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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:02,240 NARRATOR: Previously... 2 00:00:02,280 --> 00:00:03,320 Here we go! 3 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:04,440 This is exciting! 4 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:07,480 Our newlyweds moved in together... 5 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:09,400 I can't wait to see you in that pool. 6 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:12,360 I'll be sitting here watching you with a bucket of fried chicken. 7 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:13,480 (BOTH LAUGH) 8 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:17,280 ..as they entered the next phase of the experiment. 9 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:18,960 It's Confessions Week. 10 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:20,400 Great. Whoo! 11 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:23,080 Tell me it's a prostate exam, I'll be more excited. 12 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:26,960 The phone swap exposed Jack's most recent past... 13 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:28,840 Clearly something on there I didn't want you to see. 14 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:30,240 Pretty sure this is you proposing. 15 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:34,320 ..as Jayden's confession triggered his wife, Eden... 16 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:36,000 I'm just in shock. 17 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:38,920 Wait, he told you that? 18 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:41,320 ..before the return of the photo ranking... 19 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:42,400 I don't want to do it. 20 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:43,760 ..brought some couples... 21 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:45,120 You're my number one. 22 00:00:45,160 --> 00:00:46,320 ..closer together. 23 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:48,240 You, my handsome husband. Aw! 24 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,400 At the very top. Cool. 25 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:52,120 But for Andrea and Richard... 26 00:00:52,160 --> 00:00:54,000 I'm gonna put you... 27 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:55,880 ..it was their first setback. 28 00:00:55,920 --> 00:01:01,160 It literally hurt a lot and I don't know how to come back from that. 29 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:03,960 Tonight... 30 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:05,120 Which one is this lady? 31 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:06,600 Sara. Sara. 32 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,600 Casey, I think her name is. Cass. 33 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:10,840 Then Eveden. Eden. 34 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:12,880 He's old enough to be my grandad. 35 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:15,760 But I'm a savage so I'm feeling good. 36 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:22,280 Confessions Week continues... 37 00:01:22,320 --> 00:01:24,000 This is why I haven't tried to kiss you. 38 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:25,040 I really care about you 39 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,320 and I don't want the fear to ruin a potential relationship with you. 40 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:30,880 ..as Tristan reveals deep scars from the past. 41 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:34,800 I am so grateful that he felt safe enough to share that with me. 42 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:36,000 Plus... 43 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:37,720 There's nothing there. 44 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:38,760 Just trust me. 45 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:40,080 Hm. 46 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:43,080 Is Sara hiding something from Tim? 47 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:45,880 Obviously, she doesn't want me to see certain things on her phone. 48 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:47,480 Um... 49 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:49,400 Can't take these ladies to bed, I'm sorry. 50 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,800 And Jack tackles the photo task. 51 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:54,560 Don't want to walk home with someone that's six inches taller than me. 52 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:56,440 I'm gonna feel like a little bitch by the time I get home. 53 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:59,560 But where will he place Tori? 54 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:01,040 Mm... 55 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:02,720 Convince your husband you're the hottest. 56 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:05,120 Why are you the hottest? (BLEEP) 57 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,600 (EPIC MUSIC SWELLS) 58 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,840 Confessions Week is a chance for our couples 59 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:26,040 to accelerate the process of getting to know each other. 60 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:30,480 But sharing a home for the first time may also be an opportunity 61 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:34,800 to reveal to each other some of their nocturnal behaviours. 62 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:37,640 Oh, the other night... 63 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:38,840 You were like... What is it? 64 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:40,160 You were, like, talking to me. 65 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:42,160 (SHARP GASP) Was I sleep-talking? 66 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:45,240 Yeah. No, I was not. 67 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:46,280 Did you sleep alright? 68 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,680 You didn't hit me this time in your sleep which is always good. 69 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:50,800 You know? I'm learning. 70 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,080 You're definitely still taking up all the bed, but that's OK. 71 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:55,200 This testing phase has, so far, 72 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,680 strengthened the bond for some couples. 73 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:02,000 When I met you and you said that you cooked scrambled eggs, 74 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:03,880 I was like, "Let's just get married. 75 00:03:03,920 --> 00:03:05,560 "Like, honestly, like, sold." 76 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:08,360 You had me at eggs. Yeah, you had me at eggs, yeah. 77 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:10,920 Do you think over... if I make you an omelette, 78 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,480 we should maybe discuss, 79 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,360 there's a fried chicken place around the corner 80 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:17,400 that I really want to try. 81 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:20,880 But, for others, the search for domestic bliss continues. 82 00:03:20,920 --> 00:03:24,720 You should actually come and learn how to do this, Jack. 83 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:27,400 'Cause, one day, I may be unable to. 84 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:33,080 Confessions Week is a crucial part of the experiment. 85 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,400 We want to develop levels of emotional connection 86 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:36,720 between our couples 87 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:40,200 which would normally take months or even years to create. 88 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:43,520 The vulnerability our couples show in this intense phase 89 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,480 will go a long way to solidifying their bond. 90 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:49,880 And if they're both completely open and honest, 91 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:52,960 the end result will be a greater understanding of one another 92 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,680 and the chance at a lasting connection. 93 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,960 (HIGH-PITCHED HUM) 94 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:02,080 Oh, my goodness! 95 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:03,720 From the moment they first met, 96 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:07,040 Andrea and Richard quickly established themselves 97 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:10,080 as one of the strongest couples in the experiment. 98 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,320 That's very good, look at you go. 99 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:13,480 Have you done this before? 100 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:14,600 Yeah. Oh. 101 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:19,360 I want to come back here for our first anniversary. 102 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:21,720 Do you reckon? Come back here? Yeah. 103 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:23,880 How fun. 104 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,880 However, things changed for Andrea during the photo-ranking task 105 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:37,280 when Richard unexpectedly ranked her third in attractiveness. 106 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,400 Stupid thing, chime! (BOWL RINGS) 107 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:41,680 By just looks, nothing else... Yes? 108 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,240 ..I'm gonna put you over here. 109 00:04:44,280 --> 00:04:46,240 100%. 110 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:48,360 Which is not bad. 111 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:51,520 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 112 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:58,400 After the challenge, I'm not feeling super sparkly at the moment. 113 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:01,160 All of that sort of thing that was rolling really nicely 114 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:03,520 has kind of, just, made a little halt. 115 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:09,120 Like, I always want my man to think I'm awesome, 116 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,600 and I think they're awesome kind of thing, so it's not nice 117 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:15,040 when you kind of get, like, you know, shuffled down a bit. 118 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:18,280 But, realistically... 119 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:23,160 ..I'm not as good-looking as those girls. 120 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,120 I'm 51. 121 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:29,040 But you're more attractive to me than any of them. 122 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:30,200 You got that, yeah? 123 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:32,400 But that's not what... 124 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:34,480 That's not what... 125 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:36,960 ..you put, though. 126 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,360 You know, and that's... I don't want that for you. 127 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:43,120 It bursted my bubble a little bit, just a tiny bit. 128 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:46,720 I'm not as special as I thought I was. 129 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,400 That's how it made me feel. 130 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:50,720 But... 131 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:55,040 Like, I get it and I appreciate your honesty. 132 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:59,400 And, um, yeah, I just have to let that sink in a bit. 133 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:00,560 OK. 134 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:06,840 I didn't realise that I have upset her, 135 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,880 and it makes me feel like a right piece of shit, 136 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:11,280 to be honest with you. 137 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,640 Clearly, it was a bad, poor decision. 138 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,360 I (BLEEP) up. 139 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,560 And we've got so much going for us. 140 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,840 So, I need to fix it. 141 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:22,680 Yeah, shame. 142 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:28,480 As Confessions Week reaches its midway point, 143 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:31,640 Eden and Jayden are yet to speak to each other 144 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:35,040 after Jayden's confronting confessions letter. 145 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:37,680 My ex-girlfriend cheated on me. 146 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:41,000 She was going on dinner dates, movie dates 147 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:44,240 and I even had guys openly admit to me in person 148 00:06:44,280 --> 00:06:45,800 that they had slept with her. 149 00:06:45,840 --> 00:06:48,760 I told her that I was willing to give her another chance. 150 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:52,600 But I'm gonna sleep with her best friend... 151 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,200 ..in front of her while she watches. 152 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:58,360 One of her friends agreed to do it. 153 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:00,760 Do you regret that, though? 154 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:02,080 I don't regret it. 155 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:03,880 OK. 156 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:05,080 Are you right? 157 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,240 Yeah, I just really don't feel like myself today. 158 00:07:07,280 --> 00:07:09,520 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 159 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,920 It is confusing why anyone would do that. 160 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:17,240 An over-the-top kind of revenge reaction, I just don't think 161 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:20,240 it's necessary to upset someone else because you are upset yourself. 162 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:22,560 That kind of just showed 163 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:25,000 that he can't handle his reactions to a situation. 164 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,960 I think telling her that story definitely triggered her, 165 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:29,680 and she might hold it against me. 166 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:33,080 Just, like, I don't know why you'd come up with that as a solution. 