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[narrator] Previously on
Before the 90 Days.

[woman speaking]

I didn't expect me
to fall in love this soon.

Oh, yeah.

The next step is talking about
if I can move in.

And I hope she's
on the same page as I am

because I just don't know
if I could handle
that kind of rejection.

- To the United Staes?
- [Razvan speaking]

If you would have
told me that in the beginning
I would have been like,

"Well, that's
kind of a red flag."

The most important thing
in a relationship is trust.

When you lose trust
you have nothing,

And I don't think
Amanda trusts me.

[Jasmine]
Sometimes I feel like,
your family,

they don't liking me.

Gino's cousin texted me
on social media
something that...

Would you agree
to talk to Dana

- through video call?
- Okay.

Okay.

[crying]

[crying continues]

[Cleo] We agreed that

I feel like
I've been manipulated.

And he just kept saying
it was probably best
we not talk about it

to protect you.

[Tyray]
Oh, man, my heart is racing.

It's finally here, you know.

The real Carmella told me

that she'd be open to meeting.

I don't know
how I'm gonna react
when I see this person.

[Amanda] Are you getting up?

- I don't think so.
- [Amanda laughing]

[Razvan speaking]

- [Amanda chuckles]
- [chuckles] What?

[chuckles]

The last few days
with Razvan and I
have been so much better.

Razvan has really
been showing me
that he cares about me,

that he's listening.

I don't know.
I feel closer with him.

So we stayed up all night.

Um... [chuckling]

And we...

[laughing]

Yeah. [laughing]

- [both laughing]
- Oh, my God.

Why would you even say that?

I just felt like
it was the right time.

And also,
it was really difficult
to hear his friend Deanna

call my relationship
with Razvan toxic.

Honestly, it makes me
want to be a better partner
for Razvan

because I love him.

[Razvan speaking]

[chuckling]

I feel like that waiting,
like, just made it
more special.

I was kind of worried.

Like, I would feel bad
to be with someone else,
like, intimately.

But I did, and I feel like
it was a good thing.

[Razvan speaking]

- No. It was
a really special moment.
- Oh, My God.

- And...
- [laughing]

[Razvan]
You are really amazing

because sometimes
you are distant with me.

But, uh, last night
I didn't feel that.

We really connected...

...in that moment.

- [chuckling]
- [chuckles]

[Razvan speaking]

[Amanda chuckling]

[laughing]

- [Razvan mimics Dracula]
- Stop. [chuckling]

- [Razvan roars]
- [laughing]

[Razvan speaking]

You know, I talked
with the producer

to push the video
after you leave,

like, because we don't
have much time,

and I want to spend
those days with you.

- And...
- [Amanda] Aw.

You're so sweet.

[Razvan speaking]

And I do want
to make things work.

So I feel like we
are in a good place.

This is so exciting.

Yeah.

[Amanda] Oh, yeah.

- [Razvan speaking]
- [Amanda] Yeah.

So, you are scared?

No.

Not even

- [whispers] a little bit, no?
- [chuckling]

I mean, you...
you think I'm not, you know,
a vampire or something?

[laughing]

[Amanda] Okay.

- On three. Let's go.
- Okay.

- [laughing]
- One.

- Two. Three. Go.
- [laughing]

- That is too easy.
- [both laughing]

- It's too easy, look.
- [laughing]

- Why you running so fast?
- [both laughing]

[Amanda] I just like
to let you win.

- Yeah.
- Oh, okay.

This is how I thought
this trip will go.

Like, be relaxed, be happy.

[Amanda] Hold on.

[Razvan] And I'm hoping
that we will just
keep planning our future

because things
are getting more serious

with us being intimately.

And I hope
that she will continue

being 100%
in this relationship

Oh, cool.

For example, these are called

We put inside
whatever we want.

[Gino] Oh, beans, mmm.

[teacher] Perfect.

Okay.

- [Gino] Love it.
- [Jasmine] Oh, it smells good.

- Um, these
are your creations.
- Oh, my gosh.

- Our creations.
- [Gino] Yeah!

Mmm, so good.

- Yes, baby. Found a menu.
- [Gino] I love that [bleep].

[both laughing]

[Gino] It's a little rocky.

Watch your step.

I'm an expert.

I could walk this
even with high heels,
trust me.

[both chuckling]

[Gino]
Ever since I came to Panama
Jasmine and I's relationship

has kinda been up and down.

But I feel like Jasmine and I
are making progress

on this trip to Boquete.

- Look at this waterfall.
- [Jasmine] I love it.

- [Gino] This is beautiful.
- [Jasmine] Yes!

[Gino] Look at it.
Oh, my gosh.

I could take a shower in that.

- The water is cold.
- Get me some soap.

[both laughing]

Things are going very well.

But when I think about
our next step

for her to move to Michigan,

I know there's some things
we still have to resolve

like the issues Jasmine has
with my family.

- [Jasmine chuckles]
- Be careful over here.

So, um, we didn't
have a chance
to call Dana yesterday,

so I wanna call him today...

...so that we can
speak to him.

Why don't we find some rocks
and have a squat, and...

How does that sound?

[Jasmine] Okay.

I've been very mad
ever since Gino's cousin,
who I have never met,

send me a very ugly
and hurtful message
on social media

questioning my love for Gino.

So, Gino wants me
to talk to his cousin
to resolve this issue.

