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foreign
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that describes Natalya to me
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Enigma
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she won't tell us the truth of who she
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is we are living with a con artist
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sociopath now a story making headlines
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around the world is this a child or a
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grown woman the Barnett's believed
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adoption was a scam all along they
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claimed they were tricked into adopting
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an adult
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he's evil I
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I promise
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Ramen within five years
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isn't it
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why
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she threatened to stab my sons drag
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their bodies outside and bury them under
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the deck
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she tried to poison and kill my wife
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she said I pulled a knife on my parents
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big deal it's like a serial killer or
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something
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sound casually they put attempted murder
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into a conversation someone's gonna kill
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everybody
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you've adopted a kid and now they're
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trying to kill you I mean it's the stuff
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of a horror movie right if you watch the
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orphan it's
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like the orphan
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did you want to hurt
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it's all gonna come to light she was a
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doll you could tell by looking at her
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Natalie was a victim did the barnetts of
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the Predators they just literally left
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her to the Wolves they don't know that
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there's a hundred percent one villain
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here because she basically said that
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Natalya destroyed their lives
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the regardless of her age she was left
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feeling abandoned and neglected alone
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died he was a child I I know that for
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sure because
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I'm a little person
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I think Christine Barnett if it's our
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excuse for a mother
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you still need to be on your wall who
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just don't know what happened to her and
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that was what broke what broke my heart
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the most there were a lot of secrets in
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that house
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his minimum sentence is 3 to 16 years it
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doesn't smell right there's something
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it smells like
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do you know the difference between the
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truth and the lie I didn't at the time
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no
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really just listening to what Christine
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told me to tell them you just don't know
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what you're Burnett's there was domestic
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violence
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to a puzzle that we couldn't quite
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excited you lied because she told you to
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lie yes Michael and Christine not only
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lied to get her into their family but
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they also lied to get rid of her this is
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one of the most Twisted cases ever I
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know he's not the kind of guy that could
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do well if he had to go to prison
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[ __ ] look I don't think anyone will ever
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get the complete truth so much of this
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is a mystery I still don't have concrete
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answers somebody's not telling the truth
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it is a Web of Lies I'm not sure you
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trust anybody in this case
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we were all [ __ ] abused we were all
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abused
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this will never stop
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foreign
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foreign
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but life was fantastic I it really was
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this is summer 2010. life's great
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been married for about 15 years
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we have three sons Jacob Wesley and
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Ethan financially were doing great we've
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got a literal brand new big mansion 5
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000 square foot home
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in a driveway loaded with cars in it
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there's a Lamborghini in my driveway for
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God's sakes
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we have 13 TVs we've got 14 couches
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there was hundreds of thousands of
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dollars in the bank account
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more importantly we were in a very tight
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dead family
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it really was
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Pinnacle of Life
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Michael loved Christine dearly when the
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flowers came for their anniversary it
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was dozen roses for every year they were
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married so
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for their 10th anniversary ten dozen
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roses Christine and I
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realized our oldest son Jacob
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burgers or Autism we fought those
