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- The nerves.
It’s just excitement.
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Yeah, I got to
move a little bit.
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- We matched ten singles
to be married as strangers.
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all: Cheers!
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[upbeat music]
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- I hope my husband
feels like how y’all feel
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looking at me in this dress.
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- It’s enough to
make a stranger cry.
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♪
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- I just want to be what
she is hoping to see
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at the end of the aisle.
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♪
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- Strippers aren’t my thing.
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I wonder if my husband
also ran away from them
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the way that I ran
away from mine.
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- I love you,
but it’s not happening!
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I refuse.
You’re fantastic.
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♪
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- I am getting married.
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What advice would
you have for me?
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- Maybe not be so picky.
[laughter]
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- I’m hoping for
somebody who’s goofy,
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not taking life too seriously.
- Right.
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- Someone to have fun with.
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♪
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- Today marks my first time
being in a relationship.
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- We might not know
each other yet,
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but I already know that
I wouldn’t choose anyone else
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to join me on this crazy ride.
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And I cannot wait
to make a lifetime
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of first memories like this
together.
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- But for the first time
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in "Married at First Sight"
history,
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the unthinkable has happened.
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♪
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- I don’t think I can do this.
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- Oh.
- Oh.
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- Oh, [bleep].
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♪
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- We love you, okay?
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- ♪ It’s time to rise up
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- Tonight, it’s wedding day.
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[all cheering]
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Our singles are about
to meet each other
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for the very first time.
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- It’s finally happening.
It’s finally here.
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- They’ll legally marry
and commit their lives
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to a total stranger.
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- It’s kind of your last chance
to back out here.
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You sure you’re ready for this?
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- Are you at all nervous
about talking to him
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about your health stuff?
- Yeah.
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- This is crazy.
- It’s crazy.
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- This is something that
I’m going to get one chance at.
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- Ooh, [bleep].
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- Please stand.
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- Oh, boy.
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- I feel like I’m going
to vomit or black out.
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Let’s just have a bag ready.
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♪
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- So scary.
- I know.
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- How the hell
could this happen?
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♪
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- ♪ It’s all or nothing
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- This is
"Married at First Sight."
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- ♪ There’s no other way
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♪ It’s all or nothing
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- ♪ You can
take on the world ♪
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♪ Don’t be afraid
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♪ There’s no better person,
time, or place ♪
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- Ladies and gentlemen,
it is my pleasure to introduce,
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for the very first time
as husband and wife,
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Emily and Brennan.
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[all cheering]
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- ♪ We were watching
the whole place come alive ♪
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♪ And I was hoping that will
be showing signs of life ♪
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[upbeat music]
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♪ Showing signs of life
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[applause]
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- I’m married.
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Oh, my God.
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I’m a wife.
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I couldn’t have expected
a better first impression.
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I’m your stranger wife.
- My stranger wife.
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So good news is
we’re both, uh, crazy, huh?
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- Yep.
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- Never been in a relationship?
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- Mm, not like a serious one,
no.
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- Okay.
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- So I’m really going, like,
zero to 100 with this.
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- Yeah.
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- Wow.
It’s so cute and so romantic.
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- There you go.
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I can get you.
- Oh, thanks.
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- Don’t got to do this
stuff alone anymore.
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- I know.
- You know?
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- It’s so nice.
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♪
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[Brennan sighs]
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Are you pleased?
- I am.
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Are you?
- Yeah.
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- I’m your type?
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- Well, like, looks-wise.
- Yeah.
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- We’ll see if you
pass the personality test.
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- That’s fair.
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I think the personalities
will mesh well together.
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- Yeah.
I do, too.
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- I can kind of tell.
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Should we drink some champagne?
- Oh, yeah. Can we?
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Do you want to pop that?
- I sure do.
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- Does your family
like to party?
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- So I’m 100% Russian.
- Oh.
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- So my dad
doesn’t drink water.
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He just drinks vodka
for his hydration.
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- Actually?
- Mm-hmm.
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- That’s crazy.
- Mm-hmm.
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- So, uh, he can put it down
way better than I can.
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But I do like
to have a good time.
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- Feel like you have
it in you, then?
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- I can bring it out
when I have to.
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- Well, that’s wild.
- Absolutely.
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How about you?
- Um...
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- Do you like to
go out and stuff?
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- I’m definitely the partier
of my family.
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[cork pops]
- Boom.
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- Whoo!
- Let’s do this.
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Vibes between me and my wife
are amazing.
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I like that
she’s super bubbly.
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I like that
she’s so confident.
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It feels amazing
to finally be married.
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- Do you have a pet?
- I don’t have a pet.
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- Aw. I was really hoping
you had a dog.
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- We can get one together.
- Mm-hmm.
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- What kind of dog do you want?
- A sheepadoodle.
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- That is the most wild thing
I’ve ever heard.
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- What?
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- I love sheepadoodles.
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- You do?
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Feels like this is
gonna maybe work with you.
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- It does, doesn’t it?
- Yeah.
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ I need love, just love
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♪
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- ♪ Sunlight bleeds
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♪ Leaks onto your skin
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- Our first couple,
Emily and Brennan,
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have now been
married at first sight.
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And now, our other strangers
anxiously await their turn
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to meet their matches.
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- ♪ We’re finally
breathing in ♪
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♪ Breathing in and out
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♪ Breathing in and out
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♪ ’Bout time we’re seeing it
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♪ Seeing different now
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- I’m about to go
dress shopping.
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It’s exciting.
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Since I’m already in the
industry, I, of course,
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already have a dream dress.
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♪
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Hello.
- Hi. How are you?
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- Good. How are you?
- Are you Becca?
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- I am.
- Hey, guys.
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- Hi.
- Welcome to the Suit Shop.
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I’m Diana. Nice to meet you.
- Thank you, Hi. I’m Austin.
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- You’re the groom?
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♪
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- These all feel, like,
very, very traditional.
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Like, a little too traditional
for me.
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So if there’s a section that
is a little bit different?
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My fashion sense is crazy
with a side of class.
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You know, just like me.
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I think life is too short
to be totally normal.
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I like to have fun.
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I don’t always go by
social norms, necessarily.
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So I imagine my wedding dress
to be somewhat non-traditional.
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- Becca, I kind of want you
to try on a princessy one,
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just for fun.
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- [chuckling]
Lauren.
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I definitely can’t have
anything, like,
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super tight on my stomach
just because of my surgery.
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I ended up having a diagnosis
of endometriosis.
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Typically, endometriosis grows
on your reproductive organs.
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Mine just so happened
to decide to travel
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a little further north,
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so I’m recovering
from an appendectomy.
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And it’s been a lot.
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Thank you so much.
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- Do you want to go ahead
and start trying on?
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- Um, sure.
Let’s do it.
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- Okay.
- Yeah.
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- What’s your style?
- Yeah. [chuckles]
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I like to kind of do, like,
outlandish things.
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- Okay.
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- But I’m gonna play it a
little more reserved this time.
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- Okay. You don’t want
to freak her out.
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- Don’t want to freak her out.
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I think it probably should
be feeling a lot more pressure
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and nerves,
but it’s not exactly who I am.
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- You can come with me, sir...
- Awesome.
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- And we’ll start
with the first look.
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- I would describe myself as
a pretty typical Coloradan.
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I like to get outdoors.
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I am easy to get along with.
I’m fun. I’m goofy.
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I’m kind of weird.
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And I hope my wife likes kind
of my quirky, goofy style.
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- All right, Austin.
Come on out.
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- All right, all right,
I’m coming.
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[energetic music]
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- ♪ Hey
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♪ I’m feeling all right
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♪
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♪ All right
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♪
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- Eh?
What do you think?
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- Yeah, I like it.
- Yeah?
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- Yeah.
- All green?
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- Oh, my goodness.
Look at him.
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- Phenomenal.
- What’s up, guys?
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- Wow!
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- What’s up, man?
What do you think?
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- I didn’t think you were
going to go green.
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- It’s very green.
- Maybe.
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- Oh, my gosh.
[laughter]
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- On my wedding day,
I want the bride to, like,
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look at me and just be like,
whoa.
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Like, that guy has style,
like--[chuckles]
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Even though I don’t.
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I kind of feel
like a leprechaun.
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[laughter]
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- I mean--
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This suit’s
the first impression.
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So if you feel leprechaun-y
right now,
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then you’re not going to feel--
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- Yeah, because if you try
and just be, like, dress up
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to what you think would impress
them, I mean, that’s not you.
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- Right. Exactly.
Yeah, yeah.
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- You got to show up
with who you are, you know?
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- That’s what I think, too.
- Yeah.
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- That’s why I’m going orange.
[laughter]
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- I feel like I look
like a Renaissance woman.
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And I like it because
I am a Renaissance woman.
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And I like the sleeves.
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And I like that I can do this.
[chuckles]
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- Becca, how’s it going
in there?
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- Becca’s doing great.
- Doing good?
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- Yeah.
- Feeling good?
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- Feeling good,
looking good, smelling good.
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- Mm, debatable.
- [scoffing laugh]
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[soft dramatic music]
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♪
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- She’s a modern
Renaissance woman who’s stuck.
252
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[chuckles]
253
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♪
254
00:08:55,535 --> 00:08:57,495
- I like this one a lot.
It’s really flattering.
255
00:08:57,537 --> 00:08:59,077
It makes you look really good.
- Yeah.
256
00:08:59,164 --> 00:09:02,884
This dress says take me in
a hot air balloon and...
257
00:09:02,917 --> 00:09:05,247
love me.
[laughter]
258
00:09:05,295 --> 00:09:06,345
- Okay.
259
00:09:06,379 --> 00:09:08,169
- ♪ Give it a try, baby
260
00:09:08,214 --> 00:09:10,474
♪ This is your sign
261
00:09:10,508 --> 00:09:13,888
- I hope my husband is kind,
isn’t afraid of the unknown,
262
00:09:13,928 --> 00:09:16,388
and I hope that
he has a good balance,
263
00:09:16,431 --> 00:09:18,021
like me, of taking
life seriously,
264
00:09:18,058 --> 00:09:20,018
but also not too seriously.
265
00:09:20,060 --> 00:09:22,520
I think while
I’m still recovering,
266
00:09:22,604 --> 00:09:24,984
this also feels nice because
it feels not too tight.
267
00:09:25,023 --> 00:09:28,443
And, like, it feels comfortable
and it feels like I can move.
268
00:09:28,485 --> 00:09:30,575
Don’t want to bust a stitch.
269
00:09:30,612 --> 00:09:31,952
- No busting stitches here.
- No.
270
00:09:31,988 --> 00:09:35,068
- Just busting moves.
[laughter]
271
00:09:35,116 --> 00:09:39,366
- I think that Austin needs
somebody that’s going to mimic
272
00:09:39,412 --> 00:09:42,042
his goofiness
and sense of humor,
273
00:09:42,123 --> 00:09:44,463
but also motivates him
274
00:09:44,501 --> 00:09:47,551
to do all the things
that he says he wants to do.
275
00:09:47,587 --> 00:09:48,837
- I think that’s part
of the indecisiveness, right?
276
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Is you’re like, ooh, you know,
277
00:09:50,090 --> 00:09:51,550
is this the right choice
or not?
278
00:09:51,591 --> 00:09:53,301
And that’s where he gets
stuck a lot, I’ve noticed.
279
00:09:53,301 --> 00:09:55,431
- This is a pretty
big decision.
280
00:09:55,470 --> 00:09:56,970
- Well, I think that’s
why it’s going to work
281
00:09:57,013 --> 00:09:58,063
because it’s made for him.
282
00:09:58,098 --> 00:09:59,218
- Yeah.
- [laughing]
283
00:09:59,265 --> 00:10:01,055
- Yeah. Exactly.
- That’s a true.
284
00:10:01,101 --> 00:10:02,811
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
285
00:10:02,852 --> 00:10:04,482
- ♪ Let’s go
286
00:10:04,562 --> 00:10:05,982
♪ Yeah, I’m ready to go,
yeah, I’m on a roll ♪
287
00:10:06,022 --> 00:10:07,612
♪ Let’s go
288
00:10:07,649 --> 00:10:09,029
♪ I’ve got things to do,
got places to go ♪
289
00:10:09,067 --> 00:10:10,567
♪ Let’s go
290
00:10:10,610 --> 00:10:13,650
- Ow, ow! [laughs]
- Yeah.
291
00:10:13,696 --> 00:10:15,566
That’s pretty sharp.
- It’s looking pretty slick.
292
00:10:15,615 --> 00:10:16,775
- Yeah.
- I like that a lot.
293
00:10:16,825 --> 00:10:18,165
- Yeah.
- Yeah?
294
00:10:18,243 --> 00:10:20,083
Yeah.
Yeah, I don’t know.
295
00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:23,660
No, I mean,
I feel like a real adult.
296
00:10:23,706 --> 00:10:27,126
both: A real boy?
[laughter]
297
00:10:27,168 --> 00:10:29,458
- Yeah, like an adult who,
you know,
298
00:10:29,504 --> 00:10:34,514
is ready to make one of the
biggest decisions of his life.
299
00:10:34,551 --> 00:10:37,261
If I found the love of my
life through this experience,
300
00:10:37,262 --> 00:10:41,432
I think that would be
the ultimate meet-cute ever.
301
00:10:41,474 --> 00:10:43,934
I’ve always taken marriage
very seriously,
302
00:10:43,977 --> 00:10:47,147
and I only get into
relationships with people
303
00:10:47,188 --> 00:10:50,938
if I see spending the
rest of my life with them.
304
00:10:50,942 --> 00:10:53,242
I’ve always wanted
that classic,
305
00:10:53,278 --> 00:10:55,908
white picket fence life
and I’m excited.
306
00:10:55,947 --> 00:10:57,947
I’m excited for this next step.
307
00:10:57,991 --> 00:10:59,201
Might play around
with the shirt.
308
00:10:59,284 --> 00:11:00,284
- See what the
black looks like.
309
00:11:00,326 --> 00:11:01,236
- See what the
black looks like.
310
00:11:01,286 --> 00:11:05,616
But I think this says...
311
00:11:05,665 --> 00:11:11,495
"Ooh, boy. That boy hot."
[laughter]
312
00:11:11,546 --> 00:11:12,956
[upbeat disco music]
313
00:11:13,006 --> 00:11:15,006
- Okay, so is this the one?
314
00:11:15,049 --> 00:11:16,129
- Yep.
315
00:11:16,176 --> 00:11:19,176
I think I am ready for this.
316
00:11:19,220 --> 00:11:21,140
I feel like I’ve
gone through some things.
317
00:11:21,181 --> 00:11:23,271
There are definitely people
that have gone through more.
318
00:11:23,308 --> 00:11:25,388
But at the end of the day,
319
00:11:25,435 --> 00:11:27,855
I think I’ve overcome
a lot of challenges
320
00:11:27,896 --> 00:11:30,226
and enough challenges
to feel like
321
00:11:30,273 --> 00:11:35,573
marriage is another one that
I’m ready to try to conquer.
322
00:11:35,612 --> 00:11:37,492
I stayed in my comfort zone
for a lot of my life
323
00:11:37,530 --> 00:11:39,370
because of my anxiety.
324
00:11:39,407 --> 00:11:41,157
And I think I finally
gotten to a point
325
00:11:41,242 --> 00:11:42,792
where I’ve conquered that,
326
00:11:42,827 --> 00:11:45,707
and I think this is like
a great celebration of that,
327
00:11:45,747 --> 00:11:48,287
is just to tell the universe,
like, I trust you.
328
00:11:48,333 --> 00:11:49,793
I trust this process.
329
00:11:49,834 --> 00:11:52,634
And what’s next is
to meet my husband.
330
00:11:52,670 --> 00:11:55,130
Hug me?
- Yeah.
331
00:11:55,173 --> 00:11:57,883
Aw.
Love you on my pedestal.
332
00:11:57,926 --> 00:11:59,256
Love you.
333
00:11:59,302 --> 00:12:01,602
♪
334
00:12:01,638 --> 00:12:03,848
- ♪ Here we go
335
00:12:03,890 --> 00:12:05,810
♪ I want it all,
I want the life ♪
336
00:12:05,850 --> 00:12:07,770
♪ I want the love,
I want the prize ♪
337
00:12:07,810 --> 00:12:09,600
♪ I’m going to get
what’s mine ♪
338
00:12:09,646 --> 00:12:11,896
- Tonight is a really big night
339
00:12:11,940 --> 00:12:13,270
because what’s going on,
ladies?
340
00:12:13,316 --> 00:12:14,936
both: We’re finding the dress.
341
00:12:14,984 --> 00:12:16,154
- We’re finding the dress.
342
00:12:16,194 --> 00:12:17,574
I’m feeling really nervous,
343
00:12:17,612 --> 00:12:19,202
but I think we have something
in mind, right?
344
00:12:19,239 --> 00:12:20,569
- Yes.
- We have a style in mind.
345
00:12:20,615 --> 00:12:21,995
- And I’m glad
my sisters are here
346
00:12:22,033 --> 00:12:23,703
and my aunts are also here
to support.
347
00:12:23,743 --> 00:12:24,993
So let’s do it.
348
00:12:25,036 --> 00:12:27,616
[cheering and laughter]
349
00:12:27,622 --> 00:12:30,502
[upbeat music]
350
00:12:30,541 --> 00:12:31,541
♪
351
00:12:31,584 --> 00:12:33,714
- Hi.
- Hello.
352
00:12:33,753 --> 00:12:36,803
- Who’s my beautiful bride?
[laughter]
353
00:12:36,839 --> 00:12:38,379
- Hello.
- Hello.
354
00:12:38,424 --> 00:12:40,514
- Welcome to Suit Shop.
- Thank you.
355
00:12:40,551 --> 00:12:43,051
- Thank you.
- Thanks for coming in.
356
00:12:43,096 --> 00:12:44,466
- Is this, like,
not the weirdest feeling?
357
00:12:44,514 --> 00:12:46,182
- Real. Things are feeling real.
358
00:12:46,182 --> 00:12:47,852
- I mean, did you guys think
I would be in this position?
359
00:12:47,892 --> 00:12:49,812
- I can’t--I can’t even--
360
00:12:49,852 --> 00:12:51,482
I can’t even picture you
as--right now as a bride,
361
00:12:51,562 --> 00:12:52,772
so I know we’re going to be
able to picture you as a bride.
362
00:12:52,814 --> 00:12:54,944
- I know.
363
00:12:54,983 --> 00:12:56,903
I did not think
this moment would be happening
364
00:12:56,943 --> 00:13:00,453
as soon as it is, so this
feels very surreal right now.
365
00:13:00,488 --> 00:13:03,658
In the past, I was focused
a lot on, you know,
366
00:13:03,700 --> 00:13:05,790
developing myself, my goals,
367
00:13:05,827 --> 00:13:07,787
that I think it maybe
did get in the way
368
00:13:07,829 --> 00:13:09,369
of my relationships.
369
00:13:09,414 --> 00:13:11,794
But I feel like I’m
at the point in my life
370
00:13:11,833 --> 00:13:15,003
where I’m very secure
with who I am,
371
00:13:15,044 --> 00:13:18,464
and I’m ready to live with
someone and grow with someone
372
00:13:18,506 --> 00:13:20,506
without being, like,
dependent on them.
373
00:13:20,550 --> 00:13:22,430
- Pretty.
- Ooh. [chuckles]
374
00:13:22,468 --> 00:13:25,048
No.
That’s a hard no for me.
375
00:13:25,096 --> 00:13:27,056
- Okay.
- Sorry. No, I’m sorry.
376
00:13:27,098 --> 00:13:29,228
The poof is not it for me.
377
00:13:29,726 --> 00:13:31,846
- Are ready for this?
378
00:13:31,894 --> 00:13:33,274
- Yeah.
It’s--
379
00:13:33,313 --> 00:13:34,813
- You’re still in shell shock.
- Yeah.
380
00:13:34,856 --> 00:13:36,356
I think yeah,
that’s probably true.
381
00:13:36,399 --> 00:13:37,689
- Yes, yes.
- Yeah.
382
00:13:37,734 --> 00:13:38,944
My immediate family,
383
00:13:38,985 --> 00:13:40,325
my mother, father,
and brother,
384
00:13:40,403 --> 00:13:42,493
are back in New Zealand.
385
00:13:42,530 --> 00:13:43,990
Thankfully,
I’ve got Nancy here today
386
00:13:44,032 --> 00:13:46,832
to help me take
this first step
387
00:13:46,868 --> 00:13:49,908
towards building a family
with my wife.
388
00:13:49,954 --> 00:13:51,664
- I like the green.
389
00:13:51,706 --> 00:13:52,826
I think you should try
it even without a tie
390
00:13:52,874 --> 00:13:54,124
and see if you like it.
391
00:13:54,167 --> 00:13:55,667
- Yeah, I think
that’s a good idea.
392
00:13:55,710 --> 00:13:57,380
- Depends on how
formal you have to be.
393
00:13:57,420 --> 00:13:59,300
- I hadn’t thought about that.
I guess I get to choose, right?
394
00:13:59,339 --> 00:14:01,049
- You get to choose.
395
00:14:01,090 --> 00:14:02,420
At least that’s something
you get to choose.
396
00:14:02,467 --> 00:14:04,887
- Yeah, yeah.
[laughs]
397
00:14:04,927 --> 00:14:08,507
I moved to Colorado about
ten years ago when I was 23.
