client. 563 00:23:46,041 --> 00:23:47,667 Hello! 564 00:23:47,750 --> 00:23:49,083 Yes. 565 00:23:50,875 --> 00:23:52,500 When? 566 00:24:01,041 --> 00:24:02,041 [Horn Sounds] 567 00:24:03,875 --> 00:24:05,125 Uh-oh! He is honking for you. You better hurry. 568 00:24:07,208 --> 00:24:09,333 -Love you babe! -Love you! 569 00:24:14,917 --> 00:24:17,125 Booby butts little pope! 570 00:24:17,208 --> 00:24:19,458 Dad, you really need to get a girlfriend. 571 00:24:20,750 --> 00:24:23,000 Excuse you! 572 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:27,792 And why is that? 573 00:24:27,875 --> 00:24:30,125 I don't know, even out the scores. 574 00:24:30,208 --> 00:24:33,375 Mom has George. 575 00:24:34,917 --> 00:24:36,500 You should meet him. 576 00:24:37,709 --> 00:24:42,000 Aleya, why would I want to meet George? 577 00:24:42,083 --> 00:24:45,375 He is a nice guy, you would like him. 578 00:24:46,583 --> 00:24:47,750 You like him a lot, huh? 579 00:24:47,834 --> 00:24:50,542 Yeah, he is good for mom. 580 00:24:52,667 --> 00:24:53,792 Sorry! 581 00:24:53,875 --> 00:24:57,041 Does that make you feel bad? 582 00:24:57,125 --> 00:24:59,750 It's complicated, sweetheart. 583 00:24:59,834 --> 00:25:02,125 I heard that one before. 584 00:25:02,208 --> 00:25:04,417 I promise you will understand when you get older. 585 00:25:04,500 --> 00:25:05,709 Oh my God! 586 00:25:05,792 --> 00:25:07,709 Now I have really heard that one before. 587 00:25:07,792 --> 00:25:08,875 Okay! You know what, 588 00:25:08,959 --> 00:25:11,083 can you stay a little girl, 589 00:25:11,166 --> 00:25:12,917 just a little while longer, please? 590 00:25:15,709 --> 00:25:17,667 You are such a busybody. 591 00:25:17,750 --> 00:25:20,208 [Music] 592 00:25:20,291 --> 00:25:21,709 Wow! 593 00:25:21,792 --> 00:25:24,041 [Music] 594 00:25:24,125 --> 00:25:25,959 Speedy! What's the rush? 595 00:25:26,041 --> 00:25:28,208 No rush, I just don't want to miss him. 596 00:25:28,291 --> 00:25:29,709 Miss him? 597 00:25:29,792 --> 00:25:30,875 Him who? 598 00:25:30,959 --> 00:25:32,125 Come on dad. 599 00:25:32,208 --> 00:25:33,917 Come on dad, nothing. Miss who? 600 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,041 Hey! Who is him? 601 00:25:36,125 --> 00:25:39,041 Hi! Man! I see, you loved it, keep that up. 602 00:25:39,125 --> 00:25:40,917 Maybe I can show you a thing or two. 603 00:25:43,083 --> 00:25:44,750 Ahem! 604 00:25:44,834 --> 00:25:45,917 Aleya! Hey! 605 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,250 Oh hey! 606 00:25:47,333 --> 00:25:48,709 What's up? 607 00:25:48,792 --> 00:25:50,750 You know, the same old ... 608 00:25:51,125 --> 00:25:52,959 Is that your dad? 609 00:25:54,417 --> 00:25:55,583 Yeah. 610 00:25:55,667 --> 00:25:56,583 Oh! 611 00:25:56,667 --> 00:25:57,542 Cool! 612 00:25:57,625 --> 00:26:00,250 Hello! I am Jeff. 613 00:26:00,333 --> 00:26:03,250 Nice to meet you, Jeff! 614 00:26:03,333 --> 00:26:05,959 You wanted to go to the Gap, right? 615 00:26:06,041 --> 00:26:07,166 Hmm? 616 00:26:07,250 --> 00:26:09,041 Oh, right, right, the Gap. 617 00:26:09,125 --> 00:26:10,375 Yeah, Gap. 618 00:26:10,458 --> 00:26:13,083 Dad needs some new v-necks. 619 00:26:13,166 --> 00:26:16,166 Okay. I will meet you over there in a couple of minutes. 620 00:26:16,250 --> 00:26:17,458 Okay. 621 00:26:17,542 --> 00:26:20,542 Well, it was nice to meet you, Jeff! 622 00:26:23,667 --> 00:26:24,542 Hmm? 623 00:26:24,625 --> 00:26:26,208 Yeah? 624 00:26:26,291 --> 00:26:28,000 No? 625 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:31,250 Okay. 626 00:26:33,458 --> 00:26:37,458 I am sorry about that. 627 00:26:37,542 --> 00:26:39,875 It's cool! 628 00:26:43,041 --> 00:26:45,500 T, how do we get two segments? 629 00:26:45,583 --> 00:26:47,250 Hey! Don't worry about that. 630 00:26:47,333 --> 00:26:49,041 We are on our way. 631 00:26:49,125 --> 00:26:50,166 You just make sure you go out there 632 00:26:50,250 --> 00:26:52,250 -and you don't screw this up. -Thanks! 633 00:26:52,333 --> 00:26:53,583 I appreciate the pep talk. 634 00:26:53,667 --> 00:26:56,333 Live Night is a great look for us 635 00:26:56,417 --> 00:26:59,166 but this Lindsay McCormick chick is unpredictable. 636 00:26:59,250 --> 00:27:01,291 Her show is national, 637 00:27:01,375 --> 00:27:03,250 I mean, you've got to be ready for anything, man! 638 00:27:03,333 --> 00:27:04,083 Like what, man? 639 00:27:04,417 --> 00:27:05,500 You want a paternity test, come on! 640 00:27:05,583 --> 00:27:07,291 It's not a joke, okay. 641 00:27:07,375 --> 00:27:08,417 You've got two segments. 642 00:27:08,500 --> 00:27:10,291 I need you to nail both of them. 643 00:27:10,375 --> 00:27:11,208 Okay? 644 00:27:11,583 --> 00:27:13,208 Show them that we are good television. 645 00:27:13,291 --> 00:27:14,500 Who is them? 646 00:27:14,583 --> 00:27:17,375 The powers there be, the audience, the world! 647 00:27:17,458 --> 00:27:19,667 Oh T, T, T, you know, you are being a paranoid. 648 00:27:19,750 --> 00:27:20,917 Everything is going to be fine. 649 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:22,000 I am going to walk out there 650 00:27:22,083 --> 00:27:22,875 and I am going to do my thing. 651 00:27:23,208 --> 00:27:24,125 And what happens when I do my thing. 652 00:27:24,208 --> 00:27:25,125 It never fails. 653 00:27:25,208 --> 00:27:26,291 Yeah, but what if she says 654 00:27:26,667 --> 00:27:29,083 why is the relationship expert in a relationship? 655 00:27:29,166 --> 00:27:31,000 Uh? Yeah, fix your face. 656 00:27:33,375 --> 00:27:34,250 You better get me one of these chairs 657 00:27:34,333 --> 00:27:36,166 for my birthday, seriously. 658 00:27:36,250 --> 00:27:39,417 There is like three Thai ladies in here. 659 00:27:39,500 --> 00:27:41,166 Ah! 660 00:27:41,250 --> 00:27:44,667 [Applause] 661 00:27:44,750 --> 00:27:46,250 I am Lindsay McCormick, 662 00:27:46,333 --> 00:27:48,417 and this is Live Night! 663 00:27:48,500 --> 00:27:50,667 [Applause] 664 00:27:50,750 --> 00:27:52,125 We are back with Matthew Taylor, 665 00:27:52,208 --> 00:27:53,709 author of 'The Bounce Back'. 666 00:27:53,792 --> 00:27:55,667 -Matthew! -Hey! Talk to me girl. 667 00:27:55,750 --> 00:27:59,083 I loved your book, 668 00:27:59,166 --> 00:28:00,959 there is really no other way to say that. 669 00:28:01,041 --> 00:28:03,583 But reading it was like a relationship ... slap. 670 00:28:03,667 --> 00:28:05,417 [Laughing] 671 00:28:05,500 --> 00:28:07,375 What inspires this book, a broken heart? 672 00:28:07,458 --> 00:28:11,375 I was in a 10-year marriage that just went wrong. 673 00:28:11,458 --> 00:28:13,166 Okay, but I liked to say and I say it in 674 00:28:13,250 --> 00:28:15,083 'The Bounce Back', is to consider that 675 00:28:15,166 --> 00:28:17,625 the past doesn't exist. 676 00:28:17,709 --> 00:28:20,375 See what I focused on is creating new possibilities 677 00:28:20,458 --> 00:28:24,458 for your future and how you can live into that future. 678 00:28:24,542 --> 00:28:25,959 It took me a while to hone it. 679 00:28:26,041 --> 00:28:28,250 Did you see right there? 680 00:28:28,333 --> 00:28:30,083 -Is that right? -Damn straight! 681 00:28:30,166 --> 00:28:31,458 [Laughing] 682 00:28:31,542 --> 00:28:34,500 It's kind of like the man behind a man situation, 683 00:28:34,583 --> 00:28:36,417 you know me, I am Terry Jackson. 684 00:28:36,500 --> 00:28:38,208 I know who you are. 685 00:28:38,291 --> 00:28:39,667 I booked you for the show. 686 00:28:39,750 --> 00:28:40,583 Oh! 687 00:28:40,917 --> 00:28:42,250 I thought Cherry booked us for the show. 688 00:28:42,333 --> 00:28:43,583 He did, he works for me. 689 00:28:43,667 --> 00:28:45,667 Oh okay. 690 00:28:45,750 --> 00:28:47,166 -Anyone? -Confident. 691 00:28:47,250 --> 00:28:48,542 Confident, okay. 692 00:28:48,625 --> 00:28:49,959 How about over here? 693 00:28:51,375 --> 00:28:53,041 I didn't see down the seminar. 694 00:28:53,125 --> 00:28:54,583 Oh well, you should have told me 695 00:28:54,667 --> 00:28:56,083 you were coming to the seminar, 696 00:28:56,166 --> 00:28:57,709 would have set things up for you, baby. 697 00:28:57,792 --> 00:29:00,750 You know, got your full access passes and everything. 698 00:29:00,834 --> 00:29:02,083 Yeah, I would like to do my own research though, 699 00:29:02,166 --> 00:29:04,083 thank you. 700 00:29:04,166 --> 00:29:06,291 How many had a vision of someone? 701 00:29:07,375 --> 00:29:08,291 No, I am not saying that you are 702 00:29:08,667 --> 00:29:10,417 or you are not going to end up with this man, 703 00:29:10,500 --> 00:29:12,250 but 704 00:29:12,333 --> 00:29:13,750 an idea when flame 705 00:29:15,083 --> 00:29:16,375 might just catch fire. 706 00:29:16,458 --> 00:29:18,208 [Applause] 707 00:29:18,291 --> 00:29:21,000 And to catch that kind of fire you all need to go out 708 00:29:21,083 --> 00:29:23,125 and buy a copy of 'The Bounce Back'. 709 00:29:23,208 --> 00:29:25,166 [Applause] 710 00:29:27,125 --> 00:29:29,083 Okay, we would like to get all sides here on 711 00:29:29,166 --> 00:29:31,375 'Live Night', so let's bring out our next quest. 712 00:29:31,458 --> 00:29:34,792 She is a licensed clinical psychologist Kristin Peralta. 713 00:29:34,875 --> 00:29:36,375 Come on down, girl! 714 00:29:36,458 --> 00:29:39,625 [Applause] 715 00:29:39,709 --> 00:29:42,208 So what's going on? 716 00:29:42,291 --> 00:29:44,709 The same thing that went down at the seminar. 717 00:29:44,792 --> 00:29:47,125 Kristin, you specialize in love and relationship. 718 00:29:47,208 --> 00:29:48,792 Wait a minute! 719 00:29:48,875 --> 00:29:50,417 You don't agree with Matthew's assertions. 720 00:29:50,500 --> 00:29:52,458 No, I don't. 721 00:29:52,542 --> 00:29:56,834 Mr. Taylor and people of his ilk are charlatans 722 00:29:56,917 --> 00:29:58,583 Oh! 723 00:29:58,667 --> 00:30:00,333 meaning they have very good intuition about 724 00:30:00,417 --> 00:30:03,500 what makes people tick, about what people want to hear, 725 00:30:03,583 --> 00:30:05,667 and what's going to make people feel better 726 00:30:05,750 --> 00:30:08,333 about themselves at least temporarily. 727 00:30:08,417 --> 00:30:11,375 And what's so wrong with that? 728 00:30:12,834 --> 00:30:17,083 Well, self-help gurus like you, sell a magical elixir 729 00:30:17,166 --> 00:30:19,125 that's going to lead to life long happiness 730 00:30:19,208 --> 00:30:23,208 without any work or sacrifice and that's a sham, 731 00:30:23,291 --> 00:30:25,291 it's just not possible, 732 00:30:25,375 --> 00:30:26,333 and the only reason 733 00:30:26,417 --> 00:30:27,625 people are willing to believe you 734 00:30:27,709 --> 00:30:29,333 is because they are vulnerable. 735 00:30:29,417 --> 00:30:31,333 What the hell are you up to? 736 00:30:31,417 --> 00:30:33,333 Just what she said, 737 00:30:33,417 --> 00:30:35,333 presenting both sides of the argument. 738 00:30:35,417 --> 00:30:37,375 No, no, no, no, argument, 739 00:30:37,458 --> 00:30:39,709 no one is having an argument with nobody. 740 00:30:39,792 --> 00:30:41,375 Trust me. 741 00:30:41,458 --> 00:30:43,417 I just did you a big favor. 