167 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:34,920 Like, it just blows my mind. 168 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:35,960 Yeah. 169 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:39,680 But I think the most concerning part for me 170 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:42,040 is when I said to you, "Do you regret it?" 171 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:43,240 And you said, "No." 172 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,640 Like, the act of what happened is twisted, like, it is, 173 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:49,560 but it felt like you were proud of it. 174 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:54,120 I was in a place where I was hurt 175 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:57,120 and, when you give and give and give every chance and you are hopeful... 176 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:59,440 hoping that something's gonna work out, 177 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:01,560 over and over again you keep getting hurt, 178 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:04,200 it pushed me to a place where I was, like, 179 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:06,920 I was really upset to a point where I just didn't know how to handle it. 180 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:10,760 And, unfortunately, I didn't handle things the right way. 181 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:12,480 I just went for something stupid. 182 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:15,400 Yeah, and I think it's good that you're acknowledging that right now 183 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:17,240 but, like, in the heat of the conversation, 184 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:18,600 you couldn't even acknowledge 185 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:20,520 that it wasn't the right thing to do at the time. 186 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:23,280 Which, again, is the thing about reaction. 187 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:24,520 Yeah. 188 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,360 For me, reactions and being irrational 189 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:30,520 is, like, the one thing that I really, really don't like. 190 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:32,560 Mm-hm. And it doesn't work for me. 191 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:34,720 (TENSE MUSIC) 192 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:36,160 At all. So, like... 193 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:40,200 I just need you to be remorseful of things that you want to grow from. 194 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,040 I think, if I was in the same position right now, 195 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:43,120 I wouldn't do it. 196 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:44,400 OK. 197 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:45,520 That's how I think of it. 198 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:49,080 But it is gonna have to be something I have to work on. 199 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:53,040 When things come up that I'm hurt or heartbroken or upset about, 200 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:55,800 I'm gonna have to learn to handle those situations 201 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:58,360 using my head and not my emotions, so I have a lot of learning to do. 202 00:08:58,400 --> 00:08:59,640 Yeah. 203 00:08:59,680 --> 00:09:01,440 That's why we have the experts to teach us. 204 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:02,520 Mm-hm. 205 00:09:02,560 --> 00:09:04,440 I'm hoping that she'll give me the chance 206 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,840 to, sort of, prove to her that I'm a different person, 207 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:08,080 this is a different time, 208 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:11,520 but, honestly, I don't know if she can forgive this. 209 00:09:11,560 --> 00:09:15,520 As I said, if I see the way you react about a decision 210 00:09:15,560 --> 00:09:18,360 that I've made, of course, I'm gonna want to change it. 211 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:20,840 Yeah. 212 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:24,040 I just feel like you're better than that 213 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:25,640 and you need to react better than that. 214 00:09:25,680 --> 00:09:26,680 I'll... 215 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:29,640 I'm going to be. Yeah. 216 00:09:29,680 --> 00:09:31,480 Maybe not yet but I'm going to be. 217 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:32,840 That's good to know. 218 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,520 As well as having tough conversations 219 00:09:39,560 --> 00:09:41,520 during Confessions Week, 220 00:09:41,560 --> 00:09:44,320 our couples must also complete tasks 221 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:48,480 aimed at revealing their genuine feelings towards one another. 222 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:50,200 But, for Collins and Natalie, 223 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:54,160 they've had to navigate this crucial phase of the experiment 224 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:56,120 while living in separate apartments. 225 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:59,520 (SINGS SOFTLY) 226 00:10:03,560 --> 00:10:06,520 (KNOCKING ON DOOR) 227 00:10:06,560 --> 00:10:08,480 # Somewhere 228 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:10,840 # Beyond the... # 229 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:12,760 Hey! How are you going? 230 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:14,000 Morning. Good, yourself? 231 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:15,080 Sorry. Good, good. 232 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:16,160 Just doing my hair. 233 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:18,600 Put it here, good to see you. Hello, good to see you, too. 234 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:22,280 On their wedding day, Natalie was smitten with her new husband. 235 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:25,240 (WILD CHEERS) 236 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:27,120 I do feel a spark with Collins. 237 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:31,480 Every time he touches me, I just go, "Oh, this is nice, this is so nice." 238 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:33,320 Shall we walk? Yeah, we walk, I guess! 239 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:34,760 Put it here, mate! 240 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:39,400 However, Collins' initial feelings for Natalie weren't quite clear. 241 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:41,520 That's a good lady. 242 00:10:41,560 --> 00:10:43,080 That's a really, really good lady. 243 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:47,800 Oh, Nicky, of course. 244 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:49,720 Are you looking after my girl? 245 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:51,320 Yeah, God, yeah, yes. 246 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:52,720 (LAUGHTER) 247 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:57,680 And after seeing how close the other couples were at the dinner party... 248 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:00,840 I just don't think I can push myself through this. 249 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,680 ..Natalie decided to make an early exit. 250 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:05,480 Whatever makes you happy. 251 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:08,400 Loving husband. 252 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:11,720 I just wanted to come and say goodbye. 253 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:13,720 (GASPS OF ASTONISHMENT) 254 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:16,040 Oh, my God! 255 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:20,120 That's goodbye for me, too. 256 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:21,520 Whoa! 257 00:11:21,560 --> 00:11:23,000 Can we say goodbye? 258 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:26,240 But, after having decided to stay in the experiment, 259 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:29,240 the experts are fast-tracking their relationship, 260 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:32,280 asking them to take on the photo-ranking task. 261 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:34,960 This exercise may be confronting and uncomfortable, 262 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:37,920 but it'll give you a better understanding of one another 263 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,440 at this early stage of the experiment. 264 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:42,120 There you go. Yeah. 265 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:43,360 Oh, easy. 266 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:44,520 Easy? 267 00:11:44,560 --> 00:11:46,440 I'm glad that we finally get to address 268 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:50,120 the physical attraction side of Collins and I 269 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:53,080 because we haven't really been able to speak about it 270 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:55,400 and speak about it in detail. 271 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:58,440 Alright, let's go. 272 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:00,840 So, I'm really happy that this is going to force him 273 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:02,480 to say how he feels, 274 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:07,240 and how he feels in terms of his level of attraction to me. 275 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:09,200 Lauren! 276 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,080 Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 277 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:14,880 Who else have we got? 278 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:17,400 We'll put this... which one is this lady? 279 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:19,280 Sara. Sara. 280 00:12:21,560 --> 00:12:24,160 There you go, Sara, very nice. 281 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:28,200 Uh... Ooh, Casey, I think her name is. 282 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:29,440 Cass. Cass. 283 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:32,000 Cass is very nice. 284 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,760 Then Eveden. Eden. 285 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:35,920 Very nice. 286 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:43,920 Um, and then, for me, this lady, what's...? 287 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:45,480 Ellie. Ellie. 288 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:46,600 Hm. 289 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:48,800 Yeah, I'm happy with that. 290 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:56,240 The brides, they're all very physically fit and, traditionally, 291 00:12:56,280 --> 00:13:02,240 very good-looking, and I'm not, you know, that athletic kind of look. 292 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:03,560 Yeah. 293 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:08,440 Do you have any insecurities at all 294 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:11,520 that you think will come out during the experiment? 295 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:13,600 Um... 296 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:20,760 I'm not the typical bleached-blonde Bondi babe. 297 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:22,200 Uh-huh, uh-huh. 298 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:26,160 I kind of had that sense of, "Am I pretty?" 299 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:30,400 But then I love who I am inside. 300 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:31,520 I like that. 301 00:13:31,560 --> 00:13:35,280 So, what does that actually look like, practically, 302 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:36,760 from the guy that you're with? 303 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:41,360 I just want someone who accepts me for me and is true to themselves, 304 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:46,120 and isn't putting all these shields up, and someone who's genuine. 305 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:50,720 Alright, Collins, you happy to rank me? 306 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:51,880 Absolutely. 307 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:56,200 This is pretty straight-forward, as I've said. 308 00:13:59,920 --> 00:14:01,880 As I said, from day dot, when I turned around, 309 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:04,920 I saw someone who was just, like, beaming, glowing. 310 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:09,000 The best way I know is to smile with your eyes. 311 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:12,360 I look like, yeah, I'm about to cry in that photo but anyway. 312 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:14,200 (BOTH LAUGH) 313 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:16,880 I do doubt what he says at times. 314 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:21,240 He starts to do that surface-level performance. 315 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:22,440 Yeah! 316 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:24,400 And he ranks me higher than, 317 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:28,240 look, just women like Eden and Cass and Tori. 318 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:31,880 I felt like it was just an easy answer. 319 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:43,160 You know, you've ranked physical fitness and good looks together, 320 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:44,480 so I just wanted to... 321 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:47,600 Yeah, all three of those work... kind of go hand-in-hand. 322 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:48,880 You're living a healthy lifestyle, 323 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:51,800 you're doing physical exercise, I think you're gonna look good. 324 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:52,840 Yeah. 325 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:54,400 Which...exactly. Yeah. 326 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:56,120 Do you not think you live a healthy lifestyle? 327 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:57,600 I do, I do. Yeah. 328 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:00,360 I'm just not as physically fit as some of the other girls. 329 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,440 That's what you're saying but I don't see it that way. 330 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:05,400 I really do, hence why you're number one. 331 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:07,240 (TENSE MUSIC) 332 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:09,560 That's just a very, very good-looking lady. 333 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:12,960 Yeah. 334 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,240 Yeah. Yeah! 335 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:19,640 If all the girls lined up, I would 100% still pick Nat, definitely, 336 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:21,480 even in that photo. 