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downright amazing at the things we could
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accomplish I'm Jacob Barnett here with
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an introduction to scientific notation I
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figured that since I was teaching it to
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my two brothers Wesley and Ethan I will
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be able to post it onto YouTube
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so I'm going to finish this interview d
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by DX their oldest son is a genius
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and really for schooling faster than I
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moved through a pair of shoes
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I did not come here to frighten you all
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with quad mechanics
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not yet
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we would get
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Ron Michael saying hey did you see the
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paper jigs on the front page to
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Christine's writing a book it's been
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publisher
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two divided he has a full scholarship at
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the Joint Indiana University Purdue
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campus for Jake fun is reciting from
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memory the infinite series of numbers
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known as Pi
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point one four one five nine two six
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five three five eight nine seven nine
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three two three eight four six two six
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four three three Jacobs one of the
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smartest people
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I've ever heard of
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travel the world
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Jacob when is 15. got an award from the
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Vatican
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was where the barnetts lived the garage
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was
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um where Christine Burnett had her
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they care they're all special needs kids
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the Barnett Family opened up a
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foundation a place where parents and
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kids with autism could go be with other
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parents and kids with autism and feel
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normal
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and we were proud of them and they just
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seemed so happy together
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the barnetts had the picture perfect
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wife
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so we went from
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early 2010
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we're blessed with many things
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by the time 2014 came around I have 37
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cents in my bank account
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I have no wife
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children
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no home
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no job
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my possessions at that moment was my
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card
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of clothing
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if an Italian never entered Our Lives
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I never get divorced
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worse they ruined our marriage
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they interviewed me three times when
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they detected in a bulletproof dad what
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what are they gonna charge
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interesting
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don't listen to my voice
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we had no idea what we were dealing with
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intentions were so incredibly High
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it was a very rough time
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actually for the children
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I'm Jake Barnett
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since I've last been seen publicly
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some ways I think I've regressed
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I'm uh my dad's basement right now it's
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in Indiana
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usually I say Natalia is my adopted
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sister
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say I'm Jacob I'm Natalia's adopted
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brother but that particular
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um way of introducing myself is kind of
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irrelevant because I haven't seen
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Natalia in like a decade
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I find the situation incredibly
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confusing
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it's like I want to know what happened
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and I want to know the actual like truth
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and everyone's motives
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at the same time
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I don't want to remember that
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want to
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um
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have to
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a lot of
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childhood
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it's uh difficult for me to piece
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together what
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before an Italian we had been married
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for about 15 years
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easily the best moment in time that our
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marriage ever had we risk was so happy
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and comfortable that we had gotten to
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the point that you know what we started
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talking about maybe
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maybe there's room here for somebody
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else we were going to adopt a little
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girl out of Haiti named gilberta and
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right before that April father the other
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earthquake hit Haiti and suddenly our
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hopes were dashed because Haiti shut
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down all
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so we were ready to adopt but we missed