398
00:14:08,556 --> 00:14:12,346
And I moved here with
one suitcase and $5,000.
399
00:14:12,393 --> 00:14:15,021
So those types
of big adventures
400
00:14:15,021 --> 00:14:18,071
are things that define me
as a person,
401
00:14:18,107 --> 00:14:20,897
and I think this is gonna be
another one of those moments.
402
00:14:20,902 --> 00:14:23,902
[upbeat music]
403
00:14:23,946 --> 00:14:26,736
♪
404
00:14:26,741 --> 00:14:30,241
I think this is
the winning option.
405
00:14:30,286 --> 00:14:33,826
♪
406
00:14:33,873 --> 00:14:36,633
I’m really hoping that this--
this works out,
407
00:14:36,667 --> 00:14:39,457
you know, that this is--
that this is my wife
408
00:14:39,462 --> 00:14:41,712
for the rest of my life.
409
00:14:41,756 --> 00:14:43,716
- I think you’ll do great.
410
00:14:43,758 --> 00:14:46,428
[upbeat music]
411
00:14:46,469 --> 00:14:49,969
[all cheering and fawning]
412
00:14:50,014 --> 00:14:52,734
- I like that one way more
than I thought, Clare.
413
00:14:52,767 --> 00:14:54,267
♪
414
00:14:54,310 --> 00:14:56,980
It’s beautiful.
415
00:14:57,021 --> 00:14:59,651
I do really love that.
- You look stunning.
416
00:14:59,690 --> 00:15:02,070
- Perfect.
- It’s beautiful.
417
00:15:02,110 --> 00:15:04,190
- You look unreal.
- Wow.
418
00:15:04,237 --> 00:15:05,277
- This is the one.
- Yeah.
419
00:15:05,363 --> 00:15:06,913
- It is the one.
420
00:15:06,948 --> 00:15:09,488
- She’s so beautiful.
[sniffles]
421
00:15:09,534 --> 00:15:11,584
It’s hard to believe.
422
00:15:11,619 --> 00:15:12,829
- You guys know I’ve had,
423
00:15:12,870 --> 00:15:15,160
you know,
issues with self-image
424
00:15:15,206 --> 00:15:17,576
and just no one
has wanted to commit to me.
425
00:15:17,625 --> 00:15:19,415
Like, nobody has
ever been sure of me.
426
00:15:19,460 --> 00:15:22,210
They’ve been like, yeah,
I like this and that about you,
427
00:15:22,255 --> 00:15:24,725
but I don’t see myself
with you long-term.
428
00:15:24,757 --> 00:15:27,467
And I feel like
all the praying I’ve done,
429
00:15:27,510 --> 00:15:29,430
it’s all led me here.
430
00:15:29,470 --> 00:15:31,010
This is a lot.
431
00:15:31,055 --> 00:15:32,635
[soft dramatic music]
432
00:15:32,723 --> 00:15:34,773
- Aw.
- Clare!
433
00:15:34,809 --> 00:15:36,389
[stifled sobs]
434
00:15:36,436 --> 00:15:38,146
♪
435
00:15:38,187 --> 00:15:40,937
[Clare sniffles]
- Oh, my gosh.
436
00:15:40,982 --> 00:15:42,072
- It’s a lot.
- It’s huge.
437
00:15:42,108 --> 00:15:44,028
- It’s good, Clare.
It’s good.
438
00:15:44,068 --> 00:15:46,148
- This is huge.
You found the one.
439
00:15:46,195 --> 00:15:47,105
- Yeah.
- Mm.
440
00:15:47,155 --> 00:15:48,915
- Oh, my God.
441
00:15:48,948 --> 00:15:51,658
- I just feel very comfortable
in my skin. [sniffles]
442
00:15:51,701 --> 00:15:55,581
[shakily] And it took me
a while to get here.
443
00:15:55,621 --> 00:15:57,501
But also, like, I just--
444
00:15:57,540 --> 00:15:59,210
the fact that
I’ll be walking down this
445
00:15:59,250 --> 00:16:02,670
and meeting somebody that
I don’t know is very scary.
446
00:16:02,712 --> 00:16:07,172
But I’m here, and I’m ready to
share that with someone else.
447
00:16:07,216 --> 00:16:09,046
For sure.
[sniffles]
448
00:16:09,093 --> 00:16:11,103
- You’ll bring out the best
in whoever it is.
449
00:16:11,137 --> 00:16:13,307
He’ll bring out
the best in you.
450
00:16:13,347 --> 00:16:14,847
- Yeah.
451
00:16:14,891 --> 00:16:17,481
- ♪ Everybody feels it
sometimes ♪
452
00:16:21,689 --> 00:16:23,357
[upbeat music]
453
00:16:23,357 --> 00:16:25,527
- ♪ You can start again
454
00:16:25,610 --> 00:16:27,110
♪
455
00:16:30,531 --> 00:16:33,701
- ♪ Open your eyes
456
00:16:33,701 --> 00:16:37,371
♪ Look at what’s
in front of you tonight ♪
457
00:16:37,455 --> 00:16:38,873
♪ Yeah
458
00:16:38,873 --> 00:16:42,383
- Here we are.
It’s the day.
459
00:16:42,460 --> 00:16:46,300
[all cheering]
Hey, guys!
460
00:16:46,339 --> 00:16:49,969
[all cheering]
461
00:16:50,009 --> 00:16:51,389
- Are you ready?
- I’m very excited.
462
00:16:51,469 --> 00:16:53,679
Y’all look so cute.
463
00:16:53,721 --> 00:16:55,971
I feel like I want to dance
464
00:16:56,015 --> 00:16:58,175
and I want a hug
from my husband.
465
00:16:58,226 --> 00:16:59,886
I hope he’s big enough
to keep me warm
466
00:16:59,977 --> 00:17:01,227
because it’s cold today, y’all.
467
00:17:01,229 --> 00:17:02,519
It’s so cold.
468
00:17:02,563 --> 00:17:04,232
- You about to be
somebody wife.
469
00:17:04,232 --> 00:17:06,732
- Yes, a bride to be.
[chuckles]
470
00:17:06,817 --> 00:17:08,067
- Yes.
471
00:17:08,069 --> 00:17:09,189
- And it’s not too much
longer to be.
472
00:17:09,237 --> 00:17:10,817
all: No.
- It’s about to just be bride.
473
00:17:10,863 --> 00:17:12,913
- It’s happening now.
- Right now.
474
00:17:12,990 --> 00:17:15,660
- I’m excited, y’all.
I hope he’s excited.
475
00:17:15,701 --> 00:17:18,041
[upbeat music]
476
00:17:18,079 --> 00:17:20,079
- Gentlemen!
- Orion!
477
00:17:20,206 --> 00:17:22,536
[overlapping chatter]
- What’s up, you guys?
478
00:17:22,583 --> 00:17:23,918
- How’s it going?
479
00:17:23,918 --> 00:17:25,418
- Hi!
- Dude, are you excited?
480
00:17:25,503 --> 00:17:27,421
- Aw!
481
00:17:27,421 --> 00:17:30,221
You guys are just playing pool
without me?
482
00:17:30,258 --> 00:17:32,008
That’s not cool.
- They’re trying to.
483
00:17:32,051 --> 00:17:33,551
- Oh, man.
- Gosh.
484
00:17:33,594 --> 00:17:35,554
- Feeling nervous?
Feeling excited?
485
00:17:35,596 --> 00:17:37,176
- You ready for this?
- I’m feeling--
486
00:17:37,223 --> 00:17:40,183
- I’m feeling clammy, so, like,
I’m keeping the nerves,
487
00:17:40,184 --> 00:17:41,894
you know, just under wrap.
488
00:17:41,936 --> 00:17:44,605
But I’m feeling the excitement.
489
00:17:44,605 --> 00:17:47,775
I’ve really been looking for
somebody since the age of 13,
490
00:17:47,775 --> 00:17:50,895
and lot of it deals with
the story of my grandparents,
491
00:17:50,945 --> 00:17:53,114
the everlasting love story.
492
00:17:53,114 --> 00:17:55,783
I grew up with that
just always in my mind.
493
00:17:55,783 --> 00:17:58,583
Now that it’s here, I’m just
feeling all the excitement.
494
00:17:58,619 --> 00:18:00,699
I-I-
it’s hard to contain.
495
00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:04,420
[upbeat music]
496
00:18:04,458 --> 00:18:07,588
♪
497
00:18:07,628 --> 00:18:09,797
- Do you hope he looks
any type of way?
498
00:18:09,797 --> 00:18:12,377
- I hope that whatever
you want is what you get.
499
00:18:12,425 --> 00:18:14,765
And I think I already know that
you’re super open to, like,
500
00:18:14,802 --> 00:18:16,802
physical appearance.
501
00:18:16,887 --> 00:18:18,806
Attraction isn’t
your number one thing.
502
00:18:18,806 --> 00:18:20,386
- No.
I really do think it can grow.
503
00:18:20,433 --> 00:18:21,643
- Yeah.
- Absolutely.
504
00:18:21,726 --> 00:18:22,976
- As long as he’s, like,
a good person.
505
00:18:23,060 --> 00:18:25,480
You know,
he’s caring, he’s kind.
506
00:18:25,563 --> 00:18:28,816
Those will, you know,
overdo all the physical stuff.
507
00:18:28,816 --> 00:18:29,976
- Not too much, though.
- Yeah.
508
00:18:29,984 --> 00:18:31,944
- You could turn a four
into a five.
509
00:18:31,944 --> 00:18:36,164
I don’t know if you
can turn a two into a five.
510
00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,659
- What are you hoping
that she looks like?
511
00:18:38,659 --> 00:18:40,489
- I’m really just
staying away from,
512
00:18:40,494 --> 00:18:42,997
I guess, just that as a whole
513
00:18:42,997 --> 00:18:46,827
and more so just
kind of focusing on
514
00:18:46,834 --> 00:18:50,171
what I want in a marriage,
you know?
515
00:18:50,171 --> 00:18:52,131
Like, healthy reciprocation,
516
00:18:52,173 --> 00:18:54,633
you know,
some positive reinforcement,
517
00:18:54,675 --> 00:18:58,095
you know, just kind of the
things that I haven’t had.
518
00:18:58,137 --> 00:19:00,257
I don’t know,
just even personal values
519
00:19:00,306 --> 00:19:05,436
because now a lot of that
is extended to another person,
520
00:19:05,478 --> 00:19:08,688
a stranger right now, but,
you know, another person.
521
00:19:08,689 --> 00:19:10,359
- Right.
522
00:19:10,441 --> 00:19:12,360
- I would like to know, like,
his argument style.
523
00:19:12,360 --> 00:19:13,860
- I hope he’s patient.
524
00:19:13,861 --> 00:19:15,451
He needs to be able
to tell me what’s wrong
525
00:19:15,488 --> 00:19:16,858
because I’m not a mind reader.
- Exactly.
526
00:19:16,947 --> 00:19:18,817
- And more than not
being a mind reader,
527
00:19:18,866 --> 00:19:21,196
we’re not at that point where
528
00:19:21,285 --> 00:19:23,155
we can pick up each other’s
cues, probably, you know.
529
00:19:23,204 --> 00:19:25,004
And it might take a while
to get there.
530
00:19:25,039 --> 00:19:27,369
And so I hope that even
if we don’t have
531
00:19:27,375 --> 00:19:28,876
those attributes right now,
532
00:19:28,876 --> 00:19:31,336
that we can grow into them
and learn them over time.
533
00:19:33,130 --> 00:19:35,880
[upbeat music]
534
00:19:35,966 --> 00:19:37,216
- ♪ Ooh
535
00:19:37,301 --> 00:19:39,551
- It looks good.
Looks real good.
536
00:19:39,637 --> 00:19:41,217
- ♪ Don’t want to be
537
00:19:41,305 --> 00:19:43,345
♪ The first to lose
538
00:19:43,391 --> 00:19:46,351
♪ Fighting for the top,
want the highest view ♪
539
00:19:46,394 --> 00:19:49,063
- Oh, you look beautiful.
- You look so pretty.
540
00:19:49,063 --> 00:19:50,523
- Oh, my God.
You’re especially stunning.
541
00:19:50,564 --> 00:19:52,734
- Oh, my God.
You look perfect.
542
00:19:52,817 --> 00:19:54,857
Oh, my God.
He’s going to love you.
543
00:19:54,902 --> 00:19:57,032
- Yes.
- You look so good.
544
00:19:57,071 --> 00:19:58,739
- I feel like
it’s still surreal.
545
00:19:58,739 --> 00:20:00,739
I don’t know if
I feel like a bride yet,
546
00:20:00,825 --> 00:20:02,495
but I look like one.
- Yeah, you do.
547
00:20:02,535 --> 00:20:04,705
- I look like one.
548
00:20:04,745 --> 00:20:07,915
- Fine is an understatement.
549
00:20:07,915 --> 00:20:09,575
- Man, I’m so stoked for you.
- [chuckles]
550
00:20:09,667 --> 00:20:12,086
- It’s going to be exciting.
551
00:20:12,086 --> 00:20:15,046
- I’m really excited.
- Hi.
552
00:20:15,089 --> 00:20:16,919
- This is a gift
from your wife.
553
00:20:17,007 --> 00:20:19,087
- Oh.
- Cute.
554
00:20:19,176 --> 00:20:23,346
- Thank you so much.
Let’s see what she got me.
555
00:20:23,389 --> 00:20:26,179
- A flask?
- Yeah. A nice one.
556
00:20:26,183 --> 00:20:29,770
Oh, man. Helping me out right
before we go out there.
557
00:20:29,770 --> 00:20:32,940
"If you’re as excited as I am,
you probably could use a shot."
558
00:20:32,940 --> 00:20:34,520
Yeah.
559
00:20:34,567 --> 00:20:36,567
"This is from a barrel of rum
aged 20 years,
560
00:20:36,610 --> 00:20:38,900
bottled by yours truly
in Puerto Rico."
561
00:20:41,949 --> 00:20:44,449
- "I chose to gift you
some of my turquoise.
562
00:20:44,452 --> 00:20:46,042
"When we wear the turquoise,
563
00:20:46,078 --> 00:20:49,868
"it allows us to be seen by
our holy people and ancestors.
564
00:20:49,915 --> 00:20:51,625
"I thought with this gift,
565
00:20:51,709 --> 00:20:55,459
"my ancestors can see
and come to know who you are
566
00:20:55,463 --> 00:20:57,383
and who you are to me,
with a heart."
567
00:20:57,423 --> 00:20:59,133
- Aw, that’s cute.
- Yo.
568
00:20:59,216 --> 00:21:00,926
- That was thoughtful.
569
00:21:00,968 --> 00:21:03,598
- I can’t wear it today, but
I just, like, love turquoise.
570
00:21:03,637 --> 00:21:05,557
- Indigenous men have
a traditional bun
571
00:21:05,598 --> 00:21:07,638
that we wrap
on our wedding day.
572
00:21:07,641 --> 00:21:11,141
And our hair, you know,
it represents rain.
573
00:21:11,145 --> 00:21:13,063
And then the way
you wrap it up,
574
00:21:13,063 --> 00:21:15,653
that keeps it all there
so that, you know,
575
00:21:15,733 --> 00:21:18,153
when I have that bun in,
I’m of clear mind,
576
00:21:18,235 --> 00:21:19,485
you know, clear thoughts,
577
00:21:19,570 --> 00:21:21,450
clear emotions,
things like that.
578
00:21:21,489 --> 00:21:25,239
And so everything that
comes through me, you know,
579
00:21:25,326 --> 00:21:27,826
it’s from my ancestors.
580
00:21:27,912 --> 00:21:30,662
The scariest thing
about going into this,
581
00:21:30,748 --> 00:21:32,828
I would say it really
comes down to just
582
00:21:32,917 --> 00:21:34,957
how she reacts to my culture,
you know,
583
00:21:35,002 --> 00:21:37,752
and the fact
I’m an Indigenous man.
584
00:21:37,797 --> 00:21:40,257
It’s the first time I’ve ever
worn these earrings,
585
00:21:40,299 --> 00:21:42,176
aside from not dancing.
586
00:21:42,176 --> 00:21:44,586
That’s really key for me
because if my potential wife
587
00:21:44,637 --> 00:21:47,257
were to just not get it,
588
00:21:47,306 --> 00:21:50,176
it would be
quite disappointing.
589
00:21:50,267 --> 00:21:52,517
- I feel like he’s spiritual.
590
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:54,100
Like, and that already
means a lot for me,
591
00:21:54,146 --> 00:21:57,016
that he talked
about his ancestors.
592
00:21:57,024 --> 00:21:58,694
Because you know,
I talk about my ancestors
593
00:21:58,776 --> 00:22:00,686
and my spirit guides
all the time.
594
00:22:00,778 --> 00:22:02,318
Like, we’re connected.
595
00:22:02,363 --> 00:22:06,833
We’re already spiritually,
mentally connected somehow.
596
00:22:06,867 --> 00:22:08,287
All right, I’m ready
to get married now.
597
00:22:08,327 --> 00:22:10,197
If there’s anything
that made me feel, like,
598
00:22:10,287 --> 00:22:12,706
prepared and ready for this,
it was this.
599
00:22:12,706 --> 00:22:14,536
Like, I’m about to cry.
- No.
600
00:22:14,625 --> 00:22:16,544
- I’m not, but I’m like--
- Look up.
601
00:22:16,544 --> 00:22:19,344
- Do not cry.
- [exhales deeply]
602
00:22:19,380 --> 00:22:22,300
[soft suspenseful music]
603
00:22:22,341 --> 00:22:25,011
♪
604
00:22:25,052 --> 00:22:26,720
- [exhales deeply]
605
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,220
♪
606
00:22:29,223 --> 00:22:32,393
- You look absolutely handsome.
- Hi.
607
00:22:32,476 --> 00:22:34,186
- Dont get makeup.
- Hi, Mom.
608
00:22:37,231 --> 00:22:38,901
- But, this is crazy, though.
609
00:22:38,983 --> 00:22:40,401
- Yeah, it is crazy.
- This is crazy.
610
00:22:40,401 --> 00:22:42,241
- It is crazy.
611
00:22:42,319 --> 00:22:46,239
But, you know, since day one,
you have been adventurous.
612
00:22:46,365 --> 00:22:49,075
You’ve always wanted
to tackle on new things.
613
00:22:49,159 --> 00:22:50,829
There was never hesitation.
614
00:22:50,870 --> 00:22:54,710
When it’s like, oh, let’s go
do this, you’re 100% in there.
615
00:22:54,748 --> 00:22:59,248
- I think a lot
of who I am today
616
00:22:59,253 --> 00:23:01,883
and who I’m presenting
to my wife is a lot of things
617
00:23:01,922 --> 00:23:05,262
that you gave me
in the years growing up.
618
00:23:05,342 --> 00:23:06,592
- Yeah.
619
00:23:06,594 --> 00:23:08,434
- I can feel my family
behind me.
620
00:23:08,512 --> 00:23:09,852
- Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
621
00:23:09,889 --> 00:23:11,849
- So that’s all the
strength I need.
622
00:23:11,891 --> 00:23:15,436
- Absolutely.
We’re here for you, 100%.
623
00:23:15,436 --> 00:23:17,766
- I love you, Mom.
- I love you, too, baby.
624
00:23:18,939 --> 00:23:19,939
- Mm-hmm.
- [chuckles]
625
00:23:20,024 --> 00:23:21,574
♪
626
00:23:21,609 --> 00:23:25,069
- Hey, family!
- Hello.
627
00:23:25,112 --> 00:23:29,372
- You look fabulous.
- Looking great, looking great.
628
00:23:29,408 --> 00:23:31,368
- I have some gifts for you.
- Ooh, yes.
629
00:23:31,410 --> 00:23:33,580
- This is your something old
from Granny.
630
00:23:33,621 --> 00:23:36,751
[soft upbeat music]
631
00:23:36,790 --> 00:23:40,920
And then I felt like you needed
your protector with you.
632
00:23:40,961 --> 00:23:42,961
- [chuckles]
- So I put it on there.
633
00:23:43,047 --> 00:23:45,757
- She gets to go in here, too.
- Yeah.
634
00:23:45,799 --> 00:23:48,135
- My sister-in-law bought me
this keychain of my mommy,
635
00:23:48,135 --> 00:23:50,045
and it’s of the
last time that her and I
636
00:23:50,095 --> 00:23:52,385
actually, like, hung out
and just, like, had a blast,
637
00:23:52,431 --> 00:23:53,971
a night on the town.
638
00:23:53,974 --> 00:23:55,484
So, like, this is the Pam
that I need here.
639
00:23:55,559 --> 00:23:56,809
I need party Pam.
640
00:23:56,810 --> 00:23:59,270
So, like, having my mom here,
641
00:23:59,313 --> 00:24:00,813
even though
I knew she was here,
642
00:24:00,814 --> 00:24:03,484
but having this little reminder
right in front of me,
643
00:24:03,567 --> 00:24:04,647
I feel like
I could conquer the world.
644
00:24:04,735 --> 00:24:06,615
So I know
I can marry a stranger.
645
00:24:06,654 --> 00:24:12,159
I’ve never once imagined my
wedding not including my mom.
646
00:24:12,159 --> 00:24:13,949
- Right.
