All language subtitles for Be My Dream Family EP.47 _ KBS WORLD TV 210609 (1080p_30fps_H264-128kbit_AAC).English

They're heavy, right? Let me take one more.

No, no. I'll do it.

No, no.

No.

Oh. It's that restaurant up there.

When Jonghwa and I were dating before we married,

we came here often because he likes the food.

Should we invite Jonghwa?

He will love it.

Yes, sure.

Okay.

Let's go.

What do you think?

Try this too.

It's so nice to see you eat heartily.

I was worried you weren't eating after the collapse.

I'm eating well.

You eat too.

Yes, I'm eating.

You were upset earlier

by what Jonghwa said, right?

He has always thought very little of me.

No. He was just rattled because Sol was hurt.

That's just how Jonghwa is.

What he says isn't how he feels.

You know that.

Wait. I knew something was missing. Drinks.

Should we have beer?

These make for great finger food.

A bottle of beer, please.

Yes, ma'am.

Jonghwa.

Hello.

Hi.

Welcome.

Please eat.

Three glasses, please.

Yes, ma'am.

(Be My Dream Family)

(Episode 47)

Really?

Sangmin whacked

President Choi on his forehead?

Yes. I asked him why his forehead was so red,

and he said it was because of Sangmin.

President Choi, is it okay now?

Let me see.

- Is it okay? / - Yes.

It's fine.

Geez. Why bring up the past?

I really didn't mean to.

I was shooing a bee away so he wouldn't get stung.

But still, how could you smack him?

Since he was little though, he has had no regard

for consequences if he zeroed in on something.

Oh, right. Here's a case in point.

When he was hooked on playing ddakji,

he made ddakji with all the paper

he could find at home.

Sanggu had a lot of academic workbooks.

Without thinking about how Sanggu would get furious,

he ripped up Sanggu's workbooks to make ddakji

and ended up getting a nasty earful from Sanggu.

Sangbaek, seriously.

You're going to the bathroom again?

Hey, careful.

Seriously.

We got quite a lot done though while chitchatting.

Thank you all so much.

Thank you.

Shall we order fried chicken now? I'm hungry.

Yes, shall we?

Wow. I'm starving.

Let's see. What should we get?

We're ordering fried chicken. What kind would you like?

Seasoned? Plain?

Half and half for me.

I want a piece of each.

Yes. Same here.

Ijae?

Half and half.

He wants half and half too.

Okay.

Ijae,

you've seen me often.

Do you still feel shy around me?

It's okay. We'll see more of each other.

But are you two boyfriend and girlfriend?

Pardon?

N-No.

We're just friends.

Guy friend and gal friend.

Very well.

How adorable.

I'll come get you later.

Okay.

Why didn't you say we weren't going out?

I did.

I nodded when you said we were just friends.

You should have spoken up.

I don't want misunderstandings.

Sit over there.

It's what kids do.

They fall, fight, and hurt themselves

as they're growing up.

I know you were rattled,

but please apologize to Yeonghye.

Okay.

Did it upset you that much?

Okay. I apologize. I'm sorry.

You don't have to apologize against your will.

You don't mean it anyway.

What?

My goodness.

Don't be like that. It's not against his will.

You think very little of me.

Like when you came to get your back treated,

you always say I know nothing as I'm not a doctor.

You sigh or yell whenever you see us, exasperated by

our sorry way of life.

That's insecurity.

That's your insecurity talking, okay?

Have I ever been the cheerful, smiling type?

Do you still not know me?

Why are you drinking alone?

Jonghwa. Come on. Cheers.

Let's raise our glasses, drink, and work through this.

In over 20 years,

you have never smiled at me

even once since I married Sangbaek.

I wouldn't have this insecurity

if you were standoffish to everyone.

I would have just assumed that was how you were

as you said.

But you were only standoffish to me.

You weren't standoffish to Minhui.

How so? How?

We married at around the same time, and I know

her furniture and appliances were way better.

But you were openly mean to me about it.

Sangbaek mentioned this too.

When?

When did I compare you to her and was mean?

But...

With a smile, you would tell Minhui

to thank her mother

for the clothes or the food.

Whenever Minhui said "Father,"

you were all smiles.

But when I brought you side dishes

or said hello, you barely acknowledged me.

Even the catch from your fishing trips...

We got a smaller share

even though Minhui's family is smaller.

I was never going to bring this up

because it's so terribly humiliating,

but you didn't want Sangbaek to marry me.

Because I was an orphan without any family,

a daughter-in-law you didn't like

for not meeting your standards,

you were mean to me, Father.

Jonghwa.

Wow. This is maddening.

Hey. No, I didn't.

Wow. This is sobering me up.

That's not all.

I understand that you do not like me,

but my children too?

What happened earlier today is a case in point.