337 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:23,520 I would. 338 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:28,360 Because she's a very gorgeous girl, very gorgeous-looking girl, lady. 339 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:30,760 Hair, I'm into the hair. 340 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:32,080 Your hair's on point. 341 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,280 It's just real, honest. 342 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,960 It feels good to know that I find her really attractive. 343 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:42,120 (UNNERVING PIANO MUSIC) 344 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:51,080 (LIVELY MUSIC) 345 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:55,840 After realising he'd upset Andrea during the photo-ranking task... 346 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:58,240 (MASSAGER WHIRRS) 347 00:15:58,280 --> 00:15:59,400 Breathe in deeply. 348 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:01,360 Ah... 349 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:05,000 ..Richard is trying hard to repair their relationship. 350 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:06,360 I tell you what, 351 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:09,480 if you want anything in the world, all you have to do is massage me. 352 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:14,920 The ranking of number three based on looks was pretty woeful, 353 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:19,560 so I'm going to make sure she feels special all the time. 354 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:21,080 Is that it? Mm-hm. 355 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,000 Hit the spot? Ya. 356 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:26,000 Massage is my love language. 357 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:27,480 Really deep. 358 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:32,800 So, I appreciate his trying, and I know he cares about me. 359 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,080 Oh! 360 00:16:35,120 --> 00:16:36,960 You right? Oh, so good, thank you. 361 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:38,760 On your head? 362 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:41,280 As Confessions Week continues, 363 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,120 it's Ellie and Ben's turn to take on the next task. 364 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:45,680 Oh! 365 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,360 I guess we'll open this one first. 366 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,160 (ELLIE SQUEALS) 367 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,200 So, the alignment of values 368 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:53,960 is one of the most critical components 369 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:55,520 of any successful relationship. 370 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:59,880 Inside this envelope are 12 key traits that you must place in order 371 00:16:59,920 --> 00:17:01,880 from most important to least important. 372 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:03,520 Yeah, I can't wait to see what they are. 373 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:07,840 The values-ranking task will help our couples identify 374 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,920 whether their core values align or differ. 375 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:14,200 Universally, intelligence, personality and a sense of humour 376 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:17,800 tend to be the most desirable traits in a life partner. 377 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:20,080 Testing whether these key values are similar 378 00:17:20,120 --> 00:17:24,600 is crucial to assessing the chances as a couple in the outside world. 379 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:26,320 I'm pretty excited to do this one. 380 00:17:26,360 --> 00:17:30,160 Like, I feel that, from what I've gathered from you so far, 381 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:31,360 like, the information, 382 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:34,200 that we kind of have, like, the same values and morals. 383 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:42,000 From the moment they met, Ellie and Ben seemed like the perfect match. 384 00:17:43,120 --> 00:17:44,520 Wow! 385 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:45,720 Hi! 386 00:17:47,360 --> 00:17:49,680 He just seemed so lovely standing there, 387 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:52,400 like, looked into my eyes, like, this is great, 388 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:54,760 and I just feel like the experts, like, did such a great job. 389 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:56,000 (CHUCKLES) 390 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:57,920 Holy shit, she's beautiful. 391 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:00,800 Despite their immediate chemistry, 392 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:03,720 Ben's motivation for being in the experiment 393 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:07,200 was soon brought into question by Ellie's cousin, Jordan. 394 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:09,040 I'm just gonna be completely frank with you. 395 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:11,240 I have concerns that you might be here 396 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:15,600 to promote your touring business, promote your podcast. 397 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:17,600 You're just here for fame. 398 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:23,440 But, despite some early doubts, the experts hope that the values task 399 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:28,000 will highlight the possibility of a shared future for Ellie and Ben. 400 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:30,360 (GENTLE MUSIC) 401 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:33,840 From what I recall Ben was saying, you know, he said he's 39, 402 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:36,800 he really is looking to settle down and have...start a family, 403 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:39,520 and I'm very much at that stage, as well. 404 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:46,080 How important is it for you to become a mum? 405 00:18:46,120 --> 00:18:48,600 Definitely see myself becoming a mother. 406 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:53,440 But I...like, I have to find the right guy to do that with. 407 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:56,920 Like, yeah, I wouldn't rush into anything 408 00:18:56,960 --> 00:19:00,240 but I...yeah, I've got a bloody clock, like... 409 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:01,920 Yeah. Yeah. 410 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:03,320 You can hear it ticking? 411 00:19:03,360 --> 00:19:04,880 Tick, tick. Uh-huh. 412 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:07,320 But I want to be in a loving relationship 413 00:19:07,360 --> 00:19:09,360 rather than just finding someone to have children with 414 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:10,400 for the sake of it. 415 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:11,520 Yeah. 416 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:12,640 I want a partner-in-crime, 417 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:15,640 and someone to do life with and have fun with. 418 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:19,360 And then it's nice to know if we're also on the same page. 419 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:21,080 Yeah. 420 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:28,200 I put family-orientated first, wants children, like, must. 421 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:31,120 Yeah, I know pretty much, like, what my values are, 422 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:34,520 and what I want at this stage in my life, anyway, so... 423 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:37,840 Cool. 424 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:39,280 Your turn. My turn. 425 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:42,360 Values are really important in any relationship, 426 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:45,760 but I also think values and beliefs do change over time. 427 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:47,480 Well, they certainly do for me. 428 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:50,360 (CONTEMPLATIVE MUSIC) 429 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:53,880 Number one - chinwag, having a great conversation. 430 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:55,240 You gotta be with your bestie, 431 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:57,600 you think, forever and ever until the end of time. 432 00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:01,440 Maintaining good vibes with a healthy lifestyle is very important. 433 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:03,280 Financial stability. 434 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:04,520 Good looks. 435 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:05,720 Has money. 436 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:08,760 To be honest, when he started putting them up, 437 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:15,160 like, healthy lifestyle, fitness, I was like, "OK, great. 438 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:16,560 "When is that family one coming?" 439 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:18,120 Good in bed. 440 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:21,240 Physical fitness. 441 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:23,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC BUILDS) 442 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:25,640 Family oriented, wants children. 443 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:27,800 Oh, my... OK, wow. 444 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,360 Ooh, wow, yeah. 445 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,160 (STORMY MUSIC) 446 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,040 Yeah, I'm surprised with the family-orientated thing 447 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:39,200 because that's number one for me. 448 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:45,120 I am very open to being with someone who does not want to have children. 449 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 450 00:20:47,120 --> 00:20:50,720 I'm also very much open to the possibility of having a family, 451 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:52,080 and having kids. 452 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:54,480 But it's not, 453 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:57,720 "Well, I'll have children with anybody, don't care," you know? 454 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,000 I don't want to have children with anyone, like, either. 455 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:02,080 Well, how many people in society do these days? 456 00:21:02,120 --> 00:21:03,160 A lot. 457 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,000 "Oh, there's a man with a job." And they get divorced. 458 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:06,600 "He's got all his teeth. That'll do." 459 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:07,800 They settle. 460 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,240 I'm not just gonna have children for the sake of it 461 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:14,080 because of my body clock, no way. 462 00:21:14,120 --> 00:21:16,760 So, how do you feel about me with the idea, possibility 463 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:17,960 of not doing it? 464 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,000 Well, then... 465 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:22,600 I've been open to that. 466 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:24,960 So, if I would've met you in a pub, go, "Hey, how you doing? 467 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,040 "Do you want to have kids?" 468 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,520 I said, "I'm open to not having kids," you would probably walk. 469 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 470 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:34,120 I feel like you're not understanding this at all. 471 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,400 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 472 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:38,720 I'm not sure why you're upset. 473 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:42,560 I just... I'm sorry, I'm actually... 474 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:45,840 I'm feeling like you're not listening to me. 475 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,680 I understand you're a very sensitive woman. 476 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,880 (TENSE MUSIC RACES) 477 00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,160 You know, I'm putting my heart and soul into 478 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,720 explaining that, like, I want a family 479 00:21:57,760 --> 00:21:59,600 but, like, I'm not gonna have children just for the sake 480 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,080 of having children, I've said this multiple times, and, 481 00:22:02,120 --> 00:22:05,800 like, if he says, "No, I don't want children," then I'm out, like... 482 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:10,400 Obviously, say you said to me, "I never want to have children," 483 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:13,200 then it wouldn't work because I want to have children in the future. 484 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:18,960 But you've told me that you are open to having children and also open 485 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,720 to not having children, but you've met me right now, we're married. 486 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:22,960 Right. 487 00:22:24,360 --> 00:22:26,640 I would want children. Would you be happy with that? 488 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,000 Yeah. Yeah. 489 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:29,920 Like I said, I'm open to that. 490 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:34,760 Obviously, Ellie has a sensitive soul and this is a sensitive topic, 491 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:38,120 you know, and that possibly really struck a nerve. 492 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:40,280 It makes sense. 493 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:42,640 She just wants to be a mum. 494 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:44,880 It's very common. 495 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,240 (TENSE MUSIC RACES) 496 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,680 Kids are very important for females, I understand. 