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Discovering Buddhism
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How to Develop Bodhicitta
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His Holiness the Dalai
Lama has said that
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real compassion comes from
seeing the suffering of others
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and you feel a sense of responsibility
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and want to do something for them.
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The more we care for
the happiness of others,
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the greater is our own
sense of well-being.
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In Buddhism,
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this attitude of wishing to
give ultimate benefit to others
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as much as possible
is called "Bodhicitta."
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It is the heart of Buddhist practice.
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Now we all know an eye for an
eye only makes the world blind.
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We hear this wisdom but how
can we really practice it?
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Buddha taught accessible methods
for how to transform every heart,
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no matter how wounded, into one that
only thinks of benefiting others.
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Join us as we learn how to
develop this profound compassion.
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MOTIVATION
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At the beginning of
each of our teachings
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we have been setting an
appropriate motivation.
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That motivation has been the
wish to achieve enlightenment
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in order to be able to
benefit all living beings
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and lead them to enlightenment as well.
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This intention, this wish,
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is actually the mind of
bodhicitta and is known also
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as the mind of Enlightenment.
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Now bodhicitta is an attitude that is
progressively developed step-by-step.
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And the very first step in
that process of development is
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generating an appropriate motivation,
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a strong motivation for practice.
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And so before listening
to these teachings,
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in your mind make a strong
determination to be able,
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as quickly as possible, to
reach the state of Buddahood.
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Not for yourself alone but in
order to benefit all living beings.
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For as long as space endures
And for as long as living beings remain
Until then may I too abide
To dispel the misery of the world.
- Shantideva
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TEACHERS
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His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama Tenzin Gyatso
has lived in India as the exiled
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Head of State and Spiritual Leader of the Tibetan people
since the Chinese occupation in1959.
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His Holiness, winner of the Nobel Peace Prize,
is one of the most renowned
and beloved spiritual leaders in the world
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and has traveled over
46 nations as a major proponent
of human rights and world peace.
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So once you have that
kind of true understanding
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of the nature of suffering with
relation to one's own existence,
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then you extend that
understanding, that recognition,
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towards all other sentient beings
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and reflect upon their
status as suffering beings.
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And then cultivate the wish
that just as you yourself
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wish to attain freedom
from the suffering,
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so too all of these sentient beings
wish to be free from suffering.
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So in that way you
cultivate great compassion
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and the wish that all sentient
beings enjoy happiness,
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which is the freedom from suffering
that is the loving-kindness.
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So on the basis of compassion that
wishes others to be free of suffering,
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loving kindness that wishes
others to enjoy happiness,
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then you cultivate a sense
of special responsibility.
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Therefore your compassion does not
remain simply at the level of wish
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or aspiration but rather it
generates a sense of commitment
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and responsibility that I shall
liberate all beings from suffering.
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And this kind of extraordinary
sense of responsibility will lead
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to the eventual
realization of bodhicitta
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which is the altruistic intention,
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aspiring to attain Buddhahood
for the benefit of all beings.
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The bodhicitta is like a central
axle of the Mahayana path.
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Therefore it is this
factor of bodhicitta,
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which determines whether or
not you are within the fold
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or outside the fold of the
bodhisattva practitioners.
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So if you lack the bodhicitta,
this altruistic intention,
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no matter how other powerful
practices that you may have such as
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the realization of emptiness, even
direct realization of emptiness,
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or even nirvana that
you may have attained,
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none of these practices become
the conducts of a bodhisattva.
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When you have the quality of
bodhicitta, realization of bodhicitta,
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even a simple act of virtue
such as feeding the ants,
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giving food to the ants, which may
seem a kind of an insignificant activity
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but because of your
bodhicitta motivation,
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this altruistic intention, even
these simple acts are transformed
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into conditions for attainment
of full enlightenment.
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So in a way it is like an elixir
that transforms base metals into gold.
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Born in Nepal in 1946, Lama Zopa Rinpoche
is the reincarnation of the Lawudo Lama.
