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Previously...

Let's get started.

..the 4th commitment ceremony saw
progress for many of the couples...

Everything I do want, Sean is
giving.

It's just been amazing. The instant
connection...

I just feel like, maybe, I'm just a
bit more adventurous with, like,

different things.

..but, for Peggy and Georges,

fundamental issues were exposed...

Actually, I was feeling like I
wasn't, potentially, good enough.

..Ella and JJ's mutual feelings came
under the spotlight...

As soon as I saw JJ, I've just, for
me, there was like an attraction.

When I'm in a room with Ella I
gravitate towards her.

There is an illicit relationship
happening.

..and after some home truths from
Bianca...

What you've done is disrespectful
and I'm done.

..all three left the experiment.

Tonight...

Oh, no!

We want you to list three things you
dislike about your husband or wife.

..it's Love Hate Week.

This is the week I'm going to tell
you some home truths girl.

Oh, shut up!

What draws some couples closer
together...

I can't keep my hands off you.
LAUGHING: Oh, no!

..pulls others apart...

That's rubbish, we're not doing that
one.

What have you said you need to work
on?

I've done a lot of BLEEP work on
myself, trust me.

..and a video from Georges' past....

Let's get it over and done with
cos then we can, either, move on

or we go our separate ways.

..sees his marriage plummet to an
all-time low.

I'm out of here.

DOOR SLAMS

Do you know what you're doing?
Erm...

You don't have any tools, Bob the
Builder.

You're just Bob.

The couples are embarking on

a new day after yesterday's
commitment ceremony.

Are you happy you made the decision
to get married

to an absolute randomer?

Feel free to answer quickly.

So are you going to join me in the
gym, later?

I'm going to say yes just to make
you happy.

Oh, last night! I know.

The thing is JJ and Ella they can't
help how they feel... I know.

..so it's unfortunate that other
people got hurt,

but they couldn't have really done
it any other way.

Like, it was within days, do you
know what I mean?

I'm sad that she's gone... Yeah.

..but happy that she's left with
somebody that she can progress with.

Are you? Are you happy with how we
were last night?

Are you happy with how the
commitment ceremony

went for us? Yeah.

I feel like we've had obstacles
and challenges,

but we're both learning and growing.
Yeah.

Since meeting, Peggy has had issues

with Georges creating online content.

People watch your channel, they
subscribe.

They then get a chance to redeem
things.

Baguettes and baguette points, or
whatever.

So, say someone earns X amount
of baguettes,

and they get to request something
from you.

What's the most inappropriate thing
someone has asked you to do?

Just face the wall and squat.

I'm not OK with that.

During In-Laws Week, Peggy's sister
added to her concerns.

I squat, obviously online... Yeah.

..fully clothed. Seen it.

Well, fully clothed but not a lot of
clothing.

Automatically, it's got my back up
and I couldn't even look at it.

..and the ongoing disagreement hasn't
helped with

Peggy and George's sex life.

No physical intimacy, and you know
how much that means to me. Sure.

I just feel like I compromise so
much more than her.

There is no intimacy,

and we're not progressing with that.

But it's not all me.

No, I've not just said it's all you.

Yeah, but because of us.

We've had so many obstacles

and we've got through them stronger
than ever,

but intimacy hasn't progressed.

There are a few things that put me
off Georges

and, you know, I don't think you can
put a time on

when you have sex with somebody.

KNOCK AT THE DOOR

Oh, no!

Is it a good thing or is it
a bad thing?

Scary, innit I've never been so
scared of an envelope.

Oh, God!

Yeah, ready.

Dear Peggy and Georges,

it's only by acknowledging all
aspects of a partner,

both good and bad, that marriages
can truly grow.

With this in mind, we'd like you to
complete Love and Hate Week.

Firstly, we want you to list three
things you dislike

about your husband or wife.

You're going to need a whole page of
them.

You must share this list with each
other and then

try to think of ways that will help
address these issues.

Then we would like you to list three
things you love

about your husband or wife to help
you celebrate

the things you most admire or like
in your partner.

I think I'm going to have fun with
the dislikes.

You literally said the other week
there's nothing you dislike.

Well, things change in a week.

This is the week that I'm going to
tell you some home truths, girl.

Shut up.

While it's easy to enjoy the good

points in a partner,

they must accept the things they are
less fond of, too.

Love Hate Week is designed to
address this head on.

Be honest, just be honest.

For their relationships to keep on

growing, they must embrace every

part of their partner and accept
their bad points

along with the good points.