[cell phone ringing]

Don't show me immediately,
you first.

Shh.

Because at the end of the day
I... I want them to like me

because I know
that Gino's family's
important for him.

But at the same time

It's very hard for me
to control my mouth.

[cell phone continues ringing]

Whoa, Dana, what's up?

How are you doing?

[Gino speaking]

I'm doing...

Can you see
I'm in the great outdoors?

[Dana speaking]

[Gino laughing]

Uh, Western Panama.

[Gino] Awesome, yeah.

So, um,

anyway, I have Jasmine here.

Um...

Hi.

[laughing]

- [laughing]
- [Gino and Jasmine chuckling]

So, uh, so, Dana, you know,

uh, you remember the message
you sent to Jasmine about,
you know...

Yeah. So you didn't
mean anything by it
which I...

That's what, you know...

Dana, so...

what... What do you mean?
Like, what kind of doubts
you have?

Like, the way, see, yeah,
and I don't mean to be rude

it's, like, the only person
I have to prove
my love is real is to Gino.

Just for the record,
I do love Gino.

Like, yes, we have
had arguments, but,

You know, it's not like
Gino is an innocent baby
and I'm like the bad bitch.

I don't feel like
Dana's apology is sincere.

He's just saying it
because Gino's there.

But the way he really
feels toward me is that...

Well, thanks
for taking the time
to talk to us.

Uh...

[Gino] And I'm glad
you and Jasmine
were able to, you know,

uh, work out some stuff.

[Dana speaking]

I was hoping
that Dana and Jasmine

could resolve
their differences today.

But it seems like Jasmine
is not going to let this go.

[Dana speaking]

[Jasmine] Okay. Bye.

Bye, Dana.

- [Dana] All right, guys.
- [Jasmine] Oops.

Oh, [bleep].

I just Jasmine to understand
that my family
is very important to me.

And now that she's about
to move to Michigan with me,

I just want them to get along

because I don't wanna be
in the situation where

I have to choose
between my family and Jasmine.

That would be,
you know, devastating.

I'm struggling to understand
where you stand.

I'm feeling very nervous
about confronting Christian.

Why would I have sex
with you last night,

and then lie?

But you kind of did.

I... Because I'm...

Okay, look, I...

[Tyray] I'm nervous

just not knowing
what's gonna happen

and what might come
from this meeting.

Even though she's not the face
I've been talking to,

it's the face that I loved.

Oh, man.

I feel like even the fact
that you're there

will just make me feel
more at ease.

We are heading to the B and B.

And I'm still feeling
really upset.

You know, Christian and I
had sex last night.

And we agreed to talk about it
the next day.

But this morning, he lied,
and he told the producers
that we didn't go all the way.

For him to now lie about it
and say that never happened,

I'm wondering
is he embarrassed or ashamed
to have sex with me?

It feels like a betrayal.

[Christian] Um, I'm feeling
extremely deflated.

This morning I sent
a message to Cleo

kind of explaining
what I told the producers
regarding our intimacy.

And then she called me
on her way to class,

and was really upset.

She called me a manipulator.

She called me a gaslighter.

She asked me
if I was a psychopath.

And I mean, the first thing
I said was, like...

..."do you even know me?"

It's just extremely upsetting
that something that I feel
is a very small situation

that would be remedied
with just some communication

has really blown out
of proportion.

I'm not in a relationship
with somebody
to be anxious all the time,

waiting on them to decide
whether or not I'm
an evil person,

or here for ulterior motives.

I need to talk about things
because I can't go on
feeling like this.

[Cleo] Do you wanna, like,

- just make yourself
comfortable?
- [Jane] Sure.

[Cleo speaking]

Um, Christian.

[Jane smacks lips] Hello.

This is my friend Jane.

- Um, sorry, you're meeting
in such an awkward situation.
- [Christian] Hey, Jane.

- Nice to meet you.
- [Jane] Hey.

Yeah, obviously,
it's not ideal.

Um, you two have probably
been talking,

and it's... I feel like
I'm not necessarily getting
a fair shake.

Uh, but, uh, yeah.

I'm feeling very nervous
about confronting Christian.

Being autistic,
I definitely thrive on
emotional consistency

when it comes to commitment.

And because Christian
has gone back so much
on his words,

I do need
the emotional support
of a friend.

- This one's yours.
- Oh, thank you.

So, I don't feel
really great right now.

So, like,
I don't know how well

I'll be able to articulate
what I think.

Um, last night
we had been intimate,

and you make it like
such a big important part

of us going forward
as a couple.

And the next day
you suddenly change your tune,

and you lie.

I'm struggling to understand
where you stand.

Okay, um...

...when I messaged you
this morning,

and asked you
what did you say,

I wanted to double check

because I'm not sure
if you might have
felt uncomfortable

and not have said anything
about last night.

I told you that I was
perfectly happy
with being open.

What leads you to think
that I would change my mind

when I've never ever not stuck
to what I said to you?

Um, I, because,

See, I was trying to avoid
a situation like this where...

But you've created
this situation.

I mean, why would I have sex
with you last night
and express those feelings,

and then lie?

- But you kind of did.
- [Jane] But you kind of did.

But I didn't, not in my mind.

[Jane] I think Christian
is trying to save his face.

Uh, I think
he just got caught, uh,

and... and he just was trying
to find an excuse.

