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- [sniffles]
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- What's wrong, baby?
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- [crying]
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- What's wrong, honey?
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What's wrong?
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[somber music]
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- I didn't know
I'd feel this way.
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[sniffles]
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♪ ♪
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[soft music]
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♪ ♪
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- Whoo!
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Yeah!
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- We have arrived!
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- We're here!
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[cheers and applause]
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- My first night with Gerry
was amazing.
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But walking up to the mansion,
it all became real.
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- [laughs]
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- This is so nice.
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- Gorgeous.
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- Oh, it's beautiful.
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- I'm very excited
about being here
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and getting to know
Gerry better.
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I think that I could fall
in love here very easily.
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- Look at this room.
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How pretty.
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- I cannot believe
I'm actually here.
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- Holy Toledo.
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- It's almost like a dream
that I'm here in the mansion,
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like, "the mansion."
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[all exclaiming]
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- Oh.
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It's pink like Barbie.
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- There's bunk beds.
- Oh, gorgeous.
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- All right.
- All right.
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You claimed it.
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- Oh, my goodness.
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- I guess I get the bunk bed!
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[laughter]
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- I guess so.
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- We're too old for that.
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- I get the bunk,
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and I start thinking,
maybe I'm gonna sleep
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out on the porch tonight,
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or I might find
a closet to sleep in.
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- Is this the closet space?
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Mm-hmm.
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How's this gonna work?
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'Cause we've got four women,
no drawers.
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- Do you like top or bottom?
- Bottom.
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- Okay.
- I can't climb there.
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- I'll go up.
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- Didn't want to be on top.
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I've had my knees replaced.
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That's a lot of climbing.
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So I'm gonna be underneath,
and it puts me
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three steps closer
to the bathroom.
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- How many of you
have to get up in the middle
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of the night to pee?
- I won't do it.
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I won't get out of bed.
- Oh, I will.
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- I have to. Otherwise,
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there's gonna be an accident.
[laughter]
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Sharing a tiny room with four
women at our stage in life,
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it's like we're so set
in our ways.
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It's gonna be hard.
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- Ah! There's a very big
creepy crawler in there.
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- I don't think
we should kill it.
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- I'll kill it.
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I will kill it.
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- This is like big girl camp.
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But I'll be honest with you,
I never liked camp, so...
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[laughs]
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[cheers and applause]
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- Everybody is excited
to experience this journey...
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all: Gerry, Gerry, Gerry!
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- To get to know Gerry
and hopefully fall in love.
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- I think we've all kissed
a lot of frogs in our life.
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[laughter]
- Oh. Hell yeah.
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- I know I have.
- Amen.
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- And Gerry is a kind human,
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good-hearted man
that is very hard to find.
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- Toast to Gerry!
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all: Gerry!
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- Here's to Social Security.
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[cheers and applause]
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Love you.
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- Knock, knock.
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[all exclaiming]
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- Jesse.
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- How are we feeling?
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It's so great seeing you all.
- Good.
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- Good.
- Good.
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- How's The Bachelor mansion?
Have you been enjoying it?
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[all exclaiming]
- Oh, my God.
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We love it.
- It's gorgeous.
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- So are you all ready
to get started?
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- Yeah!
[applause]
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- Oh, I love to hear that.
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I am too.
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And I've got something that
I think can help get started.
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[all exclaiming]
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I'm just gonna put that
right there.
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- What's that?
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- He's gonna repeat it.
- I'm gonna do it.
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- Ladies.
- What is that?
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- What is that?
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- That's a date card.
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- Oh, my God.
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- Are you gonna open it?
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- No, one of you is.
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But listen, ladies, I want you
to have so much fun
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this week, okay?
- I will.
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- Thank you.
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- I'll see you very soon.
- Thank you.
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- All right.
Take care.
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- Bye, Jesse.
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[cheers and applause]
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- Date card.
- Who is gonna open it?
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- Okay.
- Okay.
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- She's gonna do it.
[cheers and applause]
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- Okay.
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[applause]
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- Oh, my God.
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- I had such a special night
with Gerry.
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I'm feeling
a little bit nervous,
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because I got
the First Impression Rose.
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And I don't know.
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Do I want it to be me that
goes on the date with him?
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Of course I do,
so that we can carry on
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what we couldn't finish
when we had our little time
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together last night.
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- Theresa.
- Oh, my God.
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[laughs]
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- "You're never too old
to find love again.
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Love, Gerry."
[cheers and applause]
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Happy birthday!
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[cheers and applause]
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- Happy birthday, Theresa.
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[applause]
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- So I think I'd better
get ready for my date.
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I got the first
one-on-one date.
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I'm thrilled beyond belief.
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But also, I'm really a little
scared because, you know,
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I think that I have
a connection with Gerry.
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But Billy was the love
of my life.
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And can I find that again?
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I got married
when I was 18 years old.
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He was drafted during
the Vietnam War.
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He came home to be with his--
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be in his brother's wedding,
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and we got married
in two days' notice.
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Before my husband, Billy, died,
he actually said to me,
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"I hope you do find someone.
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I hope you get married again."
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And I know that Billy--
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you know, if he was here,
he'd say, "Go for it, Theresa.
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Just go for it."
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Oh, actually, I want to--
can you roll it back like a--
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- Can you trust me?
- Oh, okay.
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[laughs]
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- I've been doing hair
for 35 years.
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- Oh, 35 years.
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Sorry, sorry, sorry.
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[upbeat music]
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♪ ♪
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- This is the very first
one-on-one date,
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and I'm wild with anticipation
right now.
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I'm not gonna lie.
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I can't say
I've been this nervous
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since my first date
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back in my high school years
with Toni.
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- Oh, my God.
He's here. [laughs]
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[all exclaiming]
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- Well, hi, everybody.
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There's a lot riding
on this date.
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Will the feelings that
I hope are there,
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will they--will they flourish?
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Will they blossom?
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- Oh, my God.
This is so great.
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I love it.
Oh, my God, this is great.
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- There could come a day that
we look back on this night
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that we go,
that's where it all started.
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[engine starts]
- Whoa!
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[cheers and applause]
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- I just know that
I'm a bit scared
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because it's been so long,
and I'm so out of practice.
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There's many things
that could go right,
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and there's a lot of things
that could go wrong.
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My headlights aren't working.
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- No.
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- Yeah, that's the worst.
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- Oh, no.
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- Yeah.
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- Have you ever driven
on this road?
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- No.
- No.
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- Believe me,
I'm not a California driver.
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I live in Northern Indiana.
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This is my first time driving
on a California freeway,
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and they are
notoriously insane.
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[semi horn blaring]
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I don't have any headlights
in front of me.
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I don't see highway markings.
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I don't see all the signs
because they're dark.
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We're just about there.
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- Oh, yeah?
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The wind is ripping
through my hair.
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The headlights
are not working.
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- Are you doing okay?
- Yeah. I'm doing great.
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You're doing a wonderful job.
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I hope this is the worst part
of this date,
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because right now,
I'm scared to death.
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♪ ♪
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- Thanks for that.
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[soft music]
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- You're doing so great.
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- Yeah, that was stressful.
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- I know.
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That was stressful
for you driving.
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- You know my headlights
aren't working.
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- I know.
Yeah, the whole while,
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I wanted to put
my hand on your shoulder.
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- The hand on my shoulder
meant a ton.
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- Oh, that's so wonderful.
- Yeah, I mean, seriously.
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- Thank you for telling me
that--that's so great.
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- This is my first time
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driving on
a California freeway,
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and Theresa reaches over,
puts her hand on my shoulder,
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and I instantly felt calm.
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- Your arms feel so good.
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Wow.
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They feel really good.
- [laughs]
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She seems very sensitive,
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and I really want
to know more about her.
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So I'm taking her somewhere
that is tailor-made for me.
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- What is this?
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- When I was starting a career
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and I became
a restaurant owner,
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I was serving
fries and milkshakes,
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and it wasn't elegant.
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- This is so awesome.
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Oh, my God.
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- A date in a diner
with someone
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that I had a good start with
is kind of like going home.
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[bell dings]
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- Hi.
- Good evening.
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- Good evening.
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- Thank you so much.
- How are you?
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- Yes.
I'm very thirsty.
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- I'm good.
- Nice.
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Do you guys know
what you want to eat?
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- How about an order
of fries and a shake?
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- Chocolate,
strawberry, vanilla?
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- Okay.
Do you want to share a shake?
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- Oh, that would be fun.
Chocolate.
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- Fries and a chocolate shake.
- Awesome.
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- Yeah.
That'll do it?
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- Yes.
- No problem.
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I'll be back.
- Thank you.
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- Yeah.
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So I--oh, my gosh.
262
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So yes.
263
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I wanted to tell you...
264
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- Yes, yes, yes?
265
00:08:27,590 --> 00:08:30,552
- That honestly, I didn't
expect to like you as much
266
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as I like you,
because I really felt, like,
267
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a connection to you
the minute I saw you,
268
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when I walked up and then--
269
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- Thank you.
270
00:08:39,561 --> 00:08:41,229
- You kissed me.
271
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And I said, oh, so you
might feel something too.
272
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I don't know.
273
00:08:44,065 --> 00:08:45,024
- Not only once, but twice.
274
00:08:45,024 --> 00:08:46,026
- Yes, it was twice.
275
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You kissed me on the bench.
276
00:08:47,736 --> 00:08:49,529
I like Gerry so much.
277
00:08:49,529 --> 00:08:51,906
I feel like we have
so much in common.
278
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I want tonight to go well.
279
00:08:53,658 --> 00:08:56,661
I really want it to go well,
but not going to force it.
280
00:08:56,661 --> 00:08:59,205
If there is actually
something real here,
281
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it will just naturally develop.
282
00:09:01,374 --> 00:09:04,210
I married my
high school sweetheart.
283
00:09:04,210 --> 00:09:06,713
Sound familiar?
- Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
284
00:09:06,713 --> 00:09:08,590
- I married my
high school sweetheart, Billy.
285
00:09:08,590 --> 00:09:10,258
We were together since
freshman year in high school.
286
00:09:10,258 --> 00:09:12,677
I was 14. He was 16.
287
00:09:12,677 --> 00:09:18,892
And we were married 42 years,
and he passed away.
288
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[somber music]
289
00:09:19,934 --> 00:09:21,269
What happened, ultimately,
290
00:09:21,269 --> 00:09:24,606
was that his kidneys
were not good.
291
00:09:24,606 --> 00:09:28,234
And Billy always had hope
of a kidney transplant.
292
00:09:28,234 --> 00:09:29,903
But one day,
when I was at work,
293
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he, all of a sudden,
takes a turn for the worse.