I've told him this one 101 times

but it won't hurt to hear it again.

It's a task that requires
unflinching honesty.

How many have you got, 20?

I've actually only got three cos I'm
able to follow instruction, Arthur.

Today the couples will be starting
with the hardest part of the task,

sharing what they don't like
about each other.

Mine's not like a criticism, I think
mine's good for us.

Constructive criticism. Yeah.

First one...

..you're not as affectionate as
I would like you to be.

Like, I feel like we don't hug as
much as we used to,

I feel like I'm always asking and
I'm like

"Fuck me, I'm getting bare needy."

I completely understand what you're
saying

and I respect it and I hear you.

It's not a lot but just one kiss,
sometimes,

because affection means a lot to me.

I will become more affectionate,

I get where you're coming from.
Cool.

Well, that's made me happy.

So... I'm actually nervous, Jesus.

..your...

..dress sense.

Yeah.

When I first met you, you had a nice
suit on so I was like,

"OK he's got good dress sense."

and, I'm not going to lie, I was a
bit disappointed.

The past couple of days,

I've been styling you

and you've been getting a lot of
compliments.

How bad was I before? I don't, I
don't need to, I get it,

yeah, it was bad.

Shall I go first?

I think you should go first. Ladies
first. OK.

Your hair is all over the flat...

..which is true!

I can't... It's in the bed,

it's round the toilet somehow.

Sometimes I find it in my key fob,
my make up... Yeah.

Like it's a lot. I need to get a
little Hoover, like,

I don't know how I still have
a full head of hair.

Right the next one is...

Oh, no. ..you don't use sex toys on
me.

I hate it, so you need to go to the
shops.

I'll get right on to it, love.

I'm dreading to see what you've got
for me.

There's so much I hate so I'm
getting the laser pointer out, so...

You say you're more adventurous
than me sexually,

yet you don't initiate a cuddle.

Really?

At the moment, if we have a cuddle,
it's because I initiate.

Just be affectionate, I like that.

OK, I'll be more forward with my
affection... Yeah. Thank you.

..now, bend over, you bad boy. Yes,
ma'am.

Are you going to go first or should
I go first? I'll go first.

So, you do interrupt me,

you over speak me quite a bit

and sometimes it makes me think
that you don't think that

what I have to say is valid
and you don't listen.

So, there's two-in-one, basically.

Yeah, because you interrupt.

The only reason I interrupt,
sometimes, is because I've got

a thought in my head and then I'm
like, "I've got to say it now

"otherwise I'm going to forget."

But everyone has thoughts in
their head... Mm-hm.

..and if we all just said them
no-one would ever

finish a conversation.

That's fair enough I'm going to take
that all on board.

Yeah, so the first one that I sort
of need in

a partner is like someone
to train with me.

You want us to be gym buddies?
Yeah, yeah, yeah,

I would love to, I would love that.

That's an easy fix. Yeah? I'm happy
to do that. Thank you.

So, I dislike your white lies.

OK.

I really don't like it when I have
to probe you for information

because I know that you're not
telling me the truth.

Fundamentally, if you're lying, then
you're chipping away at trust.

Yeah, Yeah.

It's something I need to, erm, I
need to work on

and I've had it since I was a little
kid,

but it is time for me to change.

You're a grown guy, like, you're not
a child.

Yeah, that's fair enough.

The next one I dislike about you...

..is the mood swings...

..which I understand... Getting
upset, you mean? Yeah. OK.

I don't think I have had any
mood swings

so that one's like a really big
curve ball, like,

I didn't see that coming... OK. ..at
all.

I fundamentally disagree.

It's ridiculous, I don't have mood
swings.

This one, like, that's rubbish were
not doing that one

because I don't have mood swings.

I'll be completely honest with you,
I couldn't think of anything else

..and that's the honest truth.

OK, babe, but this is supposed to be

a really deep, accurate reflection
of me as a person.

He is prone to telling these little
white lies

and this is classic Arthur
behaviour, when he is in

a situation he doesn't know how
to handle.

It's really frustrating.

What you say is valid when you mean
it and it's from the heart...

Yeah.

OK. Are you ready? I'm ready.

Deep breaths.

Your career aspirations.

I don't want a dreamer.

I want somebody who knows where
they're going.

I'm not a dreamer. That's one thing
I'm not.

I'm actually a really big doer.

George isn't a man with a plan, I
need somebody who knows

exactly what he wants

and knows exactly how he is
going to get there.