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our window
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well out of no
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wish ever care
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they say hey we know you
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we've seen your home study we know that
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you have a charity for special needs and
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you've been doing that for a decade what
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do you think you'd be perfect for the
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for this going to be coming to us she's
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a little person she has dwarfism no
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here's the problem
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24 hours to decide
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so if you don't come get her on Monday
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she's going directly to foster care
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Christina I almost took it as a sign
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from a ball
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now we're jump on plane flying in
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Florida
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fighting
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when I found out I was gonna have a
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sister I was really excited
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we had some white t-shirts that we we
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painted on saying welcome home Natalia
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we pull up in the town and you know I'll
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be honest I was a little taken aback by
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the adoption agency location it was in a
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run down strip mode
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maybe on the wrong side of track
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a little house has been converted into
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offices didn't look like an adoption
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agency at all first thing I'm saying to
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my wife is check the address
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it just doesn't look right we're gonna
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get a child here
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oh so we start coming in and they set us
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into a little room no bigger than the
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size of this room run right now and they
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tell us just wait here
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Italia's coming soon
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you've got to understand with it being a
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close adoption the adoption agency was
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not willing to share any details of her
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before we came down
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pictures of her they gave us a Ukrainian
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language birth certificate
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birth certificates supported six
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September 4th 2003 we were all excited
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about that
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he was also born the summer of
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that thought this would be a situation
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where they're going to grow and develop
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and be twins
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Power by ourselves
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we signed paperwork pretty quick Sign
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Here sign here sign here we hear the
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front door open
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that's gotta be her
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you start peeking Through the Keyhole
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there's a little bit of Keyhole to solid
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door and we're looking and we're looking
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like oh can you can see her
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I was really excited for her to come
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home
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30 minutes go by
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and see the door open and we can see the
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other family leave and she was about
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them before this is her family that
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adopted her the first time
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Italians Left Behind they had flown in
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dropped her off flew up
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we never spoke to them and we are just
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thinking out how dare these other people
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give up on her
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worried for the last couple of days
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worried sick that our new daughter is
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not gonna like us
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singing now the door opens
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Italians right there she comes running
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in
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big smile on her face she's happy as can
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be and she's shouting mommy daddy mommy
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daddy mommy daddy
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we're overcome with joy and emotion oh
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my gosh that thing
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without
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the five Great stage
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she was very small
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she had long curly brown hair
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she had brown eyes if pronounced
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really stood out when she smiled
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I remember the way that her
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jointed is not the same these hours
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because of her dwarfism like her fingers
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like sort of
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a bit like
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but I was overjoyed the day that I
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mattered
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the fun times I can remember with
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Natalya are pretty much from that first
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week where we were in Florida
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we went with Natalia to Disney World
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we were all excited to have her in the
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family
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Italia seemed happy to join our family
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if I was a little girl needing to be
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adopted and they came
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for me heck yeah jackpot