294
00:09:32,739 --> 00:09:36,785
And I ran home, and I watched
him take his last breath.
295
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♪ ♪
296
00:09:38,953 --> 00:09:41,372
- I'm so sorry.
297
00:09:41,372 --> 00:09:44,292
Loss of a spouse
is the worst thing.
298
00:09:44,292 --> 00:09:45,668
- Thank you for being
so understanding.
299
00:09:45,668 --> 00:09:47,295
- Oh. I know...
300
00:09:47,295 --> 00:09:48,088
- I'm so sorry.
- What the feeling is like.
301
00:09:48,088 --> 00:09:49,422
- I know.
302
00:09:49,422 --> 00:09:50,757
Neither one of us thought
this was gonna happen.
303
00:09:50,757 --> 00:09:51,758
- Yeah, I know.
- We thought we were gonna
304
00:09:51,758 --> 00:09:52,926
live with our spouses
305
00:09:52,926 --> 00:09:54,469
for the rest of our lives.
- Yeah.
306
00:09:54,469 --> 00:09:59,140
- And I'm so sorry that
your wife passed away.
307
00:09:59,140 --> 00:10:00,475
- How long have you been alone?
308
00:10:00,475 --> 00:10:01,935
- Oh, a long time.
309
00:10:01,935 --> 00:10:04,312
My husband has been gone
eight years.
310
00:10:04,312 --> 00:10:06,689
- Eight years?
- Yeah, almost nine years.
311
00:10:06,689 --> 00:10:09,776
- Theresa's story was
so similar to mine.
312
00:10:09,776 --> 00:10:12,487
All of a sudden,
my emotion about my loss,
313
00:10:12,487 --> 00:10:16,074
just looking at her
and listening,
314
00:10:16,074 --> 00:10:18,701
felt just a little different.
315
00:10:18,701 --> 00:10:21,704
I didn't feel like breaking
down and crying for once.
316
00:10:21,704 --> 00:10:25,250
I felt like I was talking
to someone that understood
317
00:10:25,250 --> 00:10:27,126
the loss of a spouse.
318
00:10:27,126 --> 00:10:29,629
Right now, I have a great
circle of friends,
319
00:10:29,629 --> 00:10:31,422
but I'm lonely.
320
00:10:31,422 --> 00:10:34,092
- That's exactly what I think.
I feel lonely.
321
00:10:34,092 --> 00:10:36,094
I don't want to be alone.
I don't want to be alone.
322
00:10:36,094 --> 00:10:38,888
- You want to have somebody
to talk about the sunset.
323
00:10:38,888 --> 00:10:40,140
- Right.
- It's okay.
324
00:10:40,140 --> 00:10:41,474
It's a beautiful sunset.
325
00:10:41,474 --> 00:10:42,559
And you walk inside
and you go--
326
00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:44,144
- Yeah. Like, who's here?
327
00:10:44,144 --> 00:10:46,229
- Well, who do I share it with?
- Right. I want that.
328
00:10:46,229 --> 00:10:49,691
I want to be with someone,
and there's no time to waste.
329
00:10:49,691 --> 00:10:51,359
Like, at this age, we just
don't want to waste time.
330
00:10:51,359 --> 00:10:52,360
- That's true.
331
00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:53,486
- Just say how you feel.
332
00:10:53,486 --> 00:10:54,904
- Well, I got to tell you--
333
00:10:54,904 --> 00:10:56,489
- What? What?
334
00:10:56,489 --> 00:10:57,866
- I really like you a lot.
335
00:10:57,866 --> 00:10:59,701
- Ah! Aw.
336
00:10:59,701 --> 00:11:00,702
- I really do.
337
00:11:00,702 --> 00:11:02,328
There's a calm.
338
00:11:02,328 --> 00:11:05,748
There's a peacefulness
with Theresa.
339
00:11:05,748 --> 00:11:06,749
- Mmm.
340
00:11:06,749 --> 00:11:08,293
[slurping]
341
00:11:08,293 --> 00:11:09,794
[giggles]
342
00:11:09,794 --> 00:11:12,755
- It's amazing
to know that just
343
00:11:12,755 --> 00:11:17,594
a gentle touch and a few words
and we're back
344
00:11:17,594 --> 00:11:20,138
to hopefulness
about the future.
345
00:11:20,138 --> 00:11:21,180
- Would you learn
to speak Italian with me?
346
00:11:21,180 --> 00:11:22,849
- Of course.
347
00:11:22,849 --> 00:11:25,268
- We could learn the language
and then go to Italy.
348
00:11:25,268 --> 00:11:27,228
- I'm in on that.
- All right. Do it. Do it.
349
00:11:27,228 --> 00:11:29,105
Do it. Let's do it.
Let's do it.
350
00:11:29,105 --> 00:11:31,274
- Going into the date tonight,
I hoped
351
00:11:31,274 --> 00:11:33,234
I would have a connection
with Theresa.
352
00:11:33,234 --> 00:11:36,571
But once I discovered
the depth of that connection,
353
00:11:36,571 --> 00:11:41,242
it was far beyond
the expectations that I had.
354
00:11:41,242 --> 00:11:43,161
We have both been
to hell and back.
355
00:11:43,161 --> 00:11:45,163
- Yes.
- We have lost,
356
00:11:45,163 --> 00:11:46,706
and we've overcome.
- Yes.
357
00:11:46,706 --> 00:11:47,874
- We're still alive
and kicking.
358
00:11:47,874 --> 00:11:50,543
- Yeah.
- And there's hope.
359
00:11:50,543 --> 00:11:52,670
We have hope.
- I know that there's hope.
360
00:11:52,670 --> 00:11:55,006
- Not just hope to get
to the next day,
361
00:11:55,006 --> 00:11:57,467
but there's hope that I have
someone that I can enjoy
362
00:11:57,467 --> 00:11:58,885
the rest of my life with.
363
00:11:58,885 --> 00:12:00,595
- Oh, my God.
That's how I feel.
364
00:12:00,595 --> 00:12:02,555
- And that hope is huge.
365
00:12:02,555 --> 00:12:04,641
- That's what you need
to wake up each morning.
366
00:12:04,641 --> 00:12:05,892
You need hope.
367
00:12:05,892 --> 00:12:07,101
- You don't stop believing.
368
00:12:07,101 --> 00:12:08,353
- That's right.
Oh, that song.
369
00:12:08,353 --> 00:12:09,479
That's great.
370
00:12:09,479 --> 00:12:10,939
- You just don't stop
believing.
371
00:12:10,939 --> 00:12:12,106
- That's awesome.
That's good.
372
00:12:12,106 --> 00:12:13,816
- Isn't that right?
- Whoo!
373
00:12:13,816 --> 00:12:15,860
- Whoo!
- Whoo!
374
00:12:15,860 --> 00:12:19,447
[Journey's
"Don't Stop Believing"]
375
00:12:19,447 --> 00:12:20,823
- Oh, my God.
376
00:12:20,823 --> 00:12:24,285
[cheers and applause]
377
00:12:24,285 --> 00:12:25,954
Wow, what is this?
378
00:12:25,954 --> 00:12:26,871
- "Don't Stop Believing."
379
00:12:26,871 --> 00:12:29,332
- Oh, my God! [laughs]
380
00:12:29,332 --> 00:12:30,750
- Pretty awesome, isn't it?
381
00:12:30,750 --> 00:12:34,212
- ♪ Strangers waiting ♪
382
00:12:34,212 --> 00:12:36,756
♪ Up and down the boulevard ♪
383
00:12:36,756 --> 00:12:38,633
- Oh, look at this.
384
00:12:38,633 --> 00:12:43,554
- ♪ Shadows searching
in the night ♪
385
00:12:43,554 --> 00:12:45,431
♪ ♪
386
00:12:45,431 --> 00:12:48,518
♪ Streetlights, people ♪
387
00:12:48,518 --> 00:12:50,144
- I had no idea
this was gonna happen.
388
00:12:50,144 --> 00:12:53,356
And all of a sudden, we're in
the middle of a flash mob.
389
00:12:53,356 --> 00:12:55,942
I've already had
the most amazing date,
390
00:12:55,942 --> 00:12:57,735
but this is spectacular.
391
00:12:57,735 --> 00:13:01,739
- ♪ Night ♪
392
00:13:01,739 --> 00:13:04,742
[cheers and applause]
393
00:13:04,742 --> 00:13:09,163
♪ ♪
394
00:13:09,163 --> 00:13:14,502
♪ Don't stop believin' ♪
395
00:13:14,502 --> 00:13:17,380
- "Don't Stop Believing"
is how I feel.
396
00:13:17,380 --> 00:13:19,799
Don't stop believing that
you can find true love,
397
00:13:19,799 --> 00:13:21,134
even at this age.
398
00:13:21,134 --> 00:13:25,596
- ♪ People ♪
399
00:13:25,596 --> 00:13:30,810
- Tonight, I felt promise,
and I felt hope.
400
00:13:30,810 --> 00:13:33,479
Theresa could be the person
401
00:13:33,479 --> 00:13:36,190
I spend the rest
of my days with.
402
00:13:36,190 --> 00:13:38,318
So she could be
my life partner,
403
00:13:38,318 --> 00:13:41,320
and I think it would be
very comfortable.
404
00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:44,490
- ♪ Don't stop believin' ♪
405
00:13:44,490 --> 00:13:47,952
- Theresa, we have both had
an incredible night.
406
00:13:47,952 --> 00:13:49,954
Will you accept this rose?
407
00:13:49,954 --> 00:13:51,664
- Oh, my God. Yes.
408
00:13:51,664 --> 00:13:52,832
Yes, I do.
409
00:13:52,832 --> 00:13:54,584
[cheers and applause]
410
00:13:54,584 --> 00:13:56,961
- You are so loveable.
411
00:13:56,961 --> 00:13:59,422
- I am feeling ecstatic
right now.
412
00:13:59,422 --> 00:14:01,591
This rose means
everything to me.
413
00:14:01,591 --> 00:14:04,052
I seriously have hope now,
even at this age.
414
00:14:04,052 --> 00:14:05,720
I just turned 70.
415
00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:08,890
And to think that there
could be a future with a man
416
00:14:08,890 --> 00:14:11,601
and to think that
Gerry could be that man
417
00:14:11,601 --> 00:14:13,102
is just simply amazing.
418
00:14:13,102 --> 00:14:14,896
- ♪ Don't stop believin' ♪
419
00:14:17,065 --> 00:14:21,402
[upbeat music]
420
00:14:21,402 --> 00:14:23,446
[camera shutter snapping]
- Very nice. Yeah.
421
00:14:23,446 --> 00:14:24,781
And give me, like--
422
00:14:24,781 --> 00:14:26,199
- A little movement?
