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Before The 90 Days
The Couples Tell All...

Do you have any red flags?

We have a very difficult time
communicating sometimes
because one of us shuts down.

She's just like this
with people sometimes.

No, I'm not, Statler.
Don't try and make excuses.

You talk about how bad
our sex is to your ex?
That's bull [bleep].

I don't see a problem
being friends with them.

No,
I have a big problem with it.

Jasmine was looking
for some attention
a little bit.

Come on.

The man is the head
of the house

and women need
to follow the men.

Not in this day
and age.

Don't just feel
like he's the only dude

just 'cause you've known him
for seven years.

Please, just...

There's other fish in the sea.

She took the pregnancy test
in front of you.

You did not trust that.

She lies.
I've caught her in major lies.

Violet, can you tell me
if you are pregnant
with Riley's child?

Violet, are you pregnant
with Riley's child?

I'm so sorry, Violet.

Just to be clear,
you were pregnant
with Riley's child.

Yes.

So, Riley, are you hearing
some of these details
for the first time?

She didn't tell me
it was a miscarriage.

That's a lot.

How does it feel
seeing Violet so upset
right now?

I...

But I just...
I'm kind of like...

Until I understand,
I can't really emotionally
attach to it.

As women, we have all
been through stuff,
so I'm feeling her.

Being pregnant with someone
you're not really talking to,
they're far away,

that's scary.

As far as the timelines,
it's four weeks later,

I believe that it might
have been yours.

And, Riley,
you haven't been an angel
to her either.

You also have your temper,
you also have your issues,
your own baggage.

I never said that I wanted
to hold anything against her.

I told her I need
to understand this

so I could accept it
and move on.

Well, there was
a lot to unpack here.

So, Riley,
what is next for you?

Well, Violet
is coming to the US.

- Oh, really? Okay.
- Wow.

Okay, okay. Surprise.

She has a tourist visa,
she got it on her own,
it had nothing to do with me.

But she let me know
that she will be
in the States,

and I suggested
that we all meet up.

You know, just to break bread
and try to be kind
to each other

and just hug it out.

You think
there's a possibility

that they could
get back together?

I totally could see it
because you're still
feeling something.

Would you like this meeting
to end in you and Violet
getting back together?

Not necessarily.

But if it's God's will,
then it will be.

You're leaving the door open.

Wide open.

Windows, doors, French doors.

Listen, it's just a little bit
of a crack to let her know
that I don't hate you.

Well, we thank you
for sharing your story.

And Violet, I know
this was not easy for you.

Tiffanie, as always,
you were very candid,

and honest, and we appreciate
hearing your thoughts.

- Thank you.
- Take care, Tiffanie.

Thank you, Tiffanie.

Riley and Violet,
no matter what happens
when you two meet again,

I hope you both
find love in the future.

Thank you.

Okay,
let's take a break.

Thank you.

After all this, okay?

And maybe
I'm not the right person
to tell you this.

All this toxicity, right?

Why I feel in my heart
that you still want this
to work?

I'm gonna tell you the truth.

Did you have a ring?

Oh, my God, Riley.

- Like, you were there.
- Yeah.

In it. That much of love.

Because I didn't
want to not...

My biggest fear is could have,
would have, should have, if.

I know.
I totally get that.

I didn't wanna come back home
and be like,

"I wonder what would have
happened if I...

Oh, if I could have
done this!"

I was beat up
with lies for two years.

Now I'm thinking back on it,

I tried to communicate
with her

and tried to build something.

I just think
that if we had better
communication and honesty

from the get-go, um...

Yeah, I don't know.

Okay, everyone,
they're ready for you
back on set.

- We're coming. Let's go.
- All right.

Okay.

Now, we are going to shift
over to Christian and Cleo.

Christian's time
in London with Cleo

had more than a few
rocky moments.

But as we found out earlier,
it wasn't enough
to break them apart.

Have you seen each other
since we last saw you
together?

- We have--
- Three days ago.

Three days ago?

We were
shacked up pretty good.

Yeah, she left my home
just a few days ago.

We were together
for about a month.

Okay, Cleo, did you meet
Christian's family?

I actually did meet
all of the women
from Christian's family.

All the matriarchal line.

Yes, how did that go?

- Um, it went amazing.
- Oh, my God.

They loved her.

Yeah. They really made me feel
as a big part of the family.

And...

It's wonderful that you had
a great time with the women.

Why did you meet
just the women of the family
and not any of the men?

Well, I can answer that.

Um, so, my family
are masculine
and conservative.

Uh...

A lot of hurtful things
were said.

You know, "I can't believe
you'd do this to me."

It was just a...

It was a rough thing,
so I tried to shield Cleo
from that.

And then hopefully avoid
any type of situation

where they made her
feel uncomfortable.

Yes.

Well, someone
who has always accepted Cleo
for who she is

is Cleo's friend Jane.

But whenever she would
spend time with Christian,

she would notice
red flags about him.

Jane is connecting with us now
to share her major concerns

and tell us
if she finally has accepted
their relationship.

Please welcome Jane.

Hi, Jane, how are you?

- Thanks for joining us.
- I'm good.

How do you feel
about Christian today?

I mean...

It's a tough one. Um...

I do speak with Cleo,

and she is sharing
when things are good
and when things are bad.

Jane, I really appreciate
what you're saying,

but I also feel
that Christian and I
have been on the verge

of really being able
to understand
each other better.

Yeah. Cleo and I
have talked about it.

Um, we've talked
about her boundaries
and I have made changes.

Oh, my God.

Wait, how do you know

he's chatting
with other girls, Jane?

Um...

What was the one incident?

Um, I mean, I...

You're not answering
the question, though.

She doesn't
wanna answer the question.

I will tell you
what she's not saying.

I'm not introverted,
I crave being out with people,
talking and engaging.

And I don't see at all
how anything that I said

could be conceived
as flirting.

No, I'm not saying
something's gonna
happen with us,

but I have to protect myself.

This is the thing
with a prenup.

You're gonna
leave me unprotected,
and I'm gonna be homeless.

Gino, did you ask your ex
to sign a prenup?

I will tell you
what she's not saying.

While she was staying with me,

I have this group
called Steiner's Anonymous.