And I feel that's
partially the reason
why he's so defensive.

I am not sure if Christian
is confident to date
a transgender woman.

The only reason why
he basically admitted
that he had sex with Cleo

is because he was
challenged by her.

I'm... [exhales]

Okay, look, I...
I feel really grouped up on.

It feels very uneven,
the fact there's two of you
and there's only one of me.

I feel, like,
really on the spot.

Jane, would it be all right
if, you know,

you just went out of the room
for a little bit while
Cleo and I talked?

- Would you mind?
- [Jane] Sure.

I appreciate that.
Thank you.

I'm gonna go then.

I am being defensive.

Like, between the two of them
both chiming in,

it's very uncomfortable.

I just want the opportunity
to talk to Cleo one on one

because I feel like
now she's not giving me
the benefit of the doubt

and it's really
leaving me thinking,

"Is this even a relationship
that I can be in anymore?"

Oh, man.

I can't believe
that I'm finally meeting
the real Carmella.

I need to find out
if she has anything to do
with this whole scam

with Christian and Barbados.

And after what
I've been through,
I can't trust anything

unless I see it with
my own two eyes.

So confronting
Carmella in person,

I can get a read of her
to see if she is lying or not.

I'm nervous just not knowing
what's going to happen

or what might come
from this meeting, you know.

Even though she's not
the face I've been talking to,

it's the face I loved.

- Hold on. Let me put
my glasses on.
- [both laugh]

I'm Tyray. Nice to meet you.

[Tyray] Oh.

[whispers] Okay.

- So, how you doing?
- [Tyray] All right.

So...

Another version.

This is weird, I'm sorry.
I know...

It's okay. I feel the same.

Seeing the real Carmella
in person was a mind [bleep] .

To see her, like,
in the flesh, I'm like...

Dumbfounded.
I'm like, "Oh, my God."

She's dressed nice.
She's got her nails done.

She looks, you know,
even better than the photos.

This is the person
I was in love with
for four years

but at the same time,
it's not her.

And it's hurtful, you know,
to know that.

I don't even know
where to start.

I bet it was weird
for you, right?

I mean, you said you met
on a dating app, right?

Yeah.

Just the whole thing
as crazy, right?

I was on this dating site
and I met this girl,

and she kind of like
came on to me

and I thought it was weird,
'cause usually girls don't
really do that, you know?

- Mmm-hmm.
- And then she was telling
me like what she wanted

to do with her life,
that she wanted to,
like, model,

and then, like, travelling,
and then, like, she wasn't
really my type

and then I felt like we got
a mental connection too.

She said she lived in Barbados

and, like, I never seen proof
though either,

but we were chatting
for four years

then I found out
she was actually
a man named Christian

and he was using
your pictures.

It's crazy.

I do kind of feel stuck
about the situation,
about, like, everything,

and, like,
coming here was like,

"Dang, it's gonna be hard
to see, you know, to see you."

Because I was, like,
in a relationship with
the image of you,

so it's like...
It's just so hard.

Mmm-hmm.

[Tyray] Carmella is nice,
but she does seem
a little uncomfortable.

Maybe she knows,
but not saying anything
and she has a little guilt.

That's why she's acting
the way she's acting.

So, I have a question.

This is weird.
I'm sorry, but...

You don't have anything
to do with this, right?

Oh.

You don't, like, know anybody
named Christian from Barbados?

[laughs] Hi!
Happy Valentine's Day.

No one's ever spoiled me
the way Statler is tonight.

But Statler can be
pretty intense,

so it does worry me
that she might have
something else planned.

I have like a month
until my lease is up,

and I'm not planning
on renewing it.

[Dempsey] Statler?

[sighs]

"I hope you've had
a fabulous day.
Let's have some fun.

Your first clue
is in the field
outside your front door.

XOXO, Statler."

Today's Valentine's Day.

I come home from work.
Statler's not in.

And she's surprised me
with a scavenger hunt.

I've no idea how
she pulled this off

being that we've been
together 24-7,

and we're out in the middle
of nowhere and she doesn't
know this area well.

I think it's the most
romantic thing anybody
has ever done for me.

In the field?

Ah, found it.

[exclaims]

Yeah, you're cute.
You stay there. Stay.

[laughs]

"Good job finding clue two.
Don't open your gift."
[cheers]

"But bring it with you.
You're next clue is with
the wood in a bag.

Go to it, you should."
'Kay.

Right.

"Meet me out under
the stars and grab
your warmest clothes.

I want to kiss you
in the dark and roast
some marshmallows.

You are all I desire.
So hurry to the fire."

I didn't know that
she would do something
like this.

The unknown
is making me nervous.

I hope it's not a proposal.

That would be too soon.

All right. Looks like
there's fire so far.

I'm feeling pretty nervous.

Telling someone I want
to move here.

I want to move in with you.

I want to live with you.

For ever and ever and then...

She might not agree to that.

Being here in person
with Dempsey this past week

has been absolutely amazing.

In my heart, I know
I'm ready to move in with her

because of the way
she makes me feel.

I feel happier than
I've ever felt before.

[exhales]

I feel like
I'm at a rose ceremony.

I want to talk about
our future now

because I don't want
to wait any longer

to find out if she feels
the same way.

But if she says
she isn't ready,
it would really suck.

Because it might mean
things aren't going as well
as I think they are.

