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let's be honest
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and studies have shown
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that love is not only good for your mental health
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but good for your physical health as well
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being in a loving relationship
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actually alleviate stress
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even makes us take better care of ourselves
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this could be due to a healthier
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happier outlook
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or taking care of oneself for another sake
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you handed me like
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still won't give me the truth would it kill you
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good morning
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good morning
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you want some of course
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any mornings on tonight
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nothing concrete
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Tom has been strange and mysterious
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which is a good sign
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right hmm I mean
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according to the experts no
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yes definitely we noticed
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occurred to me that we haven't been someplace fancy
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for dinner in a long time
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which may mean he's saving money
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so you know check
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wait do you know anything
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actually don't tell me anything
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no wait do tell me so we can prepare you know
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mom is gonna watch you have a Brazilian wedding
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with all the little traditional flairs
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hmm that'd be so nice
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and all the damn
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see more desserts oh
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we're getting ahead of ourselves
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I'm also excited that
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this will take some of mommy's pressure off of me
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at last one of
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her precious daughters will be walking down the aisle
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I'm happy to be of service shoo shoo
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have a good day you too
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good morning
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morning Karina
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the usual yes
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strawberry icing with sprinkles
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please by the way
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I loved your column yesterday
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10 signs he's emotionally available
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really got me thinking
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thank you I'm glad to hear it
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though my favorite is still
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your real life column and your relationship with tea
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it's so inspiring thank you
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that's my favorite article too
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I like to think of it as a love letter to him
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and to my readers
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here you go
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thank you I'll see you tomorrow bye
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hey Karina do you have a second
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of course okay so
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cliff invited me to dinner with his parents on Saturday
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that's a good sign
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but I still don't know
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for exclusive
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there's only one way to find out
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but I don't wanna give him an ultimatum
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I don't wanna be that girl
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it's about open communication
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clearly expressing your wishes
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which by the way
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can be very attractive quality
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to someone who's secure and available
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which is what you want right yes
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secure and available communication can be attractive
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okay got it
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thanks so much
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Karina always
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hello hi you must be our new writer I am yeah
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I'm Katina I'm a writer as well
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oh Liam nice to meet you nice to meet you too
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is everything okay
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uh yes nothing's fine
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it's just uh
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you're drinking for my mug
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you know for future reference oh
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yeah so I am good look there you are
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I thought I thought this was a stock photo
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oh who is this handsome fellow
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that's my boyfriend Tom
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he's a lawyer
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just made partner to firm right well
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he is a very unimpeachably handsome quality about him
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he's got a very square jaw
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he is unimpeachably handsome
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he's unimpeachably a lot of things actually
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of course he is
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and sorry about the mug
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I didn't realize that they were assigned oh yes
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uh there's community the left and personal to the right
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feel free to bring in your own
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that is definitely something to consider
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so what section do you write for love and romance
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actually am the section
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oh that sounds like a sweet cake
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it is I love
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it must be a pretty easy going
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easy going oh
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I just assumed that all those listicals were
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cut and pasted from the rest of the internet you know
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10 signs that he really loves you is either one
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I mean how many iterations can there be right
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I actually put a little bit more into it than that
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oh of course not
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I didn't know
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I suppose cheeky reviews of men's razors
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golf clubs and craft beer are earth shattering
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I did win an Opie Award
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well we are clearly super lucky to have you
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you want your mug back don't you yes
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always wanted to be the world's best grandpa
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see you at the Writer's room
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welcome to spark life
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Karina you wanna catch us up with love and romance
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I was thinking about doing a piece on speed dating
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I know it's falling to the wayside
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but I thought it'd be good to take a look at again
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maybe a list of cool tips
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I like it oh
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and the Mean t series ongoing
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there might be a significant installment on the horizon
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I've got some new numbers in
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and we're getting a great response on me and t
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okay then last but not least
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I'm very excited to introduce our new staff writer
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Liam Snyder
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you may know him from his lauded work on H W magazine
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or his humor piece on
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men's shaving products that went viral last fall oh
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I read that
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that was great
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thank you as we've been discussing at Spark Life
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we have some catching up to do
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in regards to male readership
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so we're hoping Liam can help us with that
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I think it's best if we maximize his value by
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putting them in our best performing section
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so Karina I'm gonna put them with you
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in love and romance yep
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to train him
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more to collaborate with him
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either way I'm sure
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female readership can benefit from a male point of view
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mean why wouldn't they
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okay let's get to work hmm
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thank you thanks
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I forgot to ask for the onions
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not a problem
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as long as you have me
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you'll never have to look another onion again
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and the many reasons why we fit so well together
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that sounds like funny articles
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I guess so oh
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did you check on your schedule for the 21st
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yeah yeah I did
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but it's actually a tough week at work anyway
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you can go without me
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I suppose so and just as a romance columnist
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having my handsome
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beautiful boyfriend by my side is a bonus really
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as a as proof
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as a specimen as the perfect specimen you are
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would you pick a time for tonight
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I'm still ironing out some plans okay
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oh want some Brussels sprouts
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you know I do
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come in as I figured you might be knocking on my door
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just want to debrief about this
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change to love and romance
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and I'm guessing you have some reservations
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so I'm just looking out for spark life
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means it's really the best place to put this exciting
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new writer I understand your concern Karina
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but as leadership grows and the site grows