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Rinpoche began Kopan Monastery
with his heart teacher Lama Thubten Yeshe.
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Together they have made traditional
Buddhist education available to thousands
of western students since 1972.
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Rinpoche is now the Spiritual Director
of FPMT International, which is comprised of
136 centers worldwide.
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Lama Zopa Rinpoche devotes himself tirelessly
for the benefit of countless beings.
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I think answer for everything, answer
for everything I think it's compassion,
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you know, bodhicitta.
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The purpose of my life is not just
to achieve happiness for myself,
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to free myself from my
own problems, sufferings.
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The purpose of my life
is to benefit others,
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other sentient beings
who are numberless.
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So I must free them from all
the suffering and its causes
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and bring them to enlightenment.
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So when you generate this thought,
this attitude of bodhicitta,
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the thought of benefiting others,
it makes, it brings so much peace,
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contentment, fulfilling in your
heart, it makes your life so happy.
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So usually there's two
ways to develop bodhicitta.
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One technique to develop
bodhicitta is through
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the seven techniques of
Mahayana cause and effect.
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So you meditate how
all the sentient beings
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have been your kind mother.
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She gave you your body, and
then the numberless times
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that she protected
your life from dangers,
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and the numberless kindnesses
she gave by educating.
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And the numberless kindnesses
she showed by bearing
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so much hardship for your own happiness.
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When they're your own mother,
then they bear so much hardship,
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and suffer so much, to take care
of you for your own well-being,
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for your own happiness.
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So like that.
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Then so this is how you
meditate in that technique
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on the kindness of the mother.
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So then you see you feel
she is very precious.
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So this way when you feel
everybody is your kind mother
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you feel warm towards them,
you see
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beauty, not talking about
the beauty of the body
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but about kindness,
about being kind.
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You see other sentient
beings are suffering,
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samsaric suffering, so one wishes
others to be free from suffering,
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causes of suffering,
and you want to do that,
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so that when you take the
responsibility on yourself,
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to cause happiness for others,
that's the Mahayana loving kindness.
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So this is my turn to help them
so I must free them all...you see,
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I will free from all the
suffering...all the sentient beings,
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all the sentient
beings without exception
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from all the suffering and causes
and bring them to enlightenment
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by myself alone.
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So you take full responsibility.
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Then for the success of that
there's no other way except
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to first make myself
achieve enlightenment.
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So that
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when that thought arises
naturally day and night,
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without any effort, just while
you're eating, walking, anything,
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this thought naturally arises,
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like the mother whose
child fell in the fire
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or drowned in the river
or ocean, then this mother
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while she's eating,
walking, all the time
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she's constantly thinking
of saving her child.
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Without any effort, it
just continues like that.
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So like that thought to
achieve enlightenment,
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to free the sentient beings from
all the suffering and its causes
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and bring them to enlightenment.
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So that time, then one
has realization bodhicitta.
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So without bodhicitta
cannot achieve enlightenment.
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So you can see now clearly
that without compassion,
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you cannot achieve
enlightenment yourself
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and cannot enlighten, cannot
liberate all the sentient beings
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from all the sufferings and
bring them to enlightenment.
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You cannot do perfect work
for the sentient beings. So therefore,
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this is why compassion is
the most important thing in the life.
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Venerable Ribur Rinpoche was born
in Eastern Tibet in 1923.
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At the age of five, he was recognized
by the Thirteenth Dalai Lama as the sixth
incarnation of Sera-mae Ribur Rinpoche.
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He entered Sera Monastic University in Lhasa
and became a Geshe at age twenty-four.
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He meditated and taught Dharma until 1959,
after which he suffered under intense Chinese
oppression for twenty-one years.
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In 1980 he was allowed to perform
some religious activities, and he helped build
a new stupa for Pabongka Rinpoche at Sera.
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Rinpoche teaches throughout
the United States, Asia, and Europe.
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One of these verses of the
bodhicitta in the training says
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this chronic disease of
constantly cherishing oneself,
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the chronic disease of egoism
it is actually the cause
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of all unwanted circumstances.