- [laughs]
- [Dempsey whoops]

- [Statler] Hi.
- Hi.

- Happy Valentine's Day.
- Happy Valentine's.

- Are those for me?
- Here. These are for you.

But I'll hold them
because they have
a lot of thorns.

So you're the thorn
to my rose?

Yeah, I am the thorn
to your rose.

- Do you want to sit down?
[exclaims]
- Yeah.

- For you.
- Thank you.

These are
the pomegranate drinks.

- Feel free to chug
or cheers. Yep.
- Cheers.

[Dempsey]
You're drinking fast.

Um...

- Are you okay?
- Yeah, it's a good...
It's a good. Yeah.

- [Dempsey] Yeah.
- First Valentine's Day.
A big day. Yeah.

[exclaims]

- [Dempsey] Whoa, girl.
- I know.

- [Dempsey] Steady on.
- Steady on.

So, yeah, go ahead.
Feel free to open your, uh...

- My stuff.
- [Statler]

Oh, I see!

- [Statler] What is it?
- Jewelry.

They're mushroom earrings
that are made from mushrooms.

I brought it all the way
from Dallas.

- [Dempsey] Oh, there we go.
- [Statler] Oh, there it is.

- I know you like mushrooms.
- [Dempsey] I do.

They're so cute.

- Yeah, they're cute.
- Yeah. Thank you.

[Dempsey] No one's
ever smiled at me
the way Statler is tonight.

It makes me feel special.

Yeah, I feel very special.

But Statler can be
pretty intense

so it does worry me
that she might have
something else planned.

[laughs] You're a bit sticky.

Yeah.

Understatement
of the year.

Oh, wow.
I think I broke a tooth.

- I think I broke a tooth.
- [Dempsey laughs]

- What do you mean
you've broken a tooth?
- [Statler] Am I bleeding?

Is there blood?

No?

No.

Mmm.

Um...

So I brought you here today

- because
it's Valentine's Day...
- Yeah.

...and I...
My feelings for you
have increased.

You know, I wasn't expecting
things to go this well.

They were going really well
over texts and video chat.

[Dempsey] Mmm-hmm.

And then, you know, in person,
I just expected you to,

you know, not be
as amazing as you are.

And...

I love you.

Yeah, I also love you.

- Are you serious?
You're sure?
- [Dempsey] I'm serious.

- Yeah.
- Like 100%?

100%.

- Wow, that's...
- [Dempsey] Cool.

- That's romantic.
- [Dempsey] It's so romantic.

- It's really romantic.
- [Dempsey] Yeah.

Since we've reached the, uh...
"I love you, you love me."

'Cause, like...

You know, I get home
from England

and I have like a month
until my lease is up.

And I'm not planning
on renewing it.

So I think, like,
the next step is, like...

Me moving to England.

[stammers] Maybe like
move in with you.

[clears throat]

[Jupiter speaking
foreign language]

[Sheila speaking English]

[Aimee interpreting
in Filipino]

[audio fades out]

[audio fades in]

[speaking Filipino]

[speaking English]

- [speaking Filipino]
- [Aimee laughs]

[speaking Filipino]

[speaking Filipino]

[speaking Filipino]

[Sheila speaking Filipino]

[Aimee interpreting
in Filipino]

[Aimee speaking English]
That's why you
become stronger.

[Sheila speaking English]

[Aimee interpreting
in Filipino]

[Sheila speaking English]

[speaking Filipino]

[Aimee speaking English]
How much is your salary?

[in English]

Oh!

[speaking Filipino]

[speaking Filipino]

[Sheila speaking Filipino]

[Jupiter] Okay.

- [Sheila speaking]
- [audio fades out]

[audio fades in]

[Jupiter speaking Filipino]

[Aimee speaking English]

[speaking Filipino]

[Sheila speaking Filipino]

[Jupiter speaking Filipino]

[Aimee speaking English]

Uh, labor, yeah.

[Aimee interpreting
in Filipino]

$1,725 and 15 cents.

[Aimee interpreting
in English]

[David signing]

[Aimee interpreting
in Filipino]

[speaking Filipino]

[Sheila speaking Filipino]

[Jupiter speaking]

[speaking Filipino]

[Razvan speaking]

Oh?

Like, for example...

I don't know.
Let's not speculate.

[Amanda] Oh, look.
This is a like a stove.

[Razvan speaking]

- Your grandfather had
a stove like this?
- [Razvan speaking]

[Amanda] That's so cool.

Look at that little heart!

I really want to go with
Amanda to Bran Castle

because it's the castle
of Dracula

and it's a very
beautiful place.

Um, I mean Dracula's castle...

It doesn't scream
romance to me.

It's like a urban legend
based off of a king

that's lived in this castle
and he would, like,
do really horrible things.

But I think it's romantic,
just the idea and the thought
that Razvan put into it.

- [Razvan exclaims]
- [Amanda laughs] Stop it!

Oh, look at this
torture chamber.

[Razvan] Oh, look at this.

[Amanda] Oh. Yeah!

So you sit here and you have
to tell me the truth.

I always answer.

Do you think that's
an interrogation question?

Yesterday, Razvan got
approved for the tourist visa.

Like, it doesn't seem real.

Yeah.

Seeing him so happy
just makes me happy,

but also in the back
of my mind,

I'm still not 100% sure
about him coming
to the US so soon.

