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OK.
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Well, why aren't you upset?
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I mean, I am.
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But it's fine. You
obviously have your reasons.
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Do you want to know
what they are?
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I mean, if you don't think
we should keep
seeing each other,
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I'm certainly not
going to force you.
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We've been seeing each other
for three months
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and you have never once
opened up to me.
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I do have a little girl
to consider.
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A little girl?
She's 11.
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It was a big step for me
to start dating again.
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You're a grown man, aren't you?
Maybe it's time for you
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to put on your big-boy pants
and be emotionally available.
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There's a lot for me to
navigate, with regard to Emma.
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Oh. Thank you so much
for reminding me.
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Please don't be sarcastic.
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Can you please not be
a piece of shit?
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OK... um...
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Emma's in a really fragile
state right now.
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She keeps having these
full-on panic attacks.
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I'm not even sure
if I know how to stop them.
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Then I should talk to her.
I'm an empath.
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OK, are we ready to order?
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Does it look like we're ready?
Fuck off!
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You don't think I'd make
a good mother, do you?
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I'm the one
breaking up with you.
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Please don't
take this away from me.
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I'm sorry?
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- You're antiquated.
- I'm antiquated?
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You're old-fashioned, outdated.
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No, I know what the term
'antiquated' means.
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You're a dinosaur.
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And do you know what
happened to the dinosaurs?
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- Mm-hm.
- A flaming meteor
crashed into them
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and they died
because they weren't ready.
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Can anyone really be ready
for a meteor?
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Well, you're certainly not.
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And you're a three.
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- I'm a three?
- Mm-hm.
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Usually, I'm a seven.
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But when I'm with you,
I'm a nine.
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Emma would be sooo lucky
to have a mum who's a nine.
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Can you please stop
making a scene?
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Oh, my God! Stop trying
to control everything!
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You can't control everything!
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And traffic is
starting to back up on the A20.
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Now here's Tony
with the weather.
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Thanks, Karen. After a
chilly night of 7.5 degrees,
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Adelaide is in for
a sunny one today,
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with a high of 25 degrees
in the city,
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while the lower southeast
Mt Lofty region...
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- Hey, bubs.
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Gotta go.
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Em?
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Look, I know how tricky
today must be for you.
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- It is for me too...
- Dad!
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Right.
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Uh, I'll meet you outside,
then, OK?
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I don't need your help.
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We're not going to
make it in time.
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I was trying to get you out
of your room this morning-
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I had to finish Earth.
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Go that way.
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Bubs, we're better off staying
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- on the usual route, I'm telling you.
- It's not moving!
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Hey, over here!
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Emma, no.
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- Dad!
- No, no.
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- Stop.
- I said no.
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Dad!
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You gotta be kidding me.
It's too damn early.
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Hey, how are you?
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- We gotta go.
-Hope these sandwiches are OK.
-Thank you.
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- Bye-bye.
- Thank you.
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You cannot do things like that.
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- He's homeless.
- I don't care.
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He could be dangerous.
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It is my job to keep you safe.
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-Hey! Are you calling?
-Somebody call an ambulance!
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No airbags. No airbags.
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- Em?
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Em, it's me it's daddy.
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I'm here. You're OK.
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Hi. Are you OK?
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- She gets panic attacks.
- Yeah. OK. I get it.
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Look at me. Look at me. OK.
I just need you to look at me.
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There's something in her bag.
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Coming, Em! Coming, baby!
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- Em! Em!
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Em! You're... OK.
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What did you say to her?
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What did you do?
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She hit your car.
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Oh, God.
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It's to stop me
from turning my head.
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- Does it hurt?
- Who is it, bubs?
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Um, hi.
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You gave me your address,
through insurance.
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I wanted to say sorry for...
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for wrecking your universe.
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I read it when I was your age,
and I loved it.
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You don't know my age.
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- 11?
- I'm 12 in two months.
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That's a thoughtful gesture.
What do you say, Em?
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No?
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You don't want to say anything?
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Well, at least she took it.
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Um... Do you want to...
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This is a complete
invasion of...
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I should not have...