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get to the hotel that night
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and Christine's going to give our brand
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new
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and I hear a shout from the bathroom
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this was a I'm not playing around come
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here right now Michael
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Shout can I get up and go fly into the
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bathroom
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and
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the color's almost gone from her face
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it's almost like she's seen a ghost
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she's
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truly frightened and she just doesn't
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icon
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like a book
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look down
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and Natalia had full pubic hair
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and
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I don't know what to think
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is that possible
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is that even possible
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this person
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and six-year-old have full pubic hair I
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don't know Google's telling us well
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earliest possible time lowest common
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denominator eight so we just go okay
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look our mission when we were going to
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show love and compassion to somebody
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that never had it before
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doesn't make a difference
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I'm Kathy Barnett I'm Michael Barnett's
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mother
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we found out that Natalia was coming
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so excited turn
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to treat this child special when they
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brought her home they had a very large
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party
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to welcome her to
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beautiful curly dark hair
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and Michael was euphoric that day it was
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almost as euphoric as the day Jacob was
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born and Michael came out of the
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delivery room
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he's a happy man
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you want that there you go plus second
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Shield go surely
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my name's Kimberly Franklin I am Michael
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Barnett's little sister
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when I first met Natalia I was you know
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totally prepared I knew that she was a
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little person and what really struck me
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though was that she almost looked like
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one of us she had the dark hair and she
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really looked like she could have been
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my brother's daughter
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my name is Rachel and I live two doors
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down from the barnetts where they used
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to live
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nosy neighbor that's me
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I like to know what's going on in the
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neighborhood
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we were friends with Michael and
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Christine
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and our kids play together
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everybody knew who Natalia was I have
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Goosebumps just thinking about when they
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walked in with her it was amazing
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it was so uplifting to know that this
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little girl needed a home and they open
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theirs up to her
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Christine was smiling you know ear to
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ear they were so excited they have three
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boys they got a girl
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just looking forward to seeing how she'd
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react to the park we had across the
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street
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[Music]
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is there a yearbook
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so there's Ethan and there's Grace
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and the Thai came to our house a lot to
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play with my daughter Grace because
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they're both sixth first grade
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here's Natalya
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it's crazy
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she's so cute in that picture
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it looks like a little girl
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once we got back to Indiana and first
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with ourselves acceptance of the
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situation with Natalya and the pubic
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hair
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all that mattered was there's a little
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girl and
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love and needs a home
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but duh eventually we had a lot of
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escalation
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first few months
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there was day I came home from work
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Christine's got a pair of Natalia's
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underwear
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Christine asked Natalia to tell me
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what's
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what's in Italian
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[Music]
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and I can remember her
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physicalness at the time her hands were
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just out in front of her like this
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said well
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I have a period
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and I've been hiding it
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[Music]
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and I I just don't know what's going on
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right now
