Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated:
1
00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,260
What's wrong?
2
00:01:13,290 --> 00:01:14,810
[man] Nothing.
3
00:01:48,950 --> 00:01:52,100
[Yolanda]We must question
those who say divorce is death.
4
00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,510
Particularly when we see
new life springing up
5
00:01:54,540 --> 00:01:56,910
from so many who survive
the breach.
6
00:01:58,580 --> 00:02:01,390
[audience cheering]
7
00:02:01,410 --> 00:02:02,680
[audience] What up, Yo?
8
00:02:02,700 --> 00:02:04,850
Freedom from
your relationship woes.
9
00:02:04,870 --> 00:02:07,810
-And that's--
-[all] No cap!
10
00:02:07,830 --> 00:02:10,700
Please take your seats.
Y'all are embarrassing me.
11
00:02:13,330 --> 00:02:15,260
Welcome to this Yo Session.
12
00:02:15,290 --> 00:02:19,180
I'm Dr. Yolanda Carver,
but you can call me Dr. Yo.
13
00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,600
I'm so humbled
that you decided
14
00:02:21,620 --> 00:02:23,470
to join me for this
speaking experience.
15
00:02:23,500 --> 00:02:25,050
We have people tuning in
all the way from
16
00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:28,260
Turks and Caicos,
Paris and London.
17
00:02:28,290 --> 00:02:29,810
And in the good old US of A
18
00:02:29,830 --> 00:02:31,260
we have people tuning in
from New Jersey,
19
00:02:31,290 --> 00:02:34,350
California, Georgia,
and, oh, my, Montana!
20
00:02:34,370 --> 00:02:36,100
[cheering]
21
00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,620
[ominous music]
22
00:02:48,410 --> 00:02:50,220
Tonight, I wanna talk
to you about
23
00:02:50,250 --> 00:02:53,720
the elegance of disaster
and the beauty of the storm.
24
00:02:53,750 --> 00:02:55,640
When a relationship
is secure,
25
00:02:55,660 --> 00:02:57,470
rains can come,
26
00:02:57,500 --> 00:03:00,430
and winds can blow and
beat against that relationship,
27
00:03:00,450 --> 00:03:03,560
but that marriage will not fall
28
00:03:03,580 --> 00:03:05,510
because that relationship
is built
29
00:03:05,540 --> 00:03:08,540
on solid rock.
30
00:03:09,750 --> 00:03:12,470
[Armeka laughs]
31
00:03:12,500 --> 00:03:14,010
Okay, I'm home.
32
00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:15,370
Got to go.
33
00:03:21,330 --> 00:03:23,760
I thought you was going to
happy hour.
34
00:03:23,790 --> 00:03:25,430
That is where I went.
35
00:03:25,450 --> 00:03:27,260
And you're getting home
after 11:30?
36
00:03:27,290 --> 00:03:29,720
You wanna check my phone?
See my receipts?
37
00:03:29,750 --> 00:03:32,200
That's the same dress you had on
you when you was with him.
38
00:03:37,450 --> 00:03:38,790
I'll burn it.
39
00:03:40,410 --> 00:03:41,970
But every time
40
00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,430
I leave the house,
you're suspicious.
41
00:03:44,450 --> 00:03:46,470
It's been six months.
42
00:03:46,500 --> 00:03:48,970
So six months is just a magic
number where I suppose to,
43
00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:50,640
poof, get over it?
44
00:03:50,660 --> 00:03:52,310
You didn't catch me.
45
00:03:52,330 --> 00:03:54,100
I told you.
46
00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:55,930
So I don't understand
the third degree.
47
00:03:55,950 --> 00:03:57,220
You will never understand.
48
00:03:57,250 --> 00:03:59,250
[mellow music]
49
00:04:01,700 --> 00:04:03,350
Liam?
50
00:04:03,370 --> 00:04:05,890
Liam, babe, what are you...
Babe, don't...
51
00:04:05,910 --> 00:04:08,450
Babe, babe, wait, stop,
babe.
52
00:04:12,950 --> 00:04:14,910
Baby, look at me.
53
00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,080
[cries]
54
00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,470
Can we at least try?
55
00:04:23,500 --> 00:04:26,720
To see if we can heal from this?
56
00:04:26,750 --> 00:04:28,330
[mellow music]
57
00:04:30,660 --> 00:04:32,310
Babe.
58
00:04:32,330 --> 00:04:34,350
[Yolanda]Rather than my divorce
disqualifying me
59
00:04:34,370 --> 00:04:36,220
from being a successful
relationship counselor,
60
00:04:36,250 --> 00:04:38,720
it gives me credibility in
these relationship streets.
61
00:04:38,750 --> 00:04:42,220
The wreckage of my failed
marriage acts as scaffolding,
62
00:04:42,250 --> 00:04:44,810
a temporary structure
that supports a building
63
00:04:44,830 --> 00:04:47,220
and those working
to restore it.
64
00:04:47,250 --> 00:04:49,700
So are y'all ready to start
restoring these relationships?
65
00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:55,450
[up-tempo music]
66
00:05:00,700 --> 00:05:02,390
I'll take another.
67
00:05:02,410 --> 00:05:05,810
-Putting 'em away, aren't you?
-Keep up or keep quiet.
68
00:05:05,830 --> 00:05:07,660
He'll take another, too.
69
00:05:11,410 --> 00:05:13,430
Ah, remember that time
you convinced that private
70
00:05:13,450 --> 00:05:16,100
to swallow the anal suppository?
71
00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,930
And then we found him
passed out in the hooch?
72
00:05:18,950 --> 00:05:21,260
You told him to do that.
I just, you know,
73
00:05:21,290 --> 00:05:22,720
just agreed with you
to make it seem like
74
00:05:22,750 --> 00:05:23,810
you were telling the truth.
75
00:05:23,830 --> 00:05:25,310
Same thing, man.
76
00:05:25,330 --> 00:05:27,180
And he still didn't crap
for a week!
77
00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:29,100
[laughs]
78
00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,760
Dude, you always laugh at that
story. What's getting to you?
79
00:05:31,790 --> 00:05:33,180
What makes you think
something's wrong?
80
00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:34,720
Body language.
81
00:05:34,750 --> 00:05:37,050
And knowing you since bootcamp.
82
00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:39,430
[Roy] When you are all
sulking around like this,
83
00:05:39,450 --> 00:05:42,330
it's usually one of two things,
your business...
84
00:05:43,620 --> 00:05:44,850
or your marriage.
85
00:05:44,870 --> 00:05:46,350
Well...
86
00:05:46,370 --> 00:05:47,430
Business is fine.
87
00:05:47,450 --> 00:05:48,750
Bingo.
88
00:05:50,500 --> 00:05:52,510
So what's going on?
Same old, same old?
89
00:05:52,540 --> 00:05:54,910
[scoffs] The kind of love
I had for her...
90
00:05:56,540 --> 00:05:58,430
I didn't even think
that kind of love existed.
91
00:05:58,450 --> 00:06:00,890
Same way I felt.
Now look at me.
92
00:06:00,910 --> 00:06:03,930
A little unsolicited advice.
Okay?
93
00:06:03,950 --> 00:06:06,100
Don't go to marriage counseling.
94
00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:08,120
It's an expensive mirage...
95
00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:11,220
that didn't save my marriage.
96
00:06:11,250 --> 00:06:13,430
And the counselor
97
00:06:13,450 --> 00:06:15,220
that I told all my business to
98
00:06:15,250 --> 00:06:17,430
turns around
and testifies against me
99
00:06:17,450 --> 00:06:20,010
in our divorce hearing.
100
00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,850
You see that negative energy
you're putting out?
101
00:06:22,870 --> 00:06:24,010
That's why you're gonna be
single
102
00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:25,310
for the rest of your life.
103
00:06:25,330 --> 00:06:27,580
-Ooh!
-[laughs]
104
00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:30,200
Hm.
105
00:06:41,410 --> 00:06:43,500
She's obviously helped
a lot of people.
106
00:06:44,750 --> 00:06:46,050
Yeah, looks like
a cross between
107
00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:48,470
pop-psychology
and megachurch pastor.
108
00:06:48,500 --> 00:06:51,220
Sprinkle in a little bit
internet andvoila!
109
00:06:51,250 --> 00:06:53,050
Relationships
miraculously healed.
110
00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:54,470
What do we have to lose?
111
00:06:54,500 --> 00:06:57,180
And you said we could
at least try.
112
00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,290
You know, maybe our expectations
are a little too high.
113
00:07:00,540 --> 00:07:02,200
I'm gonna get us a drink.
114
00:07:11,450 --> 00:07:14,310
Here she is!
Dr. Yo before the show!
115
00:07:14,330 --> 00:07:16,760
[applause]
116
00:07:16,790 --> 00:07:19,290
[audience whistling]
117
00:07:21,870 --> 00:07:24,390
[intense music]
118
00:07:24,410 --> 00:07:26,040
[cheering]
119
00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:31,560
Make sure they're one of
the couples.
120
00:07:31,580 --> 00:07:33,010
How am I supposed to do that?
121
00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:34,640
You'll figure it out.
122
00:07:34,660 --> 00:07:37,200
[tense music]
123
00:07:39,620 --> 00:07:41,510
[door opens]
124
00:07:41,540 --> 00:07:42,790
[door closes]
125
00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:47,970
[audience cheering]
126
00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:49,450
[applause]
127
00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:52,720
[audience] What up, Yo?
128
00:07:52,750 --> 00:07:54,810
It's time for your relationships
to grow.
129
00:07:54,830 --> 00:07:57,100
-And that's--
-No cap!
130
00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:58,830
[audience cheering]
131
00:08:02,330 --> 00:08:06,100
Tonight, I wanna talk
about the danger of detractors.
132
00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:08,140
Those people in your life
133
00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:11,220
who are peeved because you're
taking the necessary steps
134
00:08:11,250 --> 00:08:14,430
to clean up the mess
of your relationship.
135
00:08:14,450 --> 00:08:16,760
But before I go any further,
136
00:08:16,790 --> 00:08:19,310
I wanted to share something
that was on my heart backstage.
137
00:08:19,330 --> 00:08:20,930
I felt led to give away
138
00:08:20,950 --> 00:08:24,010
one full suite of my
relationship services
139
00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:25,720
free of charge
140
00:08:25,750 --> 00:08:27,180
to one
141
00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,050
lucky couple.
142
00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:30,510
[scattered applause]
143
00:08:30,540 --> 00:08:32,470
Come on out here, Tonya.
144
00:08:32,500 --> 00:08:34,040
Give it up for Tonya
the producer, y'all!
145
00:08:35,410 --> 00:08:37,510
Tonya randomly selected
your ticket stubs,
146
00:08:37,540 --> 00:08:39,640
matched those ticket numbers
with your names.
147
00:08:39,660 --> 00:08:42,180
And I will choose the winning
couple from among three
148
00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,050
that I'll interview
after the show.
149
00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,510
So let's see if you and your boo
get chosen for consideration.
150
00:08:46,540 --> 00:08:49,040
[tense music]
151
00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:56,330
[laughs]
152
00:09:00,540 --> 00:09:01,910
Yes!
153
00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:12,390
[applause]
154
00:09:12,410 --> 00:09:13,970
[laughs]
Ah!
155
00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,500
[music continues]
156
00:09:18,500 --> 00:09:20,100
[Yolanda] Congratulations
157
00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:21,890
to all of those who were
chosen for consideration.
158
00:09:21,910 --> 00:09:23,970
And I'll see you all backstage.
159
00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,500
[applause]
160
00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:30,950
You said we were just
coming here to listen.
161
00:09:32,540 --> 00:09:34,850
Now we're sitting here
waiting to be interviewed.
162
00:09:34,870 --> 00:09:37,810
How was I supposed to know
we were gonna get picked?
163
00:09:37,830 --> 00:09:39,430
Well, we haven't
been picked yet.
164
00:09:39,450 --> 00:09:43,430
I mean, she still
has to meet us.
165
00:09:43,450 --> 00:09:45,120
This ain't what I signed up for.
166
00:09:48,370 --> 00:09:51,100
I saw your reaction when
she talked about detractors.
167
00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:53,680
You were feeling that.
I could see it in your face.
168
00:09:53,700 --> 00:09:55,350
That's only 'cause me and Roy
were just talking about that.
169
00:09:55,370 --> 00:09:57,350
-Roy!
-Yeah.
170
00:09:57,370 --> 00:09:59,810
He thinks that just because his
marriage flopped after therapy
171
00:09:59,830 --> 00:10:01,870
everybody else's
relationships doomed.
172
00:10:03,660 --> 00:10:05,140
Babe,
173
00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:07,850
look, I know Roy
is your best friend,
174
00:10:07,870 --> 00:10:10,350
but you really have to take what
he says with a grain of salt.
175
00:10:10,370 --> 00:10:12,450
Especially when it
comes to you and me.
176
00:10:14,410 --> 00:10:15,620
[sighs]
177
00:10:16,700 --> 00:10:18,010
Roy.
178
00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:19,510
Thanks so much for coming.
179
00:10:19,540 --> 00:10:20,870
I'll be in touch.
180
00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:23,930
Liam and Armeka Jasper.
181
00:10:23,950 --> 00:10:25,580
-Yes.
-Come on in.
182
00:10:27,870 --> 00:10:30,370
[intense music]
183
00:10:35,330 --> 00:10:38,220
You remind me of
my late best friend,
184
00:10:38,250 --> 00:10:39,660
who I loved dearly.
185
00:10:41,410 --> 00:10:43,600
My ex-husband was a marine.
Thank you for your service.
186
00:10:43,620 --> 00:10:45,430
No thanks are necessary,
187
00:10:45,450 --> 00:10:46,930
I appreciate the sentiment.
188
00:10:46,950 --> 00:10:49,330
So what makes you two
the perfect couple?
189
00:10:52,500 --> 00:10:53,930
We've been married
190
00:10:53,950 --> 00:10:55,760
seven years, but
191
00:10:55,790 --> 00:10:57,430
the last couple
192
00:10:57,450 --> 00:11:00,510
have been... really rough.
193
00:11:00,540 --> 00:11:01,850
And even though not everything
194
00:11:01,870 --> 00:11:03,600
that's going wrong
is my fault,
195
00:11:03,620 --> 00:11:05,260
the last six months
196
00:11:05,290 --> 00:11:07,040
have been hard because...
197
00:11:10,540 --> 00:11:13,040
I made the mistake of
stepping out on my husband.
198
00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:16,890
I commend you.
199
00:11:16,910 --> 00:11:18,220
Because too many men
200
00:11:18,250 --> 00:11:19,890
would allow pride
and manfulness
201
00:11:19,910 --> 00:11:23,310
to undermine the redemptive
power of reconciliation.
202
00:11:23,330 --> 00:11:24,930
And thank you
for your transparency.
203
00:11:24,950 --> 00:11:26,760
I know it's not
easy revealing
204
00:11:26,790 --> 00:11:28,410
your worst mistake to someone
you're just getting to know.
205
00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:33,140
You two are so cute you make me
believe in happily ever after.
206
00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:35,390
-Hm.
-[line ringing]
207
00:11:35,410 --> 00:11:36,850
[Tonya]Hello!
208
00:11:36,870 --> 00:11:38,050
Please reach out to
the other two couples
209
00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:39,760
on my behalf and thank them.
210
00:11:39,790 --> 00:11:41,350
I think I've found my winners.
211
00:11:41,370 --> 00:11:43,040
[instrumental music]
212
00:11:44,500 --> 00:11:46,010
Now here's how I work.