497 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:00,760 (UPLIFTING MUSIC) 498 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:04,320 Confessions Week is our couples' first chance to live together 499 00:23:04,360 --> 00:23:06,160 and start creating a home. 500 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:09,680 But, for Lucinda and Timothy, 501 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:14,880 sharing a home and being open and honest has tested Timothy this week. 502 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:18,920 I'm just so excited to do this with you. 503 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:19,960 Yeah. 504 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,240 Can you see it? Yes! 505 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:25,360 Shit. 506 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:28,760 Do you have any boundaries in sex? 507 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:33,880 Anywhere that a doctor, you know, really says, "Just relax," 508 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,320 most probably out of bounds, you know? 509 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,280 Oh. 510 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:43,000 So, you're saying, like, anal is out of bounds, for example? 511 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:46,240 Yeah. OK. That's a fair call. 512 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,680 (GENTLE MUSIC) 513 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:54,040 Oh! 514 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:55,800 Hello. G'day. 515 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:57,080 How you doin'? Aw. 516 00:23:57,120 --> 00:23:58,600 I got you flowers. 517 00:23:58,640 --> 00:23:59,800 You're such a sweetheart. 518 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:02,280 They're beautiful. 519 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:05,800 Not only has Timothy brought flowers for his new wife, 520 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:10,360 he has also brought with him an envelope containing the values task. 521 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,720 OK, you write yours down first. 522 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:19,720 Definitely number one would be good conversation. 523 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:24,440 I want to be able to banter with my person in this lifetime. 524 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:25,640 OK. 525 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,760 Let's see what I've got. Ready? 526 00:24:30,120 --> 00:24:31,760 Bang. Hey! 527 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:32,960 Good conversation. 528 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:34,160 Huh? Hey. 529 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,040 There's a lot of loveliness about Tim. 530 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:41,920 He makes me laugh, I enjoy his company 531 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,440 and I know he likes me, 532 00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:46,600 and there's no-one that I would prefer to be with other than him, 533 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:50,000 and, you know, I do get that he's a slow burn. 534 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,440 The biggest... 535 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:56,840 The biggest gap. 536 00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:59,360 Wow, good in bed. 537 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:01,640 It's right down the bottom for you, isn't it? 538 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:07,160 Look, it's...it's... You know? Ye... 539 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,720 (LIGHT-HEARTED MUSIC) 540 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:10,840 I don't know. 541 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:13,560 She's a lot more advanced than I am. 542 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:15,720 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 543 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,240 I mean, Jesus Christ, she asked me this morning, 544 00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:21,480 "Are you keen to go to a 4-day tantra sex festival 545 00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:22,880 "up in the mountains?" 546 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,640 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 547 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,360 No, I'm not keen to go. 548 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,240 So, I don't want to walk around with hippies in the bush 549 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,800 with my balls hanging out, call me old-fashioned. 550 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:37,520 Are you a sexual being? 551 00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,400 Not...not necessarily. OK. 552 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:44,400 That's all I was curious about. Yeah. 553 00:25:46,360 --> 00:25:50,280 Cool. Well, thank you for sharing so honestly. 554 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:54,920 While Confessions Week 555 00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:57,920 helps our couples gain a better understanding of one another... 556 00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,880 Financial stability in my man's a nice thing 557 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:04,080 because I've been with people that weren't and that's not fun. 558 00:26:04,120 --> 00:26:05,120 Yep. 559 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,720 I'm not...no sugar mama. 560 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,400 If you don't know how to spend it wisely... 561 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,160 Yeah. 562 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:19,680 For Cassandra and Tristan, their relationship has progressed slowly, 563 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:23,160 even though they were smitten when they first met. 564 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:27,400 (UPLIFTING MUSIC SOARS) 565 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,040 Oh, you... 566 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:31,720 You look stunning. 567 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:33,680 Thank you. 568 00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:39,160 He's got these lovely eyes and such a fond smile. 569 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:45,080 I am drawn to him because he's so warm-hearted, so funny. 570 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:47,160 And, on the honeymoon, 571 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,800 there were small steps taken towards building a connection. 572 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:52,240 (LIGHT PIANO MUSIC) 573 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,560 Um, I was... 574 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:56,240 (BREATHES THROUGH TEETH) 575 00:26:56,280 --> 00:27:02,520 ..maybe wondering after dinner if I could give you a goodnight kiss. 576 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,320 Oh! Yeah! 577 00:27:04,360 --> 00:27:06,120 Like, that just freaked me out. 578 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:08,960 Oh. That's so swe... 579 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:11,960 Don't hide. That's really sweet. 580 00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:16,960 But, due to Tristan's lack of relationship experience, 581 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:20,120 the progress that new bride Cassandra had hoped to make 582 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:23,040 with her husband has so far eluded them, 583 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:27,240 and she is worried about her husband's ability to show affection. 584 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:34,920 I was just thinking, yeah, about how fast our relationship is progressing 585 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:38,440 and I know that we're just on our own pace and everything takes time. 586 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,520 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 587 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,600 I thought we were moving pretty fast, well and truly. 588 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,000 Are we not moving fast? No, no, we're moving great. 589 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,200 But we obviously haven't kissed. 590 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:51,600 You're gonna have to make a move 591 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,680 'cause I haven't had a girlfriend in, like, seven years. 592 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:55,320 I'm still trying to figure this shit out. 593 00:27:55,360 --> 00:27:56,440 Like... 594 00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,960 I just was pointing out 595 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:05,480 that it would be nice if we were further ahead in physical touch 596 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:09,920 and affection, and now we're just kind of in this weird space. 597 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:11,440 He is my husband. 598 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:14,480 I would like him to kiss me. 599 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:17,320 But he's definitely just... 600 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:24,160 He's said it's all on you to make a move because his lack of experience. 601 00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:25,960 I'm like, cool - cool, cool, cool. 602 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:30,200 Weird. 603 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:32,160 We'll try again. 604 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,040 To get a better understanding of one another, 605 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,840 the experts have asked Cassandra and Tristan 606 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,440 to take on the confessions letter task. 607 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,080 JOHN: The letter-writing task 608 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:47,320 is a test of our couples' ability to be open with their communication. 609 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:52,080 It also examines how well they listen, 610 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:56,440 and their capacity to empathise with what their partner is telling them. 611 00:28:58,400 --> 00:28:59,640 What I'm talking about today 612 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,720 is the reasons why I won't make the first move. 613 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:04,640 I didn't know that was an issue for her. 614 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,720 Like, I don't want her to feel upset. 615 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:08,920 So, hopefully, it'll give her a bit of clarity 616 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:10,960 of why I struggle with it and, obviously, weird dude. 617 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:13,760 I don't like doing this, right? 618 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,080 This is me being vulnerable. 619 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:16,200 I'm, like, not happy about it. 620 00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:17,240 Like, I have to do it, though, 621 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:18,640 'cause I know it's something to move on 622 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,320 and hopefully will give her clarity and understanding of it 623 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,520 or I'll just lose it - one of the two. 624 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,200 This was really hard for me to write. 625 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:28,360 I need you to understand, 626 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,400 this has affected my life for the last 30 years. 627 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,760 I'd love to share with you why I struggle to make the first move. 628 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:38,200 Through our journey so far, 629 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,320 you understand I was very overweight during school. 630 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:43,600 Like, I'd always be kind of self-conscious. 631 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,400 I'd, like, never think I'm really good enough. 632 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:47,880 It affects me in, like, everyday life. 633 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:49,720 Like, it used to affect me going to the beach. 634 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,840 I could only ever go to private beaches when no-one else was around. 635 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,240 (SOFT PIANO MUSIC) 636 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:56,800 Meeting girls was very hard. 637 00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,400 For a long time I always thought that, like, 638 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,000 the only way a girl would love me is if I had a six-pack. 639 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:04,800 When I would approach them or ask them out, 640 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,160 they would reject me and also they'd laugh and make fun of me. 641 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,080 Um, it wasn't rejection, it was the fact that they laughed at me 642 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,160 and made fun of me that just made me feel worthless. 643 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,360 (POIGNANT PIANO MUSIC) 644 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:18,560 Why is it...? 645 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,160 Like, why does it always have to be a big deal for to ask someone out? 646 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:22,880 Or why have I been single for seven years, you know? 647 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,040 Or why do people choose my mates over me, you know? 648 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:26,480 It's kind of like that kind of stuff. 649 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,560 I'm like, "What's really wrong with me?" I guess. 650 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,120 What do you see when you look in the mirror? 651 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,560 I don't know, this ugly, chubby-ass dude, I guess, sorry for swearing. 652 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:36,080 That's OK. Yeah. 653 00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:37,160 So...yeah. 654 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:39,720 That's not what I see. 655 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:41,880 I know, but I used to be 656 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:43,760 a really overweight kid when I was a lot younger. 657 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:44,880 OK. 658 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,160 And I was laughed at and made fun of for being, like, fat or ugly, 659 00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,880 and that, kind of, never really, kind of, leaves ya, I guess. 660 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:51,960 Right. 661 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:54,520 (GENTLE MUSIC) 662 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:57,040 There has been a lot of times during the experiment 663 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,120 I have wanted to lean over and kiss you. 664 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:03,160 The thought that you aren't attracted to me scares me. 665 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:05,480 This is why I haven't tried to kiss you. 666 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:06,840 I really care about you, 667 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,200 and I don't want the fear to ruin a potential relationship with you. 668 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:12,840 Oh, Trist. 