742 00:30:43,500 --> 00:30:45,542 No, you trust me, I am going to talk to your boss 743 00:30:45,625 --> 00:30:49,333 and this is not the last time you will see me, trust me. 744 00:30:49,417 --> 00:30:50,875 See, when I was in therapy the conversation 745 00:30:50,959 --> 00:30:53,500 was always about the process, 746 00:30:53,583 --> 00:30:55,834 the road you are going to have to endure 747 00:30:55,917 --> 00:30:57,709 and how you have to grieve in order to move forward, 748 00:30:57,792 --> 00:30:58,625 but see my book 'The Bounce Back' 749 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,375 isn't about grieving, it's about creating. 750 00:31:02,458 --> 00:31:03,834 That's because you are unwilling 751 00:31:03,917 --> 00:31:06,291 to face uncomfortable truth. 752 00:31:07,959 --> 00:31:10,542 Well, here is the truth, as I know it. 753 00:31:10,625 --> 00:31:14,417 I have tried it your way, it just didn't work for me, 754 00:31:14,500 --> 00:31:16,333 so I developed my own way, 755 00:31:16,417 --> 00:31:18,417 maybe you should give it a try as a professional courtesy. 756 00:31:18,500 --> 00:31:20,250 [Laughing] 757 00:31:20,333 --> 00:31:21,417 If you are implying that we are 758 00:31:21,500 --> 00:31:23,667 in the same profession, we are not. 759 00:31:23,750 --> 00:31:25,875 My job as a therapist is to increase 760 00:31:25,959 --> 00:31:28,250 the individual sense of well-being, 761 00:31:28,333 --> 00:31:29,750 not to fill their heads with fantasies 762 00:31:29,834 --> 00:31:31,750 about the rippling abs in their future 763 00:31:31,834 --> 00:31:33,417 that's what E.L. James is for. 764 00:31:33,500 --> 00:31:36,333 [Applause] 765 00:31:36,417 --> 00:31:38,750 All right, well that's the perfect place to cut this off. 766 00:31:38,834 --> 00:31:41,333 Thank you Matthew Taylor and Kristin Peralta 767 00:31:41,417 --> 00:31:42,750 and we will see you guys tomorrow. 768 00:31:42,834 --> 00:31:45,709 [Applause] 769 00:31:58,458 --> 00:31:59,917 So, where's the other guy. 770 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,750 He didn't seem too happy. 771 00:32:02,834 --> 00:32:04,375 He wasn't. 772 00:32:04,458 --> 00:32:06,291 They told me to let you have it. 773 00:32:07,542 --> 00:32:09,375 Don't think I got that memo. 774 00:32:14,875 --> 00:32:16,625 Look, 775 00:32:16,709 --> 00:32:19,250 that really sucked. 776 00:32:19,333 --> 00:32:22,333 I am not a bad person really. 777 00:32:22,417 --> 00:32:26,333 Can I buy you a coffee, truce? 778 00:32:26,417 --> 00:32:27,667 Let's make it a drink. 779 00:32:29,333 --> 00:32:31,250 [Music] 780 00:32:31,333 --> 00:32:34,250 Yeah, we can get a drink. 781 00:32:34,333 --> 00:32:38,417 [Music] 782 00:32:38,500 --> 00:32:40,542 When in Rome, huh? 783 00:32:40,625 --> 00:32:43,417 I highly doubt the Roman thing. 784 00:32:43,500 --> 00:32:46,375 Is that what you studied at a 785 00:32:46,458 --> 00:32:49,959 what's that school you went to again, that school? 786 00:32:50,041 --> 00:32:51,792 Subtle. 787 00:32:51,875 --> 00:32:54,500 Sports Science at Georgetown and then Law at UCLA, 788 00:32:54,583 --> 00:32:55,959 I was on track to be a sports agent. 789 00:32:56,041 --> 00:32:58,417 So you were a jock in college. 790 00:32:58,500 --> 00:33:00,250 It says the drama student. 791 00:33:00,333 --> 00:33:01,667 Drama is very therapeutic. 792 00:33:01,750 --> 00:33:03,000 Thank you! 793 00:33:03,083 --> 00:33:04,583 And how do you know I was in drama? 794 00:33:04,667 --> 00:33:06,458 Psychic abilities. 795 00:33:06,542 --> 00:33:07,667 Just because you have a voice in your hand 796 00:33:07,750 --> 00:33:09,625 doesn't make you a psychic. 797 00:33:11,041 --> 00:33:12,709 Do you ever wonder why that voice in your hand 798 00:33:12,792 --> 00:33:14,333 is usually very negative? 799 00:33:14,417 --> 00:33:15,917 Well, there is never a single reason why. 800 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,500 There's always some underlying 801 00:33:18,583 --> 00:33:20,625 personal psychodynamic at work. 802 00:33:22,583 --> 00:33:24,792 Okay. 803 00:33:24,875 --> 00:33:26,917 What if you could control that voice? 804 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,375 You can't control your subconscious. 805 00:33:29,458 --> 00:33:31,500 That is true, but you can choose to listen to it 806 00:33:31,583 --> 00:33:33,500 when it's good and ignore it when it's bad. 807 00:33:33,583 --> 00:33:34,625 Okay. 808 00:33:34,709 --> 00:33:35,959 How? 809 00:33:36,041 --> 00:33:38,291 -You really want to know? -Yeah. 810 00:33:38,375 --> 00:33:39,500 I don't think you mean it. 811 00:33:39,583 --> 00:33:41,417 No, I do! 812 00:33:41,500 --> 00:33:42,500 No, you don't. 813 00:33:42,583 --> 00:33:43,875 Don't tell me what I mean. 814 00:33:45,667 --> 00:33:47,458 I actually want to know how. 815 00:33:47,542 --> 00:33:48,917 It would be very helpful for me 816 00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:50,750 to ignore the voice in my head. 817 00:33:55,917 --> 00:33:57,500 [laughing] 818 00:33:57,583 --> 00:33:58,625 You are terrible! 819 00:33:58,709 --> 00:33:59,542 Just read it. 820 00:33:59,625 --> 00:34:00,583 Never! 821 00:34:00,667 --> 00:34:01,583 That hurts! 822 00:34:01,667 --> 00:34:02,875 Good! 823 00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:09,041 If I am bored out of my mind, I'll consider. 824 00:34:09,125 --> 00:34:11,417 You have really beautiful eyes, you know that? 825 00:34:17,625 --> 00:34:18,750 Sorry! 826 00:34:20,458 --> 00:34:21,500 Hello! 827 00:34:21,583 --> 00:34:24,083 What the hell is this? 828 00:34:24,166 --> 00:34:25,792 An apology drink! 829 00:34:27,625 --> 00:34:29,417 Apology! 830 00:34:29,500 --> 00:34:30,375 Really? 831 00:34:30,458 --> 00:34:32,041 You're crazy Matthew! 832 00:34:32,125 --> 00:34:34,625 That's crazy, I guess. 833 00:34:34,709 --> 00:34:36,000 I don't know, should I? 834 00:34:38,500 --> 00:34:40,792 Producers at the chat just called. 835 00:34:40,875 --> 00:34:42,417 -Are you serious? -Yup! 836 00:34:42,500 --> 00:34:44,375 That's a good thing, right? 837 00:34:44,458 --> 00:34:45,375 They want the two of you. 838 00:34:45,500 --> 00:34:46,917 They do? 839 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:48,458 Why not? 840 00:34:48,542 --> 00:34:50,917 I'll tell you why not, message confusion. 841 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:52,083 We have a brand. 842 00:34:52,166 --> 00:34:53,583 We can't be out here presenting it 843 00:34:53,667 --> 00:34:56,083 and let Ms. Fire brigade to try and burn it down. 844 00:34:56,166 --> 00:34:58,000 -She is right there. -I don't care! 845 00:34:59,458 --> 00:35:01,458 Hey, are you guys doing this? 846 00:35:01,542 --> 00:35:03,834 It's kind of a big deal, right? 847 00:35:03,917 --> 00:35:06,000 No, we're not doing it. 848 00:35:07,208 --> 00:35:09,625 They're not doing it. 849 00:35:09,709 --> 00:35:10,750 How come? 850 00:35:10,834 --> 00:35:12,083 Because we don't like you. 851 00:35:12,166 --> 00:35:13,792 Okay. 852 00:35:13,875 --> 00:35:14,667 He doesn't mean that like... 853 00:35:14,750 --> 00:35:15,625 Yes, I do! 854 00:35:15,709 --> 00:35:16,417 Don't lie! 855 00:35:16,500 --> 00:35:18,792 I know! I know! 856 00:35:18,875 --> 00:35:21,458 Did you hear that? 857 00:35:21,542 --> 00:35:22,709 Hold on! 858 00:35:23,959 --> 00:35:25,083 Ah! 859 00:35:25,166 --> 00:35:26,834 Hello! 860 00:35:26,917 --> 00:35:28,500 No, we're not doing it. 861 00:35:28,583 --> 00:35:30,041 I know who you are. 862 00:35:30,125 --> 00:35:33,959 Why? Because we don't know who she is, do you? 863 00:35:34,041 --> 00:35:36,500 Does she have any lawsuits out there for malpractice? 864 00:35:36,583 --> 00:35:37,959 She is a therapist, not an MD. 865 00:35:38,041 --> 00:35:41,709 Look, we have the best-selling book in the country. 866 00:35:41,792 --> 00:35:43,792 Yes, and she is just a venom-spitting hate mother 867 00:35:43,875 --> 00:35:46,834 trying to tap my client's celebrity status. 868 00:35:46,917 --> 00:35:47,959 Excuse me? 869 00:35:48,041 --> 00:35:49,500 Nobody is tapping anybody. 870 00:35:49,583 --> 00:35:50,166 He is just talking. 871 00:35:50,250 --> 00:35:51,250 You heard me? 872 00:35:51,625 --> 00:35:53,125 Why don't you tell those D-list pop psychologists 873 00:35:53,208 --> 00:35:54,875 that I took it easy on them, 874 00:35:54,959 --> 00:35:57,125 and if they ever have the ... to face me again, 875 00:35:57,208 --> 00:35:59,917 I will expose their fortune cookie theories 876 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,041 and the napkin they thought it all up on. 877 00:36:02,125 --> 00:36:02,875 Okay, guys, seriously 878 00:36:03,208 --> 00:36:05,667 -Fortune cookie? -Fortune cookie! 879 00:36:05,750 --> 00:36:07,625 You know what, your talk show days are over anyway, 880 00:36:07,709 --> 00:36:08,625 Ms. Lady! 881 00:36:08,709 --> 00:36:10,041 Great! Wonderful! 882 00:36:10,125 --> 00:36:11,166 Fantastic! 883 00:36:11,542 --> 00:36:14,083 I can't believe I spent $35 on two stupid drinks. 884 00:36:14,166 --> 00:36:15,125 I'll take care of it. 885 00:36:15,208 --> 00:36:16,875 Don't you dare! 886 00:36:16,959 --> 00:36:18,792 Oh, we dare! We dare! 887 00:36:18,875 --> 00:36:20,792 -You get off! -Let go! 888 00:36:20,875 --> 00:36:21,875 You get off it! 889 00:36:21,959 --> 00:36:24,709 We dare the most! 890 00:36:24,792 --> 00:36:26,000 All right! 891 00:36:26,083 --> 00:36:27,792 It's impossible! 892 00:36:31,750 --> 00:36:33,542 You are a true gentleman! 893 00:36:33,625 --> 00:36:35,667 Oh, you've got your credit card on you? 894 00:36:35,750 --> 00:36:36,709 I'll pay you back. 895 00:36:36,792 --> 00:36:39,041 You know, I am good. Come on man! 896 00:36:39,125 --> 00:36:40,417 I got it! I got it! 897 00:36:58,834 --> 00:37:02,083 'How to grow your business today?' 898 00:37:02,959 --> 00:37:04,792 Stupid! 899 00:37:13,166 --> 00:37:14,917 Really? 900 00:37:27,792 --> 00:37:29,834 Not so cute anymore, huh, Matthew Taylor. 901 00:37:31,667 --> 00:37:33,000 Bounce back from this! 902 00:37:41,959 --> 00:37:43,917 Hi! 903 00:37:46,250 --> 00:37:48,667 We know each other. 904 00:37:48,750 --> 00:37:51,083 It's a really long story. 905 00:37:54,959 --> 00:37:56,875 I'll get this. 906 00:37:56,959 --> 00:38:01,834 [Music] 907 00:38:13,375 --> 00:38:15,542 Hey there! 908 00:38:16,417 --> 00:38:18,291 Hey Julie! 909 00:38:18,375 --> 00:38:20,000 She is going to be a few. 910 00:38:21,750 --> 00:38:23,750 Do you want to come inside for a minute? 911 00:38:23,834 --> 00:38:25,166 Oh! 912 00:38:25,250 --> 00:38:26,834 I'm fine. Thanks! 913 00:38:26,917 --> 00:38:27,875 I'm okay. 914 00:38:28,250 --> 00:38:31,750 George and I started reading 'The Bounce Back'. 915 00:38:31,834 --> 00:38:34,125 Matthew, it's really great! 916 00:38:34,208 --> 00:38:37,750 I can see why you're having so much success with it. 917 00:38:37,834 --> 00:38:39,917 You know, you should really talk to him. 918 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:41,000 I think that you 919 00:38:41,083 --> 00:38:43,291 Oh! No. 920 00:38:43,375 --> 00:38:45,667 I'm fine. 921 00:38:45,750 --> 00:38:48,250 It's okay, but thank you though. 922 00:38:51,917 --> 00:38:53,000 Well, I just want you to know that 923 00:38:53,083 --> 00:38:56,041 you are always welcome. 