Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated:
1
00:00:09,447 --> 00:00:14,452
**
2
00:00:14,493 --> 00:00:16,579
-My guest today
came from my hometown.
3
00:00:16,620 --> 00:00:19,331
Of course, I'm talking
about Philadelphia, PA,
4
00:00:19,373 --> 00:00:21,250
and this man, well,
he didn't stay in Philadelphia.
5
00:00:21,292 --> 00:00:24,003
He ended up going to Bel-Air.
This guy's been killing it.
6
00:00:24,045 --> 00:00:26,380
And by killing it,
I do mean he is a Oscar winner,
7
00:00:26,422 --> 00:00:28,132
Grammy winner,
Golden Globe winner,
8
00:00:28,174 --> 00:00:30,509
Critics' Choice winner,
People's Choice winner.
9
00:00:30,551 --> 00:00:32,094
There's way too many winners
to continue,
10
00:00:32,136 --> 00:00:33,846
but the list goes on and on.
11
00:00:33,888 --> 00:00:36,348
More importantly than the wins,
well, the guy's also my friend.
12
00:00:36,390 --> 00:00:37,933
Ladies and gentlemen,
please welcome
13
00:00:37,975 --> 00:00:39,435
Will Smith to the show.
[ Sparse applause ]
14
00:00:39,477 --> 00:00:41,520
-Yeah! Yeah!
-See that?
15
00:00:41,562 --> 00:00:44,023
-Hey, strangé. Strangé.
-You hear that?
16
00:00:44,065 --> 00:00:45,399
Did you hear my audience?
-Yes. That was your audience.
17
00:00:45,441 --> 00:00:47,026
I feel. I feel that.
-You heard it?
18
00:00:47,068 --> 00:00:48,986
It was four of us.
-It was four? [ Laughs ]
19
00:00:49,028 --> 00:00:50,571
-It's a very intimate set here.
20
00:00:50,613 --> 00:00:52,531
Very intimate set.
-What's up, man?
21
00:00:52,573 --> 00:00:55,117
-Thank you, first of all,
for coming on, man.
22
00:00:55,159 --> 00:00:56,619
Well, it's coming.
-All right, I'm just saying.
23
00:00:56,660 --> 00:00:59,372
-Can you give it a second?
-I've seen the show.
24
00:00:59,413 --> 00:01:01,832
-Yeah. Give it a second.
We're gonna fill the glass up.
25
00:01:01,874 --> 00:01:03,376
-Okay.
-I like the fact that I asked
26
00:01:03,417 --> 00:01:04,877
you to come
and you made the time.
27
00:01:04,919 --> 00:01:06,253
You didn't know
if you had the time.
28
00:01:06,295 --> 00:01:08,255
-Yes, we're pre-production
for "Bad Boys."
29
00:01:08,297 --> 00:01:09,882
-Okay, but --
-But when my man -- you know,
30
00:01:09,924 --> 00:01:12,009
my man call, you know?
-Man, don't do that.
31
00:01:12,051 --> 00:01:13,677
-Philly, you know how we do.
-Don't do that.
32
00:01:13,719 --> 00:01:16,305
-I was like, we got -- we'll
slide over there for a second.
33
00:01:16,347 --> 00:01:17,723
-Slide it at move it back.
-Move it back for my man.
34
00:01:17,765 --> 00:01:19,141
-Fuck that production!
-[ Laughs ]
35
00:01:19,183 --> 00:01:21,477
-Yeah, fuck that.
We'll figure it out.
36
00:01:21,519 --> 00:01:23,354
All right, look,
you already know what we do.
37
00:01:23,396 --> 00:01:25,064
We drink wine on this show.
I believe great conversations
38
00:01:25,106 --> 00:01:27,358
happen over
great glasses of wine.
39
00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,360
This will be
a great conversation.
40
00:01:29,402 --> 00:01:30,986
-Yes, sir.
-So we do need our wine.
41
00:01:31,028 --> 00:01:32,905
Let me call in my somm.
D, come on in, man.
42
00:01:32,947 --> 00:01:34,115
-D.
-DLynn.
43
00:01:34,156 --> 00:01:35,282
-DLynn.
-That's my somm.
44
00:01:35,324 --> 00:01:36,784
-What's up?
-Mr. Smith.
45
00:01:36,826 --> 00:01:38,828
-How you feeling?
-Good. How about you?
46
00:01:38,869 --> 00:01:40,413
-Mr. Hart.
-What are we drinking today, D?
47
00:01:40,454 --> 00:01:43,833
-A bespoke Syrah from the
foothills of the Edna Valley.
48
00:01:43,874 --> 00:01:45,751
-Bespoke Syrah.
-2020 vintage.
49
00:01:45,793 --> 00:01:48,879
-I knew you was gonna go '20.
-Slide Hill Vineyard.
50
00:01:48,921 --> 00:01:50,256
-Mmm!
-Less than 100 cases made.
51
00:01:50,297 --> 00:01:52,800
85 cases, to be exact.
-Goddamn right, it's 85.
52
00:01:52,842 --> 00:01:55,052
-Shall we?
-Nothing but the best for him.
53
00:01:55,094 --> 00:01:56,554
Okay?
-Whoa.
54
00:01:56,595 --> 00:01:57,972
-Yeah. There we go.
-I'll let you taste, Mr. Hart.
55
00:01:58,013 --> 00:02:00,182
I'll pour for Mr. Smith.
-Yes, please.
56
00:02:00,224 --> 00:02:02,518
There you go.
-Mm-hmm.
57
00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,021
-Kevin Hart,
let me see how you do that. Mmm!
58
00:02:05,062 --> 00:02:06,480
-[ Sucks loudly ]
-Oh. There you go.
59
00:02:06,522 --> 00:02:09,150
-[ Sucks loudly ]
-Mmm. There you go, Kevin.
60
00:02:09,191 --> 00:02:12,069
Now you got to test the legs.
First you test the legs.
61
00:02:12,111 --> 00:02:13,946
-Absolutely.
-Gotta spray the palate, Kev.
62
00:02:13,988 --> 00:02:15,406
You didn't spray your palate.
Hold up.
63
00:02:15,448 --> 00:02:17,742
You got to spray your palate.
Hold up, hold up.
64
00:02:17,783 --> 00:02:19,118
-[ Slurps loudly ]
65
00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,121
[ Coughs ] Okay, hold up.
That is what -- hold up.
66
00:02:22,163 --> 00:02:23,372
That is what
you're supposed to do.
67
00:02:23,414 --> 00:02:25,249
That is what --
hold on, hold on.
68
00:02:25,291 --> 00:02:26,959
You got to spray your palate.
-That's not what you just did.
69
00:02:27,001 --> 00:02:28,627
-Can you explain to him
spraying your palate?
70
00:02:28,669 --> 00:02:30,337
-I know what it is.
But you didn't do that.
71
00:02:30,379 --> 00:02:32,423
-Hold on, hold on.
I did it too hard.
72
00:02:32,465 --> 00:02:33,799
-No, you almost killed
your fucking self.
73
00:02:33,841 --> 00:02:36,427
-I did. I actually did.
74
00:02:36,469 --> 00:02:37,970
I was about the need
mouth-to-mouth over here.
75
00:02:38,012 --> 00:02:39,555
Hold on.
-I'm watching.
76
00:02:39,597 --> 00:02:41,140
-[ Slurps ]
77
00:02:41,182 --> 00:02:42,516
[ Coughs ]
-Come on, don't spit
78
00:02:42,558 --> 00:02:44,810
that fucking wine on me.
-I almost sprayed it.
79
00:02:44,852 --> 00:02:46,479
But no, it's very good.
Thank you.
80
00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:48,147
Very welcome.
-Hit me up with a little more.
81
00:02:48,189 --> 00:02:49,565
-Absolutely.
-Yeah.
82
00:02:49,607 --> 00:02:53,194
Spraying your palate
is, like, you taste it.
83
00:02:53,235 --> 00:02:55,321
Actually, I did it too hard.
I did do it too hard.
84
00:02:55,363 --> 00:02:57,948
But spraying your palate
is like...
85
00:02:57,990 --> 00:02:59,950
-[ Slurps ]
-No, you're doing it wrong.
86
00:02:59,992 --> 00:03:01,702
-[ Slurps ]
-You're doing it wrong.
87
00:03:01,744 --> 00:03:04,580
No, no, no, you don't put it in
and then do it.
88
00:03:04,622 --> 00:03:06,540
You do it from the glass.
-Yeah, I know that.
89
00:03:06,582 --> 00:03:09,293
I'm trying to show you. Look.
-You don't have to show me.
90
00:03:09,335 --> 00:03:10,211
I know.
-[ Slurps ]
91
00:03:10,252 --> 00:03:12,171
-Yeah.
-[ Sputters ]
92
00:03:12,213 --> 00:03:14,173
-Don't do it again.
Don't do it again.
93
00:03:14,215 --> 00:03:16,008
That's your last time.
-Oh, it works.
94
00:03:16,050 --> 00:03:17,259
-No, don't do it again.
95
00:03:17,301 --> 00:03:18,302
I don't want you
to try to do it again.
96
00:03:18,344 --> 00:03:20,638
-It worked before. All right.
97
00:03:20,679 --> 00:03:22,181
-[ Slurps softly ]
98
00:03:22,223 --> 00:03:24,683
-Okay. I should do it less.
99
00:03:24,725 --> 00:03:26,644
-Mmm!
-Oh, sorry.
100
00:03:26,685 --> 00:03:27,853
-DLynn, thank you.
-Yes.
101
00:03:27,895 --> 00:03:29,146
-Thank you.
102
00:03:29,188 --> 00:03:30,523
Will, there's a lot of places
103
00:03:30,564 --> 00:03:33,401
I could start
in this conversation, but...
104
00:03:33,442 --> 00:03:37,405
there's one place that I want
to go on specifically, man.
105
00:03:37,446 --> 00:03:42,535
Dude, I am in a place
of international gain
106
00:03:42,576 --> 00:03:45,413
and exposure based off
of a blueprint
107
00:03:45,454 --> 00:03:47,832
that you set in this business.
-Mm-hmm.
108
00:03:47,873 --> 00:03:51,711
-I want to start in the
conversation of opportunity
109
00:03:51,752 --> 00:03:56,340
attached to the work that
you did that you put into,
110
00:03:56,382 --> 00:03:57,842
I guess you could say
now what's considered
111
00:03:57,883 --> 00:04:00,302
to be the international
exposure and attachment
112
00:04:00,344 --> 00:04:02,513
to a man of color as a lead.
113
00:04:02,555 --> 00:04:04,181
For a long time,
there was a conversation
114
00:04:04,223 --> 00:04:06,308
that we don't really
cross the border.
115
00:04:06,350 --> 00:04:07,893
Our movies don't translate.
116
00:04:07,935 --> 00:04:11,063
My biggest question to you
to start this conversation off
117
00:04:11,105 --> 00:04:13,566
is, did you have the pushback
in the beginning
118
00:04:13,607 --> 00:04:15,609
about going over the water
to promote,
119
00:04:15,651 --> 00:04:19,447
or were studios more intrigued
with the gamble?
120
00:04:19,488 --> 00:04:23,242
How did you -- How did you
basically make it
121
00:04:23,284 --> 00:04:25,911
a consistent thing
to get these movies to go
122
00:04:25,953 --> 00:04:29,999
and be marketed and promoted
on an international scale?
123
00:04:30,041 --> 00:04:33,127
-I guess I'll say that
124
00:04:33,169 --> 00:04:37,381
the first thing that I realized
is that --
125
00:04:37,423 --> 00:04:38,924
you know, I came from music,
126
00:04:38,966 --> 00:04:43,095
so coming from music was
a whole different world, right?
127
00:04:43,137 --> 00:04:45,765
So being in music,
128
00:04:45,806 --> 00:04:50,352
I had already been around
the world one time with records,
129
00:04:50,394 --> 00:04:54,940
So when I came to Hollywood,
there wasn't --
130
00:04:54,982 --> 00:04:59,403
Music was almost like
underground compared to movies.
131
00:04:59,445 --> 00:05:02,948
-Okay.
-So I knew from step one
132
00:05:02,990 --> 00:05:06,994
that marketing was equally
as important as the product.
133
00:05:07,036 --> 00:05:08,621
-Okay.
-It does not matter how good
134
00:05:08,662 --> 00:05:11,123
your product is if you can't
sell it, right?
135
00:05:11,165 --> 00:05:14,085
So I came into it with the idea
136
00:05:14,126 --> 00:05:16,670
that I needed
to be able to sell it.
137
00:05:16,712 --> 00:05:19,548
And the prevailing wisdom
at the time
138
00:05:19,590 --> 00:05:22,426
was that Black actors
don't translate internationally.
139
00:05:22,468 --> 00:05:24,637
-Absolutely. Absolutely.
-Right?
140
00:05:24,678 --> 00:05:28,682
So the hard part is...
141
00:05:28,724 --> 00:05:31,894
So technically at the time,
142
00:05:31,936 --> 00:05:35,481
on paper, that was true...
-Mm-hmm.
143
00:05:35,523 --> 00:05:38,192
Analytics showed that there --
-Analytics showed, yes.
144
00:05:38,234 --> 00:05:40,486
-There was a case
behind the reason.
145
00:05:40,528 --> 00:05:45,449
-That the idea that Black
actors --
146
00:05:45,491 --> 00:05:49,036
the films
and our television shows
147
00:05:49,078 --> 00:05:51,831
didn't travel as well as...
-Absolutely.
148
00:05:51,872 --> 00:05:56,335
-...as, you know, a show
with a white American lead.
149
00:05:56,377 --> 00:05:58,504
-Mm-hmm.
150
00:05:58,546 --> 00:06:01,424
-For me, because I had traveled
with the music,
151
00:06:01,465 --> 00:06:03,175
I knew that
the audience was there.
152
00:06:03,217 --> 00:06:06,178
So I was like,
Why is our --
153
00:06:06,220 --> 00:06:08,472
-They're coming to see my shows.
-Yes, exactly.
154
00:06:08,514 --> 00:06:10,015
-Coming to see the shows.
I've been there.
155
00:06:10,057 --> 00:06:11,559
I just came from Germany.
-Yeah, I just came from Germany.
156
00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:14,645
So I know that people
will come out.
157
00:06:14,687 --> 00:06:16,105
What is the issue?
158
00:06:16,147 --> 00:06:20,443
And at the end of the day,
there were two things I saw.
159
00:06:20,484 --> 00:06:23,571
One...
160
00:06:23,612 --> 00:06:25,698
Black folks
didn't want to travel.
161
00:06:25,740 --> 00:06:27,700
I was talking to actors
and stuff like that.
162
00:06:27,742 --> 00:06:32,371
And there was a -- there was
a reluctance on our part
163
00:06:32,413 --> 00:06:36,959
to get on the plane
and go 14 hours to, you know...
164
00:06:37,001 --> 00:06:39,712
-Said country, to do --
-Said country to walk
165
00:06:39,754 --> 00:06:42,840
on red carpets, right?
So it was --
166
00:06:42,882 --> 00:06:46,927
it was a little bit
of resistance on the part
167
00:06:46,969 --> 00:06:49,555
of Black actors in general,
168
00:06:49,597 --> 00:06:52,558
but that compacted by the idea
169
00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:56,771
that studios didn't believe in
in a Black actor
170
00:06:56,812 --> 00:07:01,734
to sell in the markets, that
was, like, central in my career
171
00:07:01,776 --> 00:07:03,069
when I first went out.