I will tell my children
when I feel like
they are ready.

[Razvan speaking]

I don't know.

I'm not asking you
like exactly.

I have no idea when
my children will be ready

'cause I haven't spoken
with them yet.

And it probably
will be emotional for them.

[Razvan speaking]

Exactly, I don't know.

But I want them to be
100% themselves.

I mean, that could
be a possibility
that they say that.

[Razvan speaking]

I don't know.

Let's no speculate.

I don't know.
I don't know.
We'll have to see.

Let's look and see
what's in here.

I understand now that
he has the visa,

he wants to know the answers
to these questions.

But I've never had
to figure out the proper way

to introduce a new romantic
partner to my children.

And I feel like with Razvan
being so pushy

and not being
so understanding
with that aspect of it,

he's making it
more difficult for me

when it's already
an extremely difficult
situation to begin with.

[Razvan speaking]

You didn't even
come in here yet.

My choices on waiting
to tell my kids,

it has nothing to do with you.

So, the fact you still
don't understand, like...

[Razvan speaking]

Okay.

Baby, I'm scared of losing you

because of your family.

What would you do
if they hate me?

Have a conversation
and try to work
it out with them.

And you will defend me?

Well, I mean, like, I'd have
to see what happened
and who said what.

[Sheila speaking
foreign language]

[Aimee interpreting
in English]

Maybe you think
she wants your money?

[Jasmine] Baby...

I feel that the conversation
between Jasmine

and my cousin, Dana,
could've gone a little
bit better.

The good news is that
Jasmine didn't blow up
or anything,

but at the same time,
she didn't try to make
amends either.

So since things are going
good between us on this trip,

this is the moment I wanna
address a few concerns
with Jasmine

because I don't want
to do it when things are bad.

I want to do it
when things are good.

[Jasmine] Aww!

[Gino] Yeah, I love it.

You're ready?

Yeah, but I wanted...
I wanted to ask you something.

I know you, you know, like,
after the conversation
with Dana,

I'm happy that you
and him were able to talk.

But one of the things
I hope you...

...try harder and try
to work on is

there's been times
you were saying a lot of...

...not so nice things
about my family and stuff.

And that my family
should be less involved
in my life.

And I... I just wish
you wouldn't
do that anymore.

You know, my family's
a part of my life,

and that's not going
to change for me.

I just wanted to let you know
if, you know, it bothers me,

- just have
a positive attitude--
- Okay, yes.

But I'm sorry.
I'm working on that.

It's my anxiety.
My anger issues.

It's hard to handle,
and I feel that...

It's just that...

Why would you do
if they hate me?

- They're not going
to hate you. I know my--
- But what...

Give me an example
what would you do
if they hate me

even if that never happens.

What will you do?

I would talk to them.

Uh, and ask them why
they feel the way they feel,

and have a conversation
and try to work it out
with them--

And you will defend me?

Well, I mean, like,
I'd have to see what happens
and who says what.

Don't worry about it. No.

[Jasmine] I'm scared
of losing you
because of your family.

No.

No. You shouldn't
be scared like that.

No, I haven't even been
to the United States,

and I just managed to make
your family hate me.

No, my family
doesn't hate you.

And I'm scared
that they're gonna hate me
because I know myself.

I'm... I'm so
unstable emotionally.

I cannot manage
my stupid anxiety.

I know it's a problem I have.

It has happened my whole life.

Every time I feel insecure,
or threatened by people,

my way to deal with it
is I put this shield

by hurting them more

than the pain
they are causing to me
at that moment.

But then I regret
what I said because I hurt
people that I love

and that I care about
and then it's like
double pain for me.

It is a cycle
that I'm trying to break

because that's sabotaging
my relationship with Gino

because of my insecurities
is not doing any good
to my life.

Baby, you're the only man
on Earth

that has kept up
with all my [bleep].

Yeah, I told you.
I'm in this 100%.

Like, you're not going
to be able to get rid of me.

But, yeah, my family.
They're important to me.

You should be excited
to meet my family.

Not threatened.

So I just want you
to work on that, if you can.

Can you try?

I'm gonna work on it.
Baby, I promise.

Thank you so much
for being honest.

Hi, ma'am. Hi, sir.
Welcome to Barcode.

What do you want to drink?

He wants beer.

- Okay, how about you, ma'am?
- [Sheila speaking]

[audio fades out]

[audio fades in]

[speaking Filipino]

[in English]
She said, "What do you
think about this bar?"

[in Filipino]

[speaking Filipino]

[in English] She said,
"There are many girls."

[in Filipino]

[Sheila speaking English]

[Aimee speaking English]

[speaking Filipino]

[in English]

Topic.

[speaking Filipino]

[in English]
For the fixing of the house,

so how will you get the money?

[Aimee speaking Filipino]

[Aimee speaking Filipino]

[Sheila speaking Filipino]

[in English] She said,
"It's really hard.

Because she has no work
and you have work.

Then for the payment
and the cost, it's too much."

She's so shy
about asking for it.

[Sheila speaking English]

[Aimee speaking Filipino]

[Sheila speaking English]

[in Filipino]

[Aimee speaking English]
If you can't afford,
don't force it.

[Aimee speaking Filipino]

[speaking Filipino]

[in English] Maybe you think
she wants your money?