You're the most confident,
yet insecure, person.

Who is the real Georges? OK.

Are you confident or is this
a chameleon?

You say you are the chameleon
and you,

you tailor your behaviours in
different environments.

That makes it hard for me to judge
the real you... Yeah.

..because am I seeing just the
chameleon around me? No.

Do you know what I mean? Like,
that's, that's the difficulty.

I like to think you've seen all
of my shades.

I find that that's quite an unfair
statement.

I've always referred to myself as a
bit of a social chameleon,

but she sees the real me in my
rawest version.

Your hobbies and passions.

For me, it goes back to the online
content and the online gaming

and rewarding people with
baguettes,

and then you doing all sorts
of activities like squatting

and twerking on the bed.

You know, I've always seen myself as
a bit of an entertainer,

which is why I do it.

This isn't the Georges comedy show.

I prefer the real Georges...

I find it really weird that, at the
start, you were like,

"Oh, I really like that you've got
hobbies and passions."

and then it's now a dislike.

I knew that the online content was
going to come up.

She's very particular and I feel
like, sometimes,

I'm just not good enough for Peggy.

Just take me for who I am and accept
it.

It's, just, it's inappropriate.

The content he puts up online
is humiliating.

Why would you do that? It's weird.

Right. Let's get down to business.

My biggest concerns with this
challenge

is how I can communicate it
to Jordan.

He takes things to the worst
possible situation straight away.

How he reacts is going to be
the biggest challenge.

We have a different sense of humour.

Sometimes I feel like I'll be
bouncing off people

and you're just like...

..like nothing.

Like, if we're in, like, a social
setting... No, cos I just...

..and everyone's like having banter
sometimes I think you just...

No, it's not... You, you...

Don't try to make out that
everyone's having a laugh

and stuff, and I'm just sat there.

When I'm with my friends and my
mates and

we're having a fucking good laugh,

there's going to be a lot of stuff
that you don't find that funny.

Next up.

Lack of communication and
listening.

Sometimes we're just completely
cross paths with the communication.

I feel like sometimes we're not
really on the same page.

You've gone to a hundred
and I'm still at one.

So the balance is completely
off here.

Yeah, but I could flip it on you,
like, in your moments of stress,

it's hard to communicate with you
because you're always,

like, not really communicating
much.

But that's not your stress.

With your stress, everyone deals
with your stress.

When you're stressed everyone feels
the fucking force of it.

No, no, no, no, no...

You've just turned my thing on me.

OK. Right, so...

you're judgemental,

with the way I am and my hobbies
and my interests.

Mm-hm.

There are lots of things that I do
that, sometimes, I can see

you don't raise an eyebrow, but I
know, in your head

you've raised an eyebrow because
you're like, "Mmm...

Yeah, because I don't want to
like... "..what does that mean?

Or I'm not sure on that, I don't
agree with it."

Yeah, because I don't want to hurt
your feelings.

The only thing I'm judgemental of
is the online content

because I don't understand the
correlation between gaming

and squatting and twerking.

Yes, I have been judgemental
with Georges

and I will continue to be so until I
see him

do his hobbies, passions, whatever.

Until I see that it's hard for me
to say who he is.

OK. You ready? Yeah.

You're quite harsh on me.

You're very quick and you find it
easy to point out all my flaws.

I don't know the last thing you said
to me that was, like, really nice.

For you to say that you don't
remember

the last time I was nice to you is
very fucking ridiculous.

But my point was,

you're quick to point out my flaws.

The next one, I think that you
think you're better than me

and I think the sense of humour
thing is a very good example.

It's almost feels like you're kind
of saying that,

"Why are you not as funny as me or
as fun as me?" like...

But do I make you feel like that,
or is that how you feel deep down

because I'm very, very...

OK. This is a prime example.

This conversation right, all I've
said is about

how you make me feel... Mm-hm.
..yeah?

I'm not lying. That is how you make
me feel.

Yeah, and I've acknowledged that.

But it doesn't seem like it.

It seems like you've attacked me
for even putting it.

I have sat here and acknowledged
everything you've said.

What have you said that you need to
work on?

I'm asking for more examples of what
you said

and you're diverting the whole
fucking conversation.

I've not diverted it. I've not
diverted it.

So tell me why you feel like that.

I've just told you. No you haven't.
Aargh!

This whole situation is, literally,
just going round in circles.

We're just not on the same
wavelength.

I don't know what fucking planet
this boy is on.

I'm asking for more examples of what
you said

and you're diverting the whole
fucking conversation.

