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[music]

SINGER: ♪ Don't care
what you think about it ♪

♪ Ain't here to please nobody

♪ On the run and undercover

♪ Here comes trouble now

♪ Mend my wicked ways

♪ I'll get you
into trouble now ♪

♪ It's just so hard to behave

♪ Got you seeing double now

♪ I'm the one
your mama told you ♪

♪ Oh, boy,
the woman's torture ♪

♪ A risk you can't afford

♪ And here comes trouble now

♪ Turning it up all night

♪ Got you feeling all right

♪ Turning it up all night

♪ Got you feeling all right

♪ Get you into trouble now

[music]

I've had several threesomes.

I've only done
the girl-girl-boy threesome.

I think two guys and me,

that's just too much.

Unless they're fucking
each other,

and, yeah, me fucking them

would be amazing.

I had a threesome one time,

and it was probably
one of the most awkward

sexual experiences of my life.

Some people prefer
to know the person

they have a threesome with.

Some people prefer it
to be a stranger.

I don't know
what the emotional fallout

would be for me
in a relationship

to have a threesome.

But if I were single,

I would love to be a unicorn.

No consequences, all fun.

I have been a unicorn before,

and that's been a total blast,

because, you know,
as the unicorn,

you're the center of attention.

I really enjoy having threesomes

just 'cause I think
it's a really interesting way

to spice things up.

I've been with two girls before.

I was with one,

and then went to the other one,

and then I finished.

And then I was like,
"I'm gonna go make a sandwich.

I'll be right back." [laughs]

- My name is Bee.
- I'm Ryan.

- And I'm Meryn.
- I'm Ken.

I'm Jodie, and this is Gerald.

- I'm Ken, and this is...
- And this...

And this is my sex life.

[clapperboard clicking]

And I love sex.

[clapperboard clicks]

[woman laughs]

[music]

TARA: With your orgasmic energy
being the most powerful energy,

it's the piranha energy
in our body.

So when we get to the state
of that pleasure...

[women exhaling]

that comes with the process

and the ritual of sex magik,

that is when you actually
are putting that

into divine order,

straight and direct
to what you want.

[music]

[birds chirping]

[music]

NICOLETTE: My artwork,
I guess, can't help

but express who I am
as a human being

because it comes from me.

There are different themes
per different painting,

but pretty much
all of them focus

on the connection in nature,

spirituality,
and sensuality as well.

[piano music plays]

SAGIV: One of our first dates,

we had dinner

and played the piano,

and she was sitting next to me,

and she felt the zing.

[chuckles]

- What are we doing?
- Remember to lean back.

Lean back.

I was hitting on her friend Kim

at some party.

Uh, Nicolette
was body painting

at that event.

Then he gave me his number,

and in spite of
all my better judgment,

I decided to hang out
with him the next day

because I really liked him.

I thought that she has
the kindest,

sweetest heart. I think
that she's a very good person.

- Thanks, babe.
- And I still think that way

eight and a half years later.

Love being your sous chef, babe.

I love it when you're
my sous chef, baby.

Apparently, I'm really terrible
at crushing garlic, though.

We considered ourselves
to be monogamous

- for quite some time--or...
- Monogamish.

...Monogamish.

For quite some time,
we were monogamish.

Sort of like open,
playful, but not poly.

SAGIV: We have some boundaries
and understanding

on what's cool
and what's not for now,

and--which is different
from where we were in the past,

and it's probably different
from where we're going to be,

like, in--
in five years from now.

We have
a very strong connection,

bound, love,

and commitment.

Everything else is kind
of a cherry on top

to explore and
make things interesting.

The universe sometimes
knows better than you do,

and I think
that allowing that room

for things to appear
that are unexpected

is exciting and interesting.

We are taking
this tantra workshop.

It is a magical manifestation

through tantra workshop.

I have heard
that you can manifest

through your sexual orgasms.

I think that that,
like, creative energy

is probably so powerful

that it could be channeled
to create other things

than just a new life.

That's my theory.

[music]

So what do you think
about tomorrow?

Yeah, I'm really looking forward

to connecting with you

and seeing what kind
of tantric energy

we can produce.

I'm not exactly sure
what's going to be done.

That's all right.
It's kind of exciting, right?

Uh-huh.

You know, I'm coming
from a different mindset.

You know, I used to be in the
military service for many years

and stuff, so I'm more
of an agnostic.

This is it.
We die and that's it.

More of a realist.
More into systems

and getting from here to there.

I do believe that, you know,
"quantum theory"

when--thing
that you'll focus on

and you'll put
your intention can happen.

- So manifestation?
- Some of my hippie friends

- will call it manifestation.
- [laughs]

I call it "Just take
your finger out of your ass

- and do it". So...
- [laughs]

I help Sagiv cook sometimes,

but I'm not great at making

the chopping really, really
the perfectly sized.

- [chuckles]
- And everything being measured

and calculated.

But on the other side of that,

I had Sagiv make
a painting with me one time,

and he couldn't even put down
the first stroke

because he was too afraid

of the lack of planning.

So... [laughs]

Part of my relationship
to Sagiv

is helping him
to get out of his head,

be more creative, be in touch

with the part of him
that's in flow,

and to allow surprises
to happen.

[chuckles]

[music]

TARA: We could
put that up there,

if you want to put,
like, a crystal on top of it.

- Okay.
- I don't know where else...

That would be cool.

My intention
when I work with people

is to help them to deepen
their spiritual practice.

Spiritual practice,

for me, is a practice

of deepening one's level
of consciousness.

Me and Tara have
this amazing relationship.

She is such a powerful woman,

and we've known
for a long time

that we're supposed
to teach together.

