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What about me that I'm leaving
my whole [bleep] life

just to be with you?

I'm always gonna be
the bad guy

when it comes to me
and his family.

Tell me why I saw Sophie
on Bumble?

She said
she was just trying
to find friends

in America
while she was here.

She's on dating apps,

she's doing a lot of things
that make me feel like
she's not really here for Rob.

Um, there is something,
like, he doesn't know
about me.

Basically, um,
I'm bisexual.

I've always known
that I was attracted to women.

But, we only have a short time
to get married,

so I have to figure out
what I wanna do
with that fact.

Fifteen years ago,
our first K-1 visa
was approved.

But, we had some issues.

What happened the first time?

It was like...

And he freaked.

Fifteen years forward,

he did tell me
that I'm the love of his life

and he proposed to me.

But, I've noticed
that he will not pleasure me.

Lovemaking was,
in two-and-a-half weeks
maybe four times.

No it's not.
No, it's not.

If you can accept me,
then you accept me.

If you can't,
c'est la vie.

I sent him a message
two hours ago
and he still hasn't gotten it.

Manuel's never been
outside of Ecuador

and he doesn't speak English.

His visa expires tomorrow.

If he's not on the plane,
what happens then?

Oh my God,
I'm freaking out.

I'm freaking out.

Oh my God.

Oh my God.
Hold it in.

Oh my God, I'm freaking out.
I'm freaking out.

Oh my God.

Okay,
breathe in.

Oh my God,
I'm ugly crying.

Oh my God, I cannot--
my makeup.

My makeup, my makeup,
my makeup, my makeup,
my makeup.

Ugh, give me
the [bleep] ticket.

Okay.

Oh my God.

Okay.

You got this,
you got this.

- Just breathe, don't even
think about it.
- I'm a strong as bitch.

Okay.

- You got this.
- Okay.

Manuel is supposed to be
arriving to Rochester.

But, Manuel and I
have no contact for like,
six or seven hours.

Is he on the plane?
Is he gonna get here?
Did he miss his flight?

Did he get stuck
in immigration?
Did they not let him through?

Did they give him a hard time
because literally, his--

his visa expires
the next day?

I am tweaking,

because I don't have
any control
over this situation.

Okay.

I am like,
overcome with emotion
right now

and I cannot even
handle life.

- Okay--
- Breathe,
just breathe, just breathe.

- Oh my God.
- That's a lot.

Am I legit having
a panic attack?

I'm feeling, like,
tingly right now.

Okay.

Okay.

Bring the tissues.

- I'm bringing
the medicine first.
- Okay.

Okay.

Okay.

Oh my God.

I'm freaking the
out right now.

Oh, there you are,
oh my God.

I can't keep it together,
I'm freaking out.

Stop crying, stop.

You gotta hold it together--

- You-- you have to
hold it together.
- Oh, I can't breathe.

- I gotta breathe,
I gotta breathe.
- You gotta breathe.

In through your nose,
out through your mouth,
hold it in.

In through your nose,

out through your mouth,
control it,
in through your nose.

I should've worn
a grounding crystal today.

It just hit her finally,
'cause I feel like before,

she was definitely
in a state of,
"Oh, but it's fine,

everything's gonna be great."

And then now,
it's actually here
and happening

and she's like,
"[bleep] it's here, it's real

and it's all--
it's all happening."

All right.

Okay.

Where do we
even find him?

- Uh...
- I don't know.

Just breathe, just breathe.

You're moving
a mile a minute.

He was supposed
to land--

Wait, okay,
that's baggage claim four.

Okay, okay, okay,
I think that's his flight.

- Okay, Ashley, hold on. Breathe.
- Breathe. Breathe.

If they have
a baggage claim number,
that means they landed.

Okay.

- Oh my God,
you're squeezing me.
- Okay.

Okay.

He's gonna come out of--
out through here,

- he's gonna come out
through here.
- I know.

So, I'm waiting
in front of the baggage claim,

'cause I know
when his flight's
supposed to land.

But, I literally have no clue
if he made his connections,

what's going on,
I don't know where he is.

I'm just gonna hope
for the best.

I hope he's on this flight,
what if he's not
on this flight?

He's gonna be on this flight,
what are you doing?

I need to see him
get-- come down
that escalator.

It takes a minute,
you know that,
it takes a minute.

He's on that flight.

He's on that plane.

Ohh!

For him to come
down those stairs,

through those gates
in my city,

oh my God.

Words can't express
the level of relief
I felt in that moment.

Oh my God.

I made it.

Bienvenido...

a America.

America.

♪ Don't feel ♪

♪ Don't feel,
ooh-ooh-ooh ♪

♪ Don't feel ♪

♪ Don't feel ♪

♪ Don't feel,
ooh-ooh-ooh ♪

I'm hoping that I could
bring some fabulosity
to Moldova.

Because the last time
I was there,
it seemed kinda boring.

Mom.

It's been nine long months

since I've seen
my fiancé Justin.

I am going to Moldova tomorrow

and my mom's on her way

to help me pack up
before I go.

- Hi.
- Hi, honey.

- How are you?
- Hello, how are you?

- How're you doing?
- I'm good.

- Haven't seen you since--
- How was the traffic?

Oh, bad.

- Yeah?
- Especially by
the Lincoln Tunnel.

Hi, Vicious.

My mother
is supportive in
my relationship with Justin.

I think it's a little bit
funny and ironic

because 15 years ago,
when Justin came
to the United States

under the K-1 visa,

she was like,
"Kick his ass to the curb
and send his ass back."