647
00:24:13,994 --> 00:24:15,663
- But I know she’s here because
I hear her voice telling me,
648
00:24:15,663 --> 00:24:16,997
"Don’t mess up your makeup,
girl.
649
00:24:16,997 --> 00:24:18,327
Don’t mess up your makeup."
[laughter]
650
00:24:18,332 --> 00:24:21,922
So she’s buzzing in my ear.
[chuckles]
651
00:24:21,961 --> 00:24:24,501
- I think you’re beyond ready
to do this.
652
00:24:24,588 --> 00:24:26,298
- Yeah.
- Yes.
653
00:24:26,340 --> 00:24:28,680
- Well, I’ll see you inside.
Say hi to my husband for me.
654
00:24:28,759 --> 00:24:31,178
- I will, girl. I’ll give a
whoop-whoop, if hes cute.
655
00:24:31,178 --> 00:24:33,848
[laughter]
656
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:40,100
- I am just steps away,
and it’s scary.
657
00:24:40,145 --> 00:24:42,145
There’s no doubt about that.
658
00:24:42,189 --> 00:24:43,689
Everything that
is a part of me,
659
00:24:43,691 --> 00:24:45,611
you know,
it drops into culture.
660
00:24:45,651 --> 00:24:50,197
That’s where my family
and I are rooted.
661
00:24:50,197 --> 00:24:51,865
[chuckles]
662
00:24:51,865 --> 00:24:54,695
And there’s a lot of
things that can go wrong.
663
00:24:54,702 --> 00:24:56,162
♪
664
00:24:56,203 --> 00:24:58,213
You’re tethering
yourself to that person
665
00:24:58,288 --> 00:24:59,707
for the rest of your life.
666
00:24:59,707 --> 00:25:00,867
- All right, y’all.
Ready to make this walk?
667
00:25:00,958 --> 00:25:01,958
- All right. Yes. Come on.
- Let’s do it.
668
00:25:02,001 --> 00:25:03,631
- All right,
let’s head this way.
669
00:25:03,669 --> 00:25:04,709
- Let’s do it.
- All right.
670
00:25:04,795 --> 00:25:06,547
- Hi.
I’m Orion.
671
00:25:06,547 --> 00:25:07,877
Orion.
- Oh, nice to meet you.
672
00:25:08,007 --> 00:25:10,047
[energetic dramatic music]
673
00:25:10,134 --> 00:25:11,514
- I’m ready
to meet my husband.
674
00:25:11,552 --> 00:25:13,052
I know that I’m a wife.
675
00:25:13,137 --> 00:25:16,217
I’ve known that I was a wife
for years.
676
00:25:16,306 --> 00:25:20,806
I’m ready to
write my own destiny.
677
00:25:20,853 --> 00:25:25,023
♪
678
00:25:29,069 --> 00:25:31,199
[dramatic music]
679
00:25:31,238 --> 00:25:34,408
- It’s like, the nerves.
It’s just excitement.
680
00:25:34,408 --> 00:25:35,658
Yeah,
I gotta move a little bit.
681
00:25:35,701 --> 00:25:37,161
[laughter]
Oh, boy.
682
00:25:37,202 --> 00:25:40,412
- Please stand.
683
00:25:40,497 --> 00:25:42,997
- Oh, boy.
684
00:25:43,042 --> 00:25:49,552
♪
685
00:25:49,590 --> 00:25:52,380
- ♪ Make it personal
686
00:25:52,426 --> 00:25:53,756
♪ Take your time,
would you mind ♪
687
00:25:53,844 --> 00:25:56,054
♪ If I ask you a question?
688
00:25:56,096 --> 00:25:58,265
♪ Are we gonna fall?
689
00:25:58,265 --> 00:26:01,885
♪ I mean, truly and totally
foolish in love ♪
690
00:26:01,935 --> 00:26:07,225
♪
691
00:26:07,274 --> 00:26:08,776
- Love you.
692
00:26:08,776 --> 00:26:11,186
- Hi.
- [giggling] Hi.
693
00:26:11,236 --> 00:26:12,896
♪
694
00:26:12,905 --> 00:26:14,615
- You look phenomenal.
- Thank you.
695
00:26:14,615 --> 00:26:16,285
It’s nice to meet you.
I love your earrings.
696
00:26:16,366 --> 00:26:17,696
- Oh, thank you.
697
00:26:19,036 --> 00:26:20,406
[Orion exhales deeply]
698
00:26:20,454 --> 00:26:22,289
- Lauren,
meet for the very first time,
699
00:26:22,289 --> 00:26:25,749
Orion, your husband-to-be.
700
00:26:25,793 --> 00:26:28,962
Orion, meet for the very first
time Lauren, your wife-to-be.
701
00:26:28,962 --> 00:26:31,302
- That’s me. [giggles]
- Hi.
702
00:26:31,381 --> 00:26:33,261
- Don’t they look good, y’all?
703
00:26:33,300 --> 00:26:34,720
[all cheering]
704
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:36,800
- We do, we do.
- Yeah.
705
00:26:36,887 --> 00:26:38,757
[applause]
706
00:26:38,806 --> 00:26:40,466
[Lauren sighs]
707
00:26:40,474 --> 00:26:43,234
- Orion, Lauren’s family and
friends would like you to know
708
00:26:43,268 --> 00:26:45,728
that she’s an original
masterpiece...
709
00:26:45,771 --> 00:26:47,151
- [softly] Yes.
710
00:26:47,231 --> 00:26:48,321
- Always standing out
and doing her own thing
711
00:26:48,398 --> 00:26:49,978
because blending in
would be too boring.
712
00:26:49,983 --> 00:26:51,323
[soft upbeat music]
713
00:26:51,401 --> 00:26:53,401
Be ready for the
adventure of a lifetime,
714
00:26:53,487 --> 00:26:56,487
whether it’s a spontaneous hike
or a random trip to Paris,
715
00:26:56,573 --> 00:26:57,991
you’ll never have
a disappointing moment
716
00:26:57,991 --> 00:27:00,621
with this free-spirited
Sagittarius woman.
717
00:27:00,661 --> 00:27:02,161
[Orion chuckles]
718
00:27:02,287 --> 00:27:03,827
She is a beautiful, little nerd
who loves a good book,
719
00:27:03,914 --> 00:27:06,333
a good drink, and good company.
720
00:27:06,333 --> 00:27:09,923
Lauren was raised to be bold,
outspoken, and fearless.
721
00:27:09,962 --> 00:27:11,672
It has all led her
to this moment
722
00:27:11,755 --> 00:27:15,005
and will lead her to
a wonderful lifetime with you.
723
00:27:15,092 --> 00:27:17,182
- Man, the experts hit it.
724
00:27:17,261 --> 00:27:20,141
[laughter]
Oh, my goodness.
725
00:27:20,180 --> 00:27:21,510
[Orion exhales deeply]
726
00:27:21,598 --> 00:27:23,018
- Orion’s friends
and family would
727
00:27:23,100 --> 00:27:24,640
like you to know that
there’s a lot more to him
728
00:27:24,685 --> 00:27:26,485
than meets the eye.
729
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,189
He is a jack-of-all-trades
who can restore a classic car
730
00:27:29,189 --> 00:27:30,769
or refinish a basement,
731
00:27:30,816 --> 00:27:32,276
but he is still learning
how to put his hair in a bun.
732
00:27:32,317 --> 00:27:33,687
- Yes.
[laughter]
733
00:27:33,777 --> 00:27:34,817
Hey, I can help you
with that.
734
00:27:34,862 --> 00:27:36,029
- Thank you.
735
00:27:36,029 --> 00:27:37,199
- And you can
help me hang shelves.
736
00:27:37,281 --> 00:27:39,821
- Yes. Yeah, here we go.
[laughter]
737
00:27:39,867 --> 00:27:41,617
- This is easy.
[Orion chuckles]
738
00:27:41,660 --> 00:27:43,370
- Orion’s culture plays
an important part
739
00:27:43,453 --> 00:27:45,503
in everything he does,
so be ready for him
740
00:27:45,539 --> 00:27:47,369
to ecstatically
share his family and traditions
741
00:27:47,457 --> 00:27:49,457
with you, his wife.
- Can’t wait.
742
00:27:49,501 --> 00:27:52,211
- Growing up in a matriarchy,
Orion believes women are strong
743
00:27:52,212 --> 00:27:54,462
and will
value your independence.
744
00:27:54,506 --> 00:27:57,506
Orion has been dreaming of
finding you since he was 13,
745
00:27:57,551 --> 00:28:00,221
and we hope you are ready
to tackle a spontaneous life
746
00:28:00,304 --> 00:28:02,224
with a fun-loving,
generous man
747
00:28:02,306 --> 00:28:04,056
with the kindest of souls.
748
00:28:04,057 --> 00:28:05,387
[upbeat music]
749
00:28:05,475 --> 00:28:09,225
- Experts did good for me, too.
[laughter]
750
00:28:09,313 --> 00:28:11,823
- Lauren and Orion,
you have written your own vows.
751
00:28:11,857 --> 00:28:13,817
Lauren, will you please
share your vows first?
752
00:28:13,859 --> 00:28:15,149
- I will.
753
00:28:15,194 --> 00:28:17,034
They’ve been burning a hole
in my hand.
754
00:28:17,070 --> 00:28:19,200
[laughter]
755
00:28:19,239 --> 00:28:21,739
"On this journey,
I may make promises
756
00:28:21,742 --> 00:28:24,162
"that I sometimes
fall short of,
757
00:28:24,203 --> 00:28:27,043
"but I am hoping you see
enough of my best self
758
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:31,000
"to continue to choose me
every day, as I will for you.
759
00:28:31,043 --> 00:28:32,883
"I promise to stay curious
about you
760
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,210
"instead of critical of you.
761
00:28:35,255 --> 00:28:37,505
"I promise to seek connection
over correction
762
00:28:37,549 --> 00:28:39,259
"when in disagreement.
763
00:28:39,343 --> 00:28:41,593
"But more than anything,
I promise this marriage
764
00:28:41,678 --> 00:28:44,218
"to be one of mutual
and individual growth,
765
00:28:44,264 --> 00:28:47,024
"one that we will forever
be fulfilled in and from.
766
00:28:47,059 --> 00:28:48,599
I promise you adventure."
767
00:28:48,727 --> 00:28:51,227
♪
768
00:28:51,271 --> 00:28:53,521
- "I’ve been anxiously waiting
to see who you are.
769
00:28:53,607 --> 00:28:56,607
"And as you stand before me,
I know there is no one else
770
00:28:56,693 --> 00:29:00,280
"I’d rather take this adventure
with or make these promises to.
771
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,950
"I promise easy communication
when times feel stressful
772
00:29:02,950 --> 00:29:04,410
"and patience in case
773
00:29:04,451 --> 00:29:07,041
"you and I are not
on the same page right away.
774
00:29:07,079 --> 00:29:09,249
"I promise the man
standing before you today
775
00:29:09,289 --> 00:29:11,539
"is the best version of myself.
776
00:29:11,583 --> 00:29:13,293
"We never know what
the future holds,
777
00:29:13,377 --> 00:29:15,797
"but knowing that
you’re here with me today,
778
00:29:15,879 --> 00:29:18,719
"it gives me reassurance
that someone, somewhere,
779
00:29:18,757 --> 00:29:20,087
has been listening
to my prayers."
780
00:29:20,133 --> 00:29:21,133
- Amen.
781
00:29:21,218 --> 00:29:23,388
Somebody.
[both chuckle]
782
00:29:24,972 --> 00:29:26,932
- Lauren,
will you take Orion
783
00:29:26,974 --> 00:29:28,484
to be your lawful,
wedded husband?
784
00:29:28,558 --> 00:29:30,388
Will you love him,
comfort him,
785
00:29:30,435 --> 00:29:32,895
honor and keep him,
in sickness and in health,
786
00:29:32,938 --> 00:29:34,108
forsaking all others,
787
00:29:34,147 --> 00:29:35,727
so as long as
you both shall live?
788
00:29:35,774 --> 00:29:37,444
- I do.
789
00:29:37,484 --> 00:29:38,994
- Whew.
Nervous.
790
00:29:39,069 --> 00:29:40,319
- Now the ball’s in your court.
791
00:29:40,404 --> 00:29:41,744
- Yeah, I know, I know,
I know, I know. Hoo.
792
00:29:41,780 --> 00:29:43,820
[laughter]
Hoo, I got to hold it together.
793
00:29:43,824 --> 00:29:45,826
Take my breath away.
794
00:29:45,826 --> 00:29:48,406
- Orion, will you take Lauren
to be your lawful, wedded wife?
795
00:29:48,453 --> 00:29:51,123
Will you love her, comfort her,
honor and keep her,
796
00:29:51,164 --> 00:29:54,254
in sickness and in health,
forsaking all others,
797
00:29:54,293 --> 00:29:55,836
so as long as
you both shall live?
798
00:29:55,836 --> 00:29:57,496
- I do.
799
00:29:57,587 --> 00:30:01,257
- Lauren, take Orion’s hand
and repeat after me.
800
00:30:01,300 --> 00:30:03,340
With this ring...
- With this ring...
801
00:30:03,343 --> 00:30:05,683
- I wed you, Orion...
- I wed you, Orion...
802
00:30:05,762 --> 00:30:08,682
- With this ring,
I wed you, Lauren, for today...
803
00:30:08,807 --> 00:30:11,177
- For tomorrow
and for all the years to come.
804
00:30:11,268 --> 00:30:14,268
- Please wear it...
- As a sign of my commitment...
805
00:30:14,313 --> 00:30:16,193
- And a notice...
- To the entire world...
806
00:30:16,273 --> 00:30:17,653
- That I’m yours.
807
00:30:17,691 --> 00:30:18,781
- I’m your wife.
- Yeah.
808
00:30:18,817 --> 00:30:20,187
- Okay.
- Yeah, you are. Yep.
809
00:30:20,277 --> 00:30:21,607
[both chuckle]
810
00:30:21,653 --> 00:30:24,613
- And now, I pronounce you
a married couple.
811
00:30:24,656 --> 00:30:28,026
Orion, you may now
kiss your bride, Lauren.
812
00:30:28,035 --> 00:30:29,625
- Would you like a kiss?
- Yes.
813
00:30:29,661 --> 00:30:31,041
- Yeah? Yeah?
[Lauren laughs]
814
00:30:31,121 --> 00:30:33,871
- ♪ Baby, I can feel it
815
00:30:33,957 --> 00:30:36,837
[all cheering]
816
00:30:36,877 --> 00:30:38,667
[upbeat music]
817
00:30:38,712 --> 00:30:40,505
- Ladies and gentlemen,
818
00:30:40,505 --> 00:30:43,045
it is my pleasure to
introduce for the first time
819
00:30:43,050 --> 00:30:46,340
as husband and wife,
Orion and Lauren.
820
00:30:46,345 --> 00:30:47,305
- Whoo!
- Whoo!
821
00:30:47,346 --> 00:30:50,306
[all cheering]
822
00:30:50,349 --> 00:30:56,559
♪
823
00:30:56,646 --> 00:30:58,726
- ♪ If I’m gonna be your man
824
00:30:58,815 --> 00:31:01,145
♪ At least try
and understand ♪
825
00:31:01,193 --> 00:31:05,243
♪ I just wanna
give you my love ♪
826
00:31:05,322 --> 00:31:07,412
♪
827
00:31:11,411 --> 00:31:14,247
- ♪ I’m rising up
828
00:31:14,247 --> 00:31:15,917
♪ Any way that I can go
829
00:31:15,999 --> 00:31:19,586
♪ High before crashing down
830
00:31:19,586 --> 00:31:21,246
- How are you doing, man?
How are you feeling?
831
00:31:21,338 --> 00:31:22,588
- I feel good.
- [chuckles]
832
00:31:22,589 --> 00:31:24,669
- I’m way more calm
than I thought I’d be.
833
00:31:24,716 --> 00:31:27,046
I’m pretty convinced one of you
must have drugged me
834
00:31:27,094 --> 00:31:28,684
last night.
[chuckles]
835
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,060
But I am really happy
you guys are here with me.
836
00:31:31,098 --> 00:31:33,098
This would be by far the
craziest thing I’ve ever done.
837
00:31:33,183 --> 00:31:34,773
But my biggest hope for today
838
00:31:34,851 --> 00:31:36,771
is having
that instant connection.
839
00:31:36,853 --> 00:31:39,523
And I truly believe
you kind of
840
00:31:39,564 --> 00:31:42,574
have the greatest experiences
in those moments
841
00:31:42,609 --> 00:31:44,399
with the person you love.
842
00:31:44,444 --> 00:31:46,284
I did get an opportunity to
speak with my mom this morning
843
00:31:46,363 --> 00:31:48,033
and my sister last night.
844
00:31:48,073 --> 00:31:49,703
And you know,
they were fully supportive.
845
00:31:49,741 --> 00:31:51,701
I’m sure you could imagine,
it’s still a lot
846
00:31:51,743 --> 00:31:53,620
for my mom to digest.
- Yeah. [chuckles]
847
00:31:53,620 --> 00:31:56,080
- But when I told them that
you guys arrived last night,
848
00:31:56,123 --> 00:31:57,873
they knew I was in good hands.
849
00:31:57,916 --> 00:31:59,626
You know, I think my parents’
relationship
850
00:31:59,626 --> 00:32:04,086
really had a profound impact
on how I viewed marriage.
851
00:32:04,131 --> 00:32:06,631
I think what I appreciated
most about what my parents had
852
00:32:06,716 --> 00:32:08,796
is the fierce sense
of loyalty.
853
00:32:08,927 --> 00:32:10,797
I remember always looking at
them as a kid and being like,
854
00:32:10,887 --> 00:32:13,387
man, they really,
really love each other.
855
00:32:13,432 --> 00:32:16,810
And you know, going through
something like this
856
00:32:16,810 --> 00:32:18,478
I think is my opportunity
857
00:32:18,478 --> 00:32:20,898
to love someone
and feel that love back.
858
00:32:20,939 --> 00:32:22,319
- We love you.
859
00:32:22,399 --> 00:32:23,817
I mean, we’re excited
because this is a wedding.
860
00:32:23,817 --> 00:32:25,317
This is a celebration.
861
00:32:25,402 --> 00:32:27,322
So we’re all definitely
excited to meet her.
862
00:32:27,404 --> 00:32:29,284
- Well, I’m gonna
need, like, you two--
863
00:32:29,322 --> 00:32:31,658
especially you, you flash
that smile to her people.
864
00:32:31,658 --> 00:32:33,328
- [chuckles]
- Like, let them know
865
00:32:33,410 --> 00:32:35,240
don’t be worried
about the neck tattoos.
866
00:32:35,328 --> 00:32:36,328
[laughter]
Yeah.
867
00:32:36,329 --> 00:32:38,665
I promise he is a good guy.
868
00:32:38,665 --> 00:32:41,495
I do have an eclectic taste.
869
00:32:41,501 --> 00:32:43,001
When it comes to fashion,
870
00:32:43,003 --> 00:32:44,423
I like to dabble in a lot
of different things
871
00:32:44,463 --> 00:32:46,303
because I’ve never
been able to, like,
872
00:32:46,339 --> 00:32:49,179
paint or draw or anything like
that or engage in the arts.
873
00:32:49,259 --> 00:32:52,509
But if there’s one area
where I do feel creative,
874
00:32:52,596 --> 00:32:54,596
it’s like
how I present myself.
875
00:32:54,639 --> 00:32:57,429
And I do think I’m a little
bit more of an acquired taste.
876
00:32:57,476 --> 00:33:00,186
And I think that really
has played a role on why
877
00:33:00,270 --> 00:33:02,270
I’ve been single since
I’ve been out here in Denver.
878
00:33:02,314 --> 00:33:04,274
♪
879
00:33:04,316 --> 00:33:05,936
- What if she has a problem
with your hair?
880
00:33:05,984 --> 00:33:08,695
What if she has a problem
with your style?
881
00:33:08,695 --> 00:33:10,775
All of us know
how important that is
882
00:33:10,822 --> 00:33:13,122
to you and your identity.
883
00:33:13,158 --> 00:33:16,786
What if she wants you to
kind of look a different way?
884
00:33:16,786 --> 00:33:18,116
- Yeah, sometimes
I want to wear some, like,
885
00:33:18,163 --> 00:33:21,043
crazy-ass shoes or something
that looks like a skirt.
886
00:33:21,124 --> 00:33:25,044
Like, if there’s zero tolerance
for any of that.
887
00:33:25,128 --> 00:33:29,048
I think it speaks to some
bigger concerns I would have.
888
00:33:29,049 --> 00:33:31,049
- Do you want her to
be as extra as you,
889
00:33:31,134 --> 00:33:32,974
or do you want
her to look more--
890
00:33:33,011 --> 00:33:36,721
- Clean cut.
- Like normal like us?
891
00:33:36,723 --> 00:33:39,353
- I think historically,
I have gravitated
892
00:33:39,392 --> 00:33:42,062
to more, like,
classic-looking women.
893
00:33:42,145 --> 00:33:43,345
- Because you want
to feel special.
894
00:33:43,396 --> 00:33:44,896
[laughter]
895
00:33:44,981 --> 00:33:46,821
How selfish is he?
896
00:33:46,858 --> 00:33:49,568
- No one has complimented me
on my man skirt today.