It's a Discord server
where you can go

and you can put messages
on a general chat board.

And there was a gal who joined
and was pretty active.

I mean, she wasn't active,
she was active with you.

And, yeah,
it made Cleo extremely uncomfortable.

- And--
- Hold on, hold on.

It was that she made it
really clear that she was
interested in you,

and found you
extremely attractive and--

Yeah, she called me cute.

She called me cute,
and I said, "Thank you,

that's very nice
of you to say."

Um, I wanna
interact with people.

I don't think
that is flirting.

I like making friends.
I cast a very wide net.

I feel like you're trying
to justify your actions.

Like you're making excuses
instead of owning it.

I wouldn't justify it,
I didn't feel like I was doing
anything wrong.

Do you now?

Only because it affected Cleo.

Wrong answer.

Say, "What I did was wrong,
and I'll do better."

I just don't see it.

All right, well,
several times
during his visit,

Cleo accused Christian
of being overly flirty
with other women.

Christian claimed that he was
just being friendly.

Let's take a look
back at those interactions

including extended footage
never before seen.

Hey, excuse me.
Are you guys celebrating
something tonight?

Your birthday?

Twenty-six?

Is there any
particular scotches
that you could recommend?

- Come on.
- Okay.

Well, all right, my friends.
Happy birthday.

Thank you!

Have a good night, ladies.

Have a good day.

Can I get
a Jameson double, please?

- Just neat.
- Yeah.
Straight? Sure.

- How's it going?
- Good, how are you?

- I'm doing pretty good.
- Are you from the States?

- Yeah! I was about to say!
Your accent.
- Yes.

I'm kind of my own
little wolf on the prowl.

I came to London
to meet my girlfriend.

And you've met her?

Yes, I met her, she's real.

Have you gotten
any feedback from her?

Does she think
this is going well?

There's been
a couple hiccups and things,
just like miscommunications.

Well, there was this instance
where I really wanted
to disclose the fact

that we've been intimate,
and she didn't.

Okay, so you just
broadcast to the world?

Uh, no,
not like...

Eventually, I would
have to tell my Steiners.

- Your what?
- My Steiners.

What is that?

It's a community
of like-minded people,
shall we say?

It's, basically,
if you're a cool person,
you're a Steiner.

Did you create this?

Me and a couple
of buddies, yeah.

We'd have a code word,

and the code word was...

For getting some,
instead of saying I got laid,
"I got some Stein."

That's awful.

You're gonna think
I'm such an ass [bleep].

It's really leading
that way, yeah.

- Yeah, totally.
- It really is.

But, so--

I wish I could
stay longer, but...

Before you go,
if you wanted to come
to our Thanksgiving

that we're having
tomorrow night...

- Oh, okay.
- ...we're making a turkey--

I'm gonna be in Belgium.

- No problem.
- But thank you
so much.

Yes. Do you wanna
add me on Instagram?
What's your...

Yeah. I'll put it in.

- Right on there.
- Yeah.

- All right.
- It was great meeting you.

Good to meet you, too.

- Bye-bye.
- Bye.

- Oh, my God, Christian.
- Whew. Okay.

Oh, my God.

- Is it really that bad?
I mean, what?
- Cleo...

Cleo, after seeing all that,
what are your thoughts?

There was a lot of boundaries
that were crossed,

that I feel like that was
a bit too much.

There were some long stares
and slightly flirty behaviors,

and I feel
inviting somebody over

is something that
Christian and I talked about.

It's definitely a boundary
that I'm not willing
to get past.

Okay, now, Razvan,

I'm not introverted.
I crave being out with people,

talking, and engaging,
and socializing.

That's not true.

Babe,
that's not true.

But it's how she feels.

I know,
but it's not true.

Christian referred
to himself as...

What was it?
A wolf on the prowl?

Oh, boy.

Yeah, disgusting.

Ugh.

I didn't mean it like that.

How did you
mean it, Christian?

- I didn't mean
I was on the prowl for women.
- How did you mean it?

There's really no other way
that that could be taken.

First off, I'm in London
to see my girlfriend.

Why would I go out
and try to hook up
with somebody?

First off,
where would I do it?

But that's
what you were doing.

That's exactly what
you were...

- Look what you were doing!
- No, it was not.
It was Absolutely not.

And that's taken
out of context,
that is not how I meant it.

But you invited her
to Thanksgiving.

- Where my girlfriend
was gonna be, and her friend.
- It doesn't matter!

- She's a random at a bar.
- It's a stranger.

- She was
an American in Europe.
- She's a random at a bar.

I don't see at all
how anything that I said

could be conceived as flirting

when I was being
kind of, you know--

Can't you read
the body language?

That's just the way
that I act.

That's the way that I act
in a bar or public scene.

I'm there to have fun,
I'm not there to be a square

and sit in a corner
and not talk to anybody.

But Christian,
you will have to change that

if you want
a healthy relationship.

- You have to change that part.
- I agree.

- Well, I know that.
- You can't justify,
"That's just me."

Yeah, I feel like
by you saying
"That's just me,"

you're kind of validating
your [bleep] behavior
as being a boyfriend.

So, Cleo, I think
a lot of us are curious

if the woman at the bar
thought Christian
was being friendly or flirty.

So, we have her here today.

Ooh.

To find out
what she thought

of Christian's behavior
that night.

Please welcome Deborah.

[bleep] she is.

- Hi, Deborah.
- Whoa.

Hi, there. How are you?

Hello, Cleo.

I know that she wants me
to go to London to visit her,

but there is a question
that I haven't really asked Cleo.

Um, but...

Please welcome Deborah.

Where did they find you? Whoa.

Okay. I'm assuming

this is the first time
you've seen Christian

since that night at the bar.

Yes, and hello, Cleo.

Hi. Hi, sorry.

Um, Hi.

Okay. So, Deborah,
tell me how the conversation

with Christian
started that night.

Um...

Christian came up to me,
he's very open, very chatty.

You can say I'm a pig.

If I had not known
he had a girlfriend,

I would have thought
it was just 100% flirtation,

seeing where the conversation
would go.

This is the thing, it's like
I don't treat people

different based on the fact
that they're women.

