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- ♪ and now I'm gonna fall for you ♪
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- "married at first sight" is back.
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- ♪ you want me too
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- And this time, we've come to denver.
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[upbeat music]
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We're here to bring together five hopeful couples
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Who are all ready to marry a complete stranger.
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- I'm 29 years old and 29 years single,
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So it's time.
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- I see my friends getting married,
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Having kids, starting their family.
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The worst part is that I haven't found that yet.
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- I'm a great person.
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I will be a great wife to whoever does
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End up marrying me.
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- ♪ I'm on top of the mountain ♪
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♪ how did we get here?
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- For many singles today, the traditional ways
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Of finding a spouse haven't worked.
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- I really want to be married, and I'm ready now.
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- And in a world of superficial dating apps,
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Unrealistic expectations, and fear of commitment,
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It's never been harder to meet the perfect match.
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- I do believe that love is out there.
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- But there's still hope.
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All they have to do is put their faith
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In us to find them the love of their lives,
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Sight unseen.
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- I know I'm ready
to just jump right in.
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- Tonight, we are revealing the intense process
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That we go through to match our couples.
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- Here's a man
who knows himself.
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- I want to visit him at home.
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We have to find the candidates with the best chance
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For making a successful marriage.
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- Hey.
- Hi!
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- It's not easy, but when love is on the line,
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There is nothing more important.
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I think we have
some great candidates
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To make some lifelong matches.
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- You ready to be a wife?
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- I am.
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- This is a serious commitment.
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Our singles are not here to date or simply be friends.
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Just like our couples in the past,
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They will enter a legally binding marriage,
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And the only way out is divorce.
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- It would be best
to get a divorce.
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- Our method may be unconventional,
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And the process is challenging, but it works.
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Over the years,
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The number of "married at first sight" couples
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Who found their forever love continues to grow.
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And so do their families.
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- Finally!
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- Who will be the next five couples to put
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Their hearts on the line in order to find love?
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- My husband is at the end of this.
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I'm so excited.
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- ♪ it's all or nothing
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- Find out tonight on the "married at first sight"
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Denver matchmaking special.
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[louise dowd's "all or nothing"]
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- ♪ it's all or nothing
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ I can never get you off my-my-my mind ♪
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♪
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- Pepper, pia,
look at this scenery.
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Don't you love denver?
- I do.
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- I mean,
this is the perfect place
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For us to have our next season
of "married at first sight."
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- I am super excited to finally
be a part of the team
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And join both of you
in the matchmaking process.
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I know that finding
matches isn't easy,
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But I'm happy to be here.
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- Well, you know,
it's a really tough task,
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But it's something
we love to do.
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And nothing makes us happier
than getting a couple
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On their road
to a lifetime marriage.
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- I believe denver is an incredible city.
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I mean, the mile high city has so much to offer.
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I mean, there's incredible nightlife.
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The food is fantastic.
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The scenery is incredible.
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This is just a fantastic spot.
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- I love denver,
and this has grown
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Into an area where there
are so many young professionals
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Who are in aerospace,
and health science, and tech.
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- We have professionals.
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We have athletes.
You name it.
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It's a little bit of something
for everybody here.
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- Yeah, I hope
there's a few cowboys.
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That's just me.
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- Well, dr. Pepper, pastor cal,
I am excited to dive
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Into the denver
singles scene...
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- Yes.
- And find us some matches.
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- Oh, yeah, me too.
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Somewhere out here
in denver, colorado,
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There are ten hopeful singles
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Waiting to marry
a perfect stranger.
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You guys ready to go find them?
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- Oh, yes, we are.
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[upbeat music]
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- This season, over a thousand denver singles
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Applied to be matched with a total stranger
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And take the ultimate leap of faith
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To get married at first sight.
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- Denver is
considered "menver."
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They say two guys
for every girl,
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But it's hard to find
a really good guy here.
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- I've given up because
the men I'm attracted to
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Are not good for me.
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- I seem to attract
gold diggers,
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Or I'm trying to get away
from gold diggers.
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- My grandma always
tells me--she's like,
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You're probably gonna
be alone forever
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Unless something really weird
or strange happens to you.
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- I'm, like, a hopeless
romantic, so if I see--
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I'm like, oh,
we both like cheese?
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Wow, great.
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We're gonna get along fine.
[laughs]
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- I really like to get
to the deep parts of people
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And getting to know people
on a deeper level,
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Which can be scary in dating.
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- When I may start
to pull back,
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I need someone to kind of push
me back in that direction
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And say, no, just keep going,
just keep trying.
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- I want someone who's
on the same frequency as me.
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I want a partnership.
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- This is my last hope.
This is my last chance.
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Guys, make my dreams
come true here.
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Find me a man.
[laughs]
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- We narrowed down all the interested singles
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To a select group of people who then had to pass
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In-depth background checks
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And extensive psychological evaluations.
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Once they were cleared to move forward,
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We brought the hopeful candidates in
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For the next phase, meeting with us
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For a series of in-person interviews.
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- Hey, michael, come on in.
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- Meeting our applicants face to face is crucial.
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All right,
let's jump right into it.
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- Let's do it.
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- We want to learn why they are here,
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What they're looking for...
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- Do you want children?
- That's a good question.
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- And if they truly have what it takes to marry
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A stranger and make it work.
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♪
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Why "married at first sight"?
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- I just think that I'm not
good at choosing for myself.
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- Dating apps are crap.
- Mm-hmm.
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- And I'm tired of dealing
with the garbage.
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- Ok, all right.
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- I'm 29 years old and 29
years single, so it's time.
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- I'm ready to go in
with the entirety of my heart.
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- I've lived
an unconventional life.
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I'm ready to meet my partner
in a really unconventional way.
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- I do want to get married.
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I've always wanted to have
that american dream life.
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- I think I've been ready
for this commitment
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Just because of everything
that I've learned,
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Everything that I've
been through.
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- Right, right.
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- So I know I'm ready
to just jump right in.
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- I have never found
what really speaks to me.
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It feels like I've been
searching my whole life.
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- I've never done
anything traditional.
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That's always been
super rewarding for me.
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And I think that
a marriage in this way
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Could be the same way.
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- Ok, fair enough.
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- Tell me who you are.
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- I grew up
on the navajo reservation.
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As a community,
you know, the one goal
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Is to change the world
one person at a time.
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I never hesitate
to do my part in that.
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- Yoga is a big part
of my life and a big part
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Of my practice and meditation.
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- I'm a native coloradan,
so I love biking,
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Skiing, hiking, that stuff.
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- All the outdoor stuff.
- All the outdoor stuff.
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- I do consider myself
to be the life of the party.
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- Ok.
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- And I love just, like,
going out with friends,
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A big concertgoer,
and, like, drinking.
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- Ok.
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- You're not
your average colorado guy.
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- My expression
and how I dress,
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It's a lot
of different components
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Kind of put together.
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- I am a quadruplet.
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I adore my family.
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They are everything
that I need in my life.
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- I'm a pretty selfless guy.
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Like, I put everyone
before myself.
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- Ok.
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- And I think that is huge
in a relationship.
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- Gotcha.
Ok, great.
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- What's that element
that's keeping you single?
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- You know, I haven't really
connected with someone.
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- I've kind of been very
specific about what I want.
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Again, which is why I'm single.
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- So when I moved to colorado,
I met a beautiful young lady.
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I hadn't ridden
a mountain bike,
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And I set a goal
to race 100 miles and--
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- 100 miles?
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- And so that was
one relationship down.
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- I knew that in order
for me to fully commit myself
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To someone else,
I needed to be
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The best version of myself.
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- I'm a big personality.
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I'm successful
in my career for my age,
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And sometimes
I don't know if that's just,
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Like, too much for someone.
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- They friend zone you.
- I get friend zoned, yeah.
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If I get called
a friend one more time--
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It's a triggering word for me.
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- [laughs]
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- I want someone
who's smart and fun,
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Energetic, big social circles.
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- If there's a lack of
character and integrity there,
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I'm not gonna be
attracted to it.
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- Exploring new things
and exploring
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Different parts of their body.
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- I love curly hair.
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I'm a sucker for curly hair.
That gets me every time.
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- How important is sex to you?
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- Ooh.
[laughs]
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I've never been
asked that in my life.
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- Ok.
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- I like to have sex, I do.
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I just think that there
has to be regular intimacy
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On some kind of level.
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- I'm a scorpio.
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Sex is important to us.
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- I wouldn't be opposed
to having sex every day.
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- Ok, this is a safe space,
no judgment.
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What do you need sexually?
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What are you looking for?
What do you want?
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- You have to have foreplay.
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- I like it when she bites me.
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- One, like, weird thing
I've always, like,
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Enjoyed was, like,
sex in weird places.
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Like, hey, we're on a hike.
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- Look, I'm not a prude,
but I don't want
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To fear for my life.
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- I wouldn't say I have kinks.
- Ok.
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- But I'm willing
to experiment.
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- I would like him to be
sexually adventurous
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And open to trying
new experiences.
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I don't have a lot of hard nos.
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- Tell me about your most
recent group-sex experience.
255
00:09:10,776 --> 00:09:12,141
- Oh, my gosh.
256
00:09:12,218 --> 00:09:14,761
If this gets aired, my mom's
gonna kill me, but whatever.
257
00:09:14,796 --> 00:09:16,388
- It needs to be girthy.
258
00:09:16,464 --> 00:09:18,515
- Say it again.
You're a girth girl?
259
00:09:18,550 --> 00:09:20,124
- I'm a girth girl, yeah.
- Ok.
260
00:09:20,202 --> 00:09:21,868
- Do you feel like
you have a lot of sex?
261
00:09:21,903 --> 00:09:23,395
- Well, not in this moment.
262
00:09:23,471 --> 00:09:24,804
There's one or two guys,
263
00:09:24,881 --> 00:09:28,382
We're friends
with benefits situation, yeah.
264
00:09:28,384 --> 00:09:29,675
- I've kissed a man.
265
00:09:29,753 --> 00:09:31,227
- Did you come to a conclusion?
266
00:09:31,262 --> 00:09:32,678
- He laid one on me,
and I was not about it.
267
00:09:32,756 --> 00:09:34,263
- [laughs]
- yeah, I was not about it.
268
00:09:34,341 --> 00:09:37,567
- When was the last time
you had sex?
269
00:09:37,602 --> 00:09:40,420
- Um...
270
00:09:40,455 --> 00:09:41,971
- What's
your favorite position?
271
00:09:42,006 --> 00:09:44,791
- Probably, like, doggy style.
- Mm-hmm.
272
00:09:44,793 --> 00:09:46,976
- It's weird to say on camera.
- Ok.
273
00:09:47,011 --> 00:09:49,253
- I would give
my sex life a five
274
00:09:49,255 --> 00:09:50,397
Because it's not the worst,
275
00:09:50,432 --> 00:09:51,881
And it's not the best
it's ever been.
276
00:09:51,883 --> 00:09:53,257
- It's a zero.
277
00:09:53,335 --> 00:09:55,176
- I'm a virgin.
278
00:09:55,253 --> 00:09:56,669
[laughs]
279
00:09:56,704 --> 00:09:57,720
- Any final words?
280
00:09:57,798 --> 00:09:58,971
Anything that we
haven't asked you?
281
00:09:58,973 --> 00:10:01,157
- Oh, my gosh, I don't think--
you got into it.
282
00:10:01,192 --> 00:10:03,209
- Ok.
283
00:10:03,286 --> 00:10:05,528
- After our interviews, we meet up
284
00:10:05,605 --> 00:10:07,505
To go over the remaining candidates
285
00:10:07,582 --> 00:10:10,291
And discuss who each of us believes should continue
286
00:10:10,368 --> 00:10:11,701
In the matchmaking process
287
00:10:11,736 --> 00:10:13,778
And who doesn't have what it takes
288
00:10:13,780 --> 00:10:16,614
To move forward to
the next round of home visits.
289
00:10:16,616 --> 00:10:18,858
- I really think this is
a great group to choose from.
290
00:10:18,893 --> 00:10:21,185
You know, denver is
treating us extremely well.
291
00:10:21,263 --> 00:10:22,462
It's been a great city.
- Yeah.
292
00:10:22,538 --> 00:10:23,596
- Yeah.
293
00:10:23,631 --> 00:10:24,881
- It's gonna be hard,
but we now have
294
00:10:24,883 --> 00:10:26,433
To narrow down who we're
gonna see for home visits.
295
00:10:26,468 --> 00:10:27,950
- I'm ready to dig in.
296
00:10:28,027 --> 00:10:31,045
- All right,
so let's start with becca.
297
00:10:31,047 --> 00:10:33,873
I think we all think
that she's attractive,
298
00:10:33,950 --> 00:10:36,200
Fun, smart,
got a great business.
299
00:10:36,311 --> 00:10:37,618
- I like the pink hair.
300
00:10:37,696 --> 00:10:39,762
It lets me know a lot about
her character and personality.
301
00:10:39,764 --> 00:10:40,847
- We're gonna go see her.
302
00:10:40,882 --> 00:10:42,482
- Let's talk about michael.
303
00:10:42,558 --> 00:10:43,541
I like michael.
304
00:10:43,618 --> 00:10:47,303
You know, he's so
outside of the box.
305
00:10:47,380 --> 00:10:50,649
- I think he's so genuine,
and the confidence
306
00:10:50,725 --> 00:10:52,258
That he exudes--
like, when he walked
307
00:10:52,293 --> 00:10:53,893
Into that interview
with his outfit, I was like,
308
00:10:53,970 --> 00:10:55,895
Here's a man who knows himself.
309
00:10:55,972 --> 00:10:58,882
- Well, ok, he's got flair,
but he's got substance.
310
00:10:58,917 --> 00:11:00,307
- I want to visit him at home.
311
00:11:00,385 --> 00:11:01,475
- Where's orion?
312
00:11:01,553 --> 00:11:03,169
- My man, orion.
313
00:11:03,246 --> 00:11:05,889
- So this is a guy who's
a little bit of everything,
314
00:11:05,924 --> 00:11:08,574
And he was such a sort
of sensitive, deep thinker.
315
00:11:08,651 --> 00:11:11,427
He seems to me, like,
a really interesting mix
316
00:11:11,462 --> 00:11:15,248
Of both feminine and masculine
attributes in a nice way.
317
00:11:15,324 --> 00:11:16,516
- Yeah.
318
00:11:16,551 --> 00:11:17,800
- I just want
to know more about him.
319
00:11:17,802 --> 00:11:18,968
- I want to know more
about him as well.
320
00:11:18,970 --> 00:11:20,511
- Yeah.
- Keely flack.
321
00:11:20,513 --> 00:11:22,605
She also had a certain uniqueness to her.
322
00:11:22,682 --> 00:11:26,267
She came across as having a genuinely nice personality.
323
00:11:26,344 --> 00:11:28,686
- All right,
so let's look at clare.
324
00:11:28,688 --> 00:11:31,439
She was the therapist, and she was such a sweetheart.
325
00:11:31,516 --> 00:11:33,174
- I detected a lot of depth.
- Mm-hmm.
326
00:11:33,251 --> 00:11:34,759
- I think she's mature
enough for this.
327
00:11:34,836 --> 00:11:36,093
- So what about austin?
328
00:11:36,171 --> 00:11:38,612
I think, you know, they make
the joke about denver guys
329
00:11:38,614 --> 00:11:40,873
That they all come
in their jeep with their husky,
330
00:11:40,950 --> 00:11:42,308
And I think that's austin.
331
00:11:42,385 --> 00:11:43,943
- He's like
an all-american guy.
332
00:11:44,020 --> 00:11:45,445
- I like that
about him, I think.
333
00:11:45,521 --> 00:11:47,080
Ok, who else?
334
00:11:47,115 --> 00:11:49,231
- How about jessica patterson?
335
00:11:49,309 --> 00:11:51,292
I think she's worth
a second look.
336
00:11:51,294 --> 00:11:53,168
Tyreesa.
337
00:11:53,246 --> 00:11:54,795
- She's very intelligent. - She is.
338
00:11:54,797 --> 00:11:56,589
- Very charismatic
and seems very much like
339
00:11:56,666 --> 00:11:57,774
A people person.
340
00:11:57,809 --> 00:12:00,543
All right, nicholas bryant.
I really liked him.
341
00:12:00,578 --> 00:12:03,112
I thought he had
a certain swag about him.
342
00:12:03,147 --> 00:12:04,113
- Oh, yes.
343
00:12:04,223 --> 00:12:06,199
- Let's take a look at brennan.
344
00:12:06,234 --> 00:12:08,217
He was so cute to me.
345
00:12:08,294 --> 00:12:10,895
He's got a lot going
for him in terms of business.
346
00:12:10,972 --> 00:12:13,155
- I believed how serious
he was about this.
347
00:12:13,232 --> 00:12:15,241
I think he would be great
for a home visit.
348
00:12:15,276 --> 00:12:17,577
- I really want
to talk about lauren.
349
00:12:17,612 --> 00:12:19,112
Lauren--
- oh, I love lauren!
350
00:12:19,147 --> 00:12:21,381
- Lauren really
stood out to me.
351
00:12:21,416 --> 00:12:24,174
She follows her own drumbeat.
352
00:12:24,176 --> 00:12:26,970
- Emily is a woman
who's independent.
353
00:12:27,005 --> 00:12:29,246
I can feel it in her
that she really wants this.
354
00:12:29,248 --> 00:12:30,105
- I agree.
355
00:12:30,183 --> 00:12:31,574
- She had some
really good values
356
00:12:31,651 --> 00:12:33,126
That make me very interested
in finding out more about her.
357
00:12:33,161 --> 00:12:34,251
- Yeah.
- Good, good.
358
00:12:34,253 --> 00:12:35,211
- She's a good choice.
- Ok.
359
00:12:35,321 --> 00:12:37,063
All right, let's
talk about chloe.
360
00:12:37,098 --> 00:12:38,548
It was the pink blazer for me.
361
00:12:38,583 --> 00:12:39,841
- She has so much
sweetness in her.
362
00:12:39,918 --> 00:12:42,068
It's almost like
I need to see more--
363
00:12:42,103 --> 00:12:43,085
- Yeah.
364
00:12:43,162 --> 00:12:44,404
- To believe that
much sweetness is real.
365
00:12:44,439 --> 00:12:46,472
- It's real, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- You know?
366
00:12:46,474 --> 00:12:49,258
- I would love to find out
more about her life
367
00:12:49,335 --> 00:12:50,727
To see whether or not she fits.
368
00:12:50,762 --> 00:12:52,086
- Yeah.
369
00:12:52,163 --> 00:12:53,396
- Ok, who else?
370
00:12:53,398 --> 00:12:55,130
- Let's look at cameron.
371
00:12:55,208 --> 00:12:57,550
First of all, I love the fact
that he's so athletic.
372
00:12:57,552 --> 00:13:00,335
He's a serious biker.
373
00:13:00,337 --> 00:13:02,155
- He wants kids.
He wants to be serious.
374
00:13:02,190 --> 00:13:04,615
I believe
he's into this process.
375
00:13:04,617 --> 00:13:05,658
- Yeah, and I think
women are gonna
376
00:13:05,693 --> 00:13:06,776
Fall in love with that accent.
377
00:13:06,853 --> 00:13:08,035
- Yeah.
378
00:13:08,037 --> 00:13:10,513
- Ok, well, I think we have
a great group of people,
379
00:13:10,548 --> 00:13:12,140
And I think it's time
for us to get ready
380
00:13:12,216 --> 00:13:13,199
For these home visits.
381
00:13:13,276 --> 00:13:15,101
- I am so ecstatic--
382
00:13:15,136 --> 00:13:16,436
- Yeah.
- To have my first home visits.
383
00:13:16,545 --> 00:13:17,795
- Everybody ready?
384
00:13:17,797 --> 00:13:19,113
- Yeah.
- I think we're good.
385
00:13:19,190 --> 00:13:20,632
[upbeat music]
386
00:13:23,111 --> 00:13:26,470
- ♪ is it fire that burns when I think of you? ♪
387
00:13:26,548 --> 00:13:27,347
♪ it sends me
388
00:13:27,382 --> 00:13:29,699
- You are gonna
have so much fun.
389
00:13:29,734 --> 00:13:32,401
This is my favorite part
of matchmaking.
390
00:13:32,478 --> 00:13:34,220
After we do
the individual interviews,
391
00:13:34,297 --> 00:13:36,313
We go on the home visits.
392
00:13:36,315 --> 00:13:38,374
And that's where we really see
the people that we're getting
393
00:13:38,409 --> 00:13:41,060
Serious about, who we
think might be matchable,
394
00:13:41,062 --> 00:13:43,971
But who we know will make
a great partner in marriage.
395
00:13:43,973 --> 00:13:46,573
- And this is the perfect time
also to sit and talk to them.
396
00:13:46,575 --> 00:13:49,035
You know, one-on-one,
you can really dig deep
397
00:13:49,037 --> 00:13:50,144
To show us who they really are.
398
00:13:50,221 --> 00:13:52,513
And this becomes crucial
when it comes down
399
00:13:52,590 --> 00:13:54,040
To the final wire
and we have to choose
400
00:13:54,075 --> 00:13:55,291
Somebody to be married.
401
00:13:55,326 --> 00:13:57,009
- And here's the best part.
402
00:13:57,086 --> 00:13:58,895
They don't know we're coming.
403
00:13:58,930 --> 00:14:01,280
They think they're just filming
more background material
404
00:14:01,357 --> 00:14:04,450
With the producers, so they
aren't expecting to see us.
405
00:14:04,527 --> 00:14:07,904
So you are gonna get really
shocked looks on their face
406
00:14:07,939 --> 00:14:09,680
When they answer
the knock at that door.
407
00:14:09,682 --> 00:14:11,257
You got to really
take everything in.
408
00:14:11,259 --> 00:14:13,776
You look at the pictures on
the wall, how they decorated,
409
00:14:13,853 --> 00:14:15,954
What's in their drawers,
everything.
410
00:14:16,030 --> 00:14:18,672
And you'd be surprised
that all these details,
411
00:14:18,783 --> 00:14:21,008
They really tell you a lot
more about the person
412
00:14:21,086 --> 00:14:22,968
And also maybe a little bit
more about what kind of spouse
413
00:14:23,046 --> 00:14:24,136
They're gonna be.
414
00:14:24,214 --> 00:14:26,113
- So I am ready
to knock on some doors
415
00:14:26,115 --> 00:14:27,598
And look in some drawers.
416
00:14:27,709 --> 00:14:30,076
- You and I are
on the same page.
417
00:14:30,111 --> 00:14:33,362
- ♪ oh, live a little louder
418
00:14:33,439 --> 00:14:35,956
♪ oh, laugh a little longer
419
00:14:35,958 --> 00:14:37,366
♪ push your luck
420
00:14:37,401 --> 00:14:40,044
♪ feel it all over, soak it up, yeah ♪
421
00:14:40,121 --> 00:14:42,237
- Hi.
- Oh, hi.
422
00:14:42,315 --> 00:14:43,923
- [laughing]
423
00:14:43,958 --> 00:14:45,174
- Hi!
- Hi, dr. Pia.
424
00:14:45,251 --> 00:14:46,292
I'm, like,
a little bit shocked.
425
00:14:46,369 --> 00:14:47,652
- I didn't surprise you, did I?
426
00:14:47,729 --> 00:14:49,429
- You did, absolutely.
427
00:14:49,464 --> 00:14:51,513
- So--
- I'm about to die. -
428
00:14:51,515 --> 00:14:52,514
Well, let's snoop around.
429
00:14:52,516 --> 00:14:54,475
- Snoop.
- Steak.
430
00:14:54,552 --> 00:14:55,952
Love my steak.
431
00:14:55,987 --> 00:14:58,054
Prosciutto, I eat, like,
kind of a disgusting amount.