423
00:14:26,199 --> 00:14:27,408
- Yeah, yeah,
like--what is it?
424
00:14:27,408 --> 00:14:28,409
Blue Steel.
That kind of situation.
425
00:14:28,409 --> 00:14:30,703
[laughs]
426
00:14:30,703 --> 00:14:32,705
- Today is the first
group date.
427
00:14:32,705 --> 00:14:37,168
For me, at 71, the mere concept
of a group date
428
00:14:37,168 --> 00:14:40,421
with 12 women is not normal,
not even close.
429
00:14:40,421 --> 00:14:41,756
- Let's do James Bond.
430
00:14:41,756 --> 00:14:43,424
There you go.
431
00:14:43,424 --> 00:14:44,592
- But I think it's gonna be
a wonderful day.
432
00:14:44,592 --> 00:14:45,885
Hey, ladies.
433
00:14:45,885 --> 00:14:47,095
Come on over.
434
00:14:47,095 --> 00:14:48,387
[cheers and applause]
435
00:14:48,387 --> 00:14:51,224
- I see Gerry,
and he looks tan.
436
00:14:51,224 --> 00:14:52,809
Beautiful smile.
437
00:14:52,809 --> 00:14:53,893
Great haircut.
438
00:14:53,893 --> 00:14:55,686
Actually, for his age,
439
00:14:55,686 --> 00:14:57,855
he looks absolutely wonderful.
440
00:14:57,855 --> 00:15:00,483
- Ladies, I am so excited
to see you today.
441
00:15:00,483 --> 00:15:02,944
I have a really terrific
day planned.
442
00:15:02,944 --> 00:15:07,115
We are going to do
a romance novel cover shoot.
443
00:15:07,115 --> 00:15:08,491
- Oh, my God.
444
00:15:08,491 --> 00:15:09,742
- Oh, my God.
445
00:15:09,742 --> 00:15:11,035
- Oh, my God.
So beautiful!
446
00:15:11,035 --> 00:15:12,954
- Let me introduce
someone who's
447
00:15:12,954 --> 00:15:16,332
an icon to the show, Franco.
448
00:15:16,332 --> 00:15:17,500
[cheers and applause]
449
00:15:17,500 --> 00:15:19,585
Come over here, Franco.
- Amazing.
450
00:15:19,585 --> 00:15:24,966
- Today's overall concept
is that at any age,
451
00:15:24,966 --> 00:15:27,552
you can be sexy,
and you can be attractive,
452
00:15:27,552 --> 00:15:29,428
and that you can do
whatever you want.
453
00:15:29,428 --> 00:15:31,973
- I've chosen some nice,
fun outfits that
454
00:15:31,973 --> 00:15:35,518
you all have 10 minutes
to go and pick and grab
455
00:15:35,518 --> 00:15:37,728
the one that speaks to you.
456
00:15:37,728 --> 00:15:40,523
Young man, you got
a lot coming up here.
457
00:15:40,523 --> 00:15:41,607
How are you gonna do that?
458
00:15:41,607 --> 00:15:42,859
But go and grab your outfit.
459
00:15:42,859 --> 00:15:44,068
You have 10 minutes.
460
00:15:44,068 --> 00:15:45,111
Then come back to me.
- No running.
461
00:15:45,111 --> 00:15:46,863
- Have fun.
- No running.
462
00:15:46,863 --> 00:15:47,989
- You guys are running.
- Oh, we're running?
463
00:15:47,989 --> 00:15:49,282
- I'm not running.
464
00:15:49,282 --> 00:15:50,491
I'm walking fast.
465
00:15:50,491 --> 00:15:52,034
I'm getting the pink one.
466
00:15:52,034 --> 00:15:53,035
- Oh, you're getting
the pink one?
467
00:15:53,035 --> 00:15:53,786
Okay, I'll let you have it.
468
00:15:53,786 --> 00:15:54,787
- I'm a mermaid.
469
00:15:54,787 --> 00:15:56,038
- There is a bouquet.
470
00:15:56,038 --> 00:15:57,123
- Well, that's for the bride.
471
00:15:57,123 --> 00:15:58,833
- Whoo!
[laughter]
472
00:15:58,833 --> 00:15:59,959
♪ ♪
473
00:15:59,959 --> 00:16:01,586
- I'm taking the peace sign.
474
00:16:01,586 --> 00:16:03,004
- I'm taking--
- Don't take this one.
475
00:16:03,004 --> 00:16:04,213
I'm taking this one.
- You think?
476
00:16:04,213 --> 00:16:05,840
You think?
- Okay. Of course. [laughs]
477
00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,384
I had a '70s costume
478
00:16:08,384 --> 00:16:10,970
because I feel like
I'm a little '70s girl.
479
00:16:10,970 --> 00:16:13,806
But by the time I was there,
480
00:16:13,806 --> 00:16:17,435
I looked around and this was
the only thing left.
481
00:16:17,435 --> 00:16:19,604
No offense to people
that love the '80s,
482
00:16:19,604 --> 00:16:21,898
but '80s is not my vibe at all.
483
00:16:21,898 --> 00:16:25,234
- Natascha, you look amazing!
484
00:16:25,234 --> 00:16:29,030
- I love this outfit because
I love color and pizzazz,
485
00:16:29,030 --> 00:16:31,240
and it represents me.
486
00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:34,785
Funky, groovy, and bringing it
back to the '70s.
487
00:16:34,785 --> 00:16:37,246
Whoo-hoo!
488
00:16:37,246 --> 00:16:39,248
I'm gonna say perfect.
489
00:16:39,248 --> 00:16:41,709
- Ladies, where
are my cover girls?
490
00:16:41,709 --> 00:16:44,629
[upbeat music]
491
00:16:44,629 --> 00:16:46,464
♪ ♪
492
00:16:46,464 --> 00:16:48,925
- It's time
for the photo shoot,
493
00:16:48,925 --> 00:16:52,303
and I can't wait to see
what's gonna happen.
494
00:16:52,303 --> 00:16:54,639
And I really want to see
how I am able
495
00:16:54,639 --> 00:16:56,390
to interact with the women,
496
00:16:56,390 --> 00:16:58,267
if they have a great
sense of humor.
497
00:16:58,267 --> 00:17:00,436
If they screw up and they can
laugh at themselves,
498
00:17:00,436 --> 00:17:01,854
that's huge.
499
00:17:01,854 --> 00:17:03,898
- Our first photo shoot
is going to be
500
00:17:03,898 --> 00:17:05,858
The Island of Desire.
501
00:17:05,858 --> 00:17:08,402
April, Jeanie, and Kathy.
- Whoo!
502
00:17:08,402 --> 00:17:11,697
- Frankly, I think all
romance covers look the same.
503
00:17:11,697 --> 00:17:13,783
It's all a guy with,
you know, dark hair
504
00:17:13,783 --> 00:17:15,034
flowing down his back.
505
00:17:15,034 --> 00:17:17,453
- Gerry, put your long hair on.
506
00:17:17,453 --> 00:17:19,330
[laughter]
507
00:17:19,330 --> 00:17:21,082
- He looks hilarious.
508
00:17:21,082 --> 00:17:22,416
- It's a different look.
509
00:17:22,416 --> 00:17:24,293
- I feel like I've got
a raccoon on my head.
510
00:17:24,293 --> 00:17:27,004
- Oh, my God.
- [laughs]
511
00:17:27,004 --> 00:17:30,633
- Actually, I don't feel
too bad this way.
512
00:17:30,633 --> 00:17:32,468
- Okay. Okay, everyone.
Pay attention.
513
00:17:32,468 --> 00:17:33,803
[upbeat music]
514
00:17:33,803 --> 00:17:34,554
[camera shutter snaps]
515
00:17:34,554 --> 00:17:35,596
- Oh.
516
00:17:35,596 --> 00:17:36,681
- I love it.
517
00:17:36,681 --> 00:17:38,266
They adore him.
518
00:17:38,266 --> 00:17:39,392
[camera shutter snaps]
519
00:17:39,392 --> 00:17:41,686
Where's the wind in his hair?
520
00:17:41,686 --> 00:17:42,687
- Oh, yeah.
521
00:17:42,687 --> 00:17:45,147
You need the wind.
522
00:17:45,147 --> 00:17:46,482
- Yes.
523
00:17:46,482 --> 00:17:48,693
Romance.
524
00:17:48,693 --> 00:17:49,694
[camera shutter snaps]
525
00:17:49,694 --> 00:17:51,362
- Honestly, today,
526
00:17:51,362 --> 00:17:54,740
Gerry was having
a bad hair day, frankly.
527
00:17:54,740 --> 00:17:58,369
He looked more like his dog
than he did like Gerry.
528
00:17:58,369 --> 00:18:00,788
But he's a good sport
and he played it well.
529
00:18:00,788 --> 00:18:02,248
[camera shutter snaps]
530
00:18:02,248 --> 00:18:04,584
- Now I need
my Summer of Love group.
531
00:18:04,584 --> 00:18:07,086
- Natascha.
- Amazing.
532
00:18:07,086 --> 00:18:09,422
Oh, this is so good.
533
00:18:09,422 --> 00:18:11,007
- That was one of the best
eras of all time.
534
00:18:11,007 --> 00:18:12,216
- I am a hippie.
- I'm sorry.
535
00:18:12,216 --> 00:18:13,301
I sometimes still dress
like that.
536
00:18:13,301 --> 00:18:14,677
- I'm a hippie.
537
00:18:14,677 --> 00:18:16,804
- So now give me the whole
Summer of Love vibe.
538
00:18:16,804 --> 00:18:18,139
Fun.
539
00:18:18,139 --> 00:18:19,432
Free love.
540
00:18:19,432 --> 00:18:21,142
[camera shutter snaps]
541
00:18:21,142 --> 00:18:22,518
- I'm still
a little upset that
542
00:18:22,518 --> 00:18:25,021
Natascha took the outfit
that I wanted.
543
00:18:25,021 --> 00:18:26,981
I'm allowed to feel upset.
544
00:18:26,981 --> 00:18:27,815
I'm allowed to feel that.
545
00:18:27,815 --> 00:18:29,483
- Oh, amazing.
546
00:18:29,483 --> 00:18:30,693
[camera shutter snaps]
547
00:18:30,693 --> 00:18:31,736
- But once I show
my emotions,
548
00:18:31,736 --> 00:18:33,279
I'm kind of over it.
549
00:18:33,279 --> 00:18:34,780
- Road to Passion.
550
00:18:34,780 --> 00:18:37,158
Edith and Leslie.
551
00:18:37,158 --> 00:18:38,909
[cheers and applause]
552
00:18:38,909 --> 00:18:40,202
- I am not gonna let this
553
00:18:40,202 --> 00:18:41,787
affect my time
with Gerry at all.