I've not diverted it. So, tell me...
I've not diverted it.

..why you feel like that.

I've just told you. No you haven't.
Aargh!

I feel like if there's a problem, at
the moment with us,

I'm made to feel like, well,

it must be coming from me
and it's not Erica.

She's got to listen to negative
feedback

and how she's making me feel.

When we sit on the sofa,

it's a lot about what I can work on
to be good enough for you...

So then tell me what you want me to
work on.

..but you've not reflected on
yourself, so you've not reflected...

I do. I've done a lot of fucking
work on myself, trust me...

OK. ..for years. No, I'm on about
for me...

I didn't wait till someone came into
my life

to then work on myself.

Which what sounds, like, is what
you've done.

Oh, right OK.

You've never, ever, ever addressed
anything to me.

Am I not doing it now?

If you think I'm harsh on you, I
will try and go about things nicer.

And if you think that I think
I'm better than you,

that's absolutely not the case.
I've never thought that...

Right. ..so... But do you
understand...

I'm not finished. I'm not finished.
OK.

You interrupted me and I'm trying
to conclude the conversation. OK.

I'm aware of the things you've said.
I will take them on board.

I'm not surprised that this is how
the conversation's gone.

Every time I've tried to bring
something up to Jordan,

this is how it goes.

I'm not trying to come from a place
of getting defensive,

it's a place of, I just want him
to understand,

and I think, again, it's just
getting cross wired.

Here he is.

You ready to go? No.

I'm really looking forward to
the hate task

because I feel sometimes Jay does
hold back.

So if she's forced to tell me

the things she don't like about me,
then perfect.

Overshare your opinions, sometimes.

So, sometimes, in group settings,

I think some things are better
left unsaid.

That's... Do you agree with that?

..that's your opinion. That's my
opinion.

If you feel I'm going to have an
opinion,

which I shouldn't have, just give me
a tap on the leg,

then I'll consider whether
I will say or not.

You aren't honest with your
feelings.

So what I mean by this is like,
if you're sad,

I notice you're sad I'm like, "Oh,
you're sad"

and sometimes you say you're not or
you won't tell me why you're upset.

Yeah, I do that on purpose. I always
have done.

I just don't want to feel like I'm
a burden on people

with my shit if that makes sense.
Yeah, well, you won't, you won't.

I'd prefer if you, kind of, told me
how you felt. OK.

You never tell me off.

So I think you sometimes hold back

and you get worried... OK. ..to tell
me when you're annoyed with me

or when I've done something... OK.
..that's annoyed you.

If you've got the hump with me, tell
me you've got the hump with me. OK.

During In-Laws Week, Luke raised his
concerns to friend Harry

regarding Jay's people pleasing
ways...

She's kind... Yeah. ..do you know
what I mean?

She doesn't really disagree a lot.

She wants to please me... Yeah.

..but then, also, on the other hand
tell me if I'm a prick sometimes.

..and Jay's sister also had some
reservations.

I mean, I do really like him.

I would probably be more open
to moving than what he would.

Really? Why?

Jay is a people pleaser.

If she loves him she will pack
her bags,

leave her friends and she will go
with him down to Essex.

This is something that I probably
couldn't live with.

It's starting to worry me a little
bit.

She never tells me off, especially
with the people pleasing thing.

I need a wife that tells me when
I'm doing something wrong

because I feel like I will end up
taking advantage of

the situation and then it will just
end up in a mess.

So, this is the important, most
important one.

Do you get what saying?

Yeah, yeah, I get what you are
saying.

I'm a massive people pleaser. I've
always done it since I was a kid.

The feeling of not being good enough
is the reason why I people please.

But there will be times where he
will piss me off.

And I will tell him.

Cheers to being the newbies. Oh,
yes!

For the new couples in the
experiment

we've sent them on a double date.

We want them to enjoy spending more
time together as

a married couple

but also have the opportunity
to share their thoughts

and feelings with other couples
going through the process.

That commitment ceremony, I don't
know. It was just a weird dynamic.

It just kicked off.

It went off the didn't it. Yeah.

Do you not think it was a good
insight

into everybody else's relationship?
Yeah.

Oh, here we go! Oh, more drinks!

ALL: Oh!

A little envelope, team.

The experts have delivered some
honest questions to the couples.

Right, excuse me.

Er...

What?

What's your favourite part
of your partner's body?

Adrienne, we both want to know what
the answer is.

I mean... Descriptions, please.
..just all of it.