432
00:14:58,089 --> 00:14:59,388
- Well, that's all right.
- Yeah.
433
00:14:59,423 --> 00:15:00,806
- Prosciutto is good.
434
00:15:00,841 --> 00:15:02,716
- The headstand helper is
a really great way to learn
435
00:15:02,794 --> 00:15:03,826
How to be upside down.
436
00:15:03,903 --> 00:15:05,044
You want to see?
437
00:15:05,079 --> 00:15:08,197
Maybe you're like, hey, splits.
438
00:15:08,199 --> 00:15:09,573
- Oh, look at this.
439
00:15:09,575 --> 00:15:11,117
Do you take collagen shots?
440
00:15:11,152 --> 00:15:13,002
- [chuckles]
441
00:15:13,079 --> 00:15:14,170
I mean, you know,
I've got to--
442
00:15:14,246 --> 00:15:15,337
- No, that's great.
443
00:15:15,414 --> 00:15:16,723
- Got to keep the elasticity
of the skin.
444
00:15:16,758 --> 00:15:17,840
- I love it.
445
00:15:17,917 --> 00:15:19,416
- And what else do
we have under here?
446
00:15:19,418 --> 00:15:21,343
Just glasses.
- And a bong.
447
00:15:21,420 --> 00:15:23,688
- A wh--oh.
- Just in case.
448
00:15:23,765 --> 00:15:25,739
It's never even been used,
but it's there
449
00:15:25,817 --> 00:15:26,999
For guests just in case.
450
00:15:27,076 --> 00:15:29,168
- I wouldn't know
what to do with this.
451
00:15:29,245 --> 00:15:31,654
All right, all right,
all right, let's talk.
452
00:15:31,689 --> 00:15:32,838
- Ok.
453
00:15:32,991 --> 00:15:34,523
- Tell me, how are you feeling
about this whole thing?
454
00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:36,859
Are you ready
to do this marriage?
455
00:15:36,936 --> 00:15:38,102
- I think so.
456
00:15:38,104 --> 00:15:40,112
In a lot of the time
that I've been single,
457
00:15:40,189 --> 00:15:42,749
I've just been building
myself to be a good partner.
458
00:15:42,784 --> 00:15:45,043
- Do you have any insecurities
about this whole thing?
459
00:15:45,119 --> 00:15:46,468
- I mean, yeah, of course.
460
00:15:46,546 --> 00:15:48,379
- [laughs]
talk to me.
461
00:15:48,456 --> 00:15:50,840
- I think one
of my biggest challenges
462
00:15:50,875 --> 00:15:52,992
Has been because
I'm so independent
463
00:15:53,027 --> 00:15:55,511
And because I have
my own business,
464
00:15:55,546 --> 00:15:58,539
I either intimidate people,
or on the flip side,
465
00:15:58,541 --> 00:16:02,476
I think they think that I'll be
a lot more avoidant than I am.
466
00:16:02,478 --> 00:16:04,862
Like, just because I like
to have my alone time
467
00:16:04,939 --> 00:16:06,706
And I'm independent
doesn't mean that I don't
468
00:16:06,782 --> 00:16:08,866
Want to find deep connection.
469
00:16:08,943 --> 00:16:10,359
- But you were engaged once.
470
00:16:10,394 --> 00:16:11,877
- We were planning
on getting eloped.
471
00:16:11,954 --> 00:16:13,346
- So you guys
didn't get married?
472
00:16:13,381 --> 00:16:14,864
- Mm-mm.
- Why?
473
00:16:14,899 --> 00:16:19,452
- I think I wasn't the person
that I wanted to be.
474
00:16:19,487 --> 00:16:22,796
I was suffering from pretty
severe anxiety at the time,
475
00:16:22,874 --> 00:16:26,225
And it was, like, the catapult
for me learning how to manage
476
00:16:26,260 --> 00:16:28,027
My anxiety,
for me to be aware of it,
477
00:16:28,062 --> 00:16:31,714
For me to be proud of it,
and not be afraid of it.
478
00:16:31,749 --> 00:16:33,899
So, like, I don't think it's
anything to be ashamed of.
479
00:16:33,976 --> 00:16:35,067
- I agree, absolutely not.
480
00:16:35,102 --> 00:16:37,770
So then do you feel like
the pressure of this
481
00:16:37,847 --> 00:16:40,230
Would, you know,
be a problem for you?
482
00:16:40,308 --> 00:16:41,648
- No, I'm good.
483
00:16:41,726 --> 00:16:44,501
I think if you were
to ask me six years ago,
484
00:16:44,503 --> 00:16:47,488
I would just start crying
even at this thought,
485
00:16:47,565 --> 00:16:50,566
But I think that everything
good has happened
486
00:16:50,601 --> 00:16:52,084
Outside of my comfort zone.
487
00:16:52,161 --> 00:16:54,328
And while this isn't
comfortable, it is expansive,
488
00:16:54,405 --> 00:16:56,605
And that's all I've ever
wanted is to never stop
489
00:16:56,682 --> 00:16:58,224
Growing and expanding
and learning
490
00:16:58,259 --> 00:16:59,759
About myself and other people.
491
00:16:59,835 --> 00:17:03,262
- Right, ok,
so if I were to ask you what
492
00:17:03,297 --> 00:17:06,599
Do you want in a husband,
what do you feel at this point
493
00:17:06,675 --> 00:17:08,358
In your life you really need?
494
00:17:08,360 --> 00:17:13,622
- Someone who knows themselves,
who is emotionally intelligent
495
00:17:13,699 --> 00:17:14,957
And emotionally available.
496
00:17:15,034 --> 00:17:18,852
I love when a man is sensitive
or when he's empathetic.
497
00:17:18,854 --> 00:17:22,248
But with that said, doesn't
take life too seriously.
498
00:17:22,283 --> 00:17:24,466
So I'm playful.
I'm sarcastic.
499
00:17:24,501 --> 00:17:27,712
I would love if somebody
could banter with me
500
00:17:27,789 --> 00:17:29,546
And have a sense of humor.
501
00:17:29,548 --> 00:17:31,607
I think someone
who's non-traditional
502
00:17:31,642 --> 00:17:34,218
In some aspects
would fit best with me
503
00:17:34,295 --> 00:17:36,428
Because that's who I am.
504
00:17:36,430 --> 00:17:38,214
[upbeat music]
505
00:17:38,249 --> 00:17:43,302
- So this is something
that I wear for my culture.
506
00:17:43,379 --> 00:17:44,579
- Oh, my god.
- Yeah.
507
00:17:44,655 --> 00:17:45,879
- That's so pretty.
508
00:17:45,957 --> 00:17:47,105
I want to hear more.
509
00:17:47,107 --> 00:17:49,383
Why don't we sit down and talk?
510
00:17:49,460 --> 00:17:51,818
Well, you have a very
rich cultural background.
511
00:17:51,820 --> 00:17:57,008
What kinds of cultures do you
feel most comfortable with?
512
00:17:57,084 --> 00:17:58,984
- In terms of comfort
and attraction,
513
00:17:59,061 --> 00:18:02,688
I definitely lean more
towards dark-complected women.
514
00:18:02,765 --> 00:18:06,175
But when it comes
specifically to culture,
515
00:18:06,252 --> 00:18:09,753
Something that I have dealt
with, being indigenous,
516
00:18:09,831 --> 00:18:12,423
I do not want my wife
to treat me
517
00:18:12,500 --> 00:18:13,740
Like a shiny little diamond.
518
00:18:13,818 --> 00:18:15,902
You know, I had an
ex-girlfriend kind of be like,
519
00:18:15,937 --> 00:18:19,621
Oh, he's native, oh, he's--
and that's just what I was.
520
00:18:19,699 --> 00:18:23,743
- You want someone
to put you as you first?
521
00:18:23,778 --> 00:18:25,119
- Yes.
522
00:18:25,196 --> 00:18:28,581
I would like my wife to want
to learn about my culture.
523
00:18:28,616 --> 00:18:30,616
You know, to want
to ask about the stories,
524
00:18:30,693 --> 00:18:34,119
To want to ask what style
of dance is happening,
525
00:18:34,154 --> 00:18:35,120
Things like that.
526
00:18:35,197 --> 00:18:38,074
I would absolutely love that.
527
00:18:38,109 --> 00:18:41,618
- Let's say you're up there,
and your bride
528
00:18:41,696 --> 00:18:43,712
Comes down the aisle,
529
00:18:43,789 --> 00:18:45,264
And that will be
the first time you see her.
530
00:18:45,299 --> 00:18:46,707
- Mm-hmm.
531
00:18:46,709 --> 00:18:48,576
- And for whatever reason,
she's not what you expected.
532
00:18:48,578 --> 00:18:50,795
- Ok.
- How will you handle that?
533
00:18:50,872 --> 00:18:53,563
- I've noticed, you know,
throughout the years,
534
00:18:53,565 --> 00:18:55,341
My real
meaningful relationships
535
00:18:55,376 --> 00:18:57,376
And my closest friendships,
536
00:18:57,453 --> 00:18:59,578
They've all come through just--
537
00:18:59,656 --> 00:19:02,706
Just mental stimulation, being
able to talk to each other,
538
00:19:02,784 --> 00:19:06,727
Being able to have fun,
you know, enjoy one another's
539
00:19:06,804 --> 00:19:08,737
Company out doing something.
540
00:19:08,772 --> 00:19:12,375
And I feel like that alone
speaks more than just
541
00:19:12,410 --> 00:19:14,234
Being attracted
to what you see.
542
00:19:14,236 --> 00:19:17,054
- What is the personality
of a woman
543
00:19:17,131 --> 00:19:18,981
That would make you happy?
544
00:19:18,983 --> 00:19:21,701
- Extroverted personalities
tend to charm me
545
00:19:21,736 --> 00:19:24,411
Because I'm extroverted myself.
546
00:19:24,413 --> 00:19:27,256
I would really enjoy,
you know, my wife
547
00:19:27,333 --> 00:19:29,725
And I to explore new hobbies.
548
00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:32,594
I know snowboarding
isn't everybody's hobby,
549
00:19:32,671 --> 00:19:34,947
But I would still enjoy her
if she came out,
550
00:19:35,024 --> 00:19:36,465
Hung out in the hotel,
you know, while we
551
00:19:36,500 --> 00:19:38,100
Spent the day snowboarding.
552
00:19:38,177 --> 00:19:41,420
I'm really enjoying
everything about me
553
00:19:41,497 --> 00:19:42,663
And everything I'm doing.
554
00:19:42,740 --> 00:19:45,257
I am just lacking a partner.
555
00:19:45,334 --> 00:19:47,793
That's really what
it comes down to.
556
00:19:47,870 --> 00:19:50,730
[upbeat music]
557
00:19:50,765 --> 00:19:51,731
♪
558
00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:53,432
- Square frames actually--
- what?
559
00:19:53,509 --> 00:19:54,616
- Look good on you.
560
00:19:54,693 --> 00:19:55,902
- I feel real elton john-ish.
561
00:19:55,937 --> 00:19:57,511
- We'll get you a piano.
562
00:19:57,588 --> 00:20:00,013
- "what would
perfect sex be like?"
563
00:20:00,091 --> 00:20:01,198
- [laughs]
564
00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:02,942
- Do you have
an answer for that?
565
00:20:03,018 --> 00:20:05,794
- I'm so awkward when it
comes to talking about that,
566
00:20:05,871 --> 00:20:08,447
But yeah, I think--
567
00:20:08,524 --> 00:20:10,099
I don't know--
where I feel like we're
568
00:20:10,134 --> 00:20:11,316
Emotionally, like, intimate.
569
00:20:11,469 --> 00:20:12,618
It's not just, like,
an act of, like--
570
00:20:12,653 --> 00:20:13,786
- Yeah.
- Let me release--
571
00:20:13,862 --> 00:20:15,137
- The physical.
572
00:20:15,172 --> 00:20:16,171
- Like, stress
or whatever it is.
573
00:20:16,173 --> 00:20:17,773
Like, to me,
it's more, like, emotional.
574
00:20:17,808 --> 00:20:18,865
- Ok.
575
00:20:18,943 --> 00:20:20,443
- So perfect sex
would be, like,
576
00:20:20,478 --> 00:20:22,644
Both parties are feeling,
like, an emotional sort
577
00:20:22,721 --> 00:20:23,704
Of connection, yeah.
578
00:20:23,781 --> 00:20:24,871
- Good answer, good answer.
579
00:20:24,949 --> 00:20:27,483
Should we have a seat?
- Absolutely.
580
00:20:27,518 --> 00:20:28,667
- You're a gorgeous woman,
right?
581
00:20:28,745 --> 00:20:30,043
- Thank you.
- You look like you're fit.
582
00:20:30,121 --> 00:20:31,320
You work out.
You're a therapist.
583
00:20:31,397 --> 00:20:32,271
- Thank you.
584
00:20:32,273 --> 00:20:33,472
- So when the world
is looking at you
585
00:20:33,657 --> 00:20:35,215
And they're saying, gosh,
like, why is she single,
586
00:20:35,293 --> 00:20:37,551
What would you say to women
who might have those thoughts?
587
00:20:37,628 --> 00:20:40,947
- I won't settle, for one.
- Yeah.
588
00:20:40,982 --> 00:20:42,389
- And I don't like
to waste time
589
00:20:42,467 --> 00:20:43,907
Because life is very short.
590
00:20:43,909 --> 00:20:46,986
And so if someone is
not for you, leave that.
591
00:20:47,062 --> 00:20:48,120
- Yeah.
592
00:20:48,155 --> 00:20:49,671
- Leave that as it is,
you know what I mean?
593
00:20:49,748 --> 00:20:51,323
So I don't know,
I think that's why I'm single,
594
00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:54,143
Because I realize I deserve
better than I've been given.
595
00:20:54,178 --> 00:20:55,995
- What are you looking for
in your spouse?
596
00:20:56,030 --> 00:20:58,822
- Somebody who is
in tune with my emotions.
597
00:20:58,900 --> 00:21:00,316
I'm a very emotional person.
598
00:21:00,351 --> 00:21:01,383
- Mm-hmm.
599
00:21:01,385 --> 00:21:03,469
- I'm very, like,
family-oriented.
600
00:21:03,471 --> 00:21:05,262
That's really important
for me in a partner
601
00:21:05,264 --> 00:21:06,522
Is that they value family.
602
00:21:06,598 --> 00:21:08,007
I also value,
like, my alone time.
603
00:21:08,042 --> 00:21:09,166
- Mm-hmm.
604
00:21:09,243 --> 00:21:10,667
- I'm a very, like,
independent person,
605
00:21:10,745 --> 00:21:13,262
And I want my partner to also
be fulfilled enough as it is.
606
00:21:13,339 --> 00:21:15,589
They're not seeking someone to,
like, validate them.
607
00:21:15,666 --> 00:21:17,441
- Make them whole.
- Make them whole, exactly.
608
00:21:17,443 --> 00:21:18,267
- Yeah, ok.
- Yeah.
609
00:21:18,269 --> 00:21:19,693
- That's the therapist in you.
610
00:21:19,695 --> 00:21:21,270
- Yeah, exactly.
611
00:21:21,347 --> 00:21:24,206
- Well, it has been a pleasure
getting to know you...
612
00:21:24,283 --> 00:21:25,491
- You too.
- And meeting you.
613
00:21:25,526 --> 00:21:27,876
Hopefully, I'll see you again.
- I hope so.
614
00:21:27,953 --> 00:21:29,028
- Yes.
- I really hope so.
615
00:21:29,063 --> 00:21:30,454
That would be amazing.
616
00:21:30,456 --> 00:21:33,365
[upbeat music]
617
00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:34,608
♪
618
00:21:34,685 --> 00:21:36,602
- Who has an animal?
619
00:21:36,637 --> 00:21:39,855
- Well, they're not my cats,
but, you know,
620
00:21:39,857 --> 00:21:42,224
We have two cats right now.
621
00:21:42,301 --> 00:21:44,176
Well, technically,
we have like seven cats.
622
00:21:44,286 --> 00:21:45,511
- Holy crap. What?
623
00:21:45,546 --> 00:21:49,048
- Yeah, well, one of the cats
had a litter recently.
624
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,624
So--they're not here.
625
00:21:50,701 --> 00:21:52,476
- I was gonna--
well, I know they hide.
626
00:21:52,478 --> 00:21:53,643
- No, no, no.
627
00:21:53,645 --> 00:21:54,870
Well, yeah,
two of them are hidden,
628
00:21:54,905 --> 00:21:56,372
But the kittens are gone
right now, for the moment.
629
00:21:56,407 --> 00:21:57,798
- The other two
are here somewhere?
630
00:21:57,908 --> 00:21:59,308
- Yeah, they're somewhere.
- Ok.
631
00:21:59,310 --> 00:22:00,476
- Ok, cute.
- Right?
632
00:22:00,511 --> 00:22:02,135
- Ok.
- It's giving.
633
00:22:02,137 --> 00:22:05,614
All right,
brace yourself for my closet.
634
00:22:05,616 --> 00:22:08,575
- Oh, my--
girl, we on the wrong show.
635
00:22:08,653 --> 00:22:10,494
This is "hoarders."
636
00:22:10,496 --> 00:22:11,871
- If we found you somebody,
637
00:22:11,873 --> 00:22:14,223
What if he's explored
the same sex?
638
00:22:14,258 --> 00:22:15,257
Tell me how you
feel about that.
639
00:22:15,334 --> 00:22:16,742
- Yeah, I'm gonna
be ok with that
640
00:22:16,819 --> 00:22:19,669
Because I've explored
same sex before.
641
00:22:19,671 --> 00:22:20,896
- Mm-hmm.
642
00:22:20,931 --> 00:22:22,882
- And it doesn't
deter me from wanting
643
00:22:22,917 --> 00:22:24,766
To be married to a man.
644
00:22:24,843 --> 00:22:26,752
So if he's explored,
I think that's--
645
00:22:26,829 --> 00:22:28,754
I think that's kind of healthy
because sometimes
646
00:22:28,831 --> 00:22:31,223
You really don't know what
you like until you try it.
647
00:22:31,258 --> 00:22:32,457
- Ok, all right, great.
648
00:22:32,459 --> 00:22:33,775
Let's go out
in the living room.
649
00:22:33,852 --> 00:22:34,977
- Ok, come on out.
650
00:22:35,012 --> 00:22:37,346
- First of all,
this is really cozy.
651
00:22:37,348 --> 00:22:39,065
- Thanks.
- This is very cool.
652
00:22:39,100 --> 00:22:41,750
Tell me where you are as far
653
00:22:41,785 --> 00:22:46,297
As your pride of culture goes.
654
00:22:46,373 --> 00:22:51,952
- There are very little things
I love more than being black.
655
00:22:51,954 --> 00:22:53,329
There are very little.
656
00:22:53,439 --> 00:22:56,540
I love being black,
and it's important for me
657
00:22:56,542 --> 00:22:59,460
To marry someone who
understands my identity
658
00:22:59,537 --> 00:23:01,854
And my culture
because I want them
659
00:23:01,889 --> 00:23:04,489
To feel that type
of pride in their culture,
660
00:23:04,567 --> 00:23:05,791
In their skin.
661
00:23:05,793 --> 00:23:07,309
- Absolutely.
662
00:23:07,386 --> 00:23:09,061
- And so I want to make sure
that that happens
663
00:23:09,096 --> 00:23:10,971
In my house, for sure.
664
00:23:10,973 --> 00:23:16,585
- Is there a world
where that could happen
665
00:23:16,662 --> 00:23:20,164
With someone who is not black?
666
00:23:20,241 --> 00:23:22,733
[tense music]
667
00:23:25,980 --> 00:23:27,813
♪
668
00:23:27,890 --> 00:23:31,926
- I would be open to that
because I have a reverence
669
00:23:32,002 --> 00:23:33,243
For other cultures.
670
00:23:33,245 --> 00:23:35,804
I feel like if another person
of another culture
671
00:23:35,839 --> 00:23:38,624
Came in and also had
that curiosity...
672
00:23:38,659 --> 00:23:39,808
- Mm-mm-mm.
673
00:23:39,843 --> 00:23:41,827
- I could be open to that
because then we could
674
00:23:41,904 --> 00:23:43,236
Explore different
things together
675
00:23:43,314 --> 00:23:44,754
And learn about each other.
676
00:23:44,756 --> 00:23:47,432
- Yeah, and I don't
want you to feel as though
677
00:23:47,509 --> 00:23:49,910
I'm trying
to convince you or push you
678
00:23:49,987 --> 00:23:52,262
In any kind of direction.
679
00:23:52,264 --> 00:23:57,526
I simply want you to be open
to every possibility of love.
680
00:23:57,603 --> 00:23:59,311
- Yeah, I would be
comfortable with that.
681
00:23:59,346 --> 00:24:00,663
I would be comfortable
682
00:24:00,698 --> 00:24:03,666
And just enough un-comfort
that's curious.
683
00:24:03,701 --> 00:24:04,591
- Yeah.
684
00:24:04,669 --> 00:24:06,126
- Because that's really what
685
00:24:06,203 --> 00:24:08,069
That adventurous side of me is,
it's like, it's uncomfortable,
686
00:24:08,071 --> 00:24:09,571
But I'm intrigued.
687
00:24:09,573 --> 00:24:10,856
- Yeah.
688
00:24:10,933 --> 00:24:13,659
If we found this guy for you,
tell me what qualities would
689
00:24:13,694 --> 00:24:15,118
You want him to have?
690
00:24:15,120 --> 00:24:18,622
- We don't have to have
a similar sense of humor,
691
00:24:18,624 --> 00:24:21,083
But if we're making
each other laugh,
692
00:24:21,118 --> 00:24:25,037
That's big for me
because laughter is just--
693
00:24:25,072 --> 00:24:26,888
I seek it.
694
00:24:26,965 --> 00:24:29,708
If we can laugh off through
the good times and we can laugh
695
00:24:29,785 --> 00:24:31,710
Off some of the bad times too,
it will just make
696
00:24:31,787 --> 00:24:33,679
This process smoother,
and not just
697
00:24:33,714 --> 00:24:34,889
The eight-week process, like...
698
00:24:34,965 --> 00:24:37,365
- Right.
- Our marriage.
699
00:24:37,367 --> 00:24:41,336
Someone who is really
attentive to me.
700
00:24:41,414 --> 00:24:43,772
I feel like in the past,
I've had great partners,
701
00:24:43,807 --> 00:24:47,193
But they didn't have the amount
of care for me that I needed.
702
00:24:47,195 --> 00:24:50,062
And I really need
someone who is,
703
00:24:50,064 --> 00:24:52,806
For lack of a better word,
like, all about me.
704
00:24:52,883 --> 00:24:54,200
Like, that's my girl,
that's my wife.
705
00:24:54,235 --> 00:24:55,976
And I need to know
that he has my back.
706
00:24:55,978 --> 00:24:57,736
Like, if I turn around,
he's right there.
707
00:24:57,813 --> 00:24:59,755
I also want him to be--this is,
like, a little bit more
708
00:24:59,831 --> 00:25:01,648
Vain, but style.
709
00:25:01,726 --> 00:25:03,408
You got to be well-dressed.
- Ok.
710
00:25:03,485 --> 00:25:05,335
- We got to walk
into a room and turn heads.
711
00:25:05,337 --> 00:25:06,962
I really like that feeling
because it makes me
712
00:25:06,997 --> 00:25:08,588
More attractive to him.
713
00:25:08,666 --> 00:25:09,748
Like, look at everybody
looking at you.
714
00:25:09,825 --> 00:25:11,609
Oh, they're looking at us.
715
00:25:11,685 --> 00:25:12,927
[laughter]
716
00:25:13,003 --> 00:25:15,170
- You are
such a joy to talk to.