172
00:07:03,110 --> 00:07:06,781
I hated hearing
that I couldn't be in the movie
173
00:07:06,822 --> 00:07:09,158
because it was
a $120 million movie,
174
00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:12,787
and Black actors aren't gonna
be able to cover the...
175
00:07:12,828 --> 00:07:14,580
-Well, you just --
what you just said,
176
00:07:14,622 --> 00:07:18,084
I mean, is information needed --
needed information, right?
177
00:07:18,125 --> 00:07:20,419
And the idea that, okay,
178
00:07:20,461 --> 00:07:22,421
we weren't given
the opportunities matched
179
00:07:22,463 --> 00:07:24,298
and mirrored
with the opportunity
180
00:07:24,340 --> 00:07:26,634
that some were turning down.
-Absolutely.
181
00:07:26,675 --> 00:07:29,595
-Here's the thing that really,
like...
182
00:07:29,637 --> 00:07:31,347
that really fucking amazes me.
183
00:07:31,389 --> 00:07:32,973
You know, when you think
about the world
184
00:07:33,015 --> 00:07:35,226
of marketing and promotion
at this level, at this tier --
185
00:07:35,267 --> 00:07:36,769
I'm not talking about now.
186
00:07:36,811 --> 00:07:39,772
I think there's other
talented actors and actresses
187
00:07:39,814 --> 00:07:41,941
that you can add
to the conversation,
188
00:07:41,982 --> 00:07:46,821
but for your space
at the time of crazy success,
189
00:07:46,862 --> 00:07:50,741
of crazy trajectory --
you and Tom.
190
00:07:50,783 --> 00:07:52,618
-Yeah.
-It was you and Tom Cruise?
191
00:07:52,660 --> 00:07:54,662
Right? You and Tom Cruise --
192
00:07:54,704 --> 00:07:59,583
-Tom was the blueprint to me
for promotions.
193
00:07:59,625 --> 00:08:03,129
He took it most seriously.
And I watched him.
194
00:08:03,170 --> 00:08:06,132
I studied everything
that he did.
195
00:08:06,173 --> 00:08:09,593
And I was trying to outdo
Tom Cruise
196
00:08:09,635 --> 00:08:11,762
in terms of promotion.
-He's so fucking competitive.
197
00:08:11,804 --> 00:08:15,599
-Yeah. No, but you --
Tom is unbeatable, right?
198
00:08:15,641 --> 00:08:18,269
-He's the highest level.
-Yeah, yeah, yeah.
199
00:08:18,310 --> 00:08:19,812
-A close talker, too.
Tom talks like this.
200
00:08:19,854 --> 00:08:22,565
-Yeah. No, 'cause he'll make
sure -- he'll make --
201
00:08:22,606 --> 00:08:24,233
he just wants you to understand
what he said.
202
00:08:24,275 --> 00:08:26,068
-Let me get it. Listen, Kevin.
203
00:08:26,110 --> 00:08:27,862
We're gonna do it.
But I need to --
204
00:08:27,903 --> 00:08:29,739
Are you committed?
Are you committed?
205
00:08:29,780 --> 00:08:32,450
-I need you to understand --
-Because if you are --
206
00:08:32,491 --> 00:08:34,785
Do you get it? Do you get it?
-Yes.
207
00:08:34,827 --> 00:08:37,329
[ Both laugh ]
208
00:08:37,371 --> 00:08:38,831
-He does the laugh.
209
00:08:38,873 --> 00:08:41,584
I said it --
I said it respectfully.
210
00:08:41,625 --> 00:08:43,586
I said it respectfully to Tom,
and I was -- you know,
211
00:08:43,627 --> 00:08:45,046
'cause he scared me
when he first did it.
212
00:08:45,087 --> 00:08:46,547
-Yeah.
-He just comes in close.
213
00:08:46,589 --> 00:08:47,965
-He just wants you to feel
what he's talking about.
214
00:08:48,007 --> 00:08:49,633
-He gets in there.
-Yeah, he gets in there.
215
00:08:49,675 --> 00:08:51,010
-I said, "Whoa, Tom."
-Tom, it's like...
216
00:08:51,052 --> 00:08:53,387
-Yes, that's a lot.
-You just got to --
217
00:08:53,429 --> 00:08:55,306
And then you try to laugh
and cross your arms.
218
00:08:55,347 --> 00:08:57,641
-Back up. Back up.
219
00:08:57,683 --> 00:08:59,060
He'll come right back.
-He'll come right back in there.
220
00:08:59,101 --> 00:09:01,020
-He's fucking aggressive.
-Yeah. He gets it done.
221
00:09:01,062 --> 00:09:02,605
-That's the aggressive,
competitive nature.
222
00:09:02,646 --> 00:09:04,648
I'm glad that you see that, too.
-Yeah.
223
00:09:04,690 --> 00:09:06,192
-I'm glad you see that, too.
All love Tom.
224
00:09:06,233 --> 00:09:07,693
This is something that nobody
else will tell you.
225
00:09:07,735 --> 00:09:09,570
We're telling you,
it gets close.
226
00:09:09,612 --> 00:09:10,946
-It gets close.
-But it's a good --
227
00:09:10,988 --> 00:09:12,740
-It's a good close.
It's a good close.
228
00:09:12,782 --> 00:09:14,367
-It's a good thing.
-He stays fresh.
229
00:09:14,408 --> 00:09:15,868
He's always got some gum.
-Yeah. He wasn't hot.
230
00:09:15,910 --> 00:09:17,870
He didn't fuck me up.
-It's not hot, right.
231
00:09:17,912 --> 00:09:19,663
That's true. It's not hot.
-He didn't fuck me up.
232
00:09:19,705 --> 00:09:22,458
-It's room-temperature breath.
-It's just a very...
233
00:09:22,500 --> 00:09:25,878
-It's just close.
-...a very close, yes.
234
00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:28,964
-Yes.
-We got to take a break, guys.
235
00:09:29,006 --> 00:09:32,051
We got more "Hart to Heart"
when we come back after this.
236
00:09:32,093 --> 00:09:33,719
Don't go anywhere.
237
00:09:33,761 --> 00:09:39,809
**
238
00:09:43,145 --> 00:09:48,109
**
239
00:09:48,150 --> 00:09:50,319
-Welcome back. We're still here
with Will Smith.
240
00:09:50,361 --> 00:09:53,030
Yes, 'cause it's "Hart to Heart"
and that's what we're having.
241
00:09:53,072 --> 00:09:55,991
So, Will,
here's where I get curious.
242
00:09:56,033 --> 00:09:58,369
-Mm-hmm.
-When the movies started to get
243
00:09:58,411 --> 00:10:00,162
bigger, the ideas got bigger.
-Yep.
244
00:10:00,204 --> 00:10:04,208
-At this point, who are you
searching for to help you,
245
00:10:04,250 --> 00:10:09,046
like, really execute
in a task of bigger, better?
246
00:10:09,088 --> 00:10:11,549
Like, you know,
the "Independence Day"
247
00:10:11,590 --> 00:10:13,342
was one tier.
Then after that, you got
248
00:10:13,384 --> 00:10:16,137
the world of "Men in Black."
Then you got -- I mean,
249
00:10:16,178 --> 00:10:18,514
the movies just keep growing.
250
00:10:18,556 --> 00:10:20,224
Was this a Will Smith engine?
251
00:10:20,266 --> 00:10:23,602
Was this the team of managers,
agents, or whatever?
252
00:10:23,644 --> 00:10:25,646
Who acted as the driving force
253
00:10:25,688 --> 00:10:27,481
in searching
for the right material
254
00:10:27,523 --> 00:10:29,650
to help you along
that trajectory?
255
00:10:29,692 --> 00:10:34,572
-So, you know, my manager
J.L., James Lassiter.
256
00:10:34,613 --> 00:10:38,325
J.L. was the arbiter of taste.
257
00:10:38,367 --> 00:10:40,494
-Okay.
-So in the heyday,
258
00:10:40,536 --> 00:10:44,665
the 10 movies I made
at the top of my career,
259
00:10:44,707 --> 00:10:48,753
J.L. was choosing the films.
-Wow.
260
00:10:48,794 --> 00:10:55,134
-And he just --
he just had an eye, you know?
261
00:10:55,176 --> 00:10:57,261
I didn't want to make
"Pursuit of Happyness."
262
00:10:57,303 --> 00:10:58,971
I didn't want to make "Ali."
263
00:10:59,013 --> 00:11:00,639
-Get the fuck out of here.
-Yeah.
264
00:11:00,681 --> 00:11:03,100
And J.L. was pushing on --
265
00:11:03,142 --> 00:11:04,769
you know, J.L. picked
"Men in Black."
266
00:11:04,810 --> 00:11:07,104
I kind of understood
"Men in Black" a little bit,
267
00:11:07,146 --> 00:11:10,107
but I didn't want
to make "Men in Black."
268
00:11:10,149 --> 00:11:12,777
That was the next year
after Independence Day.
269
00:11:12,818 --> 00:11:15,696
So I didn't want to make
two alien movies back to back.
270
00:11:15,738 --> 00:11:17,865
-How did he convince you?
271
00:11:17,907 --> 00:11:21,285
-Steven Spielberg sent
a helicopter for me.
272
00:11:21,327 --> 00:11:23,746
-You're a goddamn liar.
-Yeah. I was in New York.
273
00:11:23,788 --> 00:11:25,790
-To talk to you?
-To talk to me. To talk.
274
00:11:25,831 --> 00:11:28,125
Like, it landed at his house,
275
00:11:28,167 --> 00:11:30,127
and he had me at, "Hello."
276
00:11:30,169 --> 00:11:32,922
-Well, yeah. You can't say no
after you get on a helicopter.
277
00:11:32,963 --> 00:11:34,465
-Yeah, you get off
the helicopter at his house.
278
00:11:34,507 --> 00:11:36,300
-And he says, "Come on..."
-And it was the first time
279
00:11:36,342 --> 00:11:39,970
I'd ever had lemonade
with carbonated water.
280
00:11:40,012 --> 00:11:41,806
-Yeah. You can't say no.
-You can't say no to that.
281
00:11:41,847 --> 00:11:45,059
It was lemonade
with carbonated water and --
282
00:11:45,101 --> 00:11:46,727
-But you had to act
like you had it before.
283
00:11:46,769 --> 00:11:48,604
-Yeah, yeah, yeah. I was like,
"This is regular."
284
00:11:48,646 --> 00:11:50,064
-That's good shit.
-Yeah.
285
00:11:50,106 --> 00:11:51,607
-Is this carbonated water?
-Just like my grandmother
286
00:11:51,649 --> 00:11:53,109
used to make.
-It was carbonated water?
287
00:11:53,150 --> 00:11:54,610
I would say that. Yeah.
-This is good shit, Steve.
288
00:11:54,652 --> 00:11:57,113
-But, yeah,
he flew me in and he --
289
00:11:57,154 --> 00:11:58,864
he said the coldest shit.
290
00:11:58,906 --> 00:12:01,659
He said -- He said, "Tell me --
291
00:12:01,701 --> 00:12:06,038
Tell me why you don't want
to make my movie."
292
00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:09,709
And he was the producer.
And I was like...
293
00:12:09,750 --> 00:12:11,627
And he put the ellipses
at the end.
294
00:12:11,669 --> 00:12:13,045
It was the dot, dot, dot.
295
00:12:13,087 --> 00:12:14,588
"Tell me why you don't want
to make my movie."
296
00:12:14,630 --> 00:12:15,923
It was the dot, dot, dot.
297
00:12:15,965 --> 00:12:18,634
If he had continued,
he would have said,
298
00:12:18,676 --> 00:12:20,553
"Joker, you know, I made 'Jaws,'
right?"
299
00:12:20,594 --> 00:12:22,888
-Yeah.
-"You know I made 'E.T.'"
300
00:12:22,930 --> 00:12:24,724
-Yeah, or motherfucker.
-He might have said --
301
00:12:24,765 --> 00:12:26,100
He's respectful.
302
00:12:26,142 --> 00:12:27,727
-"Why don't you want
to make my movie?"
303
00:12:27,768 --> 00:12:29,395
-"Why you don't
want to make..." [ Laughs ]
304
00:12:29,437 --> 00:12:31,480
-Like, a very low tone to it.
-And I walked in his house,
305
00:12:31,522 --> 00:12:35,317
and he had the "Jaws" poster,
and the -- what is it --
306
00:12:35,359 --> 00:12:37,445
the "Jurassic Park."
He had everything.
307
00:12:37,486 --> 00:12:40,781
So it was just so I would know.
-What's your answer?
308
00:12:40,823 --> 00:12:42,867
-What's my answer?
And I was like, you know,
309
00:12:42,908 --> 00:12:44,952
I didn't want to make
two alien movies back to back.
310
00:12:44,994 --> 00:12:47,329
I didn't want to go from
"Independence Day"
311
00:12:47,371 --> 00:12:49,206
to "Men in Black," you know.
312
00:12:49,248 --> 00:12:52,043
I felt like I would -- I didn't
want to be the alien guy.
313
00:12:52,084 --> 00:12:55,421
-But I mean, honestly,
it's a worry that we have,
314
00:12:55,463 --> 00:12:59,050
because I think the biggest
thing that we think about
315
00:12:59,091 --> 00:13:01,844
while having a moment
at the top is,
316
00:13:01,886 --> 00:13:03,054
well, how do you stay
at the top?
317
00:13:03,095 --> 00:13:04,847
And I don't want
to make mistakes.
318
00:13:04,889 --> 00:13:06,557
I definitely don't want
to keep doing the right thing.
319
00:13:06,599 --> 00:13:08,684
I don't want them to think that
this is the only thing I can do.
320
00:13:08,726 --> 00:13:11,979
I want to expand and do more.
So I understand that logic.
321
00:13:12,021 --> 00:13:14,231
I understand
why you would be worried.
322
00:13:14,273 --> 00:13:16,400
I mean, for him,
it's just basically like,
323
00:13:16,442 --> 00:13:18,652
"I'm Steven Spielberg
and you're protected."
324
00:13:18,694 --> 00:13:20,279
-Yeah.
-"I don't make bad stuff."
325
00:13:20,321 --> 00:13:23,616
-Yeah. And that goes back to
one of the earlier questions.
326
00:13:23,657 --> 00:13:28,079
It's like...it's a team sport.
327
00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,206
You know? And...
328
00:13:30,247 --> 00:13:32,958
there's a couple of
really critical things.
329
00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:35,961
It's like,
who is at your right hand?
330
00:13:36,003 --> 00:13:40,424
Like, who your friends are,
who you're with every day
331
00:13:40,466 --> 00:13:43,302
will make or break your dreams.
332
00:13:43,344 --> 00:13:48,432
You cannot build a career
333
00:13:48,474 --> 00:13:51,268
and you probably -- you know,
334
00:13:51,310 --> 00:13:53,187
I'm gonna speak specifically
from my experience,
335
00:13:53,229 --> 00:13:57,775
but you probably can't do
much of anything in this life
336
00:13:57,817 --> 00:14:00,736
at a high level
without a rock-solid team.
337
00:14:00,778 --> 00:14:03,280
-In your rise of it,
338
00:14:03,322 --> 00:14:05,991
did you see that,
or were you the individual
339
00:14:06,033 --> 00:14:08,994
that felt you were doing it
by yourself?
340
00:14:09,036 --> 00:14:11,580
-No, I never really thought
I was doing it by myself.