I shouldn't have come here.
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What? No, no.
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Hey. Um...
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Hey! Hey!
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Uh... Hey!
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Wait up!
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What was your name, again?
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Mary.
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Would you, uh,
like a cup of Gary?
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Fuck.
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Tea.
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Would you like a cup of tea,
Mary?
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My name is Gary.
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Sure.
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How long have you
been in Australia?
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Uh, 12 years.
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That's Emma's mom.
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My ex-wife.
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She live far away?
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Uh, yes...
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I'm sorry. I don't know
why I said ex-wife.
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Um.
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She died.
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Oh.
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Cancer.
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Um, I'm sorry.
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Oh. Well, thank you.
We're used to it by now.
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As used to it as you can be,
I guess.
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- Uh, milk?
- Yeah.
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What was her name?
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Lisa.
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- Oh, shit.
- What?
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The book I gave her -
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the mom is dead and she
lives alone with her dad.
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Oh, God. Well, I wouldn't
worry about that too much.
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Well, then her dad dies
and leaves her all by herself.
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Mmm.
She may actually like that bit.
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- Agh!
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- Are you OK?
- Uh, yeah.
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I just dropped the, uh...
Damn!
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- Oh, that's a lot of blood.
- That is a lot of blood.
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I would put that under the tap.
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- I'm gonna go get a bandaid.
- I'll get you a bandaid.
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- OK. Sure.
- Tell me where to go.
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- It's, uh,
just down the hallway,
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and it's gonna be the bathroom,
last door on the right.
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OK.
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You said you knew where I was.
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After the accident.
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When I was scared.
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You said that
you'd been there too.
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Oh, I have.
A bunch of times.
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Well, there's a lot of blood
coming out of your dad.
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I'm gonna stick some of this...
This is eucalyptus oil...
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It's gonna sting.
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- I'm sorry.
- Brave. Brave.
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Yeah. I'm gonna do two.
I'm gonna do two.
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- Mm-hm.
- I'll make it quick.
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- Mm-hm. Mm-hm. Mm-hm.
- Oh, gosh. Sorry.
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- It hurts a lot.
- Does it really?
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Yeah. I want to pretend
like it doesn't.
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What, uh, brought you here?
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Truthfully?
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Um...
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There was something
about your daughter.
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At the accident, I...
I know this sounds like a
complete weirdo thing to s...
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I'm so sorry.
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I meant what brought you
to Australia?
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Oh.
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Idiot. Um...
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Uh... I...
I wanted a change.
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Whereabouts in America?
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- Chicago.
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Can't get more of a change
than Chicago to Adelaide.
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Mm-hm. You bet.
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Why did you choose Adelaide?
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Uh, I can work from anywhere.
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What do you do?
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I volunteer places.
I do stuff for charities.
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So I go to
a nursing home every day,
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I make and donate stuff.
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Oh. Did you mean what do
I do for a living?
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Oh, right, um...
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Uh, I give relationship advice
in a column.
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Wow!
What kind of qualifications
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do you need
for something like that?
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Oh, I have an undergraduate
degree in psychology, um,
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but I don't really use it, um,
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well, I stopped pursuing that
when I got here,
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'cause it was really hard for
me to do the one-on-one stuff.
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How come?
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Um...
Why did you come here?
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Lisa was Australian.
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Um, so we moved
when she was pregnant.
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And then, uh, after she died,
um...
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I just felt like
I couldn't take Emma
away from Lisa's family.
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Felt like it would hurt her
too much to leave them behind.
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Emma? You OK?
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- Oh!
- Oh! God! W...
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- It's all over you!
- Oh, my gosh. I'm so sorry.
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I...I... You're sorry?
I'm sorry!
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- Have you got a tea towel?
- Yes.
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We are not good with mugs.
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Last time you're gonna
see mugs over here.
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Do you need anything else?
Like ice?
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Ice or anything?
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Mary!
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Mary.
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Are we really doing this again?
Are you OK?
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I just... I felt like...
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You know, I gave your daughter
an inappropriate book, and...
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Like I said, it's seriously not a big deal.
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- But then I smashed
one of your mugs.