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Having recognized that
this is the one to blame
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for all the shortcomings
bless me so I might be able
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to eliminate this self-grasping.
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The practice of tong
len, of taking and giving,
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this is an incredible powerful practice,
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an incredible powerful meditation,
and the immediate result,
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the good result that you
have on training your mind
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on the basis of tong len is
so you will be able to develop
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a very uncommon powerful courage.
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You will become really
brave hearted, very brave.
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So brave that nothing will
be able to shake you anymore.
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You become as brave as
being, that kind of courage
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that kind of courage, that you're sure you
can take upon yourself
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the burden of all sentient
beings and you're able to give
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to all sentient beings whatever
they need from yourself alone.
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So it means that once you
have acquired so much courage
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by training your mind, you won't
be harmed by delusions anymore.
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Delusions arise in your mind but you'll
be able to conquer them right away.
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Once you have given,
once you have mentally,
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you have the training of giving of
being able to give yourself to others,
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to that extent the quality of your
happiness will increase tremendously.
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It is actually the best
happiness you can find.
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If something happens to you
when you have trained your mind
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so much with this meditation of giving,
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of giving and taking upon yourself
the sufferings of sentient beings,
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and giving out whatever
goodness you have,
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you cannot experience anymore any loss
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because mentally
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you have given it already.
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So instead of encountering
sufferings, upon having losses,
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you actually, your mind
becomes happier and happier.
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The actual meditation
on taking and giving is
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you should try to meditate in this way.
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So, first of all, you just visualize
yourself surrounded by all sentient beings.
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Then you should begin gradually.
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First, you think of yourself you
think of your own sufferings first:
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the sufferings of today,
the sufferings of tomorrow,
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the suffering of this life, the sufferings
might be increasing with the future life
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and so forth until you are comfortable
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accepting your own sufferings
ripening upon yourself.
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Then slowly move over to your
parents, move over to your parents,
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move over to your kids, move
over to your husband or your wife,
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to your family.
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And then you move over, once
you are comfortable with that,
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you increase with all your friends.
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Once you're comfortable with that,
you increase with all your enemies.
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Once you are comfortable
with that you increase it
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with all the strangers,
all the human beings.
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Then once you're comfortable
with that you increase it
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with all the animals
and so on and so forth.
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You gradually build up the strength
of your courage in your meditation
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until you are able to
embrace all sentient beings.
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The meditation of taking and
giving, in Tibetan, tong len,
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actually means giving and taking from
the point of view of the practice,
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you first take and then give.
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You first take upon yourself
and then you give out.
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So once you have this, on the
basis of this feeling of compassion
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in beginning to think
that all these sufferings,
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the sufferings of the hell
beings and of cold and heat,
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the sufferings of the hunger and
thirst of the pretas and so on.
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Each of the sufferings, begin to think
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that they come out of the sentient
beings like a huge, black cloud
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and it's in the nature
of the sufferings
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of the sentient beings and the causes.
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All those non-virtuous
actions which bring
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as a result that type of sufferings
and they just ripen on you.
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They just absorb onto you,
right in the center of the heart
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where the self-cherishing thought
stays, right there, and destroys it.
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Just think that it ripens
completely right there upon yourself.
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And by doing this, think that I am
freeing all my mother sentient beings
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from their sufferings, they're
ripening upon me right now.
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Therefore, from now on
my mother sentient beings
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they will dwell in the
irreversible happiness
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and I myself alone am doing this.
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So generate a great joy, at
the end of your meditation,
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of having been able to do so.
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So at this point, once you have
taken in this way gradually,
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then it is the time for giving.
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Giving is done , taking is done on the
basis of great compassion,
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wanting all sentient beings
to be free from suffering.
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This is the meaning of compassion.
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So now you give with love.
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What is the meaning of love?
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Love, the wish of all
sentient beings to be happy
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to possess all their happiness,
temporary and ultimate happiness
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that they wish for in
accordance with their desire,
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exactly as they desire.