We've had
just beautiful experiences

being able to bring
different areas of tantra

to the community.

We just work really well
together and have this

beautiful synergistic energy.

Something for me
that I really love

and honor about working
with couples

is finding a way
to deepen their connection,

deepen their love
for themselves,

first and foremost,

and then learning
how can they meet each other

as they're growing,
as we all in relationship

we're kind of--it's like
an ebb and flow, you know?

Someone starts to grow
in this way,

and maybe this person's
going in this direction,

and then we come together.

So, for them,
I am just hoping

and wishing
that this brings them

into, like,
a whole 'nother level

of their sexuality
because I know

they're already active
in certain ways

and so why not learn
how to go deeper?

[music]

NICOLETTE: I really have no idea
what's gonna happen at all.

With the mentality of surrender
and being present

and just really putting
everything that I have

into the experience

so I can get
the full result from it.

SAGIV:
Surrendering to the magic,

being open to the possibilities

is something that
I personally struggle with.

However, I'm open
and I'm excited

and looking forward
to learning new tricks.

[music]

MIKE: Ancient tantra,

the very short
and dirty version,

is that it's making
everything you do

a path towards enlightenment.

How you eat,
how you live your life,

and how you have sex,

how you engage in
sexual energy.

Thinking positive is a--
is a great way

to help manifest things
in your life,

or thinking about
what you want to create.

But when you add
the power of sex magik,

it will greatly intensify

what you're trying
to bring into your life.

Let's talk about,
more or less, what you guys

are wanting to bring in
and your manifestation today

as we go into the rituals.

Surrender to the magic, Sagiv.

Surrender to the magic.

Surrender to the magic.

Maybe we'll start ladies first.

So I have a calling.

I'm a painter,

and making beautiful art

is what I would like
to do with my life.

So I am trying

to manifest
or am manifesting

financial independence
through my art.

That's what I would
like to manifest.

Orgasmic energy
creates life.

Orgasmic energy makes
you feel something

that you cannot feel
in any other way.

There's gotta be a way
to utilize this energy

and project it outward.

That's sex magik.

Whatever it is
that you're thinking about,

whatever it is
that you're feeling,

in these moments of orgasm,
that's what you're creating.

I think that I would
like to harness

the power of magic

actually to bring
into our relationship,

our connection--

I'll share something with you.

I think that sometimes
I'm jealous

of Nicolette's orgasms,
you know?

It's like Nicolette's orgasm

is so magical and elaborate.
- [laughter]

But I don't know.
It's like, maybe as a--as a guy,

it's like, "Ah. You know,
that's an orgasm. I just came."

So maybe to explore beyond that.

I think that maybe harnessing

the energy
that your orgasm create

into manifesting something

in the physical world

might be a little bit
of a stretch for me,

but I'm open to the idea.

That's a beautiful
thing to learn

is to control your orgasm

and to bring your orgasm

up and through the chakras
and blast it out,

and to create that,

like, full-body orgasm

that you hear about when--

you know, when they talk
about tantra.

Mm-hmm.

- We're gonna touch on that.
- Yeah. That. That.

[music]

As women, to get
to that arousal state,

it takes us,
like, twice as long.

We got a lot going on down here
that is, like, so powerful,

and so many different places

to activate and to wake up.

The witness dance
is so important

because a lot of us women

are very scared

to fully be seen
in our vulnerability

and our sensuality
by our partner.

So let him or her witness you

fully drop into that sexual,
sensual,

loving energy for yourself,

which then brings us
into a more open state.

So this part of the workshop

is for us to drop into that

sensual place here,

first, before we share it,

before we connect.

[music]

TARA: And then when you feel
that you're in that space,

when you start to wake
that sensuality

up inside, the warmth,

that juiciness.

Aim towards your partner

and just bind his eyes.

Feeling the gaze
on my skin

was almost tangible.

Like, a physical sensation.

And then there's a really
wonderful moment

of connection when you make
eye contact with your partner,

and I think
that's really comforting.

When Sagiv and I
first met each other,

when we would hug
or touch, our--

it's almost like
our molecules would mesh.

But we've been together
for eight years,

so it's been kind of a while,

so it was nice to have
that restimulated.

TARA: Feeling your own body,

feeling your own texture

of your skin.

Find something new
that you haven't felt yet before

through your own touch.

[music]

Temple body adornment
is a ritual

to bring you
into your subtle body

to feel held, to feel loved,

to feel that king or queen

inside of you
just completely surrendered

to be held by your partner.

And we are adorning
the sacred goddess

in front of us

with magical touch,

sensation, arousal.

You're gonna vary your touch,

vary your speed,
vary your pressure.

The point here is to listen
to the goddess's energy.

[music]

MIKE: And play with the
lesser-known erogenous zones

behind the ears.

It's almost like
as if we are pulsing together,

we are breathing together.

There's another level
of emotion

that it creates

when you have that exchange.

MIKE: So what we're doing now,

moving into empowering

the chakras.

To start with the Base Chakra,

you're gonna lift her leg

closest to you.

Place your hand at her buttocks

and your other hand,
ask permission,

"May I please place
my hand over your yoni?"

NICOLETTE: Yes.

Um, I'm--I'm sitting with it.

You never know.

Try everything twice.

I'm keeping an open mind.

I'm trying to surrender
to the idea

that my orgasm energy

will allow me
to be more creative

and create something new.

Feel the energy
from your lover's heart

going into your yoni.

And the yoni is the womb,

is the pussy, is the vagina.

And a lingam is your cock.

Those are the Sanskrit words

for the sexual organs

that we have as a female
and a male.