341
00:14:11,622 --> 00:14:14,625
I knew that I had to be
the tip of the spear
342
00:14:14,667 --> 00:14:16,293
in terms of discipline.
343
00:14:16,335 --> 00:14:20,881
I knew I had to be the tip of
the spear in terms of direction.
344
00:14:20,923 --> 00:14:25,094
But I always knew
that I needed my squad.
345
00:14:25,136 --> 00:14:28,013
You know, we've talked a lot
about, you know,
346
00:14:28,055 --> 00:14:30,057
our parents.
-Absolutely.
347
00:14:30,099 --> 00:14:32,143
-And, you know,
my father was military.
348
00:14:32,184 --> 00:14:35,813
So it was very clear to me
that there was a commander.
349
00:14:35,855 --> 00:14:37,314
So the commander is in charge.
350
00:14:37,356 --> 00:14:39,442
But if you ain't got
nothing to command,
351
00:14:39,483 --> 00:14:42,903
nobody is willing to follow you,
you got nothing, you know.
352
00:14:42,945 --> 00:14:46,615
So I was very military-minded
in that early part.
353
00:14:46,657 --> 00:14:48,159
I remember the first --
354
00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:49,910
Do you remember
the first time you came
355
00:14:49,952 --> 00:14:51,120
and we worked out together?
356
00:14:51,162 --> 00:14:54,123
-Listen, I'll fucking...
-[ Laughs ]
357
00:14:54,165 --> 00:14:56,000
-That was in --
That was, like, the heyday.
358
00:14:56,042 --> 00:14:58,335
-I'll give you an example,
right? So, Charlie Mack --
359
00:14:58,377 --> 00:15:00,796
for those who do not know,
Charlie Mack
360
00:15:00,838 --> 00:15:02,465
used to be Will's security.
-Yeah.
361
00:15:02,506 --> 00:15:06,343
-And Charlie Mack basically
has been in Will's life forever.
362
00:15:06,385 --> 00:15:07,678
Charlie tells me --
363
00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:09,055
this is in, like, the beginning
of my career --
364
00:15:09,096 --> 00:15:10,806
"Kev, you got to get to Will.
365
00:15:10,848 --> 00:15:12,099
You got to get around Will."
366
00:15:12,141 --> 00:15:13,392
You know, everybody
who knows Charlie Mac,
367
00:15:13,434 --> 00:15:14,894
they know Charlie Mack
does his best --
368
00:15:14,935 --> 00:15:16,020
-"Kev, Kev, Kev, Kev,
I'm telling you,
369
00:15:16,062 --> 00:15:17,563
I'm telling you,
I'm telling you.
370
00:15:17,605 --> 00:15:19,732
You got to be around Will."
-You just got to show up.
371
00:15:19,774 --> 00:15:21,108
-"I'm just saying.
Just show up.
372
00:15:21,150 --> 00:15:23,194
You just got to be here.
You just got to be --
373
00:15:23,235 --> 00:15:24,862
You got to be -- You got
to be -- You got to be --
374
00:15:24,904 --> 00:15:26,989
You got to be near
that level of greatness.
375
00:15:27,031 --> 00:15:28,449
And if you spend time --
if you spend time --
376
00:15:28,491 --> 00:15:30,117
I'm saying -- what the fuck
is you laughing at?
377
00:15:30,159 --> 00:15:31,452
I'm I'm trying to help you.
I'm trying to help you."
378
00:15:31,494 --> 00:15:34,914
-He's filming in New York.
Charlie calls me.
379
00:15:34,955 --> 00:15:36,624
"Kev, Will is doing
'Men in Black.'
380
00:15:36,665 --> 00:15:39,752
They're filming it in New York.
You got to get down here.
381
00:15:39,794 --> 00:15:42,380
You got to come to set.
The director, everybody cool.
382
00:15:42,421 --> 00:15:43,964
But you just got
to get some of that energy.
383
00:15:44,006 --> 00:15:45,674
You got to get his energy.
I'm telling you.
384
00:15:45,716 --> 00:15:48,302
Shit just gonna happen."
385
00:15:48,344 --> 00:15:49,887
All right, I mean...
386
00:15:49,929 --> 00:15:51,180
Okay. Do you want me
just to come?
387
00:15:51,222 --> 00:15:52,807
Whatever.
I'll figure it out.
388
00:15:52,848 --> 00:15:54,225
The first time I do,
we come to New York.
389
00:15:54,266 --> 00:15:56,227
That's one of the first times.
I see you on set.
390
00:15:56,268 --> 00:15:58,145
Wow. This is when I got to see
your big trailer, right?
391
00:15:58,187 --> 00:16:00,106
It's two times
I visited you on set.
392
00:16:00,147 --> 00:16:01,649
Oh, man,
this is dope as fuck.
393
00:16:01,691 --> 00:16:04,610
Look at this trailer.
Goddamn double-decker trailer.
394
00:16:04,652 --> 00:16:06,237
Holy shit. You had a busy day.
395
00:16:06,278 --> 00:16:08,239
So we talked for a second.
You were right back out.
396
00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,408
Couldn't really do much.
I go visit you on set again.
397
00:16:10,449 --> 00:16:12,535
Will's got a trainer
with him now.
398
00:16:12,576 --> 00:16:15,371
Things have changed. He's got
a personal trainer on set.
399
00:16:15,413 --> 00:16:17,164
By the way,
this is where I got the idea
400
00:16:17,206 --> 00:16:19,041
to get a personal trainer
and have him travel with me.
401
00:16:19,083 --> 00:16:20,418
-Darrell Foster. Darrell Foster.
402
00:16:20,459 --> 00:16:22,878
-Darrell Foster is in Will's
gym trailer.
403
00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:24,380
Will has a gym trailer.
404
00:16:24,422 --> 00:16:26,424
I got the idea to get
a gym trailer from fucking Will.
405
00:16:26,465 --> 00:16:28,259
You're right.
I need a gym trailer. Right?
406
00:16:28,300 --> 00:16:30,302
Okay. Iron sharpens iron.
This is what I need.
407
00:16:30,344 --> 00:16:33,097
This is what the fuck Will had.
I got to get the same thing.
408
00:16:33,139 --> 00:16:36,934
Will, unbeknownst to him,
his guy's like,
409
00:16:36,976 --> 00:16:38,602
"Yo, go in there
in the gym trailer.
410
00:16:38,644 --> 00:16:40,271
Will in there.
He's just fucking around."
411
00:16:40,312 --> 00:16:42,857
We go in the gym trailer.
The trainer's in there.
412
00:16:42,898 --> 00:16:45,776
He hit the bell. Bing!
413
00:16:45,818 --> 00:16:47,153
"What's up, man? How you doing?"
414
00:16:47,194 --> 00:16:50,614
"Hey, go. Y'all in or out?"
415
00:16:50,656 --> 00:16:52,783
"I don't understand."
416
00:16:52,825 --> 00:16:54,368
"Well, you in or out?
You come in here,
417
00:16:54,410 --> 00:16:56,871
you're in my sanctuary.
You don't fuck around.
418
00:16:56,912 --> 00:17:00,166
Either you came to work or you
came to fucking do nothing.
419
00:17:00,207 --> 00:17:02,793
You won't do nothing
in my house."
420
00:17:02,835 --> 00:17:04,420
-[ Laughs ]
421
00:17:04,462 --> 00:17:07,465
-"I came to see --
I came to see Will.
422
00:17:07,506 --> 00:17:09,216
Charlie Mack told me
come and see Will."
423
00:17:09,258 --> 00:17:10,634
"You doing the set or not?!"
424
00:17:10,676 --> 00:17:14,096
"Yeah. Yeah. I'll put it up.
Yeah, I, uh...
425
00:17:14,138 --> 00:17:16,223
I get down. I get one in."
426
00:17:16,265 --> 00:17:17,892
I go struggling with a set.
427
00:17:17,933 --> 00:17:19,977
"Yeah. Okay.
We got a bitch in here!"
428
00:17:20,019 --> 00:17:22,646
-[ Laughs ]
429
00:17:22,688 --> 00:17:27,068
-"Who the fuck is this?
Who -- Who is he?"
430
00:17:27,109 --> 00:17:30,112
I mean, literally, I ended up
doing a fucking workout.
431
00:17:30,154 --> 00:17:31,947
I ended up doing a workout.
-Yes.
432
00:17:31,989 --> 00:17:36,118
-I just came to tell Will hi.
You see me after.
433
00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:37,953
You like, "Yeah. Kev,
he don't fuck around."
434
00:17:37,995 --> 00:17:41,832
-No, no, no. Darr--
-Intense.
435
00:17:41,874 --> 00:17:43,125
-I didn't know
if you was ever gonna
436
00:17:43,167 --> 00:17:44,502
speak to me again after that.
437
00:17:44,543 --> 00:17:46,921
-No, I didn't know
what the fuck that was.
438
00:17:46,962 --> 00:17:48,506
I was really -- I was upset.
Like, I left.
439
00:17:48,547 --> 00:17:50,633
Like, I left, you know?
I know I can't beat him.
440
00:17:50,674 --> 00:17:52,385
But in the car, I was like,
"Who the fuck he think
441
00:17:52,426 --> 00:17:56,180
he was talking to,
calling me a bitch?"
442
00:17:56,222 --> 00:17:58,015
'Cause I couldn't do
the goddamn weight.
443
00:17:58,057 --> 00:17:59,809
-Oh, man.
-He didn't even ask me how much
444
00:17:59,850 --> 00:18:01,519
I could bench. He just --
"Get down."
445
00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:03,437
I go, "That's a lot of --
I don't know if those plates
446
00:18:03,479 --> 00:18:05,147
right for me.
I think that's Will.
447
00:18:05,189 --> 00:18:08,359
Them plates is for Will.
They're not for me."
448
00:18:08,401 --> 00:18:11,487
Well, I hate to even stop
or break it up, but I have to.
449
00:18:11,529 --> 00:18:13,656
Will, you know it's my show.
And unfortunately, in this show,
450
00:18:13,698 --> 00:18:16,283
we have to pay bills.
Guys, don't go anywhere.
451
00:18:16,325 --> 00:18:18,577
We got more "Hart to Heart"
coming back after this.
452
00:18:18,619 --> 00:18:19,954
Please!
453
00:18:19,995 --> 00:18:27,128
**
454
00:18:29,964 --> 00:18:35,344
**
455
00:18:35,386 --> 00:18:36,929
-Welcome back
to "Hart to Heart."
456
00:18:36,971 --> 00:18:38,222
I'm sitting here
with Will Smith.
457
00:18:38,264 --> 00:18:40,391
So, Will, coming to those
movie sets, man,
458
00:18:40,433 --> 00:18:43,310
like, I saw your approach
to work.
459
00:18:43,352 --> 00:18:45,396
-Yep.
-I saw what you had set up,
460
00:18:45,438 --> 00:18:47,440
and I realized your team --
so to get back on track,
461
00:18:47,481 --> 00:18:49,108
as you're talking about
the team...
462
00:18:49,150 --> 00:18:50,776
-Yep.
-...your team has always
463
00:18:50,818 --> 00:18:52,903
been significant, and by the
way, that team hasn't changed.
464
00:18:52,945 --> 00:18:55,823
Like, you got a lot
of the same fucking personnel.
465
00:18:55,865 --> 00:18:58,743
They've been a part
of your journey throughout.
466
00:18:58,784 --> 00:19:00,703
-Yeah.
-So hearing about J. and making
467
00:19:00,745 --> 00:19:03,497
the decisions on these scripts
and hearing you say that
468
00:19:03,539 --> 00:19:04,665
you didn't want to do
certain scripts...
469
00:19:04,707 --> 00:19:06,459
-I know, yeah.
-...is unreal.
470
00:19:06,500 --> 00:19:09,336
What was the turning point
for "Pursuit of Happyness"?
471
00:19:09,378 --> 00:19:14,300
-There was a "20/20" piece --
oh, the TV show "20/20."
472
00:19:14,341 --> 00:19:15,634
It was like "60 Minutes."
473
00:19:15,676 --> 00:19:21,182
And they did a piece
about Chris Gardner.
474
00:19:21,223 --> 00:19:22,641
So I had read the script,
475
00:19:22,683 --> 00:19:26,270
and I really couldn't get it
in the script.
476
00:19:26,312 --> 00:19:27,813
And then when I saw
the "20/20" piece,
477
00:19:27,855 --> 00:19:30,566
it was like you could see
the structure of the story,
478
00:19:30,608 --> 00:19:33,402
the beginning, middle,
and end of the story
479
00:19:33,444 --> 00:19:35,279
in that small section.
480
00:19:35,321 --> 00:19:40,159
And then I met
with Chris Gardner and...
481
00:19:41,952 --> 00:19:44,580
There's something about
482
00:19:44,622 --> 00:19:48,084
human beings who have suffered.
483
00:19:48,125 --> 00:19:52,421
-Mm-hmm.
-Right? And overcome.
484
00:19:52,463 --> 00:19:54,423
-Okay.
-You know, Chris Gardner
485
00:19:54,465 --> 00:19:56,425
is one of those people.
-Seen rock bottom.
486
00:19:56,467 --> 00:20:00,179
-That rock bottom --
-Doesn't get any lower
487
00:20:00,221 --> 00:20:01,931
than his version of rock bottom.
-Yes.
488
00:20:01,972 --> 00:20:03,849
-And making it out of that.
489
00:20:03,891 --> 00:20:07,353
-He took me to the bathroom
in Oakland
490
00:20:07,395 --> 00:20:09,271
where he had to sleep
with his son.
491
00:20:09,313 --> 00:20:10,773
-Wow. Wow.
492
00:20:10,815 --> 00:20:13,693
-And when I stood
in that space with him,
493
00:20:13,734 --> 00:20:18,239
and it was like the ghosts
jumped in my body.
494
00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:21,325
And then I was like, "Got it."
495
00:20:21,367 --> 00:20:23,786
-Did you -- This is before
making the decision?
496
00:20:23,828 --> 00:20:26,455
This is him talking to you
about the journey, the story?
497
00:20:26,497 --> 00:20:27,998
-Talking about it,
showing me around.
498
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:32,420
And, you know, I met his son
and, you know, it's like,
499
00:20:32,461 --> 00:20:36,382
you know, people who have
suffered to that level
500
00:20:36,424 --> 00:20:40,469
have a secret, you know?
And...
501
00:20:40,511 --> 00:20:45,516
I could tell he had a secret
for me to learn in that process.
502
00:20:45,558 --> 00:20:48,894
And, you know,
at that point in my career,
503
00:20:48,936 --> 00:20:53,274
I had discovered that
I don't work for money.
504
00:20:53,315 --> 00:20:55,484
I work to learn.
-Wow. Okay.
505
00:20:55,526 --> 00:20:57,236
-I work to grow.
-Okay.
506
00:20:57,278 --> 00:20:59,530
-I work to meet people.
507
00:20:59,572 --> 00:21:01,574
I work to expand and to evolve.
508
00:21:01,615 --> 00:21:04,994
And I trust that
if I keep my mind
509
00:21:05,036 --> 00:21:10,666
in the space of great humans
that have something to teach
510
00:21:10,708 --> 00:21:14,462
and I work in that space,
I trust that money and accolades
511
00:21:14,503 --> 00:21:15,921
and all of that stuff
will follow.
512
00:21:15,963 --> 00:21:19,300
-What did you feel you had
to do to say, "Okay,
513
00:21:19,341 --> 00:21:21,677
I now need to raise
the bar for myself.