- It's just a mug.
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- I just feel like I should go.
- It's just a mug.
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You'd already smashed a mug.
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Look, you, um,
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coming in to check on Emma
was a very thoughtful gesture.
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I did hit you both with my car.
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You did.
And I am planning on suing you.
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I've been struggling
a lot lately.
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Emma's got all sorts of issues.
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I don't, frankly,
know how to handle them.
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You speaking to her
after the accident, I...
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I don't know what you said,
but, um...
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I'm having a really hard time
articulating myself right now.
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Uh...
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Can I maybe take you out
to dinner tomorrow,
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to talk about her?
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Oh, I can't do that.
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Oh. I'm so sorry.
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I did not mean to overstep
my boundaries.
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No! No.
I mean I can't do dinner.
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Um...
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I could do lunch.
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Tomorrow?
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Sure. I could do
lunch tomorrow.
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- Great.
- OK.
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Promise you won't
run away again?
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Uh, yeah, yeah. No, I mean,
I can't promise that.
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I don't know,
between work and Emma,
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I don't really feel like
I have much time for myself.
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- I get that.
- What about you?
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- Oh, I have lots of hobbies.
- Like?
254
00:15:52,855 --> 00:15:56,255
Well, I speak four languages.
I do topiary.
255
00:15:56,358 --> 00:15:58,178
Um, quilting and knitting.
256
00:15:58,281 --> 00:16:00,581
Pickling and pottery.
257
00:16:00,685 --> 00:16:02,865
I spent a full year
doing close-up magic
258
00:16:02,963 --> 00:16:04,693
to entertain
at the nursing home.
259
00:16:04,792 --> 00:16:06,652
Muay Thai.
260
00:16:06,749 --> 00:16:08,419
And I make cheese.
261
00:16:08,513 --> 00:16:10,253
You make topiaries?
262
00:16:10,353 --> 00:16:13,863
- Like, building things out of trees?
- Shrubs.
263
00:16:13,959 --> 00:16:15,959
Where do you even begin to
learn something like that?
264
00:16:16,038 --> 00:16:17,418
Online.
265
00:16:17,519 --> 00:16:19,519
Oh. This is it.
266
00:16:21,627 --> 00:16:22,847
It's amazing - it's been
run by the same family
267
00:16:22,944 --> 00:16:24,894
for the past 60 years.
268
00:16:24,992 --> 00:16:26,372
- Gianni, how are you?
- Hey, Gary!
269
00:16:26,473 --> 00:16:27,853
- How you doing?
- Good to see you.
270
00:16:27,949 --> 00:16:30,249
- Alfie, how are you?
- Table for two?
271
00:16:30,353 --> 00:16:31,503
I can't eat there.
272
00:16:31,598 --> 00:16:33,688
Uh, hang on a sec.
273
00:16:34,295 --> 00:16:36,765
Hey!
274
00:16:36,779 --> 00:16:38,399
- You don't like Italian food?
- Uh, I've got allergies.
275
00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:39,750
- I'm vegan.
- What to?
276
00:16:40,248 --> 00:16:42,118
Italian food.
277
00:16:42,127 --> 00:16:43,307
OK. I'm so sorry.
I wish I had checked...
278
00:16:43,406 --> 00:16:46,226
It's not your fault!
279
00:16:46,329 --> 00:16:47,209
Is it a gluten thing?
They have great
gluten-free pizza.
280
00:16:47,295 --> 00:16:49,295
What about here?
281
00:17:21,327 --> 00:17:23,547
I haven't heard music in a bar
for 12 years.
282
00:17:23,651 --> 00:17:26,231
What are you talking about?
283
00:17:26,334 --> 00:17:28,724
I haven't been out in a really,
really, really long time.
284
00:17:28,812 --> 00:17:31,162
How's that even possible?
285
00:17:31,251 --> 00:17:32,021
I get why someone like me
hasn't been to...
286
00:17:32,100 --> 00:17:33,720
Do you dance?
287
00:17:33,822 --> 00:17:35,722
Uh, probably going to need to
288
00:17:35,822 --> 00:17:38,082
drink a lot more
before that can happen.