924 00:38:56,125 --> 00:38:57,625 Thank you! 925 00:39:03,208 --> 00:39:04,667 Bye! 926 00:39:04,750 --> 00:39:06,375 Bye! Take care. 927 00:39:06,458 --> 00:39:08,709 -Hey babe! -Hi! 928 00:39:08,792 --> 00:39:10,291 -Love you! -I love you too! 929 00:39:11,750 --> 00:39:13,291 Hey short stuff! 930 00:39:13,375 --> 00:39:14,917 Hi dad! 931 00:39:17,959 --> 00:39:19,291 Here, Give me that. 932 00:39:19,375 --> 00:39:20,792 [car door close] 933 00:39:22,959 --> 00:39:24,250 Are you ready? 934 00:39:26,208 --> 00:39:27,375 I need a favor. 935 00:39:29,417 --> 00:39:31,041 Uh-oh! 936 00:39:31,125 --> 00:39:34,667 [Music] 937 00:39:57,041 --> 00:39:58,250 -You're late. -Sorry! 938 00:39:58,333 --> 00:40:01,875 [Music] 939 00:40:20,375 --> 00:40:21,375 What's up man? 940 00:40:27,500 --> 00:40:28,458 What are you doing? 941 00:40:28,542 --> 00:40:29,875 I'm drinking, man, I'm drinking. 942 00:40:29,959 --> 00:40:30,792 That's what I'm doing. 943 00:40:30,875 --> 00:40:32,291 I'm getting my drink on. 944 00:40:32,375 --> 00:40:33,125 Come on Terry! 945 00:40:33,417 --> 00:40:35,125 It was great television, let it go. 946 00:40:35,208 --> 00:40:37,291 Look, I'm sorry man! 947 00:40:37,375 --> 00:40:39,041 I'm just emotional right now. 948 00:40:39,125 --> 00:40:40,750 You do know it's still daytime, 949 00:40:40,834 --> 00:40:42,208 you might want to slow that down. 950 00:40:42,291 --> 00:40:43,375 Oh! 951 00:40:43,792 --> 00:40:47,000 Look, when we started, we had a vision, you and me. 952 00:40:47,083 --> 00:40:49,875 You are Durant, I am Westbrook, right? 953 00:40:49,959 --> 00:40:52,291 Yeah, and we still are. 954 00:40:52,375 --> 00:40:54,208 I just feel like I let you down. 955 00:40:54,291 --> 00:40:56,125 Terry, what are you talking about? 956 00:40:56,208 --> 00:40:58,709 The producers of Entertainment Tonight called today. 957 00:40:58,792 --> 00:40:59,458 Okay. 958 00:40:59,542 --> 00:41:00,458 And? 959 00:41:00,542 --> 00:41:02,000 They want you in the show. 960 00:41:02,083 --> 00:41:03,250 You know, how this thing works, 961 00:41:03,333 --> 00:41:06,166 you know, nothing gets a crowd like a crowd, 962 00:41:06,250 --> 00:41:08,959 you get ET, the next thing you know, 963 00:41:09,041 --> 00:41:10,291 Live Nation is calling you. 964 00:41:10,375 --> 00:41:11,500 That is great news! 965 00:41:11,583 --> 00:41:13,417 What is the problem? 966 00:41:13,500 --> 00:41:15,709 They want you on the show, 967 00:41:15,792 --> 00:41:17,208 with her. 968 00:41:17,291 --> 00:41:19,709 [laughing] 969 00:41:19,792 --> 00:41:21,458 It's not funny man. 970 00:41:21,542 --> 00:41:24,041 What's so funny? 971 00:41:24,125 --> 00:41:25,834 All right! 972 00:41:25,917 --> 00:41:27,208 So just call her and apologize. 973 00:41:27,291 --> 00:41:28,333 It's not that simple. 974 00:41:28,417 --> 00:41:30,250 She wouldn't take your call? 975 00:41:30,333 --> 00:41:32,458 And Kristin said she wouldn't talk to me. 976 00:41:32,542 --> 00:41:35,208 That woman is not talking to either of us, 977 00:41:35,291 --> 00:41:37,125 even if we pay her, because I tried that. 978 00:41:37,208 --> 00:41:38,750 I thought you just said she wouldn't take your call. 979 00:41:38,834 --> 00:41:40,959 I emailed her, hit her on Facebook. 980 00:41:41,041 --> 00:41:43,291 I liked all her picture on Instagram, nothing; 981 00:41:43,375 --> 00:41:46,125 hit her on Pinterest, LinkedIn. 982 00:41:46,208 --> 00:41:48,792 I went to every Starbucks that a chick would hang out, 983 00:41:48,875 --> 00:41:50,166 because every chick hangs out at Starbucks 984 00:41:50,250 --> 00:41:52,500 for the free Wi-Fi; she wasn't there either. 985 00:41:52,583 --> 00:41:55,250 I can't do anything else Matthew. 986 00:41:55,333 --> 00:41:57,166 I mean, I don't even know where her mother lives. 987 00:41:57,250 --> 00:41:59,125 I don't know her family like that. 988 00:41:59,208 --> 00:42:00,208 I mean, I don't know what else I could do. 989 00:42:00,291 --> 00:42:02,125 I mean, does she have a blog? 990 00:42:02,208 --> 00:42:06,333 [Music] 991 00:42:12,542 --> 00:42:14,333 Matthew, right! 992 00:42:15,500 --> 00:42:18,125 Communicate, associate, empathize... 993 00:42:20,166 --> 00:42:22,792 [door open and close] 994 00:42:25,542 --> 00:42:27,000 This is a good book! 995 00:42:27,083 --> 00:42:28,125 You need to leave. 996 00:42:28,208 --> 00:42:29,291 I have an appointment. 997 00:42:32,250 --> 00:42:34,041 With me. 998 00:42:34,125 --> 00:42:36,125 You have an appointment with me. 999 00:42:36,208 --> 00:42:38,083 Mr. Right. 1000 00:42:38,166 --> 00:42:40,166 I get it, ha-ha, very funny. 1001 00:42:40,250 --> 00:42:41,208 Can you just give me five minutes? 1002 00:42:41,291 --> 00:42:42,208 I don't think that's a good idea. 1003 00:42:42,291 --> 00:42:44,291 You're a therapist, right? 1004 00:42:44,375 --> 00:42:46,250 I'm a patient in need. 1005 00:42:46,333 --> 00:42:49,917 Just five minutes. 1006 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,542 You're paying for 50, put the book down. 1007 00:42:54,458 --> 00:42:57,583 [Music] 1008 00:42:57,667 --> 00:42:59,250 I'm listening. 1009 00:43:01,208 --> 00:43:04,500 Terry was wrong and foolish. 1010 00:43:04,583 --> 00:43:08,291 He just... he gets very protective, 1011 00:43:08,375 --> 00:43:09,583 but frankly, 1012 00:43:09,750 --> 00:43:11,834 sometimes he's got his foot stuck so far up his... 1013 00:43:11,917 --> 00:43:14,000 Turn around please. 1014 00:43:17,959 --> 00:43:19,875 I am here to ask you to do the show with us. 1015 00:43:19,959 --> 00:43:23,125 Give me one good reason. 1016 00:43:23,208 --> 00:43:24,250 I'll give you millions. 1017 00:43:28,792 --> 00:43:32,625 That's how many people watch Entertainment Tonight. 1018 00:43:32,709 --> 00:43:35,083 Come on, imagine the opportunity to help all those people! 1019 00:43:35,166 --> 00:43:38,875 People aren't helped one iota by mass market sound bites. 1020 00:43:39,792 --> 00:43:41,750 The appearance fees can be kind of nice. 1021 00:43:41,834 --> 00:43:44,959 Helping people also isn't about making money. 1022 00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:51,792 Look, 1023 00:43:51,875 --> 00:43:55,291 I am going on television with or without you, 1024 00:43:55,375 --> 00:43:57,125 and me and my mass market sound bites 1025 00:43:57,208 --> 00:43:58,667 are all they're going to here. 1026 00:43:58,750 --> 00:44:01,041 Why do you care so much if I come? 1027 00:44:01,125 --> 00:44:03,250 People deserve a balance perspective, 1028 00:44:05,959 --> 00:44:07,625 and I like you. 1029 00:44:07,709 --> 00:44:08,792 Excuse me? 1030 00:44:08,875 --> 00:44:10,709 I do. 1031 00:44:10,792 --> 00:44:15,000 I enjoy talking to you and enjoy being around you. 1032 00:44:15,083 --> 00:44:16,250 I want to do the show with you, 1033 00:44:16,333 --> 00:44:18,166 because I think it would be good for us, 1034 00:44:18,250 --> 00:44:21,709 and I think it would be good for you, and... 1035 00:44:22,959 --> 00:44:25,875 I can't stop looking at your eyes. 1036 00:44:26,875 --> 00:44:28,000 Really? 1037 00:44:28,458 --> 00:44:31,625 If someone is going to rip me to shreds on national television, 1038 00:44:32,917 --> 00:44:34,667 I'd like it to be you. 1039 00:44:36,333 --> 00:44:38,083 Say yes! 1040 00:44:40,834 --> 00:44:42,667 [Music] 1041 00:44:42,750 --> 00:44:44,917 The best-selling book bouncing across the country 1042 00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:46,583 and two celebrity experts, 1043 00:44:46,667 --> 00:44:49,166 with two very different opinions, 1044 00:44:49,250 --> 00:44:50,792 we're going to be speaking with Matthew Taylor 1045 00:44:50,875 --> 00:44:53,208 and Kristin Peralta right after this, 1046 00:44:53,291 --> 00:44:54,917 the team behind 'The Bounce Back'. 1047 00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:56,208 Cut! 1048 00:44:56,291 --> 00:44:57,291 I know, do it again. 1049 00:44:57,375 --> 00:44:58,667 Okay. 1050 00:45:00,709 --> 00:45:02,917 The best-selling book bouncing across the country 1051 00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:03,417 and two celebrity counselors... 1052 00:45:03,667 --> 00:45:04,875 -What? -Yeah, right. 1053 00:45:04,959 --> 00:45:06,834 Now she is part of the team. 1054 00:45:06,917 --> 00:45:07,667 Terry! 1055 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:09,208 How did you get her to do it anyway? 1056 00:45:09,291 --> 00:45:10,250 Did you? 1057 00:45:10,333 --> 00:45:11,750 -No. -Did you get up in them jeans? 1058 00:45:11,834 --> 00:45:13,208 No, come on man, stop! 1059 00:45:13,291 --> 00:45:14,166 Look at me. 1060 00:45:14,250 --> 00:45:15,250 I am looking right at you. 1061 00:45:15,333 --> 00:45:16,917 Now, stop Terry, no. 1062 00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:18,250 Man! 1063 00:45:22,333 --> 00:45:23,291 I am sorry about that. 1064 00:45:23,375 --> 00:45:25,083 He is uh... 1065 00:45:25,166 --> 00:45:27,291 he is just really nervous about this press tour. 1066 00:45:27,375 --> 00:45:28,750 You know I am going to rip you apart, right? 1067 00:45:30,333 --> 00:45:32,125 Bring it. 1068 00:45:32,208 --> 00:45:33,291 Welcome to Entertainment Tonight! 1069 00:45:33,709 --> 00:45:36,667 I am Roxie Diaz, and today we're talking to Matthew Taylor 1070 00:45:36,750 --> 00:45:38,834 about his controversial new book. 1071 00:45:38,917 --> 00:45:41,291 That is a... a very dangerous perspective 1072 00:45:41,375 --> 00:45:42,125 if you don't take into consideration. 1073 00:45:42,458 --> 00:45:43,250 What the hell is she talking about? 1074 00:45:43,917 --> 00:45:45,875 First of all, she called him a charlatan on TV, dog. 1075 00:45:45,959 --> 00:45:46,917 I need to talk to my client. 1076 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:48,208 Hey, hey, hey, okay. 1077 00:45:48,291 --> 00:45:51,917 [Music] 1078 00:45:56,333 --> 00:45:58,000 [Applause] 1079 00:45:58,083 --> 00:45:59,417 That's not realistic. 1080 00:45:59,583 --> 00:46:01,959 She calls my philosophy a scam; I call it a belief. 1081 00:46:02,041 --> 00:46:04,083 The payoff can't be achieved through... 1082 00:46:04,166 --> 00:46:05,208 through a magical elixir. 1083 00:46:08,125 --> 00:46:09,709 Stop it! I was going to take it. 1084 00:46:09,792 --> 00:46:11,875 when I feel like taking it. 1085 00:46:14,417 --> 00:46:16,125 Oh my God! 1086 00:46:27,166 --> 00:46:28,417 [Applause] 1087 00:46:28,500 --> 00:46:30,125 I promise you, read the book. 1088 00:46:30,208 --> 00:46:32,417 You can't promise somebody a happy 1089 00:46:32,500 --> 00:46:34,875 I am all about living a happier life. 1090 00:46:34,959 --> 00:46:36,750 Today we're here with Matthew Taylor, 1091 00:46:36,834 --> 00:46:39,375 the author of 'The Bounce Back'. 1092 00:46:39,458 --> 00:46:41,083 Well, my book has sold millions of copy. 1093 00:46:41,166 --> 00:46:42,125 Well, I think that's because 1094 00:46:42,208 --> 00:46:43,375 you're a very good-looking guy. 1095 00:46:43,792 --> 00:46:44,959 That's the first time she has actually given me a compliment. 1096 00:46:45,041 --> 00:46:49,959 [Music] 1097 00:46:50,041 --> 00:46:51,166 Are you okay? 1098 00:46:52,208 --> 00:46:53,709 No, no, no. 1099 00:46:56,166 --> 00:46:57,125 Oh no. 1100 00:46:57,208 --> 00:46:58,917 -It will fit. -No, it's terrible. 