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- Ten brave singles put
their hearts on the line
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in order to find love by
marrying a complete stranger.
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[cheering]
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But for one couple,
their journey
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ended before it even began.
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- I didn't see that
happening, but it did happen.
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- Clare and Cameron...
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[cheering]
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- I can't wait to
travel with my wife.
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I can't wait to
buy our first car.
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And I think,
from what I can tell,
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Clare is everything
that I wanted in a wife.
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- ♪ I'm gonna bump you up
to the top of my list ♪
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- Lauren and Orion...
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- He was like, damn,
you're worth it.
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- Mm-hmm.
- Like, he liked what he saw.
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- Thinking we're going
to lucky tonight?
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- Honestly,
I kind of don't want
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to do that the first night.
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- What if she wants to?
- Yeah.
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- Well, then I'm going to
have a really hard time.
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- Becca and Austin...
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- Where do you feel, like,
the comfortability level
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is tonight?
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- I definitely want to
snuggle him, kiss him again.
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But, like, medically, I don't
think I feel ready enough
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to do anything more.
- Yeah.
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- Just excited to
talk to him more.
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- We're going to go spend
our first night together,
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getting to know each other
on, like, a deeper level.
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- Emily and Brennan...
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- When you guys get
to the hotel room...
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- Are you going to whip out
the lingerie and the handcuffs?
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- We asked her about,
hey, sex tonight?
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And then what did she say?
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- She said, you know, I'm
open to whatever happens.
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- I should have you
talk to her more often.
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[laughter]
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- ♪ We hot, we hot, we hot
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- And tonight,
our four newlywed couples
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will begin the journey
of a lifetime...
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- Do it.
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- As they jump headfirst
into married life.
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- "Tomorrow you'll be heading
to the Grand...
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- Palladium...
both: Cancún, Mexico.
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- Viva la México!
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- Hello. I'm Clare.
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Where's your wife?
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- Oh, we'll get into that.
Don't worry.
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[all groan]
- Oh, no.
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- With your time living at
home, like, what are you doing?
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♪
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- He tends to be abrupt.
- Abrupt as in, like, a temper?
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- He gets a little temper.
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- Reality is going to slap
you in the face, girlfriend.
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♪
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- Would you say he's romantic?
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♪
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- No.
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- This could become a problem.
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♪
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- You didn't help me at all
through the airport.
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- I am--
Sorry, are you not able?
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- It's a kind gesture to help,
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and you definitely
were not helping me.
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- You weren't
helping me with my bag.
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♪
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- ♪ It's all or nothing
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- This is
"Married at First Sight."
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- ♪ There's no other way
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♪
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♪ It's all or nothing
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- ♪ I want to be
your everything ♪
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♪ Now, if I was everything
that you wanted ♪
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♪ Every little thing
that you need ♪
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- Here is a happily
married couple.
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- [laughs] It is pretty wild.
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But that night went well.
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- It was an amazing night.
- Yeah.
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- Do you have any, like,
quirks I should know about?
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Just be honest.
- Uh...
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As a man with facial hair,
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I can be a little lax on, you
know, just the rim of the sink.
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- It's in the sink.
- Just got to be mindful.
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- I think we couldn't have
expected a better night.
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- Jackpot, baby.
- What's next?
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- We're excited to go
into the honeymoon suite
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and spend some more time
getting to know each other.
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And, you know, we vibe really
well together, so...
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- Stay tuned.
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- Thank you, sir.
- You're welcome.
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- Independent woman.
You asked for it.
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- ♪ I want to explore
your boundaries ♪
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♪ Every little
thing that you do ♪
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♪
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- Did it.
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♪
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- Thank you.
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Wow.
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♪
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- [laughs] All right.
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- Do it.
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Nice.
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- I like to sleep on the
left side
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because I [bleep] up
my shoulder snowboarding.
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- Oh.
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- And it's not
optimal for cuddling.
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- Oh.
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So you're taking
one for the team.
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- Do this.
- I understand now.
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- Yes.
- [laughing] No, go that way.
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Go that way again.
[laughing]
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Go that way, yeah.
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I like to, like, snuggle
right before bed and then...
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- Separate?
- The partition.
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- [giggles]
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Sure.
- I'll see you at 10:00 a.m.
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- [giggles]
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- We will never go
to bed together.
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- We might not.
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- It's perfect.
We'll snuggle other times.
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- [laughs]
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It feels surprisingly easy
and, like, super natural.
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- No. No.
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No. Help.
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- She just brings a lot
of good vibes and energy.
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And it's been a long time
since I've felt that way
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about another person, so...
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- Help.
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I have to unbutton my buttons.
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They're very hard.
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Usually you're supposed to
have a crochet hook for them.
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- Actually, it would be nice
to have, like, a paperclip.
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It might be in here.
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- You brought a paperclip.
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- I'm certain it was in here.
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- Oh, no, you're all talk
about this paperclip.
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- I know.
- You could use that thing.
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- Yeah.
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♪
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- [laughs]
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♪
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You're really doing great.
- This is fun.
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Yeah, okay, it is easier
just to use my fingers.
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♪
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Okay, I got most of it.
- Yeah, that's great.
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- Because I got all but two.
- No, that's perfect.
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You've worked hard enough.
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- [laughs]
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- ♪ You've got a certain,
a certain time ♪
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♪ Call me up
any way you want ♪
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♪ I am waiting,
forever yours ♪
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- Yeah, this is as cute
as it gets
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and better than, like,
a baggy T-shirt
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that I would usually wear.
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Step up.
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This is his first
impression of me.
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I can't look like a slob
right off the bat.
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Or maybe I should have,
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and then it only goes up
from there.
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[bleep] up.
Let me get a baggy T-shirt.
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♪
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- Uh...hi.
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[chuckles]
I like your PJs.
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- I didn't expect you would be
in a baseball cap before bed.
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- Yep.
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- Do you wear it in bed, too?
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- Of course.
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- Okay.
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This feels great.
This feels right.
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This feels fun.
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Like, we're excited to
get to know each other.
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It's definitely relieving
to feel comfortable
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right off the bat--definitely.
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But I am deciding, like, when
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I'm going to talk
to my husband
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about all of my health stuff--
but likely tomorrow morning.
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Like, sometimes it's nice
to get to know someone
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when they don't know that
about me.
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- You're on my side?
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- Yes, just get into bed.
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Like, newlywed bliss.
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Like, let's just stay in that
for a little bit.
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Roll over me.
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[laughs]
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♪
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- Oh, yeah.
The light switch right here.
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♪
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[laughter]
All right. Hey.
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- Hey.
- Nice meeting you.
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- [laughing]
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It's so nice meeting you, too.
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I'll see you tomorrow and
every day until we die.
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[laughter]
- Happy marriage.
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♪
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- ♪ 'Cause this is my time
- ♪ Time
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- ♪ This is my chance
- ♪ Chance
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♪ This is everything
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- Look at this.
Did you see this?
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- I did.
I like this a lot.
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- So that's my side.
- [laughing] That's your side.
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- And that's your side.
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♪
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Cheers to our first night
as husband and wife.
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- Yeah. Cheers to our first
night as husband and wife.
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It's going to take
some used to saying.
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- Yes.
[laughs]
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Even when it comes out of
my mouth, I'm just like,
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when is it going
to feel normal?
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- Right?
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- Do you want to
get ready for bed,
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get a little bit
more comfortable?
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I want to get out
of these clothes.
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- Yeah. Yeah.
- Let's go to the bedroom.
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Yeah, that sounds good.
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I do need help taking
this dress off.
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It took three
people to do this,
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so don't feel bad
if you don't it right away.
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- Oh, no.
I got it.
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I got it.
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- ♪ Oh, you're so good
for me ♪
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- I'm so determined
on this one button.
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- You're like, I'm
not going to give up.
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- I've already committed.
- I love your tenacity.
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♪
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- ♪ You're so good for me
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♪ Oh, you're so good
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- Thank you.
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♪
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- Can you help me
with something?
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- Yeah.
- This yarn.
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Can you untie it?
- Yeah, for sure.
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- There's definitely
a lot of attraction.
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She did a really great job
just putting me at ease,
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just kind of being who she is.
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Yeah.
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Just going to try to manage
that high that I'm feeling.
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You know, and I would hate
for sex to cloud anything.
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I like your PJs.
[chuckles]
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- Oh, thanks.
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- [chuckles]
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♪
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But, I mean, I don't know.
Have you seen my wife?
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It probably wouldn't take
much convincing, honestly.
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- Oh, my gosh.
Ah.
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- How does it feel?
- It feels like heaven.
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I haven't tied my hair up.
I forgot.
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And I don't think I care.
[laughs]
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- So I've been thinking
about trying to get
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something for the curls.
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- You ever sleep
with a bonnet on?
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Do you know what a bonnet is?
- I don't.
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- It's just a hair--
it's, like, a silk--
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a satin hair
thing you put on your head.
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I think I might have two on me.
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♪
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- Bonnet.
That could be life changing.
258
00:09:27,083 --> 00:09:28,667
- It could be.
259
00:09:28,750 --> 00:09:30,000
It could at least
be hair changing.
260
00:09:30,083 --> 00:09:31,667
So let me just put
it on like a hat.
261
00:09:31,708 --> 00:09:33,542
[laughs]
- Just like a hat?
262
00:09:33,625 --> 00:09:34,875
- Yeah, it's literally a hat.
263
00:09:34,958 --> 00:09:36,333
♪
264
00:09:36,375 --> 00:09:37,917
- Okay.
- Yeah.
265
00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:39,875
- [chuckles]
266
00:09:39,958 --> 00:09:41,333
♪
267
00:09:41,417 --> 00:09:44,667
- Look in the mirror.
[laughter]
268
00:09:44,708 --> 00:09:47,333
♪ Bonnet buddies
269
00:09:47,375 --> 00:09:49,333
♪
270
00:09:49,375 --> 00:09:50,500
All right.
You ready for sleep?
271
00:09:50,583 --> 00:09:52,000
- I am so ready for sleep.
272
00:09:52,083 --> 00:09:54,417
- Okay.
Let's blow these candles out.
273
00:09:54,542 --> 00:09:56,250
Make it look real sexy.
274
00:09:56,333 --> 00:09:57,750
- [laughs]
275
00:09:57,875 --> 00:10:00,667
- All right.
Let's go to bed, husband.
276
00:10:00,750 --> 00:10:02,958
[giggles]
- Yeah.
277
00:10:03,042 --> 00:10:04,792
- Yes.
278
00:10:04,875 --> 00:10:07,250
♪
279
00:10:07,333 --> 00:10:10,417
[giggles]
280
00:10:10,542 --> 00:10:14,458
♪
281
00:10:14,542 --> 00:10:17,542
- Oh, this is so nice.
282
00:10:17,625 --> 00:10:19,333
I love it.
283
00:10:19,375 --> 00:10:21,875
What is this place called?
- The Thompson Hotel.
284
00:10:22,042 --> 00:10:24,500
- Very elegant in here.
I'm a fan.
285
00:10:24,625 --> 00:10:25,917
Would you like to
get some PJs on?
286
00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,000
- Let's go.
- It's time.
287
00:10:28,083 --> 00:10:29,875
I've been waiting
for this moment all day...
288
00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:31,792
from the moment
I got this dress on.
289
00:10:31,875 --> 00:10:33,500
♪
290
00:10:33,542 --> 00:10:36,208
Do you see all of these
things are buttoned?
291
00:10:36,333 --> 00:10:38,500
- What is this?
This is--
292
00:10:38,583 --> 00:10:40,542
- ♪ Shaped
like a figure eight ♪
293
00:10:40,625 --> 00:10:43,042
♪ Figure eight
294
00:10:43,167 --> 00:10:45,292
♪ And it's magical
295
00:10:45,375 --> 00:10:48,875
♪ Got me feeling like, ooh
296
00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:52,750
- This is what they do to tease
really horny grooms, you know?
297
00:10:52,750 --> 00:10:55,458
It's--
- Okay, I think that's good.
298
00:10:55,542 --> 00:10:58,000
- Are you sure?
There's a lot more to go.
299
00:10:58,125 --> 00:10:59,542
- No.
300
00:10:59,667 --> 00:11:01,583
I'm taking this [bleep].
Yeah, no. This is fine.
301
00:11:01,667 --> 00:11:03,583
Thank you.
Appreciate that.
302
00:11:03,583 --> 00:11:06,042
[giggles]
It's going to have to work.
303
00:11:06,125 --> 00:11:08,750
- [sighs]
304
00:11:08,875 --> 00:11:14,000
I feel like I'm a pretty
good read of sexual energy.
305
00:11:14,042 --> 00:11:15,500
♪
306
00:11:15,625 --> 00:11:19,333
And Clare is not exuding
307
00:11:19,375 --> 00:11:21,167
any right now.
308
00:11:21,292 --> 00:11:23,958
♪
309
00:11:24,042 --> 00:11:27,375
- I've been alone for so long
that I don't even know
310
00:11:27,458 --> 00:11:29,500
what it feels like to sleep
with someone at night,
311
00:11:29,583 --> 00:11:31,417
to be honest.
312
00:11:31,542 --> 00:11:33,375
But I think I'll be
less guarded
313
00:11:33,458 --> 00:11:36,833
when I know that he's feeling,
like, a similar way.
314
00:11:36,958 --> 00:11:39,875
But tonight I'm excited
to get to cozy with him,
315
00:11:39,958 --> 00:11:41,167
if he's okay with that.
316
00:11:41,250 --> 00:11:42,833
[scoffs]
317
00:11:42,917 --> 00:11:44,917
- [knocking lightly]
318
00:11:46,917 --> 00:11:49,333
- Oh.
319
00:11:49,375 --> 00:11:52,083
Hi.
320
00:11:52,167 --> 00:11:54,000
- Do you think
I could have a shower
321
00:11:54,042 --> 00:11:55,125
before I go to bed?
- Sure. Yeah.
322
00:11:55,208 --> 00:11:57,000
- Okay.
I mean, are you done?
323
00:11:57,083 --> 00:11:58,667
- I'm done.
Everything's done.
324
00:11:58,750 --> 00:12:00,125
I just need to brush my
teeth when you're done.
325
00:12:00,125 --> 00:12:01,333
- No, no, no.
Brush your teeth now.
326
00:12:01,375 --> 00:12:02,708
- No.
327
00:12:02,833 --> 00:12:04,208
- I need to brush
my teeth as well.
328
00:12:04,292 --> 00:12:06,125
- Yeah, I just need to
get my stuff, you know?
329
00:12:06,208 --> 00:12:07,208
[zipper opens]
330
00:12:07,292 --> 00:12:09,667
[chuckles]
331
00:12:09,708 --> 00:12:11,958
We're just going
about our night here.
332
00:12:12,042 --> 00:12:18,833
♪
333
00:12:25,458 --> 00:12:27,167
My husband is in the shower.
334
00:12:27,250 --> 00:12:28,750
I am waiting.
335
00:12:28,833 --> 00:12:31,333
I think it was awkward
for me because we
336
00:12:31,333 --> 00:12:32,875
didn't really have that
conversation of, like,
337
00:12:32,958 --> 00:12:34,250
do you like cuddling,
do you not?
338
00:12:34,375 --> 00:12:36,042
I also don't know
339
00:12:36,125 --> 00:12:38,292
if he's, like, fully attracted
to me at this point.
340
00:12:38,375 --> 00:12:40,000
He's not said that.
341
00:12:40,042 --> 00:12:42,000
And so, for me, it's like,
I don't want to make a move
342
00:12:42,083 --> 00:12:44,167
or cuddle when you're
not there, you know?
343
00:12:44,208 --> 00:12:45,500
It's confusing.
344
00:12:45,542 --> 00:12:47,042
But it's going
to be cool to get
345
00:12:47,042 --> 00:12:50,125
to sleep next to my husband
with my ring on.
346
00:12:50,208 --> 00:12:52,000
[chuckles]
347
00:12:52,042 --> 00:12:53,208
♪
348
00:12:56,833 --> 00:12:59,542
- Lights out.
349
00:12:59,667 --> 00:13:01,625
- This is all the
lights, right?
350
00:13:01,625 --> 00:13:03,167
Oh, wait.
351
00:13:03,292 --> 00:13:06,208
[exhaling sharply]
352
00:13:06,333 --> 00:13:09,000
- Good night.
353
00:13:09,125 --> 00:13:10,333
- Yeah.
354
00:13:10,417 --> 00:13:13,083
Okay, well, you sleep good.
355
00:13:13,167 --> 00:13:16,500
- As soon as you stop talking,
I'm going to be like that.
356
00:13:16,625 --> 00:13:18,167
- Yeah? So you want me
to stop talking?