514
00:21:21,719 --> 00:21:24,847
I need to go past this level.
515
00:21:24,889 --> 00:21:26,974
To get here,
I got to unlock this"?
516
00:21:27,016 --> 00:21:31,270
What did you do and where
did you go to to unlock that?
517
00:21:31,312 --> 00:21:36,150
-So I am a serious,
518
00:21:36,192 --> 00:21:39,028
devoted studier.
-Very, very.
519
00:21:39,070 --> 00:21:41,906
-Right? So, you know,
520
00:21:41,947 --> 00:21:46,869
I probably -- I read,
you know, 12 books a year.
521
00:21:46,911 --> 00:21:48,204
-A year?!
-Yeah.
522
00:21:48,245 --> 00:21:51,248
-Goddamn!
-Yeah. Yeah, it's --
523
00:21:51,290 --> 00:21:52,833
-I don't have none.
-Huh?
524
00:21:52,875 --> 00:21:54,877
Well, books on tape count.
Books on tape count.
525
00:21:54,919 --> 00:21:56,379
-Now, I listen.
-I know you do that. I can tell.
526
00:21:56,420 --> 00:21:57,922
-I listen.
-I know you do that.
527
00:21:57,963 --> 00:21:59,590
-What do you mean you can tell?
What does that mean?
528
00:21:59,632 --> 00:22:00,925
-Well, you know, it's just,
you have a book --
529
00:22:00,966 --> 00:22:02,843
-What the fuck just happened,
Will?
530
00:22:02,885 --> 00:22:05,471
-I'm just saying, you look like
a book-on-tape kind of guy.
531
00:22:05,513 --> 00:22:08,599
I can just feel it.
I can see it.
532
00:22:08,641 --> 00:22:10,726
It's not a bad thing.
You're listening --
533
00:22:10,768 --> 00:22:12,019
-Doesn't sound like
a good thing.
534
00:22:12,061 --> 00:22:13,396
-No, it's a great thing.
535
00:22:13,437 --> 00:22:14,730
It's like you're consuming
the material.
536
00:22:14,772 --> 00:22:16,440
-I fall asleep.
That's the only reason
537
00:22:16,482 --> 00:22:18,442
why I don't read. I fall asleep.
-I know. I can feel that.
538
00:22:18,484 --> 00:22:19,902
I can feel that.
539
00:22:19,944 --> 00:22:21,821
I'm just saying I can sense it,
Kevin. I'm not --
540
00:22:21,862 --> 00:22:23,614
Why are you making it a thing?
You're making it --
541
00:22:23,656 --> 00:22:25,116
-I'm not making it a thing.
It just doesn't sound like
542
00:22:25,157 --> 00:22:26,659
you're coming...
543
00:22:26,701 --> 00:22:28,244
-I'm saying...
-It's fine.
544
00:22:28,285 --> 00:22:30,037
-...I can tell you're
a book-on-tape kind of guy.
545
00:22:30,079 --> 00:22:33,165
Kevin, why are you --
-'Cause I'm a bitch.
546
00:22:33,207 --> 00:22:34,917
'Cause that's what you think.
547
00:22:34,959 --> 00:22:37,461
This stems back to the trailer.
It stems back to the trainer.
548
00:22:37,503 --> 00:22:39,463
-At some point...
-It's okay.
549
00:22:39,505 --> 00:22:40,715
-...you're gonna have to
look at yourself.
550
00:22:40,756 --> 00:22:42,007
-Okay. It's all right.
It's fine.
551
00:22:42,049 --> 00:22:43,884
-You're projecting now.
-I'll read a book
552
00:22:43,926 --> 00:22:45,761
starting today,
and I'm gonna text you.
553
00:22:45,803 --> 00:22:47,346
I'm gonna text you
when I finish the book.
554
00:22:47,388 --> 00:22:48,973
I'm gonna get a book
under my belt.
555
00:22:49,014 --> 00:22:51,684
12 books a day, study,
information.
556
00:22:51,726 --> 00:22:57,106
You're a person that needs
and wants information.
557
00:22:57,148 --> 00:23:02,820
-I am crystal clear
that the quality of my life
558
00:23:02,862 --> 00:23:08,367
is going to be directly
a result of the quality
559
00:23:08,409 --> 00:23:10,953
of my understanding,
and, you know,
560
00:23:10,995 --> 00:23:18,669
the process in in my life
of trying to learn was --
561
00:23:18,711 --> 00:23:22,465
you know, probably I started
reading like that late.
562
00:23:22,506 --> 00:23:26,802
I didn't read an entire book
until I was 30.
563
00:23:26,844 --> 00:23:28,345
-Okay.
-Yeah. So that was, like --
564
00:23:28,387 --> 00:23:32,725
the first time I ever read
a book cover to cover, you know,
565
00:23:32,767 --> 00:23:35,603
I was 30 years old, you know?
566
00:23:35,644 --> 00:23:37,605
"Malcolm & Martin & America"
567
00:23:37,646 --> 00:23:41,692
and then "The Autobiography
of Malcolm X," you know.
568
00:23:41,734 --> 00:23:45,821
And so I started reading late.
I always studied,
569
00:23:45,863 --> 00:23:48,449
but I need -- I wanted
to hear people talk to me.
570
00:23:48,491 --> 00:23:52,328
So, you know, I was a guy that
I liked to listen to people.
571
00:23:52,370 --> 00:23:57,666
But when I started reading...
572
00:23:57,708 --> 00:24:01,670
a lot, my life really took off
and I could --
573
00:24:01,712 --> 00:24:04,173
I started to be able
to solve the problems
574
00:24:04,215 --> 00:24:06,801
of my life more effectively.
575
00:24:06,842 --> 00:24:09,053
And then I started a thing
where I would read something,
576
00:24:09,095 --> 00:24:13,015
and if I liked it, I would try
to make contact with the author.
577
00:24:13,057 --> 00:24:14,183
Right?
-Okay.
578
00:24:14,225 --> 00:24:15,726
-So, and then in that process,
579
00:24:15,768 --> 00:24:19,563
like, education is everything.
-Okay.
580
00:24:19,605 --> 00:24:23,234
-The solution
to every problem in life
581
00:24:23,275 --> 00:24:24,735
is in a book somewhere.
582
00:24:24,777 --> 00:24:27,738
Somebody experienced
the shit you experienced,
583
00:24:27,780 --> 00:24:31,784
and they wrote down
what they went through
584
00:24:31,826 --> 00:24:33,703
and the conclusions
they made from that.
585
00:24:33,744 --> 00:24:37,415
-Man, I mean, listen,
when you get to that place
586
00:24:37,456 --> 00:24:40,501
and you have clarity,
587
00:24:40,543 --> 00:24:42,378
I think that's when
the decisions
588
00:24:42,420 --> 00:24:44,338
that you're making
just get better.
589
00:24:44,380 --> 00:24:46,006
Right? I got clarity, too.
590
00:24:46,048 --> 00:24:48,551
And in this moment of clarity,
I'm gonna take a quick break.
591
00:24:48,592 --> 00:24:50,052
Guys, please don't go anywhere.
592
00:24:50,094 --> 00:24:52,221
We got more "Hart to Heart"
coming back after this.
593
00:24:52,263 --> 00:24:58,978
**
594
00:25:02,314 --> 00:25:06,777
**
595
00:25:06,819 --> 00:25:07,987
-Welcome back to
"Hart to Heart."
596
00:25:08,029 --> 00:25:09,780
I'm sitting here
with Will Smith,
597
00:25:09,822 --> 00:25:12,366
a.k.a. "Mr. Philadelphia."
598
00:25:12,408 --> 00:25:18,205
Will, so, you know, you're now
making the decision to study,
599
00:25:18,247 --> 00:25:23,377
research, do more,
understand more, right?
600
00:25:23,419 --> 00:25:26,672
-In the business, I read every
book on story structure.
601
00:25:26,714 --> 00:25:28,841
-Okay.
-So everything about
602
00:25:28,883 --> 00:25:30,885
the structuring of a movie,
you know?
603
00:25:30,926 --> 00:25:35,598
I put myself through,
you know, an intensive study
604
00:25:35,639 --> 00:25:39,185
around what makes a great movie.
-Damn.
605
00:25:39,226 --> 00:25:42,355
-And then behind a great movie,
it's a great story.
606
00:25:42,396 --> 00:25:45,733
Okay, so then what are
the components of a great story?
607
00:25:45,775 --> 00:25:47,068
And then I just, you know,
608
00:25:47,109 --> 00:25:50,112
went into the history
of the greatest
609
00:25:50,154 --> 00:25:53,908
and, you know,
most powerful stories ever told.
610
00:25:53,949 --> 00:25:56,118
And then I wanted to understand
why they were working.
611
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:57,912
What are the components?
-I mean, that's how you get
612
00:25:57,953 --> 00:26:00,539
to the foundation
of what makes the character...
613
00:26:00,581 --> 00:26:02,124
-Right.
-...the character, right?
614
00:26:02,166 --> 00:26:05,711
Like when you peeling back
layers and layers and layers
615
00:26:05,753 --> 00:26:08,214
and you're now finding
more energy,
616
00:26:08,255 --> 00:26:11,759
more joy and discovery
with each layer, right?
617
00:26:11,801 --> 00:26:13,844
-And the realization
that my work
618
00:26:13,886 --> 00:26:16,097
and my life aren't separate.
619
00:26:16,138 --> 00:26:19,934
As I explore Muhammad Ali,
for example,
620
00:26:19,975 --> 00:26:22,269
and I try to put on
Muhammad Ali,
621
00:26:22,311 --> 00:26:24,438
it's not just a character.
622
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:27,274
It's like I'm looking at myself.
623
00:26:27,316 --> 00:26:31,862
I'm seeing where
I'm not great like that,
624
00:26:31,904 --> 00:26:34,156
where I'm not brave like that.
625
00:26:34,198 --> 00:26:36,117
I'm seeing, okay,
I am funny like that.
626
00:26:36,158 --> 00:26:37,993
I do have those
kind of difficulties.
627
00:26:38,035 --> 00:26:40,955
Like, the exploration
of a character
628
00:26:40,996 --> 00:26:44,959
becomes the exploration
of self, right?
629
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,670
You're actually taking a good
look at yourself
630
00:26:47,712 --> 00:26:49,130
through the lens
of this character,
631
00:26:49,171 --> 00:26:51,340
through the lens
of this experience.
632
00:26:51,382 --> 00:26:54,135
-And while doing it,
it helps you not only grasp
633
00:26:54,176 --> 00:26:56,470
that thing that you're trying
to portray better,
634
00:26:56,512 --> 00:26:59,765
but at the same time,
you're able to do work on you.
635
00:26:59,807 --> 00:27:03,227
That's pretty fucking --
that's actually a very --
636
00:27:03,269 --> 00:27:06,814
a very interesting approach to
breaking down not just material,
637
00:27:06,856 --> 00:27:09,817
but the approach to you, like,
638
00:27:09,859 --> 00:27:11,652
embarking on
that character journey.
639
00:27:11,694 --> 00:27:13,154
-Yeah.
-Have you ever gotten to a point
640
00:27:13,195 --> 00:27:15,740
to where you felt
like you got lost?
641
00:27:15,781 --> 00:27:18,826
-Yeah, I've been lost two times.
-Which roles?
642
00:27:18,868 --> 00:27:21,704
-I got lost
in "Six Degrees of Separation,"
643
00:27:21,746 --> 00:27:23,664
-Mm.
644
00:27:23,706 --> 00:27:24,874
-and that was a bad loss.
645
00:27:24,915 --> 00:27:26,500
-Where are you
at in your career?
646
00:27:26,542 --> 00:27:28,335
-So this is before everything.
I did it before everything.
647
00:27:28,377 --> 00:27:31,338
Before "Bad Boys," everything.
-I'm saying, how old?
648
00:27:31,380 --> 00:27:34,550
I know the movie.
I'm saying how old were you?
649
00:27:34,592 --> 00:27:35,801
-22?
650
00:27:35,843 --> 00:27:37,219
-Okay.
-Maybe 22.
651
00:27:37,261 --> 00:27:38,971
-This is like first real movie
after the show?
652
00:27:39,013 --> 00:27:41,182
-Yeah. So this was --
it was during the show.
653
00:27:41,223 --> 00:27:44,810
It was during the time
of the show.
654
00:27:44,852 --> 00:27:47,104
And just right before
"Independence Day."
655
00:27:47,146 --> 00:27:49,106
-Okay.
-And, you know,
656
00:27:49,148 --> 00:27:52,026
it was Donald Sutherland
and Stockard Channing.
657
00:27:52,068 --> 00:27:54,528
-You were with the big dogs.
-Courtney B. Vance had done it
658
00:27:54,570 --> 00:27:58,074
on Broadway, you know,
so I was like, "I got to do it."
659
00:27:58,115 --> 00:28:00,534
So I went so deep
into the character.
660
00:28:00,576 --> 00:28:04,872
I spent nine days
without breaking character
661
00:28:04,914 --> 00:28:07,875
before we shot, right?
662
00:28:07,917 --> 00:28:10,961
-Is this because of you,
or is this coming from --
663
00:28:11,003 --> 00:28:12,505
-Well, that was me.
No, that was --
664
00:28:12,546 --> 00:28:14,882
-Someone like, "Yo, you got to
go deep. Go in character.
665
00:28:14,924 --> 00:28:16,300
Don't go in there
not in character."
666
00:28:16,342 --> 00:28:18,052
This is just you overthinking,
overworking.
667
00:28:18,094 --> 00:28:20,096
-Just being stupid.
Just doing too much.
668
00:28:20,137 --> 00:28:22,681
-Okay.
-And I went really far
669
00:28:22,723 --> 00:28:26,394
into the character and,
670
00:28:26,435 --> 00:28:30,106
like, I fell in love
with Stockard Channing,
671
00:28:30,147 --> 00:28:35,361
and I was like,
"Oh, no, the movie's over,
672
00:28:35,403 --> 00:28:37,321
and that feeling's
not going away."
673
00:28:37,363 --> 00:28:42,910
I was like -- and that's when
I realized that you're --
674
00:28:42,952 --> 00:28:47,248
What you call you,
if you do something else
675
00:28:47,289 --> 00:28:51,210
long enough,
your mind will twist.
676
00:28:51,252 --> 00:28:52,753
-Conform?
-Like, you can -- Yeah.
677
00:28:52,795 --> 00:28:54,880
It'll conform to that.
-Convince yourself of anything.
678
00:28:54,922 --> 00:28:58,884
-You sit in front of somebody
looking long enough, you know,
679
00:28:58,926 --> 00:29:00,720
and your lines are,
"How much I love you" --
680
00:29:00,761 --> 00:29:02,138
-You're not bad.
-[ Laughs ]
681
00:29:02,179 --> 00:29:04,890
-You know, you're all right.
-You know?
682
00:29:04,932 --> 00:29:06,851
-This day four.
I think I do love you.
683
00:29:06,892 --> 00:29:10,563
-You know what? I'ma sit closer.
I'ma sit closer.
684
00:29:10,604 --> 00:29:12,064
You know? [ Laughs ]
685
00:29:12,106 --> 00:29:16,902
But, like, I went far.
I went far in "Six Degrees."
686
00:29:16,944 --> 00:29:19,030
And coming back
to "The Fresh Prince,"
687
00:29:19,071 --> 00:29:24,452
I actually forgot
how to play Will.