1101 00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:00,375 No. 1102 00:47:00,458 --> 00:47:02,458 How is that something that you could actually sell? 1103 00:47:04,125 --> 00:47:05,291 Let's read the book together, okay. 1104 00:47:05,375 --> 00:47:06,709 Let's just try. 1105 00:47:06,792 --> 00:47:07,792 This is a train wreck right now. 1106 00:47:07,875 --> 00:47:11,959 [Music] 1107 00:47:19,542 --> 00:47:20,417 Come on. 1108 00:47:20,792 --> 00:47:22,709 I know Kristen loves forty questions, right? 1109 00:47:22,792 --> 00:47:23,959 Come on! 1110 00:47:24,041 --> 00:47:25,125 No. 1111 00:47:25,208 --> 00:47:29,375 [Music] 1112 00:47:41,166 --> 00:47:43,000 Admit it. 1113 00:47:43,083 --> 00:47:44,333 Come on! This is fun. 1114 00:47:44,417 --> 00:47:45,291 It's not. 1115 00:47:45,375 --> 00:47:46,375 Kristin, this is fun. 1116 00:47:46,458 --> 00:47:48,208 I am not having fun. 1117 00:47:48,291 --> 00:47:50,000 Stop it. 1118 00:47:50,083 --> 00:47:51,834 Just say it. 1119 00:47:51,917 --> 00:47:53,000 Fine, I am having fun. 1120 00:47:53,083 --> 00:47:54,041 Oh, there we go. 1121 00:47:54,125 --> 00:47:56,417 [Music] 1122 00:48:27,834 --> 00:48:29,333 Hi! 1123 00:48:32,417 --> 00:48:35,125 Come to the window, why? 1124 00:48:44,208 --> 00:48:45,333 Hey you! What's up? 1125 00:48:45,417 --> 00:48:47,166 What are you doing here? 1126 00:48:47,250 --> 00:48:48,291 I was kind of thinking we could go out, 1127 00:48:48,375 --> 00:48:50,291 get a bite to eat. 1128 00:48:50,375 --> 00:48:51,250 Tonight? 1129 00:48:51,333 --> 00:48:52,792 Yeah. 1130 00:48:53,375 --> 00:48:55,333 Go put something cute on, let's go. 1131 00:48:57,500 --> 00:48:59,208 Okay. 1132 00:48:59,291 --> 00:49:03,750 [Music] 1133 00:49:16,208 --> 00:49:17,333 You look beautiful! 1134 00:49:17,417 --> 00:49:19,291 You look ridiculous. 1135 00:49:19,375 --> 00:49:21,667 You're going to want to put one on, trust me. 1136 00:49:21,750 --> 00:49:24,417 I have to say I am impressed. 1137 00:49:24,500 --> 00:49:26,250 I am impressed with how open you've been 1138 00:49:26,333 --> 00:49:28,500 to such a radically different point of view. 1139 00:49:28,583 --> 00:49:29,542 It says a lot about how much 1140 00:49:29,625 --> 00:49:30,709 you believe in your methodology. 1141 00:49:30,792 --> 00:49:33,792 Oh! Somebody has been reading my book. 1142 00:49:33,875 --> 00:49:34,625 -No. -Oh! Come on now, 1143 00:49:34,709 --> 00:49:36,083 tell the truth! 1144 00:49:37,291 --> 00:49:39,083 I read the introduction. 1145 00:49:39,166 --> 00:49:40,417 And? 1146 00:49:40,500 --> 00:49:41,458 Not terrible. 1147 00:49:41,542 --> 00:49:43,125 I will take it. I will take it. 1148 00:49:45,166 --> 00:49:46,458 All right, here we go! Thank you! 1149 00:49:48,583 --> 00:49:50,083 You're okay with this, right? 1150 00:49:50,166 --> 00:49:52,291 For your information, I love ribs. 1151 00:49:53,458 --> 00:49:55,417 How did you find out about this place? 1152 00:49:55,500 --> 00:49:57,375 An old friend introduced me to this joint. 1153 00:49:57,458 --> 00:49:59,250 Old flame more like it, I'd bet. 1154 00:50:02,291 --> 00:50:05,709 Ooh! It was an old flame, wasn't it? 1155 00:50:05,792 --> 00:50:08,291 It was my ex-wife actually. 1156 00:50:08,375 --> 00:50:10,208 Did she break your heart? 1157 00:50:10,291 --> 00:50:12,875 Let's just say I lost my faith in love. 1158 00:50:12,959 --> 00:50:14,125 Don't tell me she wasn't faithful? 1159 00:50:14,208 --> 00:50:16,458 No, no. 1160 00:50:16,542 --> 00:50:20,166 She woke up one morning and she decided 1161 00:50:20,250 --> 00:50:22,625 she was absolutely sure she wasn't in love with me. 1162 00:50:22,709 --> 00:50:23,792 That sucks. 1163 00:50:24,208 --> 00:50:25,375 We must have said those three little words to each other 1164 00:50:25,458 --> 00:50:27,709 like a 1,000 times. 1165 00:50:27,792 --> 00:50:29,834 All of a sudden it was like it never happened. 1166 00:50:29,917 --> 00:50:31,291 How did that make you feel? 1167 00:50:35,250 --> 00:50:36,875 I was consumed with it. 1168 00:50:36,959 --> 00:50:40,125 I didn't eat. I didn't sleep. I didn't do anything, 1169 00:50:40,208 --> 00:50:42,375 until one day I said screw it, 1170 00:50:42,458 --> 00:50:43,875 enough is enough. 1171 00:50:43,959 --> 00:50:46,542 I am not going to let love on me like that. 1172 00:50:46,625 --> 00:50:49,250 It's time for me to take control. 1173 00:50:49,333 --> 00:50:50,750 And that's where the concept of creating the love 1174 00:50:50,834 --> 00:50:54,625 that I want for myself and my life came from. 1175 00:50:54,709 --> 00:50:58,500 There, doesn't that feel better? 1176 00:50:58,583 --> 00:51:00,542 That's processing. 1177 00:51:00,625 --> 00:51:03,208 That's therapy. 1178 00:51:03,291 --> 00:51:04,917 [laughing] 1179 00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:07,750 Okay. That was pretty good. 1180 00:51:07,834 --> 00:51:09,750 You got me, I'll give you that. 1181 00:51:09,834 --> 00:51:11,750 Tell me everything about your ex? 1182 00:51:11,834 --> 00:51:12,709 I would rather not. 1183 00:51:13,041 --> 00:51:14,917 Oh! Come on now, let's process together. 1184 00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:17,875 I have talked about it enough for one lifetime. 1185 00:51:17,959 --> 00:51:21,750 That is 'The Bounce Back'. 1186 00:51:21,834 --> 00:51:22,917 Let's eat. 1187 00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,250 [laughing] 1188 00:51:27,834 --> 00:51:29,417 All right! Be careful! 1189 00:51:29,500 --> 00:51:31,625 That's amazing! 1190 00:51:31,709 --> 00:51:33,458 That is sexy 1191 00:51:34,834 --> 00:51:36,709 and way too cute. 1192 00:51:41,333 --> 00:51:43,333 So pretty! 1193 00:51:43,417 --> 00:51:46,291 -You like it? -Yeah. 1194 00:51:46,375 --> 00:51:49,375 I think of it as my little oasis in the sea. 1195 00:51:51,875 --> 00:51:53,875 I like these lights. 1196 00:51:53,959 --> 00:51:56,250 That's my little angel, 1197 00:51:56,333 --> 00:51:57,583 her name is Leo. 1198 00:51:57,667 --> 00:51:59,333 -She is beautiful. -Yeah. 1199 00:51:59,417 --> 00:52:00,291 I like her hair. 1200 00:52:00,375 --> 00:52:01,709 [laughing] 1201 00:52:01,792 --> 00:52:03,500 That little lady has saved me more times 1202 00:52:03,583 --> 00:52:04,667 than I can remember. 1203 00:52:06,917 --> 00:52:08,750 She is something else. 1204 00:52:17,583 --> 00:52:19,375 What are you thinking about? 1205 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:22,667 -Nothing. -Come on, 1206 00:52:22,750 --> 00:52:25,250 I know something when I see something, spit it out. 1207 00:52:25,333 --> 00:52:26,458 -Nothing. -Kristin? 1208 00:52:26,542 --> 00:52:27,625 What? 1209 00:52:27,709 --> 00:52:28,709 Don't think I didn't notice that you 1210 00:52:29,083 --> 00:52:31,542 sidestepped that whole conversation about your ex. 1211 00:52:31,625 --> 00:52:33,458 All right! 1212 00:52:34,917 --> 00:52:37,375 Do I have to? 1213 00:52:42,750 --> 00:52:45,792 I was sure that it was going to last forever, 1214 00:52:45,875 --> 00:52:47,834 just like my parents, 1215 00:52:47,917 --> 00:52:50,041 almost 50 years and counting. 1216 00:52:51,959 --> 00:52:56,500 And I loved him more than anything 1217 00:52:57,709 --> 00:52:59,583 and I was sure that he loved me, 1218 00:53:00,750 --> 00:53:04,458 but I was wrong. 1219 00:53:04,542 --> 00:53:07,542 I literally could not have been more wrong. 1220 00:53:07,625 --> 00:53:09,417 What happened? 1221 00:53:09,500 --> 00:53:11,583 I am sure you can guess. 1222 00:53:13,917 --> 00:53:15,500 I am sorry. 1223 00:53:15,583 --> 00:53:23,250 That image of him and that person it's 1224 00:53:24,083 --> 00:53:27,667 it's printed in my brain. 1225 00:53:30,875 --> 00:53:34,500 It takes up a whole lot of space up there, doesn't it? 1226 00:53:34,583 --> 00:53:36,750 And I am sure you are the guy who is just going to come 1227 00:53:36,834 --> 00:53:38,834 and make it all go away? 1228 00:53:38,917 --> 00:53:41,375 Do you want me to? 1229 00:53:41,458 --> 00:53:48,500 [Music] 1230 00:54:18,291 --> 00:54:19,917 Matthew? 1231 00:54:30,458 --> 00:54:31,625 Morning! 1232 00:54:31,709 --> 00:54:33,250 Morning! 1233 00:54:35,792 --> 00:54:37,083 Thanks! 1234 00:54:41,208 --> 00:54:43,208 Did we? 1235 00:54:43,291 --> 00:54:45,125 No, 1236 00:54:45,208 --> 00:54:47,125 not even a little bit. 1237 00:54:47,208 --> 00:54:48,375 I slept on the couch. 1238 00:54:48,458 --> 00:54:50,125 Hmm. 1239 00:54:50,208 --> 00:54:53,250 Did you take some kind of medication or something? 1240 00:54:53,333 --> 00:54:57,959 My girlfriend gave me a. oh my god. 1241 00:54:59,417 --> 00:55:01,333 I ruined it, didn't I? 1242 00:55:01,417 --> 00:55:03,250 You called me Tarzan. 1243 00:55:04,750 --> 00:55:06,875 And you did quite the Jane impression. 1244 00:55:06,959 --> 00:55:09,375 I mean, it was sexy I am not going to lie, 1245 00:55:09,458 --> 00:55:11,083 but you were a little lot of control, 1246 00:55:11,166 --> 00:55:13,333 but it was definitely sexy. 1247 00:55:14,792 --> 00:55:16,750 Is there something I should know? 1248 00:55:16,834 --> 00:55:18,208 Uh-uh. 1249 00:55:20,834 --> 00:55:23,291 I am not on drugs or anything if that's what you mean. 1250 00:55:23,375 --> 00:55:24,375 Okay. 1251 00:55:25,458 --> 00:55:27,625 So then what, what is it then? 1252 00:55:30,959 --> 00:55:32,291 Tell me about this, 1253 00:55:34,125 --> 00:55:37,208 I am sure there is a wonderful story behind it? 1254 00:55:37,291 --> 00:55:39,333 It represents my pride, 1255 00:55:40,542 --> 00:55:42,125 protection. 1256 00:55:42,208 --> 00:55:43,291 What is it protecting? 1257 00:55:45,208 --> 00:55:47,041 Me. 1258 00:55:47,125 --> 00:55:52,041 [Music] 1259 00:55:57,333 --> 00:55:59,041 Was it too soon? 1260 00:55:59,125 --> 00:56:01,250 No, too soon, why? 1261 00:56:01,333 --> 00:56:02,834 It's a big deal. 1262 00:56:04,208 --> 00:56:06,041 Are you nervous? 1263 00:56:06,125 --> 00:56:07,750 No. 1264 00:56:07,834 --> 00:56:10,375 You don't have to be nervous at all. 1265 00:56:10,458 --> 00:56:12,875 Trust me, my little girl has been bugging me 1266 00:56:12,959 --> 00:56:15,166 to get myself a girlfriend for as long as I can remember. 1267 00:56:15,250 --> 00:56:16,333 Really? 1268 00:56:17,542 --> 00:56:19,291 She is going to be ecstatic to meet you, 1269 00:56:19,375 --> 00:56:20,834 don't worry about it. 1270 00:56:20,917 --> 00:56:22,375 Okay. 1271 00:56:22,458 --> 00:56:24,125 You are nervous. Look at you! 1272 00:56:24,208 --> 00:56:25,333 -I am. -That's cute. 1273 00:56:25,417 --> 00:56:28,083 -Hey! Hey! -Hey you! 1274 00:56:29,834 --> 00:56:31,834 So 1275 00:56:31,917 --> 00:56:33,875 did you see Jeff today? 1276 00:56:33,959 --> 00:56:36,834 He went with his friends, 1277 00:56:36,917 --> 00:56:38,166 anyway. 1278 00:56:38,250 --> 00:56:39,917 Well, Aleya. 1279 00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:40,792 Hi Aleya! 1280 00:56:41,125 --> 00:56:44,333 I am your dad's friend and I'm Kristin. 1281 00:56:44,417 --> 00:56:45,875 Kristin, right? 1282 00:56:45,959 --> 00:56:47,291 I have seen you guys on TV together. 1283 00:56:47,375 --> 00:56:48,500 You have? 1284 00:56:48,583 --> 00:56:49,458 Wow! 1285 00:56:49,792 --> 00:56:52,166 Okay, well, it's really nice to meet you. 1286 00:56:52,250 --> 00:56:54,041 So are you my dad's girlfriend? 1287 00:56:54,125 --> 00:56:55,500 Oh, whoa, whoa, hey, hey Aleya! 