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By using your breath
with your visualization,
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mounting it with love and
compassion to give and to take,
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it will become quite
powerful and a quick method
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to realize the mind of enlightenment.
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You collect merit like the sky
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when you take others suffering
and give your happiness.
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- Lama Zopa Rinpoche
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STUDENTS
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What does BODHICITTA mean to you?
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There is no question in my mind
that Bodhicitta is the root of all,
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the foundation of all practices.
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Without bodhicitta none
of it makes any sense,
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it doesn't have any power to
it, there's no juice to it.
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From my experience there's no
transformative effect to meditation
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without developing compassion.
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It becomes a bit dry and ineffectual.
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And it creates a kind
of cool detachment,
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which I don't think was the
purpose of the Buddha's work.
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Ultimately the work that is achieved
through the various practices
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is to break down all barriers.
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And there's no more tangible one
than breaking down the barriers
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to having a compassionate
open heart to all beings,
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insects and enemies included.
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To begin to approach a new
kind of relationship with them
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to me really is the
beginning of practice.
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There is a very powerful
practice, a simple practice
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that I started using years
and years and years ago.
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And it was simply every
creature that I met,
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whether it was a person an
insect what ever it may be,
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the first thought that I allowed myself
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to generate toward that other
being was "I wish you happiness ".
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Very simple thing.
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But make sure that the very
first thought you have is
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"I wish you happiness."
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And how that totally
transforms what happens
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after that point with this other person.
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This is my own my own experience,
I see this very clearly.
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Now sometimes it's extremely difficult
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when you're faced with an enemy,
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when you are face with an
immediate physical situation
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when something is in your
face, it becomes very difficult.
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That's where the meditative
process of being able to stop
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the arisal of an afflictive
emotion becomes really important.
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That there is an immediate
space that you can create
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where you can see it arise and
before it actually takes you over,
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you are able to transform it.
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See it for what it is.
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This is ignorance being manifest,
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this anger is nothing more than
ignorance from my side and their side.
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Transform it
- let it go.
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Transform it
- turn it into love.
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I wish you happiness.
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If you'd just try that,
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what an extraordinary
difference everything makes.
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Giving birth is an amazing experience.
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For me, the pain was so intense that
it really allowed my mind to focus
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in a way that I very rarely,
if ever can otherwise.
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And so, during the process of birth
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when a contraction would come
and it would just be so intense
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and so painful, that
was really the only time
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that I've ever been able to
practice tong len in a way
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that I felt it was powerful and
it was really affecting my mind.
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And it was the only thing that allowed
my mind to get through that process.
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Because if I would freak out and
lose concentration for a minute,
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the pain would just be so
overwhelming I couldn't handle it.
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But then if I could just think
of all the others out there
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who had either experienced that
kind of pain in similar situations
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or the numerous other kinds of pain
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that people are
experiencing all the time
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and I could think of trying
to take on their suffering
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and to experience it and to take it
away from them in what I was feeling.
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It somehow helped to
keep it much more focused
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and it helped to keep it bearable.
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I got a tiny taste during that process
of how powerful tong len can be,
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and how amazing. Like,if you really
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practice that all
the time, and you just,
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or as a regular daily practice, even,
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it would just change the way
you view the world so much.
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And then I think as a parent,
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you start to get a little opportunity
to do that in the waking time,
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it's probably, in practice
in being around my daughter
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that 's probably the only time
really that I'll have a desire
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and she'll have an opposing desire
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and I'll give in and do what she
needs before I'll do what I need.
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So it's nice to see that
and it's amazing to imagine
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what that would be like
to have that feeling
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towards every other being on the planet.
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And you can see some of these teachers
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they do have that feeling towards
every being on the planet
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and it's amazing.
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If I give this, what is left for me?
Thinking of oneself,
this is the path of evil ghosts.
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If I keep this, what is left to give?
Concern for others is the way of Gods.
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- Master Shantideva
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Please dedicate the positive energy generated
by listening to these teachings,
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so you can quickly attain Enlightenment
for the benefit of all beings.
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