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I'm gonna need more help on
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the editorial side of things
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and as our strongest writer
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of course I have you in my sights
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but I'm wondering about your ability to collaborate
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and delegate oh
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I love collaborating and delegating
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you're such a strong writer
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but I've never seen you enlist help
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if I were you
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I would find a different way to look at the situation
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perhaps is a good
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opportunity to demonstrate these skills
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I suppose that makes sense
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it makes zero sense
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I don't understand why they can't put this guy
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like sports or something well
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on the upside
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it looks like there might be a promotion on the horizon
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but enough about what do you
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know where Tom is taking you tonight
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not yet but I'm dressed for something fancy
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oh maybe we can combine our anniversary party with an
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engagement party for the two of you
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I don't wanna steal your dad's thunder
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by the way how's planning going oh good
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you know your father
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I asked him for his input on things
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and he says whatever makes you happy well
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I guess party planning's never been his love language
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you're right
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you always are a failure bye bye
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honey what's a 5 letter word for venom
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holder snake all right
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how's it going
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good good good
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I've changed my mind three times about where to
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put these guys
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every decision feels so monumental
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I wanted to be perfect
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you're opening your garden to the community dad
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no one is demanding that we pristine no
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your mom would have
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that's true
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but she was more decisive
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so how how was the new job
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was as easy as you thought it was gonna be
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no actually
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it looks like it's gonna be a little more challenging
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well let's face it
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you'd be bored if it wasn't right
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don't laugh
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but they put me in the love and romance section
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why would I laugh
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is there any more worthwhile writing about
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they want a male perspective
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the woman I'm working with is smart
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but she's territorial well
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maybe she has something to teach you about the topic
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or maybe it can inspire you to other writing
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projects I told you dad
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I'm done with that
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I don't wanna waste any more time Liam
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there's no such thing as
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wasted time on a creative endeavor
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it's up to course the time you spend not doing it
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you never gonna let me off the hook are you
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nope cause then I'd be phoning in my job here
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let's uh let's get to it
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hey hey am I too dressed up
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should I go back and change
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no no no it's all right
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I don't know why I thought it was someplace fancy
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romance doesn't have to mean upscale right right
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is everything okay
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uh alright I'll just come out and say it
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I've been doing some thinking yes
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I'm sorry I can't hold this any longer
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I I I just need it off my chest
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I think we should break up wait what
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but you were supposed to propose to me tonight
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you've been Casey
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you've been nervous
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you've been
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we've been together almost five years
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with all the signs lead to that I know
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but I feel like we just haven't been us for a long time
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you just break up with some out of the bullies
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was a communication was a work few things just put it
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yeah you're supposed to green
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I think we're past that point
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I'm sorry but I thought you felt it too
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no I didn't
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this isn't how it's supposed to go
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love can surprise you
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so good news
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I asked cliff about being exclusive and he said
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I thought we already were which is such a relief
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so now I have dinner with his parents on Saturday
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and I wondered if you had any tips for me about
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meeting the parents you know
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do's and don'ts uh yeah um
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I'm probably just overthinking it anyway
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I just wanted to say your advice helped so much
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you're like a genius of the human heart
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just want to communicate a slight change
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me and t series
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merely that there's uh no more me and t what
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Tom broke up with me last night
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oh I'm so sorry to hear that
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just bring the same well expertise to my work
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this is only a slight hiccup okay honey
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I'll be finding replacement for the Mean t series
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as I know this is very important to the site
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would you would you like to take a few days off
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maybe maybe let Liam run with the column
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maybe a you know special edition no
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what I mean is um
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I already plan on bringing him onto the
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speed dating peace
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very good but I'm I'm gonna insist
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that you take at least the rest of the day off no
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it's really okay
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no I just I just insisted okay
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how could have been this off base
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this is literally my area of expertise
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and I went back to look my old columns
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make sense of it all and I compared 9 science going
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to propose with 10 science
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the relationships ending
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and there's literally 60% overlap
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but what if I don't know what I'm talking about
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love is complicated
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I mean people are messy
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it's not supposed to be messy for me
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yeah I know
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come on let's go
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Tom broke up with me
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I can't believe it I'm sorry sweetheart
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you okay I don't know I'm still in a bit of shock
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do you want me to text him get to the bottom of it
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no no no I know we all got close
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but he asked you guys not to communicate with him
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I think you're doing the right thing
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I meant to move in to feel you you got the money
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what about that thing that we were gonna ask
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no we'll wait we talked about it yesterday
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no what thing guys
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nothing Finia
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your mom and I have decided to renew our vows
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at our party
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and we wanted to ask you
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if you would do us the honor of maybe given a speech
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that's a wonderful idea
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and maybe it'll help you get your mind out of things
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but we also understand if this is the last thing
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you'd like to do during this difficult time
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but that being said
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who would better than a renowned Romans columnist
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who also happens to be a brilliant daughter
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I would love to
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I'm not going to stop believing in love right
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welcome to end this together
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inspiring stories of love
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told by normal folks like you and me
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this is episode 1
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43 stops and starts
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today we speak to page from Cleveland
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before she and her husband got married
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he tried to end the relationship
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the page knew he was wrong
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and made a decision to fight for their love
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hmm hmm
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good morning morning
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you look like you're feeling sprite
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like I've come to a conclusion
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a determination
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what have you known me
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to give up on something I really wanted never