1288 00:56:55,583 --> 00:56:58,792 Seriously, if you like him please be his girlfriend, 1289 00:56:58,875 --> 00:57:01,250 he needs one badly. 1290 00:57:01,333 --> 00:57:02,083 You know I am standing right here, 1291 00:57:02,166 --> 00:57:03,250 I can hear you. 1292 00:57:03,333 --> 00:57:04,959 All right! Anyway, 1293 00:57:05,041 --> 00:57:06,834 well, I was thinking we could all go 1294 00:57:06,917 --> 00:57:09,500 get a low frozen yogurt or something. 1295 00:57:09,583 --> 00:57:12,834 Why don't you go get some frozen yogurt 1296 00:57:12,917 --> 00:57:14,834 and we'll go shopping 1297 00:57:14,917 --> 00:57:16,250 and you can tell me all about your dad, 1298 00:57:16,333 --> 00:57:18,041 and I'd love to hear all about Jeff, 1299 00:57:18,125 --> 00:57:19,125 I'll keep it between you and me. 1300 00:57:19,208 --> 00:57:20,041 -Okay. -Yeah? 1301 00:57:20,125 --> 00:57:21,500 -Yeah. -Oh cool! 1302 00:57:21,583 --> 00:57:23,375 What is happening right now? 1303 00:57:23,458 --> 00:57:24,458 We're going shopping. 1304 00:57:24,542 --> 00:57:25,959 -Okay. -Bye! Bye! 1305 00:57:33,375 --> 00:57:36,250 And then she got this skirt that has these studs on it, 1306 00:57:36,333 --> 00:57:37,875 they look so good on her. 1307 00:57:37,959 --> 00:57:39,000 They better not be short, okay? 1308 00:57:39,083 --> 00:57:40,083 It's not. 1309 00:57:40,500 --> 00:57:41,959 None of these shorts, shorts, you hear me, young lady? 1310 00:57:42,041 --> 00:57:43,583 It's all right. 1311 00:57:47,041 --> 00:57:48,458 Dad, I like her. 1312 00:57:48,542 --> 00:57:50,250 Don't mess this up. 1313 00:57:50,333 --> 00:57:52,417 Okay, you know what, get your little butt now. 1314 00:57:52,500 --> 00:57:53,917 Okay. 1315 00:57:57,291 --> 00:57:58,500 Hey! Hey! Hey! 1316 00:57:58,583 --> 00:58:00,083 Come on, let me help you out. 1317 00:58:00,166 --> 00:58:01,917 No, I got it. 1318 00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:04,208 I know you got it, but come on now! 1319 00:58:04,291 --> 00:58:06,375 All right, trying to impress the lady 1320 00:58:06,458 --> 00:58:07,959 by being a gentleman! 1321 00:58:08,041 --> 00:58:10,208 Maybe, but you're kind of messing up my game right now. 1322 00:58:12,291 --> 00:58:14,041 Okay. 1323 00:58:14,125 --> 00:58:15,041 I love you! 1324 00:58:15,125 --> 00:58:16,959 I love you too! 1325 00:58:19,083 --> 00:58:20,250 Hey baby! 1326 00:58:43,166 --> 00:58:45,583 So that's Julie? 1327 00:58:45,667 --> 00:58:46,875 Yeah. 1328 00:58:46,959 --> 00:58:48,250 She is pretty. 1329 00:58:49,333 --> 00:58:50,625 Let's get out of here. 1330 00:59:00,333 --> 00:59:02,125 Aleya is a wonderful young lady 1331 00:59:02,208 --> 00:59:03,917 and a sassy little thing. 1332 00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:05,083 [Laughing] 1333 00:59:05,166 --> 00:59:06,917 That she is. 1334 00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:10,041 Thank you for being so amazing with her today. 1335 00:59:10,125 --> 00:59:11,917 You're doing good, Mr. Dad! 1336 00:59:14,750 --> 00:59:17,208 -What? -What? 1337 00:59:17,291 --> 00:59:19,667 What is that look? 1338 00:59:29,208 --> 00:59:31,333 I think I am falling for you. 1339 00:59:31,417 --> 00:59:35,667 [Music] 1340 00:59:42,333 --> 00:59:44,917 Listen, 1341 00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:48,375 I am sorry for that whole thing back there. 1342 00:59:48,458 --> 00:59:50,000 What thing? 1343 00:59:50,083 --> 00:59:51,250 You mean me seeing Julie, 1344 00:59:53,750 --> 00:59:56,458 or Julie seeing me? 1345 00:59:58,208 --> 01:00:00,709 It just was unexpected. 1346 01:00:00,792 --> 01:00:02,166 Okay. 1347 01:00:06,333 --> 01:00:07,583 Why don't you go get some rest? 1348 01:00:10,208 --> 01:00:12,500 I'll see you at the show tomorrow. 1349 01:00:12,583 --> 01:00:15,041 Is that okay? 1350 01:00:19,291 --> 01:00:20,333 Good night! 1351 01:00:22,583 --> 01:00:24,125 Good night! 1352 01:00:24,208 --> 01:00:30,250 [Music] 1353 01:00:38,500 --> 01:00:39,625 What do you want Sam? 1354 01:00:39,709 --> 01:00:41,375 I guess that means you're still mad at me? 1355 01:00:41,458 --> 01:00:43,208 Yes, I am. 1356 01:00:43,291 --> 01:00:45,458 But you saved my name and number in your phone, so. 1357 01:00:45,542 --> 01:00:46,583 Girl, please don't tell me you called 1358 01:00:46,667 --> 01:00:49,208 to rub in the fact that I like you. 1359 01:00:49,291 --> 01:00:51,083 No, I didn't. 1360 01:00:53,333 --> 01:00:54,125 Well, damn! 1361 01:00:54,500 --> 01:00:55,709 You might want to prep it up mamacita! 1362 01:00:55,792 --> 01:00:58,417 We're on in 20. 1363 01:00:58,500 --> 01:00:59,542 Yeah. 1364 01:00:59,625 --> 01:01:01,000 [laughing] 1365 01:01:01,083 --> 01:01:02,375 You are so sweet! 1366 01:01:04,750 --> 01:01:06,250 Hey! 1367 01:01:06,333 --> 01:01:08,041 Hey! 1368 01:01:11,875 --> 01:01:13,166 Everything okay? 1369 01:01:13,250 --> 01:01:15,208 Yeah. 1370 01:01:16,375 --> 01:01:18,333 Ah, Matthew, 1371 01:01:19,583 --> 01:01:21,875 put your number in there. 1372 01:01:21,959 --> 01:01:23,208 Oh! 1373 01:01:23,291 --> 01:01:25,834 Oh, I am... I am sorry, are you two together? 1374 01:01:25,917 --> 01:01:27,208 No, we're not. 1375 01:01:27,291 --> 01:01:29,917 For the show we're, 1376 01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:32,125 you know, debating philosophies. 1377 01:01:32,208 --> 01:01:38,500 [Applause] 1378 01:01:38,583 --> 01:01:42,875 [Music] 1379 01:01:44,125 --> 01:01:46,792 All right, we've got Matthew Taylor, 1380 01:01:46,875 --> 01:01:50,250 author of 'The Bounce Back', and Nina says, 1381 01:01:50,333 --> 01:01:53,417 go out and get this book because we love this book. 1382 01:01:53,500 --> 01:01:54,917 Am I right, Love Nation? 1383 01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:56,083 [Applause] 1384 01:01:56,166 --> 01:01:57,250 We love this book. 1385 01:01:57,333 --> 01:01:59,542 [Applause] 1386 01:01:59,625 --> 01:02:04,041 But Matthew, my next guest has a bone to pick with you. 1387 01:02:04,125 --> 01:02:06,083 Please welcome clinical psychologist, 1388 01:02:06,166 --> 01:02:08,917 Dr. Kristin Peralta! 1389 01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:10,166 Come on out Dr. Kristin! 1390 01:02:10,250 --> 01:02:13,417 [Applause] 1391 01:02:17,583 --> 01:02:19,583 That's right, Dr. Kristin! 1392 01:02:20,667 --> 01:02:22,083 Welcome to Love Nation! 1393 01:02:22,166 --> 01:02:23,458 Thank you so much for having me! 1394 01:02:23,542 --> 01:02:25,333 Thank you for coming! 1395 01:02:25,417 --> 01:02:29,583 So you have a beef with Matthew. 1396 01:02:29,667 --> 01:02:34,041 Yes, I do Nina, because Mr. Taylor 1397 01:02:34,125 --> 01:02:36,625 preys on weak-minded women. 1398 01:02:36,709 --> 01:02:38,125 He tells them what they want to hear 1399 01:02:38,208 --> 01:02:40,458 in order to get them to expose themselves, 1400 01:02:40,542 --> 01:02:42,333 and well, he just doesn't want to follow-through 1401 01:02:42,417 --> 01:02:44,333 when push comes to shove. 1402 01:02:44,417 --> 01:02:45,959 Hmm, are you talking about his book 1403 01:02:46,041 --> 01:02:48,500 or is this something personal? 1404 01:02:48,583 --> 01:02:51,166 I think for people like Ms. Peralta. 1405 01:02:51,250 --> 01:02:54,000 -A common... -Excuse me, people like me. 1406 01:02:54,083 --> 01:02:56,875 You mean, women who trust you, who you make feel special, 1407 01:02:56,959 --> 01:02:58,625 and I am talking about the book, 1408 01:02:58,709 --> 01:03:01,500 I am talking about reading the book. 1409 01:03:01,583 --> 01:03:03,000 They feel as though your words 1410 01:03:03,083 --> 01:03:05,583 are the most comforting thing imaginable 1411 01:03:05,667 --> 01:03:06,959 and then this whole 1412 01:03:07,041 --> 01:03:08,917 "you" thing, with your swagger 1413 01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:11,375 and your self-confidence. 1414 01:03:11,458 --> 01:03:14,000 Nina, let me ask you a question, 1415 01:03:14,083 --> 01:03:17,166 and this is for all of the women in the audience. 1416 01:03:17,250 --> 01:03:21,500 How is it that a relationship guru isn't in a relationship? 1417 01:03:21,583 --> 01:03:22,500 [Applause] 1418 01:03:22,583 --> 01:03:23,542 There are you! 1419 01:03:23,875 --> 01:03:25,959 I got it for a kill, but Matthew, I got to say, 1420 01:03:26,041 --> 01:03:27,917 my brown sister has a point. 1421 01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:30,375 Well see, in my book 'The Bounce Back', 1422 01:03:30,458 --> 01:03:33,291 I actually ask people to focus on the past 1423 01:03:33,375 --> 01:03:35,959 I am sorry, is that in the 1424 01:03:36,041 --> 01:03:38,166 I haven't really gotten over my ex-wife who woke up 1425 01:03:38,250 --> 01:03:39,959 and said, she didn't love me any more chapter 1426 01:03:40,041 --> 01:03:41,917 because... I didn't read that. 1427 01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:43,375 [Audience Sighs] 1428 01:03:43,458 --> 01:03:45,542 Whoa! This is getting better than I thought. 1429 01:03:47,500 --> 01:03:48,667 She is a piece of work, isn't she? 1430 01:03:48,750 --> 01:03:50,959 Are you still in love with your ex-wife? 1431 01:03:51,041 --> 01:03:53,458 [Audience Sighs] 1432 01:03:55,041 --> 01:03:56,500 Well, 1433 01:03:57,667 --> 01:03:59,542 I didn't see that one coming, Nina. 1434 01:03:59,625 --> 01:04:03,000 But the answer is 1435 01:04:03,083 --> 01:04:05,709 when my ex-wife woke up one day 1436 01:04:05,792 --> 01:04:08,375 after ten years of marriage 1437 01:04:08,458 --> 01:04:11,417 and told me that she didn't love me anymore, 1438 01:04:11,500 --> 01:04:15,375 I decided that I needed a new definition of love. 1439 01:04:15,458 --> 01:04:16,583 What is love? 1440 01:04:17,750 --> 01:04:19,083 Is it a feeling, 1441 01:04:20,291 --> 01:04:21,542 is it a commitment, 1442 01:04:22,417 --> 01:04:25,667 a happily ever after pill? 1443 01:04:25,750 --> 01:04:28,542 I would like to think it's a choice. 1444 01:04:28,625 --> 01:04:31,667 See, Nina, we choose people for who they are 1445 01:04:31,750 --> 01:04:34,041 and who they aren't and we make that choice 1446 01:04:34,125 --> 01:04:36,959 every single day that we are together. 1447 01:04:37,041 --> 01:04:42,709 So yes, Ms. Peralta, I do love my ex-wife. 1448 01:04:42,792 --> 01:04:45,250 I don't think I will ever stop loving her, 1449 01:04:45,333 --> 01:04:48,583 but she is not the woman that I choose to give 1450 01:04:48,667 --> 01:04:50,583 my love to anymore. 1451 01:04:50,667 --> 01:04:52,625 So I really believe that we have to stop thinking 1452 01:04:52,709 --> 01:04:55,041 that love just happens. 1453 01:04:55,125 --> 01:04:56,417 It's somehow we 1454 01:04:56,500 --> 01:05:00,083 or helpless in just a long for the ride. 1455 01:05:00,166 --> 01:05:04,083 I honestly believe that we make that choice. 1456 01:05:04,166 --> 01:05:05,291 Wow! 1457 01:05:05,375 --> 01:05:06,125 [Applause] 1458 01:05:06,417 --> 01:05:08,291 That's how we do in 'Love Nation'. 1459 01:05:08,375 --> 01:05:10,125 Well, I'd like to thank Matthew Taylor 1460 01:05:10,208 --> 01:05:13,291 and Dr. Kristin Peralta for coming on 'Love Nation' 1461 01:05:13,375 --> 01:05:15,750 and having a passionate discussion about 1462 01:05:15,834 --> 01:05:19,375 'The Bounce Back' and everyone in the studio and audience, 1463 01:05:19,458 --> 01:05:21,625 is going home with a complimentary copy of 1464 01:05:21,709 --> 01:05:23,500 'The Bounce Back'. 