669 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,200 If that makes a bit of sense. 670 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,680 That does make so much more sense. 671 00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:21,080 Beautiful letter, Trist. 672 00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:25,560 Thank you so much for trusting me and telling me that. 673 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,760 Finally, I understand where he's coming from, 674 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,440 why his actions are the way they are. 675 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,640 This is why I struggle to do things first. 676 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:34,920 Yeah. Yeah. 677 00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,840 I want you to know I'll never laugh at you. 678 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,400 I hope not, that'd be so mean. 679 00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:41,160 I'll always laugh with you. 680 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,920 And I am attracted to you, right, 681 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:51,720 and those girls didn't see who you are like I see you the way you are. 682 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,160 I think you're beautiful and I've already told you this, 683 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:58,360 and I'll keep telling you this until it sinks in. 684 00:31:58,400 --> 00:31:59,640 Thank you. 685 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,200 I think we've definitely made progress. 686 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:06,480 When I first did this experiment, 687 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,000 I always made a promise with myself that I'd be 100% open and honest 688 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:11,720 and do this stuff, so I'm not gonna break that promise. 689 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,480 Hug it out, as we normally do. 690 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,120 Hug it out. Yeah. 691 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:17,440 To me or Cass. 692 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,880 Coming up, can Tristan make the first move? 693 00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:24,680 You know when you kiss someone or whatever, 694 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,360 there's always, like, a bit of a spark? 695 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:27,400 Yeah. 696 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,840 If we don't have that, then how do we move from there? 697 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:34,000 Then, Lucinda grills her husband, Timothy. 698 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:37,600 What are you doing to build romance and connection with me? 699 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:41,280 Tim's trust issues are put to the test 700 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:43,720 with the arrival of the phone-swap task. 701 00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:45,080 So, what do you want to do? 702 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:48,720 I'm happy to share everything. 703 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,080 And later, Jack takes on the photo-ranking task. 704 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:56,320 Um, so, these are both dark-haired and they're in my top three. 705 00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:57,440 Mm. 706 00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:58,920 So, I am a brunette guy. 707 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:01,240 (DISQUIETING MUSIC) 708 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:10,040 (GENTLY LILTING MUSIC) 709 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,960 As another day of Confessions Week comes to an end, 710 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,640 our couples are winding down for the evening. 711 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,400 Whoa, mate. Get in, mate. 712 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:22,280 Oh, (BLEEP). 713 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,520 Someone's gotta make sure this place stays tidy. 714 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:26,920 Daddy's home. 715 00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:29,360 Oh, your favourite bit of the day. 716 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,600 (BOTH CHUCKLE) 717 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:34,160 But, for Timothy, this current dynamic 718 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:38,280 in his new living arrangement reminds him of his life back home. 719 00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,080 (BLOWS RASPBERRY) 720 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:46,920 Um, I love Matilda with everything in me. 721 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:48,520 Your 4-legged dog. 722 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:51,360 When I walk in the door, 723 00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,040 Matilda's going ape-shit just right up in my grill. 724 00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:57,440 And it's like, "Just give me five minutes, Matilda." 725 00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,280 (UPLIFTING MUSIC SOARS) 726 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,080 (MUSIC ENDS ABRUPTLY) You're so needy. 727 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:05,800 Oh! 728 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:07,640 How much closer can you get? 729 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,200 Um, yeah. 730 00:34:11,240 --> 00:34:13,960 It just doesn't matter where I go in the apartment, she's there. 731 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:16,240 Um... And you think that I'm like that? 732 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:17,560 Well, I'm just...you know? 733 00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:19,680 You compare me with Matilda 734 00:34:19,720 --> 00:34:22,640 because she doesn't leave you alone, and she's very affectionate. 735 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:24,520 She's very affectionate. She adores you. 736 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:25,960 She does. 737 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,480 Lucky you. 738 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,400 (TIMOTHY CHUCKLES) 739 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:33,680 As they get ready for bed, 740 00:34:33,720 --> 00:34:37,920 Lucinda has taken Timothy's request on board and is making sure 741 00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:41,440 he has the space and comfort needed for a good night's sleep. 742 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,640 Do you want to get it all in? 743 00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:45,680 Here we go, let's... 744 00:34:46,240 --> 00:34:48,560 Wedge one there, there you go. 745 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:51,200 Let's get you really... 746 00:34:51,240 --> 00:34:53,440 It's not like that! ..safe. 747 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:55,880 (PLAYFUL MUSIC) 748 00:34:55,920 --> 00:35:01,760 Obviously, there's so many walls and a massive shell there tonight. 749 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:04,800 I just had a saying on the top of my head. 750 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:08,760 Uh, absence makes the heart grow fonder, you know? 751 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:09,880 Alright. 752 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:11,920 I'm gonna roll over you, is that alright? 753 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:13,560 Yeah, yeah, go for it. 754 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,800 It's commando. 755 00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:17,200 And I've gotta be careful 756 00:35:17,240 --> 00:35:20,280 'cause I can be cheeky and poke him a bit, and, um, 757 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:23,600 you know, I don't want to poke him away, you know, too far gone. 758 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,200 Can...can we have a little cuddle? 759 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,440 I thought that's what we just did. 760 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:29,920 Oh, yeah. 761 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:34,200 So, yeah, I just gotta keep, sort of, pulling him in 762 00:35:34,240 --> 00:35:37,560 in all the gentle ways that aren't too overwhelming at this point. 763 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:40,000 (MUSIC ENDS) 764 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:41,240 (LIGHT SWITCHES CLICK) 765 00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,760 (BOTH LAUGH) 766 00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:46,680 Which...? Hang on, wait. 767 00:35:47,720 --> 00:35:49,200 Hang on, just hit... 768 00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:51,160 I'm hopeful. 769 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:53,800 Just hit one of your lights. 770 00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:55,280 Hang on a sec. 771 00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:57,360 OK. 772 00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:00,760 (LUCINDA LAUGHS, TIMOTHY CHUCKLES LIGHTLY) 773 00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:07,680 (UPLIFTING MUSIC) 774 00:36:09,240 --> 00:36:11,680 It's the last day of Confessions Week, 775 00:36:11,720 --> 00:36:15,160 and our couples' hard work has caused their connections to grow. 776 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:17,480 Thank you. Thank you. 777 00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:18,800 (SOFT MOAN) 778 00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:22,360 After an emotional confessions letter task, 779 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,120 Cassandra and Tristan are taking a break outside. 780 00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:26,400 Oh, it's so lovely. I know. 781 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:27,520 This is what it feels like... 782 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,120 See, this is what Sydney... 783 00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:32,440 this is what Sydney's like when it's not raining, you know? 784 00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:36,560 But this week's confronting tasks have been effective 785 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,000 as the raw honesty that was revealed 786 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:42,600 has given Cassandra a deeper understanding of Tristan. 787 00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:45,120 After Tristan's confession letter, 788 00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:47,840 I feel like I understand who Tristan is 789 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:49,840 and why he's not more affectionate. 790 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,960 I feel so, like, grateful, honoured 791 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,080 that you trust me enough to share that with me, 792 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,080 and I might not be able to put it into words 793 00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:01,400 as you were so great with your words, but I heard every word of it. 794 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,400 'Cause, like, I've never told anyone that, you know, so... 795 00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:07,480 Look, we're married, we're adults. 796 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,720 I think we both would like the affection side, 797 00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:13,120 and we're just trying to move forward 798 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,800 and get there and just make it happen. 799 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,680 The only concern is... I do have a concern. 800 00:37:19,720 --> 00:37:21,320 You know when you kiss someone or whatever, 801 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,320 there's always, like, a bit of a spark? 802 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:24,360 Yeah. 803 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:26,200 I'm nervous that, once we actually do it, and probably 804 00:37:26,240 --> 00:37:28,480 could be part of the reason I maybe held back and not doing it. 805 00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:31,280 But, like, that, if we don't have that, 806 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:32,720 then how do we move from there? 807 00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:35,160 But that's the only thing I'm a bit nervous about, that, if we do kiss, 808 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:36,240 that we'll end up just... 809 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,200 You know, you might feel the same or it just might, like... 810 00:37:38,240 --> 00:37:41,640 Or it could be amazing. Or it could be amazing, you know? 811 00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:46,400 He's naturally a negative thinker and I'm a positive thinker, 812 00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:52,360 so I'm trying to help him shift to view it from my point of view 813 00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:53,840 'cause he's in his own head. 814 00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:59,600 So, no more of thinking, we're just gonna keep being Cass and Tristan. 815 00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:00,680 We'll be right. 816 00:38:00,720 --> 00:38:02,600 Well, we can do something 817 00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:05,040 just like what I've just figured out what to do now. 818 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:06,640 Trist? 819 00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:09,960 A flower for my flower. 820 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:11,920 You know? Oh, very nice. 821 00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:13,200 Here you go, honey. 822 00:38:13,240 --> 00:38:16,120 I'm not sure if I was allowed to do that, so maybe just don't... 823 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:17,800 There you go. That's beautiful. 824 00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:19,120 I care about you. Thank you. 825 00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:20,360 Could've just done it just then. 826 00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,320 (BLEEP) that up. 827 00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,520 She went for a kiss and then, as per usual, I (BLEEP) that up. 828 00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:26,280 It looks pretty, lovely. 829 00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:27,320 It looks pretty. 830 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:30,400 See? Done! 831 00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,520 Look at that! Look at that! 832 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:33,840 Just like that. 833 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,320 All that talking and we just nailed it, you know? 834 00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:37,560 You're terrible. 