MIKE: Keeping
that manifestation

that we're bringing in
to this ritual

in mind,
sound is very activating.

They have these--we used
to call them energygasms.

It's just beautiful energy.

And feel free
to let out some sounds.

[moaning]

And then breathing it up
into the third eye.

See your manifestation.

And let it go with some sound.

[moaning, exhaling]

SAGIV: I think there was
a different type of exchange

that we don't always
practice in our daily day.

Sometimes, you know,
we just took the dog on a walk,

we have to wake up
early tomorrow morning.

But today we have
kind of learned

how to really take our time

and pleasure each other.

That was a pleasant
surprise.

[chuckles]

TARA: And then asking permission

to put your hand
over the lingam.

May I put my hand
over your lingam?

And exhale.

[exhales] And this is here,

our sexual chakra.

This is where
our sexual energy builds.

This will--is what
will bring you

into these states of orgasm.

And what we said
and what we've set

at the beginning of class,

see that in your mind's eye.

[moaning]

[music]

MIKE: The first thing you wanna
do as the man is invite

your woman to sit
astride your legs

in what we call yab-yum.

With the different Tantric
positions,

the very first one
we started with is yab-yum,

which is, I believe,
such an important one

to really bring you
into connection

with your partner.

The woman straddles the man.

The feet are touching.

The palms and the feet
are connection

behind each other
which is creating

a circuit of energy
that's swirling

like a figure eight,

moving through the sexual
organs of each other

and back through the legs,

and then the chakra system
is aligned.

You're connected.

This is a position
where the woman can--

when she's starting
to feel ready,

can start to move a little bit.

Your lingam is not inside
the yoni at this point.

You're just combining
the arousal

of the physical
and the energetic.

And then I'm going to
take the lead

and let myself come back,

bringing myself
all the way down.

MIKE: So you'll separate
your legs as the man here.

And this is such
a beautiful place.

This will be my lingam for the--
for this demonstration.

We are opening ourselves
up to them,

and we're finding
the comfort zone for ourselves

of when we're ready
to receive him.

And so by him painting the yoni,

he's starting to arouse us,

explore her entire outer part
of her yoni.

And here is where
whenever your partner

as the masculine sees you
start to get aroused,

that's when he decides
to ask if I'm ready.

So, at this point
you are entered, right?

So he's already inside of me.

Keeping your hands behind you,

you'll kind of lift
your pelvis up a little bit.

And so you're gonna start
by just circulating up and down,

different sides,

and really
just letting his lingam paint

inside of your yoni.

You know, I have this motto
in life that--

don't have expectations

and you'll be
pleasantly surprised.

And I'm very surprised.

Like, it was way beyond
any expectations

that I didn't really have.

The different positions,

the movement, the flow.

Now, one thing that's great
in this position

is to help to activate the clit

which has 8,000 nerve endings

while you're also activating
the navel center.

So part of the idea
is to be sort of activating

as many centers throughout
these different positions

as you can.

NICOLETTE: To feel the mirroring
of our bodies

is quite pleasant.

I really enjoy arching back

and feeling supported
in the small of my back.

And I really enjoy

the exposed nature of my...

clitoris to the front of him

because I feel that
he could probably

stimulate that pretty easily
while we are together.

If he wants
to come inside of you,

that's obviously
in your own choice

and where you're at
in your relationship

and what you're manifesting

or have him come on top of you,
on your body.

And when that happens, for me,

I like to bring
his beautiful juices

all the way up my chakra system

onto my third eye,

and to just visualize
this manifestation

as that orgasm is happening.

That is where that energy
is blasting to, the momentum

is beyond this world.

Why not find ways
to connect more

and have these more expansive
experiences with each other

so that you can go
into these different realms

and go into these different,
like, levels of orgasm

and find ways
to manifest bigger, better,

beautiful things in your life
when you think that

it's just, "Oh, this is great.
We have great sex."

There's always more.
Always.

There's always gonna be more
and there's always gonna be

something for you to explore
and to feel and to try,

and why not?

[music]

[chuckles]

So put your feet out.

Connect your legs together.

My feet are connected.

- They're behind you.
- Okay.

[chuckles]

[moans]

- Can I put my hands back?
- Mm-hmm.

NICOLETTE:
The energy and the space

seems a bit vivid or heightened.

It sort of allowed for me
to feel things

a little bit more thoroughly.

So instead of feeling something
right away

that's maybe overstimulating,

it allowed me to, you know,
move the energy up

and feel things,

feel each small thing
on its own,

and that was pretty exciting
for me.

So I felt more in sync
with my partner in that way.

It like allowed me
to catch up with him.

I would like your lingam
inside me.

Mm-hmm.

[moans]

Oh, that's hot.

[moaning]

Ooh,
that feels really good.

[panting]

Oh, that's hot.

[moaning]

[music]

[music]

SAGIV: I think that our hearts
are always connected,

- and then...
- Extra connected. [chuckles]

...and today they are
extra connected, even extra.

I'm going to recommend this
to all my guy friends.

I think that the male,
especially,

should know about that.

No one ever really teach you
anything about the sex,

like in all the sex health
or sex ed and stuff,

no one really talks to you
about the sex and the buildup

and the--I didn't know many
of the aspects

that Tara and Mike shared
with us.

I think that
it's very important,

- and especially for men.
- Yeah.

Sex magik is the extra sauce
on the ice cream sundae.

It's like sex is already great,
but if you add sex magik,

I think it's extra special,

and I can't wait
to take it home with me.

I think I might need to see
what happens

as far as the manifestation
becoming a reality,

but it does feel
like strong energy,

so we'll see what happens.

SAGIV: There is a special bond
and connection between us.

I think that it's called love.