1465 01:05:26,375 --> 01:05:27,625 That's all in our show today, 1466 01:05:27,709 --> 01:05:31,291 and remember we are a nation of love. 1467 01:05:31,375 --> 01:05:34,500 [Applause] 1468 01:05:41,417 --> 01:05:43,458 Matthew, I need to talk to you about a good news. 1469 01:05:43,542 --> 01:05:45,375 Good news! 1470 01:05:45,458 --> 01:05:46,792 Come on, man! 1471 01:05:46,875 --> 01:05:49,458 What are we waiting for? 1472 01:05:49,542 --> 01:05:51,500 Can we focus here? 1473 01:05:57,166 --> 01:05:58,333 Can I get your mike? 1474 01:06:00,834 --> 01:06:01,625 Here you go. 1475 01:06:01,709 --> 01:06:02,375 Thanks! 1476 01:06:02,667 --> 01:06:03,583 Just tell me don't deny it. 1477 01:06:03,792 --> 01:06:05,125 -That is still live. -I can smell it. 1478 01:06:05,208 --> 01:06:07,291 Touch that down or I will break your fingers. 1479 01:06:08,834 --> 01:06:10,333 -What's going on? -You did it. 1480 01:06:10,417 --> 01:06:11,750 I know you did it. 1481 01:06:11,834 --> 01:06:13,166 T, what's the good news? 1482 01:06:13,250 --> 01:06:14,667 First of all I just want to say 1483 01:06:14,750 --> 01:06:16,375 that I should have more faith in you 1484 01:06:16,458 --> 01:06:17,750 because I thought it was over for us 1485 01:06:17,834 --> 01:06:19,542 after that whole 'Live Night' situation. 1486 01:06:19,625 --> 01:06:20,458 Uff! 1487 01:06:20,542 --> 01:06:22,125 I saw your wheels turning, 1488 01:06:22,208 --> 01:06:23,458 but I didn't know how you would go out 1489 01:06:23,542 --> 01:06:24,792 and get her to do the show with us, 1490 01:06:24,875 --> 01:06:26,166 you know what I am saying, 1491 01:06:26,250 --> 01:06:27,458 but then you had the fire-breather here, 1492 01:06:27,542 --> 01:06:29,208 follow you like a little puppy. 1493 01:06:29,291 --> 01:06:30,333 Ah! 1494 01:06:30,417 --> 01:06:32,375 That was masterful, bro! 1495 01:06:32,458 --> 01:06:33,750 And just sealed a deal. 1496 01:06:33,834 --> 01:06:35,333 You sealed a deal. 1497 01:06:35,417 --> 01:06:37,125 [Laughing] 1498 01:06:37,208 --> 01:06:38,542 You threw her right out of her gate. 1499 01:06:38,625 --> 01:06:40,750 She was out there looking ridiculous. 1500 01:06:40,834 --> 01:06:43,667 So what did you get in that? Problem solved. 1501 01:06:43,750 --> 01:06:46,166 We just booked the Jason Kennedy Show! 1502 01:06:46,250 --> 01:06:47,291 What? 1503 01:06:47,375 --> 01:06:49,709 Yeah, I told you, I am working for you, man. 1504 01:06:49,792 --> 01:06:50,625 What we are supposed to do about her? 1505 01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:52,250 What do you mean, what we are going to do? 1506 01:06:52,333 --> 01:06:53,417 I mean, come on, man! 1507 01:06:53,500 --> 01:06:55,625 The monkey is off her bag. 1508 01:06:55,709 --> 01:06:57,583 Oh T, I don't know, man. 1509 01:06:57,667 --> 01:06:59,208 What exactly are you going to tell her? 1510 01:06:59,291 --> 01:07:02,250 I got to talk to her, T, I got to. 1511 01:07:02,333 --> 01:07:03,667 Are you... Matthew! 1512 01:07:10,834 --> 01:07:11,667 Excuse me! 1513 01:07:14,208 --> 01:07:16,375 What the hell was that? 1514 01:07:16,458 --> 01:07:19,166 Your microphone is still on. 1515 01:07:19,250 --> 01:07:20,709 Wait a minute, did she... 1516 01:07:20,792 --> 01:07:21,875 She did. 1517 01:07:34,583 --> 01:07:36,250 [Motor Sounds] 1518 01:07:43,542 --> 01:07:46,500 I am going to blow his seminar up online. 1519 01:07:46,583 --> 01:07:48,458 When I finished with him 1520 01:07:48,542 --> 01:07:51,417 he is going to wish he never met you, 1521 01:07:51,500 --> 01:07:54,166 big momma is going to take care of you. 1522 01:08:11,542 --> 01:08:14,917 [Doorbell Sounds] 1523 01:08:15,000 --> 01:08:16,208 Maybe that's him. 1524 01:08:16,291 --> 01:08:17,375 Don't tell him anything. 1525 01:08:17,458 --> 01:08:18,792 -Don't. -I won't. 1526 01:08:18,875 --> 01:08:20,625 [Doorbell Sounds] 1527 01:08:20,709 --> 01:08:21,750 Kristin! 1528 01:08:22,792 --> 01:08:23,834 Kristin! 1529 01:08:26,333 --> 01:08:29,792 Kristin! Open up! I know you are home! 1530 01:08:29,875 --> 01:08:31,917 I am not leaving you until you talk to me, Kristin! 1531 01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:33,000 Hey man! 1532 01:08:33,417 --> 01:08:34,625 Has it occurred to you, she might not be at home? 1533 01:08:34,709 --> 01:08:36,875 Kristin! 1534 01:08:36,959 --> 01:08:38,625 Kristin! 1535 01:08:38,709 --> 01:08:40,667 -Kristin! -Stop it! Stop saying Kristin. 1536 01:08:42,542 --> 01:08:44,750 Kristin, come on, I know you are home, open up! 1537 01:08:44,834 --> 01:08:48,583 [Phone Vibration Sounds] 1538 01:08:48,667 --> 01:08:50,917 It's my neighbor. 1539 01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:52,000 Daryl! 1540 01:08:52,083 --> 01:08:53,792 Hi! 1541 01:08:53,875 --> 01:08:56,750 Why don't you just tell him that I am not coming home tonight. 1542 01:08:56,834 --> 01:08:58,959 Okay. 1543 01:08:59,041 --> 01:09:00,417 She said she is not coming home, 1544 01:09:00,500 --> 01:09:01,500 you are wasting your time. 1545 01:09:01,583 --> 01:09:02,709 Where is she? 1546 01:09:02,792 --> 01:09:03,959 She doesn't want to talk to you, 1547 01:09:04,041 --> 01:09:05,709 you need to go home. 1548 01:09:05,792 --> 01:09:07,333 Look, I know she is here. 1549 01:09:07,417 --> 01:09:08,625 Kristin! 1550 01:09:08,709 --> 01:09:10,542 Kristin! 1551 01:09:10,625 --> 01:09:12,667 Please go home, Matthew! 1552 01:09:12,750 --> 01:09:14,417 Listen to me, I can explain. 1553 01:09:14,500 --> 01:09:15,875 You are not explaining your way at this point, 1554 01:09:15,959 --> 01:09:20,333 okay you slimy, no good, self-help guru 1555 01:09:20,417 --> 01:09:21,667 whatever you think you are. 1556 01:09:21,750 --> 01:09:22,583 Kristin please! 1557 01:09:22,917 --> 01:09:24,667 I know, I know, it's not what I think, 1558 01:09:24,750 --> 01:09:25,875 I am sure that 1559 01:09:26,333 --> 01:09:27,750 there is a perfectly good reason why you lie to me for a month 1560 01:09:27,834 --> 01:09:28,667 and then sold me down the river 1561 01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:30,208 as soon as something better came along. 1562 01:09:30,291 --> 01:09:31,500 I didn't lie to you. 1563 01:09:31,917 --> 01:09:35,500 So all that talk about wanting to bring balance to the tour, 1564 01:09:35,583 --> 01:09:36,417 that wasn't a lie. 1565 01:09:36,792 --> 01:09:38,709 I meant it when I said that, I meant it, 1566 01:09:38,792 --> 01:09:40,667 I really wanted you there with me. 1567 01:09:40,750 --> 01:09:41,834 Good bye, Matthew! 1568 01:09:41,917 --> 01:09:42,917 I agree. 1569 01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:44,834 Kick rocks. Bye-bye! 1570 01:09:44,917 --> 01:09:47,041 I am not letting you go, I am not losing you like this. 1571 01:09:47,125 --> 01:09:48,875 You used me. 1572 01:09:48,959 --> 01:09:50,667 What am I supposed to say, 1573 01:09:50,750 --> 01:09:52,709 the past doesn't exist and move on? 1574 01:09:52,792 --> 01:09:55,333 I am not like you, Matthew. 1575 01:09:58,750 --> 01:10:01,917 Love don't leave you anymore, buddy. 1576 01:10:18,709 --> 01:10:20,875 Hello! 1577 01:10:20,959 --> 01:10:22,959 Wait a minute, what? 1578 01:10:23,041 --> 01:10:24,000 Okay, hey! 1579 01:10:24,375 --> 01:10:27,000 Slow down, Julie, slow down, she is not with me. 1580 01:10:27,083 --> 01:10:29,500 Where is George? 1581 01:10:29,583 --> 01:10:31,750 All right, I will be right there, I will pick you up. 1582 01:10:49,041 --> 01:10:50,542 Okay, where would she be? 1583 01:10:52,750 --> 01:10:53,792 Over there! 1584 01:10:58,834 --> 01:11:00,667 Hey! Julie, slow down, slow down! 1585 01:11:00,750 --> 01:11:02,125 Wait, I am going to go up, you go down, 1586 01:11:02,208 --> 01:11:03,750 we will circle back. 1587 01:11:09,875 --> 01:11:15,750 [Music] 1588 01:11:32,667 --> 01:11:34,667 Are you going to kill me? 1589 01:11:36,792 --> 01:11:40,458 I think your mom is going to kill you twice over. 1590 01:11:40,542 --> 01:11:41,750 Doesn't matter. 1591 01:11:44,834 --> 01:11:46,709 What happened? 1592 01:11:48,041 --> 01:11:50,166 He didn't come. 1593 01:11:53,875 --> 01:11:55,917 Maybe he just got held up. 1594 01:11:56,000 --> 01:12:02,166 No, he was here, he just didn't come over. 1595 01:12:03,959 --> 01:12:05,083 It was all a joke to him. 1596 01:12:07,959 --> 01:12:09,792 Look at you. 1597 01:12:09,875 --> 01:12:11,417 You are beautiful, 1598 01:12:11,500 --> 01:12:13,625 you are smart, 1599 01:12:13,709 --> 01:12:15,041 you are so sweet! 1600 01:12:18,208 --> 01:12:20,709 Aleya, 1601 01:12:22,625 --> 01:12:25,500 love 1602 01:12:25,583 --> 01:12:26,500 is the most beautiful thing 1603 01:12:26,583 --> 01:12:29,125 that we can experience in this world 1604 01:12:29,208 --> 01:12:32,709 and if you were lucky enough to feel this for that boy, 1605 01:12:32,792 --> 01:12:35,208 nobody can ever take that away from you, 1606 01:12:35,291 --> 01:12:38,583 that's something special just for you. 1607 01:12:38,667 --> 01:12:40,834 And I promised you something, 1608 01:12:40,917 --> 01:12:42,542 one day you are going to meet someone 1609 01:12:42,625 --> 01:12:44,000 who loves you back, 1610 01:12:44,083 --> 01:12:46,166 just as much as you love him. 1611 01:12:47,834 --> 01:12:50,166 And when that happens, 1612 01:12:52,583 --> 01:12:54,583 it's magical. 1613 01:12:55,667 --> 01:12:57,875 I know dad. 1614 01:12:57,959 --> 01:12:59,041 Oh! you do. 1615 01:13:00,291 --> 01:13:02,500 Uh-huh. 1616 01:13:02,583 --> 01:13:04,166 But it still hurts, 1617 01:13:05,959 --> 01:13:09,625 and it totally sucks too. 1618 01:13:09,709 --> 01:13:11,500 So I think I am just going to keep crying 1619 01:13:11,583 --> 01:13:14,125 until it stops hurting. 1620 01:13:33,041 --> 01:13:35,000 Thank you! 1621 01:14:07,250 --> 01:14:09,667 Hey! I know you are upset, 1622 01:14:09,750 --> 01:14:12,166 but you can't say mad at me forever. 1623 01:14:12,250 --> 01:14:14,083 I am not mad at you. 1624 01:14:14,166 --> 01:14:15,959 Grateful! 1625 01:14:16,041 --> 01:14:17,500 Grateful? 1626 01:14:23,125 --> 01:14:26,250 I read it, cover to cover, 1627 01:14:26,333 --> 01:14:29,000 and you know what, you are right. 1628 01:14:29,083 --> 01:14:30,792 The only way to heal is to learn to accept 1629 01:14:30,875 --> 01:14:33,583 that the past doesn't exist, 1630 01:14:33,667 --> 01:14:36,583 and you got me to that point. 1631 01:14:36,667 --> 01:14:39,333 I am ready to create my future. 1632 01:14:39,417 --> 01:14:41,041 I know what I want, 1633 01:14:43,917 --> 01:14:45,875 and it isn't this. 1634 01:14:45,959 --> 01:14:49,166 It doesn't matter how hot we are for each other, 1635 01:14:49,250 --> 01:14:51,208 we are too different 1636 01:14:52,208 --> 01:14:54,250 and chemistry isn't enough. 1637 01:15:04,959 --> 01:15:07,041 I am sorry Matthew, 1638 01:15:07,125 --> 01:15:10,208 but I have a busy schedule today, 1639 01:15:10,291 --> 01:15:13,083 if you can believe it. 1640 01:15:22,291 --> 01:15:24,750 [Motor Sounds] 1641 01:15:36,458 --> 01:15:37,875 Oh 1642 01:15:37,959 --> 01:15:39,083 hey! 1643 01:15:40,750 --> 01:15:41,959 Matthew Taylor. 