I'm a talker, I like to talk.
I like to entertain,
I'm an entertainer.

I think there's
a massive difference between
being an extrovert

and flirting with every girl
that you see in the club.

I think he's just
a friendly guy.

I think he was...

He's out of the country,
he just seen this lady
that was there, chilling.

I think she may have
took it the wrong way.

Yeah, but it seems like
he always strikes
a conversation with the girls.

And I mean, like...

They're 50% of the population.
It's a coin flip.

Okay,
all right, Jasmine,

this type of criticism
coming from you
is pretty hypocritical.

As someone who reached out
to Dane and was talking
about your intimate sex life--

But,
Christian, listen.

I don't go around
talking to every person.

Opening myself
to every person.

What you did was worse.

No, it isn't. No, it's not.
I feel like you want to know
you still got it.

- Like you want to be wanted.
- I don't need to know
I still got it.

- I feel like
that's what it is.
- What don't I have?

It's like an attention thing.

Exactly. Your ego
is through the roof right now.

I believe that, Amanda.
He wants to be the center
of the attention.

Your best friend
is probably the mirror.

Seriously?

Christian, I think...

Well, I saw a conversation
you had with Cleo

very shortly
before you met me,

and she communicated with you

that it made her
feel uncomfortable.

That's when I think
you should have maybe
been walking on eggshells

and respected her
and what she asked of you.

That's why
watching it now, I'm like,

"Christian, why did you
come up and talk to me?"

Okay, that was a fresh thing,

and it's hard to change
your entire personality
after one conversation.

But it's fresh,
so it should be
in the forefront of your mind.

Yeah, and that's what I found
was inappropriate.

I feel like
I'm being attacked right now
for just being who I am.

I've been called
a narcissist, a flirt.

On the brink
of allegations of cheating
or attempting to cheat,

I find that extremely
way off base.

Every single person
in this room
reads your demeanor

And every time
somebody's trying to give you
constructive criticism,

you attack them back.

I wanna
tell you something, Cleo.

You're amazing woman.
Girl, you deserve the world.

And the fact that you're sweet

doesn't mean
that you don't have
to stand for yourself

and what you want, okay?

She does, though. She does.

Please. Don't. Just don't.

Cleo, quick question.

If Christian stayed
exactly the same way,

what you've seen on a loop,
talking to the girls,
the whole deal,

could you be happy
in this relationship?

Thank you,
that is a good question.

And I'm just gonna
have to process that
a little because...

I would say the answer is no.
I don't think you would.

- Christian, don't answer.
- Let her answer!

I'm not willing
to withstand that

for as long as I have
in the past,

and I think
Christian is aware of that.

Mm-hmm.

I don't think
we're gonna resolve this tonight,

so let's just move on.

Cleo and Christian,
are there any plans
for the future?

Um, I know that she wants me
to go to London to visit her,

but the truth is
I would rather her come here.

And I don't necessarily mean
to just visit.

I mean, at this point,
we've already gone through
all these struggles.

But there is a question
that I haven't
really asked Cleo.

Would you be willing
to marry me?

Is this a proposal?

I mean, would you be willing
to marry me?

Is this a proposal-proposal?

- Is this a proposal?
- Oh, my goodness!

Oh, my God. Oh, my God.

Stand up, boy!

Stand up and ask her!

This is not official.

Okay, you... Wow, Christian.

It would have to be in person.

I just cannot believe this,
this is the most surreal thing
in my life.

After everything
that we've been through,

after all the things
that we've been through,

is it something that you would
consider is what I'm saying.

I...

Is that a yes?

I think there should be
a better place for that,
though, but--

Yes, I know.

There's a real proposal
on the way?

Uh, definitely
on one of these trips,
I would say she can anticipate

that that's probably
gonna happen.

We're getting
the ball rolling.

Okay, so we have an engagement
on the horizon possibly?

Yes, as long as
she's cool with it, yeah.

And the K-1
visa process getting started.

- Yes, that's something
that we talked about.
- All right, we'll take it.

Well take it. All right.

Deborah, thank you so much
for sharing your experience,

and we certainly wish you
the best of luck. Thank you.

Yeah, thank you for having me.

- All right, bye, Deborah.
- Thank you.

Jane, you have been
a wonderful friend to Cleo,

and a wonderful guest
here tonight.

Thank you so much
for your time.

Thank you, guys.

Christian and Cleo. Uh, wow.

That was surprising.

There are still
a few questions.

However, we wish you the best
because it seems like
your relationship

is moving
in the right direction.

- So, congratulations.
- I'd say so.

Thank you.

Let's pause here
and take a quick break.

When they called Deborah,
I was totally surprised.

She's smoking.

I thought you was in trouble.
When I saw her, I was like,
"Holy [bleep]."

- She was [bleep] hot.
- She was gorgeous!

- I was like, "Oh, my God."
- Christian, yes.

She's got curly hair.
Not my type.

Oh, come on.

It's like, in your heart,
you feel like you're not
doing anything bad

because your intention
is never cheating.

Right.

And I feel you
because whenever
I was going out with Dane,

it was never in my mind
to cheat on Gino.

I have never done that,
I'd never do that.

But you know what?

We should considering here
our significant other
and how they feel about it.

I have this mother instinct
when it comes to Cleo.

When she heard
the word "proposal,"

I could see in her eyes
how happy she was.

But I was thinking to myself,

"Bitch, you better be serious
about that proposal

because if not, you're gonna
break this girl's heart,

And I'm gonna go
after your [bleep] ass."

Welcome back, everyone.

Now, we're going to speak
with David and Sheila.

Sheila, what have you
been doing in the Philippines

since David has been
in the States?

Okay, that's wonderful.

And what do you sell
in the shop?

Okay.

That's, like, a big deal.

Yes, entrepreneurs over there.
That's wonderful.

Okay. Well, when David
left the Philippines,

his goodbye with Sheila
was full of tears,

but also full of hope
for their future together.

Unfortunately, things took
an unexpected turn

when David met with
his immigration lawyers.

And they may have
to rethink their plans
to marry in the Philippines

as well as applying
for a marriage visa.

Take a look at this
never-before-seen clip.

Give us
the backstory here.

Okay.