[speaking Filipino]

[in English]
You're having thoughts?

[speaking Filipino]

[in English] "I am not
want your money."

[Sheila] I don't want
David thinking that
I aim to his money.

I am seeing him
because of money.

But I'm realizing that David
doesn't have the money
to support me and Jhonreil

and I have so many
questions about our future.

[Aimee speaking Filipino]

You seem very upset.

I'm very upset.
This is very upsetting.

I'm terrified that this
could be the last straw
for our relationship.

This is the thing.
So, now you're
questioning me

when I'm telling you
the truth.

I kind of feel like
we're going 'round in circles.

I did not ever, ever feel bad
about being transparent

about our intimacy.
Ever!

[Christian] All right.
I want to tell
you my side of things.

Can I just please
have like an opportunity
to like explain?

Okay.

I was trying
to double check with you

before I said anything
that would have made
you uncomfortable.

But when we were on the phone,
you didn't really
let me speak,

and you were just telling me,
"You're such a gaslighter.
You're such a manipulator.

Are you a psychopath?"

I did not say,
"Are you a psychopath?"
I said...

- Two different people.
- [scoffs]

When you say
something like that,

it makes me feel like
no matter what I say,

you're going to think
I'm saying something
in order to...

manipulate you
or gaslight you.

I mean, I'm not going
to be in a relationship

with someone that calls me
these types of things.

I'm sorry that I did not
filter myself,

but I was very upset.

I still struggle to understand

why you would hide
that we had been intimate.

I honestly felt, "Oh,
maybe he's not ready

to be dating somebody
that is transgender
and doing it publicly."

I could care about
what society thinks.

I let for a brief moment
what my family thought

- influence me for a very
short time.
- [Cleo speaking]

I'm giving you the truth here.

And this is the thing.
So now you're questioning me

when I'm telling you
the truth.

You seem very upset
and I don't want you
to get upset.

I'm willing to give you
the benefit of the doubt
because I really, really care.

I'm very upset.
This is very upsetting.

I did not ever, ever feel
bad about being transparent
about our intimacy.

- It doesn't matter--
- I kind of feel we're going
'round in circles.

I think you probably
missed the fact

that I'm willing to give you
the benefit of the doubt.

Are you though?
I don't feel like that.

I'm sorry.

I'm trying to see
your perspective.
You had second thoughts.

- No, I never
had second thoughts ever.
- [Cleo] No, no, no.

[Christian] No, no, no, no.

- No second thoughts.
- That's not what I meant.

I just meant you had
second thoughts

about the fact
that I'd be comfortable

telling everybody
that we had been intimate.

Yes. Yes.

[Christian sighs]

This was really, really,
extremely rough for me today.

- And I know it was
for you too.
- It was for me too.

But this can make us
trust each other more.

It can make us know more
about each other,

and it can make
our relationship stronger.

I do believe that.

I want to believe that too.

I hope you're sincere.

I am, and I honestly
just want to give you
a hug right now.

I'm feeling so confused
right now because...

Good? Good? Good.

- Yeah.
- Okay.

But I'm trying to keep
the peace, shut it all down
and not think about it

because I'm terrified
that if I do,

it's gonna be the last straw
for our relationship.

But it's really
not what I want

'cause I'm invested,
I'm really invested.

Hey, Jane, do you want
to come back in?

- I'm sorry for just being
super awkward.
- [Jane] Not at all.

- Are you okay?
- I'm okay.

I want...
I want like a refresher.

I wanna like start anew.

Do you think that'd be
something that we could
maybe like

get together another time
and, like, like hang out
and have a pint,

- and hang out?
- I mean...

I'd be happy to.

- Sure.
- Awesome.

- All right. I'm just going
to walk you to the door.
- [Jane] Cool. Thank you.

[Christian] I really thought
this was the end
of our relationship.

I understand I made a mistake

in not being open
about our intimacy.

But at the same time,
this situation never would
have happened

if we had clear communication

and from the get-go,
she would've given me
the benefit of the doubt.

I'm not going to hold
that against her,

but going forward
I really hope she understands
that she can trust me.

Thanks for walking me out.

Just gonna get a car.

- Thank you
for staying so late.
- No worries.

How are you feeling?
Just like... truly?

I...

I feel bad for him.

That he felt that he was being
questioned or, you know...

I did feel that he was very
defensive but also attacking

in his defense, like,
as a friend,

I don't have a very good
feeling about this.

And I just want you to be

kind of guarded,
a little bit, maybe...

I am very worried about Cleo

after seeing Christian today.

I don't know if I believe that

it was just
a simple misunderstanding,

because Christian was
extremely defensive,

and this is just not how
you talk to a person

you genuinely, like,
respect and care about.

It more sounded like
being right,

for him,
is the most important thing.

Are you tired?

Yeah, very tired.
Today was a long day.

We're doing good now,
though, right?

Yeah.

I think so, too.

[Dempsey] I haven't asked you
what happened with your ex.

Have you spoken to her?

I talked to her,
like, a month ago.

[sighs]

I'm hurt.

Thought I could trust her
but now I'm not so sure.

Is there anything
between you guys?

So, I have a question.
You don't have anything
to do with this, right?

Uh...

They haven't tried to
reach out to you, have they?

So, I have a question.

This is weird,
I'm sorry, but...

You don't have anything
to do with this, right?

Uh...