213
00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:47,350
We'll begin with a
getting-to-know-you session
214
00:11:47,370 --> 00:11:49,010
with the two of you together.
215
00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:50,640
Then I'll have one-on-one
sessions with each of you
216
00:11:50,660 --> 00:11:52,180
to gain context and objectivity.
217
00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:53,890
From then on,
all of our sessions will
218
00:11:53,910 --> 00:11:55,470
take place in your home.
219
00:11:55,500 --> 00:11:57,250
I call them
in-house observations.
220
00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:01,260
I'm an empiricist,
221
00:12:01,290 --> 00:12:02,970
which means
my methods are based on
222
00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:06,140
what I experience and see,
rather than just theory.
223
00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:07,910
This is the basis of
The Scientific Method.
224
00:12:09,580 --> 00:12:11,810
I charge a lot for what I do
because I'm good at it.
225
00:12:11,830 --> 00:12:14,760
[music continues]
226
00:12:14,790 --> 00:12:17,680
But, Liam, I also understand
your trepidation.
227
00:12:17,700 --> 00:12:19,010
This is something new.
228
00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:20,760
Some would even say unorthodox.
229
00:12:20,790 --> 00:12:22,760
But my unorthodoxy
is precisely
230
00:12:22,790 --> 00:12:26,220
why I've been successful
as a clinician.
231
00:12:26,250 --> 00:12:28,140
Let's do this. Sleep on it.
232
00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:31,430
I'll give you 24 hours. And if
I don't hear from you by then,
233
00:12:31,450 --> 00:12:32,750
I'll choose another couple.
234
00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:35,370
Sound good?
235
00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,140
[Armeka] If you make
that decision,
236
00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:46,470
it's going to make your
situation exponentially worse.
237
00:12:46,500 --> 00:12:48,310
You visit my house twice
238
00:12:48,330 --> 00:12:51,350
and now you're some kind
of expert on my life? [laughs]
239
00:12:51,370 --> 00:12:53,970
-You don't know me.
-Carlotta, I know men.
240
00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:55,600
And if you do this,
241
00:12:55,620 --> 00:12:57,850
I guarantee you he's going
to hit you again.
242
00:12:57,870 --> 00:12:59,510
Well, then I guess
it's just a chance
243
00:12:59,540 --> 00:13:01,180
I'm gonna have to take now,
isn't it?
244
00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,700
Because if he can do it,
I can do it, too.
245
00:13:12,370 --> 00:13:14,310
[Armeka sighs]
246
00:13:14,330 --> 00:13:17,100
Know why social workers
have such high burnout rates?
247
00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:19,560
-Not now, Ivy. Please.
-Because they get...
248
00:13:19,580 --> 00:13:23,050
[both] Too emotionally involved
in the lives of their clients.
249
00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,720
Yeah. This is about more
than Carlotta, isn't it?
250
00:13:26,750 --> 00:13:28,470
It's about everything.
251
00:13:28,500 --> 00:13:30,470
I love my job. It's just,
252
00:13:30,500 --> 00:13:32,390
I hate the way it
makes me feel.
253
00:13:32,410 --> 00:13:35,010
Constant exposure to trauma.
254
00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:37,350
Poverty. Loss.
255
00:13:37,370 --> 00:13:39,850
-It's a lot.
-Yeah.
256
00:13:39,870 --> 00:13:42,180
Especially when you have
your own drama at home.
257
00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:43,950
Hey, come here, come here.
258
00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:50,640
Mhm.
259
00:13:50,660 --> 00:13:51,890
[inhales sharply]
260
00:13:51,910 --> 00:13:53,310
Ooh!
261
00:13:53,330 --> 00:13:55,100
I needed that.
262
00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,600
I haven't had a decent hug in--
263
00:13:57,620 --> 00:13:59,120
Bet I know since when.
264
00:14:00,790 --> 00:14:03,050
See, that's why
I never tell you anything.
265
00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:05,260
You know anything you tell me
is safer than my search history.
266
00:14:05,290 --> 00:14:07,220
Cross my heart and hope to die.
267
00:14:07,250 --> 00:14:09,220
Okay, fine, maybe not die.
268
00:14:09,250 --> 00:14:12,050
Not for, like, 40 years.
Maybe 50, if I'm healthy.
269
00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:14,100
Ooh, that would make me 80.
270
00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:17,850
Okay, fine, 60 years. But only
if I'm in my right mind. Oww!
271
00:14:17,870 --> 00:14:19,560
That's for even mentioning it!
272
00:14:19,580 --> 00:14:21,850
Liam and I are trying to...
273
00:14:21,870 --> 00:14:23,220
work things out.
274
00:14:23,250 --> 00:14:24,870
Well, that's a win, isn't it?
275
00:14:25,870 --> 00:14:27,810
-I guess.
-Huh!
276
00:14:27,830 --> 00:14:30,180
-And you wonder why I'm single.
-Mhm-hm. No.
277
00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:32,260
Don't blame me
for your relationship woes.
278
00:14:32,290 --> 00:14:33,850
You've been this way
since college.
279
00:14:33,870 --> 00:14:35,140
Hm, try high school.
280
00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,050
Because I can do bad
all by myself.
281
00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:39,180
-Thank you very much.
-Mmm.
282
00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:41,600
-Love you!
-Yeah, okay.
283
00:14:41,620 --> 00:14:42,910
[laughs]
284
00:14:44,330 --> 00:14:45,470
[sighs]
285
00:14:45,500 --> 00:14:48,050
♪ Yeah yeah yeah yeah ♪
286
00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:50,390
♪ Yeah yeah yeah ♪
287
00:14:50,410 --> 00:14:52,890
You're not enjoying your food?
288
00:14:52,910 --> 00:14:54,720
I made your favorite.
289
00:14:54,750 --> 00:14:55,930
From scratch.
290
00:14:55,950 --> 00:14:57,260
You made me choose that woman
291
00:14:57,290 --> 00:14:59,140
because you're interested
in her.
292
00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:01,100
My only interest is in you.
293
00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:04,560
How about sappy public displays
of affection for once then?
294
00:15:04,580 --> 00:15:06,220
Or a night on the town
295
00:15:06,250 --> 00:15:09,180
as your girlfriend instead of
as your show producer?
296
00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:11,310
My public persona is just that.
297
00:15:11,330 --> 00:15:14,080
My private life
is all about you.
298
00:15:16,500 --> 00:15:18,250
I got you something.
299
00:15:23,620 --> 00:15:24,950
Open it.
300
00:15:31,700 --> 00:15:33,510
[Yolanda] Platinum and diamonds
301
00:15:33,540 --> 00:15:35,050
for the curious, cultivated,
302
00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:36,750
amazing woman you are.
303
00:15:38,450 --> 00:15:40,330
Let me see what it looks on.
304
00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,120
As beautiful as
I knew it would be.
305
00:15:50,660 --> 00:15:52,040
Thank you.
306
00:15:53,790 --> 00:15:56,430
[Yolanda] In jewelry,
serpents mean rebirth,
307
00:15:56,450 --> 00:15:58,450
healing, and guardianship.
308
00:16:00,950 --> 00:16:02,470
in a nutshell.
309
00:16:02,500 --> 00:16:03,750
[phone chimes]
310
00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:08,260
You promised no more
devices at dinner.
311
00:16:08,290 --> 00:16:09,810
Did you take your medication?
312
00:16:09,830 --> 00:16:12,160
That has nothing to do
with what you promised.
313
00:16:13,410 --> 00:16:15,910
[ominous music]
314
00:16:18,870 --> 00:16:20,890
Take your hand off my phone
315
00:16:20,910 --> 00:16:23,470
and take your medication.
316
00:16:23,500 --> 00:16:25,750
That was a condition
of your release.
317
00:16:30,540 --> 00:16:31,810
[phone chimes]
318
00:16:31,830 --> 00:16:33,560
[chuckles]
319
00:16:33,580 --> 00:16:36,080
[keypad clacking]
320
00:16:38,330 --> 00:16:40,830
[music continues]
321
00:16:52,450 --> 00:16:55,410
[Yolanda] Welcome to
the squared circle.
322
00:17:00,580 --> 00:17:01,830
[door shuts]
323
00:17:04,870 --> 00:17:06,930
We're meeting here so that
the two of you can work off
324
00:17:06,950 --> 00:17:09,540
any anger or frustration you may
be feeling towards the other.
325
00:17:11,580 --> 00:17:12,830
Glove up.
326
00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:15,970
Here are the rules.
327
00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:17,550
Before you land a punch,
328
00:17:17,580 --> 00:17:20,080
you have to identify
what that punch represents.
329
00:17:21,950 --> 00:17:24,080
-Right or left-handed?
-Right.
330
00:17:28,910 --> 00:17:30,580
Let's make it a fair fight.
331
00:17:41,790 --> 00:17:44,500
In the ring.
Ding-ding-ding!
332
00:17:46,620 --> 00:17:47,750
[Liam sighs]
333
00:17:49,700 --> 00:17:52,640
I'm not gonna hit my wife.
Not even with my weak hand.
334
00:17:52,660 --> 00:17:55,180
If she wants to blow off
some steam, you know, she can--
335
00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:57,350
Ah! Frustration.
336
00:17:57,370 --> 00:17:59,060
Call it out before you
hit him, Armeka.
337
00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:01,550
Babe, babe.
338
00:18:01,580 --> 00:18:03,220
Disappointment. Ah!
339
00:18:03,250 --> 00:18:04,640
Just calm... Chill.
340
00:18:04,660 --> 00:18:06,370
Abandonment.
[grunting]
341
00:18:07,790 --> 00:18:09,430
Babe...
342
00:18:09,450 --> 00:18:11,430
-Think you know everything.
-Babe, come on.
343
00:18:11,450 --> 00:18:14,310
[grunting]
344
00:18:14,330 --> 00:18:16,180
Only one issue per blow.
345
00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:17,760
Four words.
So I hit him four times.
346
00:18:17,790 --> 00:18:20,290
[intense music]
347
00:18:21,660 --> 00:18:23,390
Silence. Ah!
348
00:18:23,410 --> 00:18:25,470
-[groans]
-[Yolanda] Stop!
349
00:18:25,500 --> 00:18:27,390
Stop!
350
00:18:27,410 --> 00:18:29,540
Babe, babe, babe.
351
00:18:31,290 --> 00:18:32,680
Arme...
352
00:18:32,700 --> 00:18:34,060
-You okay?
-Baby, baby.
353
00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:35,680
You okay?
Baby, I'm sorry.
354
00:18:35,700 --> 00:18:37,080
Leave me alone.
355
00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:40,620
Are you good?
356
00:18:42,910 --> 00:18:45,140
My scorecard says wife eight.
357
00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:46,620
Husband one.
358
00:18:47,830 --> 00:18:49,970
Wifey wins on points.
359
00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:51,430
Hang on.
360
00:18:51,450 --> 00:18:53,950
[tense music]
361
00:19:00,290 --> 00:19:01,660
Now C-walk.
362
00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:04,700
Chop, chop. Let's go.
363
00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,390
[laughter]
364
00:19:09,410 --> 00:19:11,680
[chuckles]
365
00:19:11,700 --> 00:19:13,260
You're not exempt.
366
00:19:13,290 --> 00:19:14,640
Loser has to dougie.
367
00:19:14,660 --> 00:19:16,310
I'm not good at dougieing,
though.
368
00:19:16,330 --> 00:19:17,890
Doctor's orders. Let's get it.
369
00:19:17,910 --> 00:19:19,290
Hey...
370
00:19:20,830 --> 00:19:22,120
[sighs]
371
00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:25,850
[laughter]
372
00:19:25,870 --> 00:19:27,830
All right, all right.
Let's bring it in.
373
00:19:29,790 --> 00:19:32,310
I think I've identified the
areas we need to work on,
374
00:19:32,330 --> 00:19:33,600
communication is number one.
375
00:19:33,620 --> 00:19:35,550
Number two is intimacy.
376
00:19:35,580 --> 00:19:37,260
And the third...
377
00:19:37,290 --> 00:19:39,100
is trust.
378
00:19:39,120 --> 00:19:41,550
These areas will be the basis
of each in-house observation.
379
00:19:41,580 --> 00:19:43,810
And on the final visit,
I'll give my assessment
380
00:19:43,830 --> 00:19:45,680
and a treatment model.
381
00:19:45,700 --> 00:19:47,790
Now, apologies go around.
382
00:19:50,830 --> 00:19:52,550
Babe, I'm...
383
00:19:52,580 --> 00:19:54,600
I'm sorry for clocking you
like that.
384
00:19:54,620 --> 00:19:57,760
It was my weak hand, and
thought it'd be a rabbit punch.
385
00:19:57,790 --> 00:20:00,600
It's like I had a flashback.
386
00:20:00,620 --> 00:20:01,870
What did you
flash back to, Liam?
387
00:20:03,540 --> 00:20:06,430
For a second I felt like
I was back in the desert.
388
00:20:06,450 --> 00:20:08,850
[tense music]
389
00:20:08,870 --> 00:20:10,160
Come here.
390
00:20:16,750 --> 00:20:18,040
[sighs]
391
00:20:20,250 --> 00:20:21,620
Where is she at?
392
00:20:23,120 --> 00:20:24,500
[snaps finger]
393
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:31,220
Now to make this
marriage official,
394
00:20:31,250 --> 00:20:33,000
ours and yours.
395
00:20:42,330 --> 00:20:44,830
[ominous music]
396
00:20:57,290 --> 00:20:59,260
You can keep the pen.
397
00:20:59,290 --> 00:21:00,790
The first of my gifts to you.
398
00:21:02,790 --> 00:21:05,000
The second will be far more
valuable than a $50-pen.
399
00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:07,660
A healed relationship.
400
00:21:10,870 --> 00:21:12,250
[sighs]
401
00:21:16,120 --> 00:21:17,720
[Yolanda] That was quite
the display of aggression
402
00:21:17,750 --> 00:21:19,370
towards your husband
last week.
403
00:21:22,910 --> 00:21:24,310
He's been emotionally
404
00:21:24,330 --> 00:21:27,260
unavailable these
last few years.
405
00:21:27,290 --> 00:21:31,720
And... we stopped having sex
after the second miscarriage.
406
00:21:31,750 --> 00:21:34,680
Two miscarriages?
I'm so sorry.
407
00:21:34,700 --> 00:21:36,430
Thanks.
408
00:21:36,450 --> 00:21:37,850
But...
409
00:21:37,870 --> 00:21:40,890
the way our relationship's
been going...
410
00:21:40,910 --> 00:21:42,540
adding babies to...
411
00:21:43,750 --> 00:21:45,600
this situation would've...
412
00:21:45,620 --> 00:21:47,680
complicate an already
complicated situation.
413
00:21:47,700 --> 00:21:49,120
I understand.
414
00:21:50,450 --> 00:21:52,120
Do you harbor
any unresolved anger?
415
00:21:53,540 --> 00:21:55,080
Even towards your own body?
416
00:21:57,790 --> 00:21:59,640
All my life
417
00:21:59,660 --> 00:22:01,600
I've wanted to have babies.
418
00:22:01,620 --> 00:22:04,430
To feel them growing inside me.
419
00:22:04,450 --> 00:22:06,390
Experiencing the whole
420
00:22:06,410 --> 00:22:08,140
birthing process.
421
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:09,680
And...
422
00:22:09,700 --> 00:22:11,410
when I couldn't do that...
423
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,310
I had to question
424
00:22:15,330 --> 00:22:17,000
what that said about me...