I'm sorry to say this in front of Ms. Kang,

but Sol isn't your biological grandchild.

Yet although you never doted on my kids,

you rushed Sol to the hospital for a sprained ankle.

When Inseo got a hairline fracture on his leg

from falling down the stairs, you told me not to fuss

because boys will be boys.

And you did nothing for Min-a,

who married so young.

No.

Jonghwa does dote on his grandchildren.

When Min-a got married...

No.

- Don't. / - Geez.

Fine. Go ahead. What else?

You have a lot of pent-up grievances.

Lay them all out.

- Jonghwa. / - Fine.

- Also... / - Yes?

Why am I the only bad daughter-in-law?

Take our apartments, for instance.

When we went to Minhui's for dinner...

Wow.

An apartment that nice in downtown Seoul?

You lent them the money for it, right?

Although we are both your daughters-in-law,

how are our homes so different?

We had to beg and plead for a loan to get a lease

for our tiny apartment in the boondocks.

Because Sanggu is successful, you favor him.

When I think about how hard up we were after

Sangbaek's business ventures went belly up

one after another,

I don't know how I'm still alive.

How long will you just sit there in complete silence?

Can't you tell me what you're thinking?

Yes. You probably have a lot on your mind.

You're probably reeling.

But the thing is, one's interest in another person

isn't always reciprocated.

And as you said, maybe you two weren't meant to be.

Right?

Go home.

Then would you like to forge ahead anyway?

It's true that Jiwan has feelings,

I mean, is interested in Dabal,

but Dabal doesn't seem interested in him at all.

She's not interested in dating, period.

So if we were to draw love arrows,

Jiwan's is pointing to Dabal,

but Dabal's arrow is missing altogether.

So it's just Jiwan's pointing at her.

That being the case,

maybe you should play dumb and keep pursuing Jiwan.

So?

What do you think?

That is, if you're distraught and can't let go.

Are you done?

Is there anything else?

There is more,

but I can't recall in detail.

How much more detailed must your recollection be?

Then it's my turn now.

- Jonghwa. / - Pardon?

Where do I start?

Yes. The fish.

You don't eat fish.

You don't, right?

When I took you to a sashimi restaurant

before you married Sangbaek,

you only picked at the side dishes

and apologized, saying you don't eat fish.

Did you or did you not do that?

You remembered?

I haven't gone senile. Why wouldn't I remember?

Lower your voice.

And did you or did you not turn your head

when I showed you my fresh catch?

So was I to force you to take something you hated?

But Minhui and Sanggu like fish.

Sanggu is crazy about sashimi,

so Minhui gets greedy and asks for more.

And I compare you to Minhui?

Geez.

Minhui says the silliest, most ludicrous things.

Her lack of discretion is so appalling at times

that I let out a chuckle or two.

And after raising three boys,

it's nice to have a personable daughter-in-law,

so I have smiled at her from time to time.

You, on the other hand,

never make eye contact with me.

And when I try talking to you,

all I get is a yes or no.

So am I supposed to smile and laugh

in response?

That's because...

That's because you are so intimidating.

I find you more intimidating.

In that regard, we are even steven.

And Minhui's mother?

Yes. She sent me

this and that all the way from the provinces.

It's my wife who should have thanked her,

but I was widowed. I was all alone.

It would have been inappropriate for me to call her,

so I asked Minhui to thank her for me instead.

But you thought I said it to upset you?

To make you cry for not having your mother?

Fine.

Honestly, I was disappointed

that you were an orphan.

Jonghwa, how can you say that?

Sangbaek was a teen when his mother passed away.

He never got to take

a properly packed lunch to school

and then was on his own when he went to college.

So I had hoped

that once he married,

he would have a mother-in-law

to make him hot, home-cooked meals.

But my goodness,

he had no one to call "Mother."

I felt bad for him,

so yes, I was disappointed.

But that's not my fault.

I'm not an orphan because I want to be.

Yes, I know.

That's why I never took issue with it.

But it is how I felt.

Being a parent,

my son came before you, whom I didn't know,

so I was disappointed.

But then once Sangbaek married you,

he abandoned his devil-may-care ways

and went diligently to work.

Then you gave me twins for grandchildren.

I was very grateful.

I was thankful and proud

that unlike my useless sons,

you were a winner.

Why would I think little of you?

I feel indebted to you,

so why would I think little of you?

Because my son is inept,

you had to work

all your life even when your kids were tiny tots.

I feel indebted to you,

so how could I think little of you?

Because my son is so inept,

you and your children...

You and your children aren't flourishing.

You cannot flourish because of my loser son.

He has been saying what he doesn't mean.

But he won't do that anymore.

Although he cannot be affectionate,

he won't say what he doesn't mean.

Right? You won't do that, right?

I'm sorry too.

I feel so guilty when I stand before you.