897
00:33:49,653 --> 00:33:51,573
[dramatic music]
898
00:33:51,655 --> 00:33:53,875
- Qualities I look for
in a wife,
899
00:33:53,907 --> 00:33:57,077
someone who’s very
self-confident in who she is.
900
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,160
She’s perfectly independent
on her own,
901
00:33:59,204 --> 00:34:00,754
and this relationship
is something she wants,
902
00:34:00,830 --> 00:34:03,250
but it’s not, like,
something she needs.
903
00:34:03,333 --> 00:34:06,173
- ♪ You’re the young blood
904
00:34:06,211 --> 00:34:08,091
♪ Got a father,
keeps rising up ♪
905
00:34:08,171 --> 00:34:15,091
♪
906
00:34:15,428 --> 00:34:16,758
- You guys don’t seem
nervous for me,
907
00:34:16,763 --> 00:34:19,353
which I take that
as a good thing.
908
00:34:19,391 --> 00:34:23,271
- I’m not the one getting shot.
[laughter]
909
00:34:23,353 --> 00:34:25,903
I’m not the one going
to the guillotine.
910
00:34:25,939 --> 00:34:28,189
- Do you know why do you think
you haven’t found the person
911
00:34:28,233 --> 00:34:30,073
that you want to marry?
912
00:34:30,110 --> 00:34:32,700
- Maybe cutting out of
dating situations
913
00:34:32,737 --> 00:34:34,567
a little quicker than I should.
- Yeah.
914
00:34:34,614 --> 00:34:36,616
- I saw something
or I felt something,
915
00:34:36,616 --> 00:34:38,196
and I immediately just thought,
916
00:34:38,243 --> 00:34:40,953
well, I can just go back into
the dating pool.
917
00:34:41,037 --> 00:34:43,617
That’s kind of one of
the unique propositions
918
00:34:43,707 --> 00:34:46,626
of this journey
is that I can’t do that.
919
00:34:46,626 --> 00:34:48,876
I can’t just be like,
oh, well, I see a problem here.
920
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:50,797
I’m going to bounce.
- Yeah.
921
00:34:50,797 --> 00:34:52,087
- I’m doing this
for two things.
922
00:34:52,132 --> 00:34:53,472
I’m doing it for love,
923
00:34:53,550 --> 00:34:55,130
and I’m doing it
to be my best self.
924
00:34:55,135 --> 00:34:56,636
And I think that happens
through love.
925
00:34:56,636 --> 00:34:58,096
all: Hi.
926
00:35:00,432 --> 00:35:01,722
- All right.
- Wonderful.
927
00:35:01,808 --> 00:35:03,228
- Look at that.
- It looks like a scepter.
928
00:35:03,268 --> 00:35:05,808
- This potentially
could be the first step
929
00:35:05,812 --> 00:35:07,112
not only of
the rest of my life,
930
00:35:07,147 --> 00:35:09,147
but of a whole new life
931
00:35:09,232 --> 00:35:11,982
that I never had
thought was possible.
932
00:35:11,985 --> 00:35:14,325
- Oh, [bleep].
[wrapping paper rustling]
933
00:35:14,404 --> 00:35:16,156
Oh, man. This is--
- How did she know?
934
00:35:16,156 --> 00:35:17,316
- This is going to work.
935
00:35:17,407 --> 00:35:18,777
- This--
[laughter]
936
00:35:18,825 --> 00:35:21,785
- I already love her.
She gave you a sword.
937
00:35:21,786 --> 00:35:23,826
- This might be the best gift
I’ve ever gotten in my life.
938
00:35:23,913 --> 00:35:25,332
[laughter]
939
00:35:25,332 --> 00:35:26,422
- What if she’s looking
for a sword fight?
940
00:35:26,458 --> 00:35:28,248
Like maybe she
has her own sword,
941
00:35:28,293 --> 00:35:30,753
and she’s like,
if you want to marry me--
942
00:35:30,795 --> 00:35:32,255
- You got to sword fight me?
- You got to sword fight me.
943
00:35:32,297 --> 00:35:34,667
- I’d be oddly turned on.
[laughter]
944
00:35:34,674 --> 00:35:36,843
If this is an early indication,
then they have
945
00:35:36,843 --> 00:35:38,683
definitely matched me
with the right woman.
946
00:35:38,762 --> 00:35:39,762
- Yeah.
947
00:35:39,804 --> 00:35:41,681
♪
948
00:35:41,681 --> 00:35:44,181
- Okay.
- Oh, [bleep].
949
00:35:44,267 --> 00:35:46,017
You are now
the prince of Denver.
950
00:35:46,102 --> 00:35:48,192
- [chuckles]
- Why not the king?
951
00:35:48,271 --> 00:35:49,111
- She just christened me.
- The king.
952
00:35:49,147 --> 00:35:50,477
- The king.
953
00:35:50,523 --> 00:35:51,653
- Because a prince is younger,
[bleep] damn it.
954
00:35:51,691 --> 00:35:53,151
[laughter]
955
00:35:53,193 --> 00:35:55,028
- "To the king of my heart,
956
00:35:55,028 --> 00:35:56,648
"it takes a brave
and courageous soul
957
00:35:56,696 --> 00:35:59,116
"to commit to this process.
958
00:35:59,157 --> 00:36:03,536
I can’t wait to meet you.
XOXO, lovingly, your wife."
959
00:36:03,536 --> 00:36:04,826
- Dude.
- Very cool.
960
00:36:04,871 --> 00:36:06,539
- That’s awesome, man.
- She’s very clever.
961
00:36:06,539 --> 00:36:09,329
Dude, put on the crown
and wear that.
962
00:36:09,376 --> 00:36:10,786
Don that sword right now.
963
00:36:10,835 --> 00:36:13,665
[dramatic piano music]
964
00:36:13,713 --> 00:36:17,550
- ♪ And I was
the queen-to-be ♪
965
00:36:17,550 --> 00:36:19,140
♪ We are the royals
966
00:36:19,177 --> 00:36:21,297
- There we go.
[laughter]
967
00:36:21,346 --> 00:36:24,556
- ♪ Castles we build
in black stone ♪
968
00:36:24,641 --> 00:36:26,181
- I will say this, and it feels
969
00:36:26,226 --> 00:36:29,806
almost crazy to say,
but I feel supremely confident.
970
00:36:29,854 --> 00:36:31,398
- All right, brother.
You ready?
971
00:36:31,398 --> 00:36:32,978
- As ready as I’ll ever be now,
with my crown.
972
00:36:33,024 --> 00:36:34,694
- Let’s go meet your wife.
- Let’s do it.
973
00:36:34,734 --> 00:36:36,034
- Reading her card and kind of
974
00:36:36,069 --> 00:36:38,859
getting a glimpse
of how she sees things
975
00:36:38,905 --> 00:36:41,025
really instilled confidence
in me.
976
00:36:41,074 --> 00:36:45,078
And if we’re both just oozing
confidence walking into this,
977
00:36:45,078 --> 00:36:48,538
I think that’s a great, like,
way to start.
978
00:36:48,581 --> 00:36:50,881
You guys feel it, right?
Like, you feel the energy?
979
00:36:50,917 --> 00:36:51,917
- I feel it coming.
- Yeah, man.
980
00:36:52,001 --> 00:36:53,171
- I feel it coming.
981
00:36:53,211 --> 00:36:54,421
- Cool, man.
- See you up there.
982
00:36:54,504 --> 00:36:55,922
- Yeah.
- All right, brother.
983
00:36:55,922 --> 00:36:57,722
- We love you.
We’ll see you up there.
984
00:36:57,757 --> 00:36:59,757
- All right.
- Take care.
985
00:36:59,843 --> 00:37:02,603
[dramatic music]
986
00:37:02,679 --> 00:37:06,599
♪
987
00:37:06,599 --> 00:37:09,769
- The moment we meet,
I hope it’s fireworks.
988
00:37:09,769 --> 00:37:11,769
I hope it’s everything
that we envisioned,
989
00:37:11,855 --> 00:37:13,365
everything that we hoped.
990
00:37:13,398 --> 00:37:15,438
But if I get that, like,
what the hell is going on,
991
00:37:15,525 --> 00:37:17,615
what did I sign up for,
992
00:37:17,694 --> 00:37:19,364
I mean,
that’s pretty damn near close
993
00:37:19,404 --> 00:37:20,905
to the worst-case scenario.
994
00:37:20,905 --> 00:37:24,865
♪
995
00:37:24,909 --> 00:37:27,789
[upbeat classical music]
996
00:37:27,871 --> 00:37:33,291
♪
997
00:37:33,293 --> 00:37:36,253
[cheers and applause]
998
00:37:36,296 --> 00:37:40,416
♪
999
00:37:40,467 --> 00:37:41,967
- It’s nice to meet all of you.
1000
00:37:42,051 --> 00:37:45,601
♪
1001
00:37:45,638 --> 00:37:46,968
[laughter]
1002
00:37:46,973 --> 00:37:49,643
Putting the crown
on right here.
1003
00:37:49,768 --> 00:37:51,228
- Yeah!
1004
00:37:51,269 --> 00:37:54,479
- Ooh, I gotta make sure
this stays on.
1005
00:37:54,564 --> 00:37:56,483
[laughter]
So...
1006
00:37:56,483 --> 00:38:00,283
I’m Michael, by the way.
1007
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,150
- Show us the sword.
- Look at this.
1008
00:38:02,155 --> 00:38:05,165
[all cheering]
1009
00:38:05,241 --> 00:38:06,826
- Mike, you good?
- Huh?
1010
00:38:06,826 --> 00:38:08,406
- Are you good?
- I am.
1011
00:38:08,453 --> 00:38:09,953
I mean, I’m more nervous now
than I thought I would be.
1012
00:38:09,996 --> 00:38:12,996
But yeah, I’m still good.
[chuckles]
1013
00:38:12,999 --> 00:38:14,667
So does this worry you guys,
like,
1014
00:38:14,667 --> 00:38:17,997
now that you see who I am,
are we panicked?
1015
00:38:18,087 --> 00:38:20,337
Oh, [bleep] I told you.
1016
00:38:20,423 --> 00:38:22,093
[laughter]
1017
00:38:22,133 --> 00:38:24,511
- She’s texting her friend,
"Run, run!"
1018
00:38:24,511 --> 00:38:26,679
[laughter]
- Get her out of here.
1019
00:38:26,679 --> 00:38:29,516
- Okay, everyone.
Please stand.
1020
00:38:29,516 --> 00:38:32,516
[dramatic music]
1021
00:38:32,519 --> 00:38:33,979
♪
1022
00:38:35,772 --> 00:38:42,652
♪
1023
00:38:56,543 --> 00:39:00,503
- ♪ Girl,
tell me where we’re going ♪
1024
00:39:00,547 --> 00:39:03,667
♪ I can’t help but feeling
1025
00:39:03,716 --> 00:39:07,886
♪ This is once in a lifetime
1026
00:39:07,971 --> 00:39:10,681
♪
1027
00:39:12,016 --> 00:39:16,016
- Please be seated.
1028
00:39:16,062 --> 00:39:19,399
[heart pounding]
1029
00:39:19,399 --> 00:39:22,399
- I’m sorry.
I don’t think I can do this.
1030
00:39:22,402 --> 00:39:24,072
I don’t want
to marry a stranger.
1031
00:39:24,153 --> 00:39:26,073
- Oh.
1032
00:39:28,700 --> 00:39:30,410
Look, it’s a lot.
1033
00:39:30,410 --> 00:39:33,079
You know it better than most
that this is a tough journey.
1034
00:39:33,079 --> 00:39:35,915
So...
1035
00:39:35,915 --> 00:39:38,415
I can understand the doubts
and, you know,
1036
00:39:38,501 --> 00:39:39,751
all the worries that come
with it.
1037
00:39:39,752 --> 00:39:41,421
And even though
we’re just meeting,
1038
00:39:41,421 --> 00:39:43,341
I do wish the best for you.
1039
00:39:43,381 --> 00:39:44,511
You know, if this is a journey
that you don’t want to take,
1040
00:39:44,549 --> 00:39:46,429
I respect that.
1041
00:39:46,509 --> 00:39:50,049
- Thank you so much.
- You’re welcome.
1042
00:39:50,096 --> 00:39:54,266
- Wow, what an amazing guy.
1043
00:39:54,350 --> 00:39:55,520
I’m sorry.
1044
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:58,850
[ominous bassy note]
1045
00:39:58,897 --> 00:40:00,397
- ♪ ’Cause I’m running away
1046
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,230
♪ I’m running away
1047
00:40:02,275 --> 00:40:05,778
♪ I’m running away from you
1048
00:40:05,778 --> 00:40:07,448
♪ I don’t care what you say
1049
00:40:07,530 --> 00:40:09,200
♪ I don’t care what you say
1050
00:40:09,240 --> 00:40:12,950
♪ ’Cause I’m running away
1051
00:40:13,036 --> 00:40:13,906
♪ From you
1052
00:40:17,415 --> 00:40:18,785
[dramatic pop music]
1053
00:40:18,875 --> 00:40:21,628
- ♪ Oh, from you
1054
00:40:21,628 --> 00:40:25,798
♪ I’m running away
1055
00:40:30,303 --> 00:40:32,223
- ♪ There’s no stopping us
1056
00:40:32,263 --> 00:40:35,223
[upbeat music]
1057
00:40:35,266 --> 00:40:38,136
♪ There’s no stopping us
1058
00:40:38,227 --> 00:40:42,147
♪
1059
00:40:42,231 --> 00:40:45,111
- I just pulled up
to my wedding venue.
1060
00:40:45,151 --> 00:40:48,491
And I don’t even know this guy,
1061
00:40:48,571 --> 00:40:52,661
so it’s a weird way
to start a wedding day.
1062
00:40:52,742 --> 00:40:54,832
But I wouldn’t change it.
1063
00:40:54,911 --> 00:40:56,829
- ♪ Jump in,
don’t fight the feeling ♪
1064
00:40:56,829 --> 00:40:58,959
♪ We’ll build ourselves
a boat ♪
1065
00:40:58,998 --> 00:41:00,998
♪ Don’t need a rhyme
or reason ♪
1066
00:41:01,084 --> 00:41:03,002
♪ Just your hand to hold
1067
00:41:03,002 --> 00:41:05,502
♪ My, oh, my
1068
00:41:05,505 --> 00:41:09,135
♪ Something about this thing
feels right, all right ♪
1069
00:41:09,175 --> 00:41:11,175
[laughter]
1070
00:41:11,177 --> 00:41:12,847
- It’s your wedding day.
1071
00:41:12,929 --> 00:41:14,759
- ♪ You know that
I’ve been waiting ♪
1072
00:41:14,806 --> 00:41:16,846
♪ My whole life
1073
00:41:16,849 --> 00:41:18,099
- My hopes are today
is that I’m, like,
1074
00:41:18,142 --> 00:41:20,942
starting the next chapter
of my life.
1075
00:41:20,979 --> 00:41:22,939
And I hope that I’m able to,
soak in every moment
1076
00:41:22,981 --> 00:41:26,859
like, and be present
and not be worrying too much.
1077
00:41:26,859 --> 00:41:28,109
- ♪ Just to make you mine
1078
00:41:28,152 --> 00:41:30,029
- [indistinct] hair and makeup.
1079
00:41:30,029 --> 00:41:31,609
I’ve been to 260 weddings,
1080
00:41:31,656 --> 00:41:35,196
so I know that stuff
will go wrong on a wedding day.
1081
00:41:35,201 --> 00:41:36,951
Like, it is inevitable.
1082
00:41:36,995 --> 00:41:38,505
This is so weird
because the three of us
1083
00:41:38,538 --> 00:41:40,708
are wedding photographers,
so this is like--
1084
00:41:40,790 --> 00:41:42,830
we don’t usually do this part.
1085
00:41:42,875 --> 00:41:45,165
So if the roof caves in,
all right, we pivot.
1086
00:41:45,211 --> 00:41:46,341
We go somewhere else.
1087
00:41:46,379 --> 00:41:48,509
Whatever.
Like, we’ll just keep going.
1088
00:41:48,548 --> 00:41:50,216
- I can’t believe
we get to meet him today.
1089
00:41:50,216 --> 00:41:52,376
- Oh, my God.
- Here’s hoping he’s cute.
1090
00:41:52,468 --> 00:41:53,718
- [laughs]
1091
00:41:54,387 --> 00:41:55,717
- Shut up, you idiots.
1092
00:41:55,722 --> 00:41:58,642
[laughter]
- Hey!
1093
00:41:58,683 --> 00:42:00,233
- Hey.
- What’s up?
1094
00:42:00,309 --> 00:42:01,979
- You guys all look so sharp.
1095
00:42:02,020 --> 00:42:03,396
I’m feeling great.
1096
00:42:03,396 --> 00:42:05,396
I didn’t get a lot
of sleep last night,
1097
00:42:05,398 --> 00:42:07,398
but feeling good
about my decision
1098
00:42:07,483 --> 00:42:08,983
to get married to a stranger.
1099
00:42:09,027 --> 00:42:10,737
There’s obvious risk to it,
1100
00:42:10,737 --> 00:42:12,567
but there’s been a
lot of times in my life
1101
00:42:12,572 --> 00:42:17,372
where I didn’t
take the risky option,
1102
00:42:17,410 --> 00:42:18,578
and I kind of wish I had.
1103
00:42:18,578 --> 00:42:20,538
- What up, dude?
1104
00:42:20,580 --> 00:42:23,040
- This is a good way to, like,
get me out of my comfort zone
1105
00:42:23,082 --> 00:42:26,586
and do something that will
hopefully be worth it.
1106
00:42:26,586 --> 00:42:28,996
- So we’re gonna fix your hair.
- Oh, God.
1107
00:42:29,088 --> 00:42:30,757
- His nickname in college
was wolf man.
1108
00:42:30,757 --> 00:42:34,217
[laughter]
1109
00:42:34,260 --> 00:42:36,100
- Well, I hope your
wife likes hair.
1110
00:42:36,179 --> 00:42:37,389
- Eh. It doesn’t matter
if she likes it.
1111
00:42:37,430 --> 00:42:40,020
She has to live with it.
[laughter]
1112
00:42:40,058 --> 00:42:43,268
[upbeat music]
1113
00:42:43,269 --> 00:42:47,019
- Okay, if there is one trait
that you want him to have...
1114
00:42:47,065 --> 00:42:48,695
- Mm-hmm?
- What would it be?
1115
00:42:48,733 --> 00:42:50,068
- I feel like
I love when people
1116
00:42:50,068 --> 00:42:51,938
are just confident
in their skin,
1117
00:42:51,944 --> 00:42:53,864
and, like,
that’s the most attractive.
1118
00:42:53,905 --> 00:42:55,285
- Everything goes into it.
1119
00:42:55,364 --> 00:42:56,616
Like the way he walks,
you know,
1120
00:42:56,616 --> 00:42:58,116
the way he carries himself.
- Yeah.
1121
00:42:58,117 --> 00:42:59,867
- Like, his mannerisms.
Like, all of that play into it.
1122
00:42:59,911 --> 00:43:03,911
- Yeah, how he smells. Yeah.
[laughter]
1123
00:43:03,956 --> 00:43:06,956
- The whole reason why
we exist as humans
1124
00:43:06,959 --> 00:43:09,879
and not salamanders
is because we love.
1125
00:43:09,921 --> 00:43:13,881
And marriage is the
greatest commitment to that.
1126
00:43:13,925 --> 00:43:16,395
But to find the love
of your life in the right time
1127
00:43:16,427 --> 00:43:19,097
and the right place
in the right setting
1128
00:43:19,138 --> 00:43:22,468
is a whole other challenge.
1129
00:43:22,558 --> 00:43:25,228
- Are you at all nervous about
1130
00:43:25,228 --> 00:43:27,308
talking to him
about your health stuff?
1131
00:43:27,396 --> 00:43:29,266
- Yeah, I’m nervous.
1132
00:43:29,315 --> 00:43:32,395
I just--like,
I want to give him the space
1133
00:43:32,443 --> 00:43:37,623
to be able to, like, digest it,
to process,
1134
00:43:37,657 --> 00:43:40,237
without feeling like
1135
00:43:40,284 --> 00:43:42,454
he got the short end
of the stick in any way.
1136
00:43:42,495 --> 00:43:44,747
I want him to know that, like,
I still have a sense of humor
1137
00:43:44,747 --> 00:43:46,497
through it, you know?
- Right.
1138
00:43:46,499 --> 00:43:48,079
♪
1139
00:43:48,126 --> 00:43:51,166
- Little surprise.
- Whoo-hoo-hoo!
1140
00:43:51,170 --> 00:43:53,300
- You are going to be my
flower man for the day.
1141
00:43:53,339 --> 00:43:54,839
- Ow-ow!
1142
00:43:54,841 --> 00:43:57,011
- My suit looks different
than everyone else’s.
1143
00:43:57,093 --> 00:43:58,678
[laughter]
- It’s because I love you.
1144
00:43:58,678 --> 00:44:02,178
And we got some nice little
trinkets in here, you know?
1145
00:44:02,181 --> 00:44:06,351
We got some rose petals.
1146
00:44:06,352 --> 00:44:09,147
And some shooters.
1147
00:44:09,147 --> 00:44:10,517
[laughter]
And we got some of this, so.
1148
00:44:10,523 --> 00:44:12,523
- All of a sudden, I’m into it.