So, it's funny--

it's funny
how the tables turn

and I'm more careful
of what's gonna happen
with the relationship

and she's more hopeful.

Here, give me a hug.

- Hah, packing.
- How are you, mama?

- How you been?
- Love you.

- What're you doing?
- I'm packing.

Oh, do you want--
do you need some help?

Probably,
but I don't even know
what to pack.

My connection
with my mother

took a very, very,
very long time

to get to where
it's today.

Initially,
when I told my mother

that I wanted to transition,

she said she would not
accept it.

She gave birth
to a boy,

and she thought
I was gonna be a freak.

Imagine being
17-years-old,

and...

hearing from your parent
that they won't accept you.

For the life that you felt

you should've been born
from the very beginning.

So, from the time
of 17-years-old
to 19-years-old,

my mother and I
didn't speak.

Of course,
she accepted me years ago,

and now we're like this,
you know.

My mom loves me

and accepts me
as her daughter,

and sometimes,
it takes time.

- You're taking this?
- Yes.

- Why?
- Okay.

This too?

- Yeah.
- Wow.

- It's very exotica, but--
- Very sexy.

I mean, listen,
I'm all about fashion

- and this is how I am
and he knows that.
- Well--

He knows that,
but does he want
you to be toned down

- or do-- I mean,
are you gonna compromise or--
- It's--

I'm gonna compromise
with him

you know, like,
I'm gonna meet his mother,

- I gotta show you
what I'm gonna wear.
- Okay.

I always worry
wherever she goes.

I'm worried that, uh,
they're not very accepting

of trans women,

and so, I'm concerned
about her safety.

And also her feelings.

How do you feel
about this whole thing?

Going there
and meeting--

- Not meeting, but seeing...
- Second time.

...his parents
for the second time.

How do you feel?
Are you feeling nervous, anxious?

I'm feeling nervous, anxious,

all of it.

When I see his mother
for the first time
in like, forever...

- Right. Right.
- ...it's just such a big shock
for them to hear

uh, that their son loves,

or is in love
with a trans woman.

Uh, it's not
the easiest thing.

They didn't know
the first time.

Now, they'll know
the second time.

Is she accepted, um,

- meeting you--
- She accepted it
to him,

but I don't know
how they're gonna be

- in person.
- React to you.

People are very different,
you know--

it's a whole
different ballgame when you
actually meet the person.

Right.

So, I don't know
how they're gonna react.

- I know it's not
an easy thing, I mean-
- Mmm-hm.

- It wasn't easy for you.
- No, it wasn't.

When Nicole
was younger,

and she was going through
her changes, um,

I was not there.

I'm gonna--
I'm gonna admit that.

And it's not that
I didn't love her.

I didn't understand.

- Do you want a coffee?
- I do, I do.
Thank you.

I regret and I will regret it
for the rest of my life.

And, um, I hope
that Justin's parents

and Justin,
will love her and accept her.

When you get there,
I think that you will get
a better perspective

of what's surrounding him
and what's happening there.

I just hope he's ready
because right now I see
how he's reacting

of me coming there
to his country
for three weeks.

And I see how
his friends is closing,

and they're retracting
and walking away from him,
and it's upsetting.

Justin told me himself

that he's getting
a lot of rejection

and pushback from his friends.

It makes me feel sad.

It makes me feel like
sometimes like a disease.

Like, why are they
treating him like this
for his choice to be with me?

Since I was little,
I always battled depression.

- And I just think this is
part of the moment.
- I know.

But the good part
is he is telling his parents

that you're trans,
that he loves you,

and he's also
telling his friends
that you're trans.

So he wouldn't have
gone that far
if he didn't love you.

I just feel like
he's being apprehensive

because this is
a small country.

Maybe he's afraid for himself,
he's afraid for you.
I don't know.

Do you know what I mean?

So we don't know
what kind of hate
is out there.

And I know that you're
going through a lot of stress.

I'm just, it's a lot.

You just have to understand
that it's okay, Mama.

It's okay.

I think you're gonna
get married,

and you're gonna have
a good life,

and he's gonna love you,

and you're gonna love him.

There's a lot
of changes coming.

He made the first step.

And that's
telling his parents.

They're gonna accept you.
They want to see you.

Think positive.
Everything's gonna be fine.
Everything's gonna be okay.

The K-1 visa
is about to be approved.

And this trip for me
is so important

because
there's just so many things
we need to discuss.

Everything that I need
in a man and a husband,

I need that reassurance
because I'm not moving
forward again

and have the same nightmare
happen all over again,

coming all the way
to the United States
and getting sent back again.

But the way that it's going,
I don't know.

Like, I don't know.

And I need to know, like,
if it's gonna work

before he comes.

Jasmine's picture
is normally here,

and you can see
that she blocked me

because her picture is gone.

I don't know
if she made the flight.

We're getting
closer by the minute
to Sophie being right there.

You don't know
what my next move is.
You don't even know.

Hey!

I just got to the airport.

Now I'm just trying
to find my gate.

But, yeah, I'm excited.

♪ Could it be like ♪

♪ We're just
fragments of light
shining bright ♪

That's clean.

Clean as it's gonna get.

Hopefully there's enough space
for all of her stuff.

♪ I don't know
what I don't know ♪

♪ But I know
that it's better off
just letting it go ♪

Today is the day.

I'm running around in circles
trying to get
everything ready.

Can't forget the stereo.

I got big plans
on how to greet her
and welcome her.