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like when I didn't get the job at Sparklife at first
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I kept submitting
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even though they weren't accepting applications
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I love this about you
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but are we talking
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relationships hit bumps on the road all the time
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I should know this
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but Tom made a mistake when he ended our relationship
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but people make mistakes right
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so I can either
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except this and our relationship fades into oblivion
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or I can fight for love all right
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I'm going to get Tom back
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love means being all in
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so this thing starts at 8 yep
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I didn't think speed dating was even a thing anymore
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it's the perfect place to start
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a collaboration
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utilizes one of my favorite aspects of the column
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field research by the way
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I read up on your column last night and I have to say
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there was a surprising amount of depth in the pieces
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surprising oh
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you think this is gonna be easy
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I wasn't trying to insult
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what you do
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I like your column
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especially me and t
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definitely keep that going
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that's a being put on pause at the moment
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are things on the rocks
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with the unimpeachably square jawed Tom
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and what if they were
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what are you going to say
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oh Kadina you should have seen it coming
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or how about 10
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science is going to break up with you
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he broke up with you
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wow well I mean you're doing great
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I would have at least taken a sick day anyway
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I see this as temporary we'll be back together soon
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thank you so how's this going down
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we're gonna observe
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conduct some interviews
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will be participating wait what
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it's a perfect opportunity to get the nail perspective
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is this some sort of a hazing thing
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it's the job
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my approach is one of diligent preparation
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I have compiled a list of questions
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I researched some icebreakers
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some indicators
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every date's goals
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priorities I printed a copy fee if you like
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it's just occurred to me
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you've been out of the dating game for a while
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haven't you
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I don't need your study guide
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these things are about instincts being natural
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they're not job interviews suit yourself
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so where are you from where were you like as a kid
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hi I'm Liam
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yes I can see that from your name tag
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yeah right silly me
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if you could travel anywhere in the world
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where would it be
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I am is there a right and wrong answer to this question
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what's your biggest fear
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tests
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oh thank God
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this dating life is nerve wracking right
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yeah kind of is
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so I'll cut straight to the chase
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I told myself I'd be married by 35 which is in a month
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everything's already planned but wedding here
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honeymoon in Maui
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you like Maui right
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what's your favorite snack
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words ruin everything
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let's communicate with her eyes only
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interesting um
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well you're very organized
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like I want to marry you organized
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all right let's debrief
447
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there's a number of ways we can go out the peace
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we could do a list
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15 tips on successful speed dating
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first off I'm not sure why we would
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encourage anyone to go through that
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it's about perspective and approach
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it's about putting yourself out there
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with the help of our tips
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see I don't
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I don't get why we can't just call it like it is
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I saw you out there
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you were struggling
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oh you're that guy
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oh boy okay here we go
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what that guy
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you're that guy who was out there calling it like it is
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it has been near integrity
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you're throughout there calling little judgments
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rejecting everything
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you just skate on the surface
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never challenging yourself
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or letting yourself be vulnerable
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all while getting by on your humor and charm
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you see what I gleaned from all that
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is that you find me funny and charming
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my point exactly
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don't mind me while I get back to work
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what if we write about what you've been going through
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your breakup
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I'm sure you have something singular and interesting
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say about that that's off tone for the site
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earlier you said that the situation was temporary
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are you trying to get him back
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would I be so wrong
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except my personal philosophy that if somebody leaves
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they've made their point
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why do you want Tom back so badly
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Tom is wonderful
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he's kind he's a gentleman
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but mainly we have history
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we helped each other through
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the early parts of our careers
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through the UPS
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through the downs
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his families like my family and vice versa
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he's a big part of my life
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and I'm just not ready to let that go
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he can't have been for nothing right
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it's not unreasonable
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alright so what's your plan
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I'm going to find out what went wrong and fix it
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like a car or a broken toaster
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hmm and see
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this is your problem
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oh you know me
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two days and you know my problem yeah see
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cause you're too trapped in that busy brain of yours
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that you can't see clearly
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what if I helped you get him back
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oh I'm fine on my own thank you
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because you're an expert on the topic
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I didn't want to say so
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but yes no you see
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this is one time we're
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being an expert actually hurts you
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let me help you
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if for no other reason but to prove
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to you that I can do this job and that I'm not
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completely clueless about the human heart
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but this isn't part of the column
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to be like a side project
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right exactly
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ah I don't see the harm deal deal
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love takes hard work
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so help us out
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and compile a list of things that could have gone wrong
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things that I could have done underlying circumstances
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acts of god etc etc
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you see this is what standing in your way
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everything is a list or
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or a bullet point or a little box you can check
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like there's a right way to go about everything
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this is the death of romance okay
530
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you you need to connect with your
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your instincts your passion
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you need to leave room for these feelings hmm
533
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but for now
534
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we just need to reengage contact okay
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did you bring the stuff
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soccer ball lamp okay
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alright now to recap
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we're not contacting Tom to rehash okay
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and you want answers
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but now is not the time
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you simply have some of these things
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want them out of your apartment
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it's a courtesy to him very Ladida
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but I don't feel Ladida and I don't like games
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I think they're dishonest