717
00:25:15,205 --> 00:25:16,554
- Thank you.
718
00:25:16,556 --> 00:25:18,657
- And I sincerely
believe that you would
719
00:25:18,692 --> 00:25:20,659
Make a very, very good wife.
720
00:25:20,694 --> 00:25:21,943
- Thank you.
721
00:25:22,020 --> 00:25:24,979
[upbeat music]
722
00:25:24,981 --> 00:25:26,398
♪
723
00:25:26,433 --> 00:25:28,234
- This is, like,
showroom ready.
724
00:25:28,269 --> 00:25:29,734
Ok.
725
00:25:29,812 --> 00:25:31,904
Oh, my gosh, I know how
somebody could torture you.
726
00:25:31,939 --> 00:25:33,030
- Yes!
727
00:25:33,032 --> 00:25:34,614
- They'd just throw
everything up, right?
728
00:25:34,616 --> 00:25:35,765
- Yes, 100%, yeah.
- You know?
729
00:25:35,843 --> 00:25:37,025
And you would go,
like, nuts, right?
730
00:25:37,102 --> 00:25:38,944
- I would have to fix it
pretty quickly.
731
00:25:39,021 --> 00:25:41,463
- We got to work on this
before you get married.
732
00:25:41,540 --> 00:25:42,872
- Ok, I plan to.
733
00:25:42,874 --> 00:25:44,874
See, it's a system, but it's
not--it don't make sense.
734
00:25:44,876 --> 00:25:46,393
That's why I need
an organized man,
735
00:25:46,503 --> 00:25:47,711
So he can be like, ah, ah, ah.
736
00:25:47,788 --> 00:25:49,938
- So you've been celibate the
whole time you've been here?
737
00:25:49,973 --> 00:25:51,047
- Yeah.
738
00:25:51,049 --> 00:25:52,107
- Sometimes we have urges.
739
00:25:52,142 --> 00:25:53,759
What do you do
about those urges?
740
00:25:53,794 --> 00:25:55,869
- I don't masturbate
or any of that.
741
00:25:55,946 --> 00:25:57,162
- Why not?
742
00:25:57,239 --> 00:25:59,431
- I just think
it's a sin, honestly.
743
00:25:59,466 --> 00:26:00,890
- You know,
it is what it is for you.
744
00:26:00,892 --> 00:26:02,951
- Yeah, and I mean,
it's not that big of a deal.
745
00:26:02,986 --> 00:26:04,544
- What's all this set up here?
746
00:26:04,622 --> 00:26:06,488
- So I used to be
a mountaineer.
747
00:26:06,565 --> 00:26:07,547
- Wow.
748
00:26:07,625 --> 00:26:09,942
- This one will kill you,
and this one won't.
749
00:26:09,977 --> 00:26:11,568
So it's good to know
the difference.
750
00:26:11,570 --> 00:26:14,579
- If I'm climbing a mountain,
cameron, you're my man.
751
00:26:14,656 --> 00:26:16,614
I'll definitely call you.
752
00:26:16,692 --> 00:26:18,284
- No condoms?
753
00:26:18,319 --> 00:26:19,726
- No, not really.
754
00:26:19,804 --> 00:26:21,069
- Not really?
755
00:26:21,104 --> 00:26:23,472
- That's just not something
that I do very often, so--
756
00:26:23,507 --> 00:26:24,640
- Have sex?
757
00:26:24,675 --> 00:26:26,809
- Well, have one-night stands.
758
00:26:26,811 --> 00:26:28,894
- So we're not gonna find
anything sexual in here?
759
00:26:28,929 --> 00:26:30,779
- No.
- Darn.
760
00:26:30,856 --> 00:26:32,231
♪
761
00:26:32,266 --> 00:26:35,442
- Yeah, I noticed your
splatter-paint red bottoms.
762
00:26:35,519 --> 00:26:36,534
- Look at you.
763
00:26:36,536 --> 00:26:40,413
- I like them, and I
actually splatter painted
764
00:26:40,491 --> 00:26:42,065
A suit for prom.
765
00:26:42,067 --> 00:26:42,916
- Do you have it?
- Yeah.
766
00:26:42,993 --> 00:26:44,509
- Can you go grab it?
- Sure.
767
00:26:44,586 --> 00:26:45,928
- And just come out in it.
768
00:26:45,963 --> 00:26:47,012
I want to see what
you look like.
769
00:26:47,089 --> 00:26:48,397
- Ok, sounds good.
770
00:26:48,432 --> 00:26:49,848
- All right!
- Yeah.
771
00:26:49,925 --> 00:26:51,792
- Yes!
- So it's a little old, but--
772
00:26:51,869 --> 00:26:53,343
- Snazzy.
773
00:26:53,421 --> 00:26:55,003
I like it, yeah.
774
00:26:55,038 --> 00:26:56,471
We're, like, matching.
- Yeah.
775
00:26:56,549 --> 00:26:58,932
- Well, that's super cool.
- Yeah.
776
00:26:59,009 --> 00:27:03,044
- So you've been super chill
and, like, kind of quiet here.
777
00:27:03,121 --> 00:27:04,880
Do you need
or want your partner
778
00:27:04,956 --> 00:27:08,358
To have some of, like, the same
quality as you do in that way,
779
00:27:08,436 --> 00:27:09,952
Or do you want someone
who's gonna, like,
780
00:27:09,954 --> 00:27:11,854
Help bring that excitement
out of you?
781
00:27:11,889 --> 00:27:14,006
- I mean,
is it weird to ask for both?
782
00:27:14,041 --> 00:27:15,281
Like, I think there's--
783
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:16,708
I think everything
in moderation, right?
784
00:27:16,743 --> 00:27:19,302
Like, I want
someone who's, like,
785
00:27:19,304 --> 00:27:21,646
A little more structured
and type-a and someone who,
786
00:27:21,723 --> 00:27:23,198
Like, can kind of,
like, keep me on task...
787
00:27:23,233 --> 00:27:24,366
- Yeah.
788
00:27:24,401 --> 00:27:26,142
- And someone, like,
that will also, like,
789
00:27:26,144 --> 00:27:27,627
Do those things-- like,
I can do those things for them,
790
00:27:27,705 --> 00:27:29,647
But, you know, there's times
when you need to, like,
791
00:27:29,723 --> 00:27:31,390
Be going, going, going,
and there's times
792
00:27:31,466 --> 00:27:32,858
When you just need to,
like, chill.
793
00:27:32,893 --> 00:27:35,227
And I think recognizing that,
and especially,
794
00:27:35,303 --> 00:27:36,745
Like, in social situations...
795
00:27:36,822 --> 00:27:37,863
- Yeah.
796
00:27:37,898 --> 00:27:40,907
- It's, like, important
and being able to be
797
00:27:40,909 --> 00:27:42,868
A social butterfly
and be able to, like,
798
00:27:42,870 --> 00:27:46,205
Hang out and meet new people
and just, you know,
799
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:47,997
Talk to my friends and being--
800
00:27:47,999 --> 00:27:49,833
Having that energy
would be great.
801
00:27:49,835 --> 00:27:52,335
- What if you've
got someone who is, yes,
802
00:27:52,337 --> 00:27:55,230
Very structured,
very professional, ambitious...
803
00:27:55,265 --> 00:27:56,339
- Yes.
804
00:27:56,341 --> 00:27:57,900
- Organized, will plan things,
805
00:27:57,935 --> 00:28:00,068
But also will, like,
talk, talk, talk, talk, talk,
806
00:28:00,103 --> 00:28:01,253
And is, like, full of energy?
807
00:28:01,329 --> 00:28:02,671
- Love that, perfect.
- Really?
808
00:28:02,748 --> 00:28:03,930
- That's exactly what I want.
809
00:28:03,932 --> 00:28:06,074
- Oh, say less.
- [laughs]
810
00:28:06,109 --> 00:28:07,517
- Ok.
811
00:28:07,519 --> 00:28:10,595
[upbeat music]
812
00:28:10,672 --> 00:28:13,339
- This is where
all the magic happens?
813
00:28:13,417 --> 00:28:15,283
- The magic happens.
Is supposed to happen.
814
00:28:15,360 --> 00:28:16,601
- Do you entertain?
815
00:28:16,678 --> 00:28:18,086
- No.
816
00:28:18,121 --> 00:28:19,512
- So you don't
bring women here?
817
00:28:19,590 --> 00:28:21,089
- [laughs]
no, no.
818
00:28:21,124 --> 00:28:22,257
- Why are you laughing?
819
00:28:22,259 --> 00:28:23,442
- No, no, no, no, no.
820
00:28:23,518 --> 00:28:24,910
I mean, we got seven cats.
821
00:28:24,912 --> 00:28:26,912
- Oh, god, yeah, I mean--
- I got roommates.
822
00:28:26,914 --> 00:28:28,630
- Yeah, that just
wouldn't be cool.
823
00:28:28,707 --> 00:28:30,666
- I got--you know, because
we're going into your bedroom,
824
00:28:30,668 --> 00:28:35,704
I brought with me some gloves
just in case I need them.
825
00:28:35,781 --> 00:28:37,356
- Ok.
826
00:28:37,391 --> 00:28:38,957
I don't use this.
It was given to me as a joke.
827
00:28:39,034 --> 00:28:40,475
- I know what it is.
828
00:28:40,552 --> 00:28:42,368
- I actually would use it,
and I would play with my cat.
829
00:28:42,446 --> 00:28:43,887
And she loves it.
- So that's great.
830
00:28:43,889 --> 00:28:45,614
You use toys.
I think that's wonderful.
831
00:28:45,649 --> 00:28:47,141
- There's no nightstand.
832
00:28:47,217 --> 00:28:48,308
- And I'll be honest--
833
00:28:48,385 --> 00:28:49,767
- That's where I was looking
for the goodies.
834
00:28:49,769 --> 00:28:50,986
- I think what you were
looking for was that.
835
00:28:51,062 --> 00:28:52,320
- It was this!
836
00:28:52,397 --> 00:28:53,505
Ok, so we've got--
837
00:28:53,507 --> 00:28:54,773
- And usually
it stays up there.
838
00:28:54,808 --> 00:28:56,525
- So you keep it underneath
the pillow for safekeeping.
839
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,159
- I do.
840
00:28:58,236 --> 00:28:59,445
- Storage.
- Nothing.
841
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:00,796
- I wish I had
some dirt for you.
842
00:29:00,831 --> 00:29:02,130
- There's nothing
exciting here.
843
00:29:02,165 --> 00:29:03,782
- There's no skeletons.
- No skeletons in your closet.
844
00:29:03,817 --> 00:29:05,000
- Sorry, no.
845
00:29:05,076 --> 00:29:06,485
- When was
your last relationship?
846
00:29:06,561 --> 00:29:08,003
- About a year ago.
847
00:29:08,079 --> 00:29:10,122
I just wanted a bit of a break.
848
00:29:10,124 --> 00:29:11,247
- Ok.
849
00:29:11,249 --> 00:29:13,082
- And I just haven't
been pursuing
850
00:29:13,084 --> 00:29:14,234
Committed relationships.
851
00:29:14,311 --> 00:29:15,644
- Significant,
committed relationships.
852
00:29:15,679 --> 00:29:16,795
- Yes.
853
00:29:16,830 --> 00:29:18,847
- Ok, so you're not, you know,
a choirboy or anything?
854
00:29:18,924 --> 00:29:20,089
- No.
[laughs]
855
00:29:20,091 --> 00:29:21,074
- Ok.
- Yeah.
856
00:29:21,151 --> 00:29:22,909
- Ok, does the accent
get you over?
857
00:29:22,987 --> 00:29:24,336
- It gets me in the door.
858
00:29:24,412 --> 00:29:25,654
- It gets you in the door.
Right, right.
859
00:29:25,689 --> 00:29:27,188
It's a resume.
- Bingo.
860
00:29:27,190 --> 00:29:28,690
- Ok, great, let's go.
861
00:29:28,725 --> 00:29:30,308
Let's go further.
862
00:29:30,310 --> 00:29:32,360
Let's sit and talk.
863
00:29:32,395 --> 00:29:33,695
How you feel
about this whole process?
864
00:29:33,730 --> 00:29:35,497
- I don't think
I've ever been more ready.
865
00:29:35,532 --> 00:29:36,515
- Really?
- Yes.
866
00:29:36,591 --> 00:29:38,934
- Emotionally,
I've been ready
867
00:29:38,969 --> 00:29:40,268
For a good few years.
868
00:29:40,345 --> 00:29:42,779
I mean, I don't know, let's
say maybe three or four years.
869
00:29:42,781 --> 00:29:45,281
I think I know who
I am in a relationship.
870
00:29:45,283 --> 00:29:49,236
And the kind of man
that I think I've become
871
00:29:49,238 --> 00:29:53,665
Is very reliable,
trustworthy almost--
872
00:29:53,667 --> 00:29:57,135
Almost to a fault,
and I would say
873
00:29:57,170 --> 00:29:58,945
I like to be
an important part--
874
00:29:59,023 --> 00:30:00,147
- Uh-huh.
875
00:30:00,223 --> 00:30:02,858
- Of my partner's life
without being
876
00:30:02,893 --> 00:30:04,784
Overburdensome or clingy
or anything like that.
877
00:30:04,862 --> 00:30:08,454
- In terms of attraction,
what can we do that would
878
00:30:08,532 --> 00:30:10,665
Make you incredibly happy?
879
00:30:10,700 --> 00:30:12,968
- I do like a slender woman.
880
00:30:13,003 --> 00:30:14,386
- Slender women, ok.
- Healthy.
881
00:30:14,388 --> 00:30:16,821
I enjoy going out...
- Mm-hmm.
882
00:30:16,898 --> 00:30:18,690
- Mountain biking and running.
883
00:30:18,725 --> 00:30:22,144
Like, you know, let's go out.
Let's go enjoy the mountains.
884
00:30:22,179 --> 00:30:23,195
- Ok.
- Right?
885
00:30:23,230 --> 00:30:25,488
That's the kind of fitness
that I'm interested in.
886
00:30:25,490 --> 00:30:26,798
- All right, great.
887
00:30:26,833 --> 00:30:28,141
I think we're making
some headway here.
888
00:30:28,218 --> 00:30:29,484
- Great.
889
00:30:29,561 --> 00:30:33,079
[upbeat music]
890
00:30:33,081 --> 00:30:34,263
- What's that?
891
00:30:34,265 --> 00:30:35,773
- My pinata costume
from Halloween.
892
00:30:35,851 --> 00:30:37,576
- Let me see it.
- Yeah.
893
00:30:37,652 --> 00:30:38,877
- That is the best.
- Isn't that nice?
894
00:30:38,912 --> 00:30:40,879
- That is the best.
I sincerely love that.
895
00:30:40,914 --> 00:30:42,171
- Yeah, isn't it fun?
896
00:30:42,173 --> 00:30:44,657
- So let's sit
down here and talk.
897
00:30:44,735 --> 00:30:47,660
Let's get more
on the issue at hand.
898
00:30:47,738 --> 00:30:50,556
You know, the biggest one
that bedevils me
899
00:30:50,591 --> 00:30:52,908
Is probably the one
that bedevils you,
900
00:30:52,943 --> 00:30:54,393
Which is the fact that--
901
00:30:54,428 --> 00:30:55,394
- Yeah.
902
00:30:55,429 --> 00:30:57,112
- You never had anything
past a fourth date.
903
00:30:57,188 --> 00:30:58,763
- Yeah, I've never had
a serious relationship
904
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:00,065
Or a boyfriend.
905
00:31:00,100 --> 00:31:04,119
- So tell me why
an attractive, accomplished,
906
00:31:04,195 --> 00:31:07,789
High-earning woman would
not let some romance...
907
00:31:07,866 --> 00:31:08,773
- Yeah.
908
00:31:08,850 --> 00:31:10,125
- And some
connection in her life.
909
00:31:10,201 --> 00:31:12,127
- Like, I just think
it's kind of the way
910
00:31:12,203 --> 00:31:13,945
That I've evolved as a person.
911
00:31:14,022 --> 00:31:15,872
I mean, being in your mid-20s,
like, there's so much
912
00:31:15,874 --> 00:31:18,283
To figure out, and I was,
like, focusing on myself,
913
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:19,709
Like, in my career.
914
00:31:19,711 --> 00:31:22,020
And the few times I did put
myself out there,
915
00:31:22,055 --> 00:31:23,772
It always was disappointing.
916
00:31:23,807 --> 00:31:26,942
But I really would love
to share my life with someone.
917
00:31:26,977 --> 00:31:30,028
And I wouldn't be doing this
if I wasn't serious about it
918
00:31:30,063 --> 00:31:31,463
And if I didn't want it.
919
00:31:31,539 --> 00:31:32,797
- What does he
have to look like?
920
00:31:32,832 --> 00:31:34,799
- I'm definitely in to,
like, the scruff look,
921
00:31:34,876 --> 00:31:36,484
But it really is
personality for me.
922
00:31:36,561 --> 00:31:37,986
Like, you could be
the hottest person,
923
00:31:38,063 --> 00:31:40,396
But if you're, like, sitting
there and have nothing to say
924
00:31:40,398 --> 00:31:42,641
Or, like, talk about yourself
or ask no questions or, like,
925
00:31:42,717 --> 00:31:46,111
You have no sense of humor,
like, I can't deal with that.
926
00:31:46,146 --> 00:31:49,164
- What do you think
someone would have
927
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:51,499
To either put up with
or accept?
928
00:31:51,576 --> 00:31:53,818
- Honestly, just I'm, like,
a go, go, go, go personality,
929
00:31:53,895 --> 00:31:56,138
And for some people, like,
that might be too much.
930
00:31:56,140 --> 00:31:57,289
I do swear a lot.
931
00:31:57,324 --> 00:31:58,974
I could get better at that.
932
00:31:58,976 --> 00:32:00,626
I need to be
better about money,
933
00:32:00,661 --> 00:32:01,843
So, like,
someone could be like,
934
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,145
You are spending too much.
935
00:32:03,180 --> 00:32:04,404
I'm getting better,
but that is something
936
00:32:04,481 --> 00:32:06,798
I still will admit
I'm not great at.
937
00:32:06,833 --> 00:32:10,152
Other than that, my true
insecurity is really this,
938
00:32:10,187 --> 00:32:14,289
Is that I'm just never gonna
be in love or get married,
939
00:32:14,324 --> 00:32:17,842
And that's
obviously what I want.
940
00:32:17,995 --> 00:32:20,871
- Well, my worry
with matching you
941
00:32:20,947 --> 00:32:26,592
Is just because you don't have
a track record of attachment.
942
00:32:26,670 --> 00:32:28,770
So what makes you think--
943
00:32:28,847 --> 00:32:31,356
And this is
a serious question--
944
00:32:31,391 --> 00:32:35,451
Because when I think
of both members of the couple,
945
00:32:35,453 --> 00:32:38,530
I want to do right
by both members in the couple
946
00:32:38,565 --> 00:32:40,807
Because this is a marriage.
947
00:32:40,884 --> 00:32:42,959
It is really important.
948
00:32:42,961 --> 00:32:45,720
What makes you think that
you will be able to embrace
949
00:32:45,797 --> 00:32:48,223
This person, if we find
someone that we think
950
00:32:48,225 --> 00:32:51,710
Would be right for you,
in a serious a way
951
00:32:51,786 --> 00:32:53,286
As marriage demands?
952
00:32:53,396 --> 00:32:54,721
- Um...
953
00:32:57,534 --> 00:32:59,718
I'm a very, like,
adaptable person.
954
00:32:59,870 --> 00:33:03,188
I think it just goes down to,
like, my core strengths.
955
00:33:03,223 --> 00:33:05,314
I'm really caring.
I'm really loving.
956
00:33:05,316 --> 00:33:06,708
I'm very understanding.
957
00:33:06,743 --> 00:33:08,226
And I am patient.
958
00:33:08,303 --> 00:33:12,214
And I just don't ever
see a avenue of me
959
00:33:12,216 --> 00:33:13,732
Not being able
to figure it out.
960
00:33:13,808 --> 00:33:17,418
This is fully a one-time thing.
961
00:33:17,495 --> 00:33:19,312
- Ok, well,
thanks so much for this.
962
00:33:19,389 --> 00:33:21,389
I really do feel like
I know you better,
963
00:33:21,424 --> 00:33:24,667
And I do believe that you
would put everything into it.
964
00:33:24,669 --> 00:33:25,744
- I know I can do this.
965
00:33:25,820 --> 00:33:30,506
I just need people
to also take a chance on me.
966
00:33:30,508 --> 00:33:34,236
- ♪ it all starts in a moment like this ♪
967
00:33:34,345 --> 00:33:37,280
♪ it always comes true
968
00:33:37,357 --> 00:33:38,439
- These are
your vitamins in here?
969
00:33:38,516 --> 00:33:39,682
- Yeah, those
are all my vitamins.
970
00:33:39,684 --> 00:33:41,342
These are ones
that I take every day.
971
00:33:41,419 --> 00:33:43,578
Collagen helps with
my skin, hair, and nails.
972
00:33:43,613 --> 00:33:44,796
Calcium and magnesium.
973
00:33:44,873 --> 00:33:46,264
Biotin for hair.
974
00:33:46,341 --> 00:33:49,251
B12, b6, 5-htp.
975
00:33:49,253 --> 00:33:50,919
And then I have
more down here too.
976
00:33:51,029 --> 00:33:52,170
- Wow.
- Yeah.
977
00:33:52,205 --> 00:33:53,613
- You're healthy.
- Yeah.
978
00:33:53,615 --> 00:33:54,789
- Well, good.
Let's go talk.
979
00:33:54,866 --> 00:33:56,191
- Yeah.
- You got nice style.
980
00:33:56,226 --> 00:33:57,801
- I try to have
some rhyme or reason.
981
00:33:57,878 --> 00:33:59,827
So, like, that's all
tailored wear there.
982
00:33:59,829 --> 00:34:01,112
- Oh, tailored wear.
983
00:34:01,114 --> 00:34:02,980
Excuse me.
984
00:34:02,982 --> 00:34:05,375
- Let's go talk outside.
985
00:34:05,452 --> 00:34:07,376
All right.
986
00:34:07,378 --> 00:34:08,753
[upbeat music]
987
00:34:08,830 --> 00:34:10,196
How do you feel about all this?
988
00:34:10,274 --> 00:34:11,806
- I feel excited.
- Yeah?
989
00:34:11,883 --> 00:34:13,049
- I feel excited.
990
00:34:13,051 --> 00:34:14,292
Yeah, I'm ready
to meet my person,
991
00:34:14,369 --> 00:34:17,220
And I do believe
that the universe puts things
992
00:34:17,222 --> 00:34:19,647
And experiences in front
of you to teach you,
993
00:34:19,724 --> 00:34:22,100
To help you grow,
and to help you attract
994
00:34:22,135 --> 00:34:23,651
The things that you deserve.
995
00:34:23,728 --> 00:34:25,561
- Yeah, what are you
looking forward to?
996
00:34:25,563 --> 00:34:27,146
- I wake up alone every day.
997
00:34:27,148 --> 00:34:30,275
I would love to wake up with
my husband and make him coffee,
998
00:34:30,310 --> 00:34:32,343
And we get to kind of have
this morning together.
999
00:34:32,421 --> 00:34:34,462
Ideally, it'd be great
to be with someone that's
1000
00:34:34,497 --> 00:34:36,739
As, you know,
grounded as well that...
1001
00:34:36,741 --> 00:34:37,982
- Absolutely.
- Might not get super fiery.
1002
00:34:38,059 --> 00:34:40,135
But if they do, like,
my energy is grounding,
1003
00:34:40,170 --> 00:34:42,654
And I do believe
that if one person comes in
1004
00:34:42,730 --> 00:34:44,489
With a fiery energy,
if you come
1005
00:34:44,566 --> 00:34:46,232
In with a sweet,
grounding energy...
