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- Oh, oh, oh.
Shoot. Ahhh!
- Oh!

- So far, so good.
- What?

This is amazing.

This is why I'm here.

For her. For these moments.

And I hope that she will start
being open and honest with me.

When we have a fight,

you text my father
bad things about me.

Do you regret it?
That's all I wanna know.

Even though my family
is not religious as I am,

they believe
very strongly in tradition.

Let's do it.

Once I explain to them
who who is Meisha,

things will start
to fall down.

I want you to speak in Arabic
so your mother can understand.

If I don't want a baby,
will you stay with me?

And still marry me?
And be happy?

I told you, I want a child.

- How am I supposed
to be happy?
- So, you want.

I don't really know
if I will ever...

...and that's the part
that really scares me.

I thought we were
on the same page with this.

We're clearly not.

I've done
your relationship chart.

I would say, for Christian,
you lack, like, sensitivity.

You may see each other
as an enemy.

If things are
to not work out between us...

Razvan and I
had a fight last night.

I don't know.
Did I get into
a relationship too quickly?

Does Razvan know
how to be with someone
who's a widowed mom?

Oh. So, like...

I am feeling really concerned

about some of the things
that came up.

I feel that there's still
a lot of work
for Christian and I

to do in order for us
to get back to where we were

before all these issues.

Is this it?

Oh, yeah. It looks like
it's still a costume shop.

Both Christian and I
are really into movies
and, um, you know, comics...

So, today I just wanted to do
something fun and try to
reconnect as a couple.

Okay, here we are.

- Good afternoon there, guys.
- Hello, hello.

- How are we doing today?
- Pretty darn good.

I love
places like this.

So you guys go
and have a browse,

and when you're ready,
you just come give me a shout
and I'll give you a hand.

- That sounds good.
- Sounds great.

It is amazing 'cause
there's like, so many options.

I really want
to have a fun time with Cleo

because for the past few days,
you know,
we've been on shaky ground.

Ooh!

Hey, I like this one.

Despite our differences,
I still want things
to work out

and I still think
it's possible.

All right, what I figure is,

you'll be looking for like,
flappers girl

and then I'll find,
like a 20's,
like, gangster suit.

Yeah.

Yeah, let's go for that.

We're looking for
a 1920's gangster look

and here's my floozy here.

What does floozy mean?

Floozy,
it's kind of like, uh,

I think it's like, skank.

Oh.

I am going
to find you a shirt.

So actually, let's just do
a couple of measurements
for you as well.

I'm just gonna
come around your neck here.

- Oh, my goodness. You have got
an incredibly tiny neck.
- Oh!

That's insane.
You probably have
one of the smallest necks,

I've ever fitted on a man.

My Adam's apple is

twice as large as his.

- Jesus. All right.
- Well, most people's neck size
is about 15-inches.

You've got a 14-inch collar.

Oh, wow!
Yes, hello. Mmm.

You have
a very skinny neck. Hmm.

- It's very, very small.
- Great.

Skinniest neck of a man
I've ever seen. Wow.

Were you sick
a lot as a child?

- Did he tell you, you were
sick a lot as a child?
- No.

Okay.

All right,
you ready
for the big reveal, babe?

- Let's do it.
- Stepping out.

- Wow.
- Oh!

You look great.

Yeah, you look
pretty good too.

Yeah, give me
a little spin here.

- Okay.
- Take a look at it.

Top to tail.

- There you go.
- We just need
to go out flapping.

- You do a little thing.
Do a little thing with it.
- Yeah.

I don't know.
How do they dance? Like that?

Left, right, right, left.

Right, do, do.

Yeah, cool. Uh, should we try
another costume?

Just suck in
your guts.

Everyone from pre-history
just didn't breathe.
That's how it works.

Your crown.

There we go. Look at that!

Okay, come on out.

Wow!

You look regal.

Thank you, yeah.

- I do feel that.
- That's hot.

Show me some,
like, knight action.

Love it.

Well, uh, you know what?
Now is the time that I'd like
to give you something.

Can you hold my shield
for just one moment?

- Of course.
- Cool.

Oh, my God, sorry.
- Yeah.

So... I actually did buy
something for you.

Yesterday evening.

- Okay.
- It's something
kind of precious...

- and cool.
- All right.

Oh, wow!

Oh, you didn't have to.

It's so nice.

I wanted to show you
something, like,
a physical thing

to represent, you know,
my love for you.

Did you just say,
your love for me?

Yeah. Yeah, I did.

I want to keep working on us.

Uh, I want you to know,
like, I'm serious and...

- For real?
- Yeah.

Be careful.

Thank you.

Well, would you
like to try it on?