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the columns and support them and I don't support them
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this isn't about the column okay
548
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and the games are already there
549
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you just need to use them to your advantage
550
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right now you're just opening the door crack
551
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reminding him of the Karina that he fell in love with
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do you have a text yes
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hey Tom exclamation Mark oh no
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um and m dash
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hey Tom and dash
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I have some of your things at my place period
557
00:26:10,966 --> 00:26:13,166
tidying up and would love to
558
00:26:13,166 --> 00:26:14,066
would like to
559
00:26:14,500 --> 00:26:16,600
would like to
560
00:26:18,500 --> 00:26:21,066
pass them off period
561
00:26:21,466 --> 00:26:24,433
please let me know when and where period
562
00:26:24,866 --> 00:26:26,566
not sure about the please
563
00:26:26,566 --> 00:26:30,566
I think it's polite but just not warm play yeah
564
00:26:30,566 --> 00:26:33,866
you're right you're right okay sending
565
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,933
okay so and you have what you're gonna say at the ready
566
00:26:38,933 --> 00:26:39,966
when you brief
567
00:26:40,266 --> 00:26:42,700
I'm going to find a way to bring up a road trip
568
00:26:42,700 --> 00:26:45,300
which will remind him of an earlier better time
569
00:26:45,300 --> 00:26:47,033
it was a happier time
570
00:26:49,533 --> 00:26:52,866
okay he responded he'll drop by the lobby at 3 p m
571
00:26:56,133 --> 00:27:00,200
remember this is at least a mild inconvenience
572
00:27:06,333 --> 00:27:07,133
hey
573
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:12,266
hey thanks for coming thanks for saving my stuff
574
00:27:13,900 --> 00:27:14,700
how are you
575
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,300
okay you know taking things day by day
576
00:27:18,100 --> 00:27:21,400
I might go on a road trip this weekend road trip
577
00:27:22,500 --> 00:27:24,733
yeah uh sorry to be brief
578
00:27:24,733 --> 00:27:27,300
I I have a meeting coming up so I should
579
00:27:27,466 --> 00:27:28,700
you know get going uh
580
00:27:29,066 --> 00:27:30,633
okay I'll just take this stuff
581
00:27:32,366 --> 00:27:34,666
yeah um hold on hold on
582
00:27:34,866 --> 00:27:36,933
I just have a quick question like
583
00:27:36,933 --> 00:27:40,366
was it is it is it something I said or something I
584
00:27:41,133 --> 00:27:45,833
hey Karina Rhonda needs you in her office
585
00:27:46,300 --> 00:27:49,733
it's an emergency you know a romance mystical emergency
586
00:27:49,733 --> 00:27:51,966
sorry to interrupt bye
587
00:27:53,700 --> 00:27:55,433
it's okay almost built in a day
588
00:27:57,333 --> 00:28:00,633
oh sick I miss this thing
589
00:28:04,866 --> 00:28:06,333
to four flavors
590
00:28:06,333 --> 00:28:07,666
so please be honest
591
00:28:07,766 --> 00:28:09,500
you're doing an entire table
592
00:28:09,500 --> 00:28:10,600
your father said he was
593
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,500
the favorite part of his wedding
594
00:28:12,500 --> 00:28:13,833
second favorite part
595
00:28:15,100 --> 00:28:18,100
oh do you guys have anything you want to contribute to
596
00:28:18,100 --> 00:28:20,600
the ceremony other than our original vows
597
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:22,166
no do anything you like
598
00:28:22,166 --> 00:28:23,466
do you want something light hearted
599
00:28:23,466 --> 00:28:24,266
traditional
600
00:28:24,266 --> 00:28:25,133
more serious
601
00:28:25,133 --> 00:28:26,066
you're the expert
602
00:28:26,166 --> 00:28:29,500
what about excerpts from literature the greats
603
00:28:29,500 --> 00:28:32,066
as long as the greats include the greatest of great
604
00:28:32,066 --> 00:28:33,166
which is you
605
00:28:35,766 --> 00:28:39,000
I love the pistachio oh thank you
606
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:43,833
are you okay with all this this isn't making you sad
607
00:28:43,900 --> 00:28:45,800
how could putting out that is make me sad
608
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:51,466
desserts are a happy thing yeah of course
609
00:28:53,300 --> 00:28:55,700
I don't want to get anyone's hopes up
610
00:28:55,700 --> 00:28:57,966
but things might not be finished between Tom and I
611
00:28:59,700 --> 00:29:04,566
you guys are speaking we spoke today be careful Philia
612
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,100
we're getting ahead of ourselves just a possibility
613
00:29:10,533 --> 00:29:12,833
have you tried the pink one yet
614
00:29:20,100 --> 00:29:22,866
so if Tom wants to get back together with you
615
00:29:22,866 --> 00:29:24,666
and take him back of course
616
00:29:26,166 --> 00:29:28,500
I was thinking that maybe this time of park could give
617
00:29:28,500 --> 00:29:31,166
you an opportunity to reflect on things
618
00:29:31,166 --> 00:29:32,433
reflect on what
619
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,700
well it occurred to me the other day
620
00:29:34,700 --> 00:29:37,166
that it had been a while since I'd seen you
621
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:38,500
I don't know
622
00:29:38,500 --> 00:29:39,900
lit up about Tom
623
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:41,800
a long while actually
624
00:29:42,466 --> 00:29:43,766
I could be wrong
625
00:29:44,066 --> 00:29:47,066
even the best relationships can't all be like epic
626
00:29:47,066 --> 00:29:50,366
novellas and that honeymoon phase all the time
627
00:29:50,366 --> 00:29:51,500
but there should be glimmers
628
00:29:51,500 --> 00:29:52,666
you know I mean
629
00:29:52,666 --> 00:29:54,333
take mine and dad
630
00:29:54,333 --> 00:29:55,200
for example
631
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:57,633
that's a crushingly high standard
632
00:29:58,766 --> 00:30:00,766
I just want the best for my little sister
633
00:30:00,766 --> 00:30:03,466
I can't help but like the idea of something new
634
00:30:03,466 --> 00:30:05,200
and unexpected ahead for you
635
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:06,700
what's wrong with a noon
636
00:30:06,700 --> 00:30:10,600
exciting chapter with Tom nothing
637
00:30:20,666 --> 00:30:21,566
there you are
638
00:30:22,133 --> 00:30:23,000
oh good morning
639
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:23,866
good morning
640
00:30:23,933 --> 00:30:27,066
um I had to guess so I got you
641
00:30:27,066 --> 00:30:27,966
classic glazed
642
00:30:27,966 --> 00:30:31,833
thought it was a good choice for no nonsense and a guy
643
00:30:32,666 --> 00:30:35,600
you should write a listical matching guys to donuts
644
00:30:35,966 --> 00:30:39,000
uh plain glaze doesn't stand on ceremony
645
00:30:39,133 --> 00:30:40,933
while sugar coated ironically
646
00:30:40,933 --> 00:30:44,666
doesn't sugar coat anything more than meets the eye
647
00:30:45,100 --> 00:30:47,466
secretly the best not humble
648
00:30:51,333 --> 00:30:52,666
I don't wanna know
649
00:30:53,333 --> 00:30:57,100
so what's on the docket for today well
650
00:30:57,100 --> 00:30:59,966
I thought we could put speed dating in the back burner
651
00:30:59,966 --> 00:31:03,700
and we can work on 15 unique date ideas
652
00:31:03,933 --> 00:31:05,466
right simpler
653
00:31:05,466 --> 00:31:07,833
less argument over philosophical approach
654
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:09,533
so this is one of them
655
00:31:09,533 --> 00:31:11,066
date on a park bench
656
00:31:11,333 --> 00:31:14,400
no no we're going hell boating
657
00:31:17,966 --> 00:31:18,766
okay
658
00:31:19,966 --> 00:31:21,666
can we just save time
659
00:31:21,733 --> 00:31:23,500
use our imaginations
660
00:31:23,500 --> 00:31:24,500
not get our butts wet
661
00:31:24,500 --> 00:31:27,800
and copy information from the internet ah touche
662
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,766
life jackets are little much now
663
00:31:30,766 --> 00:31:32,766
it's a necessary but easy precaution
664
00:31:32,766 --> 00:31:34,100
makes everyone relax
665
00:31:34,966 --> 00:31:36,266
I should drop that down
666
00:31:36,900 --> 00:31:38,100
life jackets
667
00:31:38,533 --> 00:31:40,400
check ready
668
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,366
yes okay okay
669
00:31:44,900 --> 00:31:47,866
so let's start with the pros and the cons
670
00:31:48,966 --> 00:31:52,033
okay it's playful
671
00:31:52,366 --> 00:31:53,866
whimsical hmm
672
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,966
yeah doors are a plus hmm hmm figure out the steering
673
00:31:57,966 --> 00:32:00,266
the paddling the shared activity like a project
674
00:32:00,266 --> 00:32:01,766
which is always a good idea
675
00:32:02,466 --> 00:32:03,200
I don't know the
676
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,000
that steering or pedaling or all that complicated
677
00:32:07,266 --> 00:32:08,733
it's life jacket smells musty
678
00:32:08,733 --> 00:32:09,966
we're not in the cons yet
679
00:32:09,966 --> 00:32:11,966
I know I'm just spitballing okay
680
00:32:11,966 --> 00:32:13,466
well the physical proximity
681
00:32:13,466 --> 00:32:14,333
you know could be a good thing
682
00:32:14,333 --> 00:32:18,133
that early nervous stage could also be economy
683
00:32:18,133 --> 00:32:19,300
what if the person is shy
684
00:32:19,300 --> 00:32:20,400
then this is awkward
685
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,500
why contradict everything I say
686
00:32:23,133 --> 00:32:23,933
I got you big thing
687
00:32:23,933 --> 00:32:25,600
this is this is discourse no
688
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:28,833
no absolutely contacting everything no I'm
689
00:32:30,366 --> 00:32:31,166
not
690
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:44,600
oh
691
00:32:46,900 --> 00:32:53,500
my God oh my God oh my God oh God oh
692
00:32:57,366 --> 00:33:01,066
well I guess we just Learned a very important lesson in
693
00:33:01,066 --> 00:33:02,200
communication
694
00:33:02,933 --> 00:33:03,766
you know what
695
00:33:04,533 --> 00:33:07,466
I think I'm gonna give pedal boat dates my endorsement
696
00:33:07,733 --> 00:33:08,500
you get to learn
697
00:33:08,500 --> 00:33:10,900
early on with each other's conflict styles gonna be
698
00:33:13,933 --> 00:33:16,600
thank you for saving my notebook you're welcome
699
00:33:17,700 --> 00:33:20,966
I'm sure you have a whole list of things and ideas
700
00:33:20,966 --> 00:33:23,433
but do I get any say in the dates
701
00:33:27,266 --> 00:33:28,566
I don't see why not
702
00:33:28,766 --> 00:33:29,933
cause I have a great
703
00:33:29,933 --> 00:33:32,266
idea that will double for our listical
704
00:33:32,266 --> 00:33:35,000
and may even help you in your Tom related endeavor
705
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:49,566
let me get this straight you have all this beer here
706
00:33:49,566 --> 00:33:51,633
in case of any fishing emergency
707
00:33:52,066 --> 00:33:54,200
my dad and I like to fish here
708
00:33:54,366 --> 00:33:55,966
put this on it's gonna get cold
709
00:33:56,300 --> 00:33:59,633
thank you and put these on it's gonna get muddy
710
00:34:00,500 --> 00:34:03,300
this is one way to get the meal perspective
711
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:06,966
I'm literally putting myself in your shoes
712
00:34:08,266 --> 00:34:09,866
I have a confession to make
713
00:34:09,866 --> 00:34:11,700
I haven't fished in a long time
714
00:34:11,700 --> 00:34:15,900
so I might need a primer on gas date sure okay
715
00:34:17,933 --> 00:34:22,466
you hold the line with your index finger here
716
00:34:24,900 --> 00:34:27,066
and put the bail back there
717
00:34:29,666 --> 00:34:32,666
pull back and release oh
718
00:34:34,966 --> 00:34:37,166
it's like riding a bike
719
00:34:43,866 --> 00:34:46,366
all right pros and cons of fishing is a date
720
00:34:47,700 --> 00:34:50,233
well can't beat the ambience
721
00:34:51,133 --> 00:34:53,000
so what does it have to do with Tom
722
00:34:53,933 --> 00:34:56,133
are you saying teach a man to fish
723
00:34:56,133 --> 00:34:58,166
or there are many fish in the sea
724
00:35:00,166 --> 00:35:01,566
the thing about fishing
725
00:35:02,166 --> 00:35:05,600
for me at least is
726
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:10,200
it's not about catching a bunch of fish
727
00:35:11,666 --> 00:35:14,633
about being in the moment
728
00:35:15,533 --> 00:35:16,966
you know staring out of the water
729
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:22,433
looking at the reflection feeling the wind on your face
730
00:35:23,866 --> 00:35:27,000
it's not about what may or may not happen
731
00:35:27,300 --> 00:35:28,833
it's about right now
732
00:35:31,933 --> 00:35:33,133
alright Captain Zen
733
00:35:33,133 --> 00:35:34,700
so what does that mean for me
734
00:35:34,900 --> 00:35:36,933
I can't be with Tom in the now
735
00:35:36,933 --> 00:35:38,566
because Tom is in the then
736
00:35:39,166 --> 00:35:41,466
I guess what I'm saying is it's
737
00:35:42,266 --> 00:35:45,100
so easy to be wrapped up and how things should be
738
00:35:45,100 --> 00:35:48,000
that we forget to be in the present
739
00:35:50,733 --> 00:35:51,700
for example
740
00:35:52,533 --> 00:35:57,566
how great is it that right now in the name of research
741
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,100
we are fishing on Sparklife's dime
742
00:36:01,933 --> 00:36:04,300
that's like when you go to open a fortune cookie
743
00:36:04,666 --> 00:36:06,733
and looking for all the answers to your problems
744
00:36:06,733 --> 00:36:10,200
and all it says is your fortune is in another cookie
745
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:15,600
maybe with all the wisdom and perspective
746
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,866
where is the big love in your life
747
00:36:18,866 --> 00:36:20,966
just because I'm super qualified
748
00:36:21,066 --> 00:36:23,033
doesn't mean I'm required to jump in the game
749
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:27,966
oh oh ah I got a bite
750
00:36:27,966 --> 00:36:28,866
I got a bite
751
00:36:29,166 --> 00:36:30,133
wait oh wait
752
00:36:30,133 --> 00:36:31,233
I might be lying
753
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:32,966
nope nope that's nothing
754
00:36:32,966 --> 00:36:34,466
that's just the tweet
755
00:36:34,900 --> 00:36:35,933
what are you talking about
756
00:36:35,933 --> 00:36:37,466
mini golf is the best
757
00:36:37,466 --> 00:36:39,066
there's this one time a long time ago
758
00:36:39,066 --> 00:36:40,466
things got scary competitive
759
00:36:40,466 --> 00:36:42,266
why does that not surprise me okay
760
00:36:42,266 --> 00:36:45,100
how about bullying points for potential double dates
761
00:36:45,166 --> 00:36:46,533
yeah but then you gotta rent the shoes