425
00:22:18,450 --> 00:22:19,600
as a woman.
426
00:22:19,620 --> 00:22:21,140
What did you come up with?
427
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:22,790
Still figuring that out.
428
00:22:24,750 --> 00:22:27,350
How long after the miscarriage
429
00:22:27,370 --> 00:22:28,640
did the affair happen?
430
00:22:28,660 --> 00:22:30,720
I don't know, uh,
431
00:22:30,750 --> 00:22:32,040
a couple of months?
432
00:22:33,830 --> 00:22:36,100
This wasn't some planned thing.
433
00:22:36,120 --> 00:22:38,220
Okay, I-I didn't think
I would ever
434
00:22:38,250 --> 00:22:39,930
cheat on my husband.
435
00:22:39,950 --> 00:22:42,830
And I-I'm not blaming him
for what I did, but...
436
00:22:45,330 --> 00:22:47,390
I just felt so alone.
437
00:22:47,410 --> 00:22:49,790
What do you think the affair
said about you as a woman?
438
00:22:53,830 --> 00:22:55,220
[sobs]
439
00:22:55,250 --> 00:22:57,260
[mellow music]
440
00:22:57,290 --> 00:22:58,310
It's okay.
441
00:22:58,330 --> 00:22:59,720
I see you,
442
00:22:59,750 --> 00:23:01,350
the pain you carry.
443
00:23:01,370 --> 00:23:02,970
The frustration
of living with a man
444
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,720
who treats your only mistake
like a life sentence.
445
00:23:05,750 --> 00:23:08,930
I want you to know that
I'm always be here for you.
446
00:23:08,950 --> 00:23:10,260
In our sessions.
447
00:23:10,290 --> 00:23:12,180
To ensure that the environment
448
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:14,750
is emotionally safe.
449
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,760
[ominous music]
450
00:23:24,790 --> 00:23:26,040
[door shuts]
451
00:23:27,540 --> 00:23:29,810
-This is beautiful.
-Thank you.
452
00:23:29,830 --> 00:23:31,260
I used to lease an office
in Buckhead
453
00:23:31,290 --> 00:23:33,010
before the pandemic
shut everything down.
454
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,930
But now that I've moved
my practice here,
455
00:23:34,950 --> 00:23:37,600
I realized it's better for me
and for my patients.
456
00:23:37,620 --> 00:23:38,720
I'll see you next week.
457
00:23:38,750 --> 00:23:40,450
-See you next week.
-Great.
458
00:23:44,830 --> 00:23:46,290
[intense music]
459
00:23:47,540 --> 00:23:48,970
Are you spying on me?
460
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:50,930
I saw you two holding hands.
461
00:23:50,950 --> 00:23:54,010
I don't owe you any explanations
for how I do my work.
462
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:57,100
And like I've told you,
when I have patients,
463
00:23:57,120 --> 00:23:58,500
you stay out of sight.
464
00:24:07,120 --> 00:24:09,050
Before the miscarriages
465
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:11,470
I feel like we were happy.
466
00:24:11,500 --> 00:24:12,970
But after the second one,
467
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:14,680
I got concerned
I wasn't gonna get
468
00:24:14,700 --> 00:24:16,470
what I wanted
most out of marriage.
469
00:24:16,500 --> 00:24:19,310
[chuckles]
Two big headed boys.
470
00:24:19,330 --> 00:24:21,390
Was love something
you wanted out of your marriage?
471
00:24:21,410 --> 00:24:23,640
- Well, yeah.
-[Yolanda] But it was secondary?
472
00:24:23,660 --> 00:24:25,720
To having kids?
473
00:24:25,750 --> 00:24:28,560
-You have to think about it?
-Yeah, I mean no.
474
00:24:28,580 --> 00:24:30,310
You're getting me mixed up.
475
00:24:30,330 --> 00:24:32,100
Am I getting you mixed up,
or do you harbor latent anger
476
00:24:32,120 --> 00:24:33,470
towards your wife because
she couldn't give you
477
00:24:33,500 --> 00:24:34,760
the one thing you wanted,
478
00:24:34,790 --> 00:24:37,350
two big headed boys?
479
00:24:37,370 --> 00:24:40,510
Look, I'm not being silent
'cause I don't know.
480
00:24:40,540 --> 00:24:42,180
I don't want you confusing
what I'm saying.
481
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,430
[Yolanda] Liam?
482
00:24:44,450 --> 00:24:47,640
Your wife feels like you
emotionally abandoned her.
483
00:24:47,660 --> 00:24:49,640
Which left her vulnerable
to do the very thing
484
00:24:49,660 --> 00:24:51,370
that hurt you the most.
485
00:24:54,790 --> 00:24:56,660
Master Sergeant Durrell Tarver.
486
00:24:57,830 --> 00:25:00,600
Yes, my husband.
487
00:25:00,620 --> 00:25:02,390
-Died in combat.
-Where'd he serve?
488
00:25:02,410 --> 00:25:04,430
Afghanistan.
489
00:25:04,450 --> 00:25:05,830
[Liam] Salute to him.
490
00:25:06,870 --> 00:25:08,870
[sighs]
I did two tours.
491
00:25:10,370 --> 00:25:12,050
Kabul and Kandahar.
492
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:13,580
[tense music]
493
00:25:15,410 --> 00:25:16,930
I'm sorry for your loss.
494
00:25:16,950 --> 00:25:18,580
Thanks for your kind words.
495
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:22,160
How would you describe
your combat experience?
496
00:25:23,500 --> 00:25:25,100
I learned to survive,
497
00:25:25,120 --> 00:25:27,950
and the best emotion
is no emotion at all.
498
00:25:30,700 --> 00:25:33,390
[Yolanda] Emotions are a gift.
499
00:25:33,410 --> 00:25:36,600
They allow us
to experience life.
500
00:25:36,620 --> 00:25:40,310
So your healing lies in
your ability to feel again.
501
00:25:40,330 --> 00:25:42,830
[music continues]
502
00:25:53,540 --> 00:25:56,040
[Liam snoring softly]
503
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,890
[tense music]
504
00:26:18,910 --> 00:26:20,410
[laughs]
505
00:26:23,290 --> 00:26:24,580
[kisses]
506
00:26:28,830 --> 00:26:31,330
[music continues]
507
00:26:46,910 --> 00:26:48,250
[car door shuts]
508
00:26:51,790 --> 00:26:54,350
[Liam] Are we ever gonna meet
in a normal place?
509
00:26:54,370 --> 00:26:56,010
[Yolanda] What's more normal
than nature?
510
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,640
This is our version
of wilderness therapy.
511
00:26:58,660 --> 00:27:00,640
[howls]
512
00:27:00,660 --> 00:27:02,430
[Yolanda laughs]
513
00:27:02,450 --> 00:27:05,180
We didn't even have to leave
Southwest Atlanta for it.
514
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,220
There's a lot of
office space in Southwest.
515
00:27:07,250 --> 00:27:09,260
Beautiful stars.
516
00:27:09,290 --> 00:27:11,890
You don't get that in
office spaces in Atlanta.
517
00:27:11,910 --> 00:27:14,350
Wilderness therapy is perfect
518
00:27:14,370 --> 00:27:15,930
for addressing
communication issues.
519
00:27:15,950 --> 00:27:18,010
Because it forces you
to tune out the world
520
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,010
and just focus on each other.
521
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:22,510
So let's start with a
concentration exercise.
522
00:27:22,540 --> 00:27:25,430
-Close your eyes.
-Come on, Yo. For real?
523
00:27:25,450 --> 00:27:28,140
It's dark as hell out here.
We gotta close our eyes, too?
524
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,350
Can you just cooperate, babe?
Please?
525
00:27:30,370 --> 00:27:32,640
I know we're just now
getting to know each other.
526
00:27:32,660 --> 00:27:34,390
But I'm gonna need you
to trust me.
527
00:27:34,410 --> 00:27:37,510
I know it's hard.
But just try. Okay?
528
00:27:37,540 --> 00:27:39,350
A'ight.
529
00:27:39,370 --> 00:27:40,660
You good?
530
00:27:42,410 --> 00:27:45,600
Let's close our eyes.
Inhale through the nose.
531
00:27:45,620 --> 00:27:47,470
[inhales deeply]
532
00:27:47,500 --> 00:27:49,830
Hold it. Focusing on
the breath leaving your lungs.
533
00:27:51,660 --> 00:27:52,970
Exhale through the mouth.
534
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,970
[exhales]
535
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:56,430
What do you hear?
536
00:27:56,450 --> 00:27:59,250
-I hear peace.
-Mhm.
537
00:28:00,580 --> 00:28:02,430
I hear Micheal.
538
00:28:02,450 --> 00:28:04,100
-Michael?
-Myers.
539
00:28:04,120 --> 00:28:05,350
He's coming to get us.
540
00:28:05,370 --> 00:28:08,050
-Oh!
-Okay. Open your eyes.
541
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,310
I'm sorry.
I'm-I'm-I'm just playing.
542
00:28:10,330 --> 00:28:11,810
Let, we can do it again.
I'll be serious.
543
00:28:11,830 --> 00:28:13,140
We're going to move on
to something else now.
544
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:14,720
If you're not going
to be serious,
545
00:28:14,750 --> 00:28:16,350
you're just wasting
everyone's time.
546
00:28:16,370 --> 00:28:17,660
Just...
547
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:20,720
[Yolanda] Now for my
favorite exercise.
548
00:28:20,750 --> 00:28:23,950
It's called Cute, Sexy, Fun.
549
00:28:25,330 --> 00:28:27,260
The goal of this
is to force you to
550
00:28:27,290 --> 00:28:29,010
recall the beauty of
your relationship.
551
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:30,350
You each have to say
something that you
552
00:28:30,370 --> 00:28:32,430
find to be cute
about your spouse.
553
00:28:32,450 --> 00:28:35,010
And then something sexy.
554
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:36,470
And then, something fun.
555
00:28:36,500 --> 00:28:39,310
And, Liam,
we'll start with you,
556
00:28:39,330 --> 00:28:41,180
since you are the one who
deep-sixed our first exercise.
557
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,010
-Of course.
-Mhm-hm.
558
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,410
[sighs]
559
00:28:45,830 --> 00:28:48,640
-Start with cute?
-[Yolanda] That's right.
560
00:28:48,660 --> 00:28:51,010
Well, as we all witnessed at
the boxing gym the other day,
561
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:54,010
my wife's not a very
good dancer.
562
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,510
No, no, I-I'm being serious.
563
00:28:56,540 --> 00:28:59,390
My wife's not
a very good dancer...
564
00:28:59,410 --> 00:29:01,050
but she looks
so cute when she does.
565
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:02,470
Matter of fact,
that's how we met.
566
00:29:02,500 --> 00:29:04,890
It was my, it was my boy's
birthday party
567
00:29:04,910 --> 00:29:06,720
and she knew his best friend.
568
00:29:06,750 --> 00:29:09,310
I'll never forget it.
"Love On Top" was playing.
569
00:29:09,330 --> 00:29:11,680
And babe was vibing hard.
570
00:29:11,700 --> 00:29:13,970
[laughter]
571
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:15,390
It was nice.
572
00:29:15,410 --> 00:29:17,640
She was in her zone.
573
00:29:17,660 --> 00:29:20,310
Just enjoying the music,
you know,
574
00:29:20,330 --> 00:29:22,350
without a thought of
anyone else in that room.
575
00:29:22,370 --> 00:29:23,970
I was blown away.
576
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:25,390
And a little,
577
00:29:25,410 --> 00:29:28,260
little scared
to approach her, too.
578
00:29:28,290 --> 00:29:30,290
I didn't want to
interrupt her vibe.
579
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:33,580
I wanted to be a part of it.
580
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:36,500
Be a part of her.
581
00:29:38,500 --> 00:29:40,010
No. It didn't matter
that she couldn't dance.
582
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:41,910
That was, that was
besides the point.
583
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:45,540
So, yeah.
584
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,810
-That's my cute.
-[Yolanda] Mhmm.
585
00:29:49,830 --> 00:29:52,390
And that is so cute.
586
00:29:52,410 --> 00:29:53,700
[Yolanda laughs]
587
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,220
-Yeah.
-Um...
588
00:29:57,250 --> 00:29:58,790
My cute is...
589
00:30:00,410 --> 00:30:02,310
Liam is
590
00:30:02,330 --> 00:30:04,180
really old-fashioned.
591
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:08,010
Opening the door for me.
Helping me put on my coat.
592
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,310
Pulling the chair out for me.
593
00:30:10,330 --> 00:30:13,010
I'd never experienced
anything like that before him.
594
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:16,140
I didn't know guys today
don't do those kinds of things.
595
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:19,180
And his friends used
to always try to clown him
596
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:20,680
for how he covered me.
597
00:30:20,700 --> 00:30:22,510
But he didn't care
598
00:30:22,540 --> 00:30:24,370
'cause it was all about me.
599
00:30:27,620 --> 00:30:29,560
But then he...
600
00:30:29,580 --> 00:30:31,720
he stopped doing
all of that after.
601
00:30:31,750 --> 00:30:34,430
[tense music]
602
00:30:34,450 --> 00:30:36,510
[rain pattering]
603
00:30:36,540 --> 00:30:38,600
Oh, shit!
604
00:30:38,620 --> 00:30:40,250
-Come here.
-Come on, y'all.
605
00:30:45,330 --> 00:30:47,050
[grunts]
606
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,310
How about we call the rain
and the run our sexy and fun?
607
00:30:49,330 --> 00:30:51,890
[laughs]
Works for me.
608
00:30:51,910 --> 00:30:53,850
Let's call it a night.
How do you both feel?
609
00:30:53,870 --> 00:30:55,430
I'm Gucci.
610
00:30:55,450 --> 00:30:57,930
-Babe?
-[sighs]
611
00:30:57,950 --> 00:31:00,290
It was nice to hear you
remember the good times.
612
00:31:01,500 --> 00:31:02,950
Yeah.
613
00:31:04,830 --> 00:31:07,050
You mind if I have a word
with Liam on my way out?
614
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:08,930
-Sure. Okay.
-Great.
615
00:31:08,950 --> 00:31:10,200
Liam?
616
00:31:20,910 --> 00:31:23,510
During our boxing exercise,
you experienced a flashback
617
00:31:23,540 --> 00:31:25,180
that caused you
to strike your wife,
618
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,260
knocking her on the mat.
619
00:31:27,290 --> 00:31:28,720
How'd you do on your
PTSD screening part
620
00:31:28,750 --> 00:31:30,600
of getting discharge
from the service?
621
00:31:30,620 --> 00:31:31,850
I don't think I want to
answer that.
622
00:31:31,870 --> 00:31:34,140
And that's certainly your right.
623
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:36,720
However, I'm asking
because it's my job
624
00:31:36,750 --> 00:31:38,140
to help you to get better.
625
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:39,720
And in my experience,
626
00:31:39,750 --> 00:31:42,350
some military personnel
may have difficulty
627
00:31:42,370 --> 00:31:44,890
understanding changes
in personal behavior.
628
00:31:44,910 --> 00:31:46,970
Or how to cope with flashbacks
629
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,640
and emotional fatigue
that accompanies combat stress,
630
00:31:49,660 --> 00:31:52,160
even years
after deployment, Liam.
631
00:31:56,250 --> 00:31:57,620
I'll see you next week.
632
00:31:58,620 --> 00:31:59,790
Wait.