I don't know these people.

I'm thankful for you
letting me know.

It's kind of freaky,

people stealing my identity,
in a sense.

It's a lot.

[sighs deeply]

When Carmella tells me that

she's not involved
with the scam,

I believe her because
she comes off real genuine.

I feel relieved being able
to remove her

from that whole scenario.

But at the same time,
it really [bleep] sucks

knowing that
I'm not any closer

to finding out
who this person really is.

[Carmella] They haven't tried
to reach out to you,

- have they? No?
- Nah.

I was expecting an apology,

to get an explanation
from this person, but...

And it's like...

- It's hard.
- ...I have to accept that.

The way that you so badly
wanted it to work out,

like, you convinced yourself,

like, you know,
this person was real.

That's what
I felt like I was doing,

and that's why
I was still stuck on her.

But then talking to you

is 100%
the confirmation I needed

that it's just a big scam.

You know what I mean?
Like... [chuckles]

I hope I didn't, like,
burst the fantasy.

No. Not at all.

Like, now it's like,
it's like...

Not even a fantasy now.
Now it's just, like, reality.

I don't know,
it's complicated. [laughs]

At first I was like, "No way.
I don't know this guy."

It's just, like, weird
'cause, like,

not only did he just
fall in love with

the pictures, but he fell
in love with this "person"

pretending to be me,
so it's just...

It's a lot of mixed feelings.

But he seems like a good guy,

and I just feel sorry.

What are you thinking?

Just about everything,
like... [chuckles]

This whole, like, journey,
it's, like,

almost to an end now,
it feels like.

You know what? I'm just gonna
delete that altogether.

Block, delete, right.

Just close that chapter.

Don't stick around and see

how red the flags can get.

- Just get out.
- Yeah.

That's why I wear glasses,

'cause I just be ignoring
the red flags.

[both laugh]

[Carmella] But, like,
don't let it stop you

from trying again.

- Thank you.
- You deserve love

and happiness and all of that.

Thank you for that. [chuckles]

Carmella's telling me
to be positive

and to not let the situation,
you know, ruin me.

She's really sweet.

I got you something.

- This is yours.
- Oh, sweet.

I didn't know what to get you.

[Tyray] Definitely feels like
we're vibing,

and that's confusing,
but it makes me feel good.

[Carmella] Oh, it's a candle.
Thank you.

You're welcome.
Glad you like it.

Thank you so much.

[Tyray] Oh, yeah,
you're welcome.

So, like, are you
in a relationship right now?

Um, no. Like, I just wanna
live my life

and I just wanna do me.

And if I meet somebody
along the way,

then I meet them.

So, like,
would you wanna, like,

keep in touch and, like,
be friends?

I won't do
anything weird. [laughs]

[both laugh]

I... I trust you,
I believe you.

I definitely wanna come back
to Denver.

Yes! It's beautiful here
when it's not so cold.

Maybe we can, like, hang out,

- travel somewhere.
- Yeah!

Maybe up in California we can
do something, so, yeah.

So, I've never been
to California before.

Oh, really? Oh, yeah,
definitely show you around.

I guess we'll get out of here.

Wanna do a quick water cheers?

Or you can do your wine,
if you want.

I know,
I think I drank all my water.

- So...
- All right, cheers.

[both laugh]

[Tyray] I'm extremely,
extremely glad

that I came to Denver.

I might never get the answers
I was looking for.

But I realized
I can't control that.

Okay.

[Carmella] Ooh.

[Tyray] The past month
has been a huge whirlwind.

All the lies and exposure,
and I got my heart broken.

But I feel like
it's made me stronger.

Don't flip. [laughs]

[Carmella] Okay, this is it.

[Tyray chuckles] All right.

[Tyray] All right.

Thank you.
I appreciate you coming.

[laughs] Nice to
meet you, too.

- Thank you.
- You're welcome.

- Hope you have a good night.
- You too.

I think one reason I was drawn
to the online relationship

with the fake Carmella

is because I didn't have
the confidence

to date in the real world.

But meeting the real Carmella
showed me

that I need
to get out of my shell.

And I do wanna
put myself out there more,

and not be so afraid.
I can trust again.

And I feel more confident
than ever

that someone is out there
for me.

So maybe that's the closure
I was looking for.

♪ I know, I know,
inside you're beautiful ♪

♪ I know
when the world falls down ♪

♪ It's you I have to hold ♪

[Tyray sighs] Oh, man.

Crazy. [chuckles]

Phew.

Since we've reached the, uh,

I love you, you love me,

is, like,
me moving to England...

maybe, like, move in with you?

But I just think that
we should, like,
take things slow and...

I just have rushed
in the past also,

and it's just not worked well
for me for many reasons.

What about, like,
just getting your own place?

Just live up the road,
and then

maybe, like,
six months or something?

We can hopefully then
move in together

once we've known each other
a little bit more and...

I don't know.

I mean, why, though?
Like, what's the point?

When I'm in, I'm all in.
You know, 100%.

I can't really understand why

Dempsey doesn't want
me to move in with her.

She's okay with
me moving to England

and living somewhere else.

But if we love each other

and are trying to have
a future together,

why would I move
to another country

to live in a place
that's not with

the person that I'm dating?

Doesn't make any sense.

Do you feel like we really,
deeply know each other enough?

I do, yeah. Do you not?