1644 01:15:42,041 --> 01:15:43,875 Yeah, I know. 1645 01:15:43,959 --> 01:15:45,041 I am George. 1646 01:15:45,125 --> 01:15:46,834 I know. 1647 01:15:46,917 --> 01:15:49,000 It's nice to finally meet you. 1648 01:15:49,083 --> 01:15:51,250 Aleya, 1649 01:15:51,333 --> 01:15:53,208 she raised about you. 1650 01:15:53,291 --> 01:15:57,166 Not as much as she raised about her daddy. 1651 01:15:57,250 --> 01:15:58,667 Come on in! 1652 01:16:02,875 --> 01:16:04,333 Who is at the door? 1653 01:16:04,417 --> 01:16:06,750 Dad. 1654 01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:12,959 Hey Julie! 1655 01:16:14,750 --> 01:16:15,917 Hey baby girl! 1656 01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:17,291 What a nice surprise! 1657 01:16:19,750 --> 01:16:23,208 Your place looks great. 1658 01:16:23,291 --> 01:16:26,792 It's all George's. 1659 01:16:26,875 --> 01:16:28,333 He has got the touch. 1660 01:16:28,417 --> 01:16:30,291 Oh! Don't embarrass me. 1661 01:16:30,375 --> 01:16:35,667 [Music] 1662 01:16:49,208 --> 01:16:51,333 He's a meat lover. 1663 01:17:01,166 --> 01:17:02,333 He is nice, 1664 01:17:03,917 --> 01:17:05,417 and you two are nice together. 1665 01:17:05,500 --> 01:17:07,000 Thank you! 1666 01:17:08,250 --> 01:17:10,500 George really likes you. 1667 01:17:12,083 --> 01:17:14,959 I am just happy you and I can finally be friends. 1668 01:17:15,041 --> 01:17:16,875 Yeah. 1669 01:17:17,875 --> 01:17:19,166 Julie, 1670 01:17:23,250 --> 01:17:25,500 you never loved me as much as I loved you, did you? 1671 01:17:31,583 --> 01:17:34,500 I really wanted to, 1672 01:17:37,583 --> 01:17:39,000 I am sorry. 1673 01:17:41,041 --> 01:17:42,208 Don't be, don't be. 1674 01:17:45,333 --> 01:17:47,834 I think, 1675 01:17:47,917 --> 01:17:49,834 I think I found somebody who does. 1676 01:17:54,458 --> 01:17:56,041 See you later! 1677 01:17:56,125 --> 01:17:57,458 Bye! 1678 01:18:00,458 --> 01:18:05,125 [Music] 1679 01:18:06,583 --> 01:18:08,500 So I recognize this great hook up you giving me. 1680 01:18:08,583 --> 01:18:09,792 Hmm. 1681 01:18:09,875 --> 01:18:11,291 So what's the angle? 1682 01:18:11,375 --> 01:18:13,125 Angle? I am just helping out some friend 1683 01:18:13,208 --> 01:18:14,250 in the channel department. 1684 01:18:14,333 --> 01:18:15,792 Oh! So your being here 1685 01:18:15,875 --> 01:18:17,500 today has nothing to do with me. 1686 01:18:17,583 --> 01:18:19,417 Oh! Sheer coincidence. 1687 01:18:19,500 --> 01:18:21,041 Do you think I am going to believe that? 1688 01:18:21,125 --> 01:18:22,792 I don't know what you are willing to believe. 1689 01:18:23,875 --> 01:18:24,542 You like me, don't you? 1690 01:18:24,625 --> 01:18:25,542 [Laughing] 1691 01:18:25,875 --> 01:18:28,041 Everybody settle down and we are all on in 1692 01:18:28,125 --> 01:18:29,208 5... 1693 01:18:29,291 --> 01:18:30,792 4... 1694 01:18:30,875 --> 01:18:32,250 3... 1695 01:18:32,333 --> 01:18:34,250 2... 1696 01:18:34,333 --> 01:18:35,333 Welcome back! 1697 01:18:35,709 --> 01:18:38,208 My next guest is author and relationship expert 1698 01:18:38,291 --> 01:18:40,208 Matthew Taylor, who has new book 'The Bounce Back'. 1699 01:18:40,291 --> 01:18:42,875 It's for anyone struggling to get back on their feet 1700 01:18:42,959 --> 01:18:45,000 after the end of a relationship. 1701 01:18:45,083 --> 01:18:46,083 Nice to see you, man! 1702 01:18:46,166 --> 01:18:47,333 Well thanks for having me, Jason! 1703 01:18:47,417 --> 01:18:49,208 I am curious though, what do you hope people 1704 01:18:49,291 --> 01:18:52,417 walk away with after reading the 'The Bounce Back'? 1705 01:18:52,500 --> 01:18:56,083 What if I told you that you don't have to endure, overcome 1706 01:18:56,166 --> 01:18:58,458 See that's why the book is winning right there. 1707 01:18:58,542 --> 01:19:01,166 He is honest, he knows how to connect people. 1708 01:19:01,250 --> 01:19:02,458 I would say I want to know 1709 01:19:02,542 --> 01:19:04,959 how your book can deliver all those promises. 1710 01:19:07,291 --> 01:19:08,834 Well... 1711 01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:16,417 But then I read the 'The Bounce Back' 1712 01:19:16,500 --> 01:19:17,500 and I got to say, 1713 01:19:17,875 --> 01:19:22,250 I get it especially when you talk about the past. 1714 01:19:22,333 --> 01:19:24,959 Yeah, the past. 1715 01:19:30,375 --> 01:19:31,458 You know a lot of relationship... 1716 01:19:31,542 --> 01:19:33,583 Don't look at me, he is your guy. 1717 01:19:33,667 --> 01:19:37,041 gurus talk about the past and make a piece with it, 1718 01:19:37,125 --> 01:19:38,917 but you don't say that at all, 1719 01:19:39,000 --> 01:19:43,333 you say the past doesn't exist. 1720 01:19:43,417 --> 01:19:45,875 But doesn't it, Jason? 1721 01:19:45,959 --> 01:19:49,458 I mean it's a great idea and principle, 1722 01:19:49,542 --> 01:19:52,917 pretending like the past doesn't exist, 1723 01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:55,291 it's not the same thing is completing it. 1724 01:19:55,375 --> 01:19:58,000 I don't think I read that in the book though. 1725 01:19:58,083 --> 01:20:01,166 That's because it's not in there, Jason. 1726 01:20:01,250 --> 01:20:03,000 I didn't know it when I wrote this book. 1727 01:20:03,083 --> 01:20:04,208 Oh! 1728 01:20:04,291 --> 01:20:05,500 Oh my God! 1729 01:20:05,583 --> 01:20:07,500 No! No! 1730 01:20:07,583 --> 01:20:09,625 Even though you might think that you are done with the past, 1731 01:20:09,709 --> 01:20:10,583 it doesn't necessarily mean 1732 01:20:10,917 --> 01:20:12,333 that the past has always done with you. 1733 01:20:12,417 --> 01:20:14,542 What are you trying to say exactly? 1734 01:20:16,041 --> 01:20:17,250 I am full of crap. 1735 01:20:19,041 --> 01:20:20,041 [Laughing] 1736 01:20:20,125 --> 01:20:21,125 What? 1737 01:20:21,500 --> 01:20:23,500 I am sorry, I am sorry, I should not have laughed. 1738 01:20:23,583 --> 01:20:26,375 You guys... you guys are amazing. 1739 01:20:26,458 --> 01:20:27,375 You think so? 1740 01:20:27,458 --> 01:20:30,333 My book 'The Bounce Back', 1741 01:20:30,417 --> 01:20:32,500 it didn't help me get over my ex-wife. 1742 01:20:32,583 --> 01:20:33,667 What did that? 1743 01:20:33,750 --> 01:20:36,583 I didn't get over, 1744 01:20:36,667 --> 01:20:38,000 not really. 1745 01:20:39,750 --> 01:20:43,333 I just created a philosophy to keep me from getting hurt. 1746 01:20:43,417 --> 01:20:44,458 This is got to stop. 1747 01:20:44,542 --> 01:20:46,083 Shhh! 1748 01:20:46,166 --> 01:20:46,959 Are you crazy? 1749 01:20:47,041 --> 01:20:48,000 This is live television. 1750 01:20:48,083 --> 01:20:49,000 You can't go on, okay. 1751 01:20:49,083 --> 01:20:50,417 Matthew! 1752 01:20:50,500 --> 01:20:51,917 The funny thing is, 1753 01:20:53,625 --> 01:20:54,750 I don't even think that I realized 1754 01:20:55,125 --> 01:20:59,417 that's what I was doing until I met the girl of my dreams 1755 01:20:59,500 --> 01:21:00,709 as soon I felt things that 1756 01:21:02,417 --> 01:21:04,375 I had never felt before. 1757 01:21:06,500 --> 01:21:08,166 This normally I go for a medium rare, 1758 01:21:08,250 --> 01:21:10,208 because that's where most of the nutrients are, 1759 01:21:10,291 --> 01:21:12,000 because if you get more well done than it's... 1760 01:21:13,083 --> 01:21:14,458 You've got a beautiful nose. 1761 01:21:14,542 --> 01:21:16,000 Uh-huh. 1762 01:21:16,083 --> 01:21:18,166 Just I have to say it. 1763 01:21:18,250 --> 01:21:20,458 I don't like my nose. 1764 01:21:20,542 --> 01:21:22,750 No, it's beautiful and that was weird, 1765 01:21:22,834 --> 01:21:25,125 -well I am sorry. -Thank you! 1766 01:21:25,208 --> 01:21:27,291 Yeah, you are welcome! 1767 01:21:27,375 --> 01:21:28,750 Who is this special person? 1768 01:21:28,834 --> 01:21:30,667 -Kristin Peralta. -Is that you? 1769 01:21:32,792 --> 01:21:34,583 Hey, go back a couple. 1770 01:21:34,667 --> 01:21:36,458 No, no, no, no, there is... no, no, no, not needed! 1771 01:21:37,834 --> 01:21:40,291 She is the therapist who doesn't think too highly 1772 01:21:40,375 --> 01:21:42,000 of your book, right? 1773 01:21:42,083 --> 01:21:44,333 I was scared. 1774 01:21:44,417 --> 01:21:45,542 I know that now. 1775 01:21:47,792 --> 01:21:50,667 But what I didn't know 1776 01:21:50,750 --> 01:21:53,375 was how to handle her love. 1777 01:21:53,458 --> 01:21:54,417 What are you doing? 1778 01:21:54,500 --> 01:21:56,375 -Just wait. -Can you hear me? 1779 01:21:56,458 --> 01:21:57,417 Matthew! 1780 01:21:57,500 --> 01:21:59,417 of what I was going through. 1781 01:22:01,458 --> 01:22:03,500 I might still be with her right now. 1782 01:22:05,542 --> 01:22:07,291 So, it was nice meeting you. 1783 01:22:07,375 --> 01:22:09,625 No, no, no, no, don't leave, 1784 01:22:09,709 --> 01:22:11,542 We are not together. 1785 01:22:11,625 --> 01:22:13,250 That guy is on national television 1786 01:22:13,333 --> 01:22:14,375 pouring his heart out to you. 1787 01:22:14,458 --> 01:22:15,709 Yeah, I understand but... 1788 01:22:15,792 --> 01:22:18,291 Hey! Lady, you are on TV. 1789 01:22:19,792 --> 01:22:21,709 Oh my God! That's her. 1790 01:22:21,792 --> 01:22:23,041 Jason um... 1791 01:22:23,125 --> 01:22:24,458 By all means, 1792 01:22:24,542 --> 01:22:26,333 do what you need to do right there. 1793 01:22:30,875 --> 01:22:32,458 Please can somebody go... can we go to commercial, 1794 01:22:32,542 --> 01:22:33,583 -can you tell them... -Stop! 1795 01:22:33,667 --> 01:22:34,291 Talk to the people when they 1796 01:22:34,667 --> 01:22:35,542 talk to the people in the booth. 1797 01:22:35,625 --> 01:22:37,041 Kristin, 1798 01:22:40,750 --> 01:22:42,166 I am sorry. 1799 01:22:44,917 --> 01:22:46,250 I am so sorry! 1800 01:22:49,709 --> 01:22:52,250 Hey! Turn that up. 1801 01:22:52,333 --> 01:22:55,208 Nothing is happening the way that I planned it. 1802 01:22:57,667 --> 01:23:00,125 I never saw you coming. 1803 01:23:00,208 --> 01:23:02,458 Matthew, don't cry on TV, man! 1804 01:23:02,542 --> 01:23:03,542 Suck it up. 1805 01:23:03,959 --> 01:23:06,041 Now that I have caught a glimpse of you in my life, 1806 01:23:09,417 --> 01:23:12,000 I can't imagine it without you in it anymore. 1807 01:23:12,917 --> 01:23:14,834 I didn't honor the love that you felt for me 1808 01:23:14,917 --> 01:23:17,667 because I have never experienced it. 1809 01:23:20,542 --> 01:23:22,125 I didn't know what it was 1810 01:23:24,250 --> 01:23:25,750 to be loved back. 1811 01:23:27,875 --> 01:23:30,583 I think he is in love with you! 1812 01:23:30,667 --> 01:23:31,542 Check please! 1813 01:23:32,917 --> 01:23:34,291 I appreciate your honesty for you being candid. 1814 01:23:34,375 --> 01:23:35,667 Thank you! 1815 01:23:35,750 --> 01:23:36,834 We are going to be right back with the 1816 01:23:36,917 --> 01:23:40,250 surprising Matthew Taylor. 1817 01:23:40,333 --> 01:23:40,834 Thanks a lot! 1818 01:23:43,458 --> 01:23:47,083 [Crying] 1819 01:24:03,542 --> 01:24:05,500 Hello! 1820 01:24:05,583 --> 01:24:06,458 Matthew Taylor! 1821 01:24:06,542 --> 01:24:07,500 Wait a minute! 1822 01:24:07,583 --> 01:24:08,625 What did you say? 1823 01:24:08,709 --> 01:24:09,625 -What are you doing? -Where? 1824 01:24:11,500 --> 01:24:12,500 Okay. Thanks! 1825 01:24:12,583 --> 01:24:13,875 What the hell is going on, man? 1826 01:24:13,959 --> 01:24:14,959 T, I am sorry! 