633
00:32:00,750 --> 00:32:02,040
[sighs]
634
00:32:03,540 --> 00:32:05,760
When I was in, I didn't get help
635
00:32:05,790 --> 00:32:08,310
'cause I didn't want
to lose my security clearance.
636
00:32:08,330 --> 00:32:11,350
At discharge, I wasn't
completely honest because
637
00:32:11,370 --> 00:32:12,850
I didn't want to be
stereotyped.
638
00:32:12,870 --> 00:32:14,850
"Black man. Ex-military.
639
00:32:14,870 --> 00:32:16,350
Proficient with firearms.
640
00:32:16,370 --> 00:32:18,310
Prone to violence
'cause he got PTSD."
641
00:32:18,330 --> 00:32:21,220
I can get you a prescription
that'll reduce the intensity
642
00:32:21,250 --> 00:32:25,220
and frequency of the rage
and anxiety you experience.
643
00:32:25,250 --> 00:32:27,720
Does Armeka know you were
dishonest at discharge?
644
00:32:27,750 --> 00:32:29,660
Well, I wouldn't call it
dishonest.
645
00:32:32,330 --> 00:32:33,660
Dishonest.
646
00:32:35,580 --> 00:32:37,350
-Read it.
-I-I can see...
647
00:32:37,370 --> 00:32:39,260
Dishonest.
648
00:32:39,290 --> 00:32:42,330
"Disposed to lie. Prone to
behave in a fraudulent way."
649
00:32:43,450 --> 00:32:44,810
Did you lie?
650
00:32:44,830 --> 00:32:47,930
-Well...
-Let me ask in another way.
651
00:32:47,950 --> 00:32:50,950
Did you tell the discharge
officer the truth?
652
00:32:53,250 --> 00:32:54,850
So you defrauded
the US military.
653
00:32:54,870 --> 00:32:56,470
Because you were afraid of
654
00:32:56,500 --> 00:32:58,310
people making negative
assumptions of you.
655
00:32:58,330 --> 00:33:00,720
With the affair
still fresh on your mind,
656
00:33:00,750 --> 00:33:03,220
I'm concerned about heightened
vulnerability to triggers.
657
00:33:03,250 --> 00:33:04,680
I don't have rage issues,
though.
658
00:33:04,700 --> 00:33:06,930
[Yolanda]
I saw you in the ring, Liam.
659
00:33:06,950 --> 00:33:09,310
Actions speak much louder
than words.
660
00:33:09,330 --> 00:33:11,140
Just take the medicine.
661
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:12,640
It'll stay between us.
662
00:33:12,660 --> 00:33:14,890
And you can call or text...
663
00:33:14,910 --> 00:33:16,180
anytime.
664
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,700
[tense music]
665
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:26,540
[door closes]
666
00:33:34,500 --> 00:33:37,100
Hey, s-so...
667
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:38,850
what did she want to
talk to you about?
668
00:33:38,870 --> 00:33:42,060
Oh, just combat stress and...
669
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:43,760
and the flashback.
670
00:33:43,790 --> 00:33:45,040
Hm.
671
00:33:55,370 --> 00:33:57,220
[Yolanda]
Just take the medicine.
672
00:33:57,250 --> 00:33:59,810
It'll stay between us.
673
00:33:59,830 --> 00:34:02,580
[Armeka] Yeah, it's part
of the job, though.
674
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:05,970
[Armeka laughing]
675
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:07,390
[Armeka] I know.
676
00:34:07,410 --> 00:34:09,550
[indistinct chatter]
677
00:34:09,580 --> 00:34:12,080
[tense music]
678
00:34:15,620 --> 00:34:18,080
[Armeka laughing]
679
00:34:23,790 --> 00:34:26,290
[indistinct chatter]
680
00:34:28,410 --> 00:34:29,870
[Armeka laughing]
681
00:34:33,870 --> 00:34:35,660
[music continues]
682
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,580
[Armeka laughing]
683
00:34:47,580 --> 00:34:49,620
[distorted laugh]
684
00:34:53,250 --> 00:34:55,470
[Yolanda]
Defrauding the US military.
685
00:34:55,500 --> 00:34:58,330
A crime punishable
by fines and jail.
686
00:34:59,540 --> 00:35:02,040
[Armeka laughing]
687
00:35:02,950 --> 00:35:04,260
Are you laughing at me?
688
00:35:04,290 --> 00:35:06,790
[heartbeat]
689
00:35:08,330 --> 00:35:09,830
Hold on a second, Ivy.
690
00:35:11,910 --> 00:35:13,450
What are you talking about?
691
00:35:15,450 --> 00:35:17,180
[Liam sighs]
692
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:18,220
Nothing.
693
00:35:18,250 --> 00:35:20,760
[breathing shakily]
694
00:35:20,790 --> 00:35:22,370
Are you okay?
695
00:35:26,830 --> 00:35:28,160
Yeah.
696
00:35:30,410 --> 00:35:31,870
You're sure?
697
00:35:38,290 --> 00:35:39,830
Yeah, yeah.
698
00:35:40,950 --> 00:35:42,290
Hmm.
699
00:35:44,580 --> 00:35:46,220
Yeah.
700
00:35:46,250 --> 00:35:48,350
[Armeka] Girl, I don't know.
701
00:35:48,370 --> 00:35:49,600
Mm-mm.
702
00:35:49,620 --> 00:35:52,260
[phone ringing]
703
00:35:52,290 --> 00:35:53,620
[chuckles]
704
00:35:54,830 --> 00:35:56,430
Hello?
705
00:35:56,450 --> 00:35:58,390
[Liam]Medication's
got me feeling off.
706
00:35:58,410 --> 00:35:59,680
Good evening.
707
00:35:59,700 --> 00:36:01,600
[Liam]Right. Good evening.
708
00:36:01,620 --> 00:36:03,930
Sorry for my lack of manners.
709
00:36:03,950 --> 00:36:06,040
Good to hear from you.
Glad you called.
710
00:36:09,410 --> 00:36:12,220
-H-hello?
-Yes, you feel off.
711
00:36:12,250 --> 00:36:14,510
Your feelings.
712
00:36:14,540 --> 00:36:17,180
They could very well
be related to the medication,
713
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:18,720
but more than likely
it's your own mania.
714
00:36:18,750 --> 00:36:20,930
The thing is, how it takes
four to six weeks before
715
00:36:20,950 --> 00:36:22,850
the medication becomes
effective in your system.
716
00:36:22,870 --> 00:36:24,510
You haven't been taking it
long enough, Liam.
717
00:36:24,540 --> 00:36:27,060
So my encouragement
is for you to push through.
718
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:28,970
These feeling are exactly
what this medication
719
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,220
is designed to assuage.
720
00:36:31,250 --> 00:36:32,830
You have any other questions?
721
00:36:35,410 --> 00:36:37,390
-You still there?
-Yes.
722
00:36:37,410 --> 00:36:38,930
[sighs]
723
00:36:38,950 --> 00:36:40,180
-No.
-[Yolanda]Great.
724
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,060
Then I'll see you next week.
725
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:44,100
But feel free call or text
if you need me before then.
726
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:45,370
Right.
727
00:36:46,830 --> 00:36:48,160
Yeah, bye.
728
00:36:49,330 --> 00:36:50,760
[shudders]
729
00:36:50,790 --> 00:36:52,200
[Yolanda moans]
730
00:36:53,290 --> 00:36:55,220
That feels great.
731
00:36:55,250 --> 00:36:59,470
All work and no play makes
Dr. Yo a dull baddie.
732
00:36:59,500 --> 00:37:01,430
-[Yolanda laughs]
-Babe, let's go dancing.
733
00:37:01,450 --> 00:37:03,100
East Atlanta Strut's tonight.
734
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:05,350
I have so much work, I can't.
735
00:37:05,370 --> 00:37:07,060
Fine!
736
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,470
I'll go by myself then.
737
00:37:09,500 --> 00:37:12,260
I don't need my low-key boo
to shake my ass.
738
00:37:12,290 --> 00:37:14,220
Aww.
739
00:37:14,250 --> 00:37:16,970
-You're pouting.
-I have a right to.
740
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:20,390
No, you don't get to seduce
your way out of this one.
741
00:37:20,410 --> 00:37:23,470
Fine. Go.
Shake your ass then.
742
00:37:23,500 --> 00:37:26,430
I will.
And I'mma do it good, too.
743
00:37:26,450 --> 00:37:28,510
Can't believe I left
my man for this.
744
00:37:28,540 --> 00:37:30,550
-Excuse me?
-You heard me.
745
00:37:30,580 --> 00:37:32,200
[ominous music]
746
00:37:33,950 --> 00:37:36,040
You left your husband
because you wanted to.
747
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:38,930
-Say it.
-No.
748
00:37:38,950 --> 00:37:41,550
You don't get to exercise
your power over me anymore.
749
00:37:41,580 --> 00:37:44,140
I am the wind and the rain
750
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:46,680
that beat against
your contemptible marriage
751
00:37:46,700 --> 00:37:48,970
and that loathsome excuse
for a husband
752
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,390
and showed you
that your union was worthless.
753
00:37:51,410 --> 00:37:52,970
Couldn't stand up to the
pressures of life.
754
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,470
-So it collapsed!
-You're an emotional predator.
755
00:37:55,500 --> 00:37:57,550
And you're ungrateful.
756
00:37:57,580 --> 00:37:59,470
You should be thanking me.
757
00:37:59,500 --> 00:38:01,760
Because if it weren't
for my grace
758
00:38:01,790 --> 00:38:03,970
and my mercy,
759
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,640
you would still be down there
languishing in Wakeview.
760
00:38:06,660 --> 00:38:09,200
[music continues]
761
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:12,470
[door slams]
762
00:38:12,500 --> 00:38:15,260
[water pattering]
763
00:38:15,290 --> 00:38:17,790
[mellow music]
764
00:38:21,330 --> 00:38:23,680
Why are you in a bathrobe?
765
00:38:23,700 --> 00:38:25,470
Spa rules.
766
00:38:25,500 --> 00:38:27,500
You ready to get started,
or do you need a minute?
767
00:38:30,500 --> 00:38:32,060
Great.
768
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:34,660
Liam, what's your favorite part
about Armeka's body?
769
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,810
-The nape of her neck.
-[Yolanda] Nice.
770
00:38:39,830 --> 00:38:41,220
How about you, Armeka?
771
00:38:41,250 --> 00:38:42,890
What's your favorite part
of Liam's body?
772
00:38:42,910 --> 00:38:44,220
[Armeka chuckles]
773
00:38:44,250 --> 00:38:46,970
-You know.
-Other than that.
774
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:48,760
His shoulders.
775
00:38:48,790 --> 00:38:50,510
[Yolanda] They are nice.
776
00:38:50,540 --> 00:38:52,390
All right, we'll start with you.
777
00:38:52,410 --> 00:38:54,040
Go ahead and get comfortable.
778
00:38:56,660 --> 00:38:59,160
[dramatic music]
779
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:04,890
Liam.
780
00:39:04,910 --> 00:39:06,620
Pull Armeka's robe down
to her waist.
781
00:39:08,540 --> 00:39:10,310
What's the matter?
782
00:39:10,330 --> 00:39:12,060
It's not like I asked you
to strip her naked
783
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:13,640
and bump her while I watched.
784
00:39:13,660 --> 00:39:15,540
That's a bit much, Yo.
785
00:39:18,500 --> 00:39:19,830
Lighten up.
786
00:39:21,290 --> 00:39:22,620
'Twas a joke.
787
00:39:24,370 --> 00:39:28,260
Now, using only
your fingertips, explore her.
788
00:39:28,290 --> 00:39:30,830
[music continues]
789
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:38,290
Find the softest spots of her.
790
00:39:40,450 --> 00:39:43,180
Just the fingertips.
791
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:46,720
I want you to feel
the texture of her body.
792
00:39:46,750 --> 00:39:48,290
Feel the contour.
793
00:39:51,290 --> 00:39:53,680
-[Yolanda] And, Armeka...
-[Armeka] Yes.
794
00:39:53,700 --> 00:39:57,260
Armeka, note in your mind
when he hits a sweet spot.
795
00:39:57,290 --> 00:39:58,660
And in this case...
796
00:40:00,500 --> 00:40:02,550
Goosebumps are a great thing.
797
00:40:02,580 --> 00:40:05,080
[music continues]
798
00:40:08,500 --> 00:40:09,750
[Armeka groans]
799
00:40:12,660 --> 00:40:14,080
[Yolanda chuckles]
800
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:18,220
Like this.
801
00:40:18,250 --> 00:40:19,700
[clears throat]
802
00:40:22,500 --> 00:40:23,870
[Armeka moans]
803
00:40:25,450 --> 00:40:27,930
[Armeka] Ooh, babe,
you should be taking notes.
804
00:40:27,950 --> 00:40:29,720
Oh, he is.
805
00:40:29,750 --> 00:40:31,470
[Armeka moans]
806
00:40:31,500 --> 00:40:34,010
[Yolanda] And once you've
identified the sweet spots...
807
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:35,510
[Armeka moans]
808
00:40:35,540 --> 00:40:37,620
Stimulate your favorite part
of her body.
809
00:40:39,580 --> 00:40:41,450
[music intensifies]
810
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:44,500
[kisses]
811
00:40:46,410 --> 00:40:47,680
[Armeka moans]
812
00:40:47,700 --> 00:40:49,350
[both giggling]
813
00:40:49,370 --> 00:40:51,870
[music continues]
814
00:40:55,290 --> 00:40:56,830
Now kiss her.
815
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,040
[Armeka softly moans]
816
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:10,580
Taste her tongue.
817
00:41:21,700 --> 00:41:23,870
What turned you on the most
before you got married?
818
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:26,540
[laughs]
819
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:32,640
[laughing]
820
00:41:32,660 --> 00:41:34,100
I ain't sayin' that.
821
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:35,430
[laughs]
822
00:41:35,450 --> 00:41:36,870
Well, somebody's gotta tell me.
823
00:41:38,500 --> 00:41:42,640
We used to sneak away
to our bedroom for a quickie
824
00:41:42,660 --> 00:41:44,330
when we had friends over.
825
00:41:46,790 --> 00:41:48,930
I like that.
826
00:41:48,950 --> 00:41:50,870
When's the last time
you had sex?
827
00:41:52,540 --> 00:41:55,850
Well, okay.
That is the assignment.
828
00:41:55,870 --> 00:41:57,970
Before next week.
829
00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:59,640
No, we can't put a party
together in a week.
830
00:41:59,660 --> 00:42:01,430
Yeah, but what you can do
is try.
831
00:42:01,450 --> 00:42:02,760
You nasty.
832
00:42:02,790 --> 00:42:05,390
-[laughs]
-Everyone is.
833
00:42:05,410 --> 00:42:07,640
And that's the beauty
about sex.
834
00:42:07,660 --> 00:42:12,140
It's as much spiritual mystery
as it is a physical fact.
835
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:15,540
So, doctor's orders,
before next week...
836
00:42:17,370 --> 00:42:18,930
get your nasty back.
837
00:42:18,950 --> 00:42:21,120
[ominous music]
838
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:29,890
♪ One of us had troubled you ♪
839
00:42:29,910 --> 00:42:35,220
So, what inspired
this impromptu party, hmm?
840
00:42:35,250 --> 00:42:40,310
We just thought that being
around our closest friends could
841
00:42:40,330 --> 00:42:42,680
reignite some things
in us as a couple.
842
00:42:42,700 --> 00:42:45,430
Okay. Sure.
[laughing]
843
00:42:45,450 --> 00:42:48,600
Roy, ahem, you remember Ivy.