- Of course.
- All right, great.

Just feeling
really happy right now.

Despite having had
some rough days
with Christian,

I know that he's just,
you know, a goofy boy

who, you know,
might make mistakes
but has a good heart.

And he just really
sees me for who I am.

So, I really want
this to work.

I just hope
that our relationship

is moving towards
a next step of, you know,

being truly committed
to each other

and that we get there
before he leaves.

I really appreciate that.
It means a lot to me.

- Maybe you should tell Andy.
- You tell him.

I have no idea
what's happening
with Nicola right now.

I'm sitting here in this room
and feeling so
incredibly uncomfortable.

We're supposed to having
this big reveal to his family

about who I am
and our plans for the future.

And all of the sudden,
Nicola is completely
chickening out.

He is far away
from me on the couch.

There is absolutely
no emotion towards me.

Is he ashamed to tell them
that I am his girlfriend?

Because, if so,
this is going to be
a huge problem.

Just tell them.

She put a post about Jesus

and I was
correcting here there.

And then I add her to Facebook
and we start to speak.

And three years and half
or four years

we start to speak
on the phone,
almost every day.

Yeah, and, uh,
our relationship

developed for
a romance relationship.

Like, I love you.
She loves me.

And the main purpose
that Meisha came

from Minnesota
to the Holy Land

is to spend time together
and we can
know each other more.

And hopefully,
in the next few days,
that we can also get engaged.

- Wow.
- Wow.

- Engaged?
- Yeah.

Wow!

- I don't believe it.
- Mickey or Andy,
tell your mom.

She's very happy.

- Aw! Your mommy.
- Yeah, she happy with her.

Aw! Oh! Nadia.

Tell your mom,
thank you for that.

Yes.

So...

In the United States.

- You will come to America.
- You'll come?

Yeah!

Yeah.

When my mom hears
that I want propose to Meisha,

she... I think
she felt emotional.
She started to cry

because it's her dream in life
that me will get married.

I feel very happy.

But I know when I
start to explain
that Meisha have two kids,

she is divorced, not a virgin,

I worry how
they will accept her.

I have to tell you
something else.

Meisha, she's a Catholic.

Before she was a Catholic,
she didn't know God.

And when she was young,
she was married.

She have two daughters.

You're surprised.

Very surprised.

- That I will marry
a divorce, right?
- Yes.

She don't care.

She say that she
all the time, uh, tell him...

Oh!

I think Nicola
didn't tell us about Meisha

maybe because she is divorced.

She have kids.

He's scared that
we can look at him
in a different way.

- Well, we're not here
to judge anyone.
- Amen.

Nicola, I think that you
need to be more open

with your life.

I think that if you have
a treasure like this,

I think that you need to be
more open to your brothers.

- We only wish
the best for you.
- Aw!

We hope that you'll be
part of our family.

- Aw!
- Yes?

Amen.

None of the things
that I've heard Nicola saying

that would be the big hurdles
to cross with his family

seem to be hurdles to them.

They were more than accepting.

So, there just seems to be,
like, we're on

two different planets
at this point.

And it's making me
really wonder why
I had to fight so hard

to make this moment happen
in the first place.

It kind of begs the question,
"Nicola, is it you
that has the problem with me?"

And if Nicola cannot accept me
for who I am,
how can we get married?

That's it and good luck.

- Thank you
for your words.
- Yes.

Could you please
say yes for once to me?

You sound a little spoiled.

You're a
piece of trash.

You can't compare the two.

Get out of here.
And then get off my [bleep].

- Don't...
- Throw your
around, too.

Get out of my [bleep] way!

Okay.

Hi, sir. Good morning.

What do you want, sir?

Oh, this one?

What about this one?

No?

You want this one?

You have to pay
this amount for buy this ring.

So, I'm gonna clean
your face first.

- Okay.
- Oh.

The hat.

Nope. No.

What if, like...
Put it like this?

Like the opposite,
so this thing is in the back.

Yes. Let me see...

Oh, much better.
Look at you, so cute.

Mmm.

End of today,

Gino and I have
a very difficult conversation

about me not being prepared
to have a baby with him.

Even though
he really wants that.

What the heck is this?

Close you eyes,
and your mouth, don't speak.

So, tonight...

I want Gino to feel
he is the king of my heart,

and how much I care about him.

Is that going
on my face?

Don't move.

Baby, I have noticed that...
You know...

Every time that you come,

we have a hard time
getting along, and then

after a certain period
of time, we get along again.

But then you leave.

And the same cycle repeats.

Baby, why you don't stay?

Let me enjoy the massage.
Why do we have to
talk about this?

Because you are leaving

and you're always abandon me.