688
00:29:24,493 --> 00:29:28,831
-Wow. Wow.
-And Alfonso was like,
689
00:29:28,873 --> 00:29:31,292
"What the fuck
is wrong with you?"
690
00:29:31,333 --> 00:29:33,044
I was like,
"What do you mean, Alfonso?"
691
00:29:33,085 --> 00:29:35,212
-Oh, shit.
-Like, but I literally
692
00:29:35,254 --> 00:29:38,215
couldn't hear.
I had twisted my voice so long.
693
00:29:38,257 --> 00:29:41,343
It was like I lost how I walked.
-Yeah.
694
00:29:41,385 --> 00:29:44,055
-I had walked, you know,
for three and a half months
695
00:29:44,096 --> 00:29:45,848
like that character,
and I went so hard,
696
00:29:45,890 --> 00:29:48,893
and it was like --
it was actually scary
697
00:29:48,934 --> 00:29:51,645
that you can slip away
like that.
698
00:29:51,687 --> 00:29:53,731
-And by the way,
you know, you --
699
00:29:53,773 --> 00:29:55,191
I've heard about these things.
700
00:29:55,232 --> 00:29:58,027
I've -- I can't say
that I've experienced them
701
00:29:58,069 --> 00:30:00,988
because I've never dove
that deep into.
702
00:30:01,030 --> 00:30:03,616
-You will.
-But I've heard about the side
703
00:30:03,657 --> 00:30:05,326
of like, yo, you get lost
and then you got to,
704
00:30:05,368 --> 00:30:07,995
like you said,
find your way back to
705
00:30:08,037 --> 00:30:09,205
what's considered to be normal.
706
00:30:09,246 --> 00:30:10,664
Okay.
"Six Degrees of Separation."
707
00:30:10,706 --> 00:30:11,916
-"Emancipation."
708
00:30:11,957 --> 00:30:14,543
I went too far
in "Emancipation."
709
00:30:14,585 --> 00:30:16,087
-Really?
-Yeah.
710
00:30:16,128 --> 00:30:18,381
-In research and everything?
711
00:30:18,422 --> 00:30:21,675
-Just bringing it up,
I start to get teary.
712
00:30:21,717 --> 00:30:24,136
-Okay.
-Right?
713
00:30:24,178 --> 00:30:28,182
It's like I wanted to --
714
00:30:28,224 --> 00:30:31,894
I wanted to feel
the degradation of slavery.
715
00:30:31,936 --> 00:30:34,105
-Okay.
-And I just, I went --
716
00:30:34,146 --> 00:30:39,360
I went too far in it.
And it was -- it's like...
717
00:30:39,402 --> 00:30:43,531
you know, the level
of human brutality.
718
00:30:43,572 --> 00:30:45,366
-Yeah.
-What we will do to each other.
719
00:30:45,408 --> 00:30:46,701
And, you know,
I had the metal --
720
00:30:46,742 --> 00:30:49,370
I had the chains on my neck.
721
00:30:49,412 --> 00:30:54,083
And we were working and,
you know, so I was like,
722
00:30:54,125 --> 00:30:56,377
"I want the real weight.
Put the real weight of them.
723
00:30:56,419 --> 00:30:58,295
I want the real chains,
all of that."
724
00:30:58,337 --> 00:31:01,966
So they got, you know, old...
-Yeah.
725
00:31:02,007 --> 00:31:06,220
-...chains, and so they put it
on my neck.
726
00:31:06,262 --> 00:31:08,389
And they were
fitting it for size.
727
00:31:08,431 --> 00:31:11,392
And I'm standing there,
and the prop master
728
00:31:11,434 --> 00:31:14,478
went to put the key in,
and the key didn't work.
729
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:16,772
-Panic.
-And I was like --
730
00:31:16,814 --> 00:31:19,734
And I was like, "Oh, no."
I was like, "Will, relax."
731
00:31:19,775 --> 00:31:23,279
And I'm standing there,
and they're running around
732
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,489
and they couldn't
get me out of it.
733
00:31:25,531 --> 00:31:27,450
And I'm standing there
and those chains, dude.
734
00:31:27,491 --> 00:31:29,326
-Jesus Christ.
-And like that -- right on
735
00:31:29,368 --> 00:31:31,037
that hyperventilating edge.
736
00:31:31,078 --> 00:31:32,329
And I'm okay. I'm okay.
737
00:31:32,371 --> 00:31:34,832
And they found it
and they got it out.
738
00:31:34,874 --> 00:31:37,752
And I was like, you know...
739
00:31:37,793 --> 00:31:40,421
Peter was the character.
740
00:31:40,463 --> 00:31:44,300
He didn't -- nobody was running
around to get him out, you know?
741
00:31:44,341 --> 00:31:47,011
And I just kept falling
deeper and deeper
742
00:31:47,053 --> 00:31:50,347
into that understanding, like...
743
00:31:50,389 --> 00:31:56,479
you know,
coming face to face with...
744
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,731
-That!
-...that level of atrocity.
745
00:31:58,773 --> 00:32:00,941
And we're out in the scenes
and, you know, it was,
746
00:32:00,983 --> 00:32:04,945
you know, getting called
"nigger" a hundred times a day,
747
00:32:04,987 --> 00:32:06,989
you know, by very good actors.
748
00:32:07,031 --> 00:32:09,116
-Yeah, by day --
-Very, very good actors,
749
00:32:09,158 --> 00:32:11,619
exquisite performers,
exquisite performers.
750
00:32:11,660 --> 00:32:13,496
-You be like, "Hey, man."
-Yeah. [ Laughs ]
751
00:32:13,537 --> 00:32:15,456
-"Are you --
Are we still acting?"
752
00:32:15,498 --> 00:32:18,292
-I was like, "Hey, hey!
Cut, cut."
753
00:32:18,334 --> 00:32:20,461
-"Cut. Can I talk to you
for a second? You..."
754
00:32:20,503 --> 00:32:22,922
-Hey. [ Snaps fingers ]
-"Your 'niggers' have gotten
755
00:32:22,963 --> 00:32:24,423
sharper since we..."
-Get your boy.
756
00:32:24,465 --> 00:32:27,343
-"They've gotten a lot sharper
since we started."
757
00:32:27,385 --> 00:32:29,011
-Lighten up on that "e-r."
-Yeah, can you --
758
00:32:29,053 --> 00:32:31,055
-Lighten up on that "e-r."
-Just for me?
759
00:32:31,097 --> 00:32:32,556
Two of them. Fuck it up.
760
00:32:32,598 --> 00:32:35,851
"I've never seen an actor
give eight great takes
761
00:32:35,893 --> 00:32:37,645
that are the same in my life.
762
00:32:37,686 --> 00:32:41,023
You ain't miss one 'e-r.'"
-[ Laughs ]
763
00:32:41,065 --> 00:32:44,110
-"This whole set, not one of you
guys have missed one 'e-r.'"
764
00:32:44,151 --> 00:32:46,529
No, I get it, getting lost
in those --
765
00:32:46,570 --> 00:32:48,698
-I dream about Peter still.
-Wow.
766
00:32:48,739 --> 00:32:51,492
-Like, and that's what happens
when, like, when you --
767
00:32:51,534 --> 00:32:53,494
when you spend that time
and you push your --
768
00:32:53,536 --> 00:32:55,746
you push your mind that far
and you just consume it
769
00:32:55,788 --> 00:32:58,791
and you surround yourself
on all sides by it.
770
00:32:58,833 --> 00:33:00,668
And that's what happened.
It, like, starts to leak
771
00:33:00,710 --> 00:33:04,213
into your subconscious,
and now you're dreaming.
772
00:33:04,255 --> 00:33:06,340
And, you know,
I wouldn't give it back.
773
00:33:06,382 --> 00:33:10,010
It was one of
the greatest experiences
774
00:33:10,052 --> 00:33:12,471
I've ever had as an actor.
775
00:33:12,513 --> 00:33:18,144
It's like Peter
introduced me to God.
776
00:33:18,185 --> 00:33:19,478
Right?
-Wow.
777
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,273
-Like, my faith got solid...
-Wow.
778
00:33:22,314 --> 00:33:25,276
-...after working on that movie.
-Wow.
779
00:33:25,317 --> 00:33:26,819
Wow.
I don't know about you guys,
780
00:33:26,861 --> 00:33:29,488
but after hearing that,
I want a little more wine.
781
00:33:29,530 --> 00:33:31,032
We're gonna take
a quick break.
782
00:33:31,073 --> 00:33:33,034
We got more "Hart to Heart"
coming up after this.
783
00:33:33,075 --> 00:33:34,452
DLynn, please.
784
00:33:34,493 --> 00:33:42,126
**
785
00:33:45,796 --> 00:33:50,676
**
786
00:33:50,718 --> 00:33:52,511
-Welcome back.
This is still "Hart to Heart."
787
00:33:52,553 --> 00:33:54,847
And we are talking
with Will Smith.
788
00:33:54,889 --> 00:33:56,807
An amazing conversation.
-You realize we didn't cheers.
789
00:33:56,849 --> 00:33:58,893
We didn't cheers.
We both started drinking.
790
00:33:58,934 --> 00:34:01,520
-'Cause you were so persistent
on getting your goddamn glass
791
00:34:01,562 --> 00:34:03,439
filled
that you didn't think to do it
792
00:34:03,481 --> 00:34:05,232
and you wanted
to choke yourself.
793
00:34:05,274 --> 00:34:06,484
If you had of thought
for two seconds
794
00:34:06,525 --> 00:34:07,943
about what we were
supposed to do
795
00:34:07,985 --> 00:34:09,987
and not damn near kill yourself,
we would have cheers-ed.
796
00:34:10,029 --> 00:34:11,822
-Do you want to cheers
or you don't want to cheers?
797
00:34:11,864 --> 00:34:13,532
Right?
-I'm saying you're right.
798
00:34:13,574 --> 00:34:15,785
I'm sorry. Yeah. Cheers.
Cheers. I appreciate you, man.
799
00:34:15,826 --> 00:34:17,620
-Let's do it without
the commentary next time.
800
00:34:17,661 --> 00:34:20,915
-Yeah, well, absolutely.
Okay. Sorry.
801
00:34:20,956 --> 00:34:23,376
Dude, I'm so engulfed
802
00:34:23,417 --> 00:34:26,379
and engaged by what
you're talking about.
803
00:34:26,420 --> 00:34:28,214
I want to go to a point now
where it seems
804
00:34:28,255 --> 00:34:30,758
as if you made this shift,
right?
805
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,219
Before the movie "Focus,"
Will --
806
00:34:33,260 --> 00:34:34,720
Will wasn't around for a minute.
807
00:34:34,762 --> 00:34:36,639
There seemed to be a break.
Right?
808
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:39,809
And I don't know what the break
was for. I don't know why.
809
00:34:39,850 --> 00:34:42,728
And then there's another break,
and then you come back
810
00:34:42,770 --> 00:34:46,565
and there's this, like --
there's this commitment
811
00:34:46,607 --> 00:34:50,361
to the generation
of new and now --
812
00:34:50,403 --> 00:34:53,656
social media,
the idea of YouTube,
813
00:34:53,698 --> 00:34:55,408
your bucket list.
-Yeah, yeah.
814
00:34:55,449 --> 00:34:58,077
-What did you see
that made you determine
815
00:34:58,119 --> 00:35:00,621
to make those decisions at the
level that you made them at?
816
00:35:00,663 --> 00:35:03,916
-I saw you and The Rock whooping
my ass at the box office.
817
00:35:03,958 --> 00:35:05,167
-Okay. All right.
818
00:35:05,209 --> 00:35:06,502
-And I was like,
"It can't happen."
819
00:35:06,544 --> 00:35:08,045
-I didn't make --
I didn't expect it to --
820
00:35:08,087 --> 00:35:10,256
-No, that's what happened.
Let's keep it real.
821
00:35:10,297 --> 00:35:11,590
I saw you and The Rock...
-A quick turn.
822
00:35:11,632 --> 00:35:12,925
-...whooping my ass
at the box office.
823
00:35:12,967 --> 00:35:14,593
-Yeah. Got it.
-And I knew you were talking
824
00:35:14,635 --> 00:35:17,054
about me behind my back.
I could tell. I could tell.
825
00:35:17,096 --> 00:35:19,432
-Well, I don't think --
I actually don't --
826
00:35:19,473 --> 00:35:21,934
-No. All right.
-Okay. We may have said --
827
00:35:21,976 --> 00:35:23,728
-We're from Philly.
It was you and me.
828
00:35:23,769 --> 00:35:25,646
Now, all of a sudden,
every time you're with Dwayne.
829
00:35:25,688 --> 00:35:27,565
-There was one moment,
I think, where I was quoted,
830
00:35:27,606 --> 00:35:29,066
"This is my motherfucking city."
831
00:35:29,108 --> 00:35:30,317
-Yes. Right.
832
00:35:30,359 --> 00:35:32,111
-Outside of that...
-I heard that.
833
00:35:32,153 --> 00:35:34,905
[ Both laugh ]
834
00:35:34,947 --> 00:35:36,782
-No, man.
-Oh, he got a new friend now.
835
00:35:36,824 --> 00:35:39,493
-[ Laughs ]
-Oh, so he got a new --
836
00:35:39,535 --> 00:35:40,953
he got a bodybuilding friend
now, huh?
837
00:35:40,995 --> 00:35:43,956
-It was a real --
there was a real thing, like --
838
00:35:43,998 --> 00:35:47,293
like, I don't think
people understand
839
00:35:47,334 --> 00:35:48,878
what we were able to witness,
right?
840
00:35:48,919 --> 00:35:51,505
Like, you know,
you have people that engage
841
00:35:51,547 --> 00:35:52,840
in social media
and some that don't.
842
00:35:52,882 --> 00:35:54,967
And by the way,
either one is fine.
843
00:35:55,009 --> 00:35:59,805
But there was a real commitment
to working that machine,
844
00:35:59,847 --> 00:36:01,974
by the way,
that matched the energy
845
00:36:02,016 --> 00:36:06,103
of how you work the box office,
how you work the fan base.
846
00:36:06,145 --> 00:36:10,733
And now there's a seamless
consistency through it all.
847
00:36:10,775 --> 00:36:14,362
-So there was a couple things
that happened.
848
00:36:14,403 --> 00:36:17,031
You pointed out
a couple of spots.
849
00:36:17,073 --> 00:36:19,700
So, the first thing,
850
00:36:19,742 --> 00:36:24,705
the first time I, like,
tucked back a little bit...
851
00:36:27,291 --> 00:36:30,252
2010...
852
00:36:30,294 --> 00:36:34,590
was, like, the greatest year
853
00:36:34,632 --> 00:36:40,721
of my life as an artist,
as a parent.
854
00:36:40,763 --> 00:36:46,227
"Karate Kid" came out in June.
-Mm-hmm.
855
00:36:46,268 --> 00:36:48,354
-"Whip My Hair" came out,
856
00:36:48,396 --> 00:36:51,482
you know, in October.
-Both kids.
857
00:36:51,524 --> 00:36:53,359
-Both kids, yeah.
-Climbing away.
858
00:36:53,401 --> 00:36:54,985
Seem to be happy
finding a career.
859
00:36:55,027 --> 00:37:00,616
-And I'm building this dream
of a family I've had in my mind.
860
00:37:00,658 --> 00:37:02,868
I'm gonna do it better
than my father did it.
861
00:37:02,910 --> 00:37:04,912
-Mm-hmm.