844
00:42:48,620 --> 00:42:51,140
Oh, indeed, I do.
Hello, Ivy.
845
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:52,510
Nice to see you, Roy.
846
00:42:52,540 --> 00:42:54,310
Is that literally
or hyperbole-ly?
847
00:42:54,330 --> 00:42:56,350
[chuckles]
Well, that depends.
848
00:42:56,370 --> 00:42:57,810
Depends on what?
849
00:42:57,830 --> 00:43:00,220
Depends on what songs
you like to dance to
850
00:43:00,250 --> 00:43:04,010
and how genuine
the conversation. Hmm?
851
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:05,310
[Armeka] Uh, o-okay.
852
00:43:05,330 --> 00:43:06,890
Listen, I can't be
held responsible
853
00:43:06,910 --> 00:43:08,640
for the actions and words
of this man.
854
00:43:08,660 --> 00:43:10,220
And especially after
beer number three.
855
00:43:10,250 --> 00:43:11,760
Oh, come on,
I thought we were brothers.
856
00:43:11,790 --> 00:43:13,220
We are, you filthy,
dirt-encrusted,
857
00:43:13,250 --> 00:43:15,760
camouflage-painted,
jar-head son of a bitch.
858
00:43:15,790 --> 00:43:18,200
[upbeat music on stereo]
859
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,050
Hurrah! Marine Corps!
860
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:24,010
-[can crunching]
-Whoo!
861
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:25,890
[laughs]
Okay.
862
00:43:25,910 --> 00:43:28,510
Oh. [snaps fingers]
This is my song.
863
00:43:28,540 --> 00:43:30,180
[laughs]
Come on.
864
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:33,220
All interviews start
on the dance floor.
865
00:43:33,250 --> 00:43:35,100
[Armeka chuckling]
866
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:36,510
Hmm.
867
00:43:36,540 --> 00:43:38,930
You know, gotta give
Dr. Yo her flowers.
868
00:43:38,950 --> 00:43:41,330
This was a great idea.
869
00:43:42,500 --> 00:43:44,350
Yeah, it was.
870
00:43:44,370 --> 00:43:47,140
So, are we really gonna do this?
871
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:49,760
Oh, I'm getting hot and bothered
just thinking about it.
872
00:43:49,790 --> 00:43:51,930
-Yeah?
-Mm-mm.
873
00:43:51,950 --> 00:43:54,470
Ooh. [laughs]
874
00:43:54,500 --> 00:43:56,870
-Let's go.
-Mm-mm. Mm-mm.
875
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:00,680
-Ready?
-Ready.
876
00:44:00,700 --> 00:44:04,220
[indistinct singing]
877
00:44:04,250 --> 00:44:05,700
[Armeka laughs]
878
00:44:10,660 --> 00:44:12,260
[chuckles]
879
00:44:12,290 --> 00:44:13,470
[kisses]
880
00:44:13,500 --> 00:44:15,220
-[door closes]
-Close the door.
881
00:44:15,250 --> 00:44:17,890
[indistinct singing]
882
00:44:17,910 --> 00:44:19,830
[Armeka moaning]
883
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,390
♪ Music low-low
sipping slow-slow ♪
884
00:44:24,410 --> 00:44:26,970
♪ Sometimes we chat
and sometimes we get down ♪
885
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,600
♪ No one knows busy tone ♪
886
00:44:29,620 --> 00:44:31,600
♪ Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah ♪
887
00:44:31,620 --> 00:44:33,810
♪ I like it
I like it I like it ♪
888
00:44:33,830 --> 00:44:35,970
♪ The way you're
getting me excited ♪
889
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,930
♪ He's the one who
needs to be in check ♪
890
00:44:38,950 --> 00:44:40,560
♪ How can I win this? ♪
891
00:44:40,580 --> 00:44:42,850
♪ I like it
I like it I like it ♪
892
00:44:42,870 --> 00:44:45,180
♪ The way you're
getting me excited ♪
893
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:48,010
♪ He's the one who
needs to be in check ♪
894
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:49,850
♪ How can I win this? ♪
895
00:44:49,870 --> 00:44:52,680
♪ Like that like that
mm like that ♪
896
00:44:52,700 --> 00:44:54,390
♪ How can I win this? ♪
897
00:44:54,410 --> 00:44:57,140
♪ Like that like that
mm like that ♪
898
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,140
♪ How can I win this? ♪
899
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,970
♪ Like that like that
mm like that ♪
900
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:03,510
♪ How can I win this? ♪
901
00:45:03,540 --> 00:45:06,560
♪ Like that like that
mm like that ♪
902
00:45:06,580 --> 00:45:08,350
♪ Mm like that
mm like that ♪
903
00:45:08,370 --> 00:45:10,410
[upbeat music]
904
00:45:11,660 --> 00:45:14,160
[vocalizing]
905
00:45:16,330 --> 00:45:18,100
♪ Like that ♪
906
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,450
[gasping]
907
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,260
[eerie music]
908
00:45:25,290 --> 00:45:27,700
[breathing heavily]
909
00:45:28,700 --> 00:45:29,950
[Liam screams]
910
00:45:31,330 --> 00:45:32,830
What's wrong?
911
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:35,890
Babe, what's wrong?
912
00:45:35,910 --> 00:45:38,410
[ominous music]
913
00:45:41,750 --> 00:45:43,180
Nothing.
914
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:44,660
[door creaking]
915
00:45:52,540 --> 00:45:54,560
[door creaking]
916
00:45:54,580 --> 00:45:55,910
[door closes]
917
00:45:59,750 --> 00:46:02,250
[eerie music]
918
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,560
Man, I was seeing her.
What the fuck going on?
919
00:46:16,580 --> 00:46:18,560
Givin' me the damn pills.
920
00:46:18,580 --> 00:46:20,750
Kept me going
fuckin' crazy.
921
00:46:27,330 --> 00:46:29,830
[crickets chirping]
922
00:46:32,540 --> 00:46:34,050
[tense music]
923
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,390
Babe, what the fuck?
Don't do that.
924
00:46:36,410 --> 00:46:38,720
You scared the shit out of me!
925
00:46:38,750 --> 00:46:40,430
Why are you out here
talking to yourself?
926
00:46:40,450 --> 00:46:42,810
No, just thinkin' out loud.
927
00:46:42,830 --> 00:46:44,890
So, first, you scream,
and pretty much
928
00:46:44,910 --> 00:46:46,260
kill the whole vibe
of the party.
929
00:46:46,290 --> 00:46:48,890
Now you're out here
thinking out loud?
930
00:46:48,910 --> 00:46:51,720
[sighs]
All right, baby, if I...
931
00:46:51,750 --> 00:46:54,470
If I tell you something,
you promise you won't trip?
932
00:46:54,500 --> 00:46:56,970
Really, babe?
933
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:58,750
I thought I seen somebody
outside that window.
934
00:47:00,500 --> 00:47:02,930
Well, it's clearly
nobody out here, but...
935
00:47:02,950 --> 00:47:04,160
Hmm.
936
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:08,350
Maybe we should go finish
what we started.
937
00:47:08,370 --> 00:47:11,220
'Cause you're really
starting to creep me out. Okay?
938
00:47:11,250 --> 00:47:12,790
-[Liam] Mm.
-So we're gonna...
939
00:47:13,870 --> 00:47:15,500
[footsteps departing]
940
00:47:17,330 --> 00:47:19,830
[ominous music]
941
00:47:21,250 --> 00:47:22,540
[door opens]
942
00:47:28,700 --> 00:47:30,040
[door closes]
943
00:47:41,950 --> 00:47:43,680
[pills rattle]
944
00:47:43,700 --> 00:47:45,080
[phone chimes]
945
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:50,510
Love Yo!
946
00:47:50,540 --> 00:47:52,100
[Yolanda]
Freedom from your
947
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:53,510
relationship vows
and that's...
948
00:47:53,540 --> 00:47:55,050
[all] No cap!
949
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,160
[all cheering]
950
00:48:00,500 --> 00:48:02,290
Tonight, I decided
to be transparent.
951
00:48:04,540 --> 00:48:06,080
I'm a survivor.
952
00:48:07,870 --> 00:48:09,760
My ex-husband abused me through
953
00:48:09,790 --> 00:48:12,390
psychological and
emotional manipulation,
954
00:48:12,410 --> 00:48:14,350
otherwise known as gaslighting.
955
00:48:14,370 --> 00:48:17,850
But it wasn't entirely
his fault.
956
00:48:17,870 --> 00:48:21,350
He was psychologically
damaged in combat.
957
00:48:21,370 --> 00:48:23,470
And after he came home...
958
00:48:23,500 --> 00:48:24,790
[huffs]
959
00:48:26,290 --> 00:48:27,890
He just wasn't the same.
960
00:48:27,910 --> 00:48:30,140
Came home?
961
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:32,220
My husband died in combat.
962
00:48:32,250 --> 00:48:34,750
[suspenseful music]
963
00:48:37,790 --> 00:48:40,290
[keys clacking]
964
00:48:42,370 --> 00:48:43,620
[mouse clicks]
965
00:48:44,790 --> 00:48:46,370
[keyboard keys clacking]
966
00:48:49,290 --> 00:48:51,750
[music intensifies]
967
00:48:58,040 --> 00:48:59,580
[rattling]
968
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:15,350
Armeka!
969
00:49:15,370 --> 00:49:17,540
[laughs]
Come up here.
970
00:49:19,450 --> 00:49:21,450
[both laugh]
971
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:24,260
Liam is going to try to
972
00:49:24,290 --> 00:49:26,050
discredit me
at our next meeting.
973
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:28,180
Because my assessment
is gonna pull the scabs off
974
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:29,680
of some of his
concerning behavior.
975
00:49:29,700 --> 00:49:31,640
You've noticed strange things.
Haven't you?
976
00:49:31,660 --> 00:49:32,970
[suspenseful music]
977
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:34,430
This is not unusual.
978
00:49:34,450 --> 00:49:36,540
It's proof that the
process is working.
979
00:49:37,580 --> 00:49:38,930
We're renovating.
980
00:49:38,950 --> 00:49:40,720
And this is the part
where we tear down
981
00:49:40,750 --> 00:49:42,260
that which is in need
of restoration.
982
00:49:42,290 --> 00:49:44,180
Yes, it looks chaotic.
983
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:47,930
But that chaos
is what sets up the rebuild.
984
00:49:47,950 --> 00:49:49,410
And the beautiful.
985
00:49:50,830 --> 00:49:52,370
It's all gonna be okay.
986
00:49:53,660 --> 00:49:55,500
I'll see you next week.
987
00:50:02,410 --> 00:50:04,180
[ominous music]
988
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:06,810
What she just did to you,
she used to do to me.
989
00:50:06,830 --> 00:50:10,260
Make you feel seen. Special.
990
00:50:10,290 --> 00:50:12,260
Then she swallows you whole.
991
00:50:12,290 --> 00:50:15,810
And manipulates you into
forgetting you have a brain.
992
00:50:15,830 --> 00:50:17,160
And agency.
993
00:50:18,620 --> 00:50:21,080
Excuse me? I'm-I'm sorry.
Who are you?
994
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:23,540
Her girlfriend.
995
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:27,580
Look at her.
996
00:50:30,700 --> 00:50:33,220
Terrified of what
I'm gonna tell you.
997
00:50:33,250 --> 00:50:35,790
[music continues]
998
00:50:41,410 --> 00:50:42,930
To trust.
999
00:50:42,950 --> 00:50:45,600
The subject of our final
in-house observation.
1000
00:50:45,620 --> 00:50:47,550
After this session,
I'll deliver my assessment
1001
00:50:47,580 --> 00:50:49,720
and then we'll talk about the
treatment plan I've devised.
1002
00:50:49,750 --> 00:50:51,550
Sound good?
1003
00:50:51,580 --> 00:50:52,830
Sure.
1004
00:50:54,250 --> 00:50:55,350
Okay.
1005
00:50:55,370 --> 00:50:57,180
Liam.
1006
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:58,720
You know better than me that
1007
00:50:58,750 --> 00:51:00,390
every Marine
is first a rifleman.
1008
00:51:00,410 --> 00:51:01,720
The trust that you had on
1009
00:51:01,750 --> 00:51:03,510
the battlefield
for your comrades
1010
00:51:03,540 --> 00:51:05,850
is the same type of trust that
you need to have for Armeka
1011
00:51:05,870 --> 00:51:07,970
if you want to heal
your relationship.
1012
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:09,970
Are you still a rifleman?
1013
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:12,390
I'm certified at 500 yards
with every weapon in this house.
1014
00:51:12,410 --> 00:51:13,930
Rifles and handguns.
1015
00:51:13,950 --> 00:51:15,720
Excuse me.
1016
00:51:15,750 --> 00:51:17,600
How about you, you shoot?
1017
00:51:17,620 --> 00:51:19,220
That's his thing.
1018
00:51:19,250 --> 00:51:21,180
[Liam] You know, since
we're talking about the Marines,
1019
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:23,180
I got a question.
1020
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:24,970
About your ex-husband.
1021
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:28,890
Baby, can you at least let her
finish before you interrupt?
1022
00:51:28,910 --> 00:51:30,180
Have you taken your medication?
1023
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:31,640
[suspenseful music]
1024
00:51:31,660 --> 00:51:33,350
You really shouldn't be
mixing it with alcohol.
1025
00:51:33,370 --> 00:51:35,470
-Wait, what medication?
-You didn't tell your wife?
1026
00:51:35,500 --> 00:51:37,140
Now why would you ask me
that in front of her?
1027
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:39,310
I'm not in the business
of keeping secrets.
1028
00:51:39,330 --> 00:51:41,260
And I will honor
my professional responsibilities
1029
00:51:41,290 --> 00:51:42,680
so that even under threat
1030
00:51:42,700 --> 00:51:44,470
I will not violate
my code of ethics.
1031
00:51:44,500 --> 00:51:48,010
But the burning question is,
are you being dishonest again?
1032
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,310
Like when you were discharged
from the Marines?
1033
00:51:50,330 --> 00:51:53,760
You can make me out to be
the crazy one all you want.
1034
00:51:53,790 --> 00:51:55,640
But you're the one that's
got some explaining to do.
1035
00:51:55,660 --> 00:51:57,390
What would you like me
to explain, Liam?
1036
00:51:57,410 --> 00:51:58,760
Why isn't your husband
listed among
1037
00:51:58,790 --> 00:52:00,430
the war dead
in the National Archives?
1038
00:52:00,450 --> 00:52:02,510
[music continues]
1039
00:52:02,540 --> 00:52:05,010
You know what,
I won't be baited by you.
1040
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,160
And damn sure, I ain't gonna be
disrespected by you.
1041
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:10,390
-Can't do shit--
-Liam.
1042
00:52:10,410 --> 00:52:12,200
-Let him go. Let him go.
-Li--
1043
00:52:13,830 --> 00:52:15,890
That was starting to feel
emotionally unsafe.
1044
00:52:15,910 --> 00:52:17,850
Are you okay?
1045
00:52:17,870 --> 00:52:20,430
Has he ever exhibited
aggression towards you,
1046
00:52:20,450 --> 00:52:22,310
besides what happened
in the boxing ring?
1047
00:52:22,330 --> 00:52:24,830
[fire crackling]
1048
00:52:26,750 --> 00:52:29,260
I mean, the closest
we got to it was
1049
00:52:29,290 --> 00:52:33,640
an argument we had after
the second miscarriage.
1050
00:52:33,660 --> 00:52:36,760
Emotionally, he was being
an ass, so I snapped!