I hate leaving Jasmine.

You know,
we want to be together.

But in order to get
our K-1 visa approval...

I have to be working.

I mean, I'm doing
the best I can.

Baby, listen, first you said
with the K-1, six month.

Now then, you said,
like, nine months.

Baby, it has been 13 months.

Yeah, but we had
the pandemic that we had
to go through, which

- lost a lot of time.
- You always have an excuse
for everything and an answer.

No, but it's true.

Baby, I want you to say,
"Baby, I cannot live
without you.

Let's find a way
to be together...

super-fast."

Okay, so when I get home,

I'm gonna follow up
with immigration.

I'm gonna send in a request
directly to them, asking,
"What is the status?"

That is gonna be completely
ignored as usual.

No.

You have to have
some patience.

Like, will you, then,
at least, be willing...

Because on top of everything,
I'm sick and tired of moving.

That puts so much stress,
sadness, misery in my life.

But this is the best of best.

- Do you think we can get
a good apartment for 1,500?
- No.

- Or 2,000?
- No.

I know that he can afford it.

So, paying for the apartment
until the visa comes though

shouldn't be an issue.

But for me, it's not just
about the apartment.

Gino have had so many
opportunities to show me

that I am his priority,
you know.

Like, hire
an immigration lawyer

for our K-1 visa.

Pay for this apartment
so I can stay here
while I wait for the K-1 visa.

But he won't do any of that.

And I'm sick of it.

We'll get you
a good place, don't worry.

This. I want this place.

Can you get... Can you grab
your phone and we can look
for an apartment now.

Could you please say
yes for once, for me?

You sound a little spoiled.

You know what? Like...

I've been so good to you...

but I'm being "spoiled"
just for asking
for a decent place.

Even though, when I met you,

you had money
for sugar babies,

you were paying 300 for dates,

you have money for your ex.

You took her to Disney,

you took her to Legoland.

For a one-week vacation,
you paid more
than I'm begging you.

- One month to pay for me
living in a comfortable place.
- No, no, no.

- No, sorry--
- How much
did you pay for that vacation?

- You cannot compare rent--
- Okay,

- give me a number--
- No.

For one [bleep]...

You can't compare the two!

You're a
piece of trash.

You're trash.
You want to pay...

You ask--

- No.
- ...the most money...
Ah, this is the most...

- Just...
get out of here.
- ...expensive place.

Get... and then
get off my [bleep] place.

You don't be throwing
my [bleep]...

I'm gonna take your [bleep]...

- Don't.
- Throw your
around, too.

- Okay.
- How do you like that?

Okay.
Get out of my way.

- No.
- Get out of my [bleep] way!

Don't be
throwing my [bleep].

[bleep] you.

you.
100 times [bleep] you.

You [bleep] paid
for all those bitches

and all I [bleep] ask
is for a month of rent.

- I want you to die.
- It's more than [bleep].

Get out of my house!

We're done.

[bleep] you, Gino.

I'm done with this.

[bleep]...

Are you asking me a question
or are you just...

Hi, how are ya?

Not quite like this.

Uh, how it is here but...

You know, close
in Flushing, Queens,
is, kind of, close.

I only have two days
left in Vietnam,

and I know that this...

This whole trip
has been rough.

But as much as I am frustrated

that Violet can't
take accountability
for her mistakes...

I've put two years
into this relationship

and I understand that
sometimes it's gonna be tough

and you gotta work
through those hard moments.

So, I don't want
to give up on Violet.

Over there.

Oh, jackfruit.

- Durian.
- Okay, I'll try it.

It stinks...

- Oh.
- Do you want to try?

You want to try?

I'll try it. A little piece.

Okay.

What do I eat?
The yellow?

You're on to try.

Wait, hold on...

Hold... hold open.

You eat it for you to try it.

Okay, so we could move on.

- You don't... You don't like?
- Mmm-mmm.

No offense
to anybody out there
that like durian fruit.

I'm just saying,
for me, it tasted like...

If I imagine eating...

my dog's excrements.

But I sauteed it
in garlic butter... first.

No, that was not for me.

I'm sorry,
there's a lot of smells here.

Not feeling well now.
I feel like...

You don't feel good?

It's a lot of smells
and the food, I don't...

Yeah, I need water.

What's wrong with you?

I need water.

Are you asking me a question
or are you just

telling me your feelings.

Oh, you're just telling me
your feelings. Okay,
I'm listening.

Believe you about what?

About everything.

Mmm-hmm.

You wanna know what happened

with my exes
that makes me like this?

Okay...

So, one of my exes...

She made me believe
I was going crazy.

I used to hear her
on the phone...

with another person.