- [laughs]
1149
00:44:12,608 --> 00:44:15,608
[upbeat music]
1150
00:44:15,653 --> 00:44:18,533
- ♪ I’ve been down,
I know I have ♪
1151
00:44:18,614 --> 00:44:21,034
♪ But I feel
so different now ♪
1152
00:44:21,117 --> 00:44:23,157
- Are you worried if your wife
is cooler than you are?
1153
00:44:23,202 --> 00:44:24,832
- No, I encourage it.
1154
00:44:24,871 --> 00:44:25,871
- I guess it’s not
that high of a bar.
1155
00:44:25,872 --> 00:44:27,332
[laughter]
1156
00:44:27,373 --> 00:44:30,293
- Behind every great man
is a much cooler girl.
1157
00:44:30,334 --> 00:44:32,344
[laughter]
1158
00:44:32,378 --> 00:44:35,548
- It’s like, I hope
that she’s independent
1159
00:44:35,631 --> 00:44:38,511
and extroverted and social.
1160
00:44:38,551 --> 00:44:40,391
- What if
she’s not those things?
1161
00:44:40,469 --> 00:44:41,719
- I mean,
if she’s not those things,
1162
00:44:41,721 --> 00:44:45,221
like, that’s the way it is.
1163
00:44:45,224 --> 00:44:46,893
And--
1164
00:44:46,893 --> 00:44:48,561
- Are you going to be able
to stay committed to it?
1165
00:44:48,561 --> 00:44:51,230
- I mean, I want to be.
1166
00:44:51,230 --> 00:44:54,570
I would love to say,
like, assuredly, yes.
1167
00:44:54,650 --> 00:44:58,070
And I like--but saying these,
like, what if questions
1168
00:44:58,070 --> 00:45:01,570
are so hard because, like,
they’re so vague.
1169
00:45:01,574 --> 00:45:03,409
- Dude, marriage isn’t
that vague, though, man.
1170
00:45:03,409 --> 00:45:05,369
Marriage is you’re
saying from the bat,
1171
00:45:05,411 --> 00:45:08,251
no matter what, I’m in it.
1172
00:45:08,331 --> 00:45:10,001
- It’s kind of your last chance
to back out here.
1173
00:45:10,041 --> 00:45:11,581
You sure you’re ready for this?
1174
00:45:11,584 --> 00:45:13,586
- I’m going to try
to be 100% committed.
1175
00:45:13,586 --> 00:45:16,916
Like, I’m going to 100%
try 100% of my best
1176
00:45:17,006 --> 00:45:19,676
to try to be 100% committed.
1177
00:45:19,717 --> 00:45:21,547
- The good, old college try.
1178
00:45:21,594 --> 00:45:24,564
- Hopefully, you know,
better than the college try.
1179
00:45:24,597 --> 00:45:26,347
[laughter]
1180
00:45:26,390 --> 00:45:29,270
[upbeat classical music]
1181
00:45:29,352 --> 00:45:36,282
♪
1182
00:45:39,570 --> 00:45:41,110
[all cheering]
- I’m going to cry.
1183
00:45:41,113 --> 00:45:48,043
♪
1184
00:45:48,079 --> 00:45:50,909
- ♪ We light it up
1185
00:45:50,957 --> 00:45:53,957
- It’s so pretty.
[laughter]
1186
00:45:54,043 --> 00:45:55,633
- I’m dying.
1187
00:45:55,711 --> 00:46:00,551
I literally didn’t know
you’d be this bridesmaid.
1188
00:46:00,591 --> 00:46:03,261
- You’re so beautiful.
- I love you.
1189
00:46:03,302 --> 00:46:04,762
Don’t ruin your makeup.
1190
00:46:04,804 --> 00:46:06,472
I love you.
- I love you so much.
1191
00:46:06,472 --> 00:46:08,932
I can’t believe
you’re doing this.
1192
00:46:08,975 --> 00:46:10,605
- I have a gift from you bride.
- Oh.
1193
00:46:10,643 --> 00:46:13,563
Oh, boy.
Thank you.
1194
00:46:15,481 --> 00:46:19,651
"Holy [bleep]. We’re engaged."
[laughter]
1195
00:46:19,652 --> 00:46:21,242
Oh, cool.
1196
00:46:21,279 --> 00:46:23,409
It’s like a reusable
film camera.
1197
00:46:23,489 --> 00:46:26,489
Sweet.
I like that.
1198
00:46:26,492 --> 00:46:29,582
- [sighs] I don’t know how
many pages this is.
1199
00:46:29,620 --> 00:46:30,910
"Now, I don’t know
if you know this,
1200
00:46:30,955 --> 00:46:32,505
"but one of the five
senses, smell,
1201
00:46:32,581 --> 00:46:34,291
"is one of the most linked
to our memory,
1202
00:46:34,333 --> 00:46:37,586
so I decided to adorn your day
with different aromas."
1203
00:46:37,586 --> 00:46:40,166
♪
1204
00:46:40,172 --> 00:46:42,592
Wow.
1205
00:46:42,633 --> 00:46:44,433
- What?
- It’s literally my perfume.
1206
00:46:44,468 --> 00:46:46,138
- Stop.
- You’re [bleep] lying.
1207
00:46:46,178 --> 00:46:48,308
[laughter]
- It totally is.
1208
00:46:48,347 --> 00:46:50,467
- It’s literally what
I wear every day.
1209
00:46:50,516 --> 00:46:54,686
[laughter]
Who the [bleep] is this guy?
1210
00:46:54,770 --> 00:46:58,320
Where the [bleep]--
where did they find him?
1211
00:46:58,357 --> 00:47:00,026
- Let’s go get you married.
- Let’s do it.
1212
00:47:00,026 --> 00:47:01,986
- Let’s do it.
[laughter]
1213
00:47:02,028 --> 00:47:03,648
- Oh, God.
1214
00:47:03,696 --> 00:47:06,986
[upbeat suspenseful music]
1215
00:47:07,033 --> 00:47:08,533
♪
1216
00:47:08,534 --> 00:47:11,044
- Let’s do it.
- I’m excited. Let’s go.
1217
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:12,660
- Let’s go get you married,
man.
1218
00:47:12,705 --> 00:47:14,040
Come on.
- Whoo!
1219
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:15,370
[laughter]
1220
00:47:15,374 --> 00:47:21,964
♪
1221
00:47:22,006 --> 00:47:23,376
- This is your wedding day.
1222
00:47:23,466 --> 00:47:25,376
Hopefully, you will
never have another one.
1223
00:47:25,468 --> 00:47:27,638
- Now I actually
do have a few--[chuckles]
1224
00:47:27,678 --> 00:47:30,388
A lot of emotions
kind of going through.
1225
00:47:30,389 --> 00:47:31,719
- I can’t wait to see your face
1226
00:47:31,849 --> 00:47:33,559
when you see her
walk around that corner.
1227
00:47:33,642 --> 00:47:34,982
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1228
00:47:35,019 --> 00:47:36,649
That’ll be telling.
1229
00:47:36,729 --> 00:47:39,059
- You know, it’s impossible not
to be nervous in a situation
1230
00:47:39,065 --> 00:47:40,575
where you’re marrying
someone you don’t know.
1231
00:47:40,649 --> 00:47:42,359
I mean, a lot of people
would call it crazy,
1232
00:47:42,401 --> 00:47:44,991
uh, and it might be.
1233
00:47:45,029 --> 00:47:45,989
- Good luck.
- All right, bud.
1234
00:47:46,030 --> 00:47:47,160
- Thanks.
- This is it.
1235
00:47:47,198 --> 00:47:49,238
- Thank you for being here.
Love you.
1236
00:47:49,325 --> 00:47:50,826
- I love you.
Good luck up there.
1237
00:47:50,826 --> 00:47:53,746
- I think I value marriage
so highly,
1238
00:47:53,746 --> 00:47:56,706
so I’m hoping that
my prayers are answered.
1239
00:47:56,749 --> 00:47:58,249
Pray for me.
1240
00:47:58,334 --> 00:47:59,418
- Dude, that’s all
I’ve been doing
1241
00:47:59,418 --> 00:48:01,168
for the last three hours.
- [laughs]
1242
00:48:01,212 --> 00:48:03,382
- All right.
- I love that.
1243
00:48:03,422 --> 00:48:05,762
- Hey!
[laughter]
1244
00:48:05,841 --> 00:48:08,091
- One for you.
[laughter]
1245
00:48:08,177 --> 00:48:10,547
One for you.
[cheering]
1246
00:48:10,596 --> 00:48:13,426
One for you guys.
[cheers and applause]
1247
00:48:13,516 --> 00:48:15,596
Whoo!
[laughter and applause]
1248
00:48:15,601 --> 00:48:19,271
- Hi. How are you?
- I’m good. How are you?
1249
00:48:19,355 --> 00:48:21,735
- Are you doing all right?
- Yeah, I’m doing okay.
1250
00:48:21,774 --> 00:48:25,074
I was not happy about it
in the beginning, at all.
1251
00:48:25,111 --> 00:48:27,031
[chuckles]
1252
00:48:27,071 --> 00:48:31,781
But you’re a grown man.
1253
00:48:31,867 --> 00:48:34,577
It’s not up to me to
make your decisions,
1254
00:48:34,620 --> 00:48:39,080
and I do hope you find love.
1255
00:48:39,125 --> 00:48:41,135
- That’s the goal.
1256
00:48:41,210 --> 00:48:44,800
- You know I love you.
- I love you, too.
1257
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:46,590
Because I value marriage
1258
00:48:46,632 --> 00:48:50,722
and there’s so many
unknown variables,
1259
00:48:50,761 --> 00:48:52,221
marrying a stranger
is a huge risk.
1260
00:48:52,263 --> 00:48:54,306
But like, for this,
1261
00:48:54,306 --> 00:48:57,636
I think it is worth the risk
to meet someone
1262
00:48:57,643 --> 00:49:00,563
who you could be with
for the rest of your life.
1263
00:49:00,604 --> 00:49:02,148
I just need to take
those first couple steps.
1264
00:49:02,148 --> 00:49:04,316
[dramatic music]
1265
00:49:04,316 --> 00:49:06,146
- Whoo.
- Holy [bleep].
1266
00:49:06,235 --> 00:49:08,320
[laughter and applause]
1267
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:11,490
[cheers and applause]
1268
00:49:11,490 --> 00:49:13,660
- Right?
[chuckles]
1269
00:49:13,742 --> 00:49:15,992
♪
1270
00:49:15,995 --> 00:49:17,163
- You got this.
1271
00:49:17,163 --> 00:49:19,832
♪
1272
00:49:19,832 --> 00:49:21,832
- I just feel like
you just have it all.
1273
00:49:21,834 --> 00:49:23,424
Like, you just--
1274
00:49:23,461 --> 00:49:25,671
you’re creative, you’re driven.
1275
00:49:25,754 --> 00:49:29,344
You just commit to making
everyone around you better.
1276
00:49:29,425 --> 00:49:32,845
I’m so proud of you
for getting married.
1277
00:49:32,928 --> 00:49:36,008
And I’m just so excited for
this next chapter for you.
1278
00:49:36,015 --> 00:49:37,308
[both laugh]
1279
00:49:37,308 --> 00:49:38,348
- Thanks for getting me here.
1280
00:49:38,434 --> 00:49:39,354
- And you’re about
to marry him.
1281
00:49:39,435 --> 00:49:42,521
[soft dramatic music]
1282
00:49:42,521 --> 00:49:45,357
- Deep breath. Deep breath.
[sniffles]
1283
00:49:45,357 --> 00:49:46,527
♪
1284
00:49:46,609 --> 00:49:49,149
- I just feel like--
1285
00:49:49,195 --> 00:49:51,197
♪
1286
00:49:51,197 --> 00:49:54,447
[laughter]
1287
00:49:54,492 --> 00:49:56,202
- It’s okay.
1288
00:49:56,202 --> 00:49:57,870
- Between you and Lindsey,
1289
00:49:57,870 --> 00:50:02,870
I feel like you really did
show me, like, what I deserve.
1290
00:50:02,958 --> 00:50:05,538
Like, every guy
that’s come along the way,
1291
00:50:05,628 --> 00:50:08,298
like, you guys are the first
to, like,
1292
00:50:08,339 --> 00:50:12,179
to really believe in me
and teach me not to settle.
1293
00:50:12,218 --> 00:50:14,718
- You deserve the best.
1294
00:50:14,720 --> 00:50:17,890
[dramatic music]
1295
00:50:17,890 --> 00:50:19,310
- We got this, ladies.
1296
00:50:19,350 --> 00:50:21,690
- ♪ Going to the chapel
[Becca laughs]
1297
00:50:21,727 --> 00:50:28,647
♪
1298
00:50:30,486 --> 00:50:32,396
- Please stand.
1299
00:50:32,530 --> 00:50:34,530
♪
1300
00:50:34,573 --> 00:50:36,583
- Feel like I’m going to vomit
or black out.
1301
00:50:36,659 --> 00:50:38,489
Let’s just have a bag ready.
1302
00:50:38,536 --> 00:50:45,416
♪
1303
00:50:51,590 --> 00:50:52,840
[dramatic music]
1304
00:50:52,883 --> 00:50:58,063
♪
1305
00:50:58,097 --> 00:50:59,347
- Please stand.
1306
00:50:59,390 --> 00:51:06,270
♪
1307
00:51:11,694 --> 00:51:13,204
- There she is!
1308
00:51:13,237 --> 00:51:15,567
♪
1309
00:51:15,614 --> 00:51:16,574
[Becca laughs]
1310
00:51:16,615 --> 00:51:18,275
[cheers and applause]
1311
00:51:18,325 --> 00:51:20,655
[upbeat music]
1312
00:51:20,703 --> 00:51:21,913
♪
1313
00:51:21,954 --> 00:51:24,624
- Nice.
1314
00:51:24,665 --> 00:51:26,005
♪
1315
00:51:26,041 --> 00:51:28,881
- I want to hug everyone!
[cheers and applause]
1316
00:51:28,919 --> 00:51:31,129
- Oh, stop it!
1317
00:51:31,171 --> 00:51:33,091
♪
1318
00:51:33,132 --> 00:51:34,592
Hold on.
1319
00:51:34,633 --> 00:51:36,263
♪
1320
00:51:36,302 --> 00:51:37,972
Stop.
1321
00:51:38,012 --> 00:51:38,892
Hi.
[laughs]
1322
00:51:41,307 --> 00:51:42,467
- Becca?
- Yeah.
1323
00:51:42,516 --> 00:51:44,136
- I’m Austin.
- Please be seated.
1324
00:51:44,184 --> 00:51:46,774
- Your friends and family
look so nice.
1325
00:51:46,812 --> 00:51:49,112
[laughter]
This is Austin, my husband.
1326
00:51:49,148 --> 00:51:51,938
[laughter and applause]
1327
00:51:51,984 --> 00:51:54,574
[laughter]
1328
00:51:54,612 --> 00:51:55,862
Do you have that tissue?
1329
00:51:55,904 --> 00:51:58,324
- It’s okay.
- I got you.
1330
00:51:58,365 --> 00:52:00,775
- I’m good.
- No, no.
1331
00:52:00,826 --> 00:52:03,996
[laughter]
1332
00:52:04,038 --> 00:52:05,458
- I’m usually the crier.
- No, no, no.
1333
00:52:05,497 --> 00:52:06,747
- This is nice.
1334
00:52:06,790 --> 00:52:07,830
- I, like, never cry.
- Really?
1335
00:52:07,875 --> 00:52:08,885
- What is up with me?
1336
00:52:08,917 --> 00:52:10,287
- It’s because
I’m so beautiful.
1337
00:52:10,336 --> 00:52:12,996
- You are, of course.
- You’re very handsome.
1338
00:52:13,088 --> 00:52:15,548
[soft dramatic music]
1339
00:52:15,591 --> 00:52:18,431
- "Austin,
Becca’s family and friends
1340
00:52:18,469 --> 00:52:22,309
"would like you to know
you have a smart,
1341
00:52:22,348 --> 00:52:24,218
"strong-minded wife
who likes to take charge.
1342
00:52:24,266 --> 00:52:27,306
"She has a way of capturing
people’s best moments,
1343
00:52:27,353 --> 00:52:29,603
"just like
she’ll capture your heart.
1344
00:52:29,688 --> 00:52:32,898
"No, literally.
She’s a wedding photographer.
1345
00:52:32,941 --> 00:52:35,151
"The way she captures moments
in her photos
1346
00:52:35,194 --> 00:52:39,324
"speaks to her soul,
as she sees what others don’t.
1347
00:52:39,365 --> 00:52:42,085
Being late is
a personality trait for her."
1348
00:52:42,117 --> 00:52:44,787
- So sorry.
[laughter]
1349
00:52:44,787 --> 00:52:46,657
Are you usually on time?
- I don’t know.
1350
00:52:46,705 --> 00:52:48,075
No?
[laughter]
1351
00:52:48,123 --> 00:52:50,333
- Literally never.
- Perfect.
1352
00:52:50,376 --> 00:52:51,916
[laughter]
1353
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:54,090
- "Don’t be afraid
to be as forward
1354
00:52:54,129 --> 00:52:56,259
"and transparent as Becca is.
1355
00:52:56,298 --> 00:52:58,838
"Tell her often
how beautiful her brain is,
1356
00:52:58,884 --> 00:53:02,104
"and you will soon find out
that she is the coolest,
1357
00:53:02,137 --> 00:53:04,967
nerdiest sex vixen
you’ve ever met."
1358
00:53:05,015 --> 00:53:07,845
[laughter and cheers]
1359
00:53:07,893 --> 00:53:09,273
- Ow, ow!
1360
00:53:09,311 --> 00:53:13,521
- What the hell?
[laughter]
1361
00:53:13,565 --> 00:53:16,105
So sorry.
1362
00:53:16,151 --> 00:53:18,451
I didn’t write that.
1363
00:53:18,529 --> 00:53:20,199
- Becca?
- Yeah.
1364
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:23,579
- "Austin’s friends and family
would like you to know
1365
00:53:23,617 --> 00:53:26,327
"you are marrying
a born and bred Colorado guy.
1366
00:53:26,370 --> 00:53:29,120
"You’re in for lots of
outdoor adventures.
1367
00:53:29,164 --> 00:53:31,004
"All he has been
waiting for is you.
1368
00:53:31,041 --> 00:53:33,041
"However, we also hope
1369
00:53:33,085 --> 00:53:34,385
"you don’t mind
running behind schedule
1370
00:53:34,420 --> 00:53:35,920
because Austin is always late."
1371
00:53:35,963 --> 00:53:39,593
[laughter]
- Holy [bleep].
1372
00:53:39,633 --> 00:53:41,593
We are never going to
be anywhere on time.
1373
00:53:41,635 --> 00:53:45,505
We’re here right now!
[laughter]
1374
00:53:45,556 --> 00:53:48,096
- "But you’re fortunate
to be marrying a guy
1375
00:53:48,142 --> 00:53:50,942
"whose top trait is loyalty.
1376
00:53:50,978 --> 00:53:54,058
"He has friends that
he has kept close for years
1377
00:53:54,106 --> 00:53:55,816
"and is dedicated to making
those around him
1378
00:53:55,858 --> 00:53:57,438
"feel happy and cared for.
1379
00:53:57,484 --> 00:54:00,404
"This will now include you.
1380
00:54:00,487 --> 00:54:03,527
Austin’s all-in,
and we hope you are, too."
1381
00:54:03,574 --> 00:54:04,914
- I’m in.
1382
00:54:04,950 --> 00:54:07,080
- Great.
[laughs]
1383
00:54:07,119 --> 00:54:08,869
[soft dramatic music]
1384
00:54:08,912 --> 00:54:11,542
- Becca and Austin,
you have written your own vows.
1385
00:54:11,582 --> 00:54:14,502
- She’s got this.
- I guess I had to.
1386
00:54:14,543 --> 00:54:15,753
[softly]
Okay.
1387
00:54:15,794 --> 00:54:17,924
Okay.
[exhales deeply]
1388
00:54:17,963 --> 00:54:20,513
"Austin--"
now I know your name.
1389
00:54:20,549 --> 00:54:23,089
"I promise I’ll never stop
wanting to learn about you,
1390
00:54:23,135 --> 00:54:25,515
"even when I think
I’ve figured you out.
1391
00:54:25,554 --> 00:54:29,604
I promise to laugh with you,
at you--we will laugh."
1392
00:54:29,641 --> 00:54:31,271
[laughter]
1393
00:54:31,310 --> 00:54:33,730
"I promise to be vulnerable
and honest with you,
1394
00:54:33,771 --> 00:54:35,811
"even when it’s not comfortable
or easy.
1395
00:54:35,856 --> 00:54:38,276
"I promise to share
my N64 with you,
1396
00:54:38,317 --> 00:54:39,987
so long as you’re okay
with losing."
1397
00:54:40,027 --> 00:54:41,027
- I can’t believe that.
1398
00:54:41,069 --> 00:54:42,699
I have an N64 in the room.
1399
00:54:42,738 --> 00:54:45,738
- Are you serious?
[laughter]
1400
00:54:45,783 --> 00:54:46,953
Who’s your Mario Kart?
1401
00:54:46,992 --> 00:54:49,242
- Usually Yoshi or Toad.
1402
00:54:49,328 --> 00:54:52,248
- [bleep] same. [bleep].
[laughter]
1403
00:54:52,289 --> 00:54:54,579
[bleep],
are we the same person?