762
00:36:46,533 --> 00:36:47,900
and you spray them with the stuff oh
763
00:36:47,900 --> 00:36:49,066
and being by a pond
764
00:36:49,066 --> 00:36:51,933
getting rugged with nature is acceptable okay
765
00:36:51,933 --> 00:36:52,866
fishing was great
766
00:36:52,866 --> 00:36:53,533
you loved it
767
00:36:53,533 --> 00:36:55,266
don't deny it fine
768
00:36:55,266 --> 00:36:56,366
I won't deny it
769
00:36:56,366 --> 00:36:58,566
let's try and find a few indoor options
770
00:36:58,566 --> 00:36:59,500
I have an idea
771
00:36:59,500 --> 00:37:00,566
if you'll humor me
772
00:37:04,300 --> 00:37:07,866
this is my favorite book store of all time
773
00:37:08,133 --> 00:37:09,500
didn't you just move here though
774
00:37:09,500 --> 00:37:10,700
well yeah from New York
775
00:37:10,700 --> 00:37:11,933
but I grew up in Chicago
776
00:37:11,933 --> 00:37:13,266
my dad still lives here
777
00:37:13,533 --> 00:37:16,133
I used to come here all the time back in high school
778
00:37:16,133 --> 00:37:18,733
when I one day dreamed of being a famous
779
00:37:18,733 --> 00:37:19,833
for the internet
780
00:37:22,333 --> 00:37:24,966
you know I like the personal connection
781
00:37:24,966 --> 00:37:29,700
but as a dating but kind of limited time wise
782
00:37:29,700 --> 00:37:32,400
space wise aren't a lot of activities oh
783
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:34,166
you are wrong about that
784
00:37:34,900 --> 00:37:37,300
oh look gardening
785
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:40,100
did I tell you that my mom was a master gardener
786
00:37:40,166 --> 00:37:41,266
no he didn't
787
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:48,100
wait was she passed away a couple years back
788
00:37:48,900 --> 00:37:50,166
I'm sorry to hear that
789
00:37:51,566 --> 00:37:52,866
actually she taught my dad
790
00:37:52,866 --> 00:37:54,566
and now he's really running with it
791
00:37:55,300 --> 00:37:58,066
anyway see there's conversation starters everywhere
792
00:37:58,066 --> 00:38:02,133
also perfect stage for cute romantic
793
00:38:02,133 --> 00:38:04,400
hi jinx please observe
794
00:38:06,700 --> 00:38:09,000
hey fancy seeing you here
795
00:38:09,733 --> 00:38:13,633
this is only for the bold
796
00:38:14,266 --> 00:38:17,766
two potential lovebirds may happen upon
797
00:38:17,766 --> 00:38:21,800
a classic book of poetry and find a little inspiration
798
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:23,433
shall I can
799
00:38:23,466 --> 00:38:25,433
and each was summer's day
800
00:38:25,533 --> 00:38:27,633
thou art more
801
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:30,666
what what is it
802
00:38:31,866 --> 00:38:33,266
nothing oh hey
803
00:38:33,266 --> 00:38:34,266
look at this Liam
804
00:38:34,266 --> 00:38:35,566
you have a book
805
00:38:36,533 --> 00:38:39,466
you have a novel
806
00:38:40,900 --> 00:38:42,100
Allison Morgan Laude
807
00:38:42,100 --> 00:38:45,466
as a stunning and heartbreaking exploration of love
808
00:38:45,466 --> 00:38:46,966
and memory and a total flop
809
00:38:46,966 --> 00:38:47,866
what are you doing
810
00:38:47,866 --> 00:38:48,966
okay forget the book
811
00:38:48,966 --> 00:38:50,033
there's no book
812
00:38:50,566 --> 00:38:52,133
don't you want people to buy it
813
00:38:52,133 --> 00:38:53,600
no really I don't
814
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:54,666
I don't understand
815
00:38:55,266 --> 00:38:56,666
it was a long time ago
816
00:38:56,766 --> 00:38:58,466
practically a different life
817
00:38:58,466 --> 00:39:00,833
let's just forget about the book okay
818
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:14,166
what are you working on
819
00:39:15,700 --> 00:39:21,400
you know just not writing a novel that was published
820
00:39:25,500 --> 00:39:27,166
seriously what are you working on
821
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:29,900
I am writing
822
00:39:29,900 --> 00:39:33,466
or trying to write my parents vow renewal ceremony
823
00:39:33,500 --> 00:39:35,400
seems like a job you were made for
824
00:39:35,466 --> 00:39:39,766
it seems and I'm having a very hard time
825
00:39:39,766 --> 00:39:40,800
what do you got so far
826
00:39:48,966 --> 00:39:50,766
it's a it's a nice notebook
827
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:53,900
I keep it with me everywhere
828
00:39:53,900 --> 00:39:56,766
I'm terrified I'll have like the perfect thought
829
00:39:56,766 --> 00:39:59,633
and then it'll disappear forever
830
00:40:00,466 --> 00:40:01,733
you're a responsible writer
831
00:40:01,733 --> 00:40:03,700
that way I should take page out of your book
832
00:40:03,700 --> 00:40:04,766
and get one of these
833
00:40:05,700 --> 00:40:06,600
what's this
834
00:40:08,366 --> 00:40:11,766
truths about love ongoing list I have
835
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,100
it's personal it evolves
836
00:40:14,766 --> 00:40:17,166
perennial reference guidelines huh
837
00:40:17,566 --> 00:40:19,366
truths yeah
838
00:40:19,366 --> 00:40:21,266
and no fair critiquing my diary
839
00:40:22,966 --> 00:40:25,300
or maybe we should discuss Phase 2 of operation
840
00:40:25,300 --> 00:40:26,433
get Tom back
841
00:40:27,533 --> 00:40:29,700
I actually forgot about that for a second
842
00:40:30,166 --> 00:40:32,600
it's good it is
843
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,466
yeah it'll put you in a position to be more confident
844
00:40:36,100 --> 00:40:37,466
right all right
845
00:40:37,466 --> 00:40:40,100
our next move is a classic one
846
00:40:41,666 --> 00:40:44,866
a little intrigue a little dress up
847
00:40:48,566 --> 00:40:50,566
you know you don't really need my fashion help
848
00:40:50,566 --> 00:40:51,533
you're adorable
849
00:40:51,533 --> 00:40:54,066
you have this perfect professional
850
00:40:54,066 --> 00:40:55,766
vintage chic thing going on
851
00:40:55,766 --> 00:40:57,100
I need a second opinion
852
00:40:57,100 --> 00:40:59,066
and I need help getting out of my comfort zone
853
00:40:59,066 --> 00:41:01,966
I need to find something surprising and irresistible
854
00:41:01,966 --> 00:41:03,066
why the air quotes
855
00:41:03,533 --> 00:41:04,566
who are we quoting
856
00:41:04,566 --> 00:41:06,266
Liam my work colleague
857
00:41:06,266 --> 00:41:08,700
oh tell me about this work colleague
858
00:41:08,700 --> 00:41:11,966
no no this is not an air quote type of situation
859
00:41:11,966 --> 00:41:14,000
okay this is about getting Tom back
860
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,100
and Liam's helping me out
861
00:41:16,100 --> 00:41:18,466
we are orchestrating a run into Tom
862
00:41:18,466 --> 00:41:20,766
looking carefree and irresistible
863
00:41:20,866 --> 00:41:21,766
peak his interest
864
00:41:21,766 --> 00:41:23,700
cause him to reevaluate
865
00:41:23,700 --> 00:41:25,266
thought we didn't like playing games
866
00:41:25,266 --> 00:41:26,733
I thought you preferred honesty
867
00:41:26,733 --> 00:41:28,733
I do it's just to get back in the door
868
00:41:28,733 --> 00:41:30,633
we can work on the hard stuff later
869
00:41:30,966 --> 00:41:32,966
well I don't fully endorse this mission
870
00:41:32,966 --> 00:41:35,500
I will always endorse a game of dress up
871
00:41:35,500 --> 00:41:37,166
all right show me what you're thinking
872
00:41:38,666 --> 00:41:42,000
that's pretty pretty bad
873
00:41:43,366 --> 00:41:46,200
all right I've been waiting for this moment move aside
874
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:52,200
ah no no no
875
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,000
no no shush
876
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,233
shush shush shush
877
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,200
you bought this in South Paulo 6 years ago
878
00:41:58,200 --> 00:41:59,833
and have been hand ringing
879
00:41:59,900 --> 00:42:01,900
trying to find the perfect time to wear it
880
00:42:01,933 --> 00:42:04,100
there's never gonna be a perfect moment
881
00:42:04,100 --> 00:42:09,866
so I say now is the perfect moment haha
882
00:42:10,100 --> 00:42:13,633
fine haha fine
883
00:42:22,766 --> 00:42:24,966
okay Karina Liam
884
00:42:24,966 --> 00:42:26,800
why don't you catch us up with where you're at
885
00:42:27,066 --> 00:42:28,700
we have enough for an extended list to go
886
00:42:28,700 --> 00:42:30,533
and to really dig into each date idea
887
00:42:30,533 --> 00:42:33,733
have fun with metaphors word play like rocky boat
888
00:42:33,733 --> 00:42:35,966
that casting a net getting your feet wet
889
00:42:35,966 --> 00:42:36,666
at first glance
890
00:42:36,666 --> 00:42:38,266
I thought the list would be straightforward
891
00:42:38,266 --> 00:42:40,566
but in our views have diversed from time to time
892
00:42:40,566 --> 00:42:42,700
so I think they'll be a little rebuttal at the bottom
893
00:42:43,300 --> 00:42:45,900
he said she said angle I love it
894
00:42:49,700 --> 00:42:51,666
love means being yourself
895
00:42:56,100 --> 00:42:57,000
what do you think
896
00:43:00,700 --> 00:43:02,666
that will work
897
00:43:03,366 --> 00:43:04,300
not too much
898
00:43:05,666 --> 00:43:06,466
not at all
899
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:13,400
um so we know that Tom walks from his office to the gym
900
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,566
every day on Dearborn Street
901
00:43:15,566 --> 00:43:18,766
so all we have to do is time it right
902
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:20,966
I'm gonna send you a text when he leaves
903
00:43:20,966 --> 00:43:22,466
you're gonna walk south
904
00:43:22,466 --> 00:43:25,300
inevitably the two of you are gonna cross paths
905
00:43:25,300 --> 00:43:29,800
it's it's gonna feel completely coincidental okay
906
00:43:30,066 --> 00:43:33,433
he is gonna see you looking absolutely gorgeous
907
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:41,333
and so stop and and talk cause that's the
908
00:43:41,333 --> 00:43:43,966
the polite thing to do um
909
00:43:45,066 --> 00:43:46,300
this is the best part
910
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,733
it's gonna appear as if you're going on a date but
911
00:43:49,733 --> 00:43:50,700
but you're not gonna
912
00:43:50,766 --> 00:43:52,400
you're not gonna tell him that in fact
913
00:43:52,533 --> 00:43:54,866
you're protecting his feelings
914
00:43:55,166 --> 00:43:58,366
this this is gonna take a little acting okay
915
00:43:58,533 --> 00:44:00,666
turn around face me close your eyes
916
00:44:06,866 --> 00:44:07,966
just envision
917
00:44:08,966 --> 00:44:11,400
you'll be so surprised when you run into Tom today
918
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:14,633
because you haven't even thought about him why
919
00:44:15,300 --> 00:44:17,100
cause you met someone new
920
00:44:17,666 --> 00:44:19,266
someone unexpected and
921
00:44:19,466 --> 00:44:20,466
and this new guy
922
00:44:20,466 --> 00:44:25,200
he really sees you and appreciates you for who you are
923
00:44:25,700 --> 00:44:26,866
write all your
924
00:44:26,866 --> 00:44:28,966
all your lists and your love for your work
925
00:44:28,966 --> 00:44:33,200
and your diligent note keeping and your donuts with
926
00:44:33,866 --> 00:44:35,400
enkacing sprinkles
927
00:44:38,300 --> 00:44:40,466
anyway this is the man
928
00:44:40,466 --> 00:44:42,966
you'll be on your way to see when you run into Tom
929
00:44:43,100 --> 00:44:44,466
and I guarantee
930
00:44:44,500 --> 00:44:46,333
he'll text you by tomorrow night for a coffee
931
00:44:46,333 --> 00:44:47,400
got it coach
932
00:45:09,100 --> 00:45:12,366
Karina Tom hi
933
00:45:12,366 --> 00:45:14,866
hey you look amazing thanks
934
00:45:14,866 --> 00:45:17,433
I'm just my way this dinner thing
935
00:45:17,533 --> 00:45:18,100
how are you
936
00:45:18,100 --> 00:45:20,366
I haven't had this dress for six years
937
00:45:20,366 --> 00:45:22,000
I don't know why I've been saving it for so long
938
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:25,166
I'm rambling you must be on your way to the gym
939
00:45:25,666 --> 00:45:26,766
endorphins yeah yeah
940
00:45:26,766 --> 00:45:29,200
I'm good I'm good good anyways
941
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:32,466
I'm running late wonderful to see you okay
942
00:45:39,766 --> 00:45:40,800
so how'd it go
943
00:45:40,900 --> 00:45:43,266
good I think good
944
00:45:43,366 --> 00:45:46,666
uh yeah that's great feel a little anticlimactic
945
00:45:46,666 --> 00:45:49,100
I'm all dressed up and nowhere to go uh
946
00:45:49,100 --> 00:45:54,066
well we could go grab a bite the two of us maybe okay
947
00:46:02,466 --> 00:46:03,533
I think Mickey
948
00:46:03,533 --> 00:46:06,500
b's might be the best pizza on the planet
949
00:46:07,133 --> 00:46:09,366
be careful you don't want to say it to my mom
950
00:46:09,366 --> 00:46:11,100
I'm assuming you haven't had Brazilian pizza
951
00:46:12,266 --> 00:46:13,666
there is Brazilian pizza
952
00:46:13,666 --> 00:46:16,100
oh yeah it's a big point of pride
953
00:46:16,366 --> 00:46:18,066
I have my favorite place in Bucktown
954
00:46:18,066 --> 00:46:19,000
I'll take you
955
00:46:19,533 --> 00:46:20,500
I'd like that
956
00:46:22,100 --> 00:46:24,900
this will kick off Phase 3 of our plan
957
00:46:25,133 --> 00:46:26,566
enough of this Tom drama
958
00:46:26,566 --> 00:46:29,166
let's shake things up and talk about Liam for a second
959
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:30,500
why don't we talk about that whole
960
00:46:30,500 --> 00:46:32,366
Brazilian pizza thing
961
00:46:32,366 --> 00:46:33,933
I wanna know more about you
962
00:46:33,933 --> 00:46:37,033
like why aren't you out there dating
963
00:46:37,100 --> 00:46:39,666
or more about your book
964
00:46:39,666 --> 00:46:41,433
or why you don't want people buying it
965
00:46:43,666 --> 00:46:44,466
the book
966
00:46:48,166 --> 00:46:50,633
well I worked on it for a long time
967
00:46:51,333 --> 00:46:53,700
you know poured a lot into it
968
00:46:54,466 --> 00:46:57,000
took some risks with writing style
969
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:00,233
even though it received critical praise
970
00:47:01,666 --> 00:47:02,666
totally bumped
971
00:47:03,733 --> 00:47:05,100
I had a serious relationship that
972
00:47:05,100 --> 00:47:06,333
ended around the same time
973
00:47:06,333 --> 00:47:07,200
it was my fault
974
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:10,000
but it didn't make it hurt any less
975
00:47:10,466 --> 00:47:13,033
so I picked up the gig at H W
976
00:47:13,066 --> 00:47:14,866
and really leaned into my humor
977
00:47:15,133 --> 00:47:16,300
and everyone seemed to love it
978
00:47:16,300 --> 00:47:17,833
so I just went with it
979
00:47:18,766 --> 00:47:22,100
and it was actually kind of easy a relief
980
00:47:23,666 --> 00:47:24,566
and then last year
981
00:47:24,566 --> 00:47:27,300
I decided to stir things up and move back here
982
00:47:27,300 --> 00:47:29,166
take that stab at a second novel
983
00:47:30,066 --> 00:47:31,400
quickly failed at that attempt
984
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:32,600
tried to get my old job back
985
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,100
but it was already gone and well