It's a bit stressful,
but I think I'm gonna
be ready.

Man, oh, man, oh, man.

You know, when we decided
to actually be engaged,

there wasn't a ring
and there wasn't a proposal.

But I do have a plan
on how to make it
a lot more, um,

Disney princessy.

Which I know
is important to her.

Man, I'm nervous about
this little dance, man.

My plans are to do the dance
with the roses at the airport,

propose leaving the airport,

romantic candle-lit dinner

outside the house.

Oh, man, I gotta have
the flowers.

It's seems like a lot.

If feels like a lot.

But it's like the proposal
that she deserves.

Oh, my God.

My flight to America
was absolutely horrible.

I had a layover in New York

where I literally only had
seconds to spare

until I got my flight.

This is not
how I wanted to look

after not seeing Rob
in six months.

I kind of wanted to look cute,
put some makeup on,

put a cute outfit on,

but I'm sweaty
and I smell bad.

Great.

Gate 30.

That's the only one
it can be.

So, 8:30 out of Kennedy
is claim number 8.

So that's the one we're
gonna go to, I guess.

We're getting closer
by the minute

to Sophie being
right there with me...

for this 90-day adventure.

It's getting so real right now
that I'm losin'--

I'm losin' it a bit.
I'm [bleep] freaking out.

Uh, but, yeah.

She's about to be here.

And I need to
not forget this dance

'cause that's the thing that's
scaring the hell out of me

is that I'ma forget this dance

because I'm so nervous.

Oh, okay.

Hey!

Oh, God.

I don't know.

Yeah!

Aah, sexy!

Oh, I missed you so much.

- Give me a kiss. Mmm-hmm!
- I missed you.

Oh, my goodness.

Oh, my God.

You made it.

- I made it. I'm here.
- You made it.

And I embarrassed myself,
all for you.

No, it was good.
It was cute.

Rob is so corny sometimes.

It's so funny.

Like, if any other guy did it,
I would be like, "Ew."

Like I would get the "ew."

Like, if a British guy did
the stuff Rob did,

I would be disgusted.

I would never speak to him
ever again.

But, Rob, he's American,

so he can like
get away with it.

But, yeah. If guys from
my hometown did it,

I'd be like, "Ew."

We made it. We made it.

- I made it.
- You made it.

Once the dance was done,
I think that...

that she thought
that was the moment.

And I liked it,
'cause it was like,

"You don't know
what my next move is.

Just wait.

Let's take it 100 steps
that way."

So, here.

Here, grab-- you grab--
You-- Here.

Hey, what?

What are you doing?

Uh, I just wanted to actually
propose to you, though.

- Shut up.
- Will you marry me?

Oh, my gosh.

Will you marry me?

Yeah.

Oh, my God. Oh, my God.

Well, you better come up
with an answer.

Yes, yes, yes!

- Yes. Thank you. Yes.
- All right, then!

I don't know
where you put it on.

- Is it this finger?
- Oh, my God, I'm shaking.

Don't shake. There you go.

I can't even breathe.

Oh, my God. What the hell?

Oh, my God.

I was very surprised.
And I'm like jetlagged.

I tried to make it--
I tried to make it--

I tried to make it special.

And I wanted to do it
the right way.

As a kid, marriage never
even crossed my mind.

I don't know, I just never...

I just never
really thought about it.

I don't know why,
to be honest.

But when I met Rob,

like, this before we
even considered the K-1.

He was like, "Oh, one day,

I'm gonna put
a ring on your finger."

And at the time,
I was just like,

"Actually, like,
that would be kind of cute."

Like, I was like, "Maybe I
would like to marry this guy."

So, yeah, I mean,
I was very happy

when he finally did it, yeah.

Now we can go home,
all right?

Yeah.

But I don't know why
you chose the airport, but.

Well, I mean, I had already,
technically, you know...

we were already engaged,

- but the actual proposal...
- Mmm-hmm.

...uh, I felt like
that needed to happen

and it needed to happen
as soon as she got to LA.

Like, "I come with this."

You gotta say yes to me

before you get to be
a US citizen

and go enjoy LA.

Aw, that's cute.

All right, baby. Follow me
to the rest of your life.

Saying goodbye
to my family

is not easy.

And I just
pray to God

that--

that I'm doing
the right thing.

I have a new look!

And, well, I love it.

I'm honestly so sick
and tired of having arguments

after arguments with Gino.

So I really wanted
to feel like

I have control over something.

And, well, I did!

My last visit here in Panama
to the beauty salon,

I decided to do something
super-radical.

So I cut my hair.

No hair extensions, no weaves

that I've been wearing
for 15 years.

And, as expensive as
it is in Panama,

it's even more expensive
in the United States.

And I'm gonna be completely
reliant financially on Gino.

And Gino's Gino.

it's time just to embrace
my natural hair.

I really like it. It's...

It's cute.

Panama is home.

This is my identity.
This is who I am.

And leaving everything behind

and all the people that I love
and that love me

is very hard.

It's not easy.

I'm ready to take, uh,
my flight to Atlanta

and then to Detroit. So.

I'm sad. But at the same time,
I'm excited.

I just hope that Gino
is ready for me.

This is the bravest thing
I've ever done in my life.

Just...

uh... taking a plane

after saying goodbye
to my family,

my kids,

everything.

Oh, my gosh.

Yeah.

But at the same time,
I'm like-- but I'm doing this

And I just pray to God that...

that I'm doing
the right thing.