1006
00:34:46,310 --> 00:34:47,733
- Oh, it makes a difference.
- You're gonna balance it out.
1007
00:34:47,811 --> 00:34:49,311
I'm excited
to grow with somebody,
1008
00:34:49,346 --> 00:34:52,163
And to work through life
and to support each other,
1009
00:34:52,240 --> 00:34:55,150
And to find someone
I can deeply connect with
1010
00:34:55,185 --> 00:34:57,168
Because I've been missing that.
1011
00:34:57,245 --> 00:35:00,371
[upbeat music]
1012
00:35:00,449 --> 00:35:01,589
- This is pretty.
1013
00:35:01,666 --> 00:35:03,099
Is there a story
behind these flowers?
1014
00:35:03,101 --> 00:35:06,328
- Oh, yeah, those
are actually from exes.
1015
00:35:06,363 --> 00:35:08,337
- Ok, would you be cool
if your husband
1016
00:35:08,415 --> 00:35:09,597
Had gifts from their ex?
1017
00:35:09,750 --> 00:35:11,591
- If they were, like, panties,
I'd probably hate it.
1018
00:35:11,668 --> 00:35:13,092
But--
- ok.
1019
00:35:13,170 --> 00:35:14,610
- If it was, like,
a painting or something,
1020
00:35:14,612 --> 00:35:16,204
I'd be fine with that.
1021
00:35:16,281 --> 00:35:17,180
- All right, interesting.
1022
00:35:17,257 --> 00:35:19,374
- And this is my bedroom.
1023
00:35:19,409 --> 00:35:22,627
- So have you ever
had sex in this bed?
1024
00:35:22,704 --> 00:35:23,869
- Yes, I have.
1025
00:35:23,871 --> 00:35:25,280
- Look, so why
don't I see condoms?
1026
00:35:25,315 --> 00:35:26,698
- They're hiding.
1027
00:35:26,774 --> 00:35:28,834
- Ok.
1028
00:35:28,869 --> 00:35:30,127
- Ok.
1029
00:35:32,314 --> 00:35:36,224
So tell me a little bit about
why you're still willing to go
1030
00:35:36,301 --> 00:35:38,009
Further into this process.
1031
00:35:38,011 --> 00:35:40,278
- For me, I just think
of nothing but positives.
1032
00:35:40,313 --> 00:35:42,864
Having a wife, being able
to do all the fun things with,
1033
00:35:42,899 --> 00:35:43,956
Build new memories with,
1034
00:35:44,067 --> 00:35:45,650
All that just sounds
incredible to me.
1035
00:35:45,727 --> 00:35:47,902
So the more I think about it,
the more excited
1036
00:35:47,979 --> 00:35:49,220
I get and hopeful.
1037
00:35:49,297 --> 00:35:51,572
- What is your vision
of this woman who would
1038
00:35:51,649 --> 00:35:55,318
Be your wife and how that would
operate on a day-to-day basis?
1039
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:58,154
- Yeah, so I definitely
have traditional values.
1040
00:35:58,156 --> 00:35:59,364
- Mm-hmm.
1041
00:35:59,474 --> 00:36:02,658
- But I would like for her
to have a career, definitely.
1042
00:36:02,660 --> 00:36:05,236
As long as we have a good
work-life balance where we put
1043
00:36:05,313 --> 00:36:07,088
Each other first
and our careers second,
1044
00:36:07,165 --> 00:36:08,773
That's all that matters to me.
1045
00:36:08,850 --> 00:36:11,576
- What are the best qualities
that you would really
1046
00:36:11,653 --> 00:36:13,428
Feel lucky to have in her?
1047
00:36:13,504 --> 00:36:15,213
- Someone who's
supportive, warm.
1048
00:36:15,248 --> 00:36:17,899
I feel like I need, like,
a girl that's just in between,
1049
00:36:17,934 --> 00:36:21,403
Like, confident and not
too overly confident,
1050
00:36:21,438 --> 00:36:23,571
Where it's everything's
about me and I'm always right.
1051
00:36:23,606 --> 00:36:24,847
- Yeah.
1052
00:36:24,849 --> 00:36:26,941
- For me, I'm a very,
I would say, balanced person.
1053
00:36:27,018 --> 00:36:28,359
Like, I'm very down to earth.
1054
00:36:28,436 --> 00:36:30,395
Like, I'm very
trusting and loyal.
1055
00:36:30,430 --> 00:36:32,981
That's also, you know, what
I'm looking for in a partner
1056
00:36:33,016 --> 00:36:36,234
Because I think there's
chemistry and connection.
1057
00:36:36,269 --> 00:36:37,952
And I think there's
the other pillars
1058
00:36:38,029 --> 00:36:40,447
Where it's communication,
trust, honesty, loyalty.
1059
00:36:40,523 --> 00:36:43,124
So that, to me,
for a successful marriage,
1060
00:36:43,201 --> 00:36:45,701
You need to have
all of those things.
1061
00:36:45,779 --> 00:36:47,929
My mindset isn't
to look at this
1062
00:36:47,964 --> 00:36:50,782
Like everything has
to be perfect up front.
1063
00:36:50,858 --> 00:36:53,276
My total understanding
is that this is gonna
1064
00:36:53,353 --> 00:36:54,786
Take time and be a process.
1065
00:36:54,788 --> 00:36:56,479
Like, I want us to be a team.
1066
00:36:56,481 --> 00:36:57,780
I want us to do this
together and lean
1067
00:36:57,858 --> 00:36:59,365
On each other for support.
1068
00:36:59,443 --> 00:37:00,634
And we're gonna get
through this together.
1069
00:37:00,710 --> 00:37:02,535
And I think that's the
only way we can, honestly.
1070
00:37:02,612 --> 00:37:04,779
- It is.
1071
00:37:04,814 --> 00:37:09,266
- ♪ we're gonna leave no stone unturned ♪
1072
00:37:09,268 --> 00:37:13,421
♪ yeah, we're moving onward and upward ♪
1073
00:37:13,423 --> 00:37:15,548
- Oh, nice, record player.
1074
00:37:15,625 --> 00:37:18,376
- Yes.
- Ok, a diffuser.
1075
00:37:18,411 --> 00:37:20,737
This is sexy, michael.
1076
00:37:20,814 --> 00:37:22,447
- I mean, I try
to create a vibe in here.
1077
00:37:22,482 --> 00:37:24,082
- Ok.
1078
00:37:24,158 --> 00:37:27,652
So tell me, why are you ready
to not be single anymore?
1079
00:37:27,729 --> 00:37:30,238
- As much as I
enjoy being single,
1080
00:37:30,273 --> 00:37:32,840
I've always viewed it as,
like, this is my process
1081
00:37:32,842 --> 00:37:35,310
To trying to find
and be in a relationship.
1082
00:37:35,420 --> 00:37:37,428
- Ok, and tell me,
what are you looking for
1083
00:37:37,430 --> 00:37:38,921
In your ideal wife?
1084
00:37:38,923 --> 00:37:40,589
Like, if you close your eyes,
you look down the aisle,
1085
00:37:40,591 --> 00:37:41,849
What do you see?
1086
00:37:41,926 --> 00:37:44,268
- I mean, I do tend to
gravitate to a little bit of,
1087
00:37:44,421 --> 00:37:45,586
Like, darker features.
1088
00:37:45,621 --> 00:37:47,263
- Ok.
- So darker, hair, darker eyes.
1089
00:37:47,265 --> 00:37:48,840
- Mm-hmm.
- A nice complexion.
1090
00:37:48,916 --> 00:37:50,583
Those are probably
the immediate things
1091
00:37:50,660 --> 00:37:51,843
That I would hope to see.
1092
00:37:51,878 --> 00:37:53,511
- Looks aside--
- mm-hmm.
1093
00:37:53,546 --> 00:37:55,588
- What are you looking for
on the inside of your wife?
1094
00:37:55,665 --> 00:37:58,149
- I think one of the things
or a couple of the things
1095
00:37:58,184 --> 00:37:59,517
That really
resonate with me is,
1096
00:37:59,594 --> 00:38:01,169
Like, a strong sense of self.
1097
00:38:01,204 --> 00:38:02,020
- Mm.
1098
00:38:02,096 --> 00:38:03,538
- So them having a high level
1099
00:38:03,540 --> 00:38:06,341
Of confidence in who they are,
how they see the world.
1100
00:38:06,376 --> 00:38:08,443
As long as they have that...
- Mm-hmm.
1101
00:38:08,595 --> 00:38:10,035
- You know, that
sense of confidence,
1102
00:38:10,037 --> 00:38:13,714
That really resonates with me,
a level of drive and ambition.
1103
00:38:13,791 --> 00:38:16,817
And, you know, for me,
if I was with a woman
1104
00:38:16,895 --> 00:38:18,469
That really wanted children...
1105
00:38:18,504 --> 00:38:19,554
- Mm-hmm.
1106
00:38:19,630 --> 00:38:21,055
- I would definitely
be open to it,
1107
00:38:21,132 --> 00:38:23,691
But I would hope that we were
at a place that we feel
1108
00:38:23,726 --> 00:38:27,636
Very fulfilled and enriched
in our relationship and that
1109
00:38:27,638 --> 00:38:29,638
We're at a place
that we see that
1110
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:31,791
Enrichment now
coming through, like,
1111
00:38:31,868 --> 00:38:33,184
Raising a child together.
1112
00:38:33,219 --> 00:38:34,477
- Ok, yeah.
1113
00:38:34,479 --> 00:38:35,903
- Those are the things that,
at the core,
1114
00:38:35,980 --> 00:38:38,489
Right off the bat, I would hope
to have in a woman.
1115
00:38:38,566 --> 00:38:39,465
- Ok.
1116
00:38:39,543 --> 00:38:41,042
Any deal breakers for you?
1117
00:38:41,077 --> 00:38:44,462
- If I was with a woman
that really just wanted
1118
00:38:44,497 --> 00:38:47,323
To stay within a particular
bubble and kind of cultivate
1119
00:38:47,325 --> 00:38:49,233
A lifestyle
in that set ecosystem...
1120
00:38:49,310 --> 00:38:50,418
- Mm.
1121
00:38:50,495 --> 00:38:51,745
- That would be
very tough for me.
1122
00:38:51,747 --> 00:38:55,623
You know, I like to think I
have a big curiosity for life.
1123
00:38:55,658 --> 00:38:57,976
That informs my travel
and trying new things.
1124
00:38:58,011 --> 00:38:59,418
- Mm-hmm.
1125
00:38:59,420 --> 00:39:00,995
- So if that's just something
that doesn't interest them,
1126
00:39:01,072 --> 00:39:02,822
I would find that challenging.
1127
00:39:02,899 --> 00:39:04,490
- Fair enough.
1128
00:39:04,568 --> 00:39:07,435
[upbeat music]
1129
00:39:07,512 --> 00:39:10,572
- ♪ I've been feeling I'm falling deeper ♪
1130
00:39:10,607 --> 00:39:11,573
- Wow!
1131
00:39:11,575 --> 00:39:12,924
- We are now
at the moment, guys.
1132
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:14,225
- Yay!
1133
00:39:14,260 --> 00:39:16,811
- Yes, we are going
to make some matches.
1134
00:39:16,846 --> 00:39:19,247
I think we have
a really great group here.
1135
00:39:19,282 --> 00:39:20,264
- Mm-hmm.
- Yes.
1136
00:39:20,341 --> 00:39:22,116
- But there are gonna
be some hard choices.
1137
00:39:22,193 --> 00:39:24,427
- I think we've done a great
job vetting these people.
1138
00:39:24,504 --> 00:39:25,353
- Mm-hmm.
1139
00:39:25,430 --> 00:39:27,489
- And we have some
great candidates
1140
00:39:27,524 --> 00:39:29,448
To make some lifelong matches.
1141
00:39:29,450 --> 00:39:31,459
- Yeah, and being
new to the process,
1142
00:39:31,536 --> 00:39:33,544
I didn't realize
how extensive it is.
1143
00:39:33,621 --> 00:39:34,779
- Yeah.
1144
00:39:34,856 --> 00:39:36,864
- So I am ready to dive in
and work through these matches.
1145
00:39:36,941 --> 00:39:39,267
- Why don't we try
starting with cameron?
1146
00:39:39,302 --> 00:39:42,587
- I had a lot of fun meeting with cameron.
1147
00:39:42,622 --> 00:39:45,056
He's really a nice guy.
He was very welcoming.
1148
00:39:45,091 --> 00:39:47,575
Whoever we choose for him,
they're really gonna like him.
1149
00:39:47,652 --> 00:39:50,053
I mean, he's 32 years old,
a bike shop owner.
1150
00:39:50,130 --> 00:39:52,288
He's an entrepreneur.
And he has that--you know,
1151
00:39:52,365 --> 00:39:53,664
That new zealand thing
going on.
1152
00:39:53,699 --> 00:39:54,649
- Ok.
1153
00:39:54,684 --> 00:39:56,350
- He's a serious biker, and he's really
1154
00:39:56,352 --> 00:39:58,369
Dedicated to his athleticism.
1155
00:39:58,404 --> 00:40:01,755
He's looking for somebody who's
independent, who's strong,
1156
00:40:01,908 --> 00:40:03,141
But who can make
their own decisions.
1157
00:40:03,217 --> 00:40:05,226
He's not really
a traditionalist, necessarily.
1158
00:40:05,261 --> 00:40:07,069
He's looking for a real
collaborative relationship.
1159
00:40:07,071 --> 00:40:08,079
- Mm-hmm.
- Right.
1160
00:40:08,155 --> 00:40:09,981
He wants
an adventurous person...
1161
00:40:10,016 --> 00:40:11,533
- Right.
1162
00:40:11,568 --> 00:40:13,142
- Because that's a lot of his life, being in the mountains.
1163
00:40:13,220 --> 00:40:14,477
- Right.
1164
00:40:14,554 --> 00:40:15,820
- Well, so this one's kind
of tricky because we've got
1165
00:40:15,897 --> 00:40:17,246
Two potential matches
for cameron.
1166
00:40:17,248 --> 00:40:18,564
- Right.
1167
00:40:18,642 --> 00:40:20,708
- We've got jessica, and then we've also got clare.
1168
00:40:20,710 --> 00:40:23,311
- They both have some really great qualities,
1169
00:40:23,346 --> 00:40:26,814
But we need to really look
at which qualities really
1170
00:40:26,816 --> 00:40:28,282
Are gonna be compatible to him.
1171
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,135
So yeah, it's gonna be tough.
1172
00:40:33,347 --> 00:40:34,863
- So this one's kind of tricky
because we've got
1173
00:40:34,865 --> 00:40:36,449
Two potential matches
for cameron.
1174
00:40:36,526 --> 00:40:37,867
- Right.
1175
00:40:37,944 --> 00:40:40,294
- We've got jessica, and then we've also got clare.
1176
00:40:40,329 --> 00:40:42,730
- They both have some really great qualities.
1177
00:40:42,807 --> 00:40:44,106
- Well, let's start
with jessica.
1178
00:40:44,108 --> 00:40:45,600
- I visited jessica.
1179
00:40:45,635 --> 00:40:50,029
She is so dedicated to yoga.
1180
00:40:50,106 --> 00:40:52,523
When you look up yoga in the dictionary, you see her face.
1181
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:53,933
She is yoga.
1182
00:40:54,010 --> 00:40:55,443
- There's something
about the energy
1183
00:40:55,478 --> 00:40:56,661
Difference between them.
1184
00:40:56,696 --> 00:40:58,429
- Yeah.
- He's intense.
1185
00:40:58,539 --> 00:41:00,965
And she's kind of like
go with the flow.
1186
00:41:00,967 --> 00:41:02,633
- Right.
- And that would worry me.
1187
00:41:02,744 --> 00:41:03,668
- Sure.
1188
00:41:03,703 --> 00:41:07,805
- Her ideal man is
sort of like a thor.
1189
00:41:07,882 --> 00:41:09,724
- He ain't thor.
- No.
1190
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:11,058
- No, he-- - he's not giving thor.
1191
00:41:11,135 --> 00:41:12,560
- No, he's not giving me thor.
1192
00:41:12,637 --> 00:41:14,128
He would be attracted to her.
1193
00:41:14,163 --> 00:41:16,431
I don't know if she
would necessarily
1194
00:41:16,466 --> 00:41:18,466
Find him her cup of tea.
1195
00:41:18,543 --> 00:41:21,469
- Maybe a better
match might be clare.
1196
00:41:21,546 --> 00:41:22,903
- Let's talk about her.
1197
00:41:22,980 --> 00:41:25,072
- So I really enjoyed clare.
1198
00:41:25,149 --> 00:41:27,399
I think she is driven.
I think she's motivated.
1199
00:41:27,401 --> 00:41:30,378
She's got, like, just a great
spirit and energy about her.
1200
00:41:30,413 --> 00:41:32,429
I might be a little bit biased
because she's a therapist,
1201
00:41:32,507 --> 00:41:34,148
So I think she's
really in tune
1202
00:41:34,225 --> 00:41:36,259
With her emotional
intelligence.
1203
00:41:36,336 --> 00:41:38,602
She's very family-oriented.
- Mm.
1204
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:40,254
- And fitness is really important to her.
1205
00:41:40,289 --> 00:41:42,206
She wakes up like
5:00 a.M. Every day
1206
00:41:42,208 --> 00:41:44,042
And, like, gets her workout in
and then starts her day.
1207
00:41:44,077 --> 00:41:46,377
So I just really love clare.
1208
00:41:46,412 --> 00:41:47,795
- What kind of guy
is she looking for?
1209
00:41:47,830 --> 00:41:50,715
- She wants someone who's tall,
who's family-oriented...
1210
00:41:50,717 --> 00:41:52,758
- Ok.
- Who can be goofy.
1211
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:53,968
- Ok.
- Now he matches that.
1212
00:41:54,078 --> 00:41:55,903
She's looking
for that equal partnership...
1213
00:41:55,938 --> 00:41:57,155
- Yeah.
1214
00:41:57,190 --> 00:41:58,622
- Not the traditional gender
roles within a marriage.
1215
00:41:58,700 --> 00:41:59,640
- Right, yeah.
1216
00:41:59,642 --> 00:42:00,675
- Well, I think clare sounds,
1217
00:42:00,751 --> 00:42:02,251
To me, the much better match.
1218
00:42:02,329 --> 00:42:06,331
Similar discipline,
similar use of the outdoors,
1219
00:42:06,366 --> 00:42:09,667
And a fitness regime,
intelligence.
1220
00:42:09,702 --> 00:42:12,787
I think matched intelligence
in this case is really good.
1221
00:42:12,863 --> 00:42:15,097
And I think they'll both
find each other attractive.
1222
00:42:15,175 --> 00:42:16,932
- They both have
the same values.
1223
00:42:17,010 --> 00:42:18,283
They both want
to have children.
1224
00:42:18,285 --> 00:42:19,377
I don't think
that either of them
1225
00:42:19,453 --> 00:42:20,945
Want to have
children right away.
1226
00:42:21,022 --> 00:42:24,615
So I think that they're
going to find compatibility.
1227
00:42:24,692 --> 00:42:27,793
- The question is,
are the central, core things
1228
00:42:27,795 --> 00:42:29,337
They need in place?
1229
00:42:29,372 --> 00:42:32,540
And I see these two as being a good team...
1230
00:42:32,575 --> 00:42:33,616
- Yeah.
1231
00:42:33,693 --> 00:42:35,151
- Of respecting each
other's way of life.
1232
00:42:35,228 --> 00:42:37,261
So I see them together.
1233
00:42:37,263 --> 00:42:38,529
- Yeah.
- Mm-hmm.
1234
00:42:38,564 --> 00:42:40,381
- I think we all agree,
and I think it's official here
1235
00:42:40,416 --> 00:42:42,433
That we have our first match.
1236
00:42:42,435 --> 00:42:43,726
Am I right?
- Absolutely.
1237
00:42:43,803 --> 00:42:45,094
- You're right.
1238
00:42:45,096 --> 00:42:46,271
- Clare and cameron.
1239
00:42:46,306 --> 00:42:48,956
I can't wait for them to meet each other.
1240
00:42:48,991 --> 00:42:50,341
I think this is gonna be great.
1241
00:42:50,376 --> 00:42:52,593
- One down, four to go.
1242
00:42:52,671 --> 00:42:55,054
- One down, four to go.
- Ok, who's next?
1243
00:42:55,131 --> 00:42:59,583
- I would love
to talk about lauren.
1244
00:42:59,660 --> 00:43:00,784
- Yay.
1245
00:43:00,786 --> 00:43:03,487
- I absolutely love this girl.
1246
00:43:03,564 --> 00:43:07,258
She just exudes such a positive
energy and zest for life,
1247
00:43:07,334 --> 00:43:10,043
And she has a different style,
but I love it.
1248
00:43:10,045 --> 00:43:11,086
- Yeah.
1249
00:43:11,088 --> 00:43:13,172
- She's a little settled
in the fact
1250
00:43:13,174 --> 00:43:16,533
That she wants someone
who can identify
1251
00:43:16,611 --> 00:43:17,918
With the black experience.
1252
00:43:17,995 --> 00:43:19,137
- Mm.
- Yes, right, right.
1253
00:43:19,172 --> 00:43:20,438
- She's open
to different races.
1254
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:21,255
- Absolutely.
1255
00:43:21,290 --> 00:43:22,423
- She's open
to different people,
1256
00:43:22,425 --> 00:43:26,602
But I need someone
who can understand me,
1257
00:43:26,604 --> 00:43:27,586
Understand my culture,
1258
00:43:27,664 --> 00:43:30,381
And where I don't
have to explain,
1259
00:43:30,416 --> 00:43:31,632
You know, my experience and...
1260
00:43:31,710 --> 00:43:32,983
Both: Right.
1261
00:43:32,985 --> 00:43:34,711
- And my culture's experience.
- Mm-hmm.
1262
00:43:34,787 --> 00:43:36,421
- I think the other thing is,
she said she wants
1263
00:43:36,456 --> 00:43:39,039
Someone who can
provide her emotional safety.
1264
00:43:39,116 --> 00:43:40,057
- Yeah.
1265
00:43:40,135 --> 00:43:41,509
- That's something that's
really important for her,
1266
00:43:41,619 --> 00:43:43,494
Someone who has,
like, a calming spirit.
1267
00:43:43,529 --> 00:43:44,995
- Yeah.
- She's a lot of things.
1268
00:43:44,997 --> 00:43:47,406
I mean, because she
likes meditation...
1269
00:43:47,483 --> 00:43:48,616
- Yeah.
1270
00:43:48,693 --> 00:43:52,419
- And yoga, and yet, she also likes climbing...
1271
00:43:52,421 --> 00:43:53,879
- Yeah. - And adventurous sports.
1272
00:43:53,881 --> 00:43:55,982
And she likes to be the bright light in the room
1273
00:43:56,058 --> 00:43:57,558
To make people feel good.
1274
00:43:57,593 --> 00:43:59,710
And I like the fact
she was very open
1275
00:43:59,787 --> 00:44:03,564
About her sexual history,
that she has been with women,
1276
00:44:03,641 --> 00:44:04,873
She's been with men.
1277
00:44:04,951 --> 00:44:07,477
I mean, she's very clear that
she wants to be with a man,
1278
00:44:07,553 --> 00:44:10,721
But she wants to be
accepted for who she is.
1279
00:44:10,756 --> 00:44:11,789
- Yeah.
1280
00:44:11,899 --> 00:44:12,940
- Good for her
for being brave and honest.
1281
00:44:13,050 --> 00:44:14,274
- Yeah.