-We've talked about it.
862
00:37:04,954 --> 00:37:06,706
-Absolutely.
-You know, my father
863
00:37:06,747 --> 00:37:11,585
was abusive, you know, and...
864
00:37:11,627 --> 00:37:16,090
I told myself I would never have
that kind of energy
865
00:37:16,132 --> 00:37:17,717
with my family.
866
00:37:17,758 --> 00:37:21,429
And I had a dream and an idea
of a family that I was building.
867
00:37:21,470 --> 00:37:24,849
And pretty much 2010 to 2012,
868
00:37:24,890 --> 00:37:28,644
I had achieved everything
that I had ever dreamed.
869
00:37:28,686 --> 00:37:30,938
I was beyond
the wildest dreams.
870
00:37:30,980 --> 00:37:36,902
I had been blessed
beyond anything I can imagine.
871
00:37:36,944 --> 00:37:39,572
But nobody in my family
was happy.
872
00:37:39,613 --> 00:37:42,408
-Mm.
-Right? Like...
873
00:37:42,450 --> 00:37:44,577
Nobody wanted
to be in a platoon,
874
00:37:44,618 --> 00:37:48,080
-Mm-hmm.
-Right? You know?
875
00:37:48,122 --> 00:37:53,502
And Willow was the first one
to begin the mutiny.
876
00:37:54,795 --> 00:37:59,091
And, you know, it was --
877
00:37:59,133 --> 00:38:02,094
It was the -- It was
my first realization
878
00:38:02,136 --> 00:38:05,473
that success and money
don't mean happiness.
879
00:38:05,514 --> 00:38:06,849
-Yeah.
-Right?
880
00:38:06,891 --> 00:38:09,435
Up until that point,
I really believed
881
00:38:09,477 --> 00:38:13,689
that you could succeed your way
882
00:38:13,731 --> 00:38:15,775
to a house and a family
883
00:38:15,816 --> 00:38:18,402
and that you could win
your way to happiness.
884
00:38:18,444 --> 00:38:19,779
-Yeah, we're happy.
-Yes.
885
00:38:19,820 --> 00:38:21,072
-We have to be happy.
Look what we have.
886
00:38:21,113 --> 00:38:22,823
-Look what we have.
-Yes, we're happy.
887
00:38:22,865 --> 00:38:29,789
-And that was my first
introduction to the idea that
888
00:38:29,830 --> 00:38:33,626
material circumstances
do not equal happiness,
889
00:38:33,667 --> 00:38:36,962
and in a lot of cases they can
be the reason you're not happy.
890
00:38:37,004 --> 00:38:40,549
-Mm-hmm.
-You can -- You can have
891
00:38:40,591 --> 00:38:44,136
so much stuff
that it makes you miserable.
892
00:38:44,178 --> 00:38:47,890
And so that became --
so that was my first pull back.
893
00:38:47,932 --> 00:38:50,976
And I was like, okay,
what am I missing?
894
00:38:51,018 --> 00:38:55,648
And that's when
I started reading
895
00:38:55,690 --> 00:38:59,068
and, you know,
studying psychology
896
00:38:59,110 --> 00:39:03,572
and the relation
to human happiness.
897
00:39:03,614 --> 00:39:05,157
-Mm-hmm.
898
00:39:05,199 --> 00:39:09,412
-I would say I was never,
like, unhappy.
899
00:39:09,453 --> 00:39:10,996
Like, I love life.
-Mm-hmm.
900
00:39:11,038 --> 00:39:13,999
-But I was driving
the people around me
901
00:39:14,041 --> 00:39:19,547
in a way that I was leaving
scorched earth around me, right?
902
00:39:19,588 --> 00:39:24,009
So I was like, okay,
what am I missing?
903
00:39:24,051 --> 00:39:27,054
And then that's when
I started, you know, reading
904
00:39:27,096 --> 00:39:30,933
and I -- I say it this way.
It makes --
905
00:39:30,975 --> 00:39:32,893
It makes people laugh
when I say it.
906
00:39:32,935 --> 00:39:37,023
But it's like I discovered
feelings, right?
907
00:39:37,064 --> 00:39:40,735
That -- you know, we talked
about this before, too.
908
00:39:40,776 --> 00:39:42,611
-You can see it in my face.
-Yeah. 'Cause, like --
909
00:39:42,653 --> 00:39:44,155
-I align. I understand.
910
00:39:44,196 --> 00:39:46,032
-Like, I never give a fuck
about feelings.
911
00:39:46,073 --> 00:39:49,118
You can't care about feelings.
How are you gonna win
912
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:50,953
if you're worried
about how you feel?
913
00:39:50,995 --> 00:39:52,121
-I don't have fucking time
for that.
914
00:39:52,163 --> 00:39:53,914
-Yeah.
I don't care how I feel,
915
00:39:53,956 --> 00:39:55,499
so I definitely don't care
how you feel, right?
916
00:39:55,541 --> 00:39:57,501
And if you feel bad,
you better keep it to yourself.
917
00:39:57,543 --> 00:39:59,045
-Don't tell me.
-Exactly.
918
00:39:59,086 --> 00:40:00,379
-Don't bring it over here.
-Don't bring it over here.
919
00:40:00,421 --> 00:40:01,922
-'Cause I got shit to do
-Now you pulling me down.
920
00:40:01,964 --> 00:40:03,924
-Don't bring that energy here.
-Right.
921
00:40:03,966 --> 00:40:08,220
So, as you probably learned
also, that doesn't work at home.
922
00:40:08,262 --> 00:40:10,347
-It's the worst shit
in the world.
923
00:40:10,389 --> 00:40:11,891
-[ Laughs ]
-It's the worst.
924
00:40:11,932 --> 00:40:14,727
You don't have a -- You don't
have a bigger advocate...
925
00:40:14,769 --> 00:40:16,979
-Yeah.
-...for what you're saying
926
00:40:17,021 --> 00:40:20,149
than Kevin Hart.
There's a day where you go --
927
00:40:20,191 --> 00:40:22,443
and I know what you're
talking about -- when you go,
928
00:40:22,485 --> 00:40:23,944
"What is it that I'm doing?"
929
00:40:23,986 --> 00:40:25,446
-What the fuck is wrong
with y'all?
930
00:40:25,488 --> 00:40:28,032
-Yeah, are you kidding me?
Have y'all looked around?
931
00:40:28,074 --> 00:40:31,577
-Y'all niggas better clap.
-You better.
932
00:40:31,619 --> 00:40:33,120
And there's a moment.
-[ Laughs ]
933
00:40:33,162 --> 00:40:35,623
-There's a moment where
you realize you have to go,
934
00:40:35,664 --> 00:40:36,832
"Oh, shit."
-Yeah.
935
00:40:36,874 --> 00:40:38,793
-Like, my little girl...
-Mm-hmm.
936
00:40:38,834 --> 00:40:40,419
-My little girl
don't give a damn about that.
937
00:40:40,461 --> 00:40:41,962
My little girl
want to hold my hand and...
938
00:40:42,004 --> 00:40:44,673
-Exactly.
-...get a hug. Yo, my son --
939
00:40:44,715 --> 00:40:46,634
Goddamn it,
I ain't rode a bike with this --
940
00:40:46,675 --> 00:40:48,260
I need to get on a bike.
-Exactly.
941
00:40:48,302 --> 00:40:49,970
-I need to sit down...
-All of that.
942
00:40:50,012 --> 00:40:53,099
-...sit at the table and talk
and not do the thing
943
00:40:53,140 --> 00:40:55,976
that is organized
and structured, like you --
944
00:40:56,018 --> 00:40:57,978
I know what you're saying.
-Yeah.
945
00:40:58,020 --> 00:41:00,856
-I see. I understand clearly.
-I'm not crying.
946
00:41:00,898 --> 00:41:03,317
I'm just wiping my eyes.
-That's your business.
947
00:41:03,359 --> 00:41:05,444
-I'm just saying.
I mean, I just don't want you
948
00:41:05,486 --> 00:41:06,946
to think you're interviewing me
so good
949
00:41:06,987 --> 00:41:08,614
you're making me cry.
-It's fine.
950
00:41:08,656 --> 00:41:09,949
It's fine. By the way,
951
00:41:09,990 --> 00:41:11,784
they call me
the young Barbara Walters.
952
00:41:11,826 --> 00:41:13,994
[ Laughter ]
953
00:41:14,036 --> 00:41:17,248
-Negro -- Negro Walters.
[ Laughter ]
954
00:41:17,289 --> 00:41:18,874
-Within that, right,
955
00:41:18,916 --> 00:41:20,334
we had a great conversation
one time.
956
00:41:20,376 --> 00:41:21,961
We don't have to go
into the Willow of at all.
957
00:41:22,002 --> 00:41:24,463
But I remember what you told me,
and, you know,
958
00:41:24,505 --> 00:41:27,299
the line with the -- the,
"Whip my hair back and forth"
959
00:41:27,341 --> 00:41:29,218
and success and everything.
-Yeah.
960
00:41:29,260 --> 00:41:33,013
-So your moment where you now
sit in that, you realize that,
961
00:41:33,055 --> 00:41:36,517
was the decision,
"I'm gonna now commit to this"?
962
00:41:36,559 --> 00:41:39,895
-Yes. It was like, "Okay so..."
963
00:41:39,937 --> 00:41:41,981
You know, that was
the first thing I had achieved
964
00:41:42,023 --> 00:41:43,691
everything I wanted.
I was like, "Okay,
965
00:41:43,733 --> 00:41:46,360
so that's not gonna make,
you know..."
966
00:41:46,402 --> 00:41:47,903
I seemed pretty happy.
967
00:41:47,945 --> 00:41:49,905
I was cool with it,
but nobody around me.
968
00:41:49,947 --> 00:41:52,158
So then I started --
excuse me --
969
00:41:52,199 --> 00:41:54,869
trying to figure out what
the thing that I was missing.
970
00:41:54,910 --> 00:41:57,038
So I started...
971
00:41:58,581 --> 00:42:01,167
...trying to be concerned
972
00:42:01,208 --> 00:42:06,172
for everybody's feelings.
-Mm-hmm.
973
00:42:06,213 --> 00:42:09,550
By the way, this is you after
"Six Degrees of Separation."
974
00:42:09,592 --> 00:42:12,178
-Yeah, right. [ Laughs ]
-You coming back to the set...
975
00:42:12,219 --> 00:42:13,846
-Yeah.
-...of "Fresh Prince"
976
00:42:13,888 --> 00:42:16,182
and trying to walk.
-Yes, exactly.
977
00:42:16,223 --> 00:42:19,185
-You're trying to have feelings
without knowing
978
00:42:19,226 --> 00:42:21,687
how to best orchestrate
that feeling
979
00:42:21,729 --> 00:42:24,315
'cause you haven't done it.
So now I'm trying to learn.
980
00:42:24,357 --> 00:42:26,609
Am I doing it correctly?
Are you -- I got it.
981
00:42:26,650 --> 00:42:29,987
-And then that's when I, like,
discovered, you know,
982
00:42:30,029 --> 00:42:31,489
therapy and all that.
Oh, people can help.
983
00:42:31,530 --> 00:42:32,948
Oh, you don't have
to do it yourself. Somebody --
984
00:42:32,990 --> 00:42:34,492
Okay. All right, so...
985
00:42:34,533 --> 00:42:36,118
All right. Somebody can help me
talk to my daughter.
986
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,746
Somebody can help me talk
to my sons and my wife.
987
00:42:38,788 --> 00:42:40,664
Okay.
Oh, cool. That's perfect.
988
00:42:40,706 --> 00:42:43,376
You know, so I started,
you know,
989
00:42:43,417 --> 00:42:46,837
doing that and trying to work
and trying to understand.
990
00:42:46,879 --> 00:42:50,674
And the hardest part
991
00:42:50,716 --> 00:42:54,095
was to give a fuck.
-Mm.
992
00:42:54,136 --> 00:42:55,721
-Right?
So I'm sitting there,
993
00:42:55,763 --> 00:43:00,184
and it's like it is so hitting
that fear spot within me
994
00:43:00,226 --> 00:43:05,314
because if you give in to
feelings, you will be destroyed.
995
00:43:05,356 --> 00:43:08,651
-Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
-If you give in to feelings,
996
00:43:08,693 --> 00:43:10,319
you are going to be destroyed.
997
00:43:10,361 --> 00:43:14,990
So it was almost like
the life and death for me.
998
00:43:15,032 --> 00:43:16,867
So I was trying to learn
how to settle in there,
999
00:43:16,909 --> 00:43:19,245
learning how to settle in there.
1000
00:43:19,286 --> 00:43:22,289
And then, you know,
coming out of that,
1001
00:43:22,331 --> 00:43:26,585
the other phase you were
talking about when I started
1002
00:43:26,627 --> 00:43:29,588
with social media,
part of that time of, like,
1003
00:43:29,630 --> 00:43:33,259
spending dipping into feelings,
I was realizing
1004
00:43:33,300 --> 00:43:37,263
I wasn't living
how I wanted to live.
1005
00:43:37,304 --> 00:43:38,389
-Okay.
1006
00:43:38,431 --> 00:43:41,267
-I was living
how I needed to live
1007
00:43:41,308 --> 00:43:46,022
to sustain
the picture that I wanted.
1008
00:43:46,063 --> 00:43:47,440
-You weren't stepping
outside the comfort zone?
1009
00:43:47,481 --> 00:43:50,276
-Yes, I was like -- I was --
I wasn't --
1010
00:43:50,317 --> 00:43:53,112
There were things
that I wanted to do.
1011
00:43:53,154 --> 00:43:54,947
There were things
I wanted to say.
1012
00:43:54,989 --> 00:43:56,449
There were places
I wanted to go.
1013
00:43:56,490 --> 00:43:58,951
But the life
that I built didn't allow.
1014
00:43:58,993 --> 00:44:00,161
-Didn't allow you to.
-Right?
1015
00:44:00,202 --> 00:44:01,954
-You can't step outside
the line.
1016
00:44:01,996 --> 00:44:03,456
-Can't step outside the line.
1017
00:44:03,497 --> 00:44:06,417
You know, I'm working
with companies
1018
00:44:06,459 --> 00:44:09,128
and things like that that
need me to be a certain way.
1019
00:44:09,170 --> 00:44:10,463
-Brand-friendly.
-My family needs me.
1020
00:44:10,504 --> 00:44:13,424
Yes, absolutely.
-I have to be the brand
1021
00:44:13,466 --> 00:44:17,136
that I have built
over the course of 20 years.
1022
00:44:17,178 --> 00:44:21,390
And I have to be as professional
and I have to be this thing.
1023
00:44:21,432 --> 00:44:23,726
-Absolutely.
-And by the way, in doing that,
1024
00:44:23,768 --> 00:44:26,062
well, there is a reservation
that presents itself
1025
00:44:26,103 --> 00:44:28,314
at some point in time,
because I want to do this.
1026
00:44:28,356 --> 00:44:32,026
-I want to do something else,
you know. I don't --
1027
00:44:32,068 --> 00:44:33,986
I don't want that
to be my schedule.
1028
00:44:34,028 --> 00:44:35,321
I want to have
a different schedule.
1029
00:44:35,363 --> 00:44:37,490
-Yeah.
-And exactly what I thought
1030
00:44:37,531 --> 00:44:40,034
would happen when I went into
dealing with feelings
1031
00:44:40,076 --> 00:44:42,036
and looking at that,
it was like, "Oh, shit.