1051
00:52:36,790 --> 00:52:38,220
I pulled away from him
and...
1052
00:52:38,250 --> 00:52:39,890
-Stop.
-[Armeka]Hit the wall.
1053
00:52:39,910 --> 00:52:43,810
The hospital called the police
as soon as we arrived.
1054
00:52:43,830 --> 00:52:46,720
Even though I told them
that Liam hadn't hit me.
1055
00:52:46,750 --> 00:52:48,410
He spent a night in jail and...
1056
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:52,140
I don't think he ever
forgave me for that.
1057
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,760
As your doctor,
here are my orders.
1058
00:52:55,790 --> 00:52:58,970
Stress relief in the form
of music and dance.
1059
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:00,640
You and me.
1060
00:53:00,660 --> 00:53:04,060
Besides, you shouldn't be here
when he gets home.
1061
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:05,810
He'll probably need to cool off.
1062
00:53:05,830 --> 00:53:07,250
Before we get to that...
1063
00:53:08,660 --> 00:53:11,680
your show producer
basically accosted me
1064
00:53:11,700 --> 00:53:13,140
saying that she
was your girlfriend
1065
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:15,850
and that you were controlling.
1066
00:53:15,870 --> 00:53:18,180
Ethically and legally,
there are certain things
1067
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:20,260
I can't say because
she's a former patient.
1068
00:53:20,290 --> 00:53:22,850
What I can say is that
she's declining lately.
1069
00:53:22,870 --> 00:53:24,680
She's somehow convinced
that we're dating.
1070
00:53:24,700 --> 00:53:26,470
And I have shared
personal details
1071
00:53:26,500 --> 00:53:28,100
about myself that I probably
never should have.
1072
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:29,970
Like what?
1073
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:32,640
Like how I used to live my life
1074
00:53:32,660 --> 00:53:33,970
trying to be
Little Miss Perfect.
1075
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,600
Crossed every T,
dotting every I.
1076
00:53:36,620 --> 00:53:39,850
I was a virgin until
my senior year in college.
1077
00:53:39,870 --> 00:53:41,140
And what did that get me?
1078
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:42,470
[sword unsheathes]
1079
00:53:42,500 --> 00:53:45,010
Something inside me broke...
1080
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:46,680
[suspenseful music]
1081
00:53:46,700 --> 00:53:49,790
when I saw my best friend
choose my husband over me.
1082
00:53:51,830 --> 00:53:53,680
And after we professed
our love for each other.
1083
00:53:53,700 --> 00:53:55,010
[ominous music]
1084
00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:56,850
[Yolanda] I had no choice.
1085
00:53:56,870 --> 00:53:58,470
I had to put that
relationship to death.
1086
00:53:58,500 --> 00:53:59,950
[grunts]
1087
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,410
Unrequited love is a bitch.
1088
00:54:06,620 --> 00:54:08,040
And so was she.
1089
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,310
But...
1090
00:54:13,330 --> 00:54:16,200
from that tragedy
sprang new life.
1091
00:54:17,290 --> 00:54:22,100
A new career. New identity.
1092
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:24,680
That's actually inspiring.
1093
00:54:24,700 --> 00:54:27,890
In a disturbing kind of way.
1094
00:54:27,910 --> 00:54:30,140
Wonderful.
1095
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:32,390
Now can we go have
some fun, please?
1096
00:54:32,410 --> 00:54:33,680
[glasses clink]
1097
00:54:33,700 --> 00:54:35,100
[suspenseful music]
1098
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:36,550
[car doors slam]
1099
00:54:36,580 --> 00:54:38,310
[car engine starts]
1100
00:54:38,330 --> 00:54:39,830
[Armeka gasps]
1101
00:54:42,250 --> 00:54:43,700
[clatters]
1102
00:54:47,620 --> 00:54:48,910
[car door opens]
1103
00:54:51,950 --> 00:54:53,250
[car door closes]
1104
00:54:55,910 --> 00:54:58,010
[indistinct chatter]
1105
00:54:58,040 --> 00:54:59,970
[Yolanda] Go home.
1106
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:01,200
Right now.
1107
00:55:02,580 --> 00:55:05,080
[ominous music]
1108
00:55:11,910 --> 00:55:13,160
[car door opens]
1109
00:55:17,870 --> 00:55:19,160
[car door shuts]
1110
00:55:20,950 --> 00:55:23,310
I-I think we should just
c-call it a night.
1111
00:55:23,330 --> 00:55:25,000
No. We shouldn't.
1112
00:55:26,950 --> 00:55:29,760
I'm sorry you
had to witness that.
1113
00:55:29,790 --> 00:55:33,760
Tonya is an exceptionally
capable and beautiful woman.
1114
00:55:33,790 --> 00:55:35,810
She was working at the local
cable access channel
1115
00:55:35,830 --> 00:55:38,180
when I promoted her
to produce my show.
1116
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:41,510
Because I recognized her talent
when no one else did.
1117
00:55:41,540 --> 00:55:44,180
But isn't that
a conflict of interest?
1118
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:46,370
To hire a patient
as your producer?
1119
00:55:47,830 --> 00:55:49,470
In my practice,
1120
00:55:49,500 --> 00:55:52,550
I avoid even the appearance
of impropriety.
1121
00:55:52,580 --> 00:55:54,810
She was no longer under my care
when I hired her.
1122
00:55:54,830 --> 00:55:58,220
I wait at least two years
prior seeking any communication
1123
00:55:58,250 --> 00:56:00,510
with any of my former patients.
1124
00:56:00,540 --> 00:56:05,120
This process, it just
drains me emotionally.
1125
00:56:06,620 --> 00:56:10,350
Makes me so vulnerable,
because I give
1126
00:56:10,370 --> 00:56:13,890
so much of myself
and sometimes...
1127
00:56:13,910 --> 00:56:15,620
like you just witnessed...
1128
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:18,500
It has scary consequences.
1129
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:22,510
It's gonna hurt me to put to
1130
00:56:22,540 --> 00:56:23,970
death my relationship
with Tonya.
1131
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:27,390
But... I don't have
any other choice.
1132
00:56:27,410 --> 00:56:28,720
So, uh...
1133
00:56:28,750 --> 00:56:31,250
[suspenseful music]
1134
00:56:34,450 --> 00:56:37,160
Believe me,
I know how you feel.
1135
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:42,580
How about you take
your own advice?
1136
00:56:43,830 --> 00:56:45,220
Have some fun.
1137
00:56:45,250 --> 00:56:47,310
Hmm? Doctor's orders.
1138
00:56:47,330 --> 00:56:48,950
[chuckles]
You are so right.
1139
00:56:50,410 --> 00:56:52,930
-Okay.
-[car engine starts]
1140
00:56:52,950 --> 00:56:54,500
[engine revving]
1141
00:56:56,500 --> 00:56:59,000
[upbeat music]
1142
00:57:05,450 --> 00:57:08,890
-First two shots are on me.
-ID's please.
1143
00:57:08,910 --> 00:57:10,930
'Cause neither of you look
old enough to be drinking.
1144
00:57:10,950 --> 00:57:13,580
Ooh, you are as cute
as you are kind.
1145
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:18,640
You look like a Buttery Nipple
or a Blow Job to me.
1146
00:57:18,660 --> 00:57:20,600
Buttery Nipple.
How'd you guess?
1147
00:57:20,620 --> 00:57:22,350
I read people for a living.
1148
00:57:22,370 --> 00:57:23,680
Four Buttery Nipples, please.
1149
00:57:23,700 --> 00:57:25,200
-Lickety-split.
-Great.
1150
00:57:26,660 --> 00:57:28,010
Mmm.
1151
00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:30,220
Your name is different
on your license.
1152
00:57:30,250 --> 00:57:32,510
My professional name
is Yolanda Carver.
1153
00:57:32,540 --> 00:57:36,970
Lassandra Tarver is the name
I had when I was married.
1154
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:39,180
Those names aren't even close.
1155
00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:41,100
Jamie Foxx's real name
is Eric Bishop.
1156
00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:43,260
Nicki Minaj, Onika Miraj.
1157
00:57:43,290 --> 00:57:45,100
At least hers rhyme
like mine though.
1158
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:46,930
You know, us women,
we can become spicy.
1159
00:57:46,950 --> 00:57:48,260
[giggles]
1160
00:57:48,290 --> 00:57:49,750
Here you go, ladies.
1161
00:57:51,790 --> 00:57:53,310
-To you.
-And you.
1162
00:57:53,330 --> 00:57:55,220
[glasses clinking]
1163
00:57:55,250 --> 00:57:57,750
[music continues]
1164
00:57:59,250 --> 00:58:01,140
[sighs]
1165
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:03,470
Your turn.
1166
00:58:03,500 --> 00:58:06,430
-Uh, to restoration.
-To restoration.
1167
00:58:06,450 --> 00:58:07,470
Mmm.
1168
00:58:07,500 --> 00:58:08,870
[both laughing]
1169
00:58:10,250 --> 00:58:11,540
Mmm.
1170
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:15,890
[man on TV]
It's 65 in Metro, Atlanta,
1171
00:58:15,910 --> 00:58:17,390
and here comes
that front on Sunday.
1172
00:58:17,410 --> 00:58:19,550
But we should be dry
till the weekend
1173
00:58:19,580 --> 00:58:21,680
when the Dodgers head
into town to play the Braves.
1174
00:58:21,700 --> 00:58:23,000
[clicks]
1175
00:58:31,660 --> 00:58:33,140
[upbeat music]
1176
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:36,060
Ooh, that's my song.
1177
00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:37,890
[both chuckle]
1178
00:58:37,910 --> 00:58:39,540
[laughing]
1179
00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:43,510
♪ Hey she's a blasting girl
oh yeah ♪
1180
00:58:43,540 --> 00:58:47,010
♪ She's fire yeah ♪
1181
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:49,260
[laughing]
1182
00:58:49,290 --> 00:58:50,700
Relax.
1183
00:58:51,580 --> 00:58:52,850
Follow me.
1184
00:58:52,870 --> 00:58:55,410
[pop song playing]
1185
00:59:03,330 --> 00:59:05,830
[ominous music]
1186
00:59:35,870 --> 00:59:38,410
[music continues]
1187
00:59:44,660 --> 00:59:46,850
[music fades]
1188
00:59:46,870 --> 00:59:48,200
[door opens]
1189
00:59:50,790 --> 00:59:52,200
[door closes]
1190
00:59:57,410 --> 00:59:58,790
[bag thuds]
1191
01:00:01,620 --> 01:00:02,810
[switch clicks]
1192
01:00:02,830 --> 01:00:04,200
[gasping]
1193
01:00:06,830 --> 01:00:08,100
Where you been?
1194
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:09,510
[sighs]
1195
01:00:09,540 --> 01:00:11,720
You scared the crap out of me.
1196
01:00:11,750 --> 01:00:13,250
I was with Yolanda.
1197
01:00:14,540 --> 01:00:16,720
Ya'll hanging out now?
1198
01:00:16,750 --> 01:00:17,760
[sighs]
1199
01:00:17,790 --> 01:00:20,100
Liam, please.
1200
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:22,120
I've had enough
out of you for one night.
1201
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:27,080
I'm sorry for losing
my temper like I did.
1202
01:00:28,830 --> 01:00:30,680
What are you doing
sitting here in the dark?
1203
01:00:30,700 --> 01:00:32,180
I don't wanna do
counseling no more.
1204
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:34,180
[sighs]
1205
01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:36,010
[inhales]
1206
01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:37,640
Then what will we do?
1207
01:00:37,660 --> 01:00:39,410
We fix our marriage ourselves.
1208
01:00:45,250 --> 01:00:48,260
I googled "fix your marriage..."
1209
01:00:48,290 --> 01:00:51,560
and I discovered the 2-2-2 rule.
1210
01:00:51,580 --> 01:00:54,560
Every two weeks
we have a date night.
1211
01:00:54,580 --> 01:00:56,760
And every two months,
we have a weekend getaway.
1212
01:00:56,790 --> 01:00:59,180
And every two years
1213
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:00,580
we go on vacation for a week.
1214
01:01:02,250 --> 01:01:05,560
Baby, it is not that simple.
1215
01:01:05,580 --> 01:01:07,470
Let's just start, baby.
1216
01:01:07,500 --> 01:01:08,510
[sighs]
1217
01:01:08,540 --> 01:01:10,680
Come on. Let me put this on you.
1218
01:01:10,700 --> 01:01:12,350
[mellow music]
1219
01:01:12,370 --> 01:01:13,750
You gotta trust me, baby.
1220
01:01:17,830 --> 01:01:19,120
Liam.
1221
01:01:20,870 --> 01:01:22,290
[Armeka grunts]
1222
01:01:28,950 --> 01:01:30,790
Cooked it all myself.
1223
01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:36,310
Babe, it's 2:00 in the morning.
1224
01:01:36,330 --> 01:01:37,620
You don't like it?
1225
01:01:38,660 --> 01:01:41,010
[grunts]
1226
01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:42,930
[retching]
Oh, oh, babe.
1227
01:01:42,950 --> 01:01:44,350
[belching]
1228
01:01:44,370 --> 01:01:45,910
[tap water running]
1229
01:01:47,330 --> 01:01:49,140
What y'all drink?
1230
01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:50,600
[indistinct chatter]
1231
01:01:50,620 --> 01:01:52,760
[phone ringing]
1232
01:01:52,790 --> 01:01:54,600
Why is she calling you so late?
1233
01:01:54,620 --> 01:01:56,390
Probably to make sure I'm okay.
1234
01:01:56,410 --> 01:01:58,850
Why wouldn't you be okay with
your husband in your home?
1235
01:01:58,870 --> 01:02:00,430
Baby, I don't know why
she's calling.
1236
01:02:00,450 --> 01:02:02,010
Oh, I'll ask her.
1237
01:02:02,040 --> 01:02:03,260
-Just give me the phone.
-Hey, no.
1238
01:02:03,290 --> 01:02:04,550
-G-give me.
-Liam.
1239
01:02:04,580 --> 01:02:05,930
-Let go.
-Give me the phone.
1240
01:02:05,950 --> 01:02:07,430
-[phone beeps]
-Don't, let it go.
1241
01:02:07,450 --> 01:02:08,600
[Yolanda] Armeka.
1242
01:02:08,620 --> 01:02:10,550
[grunts]
1243
01:02:10,580 --> 01:02:13,470
Armeka! Are you okay?
1244
01:02:13,500 --> 01:02:15,140
Are you safe? Can you hear me?
1245
01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:17,060
[ominous music]
1246
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:18,640
[female dispatcher]911,
where's your emergency?
1247
01:02:18,660 --> 01:02:21,060
32 Story Street.
This is Dr. Yolanda Carver.
1248
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:22,810
I'm a counselor registered
with the department.
1249
01:02:22,830 --> 01:02:24,350
[female dispatcher]Dr. Carver,
how can I help you?
1250
01:02:24,370 --> 01:02:26,390
I need emergency intervention
for a patient
1251
01:02:26,410 --> 01:02:28,470
who's getting attacked
by her husband right now.
1252
01:02:28,500 --> 01:02:30,930
He has guns in the home
and he suffers from PTSD.
1253
01:02:30,950 --> 01:02:32,260
[female dispatcher]
A unit is on the way.
1254
01:02:32,290 --> 01:02:33,580
Thank you.
1255
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:36,470
Can you transfer me to evidence?
1256
01:02:36,500 --> 01:02:37,510
[female dispatcher]
One moment, please.