No, no, no. We need one specific...

Specifically, like, his full, like,
abdomen is unreal.

We were hoping for a bottom half
but OK.

I mean, have I complained?

Oh, well.

Oh, what's your biggest fear?

Rejection.

You know, when you go through like
your different relationships

and they put you down, you've always
been put down a lot,

and then when you're with someone,
it's hard to open up

because of how much you've
been hurt.

So I don't like opening up in case
he hurts me.

I want you to be able to trust
someone,

because, I think, without you
trusting that person

you're not fully opening up which,
naturally, might make

someone push away.

You know, I really want this to
work,

but my biggest fear is that it
doesn't

and I end up hurting you.

What's one thing you would change
about your partner?

Mine would be...

I mean, I'm obviously a chatterbox.

We've seen that when I'm in
a social situation, I thrive.

I would just sometimes like you
to be

a little bit more maybe intrigued.

Like more questions to be thrown
to the wider group.

Adrienne wanting me
to be more open, it is annoying.

It normally does take me
a little while

to come out of my comfort zone.

I keep myself to myself quite a
lot.

And I think in big groups of
people,

I'm, yeah, maybe a bit
uncomfortable.

It's two weeks, like we've known
each other two weeks.

We got married two weeks ago.

Matt and I are in a really good
place.

There's just a few things that we
need to work on.

I love a social environment.

He's a bit more introverted than
what I am.

Shall we go and get a drink?

Are we going to get a shot in?

Go away so we can have girl talk.

So would you say, all in all, you
two are getting on well?

Oh, definitely. Like 100% getting on
well.

I really hope it, you know.

Fingers crossed mate
because it's like,

I think, it's like when you've got
the pressure,

like, he even said in his vows,
"Don't hurt me"... Yeah.

..so I'm like, "Fuck!" I've now got
this pressure now, it's a bit, like

if it's not working for me, it's
putting me on the back foot.

Yeah, course.

Now, I don't want to hurt him
because that's the one thing

he said doesn't want to happen,
but... Yeah.

if he doesn't let that insecurity
go away then

it's going to be difficult for it
to progress. Yeah, definitely.

One, two...

After digesting their partners hates,
some of the couples are being

proactive and taking their partners'
needs on board.

It's just a quick one today just

to get your heart rate up a little
bit.

So, why is this important to you?

Gym's been my passion for
a long time

and I've always wanted someone
to sort of share it with.

OK.

I'm done with that.

Are you OK? I'm so unfit.

We'd been doing cardio for about 30
seconds.

You know he's got the muscles
but, oh, my god,

he's a little bit unfit.

It's just that cardio at the start
of it that's what killed me.

You did one minute. I know.

You did one minute of cardio.

Laura's putting me through my paces.

You're just really, you're really
unfit. Yeah.

I can't even keep up with her.

I'm a little bit embarrassed if
I'm honest with you.

You know what does help with cardio?
What?

I've got some naughty thoughts
in my head right now.

Naughty cardio thoughts.

So, same time tomorrow?

No.

You need to work on your
stamina, honey,

because I need longer than a minute.

Lets just... Can you give me a day
of rest? I'll see you next week.

How about that?

Oh, god, Arthur, you make everything
funny.

Obviously, you don't like my dress
sense, so I have a bit of a deal.

You can pick three outfits of mine
which I can never wear again.

Why are you smiling?
Whoa, whoa, whoa!

The clothes are going.

I'm actually nervous. I'm not just
picking three.

Oh, you're not... No, it's only
three. No.

I have been praying for this moment.

Oh, where do we begin?

It's very concerning that Tasha's
this excited

to get rid of my clothes, but I've
hidden my favourite shirt

so, hopefully, she won't be able
to find it.

There's a black and white one, or
black and grey...

Honestly, I don't remember it.

I don't understand because this was
Paul's idea

so who does he think he is trying
to hide his ugly shirts.

We're not going to progress in this
marriage if you lie to me.

Aargh! Please, please. You've hid
that.

Go get it.

Oh, please, I haven't even got
to wear it yet. Good.

I've never seen Tasha so happy.

Like it's hurting me a bit.

This girl has no mercy.

It's comfy. It fits my sleeves. It
will keep me warm in winter

but will keep me cool in the summer,

like it goes with black because it's
black and white.

Paul is really trying to make me
feel sorry for him.

I'm sorry, but no, it's time to go.

Oh, come on, there must be something
worse than this. Ohhhh!