835 00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,320 We killed it, we killed it, we killed it. 836 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:41,360 Tristan made the first move! 837 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:42,400 And you're a good kisser. 838 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:44,640 Ahem? 839 00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:46,800 Sorry, sorry, I'm just... Ahem? 840 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:48,520 I was worried I was gonna have to do it 841 00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:53,720 but he kissed me in so... in the best Tristany way possible. 842 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:55,640 Oh! 843 00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,320 Beautiful, Tristan. Very smooth. I'm all giggly. 844 00:38:58,360 --> 00:38:59,840 Oh! 845 00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:04,280 I kissed her so, yeah, there was a bit of a spark there. 846 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:05,520 Yeah, it's good to go. 847 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,120 Should've known, like... 848 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:09,080 As you see, my voice gets real high. 849 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,000 Are you alive? 850 00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:12,160 Yeah. 851 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:13,520 You've just knocked me off my feet. 852 00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:15,440 Oh! (BOTH LAUGH) 853 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:18,120 I found a new way to keep Tristan quiet. 854 00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,320 Your wife is happy. Wife is happy. 855 00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:23,680 Sweet, that's my number-one rule. 856 00:39:23,720 --> 00:39:26,680 Said it from the start - happy wife, happy life. 857 00:39:26,720 --> 00:39:28,560 That was perfect. Oh! 858 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,120 It was perfect. 859 00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:35,720 Coming up, Lucinda and Timothy fall further out of sync. 860 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:37,320 Just give it some time. 861 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:40,560 Yeah, but you just don't like cuddles or touch at all. 862 00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:42,960 Like, what...time for what? 863 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:44,280 I don't (BLEEP) know. 864 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:45,680 Maybe you'll get used to it. 865 00:39:45,720 --> 00:39:49,920 And Sara and Tim take on the phone-swap task. 866 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:53,800 I haven't given you a reason not to trust me, so what's the point? 867 00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:55,320 And later, 868 00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:59,200 Jack ranks his wife, Tori, on her level of attractiveness. 869 00:39:59,240 --> 00:40:01,360 Looks are very important to me. 870 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:03,240 So, you're on par with a couple of other ladies. 871 00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:06,320 (FROSTY MUSIC) 872 00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:14,800 As another day of Confessions Week continues, 873 00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:19,360 it's Lauren and Jonathan's turn to take on the photo-ranking task. 874 00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:21,160 Here we go. 875 00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:26,480 All the lads. 876 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:29,360 Alrighty, OK, OK. 877 00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,960 Alright, this is gonna be actually so easy for me. 878 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:37,080 So, we'll go with my mate, Tim. 879 00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:38,800 We love us some Tim. 880 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,680 Oh, I think Collins is gorge. 881 00:40:42,720 --> 00:40:44,280 We'll do Collins. 882 00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:47,120 Yep, OK. 883 00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:53,720 Well, I mean, Jayden has the most (BLEEP) immaculate head of hair 884 00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:55,440 I've ever seen in my life, so... 885 00:40:56,920 --> 00:41:00,600 I mean, this challenge is obviously (BLEEP) brutal. 886 00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:02,880 I think he's gonna struggle with it 'cause he's so nice. 887 00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:04,840 He's old enough to be my grandad. 888 00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,800 But I'm a savage, so I'm feeling good. 889 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:10,200 OK. 890 00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:14,080 And then which out of these two (BLEEP)heads am I gonna put last? 891 00:41:16,720 --> 00:41:19,760 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 892 00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:22,720 I put Ben last because I just think he's full of shit. 893 00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:26,320 Like, I don't believe anything he says when he speaks. 894 00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,480 I just think that he's just, like, here for attention. 895 00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:33,680 And then, um, Jack just because, like, I'm just not, like, 896 00:41:33,720 --> 00:41:37,240 attracted to him, physically, like, at all and his pants are too tight. 897 00:41:39,720 --> 00:41:41,400 Ergh! 898 00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:43,800 It stresses me out so badly. 899 00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:46,800 OK, so... 900 00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:52,040 I'd say, like, Lucinda's really lovely. 901 00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:53,360 Um... 902 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,240 Ellie is super lovely, as well. 903 00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,800 Tori is absolutely lovely. 904 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,360 (PLAYFUL MUSIC) 905 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,000 But she's just lovely. 906 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,720 She's a lovely...lovely lady. 907 00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:06,720 Um, OK. 908 00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,200 They're both so lovely. 909 00:42:10,240 --> 00:42:11,960 Um... 910 00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,040 Oh! "She's so lovely". 911 00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:15,760 Like... 912 00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:19,600 Cass is just, like, the most lovely person in the world. 913 00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:21,520 I'm like, what is this guy talking about? 914 00:42:22,720 --> 00:42:24,080 Who do you think's hot, though? 915 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,960 Ellie's really lovely. 916 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,640 And she's got massive titties and I know you're a titty man. 917 00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:31,080 (BOTH LAUGH) 918 00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:33,960 I really like Eden. 919 00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:37,640 Every time I've talked to her, she's been absolutely lovely. 920 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:39,320 (MUSIC ENDS, SHARP INHALE) 921 00:42:40,720 --> 00:42:44,200 I've got to talk to both Eden and Ellie a bit, 922 00:42:44,240 --> 00:42:46,920 and they were just absolutely lovely and they're very beautiful. 923 00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,120 Can you use a different adjective than lovely? 924 00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:50,440 Um... 925 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:53,120 Yeah. 926 00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:55,600 They both have beautiful eyes. 927 00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:57,520 OK. 928 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,240 OK, should we chuck each other up? 929 00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:01,640 Yeah. 930 00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:05,120 Ooh, I'm not even gonna lie, like, this is a no-brainer for me 931 00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:08,320 and it's not because of your personality, let's put it that way. 932 00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:14,880 Thanks, I think. 933 00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:19,440 He is by far the best-looking person in here, like, physically. 934 00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:21,880 And everything else, as well. 935 00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:23,840 I got real lucky. 936 00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,520 (HER AND PRODUCER CHUCKLE) 937 00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:29,320 Cute. 938 00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,960 You're definitely the most lovely. 939 00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:33,920 If you say so. 940 00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:35,240 Job done. Job done. 941 00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:36,960 Another successful challenge completed. 942 00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:39,160 Yep, well done. Alright. 943 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:44,240 I do think you're the best-looking person out of the bunch, 944 00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:45,480 that was quite easy. 945 00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:48,480 Yeah, I feel the same way about you. Oh, thanks. 946 00:43:52,240 --> 00:43:56,600 Confessions Week aims to fast-track the connection between couples, 947 00:43:56,640 --> 00:44:00,520 but, for Lucinda and Timothy, rather than growing closer, 948 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:03,120 there is now a divide between them 949 00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:06,400 after Timothy asked his wife for space. 950 00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:08,600 (SOMBRE MUSIC) 951 00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:10,240 Jesus. 952 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:12,760 I feel quite rejected, 953 00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:17,840 yeah, in the...in the intimacy, romantic stakes. 954 00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:22,960 I just don't see much effort. 955 00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:24,520 (SNIFFLES) 956 00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:30,640 I don't know, I can just feel a little bit of...just tension, 957 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:36,280 tension because I... I actually don't know. 958 00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,360 I know I asked for more space, 959 00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:44,160 but I don't want to create more of a divide between us. 960 00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,720 We're on different... we're on different wavelengths. 961 00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,800 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 962 00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:51,440 Yo. 963 00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:56,040 Let's have a chat. 964 00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,320 I feel tension. 965 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:01,320 Like, tense. 966 00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:02,600 OK. Yeah. 967 00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:04,000 What are you feeling tense about? 968 00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:07,400 I...for the past hour, hour and a half, 969 00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:11,200 I just felt...I've just been walking around on...on egg shells. 970 00:45:11,240 --> 00:45:14,240 Well, you know, my feelings have been hurt. 971 00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:16,560 But I just don't know how. 972 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:17,800 Like... Well... 973 00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:19,240 You're busy with the television. 974 00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:21,880 That...you know... 975 00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:27,360 What are you doing to build romance and connection with me? 976 00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,560 (TENSE MUSIC) 977 00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:35,360 Well, we're...we're... 978 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,160 We're a week and a half in. 979 00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:39,200 We're two weeks in, actually, 980 00:45:39,240 --> 00:45:42,280 and I've left a lot in your ball court the last couple of days. 981 00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:46,200 I know, but... 982 00:45:46,240 --> 00:45:47,560 And I don't feel there's much... 983 00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:49,960 any sexual tension and flirting or trying. 984 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:51,720 I know, it's back to that. 985 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:53,760 (MUSIC RACES) 986 00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:55,760 Just give it some time. 987 00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,760 Yeah, but you just don't like cuddles or touch at all. 988 00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:01,400 Like, what...time for what? 989 00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:02,520 I don't (BLEEP) know. 990 00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:04,280 Maybe you'll get used to it. 991 00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,360 (LUCINDA SIGHS) I don't know. 992 00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,200 It's just become such a big deal. 993 00:46:10,240 --> 00:46:11,720 Like, I know you want roma... 994 00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:13,040 I know you want all of that, 995 00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:15,760 but I don't know how many times I've gotta tell you. 996 00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:19,320 It may take four weeks, it may take eight, who knows, 997 00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:22,480 but just...just be patient. 998 00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,840 Well, just, I don't know... I don't know. 999 00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:27,480 It's such a... 1000 00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:28,880 It's a long... 1001 00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:32,680 look, I'm not saying race, but it's just this experiment. 1002 00:46:32,720 --> 00:46:34,680 Would you...? I know that they want you... 1003 00:46:34,720 --> 00:46:36,640 I know what they...they want. 1004 00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:38,640 I just feel a bit rejected, that's all. 1005 00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:40,160 Don't feel rejected. 1006 00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:43,560 (WISTFUL MUSIC) 1007 00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:50,520 You know, just...yeah, it's like, aw... 1008 00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:53,000 You don't want any affection. 