289
00:17:38,182 --> 00:17:40,192
- That was really expensive.
- Mmm.
290
00:17:41,151 --> 00:17:42,891
What music are you into?
291
00:17:42,988 --> 00:17:44,528
I don't listen to music.
292
00:17:44,629 --> 00:17:47,449
Why? No. Really?
293
00:17:47,555 --> 00:17:50,095
Do you know
this is Melody Gardot?
294
00:17:50,197 --> 00:17:52,697
Melody Gardot?
295
00:17:52,798 --> 00:17:54,458
- Wow.
- Oh, oh! Melody Gardot?
296
00:17:54,562 --> 00:17:57,142
- No, I don't.
- OK.
297
00:17:57,247 --> 00:18:00,657
Well, before Melody Gardot
was THIS Melody Gardot,
298
00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:02,990
she was actually... More.
..hit by a car.
299
00:18:03,086 --> 00:18:05,626
She was in hospital
for a year, with memory loss.
300
00:18:05,729 --> 00:18:07,479
But there was this physician
who believed
301
00:18:07,568 --> 00:18:10,388
that he could heal her brain
through music.
302
00:18:10,495 --> 00:18:12,395
So he taught her to hum
and then to sing.
303
00:18:12,495 --> 00:18:14,315
And now here she is!
304
00:18:14,414 --> 00:18:17,254
And if she hadn't been
hit by that car,
305
00:18:17,341 --> 00:18:19,001
we wouldn't be
listening to that voice.
306
00:18:19,104 --> 00:18:23,094
That voice melts spines.
307
00:18:29,394 --> 00:18:32,184
Why don't you like music, Gary?
308
00:18:32,278 --> 00:18:34,698
Well, Mary, I like it.
309
00:18:34,798 --> 00:18:36,218
I just don't listen to it
anymore.
310
00:18:36,322 --> 00:18:39,832
Why?
311
00:18:39,923 --> 00:18:43,553
We had trouble settling Emma
when she was a baby.
312
00:18:43,651 --> 00:18:45,871
'Cause she would cry all the time.
We tried everything.
313
00:18:45,970 --> 00:18:48,150
And then one day we worked out
314
00:18:48,254 --> 00:18:50,004
the only thing that
would make her sleep...
315
00:18:50,091 --> 00:18:52,101
- Was what?
316
00:18:54,459 --> 00:18:55,379
The only thing that
would make her sleep
317
00:18:55,459 --> 00:18:56,959
is when I would sing to her.
318
00:18:57,062 --> 00:18:58,642
Aw. What would you sing?
319
00:18:58,747 --> 00:18:59,967
Just a song.
320
00:19:00,062 --> 00:19:02,532
- Can I hear it?
- No.
321
00:19:02,626 --> 00:19:04,626
No, I haven't sung that
since she was little.
322
00:19:05,508 --> 00:19:07,328
- Come on, Gary.
- No.
323
00:19:07,432 --> 00:19:09,412
- Gary!
- No. No.
324
00:19:09,510 --> 00:19:11,180
- No, no, no.
- OK.
325
00:19:11,276 --> 00:19:13,776
What if the reason
we ended up here
326
00:19:13,876 --> 00:19:17,696
is so that you could sing
again?
327
00:19:17,805 --> 00:19:20,415
The music stopped!
You're laughing,
but it's meant to be!
328
00:19:20,526 --> 00:19:22,466
- Come on.
- It's not gonna happen.
329
00:19:22,566 --> 00:19:23,986
I'll cover my eyes.
I'm not even gonna look at you.
330
00:19:24,086 --> 00:19:25,386
Look, I'm looking at my hands.
331
00:19:25,490 --> 00:19:27,910
You can cover your entire body.
332
00:19:28,010 --> 00:19:30,190
- I don't want to sing
right now.
- Come on, Gary.
333
00:19:30,289 --> 00:19:31,999
- My God.
- Do you want me
to go under the table?
334
00:19:32,095 --> 00:19:33,715
No! Just... Stop
bringing attention to us.