1282
00:44:14,276 --> 00:44:15,692
- And I think that's
been a challenge of hers,
1283
00:44:15,694 --> 00:44:17,010
As far as finding a match.
1284
00:44:17,088 --> 00:44:20,615
Because of her sexuality,
it has been difficult for her
1285
00:44:20,650 --> 00:44:22,867
To find somebody
who is willing to accept...
1286
00:44:22,902 --> 00:44:24,326
- Right.
- All that she is.
1287
00:44:24,404 --> 00:44:25,494
- Well, and to that point,
1288
00:44:25,496 --> 00:44:27,496
She's a very independent
black woman.
1289
00:44:27,498 --> 00:44:29,248
She's not looking for someone to take care of her.
1290
00:44:29,250 --> 00:44:30,415
She can hold her own.
1291
00:44:30,417 --> 00:44:31,817
So I think that,
one, that's important,
1292
00:44:31,895 --> 00:44:34,520
But we needed to find someone
who can be accepting of that.
1293
00:44:34,630 --> 00:44:35,763
- Yeah.
1294
00:44:35,798 --> 00:44:38,316
- She needs somebody
who can take all of her in,
1295
00:44:38,351 --> 00:44:42,336
Can accept it, understand
her culture in the right way.
1296
00:44:42,413 --> 00:44:45,523
And I think we all
know who that is.
1297
00:44:45,599 --> 00:44:47,842
- So I think we're
talking about orion here.
1298
00:44:47,877 --> 00:44:49,635
I mean, what's not
to love about orion?
1299
00:44:49,637 --> 00:44:51,913
- Let's see here. Orion.
1300
00:44:51,948 --> 00:44:55,066
- I feel like this may
be a magical match.
1301
00:44:55,101 --> 00:44:57,335
He's 26 years old.
1302
00:44:57,370 --> 00:44:58,461
He's a business owner.
1303
00:44:58,538 --> 00:45:01,096
He's easy-going
and compassionate,
1304
00:45:01,174 --> 00:45:02,948
Funny, competitive.
1305
00:45:03,026 --> 00:45:04,933
And I think
he's loyal to a fault.
1306
00:45:05,011 --> 00:45:08,863
He has
american indian heritage.
1307
00:45:08,898 --> 00:45:10,915
He's very proud of his culture,
1308
00:45:10,917 --> 00:45:14,101
And he's very involved in it.
1309
00:45:14,178 --> 00:45:16,087
He goes to the gym.
He snowboards.
1310
00:45:16,122 --> 00:45:18,714
I mean, he is a colorado guy, you know?
1311
00:45:18,716 --> 00:45:20,641
And he wants somebody who
1312
00:45:20,718 --> 00:45:23,820
Has that kind of physical
discipline as well.
1313
00:45:23,896 --> 00:45:26,906
He wants somebody
with a culture that understands
1314
00:45:26,983 --> 00:45:28,549
What it's like to be--
1315
00:45:28,626 --> 00:45:30,017
- Mm-hmm.
- American indian.
1316
00:45:30,052 --> 00:45:33,295
So black, asian, he's
open to a lot of categories
1317
00:45:33,373 --> 00:45:36,123
Where he feels that they
would get, you know,
1318
00:45:36,158 --> 00:45:37,399
What it means to be him.
1319
00:45:37,401 --> 00:45:39,126
- That's what I'm
hoping they can connect on,
1320
00:45:39,161 --> 00:45:41,904
The fact that
they have shared experiences.
1321
00:45:41,981 --> 00:45:43,981
- And I think
we all agree that she
1322
00:45:44,058 --> 00:45:46,200
Is such a special,
special person
1323
00:45:46,235 --> 00:45:48,227
That we really need
to make sure that we're making
1324
00:45:48,304 --> 00:45:50,370
The right match for her.
1325
00:45:50,448 --> 00:45:53,824
However, we're in denver,
and we did not find
1326
00:45:53,859 --> 00:45:56,944
Many viable black
male candidates for her.
1327
00:45:57,021 --> 00:45:57,754
- Yeah.
1328
00:45:57,830 --> 00:45:59,254
- And she did say, though,
that her mother,
1329
00:45:59,256 --> 00:46:00,681
Who's recently passed...
- Right.
1330
00:46:00,758 --> 00:46:02,133
- Has shared with her,
like, hey, lauren,
1331
00:46:02,168 --> 00:46:03,508
I want you
to think outside of the box.
1332
00:46:03,510 --> 00:46:04,752
- Absolutely.
1333
00:46:04,787 --> 00:46:06,471
- You know, you don't have to
be completely in in your race.
1334
00:46:06,506 --> 00:46:08,339
And I think we all agree
that we need to at least find
1335
00:46:08,341 --> 00:46:11,767
Her someone who is in tune
with culture, who's going to be
1336
00:46:11,769 --> 00:46:15,229
Understanding and appreciative
and nonjudgmental
1337
00:46:15,264 --> 00:46:16,747
Of the black experience.
1338
00:46:16,782 --> 00:46:18,916
- Yeah, and if he's
the kind of person
1339
00:46:18,951 --> 00:46:21,093
We think he is,
I believe it would be great.
1340
00:46:21,170 --> 00:46:25,439
- I think she would get who he
is and admire it and like it,
1341
00:46:25,474 --> 00:46:28,593
And I think he would
be very happy with her,
1342
00:46:28,702 --> 00:46:30,461
Her history, and her present.
1343
00:46:30,496 --> 00:46:31,704
- The one thing--
1344
00:46:31,781 --> 00:46:33,389
It may not be an issue.
1345
00:46:33,466 --> 00:46:36,216
But he's 26, and she's 30.
1346
00:46:36,251 --> 00:46:39,036
Do you feel as though he has the kind of maturity?
1347
00:46:39,113 --> 00:46:40,529
Because she's ready for this.
1348
00:46:40,607 --> 00:46:41,880
- I think that's
a really good point.
1349
00:46:41,882 --> 00:46:43,448
In terms of maturity level,
is he going
1350
00:46:43,526 --> 00:46:45,626
To be receptive to feedback?
1351
00:46:45,661 --> 00:46:47,553
Even though it's
only four years' difference,
1352
00:46:47,630 --> 00:46:49,722
Being in your 30s
versus being in your 20s...
1353
00:46:49,799 --> 00:46:51,182
- It's a big deal.
- Right?
1354
00:46:51,217 --> 00:46:53,300
Like, really being able to,
like, receive information--
1355
00:46:53,377 --> 00:46:54,726
- Yeah.
1356
00:46:54,728 --> 00:46:56,320
- And maybe be challenged
or called out on stuff.
1357
00:46:56,397 --> 00:46:57,304
- Yeah.
1358
00:46:57,381 --> 00:46:59,140
- I do have concerns
about that with him.
1359
00:46:59,249 --> 00:47:00,074
- Yeah.
1360
00:47:00,150 --> 00:47:01,483
- I definitely
feel it is a risk.
1361
00:47:01,485 --> 00:47:02,885
- Yeah, that's something
I have to bring up,
1362
00:47:02,962 --> 00:47:05,855
Whether or not you feel
that he's ready for this kind
1363
00:47:05,931 --> 00:47:06,906
Of commitment.
1364
00:47:10,603 --> 00:47:12,169
[upbeat music]
1365
00:47:12,246 --> 00:47:14,104
- Even though it's
only four years' difference,
1366
00:47:14,182 --> 00:47:16,323
Being in your 30s
versus being in your 20s...
1367
00:47:16,358 --> 00:47:17,624
- It's a big deal.
1368
00:47:17,626 --> 00:47:18,935
- I do have concerns
about that with him.
1369
00:47:19,011 --> 00:47:20,068
- Yeah, yeah.
1370
00:47:20,146 --> 00:47:21,620
- I think it's fair
to have this concern.
1371
00:47:21,622 --> 00:47:23,230
You know, if it was
any other 26-year-old,
1372
00:47:23,265 --> 00:47:25,132
I'd kind of say, don't do it.
1373
00:47:25,242 --> 00:47:28,493
But he's so wise...
- Fair.
1374
00:47:28,571 --> 00:47:29,770
- And so well put together. - Yeah.
1375
00:47:29,847 --> 00:47:31,222
- I think it's worth the risk.
1376
00:47:31,257 --> 00:47:34,775
And if what we think we're
getting is what we get--
1377
00:47:34,810 --> 00:47:36,351
- Yeah.
- They should be spectacular...
1378
00:47:36,353 --> 00:47:37,428
- Yeah.
- Together.
1379
00:47:37,463 --> 00:47:39,796
- Absolutely, I'm excited
to see these two together.
1380
00:47:39,874 --> 00:47:42,692
I believe there are some serious positives there.
1381
00:47:42,768 --> 00:47:47,454
- I think we should say
that this is our next couple.
1382
00:47:47,531 --> 00:47:48,455
- I say yes.
1383
00:47:48,532 --> 00:47:50,758
- It's lauren and orion.
1384
00:47:50,793 --> 00:47:52,118
- Lauren and orion.
1385
00:47:52,194 --> 00:47:53,386
I'm excited about them.
1386
00:47:53,462 --> 00:47:54,712
- Yes, let's do it.
- Let's do it.
1387
00:47:54,747 --> 00:47:55,863
- What do you think?
- Ok.
1388
00:47:55,898 --> 00:47:57,047
- Two down.
Both: Three to go.
1389
00:47:57,049 --> 00:47:58,398
- Three to go
let's do it.
1390
00:47:58,476 --> 00:48:00,476
- I've got someone
in mind that I think
1391
00:48:00,553 --> 00:48:02,152
That we all really enjoyed.
1392
00:48:02,230 --> 00:48:03,637
And that is austin.
1393
00:48:03,714 --> 00:48:04,939
- Oh, absolutely.
1394
00:48:04,974 --> 00:48:07,141
- All right, so I did austin's home visit.
1395
00:48:07,176 --> 00:48:09,902
And he is
your all-american guy.
1396
00:48:09,979 --> 00:48:11,578
He likes to get
his hands dirty.
1397
00:48:11,656 --> 00:48:12,646
He likes to build things.
1398
00:48:12,723 --> 00:48:14,806
He had terrariums in his house.
1399
00:48:14,808 --> 00:48:16,291
He said he wants to,
like, build something
1400
00:48:16,369 --> 00:48:17,551
For his future wife.
1401
00:48:17,586 --> 00:48:19,544
He's in business development.
1402
00:48:19,622 --> 00:48:21,229
You know,
he's successful there.
1403
00:48:21,231 --> 00:48:23,107
But he's also,
like, a kid at heart.
1404
00:48:23,142 --> 00:48:24,591
- Mm.
1405
00:48:24,668 --> 00:48:26,243
- He says he, you know,
is someone who's very in tune
1406
00:48:26,278 --> 00:48:27,394
With his emotions.
1407
00:48:27,429 --> 00:48:28,729
He likes to read.
1408
00:48:28,806 --> 00:48:30,247
He has a spiritual side to him.
1409
00:48:30,249 --> 00:48:32,358
He's a little bit docile.
1410
00:48:32,434 --> 00:48:33,725
But once he gets
to know someone
1411
00:48:33,803 --> 00:48:37,120
And once he gets comfortable,
then he's really just all in.
1412
00:48:37,122 --> 00:48:39,915
- He strikes me
as your colorado guy, you know?
1413
00:48:39,917 --> 00:48:41,175
- Right.
1414
00:48:41,251 --> 00:48:43,310
- Nature, maybe experience, as opposed to the thing.
1415
00:48:43,387 --> 00:48:44,586
- I think he's also someone who's
1416
00:48:44,588 --> 00:48:46,330
Aware of his limitations,
and he says, you know,
1417
00:48:46,365 --> 00:48:48,082
He really needs a partner
that's gonna talk a lot,
1418
00:48:48,158 --> 00:48:49,759
That's gonna have
a lot of structure
1419
00:48:49,835 --> 00:48:51,760
And be a planner and,
you know, that can
1420
00:48:51,762 --> 00:48:53,554
Kind of him
out of his comfort zone.
1421
00:48:53,556 --> 00:48:55,172
- I like that. I like that.
1422
00:48:55,207 --> 00:48:57,925
- He's got, like,
such a warm heart about him.
1423
00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:00,369
He is just so empathic,
and he's just--
1424
00:49:00,446 --> 00:49:01,812
Honestly, just a sweetheart.
1425
00:49:01,814 --> 00:49:03,438
- Well, so we all like austin.
1426
00:49:03,516 --> 00:49:04,431
Both: Yeah.
- Ok.
1427
00:49:04,466 --> 00:49:06,859
What do you think about becca?
1428
00:49:06,936 --> 00:49:09,153
She was one of my favorite home visits
1429
00:49:09,188 --> 00:49:10,838
Because she's just so full of life.
1430
00:49:10,873 --> 00:49:12,280
She's a wedding photographer.
1431
00:49:12,282 --> 00:49:14,908
And she is
the embodiment of energy.
1432
00:49:14,986 --> 00:49:17,869
She's also very adventurous. She's caring.
1433
00:49:17,871 --> 00:49:20,372
She's a very sensitive person, but she's not afraid
1434
00:49:20,374 --> 00:49:21,615
To speak up for what she believes in.
1435
00:49:21,692 --> 00:49:22,966
She's very vocal.
1436
00:49:23,043 --> 00:49:25,636
She has no problem telling
you what's on her mind.
1437
00:49:25,671 --> 00:49:26,670
- I just love her.
1438
00:49:26,672 --> 00:49:27,705
You can really
get into her soul.
1439
00:49:27,781 --> 00:49:29,464
She's someone where it's like,
you talk to her,
1440
00:49:29,542 --> 00:49:31,091
And you feel like you've known
her for a very long time.
1441
00:49:31,093 --> 00:49:32,343
- Absolutely.
- Yeah.
1442
00:49:32,378 --> 00:49:33,618
- I love her for that.
I think she's awesome.
1443
00:49:33,696 --> 00:49:35,303
- Becca is one of a kind.
1444
00:49:35,305 --> 00:49:36,697
- She is.
1445
00:49:36,732 --> 00:49:39,224
- So let's go over why she and
austin would be a great pair.
1446
00:49:39,302 --> 00:49:40,901
- They're both
creatives, right?
1447
00:49:40,978 --> 00:49:41,936
- Yes.
1448
00:49:41,971 --> 00:49:43,270
- Like, he loves to,
you know, create things,
1449
00:49:43,347 --> 00:49:44,304
And she's
a wedding photographer.
1450
00:49:44,381 --> 00:49:46,824
So I can see them
really aligning in the arts.
1451
00:49:46,900 --> 00:49:48,225
- She wants someone
who's passionate...
1452
00:49:48,302 --> 00:49:49,226
- Right.
1453
00:49:49,303 --> 00:49:50,886
- About their work
and their life,
1454
00:49:50,963 --> 00:49:52,754
And then their lifestyles
would complement each other.
1455
00:49:52,865 --> 00:49:54,173
- They both have just
this warm energy...
1456
00:49:54,175 --> 00:49:55,307
- Mm-hmm, right.
- About them.
1457
00:49:55,384 --> 00:49:56,984
I mean, he is such
a charismatic person.
1458
00:49:57,061 --> 00:49:59,920
He's just like--he gives me
such gentleman vibes.
1459
00:49:59,997 --> 00:50:01,688
- Yeah.
- He seems like a nurturer.
1460
00:50:01,765 --> 00:50:02,932
- They want someone
independent,
1461
00:50:03,008 --> 00:50:05,709
But they also want somebody
who likes going out,
1462
00:50:05,711 --> 00:50:07,728
Doing things, seeing friends.
1463
00:50:07,763 --> 00:50:08,963
- Mm-hmm.
1464
00:50:08,998 --> 00:50:10,381
- In that way,
they're both adventurous too.
1465
00:50:10,416 --> 00:50:12,583
And I think they have qualities
that balance each other,
1466
00:50:12,618 --> 00:50:13,984
Right, because he's
more introverted,
1467
00:50:14,019 --> 00:50:15,369
But she's more extroverted.
1468
00:50:15,445 --> 00:50:16,420
- Right.
1469
00:50:16,455 --> 00:50:17,746
- And so I think she can
bring that out of him,
1470
00:50:17,824 --> 00:50:19,931
And he might be able
to tame her a little bit.
1471
00:50:19,933 --> 00:50:21,492
- I think that's important.
- Yeah.
1472
00:50:21,527 --> 00:50:23,385
- She's looking
for a guy, she says,
1473
00:50:23,387 --> 00:50:24,611
With emotional intelligence.
1474
00:50:24,688 --> 00:50:25,929
- Yeah.
- Mm-hmm.
1475
00:50:26,006 --> 00:50:28,015
- And austin said
to us that he believed
1476
00:50:28,092 --> 00:50:30,151
He was high in that category.
1477
00:50:30,186 --> 00:50:32,194
And he also said
he was a kid at heart,
1478
00:50:32,196 --> 00:50:33,237
Which is something
she also wants...
1479
00:50:33,272 --> 00:50:35,389
- She is such a kid.
- Someone who can play.
1480
00:50:35,465 --> 00:50:36,756
- Mm-hmm, yeah.
- You know?
1481
00:50:36,758 --> 00:50:37,875
And I think
he would appreciate that
1482
00:50:37,910 --> 00:50:39,142
In her and vice versa.
1483
00:50:39,220 --> 00:50:42,096
- I think we've got a really, really great match
1484
00:50:42,131 --> 00:50:43,855
With becca and austin.
1485
00:50:43,933 --> 00:50:45,699
- Yeah.
- So do we make it official?
1486
00:50:45,734 --> 00:50:47,776
- Yes, we have
our third couple.
1487
00:50:47,854 --> 00:50:49,061
- Yay!
- Oh, yeah.
1488
00:50:49,138 --> 00:50:50,546
- Yeah.
- Oh, this is great.
1489
00:50:50,623 --> 00:50:51,772
- Well, we're on a roll.
1490
00:50:51,807 --> 00:50:53,007
We got to keep
this thing going.
1491
00:50:53,042 --> 00:50:54,224
- Ok.
- All right.
1492
00:50:54,301 --> 00:50:56,468
- Who is next?
- Let's talk about emily.
1493
00:50:56,470 --> 00:50:58,929
I think we have a real gem in her.
1494
00:50:58,964 --> 00:51:02,366
I did her home visit,
and I was very impressed.
1495
00:51:02,401 --> 00:51:04,735
She's been
an account executive,
1496
00:51:04,811 --> 00:51:06,937
Sort of driving force,
very ambitious.
1497
00:51:07,014 --> 00:51:09,573
So she's gonna need a strong
guy on the other side.
1498
00:51:09,650 --> 00:51:11,325
- Oh, yeah.
- That's what she wants.
1499
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:12,884
And that's what she needs,
I think.
1500
00:51:12,962 --> 00:51:14,820
She wants somebody to be
1501
00:51:14,897 --> 00:51:16,630
Sort of as vibrant as she is, you know?
1502
00:51:16,740 --> 00:51:17,898
- Mm-hmm. - And I feel that's fair.
1503
00:51:17,975 --> 00:51:20,901
She likes guys with brown hair,
a little scruff.
1504
00:51:20,903 --> 00:51:23,119
She'd like to know
that they have the qualities
1505
00:51:23,121 --> 00:51:25,188
That would make
a good dad eventually.
1506
00:51:25,190 --> 00:51:27,083
So I think she's a catch.
1507
00:51:27,159 --> 00:51:28,893
- I really do like her.
1508
00:51:28,928 --> 00:51:31,945
- The only real drawback
I see with her,
1509
00:51:31,947 --> 00:51:33,446
She's not been
1510
00:51:33,524 --> 00:51:36,975
In a relationship before,
but I really like everything...
1511
00:51:36,977 --> 00:51:37,918
- Yeah.
- She presents to us.
1512
00:51:37,995 --> 00:51:39,202
Both: Yeah.
- What do you think?
1513
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:40,579
- She's never been
in love before.
1514
00:51:40,581 --> 00:51:41,989
And beyond never
being in love,
1515
00:51:42,024 --> 00:51:43,991
She's never been in a serious
relationship before.
1516
00:51:44,026 --> 00:51:45,275
- Yeah.
1517
00:51:45,352 --> 00:51:46,877
- So I'm wondering about that,
but she has stated,
1518
00:51:46,954 --> 00:51:48,428
You know, maybe I haven't
been in a relationship
1519
00:51:48,505 --> 00:51:49,930
Because I prioritize
work too much.
1520
00:51:50,007 --> 00:51:52,107
And I think it speaks to her being disciplined,
1521
00:51:52,109 --> 00:51:53,784
Right, especially, like, with her work ethic.
1522
00:51:53,860 --> 00:51:55,819
And I think she would bring
that same level of discipline
1523
00:51:55,821 --> 00:51:57,153
Into the marriage.
1524
00:51:57,155 --> 00:52:01,275
- Absolutely, based on what
we've said, her values,
1525
00:52:01,351 --> 00:52:03,785
And what she's looking for,
you know,
1526
00:52:03,787 --> 00:52:04,862
Brennan comes to mind.
1527
00:52:04,897 --> 00:52:06,163
- Yeah, he does.
- Ok, yeah.
1528
00:52:06,198 --> 00:52:07,555
- So what do you say
we talk about him?
1529
00:52:07,557 --> 00:52:08,790
- Let's do it.
1530
00:52:08,868 --> 00:52:11,610
- Brennan is a new york transplant.
1531
00:52:11,687 --> 00:52:13,087
And he wants the good life.
1532
00:52:13,122 --> 00:52:14,972
- Mm-hmm.
- He's working to save.
1533
00:52:15,007 --> 00:52:18,792
I do believe he is serious
about getting married.
1534
00:52:18,869 --> 00:52:21,478
He's looking for somebody
who's attractive,
1535
00:52:21,513 --> 00:52:24,289
Light eyes, more traditional.
1536
00:52:24,367 --> 00:52:26,433
- Mm.
- So I think he likes...
1537
00:52:26,435 --> 00:52:27,785
- Yeah.
- To be the leader.
1538
00:52:27,820 --> 00:52:29,811
So that might be an
interesting thing to consider.
1539
00:52:29,889 --> 00:52:31,646
- I think the other thing
is that they both have
1540
00:52:31,724 --> 00:52:33,490
Very active social lives.
1541
00:52:33,492 --> 00:52:34,424
They really...
- Yes.
1542
00:52:34,502 --> 00:52:35,734
- You know,
have strong friend groups,
1543
00:52:35,811 --> 00:52:37,160
And they like to spend time
with their friends.
1544
00:52:37,195 --> 00:52:38,312
They like to go out
and have a good time.
1545
00:52:38,347 --> 00:52:40,472
They're both
very fun-spirited people.
1546
00:52:40,549 --> 00:52:42,816
So I think that they're gonna
have a lot of fun together.
1547
00:52:42,893 --> 00:52:44,226
- Yeah, and I often wonder,
though,
1548
00:52:44,303 --> 00:52:47,163
Why is a guy like this--
he's a software consultant.
1549
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:48,647
He's handsome.
1550
00:52:48,724 --> 00:52:50,924
You know, he's got
a lot going for himself.
1551
00:52:51,001 --> 00:52:52,234
Why is he single?
1552
00:52:52,311 --> 00:52:54,870
- Well, he's not
a man of many words.
1553
00:52:54,947 --> 00:52:56,413
I don't see him
as being someone who's,
1554
00:52:56,490 --> 00:52:58,465
Like, totally in tune
with his emotional side.
1555
00:52:58,500 --> 00:52:59,850
- Yeah.
- However, she is.
1556
00:52:59,926 --> 00:53:01,018
So I think
that she can bring that
1557
00:53:01,094 --> 00:53:02,970
Out of him if he's open to it.