357
00:13:18,250 --> 00:13:19,667
- [laughs]
358
00:13:19,750 --> 00:13:21,167
- In other words,
please stop talking?
359
00:13:21,208 --> 00:13:23,417
All right. I'm done.
Enough said.
360
00:13:23,500 --> 00:13:24,833
- Good night.
- Good night.
361
00:13:24,875 --> 00:13:26,292
Sleep good.
362
00:13:26,375 --> 00:13:30,958
♪
363
00:13:31,042 --> 00:13:33,417
- ♪ In your eyes...
364
00:13:33,542 --> 00:13:36,167
♪ And I'm burning, too
365
00:13:36,250 --> 00:13:38,167
- [sighs]
366
00:13:38,208 --> 00:13:39,500
♪
367
00:13:39,583 --> 00:13:41,833
- This is nice.
- So good.
368
00:13:41,875 --> 00:13:43,500
- [clears throat]
Still in my tux.
369
00:13:43,583 --> 00:13:44,917
You're still in your dress.
370
00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:46,667
And we can just sleep
right now, right?
371
00:13:46,667 --> 00:13:48,125
- I mean, I could, but...
372
00:13:52,750 --> 00:13:54,708
- [sighs]
All right, let's do this.
373
00:13:54,792 --> 00:13:56,500
- Strip.
374
00:13:56,583 --> 00:13:59,208
- ♪ I'm seeing so clearly
375
00:13:59,208 --> 00:14:00,917
♪ Breathing in
like I tell you... ♪
376
00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:03,917
- This is crazy they make
these things like this.
377
00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:05,792
- Yeah, it took a really long
time to get in this dress.
378
00:14:05,875 --> 00:14:08,000
♪
379
00:14:08,083 --> 00:14:12,167
- ♪ Feels like I've waited
all my life ♪
380
00:14:12,250 --> 00:14:14,167
♪
381
00:14:14,250 --> 00:14:16,042
♪ 'Cause I heard
good things... ♪
382
00:14:16,125 --> 00:14:18,542
- You did all this for me?
383
00:14:18,667 --> 00:14:20,875
- Take your time.
384
00:14:20,958 --> 00:14:22,542
[whispering] There's nothing
underneath there.
385
00:14:22,625 --> 00:14:25,000
[normal voice] But, I mean,
we're married now, so...
386
00:14:25,083 --> 00:14:27,542
[whispering]
It's all open.
387
00:14:27,542 --> 00:14:30,375
[normal voice] I just have
to, like, transform
388
00:14:30,458 --> 00:14:31,958
in the opposite direction.
389
00:14:36,833 --> 00:14:39,083
- ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh,
ooh-ooh-ooh ♪
390
00:14:39,167 --> 00:14:41,292
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh,
ooh-ooh-ooh ♪
391
00:14:41,375 --> 00:14:43,917
♪ You've got
the sweetest eyes ♪
392
00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:46,292
♪ I like the way you see me
393
00:14:46,375 --> 00:14:48,875
♪ You always keep me
laughing ♪
394
00:14:48,958 --> 00:14:50,792
- I'm feeling excited
395
00:14:50,875 --> 00:14:53,833
to have some time alone
with my husband,
396
00:14:53,958 --> 00:14:55,750
letting him drive.
397
00:14:55,833 --> 00:14:57,958
We'll see.
398
00:14:58,042 --> 00:15:00,125
- Ooh, okay.
399
00:15:00,208 --> 00:15:04,000
♪
400
00:15:04,083 --> 00:15:06,625
Look at you.
I like the PJs.
401
00:15:06,708 --> 00:15:08,667
- Now we can lay.
402
00:15:08,708 --> 00:15:10,708
♪
403
00:15:10,792 --> 00:15:13,500
Put out the candles,
see what happens
404
00:15:13,583 --> 00:15:15,333
when everyone leaves us alone.
405
00:15:15,417 --> 00:15:16,333
♪
406
00:15:16,417 --> 00:15:18,583
- The best day.
407
00:15:18,667 --> 00:15:20,458
- Better than expected.
408
00:15:22,833 --> 00:15:24,875
- [laughs]
409
00:15:31,917 --> 00:15:33,542
- ♪ Is it higher?
410
00:15:33,667 --> 00:15:36,500
♪ 'Cause when I think of you,
it sends me... ♪
411
00:15:36,542 --> 00:15:37,500
- Hi.
- Good morning.
412
00:15:37,583 --> 00:15:38,792
- Good morning.
413
00:15:38,875 --> 00:15:41,792
We woke up married today.
[chuckles]
414
00:15:41,875 --> 00:15:43,708
- I'm still here.
- Still here.
415
00:15:43,792 --> 00:15:46,125
We are now bonnet buddies.
416
00:15:46,208 --> 00:15:47,833
She's helping me out
with some hair care.
417
00:15:47,875 --> 00:15:49,167
Feels nice.
418
00:15:49,250 --> 00:15:51,125
- He's a good cuddler.
[giggles]
419
00:15:51,208 --> 00:15:52,958
- I woke up to, like,
8 million texts.
420
00:15:53,042 --> 00:15:54,625
I think everyone's, like,
really intrigued to know
421
00:15:54,708 --> 00:15:56,000
who this mystery man is.
422
00:15:56,042 --> 00:15:57,500
- What's up, everyone?
423
00:15:57,583 --> 00:15:59,125
- Here he is.
424
00:15:59,208 --> 00:16:01,917
Yeah, going to be a good day.
425
00:16:02,042 --> 00:16:03,667
- Had an incredible
time yesterday.
426
00:16:03,750 --> 00:16:06,958
- Retweet.
[laughter]
427
00:16:07,042 --> 00:16:09,083
- She's a nerd.
- He said the word.
428
00:16:09,167 --> 00:16:12,500
- And I'm weird, so it works.
[laughs]
429
00:16:12,625 --> 00:16:15,458
[screams silently]
430
00:16:15,542 --> 00:16:17,875
♪
431
00:16:17,958 --> 00:16:19,667
- How'd you sleep?
432
00:16:19,708 --> 00:16:21,708
- Ah, fine enough.
433
00:16:21,833 --> 00:16:23,500
- [laughs]
Not great.
434
00:16:23,583 --> 00:16:25,792
I slept phenomenal.
435
00:16:25,875 --> 00:16:27,958
Waking up, I had to
remind myself, like,
436
00:16:28,042 --> 00:16:29,667
of who you were for a moment.
437
00:16:29,792 --> 00:16:31,333
You know what I mean?
438
00:16:31,417 --> 00:16:32,750
It's, like, not natural to be
like, oh, I know this guy,
439
00:16:32,833 --> 00:16:34,083
you know?
440
00:16:34,208 --> 00:16:35,542
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
441
00:16:35,625 --> 00:16:38,333
- I mostly just ignored
that you were even there.
442
00:16:38,375 --> 00:16:40,208
♪
443
00:16:40,292 --> 00:16:41,958
- Last night was kind of,
like, a little awkward,
444
00:16:42,042 --> 00:16:43,208
not going to lie.
445
00:16:43,333 --> 00:16:44,750
He's not an awkward person.
446
00:16:44,833 --> 00:16:47,208
But it's just
an awkward situation.
447
00:16:47,333 --> 00:16:50,167
It is hard to understand
what he's thinking.
448
00:16:50,250 --> 00:16:53,083
And, you know,
we didn't cuddle.
449
00:16:53,167 --> 00:16:55,167
I think, again, that's
going to take some time.
450
00:16:55,167 --> 00:16:57,250
Like, there are sparks
that are there
451
00:16:57,333 --> 00:16:59,500
that just need to,
like, develop.
452
00:16:59,583 --> 00:17:01,833
But we're in it
for the long haul.
453
00:17:01,917 --> 00:17:04,875
And I think we have
to be okay with that.
454
00:17:04,958 --> 00:17:06,833
♪
455
00:17:06,958 --> 00:17:09,875
I'm about to--
Interesting.
456
00:17:09,958 --> 00:17:11,875
- Is that salmon? I mean,
it's got to be salmon, right?
457
00:17:11,958 --> 00:17:13,333
- Yeah.
458
00:17:13,375 --> 00:17:14,875
- Did you just
order avocado toast?
459
00:17:14,958 --> 00:17:16,625
- Is that a carrot?
- Oh, maybe, yeah.
460
00:17:16,708 --> 00:17:19,000
My grandmother--
461
00:17:19,083 --> 00:17:21,042
she was part
of perpetrating the myth
462
00:17:21,125 --> 00:17:22,875
that carrots help you see
at night.
463
00:17:22,958 --> 00:17:25,750
♪
464
00:17:25,833 --> 00:17:28,375
She was a lieutenant
in World War II,
465
00:17:28,458 --> 00:17:30,625
and she ran a bunch of the--
466
00:17:30,708 --> 00:17:33,917
like, the Morse code girls, for
lack of a better description.
467
00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:36,125
And so part of her
Morse code division
468
00:17:36,208 --> 00:17:39,542
was to just send messages about
needing to buy more carrots.
469
00:17:41,375 --> 00:17:44,875
And the Germans launched
a whole operation
470
00:17:44,875 --> 00:17:48,167
so that their pilots could
have carrots to see at night.
471
00:17:48,292 --> 00:17:50,625
And it was all bull[bleep].
472
00:17:50,708 --> 00:17:52,625
- Whoa.
- Yeah.
473
00:17:52,708 --> 00:17:54,208
- She sounds like a boss.
474
00:17:54,333 --> 00:17:56,333
- She's the only person, like,
that I've met that I can say
475
00:17:56,417 --> 00:17:58,667
is very similar to me,
like, as in--
476
00:17:58,792 --> 00:18:01,208
like, almost genetically,
like, who I am, she is,
477
00:18:01,292 --> 00:18:02,833
like, the same kind of person.
478
00:18:02,875 --> 00:18:04,750
Like, she loves me to death,
and I love her to death.
479
00:18:04,833 --> 00:18:07,000
But she's never once told me
that she loves me.
480
00:18:07,083 --> 00:18:08,583
♪
481
00:18:08,708 --> 00:18:10,083
- Oh, that is not--
482
00:18:10,167 --> 00:18:11,958
No, that's not how
I grew up at all.
483
00:18:12,042 --> 00:18:13,917
- Yeah, and so then that
484
00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:15,208
snowballs into me, right?
- Mm-hmm.
485
00:18:15,333 --> 00:18:16,792
Like, I could be
walking around all day
486
00:18:16,875 --> 00:18:18,167
thinking about how
much I love you,
487
00:18:18,208 --> 00:18:19,667
and I just haven't said it.
488
00:18:19,750 --> 00:18:21,417
- Ooh, that might be a problem.
489
00:18:21,500 --> 00:18:23,667
- But because the moment I see
you, I jump all over you.
490
00:18:23,750 --> 00:18:25,208
♪
491
00:18:25,292 --> 00:18:28,250
Like, I'm very physical
with my affection...
492
00:18:28,333 --> 00:18:30,375
- Right.
- Like, kissing and cuddling.
493
00:18:30,458 --> 00:18:32,167
- Okay. [chuckles]
That's good to know.
494
00:18:32,292 --> 00:18:33,667
I appreciate that.
495
00:18:33,792 --> 00:18:37,125
But I came from a very,
like, say how you feel,
496
00:18:37,208 --> 00:18:40,500
express yourself,
have deeper conversations.
497
00:18:40,583 --> 00:18:42,750
And, also, that's just
my personality, too.
498
00:18:42,833 --> 00:18:44,292
And so it's like,
499
00:18:44,375 --> 00:18:46,500
even if you don't
want to tell me your feel--
500
00:18:46,500 --> 00:18:48,167
I would hope that you'd be
open to doing that.
501
00:18:48,208 --> 00:18:49,500
- Yeah.
- Right?
502
00:18:49,542 --> 00:18:50,542
- Yeah.
- Okay.
503
00:18:50,625 --> 00:18:52,292
- I feel like I work
on that every day.
504
00:18:52,375 --> 00:18:54,042
And I can tell you,
you'll feel loved.
505
00:18:54,125 --> 00:18:55,708
- Okay.
[chuckles]
506
00:18:55,792 --> 00:18:59,333
♪
507
00:18:59,417 --> 00:19:01,583
- ♪ Nothing like
the smell of the air ♪
508
00:19:01,667 --> 00:19:04,500
♪ When you got
no cares around ♪
509
00:19:04,583 --> 00:19:06,958
- How did you think last
night's cuddle session went?
510
00:19:07,042 --> 00:19:09,667
- It was great.
- Yeah.
511
00:19:09,708 --> 00:19:11,667
It felt very nice.
512
00:19:11,708 --> 00:19:14,042
- Usually married couples have
sex on their wedding night,
513
00:19:14,125 --> 00:19:16,292
but I decided no.
514
00:19:16,375 --> 00:19:18,125
I kind of got the impression
515
00:19:18,208 --> 00:19:20,625
that he wants
to take it slower.
516
00:19:20,708 --> 00:19:22,792
I need that because I think
I'm jumping the gun there
517
00:19:22,875 --> 00:19:24,667
a lot of the time.
518
00:19:24,750 --> 00:19:27,167
We truly just need time
in order to get there.
519
00:19:27,208 --> 00:19:30,167
But I love waking up
next to my new husband.
520
00:19:30,250 --> 00:19:32,667
And I think it's just
the first day of many,
521
00:19:32,792 --> 00:19:34,875
and it's only going to
get better from here,
522
00:19:34,958 --> 00:19:36,500
which I'm excited about.
523
00:19:36,542 --> 00:19:39,000
Would you say you're,
like, a big morning person?
524
00:19:39,125 --> 00:19:40,375
- You know, it's weird.
525
00:19:40,458 --> 00:19:42,333
I can get work done
in the morning,
526
00:19:42,417 --> 00:19:45,250
but, like, the clouds don't
clear my head until, like--
527
00:19:45,333 --> 00:19:47,000
- Yeah, my brain's
better in the afternoon, too,
528
00:19:47,042 --> 00:19:48,333
and at night.
- Yeah.
529
00:19:48,458 --> 00:19:50,208
- I also, like, blare
music when I wake up,
530
00:19:50,292 --> 00:19:52,208
but I can change that.
- Right.
531
00:19:52,292 --> 00:19:54,625
- I can put my AirPods in.
532
00:19:54,708 --> 00:19:56,333
That's, like, how I get my
day going--
533
00:19:56,417 --> 00:19:58,958
some good old EDM
at 7:00 in the morning.
534
00:19:59,042 --> 00:20:00,375
- Mm-hmm.
535
00:20:00,458 --> 00:20:02,333
That and AC...
- Yeah.
536
00:20:02,375 --> 00:20:04,125
- It's the only two things
blasting.
537
00:20:04,250 --> 00:20:06,000
- We agreed on the new temp.
- Mm-hmm.
538
00:20:06,083 --> 00:20:07,750
68.
539
00:20:07,833 --> 00:20:09,667
We can do that...
- Yeah.
540
00:20:09,750 --> 00:20:13,333
- As long as
it's not higher than 70.
541
00:20:13,458 --> 00:20:15,000
- That's a perfect
middle ground.
542
00:20:15,083 --> 00:20:17,125
- Do you like windows open?
543
00:20:17,208 --> 00:20:19,375
- Not in the winter.
544
00:20:19,375 --> 00:20:21,250
Got some more air circulating
in here last night.
545
00:20:21,333 --> 00:20:22,833
- Do you?
- I do.
546
00:20:22,875 --> 00:20:24,292
I actually love the windows
open in the winter.
547
00:20:24,375 --> 00:20:25,667
- [chuckles]
548
00:20:25,708 --> 00:20:27,875
- That's something
I could compromise.
549
00:20:27,958 --> 00:20:29,583
- Uh-huh.
[chuckles] I love that.
550
00:20:29,667 --> 00:20:32,167
It's surreal waking
up as a husband.
551
00:20:32,292 --> 00:20:33,667
It's just exciting.
552
00:20:33,708 --> 00:20:35,250
It's definitely
also an adjustment.
553
00:20:35,333 --> 00:20:36,958
You know, I might have
to wear a sweater to bed.
554
00:20:37,042 --> 00:20:39,667
But it should be doable.
555
00:20:39,708 --> 00:20:41,958
Wait. What's your number?
- Oh, yeah.
556
00:20:42,042 --> 00:20:43,167
I guess I should do that.
557
00:20:43,292 --> 00:20:46,208
The basic things...
558
00:20:46,333 --> 00:20:48,167
- What did you put as the--
- I just put my name.
559
00:20:48,208 --> 00:20:49,333
- Okay, great.
560
00:20:49,375 --> 00:20:50,792
- "Hubby"?
- I put "hubby."
561
00:20:50,875 --> 00:20:52,750
[laughs]
- I like hubby.