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Chris found some thought that she had
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used in her underwear and threw them out
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the window
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Chris was just horrified
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she said this
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because what have I got myself into and
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so I said you need to start finding out
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how old she is I heard she had pubic
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hair when they when they first got her
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and that they found like period
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underwear hidden in her room so that
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would be the thing that as you know not
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a doctor as a Layman I'd be like yeah
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that's definitely not a six-year-old
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Santa
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after I'd first gotten to tell you
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or take her to doctors within two months
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of getting her that's how I need a foot
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surgery because of her condition
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Natalia has a very rare form of
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dwarfismal dysplasia there's only about
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3 400 people like
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like just
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miraculously
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a doctor knew another six-year-old girl
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with a spondile epiphygial dysplasia
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living in Indiana
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who stopped
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we're gonna have her meet interact with
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somebody just like her
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like her how great is that
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the other girl comes in
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and
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for lack of a better term Natalia is
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gigantic compared to this other girl
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their cranial structures are different
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Natalia she's got the full forehead of
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an adult she's got to find cheekbones as
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an adult
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the other girl her head is not developed
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at all
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there's no way anybody could look at
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this picture and say those two are the
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same age
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so Natalia sees this person it should be
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close to the mirror image of her
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and realizes
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[Music]
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we see it
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definitely she fills her cheeks with air
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blows him out a little so the definition
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on her cheekbones disappear
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Ed so
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that starts to happen
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we literally see her head
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oh
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[Music]
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it's almost like you got me
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and it's Elva prayers either science
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there is she slides traffic dysplasia is
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the same as Natalia
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and now there are
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long
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friendship you know where they can grow
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up and you know she has somebody to be
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able to talk about things that means now
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you know something that she
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has to feel like she's the only one in
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the world later on when we made it for
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the play date
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immediately Natalia looks physical is
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really well developed
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an impression
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your face doesn't look like a little cat
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can't really say an adult
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[Music]
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so
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but she was very bored for talking
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like
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taking care of the conversation very
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well like didn't have no issue I was
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saying wow we teach her very good
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English
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have a reason why I get 46 year old
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[Music]
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I am Therese and I am 14 years old
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[Music]
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I was six years old when I met Natalia
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it's pretty rare to see someone who has
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a disability like me and I wanted to be
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friends
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[Music]
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[Music]
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do you have any picture you guys
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if I could I could show it to you and
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know what you think
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definitely I don't think she looked the
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same age as me but only I had that baby
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look to my face and as
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she had kind of gave me like an order
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kind of face
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look to it
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I'm looking at that
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old I think she definitely looks like
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she's at least
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18 20 ish
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it definitely looks weird to think about
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I was playing with
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an adult not a kid my age that I would
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wish you fake to age
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I feel like that's weird to think that I