335
00:19:33,816 --> 00:19:35,636
OK. Just do it. Really quietly.
336
00:19:35,740 --> 00:19:37,240
I'm not gonna judge you.
337
00:19:37,341 --> 00:19:39,341
Thanks, I appreciate that.
338
00:19:50,834 --> 00:19:52,844
OK, OK.
339
00:19:56,635 --> 00:19:59,895
♪ There is freedom within
340
00:20:00,004 --> 00:20:02,834
♪ There is freedom without
341
00:20:02,930 --> 00:20:05,890
♪ Try to catch the deluge
in a paper cup
342
00:20:09,173 --> 00:20:12,393
♪ There's a battle ahead
343
00:20:12,495 --> 00:20:15,355
♪ Many battles are lost
344
00:20:15,459 --> 00:20:17,999
♪ But you'll never see
the end of the road
345
00:20:18,100 --> 00:20:20,100
♪ While you're
travelling with me
346
00:20:22,187 --> 00:20:24,927
♪ Hey, now, hey, now
347
00:20:25,028 --> 00:20:29,608
♪ Don't dream it's over
348
00:20:29,711 --> 00:20:32,661
♪ Hey, now, hey, now
349
00:20:32,754 --> 00:20:36,824
♪ When the world comes in
350
00:20:36,914 --> 00:20:41,264
♪ They come, they come
351
00:20:41,365 --> 00:20:45,305
♪ To build a wall between us
352
00:20:45,408 --> 00:20:47,408
♪ We know
353
00:20:53,180 --> 00:20:55,180
That was beautiful.
354
00:20:57,783 --> 00:21:01,373
Clearly, it didn't work.
You're still awake.
355
00:21:01,466 --> 00:21:03,436
I think you should sing it
for her again.
356
00:21:03,546 --> 00:21:05,156
Fuck, no.
She would hate that.
357
00:21:05,267 --> 00:21:07,287
No, I bet she wouldn't.
358
00:21:07,385 --> 00:21:09,385
You don't know my daughter.
359
00:21:13,394 --> 00:21:16,104
-You said...
-Hey, no, no, no.
360
00:21:16,193 --> 00:21:19,423
The secret to the answer
is in the questions.
361
00:21:19,526 --> 00:21:22,306
You find out what it is that
THEY want to do,
362
00:21:22,403 --> 00:21:25,353
then you advise them to do it.
363
00:21:25,443 --> 00:21:26,413
But, then, sometimes,
I honestly have to
make up the question,
364
00:21:26,488 --> 00:21:27,948
because it's so boring.
365
00:21:28,055 --> 00:21:29,905
- You make them up?
- Mmm.
366
00:21:30,010 --> 00:21:32,010
- Isn't that against the law?
- No.
367
00:21:33,937 --> 00:21:36,997
OK.
368
00:21:37,100 --> 00:21:40,360
I just kind of draw on my, um,
life experience, I guess.
369
00:21:40,461 --> 00:21:41,971
Give me an example. You've
got to give me an example.
370
00:21:42,062 --> 00:21:44,282
OK.
Dear Adelaide...
371
00:21:44,385 --> 00:21:45,845
- Adelaide?
- Adelaide.
372
00:21:45,947 --> 00:21:48,847
Dear Adelaide, I, um,
373
00:21:48,952 --> 00:21:52,172
I feel like I'm doing
a bad job as a dad,
374
00:21:52,276 --> 00:21:55,016
and my little girl has trouble
telling me what she needs.
375
00:21:55,122 --> 00:21:57,862
So I try to make everything
perfect around her,
376
00:21:57,959 --> 00:22:00,029
but it doesn't seem to
make her happy.
377
00:22:00,120 --> 00:22:01,540
And I don't know what to do.
378
00:22:01,644 --> 00:22:03,064
Sincerely, G.
379
00:22:03,164 --> 00:22:05,394
G? OK.
380
00:22:05,488 --> 00:22:06,388
I can relate. Go on.
381
00:22:06,488 --> 00:22:09,028
Dear G,
382
00:22:09,126 --> 00:22:10,746
you say you're trying to
make everything perfect,
383
00:22:10,850 --> 00:22:13,680
but perfect doesn't exist.