Today is the day that Jasmine
arrives in Detroit.

But, unfortunately,
last night,

we kind of got in an argument

and she blocked me
on WhatsApp.

♪ We're feeling fine
We're feeling fine ♪

♪ We're feeling fine ♪

Jasmine's picture is
normally here.

And you can see
that she blocked me

because her picture is gone.

No, I am not
in communication with her.

I don't know
if she made the flight.

I'm worried about this.

I quit my job
because I wanted to...

make sure she's very
comfortable in Michigan.

And I don't know if
she's even gonna make it

to the USA.

But I'm really hoping
I make the right choice.

I mean, we've been waiting...
18 months. 18 months

to get through
the whole K-1 process.

That's a long time.

We're supposed to be
excited about this.

This is supposed to be
an exciting day.

That's-- that's been so hard.

It looks like
her flight landed.

My feelings are
all over the place.

I don't know
how to feel right now.

I don't know if she's here.

Uh, I don't know if
she went back to Panama.

Um, will I see her today?

How will she react to me?

She's my soulmate. Like.

We have such a strong bond

and, like, I love her.

I just wish there was a way

that we could stop
having these arguments

'cause we have 90 days
together to figure out,

you know...

...you know, is this,
you know, gonna be good?

Or, you know,

is there something, you know,
not so good about it?

Stay open.

What are you doing?

- Oh, my God.
- I was trying to keep it open.

I've just got here.
We're stuck in an elevator.

Who's gonna answer
at this time?

Somebody who works
for the elevator company

- or LAX--
- At what time?

Rico Suave has been with me
through a ton of partners.

And like they leave,
and guess who stays.

Rico mother-[bleep] Suave.

Are you ready?

Rochester!

- Have fun.
- We will.

You can keep the sign.

- Awesome. Love you.
- Love you.

- Love you.
- See you later.

Oh, my God.

- Rico Suave!
- Rico Suave!

No jump, bubba.

- Yeah.
- Oh.

My apartment vibe
is witchy.

It's very spiritual.
There's crystals everywhere.

There's like
deities everywhere.

I am beginning to introduce
Manuel to my witchy practice

in baby steps so
that I don't overwhelm him

and because it's important
for him to know all of me

before he says, "I do."

Okay.

No.

Manuel.

Manuel!

Rico Suave has been with me
through a ton of partners.

And like they leave,
and guess who stays.

Rico mother-[bleep] Suave.

So, as far as I'm concerned,

Rico Suave can sleep
where he wants,
whether it's in the

or whether
it's in the bedroom.

Culturally, Manuel is used
to telling people what to do

and how to do it.

And I come from a family of
strong independent women
of color.

We dictate in our family line.

And, um...

he's gonna have to
figure that out.

- Yup.
- That's crazy.

Sophie just arrived at LAX
and I knew she wasn't
ready for that ring.

I knew she wasn't ready
for me to actually do
that proposal,

that actual romantic proposal
that I know she wanted,

and I hadn't done that.

I feel like
I pulled this off, like,

good [bleep] Rob.
I did pretty good.

I think so.

- Stay open.
- What are you doing?

I was trying to keep it open.

The light is on though.
So, we'll just give it
a second.

How the hell did I break it?

Does it usually do this?

How the hell should I know
what the LAX elevator--

Well, I think it's broke, Rob.

It's not--
Well, you gotta wait.

How long? You're not
supposed to wait this long.

I'mma let you
figure it out.

And when it finally goes up...

- I think it's broke.
- ...you fixed it.

It's actually broke.
It's not even opening.

Rob.

- It's not funny.
- It is funny.

Rob, you've actually
broken it.

How the hell did I break it?
All I did was--

'Cause you...
You might slam them together.

Come on...
I pushed this button
which means open.

This says door open.

- We're actually
stuck in the lift.
- I didn't touch this.

We're actually stuck
in the lift.

No, we're genuinely
stuck in the lift.

- And it's my fault?
- We're actually
stuck in the lift.

I'm like, panicking.

This is the type of
you gotta be ready for,
mentally just, whatever.

As long as this reaches
on the first floor

or not on the first floor,
we're not dropping.

Why would say that
while we're still in the lift?

'Cause we're
on the first floor,
not on the fourth floor.

Why would you say that?

- Hmm.
- I'm literally, like,
claustrophobic, Rob.

No, but I need to
get out of the lift.

I can't help that.
There's nothing
I can do about it.

Oh, my God.

I need to get out of the lift.

I can't help that.
There's nothing
I can do about it.

Oh, my God.

So, obviously,
I've just got here

and everything is great,
but like, we're stuck

in an elevator, which is
not really the best sign.

Probably.

Probably?
That's your fault, not mine.

You were the one that
clicked the button

a billion times when
no one was even coming in.

I literally clicked it
one time.

You were like,
oh, I'm keeping it open.
We're supposed to do this.

It didn't even work.
I clicked it once.

For me, it's like four
in the morning in England.

So I'm already very tired
and I've had a stressful

airport situation
and two flights,

and immigration
and I just wanna go to bed.

Um, so for me, it's just like,
I'm just so tired.

So it's like Rob should just
understand that and be like,

it's okay, you know,
don't worry, we'll open it.

Instead,
he's getting angry at me.

This is ridiculous.

How many people go
up and down these things
a day?

How does it not work?

It's crazy.

You pushed
the button six times.

Who's gonna
answer it this time?

Somebody who works
for the elevator company

- or the LAX?
- At what time?

- Yes, we're
on the first floor...
- We're stuck.