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was around someone who did that
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[Music]
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which is not sex
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[Music]
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we had no idea what we are dealing with
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to them it would have looked like they
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brought their little girl to a playdate
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with a grown-up
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and they never reach back out again
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[Music]
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Natalia told us very little about her
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time
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in the orphanage
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I
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are having
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belonging from the orphanage like uh
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Ukrainian toys she didn't even know very
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much about Ukraine like
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going early we asked her like oh what's
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it like in Ukraine and she said oh it's
578
00:25:43,740 --> 00:25:46,579
always summer there I'm like
579
00:25:47,038 --> 00:25:49,519
okay
580
00:25:52,819 --> 00:25:58,379
you want to tell us something nice
581
00:25:55,859 --> 00:26:01,699
[Music]
582
00:25:58,380 --> 00:26:05,600
you forget what we never hear yeah
583
00:26:01,700 --> 00:26:05,600
it's okay it's all right
584
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:09,859
we adopted Natalya because
585
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:17,760
was in danger of never being loved
586
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:20,519
but every time we ever spoke to Natalia
587
00:26:17,759 --> 00:26:22,180
about hey tell us about the orphanage
588
00:26:20,519 --> 00:26:24,778
tell us about people you've known
589
00:26:22,180 --> 00:26:26,820
[Music]
590
00:26:24,778 --> 00:26:28,980
nothing
591
00:26:26,819 --> 00:26:30,720
so we've asked her about the Ukrainian
592
00:26:28,980 --> 00:26:32,278
language before matter of fact at the
593
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:34,259
rec center where we had our Sports
594
00:26:32,278 --> 00:26:37,019
league for the autistic kids
595
00:26:34,259 --> 00:26:39,119
the neighboring tenants happens to know
596
00:26:37,019 --> 00:26:41,038
somebody who is born and raised in the
597
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:43,439
Ukraine
598
00:26:41,038 --> 00:26:45,419
he thought how wonderful would it be for
599
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:48,259
you to hear your native language your
600
00:26:45,419 --> 00:26:48,259
native tongue for the first
601
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:53,400
person from the Ukraine comes in
602
00:26:51,419 --> 00:26:56,000
and just immediately starts speaking
603
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,000
Ukrainian
604
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,900
I swear on all things holy
605
00:27:01,679 --> 00:27:08,880
but you were there until almost five
606
00:27:05,220 --> 00:27:11,339
and we actually read six
607
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:12,240
there was like a set of things that
608
00:27:11,339 --> 00:27:14,099
didn't
609
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:19,079
add up
610
00:27:14,099 --> 00:27:22,879
we started early in the morning Italia
611
00:27:19,079 --> 00:27:22,879
had no accent
612
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,240
she didn't know that it's really
613
00:27:25,798 --> 00:27:31,099
alphabet
614
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:31,099
she knew no Ukrainian
615
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:36,419
you pray a lady starts speaking
616
00:27:32,819 --> 00:27:38,099
Ukrainian to Natalia not a word
617
00:27:36,419 --> 00:27:40,919
I think she knew if she spoke
618
00:27:38,099 --> 00:27:43,019
immediately that we put two and two
619
00:27:40,919 --> 00:27:46,140
together and hear
620
00:27:43,019 --> 00:27:49,079
there's no accent she doesn't know this
621
00:27:46,140 --> 00:27:52,559
didn't speak a word for four days
622
00:27:49,079 --> 00:27:55,918
it's almost like the chick is up
623
00:27:52,558 --> 00:27:58,759
the little playful kid Faith goes away
624
00:27:55,919 --> 00:27:58,759
now we've got
625
00:28:01,278 --> 00:28:06,419
we don't know who she is
626
00:28:04,319 --> 00:28:08,220
we don't know where she's really from
627
00:28:06,419 --> 00:28:09,778
for all I know she had been living in
628
00:28:08,220 --> 00:28:11,640
the Ukraine for 20 years and found a way
629
00:28:09,778 --> 00:28:14,220
out for all I know she's an American
630
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:16,620
citizen that somehow
631
00:28:14,220 --> 00:28:20,159
oh truth
632
00:28:16,619 --> 00:28:23,658
I truly don't know okay so you tell me
633
00:28:20,159 --> 00:28:23,659
some things that were not true
634
00:28:26,519 --> 00:28:31,200
the dynamic between Natalia and the rest
635
00:28:29,159 --> 00:28:35,720
of the family seemed to shift pretty
636
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:35,720
early there was a lack of trust
637
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,240
compounded
638
00:28:43,619 --> 00:28:48,479
so that's what you're going to be in the
639
00:28:45,179 --> 00:28:49,190
most trouble for you don't lie
640
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:51,000
Italian
641
00:28:49,190 --> 00:28:53,580
[Music]
642
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:57,240
behavioral issues which
643
00:28:53,579 --> 00:28:59,339
certainly the adoption processing
644
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:03,079
it must be traumatic
645
00:28:59,339 --> 00:29:03,079
abandonment issues are a thing and
646
00:29:03,778 --> 00:29:08,759
abandoned multiple times she was with
647
00:29:06,058 --> 00:29:11,220
another family in America before she
648
00:29:08,759 --> 00:29:14,879
came with us
649
00:29:11,220 --> 00:29:17,759
Natalia was with us for months
650
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:20,360
that's when we start to witness her dark
651
00:29:17,759 --> 00:29:23,519
side
652
00:29:20,359 --> 00:29:25,619
he had a 2007 Jeep Commander it has
653
00:29:23,519 --> 00:29:28,079
three rows of seats but Natalia could
654
00:29:25,619 --> 00:29:29,519
always try to sit next to my
655
00:29:28,079 --> 00:29:32,220
natural reason
656
00:29:29,519 --> 00:29:33,898
and she would do whatever she could
657
00:29:32,220 --> 00:29:35,940
to upset him
658
00:29:33,898 --> 00:29:37,619
she would purposely
659
00:29:35,940 --> 00:29:39,740
wait until she was next to him in the
660
00:29:37,619 --> 00:29:39,739
car
661
00:29:41,398 --> 00:29:45,719
defecate in the car and put her hand
662
00:29:43,679 --> 00:29:49,320
into it and try to smear it on Ethan
663
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:51,058
yeah it was a frequent occurrence for
664
00:29:49,319 --> 00:29:53,158
the
665
00:29:51,058 --> 00:29:56,038
soiled surfaces that she wasn't supposed
666
00:29:53,159 --> 00:29:57,980
to what were we doing to bother Ethan I
667
00:29:56,038 --> 00:30:00,240
was smart
668
00:29:57,980 --> 00:30:02,038
with him
669
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,599
that was the life my six-year-old son
670
00:30:02,038 --> 00:30:06,538
had
671
00:30:03,599 --> 00:30:08,719
to the car was like going to the haunted
672
00:30:06,538 --> 00:30:08,720
house
673
00:30:09,898 --> 00:30:12,959
and another thing if we went someplace
674
00:30:11,940 --> 00:30:15,298
in public
675
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:18,500
she made eye contact with somebody
676
00:30:15,298 --> 00:30:18,500
I'm in the car she would get
677
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:22,740
it closed door
678
00:30:20,278 --> 00:30:24,419
as soon as I would start to get into my
679
00:30:22,740 --> 00:30:26,819
seat and the car would get into gear
680
00:30:24,419 --> 00:30:28,799
doors open and she's throwing herself
681
00:30:26,819 --> 00:30:31,220
out of the vehicle so people around her
682
00:30:28,798 --> 00:30:31,220
can see
683
00:30:33,298 --> 00:30:37,139