554
00:18:41,787 --> 00:18:43,289
- It's so sexy.
555
00:18:43,289 --> 00:18:45,124
[camera shutter snaps]
556
00:18:45,124 --> 00:18:46,542
Vroom, vroom.
557
00:18:46,542 --> 00:18:48,127
- Even though this wasn't
my first choice,
558
00:18:48,127 --> 00:18:50,463
I'm kind of a rocker chick.
559
00:18:50,463 --> 00:18:51,756
So I made it work.
560
00:18:51,756 --> 00:18:53,966
[rock music]
561
00:18:53,966 --> 00:18:55,801
[camera shutter snaps]
562
00:18:55,801 --> 00:18:57,803
- I just think it's fun, like,
being goofy and dressing up.
563
00:18:57,803 --> 00:18:59,597
- Yeah.
564
00:18:59,597 --> 00:19:00,514
- It just brings out
a different personality
565
00:19:00,514 --> 00:19:02,016
when you're dressed up.
- Sure.
566
00:19:02,016 --> 00:19:03,142
- When you dress up,
you're not so reserved.
567
00:19:03,142 --> 00:19:04,018
You know?
- It's role playing.
568
00:19:04,018 --> 00:19:05,811
- You have to be the role.
569
00:19:05,811 --> 00:19:09,065
- Taking photos with Gerry
is fun and playful.
570
00:19:09,065 --> 00:19:11,025
Everyone is
enjoying themselves,
571
00:19:11,025 --> 00:19:13,944
and it is just
an amazing experience.
572
00:19:13,944 --> 00:19:17,281
I mean, when's the last time
I wore a wedding gown?
573
00:19:17,281 --> 00:19:19,992
- [sniffling]
574
00:19:19,992 --> 00:19:22,787
- What's wrong, baby?
575
00:19:22,787 --> 00:19:24,830
What's wrong, honey?
576
00:19:24,830 --> 00:19:27,041
What's wrong?
577
00:19:27,041 --> 00:19:28,876
You're beautiful.
- [sniffles]
578
00:19:28,876 --> 00:19:34,548
It just hit me that I haven't
had a wedding dress--
579
00:19:34,548 --> 00:19:35,925
sorry.
580
00:19:35,925 --> 00:19:37,760
[somber music]
581
00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:41,639
I just haven't had a wedding
dress on since I got married.
582
00:19:41,639 --> 00:19:43,182
- I would have taken it.
583
00:19:43,182 --> 00:19:44,892
You could have done this.
584
00:19:44,892 --> 00:19:46,686
- I didn't know
I'd feel this way.
585
00:19:46,686 --> 00:19:48,938
All of a sudden,
it just brought back
586
00:19:48,938 --> 00:19:51,649
all of these emotions,
587
00:19:51,649 --> 00:19:56,028
and I mean,
the best day of my life
588
00:19:56,028 --> 00:19:57,822
was getting married
to my husband, Mark.
589
00:19:57,822 --> 00:19:59,698
- There's a connection
that has to happen here
590
00:19:59,698 --> 00:20:01,450
that I need to feel.
- I gotta back up.
591
00:20:01,450 --> 00:20:03,494
- So you can look
into each other's eyes
592
00:20:03,494 --> 00:20:05,621
and really say I do.
593
00:20:05,621 --> 00:20:07,081
[camera shutter snaps]
594
00:20:07,081 --> 00:20:08,708
- And I know this
in my rational mind.
595
00:20:08,708 --> 00:20:09,708
I know this.
596
00:20:09,708 --> 00:20:11,210
He passed away.
597
00:20:11,210 --> 00:20:12,586
It's been 12 years.
598
00:20:12,586 --> 00:20:14,046
- You guys can look at me both
599
00:20:14,046 --> 00:20:16,966
and share your love
with me into the c--
600
00:20:16,966 --> 00:20:18,467
oh, beautiful.
601
00:20:18,467 --> 00:20:20,219
- But I'm remembering
my wedding
602
00:20:20,219 --> 00:20:23,431
and how I felt that day.
603
00:20:23,431 --> 00:20:26,642
And it was the best day
of my life,
604
00:20:26,642 --> 00:20:28,978
other than having
my three children.
605
00:20:28,978 --> 00:20:31,021
And it's still
the best day of my life.
606
00:20:31,021 --> 00:20:33,816
So it just made me--
607
00:20:33,816 --> 00:20:36,694
I really miss him still.
608
00:20:36,694 --> 00:20:37,820
- Right here, Nancy.
- Okay.
609
00:20:37,820 --> 00:20:38,821
- Oh, my God.
610
00:20:38,821 --> 00:20:39,989
You look so beautiful.
611
00:20:39,989 --> 00:20:41,240
- You really do look gorgeous.
612
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:42,241
- Thank you.
613
00:20:42,241 --> 00:20:43,367
- Yes, indeed.
614
00:20:43,367 --> 00:20:44,744
- You look awesome.
- Amazing.
615
00:20:44,744 --> 00:20:46,704
- You're what?
616
00:20:46,704 --> 00:20:49,874
I'm just trying to calm down
and get through it,
617
00:20:49,874 --> 00:20:51,292
and I'll be okay.
618
00:20:51,292 --> 00:20:54,378
But it's a lot.
619
00:20:54,378 --> 00:20:55,421
♪ ♪
620
00:20:55,421 --> 00:20:56,213
[camera shutter snaps]
621
00:20:58,382 --> 00:21:01,260
[soft music]
622
00:21:01,260 --> 00:21:02,762
♪ ♪
623
00:21:02,762 --> 00:21:04,680
- Hey, remember me?
624
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,766
The first group date
has been a lot of fun,
625
00:21:07,766 --> 00:21:11,312
but I really want to have
a conversation with Nancy,
626
00:21:11,312 --> 00:21:13,522
because during
the photo shoot,
627
00:21:13,522 --> 00:21:16,609
I noticed that Nancy
just wasn't herself.
628
00:21:16,609 --> 00:21:19,528
Perhaps it was
an attitude towards me
629
00:21:19,528 --> 00:21:21,780
or a problem with
the women in the house.
630
00:21:21,780 --> 00:21:23,324
I'm not sure.
631
00:21:23,324 --> 00:21:25,493
I was looking forward
to talking to you.
632
00:21:25,493 --> 00:21:27,328
- Thank you. Yeah.
- Okay?
633
00:21:27,328 --> 00:21:30,331
But it seems like
we're missing each other,
634
00:21:30,331 --> 00:21:32,500
that there's a--a disconnect.
635
00:21:32,500 --> 00:21:35,628
And I'm wondering if there
was--if there's something wrong
636
00:21:35,628 --> 00:21:37,463
or if it's--
- Oh, today?
637
00:21:37,463 --> 00:21:38,714
- Yeah.
638
00:21:38,714 --> 00:21:41,884
- Um, well,
I'll be honest with you.
639
00:21:41,884 --> 00:21:47,765
I haven't had a wedding dress
on for, gosh, 36 years.
640
00:21:47,765 --> 00:21:50,935
And it was when I married
the love of my life.
641
00:21:50,935 --> 00:21:52,353
- Oh, Nancy.
- No.
642
00:21:52,353 --> 00:21:55,898
And I was like,
this evokes and brings up
643
00:21:55,898 --> 00:22:00,110
so many emotions
that were all good.
644
00:22:00,110 --> 00:22:03,155
I was lucky to have my husband.
645
00:22:03,155 --> 00:22:04,406
I was lucky.
646
00:22:04,406 --> 00:22:06,283
He's the father
of my three children.
647
00:22:06,283 --> 00:22:09,245
But just having on
a wedding dress, like, I--
648
00:22:09,245 --> 00:22:11,038
I don't know.
It was overwhelming.
649
00:22:11,038 --> 00:22:14,667
- I can relate to what
happened to you today.
650
00:22:14,667 --> 00:22:17,962
I was walking two years--
well, that was a year ago.
651
00:22:17,962 --> 00:22:19,338
- Mm.
- One year ago.
652
00:22:19,338 --> 00:22:21,423
And I walked in front
of this bakery,
653
00:22:21,423 --> 00:22:23,175
and the smell
of cinnamon hit me.
654
00:22:23,175 --> 00:22:26,262
- Mmm.
- And my wife used to make
655
00:22:26,262 --> 00:22:28,514
cinnamon balls at Christmas.
- Oh.
656
00:22:28,514 --> 00:22:31,225
- And that instant,
when I smelled the cinnamon,
657
00:22:31,225 --> 00:22:36,397
got me just about as hard
as the wedding dress got you.
658
00:22:36,397 --> 00:22:37,398
- And you didn't expect it,
right?
659
00:22:37,398 --> 00:22:39,024
- No.
That's the worst of it.
660
00:22:39,024 --> 00:22:40,651
- It just--it just hits you.
- It just comes out of nowhere.
661
00:22:40,651 --> 00:22:42,278
- Yeah. I--
662
00:22:42,278 --> 00:22:44,780
you know, even though
I was sad earlier,
663
00:22:44,780 --> 00:22:47,992
I still felt hopeful.
664
00:22:47,992 --> 00:22:52,371
So there's joy in remembering.
665
00:22:52,371 --> 00:22:55,374
But then I still have hope
moving forward.
666
00:22:55,374 --> 00:22:57,334
And I think
that's really important.
667
00:22:57,334 --> 00:22:58,919
- That's awesome.
- Thank you.
668
00:22:58,919 --> 00:22:59,962
I appreciate it.
- Would you give me a hug?
669
00:22:59,962 --> 00:23:01,046
- Ah!
- All right.
670
00:23:01,046 --> 00:23:02,882
- Thank you so much. Thank you.
671
00:23:02,882 --> 00:23:07,052
Sharing what we did today
was a huge step.
672
00:23:07,052 --> 00:23:12,558
And talking to Gerry today,
I felt comfortable.
673
00:23:12,558 --> 00:23:14,518
He's very genuine.
[camera shutter snaps]
674
00:23:14,518 --> 00:23:16,562
I feel a lot better now,
675
00:23:16,562 --> 00:23:19,857
and I think
he made me feel that way.
676
00:23:19,857 --> 00:23:22,067
[camera shutter snaps]
677
00:23:22,067 --> 00:23:25,154
[indistinct chatter]
678
00:23:25,154 --> 00:23:26,906
- I just noticed
the rose right there.
679
00:23:26,906 --> 00:23:28,365
- Yeah, there it is.
- Oh, my God.
680
00:23:28,365 --> 00:23:29,992
I didn't even see that.
- I just noticed that.
681
00:23:29,992 --> 00:23:31,118
[indistinct chatter]
- Oh!