So you already have,
um, a date planned
for the wedding?

Okay. Let me ask you this.

You and her
want to be together

as soon as possible, right?

Okay.

So, if you get married
in the Philippines,

it's a whole different process
than on a K-1.

Um, it will be longer.

On a K-1,
the fiancé visa,

you're looking at about
two years right now.

If you were going to start
the marriage-based visa,

I would say closer

three to four years.

So, I think you're better off
with the K-1,

with the fiancé visa.

If we get...

married...

Okay, I understand. I...

Okay.

Four.

Three.

Three or four months?

Year?

I love you.

Wow.

I think everybody on the set
is crying right now.

Oh, my gosh.

David, that was a shock.

Wow.

I have
everything ready for Sheila
to move over here.

I'm looking forward to it
for her to live here
in America here with me,

just do my best.

So, you've actually
started the K-1 visa process?

Yeah.
Yeah, the process has started.

We filled out everything.
Everything has been submitted.

- That's really good news.
Congratulations. Yes.
- Yeah.

Yeah.

So, let's talk
about some happy news.

David, we hear that
you were actually able

to help Sheila
fix her family home.

Is that true?

Oh, yeah, I did.

Yeah, I was able
to help them build
a brand-new home.

I think
the most important thing

is that Sheila and her family
is living in a safe space.

Mm-hm. I think
we even have some pictures

of how
the new home looks now.

Oh, good.

- Oh, my gosh. Yes.
- Wow. Look at that. Nice.

- Looks great.
- Wonderful.

- Wow. That's wonderful.
- Yeah.

How does it feel
to be in this,

really,
like a new home for you?

Wonderful.
That's wonderful.

David, how many hours
a week are you working now?

Uh, with the two jobs,
if I have to total it,

it'd be about...

I wanna say 85 maybe.

Wow.
Eighty-five.

How does that impact
your relationship time
with Sheila

because how much time
do you get to actually
talk to each other?

Yeah, it's a great question.

Uh, so while I'm at work,
I'm texting her all the time.

Uh, so yeah,
we just communicate
every single day.

Morning and night,
we video chat.

So we try
to keep that consistent.

It's gotta be tough.

All right,
we're gonna switch gears now.

On his trip
to the Philippines,

David had
a translator named Amy.

Because of their
easy communication,

Sheila worried that
David and Amy's connection

went a bit further
than just translation.

Take a look.

Yes.

My name is Amy.

Uh, my sign name is this.

I do interpreting.

It's really easier
if she's with us

rather than using our phones.

When I see them communicate,

and she look
with my boyfriend,

and David look at her,
and me, I was...

- Aw.
- Hm.

Aw, Sheila.

Aw. I know that feeling.

No. [stutters] I...

Amy said
it took her one month
to learn sign language.

How did you feel
hearing her say that?

And also saying that if she
were in a relationship--

That's impossible.
I don't believe it.

How does it
make you feel to see Sheila
so emotional?

It just breaks my heart.

You know, it makes me sad.

David, have you been
in contact with Amy,

uh, since you all
left the Philippines?

No.

What?

Uh-oh.

I am curious, is this...

Is this sex?

'Cause this looks
a lot like scissoring.

I mean,
that's a sexual position.

Ah. Yeah.
So, you know,

- where you [bleep] this way.
- Yeah.

I know.
Or you can go that way.

Or you can [bleep].
That's another word
for [bleep], too.

Oh, my gosh.

David, this was a first
for 90 Day Fiance.

David, have you been
in contact with Amy,

uh, since you all
left the Philippines?

No.

What?

Uh-oh.

Oh, absolutely not.

No.

- My goodness, David.
- I've never... I've never
communicated with her.

- No, no way.
- There was a pause there.

We were just
a little bit concerned.
My goodness.

I was in no ways flirting
with Amy whatsoever.

My eyes are only for Sheila.

I had no idea she was jealous.

David,
on a scale of one to ten,

how would you rate
Sheila's sign language?

ASL?

If I were to rate her,

uh, I think she'd be
about a two or three
right now.

Uh, she knows...

Um, she knows
the alphabets, right?

Sheila, you have
the alphabets down.

And she has
basic signs as well.

Do you agree, or no?

Well, because Sheila hasn't
yet mastered the art of ASL,

she and David
had to get creative
to communicate,

especially when it came
to some of their more
intimate discussions.

Take a look.

You was feel good last night?

Um, I was not feel
comfortable last night.

Lucky for you,
I'm good with my hands.

Um...

Okay. Wow.

Wow.

- That's a lot to chew on.
- I bet you hadn't seen
that before.

Whoa!

Sheila said
that she gave you a [bleep].

What's the sign for [bleep]?

BJ, right? BJ is that.

Holy [bleep].

Yes.

Yeah.

Oh.
Yeah. Right.

David, how do you say
"Take off your hat"?

Well, you use that hat,
and you take it off.

And you put it right back on,
and you take it off.

Gino.

Whoa!

- Nice one.
- I understand you.

Yeah.

I am curious,
is the sex one this one?

'Cause this looks
a lot like scissoring.

Is this...
Is this sex?

Oh, the scissors, yeah.

Literal scissors.

Well, I mean, that's
a sexual position.

Ah. Yeah.
So, you know,

where you [bleep] this way,

or you can go that way,
or you can [bleep].

That's another word
for [bleep], too.

- Oh, my gosh.
- I love it.

Okay.
Yeah. It's like this.

Two fingers.

- There you go. That's it.
- David!

- Oh!
- I'm telling you,

this was a first
for 90 Day Fiance.

My gosh. Okay.

So, David and Sheila,
we are all hoping, uh,

that the visa comes through
very quickly.

But if it is denied,

do you have any idea
what you will do?

Wow. I mean, that will be
a [bleep] up situation.

I mean, I'll do it again.

Uh, I'll keep applying.

If it takes me
two, three, four times,
I'll keep doing it.

I mean, but it will
be sad, of course.

Guys, you are amazing.

And I love you
so much, Sheila.

I wish I could hug you,
but I'm virtually hugging you
right now, okay?

Yay! Thank you.

David and Sheila,
I am so glad

you haven't let
the sign language barrier
or anything else

get in the way of your love.