986
00:47:35,100 --> 00:47:36,000
you know the rest
987
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:38,133
now you're here
988
00:47:38,133 --> 00:47:41,166
worrying about love and romance at our little website
989
00:47:42,466 --> 00:47:43,566
it's not so bad
990
00:47:46,333 --> 00:47:49,633
how's your parents ceremony going
991
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:53,433
uh I'm not I'm not deflecting I honestly wanna know
992
00:47:55,166 --> 00:47:56,800
I'm feeling really stuck
993
00:47:57,533 --> 00:47:59,766
with who am I to write about love
994
00:47:59,766 --> 00:48:00,533
what do I know
995
00:48:00,533 --> 00:48:02,800
I'm running around playing dress up
996
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:05,100
I didn't see my break up coming
997
00:48:05,566 --> 00:48:07,800
I'm feeling very unqualified
998
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:10,166
it's not true
999
00:48:10,166 --> 00:48:11,633
you said so yourself
1000
00:48:12,066 --> 00:48:13,133
my bullet points
1001
00:48:13,133 --> 00:48:16,300
my study guides my being bad at nowness
1002
00:48:17,266 --> 00:48:18,666
I have a lot to fix
1003
00:48:18,733 --> 00:48:20,966
no not for me
1004
00:48:23,133 --> 00:48:24,966
I think some of what I said may have
1005
00:48:24,966 --> 00:48:26,500
come across the wrong way
1006
00:48:27,766 --> 00:48:28,700
I know we have to
1007
00:48:28,700 --> 00:48:31,533
play these games in order to open the door for Tom
1008
00:48:31,533 --> 00:48:36,166
but I it's not my preference
1009
00:48:37,733 --> 00:48:39,433
I think there's value
1010
00:48:39,733 --> 00:48:41,600
in the way you engage with everything
1011
00:48:42,300 --> 00:48:43,966
you attack it
1012
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:44,966
you analyze it
1013
00:48:44,966 --> 00:48:46,566
you try to understand it
1014
00:48:47,766 --> 00:48:49,166
what I'm saying is that
1015
00:48:51,266 --> 00:48:52,800
I'm learning a lot from you
1016
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:55,666
for sparkling
1017
00:48:58,400 --> 00:48:59,400
thank you
1018
00:49:01,500 --> 00:49:03,266
I'm worrying a lot from you too
1019
00:49:13,500 --> 00:49:18,266
it's a text from Tom said he wants to meet for coffee
1020
00:49:18,533 --> 00:49:23,300
he's been thinking about things see success
1021
00:49:27,566 --> 00:49:32,666
I came broken and confused love can be a choice
1022
00:49:52,333 --> 00:49:55,766
need pieces I don't know what to do
1023
00:49:56,133 --> 00:50:00,200
feel like hey Trent long time no talk how's life at H W
1024
00:50:12,266 --> 00:50:14,233
leave another message
1025
00:50:16,766 --> 00:50:18,466
hope you're doing well
1026
00:50:18,766 --> 00:50:20,800
hope your family's fine
1027
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:23,100
hope you think about me
1028
00:50:23,466 --> 00:50:28,266
sometimes by no timing makes all the difference
1029
00:50:28,566 --> 00:50:30,666
but I don't see why we can
1030
00:50:34,766 --> 00:50:36,666
you seem especially quiet today
1031
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:41,666
I got a call from H W there uh
1032
00:50:41,733 --> 00:50:45,633
there's a job opening and uh contributing editors
1033
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:47,066
bigger position
1034
00:50:47,666 --> 00:50:48,966
they want me to come back
1035
00:50:51,666 --> 00:50:52,900
sounds like there's a butt
1036
00:50:54,533 --> 00:50:56,500
doesn't feel like the obvious choice anymore
1037
00:50:57,900 --> 00:50:59,266
you know and it's been really great
1038
00:50:59,900 --> 00:51:02,100
living close to you again and helping you with all this
1039
00:51:02,366 --> 00:51:05,833
sure yeah there are lots of pluses to live in here
1040
00:51:07,333 --> 00:51:09,566
I told him I needed some time to think about it
1041
00:51:11,533 --> 00:51:14,766
how are things going in the love and romance job
1042
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:16,566
we going all right
1043
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:18,700
and the woman you're collaborating with
1044
00:51:20,733 --> 00:51:22,466
things have become more amicable
1045
00:51:22,466 --> 00:51:24,666
you know we got into a groove oh
1046
00:51:25,933 --> 00:51:29,633
I'm also helping her get her ex boyfriend back why
1047
00:51:30,900 --> 00:51:31,400
I don't know
1048
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:34,100
I think I was trying to prove something this time
1049
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:36,466
that's not a great reason kiddo
1050
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:39,266
no it's not
1051
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,600
ah and I am out
1052
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:54,500
haha again again
1053
00:51:54,500 --> 00:51:55,566
we win again
1054
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:58,733
oh give me cards okay
1055
00:51:58,733 --> 00:52:01,366
I finally figured out the main portion of the ceremony
1056
00:52:01,366 --> 00:52:03,666
I'm stringing together extras with love poems
1057
00:52:03,666 --> 00:52:05,700
chapters to your love story
1058
00:52:05,700 --> 00:52:07,166
I'll email you guys tonight
1059
00:52:07,166 --> 00:52:08,700
no absolutely not
1060
00:52:08,700 --> 00:52:11,166
I wanted to feel like magic spontaneous
1061
00:52:11,166 --> 00:52:12,066
that being said
1062
00:52:12,066 --> 00:52:14,600
I do need to finalize the IRS vps
1063
00:52:14,733 --> 00:52:17,633
any last minute plus 1 for any of you ladies
1064
00:52:19,500 --> 00:52:20,433
okay
1065
00:52:23,100 --> 00:52:28,000
uh I'll keep my plus 1 if it's not too late oh
1066
00:52:29,866 --> 00:52:31,066
it's not for Tom
1067
00:52:31,066 --> 00:52:33,466
it's for a work colleague and I think would be good
1068
00:52:33,466 --> 00:52:36,966
field research for him to observe you love birds
1069
00:52:37,100 --> 00:52:41,766
great Karina Minya Princess plus 1
1070
00:52:43,066 --> 00:52:47,766
it's not a plus 1 + 1 just a plus 1
1071
00:52:47,766 --> 00:52:50,000
it sounds like a plus 1 right
1072
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,766
sure yes please and we're gonna beat you this time no
1073
00:52:52,766 --> 00:52:54,600
I need to win again no
1074
00:52:57,933 --> 00:53:00,600
so how's the mission to get Tom back going
1075
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:01,700
good actually
1076
00:53:01,700 --> 00:53:04,766
the whole breezy irresistible plan kind of worked
1077
00:53:05,066 --> 00:53:08,533
told you the dress that Tom texted actually saying
1078
00:53:08,533 --> 00:53:10,166
he's been thinking about things
1079
00:53:11,933 --> 00:53:13,500
I'd say I thought you'd be a bit more
1080
00:53:13,500 --> 00:53:15,100
excited about the turn of events
1081
00:53:15,533 --> 00:53:16,700
I don't seem excited
1082
00:53:19,733 --> 00:53:21,733
well now you seem excited well no
1083
00:53:21,733 --> 00:53:22,900
it's not Tom
1084
00:53:22,900 --> 00:53:24,666
it's the work guy
1085
00:53:24,766 --> 00:53:26,733
we have this funny thread going back and forth
1086
00:53:26,733 --> 00:53:28,666
cheesy puns about the article
1087
00:53:28,866 --> 00:53:31,166
get a read on your date at the bookstore
1088
00:53:31,700 --> 00:53:32,966
anyway it's dorky
1089
00:53:33,866 --> 00:53:36,400
which reminds me as we have to check out to enjoy
1090
00:53:36,500 --> 00:53:39,400
of course thanks for cake wow
1091
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:46,666
wow this place is cute pretty great right
1092
00:53:46,766 --> 00:53:48,600
are you looking for something specific
1093
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,866
yes I've been meaning to read this book
1094
00:53:51,866 --> 00:53:54,100
even meaning to read that book
1095
00:53:55,166 --> 00:53:58,600
that one randomly tucked all the way up there
1096
00:53:59,466 --> 00:54:02,233
yes yeah so yeah
1097
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,100
the past life that you've been
1098
00:54:14,900 --> 00:54:16,666
red flags I act like
1099
00:55:13,733 --> 00:55:14,900
good morning
1100
00:55:15,866 --> 00:55:17,200
what's going on with you
1101
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:20,866
I spent all night reading my work colleagues book
1102
00:55:20,866 --> 00:55:27,400
and it's just amazing it's it's lyrical it's tender
1103
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,866
it's full of beautiful observations
1104
00:55:29,866 --> 00:55:34,000
it's it's surprising is this the same work colleague
1105
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:35,666
who's helping you get Tom back
1106
00:55:35,900 --> 00:55:37,333
yes but that's besides the point
1107
00:55:37,333 --> 00:55:39,600
I I just don't know how I didn't see it
1108
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:42,500
I I just kept seeing him as a bad fit for the column
1109
00:55:42,500 --> 00:55:44,133
sure the column
1110
00:55:44,133 --> 00:55:46,166
and it turns out he's one of the
1111
00:55:46,166 --> 00:55:49,066
best writers I've ever read
1112
00:55:58,466 --> 00:56:00,033
love can be a gift
1113
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:05,966
hey hey there
1114
00:56:06,566 --> 00:56:11,433
um I got you something just a little something
1115
00:56:12,300 --> 00:56:13,133
you mentioned earlier
1116
00:56:13,133 --> 00:56:15,400
you want to get better at drawing down notes
1117
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:17,666
so I thought why not start now
1118
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:18,766
it's very silly
1119
00:56:18,766 --> 00:56:19,766
I can take you back what no
1120
00:56:19,766 --> 00:56:20,900
I know I love it
1121
00:56:20,966 --> 00:56:25,000
it's perfect okay cool
1122
00:56:26,333 --> 00:56:28,333
if you're free Saturday
1123
00:56:28,333 --> 00:56:30,666
would you want to come to my parents anniversary party
1124
00:56:32,300 --> 00:56:36,900
oh I guess you have a vacant plus 1 then huh
1125
00:56:36,900 --> 00:56:40,666
no no I just thought it might be good field research
1126
00:56:40,666 --> 00:56:43,433
you know the power renewals
1127
00:56:43,666 --> 00:56:46,866
no and maybe fun
1128
00:56:47,100 --> 00:56:50,133
yeah um that sounds nice
1129
00:56:50,133 --> 00:56:51,800
it's to date
1130
00:56:53,533 --> 00:56:55,633
there's love and romance
1131
00:56:55,700 --> 00:56:58,700
I didn't I'm saying here you are
1132
00:56:58,700 --> 00:57:01,100
my writers from the love and romance section
1133
00:57:01,100 --> 00:57:02,000
oh yes yeah
1134
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:02,800
here we are
1135
00:57:04,100 --> 00:57:06,000
could I see the two of you in my office
1136
00:57:14,100 --> 00:57:16,200
and I just wanna say again
1137
00:57:16,266 --> 00:57:19,600
you did amazing work on the 15 unique dates piece
1138
00:57:19,900 --> 00:57:23,066
but but we've been a ton of emails about
1139
00:57:23,066 --> 00:57:25,733
the sudden drop off in the me and tea column oh
1140
00:57:25,733 --> 00:57:27,900
the series was a bigger favorite than I thought
1141
00:57:28,266 --> 00:57:30,533
you know that the list of goals and day tips are fun
1142
00:57:30,533 --> 00:57:32,133
but we need something with more Oof
1143
00:57:32,133 --> 00:57:33,900
and I've been trying to think of a way of
1144
00:57:33,900 --> 00:57:36,766
moving forward with it to keep with the real life theme
1145
00:57:36,766 --> 00:57:38,766
but also be inspirational
1146
00:57:38,766 --> 00:57:42,566
but the real life story ended in a unexplained breakup
1147
00:57:44,133 --> 00:57:45,166
but maybe not permanently
1148
00:57:45,166 --> 00:57:47,966
I mean maybe it's a story about fighting for love
1149
00:57:47,966 --> 00:57:49,266
getting him back
1150
00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:53,366
or it could be a story about you know letting go
1151
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:55,866
moving on starting a new
1152
00:57:58,066 --> 00:57:59,566
all Mason ideas
1153
00:57:59,566 --> 00:58:01,000
just brainstorming
1154
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:02,933
I think there are many ways we can go
1155
00:58:02,933 --> 00:58:04,900
either tying up the me and t storyline
1156
00:58:04,900 --> 00:58:08,066
or replacing it with something equally impactful
1157
00:58:08,133 --> 00:58:09,766
but I need something soon so
1158
00:58:09,766 --> 00:58:12,066
you can either submit pictures separately or together
1159
00:58:12,066 --> 00:58:13,700
whichever way you like
1160
00:58:13,933 --> 00:58:17,400
my instinct is to submit together yeah
1161
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:19,566
they say 2 heads are better than one
1162
00:58:20,500 --> 00:58:22,033
off your own okay
1163
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:26,900
the story of letting go
1164
00:58:26,900 --> 00:58:28,200
starting a new sorry
1165
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:29,733
I got a little overzealous in there
1166
00:58:29,733 --> 00:58:31,000
didn't I thought that way
1167
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:32,966
oh I was just spitballing you know
1168
00:58:32,966 --> 00:58:33,733
we've got our plan
1169
00:58:33,733 --> 00:58:37,966
we're on track to get Tom back uh
1170
00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:40,366
how do you feel about that anyway
1171
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:42,166
think the plan's working
1172
00:58:42,166 --> 00:58:43,933
my coffee with Thomas tomorrow
1173
00:58:43,933 --> 00:58:46,466
and you will be proud to know the asked you today
1174
00:58:46,466 --> 00:58:47,800
I said I was too busy
1175
00:58:47,866 --> 00:58:50,033
I also made him come to my side of town
1176
00:58:50,266 --> 00:58:51,800
student has become the master
1177
00:58:53,300 --> 00:58:54,800
oh we have a work cut out
1178
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:56,733
for us to find a mean tea replacement
1179
00:58:56,733 --> 00:58:58,200
do you wanna meet up later no
1180
00:58:58,200 --> 00:58:59,200
actually I can't um
1181
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:00,966
I have to help my dad
1182
00:59:00,966 --> 00:59:02,933
but you could come there
1183
00:59:02,933 --> 00:59:04,700
and we could brainstorm while I work
1184
00:59:05,133 --> 00:59:06,433
I could swing that
1185
00:59:06,700 --> 00:59:07,866
great great
1186
00:59:17,300 --> 00:59:20,033
hello hello yourself
1187
00:59:20,300 --> 00:59:22,066
you must be Karina yeah hi
1188
00:59:22,100 --> 00:59:23,600
I'm Liam's dad Milton
1189
00:59:23,666 --> 00:59:25,700
nice to meet you nice to meet you Karina
1190
00:59:25,866 --> 00:59:28,100
I've heard a lot about you what
1191
00:59:29,533 --> 00:59:31,800
no you haven't haha
1192
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:32,500
good things
1193
00:59:32,500 --> 00:59:35,600
I hope nothing about me being your tractical tyrant
1194
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:37,433
haha good things only
1195
00:59:37,766 --> 00:59:39,433
this is really beautiful mountain
1196
00:59:39,500 --> 00:59:40,733
thank you Karina
1197
00:59:40,733 --> 00:59:44,000
it is a hobby that has gotten completely out of control
1198
00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:45,300