1032
00:44:42,078 --> 00:44:43,454
Well, there's a lot of stuff
1033
00:44:43,496 --> 00:44:45,915
that I've agreed to do
that I don't want to do."
1034
00:44:45,956 --> 00:44:48,084
-Yeah. Start to unpack now.
-Right?
1035
00:44:48,125 --> 00:44:50,252
-Now it's time to unpack
some luggage in there.
1036
00:44:50,294 --> 00:44:51,670
-Yes, you know?
-Yeah.
1037
00:44:51,712 --> 00:44:55,508
-And I think the the thing
1038
00:44:55,549 --> 00:44:59,512
where I really --
the demarcation line
1039
00:44:59,553 --> 00:45:02,223
was on my 50th birthday
when I jumped out
1040
00:45:02,264 --> 00:45:05,351
the helicopter
over the Grand Canyon.
1041
00:45:05,393 --> 00:45:09,105
That was, like, the day
I decided I was gonna live
1042
00:45:09,146 --> 00:45:11,148
how I wanted to live.
1043
00:45:11,190 --> 00:45:14,151
-Wow.
Stop right here for a second.
1044
00:45:14,193 --> 00:45:16,696
We got to take a quick break.
Please keep it locked.
1045
00:45:16,737 --> 00:45:18,823
We got more "Hart to Heart"
coming up after this.
1046
00:45:18,864 --> 00:45:22,326
-Three, two, one!
1047
00:45:22,368 --> 00:45:24,537
Go! Yay!
1048
00:45:24,578 --> 00:45:27,540
Whoo! Yeah!
1049
00:45:27,581 --> 00:45:30,751
[ People cheering ]
1050
00:45:30,793 --> 00:45:31,794
-Yeah!
1051
00:45:31,836 --> 00:45:33,671
[ People cheering ]
1052
00:45:33,713 --> 00:45:36,841
-Whoo! Ah!
1053
00:45:36,882 --> 00:45:42,138
**
1054
00:45:45,641 --> 00:45:50,271
**
1055
00:45:50,312 --> 00:45:52,106
-Welcome back
to "Hart to Heart."
1056
00:45:52,148 --> 00:45:53,691
I'm still sitting here
with Will Smith,
1057
00:45:53,733 --> 00:45:58,446
and the conversation is amazing,
as you guys can see.
1058
00:45:58,487 --> 00:46:00,865
Will, you were talking
about family.
1059
00:46:00,906 --> 00:46:04,410
There's a moment where you
and Jada are talking after...
1060
00:46:04,452 --> 00:46:06,537
-Mm-hmm.
-...and Jada goes,
1061
00:46:06,579 --> 00:46:08,706
"I saw you gathering yourself."
-Mm-hmm.
1062
00:46:08,748 --> 00:46:10,207
-"And then there's a moment
where you looked up
1063
00:46:10,249 --> 00:46:11,876
and I knew you were ready."
-Mm-hmm.
1064
00:46:11,917 --> 00:46:15,546
-And then you do the replay
and you, like, sitting there
1065
00:46:15,588 --> 00:46:18,549
and whatever the fuck you saying
to yourself, you're saying.
1066
00:46:18,591 --> 00:46:21,177
But then it's like
somebody pressed the button
1067
00:46:21,218 --> 00:46:23,679
and you said...
-[ Laughs ]
1068
00:46:23,721 --> 00:46:26,432
-...and whatever the fuck
that thing was,
1069
00:46:26,474 --> 00:46:28,017
I'll never forget it.
-Yeah.
1070
00:46:28,059 --> 00:46:29,560
-Jada was like, "That's when
I knew you was ready.
1071
00:46:29,602 --> 00:46:31,353
I knew you was ready."
You sat up.
1072
00:46:31,395 --> 00:46:33,230
Motherfucker, you wasn't
blinking. It's like...
1073
00:46:33,272 --> 00:46:34,440
-[ Laughs ]
1074
00:46:34,482 --> 00:46:35,524
-I remember.
I remember my word.
1075
00:46:35,566 --> 00:46:38,194
I said, "Oh, this nigga crazy."
1076
00:46:38,235 --> 00:46:39,904
Like, I was waiting
for you to go,
1077
00:46:39,945 --> 00:46:42,323
"Nah, fuck this. Pull me up.
1078
00:46:42,365 --> 00:46:44,533
Cut it off. Like, we...
1079
00:46:44,575 --> 00:46:46,786
Throw the dummy down."
-The dummy, yeah.
1080
00:46:46,827 --> 00:46:48,079
-You...
-Dude.
1081
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:49,872
-...you did it,
but that jump,
1082
00:46:49,914 --> 00:46:52,583
I can only imagine,
meant so much more.
1083
00:46:52,625 --> 00:46:55,461
That was -- It was bigger
than the bungee jump
1084
00:46:55,503 --> 00:46:58,089
just for the moment.
Like, that's a real jump.
1085
00:46:58,130 --> 00:46:59,340
That's a life jump.
1086
00:46:59,382 --> 00:47:05,763
-That moment is the key to life.
1087
00:47:05,805 --> 00:47:08,599
If you can understand.
1088
00:47:08,641 --> 00:47:10,768
Take a deep breath.
-Mm-hmm.
1089
00:47:10,810 --> 00:47:16,107
-Stick your arms out,
and surrender to life.
1090
00:47:16,148 --> 00:47:19,402
If you can understand that,
right,
1091
00:47:19,443 --> 00:47:21,696
nobody's in control.
1092
00:47:21,737 --> 00:47:24,281
It's an illusion
that you're in control.
1093
00:47:24,323 --> 00:47:27,368
-Mm-hmm.
-Life got you. Right?
1094
00:47:27,410 --> 00:47:28,911
-But you don't know that
till you get got.
1095
00:47:28,953 --> 00:47:31,080
-You don't know, right. Yeah.
-You got to get got.
1096
00:47:31,122 --> 00:47:33,666
-You got to get got, like --
-My accident was me getting got.
1097
00:47:33,708 --> 00:47:36,293
-Yeah, yeah.
-Life got me. God got me.
1098
00:47:36,335 --> 00:47:38,212
God said, "Hey, come here."
-Come here, yep.
1099
00:47:38,254 --> 00:47:39,714
-"Let me show you something."
-Yeah.
1100
00:47:39,755 --> 00:47:41,298
-"Let me show you something,
little boy. You..."
1101
00:47:41,340 --> 00:47:43,718
-Mm-hmm. Oh, you think --
-"You think you..."
1102
00:47:43,759 --> 00:47:45,970
[ Laughs ] "Come here.
Let me show you something."
1103
00:47:46,011 --> 00:47:48,305
-Hey, little boy, watch what I'm
gonna do with this car.
1104
00:47:48,347 --> 00:47:50,516
Watch this. Watch this. Bang!
[ Laughs ]
1105
00:47:50,558 --> 00:47:52,810
-And it's not -- It's not till
you get that...
1106
00:47:52,852 --> 00:47:54,145
-Yep. Absolutely.
-...and then you get
1107
00:47:54,186 --> 00:47:55,813
in that room...
-Yep.
1108
00:47:55,855 --> 00:47:57,440
-...and you look in the room
and you look around at people
1109
00:47:57,481 --> 00:47:59,692
you're like, "Oh, shit.
1110
00:47:59,734 --> 00:48:01,402
Oh, fuck. Ain't no cameras here.
Ain't nobody.
1111
00:48:01,444 --> 00:48:03,154
Where are my fans at?"
-Yeah.
1112
00:48:03,195 --> 00:48:05,364
-"Where the whole star-- Where
the idea of stardom at?
1113
00:48:05,406 --> 00:48:07,950
Where's the --
Where's the glitz, the glamour,
1114
00:48:07,992 --> 00:48:10,828
the -- where's the thing at?
Where the Ferraris?"
1115
00:48:10,870 --> 00:48:12,329
-Yeah.
-"Where's the watches?"
1116
00:48:12,371 --> 00:48:15,416
You have to get got,
to your point.
1117
00:48:15,458 --> 00:48:16,667
-Absolutely.
-So when you're talking about
1118
00:48:16,709 --> 00:48:18,544
surrendering respectfully...
-Yeah.
1119
00:48:18,586 --> 00:48:21,464
-...and listening to what
you're saying, you know that...
1120
00:48:21,505 --> 00:48:23,424
-Yeah.
-...because things happen to you
1121
00:48:23,466 --> 00:48:24,884
that forced you to surrender.
-Absolutely.
1122
00:48:24,925 --> 00:48:27,678
-And then after doing it,
you saw the benefit.
1123
00:48:27,720 --> 00:48:31,640
-Yeah. I describe it
as ecstatic surrender.
1124
00:48:31,682 --> 00:48:35,436
-Okay.
-When you let go and it's like,
1125
00:48:35,478 --> 00:48:40,649
you know, you either trust God
or you don't.
1126
00:48:40,691 --> 00:48:42,193
-Mm-hmm.
-There's no middle.
1127
00:48:42,234 --> 00:48:44,278
-Mm-hmm.
-You're gonna tear yourself
1128
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,155
apart in the middle.
-Mm-hmm.
1129
00:48:46,197 --> 00:48:49,450
-Right?
And, you know, for me,
1130
00:48:49,492 --> 00:48:54,330
that process of coming
to that place of humility
1131
00:48:54,372 --> 00:48:58,000
and surrender is...
1132
00:49:01,253 --> 00:49:03,172
You can't -- You can't teach it.
1133
00:49:03,214 --> 00:49:04,715
-Mm-hmm.
-You can't teach it.
1134
00:49:04,757 --> 00:49:09,345
It's like you have
to lean into life,
1135
00:49:09,387 --> 00:49:15,643
and you have to be
torched by reality and...
1136
00:49:15,684 --> 00:49:21,065
the thing about being torched
by life is that
1137
00:49:21,107 --> 00:49:23,776
only to fake things burn.
-Mm.
1138
00:49:23,818 --> 00:49:27,738
-Nothing true burns.
-Mm. Mm.
1139
00:49:27,780 --> 00:49:30,741
-Only your fantasies burn,
right?
1140
00:49:30,783 --> 00:49:33,911
When you get torched by life,
1141
00:49:33,953 --> 00:49:38,916
the false things that you're
holding on to about yourself,
1142
00:49:38,958 --> 00:49:42,420
the false things that you're
holding on to about reality
1143
00:49:42,461 --> 00:49:45,297
are the only things
that can get touched.
1144
00:49:45,339 --> 00:49:50,678
-Mm.
-And if you can stand the loss
1145
00:49:50,720 --> 00:49:54,098
of everything that's fake,
everything that's fantasy,
1146
00:49:54,140 --> 00:49:58,436
everything that's delusional,
if you can stand that,
1147
00:49:58,477 --> 00:50:01,605
you know,
there's a trauma to it,
1148
00:50:01,647 --> 00:50:04,859
but if you can stand that,
there's a --
1149
00:50:04,900 --> 00:50:08,320
there's an emotionally
invincible you
1150
00:50:08,362 --> 00:50:11,490
under your fakeness.
-Mm-hmm.
1151
00:50:11,532 --> 00:50:12,950
-Right?
-See, I love -- I love
1152
00:50:12,992 --> 00:50:18,205
what you're saying
for two reasons, right?
1153
00:50:18,247 --> 00:50:19,665
You're Superman.
1154
00:50:19,707 --> 00:50:22,793
Here's what I mean
by you're Superman.
1155
00:50:22,835 --> 00:50:25,796
You are the prince...
-Mm-hmm.
1156
00:50:25,838 --> 00:50:29,675
-...to this Hollywood
entertainment thing.
1157
00:50:29,717 --> 00:50:33,888
But when you see
your prince be vulnerable,
1158
00:50:33,929 --> 00:50:38,851
well, it's so dope because
you're bringing humility
1159
00:50:38,893 --> 00:50:42,688
to the job
that people watch and respect
1160
00:50:42,730 --> 00:50:44,648
but forget.
-Mm-hmm.
1161
00:50:44,690 --> 00:50:46,692
-We forget...
-Yeah.
1162
00:50:46,734 --> 00:50:48,819
-...that there's a human side...
-Yeah.
1163
00:50:48,861 --> 00:50:51,530
-...to the thing that we watch
from afar for so long,
1164
00:50:51,572 --> 00:50:53,991
'cause you're a superhero.
-Mm-hmm.
1165
00:50:54,033 --> 00:50:55,701
-Will Smith, nah,
you better not fucking cry.
1166
00:50:55,743 --> 00:50:57,078
You Will Smith.
-Right.
1167
00:50:57,119 --> 00:50:58,496
-We forget that.
-Yeah.
1168
00:50:58,537 --> 00:51:01,791
-So when we're talking like
we're talking now,
1169
00:51:01,832 --> 00:51:04,752
I'm so blown away
because I'm like,
1170
00:51:04,794 --> 00:51:07,088
people are so afraid
to be fucking human.
1171
00:51:07,129 --> 00:51:08,964
-Yeah.
-You're so afraid
1172
00:51:09,006 --> 00:51:11,675
to actually be human
'cause we get caught up
1173
00:51:11,717 --> 00:51:13,052
in the box of this thing
we built...
1174
00:51:13,094 --> 00:51:15,805
-Absolutely.
-...and the perfected idea
1175
00:51:15,846 --> 00:51:17,723
of what we are and where we are,
who we are,
1176
00:51:17,765 --> 00:51:20,184
it cannot be touched.
I don't want them to touch it.
1177
00:51:20,226 --> 00:51:21,769
You get lost in that.
-Yeah.
1178
00:51:21,811 --> 00:51:26,524
-And the idea of human
becomes third, not even second.
1179
00:51:26,565 --> 00:51:29,485
You made a decision
to put the human first.
1180
00:51:29,527 --> 00:51:33,406
And by the way, it's visible.
1181
00:51:33,447 --> 00:51:35,032
Like, it's visible.
-Yeah.
1182
00:51:35,074 --> 00:51:37,785
-I'm gonna tell you
who else did it.
1183
00:51:37,827 --> 00:51:41,247
I'm gonna tell you
who else fucking did it.
1184
00:51:41,288 --> 00:51:43,833
Kobe after retiring?
-Yep.
1185
00:51:43,874 --> 00:51:46,252
-After retiring...
-Yep. Absolutely.
1186
00:51:46,293 --> 00:51:48,629
-...Kobe made a decision.
-Yep.
1187
00:51:48,671 --> 00:51:50,756
-In talking to Kobe --
1188
00:51:50,798 --> 00:51:53,092
I remember talking to Kobe,
and there was a moment
1189
00:51:53,134 --> 00:51:55,761
Kobe was like, "Kev, I'm the
happiest I ever been."
1190
00:51:55,803 --> 00:51:58,681
-Yeah.
-And I said -- I said,
1191
00:51:58,723 --> 00:52:00,099
"Why? You ain't playing ball."
1192
00:52:00,141 --> 00:52:03,394
He said, "Man,
I'm in tune with my kids."
1193
00:52:03,436 --> 00:52:07,231
-Yeah.
-"I'm coaching my daughter's
1194
00:52:07,273 --> 00:52:12,236
basketball team and
I'm into venture, investing.
1195
00:52:12,278 --> 00:52:13,738
I found a new..."
1196
00:52:13,779 --> 00:52:18,868
He found a new thing
that allowed him to, like,
1197
00:52:18,909 --> 00:52:23,748
have a different level
of energy and not the same...
1198
00:52:23,789 --> 00:52:26,333
'Cause he was this thing
for so fucking long.