1257
01:02:37,540 --> 01:02:39,140
Babe, you all right?
1258
01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:40,680
Okay. Baby, listen,
1259
01:02:40,700 --> 01:02:42,430
all I was trying to do was
cook you some dinner
1260
01:02:42,450 --> 01:02:44,720
and apologize to you tonight,
okay? I-I'm so sorry.
1261
01:02:44,750 --> 01:02:45,890
-[groans]
-Babe.
1262
01:02:45,910 --> 01:02:47,430
[siren wailing]
1263
01:02:47,450 --> 01:02:49,220
You have another bruise
on your face.
1264
01:02:49,250 --> 01:02:50,720
-What?
-I'm sorry, I--
1265
01:02:50,750 --> 01:02:52,100
Look, I'm sorry, babe.
1266
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:53,140
Let me help you up, baby.
1267
01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:54,550
[groans]
1268
01:02:54,580 --> 01:02:56,140
Come on, baby.
1269
01:02:56,160 --> 01:02:58,260
-[knocking on door]
-[officer] Police, open up!
1270
01:02:58,290 --> 01:02:59,890
[banging on door]
1271
01:02:59,910 --> 01:03:01,220
[door slams]
1272
01:03:01,250 --> 01:03:02,640
[ominous music]
1273
01:03:02,660 --> 01:03:03,680
Step away from your wife.
1274
01:03:03,700 --> 01:03:05,010
This is just a misunderstanding.
1275
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:06,260
[officer]
Step away from your wife.
1276
01:03:06,290 --> 01:03:07,510
We can discuss
whatever you like.
1277
01:03:07,540 --> 01:03:09,060
He didn't do anything,
I-I fell.
1278
01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:10,350
[officer] Step away
from your wife now
1279
01:03:10,370 --> 01:03:11,810
so this doesn't
escalate any further.
1280
01:03:11,830 --> 01:03:13,600
Put your gun down.
I do not feel safe.
1281
01:03:13,620 --> 01:03:15,430
This is the last time
I'm gonna ask you.
1282
01:03:15,450 --> 01:03:16,970
Step away from your wife!
1283
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:20,010
Please, please. I'm begging you,
please just do it.
1284
01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:21,430
Just do what
they're telling you.
1285
01:03:21,450 --> 01:03:23,000
Please. Liam.
1286
01:03:23,830 --> 01:03:25,390
Get on your knees.
1287
01:03:25,410 --> 01:03:27,910
[tense music]
1288
01:03:36,540 --> 01:03:38,000
He didn't do anything.
1289
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:42,220
[Armeka] He didn't hit me.
I'm trying to tell you.
1290
01:03:42,250 --> 01:03:43,890
Listen to me!
1291
01:03:43,910 --> 01:03:46,060
Liam, baby, don't worry.
1292
01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:48,060
Liam, baby, I'm coming, okay?
1293
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:49,510
Liam, baby, I'm gonna
be right there.
1294
01:03:49,540 --> 01:03:51,060
Don't worry, okay? I'm coming.
1295
01:03:51,080 --> 01:03:52,660
[sobbing]
1296
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:56,680
[ominous music]
1297
01:03:56,700 --> 01:03:58,140
He hit you.
1298
01:03:58,160 --> 01:04:00,220
No! He didn't hit me!
1299
01:04:00,250 --> 01:04:01,680
You called the police?
1300
01:04:01,700 --> 01:04:04,100
-On my husband?
-He was attacking you.
1301
01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:06,060
He wasn't attacking me!
1302
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:09,060
We were fighting over the phone!
He could've been killed!
1303
01:04:09,080 --> 01:04:11,100
Just calm down and we can talk.
1304
01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:13,510
-I'm shaking.
-Shh.
1305
01:04:13,540 --> 01:04:16,970
I will always advocate
for your safety and well-being.
1306
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:18,680
But I'm bound by my oath
1307
01:04:18,700 --> 01:04:21,010
to report mental health crises
when I see them.
1308
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:24,850
And what Liam needs is help,
not jail.
1309
01:04:24,870 --> 01:04:26,310
What are you talking about,
jail?
1310
01:04:26,330 --> 01:04:27,890
Let's sit down.
1311
01:04:27,910 --> 01:04:29,580
[suspenseful music]
1312
01:04:31,410 --> 01:04:34,680
Liam defrauded the US military
by lying about his mental health
1313
01:04:34,700 --> 01:04:36,350
to get an honorable discharge.
1314
01:04:36,370 --> 01:04:38,760
So he can either serve a
two-week sentence in the brig
1315
01:04:38,790 --> 01:04:41,350
and surrender
his honorable discharge.
1316
01:04:41,370 --> 01:04:43,510
Or he can be
involuntarily committed
1317
01:04:43,540 --> 01:04:45,180
to a mental health facility
1318
01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:48,060
for a minimum of 48 hours
for observation.
1319
01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:49,540
[sobbing]
1320
01:04:50,910 --> 01:04:52,500
I know. I know.
1321
01:04:56,290 --> 01:04:58,750
[eerie music]
1322
01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:07,140
Mr. Jasper keeps
multiple weapons in the home,
1323
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:09,600
rifles and handguns,
1324
01:05:09,620 --> 01:05:11,850
he's refused to take
the medication prescribed
1325
01:05:11,870 --> 01:05:13,810
to treat his severe
anxiety disorder,
1326
01:05:13,830 --> 01:05:16,000
and the violent outbursts
he has towards his wife.
1327
01:05:17,540 --> 01:05:19,260
I've personally witnessed his
1328
01:05:19,290 --> 01:05:22,060
assaultive behavior
on two occasions.
1329
01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:23,890
The most recent of which
1330
01:05:23,910 --> 01:05:25,970
necessitated
the emergency intervention
1331
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:27,430
which brings me
before this court.
1332
01:05:27,450 --> 01:05:28,850
May I approach the bench,
Your Honor?
1333
01:05:28,870 --> 01:05:30,140
You may.
1334
01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:32,660
[ominous music]
1335
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:37,970
[Yolanda] His wife revealed
that when Mr. Jasper
1336
01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:40,180
was arrested for
assaulting her two years ago,
1337
01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:42,220
he forced her to lie
to get him out of jail.
1338
01:05:42,250 --> 01:05:43,850
And you witnessed
another assault last night?
1339
01:05:43,870 --> 01:05:45,180
That is correct.
1340
01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:47,850
So this is a
criminal matter, doctor.
1341
01:05:47,870 --> 01:05:49,350
[sighs]
1342
01:05:49,370 --> 01:05:50,720
What are you doing
in my courtroom?
1343
01:05:50,750 --> 01:05:52,470
If it pleases the court,
1344
01:05:52,500 --> 01:05:54,060
Mr. Jasper was
psychologically injured
1345
01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:55,390
with serving his country.
1346
01:05:55,410 --> 01:05:58,010
So he needs mercy,
not judgment.
1347
01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:01,060
That being said, he is a danger
to himself and to others.
1348
01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:02,680
He needs treatment,
Your Honor.
1349
01:06:02,700 --> 01:06:04,100
And as you can see there,
his wife
1350
01:06:04,120 --> 01:06:05,930
has already signed off
on the commission.
1351
01:06:05,950 --> 01:06:08,450
[music continues]
1352
01:06:14,500 --> 01:06:15,830
[doorbell rings]
1353
01:06:18,870 --> 01:06:20,890
[door opens]
1354
01:06:20,910 --> 01:06:22,500
[birds chirping]
1355
01:06:24,950 --> 01:06:26,080
For you.
1356
01:06:27,080 --> 01:06:28,620
No, thank you.
1357
01:06:36,580 --> 01:06:37,870
[door closes]
1358
01:06:40,700 --> 01:06:42,180
Have you eaten anything?
1359
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:44,010
I brought fried chicken
and potato salad.
1360
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:46,640
Why were you having sidebar
conversations with my husband
1361
01:06:46,660 --> 01:06:48,260
and didn't tell me things
were going left?
1362
01:06:48,290 --> 01:06:50,010
-Let's sit down.
-Let's not.
1363
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:51,970
Because what you did was foul.
1364
01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:54,430
I made the difficult decision
to not share anything with you
1365
01:06:54,450 --> 01:06:57,260
because I was concerned about
the potential for violence.
1366
01:06:57,290 --> 01:06:59,470
And the moment you
would've said anything to him,
1367
01:06:59,500 --> 01:07:01,260
he would've known
I was the one who told you.
1368
01:07:01,290 --> 01:07:03,010
I'm not afraid of my husband.
1369
01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:04,970
Most victims of abuse aren't.
1370
01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:06,600
Until it's too late.
1371
01:07:06,620 --> 01:07:07,930
Do you remember the warning
1372
01:07:07,950 --> 01:07:09,350
I gave you after
my last Yo Session?
1373
01:07:09,370 --> 01:07:11,310
That was because
he told me things
1374
01:07:11,330 --> 01:07:13,260
in confidence that
I had yet to tell you.
1375
01:07:13,290 --> 01:07:15,810
And my plan was to bring
everything out in the open
1376
01:07:15,830 --> 01:07:18,680
at our last meeting,
as part of my final assessment,
1377
01:07:18,700 --> 01:07:20,640
but we never made it that far.
1378
01:07:20,660 --> 01:07:25,010
I see these things play out
all of the time, Armeka.
1379
01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:26,810
Around the world,
the vast majority
1380
01:07:26,830 --> 01:07:28,600
of women are killed
by intimate partners.
1381
01:07:28,620 --> 01:07:30,790
I'm a social worker.
I know the stats.
1382
01:07:33,370 --> 01:07:34,640
If you're not gonna
eat anything,
1383
01:07:34,660 --> 01:07:36,330
can you at least try to rest?
1384
01:07:37,450 --> 01:07:38,680
Guess I can have some.
1385
01:07:38,700 --> 01:07:40,720
I haven't eaten anything
since yesterday.
1386
01:07:40,750 --> 01:07:42,720
I'll make you a plate.
1387
01:07:42,750 --> 01:07:44,810
Then we can go check on Liam.
1388
01:07:44,830 --> 01:07:47,260
After he's assessed, we should
be able to communicate with him.
1389
01:07:47,290 --> 01:07:49,550
[ominous music]
1390
01:07:49,580 --> 01:07:50,830
[indistinct chatter]
1391
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:55,470
Why am I in handcuffs?
1392
01:07:55,500 --> 01:07:58,010
Why are you in handcuffs,
Mr. Jasper?
1393
01:07:58,040 --> 01:08:00,040
You're saying as
if I put them on myself.
1394
01:08:04,290 --> 01:08:07,350
Can you just remove these and
I'll answer your questions?
1395
01:08:07,370 --> 01:08:09,010
Of course I can.
1396
01:08:09,040 --> 01:08:12,810
But this is not about ability,
power or skill,
1397
01:08:12,830 --> 01:08:15,140
as the definition
of "can" suggests.
1398
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:16,600
This is about gauging
1399
01:08:16,620 --> 01:08:18,640
your capacity to accept
responsibility.
1400
01:08:18,660 --> 01:08:21,100
So, Mr. Jasper,
I'll ask you again.
1401
01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:23,000
Why are you in cuffs?
1402
01:08:29,450 --> 01:08:30,760
What are you writing?
1403
01:08:30,790 --> 01:08:31,970
I ask the questions.
1404
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:33,470
And honest answers will go
1405
01:08:33,500 --> 01:08:35,180
a long way
in determining when
1406
01:08:35,200 --> 01:08:38,310
or if, I execute my will
on your behalf.
1407
01:08:38,330 --> 01:08:39,760
I want a lawyer.
1408
01:08:39,790 --> 01:08:41,310
This isn't a criminal matter,
1409
01:08:41,330 --> 01:08:42,890
Mr. Jasper,
unless you make it so.
1410
01:08:42,910 --> 01:08:44,550
Custodial questioning
isn't bound
1411
01:08:44,580 --> 01:08:46,180
by the 5th of 6th Amendments,
1412
01:08:46,200 --> 01:08:49,310
or any provision in
the Georgia State Constitution.
1413
01:08:49,330 --> 01:08:52,250
Are you refusing to answer
my questions?
1414
01:08:54,290 --> 01:08:55,580
Mr. Jasper?
1415
01:08:57,000 --> 01:09:00,370
I-don't-know
why I was put in handcuffs.
1416
01:09:01,410 --> 01:09:03,510
Dr. Yo is tryin' to set me up.
1417
01:09:03,540 --> 01:09:06,060
She conspired with the police.
She's trying to steal my wife.
1418
01:09:06,080 --> 01:09:08,220
"Steal his wife."
1419
01:09:08,250 --> 01:09:11,010
And what do you mean by,
"steal your wife?"
1420
01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:12,970
[sighs]
1421
01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:17,310
That is a lurid
and patently misogynistic charge
1422
01:09:17,330 --> 01:09:19,470
against a well-respected
clinician.
1423
01:09:19,500 --> 01:09:21,930
Now unless you can provide
evidence for your allegation,
1424
01:09:21,950 --> 01:09:24,430
we'll get back
to a more pressing issue.
1425
01:09:24,450 --> 01:09:27,260
Which is your pattern
of assaulting your wife.
1426
01:09:27,290 --> 01:09:30,640
In seven years of marriage, I've
never laid a hand on my wife.
1427
01:09:30,660 --> 01:09:32,930
Well, actually, there's one time
by accident.
1428
01:09:32,950 --> 01:09:34,930
-We was boxing.
-Boxing.
1429
01:09:34,950 --> 01:09:37,640
Yeah, she backed me into
a corner and I had a flashback.
1430
01:09:37,660 --> 01:09:39,510
-A flashback?
-Yes.
1431
01:09:39,540 --> 01:09:43,600
And to what do you attribute
this flashback, Mr. Jasper?
1432
01:09:43,620 --> 01:09:45,200
[suspenseful music]
1433
01:09:46,580 --> 01:09:48,220
I have a right to remain silent.
1434
01:09:48,250 --> 01:09:50,060
And I have a right
to keep you here
1435
01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:52,010
for as long
as it takes for you
1436
01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:54,350
to be accountable
for your actions.
1437
01:09:54,370 --> 01:09:58,000
And to no longer be a danger
to yourself or others.
1438
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:01,620
Is there anything else you'd
like to share...
1439
01:10:02,950 --> 01:10:04,620
Mr. Jasper?
1440
01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:09,140
I concur with the doctor
that you should be held
1441
01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:12,720
for observation
for a minimum of 48 hours.
1442
01:10:12,750 --> 01:10:14,510
You-you got this wrong, okay?
1443
01:10:14,540 --> 01:10:16,680
You can't just keep me
here for no reason!
1444
01:10:16,700 --> 01:10:18,970
[door shuts]
1445
01:10:19,000 --> 01:10:20,330
[mouths]
1446
01:10:24,250 --> 01:10:26,550
-Thank you.
-You want something to drink?
1447
01:10:26,580 --> 01:10:28,620
There's, um, cranberry juice
in the fridge.
1448
01:10:31,790 --> 01:10:33,410
[bottle clinking]
1449
01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:38,700
You know that
this too shall pass.
1450
01:10:41,370 --> 01:10:43,600
-You want some hot sauce?
-Of course.
1451
01:10:43,620 --> 01:10:46,010
[both chuckling]
1452
01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:48,040
[suspenseful music]
1453
01:10:49,330 --> 01:10:50,950
[clattering]
1454
01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:56,750
[pouring]
1455
01:11:02,370 --> 01:11:03,830
Thank you.