And she would say,
"I love you," and I go,
"Who is that?"

And she's like, "What?"

I was like, "You was
on the phone..."

And she was saying,
"No, I wasn't.
It's in your mind."

And then I went to visit her,

and I came into her house
and there was a guy
in her closet.

And I knew the guy.

I knew him.

So, I don't trust...

I don't trust anyone.

And especially,
I don't trust women.

Okay.

I didn't... I...

It's not that I think
every woman is bad

but you have to earn my trust.

And once you have it
and you do something
to break my trust,

it takes a lot
to gain it back.

But the only way
that I can help me
help you earn my trust back

is by me asking questions.

But you get upset
because you say

it's the questions
about the past.

I would, it's...

How I can do now?

I wanna know...

do you regret your actions?

And if you say, "Yes,"
I go, "That's good
enough for me."

Because that means
that you grew.

You grew as a person,
you realized that
"I shouldn't have done that."

That's it.

Okay.

- Thank you.
- Okay.

It's not easy for Violet
to admit when she's wrong,

so her doing that
is a really big, big thing,
and it's promising.

Can I walk you home?
Will you allow me
to walk you home?

Okay.

- Can I hold your hand
when I walk you home?
- Yes.

I have two more days
left here in Vietnam

and I wanna be sure
that we have open
and honest communication

so that we can start our life
together as a family.

I don't really know
if me and Amanda,

we are together
or we are breaking up.

As I walked to the room
to speak with Amanda.

I have a lot of emotions.

I really thought
that last two days,

me and Amanda, we are building
a stronger relationship,

and everything is okay but...

last night was the worst
night of my life.

I never argue... with no one
in my life like this.

And that was
really hurtful for me.

It's really hard for me
to accept that...

it's over,
because I love her very much

and I want to make
this relationship work.

But I don't know

if... this will be possible.

Last night...

after...

...you told me
that you love me so much.

You said things
that really hurt me.

Can you tell me...

Wait, we are different
in which way?

Well, for one,
I feel like you...

won't do anything to, like,

provide for your family.

Like, would you be a janitor
to make some money

while you're pursuing
an acting job? I couldn't
see you doing that.

And if I don't want
to be a janitor
and work for my dream,

- it's bad?
- I'm not saying
just be a janitor

and give up on your dreams
but I'm saying, like...

I feel like you will come
to the US and I will
take care of you

until you get
what you want, right?

I don't need you
to take care of me

and I don't need your money.

I never ask you for money.

Because I will not come
to you as... with nothing.

And I never ask
for nothing in my life.
And I will never ask.

I never ask for my parents
for nothing.

You're, like,
missing my point.

I'm missing your point?
Tell me your point.

You think... I'm telling you,

you think you need a guy
that has stability.

You know...

like, a guy how Jason was.

And last night
you compared me with Jason.

But it's not fair
for you to...

to tell me now this.

I told you from the beginning
who I am,

and I told you I want someone

that support me
with what I want to do
in this life.

You understand?

Yeah, it's, like,
not fair for you.

And I'm sorry, if...

like, I hurt you.
I... don't wanna hurt you.

After Jason I wanted...

you to be the right person.

But maybe we're just not right
for each other.

It's not fair.

It's not fair for you
to do this to me...

because you told me
so many thigs different...

- Okay.
- ...in whole,

- in this whole time.
- 'Cause I, I...

felt that way,

- also.
- No, you didn't.

I mean, I know... Like...

I don't know,
maybe I'm just...

scared to be
in a relationship.

It's scary for me to...

move on, and...

I think of, like...

having, like, a life
with someone else.

So maybe that's why I...
compare you to Jason, because...

I have so many emotions.

When you spend... that much
of your life with a person,

and then...

like, thinking of, like...

starting, like, a new life...

with someone else,

it's, like, scary and...

it's like something...

you know, like,
you didn't think
you would be doing.

So I feel like...

yeah, like,
I maybe make excuses

just to, like...

have us break up,
because it's, like...

hard for me to, like...

to just, like, get over it.

- Do you want me to?
- No, I'm asking you.

Okay.

I feel like I'm lost
and confused, and...

sad and... heart-broken.

I don't really know if...

me and Amanda,
we are together, or...
we are breaking up.

But I feel like,

in this moment,
I did everything I could do...

for this relationship and...

it's just too much.

Honey babe,

I'm excited to our trip,

and spend time together
with you.

And I can't wait
to swim in the beach with you.

Is it okay if Aimee
not come with us?

I want privacy without Aimee.

I understand that you want
be alone with us.

I think it'd be okay,

and there are things
I want us to talk about
without other people there.

It was painful.

His [bleep] is too big.