1199
00:52:26,375 --> 00:52:28,586
It's like he released and let
that monkey off his back.
1200
00:52:28,627 --> 00:52:31,297
-When you -- dude.
-He let the monkey off his back.
1201
00:52:31,338 --> 00:52:32,798
-Listen. It's like --
1202
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:34,508
-That's what I hear
in what you're saying.
1203
00:52:34,550 --> 00:52:37,887
-Yeah, and it's like...
1204
00:52:37,928 --> 00:52:41,932
I haven't learned how to say
this yet, but I'm glad --
1205
00:52:41,974 --> 00:52:43,726
I'm glad you're talking
about it in that way.
1206
00:52:43,768 --> 00:52:48,439
Right?
It's like the...
1207
00:52:48,481 --> 00:52:50,691
[ Exhales ]
1208
00:52:50,733 --> 00:52:52,068
Let it go.
-Yeah, I think I just said it.
1209
00:52:52,109 --> 00:52:53,778
I think it's monkey
off your back.
1210
00:52:53,819 --> 00:52:56,697
-Monkey off your back, yeah.
-I think I just said it.
1211
00:52:56,739 --> 00:52:58,282
I think I just said it.
-You said it.
1212
00:52:58,324 --> 00:53:00,618
-Yeah, I think I was just --
It was simple the way I said it.
1213
00:53:00,659 --> 00:53:02,703
-Yeah, it's not --
It wasn't great.
1214
00:53:02,745 --> 00:53:04,121
It wasn't -- It wasn't great,
Kev. The monkey --
1215
00:53:04,163 --> 00:53:05,831
-Monkey off your back.
-Because that's --
1216
00:53:05,873 --> 00:53:08,292
It has alcoholic connotations
with the monkey.
1217
00:53:08,334 --> 00:53:10,461
Like, it's just --
-I was just thinking of, like,
1218
00:53:10,503 --> 00:53:11,796
a strong-ass monkey
on your back.
1219
00:53:11,837 --> 00:53:13,506
I didn't think about it.
-Yeah.
1220
00:53:13,547 --> 00:53:15,758
-But you get what I'm saying?
You understand what I'm saying?
1221
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:17,385
-I do understand
what you're saying, Kev.
1222
00:53:17,426 --> 00:53:19,887
It's just not a perfect analogy.
-Okay, well, let's go with --
1223
00:53:19,929 --> 00:53:21,472
-We're talking about my
feelings. At some point --
1224
00:53:21,514 --> 00:53:23,391
-Let's go with the exhale.
-Okay. I mean, it's your show.
1225
00:53:23,432 --> 00:53:24,600
It's your show.
-[ Exhales ]
1226
00:53:24,642 --> 00:53:25,976
I'll go with the exhale.
1227
00:53:26,018 --> 00:53:28,938
-I -- Now I'm offended
and I'm tight.
1228
00:53:28,979 --> 00:53:30,690
-Okay, well, I don't want you
to get tight.
1229
00:53:30,731 --> 00:53:32,066
I want to get back to the exhale
1230
00:53:32,108 --> 00:53:33,859
'cause we're in
such a great place, right?
1231
00:53:33,901 --> 00:53:36,987
I'm gonna tell you what.
Don't do that. Don't.
1232
00:53:37,029 --> 00:53:39,699
Okay, don't -- You're right.
Okay.
1233
00:53:39,740 --> 00:53:43,661
I want to apologize
for not going with Will's --
1234
00:53:43,703 --> 00:53:45,079
You know what,
this is the part --
1235
00:53:45,121 --> 00:53:47,039
-Are you apologizing --
apologize into camera
1236
00:53:47,081 --> 00:53:48,833
so the world
knows that you're sorry.
1237
00:53:48,874 --> 00:53:53,379
-I want to say sorry
for not allowing Will's side
1238
00:53:53,421 --> 00:53:54,839
of thinking to be heard.
1239
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:58,092
And I assumed that my side
was the right side.
1240
00:53:58,134 --> 00:54:00,511
-Yes.
-Monkey on your back
1241
00:54:00,553 --> 00:54:02,179
is not fitting for everyone.
-Yes.
1242
00:54:02,221 --> 00:54:04,181
-Some people don't like monkeys.
-Right.
1243
00:54:04,223 --> 00:54:05,850
-And...
-And sometime the monkey's
1244
00:54:05,891 --> 00:54:07,685
on your front. It's like --
-You're right.
1245
00:54:07,727 --> 00:54:08,853
You're absolutely right.
1246
00:54:08,894 --> 00:54:09,854
-And sometimes it's not
a monkey.
1247
00:54:09,895 --> 00:54:11,856
-It's not -- You're right, Will.
1248
00:54:11,897 --> 00:54:13,232
How about we don't use
an animal at all?
1249
00:54:13,274 --> 00:54:15,943
How about I just say --
-Cause now you're --
1250
00:54:15,985 --> 00:54:18,988
you know, if you're against
animals, then...
1251
00:54:19,030 --> 00:54:20,531
-I'm not against animals.
-...you're against nature.
1252
00:54:20,573 --> 00:54:21,949
-Will, I don't want
to go down --
1253
00:54:21,991 --> 00:54:23,451
-And it doesn't fit
into what I'm saying.
1254
00:54:23,492 --> 00:54:25,036
-I don't want to go
down a rabbit hole here, Will.
1255
00:54:25,077 --> 00:54:26,746
I think you're right.
-A rabbit hole?
1256
00:54:26,787 --> 00:54:28,497
So everything's
about animals with you.
1257
00:54:28,539 --> 00:54:30,082
-All right.
-You better --
1258
00:54:30,124 --> 00:54:33,335
I bet that sweater is fucking
polar bear, isn't it?
1259
00:54:33,377 --> 00:54:36,714
-Maybe I got a fucking problem.
[ Both laugh ]
1260
00:54:36,756 --> 00:54:39,091
No, I love -- I love --
1261
00:54:39,133 --> 00:54:41,802
I love what you're saying,
and I want to say --
1262
00:54:41,844 --> 00:54:45,556
-It's the surrender of
1263
00:54:45,598 --> 00:54:50,144
the need to be perceived
1264
00:54:50,186 --> 00:54:53,022
a certain way.
1265
00:54:53,064 --> 00:54:54,857
-Can I tell you what's dope?
-Mm-hmm.
1266
00:54:54,899 --> 00:54:57,902
-And how is this
gonna come full circle?
1267
00:54:57,943 --> 00:55:00,071
Doing "Hart to Heart,"
1268
00:55:00,112 --> 00:55:02,239
there has to be an idea
of surrendering
1269
00:55:02,281 --> 00:55:04,075
and just coming to sit down
and talk to me.
1270
00:55:04,116 --> 00:55:06,452
-Yeah.
-There is no prep.
1271
00:55:06,494 --> 00:55:08,120
-Mm-hmm.
-There is no call before.
1272
00:55:08,162 --> 00:55:09,705
-Yeah.
-There is no, "What are we
1273
00:55:09,747 --> 00:55:11,374
talking about?"
-Right.
1274
00:55:11,415 --> 00:55:14,460
-That's not what this is about.
And what you're doing, Will,
1275
00:55:14,502 --> 00:55:16,420
I just want to applaud you
1276
00:55:16,462 --> 00:55:19,924
and I want to fucking say,
"Oh, keep going."
1277
00:55:19,965 --> 00:55:23,052
Like, you -- the decision that
you made to open up,
1278
00:55:23,094 --> 00:55:27,598
the decision that you made
to really talk about, like,
1279
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:29,809
your trauma,
like, what's going on,
1280
00:55:29,850 --> 00:55:33,020
you have fucking made it okay
for the people
1281
00:55:33,062 --> 00:55:36,857
that looked at Superman to go,
"If Superman can do it,
1282
00:55:36,899 --> 00:55:38,192
I can, too.
Hey, man, let me tell you all
1283
00:55:38,234 --> 00:55:40,111
what's been fucking
with me for years."
1284
00:55:40,152 --> 00:55:43,781
You are somebody
that I not only look up to,
1285
00:55:43,823 --> 00:55:46,367
I admire, I respect,
1286
00:55:46,409 --> 00:55:51,372
more importantly, man,
I model my fucking career after.
1287
00:55:51,414 --> 00:55:56,585
Like, your work ethic,
your desire to be great
1288
00:55:56,627 --> 00:55:58,462
and to not take no...
1289
00:55:58,504 --> 00:56:01,549
Will, I model my shit after you.
1290
00:56:01,590 --> 00:56:03,050
If you did stand-up comedy,
1291
00:56:03,092 --> 00:56:06,429
I promise you we would be
aligned to the tee.
1292
00:56:06,470 --> 00:56:08,723
Everything that I have
done in movies,
1293
00:56:08,764 --> 00:56:10,683
every road that I went down
1294
00:56:10,725 --> 00:56:12,184
is because of the model
that you built.
1295
00:56:12,226 --> 00:56:14,478
-Love that.
-You've now created another
1296
00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:16,480
model and another blueprint.
1297
00:56:16,522 --> 00:56:18,816
At the end of the day,
you're fucking human, man.
1298
00:56:18,858 --> 00:56:21,110
And I love and appreciate you
for being that
1299
00:56:21,152 --> 00:56:22,945
and that only.
-Love that.
1300
00:56:22,987 --> 00:56:24,447
-Nothing else needs to be said.
-Mm-hmm.
1301
00:56:24,488 --> 00:56:28,159
-I appreciate you for coming
on this fucking platform
1302
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:30,244
and just being you, dude.
-Yeah.
1303
00:56:30,286 --> 00:56:33,164
-Being fucking you, Will Smith.
-It was great.
1304
00:56:33,205 --> 00:56:34,957
And then you, like,
you went off the rails.
1305
00:56:34,999 --> 00:56:37,501
-Well, I'm not done.
I want you to call that trainer.
1306
00:56:37,543 --> 00:56:39,003
And I want, because --
1307
00:56:39,045 --> 00:56:40,671
-You don't, Kev.
You don't want that.
1308
00:56:40,713 --> 00:56:41,881
-I'm not gonna ever
see him again.
1309
00:56:41,922 --> 00:56:43,674
But I want to tell him
I'm not a bitch.
1310
00:56:43,716 --> 00:56:45,426
-Okay.
-And I want to say, fuck him.
1311
00:56:45,468 --> 00:56:47,553
-I'll text him. I'll text him.
-No, you tell him what I said.
1312
00:56:47,595 --> 00:56:50,306
-Okay. I'll tell --
I'll text him that you said
1313
00:56:50,347 --> 00:56:52,641
you're not a bitch.
-Yeah, And I don't have to
1314
00:56:52,683 --> 00:56:55,102
lift that weight
if I don't want to.
1315
00:56:55,144 --> 00:56:56,854
-Ah, it -- it's a text.
I'll just keep it short.
1316
00:56:56,896 --> 00:56:58,189
-Just text it.
But you get what I'm saying.
1317
00:56:58,230 --> 00:56:59,648
-I know what you're saying,
yeah.
1318
00:56:59,690 --> 00:57:01,150
I'll make sure
it has your energy.
1319
00:57:01,192 --> 00:57:02,693
-This show, it was exactly
what I wanted it to be.
1320
00:57:02,735 --> 00:57:04,528
Thank you for doing it.
1321
00:57:04,570 --> 00:57:06,072
Through Philadelphia stand up,
1322
00:57:06,113 --> 00:57:08,157
I think I got to end it
in asking a question
1323
00:57:08,199 --> 00:57:09,950
that the world wants to know.
1324
00:57:09,992 --> 00:57:11,827
When are we gonna
figure out what we're doing?
1325
00:57:11,869 --> 00:57:13,204
-I know. Listen...
1326
00:57:13,245 --> 00:57:14,955
-When are we gonna figure out
what we're doing?
1327
00:57:14,997 --> 00:57:18,459
-Well, you know,
I want to end on a good note,
1328
00:57:18,501 --> 00:57:20,920
you know, but...
-So just tell them.
1329
00:57:20,961 --> 00:57:22,463
-And I know
you're not supposed to --
1330
00:57:22,505 --> 00:57:24,382
-That's your camera. Just...
-You're not supposed to
1331
00:57:24,423 --> 00:57:25,966
follow up a question
with a question.
1332
00:57:26,008 --> 00:57:27,385
-Yeah.
-I would just say,
1333
00:57:27,426 --> 00:57:31,180
how many movies
have you made with The Rock?
1334
00:57:31,222 --> 00:57:33,557
-Here we go again.
-I'm just asking. Just --
1335
00:57:33,599 --> 00:57:34,975
You just say the number.
1336
00:57:35,017 --> 00:57:36,268
You don't have
to put commentary.
1337
00:57:36,310 --> 00:57:37,937
Just say the number.
How many?
1338
00:57:37,978 --> 00:57:40,398
-I don't know...
-I mean...
1339
00:57:40,439 --> 00:57:43,234
How many movies have you made
with The Rock?
1340
00:57:43,275 --> 00:57:45,444
-We've done -- I think it would
be if you count them...
1341
00:57:45,486 --> 00:57:46,987
[ Mumbles ]
1342
00:57:47,029 --> 00:57:49,407
[ Laughter ]
-I didn't hear you.
1343
00:57:49,448 --> 00:57:51,450
-You just heard what I said.
-You said...
1344
00:57:51,492 --> 00:57:53,160
-If you're counting it --
if you want me to count,
1345
00:57:53,202 --> 00:57:54,745
I'm telling you right now,
I think me and Rock,
1346
00:57:54,787 --> 00:57:56,497
we've definitely --
1347
00:57:56,539 --> 00:57:58,416
I think we've done, like...
1348
00:57:58,457 --> 00:57:59,750
[ Mumbles ]
1349
00:57:59,792 --> 00:58:01,085
-All right.
-Yeah. So...
1350
00:58:01,127 --> 00:58:04,463
-Okay.
The answer's in your question.
1351
00:58:04,505 --> 00:58:06,757
-All right.
Well, this is "Hart to Heart,"
1352
00:58:06,799 --> 00:58:08,259
and this is Will Smith,
my brother.
1353
00:58:08,300 --> 00:58:12,012
Philadelphia, stand up, man,
to the world out there.
1354
00:58:12,054 --> 00:58:14,056
An amazing conversation
full of amazing gems.
1355
00:58:14,098 --> 00:58:17,268
Made my heart happy today.
Made my heart happy.
1356
00:58:17,309 --> 00:58:19,437
That's it, guys. Will Smith.
One time, everybody.
1357
00:58:19,478 --> 00:58:21,272
-Kevin Hart,
ladies and gentlemen.
1358
00:58:21,313 --> 00:58:23,524
Kevin Hart.
[ Applause ]
1359
00:58:23,566 --> 00:58:24,859
Oh, man.
1360
00:58:24,900 --> 00:58:27,945
-I challenged...
1361
00:58:27,987 --> 00:58:29,572
-That was spectacular.
1362
00:58:29,613 --> 00:58:31,490
-Challenged you.
1363
00:58:31,532 --> 00:58:33,701
[ Indistinct conversation ]
1364
00:58:33,743 --> 00:58:38,581
**
1365
00:58:38,622 --> 00:58:39,874
-Yo.
1366
00:58:39,924 --> 00:58:44,474
Repair and Synchronization by
Easy Subtitles Synchronizer 1.0.0.0
108794
Can't find what you're looking for?
Get subtitles in any language from opensubtitles.com, and translate them here.