This, hands down, has to be one of
the stupidest ideas

I've ever came up with.

Hello, where have you been?
I've been busy.

After hearing Roz's eye-opening
dislikes,

Thomas has a cheeky little surprise
for his wife.

You wanted a big black box of
goodies,

so you got what you wished for.

Roz has told me what she wants.

I'm really listening to her

and I'm doing it.

That's what you do when you're in
a relationship.

Compromise.

A five and a half inch pink dildo.

It's smaller than I'm used to
but...

Yeah, I didn't want to buy anything
bigger than me.

It is a bit little, to be honest.

That's way above average.

Since I got loads for you, I decided
to get something for myself.

Nice.

Thank you.

What else did you get?

I thought we could also have
a bit of fun with this.

Oh, the little egg!

You'll have to take that to the
dinner parties.

You did really well. Thank you.

I'm just excited to see you in this
to be honest.

Thomas has been incredible.

He did take himself to a sex shop,

and he's done that for me. So,
yeah,

I'm very grateful, and I do
appreciate it.

Should I just try it on and see?
Yeah.

OK. See you in a sec. Bear with.

Oh, my god! Its tail's cute.

Does it look good, Roz?

Erm... Are you ready for me to come
out?

Oh, I'm ready.

You actually look really
good. Actually? Yeah.

I do really fancy her.

11 out of ten, I'm a big fan.

She definitely does make me
want to be more outgoing

and do newer things.

She's going to be wearing that
outfit more often than she thinks.

I can't keep my hands off you.
Let's go.

Oh, no, not the...

There was a lot of bad stress on
the on the hate task

because we get passionate.

I'm very aware of the stuff I do.

Communication is something
I'm willing to work on

and learn from and try and improve.

The hate task definitely hit a few
nerves

with both of us.

We need to be able to have tough
conversations

but I feel like he's not listening
to what I'm saying,

I think, "Well, there's no point in
communicating with you because

"you don't take it on board and it's
impossible to get anything

"through to you," so it makes me
want to shut off

and not bring up anything again.

Hey! Hello! Hi!

It's a new day and some of the group
have met up

to discuss how Love Hate Week is
going so far.

It wasn't the best. Oh, no. Yeah.

I got a bit upset, actually.

Erm, basically, the things he said
was that I'm harsh on him

and that he thinks I think I'm
better than him.

THEY GASP

He could not give me a straight
answer why he...

So, he didn't give you any facts he
just said,

"I think you think you're better
than me"?

No facts and he couldn't back up his
points.

He's been like... He's been
challenged, and he doesn't like it

and I think this is coming from

a place from him where he feels like
that within himself.

He's insecure.

I know exactly how that feels
to be belittled in

a relationship and have someone
put you down

and think that they're so much
better than you.

I know for a fact that I would never
ever do that to him.

The girls have my back here
so it's good

to know that I'm not crazy.

Everything that I have said
to him comes from

a place of love and wanting to help
him.

One of Luke's hates, I don't tell
him off.

I were like, "What do you mean I
don't tell you off?"

I was like, "You haven't pissed me
off, yet.

"You don't want to piss me off."

You're not his mam. You're a grown
man.

That is just not how I roll.

I'm not toxic, it's not me.
Get it out your head.

I'm just a bit sceptical whether
it's going to come to

a point where I'll be walking
all over her. Mm.

I need someone to put me in my
place a little bit.

Yeah. I'm just worried that she's
still people pleasing me,

in a different way. Like, she is
just letting me do what I want.

Like, if I wanted to go to a strip
club tomorrow,

she would be like, "Yeah, go on",
but deep down I know

she wouldn't want me to.

Like I reckon I could go out
and get a girl's number

and say to her that meant nothing

and she would be like all right,

do you know what I mean,
which is wrong.

Hearing Luke say he could easily get
other girls' numbers

is an interesting one.

Luke wants someone that can wear
the trousers more

so maybe that's going to be one
of their biggest crossroads.

I'm not the most perfect person in
the world, d'you know what I mean?

I must've done something to annoy
her.

What about you, Peg's? How...How did
yours go down?

Well... ALL: Oh! No, no, do you know
what, it was, it was, erm...

he thinks I judge him.

And I get that because I don't
understand him.

That's why I have to judge him,

analyse him as a person to know who
I'm dealing with.

When I hear about the online
content,

I just think it's humiliating.

Is that not, like, a red flag? I
would be, like, alarm bells, like...

OK, honestly, my sister was the
same when she came to visit.