1827 01:24:15,375 --> 01:24:16,834 If you don't go in there right now, I'll fix this, 1828 01:24:16,917 --> 01:24:18,792 everything we worked is over. 1829 01:24:18,875 --> 01:24:20,542 I love her. 1830 01:24:20,625 --> 01:24:21,583 What? 1831 01:24:21,667 --> 01:24:23,583 Her? Really? 1832 01:24:23,667 --> 01:24:24,709 Her? 1833 01:24:24,792 --> 01:24:26,500 I can't let her get away. 1834 01:24:26,583 --> 01:24:28,500 I know this means the world to you, I do; 1835 01:24:28,583 --> 01:24:29,417 but look at me. 1836 01:24:29,500 --> 01:24:30,709 T, look at me. 1837 01:24:30,792 --> 01:24:32,250 I have been dead inside for way too long, 1838 01:24:32,333 --> 01:24:33,458 you know that. 1839 01:24:35,792 --> 01:24:36,750 He is not leaving, is he? 1840 01:24:36,834 --> 01:24:38,750 Shhh... 1841 01:24:38,834 --> 01:24:39,625 Let's give it a minute. 1842 01:24:39,917 --> 01:24:41,750 I don't want to give it a minute. 1843 01:24:41,834 --> 01:24:44,792 Guess we could kiss being the number bestseller, good-bye! 1844 01:24:44,875 --> 01:24:46,333 If you really want me to go back in there 1845 01:24:46,417 --> 01:24:48,250 -and do this. -Yeah man! 1846 01:24:48,333 --> 01:24:49,500 You know that. 1847 01:24:49,583 --> 01:24:51,583 It's a good gesture, 1848 01:24:51,667 --> 01:24:52,625 but at the end of the day 1849 01:24:53,000 --> 01:24:54,834 you've got to do what's right for you, man. 1850 01:24:57,333 --> 01:24:59,625 And what real friends are going to get in a way of that. 1851 01:24:59,709 --> 01:25:00,792 It looks like he is leaving to me. 1852 01:25:01,208 --> 01:25:02,417 -Alex, you are losing it. -I am getting anxiety attacks. 1853 01:25:02,500 --> 01:25:03,750 Okay, okay, okay! 1854 01:25:03,834 --> 01:25:05,250 Give it a minute. 1855 01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:07,792 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, 1856 01:25:07,875 --> 01:25:09,583 this is not happening! 1857 01:25:09,667 --> 01:25:11,458 T, you got this for sure? 1858 01:25:11,542 --> 01:25:12,583 Yeah, you're good! 1859 01:25:12,667 --> 01:25:13,667 Thank you! 1860 01:25:14,041 --> 01:25:15,709 No, no, no, no, no, no, this is not acceptable. 1861 01:25:15,792 --> 01:25:17,166 We are on in 30 seconds. 1862 01:25:17,250 --> 01:25:18,333 Lower your voice, lower your voice. 1863 01:25:18,417 --> 01:25:19,166 I will call security. 1864 01:25:19,500 --> 01:25:20,333 You are not going to call anybody! 1865 01:25:20,417 --> 01:25:21,542 Excuse me! Let me do my job. 1866 01:25:21,625 --> 01:25:22,542 Let me tell you something. 1867 01:25:22,917 --> 01:25:23,625 You better back up before I put these two books 1868 01:25:23,709 --> 01:25:24,917 in your ... 1869 01:25:28,125 --> 01:25:30,208 Um Gary, do we have Jeff Goldblum available? 1870 01:25:31,333 --> 01:25:34,542 -Oh! -I am impressed! 1871 01:25:34,625 --> 01:25:35,667 Thank you! 1872 01:25:35,750 --> 01:25:36,542 Thank you! 1873 01:25:36,625 --> 01:25:38,000 With him. 1874 01:25:38,083 --> 01:25:39,000 [Laughing] 1875 01:25:39,083 --> 01:25:40,333 Of course! 1876 01:25:40,417 --> 01:25:41,500 Oh! 1877 01:25:41,583 --> 01:25:42,959 That was good. 1878 01:25:44,583 --> 01:25:46,959 You want to go get a drink? 1879 01:25:47,041 --> 01:25:48,333 -May be. -Yeah. 1880 01:25:53,291 --> 01:25:56,083 So he lied to me, he used me to get on this stupid 1881 01:25:56,166 --> 01:25:59,041 talk show just to promote his stupid book. 1882 01:25:59,125 --> 01:26:03,125 Sounds like he is just scared to fall in love again. 1883 01:26:03,208 --> 01:26:05,208 He did sound sincere about that. 1884 01:26:05,291 --> 01:26:07,166 You two should really talk this out. 1885 01:26:07,250 --> 01:26:09,333 Listen, I am done with him. 1886 01:26:09,417 --> 01:26:11,417 I am completely through with Matthew Taylor. 1887 01:26:11,500 --> 01:26:14,625 [Music] 1888 01:26:20,417 --> 01:26:21,542 Get in the car! 1889 01:26:23,125 --> 01:26:24,125 Kristin, wait! 1890 01:26:24,208 --> 01:26:25,583 Why we are racing to the car? 1891 01:26:25,667 --> 01:26:27,500 Just take me home, Glen. 1892 01:26:27,583 --> 01:26:28,625 All right! 1893 01:26:28,709 --> 01:26:29,750 Wait! Kristin! Kristin! 1894 01:26:30,166 --> 01:26:32,083 Just, please, please let me talk to you for a second. 1895 01:26:32,166 --> 01:26:33,208 Hear me out, please! 1896 01:26:33,291 --> 01:26:34,375 Is that him? 1897 01:26:34,458 --> 01:26:35,333 Drive Glen, please! 1898 01:26:35,417 --> 01:26:36,333 -Okay. -No, no! 1899 01:26:36,417 --> 01:26:37,709 No, don't move the car. 1900 01:26:37,792 --> 01:26:39,375 Stop the car, please! 1901 01:26:39,458 --> 01:26:40,959 How did you know I was here? 1902 01:26:41,041 --> 01:26:42,166 Sarah told me. 1903 01:26:42,250 --> 01:26:42,959 Is that your friend? 1904 01:26:43,041 --> 01:26:43,667 Yes, drive! 1905 01:26:43,750 --> 01:26:45,083 Please go! 1906 01:26:45,166 --> 01:26:46,000 I don't know if I feel comfortable. 1907 01:26:46,083 --> 01:26:47,333 Shut up, Glen! Please! 1908 01:26:47,417 --> 01:26:49,625 I messed up, Kristin, okay? 1909 01:26:49,709 --> 01:26:51,208 I didn't know what to do. 1910 01:26:51,291 --> 01:26:53,000 I really think you two should talk this out. 1911 01:26:53,083 --> 01:26:54,333 -Please just go, Glen! -I am ready! 1912 01:26:54,417 --> 01:26:56,500 [Motor Sounds] 1913 01:26:56,583 --> 01:26:58,375 I am getting anxiety. 1914 01:26:58,458 --> 01:27:00,125 Kristin, please! 1915 01:27:00,208 --> 01:27:01,709 Shut up Glen and just go. 1916 01:27:01,792 --> 01:27:03,041 Just go! 1917 01:27:03,125 --> 01:27:03,959 Okay. 1918 01:27:04,291 --> 01:27:05,583 Not backwards Glen, forward, forward! 1919 01:27:05,667 --> 01:27:08,166 If I go forward, I am going to hit him! 1920 01:27:08,250 --> 01:27:09,125 No, he is going to move out of the way. 1921 01:27:09,208 --> 01:27:10,041 Just go Glen! 1922 01:27:10,125 --> 01:27:11,625 Shut up Glen and just go! 1923 01:27:11,709 --> 01:27:13,250 I just need you talk to me! 1924 01:27:13,333 --> 01:27:14,166 Go, Glen! 1925 01:27:14,250 --> 01:27:15,333 Please! 1926 01:27:15,417 --> 01:27:16,375 -Okay! -Shut up! Just go forward! 1927 01:27:16,458 --> 01:27:17,208 Fine! 1928 01:27:17,291 --> 01:27:18,709 Go! I am going to hit him! 1929 01:27:18,792 --> 01:27:20,083 -Forward! -All right! 1930 01:27:20,166 --> 01:27:21,709 Matthew, get out of the way! 1931 01:27:21,792 --> 01:27:23,041 I am not moving. 1932 01:27:23,125 --> 01:27:24,500 You want me to go forward? 1933 01:27:24,583 --> 01:27:25,625 Forward! 1934 01:27:25,709 --> 01:27:29,041 Matthew, get out of the way! 1935 01:27:29,125 --> 01:27:30,125 Get out of the way! 1936 01:27:30,208 --> 01:27:30,959 Ah! 1937 01:27:32,250 --> 01:27:34,125 Eh! 1938 01:27:34,208 --> 01:27:35,333 Oh my God! 1939 01:27:35,417 --> 01:27:36,208 Are you dead? 1940 01:27:36,291 --> 01:27:37,375 Matthew! 1941 01:27:40,375 --> 01:27:42,375 Matthew! 1942 01:27:42,458 --> 01:27:44,208 You're crazy. 1943 01:27:46,709 --> 01:27:48,291 What are you doing? 1944 01:27:48,375 --> 01:27:52,208 Kristin, Kristin, just listen to me, please. 1945 01:27:53,375 --> 01:27:55,208 You were right, 1946 01:27:55,291 --> 01:27:57,083 you can't create a future without 1947 01:27:57,166 --> 01:28:00,208 completing the past, you were right. 1948 01:28:00,291 --> 01:28:02,083 Pretending like Julie and I never happened, 1949 01:28:02,166 --> 01:28:04,583 it doesn't work, okay? 1950 01:28:06,208 --> 01:28:08,375 You're the only person in my life who has ever loved me 1951 01:28:08,458 --> 01:28:10,417 back as much as I love them. 1952 01:28:12,458 --> 01:28:14,125 I know you think I was trying to play, 1953 01:28:17,417 --> 01:28:18,417 and I was. 1954 01:28:18,500 --> 01:28:20,709 I am so sorry for that. 1955 01:28:21,750 --> 01:28:23,375 I will never hurt you again. 1956 01:28:28,917 --> 01:28:30,750 You're too important to me. 1957 01:28:34,417 --> 01:28:35,750 I need you. 1958 01:28:38,709 --> 01:28:40,291 Kristin, I love you! 1959 01:28:42,750 --> 01:28:44,166 You love me? 1960 01:28:44,250 --> 01:28:46,125 Yes. 1961 01:28:46,208 --> 01:28:46,834 Really? 1962 01:28:46,917 --> 01:28:48,792 Yes. Yes. 1963 01:28:51,250 --> 01:28:52,834 Really really? 1964 01:28:55,667 --> 01:28:57,667 I do. 1965 01:28:57,750 --> 01:29:05,542 [Music] 1966 01:29:22,667 --> 01:29:29,333 [Applause] 1967 01:29:29,417 --> 01:29:31,542 Welcome back to 'The George Addison' show! 1968 01:29:31,625 --> 01:29:34,083 My next guests are best-selling husband and wife 1969 01:29:34,166 --> 01:29:36,709 co-authors of the never-ending kiss, 1970 01:29:36,792 --> 01:29:39,875 'How to Make Every Time Feel like the First Time', 1971 01:29:39,959 --> 01:29:43,417 and they are the hottest self-help celebrity couple 1972 01:29:43,500 --> 01:29:44,709 on the planet, 1973 01:29:44,792 --> 01:29:46,750 so please give a warm welcome to 1974 01:29:46,834 --> 01:29:49,208 Matthew and Kristin Taylor. 1975 01:29:49,291 --> 01:29:50,875 Well, thank you for having us George! 1976 01:29:50,959 --> 01:29:54,208 There is an interesting story on 1977 01:29:54,291 --> 01:29:56,542 what you guys did on your honeymoon. 1978 01:29:56,625 --> 01:29:58,291 Let's just say we were... 1979 01:29:59,583 --> 01:30:00,750 we were very productive. 1980 01:30:00,834 --> 01:30:02,250 We were. 1981 01:30:02,333 --> 01:30:03,750 We were productive writing. 1982 01:30:03,834 --> 01:30:05,625 I love their chemistry! 1983 01:30:05,709 --> 01:30:07,291 They feed off each other perfectly right. 1984 01:30:07,375 --> 01:30:08,291 Uh-huh. 1985 01:30:08,375 --> 01:30:09,291 This is good! 1986 01:30:09,375 --> 01:30:10,709 This is good! 1987 01:30:10,792 --> 01:30:13,750 It's a very impressive booking right out of the gate. 1988 01:30:13,834 --> 01:30:15,792 Honestly, it was all Matthew. 1989 01:30:18,417 --> 01:30:20,750 Thank you for the invite! 1990 01:30:20,834 --> 01:30:23,709 You know, I've never been part of someone's posse, so. 1991 01:30:23,792 --> 01:30:25,417 Because you're usually the behind the scenes, 1992 01:30:25,500 --> 01:30:28,500 calling the shots type of girl, huh? 1993 01:30:30,041 --> 01:30:32,333 Hey, he is... actually, 1994 01:30:32,417 --> 01:30:35,542 we have another Relationship Seminar in Diego, 1995 01:30:35,625 --> 01:30:38,625 would you be interested in coming down for the weekend? 1996 01:30:38,709 --> 01:30:40,250 It would be cool. 1997 01:30:40,333 --> 01:30:43,375 You want me to spend the weekend with you? 1998 01:30:43,458 --> 01:30:45,583 At the Relationship Seminar, 1999 01:30:45,667 --> 01:30:50,291 it's nice weather, people, beaches, military. 2000 01:30:51,792 --> 01:30:53,834 Sure! 2001 01:30:57,417 --> 01:30:58,834 Military? 2002 01:31:01,625 --> 01:31:03,583 We started talking about our first kiss, right? 2003 01:31:03,667 --> 01:31:07,333 Yes and how undeniable it was, our connection, 2004 01:31:07,417 --> 01:31:08,959 and our attraction for one another. 2005 01:31:09,041 --> 01:31:11,458 We were connecting a lot. 2006 01:31:11,542 --> 01:31:14,750 And brainstorming George, we were 2007 01:31:14,834 --> 01:31:16,291 She was brainstorming. 2008 01:31:16,375 --> 01:31:17,375 I was trying to 2009 01:31:17,709 --> 01:31:20,250 This is true, mostly me, I was brainstorming 2010 01:31:20,333 --> 01:31:27,250 [Music] 126209