384
00:22:13,776 --> 00:22:17,756
Perfect's the armour we wear to
stop ourselves from being seen.
385
00:22:17,856 --> 00:22:19,756
And maybe it's the thing that's
stopping your little girl
386
00:22:19,856 --> 00:22:22,876
from seeing you
and feeling close to you.
387
00:22:22,981 --> 00:22:25,091
Maybe you should
run towards imperfections,
388
00:22:25,187 --> 00:22:31,497
and laugh and cry
and dance, sing.
389
00:22:31,591 --> 00:22:33,251
Get messy.
390
00:22:33,354 --> 00:22:36,024
Messy's good.
391
00:22:36,122 --> 00:22:38,122
Break yourself open -
it's how the light gets in.
392
00:22:39,356 --> 00:22:41,356
Always, Adelaide.
393
00:22:45,086 --> 00:22:46,466
When did you
come up with that one?
394
00:22:46,572 --> 00:22:49,392
Right now.
395
00:22:49,490 --> 00:22:51,030
I'm trying to get you
to sing to your kid.
396
00:22:51,129 --> 00:22:53,559
Right...
397
00:22:53,658 --> 00:22:56,718
Can I ask, um...
398
00:22:56,822 --> 00:23:00,682
what you did in the car
for Emma?
399
00:23:00,783 --> 00:23:02,783
I could see
she was scared in there.
400
00:23:03,943 --> 00:23:06,373
She's done that before.
401
00:23:06,466 --> 00:23:09,526
It's like she's built this
fortress around herself,
402
00:23:09,626 --> 00:23:11,626
so that nothing can hurt her.
403
00:23:12,716 --> 00:23:14,716
I'm doing everything I can.
404
00:23:19,356 --> 00:23:21,456
I get scared sometimes.
405
00:23:21,562 --> 00:23:23,562
Scared of what?
406
00:23:25,930 --> 00:23:28,470
Somehow I caused all of this.
407
00:23:28,568 --> 00:23:31,748
After Lisa died, I spiralled.
408
00:23:31,850 --> 00:23:33,350
Emma was four.
409
00:23:33,459 --> 00:23:36,519
And, um...
410
00:23:36,622 --> 00:23:40,002
Took me years before I felt
like I could be her dad again.
411
00:23:40,100 --> 00:23:42,160
I know it probably
doesn't feel this way,
412
00:23:42,260 --> 00:23:43,970
but you're already doing
the best thing for her.
413
00:23:44,062 --> 00:23:46,612
You're present.
414
00:23:46,709 --> 00:23:50,169
And she may be pushing you
away, but you're there.
415
00:23:50,269 --> 00:23:52,369
I mean, that kind of stability
is so rare, Gary.
416
00:23:52,475 --> 00:23:55,335
It's... It's fucking priceless.
417
00:23:55,437 --> 00:23:57,457
I can't believe I just
unloaded all that on you.
418
00:23:57,557 --> 00:23:59,777
- I'm sorry. I am so sorry.
- No! No. No, it's OK.
419
00:23:59,879 --> 00:24:01,029
- I'm an advice columnist.
- Oh, God.
420
00:24:01,120 --> 00:24:03,660
- That's fine.
- You know what?
421
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,260
I help everybody
with their problems.
422
00:24:05,365 --> 00:24:08,265
- You know what, Mary?
- What?
423
00:24:08,370 --> 00:24:10,590
I'm not gonna sue you anymore.
424
00:24:10,691 --> 00:24:11,731
No, I promise. I'm gonna call
my lawyer tomorrow.
425
00:24:11,812 --> 00:24:13,872
I just...
426
00:24:13,975 --> 00:24:14,935
I can't believe
I'm giving anyone advice.
427
00:24:15,010 --> 00:24:17,760
My life is a mess.
428
00:24:22,863 --> 00:24:24,873
Messy is good.
429
00:24:35,231 --> 00:24:37,241
Who put on that song?
430
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,700
- I don't know.
- Did you just put on the song?