the idea look of a poor helpless little
684
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:40,080
girl
685
00:30:37,140 --> 00:30:40,990
trying to get back to poor helpless
686
00:30:40,079 --> 00:30:43,500
little girl status
687
00:30:40,990 --> 00:30:45,778
[Music]
688
00:30:43,500 --> 00:30:49,259
she was doing as many things as possible
689
00:30:45,778 --> 00:30:51,960
to cause hurt or harm or mental distress
690
00:30:49,259 --> 00:30:53,339
to the entire family she's been with us
691
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:57,079
for about five or six months at this
692
00:30:53,339 --> 00:30:57,079
point that's time my boys are six
693
00:30:57,778 --> 00:31:01,380
Natalya
694
00:30:59,460 --> 00:31:03,860
find things that are more important to
695
00:31:01,380 --> 00:31:03,860
them but
696
00:31:04,019 --> 00:31:07,558
to hide them she'd wait to be crossing
697
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:10,340
the street
698
00:31:07,558 --> 00:31:10,339
and make sure that
699
00:31:10,500 --> 00:31:16,278
the blue is baiting my kids to run in
700
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:16,278
the traffic so they could run over
701
00:31:16,619 --> 00:31:22,079
I can't put in the words
702
00:31:19,259 --> 00:31:24,440
the day abject horror
703
00:31:22,079 --> 00:31:26,099
horn to go through and live with
704
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:30,200
[Music]
705
00:31:26,099 --> 00:31:30,199
there certainly was like a lot of fear
706
00:31:30,839 --> 00:31:36,439
what if
707
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,440
an attack that actually arms one of us
708
00:31:37,740 --> 00:31:43,380
a couple of weeks after that
709
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:44,700
I came home from work
710
00:31:43,380 --> 00:31:46,500
and then taking knives out of the
711
00:31:44,700 --> 00:31:48,778
kitchen and hiding hiding a room Wander
712
00:31:46,500 --> 00:31:50,720
Over bed
713
00:31:48,778 --> 00:31:53,579
I go upstairs
714
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:56,179
Christine has the knife there's a big
715
00:31:53,579 --> 00:31:56,178
butcher knife
716
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:04,220
Natalia was lording knives in her room
717
00:31:59,839 --> 00:32:04,220
Catholic intentions to attack us
718
00:32:05,759 --> 00:32:10,558
I asked Natalia Natalia
719
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:13,220
did you have this under your bed
720
00:32:10,558 --> 00:32:13,220
yes
721
00:32:13,579 --> 00:32:21,619
what were you gonna do with it
722
00:32:17,159 --> 00:32:21,620
I'm going to kill you in your sleep
723
00:32:30,058 --> 00:32:34,019
thank you
724
00:32:32,159 --> 00:32:35,220
Michael and Christine weren't very vocal
725
00:32:34,019 --> 00:32:38,158
about
726
00:32:35,220 --> 00:32:39,899
the stuff at first with Natalya
727
00:32:38,159 --> 00:32:41,399
until it got
728
00:32:39,898 --> 00:32:42,658
overwhelming
729
00:32:41,398 --> 00:32:45,178
and
730
00:32:42,659 --> 00:32:47,700
that's when Christine came and told me
731
00:32:45,179 --> 00:32:51,240
and sat down on my front porch
732
00:32:47,700 --> 00:32:53,519
with Wesley and Ethan and shared what
733
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:56,038
was going on
734
00:32:53,519 --> 00:33:00,319
Christine was crying she was very upset
735
00:32:56,038 --> 00:33:04,500
saying that Natalia wasn't
736
00:33:00,319 --> 00:33:09,139
who they thought she was and I said well
737
00:33:04,500 --> 00:33:09,140
what do you mean and she said
738
00:33:09,359 --> 00:33:15,199
drives
739
00:33:11,940 --> 00:33:15,200
chennai's in our room
740
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:20,220
the boys were like yeah yeah this is
741
00:33:18,058 --> 00:33:22,619
really happening yeah
742
00:33:20,220 --> 00:33:25,500
Natalia is really doing that this is the
743
00:33:22,619 --> 00:33:29,398
time when I backed away from them
744
00:33:25,500 --> 00:33:32,159
because I was just in so much shock from
745
00:33:29,398 --> 00:33:34,500
hearing this story I
746
00:33:32,159 --> 00:33:35,700
went to Grace and said you know what we
747
00:33:34,500 --> 00:33:37,220
need to find some new friends to play
748
00:33:35,700 --> 00:33:40,140
with
749
00:33:37,220 --> 00:33:42,419
with that little girl
750
00:33:40,140 --> 00:33:44,700
I don't want anything to do with her
751
00:33:42,419 --> 00:33:46,080
she wasn't welcome in her house
752
00:33:44,700 --> 00:33:48,440
I don't want to try killing my daughter
753
00:33:46,079 --> 00:33:48,439
or me
754
00:33:49,490 --> 00:33:55,730
[Music]
755
00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:00,778
Michael really only told me by the time
756
00:33:59,159 --> 00:34:01,740
they've gone through all these things
757
00:34:00,778 --> 00:34:04,679
that
758
00:34:01,740 --> 00:34:07,140
that he was afraid
759
00:34:04,679 --> 00:34:10,079
he was afraid of what she
760
00:34:07,140 --> 00:34:14,179
would she do or could do or any of that
761
00:34:10,079 --> 00:34:14,179
I knew that there was fear
762
00:34:14,300 --> 00:34:18,480
absolutely we reached out to the
763
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:21,240
adoption agency as we were noticing all
764
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:22,539
of these issues and irregularities
765
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:24,019
they were unhelpful
766
00:34:22,539 --> 00:34:26,759
[Music]
767
00:34:24,019 --> 00:34:29,338
I was lost I was getting no help from
768
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:30,359
anybody anywhere so we went to
769
00:34:29,338 --> 00:34:32,279
therapists
770
00:34:30,358 --> 00:34:35,418
trying to find guidance trying to figure
771
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:35,419
out the right diagnosis
772
00:34:37,679 --> 00:34:43,039
it's really the third or fourth
773
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:43,040
therapist we got to that seemed to
774
00:34:44,338 --> 00:34:49,378
and seem to have in the town
775
00:34:46,019 --> 00:34:52,559
she pulled [ __ ] and nice eyes
776
00:34:49,378 --> 00:34:54,059
you're all in extreme Danger
777
00:34:52,559 --> 00:34:56,159
at that point in time
778
00:34:54,059 --> 00:34:58,679
we already knew that
779
00:34:56,159 --> 00:35:02,338
we've been living that
780
00:34:58,679 --> 00:35:04,739
so we were not stunned
781
00:35:02,338 --> 00:35:06,719
at the door stood at the diagnosis
782
00:35:04,739 --> 00:35:09,179
they were expecting a severe mental
783
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:11,039
disorder that was out of her control we
784
00:35:09,179 --> 00:35:12,659
were expecting
785
00:35:11,039 --> 00:35:14,219
we are expecting something we were
786
00:35:12,659 --> 00:35:16,858
expecting her to say she hears voices
787
00:35:14,219 --> 00:35:18,598
she's hearing demands tell her to do
788
00:35:16,858 --> 00:35:21,460
this stuff
789
00:35:18,599 --> 00:35:25,190
so she tells us she's a sociopath
790
00:35:21,460 --> 00:35:25,190
[Music]
791
00:35:25,739 --> 00:35:29,338
she does things that you and I would
792
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:31,019
consider crazy
793
00:35:29,338 --> 00:35:33,000
but it's
794
00:35:31,019 --> 00:35:34,980
she knows what she's doing she's in
795
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:37,559
control of doing it
796
00:35:34,980 --> 00:35:39,539
it's not the diagnosis
797
00:35:37,559 --> 00:35:43,259
no Central and she can really be held
798
00:35:39,539 --> 00:35:44,579
she's a sociopath
799
00:35:43,260 --> 00:35:47,460
that was the first moment from a
800
00:35:44,579 --> 00:35:50,280
clinician that we heard
801
00:35:47,460 --> 00:35:51,480
can't help here but you're 12 years old
802
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:53,640
and you're
803
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,719
just down the hallways
804
00:35:53,639 --> 00:35:56,279
when he's living with you who actually
805
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:58,699
wants to harm you that's very that's a
806
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,700
very scary
807
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:02,838
and I definitely didn't feel safe around
808
00:36:00,599 --> 00:36:02,838
the town
809
00:36:11,639 --> 00:36:16,379
there was one night
810
00:36:14,039 --> 00:36:18,500
two o'clock in the morning we hear a
811
00:36:16,380 --> 00:36:18,500
noise
812
00:36:18,539 --> 00:36:23,019
Christine nudges me and wakes me up
813
00:36:21,300 --> 00:36:24,359
and I jump up I go look
814
00:36:23,019 --> 00:36:26,159
[Music]
815
00:36:24,358 --> 00:36:27,719
up here I can't find it there
816
00:36:26,159 --> 00:36:29,179