1404
00:54:54,625 --> 00:54:57,845
- Maybe so.
- Okay.
1405
00:54:57,878 --> 00:55:00,708
"And most importantly,
I promise while this may be
1406
00:55:00,756 --> 00:55:02,216
"our first
big adventure together,
1407
00:55:02,257 --> 00:55:04,547
it certainly
won’t be the last."
1408
00:55:04,593 --> 00:55:07,433
- Definitely. I love that.
[chuckles]
1409
00:55:07,471 --> 00:55:10,641
- It’s a good match.
[chuckles]
1410
00:55:10,682 --> 00:55:12,142
- "I want you to know that
1411
00:55:12,184 --> 00:55:14,734
"marriage has always been
really important to me,
1412
00:55:14,770 --> 00:55:17,650
"whether it be through, like,
faith or my family.
1413
00:55:17,689 --> 00:55:20,439
"My parents have been married
for 36 years.
1414
00:55:20,484 --> 00:55:24,574
"And I promise to give you
and this my best shot.
1415
00:55:24,613 --> 00:55:27,573
"I promise to treat you
with kindness and respect.
1416
00:55:27,616 --> 00:55:30,536
"But most of all,
I hope we become best friends,
1417
00:55:30,577 --> 00:55:34,537
"fall in love, and spend
the rest of our lives together.
1418
00:55:34,581 --> 00:55:36,621
"So today,
I choose you to be my wife,
1419
00:55:36,667 --> 00:55:39,667
"and I’m excited
to start building a life
1420
00:55:39,711 --> 00:55:43,211
far better than either one of
us could have imagined alone."
1421
00:55:43,257 --> 00:55:45,797
- That was so good.
1422
00:55:45,843 --> 00:55:48,393
- Becca, will you take Austin
1423
00:55:48,428 --> 00:55:50,218
to be your lawful,
wedded husband,
1424
00:55:50,264 --> 00:55:51,644
so as long as
you both shall live?
1425
00:55:51,682 --> 00:55:53,432
- I do.
[Austin chuckles]
1426
00:55:53,475 --> 00:55:56,765
- Austin, will you take Becca
to be your lawful, wedded wife
1427
00:55:56,812 --> 00:55:58,562
so long as you both shall live?
1428
00:55:58,605 --> 00:56:00,765
- I do.
[chuckles]
1429
00:56:00,816 --> 00:56:04,146
[soaring dramatic music]
1430
00:56:04,194 --> 00:56:08,114
- Austin, please take Becca’s
hand and repeat after me.
1431
00:56:08,156 --> 00:56:10,986
With this ring,
I wed you, Becca...
1432
00:56:11,034 --> 00:56:12,914
- With this ring,
I wed thee, Becca.
1433
00:56:12,953 --> 00:56:14,663
- I wed thee, Austin.
1434
00:56:14,705 --> 00:56:17,375
- For today, tomorrow,
and all years to come.
1435
00:56:17,416 --> 00:56:19,326
- Please wear it as
a sign of my commitment
1436
00:56:19,376 --> 00:56:21,706
and a notice to the entire
world that I am your wife.
1437
00:56:21,753 --> 00:56:25,173
- And a notice to the
entire world that...
1438
00:56:25,215 --> 00:56:27,875
- You are...
- I am what?
1439
00:56:27,968 --> 00:56:29,508
[laughter]
1440
00:56:29,553 --> 00:56:32,393
- That I am your husband.
- That I am your husband.
1441
00:56:32,431 --> 00:56:34,891
Please wear it
forever and always.
1442
00:56:34,933 --> 00:56:35,983
[laughter]
1443
00:56:36,018 --> 00:56:37,518
[upbeat music]
1444
00:56:37,561 --> 00:56:39,401
Boop.
1445
00:56:39,438 --> 00:56:42,478
- And now,
by the authority vested in me,
1446
00:56:42,524 --> 00:56:45,784
I pronounce you
a married couple.
1447
00:56:45,819 --> 00:56:48,699
[cheers and applause]
1448
00:56:50,115 --> 00:56:52,275
Becca has requested
the Jewish tradition
1449
00:56:52,367 --> 00:56:54,577
of the breaking of the glass.
1450
00:56:54,620 --> 00:56:57,750
Austin, you’re going to
have to really stomp on it.
1451
00:56:57,789 --> 00:56:59,999
So may your bond of love
be as difficult to break
1452
00:57:00,042 --> 00:57:01,882
as it would be to
put back together
1453
00:57:01,919 --> 00:57:03,629
these pieces of glass.
1454
00:57:03,670 --> 00:57:04,880
- Ready?
- Yeah. Do we do it together?
1455
00:57:04,922 --> 00:57:06,092
- Yeah.
And then once he does it,
1456
00:57:06,131 --> 00:57:08,171
y’all are going to scream,
"mazel tov."
1457
00:57:08,216 --> 00:57:09,216
All right?
1458
00:57:09,259 --> 00:57:10,339
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
1459
00:57:10,385 --> 00:57:11,545
- Go ahead.
- Three, two, one.
1460
00:57:11,595 --> 00:57:15,185
[glass breaks]
all: Mazel tov!
1461
00:57:15,223 --> 00:57:16,933
♪
1462
00:57:16,975 --> 00:57:20,185
- Austin, you may now
kiss your bride, Becca.
1463
00:57:20,187 --> 00:57:22,267
- All right?
- We can.
1464
00:57:22,314 --> 00:57:25,444
- ♪ ’Cause I’m looking
for love ♪
1465
00:57:25,484 --> 00:57:28,534
♪ Yeah
1466
00:57:28,570 --> 00:57:31,610
♪ I’m looking for love
1467
00:57:31,657 --> 00:57:34,487
♪ Yeah
1468
00:57:34,534 --> 00:57:36,584
- Wow.
1469
00:57:36,620 --> 00:57:39,120
- Whoo!
1470
00:57:39,164 --> 00:57:41,464
- Ladies and gentlemen,
it is my pleasure
1471
00:57:41,500 --> 00:57:43,590
to introduce for the first time
1472
00:57:43,627 --> 00:57:47,627
as husband and wife,
Becca and Austin.
1473
00:57:47,673 --> 00:57:51,133
[cheers and applause]
1474
00:57:51,176 --> 00:57:53,136
- ♪ My heart’s wide open
and I’m ready ♪
1475
00:57:53,178 --> 00:57:55,888
♪ Looking for love
1476
00:57:55,931 --> 00:57:57,641
♪ Looking for love
1477
00:57:57,683 --> 00:57:59,023
♪ Yeah
1478
00:57:59,059 --> 00:58:02,019
♪ Do what it takes
1479
00:58:02,062 --> 00:58:04,522
♪ Give you everything I have
1480
00:58:08,443 --> 00:58:10,363
[upbeat music]
1481
00:58:10,445 --> 00:58:12,655
♪
1482
00:58:12,698 --> 00:58:17,198
- Three couples have been
married at first sight.
1483
00:58:17,285 --> 00:58:21,365
But for the very first time,
the unthinkable has happened.
1484
00:58:21,373 --> 00:58:24,003
- I didn’t see that happening,
but.
1485
00:58:24,042 --> 00:58:27,212
[somber music]
1486
00:58:27,212 --> 00:58:29,712
I’m humbled. I’m embarrassed.
I’m sad.
1487
00:58:29,715 --> 00:58:32,635
I couldn’t move her enough
1488
00:58:32,676 --> 00:58:36,176
or compel her enough...
1489
00:58:36,221 --> 00:58:40,561
to even give this a shot.
1490
00:58:40,642 --> 00:58:44,229
- You did good, Mikey.
- Yeah. I did the best I could.
1491
00:58:44,229 --> 00:58:47,399
♪
1492
00:58:47,399 --> 00:58:49,229
More than just
getting married today, right,
1493
00:58:49,234 --> 00:58:51,194
you kind of put yourself
in the mindset of, like,
1494
00:58:51,236 --> 00:58:53,696
what is the journey
going to look like?
1495
00:58:53,739 --> 00:58:57,699
And you know, sure, there’s
a little bit of hubris in this.
1496
00:58:57,743 --> 00:59:00,083
But I would have hoped if,
you know,
1497
00:59:00,162 --> 00:59:04,582
she had doubts coming into it,
that seeing me at the--
1498
00:59:04,583 --> 00:59:05,833
you know, standing
up there would have
1499
00:59:05,876 --> 00:59:08,666
helped quelled some of that.
- Yeah.
1500
00:59:08,712 --> 00:59:10,922
- Clearly, that wasn’t
the case, which,
1501
00:59:10,922 --> 00:59:12,422
you know, that’s all right.
1502
00:59:12,507 --> 00:59:14,087
But there’s probably--
there’s, you know, sadness.
1503
00:59:14,092 --> 00:59:16,012
That’s a bit humbling.
1504
00:59:16,053 --> 00:59:17,933
- Like, I’m upset.
1505
00:59:18,013 --> 00:59:19,263
Like, I’m upset over the fact
that she couldn’t,
1506
00:59:19,347 --> 00:59:21,887
you know, go through
this entire process
1507
00:59:21,933 --> 00:59:24,023
and not commit to this,
1508
00:59:24,061 --> 00:59:26,101
to waste everybody’s time,
to waste your time.
1509
00:59:26,188 --> 00:59:28,398
Obviously, you were hopeful.
We were all hopeful.
1510
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:30,280
You conducted yourself
with extraordinary grace.
1511
00:59:30,358 --> 00:59:31,728
You were a gentleman.
1512
00:59:31,777 --> 00:59:33,397
You were very respectful,
1513
00:59:33,445 --> 00:59:35,280
and that’s kind of just
indicative of the character
1514
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:38,200
that we have all come
to admire about you.
1515
00:59:38,241 --> 00:59:41,121
So we will be upset for you.
- Well, I appreciate that.
1516
00:59:41,203 --> 00:59:46,123
I’m really glad that you guys
feel that I conducted myself--
1517
00:59:46,124 --> 00:59:47,794
um...
1518
00:59:53,465 --> 00:59:55,467
[shakily]
Like, appropriately.
1519
00:59:55,467 --> 00:59:58,637
[somber music]
1520
00:59:58,637 --> 01:00:01,887
- [pats Michael’s back]
1521
01:00:01,932 --> 01:00:03,772
♪
1522
01:00:03,809 --> 01:00:07,439
You did really well.
We love you, okay?
1523
01:00:07,479 --> 01:00:14,319
♪
1524
01:00:16,655 --> 01:00:19,157
- Yeah.
Thank you, thank you.
1525
01:00:19,157 --> 01:00:24,157
♪
1526
01:00:24,246 --> 01:00:28,166
- Well, I mean, you’re
going to move on from this.
1527
01:00:28,166 --> 01:00:31,166
You will rise from this.
1528
01:00:31,253 --> 01:00:35,006
You know, this will just be
another part of your story.
1529
01:00:35,006 --> 01:00:38,176
And she’s out there, man.
1530
01:00:38,176 --> 01:00:42,806
- No, I trust in my resiliency,
you know?
1531
01:00:42,848 --> 01:00:44,348
And the people
I have in my life.
1532
01:00:44,349 --> 01:00:47,349
So that’s part of the risk,
right?
1533
01:00:47,435 --> 01:00:49,475
You can’t--
you can’t talk about
1534
01:00:49,521 --> 01:00:50,861
doing something like
this and saying, like,
1535
01:00:50,939 --> 01:00:52,689
"Oh, it’s so risky,
it’s so risky."
1536
01:00:52,691 --> 01:00:55,361
And then one of those
greatest risks are realized,
1537
01:00:55,443 --> 01:00:58,703
and then start acting like
how the hell could this happen?
1538
01:00:58,780 --> 01:01:01,990
Of course, this could happen.
So.
1539
01:01:02,033 --> 01:01:03,833
- Well, I hope this
doesn’t dissuade you
1540
01:01:03,869 --> 01:01:06,789
from taking more risks
and to continue to take risks.
1541
01:01:06,830 --> 01:01:08,210
[Michael sniffles]
1542
01:01:08,331 --> 01:01:11,711
- I will admit
it didn’t turn out how I hoped.
1543
01:01:11,793 --> 01:01:15,380
I will admit that
I saw my journey
1544
01:01:15,380 --> 01:01:17,800
being married at first sight
as much different
1545
01:01:17,841 --> 01:01:19,841
than what it ended up being.
1546
01:01:19,885 --> 01:01:23,388
♪
1547
01:01:23,388 --> 01:01:26,638
It’s a failure.
1548
01:01:26,683 --> 01:01:29,393
But it hasn’t changed
who I am.
1549
01:01:29,394 --> 01:01:32,734
What’s next for me
is just going through
1550
01:01:32,814 --> 01:01:34,194
what I need to go through
to continue to process this.
1551
01:01:34,232 --> 01:01:36,067
I still feel the same way
1552
01:01:36,067 --> 01:01:38,897
in terms of my readiness
for marriage.
1553
01:01:38,987 --> 01:01:42,027
But I might have to make peace
with the possibility
1554
01:01:42,073 --> 01:01:44,583
that marriage might not
be in the cards for me.
1555
01:01:44,659 --> 01:01:49,209
- ♪ And it just kills me
to be alone ♪
1556
01:01:49,247 --> 01:01:55,337
♪ So come on back home
1557
01:01:55,378 --> 01:01:59,548
- ♪ I don’t wanna to do
1558
01:01:59,549 --> 01:02:01,759
♪ I don’t wanna
just find out ♪
1559
01:02:01,843 --> 01:02:05,353
[both sigh]
1560
01:02:05,388 --> 01:02:06,598
- We’re here.
- We’re here.
1561
01:02:06,681 --> 01:02:08,851
- Yeah.
- Husband and wife.
1562
01:02:08,892 --> 01:02:12,062
- So.
[exhales deeply]
1563
01:02:12,103 --> 01:02:13,271
- Are you less nervous?
1564
01:02:13,271 --> 01:02:15,106
- Very much so.
1565
01:02:15,106 --> 01:02:16,266
Yeah, you’re actually
putting me at ease, a lot.
1566
01:02:16,358 --> 01:02:18,028
- That’s good.
- Yeah.
1567
01:02:18,068 --> 01:02:20,278
I’m really excited because
I’m so happy to meet you.
1568
01:02:20,278 --> 01:02:21,608
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
1569
01:02:21,696 --> 01:02:23,356
- Same.
1570
01:02:23,406 --> 01:02:27,866
My husband is tall,
he’s cute.
1571
01:02:27,911 --> 01:02:29,791
How old are you?
- 27.
1572
01:02:29,871 --> 01:02:31,121
- 27?
Okay.
1573
01:02:31,122 --> 01:02:32,122
- How old are you?
- 31.
1574
01:02:32,207 --> 01:02:34,577
- 31? Okay. Nice.
1575
01:02:34,626 --> 01:02:35,956
- I’ve never dated
anyone younger than me,
1576
01:02:36,044 --> 01:02:38,296
but I’ve also never
married anyone before, so--
1577
01:02:38,296 --> 01:02:39,956
- Yeah, yeah.
- It’s a lot of firsts.
1578
01:02:40,048 --> 01:02:42,628
- Okay.
- What’s your Zodiac sign?
1579
01:02:42,717 --> 01:02:44,887
- Sagittarius.
1580
01:02:44,928 --> 01:02:46,428
So it goes--
1581
01:02:46,429 --> 01:02:47,639
I actually know the three.
It goes...
1582
01:02:47,722 --> 01:02:50,272
- You know your big three?
- Sag, Sag, Libra.
1583
01:02:50,308 --> 01:02:52,638
- Get the [bleep]--
1584
01:02:52,644 --> 01:02:57,816
you’re a Sag sun,
Sag moon, Libra rising?
1585
01:02:57,816 --> 01:02:59,646
What?
- What?
1586
01:02:59,734 --> 01:03:03,154
- I’m a Sag sun, Sag moon,
Libra rising.
1587
01:03:03,154 --> 01:03:05,414
- Really?
1588
01:03:05,490 --> 01:03:07,158
- Hmm.
I’m big on astrology.
1589
01:03:07,158 --> 01:03:09,408
- Yes, so it’s goosebumps
that go through, yeah.
1590
01:03:09,452 --> 01:03:11,292
- This is weird.
- Yeah?
1591
01:03:11,329 --> 01:03:13,748
- In a good way.
- In a good way?
1592
01:03:13,748 --> 01:03:16,078
- I wrote down a lot of things
that I wanted in a husband,
1593
01:03:16,126 --> 01:03:18,246
and you check a lot of boxes.
1594
01:03:18,295 --> 01:03:19,671
Not that I need you to
check all the boxes,
1595
01:03:19,671 --> 01:03:21,840
but even like you being handy,
like,
1596
01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:26,590
I prayed for a man that knows
his way around a tool box.
1597
01:03:26,636 --> 01:03:27,846
- Yeah.
- Because I do.
1598
01:03:27,971 --> 01:03:29,311
I know my way around.
1599
01:03:29,347 --> 01:03:30,347
But I’m also tired,
and I need help.
1600
01:03:30,432 --> 01:03:32,432
- Yeah, sure.
1601
01:03:32,475 --> 01:03:34,185
- So I’m like, and then like,
you know, I’m good with hair.
1602
01:03:34,185 --> 01:03:35,435
- Mm-hmm.
1603
01:03:35,478 --> 01:03:36,768
- Did my own hair
for the wedding, so--
1604
01:03:36,813 --> 01:03:39,023
- It looks fantastic.
- Thanks. I was nervous.
1605
01:03:39,107 --> 01:03:40,525
I didn’t want anyone
else touching it.
1606
01:03:40,525 --> 01:03:42,855
- Yeah. After the bun went up,
I was so afraid to, like,
1607
01:03:42,861 --> 01:03:44,031
adjust the collar.
- Touch anything.
1608
01:03:44,112 --> 01:03:45,862
- Yeah. I was like,
I’m going to mess it up.
1609
01:03:45,864 --> 01:03:47,704
- It looks good.
What is--what is this?
1610
01:03:47,782 --> 01:03:48,992
Is it special?
1611
01:03:49,034 --> 01:03:51,454
- Yeah.
So it’s just regular yarn.
1612
01:03:51,494 --> 01:03:55,004
But for--for my culture,
Navajo and Diné--
1613
01:03:55,040 --> 01:03:56,620
- Okay, I was going to ask
what--okay.
1614
01:03:56,666 --> 01:04:00,036
- Yeah, so for us, you know,
our hair, it represents life.
1615
01:04:00,128 --> 01:04:03,548
So when it’s up and it’s like
this, you’re of sound mind.
1616
01:04:03,548 --> 01:04:05,216
You know,
you’re clear in your emotions.
1617
01:04:05,216 --> 01:04:07,796
You’re clear in your decisions.
Things like that.
1618
01:04:07,844 --> 01:04:10,144
And so that’s why
we do it for the wedding.
1619
01:04:10,180 --> 01:04:12,720
- Okay. I love that.
- And so bring your best self.
1620
01:04:12,807 --> 01:04:15,137
- I love that. It’s beautiful.
Your hair, everything.
1621
01:04:15,185 --> 01:04:16,735
You just look like a
well put together person.
1622
01:04:16,811 --> 01:04:18,229
Fire.
- Thank you.
1623
01:04:18,229 --> 01:04:19,729
- I was like--
that was a big thing.
1624
01:04:19,814 --> 01:04:21,154
Like, I really wanted
my husband to have
1625
01:04:21,191 --> 01:04:22,571
just a good sense of style.
- Yeah.
1626
01:04:22,650 --> 01:04:24,400
- And I see your style...
- Oh, thank you.
1627
01:04:24,402 --> 01:04:25,570
- And I love that I can, like,
see parts of you.
1628
01:04:25,570 --> 01:04:26,900
And, like, I like what I see.
- Yeah?
1629
01:04:26,988 --> 01:04:28,868
- [laughing] Yeah.
1630
01:04:28,907 --> 01:04:31,827
- Did you have any big fears
before walking down the aisle?
1631
01:04:31,868 --> 01:04:36,208
- I did.
I was--I’m not going to lie.
1632
01:04:36,247 --> 01:04:37,867
I was worried that
maybe you would see me
1633
01:04:37,916 --> 01:04:39,416
and just be like, oh,
1634
01:04:39,501 --> 01:04:41,251
that’s not--
that’s not what I requested.
1635
01:04:41,336 --> 01:04:42,916
That’s not what I wanted.
1636
01:04:43,004 --> 01:04:46,549
But that kind of washed away
because, I mean, I have eyes.
1637
01:04:46,549 --> 01:04:48,339
I look good.
- Yeah!
1638
01:04:48,385 --> 01:04:50,015
- I saw myself in the mirror
today, and I was like, damn.
1639
01:04:50,053 --> 01:04:52,013
My husband’s lucky.
- Mm-hmm.
1640
01:04:52,055 --> 01:04:54,185
- And I want you to know
that, like,
1641
01:04:54,224 --> 01:04:55,394
as good as
I look on the outside,
1642
01:04:55,433 --> 01:04:56,603
like, I’m even better
on the inside.
1643
01:04:56,684 --> 01:04:58,274
Like, big facts.
- I believe that.
1644
01:04:58,353 --> 01:04:59,853
- And you’ll get to--you know,
we’ll learn each other.
1645
01:04:59,896 --> 01:05:00,936
- Yeah.