1558
00:53:03,005 --> 00:53:04,512
- These are all
reasonable fears,
1559
00:53:04,514 --> 00:53:07,466
But I also feel that we've
discovered and listed things
1560
00:53:07,468 --> 00:53:09,310
That are strong things
to argue for them...
1561
00:53:09,345 --> 00:53:11,395
- Absolutely.
- That their goals are aligned.
1562
00:53:11,430 --> 00:53:12,963
Their lifestyles are aligned.
1563
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:14,547
You know, they're both competitive.
1564
00:53:14,625 --> 00:53:16,424
They both are earning a lot of money.
1565
00:53:16,502 --> 00:53:17,876
They both want family.
1566
00:53:17,953 --> 00:53:20,604
I think he really does
want a more homebody life,
1567
00:53:20,681 --> 00:53:23,139
And I think, ultimately,
she wants to be a mom.
1568
00:53:23,217 --> 00:53:25,292
I mean, there's a lot
that we've identified.
1569
00:53:25,369 --> 00:53:26,793
So I think it looks good.
1570
00:53:26,828 --> 00:53:28,111
And I think they could... - Yeah.
1571
00:53:28,188 --> 00:53:30,021
- Yes.
- Definitely be a great couple.
1572
00:53:30,023 --> 00:53:31,432
- Can we make it official?
1573
00:53:31,541 --> 00:53:33,566
- Yes.
- Do we have our next couple?
1574
00:53:33,644 --> 00:53:34,959
- Yes, we do.
1575
00:53:34,961 --> 00:53:39,206
- We have a confirmed match
between emily and brennan.
1576
00:53:39,241 --> 00:53:41,875
This is number four
of our couples.
1577
00:53:41,910 --> 00:53:43,577
- Whoo!
- We have one more to do it.
1578
00:53:43,653 --> 00:53:47,431
And I feel that we're
going into this strong.
1579
00:53:47,466 --> 00:53:48,565
- [laughs]
ok.
1580
00:53:48,567 --> 00:53:51,410
- Ok.
- Yes, yes, I am with you.
1581
00:53:51,487 --> 00:53:53,920
- Ok, so next up,
we have michael.
1582
00:53:54,073 --> 00:53:55,255
And I-- - yes.
1583
00:53:55,333 --> 00:53:57,624
- I am just so enamored by him.
1584
00:53:57,659 --> 00:53:59,459
I did his home visit,
and I just have
1585
00:53:59,461 --> 00:54:00,577
Nothing but excellent things...
1586
00:54:00,654 --> 00:54:01,754
- Wow.
- To say about him.
1587
00:54:01,830 --> 00:54:03,230
First of all,
it's the hair for me.
1588
00:54:03,307 --> 00:54:05,507
I know that both of you all had concerns.
1589
00:54:05,584 --> 00:54:06,675
- I did. I do.
1590
00:54:06,752 --> 00:54:07,742
- But it speaks to his confidence.
1591
00:54:07,744 --> 00:54:09,169
- Yes.
- He is eclectic.
1592
00:54:09,171 --> 00:54:11,013
He is sure of himself.
1593
00:54:11,090 --> 00:54:14,408
He's someone who's very in tune
with his emotional side.
1594
00:54:14,443 --> 00:54:17,694
He is someone who can really
articulate himself well.
1595
00:54:17,696 --> 00:54:20,147
He's a project manager,
so he's used to being
1596
00:54:20,182 --> 00:54:21,840
In charge and leading groups.
1597
00:54:21,842 --> 00:54:24,518
I think he needs a partner
who is sure of themselves,
1598
00:54:24,594 --> 00:54:25,469
Just as he is.
1599
00:54:25,504 --> 00:54:26,453
- Absolutely.
- Yes.
1600
00:54:26,605 --> 00:54:27,504
- That's gonna be
really important.
1601
00:54:27,581 --> 00:54:30,123
- One thing
that I honestly love
1602
00:54:30,201 --> 00:54:31,258
About him is his kindness.
1603
00:54:31,293 --> 00:54:32,351
- Mm-hmm.
1604
00:54:32,428 --> 00:54:34,370
- I think he's such
a kind, passionate,
1605
00:54:34,446 --> 00:54:36,004
Compassionate person.
1606
00:54:36,082 --> 00:54:38,115
- Well, I think
he's incredible too.
1607
00:54:38,191 --> 00:54:43,670
He's so articulate about
what he wants, who he is.
1608
00:54:43,705 --> 00:54:44,929
- Yes.
1609
00:54:45,007 --> 00:54:46,991
- You know,
but also understanding
1610
00:54:47,026 --> 00:54:50,869
And supportive of a much
broader vision, you know,
1611
00:54:50,871 --> 00:54:53,347
Of what life is
and who people are.
1612
00:54:53,382 --> 00:54:54,865
I was very impressed with him.
1613
00:54:54,941 --> 00:54:56,583
- I mean, he's ambitious.
1614
00:54:56,618 --> 00:54:58,042
- He is.
- He is outgoing.
1615
00:54:58,044 --> 00:55:00,111
He's athletic.
He's a boxer.
1616
00:55:00,189 --> 00:55:01,379
He likes to play basketball.
1617
00:55:01,381 --> 00:55:02,806
He's very adventurous,
so he's got--
1618
00:55:02,883 --> 00:55:04,708
He's not one-dimensional.
- Right.
1619
00:55:04,785 --> 00:55:06,385
- And I can see how, like,
the hair could give you
1620
00:55:06,462 --> 00:55:08,370
One-dimensional, but you
really got to get to know him
1621
00:55:08,447 --> 00:55:09,763
Because he's an amazing guy.
1622
00:55:09,798 --> 00:55:11,265
- Well, he's very successful--
- yes.
1623
00:55:11,300 --> 00:55:12,491
- At what he does.
- Yeah, yeah.
1624
00:55:12,568 --> 00:55:14,576
- And he wants someone
who has their own.
1625
00:55:14,578 --> 00:55:15,936
They are successful.
1626
00:55:15,971 --> 00:55:17,604
They're doing their own thing.
- Yeah.
1627
00:55:17,639 --> 00:55:19,564
- And they can do it together.
- Right.
1628
00:55:19,642 --> 00:55:20,657
- Exactly.
1629
00:55:20,734 --> 00:55:22,309
- And there's so many points
of interest in him
1630
00:55:22,386 --> 00:55:26,079
That make it so likely that
his wife will find something
1631
00:55:26,156 --> 00:55:27,881
That he is and does
that's interesting.
1632
00:55:27,916 --> 00:55:29,491
- Yeah.
- I mean, he's into cooking.
1633
00:55:29,493 --> 00:55:30,767
- Yeah. - He's into travel.
1634
00:55:30,845 --> 00:55:32,252
He's into museums.
1635
00:55:32,329 --> 00:55:33,837
- Yeah.
- He's into fashion.
1636
00:55:33,914 --> 00:55:36,323
So being a renaissance man
like that...
1637
00:55:36,358 --> 00:55:37,583
- Yeah.
- It's a lot to offer.
1638
00:55:37,659 --> 00:55:39,268
- Yeah, he definitely
needs a wife that's
1639
00:55:39,377 --> 00:55:41,661
Going to be appreciative
of his unique flair
1640
00:55:41,738 --> 00:55:43,421
And standout personality.
1641
00:55:43,423 --> 00:55:46,942
So I propose we do a little
more digging to see
1642
00:55:47,019 --> 00:55:49,093
If we can find
the right match for him.
1643
00:55:49,095 --> 00:55:50,286
- I mean, I think we agree.
1644
00:55:50,364 --> 00:55:52,656
- We all really think
a lot of this guy.
1645
00:55:52,691 --> 00:55:54,691
- Ok then, it's settled.
1646
00:55:54,726 --> 00:55:57,252
We all agree michael is in,
and now we just need
1647
00:55:57,329 --> 00:55:59,446
To find him his wife.
1648
00:55:59,481 --> 00:56:00,547
- I'll drink to that.
1649
00:56:00,624 --> 00:56:02,441
- Yeah, yes,
drink to that, for real.
1650
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:06,853
- ♪ we're out in the oceans in our minds ♪
1651
00:56:06,930 --> 00:56:08,471
♪ on top of the world
1652
00:56:08,548 --> 00:56:13,101
- All right, so to recap,
we have clare and cameron,
1653
00:56:13,179 --> 00:56:16,354
Becca and austin, emily and brennan,
1654
00:56:16,432 --> 00:56:17,990
Lauren and orion,
1655
00:56:17,992 --> 00:56:21,518
And we're committed to finding a match for michael.
1656
00:56:21,628 --> 00:56:24,254
[upbeat music]
1657
00:56:24,289 --> 00:56:27,216
So how do we feel
about our denver couples?
1658
00:56:27,292 --> 00:56:29,760
We know we need to find
a match for michael,
1659
00:56:29,795 --> 00:56:32,279
But how are we feeling
about everyone else?
1660
00:56:32,314 --> 00:56:34,222
- You know, I think it's
a really good group.
1661
00:56:34,224 --> 00:56:35,874
I think there's
real potential here
1662
00:56:35,951 --> 00:56:37,559
To have lifetime marriages.
1663
00:56:37,561 --> 00:56:38,769
- Yeah.
- I agree.
1664
00:56:38,804 --> 00:56:41,396
We really put in the hard work
to find promising matches.
1665
00:56:41,398 --> 00:56:43,624
And I think it's
gonna pay off in love.
1666
00:56:43,659 --> 00:56:45,976
- [laughs]
me too.
1667
00:56:46,052 --> 00:56:48,295
Now comes the really fun part.
1668
00:56:48,330 --> 00:56:50,388
- Are you ready to go
spread the good news?
1669
00:56:50,466 --> 00:56:52,082
Both: I am.
Let's go.
1670
00:56:52,158 --> 00:56:53,367
- Ok.
1671
00:56:53,477 --> 00:56:57,204
- ♪ my, oh, my, something about this thing ♪
1672
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:59,773
♪ feels right, all right
1673
00:56:59,808 --> 00:57:03,127
♪ just to make you mine
1674
00:57:04,346 --> 00:57:06,004
- Clare is a motivated and confident woman
1675
00:57:06,006 --> 00:57:08,498
Who won't settle for anything less than the best.
1676
00:57:08,575 --> 00:57:12,002
As a therapist, she's in tune with her emotions
1677
00:57:12,037 --> 00:57:14,271
And isn't quick to react.
1678
00:57:14,306 --> 00:57:16,598
And she wants the same from her future husband.
1679
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:19,601
Clare tends to go for goofy guys who aren't afraid
1680
00:57:19,603 --> 00:57:21,769
To show their affectionate side.
1681
00:57:21,771 --> 00:57:24,314
- And we think cameron fits the bill.
1682
00:57:24,349 --> 00:57:26,883
He's adventurous and imaginative,
1683
00:57:26,961 --> 00:57:29,928
And his subtle, new zealand sense of humor
1684
00:57:30,005 --> 00:57:32,789
Will surely make clare's heart melt.
1685
00:57:32,866 --> 00:57:35,700
They're on the same page when it comes to having kids,
1686
00:57:35,778 --> 00:57:38,845
And they both seek maturity and stability in a spouse.
1687
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:41,865
Both clare and cameron are looking for someone
1688
00:57:41,900 --> 00:57:44,275
Who can be independent in the relationship
1689
00:57:44,386 --> 00:57:46,778
But also come together when it counts
1690
00:57:46,780 --> 00:57:49,022
To make an amazing partnership.
1691
00:57:49,057 --> 00:57:51,466
And we think that's just what they'll do.
1692
00:57:51,468 --> 00:57:53,193
[upbeat music]
1693
00:57:53,228 --> 00:57:54,987
- Keep that core tight.
1694
00:57:55,063 --> 00:57:56,679
Beautiful.
1695
00:57:56,681 --> 00:57:58,732
- ♪ so watch me while I work
1696
00:57:58,767 --> 00:58:01,159
♪ you better watch me
1697
00:58:01,236 --> 00:58:03,328
- I hope you're not
gonna ask me to do that.
1698
00:58:03,405 --> 00:58:04,888
- Ah!
- Hi.
1699
00:58:04,965 --> 00:58:07,440
- Stop. Stop it.
1700
00:58:07,442 --> 00:58:09,392
I, like, saw you
like it was normal.
1701
00:58:09,394 --> 00:58:11,277
That is not.
1702
00:58:11,279 --> 00:58:12,296
Oh, my gosh, how are you?
1703
00:58:12,331 --> 00:58:13,805
- It's good to see you.
I'm good.
1704
00:58:13,882 --> 00:58:15,248
Thank you.
- This is so weird.
1705
00:58:15,250 --> 00:58:16,474
I'm sweaty.
I'm so sorry.
1706
00:58:16,585 --> 00:58:18,068
- You are sweaty.
- What are you doing here?
1707
00:58:18,144 --> 00:58:19,536
- Maybe we can talk?
- Yeah.
1708
00:58:19,571 --> 00:58:21,162
- Is this the place
you normally work out?
1709
00:58:21,164 --> 00:58:24,057
- Yes, yes, this is,
like, my second home.
1710
00:58:24,092 --> 00:58:25,483
It's a lot of fun.
1711
00:58:25,561 --> 00:58:28,545
- So I guess one of the things
I'm here to check on is,
1712
00:58:28,580 --> 00:58:32,049
Like, you know, just how
important is marriage to you?
1713
00:58:32,084 --> 00:58:33,099
- Yeah.
1714
00:58:33,176 --> 00:58:35,118
- How much do you believe
in your role
1715
00:58:35,270 --> 00:58:37,054
In maintaining
that institution?
1716
00:58:37,089 --> 00:58:40,181
- I believe, in a marriage,
you put in effort and energy
1717
00:58:40,183 --> 00:58:41,441
Into things that matter.
1718
00:58:41,518 --> 00:58:45,762
And so, you have to be
willing to go the extra mile.
1719
00:58:45,839 --> 00:58:50,133
And I realize, like, you have
to be ok--like, each people
1720
00:58:50,210 --> 00:58:51,467
Need to be doing
their own growth,
1721
00:58:51,545 --> 00:58:53,904
Which is what I really--
that's something I value a lot
1722
00:58:53,939 --> 00:58:55,622
Because you can't grow
together if you're not
1723
00:58:55,699 --> 00:58:57,181
Growing individually as well.
1724
00:58:57,259 --> 00:59:01,035
And so, I am willing
to grow as a human being,
1725
00:59:01,037 --> 00:59:03,354
But also in a partnership
with somebody
1726
00:59:03,432 --> 00:59:04,964
Who wants to grow with me.
1727
00:59:04,966 --> 00:59:06,583
I'm willing to work
for something.
1728
00:59:06,618 --> 00:59:08,418
I realize it might not
just be an immediate thing.
1729
00:59:08,453 --> 00:59:11,955
But I think it's so amazing
to feel like you can go home
1730
00:59:12,032 --> 00:59:14,365
At the end of the day
and have the same person there
1731
00:59:14,443 --> 00:59:16,467
For the rest of your life,
and wake up in the morning,
1732
00:59:16,469 --> 00:59:18,295
It's that same person
that's there.
1733
00:59:18,330 --> 00:59:21,114
And I just--I have not
had that consistency.
1734
00:59:21,149 --> 00:59:23,225
And I'm a very
consistent person.
1735
00:59:23,227 --> 00:59:25,376
Yeah, I'm just at the point
where I'm ready for something
1736
00:59:25,454 --> 00:59:26,953
Serious, for something real.
1737
00:59:26,988 --> 00:59:30,732
The dating situation
is just not giving me that.
1738
00:59:30,734 --> 00:59:32,066
It's exhausting.
1739
00:59:32,068 --> 00:59:34,127
And I just--I'm done.
I'm literally done.
1740
00:59:34,162 --> 00:59:36,129
I'm like,
I can't do it anymore.
1741
00:59:36,164 --> 00:59:40,908
- Well, you won't have to
because in two weeks from now,
1742
00:59:40,910 --> 00:59:43,553
You're going to be married.
1743
00:59:43,588 --> 00:59:45,472
- No.
- Yes.
1744
00:59:45,507 --> 00:59:46,656
- Are you serious?
1745
00:59:46,691 --> 00:59:49,293
- [laughs]
1746
00:59:49,328 --> 00:59:51,328
- Stop.
1747
00:59:51,404 --> 00:59:53,680
Oh, my god.
1748
00:59:53,715 --> 00:59:55,799
That is so crazy.
1749
00:59:55,834 --> 00:59:58,385
Oh, man.
So you found someone?
1750
00:59:58,420 --> 00:59:59,919
- Yeah, we did, we did.
1751
00:59:59,996 --> 01:00:01,863
- Ok, breathe.
1752
01:00:01,865 --> 01:00:03,140
I just can't believe
this is real.
1753
01:00:03,175 --> 01:00:05,325
I cannot believe this is real.
1754
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:07,435
[laughs]
like, what?
1755
01:00:07,513 --> 01:00:09,896
In two weeks,
I'm gonna have a dress on.
1756
01:00:09,931 --> 01:00:12,256
I'm gonna be at my wedding.
1757
01:00:12,334 --> 01:00:15,001
Like, that, to me, just--
1758
01:00:15,036 --> 01:00:17,428
It's--I'm gonna have to sleep
on that, because I just--
1759
01:00:17,506 --> 01:00:18,655
I can't.
1760
01:00:18,690 --> 01:00:20,006
Boom!
1761
01:00:20,041 --> 01:00:22,542
[laughs]
oh, my gosh.
1762
01:00:22,619 --> 01:00:24,435
How exciting.
- It truly is.
1763
01:00:24,513 --> 01:00:25,846
- This does not feel real.
1764
01:00:25,881 --> 01:00:27,197
I feel like I'm, like,
in a dream right now.
1765
01:00:27,273 --> 01:00:30,292
- Well, you know,
it gets real real soon.
1766
01:00:30,369 --> 01:00:31,835
[laughter]
1767
01:00:31,870 --> 01:00:34,220
- All the people
that know me know how bad
1768
01:00:34,297 --> 01:00:35,856
I've wanted this for so long.
1769
01:00:35,891 --> 01:00:37,949
This is the start
of an adventure
1770
01:00:38,026 --> 01:00:39,526
That I am so ready for.
1771
01:00:39,561 --> 01:00:41,636
I just feel like I'm getting
all the things that I
1772
01:00:41,638 --> 01:00:43,304
Prayed for, that I asked for, and it's
1773
01:00:43,306 --> 01:00:44,564
Just coming to fruition.
1774
01:00:44,641 --> 01:00:46,825
And, like, it's overwhelming,
but it's beautiful.
1775
01:00:46,935 --> 01:00:49,186
- There's so much you have
to do, even today, though, so--
1776
01:00:49,221 --> 01:00:50,537
- I know.
I'm like, shoot, I got to--
1777
01:00:50,572 --> 01:00:51,705
- I'm gonna leave
you with your--
1778
01:00:51,740 --> 01:00:52,981
- We got a time crunch.
[laughs]
1779
01:00:55,653 --> 01:00:57,644
[upbeat music]
1780
01:00:57,679 --> 01:01:04,567
♪
1781
01:01:04,644 --> 01:01:06,319
- I must be in the right place.
1782
01:01:06,354 --> 01:01:07,904
- Hey.
- Nice to see you.
1783
01:01:07,981 --> 01:01:09,414
- You as well.
1784
01:01:09,491 --> 01:01:11,157
- I'm so glad
to see you in your work
1785
01:01:11,192 --> 01:01:12,768
And in your pleasure,
I guess both.
1786
01:01:12,844 --> 01:01:15,361
- Yeah, I'm glad to have you.
- Well, thank you.
1787
01:01:15,439 --> 01:01:16,913
I just forget what
the accent sounds like.
1788
01:01:16,990 --> 01:01:18,339
I really like it.
1789
01:01:18,417 --> 01:01:19,516
[laughter]
1790
01:01:19,551 --> 01:01:20,917
So we're at our next level.
1791
01:01:21,069 --> 01:01:25,055
We're getting down to
a measurable finish line here.
1792
01:01:25,090 --> 01:01:27,557
So you seem to me
like a very good guy
1793
01:01:27,592 --> 01:01:29,726
And that you have
the right goal here.
1794
01:01:29,761 --> 01:01:31,611
So we're here to help that.
1795
01:01:31,688 --> 01:01:32,729
- Ok.
1796
01:01:32,764 --> 01:01:34,364
- All right, well,
I love seeing where you work,
1797
01:01:34,399 --> 01:01:38,418
But do you ever make, like,
bicycles built for two?
1798
01:01:38,453 --> 01:01:39,953
- Yeah.
- Do you ever do that?
1799
01:01:40,029 --> 01:01:41,287
- We don't, but,
yeah, they're called
1800
01:01:41,364 --> 01:01:43,306
Tandem bicycles.
1801
01:01:43,383 --> 01:01:45,291
- Well, you might need it.
1802
01:01:45,293 --> 01:01:46,609
- Oh, yeah?
1803
01:01:46,686 --> 01:01:48,078
- Yeah.
1804
01:01:48,113 --> 01:01:52,282
Because in two weeks,
you're gonna get married.
1805
01:01:52,358 --> 01:01:54,542
- Ok.
1806
01:01:54,544 --> 01:01:55,769
- I mean, really.
1807
01:01:55,771 --> 01:01:58,605
I'm telling you you've
been chosen to be married.
1808
01:01:58,640 --> 01:01:59,940
- Very good.
1809
01:01:59,975 --> 01:02:03,059
- [laughs]
that's the whole response?
1810
01:02:03,094 --> 01:02:04,477
How are you feeling about this?
1811
01:02:04,554 --> 01:02:05,946
- This is good news.
1812
01:02:05,981 --> 01:02:07,264
Thank you, ok?
- Ok, everything is good.
1813
01:02:07,299 --> 01:02:08,873
- This is good news.
Thank you.
1814
01:02:08,951 --> 01:02:10,567
I'm very happy.
1815
01:02:10,643 --> 01:02:12,302
I'm--I just--
1816
01:02:12,378 --> 01:02:13,787
I have a lot of things
going through my mind.
1817
01:02:13,822 --> 01:02:15,229
- Of course.
1818
01:02:15,231 --> 01:02:16,606
- And happy is
definitely one of them.
1819
01:02:16,641 --> 01:02:20,677
But, you know, there's
just a lot of processing
1820
01:02:20,753 --> 01:02:22,412
I'm doing right now.
1821
01:02:22,447 --> 01:02:25,723
I am very much hoping
that the experts paired
1822
01:02:25,801 --> 01:02:28,468
Me with the right person.
1823
01:02:28,503 --> 01:02:29,894
Whoo!
1824
01:02:29,972 --> 01:02:31,154
I'm excited to share
my life with someone.
1825
01:02:31,231 --> 01:02:33,290
I want that life shared.
1826
01:02:33,399 --> 01:02:35,041
You know, when we get
to the end of this
1827
01:02:35,076 --> 01:02:39,345
And you guys have found me
the love of my life, trust me,
1828
01:02:39,380 --> 01:02:43,249
You'll see me jumping
and doing all the things
1829
01:02:43,284 --> 01:02:46,503
That a five-year-old would
do going to disney world, ok?
1830
01:02:46,579 --> 01:02:48,488
- What are you
most excited about?
1831
01:02:48,523 --> 01:02:51,357
- Just, you know,
it's a situation I just can't
1832
01:02:51,434 --> 01:02:53,000
Even put myself in or imagine.
1833
01:02:53,078 --> 01:02:56,863
So it's almost kind of like
this just like this black,
1834
01:02:56,940 --> 01:03:00,441
You know, vision of I have
no idea what is gonna happen.
1835
01:03:00,443 --> 01:03:01,759
And honestly,
that's actually exciting.
1836
01:03:01,837 --> 01:03:05,130
Like, I hope that like we
click, and I'm gonna do--
1837
01:03:05,206 --> 01:03:07,857
I'm gonna do a great job
at this, I promise you.