I go down the hall in Italian's room
817
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:31,618
open the door
818
00:36:29,179 --> 00:36:34,159
[Music]
819
00:36:31,619 --> 00:36:34,160
it's dark
820
00:36:35,460 --> 00:36:40,500
dead set on The Middle
821
00:36:37,980 --> 00:36:44,480
blank look on her face
822
00:36:40,500 --> 00:36:44,480
Natalia what are you doing
823
00:36:45,420 --> 00:36:48,139
I'm waiting
824
00:36:50,099 --> 00:36:53,180
Waiting For What
825
00:36:53,460 --> 00:36:56,659
for you to go to sleep
826
00:37:00,179 --> 00:37:07,440
it's absolutely shocking to hear
827
00:37:04,019 --> 00:37:10,500
that an adopted child was threatening
828
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:12,179
the lives of her siblings and her
829
00:37:10,500 --> 00:37:13,030
parents I mean does it really disturbing
830
00:37:12,179 --> 00:37:16,118
to hear
831
00:37:13,030 --> 00:37:16,119
[Music]
832
00:37:16,380 --> 00:37:20,579
one night
833
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:21,480
sleep in bed everything's fine hear a
834
00:37:20,579 --> 00:37:23,760
little noise
835
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:26,420
I opened my eyes and Natalia is standing
836
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,420
at the foot of the bed
837
00:37:26,769 --> 00:37:31,920
[Music]
838
00:37:29,358 --> 00:37:36,119
what's going on
839
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:37,920
how much danger are we really in here
840
00:37:36,119 --> 00:37:40,000
was I about to die was Christine about
841
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:43,110
to die were my kids about to die
842
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:43,110
[Music]
843
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:50,279
I opened my eyes and Natalia is standing
844
00:37:48,059 --> 00:37:51,500
at the foot of the bed with a knife in
845
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:54,300
her hand
846
00:37:51,500 --> 00:37:55,800
no idea what she's thinking
847
00:37:54,300 --> 00:37:57,980
no idea what's going through over her
848
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:57,980
head
849
00:37:58,079 --> 00:38:04,740
and Frozen
850
00:38:00,539 --> 00:38:06,909
Natalia what are you doing
851
00:38:04,739 --> 00:38:08,159
nothing
852
00:38:06,909 --> 00:38:09,609
[Music]
853
00:38:08,159 --> 00:38:10,858
why are you in here
854
00:38:09,610 --> 00:38:15,420
[Music]
855
00:38:10,858 --> 00:38:17,279
I don't know that's just a blank look
856
00:38:15,420 --> 00:38:19,680
there there's no emotion there there's
857
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:21,420
no feeling going through her it's just
858
00:38:19,679 --> 00:38:23,819
this blankness
859
00:38:21,420 --> 00:38:26,220
I don't know what I'm doing here
860
00:38:23,820 --> 00:38:28,320
Natalia put that down right now
861
00:38:26,219 --> 00:38:30,719
and she did
862
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:33,359
the time you go to your room right now
863
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:35,879
she did
864
00:38:33,358 --> 00:38:38,519
but obviously I
865
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:40,619
store for the rest of
866
00:38:38,519 --> 00:38:42,059
the rest of the shirt she didn't come
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out she didn't emerge something didn't
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happen
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[Music]
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knowing that
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that somebody like Natalya
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was living two doors down from me and
873
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supposedly
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tried to kill her family
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thinking that there's a killer in my
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neighborhood is
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mind-blowing
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you think you know everybody
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you've lived here for so long you don't
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know everybody you don't know anybody
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you don't know anything
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but it's scary
883
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it's very scary
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so we start going to lots of therapy
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[Music]
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you start going through plausible
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deniability
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you start to try to convince yourself
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she wasn't meaning to harm
890
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this might seem strange we never ever
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said let's take her back we thought we
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could help things we thought we could
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improve things
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thank you
895
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I wake up one morning
896
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it is suddenly in happy I want to be
897
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part of
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part of it and she asked Christine is
899
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there anything I can do to help you're
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doing the dishes can I help do the
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dishes
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So Christine says sure I'd really
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appreciate that thank you Natalia
904
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the dishes off in the sink Christine
905
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goes to the other room for a moment and
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she's got a coffee cup sitting on the
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counter
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and comes back in
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I'm staying screens
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I come racing downstairs
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see a bottle of pledge I see Christine's
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coffee cup and Christine tried to drink
913
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it and instantly taste and pledge
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[Music]
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cleaning supplies have been poured in
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the Christine's coffee cup
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Christine is screaming at her Natalia
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why did you do this
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and she just says
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split out I'm trying to kill you I'm
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trying to poison you
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yeah I certainly have that at him
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[Music]
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the entire time
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[Music]
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is kind of
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[Music]
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poisonous
929
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I guess I haven't really figured out a
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way to reconcile it to be honest still
931
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working through it
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[Music]
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[Music]
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good morning
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[Music]
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foreign
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