562
00:20:52,875 --> 00:20:54,708
But it's probably good that you
put your last name,
563
00:20:54,792 --> 00:20:57,167
so I could start, like, having,
like, recognition.
564
00:20:57,292 --> 00:21:03,625
♪
565
00:21:05,750 --> 00:21:09,333
- Can I scratch you?
- [laughing] I guess.
566
00:21:09,500 --> 00:21:12,042
Yeah, that's nice.
567
00:21:12,125 --> 00:21:15,458
Yesterday was awesome,
568
00:21:15,542 --> 00:21:17,500
like, an amazing time.
569
00:21:17,583 --> 00:21:20,667
Like, I couldn't have asked
for anything better, so...
570
00:21:20,708 --> 00:21:22,167
- Yeah.
Same.
571
00:21:22,250 --> 00:21:23,667
- Yeah.
Yeah.
572
00:21:23,792 --> 00:21:24,917
- Oh, food!
573
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,583
- Brunch.
574
00:21:26,667 --> 00:21:28,250
- When we woke up, it felt
just like it did yesterday,
575
00:21:28,375 --> 00:21:29,750
just, like, comfortable.
576
00:21:29,875 --> 00:21:32,417
And I didn't feel like
he was a stranger.
577
00:21:32,500 --> 00:21:35,000
I just felt like it was
always supposed to happen.
578
00:21:35,125 --> 00:21:37,417
Good-looking bellboy.
[laughter]
579
00:21:37,500 --> 00:21:39,083
I'll crawl into bed with him
for the rest of my life.
580
00:21:39,167 --> 00:21:40,417
Let's go.
581
00:21:40,500 --> 00:21:43,625
Look at these mini pickles.
- [laughs]
582
00:21:43,708 --> 00:21:45,833
- Should put the baby Cholula
on your mini pickles.
583
00:21:45,875 --> 00:21:49,000
- [laughs] I actually
don't like pickles.
584
00:21:49,083 --> 00:21:50,833
- Okay, well--
- Is that a difference?
585
00:21:50,875 --> 00:21:52,333
Is that one of our
different things?
586
00:21:52,375 --> 00:21:54,125
- Nope.
That's absolutely the same.
587
00:21:54,208 --> 00:21:56,250
- Wait. Really?
- Yeah. Yeah.
588
00:21:56,333 --> 00:21:58,333
- What else don't
you like, food-wise?
589
00:21:58,458 --> 00:21:59,500
- Oh, mushroom.
- Oh, interesting.
590
00:21:59,542 --> 00:22:00,833
I like mushrooms.
591
00:22:00,875 --> 00:22:02,250
- Well, [bleep], that's
the first thing.
592
00:22:02,333 --> 00:22:03,625
- Olives?
593
00:22:03,708 --> 00:22:06,333
- Olives, like, I'm
compatible with.
594
00:22:06,375 --> 00:22:07,875
But, like, I certainly
don't, like,
595
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:09,500
ask to put olives on a pizza.
596
00:22:09,542 --> 00:22:11,333
- I don't like olives.
597
00:22:11,375 --> 00:22:14,167
- I'm more okay
with mushrooms than olives,
598
00:22:14,208 --> 00:22:16,375
because olives have a similar
flavor profile where it just,
599
00:22:16,500 --> 00:22:19,000
like, takes over everything.
- Yeah, they're very salty.
600
00:22:19,083 --> 00:22:21,375
I like them in a martini,
but you wouldn't know.
601
00:22:21,458 --> 00:22:23,792
[laughter]
602
00:22:23,875 --> 00:22:26,000
Sorry. You told me you, like,
don't drink a lot.
603
00:22:26,083 --> 00:22:27,208
- That's true.
That's true.
604
00:22:27,208 --> 00:22:29,208
I mean, I've had a martini
before, you know?
605
00:22:29,333 --> 00:22:30,542
- Fair enough.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
606
00:22:30,625 --> 00:22:32,042
[laughs]
607
00:22:32,125 --> 00:22:36,250
So last night you were asleep.
608
00:22:36,333 --> 00:22:38,667
- You were a corpse.
- [chuckles] I was.
609
00:22:38,750 --> 00:22:41,917
- But I do want to tell you
something while you're awake
610
00:22:41,917 --> 00:22:43,125
and alert...
- Oh.
611
00:22:43,208 --> 00:22:46,833
- So you can process
a little easier.
612
00:22:46,875 --> 00:22:50,667
Basically, I had
an exploratory surgery,
613
00:22:50,750 --> 00:22:55,458
and it turned into a diagnosis
of endometriosis,
614
00:22:55,542 --> 00:22:58,875
and that turned into
a much more extensive surgery
615
00:22:58,958 --> 00:23:01,208
than they thought
it was going to be.
616
00:23:01,292 --> 00:23:03,500
Basically, they just went in
617
00:23:03,583 --> 00:23:06,167
and saw that I was in
pretty rough shape internally.
618
00:23:06,250 --> 00:23:07,500
And so they went in.
619
00:23:07,625 --> 00:23:09,583
They did some
nice housekeeping,
620
00:23:09,667 --> 00:23:11,333
which caused a lot of pain.
621
00:23:11,417 --> 00:23:14,125
I'm feeling better now,
but it does impact, like...
622
00:23:14,208 --> 00:23:15,917
♪
623
00:23:16,042 --> 00:23:18,917
Like, I can't go cliff jumping
on our honeymoon,
624
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:20,833
you know,
even though I would normally.
625
00:23:20,875 --> 00:23:24,250
I also have
an autoimmune disorder
626
00:23:24,333 --> 00:23:25,958
called ankylosing spondylitis.
627
00:23:26,042 --> 00:23:28,500
But it's basically just
where my immune system
628
00:23:28,583 --> 00:23:29,667
attacks my spine.
629
00:23:29,792 --> 00:23:31,792
Like, it thinks that
something's wrong
630
00:23:31,875 --> 00:23:33,667
with my spine, but I have an
injection that I take for that
631
00:23:33,750 --> 00:23:35,333
that basically, like, tells
my immune system
632
00:23:35,417 --> 00:23:36,625
to, like, shut the [bleep] up.
633
00:23:36,708 --> 00:23:37,583
♪
634
00:23:37,667 --> 00:23:39,792
- Is it, like, a constant--
635
00:23:39,875 --> 00:23:41,833
Like, are you in pain now?
Are you a constant thing?
636
00:23:41,875 --> 00:23:44,333
Or is it--
- Yeah, I'm always in pain.
637
00:23:44,417 --> 00:23:46,125
- Always in pain.
638
00:23:46,208 --> 00:23:47,500
- But I've also,
like, never known,
639
00:23:47,583 --> 00:23:49,167
like, in the last
ten years, like--
640
00:23:49,208 --> 00:23:50,833
- Anything different?
- Yeah.
641
00:23:50,958 --> 00:23:52,792
So, like, it's just
what feels normal to me.
642
00:23:52,875 --> 00:23:55,625
- I appreciate, like,
you being open with me
643
00:23:55,708 --> 00:23:57,833
about all that, especially,
like, so early on.
644
00:23:57,917 --> 00:23:59,083
- Mm-hmm.
645
00:23:59,167 --> 00:24:01,125
- Were you nervous to
talk to me about that?
646
00:24:01,208 --> 00:24:02,250
♪
647
00:24:02,375 --> 00:24:04,875
- Before I knew who you were,
648
00:24:04,958 --> 00:24:09,792
I was really nervous
just because I didn't know.
649
00:24:09,875 --> 00:24:12,583
Like, not all people
react positively to it,
650
00:24:12,583 --> 00:24:13,833
and that's okay.
- Yeah.
651
00:24:13,917 --> 00:24:16,167
- You know,
in past relationships,
652
00:24:16,250 --> 00:24:19,125
I have felt like
a burden to them.
653
00:24:19,208 --> 00:24:21,250
- It sucks that you, like,
had to go through that.
654
00:24:21,375 --> 00:24:23,667
I'm not like that,
so it should be good.
655
00:24:23,750 --> 00:24:26,167
- No, because you're perfect.
[laughter]
656
00:24:26,250 --> 00:24:27,792
♪
657
00:24:27,875 --> 00:24:29,542
- ♪ I'm stronger than ever
658
00:24:33,375 --> 00:24:38,583
♪
659
00:24:38,667 --> 00:24:40,000
- I can't make coffee.
660
00:24:40,042 --> 00:24:42,500
I don't know how to,
like, use a coffee pot.
661
00:24:42,542 --> 00:24:44,167
- I have an Nespresso,
so I don't need to--
662
00:24:44,208 --> 00:24:46,125
- Oh, perfect.
- Yeah.
663
00:24:46,208 --> 00:24:48,500
- I do love espresso martinis,
like, for, like--
664
00:24:48,583 --> 00:24:50,042
- Those are strong.
665
00:24:50,125 --> 00:24:51,500
♪
666
00:24:51,542 --> 00:24:53,667
- I woke up as a wife.
667
00:24:53,750 --> 00:24:54,583
♪
668
00:24:54,708 --> 00:24:56,167
We didn't have sex.
669
00:24:56,250 --> 00:25:00,625
We did discuss sex last night,
not in lengthy detail,
670
00:25:00,708 --> 00:25:04,375
but we discussed that it's
on the table for both of us.
671
00:25:04,458 --> 00:25:06,417
But we just really
want to build
672
00:25:06,500 --> 00:25:08,375
that intimate foundation first
673
00:25:08,500 --> 00:25:10,542
before we take
the intimacy to sex.
674
00:25:10,625 --> 00:25:12,333
What's your, like--
675
00:25:12,333 --> 00:25:13,833
my morning routine
is a little--
676
00:25:13,875 --> 00:25:15,667
Like, I have different
morning routines.
677
00:25:15,750 --> 00:25:17,792
But, like, in general, like,
what do you usually do?
678
00:25:17,875 --> 00:25:19,875
- I like quiet mornings.
- Okay.
679
00:25:19,875 --> 00:25:22,375
- I think we just
have to see how
680
00:25:22,458 --> 00:25:24,750
we, like, coexist together.
- Coexist, yeah.
681
00:25:24,833 --> 00:25:27,500
- I've been living alone
for a year and a half now.
682
00:25:27,542 --> 00:25:30,500
And so I've gotten into, like,
just being selfish
683
00:25:30,542 --> 00:25:32,625
and, like, my own routine,
or lack thereof.
684
00:25:32,708 --> 00:25:34,417
- Of course, yeah.
685
00:25:34,542 --> 00:25:36,500
- Sometimes I get in
these moods where I just--
686
00:25:36,542 --> 00:25:39,125
talking about
feelings sometimes
687
00:25:39,208 --> 00:25:41,667
can be a little difficult
for me, like, in the moment.
688
00:25:41,708 --> 00:25:44,375
I don't have the mental
capacity to do that.
689
00:25:44,458 --> 00:25:45,958
And we're just going
to argue a lot.
690
00:25:46,042 --> 00:25:47,500
- Right.
- And I don't like arguing.
691
00:25:47,583 --> 00:25:49,250
- Well, I think it's also nice
to know, like,
692
00:25:49,333 --> 00:25:50,917
if you can't have
the conversation
693
00:25:51,042 --> 00:25:53,083
or you don't have the mental
capacity in the moment,
694
00:25:53,208 --> 00:25:55,500
you know, then I think
it would actually be nice
695
00:25:55,542 --> 00:25:56,750
to vocalize that.
696
00:25:56,833 --> 00:25:58,792
So we can kind of both
understand,
697
00:25:58,875 --> 00:26:00,667
like, we can revisit
this later.
698
00:26:00,708 --> 00:26:03,375
- Okay.
Shake on it.
699
00:26:03,458 --> 00:26:04,792
- That's our first
marriage deal.
700
00:26:04,875 --> 00:26:06,625
- That's our first
marriage deal.
701
00:26:06,708 --> 00:26:08,667
- Outside of we're married,
this is our second deal.
702
00:26:10,917 --> 00:26:13,625
For brunch, who am I going
to be meeting with?
703
00:26:13,708 --> 00:26:16,333
- You're going to be meeting
with my mom and sister.
704
00:26:16,417 --> 00:26:17,750
- So that should be fun.
- Yeah.
705
00:26:17,833 --> 00:26:20,292
Well, honestly, initially,
I was a little scared
706
00:26:20,375 --> 00:26:21,625
for them to meet you...
- Mm-hmm.
707
00:26:21,708 --> 00:26:23,583
- Because they are
very strong in their opinions.
708
00:26:23,667 --> 00:26:25,750
But then when it got closer,
I'm like,
709
00:26:25,875 --> 00:26:28,083
well, I got to really know,
you know?
710
00:26:28,208 --> 00:26:31,000
So, like, just, you know,
have a field day about it.
711
00:26:31,042 --> 00:26:32,542
- I told the same
thing to my dad.
712
00:26:32,667 --> 00:26:34,250
- He got after it.
713
00:26:34,333 --> 00:26:37,000
- Orion, you know it really
doesn't matter anything we say
714
00:26:37,042 --> 00:26:39,208
or ask you because you're
already married.
715
00:26:39,208 --> 00:26:40,542
- Sure.
[laughter]
716
00:26:40,667 --> 00:26:42,000
- So it's not like
you need my approval.
717
00:26:42,042 --> 00:26:43,542
It's a done deal.
718
00:26:43,708 --> 00:26:46,917
- But I also would still
like your approval.
719
00:26:46,917 --> 00:26:49,417
- Okay.
Well, I have to wait and see.
720
00:26:49,542 --> 00:26:51,333
♪
721
00:26:51,375 --> 00:26:54,333
- Luckily, you won't be meeting
with him today, though.
722
00:26:54,417 --> 00:26:55,583
Do you have any advice for me
723
00:26:55,667 --> 00:26:59,958
when I meet mama bear
and sister cub?
724
00:27:00,042 --> 00:27:02,167
- Just be ready for
out-of-pocket questions.
725
00:27:02,250 --> 00:27:03,750
- Okay.
726
00:27:03,833 --> 00:27:05,208
Are they going to ask
me, like, sex questions?
727
00:27:05,292 --> 00:27:06,833
- No.
- Okay.
728
00:27:06,875 --> 00:27:09,125
- No. [clears throat]
We're really big on respect.
729
00:27:09,208 --> 00:27:11,000
And then there's
always that, you know,
730
00:27:11,083 --> 00:27:13,458
just open-minded to
who we are as a people,
731
00:27:13,542 --> 00:27:15,333
who we are as a community.
732
00:27:15,375 --> 00:27:17,625
You know, they kind of
feel out your stance.
733
00:27:17,750 --> 00:27:20,083
And then they'll take a second
and look at you
734
00:27:20,167 --> 00:27:22,667
and just kind of see,
what do you think, you know,
735
00:27:22,792 --> 00:27:25,708
or kind of, like,
how do you react to that?
736
00:27:25,792 --> 00:27:27,292
- Okay. Yeah. Yeah.
737
00:27:27,375 --> 00:27:29,000
You're going to have it easier.
I'm meeting your mom.
738
00:27:29,042 --> 00:27:30,542
Like, you're her baby.
- Mm-hmm.
739
00:27:30,667 --> 00:27:32,000
- Exactly.
You're like, mm-hmm.
740
00:27:32,083 --> 00:27:33,542
Yeah.
- Yep.
741
00:27:33,625 --> 00:27:35,333
- I should be shaking
in my boots right now.
742
00:27:35,417 --> 00:27:41,750
♪
743
00:27:41,875 --> 00:27:44,417
- What's up, guys?
all: Hey!
744
00:27:44,500 --> 00:27:46,208
- Hello.
745
00:27:46,292 --> 00:27:48,917
- Our couples are still
getting to know each other.
746
00:27:49,042 --> 00:27:52,500
So to help provide some insight
into who they just married...
747
00:27:52,583 --> 00:27:54,250
- How are you guys?
748
00:27:54,333 --> 00:27:56,167
- We've asked them each
to sit down
749
00:27:56,250 --> 00:27:59,417
with their new partner's
closest friends and family
750
00:27:59,542 --> 00:28:01,375
before heading out
on their honeymoon.
751
00:28:01,458 --> 00:28:03,458
♪
752
00:28:03,542 --> 00:28:06,500
- How was last night?
- It was good.
753
00:28:06,583 --> 00:28:08,333
I feel like we have
so much to talk about.
754
00:28:08,417 --> 00:28:10,042
We just still haven't been
able to get through it all.
755
00:28:10,125 --> 00:28:11,583
But I think we all recognize,
756
00:28:11,708 --> 00:28:13,542
like, we have a lot
of similar traits.
757
00:28:13,625 --> 00:28:16,917
So we're trying to figure out,
like, what that means for us
758
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,667
or, like, how
that's going to go.