1838
01:03:07,892 --> 01:03:09,493
- I love it.
Remember that.
1839
01:03:09,528 --> 01:03:11,027
- Yeah.
1840
01:03:11,104 --> 01:03:12,846
[upbeat music]
1841
01:03:12,881 --> 01:03:15,807
- The next couple whose lives are about to change forever
1842
01:03:15,884 --> 01:03:18,793
Is emily and brennan.
1843
01:03:18,870 --> 01:03:21,721
Although emily's never been in a serious relationship,
1844
01:03:21,798 --> 01:03:24,799
We're confident she's ready to take on marriage.
1845
01:03:24,801 --> 01:03:27,076
She always strives for the best in life,
1846
01:03:27,154 --> 01:03:29,896
And failure is not an option.
1847
01:03:29,973 --> 01:03:32,549
And we believe that determination will make
1848
01:03:32,551 --> 01:03:34,217
This relationship a success.
1849
01:03:34,252 --> 01:03:37,737
- Brennan is just what emily describes when she's talking
1850
01:03:37,814 --> 01:03:39,623
About the perfect match.
1851
01:03:39,658 --> 01:03:41,057
He's physically fit.
1852
01:03:41,092 --> 01:03:44,377
He's excelling in his career and is ready to take on life
1853
01:03:44,379 --> 01:03:45,845
With a wife by his side.
1854
01:03:45,923 --> 01:03:48,365
- They're both family-oriented and want kids.
1855
01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:50,550
They're both financially successful.
1856
01:03:50,585 --> 01:03:54,087
And we think their values and expectations for their role
1857
01:03:54,163 --> 01:03:56,589
In a relationship will align.
1858
01:03:56,666 --> 01:04:00,501
Emily and brennan are sure to hit it off.
1859
01:04:00,503 --> 01:04:04,147
- ♪ when it rains, it pours
1860
01:04:04,182 --> 01:04:07,750
♪ you're left just lying there ♪
1861
01:04:07,752 --> 01:04:09,852
♪ on the floor
1862
01:04:09,929 --> 01:04:11,905
- Well, look at this.
- Are you gonna join in?
1863
01:04:11,940 --> 01:04:13,497
- Hi, well, I'm--
- good to see ya.
1864
01:04:13,499 --> 01:04:14,682
- Ok, you have
a little white on you.
1865
01:04:14,684 --> 01:04:15,600
[laughs]
that's ok.
1866
01:04:15,677 --> 01:04:16,743
- How are you?
1867
01:04:16,778 --> 01:04:18,019
- What have we
got going on here?
1868
01:04:18,096 --> 01:04:19,696
- Just doing some climbing.
- Ok.
1869
01:04:19,772 --> 01:04:21,431
Well, good to see you.
- Good to see you too.
1870
01:04:21,507 --> 01:04:22,916
It's been a while.
1871
01:04:22,951 --> 01:04:24,283
- It has been a while
since I've seen you.
1872
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:26,694
So I want to know,
like, how committed
1873
01:04:26,696 --> 01:04:27,904
Are you to this process?
1874
01:04:27,939 --> 01:04:30,289
We're still trying
to weed out and see who's
1875
01:04:30,324 --> 01:04:32,125
Really ready
to be married at first sight.
1876
01:04:32,160 --> 01:04:33,292
So you've got to let me know.
1877
01:04:33,369 --> 01:04:34,660
- I've never been more
committed to anything
1878
01:04:34,662 --> 01:04:36,370
In my whole life,
so I'm ready for this.
1879
01:04:36,372 --> 01:04:38,798
- What would your future wife,
if we choose you,
1880
01:04:38,875 --> 01:04:40,450
What is she gonna be
expecting from you?
1881
01:04:40,526 --> 01:04:43,878
- A devoted, loving husband who
is by her side no matter what,
1882
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:45,788
Through thick and thin,
good times and bad.
1883
01:04:45,865 --> 01:04:47,306
- Mm-hmm.
- I'm her guy.
1884
01:04:47,383 --> 01:04:48,975
I've wanted to be
married my whole life,
1885
01:04:49,052 --> 01:04:50,476
And I'm finally ready for it.
1886
01:04:50,553 --> 01:04:54,147
- Well, I will let
you know that...
1887
01:04:54,223 --> 01:04:57,541
You are getting married
in two weeks, friend!
1888
01:04:57,619 --> 01:04:58,893
- What?
- Yes!
1889
01:04:58,895 --> 01:05:00,561
- Oh, my god.
- Are you so excited?
1890
01:05:00,563 --> 01:05:01,771
- Wow.
- Yes!
1891
01:05:01,806 --> 01:05:03,064
- Let's go.
1892
01:05:03,066 --> 01:05:04,457
My heart is about
to beat out of my chest
1893
01:05:04,459 --> 01:05:05,875
Completely right now.
1894
01:05:05,910 --> 01:05:07,043
- Whoo!
1895
01:05:07,078 --> 01:05:08,569
- I'm engaged now.
- Right.
1896
01:05:08,571 --> 01:05:09,462
- Crazy.
1897
01:05:09,497 --> 01:05:12,282
I just--I hope she's funny.
1898
01:05:12,317 --> 01:05:14,968
I hope we joke around a lot.
1899
01:05:15,003 --> 01:05:16,119
Just, I'm so
excited to meet her.
1900
01:05:16,154 --> 01:05:17,954
I can't wait.
- Get yourself prepared.
1901
01:05:17,989 --> 01:05:19,580
Get rid of those distractions.
1902
01:05:19,582 --> 01:05:20,915
Take it easy.
- Let's do this.
1903
01:05:20,917 --> 01:05:23,059
- All right, cheers.
- Absolutely.
1904
01:05:23,094 --> 01:05:24,702
- ♪ feeling it
1905
01:05:24,704 --> 01:05:26,429
♪ baby, feeling it, all right ♪
1906
01:05:26,464 --> 01:05:30,667
♪ the sparks we will chase all through the night ♪
1907
01:05:30,702 --> 01:05:33,352
- In three, in two, and one.
1908
01:05:33,429 --> 01:05:34,304
Right here.
1909
01:05:34,339 --> 01:05:36,580
Just remember why
you came today.
1910
01:05:36,658 --> 01:05:37,765
And one.
1911
01:05:37,767 --> 01:05:39,492
- This way.
- Nice job.
1912
01:05:39,527 --> 01:05:40,601
- Whoa.
- Is that it?
1913
01:05:40,603 --> 01:05:42,845
Do you--
- oh, my god!
1914
01:05:42,922 --> 01:05:44,497
[bleep]
1915
01:05:44,532 --> 01:05:45,482
- [laughs]
1916
01:05:45,517 --> 01:05:47,033
- I was not expecting that.
1917
01:05:47,110 --> 01:05:48,201
- Hi, emily.
1918
01:05:48,277 --> 01:05:50,503
- I needed a moment in general.
1919
01:05:50,538 --> 01:05:52,930
- I kind of pop up sometimes
and surprise people.
1920
01:05:53,008 --> 01:05:54,724
- Well, you look great.
- Relax, relax, relax.
1921
01:05:54,801 --> 01:05:56,493
Ok, yeah, my legs are shaking.
1922
01:05:56,528 --> 01:05:58,310
- Yeah.
1923
01:05:58,388 --> 01:06:00,955
Ok, look, I need
to know a few more things.
1924
01:06:00,957 --> 01:06:03,858
Do you feel as though,
at this point in your life,
1925
01:06:03,860 --> 01:06:05,860
That if we were
to find you a match
1926
01:06:05,937 --> 01:06:07,862
That you could
go the long haul?
1927
01:06:07,939 --> 01:06:10,297
- 100%, yeah.
- Tell me why.
1928
01:06:10,299 --> 01:06:12,692
- I think it's just, like,
who I am as a person.
1929
01:06:12,727 --> 01:06:14,511
Like, I give, give,
give all the time,
1930
01:06:14,513 --> 01:06:16,012
And it's, like,
really important to me
1931
01:06:16,047 --> 01:06:18,681
To always be my best,
to be the best for others.
1932
01:06:18,683 --> 01:06:19,908
- Right.
1933
01:06:19,984 --> 01:06:21,534
- Like, I just feel like
marriage is a one-time thing,
1934
01:06:21,569 --> 01:06:22,719
And I want this to,
like, be it.
1935
01:06:22,795 --> 01:06:24,145
- Well, that's good.
1936
01:06:24,147 --> 01:06:25,772
I want you to remember that
because I do believe
1937
01:06:25,807 --> 01:06:27,381
There's great potential.
1938
01:06:27,459 --> 01:06:30,134
And very soon, we're
gonna be letting you know.
1939
01:06:30,212 --> 01:06:31,761
- Ok.
- How does that sound?
1940
01:06:31,838 --> 01:06:33,821
- [sighs]
anxiously awaiting.
1941
01:06:33,823 --> 01:06:35,431
- You know, very soon
actually is now...
1942
01:06:35,509 --> 01:06:36,700
- Oh.
1943
01:06:36,735 --> 01:06:38,084
- Because in two weeks,
you're getting married.
1944
01:06:38,161 --> 01:06:39,477
- Oh, my god.
1945
01:06:39,554 --> 01:06:42,555
[upbeat music]
1946
01:06:42,590 --> 01:06:43,540
♪
1947
01:06:43,575 --> 01:06:45,591
I'm so excited, but wow.
- [laughs]
1948
01:06:45,668 --> 01:06:47,577
What's going
through your mind right now?
1949
01:06:47,653 --> 01:06:52,749
- I'm just, like,
shocked, happy, excited,
1950
01:06:52,825 --> 01:06:56,435
And just, like, ready, ready.
1951
01:06:56,512 --> 01:06:58,579
- You are off the market, girl.
1952
01:06:58,657 --> 01:07:00,223
You're getting
married in two weeks.
1953
01:07:00,258 --> 01:07:02,683
- Thank god. It's time.
1954
01:07:02,685 --> 01:07:04,377
- [laughs]
1955
01:07:04,412 --> 01:07:06,353
- I honestly think this really
is the beginning
1956
01:07:06,355 --> 01:07:08,915
Of my love story,
one that I did not predict,
1957
01:07:08,950 --> 01:07:10,900
But one, I think, that,
like, I'm ready for
1958
01:07:10,935 --> 01:07:12,285
And, like, I honestly only have,
1959
01:07:12,361 --> 01:07:14,404
Like, good thoughts
and predictions for.
1960
01:07:14,439 --> 01:07:15,946
Wow.
- All right, we will talk.
1961
01:07:15,948 --> 01:07:17,281
- Ok.
- All right, you take care.
1962
01:07:17,283 --> 01:07:19,041
- Thanks for that surprise.
- Absolutely.
1963
01:07:19,118 --> 01:07:20,684
We'll talk soon.
- Ok.
1964
01:07:20,795 --> 01:07:22,428
Two weeks.
1965
01:07:22,463 --> 01:07:26,583
To my future husband, all I'm
saying is buckle up, baby.
1966
01:07:26,618 --> 01:07:29,252
Things are about to get
real serious real fast,
1967
01:07:29,362 --> 01:07:31,470
And I really can't
wait to meet you.
1968
01:07:31,547 --> 01:07:33,381
I'm gonna bring
this bottle of champagne.
1969
01:07:35,986 --> 01:07:37,861
- The next couple to get the big news
1970
01:07:37,863 --> 01:07:41,464
Is becca and austin.
1971
01:07:41,499 --> 01:07:44,050
Becca is a creative soul who isn't afraid to think
1972
01:07:44,127 --> 01:07:47,728
Outside the box when it comes to fulfilling her passions
1973
01:07:47,730 --> 01:07:50,582
And pursuing a romantic partner.
1974
01:07:50,658 --> 01:07:53,810
She's looking for a husband who's responsible and mature
1975
01:07:53,886 --> 01:07:56,904
But can also be playful and lighthearted.
1976
01:07:56,982 --> 01:08:00,650
- Austin's a classic colorado guy who loves the outdoors
1977
01:08:00,726 --> 01:08:02,226
And always stays active.
1978
01:08:02,304 --> 01:08:05,588
He's emotionally intelligent and independent
1979
01:08:05,623 --> 01:08:08,140
But can also be a big kid at heart.
1980
01:08:08,142 --> 01:08:10,484
Austin wants to find a wife with a similar outlook
1981
01:08:10,562 --> 01:08:13,587
On life, taking things seriously when you need to,
1982
01:08:13,589 --> 01:08:15,882
But having lots of fun along the way.
1983
01:08:15,917 --> 01:08:17,950
- Becca and austin are both extroverts.
1984
01:08:18,102 --> 01:08:21,346
That, and an open mindedness to accept new ideas,
1985
01:08:21,422 --> 01:08:23,514
Makes rebecca and austin a pair
1986
01:08:23,516 --> 01:08:26,359
We could see going the distance.
1987
01:08:26,435 --> 01:08:30,188
[upbeat music]
1988
01:08:30,265 --> 01:08:33,149
- ♪ I'm going to make this where you find me ♪
1989
01:08:33,184 --> 01:08:37,119
♪ hiding, it's not a good time ♪
1990
01:08:37,196 --> 01:08:38,654
- Surprise.
1991
01:08:38,656 --> 01:08:40,289
- Hey!
- Hey, austin!
1992
01:08:40,324 --> 01:08:41,491
How are you?
- How are you?
1993
01:08:41,526 --> 01:08:42,826
I'm good.
How are you?
1994
01:08:42,861 --> 01:08:44,661
- Good to see you again.
- Yeah, you too.
1995
01:08:44,696 --> 01:08:47,363
- Tell me, what are we
doing in a plant shop?
1996
01:08:47,440 --> 01:08:49,456
- I love to have a lot
of plants in my house.
1997
01:08:49,458 --> 01:08:51,775
Who doesn't like to have
a little green in their house?
1998
01:08:51,853 --> 01:08:53,552
- A little life.
- Yeah, yeah.
1999
01:08:53,629 --> 01:08:55,638
- So I wanted to check in
and see, you know,
2000
01:08:55,673 --> 01:08:57,448
How you're feeling
about this whole process,
2001
01:08:57,525 --> 01:08:59,725
If you're still
feeling committed.
2002
01:08:59,802 --> 01:09:00,985
- Yeah, totally.
Ready for it.
2003
01:09:01,062 --> 01:09:02,820
- Are you sure?
- Fully committed.
2004
01:09:02,897 --> 01:09:05,047
- Ok, so if you are to get
married at first sight--
2005
01:09:05,124 --> 01:09:06,307
- Yeah.
2006
01:09:06,309 --> 01:09:07,216
- What might you be
doing to ensure
2007
01:09:07,293 --> 01:09:08,976
That this doesn't
end in divorce?
2008
01:09:08,978 --> 01:09:12,038
- I feel like a lot of things
have lined up in my life
2009
01:09:12,073 --> 01:09:14,148
To prepare me for this.
2010
01:09:14,150 --> 01:09:19,570
And I kind of view marriage
as, like, the two
2011
01:09:19,572 --> 01:09:22,915
Of you ensuring that you do
what's best for the other.
2012
01:09:22,992 --> 01:09:25,976
So it's like, communication
and honesty, just being open,
2013
01:09:26,054 --> 01:09:30,589
And you put the other person
ahead of yourself.
2014
01:09:30,666 --> 01:09:32,174
- Mm-hmm.
- Communication is key.
2015
01:09:32,251 --> 01:09:33,710
And I think
if you can have that--
2016
01:09:33,745 --> 01:09:35,211
- Ok.
- There shouldn't be an issue.
2017
01:09:35,246 --> 01:09:36,379
- Ok.
2018
01:09:36,414 --> 01:09:41,067
So I got to tell you, austin...
2019
01:09:41,102 --> 01:09:42,902
You're getting married
in two weeks!
2020
01:09:42,937 --> 01:09:43,911
- No way!
- Yes!
2021
01:09:43,989 --> 01:09:46,339
- That's awesome.
- Congratulations!
2022
01:09:46,415 --> 01:09:48,424
- Thank you.
- How are you feeling?
2023
01:09:48,501 --> 01:09:51,894
- [laughs]
um...
2024
01:09:51,896 --> 01:09:53,429
Like, this is real?
2025
01:09:53,506 --> 01:09:55,681
- This is real.
In two weeks.
2026
01:09:55,758 --> 01:09:57,400
- I'm excited.
I'm nervous.
2027
01:09:57,435 --> 01:09:59,452
I think it's still sinking in.
2028
01:09:59,528 --> 01:10:02,696
I think it is more just, like,
a physical sort of like,
2029
01:10:02,698 --> 01:10:03,740
Oh, boy.
2030
01:10:03,849 --> 01:10:04,848
[laughs]
2031
01:10:04,926 --> 01:10:05,942
That's crazy.
2032
01:10:06,018 --> 01:10:07,701
- It is crazy.
2033
01:10:07,703 --> 01:10:09,111
[upbeat music]
2034
01:10:09,188 --> 01:10:10,947
- ♪ let's get it, let's go
2035
01:10:10,982 --> 01:10:13,491
♪ gotta get it done, yeah, I'm on a roll ♪
2036
01:10:13,568 --> 01:10:14,666
♪ let's go
2037
01:10:14,668 --> 01:10:16,769
- Come in close.
You just keep looking at them.
2038
01:10:16,804 --> 01:10:18,604
Yes.
2039
01:10:18,639 --> 01:10:20,773
And then look past me that way.
2040
01:10:20,808 --> 01:10:21,774
♪
2041
01:10:21,809 --> 01:10:24,594
Ok, ok.
2042
01:10:24,629 --> 01:10:25,762
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
2043
01:10:25,797 --> 01:10:26,870
Yes.
2044
01:10:26,948 --> 01:10:28,889
That's what we needed.
2045
01:10:28,891 --> 01:10:31,034
- Looking good.
2046
01:10:31,069 --> 01:10:32,585
[laughter]
2047
01:10:32,587 --> 01:10:34,037
- You guys always
do this [bleep].
2048
01:10:34,146 --> 01:10:35,705
- Well, yeah, we do.
2049
01:10:35,740 --> 01:10:37,556
Hi.
2050
01:10:37,633 --> 01:10:38,691
Good to see you.
2051
01:10:38,726 --> 01:10:40,192
- It's good to see you too.
2052
01:10:40,194 --> 01:10:42,828
- I just need a little bit
of your time to talk more.
2053
01:10:42,905 --> 01:10:44,797
There's just some gaps
I need to fill in.
2054
01:10:44,832 --> 01:10:45,782
- Ok.
2055
01:10:45,817 --> 01:10:47,108
- Could you excuse us
for a moment?
2056
01:10:47,185 --> 01:10:48,634
- Yes, of course.
- I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
2057
01:10:48,669 --> 01:10:51,161
You know, we just like
to surprise people.
2058
01:10:51,163 --> 01:10:52,972
[laughs]
2059
01:10:53,007 --> 01:10:54,624
So obviously,
I'm here because it's
2060
01:10:54,659 --> 01:10:56,008
Getting very serious.
2061
01:10:56,085 --> 01:10:57,143
- Yeah.
2062
01:10:57,178 --> 01:10:58,828
- What excites you most
about this process?
2063
01:10:58,863 --> 01:11:00,679
What's the best part?
2064
01:11:00,756 --> 01:11:02,431
- I think one
of the best parts is
2065
01:11:02,508 --> 01:11:05,259
That I always like
to do things that are
2066
01:11:05,261 --> 01:11:06,927
Outside of my comfort zone.
2067
01:11:06,929 --> 01:11:08,579
And while a relationship
is something that's
2068
01:11:08,656 --> 01:11:11,432
In my comfort zone,
finding it this way
2069
01:11:11,434 --> 01:11:13,509
Is not in my comfort zone.
2070
01:11:13,586 --> 01:11:16,603
But I often find
that the best things always
2071
01:11:16,605 --> 01:11:18,831
Come when you push
yourself a little bit
2072
01:11:18,866 --> 01:11:23,527
And trust other people more
than yourself at times, so--
2073
01:11:23,529 --> 01:11:26,680
- Ok, all right, I do have
one other question for you.
2074
01:11:26,758 --> 01:11:30,693
Who would you be getting
to take your wedding pictures?
2075
01:11:30,728 --> 01:11:34,296
- One of my best friends
and associates.
2076
01:11:34,373 --> 01:11:36,616
- So that's really
important to know
2077
01:11:36,651 --> 01:11:38,551
Because you're
getting married...
2078
01:11:38,627 --> 01:11:40,186
- Yeah.
- In two weeks.
2079
01:11:40,221 --> 01:11:41,704
- Yeah.
- You got that?
2080
01:11:41,781 --> 01:11:43,706
- No.
[laughter]
2081
01:11:43,708 --> 01:11:47,593
- You are officially engaged.
2082
01:11:47,595 --> 01:11:49,395
- Stop.
2083
01:11:49,472 --> 01:11:51,364
Can I throw up?
2084
01:11:51,399 --> 01:11:52,623
- [laughs]
2085
01:11:52,700 --> 01:11:54,267
Oh, I actually would
like a different reaction,
2086
01:11:54,302 --> 01:11:56,669
If we could have that.
2087
01:11:56,704 --> 01:11:59,296
Just let me get out of the way.
2088
01:11:59,374 --> 01:12:00,964
- I still can't believe it.
2089
01:12:01,075 --> 01:12:03,126
Oh, my gosh.
2090
01:12:03,161 --> 01:12:04,310
♪
2091
01:12:04,387 --> 01:12:06,653
Let's [bleep] go!
2092
01:12:06,655 --> 01:12:08,414
Let's do it.
Let's get married.
2093
01:12:08,491 --> 01:12:10,033
- Hopefully,
it's just gonna be one
2094
01:12:10,068 --> 01:12:12,159
Great, wonderful adventure.
2095
01:12:12,161 --> 01:12:14,144
- [laughs]
2096
01:12:14,146 --> 01:12:17,648
[upbeat music]
2097
01:12:17,725 --> 01:12:20,335
- The final couple is lauren and orion.
2098
01:12:20,411 --> 01:12:23,688
Lauren has a big heart and a deep, spiritual soul.
2099
01:12:23,764 --> 01:12:25,489
She's curious and loves to learn
2100
01:12:25,567 --> 01:12:26,824
And is looking for a man who will
2101
01:12:26,901 --> 01:12:29,402
Appreciate her for her mind and will make
2102
01:12:29,437 --> 01:12:31,020
Her feel emotionally safe.
2103
01:12:31,130 --> 01:12:34,139
- We think orion's strong ties to his native american
2104
01:12:34,141 --> 01:12:37,560
Heritage will be a perfect complement to lauren's need
2105
01:12:37,595 --> 01:12:39,612
For cultural identification.
2106
01:12:39,688 --> 01:12:42,856
Orion is searching for a renaissance woman
2107
01:12:42,858 --> 01:12:46,343
Who can match his sense of loyalty and compassion.
2108
01:12:46,421 --> 01:12:49,547
They are both confident in themselves and their path
2109
01:12:49,624 --> 01:12:52,200
In life and are ready to grow together
2110
01:12:52,276 --> 01:12:53,867
With the right person.
2111
01:12:53,869 --> 01:12:57,655
- ♪ nothing ever lasts forever, ever ♪
2112
01:12:57,732 --> 01:13:01,217
♪ nothing ever lasts, but you're not giving up ♪
2113
01:13:01,293 --> 01:13:04,954
♪ nothing ever lasts forever, ever ♪
2114
01:13:04,989 --> 01:13:06,547
♪ you know that nothing lasts ♪
2115
01:13:06,624 --> 01:13:09,291
♪ but you're not giving up now ♪
2116
01:13:09,368 --> 01:13:11,310
- [gasps]
dr. Pepper!