May the two of you
and Jhonreil

be living happily
ever after together soon.

Yeah, absolutely.
That's right.

Okay, now,
I wanna circle back
to Gino and Jasmine.

I wanna talk about
a trust issue between
the two of you.

The pre-nup.

Jasmine, you had
some reservations
to say the least.

Let's take a look
at how Jasmine responded

when Gino introduced the idea.

- No--
- If there is
a [bleep] pre-nup,

I'm not gonna marry you!

- I--
- Period.

- No, no.
- I'm not gonna
listen something.

Okay, well, that shows me
that you don't love me,

- you don't give a [bleep],
so [bleep] all of it then.
- Okay.

Forget about it.

Just forget it.

you.
you.

So, I'm thinking
that I might forget
about the pre-nup.

Um...

I don't wanna risk
losing you, you know?

I am impressed.

Like, this is the Gino
that I fell in love with.

Actually, if Gino was
going to insist on it,

I was willing to sign up
the pre-nup.

But I'm so thankful
I shut up my mouth
and let him talk first.

So how do you feel seeing
the clip of her saying
she would have signed it?

- Sorry.
- God. I mean...

No. Why [bleep]?

Okay, this is the thing
with the pre-nup.

The way I saw it is, like,
you're gonna leave me unprotected,

and I'm gonna be
homeless or something.

Gino, did you ask
your ex to sign a pre-nup?

Um...

I did not.

Jasmine, when you asked
Gino for a will,

you said it was because
his family would not
take care of you.

This is one of
the hardest thing
I have ever done

because it's the first time
I've moved, ever, outside
my country,

and I never thought
I was gonna do it.

Gino, where did you
land on that?

You know, if something,
God forbid, happens to you,

are you leaving
everything to Jasmine?

Well,
um...

We actually have
the audio recording

of the man behind
the Carmella catfish.

Tyray, are you willing
to listen to it with us today?

Gino, did you ask your ex
to sign a pre-nup?

Um, I did not
because she was working,

and she had her own
retirement account
with good investments.

Now, I'm not saying
something's gonna
happen with us.

But there is a small chance

that, you know,
something could happen.

- Then don't get married.
- Now, hold on.
Now, hold on.

I have to protect myself.

Yeah.

Jasmine, when you asked
Gino for a will...

Yeah.

...uh, you said
it was because his family

would not take care of you,

they would not protect you.

Do you still believe that?

Uh, well, I haven't,
I haven't met them yet,

so I still have
my doubts and hesitations.

Well, my family
is gonna be your family.

But that still don't know...

- If we get married.
- ...and that is very scary
for me.

Gino, where did you
land on that?

You know, if something,
God forbid, happens to you,

are you leaving
everything to Jasmine?

Well,
um...

First of all,
when I hear about will,

and she wants to do a will,

that scares me.

Like, what,
am I gonna be murdered?

And it's like
we haven't even
gotten married yet.

We have not even
gotten married yet.

That scares me.

I am totally
on Jasmine's side
on this one, though.

The minute a pre-nup
is slid in there, it's saying,

"If I want this to end,
I'm gonna take my stuff
and I'm out of here."

That immediately
puts someone on guard.

No, no.

Yeah, I disagree.

You never know
what can happen.

Well, they may have
ended their discussions
of a pre-nup,

but if there is one thing
Jasmine is open about

it is her sexual appetite.

Gino, much less so.

That disconnect caused issues.

But as you'll see here,
they clearly came around.

And when we do have sex,
Gino can't even finish.

Wasn't it comfortable
sleeping in this

super comfortable
bed last night?

It was super awesome.

I was starting to doubt
that it will ever be possible

for Gino to
by having sex with me.

But last night,
we tried things
that I never thought.

Like, he make me
to pee on his chest.

I gave him the golden shower.

That's gross.

Gino was like this
on the Jacuzzi,

and he was like,
"Give it to me, baby."

And when he said it,
I was like...

Like a dog just, you know,
with my leg like this,
peeing on him.

- What?
- Ready, baby.

We were drunk.

It was... experience.
Like, oh.

It was.

Gino.

I mean, I've never personally
done the golden shower,
but hey.

- It was my first time, too.
- Good for y'all.

Giving it a try.
That's awesome.

I don't even recall that

- so that's--
- So, did it
smell like beer?

We were in the jacuzzi
so it wash out, you know?

- It was just like shower.
- You pissed the jacuzzi?

Yeah!
You pissed the jacuzzi?

- Oh, my God!
- Yeah!

A public jacuzzi?

Okay?

Jasmine,
we saw you go for your
surgical consultation.

Tell us how that went.

Yeah, after the consultation,
um, I did had the surgery.

And what is it called?

A vaginal rejuvenation.

Basically they, like,
stitch my pupunana.

Wrap it out all again.

I don't know how to
say it in a nice way.

That's okay. Go ahead.
- Okay.

Uh, so, yeah, it's like...

But it was very painful.

- I bet it was.
- I regret it.

It was so painful.

It sounds
like it was painful.

Gino, have you
had sex since Jasmine
had this surgery?

Yeah, we, we tried.

- You tried? Okay.
- Uh, we tried.

Uh, but it didn't go
as planned.

What?

What happened?

Well, her pupunana
was just too tight.

The banana
doesn't fit in the donut.

Okay. Nicola, you are
laughing right now.

You are laughing.

You know what, Shaun,
I want to give advice
for Jasmine and Gino.

- Beautiful words.
- When I listen to Nicola,

it's like listening to my mom

because she's also
a devoted Catholic.

And it's such
a beautiful advice.

- Yeah. Nice advice.
- Yes, I really appreciate it.

So I'm gonna pray God
that we have more sex.

Amen.

Gino, now that Jasmine
is here in America,

what is next for you two?

We've been planning a wedding
so it's pretty exciting.

- Okay, great.
And Jasmine?
- Very exciting.

Um, I'm trying to adapt
to my new life...

- Yes.
- ...here in the United States.

Uh, it's very hard.
Harder than I thought
to be far away,

um, from my family.

Uh, I really
miss them so much.

This is one of the
hardest thing I have ever done

because it's the
first time I moved, ever,
outside my country,

and I never thought
I was gonna do it.