[giggles]

[music]

WOMAN:
What do you know about tantra?

Tantra? Now, tantra,
I've heard about tantra.

I'm curious about.

I really would love
to find somebody

that's into tantric sex.

However, I'm a big guy,
not as flexible as other people,

so I might have
to lose weight first.

What do I know about tantra?

I didn't know there was tantra
outside the bedroom,

first of all.

There's a lot of guys out there
who go,

"Oh, I practice tantra,"

and you're supposed to be
turned on by that.

It's denial of climax,
and I'm like,

"Why? Why would you do that?"

If I had a nickel
for every time,

"Sorry that happened so quickly.
We'll go again in a while."

It takes us longer.
Tantric for women

is just the end all be all.

The only thing I know
about tantra is that it's--

that Sting is really into it,

so as a result that seems
incredibly nonsexual to me.

[music]

WOMAN: Being a blonde
with these big titties

and tanned skin means
I stick out a little bit more,

and I like that.

I get paid to do sex work.

The money that I make
comes from posting pictures

or videos on private platforms.

I sell my body online,
virtually,

and I love that I get paid
to be slutty.

[music]

- ALEX: Whoop! [chuckles]
- [Kayla chuckles]

Okay. When--
and when you tickle me,

make sure,
like if I'm going away from you,

you grab my hair back

- or something.
- Okay. Okay. Okay.

Like, keep tickling me.
Like, make it be torturous.

Okay.
Make it torturous.

Yeah.
This is such torture.

ALEX: Ooh. [chuckles]

- Oh, hi.
- [giggling]

ALEX: I never expected
in a million years

that I would be here today.

Six months ago, I thought that
working as a nurse in California

was the end of my story,
and then here I am,

a totally different life
than I expected

but I'm having a blast.

Okay. Shit.
[giggles, laughs]

Before I moved here,

I was a hairdresser
for seven years.

I managed a salon,
had a full book clientele.

I wanted to pursue modeling
and get into it more.

My ex-boyfriend didn't like it.

He didn't want me
to ever do it.

So then when I broke up
with him,

I was like, "All right.
I finally, like,

I can focus on me.
I can do what I want to do."

And then when the opportunity,
like, took me here to Vegas,

I was like, "I have to take it.

This is something
I've always wanted to do."

So I had to come out here.

[music]

LINNY: If you asked me
if I would ever do this,

I'd be like, "No."

But before all this,
I was living in Houston, Texas.

I was in a bad situation

with an ex-boyfriend
who lingered.

And so, I--I came to Vegas

and I got the opportunity
to develop true friendship,

and get paid to
do the best job ever.

Yeah, no, you're torturing me.

[laughing]

[music]

ALEX: So, what brought me
to Vegas was

I was doing social media
on the side,

going to some photo shoots.

I was mostly doing brand deals
at the time.

Um, like energy drinks,
or CBD companies,

and things like that.

And I went to a group shoot.

At the group shoot,
there was a manager there who

said he was gonna start
a reality TV show

about girls doing
social media full-time.

It's gonna be all blondes,

it's gonna be
a big collaborative house.

So when we get together,
all of our followers,

or all of our fans
will see each other,

and we'll cross-promote,
and it would be just kind of

a big cross-promotion.

At the time, it was really neat
because I was just kind of

doing social media on the side,
but I was like,

this seems like
a great opportunity.

And he told me once this
collaboration comes together,

he's like, "You're not gonna
need to go back

to your regular jobs."
So it seemed like

a really awesome opportunity,

and all of us quit
our regular jobs,

uprooted our lives,
moved into a house together,

and unfortunately,
the show didn't make it.

- Single. [laughs]
- ALEX: Single, hey.

[laughter]

A lot of us realized that
it wasn't going well,

and it wasn't exactly
what we wanted.

LINNY: The reality show thing
didn't work out.

But these group of women,

I finally felt like
I had true friendship.

And so, I decided
to stay out here

and get a house.

And now we all live together,
and it's really amazing.

- No.
- [laughter]

No way.

We had developed
a sisterhood so well

that I was like, "Well, if
they're staying, I'm staying."

And so, even before everything
started to fall apart,

we all knew we were there
for each other at that point.

We're like, "Okay.
We're in this together."

[music]

I want to actually grow
and have other businesses,

and, like, grow my brand.

That's just a way for me
to be able to fund

what else I wanna do.

That's the ultimate goal.

[laughs]

- Okay. This is inside out.
- KAYLA: Oh, my God.

I told myself,
by the time I'm thirty,

like, I wanna make six figures.

Here I am at 27,
and I just conquered that.

And now,
I'm looking at buying a house,

and I can be
anywhere I want.

So, my goal
is to kind of travel the world,

see as much as I can see,

and then go back
to doing what I love,

hopefully working as a nurse somewhere,

and then,
doing this on the side,

and expanding on it always.

But the freedom to move around,
and, of course,

the income has definitely
changed my life.

You got it.

LINNY: Actually,
this is an entire outfit.

When I finish my business
degree,

I'm interested in e-commerce.

I'd like to do something online.

I'm very comfortable working
from home.

On my page,
they're gonna want a lot more.

So if you guys can think
of something that we could do...

- Yeah.
- ...because we'd--I don't think

- we have whipped cream.
- We can play the games.

I have those--
the candy games that I got

- with the truth or dare...
- LINNY: We need another one.

...show a nipple, I don't know,
like, random things.

It's cool to work with girls

that are doing
the exact same thing

because we can relate
to each other,

we can help each other.

We always have
each other's backs

to keep each other growing.

You know that if you fall down,
there's still people there

that are gonna pick you back up
because we would do that

for each other any day.