We keep turning to you for help

instead of doing well on our own.

Yeonghye,

you have a whole lifetime ahead of you.

You're doing well and will do even better.

Just do well.

Yes.

- Cheers? / - Yes.

Thanks.

- Let's raise our glasses. / - Yes.

Wow. Who knew the day would come

when the three of us would have a delicious dinner,

drink,

and walk arm in arm like this?

How wonderful.

But

how come neither of you are drunk?

I drank the least but seem the most drunk.

No.

I'm very drunk too.

Really?

Of course you're drunk. Otherwise, how could you

have laid into your father-in-law?

Here you go again.

Good grief. I'm joking.

See? I'm smiling.

The night air is nice.

Shall we walk a little?

My stomach

has been acting up.

Bathroom?

Then run along.

Bring Moran home

safe and sound.

Will do.

See you.

It's understandable that she wants to drink.

It's not a bad idea to chug beer and forget, but...

This item is buy one get one free.

Strawberry milk.

Go get one if you want it.

Goodbye.

Wow. What is going on here?

The man you love is interested in another woman,

who happens to be your little sister no less.

Your reaction is worlds apart

from the very dramatic situation you're in.

Just hit the bottle instead.

Grab a trashcan

and feel sorry for the kitty like you did last time.

I'm about to be wary of strawberry milk, which I love.

If I get wasted, it will make me more pathetic.

Then are you less upset than I expected

or are you completely out of it?

I can't tell.

It's nice to wander, but let's go home already.

It's nippy at night.

Did I ask you to stay?

Go home.

And leave you all alone out here this late?

What are you doing?

Good grief.

It's not the time to be fussing over someone else.

Put it back on.

I'm fuming.

There's lava brewing inside of me.

Oh. There is lava brewing inside.

Okay then. You should cool off.

Let's cool you off.

We'll keep walking until you cool off.

Was it tough?

You are always chipper, so I had no idea.

Only as tough as anyone else's life.

It wasn't any worse.

I worked my finger to the bone to make money.

My in-laws were very hard on me.

I raised my girls alone after my divorce.

That was my life in three pithy lines.

Then

is your ex-husband...

I don't know where he is or what he is up to.

We split up ages ago.

I thought

I would never even glance at another man.

After what the girls' father put me through,

and after the sleazy men who made passes at me,

thinking I'd be easy because I was a single mom,

I didn't even consider dating.

I was fed up with men.

But lo and behold,

I met Jonghwa.

There is no telling what life can bring.

Who gets to live exactly

as they plan?

You two make a great couple.

I thought

the only way to love was to give.

I thought me giving love was

the only way I could experience love.

But when I met Jonghwa, I learned for the first time

that I could receive love too.

He would dash over for me even from afar

and say he would take away the hurt from my past

and suffer it instead if he could.

I had no idea love like this was possible.

I'm happy.

I am very, very happy that I met Jonghwa.

Where are you off to now?

Enough already. You'll catch a cold.

Go on in.

Don't run away.

There is no paradise for you to run away to.

You know.

You don't know that comic book?

Wait up.

Now that we're home, I'm really drunk.

Steps. Steps. Careful.

Good night. Go on in.

The passcode...

Ms. Kang.

Hello. Just getting back?

Yes. We ran errands together.

But what were you all doing there,

including Jiwan and Ijae?

We helped Sangbaek with his business venture.

Ijae and Sol are half asleep.

Good night then.

Yes, good night.

Good night, Yeonghye.

- Thank you all. Good night. / - Bye.

Good night. See you tomorrow.

Dabal will do it.

Ms. Kang, careful.

I am so drunk.

I-I got a side job and was shorthanded.

T-They didn't stay long.

Okay.

Let's just leave our front door open.

We'll leave it open.

S-She's being sarcastic, right?

She hates having people over.

Probably, right?

But why did she sound sincere?

Get off your high horse.

Get off...

What are you hiding? What are you cooking up now?

W-What?

The study is no place to sleep, right?

It's uncomfortable, right?

You threw your back out, right?

But where are you going this early?

None of your business.

Are you having an affair?

What?

I heard at work that you're hanging out

with Maeng Jeong-uk every chance you get.

He even brought you coffee to your radio studio.

Geez. Who told you that?

He is a director I respect, and I'm just an actor.

At least have an affair with someone outside my work

so you don't humiliate me.

Are you telling me to have an affair?

You wouldn't even care if I had an affair?

Just don't get caught.

Oh, wow.

Has he lost his mind?

Hey! Oh, wow.

Who the heck?

Yes, Mr. Maeng.

Pardon? Today?

Where?

Geuru, you're heading out already?

Yes.

Why? Are you swamped? Won't carpooling be better?

No, it's fine.

What's the matter?

Is something wrong?

Look at me.

Nothing is wrong. I have to go.

What's with her?