682
00:23:31,118 --> 00:23:33,329
- The elephant in the room.
683
00:23:33,329 --> 00:23:35,247
- If I got that rose,
it would make me feel
684
00:23:35,247 --> 00:23:36,624
very special,
because the girls here
685
00:23:36,624 --> 00:23:38,167
are very special.
686
00:23:38,167 --> 00:23:42,212
So having him remember me
for the little bit extra
687
00:23:42,212 --> 00:23:44,048
would mean a whole lot to me.
688
00:23:44,048 --> 00:23:46,675
- How fabulous
would that rose look
689
00:23:46,675 --> 00:23:49,011
with this beautiful dress?
690
00:23:49,011 --> 00:23:51,055
I mean, it's a perfect match,
right?
691
00:23:51,055 --> 00:23:53,307
Red dress, red rose. I'm in.
692
00:23:53,307 --> 00:23:55,017
- Just call it--
- Just give me a rose.
693
00:23:55,017 --> 00:23:56,393
That's all I want.
- Yes.
694
00:23:56,393 --> 00:23:58,062
- [laughs]
695
00:23:58,062 --> 00:23:59,438
- Do you remember
where you were at
696
00:23:59,438 --> 00:24:00,940
when Woodstock was going on?
697
00:24:00,940 --> 00:24:02,900
- Yes, I was having a child.
698
00:24:02,900 --> 00:24:04,401
- You didn't get to celebrate
that as much as you wanted.
699
00:24:04,401 --> 00:24:05,944
- No, but I was supposed to go.
700
00:24:05,944 --> 00:24:08,405
But I ended up having
a baby instead.
701
00:24:08,405 --> 00:24:09,907
- Were you seriously gonna go?
702
00:24:09,907 --> 00:24:11,241
- Oh, yeah. Of course.
703
00:24:11,241 --> 00:24:12,868
That's--yes, I was.
704
00:24:12,868 --> 00:24:16,038
- That's an interesting bit
of information about you.
705
00:24:16,038 --> 00:24:19,750
The women on today's
group date are incredible.
706
00:24:19,750 --> 00:24:21,585
They're keeping me on my toes.
707
00:24:21,585 --> 00:24:22,795
This is a lot of fun.
708
00:24:22,795 --> 00:24:24,713
- Fun is important.
709
00:24:24,713 --> 00:24:26,507
Honesty, integrity, good looks.
710
00:24:26,507 --> 00:24:28,258
But you know, good looks...
- Fade.
711
00:24:28,258 --> 00:24:30,344
- when I'm 100, I plan
to still be good-looking.
712
00:24:30,344 --> 00:24:31,804
- [laughs]
713
00:24:31,804 --> 00:24:34,139
I'm learning so many
new and interesting things
714
00:24:34,139 --> 00:24:37,226
about these women as I have
a chance to talk to them.
715
00:24:37,226 --> 00:24:39,144
- I plant corn,
and so I make all this.
716
00:24:39,144 --> 00:24:40,562
- Do you?
- Mm-hmm.
717
00:24:40,562 --> 00:24:42,982
- Edith, I've learned,
loves to cook.
718
00:24:42,982 --> 00:24:45,109
Ellen has a master's degree.
719
00:24:45,109 --> 00:24:46,110
In what?
720
00:24:46,110 --> 00:24:47,611
- I got honors master's degree
721
00:24:47,611 --> 00:24:48,988
in health education
722
00:24:48,988 --> 00:24:51,699
and an undergraduate
in physical education.
723
00:24:51,699 --> 00:24:54,368
- April is very spiritual.
724
00:24:54,368 --> 00:24:57,496
- I really believe that
my job here on this planet
725
00:24:57,496 --> 00:25:00,374
is to open up the hearts
of others.
726
00:25:00,374 --> 00:25:02,000
- I'm really starting
to get to know
727
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:03,585
these women on a deeper level.
728
00:25:03,585 --> 00:25:06,714
As I've learned about them,
I see so much potential.
729
00:25:06,714 --> 00:25:08,257
And that's why I'm here.
730
00:25:08,257 --> 00:25:10,092
What do you say to guys
731
00:25:10,092 --> 00:25:11,844
that have only known you
a very short time
732
00:25:11,844 --> 00:25:14,179
that tell you
you're a really sexy woman?
733
00:25:14,179 --> 00:25:16,765
- Mm.
- You carry yourself well.
734
00:25:16,765 --> 00:25:19,184
You have that look in your eye
like, don't mess with me.
735
00:25:19,184 --> 00:25:21,311
- [laughs] Totally.
736
00:25:21,311 --> 00:25:22,688
- It's a state of mind
for you, almost.
737
00:25:22,688 --> 00:25:24,064
Isn't it?
- It is.
738
00:25:24,064 --> 00:25:27,401
But I also am very sensitive.
739
00:25:27,401 --> 00:25:29,028
And I like to speak
from my heart.
740
00:25:29,028 --> 00:25:30,529
- Nice.
- Yeah.
741
00:25:30,529 --> 00:25:32,281
And so, like, the other night
at the Rose Ceremony,
742
00:25:32,281 --> 00:25:35,075
when I was giving you a toast,
I got a little choked up,
743
00:25:35,075 --> 00:25:38,328
because, um, you--[laughs]
744
00:25:38,328 --> 00:25:40,414
You are really amazing.
745
00:25:40,414 --> 00:25:42,666
And meeting you in person,
746
00:25:42,666 --> 00:25:45,753
um, your beauty from within
just came out.
747
00:25:45,753 --> 00:25:50,382
And--and I--there's not
many men like you.
748
00:25:50,382 --> 00:25:52,050
- Oh, my goodness. Thank you.
749
00:25:52,050 --> 00:25:55,095
That's an awful nice
compliment.
750
00:25:55,095 --> 00:25:57,097
- Yeah.
- So it's kind of interesting,
751
00:25:57,097 --> 00:26:02,644
because now the Leslie
that is on the outside...
752
00:26:02,644 --> 00:26:05,147
- Mm.
- Isn't really the Leslie
753
00:26:05,147 --> 00:26:06,482
that's on the inside.
- No.
754
00:26:06,482 --> 00:26:07,983
- You've got that soft,
gooey inside.
755
00:26:07,983 --> 00:26:08,984
- I do.
- Don't you?
756
00:26:08,984 --> 00:26:10,527
- I'm kind of like a lava cake.
757
00:26:10,527 --> 00:26:12,196
- You've really clarified
some things for me.
758
00:26:12,196 --> 00:26:13,280
- [laughs]
759
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:14,490
- You really have.
760
00:26:14,490 --> 00:26:16,200
- There's one more thing
I need to clarify.
761
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:18,327
- Only one?
- Well, no. Many.
762
00:26:18,327 --> 00:26:22,706
But if you ever want to whisper
sweet nothings in my ear,
763
00:26:22,706 --> 00:26:24,166
I will be able to hear you.
764
00:26:24,166 --> 00:26:25,542
- Oh, my God.
765
00:26:25,542 --> 00:26:30,506
[laughter]
766
00:26:30,506 --> 00:26:32,925
If I'm on the other side
of you, will you hear it?
767
00:26:32,925 --> 00:26:34,510
- You can--hear that too.
768
00:26:34,510 --> 00:26:36,220
- Oh, my God.
769
00:26:36,220 --> 00:26:38,680
Leslie shows me that she has
two hearing aids as well.
770
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:40,682
And I thought that was
really kind of darling.
771
00:26:40,682 --> 00:26:46,396
And it spoke to how sensitive
she is and how warm she is.
772
00:26:46,396 --> 00:26:48,273
So if I whisper softly--
773
00:26:48,273 --> 00:26:49,775
- Now I can hear you.
774
00:26:49,775 --> 00:26:52,027
- Really?
- Mm-hmm.
775
00:26:52,027 --> 00:26:54,780
- [whispering indistinctly]
776
00:26:54,780 --> 00:26:56,365
- [kisses, laughs]
777
00:26:56,365 --> 00:26:57,157
Whoo!
778
00:26:59,451 --> 00:27:01,537
- We're not gonna say.
779
00:27:01,537 --> 00:27:03,372
That's for me to know.
780
00:27:03,372 --> 00:27:05,374
I got to keep some
things private.
781
00:27:05,374 --> 00:27:06,959
- I'd be really happy
with a hug.
782
00:27:06,959 --> 00:27:08,585
- I would love that.
783
00:27:08,585 --> 00:27:09,920
If I got the rose today,
784
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,130
it would make me feel special,
785
00:27:12,130 --> 00:27:15,634
because he chose me
out of all the other women.
786
00:27:15,634 --> 00:27:19,429
And just to know that
he felt what I felt,
787
00:27:19,429 --> 00:27:20,931
that would make me
really happy.
788
00:27:20,931 --> 00:27:23,141
♪ ♪
789
00:27:23,141 --> 00:27:25,769
- Nancy,
would you come with me?
790
00:27:25,769 --> 00:27:27,604
all: Aw.
791
00:27:27,604 --> 00:27:28,981
- Yeah.
- [laughs]
792
00:27:28,981 --> 00:27:30,607
[soft music]
793
00:27:30,607 --> 00:27:31,984
- Happy to. Thank you.
794
00:27:31,984 --> 00:27:33,443
- May I?
- Yes, you may.
795
00:27:33,443 --> 00:27:35,904
- I love Nancy,
so I'm so happy for her.
796
00:27:35,904 --> 00:27:37,197
- She needed it today.
797
00:27:37,197 --> 00:27:39,324
- I really do.
- It makes sense.
798
00:27:39,324 --> 00:27:45,455
- Nancy, you and I shared
a story about our loss.
799
00:27:45,455 --> 00:27:49,334
And it's your history
and my history
800
00:27:49,334 --> 00:27:52,129
that have kind of lined up.
801
00:27:52,129 --> 00:27:53,755
And...
802
00:27:53,755 --> 00:27:56,425
♪ ♪
803
00:27:56,425 --> 00:27:59,761
Nancy, will you accept
this rose?
804
00:27:59,761 --> 00:28:00,888
- I'm happy to.
805
00:28:00,888 --> 00:28:02,264
- All right.
806
00:28:02,264 --> 00:28:05,225
- Thank you.
807
00:28:05,225 --> 00:28:09,897
Getting the rose tonight
means so much to me.
808
00:28:09,897 --> 00:28:14,526
I connected with Gerry
on a level, certainly,
809
00:28:14,526 --> 00:28:15,944
that I didn't expect.
810
00:28:15,944 --> 00:28:17,946
It's really important to me
811
00:28:17,946 --> 00:28:21,241
to be seen and listened to.
812
00:28:21,241 --> 00:28:23,368
And I think you did both.