It's an American [bleep].

You know, you have a...

Hello, ma'am, sir.

Good afternoon,
welcome to Club Serena Resort.

Reservation under...

Name?

So here's your key.

- Thank you
and have a nice day.
- Oh, okay.

Thank you.

Wow,
this is really nice room.

Jump!

Whoa.

This is a beautiful room
I ever had.

It's really hard for me

that...

soon you're going back
to America.

Okay.

Okay.

Let's go.

Whee.

Whoo.

I met Nicola's family
last night,

but Nicola's behavior
around the whole thing
confuses me.

You seem to be so quick

to want them to dislike me,
when they don't.

If your family

are not the ones
who have the issue with me

being divorced,

is it possible
that's an issue with you?

What are they doing?

Oh, my gosh.

Ooh,

I love it.

Oh!

- You like?
- Yeah.

Last night I took Meisha
to meet my family,

and I was very nervous
about it.

I thought
that they would not like her,
but it was...

better than expected.

I feel relief and I feel
like I want to celebrate.

Wow,
it's really cool down here. Really...

- cool out here.
- I grew up here
all my life.

- Really?
- Yeah.

I used to sleep here--

So this is where you used
to run around as a child?

- This is my room,
I used to sleep.
- What?

- Yes.
- This window?

Right here.

Aw.

- So this must bring back
so many memories for you.
- A lot,

lots of memories.

Acre is very old city,

that have almost 5,000 years
of history.

I spent my childhood
in this city,

fishing,

visiting my mom family,

my grandmother
and my grandfather.

So it's mean a lot to me,

that I get to share
this beautiful city
with Meisha.

Well...

This is one of the best
hummus restaurant
in the world.

I'm not joking to you.

Yeah,

- I love it.
- Okay, let's go.

I met Nicola's family
last night,

which I'm very happy about.

Um, and it went,
it went... good,

in terms of me interacting
with mother and his brothers.

I didn't wanna bring up
anything negative
last night, afterwards,

because we were just
too exhausted,

but Nicola's behavior
around the whole thing
confuses me.

Something here
doesn't seem to add up.

Yes, oh, hi.

- Welcome,
you are welcome.
- Thank you so much.

Um...

okay, hummus, for sure.

Is that like a raisin,

- like, a sweet raisin?
- Yes.

- Why not try it?
- Okay, I'll try that.

Thank you.

There is no reason

I had to go through
all that trouble to get ready
for Nicola's family.

And really,
what I'm starting to wonder
is who really is it

that has the problem?

She has to bring it.
- Don't scream,

- she'll come.
- Why, she knows me.

Thank you so much.

- So good.
- It's very good.

So last night,

there is a lot that, I think,
we need to talk about.

Well, sweetie-pie,

I feel yesterday,
everything was so nice,

so good, successful.

Is something wrong?

I...

I was under the impression
that they might be
a lot more judgmental of me,

- because of who I am,
because of what you said.
- Yeah.

And they weren't,
and I love that.

And I'm very happy about that, but...

you seem to be so quick
to want them to dislike me
when they don't.

- No, Meisha, no.
- Okay, but--

Maybe, but that's...

But Nicola,
but that's how it felt.

Your body language
on the couch,

like, you couldn't be farther...

against the side of the couch,
like, you just did not
want to be there.

And absolutely zero affection
to me.

It didn't even really feel
like we even had a friendship,
let alone a relationship.

Yes, it was the hardest day
for me,

since you land.

I felt a little bit
stressed yesterday
in my... mom home,

especially,
when I introduced you.

I just want to finish this...

drama, I will call it.

So if your family...

are not the ones
who had the issue
with me being divorced,

is it possible
that it's because
it's not an issue with them,

it's an issue with you?

You have a lingering issue
with me being
a divorced woman.

It's Nicola,
it's not cultural,
it's Nicola.

- That's how you feel?
- I'm asking you.

Is there anything in you
that is bothered...

about my past?

- No.
- Nothing?

Nothing, Meisha.

So...

- there's no part of you?
- No.

I love you a lot.

You know how much
I love you, Meisha.

She don't, like, trust me,

because I don't give her emotion

in my mom home,

and that's a big problem.

It's make me to ask myself,

like, "Is... she think
I'm the right person for her?"

Maybe she don't want
to marry me,

and that's make me worry.

Do you
have insecurity?

Yeah, I still have
some insecurities.

Since things
are going very well
at this moment,

I need to put all my cards
on the table.

To be totally honest with you,

I did called
a private investigator.

Hey,
look at, over there.

- Yeah, sight-seeing--
Oh, city sight-seeing.
- Yeah, yeah.

- Let's go.
- And did you want to go?