...and we're trying to
get to the fourth floor

and it's stuck or something,
but the doors are locked

and nothing's happening.

Um, not sure which elevator.
It's the one on the left

when you're looking at it
from the outside.

- Now. Open it now.
- Opening.

Oh. Oh, my gosh.

You did it.

Oh, [bleep].

Oh. Oh, [bleep].

Hold on, baby.
I got it. I got it.

Uh-uh.

Got out of that elevator.

Yeah, we're out.

Oh, my God.
It's been a long day.

I just wanna go home.

I'm not even going home.
I'm going to, like, new home.

But I guess, home.

Oh, it is going up.

See? Rob broke it.
I just clicked one button.

Rob was like this.

Now it's like, chill.

Um, is he here?

Where are you?

I'm on floor four.
I used the elevator properly

like a normal person
and it worked.

Wha...

Why are you angry with me?

Why are you angry at me?

I'm just wondering.
You don't think you broke it?

All right, chill.
I'll go with you.

I'm not [bleep] the whole day.

I just proposed.
I just did a dance
in front of everyone.

I just waited and paced around
for her to get here.

I'm so excited
and it took all of 15 minutes

for her to be pissed off at me
about something that
I cannot control.

In my defense,
you did control it

'cause you did break it,
but yeah.

And that's
a ridiculous response.

That's just
the stupidest response.

My reason is I'm very,
you know,

I'm extremely tired.
It's four in the morning--

So you're not helping.

You're not helping
the moment.

You're ruining the moment.

He knows that
when I block him,

he did so wrong.

If I haven't blocked him,
we're still, you know,

I'm mad, but not that mad.

But it was a good thing
that it was a long flight

because I had a lot of time
to think about

my relationship with Gino
and I, kind of,

previewed in my mind
all our happy moments

and the love that we have
for each other.

It made me calm down.

And I'm still
a little bit mad,

but not as much as I was
before taking the flight.

The longer I'm pacing
back and forth with

waiting for Jasmine
and she still hasn't
walked through the door yet,

and I'm waiting for her,
and I'm waiting for her.

I'm thinking in my head,
you know, is she coming?

Why isn't she here yet?

We've been waiting forever
for this day

and this is not the way
it's supposed to be.

- Baby!
- Mi amor!

- Oh, my God!
- Baby!

- Oh!
- Oh, my God!

I missed you so much.

I can't believe you're here.

I can't believe you're here!

Okay.

Oh, my God.
Welcome to Michigan.

Oh, my God, it's okay.

Coco. Oh, my God.

- Coco, where are you going?
- Coco.

Oh, my God.

- Coco, are you okay?
- Daddy is here.

I'm so excited to see
Jasmine in Michigan.

It's an awesome feeling.

It's a dream come true.

Finally, after three years.

Look at you.

Coco, you remember me?

It's finally happening, baby.
Can't believe it.

No more goodbye.

Let me see ya.

The tongue, the tongue.

Stick it out. Mm.

Mm.

I can suck Gino's tongue
every night

for the rest of my life.

And on other things,
but I'm not gonna say it.

Oh, you got a new haircut.

Yes.

Did you change your hair?

- You noticed.
- You got a haircut.

- I love it.
- Ah!

- Oh, my God.
- Coco is desperate, baby.

You look wonderful like that.

You like it like this, right?

Yeah, it's very natural.

Baby. Baby, listen.

I have never loved anyone
the way I love you.

This is the hardest thing
I have ever done in my life.

Just moving and leaving
everything behind.

I have never done it
and I never pictured

myself doing it for anyone.

But you changed that

- because you're my soul mate.
- You're so beautiful.

You're my soul mate.

And I cannot live without you.

Even though sometimes
I wanna strangle him
a little bit.

Okay, let's make
a promise right now.

We're starting fresh and new.
Let's forget about yesterday.

Yesterday is in the past.

Pinky promise
no more fights, ever.

All right.

- Okay?
- I'm game for that.

- Promise?
- Yeah, I promise.

- No more fights.
- No more crazy fights.

I'm so happy that
you're here, Jasmine.

I'm gonna annoy you.
I mean, love you

for the rest of your life.

I love to hear that.

- Mm.
- Mm.

We have 90 days now.

As of today,
90 days to get married.

And I think it's gonna be
so exciting and fun.

You know, my family's there
and, you know, it's just
gonna be awesome.

I'm dying to see our house.

More than stay in our house,
I wanna smell it.

Smell it?

I wanna smell it.

What kind of smell
are you hoping for?

Like flowers,
like cleanliness.

I can spray a little
Lysol to it.

You should've
done it before.

You knew that
I was coming.

There's no turning back.

I feel nervous because

she's trans and the people
in our country

are narrow minded.

I'm from Chisinau, Moldova.

My friends and family
call me Igor.

But my fiance from
United States call me Justin.

Nikki says she calls me Justin
because when I was younger,

I'm looking like
Justin Timberlake.

It's her version.

I work as a personal trainer.

I work out like,
five or six times a week.

Fitness is important.

In my life, for me...

To clear my mind
and take away all the stress.

I'm ready for everything.

Tomorrow, is coming,
my fiance, Nikki,
from United States.

And I feel nervous because
she's trans

and the people
in our country,

they're watching, like,
narrow minded.

And for me, it means
a lot of attention
from people.

And the first thing,
I'm worried about her safety.

I'm meeting
with my friend Sergei.

My friendship with Sergei is

stronger because
he accepted this.