But I just want
to everyone know
that I love Gino.

And he's the only person
that I'll do this for.

He's the love of my life.

And I really wanna be
a better partner for him.

And I take accountability
of all the mistakes

and the hurtful things
that I have done
for you, baby,

but I love you to death.

I love you.

- Wow.
- We wish you two
the very best.

- Thank you!
- Thank you!

Now we're turning
our attention to
Amanda and Razvan.

How are you doing?

I'm good.

Razvan, how are you?

Oh, I'm not...
I'm not good to be honest.

You're not that good?

No, because

This is me.

You just--

I'm good. I'm good.

We might ask you
to show us some of your moves
in a few minutes.

Amanda, now you and Razvan
had a lot of challenges
on your trip,

but you managed to end on
a positive note.

How are things
going between you two?

Um...

We are out of point now.

Um... we're not together.
But we're friends.

- You've broken up?
- Yes.

Amanda, how long
after you returned
back to the States,

did you two break up?

Um... really soon after.

It was probably about
two or three weeks.

Anybody surprised?

I thought they'd
stay together.

They started out, you know,
little rough but by the end

they were really connected
and had something good going.

I just think that...

they just went too fast.

I don't think four months
was long enough to

match up and get to know
each other.

What happened?

So when I got back,

Razvan was very focused
on his career

and himself

And he was telling me
"This is all that I can
give you pretty much".

Take it or leave it.

You know, when I was like
what's not gonna work for me

and he was like,
you know I just need
to be single now anyways

and focus on myself
and my career and--
So...

- I just find that
very convenient
- Yeah.

that you finally figured out
what you wanted

after this woman flies
all the way over
to Romania to visit you

and she finally
allows herself to be
with you intimately.

It's just really
convenient to me.

Here's the thing
is, the guy is a sweetheart.

And I'm sure that if he did
have some harsher opinions...

about his and
Amanda's relationship,

you know, I don't necessarily
see him voicing those.

Yes, that's true.

Amanda, do you believe
that the reason why

Razvan broke up with you

has to do with may be
you were being mean
to him

or he felt that way?

I don't think
so at all.

Honestly I feel like...

you know,
when I'm with someone,

they need to have like,
thick skin.

Because honestly,
I can be a bitch
and I don't mean it

in a mean way.
But I am very sarcastic

and he doesn't understand
my sarcasm all the time.

I do believe that

Amanda was being constantly
mean to Razvan.

I could see that he was
profoundly hurt

by her and her attitude,
her words.

Listen, that's not me
being mean.
That's me being...

you know,
processing my emotions.

No.

Respectfully,
you don't know me.

So shut the [bleep] up.

Jasmine, do you
wanna respond to that?

No, because I mean,
people can draw
their own conclusions.

I believe that a lot of people
not just me will agree
with that.

I mean, I wasn't
a [bleep] cry baby
the whole time.

I mean, we did have fun
you know.

But also too I was
going through a lot of stuff.

And me meeting him
for the first time to see
if this is someone

who I want in my life,
in my future.

It was serious for me.

Well, before leaving
for Romania,

Amanda's sister Amber warned
her that she might be rushing
into things with Razvan.

And the concerns about
the relationship only grew.

We asked Amber to join us
to share how she feels
now that Amanda is back home.

Please welcome Amber.

Hi.

Hi Amber.
First of all,
thank you for joining us.

Were you surprised
by the breakup?

Not at all.

Why not?

They fought a lot.

And I'm thinking
in my head like,

this is the honeymoon phase
for them.

They're supposed to be
excited and happy and...

For them to be
fighting so quickly,
but I wasn't very shocked.

How do you feel about
the way Razvan treated
your sister?

I wish he would've kind of...
let her know prior
to her flying out there

what exactly he was gonna do
and how he was gonna do it

rather than you know,
wait till after she got back
and then break it off.

Yeah, but I could've--

I didn't know like,
because I---

Like, I needed to see her
because it's something
on the phone.

And when you saw the person--
like I really wanted
to see Amanda and...

So what was it in person
that changed your feelings?

I'm not...
I'm not like,

ready how you said...
to commit like
one hundred percent.

I don't get it, Razvan.
I don't understand

why you came to this
great big epiphany
after you slept with her?

Men are known
to play the long game.
I'm just saying.

I'm not-- I'm not ready to be
involved and have
all these problems.

And Amanda
what problems did you see
in the relationship

once you met in person?

I mean, he can be
a little controlling at times.

You know, on like social media
he didn't want me to

you know, like, join other
peoples live streams or gift
them and things like that.

There were reasons
for those rules though.

It wasn't just out of nowhere
I don't want you talking
to this person

uh... because it's not me.

- Relax.
- There were reasons
Razvan put those

rules in the place.
It was causing strain
on their relationship.

- Relax. Okay?
- What information

can you give us
about that, Amber?

Well, I don't want to piss
my sister off [chuckles] too
much by saying things but--

Relax.

It was really just
this one main guy.

Their relationship was more
than just a friendship.

I didn't even know that.

Amanda?

What information can you
give us about that, Amber?

Well, I don't want to piss
my sister off [chuckles] too
much by saying things but--

Relax.

Had you been
reaching out to any guys
on social media

or responding
to guys?

It was... it was--

It was really just
one main guy

that she had been
really really good
friends with

that Razvan didn't
want her to talk to.

And you know, they had a
lot of fights about that.

Their relationship was more
than just a friendship.

It was romantic for a second
and then it wasn't.

Amanda?

I mean, I don't think
it was ever romantic.

I think we were just friends.

Why would your sister say
it was romantic if it wasn't?

I don't know.

It was more like, flirtatious.

I didn't even know that.

I did not like,
it's the first time
I hear that.

It's the first time that
you heard what?

That she was flirtatious
with this guy?

Yeah, I didn't know
about the flirt.

Well, Razvan
had had suspicions
for a long time

and I think Amanda denied it.

I don't think she ever
really told him...

that it was you know, whatever.

So I might have just
popped the bubble
on that. Sorry.

Yeah, you did.

So, if Razvan was in the dark
about the flirtation,

what was his problem
about your friendship
with this guy?