I just can't stop laughing because
it's just...

So have your family seen it?

Honestly, I have a lot of cousins on
our wedding day, apparently,

it went viral across all of my
family.

In all the group chats.

This is what Peggy's new husband
does.

My sister said, like, "Do you really
want a husband that does that?"

She said "Because that is not you."

I can't know the real Georges and
won't know the real Georges

until I see that content for myself.

My passions and hobbies, you know,

that makes up a large percentage
of me.

For her to disregard it is actually
quite... Yeah.

..frightening or concerning.

Do you know what it is she's
thinking what are my friends

and family going to think? Are they
going to think Georges is weird?

I just think, after hearing what
I've heard this week,

it is a big question mark in my mind

because it's, like, am I just
setting myself up to fail? Yeah.

Is it too much of a dislike that
she's like, actually,

"He's not for me?"

I just need to understand what it is
because telling somebody what

the video's like is different
to you seeing it.

Yeah. I just feel like I need to
watch this video.

I just need to see it for my own
eyes.

If George thinks that twerking on
a bed or squatting

on his videos is acceptable, he can
do it without me.

Hello! Hey, are you all right?

Did you write some nice things? So
many nice things.

After focusing on what they
dislike...

Lets see what you've got then.

..it's now time to share what they
love about each other.

How was that?

It was a lot easier than yesterday
I tell you that much.

You probably wouldn't have thought
that I'd say this one, but...

..your honesty.

Your honesty. It's my favourite
thing about you.

Whilst it's hard to potentially hear
it at the time,

I know where you stand, and I've
known where you stood

at every portion of this experiment
with you,

and I couldn't imagine myself with
someone who

wasn't as honest as you were.

I wouldn't change it because...

You love it, apparently.
..I love it.

It's one of my, literally my
favourite thing about you.

Do you want to cuddle me, then?

Instigating cuddles.

I love the fact that you're a family
man.

I see the way that you are
with your mum

the way you speak to your sister on
the phone.

I can see how much care about them

and that the makes me think about
how if this marriage works out

and far, far, far into the future...
Yeah. ..we were to have

our own family it gives me, like, a
vision

to see how you would be in
that situation.

I can feel my cheeks like turning
red.

You saying that means the whole
world to me.

You're are socially confident.

You can be yourself around everyone.
Mm-hm.

So when you're in a social
environment,

it's like you light up the room.

Everyone's, like, around you, do
you know what I mean?

So your confidence oozes out and
allows other people to have

a good time in social settings.
Yeah.

Thank you.

I know that I'm socially confident
cos

I find myself hilarious, but,
like...

I didn't say you was funny.
No, I am funny...

..but I mean like it makes me feel
good

knowing that you've noticed that.

Yeah.

It's nice to be able to talk about
how we feel. Yeah.

So the first thing I love about you
is

your kindness,

when it comes to me.

You're very kind, in terms of every
time I do something wrong

which happens quite a lot you say,
like,

"Don't worry about it darling. We'll
just move on from it."

So, that's very kind. That's very
sweet. Yeah? Thank you.

That's OK, darling.

I love your vulnerability and pure
intent. I love that.

I just think actually, like deep
down,

everything you do is like with
the purest of intentions,

you don't want to ever hurt anyone,

and, the fact that you show up
for me, every day, is just, like,

such strength of character.

I love that. I feel like that's
the best compliment I ever got.

I think there's definitely been a
gear change

in the last week between us. Mm,
I agree.

We're more than just friends. Yeah.
100%.

Come here, give me a hug.

We're in a really good place,

but Arthur and I really need to
start looking at

what feelings we actually have
for each other.

We're on a more balanced setting
to move forward

and see if we are, like, on the Love
Train.

So, obviously we had, er...

Dislikes yesterday. Yeah. Yeah.

It could have gone better.

It's a not make or break thing.

It wasn't something I was walking
around thinking,

"Oh, these things are really
bugging me."

I had to really, like, search for
something, so...

Yeah, let's get on to the nice
stuff.

Yeah. Let's do it.

I'm really looking forward to
telling Erica

the things I love about her.

I think for both of us to hear these
things,

it will probably bring us closer.

You're definitely going first.

Am I? The anticipation is killing
me. OK.

How you're caring and observant

because, sometimes, when I'm in my
own head

like, you've noticed straight away,

and when I am in my own head,
you're really good at, like,

making sure that I know everything's
all right.

That's one of the most important
things..

Yeah. ..for me that I need from
someone.