If it wasn't for that,

I definitely would have
gone back to my regular job.

[music]

ALEX: When we first
went into the house,

we each had our roles.

Linny's was coaching us,

and helping us
on how the platform worked.

KAYLA:
She's the mom of the house.

That's honestly
how I think of her

because I take a lot of advice
from her.

And she's taught me a lot
just with social media.

We all thought we had an idea
of what we knew

what we were doing,
but when she saw--

sat us down, and we realized
there's so many features

that we weren't using,
and she gave us the confidence

to use these features, too.

There was a lot of stuff
I thought like,

I could never do,
and she would sit us down,

and say, "No, like,
this is how it's done.

Don't be too hard on yourself."

She really has that motherly
vibe, very encouraging.

I actually know how
to make money and market.

Like, Linny's definitely
showed me, like, what to do,

how to talk,
and, like, be more comfortable.

[music]

Oh, wow, baby, that's an 8.5.

Oh, my pussy is just dripping.

On OnlyFans, like, I started
just, like, topless.

Like, now, I'm comfortable
showing a little bit more.

I love that hard cock.

Okay.

I'm getting, like,
a little bit more, like, open.

LINNY:
I am older than these girls,

and I've been in the game
a lot longer.

When I first started
seeing my numbers

double, triple, quadruple,

I gained, like, a passion
to wanna help other women.

- LINNY: I'm going live today...
- WOMAN: Ooh.

at, like, 4:00, which is 7:00...

- WOMAN: That'll be good.
- East Coast time,

which is perfect.

And I've already done
Topless Tuesday tip game.

You know, these tip games,
you have to be available for.

- Yeah.
- LINNY: Once I put the tip game

- on my page, I--
- KAYLA: You send it out.

I send it out as a mass message,
but I copy the link.

- Mm-hmm.
- And I say, "Tip this post."

KAYLA: Yeah. Oh, okay.

LINNY: So that they can go
directly to it and tip it.

Mm-hmm.

I see myself
as an OnlyFans expert.

I have studied so hard
on this platform.

I mean,
I have an entire schedule.

I do tip games.

I do,
like, spin the wheel games.

It's marketing.
It's a business.

And they're gonna be like,
you know?

- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- [laughs]

- And it'll, like, squirt.
- Mm-hmm.

I'm a business student.
I'm actually in my last semester

of my business degree.

Okay, so, topless pic, and then,
we'll do 15 topless video.

Twenty dollars will be
topless video,

plus watch me--
watch me write your name

while I talk to you.

Okay.
That's Tuesday.

- It's a lot of work.
- Yeah.

[laughs]

If you're doing it right,
and you're making money,

you're working.

[music]

ALEX: I think it's fun.
It's like playing a role.

Like, you look at,
like, Marilyn Monroe,

and all these, like,
you know, sex icons,

and people don't always
expect you to have brains, too.

But it's like, yeah,
I can be blonde and be smart.

And people expect us
to be so, you know,

free-spirited sexually,
which a lot of people are.

But, uh, you wouldn't be able
to tell from somebody's platform

what their actual
preferences

or personality is,
I don't think.

- Exactly, yeah.
- [laughter]

ALEX:
Even though OnlyFans is geared

towards the porn industry,

the type of content
that I make is very different.

I don't talk dirty
to the camera,

but I still do
kind of a more of a sexy dance.

You know, I've experimented
a little bit,

and I've taken notes
from the girls,

and they'll even tell me, like,

"Google all the sexy words
for this."

And, you know,
they've tried to help

and coach me in it a lot,

and I've--I've--I've used a lot
of what they taught me.

But when I do go after it
a little bit more,

my fans can tell when I'm not
being real with them,

and they'll call me out on it
in a second.

And what's really cool
is the more that I embraced it,

I got more of a positive
response from them

because I wasn't trying
to be something different,

or someone that I'm not,

and it--it's definitely
what works best for me,

and I have so much fun doing it.

[music]

- LINNY: Bryan got the $20...
- KAYLA: Mm-hmm.

where it's the topless video
plus watch me write your name

while I talk to you
and touch myself.

[music]

Hi, Bryan. [giggles]

Hmm, I've been waiting
to write your name on my chest.

Wouldn't you like it
if I had your name

written on my chest,
and I fuck myself to you?

[giggles]
All right.

Bryan, and I'll put a little
heart for you at the end.

[giggles]

So if you tip me 65 right now,

I'll come to you.

LINNY: Sometimes,
I can make a thousand.

Usually, I will hit a thousand,

typically,
like in an hour and a half,

I'll hit a thousand.

The more and more fans
that come to me with more--

and I wouldn't even say
they're weird fetishes,

they're just sexual preferences
that people have.

I think that
it's really important

to be sexually open.

And because they're anonymous,
it kind of makes me,

uh, more open to that, too.

[music]

KAYLA: My daily life is crazy.
I wake up.

I work on my phone
for two to three hours.

I have to go to the gym
for at least two hours.

You have to, like,
keep up your appearance--

nails, lashes.
It's not just one picture.

I take hundreds of pictures
a day.

I'm filming. I'm taking
at least 10 videos a day,

then I have to splice that up,
and cut it and edit it.

Editing takes hours,
so I'll be working,

like, all day.

LINNY: Since you're gonna be
closer to this side.

Okay.

LINNY: I can get a picture.

ALEX: Between waking up,
the messages, shooting them,

editing them, sending them out,
making sure

they have the right price,

making sure that people
are getting

- what they paid for.
- [laughter]

ALEX: It is a 24 hour a day job.

[camera shutter clicks]

LINNY: I work so hard,
I still spend about 10

to 12 hours a day
because it's ever-changing.