1009 00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,240 It's not that I... 1010 00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:57,800 It's just, it's me, then... 1011 00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:59,440 I know. And I know... 1012 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:03,880 Just, it's just, like, I would like to be closer to you. 1013 00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:07,000 (MUSIC RACES) 1014 00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:09,440 OK, can I...we end this talk now? 1015 00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:12,600 I've had enough. 1016 00:47:18,240 --> 00:47:19,720 (UPLIFTING MUSIC) 1017 00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,800 We're nearly at the end of Confessions Week, 1018 00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,600 and, even though there's been some tough conversations, 1019 00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:28,880 this intense phase has deepened the level of understanding 1020 00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:30,600 between our couples. 1021 00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:34,320 Lovely nails, honey. Thank you, that's... 1022 00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:39,160 But Sara and Tim are yet to connect on a deeper level. 1023 00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:44,040 Sara entered the experiment to end a cycle with her ex. 1024 00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:47,600 When I was with my ex, he ended up cheating on me, 1025 00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:52,880 but I just kept going back to him for, like, four or five years. 1026 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:54,680 I really need this experiment 1027 00:47:54,720 --> 00:47:59,560 because I need to get over my ex and get out of those toxic patterns. 1028 00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:01,720 And, on their wedding day, 1029 00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:05,960 Tim revealed to Sara he carried his own heartbreak. 1030 00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:08,440 Your last relationship, what happened there? 1031 00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:13,040 She was unfaithful to me. 1032 00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:16,240 OK, she cheated? Yeah. 1033 00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:19,160 It's the worst, isn't it? 1034 00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:21,480 So, the confessions letter task 1035 00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:25,320 will be a chance for them to further open up about their past. 1036 00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,960 This task is actually gonna be very important for me, 1037 00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:33,960 for my mental health, for my, like, clarity and emotional stability 1038 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,320 because I really want to express 1039 00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:40,760 probably the most significant thing I can possibly share with her. 1040 00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,880 I'm gonna share, sort of, my experience in my past relationship 1041 00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:45,240 and how I was treated, 1042 00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:48,200 and how that's kind of led me to develop 1043 00:48:48,240 --> 00:48:51,520 some certain probably fears and insecurities, really, 1044 00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:53,360 primarily based around trust. 1045 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:56,160 (GENTLE MUSIC ENDS) 1046 00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:57,520 Hi. Hey. 1047 00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:58,800 Are you ready? 1048 00:48:58,840 --> 00:48:59,920 I'm ready. 1049 00:48:59,960 --> 00:49:01,040 OK. 1050 00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:02,440 I'm nervous. 1051 00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:04,800 Let's go. 1052 00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:06,120 Dear Sara. 1053 00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:11,560 I want to talk to you about the development of my trust issues. 1054 00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:14,240 This is gonna be pretty hard for me to fully express. 1055 00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,800 I was mistreated in my previous relationship. 1056 00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:21,640 I was lied to, gaslit, toxically manipulated, 1057 00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:24,840 made to feel like I was the crazy one, the controlling one. 1058 00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:26,320 Turned out I was always the problem. 1059 00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:28,760 Plus, I was cheated on a lot. 1060 00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:36,320 We were definitely in love and she was unfaithful so I was quite hurt. 1061 00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:38,040 It was pretty rough, like, finding out, 1062 00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:40,840 you know, what she had been up to and everything like that. 1063 00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:42,680 I didn't want to end the relationship 1064 00:49:42,720 --> 00:49:43,840 but I felt like I had to. 1065 00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:46,000 How present is that betrayal 1066 00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,640 and those effects of the betrayal on you today? 1067 00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:53,600 The element of trust is going to be a...um, 1068 00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:57,040 potentially, gonna be a roadblock for me, like, a hurdle, 1069 00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:58,960 something that I'll probably need to work through. 1070 00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:00,000 Intuition. 1071 00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,120 Trust my intuition and my gut feeling on things, 1072 00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:06,240 and I had a little bit of an off gut feeling in my previous relationship, 1073 00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:09,480 so, you know, if anything like that happens... 1074 00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:12,400 ..I'll probably be inclined to... 1075 00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:16,360 ..to be...be on my guard, at least, you know? 1076 00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:21,040 But I wanted to share this with you 1077 00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:24,240 so you might understand my behaviour at times. 1078 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:26,160 I was pretty heartbroken. 1079 00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:28,120 It was pretty traumatic. 1080 00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:29,160 Mm-hm. 1081 00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:33,200 So, I think it's important for me to take...still take those steps in, 1082 00:50:33,240 --> 00:50:35,840 like, learning how to trust again, but it is... 1083 00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,280 it's definitely important for me to share that with you. 1084 00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:42,200 We are, like, on a team together, you know? 1085 00:50:42,240 --> 00:50:44,600 We can be...we can work through it together. 1086 00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:47,160 Yeah. Well, thank you for sharing that. 1087 00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:50,160 It was a pretty challenging task to, sort of, like, get through, 1088 00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:54,320 and I feel like she understands the significance of my trust issues. 1089 00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:57,520 I am, you know, doing the best I can to work through them. 1090 00:50:57,560 --> 00:50:59,840 Hopefully, she can help. 1091 00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:04,800 I feel like I understand him a lot more. 1092 00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:08,600 I understand why he has trust issues 1093 00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:12,880 'cause he was being mistreated and disrespected and lied to. 1094 00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:15,240 I can resonate with his past relationship. 1095 00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:19,440 Like, I have had a similar thing happen to me, and I feel his hurt. 1096 00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:21,680 Yeah. 1097 00:51:21,720 --> 00:51:24,720 (GENTLY LILTING PIANO MUSIC) 1098 00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:28,000 Having just completed the letter-writing task, 1099 00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:32,240 Sara and Tim are about to have their relationship tested again 1100 00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:34,880 with the arrival of another envelope. 1101 00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:37,560 Tim, we got another letter. 1102 00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:40,240 Another letter! Yeah. 1103 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:43,280 (SINISTER MUSIC) 1104 00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:47,120 Another task. 1105 00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:49,040 OK. 1106 00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:52,560 As humans, we are hardwired to connect with others. 1107 00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:55,320 Without human connection, we simply cannot survive. 1108 00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:59,480 This next task will test your ability to trust each other. 1109 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,040 For this task, you must reveal your latest correspondence 1110 00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:04,040 on the device you use most, your phone. 1111 00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:07,600 (STORMY MUSIC) 1112 00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:09,160 So, what do you want to do? 1113 00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:12,640 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1114 00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:16,440 I'm happy to share everything. 1115 00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:19,640 Yeah. 1116 00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:23,920 I haven't given you a reason not to trust me. 1117 00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:27,840 So, what's the point? 1118 00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:31,520 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1119 00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:34,600 So, you feel strongly about not doing it? 1120 00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,000 Yeah, I do. 1121 00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:41,600 I feel like it's invasive and I feel like this whole thing is. 1122 00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:43,080 Yeah. Like... 1123 00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:44,880 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1124 00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:46,120 Yeah, interesting. 1125 00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:49,480 (MUSIC INTENSIFIES) 1126 00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:55,320 (UNNERVING MUSIC) 1127 00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:57,960 After completing the letter-writing task 1128 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:01,920 where Tim took the opportunity to highlight his trust issues, 1129 00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:06,160 the couple have just been given one last task to complete. 1130 00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:08,920 So, what do you want to do? 1131 00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:13,040 (TENSE MUSIC) 1132 00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:15,240 I'm happy to share everything. 1133 00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:18,440 Yeah. 1134 00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:22,280 I haven't given you a reason not to trust me. 1135 00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:26,920 So, what's the point? 1136 00:53:27,720 --> 00:53:31,240 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1137 00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:33,400 So, you feel strongly about not doing it? 1138 00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:34,920 Yeah, I do. 1139 00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:40,440 I feel like it's invasive and I feel like this whole thing is. 1140 00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:42,240 Yeah. Like... 1141 00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:44,880 Yeah, interesting. 1142 00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:47,560 Like, the concern of mine 1143 00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,160 would be if you were talking to other people outside of this, 1144 00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:51,400 you know, other guys. 1145 00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:52,520 I'm not. 1146 00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,960 (MUSIC AMPLIFIES) 1147 00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:02,200 What is the point of trusting if we can't actually just trust someone 1148 00:54:02,240 --> 00:54:03,840 without looking through someone's phone? 1149 00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:05,400 That's not trust. 1150 00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:08,720 Trusting is allowing someone to just be like, 1151 00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:13,120 "There's nothing there, just trust me," and that's it. 1152 00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:16,320 (DISQUIETING MUSIC) 1153 00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:20,200 Would you be concerned about me seeing messages to someone? 1154 00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:24,800 Like, who you've been messaging? No, no. 1155 00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:26,280 Hm. 1156 00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:27,960 Yeah. 1157 00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:31,000 Um, if you don't want to do this task, 1158 00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:36,000 I'm happy to, like, take you for... for your word, kind of thing. 1159 00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:38,360 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1160 00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:39,680 As long as... 1161 00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:43,520 ..you can acknowledge that that's me 1162 00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,200 supporting you and trusting you and... 1163 00:54:46,240 --> 00:54:48,040 OK. ..showing you that... 1164 00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:52,200 ..you know, I'm trusting you. 1165 00:54:52,240 --> 00:54:53,400 Mm-hm. 1166 00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,320 Thank you, I appreciate that. 1167 00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:59,480 I don't think that task went very well, to be honest. 1168 00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:03,600 Obviously, she doesn't want me to see certain things on her phone. 1169 00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:11,160 I do want to trust her and I want to learn how to be OK 1170 00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:14,760 with things like that, particularly considering, like, my history. 