759
00:28:18,750 --> 00:28:20,125
- We were wondering that, too.
760
00:28:20,208 --> 00:28:21,958
I think it's a good thing,
but it also
761
00:28:22,042 --> 00:28:23,667
could create challenges,
so it'll be interesting to see.
762
00:28:23,667 --> 00:28:24,708
- What was your first thought
763
00:28:24,833 --> 00:28:26,083
when Emily first came
in the door?
764
00:28:26,208 --> 00:28:27,458
- I thought she was beautiful.
- Aww.
765
00:28:27,542 --> 00:28:28,833
- Yeah.
766
00:28:28,875 --> 00:28:30,167
- We could tell she
was, like, super excited
767
00:28:30,250 --> 00:28:31,542
when we walked in.
768
00:28:31,625 --> 00:28:33,917
But was her energy,
like, too much for you?
769
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:35,792
- No, it was awesome.
770
00:28:35,875 --> 00:28:37,458
Sometimes I get, like,
low energy and everything,
771
00:28:37,542 --> 00:28:39,375
so I kind of need that to,
like, pull me out of it.
772
00:28:39,458 --> 00:28:41,708
You know?
So it's good.
773
00:28:41,833 --> 00:28:43,917
It's a good balance
there, for sure.
774
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,458
- So what kind of wife do
you think you're going to be?
775
00:28:46,542 --> 00:28:48,500
- So I want to be a great wife.
776
00:28:48,625 --> 00:28:50,167
And I think my mom
was a great wife
777
00:28:50,208 --> 00:28:52,000
and why my parents are
very happily married.
778
00:28:52,125 --> 00:28:55,625
While I want to be
that same, like--
779
00:28:55,708 --> 00:28:57,417
I don't know what
the right word is.
780
00:28:57,500 --> 00:28:58,917
- Nurturing.
- Nurturing.
781
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,042
I also think I'm a little
bit more, like, career driven.
782
00:29:01,125 --> 00:29:03,375
But I want to, like,
have a blend of the both.
783
00:29:03,458 --> 00:29:04,708
Like, still, I haven't decided
784
00:29:04,792 --> 00:29:06,417
if I want to be
a stay-at-home mom.
785
00:29:06,500 --> 00:29:07,917
I just do really like work.
786
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,125
Really like having my own
little purpose
787
00:29:10,208 --> 00:29:11,500
and now, like, ours,
like, to contribute.
788
00:29:11,625 --> 00:29:12,875
♪
789
00:29:12,958 --> 00:29:14,458
- Emily tends to work
790
00:29:14,542 --> 00:29:15,667
long days of work.
- Yeah.
791
00:29:15,750 --> 00:29:17,833
- Will you be okay
if she has to work late?
792
00:29:17,917 --> 00:29:20,333
- I think if we, like,
openly communicate about it,
793
00:29:20,417 --> 00:29:22,000
you know, if she tells me,
like, ahead of time,
794
00:29:22,083 --> 00:29:23,875
but if it's kind of,
like, the last minute
795
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:25,417
and it happens,
like, multiple times,
796
00:29:25,500 --> 00:29:26,750
it's probably going to--
797
00:29:26,833 --> 00:29:28,667
we need to have
a conversation, for sure.
798
00:29:28,750 --> 00:29:30,333
- She loves her job.
799
00:29:30,417 --> 00:29:33,125
She works really hard,
and she's really good at it.
800
00:29:33,208 --> 00:29:35,667
So she's quite a worker bee.
- Yeah, she is.
801
00:29:35,792 --> 00:29:37,917
♪
802
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:41,208
- How do you feel, like, you
are with dealing with conflict?
803
00:29:41,292 --> 00:29:44,167
Like, do you think that's
something that you're good at,
804
00:29:44,250 --> 00:29:45,958
you'll be able to handle
with Emily?
805
00:29:46,042 --> 00:29:47,667
- I mean, I'm always
trying to get better
806
00:29:47,750 --> 00:29:49,375
at dealing with conflict.
807
00:29:49,458 --> 00:29:51,375
You know, I'm not perfect,
but I'm working on it, so...
808
00:29:51,458 --> 00:29:52,750
- Okay.
809
00:29:54,375 --> 00:29:58,667
I just feel like there's
more I want to know about him.
810
00:29:58,708 --> 00:30:02,042
And I think for me, I just want
to see how he is with Emily,
811
00:30:02,125 --> 00:30:05,708
because I think that's
more of, like, the true way
812
00:30:05,792 --> 00:30:07,542
to tell his personality
813
00:30:07,625 --> 00:30:09,375
and just how he deals
with my sister.
814
00:30:09,458 --> 00:30:10,792
♪
815
00:30:10,875 --> 00:30:12,792
- He can be stubborn sometimes.
816
00:30:12,875 --> 00:30:15,083
If something isn't exactly
how he wanted it to be,
817
00:30:15,167 --> 00:30:17,458
he might get too hung up on it.
818
00:30:17,542 --> 00:30:20,083
- He does tend to be...
819
00:30:20,167 --> 00:30:22,458
here and there,
he tends to be abrupt.
820
00:30:22,542 --> 00:30:24,708
- Abrupt as in, like, a temper?
821
00:30:24,792 --> 00:30:27,000
- He gets a little temper,
definitely.
822
00:30:27,125 --> 00:30:28,958
He gets a little temper.
823
00:30:29,042 --> 00:30:33,167
He gets annoyed when things
don't go his way.
824
00:30:33,250 --> 00:30:35,167
Sounds about right.
- That's fair, yeah.
825
00:30:35,250 --> 00:30:37,625
- Right.
826
00:30:37,708 --> 00:30:41,083
They're both so independent
and so driven.
827
00:30:41,167 --> 00:30:43,292
It seems like they're
both perfectionists
828
00:30:43,375 --> 00:30:44,833
in their own way.
829
00:30:44,875 --> 00:30:49,167
And perfectionist is
a wonderful quality for work.
830
00:30:49,250 --> 00:30:53,125
But those intense
perfectionist qualities
831
00:30:53,208 --> 00:30:57,833
at home between two extremely
stubborn individuals
832
00:30:57,917 --> 00:30:59,708
is a definite concern of mine.
833
00:30:59,792 --> 00:31:01,750
♪
834
00:31:01,875 --> 00:31:04,583
- Emily hasn't been
in a serious relationship.
835
00:31:04,667 --> 00:31:07,792
Do you think that that's going
to be a challenging issue?
836
00:31:07,875 --> 00:31:09,667
- It wasn't like a, you know,
837
00:31:09,750 --> 00:31:11,542
oh, she wasn't
in a relationship,
838
00:31:11,667 --> 00:31:13,167
like, sirens going off.
839
00:31:13,208 --> 00:31:15,667
It's just, I wonder how it's
going to be,
840
00:31:15,750 --> 00:31:18,042
because when you, you know,
have flings and all that,
841
00:31:18,125 --> 00:31:20,333
it's a totally different kind
of vibe
842
00:31:20,458 --> 00:31:23,167
than with someone you're
romantically involved with.
843
00:31:23,208 --> 00:31:25,208
There's going to be
challenges, you know?
844
00:31:25,333 --> 00:31:27,042
We're just going to have to
get through them together.
845
00:31:27,125 --> 00:31:29,333
And we're doing--
846
00:31:29,375 --> 00:31:31,500
we're establishing that
open communication right now.
847
00:31:31,542 --> 00:31:33,000
- Good.
848
00:31:33,083 --> 00:31:35,292
- So we're going to have
to rely on each other
849
00:31:35,375 --> 00:31:37,250
to get each other
out of, like, our own heads
850
00:31:37,333 --> 00:31:40,208
because this is
going to be tough.
851
00:31:40,292 --> 00:31:42,458
♪
852
00:31:42,542 --> 00:31:45,708
- So how do you feel
about changing your life
853
00:31:45,792 --> 00:31:47,333
from being independent,
854
00:31:47,375 --> 00:31:50,292
never having
to be in a relationship?
855
00:31:50,375 --> 00:31:52,250
- Mm-hmm.
- And how are you going to--
856
00:31:52,333 --> 00:31:54,875
what are you going to do
to try to adjust to that?
857
00:31:54,958 --> 00:31:56,667
- I mean, I think
I have a lot to adjust to,
858
00:31:56,750 --> 00:31:58,708
but that's what I want to,
like, be open with him about.
859
00:31:58,833 --> 00:32:00,333
Like, because it's
my first relationship,
860
00:32:00,375 --> 00:32:01,958
like, we just need
to communicate.
861
00:32:02,042 --> 00:32:03,500
And, like, we're
diving into something
862
00:32:03,583 --> 00:32:06,333
pretty crazy and fast together.
863
00:32:06,375 --> 00:32:10,000
But I think we're both here to
start figuring out,
864
00:32:10,083 --> 00:32:11,667
like, what
our life means together.
865
00:32:11,708 --> 00:32:13,333
♪
866
00:32:13,417 --> 00:32:16,542
- I'm worried about her not
having past relationships.
867
00:32:16,667 --> 00:32:20,042
I know he's going into this
with a very good mindset,
868
00:32:20,125 --> 00:32:21,542
that this is going to work,
869
00:32:21,625 --> 00:32:24,042
so I'm hopeful that she
feels the same way.
870
00:32:24,125 --> 00:32:26,083
It sounds like she's
at a point in her life
871
00:32:26,167 --> 00:32:28,000
where she's ready to settle
down and have her husband.
872
00:32:28,083 --> 00:32:31,125
But, again, I think words
can only do so much.
873
00:32:31,208 --> 00:32:32,333
It's going to be about how--
874
00:32:32,458 --> 00:32:33,958
once they get
to the real world,
875
00:32:34,042 --> 00:32:35,458
how this is actually
going to play out.
876
00:32:35,542 --> 00:32:38,333
- You know, don't
know what lies ahead.
877
00:32:38,417 --> 00:32:41,958
But for me, divorce is not
an option in my mind at all.
878
00:32:42,042 --> 00:32:44,167
Like, this has to work, so...
879
00:32:44,250 --> 00:32:45,958
- You're stuck with us?
- [laughs]
880
00:32:46,042 --> 00:32:47,625
- More like you're
stuck with me.
881
00:32:47,708 --> 00:32:49,375
[laughter]
So...
882
00:32:49,500 --> 00:32:50,958
- We'll be happy to
be stuck with you.
883
00:32:51,042 --> 00:32:51,917
- Me as well.
884
00:32:55,750 --> 00:32:56,833
[upbeat rock music]
885
00:32:56,875 --> 00:33:00,500
♪
886
00:33:00,583 --> 00:33:02,208
- How's the rest
of your guys's night?
887
00:33:02,292 --> 00:33:04,333
How you feeling today?
- Tired?
888
00:33:04,458 --> 00:33:07,000
What was it like
waking up this morning?
889
00:33:07,083 --> 00:33:08,792
- Oh, you're going
straight for this morning.
890
00:33:08,875 --> 00:33:10,292
- Yeah.
[laughter]
891
00:33:10,375 --> 00:33:12,292
- It was, like, a slow rise.
It was really nice.
892
00:33:12,375 --> 00:33:14,167
It seems like she's,
like, a night owl.
893
00:33:14,208 --> 00:33:15,667
- Yeah.
- Totally.
894
00:33:15,750 --> 00:33:18,500
- Are you a night owl?
- I am inherently a night owl.
895
00:33:18,583 --> 00:33:19,833
I work from home.
896
00:33:19,917 --> 00:33:21,917
- Do you like your job?
- Yeah. Yeah.
897
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,250
[laughter]
I don't know.
898
00:33:24,333 --> 00:33:25,542
I don't like my job
as in, like--
899
00:33:25,708 --> 00:33:26,917
it's not what defines me.
- It's not the long haul.
900
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:28,292
- Does that makes sense?
901
00:33:28,375 --> 00:33:30,042
- I feel like Becca
will totally inspire you
902
00:33:30,125 --> 00:33:32,292
to find a job that you love.
- Yeah?
903
00:33:32,375 --> 00:33:35,833
- Like, whatever you go for,
she's going to--
904
00:33:35,917 --> 00:33:37,625
- Have your back.
That's great.
905
00:33:37,708 --> 00:33:39,167
- Yeah, she's going to wave
your flag and be like,
906
00:33:39,250 --> 00:33:40,375
go for it, go for it.
- Yeah, yeah.
907
00:33:40,458 --> 00:33:42,000
- I mean, she'll go
one step further, too,
908
00:33:42,083 --> 00:33:43,333
and she'll, like,
plan things out.
909
00:33:43,417 --> 00:33:45,042
Like, okay, how are
we going to do this?
910
00:33:45,125 --> 00:33:46,333
- Really?
Great. Love that.
911
00:33:46,417 --> 00:33:47,875
- Yeah.
912
00:33:47,958 --> 00:33:50,625
Becca just thrives
off doing whatever
913
00:33:50,708 --> 00:33:52,250
she wants every day all day.
914
00:33:52,375 --> 00:33:54,208
So she'll you rub off on you.
- Yeah, yeah.
915
00:33:54,292 --> 00:33:55,750
Yeah.
916
00:33:55,875 --> 00:33:57,667
- Can I get a fork? I don't
know how to use chopsticks.
917
00:33:57,750 --> 00:33:59,542
[laughter]
918
00:33:59,625 --> 00:34:02,833
But, anyways, Becca talked to
you about her health issues.
919
00:34:02,917 --> 00:34:04,667
- Yes.
- How did that go?
920
00:34:04,750 --> 00:34:06,667
- Well, the way she kind
of explained it was like,
921
00:34:06,750 --> 00:34:08,083
this is what I have.
922
00:34:08,167 --> 00:34:10,417
This is what I'm doing.
It's a nonissue.
923
00:34:10,500 --> 00:34:13,167
I'm like, okay.
Great. Sounds good.
924
00:34:13,250 --> 00:34:15,958
- But I think, like,
she will downplay it.
925
00:34:16,042 --> 00:34:17,750
Like, she'll be like,
oh, it's fine.
926
00:34:17,875 --> 00:34:19,167
- Really? Yeah?
927
00:34:19,250 --> 00:34:20,792
- Like, for Christmas,
for example, like,
928
00:34:20,875 --> 00:34:22,333
she just had a major surgery.
- Yeah.
929
00:34:22,375 --> 00:34:24,667
- And she was alone
recovering through it.
930
00:34:24,792 --> 00:34:26,167
- Oh, wow.
931
00:34:26,250 --> 00:34:28,292
- It's going to make
me cry thinking about...
932
00:34:28,375 --> 00:34:30,000
[voice breaking] Because
I wouldn't have been able
933
00:34:30,125 --> 00:34:31,292
to do that.
934
00:34:31,375 --> 00:34:34,250
Like, and she just...
935
00:34:34,333 --> 00:34:35,958
She just keeps going
936
00:34:36,042 --> 00:34:38,833
and just, like, sees
the light in everything
937
00:34:38,917 --> 00:34:40,208
and is just like, it's fine.
938
00:34:40,333 --> 00:34:42,375
It's fine.
Like, I'm going to be fine.
939
00:34:42,500 --> 00:34:44,333
And meeting you and feeling
your energy and everything,
940
00:34:44,417 --> 00:34:46,417
I'm like, okay, like, she has
someone that's literally going
941
00:34:46,542 --> 00:34:49,167
to be able to walk
with her through this.
942
00:34:49,250 --> 00:34:52,917
And it's just--it's all
she's ever wanted, you know?
943
00:34:53,042 --> 00:34:54,667
- Yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
944
00:34:54,750 --> 00:34:56,583
♪
945
00:34:56,667 --> 00:34:58,167
It sucks to hear.
946
00:34:58,250 --> 00:35:00,292
I mean, like, especially,
like, around the holidays,
947
00:35:00,375 --> 00:35:02,042
and, like, being by yourself,
it's, like, rough.
948
00:35:02,167 --> 00:35:03,667
- Yeah, yeah.
949
00:35:03,708 --> 00:35:06,167
- I will look into it
myself to just kind of,
950
00:35:06,208 --> 00:35:07,458
like, have more
context with it.
951
00:35:07,583 --> 00:35:09,000
- Yeah.
952
00:35:09,125 --> 00:35:10,667
- If I ever need it, like,
I'd love to be able
953
00:35:10,750 --> 00:35:12,542
to reach out to guys about it.
- Absolutely.
954
00:35:12,667 --> 00:35:14,792
- I mean, I think
I can speak for all of us
955
00:35:14,875 --> 00:35:17,167
that we're all
there to do that.
956
00:35:17,250 --> 00:35:20,333
This is also
your support system.