1456
01:11:10,450 --> 01:11:12,950
[footsteps approaching]
1457
01:11:15,200 --> 01:11:17,850
[eerie music]
1458
01:11:17,870 --> 01:11:20,370
[indistinct whispers]
1459
01:11:25,660 --> 01:11:28,160
[tense music]
1460
01:11:55,660 --> 01:11:58,160
[music continues]
1461
01:12:14,250 --> 01:12:15,500
[door opens]
1462
01:12:27,000 --> 01:12:29,100
Why am I the only one
in here in cuffs?
1463
01:12:29,120 --> 01:12:31,720
The cuffs come off,
but only if you ask nicely
1464
01:12:31,750 --> 01:12:33,350
and under control.
1465
01:12:33,370 --> 01:12:36,220
I did two tours in Afghanistan.
Honorably discharged--
1466
01:12:36,250 --> 01:12:37,850
And obtaining that discharge
1467
01:12:37,870 --> 01:12:40,390
under false pretenses
is what landed you here.
1468
01:12:40,410 --> 01:12:42,720
-That's a lie!
-Too loud, mate.
1469
01:12:42,750 --> 01:12:44,640
It was quiet
before you got here.
1470
01:12:44,660 --> 01:12:48,100
Keep your British nose out of
American business, Union Jack.
1471
01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:50,310
Make yourself comfortable,
Mr. Jasper.
1472
01:12:50,330 --> 01:12:52,180
You're gonna be here
for a while.
1473
01:12:52,200 --> 01:12:54,700
[clock ticking]
1474
01:12:58,540 --> 01:13:01,040
[eerie music]
1475
01:13:05,500 --> 01:13:06,830
[clattering]
1476
01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:15,790
Mind if I sit?
1477
01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:23,370
Prayin'?
1478
01:13:27,950 --> 01:13:29,580
Minding my business.
1479
01:13:33,330 --> 01:13:38,910
Being lonely in here
is neither healthy nor wise.
1480
01:13:41,040 --> 01:13:42,910
I won't be here long.
1481
01:13:46,830 --> 01:13:48,660
That's what they all say.
1482
01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:56,620
[tense music]
1483
01:14:05,500 --> 01:14:08,000
[birds chirping]
1484
01:14:10,750 --> 01:14:12,080
[sighs]
1485
01:14:21,910 --> 01:14:23,600
[gasps]
1486
01:14:23,620 --> 01:14:24,870
Good morning.
1487
01:14:25,870 --> 01:14:27,430
I made you breakfast.
1488
01:14:27,450 --> 01:14:28,890
Wait, wait!
It's, it's morning?
1489
01:14:28,910 --> 01:14:30,680
Relax,
I didn't want to dirty
1490
01:14:30,700 --> 01:14:32,220
any dishes.
1491
01:14:32,250 --> 01:14:33,720
I made you turkey bacon,
cheese grits,
1492
01:14:33,750 --> 01:14:35,290
and cinnamon spice coffee.
1493
01:14:36,330 --> 01:14:38,080
I seasoned it with love.
1494
01:14:41,660 --> 01:14:44,160
[eerie music]
1495
01:14:53,660 --> 01:14:56,890
You were only supposed to
be in here for 48 hours.
1496
01:14:56,910 --> 01:15:00,810
But your refusal to comply
has already added another day.
1497
01:15:00,830 --> 01:15:02,140
You can't take my wife!
1498
01:15:02,160 --> 01:15:04,220
[laughs]
1499
01:15:04,250 --> 01:15:05,660
I already have her.
1500
01:15:07,830 --> 01:15:11,000
And by the time you're out
of here, we'll be long gone.
1501
01:15:12,620 --> 01:15:13,910
[scoffs]
1502
01:15:15,750 --> 01:15:17,120
Mr. Jasper...
1503
01:15:18,370 --> 01:15:20,180
Hmm.
1504
01:15:20,200 --> 01:15:22,810
When you get out of here
is entirely up to you.
1505
01:15:22,830 --> 01:15:25,330
[ominous music]
1506
01:15:56,540 --> 01:15:59,350
[dramatic music]
1507
01:15:59,370 --> 01:16:00,700
[gasps]
1508
01:16:02,660 --> 01:16:04,850
[Yolanda] From that tragedy
sprang a new life.
1509
01:16:04,870 --> 01:16:07,560
A new career. New identity.
1510
01:16:07,580 --> 01:16:10,080
[gasping]
1511
01:16:14,750 --> 01:16:17,290
[keys clacking]
1512
01:16:23,870 --> 01:16:25,950
-Oh, my..
-What are you doing?
1513
01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:32,100
I thought you said
you were divorced.
1514
01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:34,510
But this says your husband
was murdered.
1515
01:16:34,540 --> 01:16:36,290
Facts can be stubborn things.
1516
01:16:37,750 --> 01:16:39,370
And the devil
sometimes speaks the truth.
1517
01:16:41,500 --> 01:16:42,720
Did you?
1518
01:16:42,750 --> 01:16:44,000
Did I what?
1519
01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:47,160
Kill your husband.
1520
01:16:51,450 --> 01:16:53,260
I want you out of my house.
1521
01:16:53,290 --> 01:16:54,410
Sorry.
1522
01:16:55,660 --> 01:16:57,200
I'm here to stay.
1523
01:16:58,080 --> 01:16:59,450
[grunts]
1524
01:17:01,620 --> 01:17:04,160
[grunting]
1525
01:17:11,620 --> 01:17:13,930
You chose the difficult path.
1526
01:17:13,950 --> 01:17:16,040
When all you had to do
was choose me.
1527
01:17:20,580 --> 01:17:22,100
[door slams]
1528
01:17:22,120 --> 01:17:24,620
[tense music]
1529
01:17:42,910 --> 01:17:44,540
[groaning]
1530
01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:48,500
[clattering]
1531
01:17:52,330 --> 01:17:53,910
[gasps]
1532
01:17:55,160 --> 01:17:57,620
[breathing heavily]
1533
01:17:59,790 --> 01:18:01,250
Do you love me?
1534
01:18:06,160 --> 01:18:07,890
I want to make you happy.
1535
01:18:07,910 --> 01:18:09,250
[grunts]
1536
01:18:12,500 --> 01:18:15,750
Do-you-love-me?
1537
01:18:22,080 --> 01:18:23,370
Yes.
1538
01:18:25,790 --> 01:18:28,370
Good.
I love you too.
1539
01:18:29,250 --> 01:18:31,060
But I'll only untie you
1540
01:18:31,080 --> 01:18:33,450
for you to show me
how much you love me.
1541
01:18:38,540 --> 01:18:40,330
[light buzzing]
1542
01:18:46,160 --> 01:18:47,910
[thudding]
1543
01:18:50,330 --> 01:18:52,410
[grunts]
1544
01:18:54,910 --> 01:18:57,410
[choking]
1545
01:19:00,870 --> 01:19:02,500
I never should've been in here.
1546
01:19:05,160 --> 01:19:06,390
[thudding]
1547
01:19:06,410 --> 01:19:08,660
[sirens wailing]
1548
01:19:11,950 --> 01:19:13,450
[clattering]
1549
01:19:14,620 --> 01:19:16,080
[both grunt]
1550
01:19:18,700 --> 01:19:21,200
[panting]
1551
01:19:23,500 --> 01:19:25,680
[indistinct radio chatter]
1552
01:19:25,700 --> 01:19:28,200
[intense music]
1553
01:19:40,040 --> 01:19:42,540
[panting]
1554
01:19:49,370 --> 01:19:50,890
[zapping]
1555
01:19:50,910 --> 01:19:52,720
[grunts]
1556
01:19:52,750 --> 01:19:54,140
[gunshots]
1557
01:19:54,160 --> 01:19:56,160
[tires screeching]
1558
01:19:58,500 --> 01:19:59,750
Fuck!
1559
01:20:06,950 --> 01:20:08,910
Are you gonna be my good girl?
1560
01:20:17,160 --> 01:20:19,950
I'll flay you without
hesitation if you misbehave.
1561
01:20:22,580 --> 01:20:25,250
From the moment I saw you,
you were her.
1562
01:20:27,580 --> 01:20:30,350
So you choosing me...
1563
01:20:30,370 --> 01:20:32,370
it gives us a chance
at redemption.
1564
01:20:35,370 --> 01:20:39,500
I'll be everything to you...
that she never was.
1565
01:20:42,950 --> 01:20:44,510
[grunts]
1566
01:20:44,540 --> 01:20:46,680
[Armeka screams]
1567
01:20:46,700 --> 01:20:48,350
[clanking]
1568
01:20:48,370 --> 01:20:50,870
[both grunting]
1569
01:20:53,870 --> 01:20:55,250
[grunts]
1570
01:20:58,660 --> 01:21:00,160
[thudding]
1571
01:21:04,290 --> 01:21:05,470
You don't have the balls, bitch.
1572
01:21:05,500 --> 01:21:06,550
[grunts]
1573
01:21:06,580 --> 01:21:08,680
[whimpering]
1574
01:21:08,700 --> 01:21:09,790
[van tires screeching]
1575
01:21:11,620 --> 01:21:14,890
-Armeka!
-Liam! Baby! Baby! Baby.
1576
01:21:14,910 --> 01:21:15,930
[crying]
1577
01:21:15,950 --> 01:21:18,450
Oh, God. [sobs]
1578
01:21:22,950 --> 01:21:24,470
[grunts]
1579
01:21:24,500 --> 01:21:26,950
[all grunting]
1580
01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:31,390
[thudding]
1581
01:21:31,410 --> 01:21:32,700
[grunting]
1582
01:21:34,370 --> 01:21:36,870
[sirens wailing]
1583
01:21:39,290 --> 01:21:40,660
[grunts]
1584
01:21:43,950 --> 01:21:46,450
[instrumental music]
1585
01:21:58,200 --> 01:21:59,890
Well...
1586
01:21:59,910 --> 01:22:02,430
this officially completes
our first 2-2-2 rule.
1587
01:22:02,450 --> 01:22:04,680
[chuckling]
1588
01:22:04,700 --> 01:22:06,720
Yeah. And how fitting.
1589
01:22:06,750 --> 01:22:10,140
On one week vacay,
baby Armeka's on the way.
1590
01:22:10,160 --> 01:22:12,500
Well, it could be
a big-headed boy. Or two.
1591
01:22:13,910 --> 01:22:15,720
[Liam] We can settle,
when we get home.
1592
01:22:15,750 --> 01:22:17,310
Just get the ultrasound.
1593
01:22:17,330 --> 01:22:19,540
[Armeka] I think
I wanna be surprised.
1594
01:22:21,660 --> 01:22:23,290
Babe, but what if I wanna know?
1595
01:22:24,580 --> 01:22:26,350
My body, my choice.
1596
01:22:26,370 --> 01:22:28,220
It gets no arguments
out of me.
1597
01:22:28,250 --> 01:22:30,250
[chuckles]
1598
01:22:33,540 --> 01:22:35,080
[moans]
1599
01:22:39,750 --> 01:22:42,060
[exhales]
1600
01:22:42,080 --> 01:22:45,350
Welcome to this Yo Session.
1601
01:22:45,370 --> 01:22:48,720
I'm Dr. Yolanda Carver,
but you all can call me...
1602
01:22:48,750 --> 01:22:50,600
Dr. Yo.
1603
01:22:50,620 --> 01:22:52,850
I am so humbled
1604
01:22:52,870 --> 01:22:56,760
that you decided to join me
for this speaking experience.
1605
01:22:56,790 --> 01:22:59,000
How many of you are in here
for killing your mate?
1606
01:23:01,370 --> 01:23:02,720
Good.
1607
01:23:02,750 --> 01:23:04,680
Because today
I'm gonna be talking
1608
01:23:04,700 --> 01:23:07,500
about the delicate balance
between redemption...
1609
01:23:09,450 --> 01:23:10,830
and revenge.
1610
01:23:13,000 --> 01:23:15,500
[intense music]
1611
01:23:38,620 --> 01:23:41,060
♪ Cry before me ♪
1612
01:23:41,080 --> 01:23:42,720
♪ If you've been sensing
that for me ♪
1613
01:23:42,750 --> 01:23:45,370
♪ You'd be wise
to slow it down ♪
1614
01:23:47,540 --> 01:23:49,760
♪ No rush if it's promising ♪
1615
01:23:49,790 --> 01:23:52,100
♪ Join up and babe... ♪
1616
01:23:52,120 --> 01:23:55,470
♪ Your lovin' it comes
to those who take time ♪
1617
01:23:55,500 --> 01:23:57,350
♪ Yeah-yeah-yeah ♪
1618
01:23:57,370 --> 01:23:58,870
[indistinct lyrics]
1619
01:24:00,870 --> 01:24:04,620
♪ Making those
good decisions ♪
1620
01:24:06,540 --> 01:24:08,930
♪ I like it I like it
I like it ♪
1621
01:24:08,950 --> 01:24:10,970
♪ The way you're
getting me excited ♪
1622
01:24:11,000 --> 01:24:13,810
♪ He's the one who
needs to be in check ♪
1623
01:24:13,830 --> 01:24:15,550
♪ How can I win this? ♪
1624
01:24:15,580 --> 01:24:18,640
♪ Like that like that
mm like that ♪
1625
01:24:18,660 --> 01:24:20,510
♪ How can I win this? ♪
1626
01:24:20,540 --> 01:24:23,510
♪ Like that like that
mm like that ♪
1627
01:24:23,540 --> 01:24:25,390
♪ Oh how can I win this? ♪
1628
01:24:25,410 --> 01:24:27,850
♪ Like that like that
mm like that ♪
1629
01:24:27,870 --> 01:24:29,600
♪ How can I win this? ♪
1630
01:24:29,620 --> 01:24:31,260
♪ Mm like that
mm like that ♪
1631
01:24:31,290 --> 01:24:34,310
♪ Oh yeah yeah ♪
1632
01:24:34,330 --> 01:24:36,760
♪ Givin' my best to the best
no drama ♪
1633
01:24:36,790 --> 01:24:39,100
♪ Keeping my cash
on the cash like armor ♪
1634
01:24:39,120 --> 01:24:41,390
♪ Hot on my sleeve
and I'm hot like sauna ♪
1635
01:24:41,410 --> 01:24:43,550
♪ I know he can't breathe
when I come around ♪
1636
01:24:43,580 --> 01:24:45,890
♪ Music low-low
sipping slow-slow ♪
1637
01:24:45,910 --> 01:24:48,310
♪ Sometimes we chat
and sometimes we get down ♪
1638
01:24:48,330 --> 01:24:50,720
♪ No one knows
busy tone ♪
1639
01:24:50,750 --> 01:24:52,760
♪ Yeah ♪
1640
01:24:52,790 --> 01:24:55,060
♪ I like it
I like it I like it ♪
1641
01:24:55,080 --> 01:24:57,140
♪ The way you get me excited ♪
1642
01:24:57,160 --> 01:25:00,180
♪ He's the one who
needs to be in check ♪
1643
01:25:00,200 --> 01:25:01,930
♪ How can I win this? ♪
1644
01:25:01,950 --> 01:25:04,220
♪ I like it
I like it I like it ♪
1645
01:25:04,250 --> 01:25:06,310
♪ The way you get me excited ♪
1646
01:25:06,330 --> 01:25:09,220
♪ He's the one who
needs to be in check ♪
1647
01:25:09,250 --> 01:25:10,970
♪ How can I win this? ♪
1648
01:25:11,000 --> 01:25:13,640
♪
113633
Can't find what you're looking for?
Get subtitles in any language from opensubtitles.com, and translate them here.