- Let's go.
- Yeah.

Let's do it.

Today
I'll be your tour guide.

You will be my tour guide?
Thank you.

My time in Vietnam
is ending soon,

but I feel like
we had a breakthrough
yesterday at the market.

So I'm feeling pretty good
about our relationship
right now.

I just wish
I had more time here,

because we still have
a lot of things
that we need to work on.

But right now
I just wanna take it all in,

and enjoy the time
we have left together.

Oh...
Good, good idea.

- Believe it or not...
- Yeah.

...this one little thing

- just made this a lot more
tolerable being up here.
- Yeah.

Ah,
look at this old building.

Wow.

Hello.

Hello. Yeah.

Uh, no, ri-- uh... river,

big river.

It's really a beautiful city.

Really beautiful.

- Can I tell with
you something?
- Yes.

Yeah.

Well, I feel that
we have come so far.

And no matter what,
no matter how many
arguments we had,

no matter how many outbursts,

we've always
come back together.

So that means
something, right?

Do you agree?

Mm-hmm.

This is what it is?

I've been pushing for Violet
to be open and honest,

and I feel that
since things are going
very well at this moment,

I need to reciprocate
and put all my cards
on the table.

Because I just don't want
any more misunderstandings,
secrets, or surprises

that might ruin this
in the future.

Do you have something to...

Yeah, I still have
some insecurities.

To be totally honest with you,

I did call
a private investigator.

Someone to look into
your background.

But I didn't do it.

You know, I thought about it
for a quick second,
but I didn't do it.

- Yes, but it came from...
- Okay.

We weren't
communicating properly.

My reason for bringing it up
is to tell you that I wanna be
100% honest with you.

And in order for me
to do that,

I have to share everything
even though it's hard for me
to share it.

I think our conversation
not nice now.

I don't feel comfortable.

I understand
that in your country
it's considered disrespectful,

but in my country,
with my culture,

it is something that we do.

We check on people
to make sure that they are
who they say they are.

And it is a common thing
in my country.

But I met you,
and I feel that I don't need
to do things like that.

That was my whole point.
That I never did it.

I believed if we could
communicate properly

that we could solve
any problems.

We can accomplish
anything together.

We can move on.

We can be a family eventually.

I know you don't feel good
and you're upset,
but we could get past this.

This is what happens
in relationships,
you work past it.

Just be quiet now.

- Yes, ma'am.
- Don't talk anymore.

Yes, ma'am.

What did you get up to?

Well, I just found a pub,
got a drink and I met a gal.

I actually invited her
to our little Thanksgiving
that we have going on.

Oh.

I feel that it is
a little strange
to constantly seek...

That's really weird.

Some things
you cannot take back.

I'm tired.
I'm very tired.
I'm tired emotionally.

Waking up this morning,
I definitely felt like I was
gonna end things.

But I am realizing
my past trauma
and my grief

may have caused issues
in our relationship

and it was wrong for me
to compare him to Jason.

I know that I love Razvan
and I wanna be with him.

And...

in a normal
or an ideal relationship,
it would be amazing.

You know, but it's like I also
have something so devastating

that I have to deal with
as well.

I feel like a part of me
is really want to end
this relationship.

But it's hard

letting go Amanda.

So I don't want to cancel

the trip to Croatia

because that will mean

our relationship is over.

Even if I'm not sure
that I want to break up
with her,

it feels like
something in me shut down.

Last night, she said
some really mean things.

Telling me that we don't
have the same morals,

and I'm not even the half man
that Jason was.

And some things
you cannot take back.

Okay.

You know that I know
you are upset and hurt.

But also,

I feel like if you want
to be with me and we're
gonna be together,

then you can't
just stay like this.

And I know
it's gonna take time,

but I'm just saying
I'm putting in an effort
and I hope that you do, too.

- Okay.
- Okay.

Razvan has never
acted like this to me before.

He's being very cold, distant,

not really showing me
any sort of affection.

And I only have
a few days left,

but I don't know
if it's enough time
to get us back on track.

So it makes me, like... nervous.

I think that life...

...doesn't give you
a certain love, like, twice.

And I feel like Razvan
was, like, that love,
you know?

Like my second love.

I don't want to lose that.

Like, I don't want to
let him go.

Yeah,
this is gonna be fun.

I'm in London
for Thanksgiving tomorrow.

I don't know, there's a lot
of mixed emotions.

It is gonna be kind of sad
that I'm not seeing my family,

but Cleo and I
are making our dinner

and Cleo's friend, Jane,
is going to be joining us.

I think we're
finally hitting stride

as far as, like,
our relationship goes,

and I think things
are only getting better.