813
00:28:23,368 --> 00:28:26,747
I'm looking forward to getting
to know him even more.
814
00:28:26,747 --> 00:28:30,500
Even though the day
started out poorly,
815
00:28:30,500 --> 00:28:32,336
it turned out to be
a really great one.
816
00:28:34,504 --> 00:28:35,839
[birds chirping]
817
00:28:35,839 --> 00:28:39,051
[upbeat music]
818
00:28:39,051 --> 00:28:42,763
- It's my birthday,
and I woke up this morning
819
00:28:42,763 --> 00:28:46,808
feeling pretty excited about
things that are going on.
820
00:28:46,808 --> 00:28:50,854
The connection that
I'm feeling with these women
821
00:28:50,854 --> 00:28:54,524
has been surprising
and really intriguing to me.
822
00:28:54,524 --> 00:28:58,403
I know that there are
15 beautiful women inside
823
00:28:58,403 --> 00:29:00,906
that I want
to get to know more.
824
00:29:00,906 --> 00:29:03,784
I can't wait to talk to them.
825
00:29:03,784 --> 00:29:07,537
But then I have to end the day
with a Rose Ceremony.
826
00:29:07,537 --> 00:29:09,539
I'm gonna love
the cocktail party.
827
00:29:09,539 --> 00:29:11,500
I'm gonna hate
the Rose Ceremony.
828
00:29:11,500 --> 00:29:13,043
♪ ♪
829
00:29:19,341 --> 00:29:21,635
Where is everybody?
830
00:29:28,809 --> 00:29:30,978
all: Surprise!
831
00:29:30,978 --> 00:29:33,271
- Happy birthday!
832
00:29:33,271 --> 00:29:34,856
- Whoo!
833
00:29:34,856 --> 00:29:36,733
- Oh, thank you all.
834
00:29:36,733 --> 00:29:38,151
Thank you.
835
00:29:38,151 --> 00:29:42,781
- Today is
Gerry Turner's birthday,
836
00:29:42,781 --> 00:29:45,826
and we are going
to celebrate him.
837
00:29:45,826 --> 00:29:47,536
So it's party day.
838
00:29:47,536 --> 00:29:49,538
[cheers and applause]
- Happy birthday, Gerry!
839
00:29:49,538 --> 00:29:51,540
- Whoo!
- Happy birthday!
840
00:29:51,540 --> 00:29:54,251
- A party is a perfect place
for people like me
841
00:29:54,251 --> 00:29:55,794
and my personality.
842
00:29:55,794 --> 00:29:58,547
Yesterday's group date
was a lot of fun.
843
00:29:58,547 --> 00:30:02,009
However, I didn't have
my one-on-one time with Gerry.
844
00:30:02,009 --> 00:30:03,677
We'll be back.
- See you later.
845
00:30:03,677 --> 00:30:05,012
[cheers and applause]
846
00:30:05,012 --> 00:30:06,555
- So I need to spend time
with Gerry
847
00:30:06,555 --> 00:30:08,181
to get to know each other,
848
00:30:08,181 --> 00:30:10,434
because tonight is
the Rose Ceremony.
849
00:30:10,434 --> 00:30:12,686
Today, this morning,
I got up very early.
850
00:30:12,686 --> 00:30:14,104
And I like to cook.
851
00:30:14,104 --> 00:30:15,147
It's one of my things.
852
00:30:15,147 --> 00:30:16,398
- I was about to ask.
853
00:30:16,398 --> 00:30:18,442
- I made chicken piccata
for everybody.
854
00:30:18,442 --> 00:30:20,360
So I was frying meatballs...
- Oh, my God.
855
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:21,903
- At 7:30, 8:00 this morning,
856
00:30:21,903 --> 00:30:23,447
my sausage, my garlic.
857
00:30:23,447 --> 00:30:24,823
Who doesn't like garlic?
858
00:30:24,823 --> 00:30:26,033
Who don't want pepper?
859
00:30:26,033 --> 00:30:27,868
And it has to stew for hours.
860
00:30:27,868 --> 00:30:29,036
- You have my attention.
861
00:30:29,036 --> 00:30:30,370
- Bake, not so much.
862
00:30:30,370 --> 00:30:31,621
But cook? Yeah.
863
00:30:31,621 --> 00:30:32,956
I like to grill.
- Oh, really?
864
00:30:32,956 --> 00:30:34,666
- I heard you like to cook.
865
00:30:34,666 --> 00:30:37,127
- Oh, I love being outside
and cooking outside.
866
00:30:37,127 --> 00:30:38,587
- Have you ever grilled before?
867
00:30:38,587 --> 00:30:40,422
- No, I don't do this.
- She shops.
868
00:30:40,422 --> 00:30:42,966
- I--I decorate a man's life
with love and joy.
869
00:30:42,966 --> 00:30:44,217
- [laughs]
- Okay.
870
00:30:44,217 --> 00:30:45,844
We got to get the heat up
a little bit.
871
00:30:45,844 --> 00:30:47,721
- I wonder how Gerry
likes his wiener.
872
00:30:47,721 --> 00:30:48,764
- [laughs]
873
00:30:48,764 --> 00:30:49,765
- Give me your mouth.
874
00:30:49,765 --> 00:30:50,766
Open your mouth.
875
00:30:50,766 --> 00:30:52,434
Give me your mouth.
876
00:30:52,434 --> 00:30:55,854
- We're excited to celebrate
Gerry's birthday.
877
00:30:55,854 --> 00:30:57,439
[upbeat music]
878
00:30:57,439 --> 00:30:59,399
- I feel like I'm--
- Right?
879
00:30:59,399 --> 00:31:01,610
- And it's fun.
Like, let's have fun.
880
00:31:01,610 --> 00:31:03,653
- This is my birthday special.
881
00:31:03,653 --> 00:31:05,489
You get this every birthday,
but it gets better.
882
00:31:05,489 --> 00:31:07,407
- Everyone's coming up with
883
00:31:07,407 --> 00:31:10,035
these little special
birthday surprises.
884
00:31:10,035 --> 00:31:11,286
- Nice job. [laughs]
885
00:31:11,286 --> 00:31:12,871
- I get a kiss on that one.
Mwah.
886
00:31:12,871 --> 00:31:15,499
- I am a football-aholic.
887
00:31:15,499 --> 00:31:17,751
- How could Gerry pick?
888
00:31:17,751 --> 00:31:19,336
Like, are you kidding?
889
00:31:19,336 --> 00:31:21,630
We're all so much fun.
- We are.
890
00:31:21,630 --> 00:31:25,383
- In a group of wonderful
women, you have to stand out.
891
00:31:25,383 --> 00:31:28,220
- This is from
my very favorite vineyard.
892
00:31:28,220 --> 00:31:29,805
I saved this bottle for you.
893
00:31:29,805 --> 00:31:31,473
- Ooh! Swing again.
894
00:31:31,473 --> 00:31:32,933
You're doing good. [laughs]
895
00:31:32,933 --> 00:31:35,936
- And we have a lot of girls
who stand out.
896
00:31:35,936 --> 00:31:37,187
So it's gonna be tough.
897
00:31:37,187 --> 00:31:38,897
- Natascha?
- Mm-hmm?
898
00:31:38,897 --> 00:31:40,273
- You are a great hugger.
899
00:31:40,273 --> 00:31:42,109
That part of you
reminds me of my wife.
900
00:31:42,109 --> 00:31:43,401
- Oh, thank you.
901
00:31:43,401 --> 00:31:45,070
- This is nice.
902
00:31:45,070 --> 00:31:47,114
- It's incredible how
when he's with each person,
903
00:31:47,114 --> 00:31:48,907
he's giving you
his full attention.
904
00:31:48,907 --> 00:31:50,450
- I'm just so excited
to finally see you again.
905
00:31:50,450 --> 00:31:52,285
- I know.
906
00:31:52,285 --> 00:31:53,995
- I didn't get the group date,
so I was sort of sad,
907
00:31:53,995 --> 00:31:54,746
but I understand.
- I get it.
908
00:31:54,746 --> 00:31:56,414
- Yeah.
909
00:31:56,414 --> 00:31:58,083
I'm a little worried
that I, you know,
910
00:31:58,083 --> 00:31:59,751
am not keeping up
with the other ladies.
911
00:31:59,751 --> 00:32:01,545
[sighs]
You know, maybe he sees me
912
00:32:01,545 --> 00:32:03,255
and even forgets that
913
00:32:03,255 --> 00:32:05,465
he gave me
the First Impression Rose.
914
00:32:05,465 --> 00:32:06,967
I felt pretty inadequate.
915
00:32:06,967 --> 00:32:09,136
All these women are, like,
fancy girls
916
00:32:09,136 --> 00:32:10,971
and jewelry and love to shop.
917
00:32:10,971 --> 00:32:13,056
And I'm like,
I spend most of my time
918
00:32:13,056 --> 00:32:14,933
in a flip-flops and a T-shirt.
919
00:32:14,933 --> 00:32:15,934
You know, I swim in the river.
920
00:32:15,934 --> 00:32:17,060
I drink from the hose.
921
00:32:17,060 --> 00:32:18,353
I swim in a horse water trough.
922
00:32:18,353 --> 00:32:20,730
- [laughs]
- You know?
923
00:32:20,730 --> 00:32:22,524
But Gerry makes me feel special
every time I see him,
924
00:32:22,524 --> 00:32:24,317
and it's just
the way he looks at me.
925
00:32:24,317 --> 00:32:25,986
I'm just drawn to him.
926
00:32:25,986 --> 00:32:28,613
I'm sure every woman here
feels that,
927
00:32:28,613 --> 00:32:30,699
but he really is beautiful.
928
00:32:30,699 --> 00:32:32,617
- I can imagine that
this is, like,
929
00:32:32,617 --> 00:32:33,910
a super hard day for you.
930
00:32:33,910 --> 00:32:35,620
I--I remember--like,
931
00:32:35,620 --> 00:32:37,414
I've only had
two birthdays--well, yeah,
932
00:32:37,414 --> 00:32:39,583
I've only had two birthdays
since my husband passed away.
933
00:32:39,583 --> 00:32:40,959
And I remember waking up
in the morning going,
934
00:32:40,959 --> 00:32:43,086
okay, take a deep breath.
935
00:32:43,086 --> 00:32:44,838
[sighs] This is a tough day.
936
00:32:44,838 --> 00:32:46,882
It makes me so sad.
937
00:32:46,882 --> 00:32:47,966
In fact, I have a hard time
even looking
938
00:32:47,966 --> 00:32:48,717
at the pictures still.
- Really?
939
00:32:48,717 --> 00:32:50,051
- Yeah, I do.