957
00:35:20,417 --> 00:35:23,292
- I think Austin passed
the test with flying colors
958
00:35:23,375 --> 00:35:25,833
for me of just not
feeling overwhelmed
959
00:35:25,875 --> 00:35:27,542
by Becca's health issues.
- Yeah.
960
00:35:27,625 --> 00:35:30,417
- I felt really reassured
by his reaction to it.
961
00:35:30,500 --> 00:35:32,375
- Becca just forever has said,
I want to find my person.
962
00:35:32,375 --> 00:35:34,167
I want to find my person.
963
00:35:34,208 --> 00:35:36,000
And so I think that's just
our greatest wish for her,
964
00:35:36,083 --> 00:35:38,125
is that Austin's her person.
- Yeah.
965
00:35:38,208 --> 00:35:40,333
So far, so good.
- Yeah.
966
00:35:40,417 --> 00:35:42,083
We're just excited
for you guys.
967
00:35:42,167 --> 00:35:43,750
- Yeah, me too.
- Totally.
968
00:35:43,833 --> 00:35:46,167
And then if anybody had any
doubt, that first kiss, dude...
969
00:35:46,292 --> 00:35:48,667
[laughter]
Damn.
970
00:35:48,750 --> 00:35:50,833
That first kiss was hot.
- No, I'm not kidding.
971
00:35:50,917 --> 00:35:52,500
I was like, yes!
972
00:35:52,542 --> 00:35:55,833
- I was like,
you sparked some feelings.
973
00:35:55,875 --> 00:35:57,333
So amen to that.
- Mm-hmm.
974
00:35:57,417 --> 00:35:59,875
- We approve. Check.
[laughter]
975
00:35:59,958 --> 00:36:05,750
♪
976
00:36:05,875 --> 00:36:07,958
- You need sake.
- No.
977
00:36:08,083 --> 00:36:10,000
- She needs sake.
978
00:36:10,125 --> 00:36:11,417
- You need sake.
both: Yes.
979
00:36:11,500 --> 00:36:13,042
- You need sake?
- Bring that, sure.
980
00:36:13,167 --> 00:36:14,458
- I'll be right back
with all that.
981
00:36:14,542 --> 00:36:15,500
- Thank you.
982
00:36:15,583 --> 00:36:17,542
- First thoughts
after evening one?
983
00:36:17,625 --> 00:36:21,458
- Like, he's very charismatic
and, like, very personable.
984
00:36:21,542 --> 00:36:24,708
So, yeah, so I'm gathering
he's an extrovert
985
00:36:24,792 --> 00:36:26,125
that loves people.
- Yes.
986
00:36:26,208 --> 00:36:27,917
- Yes.
- Yeah.
987
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,333
- Every weekend
988
00:36:29,458 --> 00:36:31,667
he is constantly hanging out
with friends.
989
00:36:31,750 --> 00:36:33,792
He goes, has an activity,
an itinerary.
990
00:36:33,875 --> 00:36:36,250
Would you say that you
like that on the weekends?
991
00:36:36,333 --> 00:36:38,458
- I mean, we don't,
like, go out,
992
00:36:38,542 --> 00:36:40,500
like, drinking or partying.
993
00:36:40,583 --> 00:36:42,917
But, like, we get together
and have, like, themed nights,
994
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:44,500
like, a muffin bake-off.
995
00:36:44,542 --> 00:36:46,417
And there's always
a debate whether, like--
996
00:36:46,542 --> 00:36:49,750
is a cupcake a muffin,
or is a cupcake not a muffin?
997
00:36:49,833 --> 00:36:51,250
So...
- Oh, God.
998
00:36:51,333 --> 00:36:52,625
There's another one
999
00:36:52,708 --> 00:36:55,375
I have to have
these conversations with now.
1000
00:36:55,458 --> 00:36:57,458
Is a muffin a cupcake,
or is a cupcake a muffin?
1001
00:36:57,542 --> 00:37:00,667
Well, you know...
[laughter]
1002
00:37:00,750 --> 00:37:02,000
- I know.
Sorry.
1003
00:37:02,083 --> 00:37:04,833
I literally feel like
I married myself.
1004
00:37:04,917 --> 00:37:08,167
- I worry that they're total
strangers to each other.
1005
00:37:08,208 --> 00:37:11,167
And it's a long process
1006
00:37:11,292 --> 00:37:13,333
to get to know somebody else.
1007
00:37:13,417 --> 00:37:16,417
And it will try both
of their patience.
1008
00:37:16,542 --> 00:37:19,125
♪
1009
00:37:19,208 --> 00:37:21,625
- I mean, you go like,
this is all great.
1010
00:37:21,708 --> 00:37:23,833
And I thought last night
was phenomenal.
1011
00:37:23,875 --> 00:37:25,083
- Yeah. I agree.
1012
00:37:25,167 --> 00:37:27,125
- Yeah, I thought
it was phenomenal.
1013
00:37:27,208 --> 00:37:29,958
But, you know, reality
is going to slap you
1014
00:37:30,042 --> 00:37:32,125
in the face, girlfriend.
1015
00:37:32,208 --> 00:37:33,333
- Well, that's marriage.
- Yeah.
1016
00:37:33,458 --> 00:37:34,917
That is marriage, yeah.
1017
00:37:35,042 --> 00:37:36,458
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1018
00:37:36,542 --> 00:37:38,625
And, you know, the thing
that has always concerned me
1019
00:37:38,708 --> 00:37:41,250
is your heart, his heart.
- Yeah, yeah.
1020
00:37:41,333 --> 00:37:43,208
- You know,
he's my one and only.
1021
00:37:43,333 --> 00:37:44,250
- Mm-hmm. Yeah.
1022
00:37:44,333 --> 00:37:46,000
- And I'm a mama bear.
1023
00:37:46,042 --> 00:37:47,417
- Yes.
1024
00:37:47,500 --> 00:37:50,167
- My son's heart
is number one.
1025
00:37:50,250 --> 00:37:52,292
[laughter]
- I know that.
1026
00:37:52,375 --> 00:37:54,667
I think...
1027
00:37:54,750 --> 00:37:58,292
to fall in love is
one of the scariest things
1028
00:37:58,375 --> 00:37:59,875
you can do, like, honestly.
- Mm-hmm. Yeah.
1029
00:37:59,875 --> 00:38:02,167
- Like, in my head, starting
another business, fine.
1030
00:38:02,292 --> 00:38:03,958
Let's go.
1031
00:38:04,042 --> 00:38:06,583
Like, I don't know, training
for a triathlon, okay.
1032
00:38:06,708 --> 00:38:09,833
But falling in love, it's
opening up your heart
1033
00:38:09,875 --> 00:38:12,083
and literally giving it
to someone else and saying,
1034
00:38:12,208 --> 00:38:13,708
I trust you what
to do with this.
1035
00:38:13,792 --> 00:38:15,292
- Yes.
1036
00:38:15,375 --> 00:38:17,417
- I think for him to
be vulnerable with me
1037
00:38:17,542 --> 00:38:20,542
and for him to eventually give
his heart to me
1038
00:38:20,625 --> 00:38:25,125
is one of the greatest gifts
that someone can give someone.
1039
00:38:25,208 --> 00:38:26,458
- Wow.
- It is.
1040
00:38:26,542 --> 00:38:27,875
- Yeah, whether it be
a friendship,
1041
00:38:27,958 --> 00:38:29,167
a romantic relationship.
1042
00:38:29,250 --> 00:38:30,292
- Don't cry.
I'll cry, too.
1043
00:38:30,375 --> 00:38:33,167
- Yeah.
[laughter]
1044
00:38:33,250 --> 00:38:35,333
- Like, roll down my face.
- I know.
1045
00:38:35,458 --> 00:38:39,250
- Good. So you realize how
important that is.
1046
00:38:39,375 --> 00:38:40,833
- Yeah, yeah.
1047
00:38:40,833 --> 00:38:45,333
- And I'm trusting
you with his heart.
1048
00:38:45,417 --> 00:38:46,667
- I know.
1049
00:38:46,708 --> 00:38:48,292
♪
1050
00:38:52,042 --> 00:38:53,458
- ♪ I feel reconnected
1051
00:38:53,458 --> 00:38:55,833
♪ This life just leveled up
1052
00:38:55,875 --> 00:38:58,208
- Hello.
- Hey.
1053
00:38:58,333 --> 00:39:00,333
- How's it going?
- How are you?
1054
00:39:00,417 --> 00:39:01,792
- Hi, Cameron.
- Hello.
1055
00:39:01,875 --> 00:39:03,833
- How are ya?
1056
00:39:03,917 --> 00:39:06,167
- Nice to see you.
1057
00:39:06,292 --> 00:39:07,375
- How you doing?
- So...
1058
00:39:07,458 --> 00:39:08,875
I'm doing well.
- Tired?
1059
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:10,542
- I think I'm tired.
1060
00:39:10,625 --> 00:39:12,292
But I can already tell, like,
this is a very good start.
1061
00:39:12,375 --> 00:39:14,208
- Oh, good, yeah.
- You know what I mean?
1062
00:39:14,208 --> 00:39:16,542
Like, I feel like
there is potential.
1063
00:39:16,625 --> 00:39:18,333
And that's what
I know right now.
1064
00:39:18,458 --> 00:39:19,708
- That's good.
- Yeah.
1065
00:39:19,792 --> 00:39:21,667
- I know I have a lot
of questions.
1066
00:39:21,750 --> 00:39:23,125
Like, long term,
1067
00:39:23,208 --> 00:39:24,875
like, do you think that you're
going to be with her?
1068
00:39:24,958 --> 00:39:27,500
Are you attracted to her?
I have so many questions.
1069
00:39:27,542 --> 00:39:29,333
- I'm definitely
attracted to her.
1070
00:39:29,417 --> 00:39:31,625
It's hard for me to answer
the longer-term question.
1071
00:39:31,708 --> 00:39:33,167
- 'Cause you got to find out
what you like about her.
1072
00:39:33,250 --> 00:39:35,000
- Yes.
1073
00:39:35,042 --> 00:39:36,583
- So you don't really know
what you like about her yet.
1074
00:39:36,667 --> 00:39:38,208
- Yes.
- Other than we all love her.
1075
00:39:38,292 --> 00:39:40,292
- Yes. Of course.
- Right.
1076
00:39:40,375 --> 00:39:42,333
- How many serious
relationships
1077
00:39:42,375 --> 00:39:44,583
have you been in?
1078
00:39:44,667 --> 00:39:47,667
- There's about five that have
lasted around the year mark.
1079
00:39:47,833 --> 00:39:50,375
It's usually, like, be
in relationship for a year,
1080
00:39:50,458 --> 00:39:52,583
then, like,
decompress for a year,
1081
00:39:52,667 --> 00:39:55,000
be in a relationship for a
year, like, do me for a year,
1082
00:39:55,083 --> 00:39:56,667
you know?
- Mm-hmm.
1083
00:39:56,708 --> 00:39:58,250
- So what makes us think
you're not going to do that?
1084
00:39:58,375 --> 00:40:00,083
[laughter]
1085
00:40:00,167 --> 00:40:02,208
Are you going to decompress
for a year from my sis?
1086
00:40:02,292 --> 00:40:03,833
'Cause I'll be
out for you, so...
1087
00:40:03,917 --> 00:40:05,667
♪
1088
00:40:05,708 --> 00:40:08,208
- Well, this is a very
different circumstance.
1089
00:40:08,292 --> 00:40:10,083
- Yeah.
[chuckles]
1090
00:40:10,167 --> 00:40:12,542
- Do you guys feel like he's
ready for marriage, though?
1091
00:40:12,625 --> 00:40:14,500
- Yeah, I don't think
he would have signed up
1092
00:40:14,625 --> 00:40:16,208
for this if he wasn't.
- Yeah. Okay.
1093
00:40:16,292 --> 00:40:17,833
- He comes off, like,
super confident.
1094
00:40:17,917 --> 00:40:20,250
And so you really have
to, like, get to know him
1095
00:40:20,333 --> 00:40:21,750
so you get to see,
like, his sweet side.
1096
00:40:21,833 --> 00:40:23,167
- Right.
1097
00:40:23,250 --> 00:40:25,458
- As much as he
has very logical,
1098
00:40:25,542 --> 00:40:27,542
you know,
the engineering mind,
1099
00:40:27,625 --> 00:40:30,167
like, he does have a strong,
like, emotional intelligence.
1100
00:40:30,250 --> 00:40:31,875
- Yeah.
Would you say he's romantic?
1101
00:40:31,958 --> 00:40:33,333
♪
1102
00:40:33,375 --> 00:40:34,833
No.
1103
00:40:34,958 --> 00:40:36,167
- We don't really know.
1104
00:40:36,208 --> 00:40:38,167
♪
1105
00:40:38,250 --> 00:40:40,042
- I'm more the kind
of person where
1106
00:40:40,042 --> 00:40:44,667
I show my love and affection
with my partner physically.
1107
00:40:44,750 --> 00:40:47,000
She verbalizes her feelings.
1108
00:40:47,083 --> 00:40:49,500
This could become a problem.
1109
00:40:49,583 --> 00:40:51,500
If I want to share how I feel,
1110
00:40:51,542 --> 00:40:54,250
I'm going to want to pace
the physical side faster.
1111
00:40:54,333 --> 00:40:55,667
- Great, yeah.
1112
00:40:55,667 --> 00:40:57,708
- But I have to be receptive...
- Right.
1113
00:40:57,833 --> 00:41:00,458
- That if she's not ready
for that,
1114
00:41:00,542 --> 00:41:02,625
that that pacing
has to be slowed down.
1115
00:41:02,708 --> 00:41:06,292
And because we are going to
do this kind of dance where,
1116
00:41:06,375 --> 00:41:08,792
you know, she's expressing
herself verbally
1117
00:41:08,875 --> 00:41:11,375
and I'm trying to figure out,
does that mean I kiss you--
1118
00:41:11,458 --> 00:41:13,167
[laughter]
- Yeah.
1119
00:41:13,250 --> 00:41:14,750
Yeah, that's tough.
1120
00:41:14,833 --> 00:41:18,375
- And there's going to be,
like, kind of this dance.
1121
00:41:18,458 --> 00:41:19,958
And that will be interesting.
1122
00:41:20,042 --> 00:41:21,292
♪
1123
00:41:21,375 --> 00:41:23,167
- I still feel overwhelmed.
1124
00:41:23,250 --> 00:41:25,667
I'm glad we know him now.
He seems like a nice guy.
1125
00:41:25,750 --> 00:41:27,542
I still have lots
of questions for him.
1126
00:41:27,625 --> 00:41:29,125
I still don't know him.
1127
00:41:29,208 --> 00:41:31,500
I don't know the dynamic
between him and Clare yet,
1128
00:41:31,542 --> 00:41:33,667
so there's a lot
still to think about.
1129
00:41:33,708 --> 00:41:36,167
I do think you need to
be very communicative
1130
00:41:36,333 --> 00:41:38,000
and, like, make sure
that you guys are
1131
00:41:38,083 --> 00:41:40,208
in constant communication
about how you feel.
1132
00:41:40,292 --> 00:41:41,667
♪
1133
00:41:41,708 --> 00:41:44,000
- It's on you guys.
- Yeah, exactly.
1134
00:41:44,125 --> 00:41:46,167
Exactly.
No pressure.
1135
00:41:46,250 --> 00:41:49,125
[laughter]
1136
00:41:49,208 --> 00:41:56,000
♪
1137
00:41:58,208 --> 00:42:00,000
- Hey.
- Hello. How are you?
1138
00:42:00,083 --> 00:42:01,250
all: Hi.
1139
00:42:01,375 --> 00:42:02,792
- How are you?
So nice to see you again.
1140
00:42:02,875 --> 00:42:05,000
- I know. It's so nice to
see you as well.
1141
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:07,042
- How y'all feeling
after last night?
1142
00:42:07,125 --> 00:42:08,333
- Ooh, tired.
- Tired?
1143
00:42:08,458 --> 00:42:09,750
[laughter]
1144
00:42:09,833 --> 00:42:11,875
- To marriage
and hard questions.
1145
00:42:11,958 --> 00:42:13,917
- Cheers.
- Not hard questions.
1146
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:15,125
[laughter]
1147
00:42:15,250 --> 00:42:17,250
- So, I mean, just, like,
right off the bat,
1148
00:42:17,375 --> 00:42:19,500
what are your intentions
with my brother?
1149
00:42:19,625 --> 00:42:20,917
- Yeah, yeah, for sure.
1150
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,542
Now that I actually
have a face to the person
1151
00:42:23,542 --> 00:42:25,625
I've committed to
this whole time,
1152
00:42:25,708 --> 00:42:28,583
I don't know right now--
1153
00:42:28,667 --> 00:42:30,708
like, I feel like
I have a lot to offer someone.