And now, he's
understanding me much better.

Nikki had a lot of
surgeries from

the last time I saw her
in Moldova.

And that makes me
feel more calm.

Here's our home!

Everything looks
so old and dusty.

Let's have a look
at the bathroom.
I want you to see...

Well, don't look at that.

Unbelievable.

Baby, is this air conditioner

or... or the weather?

This is air conditioner.
We're in the building still.

- Okay.
- But it is not gonna
be warm like Panama.

- Ooh.
- All right.

- It's cold in here.
- Let's see where we are.
Yeah. Yeah.

- Huh?
- Is this
air conditioner still?

No, this is...

- Michigan cold weather, baby.
- You're [bleep].

Is that our car?

This is my car. Our car now.

Baby, you have smoke
coming out of your mouth.

What the [bleep]?

This is Michigan.

I [bleep] hate it.

I was not born

to be in this kind of weather.

I-- I'm scared of stepping out
and-- and dying,

immediately, instantly
from hypothermia.

I-- I mean, how can people
live in a place like this?

Oh, it feels warmer.

I feel it in my ass.
Thank you. My ass was frozen.

Aren't you happy
to be together?

Yeah, baby.
But focus on driving.

- Yeah.
- I am.

I always dream about this day.

And I should be happy
but this place...

It's, like, so gloomy,

so dark.

Here's our home!

I think that God didn't
want people to live here.

But people insisted
on living in Michigan.

Come on, Coco.

Come on in.

My ass is freezing.

Why are we entering
through the laundry?

I'm gonna let
Coco see his home.

This is the laundry room.

- Okay?
- Yeah.

Where we do the laundry.

Got the laundry tub
and the laundry... etcetera.

Oh,
this is the decorations you
made for the interview.

Whoa, yeah!
Look at the decoration.
What do you think?

Does it look like Panama?

- Um...
- Huh?

Baby, you cannot place
the Panama flag like that.

It's not
in the right position.

It's upside down.

What?

Help me fix it.

What do you mean
not in the right position?

It's a sign of disrespect
in our country to put
the flag upside down.

Disrespect?

- Oh, yeah,
I didn't mean any disrespect.
- Yes.

The first thing that I notice,
as soon as I enter the house,

is the ugly colors
of the walls.

That was the first impression

and after that,
it doesn't smell like...

something is rotten in here
but it smells like,

kind of garbage, like, dusty.

This is the kitchen.
Come on in.

And what is this trash can?

No,
that's for recycling bin.

That's where I put all
my frozen food dinners.

This good stuff. Good food.

Oh,
there's nothing much up there.

Um...

- Yeah.
- Oh, my gosh!

You think it
needs some reorganizing?

- No, it's just, like,
why so many cans?
- I mean...

- Yeah. You think it needs
some reorganizing but...
- Just noodles

and more noodles and...

This is literally trash. Why--
Why do you save
the plastic bags?

Oh, I save those
for travelling and stuff.

If the health minister
comes to this house,

and see that kitchen,

we are gonna all
be in quarantine,
something like that.

Because I do believe that
there are living organisms

that haven't even been
discovered yet in the world.

Chocolate milk.

- That's why you
have farting problems...
- I love that stuff!

...and this is how
your farts smell.

I don't know how you
have made it to 54 so far.

You're very lucky.
You should be dead.

- This is my favorite. This--
- No, you have to say
goodbye to this. Um...

You're not eating from a box.

- That's--
- This should be
full of veggies.

- Broccoli...
- That's-- That's, like, just
a backup plan

if-- if we don't cook.

Okay. So, if it is a backup,
what is the main,

- like, plan A?
- Yeah--

I didn't have
high expectations
about this house.

But it is worse
than I thought.

I'm not used
to live like this.

And if he doesn't start
making changes,

I will never gonna
feel, like, at home

and I don't know if I'm
gonna be able to stay here.

Oh, my God.

Is it safe to be arriving
at your house this late?

- I mean--
- I mean, I think I've only
heard a gunshot...

once or twice in the three
years that I've lived
in that-- on that street.

- And--
- Still too many.

And there's only-- And there's
one bullet hole in the window.

So, a lot
of shootings happen
in that area.

It does.

I've looked it up.

You watch too much TV.

I looked it up.

Oh, they've
blocked off the whole area.

Bam, bam, bam.

I want a new bed,
like this structure,

the bed, the mattress,
the blankets, the pillow, everything.

I haven't told Jasmine yet
but I quit my job.

I can't afford all
these changes right now.

Your future wife
left everything behind

just to be with you,

is not sleeping comfortable
because of the bed,

and you're okay with that?

Well, that tells me
a lot about you.

Call it home, baby.

- You wanted
to be in LA, right?
- Yeah.

- It's my home now.
- Now you're here.

Oh, my God. LA based.

Is it safe to be arriving
at your house this late?

- Is it safe?
- Yeah.

- For who?
- For us.

I mean, I've done it every day
for, like, three years.

Like, it's not that bad.

Like, there's some nonsense
that happens but...

You know, a gun shot
every now and again,

- but not that--
- Oh, 'cause that's so normal.

Not that-- It's not very--
Not very often.

Well, we don't
have guns in England.

- ...
- That's not
a normal thing

to just hear gunshots,
oh, occasionally there.

I mean, I think I've
only heard a gunshot

once or twice
in the three years I've lived
in that-- on that street.

- And...
- Still too many.

And there's only--
And there's one bullet hole
in the window.

I wonder what
happened over here.

Oh, my God.