940
00:32:50,051 --> 00:32:51,303
- I got to the point--
941
00:32:51,303 --> 00:32:53,513
I was sad looking at her
picture for a long time.
942
00:32:53,513 --> 00:32:56,391
I mean, we had those
conversations where both of us
943
00:32:56,391 --> 00:32:59,728
wanted to express to the other
that when one of us
944
00:32:59,728 --> 00:33:02,063
passes away, the other
should go find happiness.
945
00:33:02,063 --> 00:33:04,107
- Go be happy. Yeah.
- Yeah, be happy.
946
00:33:04,107 --> 00:33:05,942
- Because, like, I mean,
my husband said that to me
947
00:33:05,942 --> 00:33:07,110
right before he passed away.
948
00:33:07,110 --> 00:33:08,778
He's like,
you need to go be happy.
949
00:33:08,778 --> 00:33:10,614
You're the most beautiful,
wonderful person in the world,
950
00:33:10,614 --> 00:33:13,158
and you need to go
and find somebody else.
951
00:33:13,158 --> 00:33:15,160
And I--I feel really selfish.
952
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:16,536
I didn't really want
to hear that,
953
00:33:16,536 --> 00:33:17,829
have that conversation
because I didn't want
954
00:33:17,829 --> 00:33:18,997
to believe he was gonna die.
955
00:33:18,997 --> 00:33:20,040
And I was like, no, no.
956
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,208
I'm not listening to this.
957
00:33:21,208 --> 00:33:22,459
I'm not doing this.
- I--
958
00:33:22,459 --> 00:33:24,169
- I'm gonna--
you're not going anywhere.
959
00:33:24,169 --> 00:33:25,378
- I get that.
960
00:33:25,378 --> 00:33:26,796
- And he died, like,
three days later.
961
00:33:26,796 --> 00:33:28,089
- Oh, my God.
962
00:33:28,089 --> 00:33:29,382
- So I feel very guilty
about that one.
963
00:33:29,382 --> 00:33:30,759
- Don't feel guilty.
- Yeah.
964
00:33:30,759 --> 00:33:31,843
- That's the worst thing.
- I know.
965
00:33:31,843 --> 00:33:32,969
I think I might be
in that stage.
966
00:33:32,969 --> 00:33:34,095
- And I know you do, but...
- I know.
967
00:33:34,095 --> 00:33:35,096
I should have done
it differently.
968
00:33:35,096 --> 00:33:36,306
- You gotta go.
- Yeah.
969
00:33:36,306 --> 00:33:37,057
Eventually,
you just gotta live.
970
00:33:37,057 --> 00:33:38,558
- Yeah, you gotta live.
971
00:33:38,558 --> 00:33:41,811
- Gerry is definitely
the first person I've dated
972
00:33:41,811 --> 00:33:43,271
that has lost a spouse.
973
00:33:43,271 --> 00:33:44,731
- All right.
- Give me a kiss.
974
00:33:44,731 --> 00:33:47,692
♪ ♪
975
00:33:47,692 --> 00:33:49,152
Happy birthday, Gerry.
976
00:33:49,152 --> 00:33:51,488
He's very, very,
very thoughtful
977
00:33:51,488 --> 00:33:55,075
about making sure you know
that he sees you
978
00:33:55,075 --> 00:33:58,411
and is trying
to connect with you.
979
00:33:58,411 --> 00:34:00,163
- A gift for me?
It's your birthday.
980
00:34:00,163 --> 00:34:01,873
- That's right.
981
00:34:01,873 --> 00:34:03,959
Since it's my birthday,
I can do whatever I want.
982
00:34:03,959 --> 00:34:05,877
- Oh.
983
00:34:05,877 --> 00:34:08,880
- To remember yesterday
and the moment,
984
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:10,590
this might help you.
985
00:34:10,590 --> 00:34:12,300
- I'm excited.
986
00:34:12,300 --> 00:34:15,428
- [laughs]
987
00:34:15,428 --> 00:34:18,265
- Are you kidding me?
988
00:34:18,265 --> 00:34:19,432
Oh, my God.
989
00:34:19,432 --> 00:34:21,601
Are you kidding me?
990
00:34:21,601 --> 00:34:23,603
Oh. Oh, God.
991
00:34:23,603 --> 00:34:26,147
That's one of the best
presents I've ever gotten
992
00:34:26,147 --> 00:34:27,315
in my whole life,
and it means so much
993
00:34:27,315 --> 00:34:28,650
coming from you.
- Thank you.
994
00:34:28,650 --> 00:34:33,863
- He's got a mansion full
of beautiful women,
995
00:34:33,863 --> 00:34:37,659
and he has taken the time
996
00:34:37,659 --> 00:34:42,163
to have a picture framed
of my relationship with him
997
00:34:42,163 --> 00:34:45,000
so far that made him happy.
998
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:46,167
Look how happy we are.
999
00:34:46,167 --> 00:34:47,919
- Well, yeah,
that smile is about
1000
00:34:47,919 --> 00:34:50,046
as bright as can be.
1001
00:34:50,046 --> 00:34:54,217
- I'm feeling so special.
1002
00:34:54,217 --> 00:34:58,054
And honestly,
1003
00:34:58,054 --> 00:35:00,890
I haven't felt special
in a very long time.
1004
00:35:00,890 --> 00:35:02,142
Thank you so much.
1005
00:35:02,142 --> 00:35:03,560
- Oh, you're so welcome.
1006
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:05,395
- Any man that can
make me feel special
1007
00:35:05,395 --> 00:35:09,899
at this stage in my life
is possibly
1008
00:35:09,899 --> 00:35:12,193
the man that I want to love.
1009
00:35:12,193 --> 00:35:16,364
And I hope he feels the same.
1010
00:35:16,364 --> 00:35:17,407
- I really love
your personality. [laughs]
1011
00:35:17,407 --> 00:35:19,367
- I really love
your personality too.
1012
00:35:19,367 --> 00:35:21,161
- It's like, the energy.
- [laughing]
1013
00:35:23,288 --> 00:35:25,040
[tense music]
1014
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,042
- There is a Rose Ceremony
tonight,
1015
00:35:27,042 --> 00:35:28,877
and I think we're all nervous.
1016
00:35:28,877 --> 00:35:30,420
None of us want
to go home yet.
1017
00:35:30,420 --> 00:35:32,380
And so I'm gonna get teary-eyed
if I talk about it,
1018
00:35:32,380 --> 00:35:34,424
because, like,
it'll break my heart
1019
00:35:34,424 --> 00:35:36,176
if I didn't get a rose.
1020
00:35:36,176 --> 00:35:37,719
You know, it's almost like I've
known him for a lot longer.
1021
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,512
I feel like we've talked
about a lot of things already.
1022
00:35:39,512 --> 00:35:41,348
But I think everybody's
1023
00:35:41,348 --> 00:35:42,932
connection with Gerry
has grown.
1024
00:35:42,932 --> 00:35:45,185
So I feel a little nervous.
1025
00:35:45,185 --> 00:35:46,436
It's a Rose Ceremony.
1026
00:35:46,436 --> 00:35:49,189
You never know.
1027
00:35:49,189 --> 00:35:51,358
- I'm gonna kill him
if I don't get a rose.
1028
00:35:51,358 --> 00:35:52,817
There's a spark, finally,
1029
00:35:52,817 --> 00:35:55,153
and now I have feelings
for Gerry.
1030
00:35:55,153 --> 00:35:56,154
- Ooh!
1031
00:35:56,154 --> 00:35:57,155
This is the nervous room.
1032
00:35:57,155 --> 00:35:58,740
- I hate this room.
- Me too.
1033
00:35:58,740 --> 00:36:01,618
- And I really hope
he feels the spark too.
1034
00:36:01,618 --> 00:36:05,538
I hope even though
it started with a low fire,
1035
00:36:05,538 --> 00:36:08,249
that it can grow into
something magnificent.
1036
00:36:08,249 --> 00:36:10,543
So...
1037
00:36:10,543 --> 00:36:13,254
♪ ♪
1038
00:36:13,254 --> 00:36:14,422
- Good evening, everyone.
- Hi.
1039
00:36:14,422 --> 00:36:16,424
- Good evening.
- Good evening.
1040
00:36:16,424 --> 00:36:18,843
- A few days ago, we all met.
1041
00:36:18,843 --> 00:36:20,387
We were strangers.
1042
00:36:20,387 --> 00:36:22,639
We didn't know anything
about each other.
1043
00:36:22,639 --> 00:36:25,684
And today,
I look at this group of women,
1044
00:36:25,684 --> 00:36:29,229
and you're all my friends.
1045
00:36:29,229 --> 00:36:31,731
That really makes
a night like this
1046
00:36:31,731 --> 00:36:34,025
very difficult for me.
1047
00:36:34,025 --> 00:36:36,611
But I know
this process is working,
1048
00:36:36,611 --> 00:36:40,073
and I so appreciate
every one of you.
1049
00:36:40,073 --> 00:36:43,076
And--and I hope you know
that I have high,
1050
00:36:43,076 --> 00:36:45,537
strong feelings for all of you.
1051
00:36:45,537 --> 00:36:47,122
[soft music]
1052
00:36:47,122 --> 00:36:50,708
- [sighs]
1053
00:36:50,708 --> 00:36:53,670
[suspenseful music]
1054
00:36:53,670 --> 00:36:56,381
♪ ♪
1055
00:36:56,381 --> 00:36:57,632
- Leslie?
1056
00:36:57,632 --> 00:37:03,179
♪ ♪
1057
00:37:03,179 --> 00:37:04,431
Leslie, will you accept
this rose?
1058
00:37:04,431 --> 00:37:06,141
- I will.
1059
00:37:06,141 --> 00:37:08,351
Thank you so much.
- Thank you.
1060
00:37:08,351 --> 00:37:10,186
- My emotions are going
a little crazy.
1061
00:37:10,186 --> 00:37:12,397
Every single second
of the last couple of days
1062
00:37:12,397 --> 00:37:15,483
has been more than
I could have asked for.
1063
00:37:15,483 --> 00:37:17,485
- Joan?
1064
00:37:17,485 --> 00:37:20,530
- Gerry, he made me feel
like the most special person
1065
00:37:20,530 --> 00:37:22,365
in the world, like a princess.
1066
00:37:22,365 --> 00:37:24,284
- Joan, will you accept
this rose?
1067
00:37:24,284 --> 00:37:26,369
- I would love it. Thank you.
- Of course.
1068
00:37:26,369 --> 00:37:28,872
- So I hope
I get a rose tonight.
1069
00:37:28,872 --> 00:37:30,290
- Edith.
1070
00:37:30,290 --> 00:37:31,916
♪ ♪
1071
00:37:31,916 --> 00:37:33,460
- I do not think I will.