Like, what might work today
might not work tomorrow.

WOMAN: Hot.

[laughs]

- She comes in the room, "Hot."
- [laughs]

How are you?
Thank you for joining.

[coins clinking]

There we--$35 already.
How's my goddess doing?

Babe, I've missed you.

[laughs] All right.
Here we go.

"Finger pussy for one minute."

Oh, my God.
My pussy is so tight.

[gasps]

Ah, fuck,
I'm gonna fucking come.

[telephone ringing]

Oh, Walgreens is calling me.

That was perfect timing.

[music]

LINNY: Oh my God, I'm crying.

[laughs]

LINNY: I'm very proud
of where I've come from,

and I'm very proud
of my success in this industry.

You know, last year,
I was struggling

to make 900 a month,

and I've already cleared
six figures this year.

Yeah, I cried.

I'm getting chills right now,
thinking about it,

because it's just--it's such
a big milestone for me.

This job is empowering,
and I think I love to see

people win, especially women,

because girl power.

And I love these girls.

[music]

WOMAN: The last person
I was having sex with

was very well-endowed,
which was very exciting for me.

I feel like I hit
the holy grail of dicks.

I know a lot of girls say
they like a really big wiener,

but I like an average wiener.

Definitely circumcised.

Definitely, like, no weird,
like, colors.

Some of the dicks
are speckled dicks,

like robin egg dicks,
you know what I'm talking about?

Like, I didn't know--
oh, yeah.

If it's too big,
it's uncomfortable.

If it's too small,
you can't feel shit.

It ain't gonna work out.

Penises are funny, and like,

especially in ways
that they can go in and out,

and there's like
a horse thing that happens.

There's funny things
that can happen.

You know, sex is funny.

Just like a good-looking dick.

Someone's watching this
with their weird dick out.

[laughs]

[music]

[doorbell rings]

Oh, hey.
Oh, uh, come on in.

You guys are a little early.

Daddy, do you have
your pants on?

No.

Well, uh, come on in here.

- [zipper zips]
- Hello.

Welcome to
"Sex Life After Dark" with Amp.

- And Mr. Kristofer.
- Though, Daddy,

why don't you tell everyone
about who we are?

[music]

KRIS: I am Mr. Kristofer.
I am Amp's Daddy.

Thank you.

We've been in a relationship

for several years.

We are not boyfriends,
but we do have

a very loving relationship,
and are able to date

other people.

I'm more of the older,
wiser viewpoint.

Sure.
Anyway, I'm Amp,

and I kind of keep him
on track.

I'm more of the straight man,

even if I am very gay.

We have a YouTube channel
called "Watts The Safeword."

This is why you can't play
with Daddy's toys.

- I'm the one that bought it.
- [laughs]

We talk about sex,
dating, masturbating,

all sorts of kinky fun
that happens in our sex lives.

[bleep tone]

Come on, papi.
Ride Daddy.

Giddyup.

And now, we've got the show
"Sex Life After Dark."

We talk about sex
in a positive way

because the Lord knows
your health class didn't.

- No.
- And we make sure that people

feel not only engaged,
but well-equipped,

whether it's below the belt
or above,

when it comes to sex.

Blindfold, blindfold, blindfold
is like the coolest thing.

And today, we're gonna talk
to you guys about sex,

kink, masturbating,
everything that happens

not only between the sheets,
but between your ears.

We're kicking it up a notch.

KRIS: Oh ho!

- Hello.
- Hello.

Welcome to
"Sex Life After Dark."

And today, we got a little
dressed up, a little fancy.

- Cool.
- Yeah.

So good to see you in clothes.

You kind of look like
the preacher's kid.

Whether you're prim and proper,

dressed in leather and lace,
or maybe you're a full dom top

in your full leathers,

you can't always judge a book
by its cover.

We all have
different backgrounds

and diverse sexual lives.

Even if we don't like sex.

I see you, asexual people.

All that to say,
today we are gonna get kinky,

but we are gonna talk
about some vanilla topics

as well.
But before we get there,

we are gonna start
with some of our favorite tops,

and I'm not just talking
about us.

- Ooh, our top 10 inches?
- Our top 10 list.

- Oh.
- [laughs]

[music]

Today's list is top 10 reasons
why vanilla people

are afraid to get into kinks.

Reason number one--they think
they'll be ruined

for normal sex.

Ooh.
I can see that. [laughs]

Because once you do it,
it's hard to go back.

It's like ice cream.
Once you have rocky road,

you don't want vanilla.

Daddy, these are--
these are fallacies.

So you're not supposed
to agree with them.

[laughs]

Reason number two--
it's too much work.

[groans]

Well, sometimes.
[laughs]

All you need is a tie.
Tie your partner to the bed.

Like, that's really not
that much more work.

One, two, three, tie you down.
Easy.

Don't be lazy, people.

Reason number three--
being kinky means

you're psychologically
unhealthy.

Actually, there are studies
to prove that kinksters

are more psychologically
healthy.

They know how to talk about
their kinks, their wants,

their needs,
and they're actually happier

in the bedroom, too.

Reason number four--
there's a fear of pain

- from kink.
- Yeah.

But not all kinks are painful.

Some kinks are actually
very gentle, and something

like puppy play,
where you're getting into

a really good,
like, animal headspace

- is very playful and fun.
- Good boy.

Reason number five--
kinksters are more prone

to get STIs?

Oh, that's not true.

If anything,
I think they're safer.

Reason number six--
they're afraid of failure.

- Who isn't?
- We fail all the time,

whether it's normal sex,
kinky sex.

Doing a show.
[laughs]

Reason number seven--
fear that your kinks

are too "out there."