For Thanksgiving,
do you exchange gifts? Or--

No. You get there
for the food and that's it.

Hey, they got pineapples.

Did you want one?

It's not really
a Thanksgiving thing,
but I love pineapples.

- You love pineapple. Oh, yeah.
- Oh, yeah.

I don't know
a lot about Thanksgiving...

But I do know that a lot
of food is involved.

No, we're gonna get, like,
a sauce.

Hopefully they have, like,
a canned sauce.

- Kind of ready-made?
- Yeah.

- There's corn.
- Oh, corn.

But I don't think we're gonna
need this 'cause we're gonna
try to find it in a can.

So, usually with the corn,
we do creamed corn.

Do you know if they have
canned creamed corn?

I have never heard of that.

It's really good. I used to
just make a can of it
and eat it all by itself.

Oh.

Look how big
that turkey is.

I don't even think
that's gonna fit in the oven
that we have.

- It's a big turkey.
- Yeah.

We're looking for something
maybe a little bit smaller
than that.

Oh, okay. Well,
I got a turkey crown there.

- I bet that would be nice.
- Yeah.

I think
this will be the first time

that I cook a Thanksgiving
with a girlfriend,
with anybody else.

- Really?
- First Thanksgiving
on my own type situation.

- Oh, wow.
- Yeah.

That's a big thing.

It is, and honestly
it feels like it.

- Hello.
- Hey!

How are you?

I'm good, I'm glad
to see you.

Welcome home.

- How you doing?
- I'm doing well.

Did you have a good time?

I did. Would you like me
to pour you a glass of wine?

I would love
a glass of wine, yes.

Thank you.

I was kind of crushing
what we had left,

but I'd made sure
I'd saved some for you too.

Oh, thank you, boo.

Yeah,
I'll grab my wine. Hang on.

- Cheers.
- Yes.

Are you a little tipsy?

Yeah, I had
a couple cocktails, so.

All right. Which ones?

I had a couple of--

- Old fashioned?
Your favorite.
- Yeah, you got it.

Look at us, we're finishing
each other's...

Sentences.

- Oh, my God! Like, jeez.
- Oh, my God!

Jeez.

No, I had a good time.

What did you get up to?

Well, I was stumbling
around the neighborhood,

I was walking by
and I found, like, a pub.

Cozied up onto the bar,

I got a drink,
and I met a gal.

Actually she was an American.

Oh.

Which is kind of strange,
you know what I'm saying?

Like what are the odds?

How's it going?

- Good. How are you?
- I'm doing pretty good.

This is actually
the first time I've drank

in two or three days,
I wanna say.

- Congratulations.
- Thank you.

I'm not a big drinker,
but you know, on vacation,
I got nothing else going on.

Yeah.

- Here's cheers
to Americans in London.
- Cheers.

Yeah. Yeah.

Kind of a crazy happenstance.

You can add me
on social media before we go.

Was she looking forward
to celebrate Thanksgiving?

Uh, well, she, you know,
was not gonna be able
to celebrate Thanksgiving.

I actually invited her
to our little Thanksgiving
that we have going on.

Oh.

- What do you think?
That's extremely forward?
- That's really weird.

I feel like it will take me,
like, probably a couple years
of knowing somebody

before inviting them
over to my house.

- Really?
- I'm exaggerating.

But, you know,
a couple months.

Well, I just figured
an American who is
out and about,

might be interested
in coming to a Thanksgiving.

And Christian
kind of knows that about me,

and I'm feeling
disappointed and frustrated

that he's not making an effort
to understanding my needs
or where I'm coming from.

I get on edge
when I'm cooking anyway,

'cause I have to think
about the recipe

and all the stuffs
you have to follow--

If there's a stranger here--

If there's a stranger,
I'm just literally gonna
get anxiety.

What if you met her first?
And what if she was cool?

And what if...

I doesn't really-- I will
still probably get anxiety.

I guess I might have
jumped the gun on that.

I was being chatty.

This isn't the first time
that I hear from Christian

that he's talking
to another woman

and whether
it is on a plane, a bar.

And I'm starting
to kind of see a pattern.

All right, I think I'm gonna
go get ready for bed.

I'm gonna clean up,
I'm gonna meet you up there
in just a couple of minutes.

Even though
his intentions are just
to be friendly,

I feel that
it is a little strange

to constantly seek
that attention and validation
from other women.

I thought we were
in a much better place,
so it kind of hurts

and it makes me worried again
for the future.

Oh, God.

I just wanna feel loved, Gino.
Don't you understand?

I should be
the most important
person in Gino's life.

Yeah. After marriage,
you would--

marriage!

How you gonna
compare me to your family?