1154
00:42:30,833 --> 00:42:33,042
Honestly, I just want to be
1155
00:42:33,125 --> 00:42:35,167
as loving as a partner
as he deserves
1156
00:42:35,292 --> 00:42:37,875
and as loving as a partner
that I would want, honestly.
1157
00:42:37,958 --> 00:42:39,917
- That's honestly amazing
to hear
1158
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:43,333
because he's
all about reciprocation.
1159
00:42:43,417 --> 00:42:46,542
- Do you think
that you are the person
1160
00:42:46,625 --> 00:42:49,542
or could be a good person
for her?
1161
00:42:49,625 --> 00:42:51,833
- I think I have
the capabilities
1162
00:42:51,958 --> 00:42:53,792
of being a great husband.
- Okay.
1163
00:42:53,875 --> 00:42:57,333
- You know, the way I grew up,
you know, I had a father.
1164
00:42:57,458 --> 00:42:59,042
You know, he left
when I was very young.
1165
00:42:59,125 --> 00:43:00,500
You know, it really--
1166
00:43:00,583 --> 00:43:02,750
it shifted something
in me where, you know,
1167
00:43:02,833 --> 00:43:06,000
I really just wanted to protect
my family in any way I can.
1168
00:43:06,042 --> 00:43:07,833
Just whatever they need,
you know,
1169
00:43:07,917 --> 00:43:10,833
I really do put myself
in the line of fire
1170
00:43:10,917 --> 00:43:13,500
to make sure that they're
feeling all right.
1171
00:43:13,542 --> 00:43:15,292
You know, and that's
definitely something
1172
00:43:15,292 --> 00:43:18,292
that I would not have
an issue doing with Lauren.
1173
00:43:18,375 --> 00:43:20,458
- How do you feel
1174
00:43:20,542 --> 00:43:22,583
now that you are married
1175
00:43:22,667 --> 00:43:24,708
to a strong, independent
Black woman?
1176
00:43:24,792 --> 00:43:26,250
- Yeah.
- Like, how are you feeling
1177
00:43:26,333 --> 00:43:27,458
in terms of that?
1178
00:43:27,542 --> 00:43:29,208
- Honestly, I'm
feeling empowered
1179
00:43:29,292 --> 00:43:31,833
just being her husband.
1180
00:43:31,917 --> 00:43:34,625
You know, I grew up in--the
household was ran by women.
1181
00:43:34,708 --> 00:43:39,042
And so women as a whole
I hold at a higher regard.
1182
00:43:39,125 --> 00:43:42,167
Being the minority, I would
say it's held even higher.
1183
00:43:42,250 --> 00:43:43,833
♪
1184
00:43:43,917 --> 00:43:46,333
- I really want us to be
able to mesh our cultures
1185
00:43:46,458 --> 00:43:47,875
as much as possible.
- Yeah.
1186
00:43:48,042 --> 00:43:49,708
- And, like,
I really want this
1187
00:43:49,792 --> 00:43:51,417
to feel like our relationship,
1188
00:43:51,500 --> 00:43:53,500
our home.
- Mm-hmm. Yeah.
1189
00:43:53,542 --> 00:43:55,667
- I want him to feel
like he belongs.
1190
00:43:55,750 --> 00:43:57,167
- I love that...
- Yeah.
1191
00:43:57,208 --> 00:43:59,208
- Yeah, especially the emphasis
on belonging...
1192
00:43:59,208 --> 00:44:01,125
- Yeah.
- Because, I mean, me and Orion
1193
00:44:01,208 --> 00:44:03,083
both being biracial
and, you know, being
1194
00:44:03,208 --> 00:44:05,917
from the reservation and
then now living in Denver,
1195
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:07,667
you know, that was definitely
something that we both
1196
00:44:07,708 --> 00:44:09,333
sort of, like,
had challenges with.
1197
00:44:09,417 --> 00:44:11,125
So that's-- I
love hearing that.
1198
00:44:11,208 --> 00:44:12,833
- Yeah.
1199
00:44:12,875 --> 00:44:15,167
- Do you have any concerns
about your age difference?
1200
00:44:15,250 --> 00:44:17,000
- I'm not going to say
it's not a concern.
1201
00:44:17,042 --> 00:44:18,542
- Mm-hmm.
- But I think
1202
00:44:18,667 --> 00:44:20,458
the concern is diminished
now that I've met him.
1203
00:44:20,542 --> 00:44:21,750
- I got you.
1204
00:44:21,875 --> 00:44:23,167
- Even with him living at home,
1205
00:44:23,250 --> 00:44:25,167
like, we talked
about that yesterday.
1206
00:44:25,250 --> 00:44:27,458
And I just asked, like, okay,
with your time living at home,
1207
00:44:27,542 --> 00:44:29,208
like, what are you doing?
1208
00:44:29,333 --> 00:44:31,500
- It's important for
Lauren to be with someone
1209
00:44:31,500 --> 00:44:33,542
who is financially stable.
1210
00:44:33,542 --> 00:44:34,917
- Sure.
- Would you say that you are?
1211
00:44:35,042 --> 00:44:36,500
♪
1212
00:44:36,500 --> 00:44:38,083
- You know, right now,
you know,
1213
00:44:38,208 --> 00:44:39,750
I have the consistent
check coming in.
1214
00:44:39,875 --> 00:44:41,500
There's always a job to walk.
1215
00:44:41,542 --> 00:44:43,917
You know, there's more
people to talk to.
1216
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:47,375
So I definitely am
very focused on my career
1217
00:44:47,458 --> 00:44:49,708
and what I want to do with it.
1218
00:44:49,833 --> 00:44:51,333
- Just as, like, a rule
of thumb, I would just--
1219
00:44:51,417 --> 00:44:53,833
if he's working, just give him,
like, ten minutes after work.
1220
00:44:53,958 --> 00:44:55,375
He doesn't really like
to, like, you know,
1221
00:44:55,542 --> 00:44:57,083
get, like, hugs or, you know--
1222
00:44:57,167 --> 00:44:58,750
It's not personal.
- Yeah, that's good to know.
1223
00:44:58,833 --> 00:45:00,542
- He's just--Yeah.
1224
00:45:00,625 --> 00:45:02,083
- Because I'm
a very affectionate person.
1225
00:45:02,208 --> 00:45:03,833
So, when he comes home,
I'm like,
1226
00:45:03,833 --> 00:45:05,208
I'm going to want to
talk to you and hug you.
1227
00:45:05,292 --> 00:45:06,875
And, like, now that
I have these heads-up,
1228
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:08,708
I think it'll be good
for us moving forward
1229
00:45:08,708 --> 00:45:10,083
because I'm an overthinker.
- Yeah.
1230
00:45:10,167 --> 00:45:12,042
- And so without knowing
that, I'd be like,
1231
00:45:12,167 --> 00:45:13,167
you don't like me?
1232
00:45:13,208 --> 00:45:14,667
♪
1233
00:45:14,708 --> 00:45:16,208
- She is one
of those individuals
1234
00:45:16,292 --> 00:45:18,000
that sometimes she does
get in her head a lot.
1235
00:45:18,042 --> 00:45:19,250
- Get lost in thoughts.
- Yeah.
1236
00:45:19,458 --> 00:45:21,417
Sometimes you may have to
reel her in and say, hey,
1237
00:45:21,500 --> 00:45:22,792
we're in the present.
1238
00:45:22,875 --> 00:45:24,333
Remember where we are.
1239
00:45:24,417 --> 00:45:26,667
- Because she's so used to
doing everything herself.
1240
00:45:26,750 --> 00:45:28,958
She's always had
to be independent.
1241
00:45:28,958 --> 00:45:30,833
She's a strong Black woman.
1242
00:45:30,917 --> 00:45:32,500
- It will take some
getting used to probably
1243
00:45:32,583 --> 00:45:33,750
as well for her.
- Yeah.
1244
00:45:33,875 --> 00:45:34,875
- That could be something
1245
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,000
you all can work
navigating together.
1246
00:45:37,083 --> 00:45:39,292
And that's going to take time.
- Yeah. Okay.
1247
00:45:39,375 --> 00:45:42,708
♪
1248
00:45:46,667 --> 00:45:47,667
♪
1249
00:45:47,875 --> 00:45:49,833
- ♪ All along,
heading in the... ♪
1250
00:45:49,917 --> 00:45:51,583
- I'm back.
- How'd it go?
1251
00:45:51,708 --> 00:45:53,292
- Mm.
How are you?
1252
00:45:53,375 --> 00:45:55,000
- Doing well.
1253
00:45:55,042 --> 00:45:57,167
- How you doing?
- [laughing] Good.
1254
00:45:57,250 --> 00:46:00,583
- How are you doing?
- I'm good.
1255
00:46:00,667 --> 00:46:02,417
- How did talking
to my family go?
1256
00:46:02,500 --> 00:46:03,625
- It went well.
1257
00:46:03,708 --> 00:46:05,208
- Really?
- Oh, yeah.
1258
00:46:05,208 --> 00:46:07,750
- Okay, good.
- I learned...
1259
00:46:07,833 --> 00:46:10,083
I think what we suspected...
- Right.
1260
00:46:10,208 --> 00:46:13,250
- Which is that we're going
to have to work
1261
00:46:13,333 --> 00:46:14,708
on our communication
1262
00:46:14,833 --> 00:46:17,167
when it comes to our feelings
about each other.
1263
00:46:17,250 --> 00:46:21,583
There's potentially going
to be crossed wires or...
1264
00:46:21,708 --> 00:46:23,667
- Yikes.
- Misread messages.
1265
00:46:23,708 --> 00:46:24,833
- Right. Yeah.
1266
00:46:24,917 --> 00:46:26,708
- So what happened
with the parents?
1267
00:46:26,833 --> 00:46:29,000
- Parents was good.
1268
00:46:29,125 --> 00:46:32,125
Your mom, like, asked about
the relationship stuff again.
1269
00:46:32,208 --> 00:46:34,000
And I was just
like, it wasn't--
1270
00:46:34,083 --> 00:46:35,875
like, it wasn't
a concern knowing
1271
00:46:35,958 --> 00:46:38,625
that you weren't
in a relationship.
1272
00:46:38,708 --> 00:46:40,125
- That's what
I was kind of saying, too,
1273
00:46:40,208 --> 00:46:41,500
is, like, why I want to focus
1274
00:46:41,542 --> 00:46:43,000
on communication,
because, like, obviously,
1275
00:46:43,042 --> 00:46:44,333
I haven't been
in relationships.
1276
00:46:44,375 --> 00:46:46,000
Like, even though
I am an open book,
1277
00:46:46,125 --> 00:46:47,875
I'm sure there are going
to be times where it's not
1278
00:46:47,958 --> 00:46:49,375
going to be, like, as easy.
1279
00:46:49,458 --> 00:46:52,167
- Never hold back on me.
That's all I ask.
1280
00:46:52,167 --> 00:46:54,833
Like, if you want to cuddle,
just grab me, like,
1281
00:46:54,875 --> 00:46:57,333
to do whatever you want to do,
you know what I mean?
1282
00:46:57,500 --> 00:46:59,667
We're going to figure it out
because, you know,
1283
00:46:59,792 --> 00:47:01,500
I'm, like, super into you.
- Yeah.
1284
00:47:01,542 --> 00:47:03,042
- So, like, yeah.
1285
00:47:03,042 --> 00:47:04,833
♪
1286
00:47:04,958 --> 00:47:06,667
- I got my hair braided
for the honeymoon.
1287
00:47:06,708 --> 00:47:08,292
- Ooh, that's exciting.
1288
00:47:08,375 --> 00:47:09,833
- Could you just lay
my hair down, so I can,
1289
00:47:09,917 --> 00:47:11,792
like, lay my edges down?
- Okay.
1290
00:47:11,792 --> 00:47:14,292
- You know what that means?
- Yes, I do. I do.
1291
00:47:14,375 --> 00:47:16,083
- Yeah, so I'm just going
to keep it on till tomorrow?
1292
00:47:16,167 --> 00:47:17,667
- How was the appointment?
- It was good.
1293
00:47:17,750 --> 00:47:19,167
It was a nice
catching up with her.
1294
00:47:19,250 --> 00:47:20,083
I hadn't seen her in a minute,
so it was good.
1295
00:47:20,208 --> 00:47:21,792
- Nice.
- A little long.
1296
00:47:21,875 --> 00:47:24,583
- Is she your usual go-to?
1297
00:47:24,667 --> 00:47:25,792
- I have
two main braiders, yeah.
1298
00:47:25,875 --> 00:47:27,208
- Okay. Okay.
1299
00:47:27,292 --> 00:47:28,917
[knock at door]
- Who's that?
1300
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:30,458
- Let's see.
I'll get it. I'll get it.
1301
00:47:30,542 --> 00:47:31,458
- Okay.
1302
00:47:34,042 --> 00:47:35,292
- Ooh.
1303
00:47:35,375 --> 00:47:37,667
We got gifts, baby.
- Oh, no way.
1304
00:47:37,750 --> 00:47:40,208
- We got gifts.
- Exciting.
1305
00:47:40,292 --> 00:47:41,958
- I wonder what this could be.
1306
00:47:42,042 --> 00:47:45,292
- [vocalizing]
- What's that?
1307
00:47:45,375 --> 00:47:48,167
both: Ooh.
1308
00:47:48,208 --> 00:47:52,833
- "Tomorrow you will be
heading to the Grand Palla"--
1309
00:47:52,917 --> 00:47:54,833
Help.
[laughter]
1310
00:47:54,917 --> 00:47:58,000
- The Grand Palladium Costa--
What?
1311
00:47:58,125 --> 00:48:00,208
How do I pronounce that?
- Mujeres.
1312
00:48:00,292 --> 00:48:01,542
- Resort.
1313
00:48:01,667 --> 00:48:02,833
A spa in beautiful...
1314
00:48:02,875 --> 00:48:04,917
both: Cancún, Mexico.
1315
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:06,375
- Viva la México!
1316
00:48:06,458 --> 00:48:08,042
Where's our flag?
1317
00:48:08,125 --> 00:48:09,667
♪
1318
00:48:09,750 --> 00:48:11,583
- I burn quick.
- You burn quick?
1319
00:48:11,667 --> 00:48:13,000
- Very, very quick.
1320
00:48:13,125 --> 00:48:14,750
And, yeah, I've
got the Irish skin.
1321
00:48:14,875 --> 00:48:16,792
- I mean, I could be used
as a traffic signal.
1322
00:48:16,875 --> 00:48:19,417
- Right.
[laughter]
1323
00:48:19,542 --> 00:48:21,833
- They got us T-shirts.
- "Wifey." Yeah.
1324
00:48:21,875 --> 00:48:24,875
- Hawaiian shirts.
1325
00:48:24,958 --> 00:48:27,125
- We're going to
have no friends.
1326
00:48:27,208 --> 00:48:28,875
- First travel trip.
- I know.
1327
00:48:28,958 --> 00:48:30,792
- Now we got to take
this and go pack.
1328
00:48:30,792 --> 00:48:32,000
- And hope for the best.
1329
00:48:32,042 --> 00:48:33,708
Cheers.
- To the best.
1330
00:48:33,792 --> 00:48:36,125
- Beach towels,
some sunscreen...
1331
00:48:36,208 --> 00:48:37,667
- How does that look?
1332
00:48:37,750 --> 00:48:39,500
Ooh, I got to
drop my ponytail.
1333
00:48:39,583 --> 00:48:41,208
- You look cute.
I love that.
1334
00:48:41,292 --> 00:48:42,667
♪
1335
00:48:42,750 --> 00:48:44,625
- So I really like color.
1336
00:48:44,708 --> 00:48:46,833
I got orange, a fun one-piece.
1337
00:48:46,875 --> 00:48:48,000
I don't really know
how it goes on yet.
1338
00:48:48,042 --> 00:48:50,333
I got to figure that out.
1339
00:48:50,417 --> 00:48:53,667
I'm so happy to get
out of this tundra.
1340
00:48:53,708 --> 00:48:56,208
I think we'll probably get
to figure each other out
1341
00:48:56,208 --> 00:48:57,458
in, like, the bedroom more.
1342
00:48:57,542 --> 00:48:59,625
I did pack
all my bachelorette props--
1343
00:48:59,708 --> 00:49:01,250
fuzzy handcuffs, lingerie.
1344
00:49:01,375 --> 00:49:04,500
I did not bring
the whip, though.
1345
00:49:04,625 --> 00:49:06,208
It takes up too much space,
1346
00:49:06,333 --> 00:49:08,500
and I think
it's just too aggressive.
1347
00:49:08,542 --> 00:49:09,667
Yep.