What is going
on over here?

Look like a standoff
or something.

We get
into Rob's neighborhood,

I have been here
before but I don't feel,
like, safe.

Obviously there's
bad places in England.

I'm not saying
whole of England is great.

I'm just saying where
I lived in London, um,

the streets are, like,
cleaned up after,

like, homeless people
have places to go so they're
not just on the street.

It's, like, completely
different to where
I was living.

She don't know anything
about what the hood is.

She-- She's seen
too many movies and

- she doesn't know
what the hood is.
- He's a-- He--

He watches hood movies
with me all the time, right?

- They're movies!
- I-- I know but they're all
based, literally, in Inglewood

- and they're
all people dying...
- From the early 90s.

...and getting shot, and he's
like, "Oh, I live just around
the corner from there."

And it's like,
stop showing me that then.

Oh, they've blocked off
the whole area.

Bam, bam, bam,
it's three, four...

Three or four cop cars.

But that's not our street.
See, we're still like...

- That's one minute
away from your house.
- We're still like--

We're still like a mile
away from the house.

- We're almost a mile away.
- Two minutes away.

We're point-- We're 0.9 miles
away from the house.

I don't know miles.
We're two minutes away.
In England we do kilometers.

A lot of shootings
happen in that area. It does.

I've lived in way
worse neighborhoods.

This is not that bad.
It's really not.

Well, for someone from England

where we don't have
any gun crime
or anything that scary--

- Y'all don't have any guns.
- Yeah, exactly.

We don't have guns
so I'm not used to that.

Home sweet home, baby.
Home sweet home.

Man, that bag
is heavy as little as it is.

Ohhh!

So, yeah, uh...

That's very nice.

How cute.

Oh, my God.

- See, it looks better
than it did before.
- Yeah.

Oh, my gosh.

You notice anything
different about this spot?

- Anything at all?
- Uh... um...

You know,
I gave you a little desk area,

you even got a little TV
on there so we can game
together and stuff like that.

- And then, uh...
- Yeah.

Got you your
own dresser in the corner.

Tried to make it a little bit,
um, more of a...

viable with me and you
can be more comfortable.

Um, I thought you
painted the walls though.

I did paint them, as in they
don't have smudges and stuff
all over them anymore.

Well, yeah. It does look
better to be honest
than last time.

I know it's not like...

- The best.
- ...luxurious.

But it's still-- I think it's,
you know, definitely comfy.

Yeah.

My apartment in London
is very different
from Rob's place in Inglewood.

It's like, I live
in an apartment.

It has, like, a little rooftop
area which is super cute

and you can, like,
see a lot of London.

Um, it's, like
very bright and airy.

Mine is very clean.

Rome! Hello.

He's like,
is this really you?

He's like, is it you?

Hello! Rome, it's me.

I don't want this
to be where I live.

I kind of, I'm just
hoping that, like,

this is where we're
at right now

and then we'll move
to somewhere, you know, nicer

and that I could feel like
this is my home

and I can, you know,
take pride in doing it up,

and I'm safe and all that
stuff 'cause right now
it just feels like...

I'm thinking of it
as like just,

I'm there temporarily
while we figure something out.

Where am I gonna put my stuff?

That
blue dresser's yours.

Okay.

Yeah. There's not so many--
Definitely looks
like a guy's home.

It is.

- It's been a guy's home.
Like, I mean, the--
- Doesn't look like

that a woman lives here.

The framework
is a dude's home.

Can we get pillows, cushions?

- That would look pretty.
- You and pink. Why you
keep trying to put pink--

- I don't know.
- Why you keep trying
to get pink into my life?

What happened to, like--
Don't you have...

like, tables and chairs
that we can sit?

I used to have
a couch in here.

And it was like,
the whole room
was so packed.

Like, why even add stuff
to it if we don't--
if we're not--

Okay, no, it's fine. I mean,
we'll find something soon.

So, for today it's all right.

Keep saying "for today."

It's gonna be here
tomorrow too, trust me.

I know it's not
the perfect spot.

And I wish I could
give her more.

I wish I was--
I had that already right now.

But I don't. So...

I'm gonna move forward
and just stay positive

and let that, kind of that
negativity and judgement,

um, kinda like,
you know, off the shoulders.

I'm not gonna let that
get to me.

What is it?

- Oh.
- Um, just like a little bit
of Mexican food

to take us back to Mexico.

Yeah.

You're just talking

and I'm just looking
at your face. Sorry.

- You made it.
Was it worth it?
- Mmm-hmm.

Yeah.

You got the ring
on the right finger?

This one.

- Yeah, got it.
- You the one
stuck out the wrong hand.

I don't know anything--

When I told you I don't know
anything about weddings,
I know nothing.

I don't know what finger
it's supposed to go on...

- Me neither. I-- I'm--
- ...I don't know any
of the rules.

I can't even lie.
I don't know either.

We're getting married so we
should probably look into...

- What married people
should know?
- What--

- Yeah.
- Yeah, probably.

Tomorrow, it's like
I'm gonna have my bearings.

Right now, I'm running on,
like, two hours sleep,

so, it's like, feels like
I'm just, like,
in some random dream.

But, um, yeah.
Tomorrow, it's like
I can wake up

the first day, like,
next to him in LA, like...

It's gonna really hit
that this is my new life.

But I'm sure
I'll still feel like
it's great, I'm happy.

Oh, let's hope.
Let's hope in the morning
she still feels all that.

You want a churro?

I'll try a bit, you know.