I never want you to feel like if
things are too much for you,

like you're having to go through
everything alone.

You make me feel safe and protected.

You stand by me,

and you might not agree with
everything that I do,

but I know that, like,

if we're in a social setting, you
would have my back.

I don't want to give you any
worries.

I want to take those worries away
from you,

and I will do anything for you to
make you feel safe and protected

like anything, so, yeah...

Thank you. It's OK.

There are so many qualities I love
about Jordan,

and I'm so grateful to have him,
and,

knowing the things we love about
each other,

it's only going to make our
relationship stronger.

Lots to talk about. Yeah, lots to
think about, as well,

not just talking, right?

Before they share their loves,

Peggy and Georges want to discuss
their hates further.

I met the girls, spoke about the
concerns I've raised.

It would be a concern for other
girls, not just me.

It's just until I see it, I can't
really tell you what

I actually really think about it

because if it is you in a thong or
less than a thong,

I do think that would be it for me.

There's no nudity at all.

I've never got my butt cheeks
out... Mm-hm. ..OK?

Yes, I have pulled my shorts into my
bum crack,

but there's never been bum cheeks
on show. Mm-hm.

I just need to see the video now.
OK.

So, yeah...

I've got nothing to hide.

I know exactly what I've done.

At the moment, he's looking pretty
nervous.

I don't actually think he wants me
to watch the video.

Lets get it over and done with

because then we can either move on
or we go our separate ways.

My hands are shaking. I just feel
sick.

I don't want to watch it, but I do
want to watch it.

This video has the potential
to break me and Georges.

If I don't like what I'm seeing,

I'm out.

It's pretty harsh words,

but I really do hope it's not the
end of us,

if you don't approve of what you
see.

So, how did you feel after that?

Sick.

I'm not liking what I'm seeing.

It's weird.

You think it's weird.

No, no, no. I know that's weird.

More people would think it's weird
than normal behaviour.

I know people that would find that
hilarious because it's...

Yeah, I know you would find
that hilarious,

but when you're in a relationship
with somebody

that hilarious is no longer funny.

Do you know what's so annoying?

I never thought that you would think
that this is

all you have about you? That is...
It's not all I have about me.

No, it's not, and that's what... I
know it's not all I have about me.

But even if we weren't us, why would
you need to do this,

because you've got one of them? I
know I do.

At least, I hope you've got one of
them

because, at the moment, I'm looking
at this and thinking

you ain't got one of them.

And if that is what you really want
to do,

you'll be doing it without me.

I'm doing it cos it's entertaining,

I think we need to go back
to our first conversation.

Yeah, but, can I just say, babes,
can I be honest with you?

I think we need to go back to first
conversation...

That is not funny. ..which was...

Yeah, but... No, but that really
isn't funny. ..you don't find...

..just cos you don't find it funny
doesn't mean it's not funny.

We talk about life and soul of
the party,

we talk about big energy, we talk
about having a laugh,

having fun... Yeah, I'm life and
soul of the party.

Give me a Prosecco and I'll be the
fucking life and soul of the party.

I can be fun and I can be loud, you
don't see me doing stuff like this.

This I do hate.

I think this is embarrassing,
humiliating.

You're saying it like it is and
that's fine.

It's degrading.

Is it porn? Wait, lovely... No. Is
it adult content?

No, no, no, I know... No.

It's, literally, fitness in small
clothing.

Like I don't know. I can't sugarcoat
that.

I don't know what you want me
to say.

I just think I've had enough, in
fact, I know I've had enough, so...

Had enough or seen enough?

I'm out of here.

I don't like watching it. It's awful
to watch.

It makes you feel sick to your
stomach, like, who is this man?

I just feel humiliated.

Next time...

Couples' Retreat. It's very
romantic.

..the couples head off on a
mini-break...

ALL: Cheers!

..honest opinions cause more
friction for Jordan and Luke...

That is my opinion. Well, shut up
then.

Why do you have to get angry?

Why? It's rude.

Just leave it. Shut up you're doing
my head in.

..Peggy's relationship once again is
under scrutiny...

I really don't think that he is what
you want in life.

..and Laura and Arthur's marriage
comes under attack...

She speaks to you, like you are
her child or her pet.

You will never be good enough
for Laura in her eyes.

I just don't see it working on
the outside.

Don't come for me, unless I've sent
you.

..but none of the couples are
prepared for the biggest shock

of the experiment, so far.

Oh, my god!

Oh, my god!

It's absolute bullshit.

I'm not into it.

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