- We’ll get there.
1646
01:05:01,022 --> 01:05:03,108
- I’m excited.
This is really nice.
1647
01:05:03,108 --> 01:05:05,188
- I know. Now we get to, like,
start our life together.
1648
01:05:05,235 --> 01:05:06,535
- Mm-hmm.
- And do things together.
1649
01:05:06,611 --> 01:05:08,401
I’m really excited.
- Yeah.
1650
01:05:08,446 --> 01:05:10,776
And just trying to envision,
you know,
1651
01:05:10,782 --> 01:05:15,082
who I wanted
to give my vows to...
1652
01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:16,700
this, this, you.
1653
01:05:16,746 --> 01:05:18,786
- Yeah? It’s me.
- Yeah.
1654
01:05:18,790 --> 01:05:22,040
It’s definitely--you were
everything I’ve envisioned.
1655
01:05:22,085 --> 01:05:25,715
- ♪ Everything changed
1656
01:05:25,755 --> 01:05:29,375
♪ Everything changed
1657
01:05:29,426 --> 01:05:31,796
♪ And everything changed
1658
01:05:35,807 --> 01:05:37,057
- ♪ My love
1659
01:05:37,058 --> 01:05:39,388
♪ So do you want
to stay with me? ♪
1660
01:05:39,436 --> 01:05:41,556
- Want to hold hands?
- Yeah.
1661
01:05:41,604 --> 01:05:42,814
Do you need a jacket
or anything?
1662
01:05:42,814 --> 01:05:44,944
- Um, I have--
my pink one’s up there.
1663
01:05:44,983 --> 01:05:47,110
I’m married.
She’s a wife.
1664
01:05:47,110 --> 01:05:49,240
And he’s cute.
1665
01:05:49,279 --> 01:05:51,739
He’s cute.
He’s cute.
1666
01:05:51,781 --> 01:05:52,951
- You look great.
- Can I sit on this side?
1667
01:05:52,991 --> 01:05:54,325
Thank you.
1668
01:05:54,325 --> 01:05:55,575
Sorry, I just told
you where to sit.
1669
01:05:55,618 --> 01:05:57,078
But if you’re indecisive,
then there you go.
1670
01:05:57,120 --> 01:05:58,830
I think I’m going to keep him.
1671
01:05:58,830 --> 01:06:00,999
Oh, my God.
1672
01:06:00,999 --> 01:06:03,499
- Um, all right.
So we have two, I guess.
1673
01:06:03,501 --> 01:06:05,091
- Yeah.
Okay, so I--
1674
01:06:05,128 --> 01:06:07,338
I don’t drink.
- [chuckles]
1675
01:06:07,422 --> 01:06:08,762
- But I love when
other people drink.
1676
01:06:08,798 --> 01:06:10,588
- Oh, yeah?
1677
01:06:10,633 --> 01:06:11,843
- I’ll give you shots all day,
if that’s what you need.
1678
01:06:11,843 --> 01:06:13,343
- Great.
1679
01:06:13,344 --> 01:06:14,304
- But probably one of
them is non-alcoholic
1680
01:06:14,345 --> 01:06:15,845
and one of them is--
1681
01:06:15,847 --> 01:06:17,515
- Yes, that looks like
the non-alcoholic one.
1682
01:06:17,515 --> 01:06:19,845
- I think he’s very nice,
very kind, very sweet.
1683
01:06:19,934 --> 01:06:21,144
He just seems genuine.
1684
01:06:21,186 --> 01:06:22,976
[cork pops]
[Becca squeals]
1685
01:06:23,021 --> 01:06:25,521
I like the fact that he was
crying during our ceremony.
1686
01:06:25,523 --> 01:06:27,783
Like, I love an emotional man.
1687
01:06:27,817 --> 01:06:28,817
Give me all the emotions.
1688
01:06:28,860 --> 01:06:30,990
Because [bleep] the patriarchy.
1689
01:06:31,029 --> 01:06:34,449
We need men with emotions,
and he has it, so I love that.
1690
01:06:34,532 --> 01:06:37,542
Okay, so you’re from here.
Where do you live?
1691
01:06:37,619 --> 01:06:39,329
- In Denver.
- That’s good.
1692
01:06:40,705 --> 01:06:42,785
Actually, I live
with my friend, Kyla.
1693
01:06:42,790 --> 01:06:44,210
- Okay.
1694
01:06:44,292 --> 01:06:45,877
- A lot of people
were saying, like--
1695
01:06:45,877 --> 01:06:48,837
- I’m so sorry.
I got lipstick all over you.
1696
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:50,010
It looks great.
You’re doing great.
1697
01:06:50,048 --> 01:06:52,048
- [laughs]
I needed a little color.
1698
01:06:52,133 --> 01:06:53,513
- Yeah, you did.
1699
01:06:53,551 --> 01:06:54,886
So how long have
you known Kyla?
1700
01:06:54,886 --> 01:06:56,046
And I love this.
This doesn’t bother me at all.
1701
01:06:56,054 --> 01:06:57,894
- I’ve known Kyla
for ten years.
1702
01:06:57,972 --> 01:06:59,312
- Okay.
1703
01:06:59,349 --> 01:07:00,519
- I’ve known Derek
since college.
1704
01:07:00,558 --> 01:07:01,638
Wait, how old are you?
1705
01:07:01,684 --> 01:07:02,854
- I’m 31.
- Okay.
1706
01:07:02,894 --> 01:07:04,024
Yeah, me, too.
- Really?
1707
01:07:04,062 --> 01:07:05,402
- Yeah.
- 1991?
1708
01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:07,230
- Yeah.
- You’re 31.
1709
01:07:07,232 --> 01:07:08,399
What do you do for work?
1710
01:07:08,399 --> 01:07:09,569
- I’m in sales.
- Okay.
1711
01:07:09,692 --> 01:07:12,192
So I’ve been in solar
for a bit,
1712
01:07:12,237 --> 01:07:15,317
and I was originally
planning on transitioning
1713
01:07:15,365 --> 01:07:17,242
into tech or something.
- Okay.
1714
01:07:17,242 --> 01:07:18,412
- You’re obviously
a photographer, right?
1715
01:07:18,493 --> 01:07:19,703
Wedding photographer.
- Yes, yes.
1716
01:07:19,744 --> 01:07:21,079
Wedding photographer full-time.
1717
01:07:21,079 --> 01:07:22,659
I started my business
ten years ago,
1718
01:07:22,705 --> 01:07:25,075
and now I have a team of
three girls that work--
1719
01:07:25,166 --> 01:07:26,916
- Oh, [bleep].
- Yeah.
1720
01:07:26,918 --> 01:07:27,918
We work all across the country
at weddings and stuff
1721
01:07:27,919 --> 01:07:29,249
like that.
- Damn. Ooh.
1722
01:07:29,254 --> 01:07:30,588
- Yeah, I know.
She’s a business owner.
1723
01:07:30,588 --> 01:07:32,088
[Austin chuckles]
1724
01:07:32,173 --> 01:07:33,423
- It seems like you have, like,
1725
01:07:33,424 --> 01:07:34,592
a big group of friends
out here.
1726
01:07:34,592 --> 01:07:36,262
- Yes.
- And we do the same stuff.
1727
01:07:36,344 --> 01:07:37,894
- Yes, yes.
- So do I.
1728
01:07:37,929 --> 01:07:40,098
So it seems like this is all
going to work out really well.
1729
01:07:40,098 --> 01:07:42,348
- Yes!
Okay, what other questions?
1730
01:07:42,350 --> 01:07:43,890
- I feel like I know you.
- I know. Me, too.
1731
01:07:43,935 --> 01:07:45,105
Well, because we’re
the same person.
1732
01:07:45,186 --> 01:07:46,266
- Absolutely.
1733
01:07:51,109 --> 01:07:53,029
- Oh, damn.
1734
01:07:53,069 --> 01:07:55,239
- All right. What are we doing
with this ring?
1735
01:07:55,280 --> 01:07:57,950
- [bleep] it.
I don’t know.
1736
01:07:58,032 --> 01:08:03,452
I wouldn’t want today
to influence
1737
01:08:03,454 --> 01:08:07,424
how I approach future women
1738
01:08:07,458 --> 01:08:10,458
that could potentially be
romantic partners of mine,
1739
01:08:10,545 --> 01:08:12,135
whether that means marriage,
1740
01:08:12,213 --> 01:08:13,763
whether that doesn’t
mean marriage.
1741
01:08:13,798 --> 01:08:18,258
I don’t want today to have
a negative influence on that.
1742
01:08:18,303 --> 01:08:20,973
♪
1743
01:08:24,309 --> 01:08:26,059
- What does it say?
1744
01:08:26,102 --> 01:08:30,612
- "Dear Michael,
I can’t express how sorry I am
1745
01:08:30,648 --> 01:08:31,978
"to have not given
this marriage
1746
01:08:31,983 --> 01:08:34,243
the chance you deserve."
1747
01:08:34,277 --> 01:08:36,317
[somber music]
1748
01:08:36,404 --> 01:08:37,824
"I hope that one day,
1749
01:08:37,905 --> 01:08:39,235
"you’ll be able
to fill the adventure book up
1750
01:08:39,324 --> 01:08:43,954
"with incredible memories
of you and your future wife.
1751
01:08:43,995 --> 01:08:46,085
"You couldn’t have been
more gracious and empathetic
1752
01:08:46,122 --> 01:08:49,172
"towards me, and it shows what
a great man you really are.
1753
01:08:49,292 --> 01:08:52,092
"You are a true gentleman,
a kind soul.
1754
01:08:52,128 --> 01:08:53,668
I wish you the best."
1755
01:08:53,671 --> 01:08:55,761
♪
1756
01:08:55,798 --> 01:08:59,508
And it appears that the items
that she left for me
1757
01:08:59,510 --> 01:09:02,470
were the items that I gave her,
so.
1758
01:09:02,513 --> 01:09:04,353
- Can we keep the sword?
1759
01:09:04,432 --> 01:09:06,102
- Well,
she didn’t ask for it back.
1760
01:09:06,142 --> 01:09:08,192
So I’m going to interpret that
as that I can.
1761
01:09:08,269 --> 01:09:11,189
I hope I figure out a way,
which I think I will,
1762
01:09:11,272 --> 01:09:13,112
to bring hope and optimism
1763
01:09:13,149 --> 01:09:17,028
to, you know, what my path
looks like from here.
1764
01:09:17,028 --> 01:09:21,698
- ♪ Something
about your energy ♪
1765
01:09:21,783 --> 01:09:25,793
♪ Stuck inside my memory
1766
01:09:25,828 --> 01:09:29,038
- I chose to get
married at first sight
1767
01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:31,040
because I saw it as
an opportunity for me
1768
01:09:31,125 --> 01:09:33,205
to become my best self.
1769
01:09:33,294 --> 01:09:34,804
♪
1770
01:09:34,837 --> 01:09:36,797
I saw it as a
once-in-a-lifetime opportunity
1771
01:09:36,839 --> 01:09:38,629
for me to find
someone extraordinary
1772
01:09:38,675 --> 01:09:41,895
and to do something
extraordinary in the process.
1773
01:09:42,011 --> 01:09:44,389
I wanted to be a husband
1774
01:09:44,389 --> 01:09:46,719
going through
a journey of love
1775
01:09:46,808 --> 01:09:50,728
and understanding what it takes
to grow and nurture that.
1776
01:09:50,812 --> 01:09:52,562
And that’s an experience
I’ll always be seeking.
1777
01:09:52,647 --> 01:09:54,727
- ♪ Don’t let go
1778
01:09:54,816 --> 01:09:57,226
♪ I’m hopeful
1779
01:09:57,318 --> 01:09:59,238
♪ I’m hopeful, yeah
1780
01:10:03,074 --> 01:10:04,158
[upbeat music]
1781
01:10:04,158 --> 01:10:05,988
♪
1782
01:10:06,035 --> 01:10:07,485
- Today is my wedding day.
1783
01:10:07,537 --> 01:10:09,867
It’s the beginning
of a new chapter.
1784
01:10:09,914 --> 01:10:11,924
- Today is the
day of my wedding.
1785
01:10:11,958 --> 01:10:13,378
Though I’m a
little bit anxious,
1786
01:10:13,418 --> 01:10:16,248
I do feel very, very ready
to walk down the aisle.
1787
01:10:16,295 --> 01:10:17,625
Honestly, it would
make me feel better
1788
01:10:17,630 --> 01:10:19,970
if he was as anxious as I am.
1789
01:10:20,007 --> 01:10:21,427
[doorbell chimes]
1790
01:10:21,467 --> 01:10:23,677
But we are here and this
is very real. [chuckles]
1791
01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:27,010
- ♪ Say now
1792
01:10:27,056 --> 01:10:30,426
[upbeat music]
1793
01:10:30,476 --> 01:10:34,936
♪
1794
01:10:34,981 --> 01:10:39,071
- ♪ We were waiting
for the world to wake up ♪
1795
01:10:39,110 --> 01:10:40,690
- Hi!
- Yay!
1796
01:10:40,737 --> 01:10:43,317
- Good morning.
- Hello.
1797
01:10:43,364 --> 01:10:45,534
- Wedding day!
1798
01:10:45,575 --> 01:10:47,495
- Today’s the day.
- Wow.
1799
01:10:47,535 --> 01:10:49,255
- I’m about to walk down
the aisle
1800
01:10:49,287 --> 01:10:52,497
in T-minus, like, three hours.
1801
01:10:52,540 --> 01:10:54,880
And I’m so excited to meet him.
1802
01:10:54,917 --> 01:10:56,997
It’s finally happening.
It’s finally here.
1803
01:10:57,044 --> 01:10:58,924
[laughs]
1804
01:10:58,963 --> 01:11:01,923
[cork pops]
[all cheering]
1805
01:11:01,966 --> 01:11:03,876
What is happening?
1806
01:11:03,926 --> 01:11:05,466
It honestly feels
like I’m in a dream.
1807
01:11:05,511 --> 01:11:08,011
It’s kind of like--
it’s just surreal.
1808
01:11:08,055 --> 01:11:10,305
I can’t believe
this is my life right now.
1809
01:11:10,349 --> 01:11:13,689
And that I don’t know this man.
Like, this is very scary.
1810
01:11:13,728 --> 01:11:15,348
- It’s your wedding day.
- I’m already emotional.
1811
01:11:15,396 --> 01:11:16,856
- [laughs]
- Yeah, don’t get me started.
1812
01:11:16,898 --> 01:11:18,318
Don’t get me started.
1813
01:11:18,357 --> 01:11:19,397
Better to cry now
without the makeup.
1814
01:11:19,442 --> 01:11:20,442
- Very true.
1815
01:11:20,485 --> 01:11:21,865
- I am very emotional,
1816
01:11:21,903 --> 01:11:23,243
partly because
my grandma gets to be there.
1817
01:11:23,279 --> 01:11:24,529
And like, I didn’t
think that would
1818
01:11:24,572 --> 01:11:26,202
be a thing that would happen.
1819
01:11:26,240 --> 01:11:27,700
And also, like,
1820
01:11:27,742 --> 01:11:30,492
just my brother not being here
today--[sniffles]
1821
01:11:30,536 --> 01:11:34,616
[sobbing]
It just makes me sad.
1822
01:11:34,665 --> 01:11:37,455
Today is not any, you know,
ordinary day,
1823
01:11:37,502 --> 01:11:42,512
and it’s going to be hard
because my brother’s not here.
1824
01:11:42,548 --> 01:11:44,378
Unfortunately,
he did pass away.
1825
01:11:44,425 --> 01:11:47,215
But I know that
he’s rooting for us
1826
01:11:47,261 --> 01:11:49,351
and rooting for me and...
- Yes, he is. He’s here.
1827
01:11:49,388 --> 01:11:51,268
- You know, and he’s here
1828
01:11:51,307 --> 01:11:53,387
and, like,
he’s guided this whole thing.
1829
01:11:53,434 --> 01:11:56,444
And so I’m just sad
that he can’t meet,
1830
01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:57,899
you know, the person
that I’m going to spend
1831
01:11:57,939 --> 01:11:59,359
the rest of my life with.
1832
01:11:59,398 --> 01:12:01,528
But I know that he
knows this is going
1833
01:12:01,567 --> 01:12:02,817
to be good for me, right?
- Right.
1834
01:12:02,860 --> 01:12:04,360
- Yes.
It’s gonna be good.
1835
01:12:04,403 --> 01:12:05,703
- You wouldn’t be doing
it if he didn’t think
1836
01:12:05,738 --> 01:12:07,158
that this was good for you.
- Right.
1837
01:12:07,198 --> 01:12:08,488
- It’s going to amazing.
- You’re going to be beautiful.
1838
01:12:08,533 --> 01:12:09,993
- And I have guys with me.
1839
01:12:10,034 --> 01:12:12,124
And if I didn’t,
I would not be doing this, so.
1840
01:12:12,161 --> 01:12:15,621
- We’re here.
- I love you.
1841
01:12:16,040 --> 01:12:18,580
- Hey!
- Oh, hello. Hello.
1842
01:12:18,626 --> 01:12:20,456
- There’s our boy.
1843
01:12:20,503 --> 01:12:22,213
- My parents and my brother,
who are back in New Zealand,
1844
01:12:22,255 --> 01:12:23,765
they couldn’t be here today.
1845
01:12:23,798 --> 01:12:27,468
But my newfound family
in Colorado is here,
1846
01:12:27,510 --> 01:12:30,100
and it’s great that they’re
going to be here by my side.
1847
01:12:30,137 --> 01:12:32,597
- It’s like we’re hours away.
- Yeah.
1848
01:12:32,640 --> 01:12:34,770
- It’s crazy. Hours away
from getting married.
1849
01:12:34,851 --> 01:12:36,601
That is insane.
1850
01:12:36,644 --> 01:12:38,064
- [sighs] Yeah.
1851
01:12:38,104 --> 01:12:40,814
- To someone
you’ve never met before.
1852
01:12:40,857 --> 01:12:42,817
- Yeah.
1853
01:12:42,859 --> 01:12:44,939
I’m definitely
one for adventure.
1854
01:12:44,986 --> 01:12:47,446
Moving to the States
and knowing no one
1855
01:12:47,488 --> 01:12:49,528
other than my cousin,
basically,
1856
01:12:49,574 --> 01:12:51,584
those types of big adventures
1857
01:12:51,617 --> 01:12:54,577
are things that define me
as a person.
1858
01:12:54,620 --> 01:12:56,250
And I think
this is the beginning
1859
01:12:56,330 --> 01:12:59,960
of the greatest adventure
of my life.
1860
01:13:00,001 --> 01:13:01,591
I still think it
boils down to you’ve
1861
01:13:01,627 --> 01:13:03,377
just got to be who you are,
1862
01:13:03,421 --> 01:13:06,341
and it’s going to work
or it’s not.
1863
01:13:06,382 --> 01:13:08,512
You’re just like, okay,
we’re married.
1864
01:13:08,551 --> 01:13:12,511
Like, you know,
here’s everything about me.
1865
01:13:12,555 --> 01:13:15,225
- Never mind meeting the family
and hanging out.
1866
01:13:15,266 --> 01:13:16,676
- Right, right.
- And it’s like, it’s now.
1867
01:13:16,726 --> 01:13:19,806
- Right. For all we know,
her family could be crazy.
1868
01:13:19,854 --> 01:13:21,864
- But you’re not going
to be living with them.
1869
01:13:21,898 --> 01:13:23,938
My wife’s family is freaking
bat[bleep] crazy, but...
1870
01:13:23,983 --> 01:13:25,283
[laughter]
1871
01:13:25,318 --> 01:13:28,858
You know,
that’s what I liked about them.
1872
01:13:28,905 --> 01:13:31,665
So I wouldn’t get hung up
on the family because it’s--
1873
01:13:31,699 --> 01:13:35,039
it’s you guys that have
to make [bleep] work.
1874
01:13:35,077 --> 01:13:37,287
- Yeah.
I’m not worried.
1875
01:13:37,371 --> 01:13:40,211
[upbeat music]
1876
01:13:40,291 --> 01:13:47,591
♪
1877
01:13:48,549 --> 01:13:51,799
- What will his family be like?
- I know. I don’t know.
1878
01:13:51,844 --> 01:13:53,304
I don’t know.
1879
01:13:53,346 --> 01:13:55,506
I just hope that
they are chatty
1880
01:13:55,556 --> 01:13:57,056
and that they get along
with our family.
1881
01:13:57,099 --> 01:13:58,639
I mean, we’re the easiest
to get along with,
1882
01:13:58,684 --> 01:14:00,524
so I think
it should be just fine.
1883
01:14:00,561 --> 01:14:03,731
- The dude’s got to be an
anxious wreck if he’s normal.
1884
01:14:03,773 --> 01:14:05,363
[laughter]
- Yeah.
1885
01:14:05,399 --> 01:14:07,029
- I just hope that
you give him--
1886
01:14:07,068 --> 01:14:08,898
like, you’re patient with him.
1887
01:14:08,945 --> 01:14:11,615
Don’t judge him
right off the bat.
1888
01:14:11,656 --> 01:14:17,286
- I mean, I’ve got some high
expectations for this dude.
1889
01:14:17,328 --> 01:14:18,908
He needs to be someone
that’s willing
1890
01:14:18,955 --> 01:14:22,885
to really work hard and make
a good life for himself--
1891
01:14:22,917 --> 01:14:24,747
- And be faithful to you.