431
00:24:42,805 --> 00:24:44,745
I've been sitting here
with you.
432
00:24:44,841 --> 00:24:46,661
Um, I need to go.
433
00:24:46,767 --> 00:24:48,307
Did I do something wrong?
434
00:24:48,408 --> 00:24:50,908
No, I just feel like this is,
um...
435
00:24:51,010 --> 00:24:53,950
I shouldn't have put myself
in this situation.
436
00:24:54,055 --> 00:24:56,675
- What situation?
- I haven't day-drunk
in a really long time, so...
437
00:24:56,778 --> 00:24:58,798
I don't think it's day anymore.
438
00:24:58,901 --> 00:25:00,161
- Really? What time is it?
- After 6.
439
00:25:00,260 --> 00:25:02,260
Oh, fuck!
440
00:25:15,874 --> 00:25:18,384
Dear Adelaide,
441
00:25:18,479 --> 00:25:20,899
I've been alone
for a really long time.
442
00:25:20,999 --> 00:25:23,419
A boy has appeared and made
himself vulnerable to me.
443
00:25:23,526 --> 00:25:25,336
He has made me question
444
00:25:25,443 --> 00:25:27,873
why I've chosen to live
a certain way.
445
00:25:27,966 --> 00:25:29,826
I feel like
I'm running from my past,
446
00:25:29,930 --> 00:25:32,670
and I can never reveal
who I really am.
447
00:25:32,776 --> 00:25:34,786
I've been badly hurt.
448
00:25:34,894 --> 00:25:38,324
I feel lost,
and I don't deserve love.
449
00:25:38,414 --> 00:25:41,164
How do you know when that
person is the right one?
450
00:25:41,260 --> 00:25:43,260
Sincerely, M.
451
00:25:45,747 --> 00:25:49,007
Dear M, thank you for writing.
452
00:25:49,106 --> 00:25:51,686
Losing yourself - I'm not
going to sugar-coat it -
453
00:25:51,789 --> 00:25:54,779
that's the worst thing
you can do.
454
00:25:54,874 --> 00:25:57,624
Don't stop believing
in who you are.
455
00:25:57,716 --> 00:25:59,256
It's one thing to know that
456
00:25:59,356 --> 00:26:01,456
kindness and vulnerability
matter,
457
00:26:01,562 --> 00:26:05,622
but the first person
you need to be kind to is you.
458
00:26:05,725 --> 00:26:09,185
We're all feeling our way
through the dark.
459
00:26:09,287 --> 00:26:12,187
- Stop running in circles.
460
00:26:12,289 --> 00:26:14,869
Stop running from yourself,
461
00:26:14,975 --> 00:26:16,475
and start running to the light.
462
00:26:16,575 --> 00:26:18,715
Oh, fuck!
463
00:26:18,816 --> 00:26:22,556
Don't lose track of your heart.
464
00:26:22,658 --> 00:26:27,528
It's the only thing
that's keeping you going.
465
00:26:27,626 --> 00:26:30,046
And remember,
you don't get what you need
466
00:26:30,151 --> 00:26:33,091
until you're brave enough
to admit that you need it.
467
00:26:33,191 --> 00:26:35,891
Jump in head-first
and fight for it -
468
00:26:35,997 --> 00:26:37,247
even if it means
fighting for yourself.
469
00:26:37,356 --> 00:26:39,356
Fuck!
470
00:26:40,914 --> 00:26:42,744
How do you know that
471
00:26:42,841 --> 00:26:44,981
this person is
the right one for you?
472
00:26:45,084 --> 00:26:47,314
You won't know
unless you open the door
473
00:26:47,408 --> 00:26:49,348
to the possibility that
you do deserve to be loved.
474
00:26:49,447 --> 00:26:52,267
Agh!
475
00:26:52,372 --> 00:26:55,392
Strip away the layers
and break yourself open.
476
00:26:55,497 --> 00:26:58,357
That's how the light gets in.
477
00:26:58,459 --> 00:26:59,559
Don't lock yourself
in your basement.
478
00:27:03,376 --> 00:27:05,376
- Always, Adelaide.
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