Out there.
Out there.

I mean, I don't even know
what that means.

"Out there?"
Kinks are right here.

They're in the bedroom.
They're in our living room.

I think people are afraid
that society is gonna judge them

because of the way
we've been brought up.

Reason number eight--
kinksters don't crave love.

Who doesn't crave love?

Everybody loves love, regardless
if you're sexual or not.

Reason number nine--
having a kink is dehumanizing.

Ugh.
Only if I call you pig.

- Yeah. What else?
- KRIS: Yeah.

- You like that, don't you?
- I--yeah, dehumanize me, daddy.

Reason number 10,
last but not least--

you can't have a normal life
and a kinky sex life.

- What?
- Hello?

Hello.
We do both all the time.

We have normal jobs.
We also have

some kinky side jobs,

and we seem to be able
to juggle those just fine.

And that was our top 10 list.

Coming up next, we're talking
to Dr. Laurie Bennett-Cook,

our designated sexpert.

Mmm, and have some sexy talks.

But first, we're gonna get

some Just The Tips
from this guy.

[music]

Confucius once said,
"It does not matter how slowly

you go
as long as you do not stop."

[music]

Thank you for joining us
today, Dr. LBC.

I'm curious, what is an easy way
for a vanilla relationship

to try some new kinks?

Well, we have a kitchen
full of toys.

Everybody does.
We have toys here

but the average married couple
doesn't have this type of toy.

A lot of times, they can be
afraid to go to the store

to even shop for them,
but there's so many things

that you can have
just in your home.

Spatula, a wooden spoon,
even a fork to use for scraping,

and do things like take showers
together, do pull the hair,

try a different position.

It doesn't always have to be
the same thing.

Smack your partner on the butt.

See if they like it.
Do some tickling.

Blindfolds.
Blindfold, blindfold, blindfold

is like the coolest thing,

and one of the easiest things
to do.

- KRISTOFER: Yeah.
- Also restraining.

Like, just taking away
those two sensories, and then,

adding a feather,
or the spatula to spank.

Ooh, there's a good one.

So, do you think that kinks

should be more a part
of the conversation

when it comes to sexual health?

Yeah. Most of us have something
that we like

that we don't reveal
to other people,

that we think
is a little weird,

that somebody else
won't understand.

Yeah. Because there are so many
socially acceptable forms

of kinks and fetishes,
like, just, stockings on women,

high heels,
these are acceptable kinks,

but no one views it as that.

- Right.
- What was your gateway kink?

What was the "Aha" moment
that you had?

So, I didn't know
that it was kink

because when I was
a little girl,

I would play with my Barbies,

and I would tie them up naked,

and hang them
from the top of the Barbie--

You didn't know
that was kinky?

I was a little girl.
I didn't know.

- That's normal.
- And hang them

from the Barbie house,
and then, Ken

would have to come
and save her, "No. No."

And then they'd make out.

And so, years later,
I'm an adult now and everything,

I had a date
with this one guy,

and he was a cop.

And then, he took his gun
out of his thing,

and, like, laid it on the table
next to us.

- Like... [gasps] I felt danger.
- Hmm.

- LAURIE: Right?
- Yeah.

And then, he turned me around,

took the tie and blindfolded me

with his tie, and grabbed
my hair and pushed me

on the bed.

That was that.

And now she's addicted
to blindfolds.

I was gonna say, blindfolds
keep coming up for you.

You can put earbuds in.

And then you can, like,
totally program on your phone.

- So that's all they hear.
- Yeah.

Which is really cool, too,
because then they don't hear you

picking up whatever toy
you're going for next.

Blindfolds are the top's best friend.

You can blindfold the sub
and run around going,

"What am I doing next?
What am I gonna do next?

What am I doing next?"

Because while you're going
like, "Oh, what's next?"

the sub is sitting there going
like, "Oh, I wonder what's next.

I wonder what's next."

And then, you just kind of like,
give him a scratch.

They're like [gasps].

Yeah, the one thing you never
wanna hear while you're tied up

and blindfolded is..

BOTH: "Oops."

[laughter]

And now, we're gonna talk
with Erin and Ryan

about getting a little more
hands-on to leave a good impact.

Erin and Ryan,
welcome to the show.

How are you guys doing?

- Good. Thank you.
- Thanks for having us.

Do you mind just telling us
a little bit about yourselves?

Sure. We've been together
seven and a half years.

I'm a standup comic,
she does fetish modeling.

What are you guys into?

- We're really into impact play.
- I like it rough.

He's a little concerned
about being too rough.

When she's dominant
and I'm submissive,

everything is fine.

However, when we go
the other way, um,

I'm a little bit too
up in my head about it

because I'm worried
about actually injuring her.

A lot of people find
that role play

is jarring for them
because they have to be

this other person
that they're not,

and it's really hard to do
that with someone you love

'cause they know
who you are.

But sometimes,
I think we both feel

very silly in the moment.

It takes a little bit
of communication,

and knowing why someone wants
to do those kinks with you.

She doesn't want
you to--to hurt her

to actually hurt her,
she gets turned on

by you getting aggressive
and getting in the mood.

Ooh, ooh, idea.

Imagine Erin is in the audience

of one of your shows,
and she keeps heckling you,

and you take maybe a menu
from the bar,

and you just start
whacking her with it.

RYAN:
What kind of club is this?

A sex club.
That also has stand-up.

You could take in all
your heckler aggression on me.

Would that make you feel better?

- It would.
- Channel that.

I love it.

She left it on the bed
for me to discover.

That's actually
a good beginner toy

because it's kind of
a little bit wide.

The leather is doubled over,

so it's gonna sound
like it's hurting more

than it actually really is.