1348
00:49:11,208 --> 00:49:13,958
♪
1349
00:49:14,042 --> 00:49:16,375
- Check out that. [laughs]
- I like it.
1350
00:49:16,458 --> 00:49:19,083
I feel like it would
look nice on me
1351
00:49:19,208 --> 00:49:21,042
with this pattern that's
already happening.
1352
00:49:21,125 --> 00:49:23,708
You've got a tiny head.
That fit me perfectly.
1353
00:49:23,792 --> 00:49:25,208
- Do you have a tiny head?
1354
00:49:25,292 --> 00:49:27,000
- I don't know.
Do I have a big head?
1355
00:49:27,042 --> 00:49:28,792
- Maybe you just
have a normal head.
1356
00:49:28,875 --> 00:49:30,500
Why can't we just both
be normal?
1357
00:49:30,542 --> 00:49:32,917
[both chuckle]
- Certainly not in the cards.
1358
00:49:33,042 --> 00:49:34,458
♪
1359
00:49:34,542 --> 00:49:35,667
Wow.
1360
00:49:35,750 --> 00:49:37,667
Show me them swimmers, boy.
1361
00:49:37,792 --> 00:49:39,250
I wish I could do the...
1362
00:49:39,375 --> 00:49:41,083
[imitates wolf-whistle]
Whistle.
1363
00:49:41,167 --> 00:49:43,708
[imitates wolf-whistle]
- That's great.
1364
00:49:43,792 --> 00:49:45,500
I'm really hot in three shirts.
1365
00:49:45,583 --> 00:49:47,500
- Well, you did it to yourself.
- [laughs]
1366
00:49:47,542 --> 00:49:48,833
- Take it off
and pack it, right?
1367
00:49:48,917 --> 00:49:50,250
- What?
1368
00:49:50,375 --> 00:49:51,833
- Take off your clothes
and pack them.
1369
00:49:51,833 --> 00:49:53,042
- [laughs]
1370
00:49:53,125 --> 00:49:54,833
That's a good point.
1371
00:49:54,833 --> 00:49:56,542
- We're going to have fun.
1372
00:49:56,625 --> 00:49:57,917
We already have fun
in a room with nothing to do
1373
00:49:58,000 --> 00:49:59,542
and nowhere to go,
1374
00:49:59,625 --> 00:50:02,542
so it already feels like,
put us in an activity,
1375
00:50:02,625 --> 00:50:04,750
and the sky's the limit.
1376
00:50:04,833 --> 00:50:06,375
Can I see you naked?
1377
00:50:06,458 --> 00:50:07,500
- [chuckles]
1378
00:50:11,542 --> 00:50:13,750
[upbeat music]
1379
00:50:13,750 --> 00:50:15,792
♪
1380
00:50:15,875 --> 00:50:17,792
- Are you excited?
- So excited.
1381
00:50:17,875 --> 00:50:19,125
- I'm very excited.
1382
00:50:19,208 --> 00:50:21,292
I just can't believe
how small...
1383
00:50:21,375 --> 00:50:23,833
- So we're about
to go to Mexico.
1384
00:50:23,875 --> 00:50:25,167
I'm a light packer.
- Yeah.
1385
00:50:25,292 --> 00:50:27,125
That's a good thing, you know,
minimalist.
1386
00:50:27,208 --> 00:50:29,875
- You have my clothes
as well, right?
1387
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:31,625
- No. You have--
[laughs]
1388
00:50:31,708 --> 00:50:33,500
♪
1389
00:50:33,625 --> 00:50:36,167
- Obviously, Clare needs to
get used to my sense of humor,
1390
00:50:36,208 --> 00:50:37,875
I think, so hopefully--
- I think you're hilarious.
1391
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:39,667
I'm laughing.
1392
00:50:39,792 --> 00:50:43,167
- So hopefully, you know, a
few days in a foreign country
1393
00:50:43,208 --> 00:50:45,458
will really get
her used to that.
1394
00:50:45,542 --> 00:50:47,167
- Hey.
- Hello.
1395
00:50:47,250 --> 00:50:48,250
- What's up?
- I'm Clare.
1396
00:50:48,333 --> 00:50:50,417
both:
Nice to meet you.
1397
00:50:50,417 --> 00:50:51,917
- Congratulations
on the marriage.
1398
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:53,000
- Thank you. You too.
1399
00:50:53,042 --> 00:50:54,583
- Hell, yeah.
- Hi. I'm Becca.
1400
00:50:54,667 --> 00:50:57,083
both:
Nice to meet you.
1401
00:50:57,167 --> 00:50:58,875
- You guys look great.
- Hi.
1402
00:50:58,958 --> 00:51:00,125
- Brennan...
1403
00:51:00,208 --> 00:51:02,167
- And Emily are cute as hell.
1404
00:51:02,208 --> 00:51:03,750
- You guys are adorable.
1405
00:51:03,833 --> 00:51:05,458
- Oh, you're wearing
the bride hat.
1406
00:51:05,542 --> 00:51:07,333
- Clare and Cameron...
- There's a size difference.
1407
00:51:07,375 --> 00:51:09,458
- There's just a few inches
in between them.
1408
00:51:09,542 --> 00:51:11,000
- Hey.
- Hey!
1409
00:51:11,083 --> 00:51:14,208
- Orion and Lauren--
I really like them.
1410
00:51:14,292 --> 00:51:16,750
- Lauren and Orion feel like
they have been together
1411
00:51:16,875 --> 00:51:17,958
for 16 years.
1412
00:51:18,042 --> 00:51:20,542
- Want to sit down?
- Sure.
1413
00:51:20,625 --> 00:51:23,708
- This is their 20th
anniversary honeymoon--math.
1414
00:51:23,792 --> 00:51:25,917
[laughter]
1415
00:51:26,042 --> 00:51:29,042
- Hi!
- Yo.
1416
00:51:29,167 --> 00:51:31,625
- What's up, man?
- Where's your wife?
1417
00:51:31,708 --> 00:51:33,667
- Oh, we'll get into that.
Don't worry.
1418
00:51:33,792 --> 00:51:35,333
all: Oh.
- We'll get into that.
1419
00:51:35,417 --> 00:51:36,667
- Oh, no.
1420
00:51:36,708 --> 00:51:39,208
- What's going on,
if you don't mind sharing?
1421
00:51:39,292 --> 00:51:40,750
- You know, wedding day
came around.
1422
00:51:40,875 --> 00:51:43,250
And she comes down.
1423
00:51:43,333 --> 00:51:47,208
She pauses for a moment
and then essentially states
1424
00:51:47,292 --> 00:51:49,167
that she doesn't want to marry
a stranger.
1425
00:51:49,292 --> 00:51:52,333
[serious music]
1426
00:51:52,458 --> 00:51:53,958
♪
1427
00:51:54,042 --> 00:51:55,875
- I wonder, like,
why she decided
1428
00:51:55,958 --> 00:51:57,333
to do it, like, at the altar.
- Yeah.
1429
00:51:57,417 --> 00:51:59,625
- Like, I feel like she had
opportunities to, like,
1430
00:51:59,708 --> 00:52:01,542
not put you through that.
- I agree.
1431
00:52:01,625 --> 00:52:04,500
- It does make you wonder,
though--was she even ready?
1432
00:52:04,583 --> 00:52:06,833
- Yeah, that's--yeah.
- I mean, clearly, she was not.
1433
00:52:06,917 --> 00:52:10,667
- Did you guys, like, get
a chance to just, like, talk?
1434
00:52:10,792 --> 00:52:13,667
- No.
So she left a note.
1435
00:52:13,708 --> 00:52:15,833
And that was
our real only contact.
1436
00:52:15,958 --> 00:52:18,708
- Would that be something
you want to do, is talk to her?
1437
00:52:18,875 --> 00:52:22,208
- I would definitely entertain
it, but I don't need it.
1438
00:52:22,292 --> 00:52:25,542
I'm not entitled to an apology.
1439
00:52:25,625 --> 00:52:29,375
You don't need to apologize
to me for making a decision
1440
00:52:29,458 --> 00:52:31,875
that you feel is best for you.
1441
00:52:31,958 --> 00:52:33,500
So those--
1442
00:52:33,583 --> 00:52:36,167
- Mike, you're going
to be a great husband.
1443
00:52:36,208 --> 00:52:38,375
- I feel like, [bleep],
you do owe me an apology.
1444
00:52:38,542 --> 00:52:39,667
Like...
1445
00:52:39,708 --> 00:52:42,250
- I just wish she
at least was open-minded
1446
00:52:42,375 --> 00:52:43,833
and, like, gave you a chance.
1447
00:52:43,875 --> 00:52:45,875
- You know, for me, the idea
1448
00:52:45,958 --> 00:52:48,625
of this relationship
not working out,
1449
00:52:48,708 --> 00:52:51,250
I identified that as,
that could be potentially
1450
00:52:51,333 --> 00:52:53,750
the biggest failure
I've experienced personally.
1451
00:52:53,833 --> 00:52:57,333
And regardless of the level
of control or influence
1452
00:52:57,417 --> 00:52:59,250
I had over the situation,
1453
00:52:59,333 --> 00:53:01,500
you know, unfortunately,
for me, I still feel that.
1454
00:53:01,542 --> 00:53:04,125
♪
1455
00:53:04,208 --> 00:53:06,042
- You didn't get a shot.
1456
00:53:06,125 --> 00:53:07,500
- Yeah, and sometimes
that feels worse, right?
1457
00:53:07,583 --> 00:53:08,458
♪
1458
00:53:08,542 --> 00:53:12,125
- I want to say
your composure--
1459
00:53:12,208 --> 00:53:14,958
it really makes me think
1460
00:53:15,042 --> 00:53:18,000
that you're the guy that we all
want in our trench with us.
1461
00:53:18,042 --> 00:53:20,667
Like, you would be there
no matter what.
1462
00:53:20,708 --> 00:53:23,500
It's incredible to see
how you've handled this.
1463
00:53:23,625 --> 00:53:25,542
- Maybe this experience will
bring you your wife,
1464
00:53:25,625 --> 00:53:27,333
just not in the way
that you thought.
1465
00:53:27,375 --> 00:53:28,875
- I know. It's so cliché,
but I do believe
1466
00:53:28,958 --> 00:53:30,500
everything happens
for a reason.
1467
00:53:30,542 --> 00:53:32,250
So, even though, like, in this
moment, you're disappointed--
1468
00:53:32,375 --> 00:53:34,458
I think we all are--like,
I believe this is going
1469
00:53:34,542 --> 00:53:36,500
to pay off for you
in the long run.
1470
00:53:36,542 --> 00:53:39,000
- But you got to be
there to open the door.
1471
00:53:39,125 --> 00:53:40,500
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1472
00:53:40,542 --> 00:53:42,125
- I would also like to
cordially invite you
1473
00:53:42,208 --> 00:53:43,708
to the rest of our honeymoon.
1474
00:53:43,792 --> 00:53:45,375
[all cheering]
- Please!
1475
00:53:45,458 --> 00:53:46,833
♪
1476
00:53:46,917 --> 00:53:49,250
- I promise you,
you can fit in Clare's bag.
1477
00:53:49,333 --> 00:53:51,792
[laughter]
- True. That's probably true.
1478
00:53:51,875 --> 00:53:54,167
- Well, thank you, guys.
That means a lot.
1479
00:53:54,208 --> 00:53:55,750
- Cheers to you.
- Yeah, cheers.
1480
00:53:55,875 --> 00:53:57,083
- Thank you.
1481
00:53:57,167 --> 00:53:59,375
- Cheers to Michael.
- Cheers to Mike.
1482
00:53:59,458 --> 00:54:01,167
- Thank you.
- And whoever finally gets
1483
00:54:01,292 --> 00:54:04,125
to marry him, like, honestly...
- Thank you, guys.
1484
00:54:04,208 --> 00:54:06,250
I definitely feel
a lot of love from them.
1485
00:54:06,333 --> 00:54:08,625
I mean, obviously, I'm not
coming on the honeymoon.
1486
00:54:08,708 --> 00:54:11,417
But the fact that they would
even entertain the idea
1487
00:54:11,542 --> 00:54:14,083
of me being there and have me
be a part of their journey
1488
00:54:14,208 --> 00:54:16,208
in some way, shape,
or form, you know,
1489
00:54:16,292 --> 00:54:18,875
that's extremely flattering.
1490
00:54:18,958 --> 00:54:22,625
Well, you guys have
a lovely, lovely honeymoon.
1491
00:54:22,708 --> 00:54:25,292
I am insanely jealous, but
not because of the honeymoon,
1492
00:54:25,375 --> 00:54:27,542
but because of all the
little cuteness I see here
1493
00:54:27,625 --> 00:54:29,167
with all you guys as couples.
- Aw.
1494
00:54:29,208 --> 00:54:30,667
- So you guys have
a wonderful time.
1495
00:54:30,750 --> 00:54:32,667
And I'm so glad
I got to meet you guys.
1496
00:54:32,708 --> 00:54:34,375
- Yeah, we'll miss you.
- Take care.
1497
00:54:34,500 --> 00:54:35,500
- Bye, Mike.
- Yeah.
1498
00:54:35,583 --> 00:54:37,042
Great guy, man.
Great guy.
1499
00:54:37,125 --> 00:54:39,000
We love Mike.
We love Mike.
1500
00:54:39,083 --> 00:54:41,500
- What's next for me
is just...
1501
00:54:41,583 --> 00:54:43,500
going through what I need to
go through
1502
00:54:43,625 --> 00:54:45,500
to continue to process this.
1503
00:54:45,542 --> 00:54:47,167
And there's going to be things
that I know I'm not going
1504
00:54:47,292 --> 00:54:49,667
to enjoy feeling,
but accepting that
1505
00:54:49,750 --> 00:54:51,208
and then allowing me
to feel it
1506
00:54:51,333 --> 00:54:52,625
and kind of going from there.
1507
00:54:52,708 --> 00:54:55,750
♪
1508
00:54:55,875 --> 00:54:57,833
- ♪ I'm going to
make my own way ♪
1509
00:54:57,875 --> 00:55:00,250
♪ Nothing's going
to get in my way ♪
1510
00:55:00,333 --> 00:55:02,542
♪ I don't want to wait,
no time to waste ♪
1511
00:55:02,625 --> 00:55:04,333
♪ Come on,
let's chase the sun ♪
1512
00:55:04,417 --> 00:55:05,958
- Hey, guys.
Where we going?
1513
00:55:06,042 --> 00:55:09,250
- Cancún, Mexico!
[all cheering]
1514
00:55:09,333 --> 00:55:11,667
- Are we excited?
all: Yeah!
1515
00:55:11,750 --> 00:55:13,333
- ♪ Come on,
let's chase the sun ♪
1516
00:55:13,417 --> 00:55:15,458
- What are you guys
most excited for?
1517
00:55:15,542 --> 00:55:17,667
- The warm weather,
period, the warmth.
1518
00:55:17,750 --> 00:55:18,792
- Yeah, agreed.
1519
00:55:18,875 --> 00:55:20,000
- You two?
- Tequila.
1520
00:55:20,083 --> 00:55:22,083
all: Tequila.
[laughter]
1521
00:55:22,167 --> 00:55:24,042
- You two?
1522
00:55:24,125 --> 00:55:26,833
- I'm excited for adventures
and apparently margaritas.
1523
00:55:26,917 --> 00:55:28,167
[laughter]
1524
00:55:28,292 --> 00:55:30,042
- Have you guys been
to Cancún before?
1525
00:55:30,125 --> 00:55:31,417
- Yes.
- Yes.
1526
00:55:31,542 --> 00:55:33,167
- We do got to be careful
in Cancún.
1527
00:55:33,292 --> 00:55:35,042
So, like, we can't go
too off the reservation.
1528
00:55:35,167 --> 00:55:37,417
- Oh.
- Sorry. Sorry.
1529
00:55:37,500 --> 00:55:38,833
- No, you're fine.
You're good.
1530
00:55:38,917 --> 00:55:39,917
- Wow!
- No, no.
1531
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:41,292
- What did he say?
- Racist.
1532
00:55:41,375 --> 00:55:42,708
- He meant to say resort,
1533
00:55:42,833 --> 00:55:44,792
but he said, we can't go
too far off the reservation.
1534
00:55:44,875 --> 00:55:47,000
And then he looks at my
husband and says, oh, sorry.
1535
00:55:47,042 --> 00:55:48,750
[laughter]
- It's okay.
1536
00:55:48,875 --> 00:55:51,833
I can hear ignorance,
and you're fine.
1537
00:55:51,917 --> 00:55:54,625
- Ignorance is not a bad word.
It just means not knowing.
1538
00:55:54,708 --> 00:55:56,583
- Yeah. Yeah.
It's okay.