1171 00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:18,120 I don't...I don't fully trust Sara at the moment, for sure, 1172 00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:22,040 but I'm taking her word at face value, and I'm... 1173 00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:26,360 ..yeah, I'm trying to be a good husband. 1174 00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:32,720 But maybe she's...she's chatting to other...other guys. 1175 00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:34,160 Um... 1176 00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,520 Definitely raised some question marks. 1177 00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:46,000 I'm glad that he's, like, choosing to trust me, 1178 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:51,560 and we can just move past it and hopefully work on this relationship. 1179 00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,400 (TENSE MUSIC BUILDS) 1180 00:55:57,640 --> 00:55:58,640 (MUSIC ENDS) 1181 00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:01,640 As Confessions Week draws to a close, 1182 00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:06,200 Tori and Jack have been given one last task from the experts. 1183 00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:09,760 Ooh. 1184 00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:11,840 What have we got? Oh! 1185 00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:14,160 Inside this envelope 1186 00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:17,360 are photos of all the other bride and grooms in the experiment. 1187 00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:20,480 From left to right, you must place the photos in order 1188 00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:23,880 of who you find most attractive to least attractive. 1189 00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:29,680 The task today is ranking...well, most hottest to least hottest. 1190 00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:33,120 Brides and grooms. I'm keen. 1191 00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:42,320 When they first met, Tori was instantly attracted to Jack. 1192 00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:45,360 (GENTLE UPBEAT MUSIC) 1193 00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:46,800 (BOTH GIGGLE) 1194 00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:48,080 Great teeth. 1195 00:56:48,120 --> 00:56:49,320 Oh, thank you. Great teeth. 1196 00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:52,640 But Jack found it hard to connect with Tori on a physical level. 1197 00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:57,920 There's no sexual sparks flying for me at the moment. 1198 00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:00,680 And, honestly... 1199 00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:06,120 ..I don't think we're sexual...well, we're not sexually connected at all. 1200 00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:09,200 Whoo-hoo! 1201 00:57:09,240 --> 00:57:11,600 So, the experts hope the photo-ranking task 1202 00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:14,600 will be a chance for both to reveal the levels of attraction 1203 00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:18,160 they have for each other at this stage of the experiment. 1204 00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:21,280 Um, so these are both dark-haired and they're in my top three. 1205 00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:22,640 Mm. 1206 00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:25,000 So, I am a brunette guy, like, if I had to pick. 1207 00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:28,120 My physical type, gorgeous eyes, 1208 00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:30,760 I want to connect with the eyes, and a gorgeous smile. 1209 00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,000 Um, long hair. 1210 00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:34,720 Can't stand short hair on women. 1211 00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:36,200 Don't know who does. 1212 00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:39,800 And brunette over blonde, as well, and I like big boobs. 1213 00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:42,360 No-one is bad-looking but, like, Lauren, 1214 00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:46,320 I don't know if it's her personality that's, like, dimming the light. 1215 00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:49,600 Also, Lauren's really tall. 1216 00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:52,120 Like, that's a dealbreaker for me. 1217 00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:56,320 So, I don't want to walk home with someone 1218 00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:58,120 that's six inches taller than me, either. 1219 00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:00,560 I'm gonna feel like a little bitch by the time I get home. 1220 00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:03,680 And I could not kiss them older birds. 1221 00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:05,680 Um... 1222 00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:07,560 I just can't take these ladies to bed, I'm sorry. 1223 00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:11,400 If she was dolled up and she was dolled up, night out, 1224 00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:12,600 I wouldn't even go to Lauren. 1225 00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:13,680 Too tall. 1226 00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:14,920 I'm not attracted to her. 1227 00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:16,120 So, I wouldn't go try it. 1228 00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:18,360 Tell us how you really feel about good old Lozza. 1229 00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:19,800 You heard it. 1230 00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:22,560 Based on what I know, she's too loud for me, 1231 00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:24,320 like, makes me look the other way. 1232 00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:27,240 But, God, I could hear Lauren before I ever laid eyes on her. 1233 00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:30,200 And, yeah, visually, not my type, 1234 00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:35,440 so goes with the personality, so we'll lay that one to rest. 1235 00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:36,680 Alright, one more. 1236 00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:39,200 Who is it? 1237 00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:42,080 Me! (JACK LAUGHS) 1238 00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:43,240 Mm... 1239 00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:45,720 (TENSE MUSIC) 1240 00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:47,440 You know what? 1241 00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:49,320 Looks are very important to me. 1242 00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:53,120 So, you're on par with a couple of other ladies. 1243 00:58:53,160 --> 00:58:54,600 Um... 1244 00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:57,120 Do you agree that you're the hottest? 1245 00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:58,960 (TENSE MUSIC CONTINUES) 1246 00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:00,600 I would agree I'm the hottest, yeah. 1247 00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:01,960 Why? 1248 00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:04,080 Why am I the hottest? 1249 00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:05,440 Um... 1250 00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:07,320 (BLEEP). Why am I the hottest? 1251 00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:09,080 Convince your husband you're the hottest. 1252 00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:10,520 Why are you the hottest? 1253 00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:12,920 (TENSE MUSIC CONTINUES) 1254 00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:21,000 It's the final day of Confessions Week 1255 00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:23,640 and, having placed the other brides in the line-up, 1256 00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:25,600 it's now time for Jack 1257 00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:29,640 to rank the level of attractiveness of his wife, Tori. 1258 00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:30,840 You know what? 1259 00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:32,840 Looks are very important to me. 1260 00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:35,800 So, you're on par with a couple of other ladies. 1261 00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:37,640 Um... 1262 00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:39,000 Do you agree that you're the hottest? 1263 00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:43,800 I would agree I'm the hottest, yeah. Why? 1264 00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:46,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1265 00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:47,520 Um... 1266 00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:49,400 (BLEEP). Why am I the hottest? 1267 00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:50,920 Convince your husband you're the hottest. 1268 00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:52,320 Why are you the hottest? 1269 00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:57,280 I think I've got great eyes, great brows. 1270 00:59:57,320 --> 00:59:59,160 Are they mine? No. 1271 00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:01,440 Good teeth, good lips. 1272 01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:02,760 Great tits. 1273 01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:04,800 Again, not mine but I'll take it. 1274 01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:08,640 And my hair's really soft and I have cute little ears. 1275 01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:11,920 I don't have, like, absolute shockers. 1276 01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:13,720 Nuh, that's confident. 1277 01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:15,320 You're not just like, "Yeah, I'm alright." 1278 01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:16,640 You're owning it, I like it. 1279 01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:18,680 Like I was saying, looks are important 1280 01:00:18,720 --> 01:00:23,280 and I was happy to do this challenge because I didn't want to upset ya, 1281 01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:28,560 but, if I didn't find you super attractive, you'd be bummed. 1282 01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:30,600 Yeah, fair, fair. 1283 01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:33,800 But I can easily say I have you up here. 1284 01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:34,880 Whoo! 1285 01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:36,760 Which is a testament to you. 1286 01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:40,280 You have a nice body, you have nice, big boobies 1287 01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:42,280 so you're on par with a couple of other ladies. 1288 01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:43,400 Um... 1289 01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:44,560 Nice booty. 1290 01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:46,480 I'm a bit of a booty guy, as well. 1291 01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:49,080 You have beautiful hair, you have beautiful skin. 1292 01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:51,400 So, there you go. 1293 01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:54,560 Did you feel like I thought that way about ya amongst these women? 1294 01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:57,400 You did? Pretty confident, yeah. 1295 01:00:57,440 --> 01:00:59,640 Damn (BLEEP) straight, sir. Like... 1296 01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:01,320 I think I've got the best personality. 1297 01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:03,240 It's not about personality. It i... 1298 01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:07,040 This task has just, like, doubled down on the confirmation 1299 01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:09,320 that Jack and I are probably a perfect match. 1300 01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:11,720 And, like, I agree with this list. 1301 01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:17,720 I don't have any, like, insecurities about anything. 1302 01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:20,280 I'm a very secure person. Um... 1303 01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:22,320 And it would take, like, a real arsehole 1304 01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:27,400 to make me feel anything less than secure in my own skin, definitely. 1305 01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:30,000 Good job. Thanks. 1306 01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:33,280 You have to be open and honest. 1307 01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:35,920 There is no hiding on this couch. 1308 01:01:35,960 --> 01:01:39,080 VOICEOVER: In the very first Commitment Ceremony... 1309 01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:41,000 You're all looking stunning. But not as stunning as my wife. 1310 01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:43,000 Our match has been incredible. 1311 01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:44,760 ..real love... 1312 01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:47,480 Yeah, it's still really, really right for both of us. 1313 01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:49,960 ..will melt hearts. 1314 01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:52,280 I like deep, emotional conversations. 1315 01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:54,320 I find it, eugh, horrific. 1316 01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:55,680 (LAUGHTER) 1317 01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,280 But to uncover the truth... 1318 01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:02,480 Just to be clear, Jack, you're in a relationship with someone... 1319 01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:03,960 ..the experts... 1320 01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:06,440 ..while applying for Married At First Sight. 1321 01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:08,480 ..won't hold back. 1322 01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:11,000 I felt so betrayed. Yeah, OK. 1323 01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:12,480 I've tried, I really have. 1324 01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:13,800 Get real with me. 1325 01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:15,040 I felt like she had something to hide. 1326 01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:16,160 Did you have anything to hide? 1327 01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:17,520 We need your decision. 1328 01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:20,120 Stay or leave? (VOICE ECHOES) 1329 01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:21,920 I don't trust him. 1330 01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:25,080 The first Commitment Ceremony. 1331 01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:27,680 They'll have to be held accountable for their actions. 95396

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