he's just being modest
1199
00:59:45,300 --> 00:59:47,266
he's opening this place up to the community soon
1200
00:59:47,266 --> 00:59:49,800
it's like a park or a botanical garden
1201
00:59:50,733 --> 00:59:54,266
it's a big deal in honor of Liam's mother
1202
00:59:54,500 --> 00:59:55,833
we used to collaborate
1203
00:59:56,300 --> 00:59:57,866
she taught me everything I know
1204
00:59:59,700 --> 01:00:01,066
well look it's time for this
1205
01:00:01,066 --> 01:00:02,166
old gardener to take a little break
1206
01:00:02,166 --> 01:00:04,066
I'll I'll leave you two to it
1207
01:00:04,366 --> 01:00:05,300
lovely to meet you
1208
01:00:05,300 --> 01:00:07,433
you too shall we
1209
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:10,100
yes we shall
1210
01:00:12,100 --> 01:00:13,800
what about a letter to readers
1211
01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:15,666
just bringing everything down to earth
1212
01:00:15,666 --> 01:00:17,000
coming clean about Tom
1213
01:00:17,066 --> 01:00:18,466
no that again
1214
01:00:18,466 --> 01:00:20,433
just say it the way it is
1215
01:00:21,766 --> 01:00:23,700
you can be real when things aren't going well
1216
01:00:23,700 --> 01:00:25,300
how come you can't be real when they aren't
1217
01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:29,666
my readers look to me for guidance and inspiration
1218
01:00:29,866 --> 01:00:32,633
not sulking and naval gazing
1219
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:35,100
it's a moot point anyway because we don't know
1220
01:00:35,100 --> 01:00:38,800
how situations gonna turn out is murky narratively
1221
01:00:40,066 --> 01:00:42,000
what about you any fun personal stories
1222
01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:43,666
you wanna get into not especially
1223
01:00:43,666 --> 01:00:45,266
what about your parents ceremony
1224
01:00:45,533 --> 01:00:47,000
I can't even write it
1225
01:00:47,100 --> 01:00:48,800
much less right about writing it
1226
01:00:50,733 --> 01:00:53,000
my brain hurts mine too
1227
01:00:55,933 --> 01:00:59,833
I have an idea follow me okay
1228
01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:05,066
love means being honest with each other
1229
01:01:12,733 --> 01:01:14,633
whenever I'm stuck creatively I
1230
01:01:15,900 --> 01:01:16,600
helpful to you know
1231
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:20,866
do something tactile being in the now but with dirt
1232
01:01:22,166 --> 01:01:23,166
you joke but that's yeah
1233
01:01:23,166 --> 01:01:24,366
that's pretty much it
1234
01:01:25,266 --> 01:01:26,300
it's really nice of you to help
1235
01:01:26,300 --> 01:01:27,600
your dad with this garden
1236
01:01:27,966 --> 01:01:28,966
are you kidding
1237
01:01:29,600 --> 01:01:30,900
he does not need my help
1238
01:01:30,900 --> 01:01:33,066
this this is secretly selfish
1239
01:01:33,066 --> 01:01:35,500
it's the best excuse to procrastinate
1240
01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:42,633
he loves the classics
1241
01:01:43,966 --> 01:01:47,500
actually not pointed away from him outside a window
1242
01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:53,166
oh yeah this could be a good unique date idea
1243
01:01:53,333 --> 01:01:54,466
we still have time
1244
01:01:54,466 --> 01:01:57,000
there's a lot of potential and metaphors
1245
01:01:57,000 --> 01:02:01,800
like repotting oneself or finding new love
1246
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:05,200
now let's just save this one for ourselves
1247
01:02:14,733 --> 01:02:18,800
I have a confession to make I read your book
1248
01:02:20,533 --> 01:02:24,766
no that thing it's really good
1249
01:02:25,500 --> 01:02:28,800
it's more than really good Liam no it's amazing
1250
01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:33,233
it's like your dad and your mom's garden
1251
01:02:35,200 --> 01:02:39,500
what I'm trying to say is you're a brilliant novelist
1252
01:02:39,500 --> 01:02:41,566
and I don't know why you try and hide it
1253
01:02:41,666 --> 01:02:43,266
because it was a complete failure
1254
01:02:44,133 --> 01:02:45,933
on what terms
1255
01:02:45,933 --> 01:02:47,900
took me five years to write that book
1256
01:02:48,933 --> 01:02:50,400
amounted to nothing
1257
01:02:50,566 --> 01:02:52,166
you know all those years lost
1258
01:02:52,300 --> 01:02:53,566
you really think that
1259
01:02:54,500 --> 01:02:57,566
I disagree I think in the grand scheme of things
1260
01:02:57,566 --> 01:02:58,533
that brought you to where you were
1261
01:02:58,533 --> 01:03:01,300
supposed to be even if it's with me here
1262
01:03:01,300 --> 01:03:03,433
writing articles about speed dating
1263
01:03:05,166 --> 01:03:07,866
speaking of no time lost
1264
01:03:08,100 --> 01:03:10,100
maybe there's something in your theory that can be
1265
01:03:10,100 --> 01:03:13,866
applied to your term related situation like what
1266
01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:15,466
keep trying
1267
01:03:15,966 --> 01:03:19,500
no when I asked you why you wanted Tom back
1268
01:03:19,500 --> 01:03:20,366
you said that
1269
01:03:20,566 --> 01:03:22,766
all that time couldn't have been for nothing
1270
01:03:22,766 --> 01:03:23,566
but what if
1271
01:03:23,566 --> 01:03:26,500
those years brought you to where you need to be
1272
01:03:26,533 --> 01:03:27,966
even if you don't end up with Tom
1273
01:03:31,700 --> 01:03:35,033
I think it's a mistake going back to him
1274
01:03:36,566 --> 01:03:38,000
he broke up with you
1275
01:03:39,566 --> 01:03:43,033
say why I asked you you deserve better
1276
01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:46,600
she go
1277
01:03:50,300 --> 01:03:55,866
I'll email Rhonda the 15 unique date ideas tonight
1278
01:03:56,100 --> 01:03:59,700
um we should give the speed dating article another stat
1279
01:03:59,700 --> 01:04:01,700
that you should crack at it on your own
1280
01:04:02,166 --> 01:04:04,800
what aren't you worried that I'm gonna
1281
01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:05,700
you know go rogue
1282
01:04:05,700 --> 01:04:07,533
mess things up and the whole love
1283
01:04:07,533 --> 01:04:10,066
and romance section up in flames a little
1284
01:04:11,500 --> 01:04:12,966
and I've seen what you can do
1285
01:04:14,766 --> 01:04:16,200
thanks for inviting me
1286
01:04:17,466 --> 01:04:20,900
thanks for everything luck with your coffee tomorrow
1287
01:05:29,733 --> 01:05:32,500
love contempt you to hold on to the past
1288
01:05:39,700 --> 01:05:43,000
hi hey sorry I'm late
1289
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:44,266
no no it's okay
1290
01:05:44,866 --> 01:05:47,500
just so unlike you shaking things up
1291
01:05:47,500 --> 01:05:48,566
you know uh
1292
01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:51,000
the work just been really crazy
1293
01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:52,600
yeah isn't it
1294
01:05:53,166 --> 01:05:55,766
Maritza and Frank's anniversary party this weekend too
1295
01:05:55,766 --> 01:05:56,600
yeah that's right
1296
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:59,733
I remember of course it meant a lot to me
1297
01:05:59,733 --> 01:06:02,166
they uh they mean a lot to me
1298
01:06:04,700 --> 01:06:07,900
Karina I wanna be there this weekend
1299
01:06:09,333 --> 01:06:12,266
oh as a friend of the family
1300
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:14,466
I'm sure we'll make some room no
1301
01:06:14,466 --> 01:06:16,166
not not just as a friend of the family
1302
01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:19,366
I think I made a mistake
1303
01:06:20,733 --> 01:06:21,933
when I saw you the other day
1304
01:06:21,933 --> 01:06:25,833
it was just like something jogged in my memory
1305
01:06:27,600 --> 01:06:29,366
we've been through so much together
1306
01:06:32,133 --> 01:06:35,366
I mean with history we've made plans together
1307
01:06:35,966 --> 01:06:38,800
we're gonna grow old together what you said
1308
01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:43,700
I don't know Tom
1309
01:06:43,700 --> 01:06:48,000
I'm a it's been really confusing time you know and I
1310
01:06:48,266 --> 01:06:51,600
you should come this weekend as friend of the family
1311
01:06:51,700 --> 01:06:54,066
I think that'd be nice um
1312
01:06:54,133 --> 01:06:57,466
I just need time to think of course
1313
01:06:58,266 --> 01:06:59,900
yeah yeah I know you're methodical
1314
01:06:59,900 --> 01:07:02,833
so thank you for your good plan
1315
01:07:10,733 --> 01:07:12,933
Karina just wanted to say
1316
01:07:12,933 --> 01:07:15,166
great job on that 15 dates article
1317
01:07:15,166 --> 01:07:17,966
it had pop a just the right amount of humor
1318
01:07:17,966 --> 01:07:18,966
a lot of heart
1319
01:07:18,966 --> 01:07:20,466
thank you happy with it too
1320
01:07:20,466 --> 01:07:23,366
also Liam's PC submitted early this morning
1321
01:07:23,366 --> 01:07:25,400
is exactly what the site means just uh
1322
01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:26,333
remarkable wow
1323
01:07:26,333 --> 01:07:27,300
he sent it in already
1324
01:07:27,300 --> 01:07:28,500
that was fast
1325
01:07:28,666 --> 01:07:30,700
great delegating
1326
01:07:36,100 --> 01:07:39,300
hey hey how's coffee
1327
01:07:39,466 --> 01:07:43,366
it's alright Tom wanna get back together he does
1328
01:07:44,800 --> 01:07:46,966
congratulations well done
1329
01:07:47,733 --> 01:07:50,600
I guess you want your plus 1 back for Saturday
1330
01:07:50,600 --> 01:07:52,466
no I'd really like for you to go
1331
01:07:52,466 --> 01:07:55,033
yeah don't really feel like being a third wheel
1332
01:07:55,133 --> 01:07:58,566
it's not like that I don't even know what's going on
1333
01:07:58,566 --> 01:08:00,166
meeting starting everyone
1334
01:08:01,466 --> 01:08:04,733
oh Rhonda was over the moon about our 15 Days article
1335
01:08:04,733 --> 01:08:05,100
and actually
1336
01:08:05,100 --> 01:08:07,933
I wanted to talk to you about that before we go in um
1337
01:08:07,933 --> 01:08:09,066
Modern Romance
1338
01:08:09,166 --> 01:08:11,400
let's get going to be continued
1339
01:08:14,900 --> 01:08:16,666
alright then and now
1340
01:08:16,666 --> 01:08:19,766
for something new and exciting in love and Romance
1341
01:08:19,766 --> 01:08:23,100
Liam has just sent him his first solo article
1342
01:08:23,400 --> 01:08:25,666
it's not ready for publication quite yet
1343
01:08:25,666 --> 01:08:29,400
but close 10 reasons you should not go back to him
1344
01:08:30,166 --> 01:08:32,866
this is exactly the kind of mail point of view
1345
01:08:32,866 --> 01:08:35,266
that's gonna add a new dynamic to our website
1346
01:08:35,500 --> 01:08:36,666
is it ellustical
1347
01:08:37,166 --> 01:08:39,400
no it's it's more of an essay
1348
01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:40,933
it's first person direct address
1349
01:08:40,933 --> 01:08:43,633
it reads like like a like a letter to a friend
1350
01:08:45,966 --> 01:08:47,500
actually thought that I think about it
1351
01:08:47,500 --> 01:08:49,866
this would be the perfect replacement for me and t
1352
01:08:49,866 --> 01:08:52,066
is this what you had in mind when you submit it please
1353
01:08:54,366 --> 01:08:58,933
um I hadn't originally thought of it like that
1354
01:08:58,933 --> 01:09:02,566
but I'm a manable Karina what do you think
1355
01:09:05,200 --> 01:09:08,300
it's great just the perspective we need
1356
01:09:18,066 --> 01:09:21,166
Karina reasons shouldn't go back to him
1357
01:09:21,866 --> 01:09:23,033
what are you trying to do
1358
01:09:23,466 --> 01:09:24,800
get in the last word
1359
01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:25,900
prove yourself right
1360
01:09:25,900 --> 01:09:26,800
getting good with Rhonda
1361
01:09:26,800 --> 01:09:27,966
what no look
1362
01:09:27,966 --> 01:09:28,533
I think you should
1363
01:09:28,533 --> 01:09:30,900
at least read the article before you get so upset
1364
01:09:30,900 --> 01:09:31,700
I don't need to read it
1365
01:09:31,700 --> 01:09:32,900
I get the gist
1366
01:09:33,366 --> 01:09:36,100
you see me look clueless in front of my colleagues
1367
01:09:36,100 --> 01:09:36,933
to my readers
1368
01:09:36,933 --> 01:09:38,766
nobody knows that you is you
1369
01:09:38,766 --> 01:09:39,900
but it is me
1370
01:09:40,300 --> 01:09:42,466
and it won't take much time to figure that out
1371
01:09:42,966 --> 01:09:45,433
you push me again and again
1372
01:09:45,500 --> 01:09:47,433
to get into my personal life
1373
01:09:47,500 --> 01:09:49,766
and my resistance isn't because I'm afraid
1374
01:09:49,766 --> 01:09:50,966
or I'm hiding
1375
01:09:51,266 --> 01:09:53,366
it's because of who I have to be for my readers
1376
01:09:53,366 --> 01:09:54,400
and you're undercutting that
1377
01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:56,000
I honestly didn't think I was overstepping
1378
01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:57,466
or that you'd be this upset
1379
01:09:57,466 --> 01:09:58,133
course you did
1380
01:09:58,133 --> 01:09:59,766
that's why you went behind my back
1381
01:09:59,766 --> 01:10:00,500
no wait that
1382
01:10:00,500 --> 01:10:02,300
that is not what happened
1383
01:10:03,133 --> 01:10:05,300
I was I was working on the
1384
01:10:05,300 --> 01:10:06,900
on the article for the speed dating
1385
01:10:06,900 --> 01:10:11,666
and I got inspired by you to write this other
1386
01:10:11,666 --> 01:10:12,866
better piece
1387
01:10:12,866 --> 01:10:14,466
and so I just went with it
1388
01:10:14,466 --> 01:10:15,200
and it felt right
1389
01:10:15,200 --> 01:10:15,966
and I was excited
1390
01:10:15,966 --> 01:10:17,100
so I sent it in
1391
01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:20,366
I'm not trying to put you down or scold your voice Liam
1392
01:10:21,866 --> 01:10:24,066
I just thought we were on the same team
1393
01:10:24,900 --> 01:10:26,233
I thought so too
1394
01:10:32,400 --> 01:10:34,100
clean it not now
1395
01:10:42,466 --> 01:10:44,633
oh mama you look beautiful
1396
01:10:45,100 --> 01:10:46,733
Laura have you seen my reading glasses
1397
01:10:46,733 --> 01:10:49,200
dad you can't see the bride for the ceremony
1398
01:10:50,133 --> 01:10:51,266
so catch me up
1399
01:10:51,333 --> 01:10:52,500
Tom's coming to the party
1400
01:10:52,500 --> 01:10:54,266
but things aren't back on
1401
01:10:54,900 --> 01:10:55,733
I don't know
1402
01:10:55,733 --> 01:10:56,933
I'm so confused
1403
01:10:56,933 --> 01:10:59,200
it's like I finally got what I wanted
1404
01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:01,100
but I forgot that I wanted it
1405
01:11:01,100 --> 01:11:03,000
is it when you say a word over and over again
1406
01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:06,466
and just stops making sense really hurt you
1407
01:11:06,566 --> 01:11:08,366
it's understandable to be wary
1408
01:11:08,533 --> 01:11:10,366
yeah maybe time will tell
1409
01:11:10,466 --> 01:11:11,533
I must admit
1410
01:11:11,533 --> 01:11:13,733
I was a little bit curious about this work
1411
01:11:13,733 --> 01:11:15,566
colleague that kept coming up
1412
01:11:15,566 --> 01:11:18,200
who surprised you with his beautiful writing
1413