1539
00:55:56,667 --> 00:55:58,500
- Well, what
about willful ignorance?
1540
00:55:58,583 --> 00:56:01,375
[laughter]
- Jokes.
1541
00:56:01,458 --> 00:56:03,208
- This is going to be
an entertaining bunch.
1542
00:56:03,292 --> 00:56:04,750
♪
1543
00:56:04,833 --> 00:56:06,333
- Ready for sunshine?
- Vámonos.
1544
00:56:06,458 --> 00:56:08,833
- All right, let's go.
- You got it.
1545
00:56:08,917 --> 00:56:10,375
- Ooh!
[laughs]
1546
00:56:10,458 --> 00:56:11,833
I just jumped off.
1547
00:56:11,917 --> 00:56:12,917
- It's bigger than you,
Clare, baby.
1548
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:14,667
- I know.
This thing is--
1549
00:56:14,708 --> 00:56:15,917
Hoo.
1550
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:18,167
- Aw, look at that.
1551
00:56:18,250 --> 00:56:21,833
♪
1552
00:56:21,958 --> 00:56:24,000
- I'm going to take
the window seat, by the way.
1553
00:56:24,083 --> 00:56:25,250
- I want the aisle, so...
1554
00:56:25,333 --> 00:56:27,083
- Okay, great.
- That's perfect.
1555
00:56:27,208 --> 00:56:28,375
- Oh, my God.
1556
00:56:28,458 --> 00:56:30,125
- Tired, hungry.
- Does he sleep on a plane?
1557
00:56:30,208 --> 00:56:31,833
Does he talk on a plane?
1558
00:56:31,958 --> 00:56:34,750
Does he listen to music
without headphones on a plane?
1559
00:56:34,833 --> 00:56:37,083
No, you do not.
- Who doesn't?
1560
00:56:37,083 --> 00:56:39,292
- Do you really listen to music
without headphones on a plane?
1561
00:56:39,375 --> 00:56:40,458
- No.
Who does that?
1562
00:56:40,542 --> 00:56:41,875
- I just needed
to double-check.
1563
00:56:41,958 --> 00:56:43,833
[laughs]
1564
00:56:43,875 --> 00:56:45,292
- Let's go!
1565
00:56:45,375 --> 00:56:51,500
♪
1566
00:56:55,542 --> 00:56:57,042
[upbeat tropical music]
1567
00:56:57,042 --> 00:56:58,417
♪
1568
00:56:58,417 --> 00:57:00,500
- Just touched down in Cancún.
1569
00:57:00,625 --> 00:57:02,667
Ready for our honeymoon.
1570
00:57:02,750 --> 00:57:04,667
- Whee.
1571
00:57:04,667 --> 00:57:11,542
♪
1572
00:57:11,625 --> 00:57:14,042
- All right,
we're here in Mexico.
1573
00:57:14,125 --> 00:57:15,500
Everybody say hi.
1574
00:57:15,542 --> 00:57:18,000
[all cheering]
1575
00:57:18,042 --> 00:57:21,167
- Unfortunately, Brennan
and Emily couldn't make it.
1576
00:57:21,208 --> 00:57:23,792
- They came early.
- Surprise.
1577
00:57:23,875 --> 00:57:24,875
- We made it.
1578
00:57:24,958 --> 00:57:31,375
♪
1579
00:57:31,458 --> 00:57:33,750
- Pull the handle,
push the door--there we go.
1580
00:57:33,833 --> 00:57:36,333
- We're in Mexico, guys.
- Yay.
1581
00:57:36,458 --> 00:57:39,000
♪
1582
00:57:39,083 --> 00:57:41,792
- We're thirsty.
- And we have welcome drinks.
1583
00:57:41,875 --> 00:57:44,000
- Bienvenido.
- Cheers to honeymoons.
1584
00:57:44,083 --> 00:57:45,250
- Cheers!
- We made it.
1585
00:57:45,333 --> 00:57:47,292
- Honeymoons!
- Cheers!
1586
00:57:47,375 --> 00:57:49,500
[all cheering]
1587
00:57:49,583 --> 00:57:51,375
- Let's go, guys.
- Let's go.
1588
00:57:51,375 --> 00:57:52,333
- Here we go.
1589
00:57:52,375 --> 00:57:54,417
- Wow.
- This is nice.
1590
00:57:54,500 --> 00:57:56,125
Look at this.
1591
00:57:56,208 --> 00:57:57,458
Oh.
1592
00:57:57,542 --> 00:57:59,500
- Ooh.
Oh, it's double level.
1593
00:57:59,542 --> 00:58:00,792
- Oh, what?
1594
00:58:00,875 --> 00:58:03,125
[upbeat music]
1595
00:58:03,208 --> 00:58:04,917
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
1596
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,333
- Happy honeymoon.
- Happy honeymoon.
1597
00:58:06,417 --> 00:58:07,833
[chuckles]
1598
00:58:07,958 --> 00:58:09,458
♪
1599
00:58:09,542 --> 00:58:10,958
Do you want to go unpack
a little bit and kind of--
1600
00:58:11,042 --> 00:58:12,833
- Yeah.
1601
00:58:12,958 --> 00:58:14,833
- So you're going to grab mine,
and I'm going to grab yours.
1602
00:58:14,833 --> 00:58:17,000
Seems fair.
- It sure does, doesn't it?
1603
00:58:17,083 --> 00:58:18,792
- [laughs]
1604
00:58:18,875 --> 00:58:20,458
- You pack all the [bleep],
and I'll carry it.
1605
00:58:20,542 --> 00:58:22,167
- You didn't help me
at all through the airport.
1606
00:58:22,250 --> 00:58:25,500
Cameron is always
100 million steps ahead of me.
1607
00:58:25,542 --> 00:58:27,542
I don't know
where that is, but...
1608
00:58:27,625 --> 00:58:30,000
I am waiting for everyone else.
1609
00:58:30,125 --> 00:58:32,208
And he's just gone.
1610
00:58:32,292 --> 00:58:34,000
- I am--
Sorry, are you not able?
1611
00:58:34,083 --> 00:58:35,667
- No, I'm very capable.
I'm just saying that...
1612
00:58:35,708 --> 00:58:37,750
- Oh, okay.
- It's a kind gesture to help,
1613
00:58:37,875 --> 00:58:39,708
and you definitely were not
helping me, which is fine.
1614
00:58:39,792 --> 00:58:41,167
- You weren't helping me
with my bag.
1615
00:58:41,250 --> 00:58:42,208
♪
1616
00:58:42,333 --> 00:58:43,542
I'm just saying.
1617
00:58:43,625 --> 00:58:45,042
- I could carry
this with my pinky.
1618
00:58:45,042 --> 00:58:46,625
And I think
that common knowledge
1619
00:58:46,708 --> 00:58:48,167
is that you
help women with their bags.
1620
00:58:48,250 --> 00:58:49,500
- I've been told it's rude
1621
00:58:49,583 --> 00:58:51,542
to assume that women
can't do things, so...
1622
00:58:51,625 --> 00:58:52,875
- It would have been nice
to have the assistance
1623
00:58:52,958 --> 00:58:55,000
with that large bag,
you know what I mean?
1624
00:58:55,042 --> 00:58:57,000
♪
1625
00:58:57,083 --> 00:58:58,500
Cameron?
1626
00:58:58,542 --> 00:59:00,375
- I'm right here
with your suitcase.
1627
00:59:00,458 --> 00:59:02,333
- I think Cameron
is getting a sense
1628
00:59:02,458 --> 00:59:04,500
that I am pretty independent.
1629
00:59:04,583 --> 00:59:06,250
But, yeah, there's part of me
that's like,
1630
00:59:06,333 --> 00:59:08,667
I wish he would just be like,
hey, do you need assistance?
1631
00:59:08,708 --> 00:59:10,042
Or do you need--
You know?
1632
00:59:10,125 --> 00:59:12,250
And those kind
of things, I think,
1633
00:59:12,333 --> 00:59:15,000
draw me closer to someone is
when they're really asking,
1634
00:59:15,042 --> 00:59:17,708
like, hey, where are you at?
What do you need?
1635
00:59:17,792 --> 00:59:19,833
Are you angry with me?
I think you kind of are.
1636
00:59:19,917 --> 00:59:21,833
- I'm not angry.
1637
00:59:21,958 --> 00:59:24,167
- You're not angry?
- About what?
1638
00:59:24,208 --> 00:59:25,625
- About me telling you
1639
00:59:25,708 --> 00:59:27,292
that I wish I would have had
help a little bit.
1640
00:59:27,375 --> 00:59:29,083
- I appreciate--
1641
00:59:29,167 --> 00:59:31,292
- And you were also kind of
running away from me as well.
1642
00:59:31,375 --> 00:59:33,333
You got to wait for me.
1643
00:59:33,375 --> 00:59:35,792
Little legs
don't work like that.
1644
00:59:35,875 --> 00:59:37,917
[laughs] He doesn't want
to be anywhere around me.
1645
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:39,500
[laughs]
1646
00:59:39,583 --> 00:59:40,833
And you know what?
1647
00:59:40,958 --> 00:59:42,792
This all goes back
to communication.
1648
00:59:42,792 --> 00:59:44,542
Like, I had to remind you,
like, hey, I'm short.
1649
00:59:44,625 --> 00:59:46,417
I'm going to be behind you.
1650
00:59:46,500 --> 00:59:47,833
But, hey, I would like to wait.
1651
00:59:47,875 --> 00:59:49,625
And I did see you make
that change.
1652
00:59:49,625 --> 00:59:51,542
You did start to wait for me,
which I appreciate.
1653
00:59:51,542 --> 00:59:52,833
- You're welcome.
1654
00:59:52,875 --> 00:59:54,667
- Is there anything
that's bothering you
1655
00:59:54,792 --> 00:59:57,292
that you feel like you wish
that I was doing better?
1656
00:59:57,375 --> 00:59:58,458
- No, I think you're amazing.
1657
00:59:58,542 --> 00:59:59,833
♪
1658
00:59:59,917 --> 01:00:01,833
- [chuckles]
That sounds sarcastic.
1659
01:00:01,875 --> 01:00:03,792
[laughs] No, really, truly,
1660
01:00:03,875 --> 01:00:05,333
is there something
that's annoying you
1661
01:00:05,417 --> 01:00:06,958
that you feel like--
1662
01:00:07,042 --> 01:00:09,333
'Cause I feel like
we are kind of, like,
1663
01:00:09,417 --> 01:00:10,833
comfortable with each other
1664
01:00:10,917 --> 01:00:12,958
but not to the point
where it's, like, I--
1665
01:00:13,042 --> 01:00:14,750
Like, we don't see
each other romantically
1666
01:00:14,833 --> 01:00:15,958
at this moment, right?
1667
01:00:16,042 --> 01:00:16,833
♪
1668
01:00:19,458 --> 01:00:22,167
Right?
- Sure.
1669
01:00:22,292 --> 01:00:25,500
- And so I feel like growing
that a little bit
1670
01:00:25,625 --> 01:00:29,083
and working on that
and trying to kind of...
1671
01:00:29,208 --> 01:00:31,333
figure that part out of us,
'cause like I said,
1672
01:00:31,375 --> 01:00:34,333
we have not touched
that aspect.
1673
01:00:34,417 --> 01:00:35,625
- Yeah.
- Like, this is an effort.
1674
01:00:35,708 --> 01:00:37,000
- But, I mean, do
you have a plan
1675
01:00:37,042 --> 01:00:38,833
of how we can get past that?
1676
01:00:38,875 --> 01:00:41,625
- Being here,
experiencing things together,
1677
01:00:41,708 --> 01:00:43,875
doing things together
could definitely help that.
1678
01:00:43,958 --> 01:00:45,333
And I'm going to try my hardest
1679
01:00:45,417 --> 01:00:46,750
to make sure we get
to that moment
1680
01:00:46,833 --> 01:00:48,125
so that we don't leave,
1681
01:00:48,208 --> 01:00:50,000
and, like, oh, we're moving
into each other,
1682
01:00:50,083 --> 01:00:52,000
and we've literally
never even held hands before.
1683
01:00:52,083 --> 01:00:53,125
- Yeah, I agree.
1684
01:00:55,250 --> 01:00:57,250
You did tell me
you didn't like to do that.
1685
01:00:57,333 --> 01:00:58,792
- No, I will--
1686
01:00:58,875 --> 01:01:00,792
Hand holding is totally fine.
- Okay.
1687
01:01:00,875 --> 01:01:04,208
- But there's a difference
between that and, like...
1688
01:01:04,333 --> 01:01:05,833
It's hard to explain.
1689
01:01:05,917 --> 01:01:07,500
♪
1690
01:01:07,542 --> 01:01:09,333
- I have been asking
1691
01:01:09,375 --> 01:01:12,333
if Clare would be open
1692
01:01:12,375 --> 01:01:14,542
to more physical touch.
1693
01:01:14,625 --> 01:01:17,667
And I've been getting
a pretty strong no.
1694
01:01:17,708 --> 01:01:19,542
So, to hear her say
1695
01:01:19,625 --> 01:01:23,917
that she wants
physical intimacy now,
1696
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:26,333
all I can say is,
I'm just confused.
1697
01:01:26,417 --> 01:01:28,667
- Just because I'm strong
1698
01:01:28,750 --> 01:01:31,083
does not mean that I don't want
those things, you know?
1699
01:01:31,208 --> 01:01:32,750
♪
1700
01:01:32,875 --> 01:01:35,375
- But I'm certainly
not going to advance
1701
01:01:35,500 --> 01:01:38,542
on someone who doesn't seem
to know what they want.
1702
01:01:38,625 --> 01:01:39,875
- I've been
with guys in the past
1703
01:01:39,958 --> 01:01:41,583
who don't express
that they care.
1704
01:01:41,667 --> 01:01:44,500
And to me,
that's very, very hurtful.
1705
01:01:44,583 --> 01:01:46,417
Inside, I do want
the physical affection.
1706
01:01:46,500 --> 01:01:48,000
I do want--
You know what I mean?
1707
01:01:48,083 --> 01:01:49,958
Like...
1708
01:01:50,042 --> 01:01:51,833
it would be nice
to feel cared for.
1709
01:01:51,917 --> 01:01:54,625
[dramatic music]
1710
01:01:54,708 --> 01:01:56,500
♪
1711
01:01:56,583 --> 01:01:57,542
- Okay.
1712
01:01:57,625 --> 01:01:59,333
♪
1713
01:01:59,417 --> 01:02:01,750
- Next time
on "Married at First Sight"...
1714
01:02:01,875 --> 01:02:04,250
- [screams]
1715
01:02:04,333 --> 01:02:07,542
- Our honeymooning couples
continue to grow closer...
1716
01:02:07,708 --> 01:02:09,375
[laughter]
1717
01:02:09,458 --> 01:02:11,083
- This is the type of
relationship I always wanted.
1718
01:02:11,167 --> 01:02:13,000
Where have you
been my whole life?
1719
01:02:13,083 --> 01:02:14,167
- I don't know.
1720
01:02:14,250 --> 01:02:16,292
- And settle
into newlywed bliss.
1721
01:02:16,375 --> 01:02:19,208
- You're just very sweet.
- Aw. Thank you.
1722
01:02:19,292 --> 01:02:20,708
- And I like you a lot.
1723
01:02:20,792 --> 01:02:22,500
- Is this conversation
uncomfortable for you?
1724
01:02:22,583 --> 01:02:24,583
- No. No, it's not.
- Oh, okay.
1725
01:02:24,667 --> 01:02:26,000
- I'm actually glad
we had this talk.
1726
01:02:26,042 --> 01:02:27,417
I don't know
how you feel, but--
1727
01:02:27,500 --> 01:02:28,333
- I'm a little heated.
1728
01:02:28,375 --> 01:02:29,667
♪
1729
01:02:29,750 --> 01:02:31,000
- I'm sorry that it's turned
1730
01:02:31,042 --> 01:02:33,125
into, like, the big deal
that it is
1731
01:02:33,250 --> 01:02:34,583
♪
1732
01:02:34,708 --> 01:02:36,500
- I feel like you have
to be willing
1733
01:02:36,583 --> 01:02:38,042
to put yourself out there.
1734
01:02:38,167 --> 01:02:39,792
I mean, you think that things
that you deserve
1735
01:02:39,917 --> 01:02:41,042
just come upon you?
1736
01:02:41,167 --> 01:02:43,375
You don't have
to work for them?
1737
01:02:43,458 --> 01:02:45,500
- I understand ignorance,
1738
01:02:45,583 --> 01:02:47,625
and I'll call it
for what it is.
1739
01:02:47,708 --> 01:02:49,208
Don't say that.
1740
01:02:49,292 --> 01:02:54,833
♪
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