[loud slaps]

I see what you're saying.

It's also important for the sub

to make pleasurable noises
when you like something.

And if you want it to go
a little harder, Erin,

just be a little bratty,
and that should do the trick.

[laughter]

Do you want to actually try
a little bit?

Yeah.
Count me in.

And assume the position.

Rub her buttocks,
squeeze it a little bit.

That gets the blood flowing,
and it also prepares her

for where you're planning
on hitting.

The safe word is "tuberculosis."

[laughter]

KRIS: When you start
to go harder, pause.

Erin, on a scale of one to ten,
one being like you're asleep,

ten being, "Oh, my God,
stop!"

- Where are you at?
- Two.

So take it up to a four.

- Was that a good four?
- Not really.

I think you could amp it up
a little bit.

Ooh.
So, there's the back talk.

- Woohoo.
- We're kicking it up a notch.

- Oh.
- There you go.

All right, Erin, why don't you
show Ryan how you like it?

- I'm ready.
- Prepare your buns.

- [leather slaps]
- Ooh.

- [loud slap]
- Aah! Are you crazy?

[laughter]

See, look at that.

So, you guys can still joke
and have fun.

Well, I hope
that helped you guys out,

and that you guys will
explore more and hit harder.

Absolutely.
It was a lot of fun.

We really appreciate
your help, guys.

- Seriously. Bye.
- Bye.

[music]

So you know porn.

I do know porn.

You've watched plenty of porn.

Do you think you could tell
the difference

between something
a porn star said

and a politician?

Ooh, that's different.

I'm going to read off
a quote, and I want you

to tell me
if a porn star said it,

or if it was something
a politician said.

Hit me.

The first quote...

Porn star or politician?

So, first of all,
what's a tyrannosaurus?

It's a dinosaur, right?

You not honestly know
what a tyrannosaurus rex is?

It's--it's the--the ones
with the little arms

like this?
"Raar, raar."

Politician.

- Actually, yes.
- Oh.

Senator Ted Kennedy said that.

- Wow.
- Next quote...

That's a porn
kind of line, right?

That's kind of like,
"Thank God,

you pizza guys arrive."

Yes.
It was a porn star.

Apparently, he was delivering
an extra-large sausage pizza.

Which, for the record,
stop starting porns

as if a delivery guy
just shows up and fucks you.

No--nobody is just showing up,
and all of a sudden--

anyway, you're right.
Yes.

That's happened to me once.

- Wait, for real?
- Yeah.

Next quote...

I'm gonna go politician.

Dang it.
Yes.

- It was a politician.
- Yeah!

Uh, President John Kennedy
said that.

Next quote...

Politician.

- Yes.
- [laughs]

Governor Arnold
Schwarzenegger.

Yeah, it was.

Hasta la vista, baby.

And it was on getting
the cold shoulder

from his wife after backing
President George W. Bush.

Wow.
She held out.

The next quote says...

Politician.

Wrong.

It was--it was a porn star.

And the final quote...

That sounds
like a rich Republican.

I'm gonna go with politician.

That was actually a quote
from Barbara Bush.

Barbara Bush?
You're kidding me.

- Well done, Daddy.
- Oh, thank you.

You definitely know
a porn star from a politician.

Let's answer some fan Q&As.

[music]

Okay. Daddy, are you ready
for some more

fan-submitted questions?

- Yeah. Hit me.
- Okay.

This next one asks...

Everybody's a little bit
different.

Some people wanna have sex
all the time...

Mm-hmm.

and some of us
just every once in a while.

So you have to find
a common ground.

Or you could try
something new,

like bringing in a third.

Did someone say
bring in a third?

Whoa.

Dr. LBC,
would you like to join us

- on some questions?
- Why, sure.

Talk about bedside manner.

The next question asks,
"How do you best manage

time and expectations between
dates and poly partners?"

Hmm, calendars.

Hmm, yeah.
That's important.

So, when you have multiple
boys and partners

all over the place,
especially with time zones,

- people's--
- We get it.

You're popular, so many boys.
Uch.

Well, that's true.
Keeping everyone on track,

it's a lot of work.

Again though,
communication works great,

and making sure you know
where people stand

is super helpful.

And making sure nobody's
left out of the equation.

You need to respect
all the players.

For instance,
if you're gonna join

a threesome, it's probably best

to let us know
that you're here

before you just pop up.

The next question asks,
"How do you maintain closeness

"with your partner
when you are unable

to provide sexual stimulation
of any kind?"

Hmm.

Cuddles.

- Cuddles are nice.
- Yeah.

Sexual stimulation
isn't the only way to be close

- to someone.
- Sure.

Letting your partner know
how you feel about them,

whether they're physically close
or not is really helpful,

and makes them know
that you're thinking of them.

Hmm, or more cuddles.

Come on.
[giggles]

[music]

[giggles, growling]

Thank you all for watching
"Sex Life After Dark."

I've been Amp,
and I just wanted to say that,

whether you're a vanilla
or kinky,

we all come to the table
with wants and needs,

and just looking to have
a good time.

Are you wrapping up without me?

Why are you still wearing that?

I told you to change.

Ugh, I just got comfortable.
Hmpf.

Um, and if there's one thing
we can learn from Mr. Kristofer

is that it's never a bad idea
to be the butt of the joke.

Daddy, that is not what I meant
when I said to put

on a pair of chaps.

[music]

SINGER: ♪ Can you see these
feet, they're running free ♪

♪ To a new world of discovery

♪ There's a fire in my heart

♪ There's a light
that won't go out ♪

♪ From a knock down, I got up

♪ Now I'm standing on my own

[music]