When Razvan and I would fight

you know, I would go to him
and tell him you know,
we're fighting or

you know, kind of open up
about our relationship

to this person
and he didn't like that.

How did he know?

I mean,
I would tell him.

You know, like,
or if I didn't answer his call

or he's like,
what are you doing?

I'm like you know,
I'm talking to my friend.

It was never anything serious.

Well, we've learned
Amanda and Razvan
have now broken up.

But let's take a look back
and see if there were signs

this wasn't destined
to work out.

Yeah.

You always wanted
to move to the United States?

I didn't know that.

You never
said that to me before.

If you had told me that
in the beginning,

I would've been like,
"Well, that's kind of
a reg flag.

That's a little strange."

What's wrong?

Well, you told
the shopkeeper that
you want to have children.

Yeah.

But I already told you
that I don't want to have
any more children.

You should have said this
to me before.

- Like, in the beginning so--
- But I'm telling you now

it's a possibility to want to
have like, my own child.

When me and Amanda
will talk about kids

I did tell Amanda what she
wanted to hear from me.

Because

- Well, we'll see in time.
- Yeah.

Last night I asked Razvan
what his plan is

when he comes
to the United States.

He got very defensive.

I would expect him
to have a plan.

He was like, oh,
you just...

don't want to like,
support me and my goals.

And it kind of like,
snowballed from there.

I don't know, I feel like,

I don't know is something
wrong with me?

But in the right relationship,

you'll not feeling this,
it's something wrong with you.

I'd like to ask Amber,
from what you saw,

do you think there was
miscommunication from
the very beginning?

Uh... I don't know.
I mean, that was his

probably mistake in not
mentioning that in the
beginning of the relationship.

He literally just said--
which I didn't see.
I just saw it

for the first time
where he goes

I was basically telling her
what she wants to hear.

How did you feel
hearing that, Amanda?

That's crazy.

Like, I'm shocked.
I really... I don't know.

In the beginning he said,
you have two children
you know, it's fine.

And then later I kind of
was like blindsided

when he was like,
"No, I do wanna have kids".

Long game.

He told you what he
needed to--

that you wanted to hear
so he could get you there.

You know what?
I'm gonna give him
the benefit of the doubt

because it seems like his
tears were genuine

and I'm not gonna say
he can act like,

that man doesn't have feelings
and emotions.

But it doesn't
make sense to me

that all of a sudden
you realize, after you got
what you wanted

that this is not
what you want.

It does, it does makes sense.

Because we did
have some problems.

and I'm not doing this...
to be with someone else.

Rasvan, I know that
you have a visa to visit
the States.

But since you and Amanda
are broken up,

are you still coming?

Yes, of course.
I'm planning to come to US
in like two months.

And... after that I will
apply for another visa for

a O-1 visa for like... artist.

And I'm planning to like,
move there.

And I definitely will see
Amanda and

I want to give us
another chance when
I would be there.

Oh, okay.
So it doesn't seem like
this relationship

has a completely closed door.

No, it hasn't.
I'm coming there because
I want to be there.

And where will you be staying?

Razvan did ask me if he could
stay with me

um... while he was here
until he found the place.

And what did you say?

Um... I told him
absolutely not.

- Are you sure about that?
- Yeah.

I think we will take
everything step by step

not move together
in the first
day when I will be there.

And I'll always be here
if she needs me.

Well, Amanda, we, um,
unfortunately have to say
goodbye to your sister Amber.

Thank you very much.
We appreciate it.

All right. Thank you.

Amanda and Razvan,
we appreciate you letting us
into your lives.

I know this wasn't easy
but we wish you nothing
but the best.

Thank you.

Now let us turn to Tyray.

After four years in
a relationship with
a woman named Carmella,

he found out that he'd
actually been speaking
to a man

named Christian.

We saw the end of your journey
with you meeting

the woman in the photos,
the real Carmella.

What was going through
your mind, Tyray?

Uh... Like I first just
the physical aspect
was like,

confusing but then
you know, you realize that

that wasn't who you were
talking to for that amount
of time, you know?

It was a completely
different person.

All right.

So how do you respond
to the people

who say that
you were just ignoring
the red flags?

I mean, they were right.
I did. I ignored
every single red flag.

Every red flag,
they were right there
in my eyes and I just like

like, right there.
But I just ignored them.

Jesus, man!

Oh, man!

I mean, how many years
you didn't do a video call?
Like...

I don't know.
Weird stuff happens to me.

Tyray, was there a moment
where you said,

"This is too good to be true.
It's got to be".

Yeah, everyday almost.
I second guessed everything
about it.

I was like,
this does not add up.
But then I was just like,

I kind of like,
I was like gaslighting myself.

- You know what I mean?
You know?
- Yeah.

Right now, I learnt from that
though like,
a hundred percent.

There you go.

It was actually one of the
90 Day Fiance producers

who first made contact
with the person pretending
to be Carmella.

She is now here to walk us
through how it all unfolded.

Please welcome Amelia.

Hey, Amelia.

Hi. How are you?

- Good. How are you?
- Good.

Amelia, how did you
discover that Tyray
was being catfished?

So, Tyray gave me
Carmella's Snapchat,

and phone number
and email

and I tried to set up
a video chat

with her over email.
But she kept avoiding it.

And she wouldn't answer
any of my phone calls.

So... definitely some
red flags started
popping up in my head.

Because phone calls
are a normal part of our
pre-interview process,

so, I was just
very persistent.

Carried on emailing, Snapchatting.

I was just determined
to find out.

Because obviously,
I love Tyray so I was like,
something is going on here.

And then eventually,
Carmella sent me
an email, um... saying,

"It's time to come clean.
I feel awful. It's been
going on for too long."

So, yeah.

Okay.

We actually have the audio
recording of Amelia's
call with Christian.

The man behind
the Carmella catfish.

Tyray, you weren't able to
sit through the recording previously.

Are you willing to listen
to it with us today?

What was the most shocking
thing about the call
with Christian?

When he said that,
he physically saw Tyray

when Tyray went out there.

Which I thought was so scary.

Wow!

That's creepy.

It's was really [bleep] up.

We actually have the audio
recording of Amelia's call
with Christian.

The man behind
the Carmella catfish.