1072
00:37:33,460 --> 00:37:34,752
I do not know if I won't.
1073
00:37:34,752 --> 00:37:36,087
I hope I will.
1074
00:37:36,087 --> 00:37:37,756
♪ ♪
1075
00:37:37,756 --> 00:37:39,507
- Ellen?
1076
00:37:39,507 --> 00:37:42,677
♪ ♪
1077
00:37:42,677 --> 00:37:43,845
Ellen, will you accept
this rose?
1078
00:37:43,845 --> 00:37:44,929
- Yes.
1079
00:37:44,929 --> 00:37:46,055
[laughter]
1080
00:37:46,055 --> 00:37:47,307
Thank you.
1081
00:37:47,307 --> 00:37:49,142
- Oh, you're so welcome.
1082
00:37:49,142 --> 00:37:52,729
- You know, I feel like part
of me just wants to shut down.
1083
00:37:52,729 --> 00:37:54,814
- Sandra?
1084
00:37:54,814 --> 00:37:57,567
- My First Impression Rose
was way at the beginning.
1085
00:37:57,567 --> 00:37:58,985
- Susan.
1086
00:37:58,985 --> 00:38:00,695
♪ ♪
1087
00:38:00,695 --> 00:38:03,406
- But you know, I mean,
have you ever dated somebody
1088
00:38:03,406 --> 00:38:06,242
and you're all in
until you're out?
1089
00:38:06,242 --> 00:38:07,911
- Christina.
- Yes.
1090
00:38:07,911 --> 00:38:09,496
♪ ♪
1091
00:38:09,496 --> 00:38:11,873
- He is the kind of person
that I would want
1092
00:38:11,873 --> 00:38:13,833
to have a future with
and somebody that
1093
00:38:13,833 --> 00:38:17,337
I could trust and have
a great companionship with.
1094
00:38:17,337 --> 00:38:21,382
It's gonna be sad if I--
if I have to leave tonight.
1095
00:38:21,382 --> 00:38:22,926
- Faith.
1096
00:38:22,926 --> 00:38:28,181
♪ ♪
1097
00:38:28,181 --> 00:38:32,352
- I see something in Gerry
that I really like.
1098
00:38:32,352 --> 00:38:37,023
I truly am hopeful that I'm
going to get one of his roses,
1099
00:38:37,023 --> 00:38:39,692
because it has been
a very long time
1100
00:38:39,692 --> 00:38:40,944
since I felt that way.
1101
00:38:40,944 --> 00:38:42,654
- April.
1102
00:38:42,654 --> 00:38:43,822
- Thank you, God.
1103
00:38:43,822 --> 00:38:46,074
♪ ♪
1104
00:38:46,074 --> 00:38:47,826
- April, will you accept
this rose?
1105
00:38:47,826 --> 00:38:48,868
- With all my heart.
1106
00:38:48,868 --> 00:38:50,703
- Thank you.
1107
00:38:50,703 --> 00:38:52,872
- I'm just really excited
to move things forward.
1108
00:38:52,872 --> 00:38:56,751
♪ ♪
1109
00:38:56,751 --> 00:38:59,879
- Ladies, Gerry,
1110
00:38:59,879 --> 00:39:02,090
it's the final rose tonight.
1111
00:39:02,090 --> 00:39:03,716
When you're ready.
1112
00:39:03,716 --> 00:39:05,844
♪ ♪
1113
00:39:05,844 --> 00:39:08,471
- I feel a real connection
with Gerry.
1114
00:39:08,471 --> 00:39:11,766
[dramatic music]
1115
00:39:11,766 --> 00:39:13,518
♪ ♪
1116
00:39:13,518 --> 00:39:17,564
I just hope that Gerry feels
the same way about me
1117
00:39:17,564 --> 00:39:19,274
that I feel about him.
1118
00:39:19,274 --> 00:39:20,858
He wants to get to know me.
1119
00:39:20,858 --> 00:39:25,738
He wants to go deeper,
so I'm hoping to get a rose.
1120
00:39:25,738 --> 00:39:28,616
♪ ♪
1121
00:39:28,616 --> 00:39:29,826
- Kathy.
1122
00:39:29,826 --> 00:39:35,957
♪ ♪
1123
00:39:35,957 --> 00:39:37,208
Kathy, will you accept
this rose?
1124
00:39:37,208 --> 00:39:38,585
- Absolutely. Thank you.
1125
00:39:38,585 --> 00:39:40,378
- Thank you.
1126
00:39:40,378 --> 00:39:41,588
Thank you.
1127
00:39:41,588 --> 00:39:48,177
♪ ♪
1128
00:39:50,013 --> 00:39:51,556
- I'm really sorry, ladies.
1129
00:39:51,556 --> 00:39:54,475
Please take a moment
and say your goodbyes.
1130
00:39:54,475 --> 00:39:55,852
- Girls, I love you.
1131
00:39:55,852 --> 00:39:57,020
- Okay, you call me.
1132
00:39:57,020 --> 00:39:59,814
- I'm gonna miss you so much.
1133
00:39:59,814 --> 00:40:01,107
- Doing okay?
1134
00:40:01,107 --> 00:40:02,817
[indistinct chatter]
1135
00:40:02,817 --> 00:40:04,360
I know it's tough.
1136
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:05,945
- I hate doing that.
1137
00:40:05,945 --> 00:40:07,155
- It's the worst part.
1138
00:40:07,155 --> 00:40:08,823
- Thanks, man.
- You doing okay?
1139
00:40:08,823 --> 00:40:09,949
- Yeah, I'm good.
1140
00:40:09,949 --> 00:40:11,910
- Okay.
1141
00:40:11,910 --> 00:40:13,494
♪ ♪
1142
00:40:13,494 --> 00:40:15,246
- Hey.
1143
00:40:15,246 --> 00:40:17,373
It's somber.
1144
00:40:17,373 --> 00:40:19,459
The feeling is
just overwhelming.
1145
00:40:19,459 --> 00:40:21,169
- God, love you, Natascha.
- I love you too.
1146
00:40:21,169 --> 00:40:22,170
Thank you.
1147
00:40:22,170 --> 00:40:23,796
- And I wish you all the best.
1148
00:40:23,796 --> 00:40:25,423
- Thank you, honey.
1149
00:40:25,423 --> 00:40:27,717
- To work hard
to develop friendships
1150
00:40:27,717 --> 00:40:29,594
with three women
and not be able
1151
00:40:29,594 --> 00:40:32,180
to take the next step
is disheartening.
1152
00:40:32,180 --> 00:40:34,349
Oh, Jeanie.
1153
00:40:34,349 --> 00:40:37,143
- I wish you all the best
on your journey.
1154
00:40:37,143 --> 00:40:39,812
You have fabulous women here.
1155
00:40:39,812 --> 00:40:45,526
I know that he was feeling bad
about hurting me tonight,
1156
00:40:45,526 --> 00:40:48,988
because it really is--
it's a hurt.
1157
00:40:48,988 --> 00:40:53,910
But a lot of us, we really
were kind of giving up on love.
1158
00:40:53,910 --> 00:40:56,746
And with Gerry,
there's nice guys out there,
1159
00:40:56,746 --> 00:40:58,414
and there's hope.
1160
00:40:58,414 --> 00:41:00,458
And that's all
we could ever ask for.
1161
00:41:00,458 --> 00:41:04,504
And I know if my mama
found love in her 70s,
1162
00:41:04,504 --> 00:41:06,172
I can do it too.
1163
00:41:06,172 --> 00:41:07,632
- We adore you.
We adore you.
1164
00:41:07,632 --> 00:41:08,633
[glasses clinking]
- Cheers.
1165
00:41:08,633 --> 00:41:10,593
To all of you.
1166
00:41:10,593 --> 00:41:11,719
Everybody in.
1167
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:13,429
- Yay!
- Whoo-hoo!
1168
00:41:13,429 --> 00:41:15,598
- Next week
on "The Golden Bachelor"...
1169
00:41:15,598 --> 00:41:17,684
- Have you ever been kissed
at 100 feet?
1170
00:41:17,684 --> 00:41:18,976
- No, but I'd love to be.
1171
00:41:18,976 --> 00:41:21,521
I am on cloud nine.
1172
00:41:21,521 --> 00:41:23,439
- She could be the one
that I spend
1173
00:41:23,439 --> 00:41:25,108
the rest of my life with.
1174
00:41:25,108 --> 00:41:27,318
- The vibe is camaraderie,
1175
00:41:27,318 --> 00:41:29,904
but we all have feelings
for Gerry.
1176
00:41:29,904 --> 00:41:31,614
- He's such a good kisser.
1177
00:41:31,614 --> 00:41:33,116
- I gotta go.
1178
00:41:33,116 --> 00:41:34,701
Zip your lip.
1179
00:41:34,701 --> 00:41:36,911
- All I know is that
he's my person.
1180
00:41:36,911 --> 00:41:38,955
- In her mind, Gerry is hers.
1181
00:41:38,955 --> 00:41:41,207
- We are getting
a little bit jealous.
1182
00:41:41,207 --> 00:41:43,042
- Oh, my God.
How is this happening?
1183
00:41:43,042 --> 00:41:45,336
- I can't stay here any longer.
1184
00:41:45,336 --> 00:41:47,839
- I can't tell you
how disappointed I am.
1185
00:41:47,839 --> 00:41:49,507
Sometimes the right thing
to do is the hardest.
1186
00:41:49,507 --> 00:41:52,135
[sniffles]
1187
00:41:52,135 --> 00:41:53,803
It just sucks to be alone.
1188
00:41:53,803 --> 00:41:55,763
[sighs]
1189
00:41:55,763 --> 00:41:59,642
- Next week
on "The Golden Bachelor."
1190
00:41:59,642 --> 00:42:02,520
[insects chirping]
1191
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:06,607
- Guys, do the Rose Ceremony
in chairs.
1192
00:42:06,607 --> 00:42:11,070
You have people in here
60, 70, and above.
1193
00:42:11,070 --> 00:42:13,448
Do the Rose Ceremony
in the chairs.
1194
00:42:13,448 --> 00:42:14,532
[playful music]
1195
00:42:14,532 --> 00:42:16,159
They have chair yoga.
1196
00:42:16,159 --> 00:42:17,452
They have chair exercise.
1197
00:42:17,452 --> 00:42:20,580
They have chair aerobics.
1198
00:42:20,580 --> 00:42:22,832
Chair Rose Ceremony.
1199
00:42:22,832 --> 00:42:24,959
♪ ♪
1200
00:42:24,959 --> 00:42:27,962
[laughing]
1201
00:42:27,962 --> 00:42:29,547
♪ ♪
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