I do think that we have a lot
to learn about each other.

Like, I did not know that
you had cheated

until a few days ago.

Like, I don't care
how long ago it was.

You... It's something
that you did.

And I...
I wasn't aware of that.

Yeah.

Uh...

This is what I mean about
we have so much to learn
about each other.

I didn't know that about you.
What else am I gonna learn

about you? D'you know? Like...

I don't know.
I haven't asked you

what happened
with your ex, like...

Is there anything
between you guys?

- There's nothing between us.
- But have you spoken to her?

I mean, yeah.
We talked... We talk.

[scoffs quietly]

- Yeah, we talked, like, she--
- When?

I talked to her,
like, a month ago.

Why were you speaking to her
a month ago?

When you're coming here
to see me?

Did you wanna see her?

I'm not hiding anything
from you.

[Dempsey] But you've not
been... [sighs] I don't know.

[Statler] I told her
I was coming to meet,

uh, my new girlfriend.

And then...

at that point
she asked if, like,

she could pick me up
from the airport...

and stay in a hotel together,

- just get closure.
- Oh, my God.

Closure for what?

I don't know.

[Dempsey] I'm thinking
of all the things

that's happened in this time.

Finding out she cheated,
finding out

she'd been speaking to her ex.

I feel like
I don't even know her

as well as I thought I did.

Feel a little bit sick
right now.

I'm not so sure I could trust
Statler, and without trust,

what's the point?

[sighs]

I don't think that
we go well together.

This is very...

So, Razvan and I
had a fight last night.

It was just, like,
about maybe, you know, like,

me feeling like

we just are different

and, like,
it's just not gonna work.

Last night, I asked Razvan

what his plan is when he comes
to the United States.

He got very defensive.

He thought that
I was telling him,

"You need to get
a job immediately,

you need to pay half
of the bills immediately."

I pay all my bills
just fine without him.

But if he is coming there

I would expect him
to have a plan

and be able to
support himself financially,

and not just sit back
and chase his dreams

while I'm supporting him,
and my kids.

We have to, like, talk about

realistic expectations
of when he comes to the US.

I just got this impression,
like, Raznan,

if he doesn't go the US
and, like, become an actor,

become, like, a singer,
like, whatever he wants to do,

I feel like
he just won't do it.

And to me, a man should,
if he cares about

his person that he's with,
his family, like,

he would do anything, like,
to contribute and to help out.

I feel like he's so prideful,
like, he's not gonna even try

to do something else
while pursuing his dreams.

And he was like,
"Oh, you just...

don't wanna, like,
support me and my goals."

And it kind of, like,
snowballed from there.

[Raznan sighs]

I don't know,
I feel like I was...

Like, I need
to not say nothing

because she has more money.

But I never asked for nothing
for her.

[sighs]

I did say things that,
you know, were hurtful to him.

I told him, like, I think
maybe he's not the type of man

I am looking for.

Um, I'm looking for

a man that will
put his pride aside

and do anything
for his family.

I told him, like,
when I first met Jason,

he was a manager
at a restaurant,

and he, like, started here,

and he did what he had to do
to, like,

provide for his family.

And Raznan was like...

didn't respond well
to what I was saying.

I tell her, "Why you need
to do these things?

Why you need
to ruin a good night?"

And it's like
she just say things

and try to find things.

And then she's sorry,
but then she does again.

I just don't think that
we go well together.

I mean, also too,
with me, like, I feel like...

I don't know, did I get into
a relationship too quickly?

And also, like,

does Raznan know
how to be with someone

who still has, like,
open wounds of, like,

losing a husband, and...

being, like, a widowed mom?

Like, I don't know.

Because I was thinking that

she has a difficult time
with what happened.

I'm the first person
he's been with
since he had his heart broke,

and for me, it's like,
he's the first person I'm with

after, like, a tragic event,
like, in my life.

So maybe we both are, like,

broken in some ways,
so, like...

we're looking for
something else,

like, in the other person.

And whether
it's truly there or not,

maybe we just want to see it.

I don't know, I feel like...

I don't know,
is something wrong with me?

But in
the right relationship...

you're not feeling this,

that there's something
wrong with you.

[Cleo] Next time
on Before The 90 Days...

[Sheila speaking
foreign language]

[Sheila] Jhonreil and I
have thought about...

But I know my son is scared.

[translator speaking
foreign language]

I don't know
where things are with us.

I don't even know if I'm in
a relationship this morning.

Like, I have no clue.

I'm so anxious that I've
sabotaged this in some way.

Hey.

It's gonna be over.

- So...
- [clears throat]

How you...
how are you feeling?

Um...

- Hi.
- Hi.

[Riley] As much as
we butt heads,

I really wanna make this work
with Violet.

This is me apologizing.

But I don't know
if Violet is willing

to give this another chance
or not.

You are connected
on a subconscious level.

- Yeah.
- But Christian,
you lack sensitivity.

[Cleo sobs]

If things are to not work out
between us,

I don't know if I'm ready
to deal with that.

Why, do you think she will be?

[Nicola speaking]

So it'll be like atomic bomb
that I'm dropping on them all.

Do you think you're pregnant?

'Cause you're kinda
looking like it.

When I think about
my future with Jasmine,

having a child
is really important to me.

[Jasmine] At this moment
today, I tell you,

I don't wanna have a baby...