Yeah, you eat that churro.

Um...

Let's go upstairs.
Coco, upstairs.

Is that pee?

- No, that was here
before we entered.
- No, that's--

- That's pee.
- No. I promise.

Yeah, I'm telling you.

- Okay.
- Touch it.

Or put your finger in it.

Go ahead.

Dog.

I'm so sorry.

- I'm gonna clean it.
I'm gonna clean it. I promise.
- Oh!

Come, Coco.

Look at him.

- There you go.
Now he's faster than me.
- Yeah!

- Look at you.
- Go ahead. Yeah!

Come on,
this is our bedroom!

Not bad, right?

Look at that view
out the windows.

Dead now but they'll be alive
and kicking come summer.

Let's have a look
at the bathroom.
I want you to see...

Well, don't look at that.

What do you think?

Unbelievable.

Gino,
you knew that I was coming.

You're saying there was poo?

- Yes.
- No.

Poo in the toilet?

Like, what's wrong with Gino?

The log, because it
was very, very big,

it was like, just like...

there, floating.

This is very promising.
I like it.

I have so much of space here
and-- and, you know,

I have so much light
from the environment,

like, we could change
in this for something better,

a very good, you know, toilet.

This is completely,
you know, out of style.

- Yeah, that's older.
I'll agree to that.
- Yeah, or like--

- I'm thinking, like,
you know...
- You--

...about renovating everything.

Even this tiles,
what is this material?

I have no idea.

I think it's great ideas
and stuff but don't forget
we need to

budget our money.

So, this is the bed?

Yeah, you wanna try it?

How long
have you had this bed?

It's not that old actually.

How old is this bed?

Uh, I would say...

I got this bed after...

my divorce.

- Actually. Yeah.
- After.

Were you sleeping with--
with her on this bed?

No.

What are all these things?

I don't know but, like--

Oh! I put, like, lotion on,
all over all the time.

The lotion I use. And I always
sit on the bed and do it
and it gets all over.

Am I gonna get
pregnant with that?

Just tell me and I don't
sit there without...

- These sheets--
- ...underwear.

These sheets here probably
need to be washed soon.

I would say that.

- They're satin sheets though.
- Listen.

I want a new bed,
like this structure, the bed,

the mattress, the blankets,
the pillow, everything.

This--

Yeah.
Super comfortable for me.

What I'm saying is we have
to have money for all these
things you wanna buy.

We have to, like, prioritize
what's most important.

All I know is that I won't
feel comfortable
sleeping on this bed.

So, if you're okay with that,
knowing that

your future wife that
just travelled 2,300 miles,

and left everything behind
in her country, you know,
just to be with you,

is not sleeping comfortable
because of the bed,

and you're okay with that?
Well, that tells me a lot
about you.

It's kinda stressing me out,
you know,

listening to all the changes
that Jasmine wants to do

because I haven't
told Jasmine yet

but I quit my job

so I don't have my income
from my job anymore.

So, I can't afford all these
changes right now, today or...

within the next 90 days
or the next... year.

That's...

That's
a big concern for me.

This witch thing
is gonna be hard to--
to navigate through.

I'm a mother
witch, hoe.

Like, how are you
not getting that?

Thank you.

We had
a crazy-ass first day.

And Manuel tried
about three or four times
to say,

"Okay, Rico, floor,"

and Rico jumped back up
because that's
what Rico knows.

So, I'm hoping, over time,
Manuel will realize

that's a battle
that he's not gonna win.

My dog does what he wants.

He's a god.

No.

Okay.

I'm still happy
that this is happening.

I'm still happy
he's in my apartment.

And I'm still happy that
I'm not arguing with him
over the phone.

At least he's in person.

But I want my partner

to love and respect

every single part of me.

Even maybe the parts
that he doesn't understand.

I got a lot of work
ahead of me.

Can I just, like, vent?

This witch thing
is gonna be hard
to navigate through.

Because he's
not understanding.

He's looking at
these old-school

witch from, like,
Snow White definitions.

I'm a mother
witch, 'ho.

Like, how are you
not getting that?

I'm not okay being judged
that way by my partner.

My partner shouldn't
judge me, period.

And I would be going against
everything that I believe in

by marrying somebody
who doesn't understand

or respect what I do.

He's gonna get there
if he truly loves me

and is in this relationship
for the right reasons.

Um...

We have some work to do.

Next time
on 90 Day Fiancé...

Whoa!

Look at you!
My nurse.

It's our first night together
after... months.

You have no idea
how horny I am.

I'm a little hesitant
because of how
he left his family.

Without saying goodbye.

He said, "It's fine.
I do what I do."

He doesn't want
to argue about this,
but fine.

I do a lot smiling
and nodding with Manuel.

My mom is gonna
be doing a lot of,

"What are you saying?
No, sir."

I know he says
he's in for the long haul,

but can we, can I trust that?

Aw, I missed you.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Fifteen years ago,
when our first K-1 visa
was approved,

I don't feel like our love

was ready at that time.

You're not shelving me
in the dark.

Okay, we will see.

That's bull

'cause I haven't ever
cheated on you.

I made a bad choice.
I apologize.

We only have,
you know, 90 days,

to decide if
we're gonna be together.
This is, like, it.

When are you gonna let it go?

Baby, you spent $10,000
on butt implants?

She lied to me about it.

Do you remember that
you were giving me money

for the wedding dress?

Yeah, I gave you money
for a wedding dress.

I took that money.

This is exactly the
kind of
that I'm worried about.