- What the heck is wrong?
- You don't think my family
is [bleep] important?

- I'm not filming anymore.
- You got any [bleep] brains
in your head?

you!

Gino doesn't love me,
doesn't appreciate me. Like...

I don't know what to do.

I'm tired, Gino.
I'm so tired.

I don't think
that you wanna be with me.

I don't think that
you wanna help me
to make this process easier.

Like, I am so scared
of going to USA.

I am not gonna have family,
I'm just gonna have you.

And you,
every time that I ask you
for financial help,

this is your reaction.

That is [bleep].

How about for last
two-and-a-half years,
supporting you with money,

when are you gonna
give me credit for that?

Tell me when.

You do not appreciate
all the help I've given you.

But why you never acknowledge
what I have done?

What I'm doing?

No, I know moving isn't fun!

This is the country
where I was born in

and I'm happy here
and I have to say good-bye
to everything.

Like, you don't
understand that.

And then you have
this attitude with me,

and you're like the only
person I'm gonna have there.

What if you treat me
so badly there?

I'm not gonna
treat you bad there.
That's ridiculous.

How do I know that
if you treat me badly here?

I do not treat you bad here.

I was giving you a massage
and you started yelling at me.

Oh, God.

I'm trying to give you
all the love I possibly can.

But I'm not paying
$3,000 a month for a place.

I wanna look at other options,

at the costs
of two other places
and what they'd cost.

Because you are not
the one being affected.

No, no.

That is just the way it goes.

This is what we have to do.

I'm sorry,
but that's just the way it is.

I'm busting my ass
supporting Jasmine
financially every month,

and this is the thanks
I get from her.

It's not
just a money thing.

We have had
so many problems, Gino.

And you did so wrong to me,
and I forgave you because
you're always my priority.

But when it comes to me,

everything else
comes before me.

Your money, your family.

That's what hurts,

because I should be
the most important person
in Gino's life.

More important
than his family or anyone.

Well, I would say it's a tie.

For my family and Jasmine.

Are you serious?

She's tied with my family--

No, I don't wanna be
tied with [bleep] anyone!

What am I doing with you
if I'm not the most important
person in your life?

Yeah. After marriage,
you would--

marriage!

- Okay, whatever.
- marriage!

it!

Can you say it
a little louder?
I can't hear you.

Piece of [bleep].

Right. That's you.

idiot.

How you gonna
compare me to your family?

- What the heck is wrong?
- You don't think my family
is [bleep] important?

You got any [bleep] brains
in your head?

I'm not
filming anymore.

You're a [bleep] idiot.

Yes, you're a [bleep] idiot.

- you!
- you.

Mother [bleep]. [bleep] you.

Family is trash.

You're trash.

Your
family is trash.

You're
the [bleep] trash!

You're
a [bleep] piece of [bleep].

I'm out of here.

Right there, bitch.

Yeah,
go [bleep] yourself.

He's the best man
that I have ever had,
and I'm going back to him.

Yeah, go back.

Go back to him!

'Cause I don't need you.

- He is the most
important person in my life.
- Yeah, go [bleep] yourself.

Go to hell.

- Okay.
- Yeah.

You know what?

Yeah.

Oh,
you wanna see that?

Go ahead.

I'll show you some.

- I was [bleep] him!
- Yeah. Good.

I was [bleep] him!

Oh, is that true?
Then go [bleep] yourself.

- I swear to God
that is really true.
- Good.

I don't
wanna see Gino.

I don't even wanna
be breathing the same oxygen.

This is it.

This is it.

Next time
on Before The 90 Days...

Oh! Oh, my gosh, Nicola.
Whoa!

What?

I want to show to Meisha
that I'm a romantic person.

Oh, yeah.

Where did you get the idea
that dancing for a woman
like that would be a turn on?

- Hi!
- Hi!

- How are you?
- Oh, you look lovely!

I'm feeling
pretty anxious.

Meeting friends
is like walking into war.

You have to fight
for acceptance.

Statler's
so intense.

I do question whether
we are actually compatible.

I'm clingy in a relationship.

I want my person
next to me all of the time.

That's the kind of love
I want.

It's
really bad timing
to meet Razvan's family

because we're not
in that good of a place.

I don't want his mom
or his dad to not think
that I'm right for their son.

Do you think we match?

I guess this is
a very small Thanksgiving.

Well, Christian
did invite another person
last night.

I just sparked
a conversation with a gal,
she was an American.

No!
Absolutely not.
No, of course not.

I feel like
I have to defend myself,

and...
...you know, it's getting
a little hot in here.

I hate feeling like
I'm doing something wrong
by just being myself.

Okay, I'm so sorry. I'm sorry.