Tyray, you weren't able to
sit through the recording previously.

Are you willing to listen
to it with us today?

Yeah, it's fine.

Okay. Here it is.

I'm so sorry, Tyray.

Yeah.

And so, it kind of sucks.

I don't know, it just really
pisses me off, honestly.

I guess I wanna [bleep] him
up, but [laughs] Sorry.

I don't know, like...

If, if this Christian's
watching, you know,

from one Christian to another
I wanna give you
a big [bleep] you.

Uh, you're honestly

- a scummy person,
you're a scammer, and...
- Yeah.

I think anything that happens
to you in life, that is bad,

you probably deserve
and should consider that.

Yes. Karma is a bitch

Okay? Because

having no remorse about it
and expressing yourself
the way you did about Tyray,

it really makes me want
to punch you
in your [bleep] face.

Yeah

The most shocking bit
was when he said

that he physically saw Tyray
when Tyray went out there.

Um, and he physically saw him
drop off clothes and money.

He was actually watching him,
yeah, which
I thought was so scary.

It definitely feels violating
and makes me feel
uncomfortable too.

That is really [bleep] up.

Um, Tyray,

I know you've
never had a chance to speak
to Christian directly.

Um, but since filming,
we've been able to dig up
a new phone number for him.

Um, would it be okay with you
if we called him right now?

I'm, I'm okay calling him.

- Okay.
- Wow.

I don't know where
this is gonna go, but okay.

Let's have our producers
go ahead and connect

in the control room and Tyray
will be able
to speak to him directly.

Here we go.

Here we go.

Please leave your
message after the tone.

We're gonna get you

- We've got your back, Tyray.
we all got your back.
- Thank you.

I appreciate it,
you guys.

Tyray,

I'm sorry he didn't answer
but we appreciate you
being willing to reach out.

Looking back, what
concerns you the most about

this interaction that you had
with this guy Christian?

Definitely ...
ask for, you know,
intimate photos.

Oh, my God!

You know, if someone's asking
you for photos like that,

I mean, you kind of get
caught up in a moment
and you're like,

"Hey, you wanna see what I got
so I'm gonna show it to you,"
you know.

So, you're saying,
during one of your exchanges,

they asked you for intimate
photos of yourself
and you actually sent them.

Unfortunately.

Was your face in the photo?

- Uh, I think so.
- Oh.

It did worry me. Because
especially when the show
aired and everything,

as I wasn't sure what they
would have did. I thought

they would like, try
to blackmail me or something

or like send it to like,
my mom,
or somebody on social media,

or someone from, like, work
or something. And so...

Yeah, if they're willing to do
all of that, what else
are they willing to do?

That, that's a really, really
scary thought, brother.

- That's really scary...
- Yeah, they're going
for the lowest of the low.

That's... I, I feel
so sorry for you, Tyray.

Thank you.

If Christian
is watching this show,

what would you say to him?
What would
your message to him be?

You know what? Um, I'm gonna
take that, uh, Nicola and
Meisha route and pray for him.

Best thing ever, Tyray,
best thing ever.

- That's big of you, brother,
that's real big.
- That's it.

Yeah.

All right, Tyray, so many
real women want to know

are you single and looking?

I'm definitely
single. Not looking, though.

I got, I got to do
a lot of self-healing...

- Okay.
- And self-improvement
I gotta do right now.

- Mm-hmm.
- My sister did tell me
to tell you to holler at her.

Uh-oh.

I'm just sayin'.

Tyray, clearly this was not
how you wanted

your relationship
with Carmella to turn out,

but you have an amazing
outlook on love and we know
you'll find someone

- who will make you very happy.
- Thank you.

Well, Amelia, thank you
so much for being here
and speaking with us,

and of course, we also
appreciate all the work
you did behind the camera

- for this show.
- Thank you.

We have reached the end of
Before the 90 Days
The Couples Tell All

and I want to thank each
and every one of you,

for sharing your thoughts
and your lives with us.

And thank you
to our studio audience.

I'm Shaun Robinson,
we'll see you next time.

Goodbye, everyone.

I feel really relieved,

I'm glad that
I got this over with.

I don't know that
there's a possibility

that Razvan and I will be
together in
the future

but, you know, I'm not gonna
just wait around you know,
until he's ready.

And also... I'm, kind of,
talking to someone else.

Um, Razvan doesn't know
and I didn't want
to hurt his feelings.

So, I didn't mention that.

We'll see what the future
holds but right now
I'm just... happy.

Yes?

Oh, okay.

I appreciate the ups
and the downs today.

With Violet, we have
some really core things
that we're different on.

- Bye, my ladies...
- Riley...

I don't necessarily see
a future with her but I...
I don't know.

I don't regret anything.
At all. I would do it again.

I just, if I had
the opportunity I would do
things a little bit different.

Bring it in, bring it in.

Safe travels.

The Tell All did something
to my heart a little bit.

Next off for Nicola and I,
I have to, like,

de-clutter my brain
and my emotions,

and I have to just
really watch and see
what happens in America.

I want my daughters to give
him an honest chance.

I just hope that people
can get to know him.

I just know how my world
views this relationship,

and I just really hope that
they can see the person
that I know he is.

I'm actually feeling
pretty good.

You know, in the end, I think,
you know, Cleo and I had
a very good resolution.

Let's blow this
popsicle stand.

And it was really great
meeting the other cast members

and as far as, you know,
my experience,

and the drama that was caused
with this season I think
I'm totally redeemed.

Made it out
of the Tell All alive.

What's next for me,
I'm gonna go home

sell everything I own and

get going to England.

Uh, but our communication
has to get better.
And if it doesn't,

I don't think we're gonna
l be able to live in a van.

I don't think we're gonna be
able to live together.

I don't think
we're gonna be able
to be in a relationship.

Jasmine and I are
very much in love for sure

with no question about that.

But this whole
sex tape thing came up

and that, you know, just,
you know, put us in,
in a wrong direction.

We have less than 90 days
to plan the wedding,

but, we're planning
to get married.

- You know that I love you?
- Yeah.

I'm gonna try to find a way,

to leave whatever happened in
the Tell All in the past,
you know.

And maybe tonight,
can I say it in sign language?