01:11:18,733 --> 01:11:22,400
yeah I thought that might be something special but um
1414
01:11:22,966 --> 01:11:24,200
turns out it's not
1415
01:12:57,333 --> 01:12:58,900
um hey what's
1416
01:12:58,900 --> 01:12:59,900
what's going on here
1417
01:13:00,533 --> 01:13:02,600
I'm going back to New York
1418
01:13:02,600 --> 01:13:03,600
back to H W
1419
01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:06,400
new position opened up better than my last one
1420
01:13:07,566 --> 01:13:11,666
oh um congratulations
1421
01:13:12,733 --> 01:13:15,600
thanks alright
1422
01:13:15,700 --> 01:13:17,366
are you writing something more substantial
1423
01:13:17,366 --> 01:13:19,600
using your skills
1424
01:13:20,900 --> 01:13:22,766
yeah you overestimate me I'm
1425
01:13:23,733 --> 01:13:26,666
I'm happy going back to just being that guy
1426
01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:35,300
it's more money you know more my speed
1427
01:13:36,100 --> 01:13:37,700
it's it's a no brainer really
1428
01:13:40,333 --> 01:13:44,500
I'm I'm sorry we fought or um
1429
01:13:44,933 --> 01:13:47,600
misunderstood each other I'm sorry too I
1430
01:13:48,266 --> 01:13:51,000
I shouldn't never submitted the article the way I did
1431
01:13:59,733 --> 01:14:03,600
thanks I can't believe you're leaving um
1432
01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:07,966
let's face it I was never really a good fit
1433
01:14:14,400 --> 01:14:15,400
I uh
1434
01:14:16,933 --> 01:14:20,600
I Learned a lot from you so thank you
1435
01:14:22,533 --> 01:14:24,866
you're an extraordinary writer
1436
01:14:32,533 --> 01:14:34,233
Karina will you come to my office
1437
01:14:41,266 --> 01:14:42,200
sorry I know
1438
01:14:42,200 --> 01:14:45,100
this doesn't bode well for my collaboration skills
1439
01:14:45,200 --> 01:14:47,033
Liam leaving yes
1440
01:14:47,133 --> 01:14:48,766
oh you're wrong about that
1441
01:14:49,166 --> 01:14:51,333
he wrote a glowing email where he talked about
1442
01:14:51,333 --> 01:14:53,500
how he thought you were an amazing collaborator
1443
01:14:53,500 --> 01:14:54,766
it almost read like a
1444
01:14:54,766 --> 01:14:57,833
like a letter recommendation oh
1445
01:14:58,800 --> 01:15:01,466
but I called you in here because I'd like your help
1446
01:15:01,466 --> 01:15:02,833
editing his article
1447
01:15:02,966 --> 01:15:04,966
I printed it out at some of my notes
1448
01:15:04,966 --> 01:15:06,433
but I'd like your input
1449
01:15:10,666 --> 01:15:12,866
reasons you should not go back to
1450
01:15:14,400 --> 01:15:16,900
um I will have this to you by Monday
1451
01:15:17,800 --> 01:15:19,300
it's a shame he's leaving
1452
01:15:19,666 --> 01:15:21,500
I thought you two had a good dynamic
1453
01:15:27,300 --> 01:15:29,766
love can sometimes mean letting go
1454
01:15:34,533 --> 01:15:36,333
do you mind if I step aside to work on the speech
1455
01:15:36,333 --> 01:15:36,866
for a second
1456
01:15:36,866 --> 01:15:39,233
I suppose I can manage good luck
1457
01:15:49,400 --> 01:15:53,633
hey hey you're early
1458
01:15:53,766 --> 01:15:55,100
yeah I thought I'd come early to
1459
01:15:55,100 --> 01:15:56,766
see if you guys needed help setting up
1460
01:15:57,200 --> 01:15:58,200
it's nice of you
1461
01:15:58,866 --> 01:15:59,566
now sit down
1462
01:15:59,566 --> 01:16:00,766
yeah I'd love to
1463
01:16:03,900 --> 01:16:05,900
so so
1464
01:16:08,100 --> 01:16:09,233
how's the speech coming
1465
01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:13,200
oh it's been challenging yeah yeah
1466
01:16:13,200 --> 01:16:17,200
I think I took for granted how much I knew and then
1467
01:16:18,466 --> 01:16:19,533
when you left
1468
01:16:19,533 --> 01:16:22,266
it felt so out of the blue
1469
01:16:22,266 --> 01:16:25,200
and it just turned everything upside down
1470
01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:29,066
I think because I didn't understand why
1471
01:16:31,566 --> 01:16:33,366
is this really the best small talk
1472
01:16:33,366 --> 01:16:35,000
leading up to your parents powerno
1473
01:16:36,300 --> 01:16:37,100
okay
1474
01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:40,033
well I mean
1475
01:16:40,166 --> 01:16:43,600
I guess I thought I felt disconnected from you
1476
01:16:44,600 --> 01:16:48,266
and I felt like I didn't know where your column ended
1477
01:16:48,266 --> 01:16:50,000
and our relationship began
1478
01:16:51,266 --> 01:16:55,300
but I I process it and I'm ready to move forward
1479
01:17:00,000 --> 01:17:03,166
I think the distance you sent between us was real
1480
01:17:05,100 --> 01:17:06,500
for a long time
1481
01:17:07,766 --> 01:17:10,166
instead of trying to deal with it
1482
01:17:10,166 --> 01:17:12,666
I just clunk the idea of what I thought it was
1483
01:17:12,666 --> 01:17:13,633
supposed to be
1484
01:17:17,133 --> 01:17:18,066
and you're right
1485
01:17:18,066 --> 01:17:20,500
I did make us into one of my columns
1486
01:17:22,500 --> 01:17:25,266
and when you ended things I thought you were wrong
1487
01:17:25,266 --> 01:17:27,833
I thought this is something that could be fixed
1488
01:17:28,066 --> 01:17:29,333
and of course you can't
1489
01:17:29,333 --> 01:17:32,566
this is not the kind of thing that can be fixed
1490
01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:34,600
no
1491
01:17:38,266 --> 01:17:41,700
but you were the one brave enough to acknowledge that
1492
01:17:44,266 --> 01:17:45,766
and I had to go mess everything up
1493
01:17:45,766 --> 01:17:48,066
by trying to make everything right again
1494
01:17:51,133 --> 01:17:52,400
I'm sorry
1495
01:17:56,133 --> 01:17:57,366
I'm sorry too
1496
01:18:04,466 --> 01:18:05,166
hey don't worry dad
1497
01:18:05,166 --> 01:18:06,766
I'll fly out on long weekend
1498
01:18:06,766 --> 01:18:08,466
so I can keep helping you with all this
1499
01:18:08,466 --> 01:18:09,766
well thank you
1500
01:18:09,766 --> 01:18:12,466
and I both know I don't technically need your help son
1501
01:18:13,100 --> 01:18:15,166
I just humor you cause I like your company
1502
01:18:17,066 --> 01:18:18,866
and I gotta tell you I don't understand I
1503
01:18:19,000 --> 01:18:21,500
I thought you were really enjoying this park life job
1504
01:18:21,500 --> 01:18:25,600
you know that 15 dates article had so much warmth
1505
01:18:26,100 --> 01:18:27,966
tell the two of you loved writing it
1506
01:18:31,266 --> 01:18:33,100
look I might be going out of the limb here son
1507
01:18:33,100 --> 01:18:35,600
but this is a sudden departure
1508
01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:37,066
have anything to do with Karina
1509
01:18:38,733 --> 01:18:42,500
no the job is more money and it's more my speed
1510
01:18:43,366 --> 01:18:44,966
I don't know what needs explaining
1511
01:18:52,566 --> 01:18:56,233
yeah okay if maybe if things were different
1512
01:18:56,933 --> 01:18:58,900
you know it would have been motivation to stay
1513
01:18:58,900 --> 01:19:01,100
but they're not
1514
01:19:02,333 --> 01:19:03,266
and how are they then
1515
01:19:04,566 --> 01:19:09,433
she's back with Tom her former ex now current boyfriend
1516
01:19:09,700 --> 01:19:11,400
she chose him over me
1517
01:19:12,066 --> 01:19:13,600
did she even know she had a choice
1518
01:19:15,366 --> 01:19:17,166
yes I'm sure she had to
1519
01:19:17,900 --> 01:19:18,566
even though
1520
01:19:18,566 --> 01:19:21,033
you were the one helping her get this Tom guy back
1521
01:19:21,800 --> 01:19:24,200
you don't think that could be just a tad confusing
1522
01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:30,900
son life's too short to take the easy road
1523
01:19:31,666 --> 01:19:33,000
protecting yourself
1524
01:19:33,366 --> 01:19:36,000
saving yourself the trouble of taking the next big risk
1525
01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:37,700
I watched you do that with your writing
1526
01:19:37,700 --> 01:19:39,766
and now I'm watching you run away
1527
01:19:39,766 --> 01:19:41,000
from falling in love
1528
01:19:42,466 --> 01:19:44,166
and I know that you're better than that
1529
01:19:45,466 --> 01:19:46,366
you do too
1530
01:20:15,066 --> 01:20:16,566
are you the person I talk to if I'm
1531
01:20:16,566 --> 01:20:19,466
having cold feet hey daddy
1532
01:20:22,566 --> 01:20:25,500
I think it's about Showtime
1533
01:20:26,733 --> 01:20:27,766
what do you got there
1534
01:20:27,800 --> 01:20:32,700
I think it's a love letter oh that seems a proposal
1535
01:20:36,133 --> 01:20:38,800
you ready as I'll ever be
1536
01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:47,400
love means taking a leap of faith
1537
01:20:48,566 --> 01:20:50,033
welcome everybody
1538
01:20:50,066 --> 01:20:53,166
as we convene to celebrate this inspiring couple
1539
01:20:53,166 --> 01:20:55,800
I'm lucky enough to call my mom and dad
1540
01:20:57,500 --> 01:20:58,966
they love each other so much
1541
01:20:58,966 --> 01:21:01,666
they want another chance to express their vows
1542
01:21:01,666 --> 01:21:03,066
and share them with us
1543
01:21:03,666 --> 01:21:06,066
my sister and I didn't get to witness that
1544
01:21:06,066 --> 01:21:07,066
the first round
1545
01:21:10,266 --> 01:21:12,666
the poet E e Cummings once wrote
1546
01:21:13,133 --> 01:21:16,100
love is the voice under all silences
1547
01:21:16,933 --> 01:21:19,500
the hope which has no opposite in fear
1548
01:21:20,366 --> 01:21:24,033
and I think what he meant by that is that um
1549
01:21:41,200 --> 01:21:42,600
as some of you may know
1550
01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:45,500
I write for a column about love
1551
01:21:45,966 --> 01:21:46,900
and that technically
1552
01:21:46,900 --> 01:21:48,966
I have some sort of extra special knowledge
1553
01:21:48,966 --> 01:21:50,100
on the subject
1554
01:21:50,866 --> 01:21:52,166
and when I was preparing this speech
1555
01:21:52,166 --> 01:21:53,466
I turned towards
1556
01:21:53,466 --> 01:21:56,900
15 different love experts to try and say something
1557
01:21:56,966 --> 01:21:58,100
illuminating
1558
01:21:58,600 --> 01:22:01,700
but today I think I'll just shoot from the hip
1559
01:22:04,733 --> 01:22:08,400
recently I've been realizing that there isn't one right
1560
01:22:08,400 --> 01:22:11,433
way to go about love
1561
01:22:11,966 --> 01:22:14,466
that it can't be conquered
1562
01:22:14,466 --> 01:22:17,500
it can't be succeeded at
1563
01:22:17,500 --> 01:22:19,266
it can't be outsmarted
1564
01:22:20,766 --> 01:22:23,600
if you lose it doesn't mean that you failed
1565
01:22:25,766 --> 01:22:29,500
it can be scary it can
1566
01:22:33,733 --> 01:22:37,366
show up when you least expect it
1567
01:22:43,366 --> 01:22:44,966
it can be challenging
1568
01:22:46,166 --> 01:22:48,600
but what a relief right
1569
01:22:48,600 --> 01:22:52,666
that sometimes love knows better than us
1570
01:22:53,966 --> 01:22:56,633
and I have to say I have an extra little edge
1571
01:22:57,166 --> 01:23:00,100
understanding love because I have these two
1572
01:23:00,600 --> 01:23:02,033
as an example
1573
01:23:03,933 --> 01:23:06,033
so let's get started shall we
1574
01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:17,033
hey hey
1575
01:23:19,866 --> 01:23:22,200
I heard your speech yeah
1576
01:23:22,466 --> 01:23:25,366
I have a rebuttal okay
1577
01:23:25,733 --> 01:23:27,800
regarding this whole premise of
1578
01:23:27,800 --> 01:23:30,200
they're not being a right and wrong
1579
01:23:30,200 --> 01:23:32,966
I think there is a right after all
1580
01:23:33,766 --> 01:23:36,166
and it's that you you and I are
1581
01:23:36,600 --> 01:23:38,800
a right for each other and we should be together
1582
01:23:41,066 --> 01:23:42,500
I know you're with Tom
1583
01:23:42,700 --> 01:23:46,566
but the Elevator Pitcher version is that uh
1584
01:23:47,766 --> 01:23:50,433
I'm in love with you and
1585
01:23:52,966 --> 01:23:55,700
in um in the spirit of our mutual endeavors
1586
01:23:55,700 --> 01:23:57,766
I I made a list of reasons why we'd be good together I
1587
01:23:57,766 --> 01:24:00,033
I wrote it on the car on the way over 6 not really
1588
01:24:02,300 --> 01:24:04,466
but I thought I wanna be with you
1589
01:24:12,766 --> 01:24:15,900
do you wanna see the list I know I I don't see the list
1590
01:24:16,266 --> 01:24:18,566
I'm sure it's a very well written list
1591
01:24:29,966 --> 01:24:34,233
unrequited love it's just love baby
1592
01:24:35,533 --> 01:24:36,900
to catch us all up
1593
01:24:37,266 --> 01:24:40,666
we're gonna have to say a temporary goodbye to Karina
1594
01:24:41,066 --> 01:24:45,500
who is going on sabbatical to write her book
1595
01:24:46,900 --> 01:24:48,166
and in the interim
1596
01:24:48,166 --> 01:24:50,500
Liam will be taking over love and romance
1597
01:24:50,500 --> 01:24:52,900
which I find delightfully poetic
1598
01:24:53,066 --> 01:24:54,466
what's your book going to be
1599
01:24:54,533 --> 01:24:59,600
essays less DOS and don'ts more learning as we go
1600
01:25:01,066 --> 01:25:03,366
are you ready for your last assignment yes
1601
01:25:03,366 --> 01:25:06,900
a fond temporary farewell to my readers
1602
01:25:07,200 --> 01:25:09,466
we'll miss you I won't be far
1603
01:25:18,666 --> 01:25:20,500
so dear readers
1604
01:25:20,500 --> 01:25:23,700
it turns out I was consumed by fixing things with tea
1605
01:25:23,700 --> 01:25:25,100
and winning him back
1606
01:25:26,900 --> 01:25:29,133
it has been my job to classify
1607
01:25:29,133 --> 01:25:31,166
and enumerate matters of the heart
1608
01:25:33,300 --> 01:25:35,366
I seek concrete answers
1609
01:25:35,400 --> 01:25:37,200
my goal is to give people hope
1610
01:25:37,200 --> 01:25:38,866
and let them know they're not alone
1611
01:25:40,533 --> 01:25:43,133
but at the risk of demoting myself in your eyes
1612
01:25:43,133 --> 01:25:46,633
I must confess love is mysterious
1613
01:25:46,733 --> 01:25:48,500
it's not something you master
1614
01:25:48,500 --> 01:25:49,700
it's capricious
1615
01:25:49,700 --> 01:25:51,066
it's unpredictable
1616
01:25:51,300 --> 01:25:53,866
no matter how much you try to encapsulate it
1617
01:25:56,166 --> 01:25:57,433
it's imperfect
1618
01:25:57,600 --> 01:26:00,333
even if you try your hardest to fix everything
1619
01:26:00,333 --> 01:26:01,900
and make it just right
1620
01:26:02,766 --> 01:26:03,900
if you're lucky
1621
01:26:03,900 --> 01:26:06,833
you can find someone who will be in the moment with you
1622
01:26:06,900 --> 01:26:08,266
tell you the truth
1623
01:26:08,400 --> 01:26:10,166
someone who will call it like it is
1624
01:26:10,166 --> 01:26:13,566
and love you for who you are and can dance
1625
01:26:15,366 --> 01:26:18,266
love isn't a game to be won or lost
1626
01:26:18,566 --> 01:26:20,900
the years I spent with tea weren't lost
1627
01:26:21,000 --> 01:26:22,733
they all just helped to arrive
1628
01:26:22,733 --> 01:26:24,566
at the place I was meant to be
1629
01:26:26,666 --> 01:26:28,966
and that I know I'm right about
1630
01:26:31,866 --> 01:26:33,233
make it last
1631
01:28:16,000 --> 01:28:17,166
let's make it last
1632
01:28:31,700 --> 01:28:34,033
on my thoughts it's infuriate
1633
01:28:46,800 --> 01:28:50,033
want a kiss and you make me halfway
1634
01:29:16,100 --> 01:29:20,600
I think that more people should
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