2117
01:13:11,387 --> 01:13:13,429
- Hi, nice to see you again.
- Hi, how are you?
2118
01:13:13,431 --> 01:13:15,448
- I'm good.
It's really great to see you.
2119
01:13:15,483 --> 01:13:16,799
- It's nice to see you.
2120
01:13:16,876 --> 01:13:19,076
- So I have lots of questions.
2121
01:13:19,153 --> 01:13:20,669
- I might have some answers.
2122
01:13:20,747 --> 01:13:22,063
- I bet you do.
2123
01:13:22,140 --> 01:13:24,423
We're getting serious here,
so let's dive a little deeper.
2124
01:13:24,501 --> 01:13:26,567
- Ok.
- Let's go sit down.
2125
01:13:26,569 --> 01:13:28,719
So what did you pick out?
2126
01:13:28,796 --> 01:13:31,997
- I have this book
on botany and crystals.
2127
01:13:32,074 --> 01:13:33,482
I really like plants,
and I like
2128
01:13:33,559 --> 01:13:35,151
To see how they work together.
2129
01:13:35,227 --> 01:13:38,804
A book on the moon,
pretty much a lot of astrology.
2130
01:13:38,839 --> 01:13:41,565
- Someone told me that you're
into gems, quartz, and--
2131
01:13:41,643 --> 01:13:42,841
- Gems and crystals, yeah.
2132
01:13:42,843 --> 01:13:44,961
- And rocks and--
is that part of an interest,
2133
01:13:44,996 --> 01:13:47,830
Or is there something spiritual
in those things for you?
2134
01:13:47,907 --> 01:13:49,515
- It's both.
2135
01:13:49,592 --> 01:13:50,841
It's actually both.
2136
01:13:50,843 --> 01:13:52,251
I have a crystal
right in my pocket.
2137
01:13:52,328 --> 01:13:54,094
I always leave the house
with something that I need,
2138
01:13:54,096 --> 01:13:55,370
And it's always a crystal.
2139
01:13:55,448 --> 01:13:59,675
This one is--it's glossed over,
but just a amethyst.
2140
01:13:59,752 --> 01:14:02,519
This is what I decided
I needed for the day.
2141
01:14:02,521 --> 01:14:05,197
- You think something like that
would fit in a wedding dress?
2142
01:14:05,274 --> 01:14:06,965
- I think so.
2143
01:14:07,043 --> 01:14:08,875
- Do you think?
- Wait.
2144
01:14:08,877 --> 01:14:11,678
A wedding dress?
- Yeah.
2145
01:14:11,756 --> 01:14:14,181
You're gonna need
to have a pocket.
2146
01:14:14,259 --> 01:14:16,384
- Am I getting married,
dr. Pepper?
2147
01:14:16,460 --> 01:14:17,718
- In two weeks.
2148
01:14:17,828 --> 01:14:19,470
- Shut up.
2149
01:14:19,547 --> 01:14:20,938
[laughter]
2150
01:14:21,015 --> 01:14:22,231
Stop it.
2151
01:14:22,233 --> 01:14:23,699
I'm so--
oh, my gosh, I'm so hot.
2152
01:14:23,776 --> 01:14:25,168
I just got so hot.
2153
01:14:25,203 --> 01:14:26,793
[laughter]
2154
01:14:26,795 --> 01:14:28,211
Oh! Are you serious?
2155
01:14:28,213 --> 01:14:30,047
- Oh, dead serious.
- I'm gonna cry.
2156
01:14:30,049 --> 01:14:31,715
- [laughs]
2157
01:14:31,717 --> 01:14:32,966
- I just can't believe this.
2158
01:14:32,968 --> 01:14:34,026
- You better believe it
because you're
2159
01:14:34,061 --> 01:14:35,394
Getting married in two weeks.
2160
01:14:35,471 --> 01:14:37,029
- I'm so happy.
These are happy tears.
2161
01:14:37,064 --> 01:14:38,197
These are happy tears.
2162
01:14:38,232 --> 01:14:39,557
- [laughs]
2163
01:14:39,559 --> 01:14:41,458
- I'm whole-ass engaged.
2164
01:14:41,536 --> 01:14:43,977
I got a whole-ass husband.
2165
01:14:43,979 --> 01:14:46,071
I'm a whole-ass fiancée.
2166
01:14:46,148 --> 01:14:48,966
Look, I got a ring on it,
everything.
2167
01:14:49,043 --> 01:14:50,726
- Oh, there we go.
- Hey!
2168
01:14:50,803 --> 01:14:52,135
Look at that.
That was the perfect pop.
2169
01:14:52,213 --> 01:14:53,112
No spill.
2170
01:14:53,147 --> 01:14:54,480
I can't believe I have a match.
2171
01:14:54,557 --> 01:14:55,889
I have a partner.
2172
01:14:55,967 --> 01:14:57,700
There's someone who's
out there who's committed
2173
01:14:57,735 --> 01:14:59,977
To me without even knowing me.
2174
01:15:00,054 --> 01:15:01,995
And that's delusional.
2175
01:15:01,997 --> 01:15:03,873
And I'm just really excited
that there's someone
2176
01:15:03,908 --> 01:15:05,875
As crazy as me out there.
2177
01:15:05,910 --> 01:15:07,501
I think I need another drink.
2178
01:15:07,503 --> 01:15:09,078
I think I'm gonna
take another sip.
2179
01:15:09,154 --> 01:15:09,962
♪
2180
01:15:12,975 --> 01:15:14,066
[upbeat music]
2181
01:15:14,101 --> 01:15:21,015
♪
2182
01:15:22,693 --> 01:15:25,094
- I think you're supposed to do
that on the bottom one first.
2183
01:15:25,170 --> 01:15:28,105
- Hey, hey.
Pastor cal, what's going on?
2184
01:15:28,107 --> 01:15:29,172
How are you?
2185
01:15:29,250 --> 01:15:30,882
- How you doing, buddy?
- Good.
2186
01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:32,360
Wow, you just made my work day
a whole lot better.
2187
01:15:32,436 --> 01:15:33,468
- I know.
- How are you?
2188
01:15:33,546 --> 01:15:34,987
- How you doing, man?
- Good.
2189
01:15:34,989 --> 01:15:35,846
- It's good to see you.
- I'm a little dusty.
2190
01:15:35,923 --> 01:15:37,089
I don't want to--
- that's ok.
2191
01:15:37,124 --> 01:15:39,041
- Yeah, what's going on?
- How you doing, man?
2192
01:15:39,076 --> 01:15:40,901
- Oh, I'm busy, busy, working.
2193
01:15:40,903 --> 01:15:41,994
- I know, I know.
I see.
2194
01:15:42,029 --> 01:15:43,829
- Yeah.
- I see.
2195
01:15:43,831 --> 01:15:46,857
Well, you know, man, we're back
here and still digging deep.
2196
01:15:46,934 --> 01:15:48,434
- Yeah, digging deep?
2197
01:15:48,469 --> 01:15:49,776
- Trying to figure out
how these individuals
2198
01:15:49,854 --> 01:15:51,220
Are gonna be matched, man.
2199
01:15:51,296 --> 01:15:52,905
- Yeah, because ever
since, you know,
2200
01:15:52,981 --> 01:15:55,716
The start of this process,
it's honestly been really
2201
01:15:55,793 --> 01:15:56,942
Making me think about,
you know...
2202
01:15:56,977 --> 01:15:57,943
- Yeah.
2203
01:15:57,978 --> 01:15:58,944
- The kind of
person I want next
2204
01:15:58,979 --> 01:16:00,229
To me as I go through that.
2205
01:16:00,305 --> 01:16:01,496
- What kind of person
do you want next to you?
2206
01:16:01,498 --> 01:16:03,165
- You know,
someone who is really just--
2207
01:16:03,242 --> 01:16:04,483
You know, just supportive.
2208
01:16:04,485 --> 01:16:06,043
You know, just some
positive reinforcement.
2209
01:16:06,120 --> 01:16:07,486
- Right.
2210
01:16:07,563 --> 01:16:08,987
- You know, I like
to speak metaphorically,
2211
01:16:09,064 --> 01:16:11,573
And a lot of, you know,
what I do revolves around this.
2212
01:16:11,575 --> 01:16:12,733
- Right.
2213
01:16:12,735 --> 01:16:14,210
- You know, what I think
of as a marriage is,
2214
01:16:14,212 --> 01:16:16,395
You know, the input
has to match the output.
2215
01:16:16,430 --> 01:16:17,996
- Ok.
2216
01:16:18,073 --> 01:16:19,498
- You know, and if that--you
know, if it's not matching up,
2217
01:16:19,533 --> 01:16:20,575
This isn't gonna work.
2218
01:16:20,651 --> 01:16:21,917
- Right.
2219
01:16:21,994 --> 01:16:23,119
- And it's not gonna
power anything else
2220
01:16:23,154 --> 01:16:24,937
You bring into the equation.
2221
01:16:25,013 --> 01:16:26,138
- Ok.
2222
01:16:26,173 --> 01:16:28,724
- And so, you know, I feel
like if you understand where
2223
01:16:28,759 --> 01:16:30,342
You're going, what you
want to do, and you're
2224
01:16:30,419 --> 01:16:32,661
Able to pay attention to--
2225
01:16:32,663 --> 01:16:34,647
You know, I guess speaking
in electrical terms,
2226
01:16:34,682 --> 01:16:37,424
You're able to pay attention to
your codes, your regulations,
2227
01:16:37,426 --> 01:16:39,151
The things that you
need to pay attention to
2228
01:16:39,186 --> 01:16:40,169
To get the job done--
2229
01:16:40,245 --> 01:16:41,553
- Right.
2230
01:16:41,555 --> 01:16:42,863
- I think we could have
a very successful marriage
2231
01:16:42,940 --> 01:16:44,340
If you are attentive to it.
2232
01:16:44,375 --> 01:16:46,249
- Right, right,
and I love that.
2233
01:16:46,327 --> 01:16:48,160
It's so interesting
meeting with you
2234
01:16:48,195 --> 01:16:50,813
And finding out more about
you and your electrical work,
2235
01:16:50,848 --> 01:16:52,272
You know?
2236
01:16:52,274 --> 01:16:53,833
And I'm gonna tell you
something real shocking...
2237
01:16:53,868 --> 01:16:54,984
- [laughs]
2238
01:16:55,019 --> 01:16:57,320
- That you're getting
married in two weeks.
2239
01:16:57,355 --> 01:16:58,671
- What?
- Oh, you didn't get it?
2240
01:16:58,706 --> 01:16:59,872
- You guys found me a match?
2241
01:16:59,948 --> 01:17:03,159
- You are getting
married in two weeks.
2242
01:17:03,194 --> 01:17:05,602
- [bleep]
- [laughs]
2243
01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:07,138
- [sighs]
2244
01:17:07,214 --> 01:17:09,798
- Congratulations, my man.
- How amazing.
2245
01:17:09,875 --> 01:17:11,142
- This is real.
2246
01:17:11,218 --> 01:17:12,859
- Hoo.
Is it?
2247
01:17:12,861 --> 01:17:14,170
- Are you ok?
- I think so.
2248
01:17:14,205 --> 01:17:15,737
- You ok?
2249
01:17:15,814 --> 01:17:17,798
- I don't know how to, you
know, filter this excitement.
2250
01:17:17,800 --> 01:17:21,393
This might be the biggest
breath of air I've ever taken.
2251
01:17:21,470 --> 01:17:23,303
This is--thank you so much.
- Awesome.
2252
01:17:23,305 --> 01:17:24,730
- Thank you so much.
- Awesome.
2253
01:17:24,807 --> 01:17:25,798
Man, I love it.
2254
01:17:25,874 --> 01:17:27,557
- I'm just feeling on cloud nine right now.
2255
01:17:27,559 --> 01:17:29,810
I'm ready for her.
I'm ready for this marriage.
2256
01:17:29,812 --> 01:17:32,154
And I wish
it could come a little sooner.
2257
01:17:32,231 --> 01:17:33,313
[laughs]
2258
01:17:33,315 --> 01:17:35,307
- All right, take care, orion.
- Bye.
2259
01:17:35,342 --> 01:17:39,612
♪
2260
01:17:40,531 --> 01:17:42,498
I'm engaged.
2261
01:17:42,574 --> 01:17:47,036
♪
2262
01:17:47,071 --> 01:17:48,829
- Creative and expressive,
2263
01:17:48,831 --> 01:17:51,657
Michael's also athletic and ambitious.
2264
01:17:51,734 --> 01:17:54,000
He wants a successful woman who is driven
2265
01:17:54,002 --> 01:17:56,562
And financially stable, as well as passionate
2266
01:17:56,597 --> 01:17:58,898
And open-minded.
2267
01:17:58,933 --> 01:18:02,008
But with a little more digging and reflection,
2268
01:18:02,010 --> 01:18:06,805
We believe we've now paired him with his ideal partner.
2269
01:18:06,807 --> 01:18:09,074
She'll appreciate his unique flair
2270
01:18:09,109 --> 01:18:12,277
For fashion, along with his gentlemanly charm.
2271
01:18:12,354 --> 01:18:14,938
He'll be won over by her sweet confidence
2272
01:18:14,940 --> 01:18:16,432
And fun-loving nature.
2273
01:18:16,467 --> 01:18:19,217
They both appreciate a luxurious lifestyle,
2274
01:18:19,219 --> 01:18:21,570
Value strong communication skills,
2275
01:18:21,605 --> 01:18:25,532
And are devoted to finding their happily ever after.
2276
01:18:25,534 --> 01:18:28,944
[upbeat music]
2277
01:18:29,021 --> 01:18:30,020
- There you go.
2278
01:18:30,022 --> 01:18:32,080
Switch your head
and then pivot.
2279
01:18:32,082 --> 01:18:34,791
There you go. Again.
2280
01:18:34,793 --> 01:18:38,254
There you go.
Switch it back.
2281
01:18:38,289 --> 01:18:40,272
- Mike, your hip.
Put your hip in it, man.
2282
01:18:40,307 --> 01:18:41,974
[wheezing]
2283
01:18:42,050 --> 01:18:43,984
- Try and catch me
off guard up in here, man.
2284
01:18:44,061 --> 01:18:45,461
How are you, sir?
- What's up, partner?
2285
01:18:45,537 --> 01:18:46,495
It's good to see you, man.
2286
01:18:46,572 --> 01:18:47,496
- I'm nasty.
- I know.
2287
01:18:47,573 --> 01:18:48,739
- I wasn't ready
for you to arrive.
2288
01:18:48,816 --> 01:18:49,965
- Dude, you putting
in work, though, dude.
2289
01:18:50,042 --> 01:18:51,450
- I'm trying to.
2290
01:18:51,485 --> 01:18:53,469
- Man, I wouldn't get
in the ring with you.
2291
01:18:53,545 --> 01:18:55,070
We're getting
to the point when we
2292
01:18:55,105 --> 01:18:56,722
Get down to the final
couple dozen people.
2293
01:18:56,757 --> 01:18:57,773
- Sure.
2294
01:18:57,808 --> 01:18:59,324
- Then we need
to get more information.
2295
01:18:59,401 --> 01:19:00,400
- Sure.
2296
01:19:00,402 --> 01:19:01,794
- Why do you feel
you're still single?
2297
01:19:01,829 --> 01:19:04,070
- I think the thing that I
need to work on more is,
2298
01:19:04,072 --> 01:19:06,115
If I notice something's off
in the beginning,
2299
01:19:06,150 --> 01:19:07,908
Maybe I don't give
enough opportunity
2300
01:19:07,910 --> 01:19:11,578
To let that work itself out
or try to work through it.
2301
01:19:11,580 --> 01:19:12,654
- Right.
2302
01:19:12,731 --> 01:19:14,414
- So knowing that I'm
marrying this person,
2303
01:19:14,416 --> 01:19:17,326
Like, right off the bat, to me,
it's like, I can't just step
2304
01:19:17,478 --> 01:19:19,186
Out if something goes left.
2305
01:19:19,263 --> 01:19:20,670
Granted, yeah,
I don't know her.
2306
01:19:20,672 --> 01:19:21,814
- Right, right, right.
2307
01:19:21,849 --> 01:19:23,515
- But at the very least,
I'm committed to the process,
2308
01:19:23,592 --> 01:19:25,801
And I'm committed to getting
to know her and developing...
2309
01:19:25,836 --> 01:19:27,019
- Yeah.
2310
01:19:27,021 --> 01:19:28,286
- That foundation
to work through that stuff.
2311
01:19:28,472 --> 01:19:29,855
- And I'm so glad you say
that because eight weeks
2312
01:19:29,857 --> 01:19:34,343
Is not enough time to determine
whether or not your marriage
2313
01:19:34,419 --> 01:19:36,862
Has the foundation, you know--
2314
01:19:36,939 --> 01:19:38,113
- Sure.
- To succeed.
2315
01:19:38,190 --> 01:19:39,431
You have a lifetime
to figure that out.
2316
01:19:39,508 --> 01:19:41,500
And so when we
make these matches,
2317
01:19:41,535 --> 01:19:45,170
We are sincerely hoping
that people will take
2318
01:19:45,205 --> 01:19:47,506
Into consideration that,
hey, you know,
2319
01:19:47,541 --> 01:19:49,041
There's a reason
we're together.
2320
01:19:49,117 --> 01:19:50,267
- Yeah.
2321
01:19:50,344 --> 01:19:52,044
- Just for curiosity,
in the last year,
2322
01:19:52,120 --> 01:19:53,162
Have you ever knocked
anyone out?
2323
01:19:53,197 --> 01:19:55,498
- I don't--not,
like, cold knockout.
2324
01:19:55,533 --> 01:19:57,624
- You ever been sucker punched?
2325
01:19:57,626 --> 01:19:59,368
- No, not sucker punched,
thank goodness.
2326
01:19:59,444 --> 01:20:01,444
- I think I'm about
to sucker punch you, dude.
2327
01:20:01,522 --> 01:20:02,971
- Just to see?
- Yeah.
2328
01:20:02,973 --> 01:20:04,122
- Just to see?
2329
01:20:04,199 --> 01:20:05,841
- No, because you're getting
married in two weeks.
2330
01:20:05,876 --> 01:20:08,043
- Oh--
2331
01:20:08,078 --> 01:20:09,011
So--
2332
01:20:09,046 --> 01:20:11,713
- [laughs]
2333
01:20:11,790 --> 01:20:13,866
- So you're saying that,
like, this--
2334
01:20:13,976 --> 01:20:18,311
- I'm saying that in two weeks,
you're getting married.
2335
01:20:18,313 --> 01:20:20,722
- Well, that is
definitely a sucker punch.
2336
01:20:20,799 --> 01:20:22,407
I did not--
- yes.
2337
01:20:22,484 --> 01:20:23,900
- All right.
- This is it, dude.
2338
01:20:23,902 --> 01:20:25,260
- You set that up good.
2339
01:20:25,337 --> 01:20:26,161
That was--
you set that up good.
2340
01:20:26,238 --> 01:20:27,446
That was a good--
2341
01:20:27,556 --> 01:20:30,883
It is overwhelming but,
like, a good overwhelming.
2342
01:20:30,918 --> 01:20:33,035
I don't know how many times I'll be told, you know,
2343
01:20:33,070 --> 01:20:34,570
I'm getting married.
2344
01:20:34,605 --> 01:20:36,330
There's not many things in this world that rival that.
2345
01:20:36,407 --> 01:20:39,925
So I'm honestly just trying to
do my best to take it all in.
2346
01:20:39,927 --> 01:20:43,820
- Here's to
a knockout marriage,
2347
01:20:43,898 --> 01:20:47,566
Ok, because I'm telling you,
your bride's gonna be awesome.
2348
01:20:47,601 --> 01:20:49,492
- All right.
2349
01:20:49,570 --> 01:20:50,719
- Next week
2350
01:20:50,754 --> 01:20:53,030
On the "married at first sight" kickoff special...
2351
01:20:53,107 --> 01:20:54,923
"married at first sight"
is back.
2352
01:20:55,034 --> 01:20:57,242
- Michael and his secret suitor...
2353
01:20:57,319 --> 01:20:58,093
- Who is it?
2354
01:20:58,170 --> 01:20:59,519
- This is shocking.
2355
01:20:59,521 --> 01:21:01,930
- After an intense matchmaking process,
2356
01:21:01,965 --> 01:21:04,516
Five hopeful couples will marry a complete stranger
2357
01:21:04,551 --> 01:21:07,652
In the hopes of finding their happily ever after.
2358
01:21:07,654 --> 01:21:09,605
- The first time that I hear my husband
2359
01:21:09,640 --> 01:21:11,632
Say I love you will be amazing.
2360
01:21:11,709 --> 01:21:14,076
- It's time to take the chance.
You know, this is it.
2361
01:21:14,111 --> 01:21:16,211
- We'll predict which matches have a shot
2362
01:21:16,246 --> 01:21:17,846
At a successful marriage...
2363
01:21:17,881 --> 01:21:20,416
- I think they actually
have a ton in common.
2364
01:21:20,451 --> 01:21:21,750
- There's something
fiery about them.
2365
01:21:21,785 --> 01:21:23,635
They seem perfectly matched.
2366
01:21:23,712 --> 01:21:25,028
- And which ones may struggle.
2367
01:21:25,106 --> 01:21:27,423
- There could be something
wrong with her.
2368
01:21:27,458 --> 01:21:29,174
- They will be
getting divorced.
2369
01:21:29,251 --> 01:21:31,777
- We'll be joined by some very special guests,
2370
01:21:31,812 --> 01:21:35,063
And we'll hear one very emotional update.
2371
01:21:35,140 --> 01:21:37,916
- I'm sorry.
I'm such a mess.
2372
01:21:37,918 --> 01:21:39,685
- We have some exclusive sneak peeks
2373
01:21:39,720 --> 01:21:41,486
From the upcoming season.
2374
01:21:41,521 --> 01:21:44,056
- Do you guys think
I'm ready for marriage?
2375
01:21:44,132 --> 01:21:46,066
- No.
2376
01:21:46,068 --> 01:21:47,717
- I got a girth certificate.
2377
01:21:47,795 --> 01:21:50,887
- I'm so glad that we know
how massive your [bleep] is.
2378
01:21:50,965 --> 01:21:52,831
Thank you.
2379
01:21:52,908 --> 01:21:55,951
- And in two weeks, the "married at first sight"
2380
01:21:55,953 --> 01:21:58,411
Denver weddings officially begin.
2381
01:21:58,413 --> 01:21:59,838
- Wedding day!
2382
01:21:59,915 --> 01:22:01,064
- Everyone wanted
to see the nerves.
2383
01:22:01,142 --> 01:22:02,524
They're here.
2384
01:22:02,601 --> 01:22:03,918
[dramatic music]
2385
01:22:03,994 --> 01:22:05,677
- Please stand.
2386
01:22:05,712 --> 01:22:08,439
- What I'm hoping for is to find the love of my life.
2387
01:22:08,515 --> 01:22:09,898
- I feel all the feels,
2388
01:22:09,933 --> 01:22:11,750
Literally all the feels
right now.
2389
01:22:11,827 --> 01:22:13,743
- No going back now.
- All right.
2390
01:22:13,821 --> 01:22:15,595
- Ooh!
[bleep]
2391
01:22:15,597 --> 01:22:18,474
I'm scared.
I am insane for doing this.
2392
01:22:18,509 --> 01:22:20,142
- It's like, the nerves.
2393
01:22:20,177 --> 01:22:21,343
You got to move a little bit.
2394
01:22:21,420 --> 01:22:22,536
- Can I, like,
step outside for a sec?
2395
01:22:22,613 --> 01:22:24,446
What did I get myself into?
2396
01:22:24,523 --> 01:22:28,400
[dramatic music]
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