Not--nothing--
1892
01:14:24,794 --> 01:14:25,964
- Right, right.
- No shady.
1893
01:14:26,003 --> 01:14:27,343
- Right.
- No shadiness.
1894
01:14:27,380 --> 01:14:30,630
- He needs to be funny,
genuine, kind.
1895
01:14:30,675 --> 01:14:32,555
- Funny is huge, though.
- Successful.
1896
01:14:32,593 --> 01:14:34,683
Someone that, like,
has a high drive.
1897
01:14:34,720 --> 01:14:38,020
If this dude is someone that we
got to push to do stuff, like,
1898
01:14:38,057 --> 01:14:39,677
that’s not the one for you.
1899
01:14:39,725 --> 01:14:41,885
We just love you
and protect you so much.
1900
01:14:41,936 --> 01:14:43,346
We’re so protective
of you that we
1901
01:14:43,396 --> 01:14:44,806
don’t want you to
end up with someone
1902
01:14:44,855 --> 01:14:46,185
that we don’t approve of.
1903
01:14:46,190 --> 01:14:48,440
- But again, no judgment.
- No judgment.
1904
01:14:48,484 --> 01:14:49,824
- I love you guys so much,
but I feel like
1905
01:14:49,860 --> 01:14:52,280
you can be really protective
and quick to judge.
1906
01:14:52,321 --> 01:14:54,531
But also, like,
I have to be patient with him.
1907
01:14:54,573 --> 01:14:56,333
You guys have to be
patient with him.
1908
01:14:56,367 --> 01:14:58,037
And that’s all we can do.
1909
01:14:58,077 --> 01:15:01,037
[upbeat music]
1910
01:15:01,080 --> 01:15:05,750
♪
1911
01:15:05,793 --> 01:15:09,630
- In time, I’m sure you guys
will find a weekend
1912
01:15:09,630 --> 01:15:11,590
to get away, and we can
go to the house in Utah
1913
01:15:11,632 --> 01:15:13,342
and go to Zion
1914
01:15:13,384 --> 01:15:17,764
and take her mountain biking,
if she’s into that.
1915
01:15:17,805 --> 01:15:22,525
- Yeah. I definitely hope that
there’s some alignment.
1916
01:15:22,560 --> 01:15:24,440
I would very much like that.
1917
01:15:24,478 --> 01:15:28,568
- Okay, we are so close
to walking down the aisle,
1918
01:15:28,607 --> 01:15:31,147
and I feel like I’m going
to vomit. [chuckles]
1919
01:15:31,193 --> 01:15:33,783
I’m not going to, but I feel
like it’s slowly creeping up.
1920
01:15:33,821 --> 01:15:40,991
♪
1921
01:15:42,121 --> 01:15:44,871
- ♪ Wake up,
I’m going up to you ♪
1922
01:15:44,915 --> 01:15:46,575
♪ I’m going up to you
1923
01:15:46,625 --> 01:15:48,745
all: Aw.
1924
01:15:48,794 --> 01:15:50,804
- Wow.
1925
01:15:50,838 --> 01:15:52,588
- Clare!
- It’s so scary.
1926
01:15:52,631 --> 01:15:55,051
- [laughs]
- You look unbelievable.
1927
01:15:55,092 --> 01:15:57,342
- Oh, Clare.
1928
01:15:57,386 --> 01:15:59,466
- I have to step in those
moments of, like, fear
1929
01:15:59,513 --> 01:16:01,523
in order to grow,
but we’re doing okay.
1930
01:16:01,557 --> 01:16:02,637
We’re doing okay.
1931
01:16:02,683 --> 01:16:04,853
Yeah.
1932
01:16:04,894 --> 01:16:07,814
I mean, are we? I don’t know.
[laughs]
1933
01:16:07,855 --> 01:16:09,945
I’m telling--the more I say it,
the more I feel it.
1934
01:16:09,982 --> 01:16:11,442
So that’s why
I’m saying it a lot.
1935
01:16:11,484 --> 01:16:13,074
You know,
I’m speaking it into existence.
1936
01:16:13,110 --> 01:16:15,610
We are okay.
Everything’s fine.
1937
01:16:15,654 --> 01:16:17,324
He is going to be great.
1938
01:16:17,364 --> 01:16:19,704
The family’s going to be great,
and we are--we’re good.
1939
01:16:19,742 --> 01:16:21,992
♪
1940
01:16:22,036 --> 01:16:23,246
[chuckles]
1941
01:16:23,287 --> 01:16:26,957
- You look so beautiful.
- Wow, Clare.
1942
01:16:26,999 --> 01:16:30,129
- Oh, thank you, guys.
- You chilling with us?
1943
01:16:30,211 --> 01:16:31,461
- Wow.
1944
01:16:31,504 --> 01:16:33,014
- So scary.
- I know.
1945
01:16:33,047 --> 01:16:35,297
- I’m so scared.
- Oh, honey. Don’t be scared.
1946
01:16:35,341 --> 01:16:37,381
You’re here.
The scary part is over.
1947
01:16:37,426 --> 01:16:39,426
Like, now, you’re here,
and you’re beautiful.
1948
01:16:39,470 --> 01:16:40,760
- Oh, gosh.
Okay, we’re good.
1949
01:16:40,805 --> 01:16:42,605
We’re good.
Deep breaths.
1950
01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:43,600
- Do you want some champagne?
- Yeah.
1951
01:16:43,641 --> 01:16:46,021
Oh, of course.
Now. Now.
1952
01:16:46,519 --> 01:16:48,229
- So are the nerves
kicking in right now,
1953
01:16:48,270 --> 01:16:51,820
or are you still in, like--
- It comes in waves, you know?
1954
01:16:51,857 --> 01:16:53,107
You know, I think the
best thing I can do
1955
01:16:53,150 --> 01:16:55,110
is roll with the punches,
if I have to.
1956
01:16:55,152 --> 01:16:56,652
[laughter]
1957
01:16:56,695 --> 01:16:58,275
- I have a gift from
the bride to the groom.
1958
01:16:58,322 --> 01:16:59,162
- Thank you.
- Whoa.
1959
01:16:59,198 --> 01:17:00,658
- Oh.
1960
01:17:00,699 --> 01:17:02,079
[soft upbeat music]
1961
01:17:02,118 --> 01:17:04,828
- Wow.
- Wow.
1962
01:17:04,870 --> 01:17:07,210
♪
1963
01:17:07,248 --> 01:17:09,788
- "My family is the most
important thing to me.
1964
01:17:09,834 --> 01:17:11,134
"This piece of fabric
1965
01:17:11,168 --> 01:17:13,498
"is a representation
of my amazing family.
1966
01:17:13,546 --> 01:17:15,416
"The Kerr plaid worn
at ceremonies
1967
01:17:15,464 --> 01:17:19,804
and is a symbol of our
Scottish clan crest."
1968
01:17:19,844 --> 01:17:20,894
Hmm.
1969
01:17:20,928 --> 01:17:22,178
I think the fabric is here.
1970
01:17:22,221 --> 01:17:23,681
- I think that looks like
the fabric, yeah.
1971
01:17:23,722 --> 01:17:25,642
- I will have to double check
1972
01:17:25,683 --> 01:17:28,893
traditionally
where this is worn.
1973
01:17:28,936 --> 01:17:30,766
This makes my gift look very--
1974
01:17:30,813 --> 01:17:33,023
- Yeah, I’m feeling inadequate
on behalf of Cameron.
1975
01:17:33,065 --> 01:17:35,225
[laughter]
1976
01:17:35,276 --> 01:17:38,236
- Wait.
1977
01:17:38,863 --> 01:17:40,703
[suspenseful jazz music]
1978
01:17:40,739 --> 01:17:44,619
- [laughing] Okay.
- What the [bleep]?
1979
01:17:44,660 --> 01:17:45,740
- But what animal is that,
though?
1980
01:17:45,786 --> 01:17:47,286
- Please explain.
What is it?
1981
01:17:47,371 --> 01:17:48,911
- Oh, my gosh. I--
- Anteater?
1982
01:17:48,956 --> 01:17:50,576
- What the hell is that?
1983
01:17:50,624 --> 01:17:54,424
- [laughs] We’re going
to set that over here.
1984
01:17:54,461 --> 01:17:57,761
I just need to ask him, like,
what does this mean?
1985
01:17:57,798 --> 01:17:59,548
What does that mean?
1986
01:17:59,592 --> 01:18:00,762
Because he probably thought
the same thing
1987
01:18:00,801 --> 01:18:02,261
about the fabric he got.
Like, what the hell?
1988
01:18:02,303 --> 01:18:03,893
What is this?
1989
01:18:03,971 --> 01:18:05,601
We need to get to know
each other, obviously.
1990
01:18:05,639 --> 01:18:07,469
[laughs]
1991
01:18:09,101 --> 01:18:11,021
Okay.
[chuckles]
1992
01:18:11,061 --> 01:18:12,311
- What?
- What?
1993
01:18:12,354 --> 01:18:14,314
- "To my wife,
this is my friend, Kiwi.
1994
01:18:14,356 --> 01:18:16,106
[quirky music]
1995
01:18:16,150 --> 01:18:17,360
- [laughing]
1996
01:18:17,401 --> 01:18:18,361
- "Sorry he didn’t
get to you sooner.
1997
01:18:18,485 --> 01:18:19,775
"He had to take the boat,
you know,
1998
01:18:19,820 --> 01:18:22,280
because he’s afraid of flying."
1999
01:18:22,323 --> 01:18:23,493
- So you’re supposed to walk
down the aisle with this thing?
2000
01:18:23,532 --> 01:18:25,282
- No,
I’m not walking with that.
2001
01:18:25,326 --> 01:18:29,286
- Remember that men--most men
are not the most romantic.
2002
01:18:29,371 --> 01:18:32,001
- Oh, Lord. Yeah.
I hope he’s a good guy.
2003
01:18:32,041 --> 01:18:34,131
I hope he’s a good guy.
2004
01:18:34,168 --> 01:18:37,628
Like, that’s all
I can ask for at this point.
2005
01:18:37,671 --> 01:18:39,261
Hoo!
2006
01:18:39,298 --> 01:18:40,168
[quirky suspenseful music]
2007
01:18:40,174 --> 01:18:40,634
[groans softly]
2008
01:18:44,511 --> 01:18:47,348
[dramatic music]
2009
01:18:47,348 --> 01:18:52,436
♪
2010
01:18:52,436 --> 01:18:54,226
- [exhales deeply]
Okay.
2011
01:18:54,271 --> 01:18:56,771
- I’m very nervous for you,
but I’m excited.
2012
01:18:56,857 --> 01:18:59,437
- I wasn’t nervous until--
until you said you’re nervous.
2013
01:18:59,526 --> 01:19:01,106
You’re not supposed
to be nervous.
2014
01:19:01,111 --> 01:19:03,911
- Well, I would be nervous
if I knew this girl
2015
01:19:03,948 --> 01:19:05,448
for the last ten years.
2016
01:19:05,449 --> 01:19:06,949
This would make me nervous
2017
01:19:07,034 --> 01:19:09,294
because it’s always difficult
in any relationship.
2018
01:19:09,370 --> 01:19:12,250
So Cameron,
are we going to the airport
2019
01:19:12,289 --> 01:19:15,539
or are we going in
and you’re getting married?
2020
01:19:15,584 --> 01:19:17,754
- I say we get married.
- Okay.
2021
01:19:17,795 --> 01:19:20,135
- What if he has no family?
2022
01:19:20,214 --> 01:19:21,884
- Then we’ll be his family.
- Yeah.
2023
01:19:21,924 --> 01:19:24,384
- You and Kiwi. [laughs]
- You and Kiwi.
2024
01:19:24,426 --> 01:19:25,796
- I’ll stop bringing that up.
2025
01:19:25,886 --> 01:19:27,546
Yeah, it’s scary.
2026
01:19:27,596 --> 01:19:29,306
- You know that I’m not the
biggest fan of this decision.
2027
01:19:29,390 --> 01:19:30,720
- Right.
- [chuckling] Uh, yeah.
2028
01:19:30,766 --> 01:19:33,476
- I think that it’s crazy.
I think marriage is hard.
2029
01:19:33,477 --> 01:19:34,807
- Yeah.
2030
01:19:34,895 --> 01:19:36,475
- Like, I know
that you want to be loved
2031
01:19:36,563 --> 01:19:38,903
and in a good relationship
with a good man.
2032
01:19:38,941 --> 01:19:41,071
- Right.
- And you do deserve that.
2033
01:19:41,110 --> 01:19:42,319
He better be a good man.
2034
01:19:42,319 --> 01:19:44,399
I mean, it’s all what
it comes down to.
2035
01:19:44,446 --> 01:19:47,066
[soft suspenseful music]
2036
01:19:47,116 --> 01:19:49,656
- I mean,
I moved across the world
2037
01:19:49,743 --> 01:19:51,293
to find the love of my life
2038
01:19:51,328 --> 01:19:53,788
and to spend the rest
of my life with her.
2039
01:19:53,831 --> 01:19:56,791
♪
2040
01:19:56,834 --> 01:19:59,174
But I’m in another country.
2041
01:19:59,295 --> 01:20:03,095
My immediate family
are not here.
2042
01:20:03,173 --> 01:20:07,343
And I have to make
a family with my new wife.
2043
01:20:07,344 --> 01:20:10,144
- Cameron, you may stand
on the groom’s side here.
2044
01:20:10,180 --> 01:20:12,430
[laughter]
2045
01:20:12,474 --> 01:20:14,814
- Unlock your knees, Cameron.
[chuckles]
2046
01:20:14,852 --> 01:20:16,522
- That’s a scary thing,
2047
01:20:16,603 --> 01:20:19,113
because I’m starting
to realize
2048
01:20:19,148 --> 01:20:21,528
this is something that
I’m going to get one chance at.
2049
01:20:21,608 --> 01:20:24,778
♪
2050
01:20:24,820 --> 01:20:26,530
I’m excited.
2051
01:20:26,613 --> 01:20:31,203
I mean, maybe a little anxious
to reveal the mystery.
2052
01:20:31,285 --> 01:20:34,505
It’s good exciting,
not bad exciting.
2053
01:20:34,830 --> 01:20:38,540
- Hoo, [bleep].
Okay, we’re good.
2054
01:20:38,625 --> 01:20:40,455
I’m scared, but I think
2055
01:20:40,502 --> 01:20:42,546
being scared doesn’t always
have to be a bad thing.
2056
01:20:42,546 --> 01:20:44,376
Hello.
- You look so beautiful.
2057
01:20:44,381 --> 01:20:46,301
- Thank you.
2058
01:20:46,342 --> 01:20:48,512
I mean, I’ve been through
a lot of hard moments in life.
2059
01:20:48,552 --> 01:20:49,887
I’ve been through moments
2060
01:20:49,887 --> 01:20:51,847
where I’ve had loved ones
pass away.
2061
01:20:51,889 --> 01:20:55,309
And going through those
things alone is not great.
2062
01:20:55,351 --> 01:20:56,561
How are you feeling?
- I’m feeling good.
2063
01:20:56,643 --> 01:20:58,023
How about you?
- I’m scared.
2064
01:20:58,062 --> 01:21:00,230
Are you scared?
- Oh, a little nervous.
2065
01:21:00,230 --> 01:21:01,980
Yeah.
- A little scary.
2066
01:21:02,024 --> 01:21:05,154
- You know, just say hi
to his family, and you know.
2067
01:21:05,194 --> 01:21:06,864
But I’m glad you guys are
walking me down
2068
01:21:06,904 --> 01:21:08,574
because I’ll need that support.
- Sure.
2069
01:21:08,655 --> 01:21:09,485
- I got you.
- Yeah.
2070
01:21:09,573 --> 01:21:10,993
- We got you.
2071
01:21:11,033 --> 01:21:13,333
Hopefully, this--this guy,
you know, is a good guy,
2072
01:21:13,369 --> 01:21:15,369
and he’s a loving guy
2073
01:21:15,412 --> 01:21:18,248
and love you the rest of
his life and take care of you.
2074
01:21:18,248 --> 01:21:20,038
- But what’s any advice?
2075
01:21:20,084 --> 01:21:21,585
- Just love each other.
- Mm-hmm.
2076
01:21:21,585 --> 01:21:23,545
- I mean,
love and protect each other.
2077
01:21:23,587 --> 01:21:26,167
- Mm-hmm.
- Um, yeah.
2078
01:21:26,215 --> 01:21:28,555
- And be true to yourself.
- Mm-hmm.
2079
01:21:28,592 --> 01:21:30,761
- Trust your intuition.
- Yeah.
2080
01:21:30,761 --> 01:21:33,101
- Be kind.
- Yeah, be kind.
2081
01:21:33,180 --> 01:21:34,430
- Right.
2082
01:21:34,431 --> 01:21:36,101
[exhales deeply]
Scary.
2083
01:21:36,183 --> 01:21:38,733
- Take a deep breath.
- [takes deep breath]
2084
01:21:38,769 --> 01:21:40,099
Vomit.
[laughs]
2085
01:21:40,187 --> 01:21:42,187
No, everything’s good.
I’m fine.
2086
01:21:42,231 --> 01:21:44,191
You guys want to bring it in?
Huggy?
2087
01:21:44,233 --> 01:21:45,443
Huggy.
2088
01:21:45,526 --> 01:21:47,066
I love you guys.
- I love you, too.
2089
01:21:47,111 --> 01:21:48,111
- Thank you for
walking me down the aisle.
2090
01:21:48,112 --> 01:21:49,742
- Sure.
- [chuckles]
2091
01:21:49,780 --> 01:21:52,070
This is scary.
I love you so much.
2092
01:21:52,116 --> 01:21:53,366
Mwah, mwah.
2093
01:21:54,368 --> 01:21:56,238
- Hi.
You’re the groom!
2094
01:21:56,286 --> 01:21:59,616
- I am.
[laughter]
2095
01:21:59,623 --> 01:22:01,423
- Hi, family.
2096
01:22:01,458 --> 01:22:03,748
Hi, guys.
What’s your name?
2097
01:22:03,794 --> 01:22:05,629
- Cameron.
- Cameron.
2098
01:22:05,629 --> 01:22:07,049
[soft suspenseful music]
2099
01:22:07,089 --> 01:22:08,629
- Life is too short,
2100
01:22:08,715 --> 01:22:10,795
and I just want to be able
at the end of this,
2101
01:22:10,884 --> 01:22:12,974
to have somebody
who I can see
2102
01:22:13,053 --> 01:22:14,471
spending the rest
of my life with.
2103
01:22:14,471 --> 01:22:17,971
But there’s so many things that
2104
01:22:17,975 --> 01:22:20,395
may not go the way that
I’m thinking in my head.
2105
01:22:20,436 --> 01:22:23,056
So just, like, the unknown
is the most scary thing to me.
2106
01:22:23,105 --> 01:22:25,945
♪
2107
01:22:25,983 --> 01:22:29,113
- You’re a brave man.
[laughter]
2108
01:22:29,153 --> 01:22:31,403
- She might be braver.
[laughter]
2109
01:22:31,447 --> 01:22:34,317
[dramatic music]
2110
01:22:34,408 --> 01:22:38,998
♪
2111
01:22:39,079 --> 01:22:40,829
- Everyone please stand.
2112
01:22:40,914 --> 01:22:43,834
♪
2113
01:22:45,794 --> 01:22:47,594
- ♪ It feels good
2114
01:22:47,629 --> 01:22:51,008
- Next time, our newlyweds
dive head-first into marriage.
2115
01:22:51,008 --> 01:22:52,508
- ♪ It feels good
2116
01:22:52,509 --> 01:22:54,089
- I honestly feel like
2117
01:22:54,136 --> 01:22:56,636
the universe delivered
a really special person to me.
2118
01:22:56,680 --> 01:22:58,180
- I, like, really have
a weird feeling about this.
2119
01:22:58,265 --> 01:22:59,683
- I do, too.
2120
01:22:59,683 --> 01:23:01,023
- I feel like
it’s too good to be true.
2121
01:23:01,101 --> 01:23:02,311
- Are you nervous that
2122
01:23:02,352 --> 01:23:04,312
she’s never been
in a relationship before?
2123
01:23:04,354 --> 01:23:06,114
[tense music]
2124
01:23:06,148 --> 01:23:09,478
- And our remaining couple
walk down the aisle
2125
01:23:09,526 --> 01:23:11,816
to marry a complete stranger.
2126
01:23:11,862 --> 01:23:15,782
- It doesn’t behoove me
to do anything but give 100%,
2127
01:23:15,824 --> 01:23:17,994
and I hope she--
she does the same.
2128
01:23:18,035 --> 01:23:21,125
- You’re ambiguous, and if
you don’t understand yourself
2129
01:23:21,163 --> 01:23:23,123
and you can’t really,
like, share it with her,
2130
01:23:23,165 --> 01:23:24,675
her anxiety will go crazy.
2131
01:23:24,708 --> 01:23:26,168
♪
2132
01:23:26,210 --> 01:23:29,300
- What are your expectations
of a marriage?
2133
01:23:29,338 --> 01:23:31,715
- You know, I--[chuckles]
Um...
2134
01:23:31,715 --> 01:23:33,165
I don’t like being
bossed around.
2135
01:23:33,217 --> 01:23:34,877
♪
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